Whatever Podcast - She Is ＂Single＂ But STILL Hooks Up With Her TOXIC Ex？!

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast. Thank you for tuning in tonight. You could

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00:00:17.760 I am your host, Brian Atlas. I'm joined by my co-host, Sydney Watson. Name change again.

00:00:25.320 It was Ashley St. Clair. Used to be Kiki. Now it's Dr. Sydney Watson. Dr. Sydney Watson.

00:00:32.260 She's a bit shy. Guys, a few quick announcements before the show begins. My sincere apologies

00:00:37.180 that we are about 30 minutes late here. We had four no-shows. Not even Flakes just didn't

00:00:43.940 let us know they weren't coming. I confirmed with them the night before. Sorry about that.

00:00:50.120 Four no-shows. Super rude. If they could have told us, they wouldn't have been able to make

00:00:54.260 it, but it is what it is. And we tried to go to the streets. Nikki and Maddie went down

00:01:01.820 to the... Nikki and Maddie? Did I... Nikki? Oh, sorry. Nick. Do you like that nickname, Nick?

00:01:08.060 You want to be Nikki? I'll pass on. Nikki? Okay. Nick and Maddie, excuse me, went down to the

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00:01:20.560 us from the dangers on the street. They tried to gather. They approached probably 10, 15

00:01:29.000 different groups of people, tried to get them on the podcast. Unfortunately, just the way

00:01:33.400 we've done it a couple times before and we've had actually semi-decent luck, but very unfortunately,

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00:03:30.620 Go subscribe. Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So please

00:03:33.900 tell us your name, age and occupation. Go ahead. Hi, I'm Ali Boba. I am 26 years old and I'm from

00:03:41.060 Los Angeles, California. And you got, you got speaking to the mic. Oh, I'm sorry. Um, sorry.

00:03:46.100 I'm Ali Boba. I'm 26 years old and I'm from Los Angeles, California and I am currently a streamer.

00:03:52.380 I stream games and just chilling. Okay. On Twitch, kick, YouTube. I'm on kick right now. Okay.

00:03:59.820 Okay. Um, I am Elizabeth Wynn. I was here last time. I am 23 from Los Angeles, California.

00:04:08.900 And I am a model. Not last time, but. Oh wait, I'm 24. What? My birthday was last week.

00:04:14.040 My birthday was last week. Yes. It's all downhill after 24. What? Yeah. Why do you say that?

00:04:20.340 You're scaring me. You can confirm, right? It's all downhill after 24. Yeah. Okay. 24 is the,

00:04:24.880 just your back starts to hurt. Back hurts. Needs hurt. Ovaries hurt. I'm not an old lady. What do you

00:04:31.880 mean? I'm not sure. Um, wait, your ovaries hurt? Yes. My ovaries and gonads are hurting. Is that

00:04:39.020 what they're called? Um, go ahead. Oh yeah. Um, I'm a model actress. Yep. Don't. How was your last

00:04:46.460 time? Don't. Do you guys remember me? Well, not last time, like two months ago or something. Yeah. A while

00:04:50.620 ago. I don't know if anyone remembered me though. You were on before. Yeah. Yeah. Uh,

00:04:55.420 well, don't undersell yourself. You also, what? I was around a business. Family business. What

00:05:02.400 about the ice skating? Don't forget the ice skating. Oh yeah. I forget. Olympics? Was there

00:05:07.080 Olympics or something? Two times double gold medalists. What? Olympic? Uh, it's like throughout

00:05:12.000 the US. Yo, FTG, thank you for the 50 gifted memberships. That triggers, uh, hold on. Boom.

00:05:19.900 Fireworks. Yeet. Thank you. FTG, appreciate it. Uh, so you were nationals? Yes. It's like

00:05:28.980 internationally. Um, I represented the USA. Okay. And I did Youth Olympics. I didn't do actual

00:05:34.420 Olympics, but Youth Olympics. Got it. Very cool. Um, and you said you, if I recall from last

00:05:39.860 show, you own supermarket businesses in various South East Asian countries. Is that about right?

00:05:48.980 Yes. Family business. Yes. Is it money laundering? Huh? No. Huh? What? Okay. Okay. Okay. What

00:05:56.200 are you trying to make me say? No, I don't know. I'm just asking. I'm just asking. Cause a lot

00:05:59.880 of people in the chat were like, what's going on here? So that's, I read everything. I'm like,

00:06:05.440 eh, if they don't trust me, that's your problem. Like I know myself, you know? Okay. All right.

00:06:10.640 I stand for who I am. Um, I also was Maxim magazine cover winner, cover model. Rock and roll.

00:06:20.560 What about you? Hi, my name is Amber. I'm 22 years old. I'm a content creator from Los Angeles,

00:06:25.480 California. What kind of content do you make? I do YouTube and I do brand, I do a lot of things.

00:06:30.760 Like I'm just, I do a lot of things. So on YouTube, I do a bikini hauls. I do like fashion.

00:06:36.960 I love fashion. Cause like if, if you just say you do YouTube, you could ostensibly do

00:06:42.200 like my play Minecraft video, like video games, you know? Yeah. Oh no. I do bikini hauls.

00:06:48.200 I do like fashion hauls. That's I love that. Got it. Uh, hold on. Let's, let's allow Dr.

00:06:55.820 Sidney Watson to, uh, weigh in here. Okay. Uh, nevermind. All right. What do you mean?

00:07:09.560 I'm clicking on, they're not coming up. Oh, geez. There's always something weird. I'll try,

00:07:14.380 I'm trying to figure out why that might be. Um, uh, Morgan, why don't you introduce yourself?

00:07:23.100 Hey, I'm Morgan. I'm 24. Also just turned 24 last week. So maybe we're B day twins and as my

00:07:30.500 best friend now calls me old. So that's funny, but I, um, and I am a turning point USA contributor

00:07:35.780 and I do social media and content full time, social media stuff. Sorry. Age again. 24, 24. Okay.

00:07:41.860 Now Madison God. My name is Madison. I am 18 years old. I do the whatever podcasts. I am a host at a

00:07:52.880 bar as well as a student at Santa River City College studying accounting. Okay. Welcome. Sorry guys.

00:07:59.880 We're having an issue, an issue with our stream yard. I don't know why it's not, uh, working. No,

00:08:05.780 that's not the issue. Um, I'm trying to, sorry guys. Hold on one sec while I'm trying to troubleshoot this

00:08:14.280 right now. Madison, why don't you tell us about the, uh, your situation with your dad from last show

00:08:21.620 while, while I'm trying to figure this out. Oh yeah. So basically after the show went out, we kind of

00:08:28.700 took a moment to kind of rewatch it and everything. We didn't really appreciate kind of the things that

00:08:34.460 each of us shared. So we're not really on talking terms anymore. Oh wow. Um, what if you click on

00:08:48.160 live? Nope. The next one. No. Okay. Uh, sorry guys. It's been a shit show today. Um, y'all messed it up

00:08:58.580 for me. Y'all ruin my relationship with my father. Wow. When was this? How long ago? Last week. What did

00:09:06.880 he say? Last week. We had my dad on the show. He was on the show? Oh my God. Yeah. Thank you FDG

00:09:14.580 for that. Um, that's fireworks again. Also a fit check. So I'm going to go behind the scenes really

00:09:19.960 quick. Try to get that fixed. And, uh, so Madison, if you want to lead a fit check. I'm ready. If everyone

00:09:26.220 just wants to scoot out and stand up for a sec. Oh my God. Fit check. Fit check. Is this

00:09:31.800 a new thing? Is this a new thing? I didn't do this last time. I guess so. If you'd like

00:09:42.700 to explain your outfit, please do so. Like in the mic like this or? Honestly, I think the

00:09:47.500 shoes make the fit. So show us the shoes. You gotta show the shoes. You gotta show the shoes.

00:09:52.340 I like that. I'm just cozy vibes today. Well, my, my fit. Do you see my fit? Yeah. Okay.

00:10:08.780 My fit was inspired by you guys. You guys wanted this top. I saw some people mentioned

00:10:14.220 it. This one. Oh, is it a dress? It's a dress. Oh, thank you. Cute. All right. Fixed. We

00:10:24.220 got it fixed. Outfits. Oh, if you. My fit is just from white fox and ever crummy jeans.

00:10:33.260 Um, and then they said comfy shoes. So hokas, I love them. They're like the best.

00:10:40.200 They're like so cute. Bro, your titties are about to pop out. No, they won't. I promise. Okay.

00:10:45.420 Okay. Okay. I was, I was like, Oh fuck. We're going to get TOS. Okay. All right, guys. So I got

00:10:52.860 stream labs working. Uh, let me just, you know, thank you, Eric, for becoming a member. Thank you.

00:10:58.260 Oh fuck. I hot. Shit. I lost one. Um, David Carter. Thank you for becoming a member. Sorry.

00:11:05.340 I unstarted one. The memberships is like from New York. Somebody I'm, I apologize. Mark C. Ferg.

00:11:10.060 Thank you for being a member for three months. Keep up the amazing work, bro. Love the show. Hey,

00:11:12.860 thank you, man. Appreciate it. Uh, did we pull this one up? I think we did. Uh, thank you,

00:11:16.740 Kenan. Uh, all right. Okay. So we're going to go around the table once more. So what is your

00:11:23.020 current relationship status? Are you single? Are you talking stage, situationship, friends

00:11:29.720 with benefits, relationship, married, polycule, sex cult? How, if you're single, how long have

00:11:35.700 you been single? And also what's your longest relationship? Go ahead. Um, I'm currently

00:11:39.440 single and it's by choice. Um, a lot of reasons for that, but mainly just because I'm focusing

00:11:44.980 on myself and like career stuff right now. Um, also to the dating pool is like terrible. Um,

00:11:50.720 you live in LA, right? Yeah. Born, born and raised too. So it's rough. Yeah. And I, I've

00:11:57.040 been in a relationship before, but I was actually younger. It was from 18 to 21. He actually ended

00:12:02.200 up cheating on me. So good times, great times. Um, and that was actually like my last, like

00:12:07.340 real serious relationship. So did you cheat on him too? I didn't, I should have back.

00:12:12.180 So you were the loyal one. Yeah, I was. I did. And you know what? Like everything that

00:12:19.240 happened, it was like, whatever, you know, but I feel like sometimes breakups just like,

00:12:22.900 you know, they kind of make you. So everything happens for a reason. He was just not meant

00:12:26.080 to be how it goes. Everything happens for a reason. That's what I say. Yeah. So if they

00:12:29.880 break on, break up on you, what? Okay. So everything happens for a reason, right? Yes. Have

00:12:34.020 you heard of the brain eating amoeba called Nigleria fallowry? No, I have. So basically if this

00:12:41.800 is why you gotta be very careful in like hot springs or still water. So not, it's not a risk

00:12:46.020 in ocean water, but if you're ever in like a lake, you don't want to dunk your head under

00:12:50.820 the water because, especially in the hot spring, because what they do is this brain eating amoeba

00:12:56.240 travels up your nose, dating podcast, by the way, travels up your nose. And it's like the

00:13:02.940 death rate is 99% and you're dead within like five days. Yeah. Ooh. Nigleria fallowry.

00:13:09.500 I think I'm pronouncing it right. So does everything happen for a reason? Like the brain eating

00:13:14.680 amoeba son and then donated your organs and saved someone's life. I mean, yeah, I don't

00:13:20.080 know about, but what were you talking about? Like everything was for a reason. How is that

00:13:24.200 like a category of that though? Well, getting, I got the brain eating amoeba. Everything

00:13:30.960 happens for a reason. I think more of an example would be like a death of like your mom or something

00:13:33.880 like that. Maybe that would be a better example. That's still pretty bad. That's true. Pretty bad.

00:13:37.360 You would have to learn how to like become stronger. My entire family got wiped out in a meteor strike.

00:13:44.140 Like everything happens for a reason.

00:13:46.900 I mean, it doesn't work like that. It doesn't work like that. It is true.

00:13:50.160 Okay. Okay. Um, wait. So, okay. So you were in this relationship for three years from like

00:13:55.200 18 to 21. Okay. Then you cheated on you and then you swore off men. Is that correct?

00:13:59.520 Yeah. Okay. And you've just been, you know, it's funny though. I didn't really tell you

00:14:03.740 the full story. Oh, he actually ended up being gay. What? You turned him? What? I swear.

00:14:11.760 You turned him? I think I turned him. I think I did. Wait, how did, did you, so in the three

00:14:16.640 years you were dating him, Eden, were there hints? Well, we were like really traditional old

00:14:23.080 school. Right. So like we, I'm going to be honest, we weren't intimate until I turned

00:14:27.240 18. So like, it was like, you know, and like, wait, hold on. So you were dating him before

00:14:33.900 you were, I was 17 when he started courting me. He was also 25 years old. Oh, let's see.

00:14:40.480 Yeah. When you were 17? Yes. That's a yikes. He's 25 and 25 and I was 17. Whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:14:46.140 What? Wait, did he cheat on you with a guy or with a girl? With a, well, I don't know the

00:14:51.460 terminology for it, but it was like a guy, a girl, a guy turning into a girl. Oh, a trans woman.

00:14:56.580 Yes. Yes. Wait, wait, wait, he cheated on a trans? Hold on. Not only, wait, oh, he cheated

00:15:01.860 with, on me with a trans. Oh, he's not trans. He's not, but I think. He's not. Wait, can you

00:15:07.840 just scoot the mic that way just a tad? No way. This way? Yes. Okay. So cheated on

00:15:14.140 you with a transgender woman? Yes. Or transgender man? So a man that's actually

00:15:21.640 turning into a woman. Yes. So it's a trans woman. So used to be a man. Yes. Became a woman.

00:15:27.300 So pretty much she had the boobs, but still had the thingy down there. Had the pee-pee. Huh?

00:15:31.200 He had the pee-pee still. So does that make you gay or not? That's gay. Right? I think so.

00:15:36.200 Yeah. I would say so. Yeah. He was getting banged in the booty. 100%. Oh, yeah. Oh, no. I think.

00:15:42.440 You don't think that's gay, Brian? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's gay. What I was about to say is,

00:15:46.460 I think if you're a dude and you're sucking dick, that's kind of gay. I'm just going to say,

00:15:52.200 I'm saying it. I think that's like. I think so. How is that not. I think a lot of people.

00:15:55.500 Wouldn't that be gay? Yeah. Yeah. Is that not. I just filmed a video on this last week. Are we getting canceled?

00:15:59.640 And I asked like 200 college kids, like, is it gay to date a trans man? Like if a woman's dating a trans man. Okay. We're canceled.

00:16:05.500 It's funny. It's funny. Some people just don't think it's gay, which. It's gay. Yeah.

00:16:10.760 I think so. Interesting. So you've never dated ever since?

00:16:13.820 I dated some, like I had situationships, we'll call them. Oh, okay. Yeah. Multiple situationships.

00:16:18.480 One year long situationship. One year long. Oh, wow. And not a relationship?

00:16:23.860 Honestly. Commitment issues? I see this one. He had commitment issues. And here's the thing I learned.

00:16:29.200 And when a guy says he's not ready for a relationship, he's probably not ready for one just with you.

00:16:35.140 That's. This is why.

00:16:36.520 You should probably listen to what guys.

00:16:38.580 What did guys say? That was my fault.

00:16:39.960 This is why I say like, if you're going to introduce me into a situationship, best believe I don't want you.

00:16:44.840 You know what I mean? I'm like, that's a huge turn off. I'm sorry.

00:16:47.080 If it's a situationship, I'd rather just be single. You know what I mean?

00:16:53.420 I want a guy who actually knows what he wants and not a situationship. He's just going to play.

00:16:58.640 So during this situationship, were you seeing other guys or were you loyal to him?

00:17:02.600 I was 100% loyal.

00:17:03.900 Was he seeing other girls?

00:17:07.320 I honestly think so because when I ended things, he popped out with a relationship three weeks later.

00:17:13.900 Wait, he what?

00:17:15.040 He popped out with a new relationship three weeks later.

00:17:18.140 But he called it a relationship or a situationhip?

00:17:20.360 Posted her, flies her out.

00:17:22.620 Wow.

00:17:22.840 Oh my gosh.

00:17:23.300 And after he told me I lived far away when I was, he lived in East LA, I lived in the Valley.

00:17:28.640 Like, sure, that's long distance in LA terms, but it's not.

00:17:31.400 How long is that? How much of a drive?

00:17:34.140 Like an hour.

00:17:35.060 Whoa, that's justified. That's legit.

00:17:38.460 That is legit.

00:17:39.300 That's not long distance. In LA terms it is.

00:17:41.800 Well, okay, LA terms.

00:17:43.040 That's not long distance.

00:17:43.840 That's a medium distance relationship.

00:17:45.260 That is not long distance. I've done multi-space long distance.

00:17:47.980 Yeah, yeah.

00:17:48.700 That's not long distance.

00:17:49.440 If I have to drive more than 20 minutes.

00:17:52.080 That's called long distance?

00:17:53.960 No.

00:17:54.700 Well, I wouldn't even drive. She has to just come to me, you know?

00:17:58.580 What?

00:17:59.940 Yeah.

00:18:01.040 If you're in a relationship, driving an hour is nothing.

00:18:03.880 That's not that right.

00:18:04.580 That's nothing.

00:18:05.460 You want to drive to see her?

00:18:06.560 People think, okay, like, here's the thing.

00:18:08.180 When it comes to, like, love and relationships, a lot of people think, like, it's about, you know, shared values, loyalty.

00:18:17.000 No.

00:18:17.620 It is.

00:18:18.120 It is.

00:18:19.120 What do you mean, though?

00:18:19.660 Let me finish my point.

00:18:21.200 It's about convenience.

00:18:24.160 If you're living close.

00:18:25.160 No, it's not.

00:18:25.560 If you're close, if you live five minutes from the person.

00:18:29.000 That's not what you mean.

00:18:30.000 It makes it easier.

00:18:31.340 It makes it easier.

00:18:32.140 I'm sorry.

00:18:32.740 I mean, okay, sure, it makes it easier, but that doesn't mean long distance doesn't work out.

00:18:35.840 You can, like, know somebody multi-states away.

00:18:38.180 And I think it is honestly dependent on the man.

00:18:40.180 So, like, you said you're in a situation ship, and then he came into a relationship later.

00:18:43.940 If a guy actually wants to date you, he will date you.

00:18:46.500 If he doesn't want to date you, he'll say, well, I'm not ready for a relationship, and that's your sign to go.

00:18:51.220 Yes.

00:18:51.540 If they're not ready, just leave.

00:18:52.680 I think convenience is underrated when it comes to relationships.

00:18:55.760 Like, think about it, right?

00:18:56.680 It's not about convenience, though.

00:18:58.440 But long distance relationships are, they're hard.

00:19:04.360 I've been in three.

00:19:05.080 They're tough.

00:19:05.400 They're hard.

00:19:05.880 That's a noun.

00:19:06.880 But if you're passionate about each other, it shouldn't, like, the distance shouldn't matter, is what I believe.

00:19:12.440 That's true.

00:19:13.120 It should not matter.

00:19:14.280 That's the thing.

00:19:15.420 For me, it's, like, long distance is, like, not a thing.

00:19:17.740 Because it just depends on the person, because I'm very, like, touchy.

00:19:20.660 Like, I want, when I feel like I'm having a mental breakdown, like, I want somebody to be there for me.

00:19:24.600 You know, I don't want you to call me or you can't even, like, you know, come and hug me or something like that.

00:19:29.300 I think it just comes down to prioritizing each other.

00:19:31.580 Like, if he can prioritize you and you prioritize him, like, it does work.

00:19:34.720 But in long distance, like...

00:19:35.880 It's harder.

00:19:36.540 You know, like, yeah.

00:19:37.740 It's just different.

00:19:38.360 So, how frequently are you having mental breakdowns?

00:19:42.700 Not frequently.

00:19:43.720 I mean, it just...

00:19:44.700 She just wants someone to comfort her.

00:19:46.740 Yeah, because, I mean, it depends.

00:19:47.860 I'm very physically...

00:19:48.080 Once a week?

00:19:48.560 Are you a once a week mental breakdown type of chick?

00:19:51.260 It depends.

00:19:51.980 I mean, I'm in my 20s.

00:19:53.080 Come on.

00:19:53.740 Like, it's...

00:19:54.480 This is a lot.

00:19:55.400 So, wait, you're in your 20s?

00:19:56.300 Oh, you have a lot.

00:19:57.000 I'm 22.

00:19:58.100 So, like...

00:19:58.820 So, is it better now or worse, your mental breakdown frequency?

00:20:02.700 I think it's better because I've had things that, you know, I go to the gym.

00:20:06.060 Like, I have a therapist that helps me out.

00:20:08.480 Oh, I see.

00:20:09.480 That helped me a lot.

00:20:10.760 Who here is in therapy?

00:20:12.580 Really?

00:20:12.800 Show of hands.

00:20:13.480 Anybody in therapy?

00:20:15.200 I'm anti-therapy.

00:20:16.560 I'm strong.

00:20:17.320 I'm strong to the core.

00:20:17.920 I just like to, like...

00:20:18.760 I'm very strong.

00:20:19.560 I'm not in therapy.

00:20:20.460 I'm sorry.

00:20:20.820 My brain is, like, tough.

00:20:22.460 My therapy is the gym.

00:20:24.440 Okay.

00:20:25.200 It's fine.

00:20:25.900 It's fine.

00:20:26.060 Honestly, I feel like we kind of underestimate people having mental illnesses.

00:20:30.040 Oh, hold on just a sec.

00:20:31.080 Brandon Melz donated $99 in donating specifically to say hi to Madison.

00:20:37.460 Hi, Madison.

00:20:38.320 Hi.

00:20:38.640 And also, hi, Brian.

00:20:40.340 Yo, what's up, Brandon?

00:20:41.120 Thank you, man.

00:20:41.620 Appreciate it.

00:20:42.100 You don't know me, but I'm friends with Alps.

00:20:44.600 Oh, and hi, Nick.

00:20:46.020 Hi, everyone.

00:20:47.320 Nick, say hi to Brandon.

00:20:48.820 What up, Brandon?

00:20:50.000 Yo, thank you, Brandon.

00:20:51.180 Hi, Brandon.

00:20:51.720 Good to see you in the chat, man.

00:20:52.820 Welcome, welcome.

00:20:54.980 So, you were saying something?

00:20:57.940 I just feel like we're just underestimating a lot of people.

00:21:01.280 They might look like they're fine, because you can't tell.

00:21:03.480 Hold on just a sec.

00:21:04.220 Seven deadly simps donated $100.

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00:21:55.080 Elizabeth, you were saying.

00:21:56.260 Are we going to get interrupted again?

00:21:59.000 Probably not.

00:21:59.900 Okay.

00:22:00.860 I'm just saying.

00:22:01.560 I just feel like we just kind of underestimate people.

00:22:04.700 They look like they're really, they look perfectly fine, but inside they're struggling

00:22:09.540 like mentally.

00:22:10.880 I think now that we prioritize mental health more, like it's talking about a lot more,

00:22:15.140 but the thing is, so I said I'm anti-therapy, which, you know, some, it works for some people,

00:22:18.880 but also largely a lot of therapists are prescribing women antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications.

00:22:24.400 And then, I mean, now more than ever, women are hooked on pharma and self-medicating

00:22:28.820 those types of things, or you have ADHD, you're now on antidepressants, you're on anti-anxiety

00:22:32.780 medication, you're on Adderall, you're on Vyvanse, whatever, and your entire hormonal,

00:22:37.080 your body just gets completely jacked up.

00:22:39.140 And I feel like, you know, as much as we talk about mental health and it's, we should talk

00:22:43.480 about it because it's really important.

00:22:45.560 But I also think that therapists kind of use it as a way just to make money.

00:22:49.540 Well, I just, I, my therapist is different from my psychiatrist.

00:22:52.260 Psychiatrist prescribes you drugs, therapy, just to talk to somebody and like have somebody

00:22:56.700 like there to tell you, you know what, I see a cycle that you're doing, or like, hey,

00:23:00.900 like you're kind of dating somebody like your dad's traits.

00:23:04.440 You know, I really love talking to someone like that, that actually has experience or,

00:23:09.460 you know, years of experience that has seen, you know, people that have had the same stuff

00:23:13.220 as me, you know, just talking to somebody like kind of helps me a lot to just like,

00:23:17.820 oh, wow, I didn't, you know, realize this stuff about myself.

00:23:20.540 Wait, you said you would talk to your therapist about guys you're dating and she,

00:23:26.100 is your therapist a male or a female?

00:23:28.280 Female.

00:23:28.900 And she'd say something about your dad's traits?

00:23:32.980 Just like, um, for example, like, well, my dad's an alcoholic and I, you know, I don't

00:23:38.420 want to date somebody like that.

00:23:39.380 I don't want to date somebody that, you know, the truth.

00:23:40.800 Do you need a therapist to tell you that though?

00:23:43.300 No, not just in general.

00:23:44.720 Like, I think she needs to, I think she just wants someone to guide her.

00:23:48.360 Yeah.

00:23:48.580 Right.

00:23:49.200 I think somebody that like someone, you need a strong masculine boyfriend.

00:23:53.600 You need a strong guy.

00:23:54.980 I know.

00:23:55.800 She needs a strong guy, guys.

00:23:57.100 I do actually.

00:23:58.080 I do.

00:23:58.220 I actually think it's a red flag to be dating a girl who's in therapy.

00:24:02.140 No offense.

00:24:02.840 Well, or maybe she just needs to heal herself.

00:24:05.680 Yeah.

00:24:05.980 The thing is like, that's what I'm doing.

00:24:07.600 Yeah.

00:24:07.880 That's what I'm doing.

00:24:08.660 I think I'm healing myself from like things that I've had in my childhood.

00:24:12.420 Like, you know, like I really like talking about it and telling me, you know, she's kind

00:24:15.360 of helping me.

00:24:16.220 She has like, you know, 10 years of experience.

00:24:17.900 So she can tell me like, these are ways that you could actually cope with that or try this,

00:24:21.740 you know, try to go to the gym and stuff like that.

00:24:23.460 I want somebody that has experience, you know, as well as obviously I'm looking for a good

00:24:28.140 guy, you know, but that comes with like fixing myself from the inside first and bettering

00:24:34.220 myself.

00:24:35.100 Wait, question.

00:24:37.760 Is she a feminist?

00:24:39.060 You think?

00:24:39.340 Me?

00:24:39.640 No, no, no.

00:24:40.060 Well, I guess you, but like, is your therapist a feminist?

00:24:43.200 Um, you know what?

00:24:44.880 I don't think so.

00:24:46.020 Okay.

00:24:46.620 Cause, um, she, she just, I mean, actually I've only gone once with her cause I changed

00:24:52.500 my therapist cause the other one.

00:24:53.920 You've changed therapists.

00:24:55.060 Yeah.

00:24:55.200 Cause I didn't like the other one.

00:24:56.180 Like she wasn't really like telling me like, Hey, I want somebody like be straight up with

00:25:00.320 me, you know, and be like, Hey, this is what you're doing.

00:25:02.140 You know, like, um, you're doing this and that straightforward.

00:25:06.600 So you want accountability.

00:25:07.460 I do want to cultivate it, but I want something that I could tell, like, you know, I have

00:25:11.220 trust issues.

00:25:11.820 So like I want someone that I could not, you know, someone professional that won't say

00:25:16.080 my secrets that I could actually talk to, you know, um, it's very different talking to

00:25:20.360 like, you know, a friend or something like that, like a boyfriend.

00:25:23.280 Cause you never know where you're going to break up with them and then they're just going

00:25:25.700 to leave with all your, you know, stuff.

00:25:28.960 Um, you never know what happens.

00:25:30.320 And when a therapist, you can never like break up with them and they'll tell them your secrets

00:25:33.420 and stuff like that.

00:25:34.040 You know, that hopefully, hopefully that's the goal.

00:25:36.160 Yeah.

00:25:36.320 Hopefully they, I mean, by law, they can't do that.

00:25:38.820 I mean, yeah.

00:25:39.120 Therapy is great if you just like want to vent to somebody.

00:25:41.340 And then I feel like a lot, a therapist though, will tell you kind of what you want to hear.

00:25:45.760 And like, yeah, sure.

00:25:46.380 It can work through things, but I mean, our generation, Gen Z mental health wise is down

00:25:51.520 the toilet, especially ever since 2019.

00:25:54.280 But then the thing is, is I think more than ever, our society lacks God.

00:25:57.480 I'm a believer and I'm a Christian.

00:25:58.920 And I think a lot of people need to come back to Christ, honestly, because I mean, in the

00:26:04.500 church, you have accountability, you can talk to your pastoral team.

00:26:07.880 You can have almost like counseling through the church to where you're rooted in biblical

00:26:12.180 truth.

00:26:12.580 So, I mean, I don't go to therapy, but I have biblical mentors to where then, you know,

00:26:17.000 they can help push you along the way.

00:26:19.400 And then it's rooted in scripture and rooted in truth instead of just, you know, Hey, cause

00:26:24.500 I used to go to therapy when I was younger, when I was like seventh grade, eighth grade,

00:26:28.020 high school.

00:26:28.420 And it's like, you know, Hey, journal this and like, tell me how you feel.

00:26:32.120 But I think a lot of things, it's like when you pray about it, when you talk to God about

00:26:35.280 it and you read your Bible, you finally, you have that peacefulness and knowing that your

00:26:40.800 anxieties and your troubles, like God's got it.

00:26:44.200 And, you know, you just have to like talk to them about it and work through those things,

00:26:48.400 you know?

00:26:49.060 I agree with you.

00:26:50.220 You said, you kind of talked to your therapist about some like relationship type stuff.

00:26:54.800 What were, what was the guidance that she gave you on relation, like dating a particular

00:27:00.380 guy or.

00:27:01.240 Yeah.

00:27:01.360 Cause basically like I'm in a on and off relationship for two years.

00:27:05.280 But it's like a very like emotional abusive relationship.

00:27:08.120 Oh no.

00:27:09.800 Red flag, red flag, red flag.

00:27:12.060 Let's tell us before you get into that story.

00:27:15.420 Wait, Elizabeth, did you tell us?

00:27:17.200 Oh yeah, no, no.

00:27:17.780 Elizabeth, you tell us your relationship situation.

00:27:20.100 You tell us yours, then we'll get into it.

00:27:21.800 Go ahead, Elizabeth.

00:27:22.840 Oh, are we going to cut her off or finish?

00:27:24.200 No, no, no, go ahead.

00:27:24.920 Fine.

00:27:25.240 Okay.

00:27:25.440 Go ahead.

00:27:26.260 I've been single for 24 years, but I'm talking to someone and.

00:27:31.500 I mean, hopefully you were single from like at least the first 14, 15, you know?

00:27:39.420 Yeah.

00:27:39.660 As in, I never had a boyfriend.

00:27:40.580 Cause I mean, wouldn't you.

00:27:41.580 That way.

00:27:42.060 As in, because I never.

00:27:43.120 Like definitely you wouldn't be dating at like one year old, you know?

00:27:45.520 So you've been single for 24 years, but like, were you, were you really going to be

00:27:48.940 dating at like three years old?

00:27:51.180 Like, no, but then as in, I wasn't really seeking, I wasn't seeking anybody.

00:27:54.760 Like whoever gave me attention.

00:27:56.080 I didn't really care.

00:27:57.100 Like that.

00:27:57.380 Okay.

00:27:57.740 For sure.

00:27:58.880 Yeah.

00:27:59.240 Because like I was focusing on my career.

00:28:01.420 You know what I mean?

00:28:02.500 Right.

00:28:02.940 So yeah.

00:28:03.160 So I'm talking to someone.

00:28:03.900 At like two years old though?

00:28:05.040 And I'm taking.

00:28:05.640 Like you're trying to.

00:28:06.220 Come on, Brian.

00:28:07.200 Come on, Brian.

00:28:08.000 Who's dating at like three years old?

00:28:09.780 You can't even talk, right?

00:28:10.960 Or wait, can you talk at me?

00:28:11.960 She's at like three years old.

00:28:13.920 Like a kindergarten crush.

00:28:15.020 I'm just, I'm just roasting you.

00:28:16.420 I'm roasting you.

00:28:17.060 Go ahead.

00:28:17.300 I'm like, do you got it?

00:28:18.700 Okay.

00:28:19.200 So, so.

00:28:21.180 Yeah.

00:28:21.580 So I'm talking to someone.

00:28:22.460 I have someone.

00:28:23.360 You got a situation.

00:28:25.400 Okay.

00:28:26.060 But you're single?

00:28:27.380 No.

00:28:28.000 Oh, no.

00:28:28.580 Oh, you're in a relationship.

00:28:29.880 Yeah.

00:28:30.220 Okay.

00:28:30.560 Got it.

00:28:31.800 How long has that been?

00:28:32.580 And I want to, I really respect him.

00:28:34.520 So I don't.

00:28:35.340 Sure.

00:28:35.500 How long have you been?

00:28:37.380 Because last time you were on, I think you were single.

00:28:39.220 Um, actually I could be wrong, but I think he found me from the last podcast.

00:28:45.400 Oh, okay.

00:28:46.960 Have you met in person?

00:28:48.640 I haven't met him in person yet.

00:28:50.320 Wait, you're.

00:28:50.820 Oh my God.

00:28:51.440 I haven't met in person yet.

00:28:54.140 I know.

00:28:54.620 You're dating a guy, but you haven't.

00:28:55.760 No.

00:28:56.080 Wait, how long have you been talking?

00:28:57.120 I respect him enough to.

00:28:58.960 Do you guys.

00:28:59.620 Have you talked on the phone?

00:29:01.020 Yeah.

00:29:01.300 We, we chatted.

00:29:03.400 We messaged.

00:29:03.860 We talked.

00:29:04.280 So that's.

00:29:04.780 No, no, no.

00:29:05.020 On the phone.

00:29:05.720 FaceTime.

00:29:06.240 FaceTime.

00:29:06.760 No.

00:29:06.920 You haven't.

00:29:07.820 Bro, what?

00:29:09.500 I'm very picky with my guys.

00:29:11.320 How long have you been talking enough?

00:29:12.680 I was going to say how long.

00:29:13.100 It's just like that's when I find someone best believe that he has checked on my boxes

00:29:16.800 because I have high standards.

00:29:18.160 As in when I say high standards, listen, it's why are you giving me that face?

00:29:23.060 She hasn't talked to the guy on the phone even.

00:29:25.780 And she's in a relationship with the dude.

00:29:27.300 Guys.

00:29:27.560 No, it's because I, I respect.

00:29:29.520 You see what I mean?

00:29:30.260 Like I'm not the type to go looking.

00:29:31.940 I don't want to look.

00:29:32.580 But you said you're in a, you're in a relationship with him.

00:29:35.860 Yes.

00:29:36.220 I call it, I call it that because we both trust.

00:29:40.140 But you haven't, you haven't talked to him.

00:29:42.360 You haven't even talked to him.

00:29:43.480 No, messaged.

00:29:43.960 You messaged?

00:29:44.520 How long have you been messaging him?

00:29:46.200 I said since the last.

00:29:47.900 Two months?

00:29:48.100 Why are you giving me that face?

00:29:49.920 First off.

00:29:51.080 Red flag.

00:29:51.920 Go ahead.

00:29:53.340 Go ahead.

00:29:53.660 How long have you been messaging him?

00:29:56.560 Since, I said since the last podcast, which was like two months ago.

00:29:59.180 So a couple months?

00:29:59.580 He's a viewer of mine?

00:30:02.380 He is a.

00:30:03.940 Wait, what's, is it Marquavius?

00:30:06.380 No.

00:30:08.380 Marquavius?

00:30:08.980 The guy who's like dropping.

00:30:09.880 I must keep this a secret though.

00:30:11.500 Has he sent you like photos of himself?

00:30:13.200 Like you know what he looks like?

00:30:14.940 Is it through Instagram?

00:30:18.200 He's pretty big on TikTok.

00:30:19.840 Oh, okay.

00:30:20.340 So you know.

00:30:20.660 I know him.

00:30:21.200 I know exactly who he is.

00:30:21.560 Okay, so you know he's real.

00:30:22.720 Yes.

00:30:23.040 And also I found out that we have like a mutual friend.

00:30:25.960 So it's kind of.

00:30:27.800 But how have you gone two months though without like a phone call or a FaceTime, but still

00:30:31.940 like, you know, trusting him with that?

00:30:33.980 Like through, I guess we communicate through stories.

00:30:36.620 You know what I mean?

00:30:37.040 Like that way.

00:30:37.580 Through stories?

00:30:38.120 Or like IGs or that.

00:30:39.640 No, we also message.

00:30:40.520 Like do you send messages?

00:30:41.680 Like Instagram stories.

00:30:42.300 Yes, Instagram.

00:30:42.800 So like we still are.

00:30:44.000 Is he foreign?

00:30:44.940 Is that why?

00:30:45.940 Does he not live in the US?

00:30:47.080 He doesn't live in the US.

00:30:48.260 Oh, yeah.

00:30:49.240 He's really focusing on his career as well, which is respect because I want to focus on

00:30:52.960 mine.

00:30:53.580 You see what I mean?

00:30:55.060 It's either be single and focus or like, because I, that's, that's all I really want

00:31:00.580 to focus on.

00:31:01.040 It sounds like you're in a situation ship, but you just said you're not down for a situation

00:31:04.160 ship.

00:31:04.680 But I don't call this a situation ship.

00:31:06.920 What do you call it?

00:31:07.660 What do you call it?

00:31:08.080 You're in a talking stage.

00:31:09.340 What do you call it?

00:31:10.240 You said you're in a relationship.

00:31:11.540 I call him my guy.

00:31:12.600 You know what I mean?

00:31:13.120 Your boyfriend.

00:31:13.460 Is he your boyfriend?

00:31:13.860 Wait till you're together.

00:31:15.220 Wait till he asked you out.

00:31:16.280 Your boyfriend who you've never even spoken to.

00:31:18.880 Never mind in person.

00:31:19.580 The thing is this.

00:31:20.360 It's because like I'm not, I'm not the one to look around.

00:31:22.460 Like I don't really care to date.

00:31:23.860 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:31:24.580 What does looking around have to do with you having a phone call with your boyfriend?

00:31:29.940 Like honestly, what if I say like, I'm not even, like.

00:31:34.920 Are you okay, Elizabeth?

00:31:36.200 Are you, are you okay?

00:31:38.100 What?

00:31:39.360 Like I'm not like ready to date yet because I'm still focusing on my career.

00:31:43.740 You see what I mean?

00:31:44.280 Didn't I tell you this?

00:31:45.280 Wait, so you're single?

00:31:46.220 You said he's your boyfriend, but you're not ready to date.

00:31:49.200 How do I explain this?

00:31:50.460 This is tough.

00:31:51.000 Like, okay, I think I sort of understand.

00:31:52.660 So you're just like crazy to him.

00:31:54.360 Is this?

00:31:55.360 So you're, you don't have time.

00:31:56.500 But I don't like calling that.

00:31:57.820 You don't have time to call him or actually meet him, go on a date with him, but you are,

00:32:04.560 you know, I sort of see you're in a, you're boyfriend, girlfriend, but you're so busy.

00:32:10.720 I guess you could say talking stage way.

00:32:11.480 So busy, you don't have to.

00:32:12.440 Yeah, we're both so busy because we're both working on each, like ourselves.

00:32:17.180 You see what I mean?

00:32:18.260 So you just enjoy talking to him?

00:32:19.540 But in the sense that you're in like a relationship?

00:32:20.720 Is he a fuck boy?

00:32:21.520 Is he a TikTok fuck boy?

00:32:23.040 What, what?

00:32:23.640 I thought he was, but apparently he's not.

00:32:25.980 Where's he?

00:32:26.420 Is he in the States?

00:32:27.760 Is he in the US?

00:32:28.740 No, he's not in the States.

00:32:29.580 Where, where's he at?

00:32:30.760 Shoot, should I expose him?

00:32:31.720 Yeah, well, if you say a country, it's not going to.

00:32:34.040 Continent.

00:32:34.620 Germany.

00:32:35.840 What the fuck?

00:32:38.060 Stop it.

00:32:39.280 Why is everybody from Germany?

00:32:40.100 Stop it.

00:32:40.560 Do you feel like you're like wasting time ever?

00:32:42.620 Like, do you actually see it being a relationship eventually?

00:32:45.780 Because we're talking about distance.

00:32:46.900 Like, does that.

00:32:47.360 Where's the fucking asteroid?

00:32:49.180 No, I don't think it's wasting time.

00:32:50.640 Does he take care of you like a man should?

00:32:52.580 Like in a relationship would?

00:32:53.900 Like I see all the qualities.

00:32:55.160 Yeah.

00:32:55.440 Yeah.

00:32:55.680 Okay.

00:32:56.060 All right.

00:32:56.300 Yeah.

00:32:56.500 You know what I mean?

00:32:57.000 Because it's rare when you see someone with good qualities.

00:32:59.240 It's super rare nowadays.

00:33:00.360 That's all I'm saying.

00:33:00.740 Did you see that on his, when he was doing his TikTok dances?

00:33:04.060 Is that what gave it away?

00:33:04.500 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:33:05.560 It was not that.

00:33:06.100 What's he do on TikTok?

00:33:07.640 You can be vague.

00:33:09.220 Everything.

00:33:09.520 What kind of content?

00:33:10.360 Does he do TikTok dances?

00:33:12.700 Is he one of those?

00:33:15.960 Do I have to say everything?

00:33:17.660 Hold on.

00:33:18.500 One sec.

00:33:19.860 Brian, brain, brand.

00:33:22.160 I am confirming that I am real.

00:33:24.380 Me and Elizabeth are talking.

00:33:26.100 I mean.

00:33:26.380 Back off, everyone.

00:33:27.600 There's no evidence that that's actually.

00:33:29.080 Here, send something, send a chat where Elizabeth would be able to confirm, like, if you guys

00:33:35.160 have some inside joke or something that would reveal that this is actually the dude that

00:33:40.740 Elizabeth is dating.

00:33:42.440 Wait, hold on.

00:33:43.100 He's in Germany?

00:33:44.060 It's fucking, wait.

00:33:45.060 In Germany, it's like, what?

00:33:46.500 3 a.m.?

00:33:46.660 11 a.m.?

00:33:47.260 3, 4 a.m.?

00:33:48.020 4 a.m.?

00:33:48.320 It's nine hours later.

00:33:49.760 Wait, it's six.

00:33:51.020 Wait, it's six.

00:33:51.040 Wait, it's six.

00:33:52.680 4...

00:33:52.800 It's 3 a.m.?

00:33:54.740 How can you be in a relationship with someone you've never spoke to, let alone seen?

00:33:59.940 Please, Brian, get real natch on.

00:34:02.160 Smiley face.

00:34:03.800 Yo, Mr. Ben Having, thank you so much for the Streamlabs tip, man.

00:34:07.840 Appreciate it.

00:34:08.380 Um, people keep telling me about the real natch.

00:34:12.160 I gotta, I gotta check him out.

00:34:13.640 Uh, I'll take a look at his stuff.

00:34:15.980 Um, but word, like, it doesn't really make a lot of sense.

00:34:20.020 So he's in Germany.

00:34:21.140 I know, like, well, yes.

00:34:23.220 Do you have any plans to visit him?

00:34:24.660 Like, be together?

00:34:25.440 No, definitely.

00:34:26.280 Okay.

00:34:27.120 So you wouldn't consider yourself single right now?

00:34:29.900 No.

00:34:30.520 Yeah, because I respect him, because I don't want to be talking to anybody else.

00:34:34.280 Like, I don't have interest with anybody else.

00:34:36.740 Is that true?

00:34:37.420 I see.

00:34:38.340 Is that true?

00:34:39.020 Hold on.

00:34:39.440 Are your parents, because last time you were on the show, your parent, both your parents,

00:34:43.060 your mom and dad were watching the stream.

00:34:44.980 Yes.

00:34:45.620 Did they, same, did they drive you today?

00:34:48.620 Yeah.

00:34:49.140 Are they watching in the car right now?

00:34:51.560 I have no idea.

00:34:52.440 They're probably watching, right?

00:34:53.200 I have no idea.

00:34:54.780 Okay, so you have to be careful.

00:34:56.140 Okay, all right.

00:34:57.020 Oh my gosh, yeah.

00:34:58.320 Tell them to stop watching so we can get into the nitty gritty.

00:35:01.080 Mommy, can you leave?

00:35:02.180 Huh?

00:35:02.740 Mom, can you leave right now?

00:35:04.160 Thank you.

00:35:04.680 What about dad?

00:35:05.480 What about dad?

00:35:06.480 I don't know.

00:35:06.900 What about what?

00:35:07.420 Can you say in Vietnamese?

00:35:11.140 Just in case, you know.

00:35:13.800 I don't speak much Vietnamese.

00:35:15.220 You don't?

00:35:15.760 Sadly.

00:35:16.360 Wow.

00:35:17.240 Haram.

00:35:17.820 Okay.

00:35:18.640 So, this whole situation is very confusing.

00:35:23.220 You don't have to understand.

00:35:24.740 I do want to understand, though.

00:35:25.820 So, he does TikTok dances?

00:35:28.080 No, it's not TikTok dances.

00:35:29.140 And he's in Germany?

00:35:29.940 How many followers does he have on TikTok?

00:35:32.720 Quite a bit.

00:35:34.100 How many?

00:35:34.780 I think reaching 12 million.

00:35:36.380 Oh, I've done a lot.

00:35:37.900 And he's, does, how many on Instagram?

00:35:39.940 How many followers on Instagram?

00:35:43.420 Um, like 1.5 million.

00:35:45.300 How old is he?

00:35:46.700 Um, 23.

00:35:48.500 Is he attractive?

00:35:49.020 He's almost 24.

00:35:50.080 Very.

00:35:50.740 Okay.

00:35:52.040 Um, and he's a 9, 10 plus hour flight away from you.

00:35:57.780 Listen, uh, he's talking to other women.

00:36:01.740 I don't know.

00:36:02.380 Do you have an issue with that?

00:36:04.960 There's no way he's committed to you.

00:36:08.500 Uh, talking or not, I don't think so.

00:36:10.400 Or, like, if he is.

00:36:11.200 You don't think so?

00:36:11.480 Like, I'm pretty sure he sees that as, like, more like a friend.

00:36:13.720 He's got.

00:36:14.360 Because that's what I do, too.

00:36:15.660 Like, best believe it if I.

00:36:18.660 I believe he is.

00:36:19.820 You, what?

00:36:20.980 He's your boyfriend, but you don't know if he's religious?

00:36:22.880 Are you religious?

00:36:23.700 I'm religious.

00:36:24.260 Remember, I'm Catholic.

00:36:25.140 You're Catholic.

00:36:25.920 But how, you've never had the, the quick convo.

00:36:31.360 You know, I never had the quick convo.

00:36:32.640 Well, you, you messaged back and forth on.

00:36:34.760 Yeah, but not that topic.

00:36:35.680 Would it bother you if you knew right now he was just, like, getting down with some fraulein?

00:36:42.760 Do you know what a fraulein is?

00:36:44.100 No.

00:36:45.160 What's a fraulein?

00:36:45.720 It's like a young German woman.

00:36:48.400 No, it wouldn't bother me, but I don't, it doesn't matter.

00:36:50.120 It wouldn't bother you that your boyfriend is.

00:36:52.440 No, because, like, I don't think, you know what I mean?

00:36:53.860 But what if he was?

00:36:55.460 But why would you want to think that?

00:36:57.260 It's not about, it's not about whether you want to think it or not.

00:37:00.160 It's about what's.

00:37:00.440 That's like trust issues in this, in this sense.

00:37:02.640 It's not about, I mean, you, you've never met in person.

00:37:06.300 You've never even had a phone conversation.

00:37:08.520 Yeah.

00:37:09.100 I'm, he's an attractive guy, young.

00:37:13.180 He's got, you said 12 million followers on TikTok, 1.5 million on Instagram.

00:37:17.400 There's probably chicks in his, there's probably women in his DMs.

00:37:20.660 You're probably just, I mean, I'm just being, don't shoot the messenger.

00:37:24.020 You're probably just on the slow burner for him.

00:37:25.840 Like, slow burner.

00:37:28.400 Like, at one point, he'll meet you and then, but he's probably seeing other women.

00:37:34.500 I think that's what he thinks I'm doing.

00:37:36.120 Like, he thinks I'm seeing other guys.

00:37:37.520 Because there's, like, a bunch of guys trying to hit on me.

00:37:40.220 Oh, he's, has he mentioned?

00:37:41.600 Like, oh, are you.

00:37:42.620 I, I, he has trust issues.

00:37:44.620 Because he.

00:37:45.420 That's projection.

00:37:46.040 Because he's probably fucking other chicks.

00:37:50.820 Do you, does that upset you that your boyfriend is fucking other women?

00:37:56.200 Why are you saying this into my head when it's not facts?

00:37:58.760 Well, I don't, I can't say definitively, but like, given the information you've provided,

00:38:03.380 again, I could be wrong.

00:38:04.380 I could be wrong here, but given what you've told me, I'm strongly leaning towards,

00:38:09.400 this guy's fucking.

00:38:12.660 Whatever you believe, this is.

00:38:14.300 I could be wrong.

00:38:14.860 Yeah.

00:38:15.200 Do you, do you actually, the, the, not a catfish, could you want to issue a, a breakup

00:38:19.420 right now?

00:38:20.100 Because I'm, like, 97.33% sure he's cheating on you.

00:38:25.480 Ah, it doesn't matter.

00:38:26.920 Next question.

00:38:27.280 Whatever podcast, breaking up relationships.

00:38:30.180 Next question, Brian.

00:38:31.900 She's happy, like, who cares?

00:38:33.340 I know.

00:38:34.420 I mean, I'm, well, I'm.

00:38:35.500 Are you jealous?

00:38:36.380 I'm not, I'm not jealous.

00:38:37.580 Is that why?

00:38:38.640 Actually, did we, there was a little, you know, last.

00:38:42.520 What?

00:38:42.840 Brandon Mills donated $99.

00:38:46.220 She's talking to at Falka Bunch TV.

00:38:48.900 Is that, is that who it is?

00:38:51.180 No.

00:38:52.640 That sounded like a yes.

00:38:54.320 No, it's not.

00:38:55.360 The way you said no, it sounded like a yes.

00:38:57.880 Hold on.

00:38:58.280 Falco Punch?

00:38:59.060 Let me look it up.

00:39:00.780 Falco Punch.

00:39:02.600 See, and I hope you enjoyed talking to him, but, like, I don't understand how you can

00:39:06.840 not have a phone call or a FaceTime, and, you know, I'm not saying he's a catfish.

00:39:10.260 Like, he definitely probably is real, but if you want to be in a serious relationship

00:39:14.260 with someone, you said you're a Catholic, how can you date someone you don't even know

00:39:17.020 their religion, you don't really know where they're at, and, like, I don't understand

00:39:20.520 that.

00:39:20.780 Um, I believe he's Christian, so, like, probably because...

00:39:25.840 What do you mean you, but hold on.

00:39:27.360 What do you mean you believe?

00:39:29.240 Because he's on articles I read before, you know what I mean?

00:39:31.720 So it's kind of like you get to know someone through that.

00:39:35.160 But, I mean, it's, I feel like it's either they're Christian or they're not.

00:39:41.040 So what, what did you specifically read that would make, lead you to believe that he might

00:39:45.960 be Christian?

00:39:47.620 Um, he has this, reminds me of, like, the same morals as me, like, throughout his childhood

00:39:53.020 and things.

00:39:54.080 And he's...

00:39:54.520 In the articles you mentioned that were published, in any of those articles, does he say anything

00:40:00.400 about his faith or Jesus or any, mentioning any...

00:40:03.420 No, it doesn't say that, but...

00:40:04.640 So how, how do the articles...

00:40:07.520 I'm just trying to connect the dots here.

00:40:09.980 Please?

00:40:10.220 No, I'm just trying to connect the dots, like, how do...

00:40:13.180 Okay, um, whatever.

00:40:15.080 So, okay, what about you?

00:40:17.540 Thank you, Brian.

00:40:18.920 Go ahead.

00:40:19.840 It's complicated.

00:40:22.140 Your relationship status is complicated.

00:40:24.560 Are you still in that situation-ship that you were in?

00:40:26.780 Let's just say I'm single.

00:40:28.060 Yeah.

00:40:28.900 You're single for, how long have you been single?

00:40:31.340 For, like, two months.

00:40:32.620 Two months.

00:40:34.220 When's the last time you hung out with your on-again, off-again, two-year situation-ship?

00:40:38.800 I don't know, like...

00:40:39.220 Yesterday?

00:40:42.900 I don't know.

00:40:43.940 I'm just kidding.

00:40:44.700 I mean, if you want to make this podcast spicy, I can.

00:40:47.040 Like...

00:40:47.360 Can what?

00:40:48.020 What?

00:40:48.380 I want to adjust your mic a little bit.

00:40:50.020 What do you mean, adjust my mic?

00:40:51.060 I'm just having her face sometimes.

00:40:52.200 Whose face?

00:40:52.720 Uh, picture, Nick Warren.

00:40:54.660 Wait, what?

00:40:55.480 Oh, should I...

00:40:55.840 Oh, I thought you said adjust my mic.

00:40:57.940 Should I put it...

00:40:58.540 It's...

00:40:59.540 Tilt it down a little bit?

00:41:00.280 Down it?

00:41:00.700 No, it's fine.

00:41:01.240 It's fine.

00:41:01.700 It looks...

00:41:02.180 This looks fine to me.

00:41:03.620 Should I put it down?

00:41:05.360 Uh, I think it's fine.

00:41:06.580 I'm...

00:41:07.620 Nick, it's...

00:41:08.400 It's...

00:41:09.120 She's covering her whole mouth sometimes.

00:41:10.700 Sometimes she gets kind of behind it.

00:41:12.460 Okay.

00:41:14.800 Yo, Flan Life.

00:41:15.760 Thank you for the, uh, gifted 20 worships, man.

00:41:17.800 Really appreciate it.

00:41:18.440 Thank you.

00:41:19.620 Uh, yeah, no, let's get into it.

00:41:20.980 Okay, so...

00:41:22.180 Uh, single two months...

00:41:23.300 You've been single for two months.

00:41:24.940 Uh, you...

00:41:25.760 But you...

00:41:27.060 The guy who you...

00:41:28.980 Wait, hold on.

00:41:29.600 Okay, you've been single for two months.

00:41:30.720 That's a whole story.

00:41:31.560 Like, it's a really long story.

00:41:33.340 Well, I'll try to ask questions to make things concise.

00:41:36.440 So, you previously mentioned that you were dating the guy for about two years.

00:41:40.340 Is that correct?

00:41:41.400 Okay.

00:41:42.020 But it wasn't ever a relationship, is that?

00:41:44.700 It was.

00:41:45.560 It was a relationship.

00:41:47.180 Then I think...

00:41:47.680 Monogamous?

00:41:48.360 Hmm?

00:41:48.720 It was a monogamous relationship?

00:41:50.120 Okay.

00:41:51.100 Uh, for two years, you said.

00:41:53.840 But you said it was on and off again.

00:41:55.560 Uh, I think towards, like, the end of the two years, um, it was very, like...

00:42:00.320 Obviously, we fought more.

00:42:01.880 Sure.

00:42:02.080 Um, we didn't really share that much, like, interest.

00:42:04.820 I don't know.

00:42:05.100 He has, like, anger issues.

00:42:06.840 So, that kind of, like, you know...

00:42:08.440 And he has...

00:42:09.080 You know, he's insecure.

00:42:09.960 So, I think that kind of...

00:42:11.740 You know, insecurity opens a lot of doors.

00:42:13.440 Mm-hmm.

00:42:13.980 Um, you know, and...

00:42:16.480 Obviously, like, I was, like, we're fighting too much.

00:42:19.940 I think, like, we should just be friends.

00:42:21.900 Um, it's just getting, you know, too much.

00:42:24.840 Sure.

00:42:25.100 Wait, so, okay.

00:42:26.120 So, you've been single for two months, but my question was, when's the last time that

00:42:31.860 you saw your, I suppose, ex-boyfriend?

00:42:35.120 Was it yesterday?

00:42:36.040 He drove me here.

00:42:37.980 Ha ha ha!

00:42:38.600 Oh, Jesus Christ.

00:42:39.940 Okay.

00:42:41.160 We drove here together, so...

00:42:43.740 Oh, no.

00:42:44.320 What?

00:42:45.360 Ha ha!

00:42:46.140 Um, so, you're single for two months.

00:42:50.320 When's the last time you guys hooked up?

00:42:52.860 Was it today?

00:42:53.700 I don't remember.

00:42:54.020 No, it was...

00:42:55.200 Yesterday?

00:42:55.620 No, a long time ago.

00:42:56.600 This week?

00:42:57.680 You said, okay, because you said you've been single for two months.

00:42:59.880 Yeah.

00:43:00.520 Have you hooked up with your ex-boyfriend?

00:43:02.960 No.

00:43:03.520 In the past two months?

00:43:04.460 No.

00:43:05.340 But he drove you here?

00:43:06.600 Yeah.

00:43:07.020 Because the thing is, like, I grew up Christian.

00:43:08.880 I grew up in, like, in the Christian community.

00:43:11.240 And, um, I, my sexuality actually got, like, suppressed.

00:43:16.180 I don't really need sex, to be honest.

00:43:18.480 Like, for me, I'm very, like, I don't need it.

00:43:21.140 Like, I'm more of a, you know, like, emotional, you know, attachment or emotional connection

00:43:27.500 with somebody.

00:43:27.980 That's very good.

00:43:28.300 So, you guys are just friends right now?

00:43:33.560 Yeah.

00:43:33.720 Or just hanging out?

00:43:35.500 So, you've broken up, but you guys are, do you hang out every day?

00:43:40.540 No.

00:43:41.200 How frequently do you hang out in a friendly capacity?

00:43:43.420 Probably, like, twice a week.

00:43:45.620 Twice a week?

00:43:46.380 Okay.

00:43:46.760 Yeah.

