Whatever Podcast - She SCAMS Men ($250,000)？! 52 Year Old Single Mom WILL NOT SETTLE (Wants Man Who Makes $500,000 Per Year)？! ｜ Dating Talk #188

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00:03:24.020 Uh, Jasmine, 26, Thousand Oaks, California, and I'm a stay-at-home girlfriend.

00:03:29.380 Okay. And ex-what, though? Oh, yeah. Um, I used to be a stripper and scammer.

00:03:36.460 Stripper and scammer. Yeah. Okay. What, so what is, uh, what's a scammer?

00:03:41.500 Well, I just feel like when, uh, because stripping is, like, part of sex work, and so when you're,

00:03:47.500 like, scamming people, you're just telling them, you know, you're going to get something that you're

00:03:51.200 not going to get. Because I wouldn't bring down my, like, self-morals. I mean, obviously,

00:03:56.380 I didn't have the best morals at that time, but I wouldn't bring down my morals lower to, um,

00:04:00.660 get money. I would just rather lie to them. So, what would you lie about? Um, I honestly

00:04:08.340 wouldn't ever say anything, because when you work in a strip club, you can't say you're going to do

00:04:12.920 explicit things. I would just kind of either, like, agree with whatever they were asking, or just,

00:04:18.420 you know, like, yeah, we're going to have fun. Like, you know, I wouldn't, um. So, what's the scam,

00:04:23.380 though? They, yeah, they would think they were going to have sex, or, like, sexual interactions

00:04:28.860 with me that just weren't going to happen. So, because that's, like, why most men go to strip 0.92

00:04:34.840 clubs. So, they would. Yeah, so there's, um, this is often the case, you can correct me if I'm wrong,

00:04:40.820 but, uh, many strippers engage in backroom prostitution. Is that correct? A thousand percent 1.00

00:04:45.800 correct, yeah. Yeah, a thousand percent correct. And there is coded language, which is used between

00:04:50.160 the club goers and the strippers. And I'm sure that you knew what that coded language was, right?

00:04:56.720 And so, when they would use the coded language, you would take them back, and then that's when you

00:05:00.620 would just not deliver. Pretty much. Um, they're, honestly, a lot of, like, regular customers don't

00:05:07.260 have a coded language. They just blatantly say, like, I want this. Like, are you going to perform

00:05:12.060 this, you know? Um, my managers knew that I would lie, because they, they didn't care. I would make a lot

00:05:18.280 of money, um, for the club and for myself. So, sometimes if they didn't like customers, you

00:05:24.680 know, they've given them hard times, they'd send them my way and let me scam them.

00:05:31.500 And so, but I imagine, so the customers would give you money with expectation of X.

00:05:38.380 So, they'd pay the club, like, whatever the dance was to get, like, the private room.

00:05:42.460 And then, when we'd go in, I'd ask for my tip first. And then, I would figure out how

00:05:48.080 to entertain them for 15 minutes without doing what they want. Or anything, really.

00:05:53.340 But would they ever overtly request?

00:05:55.860 Oh, yeah. Yeah, they'd try.

00:05:57.640 And you would agree?

00:05:58.920 No.

00:05:59.600 Oh.

00:06:00.160 I wouldn't agree. I wouldn't do anything.

00:06:01.080 So, but what's the scam, then?

00:06:02.460 That I'm getting their money for not doing anything they want. They are getting scammed.

00:06:07.560 into believing that they're going to get something met. They're paying for something.

00:06:13.020 But so, they say, I want a, I want a BJ.

00:06:16.340 Yeah, and I'm just like, we're going to go back there and have fun. And it wouldn't happen.

00:06:22.680 So, when you went, when you took them into the back room and they were under the impression 0.97

00:06:25.980 that they were going to, let's say in this case, get a blowjob, let's say, did they pay 0.97

00:06:33.080 you up front for what they thought would be the sexual favor? 0.99

00:06:36.160 Yeah, pretty much.

00:06:38.200 They would give me my tip. And then I would just, like, not do anything.

00:06:43.620 And how much would you charge them for these favors they thought they were going to get?

00:06:47.260 I honestly didn't charge. I would just, like, if it looked like someone that was going to

00:06:52.120 be difficult, it'd ask for, like, more. They usually had, like, something that they'd offer,

00:06:57.940 like, 200. Like, some girls are in there doing stuff for, like, $50. So, you have to, 1.00

00:07:03.940 like, really be, and it's usually those customers that would be aggressive. Like, I've had customers

00:07:09.640 push me into walls. Because, again, like, they do get mad. They go to, like, the manager

00:07:16.460 and complain. And at the end of the day, there's really nothing that they can do if, you know,

00:07:22.020 I just hold my story. Like, I didn't agree to anything. I just were going to have fun.

00:07:28.980 But, I mean, you seem to acknowledge yourself that there's a scam component here.

00:07:33.400 Yeah. But I wasn't going to scam myself out of my own morals and, like, dignity of

00:07:37.500 giving a stranger a blowjob or sexual favors. 0.99

00:07:45.160 So, okay. Were there, was there, aside from, like, what you were doing in the strip club, 0.99

00:07:51.380 was there any other sort of scamming stuff?

00:07:53.500 Yeah. I had a fake fiance for, like, two years. I met him at the strip club.

00:07:58.380 What do you, how did that play out?

00:08:00.040 Um, I worked at, like, a bigger club in LA, which is, like, a, it's a, like, topless bar. So,

00:08:06.540 they have, they serve alcohol and they have, like, sell sections and stuff. I met him there

00:08:12.260 and he invited me to a Dodger game. So, I said, sure. And then we went on another date. And then

00:08:16.740 from there on, he just, um, he knew he wasn't going to get sex out of me because I was, at the

00:08:22.300 time, abstinent. And so, he just started spending a bunch of money thinking that he was going to get

00:08:27.980 eventually sex out of me. And then he proposed to me on the other 3rd.

00:08:32.100 Bigoted Ben donated $69. Q4 panel, what does dismantling whiteness mean to you and how important 0.79

00:08:39.640 is it?

00:08:41.540 Well, I mean...

00:08:43.980 We're still in introductions. Maybe we'll, uh, we'll get back to this one bigoted Ben.

00:08:50.460 Yeah, we'll have to save it for later. Um, so, wait, the fake fiance, so is he just,

00:08:55.140 like, giving you money and stuff?

00:08:56.140 Yeah, he was paying my rent. Um, I would, we would go out all the time, go shopping, go,

00:09:05.380 yeah, pretty much, like, anything I asked for money-wise, I would make sure that, like,

00:09:09.320 he gave it to me. Or sometimes even, like, I would send it to myself from his phone.

00:09:13.680 And he had no real problem with that.

00:09:16.700 Okay. And...

00:09:18.660 So, how much a month do you think he was spending on you?

00:09:22.900 Um, willingly, he was paying, like, $5,000 of my bills when I would just pay myself at

00:09:31.360 that time. I was probably making, like, $15,000-ish, like, $12,000 to $15,000 from doing that.

00:09:37.100 From scamming in total? Like, other dudes, too?

00:09:40.000 No, just him. Like, just from him, I would probably send myself, like, around $10,000, like, a month.

00:09:45.540 Wait, you said willingly?

00:09:46.340 Willingly? Willingly, he was sending me my rent, my bills.

00:09:49.760 What was he sending you unwillingly?

00:09:52.440 Like, we would go out, and I would send myself money from his phone, and at the end of the day,

00:09:56.280 he wouldn't care. He'd be like, okay. Like, just make sure you spend it on something you, like,

00:10:00.820 need to pay for.

00:10:02.520 But he knew that you were doing this?

00:10:04.820 Uh, most of the time he was, like, drunk.

00:10:07.080 So you'd open up his phone, go into your Venmo, cash app?

00:10:10.320 Apple Pay.

00:10:11.280 And you would just send yourself?

00:10:12.540 Yeah.

00:10:12.980 Okay.

00:10:14.460 Yeah, I was at a really low place in this time in life.

00:10:18.080 Did you, you were in a low place?

00:10:20.300 Yeah.

00:10:22.460 And wait, so, how old was this guy?

00:10:25.960 52.

00:10:27.040 Okay, how old were you?

00:10:28.760 I was, I met him when I was 23.

00:10:31.120 Okay.

00:10:32.120 So I stopped talking to him probably, like, a little bit earlier this year.

00:10:37.680 And you, but you've now become a Christian?

00:10:39.340 Um, I've been a Christian for a while.

00:10:42.580 I was just, like, super lukewarm.

00:10:44.900 Um, because I was, like, dancing and trying to survive.

00:10:48.400 So, um, my means of, like, taking money from him was, like, I don't have to be at the strip

00:10:54.340 club and deal with all of that.

00:10:56.620 So, yeah.

00:10:59.240 And so, uh, but now you're a bit more serious about your faith?

00:11:07.420 Well, I got baptized last year, and it's not more about being serious.

00:11:10.960 I think it's just the fact that not everyone is going to come to God.

00:11:15.780 Like, it's not easy to just leave that lifestyle behind.

00:11:19.200 Because I started dancing when I was 20.

00:11:21.160 So it's, like, you have to realize, like, that's, like, a long time of being involved

00:11:24.980 in that lifestyle and getting used to it.

00:11:26.660 The fast money is, like, something really hard to let go of.

00:11:30.320 And wait, so, but now, do you regret some of the past, the scamming?

00:11:37.700 Um, I feel bad for what I did to him, particularly, because I probably took over, like, $250,000

00:11:46.500 from him in the time that I was with him.

00:11:49.540 Like, he paid for me to get, um, plastic surgery, like, my breast done, liposuction.

00:11:54.880 And I wish I never got those procedures.

00:11:58.540 Um, he also got me a car in his name.

00:12:04.780 Like, yeah, I regret what I did to him personally.

00:12:07.220 But at the same time, like, I was in a place where I was being very selfish.

00:12:11.900 And I don't regret it, because I've learned that, like, a lot of those trials, like, I

00:12:17.120 feel like God was bringing me through to be where I am now, to understand girls that were

00:12:20.820 in my position or currently in it.

00:12:22.540 And God, just to be clear, God was bringing you through the liposuction and fake breasts 1.00

00:12:29.620 and the...

00:12:30.220 That was a me thing.

00:12:31.160 That wasn't God that...

00:12:32.080 Oh, okay.

00:12:32.400 God didn't tell me to do that.

00:12:33.820 It was more of, like, a me thing, because I was insecure.

00:12:36.680 And so, any of this money that you accrued from him, have you returned anything?

00:12:42.520 It's gone.

00:12:42.540 It's gone.

00:12:44.380 Fast money is, leaves you faster than it comes.

00:12:47.240 Right, but, I mean, you, you, look, you say some of the money he willingly gave you.

00:12:51.740 No, he didn't get anything back.

00:12:53.400 Huh?

00:12:53.740 He didn't get anything back.

00:12:54.220 Right, but perhaps that might not necessarily be so subject to return.

00:12:59.000 But, I mean, the money that you essentially stole from him, or you said you'd go into his

00:13:03.120 phone, Apple Pay, whatever.

00:13:05.920 You spent that money, but you did take it from him.

00:13:09.200 So, for example, if you were to come into money of your own, would you consider giving

00:13:14.940 him back some money?

00:13:17.400 When we, like, ended whatever the relationship was, I, like, he still was trying to give

00:13:23.600 me money to, like, stick around.

00:13:26.040 God donated $69.

00:13:28.860 Whoa.

00:13:29.700 Don't blame me for this.

00:13:31.340 Oh, okay.

00:13:32.100 Do you have a response to God?

00:13:35.460 What do you mean?

00:13:36.540 That guy.

00:13:38.720 Don't blame me for that.

00:13:39.880 Ugh.

00:13:39.980 No, that's not God.

00:13:42.900 Okay.

00:13:43.740 You said towards the end of your relationship, he was still trying to give you money?

00:13:48.540 Yeah.

00:13:49.600 Okay.

00:13:51.560 Well, putting that aside, even granting you that the money that he was willingly trying

00:13:55.660 to give you was fine, you did admit to taking money from him unwillingly.

00:13:59.920 Yeah, and he knows that.

00:14:01.120 Huh?

00:14:01.440 He knows that.

00:14:02.000 Like, he realized everything, like, towards the end, and he was still, like, I want you

00:14:07.400 to be in my life.

00:14:07.980 I want to get money.

00:14:09.420 So.

00:14:10.140 Metro Matt donated $69.

00:14:13.060 What liposuction?

00:14:14.820 It appears you don't just lie about your body count.

00:14:18.240 I think I'm going to talk about my body count.

00:14:19.680 Okay.

00:14:20.300 Thank you, Matt.

00:14:22.260 Well, so, perhaps he has forgiven you or accepted that you stole the money, but don't

00:14:27.800 you feel some duty to just pay him back regardless?

00:14:29.920 Honestly, the last conversation we had, I felt as if, like, because he was, like, you

00:14:39.560 should just stay with me, and I'll give you, like, the life you deserve, the life you want.

00:14:43.860 I very much felt like that was, granted, the enemy or, like, the devil, whatever you

00:14:51.120 guys want to call it, trying to drag me back into that lifestyle, because that was, like,

00:14:54.260 the last thing I was holding on to from just being in that, like, area of life.

00:14:59.920 Okay.

00:15:02.180 Wait, wait, wait, wait, hang on, back up.

00:15:04.620 What?

00:15:05.440 So, let me get this right.

00:15:07.880 You knew that you were never going to actually be with this person.

00:15:11.940 You knew that you were in a fake effianced relationship with him.

00:15:16.080 Is that correct?

00:15:17.460 Yeah.

00:15:17.760 And so, you stole $250,000 from him.

00:15:22.220 What Brian is looking for is he's looking to see if you hold any accountability for that.

00:15:27.820 How much of that is your fault?

00:15:30.060 Isn't it 100% your fault?

00:15:32.520 Wasn't he a victim of you?

00:15:34.760 In total, that's how much I got out of him.

00:15:37.820 That's not how much I took from him.

00:15:39.160 And so, that's, like, also...

00:15:41.420 Yes, but hang on, hang on.

00:15:42.840 If the entirety of the relationship from a person who you were falsely engaged to was

00:15:48.840 done under false pretenses, then everything in which he spent and that you took under

00:15:53.800 false pretenses would be theft.

00:15:55.800 I think we can also...

00:15:56.740 It's a fair point.

00:15:57.280 Yeah, it is.

00:15:58.140 It's a very fair point.

00:15:59.520 But I also think, like, if we look at it from another standpoint, when I was in that time

00:16:05.100 of life, I was also looking at it as he's willingly spending all this money in the hopes 0.84

00:16:09.760 of having sex with me. 0.89

00:16:11.620 Because that was the end goal, to get married to a theft act. 1.00

00:16:14.220 Well, yeah, you told him that you wanted to be his wife.

00:16:17.620 I didn't tell him that.

00:16:18.500 Of course he had...

00:16:19.000 He proposed to me.

00:16:20.520 Did you say yes?

00:16:21.640 Throw me a donated $69.

00:16:23.900 The IRS should have forensic accountants assigned to the watching of these podcasts. 0.98

00:16:30.040 Thank you, Metro Matt, for a gifted five.

00:16:32.520 Yo, JJ, appreciate it, man.

00:16:34.200 Did you say yes?

00:16:35.480 Did you accept the ring?

00:16:38.120 No, the ring was given to me, like, out of him...

00:16:41.640 He had talked to somebody in, like, Columbia, and I, like, saw it in his phone, and I, like,

00:16:47.880 fake got mad, and so he was like, here's a ring, like, I want you to marry me.

00:16:51.300 Because he had asked me drunkenly at a restaurant, and I was like, sure, you just spent, like,

00:16:55.780 $4,000 taking me shopping, yeah, if you want to marry me, okay?

00:16:58.940 I didn't want to make calls a scene.

00:17:01.060 But so you proposed to him.

00:17:02.200 Yeah.

00:17:02.900 And you said yes.

00:17:04.060 Yeah.

00:17:04.380 So then, okay, so then, listen, if you say, this guy, though, he just was spending money 0.81

00:17:11.680 on me because he wanted to have sex with me, he proposed to you, and you said yes, if that

00:17:18.120 is the case, isn't his expectation that everything he's spending on you, or that you're spending

00:17:23.100 on yourself, is from what is to be his future bride, why shouldn't he have the expectation

00:17:28.940 of sex?

00:17:29.880 Isn't that you being hyper-predatory?

00:17:32.840 Yeah, I was.

00:17:34.340 Yeah, so this is, how could this not be 100% your fault?

00:17:38.340 Because he was a willing participant, like, there was a lot of times we'd break up, I'd

00:17:43.000 tell him, like, straight up, like, I don't want to marry you, I, you met me at a strip

00:17:47.240 club, like, add this up in your head, like, this is not real, and he would very, like, much

00:17:52.480 just act completely confused to it.

00:17:55.620 Thank you, JJ.

00:17:56.180 Giovanni Jade, you donated $69.

00:17:59.200 You say you're Christian, then you are commanded by Christ to perform restitution, return all your 1.00

00:18:05.660 sinfully gained money, or be anathema, you won't, heretic Jezebel. 0.99

00:18:10.620 Do you want to respond to Giovanni here?

00:18:14.960 I, you know, when someone's willingly still trying to participate in something that you've

00:18:20.440 told them what it is, and they know exactly what it is, and they're still offering you

00:18:26.000 money at that point, they're being a willing participant into it, like, at that point, what

00:18:31.440 do you, what do you do?

00:18:33.520 Well, so, let me give a, let me give a slight response here, because I think that this is 0.91

00:18:39.080 kind of silly.

00:18:40.200 Let us assume for a second that I were in, in some way taking advantage of a woman, where

00:18:48.600 this woman had a lot of cash, okay, and I was telling her consistently that I wanted to 0.81

00:18:55.180 be with her.

00:18:55.680 I had even told her that I would marry her, and I was taking advantage of her over the 0.99

00:19:01.020 span of multiple years.

00:19:03.260 If that woman became highly attached to me, of course she would become highly attached to 0.99

00:19:08.820 me, right?

00:19:09.260 I had essentially been playing into this delusion for the point of monetary gain.

00:19:14.600 That's what I had been doing, right?

00:19:16.300 So, the attachment would not ordinarily be there if I had said no, but instead I had played

00:19:22.680 into it for the purposes of basically monetary gain.

00:19:27.040 That is not the same as a person willingly participating.

00:19:31.140 That is a person being strung along and a person being essentially lied to.

00:19:37.840 Well, there was, like I said, many instances where I told him what it was, and he even, like,

00:19:42.600 kind of figured it out a lot of the times, like, what it was.

00:19:46.500 He just played dumb to it to continue, like, the relationship, whatever it was.

00:19:53.720 He, at some point... 0.98

00:19:54.740 Well, yeah, he had formed an attachment, right?

00:19:57.020 So, he had formed an attachment with you because you had told him that you wanted to marry him,

00:20:02.280 right?

00:20:03.060 So, he formed this attachment with you, and he was doing everything he could to reconcile

00:20:06.880 a relationship with his fiancée.

00:20:09.380 Like, like, of course, of course that's what he would do.

00:20:12.400 Like, there wouldn't...

00:20:12.920 Doesn't that make sense?

00:20:16.020 I mean, yeah, I guess I totally understand where you're coming from, and it's not wrong

00:20:20.360 what you're saying, but, I mean, at the end of the day...

00:20:22.140 Well, then I still...

00:20:22.900 Then I don't understand how you're not...

00:20:24.800 You're 100% responsible for this situation.

00:20:27.880 You made it yourself.

00:20:28.960 Yeah, I was.

00:20:29.480 I totally played a part in it.

00:20:31.560 I mean, I played a huge role in that.

00:20:34.980 But I lied about a lot of stuff to him, but at the same time, it's like, the times that

00:20:40.360 I did come clean to him, and I was like, look, I don't want to do this anymore.

00:20:43.620 He had...

00:20:44.620 You know, and I told him straight up what it was.

00:20:46.240 I'm like, I don't want...

00:20:47.680 Yeah, but you're still using this caveat where, after I had started to come clean to him

00:20:53.360 about the fact that these were mostly lies that I had told him this type of thing, at

00:20:58.300 that point, the man had an attachment.

00:21:00.800 He had an attachment which had formed around you based around your lies.

00:21:04.640 And so, of course, he had...

00:21:06.100 This attachment never would have existed, though, absent your lies.

00:21:09.460 He's still being victimized, even if he's trying to reconcile the relationship, he's still

00:21:15.520 being victimized by even trying to reconcile it, because he has an attachment which would

00:21:20.400 not be there if not for your lies.

00:21:23.020 Well, I...

00:21:25.020 He, you know, had multiple other women that he was, like, giving money to, so I don't

00:21:29.980 see it completely as, like, I was...

00:21:33.260 He has a problem.

00:21:34.840 He deals with, like, alcoholism and...

00:21:36.220 Well, you know, it's really weird that suddenly he has multiple other...

00:21:38.640 Lusting over women in that way.

00:21:40.660 Okay, well, suddenly it's really weird.

00:21:42.200 He didn't mention anything about other women that he was sending money to.

00:21:44.740 I did.

00:21:45.120 I said he was talking to someone in Columbia that I found out about.

00:21:48.900 Okay.

00:21:49.260 Well, the thing is, is I think that if you string a person along and they become attached

00:21:56.560 to you based around a set of lies, that even if they want to stay with you after they figure

00:22:03.280 out that these are lies, in many ways, they're still being victimized.

00:22:06.400 Wouldn't you agree?

00:22:07.620 Yeah.

00:22:08.620 Yeah.

00:22:08.880 I agree with that.

00:22:09.380 So, I just...

00:22:10.220 I don't see how the accountability here really just isn't on your shoulders, to be honest with

00:22:14.580 you.

00:22:14.700 Um, I think that...

00:22:19.140 Are you a Christian?

00:22:21.440 I am, yeah.

00:22:22.280 Yeah?

00:22:23.120 Well, I think then you know...

00:22:25.060 What denomination are you, by the way?

00:22:26.820 Are you non-denominational?

00:22:28.560 Well, I honestly don't know what, like, denominations are.

00:22:31.000 I just know I have a really good relationship with them.

00:22:33.120 Yeah, did you get baptized?

00:22:34.360 I am donated $69.

00:22:36.800 Stop justifying your lies.

00:22:39.180 You took advantage of the man.

00:22:41.560 You owe him the dollar back in the IRS should death look into this.

00:22:45.500 Did you get baptized at the St. Baptist, by chance?

00:22:50.020 No.

00:22:50.660 I got...

00:22:51.060 No?

00:22:51.320 No.

00:22:51.700 I don't know what a denomination my church is.

00:22:54.680 I just know it's, like, a Christian church.

00:22:56.820 What's it called?

00:22:57.960 Well, yeah, okay, don't tell me what it's called, I guess.

00:23:00.120 Never mind.

00:23:00.640 I don't want you to dox yourself.

00:23:01.640 I'm just...

00:23:02.680 Sometimes, just by the name of the church, I can figure out the denominations why I ask.

00:23:06.840 So, in any case, I guess, regardless of your denomination, yes, I'm a Christian.

00:23:13.060 I'm not exactly sure where you're going with that.

00:23:15.760 So, my question was, like, so, you know that, obviously, this world is not made perfectly in God's image.

00:23:23.080 And you know that we are tempted daily.

00:23:26.940 And we, even the best Christians, we all sin.

00:23:29.380 Even if it's not, like, as bad a sin as I was living in.

00:23:33.400 But we all do.

00:23:35.020 I'm sure you've sinned, like, at least three times this past week.

00:23:37.680 And it's not something that you feel that you...

00:23:39.880 I sinned three times today.

00:23:41.540 Exactly.

00:23:42.080 That's what I'm saying.

00:23:42.860 So...

00:23:43.180 But I don't understand what the point is here.

00:23:45.340 Okay, let me get to the point, please.

00:23:46.900 Okay.

00:23:47.180 So, my thing is, is that, yes, what I was doing was wrong.

00:23:51.760 And I was not fully...

00:23:54.140 I had not fully came to Christ and tried to live my life by him yet.

00:23:58.900 I was still very much living for the world.

00:24:00.940 I was still very much living by this, like, societal image of, like...

00:24:06.120 I didn't like being called a city girl, but obviously that lifestyle of, like, take it, spend it.

00:24:11.440 I want to look, like, live this, like, luxury lifestyle that it's all over social media.

00:24:17.260 Like, I was 23, 24 at the time, and I was trying to just, you know, live my best life.

00:24:23.080 I wasn't living with Christ.

00:24:26.140 Yes, but do you understand that the point of Christianity is the salvation of Jesus Christ due to his sacrifice for your sins?

00:24:33.920 Yeah.

00:24:34.120 And that it's through Jesus Christ from which you were saved.

00:24:36.940 Your sins can be washed away, but the material stain that you leave behind on the world, you're still responsible for the things that you have done.

00:24:45.000 Christianity is not a form of salvation, which then states that all wrongs that you've done now are also washed away.

00:24:54.560 And I'm not saying...

00:24:55.440 In this material world, the non-metaphysical world, right, you have wronged this person horribly.

00:25:02.520 That's why the chat is asking how you plan to compensate for that.

00:25:06.940 Just saying that you have been saved, right, is...

00:25:10.060 I don't understand how that somehow alleviates the burden of responsibility that you have.

00:25:14.680 Well, yeah.

00:25:15.020 I mean, we're also talking about, like, a two-year-long relationship I had with this man.

00:25:19.540 Like, I totaled a car due to him, so that was, like, $50,000 of my own money.

00:25:24.500 Like, it was my car that I bought before I met him.

00:25:26.420 Gone.

00:25:27.600 Wait, how's that his fault?

00:25:29.600 He was drunk driving my car.

00:25:31.820 Oh, he was driving the car?

00:25:33.020 Yeah.

00:25:33.340 I thought you said you totaled it.

00:25:34.400 Well, I took fault for it, because I just wasn't going to make him get a DUI.

00:25:39.340 So you got the DUI?

00:25:40.500 No, I didn't get a DUI.

00:25:41.840 But I wasn't drunk.

00:25:43.800 If...

00:25:44.240 Do you...

00:25:44.960 Like, yeah.

00:25:45.440 So there's a lot of things.

00:25:48.320 Just...

00:25:48.760 Okay.

00:25:49.320 Yeah.

00:25:49.680 Insurance didn't take care of it?

00:25:51.340 He hit parked cars.

00:25:53.600 Okay.

00:25:54.420 So, yeah.

00:25:55.560 No.

00:25:56.100 Car gone.

00:25:56.640 Also got a car in his name, and it, like, he rebooted, because he ended up not wanting

00:26:02.100 to pay for it anymore.

00:26:03.080 Like, there's a lot of things that I know that I got my karma, if you want to say, or

00:26:07.440 just, like, the world gave me what I was owed in that relationship.

00:26:12.300 Like, I don't sit here and think that I'm, like, completely...

00:26:16.520 Well, karma is a non-Christian value, just so you know.

00:26:18.760 I know.

00:26:19.060 I'm just saying for, like, people that see it that way.

00:26:22.960 Ulysses, the pagan donated $200. 0.52

00:26:26.300 Thank you, man.

00:26:26.540 If this was gender reversed, the male would be vilified. 0.97

00:26:30.060 Funny, when it's the woman that does the victimization, it's still the man's fault for 0.75

00:26:34.260 being a sap. 0.95

00:26:35.320 Hey, pagan men. 0.99

00:26:36.120 Really appreciate it.

00:26:37.800 Let's...

00:26:38.400 We're going to have to get the other people's intros, but we can perhaps come back to this

00:26:41.260 in a little bit.

00:26:42.320 But we're there...

00:26:44.560 I mean, I'm assuming there are, like, other people that you scammed, too.

00:26:48.560 Like, it wasn't just one guy.

00:26:49.700 It was probably...

00:26:50.260 How many people do you think you scammed?

00:26:52.820 Um, honestly, just him.

00:26:56.140 I had a sugar...

00:26:56.680 Come on.

00:26:57.220 No, I had a sugar daddy when I was 20, but he just took me shopping, and he was, like,

00:27:01.480 more of a rich friend.

00:27:03.040 He didn't expect anything out of the, like, friendship.

00:27:06.700 But then there were the guys at the club.

00:27:08.500 Yeah.

00:27:08.740 You were scamming them.

00:27:09.680 Yeah.

00:27:10.100 Okay.

00:27:10.300 But they... 0.99

00:27:10.760 I feel like, you know, if you're a man going into a club trying to have sex with a woman

00:27:14.260 and you're willing to pay for it, like, at the time, I just felt like that's kind

00:27:18.600 of what they deserved.

00:27:19.300 Do you think prostitution should be legalized?

00:27:23.820 No.

00:27:26.460 Why?

00:27:26.860 Okay.

00:27:29.420 Well, I mean, you have your own objections to it, but, I mean, whether they deserve it

00:27:36.900 or not, I mean, so there's the, there's a civil and criminal component of fraud.

00:27:42.440 So, if you essentially agree, I'll do X for...

00:27:45.900 But that's the thing, is I never said I agreed.

00:27:48.480 I said, we're going to have fun.

00:27:49.660 You'll have a great time.

00:27:50.960 That's the thing, is, like, it's...

00:27:52.900 Right, but even you seem to acknowledge that this is a scam.

00:27:55.840 Yeah.

00:27:56.020 Like, you said, you said it's a scam.

00:27:57.320 So, there's some component of you knowing that that's their expectation and you're kind

00:28:03.160 of, like...

00:28:03.820 Have you ever been to a strip club?

00:28:06.800 I went once when I was 18, 19, something like that.

00:28:12.720 Okay, so just picture, like, the worst men that are going... 0.92

00:28:16.420 First of all, I assume you wouldn't have sex with the random girl that you met at a strip 0.99

00:28:20.200 club. 1.00

00:28:20.460 No, in fact, I didn't even spend any money, so you would have fucking hated me. 0.99

00:28:23.740 I just went. 0.97

00:28:24.260 No, I actually...

00:28:24.820 My friends trapped me.

00:28:26.320 I loved...

00:28:26.600 They're like, Brian, come.

00:28:27.600 I was like, eh.

00:28:28.840 Okay, I'll do it once.

00:28:29.440 I loved when people would just, like, have conversations like this.

00:28:30.980 I'll do it once.

00:28:32.400 Because it's, like...

00:28:33.140 It was terrible.

00:28:34.500 No offense. 0.54

00:28:35.160 No, I hate strip clubs. 0.99

00:28:37.100 Terrible. 0.89

00:28:37.120 Terrible.

00:28:37.620 I can't even go, like...

00:28:39.860 They almost kicked me out because I didn't spend any money.

00:28:41.880 Yeah, they're like that.

00:28:43.720 No, but I just...

00:28:44.940 I don't feel like they really deserve to get...

00:28:49.460 Like, it's...

00:28:49.880 I just feel like what they were going in was to do something wrong and dirty.

00:28:53.780 And obviously, the girls that... 1.00

00:28:55.340 If somebody breaks into your house and they steal your illegal drugs, you're still the

00:28:59.560 victim of a crime.

00:29:00.480 You realize that?

00:29:03.000 Okay.

00:29:04.120 But that's, like...

00:29:04.940 Do you know why that would be?

00:29:06.660 Because the interaction between the dealer and the person who bought the drugs was done

00:29:12.200 via consent.

00:29:14.920 So the person who got the drugs consented to it.

00:29:17.940 Then the person who sold the drugs consented to it.

00:29:19.920 Though it's a crime, it's not a crime of consent.

00:29:23.380 If you had those, then, illicit drugs at your home and a person broke in and stole them, you

00:29:27.780 could report those drugs stolen and they would still go to jail for a crime and they should

00:29:31.800 go to jail for a crime.

00:29:32.740 So just saying that these people were perhaps morally reprehensible does not mean that you

00:29:38.500 have license to then scam them.

00:29:40.460 It would still be criminal. 0.99

00:29:42.080 You can't defraud people just because you think that they're scumbags, right? 0.98

00:29:47.920 Again, I was in a very different place in my life at this time. 0.98

00:29:50.700 Well, anyways, we can come back to it if need be.

00:29:54.960 Guys, the TTS has been boosted.

00:29:56.620 TTS is now up to $200.

00:29:59.620 Ben, we'll read your $69 one that came through earlier once we get through all the intros.

00:30:07.300 So TTS is now $200, just FYI.

00:30:11.920 Name, age, location, occupation?

00:30:13.880 Hi.

00:30:14.320 Sorry, guys.

00:30:15.300 Yes.

00:30:15.660 My name is Asia.

00:30:16.480 I am 52 years old.

00:30:18.080 I live in Los Angeles and I am one of the hosts of the Glow Up Girls podcast and I'm

00:30:23.560 also in the beauty industry.

00:30:24.840 That's my day job.

00:30:26.140 All right.

00:30:27.140 Did you go to university or college or anything like that?

00:30:29.720 In Texas, yes.

00:30:30.860 University of Texas.

00:30:31.220 What did you study?

00:30:32.640 Communications.

00:30:33.860 Bachelor's, master's?

00:30:35.140 Bachelor's.

00:30:35.800 Okay.

00:30:36.780 And you've, before getting into the beauty industry, were you doing other kind of work?

00:30:41.820 I was an actress.

00:30:42.920 Okay.

00:30:43.640 And what do you do in the beauty industry?

00:30:45.120 I am a regional trainer for a big corporation.

00:30:51.100 Like hair, makeup?

00:30:53.040 Skin.

00:30:53.640 Skin.

00:30:54.100 Yeah.

00:30:55.080 The last 10 years I've been dealing with everything in the skin industry or skin care.

00:30:59.660 Oh, wait.

00:31:00.000 There's a, what was the one, the 69 that just came through?

00:31:02.480 I feel like I ought to read it just for, all right.

00:31:05.720 Hold on, dude.

00:31:06.820 It came through right at the end there.

00:31:08.800 Why don't you introduce yourself?

00:31:09.980 Go ahead.

00:31:10.640 Hello.

00:31:11.180 My name is Serena.

00:31:12.240 I'm 21 years old, from Monterey Park, and I am a manager at Topgolf.

00:31:17.800 All right.

00:31:19.040 Do you do content at all, or?

00:31:20.940 No, no content at all.

00:31:22.000 Okay.

00:31:22.560 All right.

00:31:22.960 What about you?

00:31:23.940 Hi.

00:31:24.440 I'm Christy.

00:31:25.160 I live in Chino Hills, California.

00:31:27.240 I'm a licensed esthetician, and I specialize in sugaring hair removal.

00:31:31.020 I'm also on the podcast with Asia, doing the Globe Girls.

00:31:36.600 And age?

00:31:39.540 53.

00:31:40.800 All right.

00:31:41.420 Welcome.

00:31:43.260 Any university, school?

00:31:46.100 I went to Pasadena City College, got my associates there, and then went to the trade school to learn esthetician.

00:31:51.600 Are you in school at all?

00:31:52.800 I am in school, yes.

00:31:54.040 What are you studying?

00:31:55.100 I'm right now studying business administration.

00:31:56.840 Okay.

00:31:57.420 What about you?

00:31:58.260 Hi.

00:31:58.700 I'm Lexi.

00:31:59.400 I'm 18.

00:32:00.640 I live in Santa Barbara, and I'm a student right now.

00:32:04.380 At the city college, or?

00:32:05.900 Yeah, city college.

00:32:06.320 What are you studying?

00:32:08.040 Justice studies.

00:32:09.200 Justice studies.

00:32:10.080 What's that?

00:32:11.140 I'm not really sure, but I want to be a lawyer, and I feel like it's a good background for when I transfer.

00:32:16.080 Got it.

00:32:16.760 And are you from Santa Barbara originally?

00:32:19.360 I grew up in Carpinteria, then I moved to Calabasas.

00:32:22.300 Okay.

00:32:22.780 Got it.

00:32:23.120 So you're going into your first year?

00:32:24.860 Yes.

00:32:25.860 Okay.

00:32:26.180 So you haven't taken any classes yet, so you don't.

00:32:28.400 No.

00:32:28.780 Justice.

00:32:29.540 Is that like social justice, or is that like criminal?

00:32:32.380 Yeah, it's like social and criminal.

00:32:34.460 I'm studying criminal for a semester.

00:32:37.900 Okay.

00:32:38.500 I see.

00:32:39.120 All right.

00:32:39.680 What about you?

00:32:40.320 My name's Claudia, but my friends call me Cece.

00:32:42.600 I am 20.

00:32:44.280 I'm going to be 21 soon, though, like in like 12 days.

00:32:47.020 And then I'm a pharmacy specialist, tech.

00:32:51.240 Okay.

00:32:51.560 Welcome back.

00:32:52.700 Welcome back.

00:32:53.560 I'm Morgan.

00:32:55.140 I'm 18.

00:32:55.780 I go to the City College studying political science.

00:32:59.440 All right.

00:33:01.360 I'm Maddie.

00:33:03.240 I'm 19.

00:33:04.560 I work on the podcast.

00:33:06.160 I'm also a student at City College.

00:33:08.960 Okay.

00:33:09.820 And then, Andrew, what about you?

00:33:12.480 My name is Andrew Wilson.

00:33:13.780 I'm the host of The Crucible.

00:33:15.660 It is, to my knowledge, the fastest growing debate channel on the internet.

00:33:18.980 Well, at least on YouTube.

00:33:22.000 I'm a political analyst, a political satirist, and I occasionally enjoy engaging in debates

00:33:27.020 from time to time.

00:33:28.500 All right.

00:33:29.140 Welcome, everybody.

00:33:30.020 I will read the 69 one that came through kind of right there on the cusp.

00:33:34.080 It was from Peacecraft.

00:33:36.220 Peacecraft says, I really want to know what these women think. 1.00

00:33:38.760 But before we do, I'd really like to ask them how they would feel if they didn't have

00:33:43.100 breakfast this morning.

00:33:45.040 Quick answer from all.

00:33:46.040 So, how would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?

00:33:49.160 I'd be exhausted right now.

00:33:51.200 I would be hangry.

00:33:52.760 I didn't have breakfast, but I feel great.

00:33:55.040 Okay.

00:33:55.980 I would be totally grumpy.

00:33:57.880 Probably really hungry.

00:33:59.460 I would be, like, mad because I like pizza.

00:34:02.040 I would be hungry.

00:34:03.480 Tired, hangry.

00:34:05.820 All right.

00:34:06.460 Thank you, Peacecraft.

00:34:07.420 Appreciate it.

00:34:08.340 I'm glad I was able to catch that there.

00:34:10.580 We're going to go around the table once more, and then we'll get to Ben's question.

00:34:17.880 What's your current relationship status?

00:34:20.080 So, are you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married,

00:34:25.680 polycule, sex, cult, harem, whatever it may be?

00:34:28.440 If you're single, how long have you been single, and what's the longest relationship you've

00:34:33.140 ever been in?

00:34:33.860 Go ahead.

00:34:34.600 I'm in a relationship currently.

00:34:36.720 We've been together for a little over a year.

00:34:38.880 I'm planning to get married next month, and my longest relationship was, like, seven years.

00:34:46.400 Seven years.

00:34:47.460 Okay.

00:34:48.220 And you're 26, right?

00:34:49.780 Yeah.

00:34:50.140 And you've been in a new relationship for one year, you said?

00:34:53.080 Yeah, a little over one year.

00:34:54.040 From what age to what age was your seven-year relationship?

00:34:58.180 It was, like, on and off the last three years of 15 to 22.

00:35:06.500 And it was on and off again?

00:35:07.920 For, like, the last two years.

00:35:09.440 How many times was it?

00:35:10.700 We would take, like, six months breaks.

00:35:12.600 How many times total?

00:35:13.560 Was it off and on?

00:35:14.460 Two times?

00:35:15.160 Two times?

00:35:15.360 So, like, a year off, yeah.

00:35:16.000 Who would end things?

00:35:17.220 Hmm?

00:35:17.680 Who would end things?

00:35:19.700 Sorry, what?

00:35:20.460 You said it was an on again, off again.

00:35:21.980 Oh, yeah.

00:35:22.360 Yeah, we would just break up, because we have a daughter.

00:35:24.320 So, we broke up.

00:35:25.500 Yeah, I have a child.

00:35:26.440 So, we broke up for, like, six months, and then we got back together for a year, and then

00:35:29.400 we broke up again, and that was it.

00:35:32.120 Okay.

00:35:34.020 And you had the child how long into the relationship?

00:35:38.440 Actually, when we broke up when I was, like, 16, I got pregnant.

00:35:43.340 So, two years into the relationship or something like that.

00:35:45.880 Oh, you got pregnant at 16?

00:35:47.920 Mm-hmm.

00:35:48.220 Okay, I see.

00:35:49.320 Does he pay child support?

00:35:50.800 Yeah.

00:35:51.820 Okay.

00:35:52.360 Just curious, how much?

00:35:53.440 Not anything.

00:35:54.840 Oh, he doesn't?

00:35:55.980 That's why I danced, because he barely pays anything.

00:35:58.720 I just got it raised to, like, $70.

00:36:00.620 It used to be $37 a month.

00:36:04.200 Okay.

00:36:04.780 All right.

00:36:05.680 And that's your only kid?

00:36:07.760 Yeah.

00:36:08.200 Okay.

00:36:08.660 Do you want more kids?

00:36:09.960 Yes.

00:36:10.400 Okay.

00:36:11.660 But hang on, just to ask, with such a low number, does he have joint physical and legal

00:36:20.060 custody, then?

00:36:20.780 Uh, yeah, unfortunately.

00:36:22.840 Yeah.

00:36:23.160 So, he gets, so hang on.

00:36:24.660 So, he gets the kid every other week or weekend or something like that?

00:36:27.760 Yeah.

00:36:28.280 It's, like, a weird joint.

00:36:30.500 It's, like, a weird split.

00:36:31.520 It's, like, a 5-2-5.

00:36:32.720 Yeah.

00:36:32.920 So, I mean, why should he pay child support?

00:36:34.960 That's, right?

00:36:36.140 Like, why should he?

00:36:37.580 I pay for insurance.

00:36:39.400 I pay for all her dental care that comes out of pocket.

00:36:42.300 I pay for all of her school clothing, her school.

00:36:45.780 Like, I pay for everything.

00:36:47.340 He literally, at this point, is living in a one-bedroom with my daughter and his girlfriend.

00:36:51.880 But does he have, does he have, uh, half, half the custody, though?

00:36:56.860 Yeah, and I, I feel.

00:36:57.840 Does he have her half the time, is my question?

00:36:59.640 Uh, currently, yeah.

00:37:00.880 But he can't.

00:37:01.500 Yeah.

00:37:01.700 So, I mean, if he has her half the time, why, why would he need to pay you support?

00:37:05.420 Just, just, you know, like, that's, that isn't, isn't that absurd to make the request

00:37:09.560 that if the father has the kid half of the time, they're already taking care of, of,

00:37:15.260 uh, of half of the child's rearing, right?

00:37:18.400 Most of, like I said, I pay for most of her clothes, most of everything, even when she's

00:37:22.780 at his house.

00:37:23.540 Wait, is it 50-50 custody?

00:37:25.580 Yeah.

00:37:26.320 But the time, the timeshare is not 50-50?

00:37:29.060 No, it is.

00:37:29.900 It is.

00:37:30.380 It's 50-50 time.

00:37:31.400 But what I'm saying is, like, I pay for a majority of her health care, everything like

00:37:35.520 that.

00:37:35.800 Like, it's not, it shouldn't.

00:37:38.680 Like, he should have less time, is what I'm saying.

00:37:41.240 Wait, is it, uh, it's, and it's gone through the court system?

00:37:44.220 Yeah.

00:37:44.580 So, it was, uh, yeah, like, four years ago, three years ago, when we broke up.

00:37:48.900 Who brought it to court?

00:37:49.980 You or him?

00:37:50.220 I did.

00:37:50.860 You did?

00:37:51.580 Yeah.

00:37:51.760 And you were, um.

00:37:52.560 Because he wasn't seeing her at the time.

00:37:53.900 He wasn't spending any time with her.

00:37:55.380 I see.

00:37:56.000 Okay.

00:37:56.240 And then, uh, you said, unfortunately, he gets.

00:38:00.540 50%, yeah.

00:38:01.520 Why is it, why is it unfortunate?

00:38:02.760 Don't you want?

00:38:03.280 Uh, no, I would love for him to spend time with her, but I, it's unfortunate

00:38:08.340 because it's not, like, used productively, and he's just not, I don't feel like taking

00:38:14.940 care of her as best as he could.

00:38:17.720 Mm-hmm.

00:38:18.300 So. 0.94

00:38:18.740 It's a damn good thing that you, that, uh, women in this situation don't get to make 1.00

00:38:22.880 that adjudication because, um, from the perspective of many women, they're always going to think 1.00

00:38:29.480 that they're the better caretaker than the man.

00:38:31.660 We have no demonstration of evidence to the contrary, and there's no way for us to have

00:38:35.100 any demonstration of the contrary.

00:38:36.400 But if he has 50% custody, then I think that whatever argument that you have for needing

00:38:40.900 child support goes out the window anyway.

00:38:42.560 Well, I just feel like the court system pities a single father sometimes, um, especially

00:38:49.520 when they...

00:38:49.720 That's why they should.

00:38:50.740 Pale and well met.

00:38:52.640 Lol Paladins donated $200.02.

00:38:56.440 Yeah, thank you.

00:38:57.120 Remember, fellas, 50 to 50, and it doesn't matter how broke you are, she will keep coming

00:39:01.760 after your last $37 a month.

00:39:04.560 She is all women, and she will blame you for it in public. 1.00

00:39:08.080 Yo, Lol Paladins, thank you, man.

00:39:09.560 There's another one coming in right now, so I'll just preempt it.

00:39:12.860 Good to see you in the chat, Lol Paladins.

00:39:14.200 Thank you for the TTS, man.

00:39:15.740 50-50, and it doesn't matter how broke.

00:39:17.820 Have you ever paid him child support?

00:39:19.680 Yeah, uh, they tried.

00:39:22.420 Hillary Epstein donated $200.

00:39:24.740 Thank you, Hillary.

00:39:25.400 Appreciate it. 0.99

00:39:25.840 U.S. court system sucks. 1.00

00:39:28.240 Divorce, dad. 0.99

00:39:29.260 50-50 custody 223 schedule.

00:39:32.580 $1,750 a month and truly 50-50.

00:39:36.540 Are you in California? 0.98

00:39:37.500 Ridiculous. 0.99

00:39:38.040 Hillary, where are you at? 1.00

00:39:40.260 California is pretty bad.

00:39:42.520 Sorry to hear that, man.

00:39:44.660 He was, you were going to have to pay him child support?

00:39:46.860 Yeah, he had requested it at one point for me to pay child support.

00:39:50.260 He had, like, gone to welfare and asked for all this help because he just didn't want to

00:39:53.720 get a job.

00:39:54.540 Yeah.

00:39:55.640 Because if he doesn't have a job, they can't take money from him.

00:40:00.440 And was he awarded child support?

00:40:02.620 No, because I had proof he was working under the table as a security guard.

00:40:06.440 Well, but, like, weren't you making all this money, too?

00:40:11.780 Um, this was at a time where I wasn't, like, I wasn't dancing as much or doing, I didn't,

00:40:16.240 this was way before that whole situation.

00:40:18.140 I mean, you said this guy gave you, like, you dated him for two years, right?

00:40:21.460 Yeah, it was before the situation.

00:40:23.580 Before the kid?

00:40:25.040 No, before the, um, like, I guess, sugar daddy or whatever you want to call him, fake fiance.

00:40:30.520 The fake fiance was?

00:40:31.960 That was after.

00:40:33.340 After what?

00:40:34.160 After we had gone to court and everything.

00:40:36.360 Oh, okay.

00:40:37.120 Like, after he tried to take me to court to get him to pay, to get me to pay him.

00:40:41.860 But, I mean, were you, because, I mean, there's assessments when it comes to child support.

00:40:46.500 Were you reporting to the court this?

00:40:48.520 Dancing money?

00:40:49.220 Yeah.

00:40:49.620 In the state of California, you get paychecks.

00:40:51.840 The money this guy was giving you?

00:40:53.760 Oh, yeah.

00:40:54.620 I have.

00:40:55.680 I mean, Apple Cash, like, reports what you made.

00:40:59.120 But if you guys are 50-50, why aren't you paying him child support?

00:41:01.780 It sounds like you would have been out earning him.

00:41:03.660 You said you made $250,000 over the course of two years.

00:41:07.820 Mm-hmm.

00:41:09.040 I mean.

00:41:09.960 That's just, like, an estimate, because that's also including, like, what he spent on shopping

00:41:13.820 and my, me getting my boobs done and all of that.

00:41:17.900 Sure.

00:41:20.280 But you said you would, like, send, you'd get his phone, you'd send yourself, like, $5,000.

00:41:25.340 In total, out of everything, because, like, just my breasts were, like, $50,000. 0.98

00:41:29.600 Is that the cost of titties? 0.57

00:41:31.000 I went to, like, a really well-known doctor in Beverly Hills, which.

00:41:35.020 Okay.

00:41:35.480 Yeah.

00:41:35.880 So, I mean, it doesn't, it was, like, altogether, like, close to $250,000.

00:41:41.460 Okay.

00:41:42.000 All right.

00:41:42.260 Well, she also said that he knew she was taking the money.

00:41:45.120 Yeah.

00:41:45.400 Like, he, thank you.

00:41:46.380 He knew.

00:41:47.440 It's not like he didn't know.

00:41:48.640 Like, he would see, like, oh, I sent you $2,000.

00:41:51.760 Like, okay, what did you send that for?

00:41:53.600 And I'd be like, oh, I need to pay this.

00:41:55.340 He's like, okay, well, you know, I'm not going to give you money, like, next week or something.

00:41:59.400 And then.

00:41:59.980 Well, yeah, because you were supposed to be his future wife. 0.96

00:42:02.980 So, he's taking care of you.

00:42:04.860 Okay.

00:42:05.120 But if we really go based off of that, he was also talking to other women.

00:42:08.420 So, it's like.

00:42:09.960 And I would like to add, do you not think a 52-year-old man knows what's happening with

00:42:15.200 a 22-year-old girl?

00:42:17.060 He knows what he's paying for.

00:42:19.340 But he wasn't getting anything.

00:42:20.500 Wait, wait, wait.

00:42:21.360 Hang on a second.

00:42:22.540 Just get this right.

00:42:24.200 If the burden of evidence was that this gentleman had not.

00:42:28.440 Hang on.

00:42:29.200 If the burden of evidence was that this gentleman had not.

00:42:31.680 Lol Paladin's donated $200.02.

00:42:35.700 Seriously, Brian, you think she reported the $250,000 in cash to the IRS?

00:42:41.920 The men aren't the only people she scams.

00:42:44.060 The government is a victim, too.

00:42:46.020 All right.

00:42:47.020 And I can see that the sisterhood of accountability is driving right in here, right?

00:42:52.320 Sisterhood can't take accountability. 1.00

00:42:54.400 It's against their nature.

00:42:57.020 But to dive in, can you explain to me how this man was not victimized by this woman?

00:43:02.360 Can you explain that to me?

00:43:03.960 I'm not saying.

00:43:04.540 I think this was.

00:43:05.040 No, no, no.

00:43:05.540 He's talking to me.

00:43:06.420 I'm asking her.

00:43:07.000 I think you're being really dramatic by using the word victimized.

00:43:10.320 Because he does.

00:43:11.200 Oh, okay.

00:43:12.020 He did know she was taking the money, and he was willing.

00:43:14.940 He was willing.

00:43:15.860 Was she taking the money for pretenses?

00:43:19.560 I don't know.

00:43:20.160 I don't know the situation.

00:43:21.120 I don't know him.

00:43:21.740 What did she just say?

00:43:22.900 But what I'm saying is I'm.

00:43:23.740 She literally said he was taking, she was taking money under false pretenses and called

00:43:27.920 it a scam.

00:43:29.580 I think she was talking.

00:43:30.520 She called it a scam.

00:43:31.060 I think she was talking about her.

00:43:32.200 What do you think scam means?

00:43:33.300 So wait. 0.99

00:43:33.800 Would it be fair if I was having sex with him? 1.00

00:43:36.580 Yeah. 0.99

00:43:36.960 No, I would care still.

00:43:38.060 But can you explain to me real quick? 0.99

00:43:39.680 But would it be more fair if I was having sex with him? 0.99

00:43:40.960 Okay. 0.99

00:43:41.240 Can you let us finish our conversation?

00:43:43.220 What do you think scam means?

00:43:45.140 What do you think that means?

00:43:46.940 Do you think that means I'm being very truthful about my intentions?

00:43:50.160 Or do you think it means something else?

00:43:52.260 No, you're not being truthful.

00:43:53.920 Yeah, you're not being truthful.

00:43:55.020 So would you call that false pretenses?

00:43:58.300 I guess so.

00:43:59.280 But what I'm saying is I think that there are segments of men that understand that what

00:44:05.500 they are paying for and that this is the situation that because they are paying for attention.

00:44:13.820 How do you somehow manage to do the mental gymnastics necessary after she tells the entire story,

00:44:21.500 explains it herself as a scam, says she took this money under false pretenses to still

00:44:26.220 somehow try to justify it as her being the victim?

00:44:30.080 I'm not saying she's the victim.

00:44:31.560 Well, you didn't.

00:44:32.200 Because you started this by saying this.

00:44:34.240 You started this entire engagement by saying he knew exactly what he was doing because he's

00:44:38.040 53 years old, implying that she's actually being victimized here.

00:44:41.760 I didn't exactly say that.

00:44:43.480 What I said is, do you not think that he doesn't?

00:44:46.220 He may not know that or he may not understand that that's what he was paying for.

00:44:50.520 But what I'm saying is there are segments of men that do pay for attention from younger women.

00:45:00.860 Older men pay for attention from younger women. 0.83

00:45:03.080 Do you agree that there are segments of men who eat watermelon?

00:45:08.420 Do you agree with that statement?

00:45:10.020 Yeah.

00:45:10.320 Okay, great. 0.98

00:45:11.280 What the fuck does that have to do with scamming a man? 0.97

00:45:14.200 What is saying there are segments of men who do X have anything to do with the current conversation 0.98

00:45:20.100 that we're having?

00:45:21.140 She's talking about scamming her clients at the strip club. 1.00

00:45:25.240 She did say she was scamming.

00:45:27.300 She had a fake fiance.

00:45:29.080 So her pretense was to not marry the man.

00:45:33.000 But what I'm saying is let's consider maybe he knew what he was paying for as well.

00:45:39.380 That's all I'm saying.

00:45:41.160 Okay.

00:45:42.060 It's really funny though.

00:45:43.400 So why is it that this needs to be looked at in the best light from the interest of the woman 0.99

00:45:50.500 instead of in the interest from the man?

00:45:52.540 That's my question to you.

00:45:54.120 Why should we instantly look at this as some sort of, well, he's 53.

00:45:57.960 I'm sure he didn't, you know, he knew.

00:46:00.760 He knew exactly what was going on.

00:46:02.400 Why should we assume that?

00:46:03.580 Why should we assume that a person who makes the claim that they knew it was done under false pretenses

00:46:08.940 took this amount of money?

00:46:10.900 What do you think his incentive was to do that?

00:46:13.400 Although I, this may be anecdotal, but I am 52 and I speak to a lot of 52 plus year old men

00:46:20.000 that do tell me that they date younger women, pay for their bills because that's, they feel

00:46:26.940 like that's their rite of passage.

00:46:28.040 Because after they get divorced, they want to go and feel like they're, they want their ego stroked and they want to be with a young girl.

00:46:36.920 Oh, well, let me give you some anecdotes back.

00:46:40.220 Having talked now to hundreds upon hundreds of women on this podcast,

00:46:43.280 let me explain that there are many women who are in their early twenties who constantly seek out older men

00:46:49.260 specifically for the purposes of capturing their resources and they're in complete control.

00:46:54.840 They are in total control and they often do it under false pretenses.

00:46:58.760 And then when they're called out on the false pretenses for which they have done this under,

00:47:03.160 the sisterhood all gets together and makes excuses for her. 0.99

00:47:06.840 Why do you think that is?

00:47:07.880 Why does the sisterhood all get together to make excuses for scam artist women? 1.00

00:47:12.000 Can you explain that to me?