00:43:47.820 Um, is, does he want to get back with you?

00:43:51.100 Of course.

00:43:52.340 Oh.

00:43:52.960 But you don't want to get back with him?

00:43:54.860 No, because I think I'm focusing on myself right now.

00:43:56.840 I feel like I really want to, like, kind of fix the things that I have.

00:44:00.900 You know, like, um, focus on myself.

00:44:03.020 Like, you know, insecurities that I have.

00:44:05.300 Sorry, hold on just a sec.

00:44:06.600 The Budo Mungio 07 donated $99.

00:44:09.680 Organized religion is all well and good, but it is an echo chamber.

00:44:13.740 Just like social media, it confirms individual truths.

00:44:17.620 Enabling therapists are a dime a dozen.

00:44:20.300 Always ask questions, especially from the people giving you advice.

00:44:25.020 Transparency.

00:44:26.160 Trust.

00:44:27.140 Whatever.

00:44:28.580 Uh, Budo Mung, thank you for the tip.

00:44:30.500 Appreciate it.

00:44:31.680 Um.

00:44:33.240 I'm confused.

00:44:33.740 Okay.

00:44:34.180 Appreciate the comment, man.

00:44:35.360 Um.

00:44:37.760 So.

00:44:39.640 Wait, okay.

00:44:41.320 You.

00:44:41.720 You, he wants to get back with you.

00:44:44.940 You don't want to get back with him.

00:44:47.200 Don't you think for the sake of moving on for yourself and him that you probably shouldn't

00:44:53.860 be hanging out with him twice a week?

00:44:55.280 It's a whole long story.

00:44:56.200 I feel like, um.

00:44:57.260 Do you guys live together?

00:44:58.320 No.

00:44:59.220 At any point?

00:45:00.280 Yeah.

00:45:00.500 We used to live together, but it just got really toxic.

00:45:02.580 So we like, kind of like separated and not live together anymore.

00:45:05.720 Did you pull an amber herd and take a shit in his bed?

00:45:08.520 No, actually.

00:45:09.660 I think it's like the opposite.

00:45:10.980 I'm.

00:45:11.280 He took a shit in the bed?

00:45:12.760 Maybe.

00:45:13.080 I'm just kidding.

00:45:13.580 No.

00:45:13.940 No, he didn't.

00:45:14.900 But.

00:45:15.540 There's like a whole story.

00:45:16.460 Like, if you want the juicy story.

00:45:17.560 Like, he broke my phone.

00:45:18.900 Um.

00:45:19.060 He threw my makeup out the window.

00:45:20.380 Yikes.

00:45:20.900 Um.

00:45:21.260 It's a whole thing.

00:45:21.920 Yeah.

00:45:22.180 And.

00:45:22.800 He's toxic.

00:45:23.660 Yeah.

00:45:23.960 Of course.

00:45:24.060 Do you still hang out with him?

00:45:25.260 Why would you still hang out with him?

00:45:26.420 Because I feel like.

00:45:27.480 Bye bye.

00:45:27.860 I understand people that are in toxic relationships because it's an addiction.

00:45:30.600 It's an addiction.

00:45:31.440 And I feel like it's like a drug.

00:45:32.460 Like, I feel like, you know, obviously you relapse, but I'm the type like if, if you're

00:45:36.760 gonna ruin my like mental health, just leave, you know, or be violent.

00:45:42.180 But wouldn't you want to leave that in the past and like not be around him if he did these

00:45:45.940 things to you?

00:45:46.620 And I mean, and you're working past those things and working your own life.

00:45:49.940 Why would you want to continue to enable him in a sense?

00:45:52.480 Because if you're hanging out with him, you're giving him a sense of like, well, maybe I could

00:45:56.340 still be with her and I still have her.

00:45:57.940 You know what?

00:45:58.420 But I did think like that before I was in a relationship like this.

00:46:01.240 I was like, why can't people just leave in toxic relationships?

00:46:03.680 Like you just leave, you know, people that hate, you know, other people until you're

00:46:06.720 in one.

00:46:07.000 Yeah.

00:46:07.240 Until you're in one.

00:46:08.000 And it's so hard because you're emotionally attached and you're codependent to that person.

00:46:11.300 And it's so different when you're in it because it's like, wow, like, you know,

00:46:16.040 it's, it's like an addiction.

00:46:16.880 It's hard.

00:46:17.580 It's hard to leave.

00:46:18.520 But probably because you haven't met like the right person.

00:46:20.640 Of course.

00:46:21.000 Like if you met someone with better qualities, you could compare and contrast.

00:46:24.900 Like this guy is not good.

00:46:26.440 I mean, that's true.

00:46:27.000 I don't think that's true.

00:46:27.720 It's like, this guy sucks.

00:46:28.940 I think that's very true.

00:46:29.520 No, no, no, no.

00:46:30.140 This previous toxic guy sucks like terrible.

00:46:31.580 Because it's like an addiction.

00:46:32.560 Let's go to the new one.

00:46:33.440 One of the worst things that you can do.

00:46:35.340 And I'm not, I am not, when I say this, I'm not advocating that you be toxic or abusive.

00:46:41.080 However, one of the worst things that you can do is bore a woman.

00:46:45.440 And I think that a lot of women find it exciting to be involved with these bad, that's why you,

00:46:52.320 even women confess it themselves.

00:46:53.580 I'm attracted to bad boys.

00:46:54.900 Yeah.

00:46:55.000 Like, so women are attracted to them because oftentimes they display these dark triad personality

00:47:01.520 traits.

00:47:01.720 Not me.

00:47:02.400 I think that's fine.

00:47:03.220 Not all women.

00:47:04.520 Not all women.

00:47:04.960 I'm like, if you're bad, I leave.

00:47:05.960 But like a lot of women will say, I like bad boys.

00:47:09.340 I'm attracted to jerks, assholes, whatever.

00:47:11.600 I think it's like a phase too.

00:47:13.260 No, I think it's like a trauma thing.

00:47:14.600 I know what you mean.

00:47:15.420 Do you feel like you're trauma bonded to him?

00:47:17.020 Like you have to be around him?

00:47:18.300 What is a trauma?

00:47:19.480 A trauma bond is like, for example, like my parents, like, I think it's what you see

00:47:22.760 as a child.

00:47:23.300 Like your parents dynamic is, um, if your parents didn't have like a toxic environments like

00:47:28.100 that, you're used to that.

00:47:29.060 Like that makes you feel comfortable because your whole life you've been like, you know,

00:47:33.140 kind of like used to parents fight all the time.

00:47:35.740 They get, you know, like separated, they come back together.

00:47:38.300 And as a child, like you see that, that's normalized to your parents divorce.

00:47:42.220 Um, I think your psych, your psychiatrist or psychologist, therapist, therapist, did

00:47:47.020 your therapist tell you that?

00:47:48.960 Uh, she tell you to stay in the toxic.

00:47:50.680 No, I think I figured out about myself and you know, it's true.

00:47:53.120 Like my parents, my dad's an alcoholic.

00:47:54.940 My mom is like the opposite.

00:47:56.080 Like she doesn't do anything like that, but their dynamic has been for 25 years.

00:47:59.320 Like he tried, my mom tried to help my dad and he didn't want help.

00:48:02.780 He said, you know what?

00:48:03.960 I don't want therapy.

00:48:04.640 He literally told me like, I don't want therapy.

00:48:06.340 You know, he drinks.

00:48:06.960 He's like a, he's like a teenager.

00:48:08.400 He drinks, drink, drinks.

00:48:09.380 And then like, he feels sorry, blah, blah, blah.

00:48:10.900 And then he's okay.

00:48:11.760 And then he drinks again.

00:48:13.080 Um, this idea that like what you witnessed as a child with your parents relationship dynamic

00:48:18.980 means that you are going to be compelled to chase after or engage in similar relationships.

00:48:25.740 This is why I'm kind of like psychology is not a science because for example, you could

00:48:31.940 have a father who's an alcoholic and that could either lead you in two different

00:48:36.960 paths, it could either lead you to not drinking at all because you witnessed it or you too

00:48:42.380 could become an alcoholic.

00:48:43.640 So that's why I question like psychology because like you have the same, you could take two

00:48:49.660 people with alcoholic fathers and one of them, as I just said, swears off drinking entirely

00:48:55.720 and the other becomes an alcoholic too.

00:48:57.680 So it's like, I don't know.

00:49:00.480 Yeah.

00:49:00.660 Like my sister, like she's, I mean, obviously I don't drink at all because of my dad and

00:49:04.240 my sister doesn't drink at all.

00:49:05.620 My sister, like obviously we're very different.

00:49:08.780 Like she's 11 years older than me.

00:49:10.620 Um, she didn't actually like, she has a healthy relationship and stuff like that.

00:49:15.340 Um, obviously she didn't like end up with an alcoholic, you know, she got married.

00:49:20.940 Um, okay.

00:49:21.600 So, but so he's kind of thrown your, he threw your makeup out the window.

00:49:26.460 He broke your phone, I guess.

00:49:27.980 Yeah.

00:49:28.800 Your boy, your ex-boyfriend who drove you here today.

00:49:31.080 But, um, you know, like I have my other relationships weren't like that though.

00:49:35.200 Like I had healthy relationships.

00:49:37.780 How long did those last compared to the toxic one?

00:49:40.940 Well, like I said before, I was raised Christian.

00:49:42.440 So all my relationship last two years, like two years, a year, six months.

00:49:45.960 Like I'm very traditional in that way.

00:49:49.040 Like I have, you know, my hidden myths, like I'm really in the middle with things.

00:49:52.380 Okay.

00:49:52.820 Um, I'm like, yeah.

00:49:55.060 Is this toxic relationship your longest relationship you've ever had?

00:49:58.620 Um, no, uh, my first ever relationship was like three years.

00:50:03.040 Well, you're 22, right?

00:50:04.520 I know.

00:50:04.700 It was 15 to like 17.

00:50:07.320 I mean, it doesn't count.

00:50:08.620 It doesn't count.

00:50:09.340 But like, you know, for me, like, I believe like, what's the point of a toxic relationship

00:50:14.840 when the person is just going to weigh you down?

00:50:17.540 Like, don't you want someone to kind of uplift you up?

00:50:20.020 I think it's a stability.

00:50:20.620 It's kind of like, I, for me, I envision, um, you're a person, right?

00:50:25.580 Doing, to kind of grow and build your life together with them and not like, should I say

00:50:30.860 like hurting you?

00:50:31.900 Like you don't want, someone's going to hurt your future.

00:50:34.340 Because good men are boring to most women.

00:50:37.680 You know, that's what everyone wants.

00:50:39.320 That's not the goal here though.

00:50:41.380 If there's a good masculine man, I don't think they're boring.

00:50:43.840 If you want like marriage in the end.

00:50:44.800 But if given the choice, if given the choice between like a good guy who's like.

00:50:50.940 Financially stable.

00:50:51.780 If you want like a good, healthy marriage and the husband and a family in the end, you

00:50:55.600 have to kind of know that you don't want the toxic relationship.

00:50:58.880 I don't think anyone wants like a toxic relationship.

00:51:01.380 Or like you have to know you should leave.

00:51:03.000 To the end.

00:51:03.760 You know what I mean?

00:51:04.440 Like no one wants to settle down with a toxic man or woman.

00:51:07.680 See, I think women just have a problem where they think they can fix and change a guy though.

00:51:10.860 And just in general terms.

00:51:12.520 There is a guy that comes in who's super toxic, but you're like, no, I can fix him.

00:51:16.600 I can change him.

00:51:17.000 When in reality, you can't.

00:51:18.040 You can't change the guy.

00:51:19.280 It's going to come down to the guy's choice, which I mean, and for your sake, like, I'm

00:51:24.620 sorry that you're dealing with that.

00:51:25.720 It's like, that's really difficult.

00:51:27.740 And it's like us women also have to be strong enough to leave those situations and know

00:51:32.940 what's best for us.

00:51:34.200 And for our futures.

00:51:35.540 Because if you do want to find, you know, a good guy that's going to support you, going

00:51:39.920 to have that stability.

00:51:41.300 I mean, stability is not going to come with toxicity.

00:51:44.060 And I'm not saying toxic masculinity, because I also don't think toxic masculinity exists.

00:51:48.040 That's aside from that.

00:51:49.440 But there's toxic people.

00:51:51.200 Yeah.

00:51:51.400 And if he has toxic behavior, then that's not healthy for you.

00:51:54.320 Yeah.

00:51:54.860 And I feel like a lot of just people with toxic behavior, like that lead into very toxic relationships

00:52:00.820 are just also very immature people.

00:52:02.660 That's true.

00:52:03.120 Yeah.

00:52:03.320 I think very insecure people.

00:52:04.820 That's what it is.

00:52:06.140 I'm just curious, like why you broke up with him.

00:52:11.160 I mean, typically the best MO after a breakup for the breakup to actually work is you can

00:52:18.500 no longer see that person.

00:52:19.720 I was going to ask if just like you hanging out with him still, do you feel like that

00:52:24.060 interferes with your path to, I guess, focusing on yourself?

00:52:29.060 Like moving on.

00:52:29.800 In a way?

00:52:30.360 Yeah.

00:52:30.900 But I feel like how I see kind of like an addiction, because I feel like that's what

00:52:36.300 it is to me.

00:52:36.880 I feel like you slowly kind of like leave it.

00:52:39.660 You know, you can't just leave a vape and just cold turkey.

00:52:42.180 Yeah.

00:52:42.320 Some people can do that, but some people can't.

00:52:44.220 They have to be like, okay, I'm not going to vape.

00:52:45.800 What?

00:52:46.320 Did your therapist tell you this?

00:52:47.900 No.

00:52:48.160 I think you should just leave.

00:52:50.560 Are you saying?

00:52:51.440 Hold on.

00:52:52.720 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:52:53.780 Hold on.

00:52:54.040 Maybe your mental illness is by him.

00:52:55.940 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

00:52:57.200 Are you saying you need to taper off your toxic, abusive ex?

00:53:02.500 Are you saying you're trying to taper?

00:53:04.600 It's easy.

00:53:05.260 Just delete this contact forever.

00:53:07.380 I think everybody like deals with it differently, you know?

00:53:09.740 I'm out.

00:53:10.500 Just delete the contact.

00:53:11.580 I do think that a lot of people deal with it differently.

00:53:13.840 Like this is definitely not the first time that I've heard about a situation like this.

00:53:17.100 Did I actually send the nuke?

00:53:18.160 You did.

00:53:18.460 Yeah, you did.

00:53:19.060 And like I said earlier, like it's really hard to leave a toxic relationship.

00:53:23.420 And a lot of people don't know because they're not in one.

00:53:26.300 Yeah.

00:53:26.400 And you never know how it feels.

00:53:28.480 Exactly.

00:53:28.820 Like how hard it is to actually leave.

00:53:30.440 I didn't know.

00:53:31.000 Like before I was like, you know what?

00:53:32.100 Because you're kind of like attached, right?

00:53:34.020 Yeah.

00:53:34.200 You're emotionally attached.

00:53:34.860 Of course.

00:53:35.340 Yeah.

00:53:35.600 Like trauma bonding is like, I feel like it's real and like it's hard.

00:53:38.900 It's really, really hard.

00:53:39.900 It's like ask a drug addict.

00:53:41.820 Like it's really hard to get off of that.

00:53:43.940 Like how.

00:53:44.380 Wait.

00:53:45.620 So, okay.

00:53:46.260 You mentioned that he threw some makeup out of the window.

00:53:49.800 Oh, you want to know why?

00:53:51.260 Well, hold on.

00:53:51.700 You said he threw the makeup out the window and he, did he break your phone or he just,

00:53:55.820 what did he do to your phone?

00:53:57.520 He smashed it on the ground?

00:53:58.860 Yeah.

00:53:59.120 So basically like he got.

00:54:00.120 I don't need to know the backstory.

00:54:01.340 I'm just asking like he did it.

00:54:03.040 Are those the only two things he did or was there more?

00:54:06.160 There's other shit?

00:54:06.840 Yeah.

00:54:07.180 Did he hit you?

00:54:09.000 No.

00:54:09.360 Okay.

00:54:10.280 So it was just like throwing things, breaking property, but he never laid hands on you.

00:54:14.280 I think verbal was like one of like, for me, verbal is, you know, that's worse than

00:54:20.320 like physical abuse.

00:54:21.320 You know, like I feel like, cause it's like, it's like, you know, psychology wise, like

00:54:26.080 that's harder, you know?

00:54:28.060 Like, um, I don't think anybody should go through this and that's why I like, I kind

00:54:31.780 of like, like talking about it.

00:54:33.260 So people know that it's not okay.

00:54:35.660 Um, when people insult you with your insecurities, like if someone like, what's an example of

00:54:40.300 something he would say or something?

00:54:44.420 No.

00:54:45.140 Um, he would attack like insecurities of mine that I like, um, told them to protect, you

00:54:49.660 know, like to protect my feelings.

00:54:50.560 Cause I was one to vote to him, you know?

00:54:52.100 Like for example, like, Oh, nobody's going to like you because you do this and this and

00:54:55.680 that.

00:54:55.880 Um, like things that like, obviously he knows that I'm insecure about what do you do?

00:55:00.020 Um, like for example, like you play, you collect Pokemon cards.

00:55:03.920 That's cool.

00:55:04.400 I don't know.

00:55:04.700 Something like that.

00:55:05.200 Yeah.

00:55:05.560 I wouldn't mind that.

00:55:06.820 Just saying.

00:55:08.320 Just, just stuff like that.

00:55:09.480 Oh, like, um, Oh, I'm going to go and what did he say one time?

00:55:15.260 He's like, Oh, like, I'm not going to, um, next girl that I'm going to get, she's going

00:55:20.320 to have a big ass and stuff like that, you know?

00:55:22.540 Cause he knows I'm insecure about my body, you know?

00:55:24.360 Like, you know, my whole life they call me skinny and stuff like that.

00:55:27.220 That's like, no, he's not a good man.

00:55:29.240 That's bad.

00:55:30.560 This is like, he's like an enemy.

00:55:32.340 Yeah.

00:55:32.760 That's like an enemy as your guy.

00:55:34.700 Yeah.

00:55:34.880 It's like, I don't think, you know, nobody should deal with that.

00:55:38.320 Like people insult you with your insecurities.

00:55:40.040 Yeah.

00:55:40.320 He's not, he's not the one to protect, you know, that's what a man should do.

00:55:43.740 Like, you know, like be there to like protect, protect, you know, it's a protector.

00:55:48.220 Are there any other examples of anything he said that was insensitive or mean?

00:55:52.920 Yeah.

00:55:53.040 Whenever he doesn't get his way, he's like slut ho, like just like kind of like insulting

00:55:58.960 me.

00:55:59.400 And I'm like, so what makes you still want to hang out with him then?

00:56:01.800 I think convenience.

00:56:03.940 No, that shouldn't be the answer.

00:56:05.760 Oh, well like, you know, like convenience just cause like he's there and you know that

00:56:09.820 he'll answer.

00:56:10.580 Yeah.

00:56:10.800 Like, do you feel like you're still getting, it's almost like negative attention from him

00:56:14.800 then?

00:56:15.160 Like, even if he's saying something that you do want to hear, but you know that he's bad.

00:56:19.060 It's not even about that.

00:56:20.560 It's about like, cause when I came to LA, he was the one that was there for me the whole

00:56:26.240 time.

00:56:26.580 And nobody, obviously I didn't know anybody in LA.

00:56:29.540 Um, and then that kind of, you know, kind of gives that bond of like, oh, like he's been

00:56:33.700 there for me this whole time.

00:56:34.880 Um, it was, so you're dependent on him.

00:56:37.160 You moved from where?

00:56:38.080 Yeah.

00:56:38.280 Where did you move from?

00:56:38.960 San Diego was like two hours and a half.

00:56:41.100 Okay.

00:56:41.840 Um, and you said he drove you here.

00:56:44.420 So two hour drive from LA.

00:56:46.140 Yeah.

00:56:47.260 You think he's watching the show right now?

00:56:48.960 No.

00:56:49.760 You sure about that?

00:56:50.340 He's 33.

00:56:51.240 Like who?

00:56:51.940 Oh, he's.

00:56:53.160 And he's not.

00:56:53.800 I'm 34.

00:56:55.220 He's 11 years older than me.

00:56:56.460 And you know what?

00:56:57.680 Well, no, I wouldn't.

00:56:58.180 Yeah.

00:56:58.700 No, would you?

00:56:59.400 Would you throw people's makeup bags?

00:57:00.880 No.

00:57:01.420 I don't think he's like a fetish and you just don't know this.

00:57:04.100 He kind of just, I guess, picks on you because he's older.

00:57:08.540 Do you think that could be like you?

00:57:09.560 I think it's because he's insecure.

00:57:10.980 Like a lot of men that, or just women in general, when they're feeling insecure, I feel like

00:57:14.480 they attack you because, you know, they feel like they're not good enough.

00:57:17.700 You know, like maybe he feels like he's 33 and he, he's not where he wants to be in

00:57:21.100 life.

00:57:21.600 And that's why he insults me because he sees that.

00:57:24.320 He's insecure.

00:57:25.260 Yeah.

00:57:25.560 He's an insecure man.

00:57:26.980 God.

00:57:27.420 Boy.

00:57:27.820 I mean, like what he's doing is a hundred percent wrong, but I was almost anticipating this would

00:57:33.280 be like a younger guy, like it seems like kind of an immature thing, like very, but

00:57:37.820 I feel like, okay, well, uh, if he is watching this show, that's going to be an awkward ass

00:57:45.400 fucking two hour drive back to LA.

00:57:47.080 That's all I'm going to say.

00:57:48.780 Um, I don't care to be honest at this point.

00:57:50.500 You, like you guys are, I'm about to make a podcast just to like say all this stuff

00:57:56.040 that you eventually want to kind of just like cut ties with him.

00:57:59.620 Yeah, of course.

00:58:00.160 When, when is that weaning?

00:58:01.300 Cause you're right now you're like weaning off, right?

00:58:02.860 You're hanging out only twice a week.

00:58:04.120 When do you have that?

00:58:05.920 I don't want to, I want to stop seeing him now.

00:58:08.680 Well, hold on.

00:58:09.840 The tape, the taper thing was this like a methadone clinic.

00:58:13.780 You got to fucking, okay, I'm going to go from four days a week to three days a week to

00:58:18.160 two days a week.

00:58:19.020 That kind of helps me.

00:58:20.440 It does help.

00:58:21.060 It helps you.

00:58:21.580 Yeah.

00:58:21.860 Babe, I just broke up with you, but can you please still be my support while going through

00:58:26.380 the breakup that I was like, obviously I relapse, you know, like I, it's hard.

00:58:30.140 It's like an on and off situation.

00:58:31.400 Sorry, Morgan, go ahead.

00:58:32.460 This is why you have, I said.

00:58:34.800 Okay, go ahead, Elizabeth.

00:58:36.000 Go ahead.

00:58:36.220 This is why she has her, she needs a therapist, right?

00:58:39.920 Cause she has mental illnesses because of this guy.

00:58:42.760 You need the whatever podcast.

00:58:44.800 The whatever pod, I am your new therapist.

00:58:47.280 Okay.

00:58:48.000 You want her to vent this out to everybody?

00:58:50.560 How much does your therapist charge you?

00:58:51.720 Zero because I have insurance.

00:58:53.180 Oh, insurance.

00:58:54.020 Insurance.

00:58:54.580 Okay.

00:58:57.560 I guess you just have to appear on the whatever podcast more.

00:59:00.380 Once a week.

00:59:01.100 I want an update and you have to come back in two weeks.

00:59:04.380 We're going to, we're going to do sit down.

00:59:06.020 I'll get a couch for you so you can lay down.

00:59:08.660 And okay.

00:59:11.020 Morgan, you had something there before I had to make the method.

00:59:13.540 I just want to know, like, okay, you're, you're weaning off.

00:59:17.080 When do you, in your mind want to be like, all right, now we're done.

00:59:21.280 Because I feel like you're just instigating not only his own feelings of, you know, maybe

00:59:24.860 we'll get back together if he does want to get back together with you, but also your

00:59:27.980 own feelings of you're not actually going to be able to work past him if you're still

00:59:30.940 seeing him.

00:59:31.700 So when is that like timeframe of like, okay, it's been two months.

00:59:34.980 Yeah.

00:59:35.320 I, you know, I don't know.

00:59:37.220 Like, obviously, like, I hope that if I work with a therapist or like, I know I have support

00:59:41.480 with my friends, but you know, it's not the same.

00:59:43.820 It's not the same when you're your friends, your friends are not going to be there all

00:59:45.980 the time.

00:59:49.540 It's just, I don't know.

00:59:50.380 It's just so hard what I obviously been through, but at the same time, it's like when nobody's

00:59:56.680 there, like obviously he's there, you know, I understand that that's not okay.

01:00:01.220 But I feel like now that I'm working on myself now, like I'm working myself more than I have,

01:00:06.440 you know, progress, you know, I'm going to the gym.

01:00:08.720 I try to go every day.

01:00:09.960 You know, I try to write things down.

01:00:13.920 Like there's like a little later on, you have to learn how to like, not depend on him.

01:00:17.820 Of course.

01:00:18.320 Yeah.

01:00:18.820 Yeah.

01:00:19.060 Like, I feel like I'm going to get there.

01:00:20.560 It's just like, for me, it's a lot of patience.

01:00:22.960 I see.

01:00:23.680 You know, I'm going to do a poll in the YouTube chat and the poll is going to ask, does she

01:00:29.680 get back with her toxic ex?

01:00:34.520 Hold on guys.

01:00:35.380 The poll's coming up.

01:00:36.100 Does she get back with her toxic ex-boyfriend?

01:00:39.820 Why can't we see the comments?

01:00:43.520 We used to see it.

01:00:44.500 So it doesn't distract people.

01:00:46.100 Okay.

01:00:46.540 That's fine.

01:00:47.340 What are they saying?

01:00:48.100 Does she get back with her?

01:00:49.260 I know.

01:00:49.660 What do you guys see?

01:00:50.100 Poll sent.

01:00:50.780 It should be getting up there in a sec.

01:00:52.060 Um, I don't know if I've been this befuddled, but I just don't understand why you don't

01:01:01.140 leave.

01:01:01.400 Cause like, if you look at every relationship, even if the guy is in control, if a woman decides

01:01:06.040 to leave, she can leave and the guy can chase and chase and chase, but women hold the control,

01:01:10.320 whether it's, you want to sleep with a guy, you're the one that says no or yes.

01:01:13.680 You know, if you want to date the guy, you're the one that says no or yes.

01:01:16.680 The guy is courting you and going after you.

01:01:18.700 So really women do have the control in that situation.

01:01:21.660 So she's addicted.

01:01:23.080 I encourage you to, she's got a taper.

01:01:27.280 That's why she needs a therapist.

01:01:29.120 You want me to, she can't function by herself.

01:01:30.700 I'm her therapist.

01:01:31.200 I am your therapist.

01:01:32.060 She can't function by herself.

01:01:33.140 You need to tune in every Sunday and Tuesday, 5 PM.

01:01:36.500 She needs to learn how to be able to function by yourself.

01:01:38.420 To be a strong, independent woman, you have to know how to function by yourself.

01:01:42.520 I encourage you to go out, find some new friends, you know, find some new guy friends.

01:01:47.240 Yes, Brian.

01:01:48.320 Elizabeth.

01:01:49.060 Yes, Brian.

01:01:49.860 And that's okay.

01:01:50.300 You know, everybody functions differently.

01:01:51.740 You know, like you could be so independent.

01:01:53.340 I'm really proud of that, but I can't, you know, like she needs some help.

01:01:56.400 Yeah.

01:01:56.700 You know, like you can't, you can, you have the capacity to be independent.

01:02:01.020 And I think women also need to be independent with themselves before going into relationships.

01:02:05.180 And a man also has to be mature and independent with himself.

01:02:08.100 So when you come together, you actually make a good harmonious unit.

01:02:11.440 Of course.

01:02:11.580 It's like a teamwork.

01:02:12.280 You know, it's a team.

01:02:13.620 Okay.

01:02:14.100 I have a question for you.

01:02:15.040 So you've listed a couple of things about your boyfriend kind of being toxic, doing some

01:02:20.220 very unbecoming things.

01:02:24.060 If you had to say, what is, what are one, two, or even three things that you did wrong

01:02:29.640 in the relationship?

01:02:31.220 If anything.

01:02:32.640 I think what I did wrong is not give him enough space to him being independent and like just

01:02:38.140 doing his own thing as an adult.

01:02:40.240 Like, for example, like I too clingy like that.

01:02:43.460 Super needy.

01:02:44.280 Yeah.

01:02:44.620 I think just like give him like space.

01:02:46.900 So for example, I told him to live with me for three months rent free for him to save

01:02:51.800 up for his car.

01:02:52.380 Because he didn't have a car.

01:02:55.180 And he doesn't have a car.

01:02:57.940 He's a grown man.

01:02:58.760 I know.

01:02:59.380 At 33 he doesn't have a car.

01:03:00.580 And I think that's part of the mistake that I made.

01:03:01.680 I don't.

01:03:02.300 Wait, hold on.

01:03:02.840 You're 20.

01:03:03.220 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:03:04.460 You're 22.

01:03:05.220 Yes.

01:03:05.460 So you were, were you 21, 20 when he moved in with you?

01:03:08.240 How old were you?

01:03:08.660 I was 21.

01:03:09.620 You're 21.

01:03:11.300 We started getting at.

01:03:12.140 A 32, 32 year old man moved in with you at 21.

01:03:16.460 Brandon Mills donated $99.

01:03:19.020 He'll replace the toxic ex.

01:03:21.620 Brian, talk about how I saved you from that house fire.

01:03:24.840 So that's Brandon Mills.

01:03:26.860 He is a Bitcoin millionaire.

01:03:29.640 He's been on the podcast before.

01:03:31.680 He likes petite Latino.

01:03:33.920 Are you Latina?

01:03:34.680 Yes.

01:03:35.000 I speak Spanish.

01:03:36.200 Can we hear something?

01:03:37.860 Mi mama's a Durango and mi papa is a Tijuana.

01:03:40.860 Ooh, that was hot.

01:03:41.840 Ooh.

01:03:42.360 Thanks.

01:03:42.900 If only Elizabeth spoke Vietnamese.

01:03:45.200 So he likes petite Latina women.

01:03:50.120 Maybe if, you know.

01:03:51.320 I don't date crypto guys though.

01:03:52.900 You don't date crypto guys?

01:03:54.080 I mean, it depends.

01:03:55.640 She has a personal type.

01:03:57.100 She has a type.

01:03:57.980 But you date guys who break your shit.

01:03:59.060 It's just a whole thing.

01:03:59.920 I actually had a situation ship with a crypto guy that was 23 years old before.

01:04:03.940 So I broke up with my boyfriend and I had a situation ship.

01:04:08.120 It's a lot.

01:04:09.280 Wow.

01:04:09.780 It's a lot.

01:04:09.960 Yo, your life is a mess.

01:04:11.280 I know.

01:04:11.720 You need to fix you.

01:04:12.600 I know.

01:04:13.200 You need to fix you.

01:04:13.980 I'm here for this.

01:04:14.760 So basically like a project.

01:04:16.820 Wait, wait, hold on.

01:04:17.280 $99.

01:04:18.600 You're strong and independent.

01:04:21.360 Congratulations.

01:04:22.400 You're still basic.

01:04:23.360 Oh, wow.

01:04:23.800 That doesn't make you any more attractive just like women do not like Mr. Nice Guy.

01:04:29.120 Is this to Elizabeth?

01:04:30.260 Is that to her?

01:04:30.800 Because Elizabeth said she's strong and independent.

01:04:33.620 Hi, sir.

01:04:34.060 Yeah.

01:04:36.020 Wait, what's the question?

01:04:37.740 There is no question.

01:04:38.740 I think it's no question.

01:04:40.460 I personally like nice guys.

01:04:44.440 That's all.

01:04:45.020 It's just my preference.

01:04:45.740 Nice guys with 11 million followers on TikTok and 1.5 million followers on Instagram that

01:04:49.940 live in Germany and are definitely, definitely not loyal to you and sleeping with other men.

01:04:53.900 Or excuse me.

01:04:54.480 Hold on.

01:04:55.020 No, that's her.

01:04:55.920 That's her.

01:04:56.280 That's her.

01:04:56.580 That's her.

01:04:56.820 My bad.

01:04:57.760 Sleeping with other women.

01:04:58.800 Hey.

01:04:59.120 That's you.

01:05:00.060 Okay.

01:05:00.080 You are a hater, Thompson.

01:05:01.520 You know what?

01:05:01.980 She has Ryan.

01:05:02.560 I'm just looking out for you, Elizabeth.

01:05:04.520 We're fucking homies.

01:05:06.020 I mean, she hasn't dated anybody yet.

01:05:07.420 We're homies.

01:05:07.520 Yes, I haven't dated anybody.

01:05:09.260 Remember, I'm still a virgin?

01:05:10.920 I'm a virgin.

01:05:12.080 Yes, guys.

01:05:13.020 That's okay.

01:05:13.740 Cap.

01:05:14.100 Queen.

01:05:14.520 I call Cap.

01:05:14.840 You haven't tied into any other guy in your entire life.

01:05:17.120 Elizabeth, your parents are watching.

01:05:18.760 That's why you're saying you're a virgin.

01:05:20.640 Just be honest.

01:05:21.140 You just don't understand because the thing is, my parents, like I said, I think my mom,

01:05:26.540 when she met her dad, they were virgins.

01:05:28.040 I mean, she was a virgin.

01:05:29.640 Yeah.

01:05:29.940 So this is why I'm still keeping strong to my religion.

01:05:32.400 That's fine.

01:05:32.720 Yeah.

01:05:33.120 Religion.

01:05:33.600 That's good.

01:05:33.760 As you should.

01:05:34.380 And this is why I only see one guy as like, you know what I mean?

01:05:37.820 One guy as in your soulmate to remember I mentioned that last time.

01:05:41.360 Yeah.

01:05:41.940 Did you ever date an ice skater dude or are they all gay?

01:05:46.480 Is that wrong?

01:05:47.420 That's actually a thing.

01:05:48.620 Most guys are gay when you're a skater dancer.

01:05:49.260 I think they are.

01:05:49.920 I've heard a lot of ice skaters are gay.

01:05:52.320 Yeah.

01:05:53.700 I noticed guys, they have a crush on me, but like I said, I don't give them attention.

01:05:58.460 Is this the first guy you've ever like talked to in your entire life?

01:06:02.640 That have interest?

01:06:03.460 That you have interest in?

01:06:05.980 Yeah.

01:06:06.260 Okay.

01:06:06.460 Because it's so, I mentioned too last time, it's very easy for me to friend zone people

01:06:10.540 because I don't see that initial connection right away.

01:06:13.080 Or there's something that bothers me to make, to decide for them to be a friend.

01:06:18.280 Wait, hold on.

01:06:18.780 Nick, can you pull up the pop-up chat and put it over to the window tab and pull up the

01:06:24.320 Twitch too?

01:06:25.300 We'll show it and then I'll pull it up, show it on the Twitch tab.

01:06:28.440 So pull up the Twitch tab and then we'll pull up the Twitch tab.

01:06:31.180 We'll show the results of the poll, which we took about, is she going to get back?

01:06:37.140 Dang it.

01:06:37.920 I hate Twitch people.

01:06:39.020 Wait, what do you...

01:06:39.760 Just kidding.

01:06:40.040 I love them.

01:06:40.580 I love you.

01:06:41.840 They're going to say...

01:06:43.020 You got the Twitch?

01:06:43.980 Why am I going to guess?

01:06:44.860 They're going to say yes.

01:06:46.060 So here are the results.

01:06:47.220 Can you click on the yes?

01:06:48.640 Wait, did they say yes?

01:06:49.760 They said yes to get back to them?

01:06:51.040 Oh, no.

01:06:52.140 Does she get back with her toxic ex-boyfriend?

01:06:54.360 They're just throwing.

01:06:56.980 Yes.

01:06:58.560 66%.

01:06:58.960 Wow.

01:06:59.700 Nick, you can hide that.

01:07:01.000 34% no.

01:07:02.480 You can move that over.

01:07:03.340 Let me shout out the Twitch people really quick.

01:07:05.000 They're saying freaking...

01:07:06.500 Yeah.

01:07:06.880 Yo, Mac, Zach, think for the 10 community subs or the gifted...

01:07:10.580 Well, yeah.

01:07:12.260 69 Francine, think for the Prime.

01:07:14.220 Mad Teabagger, think for the Tier 1.

01:07:15.780 Blaze, think for the Prime.

01:07:17.400 Fetty, think for the Prime.

01:07:18.400 Killer X, think for the Prime.

01:07:19.900 BZ, think for the...

01:07:21.020 Or gifted Tier 1.

01:07:22.320 Appreciate it.

01:07:24.120 That's the results.

01:07:25.020 They think you're going to get back together with your toxic ex-boyfriend who moved in.

01:07:28.400 Wait, okay.

01:07:28.940 I think before...

01:07:29.380 It sounds like there's toxic men in the chat.

01:07:31.660 There's a lot of toxic men in the chat.

01:07:33.860 With experience.

01:07:34.800 Yes, there is.

01:07:35.560 Wait, so your boyfriend moved...

01:07:40.420 At the time, he was 32.

01:07:42.040 Moved in with you at your place at 21.

01:07:44.600 Yeah.

01:07:44.860 And rent-free for three months?

01:07:46.920 Yeah, because his car...

01:07:47.740 What a Chad.

01:07:48.420 What a fucking legend.

01:07:49.540 Because his car stopped working.

01:07:53.740 Can I move in with you?

01:07:55.260 My car's not working.

01:07:56.180 Not anymore.

01:07:56.840 Wait, not anymore?

01:07:57.760 What?

01:07:57.980 Why not?

01:07:58.320 A year ago, maybe.

01:07:59.480 Oh, you've grown.

01:08:01.140 I've grown.

01:08:01.820 Okay.

01:08:02.900 You know, I let him for three months and he didn't save money at all.

01:08:07.520 Like, he didn't buy a car until, like, this year.

01:08:09.220 Does he play video games?

01:08:10.460 No.

01:08:10.820 What's he do?

01:08:11.700 I don't know what his occupations are.

01:08:12.960 Does he wear him out?

01:08:14.400 I don't know.

01:08:14.940 Just bear him out.

01:08:15.780 What's his job?

01:08:16.220 You're going to leave him anyways.

01:08:17.320 Just bear him out.

01:08:18.400 Get ready for the buttons, okay?

01:08:19.600 Okay, I'm ready for the buttons.

01:08:20.960 He wants to be an actor and he's a server.

01:08:23.900 That's pretty normal in LA.

01:08:25.320 He's a server.

01:08:25.720 Sounds about right.

01:08:26.860 Pad 33.

01:08:28.040 It's very unstable.

01:08:28.960 At, like, a good restaurant?

01:08:29.720 Yeah.

01:08:29.960 Like, where you can make a lot of money from it, though?

01:08:31.960 Okay.

01:08:32.320 I mean, he's been working in that, like, for two years.

01:08:34.000 That's normal for LA.

01:08:35.080 It's normal, but, like, the fact that, like, he told me, like, not to do some stuff and

01:08:39.740 I'm like, okay, then get a better job if you don't want me to, like.

01:08:41.780 Wait, get a what?

01:08:43.240 Get a better job.

01:08:43.980 Like, he told me, like, oh, like, you shouldn't, like, do this, blah, blah, blah.

01:08:46.620 And I'm like, okay, then get a better job for me not to do that.

01:08:50.520 What was he asking you not to do?

01:08:54.380 Like, content on the internet, you know what I'm saying?

01:08:57.340 Yeah.

01:08:57.820 Yeah.

01:08:58.220 Hmm.

01:08:58.960 I was like, okay, then pay my bills.

01:09:01.060 Then, like, are we supposed to?

01:09:02.580 Does he support?

01:09:03.980 Or?

01:09:04.640 Did he pay for, like, any of your stuff?

01:09:06.660 Groceries?

01:09:07.100 Like, help with any?

01:09:08.240 Yeah, he did pay for groceries, but I feel like, for me, like, it wasn't enough.

01:09:11.820 Like, I was struggling and I feel like, you know, I was struggling a year ago.

01:09:16.620 A year ago, I'm not where I am now.

01:09:19.500 And he didn't really do anything to actually better his life.

01:09:23.400 He's still in the same position and I'm not.

01:09:24.980 You know, I better myself.

01:09:26.020 I try to have a better job.

01:09:27.720 I have, you know, a better job now than I had a year ago.

01:09:30.740 And he's still kind of in the same position of, like, you know, right now he lives at

01:09:34.660 his dad's house to save money.

01:09:37.260 I feel like someone like that is just kind of, like, holding you back, you know?

01:09:39.440 Yeah.

01:09:39.720 Like, you obviously, you know you have the potential to get a better job, focus on yourself,

01:09:44.020 get a better life than you did have, like, what did you say, a year or two ago?

01:09:48.160 Yeah.

01:09:48.380 Like, you know you have the potential to do that.

01:09:50.140 I feel like he's just holding you back.

01:09:52.220 Because he's been the same person he has for the entire time that he's known you.

01:09:55.780 He hasn't tried to better himself at all.

01:09:57.820 And that works to the detriment of you.

01:10:00.680 From the beginning, what actually attracted you to him?

01:10:02.820 Because it sounds like, yeah, like Maddie said, like, he's had, like, a track record

01:10:06.020 from, you know, a year ago.

01:10:07.540 Okay, he moved into you rent, with you rent free.

01:10:09.960 And now, you know, the toxicity got worse.

01:10:12.700 So what actually made you want to stay with him, like, three months in?

01:10:15.560 You know?

01:10:15.780 Because I feel like us women, you know, we have our boxes, our checklist boxes when we're

01:10:19.660 looking at a partner.

01:10:20.560 Okay, what qualities do you have that I want?

01:10:22.500 And what qualities do I have that they want?

01:10:24.400 What red flags were you really missing from the job?

01:10:29.020 Well, we met as a, we did a commercial together.

01:10:31.520 We met there.

01:10:32.940 We really had the vibes of, like, you know, like, the humor and stuff like that.

01:10:36.660 Like, you know, in the beginning.

01:10:37.660 Oh, I see.

01:10:37.920 You know, we went on first date.

01:10:39.460 We really got along with what we did, you know, because we were both actors.

01:10:42.720 Just, you know, it was cool to, like, have somebody, like, to relate to and everything

01:10:46.640 like that.

01:10:47.200 Totally.

01:10:48.160 I think I was just blind.

01:10:49.340 You know, love is blind.

01:10:50.160 You know, like, it really gives you.

01:10:52.140 I think so.

01:10:53.460 Yeah, because.

01:10:54.140 Yes.

01:10:54.680 From experience.

01:10:55.660 Yeah.

01:10:56.060 You know, like.

01:10:56.900 Brian looked like that.

01:10:58.380 I mean, especially when you're first meeting someone, you don't really know who they are

01:11:02.080 when you're first meeting someone.

01:11:03.420 Even in, like, you can get into a relationship with someone.

01:11:05.840 It'll be good for a year.

01:11:07.240 A year after that.

01:11:08.240 Like, there's true colors.

01:11:09.680 All right, Brian.

01:11:10.480 What's your relationship status?

01:11:11.760 Let's see.

01:11:12.340 Single.

01:11:12.720 We need to go to Morgan and then we'll go to Madison.

01:11:17.400 I am single.

01:11:18.840 I've been single for six months.

01:11:21.720 Just kidding.

01:11:22.320 I'm kidding.

01:11:23.340 I'm kidding.

01:11:23.820 What?

01:11:24.380 I'm kidding.

01:11:24.860 Why did you do me like that?

01:11:25.640 Don't worry.

01:11:26.240 Don't worry.

01:11:26.720 Don't worry.

01:11:26.960 I've been in a couple of relationships, but, yeah, I've been single for six months.

01:11:31.340 So, my relationship before that was a couple of months.

01:11:33.800 And that was my first, I would say, like, grown-up relationship.

01:11:37.800 Like, waiting until marriage, you know, practicing just religion is, like, really important to me.

01:11:43.820 And then my longest relationship has been six months.

01:11:47.180 Okay.

01:11:47.980 Are you purposely single right now?

01:11:50.400 Yes, actually.

01:11:51.560 Purposefully single.

01:11:52.220 Like, I've been asked to go on dates, but I've respectfully declined because I'm right now focusing on my relationship with God, which that's really important to me.

01:12:00.900 And I want to be, like, I want to be whole, you know, have my reading down, my journaling down, be in the Word, and be 100%, like, plugged in.

01:12:09.580 I'm serving at my church and stuff like that before I can, you know, fully do that, which, I mean, I plan to be in a relationship, right, in, like, a year.

01:12:17.800 I think it just comes to you.

01:12:18.880 I feel like, you know, somebody's going to come to you.

01:12:20.600 You don't have to look for somebody.

01:12:22.060 Right.

01:12:22.620 Yeah, it'll come naturally.

01:12:24.260 That's what I believe.

01:12:25.040 Like, not actively searching.

01:12:26.300 I mean, you don't need a search.

01:12:27.300 You don't need a tie or something.

01:12:28.380 Right, but if a guy says to me, and I feel like it's right, then I'll go on a date, yeah.

01:12:32.200 Okay.

01:12:33.360 Can you repeat what you said, though?

01:12:35.200 Just now?

01:12:35.800 A guy will just come to you?

01:12:38.360 Can a guy think the same thing?

01:12:40.540 Yeah.

01:12:40.760 That a girl will just come to him?

01:12:42.520 A girl will just come?

01:12:43.720 No.

01:12:44.160 No, no, no, no.

01:12:44.380 It doesn't work that way for men.

01:12:45.320 Well, it's not even about that.

01:12:46.520 Like, physically?

01:12:46.920 Wait, what would you like?

01:12:47.600 Oh, well, yeah, men have to work on themselves to attract women.

01:12:50.060 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

01:12:51.620 What, guys, one mic at a time, please.

01:12:54.000 Well, the guys have to initiate, generally speaking.

01:12:56.740 So, like, a guy can't just be like, a girl will come to me.

01:13:01.040 No.

01:13:01.740 I mean, it could happen.

01:13:02.800 I don't think a girl probably does.

01:13:04.940 That's how it, you know, for me.

01:13:06.040 I think the guy definitely searches more than the girl.

01:13:08.140 Definitely.

01:13:08.700 It depends.

01:13:09.060 Well, because the guy will have to ask the girl on a date, take her out, and whatnot.

01:13:12.760 But I think for women, it's honestly, in a sense, easier.

01:13:15.700 Because, again, we have the power.

01:13:17.140 We can say no.

01:13:17.660 We can say yes.

01:13:18.260 But also, when it gets to the point where I'm like, you know, I'll probably be in a

01:13:22.020 relationship in the next year, is my thinking.

01:13:23.860 Oh, wait, hold on.

01:13:24.400 I got to, hold on.

01:13:25.280 I'm sorry.

01:13:25.640 I got to read this before it disappears.

01:13:27.000 Yo, boss, man, thank you for the 80s.

01:13:28.120 Sorry about girls flaking, Brian.

01:13:29.260 It's in their nature.

01:13:30.320 Is the real Nat still coming on?

01:13:31.500 I'm sure you could bring girls to the show, too.

01:13:35.080 Again, first off, thank you for the donation.

01:13:38.080 Yeah, I mean, flaking happens.

01:13:39.760 I mean, it's unfortunate because it wasn't just flaking.

01:13:42.020 It was no show.

01:13:43.240 So flaking would be the day before, hey, sorry, can't make it.

01:13:46.300 Even the day of, sorry, I can't make it.

01:13:48.480 No show is, I checked in with them the night before, we're going to be there.

01:13:53.380 And then, no communication.

01:13:56.240 No, hey, we're not going to make it, just not showing up.

01:13:59.220 Which is super rude because I don't like, if someone flakes in under 24 hours, I don't

01:14:04.760 like that either because it's hard to get people last minute.

01:14:06.820 But at least they let me know.

01:14:08.560 But if someone just no shows, they're basically just locking in three seats.

01:14:13.180 That it's going to be very hard to fill.

01:14:15.400 So, yeah, as far as real Nat, I'm sure he could bring girls on the show, too.

01:14:20.540 So I've had some really bad experiences with guys who are like, oh, give me, because we

01:14:25.680 get 100 guys a week wanting to be on the show.

01:14:27.920 And they're like, oh, well, one of the things we used to do is like, can you bring some girls?

01:14:32.720 And we've done that.

01:14:33.720 And then the guys talk a big game.

01:14:35.360 Yeah, I'll bring five chicks, whatever.

01:14:36.680 And then they fucking, they're dog shit.

01:14:38.900 They can't fucking lock down the chicks.

01:14:42.820 And we had one dude.

01:14:45.760 There's lag.

01:14:46.760 That's one person.

01:14:49.120 Was there more people?

01:14:52.700 What the fuck, bro?

01:14:54.980 Yo, chat.

01:14:55.780 Hold on.

01:14:56.100 Did it just start, guys?

01:14:57.420 Did the lag just start?

01:14:58.460 It did just start.

01:15:00.000 I think it just started.

01:15:03.540 Hold on.

01:15:04.100 Let me look at it on my end.

01:15:06.220 Okay, can someone explain to me what 304s mean?

01:15:09.080 304 means poker.

01:15:10.240 It's an area code.

01:15:11.420 Area code.

01:15:12.260 Don't worry about it.

01:15:13.220 Okay.

01:15:14.560 Sorry, guys.

01:15:15.300 Hold on.

01:15:15.700 Let me.

01:15:16.280 But no, we invited, we've invited, there was this dude who came on an episode and he

01:15:21.060 was like, he literally took up the entire booking.

01:15:23.740 He booked seven girls and he showed up with like two.

01:15:27.640 Oh, my God.

01:15:28.440 Or sorry, three, which like fucked up.

01:15:30.380 So I'm never booking dudes with chicks again.

01:15:32.620 It's never happening.

01:15:34.180 No lag.

01:15:34.720 No lag for me.

01:15:36.120 You want to, and also we, oh, the other thing when it comes to guys, look, I know a lot,

01:15:40.720 maybe some of you watching have reached out wanting to be on the show.

01:15:43.940 The reality is, guys, is we've given a lot of normal guys the opportunity to be on the

01:15:50.080 show, even some normal women to be on the show.

01:15:52.280 Well, it's different with the women, but, and a lot of guys are like, oh, let me be on

01:15:57.180 the show.

01:15:57.720 I'll, you know, I'm really good.

01:15:59.640 Like, I'll, I'm really entertaining.

01:16:01.960 And they come on the show and they're sitting in front of 3000 people.

01:16:05.420 There's four cameras, there's lights.

01:16:07.080 They're sitting across from people who probably disagree with them and they fucking choke.

01:16:11.080 They sit there.

01:16:12.180 They don't say shit.

01:16:13.580 They don't, they detract from the conversation.

01:16:15.600 It's a dead seat.

01:16:17.380 So as when it comes to the guys, so I'm getting fucking worked up because I'm like, I've had

01:16:21.880 a, the guys are not good.

01:16:23.220 No, like Ryan's tried.

01:16:25.080 They don't know how to talk.

01:16:26.280 They, they, they eat up a seat.

01:16:27.660 They, they talk a big game.

01:16:29.320 And then when it comes down to the being on the show, they fucking choke and they waste

01:16:34.160 a seat and they sit there fucking nodding their fucking head.

01:16:37.180 So I'm very skeptical.

01:16:38.840 You are very mad.

01:16:40.020 No, I don't know why it just triggered me.

01:16:42.280 But like.

01:16:42.720 Beta males is what they are.

01:16:44.000 No, it's not, it's not even that.

01:16:45.800 It's just like, it's very easy from the comfort behind your screen to be like, oh, I would,

01:16:51.940 I'm such a good debater.

01:16:53.200 I'm such a good arguer.

01:16:54.420 But in the moment, in person, it's a lot harder.

01:16:59.220 Don't call me out like that.

01:17:01.520 Yo, Brandon, I'm going to be honest.

01:17:02.720 Like, I'm not going to lie, dude.

01:17:03.960 You didn't say much during your appearance, but I appreciate your support, man.

01:17:08.380 But, and then listen, Brandon, there's, there were a lot of guys who been on the show.

01:17:13.320 It's not just, it wasn't just you.

01:17:15.380 I'm not trying to call you out, but like, it has been our experience when we invite dudes

01:17:19.420 on, they fucking choke.

01:17:21.560 That's why, like, I'm very, very picky with the guys we invite on.

01:17:25.520 Typically they have to like have some proven track record of public speaking, content creation,

01:17:30.860 doing something with public speaking, because again, a lot of guys, it's, I was this way

01:17:38.440 too.

01:17:38.900 Like, it's very easy from the comfort of your home, watching the stream.

01:17:42.920 Oh, I would respond to, I would say this when they say this.

01:17:45.820 And trust me, guys, it ain't like that.

01:17:48.180 It ain't like that.

01:17:49.040 It's different.

01:17:50.200 Okay.

01:17:50.680 So anyways, moving on.

01:17:52.100 Appreciate your super chat there.

01:17:53.520 Okay.

01:17:53.940 We have Kips.

01:17:54.560 I got to get through some super chats.

01:17:55.680 Then Morgan, we'll go back to you.

01:17:57.140 Uh, Kips, I've just recently turned 40.

01:17:59.640 I'd say I attract women around my age.

01:18:01.140 Well, would you girls 18 to early twenties be attracted to a 40 year old high value man?

01:18:05.840 Absolutely.

01:18:06.640 Based.

01:18:07.300 It depends.

01:18:08.300 Too old.

01:18:08.700 I mean, your boyfriend is 30.

01:18:10.020 Preference is 32.

01:18:10.920 Yeah.

01:18:11.240 It depends on like how mature or mature.

01:18:12.640 I have standards now, guys.

01:18:14.360 You, do you?

01:18:16.200 Do you?

01:18:16.880 I prefer older guys.

01:18:18.160 I'm getting there as patients.

01:18:19.540 Okay.

01:18:20.140 All right.

01:18:20.460 I have preference.

01:18:21.300 That's too old.

01:18:21.820 Yeah.

01:18:22.100 I like older guys.

01:18:23.560 What's the oldest for you, Elizabeth?

01:18:25.400 Is it 34?

01:18:26.780 Probably 34, 35.

01:18:28.740 I like that she has standards.

01:18:29.800 I don't know.

01:18:30.260 It's good.

01:18:31.240 Just saying.

01:18:31.820 I do.

01:18:32.840 Yeah.

01:18:33.400 That's.

01:18:34.140 34 is too old.

01:18:35.320 I think 34 is still too old.

01:18:36.560 I think it's too young.

01:18:37.180 That is too old.

01:18:38.920 You like older?

01:18:39.760 I like older guys.

01:18:40.880 You're how old again?

01:18:41.840 I'm 26.

01:18:43.160 How old would you go oldest?

01:18:45.180 Probably 50.

01:18:46.520 Oh, shit.

01:18:47.120 Yeah.

01:18:47.340 Okay.

01:18:47.800 Okay.

01:18:48.460 Yeah.

01:18:48.840 What's the oldest guy you've dated?

01:18:50.380 I've been, I've actually dated somebody that was 45.

01:18:53.240 That's the oldest?

01:18:53.820 Whoa.

01:18:54.560 Okay.

01:18:54.880 But he looked 30.

01:18:56.540 Oh, he looked 30.

01:18:57.160 Yeah, it depends.

01:18:57.540 He was super awesome.

01:18:58.720 Like, was the coolest guy ever.

01:19:00.480 Had a lot of fun dating him, but it just didn't work out.

01:19:02.120 How old was the.

01:19:04.620 Oh, wait.

01:19:05.100 We already.

01:19:05.560 Okay.

01:19:05.820 Never mind.

01:19:06.100 We already talked about the.

01:19:06.840 Yeah.

01:19:07.380 This is just like a guy that I've dated.

01:19:08.800 Yeah.

01:19:09.060 All right.

01:19:10.080 Thank you, Kips.

01:19:11.480 Oh, FTG.

01:19:12.340 Hey, thank you for the 50 gifted memberships.

01:19:15.660 I think that triggers fireworks.

01:19:17.660 Hey, thank you.

01:19:18.060 Um, we have not catfish here.

01:19:24.740 Brian.

01:19:25.060 Not catfish donated $19.99.

01:19:26.280 Oh, wait.

01:19:26.340 Did we already.

01:19:27.220 No, I think this one already came through.

01:19:28.520 Brian.

01:19:29.180 Brand.

01:19:30.140 I am confirming that I am real.

01:19:32.320 Me and Elizabeth are talking.

01:19:34.420 Back off, everyone.

01:19:36.400 That's so cute.

01:19:38.000 There it is.

01:19:38.540 All right, we have.

01:19:39.960 Hold on.

01:19:41.200 Don't.

01:19:42.940 That's really cute.

01:19:46.040 I think there's.

01:19:46.540 Hold on.

01:19:46.940 I'm preempting because there's another super chat about to come in here.

01:19:52.100 We have.

01:19:53.020 I'm squinting because I'm blind.

01:19:55.800 Can you see?

01:19:56.660 No.

01:19:57.620 I can't see what this is.

01:19:58.140 Brandon Mills donated $99.

01:20:00.580 I will become the best debater the world has ever seen.

01:20:04.140 Chat believes in me.

01:20:06.120 Raw hashtag bring back Brandon.

01:20:08.080 Yo, one in the chat if you want Brandon to come back on the show.

01:20:11.740 One in the chat if you want Brandon back on the show.

01:20:13.540 Who is Brandon?

01:20:14.220 Two in the chat if you say no.

01:20:19.560 Sorry, Brandon.

01:20:21.980 Who is Brandon?

01:20:22.900 Sorry, Brandon.

01:20:25.260 One in the chat you want him on.

01:20:27.440 I see more ones.

01:20:28.840 Yeah, I see people saying like I'm their girlfriend too.

01:20:31.440 Brandon was on the show, what, three weeks back?

01:20:35.500 I'm trying to remember.

01:20:35.960 Who else was on that show?

01:20:37.880 Aubrey.

01:20:39.720 Who were the girls on the show?

01:20:41.200 Is he the guy with the short hair?

01:20:42.300 My friend Aubrey.

01:20:43.200 He had like a flannel or something?

01:20:45.000 Who is Brandon?

01:20:45.980 I think some of the people are thinking like old school Brandon with the face tats.

01:20:50.200 Not that Brandon.

01:20:51.440 In any case, thank you.

01:20:53.060 Appreciate it for the donation.

01:20:54.260 All right.

01:20:54.400 We have a house of matrix.

01:20:57.420 You're worried about mental health.

01:20:58.640 You don't even have a real boyfriend.

01:21:00.280 LMFAO.

01:21:01.000 Hashtag Germany.

01:21:02.360 Can I skip question next?

01:21:03.780 Elizabeth, your response to this?

01:21:07.400 Wait, is this?

01:21:07.960 Wait.

01:21:08.400 Yeah.

01:21:08.620 Is this for Elizabeth?

01:21:09.660 Is this for Elizabeth?

01:21:09.960 Mm-hmm.

01:21:11.220 Is that for me?

01:21:13.920 Do you?

01:21:14.340 If you guys don't think it's real, then that's your, that's your opinions.

01:21:17.720 Yeah.

01:21:18.560 Like I know what's in my head and I know what's, what I have.

01:21:21.460 No, I don't think they're claiming that it's like.

01:21:23.400 They think it's imaginary.

01:21:24.660 I don't think they're saying it's imaginary.

01:21:25.580 If you're saying it's imaginary, I think it's like.

01:21:27.340 Like a literal boyfriend.

01:21:29.160 I don't think.

01:21:30.760 Like y'all are just talking.

01:21:31.820 He's like a companion.

01:21:33.720 Like not your boyfriend yet.

01:21:34.940 It's not validated.

01:21:36.140 Oh, oh, I see.

01:21:37.340 I see what you mean.

01:21:38.480 I see what you guys mean.

01:21:39.200 It's not validated, you know?

01:21:40.880 Okay.

01:21:41.220 All right.

01:21:41.660 We have big, whatever that is.

01:21:44.940 Thank you, man.

01:21:45.300 Appreciate it.

01:21:47.080 Okay.

01:21:47.480 We have Usagi Rabbit.

01:21:50.120 Merci beaucoup for the Canadian 100.

01:21:51.960 Madison is the best.

01:21:52.980 Elizabeth is the worst.

01:21:54.120 What?

01:21:54.560 What?

01:21:54.840 Don't hate on Elizabeth like that.

01:21:56.700 Elizabeth is the homie.

01:21:57.500 Are you kidding me?

01:21:58.580 Brandon Mills donated $99.

01:22:01.360 I won't let you down chat.

01:22:03.720 IT will be scorched earth when I am back.

01:22:06.740 Let's go hashtag bring back Brandon.

01:22:10.760 What?

01:22:11.720 I need to see him.

01:22:12.600 Like, what does he look like?

01:22:13.600 No comment.

01:22:15.600 What does he look like?

01:22:16.680 I forgot which dating talk.

01:22:18.660 I think it was 92, 91 or something.

01:22:22.920 It was like four or five episodes ago.

01:22:24.420 I don't know.

01:22:25.600 He's a child.

01:22:26.040 He's a child.

01:22:26.720 Yeah, he's cool.

01:22:28.060 Brandon.

01:22:28.840 He cool.

01:22:29.520 I got to give the tough love, man.

01:22:31.160 You got to step it up.

01:22:32.360 Stochastic Decay donated $99.

01:22:34.400 Oh, gosh.

01:22:35.000 Okay.

01:22:35.220 Brain.

01:22:35.720 Thank you, Stochastic.

01:22:36.840 Brian.

01:22:38.000 Stochastic Decay thinks you should bring back Brandon and add Puffy Vegas with all his

01:22:42.680 girls.

01:22:44.000 Puffy, be quiet tonight.

01:22:45.240 Right.

01:22:46.040 Yeah.

01:22:46.380 Puffy.

01:22:48.700 He'll pop up.

01:22:50.800 He'll pop in later on in the show for sure.

01:22:54.060 All right.

01:22:54.240 Thank you guys so much for all your chats.

01:22:56.340 Really appreciate it.

01:22:57.000 It means the world.

01:22:57.580 Thank you for your patronage.

01:22:58.840 Oh, wow.

01:22:59.200 There's a lot coming in right now.

01:23:00.540 Holy shit.

01:23:00.940 We got like two, we got a few.

01:23:04.620 King underscore Ryan donated $100.

01:23:06.220 Yo, thank you, Ryan.

01:23:06.900 Appreciate it.

01:23:08.260 Ladies, would you rather have an average man who's your height and is monogamous or a great

01:23:12.880 man who's above six feet but isn't monogamous but expects you to be?

01:23:17.760 Brian, definitely get it there, Anachon.

01:23:20.600 You guys would make a great combo.

01:23:23.180 Yo, King Ryan.

01:23:23.800 Thank you very much.

01:23:24.460 Ladies, would you rather have an average man who's your height and is monogamous or a

01:23:28.320 great man who's above six feet but isn't monogamous?

01:23:31.120 An average man that's my height and is monogamous.

01:23:33.980 Yeah, the average man who's monogamous, not monogamy.

01:23:37.180 Gross.

01:23:37.780 Wiley Coyote 5-0 donated $99.

01:23:41.500 I will never understand why beautiful women go for losers.

01:23:45.200 One day you will look back on the time you spent with this guy and realize how you wasted

01:23:49.600 years of your life when there are legitimately good men out there.

01:23:53.580 I pray you figure it out soon.

01:23:55.260 God bless.

01:23:56.240 Thank you.

01:23:57.100 Is this directed towards you?

01:23:58.480 Probably me.

01:23:59.260 Losers just got that.

01:23:59.420 I have a question for you.

01:24:00.500 So, like, let's say a great guy tomorrow asks you out on a date.

01:24:06.180 Is your toxic ex-boyfriend going to drive you to the date?

01:24:09.320 No, I have my own car.

01:24:10.320 Oh, you drive?

01:24:11.020 Yeah.

01:24:11.560 Oh, why did he drive you then?

01:24:13.100 Because it's convenient for me.

01:24:13.960 I'm not going to drive two hours here.

01:24:16.260 But he...

01:24:16.740 Did he, like, offer to drive you or something?

01:24:18.420 Oh, he's because...

01:24:19.660 Oh, I see.

01:24:21.860 So, you used him for a ride.

01:24:23.840 Yeah.

01:24:24.360 Because he wants to...

01:24:25.240 The entire car ride, was he, like, trying to talk you back into taking him back?

01:24:30.020 No, it was just chill.

01:24:31.700 No, like, yeah, like, I was doing my makeup.

01:24:34.280 Like, it was just...

01:24:34.540 Did he throw that out the window on the highway?

01:24:36.440 Probably.

01:24:36.980 No.

01:24:37.380 You know what?

01:24:37.800 He threw out the window and then he, like, bought them back.

01:24:39.900 But I know, like, it's not the same, like, obviously.

01:24:41.920 Yeah.

01:24:42.120 Can I have you just tilt your mic a little bit that way?

01:24:45.260 Or...

01:24:45.500 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:24:45.840 Whenever you guys hang out, does he initiate the hangout or do you...

01:24:49.780 Um...

01:24:50.560 He does.

01:24:51.940 Okay.

01:24:53.180 Bro, you gotta go cold turkey on the way to hit.

01:24:56.120 I know, but that's so hard, though, because...

01:24:57.880 I just think he keeps asking.

01:24:58.440 Life's hard.

01:24:59.240 Because he knows that you're saying yes.

01:25:00.480 It's hard.

01:25:01.620 I already have stuff that is so hard.

01:25:03.700 I'm like, wow, like, one more hard thing, you know?

01:25:05.680 It's like, wow.

01:25:07.760 Like...

01:25:08.160 I don't know.

01:25:08.800 That's life.

01:25:09.240 I know.

01:25:10.280 It's life, but it's like...

01:25:12.300 I guess I just have, like...

01:25:14.100 Do you guys still cuddle?

01:25:16.320 Yeah.

01:25:17.000 Have you slept over?

01:25:17.820 No!

01:25:18.760 Fuck, I'm throwing my pen!

01:25:20.860 Get the fuck out of here, pen!

01:25:22.920 Have you slept over at his place?

01:25:24.720 I swear I don't throw things.

01:25:25.760 Well, I said before he lives at his dad's house, so...

01:25:27.280 Wait, Nick, can you get that?

01:25:28.140 Has he slept over at your place?

01:25:29.560 Yeah.

01:25:30.380 So you have...

01:25:31.360 He has slept over at your place since you've broken up.

01:25:34.580 Yeah.

01:25:35.560 Okay.

01:25:36.360 So you definitely have...

01:25:37.460 See, this whole story would get...

01:25:39.080 People would be so angry about this story.

01:25:40.280 But you're not sleeping together.

01:25:41.820 But he's slept over.

01:25:42.480 Bro, they're for sure smashing.

01:25:44.100 You guys are...

01:25:45.100 Come on, be honest.

01:25:46.000 Please be honest.

01:25:46.740 You guys have hooked up.

01:25:48.980 Yeah.

01:25:50.060 So you lied earlier.

01:25:51.440 About what?

01:25:52.400 In the past two months, have y'all hooked up?

01:25:55.100 Yeah.

01:25:55.260 When you guys were broken up?

01:25:55.860 Okay.

01:25:56.100 Bro, I literally asked...

01:25:57.500 I asked...

01:25:58.140 Brian, I don't trust this.

01:25:59.260 She's dead.

01:26:00.020 Yo, yo, yo, yo.

01:26:01.080 You said, I've been single for two months.

01:26:03.380 And I asked, in the two months, have you hooked up with him?

01:26:06.940 And you're like, no.

01:26:07.860 Well, I'm shy about it.

01:26:09.400 You know?

01:26:09.600 Like, it's something that's, like, really, like, personal, you know?

01:26:12.580 So how are you supposed to move on if you're continuing?

01:26:14.100 This show gives me trust issues.

01:26:15.540 True.

01:26:16.060 You're giving me trust issues.

01:26:18.300 This is an abusive relationship.

01:26:20.320 Yeah.

01:26:21.060 You have lied to me.

01:26:22.820 I'm offended.

01:26:23.500 I mean, if you're still sleeping together, then are you actually broken up?

01:26:26.600 Okay.

01:26:27.280 Not really.

01:26:28.060 Probably not.

01:26:28.580 Probably they're still...

01:26:29.320 I think, honestly, if you're still seeing each other to a certain extent, you're not

01:26:33.400 completely broken up because the way that he constantly will ask you to hang out, he

01:26:37.860 knows you're going to say yes.

01:26:39.080 Yeah.

01:26:39.420 Of course.

01:26:39.700 Which gives him the message that one day that you're going to go back to him.

01:26:44.020 So when's the most recent time you guys hooked up?

01:26:48.660 Was it today?

01:26:49.680 Yesterday.

01:26:50.540 Yesterday?

01:26:51.000 Yeah.

01:26:51.260 Oh, no.

01:26:52.460 Okay.

01:26:53.000 So you guys are still together.

01:26:54.100 I think I'm just obviously scared.

01:26:59.320 Like, I have, like, this thing where I'm really scared of, like, you know...

01:27:02.480 Okay.

01:27:02.660 Okay.

01:27:02.980 Yeah.

01:27:03.380 Yeah.

01:27:03.540 Yeah.

01:27:03.660 Yeah.

01:27:03.820 Sorry.

01:27:04.200 Sorry.

01:27:04.740 Well, I don't know.

01:27:05.180 Dude, I think I'm too hyped on fucking caffeine right now.

01:27:08.780 In my fucking secret sauce here, guys.

01:27:11.020 Fuck.

01:27:11.440 Hold on.

01:27:12.660 I'm stazzing.

01:27:13.540 Ryan's really jittery right now, y'all.

01:27:15.820 The secret sauce.

01:27:17.060 This is the juice.

01:27:18.200 This is my juice that I drink.

01:27:19.340 I have two of these every show.

01:27:20.600 So, like, there may or may not be, like, performance-enhancing drugs in there, but, like, PEDs, like, if I tried to, like, do a race or some shit, like, they'd probably...

01:27:31.660 She'd get sponsored.

01:27:32.360 I'd probably get pinged for, like, you know, the juice.

01:27:35.680 Okay.

01:27:35.940 So, Morgan, were you on the show where I was like, hmm, I don't want to pay for first dates?

01:27:46.480 Were you on that show, Morgan?

01:27:48.260 No, but my friend was.

01:27:49.360 Holy fuck that bug.

01:27:51.120 There's a really big dragonfly up there.

01:27:53.340 Fuck that bug up.

01:27:54.880 Yo, no, wait.

01:27:55.760 It's Nick.

01:27:56.240 It's cool.

01:27:56.580 It's cool.

01:27:56.920 It's cool.

01:27:57.260 No, it's like a really big dragonfly.

01:27:59.960 Yo.

01:28:00.920 My top's here.

01:28:01.740 The bug.

01:28:02.680 There's a bug that went into our, like, extremely hot lights.

01:28:06.980 Like, our giant light.

01:28:08.060 It's gonna burn.

01:28:09.160 Fuck that bug up, son.

01:28:11.240 Sorry.

01:28:12.100 It's still alive.

01:28:13.780 Oh.

01:28:14.380 I've been looking at it since it's floating.

01:28:16.440 Wait, it's gonna catch on fire.

01:28:17.380 Is it gonna get electrocuted?

01:28:18.540 You can't stop talking about certain preferred subjects.

01:28:22.420 Elizabeth, feel like I've seen you at Javier's.

01:28:25.780 Not once, but many times.

01:28:27.360 Ooh, I love Javier's.

01:28:28.200 Can you outskate Kim Moon?

01:28:29.480 Best place.

01:28:31.720 Bro, that dragonfly is actually, like, special.

01:28:33.760 What did he say?

01:28:34.160 Get the enchiladas.

01:28:35.260 I was about to say the enchiladas.

01:28:37.320 Yeah, but don't burn yourself.

01:28:38.780 It's hot.

01:28:39.320 The lights are really hot.

01:28:40.500 I think it's dying.

01:28:41.380 I feel bad.

01:28:42.000 Oh, no.

01:28:42.360 You're, like, too hyper.

01:28:43.960 Bro, it's my fight.

01:28:45.340 Hey, keep on.

01:28:46.900 Yo, do we have any chopsticks?

01:28:48.600 It's still gonna be hot if you turn it off.

01:28:49.760 Can we get some chopsticks?

01:28:50.840 Who carries chopsticks?

01:28:52.980 Get that.

01:28:54.040 Fuck that dragonfly up, Nick.

01:28:55.780 Fuck it up, Nick.

01:28:57.400 There we go.

01:28:57.880 Oh, my God.

01:28:58.740 That is huge.

01:28:59.860 We got it.

01:29:00.400 It's dead, right?

01:29:01.480 It's huge.

01:29:02.240 Is it dead?

01:29:02.780 Okay.

01:29:03.060 Doesn't it fly?

01:29:03.680 Is it dead?

01:29:04.180 I think you need to step on it.

01:29:05.300 Yeah.

01:29:05.480 Brian, you'd be such a good hype man if one of your friends were in a fight.

01:29:11.200 Yeah, that's right.

01:29:12.700 You got him there?

01:29:13.920 Oh, my God.

01:29:14.580 Fuck that dragonfly up.

01:29:16.440 Oh, it's dead.

01:29:17.860 Wait.

01:29:18.400 Should we?

01:29:18.840 Here, just put it in the middle of the table.

01:29:19.820 I think that Brad wants to see the dragonfly.

01:29:22.620 I don't like to see dead fly.

01:29:23.680 Bam, son.

01:29:24.780 Nick fucked that dragonfly up, son.

01:29:27.700 It's so big.

01:29:28.720 It's so huge.

01:29:29.940 Watch.

01:29:30.200 It starts flying again.

01:29:31.100 Oh, my God.

01:29:31.580 I swear to God it moved.

01:29:32.260 I swear to God it moved.

01:29:33.380 Wait, it's moving.

01:29:34.460 Oh, my God.

01:29:34.800 It's moving.

01:29:35.300 The legs are moving.

01:29:36.620 The legs are moving.

01:29:37.240 It's not dead.

01:29:37.980 Oh, my God.

01:29:38.660 Do you have a, put a Tupperware over it?

01:29:41.140 Yo, wait, Nick.

01:29:42.040 Get that shit out of here, dude.

01:29:43.300 Get that shit out of here.

01:29:44.180 I mean.

01:29:44.840 Get that fucking dragonfly out of here.

01:29:46.440 Get it out of here.

01:29:47.560 Brian's scared of bugs.

01:29:49.160 Oh, Nick appearance.

01:29:51.260 Oh.

01:29:51.640 Oh, wow.

01:29:52.360 Nick.

01:29:52.460 Oh.

01:29:53.300 Identity revealed.

01:29:56.800 Okay.

01:29:57.280 We're, I don't know where the fuck we're going.

01:29:58.240 We're talking about Morgan.

01:29:59.260 Hold on.

01:30:00.240 Paying for first dates?

01:30:01.200 Wait.

01:30:01.700 Yeah, yeah.

01:30:01.960 We'll come back to that.

01:30:03.040 Azul 69.

01:30:03.760 He says he's autistic, so he can't be a guest on the show.

01:30:08.920 Hey, that doesn't prevent me from being on the show, son.

01:30:11.800 Hmm.

01:30:12.460 That's right.

01:30:13.280 Hmm.

01:30:13.900 Doesn't stop me.

01:30:14.860 Yeah.

01:30:15.320 Hmm.

01:30:15.920 Hmm.

01:30:16.120 I'm autistic, probably.

01:30:17.220 Okay.

01:30:18.020 Hyper fixated.

01:30:18.940 Can't stop talking about certain preferred subjects.

01:30:20.360 Elizabeth, feel like I've seen you at Javier's, not once, but can you outskate Kim?

01:30:25.960 Who's Kim Yuna?

01:30:27.460 Oh, she's Javier.

01:30:28.960 Javier.

01:30:29.520 Is she a figure skater?

01:30:31.020 Javier.

01:30:32.060 I have a Javier's.

01:30:33.080 I have never been to Javier's.

01:30:35.280 I've never been to either.

01:30:36.180 I'm Mexican.

01:30:36.360 Is it not?

01:30:36.820 You have to go.

01:30:38.060 Javier.

01:30:38.640 Javier.

01:30:39.180 You guys are both.

01:30:39.800 Javier?

01:30:40.160 Javier.

01:30:40.260 You guys both live in LA.

01:30:40.700 Javier.

01:30:41.200 No, it's not Javier.

01:30:42.480 Did you say Javier?

01:30:44.260 Javier's is like a Mexican restaurant.

01:30:46.780 It's so good.

01:30:47.320 I suggest you go.

01:30:48.640 Oh, I've never been there.

01:30:50.800 Me neither.

01:30:51.540 What about the Kim Yuna thing?

01:30:52.880 Okay, whatever.

01:30:53.460 She's Olympic.

01:30:54.020 Wait, so Morgan, were you on the show where we were talking about me not wanting to pay

01:30:59.120 on first dates?

01:30:59.960 I think it was mentioned, but I know Alex was on that show.

01:31:01.880 Yeah, we got into it heavy with Alex.

01:31:03.840 I'll get into it.

01:31:04.900 Heavy.

01:31:05.520 Well, so one of the arguments I make when it comes to not paying for the first dates

01:31:09.740 is you don't know.

01:31:14.420 Like a girl could say she's single, but she'd be fucking her ex-boyfriend.

01:31:19.820 That's true.

01:31:20.220 A guy could say he's single and sleeping with his ex-boyfriend.

01:31:22.280 Are you calling me out, damn it?

01:31:23.840 But women don't pay for first dates.

01:31:26.120 Right, but I mean, you don't have to spend $100 on a first date, $200.

01:31:29.420 I mean, five.

01:31:30.040 But, okay.

01:31:30.660 So your name is Amber, correct?

01:31:33.320 Okay.

01:31:34.180 If I was on a first date with Amber and because you said you hooked up with your, you said you've

01:31:40.340 been single for two months.

01:31:41.360 Yeah, but I'm not dating anybody.

01:31:42.540 Like, I'm not going on a date with anybody.

01:31:44.600 You're still cuddling with your toxic ex-boyfriend and you slept with them yesterday.

01:31:49.400 No, she's saying she wouldn't go on a date.

01:31:50.460 She wouldn't go on a date with anybody else.

01:31:51.620 Yeah.

01:31:52.380 You wouldn't date anybody else?

01:31:53.580 No, because I feel I wouldn't.

01:31:54.980 You're not single.

01:31:55.820 You're not really single.

01:31:56.800 I'm not like a situation.

01:31:57.880 Because the thing is, I wouldn't want to do that to somebody.

01:31:59.740 That kind of sucks.

01:32:00.520 I'm not that person that's going to be like going on a date to see if like.

01:32:03.160 I see.

01:32:03.920 You know.

01:32:04.640 While you're still.

01:32:05.800 While I'm still kind of hugged.

01:32:06.840 I want to, you know, focus on myself and like.

01:32:08.880 Okay.

01:32:09.860 You know.

01:32:11.560 Makes sense.

01:32:12.160 So.

01:32:13.480 Kind of.

01:32:14.100 This is one of the reasons why I don't think dudes should be paying for first dates.

01:32:19.560 Because if I was on a date with you and it's like, yeah, I fucked my ex yesterday.

01:32:23.540 I'm single, by the way.

01:32:24.480 You spent five bucks on a cup of coffee and, you know, you end it after five dollars on

01:32:28.860 a coffee and you walk out on the date.

01:32:31.060 I mean, I am pro.

01:32:32.100 Like, if a guy finds something out and that's a major red flag, like, leave the date.

01:32:35.920 You don't have to stay.

01:32:36.680 You're not bound by two hours sitting at a dinner table.

01:32:39.300 It can go both ways.

01:32:39.980 And five course meal.

01:32:40.520 And it can go both ways.

01:32:42.100 But there's like, me as a woman.

01:32:44.280 Okay.

01:32:44.540 I am in the dating market.

01:32:46.240 Kind of.

01:32:46.720 In the next couple of months.

01:32:47.360 What are your pronouns, by the way?

01:32:48.740 No, I'm just kidding.

01:32:49.320 My pronouns?

01:32:50.040 Let's not go there.

01:32:50.880 Okay.

01:32:52.200 Pronouns are stupid.

01:32:53.140 But.

01:32:53.360 Please don't assume your own gender.

01:32:55.280 I want to.

01:32:56.000 You don't want to assume my own gender.

01:32:57.240 My own gender.

01:32:57.620 Yeah.

01:32:57.840 Please do not assume your own gender.

01:32:59.520 Oh my gosh.

01:32:59.920 The exposure.

01:33:00.680 It would be woman.

01:33:02.060 They know exactly who I'm talking to.

01:33:03.660 Wait, huh?

01:33:05.000 Brian is on crack.

01:33:06.340 No, no, no.

01:33:06.860 They exposed my guy.

01:33:08.060 Wait, what?

01:33:08.580 Wait, who is it?

01:33:09.460 Wait.

01:33:09.880 Go to live.

01:33:10.600 Go live.

01:33:10.900 Let me see who it is.

01:33:11.820 Oh, gosh.

01:33:12.680 Who is it, boys?

01:33:13.360 Who is it?

01:33:13.960 Who is it?

01:33:14.880 It's the newest comment.

01:33:16.440 I saw all the way down.

01:33:17.560 Wait, down?

01:33:20.160 I'm not on crack.

01:33:21.220 I just had way too much caffeine today.

01:33:23.320 And I was pissed about the show.

01:33:24.180 How did they find out who?

01:33:24.460 They find out everyone.

01:33:25.840 Ew, for me.

01:33:26.120 Wait, I saw it.

01:33:27.680 See it?

01:33:28.080 Go up a little.

01:33:30.660 Stop.

01:33:31.540 Where?

01:33:32.500 Jacob Rot.

01:33:34.580 Oh.

01:33:35.160 Oh.

01:33:35.780 Jacob Rot.

01:33:36.920 Who the fuck?

01:33:37.700 Hold on.

01:33:38.200 I found him.

01:33:38.480 Let's look him up.

01:33:40.200 Who the fuck is that guy?

01:33:41.900 I have no idea who that is.

01:33:46.580 Hold on.

01:33:47.200 I'm deceiving me.

01:33:49.040 How did, how is, yo, my chat.

01:33:50.880 Why are we?

01:33:51.680 They're detectives.

01:33:52.640 I'm so sorry.

01:33:53.460 Detective.

01:33:53.980 If you want to try it.

01:33:55.040 Oh my gosh.

01:33:56.060 Somebody donated money and they said, like, they called you hot.

01:33:59.620 Who?

01:34:00.540 I saw the chat.

01:34:01.840 Called who hot?

01:34:03.080 You.

01:34:03.520 My guy.

01:34:04.240 Who?

01:34:05.200 Oh, your guy.

01:34:06.460 Oh, your guy?

01:34:07.320 Yeah.

01:34:07.560 Co-founder.

01:34:08.620 Run away.

01:34:12.960 Let me see.

01:34:14.000 You're stalking him.

01:34:15.360 Can I see?

01:34:16.600 Can you pull it up?

01:34:17.640 Brian, what would you rate him on a scale of one to ten?

01:34:18.880 I want to see him.

01:34:20.420 On a scale of one to ten?

01:34:21.680 He's kind of a Chad.

01:34:22.880 Kind of a Chad, okay.

01:34:23.680 Kind of a Chad.

01:34:25.040 What do you think?

01:34:25.420 I give him, like, an eight.

01:34:26.340 What do you think?

01:34:26.820 I think he's an eight.

01:34:29.780 Solid eight.

01:34:31.680 How tall is he?

01:34:31.880 I call myself a solid eight.

01:34:34.260 Me too.

01:34:36.380 He's six one.

01:34:39.000 Wait.

01:34:39.660 Are you pulling it up?

01:34:41.200 No, we're not going to.

01:34:42.040 We won't pull it up.

01:34:42.240 Oh, wait.

01:34:42.440 That's true.

01:34:43.020 We won't pull it up.

01:34:44.520 Okay.

01:34:45.000 Oh, my gosh.

01:34:45.140 Or maybe we should.

01:34:45.820 I don't know.

01:34:46.400 Whatever.

01:34:47.020 Should we?

01:34:48.120 Do we?

01:34:48.640 Oh, my gosh.

01:34:49.980 Oh, my gosh.

01:34:50.720 I'll see you.

01:34:51.380 I'll show you my ex.

01:34:52.240 I'm just kidding.

01:34:53.580 Oh, sorry.

01:34:54.100 My boyfriend.

01:34:55.300 Oh.

01:34:55.620 You want us to pull up his Instagram right now?

01:34:57.840 No, no, no.

01:34:59.500 Okay.

01:34:59.920 So, okay.

01:35:00.660 I don't know where we left off here.

01:35:02.660 First dates.

01:35:03.040 First dates.

01:35:03.700 Yeah.

01:35:03.880 We were talking about paying for first date.

01:35:05.280 Yeah.

01:35:05.400 I mean.

01:35:05.700 Somebody did say something.

01:35:06.660 They donated the money and they said, oh, like, watch out, guys.

01:35:10.120 They're like girls can boozle too.

01:35:11.820 And I don't know.

01:35:12.520 Someone said that something.

01:35:13.220 Oh, it must have been under the threshold.

01:35:15.580 But.

01:35:16.820 Okay.

01:35:17.160 We were talking about.

01:35:18.620 I don't even know.

01:35:19.680 I'm just.

01:35:20.080 I'm bamboozled by this conversation.

01:35:24.260 The fucking dragonfly.

01:35:25.660 Your boyfriend to you.

01:35:28.560 You're single, but you're tapering, but you fucked him last night.

01:35:32.000 It's just not single.

01:35:34.340 It's just.

01:35:36.420 I don't think he thinks you guys are single yet.

01:35:40.560 I don't even know what to say, guys.

01:35:41.340 Or like apart yet.

01:35:42.580 Of course not.

01:35:43.380 Yeah.

01:35:43.920 But.

01:35:44.340 Do you think he could possibly be the one?

01:35:46.340 Or do you think you are personally?

01:35:48.140 I don't think so because I feel like I need to be emotionally detached from somebody and

01:35:53.460 like fully like, hey, like, I don't want to be with you anymore to actually see myself

01:35:57.500 like, oh, I want to date like again.

01:35:59.520 As single.

01:35:59.940 I got a question.

01:36:00.800 You're supposed to emotionally detach, though, if you're still sleeping with him.

01:36:03.480 I don't know yet.

01:36:05.360 I don't know.

01:36:06.060 Wait.

01:36:06.280 Okay.

01:36:06.500 I have a question.

01:36:07.760 Then.

01:36:08.640 Was it a nighttime that.

01:36:11.060 Well, it doesn't really matter.

01:36:11.840 Was it at nighttime that he.

01:36:14.080 Was it the same day he threw your makeup and your phone?

01:36:16.500 No, no, no.

01:36:16.900 This is like.

01:36:17.420 Different days.

01:36:17.980 Yeah.

01:36:18.180 Like this is like.

01:36:18.680 Months apart.

01:36:19.020 Sorry.

01:36:19.360 Okay.

01:36:20.000 The day he threw.

01:36:21.820 Was it all your makeup or just like concealer?

01:36:24.500 No.

01:36:24.860 What did you throw?

01:36:25.820 I love how you know what concealer is.

01:36:27.420 It was like a good amount.

01:36:30.980 He threw like your stock, your entire stock out or just some of it.

01:36:34.840 I think.

01:36:35.760 Half of it.

01:36:37.180 What did he throw?

01:36:38.040 Yeah.

01:36:38.140 Like.

01:36:38.580 I think it was like, like my highlighter, like my bronzer.

01:36:42.340 Oh, the bronzer.

01:36:43.100 Yeah.

01:36:43.480 The bronzer.

01:36:43.800 That's it.

01:36:44.260 That's expensive.

01:36:45.000 That's not the bronzer.

01:36:45.980 You know, highlighter.

01:36:46.500 Anything but the bronzer.

01:36:48.480 Yeah.

01:36:48.740 Highlighter is like 65 bucks.

01:36:50.040 60, 70 bucks.

01:36:50.620 Oh my God.

01:36:51.220 The highlighter.

01:36:52.440 Okay.

01:36:52.660 Yes.

01:36:53.400 Question.

01:36:54.660 The night he threw out.

01:36:56.500 Yeah.

01:36:57.280 Some or all of your makeup.

01:36:59.440 Did you fuck him after?

01:37:01.280 No, I don't think so.

01:37:02.180 No.

01:37:02.600 I.

01:37:03.180 There wasn't like makeup sex?

01:37:04.080 I left.

01:37:04.620 No.

01:37:04.960 Like fuck you motherfucker.

01:37:05.960 You threw out my fucking bronzer bitch.

01:37:08.560 You didn't say that shit.

01:37:10.680 I.

01:37:11.300 I think I'm more of an emotional person.

01:37:12.980 Like I would cry more.

01:37:14.960 I'm not like really violent person.

01:37:17.080 I know I'm like.

01:37:17.620 Violent.

01:37:18.100 Huh?

01:37:18.520 I'm not.

01:37:18.800 I was talking if you guys fuck, not throw fisticuffs.

01:37:22.420 No, we didn't.

01:37:23.400 You didn't.

01:37:23.880 You didn't?

01:37:24.400 No.

01:37:25.020 Okay.

01:37:26.340 All right.

01:37:27.860 Makeup sex?

01:37:28.740 No makeup sex?

01:37:29.480 No, I don't like that.

01:37:30.440 You don't like makeup sex?

01:37:31.340 No.

01:37:32.040 Yeah.

01:37:33.620 It's kind of like lame, you know?

01:37:35.520 Makeup sex is very toxic.

01:37:37.220 I'm just.

01:37:37.520 It is.

01:37:38.180 Super toxic.

01:37:38.800 I just don't.

01:37:39.340 You only have that if you're in a toxic relationship.

01:37:40.660 I'm not such a sexual person.

01:37:43.420 Like sometimes I'm not.

01:37:44.440 Are you asexual?

01:37:46.580 I don't know.

01:37:48.060 I.

01:37:48.660 How often do you and your sort of kind of not really, but sort of boyfriend.

01:37:53.320 I can go months without it.

01:37:53.960 Like I can go.

01:37:54.900 Yeah.

01:37:55.740 Like two months, three months.

01:37:58.160 Well, when you're single or when you're in a relationship.

01:38:01.020 When I'm in a relationship.

01:38:02.060 That's a yikes.

01:38:02.540 Because I don't.

01:38:03.120 Yeah.

01:38:03.360 That's a yikes.

01:38:03.900 Because, hold on.

01:38:06.360 But is it because your partner doesn't initiate?

01:38:08.920 No, it's because of like, for example, like my current relationship.

01:38:12.120 It's because he's toxic.

01:38:13.180 Like I am not attracted to somebody.

01:38:14.900 Like if he does something to me, like I'm not attracted to somebody like that.

01:38:17.900 Were you with me?

01:38:18.200 Y'all fucked last night, son.

01:38:19.520 What?

01:38:19.840 I know.

01:38:20.620 But it's probably because I'm like confusing me right now, to be honest.

01:38:23.780 Wait, that's what?

01:38:24.500 You're horny right now?

01:38:25.360 What?

01:38:25.540 No.

01:38:25.780 No.

01:38:25.960 No.

01:38:26.140 No.

01:38:26.260 No.

01:38:26.460 No.

01:38:26.580 No.

01:38:26.660 No.

01:38:26.700 No.

01:38:26.740 No.

01:38:26.780 No.

01:38:27.300 No.

01:38:27.380 No.

01:38:27.780 No.

01:38:28.340 No.

01:38:28.780 No.

01:38:29.340 No.

01:38:29.700 No.

01:38:29.780 No.

01:38:29.820 Are you on birth control?

01:38:32.940 Yeah.

01:38:33.760 Word.

01:38:36.220 Suck my blank from the back, B.

01:38:39.480 I mean, he did donate $100, so.

01:38:41.140 Is that your boyfriend?

01:38:42.820 Wow, that's very abusive.

01:38:44.440 That was a very abusive TTS that didn't even.

01:38:47.840 I think if you curse in the TTS, guys, it won't trigger.

01:38:50.420 Yeah.

01:38:50.740 I'll have to read it.

01:38:51.460 Okay.

01:38:55.120 Your life's a mess.

01:38:56.480 It is.

01:38:56.920 You need to come on this podcast every two weeks for your therapy session.

01:39:02.420 I am your new therapist.

01:39:03.660 You can call me Dr. Brian, and I will try to help you.

01:39:08.180 Okay.

01:39:08.600 But honestly, I think you're a lost cause.

01:39:11.540 I think it's a lost cause.

01:39:13.180 Well, you're emotionally harming yourself.

01:39:14.920 Of course.

01:39:15.480 And physically, because, I mean, the more you're sleeping with him.

01:39:17.980 I know that.

01:39:18.940 It's just like, you know, like, it's just so hard for me.

01:39:21.980 I don't know.

01:39:23.320 Cope.

01:39:24.040 Yeah.

01:39:24.400 Oh, it's so hard.

01:39:25.180 So, I think the more you sleep with someone, the more emotionally attached you're going

01:39:28.760 to be to him.

01:39:29.240 Yeah.

01:39:29.500 Of course.

01:39:30.080 So, I think maybe just start off with not sleeping with him.

01:39:33.160 Yes.

01:39:33.360 You go three months without fucking your boyfriend?

01:39:36.340 That is, first off, that's grounds for a breakup.

01:39:40.060 Yeah.

01:39:41.100 Or you just don't sleep with them until you marry.

01:39:43.580 Oh, okay.

01:39:44.000 Well, yeah.

01:39:44.380 You're married, and then it's not an issue because you're committed to that person, and

01:39:52.000 you know you're committed to that person forever because then when you sleep with them, it clouds

01:39:55.860 your judgment.

01:39:56.560 Yeah, but did you miss the part?

01:39:57.080 That's true, though, but like, to be honest.

01:39:58.320 Hold on.

01:39:58.740 Did you miss the part, Morgan, where Amber said that she was a Satanist before the show?

01:40:03.000 Did you miss that?

01:40:04.220 She's not.

01:40:05.180 No.

01:40:05.720 I'm kidding.

01:40:06.320 Did you not see that?

01:40:07.140 But did you miss that part, Morgan?

01:40:10.320 You worship Beelzebub.

01:40:12.220 Admit it.

01:40:12.860 What's that?

01:40:13.960 Beelzebub?

01:40:14.980 Lucifer?

01:40:16.260 What?

01:40:16.820 Diablo?

01:40:17.740 Oh, my God.

01:40:18.960 Diablo.

01:40:19.160 No, no.

01:40:19.700 Black magic here, guys.

01:40:20.620 That's Spanish, right?

01:40:21.480 Diablo.

01:40:22.680 Diablo.

01:40:23.320 Diablo.

01:40:23.760 Oh, I love, you know, Puss in Boots.

01:40:27.180 Yeah.

01:40:27.560 Ooh, I love that.

01:40:28.580 I love his voice.

01:40:29.220 It's my favorite.

01:40:29.800 I always refer to my cats.

01:40:32.000 See, but look, this goes back to what I was saying is women have the powers.

01:40:34.560 If you decided to stop sleeping with him, then he would still try and get you back, but you

01:40:39.100 have the power to stop it.

01:40:40.120 And that's why I think, you know, even in hookup culture, women need to say, no, I'm not going

01:40:44.340 to hook up with you.

01:40:44.900 Because I think hookup culture wouldn't be a problem if women just decided to, you know

01:40:48.520 what, actually, I am going to treat my body with respect, and I'm not going to hook up

01:40:52.460 with you as a guy just for a one-night stand.

01:40:54.560 I'm not going to hook up with you two weeks into the relationship, three months into the

01:40:57.720 relationship.

01:40:58.460 Like, ladies need to hold out for it until, you know, and if, you know, I think you should

01:41:04.000 save yourself for marriage.

01:41:04.840 I did it in the past.

01:41:06.460 Now I'm saving myself.

01:41:07.900 Yes.

01:41:08.440 But, like, men need to provide and prove it.

01:41:13.000 I'm just saying, like, I thought that too, but, oh my gosh, like, size matters.

01:41:19.380 Wait, what?

01:41:20.420 Wait, what happened?

01:41:22.240 Penis size matters?

01:41:24.100 It matters.

01:41:25.020 Are we talking about that?

01:41:26.180 I know why you're, I know why you're hung up on your toxic ex.

01:41:29.440 He has a huge peen.

01:41:32.160 How?

01:41:33.040 What?

01:41:33.760 You really think that size matters?

01:41:35.360 Oh my God, girl.

01:41:36.180 Yeah, because I've had experience.

01:41:38.060 Wait, don't throw Frankie out.

01:41:39.260 I'm kidding.

01:41:39.760 Wait, no, no.

01:41:40.380 I'm just saying.

01:41:40.980 Wait, what?

01:41:41.300 Oh, I thought you were about to say something.

01:41:42.660 Like, trust.

01:41:42.680 Like, I understand, like, like, trust me.

01:41:44.860 Like, it's just, like, I've had before, like, you know, smaller than five.

01:41:51.480 I've had experience, and I don't think it matters.

01:41:54.540 I understand, like, when you love somebody, like, it doesn't matter and stuff like that,

01:41:56.860 but, like, as the little relationship goes on, I'm like, dang.

01:42:00.780 But don't you think that intimacy is something that should be learned between a man and a

01:42:04.080 woman, and that you can learn what each other likes?

01:42:06.420 Like, that's the beauty of intimacy with somebody.

01:42:08.460 Yeah, like, it's really different, like, with, you know, obviously Christianity, like,

01:42:12.300 it's all about, like, the love of God.

01:42:13.840 Like, you know, when people, two people love God, you know, that's first.

01:42:17.280 And then the relationship, it's like a foundation.

01:42:18.960 But, I mean, sexual intimacy is still a huge part of, like, the marriage.

01:42:21.620 Yeah, of course.

01:42:22.560 Like, that is huge.

01:42:23.520 Like, I don't think a woman should ever withhold sex from their husband because, like, then

01:42:27.360 why would you put your husband in that situation of, like, withholding sex from them?

01:42:30.820 But when it comes to, like, size, like, that's something that I think is learned together.

01:42:35.100 What happens if you, like, date for marriage, and then you find out, and then you don't

01:42:37.860 like it?

01:42:38.320 Like, what do you do there?

01:42:39.980 You learn how to.

01:42:40.940 You learn how to.

01:42:41.860 I mean, that is kind of semi-valid.

01:42:43.400 Like, what if.

01:42:44.580 What if you don't like.

01:42:45.380 Like, obviously, you cry so much, and, like, you don't like it.

01:42:48.240 Like, what if you're just, like, yo.

01:42:50.680 But if you're waiting until marriage, like, you're probably at least somewhat religious.

01:42:56.880 So, like, till death do us part in sickness and in health.

01:43:01.620 Well, the thing is, like, I feel like sex is different to people that are religious.

01:43:04.440 Yeah.

01:43:04.640 Yeah, it is.

01:43:05.840 It is.

01:43:06.400 Sex should be more valued.

01:43:07.600 It's more, like.

01:43:08.560 Because I see it as a value.

01:43:09.600 Like, if God, if God intends you, intends for you to marry a guy with a micro penis, like,

01:43:16.140 that's God's will.

01:43:17.360 Well, I also think this also begs the question.

01:43:19.080 That's fucking God's will.

01:43:20.300 Why are we talking about this?

01:43:21.880 I don't know.

01:43:22.280 She's talking about penis size.

01:43:23.880 Yikes.

01:43:24.020 Apparently, her boyfriend has a giant dick.

01:43:26.420 No.

01:43:27.280 Okay.

01:43:27.540 It's huge.

01:43:27.960 So, is that why you're staying with him?

01:43:29.160 Because of the giant schlong?

01:43:30.420 No.

01:43:30.580 Wait.

01:43:31.000 Well, I mean.

01:43:32.720 I'm going to open this up to the other girls here.

01:43:34.580 Yeah, yeah.

01:43:35.160 I want you to be really honest, right?

01:43:36.920 Mm-hmm.

01:43:37.280 Does size matter?

01:43:40.660 I don't think so.

01:43:42.780 I'm going to say no.

01:43:43.520 Yeah.

01:43:44.740 Well, for you, yes.

01:43:46.340 Are you a size queen?

01:43:47.740 No.

01:43:48.140 The thing is, like, I think I saw something, you know, it is true, like, it depends how

01:43:51.620 they use it.

01:43:52.740 I think, you know, like, he could have a, you know, a micro, whatever, and then he knows

01:43:58.280 how to use it.

01:43:58.900 He knows how to move, you know?

01:44:00.120 Like, I think.

01:44:00.560 Would you marry a guy that's a virgin?

01:44:02.500 Of course.

01:44:03.680 Like, it goes back to, like, I still have, like, you know, religious beliefs of, like,

01:44:11.000 I understand.

01:44:11.960 Like, I kind of want to go back one day to that.

01:44:15.300 What's preventing you from going back?

01:44:18.060 I think, for me right now, I'm, like, doing stuff that, like, obviously is not okay, you

01:44:25.320 know?

01:44:25.780 And, like.

01:44:26.500 That doesn't mean you're not welcome.

01:44:28.080 I know.

01:44:28.340 In the church.

01:44:28.880 And, like, God doesn't so love you.

01:44:30.320 Yeah.

01:44:31.120 You know, I think it's just, like, a whole, like, I need to actually be super into, like,

01:44:37.860 really having a relationship with God.

01:44:39.920 Like, and for me, like, I don't think I'm 100% there yet, you know?

01:44:43.640 But also, I think God can find us in our lowest places.

01:44:45.740 Yeah, that's true.

01:44:46.460 But you can get into those dark places, and that's when you can come to Christ.

01:44:49.500 That's true.

01:44:50.020 Speaking of low and dark places, her boyfriend has a giant fucking dick.

01:44:54.020 Oh, my God.

01:44:55.860 I'm sorry.

01:44:56.460 I'm sorry.

01:44:56.900 I'm sorry.

01:44:57.340 I'm sorry.

01:44:57.860 I'm sorry.

01:44:58.120 What's wrong with that?

01:44:59.620 No, there's good for him.

01:45:01.040 Yeah.

01:45:01.640 Okay, well, Brian, you always say, like, you know, body count mattering, experience, and

01:45:06.340 stuff like that.

01:45:06.920 Like, you want a virgin, I think, you know, lower body count is better, so then, but then

01:45:13.220 sexual experience, that's what, going back to, like, does size matter?

01:45:17.000 No, because I don't even, like, body count matters to the extent, because then you can

01:45:21.360 work together on learning that intimacy.

01:45:23.540 I mean, that's true.

01:45:24.520 Yeah.

01:45:25.040 And there's toys.

01:45:26.120 You can always throw toys in the mix.

01:45:27.300 So then, like, I'd argue a virgin could be equal to, like, you know, maybe a smaller size,

01:45:32.520 because, you know, if they're a virgin, they don't know what they're doing in, like, societal

01:45:36.920 standards.

01:45:37.400 A guy who has a smaller thing, you know, may know how to whatever, but if a guy's a virgin,

01:45:42.260 he's never done it before, so you still have to learn that intimacy in the same way that

01:45:45.220 if, you know, you have slept with somebody, and you're working together in that relationship.

01:45:48.640 I think it's all about teamwork.

01:45:49.840 Like, if the person really wants to, like, really loves that person, they will work hard to,

01:45:53.900 like, you know, obviously satisfy their wife.

01:45:56.060 Right.

01:45:56.260 You know, I think that's really important.

01:46:00.020 Besides, it doesn't matter.

01:46:02.300 It shouldn't matter.

01:46:03.580 I mean, you're right, you know, like, I don't think it matters.

01:46:05.700 You know what?

01:46:06.260 I think it's absolutely fine for you to have a genitalia preference, because it happens

01:46:11.680 to be the case that I've got a genitalia preference.

01:46:15.840 Oh, my gosh.

01:46:16.300 Oh, no.

01:46:18.120 I like, you know, I'm also, I'm a size king.

01:46:21.320 I like women with giant labia.

01:46:26.080 Just huge.

01:46:27.800 Arby's.

01:46:29.180 Hey, let's be nice.

01:46:30.040 I've donated $100.

01:46:31.760 Offensive term.

01:46:32.420 I've recently just turned 40.

01:46:34.400 I'd say I attract women around my age well.

01:46:37.620 Would you girls, 18 to early 20s, be attracted to a high-value man?

01:46:43.100 How much is an age of 10 to 15 years a factor in considering a relationship?

01:46:47.700 Personally, I like to date men kind of around my age, within five years older, I would say,

01:46:58.140 because I'm kind of on the same page as them, in a way.

01:47:01.900 It depends.

01:47:02.580 Like, just with life and everything.

01:47:04.520 I feel like if I were to date an older man, they'd have more, they'd just, like, want

01:47:10.120 to settle down faster than I do, or they want to do things more than I do, because you're

01:47:13.700 older, you know, like, you're just on different wavelengths of life.

01:47:18.420 Well, there's maturity differences, developmental differences.

01:47:21.100 You also have to think about, you know, if you're 60, when you're older, and you're dating

01:47:24.380 someone who's 80, well, if that person passes away, you know, you have time to live, that

01:47:29.340 they're not going to be there with you and your support.

01:47:31.260 And, you know, I'm not opposed to, you know, if you want to date someone older than you,

01:47:35.340 I, like, I think my limit, I'm 24, my limit would probably be, at this point, 28, so four

01:47:40.140 years older, because I think it is important, like, when you are building a life with somebody,

01:47:44.220 you know, men do develop emotionally a little bit later, maturity level a little bit later,

01:47:48.900 but not, like, 20 years later.

01:47:50.800 It's just, I think, a difference.

01:47:51.780 And then it gets to the point, you know, if they're old enough to be your dad, that's,

01:47:56.020 you know, it's like, where is their head up to?

01:47:58.300 So, yeah, I think it just depends, like, on the person, like, I could see that.

01:48:01.520 Like, if, if you're more mature, then you would want probably an older guy, you know,

01:48:06.020 to match with your level, but if you're not on the same page, I guess you would know when

01:48:12.000 you talk to someone, you see their common ground, yeah.

01:48:14.400 Older men can still be very immature.

01:48:16.300 They can.

01:48:16.800 That is true.

01:48:17.260 Same thing with women.

01:48:18.180 That is very true.

01:48:18.920 Older men can be very immature.

01:48:19.640 Same thing with women, though.

01:48:20.700 A lot of older women can be very, very immature.

01:48:23.300 That is true.

01:48:23.960 Yeah.

01:48:24.280 I think for me, it was always just, because I've tried to date guys that were either younger

01:48:28.440 or, like, within the same age group, and it's just, I feel like I was always at such

01:48:31.800 a different level, because I had the party phase.

01:48:33.880 I had the going out phase.

01:48:35.440 And I, when I started dating guys that were a little bit older than me, I was like, okay,

01:48:38.460 like, because, like, I'm at the point in my life, I'm going to be honest with you,

01:48:40.420 if I met someone that, you know, provided for me and gave me, you know, we had a good

01:48:44.880 relationship, a healthy relationship, I would definitely settle down.

01:48:47.780 Gotta be equally yoked.

01:48:48.860 Equally yoked.

01:48:49.560 Exactly.

01:48:50.260 That's true.

01:48:50.940 That makes a lot of sense.

01:48:51.760 What about you, Brian?

01:48:55.540 True.

01:48:55.880 What about me?

01:48:56.520 What are we talking about?

01:48:57.200 What's your age, or your dating age preference?

01:49:00.400 Dating age preference?

01:49:02.140 Are you even dating anyone, Brian?

01:49:03.940 What do you mean?

01:49:04.860 Are you dating anyone?

01:49:05.660 I have a relationship with Jesus.

01:49:07.680 Oh.

01:49:08.600 Are you still a man of God?

01:49:09.740 I am a man of God.

01:49:11.380 Okay.

01:49:11.720 That's good.

01:49:12.520 We're working on this.

01:49:15.300 I, uh.

01:49:17.180 What?

01:49:17.700 Why are you stuttering?

01:49:19.880 I'm thinking of becoming, what's the male version of a nun?

01:49:23.420 Oh.

01:49:23.880 A monk?

01:49:24.720 A priest?

01:49:25.620 Yes.

01:49:26.140 I'm going to become a monk.

01:49:27.420 Well, a monk's not.

01:49:28.680 A Buddhist.

01:49:29.600 Yeah, that's a priest.

01:49:30.560 Yeah.

01:49:31.060 He's a pastor.

01:49:31.760 He's a pastor.

01:49:31.940 But that's Catholic.

01:49:33.060 Pastors have families.

01:49:34.280 Yeah, families.

01:49:35.080 Yeah.

01:49:35.140 I'm going to be a.

01:49:38.480 What?

01:49:39.100 You okay, Maddie?

01:49:39.800 Thanks.

01:49:40.700 Yeah.

01:49:41.700 Uh.

01:49:42.340 What?

01:49:42.680 I'm going to be a.

01:49:44.380 What's the term?

01:49:45.460 I don't know.

01:49:46.720 There's a term for it.

01:49:48.020 Why, though?

01:49:48.800 What is it?

01:49:49.000 Why do you want to do that?

01:49:52.140 You're going to save yourself for Jesus forever?

01:49:55.180 I don't believe you.

01:49:57.360 Like.

01:49:57.800 Do you think if.

01:49:58.580 Do you think Jesus is coming back?

01:50:01.140 Oh, absolutely.

01:50:02.080 Like, that's a biblical prophecy.

01:50:03.160 That's in Revelation.

01:50:03.940 Do you think, like, he would, like, have a wife?

01:50:06.820 Like, he comes back and have a wife, you think?

01:50:09.700 I don't know.

01:50:10.380 Is that part of the prophecy?

01:50:11.520 No.

01:50:12.120 He wouldn't?

01:50:12.620 I mean, he's first.

01:50:13.300 I mean, he's going to come back.

01:50:14.000 He's the Messiah.

01:50:14.540 That's Jesus Christ.

01:50:15.400 Christ.

01:50:15.800 Right.

01:50:16.040 He's going to come back.

01:50:17.720 And I also.

01:50:18.860 There's a lot of things that have been coming true in Revelation lately.

01:50:21.200 Like biblical prophecy.

01:50:21.520 Prophecy.

01:50:22.060 Yeah.

01:50:22.580 So he's coming back for sure.

01:50:25.100 Do you think he would take a wife, though?

01:50:27.540 Like, would you.

01:50:28.220 Would you be in line to, like, slide in his DMs?

01:50:31.840 What?

01:50:32.300 Jesus.

01:50:33.180 Jesus.

01:50:34.100 No.

01:50:34.720 You wouldn't hit up Jesus, son?

01:50:36.500 Maybe.

01:50:36.700 But here's the thing.

01:50:37.440 I want to meet Jesus.

01:50:38.540 Like, when you know, when you, like, say, like, oh, who would you want to eat dinner with?

01:50:41.080 And, like, pick someone.

01:50:42.580 Or, like, if you could go back in time, where would you go?

01:50:44.140 Like, I would go back and meet you.

01:50:44.880 Is Jesus your type?

01:50:45.800 Nick, can you pull up some photos of Jesus?

01:50:46.700 Is Jesus your type?

01:50:48.160 We're going to ask the girls if, like, Jesus is your type.

01:50:50.080 Um, but it's, like, tall, dark hair.

01:50:54.900 Yeah.

01:50:55.560 Can turn water into wine.

01:50:56.560 Yeah.

01:50:56.620 Can turn water into wine.

01:50:57.620 Can turn water into marital eastern, too.

01:50:59.840 Is he what?

01:51:00.440 Wasn't he middle eastern?

01:51:01.280 Yeah.

01:51:02.920 He's from Israel.

01:51:04.100 Yeah.

01:51:04.340 He's from Israel.

01:51:05.040 Yeah.

01:51:05.160 So, he looks like a, you know.

01:51:06.940 Okay.

01:51:07.720 So, ladies, is, like, would you, would you, are you, like, DTF for Jesus?

01:51:15.000 Like, are you down for, is this, did he really look like that?

01:51:17.980 Okay.

01:51:18.760 That one on the right corner, that white one right there, that looks like.

01:51:21.840 Well, that's, that's a real man.

01:51:23.200 Yes.

01:51:23.560 Oh, okay.

01:51:23.820 Because the other is a real man.

01:51:24.980 Well, Jesus is also a real man, but that's, like, like, a modern man acting like Jesus.

01:51:29.900 Would you guys scroll down a bit, Nick?

01:51:33.320 This is funny.

01:51:33.800 Oh, pull up.

01:51:34.480 Oh, wait.

01:51:35.840 Cavazil?

01:51:36.300 Wait, what's his name?

01:51:36.900 Didn't Jesus have a wife already?

01:51:38.260 You know, the guy from The Chosen, is that what you're saying?

01:51:39.980 No, no, no.

01:51:40.440 The guy, the guy from, uh, Passion of the Christ.

01:51:42.620 Oh.

01:51:42.820 Nick.

01:51:43.160 Look at Passion of the Christ.

01:51:43.660 What's his name?

01:51:44.420 Chat, what's his name?

01:51:45.280 Cavazil?

01:51:45.680 What's his first name?

01:51:46.620 I know who you're talking about.

01:51:48.200 Chat.

01:51:48.360 Passion of the Christ is also a great movie.

01:51:49.580 What's his name?

01:51:50.100 The guy from, uh, Passion of the Christ.

01:51:52.160 What's his name?

01:51:52.960 Jim, is it?

01:51:53.920 Jim.

01:51:54.340 Jim Cavazil.

01:51:57.080 Caviezel?

01:51:57.540 Yes.

01:51:58.080 I thought it was Cavazil.

01:51:58.980 Nick, uh, could you Google Jim Cavazil?

01:52:04.780 Like, J-I-S?

01:52:06.040 But that's not Jesus.

01:52:07.700 He plays Jesus.

01:52:08.320 Well, he depicted Jesus, but...

01:52:09.920 He depicts Jesus.

01:52:11.120 Jim Cavazil, Jesus.

01:52:12.940 Passion of the Christ.

01:52:13.680 Yeah, that one.

01:52:14.300 That, yeah.

01:52:16.020 Um, scroll down.

01:52:16.800 He did a great job.

01:52:18.260 Phenomenal film.

01:52:18.740 Do the one where he's got the crown of thorns.

01:52:21.500 Yep.

01:52:21.940 There you go.

01:52:22.600 No, the, the, the, the blue one.

01:52:24.660 Yeah, that, yeah.

01:52:25.340 Pull, pull, yep.

01:52:26.040 Click that one.

01:52:26.500 Right before the crucifixion.

01:52:27.580 What do you think, girls?

01:52:28.400 Like, is he, like, kind of your type, or?

01:52:30.860 I mean, Jesus Christ was the strongest man to ever live.

01:52:32.660 He died for all of our sins.

01:52:34.100 Caviezel?

01:52:34.460 I would say that's my type.

01:52:35.120 I would say that's my type.

01:52:37.040 Um, a strong man.

01:52:38.180 Like, you know what I mean?

01:52:38.700 Strong, masculine man?

01:52:39.600 Yeah.

01:52:41.000 Okay, I don't know why I'm doing this.

01:52:42.460 Um, can you also just, really quick, Jesus the walking dead?

01:52:46.160 What?

01:52:46.380 While we're at it.

01:52:47.740 What?

01:52:48.320 What?

01:52:49.080 Just, no, just Jesus walking dead.

01:52:51.840 Oh my God.

01:52:53.340 Bro, we need to get you some typing classes, Nick.

01:52:55.640 We need to up your words per minute.

01:52:57.780 Type to learn.

01:52:59.580 What about this guy, Jesus?