00:47:13.060 I'd actually like to know the answer to that.

00:47:14.520 I'm speaking for myself and I'm speaking to you about yourself.

00:47:20.920 I know.

00:47:21.240 And I'm speaking, I'm not, you know what?

00:47:23.980 I am defending her a little bit because you are coming down really hard on her and we're not

00:47:30.660 taking in consideration that the man and there are men that understand what they're paying for.

00:47:39.700 But if I may jump in, if I may jump in here a little, a little bit.

00:47:43.400 So let's just grant that everything that was given willingly was copacetic.

00:47:49.360 Although she does seem to concede that there was a component of misrepresentation as to her interest in him

00:47:56.980 because fake husband, whatever.

00:48:00.360 But even setting all that aside, she admitted that she would go on his phone while he was drunk

00:48:06.940 and without his permission, without his consent, send his money, like, to her.

00:48:15.280 In what universe are you prepared to actually defend that specific action?

00:48:19.340 Well, she said she told him.

00:48:21.080 She told him and he said, okay.

00:48:23.940 Hold on.

00:48:24.140 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:48:25.680 Fuck. 1.00

00:48:25.820 Roth underscore PSA donated $200. 1.00

00:48:29.600 Hello, Brian, Andrew, and the panel.

00:48:32.860 Andrew, not in studio, safe from the lint roller.

00:48:36.220 Hope the show is going good.

00:48:38.300 Please don't scam people, Hugh Jekyll.

00:48:40.700 Defending bad behavior is bad.

00:48:42.740 All right, Rath PSA.

00:48:43.560 Thank you, man.

00:48:43.920 Appreciate it.

00:48:44.900 Sorry.

00:48:45.860 Thank you, Rath.

00:48:47.720 So let me ask you a question.

00:48:49.460 If a woman is being victimized in some way, I'll let your imagination run wild,

00:48:53.500 but she knows that she's being victimized,

00:48:55.900 does that change the degree to which she's being victimized? 0.97

00:49:01.640 Wow.

00:49:02.340 That went over my head a little bit.

00:49:06.320 Okay.

00:49:07.200 I'm going to use a very extreme example here.

00:49:10.020 A woman is in the...

00:49:10.980 I can't believe I'm going to bring it here.

00:49:13.260 A woman's being S-A-ed, but she knows she's being S-A-ed, so it's okay? 0.99

00:49:18.100 S-A-ed. 1.00

00:49:20.580 Oh, oh, oh, okay.

00:49:21.960 She's being S-A-ed.

00:49:22.900 Okay, got it.

00:49:24.220 Yeah.

00:49:24.620 She knows she's being S-A-ed.

00:49:26.120 Does that make it okay?

00:49:28.380 No.

00:49:29.740 So in this situation where this man is essentially, I don't know if it's wire fraud,

00:49:34.580 if it's what kind of theft exactly, the legal term for what's going on,

00:49:39.040 she's going on his phone without his permission, it's theft.

00:49:43.840 Grand theft.

00:49:44.620 This is felony-level money that's being moved around here.

00:49:50.800 Grid One Motorsport donated $200.01.

00:49:55.080 I set that up. 0.86

00:49:55.720 As a 53-year-old male, you disgust me. 0.99

00:49:58.800 A scam is a scam is a scam, and you forking know it. 0.99

00:50:01.820 The fact you charlatans defend this sort of actions is what sets women as a whole back 1.00

00:50:06.940 in all men's eyes.

00:50:08.520 Be better.

00:50:11.320 All right.

00:50:12.000 Grid One.

00:50:12.520 Thank you, man.

00:50:12.880 Appreciate it.

00:50:14.040 So, again, like, he, she claims, we don't know his story, she claims he was aware of this.

00:50:21.160 But then, if he was aware of this, why, why would she need to secretly do this?

00:50:26.520 Couldn't you just have asked for money instead of having to secretly go on his phone and just

00:50:30.440 like, send yourself money?

00:50:31.780 Well, because he wasn't getting sex, like, he would sometimes be more greedy, obviously.

00:50:36.120 Wait, I don't see how that's relevant at all.

00:50:38.620 Well, because he, I would ask for the money, and he'd be like, oh, well, like, you know,

00:50:42.340 you don't even want to, like, kiss me, you don't even want to, like, make out with me.

00:50:45.560 So, like, I don't, I don't know, like, I already sent you, like, this or that.

00:50:48.840 And then the next day, if he, he would see the transactions.

00:50:51.800 He wouldn't, like, ever get mad about it or, like, ask me, like, why did you do that?

00:50:57.680 He'd be like, okay, that's fine.

00:50:59.720 Like, you know, if you're going to, I, yeah, you did ask me for the money.

00:51:02.720 I didn't want to give it to you.

00:51:03.360 Like, here, you already have it.

00:51:05.840 This seems a bit dubious, but in any case, you did seem to.

00:51:09.280 Again, this man knew what he was doing.

00:51:10.860 Well, this is a post hoc justification.

00:51:12.300 So, he said no, and then he took it anyway.

00:51:14.600 And then after he took it, he's like, well, okay.

00:51:17.180 After he, he's like, it's better to ask for forgiveness than permission.

00:51:21.380 This is, like, a man that was, like I said, he was spending money to, like, other women in other countries. 1.00

00:51:25.580 He was the type of guy that flies to Columbia to just get some pussy. 1.00

00:51:29.640 How does that, I don't understand. 1.00

00:51:31.140 Let's say for a second he was a serial killer.

00:51:33.800 That's what he did on the side and you discovered this.

00:51:36.820 How would him being a serial killer justify your actions?

00:51:40.600 Okay, say I wasn't me and I was an innocent bystanding, or an innocent girl that actually wanted to be in a relationship with him.

00:51:47.980 And he's going off of this pretense of, like, I want to be your husband.

00:51:51.740 I want to get married. 0.99

00:51:53.100 And he's having sex with her, all the things. 0.99

00:51:55.260 But he's still talking to these other women in Columbia. 0.93

00:51:58.320 Like, if it weren't going to be.

00:51:59.900 Yeah, that would be wrong.

00:52:00.540 Hey, listen, that would be.

00:52:01.340 That would be wrong.

00:52:02.380 And was that what was happening?

00:52:03.500 What I love it was that, okay, you're going to either do all the, like, the extra stuff you do to someone else, or I can just get, like, kind of, you know, what I need out of the situation.

00:52:13.840 Here, let me engage directly.

00:52:15.180 Yes, if you were an innocent bystander and you were looking to have some kind of great, healthy relationship with this guy, and you really were in love with him, and you were doing everything right, and he was off gallivanting all over Columbia humping prostitutes, then, yes, that would be completely and totally wrong.

00:52:31.100 And that exactly was not happening in this case, was it?

00:52:35.880 Yeah, but you guys clearly do not understand, like, the caliber of man he was was not one of, like, honor. 0.93

00:52:42.620 He was clearly a dog.

00:52:43.680 Can I ask a question? 0.98

00:52:44.840 Like, what the hell did this guy do for work?

00:52:47.000 Oh, I see.

00:52:47.020 So, this is all justifying bad behavior, right?

00:52:51.340 When does the Christian part come out? 0.95

00:52:53.220 When does the Christian part come out? 0.95

00:52:55.040 Instead of the justification, where does the responsibility portion come out?

00:52:58.700 Oh, I've taken my responsibility of this already with him, like.

00:53:02.060 No, all you do is make justifications for how horrible he was and that he deserved it.

00:53:06.040 He actually deserved it.

00:53:06.880 Yeah, I am making, I'm making justifications for how I was acting at that time, but, like, that is not currently me, and that is not currently how I believe anyone should behave or act or do that to, like, I feel wrong for what I did.

00:53:21.220 I'm not saying I don't, just because I'm trying to have you understand where I was and what I was doing.

00:53:26.740 Like, yeah, at that time, I didn't see it as wrong.

00:53:28.480 I didn't care.

00:53:29.140 I didn't care about him.

00:53:29.940 I cared about surviving.

00:53:31.060 I was selfish.

00:53:31.820 I was living for myself.

00:53:33.120 I've already said that. 0.99

00:53:34.000 Like, yeah, I did not give a fuck about him or how he felt. 0.98

00:53:37.900 Like, I didn't. 0.98

00:53:38.680 I justified it in my head at that time.

00:53:40.580 So, the responsibility, who was responsible for this?

00:53:43.160 Yeah, I did take advantage of him, but at the same time.

00:53:45.780 Yeah, so you were responsible.

00:53:46.980 There's no at the same time.

00:53:48.100 Just you were responsible.

00:53:49.620 Your actions, you were responsible.

00:53:52.240 Without you, none of this would have happened, right?

00:53:55.740 Sure, yeah.

00:53:57.100 Okay.

00:53:59.760 So, going back to you, I'm just a little confused.

00:54:04.820 He knew, but I'm not sure.

00:54:07.660 You're trying to make it sound like I need to say that it was his fault.

00:54:11.200 I'm not saying it's his fault.

00:54:12.380 I'm saying let's consider maybe he knew what the situation was.

00:54:18.340 That's all I'm saying.

00:54:19.140 We see it all the time.

00:54:23.400 You have all your podcast guests come on and talk about it all the time.

00:54:29.040 Men, there are a lot of men out there that pay for attention from young girls or any woman, any attractive woman, or anyone that will even pay attention to them.

00:54:37.440 That's all I'm saying.

00:54:38.400 Well, yes, they do it, but there's two components here.

00:54:41.300 There's the component of she's leading him on with absolutely zero intention of any romantic or sexual attention being received by him at any point.

00:55:19.080 I mean, she would have already tried to take me to court or press charges or something. 0.97

00:55:23.760 Well, I have to push back on this because how many women stay with abusive men? 0.98

00:55:29.680 Just because the women stay with abusive men does not justify the abuse that the woman is going through.

00:55:35.700 Well, she, I mean, she stayed with him, so she didn't go to court or anything or didn't go to the police, but he was smacking her around.

00:55:44.240 So, I mean, she was okay with it, I get.

00:55:47.140 Does that make sense?

00:55:48.360 Of course it doesn't make sense. 0.97

00:55:49.560 So, where he's going to is because you're saying, oh, he was a dirtbag, he deserved it, right? 1.00

00:55:58.680 The guys in the strip club are gross, they deserve it. 0.99

00:56:02.460 I'm not saying the guy deserved it. 0.97

00:56:04.440 I'm only saying let's open up the possibility that he understood what he was paying for and what was going on.

00:56:12.280 But then why?

00:56:13.420 Because it happens all the time.

00:56:14.900 Okay, listen, I agree with you, okay?

00:56:17.560 So, let me give you a little bit of like an olive branch here.

00:56:22.400 I agree with you that there are men who exist in this world who, in that situation, would have known that that was going on.

00:56:28.340 You have zero evidence that that was the case.

00:56:31.400 Zero.

00:56:32.100 None.

00:56:32.720 Zilch.

00:56:33.200 And hang on, because you have zero evidence that that was the case, you should not leap to that assumption.

00:56:38.280 What it looks like is you're deflecting on behalf of somebody else in order to protect somebody else based on zero evidence whatsoever that that is the case, when all the evidence we've heard tonight is to the contrary.

00:56:49.120 I feel like he is someone that is used to spending money on women to have sex and to get what he wants out of them.

00:56:56.300 And the fact he knew I was abstinent at the time, I feel like the whole, oh, let me marry you, like proposing to me, was just a gist, thinking it would get us closer to intimacy.

00:57:09.200 And that was on the third date, because he knew that nothing was happening.

00:57:11.880 I hadn't kissed him.

00:57:12.540 I hadn't done nothing with him.

00:57:13.460 And at this time, he was already spending $4,000 on me on the second time we hung out shopping.

00:57:20.240 Like, he expected things to happen very early on that weren't happening.

00:57:24.560 And I feel like, you know, I told him, like, I'm not having sex until I get married.

00:57:27.700 Like, I just don't want to have sex with anyone like that, because I started getting closer into, like, my faith of knowing, like, my worth.

00:57:36.120 And I just didn't want to, like, entangle myself with a bunch of people anymore at that point.

00:57:40.080 Wait, you were, just to be clear, how long ago was this relationship?

00:57:43.460 Um, this started when I was, like, about to turn 23.

00:57:49.400 And you said you were waiting until marriage to have sex.

00:57:52.240 Mm-hmm.

00:57:52.700 So you've been celibate for the past four years?

00:57:54.840 Um, I was celibate until earlier last year.

00:58:00.020 What happened to waiting until marriage?

00:58:02.560 Uh, I fell into a really dark place in my life. 0.99

00:58:06.120 That needed to be fixed by sexual intercourse? 0.99

00:58:10.060 Um, yeah. 0.99

00:58:11.660 I mean, honestly, I was, I was, I feel like a lot of men can agree when you needed your ego stroked.

00:58:18.620 I needed my ego stroked.

00:58:19.720 I was, like, not dancing anymore.

00:58:22.120 He was no longer paying for anything.

00:58:24.480 I was kind of, like, really losing myself again. 0.96

00:58:28.520 And so, yeah, I had sex with someone. 0.96

00:58:31.680 And... 0.99

00:58:32.020 Just him? 0.85

00:58:32.360 That's the only guy you've had sex with?

00:58:33.280 One person.

00:58:33.700 And then, um, and then several months later, I started dating my now boyfriend. 0.81

00:58:37.500 And you've had sex with him?

00:58:39.600 Uh, yeah, but we've been, like, on and on, abstinent, trying to not. 0.93

00:58:44.260 When's the last time you had sex?

00:58:47.640 Um...

00:58:48.720 Yesterday?

00:58:50.400 No, I want to say, like, in June.

00:58:54.840 Okay.

00:58:55.280 And then before that, it was, like, a month without having sex.

00:59:02.500 Oh, so, hang on.

00:59:03.760 So, how long have you been abstinent?

00:59:05.640 It was three years until last, like, January.

00:59:11.240 Oh.

00:59:13.160 Then you, but you just needed your ego stroke.

00:59:15.560 Yeah, I was going through some difficult things.

00:59:18.060 And then when were you, when were you baptized?

00:59:20.380 Last year.

00:59:22.340 Was this before you, uh, decided to throw the abstinence out of the window?

00:59:26.500 I was already dating my now boyfriend.

00:59:29.100 Yeah, so, but it was before you threw the abstinence out the window?

00:59:32.760 No, it was, it was after.

00:59:34.860 So, you were baptized afterwards?

00:59:36.600 Yeah, I was, I was baptized after I started dating my now boyfriend.

00:59:40.140 Couple questions.

00:59:40.740 And you're, you're, and, and you're now boyfriend, are you, you're still engaged in,

00:59:45.680 is this your now boyfriend?

00:59:47.200 Yeah.

00:59:48.060 And you're, and, and you're, you engaged in a sexual relationship with this person as

00:59:51.580 well?

00:59:52.980 I, like I said, we're trying to, like, stay abstinent until we get married.

00:59:58.500 Trying, trying is a very strange, that's a strange, crazy holiday.

01:00:01.460 Trying is a very, yeah, because it's, it's really hard when you both lust after each other

01:00:05.580 and you're trying to, like, abstain from having sex when you obviously have a physical

01:00:11.740 craving.

01:00:12.420 That's just what flesh is.

01:00:13.540 You want that intimacy with your person.

01:00:15.060 Yeah, no, I understand all that.

01:00:16.080 I'm, my, my direct question to you is, are you engaged in a sexual relationship with

01:00:20.820 your current boyfriend?

01:00:22.260 Yeah, but we haven't had sex in, like, a month.

01:00:25.460 In a month.

01:00:26.460 Wait, so.

01:00:28.100 Or when was June?

01:00:29.200 That was a long ago.

01:00:29.760 Your current, so you said there was, like, a guy who you had a short fling with and a

01:00:32.980 guy you've been in a relationship with.

01:00:35.160 Um, did they have to spend, like, have they spent money on you?

01:00:39.900 Well, my boyfriend made me a stay-at-home girlfriend, but that's only for the purpose

01:00:43.560 of, like, we are very, um, uh, what's the word?

01:00:48.920 We're very, like, I can't think of the word right now.

01:00:53.300 We're just, we know what we want to do moving forward with our relationship.

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01:01:03.140 As the Hawk Tua girl said recently, what fills the hole often does not fill the soul.

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01:01:13.660 Okay.

01:01:14.860 I saw that interview.

01:01:16.220 That was kind of funny.

01:01:16.880 Um, thank you, Grid One.

01:01:19.700 Really appreciate it, man.

01:01:21.400 Uh, wait, and, like, just curious, the, so there's the, the fling.

01:01:25.380 You said it was kind of an ego thing for you, right?

01:01:27.720 Yeah.

01:01:28.560 Just, so, like, was it, like, a one-night stand?

01:01:30.920 Like, you met him at the bar?

01:01:32.060 No, uh, we met, and we went on a couple dates, and then he went back, because he wasn't from

01:01:37.560 here.

01:01:38.000 He went back to where he lives, which is, uh, the UK, and then we were, like, talking for

01:01:42.940 several months, and then I ended up going out there to see him.

01:01:45.740 How soon into the, like, was it the first date, second date, that you guys hooked up,

01:01:49.060 or?

01:01:50.140 Um, I want to say the third date, because he was leaving.

01:01:54.180 So me, I was just thinking, like, you're leaving, and, yeah.

01:01:58.600 And what about the current boyfriend?

01:01:59.820 First date, second date, third date?

01:02:02.340 Um, it was, it was the first date, but I wasn't, like, again, I, that was, like, right

01:02:08.900 after each other.

01:02:09.740 Not right after each other.

01:02:10.540 That sounds gross.

01:02:11.100 Wait.

01:02:11.480 It wasn't, like, back to back.

01:02:12.280 So he's going back to the UK.

01:02:14.000 It was.

01:02:14.400 How soon did you meet the new guy?

01:02:17.200 Um, like, March.

01:02:20.360 Wait, so, uh.

01:02:21.300 So I met the new guy January.

01:02:22.540 I met my boyfriend.

01:02:23.640 We started, no, April.

01:02:24.480 We started talking in April.

01:02:25.260 Wait, you met the British guy.

01:02:26.620 Is he British?

01:02:27.360 Yeah.

01:02:28.260 You met him in January?

01:02:30.000 Mm-hmm.

01:02:30.500 And then he was leaving.

01:02:32.880 So, okay, he, when did he leave?

01:02:33.900 He came here for, like, two weeks.

01:02:34.580 He was here for two weeks.

01:02:35.600 I met him, like, several days before he left.

01:02:38.080 When did he leave?

01:02:38.720 January?

01:02:39.240 January, yeah.

01:02:39.760 And then you met your now boyfriend in April?

01:02:42.660 Yes.

01:02:43.240 Last April, yeah.

01:02:44.300 Okay.

01:02:44.460 This was, like, last year, yeah.

01:02:45.700 Well, hold on.

01:02:46.280 I mean, this two-year guy, I'm waiting till marriage, da-da-da-da-da.

01:02:51.240 Yeah.

01:02:51.420 But the two most recent men that you've had sex with, one was, he was leaving soon, and there

01:02:56.020 was absolutely no prospects of long-term relationship because he was leaving.

01:02:59.300 I thought there would be. 0.94

01:03:00.120 I was, like, retarded. 0.89

01:03:02.000 Was there? 0.68

01:03:02.260 Oh, I can't say that.

01:03:03.000 That's okay.

01:03:03.320 I was, I was, yeah, no, I was, I was, like, I said, I was, like, in a low place, and I

01:03:07.360 was, like, not thinking.

01:03:09.140 I was just thinking for my ego.

01:03:11.060 And, but then your current boyfriend, first night.

01:03:15.140 Yeah, because I was, again, like, I was not in the greatest place.

01:03:18.400 I thought I was going to.

01:03:18.920 Weren't you in a bad place when you were dating the.

01:03:21.080 Yeah, it was a long period of, like, I was losing everything.

01:03:24.680 But why does the 53-year-old get, I'm waiting till marriage, and then, like, these guys,

01:03:31.460 first date, second date, third date.

01:03:34.240 That's where I'm confused.

01:03:35.220 Well, because he's 53.

01:03:36.440 I met him at a strip club.

01:03:38.240 And that's kind of what the whole aspect of it was from the whole, like.

01:03:43.400 Yeah.

01:03:43.800 So you were, you were using him.

01:03:45.580 Yeah.

01:03:46.000 I've said that.

01:03:47.120 I don't know why you guys keep asking.

01:03:48.820 And the prospects.

01:03:49.120 Because, because, because of the post hoc.

01:03:51.240 I'll tell you why we keep, we, we, we kind of keep getting confused.

01:03:55.540 Keep getting confused because the post hoc justification, meaning every single time you kind of take

01:04:00.640 responsibility for this and say, yes, I was using him and this and that.

01:04:03.320 You give us a series of qualifiers for that.

01:04:06.280 And it's a series of qualifiers that are bothersome, right?

01:04:09.020 Yeah, I'm responsible, but he kind of had it coming.

01:04:12.120 Yeah, I'm responsible, but he knew what was going on.

01:04:14.580 Yeah, I'm responsible, but.

01:04:16.160 Yeah, I'm responsible, but.

01:04:17.320 Yeah, I'm responsible, but.

01:04:19.640 That's why, that's why it's confusing.

01:04:21.820 Because the question really is, in this particular case, if you're using this guy and you scam

01:04:29.080 this guy and you did all these, you know, horrific things to this guy, myself and the

01:04:34.760 entirety of the audience is actually confused as to how this isn't just really, just kind

01:04:39.920 of your fault and that you're just kind of playing fast and loose with the idea of, well,

01:04:45.500 I didn't want to lower my morality.

01:04:47.220 It doesn't seem like it had much to do with morality. 0.71

01:04:49.260 You just didn't want to screw him because he was 53, right?

01:04:52.580 Like, isn't that what was going on? 0.86

01:04:54.180 Well, I just saw him as, like, a trick.

01:04:57.740 Like, he was just some guy from the club.

01:05:00.920 The guy that I had met from the UK wasn't, I met him at a nightclub.

01:05:05.160 I never go out like that. 0.99

01:05:06.320 And so it was, it, to me at the time, felt very destiny, stupid. 1.00

01:05:10.720 Like, it was dumb. 1.00

01:05:12.400 It was very dumb and, like I said, ego-driven. 1.00

01:05:15.760 And in that time of, like, I was slowly starting to let go of the 53-year-old. 0.99

01:05:20.960 I was letting go of dancing.

01:05:22.640 I had no money.

01:05:24.700 It was a fat ego stroke for me to, like, completely change my life within, like, a manner of, like,

01:05:31.240 three months, four months.

01:05:33.960 It's not something, and I think that's kind of, like, what I was trying, I guess, to bring

01:05:37.880 to the show is that, like, I feel like you guys interview a lot of girls and don't realize,

01:05:42.300 like, getting out of the fast money is not easy and it's really hard to do that gracefully.

01:05:46.980 And even, like, you're saying, like, you know, I'm not taking ownership.

01:05:51.140 I'm taking ownership 100% that I, what I did was wrong.

01:05:55.100 Restitution.

01:05:56.300 He doesn't want anything, like, back.

01:05:58.360 How do you know?

01:05:58.860 He's still trying to give me money.

01:06:00.520 Yeah, he doesn't, he's still trying to give me money.

01:06:03.400 Wait, so, Andrew, I think we gotta also just address, like.

01:06:07.900 He knows I have a boyfriend.

01:06:09.600 He knows that, like.

01:06:10.540 This guy ain't perfectly, like.

01:06:12.320 Uh, how do I, how do I frame this? 1.00

01:06:17.100 Like, he's a sucker. 1.00

01:06:18.820 He's a sucker. 1.00

01:06:19.860 And a simp. 1.00

01:06:21.260 Like, bro, you should, as a dude, you should not be spending, I don't care if you're trying

01:06:24.520 to bag, like, a younger girl, like, a younger woman, whatever. 0.99

01:06:27.480 Like, you can't be spending this kind of money on, on a chick. 0.99

01:06:30.420 I'm sorry, Brian.

01:06:31.380 I'm not willing to go the what about the Mendo argument.

01:06:33.720 In this case, I see somebody who's clearly been victimized.

01:06:36.140 And he's clearly been victimized for multiple crimes.

01:06:39.380 And even if right now this person's still pining after this woman, this was all done

01:06:44.400 under a false assumption of a potential for some type of long-term relationship by her

01:06:50.180 own admission.

01:06:51.360 So, even the feelings, which he could be feeling right now, he may not ordinarily have had if

01:06:56.500 he was not let on.

01:06:57.440 So, I'm just not willing to put the ball back in his court for responsibility just yet.

01:07:01.700 Oh, I'm not, I'm not, like, saying that there's no, uh, there's no blame on her.

01:07:09.480 But I'm saying, like, you meet a stripper in a strip club, uh, or even if you meet a normal

01:07:15.780 woman, you should not be spending this sort of money, uh, on a woman. 1.00

01:07:23.360 Like, I would say this to any guy.

01:07:25.680 I would say this to any dude.

01:07:26.940 Like, you shouldn't be spending this kind of money.

01:07:28.880 So, she's, I'm not saying she's, like...

01:07:32.300 Yeah, I, I agree.

01:07:33.260 So, I agree with you in spirit, but let me kind of make, uh, just a bit of a counter-rebuttal

01:07:37.840 here.

01:07:38.640 Um, so, grandma gets called by a scammer at Target, goes down to Target, spends $500 on

01:07:44.500 gift cards, gives them to the scammer.

01:07:46.460 You would tell grandma not to do that, right?

01:07:48.540 You'd say, grandma, you're getting suckered and this and that, but who's the victim there?

01:07:52.300 The grandma.

01:07:53.440 The grandma.

01:07:54.100 You wouldn't tell grandma that, you know, grandma was, was, um, you know, you wouldn't

01:07:59.060 beat up on grandma, in other words, right?

01:08:00.740 You would tell grandma, like, look, you can't be doing this.

01:08:03.400 This is bad for you to do.

01:08:05.020 But you're doing that so that they avoid being suckered in the future, not because they themselves

01:08:10.320 are doing something which is immoral or wrong.

01:08:13.400 Well, let, so let me ask you this, though, Andrew.

01:08:15.060 So, I'm sure you would agree that there are some scenarios where men are, they have, they

01:08:26.320 have agency and they're just willfully giving women this sort of money.

01:08:32.940 Yeah.

01:08:33.200 And so I, there's certainly a hundred percent like the grandma example.

01:08:38.040 It's a scam.

01:08:38.880 There's women who are doing, running love scams on men, but there are also men who are inclined

01:08:43.440 to just give this money away to women who, the women themselves, I'm not saying that's 0.99

01:08:47.780 even the case for her, the women themselves are not necessarily, uh, angling to scam the 0.93

01:08:54.620 guy.

01:08:55.100 So there are men who will just like, the woman's not asking for it.

01:09:00.200 They'll just like, they'll be soliciting essentially this sort of dynamic.

01:09:05.660 I agree.

01:09:06.600 And you're talking about the pay pick phenomenon, which we've so often kind of, uh, run into on

01:09:12.000 this program with these women.

01:09:14.240 However, I'm not convinced in this case that that is what's going on.

01:09:18.120 And I haven't, as I'm kind of piecing this together from the story, I'm not, that's not

01:09:22.680 what I'm hearing here.

01:09:23.780 I'm hearing that this guy is moving towards, now she says that, that she thinks that he's

01:09:29.400 moving towards, um, I want to marry you so that she'll be physically intimate with him.

01:09:33.600 And perhaps that's true.

01:09:35.180 Right.

01:09:35.720 But it could also be the case that he did just want in a long-term relationship with her.

01:09:40.040 I have no idea.

01:09:40.940 There's no way for us to, to know that for sure.

01:09:44.100 What we do know for sure though, is that, uh, he did not want to give her some of this

01:09:48.440 money and she would just transfer it to herself. 0.98

01:09:51.580 And then later he would just say, well, fine, I guess since you did it, there's nothing I

01:09:55.380 can do about it.

01:09:56.120 And you know, that's that.

01:09:58.000 So I, I'm not sure exactly what he's done, which is wrong here.

01:10:02.260 You know what I mean?

01:10:03.680 Well, it's hard to say without knowing the full details.

01:10:05.840 We're only getting, we're only getting one side of it.

01:10:08.280 I imagine there's some degree of, of nuance here.

01:10:12.480 Um, I mean, look the, this grandma example, I don't know if that maps on 100% one-to-one

01:10:18.940 because typically, typically, you know, with these, uh, these older people, they'll call

01:10:24.460 them up and they'll specifically target like much more elderly people, seventies, eighties.

01:10:30.240 And they'll say, um, your son, your grandson, your son's in jail.

01:10:34.520 We need you to wire this money to us, blah, blah, blah.

01:10:38.520 Oftentimes these elderly people are, have early onset dementia or Alzheimer's, uh, perhaps

01:10:44.700 not fully developed, but very early on.

01:10:46.720 Um, a 53 year old man, I think would have a little more agency in this situation than

01:10:52.660 say, for example, a 73 year old man.

01:10:55.000 Um, again, I'm not excusing what she's, what she's done here, but to go into a strip club 1.00

01:11:01.560 and be like, I'm going to wife up a stripper. 1.00

01:11:05.220 You're fucking up. 1.00

01:11:06.220 Like you shouldn't do that. 1.00

01:11:08.060 You shouldn't do that.

01:11:09.660 I totally agree with you that that is a bad choice for you to make long from a longevity

01:11:15.780 point of view, but Brian, you can't actually say that there's something immoral about it.

01:11:20.720 It's not actually a moral on the man's part.

01:11:23.380 Yeah.

01:11:23.860 To, to wife up a stripper. 1.00

01:11:25.380 It's not immoral to do.

01:11:26.900 It's just a bad idea.

01:11:27.900 It's a bad idea.

01:11:28.940 Yeah.

01:11:29.240 So just like, so I think in the grandma analogy, it's the same thing, right?

01:11:32.500 Grandma, it's a bad idea to let these scammers take advantage of you.

01:11:35.340 You know what I mean?

01:11:36.460 Grandma stopped doing that.

01:11:37.900 Yes.

01:11:38.320 But grandma still got scammed, right?

01:11:40.700 She still got scammed and the scammers got the gift card. 1.00

01:11:43.540 So it's like, I'm not sure what to beat this guy up over other than being stupid. 1.00

01:11:49.960 That's what I'm doing. 1.00

01:11:50.760 That's it.

01:11:51.720 That's all I'm doing. 1.00

01:11:53.420 He was just, he was very stupid. 1.00

01:11:55.200 That's the extent of it. 1.00

01:11:56.500 I'm certainly not, um, trying to downplay.

01:11:59.660 I mean, at least by the, the admissions that have already been made, I think there's, um,

01:12:04.260 plenty to find fault.

01:12:06.000 No offense, uh, in terms of the conduct from the lady over here, but what I did, um, in

01:12:12.780 any case, um, I do, I, I've got to get through the relationship statuses.

01:12:17.120 Maybe we'll get back to it.

01:12:18.420 I think, I think that's one of the first times me and Brian have had kind of a significant

01:12:22.620 disagreement on the show and then hashed out like that.

01:12:25.320 It's a, I mean, there's been other times, I guess, but.

01:12:27.880 Well, I don't know if we totally disagree.

01:12:31.340 No, I think ultimately we do agree.

01:12:33.280 Yeah.

01:12:33.660 I'm not, uh, yeah.

01:12:34.500 I'm not trying to excuse the conduct here.

01:12:36.420 I'm just saying like buyer beware to some degree, I guess.

01:12:41.220 Well, the, the problem I have with this is I, and I see this all the time and it's, it's

01:12:46.820 blame shifting.

01:12:47.800 It's the blame shifting that drives me crazy.

01:12:49.940 Right.

01:12:50.300 It's like, as men, we understand that we can go to other men and say, look, you're 1.00

01:12:54.720 fucking up. 1.00

01:12:55.280 You're stupid. 1.00

01:12:56.520 Um, you know what I mean? 1.00

01:12:57.620 I'm going to give you a smack to the back of the head. 1.00

01:12:59.400 You know what the, what they do in the, the old school, right? 0.99

01:13:01.940 You're going to get cuffed, right?

01:13:03.500 You're going to cuff you. 1.00

01:13:04.960 Um, you know, you, you got to stop fucking up, dude. 1.00

01:13:07.860 You're, you're out of your mind. 1.00

01:13:09.180 Stop doing this shit. 1.00

01:13:11.160 But men do that and correct each other. 1.00

01:13:13.980 Whereas what I saw here tonight was just sisterhood stuff.

01:13:17.120 Right.

01:13:17.380 Which is just kind of shifting and saying, yeah, you know, girl, you didn't, yeah, it's

01:13:21.520 okay.

01:13:21.960 You know, there's all sorts of men who are like that.

01:13:23.800 You do you, you're in a dark place.

01:13:26.200 It's okay.

01:13:26.740 It's always kind of this shift.

01:13:28.960 And that's why I'm not so willing to kind of, um, move into the, yeah, this guy's a 1.00

01:13:35.800 fucking idiot. 1.00

01:13:36.340 And he kind of, you know, had it coming or this. 1.00

01:13:38.680 I'm not really willing to give them that because I don't see the women kind of pushing 1.00

01:13:44.580 on their end for the responsibility taking aspect. 0.88

01:13:47.880 And it's like, if they're not going to do that, I don't know why we have to be so damn

01:13:51.260 charitable to them.

01:13:53.700 Oh, I don't think I was being charitable.

01:13:56.520 I don't think I was being charitable.

01:13:57.980 No, no, not you.

01:13:58.940 I'm not saying you.

01:13:59.800 I'm just saying that, um, this is, this is why I take kind of a issue with the, the idea

01:14:04.760 of the sisterhood is because, um, it seems that men are trying to correct.

01:14:09.900 And I just see kind of excuse making on the, uh, the women's side most often on these podcasts. 1.00

01:14:14.880 I'm sure.

01:14:15.680 And Andrew, by the way, I know.

01:14:17.820 So one of the things that, uh, I'll often bring up that comes up frequently is the, like

01:14:22.600 the whole waiting for sex thing.

01:14:24.340 And like this scenario right here is actually like precisely why it irks me so much where

01:14:29.900 there's like one standard, there's a standard, oh, I want to wait three months.

01:14:34.760 I want to wait until marriage. 0.97

01:14:36.920 And then like either concurrently or immediately after they'll immediately just have sex with 0.99

01:14:46.000 God, like super quickly.

01:14:47.840 Well, I think, I think the thing that irks you so much about it is what, what's what the,

01:14:52.640 it's the idea of the faux virtue.

01:14:54.420 So the idea is, um, I didn't do this with this guy because I want it to be virtuous.

01:14:59.900 Right.

01:15:00.500 When I did, but then I just did it right away with the next guy.

01:15:03.140 And so it's like, well, it doesn't seem like you're very consistent then with your virtuosity.

01:15:09.840 Right.

01:15:10.260 And so of course, from the guy's perspective, he's going to feel like that's pretty horrible

01:15:15.040 that you led me on for two years and kind of thought that I was a lesser than the guy

01:15:20.040 that you were willing to hook up with within the first night or a week or whatever.

01:15:23.680 I've always understood that argument.

01:15:25.280 I always thought that it was a very compelling one.

01:15:27.180 Um, whether or not I spiritually agree with it, it's still a very compelling argument.

01:15:32.320 What do you think about this one, Andrew?

01:15:33.900 So maybe I'll, we'll get back to the relationship status here in just a moment, but ladies, how 1.00

01:15:39.040 would you feel?

01:15:39.740 So you've been dating a guy for two years and this is the guy you want to get married

01:15:44.360 to.

01:15:44.660 You want to marry him.

01:15:45.620 You really like him.

01:15:46.560 And he's like, I, I need longer.

01:15:49.260 We've only been dating for two years.

01:15:51.040 I really need longer before I'm ready for that sort of commitment.

01:15:55.820 Inevitably, you guys end up breaking up three months after the breakup, he immediately starts

01:16:02.440 dating a new girl.

01:16:03.200 They've only been dating for two months.

01:16:04.660 He proposed to her after two months.

01:16:06.500 How would you feel about that?

01:16:10.100 You're just not the person for him.

01:16:12.160 Right.

01:16:12.520 But he, so he was saying the whole time there's, and he was saying like, I should have made this

01:16:17.680 clear.

01:16:18.260 He's been saying the whole time, there's no way I could ever like be ready to marry a

01:16:24.060 girl without knowing her for like three years.

01:16:27.060 And he says that I would never consider marrying a girl unless I dated her for three years and

01:16:31.820 we lived together, did all this stuff, blah, blah, blah.

01:16:33.740 I mean, that happens all the time.

01:16:35.860 I would just consider I was just the placeholder girl.

01:16:38.600 I wasn't, I mean, I'm not going to be happy about it, but it is what it is.

01:16:42.920 And perhaps the better framing would be, actually.

01:16:47.940 Also like, you know, maybe she offered something I, you know, he didn't see in me in those three

01:16:52.520 months.

01:16:52.900 Right.

01:16:53.200 I would feel like she has something that I didn't have to give to him.

01:16:57.140 And so, and plus I would try to like feel like I took somewhat responsibility for him.

01:17:03.740 Why, I'm wanting to marry someone because I trained him to be who he is today.

01:17:09.820 So I'd be like, that's all me.

01:17:10.640 But it would, I mean, it would make you feel pretty bad, right?

01:17:13.180 Yes.

01:17:13.640 No, it would not feel good.

01:17:14.580 Oh yeah, definitely.

01:17:15.140 Our ego would be hurt.

01:17:16.920 Yeah.

01:17:17.120 Yeah.

01:17:17.400 So that's why, that's why that scene and why guys like Brian see that as a red flag.

01:17:22.760 So there's, there's kind of the two ways to look at this.

01:17:25.740 The one way to look at it is, well, wait a second.

01:17:28.580 If you want a woman with a low body count, then you probably shouldn't be sleeping with 1.00

01:17:32.940 women because you add to their body count, right? 1.00

01:17:34.800 This makes sense.

01:17:35.720 It's coherent.

01:17:36.420 It's logical.

01:17:36.900 But on the other hand, how would it, how would it make you feel to know that you were trying

01:17:42.540 to do everything in the most virtuous way possible and you were dating a woman and she

01:17:48.160 said, listen, I, uh, I want to abstain due to virtue as well and wait until marriage.

01:17:54.280 And then you guys broke up maybe, let's say after nine months, and then she slept with 1.00

01:17:58.100 the next guy on the very first date. 1.00

01:17:59.760 Wouldn't that make you feel like total shit? 1.00

01:18:02.360 I mean, from the man's perspective, wouldn't it make them just feel like just shit? 1.00

01:18:06.020 Like they did everything right, right? 0.99

01:18:08.960 And they got screwed over for doing everything correctly.

01:18:13.160 I would feel like it was meant to be then because then it wasn't a match.

01:18:17.660 People are removed from your life for a reason.

01:18:20.500 And I would just be thankful that that happened.

01:18:23.860 Yeah.

01:18:24.000 I'm not, I'm not even making the dispute that that's not, that that couldn't be true.

01:18:28.160 Right. 0.99

01:18:29.320 All I'm asking is, wouldn't it make you feel like shit? 1.00

01:18:33.300 Of course. 1.00

01:18:34.040 Yeah.

01:18:34.840 And that's, and that's why, that's why it's seen as a red flag is like, why would I want

01:18:39.820 to make all of this investment in a woman who then comes to me and says, I want to have 1.00

01:18:45.940 a virtuous relationship with you.

01:18:47.680 So I'm abstaining.

01:18:48.460 And then I found out in her last relationship, she slept with them the first night. 0.80

01:18:52.000 As a man, why are you going into like women's past relationships like that though?

01:18:56.100 I feel like if you're dating someone like the passionate matter.

01:18:58.540 Well, we'll get, it shouldn't.

01:19:02.840 So let me ask you a question.

01:19:04.160 Just a quick question.

01:19:05.320 If a man has a history of domestic violence, does his past matter?

01:19:08.720 Yeah.

01:19:09.140 Yeah.

01:19:09.680 Okay.

01:19:10.060 Then is there anything else you wanted to add to that?

01:19:11.820 But I'm saying like, I wouldn't go digging into his like ex-relationships like, oh, when

01:19:17.200 did you do this or that for your girlfriend?

01:19:18.360 Wait, wait, I'm sorry.

01:19:19.540 I'm sorry.

01:19:19.840 If you, if you were told by a friend of yours, if you were told by a friend of yours that

01:19:24.080 a man you were dating had a history of, of domestic violence, you wouldn't go digging

01:19:28.440 really?

01:19:28.860 I actually got told a lot about my current boyfriend.

01:19:32.440 Like people came up to me and were telling me things about him when we went out and from 0.99

01:19:37.320 seeing his character, like I knew that that was just bullshit. 0.99

01:19:41.600 Okay. 0.98

01:19:42.200 You didn't go poking around though?

01:19:44.360 I didn't need to.

01:19:45.380 Cause I didn't care about what was happening previously.

01:19:48.420 What if you were told that he had a history of a kid diddling?

01:19:51.080 Would you go poking around then since you have a daughter at home?

01:19:53.980 Of what?

01:19:55.080 Kid diddling.

01:19:55.640 If he, if, if, if he, you were told he had a history.

01:19:59.840 I would use my discernment on that.

01:20:02.200 Like how.

01:20:02.820 What do you mean you'd use your discernment?

01:20:04.320 If you were told you have a daughter at home.

01:20:06.720 If you were told that somebody had a history.

01:20:08.180 And I would use my discernment on how he acts.

01:20:10.300 If someone's eager to obviously meet my daughter, like, oh yeah, like bring me around your kid.

01:20:14.040 Then that's weird.

01:20:15.380 I use my discernment on, that's why he's the first person that ever met my daughter.

01:20:18.960 Do you think that they're just going to announce themselves and all their creepy vibes are just

01:20:22.580 going to come out at once?

01:20:23.660 No.

01:20:23.680 But I feel like you can tell when men are like, you know, like, oh, why don't you bring

01:20:28.760 me?

01:20:28.920 Like I had, I've dated people that wanted to meet my daughter like very early on.

01:20:32.420 I was like, that's weird.

01:20:33.300 Like, why do you want to hang out with a five-year-old?

01:20:34.700 Okay.

01:20:35.000 Well, let me just ask this very simply then.

01:20:36.980 Would you allow somebody who had ever diddled a kid around your daughter?

01:20:39.780 Obviously not.

01:20:40.880 Well, then I guess their history matters, doesn't it?

01:20:44.380 Well, I think as men and women nowadays, we need to do our due diligence and we need to

01:20:49.940 do our homework when we date someone.

01:20:51.620 And you have to draw the line as to what's too much homework and, you know, stay within

01:20:57.620 that boundaries of just doing your research on that individual just to protect yourself

01:21:03.920 too.

01:21:04.280 And if you have kids, you've got to protect them as well.

01:21:07.260 So I'm all about like doing research on someone, but not to let it go too far where it's going

01:21:12.480 to just totally steer you in the right direction.

01:21:15.120 Yeah.

01:21:15.160 Well, yeah, I, I understand what you're saying.

01:21:17.220 So, and I think, I think that this is a more charitable way to view things, right?

01:21:21.740 You can, if you nitpick anybody, you can always find something that you're going to be upset

01:21:27.340 with or mad about or some decision that they made that could potentially make a red flag.

01:21:33.080 And if you obsess over it, I agree with you.

01:21:35.820 I think that that's probably way outside of the gate.

01:21:38.740 However, you have to admit that some things, which would be red flags are, have got to have

01:21:44.020 different priorities, right?

01:21:45.620 So domestic violence, for instance, that's going to be a high priority.

01:21:49.080 Body count could be a high priority.

01:21:50.820 There's going to be things which are going to be bigger red flags than other things, right?

01:21:55.380 Like I think that Brian having OCD, for instance, likely isn't going to be as big of a red flag

01:22:00.880 as if Brian hypothetically beat up his last girlfriend, right?

01:22:05.260 Which one of those would you say is the bigger red flag?

01:22:08.460 It depends on the person.

01:22:10.060 Some people might not want to deal with someone.

01:22:12.060 Someone might not want to deal with someone having OCD.

01:22:15.000 I think there's deal breakers and then there's things that you can kind of deal with.

01:22:19.040 But so I'll grant to you that there could be one human being or two or three or 20 human

01:22:24.920 beings who would qualify that OCD would make them more uncomfortable than a man who had

01:22:30.180 a history of domestic abuse.

01:22:31.760 Fine.

01:22:32.300 Do you think that most people, that that would be a priority for them?

01:22:36.060 That OCD would in some way trump a history of domestic violence?

01:22:40.140 Of course not.

01:22:41.260 That's absurd, right?

01:22:42.680 That's absurd.

01:22:43.220 So that's why I'm saying I think that there should be a prioritization of what these red flags

01:22:48.000 are, but I agree with you in spirit that if you just go crazy trying to dig into every

01:22:53.660 little aspect of any individual, you're going to find something.

01:22:56.300 Right.

01:22:56.760 Everyone's got dirt on that.

01:22:58.000 So I'm going to table this just so we can come back to it, but I want to get everybody's

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01:23:32.760 Can we do it?

01:23:44.060 Yeah, sorry.

01:23:44.580 I thought you wanted to pull it up.

01:23:47.300 Well, it's up now, so okay. 0.98

01:23:48.620 Pull that shit back up. 0.97

01:23:49.960 That's not where I was going with it, but okay. 0.99

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01:24:09.100 Okay, relationship status.

01:24:10.860 Go ahead.

01:24:11.760 Single.

01:24:14.120 Longest relationship was 10 years.

01:24:16.040 Oh, and I've been single for a year and a half from that 10 year.

01:24:19.360 So you've been single for how long?

01:24:21.420 A year and a half.

01:24:22.340 1.5, and it was a 10 year relationship?

01:24:24.400 Yes.

01:24:25.380 And you guys were married?

01:24:27.120 No.

01:24:27.680 Not married.

01:24:28.520 Ever married?

01:24:29.040 I've been married.

01:24:30.880 I was married to my son's father.

01:24:35.640 But I did not, we did not marry.

01:24:38.460 The 10 year, that was the point of contention.

01:24:41.000 Wait, and...

01:24:41.460 There was a lot of...

01:24:42.280 Well, there was a lot of reasons.

01:24:42.500 The 10 year relationship is the one with your son's father?

01:24:45.300 No.

01:24:45.740 That's another relationship.

01:24:46.460 It was after.

01:24:47.380 Mm-hmm.

01:24:47.600 So your marriage, how long did that relationship last?

01:24:51.240 Three years.

01:24:52.040 Okay.

01:24:54.800 And so the 10 year one ended a year and a half ago?

01:24:59.140 Yes.

01:24:59.680 But that's, the 10 year one's not the father of your kids?

01:25:02.340 Correct.

01:25:03.260 Okay.

01:25:04.080 Any other, just one child?

01:25:05.620 Yes.

01:25:06.220 Any other children?

01:25:07.120 No.

01:25:07.940 Okay.

01:25:08.520 How old's the child?

01:25:09.760 He's 20.

01:25:11.180 Okay.

01:25:13.040 He's an adult.

01:25:14.500 Sure.

01:25:16.440 I'm trying to think of the timeline here.

01:25:18.880 So from like 41 to 51 you were married?

01:25:23.480 40 to 50?

01:25:24.220 No, no, no.

01:25:24.820 Sorry, not married, in the 10 year relationship.

01:25:26.600 The 10 year, 40, 40 to...

01:25:31.900 50.

01:25:32.560 50.

01:25:33.160 Yeah, because I just turned 52.

01:25:34.700 So, yeah.

01:25:35.540 Okay.

01:25:35.900 Mm-hmm.

01:25:36.540 And then the three, at what age did you have your son?

01:25:40.000 31.

01:25:41.140 31.

01:25:41.820 Okay.

01:25:42.620 Yes.

01:25:43.900 Gotcha.

01:25:44.420 And is, uh, did your, the father, did he pay you child support?

01:25:50.120 No.

01:25:50.500 We had 50-50 custody and I made more money, so...

01:25:53.980 Did you pay him child support?

01:25:55.220 No, thank God he didn't ask for that.

01:25:57.540 We just, clean break.

01:25:59.560 Hmm.

01:26:00.640 And we decided to co-parent.

01:26:02.060 Question, had he earned more than you, would you have, uh, seeked child support?

01:26:07.420 Probably, yes.

01:26:08.240 Of course, because I wasn't making a lot of money at the time.

01:26:11.160 But you said you were making more money than him.

01:26:12.720 Oh, sorry.

01:26:13.980 You're right.

01:26:14.640 It, but you're saying if the role was reversed and he...

01:26:16.760 Well, so you, uh, you said that you were making more money than him, but luckily he

01:26:21.380 didn't seek child support because he would have been awarded it.

01:26:24.120 But had you been making less than him, you would have almost certainly seeked child support.

01:26:28.640 I would have needed it, living in Los Angeles for sure.

01:26:32.160 Doesn't he need it?

01:26:32.980 Yeah.

01:26:35.240 But if, if you were earning more than him and you would have needed the child support living

01:26:44.140 in Los Angeles...

01:26:45.240 Well, I didn't need the child support.

01:26:47.200 But you're asking if he would have made more money at the time, would I have asked for child

01:26:50.920 support?

01:26:51.540 Yeah.

01:26:51.820 And I said probably.

01:26:53.120 But so then he would have needed the child support, right?

01:26:56.240 But I would, he, he probably, yeah, he did.

01:27:02.320 I pay for everything.

01:27:03.260 So yeah, he would have needed the child support.

01:27:05.800 I still pay for everything with him.

01:27:07.880 Okay.

01:27:08.380 The custody was just split then?

01:27:09.980 Yeah.

01:27:10.360 It was just...

01:27:11.020 He didn't contribute to any expenses or...

01:27:13.240 Um, when he was in high school, we split large bills, but for the most part, I covered his

01:27:18.840 medical insurance.

01:27:20.000 When he was old enough to have a cell phone, I paid for his flight school.

01:27:24.060 Um, I pay, he lives with me now, so I pay for everything, his groceries.

01:27:28.800 Okay.

01:27:30.300 And, uh, any longer, so there's the 10 year, the three year, any other, what was the next

01:27:36.060 longest relationship?

01:27:36.880 Well, before, um, probably just a couple of years, three years, maybe at the time.

01:27:46.900 All right.

01:27:48.280 And, um, you said you recently went on a, actually, before we dive in, I'll come back to it.

01:27:53.940 Okay.

01:27:54.160 Uh, let's get everybody's status here.

01:27:55.900 Go ahead.

01:27:56.440 Uh, currently I am single right now and the longest relationship I've ever been in was

01:28:00.880 three and a half years.

01:28:01.880 And I guess the, I was talking to somebody and we were dating like not too long ago, but

01:28:06.700 we did break up this past July.

01:28:08.920 So I am single now, but.

01:28:11.060 So a month ago you broke up.

01:28:12.780 Yeah.

01:28:12.920 So you've been single for one month.

01:28:14.100 Yeah.

01:28:15.080 Was, and how long was that relationship?

01:28:18.100 It barely lasted a month itself too, because we were best friends since high school, but

01:28:21.900 we thought it'd be a good idea to try getting into a relationship, but it didn't end up

01:28:25.760 working that way.

01:28:26.200 From what age to what age was the 3.5 year relationship?

01:28:29.080 That was when I was in high school from freshman year to senior year.

01:28:31.520 I see.

01:28:32.260 Okay.

01:28:33.080 All right.

01:28:33.840 What about the longest relationship you've had since you've been 18?

01:28:36.940 That was two and a half years and that was a circus.

01:28:40.960 It was really bad.

01:28:42.120 What do you mean a circus?

01:28:43.420 Um, he was, he cheated on me a lot and he was a lot older too.

01:28:47.420 So it was hard like being or dating someone, um, that, I don't know, he was just a really

01:28:55.140 bad person in general.

01:28:56.000 Like he was always angry all the time.

01:28:57.780 Uh, we went to court too because of certain situations, but it was because he cheated on

01:29:02.780 me and it was like a whole big thing with work and everything that we used to do together.

01:29:06.500 But yeah, thankfully I got out of that.

01:29:09.800 What was the age gap?

01:29:11.280 The age gap?

01:29:12.080 I was 18 and he was 26 on 27.

01:29:15.500 Okay.

01:29:16.340 All right.

01:29:18.340 What about you?

01:29:19.180 Um, I'm newly divorced as of 2020.

01:29:22.180 Um, I was married to my ex-husband for 27 years or actually 20 years, but we dated for

01:29:28.160 seven years prior to getting married.

01:29:30.400 Um, I have three kids with him.

01:29:33.180 Um, so that's the longest relationship I've ever been in.

01:29:36.080 I'm currently dating someone now.

01:29:38.780 Um, just want you're dating one person, multiple people, just one person.

01:29:43.760 Um, I'm in a relationship.

01:29:44.980 How long have you guys been dating?

01:29:46.780 Um, about off and on for about a year.

01:29:49.480 Off and on for about a year?

01:29:50.780 Mm-hmm.

01:29:51.240 Uh, when you say off and on, how many times has it been off and on?

01:29:56.620 Um, two times.

01:29:59.080 Who ends it?

01:30:02.640 Me.

01:30:03.580 Who tries to get it back?

01:30:06.220 He does.

01:30:07.400 Why do you end it?

01:30:09.620 Um, I feel like I have major trust issues from my past.

01:30:14.180 Traumas and relationships with my, I guess, relationship with my ex-husband kind of did

01:30:20.520 a doozy on me.

01:30:22.020 And so I feel like when I'm in a relationship with somebody that it's hard for me to trust

01:30:26.480 them.

01:30:27.000 So I'm really quick to bail out of a relationship rather than sit and fix it.

01:30:33.660 Okay.

01:30:35.120 Um, so kind of like, I want to, I'll end things before you can end things kind of?

01:30:41.940 Um, not really like a competitive thing like that.

01:30:44.500 It's more like, um, I don't want to get hurt to the point where I'm like completely devastated

01:30:54.700 and in the dumps and trying to get out of the darkness per se.

01:31:00.780 Sure.

01:31:01.220 So I try to cut it out, cut him loose as quick as possible so I don't have to get to that

01:31:06.500 dark place.

01:31:07.900 Does that make sense?

01:31:09.600 Sure.

01:31:10.540 And, uh, since the divorce, is this the only guy you've dated?

01:31:13.980 No.

01:31:14.360 I've dated two other guys.

01:31:17.400 Two other guys.

01:31:18.040 Okay.

01:31:19.020 All right.

01:31:19.760 Any short term, more casual stuff or?

01:31:22.160 Yeah.

01:31:22.380 In the beginning, of course, casual, you know, but after that, um, yeah, I dated long term

01:31:30.180 after that, but I've only been divorced since 2020.

01:31:32.900 So.

01:31:33.520 Got it.

01:31:34.020 What about you?

01:31:34.980 Um, I've, wait, I forgot it.

01:31:37.860 I've been single or I am single.

01:31:39.740 I've been single for a month and my longest relationship is just like short, it's like

01:31:43.220 four months, I think.

01:31:44.740 Okay.

01:31:45.940 Uh, so longest is four months.

01:31:47.720 You've been single for one month is the one that ended the month ago, the four month one.

01:31:51.100 No, that one was like, like three and a half.

01:31:54.040 Years ago?

01:31:54.800 No, three and a half months ago.

01:31:56.760 Oh, three and a half months ago.

01:31:58.400 And then the, uh, the guy who you broke up with or things ended a month ago.

01:32:02.520 How long were you guys seeing each other?

01:32:04.700 It was okay.

01:32:05.380 We were dating for like three and a half months, but we were probably like together for like six.

01:32:09.740 Okay.

01:32:11.660 I would say that's right.

01:32:12.460 And that, that's the one that ended a month ago?

01:32:14.380 Yeah.

01:32:15.220 Okay.

01:32:15.780 And that was four month, six month guy.

01:32:19.020 Basically.

01:32:19.820 Okay.

01:32:20.260 Why did that end?

01:32:21.300 Oh my gosh. 1.00

01:32:21.960 It's stupid. 1.00

01:32:22.900 I was at a party and, um, I got in the car with a guy who used to like me and I didn't 1.00

01:32:28.300 tell him about it.