01:53:01.060 No.

01:53:01.980 That looks like a Jesus, not a Jesus.

01:53:03.940 Okay, fine.

01:53:04.520 Jesus.

01:53:05.400 All right.

01:53:05.940 Okay, I don't know how.

01:53:07.020 God, I'm always bringing in the conversations to learn classes.

01:53:09.680 But you're a man of God.

01:53:11.280 Right?

01:53:14.040 Where, I don't, anyways.

01:53:15.140 Never even went around the table, I don't think, with the.

01:53:18.280 Relationship?

01:53:18.860 Relationships.

01:53:19.860 Wait, did you answer?

01:53:20.920 Oh yeah, I did.

01:53:21.660 You didn't answer.

01:53:22.140 What?

01:53:23.440 Arby's.

01:53:24.320 No way, you got the Arby's.

01:53:25.480 Oh my gosh.

01:53:25.800 I've never had Arby's.

01:53:26.700 The meats.

01:53:27.940 We got the meats.

01:53:30.080 Oh, I forgot that was their slogan.

01:53:32.660 Yeah, that is their slogan.

01:53:34.220 Yes.

01:53:34.520 Let me do a couple chats here.

01:53:38.120 Jesus.

01:53:39.480 Well, I'm not single.

01:53:40.360 I can't believe you have the shirt.

01:53:41.780 It's almost like, he looks like a bum in front of me.

01:53:43.220 My one year anniversary is tomorrow.

01:53:45.140 Aw, that's not all.

01:53:45.540 We have.

01:53:46.400 It's tomorrow.

01:53:47.460 Dragonfly.

01:53:48.180 Did you talk?

01:53:48.580 Army.

01:53:49.380 Army.

01:53:49.740 Peace is no longer an option.

01:53:51.100 This is a declaration of war.

01:53:53.080 Oh my gosh.

01:53:53.800 I'm not sure what that's.

01:53:55.440 What does that mean?

01:53:55.940 Revolution.

01:53:56.540 It didn't even kill it.

01:53:57.440 It killed itself running into life.

01:53:59.600 Oh, Dragonfly.

01:54:00.640 Oh, Dragonfly.

01:54:01.740 My army.

01:54:03.560 Oh, Dragonfly army.

01:54:06.240 Oh, the dragonites.

01:54:07.860 Okay.

01:54:09.000 We had our first Dragonfly delete himself.

01:54:15.280 So.

01:54:16.600 It was a hard goodbye.

01:54:18.480 R.I.P.

01:54:19.180 The Dragonfly was in therapy, but the therapist wasn't able to talk about it.

01:54:21.720 We had a funeral for like one minute.

01:54:23.800 And then he started twitching.

01:54:25.000 Yeah, he had, you know, mental issues.

01:54:27.020 That's okay.

01:54:28.100 It was a blue Dragonfly.

01:54:29.120 He went to the blue light too.

01:54:30.140 Oh, it was attracted to the blue.

01:54:33.260 That toxic light.

01:54:35.140 That toxic light.

01:54:36.500 So wait, we didn't go all the way around on relation.

01:54:38.700 Like Morgan, did you share?

01:54:41.000 I've been single since mine.

01:54:42.520 Maddie hasn't shared.

01:54:43.260 I just shared mine.

01:54:44.260 I said I was taken.

01:54:45.720 My longest relationship is my current relationship.

01:54:48.520 It's one year tomorrow.

01:54:49.940 Oh, wow.

01:54:50.680 Happy early anniversary.

01:54:52.940 What are you guys doing?

01:54:53.760 So cute.

01:54:55.120 Wow.

01:54:55.600 Good times.

01:54:56.520 Good times.

01:54:57.260 Yo, shout out to Frankie.

01:54:58.340 Frankie is a fucking G.

01:54:59.620 Shout out Frankie.

01:55:00.600 Frankie is the homie.

01:55:01.680 I love you.

01:55:02.360 He's the homie.

01:55:03.480 He's.

01:55:04.240 He's the home.

01:55:05.380 He's the homie.

01:55:06.800 And I felt, I felt bad when during the, uh, our last podcast with the American Gladiators

01:55:13.200 when you were like, well, I know he's the one.

01:55:15.860 I'm in love.

01:55:16.860 And they're like, oh, that's so cute.

01:55:19.160 Yeah.

01:55:19.440 I was like, Frankie, I, I didn't say anything, but like, I was, I was like, man, that's kind

01:55:24.540 of, that's kind of mean to say.

01:55:25.480 And I was like, no, Frankie, I was going to, in my head, I was like, Frankie's a really

01:55:28.620 good guy.

01:55:29.300 And like, I actually do think that you guys are going to go the distance.

01:55:31.780 So, I think congratulations on your, I wish you guys the best.

01:55:37.480 He wear, you know, the shorts that you gave him, he, he's been wearing them for like five

01:55:41.560 days straight.

01:55:42.780 Yeah.

01:55:43.180 I don't know how to take on a mom.

01:55:44.620 They're comfortable, right?

01:55:45.280 Yeah.

01:55:45.460 They're really cool.

01:55:46.180 He loves them.

01:55:47.160 He said, thank you.

01:55:47.940 Oh, shout out to mentality for sending us a bunch of, uh, merch.

01:55:52.800 Appreciate it.

01:55:53.240 Thank you.

01:55:53.780 Um, okay.

01:55:54.340 So got a couple of questions for you guys.

01:55:56.360 I know we kind of lingered on the relationship status stuff for a while and I will, I will

01:56:02.140 circle back.

01:56:03.020 Um, I actually want to come back to you really quick.

01:56:05.300 So you were in a three year relationship.

01:56:07.640 The guy turned out to be gay.

01:56:08.900 Yeah.

01:56:09.480 Um, you've been single this entire time.

01:56:12.300 You said there's a situation.

01:56:13.800 Yeah.

01:56:13.840 I had like, I would date casually, but I also wanted to clarify when I did that.

01:56:17.940 Um, I will not sleep with you unless I know for a fact that we are like, we make this

01:56:23.860 like communication that we are only sleeping with each other and yeah, that's good.

01:56:28.240 Yeah.

01:56:28.440 Just cause like, I don't, I don't do hookup culture.

01:56:30.420 Has that always been your standard though?

01:56:32.120 Like you've had a one night stand.

01:56:33.620 I'm sure.

01:56:34.100 Never, never, never.

01:56:35.700 Have you, have you ever hooked up with a guy?

01:56:37.700 Not a one night stand, but the same day or night you met him?

01:56:40.820 No, never.

01:56:41.960 Yeah.

01:56:43.280 I've always had a relationship early.

01:56:45.000 You have morals and that's very good.

01:56:46.360 I have morals.

01:56:47.220 Very good.

01:56:48.040 Hard to find.

01:56:49.020 Yes.

01:56:49.520 Yeah.

01:56:50.700 He plays the sus music.

01:56:55.140 Brian, what?

01:56:57.720 Brian, that's creepy.

01:56:58.820 Yeah.

01:56:59.240 I'm a little scared.

01:56:59.620 Okay.

01:57:00.180 You're scared.

01:57:01.080 You're scaring though.

01:57:02.180 Everyone's like cap.

01:57:03.600 Okay.

01:57:04.180 All right.

01:57:04.840 Okay.

01:57:05.600 Uh, so.

01:57:06.040 I just prefer the traditional way, you know?

01:57:07.680 Yes.

01:57:08.000 The traditional way.

01:57:09.100 I am.

01:57:09.380 We will talk about that.

01:57:10.320 Yeah.

01:57:10.620 The traditional way here in a bit.

01:57:12.340 But, but so, uh, when's the last time you were involved with a guy, whether it was relationship

01:57:16.720 or situation ship?

01:57:17.760 Um, it was in this April.

01:57:20.580 I ended things like it was like a year long situation ship.

01:57:23.600 Sure.

01:57:23.780 And it wasn't, it was such a weird relationship because I even hate saying that word.

01:57:28.520 I'm going to be honest with you.

01:57:29.140 Cause like, I don't, I'm not a fan of them.

01:57:31.020 Of relationships?

01:57:32.040 Of situations.

01:57:32.500 Oh, situations.

01:57:33.280 Okay.

01:57:33.420 Yeah.

01:57:33.820 And it was one of those things where I honestly was just, I'm going to be honest.

01:57:37.300 I was delusional.

01:57:38.520 I was just because like he would feed me certain things and it was like the whole, he was insecure

01:57:44.120 to be with me because of what, one, what I do for work.

01:57:47.380 He didn't like that.

01:57:48.420 And two, he didn't like that.

01:57:49.820 I was like super in the gym and he wasn't.

01:57:51.560 What do you, what do you do for work again?

01:57:53.060 Um, I stream on, I'm a video game.

01:57:55.060 I stream Call of Duty.

01:57:56.180 He didn't like that.

01:57:56.940 No.

01:57:57.740 Why?

01:57:58.240 He wasn't supportive.

01:57:59.140 Why did he dislike it?

01:58:00.060 Wasn't supportive.

01:58:00.780 Wasn't supportive.

01:58:01.760 I'm going to be honest with you.

01:58:02.880 Most of my friends are male.

01:58:04.340 I game with most of them.

01:58:05.340 I have a couple of girlfriends I game with.

01:58:06.800 Oh, I see.

01:58:08.720 Oh my God.

01:58:09.520 Online only.

01:58:10.660 I swear.

01:58:11.480 Sure.

01:58:11.820 Yeah.

01:58:12.120 Sure.

01:58:13.700 And we literally just game together.

01:58:15.460 And like, I think he also, I'm going to be honest with you, like on Twitch.

01:58:17.680 Can you scoot your mic?

01:58:19.520 Oh, it's blocking?

01:58:20.220 Yeah.

01:58:20.340 We just don't want your face blocked too much.

01:58:22.040 Yeah.

01:58:22.180 That's good.

01:58:22.740 Perfect.

01:58:23.220 Um, so if you know, I'm sure, you know, streaming, most of your income comes from donations and whatever.

01:58:27.200 And most of my donations are from males.

01:58:29.420 And I think he had a problem with that.

01:58:31.280 I think, can you, you need to scoot your mic, like scoot it to the very end of the table.

01:58:36.720 Yeah.

01:58:37.160 Like that.

01:58:37.640 Perfect.

01:58:38.120 Right there.

01:58:38.700 Perfect.

01:58:39.000 Perfect.

01:58:39.340 Perfect.

01:58:40.440 Um, so, okay.

01:58:42.540 He had an issue with the Twitch streaming, but you don't do OnlyFans.

01:58:46.880 I don't.

01:58:47.180 I don't, okay.

01:58:47.860 No, I'm really against that.

01:58:48.900 No Patreon.

01:58:49.400 No.

01:58:49.620 Okay.

01:58:49.960 Yeah.

01:58:50.360 Um, so he had an issue with it and then.

01:58:54.320 Yeah.

01:58:54.600 Which is crazy.

01:58:55.340 Cause I'm saying, I don't do any of like the exclusive content that most people do.

01:58:58.680 So I was like, I feel like I'm PG if anything compared to what other people do these days.

01:59:03.300 So, but that was like the main thing.

01:59:05.420 And then I finally told them, I was like, look, I'm going to be honest with you.

01:59:09.580 This has been a year long of off and on.

01:59:11.980 And I, I moved back to LA.

01:59:13.980 I haven't seen him.

01:59:14.780 Like I've only seen him like twice since I was here.

01:59:17.460 Yo, FDG.

01:59:18.480 Thank you for the, uh, gifted 50 memberships.

01:59:22.480 So you moved back to LA.

01:59:23.820 Yeah.

01:59:24.440 Are you, so you're living in LA now.

01:59:25.880 I'm born and raised from LA, but during the pandemic, I moved to San Diego.

01:59:28.880 Okay.

01:59:29.200 Got it.

01:59:29.820 Got it.

01:59:30.620 Okay.

01:59:31.200 Yeah.

01:59:31.680 Um, so you're, you've been single since April.

01:59:36.920 Yeah.

01:59:37.280 But I also, like, I wasn't intimate with him.

01:59:39.540 So again, it was me kind of, it was a one-sided relationship.

01:59:42.700 I'm going to be honest with you.

01:59:43.600 One-sided how?

01:59:44.440 Because I'm sure in his head, I'm, I'm almost positive.

01:59:47.120 Wait, can I have you scoot your mic?

01:59:49.040 No, no, no.

01:59:49.520 Not you.

01:59:50.020 Scoot your mic that way.

01:59:51.000 It's just kind of blocking your face a little bit.

01:59:52.420 No problem.

01:59:52.880 Perfect.

01:59:53.360 That's perfect.

01:59:54.260 Perfect.

01:59:54.540 Yeah.

01:59:54.880 Um, but I feel like it was one-sided just because like I said,

01:59:58.220 I literally ended things and three weeks later, I saw he was posting another girl already

02:00:03.840 and like they're in a relationship, like they're in a full-blown relationship.

02:00:07.320 She lives all the way up North and he lives out here and he flies her out.

02:00:12.140 And when he used to tell me like, yeah, hours too far and hours too far.

02:00:16.060 Wait.

02:00:16.540 So when you say it's one-sided, it was one-sided on my end.

02:00:20.860 Like, so you were giving more or he was giving, I was giving, she was giving.

02:00:23.960 Okay.

02:00:24.240 Okay.

02:00:24.560 Okay.

02:00:24.780 Got it.

02:00:25.620 Um, but you, you said you were never intimate.

02:00:27.620 You guys never had hooked up.

02:00:28.740 We, we were in the beginning when we, when we, um, like the first six months of the

02:00:32.200 situation ship, he would come see me, um, every now and then we-

02:00:35.500 At the brothel?

02:00:36.680 No, not like a fucking brothel.

02:00:38.200 Oh no, just the way you say you'd come see me.

02:00:39.540 No, no, no.

02:00:40.360 We would literally go on dates and we would go to like, we would go to like Nobu.

02:00:43.340 We would go, you know, to like just little stuff like that.

02:00:46.380 Like, and it was like, it wasn't, it was very nice.

02:00:48.480 You know, I'm a captain, you all left ten and donated one hundred and one dollars.

02:00:53.380 Left ten.

02:00:53.740 Oh, I love that.

02:00:54.100 How, when did you find out your ex was gay?

02:00:56.640 Were there any obvious signs you missed but you realized after in hindsight?

02:01:01.960 Oh yeah.

02:01:03.140 Do you want to answer?

02:01:03.820 I would love to.

02:01:04.480 Yeah.

02:01:04.800 When you realized?

02:01:05.280 Yeah.

02:01:05.540 When I realized?

02:01:06.060 You realized he was gay?

02:01:06.520 So he started, so like I said, we weren't really, I'm going to be honest, like I'm not a sexual

02:01:11.120 person.

02:01:11.620 When I was younger, I was like, you know, it was my first relationship and it wasn't, you

02:01:15.660 know, it was just like a typical, like, you know, I didn't know any better.

02:01:19.660 And when we first moved in together, we only lived together for a year.

02:01:23.680 I was cleaning his laundry and I opened one of his drawers and I saw a bunch of fucking

02:01:28.140 sex toys and I was like, okay, seriously, one, we don't use them.

02:01:32.800 And two, there was a butt plug in there.

02:01:35.200 That's awesome.

02:01:36.520 I swear, full on, like male lingerie, everything.

02:01:41.800 And I asked him about it.

02:01:42.800 I confronted him and I was like, male lingerie, male, like a dog strap, like a, yeah, like velvet

02:01:47.800 shit.

02:01:48.440 I don't, I was like, whoa, like my mind was blown and keep in mind, I was probably like

02:01:51.620 20 at this time.

02:01:52.800 So I was just like, what is this?

02:01:54.280 So then you asked him and I asked him and he says, oh, I just, I have like a dark side

02:01:58.180 of me.

02:01:58.460 Like, I like to be a little freaky and I was scared to ask you.

02:02:01.060 Like, he was just like scared to almost like, like I thought in my mind, he was scared to

02:02:05.760 ask me to do like things in the bedroom that we weren't normally doing.

02:02:08.280 How long were we all together at that point?

02:02:09.900 Two years.

02:02:11.080 And we slept together a year into our relationship.

02:02:14.640 So we waited.

02:02:15.720 Yeah.

02:02:15.840 So you waited a year, moved in together, found this two years later.

02:02:19.500 Yep.

02:02:19.660 I don't know, man.

02:02:20.340 That sounds like a lot of work.

02:02:22.700 Yeah.

02:02:22.980 A year?

02:02:25.240 Yeah.

02:02:25.840 The first.

02:02:27.080 Yeah.

02:02:27.300 First year.

02:02:27.600 We were young.

02:02:28.060 We were 18.

02:02:28.220 The first boyfriend.

02:02:28.820 Yeah.

02:02:29.100 I was 18.

02:02:29.720 Were you a virgin?

02:02:30.940 I was.

02:02:31.780 Oh, I mean.

02:02:32.500 Okay.

02:02:33.140 That makes sense.

02:02:33.800 It makes sense.

02:02:34.320 A year is kind of long.

02:02:36.200 No, but as you're young.

02:02:37.640 If you're a virgin, a year is kind of long.

02:02:39.000 It's not long.

02:02:39.320 It's a long time.

02:02:40.140 I really thought I was going to marry you.

02:02:41.280 It's not long if you're a virgin.

02:02:42.420 What about you, Morgan?

02:02:44.100 Like, how long did you wait?

02:02:46.460 Well, like, in the past, depends, but now, I'll wait two years, three years, when there's

02:02:52.580 a ring.

02:02:53.280 Right, but in the past.

02:02:54.020 Yes.

02:02:54.120 I'm talking in the past.

02:02:55.100 I'm all for you.

02:02:56.700 There were hookups.

02:02:58.200 Sorry, that's fine.

02:02:59.180 In the past.

02:02:59.620 In the past.

02:03:00.260 But you've, you've.

02:03:01.100 But.

02:03:01.420 She has been.

02:03:01.980 You're walking.

02:03:02.600 She has been more to her mindset.

02:03:04.140 You're walking with God.

02:03:05.080 Yeah.

02:03:05.340 But in the past.

02:03:05.900 She wants to come with a new identity.

02:03:08.440 Right?

02:03:08.780 You want, like, a first start.

02:03:09.120 I mean, I think a year should be bare minimum, honestly.

02:03:11.260 Like, even if you're not saving yourself for marriage, and you're dating intentionally,

02:03:14.480 you're dating, whatever.

02:03:15.260 Over a year.

02:03:16.960 I think a solid three dates.

02:03:19.500 Three dates?

02:03:20.280 Three dates?

02:03:20.680 Three dates.

02:03:21.520 And you expect a girl to put out for you?

02:03:23.680 Wow.

02:03:24.020 But you don't want to pay for the first date?

02:03:25.460 Are you talking about people doing the first date?

02:03:28.080 Whatever hookup culture exists, people doing the first date.

02:03:31.700 Wait, why does it have to be, the girl has to put out for me?

02:03:35.580 Shouldn't it, I'm putting out for her?

02:03:38.200 But you said you're not paying for the first date.

02:03:40.020 What do you mean?

02:03:40.520 So you're not going to pay for dates, and then you expect for her to sleep with you on

02:03:43.280 a third date?

02:03:43.680 Wait, what does me paying for the date, or not paying for the date, have to do with

02:03:50.040 a mutually beneficial sexual encounter?

02:03:53.620 Oh my gosh.

02:03:54.860 No, because you, it's not mutually beneficial, actually, because it's harming the woman emotionally.

02:04:00.880 Because we talk about this.

02:04:02.280 Are you saying romantic?

02:04:02.880 No, no, no.

02:04:03.440 Because you're still, what?

02:04:05.280 Disavow.

02:04:06.100 Disavow.

02:04:07.160 And erroneous.

02:04:07.940 Erroneous.

02:04:08.820 Erroneous.

02:04:09.280 I still love you, Morgan, but not like in a romantic way, but like in a friendly sort

02:04:14.880 of...

02:04:15.120 But here's the thing.

02:04:15.740 If you're not going to marry that woman, okay, then she's now going off to her next

02:04:19.940 relationship with another body.

02:04:21.840 Is she not?

02:04:22.580 After three dates, she slept with a guy.

02:04:25.940 When I, okay, I've said this before on shows, but my goal, not my goal, but if I sleep with

02:04:31.320 a girl, I'm not interested in a one night stand.

02:04:33.820 I'm not interested in sleeping with a girl just once and never talking to her again.

02:04:37.520 So if I sleep with a girl, my intention is for there to be a continuity and for me to

02:04:41.560 continue seeing her.

02:04:43.140 So my goal isn't just sleep with a girl once.

02:04:45.460 But why three dates?

02:04:46.780 Why three dates?

02:04:47.440 Yeah.

02:04:48.340 Okay, you spent three one-hour dates with her.

02:04:50.280 You know her for three hours.

02:04:51.300 Well, I don't have any qualms.

02:04:52.940 Like, I think that's...

02:04:54.860 I mean, we could do it sooner, even.

02:04:56.700 We could do it the first date.

02:04:57.820 We could do it the second date.

02:04:58.640 Oh, man.

02:04:59.300 Third date, I think...

02:04:59.900 My current boyfriend, I actually hooked up with him the very first time we hung out alone.

02:05:04.400 And I will say, like, you know, it can happen.

02:05:06.020 Hook up and lead your relationship.

02:05:06.840 I don't know.

02:05:07.460 They can.

02:05:07.960 If the man is invested, I think...

02:05:10.660 Okay.

02:05:10.800 Well, you have a different perspective on, like, waiting till marriage.

02:05:14.280 So I feel like I can't really argue that.

02:05:15.740 I mean, some of my old relationships, though, did start, you know, with that.

02:05:20.360 But, I mean, obviously they ended, but...

02:05:21.560 In an ideal world, like, I 100% agree with you.

02:05:24.880 Like, yes, would it be best for people to...

02:05:29.200 Like, the first person they ever meet, like...

02:05:32.360 Yeah, I mean, it's very non-societally conventional anymore.

02:05:36.320 Yeah.

02:05:36.940 Yeah.

02:05:37.200 No, and I mean, I think, like, having family, that's wonderful.

02:05:41.500 I'm all for that, but I don't think you...

02:05:45.580 But you also don't want to get married.

02:05:47.020 Don't want to get married.

02:05:47.960 Right.

02:05:48.400 I mean, like...

02:05:48.960 This is very contradictory, Brian.

02:05:50.720 Maybe, like, a strong, independent Latina woman might be able to convince me to marry

02:05:54.740 her, but, like, you know...

02:05:57.200 Like an AOC, big booty Latina.

02:05:59.600 AOC?

02:05:59.980 Big booty Latina?

02:06:01.020 Like Miami?

02:06:01.820 Does she have a big booty?

02:06:02.840 I mean, allegedly.

02:06:04.380 She's stacked up here, but I don't know about down there.

02:06:06.940 Wait, what time are you talking about?

02:06:07.580 Morgan, this is kind of a haram conversation to be having with you right now.

02:06:10.740 Do you know who Shoddy Bae is?

02:06:11.380 Who's Shoddy Bae?

02:06:11.740 I'm just...

02:06:12.280 I love Shoddy Bae.

02:06:14.060 So, Brian, you don't plan a marriage?

02:06:16.820 I mean, Elizabeth, you might be able to talk me into it, but you got to take me on a couple

02:06:20.760 dates first.

02:06:21.140 Do you know what a passport though is?

02:06:23.360 Let's go to fucking...

02:06:25.360 You want to take me out?

02:06:26.480 Chick-a-chee.

02:06:27.520 Japan.

02:06:28.340 I don't know.

02:06:28.640 You know a lot of...

02:06:29.320 Let's go to Colombia.

02:06:29.680 A lot of, like...

02:06:30.720 Not a lot of, but a few men in my family have actually been passport bros, and it's come

02:06:36.240 out very successful for them.

02:06:37.800 Like, they found the woman that they love.

02:06:39.660 They built the family that they wanted to do.

02:06:42.420 Because they want to come to America.

02:06:43.460 That's kind of how you further your life.

02:06:45.460 That's true.

02:06:46.060 It's like with someone you truly love, and that's like your ride or die.

02:06:50.140 That's what I believe in.

02:06:51.200 You know...

02:06:52.200 Hmm.

02:06:54.940 Ride or die.

02:06:56.340 I don't know.

02:06:57.240 Where were we?

02:06:58.620 How did we get here?

02:06:59.780 We're talking about butt plugs.

02:07:01.260 Yeah, your ex-boyfriend.

02:07:03.360 You're...

02:07:03.840 You're...

02:07:04.260 But, like...

02:07:05.940 Was that how you knew he was gay?

02:07:07.800 No, so I found out, because that was my first suspicion.

02:07:10.720 I confronted...

02:07:11.060 What if you wanted to use it on the girl?

02:07:13.400 I don't do butt stuff.

02:07:15.340 That's, like, not for me.

02:07:16.720 That was a red flag.

02:07:17.480 Why do you have a butt plug when you have a...

02:07:19.000 When we don't do that?

02:07:19.960 That was the one first red flag.

02:07:21.040 I have no idea what this talk is about.

02:07:21.400 Did you believe him when he said, like, oh, it's just, like, my dark side?

02:07:24.520 I took...

02:07:24.900 Like, you didn't further...

02:07:25.980 And I did, but I undercover, low-key investigated.

02:07:29.260 So when he was at work, this is, like, the Snapchat days, right?

02:07:33.040 And back then, I had his laptop at the time.

02:07:35.040 And this is how I was able to hack onto his Snapchat.

02:07:36.960 I was being a little intoxica, and I was like, okay, let me just go through his stuff.

02:07:40.840 And I literally...

02:07:41.940 Sorry.

02:07:42.400 Chance, okay.

02:07:43.300 I changed his email.

02:07:45.080 I don't know why it's so funny about that.

02:07:46.820 But I literally went through his stuff, and I, like, opened his email.

02:07:50.860 Like, I changed his email password, because I had his laptop, and his email was on there.

02:07:53.700 I was like, perfect.

02:07:54.360 So I switched the email, changed the password so he couldn't get in while he was at work.

02:07:57.980 If he saw, I logged in.

02:07:59.340 Logged in, and I went to the saved category.

02:08:01.800 Like, because you know how you can save photos?

02:08:04.680 I saw...

02:08:06.100 Yeah.

02:08:06.820 I'm sure you could guess what I saw.

02:08:08.120 I saw a lot of dicks.

02:08:10.040 Yeah.

02:08:10.220 Maybe...

02:08:10.660 Oh, my God.

02:08:11.280 But, like, I feel like you would have had to gone a step further to confirm the gayness.

02:08:16.720 You know what I mean?

02:08:17.520 Yeah.

02:08:17.960 Well, he dressed...

02:08:18.920 He was very metro.

02:08:20.040 That's why we got along.

02:08:21.400 Did he have the lisp?

02:08:22.960 No.

02:08:23.520 No lisp.

02:08:23.980 The lisp.

02:08:25.120 You know, like the...

02:08:26.040 Yeah.

02:08:26.360 I know what you're talking about.

02:08:26.800 The sort of a fet...

02:08:28.760 Yeah.

02:08:29.160 He kind of had the mannerisms a little bit.

02:08:32.400 Like...

02:08:32.680 Is that your type?

02:08:33.460 No, definitely not.

02:08:34.160 Gay dudes?

02:08:34.660 Definitely not.

02:08:35.140 It was a phase.

02:08:35.520 You dated him for three years.

02:08:36.380 It was a phase.

02:08:37.180 I was so young.

02:08:38.000 That was my first, like...

02:08:38.980 Do you think he was dating you to, like...

02:08:40.220 Hide the fact...

02:08:41.280 Oh, yeah.

02:08:41.500 I was definitely his beard.

02:08:42.280 Okay.

02:08:42.560 Oh, I see.

02:08:43.100 Would you call that...

02:08:44.080 We were the sugar...

02:08:44.820 Oh, I see.

02:08:45.220 Like, the cookie cutter life, you know?

02:08:46.440 Would you call that you were, like, in love with her?

02:08:49.540 I mean, him?

02:08:50.420 That was my first love, but now that I'm older and, like, I've, like, dated and experienced

02:08:55.520 other things, I would say...

02:08:57.040 Wait, you're hiding behind the mic again.

02:08:58.640 Hiding.

02:08:59.240 I think what would help is if you're...

02:09:01.120 Talk to me.

02:09:01.820 Okay.

02:09:01.960 I think it'll help.

02:09:02.620 Okay, yeah.

02:09:03.340 That's better.

02:09:04.000 That's good.

02:09:04.660 Yeah, wait.

02:09:05.360 But scoot it closer towards you and scoot it this way.

02:09:07.920 Like that?

02:09:08.300 Yeah, perfect.

02:09:09.480 I'm sorry, but what was I saying again?

02:09:10.720 I totally lost my head.

02:09:11.140 Were you in love?

02:09:11.800 Oh, yeah.

02:09:12.060 So, that was definitely, like, my first love experience, but I've definitely been in, like,

02:09:15.940 love before after that, and it was more of, like, you know, I've experienced love, if

02:09:21.000 that makes sense, but I couldn't...

02:09:22.240 I'm honestly, like, now that I think about it, I probably can say that I've never really

02:09:25.220 been in love with somebody like that, like, deeply, like, to where we're spiritually...

02:09:29.260 And, like, both sides are mutual.

02:09:30.560 Both sides are mutual, right?

02:09:31.400 Because you said you were blindsided.

02:09:33.780 Very blindsided.

02:09:34.460 And I'm not gonna lie, it fucked me up a lot.

02:09:36.720 I was very, like, cautious after that.

02:09:39.920 Especially now that he's dating, like, a trans person.

02:09:41.220 So, like, shortly after you guys ended things, did he...

02:09:43.740 I literally blew up on him.

02:09:45.040 I kicked all his shit out of the house, and, like, that was it.

02:09:47.400 And then did he admit?

02:09:48.520 Wait.

02:09:48.900 He did.

02:09:49.100 You kicked, like, you threw his shit out of the house?

02:09:51.140 Oh, yeah.

02:09:51.480 I was sobbing, like, on the floor, and my mom and my best friends at the time just came

02:09:56.140 and got all trash bags, got all trash bags and just a bunch of stuff to, like, just, like,

02:10:02.220 get everything out as fast as possible, because I was literally, like, sobbing.

02:10:04.840 Like, it was definitely...

02:10:05.480 Wait, you guys were living together?

02:10:06.720 That's dramatic.

02:10:07.800 I think that's...

02:10:08.340 You're really unbroken.

02:10:08.820 Wait, was he paying rent or how...

02:10:10.120 He was paying rent.

02:10:10.700 To you?

02:10:11.460 To, um, to...

02:10:12.920 Well, to, yeah.

02:10:13.880 Like, it was a mutual place.

02:10:15.680 Was it the one-bedroom place?

02:10:16.760 It was the one-bedroom, yeah.

02:10:17.620 One-bedroom.

02:10:20.320 At that time, it was, like, $2,100.

02:10:21.580 You were both on the lease?

02:10:22.640 Yeah.

02:10:24.040 Oh, you were on the lease together?

02:10:25.360 Yep.

02:10:27.000 Okay.

02:10:27.740 Yeah.

02:10:28.040 Were you the primate?

02:10:28.900 Were you the master tenant?

02:10:30.160 Um, I don't know at that time.

02:10:32.160 I think it was, like, a sublease.

02:10:33.220 Like, I was just on the lease.

02:10:34.480 Like, it was just...

02:10:35.340 Yeah.

02:10:35.680 Did you move into his place?

02:10:37.240 I did.

02:10:38.020 Like, we moved in together.

02:10:39.420 Like, to his place.

02:10:39.920 Wait, but he was living there before you?

02:10:41.580 Yes.

02:10:42.140 And you moved in, and you threw all his shit out?

02:10:45.080 Hell, yeah, I did.

02:10:46.040 Hell, yeah, I did.

02:10:46.600 Because I was providing the home for him to come home to.

02:10:49.060 He's working, like, all the time, and I'm providing that home.

02:10:52.860 But he was paying the rent, right?

02:10:54.620 When you were sleeping with him, was he sleeping with other guys?

02:10:56.920 No.

02:10:57.600 Thank God.

02:10:58.020 Okay.

02:10:58.220 He wasn't...

02:10:58.800 He didn't come out yet.

02:10:59.880 He actually didn't really hook up with guys until after I...

02:11:04.120 He was able to come out.

02:11:05.820 So, wait.

02:11:06.120 Do you think he was ever going to tell you if you didn't find out?

02:11:09.940 Probably not.

02:11:10.900 Wait, what prompted...

02:11:12.380 So, okay, the...

02:11:14.140 Throwing his shit out of your shared apartment.

02:11:16.600 Mm-hmm.

02:11:16.900 It was prompted by the fact that you found out he was gay.

02:11:19.280 Correct?

02:11:19.820 Yes, yes.

02:11:20.820 And what was the, like, moment you...

02:11:23.020 Was it the internet thing when you...

02:11:26.060 I saw videos and conversations of him, like, sending dick pictures of other gay guys sending pictures.

02:11:32.820 So, he was cheating.

02:11:33.680 Yeah.

02:11:34.100 Maybe he was bi.

02:11:35.360 That's what we think.

02:11:36.580 Probably.

02:11:36.900 Yeah.

02:11:37.280 It was we.

02:11:38.100 Me and my mom.

02:11:39.440 Sorry.

02:11:39.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:11:40.540 There's another person here.

02:11:42.700 So, you already have it for three years.

02:11:44.360 He sometimes needs someone to discuss with.

02:11:45.380 How long was he sending, you know, nude images to other men and, like, you know, emotionally?

02:11:50.380 I mean, at that point, it's basically physically cheating.

02:11:52.480 Cheating, yeah.

02:11:53.140 Yeah.

02:11:53.320 I never really, honestly, looked...

02:11:55.120 Like, I was just so done.

02:11:56.620 Yeah.

02:11:56.780 And also embarrassed.

02:11:58.460 That's wild.

02:11:58.940 I was very embarrassed.

02:11:59.720 Question.

02:12:00.640 Would it...

02:12:01.640 Would it have been better if it was women?

02:12:06.100 Definitely not.

02:12:07.880 No.

02:12:08.500 I think...

02:12:08.920 I think it would have been...

02:12:10.580 Honestly, I don't know.

02:12:11.760 I mean, it's kind of...

02:12:13.700 Yeah.

02:12:13.960 I think cheating's cheating.

02:12:15.700 Like, regardless.

02:12:16.420 Did it hurt more, honestly, that it was a guy?

02:12:19.940 Yes and no.

02:12:20.820 Because it's, like, also, too, like, I can't change you.

02:12:22.840 I'm not going to be the one to change you.

02:12:23.980 You know what I'm saying?

02:12:24.480 So it was just more confusing mentally.

02:12:26.060 Yeah.

02:12:26.080 It was more confusing mentally.

02:12:27.420 Yeah.

02:12:27.680 Do you think you wasted your time?

02:12:28.740 You learned.

02:12:29.260 Exactly.

02:12:29.480 Because you should learn.

02:12:30.460 You should learn anything from this.

02:12:32.420 Yeah.

02:12:32.640 And that's why when I hear your story, I'm like...

02:12:34.760 Because, like, I was like, you know, you learned so much from relationships.

02:12:37.680 What?

02:12:37.960 What, Elizabeth?

02:12:39.100 What?

02:12:39.780 Oh, what?

02:12:40.220 I thought you were looking at me in a certain type of way.

02:12:42.160 No, I wasn't.

02:12:42.880 Oh, okay.

02:12:43.700 What do you think I was doing?

02:12:44.780 Don't worry about it.

02:12:45.280 Never mind.

02:12:46.100 Okay.

02:12:46.520 It's all good.

02:12:47.300 But, I mean, moral of the thing is, like, I mean, it's just, like, it definitely built me.

02:12:50.940 It changed me.

02:12:51.820 Was it shitty at the situation at a point in time?

02:12:54.740 Yes.

02:12:55.180 But I'm so grateful for it because I definitely wouldn't be here if it wasn't, you know?

02:13:00.960 Everything happens for a reason.

02:13:02.640 Yeah.

02:13:02.880 As I said, everything happens for a reason.

02:13:04.700 Everything happens for a reason.

02:13:04.900 And you learn.

02:13:05.600 I don't know if that one is an everything happens for a reason.

02:13:08.180 But then, like, at least you learn from every downfall.

02:13:11.260 I do want to come back to, so you waited a year to hook up with him.

02:13:16.780 You've been celibate since April from your one-year situationship.

02:13:21.240 Actually, longer than that.

02:13:22.340 But, yeah.

02:13:23.200 Since last year.

02:13:23.680 Oh, you were dating.

02:13:24.340 Wait.

02:13:24.860 When we were, like, kind of talking in the beginning of the year until April, it was,

02:13:28.960 like, through the phone.

02:13:30.240 So, it wasn't, like, like, he came to see me a couple times when I moved back, but we

02:13:33.600 weren't intimate.

02:13:34.660 It was just to go on dates.

02:13:35.960 You were never intimate with the situationship that ended in April?

02:13:39.820 Yeah.

02:13:40.620 Wait.

02:13:40.920 So, when's the last time you hooked up with a guy?

02:13:43.560 It's been a while.

02:13:46.060 So, you've been celibate for how long?

02:13:47.780 I don't even consider it celibate.

02:13:49.020 I just consider it, like, just saving my energy and just not, you know.

02:13:52.760 Saving your energy?

02:13:53.600 Yeah.

02:13:54.280 Saving, yeah.

02:13:55.240 I think sexual interaction is so much energy being exchanged back and forth.

02:13:58.520 It is, yeah.

02:13:59.280 Like, that's why it drains you.

02:14:00.400 Spiritually and physically.

02:14:01.300 Yeah.

02:14:01.820 I really think so.

02:14:03.100 I mean, but that's the way I view sex.

02:14:04.680 Some people can do it casually and be okay.

02:14:05.740 Sex is draining for you?

02:14:08.120 Even with a partner that you love?

02:14:09.860 I like to see sex as in, I said, a special intimate moment with your person, your partner,

02:14:16.360 right?

02:14:16.920 Are your parents watching?

02:14:17.780 Is that why you're saying this?

02:14:18.640 Your parents are watching right now?

02:14:19.240 No, this is what I believe.

02:14:20.160 I don't care if my parents watch or not.

02:14:22.120 It's just what I, this is what I believe.

02:14:24.320 Yeah.

02:14:24.680 Okay.

02:14:24.980 I mean, you're physically giving a part of you, emotionally, physically, to that other

02:14:29.480 person.

02:14:30.040 Yeah.

02:14:30.800 Yeah.

02:14:31.940 You're tied to that person.

02:14:33.940 So you don't believe this, Brian?

02:14:35.900 Don't believe what?

02:14:37.860 Can I go get my glasses?

02:14:40.120 No.

02:14:40.980 You must remain blind for the remainder of the show.

02:14:43.760 You have to sit.

02:14:45.120 It's hurting my head.

02:14:46.920 Wait, are you, don't, what, are you trying to read the?

02:14:49.680 There's nothing.

02:14:50.220 No, I just like, I can't, like, it really hurts to like see you guys.

02:14:52.880 What's your correction level?

02:14:54.100 You got contacts?

02:14:54.840 What's up?

02:14:55.240 No, I have glasses.

02:14:56.200 You don't have contacts?

02:14:57.500 No, because it got messed up.

02:14:59.640 Like, I put them on and they were blurry.

02:15:01.380 I guess they got me the wrong prescription.

02:15:02.720 I actually prefer people viewing me in, like, a semi-blurry state.

02:15:06.780 Because then you look like a 10.

02:15:08.380 I look, yeah, I've got, you know, I've got a little acne occasionally.

02:15:13.140 You know, I've got some wrinkles.

02:15:15.580 Yeah, you can't, like, really see your perfection.

02:15:17.560 So, like, it's almost like you got beer goggles on right now.

02:15:20.280 So you're just like, wow, this guy must be awesome.

02:15:22.680 It's okay, you're a 15 out of 10.

02:15:24.700 You're fine.

02:15:25.300 Okay.

02:15:25.940 I don't know if that's how math works, but, okay.

02:15:29.020 We can have more ratios.

02:15:30.840 Oh, gosh.

02:15:31.420 Oh, gosh, ratios.

02:15:33.420 I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

02:15:33.900 Okay, so you've been celibate for a minute.

02:15:38.300 Yeah, by choice.

02:15:39.920 The last guy you were with, you say you wait how long?

02:15:44.420 I'm going to be honest with you, because, like, after hearing your thing,

02:15:46.860 like I said, if the vibe is there, it's there.

02:15:49.180 But I haven't had a guy where the vibe's there.

02:15:51.280 You've never had the vibe?

02:15:52.620 No, I've never had the vibe yet.

02:15:53.720 Zero vibes.

02:15:54.440 Zero vibes.

02:15:55.020 Zero vibes.

02:15:56.480 Guys don't have vibes these days.

02:15:57.820 There's no vibes.

02:15:58.340 There's no vibes.

02:15:58.840 The vibes are gone.

02:16:00.280 It's terrible.

02:16:00.800 It's just all about, like, I feel like, also, too, guys, just, like, target, like,

02:16:04.960 girls that look a certain way, I feel like, because they just want to date you because

02:16:08.000 you're hot.

02:16:08.760 That's true.

02:16:09.620 Or just because you're hot.

02:16:09.920 I wouldn't date you because you're hot.

02:16:11.620 I would date you for how kind you are, for your heart.

02:16:16.500 It should be the inside.

02:16:17.700 Because.

02:16:17.820 I would date you for your sick gaming montages and skills.

02:16:23.540 I would date you for all the things you bring to me that are definitely not of a physical

02:16:34.900 or sexual nature.

02:16:35.960 The truth is, like, looks.

02:16:36.940 A guy doesn't actually care about that.

02:16:38.820 You're lying.

02:16:39.600 A guy doesn't care about what a girl does for work.

02:16:41.620 If he's immature and doesn't know what he wants, then it's different.

02:16:47.580 A guy doesn't care about a girl's accolades.

02:16:50.180 He does.

02:16:50.500 Yeah.

02:16:50.580 Okay.

02:16:51.060 Based Morgan coming in with some hot takes.

02:16:53.280 I agree with that.

02:16:53.300 I agree with that.

02:16:54.440 He doesn't.

02:16:54.960 A guy would marry.

02:16:56.000 If there was a server, like, at a restaurant.

02:16:58.660 No hate to servers if you're a restaurant server.

02:17:00.720 But if a woman is a server at a restaurant, and this guy is, like, some multi-millionaire,

02:17:04.540 but she's loyal to him and wants to be with him and, like, will do anything, be a housewife,

02:17:09.720 whatever he wants, he will marry her more than, you know, another woman that has millions

02:17:14.220 of dollars and, you know, a PhD from Columbia.

02:17:17.300 A guy doesn't care.

02:17:18.280 Unless you do OnlyFans.

02:17:19.760 Yes!

02:17:20.300 That's true.

02:17:20.880 We do OnlyFans.

02:17:21.700 It's true.

02:17:21.960 I did actually ask a bunch of college guys at Arizona State University last week.

02:17:25.540 I said, would you date a girl with an OnlyFans?

02:17:27.700 And I would say it was about 80% of guys said no.

02:17:30.020 But the ones that said yes were very much low-value men.

02:17:33.280 Like, they weren't high-value men.

02:17:34.440 They were, there was this one guy in particular that told me he would actually show her off.

02:17:38.520 And I was like, so you would be okay with your potential girlfriend selling her body

02:17:42.180 on the internet for other men, and you would show her off because you think she's, like,

02:17:45.420 a trophy.

02:17:46.220 Yep.

02:17:46.380 And I was, but that, again, like, that doesn't make him a high-value man.

02:17:50.240 That, it's just gross.

02:17:51.420 Right?

02:17:52.200 Yep.

02:17:52.340 He would be okay with showing her off.

02:17:54.020 Yep.

02:17:55.320 Like, there was a guy that, like, wanted to date a girl, would date a girl with an OnlyFans.

02:17:58.680 With OnlyFans.

02:17:59.180 Because it makes him look cool.

02:18:02.020 Well, that's a college guy.

02:18:03.360 He would ask his girlfriend's, boyfriend's permission to show his girl off.

02:18:11.180 His girl off.

02:18:12.480 Who I don't like him.

02:18:14.080 Yikes.

02:18:14.260 Yikes.

02:18:14.340 Good times.

02:18:15.120 Good times.

02:18:16.380 But yeah, moral of the story is, like, you know, you said guys don't care about, really,

02:18:20.600 what a girl does.

02:18:21.140 Kind of being a little jokey, you know, but, you know, all right.

02:18:27.280 Good times.

02:18:28.020 I don't know where we were going with that.

02:18:29.740 Yeah, where were we going?

02:18:30.480 We were.

02:18:31.480 Somewhere.

02:18:32.120 We were talking about the vibe.

02:18:33.380 The vibes, yeah.

02:18:33.940 The vibes.

02:18:34.340 Oh, I saw on your, I don't know if it was your Instagram or maybe your kick.

02:18:38.140 Mm-hmm.

02:18:38.360 You describe yourself as Toxica?

02:18:40.960 Toxica.

02:18:41.580 What is that?

02:18:42.300 Oh, my gosh.

02:18:42.880 So, that's like my, that's like my.

02:18:44.400 That's a cute name.

02:18:44.900 That's my, yeah.

02:18:45.440 I like it.

02:18:45.940 Thank you.

02:18:46.460 That's like my brand.

02:18:47.260 So, honestly, like, when I play video games, I turn into a different person.

02:18:50.620 I'm like, I'm honestly, I'm not going to, I'm pretty good at video games.

02:18:54.320 I'm not going to, like, pretty good.

02:18:55.260 I am, okay?

02:18:56.480 I'm a demon.

02:18:57.260 That's good.

02:18:57.420 And I get a little passionate when I'm playing, so I scream, curse a little, I rage.

02:19:03.040 I mean, have you a little brother or something?

02:19:05.340 Huh?

02:19:05.520 In relationships?

02:19:05.860 What about in relationships?

02:19:06.460 Are you Toxica in relationships?

02:19:08.360 Toxica?

02:19:08.560 No.

02:19:09.780 I'm calling Cap on that.

02:19:10.540 Only if they won't be too.

02:19:11.400 Stop the Cap.

02:19:12.300 Brian, you think every Mexican girl is Toxica?

02:19:14.160 Yeah.

02:19:14.460 What is it?

02:19:14.900 Is it because of Madina?

02:19:15.520 No, it was, you literally had it in your kick or your, was it your Instagram or your.

02:19:21.360 She only tries like that when she plays games.

02:19:22.860 Yeah, La Toxica.

02:19:23.220 Yeah, it's in your description.

02:19:24.080 But that's it.

02:19:25.440 Are you Toxica?

02:19:27.180 Huh?

02:19:27.500 You didn't answer my question.

02:19:28.640 What was your question?

02:19:29.660 Do you think, like, every Latino is toxic?

02:19:31.980 Okay.

02:19:32.260 No.

02:19:33.640 No.

02:19:34.560 I don't think so.

02:19:36.140 But, I mean, there is a stereotype, right?

02:19:38.280 There is.

02:19:38.780 Yeah.

02:19:39.140 Like, the fiery Latino woman, you know?

02:19:41.620 I think it's more of a passionate.

02:19:43.000 I'm a passionate lover.

02:19:44.160 I think, I don't believe there's, like, something innately in Latino.

02:19:50.760 Like, I think that's just, like, cope to justify shitty behavior.

02:19:55.940 Yeah.

02:19:56.940 Like, oh, well, you should just deal with my shitty behavior because I happen to be Latina.

02:20:02.300 No, shut the fuck up.

02:20:03.240 Anybody can be toxic.

02:20:04.160 Like, we don't need that shit.

02:20:05.240 Yeah.

02:20:05.460 Yeah.

02:20:05.740 I actually agree with that when it comes to relationship stuff.

02:20:09.060 Yeah.

02:20:09.260 I think it's all about culture as well.

02:20:10.680 Like, where you come from.

02:20:11.480 Like, your culture is very different.

02:20:13.080 Like, you know.

02:20:14.220 Mm-hmm.

02:20:14.880 Yeah.

02:20:15.140 Yeah.

02:20:17.640 Yeah.

02:20:18.900 Okay.

02:20:20.160 Damn.

02:20:20.680 Okay.

02:20:21.900 So, wait, hold on.

02:20:23.960 I got some notes here.

02:20:24.860 We have.

02:20:25.460 Okay.

02:20:25.960 Okay, let's talk about that really quick.

02:20:27.920 So, earlier you said, and in your pre-show notes to us, you said you're traditional.

02:20:31.160 Very.

02:20:31.860 Mm-hmm.

02:20:31.960 Very traditional.

02:20:32.840 Mm-hmm.

02:20:33.800 You said old school values.

02:20:35.620 Yes.

02:20:36.120 You say, you said you come from a traditional family.

02:20:39.140 So, I have very old school.

02:20:40.500 Excuse me.

02:20:40.980 I have a very old school.

02:20:42.360 Jesus, I can't speak right now.

02:20:43.500 I have a very old school view on dating, and I feel like I'm one of the rare ones that

02:20:48.960 are still like that.

02:20:50.080 Yeah.

02:20:50.460 So, a couple questions.

02:20:51.860 What do you mean by rare ones?

02:20:53.860 We're, like, the same.

02:20:54.760 I mean, I'm going to just say, because social media is such a spectrum, you know?

02:20:58.440 Like, you're seeing for what you see.

02:21:00.260 Obviously, it's not going to represent the entire world.

02:21:02.560 But from what I'm seeing on social media, I see girls that are promoting, like, and it's

02:21:07.000 not even me being a hater.

02:21:07.960 It's just, like, the whole, like, for example, like, the OnlyFans thing.

02:21:10.760 Or the whole, like, I think feminism is actually a little bit toxic in a sense of, because,

02:21:16.000 like, feminism promotes that.

02:21:17.720 It's like, feminism all of a sudden is like, oh, you show your hoo-ha.

02:21:20.380 Cool.

02:21:20.720 You're feminine.

02:21:21.300 That's women's empowerment all of a sudden.

02:21:22.740 It's empowerment all of a sudden.

02:21:23.060 It's not empowerment.

02:21:24.000 It's not.

02:21:24.320 It's completely more of that.

02:21:24.960 I think it's so delusional.

02:21:26.640 And it gets me out.

02:21:28.220 But it's true.

02:21:29.280 I just, I think traditional, like...

02:21:31.220 I agree with everything you're saying, yeah.

02:21:31.800 I'm just a traditional girl.

02:21:32.820 Like, I believe...

02:21:33.220 How so?

02:21:33.720 Like, in what ways are you traditional?

02:21:36.260 I personally believe, like, as soon as I become a wife, I am...

02:21:39.500 My husband is my leader.

02:21:41.340 He is there to guide me and my family.

02:21:43.240 And I'm ultimately his...

02:21:44.460 I agree.

02:21:44.480 A hundred percent.

02:21:44.840 Can you just tilt the mic down towards you a little bit?

02:21:48.900 Like that?

02:21:49.580 That was a little too much.

02:21:50.540 I think a little less.

02:21:52.040 Perfect.

02:21:52.480 Okay.

02:21:52.800 Okay.

02:21:53.160 Go ahead.

02:21:53.520 Your husband.

02:21:54.080 Yeah.

02:21:54.200 So, I think, like, again, like, once I find my husband, he is my...

02:21:57.200 I'm pretty much indebted to him.

02:21:58.580 Like, I take care of the kids.

02:22:01.000 I take care of him.

02:22:02.060 I make sure he's okay.

02:22:03.120 I make sure...

02:22:04.040 If he's getting up in the morning to go to work, I'm getting up at 4 a.m. to make sure

02:22:07.320 he has a hot breakfast.

02:22:08.400 And that's what my mom did for my dad.

02:22:10.120 You're wifey material with this.

02:22:12.000 This is good quality.

02:22:13.740 She's good.

02:22:14.640 And I just...

02:22:15.360 Would you marry her, Elizabeth?

02:22:16.840 I would marry you, girl.

02:22:18.840 Wow.

02:22:19.300 Okay.

02:22:21.300 Seriously.

02:22:22.140 I do feel like it's really rare to find someone...

02:22:25.560 Wait, what else?

02:22:26.140 Keep the list going.

02:22:27.220 Keep the list going.

02:22:28.040 Laundry done.

02:22:28.780 You want me to wash your toilet stains, I'll do it.

02:22:30.540 But also, too, you better be providing for me when I need to make sure...

02:22:35.560 Like, I'm not saying I want a fucking Bentley.

02:22:37.700 I want Prada bags.

02:22:39.040 I just want to make sure that I'm comfortable and every single day I wake up knowing that

02:22:43.760 I'm protected and safe.

02:22:45.080 Yes.

02:22:45.260 I agree.

02:22:45.620 I'm getting you a 94 Toyota minivan.

02:22:48.240 Is that cool?

02:22:49.360 I mean...

02:22:49.660 I agree with you.

02:22:50.280 I don't know about the minivan.

02:22:51.240 Can we just get, like...

02:22:51.460 Not a minivan?

02:22:52.180 Camry, at least.

02:22:53.680 What's wrong with the minivan?

02:22:54.880 I don't like minivans.

02:22:55.800 Listen, we're pumping out seven.

02:22:56.960 How many kids are we pumping out?

02:22:57.840 Seven.

02:22:58.600 Seven.

02:23:00.120 You're going to need a Mercedes Sprinter for that.

02:23:02.180 Okay, we're getting a Sprinter.

02:23:03.260 Honestly, minivans...

02:23:04.140 You know, some dynasty shit.

02:23:05.100 We can't have two kids.

02:23:06.920 Yeah, I know.

02:23:07.220 What if they die in the fields or some shit?

02:23:08.960 Oh, my God.

02:23:09.820 No, no, no.

02:23:10.240 No.

02:23:10.960 That wasn't like a...

02:23:12.120 That wasn't like...

02:23:12.700 I meant like...

02:23:13.440 I know what you mean.

02:23:13.880 We're going to live on a farm.

02:23:14.900 It's going to be a farm.

02:23:15.880 It's going to be a homestead.

02:23:17.440 They're going to be...

02:23:18.200 Homestead-based.

02:23:18.540 Put them to work.

02:23:19.920 You know, they're going to be...

02:23:20.860 They're going to be milking cows.

02:23:22.100 Yes.

02:23:22.360 Yeah.

02:23:23.480 Homesteads are in right now.

02:23:24.380 Homesteads got canceled right there.

02:23:25.620 Homemaking.

02:23:26.300 But it's okay.

02:23:27.120 You're good.

02:23:27.860 Yeah, okay.

02:23:28.800 Yeah, so like...

02:23:30.180 But I don't know.

02:23:32.540 I just feel like that's like the biggest thing for me.

02:23:35.300 But I don't know.

02:23:37.680 It's just like...

02:23:38.680 That's to me being traditional.

02:23:40.200 But also, too, it's like everybody wants that life and you say that.

02:23:43.140 But it's so much more than just being a housewife and being cute in your cute little Pilates outfit.

02:23:47.640 It's so much more than that.

02:23:48.620 Because I've seen it, like I said, I saw my mom do it for us.

02:23:51.260 Like...

02:23:51.620 And it's just...

02:23:52.360 I would thrive to be in a relationship like my parents one day.

02:23:56.540 My parents have been together since they were 15.

02:23:57.660 That's what I say about my parents as well.

02:23:58.720 Because I think upbringing is so important.

02:24:00.880 I mean, because you're kind of shaped by the way your parents raised you.

02:24:03.280 Yeah, I don't want the relationship with my parents.

02:24:06.640 It's about the nuclear family and having an actual mother and a father in the household is super important because you're raising the next generation.

02:24:12.500 I love the relationship your parents had.

02:24:14.960 So basically, my dad's an alcoholic.

02:24:16.380 Like, he really...

02:24:17.440 We moved to apartment to apartment because my dad couldn't contain his financial, like, things.

02:24:21.940 And my mom was the one, like, always there for us.

02:24:24.400 Like, my dad really just was working, came home, and that really didn't have a relationship with us.

02:24:28.660 Like, a dad should.

02:24:31.540 He had more of a relationship with, like, my sister.

02:24:33.280 That's why my sister's, like, a daddy's girl.

02:24:34.780 And then I'm more of, like, a mommy's girl because my mom was always there for me.

02:24:38.640 My dad was just kind of, like...

02:24:40.380 We, you know, I obviously couldn't talk to him about, like, personal stuff or, like, what I'm...

02:24:43.960 You know, what actually is going on with my life.

02:24:46.900 It was on and off.

02:24:47.680 My mom left my dad for a couple months, and then she came back with him.

02:24:50.380 And then she...

02:24:52.000 We moved.

02:24:53.700 And then we moved back.

02:24:54.940 And then we moved to Mexico for a year when I was in high school because we couldn't afford rent.

02:24:59.560 Yeah.

02:24:59.720 Kind of sounds like your current relationship.

02:25:04.040 See, it goes back to what I said before.

02:25:07.840 It goes back to what relationship your parents had when you were a kid.

02:25:11.260 Yep.

02:25:11.760 The way you're raised...

02:25:13.020 Because you said that wasn't true.

02:25:14.960 What was that?

02:25:15.420 And that you, like, kind of see your parents, and that's kind of how you imagine a relationship.

02:25:22.360 It's kind of like, what do you think this is what love should feel like?

02:25:25.420 Yeah, I feel like...

02:25:26.720 Because your parents are, like, raising you, you know?

02:25:28.580 Yeah.

02:25:28.880 I mean, look at Fatherless Homes, and the women that are coming out of Fatherless Homes

02:25:32.100 are most likely, you know, going to be on OnlyFans.

02:25:34.080 They're going to go into things because they didn't have an actual leader in the household

02:25:37.860 showing them what was good and what was bad.

02:25:39.860 But hold on.

02:25:40.380 So you're saying that you grew up in a kind of toxic environment,

02:25:46.060 and that has been a blueprint, a framework for your current relationship.

02:25:52.900 Yeah.

02:25:54.060 Perhaps even previous relationships.

02:25:55.760 Perhaps it might even be the case for your future relationships.

02:25:59.380 Yeah.

02:25:59.600 But you are not beholden.

02:26:01.820 Like, if it's your...

02:26:03.120 Like, I feel like you're using it.

02:26:05.960 You're using it as justification to remain in your toxic relationship.

02:26:11.460 Like, well, this is...

02:26:13.740 I just kind of have this ingrained in me, and I guess I have to be in a toxic relationship

02:26:18.640 because my parents had a toxic relationship.

02:26:21.800 No, I never said that.

02:26:22.420 I just said...

02:26:22.720 You are not chained to the relationship dynamic with your parents.

02:26:28.460 You could choose which one.

02:26:29.640 Yes.

02:26:30.300 Yeah, I know.

02:26:30.980 You should learn to break the cycle.

02:26:32.220 You gotta go cold turkey, son.

02:26:34.000 Cut this taper shit off.

02:26:35.240 I know.

02:26:35.800 This isn't a methadone clinic.

02:26:37.280 Cut it off and start fresh.

02:26:38.320 This isn't a fentanyl.

02:26:39.200 Bro, I'm gonna open up a extremely expensive in fucking Malibu, a rehab facility for women

02:26:49.240 in toxic relationships.

02:26:51.120 You'd make bank.

02:26:52.480 But I need to taper off.

02:26:53.920 No, motherfucker.

02:26:54.540 We're putting you in here.

02:26:55.580 In there and in no contact with that guy.

02:26:58.320 We're gonna sing Kumbaya.

02:26:59.580 I don't know what the fuck they do in rehab.

02:27:01.080 I don't know.

02:27:01.440 I've never been to it.

02:27:02.000 Yeah, I mean...

02:27:02.580 Have anybody here been to drug rehab or anything?

02:27:05.360 No.

02:27:07.000 Morgan?

02:27:08.000 No.

02:27:08.340 Morgan?

02:27:08.840 No, I'm kidding.

02:27:09.200 Um...

02:27:10.160 Uh...

02:27:11.920 Okay, so...

02:27:13.460 Wait, what?

02:27:15.980 What?

02:27:16.160 Okay, I don't know.

02:27:17.100 Traditional relationships.

02:27:17.880 Traditional relationships.

02:27:18.880 Yeah, babe.

02:27:19.260 Okay, so you're traditional...

02:27:20.760 Yeah, that's the new thing.

02:27:21.480 Wait, so okay, and previously we're talking about like, well, in my past relationships,

02:27:24.620 I waited really long before sleeping with a guy, so I'm going around the table on this.

02:27:27.700 Yeah.

02:27:28.520 How long do you think you should wait before hooking up with a guy?

02:27:32.860 I think if the vibe is there and you guys communicate that, like I said before, that you were both

02:27:37.960 only with each other, then we're good.

02:27:39.500 Yes.

02:27:39.840 Yeah.

02:27:40.060 Same.

02:27:40.440 I agree.

02:27:40.760 So if the vibe was there by the third date...

02:27:43.720 What is it with you on the third date?

02:27:45.120 I know, it's always up on the third date.

02:27:47.400 I think that's a good...

02:27:48.620 I think so too, though, yeah.

02:27:49.800 That's a good...

02:27:50.040 It's getting more comfortable.

02:27:50.880 That's a good...

02:27:51.660 And if it fits for you, that's fine.

02:27:52.800 Well, it could be the second date.

02:27:53.940 Yeah.

02:27:54.380 I mean, it could be the second.

02:27:55.340 It could be the first.

02:27:56.160 You never know.

02:27:56.880 Yeah.

02:27:57.140 You never say never.

02:27:58.700 I think you would know when you communicate the feelings and there's...

02:28:01.860 It's mutual and then you can move on from there.

02:28:06.140 You never know.

02:28:07.900 I mean, it's your opinion.

02:28:08.860 Like whatever you think is right for you.

02:28:10.720 First date.

02:28:11.000 Yeah.

02:28:11.380 Kidding.

02:28:12.020 Based.

02:28:13.060 Wait.

02:28:13.400 So, okay.

02:28:13.880 You think what?

02:28:15.620 I think it just depends on the person.

02:28:17.340 Like everybody has a different opinion on things.

02:28:19.160 Like, you know...

02:28:20.040 Sure.

02:28:20.620 Well, okay.

02:28:20.960 Let me...

02:28:21.380 I want to add a little extra thing to this.

02:28:23.540 Okay.

02:28:25.440 What's the quickest also that you've ever done?

02:28:30.560 Three months?

02:28:31.820 Three months?

02:28:32.180 Talking consistently.

02:28:33.680 Three months?

02:28:34.600 Yeah.

02:28:35.400 Okay.

02:28:35.680 What about...

02:28:36.640 Well, you claim virgin?

02:28:39.180 No.

02:28:40.200 Zero?

02:28:40.600 Zero.

02:28:40.840 Don't know.

02:28:41.500 Next person.

02:28:42.800 You're being a little evasive there, Elizabeth.

02:28:44.860 Is there something you want to reveal?

02:28:47.140 What am I trying to reveal?

02:28:49.180 Mom and dad.

02:28:49.660 Mom and dad.

02:28:51.140 Miss...

02:28:51.580 Mrs. and Mrs. Wynn.

02:28:52.980 Is that how you say your last name?

02:28:53.980 Yeah, that's how you say my last name.

02:28:54.920 Is it Wynn or Nguyen?

02:28:56.300 Wynn.

02:28:56.900 Wynn.

02:28:57.540 Yeah.

02:28:57.680 It sounds like W-I-N.

02:28:58.460 Sorry, I don't know.

02:28:58.960 Wynn.

02:28:59.560 Wynn.

02:29:00.200 Mr. and Mrs. Wynn.

02:29:02.760 Please turn off the stream right now.

02:29:04.600 Okay.

02:29:04.820 Tell us...

02:29:05.200 What's up?

02:29:05.800 There was some like hunky ice skater dude.

02:29:07.820 Come on.

02:29:08.240 Behind the bleachers.

02:29:08.920 Hunky ice skating dudes?

02:29:10.140 Yeah.

02:29:11.180 No, no, no.

02:29:12.060 Come on.

02:29:13.160 No, no, no, no, no.

02:29:14.000 She said most of them are homosexual.

02:29:15.540 Whoa.

02:29:15.860 They are.

02:29:16.540 Okay.

02:29:17.180 Madison, come in.

02:29:17.980 You said that too.

02:29:18.900 Well, I didn't...

02:29:19.440 I didn't...

02:29:20.080 I said gay.

02:29:21.240 You said...

02:29:22.160 You said it like very...

02:29:24.300 I think Madison's got a little bone to pick.

02:29:26.900 Okay.

02:29:29.440 So, how long do you think you should wait?

02:29:31.680 What's the quickest you've ever...

02:29:33.280 How long you should wait?

02:29:34.080 I think it just depends on you.

02:29:35.220 Okay.

02:29:35.500 And what's the quickest you've ever...

02:29:37.900 A couple months.

02:29:39.840 Probably like...

02:29:40.180 Stop the cap.

02:29:41.260 No fucking way.

02:29:42.780 No fucking way.

02:29:44.180 I think...

02:29:44.560 No, no, no.

02:29:44.940 I think like the fifth date.

02:29:46.800 Like definitely like...

02:29:47.400 The fifth date.

02:29:47.760 Yeah, like fourth date around that.

02:29:48.800 Your current toxic boyfriend.

02:29:51.080 And how long did you wait with him?

02:29:54.400 Like...

02:29:54.720 Did you do the first date?

02:29:55.820 No.

02:29:56.340 That was the first date for sure.

02:29:57.520 Come on.

02:29:57.820 No, because I didn't go to his house until a couple weeks later.

02:30:01.860 So, second date?

02:30:02.820 No, definitely like fourth and fifth date.

02:30:04.940 Oh, fourth.

02:30:05.620 Because the thing is like at the time...

02:30:06.240 You said fifth.

02:30:06.680 I was living in San Diego and he was living in LA.

02:30:08.320 So, I didn't really see him that much.

02:30:09.560 It was medium distance.

02:30:10.620 Yeah.

02:30:12.120 So, fourth date?

02:30:14.380 Yeah.

02:30:15.640 Is there a second date?

02:30:17.620 No.

02:30:18.120 Well, our second date was...

02:30:19.840 It was even like...

02:30:21.080 I shouldn't say date.

02:30:21.940 We went to Disneyland.

02:30:22.620 Hang out.

02:30:23.160 Hang out.

02:30:23.540 First, like first time meeting, second time meeting, third time meeting.

02:30:26.920 What's the quickest?

02:30:28.000 Like fifth time.

02:30:29.300 Fourth time meeting.

02:30:30.260 You got to pick one.

02:30:31.780 Fourth, fifth?

02:30:32.340 Fifth.

02:30:33.200 Well, you said fourth.

02:30:34.540 We'll just say fourth.

02:30:35.360 Okay, fourth.

02:30:36.500 Okay, fine.

02:30:37.200 Morgan, what about you?

02:30:39.120 I think a woman...

02:30:40.400 Like, okay.

02:30:41.020 Society-wise, I think a woman should hold out as long as physically possible.

02:30:45.000 Because as soon as you add sexual intimacy into a relationship, a situation-ship,

02:30:48.500 it just completely complicates things.

02:30:50.560 So, like society-wise, like ladies, just wait.

02:30:53.740 And, you know, a man will chase after you and court you if that's actually somebody you want to be with.

02:30:59.480 But also in marriage, a woman should never withhold sexual intimacy from her husband.

02:31:05.800 Faith-wise, I think a woman and a man should wait until marriage for that intimacy.

02:31:10.580 I mean, that includes like oral too.

02:31:12.720 Like I don't think a woman or a man like they're...

02:31:16.000 When you're going into a marriage, you can learn that and you don't need to do that.

02:31:19.540 Have I done it in the past?

02:31:20.580 Yes.

02:31:20.920 Like I am not a virgin.

02:31:22.300 And I will always say that and be open and honest with a partner about that.

02:31:25.100 And also, like my partner would be honest with me of, you know, where he's at.

02:31:31.360 But when going into a marriage, as I've gotten older, I've realized like that just clouds everything.

02:31:36.180 And like traditionally, like you just don't need that.

02:31:38.380 But I also, I'm dating for marriage.

02:31:40.060 I'm not dating just for fun.

02:31:41.340 And I'm expecting to be engaged, like, I mean, after a year to a year and a half, like be engaged.

02:31:47.180 Well, yeah, you're, I mean, you're walking a different path now.

02:31:50.660 Right.

02:31:52.140 I have a, and you brought up an interesting point.

02:31:54.020 Like in marriage, the wife should not withhold sex.

02:31:57.260 Well, before, Madison, I want to have you answer the original question.

02:32:00.000 I think it obviously depends, but...

02:32:01.820 Wait, Madison, you're hiding too much behind the...

02:32:05.980 Personal experience, I've never been like, I've never been, I was never introduced to the fact that like you had to wait or like waiting was better.

02:32:14.460 So, I can't really say like, I don't know, the fastest I've done it was like first hangout.

02:32:21.420 Yeah, you said, yeah, the first hangout.

02:32:22.640 And relationships can grow from that.

02:32:24.480 And I think that you can also learn with that person.

02:32:26.620 Like I luckily got the great side of it.

02:32:28.980 Yeah.

02:32:29.460 That's good.

02:32:30.360 Yeah.

02:32:30.720 You got a good guy.

02:32:31.420 I mean, of all my long-term relationships, it's like I've had a five-year relationship, two-year, one-year, one-year.

02:32:40.580 Uh, it was pretty early on for all of them, either the, pretty sure either the second, by the second or third hangout, we hooked up.

02:32:50.360 And I don't think, so long as you're both interested in pursuing something long-term, I don't think it's, it's kind of arbitrary.

02:32:58.420 I, if, but if your standard is like, I'm waiting till marriage, then obviously waiting makes sense.

02:33:04.240 But if it's just like, sort of this arbitrary thing.

02:33:08.740 But also, you don't know if you're going to marry that person by a second or third date.

02:33:11.060 So then at that point, you're just confusing the relationship and adding a, like for a woman, adding to her body count is really important as if she has to go into another relationship and you don't actually end up together.

02:33:21.760 It's more important for a woman than a man.

02:33:24.080 Yes, I agree.

02:33:25.660 I know exactly what you're talking about.

02:33:27.460 You know, because let's say going into a relationship, she has a low body count.

02:33:30.420 She has three bodies, right?

02:33:31.520 And then she dates the next guy and okay, it's going well.

02:33:34.580 They're on the same page.

02:33:35.460 They hook up.

02:33:36.040 But then all of a sudden they break up six months later and then she goes into another relationship and she's just, you know, at this point adding more men to her roster.

02:33:42.760 Well, now she's creating the inability to have bonds with more and more men instead of withholding a little bit longer, even if it is six months, you know, at least you can get to know that guy.

02:33:53.240 And if you break up, well, it's okay because you did not have sexual intimacy with that person to where then going into another relationship, one, the breakup will be easier because you didn't create that bond with that person in that way.

02:34:04.380 When it comes to like, I'm talking like actual having sexual intimacy, but then into the next relationship, she is way better off and ready to be in an actual relationship to be married at that point.

02:34:14.360 Because what's the point of dating and relationships if it's not procreation and marriage at the end of the day?

02:34:20.540 Yes, that's exactly what I believe.

02:34:22.240 You've said it.

02:34:22.860 So, I mean, if you want to have like sex, like date three, sure.

02:34:27.120 But I mean, you're just emotionally and physically harming each other if you do not end up with that person.

02:34:32.540 True.

02:34:34.380 Very true.

02:34:35.880 What is your opinion, Brian?

02:34:37.220 Have I ever been harmed physically or emotionally by having sex with a woman?

02:34:42.800 I think we're talking more about women.

02:34:44.380 I'm saying it's more for the women.

02:34:44.980 I'm saying body count matters.

02:34:46.420 Yeah, no, no.

02:34:46.840 Body count obviously matters more for a woman.

02:34:48.300 Eric donated $99.

02:34:50.660 Okay.

02:34:51.060 Lady in black, stop using vibe because that's just code for attractiveness.

02:34:55.900 Gold medalist, fly to Germany and see that dude.

02:34:59.180 Toxic relationship, fix yourself and leave him.

02:35:02.520 Morgan, you are legit.

02:35:03.600 Ladies, Madison, congrats to you and Frankie.

02:35:06.380 Aww.

02:35:08.700 What?

02:35:09.160 Nothing nice for me?

02:35:10.620 You know what's funny though?

02:35:11.480 Eric, thank you, man.

02:35:12.240 Appreciate it.

02:35:12.720 The whole attractiveness thing.

02:35:14.940 I've been told that I've dated guys that are way below my league.

02:35:18.200 Girls do that though.

02:35:19.160 Me too.

02:35:19.240 I'm just saying.

02:35:20.040 Because I do not care about what you look like physically.

02:35:22.880 After the show, I want to see your exes because-

02:35:25.480 I got it.

02:35:25.940 You would be mind blown.

02:35:28.120 You would be mind blown.

02:35:28.360 It's crazy because guys who, you know, below a more attractive girls league are more likely

02:35:35.060 to actually chase after the more attractive woman because the really good looking like Chad dudes

02:35:39.620 aren't necessarily going to go after the super attractive girls because they're-

02:35:42.780 Insecure.

02:35:42.980 They're insecure.

02:35:43.520 Yeah.

02:35:43.820 It's a double-ended sword though.

02:35:45.440 True.

02:35:46.200 Because, I mean, they're ugly guys that never got girls in high school and then it's like

02:35:49.620 kill the cheerleader.

02:35:50.360 They date girls that are really pretty because they're taking revenge out of like, they didn't

02:35:55.340 date me, so I'm going to like, you know, do this to her, do this to her, you know?

02:35:59.120 It just depends on the guy, to be honest.

02:36:01.120 He can be ugly and he can be a really nice guy.

02:36:02.580 He can be ugly and be a really bad guy.

02:36:04.280 That is true.

02:36:04.840 You know?

02:36:05.520 Yeah.

02:36:05.800 I mean, bringing it back to Eric's super chat here, talking about the vibe, I think it

02:36:13.460 really ultimately does come down to the physical attractiveness has to be there to begin with,

02:36:19.620 I think, for their- I mean, obviously, can a guy be charismatic?

02:36:22.820 Can he be confident?

02:36:24.000 Can he be funny?

02:36:24.900 Can that make him more attractive?

02:36:26.960 Absolutely.

02:36:27.440 But I think, because there's also this thing where behavior that a woman would otherwise

02:36:36.780 find flirtatious, if the guy's not attractive, she's going to label it as creepy.

02:36:42.340 True.

02:36:43.100 So like, the exact same sort of behavior, if it's coming from a guy you're not physically

02:36:48.240 attracted to, it's going to be framed as like, creepy, but like, a guy you're attracted to

02:36:53.400 doing the exact same shit, you're like, oh, flirting.

02:36:58.280 So it's like, I don't know, the vibe's kind of-

02:37:00.120 Well, also, it depends.

02:37:01.440 It depends on the approach.

02:37:03.000 Well, sure, yes.

02:37:03.940 Of course, there's like, clearly creepy shit that even if he's attractive, it's like, whoa.

02:37:08.860 Oh, okay.

02:37:10.580 Hey, do you want to come check out my knife collection?

02:37:14.620 Actually, I think some chicks might be into that.

02:37:16.400 Actually, they're kind of cool.

02:37:17.220 You're kind of cool.

02:37:17.900 Okay, there you go.

02:37:18.740 Knives are kind of cool.

02:37:19.280 I was approached today at Chipotle.

02:37:22.060 Wait, what?

02:37:23.080 I was approached today at Chipotle.

02:37:25.260 What?

02:37:25.540 Tell us about-

02:37:26.480 And he wasn't, like, attracted, like, I definitely wasn't attracted to him, like, not someone

02:37:32.100 that I would physically go for.

02:37:33.280 Get your girl, Frankie.

02:37:35.140 Frankie.

02:37:35.580 I was alone.

02:37:36.680 Wait, what, Nick?

02:37:38.360 Go, go, go.

02:37:39.340 So basically, I was like, he had like, six friends with him.

02:37:42.960 So it was like, him and his six friends, and I was like-

02:37:46.400 And you were alone?

02:37:47.100 I was alone, like, right before I came here.

02:37:49.020 I was walking out of Chipotle, and he, like, walks up to me, and he's like, oh, like, you're

02:37:53.600 very pretty.

02:37:54.460 And I was like, oh, thank you so much.

02:37:55.940 Like, I hope you have a great rest of your day.

02:37:58.020 And then he was just, like, egging it on.

02:38:00.960 He was like, I play basketball, like, all this stuff.

02:38:03.520 He's like, you should come to one of my games.

02:38:05.160 Like, can I get your Instagram?

02:38:08.020 And then he was just like, I had, like, cool, like, conversation with him, but I wasn't,

02:38:12.540 like, giving ideas that I was attracted to him.

02:38:16.200 He was like, can I get your Instagram?

02:38:17.180 I was like, no, I have a boyfriend.

02:38:19.360 Oh, yeah, that's awesome.

02:38:19.840 And then he was like, oh, well, you and your boyfriend should come to my basketball games.

02:38:23.380 And I was like, that's cute.

02:38:24.580 That's so cute.

02:38:25.060 So it's more like a genuine talk.

02:38:26.360 He turned it into, like, yeah.

02:38:28.180 Like, I wasn't-

02:38:28.760 He was still trying to fuck you, Madison.

02:38:29.820 I wasn't-

02:38:30.420 He was still trying to fuck you.

02:38:32.940 That's like, that's like, what's your boyfriend got to do with me type of shit.

02:38:37.620 Yeah.

02:38:38.020 Yeah.

02:38:38.480 What's your man got to do with me?

02:38:39.620 Probably never going to go to one of his basketball games.

02:38:42.180 I don't know.

02:38:42.200 He was trying to make it, like, less awkward.

02:38:42.860 It was just, like, a nice conversation.

02:38:44.180 Like, it wasn't, like, creepy or anything.

02:38:46.880 Yeah.

02:38:47.000 Even when he wasn't- even though he wasn't attractive to me, he was just not-

02:38:51.840 Yeah.

02:38:52.140 Are you trying to say something?

02:38:54.300 What?

02:38:54.620 You don't like- what?

02:38:57.360 No.

02:38:57.900 Is this a- are you racist, Madison?

02:39:00.800 Brian, you're always just trying to frame me.

02:39:03.180 No.

02:39:04.300 No.

02:39:04.540 I kind of am, though.

02:39:05.500 You always do.

02:39:06.340 No.

02:39:07.600 Okay.

02:39:08.420 So, wait.

02:39:12.020 So, okay.

02:39:12.440 He approaches you.

02:39:14.600 You're so beautiful.

02:39:15.560 Like that?

02:39:16.420 He was just like-

02:39:17.000 What did he say?

02:39:17.720 You're very pretty.

02:39:19.840 That's it?

02:39:20.720 Like, just pause and then was waiting for a response?

02:39:23.080 Yeah.

02:39:24.040 And what- and you said what?

02:39:25.260 Just thank you?

02:39:25.480 I said, oh, thank you.

02:39:26.280 Like, I hope you have a great rest of your day because I was, like, getting in my car.

02:39:29.420 That's where he should have ended it.

02:39:30.440 Oh, wait.

02:39:30.980 So, he was in line behind you at Chipotle.

02:39:33.440 No, I was walking out of Chipotle getting in my car.

02:39:35.440 And they were outside of the Chipotle.

02:39:37.380 Okay.

02:39:38.020 And they were just kicking it?

02:39:38.420 And his, like, six friends were just standing there watching us conversate.

02:39:41.700 So, I was like-

02:39:42.160 And were they quiet?

02:39:42.920 That's a little weird.

02:39:43.500 Yeah.

02:39:44.560 And then-

02:39:44.980 So, he didn't come up to you.

02:39:46.000 He was still in his friend group.

02:39:48.160 And then he, like-

02:39:49.120 And he approached.

02:39:49.780 And then he left his friends to approach me.

02:39:52.300 But they were all-

02:39:52.940 Oh, he walked up to you.

02:39:53.600 We were all still standing within, like, five feet of each other.

02:39:55.800 So, okay.

02:39:56.260 They overheard.

02:39:57.620 So, okay.

02:39:58.020 And then you say, thank you, have a good day.

02:40:00.340 And then what did he say again?

02:40:01.800 He was just like, oh, like-

02:40:02.780 Oh, by the way, I play basketball.

02:40:05.440 I didn't know, like, the exact conversation we had.

02:40:07.460 Yeah, yeah.

02:40:07.900 He was like, oh, where are you from?

02:40:09.120 I was like, oh, I'm from, like, San Diego.

02:40:11.340 And he was like, oh, cool.

02:40:13.120 Like, I was just in San Diego.

02:40:14.280 Like, I went out downtown.

02:40:15.260 It was really fun and everything.

02:40:16.940 And I was like, yeah, I love San Diego.

02:40:19.020 Look how bored she is.

02:40:20.540 No, I'm just kidding.

02:40:21.020 What?

02:40:21.460 She's not as little.

02:40:22.480 Oh, okay.

02:40:22.820 Sorry, sorry.

02:40:23.220 It's your vision.

02:40:24.160 Because you have to, like-

02:40:24.920 You know, like, I'm blind.

02:40:26.140 Yeah.

02:40:27.000 No.

02:40:27.380 And then he was just like, oh, like, I play basketball, too.

02:40:30.180 Like, do you go to, like, the CC?

02:40:31.980 And I was like, yeah.

02:40:32.880 And he was like, oh, yeah, I go to CC.

02:40:34.720 Like, I play basketball.

02:40:35.480 You should come to one of my games.

02:40:36.960 Can I get your Instagram before you leave?

02:40:39.840 And then I was like, oh, no, sorry.

02:40:41.300 I have a boyfriend.

02:40:41.980 Actually, no, I didn't say sorry.

02:40:43.060 I never say sorry I have a boyfriend.

02:40:44.800 Because I'm never sorry that I have a boyfriend.

02:40:46.540 But I was just like, I have a boyfriend.

02:40:49.920 And then he was just like, come to the club.

02:40:51.780 And he was just like, and then he goes-

02:40:53.520 That's harmless.

02:40:54.380 Like, he literally did the most of you.

02:40:55.660 He was like, oh, like, maybe I shouldn't be talking to you then.

02:40:58.780 I think he knows.

02:40:59.120 Oh, that's respectful.

02:40:59.560 That's flattering.

02:41:00.140 That's respectful.

02:41:00.820 That's flattering.

02:41:01.300 You know what I mean?

02:41:01.680 Yeah, that's fine.

02:41:02.380 That's fine.

02:41:02.560 There's a line between it.

02:41:03.600 Like, when a guy just wants to-

02:41:04.320 It's fine.

02:41:05.720 You know, be flat.

02:41:06.640 Like, flatter a girl.

02:41:07.700 And then there's, like, versus do more.

02:41:09.580 You know?

02:41:09.880 Yeah.

02:41:10.180 And then he respects her.

02:41:11.800 You said you had a boyfriend.

02:41:12.800 He respected the boundary.

02:41:13.640 Yeah.

02:41:13.860 He's just like, oh, he should come to the games.

02:41:14.960 Yeah, and he was like, oh, you and your boyfriend should come to my basketball games.

02:41:17.540 And I was like, maybe.

02:41:18.620 And then his friend started laughing and was like, haha, maybe.

02:41:22.040 And then they all walked away.

02:41:22.960 Yeah, that's chill.

02:41:23.580 That's fine.

02:41:24.380 Yeah, I mean, I just thought it was funny.

02:41:26.220 Like, he's like, oh, you're very pretty.

02:41:28.280 And you're like, thanks.

02:41:29.120 And he's like, so, I play basketball.

02:41:31.800 What's up?

02:41:32.600 You know, it's kind of like, check out my Ferrari.

02:41:35.460 I don't know.

02:41:36.000 Okay, wait.

02:41:37.020 Where were we?

02:41:37.640 We were talking about you being traditional.

02:41:40.380 Yes.

02:41:40.620 I don't know how it got-

02:41:41.860 Because we were talking about-

02:41:42.400 Oh, we were going around the table, like, how long you should wait.

02:41:44.300 Okay, okay.

02:41:44.660 Uh-huh, so, traditional.

02:41:48.120 Mm-hmm.

02:41:48.620 Traditional.

02:41:49.200 Traditional.

02:41:49.840 You do traditional things.

02:41:51.080 I do.

02:41:52.160 If I were to-

02:41:53.560 Allie, right?

02:41:55.540 Yeah.

02:41:56.220 If I were to propose to you, right, with a ring-

02:41:58.880 Oh, my God.

02:41:59.340 It has a light.

02:41:59.900 That's so beautiful.

02:42:01.480 It has a light.

02:42:02.920 Wow.

02:42:03.200 All right, yeah.

02:42:04.200 A whole $30 on Amazon.

02:42:06.080 Why do you propose to, like, everyone?

02:42:07.560 You were proposing to me last time.

02:42:09.040 Yeah, but now you got a boyfriend.

02:42:10.320 What's up?

02:42:10.740 You fucking cheater.

02:42:12.100 You know what?

02:42:12.900 What do you mean I cheated?

02:42:14.020 How dare you?

02:42:15.040 You broke my heart.

02:42:16.740 We were engaged, and now you're dating some fucking German chad who's got way more followers

02:42:22.120 than me.

02:42:22.680 Wow.

02:42:22.840 You've crushed me.

02:42:24.340 You crushed me, Elizabeth.

02:42:26.420 I am heartbroken.

02:42:27.680 I'm going to need therapy.

02:42:29.220 I'm going to go see her therapist.

02:42:31.080 My life is over because of you.

02:42:33.460 Oh, my gosh.

02:42:35.900 I don't know what to say.

02:42:39.620 You ruined everything.

02:42:41.440 How could you?

02:42:42.420 I thought we had something.

02:42:43.580 I fucking thought we had something, Elizabeth.

02:42:45.660 And how dare you backstab-

02:42:47.680 How dare you?

02:42:49.100 I am hurt.

02:42:50.500 You know what?

02:42:51.240 Someone said, like, right after that podcast, you are rizzing up another girl.

02:42:55.680 So, oh, what was that?

02:42:57.600 Who was I rizzing?

02:42:58.680 Who did I rizz?

02:42:59.320 I don't know.

02:42:59.700 Someone said, oh, my gosh, Brian cheated on you or something on the next episode.

02:43:04.280 I don't have rizz.

02:43:04.980 I have zero game.

02:43:06.240 You, like, give the ring to everybody.

02:43:08.020 What do you mean?

02:43:08.300 No.

02:43:08.700 What are you talking about?

02:43:09.020 I haven't done the ring thing.

02:43:10.140 Yeah, he gives the ring to everybody.

02:43:10.880 No, it's not true.

02:43:12.200 Madsen, I haven't done the ring thing in a long time, right?

02:43:14.180 He hasn't.

02:43:14.500 He does.

02:43:15.640 He does his options.

02:43:16.440 He's got his mindset on you.

02:43:17.800 This is the first I'm hearing about this fucking new guy.

02:43:20.880 I thought for the past two months, we were-

02:43:23.040 I thought we had a non-communicative-

02:43:26.920 I haven't talked to you for two-

02:43:28.680 I haven't talked to you in two months, but I thought we were, like, engaged and shit.

02:43:33.900 And now I find out tonight on the fucking stream that you're cheating on me?

02:43:37.740 What the fuck, Elizabeth?

02:43:41.100 Wow.

02:43:41.900 Wow.

02:43:42.180 You think the thing with you and your boyfriend is weird?

02:43:44.660 We haven't even talked in two months.

02:43:47.500 That's weird, son.

02:43:49.600 I've just been busy.

02:43:50.660 I'm so busy.

02:43:51.500 You know, we're busy, you know?

02:43:52.800 So I thought that's what it was, that we're so busy.

02:43:56.680 And you thought we were engaged.

02:43:58.680 And I find out, you're dating this dude.

02:44:02.700 He can't give you-

02:44:03.900 What does he have that I don't?

02:44:06.280 Elizabeth, what does he have that I don't?

02:44:08.320 Riz.

02:44:08.820 Besides way more followers on Instagram.

02:44:15.120 Riz, because you said you have them.

02:44:16.480 He has Riz.

02:44:21.100 No, I don't want to say that.

02:44:22.280 I don't know.

02:44:23.320 Wait, but we're engaged now, I guess.

02:44:26.440 Oh, we are?

02:44:26.940 So, you're traditional.

02:44:29.900 Do you take my last name?

02:44:31.540 Yeah.

02:44:32.540 100%.

02:44:32.860 Yeah.

02:44:33.260 If it's not cute.

02:44:35.700 If I decide that I want my kids to be homeschooled.

02:44:39.540 Oh, I want to homeschool my kids.

02:44:41.220 I'm not, or private school.

02:44:42.600 I'm not putting my kids in public school, especially the way things are going.

02:44:44.860 Let's say we have a disagreement on something.

02:44:48.080 As head of the household, do I have final say?

02:44:51.980 See, there's, it comes when it, if it's a sense of morals and you're guiding me, okay,

02:44:56.640 sure.

02:44:57.080 But if it's like an argument, like a normal, like, come on, you're a couple, we argue.

02:45:00.560 Like, it's normal.

02:45:01.620 We don't argue ever.

02:45:02.520 Oh, we don't.

02:45:02.860 We never argue.

02:45:03.720 We're perfect together.

02:45:04.300 You, you, it's going to be pent up for you.

02:45:07.920 You hold that shit in and then a week goes by and you're like, eh, whatever.

02:45:11.680 It's not a big deal.

02:45:12.720 I don't know.

02:45:13.280 I feel like everyone's different, obviously.

02:45:15.600 No, no, no.

02:45:16.560 Zero quarrel.

02:45:17.600 Zero quarrel.

02:45:18.280 Just hold it in.

02:45:19.320 You can, uh, you're, you're going to have to, maybe once a year, I'll allow like a boil

02:45:23.920 up from all the pent up aggression.

02:45:25.900 I don't know.

02:45:26.420 Once a year, I will allow an argument.

02:45:28.960 But see, but that's not leading the household.

02:45:30.280 That's toxic.

02:45:30.940 Yeah.

02:45:31.160 No, no, no.

02:45:31.500 That's like, that's like a dictated.

02:45:32.620 That's fucking based.

02:45:33.120 I know.

02:45:33.960 Yes.

02:45:34.400 Our relationship, our marriage is a dictatorship.

02:45:37.700 Oh, okay.

02:45:38.340 Yeah, totally.

02:45:38.700 It's a dictatorship.

02:45:39.720 Oh, man.

02:45:40.460 Wow.

02:45:41.360 I don't know if I signed up for that.

02:45:43.300 It's too late now.

02:45:44.420 This is a dictatorship.

02:45:46.180 Stockholm syndrome.

02:45:46.980 Let's go.

02:45:47.800 Oh, no.

02:45:48.180 Um, okay.

02:45:51.520 So.

02:45:52.380 Submissiveness.

02:45:52.660 Traditional.

02:45:53.500 Mm-hmm.

02:45:53.820 Traditional.

02:45:54.640 Okay.

02:45:55.220 I'm trying to think of what other ways one could be traditional.

02:45:58.280 Okay, wait.

02:45:58.400 Let's pull up your, huh?

02:45:59.780 I had a question.

02:46:00.400 Because you said you're like waiting for, you're not waiting for marriage, but you would

02:46:03.660 sleep with someone, you know, like after a year.

02:46:05.260 Yeah.

02:46:05.380 What's preventing you from that?

02:46:06.640 Because it sounds like, you know, you are religious.

02:46:08.220 You do have all these traditional morals, these values, homeschooling.

02:46:10.940 Like, these are very biblical, traditional, traditional things and society traditional.

02:46:16.100 So what's, you know, why, why not wait for marriage then in that case?

02:46:20.980 Or like, how quickly would you get engaged?

02:46:22.340 Because you said a year.

02:46:23.080 Would you get engaged that quick?

02:46:25.320 If I'm in love?

02:46:26.040 Yeah.

02:46:26.400 And if it's the right man, totally.

02:46:28.200 I'm not against it.

02:46:29.120 I just, I just know right now.

02:46:30.260 It's just not, like I said, like dating is so hard.

02:46:32.360 It's really hard.

02:46:33.160 Sucks.

02:46:33.540 Yeah.

02:46:33.840 Finding a good guy.

02:46:34.780 Finding a good quality guy is really hard.

02:46:36.680 It is hard.

02:46:37.280 Very rare.

02:46:37.760 A masculine, what I've found.

02:46:38.960 Is it rare, Brian?

02:46:39.680 Is it though?

02:46:40.540 It is.

02:46:41.020 There's a lot of guys who are intimidated by women who are actually strong and want more

02:46:44.780 traditional things.

02:46:45.420 Because there are men that want traditional things out there.

02:46:48.140 But some guys are scared of that because they're like, oh, she actually knows what she wants.

02:46:51.440 Oh, she wants to raise a family.

02:46:53.140 She wants to homeschool it.

02:46:53.880 Because I am the same.

02:46:54.640 I want to homeschool.

02:46:55.500 I want to have a family.

02:46:56.600 I want to be a wife and a mother full-time.

02:46:58.160 Like, that is a full-time job.

02:46:59.940 But sometimes, and men also want that.

02:47:01.480 But sometimes when they're younger, they're like almost unaware.

02:47:04.480 Where they're like, oh, you like, I need to provide for these things.

02:47:08.760 And you're like, yeah, and I will provide back.

02:47:11.580 Yeah.

02:47:13.520 Well, I mean, from a financial approach, I feel like a guy's not going to.

02:47:19.160 Okay, let's say a guy goes to college, right?

02:47:21.080 That's four years.

02:47:21.800 So he's 21, 22 by the time he gets out of college.

02:47:24.540 So certainly not between the ages of 18 to 21.

02:47:27.500 He's like ready to like have kids, right?

02:47:30.100 Right.

02:47:30.360 But I mean, could you be settled?

02:47:32.060 In the Christian community, it is.

02:47:33.380 Yeah, I was going to say, I could be married right now and have a kid.

02:47:36.800 And like, of course.

02:47:37.380 What went wrong, Morgan?

02:47:38.540 No, I'm kidding.

02:47:39.020 What went wrong?

02:47:40.380 Actually, like nothing.

02:47:41.400 Oh, okay.

02:47:41.700 You're good.

02:47:42.100 You're chill.

02:47:42.700 I mean, I have a feeling I'll be married probably by the time I'm like 28,

02:47:45.540 having my first kid.

02:47:46.220 Am I invited to the?

02:47:47.620 No.

02:47:48.400 To the wedding.

02:47:48.840 To the wedding.

02:47:49.540 I plan to have a big wedding.

02:47:50.440 So sure.

02:47:50.960 If we're still good, all night.

02:47:52.440 Hey, we should all come.

02:47:53.380 I mean, I'm still single, so.

02:47:54.280 What if somebody like, can I be, like if somebody, a male saw you on the whatever podcast

02:48:00.680 and then he slid into the, do you check your DMs?

02:48:03.100 I do.

02:48:03.920 Did you get a lot of DMs after the show?

02:48:05.700 I did, actually.

02:48:06.480 After the show, yeah.

02:48:07.040 Yeah.

02:48:07.460 I've gotten.

02:48:07.980 Hey, I saw you on the podcast.

02:48:09.340 Any prospects?

02:48:10.280 No.

02:48:10.580 Not yet.

02:48:10.960 Nothing?

02:48:11.640 Not yet.

02:48:12.080 Nothing good?

02:48:12.540 Nothing good?

02:48:13.520 So we got to keep working on that.

02:48:15.020 I want to be the best man to your husband.

02:48:19.100 Well, okay.

02:48:19.500 If he met you from the whatever podcast.

02:48:22.320 Can you arrange that?

02:48:23.520 You have to bring her, though.

02:48:24.540 Yeah.

02:48:24.800 Okay, we should be a bridesmaid.

02:48:25.660 Could I be, yeah.

02:48:26.280 Could I be a bridesmaid, maybe?

02:48:27.580 Oh.

02:48:28.040 A bridesmaid?

02:48:28.700 That might be a stretch.

02:48:29.480 What if I identify as a woman?

02:48:30.980 Oh, no.

02:48:32.040 I don't, you know, you can identify as a woman.

02:48:34.220 Then you're definitely not invited to her wedding.

02:48:36.620 You can identify.

02:48:37.000 Definitely not invited to that wedding.

02:48:38.160 If you want to identify as whatever you want to identify, it's short, but like.

02:48:41.220 Not going to fly?

02:48:42.340 Woman, yeah.

02:48:43.060 No, not going to fly.

02:48:43.780 What about, is Blair White coming to your wedding?

02:48:46.300 I don't know Blair personally.

02:48:47.500 You don't know Blair?

02:48:48.040 No.

02:48:48.540 Who's Blair?

02:48:49.160 Would she be a bridesmaid?

02:48:52.500 No.

02:48:53.160 At the wedding?

02:48:53.940 Okay, I don't know where I'm, well, I'm taking that there.

02:48:56.240 Okay, so.

02:48:57.320 But sure, Brian, you can, you can come to my, um, fictitious wedding.

02:49:03.420 No.

02:49:04.000 Hors d'oeuvres?

02:49:04.800 Hors d'oeuvres, yes.

02:49:05.340 Crab cakes?

02:49:06.280 Maybe.

02:49:06.740 I do love seafood.

02:49:07.760 You have to promise.

02:49:08.320 Open bar, no, though.

02:49:09.200 I will have a champagne toast only wedding.

02:49:11.360 There will be champagne only.

02:49:12.300 I do not want drunk people at my wedding.

02:49:14.040 Of course.

02:49:14.160 Because I also just don't drink, so.

02:49:15.400 Wow.

02:49:15.620 You have to promise me, Morgan.

02:49:16.920 I like that.

02:49:17.720 There will be crab cakes.

02:49:18.920 Yeah, I like that.

02:49:19.820 What about lobster rolls?

02:49:21.000 You know exactly what you want.

02:49:22.160 I would love lobster rolls.

02:49:23.180 Do you go to weddings?

02:49:23.880 No, you don't like, you'd rather do crab cakes and lobster rolls?

02:49:27.000 Oh, yeah.

02:49:27.840 There have, listen, you have to promise me that there will be crab cakes at your wedding,

02:49:34.980 whether I am there or not.

02:49:37.940 Well, you just said you have to be there.

02:49:39.920 That's right.

02:49:40.420 Or should he just negotiate it?

02:49:41.840 I have to be there.

02:49:41.980 So, you have to be there, if it's somebody who's watched me on the podcast.

02:49:46.220 I've never had that.

02:49:47.020 We'll see.

02:49:47.640 Exactly.

02:49:48.040 Yeah, and crab cakes.

02:49:49.660 I'm trying to.

02:49:50.620 I'd be down for crab cakes.

02:49:52.140 I've never had them.

02:49:53.300 Like, what is that?

02:49:53.880 A crab cake?

02:49:54.680 Yeah.

02:49:54.840 You have cakes, of course.

02:49:57.500 Like, I'm Mexican.

02:49:58.280 I don't know.

02:49:58.960 Like, I've never.

02:49:59.360 It's just like, um.

02:50:00.360 It's an appetizer?

02:50:01.360 Yeah, like an appetizer.

02:50:01.940 It's an appetizer.

02:50:02.540 Do you know what crab cake is?

02:50:03.220 Just like with some.

02:50:04.060 It's a crab, breadcrumb, flour.

02:50:06.000 I grew up in like, the most south of the San Diego.

02:50:08.980 Yeah.

02:50:09.880 If you like, I like truffle oil on it with some parsley.

02:50:12.880 So, it's like, is it bread underneath these?

02:50:14.800 It's like crab that's breaded together.

02:50:17.380 Bread crumbs.

02:50:17.740 Bread crumbs, and it's like put into like a little, like a patty.

02:50:21.360 Yeah, they're really good.

02:50:22.240 Okay, so Allie, you're a very traditional woman.

02:50:25.240 Very traditional.

02:50:26.520 However, we need to do a background check on you to make sure that you're actually traditional.

02:50:31.820 Don't blow the IG because that's, you have to understand I'm a brand and I have to bring

02:50:36.280 people to my page.

02:50:37.800 Oh.

02:50:38.040 Wait.

02:50:38.280 Speaking of which, Nick, can you go and pull up Addis?

02:50:40.900 I was going to just ask about Modesty.

02:50:42.560 Wait, not the Instagram, Instagram.

02:50:45.120 Are we checking everybody's Instagram?

02:50:46.820 It's, it's, you guys wouldn't recognize me.

02:50:48.720 Let me see.

02:50:49.220 Oh, no.

02:50:50.160 Oh, wait.

02:50:50.700 Before you do.

02:50:51.380 Doc Venabilli has donated $100.

02:50:54.340 Thank you, Doc.

02:50:55.120 Good to see you in chat.

02:50:55.820 By the time you give her the ring, please take the cash from this TTS and take her to

02:51:01.300 that in Slash Shout hot dog joint you like to celebrate the engagement.

02:51:04.900 It's Burgers, brother.

02:51:05.920 Oh, my God.

02:51:06.840 Did he say In-N-Out was hot dogs?

02:51:08.480 He did say, I think he's an East Coast person.

02:51:10.820 Oh, okay.

02:51:11.820 So he's not familiar with In-N-Out, but there's definitely a joke somewhere in there.

02:51:18.580 Are we, you want to get some In-N-Out after this?

02:51:20.960 What's up?

02:51:21.160 I'm down.

02:51:21.540 I love it.

02:51:22.420 Sorry, Elizabeth.

02:51:23.720 What's up?

02:51:25.140 Thank you, next.

02:51:26.340 What's up?

02:51:27.160 Oh, my God.

02:51:28.100 Come on.

02:51:29.300 Thank you, next.

02:51:30.900 Speaking of Ariana.

02:51:31.760 I was going to say Ariana Grande.

02:51:33.660 Wait, are we checking everybody's Instagram?

02:51:34.960 I know you are literally now.

02:51:35.680 I'm jealous.

02:51:36.340 Wait, what?

02:51:36.700 I think just her.

02:51:37.500 Oh, guys.

02:51:38.280 Wait, what?

02:51:38.600 We're checking her Instagram.

02:51:39.280 Jealous.

02:51:39.520 You're getting jealous?

02:51:41.020 No, you.

02:51:42.100 I'm jealous?

02:51:42.920 Yeah.

02:51:43.520 I'm not jealous.

02:51:43.900 You're jealous now.

02:51:44.900 What's up?

02:51:45.260 I got a new girl.

02:51:46.980 He's taking her In-N-Out.

02:51:47.800 I'm taking her In-N-Out.

02:51:48.620 He took me In-N-Out last time, guys.

02:51:50.220 No, no, no, no, no.

02:51:50.900 I took.

02:51:51.480 Oh, wow.

02:51:52.220 I took the whole team to In-N-Out last time.

02:51:54.640 And I took your parents.

02:51:55.940 I paid.

02:51:56.240 Wait, did I pay for your parents?

02:51:57.260 I don't know.

02:51:57.720 Your parents came.

02:51:58.360 Your parents were very nice.

02:51:59.620 Yes, they are.

02:52:00.220 I spoke to your parents.

02:52:01.240 They were very pleasant.

02:52:02.600 I think they liked me, right?

02:52:04.040 Did they like me?

02:52:04.980 They said you were a really nice guy.

02:52:06.340 Is that a good thing?

02:52:07.860 That's a good thing.

02:52:08.720 I'm not sure if that's a good thing.

02:52:09.260 My parents are strict.

02:52:10.740 Gvar P. Shiloh donated $100.

02:52:14.000 Brain and Nick eat my R's from the back.

02:52:19.100 This can be arranged.

02:52:20.300 Nick, how much do you charge for that?

02:52:22.740 A couple G's.

02:52:23.680 No, it was, didn't we go with, it was Nick, Madison, was Stay Safe on that phone?

02:52:33.200 No, we went, us, Stay Safe, that girl, and her dad.

02:52:37.580 No, but what?

02:52:38.480 I didn't go with her.

02:52:39.960 Nick, were you there with Elizabeth?

02:52:41.480 I had Elzich from that.

02:52:43.760 Oh.

02:52:44.100 Oh, yeah.

02:52:44.840 It was just, was it Eric?

02:52:47.180 Who was it?

02:52:47.580 Oh, which one, the last?

02:52:48.680 We had other people there with us, though.

02:52:51.020 I brought, wait, I'm trying to remember.

02:52:53.680 Right?

02:52:57.060 I don't know.

02:52:57.860 Yo, FDG, thank you for the 50 gifted.

02:53:00.440 Wait, was it, was it just me, you, and your parents?

02:53:04.400 It was just me, you, and my parents who went in and out.

02:53:06.480 No, didn't we have?

02:53:09.060 Sounds like a good first date.

02:53:10.340 Yeah.

02:53:11.000 Hey, but my parents were there.

02:53:11.980 My parents were there, man.

02:53:13.040 Wow.

02:53:13.420 My parents were there.

02:53:14.480 Your parents liked me, I think.

02:53:16.060 Wow.

02:53:17.000 But not everybody can be like a TikTok dancer.

02:53:19.240 Oh, geez.

02:53:20.120 Not everyone can be.

02:53:21.340 It's kind of weird.

02:53:22.680 He's bringing him back.

02:53:23.920 Kind of rude, Elizabeth.

02:53:25.140 Okay.

02:53:25.800 He's making music.

02:53:27.360 He's really good.

02:53:28.080 I'm making music.

02:53:28.480 Okay, I'm sure it is.

02:53:29.640 Oh.

02:53:30.220 What?

02:53:31.300 Nothing.

02:53:31.700 Just kidding.

02:53:32.240 Okay, let's pull up our dear friend Allie's Instagram page.

02:53:38.340 Oh, why is it at the bottom?

02:53:40.380 Scroll to the top.

02:53:41.540 Scroll to the top.

02:53:41.920 I love it.

02:53:42.920 I don't have a lot, honestly.

02:53:44.640 I love it.

02:53:45.300 Scroll down slowly.

02:53:47.020 So this is your Instagram page.

02:53:48.600 Yep.

02:53:49.320 Is that...

02:53:49.980 Wait, stop.

02:53:50.820 The one with the Herman Miller chair.

02:53:52.660 Yeah, the Herman Miller chair is my dog.

02:53:54.060 Click the Herman Miller chair.

02:53:55.940 The what chair?

02:53:56.740 Herman Miller, honestly.

02:53:58.320 There's literally one photo with a chair in it.

02:54:00.060 Oh, sorry.

02:54:01.300 Oh, like people looking at your...

02:54:02.560 I mean...

02:54:02.840 I would not think you're traditional, I think.

02:54:05.440 Is that a B or the chair, the Herman Miller?

02:54:09.220 Is it a B or a C?

02:54:10.460 It's a B.

02:54:11.240 Based, okay.

02:54:11.900 Is it like the gaming one or like the gaming version?

02:54:15.260 It's actually...

02:54:16.700 Let's just not talk about the fact that you're like naked.

02:54:20.000 It's the gaming chair that makes the picture.

02:54:21.720 I'm promoting Herman Miller.

02:54:22.480 Is that underwear or a swimsuit?

02:54:24.140 It's a swimsuit.

02:54:26.020 It's my eagle outfit because that's like...

02:54:29.080 Okay, all right.

02:54:30.060 Close that out.

02:54:31.020 Close that out.

02:54:32.000 But I will say this.

02:54:32.940 Scroll down.

02:54:34.920 Is it the dock?

02:54:36.320 Is that you on the dock?

02:54:37.500 Yeah, I went to...

02:54:38.060 Let's not click it.

02:54:38.620 Don't click it, but...

02:54:40.260 So that's your ass.

02:54:41.520 Wait, hold on.

02:54:44.040 Okay, now, Brian.

02:54:45.300 I'm on a vacation.

02:54:46.140 Scroll down.

02:54:46.920 I'm on vacation.

02:54:48.180 Brian, are you going to take that ring back, then?

02:54:51.300 And then ass again.

02:54:55.300 Nobody has good morals.

02:54:55.940 Pretty reveal.

02:54:57.100 Scroll down.

02:54:58.460 Oh, here's...

02:54:59.460 It's kind of hard to say.

02:55:00.900 Here's the butt.

02:55:02.500 I mean, I'm on vacation.

02:55:04.220 I mean...

02:55:05.460 What do you think, Brian?

02:55:07.740 Wait, and then go to the next one over, Nick.

02:55:10.180 The next tab.

02:55:12.180 Is that you?

02:55:13.860 Yeah, I used to be a big raver.

02:55:15.160 I was like a huge rave girl.

02:55:17.060 Red flag.

02:55:17.800 He said, oh no.

02:55:18.340 Don't say red flag, because I was raving before it was cool.

02:55:21.860 When?

02:55:24.580 It was fun before.

02:55:25.920 How old were you in these photos?

02:55:27.900 Those are...

02:55:28.820 I don't know.

02:55:29.400 A couple years ago?

02:55:30.020 Those are during the pandemic, because that was a drive-up rave.

02:55:32.340 That's when I stopped, honestly.

02:55:33.600 I'm pretty sure raving's been a thing for...

02:55:35.180 I have never raved in my life.

02:55:36.240 I've been raving since I was 16.

02:55:38.140 I've never been to a rave.

02:55:40.140 Okay.

02:55:40.640 I know.

02:55:41.060 I'm so like...

02:55:41.760 I feel like a grandma.

02:55:42.640 Listen.

02:55:43.440 I stopped, though.

02:55:44.360 I don't know.

02:55:45.180 Look, these photos...

02:55:47.180 Doesn't really come...

02:55:50.240 Like, traditional isn't the first word that comes to mind.

02:55:53.960 Yeah.

02:55:54.920 You know what I mean?

02:55:55.660 No, no.

02:55:55.940 I totally get it.

02:55:56.520 Oh, I see.

02:55:57.100 Yeah, what the...

02:55:57.580 Let me...

02:55:58.860 If I'm allowed to...

02:56:00.080 Yeah, yeah.

02:56:00.500 Of course.

02:56:01.060 So, my thing with that is, like I said, I look at it as a brand kind of thing.

02:56:04.320 That's my money.

02:56:05.180 I financially support myself right now, and where I draw the line is obviously exclusive

02:56:10.840 content, and I don't do that.

02:56:12.820 I don't like to do that.

02:56:13.620 It's just because I think it's a little different, because in that sense, you're essentially

02:56:17.200 paying somebody, like saying, hey, send me an ass picture for $5.

02:56:20.040 That's like...

02:56:20.520 I think that's prostitution in my...

02:56:22.400 You know?

02:56:22.880 Sure.

02:56:23.120 That's worse, I suppose.

02:56:24.660 Yeah, but you know what I mean?

02:56:25.940 And that's like where I draw the line.

02:56:28.200 And when it comes to, like, for example, let's say I did meet a man that's like, hey, I don't

02:56:32.160 want you posting photos like that.

02:56:34.420 If he's financially supporting me, and he's taking care of me, sure.

02:56:38.780 Done.

02:56:39.520 But what kind of men are you attracting by posting photos like that?

02:56:42.200 Yeah, but I don't date anybody from Instagram.

02:56:44.960 I don't.

02:56:45.420 I refuse.

02:56:45.940 I will never date anybody that has social media.

02:56:47.720 But wouldn't you want a man to find you attractive for your own just personality and who you are?

02:56:53.460 And, you know, because I feel like that's almost, like, counterintuitive is you want a traditional

02:56:57.260 man, right?

02:56:58.000 Yeah.

02:56:58.220 I used to post bikini pictures on my Instagram.

02:57:00.040 Now they're completely scrubbed because it's like, I know that that's not the attention

02:57:03.020 that I want to attract.

02:57:04.000 And if a man is seeing me on the internet, then I want them to know, like, that is authentically

02:57:07.720 me instead of having...

02:57:09.400 You know, because it's very easy.

02:57:10.400 Sure.

02:57:10.640 You know, you're on vacation.

02:57:11.760 You want to post it.

02:57:12.540 You want to feel...

02:57:13.060 It's easy to get portrayed a different way.

02:57:14.160 Right.

02:57:14.500 Especially through social media.

02:57:16.060 But, you know, you don't have to put...

02:57:18.660 Women don't have to put out just for you to get tips and money, you know?

02:57:21.580 Yeah.

02:57:21.880 Totally.

02:57:22.480 But that's just, like I said, it's just...

02:57:23.680 That's me.

02:57:24.160 I'm a fitness girl.

02:57:25.460 I was a raver girl.

02:57:26.440 Like, you know, I never really took Instagram seriously until I started streaming.

02:57:29.640 And, like, that was a way to promote it.

02:57:30.960 But on stream and stuff, like, you know, it's like...

02:57:33.300 It's like...

02:57:34.820 You know, we're there gaming.

02:57:36.080 Sex sells, too.

02:57:37.180 I mean, it does.

02:57:37.700 I'm going to be honest.

02:57:38.300 It does.

02:57:38.660 You'll make more money than the last clothes you have on.

02:57:40.220 Exactly.

02:57:40.920 But I also feel, like I said, if I were to meet somebody, it's probably going to be somebody

02:57:45.680 that I meet on the street or through a mutual or through a family friend.

02:57:48.300 I just don't think social...

02:57:49.400 Like, especially like you said, what kind of man am I attracting that looks at me like

02:57:53.080 that?

02:57:53.260 But, like, okay, let's say you meet that guy in that organic way and he's a traditional

02:57:57.680 guy.

02:57:58.660 Isn't he eventually going to find, like...

02:58:01.760 Yeah.

02:58:02.040 Find your Instagram or you'll tell him your Instagram and...

02:58:06.280 Yeah.

02:58:06.480 And some guys, like, from my experience, they are cool with it and some aren't.

02:58:10.260 And I, like I said, I respect, like, their opinion, you know, just like as if, like,

02:58:14.860 I was dating someone and they did something I didn't like.

02:58:16.860 In a relationship, would you take those down?

02:58:19.620 Totally.

02:58:19.740 Like, if you were just dating a guy and you weren't married, he's not financially supporting

02:58:23.220 you.

02:58:23.440 You're just in a relationship out of respect for him.

02:58:25.340 If he was like, hey, like, you're traditional.

02:58:26.980 I'm traditional.

02:58:27.620 Like, I don't want, you know, my girlfriend on the internet posting like this.

02:58:31.080 Would you respect that?

02:58:32.240 Probably no.

02:58:33.000 Because, like you said, he's not financially supporting.

02:58:34.800 I wouldn't.

02:58:35.540 She's into the guy supporting her, like, 100%.

02:58:38.460 Yeah.

02:58:38.960 Yeah.

02:58:39.160 But what if he has those traditional qualities?

02:58:41.620 That's a little tough.

02:58:42.440 Because.

02:58:42.880 I don't think you can be traditional if you can't financially support me.

02:58:46.740 But what if it was at, like, a time.

02:58:48.180 Yeah.

02:58:48.380 Yeah.

02:58:48.680 Yeah.

02:58:48.820 Yeah.

02:58:48.920 Yeah.

02:58:49.340 But before marriage.

02:58:50.620 Yeah.

02:58:51.140 Like.

02:58:51.760 I mean, even dating.

02:58:52.760 Like, I've dated guys that have taken care of me.

02:58:54.740 Like, and it wasn't a problem.

02:58:56.320 And this is before I started streaming and doing, like, social media as a job.

02:59:00.680 Now that I'm in it and I'm, like, in it, like, full force and stuff.

02:59:04.500 I probably, like I said, that's probably why I don't want a relationship right now.

02:59:06.600 Because I'm just trying to make my money and do it while I can while I look like this.

02:59:10.020 Because I'm going to be honest with you.

02:59:10.640 This isn't going to look like this forever.

02:59:12.000 That's why I think like that, too.

02:59:13.100 Like, focus on yourself first.

02:59:14.700 And build a brand.

02:59:15.740 You know, like I said.

02:59:17.060 And when you find a guy that I'm looking for.