01:32:29.520 And basically then he blew up.

01:32:31.680 He didn't blow up on me.

01:32:32.460 I was in the wrong.

01:32:33.740 Cause I lied about it to him and he found out and he was like really upset about it.

01:32:37.460 And he was just like, I can't be with someone who lies.

01:32:39.320 I'm like, and he's like, you're going to Santa Barbara.

01:32:41.280 Like, are you not going to cheat on me?

01:32:42.540 I'm like, cause I'm just not going to cheat on any trust.

01:32:44.940 But yeah, that was that.

01:32:47.940 Okay.

01:32:48.580 Gotcha.

01:32:49.080 And so you're, um, where are you from again?

01:32:51.680 LA.

01:32:52.740 Or you said carp or?

01:32:53.920 Oh, carpenter.

01:32:54.720 I grew up like over here, but I've been living in Calabasas.

01:32:58.460 Okay.

01:32:58.880 I see.

01:32:59.360 And so single for one month, any rebounds?

01:33:04.840 No, no, nothing.

01:33:06.400 I'm stuck on that guy.

01:33:08.000 Oh, you're still trying to.

01:33:09.340 No, not really.

01:33:10.660 I'm just like, I don't know.

01:33:11.920 Like people have been like trying to talk to me.

01:33:14.500 I don't think they're like attractive or I wouldn't want to be around them.

01:33:17.120 So I don't really pursue it.

01:33:19.160 You don't think they're attractive?

01:33:20.340 No.

01:33:21.460 How did you guys, how did you meet the last guy?

01:33:23.480 In person?

01:33:25.160 My friend set us up.

01:33:27.580 And so we were talking over Instagram for a while and then we met.

01:33:31.840 And then it turned out like some kid that I had grown up with had like been like best

01:33:36.460 friends with him.

01:33:37.440 So we were always like in the same circles, but we had never just met, if that makes sense.

01:33:44.800 Okay.

01:33:46.360 And how did you take the news when he was essentially ending things with you?

01:33:52.040 I don't know.

01:33:52.840 I was just like, oh my gosh, like looking back at it, I'm kind of embarrassed because

01:33:57.200 I was dramatic about it.

01:33:59.060 How so?

01:33:59.640 But when, how so?

01:34:01.040 Yeah.

01:34:01.180 Oh my God.

01:34:01.500 I was just like, he was like looking at me like straight face and I was like bawling my

01:34:05.600 eyes out.

01:34:06.240 Like, that's just embarrassing to me.

01:34:07.980 I don't know why.

01:34:09.700 But in the moment I was just like upset and I was like, no, like you're kind of being

01:34:13.540 dramatic about this.

01:34:14.560 Like this is fixable.

01:34:16.820 But yeah.

01:34:17.440 He broke up with you in person?

01:34:21.460 Yeah.

01:34:22.340 It was like a three day process.

01:34:24.280 What do you mean a three day process?

01:34:25.440 He was like, let's go on a break.

01:34:26.700 And then the next day he went out with a girl and I was like, dude, like technically we haven't

01:34:31.240 broken up yet.

01:34:32.220 Yeah.

01:34:32.380 That's over.

01:34:32.920 And he was like, well, it's not the same because you lied about being with the guy in the car

01:34:37.440 and I'm just getting lunch and going dancing with her.

01:34:39.760 I'm like, buddy, like that's a date.

01:34:41.520 And then the next, we didn't talk the next day and then the next day I wanted to talk

01:34:47.620 to him because I don't know.

01:34:49.980 But then he was like, yeah, like I want to break up.

01:34:52.040 I'm like, okay, that makes sense.

01:34:54.480 Ever been on the dating app?

01:34:56.100 No.

01:34:56.720 No.

01:34:57.080 Okay.

01:34:58.080 Do you like go out and party and anything like that?

01:35:01.540 Yeah.

01:35:01.980 Like, I don't know.

01:35:02.920 In LA I would only like party like once or twice a month.

01:35:06.220 But obviously I expect that to like be different over here.

01:35:10.100 Okay.

01:35:10.460 Do you think you'll be, I mean, Santa Barbara, a pretty big college area.

01:35:15.020 Do you think you'll be going out like Thursday, Friday, Saturday, partying and stuff?

01:35:18.760 We'll see.

01:35:19.900 Like, because I need to get a job.

01:35:21.760 But I'd like to like go out on like Fridays and Saturdays.

01:35:26.560 What about you?

01:35:27.780 I'm single, but I'm talking to someone.

01:35:30.940 All right.

01:35:31.480 How long have you been talking to them?

01:35:33.640 For like a month.

01:35:34.800 Pale and well met.

01:35:36.400 Long Paladin's donated $200.02.

01:35:39.480 Appreciate it.

01:35:40.000 Oh my God.

01:35:40.440 Okay.

01:35:41.120 Come on.

01:35:41.620 You need to admit it.

01:35:42.700 You did more than just get in a car with that other guy.

01:35:46.040 Otherwise you wouldn't have lied about it.

01:35:48.220 I like, okay.

01:35:50.900 I know that's like bad looks, but like on everything I'm like, I can't even like, I don't know if

01:35:56.580 he's going to think that.

01:35:57.300 I don't know.

01:35:58.020 Okay.

01:35:58.340 So basically he used to be my best friend, but then like he, as soon as he liked me, we

01:36:03.500 like literally cut it off.

01:36:04.880 Cause I didn't like him.

01:36:05.720 And I was like, I'm not going to say anything, but, um, my friends had like taken my keys

01:36:11.940 and I was like, guys, can I just sit on the car?

01:36:13.380 And they're like, no, you're a need to eat.

01:36:14.480 So we went to In-N-Out.

01:36:15.800 Like it was literally nothing.

01:36:16.900 Like there was so many other people in the car with us.

01:36:19.620 I swear.

01:36:20.500 Like, I don't know.

01:36:21.740 I'm just spending myself online.

01:36:23.040 Like, I know I didn't.

01:36:24.240 So nothing happened?

01:36:25.440 Like nothing happened.

01:36:26.980 Like.

01:36:28.480 Had you guys like hooked up previously?

01:36:30.420 No, no, not at all.

01:36:32.780 Okay.

01:36:33.300 He's like shorter than me.

01:36:34.780 Like he was like my friend, like, and he was so far in the friend zone and he knew it.

01:36:39.900 Cause he was shorter than you.

01:36:41.020 No, because I just didn't like it.

01:36:42.540 Like he would do stuff and I would like call him out on it.

01:36:45.340 Like I didn't like, I didn't like him at all.

01:36:47.800 And that's when he started to like me.

01:36:49.100 That's when I like cut it off.

01:36:51.240 Does that make sense?

01:36:52.040 Had there been boundaries drawn by the guy that you were dating about this guy?

01:36:57.300 No, but he knew who he was.

01:36:59.840 Okay.

01:37:00.880 Like, no.

01:37:04.360 So you've been seeing a guy for, were you in this, you were on the podcast like about a month ago or so?

01:37:10.260 Yeah, I remember I told you I was talking to him for a week.

01:37:12.500 Same guy?

01:37:13.220 Mm-hmm.

01:37:13.560 Same guy.

01:37:14.320 Okay.

01:37:15.140 So like situationship or relationship?

01:37:17.860 Well, like he said he's going to ask me, but like, I don't know when.

01:37:20.720 But we've only been knowing.

01:37:22.220 The only thing that sucks is that he has to move back home in January.

01:37:25.240 So I don't know what I'm going to do.

01:37:26.500 Okay.

01:37:27.960 Longest relationship?

01:37:29.420 Two and a half years.

01:37:31.600 Two years.

01:37:32.880 Okay.

01:37:33.280 And that's the guy who, you bought them a PS5?

01:37:36.160 No, no, no.

01:37:36.560 The one that I bought PS5, that one was like six months.

01:37:39.180 They never dated initially.

01:37:42.120 Mm-hmm.

01:37:42.820 Okay.

01:37:44.400 How did you meet this guy?

01:37:46.040 This one?

01:37:46.540 Yeah.

01:37:46.680 Oh, at a party.

01:37:47.760 Well, like, because I throw parties with my friends, and I met him there.

01:37:52.200 Okay.

01:37:52.880 He came up to me.

01:37:54.120 And he's going back somewhere in January, you said?

01:37:58.820 He's going back to Washington for school.

01:38:01.460 In January?

01:38:02.280 In January.

01:38:03.320 Okay.

01:38:04.380 All right.

01:38:05.160 Morgan?

01:38:07.180 I'm single.

01:38:09.000 Longest relationship?

01:38:09.960 Two and a half years.

01:38:12.280 Oh, sorry.

01:38:13.060 I didn't mean to press that.

01:38:13.760 My bad.

01:38:14.760 Just kidding.

01:38:15.600 All right.

01:38:16.020 Maddie, what about you?

01:38:16.720 I've been in a relationship for two years.

01:38:19.220 Almost two years.

01:38:20.600 Okay.

01:38:21.200 All right.

01:38:23.820 So, that's everybody's relationship status.

01:38:26.080 I need to get back to, who's this guy?

01:38:28.640 That guy, he said, what do you think about dismantling whiteness? 1.00

01:38:34.660 What the fuck? 0.99

01:38:36.080 Totally dating related, but okay. 1.00

01:38:37.960 Going around the table, if you have any thoughts on that.

01:38:39.920 I don't know if any of you will, but.

01:38:42.940 I don't know what that means.

01:38:44.040 Yeah, I don't know what that means.

01:38:46.180 What?

01:38:48.660 This isn't even the question I would want to ask, but he asked it, so I'm just going to

01:38:51.740 oblige him.

01:38:52.840 Anybody?

01:38:53.480 No.

01:38:54.120 Sorry, bro.

01:38:54.600 If you ask a question and the girls don't know, don't have a position on it, there's 1.00

01:38:58.000 nothing I can.

01:38:59.320 Anything?

01:39:00.280 Any takers?

01:39:02.040 Is he talking about white privilege?

01:39:04.160 Dismantling white? 0.51

01:39:04.820 That's his, I don't know.

01:39:06.080 I'm assuming.

01:39:07.020 I don't know.

01:39:08.400 I don't know.

01:39:08.600 It's like big words.

01:39:10.400 It's going to be a hard pass.

01:39:11.740 Any takers going once?

01:39:15.380 Yeah, I don't know.

01:39:16.100 I grew up in a white area, so I feel like sometimes people think I'm whitewashed.

01:39:20.460 I can't really talk on that.

01:39:23.000 He said, what does dismantling whiteness mean to you?

01:39:27.700 Is he asking us because he doesn't know either?

01:39:32.180 There it is.

01:39:32.860 I mean, you got to define it in the, I don't know, I can't really help here.

01:39:41.280 Okay, here, I'll do a, I'll help this guy out a little bit.

01:39:45.260 Do you guys think white privilege exists?

01:39:47.820 Yes.

01:39:48.260 Yeah.

01:39:49.140 You're going around the table?

01:39:51.140 Yeah, it does.

01:39:53.360 Oh, gosh.

01:39:54.040 Yeah, in corporate America, I've seen it.

01:39:56.320 Yes.

01:39:57.840 Occasionally, yes.

01:39:58.720 Yeah.

01:39:59.200 Yeah.

01:39:59.360 Okay, we'll just leave it there.

01:40:05.580 Thank you, Ben, for that.

01:40:08.060 Maybe we'll touch on it later, but, so, okay, let's get into the pre-show notes here.

01:40:13.800 Got some pre-show notes for everybody. 0.68

01:40:15.600 So, Lori, ex-stripper, scammer, currently a stay-at-home girlfriend, was a sex worker stripper. 0.98

01:40:23.100 You said, was a sex worker. 0.96

01:40:24.900 Were you, besides the stripping, did you do anything else? 0.99

01:40:27.260 No, stripping is sex work. 0.99

01:40:29.260 I feel like even if you work at a Hooters, that's sex work. 0.96

01:40:31.340 You're selling a fantasy.

01:40:32.260 But, like, OnlyFans?

01:40:33.900 Nope, nothing like that. 0.68

01:40:35.120 Traditional porn?

01:40:36.160 No.

01:40:37.060 Escorting?

01:40:38.000 No.

01:40:38.540 Street walking?

01:40:39.260 No.

01:40:39.720 Prostitution? 0.99

01:40:41.700 Dominatrix? 0.99

01:40:42.300 No.

01:40:44.100 Sending feet pics?

01:40:45.720 No.

01:40:46.840 Okay, all right.

01:40:47.660 Just, you know. 0.94

01:40:48.540 You said sex worker, so. 0.98

01:40:50.000 Well, yeah, a stripper is a sex worker. 1.00

01:40:52.360 If you're selling the fantasy of sex, you're a sex worker. 1.00

01:40:54.700 Sure. 0.98

01:40:55.100 Even girls that work at Hooters are sex workers, even though they don't want to admit that. 1.00

01:40:58.560 Okay.

01:40:58.880 So, going to Asia here. 0.91

01:40:59.920 Asia, you said that, I think, is this in your bio?

01:41:04.980 Comedy and inspiration for ageless singles.

01:41:07.740 That's the bio.

01:41:08.860 Yeah.

01:41:09.000 Our bio.

01:41:09.360 What does that mean?

01:41:10.260 What is ageless singles?

01:41:13.420 What is that?

01:41:14.020 Because age is just a number in my mind, because I mentally feel younger than I am.

01:41:20.100 So, we're ageless.

01:41:26.800 You're only as old as you feel. 0.62

01:41:28.940 Well.

01:41:30.320 Are you?

01:41:32.480 I feel young.

01:41:33.320 I feel as young as these girls sitting at the table.

01:41:40.540 I'm still a little confused.

01:41:42.060 I don't know if I'm just a little slow or something.

01:41:44.360 I'm just confused.

01:41:46.100 Ageless?

01:41:48.100 Yeah.

01:41:49.060 So, aging, kind of aging backwards, aging in reverse.

01:41:51.900 Not aging.

01:41:52.860 So, age is just a number?

01:41:54.220 Not aging, because, yeah.

01:41:56.120 But age is just a number?

01:41:57.440 Mm-hmm.

01:41:57.880 So, you don't object to, like, age gap relationships if, like, a 50-year-old is dating a 25-year-old?

01:42:03.220 No.

01:42:03.660 That's what I'm saying.

01:42:04.320 I think roles are reversed.

01:42:05.540 Like, men my age, I find very jaded.

01:42:11.820 Sure.

01:42:12.160 And they are feeling, a lot of them feel very taken advantage of by their wives.

01:42:20.400 So, they like to date younger girls because they're more carefree.

01:42:24.520 Sure.

01:42:25.880 Okay.

01:42:26.740 You said that you went on, it was, you got out of your 10-year relationship.

01:42:35.160 You had to learn how to date again.

01:42:36.720 Yes.

01:42:37.200 You told yourself you would go on at least 21 dates to learn what you wanted.

01:42:40.820 Yes.

01:42:41.080 And you said you went on 45 dates last year.

01:42:44.520 Yes.

01:42:45.060 Got burnt out.

01:42:46.020 Not interested in dating right now.

01:42:47.580 So, there's no guys in the picture right now.

01:42:49.160 No.

01:42:49.600 Zero.

01:42:50.180 Zero.

01:42:50.620 When's the last time you were on a date?

01:42:51.600 Um, March, February, February.

01:42:57.260 Yeah, February.

01:42:57.740 No guys?

01:42:58.260 No guys in the picture?

01:42:59.240 No.

01:42:59.660 I get hit up on my Instagram all the time.

01:43:01.740 I get hit on, but they live in other countries or on the East Coast. 0.98

01:43:05.400 They're not, it's not real.

01:43:06.400 Not even a fling type thing?

01:43:07.880 Casual?

01:43:08.440 Nothing?

01:43:09.100 No.

01:43:09.600 Okay.

01:43:10.420 But so, 45 dates.

01:43:12.540 So, you did 21?

01:43:13.800 Yes.

01:43:14.300 I told myself.

01:43:14.840 And then you did 45.

01:43:15.740 I told myself 21.

01:43:17.140 Mm-hmm.

01:43:18.500 And I just kept going to 45.

01:43:21.340 Oh, okay.

01:43:22.260 And, and what was the period of time?

01:43:25.060 A year.

01:43:25.980 One year?

01:43:26.500 Last year.

01:43:27.060 Yeah.

01:43:27.300 So, like about one date a week, about?

01:43:28.960 Yeah.

01:43:29.280 So, I ended it, moved out of my tenure March of last year.

01:43:35.680 Mm-hmm.

01:43:36.100 And, wow, it was exactly one year.

01:43:38.060 And the last date I went on was March of this year.

01:43:40.480 So, yeah, it was exactly one year.

01:43:41.900 Mm-hmm.

01:43:42.720 And how many dates, like the most dates you went on in one week?

01:43:47.060 Probably five.

01:43:48.400 Oh, five in one week.

01:43:49.460 I, okay.

01:43:50.460 There was a lot.

01:43:51.640 There was, yeah.

01:43:52.820 No, that's fine.

01:43:53.540 There was a lot of dates.

01:43:55.060 So, it wasn't, like, spread out, really.

01:43:58.200 They would be concentrated.

01:43:59.600 I was kind of on a mission to get through the 21, because I really wanted to understand myself.

01:44:04.140 Yeah.

01:44:04.600 How long did the 21 take?

01:44:05.980 Five months.

01:44:06.800 Oh, five months.

01:44:07.480 But the, the, the most compacted week was five in a week.

01:44:11.740 Sure.

01:44:12.240 Yeah.

01:44:12.520 Okay.

01:44:12.860 Any, uh, two dates in one day?

01:44:14.920 Anything like that?

01:44:15.300 No.

01:44:16.160 Three dates in one day?

01:44:17.060 No.

01:44:17.500 Okay.

01:44:17.760 Uh, all right.

01:44:19.440 And how did that go?

01:44:21.500 The, the, the 21 dates, 45 dates?

01:44:24.040 I went on 21.

01:44:25.480 Mm-hmm.

01:44:25.680 I still didn't find my person, so I continued to go on more dates.

01:44:31.260 Mm-hmm.

01:44:31.440 And number 40 was, you know, after a month, he's like, hey, I don't want to, um, I'm all

01:44:39.620 in.

01:44:40.160 Mm-hmm.

01:44:41.320 We deleted the dating apps, and we were together, like, three and a half months.

01:44:46.460 But it didn't work, and then you had a few more dates after that, and then, uh.

01:44:50.540 Because you said that was number 40, but you went on 45.

01:44:53.240 Yeah.

01:44:53.420 Well, I was dating while we were still in the courting stage in that month.

01:44:57.840 Oh, okay.

01:44:58.320 So I went on five more dates from the time I met him.

01:45:00.800 Like, early on, but then he was like, let's be committed for a bit, whatever.

01:45:05.140 Yeah.

01:45:05.520 And then that was the last guy that you dated?

01:45:07.460 That was the last guy, yeah.

01:45:08.520 How long ago was that?

01:45:09.560 When did that end?

01:45:10.340 March.

01:45:10.880 March.

01:45:11.400 Yes.

01:45:11.520 Okay, so five, five, five months ago, about?

01:45:15.220 Yes.

01:45:15.540 Um, and so, uh, none of the other guys, though, 40, none of them caught your eye?

01:45:25.240 Three, there were three men in the year that I had spent, um, about three months.

01:45:31.460 I feel like that's kind of the, the expiration date.

01:45:35.420 Oh, three different men that, okay.

01:45:36.920 That I found is like, after three months, that's when people really start to become themselves,

01:45:41.180 and they start to really figure out if they can be with each other.

01:45:46.600 And that's usually when it falls apart.

01:45:48.620 It's kind of the make it or break it.

01:45:50.000 So, so how many of the 45 dates were only one date?

01:45:53.900 Most of them were only one.

01:45:55.740 So like 40 of them?

01:45:57.160 Um, probably.

01:45:59.820 Because you said there were like three that were like longer.

01:46:02.380 Three months, right.

01:46:04.740 But the last one was the only one that I was in, like, we, we were committed to just each

01:46:09.940 other for that three and a half months.

01:46:11.680 Who, who broke up with who?

01:46:13.180 I broke up with him.

01:46:15.100 He was being very inconsistent.

01:46:17.640 And then I found out he was hiding that he had a third child.

01:46:21.680 Um, so the, that betrayal and that trust was broken.

01:46:25.660 And so I couldn't, no longer be with him.

01:46:29.660 I see.

01:46:30.460 So after that, I decided just, just give it a break.

01:46:34.200 And so what was wrong with like all the, the 40 other guys?

01:46:39.220 You're just not, you're just not compatible.

01:46:41.440 It's just not their, your person. 0.98

01:46:43.420 Um, there were a lot of guys that, I don't know.

01:46:50.720 They just, you're just not compatible.

01:46:53.040 It just doesn't work out.

01:46:56.020 Okay.

01:46:56.420 I think a lot of guys too, especially on the dating apps that I found when I was on them

01:47:00.800 is, um, both men and women, both, they don't have the best intentions.

01:47:08.340 Sometimes they are in relationships.

01:47:09.560 And I did find out one of the guys that I went on one date with had a couple of girlfriends

01:47:16.020 at the time.

01:47:17.720 Or so that's why he disappeared.

01:47:20.000 So, and so I guess, uh, what were you looking for at the time in terms of what you're looking

01:47:27.360 for in the guy where there's some criteria, looks wise, personality?

01:47:32.320 I, I really wanted to find my person because I felt like I spent the last 10 years wasted.

01:47:41.600 I'm going to use air quotes as that because, um, he wasn't my person.

01:47:47.460 And so I was kind of on the fast track of trying to find my person and now in hindsight, realizing

01:47:54.180 like, don't force something that it's not going to work.

01:47:58.300 Um, yeah, but I had a lot of fun.

01:48:01.180 I went out, went on some fun dates and met some really cool, interesting people.

01:48:04.680 There's probably about three guys that I still talk to that I consider my friends.

01:48:08.460 There's no romance, but you know, we had like a great connection.

01:48:13.320 So we stayed friends.

01:48:13.920 Did you guys hook up?

01:48:15.100 We did.

01:48:16.100 Oh, one, wait, one guy I did.

01:48:19.120 Two guys we only went on one date with.

01:48:21.960 Oh, okay.

01:48:22.480 But you still like talk to them or whatever?

01:48:23.800 Yeah, yeah.

01:48:24.120 They're cool.

01:48:24.880 We're cool with each other.

01:48:27.300 Um, so you did the, it was the, or it looks like 21 dates in three months, right?

01:48:33.140 The 21 dates was in a three month time period.

01:48:34.980 Well, it was five months.

01:48:35.820 It was about five months.

01:48:36.600 Oh, and your pre-show notes, it just says 21 dates in three months.

01:48:39.520 Oh, did I say, oh, maybe.

01:48:40.560 I think so.

01:48:40.860 All right.

01:48:41.340 Maybe I didn't have my glasses on.

01:48:42.100 But then there's a 45.

01:48:44.080 Yeah.

01:48:44.640 Anyways.

01:48:45.480 Um, yeah.

01:48:46.340 You said, uh, I don't know if this was in one of your videos on your Instagram.

01:48:51.680 You said, I don't know if this is in your notes.

01:48:53.940 You said closer to what I want and what I deserve.

01:48:57.880 Maybe this is like in one of your videos that was on your Instagram.

01:49:01.540 When you say what I deserve, what do you deserve?

01:49:04.100 I want to be with somebody with old school values, somebody whose actions align with

01:49:09.960 their words, and also, um, somebody that, that, um, that I can count on.

01:49:19.060 What, um, what are old, old values?

01:49:22.840 Um, traditional values.

01:49:26.140 So, um, from learning that I just wore the pants in the family this whole time and took

01:49:37.440 care of my son, I'm now looking for a man that has traditional values that wants to be

01:49:42.680 a provider and a protector for me.

01:49:45.420 And, um, so I can relax a little bit and not feel like there's, the world is always

01:49:54.080 on my shoulders.

01:49:55.040 You just want to be more in your feminine. 0.95

01:49:56.540 I do.

01:49:57.300 Yeah.

01:49:57.620 I'm, I'm definitely in my alpha.

01:49:59.920 I want to be more in my feminine and, uh, I'm always going to work.

01:50:02.840 Uh, I'm too ambitious to not work.

01:50:06.860 So I'm, I don't want to be a lady that lunches. 1.00

01:50:09.700 I just want.

01:50:10.840 I don't understand what are, uh, traditional values though that you're, you're, I understand

01:50:16.280 that you want a man to provide for you, but what are traditional values?

01:50:20.800 Tradition for me, a traditional value is a man that, um, wants to protect and provide

01:50:27.660 for his woman.

01:50:29.140 That's, that's it.

01:50:31.140 And whose actions align with their words.

01:50:34.120 Yeah.

01:50:34.560 I'm not, I'm not sure how that's a traditional value though.

01:50:37.260 I would say like being a leader in the relationship.

01:50:40.440 Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on.

01:50:41.680 Let me, let me just, let me just, I just want to kind of inquire here.

01:50:44.480 I think it's provider protector.

01:50:45.240 Yeah.

01:50:45.800 Provider protector.

01:50:46.420 That's it?

01:50:47.380 That's a traditional value?

01:50:49.120 Yes.

01:50:49.460 That's what I consider a traditional value because I've not had that.

01:50:53.140 And what, what is it that you bring for him?

01:50:58.360 I bring a lot.

01:50:59.340 I bring a lot of ambition.

01:51:00.720 I bring a lot of fun.

01:51:02.480 I, um, I'm a good cook.

01:51:05.860 Uh, I'm traditional as well.

01:51:08.260 Is a traditional man who's willing to provide for you? 0.82

01:51:11.500 Does he care about your ambition?

01:51:15.860 Yes.

01:51:16.460 Yes.

01:51:16.880 He supports, he supports my life and my goals as well.

01:51:21.640 Yeah, but I mean, if, if you want a traditional valued man and you want him to provide for

01:51:29.380 you, then the focus for both of you should be on his career and the advancement of him

01:51:35.240 so that he can then do that in turn for you, right?

01:51:39.820 Yes.

01:51:40.300 But I am also at the age where I'm about, I want to retire.

01:51:43.660 So I'm looking for a man that, whose kids are also grown, that we're on the same level.

01:51:49.460 So we're on this, we have the same goals in life.

01:51:54.200 Well, okay.

01:51:54.900 What are those goals?

01:51:56.520 To retire in Europe.

01:52:00.600 To retire in Europe.

01:52:01.700 Okay.

01:52:02.040 So you retire in Europe.

01:52:03.440 Mm-hmm.

01:52:03.940 Uh, but again, you, I'm, I'm guessing that, I mean, you're only in your fifties, right?

01:52:09.980 Mm-hmm.

01:52:10.200 Okay, so you're a long way from retirement.

01:52:13.200 No, I don't think so.

01:52:16.160 I mean, you're, you're at least 10, but I mean, what did you say?

01:52:19.200 53?

01:52:20.040 Two.

01:52:21.560 52.

01:52:22.120 So you're at least 10 years away from retirement.

01:52:24.980 Not in my mind.

01:52:27.480 Okay.

01:52:28.060 Got you.

01:52:28.340 I'm not, I'm not willing to, to, um, compromise my standards.

01:52:37.260 So that's why I took a break from dating, because I'm working on myself right now.

01:52:42.980 And I know that once I'm whole within myself, then I will attract the right man.

01:52:48.680 And, um, we will be on the same page.

01:52:52.260 And I don't, I don't know what that means, though.

01:52:54.020 What does that mean, whole within yourself?

01:52:56.040 Well, I'm working on my mental health.

01:52:59.480 I've had a lot of trauma as growing up.

01:53:02.580 I don't have family.

01:53:03.800 I don't have a backup plan.

01:53:05.360 I don't have, like, parents that are going to give me an inheritance.

01:53:08.780 I'm all I have.

01:53:10.980 And I take care of my grown son.

01:53:13.500 And it's because I worked hard, and I made good choices in my life, career-wise.

01:53:20.500 And now I'm at a place in my life where I'm taking a step back.

01:53:24.900 I'm not stressing myself out day to day.

01:53:28.240 Well, it sounds like you come with a lot of baggage.

01:53:30.920 Yeah.

01:53:31.340 That's why I'm working on myself.

01:53:33.340 Yeah.

01:53:33.720 We all have baggage.

01:53:35.440 You come, well, yes, that's true.

01:53:37.400 But, I mean, you would have to agree that some people have a lot more than others, though, right?

01:53:41.700 Sure.

01:53:42.040 Yeah, so, I mean, if you come with a lot of baggage and you want a man to provide for you, what is his incentive to do so?

01:53:48.320 That you're really fun?

01:53:49.780 Because I'm working on myself, and I'm trying to heal the baggage.

01:53:54.680 Yeah, but if he has a choice between, if a man who is successful enough to go and retire in Europe with you has a choice between you and other women who have less baggage, these other women, let's say, and they're not working on themselves, why wouldn't he just pick them?

01:54:10.780 I think what she's trying to say is she's trying to work to get to a place of finding that man.

01:54:17.520 I promise she can speak for herself.

01:54:18.860 Let her finish. 0.98

01:54:19.680 Go ahead.

01:54:19.940 Absolutely, because a man would have free will in me, but that's not my man.

01:54:26.260 That's not going to be my person.

01:54:27.400 So, maybe my person is somebody that has the same sort of background as me that also worked on himself and is looking for the same things, and I'm willing to wait for it.

01:54:40.160 So, you have to admit that that's going to be rare, right, to find a man who's going to retire you in Europe and deal with all your baggage if he has tons of other options which are available to him if you're just kind of working on yourself.

01:54:53.220 But I have the money to retire in Europe myself, so I don't need him to do that as well.

01:54:58.380 Then why are you looking for him?

01:54:59.860 Because I want to find my person because I believe in love.

01:55:03.640 Yeah, right.

01:55:04.100 So, then you still have to have a competitive edge, right?

01:55:08.260 What are you hearing that I don't have that's not competitive with other women?

01:55:13.960 Well, you said that you still take care of a fully grown adult male, right?

01:55:18.460 Yeah, well, he's going through college now, and so he can stay with me until he's finished with school completely.

01:55:23.000 And you want this other male to take care of you, which I'm guessing means that he's going to primarily be using his resources on you and not your resources on him, right?

01:55:32.540 We can use my resources as well.

01:55:35.240 I have resources.

01:55:36.000 Yeah, I know, but he's going to bring a lot more of them.

01:55:37.860 That's what you're after, right?

01:55:38.820 I have perks, too.

01:55:39.920 I have perks with my life.

01:55:42.060 I'm not saying you don't have perks.

01:55:43.400 I'm just asking for what the competitive edge that you would be bringing to the table at 53 would be for a man who would bring the resources necessary to take care of you for the rest of your life in Europe.

01:55:54.540 That's all I'm asking.

01:55:55.880 I don't think that's going to be hard to find.

01:55:57.760 I think that it might take me longer, but I hear what you're saying.

01:56:03.080 And I'm not going to let you tell me otherwise that I'm not going to find my person.

01:56:13.000 I haven't told you anything.

01:56:14.160 I've just asked you some basic questions.

01:56:16.380 Right.

01:56:16.800 You're saying, oh, you're 53.

01:56:19.160 What are you bringing to the table?

01:56:20.480 Well, I bring a lot to the table.

01:56:22.220 Okay, what?

01:56:23.660 I bring a lot.

01:56:24.280 I bring a great sense of humor.

01:56:25.600 I'm sharp.

01:56:26.580 I'm funny.

01:56:27.780 I'm smart.

01:56:28.820 I'm ambitious.

01:56:29.260 Well, make me laugh.

01:56:30.140 I'm pretty.

01:56:31.340 Hang on, hang on.

01:56:31.960 Make me laugh. 1.00

01:56:33.940 That is so dumb. 1.00

01:56:35.280 It's like going to a stand-up comedian and being like, oh, tell me a joke. 1.00

01:56:38.560 It's true.

01:56:39.040 I agree.

01:56:39.540 It's a cheap shot.

01:56:40.240 It's a cheap shot, but it's just funny to say, right?

01:56:42.200 It's funny.

01:56:42.580 So whatever a woman says they're funny, it's just always been my experience that they're 1.00

01:56:47.960 not funny.

01:56:49.300 But the thing is, even if you were in the category, hang on, even if you were in the category of

01:56:54.860 being a very, very funny woman, right?

01:56:57.860 All women think that they're funny, right? 1.00

01:57:00.020 All women think that they're funny. 1.00

01:57:01.160 So the question is, is like, okay, get it.

01:57:03.560 You bring a good sense of humor to the relationship.

01:57:05.860 Obviously, other women will be bringing a good sense of humor to the relationship as well. 1.00

01:57:09.440 I'm asking what you specifically are going to be bringing that other women in your age 1.00

01:57:13.320 bracket aren't going to be bringing.

01:57:15.140 I just said it.

01:57:15.980 I just said it.

01:57:16.940 Did I not just say it?

01:57:18.140 Wait.

01:57:18.380 Well, you said you're funny.

01:57:19.340 I'm smart.

01:57:20.320 I'm ambitious.

01:57:20.940 I didn't really hear you.

01:57:21.200 You're such a smart.

01:57:23.020 I am funny.

01:57:24.660 I am successful.

01:57:26.340 I am pretty.

01:57:27.960 Yeah, but men don't care about success. 0.98

01:57:30.060 They don't care about success.

01:57:32.200 They don't care about how successful a woman is. 1.00

01:57:34.220 They care about how pretty she is and how well she treats her. 0.93

01:57:37.280 I'm pretty.

01:57:38.000 Have you looked at me?

01:57:38.760 I'm very pretty, and I'm smart, and I'm very sweet.

01:57:44.860 Okay.

01:57:46.060 All right.

01:57:46.820 I have a couple things on this, but we do have somebody joining us on the panel here.

01:57:52.280 You can come ahead and take a seat.

01:57:56.980 Morgan had to exit.

01:57:59.480 Morgan had to exit, so we have...

01:58:01.580 She doesn't speak English, though, so unfortunately we're not going to be able to ask her any questions,

01:58:07.940 but she can just kind of give facial reactions, and so buenos dias.

01:58:14.000 Buenos dias.

01:58:16.000 Any Spanish speakers at the table?

01:58:18.800 Yeah, so just maybe like if...

01:58:21.240 It's okay.

01:58:22.480 It's all right.

01:58:23.400 Anyways, and if you can just scoot into...

01:58:26.000 How do you say scoot into the table in Spanish?

01:58:29.220 Me to the table.

01:58:30.900 Ah, sí.

01:58:32.940 Sí.

01:58:33.540 Okay.

01:58:34.300 So anyways...

01:58:37.060 Yeah, guys, Morgan was feeling a little unwell, so she had to go.

01:58:47.140 But she'll be back Tuesday, most likely.

01:58:49.120 Anyways, I do want to really quick, just to piggyback on what Andrew was talking about,

01:58:54.080 you said you're successful, funny.

01:58:56.360 Really quick on the funny one, though.

01:58:59.260 No offense, ladies. 0.99

01:59:01.360 I don't think guys care.

01:59:03.400 They do.

01:59:04.200 They want you to be clever.

01:59:05.860 They want you to be able to hold a conversation.

01:59:08.040 Eh.

01:59:08.980 Really?

01:59:09.580 Eh.

01:59:10.080 And then are guys lying when they say,

01:59:11.760 Oh, I love you.

01:59:12.540 I love you.

01:59:13.120 You're so witty.

01:59:14.440 Yes.

01:59:14.900 And you're funny.

01:59:15.560 They're lying?

01:59:16.660 Yeah, probably.

01:59:17.820 So then you're leading a girl on and telling her what she wants to hear? 0.56

01:59:21.940 Oh, yeah.

01:59:22.260 Guys do that.

01:59:22.940 Exactly.

01:59:24.480 Hang on.

01:59:24.960 Hang on.

01:59:25.240 Hang on.

01:59:25.340 So you're saying that if a woman doesn't look good, maybe she looks fat in a certain dress,

01:59:31.620 that you're just being mean by telling her,

01:59:33.380 Oh, no, honey, you look good in that dress.

01:59:35.040 Is that what you're saying?

01:59:36.380 Or is there times where it's appropriate in a relationship to avoid kind of fights,

01:59:41.440 which are unnecessary, to just kind of,

01:59:44.140 Ah, you know, sure, you're witty.

01:59:45.780 Yeah.

01:59:46.200 Yeah.

01:59:46.560 Of course.

01:59:47.220 I love having conversations.

01:59:48.540 I love the long walks on the beach and the mojitos at night.

01:59:51.560 It's my favorite, right?

01:59:53.140 Hmm.

01:59:54.060 Yum.

01:59:55.160 But, yeah, I don't think guys really care about the whole funny thing.

01:59:57.960 All right.

01:59:58.120 You know?

01:59:58.760 All right.

01:59:59.420 Well, I didn't know that.

02:00:00.740 I don't really care.

02:00:02.820 Well, you're just speaking for yourself.

02:00:04.940 You're speaking for yourself.

02:00:05.340 I feel like I'm speaking for 90% of dudes.

02:00:06.880 And for him.

02:00:07.520 Maybe there's, like, three dudes that, like, really like funny women. 1.00

02:00:12.120 I don't know.

02:00:13.020 Yeah. 1.00

02:00:13.380 Like, there's three dudes in existence that want to fuck Amy Schumer. 1.00

02:00:16.260 Don't know. 0.99

02:00:17.040 But I will say this.

02:00:18.940 I don't think there's ever been a woman who's like,

02:00:21.180 Well, I didn't want to have sex with her. 0.99

02:00:25.420 But after hearing that remarkable joke, now all of a sudden. 0.86

02:00:30.560 That's where they sealed the deal.

02:00:32.060 Sealed the deal.

02:00:34.260 Oh, by the way, Andrew, I sent you a text message.

02:00:37.240 I sent you a text message, Andrew.

02:00:39.820 And then the success thing, though.

02:00:41.520 Wait, didn't you say you wanted, like, I forgot what it, I don't know if you said traditional or what?

02:00:47.280 Yeah, traditional.

02:00:48.200 What I'm saying is I just don't want to have everything always relying on me all the time.

02:00:52.800 I'm looking for a partner.

02:00:53.860 Like, I'm not looking to, like, just not work.

02:00:57.160 So, you said you went on 45 first dates, right?

02:01:00.120 All different guys?

02:01:01.700 Yes.

02:01:02.060 Yeah.

02:01:02.560 Yes, that's what I'm counting.

02:01:03.320 Of all the 45 first dates, would you say most of them would be, like, either a drink or dinner?

02:01:13.720 Yes.

02:01:14.760 And of the 45 dates that you went on, who paid for the dates?

02:01:18.780 They did.

02:01:19.740 In every single, like, 100% of them?

02:01:22.540 Oh, yeah.

02:01:22.900 Any split?

02:01:24.660 No.

02:01:25.120 No one asked me.

02:01:26.720 Nobody asked me to split.

02:01:28.600 Just to be clear, 45 first dates.

02:01:31.060 Yeah.

02:01:31.740 And in each instance, the guy always paid?

02:01:34.920 Yes.

02:01:35.700 Okay.

02:01:36.620 And then you said there were three guys who you dated a little longer than just, you know, most of these guys, one date, that was it.

02:01:44.040 Would they continue to pay for dates?

02:01:46.540 Yes.

02:01:47.940 Did you ever pay for a date?

02:01:52.640 I'm good at, like...

02:01:54.320 With the three I'm talking about.

02:01:55.380 Never a date.

02:01:56.180 I've never paid for a date, but I've offered to pay for dessert or, you know, something.

02:02:02.000 What would you say was, like, kind of the most, when these guys would take you out to dinner, for example, whether it was the first date or one of these guys you dated for three months, would, did any of them take you to somewhere a little pricier when it came to dinner?

02:02:17.120 Yes.

02:02:18.000 Okay.

02:02:18.540 What do you think is the most a guy spent on you on a first date?

02:02:22.900 He told me $3,000.

02:02:25.360 On the first date?

02:02:26.360 On dinner.

02:02:27.140 He told me it was $3,000, but when I added it in my head, it was probably $1,500.

02:02:31.040 But it was a very...

02:02:32.120 Only $1,500?

02:02:32.700 That's a lot.

02:02:33.500 No, it's a lot.

02:02:34.260 Okay.

02:02:34.640 And he's the one that's still my friend to this day.

02:02:37.720 What's the fancy...

02:02:38.160 Is it Nobu?

02:02:39.080 Is that the place that's expensive?

02:02:39.700 It wasn't, no.

02:02:40.580 It was an Asian fusion restaurant in downtown L.A.

02:02:43.660 $1,500 first.

02:02:44.740 And was this a guy that you saw again or no?

02:02:47.180 Yeah, this was one of...

02:02:48.380 This was actually my true situationship.

02:02:50.640 The most...

02:02:51.980 The last one?

02:02:53.340 No.

02:02:53.940 This was the one before him.

02:02:55.260 I was in a situationship with this guy.

02:02:57.240 Oh, I see.

02:02:57.380 Okay.

02:02:57.740 Where he treated me like his girlfriend.

02:02:59.300 He was living his life in reverse.

02:03:01.280 He didn't want anything serious.

02:03:03.200 He had three kids before the age of 30.

02:03:05.420 But first...

02:03:06.340 Sorry, go ahead.

02:03:06.900 Go ahead.

02:03:07.100 Go ahead.

02:03:07.600 Yeah, so we were in a situationship for about three or four months.

02:03:11.580 And then you said...

02:03:12.580 So, the first date, though, he spent $1,500.

02:03:16.280 No, no, no.

02:03:17.040 Oh, one of the dates.

02:03:18.280 He spent...

02:03:18.540 One of the dates.

02:03:19.520 How much did he...

02:03:20.160 What's the most that a guy spent on the first date?

02:03:22.580 I would say $1,500.

02:03:24.860 Oh, $1,500.

02:03:25.420 I would say that would probably be the most someone's ever spent on me.

02:03:28.060 That one specific guy, would he continue to take you on like kind of fancier dates?

02:03:34.200 Always.

02:03:34.320 We always went on fancy dates.

02:03:35.600 And he's actually my friend still.

02:03:36.960 He's the one guy, the guy that I slept with, that's still my friend.

02:03:41.960 Because he did not want to be in a relationship.

02:03:46.160 Yeah, sorry.

02:03:47.300 And...

02:03:47.620 It's nothing.

02:03:48.820 Not me.

02:03:49.480 Okay.

02:03:49.980 So, no, he didn't want to be in a relationship.

02:03:53.180 But we had a really great friendship.

02:03:56.340 Like, he's a great guy.

02:03:57.360 And so, we're still friends to this day.

02:03:59.220 And so, how much...

02:04:01.460 How often did you see him?

02:04:02.540 Like, how many dates do you think you went on with him?

02:04:04.700 We saw each other once a week.

02:04:06.740 For three months?

02:04:08.120 Mm-hmm.

02:04:08.380 So, maybe about 10 times.

02:04:09.860 Mm-hmm.

02:04:10.660 10, 10, 12.

02:04:12.780 10 to 20, maybe?

02:04:14.020 Sure.

02:04:14.960 Okay.

02:04:15.640 And he would always take you out to a fancy, nice dinner?

02:04:18.920 Not always.

02:04:19.980 I mean, sometimes we had tacos from the taco truck, but...

02:04:23.320 But then other times, he'd spend $3,000 on a dinner.

02:04:25.700 He said it was $3,000, but sure.

02:04:27.800 He was...

02:04:28.360 Okay.

02:04:28.580 And then, any of the other guys, the other three guys, would they ever fancy dinners?

02:04:34.040 Big...

02:04:34.760 Yes.

02:04:35.520 Mm-hmm.

02:04:35.960 But not one of these dinners you ever paid, correct?

02:04:38.500 No.

02:04:39.120 Mm-hmm.

02:04:39.600 You mentioned that you bring your success to a relationship.

02:04:43.600 You went on 45 first dates.

02:04:45.680 Not one of them did you pay for.

02:04:47.100 And of the three men that you did have continuing, you know, more than just the first date.

02:04:52.640 So, I fail to see how your success, translation, your finances, your money, has anything to do with your attractiveness to a partner when you're not bringing that to a relationship by your own admission.

02:05:05.440 I think a lot of guys today in the state of California want a woman that does something in their life.

02:05:17.780 I'm saying I have my own job.

02:05:19.380 I have a job.

02:05:20.040 Well, but...

02:05:21.880 And this is...

02:05:23.820 I'll just be blunt.

02:05:25.220 This is why men don't actually care about your success or your finances because we don't reap any benefits of your success. 1.00

02:05:34.060 So, when women say, well, I have these academic credentials and I have this high-paying job and I'm successful, I don't have debt, I have all this money. 0.96

02:05:42.180 Even in your case, you went on 45 dates.

02:05:45.340 Not one did you pay for.

02:05:46.580 They paid for the whole meal.

02:05:48.180 These men would spend thousands of dollars.

02:05:49.700 Some of them would spend thousands of dollars.

02:05:52.860 I'm failing to see how your success or your money would be enticing to any of them given that they didn't reap any benefit.

02:06:03.640 That was only one date, but when you don't know...

02:06:06.360 I mean, you know after a couple of dates if you have chemistry with somebody or if you have compatibility.

02:06:13.260 Well, yes...

02:06:13.960 But I don't see where you're going with it because I'm saying I have a job and that I bring that to the table that I work.

02:06:24.620 Can I add something?

02:06:26.100 Okay, go ahead.

02:06:27.520 I feel, and I don't want you to take any offense to this,

02:06:30.240 I feel like your generation was very much taken into a woman has to have a job, has to be successful,

02:06:36.060 because it was kind of after the whole feminism thing, 1.00

02:06:39.280 and you guys were super brainwashed into being equal partners with the man,

02:06:43.920 and how you say you want a man with traditional values.

02:06:46.480 Wait, what?

02:06:46.500 No, no, no, no, hold on.

02:06:47.600 Hold on.

02:06:47.940 So she's 52, right?

02:06:49.500 Yeah.

02:06:49.720 While that's been like slowly becoming the case, this is more so the case as time goes on.

02:06:59.820 It's not like, well, it was the case back then.

02:07:02.620 No, it's still now.

02:07:03.480 I'm not saying it's not, but I'm saying like everyone kind of from like...

02:07:06.140 No, but this 50-50 thing, it's not, it wasn't like boom in the 90s and then down in the 2000s.

02:07:11.820 No, it's still now.

02:07:12.720 It's still current.

02:07:13.320 No, but it's been climbing, climbing, climbing 50-50, but you're saying it was more so the case in her generation.

02:07:19.820 No, I'm saying...

02:07:20.340 Which just can't be true.

02:07:21.160 Okay, like most of, at least the people I know, like women from their 30s to around her age and their 50s are very much like,

02:07:30.020 they want to be more successful than putting the focus on like being, like you said,

02:07:36.060 being with someone and helping them with their career and focusing on like building a family and having children and taking care of their children.

02:07:43.320 They're more focused on like, I need to be successful so I find the right partner that matches me.

02:07:50.640 Well, I also grew up with a female as the role model. 1.00

02:07:54.420 She was the breadwinner.

02:07:55.460 My father lost his job and so my stepmother took over.

02:07:59.300 So I actually grew up seeing a woman working. 1.00

02:08:01.740 So I think that's a lot of where my...

02:08:05.600 That's totally fine.

02:08:06.380 ...my ambition came from or where I've...

02:08:08.740 But again, so there were three men that you dated for about three months.

02:08:15.200 At no point in the relationship did your success or finances or money ever get into the picture.

02:08:23.280 So how could your success be what you're bringing to the table if none of the 45 men that you went on the first date with

02:08:30.240 and none of the three men that you had a three-month relationship with reaped any benefits of your success?

02:08:36.040 How can that be something that you're bringing to the table?

02:08:38.980 Well, those were men that I wasn't compatible with.

02:08:44.080 But my 10-year relationship, we split everything 50-50.

02:08:46.680 We purchased a home together.

02:08:48.260 We did everything, you know, so it was...

02:08:50.180 But that's your past, right?

02:08:51.300 But what I'm saying is that...

02:08:52.920 But wait, hang on, hang on.

02:08:54.540 You got to back up.

02:08:55.020 So he reaped the rewards of my success.

02:08:57.800 We understand the idea here that...

02:08:59.100 But I don't see where the 45 dates has anything to do with that.

02:09:02.340 In a previous relationship...

02:09:03.520 Because you're just meeting someone for the first time.

02:09:05.640 Sure.

02:09:05.900 In a previous relationship, you said you split everything 50-50.

02:09:09.500 But right now, you said you're looking for a man with traditional values.

02:09:12.580 When I asked you what those are, you said he provides for me.

02:09:15.620 And protects.

02:09:16.200 So kind of...

02:09:16.960 Yeah.

02:09:17.660 Well, provides and protects, sure.

02:09:19.040 But if that's what your criteria is, then Brian's saying, okay, if that's true, then

02:09:24.800 all of these dates that you went on recently, why would your success be something you're

02:09:28.940 bringing to the table? 0.96

02:09:29.700 If they're paying for everything, they clearly don't give a shit about that, right? 0.99

02:09:33.060 I think... 0.98

02:09:34.020 I don't know.

02:09:34.780 I have no idea.

02:09:35.520 I didn't ask them if my success mattered to them.

02:09:39.140 I mean, you guys talked about all sorts of different things.

02:09:41.640 You guys talked about work and this type of thing, right?

02:09:45.580 Some of them were first dates.

02:09:46.960 Yeah, you don't go that deep.

02:09:48.660 If you just go deep enough to know that, hey, this is my person or we're compatible,

02:09:53.600 there's chemistry.

02:09:55.680 But so conceivably, even on the first date, you would say, well, this is what I'm bringing

02:10:02.720 I did have one guy say that to me.

02:10:04.740 He's like, I like that you work because if something were to happen, you're fine on your

02:10:11.200 own.

02:10:11.960 Was it only a first date?

02:10:13.760 It wasn't one first date.

02:10:15.420 That was...

02:10:16.300 Out of all the 45, that's the only time I can remember.

02:10:19.700 Why don't you offer to...

02:10:20.600 Do you offer to split?

02:10:24.560 Well, after a while, not for the first date, but if we're dating, I have paid for things.

02:10:31.320 I have paid for things.

02:10:32.240 Well, not from any of the...

02:10:35.160 Recently, right?

02:10:37.040 Like I paid for takeout once when they came over or something like that.

02:10:40.580 What's the most you spent?

02:10:42.780 20 bucks on In-N-Out?

02:10:44.340 It's expensive.

02:10:45.160 No.

02:10:45.580 Like takeout, like Postmates is expensive.

02:10:48.480 Okay.

02:10:48.680 30, 40, 50 bucks.

02:10:50.000 50, 60, something like that.

02:10:51.320 You ever take any guy out on a thousand dollar plus?

02:10:54.380 No.

02:10:55.160 Because I have a kid that I'm supporting.

02:10:57.480 What about that guy?

02:10:58.440 Didn't he have three kids?

02:11:00.060 Who?

02:11:00.660 Oh, the one?

02:11:01.400 The guy that spent $1,500 on a dinner.

02:11:04.240 Yeah.

02:11:04.500 They were adult kids.

02:11:06.000 Don't you have an adult kid?

02:11:07.420 Yeah.

02:11:07.900 But they're out of the house.

02:11:08.980 They're out of the house.

02:11:09.660 I have one who's still in the house that I'm supporting.

02:11:12.500 Adult kids?

02:11:13.280 He has three adult kids that are out of...

02:11:16.200 There's no overhead on those kids anymore.

02:11:18.300 But so if what you bring to the table is your success...

02:11:22.300 It's one of the things.

02:11:23.740 Yeah.

02:11:23.860 I didn't say that.

02:11:24.700 It was it.

02:11:25.480 It's one of the things.

02:11:26.640 Why don't you offer to split?

02:11:28.680 Because I have an adult son that I'm taking care of by myself.

02:11:34.540 Well, I'm not speaking about that thousand dollar plus.

02:11:38.220 Like if you go get tacos...

02:11:40.620 I have.

02:11:41.240 I've gotten dessert.

02:11:42.360 I've gotten tacos.

02:11:43.380 I've paid for valet.

02:11:44.900 Okay.

02:11:45.740 But I'm just confused if that's what you're bringing to the table.

02:11:51.060 It doesn't seem like it's manifesting itself in any of the 45 dates that you went on.

02:11:58.460 I don't care about those 45 dates because they weren't my person.

02:12:02.520 But you know what?

02:12:03.080 I want to say that I've been on dates too with men where I've offered to pay for some of the tab.

02:12:08.820 And they refuse.

02:12:10.200 They get offended when you say, oh, here, let me help you.

02:12:12.560 Here's my card.

02:12:13.460 And they go, what are you doing?

02:12:14.700 You know, they get so butt hurt.

02:12:17.000 And I feel like it emasculates the man if you offer to pay for half of the bill as if they can't afford it.

02:12:23.660 So it's almost like an insult or a slap in the face to them.

02:12:27.020 Sure.

02:12:27.500 Absolutely.

02:12:28.060 I'm sure there's men out there that feel like it would be demasculating or whatever it is.

02:12:34.460 But again, if you're saying that what you're bringing to the table is your success.

02:12:40.240 But I guess I'm trying to explain why men don't really care about this metric.

02:12:47.500 Okay.

02:12:48.140 I didn't know that.

02:12:49.020 Well, do you think men get intimidated by women that have strong careers?

02:12:53.240 Yes. 1.00

02:12:54.100 No, we just don't want to deal with your bullshit. 1.00

02:12:56.880 Well, what kind of bullshit happens when a woman is successful? 1.00

02:13:00.280 Well, I'll explain. 1.00

02:13:01.300 I'll explain.

02:13:02.260 So, well, at least from the purview of the traditionalist male, I think.

02:13:07.600 So it seems to me that a traditional man wants his wife to be devoted to him.

02:13:15.380 And so they want the family hierarchy to work like this.

02:13:18.720 The man is at the head of the hierarchy.

02:13:21.000 And then there is the woman, the mother.

02:13:22.700 And then under that is the children.

02:13:25.280 That is the way they want the placement of that hierarchy. 0.70

02:13:27.620 So if the woman is devoted to the career and not to the husband, then it creates some type of problem within the set of the hierarchy. 0.55

02:13:38.340 And so they tend to prefer that women stay whole and take care of children, and they take care of those issues.

02:13:46.520 They take care of the financial issues.

02:13:48.200 And so when you're talking about male betterment or men trying to work on themselves and trying to, you know, what is the adage?

02:13:56.480 Six foot, six figures, you know, et cetera, et cetera.

02:14:00.480 The idea here is that you can take care of a family.

02:14:04.220 You don't want to have to compete with your wife's career or, you know, whatever your significant other's kind of externalities are to you.

02:14:14.020 You want her to be devoted to you.

02:14:15.720 And then the exchange for that is that you take care of everything on behalf of them.

02:14:21.200 So I don't, I wouldn't say it's intimidation.

02:14:23.640 It's just why would you want competition?

02:14:26.240 No, I totally get that.

02:14:27.620 But I, in a way, I think it is generational too.

02:14:31.120 Like men our age, they want to be providers.

02:14:35.280 They want their wives to stay at home. 0.99

02:14:37.980 Now, when I talked to my 23-year-old daughter about her dating life, the guys that she dates or has she's talked to in the past, they want a woman that's going to bring 50% to the table. 1.00

02:14:51.020 They want a working woman because things are so expensive now. 1.00

02:14:55.400 They want to be a power couple with a woman. 0.96

02:14:59.680 And I think it's just more like a generational thing.

02:15:02.840 But wouldn't, I mean, wouldn't this whole.

02:15:04.400 I know, well, here's the thing.

02:15:07.080 I think, again, I think you're right in a sense and then in another sense maybe a little wrong here.

02:15:13.880 If you say traditional, then yes, that's always going to be a generational thing because we're appealing to previous generations for what the tradition is, right?

02:15:21.640 We're not making the generation this tradition.

02:15:23.580 Or, you know, the tradition is not made this generation.

02:15:27.620 It's made in previous ones.

02:15:29.120 So the question then becomes this.

02:15:31.880 If you're looking for a man who has traditional values, when I ask what are you bringing to the table, I'd be looking for you to bring similar traditional female values to the table.

02:15:41.860 But what I see instead is that women seem to want to move into, I want a man to follow the traditional values of X, but I still want to be more in the set of a modern woman. 0.99

02:15:53.520 And I don't understand how those two things get reconciled exactly.

02:15:59.120 If you want a traditional man to provide for you and take care of everything for you, what are you bringing to the table?

02:16:05.260 That question is talking in terms of tradition.

02:16:11.100 I would say housewife.

02:16:12.780 Like laundry, cook, clean, tend to the kids, make sure he is taken care of 100% in the bedroom and outside the bedroom.

02:16:22.740 Yeah, but I mean you guys are way past, I mean, I'm sorry.

02:16:25.720 I don't mean this rudely, but you're past childbearing age, right?

02:16:29.140 Oh, absolutely.

02:16:29.860 Yeah, so if that's the case, what are the traditional values you're bringing?

02:16:34.460 You're not going to be looking after his kids at this point.

02:16:37.200 So what is it specifically that is a traditional value you'd be bringing to the table?

02:16:42.900 I think they want, a man wants a woman to, same, same kind of traditional, they want a partner.

02:16:49.800 They want someone to come home to that they can trust, that they can count on.

02:16:55.320 I would think they want submission.

02:16:56.640 Right, well, someone needs to be a leader and someone needs to be the submissive one, right? 0.77

02:17:02.480 Yeah, but what does submission mean to you?

02:17:03.940 A yang and a yang.

02:17:04.560 Well, someone who is going to care for the leader in the household, whereby she is going to do things that he's not able to do half the time because he has a career, he's at work.

02:17:20.120 So tend to him, like, do his laundry, make sure he has breakfast, lunch, and dinner made and prepared.

02:17:27.340 Well, those are daily duties.

02:17:29.880 So what does submission mean, though?

02:17:33.360 What does that mean?

02:17:34.300 For one thing, I know people kind of mistaken, like, submission to be, like, the weaker half, but I would have to disagree with that.

02:17:42.300 I would say submission means somebody who is going to take the back seat or someone who's going to sit in the passenger seat and let the man take the driver's seat and make the decisions in the household and make sure, you know, the budget is intact and you guys are living within your means.

02:18:01.600 It means obedience.

02:18:03.460 Correct.

02:18:04.600 It means obedience.

02:18:05.740 It means to obey.

02:18:06.540 Can you actually take a submissive role?

02:18:11.020 Can you actually obey, even if you disagree, even if he's in the wrong, even if you believe he's completely incorrect, can you take that role?

02:18:19.860 I don't think that means that you have to be a carpet.

02:18:22.560 Right.

02:18:22.940 You still have a voice as a submissive partner.

02:18:26.620 It doesn't mean that you're going to be the weak one and accept all his wrongdoings.

02:18:32.500 I mean, you can agree to disagree.

02:18:34.660 You can agree to disagree.

02:18:36.540 Hang on, hang on.

02:18:37.740 Most examples inside of a relationship where there is a submissive partner and one who heads a household are not moral quandaries.

02:18:46.600 They're general quandaries.

02:18:48.400 So I'm not saying that you have to cede to immoral behavior like he says, I want to open the relationship or something like this.

02:18:56.380 But obeyance is, if we're going to spend all of the money on this, we're spending all of the money on this.

02:19:03.700 Obeying means if the kids need to go to X school, I want them to go to that school, even if you don't agree. 1.00

02:19:09.280 Even if it's 30 minutes out of your way and you think it's stupid. 0.99

02:19:11.900 But that's what obeying means. 0.78

02:19:15.280 It's not always, so you kind of conflate this with a moral quandary.

02:19:19.080 Most of these issues are not moral quandaries, right?

02:19:22.360 You could still compromise.

02:19:23.860 There's still room for compromise.

02:19:25.100 Then that's not obeyed.

02:19:26.580 That's not obedience.

02:19:27.600 Compromise is not obedience.

02:19:29.080 Compromise is the opposite of obedience.

02:19:31.540 So you're telling me that being the submissive half of the relationship is somebody that is just going to bow down 100% of the time.

02:19:41.180 Yeah.

02:19:44.660 Unless there's a moral quandary, can you tell me why there's a problem with that?

02:19:48.020 Well, for example, you use that taking the child to a 30 minute away, a 30 minute away from home school, right?

02:19:58.500 And then the mom has to be the one to travel and to commute, to do all that. 1.00

02:20:03.120 But what if there's a school that's like five minutes away that's just as good?

02:20:07.800 Isn't there room for compromising and negotiating something like this?

02:20:08.900 What does obedience mean?

02:20:10.900 Does obedience mean that even though you've had the discussion, he has the final word on it.

02:20:16.960 He says, do it anyway.

02:20:18.340 Even if you don't like it, I'm making this decision.

02:20:20.720 Even though you disagree, you don't particularly enjoy this. 0.98

02:20:26.020 Do you think even I'm being stupid or you think that I'm being out of pocket here? 0.95

02:20:30.340 What does obedience mean? 0.99

02:20:32.380 What does that mean?

02:20:35.520 I would say as long as it's moral.

02:20:39.360 You can't put conditionals.

02:20:41.260 Well, you can put the conditional only of moral.

02:20:43.760 Yeah.

02:20:43.980 But as long as it's moral, what other conditionals can you put on it?

02:20:46.960 And that's why you have to be very careful on who you choose as a partner, correct?

02:20:53.320 I think part of having a partner, though, is like your husband should also submit to you.

02:20:58.400 And I'm not saying that.

02:20:59.440 That's not traditional.

02:21:00.600 We're talking specifically about traditional values here.

02:21:03.580 Okay, there could be traditional non-Christian, but there's also traditional Christian.

02:21:07.740 And if you know the Bible, right?

02:21:09.180 Jesus submitted to the church. 0.86

02:21:11.360 Does it not say wives submit to your husband as the church has submitted to God and husbands submit to your wives as Christ has submitted to the church?

02:21:20.740 Okay, so you're quoting Matthew.

02:21:23.240 Yes.

02:21:23.540 So, in Matthew, when, I'm sorry, you're quoting Paul, not Matthew, my bad.

02:21:28.560 It's, I think, in a...

02:21:29.320 Okay, so when you're talking about Paul, okay, when this is said, I believe it's in Corinthians,

02:21:36.340 wives submit unto your husband as you would unto the Lord.

02:21:41.880 Unto the Lord, right?

02:21:44.380 Just as the church submits to Christ.

02:21:47.520 Yeah, well, okay, but marriage is the figurehead, which represents this.

02:21:52.300 So, men are going to be the head, which is a representation of Christ, who's the head of the church.

02:21:58.000 Women are going to be the body, which is the church itself. 1.00

02:22:01.140 Who does the church submit to?

02:22:03.560 They submit to Christ, but...

02:22:05.500 Okay, so then, if that is the case, then what is the logical entailment there?

02:22:11.760 But if you're just taking that out of there...

02:22:13.240 What is the logical entailment there?

02:22:15.080 Because it even says that husbands should serve their wives.

02:22:18.460 That's part of being in a partnership.

02:22:20.380 Okay, so let's try this again.

02:22:22.180 If you are to submit unto your husband as you are unto the Lord, are you allowed to disobey the Lord?

02:22:31.240 No.

02:22:32.260 Okay, so then are you allowed to disobey your husband?

02:22:35.060 Yeah, but in the Bible, it also says...

02:22:37.080 Hang on, let her respond.

02:22:38.860 But what I'm saying is you're...

02:22:40.900 Answer my question.

02:22:41.980 I'm saying willingly, yes.

02:22:43.200 Answer my question first before...

02:22:45.320 I am willingly submit to your husbands, but I'm saying don't be with a husband that also isn't willing to submit to you.

02:22:53.000 Don't be with a man... 0.96

02:22:53.880 No, there's no...

02:22:54.340 No, mutual submission...

02:22:56.460 That is what it is to serve each other.

02:22:58.640 No, no, no.

02:22:58.660 No, stop, stop.

02:22:59.420 You're taking Paul way out of context here.

02:23:02.840 When you're talking about mutual submission especially, the reason that it specifically references why wives should submit, even if their husbands fall astray, even if they fall astray, is because if a woman still stays true, he can find his way back. 0.84

02:23:19.780 So when you're talking about mutual submission, let's start with this idea.

02:23:23.120 So if a man is providing... 0.86

02:23:24.880 What does submitting to your husband as unto the Lord mean?

02:23:29.500 What does that mean?

02:23:31.700 That you obey him.

02:23:33.920 But what I'm saying is...

02:23:34.880 Like you would unto who?

02:23:37.800 To the Lord.

02:23:39.360 And are you ever allowed to disobey the Lord?

02:23:42.500 No.

02:23:43.580 Okay.

02:23:44.340 So then I don't know what...

02:23:45.600 What is your argument then?

02:23:48.120 That...

02:23:48.600 Oh, you made me lose my train of thought.

02:23:50.420 Hold on.

02:23:50.560 Well, from what I understand from Christianity, the husband is supposed to put the wife on a pedestal and the wife submits to the husband. 0.72

02:23:59.160 So there's a balancing act.

02:24:00.820 Well, what I was trying to get at is if a man is providing for you, if a man is taking care of you, that's part of, like, submitting to you.

02:24:10.340 Because a man doesn't have to do that.

02:24:11.900 A man doesn't have to provide for his, like, wife and kids.

02:24:15.440 There's a lot of men that don't do that, that they want to go 50-50.

02:24:17.980 I think part of a man submitting is saying, I'm submitting to you in the fact that I want to work hard for this family.

02:24:24.300 I want to work hard so that you're able to be here with my children.

02:24:27.560 And so that you can submit to me in the same way of...

02:24:30.360 Let's untangle some concepts here.

02:24:33.720 So the first concept we'll untangle is I don't dispute that there's a lot of men who will always do X.

02:24:38.880 It's totally irrelevant.

02:24:41.040 The conversation we're having right now, right now with you, is what Christian couples are to do or ought to.

02:24:48.660 Not what other men do or what a lot of men do or what some men do or what many men do.

02:24:54.080 Only what Christian traditionalists do within this worldview.

02:24:57.400 So untangle that from your argument and tell me, how should Christian women respond in obedience to their husbands?

02:25:08.960 By serving them and submitting to them.

02:25:11.360 That's right, by serving them and submitting to them.

02:25:13.900 Okay, so let me ask you, how is a man supposed to serve his wife? 0.91

02:25:17.240 How is a man supposed to serve his entire family in the same way that Christ is supposed to be the sacrifice as the head?

02:25:26.880 And you is the exchanger in this.

02:25:30.360 Because he is the ultimate sacrifice for the family.

02:25:33.700 He takes the bullet.

02:25:35.160 He's the person who has to take all of the heat.

02:25:37.900 He's the person who has to take all the responsibility for the decisions. 1.00

02:25:41.880 You shut your fucking mouth and you let him do that. 1.00

02:25:44.300 That's what obedience means. 1.00

02:25:47.240 But in a way, isn't that submitting to his family and submitting to his wife?

02:25:52.280 In the context, if you want to call that submission, you can.

02:25:55.840 And I'm willing to even cede and allow you to.

02:25:58.640 Because I think in the church context, sure, you could call that submission.

02:26:02.280 But is it submission when we're talking about obedience?

02:26:08.180 Is a man to be obedient to his wife, in other words? 0.99

02:26:12.020 Or is a wife to be obedient to her husband? 0.99

02:26:15.340 Both.

02:26:16.480 Both.

02:26:18.000 It's 50-50.

02:26:20.860 I think it's just a mutual respect.

02:26:24.200 What does that mean?

02:26:25.780 A mutual respect?

02:26:27.440 He says no.

02:26:28.860 What's your answer when he says no?

02:26:31.960 Oh, yeah.

02:26:32.480 You don't really.

02:26:33.520 Yeah.

02:26:34.200 No, you're right.

02:26:34.840 Okay.

02:26:35.400 Well, then what are you talking about?

02:26:37.400 Well, it depends on, like, obviously certain things.

02:26:39.860 Because you're just saying a man shouldn't submit at all to his wife. 0.88

02:26:42.100 There are instances where a man is submitting, though.

02:26:45.260 And serving his wife.

02:26:45.660 Okay, what are those instances?

02:26:48.420 By willing to be, like, you said, traditional and working and providing.

02:26:52.840 That's submitting.

02:26:54.220 Like, if you don't want to see it as that way, but it is.

02:26:56.840 Like, by a man saying, like, I'm willing to put my time to the side.

02:27:01.480 I'm willing to let you stay at home.

02:27:03.220 Like, I want to work.

02:27:05.560 Just Gerald donated $200.

02:27:08.620 The more I hear them speak, the more I love my peaceful, broke, young, submissive, loyal,

02:27:15.520 Christian girlfriend who accepts all my decisions, who said, I trust you to lead me and our future family.

02:27:23.440 Gerald, thank you, man.

02:27:24.420 Appreciate it.

02:27:24.900 Thank you for the TTS.

02:27:26.220 Okay.

02:27:27.120 I'm just going to see the argument.

02:27:29.440 I all even consider this a form of submission.

02:27:31.620 Who has the final say?

02:27:35.900 In traditional relationships, the man.

02:27:37.740 No, no, no.

02:27:38.120 I'll let her answer.

02:27:38.840 Oh, sorry.

02:27:39.400 Who has the final say?

02:27:44.920 Yeah, I mean, I guess the man.

02:27:46.840 Oh, okay.

02:27:47.800 Well, then I don't, I don't.

02:27:49.340 So, even if I call it submission, even if I just see the argument and say that that is a man's form of submission,

02:27:55.380 which I don't even disagree with when you're talking about how husbands and wives are to submit to each other,

02:28:00.020 I'll even concede the argument that that is exactly how a man is to submit to his family.

02:28:04.840 Who has the final say is the man.

02:28:08.800 And that is the point of what female submission is to be. 1.00

02:28:13.140 And if that is the case of what female submission is to be, 1.00

02:28:16.140 then you have been arguing with me just nonsense, circular nonsense, for the last 10 minutes.

02:28:20.480 I don't mind submitting to my man.

02:28:24.800 I'm just saying, we're taking this out of context here.

02:28:27.000 You're trying to go down this rabbit hole.

02:28:28.680 But the whole reason I'm looking for a traditional man is because I've never had that.

02:28:32.500 Because I've had to be the man in the relationship. 1.00

02:28:35.880 You had a penis? 0.99

02:28:36.640 And not to address, not to offend anyone that doesn't identify as a gender or if that's offensive. 0.99

02:28:43.220 But what I'm saying is, yeah, I've always, I had to be the alpha female.

02:28:46.260 You pegged a guy?

02:28:47.180 No.

02:28:47.500 Well, let us, again, let us untangle a couple of concepts here.

02:28:51.300 So to untangle these different concepts,

02:28:54.220 the first concept we'll untangle is in your relationships,

02:28:57.880 I'm guessing that they're secular.

02:28:59.260 They're not based in a religious relationship.

02:29:02.180 I'm more spiritual.

02:29:03.520 I consider myself spiritual.

02:29:04.700 I did grow up Catholic.

02:29:06.440 Okay, so they're not Christian relationships, what I'm getting at.

02:29:11.880 Yes.

02:29:13.160 Okay, gotcha.

02:29:14.120 So to untangle this, me and her were discussing specifically in the context of Christianity.

02:29:19.740 Right.

02:29:20.000 So I'm fine with moving back to the idea of, like, secular relationships.

02:29:24.700 I just wanted to untangle those two concepts really quickly.

02:29:28.120 So now we're moving back into the area of secular relationships.

02:29:31.680 Then it's just an exchange, right?

02:29:33.320 What else could it be?

02:29:34.700 He gets and you get.

02:29:36.200 I don't really see how else or what other incentive there would be,

02:29:40.680 absent divine command for you to have a relationship other than just, like,

02:29:44.620 what you get out of it, right?

02:29:46.940 So that's why I'm asking, if it is just a matter of what you get versus what he gets,

02:29:51.740 what does he get?

02:29:52.780 That's all I'm asking here.

02:29:54.640 Thank you for clearing that up.

02:29:57.660 Well, I think it's necessary to clear it up.

02:29:59.900 Yeah.

02:30:00.100 And I agree.

02:30:01.980 I don't disagree.

02:30:03.060 I'd be happy to submit to a man.

02:30:05.640 All right.

02:30:06.160 If I found one I could be with.

02:30:09.840 Okay.

02:30:10.360 Yeah.

02:30:10.660 I'm going to read a couple chats here.

02:30:11.940 We have Lowell Paladins.

02:30:13.720 Actually, Maddie, why don't you?

02:30:16.100 I'll tell you guys a joke.

02:30:17.540 I'm a multimillionaire, and I'd rather support a 52-year-old woman with an adult child in tow 1.00

02:30:23.560 versus the hot young woman that doesn't speak English. 1.00

02:30:26.720 Thank you.

02:30:28.740 With an adult child in tow versus the hot young woman. 1.00

02:30:30.760 Wait, what?

02:30:31.780 A multimillionaire and rather support a 52-year-old woman? 0.97

02:30:34.020 Wait.

02:30:34.460 He's saying he'd rather have.

02:30:36.200 The joke is, is he'd rather have her than her.

02:30:38.680 Oh, it's a joke.

02:30:41.580 Is it a joke or is he being serious?

02:30:43.300 Lowell Paladins, you guy.

02:30:45.120 Okay.

02:30:45.360 Thank you, man.

02:30:45.720 I appreciate it.

02:30:46.580 We have Alec Lewis, 1 Peter.

02:30:49.640 Go ahead, Maddie.

02:30:50.780 1 Peter 3, verse 1 through 7.

02:30:53.840 Andrew, read this.

02:30:54.580 This is what you're talking about from one Christian to another. 0.99

02:30:57.200 A woman submits to her husband's headship according to Christ. 1.00

02:31:00.480 Game over.

02:31:01.720 Yeah, but she wasn't really denying that that was true.

02:31:06.980 And usually what we end up with, we tangle over the ideas of Paul more than anything when

02:31:12.720 it comes to marriage because he outlined him so well.

02:31:14.700 But, I mean, she essentially conceded that this is so.

02:31:19.640 So there's really no reason to move past that, I don't think.

02:31:25.700 We're, we're, Twitch.

02:31:27.840 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:31:30.320 Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.

02:31:32.780 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:31:35.140 Drop us a follow and a prime sub.

02:31:38.420 Thank you, guys.

02:31:38.940 Appreciate it.

02:31:39.520 And we are going to, Stifler's been dying.

02:31:44.540 Oh, okay.

02:31:45.980 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:31:52.800 Can't pick 7, starting with you.

02:31:54.480 Can't pick 7.

02:31:56.820 Like my own looks?

02:31:58.220 Yeah.

02:31:58.640 Oh.

02:32:00.480 I mean, it depends on who you're asking.

02:32:02.360 I think I'm like a good 6 right now.

02:32:04.200 I have no lashes and I'm very, like, humbly makeup right now.

02:32:08.300 Okay.

02:32:09.420 I think I'm an 8.

02:32:12.460 Okay.

02:32:13.180 What about you?

02:32:13.700 I'd also say the same as 6.

02:32:16.300 An 8.

02:32:18.000 I'd say a 6.

02:32:19.480 Oh.

02:32:19.880 I'd say a 6.

02:32:20.840 Like a 4.

02:32:22.380 5.

02:32:23.220 5.

02:32:23.820 Just come, like, to the, like, the beauty standard, you know?

02:32:30.100 6.

02:32:32.040 Okay.

02:32:32.640 8.

02:32:32.840 All right.

02:32:34.880 Cool.

02:32:36.140 Okay.

02:32:40.380 What was the highest rating?

02:32:41.600 8?

02:32:42.340 8?

02:32:43.060 Okay.

02:32:43.660 There was 3.

02:32:44.120 Were you the highest?

02:32:44.720 Who said 8?

02:32:45.320 The 3 of us said 8.

02:32:47.060 Boom.

02:32:47.700 Boom.

02:32:48.340 And then...

02:32:48.600 Christy.

02:32:49.260 Oh, Christy, 8.

02:32:50.480 Yeah.

02:32:50.980 Okay.

02:32:53.140 You really think you're an 8?

02:32:55.720 Yeah.

02:32:56.600 Wait, is that like...

02:32:57.460 I don't know.

02:32:57.920 No, I think she's prettier.

02:32:59.040 Oh, prettier.

02:32:59.740 Yeah.

02:32:59.900 You think Madison's prettier than an 8? 0.99

02:33:00.960 Than an 8, yeah.

02:33:01.680 I, like, took offense.

02:33:03.760 No, no.

02:33:06.640 So, Maddie said she's an 8.

02:33:11.820 8, 8.

02:33:14.580 I don't know if I need to give much pushback.

02:33:18.660 No 10s at the table, but you guys then...

02:33:22.980 I think we need to give some pushback.

02:33:24.620 Okay.

02:33:24.860 Give some pushback.

02:33:25.440 So, you guys, what do you think then?

02:33:28.980 Are you also prepared to say that you're the most attractive women at the table? 0.79

02:33:35.240 You two?

02:33:35.660 No, because I think everybody underrated themselves.

02:33:39.900 I see.

02:33:40.900 Okay.

02:33:42.120 Okay.

02:33:43.560 Well, I have a question.

02:33:44.080 So, hang on.

02:33:45.820 I'm curious, though.

02:33:47.480 From your estimation, why do you think they gave themselves a lower standard than you gave

02:33:51.240 yourself, even though you don't think they're any less pretty than you are?

02:33:54.040 I think when you're younger, you're a little bit, you know, you're not as confident.

02:33:58.720 You know, when you get to our age, you know, you start to be more confident within yourself.

02:34:05.020 Can you describe for me the most unattractive man you've ever been on a date with?

02:34:08.880 What did he look like?

02:34:09.640 Oh, gosh.

02:34:15.620 Usually, I...

02:34:16.700 Whichever one pops into your head, whichever one it is.

02:34:22.220 I don't know.

02:34:23.120 Probably bad skin.

02:34:33.060 Balding.

02:34:35.240 Maybe.

02:34:39.060 Weird.

02:34:39.640 Weird body.

02:34:40.440 I don't know.

02:34:41.900 I don't know.

02:34:42.780 I honestly...

02:34:44.160 I really do go for the personality.

02:34:47.800 I think...

02:34:48.760 Christy and I talk about it on the podcast sometimes.

02:34:50.960 We'll give a four a chance if they have a good personality because it's not really about

02:34:55.380 the looks.

02:34:56.180 It is...

02:34:56.480 Well, explain to me what a four looks like. 0.60

02:34:59.260 Probably, like, red face.

02:35:04.040 Balding.

02:35:05.480 You know.

02:35:06.280 Not swag in their dressing.

02:35:10.660 Like, their style is not...

02:35:13.280 Maybe short.

02:35:15.480 Maybe a little fat.

02:35:16.560 Maybe.

02:35:17.000 Yeah.

02:35:17.560 Maybe.

02:35:18.220 Yeah.

02:35:18.720 Those would be all standards, right?

02:35:20.020 But I've dated men shorter than me.

02:35:21.820 Absolutely.

02:35:22.220 What does a four look like for a woman? 1.00

02:35:23.660 I would say maybe somebody that doesn't...

02:35:31.980 Hang on.

02:35:32.060 Let her respond.

02:35:33.180 Let her respond.

02:35:33.560 Oh, you're asking me?

02:35:35.220 Yeah.

02:35:35.560 What's a four look like for a woman? 1.00

02:35:36.700 So, probably overweight.

02:35:40.840 So, overweight, not great hair, not good skin.

02:35:48.660 Are those things that tend to come with age?

02:35:53.440 Well, I'm an esthetician by trade.

02:35:55.240 Not really.

02:35:56.100 No.

02:35:56.740 Young girls, people are aging quicker these days, especially in California because of 1.00

02:36:01.780 the sun.

02:36:02.180 Yeah.

02:36:04.780 So, I mean, the older they would be, that would still quantify that, right?

02:36:09.500 Sure.

02:36:09.720 So, if there's 20 and they're getting their beat up, then by 60, they're going to be really

02:36:13.760 beat up, right?

02:36:15.620 Probably.

02:36:16.720 Yeah.

02:36:17.100 So, then it would logically follow, then, that if they're already getting beat up by 20,

02:36:21.920 that at 60, they're going to be even less attractive than they were at 20.

02:36:24.300 So, the question becomes, you at 53 years old, in comparison to the 20-year-old.

02:36:31.400 I'm sorry, 52.

02:36:32.420 Get it right, Andrew.

02:36:33.280 Get it right.

02:36:33.560 I'm sorry.

02:36:34.100 I'm sorry.

02:36:34.520 52.

02:36:35.600 I didn't mean to misquote your age.

02:36:37.340 My bad.

02:36:37.840 It doesn't matter.

02:36:38.360 Compared to the 20-somethings who are around the table, what are the features, now that

02:36:42.720 we know that you have a standard, that would make them more or less attractive than you?

02:36:47.960 Who, the girls at the table?

02:36:49.780 Yeah.

02:36:50.820 Pick out the prettiest girl at the table.

02:36:52.520 Who's the prettiest girl? 0.99

02:36:53.040 I think they're all gorgeous.

02:36:54.300 Who's the prettiest one?

02:37:01.860 The prettiest?

02:37:03.460 The prettiest.

02:37:04.300 Huh?

02:37:08.160 I wouldn't even answer that question.

02:37:10.380 I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes and the right

02:37:13.620 look, you can be very striking.

02:37:15.940 Well, let me ask you a question, then.

02:37:17.320 You know, there is a meme about that.

02:37:19.120 To you who would not answer the question.

02:37:21.040 To you who would not answer the question.

02:37:22.340 I would like to know if you're going to lie to me or not.

02:37:25.820 When you sat down at the table, and when most women sit down at that table, do you think 0.99

02:37:31.360 that they assess instantly the attractiveness of the women who are next to them?

02:37:36.760 Do you think that they pick out little flaws?

02:37:38.700 Do you think they pick out little things inside of their head where they go, oh, I don't like

02:37:43.260 that top, I don't like her eyebrows, what is she thinking with this look?

02:37:48.320 Isn't that all true?

02:37:49.240 Isn't that what most of the time women are doing when they assess each other, when they 1.00

02:37:53.440 sit down with each other?

02:37:54.260 Isn't that actually what's going on?

02:37:55.680 Sorry, I zoned out.

02:38:01.500 I was reading the...

02:38:02.700 But what I'm saying is...

02:38:04.700 I'm asking you to the gal in the white blouse who said... 1.00

02:38:06.600 Oh, me.

02:38:06.880 I didn't even answer the question, yeah.

02:38:08.360 One sec.

02:38:08.720 GMD Jim donated $199.

02:38:12.740 The old woman actually is funny. 0.99

02:38:15.420 She believes she is going to find an actual traditional man that would put up with her

02:38:20.280 BS.

02:38:21.480 That is absolutely hilarious.

02:38:23.840 She offers little.

02:38:26.060 What's your opinion?

02:38:26.860 I mean, she'll probably, by this time next year, be in Europe with some guy, and he probably

02:38:32.460 will pay for everything, and you know it's true, Jim.

02:38:35.920 But anyway, back to gal in the white blouse. 0.95

02:38:38.100 Thank you, Jim.

02:38:38.720 Um, so, so I'm just going to ask you, because you said, I wouldn't even answer the question,

02:38:44.600 isn't it true that women all the time, likely even including yourself, inside of your mind

02:38:51.080 pick apart almost every other woman that you sit down with, and you basically can't help 1.00

02:38:55.500 yourself?

02:38:55.980 Isn't, isn't that really what happens with women? 1.00

02:38:58.120 Um, well, first of all, my name's Christy, and, um, I don't think...

02:39:01.720 Well, I appreciate you clarifying that.

02:39:03.480 I understand that there's many people there with different names, and so it's hard for me

02:39:07.080 to remember everybody's name.

02:39:08.040 Refreshing your memory.

02:39:09.620 Um, I don't think girls are like that. 1.00

02:39:12.720 I mean, maybe because I'm old.

02:39:15.640 However, I sometimes do that because I'm an esthetician, so when I meet someone for the

02:39:20.620 first time, I do scan their face and look at their skin, look at their pores, look at

02:39:24.920 their wrinkles.

02:39:25.400 But I really don't think, after working with women, um, and only working with women, that

02:39:32.740 they're naturally judging women that sit next to them or are in their circle.

02:39:37.340 Well, if you don't mind, I'd like to go around the table, just very quickly with a raise of

02:39:43.840 hands.

02:39:44.940 Do women often, often, silently judge other women, even though they would never say this

02:39:50.340 out loud, based on their looks, the clothes that they wear, and different beauty standards 0.96

02:39:55.420 which they themselves hold?

02:39:56.560 Raise your hand if that's true.

02:39:57.680 Well, that's really weird.

02:40:01.160 Interestingly enough, though, just not for you, the esthetician, right?

02:40:04.320 I think also we're older.

02:40:06.020 Who does it by your own admission?

02:40:07.260 Yes, when I was younger.

02:40:08.320 But somehow, you think that other women don't do that.

02:40:12.860 Now, literally, every woman at that table just raised their hand, and yet, you're going 0.99

02:40:16.640 to fib and bullshit me and say you have no beauty standards. 0.97

02:40:19.600 Yeah, right. 0.99

02:40:20.400 Tell me, who is the prettiest girl at the table? 0.99

02:40:23.000 Tell me the truth.

02:40:25.140 Who is it?

02:40:29.260 Oh, is he talking to me?

02:40:31.120 I'm sorry, is it Christy?

02:40:32.820 Oh, me.

02:40:33.240 Christy, who is it?

02:40:33.960 Okay, thank you for addressing me.

02:40:35.580 Um, the prettiest woman in this table, you know, it's hard to say because everyone's

02:40:42.520 different ages, different body shapes, different faces.

02:40:45.880 I'm not going to put anyone on the spot, or even put myself on the spot, so I'm going to

02:40:51.080 say I'm not going to answer that question.

02:40:52.680 Okay, that's fine, and that's fair.

02:40:55.000 Let me ask you just a quick follow-up.

02:40:57.400 Inside of your head, can you tell me just this truth, that inside of your head you do know

02:41:03.920 who you think the prettiest girl at the table is? 1.00

02:41:07.160 Mmm.

02:41:09.040 No, I would have to probably have everyone stand up and scan their bodies. 0.96

02:41:13.140 I agree.

02:41:13.740 We should do a fit check.

02:41:14.940 I mean, seriously.

02:41:15.400 Okay.

02:41:16.620 We need to do a fit check.

02:41:18.240 We haven't done that.

02:41:18.780 Ah, okay.

02:41:20.060 All right, we'll do, all right.

02:41:21.360 Okay, you go first.

02:41:22.360 Stand up.

02:41:23.120 I'm not a chick.

02:41:24.120 Well, you've got to be judged too, right?

02:41:26.540 What?

02:41:27.300 Yeah.

02:41:28.060 No.

02:41:29.000 Come on.

02:41:29.980 What are you afraid of?

02:41:31.220 This is about the ladies. 1.00

02:41:32.240 This is about the ladies. 1.00

02:41:34.180 Oh, wow.

02:41:34.880 Also, I would not reveal my dumpy.

02:41:39.880 These guys in the chat want to see my dumpy.

02:41:42.100 I ain't doing it.

02:41:43.060 They have to pay. 1.00

02:41:43.420 They got to pay for that shit. 1.00

02:41:45.360 So, this is a... 1.00

02:41:46.940 Yo, AB check.

02:41:47.680 Thank you for the gift of 20.

02:41:48.800 All right.

02:41:49.280 I get his dumpy check.

02:41:49.640 We'll do a fit check.

02:41:50.520 We'll start over there.

02:41:51.480 If you guys want to just stand up.

02:41:54.380 Oh, my God.

02:41:55.420 You said you wanted to fit.

02:41:56.360 You said you wanted to see how they look.

02:41:57.940 Go ahead.

02:41:58.360 Take a stand.

02:41:59.240 I will say this, and I'm 100%.

02:42:01.440 Go ahead.

02:42:01.960 You take a stand.

02:42:02.740 She can take a stand. 0.96

02:42:03.800 You get a stand.

02:42:04.800 You get a stand.

02:42:05.800 Ah, so beautiful.

02:42:07.680 Cutie.

02:42:08.600 Yay.

02:42:08.900 Boom.

02:42:09.460 This top is from Cece's Closet.

02:42:11.080 You know, I just borrowed it today, actually.

02:42:12.780 These jeans are from Target, and I'm wearing socks from my closet as well.

02:42:16.900 What about the hairband?

02:42:17.900 The hairband, I've actually had.

02:42:18.540 Where's that from?

02:42:19.360 I've had it for like years.

02:42:20.020 You don't even know.

02:42:20.940 I really don't know.

02:42:21.580 I can't have that.

02:42:22.540 Dope.

02:42:23.040 Okay, thank you very much.

02:42:24.420 What about.

02:42:27.420 I'll go.

02:42:28.440 Okay, there we go.

02:42:29.840 All right.

02:42:29.960 So, my shirt is from Serena's bag.

02:42:34.760 You know, it's cutesies.

02:42:35.680 Oh, shizzles.

02:42:37.000 These are from like, what?

02:42:38.480 Charlotte Rue's?

02:42:39.060 They were like five bucks.

02:42:39.960 Super cheap, you know?

02:42:41.000 Super cheap.

02:42:42.000 And that's it.

02:42:42.400 And my hair, like, whatever.

02:42:43.540 I have this big tattoo that's like fading off.

02:42:45.880 Did you want more?

02:42:47.500 Do you need like spins, or what do you need?

02:42:49.900 Oh.

02:42:50.320 Do you need a spin from the hairband?

02:42:51.860 I'm judging right now.

02:42:53.460 That's why we're doing this.

02:42:54.340 Can you translate, tell her in Spanish, like, fit check?

02:43:02.160 I'll take the black baby here. 0.99

02:43:03.960 You understand? 0.90

02:43:04.940 Oh.

02:43:07.040 Yeah.

02:43:08.360 That's the only thing she knows in English.

02:43:11.420 I just taught her how to say that right now.

02:43:14.060 Okay.

02:43:16.080 All right.

02:43:16.520 Ask her where she got her stuff from.

02:43:20.980 Amazon.

02:43:21.860 Amazon.

02:43:22.520 Si.

02:43:23.180 The rainforest or?

02:43:24.540 Si.

02:43:24.980 Oh, si.

02:43:26.380 Amazon.

02:43:28.220 Maddie?

02:43:28.740 Los pantalones.

02:43:30.600 Navigacion.

02:43:33.540 Navigacion.

02:43:34.200 Si.

02:43:34.500 Navigation?

02:43:35.520 Navigation.

02:43:36.280 Si.

02:43:37.140 Si.

02:43:40.920 Very cutesy.

02:43:41.880 Very demure.

02:43:42.700 Are we staying where we got our outfits from?

02:43:44.640 Actually, I like your outfit, so what are the details?

02:43:47.580 It is cute.

02:43:48.100 Dude, I want her outfit. 0.99

02:43:51.180 My set is from Princess Polly.

02:43:53.800 My shoes are from Steve Madden.

02:43:56.160 Cute, cute, cute.

02:43:56.880 This is so random.

02:43:59.980 We've never done this before.

02:44:01.440 Very mindful.

02:44:01.920 We did fit checks, like, super early.

02:44:03.140 Yeah, but we don't, like, say what we wear.

02:44:05.340 Oh, okay.

02:44:05.900 I don't know.

02:44:06.380 All right, whatever.

02:44:07.340 She's going next.

02:44:08.180 Should I go?

02:44:08.700 Go.

02:44:08.880 Sure, yeah, go ahead.

02:44:09.960 Oh, I'm just wearing Brandy Melville.

02:44:11.920 I got it today.

02:44:12.860 And my socks are both white, but they're mismatched.

02:44:15.400 They're different brands, because I lost my socks, so.

02:44:18.840 Do you play soccer?

02:44:19.760 I do, yeah.

02:44:20.820 Called it.

02:44:21.980 Now, if the gals who just demonstrated themselves to you, Christine, consider themselves average, 1.00

02:44:30.140 in which they seem to, because they consider themselves somewhere between a five and a six,

02:44:34.460 which on a scale of 10, I would say, is pretty close to average,

02:44:37.080 what would make the other gals here an eight other than some other than beauty standard, 1.00

02:44:44.740 like confidence or something like this?

02:44:46.660 What would actually make them eights?

02:44:50.200 So physically, make them eights, maybe.

02:44:59.880 I don't know.

02:45:00.880 I'm going to say moisturizer and sunscreen so they don't get sun damage and wrinkles when they're my age.

02:45:05.780 What would make them eights right now?

02:45:15.780 What was that?

02:45:16.460 Compared to the women who call themselves average, what would make the women there who call themselves eights actually eights? 0.94

02:45:23.780 That's my question.

02:45:24.540 I would say probably more self-confidence in the way they view themselves.

02:45:31.320 They should feel more comfortable in their own skin because all of them are way beautiful, so pretty.

02:45:37.160 Right.

02:45:38.320 So based on physical beauty standards then, would you revise the answer for the eights and say that they're not actually eights,

02:45:46.540 if they're being compared to women who are physically more beautiful than them, 0.99

02:45:51.440 who judge their physical characteristics to be average?

02:45:56.920 There's, by the way, you know, there's nothing wrong with average.

02:46:00.360 You have a massive sample size of half of planet Earth.

02:46:03.520 I think that average is probably pretty good.

02:46:08.120 Average is way better than ugly.

02:46:10.480 Yeah.

02:46:13.260 But eight is like supermodel tier, right?

02:46:17.860 Ultra hot.

02:46:19.260 An eight?

02:46:20.040 I think eight is...

02:46:21.420 No.

02:46:22.280 So what's eight?

02:46:22.760 What is average?

02:46:23.660 What is average?

02:46:24.660 I think an eight is between average and supermodel.

02:46:30.360 What?

02:46:30.820 Well, then what we're...

02:46:32.240 I think we have a different criteria.

02:46:34.480 ...christinated $200.

02:46:36.180 While they would rather do this than admit that they were wrong when saying they are eights,

02:46:40.740 now imagine being in a relationship with them.

02:46:43.620 You're demonstrating why men wouldn't want to deal with old women. 1.00

02:46:48.500 Wait, what?

02:46:49.300 I wouldn't consider myself eight.

02:46:50.520 Eight is super duper hot.

02:46:54.180 Nine is smoking hot.

02:46:55.940 Ten is maybe ten of them on planet Earth.

02:46:58.520 That's ten.

02:46:59.120 I think it depends.

02:47:00.500 Everyone has different beauty standards.

02:47:03.320 Right.

02:47:04.180 Wait, actually, I want to offer myself up as tribute.

02:47:08.660 Let me ask you a question.

02:47:09.920 If everybody has different beauty standards, which I agree, there could be some subjective metric to this.

02:47:15.120 Can I ask you a question?

02:47:17.260 Do you think most women would whether be skinnier or fatter? 0.98

02:47:22.860 I think nowadays fatter.

02:47:25.100 Skinnier.

02:47:25.580 You think that most women would prefer to be fatter? 0.99

02:47:29.160 Like, there's girls that love me because I'm thick and I hate it. 1.00

02:47:33.000 Like, I want more lipo to get rid of my ass. 1.00

02:47:36.260 Yeah. 1.00

02:47:36.460 Do you think...

02:47:36.880 So you think most women would prefer to be skinnier? 0.93

02:47:39.100 Yeah.

02:47:39.420 Yes.

02:47:40.000 Well, then we have a standard, don't we?

02:47:44.380 I want to offer myself up as tribute.

02:47:46.580 Can you guys just rate me on a scale of one to ten?

02:47:50.080 I will not be offended.

02:47:52.240 I'm just curious.

02:47:53.700 Go ahead.

02:47:54.380 Starting with you.

02:47:57.980 Well, you got to stand up now.

02:47:59.500 We got...

02:48:00.060 I'm not.

02:48:00.320 No.

02:48:00.620 Just face.

02:48:01.180 Just face.

02:48:01.780 Just face.

02:48:02.240 I'm not standing up.

02:48:02.940 Face guard.

02:48:04.040 Also, just face.

02:48:05.200 Yeah.

02:48:05.360 Just hold on.

02:48:06.300 Starting with her.

02:48:06.760 Can I get your age?

02:48:07.720 35.

02:48:08.080 35.

02:48:13.820 Like a...

02:48:15.080 Why would that matter?

02:48:16.860 Like, honestly, why would it even matter what his age was?

02:48:19.980 I don't get that.

02:48:20.680 Because he could either look really good for his age or really bad for his age.

02:48:23.760 But that has nothing to do with it.

02:48:25.560 He's just asking you to rate him.

02:48:26.580 Who cares what his age is? 1.00

02:48:27.780 What the fuck? 1.00

02:48:28.160 Just based on physical characteristics, right? 1.00

02:48:31.220 His age wouldn't matter how good he looks for his age.

02:48:33.180 Personally, to me, I've never been attracted to white men.

02:48:35.180 And I'm in a relationship, so like a three.

02:48:38.620 You have a good, like, beard.

02:48:44.020 Come on now.

02:48:44.700 Nice eyes.

02:48:45.980 But...

02:48:46.460 Okay.

02:48:46.660 What about you?

02:48:47.940 I would say you're above average to six.

02:48:53.340 Okay.

02:48:53.860 What about you?

02:48:54.480 I would also say you're just a little too old for me, so I'd say a six, two.

02:48:58.280 Okay.

02:48:59.580 I'm going to start off by saying the beard is good.

02:49:03.440 No, start with the...

02:49:04.420 The eyebrows.

02:49:05.380 The eyebrows are very well maintained.

02:49:08.880 I don't maintain.

02:49:09.720 I don't maintain.

02:49:10.440 I think you don't get them done? 1.00

02:49:11.400 The shit's natural. 1.00

02:49:11.820 No. 1.00

02:49:12.180 Oh, okay. 1.00

02:49:12.760 The shit's natural, son. 1.00

02:49:14.120 Wow. 1.00

02:49:14.480 Fucking 10 out of 10. 1.00

02:49:15.480 Eyebrow genetics. 1.00

02:49:17.160 Wow.

02:49:17.600 You're a natural beauty, then.

02:49:20.100 Okay.

02:49:20.360 That's good.

02:49:20.900 Okay.

02:49:21.240 I'm going to rate you...

02:49:23.920 We can't do sixes?

02:49:27.400 No, you can say six.

02:49:28.160 Seven.

02:49:28.760 Okay.

02:49:29.320 What else?

02:49:29.700 I'm going to say six.

02:49:32.520 W.

02:49:33.880 I would also give you a six.

02:49:35.540 W.

02:49:37.360 I'm not scared of you, but I'm scared of old men, so I can't place them. 1.00

02:49:41.720 Wait, what?

02:49:42.600 I'm not like...

02:49:43.240 I can't place them above a four, so like three.

02:49:46.080 But you're cool, you know?

02:49:48.800 Okay.

02:49:51.880 Six.

02:49:52.200 Is it...

02:49:55.260 I shouldn't...

02:49:55.800 Do you want me to?

02:50:00.140 Yes.

02:50:00.580 Eh.

02:50:01.180 Eh.

02:50:01.680 Eh.

02:50:01.880 It's okay.

02:50:02.400 We work together.

02:50:03.560 Yeah.

02:50:04.320 Bye.

02:50:04.900 It's all right.

02:50:06.540 Okay, so...

02:50:07.200 Wait, so you're an eight.

02:50:10.000 I'm a six.

02:50:11.440 So you'd be settling.

02:50:12.720 Like, looks-wise, you feel like you'd be settling for me.

02:50:14.820 Like I said before, it's not about looks for me.

02:50:19.700 It's about the personality and if we have compatibility.

02:50:25.980 Yeah, but earlier you said something along the lines of, we give fours chances.

02:50:30.500 Yeah.

02:50:31.000 You can always upgrade a man.

02:50:32.280 Yeah.

02:50:33.080 Right, but so...

02:50:33.780 My man didn't know how to dress when I started dating him.

02:50:35.720 But so you give a...

02:50:36.880 Would you be giving a ten a chance?

02:50:40.780 A ten man?

02:50:41.960 A guy who's a ten out of ten looks.

02:50:43.700 Would you be giving him a chance?

02:50:45.840 Or would you just be like, I want that dude.

02:50:48.540 I'm not giving him a chance.

02:50:49.840 I want that guy bad.

02:50:53.600 I want him in what manner?

02:50:55.420 So, hold on.

02:50:56.000 Let me ask you a question.

02:50:56.760 Are there some men that you would be settling for?

02:51:00.500 Looks-wise.

02:51:01.560 Looks-wise or on any metric that you'd be settling for, right?

02:51:05.860 If we're talking about looks, yes.

02:51:07.200 I have dated men that were not as attractive because I like their personality.

02:51:12.020 Yeah, you like their personality.

02:51:14.580 But if a guy's attractive, he's not going to have to make up for it perhaps as much or

02:51:20.640 to the same degree, correct?

02:51:23.420 Not true at all.

02:51:25.060 Not true at all.

02:51:26.440 Because I...

02:51:27.040 Don't care.

02:51:27.780 Don't care at all about...

02:51:29.540 So you'll date a guy?

02:51:30.280 No, I've been with really attractive hot men that have terrible personalities and I don't

02:51:35.580 date them anymore.

02:51:36.300 But what if they have good personalities?

02:51:39.120 Now, let's say you have two men.

02:51:40.640 And they're tens, score.

02:51:41.240 That's like...

02:51:42.000 That's my man.

02:51:42.720 That's my man.

02:51:43.140 Hold on.

02:51:43.380 Yeah.

02:51:43.620 Let's say you have two men with good personalities.

02:51:46.320 One of them's a four.

02:51:47.720 One of them's a nine.

02:51:49.420 Uh-huh.

02:51:49.680 Which do you pick?

02:51:50.760 Well, they're equally personalities.

02:51:57.680 Equal. 0.80

02:51:58.400 I mean, they add up to the same personality-wise.

02:52:02.280 Maybe they're different, but they're about the same.

02:52:04.580 Your assessment of their personality, status, finances, whatever, it's about the same.

02:52:10.700 Probably the more attractive guy.

02:52:12.760 So the less attractive guy would lose out, right?

02:52:17.040 So it does matter.

02:52:18.100 Well, it doesn't matter because I'm not going to find anyone anyway compared to whoever said

02:52:23.480 that I'm delusional, that I'm not going to find somebody.

02:52:28.000 Okay, but hang on.

02:52:30.060 Moving back to what some chatter said to you, really doesn't engage with what Brian's saying

02:52:35.180 to you.

02:52:37.420 So he's saying specifically to you, like, look, if another guy is going to be missing

02:52:42.140 out because, you know, guy two is a 10, then obviously looks do matter.

02:52:47.480 Or even from the metric of, well, I still prefer personality, you would still go for the guy

02:52:53.180 who is better looking with the personality.

02:52:56.200 But no, there's more to it than just that.

02:52:59.280 There's compatibility.

02:53:00.680 There's chemistry.

02:53:01.760 There's commitment.

02:53:03.480 He's saying if you're compatible with both of us.

02:53:04.600 So I'm just curious.

02:53:05.400 So going back to this, just curious.

02:53:06.900 So you said you were an eight.

02:53:08.180 You gave me a six.

02:53:09.740 I actually gave myself a five.

02:53:11.900 But so you think, in your view, you would be settling for me just looks wise.

02:53:19.400 I don't think that way.

02:53:21.340 But you would be, right?

02:53:22.720 You said you're an eight.

02:53:24.900 Even though you're, hold on.

02:53:28.880 Wait. 1.00

02:53:29.720 Holy fuck. 1.00

02:53:30.440 I can't math right now. 1.00

02:53:31.380 Wait.

02:53:31.540 What?

02:53:36.140 Even though you're like 17 years my senior?

02:53:41.000 Uh-huh.

02:53:42.460 So what's your point?

02:53:43.840 Sorry?

02:53:44.860 It's just interesting.

02:53:48.360 What?

02:53:50.060 There's nobody following?

02:53:51.740 I don't think my age has anything to do with being 17 years younger than me.

02:53:56.540 I don't follow.

02:53:57.340 I'm not quite following.

02:53:59.460 I think it does.

02:54:00.340 So, I mean, his argument here is actually pretty simple.

02:54:03.220 What is it?

02:54:03.680 So he's just saying, well, I'll explain it.

02:54:05.860 He's just saying, listen, it's really interesting that he rates himself at, you know, I think

02:54:11.480 Brian generally rates himself around a six.

02:54:13.680 Five.

02:54:14.060 Am I incorrect there, Brian?

02:54:14.840 Five.

02:54:15.180 Five.

02:54:15.660 Okay.

02:54:16.280 And he rates yourself at an eight, which means his self-assessment is far lower than your self-assessment.

02:54:21.760 So he's asking, so are you settling with me, looks-wise, if you guys were to date?

02:54:26.840 Wouldn't you be settling?

02:54:28.500 So you could say, well, there's all these other factors.

02:54:30.540 There's personality, there's this and that.

02:54:31.920 But he's only asking about the settlement on looks because he's saying if another man had

02:54:36.080 the same personality, same everything else, but was, you know, a 10, he would be missing

02:54:42.140 out, right?

02:54:42.880 So we should be settling on looks.

02:54:44.740 Sure.

02:54:44.920 For argument's sake, yes, I would be settling.

02:54:46.800 So what would make you an eight and him a five?

02:54:51.560 In other words, how could a woman who's 17 years older than him say that for all practical

02:54:59.000 purposes that she is three levels more attractive than he is and yet would still be settling for 0.87

02:55:07.820 him looks-wise?

02:55:08.800 I got to tell you, the discrepancy seems night and day to me.

02:55:13.340 Yeah.

02:55:13.460 I don't think you can really compare because, I mean, to other 52-year-olds, she is probably

02:55:17.600 an eight.

02:55:18.120 I mean, I don't know a lot of 50-year-olds, but I mean-

02:55:21.520 Which is why we're not comparing her to a 52-year-old, we're comparing her to a 35-year-old. 0.81

02:55:25.320 But that's what I'm saying, like, you can't compare her to exactly a 35-year-old, like

02:55:29.160 they're on different-

02:55:29.360 Why not?

02:55:30.200 Why can't we?

02:55:31.640 Because they're on different, like-

02:55:33.380 That's the point.

02:55:35.100 It's the same thing as a 53-year-old dating, oh, I don't know, a 23-year-old, like what happened

02:55:39.860 with you, right?

02:55:41.420 Actually-

02:55:41.820 There obviously could be a comparison because you didn't want to sleep with that guy because 0.97

02:55:44.880 you thought he was ugly and old, right? 0.77

02:55:47.040 It's the same exact thing.

02:55:48.200 And so, and I can also ask you this question, let's say we dated, there's the comparison

02:55:55.120 right there.

02:55:58.940 Does that make sense?

02:56:01.340 Yeah, but-

02:56:02.420 If we dated, people external to us could make a determination as to who is settling looks-wise,

02:56:08.980 so regardless of the age discrepancy, they would be like, oh, removing the age from it,

02:56:15.940 who's settling for who when it comes to looks?

02:56:18.200 Right?

02:56:19.960 You agree we can date, right?

02:56:21.680 We could date.

02:56:22.360 Okay, yeah.

02:56:23.280 Sure.

02:56:23.900 So we would be in a relationship.

02:56:25.740 People external to us would be able to make a determination as to who is settling looks-wise,

02:56:31.240 correct?

02:56:32.100 Yeah.

02:56:32.620 Okay.

02:56:33.220 So how's it relevant?

02:56:35.180 Okay, I get what you're saying now.

02:56:36.640 Yeah.

02:56:36.860 Yeah.

02:56:42.820 Okay.

02:56:43.380 I have another question then.

02:56:44.840 I've got another question.

02:56:45.800 Do you guys-

02:56:49.220 Mike Davis donated $200.

02:56:52.240 Yo, big girl, I'm going to keep it $100 with you. 1.00

02:56:55.580 A not thicker jumbo size.

02:56:58.360 I would never fly near you because I don't fly coach.

02:57:01.260 But if I were to get seated next to you, I would pull the emergency door.

02:57:06.280 I know I'm-

02:57:09.700 I can stand up if you want, but like-

02:57:11.800 Sure.

02:57:12.140 Okay, do it.

02:57:12.540 Yeah.

02:57:12.820 I also feel like it's the camera angle.

02:57:15.260 Do it.

02:57:15.440 It's like ultra wide.

02:57:16.560 No, I know I'm a little big right now.

02:57:18.520 My goal is to lose like 20 pounds, but-

02:57:21.600 I feel like, yeah.

02:57:22.280 Oh, bro.

02:57:22.700 In the center camera, it does make you look bigger.

02:57:28.700 Okay.

02:57:29.640 All right.

02:57:30.180 We have Steph-

02:57:30.760 I'll do two chats, and then we'll get back.

02:57:32.920 Steph and Jack, third time lucky, BLM told me that-

02:57:35.120 Hey, guys, quiet, please.

02:57:36.660 Third time lucky, BLM told me the message when I'm flying over to get me on the show.

02:57:40.040 I want to stress the importance of BLM, and my husband can put his philosopher thinking

02:57:44.840 into good use and debate.

02:57:47.720 Third time lucky, BLM told me the message.

02:57:50.720 I'm flying over again.

02:57:52.160 Importance, importance.

02:57:53.560 Hashtag BLM.

02:57:55.460 Hashtag Big Labia Matter. 0.99

02:57:57.040 Maybe we can pull that up.

02:58:00.320 Very important.

02:58:02.840 Show of hands, anybody here ever been shamed for like their labia or whatever?

02:58:06.160 What is that?

02:58:06.660 What's that?

02:58:10.040 No.

02:58:10.740 Okay.

02:58:11.380 All right.

02:58:12.040 Thank you, Stephan.

02:58:12.900 We have another chat here from- I only date women with large labias, so awkward. 1.00

02:58:19.600 Thank you.

02:58:20.580 I would also- oh, Maddie.

02:58:22.680 I would also rather take the geriatric woman who can't have children and fake ta-tas and 1.00

02:58:30.620 probably left their husbands to find themselves over the hottie that can't speak English. 1.00

02:58:35.360 Ha ha ha ha ha.

02:58:36.140 She understands English, so that's kind of sad, because she understands. 1.00

02:58:43.720 She only speaks very little.

02:58:45.560 It's true.

02:58:46.460 It's true.

02:58:47.220 So, question going back to this, the rating thing.

02:58:49.720 Do you guys think you'll be better looking in 10 years' time?

02:58:53.960 Better looking in 10 years' time?

02:58:57.780 Yeah.

02:58:58.220 Yeah.

02:58:58.780 Okay.

02:58:59.140 So, better looking at 36 as compared to now at 26?

02:59:02.980 Yeah.

02:59:03.640 What about 20 years' time?

02:59:05.000 So, 46 versus 26?

02:59:09.620 I would probably by that time, no, because I tan a lot.

02:59:12.760 Okay.

02:59:13.420 And then, better looking now at 26 than you were at 18?

02:59:17.940 Oh, 100%.

02:59:18.780 I had a little girl body.

02:59:20.960 Okay.

02:59:21.920 And then, better looking in 10 years' time?

02:59:24.660 No.

02:59:25.860 No.

02:59:26.700 Okay.

02:59:27.520 Do you think you were better looking 10 years ago, as compared to now?

02:59:31.100 No.

02:59:32.280 Better looking now?

02:59:33.400 Yes.

02:59:34.280 At 52, as compared to 42?

02:59:38.380 Can we switch the split?

02:59:39.700 Yeah.

02:59:40.520 Okay.

02:59:40.840 What about 20 years back, 32 versus 52?

02:59:45.840 Better looking now, or 32?

02:59:50.260 I think now.

02:59:51.660 I like the way I look now.

02:59:53.200 Okay.

02:59:53.920 Mm-hmm.

02:59:54.560 22 versus 52?

02:59:57.540 I mean, I'm like, I was with her.

02:59:59.500 I had, like, I was, like, too skinny.

03:00:02.980 I didn't have boobs. 0.94

03:00:04.860 Yeah.

03:00:05.940 I'm better now than I was at 22.

03:00:08.960 So.

03:00:09.920 Yes.

03:00:13.000 Better looking at 52 than you were at 22?