02:59:17.400 But are you building a brand based off of your love looks right now?

02:59:20.260 Yeah.

02:59:20.640 Looks.

02:59:21.540 But it's just, like I said, I don't really use Instagram that much.

02:59:24.980 My thing is more just, like, gaming.

02:59:26.700 Like, if, like I said, like, I like to post more, like, silly clips of me doing stupid shit.

02:59:30.260 Like, you know, like, raging and stuff.

02:59:32.160 I mean, I think you could still make the money, arguably, without having to post or without having to put out.

02:59:36.560 Oh, and I totally agree.

02:59:37.340 And a guy who, you know, wants to date you, who actually respects you for who you are, out of respect for you, would also ask that you remove them, you know?

02:59:45.480 Yeah.

02:59:45.620 Because it's, like, they're not, it's not only you respecting yourself and being, and I won't even say, like, fully modest, you know?

02:59:51.320 Like, there's nothing wrong if you're, like, wearing a bikini out and, like, posting a photo.

02:59:55.520 Yeah.

02:59:55.680 But it's, like, the way in which a woman posts a photo that's attracting that, like, you know, negative attention.

02:59:59.420 And I think if a man is, like, hey, you know, I really don't want you posting like this on the internet.

03:00:03.340 But, like, I want you to respect your own body, and I respect you for that, too.

03:00:08.640 It'll go back to, like, she said, it's a brand right now.

03:00:10.860 Like, she's definitely going to get rid of it later.

03:00:12.920 Yeah.

03:00:13.260 Like you said.

03:00:13.780 Yeah.

03:00:14.040 You're going to what?

03:00:14.980 Get rid of it later?

03:00:15.800 Yeah.

03:00:15.980 She's going to, like, rebrand.

03:00:17.060 Like, when she finds, you know, she wants to be stable, she's going to, like, you know.

03:00:20.240 But why not build the brand off of who you actually are?

03:00:22.820 Because that doesn't work.

03:00:23.400 Because I don't, can I be honest with you, just for personal reasons, I'm sure, you know, streaming is really dangerous.

03:00:28.260 I've gotten docs before.

03:00:30.400 And for protection of my family and everything.

03:00:33.380 There are certain things I don't share.

03:00:35.140 I don't even use my real name.

03:00:36.800 And it's because, like I said, it's different on gaming.

03:00:39.800 Because gaming, it's like there's a lot of people that genuinely, like, don't leave their house.

03:00:43.800 And they're parasocial.

03:00:45.040 And it gets scary.

03:00:46.320 So I choose to represent myself on social media a certain way.

03:00:50.100 But that is not me.

03:00:51.120 That's not Allie.

03:00:52.240 I, like, don't like, like, I like to keep my personal life completely separate from social media.

03:00:56.720 Me, too.

03:00:57.000 But don't you think it might be an incumbrance?

03:00:58.220 It's going to link, though.

03:00:59.180 Hold on.

03:00:59.400 Yeah.

03:00:59.660 Because I believe it's going to link.

03:01:01.240 Yeah.

03:01:01.420 But don't you think?

03:01:02.380 And the guy would definitely find out.

03:01:03.420 Yeah.

03:01:03.820 So, I mean, you might be prepared to take it down once the guy starts financially providing for you.

03:01:08.320 But do you think it could be a hindrance to that sort of guy who's prepared to be that provider?

03:01:16.240 Totally.

03:01:16.480 He's, like, might look at your Instagram and say, well, this girl's posting these kind

03:01:21.620 of photos.

03:01:22.460 She's not traditional, ergo, I'm not, I'm not going to even get involved with her or I'm

03:01:27.420 just not going to give her the traditional treatment.

03:01:29.060 Totally.

03:01:29.340 I think it goes back to, like, that him knowing her.

03:01:31.680 Obviously, they're going to go on dates and knowing you for who you are.

03:01:33.920 And that's what I've been told.

03:01:34.760 And probably by then.

03:01:35.660 And be like, you know what?

03:01:36.420 She's doing a brand.

03:01:37.220 And, like, it's not going to be forever.

03:01:39.000 That's not.

03:01:39.480 She doesn't like that.

03:01:41.160 You know, she doesn't like that.

03:01:42.580 She's just doing it for the brand because you don't pay my bills, you don't pay my rent.

03:01:45.280 I have to do it, you know, somehow because you weren't there when you were going to pay

03:01:49.460 my bills.

03:01:49.860 Were you there?

03:01:49.940 Well, I mean, if anyone could just use that argument, someone could say, I had to prostitute

03:01:54.820 to pay my bills and pay my.

03:01:56.940 I was going to say, exactly.

03:01:58.000 It's kind of like the feminist OnlyFans mentality in a sense.

03:02:00.860 Like, I know you're not physically selling, you know, your body on OnlyFans, right?

03:02:06.740 But you're still putting out in a way that is encouraging the over-sexualized society

03:02:11.900 because we live in a very over-sexualized society, sex cells, but you're encouraging

03:02:17.100 that to where your viewers are, it's almost counterintuitive.

03:02:20.820 Yeah.

03:02:21.480 Well, compare, I mean, it's low on the totem pole comparatively.

03:02:25.200 Right.

03:02:25.620 Like, posting bikini pics and kind of provocative or revealing photos, it's not as bad as,

03:02:32.140 for example, like, if you're shooting boy-girl content on OnlyFans.

03:02:35.460 Well, totally.

03:02:36.100 Totally.

03:02:36.420 Yeah.

03:02:37.120 But, like, there is still, like, a subset of men who's going to be like, hmm, they're probably

03:02:40.620 going to do this one way.

03:02:41.240 But I also think it's the way in which a woman also posts on the internet.

03:02:44.880 Yeah.

03:02:45.020 Because there's, like, very more, like, respectful poses, like, a woman could do, you know, if

03:02:50.600 she...

03:02:51.080 In a bikini.

03:02:51.300 In a bikini, you know?

03:02:52.660 There's ways on which it will look more classy versus, like, hey, I'm showing off my body.

03:02:58.420 I have one more photo to pull up from...

03:03:00.660 Wait, can you go back to the tagged Instagram, I think?

03:03:03.520 Oh, my God.

03:03:07.260 It's just people's opinion.

03:03:08.040 Like, whatever you want to do, like, it's up to them.

03:03:10.660 Also, too, I feel like if a guy really is, like, I'm not going to date you because your

03:03:12.980 Instagram photos, no offense, like, I don't want to date a guy like that.

03:03:16.020 Yeah.

03:03:16.240 Like, you're a bozo.

03:03:16.900 Like, I like businessmen.

03:03:18.000 I like businessmen that are on their phone all the time and...

03:03:20.560 Wait, what does that have to do with you posting bikini photos and...

03:03:23.740 Wait, what?

03:03:24.300 Well, you said you like to date businessmen.

03:03:26.000 What does someone being a businessman have to do with...

03:03:28.400 I'm just saying...

03:03:28.420 A businessman's not going on Instagram and worrying about what I'm doing.

03:03:30.800 Hold on, you're, like, ducking behind the mic.

03:03:32.100 Oh, sorry.

03:03:32.360 You got it.

03:03:32.940 So, it's money.

03:03:34.720 I feel like you'd be worried about how you present yourself on social media.

03:03:37.360 Yeah.

03:03:37.480 Want to come to a guy?

03:03:38.560 Not even money, just stability.

03:03:40.920 Like, because I'm going to be honest.

03:03:42.160 I come from a well-off family.

03:03:43.320 You're hiding behind the mic.

03:03:45.040 We need you to...

03:03:45.960 There we go.

03:03:46.540 Better?

03:03:47.040 But would a guy of that high value and that stature necessarily, you know, it's like,

03:03:51.180 oh, hey, it's like, can I see your girl's Instagram?

03:03:53.180 I want to see her.

03:03:54.080 Yeah.

03:03:54.460 Would he want to show that off?

03:03:57.380 I've been in a relationship before.

03:03:58.620 Maybe if a guy's like a hype man, you know what I mean?

03:03:59.920 He's like, this is my girl.

03:04:00.660 She's sexy.

03:04:01.220 But sometimes that's a thing.

03:04:03.020 Yeah, I usually ask my partners not to share that alley boba.

03:04:06.760 I usually do.

03:04:07.540 And I'm going to be honest.

03:04:08.120 Like, I don't date guys in the industry.

03:04:10.200 I don't...

03:04:10.400 I just don't.

03:04:11.080 I don't like to.

03:04:11.840 I don't date athletes.

03:04:13.000 They're all cheaters, in my opinion.

03:04:14.560 So, it's just...

03:04:15.600 You know, I like a normal guy who usually is just like, oh, cool.

03:04:17.860 She does this on this side.

03:04:18.900 Because I'm going to be honest with you.

03:04:19.900 Once I do fall in love and I...

03:04:21.320 Like I said, I'm at that point in my life where I'm like, okay, this is the one.

03:04:24.060 I'll give up everything.

03:04:25.000 And like I said, devote my life and time to becoming a mom and a wife.

03:04:28.040 That's like the ultimate goal.

03:04:29.540 Wait, you don't date athletes?

03:04:31.260 No.

03:04:31.540 Have you...

03:04:31.940 She thinks at all.

03:04:32.380 Bad experience?

03:04:34.060 Did you?

03:04:34.680 I don't like...

03:04:35.520 I just...

03:04:36.100 It's not...

03:04:36.820 It's not...

03:04:37.140 I was just...

03:04:38.420 Huh?

03:04:38.600 NFL?

03:04:39.480 NBA.

03:04:40.100 NBA player?

03:04:41.200 I've never met a man that didn't cheat in the NBA.

03:04:43.840 Yep.

03:04:44.580 You've met NBA players?

03:04:46.360 No, I've had a lot of friends that like...

03:04:48.140 Have dated NBA players?

03:04:50.040 And I'm like, they took her private jets, like the yachts or whatever.

03:04:53.780 Yep.

03:04:54.400 But...

03:04:55.080 Temptation is everywhere.

03:04:56.200 You know, those guys are very tempted because girls are throwing themselves at them.

03:04:59.420 And it's as loyal to his options.

03:05:01.080 True.

03:05:01.640 Yep.

03:05:01.780 True.

03:05:03.020 So if a man wants it, he wants that woman and he will stay loyal to that woman.

03:05:06.800 But if he doesn't want that woman, then he won't.

03:05:08.760 Wait, who here has had an offer from a guy to be flown out somewhere?

03:05:14.100 Either flown out to Vegas, Miami, whatever it may be.

03:05:16.980 Everybody, yeah.

03:05:18.440 Morgan, you've been offered to...

03:05:20.560 I have, yeah.

03:05:21.460 I said no.

03:05:21.900 Uh, have any of you taken up the flown out offer?

03:05:26.540 No.

03:05:27.220 No?

03:05:27.920 I have.

03:05:28.860 You took it?

03:05:29.760 Yeah.

03:05:30.180 But it was...

03:05:30.680 You took the offer?

03:05:31.120 Yeah, but it was very respectful.

03:05:32.820 And he actually was like this multi, like super like investor guy.

03:05:38.260 And it was a really...

03:05:39.480 It was just for a date.

03:05:40.220 He just flew me for a date.

03:05:41.100 And that was it.

03:05:42.080 And he flew me back home.

03:05:43.360 And that was it.

03:05:44.240 And it just didn't work out.

03:05:46.040 You never saw him again?

03:05:47.160 Um, he just wanted a little something more serious than what I wanted, honestly.

03:05:50.920 Wait, but you literally just said that you want to get married and have kids and...

03:05:55.720 Yeah, but this was like a year ago.

03:05:57.560 Wait, you keep ducking here.

03:05:58.540 I need you to scoot your mic to your right.

03:06:02.120 All right.

03:06:03.100 No, you're tilting.

03:06:04.340 I need you to just scoot it that way.

03:06:06.180 Oh, scoot it this way.

03:06:06.640 Because you keep hiding behind the mic.

03:06:07.840 Sorry.

03:06:08.960 It's okay.

03:06:10.500 Also, if you try to speak to me that instead of speaking to Morgan...

03:06:14.320 Okay, sorry.

03:06:14.840 I know.

03:06:15.000 I'm like...

03:06:15.480 That'll help.

03:06:16.080 I'm such an eye contact person.

03:06:18.300 So, okay.

03:06:18.980 You had a...

03:06:19.680 Where did he fly you out to?

03:06:21.180 We just went to Dallas.

03:06:22.920 Okay, to Dallas.

03:06:23.860 Yeah, Dallas.

03:06:24.860 Athlete?

03:06:25.620 No.

03:06:26.100 Investor guy.

03:06:26.880 Money business guy?

03:06:28.100 Okay.

03:06:30.160 You didn't take any of the offers?

03:06:31.780 No, because I...

03:06:32.880 I'm scared.

03:06:34.180 I'm scared of like...

03:06:35.140 I don't know those people.

03:06:36.260 You know, I need to get to know you first.

03:06:38.080 Totally.

03:06:38.340 Before I go to an unknown location with you.

03:06:40.680 Yeah.

03:06:41.060 Like when someone offers something, it kind of scares me away.

03:06:43.060 To clarify, we did FaceTime before multiple times.

03:06:45.120 Yeah.

03:06:45.220 It wasn't like, yeah, no, yeah.

03:06:46.420 I want to just go on a plane, yeah, with a stranger.

03:06:49.500 Okay.

03:06:50.040 So, but you've moved in circles with NBA players?

03:06:54.620 No, I've never.

03:06:55.800 Oh, just your friends?

03:06:56.940 Yeah, my friends.

03:06:57.900 And you've moved in circles with athletes and musicians and actors and...

03:07:02.000 Just athletes I've dated.

03:07:03.660 You've dated athletes?

03:07:04.600 Yeah.

03:07:05.560 One baseball player and one NBA player.

03:07:07.120 And both of them were...

03:07:11.120 Are you cheated?

03:07:12.100 No.

03:07:12.600 They're just not...

03:07:13.340 One of them, I found out, ended up having a freaking girlfriend.

03:07:16.640 Oh.

03:07:17.240 Yeah.

03:07:17.860 But they, like I said, because he was just...

03:07:19.700 Ugh.

03:07:20.140 Those are...

03:07:20.540 They're terrible.

03:07:21.440 And she messaged me one time and she was like, hey, I think you're dating my boyfriend.

03:07:24.220 And I was like, oh.

03:07:26.160 Cool.

03:07:26.440 Oh, man.

03:07:26.940 Oh, man.

03:07:27.120 Oh, great.

03:07:27.840 He was done.

03:07:28.520 Yeah, and that was the baseball player.

03:07:30.080 He's the...

03:07:30.720 Yeah.

03:07:31.200 And then I tried talking to another athlete that my friend actually knew because he did

03:07:36.060 training camp with him.

03:07:37.060 And he was like, oh, he hyped him up for me.

03:07:39.000 Like, he's such a great guy.

03:07:39.840 He was terrible.

03:07:41.180 Wow.

03:07:41.820 Terrible.

03:07:42.920 Yeah.

03:07:43.480 Just...

03:07:44.200 It's the alcohol for me.

03:07:45.480 Like, I just can't be around the partying and all that constantly.

03:07:48.140 I thought you were like a rave girl.

03:07:49.880 Yeah, but you can rave sober.

03:07:51.320 Oh, okay.

03:07:51.660 Like, you don't have to go to rave fucked up.

03:07:53.560 Yeah.

03:07:54.040 Who about that?

03:07:54.620 I love being sober at parties.

03:07:55.760 Going to bars.

03:07:56.660 Yeah.

03:07:58.120 Survive.

03:07:58.440 You can still have fun.

03:07:59.200 I mean, I can't go to a nightclub because it's so boring to me.

03:08:01.420 I don't drink or anything like that.

03:08:02.560 So, I'm just like sitting there like...

03:08:04.140 Wow.

03:08:04.420 This is an interesting panel.

03:08:06.220 I like this panel.

03:08:07.120 I love this.

03:08:08.080 It's hard to be at the social level that your drunk friends are when you are at, like,

03:08:12.100 a club or a bar.

03:08:12.720 I just don't want to.

03:08:13.960 Like, I just feel like...

03:08:15.420 So, I'd rather stay home.

03:08:16.480 Wait.

03:08:16.720 So, is everybody here sober besides alcoholic Madison over here?

03:08:20.460 Just kidding.

03:08:20.980 Madison?

03:08:21.300 Who cares?

03:08:21.780 I'm kidding, Madison.

03:08:23.520 I'm kidding, Madison.

03:08:24.360 I like wine and I smoke weed, but that's it.

03:08:26.740 Oh.

03:08:27.140 Yeah.

03:08:27.520 I love weed.

03:08:27.740 Wait.

03:08:27.800 Actually, there's a video of you.

03:08:29.260 Hold on.

03:08:29.480 Yeah.

03:08:29.660 Dabbing.

03:08:30.180 Girl.

03:08:31.060 Pull up the video.

03:08:32.460 Go to her Instagram.

03:08:33.420 I'm a dabber.

03:08:34.140 I'm a dabber.

03:08:34.720 I'm like a dabber.

03:08:35.440 I can't.

03:08:36.060 Oh, my God.

03:08:37.220 I don't know.

03:08:37.740 That's, like, the one thing I like.

03:08:39.660 Can you guys criticize my Instagram, too?

03:08:41.300 I would love feedback.

03:08:42.700 For what?

03:08:43.140 For what?

03:08:43.480 Scroll up.

03:08:44.080 Scroll up.

03:08:44.580 Oh, no.

03:08:45.280 I'm like, don't give me the weed, dude.

03:08:46.660 Oh, it's in the tagged.

03:08:48.260 Just go to the tagged.

03:08:50.480 Are you talking about the one of me smoking the blunt?

03:08:51.980 Scroll down.

03:08:52.640 Scroll down.

03:08:53.260 Scroll down.

03:08:54.000 Yeah.

03:08:54.320 There it is.

03:08:54.960 Next to the rave.

03:08:55.880 Oh, I see it.

03:08:57.140 That was for a weed.

03:08:57.940 Oh, wait.

03:08:58.280 Wait.

03:08:58.440 Wait.

03:08:58.640 Actually, never mind.

03:08:59.280 Never mind.

03:08:59.600 We can't show her.

03:09:00.400 Oh, yeah.

03:09:00.540 You can't.

03:09:00.960 We can't show her doing that.

03:09:02.040 That's probably a spike.

03:09:02.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:09:03.200 Yeah.

03:09:04.020 Well, that was the other thing I was going to ask.

03:09:05.740 Yeah.

03:09:06.540 Interesting.

03:09:07.660 Isn't, like, getting baked out of your mind on weed, is that traditional?

03:09:13.040 No.

03:09:13.440 No.

03:09:13.940 Is it traditional to just, like, get stuck in.

03:09:16.100 I don't smoke all day.

03:09:18.540 Like, that's terrible to me because I like to be functional.

03:09:20.560 All weed?

03:09:21.360 All day?

03:09:22.180 No, no.

03:09:22.760 Definitely not.

03:09:23.160 I just dab at night for my, like, when that's my content.

03:09:25.080 I, like, dab and get really mad at people.

03:09:28.640 You get mad at people?

03:09:29.600 Oh, yeah.

03:09:29.820 Is that the Toxica thing?

03:09:30.820 Yeah, yeah.

03:09:31.320 You know what you're talking about?

03:09:32.360 Listen, if we're going to get married, okay?

03:09:36.560 Are you, like, now?

03:09:38.560 The most that you can, maybe occasionally a glass of wine, but you're, maybe you can have

03:09:43.460 tea.

03:09:44.760 Yeah.

03:09:45.180 Oh, when I have kids, I'm not smoking.

03:09:47.060 Absolutely not.

03:09:47.860 Yeah.

03:09:48.160 You got to cut the weed.

03:09:49.880 Would you call yourself a dickhead to weed?

03:09:51.180 Are you going to pay her bills and rent?

03:09:52.720 It's an addiction.

03:09:53.160 Am I going to pay her bills and rent?

03:09:54.520 I mean, you can have a minivan and I'll put you up in my shed.

03:09:58.640 I don't think you can get, like.

03:09:59.460 If I have a shed in my backyard, you can camp out there.

03:10:02.540 Oh, nice.

03:10:03.640 Because I don't believe in sharing a bedroom.

03:10:05.460 What the?

03:10:06.460 I think the girl.

03:10:07.040 Bunk beds?

03:10:07.740 Bunk beds.

03:10:08.400 I believe you should sleep in bunk beds.

03:10:10.960 I think the girl should have, like, a separate, your wife should have a separate room.

03:10:14.360 Oh, my God.

03:10:15.080 Because, like, you're a snorer.

03:10:16.900 Do you snore?

03:10:17.520 Yeah.

03:10:17.780 No.

03:10:18.320 Be honest.

03:10:18.700 You can't sleep.

03:10:19.120 No, I don't.

03:10:19.740 I'm the most quiet sleeper ever.

03:10:21.740 I fall asleep in Discord every night.

03:10:22.980 They say I'm, like, a mouse.

03:10:24.500 I'm just so quiet and peaceful.

03:10:25.800 Wait, you do sleeping streams?

03:10:27.620 No, I've never done a sleeping stream, but I'll fall asleep to my friends.

03:10:30.980 Like, we're nerds.

03:10:31.680 We'll just be playing until, like, 5 a.m.

03:10:32.920 Wait, you keep hiding behind the mic.

03:10:34.180 I'm sorry.

03:10:34.880 Scoot the mic this way and then tilt it towards you.

03:10:41.100 Sorry.

03:10:41.380 There we go.

03:10:41.780 And then just breathe, like, straight back and don't slouch.

03:10:45.280 No, no.

03:10:45.820 There we go.

03:10:46.560 There we go.

03:10:47.060 Lock in.

03:10:47.800 Lock in.

03:10:48.260 Sorry, I'm in my gamer position.

03:10:50.260 Yeah, I definitely think separate bedrooms is the way to go.

03:10:53.700 Well, you know, Jewish culture, they don't sleep in the same bedroom.

03:10:56.400 They do?

03:10:56.800 On their period.

03:10:58.060 When a woman's on their period.

03:10:59.160 That's, like, orthodox.

03:11:00.720 Yeah.

03:11:01.040 Orthodox.

03:11:01.460 Orthodox.

03:11:02.920 Okay.

03:11:03.600 I mean, I don't...

03:11:04.760 You want to be orthodox?

03:11:06.600 Oh.

03:11:07.000 Hava Nagila Hava.

03:11:08.620 What the?

03:11:09.020 Okay.

03:11:09.180 So, wait.

03:11:13.820 Yeah, separate bedrooms for sure.

03:11:15.120 What's happening now?

03:11:15.560 Are you, like, taking back your proposal, Brian?

03:11:17.800 You know, might as well.

03:11:18.340 I think he's second-guessing himself.

03:11:19.440 He's second-guessing.

03:11:20.520 Hold on.

03:11:20.660 I think he's second-guessing himself.

03:11:21.760 Like, Mormonism, separate houses.

03:11:23.740 You can have, like, five wives, different houses.

03:11:25.580 Why not?

03:11:26.180 You know, at that point.

03:11:27.960 Yeah.

03:11:28.280 Actually, let's pull up her TikTok.

03:11:30.140 Oh.

03:11:31.360 Okay.

03:11:31.840 I want to preface.

03:11:32.920 I might come off a little bit mean on TikTok, but that's just content.

03:11:35.520 It's just content.

03:11:36.040 Okay.

03:11:36.060 Okay.

03:11:36.280 That's fine.

03:11:36.960 Because I talk about my views on here.

03:11:38.680 Like, the most recent one.

03:11:39.720 No, no, no.

03:11:40.100 Put it back.

03:11:40.660 Put it back.

03:11:41.400 The incoming stitch one?

03:11:43.040 Video tab.

03:11:43.560 Because TikTok is, like, sort of acting.

03:11:45.420 Yeah.

03:11:46.000 You're portraying a different character.

03:11:47.200 Move it over.

03:11:49.280 Yeah, that's...

03:11:50.480 Actually, no.

03:11:51.300 Put it up one.

03:11:52.680 Okay.

03:11:53.060 Nope.

03:11:54.000 Nope.

03:11:54.420 Sorry.

03:11:54.660 Play the second one.

03:11:58.740 I mean, it's not so funny.

03:12:00.440 We're literally just talking about this.

03:12:01.380 It's not the same thing as a man liking another girl's picture.

03:12:04.580 I'm not going to lie.

03:12:05.580 This shit kind of, like, pisses me off.

03:12:07.960 And I'm going to tell you why.

03:12:09.160 I hate how, like, dating has become, like, so one-sided because I'm, like, used to dating

03:12:14.660 somebody and giving them, like, the equal respect that they give me.

03:12:17.660 So, for example, if I ask my man to unfollow, let's say, an Instagram model who happens to

03:12:24.420 post a little bit more, you know, over-the-top photos or whatever it may be, showing off their

03:12:29.540 body, etc., I think it's only right for me as a woman that's, you know, trying to respect

03:12:35.280 my man, if he's respecting me by unfollowing these girls, what gives it a right for me to

03:12:40.120 be allowed to post, let's say, over-the-top photos of me showing my body?

03:12:44.200 I just think it's, like, a double standard.

03:12:45.540 And I think it's really fucking annoying how these women try to be, like, oh, women

03:12:49.220 power, like, all that.

03:12:50.440 But it's, like, you're literally preaching the fucking opposite.

03:12:53.380 Relationships should be, like, 50%.

03:12:55.180 Or X out.

03:12:56.920 X out of that.

03:12:59.180 Now, the TikTok that you posted just before that one, play that one.

03:13:06.160 You told me that you wasn't a freak.

03:13:08.360 Now I don't believe you.

03:13:10.200 Because the way you got me feeling right now, everyday girl, I want to see you.

03:13:13.920 You told me that you wasn't a freak.

03:13:15.540 Pause it, pause it, pause it, pause it.

03:13:17.280 So the camera angle, right?

03:13:19.120 So you have your cell phone.

03:13:20.520 Yeah.

03:13:21.580 And it's, like...

03:13:22.600 It's a TikTok trend.

03:13:23.980 It's, like, you know...

03:13:25.680 Wait, I'm trying to get this.

03:13:26.680 It's kind of, like, here's my ass.

03:13:28.360 Yeah, yeah.

03:13:29.160 Come on, I know what I'm doing.

03:13:30.400 But, like, how do you go from that TikTok to what you say?

03:13:36.220 You know what I mean?

03:13:37.520 You know what I mean?

03:13:38.040 The point of that TikTok, if you watched the video before, it's a girl saying...

03:13:41.700 She's pretty much saying that if I tell my man to follow a picture of a girl in a bikini,

03:13:45.940 I still can post one, which I think is stupid as fuck.

03:13:48.360 Like, you're being hypocritical about that.

03:13:50.460 Like, that's so hypocritical.

03:13:51.400 I know, I know.

03:13:52.640 Yeah.

03:13:53.200 But, like I said, again, if I were to, later down in life, meet a man, he's like, don't

03:13:57.680 post that.

03:13:58.500 Cool.

03:13:58.940 But, like I said, I'm only doing content and doing this stuff right now while I can.

03:14:04.920 Because I don't want to do this forever.

03:14:06.000 I don't want to be, like, you know, doing this to my boy.

03:14:08.360 Don't you ever want to find something that you're passionate about and then you could do

03:14:11.900 it for, like, the rest of your life?

03:14:13.300 I have...

03:14:13.780 And not, like, a side job or a side thing?

03:14:15.700 Not all of us can launder money, okay?

03:14:18.220 I just don't know how you can justify being traditional.

03:14:20.220 Like, traditional, but then actively posting things that are not promiscuous.

03:14:26.580 Yeah, I know.

03:14:27.120 Just, like, seeking the attention.

03:14:28.400 Like, you've got to be honest.

03:14:30.420 Yeah.

03:14:30.640 Those kinds of videos, a man's going to watch that and going to like that.

03:14:34.400 Same thing with Instagram.

03:14:35.680 Same thing with bikini photos.

03:14:37.580 So, how can you claim, okay, I'm traditional, I want all these great things, but then still

03:14:41.920 seek that.

03:14:42.380 And I know it's, like, you're saying it's your character and it's just content.

03:14:45.500 But the thing is, like, that content lives forever.

03:14:47.980 That's still who you are.

03:14:49.400 But...

03:14:49.840 It's not, that's not a second person.

03:14:51.760 Like, that's still you.

03:14:52.680 Yeah.

03:14:52.780 It's still content.

03:14:53.900 That's you.

03:14:54.200 And that's the image that everyone is going to have of you.

03:14:56.620 And so, how...

03:14:57.920 And I think that determines from, and this is, I think, the problem with social media these

03:15:02.660 days, is people base their entire identity and life off social media to justify themselves

03:15:07.820 or validate themselves.

03:15:08.900 I literally look at social media, I'm going to be honest with you, with money.

03:15:11.040 Like, hello, I'm in this business, I'm a businesswoman.

03:15:13.400 I'm going to do it while I can.

03:15:14.300 And it's just, like, I'm going to do it, like I said, while I can right now.

03:15:18.940 But wouldn't you rather make money in a more glorifying way to your own self?

03:15:21.560 I have...

03:15:21.920 Give those examples.

03:15:22.880 Yeah.

03:15:23.260 Yeah.

03:15:23.480 Yeah.

03:15:23.740 No, yeah.

03:15:24.520 Oh, I have...

03:15:25.240 I mean, you could do it.

03:15:26.700 But why do women feel the need to put out on the internet to make money?

03:15:33.920 Like, my whole family, we're all within, like, the medical field.

03:15:36.660 Like, my uncle is a doctor, a nurse, dermatologist, I have dentists.

03:15:41.920 My cousins are dentists.

03:15:42.520 You can go to cosmetology school for nine months.

03:15:44.240 My brother is a pharmacist.

03:15:45.060 You can be a hairdresser.

03:15:46.300 I mean, on social media even.

03:15:47.560 Yeah.

03:15:47.920 You don't have to...

03:15:48.880 The point is, you don't have to sell your body on the internet to make money.

03:15:52.360 Yes, there's other ways.

03:15:52.860 I think women have been lied to that it's, like, oh, it's super glorifying.

03:15:56.680 This is women's empowerment of, like, actually, no, you can post your body, be super promiscuous,

03:16:00.560 and this is way more desirable.

03:16:02.400 And because...

03:16:02.840 But then you're seeking the opposite negative attention of a man.

03:16:06.660 And, I mean, women also, it's, like, male validation.

03:16:09.380 You know, women love attention.

03:16:10.600 Like, that's just a fact.

03:16:11.520 No matter who you are, women love attention.

03:16:13.600 And so it's, like, are you seeking out that negative attention from men?

03:16:16.800 Not you.

03:16:17.200 But I'm saying, like, are women seeking out that negative attention from men by posting on the internet?

03:16:20.840 Yes.

03:16:21.260 If a girl says no, they're lying.

03:16:22.860 And it's, like, no, you don't have to do that to make money.

03:16:26.460 But it's been so normalized.

03:16:28.940 Oh, it's so easy.

03:16:29.920 Sell your body on OnlyFans.

03:16:31.620 You know, make more provocative TikToks.

03:16:33.820 And you can now make money on TikTok.

03:16:35.220 You make money on Instagram.

03:16:36.080 Make money on streaming.

03:16:37.280 Simply by, I mean, even, like, the TikTok NPC trend.

03:16:40.440 Like, that is very over-sexualized with women that are doing it.

03:16:43.760 You know?

03:16:45.000 Actually, Madison, we had our first Madison NPC.

03:16:49.540 No.

03:16:49.940 But it's not, like, sexual.

03:16:51.520 Yeah.

03:16:52.040 Well, it's not sexual.

03:16:53.540 I didn't make it sexual.

03:16:54.980 Right.

03:16:55.360 But the viewers do.

03:16:57.500 Yes.

03:16:58.280 Do they?

03:16:59.120 Yeah.

03:16:59.680 To the NPC girls, they do.

03:17:02.000 Oh, yeah.

03:17:02.380 Oh, okay.

03:17:02.560 Like, 100%.

03:17:03.560 Ice cream.

03:17:03.980 Ice cream.

03:17:04.000 Yum.

03:17:05.020 Ice cream.

03:17:05.580 Gang gang.

03:17:06.080 Gang gang.

03:17:06.820 Gang gang.

03:17:08.340 Okay.

03:17:08.980 So, I think the sticking point for us, because you, in your pre-show messages, and I think

03:17:14.920 during the show, you said that you're traditional, that you have old-school values.

03:17:20.300 You said that you're very old-school view when it comes to dating.

03:17:24.500 Yeah.

03:17:24.620 But, like, if you look at, like, the Instagram, for example, you know, there's lingerie photos,

03:17:29.660 bikini photos, ass photos, rave attire, blunt smoking.

03:17:33.940 Was it blunt or was it a bong?

03:17:35.140 I don't know.

03:17:35.500 It was a joint, yeah.

03:17:36.920 Like, that doesn't strike me as the epitome of traditional, you know?

03:17:41.420 Yeah.

03:17:41.560 But, you know, it's so funny.

03:17:42.620 When I go on dates, and let's say they do know what I do, they meet me in person, they're

03:17:46.320 like, holy fuck.

03:17:47.300 Like, you were so the opposite of what I thought you were going to be.

03:17:49.940 And I love that.

03:17:50.920 You know?

03:17:51.200 I like throwing people off.

03:17:51.900 Your personality, like, what you're looking for in a man, like, the way you move in a

03:17:55.700 relationship, it, I'll give you that.

03:17:57.560 It's a complete opposite.

03:17:58.120 It may very well be traditional.

03:18:00.520 But what I would argue is, I don't think you can, there may be some traditional things

03:18:05.820 about you, but I don't think you can just blanket say that you are traditional or that

03:18:11.800 you do have fully across the board old-school values because some of these things seem negotiable

03:18:17.600 with you, like, just based off the pictures you're posting, the smoke in the, is it a

03:18:23.680 blunt, blunt?

03:18:24.600 It's a joint, yeah.

03:18:25.160 Joint?

03:18:26.860 Again, it doesn't, your public-facing, your public-facing presentation doesn't strike me

03:18:34.380 as traditional.

03:18:35.960 Yeah.

03:18:36.320 You could, uh...

03:18:37.760 You could have traditional values, but a part of being a traditional person is also living

03:18:41.740 out that life, you know?

03:18:43.020 Like a majority, sorry, I cut you off.

03:18:44.900 No, I was just gonna say, like, back when I was in college, I posted bikini photos, I

03:18:48.340 was drinking, you know, used to smoke weed, but then once I was like, no, I'm going to

03:18:53.320 live a traditional life because that's also what I want to attract is I want a traditional

03:18:57.300 man.

03:18:57.900 Yeah.

03:18:58.120 Well, okay, I'm not gonna post a bikini photo, I'm not gonna drink anymore, I'm not gonna

03:19:01.140 do these certain things and as it progressed in life.

03:19:03.040 So it's like you can have traditional values, but that being a traditional person, it looks

03:19:09.120 different when you live out that life.

03:19:10.340 Yeah.

03:19:10.900 Yeah, I was just gonna...

03:19:11.660 You had something?

03:19:12.200 Uh, but didn't she say she doesn't want to date someone traditional right now because

03:19:15.460 she's getting her bag?

03:19:16.900 And then later on, she's gonna, like, you know, actually delete all the stuff like you

03:19:20.960 did, you know, like you had a past that it was bad and you change it because you want

03:19:24.980 to be a different way and that's still valid, you know?

03:19:27.520 Like, if people change, people change, you know?

03:19:30.400 Like, um, people have pasts and that's fine.

03:19:32.080 But you actively know that you want to change, so why not do it?

03:19:35.560 Why not try a different...

03:19:37.520 Try something.

03:19:38.120 Fine, so, like, if you're passionate about gaming, still game.

03:19:40.300 Oh, I love gaming.

03:19:40.920 Yeah, yeah, try it.

03:19:41.640 The gaming is, like...

03:19:43.040 Sorry, go ahead, love.

03:19:43.740 It's okay.

03:19:44.080 No, no.

03:19:44.360 Continue.

03:19:44.800 No, the gaming thing was, like, you know, like I said, it's a passion.

03:19:47.180 That's truly, like, what I love to do.

03:19:49.040 Yeah.

03:19:49.300 But obviously, like, hello, it's a business.

03:19:51.040 How, you know...

03:19:52.080 I'm thinking business.

03:19:52.900 Yeah.

03:19:53.340 Business standpoint.

03:19:54.360 Wait, you're on Kik or Twitch?

03:19:55.680 I was on Twitch.

03:19:56.480 I was on Twitch for a year and then I went to Kik.

03:19:58.920 Okay.

03:19:59.600 Okay.

03:20:00.560 Okay.

03:20:01.160 All right.

03:20:02.460 Madison, did you add something?

03:20:04.160 I was just going to add to what Morgan said, but just, like, I feel like a majority of traditional

03:20:08.700 women can most definitely put pictures of, like, that for their body online to gain money,

03:20:15.980 but keep to their values so they don't do that.

03:20:19.000 But, okay, part of, like, you could argue, part of, like, tradition, old school values,

03:20:28.160 one of those traditions...

03:20:28.940 Yeah, my reputation, right?

03:20:30.620 What?

03:20:31.400 It's, like, reputation or, like, the way you portray yourself.

03:20:33.720 Just, hold on, let me finish.

03:20:35.280 Okay.

03:20:35.980 One of the traditional things or an old school value is modesty.

03:20:41.040 That is a traditional value.

03:20:42.960 Okay, yeah.

03:20:43.560 Definitely not modest.

03:20:44.840 Yeah, definitely not modest.

03:20:46.100 I mean, come on, I'm wearing a little pet shirt.

03:20:47.360 Yeah.

03:20:47.720 I'm wearing tank tops, you know?

03:20:49.540 But that's, like, me claiming I'm a virgin, but I slept with 30 people.

03:20:55.260 You know what I mean?

03:20:55.780 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:20:56.220 Like, how do you claim it?

03:20:57.620 Did you have more on this that you wanted to...

03:21:00.580 It sounded like you might have had more?

03:21:01.820 Oh, it just depends.

03:21:02.420 Like, everybody has a past, you know?

03:21:04.020 Like, there's probably that guy that was, you know, wants to be traditional.

03:21:07.220 He probably has a past.

03:21:07.940 Should we forgive people's past?

03:21:09.820 Always.

03:21:10.300 I think it depends.

03:21:11.560 Obviously, if it's murder, obviously not.

03:21:13.700 You know, like...

03:21:14.340 Be nice to the murderers, please.

03:21:16.200 Give them a chance.

03:21:17.140 I'm sorry.

03:21:17.480 They're sweet.

03:21:17.920 They're sweethearts.

03:21:19.040 You're right.

03:21:19.360 I'm sorry, guys.

03:21:20.440 Would you date a...

03:21:20.960 Who here would date a murderer?

03:21:22.180 No.

03:21:22.760 Anybody?

03:21:23.280 No.

03:21:24.000 No.

03:21:24.140 What about self-defense?

03:21:25.300 If, like, my boyfriend was, like, protecting me and murdered someone for me, then yeah.

03:21:30.540 Oh, jeez.

03:21:30.860 I think that would just be...

03:21:32.100 Self-defense.

03:21:32.980 Self-defense.

03:21:33.720 Yeah.

03:21:34.540 Homicide.

03:21:35.260 People...

03:21:35.740 Not murder.

03:21:36.520 People change.

03:21:37.260 You know, their past is their past, and, like, it's the person who they are now and who

03:21:40.620 they're showing you.

03:21:41.320 Let me ask you a question, though.

03:21:42.880 Who believes that, here at the table, your past is your past?

03:21:47.080 You shouldn't be judged on your past.

03:21:49.340 Depends.

03:21:49.540 If they've actively repented and changed their entire lifestyle, then yes.

03:21:53.620 Question for all the girls here.

03:21:55.540 Would you date a guy who, in his past, slept with a hundred different prostitutes?

03:22:01.000 He doesn't anymore.

03:22:02.460 He hasn't in three years.

03:22:04.360 But he previously had...

03:22:06.420 Was sex addicts, sleeping with prostitutes.

03:22:09.500 Slepts with a hundred.

03:22:10.960 Me, personally, no.

03:22:12.800 But I know that they're...

03:22:13.300 But, hold on.

03:22:13.680 He's repented.

03:22:15.280 More of it.

03:22:15.580 I heard.

03:22:16.300 I heard.

03:22:16.580 But addiction's different.

03:22:17.600 Within that relationship that you have with someone, and you discuss your past, and

03:22:20.440 you discuss what you want, and stuff, like, that's up to that relationship.

03:22:22.660 Yeah, it's up to you.

03:22:23.800 It's up to everybody who has a different opinion.

03:22:25.540 That's also, like, an extreme.

03:22:27.100 Yeah, that's also...

03:22:27.620 That's an extreme.

03:22:28.380 Don't say that.

03:22:28.860 Very, very extreme.

03:22:30.240 I feel like that's, like...

03:22:31.100 Let's just say, like, a man has, like, an OnlyFans.

03:22:33.600 There's a lot of people just hooking up.

03:22:35.060 It's so normal.

03:22:36.500 That's kind of gay.

03:22:37.400 I don't know any straight dudes.

03:22:38.600 I don't know.

03:22:38.960 Do straight guys have OnlyFans?

03:22:40.900 They do, though, but I honestly think they're...

03:22:44.020 Questions.

03:22:44.940 Yeah.

03:22:45.320 There's questions.

03:22:45.900 Anybody that takes a dick, sorry.

03:22:47.440 I mean, it's less risky than him saying, like, a hundred prostitutes.

03:22:50.860 Like, what?

03:22:51.200 You know, like, it's a lot.

03:22:54.060 Like, that's too much.

03:22:54.760 No, I'm telling you, I feel like that's, like, the normal nowadays.

03:22:57.020 Yeah, I was saying there's, like, a ten cup of course.

03:22:58.560 It's still enough for me.

03:22:59.820 Wait.

03:23:00.560 Going to you, Amber, in your pre-show notes to us, you said that you...

03:23:05.700 I don't know if it's two different people.

03:23:07.780 You mentioned something about a spiritual fuckboy.

03:23:10.760 Is that the current guy you're seeing?

03:23:11.980 No.

03:23:12.300 This is a guy that, when I broke up with my toxic boyfriend, I met this guy from mutual

03:23:20.020 friends.

03:23:20.640 Like, I used to...

03:23:21.560 My old boss, he's friends with him.

03:23:25.180 And it's crazy, because I didn't know there was spiritual, you know, like, F-boys.

03:23:28.720 Like, I was like, what?

03:23:30.420 Like...

03:23:30.740 They're spiritual?

03:23:31.480 It's crazy to me, because it's like, he seems like a really nice...

03:23:33.860 Like, you know, you would expect spiritual people to be like, okay, you know what?

03:23:36.900 Like, I want with my soulmate.

03:23:39.340 I don't want to, like, you know...

03:23:41.300 Huh?

03:23:41.500 And they're not going to play games with you, right?

03:23:43.460 No.

03:23:43.700 They will.

03:23:44.740 You know, but they will.

03:23:45.180 Even in the Christian community, I mean, there's...

03:23:46.780 Wait, when you say spiritual, what do you...

03:23:48.860 Do you mean religious, or do you mean, like, heart chakras, fucking yoga type shit?

03:23:53.860 Hold on.

03:23:54.220 Hold on just a sec.

03:23:54.900 Grandin Mills donated $99.

03:23:57.300 Off topic.

03:23:57.800 Bro, you got to send these when she's at the table, brother.

03:24:00.920 We need to recognize how badass she is.

03:24:04.000 Everyone put W Madison in the chat.

03:24:06.400 She can hear it.

03:24:07.600 She does so much that the viewers don't see.

03:24:09.500 W.

03:24:09.860 We love you.

03:24:11.100 Aww.

03:24:12.120 Madison heard it, man.

03:24:13.100 She's just behind the scene right there.

03:24:15.000 She's coming back.

03:24:15.760 Yo, Brandon.

03:24:16.100 She's eating something.

03:24:17.320 She's hungry.

03:24:18.040 Thank you, Brandon.

03:24:20.180 Oh, there.

03:24:20.840 Oh, you got a little kiss from you.

03:24:22.160 Oh, wow.

03:24:25.080 Do you guys want to send Brandon a kiss?

03:24:27.180 Yeah.

03:24:27.760 Into this camera right here?

03:24:28.940 Oh, okay.

03:24:32.360 Okay, that was...

03:24:33.300 I'm sorry.

03:24:33.780 That was cringe.

03:24:34.620 That was so...

03:24:35.300 Yeah, let's do it.

03:24:35.960 That was so cringe.

03:24:37.740 Spiritual fuckboys.

03:24:38.620 So, like, heart chakras, fucking stones and shit.

03:24:41.000 So, this guy has done...

03:24:42.160 You know ayahuasca?

03:24:43.240 Oh.

03:24:43.420 He's done it four times.

03:24:45.260 Is he okay?

03:24:45.660 Like, he told me, he's like, I don't believe in therapy because, like, I do ayahuasca and...

03:24:49.820 Did you do crystals?

03:24:51.400 Crystals, yeah.

03:24:52.060 Crystals, yeah.

03:24:53.380 The way...

03:24:54.060 This house...

03:24:55.060 Oh, my God.

03:24:55.980 It was, like, crazy to me.

03:24:57.520 You enter his house, above the fireplace, there's, like, a lion that has so many colors because

03:25:03.300 they have, like, this UV light that shines into it.

03:25:06.860 One time I went to his party and he had, like, a bowl of shrooms.

03:25:11.300 Just casually, like, people could just do shrooms however they want.

03:25:15.100 You go ahead, you know?

03:25:16.680 Shrooms and mushrooms?

03:25:17.580 His kitchen was yellow.

03:25:20.140 Was he, like, witchy?

03:25:21.500 Like, what did he believe in?

03:25:22.920 He believed that you can get cured with, like, ayahuasca and the spiritual and, like, going

03:25:28.140 to Burning Man and...

03:25:29.900 So, spiritual.

03:25:31.580 Spiritual.

03:25:32.320 Sure.

03:25:33.560 I was like, sure.

03:25:35.080 Okay.

03:25:35.920 He was, like, tell me all this stuff and, you know, obviously, like, I'm stupid and I

03:25:39.220 fail for it.

03:25:39.740 Like, he was like, yeah, I'm a Christian.

03:25:41.360 He had, like, a little, like...

03:25:42.240 At least you're self-aware.

03:25:43.660 Well, you can wear a cross.

03:25:45.680 That doesn't mean anything.

03:25:46.920 Exactly.

03:25:47.940 And, yeah, and the way that he just, like, portrayed himself was so different.

03:25:53.240 Like, he just lied, though.

03:25:54.840 Like, if you're spiritual and stuff like that, he lied about it.

03:25:57.240 He's like...

03:25:57.920 I was like, um...

03:26:00.040 Where...

03:26:00.400 Oh, he's like, yeah, I have a Tesla, but my brother's borrowing it.

03:26:03.980 So, he's using his mentor's Tesla.

03:26:05.960 And I'm like, if you need a car, then why don't you ask your brother to give your Tesla

03:26:11.220 back?

03:26:12.280 Worm.

03:26:13.080 He just portrayed, like...

03:26:14.300 He was, like, this crypto guy that was, like, you know, like, oh, my God.

03:26:17.060 Like, I have all this money.

03:26:18.060 I'm, like, an investor or whatever.

03:26:19.060 And I was like, okay, where's your money?

03:26:20.120 He's like, oh, I put it all in crypto.

03:26:21.780 Like, it's all in Bitcoin.

03:26:22.880 Okay, question for you.

03:26:23.860 So, you said this was after you broke up with your current ex.

03:26:29.620 Yeah.

03:26:29.780 So, this was within the past two months that you were involved with the spiritual fuck

03:26:34.840 boy?

03:26:35.240 Yes.

03:26:35.700 Did you all sleep together?

03:26:37.100 What?

03:26:37.560 Did you sleep together?

03:26:38.620 How long did it last?

03:26:42.240 How long did it last?

03:26:43.520 Probably, like, a month after I figured out that, like, he was like...

03:26:45.820 No, but you didn't sleep together?

03:26:47.080 Don't talk the question.

03:26:48.100 Oh.

03:26:49.000 Did you guys hook up?

03:26:49.920 No.

03:26:50.840 I don't believe that.

03:26:51.740 Like, I was like...

03:26:52.860 I don't believe that.

03:26:54.680 You hung out just one time?

03:26:55.920 No, no, no.

03:26:56.420 We hung out, like...

03:26:57.760 It was, like, max, like, three times.

03:27:00.360 Like, two times.

03:27:01.440 And he, like...

03:27:03.060 Third date.

03:27:04.440 And I was like...

03:27:05.340 This is weird to me.

03:27:06.620 Be honest.

03:27:07.120 You guys hooked up.

03:27:07.820 Come on.

03:27:08.100 No, I ghosted him.

03:27:09.260 Okay, wait.

03:27:09.520 After you hooked up?

03:27:10.520 No.

03:27:11.180 Come on.

03:27:11.940 No.

03:27:12.380 Third base?

03:27:13.680 A little blowy action?

03:27:15.060 A little blowy?

03:27:16.380 Anyways, no.

03:27:17.320 No blowy?

03:27:17.840 He said no.

03:27:18.580 Zero blowies.

03:27:19.280 No.

03:27:19.800 Did he...

03:27:20.400 We just don't meet.

03:27:21.660 We did shower together, though.

03:27:23.380 Bro, you're so full of shit.

03:27:24.680 You are so full of shit.

03:27:25.740 You showered together naked.

03:27:28.760 On Iowa.

03:27:29.280 Did you guys take ayahuasca?

03:27:30.940 No.

03:27:31.340 I love it.

03:27:31.960 I love how open and honest you've been this entire show.

03:27:35.860 She's very open.

03:27:36.440 She's very passionate.

03:27:37.400 So, you broke up with the guy two months ago.

03:27:39.920 Yeah.

03:27:40.100 And then you met up with this dude.

03:27:41.840 Because I really thought this guy was...

03:27:42.740 A couple of times.

03:27:43.520 Yeah.

03:27:44.020 I really thought this guy was, like, a really nice guy.

03:27:45.860 Like, he really said, like, you know what?

03:27:47.120 Like, I'm a traditional man.

03:27:48.320 Like, I really want to provide for my family.

03:27:50.160 He kept saying, like, oh, you would be such a good wife.

03:27:53.220 Like, I want you to have my kids.

03:27:54.740 Did your current guy that you're, like, toxic ex slash not ex know that you went and hung

03:27:59.420 out with him?

03:28:00.140 Yeah.

03:28:00.360 I told him the truth.

03:28:00.900 I was honest.

03:28:01.560 You know, I was honest with him.

03:28:02.660 Like, you know why I did that?

03:28:03.660 And it was a mistake.

03:28:05.080 You know?

03:28:05.680 Because I figured out that he was just weird.

03:28:09.600 Like, he didn't text me for four days.

03:28:11.100 Like, you know, he wasn't consistent.

03:28:12.820 Like, he was just, like, so weird.

03:28:16.120 I'm like, I'm so confused.

03:28:17.460 And there was, like, this part where, like, he just, like, he was so inconsistent.

03:28:24.740 Like, one time I hanged out with him at a mall.

03:28:27.260 And we were just talking.

03:28:28.660 But we were talking.

03:28:29.440 We weren't even making...

03:28:30.000 He wasn't even making eye contact with me.

03:28:31.400 He was looking at other people while he was talking to me.

03:28:33.380 That's so based.

03:28:34.900 Just, like, you're not even worth looking at.

03:28:37.200 I'm just gonna...

03:28:37.820 He just...

03:28:38.820 Randomly, he gets up.

03:28:39.900 And he's like...

03:28:41.180 I think I'm gonna go hang out with my brother.

03:28:43.320 And so funny.

03:28:44.220 His brother doesn't answer him.

03:28:45.740 And I was like, okay.

03:28:47.100 We walk to, like, the main street.

03:28:49.680 And then he's like...

03:28:51.980 Okay, I'm gonna go hang out with my friend.

03:28:54.000 I'm like, you didn't even tell me, like, hey, like, it was a great time.

03:28:57.120 Blah, blah, blah.

03:28:57.840 Like, he just, like...

03:28:58.980 You know what?

03:28:59.380 I was unbothered.

03:28:59.980 I was like, okay, bye.

03:29:01.040 And I just walked off.

03:29:02.320 Wait, so, okay.

03:29:04.880 How soon after breaking up with...

03:29:07.200 And I put very strong air quotes on breaking up with your toxic ex.

03:29:12.400 How soon after breaking up with him did you get involved with spiritual fuckboy?

03:29:17.260 I think it was a month after.

03:29:18.680 A month after.

03:29:19.700 So, like, four weeks ago.

03:29:20.480 Granted, you were still involved with your ex.

03:29:24.260 Like, in the months of, like, June, July.

03:29:27.880 Okay.

03:29:28.680 So, you showered with him.

03:29:31.240 Yeah.

03:29:31.680 But you didn't sleep with him.

03:29:32.940 No.

03:29:33.080 Under which context would you shower with somebody?

03:29:36.540 I don't know.

03:29:37.400 Some way.

03:29:37.780 You just...

03:29:38.100 You fucked him.

03:29:38.740 Come on, be honest.

03:29:39.380 No, I didn't.

03:29:39.680 Just be honest.

03:29:40.340 You just don't want to say you fucked him because you're still in this weird situationship...

03:29:44.940 No, I didn't.

03:29:45.440 ...with your current...

03:29:47.240 Why are you showering naked with him?

03:29:49.160 Because I can sustain, like, race sexuality.

03:29:51.060 I'm not going to, like...

03:29:51.840 But why...

03:29:52.240 Hold on.

03:29:52.900 In some universe, I could imagine, you guys were at the beach together, and you showered

03:30:01.540 together for some reason with your trunks.

03:30:05.940 He had his trunks on.

03:30:07.040 You were in your bikini.

03:30:07.820 But you hadn't had sex yet, but you were comfortable showering naked together.

03:30:14.100 Because I told him I wasn't going to do that.

03:30:16.460 So, as a consolation prize, you showered with him naked?

03:30:23.100 Yeah.

03:30:23.420 That would do nothing for me personally.

03:30:28.440 I'd...

03:30:28.920 Oh, I get to shower naked with a girl.

03:30:31.640 Wow, that's great.

03:30:34.040 I'd rather just not do that and have a pleasant shower without you stealing all the hot water.

03:30:39.960 Fuck out of here.

03:30:41.160 I mean, it wasn't stealing because, to be honest, he lives rent-free.

03:30:44.920 So...

03:30:45.440 He lives rent-free.

03:30:47.000 At his mentor's house.

03:30:47.700 I'm not trying to make a point about the utilities here.

03:30:50.880 I'm just...

03:30:51.700 Okay.

03:30:53.420 Hello?

03:30:54.400 Okay, so...

03:30:55.600 It's more so just like if you're showering with someone, it's kind of like,

03:31:02.420 yo, go in the corner, lady.

03:31:03.760 I'm trying to fucking shower here.

03:31:05.840 He wasn't like that, though.

03:31:06.880 He was like...

03:31:07.260 I mean, he's 20...

03:31:08.320 Like, he was...

03:31:09.100 He's in his 20s.

03:31:10.440 Did you all touch each other in the shower?

03:31:12.000 What's the point of showering together?

03:31:13.680 Wash your hair next to each other?

03:31:15.220 Were you guys...

03:31:16.000 Were you guys like...

03:31:16.600 It's like the same thing as Christians.

03:31:17.580 They rub on each other, but when they're wearing clothes, like, it's the same.

03:31:20.820 Are you talking about, like, Mormon soaking?

03:31:22.960 Yeah!

03:31:23.820 I'm like, wow!

03:31:25.000 Wait, did you soak?

03:31:26.140 No!

03:31:26.740 He's not Mormon.

03:31:28.380 Doesn't mean you can't get a little soaking action in.

03:31:31.200 Okay, so...

03:31:32.340 Hey, don't use the Lord's name.

03:31:34.480 I would still say that's intimate.

03:31:35.240 Maybe seeing you...

03:31:36.140 No, but the thing is, like...

03:31:37.140 I think it was the most he could get from you.

03:31:40.160 Maybe.

03:31:40.620 Pretty much, no, because he actually texted me a couple, like, weeks ago.

03:31:44.960 He's like, he's like, remember this?

03:31:47.480 And he sent me a picture where I was really traumatized, like, that night, and he...

03:31:51.260 The shower night?

03:31:52.300 No, no, no.

03:31:52.800 There was a night where I got really high to the point where I cut, like, getting high.

03:31:56.640 I don't want to do weed anymore.

03:31:58.520 Like, I was paranoid.

03:31:59.660 Like, I was so paranoid that I wanted to call the cops on him.

03:32:02.880 Wait, what?

03:32:03.560 Because it was a second date, you know?

03:32:05.020 And I was like, oh, I want to relax a little bit.

03:32:06.440 Like, let me take something to, like...

03:32:07.780 Because I was having a lot of anxiety.

03:32:10.520 Yeah, weed is...

03:32:13.060 I mean, weed can trigger fucking...

03:32:14.740 Yeah, and I realized that, and I was like, I don't want to do that anymore.

03:32:17.340 Like, that doesn't work for me, like...

03:32:18.740 But you ended up smoking the weed?

03:32:20.780 No, no, no.

03:32:21.220 It was inedible.

03:32:21.960 Like, it was like a lollipop.

03:32:23.020 I didn't...

03:32:23.340 Like, it was just like...

03:32:24.660 You had an edible?

03:32:25.640 Yeah.

03:32:26.380 You had a green out?

03:32:27.780 Is that what it's called?

03:32:28.600 Yeah, and it wasn't the fact that, like, I was at a stranger's house.

03:32:33.160 Wait, but hold on.

03:32:33.700 You wanted to call the cops because you were freaking the fuck out on weed?

03:32:37.420 Yeah, because I...

03:32:38.560 Whenever you're like...

03:32:39.300 You couldn't do that.

03:32:39.900 Yeah, like, I was freaking out.

03:32:41.460 I was like...