03:00:15.800 Yes.

03:00:16.840 Okay.

03:00:18.220 But not better, but 52, I guess you're saying you're peaking because you won't be better at 62.

03:00:22.660 Yeah, I think I'm at my peak right now.

03:00:24.780 52 is the peak.

03:00:25.880 I think so.

03:00:28.680 I'm older.

03:00:29.500 I'm wiser.

03:00:30.240 What about you?

03:00:31.080 21?

03:00:31.560 Better looking at 31?

03:00:32.980 I would hope so.

03:00:33.840 But, yeah.

03:00:34.280 I would try.

03:00:35.140 I want to put more money into myself a little bit more later on in life because right now it's, like, school's my focus, but.

03:00:40.460 When you say put more money into you, what do you mean?

03:00:42.520 Like, more quality, higher, and skin care, like, better hair care, probably keeping up, maintaining, getting more haircuts, or, like, keeping a manicure, maybe.

03:00:51.800 Like, spending more money, like, in that wise.

03:00:55.440 Like, keeping up with, like, more maintenance.

03:00:57.700 Self-care.

03:00:58.500 Yeah.

03:00:58.900 Self-care, I guess.

03:00:59.480 Classic surgery?

03:01:00.480 No.

03:01:01.320 I'm happy with the way I look right now.

03:01:03.140 What about, like, your fitness?

03:01:04.720 Is it good now or no?

03:01:06.140 It's a lot better than what it used to be.

03:01:07.600 I definitely used to be a lot heavier, so I feel a little bit happier now that I'm a little bit more active.

03:01:13.180 What about better looking at 41 as compared to 21?

03:01:16.840 By then I'll probably have kids, so I wouldn't push that.

03:01:19.820 Yeah, so I'd probably feel a little bit better.

03:01:21.420 Okay, better looking at 31.

03:01:22.780 Mm-hmm.

03:01:23.640 Okay.

03:01:25.220 Assuming you had all that stuff in place today, skin care, hair, whatever the other stuff you listed was,

03:01:34.500 you had in place today, and you also had in place in 10 years' time, would you still be better looking at 31?

03:01:44.460 Yeah, I'd think so.

03:01:45.660 I would hope so.

03:01:46.400 But you said you would be better looking at 31 because you would have those things in place.

03:01:51.460 Oh, rather than if I didn't have it now?

03:01:52.060 No, no, no.

03:01:52.440 Hold on.

03:01:53.820 If you had the things in place now, and you also had all those things in place at 31,

03:01:59.440 will you still be better looking at 31?

03:02:01.120 Probably, I don't know the answer, but I'm going to say no.

03:02:07.560 If I would probably be doing the same thing consecutively, probably not.

03:02:10.580 I'd probably just age and actually lose my baby features that I have right now.

03:02:13.920 Mm-hmm.

03:02:14.440 Okay.

03:02:15.480 What about you?

03:02:16.420 So better looking in 10 years' time?

03:02:18.060 No.

03:02:18.880 Okay.

03:02:19.520 You're 53.

03:02:20.540 Were you better looking at 43 than you are now?

03:02:23.800 No.

03:02:25.560 Okay.

03:02:26.080 Better looking at 33 than you were now?

03:02:28.640 No.

03:02:29.040 Better looking at 23 than you are now?

03:02:31.580 Yes.

03:02:36.040 Because that's pre-kids.

03:02:39.040 Oh.

03:02:41.360 So better looking at 23, but then worse looking, 33.

03:02:48.440 But then better, between 33 and 43, where were you better looking?

03:02:53.160 33 or 43?

03:02:56.840 33.

03:02:57.480 I took care of myself better than my, I guess, self-worth went down in my 40s, because that's

03:03:07.640 when my marriage started taking a dump.

03:03:09.700 Yeah.

03:03:10.680 And I started just not putting myself as a priority, so I wasn't taking care of myself.

03:03:15.460 Better looking at 23 or 33?

03:03:17.500 23.

03:03:18.440 Okay.

03:03:18.680 And then, but so, but better looking now at 53 as compared to 43 and 33?

03:03:27.000 Yeah.

03:03:27.540 Okay.

03:03:27.820 But not 23?

03:03:29.000 Nope.

03:03:31.500 So wait, your looks were perhaps at their peak at 23, decline 33, decline 43, increase

03:03:40.120 53.

03:03:40.800 How does that, in what way?

03:03:45.020 I invested in myself more.

03:03:47.620 I took better care of my skin, my body, and I got some plastic surgery.

03:03:54.120 Mm-hmm.

03:03:56.520 Okay.

03:03:56.800 And then all those things kind of boost my self-esteem and start, so I started viewing

03:04:02.340 myself as more of a value.

03:04:04.780 Mm-hmm.

03:04:05.060 And, yeah, I feel like during the time, like, having kids, being with young children, I couldn't

03:04:14.580 invest in myself as much, and then plus, you know, I was in a rough marriage, so I didn't

03:04:19.160 put myself as a priority compared to what I do now.

03:04:22.340 So, yes, I feel like aesthetically.

03:04:23.960 Yeah.

03:04:24.820 Can I ask you a question?

03:04:25.800 Do you think you have an easier time finding men now at 53 as compared to, I don't know

03:04:37.260 if you were in a relationship when you were 33, perhaps you just met maybe the guy that

03:04:41.560 you were?

03:04:42.760 I met my ex-husband when I was 20.

03:04:46.160 I see.

03:04:46.700 Okay.

03:04:46.920 Yeah.

03:04:47.920 Do you think you would have had an easier time dating, finding a man at 33 than you do

03:04:52.220 now at 53?

03:04:53.800 Yes.

03:04:54.940 Easier now?

03:04:56.740 Easier.

03:04:57.280 Let's assume you were single during, when you were 33.

03:04:59.420 Mm-hmm.

03:04:59.880 Okay?

03:05:02.640 I think it would have been easier back in my 30s, actually, if I was single to find

03:05:07.500 a guy.

03:05:08.820 Mm-hmm.

03:05:09.580 Okay.

03:05:09.880 Compared to now.

03:05:10.600 And then, wait, going back to you, you said better looking now at 52 as compared to 42,

03:05:16.840 32, and 22, correct?

03:05:18.100 Mm-hmm.

03:05:18.860 Do you have an easier time finding men now at 52 than you did at 22?

03:05:23.420 I do.

03:05:24.700 I...

03:05:24.980 Do you have more male attention at 52 than you?

03:05:27.040 Yeah, I do.

03:05:30.140 Okay.

03:05:31.420 Going to you, you're 18.

03:05:32.840 Do you think you'll be better looking at 28 than you are now?

03:05:35.920 Yeah.

03:05:36.680 38?

03:05:37.760 I think so.

03:05:38.800 48?

03:05:39.140 48?

03:05:39.760 Yeah.

03:05:40.080 Yeah.

03:05:40.520 My mom's, like, gorgeous, and she's that age, so.

03:05:44.000 58?

03:05:44.940 50?

03:05:45.380 No.

03:05:45.900 Maybe.

03:05:46.420 No.

03:05:47.100 So, at 48, you'll be better looking than how you look now?

03:05:52.080 No.

03:05:52.540 So, I think, like, now to, like, 28, like, will be my prime.

03:05:57.800 And then, 48, like, I don't know, for, like, I don't know.

03:06:01.400 Well, so you said better looking at 28.

03:06:03.440 Mm-hmm.

03:06:03.820 Will you be better looking at 38 than you are at 28?

03:06:06.720 Oh, no.

03:06:07.620 Okay.

03:06:08.240 Yeah.

03:06:08.900 Okay.

03:06:10.020 All right.

03:06:11.680 What about you?

03:06:13.180 I think I'll be, like, good looking at my 30s, but, like, I'm sorry, I cut it off right

03:06:17.680 there.

03:06:18.820 Okay.

03:06:19.100 So, you're 20, better looking at 30?

03:06:20.640 Yeah.

03:06:21.060 That's it.

03:06:21.820 All right.

03:06:27.260 Can you translate for me?

03:06:29.980 Will she be better looking in 10 years' time?

03:06:35.420 No.

03:06:37.000 No.

03:06:37.720 Okay.

03:06:38.080 All right.

03:06:38.800 Cool.

03:06:40.480 Maddie?

03:06:45.060 Honestly, I think so.

03:06:47.600 But not after that.

03:06:48.840 No, honestly, less than 10 years.

03:06:51.440 But I think 10 years now.

03:06:53.040 Hmm.

03:06:53.580 Asian don't raise him. 1.00

03:06:55.420 Yeah.

03:06:56.520 That's true.

03:06:58.240 Okay. 1.00

03:07:03.120 Damn, y'all crazy. 1.00

03:07:05.240 Y'all crazy. 1.00

03:07:05.920 Even for, like, an 18-year-old? 0.98

03:07:12.440 I, I...

03:07:13.240 What?

03:07:14.560 You're coming after me again?

03:07:16.640 Do you think you genuinely, like, do you think you would genuinely out-compete yourself

03:07:23.440 at 22?

03:07:24.200 What do you, I would out-compete, at 52?

03:07:34.040 Yeah.

03:07:34.540 I just was not, yeah, I think so. 1.00

03:07:36.720 I think because I'm an, I was an idiot at 22. 0.99

03:07:39.660 Well, just talking looks, right? 0.99

03:07:41.320 No, I mean, I guess we met at the gym when I was, we were 22, 21, 22, right? 0.79

03:07:51.120 I mean, yeah, my butt, I had a bigger butt back then, but other than that, I don't think... 0.59

03:07:56.780 Guys don't care about that? 0.98

03:07:57.720 I think my face...

03:07:59.320 I think it's, I think it looks better.

03:08:05.240 Do you have photos when you're young?

03:08:07.760 Oh, we should pull up some of our old photos.

03:08:11.220 Oh, my, oh, the butterfly clips.

03:08:13.960 Like, we really want to go there now, but...

03:08:15.280 Those are terrible.

03:08:16.520 Yeah.

03:08:17.780 We do, yeah.

03:08:19.300 On your Instagram, or would you have to, like, send it to us?

03:08:21.460 No, we'd have to, I'd have to look on my phone.

03:08:24.980 Can we, Nick, you want to get her phone?

03:08:26.860 We'll do it.

03:08:28.060 I'll read a couple chats while we're doing that.

03:08:30.360 We have John, rating the girls from left to right, 8-6, here, I'll do this, 8-6-5-5-3-5-3-3.

03:08:42.780 Morgan is also an 8.

03:08:44.760 Which one's yours?

03:08:47.620 Oh, yeah.

03:08:49.760 Do we have...

03:08:50.720 John A., thank you, man, appreciate it.

03:08:52.340 And then we have Raven here.

03:08:53.720 Question for the table, would you rather have men make the move and risk SA or ask for consent 0.62

03:09:00.380 and risk the egg?

03:09:03.460 I don't know if you should, you maybe shouldn't have framed it this way, because I feel like

03:09:06.800 it kind of jumps the gun a little bit on the angle for the question, but white knighting

03:09:16.660 for the goofy girl in the middle with a mop on her head, Brian, be nice.

03:09:19.320 I don't know what that means.

03:09:23.040 I woke up.

03:09:23.940 I, like, just woke up before I came here.

03:09:26.060 I was picked up off the streets, so...

03:09:27.660 Off the mean streets of Santa Barbara.

03:09:29.880 Okay.

03:09:30.520 Giovanni, appreciate it, brother.

03:09:31.980 Thank you, thank you.

03:09:33.360 So, would you rather...

03:09:35.060 I'll just ask it this way.

03:09:37.360 Would you prefer a guy going for the kiss, asking for the kiss, or just going for it?

03:09:45.040 Uh, depends on the context.

03:09:50.740 You like him?

03:09:51.160 Like, if it's, like, a first...

03:09:51.880 First kiss, first kiss.

03:09:53.440 Yeah, I would rather them go for it.

03:09:55.420 If...

03:09:55.820 They could read your body language, yeah.

03:09:57.620 If I'm obviously into him, he would do it.

03:10:00.580 What about you?

03:10:02.260 Oh, gosh.

03:10:03.420 I like a man to take charge.

03:10:05.460 Mm-hmm.

03:10:06.880 Preferably, I'd like him to make the first move, like, kiss without, like, asking.

03:10:10.720 Without asking.

03:10:11.340 Yeah.

03:10:11.500 Okay, what about you?

03:10:12.400 Yeah, just to go for it.

03:10:13.780 Okay.

03:10:14.020 I'd agree.

03:10:15.680 All right.

03:10:17.100 Like, on the first date ever, or just in general?

03:10:20.460 Well, first kiss.

03:10:21.480 First kiss.

03:10:22.000 If it's the first date, if it's the third date, whatever.

03:10:24.520 Okay, first kiss.

03:10:25.320 Yeah, like, yeah, they kiss you first, and they grab you all cute.

03:10:29.900 Okay.

03:10:31.140 Did this camera get bumped?

03:10:33.960 Didn't it get switched?

03:10:37.020 It looks...

03:10:38.540 I'm way out of frame.

03:10:40.540 I must have got bumped.

03:10:42.580 Okay, I'll come fix it.

03:10:44.020 Um, which do you prefer?

03:10:47.700 For sure, for sure, it got bumped.

03:10:50.400 First kiss.

03:10:53.280 What?

03:10:53.860 Hmm?

03:10:54.640 You want the guy to, like, go for it, or you want him to ask?

03:10:57.940 Go for it.

03:10:58.780 Okay.

03:10:59.160 Maddie?

03:11:00.400 Go for it, but I also don't find it icky if they ask.

03:11:04.720 Fair.

03:11:05.100 Fair.

03:11:05.420 Fair.

03:11:05.820 Okay.

03:11:06.180 And then we have Dave's Drone.

03:11:09.100 Love the content, and Andrew's the boss.

03:11:10.680 If Brian is a five, I'm a solid two.

03:11:12.820 None of these women have proved themselves worthy as a keeper, and that's coming from 1.00

03:11:16.920 a two.

03:11:17.320 Let that sink in.

03:11:18.260 Uh, girls, it gets worse for you as you get older.

03:11:24.040 Dave's Drone.

03:11:26.260 Thank you, Dave's Drone, for the $100 super chat.

03:11:31.000 The girls loved that one. 0.59

03:11:32.800 Big fans of that one, man.

03:11:34.140 Um, so you guys just don't think you get, like, less attractive as you get older?

03:11:43.600 Like, I have visible signs of aging on my face.

03:11:46.860 Like, I'm not, like, delusional in this regard.

03:11:52.560 This equally applies to women. 1.00

03:11:55.080 Like, as you age, even if you live, like, a totally perfect, stress-free life,

03:12:03.880 and you never smile, and you never laugh, and you never move your face at all over 10

03:12:10.120 years, 20 years, 30 years, there's going to be changes to your face and body, to your

03:12:14.840 skin.

03:12:18.280 People get, I make the argument, both men and women get less attractive as they get older.

03:12:24.220 I think there's some differences between men and women.

03:12:27.360 Generally speaking, you get less attractive as you get older.

03:12:30.380 It is what it is.

03:12:31.200 There's, there's a lot of cope.

03:12:35.440 Nothing?

03:12:36.220 Are we?

03:12:38.400 Nothing?

03:12:39.480 I mean, I think it's true for, like, people 28, like, 29 versus, like, 19.

03:12:45.540 Yeah.

03:12:46.640 Really?

03:12:46.940 Even, like, 19 to 29, yes.

03:12:49.420 It's not, you don't start looking younger.

03:12:52.380 It's just confusing, because so many people get work done nowadays, you can't really tell

03:12:55.360 how old they are.

03:12:55.880 No, no, no, no.

03:12:56.340 Well, actually, you see, have you seen those clips of those, like, 24-year-old women who've 0.84

03:13:01.960 got a fuck ton of Botox? 0.87

03:13:03.480 Yeah. 0.98

03:13:03.780 And they look like they're in their 40s.

03:13:05.560 Yeah.

03:13:06.260 I don't think plastic surgery, like, I think plastic surgery, no offense to those of you

03:13:10.680 who have it.

03:13:11.840 I'm not a fan.

03:13:12.560 And I think it makes women look worse. 1.00

03:13:15.660 Sorry.

03:13:16.740 Well, yeah, it definitely depends on what you're getting done, where you're getting it done,

03:13:21.180 and how old you are getting things done.

03:13:24.720 Because, yeah, it can make you look older if you start too soon getting injectables.

03:13:31.460 You could be overdone.

03:13:34.780 Let me, you know, I was wondering about this, though, Brian, on the plastic surgery thing

03:13:39.780 for you, is that decade-specific?

03:13:43.440 Like, right now, I would agree, especially with the Brazilian butt lifts, which makes it 0.99

03:13:48.760 look like a woman has taken a dump in her pants. 1.00

03:13:50.760 It's the most absurd thing that I've ever seen, and it's gross. 0.96

03:13:53.440 But, like, if you go back and you look at the plastic surgery from, like, the 90s, for

03:14:01.260 instance, it seemed like it was way less obvious, and it was mostly an enhancement.

03:14:07.440 It looked like they were trying to go for more of an enhancement of kind of that hourglass

03:14:11.940 figure and this type of thing.

03:14:13.600 Would you have objected as badly in the 90s and even early 2000s as you do now as kind

03:14:20.840 of this bizarre standard of BBLs and this type of thing?

03:14:26.320 I'm just curious.

03:14:28.180 Well, I don't think women in the 90s were getting the amount of procedures that they were 0.98

03:14:35.260 today.

03:14:37.560 Well, you ever seen Baywatch? 0.97

03:14:39.740 I think she had fake titties, and I think that's it. 0.99

03:14:43.520 I think that's it. 0.99

03:14:44.880 Well, they would usually do the fake boobs, and then I think the nose job was pretty common. 1.00

03:14:49.400 Sure, they'd do the nose job.

03:14:50.640 I think, honestly, when it comes to nose jobs, though, that is the one procedure that sometimes

03:14:58.320 you can tell, but oftentimes it's a little harder to tell with the nose, I think.

03:15:04.600 If it's done, like, it's a little harder to tell.

03:15:09.580 Also, the nose job is a fairly slight change.

03:15:12.740 Whereas, and also the nose job, a nose job can be done whereby it makes a nose look like

03:15:25.780 somebody else's nose that they could just normally have. 0.99

03:15:29.820 Whereas no woman has natural boobs that look like fake titties. 1.00

03:15:36.120 It just, there's no such thing. 0.99

03:15:37.720 No fake titties look like natural titties. 0.80

03:15:42.600 Ain't a thing. 0.82

03:15:45.140 Well, I guess what I'm wondering is, do you think you'd have the same objections?

03:15:51.320 And I'm just curious about this myself.

03:15:53.480 Would you have the same objections, do you think, from, like, 90s, early 2000s women to

03:16:00.440 the types of plastic surgery that they had then versus now where it's so over the top and

03:16:06.820 almost makes them look like different people?

03:16:10.240 They almost look kind of alien in some ways.

03:16:13.080 So, I mean, I would say I would object less insofar as my understanding of most of the

03:16:20.800 plastic surgery that was done in perhaps the early 2000s and throughout the 90s was mostly,

03:16:26.900 mostly fake breasts. 1.00

03:16:28.800 I don't think BBLs were really a thing, maybe a bit, but I don't think it was a thing.

03:16:37.040 You certainly don't.

03:16:40.180 I think it was just fake breasts in the 90s. 0.97

03:16:42.940 I wouldn't have liked the fake titties had I been dating in the 90s. 0.98

03:16:47.160 I wouldn't have liked them. 0.71

03:16:48.100 But now you have the lip filler, the Botox, the lipo, the BBL.

03:16:54.100 I don't like any of these procedures.

03:16:57.940 So, I suppose, to answer your question, yes, I object more now.

03:17:03.400 But, I mean, a fake boob job, a woman with a fake boob job in the 90s versus a woman with 1.00

03:17:08.720 a fake boob job in 2024, it's about the same.

03:17:12.580 But there's all that other stuff now, too.

03:17:16.460 So, yeah, I would object more to it, I guess, assuming she had those additional procedures.

03:17:22.900 Gotcha. 0.99

03:17:23.580 I just, I prefer, I've said it before, I'll take no boobs or small boobs over fake titties. 0.99

03:17:30.580 I'll take no butt, flat butt over BBL. 0.99

03:17:34.440 I'll take no upper lip over lip filler.

03:17:38.120 I'll take belly fat over lipo.

03:17:41.580 So, I mean.

03:17:43.360 Can my friend say something?

03:17:45.760 Oh, sure.

03:17:47.800 Wait, what?

03:17:49.540 Did you want to say something?

03:17:51.120 Yeah, I'll weigh in.

03:17:52.560 Okay.

03:17:52.940 Well, I think that, I mean, at least this day and age, everyone is, sorry.

03:18:00.180 Go ahead.

03:18:00.520 I didn't adjust it.

03:18:01.320 Go ahead.

03:18:01.540 Yeah, I speak English, guys.

03:18:02.860 I think that a lot of the, stop.

03:18:08.280 A lot of the surgeries right now are, like, trendy.

03:18:11.240 So, all these body types, like the big BBLs are just trendy. 1.00

03:18:16.000 And in my opinion, I think it's going to go away.

03:18:18.380 And we're probably going to sway towards natural bodies again.

03:18:21.640 And so, I think, like, overall, it's pretty damaging what people are doing to themselves.

03:18:30.660 I feel like nose jobs are the only one that actually looks good after.

03:18:34.600 I'll actually agree.

03:18:37.600 I will agree.

03:18:38.500 I think nose jobs save lives sometimes.

03:18:43.560 Definitely seem to improve the facial aesthetics.

03:18:47.440 I don't think the same can be said with, like, most other, at least me personally.

03:18:53.140 Aesthetically speaking, I don't think any other procedure aesthetically looks better.

03:18:59.700 I don't.

03:19:00.300 I would like to add, though, the only thing about nose jobs, like, I don't like that I've

03:19:05.460 seen recently is the, like, white button nose that everyone's getting.

03:19:10.100 And it takes away from, like, people's, like, ethnicity.

03:19:13.940 Like, you stop looking what you are.

03:19:17.280 And I feel like sometimes that makes you prettier than having, like, the just same white girl 0.99

03:19:23.020 nose that everyone wants. 0.99

03:19:24.520 Yeah.

03:19:25.560 That's true.

03:19:26.200 I hate, like, the swoop on the nose bridge.

03:19:31.040 Yeah.

03:19:31.580 Like, that.

03:19:31.960 It just looks, like, so rhinoplasty.

03:19:34.760 That or, like, the perfect little button nose is just, like, it doesn't fit everyone's

03:19:39.680 face.

03:19:40.720 I feel like a lot of ethnicities feel obligated to get nose jobs, though. 0.89

03:19:45.500 I get when they have, like, the big, you know, like, a lot of Armenian girls that I know had

03:19:50.500 that.

03:19:50.880 And they'll get, like, nose jobs.

03:19:52.100 But it's, like, okay, I get you're trying to get rid of that.

03:19:54.560 But also, if you're going to do it, at least keep a little bit more of your, like, ethnicity

03:19:59.600 with the rest of your nose instead of it just completely looking like it doesn't even fit

03:20:03.700 your face.

03:20:04.380 Yeah.

03:20:04.400 I think they just also could be just really insecure about their nose, so they want to

03:20:08.460 change everything about it.

03:20:09.800 Yeah.

03:20:10.280 It's a thing, like, I know a lot of Persian people that, like, all of them have nose jobs. 1.00

03:20:16.120 Oh, yeah.

03:20:16.360 That's, like, a thing.

03:20:17.080 That's, like, their go-to.

03:20:18.400 Yeah.

03:20:19.260 But I think nose jobs are, like, the only thing.

03:20:21.520 I honestly think they're, like, the biggest transformation that a person can have.

03:20:25.980 I think they change how you look the most rather than, like, getting your lips done or

03:20:30.740 your boobs done or your butt done or whatever. 0.97

03:20:33.720 Yeah. 0.99

03:20:34.400 What do you guys think of filler?

03:20:38.380 Like, lip filler?

03:20:39.220 Like, any facial filler, because it's not surgical.

03:20:42.040 It's injections.

03:20:43.340 No.

03:20:43.880 I've always been scared of that.

03:20:45.720 Have you guys seen, like, the videos of, like, the old people with wrinkles who get, 0.98

03:20:49.740 like, face tightening?

03:20:50.940 It's so scary.

03:20:51.880 Is that real?

03:20:52.800 Yeah.

03:20:53.080 That's, like, very satisfying to watch, though.

03:20:56.020 No. 0.98

03:20:56.340 I like seeing the before and afters when they're done right, because it's, like, damn, you just 0.97

03:21:01.580 took off, like, 15 years. 0.54

03:21:02.720 When it's done right, though, like, is it always going to stay right, or is it going to stay

03:21:05.920 right for those five years, 10 years?

03:21:07.540 Like, how much can you stress?

03:21:08.540 Yeah.

03:21:08.860 No, like, sure.

03:21:09.600 All right.

03:21:09.800 I got to move it on, but we have Dorbel Machista.

03:21:14.680 Can you read it?

03:21:15.920 Would you choose a wealthy, daring Latino with strong, ethnocentric, collectivist views, 0.97

03:21:21.320 or a modest, mild-mannered Asian who values liberal, preservationist ideals? 0.79

03:21:27.100 Alignment of value?

03:21:28.140 I pick my boyfriend.

03:21:57.340 That's all I'm going to say.

03:21:59.220 If you had to pick one, though.

03:22:02.140 Well, he's Hispanic, so I'll just go with that. 0.50

03:22:03.880 Okay.

03:22:04.260 So, Latino guy or Asian guy?

03:22:06.400 Asian.

03:22:07.640 Latino.

03:22:09.040 Asian.

03:22:11.000 Latino.

03:22:12.020 White. 0.81

03:22:13.160 Yeah.

03:22:14.360 Right.

03:22:14.660 You can't pick white. 0.63

03:22:16.340 Okay.

03:22:16.800 Latino.

03:22:18.100 Okay.

03:22:19.840 That's true.

03:22:21.160 Okay.

03:22:21.660 I'd probably go for the Latino also.

03:22:26.900 All right.

03:22:27.800 We have Warlord69.

03:22:32.040 Not too late.

03:22:32.860 Can't find it.

03:22:33.420 Brian07, Andrew, great seeing you again.

03:22:35.000 Ladies, please rate Nanel Conde in her prime during the 2000s.

03:22:41.300 Nice to see you again, too, Warlord.

03:22:43.440 Thank you, Warlord, man.

03:22:44.500 Appreciate it.

03:22:45.220 It will. 0.89

03:22:45.660 What the hell? 0.83

03:22:47.380 Nanel Conde. 0.98

03:22:49.880 Brother, uh.

03:22:52.160 Brother, uh.

03:22:55.980 Are you looking at it?

03:22:56.780 Brother.

03:22:57.260 Giovanni.

03:22:57.780 Can you read it?

03:22:59.360 Chat simping for the chick that pretended she didn't speak English. 0.60

03:23:03.120 Middle girl supremacy. 0.91

03:23:04.600 I know there's a rodent in that nest, and I'm here for it.

03:23:08.080 We can name it.

03:23:09.400 What a two-ee. 0.93

03:23:10.320 He's talking about you.

03:23:11.300 They like you.

03:23:12.240 Oh, they like me.

03:23:13.040 Hi.

03:23:13.340 He says middle girl supremacy.

03:23:14.840 Thanks, guys.

03:23:15.800 Do you want to blow a kiss into this camera right here?

03:23:19.860 Boom.

03:23:20.420 All right.

03:23:20.760 There you go.

03:23:22.020 All right.

03:23:22.660 Thank you, Giovanni.

03:23:24.000 Appreciate it, bro.

03:23:25.400 Call it what a two-ee. 0.95

03:23:27.300 What a two-ee. 0.93

03:23:28.260 What a bamboo lips. 0.99

03:23:30.360 Baboon?

03:23:31.100 Oh, it's like lip filler.

03:23:33.260 Crazy lip filler. 0.92

03:23:35.100 Let's get into some different pre-show notes here.

03:23:38.120 Actually, you know what?

03:23:38.980 I want to bring it back to you said something I thought was interesting much earlier on in the show.

03:23:43.260 You said that the past shouldn't matter.

03:23:49.480 Oh, Maddie, can you read that really quick while I'm just...

03:23:52.100 Madison, I'm 30 years old, making 90K a year.

03:23:54.960 I can't get you in a Benz, but I can get you in a really nice Honda Civic.

03:23:58.500 Let me take you on a date.

03:24:00.740 I have a lovely boyfriend that I'm committed to, but...

03:24:04.540 I'll go, bro.

03:24:05.900 Why don't you ask me, bro?

03:24:07.280 He'll take the Civic.

03:24:08.480 Why don't you ask me, bro? 1.00

03:24:09.860 What the fuck? 1.00

03:24:10.580 Okay. 1.00

03:24:11.120 Thank you, bro.

03:24:11.760 Appreciate it.

03:24:12.900 So, you said past shouldn't doesn't matter, right?

03:24:16.960 Mm-hmm.

03:24:17.920 So, like, that came up with, like, the body count conversation, I guess, or...

03:24:21.740 We had a body count conversation.

03:24:22.860 Was it about body count?

03:24:24.020 I don't think we even...

03:24:24.560 They just included that, but it wasn't about...

03:24:26.000 Oh, Maddie, can you read that real quick while it's here?

03:24:27.380 Please write Brian's excellent eyebrows on a scale from 1 to 60, comparing them to a

03:24:31.520 majestic hawk's wingspan, but only if the hawk has recently taken a salsa dancing class.

03:24:37.860 I got great eyelashes, too, by the way.

03:24:40.140 None of you guys had anything to say about that.

03:24:43.280 I said you had...

03:24:43.860 Oh! 0.60

03:24:45.280 Kilo of cereal donated $200.

03:24:47.580 Yo, Kilo of cereal, thank you, sir.

03:24:48.760 I got to ask it again.

03:24:50.280 It's been pretty successful in the past.

03:24:52.260 Panel, what's the most embarrassing thing to happen to you during a day tour while sharing

03:24:56.640 carnal knowledge of each other?

03:24:58.060 Okay, we'll do that.

03:24:58.760 We'll do that. 0.96

03:24:59.760 First, though, you guys need to rate my freaking eyebrows on a scale of 1 to 60. 0.95

03:25:05.260 1 to 60. 0.90

03:25:08.720 I like a...

03:25:10.260 Maybe a high 30.

03:25:12.500 Look at me.

03:25:13.220 Why is this one...

03:25:14.060 This one's a little longer than that one.

03:25:16.120 No eyebrows are ever, like, the same.

03:25:18.480 Yeah, they're sisters.

03:25:19.780 I'll manage that this is natural.

03:25:21.360 Yeah, me too.

03:25:22.480 I'm pretty nice.

03:25:23.400 You don't have a unibrow, so...

03:25:24.840 Or at least from here, I can't see, so I'd say, like, a good 55.

03:25:28.280 Really?

03:25:28.980 I'd say, like, a...

03:25:30.340 You can always fix that.

03:25:31.420 40?

03:25:31.780 I was gonna say...

03:25:32.480 40?

03:25:33.240 No, I was gonna agree with that.

03:25:34.440 10.

03:25:35.080 Like...

03:25:35.440 10?

03:25:36.220 No, it's out of 60.

03:25:37.280 I think 40.

03:25:38.140 That's why.

03:25:38.940 Out of 60.

03:25:40.300 42?

03:25:41.020 That's why I said out of 60. 1.00

03:25:42.060 Damn, y'all ruthless. 1.00

03:25:44.100 Leave my eyebrows out of this shit. 1.00

03:25:46.380 Wait, ladies, what do you think of young Andrew Wilson? 1.00

03:25:49.480 Pull that shit up, Nick. 1.00

03:25:51.360 And then, if we get... 1.00

03:25:54.460 How much did I say I would show that, like, video of me when I was 23 and I was, like,

03:25:57.880 flexing?

03:25:59.240 A thousand.

03:25:59.780 How much?

03:26:00.260 A Bitcoin?

03:26:01.140 A thousand.

03:26:01.940 No.

03:26:02.640 Yeah.

03:26:03.020 Champagne?

03:26:03.220 No, no, no.

03:26:03.880 You said two champagne pops.

03:26:05.920 No.

03:26:06.900 What?

03:26:07.400 No, I thought it was more.

03:26:08.400 He said one and you said five.

03:26:09.320 I don't remember what it was.

03:26:11.900 Wait, pull up Andrew again. 0.99

03:26:13.140 Look at this fucking legend. 1.00

03:26:15.100 Look at this fucking stud. 1.00

03:26:16.840 I'm a fucking legend. 1.00

03:26:18.320 God damn, son. 1.00

03:26:20.000 Sorry, Andrew. 1.00

03:26:20.660 That was kind of sus. 0.82

03:26:22.780 Where's he at?

03:26:23.680 Look at that.

03:26:26.920 Ladies, would you... 1.00

03:26:28.420 Would you guys...

03:26:29.720 Sorry, Andrew.

03:26:30.320 I'm gonna be, like, degen.

03:26:31.300 Would you guys have hit?

03:26:33.360 Like, young Andrew?

03:26:34.960 Would you guys have hit?

03:26:36.120 Sorry, Rachel.

03:26:36.640 Rachel, I'm sorry.

03:26:37.520 Rachel, Rachel, I'm sorry.

03:26:38.280 It looks like my dad.

03:26:38.880 Rachel Wilson, I apologize.

03:26:40.260 Would you guys have hit?

03:26:41.460 He looks like my dad,

03:26:42.540 so that's, like, a really...

03:26:43.380 What do you mean?

03:26:43.780 No, no, no.

03:26:44.280 Young Andrew.

03:26:44.980 Young Andrew looks like my dad.

03:26:45.620 Andrew, how old were you in that photo?

03:26:48.320 20?

03:26:48.700 I want to say I was 19.

03:26:50.920 Yeah.

03:26:51.200 No, like, that looks like a picture of my dad.

03:26:54.300 You wouldn't go for it.

03:26:54.820 Your dad doesn't look like that at 19 and me?

03:26:58.060 Not now, but at 19?

03:26:58.480 No way.

03:26:58.840 At 19?

03:26:59.500 You can...

03:27:00.140 Wow, I look purple.

03:27:01.480 Oh, my.

03:27:03.100 Don't worry.

03:27:03.580 It's just the screen.

03:27:04.900 Don't worry.

03:27:05.260 You're fine.

03:27:06.640 You don't.

03:27:07.720 It's, like, not a...

03:27:08.820 It's a TV screen. 0.99

03:27:09.780 It's fucking chill. 0.99

03:27:10.320 The brother ate the thing from... 0.99

03:27:11.620 Nah, here, look.

03:27:12.300 I'll join you.

03:27:13.400 Violet. 1.00

03:27:13.680 Look at that shit, bro. 1.00

03:27:14.500 It's because we're white. 1.00

03:27:16.300 That's right, bro. 1.00

03:27:17.420 This fucking TV's racist, dude. 1.00

03:27:19.340 Fuck this TV, bro. 1.00

03:27:21.060 Fucking Costco. 1.00

03:27:22.020 Fucking racist piece of shit. 1.00

03:27:23.940 Fucking selling us some racist-ass fucking TV mongers. 1.00

03:27:27.860 Fuck you, Costco. 1.00

03:27:28.860 You racist white... 1.00

03:27:30.500 I love Costco. 1.00

03:27:31.500 Oh, God.

03:27:32.100 What did I say, bro?

03:27:34.900 So, show of hands.

03:27:36.640 Show of hands.

03:27:37.520 Who of you would hit, Andrew?

03:27:39.400 That's such a weird question.

03:27:40.880 You should just ask them to, like, rate him at that age.

03:27:46.240 Or, sure.

03:27:48.040 Like, smash or pass?

03:27:49.760 Smash or pass.

03:27:51.280 Yeah, that's a better way to frame it.

03:27:54.100 How many of you...

03:27:55.100 You gotta put that picture up.

03:27:56.160 You can't use me now. 0.99

03:27:57.940 Holy shit. 1.00

03:27:59.080 How many of you would clap them cheeks? 1.00

03:28:03.600 Wait, girls can do that to a guy? 1.00

03:28:06.340 Anything's possible.

03:28:06.860 They could.

03:28:10.280 They need to have, like, a toy for the guy. 1.00

03:28:12.320 He's so stupid. 1.00

03:28:13.080 Oh, babies. 1.00

03:28:14.540 Next.

03:28:15.900 Pass.

03:28:16.180 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:28:27.260 He's a pioneer.

03:28:29.340 Oh, boy.

03:28:30.200 Okay.

03:28:31.000 They raided my eyebrows.

03:28:32.460 Okay.

03:28:32.680 Most embarrassing thing to happen during a date or during carnal knowledge?

03:28:37.600 On a date, I tried wax for the first time when I was, like, I want to say 21.

03:28:43.260 And I got so high.

03:28:45.000 We were in...

03:28:45.640 I was, like, freaking out.

03:28:46.780 Made him go through a drive-thru.

03:28:48.520 Yeah.

03:28:48.820 And midway through the drive-thru, I just started throwing up.

03:28:51.700 And I opened, like, the car door and I just threw up in the middle, like, the little pocket thing.

03:28:56.720 And he was, like, I just got my car washed for this day.

03:28:59.240 It was, like, horrible.

03:29:00.220 I felt so bad all over the drive-thru, all over his car.

03:29:03.680 Yeah.

03:29:04.420 First and last time doing wax.

03:29:05.600 I'm going to have to think about this for a second.

03:29:09.620 I'm going to say this happened when I was, like, in my 20s before I found my husband.

03:29:15.460 But I, like, seriously was choking during dinner.

03:29:18.560 And he had to give me the Heimlich.

03:29:22.000 Yeah, that's embarrassing.

03:29:23.320 What about you?

03:29:24.440 What's carnal knowledge?

03:29:25.960 I don't know what that means. 0.98

03:29:26.860 Oh, sexual intercourse. 0.99

03:29:29.620 Wait. 0.99

03:29:29.640 Okay.

03:29:30.160 I'll come back to the...

03:29:32.180 Can I come back to the question?

03:29:33.080 Well, so it's either embarrassing, like, thing that happened on a date.

03:29:35.360 Date or during.

03:29:37.060 I, like, I broke my ankle once on a date.

03:29:42.880 And it was, like, really embarrassing.

03:29:44.140 Like, we were playing, like, basketball.

03:29:46.040 And I just got, like, just got juked out.

03:29:49.460 And it was bad. 0.99

03:29:50.440 Damn. 1.00

03:29:51.000 Really ugly. 1.00

03:29:53.880 And pathetic. 1.00

03:29:55.160 Like, for being athletic, that's so pathetic. 1.00

03:29:57.440 Oh. 1.00

03:29:58.020 Pathetic. 0.99

03:29:58.420 For me, like, it was so recent. 0.99

03:30:01.200 Like, yesterday, I got wine drunk.

03:30:02.520 And then they drew, like, you know, D-I-C-Ks all over my arms. 0.97

03:30:07.540 You're, like, passed out?

03:30:08.660 Yeah.

03:30:08.940 Like, I got super wine drunk.

03:30:10.380 Were you hanging out with white people?

03:30:12.220 I was hanging out with my white man.

03:30:13.540 And then, yeah, I guess, yeah, white people.

03:30:15.080 But I love him.

03:30:15.500 I feel like it's only...

03:30:16.220 A comedian has a joke about this, but...

03:30:18.120 No, it's Dave Chappelle.

03:30:19.460 It's, like, only white people do. 0.66

03:30:22.260 I blacked out off wine. 0.60

03:30:24.860 Huh?

03:30:25.220 I blacked out online.

03:30:27.300 So bad.

03:30:28.800 Word.

03:30:29.420 Most embarrassing date story?

03:30:31.480 I can't really...

03:30:32.460 If you want.

03:30:32.780 I can't really think of one.

03:30:34.520 Okay.

03:30:35.840 M-Dog?

03:30:36.380 I don't have one either.

03:30:37.700 You got one?

03:30:41.020 You mean...

03:30:41.860 I know...

03:30:42.660 Hmm.

03:30:44.220 I mean, I went on 45 dates.

03:30:45.940 No.

03:30:47.600 I didn't have any...

03:30:48.540 I didn't have any embarrassing moments.

03:30:50.060 I don't know.

03:30:50.320 Did you, like, fart during a date or something?

03:30:51.960 No.

03:30:52.620 Oh, okay.

03:30:54.060 I don't know.

03:30:54.580 That could be an example.

03:30:55.660 What about you?

03:30:56.160 Any embarrassing...

03:30:56.980 Yeah.

03:30:57.360 So when I went to, like, a golf course or, like, a driving range, I reached down to put,

03:31:01.620 like, the ball on the tee, and my jeans were a little too tight.

03:31:04.000 So, like, you know, they kind of split down the middle, like, right in the back, and it

03:31:07.120 was, like, really cold.

03:31:07.840 But I had a sweater to tie over, but it was really embarrassing because you did actually

03:31:11.020 see everything. 0.88

03:31:19.900 What the heck?

03:31:20.660 Next. 0.83

03:31:20.820 Cool.

03:31:21.380 Nice.

03:31:21.600 So I have a question going back to the two gals. 0.98

03:31:27.160 This is popping up a bunch.

03:31:28.920 When you're talking about your kind of dating prospects, I was just curious, are you post-menopausal

03:31:36.100 at this point?

03:31:37.760 No.

03:31:39.100 No?

03:31:39.660 No.

03:31:40.760 No.

03:31:41.400 Okay.

03:31:41.960 Not yet.

03:31:43.720 Hmm.

03:31:44.160 Okay.

03:31:44.500 I still have a period.

03:31:47.980 Oh, going around the table, actually, before we get into the passion matter, what do you

03:31:52.720 bring to the table?

03:31:56.620 Starting with you.

03:31:57.360 Like, emotional support advice on what I think my boyfriend should do with his career moves.

03:32:06.540 Like, you know, just being, I think, like, emotionally and spiritually there for him while he is making

03:32:15.840 a lot of the decisions financially or just, like, household-wise.

03:32:24.300 Do you want to add?

03:32:25.360 You said funny, successful.

03:32:28.220 What do you bring to the table?

03:32:29.300 I think a lot.

03:32:31.400 Like, what you're also saying is that I do, because I have a good sense of self and I have a good understanding of what men need. 0.97

03:32:40.700 So, on top of all of that, I mean, they want support, they want a badass blowjob, and, you 0.93

03:32:54.020 know, they want to feel desired, they want to feel valued, and... 0.98

03:33:02.300 What about peace?

03:33:03.560 Do they want peace?

03:33:04.200 Peace, absolutely, 100%.

03:33:05.700 Big.

03:33:06.420 Big time.

03:33:07.080 They want things easy.

03:33:08.140 They don't want drama.

03:33:09.660 Big.

03:33:10.700 Okay.

03:33:12.860 I would probably say stability.

03:33:15.020 I don't know.

03:33:15.320 I like being stable and being able to count on myself, so I think it'd be, I think bringing

03:33:20.560 that to the table would be, like, I'm not dependent on you for anything, or I just feel, like, I

03:33:25.620 can be myself while still in a relationship with someone else.

03:33:28.060 What about you?

03:33:29.700 I'm a good listener, and so I can give good emotional support and friendship, companionship.

03:33:36.520 Yeah.

03:33:36.620 Yeah.

03:33:36.680 I'm not very, like, high maintenance in relationships, I would say, like, and I'm pretty independent.

03:33:48.060 I can do stuff on my own, and, like, I don't feel like I need a man to survive, you know?

03:33:51.500 I just bring, like, a best friend, like, companion, someone, like, you could be yourself around.

03:33:56.400 Like, you could, like, you know, I don't know, do anything, and I'll still, I want to be a

03:34:00.140 home for someone, you know?

03:34:01.080 Yeah, I was going to say something along the lines of that, too.

03:34:05.780 Friendship, companionship, a shoulder to cry on if you want to do, and all of that.

03:34:13.280 Maddie?

03:34:13.980 I also feel like I'm a pretty good listener.

03:34:16.960 I'm pretty calm.

03:34:18.740 I'm not really combative.

03:34:20.760 I feel like I'm a little more mature.

03:34:22.480 I'm a good cook, and...

03:34:27.480 That's good.

03:34:29.020 Good for you, Madison.

03:34:30.280 That's good.

03:34:30.860 That was beautiful.

03:34:32.040 Good job.

03:34:34.520 I think this would be a good time for the bow video.

03:34:38.800 So, this is what I think, this is what I think, like, this is what a woman could bring

03:34:45.260 to the table here.

03:34:46.400 Like, this.

03:34:48.420 The bow.

03:34:49.040 Boom! 0.99

03:34:51.540 Huge.

03:34:52.680 Huge reverberation from Nick there.

03:34:55.700 Boom.

03:34:56.220 It was a double boom, me and Nick. 0.96

03:34:57.980 We killed it.

03:34:58.940 The coordination on that is always fabulous.

03:35:03.800 And look, she's running. 1.00

03:35:05.620 Look, dinner's ready.

03:35:06.740 I get home.

03:35:07.580 That's my penthouse apartment.

03:35:08.740 Get home from a long work day.

03:35:10.240 She's got my beer ready.

03:35:11.600 My noodles ready.

03:35:12.520 My not-even-chopped-up tomatoes ready. 1.00

03:35:15.580 She's stirring the fucking... 1.00

03:35:16.860 Look at that. 1.00

03:35:17.420 Look at the technique.

03:35:19.840 Boom.

03:35:20.900 Attentive.

03:35:22.080 Psycho-wise.

03:35:23.000 Love it.

03:35:23.460 Play it one more time.

03:35:26.100 Boom! 0.99

03:35:26.580 Huge bow.

03:35:27.100 Look at the bow.

03:35:27.720 Did you see the angle, too?

03:35:28.900 That's not like a poverty bow.

03:35:31.300 That's a...

03:35:31.800 She could have gone deeper. 0.88

03:35:32.880 To be fair, could have gone deeper.

03:35:34.340 A little rude.

03:35:35.400 She might need a little correcting later on.

03:35:38.640 But, nevertheless, good attempt.

03:35:41.640 That was like a...

03:35:44.040 70 degree?

03:35:45.920 I don't know the degree.

03:35:46.980 Whatever.

03:35:47.280 It was a good bow.

03:35:47.880 Would you guys bow to your men?

03:35:50.300 Yes.

03:35:51.180 Starting with you?

03:35:53.720 Stay-at-home girlfriend, by the way.

03:35:55.640 Stay-at-home girlfriend.

03:35:56.460 Would you do that for your men? 1.00

03:35:57.560 All that shit? 0.99

03:35:58.360 If it was like some weird thing he asked for, probably, but I don't think I've ever been 1.00

03:36:01.760 in a situation where I have to.

03:36:03.360 But do you do that?

03:36:04.320 Like that sort of stuff for your men?

03:36:06.020 Minus the bow and the like rushing to feed him?

03:36:08.340 Yeah.

03:36:09.360 Because you're a stay-at-home girlfriend. 0.99

03:36:10.840 Yeah.

03:36:11.700 If he asked you to bow, would you do it?

03:36:14.620 It'd probably be a joke.

03:36:15.680 Yeah, I would.

03:36:16.980 How come you don't rush to feed him?

03:36:18.860 He's probably pretty hungry.

03:36:19.800 Oh, I said like the stirring and everything.

03:36:23.700 Yeah, I mean, but...

03:36:24.780 No, he comes home to like cooked food, like actual like full meals.

03:36:28.880 Y'all live together?

03:36:29.340 Let me ask you this.

03:36:30.600 Does he actually come home?

03:36:32.300 Do you sync up the second he hits the door, the jacket's off of him, right?

03:36:37.500 And then he sits down and right away there's a meal?

03:36:40.680 Or does he get home and there's like a two-hour delay before the meal hits?

03:36:45.340 Both.

03:36:46.400 Sometimes I like I'm doing stuff.

03:36:47.960 Like recently I was helping out a lot at church, so I wasn't coming straight like all

03:36:52.620 day to cook.

03:36:53.180 Like, but there are times where he comes home and it's like...

03:36:55.620 All day?

03:36:57.900 Yeah, like I...

03:36:58.940 All day at the church that doesn't have a name.

03:37:02.960 Yeah, well, how long does it take you to cook a meal?

03:37:07.520 I mean, it depends on what you're making.

03:37:09.900 Well, what are you making that takes a long time?

03:37:11.160 I make a lot of stuff like fully from scratch, so it's just that takes a long process.

03:37:15.260 Empanadas? 0.77

03:37:16.200 Well, what do you mean from scratch?

03:37:17.460 Like you're not going out and killing the chicken, right?

03:37:19.860 I don't make Hispanic food that much.

03:37:23.180 What do you make that takes the longest?

03:37:25.840 What's the longest thing that you make?

03:37:29.020 Probably, time-wise, like ratatouille, because it's a lot of prep.

03:37:34.160 You're cutting everything.

03:37:35.300 Great movie.

03:37:36.560 Okay, how long does it take you to make ratatouille?

03:37:39.500 Prep-wise, probably like just an hour cutting everything up and making the sauce.

03:37:43.460 And then you have to wait like an hour and a half for it in the oven while you're making

03:37:47.980 like other sides or stuff.

03:37:49.800 Well, if that's the longest meal you...

03:37:51.480 That's like three, four hours.

03:37:53.420 Yeah, so I'm guessing that, well, you have to do the prep work and then you have to let

03:37:56.840 it sit, right?

03:37:57.620 So it's actually only about two hours of cook time, right?

03:38:00.200 Gotta let the ratatouille sit.

03:38:02.080 I guess.

03:38:02.520 You don't let it sit.

03:38:03.300 But you only make that every once in a while.

03:38:04.940 What do you normally feed them?

03:38:06.060 That takes so long to make.

03:38:07.440 Bologna sandwich?

03:38:08.400 Ew.

03:38:09.320 No.

03:38:09.680 You don't do bologna sandwich?

03:38:11.040 Bologna's disgusting.

03:38:11.800 This girl doesn't do bologna sandwich. 1.00

03:38:13.660 What's he getting?

03:38:14.420 What's he getting?

03:38:15.300 What's on this plate?

03:38:15.680 See, like even last night, I made sandwiches just because we were like, we went to the gym

03:38:19.720 and like we were like, let me make a sandwich.

03:38:21.740 No, but they weren't no like regular sandwiches.

03:38:23.720 It was like I made bacon.

03:38:26.000 It was like nice bread, yeah.

03:38:27.940 You crust cutter.

03:38:29.500 Crust cutter?

03:38:30.160 No, I don't even use crusted bread.

03:38:32.800 I got like bangettes.

03:38:34.020 And we like cut them.

03:38:35.360 Bangettes? 1.00

03:38:35.900 Bagettes.

03:38:36.280 That's my...

03:38:37.000 Bangettes? 1.00

03:38:38.080 Baguettes.

03:38:38.500 Oh, baguette.

03:38:39.380 Whatever, yeah.

03:38:39.960 A baguette.

03:38:40.540 Yes, that.

03:38:41.140 So, you know, like I toasted all that and like I make...

03:38:45.640 You toasted it?

03:38:46.540 Yeah.

03:38:47.080 On the grill.

03:38:48.060 Like on the pan.

03:38:49.500 You didn't make him a panini?

03:38:51.280 No.

03:38:51.860 He doesn't deserve a panini?

03:38:54.120 It's a round.

03:38:54.600 You can't...

03:38:55.160 I don't have a panini maker.

03:38:56.400 You don't have a panini maker?

03:38:57.480 No.

03:38:57.660 What's wrong with you?

03:38:58.360 It's on our registry actually for our wedding.

03:38:59.240 How dare you not have a panini maker?

03:39:01.160 And how long would you say it took you to make these sandwiches?

03:39:05.080 About 20 minutes?

03:39:05.960 Like 30, yeah.

03:39:07.060 Because like everything...

03:39:07.720 Yeah, like 30 minutes.

03:39:09.600 Yeah.

03:39:10.340 You can't sync up the dinner for right when he hits the door?

03:39:13.460 We both were at the gym together and then I came home and I made it.

03:39:16.560 So, you know.

03:39:19.460 Word.

03:39:20.680 Okay.

03:39:21.140 Well, let's get everybody's answer, I guess.

03:39:23.660 What do you think about the bowing video?

03:39:25.260 You like it?

03:39:26.040 No.

03:39:26.680 You don't like it?

03:39:27.300 I mean, I think culturally, yeah, Asian women bow to their men, but... 0.99

03:39:34.040 No, I'm talking like middle fucking Montana, white guy, white chick, she's got to hit a bow. 1.00

03:39:42.160 No, because there's other ways you show respect culturally than a bow. 0.99

03:39:46.040 But let's say as somebody who is a citizen of the world and has access to a phone, I see that video as a white boy and I'm like, damn, that's good. 0.97

03:39:57.300 I like it. 0.97

03:39:58.620 And I'm like, I'd like my girl to bow.

03:40:00.840 I'd like her to bow.

03:40:02.060 I like that.

03:40:03.880 For it or against?

03:40:05.780 I'm not for it.

03:40:06.780 So, if you and me were dating, even though you'd be settling for me, of course, would you hit a bow?

03:40:14.920 Again, I will do, if it makes you happy, yes, I would do that for you.

03:40:19.480 I'll be very happy.

03:40:19.980 Okay, all right, if that makes you happy, for sure.

03:40:21.620 Very happy.

03:40:21.820 Because I will submit.

03:40:24.800 Okay.

03:40:26.020 All right, good to know.

03:40:27.020 What about you?

03:40:28.000 I thought it was a pretty funny video, but yeah, if it was for like, I don't know, joking purposes, yeah, I'd do it.

03:40:32.880 No, dead serious purposes.

03:40:36.080 Sure, why not?

03:40:36.760 It's serious.

03:40:37.200 Sure, why not?

03:40:37.780 Why not?

03:40:38.020 Whatever he wants.

03:40:38.680 Any girls want to? 1.00

03:40:39.440 Okay, okay.

03:40:39.920 Whatever he wants.

03:40:40.340 What about you?

03:40:40.740 Would you hit a bow for a man? 0.91

03:40:42.700 No.

03:40:43.180 No?

03:40:43.840 Just no. 0.99

03:40:44.560 Damn, that's crazy. 0.99

03:40:45.340 Okay, what about you? 0.99

03:40:46.300 I would for like, my current man.

03:40:48.140 Your current man?

03:40:48.940 Only.

03:40:49.380 White guy? 0.84

03:40:50.160 I do.

03:40:50.680 He's like, he makes me want to bow.

03:40:52.500 Like, I'll bow every game if he needs me to.

03:40:54.020 Would you bow for a man?

03:40:55.380 On command.

03:40:56.800 What?

03:40:57.180 Oh.

03:40:58.000 Whoa.

03:40:59.020 Madison?

03:40:59.900 Yeah. 1.00

03:41:01.000 Damn. 0.99

03:41:02.420 So, no circum, like, this is the best guy ever. 0.99

03:41:05.540 I'm just like.

03:41:06.120 Best guy ever.

03:41:07.720 I'm just thinking, like, like you said, two white people in the middle of Montana.

03:41:12.460 That just sounds like a kink to me. 0.99

03:41:14.080 Like, I'm not going to, I don't know.

03:41:16.200 I don't know.

03:41:16.700 That just made me think of that.

03:41:18.240 I just wouldn't do it.

03:41:19.420 It's an Iggy Azalea song for, does that occur to anybody else?

03:41:23.420 I don't even know.

03:41:24.040 What's that song by Iggy Azalea?

03:41:25.820 Black Widow?

03:41:27.940 Work?

03:41:28.660 Yeah.

03:41:29.000 Walk a mile in these Louboutins.

03:41:30.900 That one?

03:41:31.220 Oh, that one.

03:41:32.240 I know that one, but that does not make me think of that.

03:41:34.140 16, middle of Miami.

03:41:36.320 16, middle of Miami.

03:41:36.900 Yeah.

03:41:37.300 16, no family.

03:41:39.120 No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 0.97

03:41:40.400 Wait, how's it fucking going? 0.98

03:41:41.700 I can't remember his name. 0.99

03:41:42.660 No money, no family, 16 in the middle of Miami. 0.99

03:41:45.260 I don't know why the fuck that came in. 0.99

03:41:46.800 No money, no family. 0.99

03:41:47.460 I'm derailing my own podcast with a fucking 10-year-old song reference. 0.99

03:41:54.420 You wouldn't do it into the mic? 0.99

03:41:56.960 No.