03:32:41.760 But you wanted to call the cops on him?

03:32:43.140 Yeah, because I was so scared that he, like, kind of, you know, like, did something to it.

03:32:46.520 Like, roofied it?

03:32:47.120 Like, drugged it or something?

03:32:48.240 Yeah.

03:32:48.960 Like, I was scared because it's like, this never happens, kind of, to me.

03:32:52.960 Like, it never happens.

03:32:54.180 Like, I never get...

03:32:55.200 Do you smoke weed a lot?

03:32:57.100 Not really.

03:32:58.120 But when I did, I wasn't like that, though.

03:33:00.200 Like...

03:33:00.380 I mean, that's a thing.

03:33:01.280 I mean, actually, when I was...

03:33:02.220 Like, if you could possibly just take too much, it could get you, like...

03:33:04.240 Yeah.

03:33:04.740 I probably did too much.

03:33:05.380 Especially with edibles.

03:33:06.300 Yeah, I don't work with edibles.

03:33:07.980 But the way that he handled it was so scary to me.

03:33:10.160 Like, the fact that, like...

03:33:11.180 Was he high?

03:33:11.560 Well, he might have been high, too.

03:33:12.900 He probably...

03:33:13.720 I was never going to see this podcast.

03:33:15.080 Oh, my God.

03:33:15.280 Please don't see this podcast.

03:33:16.360 You're still a good person, I promise.

03:33:18.740 Did he take an edible, too?

03:33:20.460 Yeah, he did.

03:33:21.240 But, obviously, because he's used to that, like, used to doing drugs and stuff like that.

03:33:26.200 Like, you know, he can contain it.

03:33:28.200 He can, like...

03:33:28.520 Was this the second...

03:33:29.180 You said you hung out with him three times total, correct?

03:33:31.420 Was it the first, second, or third time you hung out with him?

03:33:33.480 Second time.

03:33:35.500 And then, so you went...

03:33:36.900 The second time you're with this guy...

03:33:38.580 The first time was, like, a movie date.

03:33:39.480 Are you...

03:33:39.960 Were you...

03:33:40.340 Movie date in public?

03:33:42.740 Yeah.

03:33:43.180 Or you went over to Netflix and chill?

03:33:44.760 No, no, no, no.

03:33:45.320 I went to...

03:33:45.580 The second date, you went to his place, though?

03:33:47.080 Yes.

03:33:47.860 And he got, like, dinner for me.

03:33:48.940 That was really nice.

03:33:49.660 You didn't fuck?

03:33:50.660 Like, he had dinner for me.

03:33:52.180 Like, he...

03:33:53.820 We went to the hot tub.

03:33:54.680 Like, I obviously had my bikini.

03:33:56.040 He had, like, his swim trunks.

03:33:57.360 And we were...

03:33:58.180 That's when you showered naked?

03:33:59.600 No.

03:34:00.220 That was the third date.

03:34:01.000 Excuse me.

03:34:01.580 Wait.

03:34:01.820 The third date was the naked shower?

03:34:03.660 Yeah.

03:34:03.940 You know what, guys?

03:34:04.800 Oh, my God.

03:34:05.200 You're so...

03:34:05.400 Why do you keep mentioning me?

03:34:06.640 Which one was the mall day?

03:34:08.020 Because we don't know.

03:34:08.640 Yeah, this is why she has a...

03:34:09.640 This is why she has a therapist.

03:34:10.920 She needs to vent this all out.

03:34:11.960 Yeah, guys.

03:34:12.680 So, you're my therapist.

03:34:13.880 Hello?

03:34:14.140 Just kidding.

03:34:14.820 This is...

03:34:15.380 Welcome to the whatever intervention podcast.

03:34:17.480 And what I didn't like is, like, he looked at me in the eyes.

03:34:20.460 I'm not joking.

03:34:20.880 He's like, it's normal.

03:34:23.500 What?

03:34:23.820 It's okay.

03:34:25.080 It's...

03:34:25.480 You're gonna get over this.

03:34:26.320 That's some demonic crap.

03:34:27.420 Yeah.

03:34:27.920 I was like, but...

03:34:28.600 Well, he...

03:34:29.040 Maybe he was trying to, like, calm you down.

03:34:29.900 That's how spiritual men are, though.

03:34:31.960 Yeah, that's how they try to calm you down.

03:34:34.260 But I would see how you would take that in a way where you were in the state of paranoia.

03:34:38.240 That's when it, like, kind of triggers me.

03:34:39.840 And, like, kind of being like, oh, my God.

03:34:41.240 Like, I'm scared.

03:34:42.820 Like, I was really scared.

03:34:43.960 Well, it sounds like you were having, like...

03:34:45.540 Instead of, like, comforting me.

03:34:46.680 Instead of being like, hey, like, it's okay.

03:34:48.220 Like, hugging me.

03:34:48.960 Like, hey, it's fine.

03:34:49.860 Like, petting me.

03:34:50.360 No.

03:34:50.860 He literally, like, was in the distance to me.

03:34:52.820 And he looked at me when I was on the floor.

03:34:55.200 And he's like, it's normal.

03:34:57.840 You know, like, it's...

03:34:59.540 As if he, like, did something to it.

03:35:02.940 So, he knows that you're supposed to be...

03:35:05.900 Yeah.

03:35:06.260 Like, I was scared.

03:35:07.260 And afterward, he literally, like...

03:35:10.520 Like, he forgave me.

03:35:12.220 I was like, I'm so sorry.

03:35:12.940 Like, I got really, like...

03:35:14.520 You know, I almost, like, was freaking out.

03:35:17.160 And then afterwards, he literally, like, sent me this whole, like, paragraph later on getting mad.

03:35:22.140 He's like, you could have called the cops.

03:35:24.060 Like, oh, my God.

03:35:24.620 I could have got ruined.

03:35:25.700 My whole career could have, like...

03:35:27.160 I built this from the ground up.

03:35:29.460 Blah, blah, blah.

03:35:30.360 And then he sends me a text.

03:35:31.500 Wait, did you call the cops?

03:35:32.440 No, I didn't.

03:35:33.120 I called my best friend on FaceTime.

03:35:34.980 Okay.

03:35:36.080 Because, I mean, from...

03:35:38.260 Perhaps in the moment, you had a fear that he...

03:35:41.560 Yeah, dude, like, if you're...

03:35:42.760 Laced the lollipop, I guess.

03:35:44.620 But it sounds like you're just having an edible, like...

03:35:47.460 Who knows, anything could have fentanyl in it nowadays.

03:35:49.200 Yeah.

03:35:49.580 True.

03:35:50.760 Instead of, like, cuddling me or something like that, tell me it's okay.

03:35:53.420 Like, let's get your clothes ready.

03:35:54.600 No, dude.

03:35:55.240 Like, he didn't do any of that.

03:35:56.740 You were freaking the fuck out, weren't you?

03:35:58.420 Because this is why I actually don't smoke weed.

03:36:02.220 When I was very young, I was 17 in high school.

03:36:05.820 Yeah.

03:36:06.020 It was maybe the seventh...

03:36:08.500 I smoked weed a couple times.

03:36:10.040 It was actually fine.

03:36:11.180 Yeah.

03:36:11.480 But then one time I smoked it.

03:36:13.480 I don't know if it was a strain or I smoked too much.

03:36:15.640 But I freaked the fuck out.

03:36:17.460 Full-blown panic attack.

03:36:18.740 I was having hallucinations, like, intense.

03:36:23.640 Like, physical hallucinations.

03:36:25.860 And it was weed.

03:36:26.720 But I don't know what it was.

03:36:28.980 In any case, haven't smoked weed since I was 17, whatever.

03:36:34.140 But, like, I was freaking the fuck out.

03:36:37.720 So, I don't think it was laced.

03:36:39.100 I just think it was, one, it was edible.

03:36:41.860 And that was probably, I don't know.

03:36:43.620 Yeah.

03:36:43.900 Some people, it just happens.

03:36:45.340 I've heard from a lot of people that they have, like, these strange experiences on weed.

03:36:50.040 They have panic attacks.

03:36:51.000 Yeah.

03:36:51.080 You can have, I mean, it's psychoactive.

03:36:53.300 So, you can definitely have some weird shit going on.

03:36:55.780 But you probably just had, like, a panic attack.

03:36:58.800 Yeah.

03:36:59.020 That's right.

03:36:59.640 Like, whenever I agree now, I just feel like I'm not myself.

03:37:02.880 Like, I'm an out-of-body.

03:37:04.240 Yeah.

03:37:04.500 That's why I don't do that anymore.

03:37:05.980 I think if you have anxiety, like, that triggers it.

03:37:08.460 Like, that makes it worse.

03:37:09.320 Don't smoke weed if you have anxiety.

03:37:14.100 Please don't.

03:37:14.980 Please don't start.

03:37:15.660 If you have, like, an anxious personality or you have panic attacks, do not smoke weed.

03:37:21.700 I know it helps.

03:37:22.480 If you do smoke weed, you have to know what you can handle.

03:37:25.560 Yeah.

03:37:25.940 Yeah.

03:37:26.240 Too.

03:37:27.100 Anyways.

03:37:27.680 Okay.

03:37:28.000 So, I don't know.

03:37:29.120 He texted me this picture saying, like, crazy night.

03:37:31.620 A picture of when, like, I did that.

03:37:33.920 Okay.

03:37:34.320 So.

03:37:34.560 Of you, like, freaking out.

03:37:35.800 Not freaking out, but, like, before, like, when we were, like, having dinner.

03:37:38.480 He, like, took a picture of you freaking out.

03:37:41.620 Who does that?

03:37:44.020 Remember when you overdosed?

03:37:45.580 Crazy night, right?

03:37:46.880 Oh, my gosh.

03:37:48.300 Sorry.

03:37:49.080 Man, this story is going out of proportion.

03:37:51.540 Despite your distaste for the way he handled your freakout when you were on weed, you still

03:37:57.500 opted to see him a third time and then shower naked with him?

03:38:02.500 Well, because he said, he, like, actually said, like, you know what?

03:38:04.940 Like, I understand what, like, kind of he was, like, nice.

03:38:08.180 To me about it and stuff like that.

03:38:09.420 And I was, like, okay.

03:38:10.300 That wasn't whenever he freaked out about, like, the whole, like, calling to house.

03:38:13.340 You could go.

03:38:13.760 No, he was actually nice at the beginning whenever it happened the day after.

03:38:17.400 And then why didn't you see him again after the third time?

03:38:21.320 What do you mean?

03:38:22.240 You said you stopped seeing him.

03:38:24.400 No, no, no.

03:38:25.060 I stopped seeing him after, like, the third date.

03:38:27.620 That's literally what I just said.

03:38:29.780 Oh, I did.

03:38:31.040 Or was it a fourth date?

03:38:32.020 Because it wasn't a day we went to the mall together and we just, like, hung out, to be honest.

03:38:36.540 You guys didn't smash?

03:38:37.940 No.

03:38:38.880 But you showered naked?

03:38:39.760 But the shower dealer.

03:38:40.860 Yeah.

03:38:41.320 That's interesting.

03:38:43.360 Was there, like, any fondling?

03:38:45.740 No.

03:38:46.340 Zero fondling?

03:38:47.420 Yeah.

03:38:48.640 Do you have certain standards?

03:38:49.980 You want to call him?

03:38:50.660 We can call him.

03:38:51.480 I'm just kidding.

03:38:51.760 I'm not going to say what the receipts.

03:38:53.880 And all this while, all this while, you were still seeing your current situation show?

03:39:01.200 No, I wasn't seeing him.

03:39:02.060 Like, literally, like, cold turkey.

03:39:03.840 Like, I actually stopped seeing him.

03:39:05.320 Wait, so you did go cold turkey.

03:39:07.000 Why'd you go back?

03:39:07.640 For a little bit.

03:39:07.720 But why are you tapering?

03:39:09.420 I don't know.

03:39:09.700 Stop going back to, like, he's a toxic guy.

03:39:12.140 But you already lied.

03:39:13.120 You lied earlier on in the conversation.

03:39:14.820 So now, everything that you say is, like, questionable.

03:39:17.040 Then why am I talking?

03:39:18.200 Girls do lie.

03:39:19.060 We're not.

03:39:19.420 Questionable.

03:39:19.940 No, but earlier, you said, oh, I haven't, two months.

03:39:24.020 It's been two months.

03:39:25.460 I don't know, but I'm shy, but I'm not going to say it in, like, in live.

03:39:27.880 My boyfriend drove me here.

03:39:28.780 You know, like, that is pre-recorded.

03:39:30.720 Like, people can come back in the future and be like, you know.

03:39:33.720 Wait, what do you mean?

03:39:34.120 She's been gradually telling the truth.

03:39:36.300 I appreciate you.

03:39:38.060 She's talking about us.

03:39:39.540 She's talking about us.

03:39:39.580 She's talking about us.

03:39:40.460 Guys, better give her some time.

03:39:42.380 Like, oh, my God.

03:39:43.420 I have a chat here.

03:39:44.300 We have Stochastic Decay.

03:39:45.920 Stochastic Decay has a question for the panel.

03:39:47.660 Can each guest name two zodiac signs?

03:39:49.560 No repeats.

03:39:50.740 Two zodiac signs?

03:39:51.660 Oh, God.

03:39:52.300 Well, there's six people here.

03:39:53.340 Capricorn.

03:39:53.740 I know what I am.

03:39:54.440 How many zodiac signs are there?

03:39:56.380 What's up?

03:39:56.780 What are you?

03:39:58.100 Sagittarius.

03:39:58.420 I don't know anything about it.

03:39:59.800 I'm a Taurus, but I don't know what that means.

03:40:01.420 Oh, me too.

03:40:02.140 I'm a Taurus.

03:40:03.100 Are you guys a Leo?

03:40:03.820 Mess with the horns, you get the bull.

03:40:05.720 You know what a lot of people say about...

03:40:07.780 Okay, yeah.

03:40:08.760 Apparently, Taurus men are...

03:40:10.480 You got to stay away.

03:40:11.720 Shut the...

03:40:12.720 No, I'm not kidding.

03:40:14.740 I'm not like a zodiac sign girl, but that's what I hear.

03:40:18.760 If a girl believes in zodiac signs, run.

03:40:21.160 Yeah.

03:40:21.920 Run.

03:40:22.580 I agree.

03:40:23.320 For the hills.

03:40:23.960 Okay, name two.

03:40:25.220 I only know mine.

03:40:26.860 Leo?

03:40:27.380 Lion?

03:40:28.020 Lion?

03:40:28.160 Lion?

03:40:28.480 Yeah.

03:40:29.320 Let's just go around this quick.

03:40:30.740 Hey, Aries.

03:40:32.240 Hey.

03:40:33.280 Did you say Leo?

03:40:34.820 I said Taurus.

03:40:36.520 Taurus, yeah.

03:40:37.880 Go, go, go, go, go.

03:40:38.580 Yeah, that's what I said.

03:40:39.240 Aries, Leo.

03:40:39.800 Okay, go, go, go, go.

03:40:40.620 Go, go, go.

03:40:41.480 Oh, Capricorn, because I'm a Capricorn, and...

03:40:44.080 You're such a Capricorn.

03:40:46.400 You're such a Capricorn.

03:40:47.060 Whatever that means.

03:40:48.120 Whatever that means.

03:40:49.640 Jupiter rising.

03:40:50.980 I know, right?

03:40:51.540 Or whatever the thing.

03:40:52.340 That's what's happening.

03:40:53.220 I don't know.

03:40:53.900 Jupiter rising.

03:40:54.680 Something chick said.

03:40:55.600 What's the water sign?

03:40:56.620 There's like a water...

03:40:57.360 Aries?

03:40:57.780 There's something similar to the Aries.

03:40:59.460 I don't know.

03:41:02.800 Like, I don't study this.

03:41:04.420 Okay, Morgan.

03:41:06.760 Virgo and...

03:41:07.560 Yeah, Sagittarius.

03:41:08.920 Can you tilt the mic down a bit?

03:41:11.000 Sagittarius.

03:41:11.520 A little left.

03:41:12.000 Yes.

03:41:12.800 Sorry.

03:41:14.600 Perfection.

03:41:15.720 Maddie.

03:41:17.640 Libra and Cancer.

03:41:20.640 Okay.

03:41:21.480 There you go.

03:41:21.700 Did anyone say Sagittarius?

03:41:23.280 Yeah, I just said Sagittarius.

03:41:24.480 That's why I didn't say...

03:41:25.340 I'm the last one.

03:41:26.140 This is not fair.

03:41:27.140 Yeah.

03:41:27.700 We're not reading here.

03:41:29.560 But seriously, Zodiac signs or what?

03:41:31.020 What about you, guys?

03:41:31.720 Yeah.

03:41:32.640 I forgot.

03:41:33.700 Brian said Jupiter rising.

03:41:35.520 Well, I'm a Taurus.

03:41:36.640 I don't believe in Zodiac shit.

03:41:39.060 Yeah.

03:41:39.540 I don't...

03:41:39.760 Wait, people tell you to stay away from Taurus?

03:41:42.060 I guess, like...

03:41:42.760 I don't know.

03:41:43.160 I see it on TikTok sometimes, but it's always like...

03:41:45.720 I thought it was Aries.

03:41:46.360 Taurus men are red flags.

03:41:48.800 My dad's a Taurus.

03:41:50.600 I don't know.

03:41:51.460 I don't know why, but...

03:41:53.460 I'm a red flag, I guess, because of...

03:41:55.700 Big red flag.

03:41:56.440 Because of...

03:41:56.880 You call yourself a red flag?

03:41:58.260 Well, apparently, because I'm a Taurus.

03:42:00.140 Apparently.

03:42:00.920 Apparently, like, a lot of Taurus men just don't bring anything to the table.

03:42:04.120 Shut the fuck...

03:42:05.300 It's a good thing Zodiac signs don't matter.

03:42:07.660 Wait.

03:42:08.080 Yeah, it's a good thing they don't matter, right?

03:42:09.680 Yeah.

03:42:09.860 Yeah, I guess I don't bring anything to the table.

03:42:13.140 I guess you're right, Maddie.

03:42:14.320 I guess it's...

03:42:14.800 Brian, I guess Zodiac...

03:42:15.720 I guess Zodiac brings nothing to the table.

03:42:18.960 Zodiacs?

03:42:19.580 Is it Greek?

03:42:21.080 No, that's like the Greek gods.

03:42:23.340 Like Zeus.

03:42:24.520 Zeus, yeah.

03:42:25.200 That's like...

03:42:25.840 What's it?

03:42:26.660 Astrology, right?

03:42:27.620 Oh, astrology.

03:42:28.540 Yeah.

03:42:28.780 Isn't it...

03:42:29.320 It's astrology.

03:42:30.600 Well, I mean, it's...

03:42:31.240 Romans.

03:42:32.020 Did you just say the Romans?

03:42:33.380 Because it's like, you know the planets?

03:42:34.420 It was.

03:42:35.140 Yeah, well, that's astrology is planets, but that doesn't really correlate with...

03:42:39.120 Well, kind of.

03:42:39.960 The stars.

03:42:40.840 Rising moon, downward sun, sideways duck.

03:42:46.020 Greek.

03:42:46.640 It is Greek.

03:42:47.140 It is Greek.

03:42:47.980 It's Greek.

03:42:48.480 What's happening?

03:42:49.060 It's Greek.

03:42:49.680 Nice.

03:42:50.260 I guess.

03:42:50.700 I'm also thinking of Greek mythology.

03:42:52.180 I don't believe these things.

03:42:53.260 Greek gods is Greek mythology.

03:42:54.000 I don't believe these things.

03:42:56.300 All right.

03:42:57.080 I've got a couple questions here.

03:42:59.360 Let's see.

03:43:00.100 We have Elizabeth.

03:43:02.540 Huh?

03:43:02.880 What is it now?

03:43:05.920 Wait.

03:43:06.460 Okay.

03:43:06.680 I've got to check you on this, Elizabeth.

03:43:08.600 What?

03:43:09.180 Winn.

03:43:09.880 Miss Winn.

03:43:11.160 Yes?

03:43:12.260 I think you're living a double secret life, so your parents don't find out.

03:43:17.080 A double secret life?

03:43:18.480 Someone said that?

03:43:20.420 Or is it you?

03:43:21.140 Brian thinks that.

03:43:21.760 Because your parents are watching the stream, I feel like you're not being honest.

03:43:27.680 I like to be strict with myself because, honestly, they raised me a certain way,

03:43:32.320 and I actually like to enforce strict rules or boundaries for myself because it feels empowering

03:43:39.400 for me.

03:43:40.240 Self-discipline.

03:43:40.960 Yeah.

03:43:41.220 I have a lot of self-discipline.

03:43:42.760 I like that.

03:43:42.880 You mentioned in your messages to us before the show, multiple groups of famous TikTok

03:43:47.360 boys and other TikTok stars are doing the most to get my attention.

03:43:51.360 The groups are actually enemies in the entertainment industry.

03:43:54.400 They desperately want to be my boyfriend because of the way I view life, and they think I'm the

03:43:59.000 perfect girl, in quotes.

03:44:00.920 Most of them look like bad boy players, and keep in mind, I'm still the the virgin, lol.

03:44:07.560 Well, the two thes, that was you, by the way.

03:44:11.200 Just letting you know.

03:44:12.520 The the.

03:44:13.280 The the virgin.

03:44:14.560 You're the the virgin.

03:44:15.680 I'm still the the virgin.

03:44:17.560 What's the, have you, what's the, have you gone like third base?

03:44:21.560 Or nothing?

03:44:22.540 What's third base?

03:44:23.400 Kiss?

03:44:23.840 Has there been a first kiss?

03:44:25.620 What's third base, though?

03:44:28.060 Like oral.

03:44:28.600 So, when a man and a woman love each other very much.

03:44:32.860 Oh, Jesus.

03:44:33.620 Thank you.

03:44:34.540 Sometimes they kiss each other down there.

03:44:38.920 Yeah.

03:44:39.980 That, that's, that thing.

03:44:41.900 Wait, have you ever, have you had a kiss?

03:44:44.520 I have kissed because also, like, I.

03:44:46.580 You have or haven't?

03:44:47.680 I have.

03:44:48.420 Okay, you've had your first kiss.

03:44:49.920 In acting class, because I'm an actress, they teach you how to do it there.

03:44:53.560 They teach you in acting class how to kiss?

03:44:55.700 Yeah.

03:44:56.380 Nice.

03:44:56.700 I've taken an acting class and I've never had.

03:44:59.000 I didn't have to do that in my acting school.

03:45:00.920 I did.

03:45:02.360 That's why I left after, though.

03:45:03.200 What kind of weird ass?

03:45:03.800 This must have been some, like, front for.

03:45:05.400 Have you only ever kissed people in acting class?

03:45:08.980 Has there been?

03:45:09.260 Or outside of acting class?

03:45:10.620 Have you kissed anyone?

03:45:12.340 That's it.

03:45:13.100 That's it.

03:45:14.080 Just acting class?

03:45:15.440 Yeah.

03:45:15.780 As an actress, yes.

03:45:17.580 Wait.

03:45:17.880 So, okay, hold on.

03:45:18.660 There was acting class, but then did you have, like, a role?

03:45:21.240 In acting class.

03:45:22.320 Yeah.

03:45:22.520 That's for my role.

03:45:23.700 Yeah.

03:45:24.260 What role?

03:45:24.980 In the acting class?

03:45:26.020 It was a script, which is, after I told my parents, you know, they kind of stick with

03:45:32.500 that, too.

03:45:33.360 We just didn't like, I didn't like the acting class at all.

03:45:36.760 Was it in college?

03:45:39.700 No.

03:45:40.180 It was after college.

03:45:41.960 Was it just, like, a three-week course or something?

03:45:45.040 No, I was in the acting class for a year.

03:45:48.000 What was the, was it through, like, an acting school?

03:45:52.140 Or, why the fuck, they don't, why would they teach, wait, what?

03:45:58.060 Yeah, that's weird.

03:45:58.720 They probably have, like, written scripts and make you act them out, and there's a kissing

03:46:03.400 scene in one of them.

03:46:04.340 How many people were in the class, Elizabeth?

03:46:07.200 Um, like, 30, 40?

03:46:09.140 Did everybody have to do a kissing scene?

03:46:11.080 Yeah.

03:46:11.920 No, it was.

03:46:12.440 What?

03:46:13.000 I know, this is why I didn't like this.

03:46:14.200 That's fucking weird.

03:46:15.640 I've been to acting classes.

03:46:16.400 Yo, Hollywood is.

03:46:18.780 Whack.

03:46:19.480 Yo.

03:46:20.400 There's something weird going on in Hollywood.

03:46:22.300 They, oh my gosh, my acting class, they, they teach you everything.

03:46:25.900 Like, they want you to orgasm.

03:46:27.400 They want you to do all that thing.

03:46:27.820 What?

03:46:28.300 I know.

03:46:29.620 What kind of acting is this?

03:46:30.700 Yo, I want to, can I sign up for this shit?

03:46:31.760 No, I'm just kidding.

03:46:31.820 You want to sign up for this?

03:46:33.060 They want you to do it all, and then.

03:46:34.500 Did you, so it's like, yo, was this like some porn acting?

03:46:37.540 I was going to say.

03:46:38.580 I went to class.

03:46:38.720 Were you a mattress actress?

03:46:40.220 I went to class, and they're like, we're going to orgasm, and I'm like, what's orgasm?

03:46:44.140 You know, I'm like, I don't even know what that is at that time, okay?

03:46:47.220 I'm like, what is this?

03:46:47.980 When, when a man and a woman love each other very much.

03:46:50.340 I see, I see, I see, I get it.

03:46:52.560 They have a climax of pleasure.

03:46:55.220 Of course you know now.

03:46:56.620 That's like, Hollywood.

03:46:57.760 Groomy.

03:46:58.300 I was going to say, that's like, Hollywood grooming.

03:47:00.180 You were, how old were you?

03:47:02.200 Uh, let me see, maybe like 20?

03:47:04.720 Oh, okay.

03:47:05.120 I thought you were about to.

03:47:05.900 I mean, still though, you don't need to do that.

03:47:08.200 That's weird.

03:47:08.740 It's still weird.

03:47:09.120 Yeah.

03:47:09.500 But if this was like.

03:47:10.420 It was not.

03:47:10.980 It was not the class for me.

03:47:12.460 And I can't believe I stayed for a year.

03:47:14.260 I think it was going on a year and a half.

03:47:15.540 Oh, wow.

03:47:15.840 I was a classically trained actor.

03:47:16.640 And every single day, it was something like that.

03:47:18.080 So they just had you like.

03:47:19.260 I felt very out of place.

03:47:20.640 So like in the class, were you just like diddling yourself trying to come?

03:47:23.420 Like, what the fuck?

03:47:25.060 Basically, it was like air, just you.

03:47:27.480 And then everyone would watch.

03:47:28.500 Wait, you'd go on stage and masturbate?

03:47:30.900 Yeah.

03:47:31.620 Wait, like actually doing it?

03:47:33.140 No, there's no fucking way.

03:47:33.940 Or like.

03:47:34.540 There's no fucking way.

03:47:35.900 You would actually do it or like acting it out?

03:47:38.660 This is a cult.

03:47:39.440 You just pretend to orgasm.

03:47:40.900 Yes.

03:47:41.560 Oh, okay.

03:47:42.380 You're acting it out?

03:47:43.660 Yeah, but still though, that's weird.

03:47:44.880 It is weird.

03:47:47.020 It is weird.

03:47:48.140 It's the principle.

03:47:48.900 That's weird.

03:47:49.260 I mean, I guess like in an acting capacity, like an actor could be tasked with in a scene.

03:47:56.600 But I feel like that's a very niche scene.

03:47:58.440 And if you get cast for that role, then like you as an actor, if you needed to like learn that, you could get a separate code.

03:48:04.500 Like, hey, I have the scene.

03:48:05.700 And like, I want to do the scene, whatever.

03:48:07.140 But like an actual class.

03:48:08.260 They teach you.

03:48:08.880 That doesn't seem appropriate for like an educational setting.

03:48:11.500 No, I'm a classically trained actor.

03:48:13.440 Worked in L.A. when I was a kid.

03:48:14.920 Theater or film?

03:48:16.120 Film.

03:48:16.640 Film, TV, commercial.

03:48:17.280 That's so strange.

03:48:18.420 And like, I was in acting school in L.A. for years.

03:48:21.140 And it was like the most super, I've never had to do anything.

03:48:23.300 It was a very popular acting class in Hollywood.

03:48:25.720 Like, you mean, it was famous.

03:48:27.560 Out the school.

03:48:28.340 What school?

03:48:29.400 Drop the name.

03:48:30.220 What's the name of the school?

03:48:31.360 You want to shame me?

03:48:32.560 School?

03:48:33.200 Yeah.

03:48:33.500 Sorry, I'm not that evil person.

03:48:34.980 I cannot.

03:48:35.640 Name and shame.

03:48:36.200 What was the...

03:48:36.820 No, we're not going to shame.

03:48:37.840 I'm just going to leave and just forget.

03:48:40.580 This is like Scientology infiltrating Hollywood.

03:48:43.020 Yeah.

03:48:43.400 That's like kind of...

03:48:47.720 Should I drop the name?

03:48:49.600 I mean, it's just like grooming people.

03:48:51.540 Like, why would you do that?

03:48:52.480 It's a public school, right?

03:48:53.740 Like, they probably have a website that you can go and sign up for.

03:48:57.480 I'm curious.

03:48:58.120 What was the class name?

03:48:58.920 What's the name?

03:48:59.580 What was the name?

03:49:00.000 The name of the place?

03:49:01.320 No, why not?

03:49:02.300 It's like Spizers.

03:49:04.280 Spizers?

03:49:04.660 Yeah, you just search for Spizers.

03:49:05.660 What was the name of the class?

03:49:06.800 Like, was it specifically like a sexual like learning class for like certain scenes?

03:49:11.540 Or was it just like improv?

03:49:13.580 It was a group class for actors.

03:49:15.380 Spizers, Sturges, acting studio.

03:49:17.060 Yeah, that's the one.

03:49:19.800 They just did too much.

03:49:21.440 Like, I couldn't even...

03:49:22.620 This one is the thing that I didn't tell my parents about.

03:49:24.980 But I told my mom that they had really inappropriate things that I did not feel comfortable about.

03:49:30.480 And they always chose me because they would pick on me.

03:49:33.440 Because I was the one, the virgin.

03:49:37.080 I was out of it.

03:49:38.100 What?

03:49:38.680 You told them that you were a virgin?

03:49:40.580 They know I was.

03:49:42.200 That's like predatory.

03:49:43.480 How did they know that?

03:49:44.920 Super predatory.

03:49:45.700 Because they would ask everyone.

03:49:47.060 And everyone would have these like...

03:49:48.620 Can also, when you do improv...

03:49:50.120 They would ask if you were virgin or not?

03:49:52.080 Yes.

03:49:52.500 Was it an improv class?

03:49:54.340 Like, what?

03:49:54.740 I mean, because I mean, there's different types of acting classes.

03:49:57.460 Like, did you know going into the class?

03:50:00.220 Degenerate fucking Hollywood.

03:50:01.100 Because like, that's just wild.

03:50:03.440 It's just a group class for like, anyone can come.

03:50:08.520 So like, beginner, advanced, and intermediate.

03:50:11.660 So basically like a free...

03:50:13.300 It was the whole class on like, sexual experiences?

03:50:16.780 Yes.

03:50:17.060 Everyone had sexual experiences.

03:50:20.700 And like, especially when you did improv and comedy.

03:50:24.660 Everyone would have sex stories.

03:50:26.680 And that was funny for everybody.

03:50:28.400 And I was so out of place because I didn't have any.

03:50:31.700 You see?

03:50:32.100 Have you seen...

03:50:32.820 Who here has seen the 40-year-old virgin?

03:50:35.540 Do you know when they're at the poker table and they're like, kind of talking about sex?

03:50:39.860 And then like, Steve Carell is it?

03:50:42.820 He's like...

03:50:43.460 They're like...

03:50:44.240 He's trying to explain his sexual...

03:50:46.020 He's a virgin.

03:50:46.620 Yeah.

03:50:46.860 And he's 40.

03:50:47.580 He's trying to explain his sexual experience.

03:50:49.560 And he's like, yeah, she had great tits.

03:50:53.000 And they're like, well, tell us about the tits.

03:50:55.620 And he's like, yeah, they felt like sandbags.

03:50:58.520 And they're like...

03:51:01.940 Anyways, I don't know why.

03:51:03.140 That just made me think of that.

03:51:04.380 But...

03:51:04.780 Yeah, that class was a fee.

03:51:07.260 I'm glad you're not in it.

03:51:08.560 It's funny.

03:51:08.980 The other day with my friends, we were talking about sex scenes in Hollywood and how it just

03:51:12.800 like...

03:51:13.180 It's so...

03:51:13.680 I feel like it's too gross and like it's doing too much.

03:51:16.440 And how like a movie can easily portray that action without actually doing it.

03:51:21.360 Because I recently watched a video on like how sex scenes are actually done and the barriers

03:51:25.240 and you're pretty much doing it.

03:51:26.860 And it's like, it's not actually...

03:51:29.280 Oh, bag of sand.

03:51:30.560 Excuse me.

03:51:32.000 Slack.

03:51:32.860 Yeah, that's like...

03:51:36.380 Ooh, that's like...

03:51:37.740 You can sue them.

03:51:39.220 Brandon, I have a funny question.

03:51:40.160 Yeah.

03:51:40.720 If...

03:51:41.280 Oh, if you were dating an actress and she was casted in a role to play a sex scene, like

03:51:47.200 making out full on sex scene, but there's a thin barrier, would that be cheating?

03:51:51.880 Me and my friends were having this debate earlier.

03:51:55.100 Okay.

03:51:55.540 Would it be cheating?

03:51:58.200 Yeah.

03:51:58.640 You're in a committed relationship.

03:52:00.460 She's playing a role that she's in a sex scene and making out with another dude.

03:52:05.500 And like in a sex scene.

03:52:09.040 Basically.

03:52:09.380 I don't know if it's like cheating, but like I would very much not like it and I would ask

03:52:15.860 her not to do it.

03:52:16.920 Yeah.

03:52:18.440 But.

03:52:21.000 I still feel like it's cheating though.

03:52:22.940 I don't know if it's...

03:52:23.500 You're willing to do it.

03:52:24.820 Yeah.

03:52:25.000 For the money, like for the job, for the role, you're still willing to do it.

03:52:29.060 I don't know if it's cheating in the sense of like...

03:52:31.500 What makes...

03:52:32.020 So this is what you're talking about.

03:52:33.120 Because again, what makes it different since...

03:52:34.440 It's bad.

03:52:34.900 On a film, you know, you're making money.

03:52:37.560 So you're playing this role.

03:52:38.820 You're making money.

03:52:39.640 So you're doing it all of a sudden, like it's okay to do it then.

03:52:43.560 But if you're just like doing it without making money, it's like not a role.

03:52:46.660 And it's, you know.

03:52:47.280 I don't know if it's cheating, but it's a very...

03:52:49.900 It would be a very undesirable...

03:52:51.140 It would be a very undesirable situation.

03:52:55.900 Because you still have to be intimate with someone else.

03:52:59.180 Right.

03:53:00.220 Probably a discussion you have to have with your other, like significant other.

03:53:05.760 Yeah.

03:53:07.440 Some people in the chat say it's cheating.

03:53:10.220 I mean, it could go either way.

03:53:11.740 In any case, I would not want my partner to do the scene.

03:53:15.680 Whether I would categorize it as cheating, I'm leaning towards no, but I wouldn't want

03:53:26.460 her to do it.

03:53:27.540 I feel like people in relationships shouldn't do sex scenes.

03:53:30.220 Out of respect for your partner.

03:53:31.700 Yes.

03:53:32.420 Yeah.

03:53:35.420 But this whole, the whole school thing, that's so fucking weird.

03:53:39.640 That's really weird.

03:53:40.560 It's weird, right?

03:53:41.220 That's super weird.

03:53:42.180 It's so weird.

03:53:42.720 And the fact that...

03:53:43.760 And every single day is the exact same topic.

03:53:45.820 It's always sexual.

03:53:46.620 Wait, really?

03:53:46.980 It's sexual, yes.

03:53:48.320 You're not exaggerating here, are you?

03:53:49.460 Well, not exaggerating.

03:53:50.500 The whole year and a half you did it?

03:53:50.820 Because I don't want to get you in trouble.

03:53:52.280 So you're being like...

03:53:54.160 Yes.

03:53:54.800 100% with...

03:53:55.720 Okay.

03:53:56.720 That's...

03:53:57.400 Yeah, it was really weird.

03:53:59.580 Because it sounds like they almost focused on you.

03:54:03.140 Because you told them you were a virgin.

03:54:05.180 Yes.

03:54:05.520 And they're like, whoa, that's really weird.

03:54:07.320 We're all fucking degenerate sex addicts.

03:54:10.340 No, I'm kidding.

03:54:10.940 I'm kidding.

03:54:11.500 You know what I mean.

03:54:12.940 Yeah.

03:54:13.940 I see what you mean, yeah.

03:54:15.060 It's a dark world of Hollywood, praying after young girls.

03:54:18.220 Yep, yeah.

03:54:18.500 Like, you want to make money in the industry, become actors, and like, seemingly, hey, come

03:54:23.200 to this class.

03:54:23.920 Like, this is what you've got to do in the industry.

03:54:26.720 Yeah.

03:54:26.860 But like, in a classroom setting...

03:54:27.860 But like, I feel like it's not normal.

03:54:29.640 Yeah.

03:54:30.120 But I feel like a lot of actors...

03:54:31.500 Like, I've taken acting classes and like...

03:54:34.860 I think a lot of young girls, though.

03:54:36.580 I mean, even 20, like, that's a young girl.

03:54:38.200 Yeah.

03:54:38.580 Are taken advantage of because they feel like, oh, well, I have to go to this class.

03:54:41.720 I have to do this in order to make it in the industry.

03:54:44.940 But the strange thing is, like...

03:54:46.160 It is strange.

03:54:46.760 It wasn't even like in a one-on-one private setting.

03:54:49.660 Like, this is in front of, what, 30 other people?

03:54:51.720 No, it's humiliating.

03:54:52.700 It shouldn't be legal.

03:54:53.760 Yeah.

03:54:54.120 Or legal.

03:54:54.860 Yeah.

03:54:55.460 That's like...

03:54:56.180 It was like that for the whole year and a half that you were there.

03:54:58.800 Yeah.

03:54:59.240 Like, every day.

03:54:59.560 And then they would always sign me up for roles to where I was very uncomfortable with.

03:55:04.040 Oh, no.

03:55:05.420 That's so sad.

03:55:06.340 That's sad.

03:55:06.660 Yeah.

03:55:06.980 They wouldn't even get your consent to those roles.

03:55:11.660 The...

03:55:12.220 I don't know.

03:55:12.940 I felt like I trusted my teacher too much when I shouldn't have.

03:55:16.200 Like, I should have...

03:55:17.260 At that time, I was 20, you know, like, a little younger.

03:55:20.120 So, it was more like, let me listen to the...

03:55:23.200 To the...

03:55:24.280 I feel like you were taking advantage.

03:55:26.280 Did you have any friends also participate in this class?

03:55:29.320 Or any people?

03:55:29.660 Yes.

03:55:30.500 I had a lot of friends.

03:55:30.540 Would they, like, be able to vouch for...

03:55:33.480 They all knew what they're doing.

03:55:35.120 Like, they all knew what...

03:55:36.120 Because I was, like, trying to Google it.

03:55:38.080 I was trying to Google it and see if, like, people had, like, mentioned it.

03:55:41.280 I couldn't find anything.

03:55:42.440 I had a group of, like, five girls all together.

03:55:45.960 You know what I mean?

03:55:46.280 Everyone would know.

03:55:46.900 Like, every time we go in, there's that group of five girls.

03:55:48.560 And I'm one in there.

03:55:50.800 Like that.

03:55:51.740 That's great.

03:55:52.340 Yeah.

03:55:52.740 They all knew who we were.

03:55:54.320 Did your teacher, like, get off to this?

03:55:56.480 Wait, was your teacher male or female?

03:55:59.040 Both.

03:55:59.720 It was both.

03:56:00.540 It was male and female.

03:56:01.640 Oh, man.

03:56:03.160 That shit is weird, son.

03:56:05.680 That shit's weird.

03:56:06.780 We have some more notes here.

03:56:08.660 We have...

03:56:09.740 Let's see.

03:56:12.140 Wait.

03:56:12.560 Okay.

03:56:13.060 Elizabeth, last thing for you.

03:56:14.540 Oh, what is it?

03:56:15.120 Actually, never mind.

03:56:17.800 Next person, right?

03:56:19.460 Allie, you...

03:56:21.680 Oh, wait.

03:56:22.220 No, sorry.

03:56:22.940 Amber, excuse me.

03:56:23.940 Allie's right here.

03:56:24.280 I'm offended.

03:56:25.120 I'm scared.

03:56:25.440 Allie...

03:56:26.320 Hold on.

03:56:28.120 I'm getting the notes here.

03:56:29.000 Amber.

03:56:31.900 Amber, excuse me.

03:56:34.360 So, why can't men be straight up of what type of relationship they have?

03:56:40.800 Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?

03:56:43.820 You said, this generation of men ain't shit.

03:56:49.240 Okay.

03:56:49.840 They want the princess treatment, and they want to be chased.

03:56:53.800 Yes.

03:56:54.540 So, there's a couple things there.

03:56:55.760 It's kind of true.

03:56:56.140 This generation of men ain't shit.

03:56:57.440 Okay, let me add this one.

03:56:57.960 Princess treatment.

03:56:58.880 Okay.

03:56:59.160 They want to be chased.

03:57:00.160 Wait, question.

03:57:00.860 What do you...

03:57:01.220 Generally speaking, and we'll go around the table on this.

03:57:03.260 What do you think of men?

03:57:04.960 Depends on the generation.

03:57:06.000 I feel like there's a lot of, like...

03:57:08.180 My generation, like, in their 20s, I feel like it's just, like, princess era.

03:57:12.240 Like, I want to get chased.

03:57:13.640 You know, that's what I've seen, you know?

03:57:15.120 Maybe because I'm in L.A., but in general, like I said on the first question, men ain't, you know?

03:57:23.340 Because that's what I've seen.

03:57:24.380 Like, they just don't want to, like, back to the traditional thing.

03:57:28.580 I don't think they want to do that.

03:57:29.960 You know, like, they just want to...

03:57:31.920 I don't know.

03:57:32.420 Maybe they're not ready yet in their 20s.

03:57:34.880 They're not ready.

03:57:36.700 I've just seen a lot of things in, like, L.A.

03:57:39.760 You know, I've seen a lot of things of, like, commitment issues, emotionally unavailable.

03:57:45.400 And I'm, like, that's not who I...

03:57:48.160 That's not what I want, you know?

03:57:49.360 Some people do, and I feel like men just be straight up with women.

03:57:52.720 Like, hey, you know what?

03:57:53.620 I just want to mess around.

03:57:55.260 I don't want a commitment.

03:57:56.980 Be straightforward, you know?

03:57:58.760 And that's okay, because there's so many women out there that will accept, because they don't want that either.

03:58:02.220 You know?

03:58:02.720 They don't want to emotionally get attached to you.

03:58:04.340 And that's fine.

03:58:06.300 You know, there's...

03:58:07.040 Be straightforward if you actually want a relationship, because then what if the woman doesn't?

03:58:10.600 You know?

03:58:11.000 Like, be straight up, guys.

03:58:13.140 Like, communication.

03:58:14.580 Yeah, like, be straight up.

03:58:15.420 What's wrong with that?

03:58:16.300 I don't understand why it's so wrong to say, you know what?

03:58:19.200 I just want to have sex with you, and that's it.

03:58:21.480 I don't want to have a full-on relationship with you.

03:58:25.020 Would you...

03:58:25.580 If a guy ever said to you, I just want to have sex with you, and that's it, would you have sex with him?

03:58:30.700 No, because...

03:58:31.680 Well...

03:58:32.080 That's not...

03:58:32.840 I mean, that's the reason why they don't say it.

03:58:34.220 I don't think men should lie, but...

03:58:36.280 I understand, but it's like, there's other women that will, though.

03:58:39.600 Like, homie.

03:58:40.320 Like, there's so many women that will.

03:58:41.840 No.

03:58:42.460 They...

03:58:43.060 There is.

03:58:43.800 No.

03:58:44.020 Well, there are women that will, but no...

03:58:47.080 Like, there's some degree of, like, most women, if you...

03:58:52.040 I mean, we've done a video experiment on this.

03:58:54.100 You cannot just walk up to a girl and say, hey, do you want to fuck?

03:58:56.780 Like, it's not...

03:58:58.060 No, not in that way.

03:58:59.040 Just be like, hey, you know what?

03:59:00.140 Like, I don't want to be a boyfriend right now.

03:59:03.500 Like, I just want things to...

03:59:05.800 There are girls that are down for, like, friends with benefits, though.

03:59:08.520 Yeah.

03:59:08.740 Yeah, there are.

03:59:09.440 Yeah.

03:59:09.620 There are, but...

03:59:11.620 I'm not saying...

03:59:13.260 I'm not recommending men should lie, but, like...

03:59:16.620 You wish men were more up front on what they are looking for?

03:59:19.920 I don't think that's hard to ask.

03:59:22.660 I think the thing is, though, is that you're not saying...

03:59:26.480 When you say, I wish men were more up front, you're not saying, because I would accept whatever

03:59:32.760 they are proposing, you're saying, I wish men could be more up front, so I wouldn't...

03:59:38.800 So I could have the...

03:59:39.940 Reserve the option and have more knowledge about their motives, so I could not date them.

03:59:45.100 Well, so you're not wasting your time.

03:59:46.080 Exactly.

03:59:46.260 Because if he doesn't want a relationship, and you want a relationship, and, you know,

03:59:49.740 he just wants to hook up, then, you know, you want to know.

03:59:51.580 I'm not going to waste my time.

03:59:51.980 Right, but I'm just trying to...

03:59:52.760 I'm trying to explain, like, it from not my point of view, but men who are maneuvering

03:59:57.920 to try to sleep with you...

03:59:59.080 That's true, yeah.

03:59:59.460 ...who might not want to be in a relationship with you.

04:00:03.000 Like, there is...

04:00:04.460 Again, I'm not saying it's a good thing.

04:00:05.960 I'm not advocating for it, but I'm just...

04:00:08.120 Don't shoot the messenger.

04:00:09.420 There's a certain degree of gamesmanship that men are going to undertake.

04:00:13.100 Like, I love you, babe.

04:00:15.740 Like, they're going to...

04:00:16.420 You know, obviously not up front with that sort of shit, but they're going to...

04:00:19.880 They're going to fucking play you.

04:00:24.320 Yeah, of course.

04:00:25.220 To try to get...

04:00:25.920 Like, a lot of guys will just say what you want to hear to get you in bed.

04:00:29.980 They're playing the game.

04:00:31.940 I don't think it's...

04:00:32.380 They're always like that, or most of them.

04:00:34.180 That was, like, a majority of the men that I've experienced.

04:00:36.520 Exactly.

04:00:37.060 But I also think that there's some component of...

04:00:40.320 I think some women want plausible deniability.

04:00:43.680 They don't want to be like, yeah, I'm just down to fuck.

04:00:47.680 Like, they want to frame it.

04:00:49.540 Because in case that...

04:00:50.940 In the event that maybe it starts casual, but then it leads to something serious,

04:00:56.420 they want the plausible deniability to say, even though I was initially just looking for casual sex,

04:01:03.200 I actually like you, and I started liking you.

04:01:05.940 I don't want you to think I'm a slut type of thing, you know?

04:01:08.860 I mean, it's all about, like, people's opinion, like, what they want, and, like, the person.

04:01:14.560 You know, everybody's different, you know?

04:01:16.080 Couldn't it be the case that there's a cohort of women that are also down for, like, friends with benefits or casual sex?

04:01:25.700 It's called, like...

04:01:26.500 No, no, no, no, hold on, let me just finish.

04:01:28.200 Isn't there...

04:01:28.700 Couldn't it be the case that there's a cohort of women that would be down for one-night stands or casual sex or friends with benefits,

04:01:35.020 but they are going to play like they want a relationship?

04:01:41.840 Liberals.

04:01:44.020 I don't...

04:01:44.820 You know what?

04:01:45.280 I haven't seen that.

04:01:46.520 I haven't seen that, to be honest.

04:01:48.300 Like, I haven't seen women do that.

04:01:50.700 Like, I'm in L.A., and I haven't seen, like, women really, like, oh, my God, man, like, let's have a relationship.

04:01:56.360 No, man, oh, my gosh.

04:01:57.660 I put, you know, I missed, you know, like, I had sex with this guy, and then I'm going to go.

04:02:02.700 You know, I think they don't do that.

04:02:04.680 They're, like, I feel like girls are more up front to men and being, like, I don't want anything serious.

04:02:11.000 Fair, but, I mean, I said liberals, but it's, like, kind of true.

04:02:14.420 Like, look at the feminist movement.

04:02:16.220 Look at women's marches.

04:02:17.180 My body.

04:02:17.840 I can do whatever I want.

04:02:19.140 Sexual revolution.

04:02:20.240 I can sleep with as many men as I want to.

04:02:22.720 And, like, this is actually empowering when it's actually quite the opposite.

04:02:25.100 It's anti-empowering for a woman to do that, and, like, I think a large part of the feminist movement has prayed into men, which is why, you know, you said men ain't crap now.

04:02:36.060 Well, do you not think, like, women are kind of to blame for that?

04:02:39.100 Because women have been saying, like, I can do it myself, that, like, feminist mentality, to where then men are, like, all right, then, you know, you pay for the first date.

04:02:48.000 Like, I'm not going to be that masculine man because the whole feminist movement is telling me toxic masculinity and embracing my own masculinity is toxic, but it's really the opposite.

04:02:56.340 We should be encouraging men to be a masculine man, be the provider, when that's really what women want.

04:03:02.180 Because even the feminist liberal, they still want to settle down eventually, and they're still going to have a kid, but then it's a problem when the man wants to provide for the household.

04:03:10.120 Like, no, I can do it myself, but then are they really being a mother and a wife?

04:03:12.540 Like, no.

04:03:13.380 So it's, like, this whole contradiction, I think, between, if you look at first-wave feminism to now, it's, like, a funny thing.

04:03:19.480 First-wave feminists did not fight for your right to be a hoe.

04:03:21.920 They fought for your right to vote.

04:03:23.080 Like, they just, they didn't.

04:03:24.240 Because now it's been completely distorted decades later, or really centuries later, of, okay, women can sleep around, and that's all of a sudden women's empowerment, but it's not.

04:03:34.340 Yeah.

04:03:35.000 I mean, it just goes with free will.

04:03:36.320 You can do whatever you want, to be honest.

04:03:37.580 Like, it's free will.

04:03:38.820 Like, yeah, there's consequences to your actions, but I can still do it, you know?

04:03:43.020 Like, it's, like...

04:03:43.580 I mean, sure.

04:03:43.940 Like, a girl, a woman could sleep with whoever she wants.

04:03:45.660 A guy could sleep with whoever she wants.

04:03:47.100 But, I mean, a girl being...

04:03:49.080 Guys are up front, but they're always going to naturally, instinctually want a relationship and be with a woman, where a girl holds that power.

04:03:57.400 And I feel like women nowadays more, it's the feminist side that are, like, I can sleep around with whoever I want with no consequences.

04:04:03.520 And, I mean, that's the same thing with abortion, how that comes into play, too.

04:04:07.100 It's, like, well, I can sleep with whoever I want.

04:04:08.520 I don't want any consequences.

04:04:09.900 Let's get on birth control.

04:04:10.960 Let's have abortions, and I can continue to be empowered.

04:04:14.580 Who here's on birth control?

04:04:18.600 I got off three months ago.

04:04:19.200 I have medical reasons, though.

04:04:20.820 I used to do, but I hopped off, and I feel great.

04:04:23.580 I'm actually on hormones right now.

04:04:26.600 It pills and hormones.

04:04:27.900 Okay.

04:04:28.140 Yeah.

04:04:28.840 Okay.

04:04:29.300 I have the implant.

04:04:31.080 What is it?

04:04:31.580 Do you have the arm implant or the IUD?

04:04:33.080 Next plan on?

04:04:33.720 Okay.

04:04:34.100 Yeah.

04:04:34.460 I had the IUD for six years and got off of it three months ago.

04:04:37.860 This is really wild.

04:04:39.280 Sorry, chat.

04:04:39.980 I didn't have a period for six years of my life.

04:04:41.980 And, like, that's not normal.

04:04:43.280 And I feel like a huge part of the birth control movement with feminism and, like, you know, take control of your body is actually harming women more.

04:04:51.800 I mean, it's already statistically, like, women are attracted to different men when you're on birth control versus off birth control.

04:04:57.400 It completely rewires your hormones.

04:04:59.160 And it's like we've bought into this lie that this is empowerment when, really, you're harming yourself.

04:05:04.900 Yeah.

04:05:05.740 I still like it, though.

04:05:07.460 Like what?

04:05:08.300 My birth control.

04:05:09.320 I love it.

04:05:10.380 He's like a sniper.

04:05:11.580 I love him.

04:05:13.020 Who's a sniper?

04:05:13.940 My birth control.

04:05:15.140 He's like a sniper.

04:05:15.960 Oh.

04:05:16.280 Because you can't get pregnant.

04:05:16.940 It's a boy.

04:05:17.200 Yeah, sure.

04:05:17.780 Yeah.

04:05:18.040 I mean, it prevents pregnancy, but you could have lifelong.

04:05:22.460 Holy shit.

04:05:23.420 That was really loud.

04:05:25.100 I mean, sure.

04:05:25.680 I mean, it was invented to prevent birth.

04:05:27.380 But the thing is, when you get on it, you don't actually know what the side effects are to you and your attraction.

04:05:33.900 You also don't, like, realize the side effects that it has on you until you get off of it.

04:05:38.000 Yeah.

04:05:38.340 That's true.

04:05:38.700 I mean, I did get off of it for, like, a couple months and nothing changed.

04:05:41.920 I was like, I still feel depressed.

04:05:44.820 I'm one of the rare ones.

04:05:46.000 Like I said.

04:05:47.360 Wait, question.

04:05:49.160 Oh, you're still on it, correct?

04:05:50.280 Yeah.

04:05:50.560 Oh, okay.

04:05:51.020 But I went off it and then I went back to get it again.

04:05:52.960 I think you have to be off of it for, like, a consecutive period of time.

04:05:55.840 Yeah.

04:05:56.020 Like a year?

04:05:56.480 I've only been off of birth control.

04:05:57.580 I've been off of it for three months.

04:05:59.040 I've been on it for 10 years.

04:06:00.780 I was on it for seven years.

04:06:02.380 That's crazy.

04:06:02.900 But, like I said, they medically found cancer cells in me when I was younger.

04:06:06.820 Oh, shit.

04:06:07.380 So, I had to.

04:06:08.320 Yeah, I had to.

04:06:08.880 But we're here.

04:06:09.840 It's all that matters.

04:06:10.020 See, and I will say that there are certain medical conditions where birth control, estrogen,

04:06:15.500 like, supplements is necessary.

04:06:17.140 I'm not going to stand up.

04:06:18.380 We're going to work harder.

04:06:19.780 I'm a survivor.

04:06:21.140 I'm a survivor.

04:06:22.560 I'm not a survivor.

04:06:23.000 Okay, that was cringe.

04:06:24.220 Sorry, guys.

04:06:24.980 Very.

04:06:25.840 Thank you.

04:06:27.560 But, you know, like, widely.

04:06:28.640 Yeah.

04:06:29.160 Birth control has been sold as this one-size-fits-all.

04:06:31.840 Take this pill.

04:06:32.760 You're cured.

04:06:33.680 14-year-olds are going to their gynecologist and saying, like, oh, I just got my period.

04:06:37.960 Here's birth control.

04:06:38.660 When I got off my birth control, my OB was like, are you sure?

04:06:42.640 Like, totally gaslit me and telling me, like, I'm so not validated.

04:06:46.240 She's like, you're waiting for marriage.

04:06:47.340 Like, that's wild.

04:06:48.200 Like, are you sure you want your period?

04:06:49.600 Like, this is really weird.

04:06:50.860 And I just think, like, women have largely just been sold, like, this is your one-size-fits-all.

04:06:55.380 Slap on a Band-Aid.

04:06:56.440 Everyone needs to go out on birth control.

04:06:57.600 I mean, there's different types of birth control.

04:06:59.220 Like, they can actually regulate some of the ones that they put.

04:07:02.440 They can put less hormones or more hormones in you.

04:07:04.600 But what do you need to regulate?

04:07:05.820 Well, there's non-hormonal, like, IUD.

04:07:08.880 Yeah, that scares me.

04:07:10.960 Like, that's the one they put in you, right?

04:07:12.320 Yeah, I was on an IUD.

04:07:13.720 Not the copper.

04:07:14.220 They can fall out.

04:07:14.860 I had the Mirena, the hormonal IUD.

04:07:18.160 Can't you buy birth control, like, over-the-counter now?

04:07:20.540 Oh, that's, yeah.

04:07:21.100 I think I watched your video.

04:07:22.660 Yeah, I did a video on this.

04:07:23.780 So, there's this new birth control.

04:07:25.640 It's hormonal birth control.

04:07:26.540 It's called the O-Pill.

04:07:27.380 And it's the first ever over-the-counter, or over-the-counter pill birth control.

04:07:33.340 So, it's just like, you know, if you were to get a pack of birth control pills prescribed.

04:07:37.320 But the thing is, it's not over-the-counter.

04:07:38.720 You don't need a prescription.

04:07:39.740 You can just buy it at a drugstore.

04:07:41.340 It's even going to be available in some gas stations.

04:07:43.260 And here's my thing, is that is so dangerous.

04:07:45.900 Because think of how many 13- or 14-year-old girls who may want to be sexually active,

04:07:50.220 but they don't tell their parents.