03:41:57.940 Best guy ever.

03:41:59.740 Would you, if that guy who dumped you for your sin, if he was like, I'll take you back, 0.99

03:42:08.820 but you got to fucking battle me every day. 0.98

03:42:11.060 Yeah, I would. 1.00

03:42:11.280 Oh, there you go.

03:42:14.360 You do it?

03:42:16.100 We're like locked in.

03:42:17.460 Like, he just, we're on a break, basically.

03:42:20.020 Oh, yeah, okay.

03:42:20.700 He'll come back.

03:42:21.420 He'll come back.

03:42:21.860 Bro, he was on a date the day after y'all broke up.

03:42:23.640 I know, guys.

03:42:24.200 He's on Tinder, and he's 18.

03:42:25.800 Like, get a life.

03:42:27.280 Bro, he's.

03:42:28.260 He just graduated high school.

03:42:29.520 You were probably the side, you might have been the side chick. 0.99

03:42:32.100 Don't even say that, because I feel like I was.

03:42:35.180 Oh, yeah, it's over.

03:42:36.880 No, because. 0.99

03:42:37.500 But you would, wait, just to be clear, like, normal guy wouldn't do that shit, but the dude, 0.99

03:42:41.500 like, this dude who dumped you. 0.99

03:42:44.460 Like, how hot was it, this guy?

03:42:48.960 I don't even know.

03:42:49.980 It was just like.

03:42:50.620 She's in love.

03:42:51.480 Are you in love?

03:42:52.340 Do you love him?

03:42:53.240 I do.

03:42:53.540 Do you still love him?

03:42:53.940 Could you picture having his kids?

03:42:54.820 Wait, y'all were dating for four months, and y'all in love?

03:42:56.940 Can I picture having his kids?

03:42:58.380 And raising kids with him.

03:42:59.840 I could.

03:43:00.400 He's like, I have, like, no hate in my heart for him.

03:43:02.580 He's a very, very good person.

03:43:04.040 I just, like, I think he, honestly, I do think he over, like, I know I shouldn't have lied,

03:43:08.960 but, like, I do think he overreacted a little bit.

03:43:11.260 Take the L, bro.

03:43:11.900 You gotta take the L on this.

03:43:13.320 I am.

03:43:13.720 I am.

03:43:14.080 Like, I know I've been the wrong.

03:43:16.600 But, like. 0.99

03:43:17.220 Wait, girls dump dudes all the time for any fucking reason. 1.00

03:43:21.380 I know. 1.00

03:43:21.480 But we get back with them.

03:43:23.540 I don't know.

03:43:24.480 Like, he's a good person.

03:43:26.480 I have no, he's, like, a very, like, family man.

03:43:28.660 Like, very, like, he's just, he's a good person.

03:43:32.620 I have no hate in my heart for him, and I hope the best for him, you know?

03:43:34.720 Like, and if we get back together, it's a dub.

03:43:38.200 If we don't, okay. 0.99

03:43:39.720 Yo, what's, if he's watching this shit, yo, will you, will you take her back if she does 1.00

03:43:45.060 a bow? 1.00

03:43:46.400 Wait, how much more besides a bow would you do to get him back?

03:43:49.880 Like, would you, would you kiss his feet?

03:43:52.780 Oh, no, that's just, okay.

03:43:54.060 Like, he's standing, and you're, like.

03:43:57.120 Okay, whatever.

03:43:57.720 So, what do you expect the man to bring to the table?

03:44:04.000 That's a good question.

03:44:04.900 If the amount required exceeds the man's need for a bow, that's unequal.

03:44:09.360 Just act like you tripped or something, you can bow.

03:44:12.680 I promise.

03:44:14.700 I would bow.

03:44:15.800 I just, like, I wouldn't, like, like, it would take me, I just think it's weird.

03:44:20.600 Like.

03:44:21.060 No.

03:44:21.540 No, because.

03:44:22.100 It's not weird.

03:44:23.400 It's just normal.

03:44:24.140 No, like, if I walked into my roommate and bowed to her, she would be, like, what are you

03:44:27.960 doing? 1.00

03:44:28.080 Yeah, but you're trying to, like, fuck your roommate. 1.00

03:44:30.600 Okay, next time I go on a date, I'll bow to them. 1.00

03:44:33.040 I don't know if there's a chance.

03:44:33.820 Bro, no, no.

03:44:35.460 I don't know.

03:44:35.920 I'm not a goalie.

03:44:36.940 No, I'm just not.

03:44:37.860 It's only goalies. 0.55

03:44:38.100 It's only goalies at our game.

03:44:39.840 Or, like, defenders.

03:44:40.940 Forwards.

03:44:41.340 You ever play softball?

03:44:42.080 I'm a forward.

03:44:42.900 Never mind.

03:44:43.180 I'm not gay.

03:44:43.760 Softball?

03:44:44.700 Softball?

03:44:45.160 Any softball?

03:44:45.840 Nope.

03:44:46.720 Okay.

03:44:47.180 Can't hit a ball like that.

03:44:48.100 Catchers, most of the time.

03:44:49.320 Catchers.

03:44:49.900 I played softball.

03:44:50.880 Or, like, third base.

03:44:52.240 Yeah, third base.

03:44:52.920 Or outfielders.

03:44:53.660 Yeah.

03:44:53.960 Yep.

03:44:54.440 Yeah.

03:44:54.660 Third base.

03:44:55.040 I'm in a whole team.

03:44:55.800 I just think with the whole bow thing, like, if you wouldn't do it, I never got that.

03:45:02.360 Because a girl, I say it every show, with this bow thing, you will let a guy blast on 1.00

03:45:12.360 your face, but you won't bow for him?

03:45:14.680 Oh.

03:45:15.200 I don't think I even would do that.

03:45:17.000 You wouldn't?

03:45:17.420 It's, like, nasty.

03:45:18.340 I don't know.

03:45:18.660 No.

03:45:18.860 It's nasty.

03:45:20.380 I just, like...

03:45:21.180 Talk for your...

03:45:21.900 Speak for yourself.

03:45:24.220 Okay.

03:45:25.180 Oh, I was talking to her over here. 0.96

03:45:26.640 Talking to you.

03:45:29.380 Oh, my God.

03:45:32.040 Crickets.

03:45:32.760 Yeah.

03:45:33.940 What?

03:45:35.820 What?

03:45:36.180 What?

03:45:36.280 Girls don't do that? 1.00

03:45:38.460 Girls don't suck dick on the first date? 1.00

03:45:41.100 No. 1.00

03:45:41.620 What? 1.00

03:45:42.200 Girls don't suck dick on the first date? 1.00

03:45:44.440 Girls don't have sex on the first date? 1.00

03:45:45.800 No. 1.00

03:45:45.980 You'll let a man put his penis inside you, but you can't do a bow? 1.00

03:45:54.760 No. 1.00

03:45:55.720 All right.

03:45:56.720 Can't get through to them.

03:45:58.820 Can't get through to them.

03:46:01.800 I don't know.

03:46:02.900 That's my man.

03:46:03.480 I don't know if I can.

03:46:05.140 She got it.

03:46:05.880 She got it on lock. 1.00

03:46:06.700 A girl will S a dude's D in the SIGEP public bathroom within 30 minutes after fucking jello 1.00

03:46:20.880 shots, and he's been sweating into his khakis all fucking day. 0.99

03:46:24.460 Is that from experience? 1.00

03:46:27.640 You can't hit a bow?

03:46:29.060 Sorry.

03:46:29.760 It's Sperry's?

03:46:31.180 What's it called? 1.00

03:46:31.840 What do the fucking frat boys wear? 1.00

03:46:33.100 Not khakis. 1.00

03:46:34.900 Sperry's?

03:46:35.340 Dickies? 0.90

03:46:35.740 Huh? 0.78

03:46:36.100 Dickies or shoes? 1.00

03:46:37.320 Oh, what are the shorts called that the fucking frat boys wear? 1.00

03:46:40.340 They wear a lot of shorts. 1.00

03:46:42.080 Nike. 1.00

03:46:42.500 No, the shorts or the fucking pants or whatever. 1.00

03:46:45.140 Jorts? 1.00

03:46:45.400 Well, they wear it.

03:46:45.880 Jorts.

03:46:46.420 Jorts.

03:46:46.740 Jorts.

03:46:47.300 Jorts.

03:46:47.920 Jorts and Nikes with high socks.

03:46:49.400 Anyways, whatever.

03:46:51.700 What was his question?

03:46:53.920 Oh, killer of cereal.

03:46:56.700 Before we do that, though, Tim Pool says, question for the panel.

03:47:02.080 Trump or Harris? 0.99

03:47:03.500 Sorry, I'm trying to do a Christopher Walken, but it's just coming out as fucking Italian. 1.00

03:47:07.660 Okay. 0.99

03:47:09.020 Trump or Harris?

03:47:11.020 So raise your hand if you're voting for Trump, and then raise your hand if you're voting

03:47:15.180 for Harris.

03:47:16.020 Raise your hand if you're voting for Camelot Harris.

03:47:21.220 Raise your hand if you're voting for Camelot Harris.

03:47:27.440 Nobody?

03:47:30.540 Nobody? 1.00

03:47:32.060 You're a fucking liar. 1.00

03:47:33.740 You're a fucking liar. 1.00

03:47:35.120 Nobody's voting for Camelot? 1.00

03:47:37.200 Camelot?

03:47:38.320 Are you saying it like that?

03:47:39.260 Isn't that her name?

03:47:40.140 Camelot Harris?

03:47:41.100 Kamala.

03:47:41.980 Yes.

03:47:42.600 Cool.

03:47:43.180 Kamala.

03:47:43.740 Are you voting Kamala?

03:47:45.180 Me?

03:47:45.500 Yeah.

03:47:46.000 I don't even think I'm...

03:47:46.680 You're a Trumpy.

03:47:47.280 I don't think I would.

03:47:47.640 You're a big-like Trumpy, then.

03:47:49.400 I wouldn't call myself a Trumpy.

03:47:50.840 Into the mic?

03:47:51.880 I wouldn't call myself a Trumpy.

03:47:53.700 I also just think I'm like...

03:47:55.840 I didn't really pay attention to this election.

03:47:57.860 I just turned 18.

03:47:58.880 I don't see myself fit to vote.

03:48:01.280 You don't want to vote for what could be the first woman president? 1.00

03:48:04.820 No.

03:48:05.040 You don't want your name on that?

03:48:06.000 I just don't think...

03:48:07.180 Wait, is it weird if I say it on this?

03:48:10.160 Just say it.

03:48:10.720 I just don't think she's a strong candidate.

03:48:14.000 Valid.

03:48:16.500 W?

03:48:16.940 I dropped.

03:48:18.460 So you're like Kanye?

03:48:20.560 Yeah, Kanye 24.

03:48:22.260 Dope.

03:48:22.620 Oh, wait.

03:48:23.160 He's actually anti...

03:48:24.060 Wait, whatever.

03:48:24.980 Okay, who's voting for Trump?

03:48:27.480 I don't know.

03:48:28.080 He's funny.

03:48:29.700 He is funny.

03:48:30.840 I will give him that.

03:48:32.100 He won't tax tips.

03:48:33.940 Oh, my tongue.

03:48:34.380 Okay.

03:48:35.720 So going back to this one.

03:48:39.380 Kilo of cereal donated $200.

03:48:42.680 So, what do you expect the man to bring to the table?

03:48:46.320 If the amount required exceeds the man's need for a bow, that's unequal.

03:48:51.060 Just act like you tripped or something, you can bow.

03:48:54.380 I promise.

03:48:55.080 So, for me, like, I don't know.

03:49:00.320 I, like, watch, like, my parents be 50-50 in a relationship, so that's how, like, I would

03:49:05.340 be in a relationship, and I don't, like, like, I don't mind being 50-50.

03:49:10.320 Like, I would bow.

03:49:11.780 I just think it's, like, weird.

03:49:13.120 Like, I would ask them why they want me to bow, you know?

03:49:15.880 Like, is it, like, do you feel like you need to be, like, have authority over me?

03:49:19.760 Like, if I'm your wife, like...

03:49:21.920 Yeah, probably.

03:49:23.060 That's why you would ask it.

03:49:24.060 But, like, why, like, in the form of a bow, you know?

03:49:28.820 Because, well, let me ask you a different segue, because this is cultural, right?

03:49:36.100 What if he asked you to curtsy?

03:49:40.120 I used to practice curtsying when I was, like, six, because I thought I was related to the

03:49:43.840 Queen of England.

03:49:44.380 Can we see it?

03:49:45.220 Can you show us your curtsy?

03:49:46.860 Yeah, yeah, show us your curtsy.

03:49:48.160 Show us the curtsy.

03:49:49.100 No, I, like, I don't even know if I know how to curtsy.

03:49:51.860 Like, what?

03:49:52.780 You know how to curtsy.

03:49:53.460 Be honest. 1.00

03:49:54.240 You still remember that shit. 1.00

03:49:55.440 It's literally... 1.00

03:49:56.400 But it's just like...

03:49:57.040 Do it, do it, do it, do it, do it.

03:49:58.100 She's going to do it.

03:49:59.340 There you go.

03:50:00.380 I'll see the curtsy. 0.98

03:50:01.460 I can't even...

03:50:02.660 I didn't realize this was, like, a full body back here.

03:50:05.240 Yeah, that's a human.

03:50:06.200 You're just like...

03:50:07.220 I don't know.

03:50:08.840 That's good.

03:50:09.700 I mean...

03:50:10.080 I know I practiced.

03:50:10.820 It's not great, but not terrible.

03:50:13.960 Sorry, I'm not royalty.

03:50:15.480 Okay, guys, I'll get better.

03:50:16.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:50:16.720 Not terrible.

03:50:17.620 So, but the thing is, is if he asked you to curtsy, would that be a problem?

03:50:24.040 No, because I think it's funny.

03:50:26.080 Like, I wouldn't...

03:50:27.200 Put him on.

03:50:27.540 But what if he's asking you to curtsy because he saw it as a sign of respect?

03:50:33.420 I just, like, I don't know.

03:50:35.160 It's just, like, weird that, like, you want respect and authority in that way to me.

03:50:39.540 Like, I feel like there's so many other ways you can feel respected as, like, a husband

03:50:46.660 or as a partner, and I just...

03:50:48.580 Okay, what?

03:50:49.400 What are those ways?

03:50:51.040 Okay, that's like...

03:50:52.400 I just think, like, basic, like, respect.

03:50:55.680 Like, you do what...

03:50:56.940 Okay, this is going to sound really weird, but, like, for the most part, you do what

03:51:00.000 you're told if you're asked to do.

03:51:01.260 Like, the dishes, just do the dishes, or, like...

03:51:03.120 Like curtsying?

03:51:04.600 Like curtsy. 0.77

03:51:06.040 Would you curtsy to a girl or bow?

03:51:08.860 No.

03:51:09.360 Like, then why wouldn't you?

03:51:11.260 If that's how I wanted to be shown respect, why wouldn't you curtsy or bow to me?

03:51:15.720 Well, because I believe in the concept of patriarchy, in the concept of hierarchy within

03:51:22.440 patriarchy.

03:51:23.200 And I don't think that anybody who believes in the concept of patriarchy would accept

03:51:28.620 that they would need to bow or curtsy to a woman.

03:51:33.500 So, is it, like, a sex thing?

03:51:35.580 Like, gender? 0.93

03:51:36.220 If...

03:51:36.460 Well, no.

03:51:36.820 I think that a woman asking a man to bow to them would be the opposite of a sign of respect. 1.00

03:51:42.940 So, I think that that would be disrespectful to a man to even ask him to bow, whereas to

03:51:48.360 a woman, would not have the same effect. 0.89

03:51:50.320 That's, like, that's an interesting take.

03:51:55.840 I'm, like, bad at arguing, and I know that you're, like...

03:51:58.060 In this culture, in the U.S. culture, bowing's not really a thing, but curtsying and things

03:52:05.860 like that used to be a thing.

03:52:07.480 Yeah.

03:52:07.740 Um, so, in Asian cultures, it's still a thing for, even for men to bow to each other as 0.91

03:52:13.020 a sign of respect, this type of thing.

03:52:14.500 So, I understand the foreign aspect of it.

03:52:16.500 It's just kind of weird because it's foreign.

03:52:18.440 It's not something that's done very often.

03:52:20.320 I get that.

03:52:21.180 But curtsying still is.

03:52:22.640 I don't think it's weird because it's foreign.

03:52:24.160 Let me ask you this.

03:52:25.060 What is the male version of curtsying?

03:52:27.080 I don't know.

03:52:30.160 You'd have to tell me that.

03:52:30.840 Yeah, there isn't one, right?

03:52:32.420 Well, but there isn't one because patriarchy exists and should exist, and that's how women 1.00

03:52:39.760 show respect to men.

03:52:41.580 Men don't show respect to women that way.

03:52:43.800 I think, like, opening doors.

03:52:44.220 They show respect to women by building the very infrastructure that they walk on.

03:52:47.780 That's how they show respect.

03:52:49.060 She said opening doors, and I agree with that.

03:52:51.180 That's, like, the closest thing to, like, a man showing respect is, like, opening all

03:52:54.500 your doors.

03:52:55.060 I, like, I've told this.

03:52:56.920 Yeah, but, I mean, men will often, if there's an elderly man walking, for instance, they'll

03:53:00.800 open the door for them as well.

03:53:02.740 So, the thing is, is I'm not sure that I would say that that's an equivalency for a personal

03:53:08.520 exchange, right?

03:53:10.000 So, in a personal way, like the curtsy is, it's a way for a woman to show respect to a

03:53:16.180 man or a way for her to present herself to a man in a respectful manner.

03:53:21.320 I can't actually think of the equivalent for a man.

03:53:25.700 I mean, you have a point, yeah.

03:53:26.980 It's just something I wouldn't do, like, personally.

03:53:29.220 Like, again, like, if end comes to end, like, I would do it.

03:53:33.980 But, like, I wouldn't want it to be, like, I just don't think it should.

03:53:39.380 I don't know.

03:53:40.900 You're really good at arguing, and I suck at it, and I really don't want to be flamed.

03:53:43.740 Well, I'm not really arguing with you.

03:53:45.960 I'm just kind of, at this point, I'm just trying to kind of get your rational worldview a

03:53:49.760 little bit.

03:53:50.040 Do you teach people how to argue, and you're going to say you're not good at arguing?

03:53:54.240 No.

03:53:54.580 I didn't say that.

03:53:55.420 I just said I'm not arguing with you.

03:53:57.000 Oh, okay, good.

03:53:57.460 He's just having conflict.

03:53:58.160 Yeah, yeah.

03:53:58.700 Okay.

03:53:58.940 I'm just listening to kind of your worldview.

03:54:01.740 Okay.

03:54:02.000 So, I just kind of want to understand where you're coming from right now.

03:54:04.700 Well, so, like...

03:54:05.780 Final thing on this, though, and then I'm moving along.

03:54:07.860 That can be the final thing.

03:54:08.960 It's chill.

03:54:10.680 Oh.

03:54:10.920 I'll be done, yeah.

03:54:13.980 Okay.

03:54:14.340 I'm going to be done.

03:54:15.180 Totally fine.

03:54:16.200 So, going back, past shouldn't matter.

03:54:19.020 I think you said that.

03:54:20.040 What did you mean by that?

03:54:25.260 Yeah, past shouldn't matter.

03:54:26.660 I mean, my boyfriend knows about everything.

03:54:29.620 Like the sex work stuff.

03:54:31.100 Yeah, he knows about all of that.

03:54:32.000 Okay.

03:54:32.340 Shouldn't matter, though.

03:54:33.400 Okay.

03:54:33.620 Yeah, and it doesn't matter to him because I'm not, like, currently in that role of my life anymore.

03:54:40.160 So, going around the table, do you think that the past should matter?

03:54:44.380 Yes.

03:54:45.080 Yes?

03:54:45.720 Yes.

03:54:47.300 Yes?

03:54:48.900 Yeah.

03:54:50.380 Yes.

03:54:51.620 No.

03:54:53.160 I think we missed that, but one more time.

03:54:55.840 No.

03:54:57.120 Yeah.

03:54:58.000 Okay.

03:54:58.360 That shouldn't matter.

03:55:01.360 That shouldn't matter.

03:55:04.320 Like, yes and no.

03:55:05.580 Like, you shouldn't repeat mistakes.

03:55:07.800 You also should try and be in the present if you want to be happy anyway.

03:55:13.040 Now, on this, this often comes up when it comes to discourse on body count.

03:55:20.600 So, men, I suppose both, well, both men and women can have a preference on this, but men typically tend to have a stronger preference

03:55:26.100 for lack of current or past promiscuity and a low body count or even desiring virgins, for example.

03:55:32.160 This is sometimes found in women, but to a far lesser degree. 0.99

03:55:37.060 Do you think men should not, the past shouldn't matter when it comes to somebody's sexual past?

03:55:44.300 So, the people they, the amount of people they previously had sex with.

03:55:48.780 How about that one, starting with you?

03:55:50.220 Yeah.

03:55:50.980 Shouldn't it matter?

03:55:51.800 Okay.

03:55:54.220 It doesn't matter to me.

03:55:56.160 I don't ask, though.

03:55:57.600 So, do you think, for example, if a man didn't want to date you or another woman because of her sexual past,

03:56:05.940 would you find that perhaps either immature or insecure, or would you otherwise take objection to it in some way?

03:56:13.560 I would, I can understand why he would, why it would matter to him.

03:56:20.800 Sure.

03:56:21.800 Is he insecure?

03:56:22.800 Is he immature?

03:56:25.960 Should it not matter?

03:56:27.600 I don't think, I think if it did matter to him, it might be because of some either cultural or religious view of some kind.

03:56:40.860 Sure.

03:56:41.060 I don't find him to be immature or, what did you say, what was the other one?

03:56:46.580 Immature. 0.95

03:56:47.560 Insecure.

03:56:48.200 Or insecure.

03:56:51.460 Maybe insecure.

03:56:52.580 Maybe there could be a touch of insecurity there.

03:56:54.700 What about you?

03:56:55.380 I think that it should matter.

03:56:57.680 100%.

03:56:58.080 Like, someone's sexual past, like, yeah.

03:57:00.300 Sure.

03:57:00.720 What about you?

03:57:01.480 I don't think it matters.

03:57:03.340 I wouldn't judge someone if they have a high body count.

03:57:05.320 But would you, so, sure, that's fine for you, but would you object if a man, it mattered to him?

03:57:13.740 Yes.

03:57:14.380 It's a double standard.

03:57:16.440 Wait, how is it a double standard?

03:57:17.700 Like, I feel like women sometimes don't mind if a guy has had multiple partners.

03:57:23.220 Yeah.

03:57:23.760 But then when you ask the man the same question, they want their woman to, like, be virgins or have very few partners.

03:57:31.520 Well, how would that be a double standard, though?

03:57:33.260 Well, but before we even ask that, I just have to ask you a very quick question, Christy.

03:57:39.020 Do you think that there are women who wear heels who are sexy? 1.00

03:57:47.440 Not all women that wear heels look sexy. 1.00

03:57:49.640 No, no, not all, of course.

03:57:50.920 But you don't object to women wearing heels, right?

03:57:53.980 Correct.

03:57:54.420 Would you object to a man wearing heels?

03:57:57.600 If I'm dating him, yes.

03:57:59.480 Now, what kind of double standard is that?

03:58:03.700 I want my man to be masculine.

03:58:05.580 That's my personal preference.

03:58:07.180 So heels is not a good thing.

03:58:07.920 It's a preference.

03:58:08.500 So then it's not a double standard when it comes down to preference, right?

03:58:11.960 Well, I guess so, then.

03:58:15.100 Well, I think my understanding is that, at least the way you framed it originally, you said women don't care about this, men do.

03:58:29.860 I don't know if that isn't a double standard.

03:58:33.920 That's just a difference in what men and women want.

03:58:36.080 I think maybe what you were getting at here, maybe, is that, well, if the guy has a high body count, but he wants a woman who's got a low body count or is a virgin, that's the double standard.

03:58:49.480 Is that?

03:58:49.980 Yeah.

03:58:50.840 Okay.

03:58:52.320 What about you?

03:58:53.560 Does it matter?

03:58:54.580 From what I heard, from what she said, I agree with it.

03:58:57.020 I think it matters, but I wouldn't judge someone based off of it, and I wouldn't want to be judged based off of it, unless you have, like, an STD.

03:59:05.140 Then I would question what you're getting with it.

03:59:08.340 Let's say the woman was clean, but she had a body count of 50, and even if she was totally clean, she could prove it, but she had a body count of 50, that alone disqualified her from a guy. 1.00

03:59:24.860 Would you object to that?

03:59:27.020 From the guy's perspective or from, like, an outsider?

03:59:29.880 Both.

03:59:30.300 From the guy's perspective, I wouldn't want to be judged on it, so I wouldn't judge somebody else on it.

03:59:39.880 And because, like, and then from my perspective, from an outsider's perspective, I, like, same thing.

03:59:47.300 I just, like, I don't want to be judged.

03:59:49.320 I don't want people to, like, judge me, so I'm not going to throw, like, shade where it's not my place.

03:59:56.360 Okay.

03:59:57.840 What about you?

03:59:59.180 I think it does matter, just because, like, that just means, like, if they have a high body count, they're easy.

04:00:04.400 Like, they're for everybody.

04:00:05.920 For the streets?

04:00:07.000 Yeah.

04:00:08.440 She belongs to the streets! 1.00

04:00:10.160 Okay.

04:00:10.880 What about you?

04:00:11.420 I think the past does matter.

04:00:15.920 I think we can use it to see what kind of patterns have been in place before, and you can use, like, good, your judgment to judge someone based off of their past.

04:00:29.000 And if they, like, are repeat offender with the same bad mistakes, then don't be with them.

04:00:36.040 If it's just a mistake, though, and it's happened, like, once or twice, I don't think they should be scrutinized for it.

04:00:42.860 Yeah, I don't mind it mattering.

04:00:44.760 It matters to me.

04:00:46.200 Okay.

04:00:47.140 So, going around the table really quick.

04:00:50.040 If past doesn't matter, shouldn't matter, what's your body count?

04:00:55.680 If I'm being generous, like, six.

04:00:58.800 What if you're being greedy?

04:01:02.360 What do you mean?

04:01:03.100 Wait, what do you mean by, like, being generous?

04:01:07.940 If I'm being generous, because I can think of, like, people I, like, completely remember, but I also, like, lost my virginity when I was 13.

04:01:16.240 So, like, I know that I've had sex with, like, for sure, like, these four people, and there's, like, two people I probably don't remember their names, because I was, like, so young.

04:01:25.860 Well, we don't need their names, we just...

04:01:28.140 Okay, then six.

04:01:29.060 Yeah, six.

04:01:29.680 Six?

04:01:30.380 Okay.

04:01:30.660 Less than 20, but I can't put a number on it, because...

04:01:39.180 Less than 20?

04:01:39.860 Yeah, I'm just kind of going based on before I was in a relationship, and then now.

04:01:44.560 More than 15?

04:01:48.020 Maybe, maybe 15.

04:01:50.080 Wait, how many of these from, like, the past, since the split?

04:01:58.940 Oh, from my year and a half?

04:02:01.400 Yeah.

04:02:01.900 Like, three.

04:02:03.160 Okay.

04:02:04.100 What about you?

04:02:04.740 I'm at five.

04:02:06.540 Five.

04:02:07.880 Zero.

04:02:10.080 Just turned six.

04:02:11.040 I'm going to decline answering that, but I will say that it's very low.

04:02:19.600 Okay.

04:02:22.260 Everyone knows me.

04:02:23.700 Okay.

04:02:24.900 Zero?

04:02:26.400 Yeah.

04:02:26.880 Oh, okay.

04:02:27.360 Are you waiting until marriage, or...?

04:02:28.900 Yeah.

04:02:29.920 Oh, really?

04:02:30.240 I just, like, it's just my belief.

04:02:32.260 Oh.

04:02:32.400 Well, congratulations.

04:02:33.840 Thanks.

04:02:34.460 I support that 1,000%, and I hope you stick to it.

04:02:37.560 Are you, like, religious at all, or Christian?

04:02:40.780 Yeah.

04:02:41.320 Oh, okay.

04:02:42.180 And, um...

04:02:44.940 But I'm a little confused, because you said you wouldn't want somebody to judge you for that.

04:02:49.500 Well, like, I don't, like, I don't have a body count, but, like, if I were like that,

04:02:53.400 I wouldn't want to be judged off, because I, listen to some of you, but I have friends,

04:02:57.440 like, who, like, get around.

04:02:59.500 I don't judge them for it.

04:03:00.940 You don't?

04:03:01.500 Like, it's...

04:03:02.020 No, everybody...

04:03:02.580 But don't we need good, virtuous women to judge these heathens? 1.00

04:03:10.020 It's, like...

04:03:10.980 This is going to sound, like, really biblical, but...

04:03:12.720 We need virtuous women to... 1.00

04:03:15.080 I rebuke!

04:03:16.820 I rebuke! 0.98

04:03:18.100 Sorry, that was fucking loud, so I guess... 0.97

04:03:19.840 I just don't think, like... 0.99

04:03:22.060 Damn, very chill out, Brian. 0.98

04:03:23.660 Judgment isn't mine. 0.99

04:03:24.920 Like, it's God's, and, like, I think that, like, I can, like, direct people and help people

04:03:29.600 and, like, talk to God about people, talk to God, wait, talk about...

04:03:34.440 Wait, do you think hookup culture is bad?

04:03:37.940 It's not for me.

04:03:39.140 Do you think it's bad?

04:03:40.340 I don't think it's bad, but it's not for me.

04:03:42.360 You don't think it's bad?

04:03:43.040 Let me ask one.

04:03:43.580 Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:03:44.860 Let me...

04:03:45.220 Can I, like, say my idea of hookup culture?

04:03:47.820 Sure.

04:03:48.720 Like, hookup culture to me is, like, making out with somebody, like...

04:03:52.200 Okay, but what about, like, all the casual sex that's going on? 0.93

04:03:54.920 Casual sex? 0.85

04:03:55.200 Like, all night stands? 0.96

04:03:56.020 Is it bad?

04:03:57.940 I don't know.

04:03:58.800 I don't, like, have, like...

04:04:00.180 I don't...

04:04:00.940 Wait, okay, let me ask you a very simple question.

04:04:07.220 I don't think it's bad.

04:04:07.900 Do you think...

04:04:08.900 Okay, do you think there is a hookup culture?

04:04:12.260 Yes.

04:04:12.580 Okay.

04:04:13.300 Do you think that hookup culture makes it easier or more difficult for you to find

04:04:19.240 a partner?

04:04:20.340 I would say it makes it more difficult for me because, like, I'll be into somebody or

04:04:24.520 something like that, and, like, our morals won't align.

04:04:27.160 Like, they want to hook up.

04:04:28.200 They want, like, something casual, and it's just not something that, like, I want personally.

04:04:33.300 And so, like...

04:04:34.640 And I feel like it's also, like, difficult to find people...

04:04:37.620 Not difficult, but it is challenging, I guess, to find people.

04:04:42.900 People who have, like, similar morals, which, like, back to that guy that I was dating,

04:04:47.660 that's, like, why it was, like, so easy, and I would take him out, because we do, for

04:04:50.860 the most part, have similar morals.

04:04:52.840 Sure.

04:04:53.320 Besides me lying, but whatever.

04:04:55.840 Does that make sense?

04:04:56.720 But, like, I...

04:04:57.480 Wait, one point of clarification.

04:04:59.780 Are you waiting for marriage, or are you waiting for, like, the right guy who you think

04:05:05.360 you'll most likely get married to?

04:05:07.140 Marriage.

04:05:08.020 Okay, so past...

04:05:09.020 Okay.

04:05:09.200 Even, like, people I've dated to, I thought I was going to marry, like, I didn't...

04:05:13.000 Clearly, I'm not married to them, so...

04:05:14.880 Or I'm dating them, so...

04:05:15.440 Right.

04:05:16.020 Okay.

04:05:16.760 Cool.

04:05:17.720 Andrew, you had something?

04:05:21.000 Yeah, I just wanted to quickly ask you, if the reason that you're not engaging in sexual

04:05:29.580 intercourse is because you believe that you will be judged by God, correct?

04:05:33.180 Okay, so I think, like, well, not I think.

04:05:39.460 I know God is forgiving, but it's just, like, it's, like, biblical, and I want to...

04:05:43.960 But forgiving you because he's making a judgment.

04:05:47.700 Well, yeah, wait, what?

04:05:49.840 Well, you have to make a judgment in order to forgive, right?

04:05:53.960 I don't think you have to make a judgment to forgive.

04:05:56.420 How could you forgive somebody absent a judgment?

04:05:59.380 Absent.

04:05:59.860 I guess I'm not really understanding that.

04:06:05.460 Like, I'm a little slow, but, like, I just don't understand.

04:06:08.280 Yeah, sure, so...

04:06:09.280 She's an athlete.

04:06:10.060 If you're going to forgive somebody, don't you have to judge them worthy of forgiveness?

04:06:16.000 No, I think everybody's worthy of forgiveness.

04:06:18.140 I mean, I, like, sin is sin.

04:06:19.540 People make mistakes.

04:06:20.540 I've made so many mistakes, like, in my...

04:06:23.260 Today, like...

04:06:24.440 Well, then why avoid sin if you're not worried about being judged for sin?

04:06:27.840 Why avoid it?

04:06:29.860 Because I want to live a life that I believe is pleasing to God, and if that's how I do

04:06:35.420 it, that's how I do it, you know?

04:06:36.760 Well, God would have to use judgment.

04:06:38.760 God would have to use judgment in order to punish you for sin, right?

04:06:42.780 And he'd have to use judgment in order to discern what is pleasing to him, right?

04:06:46.120 I don't think I, like, have a place to judge, though.

04:06:48.640 Do I sound like...

04:06:49.460 Yeah, but I'm not asking if you do.

04:06:51.480 I'm asking if God will judge you.

04:06:53.420 Yeah, he will.

04:06:54.540 Like, God...

04:06:54.860 So, and is that why you avoid sin?

04:06:57.940 Yeah.

04:06:59.320 So then I got to ask you, is God going to judge people who sin?

04:07:03.480 Yeah.

04:07:04.500 Okay.

04:07:05.000 Did I not say that?

04:07:05.800 And if...

04:07:06.260 But if you know that God is going to judge people who sin, can you point out the sins of

04:07:11.700 these people who God's going to judge?

04:07:13.920 Yeah, okay.

04:07:16.380 Have you ever, because, I don't know, you were talking about Jesus earlier, that verse

04:07:20.020 is, like, about, like, hypocrisy, like, you're pointing out the speck in someone else's eye

04:07:25.020 when you have a log in your own.

04:07:26.820 Yeah, what this is referring to is, if you're going to judge the behavior of somebody else,

04:07:33.460 be prepared to be judged by the same standard.

04:07:35.780 Yeah.

04:07:36.760 Which I think that that's fine, that you should be judged by the same standard by which you

04:07:41.720 judge others' behavior, but that doesn't mean that you should not use discernment, righteous

04:07:45.380 judgment in your life for what's going on, right?

04:07:48.720 That would be absurd.

04:07:50.040 Otherwise, how would you even determine what is sinful?

04:07:52.680 And how would you steer people away from what is sinful if you had no judgment?

04:07:57.580 Like, how could you even do that?

04:08:01.060 Yeah.

04:08:02.380 Could you?

04:08:02.960 Could you even steer a person away from sin if you couldn't judge that it was sin?

04:08:06.940 No.

04:08:07.980 No.

04:08:08.220 So then if you know what's sin, you are judging.

04:08:12.600 Yeah.

04:08:13.600 Okay.

04:08:14.520 Okay.

04:08:15.020 Like, I know sin is sin and, like, I know what is a sin and what's not, but, like, I

04:08:19.060 just don't want to judge people.

04:08:20.740 Like, maybe in my mind.

04:08:22.480 But you are.

04:08:23.060 But you are judging people is what I'm saying.

04:08:25.300 I am judging people.

04:08:26.180 Yeah, like it or not, you can use what's called righteous judgment.

04:08:29.960 You actually should judge.

04:08:31.960 Otherwise, how can you determine that you yourself should not have sex before marriage?

04:08:36.080 Obviously, it would be fun, right?

04:08:37.920 You can have a good time, but you're avoiding it for a reason.

04:08:42.060 Right?

04:08:42.700 Yes.

04:08:43.640 Yeah.

04:08:44.120 So the thing is, is, like, why would it not be okay for you to apply that standard to

04:08:48.740 other people?

04:08:49.240 That's what I don't understand.

04:08:53.000 That's a good question.

04:08:55.920 I don't know.

04:08:56.660 Okay.

04:08:57.560 All right.

04:08:57.940 I don't like to force things on other people.

04:09:00.560 Like, I have my morals and beliefs, and I, like, respect other people's.

04:09:04.580 It doesn't mean, like, they're necessarily in line with mine, but I do, like, respect

04:09:07.740 them, and I can't.

04:09:08.980 I also, like, I literally can't influence, or, like, even if I say something to someone,

04:09:14.340 like, you know, I'm just putting it out there that this is my opinion of what this

04:09:18.960 should be, and that's all I can say.

04:09:21.760 Like, my opinion is just my opinion.

04:09:23.380 Do you think it's mean to judge?

04:09:28.040 I think everybody does it.

04:09:29.960 Do I think it's mean?

04:09:31.860 Sometimes.

04:09:32.420 Like, sometimes I'll be judging someone, and I'll be like, wow, that was so mean.

04:09:35.900 I thought you didn't judge people.

04:09:37.180 Okay.

04:09:37.500 Well, no.

04:09:38.740 Maybe.

04:09:39.560 I don't know.

04:09:40.180 I'm, like, contradicting myself.

04:09:41.760 I know.

04:09:42.060 I'm, like, nervous, guys.

04:09:42.980 Okay?

04:09:43.380 No, no.

04:09:44.200 It's no problem.

04:09:44.980 We're just having a good conversation here, right?

04:09:47.240 But I'm just saying to you, I wonder how much of it's cultural, and how much of it

04:09:53.140 is actually you, and how much you don't judge.

04:09:55.940 Because I think you do judge, right?

04:09:57.440 No, yeah.

04:09:57.720 Just maybe it's cultural taboo to not sound mean, right?

04:10:02.720 Kind of quote, unquote, mean.

04:10:04.120 Do you mean, like, cultural, like, or religious?

04:10:06.480 Like, well, I think it's cultural, inside of the current culture of modernity in the

04:10:12.320 United States, anyway, to not point out kind of bad behavior, because it sounds mean.

04:10:19.020 I agree with that.

04:10:20.220 Like, with, okay, personally, with, like, my friends and I, like, we are all, like, very

04:10:25.500 blunt with each other, and we keep each other, like, crazy.

04:10:29.300 Not crazy in line, but in line. 0.84

04:10:30.780 Like, when we're in the wrong, I've had friends who have been, like, you're being a horrible

04:10:34.500 person right now.

04:10:35.280 And I've, like, said vice versa to them.

04:10:39.160 Yeah, but, you know, I mean, you know that that's becoming increasingly rare, right?

04:10:43.480 Yeah, I do.

04:10:44.660 Yeah.

04:10:45.000 I, like, I just, I don't know.

04:10:48.300 I, like, just, like, value my friendship.

04:10:50.560 Or not, okay, not to say, like, people don't value their friendships, but, like, I want to

04:10:55.740 be the best version of myself, and, like, being around people, like, who, like, bring me

04:11:00.320 down, like, you know, they bring me down.

04:11:02.700 And I want to be around people who, like, uplift me and make me a better version of

04:11:05.720 myself.

04:11:05.980 Because at the end of the day, I have so many goals for myself, and I want them to be achieved.

04:11:11.440 Well, can I ask you a question to expand on this?

04:11:13.880 This is the, I do.

04:11:15.260 Yeah, very quickly.

04:11:16.420 Have you noticed, have you noticed that there's this thing which happens with many women where 1.00

04:11:21.940 after they have lost their virginity or they've slept with multiple people, they begin to

04:11:26.660 recommend to other women that they do the same thing? 1.00

04:11:30.160 Have you experienced that?

04:11:32.400 I've experienced the opposite.

04:11:35.120 I know, like, like, friends and mentors who have said to me, they're like, I lost my virginity

04:11:40.020 before marriage, and I regret it.

04:11:42.180 Okay.

04:11:43.080 All right.

04:11:43.420 Going to Christy here.

04:11:46.040 Christy, you said, my unique dating stories include dating younger men who have mommy issues

04:11:53.040 and want to be coddled.

04:11:56.460 Do you want to expand on that?

04:11:57.760 Well, after I separated from my husband, it was weird because I started getting hit on

04:12:08.320 by younger guys, and I feel like they hit on me because they could sense that I was,

04:12:16.920 like, I guess, single, and I don't know if it's the whole MILF thing that they're, like,

04:12:24.660 you know, so I don't know if that's what it was, but basically when I did date the two

04:12:31.200 younger guys after my separation, they both had mommy issues, like serious mommy issues.

04:12:37.440 What does that mean?

04:12:38.400 Well, they both had moms that abandoned them and left them at a very young age, and they

04:12:46.340 were raised by aunts and grandmothers.

04:12:48.840 So, I felt like I was pretty much the one they were attracted to because I was an older

04:12:58.440 woman, and they wanted somewhat of a mommy, like, to tell them what to do and stuff. 1.00

04:13:05.260 How would you meet these guys?

04:13:06.820 Dating apps?

04:13:07.720 No dating apps at the time.

04:13:09.800 I met one at brunch and the other one at the beach.

04:13:13.240 And they'd come up to you?

04:13:15.880 Mm-hmm.

04:13:17.600 Interesting.

04:13:18.620 Okay.

04:13:19.320 Yeah, so that was a common denominator was the whole mommy issue thing, and they both

04:13:23.040 wanted to, they were both very needy men, wanted to always have my attention, and I felt

04:13:28.840 like they saw me as not a sugar mama, but somebody that could take care of them.

04:13:35.700 Mm-hmm.

04:13:38.320 I actually don't really have anything for that.

04:13:40.560 Okay, yeah.

04:13:41.460 Really?

04:13:41.760 I mean, well, that phase in my life, like, didn't last long at all because it wasn't

04:13:50.880 for me.

04:13:51.940 Dating younger is not for me.

04:13:56.400 How many young guys did you date?

04:13:58.620 Just two, more on the serious side, but I dated probably four.

04:14:07.620 Like, the other two was just, like, one or two dates, and that was it.

04:14:12.180 But it wasn't like I was looking for younger men because that's not my type. 0.95

04:14:16.000 It was, like, the men that were chasing me were of that younger age bracket.

04:14:21.760 Okay.

04:14:22.180 How much younger were they?

04:14:24.540 So this was four years ago when I was 48.

04:14:27.760 Um, one was 28, 37, 23, and 25.

04:14:36.880 Okay.

04:14:38.560 All right.

04:14:39.880 Well, to perhaps segue, uh, Asia, you said you wanted to talk about gap relationships?

04:14:45.440 Well, yeah, it's kind of just tied into just the, um, I'm noticing because I do get a

04:14:52.600 same.

04:14:52.980 I get hit on with a lot of younger guys.

04:14:55.980 My 10-year relationship, he was nine years younger than me, uh, also, um, yeah, so, um,

04:15:05.660 I, yeah, I just think that I wanted to talk about it.

04:15:08.460 I don't have, like, I was in a gap relationship.

04:15:11.020 It ultimately doesn't work out because you reach a crossroads where you both want different

04:15:16.640 things, and you have to figure that out.

04:15:19.940 And ultimately, it doesn't work out.

04:15:21.520 Well, he changed his mind about the kids.

04:15:24.860 He originally said he didn't want kids, and then he changed his mind, and resentment.

04:15:31.040 Okay.

04:15:32.060 Uh, you also said that, uh, the trend of younger guys liking older women. 0.62

04:15:39.060 Yeah, I think it's trending because of porn.

04:15:41.500 I believe it stems.

04:15:42.980 Because of porn?

04:15:43.760 I believe it stems from porn.

04:15:44.980 Well, I mean, this has been always, I mean, uh, what's that movie from the 70s?

04:15:50.040 Mrs. Robinson.

04:15:50.780 Oh, The Graduate?

04:15:51.940 The Graduate.

04:15:52.700 Okay.

04:15:52.800 I mean, I feel like it's kind of, hasn't it always been?

04:15:55.060 Maybe.

04:15:55.120 I guess it is.

04:15:55.840 Every guy, young guy's dream.

04:15:57.500 Were you alive when that movie came out? 1.00

04:16:00.420 What the fuck? 1.00

04:16:02.020 I'm kidding. 1.00

04:16:03.380 I'm just joking.

04:16:04.060 I couldn't help myself.

04:16:04.980 I couldn't help myself.

04:16:05.960 I'm kidding.

04:16:06.620 Is he talking to you or me?

04:16:09.120 I don't even know what year that movie was.

04:16:11.060 I'll Google it.

04:16:11.900 What year?

04:16:14.180 I think I was old.

04:16:15.500 The Graduate?

04:16:16.960 What year?

04:16:17.480 I don't know.

04:16:17.940 1960.

04:16:18.740 Oh, 67.

04:16:19.540 I thought it was the 70s.

04:16:20.900 No, I'm not.

04:16:21.540 No, I don't think we have anybody, uh, anybody.

04:16:24.680 Were you alive?

04:16:26.800 Andrew's a...

04:16:27.640 No, I'm, I'm much, much younger.

04:16:29.460 He's an 80s.

04:16:30.540 Like, significantly younger.

04:16:32.700 All right.

04:16:33.640 Uh, then...

04:16:35.200 I mean, you can do that, right?

04:16:36.700 But remember that I don't have the advantage of, um, you know, hours and hours of makeup.

04:16:41.740 Wait, do you have a Twitter?

04:16:42.700 I'm just pointing that out.

04:16:43.700 I don't take hours to get ready.

04:16:46.700 You, I don't know if we touched on this.

04:16:48.280 You said...

04:16:49.760 I, I brought it up, but I don't know if maybe a TTS came in.

04:16:53.340 You said, closer to what I want and what I deserve.

04:16:57.520 And I asked you, what do you deserve?

04:16:59.700 Did we cover that?

04:17:01.640 I think so.

04:17:03.580 But, um, I would like to be in a relationship with mutual admiration and respect for each other.

04:17:08.760 Mutual?

04:17:09.240 Like 50-50, or?

04:17:10.920 Yeah, we, again, it's the balancing act of submission and praise, like putting the woman on a pedestal, 0.86

04:17:19.000 treating her like a queen.

04:17:20.060 Wait, that's mutual respect?

04:17:21.880 It's biblical.

04:17:23.280 That's what the Bible says, right?

04:17:24.940 Treating a woman like a princess and like a queen. 0.99

04:17:27.300 Yeah, and the man, as well, that's why the woman submits to the man. 1.00

04:17:30.260 I think you've got to treat a woman like the court jester. 1.00

04:17:33.300 Like you're the king.

04:17:34.600 All right, come over.

04:17:35.540 I need some entertainment.

04:17:36.840 Come here for a few hours.

04:17:40.340 I dismiss you.

04:17:41.440 Be gone.

04:17:42.280 No, you don't.

04:17:43.340 You do not think that.

04:17:44.260 I am kidding.

04:17:45.040 So there was a lot of, there was a lot of disrespect in that relationship, so that's what I'm saying.

04:17:54.060 It's like, I just, I'm setting my boundaries and learning what I want, and that's what the 21 dates was all about.

04:18:00.360 It was trying to figure out what I wanted.

04:18:02.860 Wait, but so should, should women, all women, be treated like queens and princesses?

04:18:11.520 Sprinkle.

04:18:12.180 Was it drink?

04:18:13.200 Sprinkle, sprinkle? 0.92

04:18:14.060 Sprinkle, drizzle.

04:18:14.980 Drizzle, drizzle. 0.93

04:18:15.960 Should all women be treated like queens? 1.00

04:18:17.600 I think they should be respected.

04:18:19.620 No, should they all be treated like queens?

04:18:21.880 My definition of a queen is being respected.

04:18:25.160 If they deserve it.

04:18:26.520 Because I feel like princess treatment means something kind of specific.

04:18:30.860 Okay.

04:18:31.600 Or like queen princess treatment.

04:18:35.240 I don't know.

04:18:36.120 I just don't like the whole like royal thing.

04:18:39.460 Huh?

04:18:40.380 Like he's my king.

04:18:41.780 She's my queen.

04:18:43.360 Nah, y'all, everybody's a peasant. 0.85

04:18:46.480 You don't want to.

04:18:46.920 We're all peasants.

04:18:47.900 We're the serfs, and we're intermingling among the serfs.

04:18:50.640 We are the, we're the serfs.

04:18:53.820 The peasantry.

04:18:55.220 Of who?

04:18:55.660 Maybe some of us, maybe get, you know, some of us might become a lord. 1.00

04:19:01.300 Fuck that. 1.00

04:19:01.840 I'm a king. 1.00

04:19:03.260 You don't want to be treated like a king?

04:19:06.140 No, I, sure, but like we're all peasants, bro.

04:19:09.380 We're all peasants.

04:19:10.580 No, you think.

04:19:11.960 No, but peasants can date other peasants. 0.99

04:19:14.580 You just, you know what I mean?

04:19:17.300 I got a Burger King crown next to me and everything, Brian.

04:19:20.940 You can't take my kingship away, sir.

04:19:23.620 Hold on, bro.

04:19:24.760 Hold on.

04:19:25.660 Get rekt, Andrew.

04:19:43.220 Destroyed your argument. 1.00

04:19:44.940 Backed the fucked off or whatever. 1.00

04:19:46.820 VTFO'd. 1.00

04:19:49.100 Destroyed his argument.

04:19:51.960 Who's the debate?

04:19:54.080 Debateuniversity.com.

04:19:55.080 Boys, debateuniversity.com.

04:19:57.140 The course brought to you by Brian Atlas.

04:20:00.160 Andrew had no involvement whatsoever.

04:20:02.460 Debateuniversity.com.

04:20:03.140 Well, I was, I was, I was, I held the camera, right?

04:20:06.760 In the corner?

04:20:07.420 I held the camera.

04:20:08.980 Yeah.

04:20:09.900 All the words, Andrew was reading from a teleprompter. 0.99

04:20:12.820 Everything he fucking said was a script devised by me. 0.99

04:20:17.260 Okay. 1.00

04:20:18.220 All right.

04:20:18.560 Anyways.

04:20:18.840 So, what were we talking about?

04:20:26.900 Peasantry?

04:20:27.580 I don't know.

04:20:28.020 You said you were a peasant.

04:20:28.600 My chat's, my chat's giving me L's, Brian.

04:20:31.040 They're giving me a lot of L's, Brian.

04:20:32.800 They're giving me a lot of L's here.

04:20:37.460 W the Crucible chat.

04:20:38.960 W the Crucible chat.

04:20:40.000 Keep spamming L's, boys. 0.99

04:20:41.080 Anyways, whatever.

04:20:46.540 What was I saying?

04:20:48.800 You're a peasant. 0.95

04:20:49.780 Yeah, you classified.

04:20:50.200 I think we're just all peasants.

04:20:51.680 I don't know.

04:20:52.040 These girls, I deserve princess treatment. 1.00

04:20:54.760 I'm a queen.

04:20:57.000 So, if your girl called you a peasant, you'd be like, yeah, I'm a peasant.

04:20:59.580 So, are you?

04:21:00.520 I'd be like, S this peasant D. 1.00

04:21:02.140 No, I'm just kidding.

04:21:04.900 No, I'm kidding.

04:21:05.840 I'm kidding.

04:21:06.940 Are you?

04:21:07.800 I'm kidding.

04:21:08.700 Sure he is.

04:21:09.340 I'm kidding.

04:21:09.740 But, yeah, we're all, I don't know.

04:21:12.480 I don't like this whole, like, oh, I'm the king.

04:21:15.060 She's the queen.

04:21:16.880 At best, at best, a lot of these women, they're court jesters at best. 1.00

04:21:21.080 At best.

04:21:22.160 Court jesters.

04:21:23.320 I think my man thinks I'm a queen.

04:21:26.180 There's levels to couples.

04:21:27.920 You can be in a peasant couple or you can be in a royal couple.

04:21:33.660 I don't know.

04:21:34.320 Anyways, I don't know where I'm going with this whole thing.

04:21:36.300 I just, I think we need to take heraldry very importantly.

04:21:40.620 Heraldry? 0.99

04:21:41.040 What the fuck? 0.99

04:21:41.680 We need to take the very important, like, do any of you have a fucking, uh, yeah, heraldry. 0.99

04:21:48.200 Do any of you have heraldry? 1.00

04:21:49.360 You got a fucking family crest or some shit? 1.00

04:21:52.520 Huh? 1.00

04:21:53.480 Where's the family crest? 1.00

04:21:54.820 You got a fucking, huh? 1.00

04:21:56.320 I actually do on my dad's side. 1.00

04:21:58.940 She's got a crest.

04:22:00.280 They're, like, Spanish.

04:22:01.720 I thought it was.

04:22:02.500 I have a family crest, Brian.

04:22:04.260 It's okay that I'm doing Selena Gomez.

04:22:05.820 The Wilson family crest.

04:22:07.400 I love her.

04:22:08.180 Yeah, I feel like I have one, too.

04:22:09.920 Son of Will.

04:22:10.920 Crest toothpaste.

04:22:11.420 This is a, this is a long-standing, by the way, Irish-English name, Wilson, just so you know.

04:22:18.220 And I do have, I even have a family motto to go with the crest, Brian.

04:22:23.780 What is it?

04:22:24.340 He who conquers, conquers himself.

04:22:27.960 Sorry, go ahead.

04:22:28.960 I'm sorry.

04:22:29.460 I'm sorry.

04:22:29.820 Go ahead.

04:22:30.240 He who conquers, conquers himself, Brian.

04:22:32.380 That's the family motto.

04:22:33.720 It goes right along with the crest.

04:22:35.240 I like it.

04:22:35.940 I like it.

04:22:36.660 I like it.

04:22:37.320 Okay.

04:22:39.220 Um, how did we get here?

04:22:41.480 I was asking about you, what you deserve.

04:22:44.140 I don't know.

04:22:44.800 I'm coping a little bit.

04:22:45.880 That's how we got here.

04:22:47.060 Oh, okay.

04:22:47.620 No.

04:22:47.740 A little bit of cope.

04:22:49.460 What about the?

04:22:50.260 I just want respect in a relationship.

04:22:52.000 But you said you wanted a queen.

04:22:53.520 If I want to give it.

04:22:54.540 And two.

04:22:55.960 But you said it was a mutual thing.

04:22:57.880 Yeah.

04:22:58.060 Mutual admiration and respect for each other.

04:22:59.600 You guys are paying for dates, son.

04:23:01.560 Uh, too slow. 1.00

04:23:06.660 Fuck. 1.00

04:23:07.060 Okay. 1.00

04:23:07.540 Um, you won't.

04:23:10.580 The men I go out with don't want me to pay for dates.

04:23:13.160 You know what I think you should do?

04:23:14.380 Um, I think you should take me, Nick, Desmond, and Austin on a date after this and pay for

04:23:23.060 our in and out.

04:23:25.360 Oh, in and out.

04:23:26.340 Can you sign me to that?

04:23:27.560 Um, I'm hungry.

04:23:30.460 Okay, though.

04:23:30.860 You can think whatever you want.

04:23:33.240 You got to start paying for dates.

04:23:35.360 I thought it was mutual.

04:23:36.620 You said mutual admiration.

04:23:38.580 Got to open.

04:23:39.100 Crack open that wallet. 0.99

04:23:40.980 Crack open that purse. 1.00

04:23:42.800 Got to start paying for some dates.

04:23:44.940 No.

04:23:45.520 You want a man? 1.00

04:23:46.660 You want a real man? 1.00

04:23:47.720 You got to start splinning that shit 50-50. 1.00

04:23:51.360 Dry me up. 1.00

04:23:52.740 That dries me up.

04:23:53.560 Dries your vagine?

04:23:54.760 Yeah.

04:23:55.300 Your vagine dries up?

04:23:56.180 It's going to dry me up.

04:23:57.300 If you're going to start breaking out spreadsheets and expecting 50-50 treatment with the money. 1.00

04:24:06.060 Dries up the pussy. 1.00

04:24:07.920 Dries me up. 1.00

04:24:10.600 What's the equivalent for a guy?

04:24:13.000 Boner killer.

04:24:13.960 What's a, uh. 1.00

04:24:15.080 I'm going to pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft. 1.00

04:24:19.240 Yeah. 0.99

04:24:19.520 Like what, what is the.

04:24:21.440 Like what's that for a woman? 1.00

04:24:24.900 You know?

04:24:25.960 What I just said.

04:24:27.560 Yeah, but like what is that?

04:24:29.140 It's, it's like, what would that be?

04:24:33.420 Just the egg.

04:24:41.240 Huh?

04:24:42.880 I don't know.

04:24:43.780 Okay.

04:24:44.100 All right.

04:24:45.080 Chat, help.

04:24:47.160 Okay.

04:24:48.360 Let's see.

04:24:48.940 We have, oh, did you have the photos?

04:24:52.140 Did you send them to Instagram?

04:24:53.800 You couldn't find them?

04:24:54.720 I found one of me at 18, but I, um.

04:24:57.320 We can pull it up.

04:24:59.080 We'll pull it up.

04:25:00.620 18, right?

04:25:01.520 I can't find the one.

04:25:02.980 How about just the 18 one?

04:25:04.420 You want to see the one that was 18?

04:25:07.160 Okay.

04:25:08.480 Okay.

04:25:08.960 I'll read chats while you guys are figuring that out.

04:25:10.880 So, uh, we have practice gentlemen.

04:25:13.900 Could an equivalent to a woman, Maddie?

04:25:15.900 Look, I felt like I look like a boy.

04:25:17.160 Could an equivalent to a woman bowing to a man be a man taking the woman by the hand and kissing it,

04:25:22.960 standing up when a woman leaves the room or tilting your hat?

04:25:26.160 When slash why did those stop being a thing?

04:25:30.020 Yeah.

04:25:30.300 So, well, just to the, uh, kissing a hand, that was also, uh, actually done mostly towards men.

04:25:37.620 And so that was a sign of respect to it.

04:25:40.820 And you've probably heard this saying a million times, kiss the ring.

04:25:44.100 That's what that means.

04:25:45.320 Kissing the ring.

04:25:46.260 Kissing the ring.

04:25:47.520 So that was actually more towards men than it was towards women.

04:25:51.340 Uh, so do you have a few, you have a few photos?

04:25:55.380 You have a few photos?

04:25:56.260 Here's me as in grade school.

04:25:57.520 You got to send it to our Instagram.

04:25:59.540 Oh.

04:25:59.760 And we don't want to see your chilled child photos. 0.91

04:26:02.480 Well, I was a big dork is what I'm trying to show you.

04:26:04.700 Okay, but I, show us eight, show, you can show us 18 and over.

04:26:08.520 Yeah.

04:26:09.200 Senior year.

04:26:09.980 Show us when you're an adult.

04:26:11.740 18 and over.

04:26:13.400 Where am I supposed to send it to?

04:26:14.620 Oh, to whatever Instagram would be.

04:26:16.180 Perfect if you can.

04:26:18.040 Uh, while we're doing that, we have some more notes here from, uh, Lori.

04:26:22.760 Lori.

04:26:23.120 Uh, sugar daddy I never slept with was engaged for two years to him.

04:26:28.080 Oh, you were engaged to him for two years?

04:26:30.320 Yeah.

04:26:30.560 We already talked about that.

04:26:31.920 No, I know.

04:26:32.420 Oh, yeah.

04:26:32.840 I didn't know you were engaged for the whole two years, though.

04:26:35.000 How?

04:26:35.380 He asked me to marry him, like, on the third date, because I didn't want to do anything

04:26:38.820 with him.

04:26:40.420 Did he give you a ring?

04:26:41.880 Not till, like, the fifth time I saw him.

04:26:45.040 So, the fifth date.

04:26:46.340 But he just, that, like, yeah.

04:26:47.320 Did you give the ring back?

04:26:48.920 Uh, he wouldn't take it back.

04:26:50.540 He wouldn't take anything back.

04:26:53.800 Come on, bro.

04:26:54.440 I want to make sure.

04:26:56.140 Ulysses, the pagan donated $200. 0.52

04:26:59.320 Mutuals. 0.99

04:26:59.680 Women like her, mutual respect, actually. 0.98

04:27:02.540 Mutuals. 0.99

04:27:03.120 Me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, mi, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me,

04:27:07.800 me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.

04:27:12.840 I want to make sure I do this comment

04:27:16.080 justice because it was $200

04:27:17.860 and I do

04:27:20.360 say this often, what it means is

04:27:21.720 me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.

04:27:26.680 Wasn't that the same guy that said he'd rather

04:27:28.280 have a 52-year-old than a 23-year-old?

04:27:31.080 That was beautiful.

04:27:34.040 That was beautiful.

04:27:36.760 It is interesting though,

04:27:38.240 mutual respect, mutual respect

04:27:40.580 but

04:27:41.280 I don't agree 1.00

04:27:42.940 if this motherfucker don't crack open his wallet 1.00

04:27:46.280 my pussy dry 1.00

04:27:47.480 Let me look at the first 1.00

04:27:51.200 Yeah, if you're asking me to split dinner

04:27:54.240 Mutual respect

04:27:56.880 Mutual respect

04:27:57.860 Yeah, do other things

04:28:00.200 Doesn't seem very respectful

04:28:04.320 Yeah, you can pull it up, Nick

04:28:06.520 Is this you with the friend?

04:28:09.600 That's just high school, yeah

04:28:10.820 Random chick 1.00

04:28:11.420 That's my friend in high school, Shelly

04:28:13.160 Wait, oh, this is in high school?

04:28:15.200 Yeah

04:28:15.440 How old are you here?

04:28:16.640 Like 18, maybe 17, I don't know

04:28:18.640 Can we get an 18 plus photo? 0.89

04:28:20.440 But I was a big dork 0.88

04:28:22.580 Wait, just to be clear 0.96

04:28:23.540 I thought we were saying 20s

04:28:24.480 So just to be clear here

04:28:25.740 I can't find her in the 20s

04:28:26.980 So you are better looking now

04:28:29.460 as compared to

04:28:30.980 I think so

04:28:32.820 Here?

04:28:33.220 Yeah 0.98

04:28:33.440 I think I look like a big dork 0.98

04:28:35.660 Does somebody want to tell her? 0.93

04:28:42.760 Why don't you tell me? 0.95

04:28:48.720 You think men don't like dorky women? 1.00

04:28:50.560 I have no idea 0.82

04:28:52.900 I don't think they do

04:28:59.100 I think they do 0.91

04:29:00.020 You don't think men like dorky women? 1.00

04:29:02.440 Dorky? 0.99

04:29:03.000 You think they prefer 0.89

04:29:03.640 Okay, if they had to pick 1.00

04:29:04.520 between like a dorky woman 1.00

04:29:05.940 and like a boss babe bitch 1.00

04:29:08.620 which do you think they prefer? 1.00

04:29:11.000 What do you mean by dorky though?

04:29:13.840 A little shy

04:29:14.680 A little awkward

04:29:15.640 Oh, I thought you meant like

04:29:16.980 Appearance wise?

04:29:19.380 Yeah, I think men prefer 0.98

04:29:20.460 like more meek women 1.00

04:29:21.680 Would like that 18 year old self

04:29:24.060 think that you look

04:29:24.940 better than her now?

04:29:27.080 Like if you like

04:29:27.800 let's say you're like

04:29:28.440 you're her right now

04:29:29.640 and you're looking at you right now

04:29:31.160 would she be like

04:29:31.840 oh yeah, I'm going to look better

04:29:33.420 once I'm this old?

04:29:36.460 Yeah

04:29:36.860 So you're looking at that

04:29:38.180 and you're like

04:29:38.420 I never thought I was beautiful

04:29:40.300 I didn't

04:29:40.940 That's why I'm saying

04:29:41.640 I think you guys

04:29:42.300 underrated yourself

04:29:43.680 because

04:29:44.160 because

04:29:45.880 when I was that age

04:29:47.340 I did not find myself attractive

04:29:48.840 What changes do you think

04:29:51.140 you have to yourself now

04:29:52.300 that make you

04:29:53.000 I just think because

04:29:53.960 I'm just older

04:29:54.860 and I've grown into my own

04:29:56.320 and I'm more confident now

04:29:57.860 that's what

04:29:58.560 makes me feel

04:29:59.900 more attractive

04:30:00.580 So

04:30:01.900 if you had all of that

04:30:03.200 when you were 18

04:30:04.100 do you think you would

04:30:04.980 still be less attractive

04:30:06.120 than you are now?

04:30:07.220 If I had it all

04:30:08.300 when I was 18

04:30:08.860 I probably would think

04:30:09.760 I was attractive

04:30:10.660 and I probably would

04:30:12.180 More attractive

04:30:12.840 than now though?

04:30:14.160 Yes

04:30:15.620 I would have thought

04:30:16.640 I was attractive

04:30:17.340 You don't have any other photos?

04:30:18.780 Like 20s?

04:30:20.580 Facebook

04:30:21.000 No I was

04:30:22.320 Well

04:30:23.320 Her Facebook was

04:30:24.900 What?

04:30:27.820 What about my Facebook?

04:30:29.160 Facebook

04:30:29.560 She's saying Facebook

04:30:30.920 I do have a question

04:30:31.980 here for you

04:30:32.820 This one comes in

04:30:34.440 from my chat

04:30:35.180 and they've been asking

04:30:36.300 this over and over

04:30:37.200 They just demand

04:30:38.540 they just demand

04:30:38.560 that I ask you this

04:30:39.660 What is it

04:30:41.700 about you

04:30:42.700 that you think

04:30:44.220 is so great

04:30:44.900 a man should turn over 0.86

04:30:45.860 his entire wallet

04:30:46.800 to you?

04:30:49.480 I'm looking for a partner

04:30:50.860 I didn't say

04:30:51.460 I want someone

04:30:52.200 to turn over

04:30:52.720 his entire wallet

04:30:53.700 to me

04:30:54.180 and you're taking

04:30:55.700 this out of context

04:30:56.620 because I'm telling you

04:30:58.260 that I've had to be

04:30:59.720 a boss babe

04:31:00.620 by choice

04:31:01.580 because I don't

04:31:02.880 have parents

04:31:03.520 I don't have anyone else

04:31:04.860 You had to be a boss babe

04:31:06.080 by choice?

04:31:06.940 I had to be a boss

04:31:07.740 babe out of

04:31:08.600 out of

04:31:09.760 desperation

04:31:11.140 out of

04:31:11.740 survival

04:31:12.480 Well then that's not a choice

04:31:14.100 I had to survive

04:31:15.160 Okay

04:31:16.300 Well I could have

04:31:17.380 gone into drugs

04:31:18.920 I could have

04:31:19.760 you know

04:31:20.200 I've kind of

04:31:20.940 my life could have gone

04:31:22.540 in a lot of different ways

04:31:23.960 but I pulled myself

04:31:25.620 out of it

04:31:26.340 and made a

04:31:27.520 successful career

04:31:28.800 I raised an amazing son

04:31:30.920 and I've put him

04:31:32.780 through school

04:31:33.800 and I'm still putting him

04:31:34.740 through school

04:31:35.140 and I'm still

04:31:35.600 providing for him

04:31:36.840 What was the thing

04:31:37.480 that forced this

04:31:39.240 necessity exactly?

04:31:41.480 Because I don't

04:31:42.560 have parents

04:31:43.940 They died

04:31:45.500 when I was young

04:31:46.200 Yeah but that means

04:31:46.220 a lot of people

04:31:46.900 who don't have parents

04:31:48.260 including a lot of women 1.00

04:31:49.280 don't end up

04:31:50.060 becoming boss babes 0.69

04:31:51.120 What made you

04:31:52.340 have to actually

04:31:53.240 be a boss babe? 0.87

04:31:54.780 Because I had to

04:31:55.980 take care of my son

04:31:57.120 Yeah why would that

04:31:59.340 require being a boss

04:32:00.480 Well what is a boss babe

04:32:01.600 first of all?

04:32:02.460 What is that?

04:32:02.960 A woman that's 1.00

04:32:05.220 successful in her career

04:32:06.300 Strong independent

04:32:07.320 black woman 1.00

04:32:08.140 that don't need 0.99

04:32:08.780 That's it?

04:32:09.780 Well I mean

04:32:10.240 but that would include

04:32:12.080 basically just any woman 1.00

04:32:13.340 that has a job 0.66

04:32:14.040 and is held in

04:32:14.680 right?

04:32:15.620 Sure

04:32:16.040 Yeah so I mean

04:32:17.920 how is that being a boss?

04:32:18.760 Yeah but for someone

04:32:20.180 to be able to survive

04:32:21.440 on her own income

04:32:23.780 and raise a kid

04:32:24.700 in Los Angeles

04:32:25.460 that's pretty boss

04:32:27.320 in my opinion

04:32:27.980 Boss

04:32:29.160 What makes that boss?

04:32:30.740 Because I had

04:32:31.400 because I made it work

04:32:32.640 and I didn't take money

04:32:33.600 from anyone else

04:32:34.500 Yeah I'm not

04:32:36.720 I'm not sure though

04:32:37.540 TTS is 100

04:32:38.140 So

04:32:38.820 let's back up a little bit

04:32:41.740 Mmhmm

04:32:42.620 Raising the kid

04:32:43.900 by yourself

04:32:44.520 this is because

04:32:45.900 you're

04:32:46.120 I mean financially

04:32:46.880 financially

04:32:47.840 we

04:32:48.360 okay so his dad

04:32:49.460 did help a little bit

04:32:50.420 in high school

04:32:50.960 but financially

04:32:52.000 the burden

04:32:52.700 has been on me

04:32:53.580 Okay gotcha

04:32:55.740 and then

04:32:56.460 but

04:32:56.800 but you've had

04:32:57.980 joint custody

04:32:58.680 all of this?