04:07:51.580 And so, all of a sudden, they don't go to the doctor's office.

04:07:53.200 They just pop into a Walgreens and buy this.

04:07:55.600 Think of the girls that are going to abuse it and overtake medications.

04:07:58.960 And I think it's just highly unregulated and, like, not allowed.

04:08:02.960 But it's being pushed because, like, this is accessible for underserved communities.

04:08:07.000 But, I mean, it's been proven that underserved communities and, you know, poor areas,

04:08:11.820 that's where Planned Parenthood started.

04:08:13.260 It's because, you know, they want you on birth control

04:08:15.220 and they want you to have more and more abortions so you don't actually get pregnant.

04:08:18.880 And it's the younger you are, the younger you started.

04:08:21.240 I mean, there's girls literally getting on birth control now at 11, 12, 13.

04:08:23.880 I mean, I would rather be in birth control than, like, have a child, low-key.

04:08:27.000 So you're saying, is your toxic ex-boyfriend just blasting?

04:08:32.120 Is that what you're saying?

04:08:33.460 No, but I'm just saying, like, even if he doesn't...

04:08:35.700 What happened yesterday?

04:08:36.280 Oh, my gosh, that...

04:08:39.240 What?

04:08:39.540 I'm just saying, you said you don't want to have a kid.

04:08:41.480 You're on birth control.

04:08:42.300 I'm just assuming.

04:08:42.980 Yeah.

04:08:43.560 I mean, later on, yes, but not right now.

04:08:45.680 Like, I'm...

04:08:46.100 No blasting?

04:08:46.880 Oh, what does that mean?

04:08:49.060 Like, when the...

04:08:49.480 I'm not going to say it, but connect to the dots.

04:08:51.920 No.

04:08:52.460 Well, I'm trying to be excited.

04:08:53.120 I still want to, like, be protected, like, as much as I can, you know?

04:08:56.400 Like, you never know.

04:08:57.660 Like, stay safe, guys.

04:08:59.460 Stay safe.

04:09:00.020 Well, sure.

04:09:00.460 If you're, like, sexually active, but if you're not...

04:09:03.580 I mean, my parents never educated me, like, in, like, what sex was and, like, birth control

04:09:08.800 and all that stuff.

04:09:09.200 They never did, and I wish they did so I could actually go with them, you know, to, like,

04:09:14.120 actually get something, you know, together or something like that.

04:09:16.700 I had to, like, ask my friends, you know?

04:09:18.740 Like, I had to, like, find out about sex in the playground on, like, elementary school.

04:09:22.500 Like, it was crazy to me.

04:09:23.700 I think natural cycles in...

04:09:25.500 Um...

04:09:26.580 Huh?

04:09:27.320 Huh?

04:09:28.220 That's wild.

04:09:29.220 That's wild, yeah, and...

04:09:30.360 Playgrounds?

04:09:30.840 It's, like, I don't like that, you know?

04:09:33.280 Like...

04:09:33.800 I think what's crazy is that women don't actually know that you can only get pregnant.

04:09:37.100 What, on the fucking monkey bars you guys were talking about that shit?

04:09:39.180 What the fuck?

04:09:39.360 No, it was, like, this grass area.

04:09:41.360 Because I was, like...

04:09:42.280 Oh, the grass, the meadow.

04:09:43.820 The meadow.

04:09:44.620 They eventually educate you about it in, like, middle or high school.

04:09:47.720 In eighth grade.

04:09:48.380 Yeah, eighth grade.

04:09:49.280 I got it in, like, sixth grade.

04:09:50.200 But it wasn't, like, oh, my God.

04:09:51.660 You got what?

04:09:52.080 The depth of, like, I got educated about sex.

04:09:54.780 Oh, I thought...

04:09:55.040 Sex ed.

04:09:55.280 I heard...

04:09:55.780 Well, sex ed now is starting, like, frickin' five-year-olds.

04:09:58.560 But I went to private school, so they teach you sex ed differently, actually.

04:10:02.220 Oh, really?

04:10:02.940 But, I mean, public school, sex ed is, like, just...

04:10:05.140 Is it when a man and a woman, they love each other very much?

04:10:08.380 Yeah, they, like, emphasize, like, make sure you're married, make sure you're married.

04:10:10.900 And they just...

04:10:11.660 I love that.

04:10:11.720 They hug each other, but...

04:10:14.280 And it happens.

04:10:14.780 And they hold it.

04:10:15.700 And when they love each other so much, a baby comes out.

04:10:17.860 And then nine months later, the stork delivers.

04:10:20.240 The stork comes.

04:10:20.980 Oh, my God.

04:10:22.260 Here's the thing about birth control, though, is women can only get pregnant three to five

04:10:25.540 days out of the entire month.

04:10:26.920 So why are we medicating ourselves for 365 days a year when we can really only get pregnant

04:10:32.720 three to five days?

04:10:33.700 So if you just track your cycle properly, don't have sex those days.

04:10:37.620 I agree.

04:10:38.240 Of course I'm being safe.

04:10:40.500 I pull out.

04:10:41.300 Of course.

04:10:41.840 So that...

04:10:44.440 I agree with you.

04:10:45.200 I actually think, like, five days out of the month, that's when you wear the condom.

04:10:51.140 What?

04:10:51.740 No.

04:10:52.300 Oh, my gosh.

04:10:53.300 Pull out Game Strong?

04:10:54.160 Brian, no.

04:10:55.020 What?

04:10:55.440 Huh?

04:10:55.800 You just don't do it those five days.

04:10:58.020 You've got 25 other days in the month.

04:11:00.580 Oh, oral sex is what you're telling me.

04:11:03.360 My cousin did that.

04:11:04.720 She didn't use birth control at all.

04:11:06.060 She used this thing where it tells you when you're fertile.

04:11:08.740 Yeah.

04:11:09.240 And she...

04:11:11.080 It's like a whole thing.

04:11:12.300 Like, it's like this thing where it tells you...

04:11:13.220 Well, did it have the temperature gauge?

04:11:14.860 Or something like that.

04:11:15.420 Because if you check your temperature, there's a whole thing about body regulation.

04:11:18.200 It's called natural cycles.

04:11:19.080 She did that, and that's how she got pregnant.

04:11:20.460 Yeah.

04:11:20.780 That's also how you get pregnant.

04:11:22.100 There's also this thing, like, the year...

04:11:24.120 Like, if you're a Taurus, if it's the month of April, you actually can't get pregnant

04:11:28.260 in that month.

04:11:30.780 It's a thing.

04:11:31.300 If the moon isn't risen and it's, like, full moon, you're being protected by the Taurus energy.

04:11:37.180 Whoa.

04:11:37.540 It's a thing.

04:11:40.620 Oh, my God.

04:11:41.080 And it applies to every month.

04:11:42.160 So, if you're fucking Aries, whatever the fuck month that is, you're good to go.

04:11:46.380 You don't need...

04:11:47.540 Okay.

04:11:47.800 I don't...

04:11:49.240 What?

04:11:49.980 I'm joking.

04:11:50.600 All right.

04:11:50.820 That's a bad joke.

04:11:51.860 Okay.

04:11:52.760 We have to wrap up here in about 10-ish, 10 minutes or so.

04:11:56.660 Okay.

04:11:56.820 Right.

04:11:57.460 So, I think we're caught up on chats.

04:11:59.920 Nick, can you pull up the Twitch really quick?

04:12:01.920 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:12:03.980 Ooh, he was quick.

04:12:04.840 Ooh, Nick.

04:12:05.560 He was quick with that.

04:12:07.580 Hell yeah, Nick.

04:12:08.500 Let's fucking go.

04:12:09.860 Quick with it.

04:12:10.640 Yo.

04:12:11.220 Hey.

04:12:11.700 I want to see W's in the chat.

04:12:13.740 I want to see Wick in the chat.

04:12:15.560 Wick.

04:12:15.980 Wick.

04:12:16.140 W, Nick.

04:12:16.800 W, Nick in the chat.

04:12:18.520 Oh, shit.

04:12:19.220 Oh, Nick.

04:12:19.560 What does Wick mean?

04:12:20.220 Could you move the thing over?

04:12:24.840 Yeah.

04:12:25.120 So, I think it's the top one.

04:12:27.100 Yo, guys.

04:12:27.680 Go sub to us on Twitch.

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04:12:34.020 Hi, Sloth.

04:12:34.680 Did I already mention these?

04:12:36.040 Aw, I love that.

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04:12:47.220 Oh, six months at Tier 1.

04:12:49.720 Hey, thank you so much, man.

04:12:50.360 Appreciate it.

04:12:50.760 Thank you for all the followers, guys.

04:12:52.080 Thank you, guys.

04:12:52.520 Appreciate it.

04:12:53.400 Okay, so final thoughts here before we wrap up.

04:12:57.220 Is there anything before we wrap up that you just really want to get off your chest?

04:13:01.620 Maybe men are pissing you off in some way.

04:13:03.780 We didn't even get to body count.

04:13:05.280 Oh, should we talk about body count?

04:13:06.520 Is that a tradition?

04:13:07.580 Is it a tradition?

04:13:08.380 I feel like it is.

04:13:09.240 I feel like it is the whatever tradition.

04:13:12.180 Yeah.

04:13:12.560 We just haven't talked about it at all.

04:13:13.240 I've seen it on every video.

04:13:15.160 I feel like the whatever tradition is rating.

04:13:17.220 You're rating your looks.

04:13:18.060 Oh, and not rating yourself.

04:13:19.180 We didn't do that.

04:13:19.620 Okay, okay.

04:13:20.080 We didn't rate ourselves.

04:13:20.760 We didn't rate ourselves.

04:13:20.780 That's the tradition.

04:13:21.840 Yeah.

04:13:21.900 We'll do it.

04:13:22.460 We'll do it.

04:13:23.480 Stifler, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

04:13:25.820 All right.

04:13:26.320 He knows.

04:13:27.340 He knows.

04:13:28.620 You start.

04:13:30.580 Honestly, I mean, beauty is so subjective.

04:13:33.740 It could be different from my perspective.

04:13:35.360 I think I'm a Latina queen, so I'm going to give myself a 10 out of 10.

04:13:38.320 Aw.

04:13:39.800 Huh?

04:13:40.420 Huh?

04:13:41.180 Hmm?

04:13:42.520 Okay.

04:13:43.580 You're a Latina queen.

04:13:45.060 Yeah.

04:13:45.280 I love that.

04:13:46.480 Are there different kinds of Latinas?

04:13:48.760 Like, you have...

04:13:49.400 Yeah.

04:13:49.800 Spanish versus Spanish.

04:13:50.660 Puerto Ricans.

04:13:51.420 You have Mexicans.

04:13:52.460 But we're all the same.

04:13:53.420 We're all unified at the end of the day.

04:13:54.640 Yeah.

04:13:55.000 We all Spanish.

04:13:55.520 Y a la raza.

04:13:57.640 There's a unified front?

04:13:59.740 Yeah.

04:13:59.940 There's a private group.

04:14:01.300 I just think being like...

04:14:02.180 There's a discord.

04:14:02.480 You know it's Latino Heritage Month, right?

04:14:04.360 The what?

04:14:04.780 It's Latino Heritage Month.

04:14:06.440 Is it?

04:14:06.780 This month, yeah.

04:14:07.320 Oh.

04:14:07.920 I thought it was another month this month, too.

04:14:11.020 I thought it was Black Business Owners Month.

04:14:13.300 I saw that show on Amazon.

04:14:14.820 Oh, wow.

04:14:15.320 Oh.

04:14:15.940 I don't know.

04:14:16.460 Black Owned Business.

04:14:17.780 Make sure you...

04:14:18.160 Pride Month was in June, but, you know, now it's every month, apparently.

04:14:22.920 Wait.

04:14:23.460 Okay.

04:14:23.840 So, you're a Latina queen.

04:14:29.240 Mm-hmm.

04:14:30.480 I love that.

04:14:31.860 So, you're a 10 out of 10 because you're a Latina queen or just for other reasons?

04:14:35.320 I mean, inside and out, I'd say I'm a good person.

04:14:38.060 Inside.

04:14:38.160 I take care of myself.

04:14:38.900 I work out five days a week.

04:14:40.340 I love that.

04:14:41.320 Mm-hmm.

04:14:41.780 What do you think about dad bods?

04:14:43.260 I love dad bods, actually.

04:14:45.100 What?

04:14:45.340 I really...

04:14:45.900 I always say, if you don't have a panza, you don't have a chansa.

04:14:49.180 Oh.

04:14:50.000 A panza means a belly.

04:14:51.240 I love that.

04:14:51.720 Okay.

04:14:52.120 All right.

04:14:53.100 Interesting.

04:14:54.080 Elizabeth, what about you?

04:14:56.180 A solid 7 out of 10.

04:14:58.160 Okay.

04:14:58.720 All right.

04:15:00.140 I'll do an 8 out of 10.

04:15:01.820 Okay.

04:15:02.660 I think the last time I said an 8.

04:15:03.820 Wait, wait, wait.

04:15:04.780 Please do not interrupt Sydney Watson.

04:15:06.840 Doctor...

04:15:07.360 Excuse me.

04:15:07.900 I'm sorry.

04:15:08.280 Second time.

04:15:09.140 I've interrupted her.

04:15:10.180 Doctor Sydney Watson.

04:15:11.760 She just, like, is so shy.

04:15:13.520 She is really shy today.

04:15:15.060 She's...

04:15:15.540 Okay.

04:15:16.000 What do you rate her?

04:15:17.240 She's Australian, huh?

04:15:18.400 A 10 out of 10?

04:15:19.680 Honestly, she talked some shit about my podcast recently.

04:15:23.380 So, I'm going to give her a big 0 out of 10.

04:15:26.320 She talked that stuff about you?

04:15:27.540 You know what, Sydney?

04:15:28.500 Sydney.

04:15:29.180 Listen, I'll...

04:15:31.080 I know we have our differences, Sydney Watson, Dr. Sydney Watson, but I wish...

04:15:38.460 I want to extend out an olive branch.

04:15:41.100 I think you're in...

04:15:41.760 Are you in L.A.?

04:15:42.380 I don't know.

04:15:44.080 You don't have to come on the show.

04:15:45.500 I will allow you to take me on a first date.

04:15:48.120 You can pay for it.

04:15:49.480 I like Mexican food.

04:15:52.240 I could have just paused at Mexican.

04:15:54.240 Oh, I would have loved it if you did that.

04:15:55.160 You can go to Javier's.

04:15:56.560 I think...

04:15:57.060 Mexican women.

04:15:57.260 I can go to Javier's.

04:15:58.060 Javier's.

04:15:58.560 I can go to Javier's.

04:15:59.260 Let's go...

04:16:00.560 You're going to have to pay.

04:16:03.140 But I think it would be productive.

04:16:07.280 You know, think about it, Sydney Watson.

04:16:11.480 Just saying.

04:16:11.960 Is she Australian, like Mexican?

04:16:13.620 Or is she like...

04:16:14.220 She's a Mexican-Australian, come to think of it.

04:16:17.460 That's pretty good.

04:16:18.000 I've never heard of that.

04:16:18.920 I've never heard of that.

04:16:18.960 Yeah, it's a...

04:16:20.080 They're...

04:16:21.160 It's getting hard to cross the border in the U.S.

04:16:23.700 It is.

04:16:24.500 From Australians, yeah.

04:16:26.020 She took a...

04:16:28.960 Somehow a raft over to Australia.

04:16:32.220 I don't know how...

04:16:32.780 That must...

04:16:33.180 That shit was crazy.

04:16:34.080 That's crazy.

04:16:34.460 Am I going to get canceled for saying this?

04:16:35.700 Is this...

04:16:36.660 I don't know.

04:16:37.860 I don't know how that works.

04:16:40.360 There's Mexican-Australians.

04:16:42.380 I would love to hear an Australian person speak Spanish.

04:16:45.240 I feel like there is.

04:16:46.160 Wait, speaking of this, would anybody...

04:16:48.840 Oh, God.

04:16:49.600 Morgan, would you...

04:16:50.960 Oh, my gosh.

04:16:51.680 Oh, no.

04:16:53.740 No, no, no.

04:16:54.280 You can say it.

04:16:54.640 Say it.

04:16:54.920 What is on your mind?

04:16:56.360 Never mind.

04:16:56.800 Never mind.

04:16:56.860 No, no, no.

04:16:57.260 I want to hear it.

04:16:57.600 I want to hear it.

04:16:57.900 Say it.

04:16:58.660 Say it.

04:16:59.340 Say it.

04:17:00.260 Are you going to say an immigrant?

04:17:02.820 What?

04:17:04.180 I mean, I said close the border.

04:17:05.300 That's why I said immigrant.

04:17:06.860 What do you girls think of that?

04:17:08.220 No, no.

04:17:08.540 That she wants to close the border.

04:17:09.580 What do you guys think of that?

04:17:10.420 I mean, that's a whole other podcast topic, dude.

04:17:13.200 That's a whole two hours.

04:17:14.140 You do this and we have 10 minutes left.

04:17:15.180 Yeah, that is.

04:17:15.740 Welcome to the whatever politics podcast.

04:17:18.220 Okay, never mind.

04:17:19.340 No, wait.

04:17:19.900 What I did to what?

04:17:20.960 An illegal immigrant.

04:17:24.240 It's kind of bad.

04:17:25.160 Actively illegal?

04:17:26.320 Yeah.

04:17:27.180 No, I wouldn't.

04:17:28.160 What if...

04:17:28.600 Fun fact.

04:17:29.140 My mom's actually an immigrant.

04:17:30.420 She immigrated from the Philippines when she was five.

04:17:32.300 Wait, your mom's Filipino?

04:17:33.500 Filipino.

04:17:34.080 Really?

04:17:34.640 Yeah, I'm Asian.

04:17:36.280 Oh, I didn't know that.

04:17:37.420 What if they're in DACA?

04:17:38.160 Wait, what?

04:17:38.640 No, like, I am not joking.

04:17:40.500 I am 30% Asian.

04:17:42.540 Wait, so she's half.

04:17:43.280 My mom is a little bit more than half, but yeah, she's half.

04:17:46.140 How does 30%?

04:17:46.560 It just works out.

04:17:48.000 So what 70% are you?

04:17:49.080 Well, you took like a...

04:17:49.800 Other than that, I'm like British, Scottish, like very European.

04:17:53.560 So your mom's half.

04:17:54.360 Okay, I can see that.

04:17:55.100 Wow.

04:17:55.340 Yeah.

04:17:55.500 Sort of.

04:17:55.980 My grandma is full.

04:17:57.000 Like, my mom was born in Manila and like immigrated to the States.

04:18:00.060 That's my fun fact.

04:18:01.680 Yeah.

04:18:02.060 My dad's an immigrant.

04:18:02.380 But would I date an illegal immigrant?

04:18:04.000 My parents are immigrants.

04:18:04.220 No, like come to the United States properly.

04:18:06.420 Give me your forearm.

04:18:07.320 No, I am like very white.

04:18:09.140 Me too.

04:18:10.260 Filipina?

04:18:10.700 Are you sure?

04:18:11.440 No, I am so serious.

04:18:13.140 If you look...

04:18:13.420 I believe her.

04:18:14.000 I actually believe her.

04:18:14.700 I'll show you a photo of my mom, Brian, after.

04:18:15.860 Okay, fine.

04:18:16.720 And like she's like a more light-skinned Filipina.

04:18:20.000 I think this is like cultural appropriation.

04:18:22.800 Are you assuming my like...

04:18:24.500 Ethnicity?

04:18:25.240 Ethnicity right now?

04:18:26.180 Like that's kind of racist.

04:18:27.400 Like just call me white.

04:18:28.700 Like I am a first generation, like literally American after my mom.

04:18:32.540 You're claiming Filipina.

04:18:34.500 I'll pull up my Ancestry.com.

04:18:36.220 I'm messing with you.

04:18:36.940 I'm messing with you.

04:18:37.800 Well, you took a 23andMe or whatever?

04:18:39.960 No, no, no.

04:18:40.580 Ancestry.

04:18:41.500 Oh, Ancestry.

04:18:42.180 Same thing.

04:18:42.660 I want to do that.

04:18:43.520 I want to do a 23andMe.

04:18:45.400 But anyways.

04:18:45.860 How did we...

04:18:46.200 Illegal immigrant?

04:18:46.920 No.

04:18:48.140 Sorry.

04:18:48.780 What if it was like from...

04:18:51.700 What about DACA?

04:18:52.700 The Netherlands.

04:18:53.820 Like an illegal immigrant from the Netherlands.

04:18:55.660 No.

04:18:56.060 Like if you want to come to the United States, come legally, do it the right way, get the papers.

04:18:59.620 What about DACA?

04:18:59.880 Like I know it takes time and I know it takes effort, but like I know people that it took

04:19:03.240 decades.

04:19:03.800 Half of my Filipino family that are like my Filipino side of my family are all immigrants.

04:19:08.880 I would date an illegal immigrant.

04:19:10.660 Me too.

04:19:11.000 What if she just wants to get married, to get citizenship?

04:19:13.680 Hello.

04:19:13.980 But obviously she would love me for me.

04:19:15.760 Right.

04:19:16.600 Obviously.

04:19:17.420 Right.

04:19:18.040 That's why she would love me for me.

04:19:18.560 She has no ulterior motives.

04:19:21.020 Obviously.

04:19:21.700 No green card, no citizenship.

04:19:23.840 Hey, love is love.

04:19:25.320 Okay.

04:19:25.900 What?

04:19:26.380 Love is love.

04:19:27.720 Is it...

04:19:28.900 L.

04:19:30.720 Wait.

04:19:32.620 Love is love.

04:19:33.500 But I mean, sometimes I want a green card.

04:19:36.080 Are you a citizen?

04:19:37.600 I am.

04:19:38.260 Oh, okay.

04:19:38.520 I dated a guy that wasn't DACA.

04:19:40.080 But my family isn't.

04:19:42.400 I would date your family.

04:19:43.960 Mm-hmm.

04:19:45.080 I'm...

04:19:45.400 What?

04:19:45.740 No, I'm serious.

04:19:47.000 Wait.

04:19:47.460 You would give him the papers?

04:19:48.460 He loves Mexicans.

04:19:51.720 What?

04:19:58.080 All right.

04:19:58.640 Okay.

04:19:59.380 Any final thoughts?

04:20:02.420 Wait.

04:20:02.840 Are you upset?

04:20:03.760 No.

04:20:04.220 Oh, okay.

04:20:04.580 I don't understand.

04:20:05.200 No.

04:20:06.220 I thought it seemed like you were upset by the immigration conversation.

04:20:09.280 I wish we could have talked about this if we had more time.

04:20:11.940 Oh.

04:20:12.360 Yeah.

04:20:12.780 I would love to come back and talk about it.

04:20:14.480 This would be good.

04:20:14.760 About...

04:20:15.020 I would love to.

04:20:16.120 Immigration?

04:20:16.680 Yeah.

04:20:16.940 I would have to come back.

04:20:17.820 What?

04:20:18.380 Another time.

04:20:19.000 Another time.

04:20:19.320 I didn't bring that up.

04:20:20.140 No, I did.

04:20:21.140 No, no, but I just...

04:20:22.120 I love that.

04:20:22.940 That was definitely Morgan who brought that up.

04:20:24.540 I don't want to talk about that.

04:20:26.260 Morgan, why you got to throw me under the bus like this?

04:20:27.960 I'm sorry.

04:20:28.840 That's my fiancee here.

04:20:29.740 She took accountability.

04:20:30.180 Please don't be insensitive.

04:20:30.840 I take full accountability for that because I don't remember what you said, but then

04:20:34.840 I just said close the border.

04:20:36.340 So, and then it just...

04:20:37.580 How do you feel about that?

04:20:38.980 I mean, I have like, here's the thing.

04:20:42.640 Like my grandma literally had to come here because she was getting, she was forced to

04:20:46.180 work in a brothel at eight years old from 15.

04:20:50.540 So it's like, I understand that.

04:20:52.080 But when you have no life and that's your life and you have nothing and you will take,

04:20:56.880 you will fucking fight, you will walk barefoot through the night of like the fucking terrible

04:21:02.380 terrain just to get...

04:21:03.820 Don't look at me while you're...

04:21:04.460 Look at Morgan.

04:21:05.020 Oh, I know.

04:21:05.740 Look at Morgan.

04:21:06.340 You told me to look at you last time.

04:21:07.780 I know.

04:21:08.180 I know, but I feel like, I feel, I feel like you're upset at me.

04:21:11.820 I feel like you're upset at me.

04:21:12.840 And I'm not upset.

04:21:13.520 I'm just saying...

04:21:13.880 Be upset at Morgan.

04:21:14.300 I'm not upset at all.

04:21:15.120 Trust me, because I have friends that are like super like, yeah, mega.

04:21:17.900 So like, it's fine.

04:21:18.740 You should see her Instagram, okay?

04:21:20.320 It's like, she's got Trump hats on.

04:21:22.800 No, you don't.

04:21:23.540 She's got a Trump flag.

04:21:25.060 Nick, pull it out.

04:21:26.040 And it's not even political, because I'm not political at all.

04:21:28.520 We still love Daddy T, okay?

04:21:30.700 It's just like...

04:21:31.260 Pull it out.

04:21:31.840 Wait, Nick, can you pull up the photo that we showed last time?

04:21:36.780 You know which one I'm talking about?

04:21:38.280 Yeah.

04:21:38.700 Topical?

04:21:39.140 Let's pull that up.

04:21:40.180 We're going to react to it really quick.

04:21:42.380 Next time we should rate people's Instagrams.

04:21:44.100 Like, we should be like...

04:21:44.520 Are you coming back?

04:21:45.520 I don't know.

04:21:46.260 Do you want me back?

04:21:47.520 I'd be down to have you back.

04:21:48.620 I feel like I've interrogated you quite a bit, though, so I don't know.

04:21:51.300 I mean, I love Q&As.

04:21:52.820 Okay.

04:21:53.020 That's cool.

04:21:53.440 I want a three-week update.

04:21:54.420 Yeah, I went.

04:21:55.520 Yeah, no, I need an update on where he is.

04:21:57.880 We need an update from you on...

04:22:00.680 Oh, yeah.

04:22:01.860 We need to know what the situation is.

04:22:04.140 Oh, yeah.

04:22:04.560 Right?

04:22:05.220 Oh, yeah.

04:22:06.100 What if it was just, like, false the whole time?

04:22:08.820 Allegedly.

04:22:09.100 Oh, you've just been lying about...

04:22:10.280 That's wonderful.

04:22:11.380 Well, don't you have to say allegedly to everything that you do?

04:22:14.360 Because then you get, like, in a lawsuit and stuff like that.

04:22:16.300 I don't think your boyfriend's going to...

04:22:17.460 No.

04:22:18.040 Allegedly.

04:22:18.840 ...throw...

04:22:19.880 File a lawsuit because you said he...

04:22:23.060 Allegedly.

04:22:23.860 That's going to be an...

04:22:24.980 He's probably...

04:22:25.780 He's for sure watching this.

04:22:27.160 That's going to be an awkward as fuck.

04:22:28.400 My friend is watching.

04:22:29.660 Dylan!

04:22:30.740 You have a male friend?

04:22:32.640 Well, yeah.

04:22:34.680 It's not a lot.

04:22:35.740 Huh?

04:22:36.060 Give him a male best friend.

04:22:37.160 Girl best friend.

04:22:37.580 Haram.

04:22:38.000 Haram.

04:22:38.500 Haram.

04:22:39.260 Haram.

04:22:40.720 Haram!

04:22:41.320 Wait, what?

04:22:42.340 Oh, my gosh.

04:22:43.100 What?

04:22:43.500 Oh, he's watching me.

04:22:45.140 He said he was going to put in this big TV, too.

04:22:48.860 Nick, do you have the photo?

04:22:50.000 Yeah, I searched it up, but it's all racist.

04:22:52.880 Yes!

04:22:54.740 What?

04:22:55.840 What is that?

04:22:57.380 That is Trump getting arrested last week.

04:23:00.220 You couldn't just find the photo by itself?

04:23:01.560 Why didn't he just, like, tilt his head, though?

04:23:03.640 Wait, just...

04:23:04.020 The camera angle is really black.

04:23:05.420 Nick, right-click on the photo and do open an image and new tab.

04:23:09.460 His...

04:23:10.460 Control tab over.

04:23:12.020 I, um...

04:23:13.400 There you go.

04:23:14.560 Thanks.

04:23:15.200 You know, like, if he saw the camera, he could have just...

04:23:17.280 Would...

04:23:17.560 Okay, so question for all the girls here.

04:23:19.420 Would you date Donald Trump?

04:23:22.060 Fuck no.

04:23:23.060 I'm...

04:23:23.500 Excuse my language.

04:23:24.340 No.

04:23:24.720 Okay.

04:23:25.160 No.

04:23:25.360 That's fine.

04:23:25.680 I mean, not because, like, of anything.

04:23:27.180 Like, I just...

04:23:28.800 Allie?

04:23:29.820 I just...

04:23:30.460 Sorry.

04:23:31.040 Wait.

04:23:31.760 Amber, I'm sorry.

04:23:32.420 Okay, you know what?

04:23:33.060 I'm Allie.

04:23:33.460 It's okay.

04:23:34.020 I'm Amber.

04:23:34.420 It's okay.

04:23:35.060 You know?

04:23:35.720 I'm Allie.

04:23:36.520 She's Amber, you know?

04:23:37.840 The vibes.

04:23:38.180 Question.

04:23:38.400 If you were in bed with a guy and during the act, he called you another girl's name,

04:23:43.740 Is It Over?

04:23:44.460 Over.

04:23:44.820 Oh, definitely.

04:23:45.640 It's over.

04:23:46.160 Oh, my gosh.

04:23:47.340 It's over.

04:23:48.180 You're thinking of a different girl.

04:23:50.000 What if it was, like, you had kind of similar names?

04:23:53.740 Still.

04:23:54.120 That's still over.

04:23:55.140 Okay, question, question.

04:23:56.320 What if it was, like, like, your name's Allie, right?

04:23:59.880 Mm-hmm.

04:24:00.560 And you're in bed with a guy and it's going...

04:24:03.400 It's going good.

04:24:04.500 It's going good.

04:24:05.000 Yeah.

04:24:05.160 And he's, like, oh, Gertrude.

04:24:08.600 Gertrude!

04:24:09.660 Was he fucking a grandma?

04:24:11.300 No.

04:24:12.560 Is that...

04:24:13.480 No.

04:24:13.740 Would that be...

04:24:14.020 That's a no.

04:24:14.760 I'd be, like, I would literally stop and be, like, who is Gertrude?

04:24:17.880 Not a good look?

04:24:19.120 No.

04:24:20.080 Have you done that?

04:24:20.900 Have you done that?

04:24:22.700 You have.

04:24:23.220 I haven't said Gertrude, but I did say...

04:24:25.600 Okay.

04:24:25.780 What's, like, an old lady name?

04:24:26.340 You said a different name.

04:24:26.980 I said...

04:24:27.740 Bertrude.

04:24:28.540 I said...

04:24:29.620 No.

04:24:30.240 Patricia.

04:24:31.600 Patricia's kind of old...

04:24:33.600 Like Barbara?

04:24:35.340 Barbara.

04:24:36.220 Actually, I knew a young Barbara.

04:24:39.820 Hillary?

04:24:40.940 Hillary?

04:24:41.800 What's, like, an old...

04:24:43.000 Yo, chat.

04:24:43.480 Chat, chat, chat, chat, chat.

04:24:44.600 What's an old lady name?

04:24:45.580 Gretchen.

04:24:46.560 Oh, yeah.

04:24:47.100 I knew a young Gretchen, actually.

04:24:48.560 Hilda.

04:24:48.940 I knew a young Gretchen.

04:24:50.100 Chat.

04:24:50.440 What's an old lady name?

04:24:51.540 Susan?

04:24:52.400 Susan?

04:24:53.760 Olga.

04:24:54.820 Olga?

04:24:55.900 I feel like that's too European, though.

04:24:57.560 Yeah, that's a very European name.

04:24:59.160 Guys, give me, like, an old lady name that would be ridiculous to say.

04:25:03.320 Myrtle.

04:25:04.340 Oh, my gosh.

04:25:06.060 Imagine.

04:25:06.820 Mildred.

04:25:07.180 Oh, my gosh.

04:25:07.900 Mildred.

04:25:08.700 Edith.

04:25:09.400 Oh, my gosh.

04:25:09.540 But here's, like, the reverse.

04:25:10.900 Like, if you're with a girl and she's like, oh, Bartholomew.

04:25:15.920 Oh, Bartholomew is, like, an old, like, English.

04:25:19.160 That's a good name.

04:25:20.240 I knew a Bartholomew and he went by Bartholomew.

04:25:21.580 Can you really talk dirty if the dude's name is Bartholomew, though?

04:25:24.380 I know an Aristotle.

04:25:26.140 Oh, Bartholomew.

04:25:27.680 That's very, like, a spell.

04:25:28.860 What about, like, Meredith, Lucille, Debra, Martha, Helga, Agnes, Agnes, Lucille is such

04:25:36.300 a southern name, Debra, Mabel, Mabel, Matilda, Betty White, Blanche, Dorothy, Maxine, Blanche,

04:25:46.220 Estelle, Betty White.

04:25:47.220 Somebody said your name.

04:25:48.080 These are so funny.

04:25:49.560 Brian, Esther, Esther.

04:25:51.840 No, Esther's biblical.

04:25:53.120 Inez.

04:25:53.620 What is the Let's Go Ines' favorite?

04:25:55.180 Oh, my gosh.

04:25:55.260 Abigail.

04:25:55.960 Beatrice.

04:25:57.000 I would say Beatrice.

04:25:57.800 It was Laquisha.

04:25:58.740 Really?

04:25:59.720 Laquisha.

04:26:00.920 Winifred, Zelda.

04:26:02.660 Mabel.

04:26:03.520 Mabel's a cool one, too.

04:26:05.080 Dolores.

04:26:06.120 Oh, my goodness.

04:26:07.180 I feel like Dolores is coming back after, what was that show on HBO?

04:26:12.520 What was that show?

04:26:14.580 Westworld.

04:26:15.800 One of the main characters was called Dolores.

04:26:18.100 Okay.

04:26:19.020 Wait, what were we talking about?

04:26:20.220 We were.

04:26:20.940 Would you date Donald Trump?

04:26:22.240 Oh, yeah.

04:26:23.020 Oh, yes.

04:26:23.580 Would you date Donald Trump?

04:26:25.020 No, I don't think he's my type.

04:26:27.140 Oh, okay.

04:26:28.420 I've been to Mar-a-Lago.

04:26:29.600 I love the Trump family.

04:26:30.900 Voted for him twice.

04:26:31.800 We'll do it again.

04:26:32.680 And no, I couldn't do it.

04:26:34.380 What about one of his sons?

04:26:35.960 Are any of them single?

04:26:36.880 Oh, that's six five.

04:26:37.760 I mean, his youngest son, Barron.

04:26:41.240 No, no, no.

04:26:41.920 Well, he's.

04:26:42.380 Eric, Don Jr., now they're Barron.

04:26:44.180 There's like the older guys.

04:26:45.540 Eric's married to Laura.

04:26:47.260 Don Jr. is engaged, or married to Kimberly.

04:26:50.300 Okay.

04:26:51.200 Oh, wow.

04:26:51.780 You're keeping tabs on the.

04:26:53.400 Yeah.

04:26:54.100 Barron's a bit too young for you.

04:26:55.420 Barron's young.

04:26:56.180 Yeah, he's young.

04:26:56.780 All right, Q, we'll give you a couple.

04:26:58.100 No, Mar-a-Lago's a great place.

04:27:00.620 Trump family, they're great, but would not date Donald Trump.

04:27:05.340 All right.

04:27:06.160 Madison, would you date?

04:27:07.500 No.

04:27:08.440 No.

04:27:08.720 No.

04:27:09.660 He said, I don't like, I don't like dating older, older, older.

04:27:13.000 Yeah, I already said my cutoff is like 29.

04:27:15.880 My cutoff is like 80.

04:27:17.400 What's your cutoff?

04:27:18.340 35.

04:27:19.740 That's fine.

04:27:20.320 No, that's fine.

04:27:20.820 It's normal, yeah.

04:27:21.520 Okay.

04:27:22.220 Yeah, it's normal.

04:27:23.980 Final thoughts.

04:27:24.560 They're all mine.

04:27:25.500 Quick, quick.

04:27:26.140 Any final thoughts, anybody?

04:27:27.360 I love you guys.

04:27:28.380 Thank you so much for everything.

04:27:29.460 You said a lot today.

04:27:31.900 Yeah.

04:27:32.620 Yeah.

04:27:33.060 This was good.

04:27:34.440 I liked it.

04:27:34.960 It was a good show.

04:27:35.600 Got to promote yourself.

04:27:36.860 It was a small group, but it was really like, we had some good points of views.

04:27:40.860 Like, it was really nice.

04:27:42.060 Make Madison great again.

04:27:43.340 Yay.

04:27:44.000 That's why I said, interesting.

04:27:45.820 Oh, last thing.

04:27:47.440 Body count.

04:27:48.620 Oh, we could really quick.

04:27:49.660 You said this generation of men ain't shit.

04:27:51.820 Do you guys agree with that?

04:27:53.080 No.

04:27:53.500 No.

04:27:53.940 No.

04:27:54.060 I think it's just generalized.

04:27:55.500 Yeah.

04:27:55.740 Yeah.

04:27:56.180 Okay.

04:27:57.460 I still have hope for you guys.

04:27:59.580 For men.

04:27:59.740 There you have it.

04:28:00.200 Men just need to have masculinity and actually stand up and do something.

04:28:02.900 I have like 30% chance, guys.

04:28:03.700 30%?

04:28:04.200 Wait, what?

04:28:05.920 Don't back down.

04:28:07.020 Don't walk back.

04:28:07.240 I'm not backing down.

04:28:07.860 I feel like a lot of girls will go through one bad experience with like two guys and be like,

04:28:11.460 men ain't shit.

04:28:12.340 But I've had more.

04:28:12.900 That's super true, actually.

04:28:14.240 That is very, very, very true.

04:28:15.320 They have like two bad experiences with like fuck boys or like they pick the wrong dudes

04:28:20.300 and they're like, oh, all guys are fucking dicks.

04:28:22.360 It's like, okay.

04:28:23.320 I think my best advice is like, especially you, because you're still like, you know,

04:28:26.220 you're young 20s, like date as much people, different types as you can.

04:28:29.620 You don't have to necessarily sleep with them, but like, you know, just get to see what

04:28:32.580 you like and stuff.

04:28:33.400 Cause you know, I'm so tired of it going on date.

04:28:36.560 Just be friends with guys.

04:28:38.080 Like you'll be, you'll be friends with the guys.

04:28:39.900 I love, I always tell people like you should be friends with someone first and then see if

04:28:43.680 you want to date them.

04:28:44.700 Yes, I agree.

04:28:45.260 That's what I do.

04:28:46.240 For sure.

04:28:46.960 I'm being a hypocrite.

04:28:49.140 Erroneous.

04:28:50.460 Erroneous.

04:28:51.420 Disavow.

04:28:51.960 I know.

04:28:52.200 I don't think you should be friends with somebody first.

04:28:54.180 Why not?

04:28:55.740 Yeah.

04:28:56.140 You said you had a male friend, didn't you?

04:28:58.100 Yeah.

04:28:58.340 Why should a, that, that makes me question every single male friend you have.

04:29:02.800 If you should start as friends and then it should lead into a romantic relationship.

04:29:06.680 No, it's not somebody on a date.

04:29:07.560 I think, hold on.

04:29:08.260 I think romantic relationships ought to start from the jump romantically.

04:29:14.060 Now, of course, look, if you're, if you have a friend and it develops, that's okay too.

04:29:20.400 But I don't, I'm not a, I certainly don't think it's wrong to like, from the moment you meet

04:29:25.660 somebody for it to have like romantic undertones.

04:29:28.660 I think that's super normal.

04:29:30.840 That's fine.

04:29:31.600 But I think you can develop feelings.

04:29:32.840 Like if you're like friends in class first and then like it.

04:29:35.460 Yeah, you can, you can.

04:29:36.880 But this idea that, oh, let's start as friends.

04:29:40.540 Oh, no.

04:29:41.920 No, because I think that's the dude just like being a P word because like the guy needs

04:29:45.440 to just be assertive.

04:29:46.680 Yeah.

04:29:46.880 Hey, I like it.

04:29:47.760 Go on a date.

04:29:48.440 Yeah, I think that's what she's saying.

04:29:50.320 Kind of just like get to know each other, not just like over strictly friends first.

04:29:54.080 The friend zone is real.

04:29:55.220 No, but it's like if, as the guy, if, I mean, it's like a friend zone.

04:29:59.600 You don't want to be friend zoned.

04:30:00.740 Like if you're up, if you're being upfront with your romantic interest and she's like,

04:30:05.920 oh, let's start as friends.

04:30:07.260 That's like, goodbye.

04:30:10.860 Like that's, that's your friend zone.

04:30:12.600 I feel like a guy should just cut his losses at that point.

04:30:14.500 I'm like, you're not that, you're not that into me if you want to be friends.

04:30:17.060 I think if you're in a relationship, you should have no male friends.

04:30:20.820 I, for, I, for gal.

04:30:25.340 I do think it's a bit of a red flag if a girl has a lot of male friends.

04:30:29.440 That's true.

04:30:29.880 A lot of.

04:30:30.480 What if she just has like, like few male friends, you know?

04:30:34.720 Hmm.

04:30:35.900 What if it's like a childhood?

04:30:36.780 Here's the thing.

04:30:37.560 Are the, I think women can genuinely have friendships with men.

04:30:41.860 It's not clear to me if men can genuinely have friendships with women.

04:30:44.980 Yeah.

04:30:45.000 That's fair.

04:30:45.800 Because women can put boundaries for me.

04:30:46.680 Because you know, if the girl told the guy, hey, I want to hook up, you know he's an idiot.

04:30:49.760 He would say yes.

04:30:50.440 Totally.

04:30:50.780 Yeah.

04:30:51.100 Yeah.

04:30:51.220 Of course.

04:30:51.540 If the guy has a little door.

04:30:52.780 If they're both in a relationship.

04:30:53.500 I also think there's boundaries.

04:30:56.180 If you're in a relationship, you know, you're not hanging out with a guy friend alone.

04:30:59.040 You're not like late night calling a guy alone.

04:31:01.140 Yeah.

04:31:01.420 But like if your boyfriend or husband is also friends with that person, like same thing with

04:31:05.860 like, you know, there's multifamily friendships, family friends.

04:31:08.900 Yeah.

04:31:09.220 That's, I mean, if it's, I think that's okay, but.

04:31:12.960 It's all about boundaries.

04:31:13.640 That's the thing.

04:31:14.260 Like most guys, most guys who you would consider to be your friends, if you were like, hey,

04:31:20.800 do you want to hook up?

04:31:21.920 Assuming they're single, right?

04:31:23.740 Or maybe even if they're in a relationship, if you said, hey, do you want to hook up?

04:31:27.700 They're probably say yes.

04:31:29.360 You know what?

04:31:29.920 True.

04:31:30.320 Here, do you, you have a male friend you want to text?

04:31:32.320 Your male friend, what's his name?

04:31:33.780 Dylan.

04:31:34.240 Is he watching right now?

04:31:35.500 Yeah.

04:31:35.960 Okay.

04:31:36.300 So I was going to say, text him and say, hey, do you want to hook up?

04:31:39.340 I think if a guy has an opportunity, I think if he had an opportunity, that little door,

04:31:43.280 like, I feel like it is true.

04:31:45.320 Yeah.

04:31:45.500 Because girls put boundaries, but men obviously, you know, you know.

04:31:51.380 Nine times out of ten is the girlfriend sending the guy.

04:31:53.800 And then the guy is like, okay, well, I'll still be your friend.

04:31:56.320 Yeah.

04:31:56.780 That's boundaries.

04:31:57.240 And I think there's, there's like a lot of male friends that are like, they like you

04:32:04.080 and they're just biting their, maybe you're in a relationship.

04:32:07.660 They're going to be there.

04:32:09.100 Some guys aren't man enough either.

04:32:10.520 You know, who cares?

04:32:11.520 Like, that's on them if they want to think that and not be straightforward, you know?

04:32:14.580 Like, that's on them.

04:32:15.440 Right.

04:32:15.540 You want to waste your time?

04:32:16.560 Okay.

04:32:16.940 Then go ahead.

04:32:17.700 That's not my problem.

04:32:18.600 But it would make, it would perhaps make your boyfriend uncomfortable for you to have a

04:32:25.420 relationship, a friendship with somebody who like has these ulterior motives.

04:32:30.620 But did he tell me?

04:32:31.460 Because if he didn't tell me, how am I supposed to know?

04:32:33.380 What about a gay best friend?

04:32:37.100 I mean, he's, I mean, I don't know.

04:32:39.400 I know, I know a lot of like gay best friends that are like best friends with girls.

04:32:44.260 Yeah.

04:32:44.400 Like, they like kiss and think it's fine.

04:32:46.460 I don't, you know, I've seen that.

04:32:47.780 Because they're gay.

04:32:49.120 Mm-hmm.

04:32:50.200 Mm-mm.

04:32:51.480 Yeah.

04:32:52.640 Yeah.

04:32:53.340 Wait, what was the thing you said before?

04:32:54.840 What?

04:32:55.980 What did you say?

04:32:56.540 I had a response to something, but it slipped my mind.

04:32:58.620 I said about her friend, something about her friend.

04:33:01.760 Dylan.

04:33:02.660 I said if you never like actually, if they never tell you, like how, how would I know?

04:33:07.280 Oh, like if the guy who's your friend doesn't have a review.

04:33:09.420 Yeah, because you can just tell.

04:33:10.760 You can just tell.

04:33:11.520 Every single male friend of yours wants to sleep with you.

04:33:14.780 Okay.

04:33:15.560 Mm-hmm.

04:33:16.220 Like.

04:33:16.840 But am I going to let them?

04:33:17.840 No.

04:33:18.360 No, but like if they're secretly like waiting for the opportunity for you to be single,

04:33:23.740 it's like pretty bad look.

04:33:27.260 Yeah.

04:33:27.580 I mean, I don't care.

04:33:28.340 I think, but I do think that you like can have like a genuine relationship.

04:33:32.320 I think it depends.

04:33:33.880 Just like a guy.

04:33:34.600 It depends on a person.

04:33:35.240 Yeah.

04:33:35.600 But like very rarely.

04:33:37.000 Mm-hmm.

04:33:37.400 Yeah.

04:33:37.760 Does that happen?

04:33:38.480 Like my friend Dylan.

04:33:39.380 He's so nice.

04:33:41.460 He, he is really nice.

04:33:43.220 I love you.

04:33:44.120 This song is great.

04:33:45.060 Yeah.

04:33:45.940 For me, like for me personally, like I grew up with older brothers, so it's easy for me

04:33:51.100 to like bro a guy.

04:33:53.360 Mm-hmm.

04:33:53.600 You know what I mean?

04:33:53.920 To what a guy?

04:33:54.580 To call him like a brother or bro him.

04:33:56.240 Oh, okay.

04:33:56.680 Sure.

04:33:56.900 So there wouldn't be any romantic.

04:33:59.400 Yeah.

04:34:00.540 Okay.

04:34:01.240 We have to wrap up the show, guys.

04:34:03.740 Dylan, you son of a...

04:34:05.200 Is he in the chat?

04:34:06.060 Dylan, a hostage?

04:34:08.840 I've just seen these little things.

04:34:10.180 He's just waiting for...

04:34:11.120 I love people.

04:34:11.740 He's waiting for the chat.

04:34:12.720 Hi, chat.

04:34:13.460 Yeah.

04:34:13.660 He used to like be with girls and stuff like that, but he has like a whole story and I

04:34:17.820 love stories about like dating because it's so interesting.

04:34:20.760 Like it was just a whole thing.

04:34:21.520 Like she had like a whole boyfriend.

04:34:23.360 Like it was just a whole thing.

04:34:24.080 He didn't know about it.

04:34:25.140 Like it was a whole thing.

04:34:26.480 Anyways, I love the chat.

04:34:28.860 I love the main comments about like the shower.

04:34:30.900 Only if we take a shower together.

04:34:33.940 Word.

04:34:34.500 Okay, guys.

04:34:35.040 Last call.

04:34:36.140 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

04:34:38.860 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

04:34:39.740 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you were here with me.

04:34:43.060 I appreciate that.

04:34:43.700 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

04:34:47.280 Nice video 2020.

04:34:48.480 I see you.

04:34:50.380 Amber, marry me.

04:34:52.020 James.

04:34:52.880 Why would I do that?

04:34:54.020 Okay.

04:34:55.300 Thank you to the panel, those of you who showed up.

04:34:58.480 Thank you to our chat mods.

04:35:00.360 No, actually.

04:35:00.840 Thank you to Britt, who is helping with timestamps.

04:35:04.720 Any women who want to be on the show, DM at whatever.

04:35:07.860 Any women who are considering a labia place to eat, my DMs are open.

04:35:10.920 I'll convince you as part of my nonprofit organization, Big Labia Matter, to, you know, not.

04:35:17.160 Are you considering?

04:35:18.600 What?

04:35:19.800 A labia place to eat?

04:35:21.160 I'm just, like, cheering you on.

04:35:23.120 Oh, I thought you said me.

04:35:26.360 Yes.

04:35:27.080 I don't know what that means, but yes.

04:35:29.080 You don't know what a labia place is?

04:35:31.580 No.

04:35:32.800 Let's look up pictures.

04:35:33.720 I'm kidding.

04:35:34.060 Okay.

04:35:34.300 No, I'm not going to do that.

04:35:35.420 No, let's not.

04:35:37.100 Actually, I don't want to do any more of that.

04:35:38.740 Yo, guys.

04:35:39.460 So, the schedule for this week is...

04:35:41.280 Oh, my God.

04:35:41.660 No, my body count is not over 30, guys.

04:35:43.180 Oh, body count.

04:35:43.840 Okay.

04:35:44.140 What's your body count?

04:35:44.940 Go.

04:35:45.260 Three.

04:35:47.380 Stop the cap.

04:35:48.260 Okay, I grew up Christian.

04:35:50.720 I only had...

04:35:51.880 Three.

04:35:52.040 My first boyfriend, I never did anything because then, like, it was Christian.

04:35:54.800 Like, we were, like, actually.

04:35:55.800 And then the second one, I didn't really do anything, like, because I was still, like,

04:36:00.880 a Christian.

04:36:01.220 And then the third one, like, the third boyfriend that I had, I did do stuff with.

04:36:04.580 And then...

04:36:05.320 Wait.

04:36:05.720 If you count oral sex, what...

04:36:07.240 Does that change things?

04:36:09.140 No.

04:36:09.900 Because I've only had, like, four boyfriends.

04:36:11.920 Still three?

04:36:12.820 Yeah.

04:36:14.100 I've only had four boyfriends.

04:36:14.760 How many...

04:36:15.080 Shower count?

04:36:16.100 Yeah.

04:36:16.520 What's your shower count?

04:36:17.280 Hey, what's my shower count?

04:36:18.360 I was about to ask that.

04:36:19.120 Okay.

04:36:19.340 Okay.

04:36:19.740 My shower count is two.

04:36:23.440 Okay.

04:36:24.040 All right.

04:36:25.800 Body count?

04:36:26.920 Zero.

04:36:27.620 Zero?

04:36:29.480 Next.

04:36:30.540 I'm going to be honest with you.

04:36:31.980 Like...

04:36:32.620 Be honest.

04:36:34.700 I don't really count that.

04:36:37.320 Like, I'd have to sit down and, like...

04:36:38.780 But it wouldn't take me long.

04:36:40.000 But, I mean...

04:36:40.620 Let's count.

04:36:41.320 We've got time.

04:36:41.900 Bro.

04:36:42.140 Sort of.

04:36:42.420 Are you counting?

04:36:47.320 I'm thinking.

04:36:47.900 I'm literally thinking.

04:36:49.660 I'm being honest here.

04:36:51.140 It's fine.

04:36:51.800 Take your time.

04:36:52.540 I have six.

04:36:53.980 That...

04:36:54.540 Think about it.

04:36:56.680 I lost my virginity when I was 18.

04:36:59.000 I was with a guy for three years.

04:37:00.740 So, it makes sense.

04:37:03.140 Wait.

04:37:04.260 How old are you?

04:37:05.740 We broke up when I was 22.

04:37:07.420 I'm 26 now.

04:37:09.460 And then I was in...

04:37:10.740 26.

04:37:11.300 I don't entertain a lot of men.

04:37:15.020 I don't have the time.

04:37:16.340 All right.

04:37:17.020 Okay.

04:37:17.320 All I care about is video games.

04:37:18.760 Six?

04:37:19.980 You look good.

04:37:21.140 You said you had a count, though.

04:37:23.040 I don't know.

04:37:23.540 Yeah, because I don't, like, think,

04:37:24.540 Hey, I fucked this guy tonight.

04:37:25.740 Let me add it to my list.

04:37:26.640 Like, you know how some...

04:37:27.380 Like, you know what I mean?

04:37:28.080 Multiply by three.

04:37:28.900 Whoa.

04:37:29.240 What the fuck?

04:37:30.040 Multiply by three.

04:37:31.000 And that's the real number.

04:37:31.680 Multiply by three.

04:37:33.580 Okay.

04:37:35.240 Sydney Watson.

04:37:36.560 Okay.

04:37:36.800 Can we zoom in on her?

04:37:40.580 Meow.

04:37:42.440 100.

04:37:44.020 Oh, my God.

04:37:45.180 Sydney.

04:37:46.180 Dr. Sydney Watson.

04:37:47.500 You have...

04:37:49.180 Triple digits.

04:37:50.360 Had quite...

04:37:50.860 Quite a...

04:37:53.180 Quite a life.

04:37:55.440 Could she see?

04:37:56.040 She has, like, hair all over her eyes.

04:37:58.460 She does that to hide her shame.

04:38:00.720 Okay.

04:38:00.980 Morgan, what about you?

04:38:01.920 I stand by what I said last podcast, and I'm not going to share, and I think, and I'm not

04:38:07.800 disclosing, but I do think that body count is something that should be discussed in a

04:38:11.440 serious relationship because it does matter, which is why I don't share.

04:38:15.340 Okay.

04:38:17.360 Madison.

04:38:18.860 Eight.

04:38:20.320 What?

04:38:22.180 She said eight.

04:38:23.960 Eight.

04:38:24.140 Sorry, I'm all bit hard of hearing.

04:38:25.360 Okay.

04:38:25.920 There you have it, folks.

04:38:26.860 Okay.

04:38:27.900 Good times.

04:38:29.000 Good times.

04:38:29.480 See, guys, but I've...

04:38:32.700 I gotta...

04:38:33.320 I gotta come in here in Madison's defense, right?

04:38:38.100 Oh, are you defending me now?

04:38:39.060 She has, despite her sordid...

04:38:42.760 I'm kidding.

04:38:43.560 Her sordid past...

04:38:45.360 Just kidding, Madison.

04:38:45.960 James.

04:38:47.800 She has turned a new leaf.

04:38:51.020 I have.

04:38:51.680 She has been in a long-term relationship with Franklin.

04:38:56.800 Wait, what's...

04:38:57.680 Is it short for Franklin?

04:38:58.960 His name?

04:38:59.660 No, his name on, like...

04:39:02.020 His name is just Frankie, not even Frank.

04:39:03.680 It's just Frankie.

04:39:05.420 Yay!

04:39:06.020 She is committed to Frankie.

04:39:08.220 She has seen the light.

04:39:13.120 Yes.

04:39:13.560 She is on a new path of righteousness and...

04:39:18.780 Let's do it.

04:39:21.020 Dignity and grace.

04:39:23.380 Appreciate you, Nick.

04:39:24.260 Okay.

04:39:27.000 Okay.

04:39:28.020 As far as me, as a man of God, I do not share my body count.

04:39:31.680 Okay.

04:39:32.140 All right, guys.

04:39:32.900 Wow.

04:39:32.980 It's like that?

04:39:34.100 Damn.

04:39:34.440 So, the schedule for next week, the schedule for next week, or sorry, this week, we are

04:39:40.980 doing a show on Thursday and Tuesday.

04:39:44.160 So, we're doing three shows this week.

04:39:46.660 Tuesday is 5 p.m., assuming we don't have any hiccups with our pre-show.

04:39:52.300 So, should be live at 5 p.m.

04:39:54.480 I know we started late today.

04:39:55.640 Although, lately, guys, I don't know if you...

04:39:57.480 We've been pretty good with starting, like, pretty much on time for, what, the past month

04:40:02.800 or two, I think.

04:40:03.860 It's been really consistent with starting on...

04:40:07.640 You know, we used to be, like, 10, 15, 20, 30 minutes late a lot of time.

04:40:11.420 But now, we're pretty good with it.

04:40:12.860 So, Tuesday, 5 p.m.

04:40:15.940 Thursday, we're going to do 7 p.m.

04:40:18.640 Thursday show, we have a very, very, very special guest coming.

04:40:23.060 Very big guest coming.

04:40:25.100 Arguably, our biggest guest ever.

04:40:28.000 No way.

04:40:28.600 Potentially.

04:40:29.600 I don't want to reveal it because, I don't know, I don't want anything to throw up, you

04:40:34.900 know, somehow interfere with that.

04:40:37.560 But, be sure to tune in Tuesday, tune in Thursday.

04:40:40.280 We'll see you then.

04:40:41.080 Guys, we will see you next time.

04:40:42.480 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

04:40:43.520 Good night, guys.

04:40:45.060 And, uh...

04:40:45.620 Bye.

04:40:46.020 Good night.

04:40:46.340 Bye, guys.

04:40:47.980 Bye.

04:40:48.580 Bye.

Whatever Podcast - September 04, 2023

She Is ＂Single＂ But STILL Hooks Up With Her TOXIC Ex？! ｜ Dating Talk #96

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