04:32:59.420 Yeah

04:32:59.560 yeah

04:33:00.600 and he's a good father

04:33:02.420 he's a good father

04:33:03.140 he's just not

04:33:03.720 financially

04:33:04.340 he wasn't a good provider

04:33:05.680 so this is

04:33:07.460 so

04:33:07.740 my past

04:33:09.200 is dictating

04:33:09.960 what I want

04:33:10.560 in the future

04:33:11.020 that's why I want

04:33:12.340 a man that's a provider 0.96

04:33:13.380 and a protector

04:33:13.980 because I haven't

04:33:15.380 had that

04:33:16.060 Yeah no

04:33:17.680 But you're trying

04:33:18.120 to come at me

04:33:18.800 like I'm some 0.89

04:33:19.800 chick that wants 1.00

04:33:21.360 a handout

04:33:22.280 and that's not

04:33:23.100 it at all

04:33:23.740 Wait you have

04:33:25.180 had a provider

04:33:25.840 Well okay

04:33:26.540 No I didn't

04:33:27.660 No one provided

04:33:28.540 for me

04:33:29.060 You went on

04:33:30.140 a dinner date

04:33:31.140 that cost

04:33:31.680 like $3,000

04:33:32.600 He's not paying

04:33:34.180 my bills

04:33:34.900 Wait

04:33:35.840 I mean that

04:33:36.320 he

04:33:37.180 Wait do you want

04:33:38.720 Taking me out

04:33:39.640 to dinner

04:33:40.100 something is in it

04:33:41.340 for him

04:33:41.880 because he's

04:33:42.560 enjoying the dinner

04:33:43.680 also

04:33:44.220 He's not paying

04:33:45.360 my bills

04:33:45.820 He's not my provider

04:33:46.940 Wait what's in it

04:33:47.540 for him

04:33:47.900 Oh he loved it

04:33:48.780 He loved companionship

04:33:49.880 He says to this day

04:33:51.020 it's his best

04:33:51.600 He gets that

04:33:52.360 and you get that

04:33:53.640 Yeah

04:33:54.140 So him paying

04:33:55.120 for the dinner

04:33:55.580 is one directional

04:33:56.480 That's his choice

04:33:58.340 He's also

04:33:58.780 Wait is that

04:34:00.240 your expectation

04:34:01.120 you want to meet

04:34:01.840 a guy who's

04:34:02.280 willing to be

04:34:02.740 a provider

04:34:03.300 Yeah

04:34:04.380 You want to meet

04:34:05.220 a guy to pay

04:34:06.000 for your bills

04:34:06.540 Yeah

04:34:07.640 I mean share

04:34:10.480 in the responsibility

04:34:11.640 with me

04:34:12.400 so it's not

04:34:13.080 all on my shirt

04:34:14.120 No but you said pay for your bills

04:34:14.400 Share in the responsibility

04:34:15.840 with me

04:34:16.380 So what

04:34:16.820 90%

04:34:17.680 10%

04:34:18.200 I don't know

04:34:19.260 what the percentage is

04:34:20.000 but we would

04:34:20.460 mutually figure it out

04:34:21.980 based on our goals

04:34:23.560 It's going to be

04:34:24.240 at least be 50%

04:34:25.460 Based on our goals

04:34:26.740 Yeah so it's

04:34:28.220 at least going to be

04:34:28.840 50%

04:34:29.780 At least

04:34:31.760 Why would you say that

04:34:33.100 What's at least

04:34:33.880 Well I mean

04:34:35.660 you say

04:34:36.120 I don't know

04:34:36.640 what the percentage is

04:34:37.840 of how much it is

04:34:39.140 that I expect this guy

04:34:40.080 to contribute

04:34:40.640 who I want to take care of me

04:34:42.040 but

04:34:42.360 it's at least

04:34:44.120 going to be

04:34:44.880 half

04:34:45.760 Right

04:34:46.300 Oh

04:34:47.420 Yeah

04:34:48.280 I would say so

04:34:49.320 Yeah

04:34:50.080 So I mean

04:34:50.660 if it's at least

04:34:51.520 going to be

04:34:52.120 50%

04:34:52.940 then he's taking

04:34:53.640 50%

04:34:54.300 of the financial burden

04:34:55.240 off of you

04:34:56.160 So that's why

04:34:57.700 the question

04:34:58.060 keeps on coming up

04:34:59.100 Well what is it

04:35:00.420 that you're bringing

04:35:01.020 that's so great

04:35:01.820 that should

04:35:02.940 eliminate 50%

04:35:04.040 of the financial burden

04:35:05.060 that had nothing to do

04:35:06.240 with this person

04:35:07.320 who takes it off of you

04:35:08.380 that you created

04:35:08.960 for you

04:35:09.560 Well because

04:35:10.520 men

04:35:11.280 of my generation

04:35:12.540 feel like a man

04:35:14.320 by providing

04:35:15.140 for their woman

04:35:15.740 So

04:35:18.140 you think

04:35:19.300 you think

04:35:20.100 that the thing

04:35:20.920 that you bring

04:35:21.440 to the table

04:35:21.980 is that you're

04:35:22.380 going to let them

04:35:22.800 feel like a man

04:35:23.560 Sure

04:35:24.620 By providing

04:35:27.700 for you

04:35:28.300 But

04:35:28.680 also everything else

04:35:30.260 that I bring

04:35:30.620 to the table

04:35:31.180 Which is

04:35:32.660 Which is

04:35:33.620 exactly

04:35:34.140 everything I

04:35:34.960 discussed earlier

04:35:36.100 Yeah

04:35:37.840 But

04:35:38.400 you think

04:35:39.120 that those

04:35:39.880 compensate

04:35:40.340 for the

04:35:41.220 50%

04:35:41.940 that he brings

04:35:43.020 to alleviate

04:35:43.720 this financial burden

04:35:44.680 that you want

04:35:45.140 to get out

04:35:45.540 from under

04:35:46.040 because that

04:35:46.920 seems to be

04:35:47.340 like your main

04:35:47.880 thing

04:35:48.120 right

04:35:48.300 I don't

04:35:48.720 have a

04:35:49.160 financial burden

04:35:49.820 it's not

04:35:50.160 like I have

04:35:50.700 thousands of

04:35:51.520 dollars of debt

04:35:52.260 I have over

04:35:52.900 an 800 credit score

04:35:53.960 Wait wait hang on

04:35:55.780 you said

04:35:56.140 it's your primary

04:35:57.160 motivation

04:35:57.940 that you want

04:35:59.420 a man to provide 0.87

04:36:00.480 for you

04:36:01.000 so that you

04:36:01.640 don't have

04:36:02.240 quote

04:36:02.840 all of the burden

04:36:04.600 on my shoulders

04:36:05.860 yes

04:36:06.340 I want to feel

04:36:07.340 like a woman 0.99

04:36:07.880 I want to be

04:36:08.340 back into

04:36:08.900 I want to feel

04:36:09.680 like a woman 0.99

04:36:10.100 okay

04:36:10.360 so if he's

04:36:11.200 eliminating this

04:36:12.260 burden off

04:36:12.980 of your shoulders

04:36:13.540 it's the

04:36:14.060 financial burden

04:36:15.320 it's also the

04:36:17.140 emotional support

04:36:18.020 it's the partnership

04:36:18.880 it's having

04:36:19.680 your sexy

04:36:20.740 best friend

04:36:21.080 you said

04:36:21.900 in a quote

04:36:22.680 I want

04:36:24.600 him to

04:36:25.580 provide for me

04:36:26.800 to take the

04:36:27.540 burden off

04:36:28.380 of my shoulders

04:36:29.140 so if he's

04:36:29.860 providing

04:36:30.320 I want to feel

04:36:31.100 provided for

04:36:31.660 he's handing you

04:36:32.500 money

04:36:32.880 what is the

04:36:34.520 burden he's

04:36:35.200 taking off

04:36:35.640 your shoulders

04:36:35.960 it's the

04:36:36.240 financial burden

04:36:37.080 how could it

04:36:37.600 be anything

04:36:38.000 other than

04:36:38.540 that

04:36:38.860 if that's

04:36:40.580 the primary

04:36:41.800 goal

04:36:42.260 the primary

04:36:43.080 reasoning here

04:36:43.960 is I want

04:36:45.160 him to

04:36:45.520 eliminate

04:36:46.060 this burden

04:36:47.680 the burden

04:36:48.960 is the

04:36:49.560 financial burden

04:36:50.680 right

04:36:51.240 no it's

04:36:52.780 actually the

04:36:53.480 burden of

04:36:53.980 not having

04:36:54.740 a partner

04:36:55.400 my whole

04:36:56.240 life at

04:36:57.160 52 years

04:36:58.160 old

04:36:58.540 okay so

04:37:01.220 so are you

04:37:02.140 gonna marry 0.92

04:37:03.180 a poor 0.97

04:37:03.560 are you gonna 0.71

04:37:04.020 marry a poor 0.88

04:37:04.620 man you have

04:37:05.180 to take care

04:37:05.720 of

04:37:05.940 sorry

04:37:06.480 there was a

04:37:07.260 motorcycle

04:37:07.440 one more time

04:37:07.840 Andrew

04:37:08.060 are you gonna 0.88

04:37:09.260 marry a poor 0.88

04:37:09.900 man that you

04:37:10.420 have to take

04:37:10.900 care of

04:37:11.320 no I already

04:37:12.820 did that

04:37:13.460 yeah no

04:37:15.100 I already did

04:37:15.540 that

04:37:15.640 so you want

04:37:16.600 to marry a

04:37:17.100 man who you

04:37:17.800 said quote

04:37:18.460 takes me to

04:37:19.260 Europe and

04:37:19.700 retires with

04:37:20.440 me

04:37:20.740 well or I'll

04:37:22.840 move to

04:37:23.120 Europe and I'll

04:37:23.680 meet a man

04:37:24.060 out there

04:37:24.520 yeah sure but

04:37:26.000 you still want

04:37:26.640 him to take

04:37:27.060 the financial

04:37:27.560 burden off your

04:37:28.280 shoulders right

04:37:28.960 I mean clearly

04:37:29.720 you don't want

04:37:30.080 a poor man

04:37:30.660 I do not

04:37:31.560 want a poor 0.99

04:37:31.920 man yeah so

04:37:33.120 so why don't

04:37:34.420 you want a poor

04:37:35.060 man because you

04:37:35.500 want him to

04:37:35.940 quote provide

04:37:36.700 for you correct

04:37:37.440 because I've

04:37:38.100 been taking

04:37:38.640 care of

04:37:39.160 everything my

04:37:40.220 whole life the

04:37:41.180 financial burden

04:37:42.120 of yes

04:37:43.360 yes the financial

04:37:44.580 burden yes the

04:37:45.960 financial burden

04:37:47.100 you want him to

04:37:47.800 take off the

04:37:48.420 financial burden

04:37:49.380 right yes

04:37:50.140 yes yes

04:37:51.500 yes yes

04:37:52.080 yes so if you

04:37:53.940 want him to

04:37:54.520 take off the

04:37:55.160 financial burden

04:37:56.020 how much you

04:37:56.780 want at least

04:37:57.480 half right

04:37:58.520 yes okay so

04:38:02.500 if it's at least

04:38:03.380 half of the

04:38:04.620 financial burden

04:38:05.360 that you want

04:38:05.820 him to eliminate

04:38:06.500 from your

04:38:06.980 shoulders they're

04:38:08.060 just asking all

04:38:09.000 these people are

04:38:09.520 just asking this

04:38:10.260 question of what

04:38:11.920 do you think

04:38:12.780 compensates him

04:38:14.600 for eliminating

04:38:15.500 50% of the

04:38:16.680 financial burden

04:38:17.480 that you have

04:38:18.460 that he's not

04:38:19.800 responsible for

04:38:21.200 it's not that

04:38:23.600 it's being

04:38:24.460 living with

04:38:25.160 somebody that

04:38:26.420 it's not that

04:38:28.960 I'm trying to

04:38:29.540 give him half

04:38:30.860 of my financial

04:38:31.480 burden but

04:38:32.160 we're going to

04:38:33.420 be together

04:38:34.180 half of your

04:38:35.040 financial

04:38:35.300 literally you are

04:38:36.500 trying to give him

04:38:37.580 half of your

04:38:38.280 financial burden

04:38:39.100 what are you

04:38:39.560 talking about

04:38:40.200 how are you

04:38:40.700 not you that's

04:38:42.120 what you're saying

04:38:43.060 you want to do

04:38:43.720 is give him half

04:38:44.560 at least of your

04:38:45.360 financial burden

04:38:46.420 how are you not

04:38:47.960 doing that

04:38:48.560 okay so what I

04:38:50.780 think your

04:38:51.780 listeners or your

04:38:53.220 viewers are not

04:38:55.320 understanding is I'm

04:38:56.720 looking for a

04:38:57.300 partner and I'm

04:38:58.680 looking for somebody

04:38:59.460 that has the same

04:39:01.000 goals and the same

04:39:02.240 lifestyle and that

04:39:04.240 wants the same

04:39:04.880 thing too they want 0.89

04:39:06.020 their best friend

04:39:06.960 they want their

04:39:07.600 best friend to live

04:39:08.700 this chapter of

04:39:09.920 their life

04:39:10.460 but I'm just not

04:39:11.580 going to let you

04:39:12.420 quite get away with

04:39:13.400 the pivot how are

04:39:14.940 you not trying to

04:39:15.980 give this man 50%

04:39:17.960 of your financial

04:39:19.040 burden he's not

04:39:20.160 actually responsible

04:39:21.220 for currently but

04:39:22.980 in the future he

04:39:23.760 will be based on

04:39:24.780 your choices you

04:39:26.220 are but that isn't

04:39:27.280 that what marriage 0.65

04:39:27.960 is isn't that what

04:39:29.140 I agree I agree

04:39:31.020 that it's okay for

04:39:32.060 you to share your

04:39:32.780 burdens with your

04:39:33.340 partner fine fair

04:39:34.860 that's totally fair

04:39:35.840 yeah I'm just

04:39:36.820 trying to ask what

04:39:37.980 your compensation for

04:39:39.500 giving this guy 50%

04:39:41.760 of the financial

04:39:43.240 burden he's not

04:39:44.020 responsible for

04:39:44.840 currently is what is

04:39:46.380 the offset to

04:39:47.280 that that's that

04:39:49.320 that you think is

04:39:50.200 worth it for a man 0.53

04:39:51.120 take on at least

04:39:52.680 50% of whatever

04:39:53.760 your current

04:39:54.400 financial burden

04:39:55.200 is well because

04:39:57.060 I'm because I'm

04:39:58.640 going to be with a

04:39:59.280 man that wants to

04:40:00.460 be with me and

04:40:02.240 that's we have that

04:40:03.360 same goal in mind

04:40:05.540 because we are

04:40:06.340 looking for that in

04:40:09.340 life I know what

04:40:11.000 you're trying to get

04:40:11.800 at but and you're

04:40:14.020 trying to make it

04:40:15.360 something tangible

04:40:16.360 and quantify it

04:40:18.060 maybe in a dollar

04:40:19.700 sign but it is

04:40:21.260 no like love is

04:40:22.960 not it's it's it's

04:40:25.160 something yeah I

04:40:25.940 think I think all of

04:40:27.060 these attributes that

04:40:28.340 you just stated are

04:40:29.180 quantifiable yes I

04:40:31.140 think that the

04:40:32.220 financial burden you

04:40:33.040 come with is totally

04:40:34.040 quantifiable I think

04:40:35.760 that the goals and

04:40:36.440 expectations that you

04:40:37.340 have totally

04:40:38.180 quantifiable so yes

04:40:39.540 of course we're

04:40:40.080 quantifying them

04:40:40.880 because why why

04:40:42.600 wouldn't you it's a

04:40:43.480 it's a risk assessment

04:40:44.480 right so from my

04:40:46.220 perspective I would

04:40:46.960 be looking at risk

04:40:47.760 assessment how much

04:40:49.400 is 50% of your life

04:40:51.020 worth is if it's x

04:40:53.140 amount of this amount

04:40:53.880 of money then that's

04:40:54.700 going to mean x

04:40:55.340 amount of this amount

04:40:56.020 of time for me so if

04:40:57.600 that's the case I

04:40:59.740 would still want some

04:41:00.580 sort of offset for

04:41:01.720 that you're not now

04:41:02.920 if you were banking on

04:41:03.760 religion I would say

04:41:04.720 sure absolutely in a

04:41:07.380 religious connotation

04:41:08.960 that's not going to

04:41:10.300 matter as much but

04:41:11.500 you're not banking on

04:41:12.400 religion you you said

04:41:13.800 you that you're just

04:41:14.500 spiritual so if this

04:41:16.040 is simply transactional

04:41:18.060 either emotionally or

04:41:19.180 financially transactional

04:41:20.500 then I would like to

04:41:21.640 know what does he get

04:41:23.720 for 50% of your debt

04:41:26.080 and life I'd like to

04:41:27.740 know he gets my undying

04:41:29.940 love and attention and

04:41:31.180 affection okay all right

04:41:34.260 okay we have notes here

04:41:42.220 from Lori Lori you said

04:41:44.180 that you dated dated NBA

04:41:47.500 players slash rappers

04:41:49.840 yeah Celtics huh Celtics

04:41:55.000 Lakers you mean Celtics 1.00

04:41:56.900 did I say that shit wrong 1.00

04:41:59.540 that's embarrassing L in the 0.99

04:42:01.680 chat for Brian Celtics

04:42:03.600 that's what that's what

04:42:07.640 they're called right it's

04:42:08.680 Celtics Boston Celtics 0.99

04:42:11.820 damn that's that's rough 0.98

04:42:13.360 team that they were 0.99

04:42:17.940 supersonics no neither of

04:42:19.460 those teams supersonics is

04:42:21.880 that even a real team

04:42:22.660 that's a team isn't it no

04:42:25.120 that's not a team

04:42:25.920 supersonics I'm like 90%

04:42:29.560 sure it's not a team

04:42:30.460 the supersonics am I no I'm

04:42:35.640 like yeah I'd be surprised

04:42:38.080 that's like a TV show or

04:42:39.480 something sounds like we're

04:42:41.200 an American professional

04:42:42.300 basketball team based in 0.96

04:42:43.280 Seattle damn it god I'm old 0.95

04:42:46.020 when did they not be ice cube 0.98

04:42:49.120 today was a good day the

04:42:52.980 Lakers beat the supersonics 0.95

04:42:54.520 belt on the big fat fanny pulled 0.84

04:42:58.600 out the is that how that song

04:43:00.260 goes yeah I don't remember

04:43:02.220 oh my goodness okay I have a

04:43:06.060 question yeah okay so if my

04:43:10.440 opinion is that women look women 0.99

04:43:14.020 are more insecure I guess and

04:43:17.880 seek security and men are more

04:43:19.500 lustful and you know seek like

04:43:22.880 you know carnal knowledge so then

04:43:27.820 if women are looking for like 1.00

04:43:29.920 financially secure man so what what

04:43:35.180 is like equally valuable if not

04:43:37.640 sex or even if it is sex to a

04:43:40.380 man does that make sense can you

04:43:43.780 repeat that one more time I'm so

04:43:45.380 bad at explaining things okay so

04:43:47.800 if if women are looking for 0.97

04:43:52.100 financially secure men what in

04:43:55.000 exchange would be of equal value to

04:43:58.180 a man if that's a good question

04:44:01.620 then that's your answer if it's not

04:44:04.160 that's a good question thank you I

04:44:06.020 have a list but Andrew maybe wants

04:44:09.140 to chime in and then I'll I'll read my

04:44:12.060 list there's probably three big

04:44:18.440 primary things that at least I would

04:44:21.680 say from the from the Christian 0.69

04:44:24.660 perspective that we would want and I

04:44:26.500 can't speak to the secular 0.98

04:44:29.660 perspective too well because I think

04:44:31.880 that they have different standards but

04:44:33.200 I think that they would generally kind

04:44:34.560 of agree with us I think that men

04:44:37.080 essentially want peace in their home

04:44:39.000 they want their woman to anticipate 0.99

04:44:41.560 their needs this is a big one that

04:44:44.660 people forget about all the time the

04:44:46.600 best way you can show a man respect is

04:44:49.100 to understand and anticipate the things

04:44:51.540 that he wants before he even knows

04:44:53.840 that he wants them and the way that

04:44:56.600 that shows respect and the way that

04:44:58.100 that shows that you love him is because

04:45:00.500 if you can anticipate those things he

04:45:02.880 knows that you're paying attention to

04:45:04.200 him very closely so you're the focus

04:45:06.940 and then the third thing is you have

04:45:08.960 to put him above your own needs and

04:45:11.700 your own desires and number three is

04:45:14.120 the thing that I think women at least 1.00

04:45:16.520 in modernity fail out the most they

04:45:18.700 want men to put them up on some kind of 1.00

04:45:21.880 pedestal so I've heard this explained

04:45:24.000 this way that women are trained from 1.00

04:45:27.360 birth now how they deserve to be treated 0.87

04:45:30.180 and men are trained from birth how

04:45:34.840 they're supposed to treat women but 1.00

04:45:37.240 nobody is trained from birth for how

04:45:39.660 they're supposed to treat men and this 1.00

04:45:42.740 is a this is a massive problem because

04:45:46.360 the truth is is that men know how to 0.62

04:45:48.220 treat other men because we're in their

04:45:49.520 company all the time but women seem to 1.00

04:45:51.440 fucking suck at it and I don't think 1.00

04:45:53.940 that that was always the case but I 1.00

04:45:56.140 think it's it's due to the standard of

04:45:58.600 how it is that they think they deserve

04:46:01.260 to be treated by men without ever

04:46:03.100 adhering to the standard of how they

04:46:04.540 think men deserve to be treated

04:46:06.240 well put Andrew well put so your

04:46:12.680 question is if women are looking for 1.00

04:46:14.240 XYZ things what are men looking for 0.64

04:46:18.800 sure yeah so I mean there's there's a

04:46:23.300 looks component but I mean to bring it

04:46:25.220 more so to the characteristics and

04:46:27.300 traits that she's being bringing I 0.59

04:46:30.060 would say the three biggest one is

04:46:34.180 peace one is femininity and then

04:46:39.280 what's the best framing for this last

04:46:44.540 one I would say sexual purity those

04:46:51.520 three things so if said woman was to 1.00

04:46:56.820 bring those things either of your

04:46:58.920 guys's things then would that justify a

04:47:02.540 man being like financially supporting the

04:47:06.820 woman in the way that she would ideally

04:47:09.160 want if it's yeah well I mean I can speak

04:47:12.020 from my experience that that's exactly

04:47:13.600 what I did and I took on what would be

04:47:17.640 considered to be extreme burdens by many

04:47:21.980 other men and I was happy to do so

04:47:26.220 it's as long as I can have those three

04:47:29.600 qualia the three that I stated I'm a

04:47:33.440 very happy man and I'm a very content

04:47:35.400 man Andrew is there a term I didn't

04:47:38.600 mean to cut you off there Andrew but is

04:47:40.040 there a term help help me help made

04:47:44.720 what is that like help made help help

04:47:49.120 me am I let me google this I'm not sure

04:47:52.340 if I'm oh I don't know where I'm getting

04:47:56.380 this freaking term from help well so

04:48:00.700 like I think when going back to this

04:48:02.780 conversation about like women's careers

04:48:04.240 and stuff at least from my point of view

04:48:06.640 I'm thinking so if I have a partner and

04:48:11.060 this is one of the values that I think a

04:48:12.380 woman can bring to my life so if she can 1.00

04:48:15.560 alleviate certain things in my life that

04:48:18.220 make my life easier and in so doing I

04:48:22.580 guess let's say her earning potential is 1.00

04:48:26.020 seventy thousand dollars a year my earning

04:48:28.240 potential is five million dollars a year

04:48:31.240 if she can alleviate my time so that I

04:48:35.380 can boost my income by ten percent

04:48:37.840 wouldn't it make the most sense that she

04:48:41.340 just stays at home and supports me in all

04:48:43.700 the ways that she can support me and I can

04:48:45.840 bring in an extra hundred or two hundred

04:48:47.520 thousand dollars a year versus her

04:48:49.800 working a full-time job to make 70k when

04:48:54.480 she could help me make a hundred two hundred 0.95

04:48:56.880 extra 100 200k extra a year by staying

04:49:01.260 home and helping me and helping me in my

04:49:03.940 mission I wonder if this is even the

04:49:06.140 right way to look at it but before I weigh

04:49:08.280 in I'll let the the gals answer help 1.00

04:49:11.320 mate oh have them answer what my thing

04:49:15.780 yeah yeah well I was just my only thing

04:49:19.980 is is I think in in this is due to

04:49:24.660 practical experience of course I don't

04:49:26.360 have enough data to make this claim as

04:49:29.360 being something which is solid but this

04:49:31.820 is just from kind of a mixture of

04:49:34.600 anecdote and then what I perceive men

04:49:38.580 will go through absolute hell hell on

04:49:42.220 earth in order to take care of their

04:49:45.500 women and their family if they just have 1.00

04:49:48.180 this kind of minimum threshold which is

04:49:50.080 given to them and the thing is is that

04:49:52.660 there's so much willfulness it's almost

04:49:55.240 like what happens is if you give somebody

04:49:57.460 too much they just begin to expect more

04:50:00.840 and more and more and I think that is

04:50:03.340 what has happened in modernity with

04:50:05.200 women is that even kind of these basic 1.00

04:50:08.080 things like the idea that Brian says

04:50:10.280 well I'd like a woman to bow after I get 1.00

04:50:12.540 out of the fucking mines and I go off with 1.00

04:50:15.260 coal all over my face and I just brought 1.00

04:50:17.920 home two hundred thousand dollars this 1.00

04:50:20.080 year this fucking bitch can't make some 1.00

04:50:22.120 noodles for me what the fuck that's the 1.00

04:50:24.320 thing right it's like it's a legitimate 0.98

04:50:27.700 criticism in many ways because what's

04:50:30.500 really being said here is like look at

04:50:32.400 everything I'm bringing to the table and

04:50:34.800 I every day day in day out and I don't 0.98

04:50:37.320 complain no bitch I don't whine and I 1.00

04:50:39.960 ask for such a small amount and even then 0.99

04:50:42.820 we have to quibble about it and that's

04:50:45.200 really what that's about right the bow has

04:50:47.240 nothing to do with anything other than

04:50:50.620 just show me that I actually matter and

04:50:54.460 that all of modernity which kisses women's 1.00

04:50:57.340 asses even though it's built on the backs 1.00

04:50:59.180 of men that you actually respect the fact

04:51:02.080 that that's done and that's all that's

04:51:04.300 really being asked and so I almost wonder

04:51:07.660 if even this is the wrong way to look at

04:51:09.480 it right the way that Brian looks at it I 0.98

04:51:12.620 think that women should be fucking grateful 1.00

04:51:14.540 they should be grateful they live in the 0.99

04:51:17.720 best society ever and it's all built on

04:51:20.340 the backs of not them the air

04:51:23.180 conditioning which enables them to even

04:51:25.020 exist everything which allows them to

04:51:28.620 exist in modernity is built by men and 0.99

04:51:31.040 they're the most ungrateful snot-nosed 0.99

04:51:33.500 brats about it that you've ever seen and 0.98

04:51:36.400 there's really no cause for it because

04:51:38.020 they bring nothing to the table none of

04:51:40.440 them including the old bags here who

04:51:43.260 bring nothing to the table by their own 1.00

04:51:45.120 admission except their pussy and that to 1.00

04:51:47.940 me is why and when asked this is all you 1.00

04:51:52.220 get I bring love and affection you don't 0.99

04:51:54.720 bring shit to the table and that's why 1.00

04:51:57.120 you can't even answer the damn question 1.00

04:51:58.880 no matter how many times we ask it and 0.99

04:52:01.420 it makes me sick because that is

04:52:03.380 modernity

04:52:04.120 well first of all I don't know if that is

04:52:16.400 being addressed to Asia and I or being

04:52:19.080 addressed to women in general but you did

04:52:21.060 point us out however you have no clue like

04:52:24.880 good what do you bring to the table 1.00

04:52:26.680 besides your vagina give me give me a real 1.00

04:52:29.300 example if you want a man to take care of 1.00

04:52:31.660 you for the rest of your life what do you 1.00

04:52:33.380 bring to the table except your vagina and a 1.00

04:52:35.240 bunch of baggage I'm bringing a lot I like 1.00

04:52:38.920 I said earlier if you're listening let's

04:52:40.640 start with the bag and then we'll move on

04:52:42.720 to the awesome stuff you bring let's start

04:52:44.320 with the bag donated $100 Wilson well said

04:52:48.300 all right thank you negative 100 he wants

04:52:52.620 to start with the baggage first okay my

04:52:55.760 baggage personally yeah well I have three

04:52:59.240 kids I was in a marriage for 20 years and

04:53:03.720 basically that's it I'm I'm that's it

04:53:06.940 that's that's they do you realize how

04:53:09.640 monumental what you just said was that

04:53:11.720 you have three children and most of your

04:53:14.220 life was taken by another man for 20 years

04:53:16.660 you can't give another man children what 1.00

04:53:18.800 are you bringing to the table really I I've

04:53:21.900 never dated a man anyways that wants more 0.54

04:53:24.580 children and second of all I'm not looking

04:53:27.640 for a man to marry I'm I would like to

04:53:30.820 have a companion and if I do find the

04:53:33.080 right man I'll marry again however I'm not

04:53:35.920 out there searching for a man to care for

04:53:37.960 me you're not she is but if you're not

04:53:43.460 then what else are you bringing to the

04:53:44.820 relationship besides again just your 1.00

04:53:46.680 vagina really like what are you really 1.00

04:53:49.180 bringing to into a man that he's just 0.99

04:53:51.220 really gonna desire what makes you so

04:53:53.100 special that you stand out besides this

04:53:55.500 one attribute honestly honestly I'm gonna

04:53:59.580 say I'm a great cook great cleaner I know

04:54:03.760 how to communicate well and I know how to

04:54:08.880 please a man yeah and the men that you

04:54:11.400 end up with have to be exceptional they

04:54:13.200 have to be exceptional in their field or

04:54:14.640 they can't bring home the kind of money

04:54:16.540 which would be required to take care of

04:54:19.100 you and whatever the graduation gifts for

04:54:20.940 your kids are well whatever the whatever

04:54:23.400 the whatever the things are which are

04:54:25.060 necessary to move over to the resources

04:54:27.720 to your children your offspring right I've

04:54:30.220 dated men that make less money than me and

04:54:32.060 I never had a problem with that at all

04:54:33.680 well you're not with them for a reason

04:54:35.320 right well it had nothing to do with

04:54:38.440 financials sure I'm sure it didn't it just

04:54:41.040 happened to be a happenstance that they

04:54:42.880 made less than you and you're still not

04:54:44.140 with them right had nothing to do with the

04:54:46.800 reason why we're not together honestly

04:54:48.700 okay I believe you but in any case no I

04:54:55.000 don't really see much in the way of

04:54:57.200 attributes I don't think that either of

04:54:59.160 you are particularly stunning nothing

04:55:00.840 you're particularly funny don't think

04:55:02.560 you're particularly engaging and if you

04:55:04.620 can cook and clean great so can all the

04:55:07.240 20 year old girls who are sitting there

04:55:08.680 right next to you all of them so what

04:55:10.940 exactly are you bringing that so

04:55:12.820 monumental that offsets the baggage to

04:55:15.460 age to a relationship why somebody

04:55:17.720 should pick you that's the question and

04:55:20.120 it's not even to be mean it should just

04:55:22.160 be pointed it should just point out

04:55:24.040 something that's obvious to men and

04:55:26.200 that women just kind of pretend doesn't 1.00

04:55:28.480 exist well you can ask that question to

04:55:31.340 anybody man or woman right you can and

04:55:34.060 that's why I'm asking it to you yeah

04:55:36.020 well friendship if you find the right

04:55:39.680 match with the right person friendship

04:55:41.840 quality personality companionship someone

04:55:46.780 that you can laugh with someone that you

04:55:48.460 can share stories with yeah they can do

04:55:52.080 all that with a 25 year old activities

04:55:53.680 with and have fun with they can do all

04:55:55.180 that with a 25 year old you sure can you

04:55:57.720 sure can that's my point though it's like

04:55:59.880 so what do you really bring into the

04:56:01.720 table I can say the same thing I could

04:56:03.740 date a younger guy but I choose not to

04:56:06.340 because you're not on the same page like 1.00

04:56:08.620 mentally well hang on you can fuck a 1.00

04:56:11.040 younger guy that doesn't mean he's gonna 1.00

04:56:12.320 marry you true yeah and that's most

04:56:15.760 older women have this experience yeah 1.00

04:56:18.020 younger men will be stereotyping but

04:56:19.900 they ain't gonna marry him and they 0.95

04:56:21.160 ain't gonna be with them long term you

04:56:22.780 can't give them kids and so they end up

04:56:25.180 dumping you that's what happens in fact

04:56:26.820 this gal next to you said she had that

04:56:29.480 very experienced she dated a younger man

04:56:31.660 and he decided I you know I actually want

04:56:34.940 kids and you can't give them to me these

04:56:37.260 are some big that's all by the way all

04:56:39.580 of that is baggage all of it if I you

04:56:42.420 can't give them kids that's baggage if

04:56:44.200 you have kids that's baggage if you X Y 1.00

04:56:47.180 Z that's all baggage it's not just I

04:56:49.660 have an ex-husband and I have three

04:56:51.540 children it's I'm older that's baggage

04:56:55.060 one it's I have three children that's

04:56:57.060 baggage too I can't give you children

04:56:58.540 that's more baggage all of this is

04:57:00.680 baggage everybody has baggage at a

04:57:02.700 certain age and that's why I feel like

04:57:05.280 for me personally I like to date guys my

04:57:08.020 age because we probably have equal

04:57:11.160 amounts of baggage right I'm not gonna

04:57:13.440 be I don't think somebody that's a lot

04:57:15.940 younger than me that's gonna view me as

04:57:20.400 an older person with a lot of baggage 0.99

04:57:23.860 men your age in comparison to you are 0.94

04:57:27.620 going to be highly pursued by almost all

04:57:30.020 women in your age bracket most most of 1.00

04:57:32.900 them because they've accrued a ton of

04:57:34.320 resources so your dating competition is

04:57:36.680 even higher in your age bracket I would

04:57:39.280 argue than in the 20s right right yeah

04:57:42.960 so I mean the thing is you have to be

04:57:45.300 exceptional in your age bracket to net

04:57:47.600 these men because for one thing their

04:57:49.740 libido is way down right they're not 0.98

04:57:51.860 necessarily just looking at you for sex 0.76

04:57:54.000 like a lot of the younger men would be

04:57:55.600 and so that's one of the big netting

04:57:57.580 points that women have I'm young and 0.97

04:57:59.180 beautiful and all these men want to bang 1.00

04:58:01.560 me and that's a big netting point a big 0.71

04:58:03.860 selling point men in your age bracket

04:58:05.540 their libido goes significantly down

04:58:07.600 now you got to actually bring something

04:58:08.780 to the table that's why women in your 1.00

04:58:10.100 age bracket have such a hard time netting

04:58:13.100 a good quality man right am I wrong no I

04:58:16.560 hear you and our dating pool so much

04:58:18.680 smaller than one way smaller yeah way

04:58:22.040 slim pickings slim so that's that's why

04:58:26.680 it's not I'm not asking these questions

04:58:28.700 to be mean or cruel to you I'm asking

04:58:31.820 them pointedly because I understand that

04:58:33.640 in your age bracket the dating market is

04:58:35.340 even more vicious in many cases than it

04:58:37.280 is for younger people your options are

04:58:39.720 way slimmer and you have to be

04:58:41.380 exceptional to stand out to men who 1.00

04:58:43.420 don't just value you for your vagina 1.00

04:58:45.560 which younger men do right and so when I 0.99

04:58:48.260 ask these questions what do you bring to

04:58:49.600 the table that's what I'm asking it for

04:58:51.460 so what do you now that you understand

04:58:54.060 what do you bring to the table I just

04:58:56.560 told you earlier go ahead and tell me

04:58:59.040 again friendship good personality someone

04:59:03.120 to talk to someone to support I would

04:59:06.040 definitely support him emotionally good

04:59:09.400 conversation a buddy to go places with

04:59:13.160 to travel to hang out and what makes

04:59:16.000 those qualities late nights sure what

04:59:18.580 makes those qualities exceptional in

04:59:20.520 comparison to other women in your same 1.00

04:59:22.020 age bracket I'm a good listener and I'm

04:59:24.880 down to earth I'm not fake or phony

04:59:26.560 okay wait all right I'm I'm 0.99

04:59:30.260 do you have fake titties I'm not fake 0.99

04:59:38.120 or phony on the inside oh oh my god I'm 1.00

04:59:40.540 so sorry well didn't you just hear him

04:59:43.420 our dating pool is slim and picking so we

04:59:46.260 got to be above and beyond right touch

04:59:48.660 but you said you're not fake but I'm

04:59:51.460 talking personality wise internally

04:59:54.280 sorry yeah you know what I'm talking

04:59:56.780 about sorry sorry

04:59:57.840 crickets yeah cue the crickets it's

05:00:08.020 right well it's a it's actually an

05:00:09.400 interesting phenomenon you know if I

05:00:12.340 were to ever start a dating show I think

05:00:14.400 I would probably focus mostly on 45 to

05:00:17.380 55 even to early 60s people the reason 0.93

05:00:20.580 is is because the dating market there I

05:00:23.720 have so many people reach out to in this

05:00:26.360 age GMD Jim donated $99 Andrew Wilson

05:00:30.940 nailing IT again we can hire a cook house 1.00

05:00:34.920 cleaner and escort if so desired we also

05:00:38.240 have friends what makes all that baggage

05:00:41.160 worth IT yeah I was just I was just kind

05:00:44.080 of going to dive into this but the number

05:00:46.640 one complaint that I hear from men in

05:00:49.340 this age bracket in their 50s especially

05:00:51.400 it's like look my libido is way down I

05:00:55.840 don't value women anymore the same way I 0.95

05:00:57.980 did in my 20s where I wanted to have sex

05:01:00.000 every single day you know multiple times

05:01:03.040 a day in many cases this type of thing

05:01:04.880 right women in their 20s old man marine 1.00

05:01:08.460 donated $100 Andrew you're amazing

05:01:12.480 ex-wife never satisfied never happy or

05:01:15.740 grateful even toe I made more money

05:01:17.800 every year vacations jewelry health

05:01:20.720 ends for four of us she thinks she can

05:01:23.340 do better now she broke yeah that's a

05:01:26.340 very common story too but anyway yeah so

05:01:28.360 so this is what I hear commonly in this

05:01:30.780 age bracket is because I don't value those 0.99

05:01:33.360 things right the women that I'm looking 0.99

05:01:35.800 for they need to bring me one thing one

05:01:38.900 big quality which is that I don't have 0.99

05:01:42.140 to take care of all their bullshit and 0.99

05:01:45.360 and they they fracture my piece right 1.00

05:01:48.880 they fracture my piece and so what what

05:01:53.540 is the point of me having a companion 0.98

05:01:55.140 right if I'm only gonna have sex with 0.99

05:01:57.380 her you know once a week because my 0.99

05:01:59.260 libido is way down if she brings all 1.00

05:02:01.860 this baggage to the table that I then

05:02:03.880 have to deal with that's a number one

05:02:05.900 complaint that I hear and that makes a

05:02:08.060 lot of sense to me men in their 50s not

05:02:10.820 gonna be boning as much as men in their

05:02:12.360 20s makes total sense women in their 1.00

05:02:14.720 50s course they they can still you know

05:02:17.180 have the the same kind of libido but it

05:02:19.280 goes down for them too and so they're

05:02:21.800 asking what is me me as an established

05:02:24.600 man in my 50s let's say I have all these 0.95

05:02:28.080 resources why the fuck should I share 0.98

05:02:29.920 them with her and I don't have a great 0.94

05:02:33.340 answer to that what is what are the

05:02:36.020 things that they're bringing to the

05:02:38.040 table where you should share those

05:02:39.720 resources with them and every time I

05:02:42.340 ask the women this they kind of come up

05:02:43.940 with the same type of answers well I'm

05:02:45.320 funny I'm cute I'm snarky I'm quirky I

05:02:47.860 have all these different things but

05:02:48.940 they're like all of them are like that

05:02:50.460 and so this this is kind of where I end

05:02:53.780 up you know

05:02:54.640 just kind of trying to understand right

05:03:00.500 I'm trying to understand from your

05:03:02.720 perspective what what are these things

05:03:06.060 really

05:03:06.460 well I'm not trying to be disrespectful to

05:03:12.160 men out there when I say this however I

05:03:14.320 feel like when men divorce it's very

05:03:16.380 different from when women divorce because 1.00

05:03:18.440 when men divorce are so quick to replace 0.83

05:03:21.580 their ex-wife because they want someone 0.98

05:03:24.480 to take care of them cook their dinner do

05:03:27.940 all the necessary wife stuff right but 1.00

05:03:30.340 for women when they divorce sometimes 0.98

05:03:32.040 they soar and they become a better

05:03:33.820 person they're more successful they're

05:03:36.360 able to focus more on themselves so I

05:03:38.980 feel like there's a codependency issue

05:03:40.620 here with men and women and I'm not

05:03:43.720 trying to disrespect or bash men oh yeah

05:03:45.700 of course they do they tend to do better

05:03:47.520 in divorces because they end up with the 0.89

05:03:49.260 man's income from the previous husband's

05:03:51.440 income they end up with his house

05:03:52.940 sometimes with child support they end up

05:03:55.300 with alimony so of course they end up

05:03:58.120 now by the way their income bracket

05:04:00.760 generally goes way down but they end up

05:04:03.100 doing better solo only because of these

05:04:05.060 factors that most of the time the court

05:04:06.660 rules in their favor and gives them the

05:04:08.600 allocation of those resources so men don't 1.00

05:04:11.360 usually have that advantage yeah but

05:04:14.160 putting the financials aside I'm saying

05:04:16.540 emotionally women are stronger single 1.00

05:04:21.740 than women than men are men feel like

05:04:24.760 they always need to be with a woman I feel 1.00

05:04:27.480 like after they lose a spouse or after

05:04:30.540 they go through a divorce that's my

05:04:33.260 experience with some of my friends and my

05:04:35.380 guy friends and relatives I feel like it's

05:04:38.040 always the men that are so quick to find a

05:04:40.660 replacement because they're scared because

05:04:43.040 the marriage rates don't show that they

05:04:45.160 show that the women remarry much faster 0.99

05:04:47.080 than men remarry almost like they had 0.97

05:04:49.420 other people in their sights to remarry

05:04:51.920 after they got the like in their pipeline

05:04:54.480 on the sidelines yeah exactly in their

05:04:56.680 pipeline so the thing is is like one I'm

05:04:59.760 not gonna agree that that's true and

05:05:01.720 two I've seen what happens when a man is 0.99

05:05:04.400 widowed in his 40s and in his 50s and it 0.98

05:05:07.120 is fucking ridiculous it's every predatory 0.99

05:05:10.220 woman in her 40s and 50s that exist on 1.00

05:05:13.400 planet earth coming out of the woodwork

05:05:15.040 before his wife's even in the ground 1.00

05:05:17.300 before they're she's even in the ground 0.99

05:05:20.060 I'm so sorry this happened oh because

05:05:23.660 now he's available the fight over

05:05:26.200 widowers is insanity yeah I've never seen

05:05:28.760 anything like it yeah you've seen it right

05:05:31.560 in your age bracket happens a lot they

05:05:33.900 go absolutely wild for me you know what

05:05:35.960 doesn't happen though that doesn't

05:05:37.780 happen to widows doesn't happen to 1.00

05:05:40.600 widows to say why do you think that is 1.00

05:05:42.240 I've seen widows okay I'm not saying all

05:05:44.320 the time it doesn't I'm just saying it

05:05:45.740 happens way more with widowers and I

05:05:48.380 think the reason it does is because a

05:05:50.460 widower is showing a bunch of these

05:05:52.200 qualities that women want quality one 1.00

05:05:54.480 that a widower is showing is I was with

05:05:56.580 my wife for the duration I'm a steadfast

05:05:59.480 individual right I wasn't leaving her she 0.84

05:06:02.400 had to die one hundred dollars BS divorced

05:06:06.240 here too the woman leaves in single after 1.00

05:06:09.900 two years she is taken and 50 50 child

05:06:13.520 support one thousand seven hundred and

05:06:15.860 fifty dollars per month equal time wrecked

05:06:19.460 all my assets and took half yeah not

05:06:22.480 shocked there but yeah so the the widower

05:06:25.080 is showing though I have all these

05:06:27.660 qualities you want I'm stalwart I'm

05:06:30.000 steadfast I stayed with my wife for the

05:06:32.040 duration she had to die or I wouldn't

05:06:33.780 even be separated from her right so he's

05:06:36.640 showing all the qualities that a woman

05:06:38.920 wants what's interesting is a widow

05:06:41.580 doesn't necessarily show that they have

05:06:44.020 those qualities just by virtue of the

05:06:46.840 man dying it's not a demonstration to

05:06:48.980 other men that those qualities are

05:06:50.400 present the same way it is in the

05:06:52.700 opposite direction I just wondered like

05:06:55.180 why do you think that is what do you

05:06:56.460 think you're why do you think it is

05:06:58.240 that they flock so much to widowers

05:06:59.860 instead of widows I'm not sure but I

05:07:03.880 mean back to the whole dating pool slim

05:07:06.200 pickings you know yeah but it's slim

05:07:12.320 pickings on both ends right correct yeah

05:07:15.280 so the thing is is that I would I would

05:07:17.400 I would have expected to see as many

05:07:20.360 shooters it's really interesting the

05:07:22.480 older you get as a man how many suitors

05:07:25.040 open up to you who are women if you want

05:07:27.260 them versus when you're younger the

05:07:29.060 opposite is true right that's where we

05:07:32.520 come up with these memes of like cat

05:07:34.020 lady and you know you're gonna die 1.00

05:07:36.660 alone and this type of thing it's

05:07:38.320 because men when they have tons of

05:07:40.080 resources they can just kind of have

05:07:41.440 their pick right that's true yeah that's

05:07:46.400 why we asked so I'm gonna bring it back

05:07:48.280 to what we were talking about I was

05:07:49.720 asking about you said you were involved

05:07:52.800 with NBA players yeah how did how did you

05:07:58.060 meet him well when I was like dancing

05:08:01.640 you're just in that environment I was

05:08:03.860 always in like outside at in LA going to

05:08:08.540 parties I've been to like I mean I feel

05:08:11.940 like anyone that lives in LA has probably

05:08:13.640 been to like Swaley's house that was like 0.98

05:08:15.860 a thing like five years ago who the fuck 0.99

05:08:18.400 is that guy yeah I was like I don't know 0.97

05:08:22.580 who Swaley is I actually don't if you

05:08:26.020 heard a song yeah I mean it doesn't matter

05:08:29.540 he's irrelevant now but it's like you

05:08:31.760 bring up the 80s daily song how about no

05:08:34.240 sing it for us no way but I feel like

05:08:37.360 that's just you know you're in that

05:08:39.040 environment you're around them did you

05:08:40.760 hook up with any NBA players no it was

05:08:42.520 when I was celibate I did date one though

05:08:44.100 for like eight months and we didn't do

05:08:45.240 anything or abstinent to be correct not

05:08:47.860 celibate is there a difference yeah

05:08:52.340 GMD Jim donated $99 what a load of 1.00

05:08:58.120 shite I am their age two cheating exes 0.99

05:09:01.760 gone I was loyal to both they were 1.00

05:09:04.780 fucking before were papers final dot I 0.98

05:09:07.140 have been single and celibate for 17 0.99

05:09:09.220 years single you've been celibate for 17

05:09:13.520 years Jim oh you gotta let that thing

05:09:17.380 loose just kidding Jim Jim Jim Jim Jim

05:09:25.980 congrats man congrats on your 17 years

05:09:29.440 of celibacy there must be cobwebs up in 0.99

05:09:32.020 that motherfucker but good for you Jim 0.99

05:09:36.060 I'm proud of you I'm proud of you Jim 0.99

05:09:37.820 thank you for the TTS sir you did an NBA

05:09:44.280 player for eight how long eight months 1.00

05:09:46.840 yeah no pussy no BJ's nope pussy eating 1.00

05:09:52.620 nope NBA player aren't these guys like 1.00

05:09:56.800 known for just being dogs um no offense

05:09:59.900 NBA players he was Christian his mom was

05:10:02.100 nice he wait his mom was nice yeah my his

05:10:05.900 mom did he know you used to be a he knew

05:10:09.600 that I yeah he knew that I was dancing at

05:10:11.640 that time oh you were dancing at the time

05:10:13.380 good Christian boy but it's also like he 1.00

05:10:17.040 was in LA and that's just kind of I think

05:10:19.720 like what they what's the percentage of

05:10:22.100 strippers in LA yeah a lot it's less than 0.92

05:10:26.160 one percent for sure that's a lie you think

05:10:29.620 more than one person it's pretty it's

05:10:31.060 probably like point zero one percent

05:10:33.120 our girl strippers in LA is way more than 1.00

05:10:36.500 what percentage of women in LA are 1.00

05:10:38.540 strippers then ten percent well I shut no 0.99

05:10:42.160 fucking way you know it's like five here 0.99

05:10:44.940 you guys only have one strip club and 0.99

05:10:46.460 then the next one is Oxnard so you have to

05:10:48.600 think like that's two clubs they probably

05:10:50.440 what percentage of women in LA are 1.00

05:10:52.160 strippers look it up yeah I don't know 0.77

05:10:54.360 like probably around like 30 30 percent

05:10:57.340 you have to realize that there is like

05:11:00.440 the education system that failed us

05:11:02.180 people that you don't even expect are

05:11:04.860 like strippers I'm sorry 30 percent of

05:11:08.940 women are not half of the girls that are 1.00

05:11:11.800 like on Instagram just living their best 0.72

05:11:13.840 life are strippers like I would run into 0.98

05:11:15.440 them at the club and I'd be like I 0.88

05:11:17.040 thought you were like a dental assistant

05:11:18.740 30 percent of women why don't you look it 1.00

05:11:22.640 on Google maybe sex workers but not

05:11:25.140 not even sex work hold on not even

05:11:27.620 sex workers in LA you have to every not 1.00

05:11:32.180 30 percent you have to think sex work

05:11:34.120 LA is a massive city hold on population

05:11:36.880 percent of LA oh well hold on their city

05:11:41.440 of Los Angeles 3.8 mil but let me do let's 0.97

05:11:44.400 just do LA County which is fucking massive 0.94

05:11:46.440 population 10 million also there's so 0.95

05:11:52.120 many people that work in LA that are

05:11:53.640 strippers that don't live there I didn't 0.99

05:11:54.780 live in LA 30 percent of women are 0.94

05:11:56.660 strippers that work in LA no way no way 1.00

05:12:00.540 there's no way there's there's girls that

05:12:03.220 drive from like Vegas to dance in LA them 0.99

05:12:06.920 them motherfuckers live in Vegas but they 1.00

05:12:09.700 still like I lived in Thousand Oaks I 1.00

05:12:11.360 still worked in Los Angeles shout out

05:12:13.120 Thousand Oaks wait what so sad but I

05:12:15.600 still what's it called I still live I

05:12:17.960 mean worked in LA for 30 percent so

05:12:20.980 what percent are porn stars do you count

05:12:24.800 OnlyFans girls sure no sure I don't know 0.99

05:12:27.200 I don't a lot I would run into a lot of 0.90

05:12:29.420 porn stars at the strip club what percent

05:12:31.160 of what percent of men in LA are NBA

05:12:34.360 players I don't know how many live there

05:12:37.080 how many work there I mean what the

05:12:38.700 Lakers and the Celtics that work there

05:12:40.180 but they don't most of them don't live

05:12:43.080 there okay yeah I didn't yeah oh not

05:12:47.900 Celtics the Clippers Clippers yeah okay

05:12:51.100 well anyways so to 30 percent so I guess I

05:12:58.120 was just confused like Christian good

05:13:00.600 Christian boy NBA player at this time I

05:13:04.860 was dancing but I wasn't like dancing like

05:13:06.940 that consistently because I at this time

05:13:09.720 was he benched no he was actually at the

05:13:13.040 time what do they call it like if you're

05:13:14.140 the main one of the main he was one of

05:13:15.840 yeah he was a starter starter thank you

05:13:18.860 starter what's his name I'm not gonna do

05:13:24.840 that you also dated rappers yeah how many

05:13:30.500 rappers did you date like actually gone on

05:13:35.780 several dates with like two names um sing a

05:13:43.860 song by them sing a song rap a song I don't

05:13:47.280 even listen to secular music I can't think

05:13:49.020 of anything like that right now um I mean

05:13:53.000 I'll say one I I like one on a couple dates

05:13:55.940 with like one take J but he's not really

05:13:57.680 like a big rapper like that okay and I'll

05:14:00.360 say that because he's like a nobody sure

05:14:02.160 okay um you said the any dating topics you

05:14:08.200 wanted to speak on the mentality you have 0.83

05:14:09.760 dating a sex as a sex worker versus being

05:14:12.440 saved by Jesus yeah or just the mentality

05:14:17.000 that what that woman women now in society 1.00

05:14:20.440 have about what a high-value man is you

05:14:24.080 want to elaborate a bit on yeah just more

05:14:27.280 so like what I think the idea women have 1.00

05:14:31.460 of like what a high-value man is now and

05:14:33.800 like how they think that I feel like we've

05:14:35.960 kind of been talking about it already

05:14:37.120 tonight about what you think a man should

05:14:39.440 provide for you and do for you um especially

05:14:41.640 in like today's society because I think

05:14:44.760 it's very skewed to a lot of girls think 0.67

05:14:47.600 that they should be just provided for

05:14:49.700 because they are attractive and they can 0.72

05:14:53.200 have sex with someone when that's really 0.86

05:14:54.880 not like the case 0.98

05:14:55.880 okay um and then the mentality you have

05:15:04.320 dating as a sex worker versus being saved

05:15:06.500 by Jesus so pretty much just like waiting 0.99

05:15:08.100 to have sex or it will yeah I mean well 0.98

05:15:11.160 she's gone now but kind of like how she 0.79

05:15:13.720 wants to save herself for a marriage is 0.99

05:15:15.480 something that I think that thought

05:15:19.180 process came more into my head once I

05:15:21.340 did find like my value more in finding

05:15:24.380 faith Hillary Epstein donated $200 sure

05:15:29.280 ask them how much money a man has to

05:15:31.400 make to qualify for them if you haven't

05:15:33.620 already and compare that to the mean

05:15:35.940 median and range of Los Angeles bring it

05:15:39.320 down to reality okay um yeah we'll do

05:15:43.120 that really quick uh how much money does

05:15:46.080 a man have to make to qualify for you 0.94

05:15:49.140 starting with you um right now like

05:15:54.140 realistically because I'm 26 my

05:15:55.780 boyfriend's 26 like near a hundred

05:15:58.000 thousand a year okay what about you

05:16:00.200 um living in Los Angeles was the

05:16:04.920 question no or wherever I don't know

05:16:07.960 wherever you live I guess I mean I

05:16:11.240 would say at least at least a 500,000

05:16:14.400 come again hold on wait so for you you

05:16:22.640 want to guide I mean I don't really

05:16:23.860 know as long as like our lifestyle and

05:16:25.800 our our goals are in alignment so bare

05:16:29.120 minimum I just but not I mean definitely

05:16:31.860 six figures is the bare minimum but you

05:16:34.180 said like 500,000 that's what I make

05:16:36.700 yeah you make 500,000 no no but I make

05:16:40.020 at least six figures I make six yeah

05:16:42.140 how much I mean make close to 200,000

05:16:46.380 a year but you said you want 500,000

05:16:50.500 yeah I mean at least somewhat on my

05:16:52.140 level but I think 500,000 is a good

05:16:54.080 lifestyle that like two and a half times

05:16:56.200 your level I think it's a good

05:16:58.280 lifestyle well wouldn't yeah dating a

05:17:01.780 billionaire would be a good lifestyle

05:17:03.100 sure you're gonna snag a billionaire

05:17:05.620 is Andrew here Andrew I don't know if

05:17:12.400 I'm just I'm just in awe I'm just

05:17:15.980 listening I know that guy said he was a

05:17:17.920 multimillionaire and he'd rather be with

05:17:19.500 a 52 year old with a son but a young

05:17:22.680 girl so there are men out there I think

05:17:25.360 you missed the part that message he was

05:17:28.180 said he was joking it was sarcastic oh

05:17:30.740 okay so wait you wanted okay well hold

05:17:35.220 on we gotta go around the table first

05:17:36.500 income for your now you're young right

05:17:40.840 but I want to frame it like this is

05:17:43.540 gonna be maybe you're in your mid to

05:17:45.100 late 20s this is gonna be the guy that

05:17:46.840 you're gonna marry how much do you want 0.89

05:17:49.180 him to make realistically probably

05:17:51.440 anywhere between like 85 to 100 like if

05:17:53.660 you say I were to be in like my mid 20s

05:17:55.120 sure I would rather have a guy that's

05:17:58.820 like debt-free I want a simple life but

05:18:02.700 if you're gonna put a number on it I'm

05:18:05.540 gonna say probably 100k okay this is just

05:18:10.300 desired salary for like once mid to late

05:18:14.520 20s the guy you're gonna marry I would

05:18:16.640 agree like 85 to like 110 okay like 70

05:18:21.480 sorry it's like 70 80 okay probably six

05:18:27.660 figures because I do want to have kids

05:18:29.240 in my 20s all right and you want to stay

05:18:32.380 at home yeah okay what about you I don't

05:18:35.580 really expect someone in their late 20s to

05:18:38.520 have it all but I think maybe like 70 to

05:18:42.240 80 to start what would you want assuming

05:18:46.140 his career trajectory at the peak of his

05:18:50.220 career what do you anticipate the man that

05:18:53.640 you're gonna be with earning it's a hard

05:18:56.680 question I honestly don't know what would

05:19:01.420 you know maybe a hundred K okay at least

05:19:04.560 all right and you said a hundred K was

05:19:07.960 the yeah 500k isn't 500k like that's

05:19:13.400 1% I would say 1% because I would say at

05:19:18.160 least a million dollars for retirement so

05:19:21.140 we can live in Europe wait when you think

05:19:23.080 that's I don't think it's a number amount

05:19:25.340 that he has to make but I think per year

05:19:27.760 no no no I think we need at least a

05:19:29.980 million dollars a million dollar nest egg

05:19:31.960 you mean yeah a million dollar each to

05:19:34.360 live a really nice life in Europe

05:19:36.420 where so so it's not so it's not really a

05:19:43.220 salary requirement you want a man who has 0.99

05:19:45.900 a million dollars worth of retirement and

05:19:48.900 at least yeah yeah so that he can take

05:19:51.820 you to Europe and you can live off I would

05:19:53.540 match that too so but you don't have a

05:19:57.040 million dollars in retirement what you

05:19:59.600 have a million dollars worth of retirement

05:20:01.220 nest egg really I have half of it well

05:20:05.300 okay but that's not a million dollar

05:20:07.000 retirement but it but when I'm ready to

05:20:09.980 retire I'll have close to it no but the

05:20:13.000 question was per year and you said 500,000

05:20:16.000 right that's a good start I mean a man

05:20:20.140 who's making five hundred thousand dollars

05:20:21.820 a year is likely gonna far exceed I mean

05:20:26.560 these are top this top top one percent

05:20:28.920 five hundred thousand dollars plus a year

05:20:31.200 top one percent yeah wouldn't that but

05:20:34.100 but within five hundred thousand dollars a

05:20:36.240 year you're gonna far exceed a million

05:20:39.000 million dollars Giovanni donated one hundred

05:20:42.240 dollars she preached degeneracy prostitution 1.00

05:20:45.540 and complete heresy all night refused

05:20:48.700 financial restitution for her sins

05:20:51.240 Christianity isn't a fun lap you can 0.94

05:20:54.000 just go opt GTFO of my church repent demon 0.96

05:20:58.480 do you want to respond to Giovanni oh sorry

05:21:04.080 that was my that was my hands I was doing

05:21:06.860 this my bad that's a LARP like pretend oh I

05:21:12.320 didn't really get the question but no I

05:21:16.280 know who I am okay yeah I was just saying

05:21:22.100 these are these are wildly high numbers

05:21:25.000 in your your average income earner who's a

05:21:27.960 man if if he's in the middle class gonna be

05:21:30.940 70k a year and that's a pretty good living to

05:21:34.640 be honest with you you can raise and there's

05:21:36.840 a common misconception because people want

05:21:39.360 to live in these extra extraordinarily

05:21:42.620 expensive cities like Santa Barbara Los

05:21:44.960 Angeles they don't want to go to places 1.00

05:21:47.040 where the weather isn't quite so good right

05:21:49.260 but you can raise a family pretty comfortably

05:21:51.520 in the Midwest on seventy thousand dollars a

05:21:53.620 year you can own a home on seventy thousand

05:21:55.560 dollars a year own two cars on seventy thousand

05:21:57.720 dollars a year if you budget correctly that's

05:21:59.980 going to be in the income bracket of most

05:22:02.060 people right even under in fifty five thousand

05:22:05.720 a year you might live a slightly worse life

05:22:08.060 you know kind of from a subjective standpoint

05:22:11.840 but you can still live but moving into kind of

05:22:15.020 this idea if I want a man who has a million

05:22:16.800 dollar nest egg to take me to Europe doesn't

05:22:19.100 that sound like fan fiction right doesn't that

05:22:22.680 sound almost you know almost insane to say at

05:22:26.880 your age that you expect a man with a million

05:22:29.300 dollar nest egg take you to Europe to give you

05:22:31.360 your happily ever after that's not delusional to

05:22:34.240 you nope and the person that commented that I

05:22:38.180 was a chubby old Asian woman I'm not chubby 0.99

05:22:40.640 this dress is not doing me any favors in these

05:22:44.860 camera angles but I'm not chubby well I'm not

05:22:48.080 an old Asian lady I'm not making any claims to

05:22:50.920 your physical appearance I'm and well you called

05:22:53.160 us an old bag and you're responding to a chatter

05:22:55.420 I get that but you called us an old bag that is

05:22:58.760 that was rude an old bag you're fifty three years

05:23:04.040 old fifty fifty two you're so so unless I don't 0.98

05:23:07.860 think that's old to explain to explain this to you if

05:23:10.940 you were to live to a hundred I'm sorry if you were

05:23:13.980 to live to a hundred and four you would be at half of

05:23:17.580 your life right now do you understand that yeah okay so

05:23:23.180 you're not you're not you're not you're not young

05:23:25.800 and I'm not young either and I'm much younger than

05:23:28.700 you and I'm not young the thing is is like look I'm just

05:23:31.840 being realistic here at 52 years old to expect that a man's

05:23:36.300 going to come in and give you a million dollar nest egg to

05:23:39.820 take you to Europe for the rest of your life you don't think

05:23:41.860 that that's slightly delusional considering the average

05:23:45.220 income of most men most men by the way in your age bracket are

05:23:49.380 on a social security fixed income retirement most of them like

05:23:55.340 you're looking for the top top tier here wait how old are you

05:24:00.720 willing to date like what's the oldest guy you date 59 I date well

05:24:10.640 actually I've dated men up to 62 but I'm I'm like usually like seven

05:24:20.640 years seven to ten years older I'm can go up to but honestly again it's

05:24:29.880 really the person you know we're on you said 500k we're on the

05:24:33.800 same like we want the same lifestyle we I've met them they're out there I don't

05:24:40.200 think I'm delusional and you and we can we do the calculator the calculator

05:24:44.680 we'll do the calculator because I think it'd be helpful to figure out like what

05:24:50.480 percentage of men that you're looking for fall into this category we'll do the

05:24:55.100 calculator it's always it's interesting yeah we're ready we're ready all right

05:25:00.240 scroll down female delusion calculator oh my goodness age range of men you'd be

05:25:05.200 willing to date so well I date men my up to 10 years older than okay so Nick put

05:25:12.680 62 at the max age you would date up to 62 yeah okay minimum age of 47 47 okay I'm

05:25:24.700 assuming exclude men who are already married right right okay exclude married

05:25:29.400 uh race any race preference or I know white black Asian no do that okay minimum 1.00

05:25:36.200 height a five nine is my minimum usually just okay I'll tell you five six okay

05:25:42.880 exclude obese sure okay minimum income you're gonna just have to max that to put

05:25:50.180 it to 500k okay okay scroll down a little bit can you yeah okay find out all right

05:25:56.560 wait wait did we break it the probability of a guy

05:26:03.120 hold on we'll bring it back

05:26:06.240 then I'll just live in my delusion hold on so it's 0.031 percent uh of men that you in

05:26:20.860 this range that make that much money you want to hide andrew for a sec um okay thanks for

05:26:30.300 showing me that how many is that uh not a lot a leg not a lot okay um andrew had to take a smoke break

05:26:45.480 or some or while he can smoke okay it wasn't a smoke break um 500k though really that's a lot

05:26:53.580 200k not good you want to do 200k show me the probability of 200k it's probably not great but we

05:27:03.460 can do it Nick can you just go back you can pull it up you can pull it up I think you just hit the back

05:27:07.960 button it should show should be able to that's one way to go back um

05:27:13.220 I keyed I keyed uh

05:27:17.600 half that yeah we can do half that scroll down

05:27:22.820 uh 0.14 percent is that less

05:27:28.100 is that more okay 0.14 it was like 0.38 though it was 0.38 there's like a song from this what's 0.90

05:27:39.480 his name that comedian oh shit lower your expectations a little forgot his name 0.94

05:27:44.660 bo burnham thank you Nick w Nick w Nick uh nope no thank you not lower your expectations nope 0.98

05:27:53.580 what about there's some have your opinion there's a lot of great guys who make 70k a year

05:28:02.700 you wouldn't date a guy who makes 70k a year not my guy why

05:28:06.720 old man marine donated 100 she's manifesting andrew any negative thoughts no matter how delusional

05:28:16.560 the universe will answer her i roll 0.53

05:28:19.520 you got a lot of trolls that watch the show

05:28:25.680 no he's not i don't think he's a troll

05:28:28.780 they're not trolling listen you you just you just got a healthy dose of reality

05:28:35.000 you're just told that your chances are less

05:28:38.160 significantly less than one percent of finding what it is that you're actually after

05:28:44.000 you're like i don't care right i'm not going to lower my standards i don't agree all

05:28:48.640 okay well what are you basing this disagreement on

05:28:52.240 based on how i feel you can show me the numbers okay great well i disagree with your disagreement

05:28:58.720 based on how i feel yep because i'm not going to go down this rabbit hole with you guys because

05:29:04.920 why not i you don't want your delusion shattered into a million pieces is that why you don't want

05:29:11.020 go down the rabbit hole go ahead no i won't lower my standards and why not your standards or i'll be

05:29:17.020 alone is what you guys think so i'm happy being alone as well too

05:29:21.740 wait i'm uh there were three men that you said you dated uh for three months or so did you end it or

05:29:31.500 did they end it i did so this guy paid he brought you on a date that cost fifteen hundred

05:29:38.540 between fifteen hundred dollars and three thousand uh assume he's well off given he's willing to spend

05:29:44.540 that much for um a dinner

05:29:47.660 gmd jim donated ninety nine dollars so funny i literally meet all of her original criteria

05:29:57.180 i would light all of my money on fire before giving it to a 304 like that bro jim 0.85

05:30:04.540 what's a 304 area it's like an area code thing um

05:30:12.540 where's that i think it's west virginia oh yeah yeah um

05:30:19.420 i was saying actually it's it's pretty close um to the bunny ranch in vegas i'm told 0.99

05:30:24.620 uh so oh shit wait where was i uh shit what was i saying tell me out like the 0.98

05:30:35.180 money the money 500k yeah we pulled up the calculator no i know i know but i was on 0.99

05:30:42.620 something oh the three guys you were dating okay oh yeah uh you broke up with them yeah uh why

05:30:49.500 well they were inconsistent and the um

05:30:58.860 the guy that spent the money the situationship who i said is also still a dear friend of mine to this

05:31:05.580 day um no romance but um he wasn't in a place where he wanted a relationship because he like i said he

05:31:14.700 had three kids before the age of 30 he was living his life in reverse he was happy living his best

05:31:18.940 life he had some some things he needed to check off his bucket list before getting into

05:31:24.860 a relationship sure and so i wanted to open myself up for

05:31:31.100 anyone else he was also number 15 on my 21 dates so i still had to

05:31:35.980 seek finish that would you date a guy who makes 100k

05:31:39.340 yeah we yeah i would date him your life partner

05:31:48.780 probably not

05:31:52.780 because again i want to be on at least the minimum the same level

05:31:57.340 financially so if you fall

05:32:00.940 let me ask this one one quick last follow-up i'm just curious about i've been kind of taking notes

05:32:05.580 as we've gone i will admit your story is somewhat fascinating your expectations are fascinating to

05:32:10.620 me probably for all the wrong reasons but um i i do have to ask this let's say you met a guy tomorrow

05:32:17.740 who was 50 years old he made 70 000 a year he was witty he was funny he was handsome he absolutely

05:32:24.620 adored you he'd make a great husband but the one drawback was that um you know he had a few health

05:32:33.260 he was never going to hillary epstein donated 99 dollars in lost here wants a man with dollar 500k

05:32:41.500 slash year salary but only have one million dollars in retirement 29 here and even i have one million

05:32:48.300 dollars in retirement dating for money at that ridiculous amount

05:32:53.980 quick response to this no i said originally i said 500k would be a really good number but then i

05:33:00.700 retracted that and said i want at least a million dollars of retirement so we can retire in italy

05:33:07.500 right and i would have close to that amount as well too but yeah half million half million bucks

05:33:13.260 so 1.5 i'm making more i'm still making money no i i understand so i'm just going to ask this though

05:33:20.700 um so he he checks all the right boxes he treats you well he's very handsome he's very dashing

05:33:26.380 right he has a few health problems though he makes about 70k a year he can't give you italy but he

05:33:32.700 will adore you and be good husband for the rest of your life but he'll never be able to financially

05:33:37.180 pick you up where you want to go and do this italy retirement thing unless you are the one who ends up

05:33:42.860 supporting that through your own means would you marry him

05:33:48.060 you said you made like 200 000 a year close to it yeah okay so if a man was willing to

05:34:02.860 provide for you financially take over whatever finances like you pay for your son so that you

05:34:08.940 were alleviated of all your finances you don't have to worry about working he's like you know what chill

05:34:13.020 at home i will work if he made like 180 000 and he could like provide for you but you didn't get

05:34:19.180 as leisure of a house but maybe you guys are like a lifestyle but maybe you guys do go to visit italy

05:34:23.980 didn't get to retire there that you'd be i would be happy with that okay yeah did you have a question

05:34:31.180 because that's more realistic i just said like let's say you like how kind of like what andrew was

05:34:35.180 saying yeah he was he said something like let's say you meet a guy right before you even know how much

05:34:39.260 they make you fall in love with them you really just love being with them and then you like come

05:34:43.340 to the conversation of okay how much do we each make he makes under 100k but you've already built

05:34:47.900 that connection with him you're just gonna drop him because he doesn't meet your standard i probably

05:34:52.860 wouldn't start dating somebody unless i kind of had an idea quick question too is that something you

05:34:57.500 like ask on like the first date no no no no i mean you can kind of tell by their lifestyle and their

05:35:04.060 job what you know how much money they make like i'm not going to be with a graffiti artist or someone

05:35:11.340 like that you know what if it changes like let's say you're together for a year he's making good

05:35:15.100 money and then he just suddenly stops and you're like you're already committed to him just because

05:35:19.980 that's like changed you're like okay yeah no i can't be with you now well no because i'm going to

05:35:23.980 pick a man that's a strong partner that are we're in alignment together and yes i am looking for a

05:35:29.340 partner and i would love to be part of a power couple with somebody it's not about him taking

05:35:34.300 over my finances it is about us me being able to have less of a financial burden that's all on me

05:35:41.820 yeah and let's say like what if they get sick like and you can they write and i'm getting older too right

05:35:47.180 and i'm you know things are going to happen on my end as well too but yeah but yeah ultimately i want to

05:35:54.220 i you know me and my wife are known as a power couple i guess from the metrics that you would 0.63

05:36:02.380 express a power couple of being you know what i do though i take all of my wife's money and i buy guns

05:36:09.100 with it see she she wrote these great books they're fantastic well uh the second one is not yet but it

05:36:15.980 will be but the first one yeah it nets a you know pretty good amount of money and i take all that money

05:36:22.940 and i buy guns right and they're just for me not for her all of her money and that's what i do with

05:36:30.940 it right um i i just i just kind of wonder right is she getting the raw end of the deal here does she

05:36:39.100 at least know how to shoot guns yeah i think she's she's somewhat competent at it 0.99

05:36:46.860 but anyway yeah i'm just wondering is she getting the raw end of the deal

05:36:49.580 was this for the whole panel or no no just uh just for the gallon blue i'm sorry the one oh

05:36:57.660 sorry i zoned out what are you asking you zoned out yeah i'm zoning go ahead it's getting late

05:37:04.940 okay so i just i just gotta ask this i'm kind of done with this i would meet i would meet this this

05:37:10.060 standard i think a power couple by your metric with me myself and my wife but i take all of her money 1.00

05:37:16.220 and uh i spend it on guns all of it literally all of it not kidding great every bit of it good for

05:37:22.300 you um would you would you would you say that she's getting the raw end of the deal no but you pay the

05:37:29.100 mortgage and the bills you're saying and so all of her money goes well i mean no no no those are all

05:37:35.420 assumptions i'm asking you don't know anything except this one thing that i take all of her money and 1.00

05:37:42.380 spend it on the things that i want for me is she getting the raw end of the deal 0.97

05:37:51.180 yes because her money could be used for savings or investing and not just your

05:37:58.060 your collection or your hobby so she needs to look after herself a little more you think 0.95

05:38:04.540 possibly yeah 0.99

05:38:05.900 ulysses the pagan donated one hundred dollars an ugly obese old troll that spanking dollar he 1.00

05:38:14.540 could get a much younger woman so why would he choose a middle-aged woman that just brings genitals 1.00

05:38:20.220 that resembles an older steve boucher in his face huh the fuck pagan bro disavow 0.99

05:38:28.460 i mean this is so funny because yeah this dress is not doing me any favors and because i'm not 0.99

05:38:35.980 obese or overweight i'm the only obese one at this team one hundred dollars okay the dudes she's looking 1.00

05:38:42.700 for wouldn't entertain some 50 year old that goes on a kuma podcast hey the good men that would

05:38:48.540 date another woman are not picking women craving zoomer internet attention slash zoomer giovanni i don't

05:38:55.900 appreciate that characterization i i am hurt i'm not mad i'm just disappointed giovanni

05:39:06.460 i'm not mad i'm just disappointed all right thank you uh thank you giovanni and then we do have a chat

05:39:13.100 here from scott thank you for the soup chat brian forget the old has been is the cure girl cure girl

05:39:20.940 why are you the cure girl i don't know like the band the r is next to the t on the i like the cure

05:39:29.740 it's a good band uh is she single are you willing to go on a date in san diego scott that's very

05:39:36.060 flattering but i'm taken i'm taken scott but thank you sorry sorry scott sweet i'll if you send another

05:39:44.220 super chat in though la jolla you can take me to um la jolla is not good enough for you madison

05:39:54.860 is that too posh la jolla's a little thump psa donated 100 i don't deserve a la jolla since you

05:40:01.100 had your eyebrows rated would you like to rate everyone's eyebrows one to ten maddie is on point

05:40:07.260 hashtag don't pluck hashtag eyebrows matter you want me to rate their eyebrows they're all tens you

05:40:13.260 guys i don't know about eyebrows i don't know about you guys all have tens 10 eyebrows um 10 10 10 10 10

05:40:26.220 they're all great they're all great eyebrows okay i don't i'm not an eyebrow guy i'm a labia guy i don't

05:40:31.500 know you they whip out the labias i can rate okay just kidding don't do that you d jones 0.96

05:40:37.980 just kidding okay richard richie oh whoops to me oh my god what the fuck um okay okay okay i got 0.99

05:40:44.380 moved on um so we have going back to you laurie you have a show called horrible to wholesome yeah how 0.98

05:40:54.780 do you spell the horrible though oh with the w in front of like the regular word horrible so like 0.99

05:40:59.580 whore yeah it will to wholesome yeah and you talk about going from being a whore to wholesome not a 1.00

05:41:07.100 whore i that's the name of the podcast no it's because when like i was i just that's like how 0.99

05:41:11.980 i say it whenever i say i'm like oh i'm being horrible like horrible okay uh you said that god

05:41:19.180 called her back to the strip club oh yeah that episode yeah if you actually did you guys i'm

05:41:27.260 assuming you didn't watch it didn't watch it sorry yeah um so i had actually gone to a worship night

05:41:31.980 and as i was worshiping and praying and praising the lord um i felt him just telling me something

05:41:39.740 that i've been wanting to do for a while but i didn't really feel it was time and it was just to

05:41:45.880 go pray with like the lost ones so i ended up going back to a random strip club which i didn't even pick

05:41:52.280 my boyfriend picked the place i go to it and we're kind of like okay how do i know if what girl i'm

05:41:58.640 gonna pray for pray with and when we get to the door um well actually outside of the club across the

05:42:06.020 street there was a sign that said um i can't remember what it said it said something that was

05:42:13.280 like kind of i guess like a sign to me we go inside and the guy was like hey there's only like

05:42:20.180 one girl in here and you know if you've ever talked to a stripper you know that they probably 1.00

05:42:26.000 don't want to hear oh like i came here to pray for you and so i ended up going inside and praying

05:42:31.080 for her and she was very grateful of me and we had a really good conversation about god oh i thought

05:42:40.020 it was like god god called you back to the strip club like trying to get you back to being no it's

05:42:45.640 kind of like a little bit i'm gonna be honest like clickbait like what you guys called this episode

05:42:49.880 look clickbait ish what what did we clickbait uh what was it called drama yeah i'm gonna address

05:42:57.000 the drama i addressed it at the end of the show that's not clickbait it's true there's drama i

05:43:01.160 gotta address well that's just what i felt like calling it i don't know i gotta address some drama

05:43:06.260 trust me i'm addressing the drama i'm addressing the drama yeah i just felt like he was calling me

05:43:09.360 back to it to pray for people oh okay and then you the last thing on your notes dealing with

05:43:14.420 rejection that was also a podcast episode i don't know why it's on there but um okay yeah that was

05:43:22.840 just a podcast episode about that so uh let's get into some of the more uh we'll go uh let's see

05:43:29.780 oh we'll do a bear versus man would you rather be stuck in the forest with a random bear and actually

05:43:40.680 hold on would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the forest and the right so

05:43:46.420 the scenario is you get dropped into the forest randomly and you can choose either a random man

05:43:53.480 gets dropped in the forest with you or a random bear you will cross paths which do you pick a bear

05:43:58.240 a man realistically a man a man a man a man a bear man uh why bear because like like why is a guy

05:44:13.000 in the forest like that's creepy no you get randomly like you randomly spawn in the forest you randomly

05:44:18.040 there's like no reason for hunger games because it's also like why wait hang on i gotta back up 0.79

05:44:24.560 i feel like why would it be creepy for a man to be in the fucking forest why why is that creepy 0.97

05:44:30.020 like it depends what would actually make it creepy that a man was in the forest like have you not 0.97

05:44:35.340 watched the movies where like you know the killers are in the forest and they're running through the

05:44:38.680 forest and have you not watched the movies where the killers are in the cities have you not watched

05:44:42.760 the movies where the killers are in the foothills have you not watched the movies where the killers

05:44:45.840 are in the mountains like what are you talking about well honestly for me well whatever i think

05:44:50.420 Bears are cute, so I want a bear.

05:44:53.280 Well, yeah, it could kill me, honestly.

05:44:54.880 It could kill me.

05:44:55.620 It's not a teddy bear.

05:44:56.820 You realize this is not a teddy bear that you, like, hug and snuggle with.

05:45:00.020 It's a grizzly bear or a bear like that that will rip your face off, right?

05:45:04.640 But is it, like, just chilling there, or is it, like, aggressive?

05:45:09.280 It's just a random bear.

05:45:11.100 Like, look, here, let me give you an example.

05:45:12.680 Okay, so then I choose the bear.

05:45:13.340 I could hide him.

05:45:13.800 If you walked over to a random man in the street, just a random guy, anybody, right?

05:45:19.820 And you walked over to him, and you patted him on the head.

05:45:24.280 And he turned around, right, and said, what the hell are you doing?

05:45:28.600 Do you think that he would physically assault you, just a random guy that you patted on the head?

05:45:32.820 Do you think he would physically do something bad to you?

05:45:35.400 No.

05:45:36.380 If he walked over and patted a random bear on the head, if you walked over and patted a random bear on the head,

05:45:42.440 what do you think would happen?

05:45:44.080 You're asking super logical questions.

05:45:46.440 But obviously the bear would kill me, right?

05:45:48.100 Super logical, I know.

05:45:49.280 I know that that is the bane of the existence of many people.

05:45:53.540 Yes, it is super logical.

05:45:55.160 What would happen if you patted a random bear on the head?

05:45:58.780 It probably would claw my face out. 0.92

05:46:01.380 It will claw my face out.

05:46:03.380 Yeah.

05:46:04.400 Why do you pick bear?

05:46:06.720 Well, you didn't give me any details of how long I'm there, but a bear is not going to rape me. 0.98

05:46:11.500 I'd rather die from a bear mulling me than a man raping me. 0.97

05:46:14.880 Okay, so let's go into that a little bit. 0.99

05:46:17.720 So you've done a risk...

05:46:19.140 By the way, can you say essay instead of the...

05:46:21.200 Oh, I'm sorry.

05:46:21.820 Yeah.

05:46:22.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:46:22.580 If you don't mind.

05:46:23.480 No, yeah, my bad.

05:46:24.040 So you must have made some sort of risk assessment where the risk of being essayed by a man you feel outweighs the risk of potential attack from the bear.

05:46:39.720 A bear is in its natural habitat, like, if you're not messing with it, it's probably most likely just going to wander off.

05:46:47.240 A man stuck in a forest with you is going to come to his, like, what does he want, you know?

05:46:53.380 You don't know how stuck we are in the forest.

05:46:55.400 Sure.

05:46:57.960 So then I guess the question is, what percentage of men, then, do you think would be inclined to victimize you?

05:47:04.760 Um, I don't know, but you said a random man, and there was men that got lost in a forest and essayed a lizard, so...

05:47:12.720 What?

05:47:13.200 How do you essay?

05:47:14.160 Hail and well met. 1.00

05:47:15.500 What the fuck? 0.99

05:47:15.920 Lol Paladins donated $100.02. 1.00

05:47:19.060 Good time to come in, bro.

05:47:19.920 Missed the last three hours of the show.

05:47:22.560 Very disappointed to learn how he does actually speak English.

05:47:26.440 Much like every other female guest ever, the more they open their mouth, the less I like them. 1.00

05:47:31.780 Um, you're disappointed to learn she speaks English.

05:47:35.200 Well, she's been okay.

05:47:36.780 Yeah, she's been good.

05:47:38.340 Yeah, she hasn't really said anything.

05:47:39.560 You're out of line here, Lol Paladins.

05:47:41.300 Out of line.

05:47:41.500 She hasn't really said anything.

05:47:43.320 Out of line.

05:47:44.280 She hasn't said anything that's deranged.

05:47:46.260 Get out of here.

05:47:47.980 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

05:47:48.800 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

05:47:51.000 So, men essay lizards?

05:47:53.620 Yeah, there's like a article.

05:47:54.860 How do you even, like...

05:47:56.440 An article on that?

05:47:57.600 What kind of lizard?

05:47:58.680 It was like a big lizard.

05:47:59.760 It's on, like...

05:48:00.840 You could look up the article.

05:48:02.160 Wait, they were, like...

05:48:03.140 It was like a group of men went camping.

05:48:04.940 Was this in the U.S.?

05:48:06.120 Uh, I don't know. 1.00

05:48:07.060 And they fucked a lizard. 1.00

05:48:08.260 They were camping and they got lost and they found a lizard and they all, like... 0.99

05:48:11.740 They tag-teamed a lizard.

05:48:12.980 There's no... 1.00

05:48:13.480 Let me Google this shit. 1.00

05:48:15.460 Nick, get on that pronto-tonto. 1.00

05:48:17.780 Tag-teamed lizard.

05:48:19.180 Stop.

05:48:19.460 I'm going to get on a list for that one.

05:48:21.020 Get on...

05:48:21.400 Jamie.

05:48:22.720 They eventually, I think, ate it.

05:48:24.160 Uh, men have...

05:48:26.820 I don't even know how to Google this without getting on, like, an FBI list.

05:48:30.500 It's like men. 0.99

05:48:31.140 Men have sex with lizards? 1.00

05:48:32.840 Oh, my God. 1.00

05:48:33.340 This is going to get me in trouble.

05:48:35.000 Don't Google it that way.

05:48:36.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:48:37.400 It's for research purposes, Brett.

05:48:39.080 It was like men. 0.94

05:48:39.440 He was just stranded.

05:48:40.920 Men have... 0.83

05:48:41.280 Men attack lizards.

05:48:43.280 Okay, so what are the details around this that you can tell us?

05:48:47.500 Monitor...

05:48:48.220 Was it a monitor lizard abuse?

05:48:49.920 It was not.

05:48:50.360 Four men gang are... 0.53

05:48:53.000 The Vice article.

05:48:54.640 This is actually an article.

05:48:56.360 We can't even pull it up because it has the...

05:48:58.440 Four men gang...

05:49:00.380 S-Aid.

05:49:01.300 S-Aid killed and ate a protected monitor lizard.

05:49:05.380 Sandeep...

05:49:06.020 Oh, I shouldn't say their names because I'll get intro.

05:49:09.920 India, son.

05:49:11.060 I don't know about how India works, bruv.

05:49:14.980 But yes, it was in India.

05:49:16.840 Okay.

05:49:17.560 Isn't that, like, bestiality?

05:49:18.980 Yeah.

05:49:19.220 Yeah.

05:49:20.080 But they were, like, stranded, like, in a forest or something.

05:49:22.900 Why didn't they just do each other?

05:49:23.860 They got...

05:49:24.200 Can someone...

05:49:24.980 Girl... 0.99

05:49:25.420 That's exactly...

05:49:26.260 Yeah, like, their hands.

05:49:27.500 I gotta give you some qualifiers here.

05:49:28.700 I was not doing a Roman salute, by the way.

05:49:30.360 I was just trying to...

05:49:31.260 Hold on.

05:49:31.800 I gotta give you the qualifiers.

05:49:34.980 Okay.

05:49:35.660 I have never seen a crime like this.

05:49:39.720 Division Forest Officer Vishal Mali told Vice News.

05:49:43.940 The men are in their 20s and 30s and appear to have done it for fun.

05:49:46.880 There was no religious or black magic.

05:49:48.720 I have never seen a crime like this, meaning it's so uncommon and so out there that it

05:49:58.400 essentially never happens.

05:50:00.340 I just want to point this out.

05:50:03.500 Can someone, like, do an AI generation of, like, a lizard, like, kind of looking, like,

05:50:08.640 a little sexy, you know?

05:50:09.880 Gecko.

05:50:10.820 Like a gecko, like, kind of, like, looking, like, kind of hot, you know?

05:50:13.680 But that lizard looks like those big ones.

05:50:16.340 Like the one from Jessie.

05:50:17.240 Yeah.

05:50:17.540 I was gonna say.

05:50:18.000 Yeah, it's a giant one from the girl's lizards. 0.73

05:50:20.380 Yeah, they're big.

05:50:20.940 They're not a little, like, gecko.

05:50:22.840 They're, like, those big dragons.

05:50:25.100 So, okay.

05:50:26.740 They're, like, this long.

05:50:27.800 So, what percentage, what percentage of men do you think would essay?

05:50:33.860 I definitely don't think if I was stranded in the forest with a random man that he would

05:50:38.620 protect me the whole time we're stranded there.

05:50:41.960 Okay.

05:50:42.580 What do you think he would do?

05:50:44.720 How about, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

05:50:45.800 I want to actually get an answer to the question.

05:50:51.080 I, what was the question?

05:50:53.600 What percentage of men do you think would choose to attack you in this scenario?

05:51:01.260 Because it's, like, random men, right?

05:51:03.020 So.

05:51:04.440 Probably, like, 80% of men.

05:51:12.800 80.

05:51:13.240 Like, if you think about how long, how long am I stranded in this forest with him?

05:51:18.000 I think you're overthinking it.

05:51:19.760 I think you're, let's say, you're stranded there for two years.

05:51:25.120 Let's say you're stranded there for two years with him.

05:51:27.140 Unless it was that guy that was celibate for 17 years.

05:51:29.900 You think 8 in 10 men.

05:51:31.700 8 in 10 men.

05:51:35.260 Yeah, men are scary.

05:51:35.740 What essay are you?

05:51:37.220 8 in 10.

05:51:38.380 Men are scary.

05:51:40.100 Oh, okay.

05:51:41.380 Hilary Epstein donated $99.

05:51:44.920 Bye-bye, it's bedtime.

05:51:46.640 LOL.

05:51:48.780 Bye.

05:51:50.380 Thank you for that, Hilary Epstein.

05:51:53.340 Thank you.

05:51:54.280 Hope you have a wonderful night.

05:51:55.700 80%.

05:51:56.560 Let me, what's the population?

05:51:59.840 Population of adult males USA.

05:52:03.480 About, I think, roughly 140 million.

05:52:07.100 So, do you think?

05:52:10.500 Okay, let's just say out of 10 men, like, 8 of them, I'm pretty sure if you were to just spawn them in the middle of the forest, like you're saying.

05:52:17.460 Like, 8 out of those 10 men would probably.

05:52:21.560 Would essay a woman.

05:52:23.560 Yeah. 1.00

05:52:24.160 Or murder them. 1.00

05:52:26.440 Yeah.

05:52:26.880 So, your family members, and the male family members of your boyfriend, they also, so 8 out of 10 of your male family members would do this, too?

05:52:40.660 Um, unfortunately.

05:52:43.320 Giovanni J.D. donated $100.

05:52:46.460 I love the girl on the right's reaction to the lizard sex, but they were desperate in the wild. 1.00

05:52:52.260 Who said that?

05:52:53.220 What? 0.98

05:52:53.620 The girl, the thick girl on the right's reaction to the lizard sex, but they were desperate in the, desperate for that lizard. 0.98

05:53:01.520 So, yeah, so 8 in 10 of the men in your family would essay women in the forest.

05:53:06.120 If they could. 0.99

05:53:06.840 I can think of a handful of men in my family that unfortunately are disgusting. 0.91

05:53:09.220 No, no, no, that's not what we ask, 8 in 10. 0.55

05:53:11.760 8 in 10, you said 80%, that's 8 in 10.

05:53:16.280 I don't know.

05:53:16.600 That means, out of all, so think of 10 males in your family, 10.

05:53:21.420 8 of them are going to essay a chick in the forest.

05:53:27.480 I don't, I don't know more than, like, 5 men in my family.

05:53:31.160 Okay, well, let's just take 5 then.

05:53:33.400 4 and 5.

05:53:35.920 4 out of the 5 men that you do know in your family are going to essay a chick in the forest.

05:53:40.600 Yeah.

05:53:40.860 So this would include you.

05:53:41.380 I could think of, I could talk.

05:53:42.840 Would that include, would that include your father?

05:53:45.400 Uh, no, he passed away, so I'm not counting him.

05:53:47.320 He's not alive.

05:53:48.040 Wait, so how about this?

05:53:48.740 You can envision him, right?

05:53:50.420 Yeah.

05:53:51.260 Would he do it?

05:53:52.200 No.

05:53:52.940 How about this for me?

05:53:53.640 Okay, brother?

05:53:56.000 Uh, no.

05:53:58.520 Cousin?

05:53:59.280 Yeah.

05:54:00.700 How many cousins are you envisioning, 5?

05:54:03.660 No, 2.

05:54:05.600 Okay, so there we have, so where do the other 3 come from?

05:54:08.120 Uncle, grandfather, great-grandfather.

05:54:11.020 So your great-grandfather, your grandfather, your uncle, and your 2 cousins are all going to essay a chick if they're in the forest, really? 0.97

05:54:18.060 I could see that possibly happening.

05:54:21.620 Oh, are they or aren't they?

05:54:23.940 Yeah, depending on the circumstances, I could possibly see that happening.

05:54:28.260 So your, so, so I just want to make sure, your grandfather is a, uh, orist?

05:54:35.220 I said great-grandfather.

05:54:36.100 Your grandfather?

05:54:36.580 I said great-grandfather.

05:54:38.060 Yeah, you're, well, no, you said your great-grandfather and your grandfather.

05:54:41.180 And I corrected myself, great-grandfather.

05:54:44.180 Yeah, okay, you said your great-grandfather and your grandfather.

05:54:47.100 Okay.

05:54:49.820 Yes?

05:54:50.860 I don't have a grandpa, I have a great-grandpa, but I just...

05:54:54.040 Uh, no, I'm, I'm pretty sure it's biologically impossible for you to not have a grandpa.

05:54:57.480 I don't know my grandpa.

05:54:59.660 Okay, so your 2 cousins, for sure, they're going to R-word a chicken for us, no matter what.

05:55:04.620 Mellow Nova donated $100.

05:55:07.840 Andrew, good faith question.

05:55:10.120 If a man told his wife to kiss the ground literally every step he took through the house, would that be cool since she has to submit? 0.99

05:55:17.600 Or is there a threshold?

05:55:19.600 What is it?

05:55:20.460 Quick response to this, Andrew.

05:55:21.500 The threshold has to comply with reason, so no, that would be unreasonable.

05:55:25.660 I can actually express why that would be unreasonable.

05:55:28.960 But anyway, back to this, uh, this kind of back and forth here.

05:55:33.880 I just want to make sure both of your cousins are R-wordists. 1.00

05:55:38.560 They're both SA-ists. 1.00

05:55:39.820 I just want to make sure that I hear it from you, that you're 100% positive.

05:55:43.320 They're definitely going to be against her will taking that chick in the forest, right? 1.00

05:55:49.260 Not against her will, but that doesn't... 0.92

05:55:51.600 Well, why do I hang on?

05:55:52.740 Wait, how could it be...

05:55:54.940 Because there's...

05:55:55.440 How could they be SA-ing her if it's not against her will?

05:55:58.260 Because there's, like, SA that isn't, like, the type you're referring to, where it's, like, you kind of just...

05:56:03.280 Oh, like what?

05:56:04.720 What would they do that would SA her? 0.90

05:56:06.520 What do you think they would do?

05:56:07.420 I'm pretty sure all of the girls here have been in uncomfortable situations where... 0.99

05:56:13.420 Yeah, so answer my question.

05:56:15.660 I don't care about what you think other girls in the room have been through.

05:56:19.000 What would they do to women in the forest? 0.89

05:56:22.500 What would they do?

05:56:25.920 I'm just going to stand by that I think 8 out of 10 men would do that.

05:56:29.380 Yeah, I don't care what you're going to stand by.

05:56:31.360 What would they do?

05:56:32.260 You just said that they would SA women in the forest. 1.00

05:56:33.420 What would you do if you were stuck in the forest with a woman that wasn't your wife? 0.87

05:56:36.160 What would you do if you were stuck in the forest?

05:56:37.160 Nothing.

05:56:39.680 Nothing.

05:56:40.580 Survival.

05:56:41.240 Yeah.

05:56:43.160 What would you...

05:56:43.660 I mean, maybe, like, ask her to, I don't know, sharpen a stone?

05:56:48.840 Okay, she didn't want to do anything like that.

05:56:52.360 Would you think about maybe, okay, I need to eat?

05:56:54.500 If she refused to assist in her survival session.

05:56:57.240 Small system donated $200.

05:56:59.640 A woman right now on X is trending. 0.96

05:57:01.920 She has a mold of her husband's pierces urn.

05:57:05.000 Unfortunately, he passed this a cool idea for a man.

05:57:08.400 Are these popular?

05:57:09.720 Would you buy one for your husband's slash B?

05:57:13.400 Hang on.

05:57:14.000 I want to finish this real quick before we get into that.

05:57:17.600 Let's just have the girls... 1.00

05:57:18.840 Here, really, really quick.

05:57:19.680 Just a show of hands.

05:57:20.400 Would you be cool with this?

05:57:22.200 Would you do it?

05:57:22.680 Do what?

05:57:24.780 Pale and well met.

05:57:26.280 Lol Paladin's donated $100.02.

05:57:30.160 Thank you, Lol Paladin. 0.99

05:57:30.580 This scamming prostitute is so messed up with her genetics, 1.00

05:57:34.480 she herself would likely essay and take advantage of anyone she runs across 1.00

05:57:38.600 that is weaker than herself.

05:57:40.440 Because that is what she already does.

05:57:43.040 I wasn't a prostitute. 0.95

05:57:44.900 Let's just make that clear.

05:57:46.420 So I would... 0.75

05:57:47.100 Well, yes, I think stripping is prostitution, 1.00

05:57:49.780 but I guess we can leave that for right now.

05:57:51.440 Now, I would like to dive into your question.

05:57:55.980 Your question was,

05:57:57.100 what would I do if I was with a woman in the forest? 0.94

05:57:59.780 Well, I would try to reason with her and say,

05:58:01.920 listen, if we're going to have the best shot,

05:58:04.280 we need to work together to get out of here.

05:58:06.600 And then after assessing the situation,

05:58:08.780 I would probably give her some tasks to do. 0.97

05:58:10.880 If she refused to do the tasks,

05:58:12.920 then I would likely abandon her 0.99

05:58:15.340 so that I could get out of the fucking forest. 0.99

05:58:17.340 Or you could just stay for the rest of the show. 0.99

05:58:23.120 Do you need to go get some insure?

05:58:25.360 Yes, I do.

05:58:26.880 It is past my bedtime.

05:58:30.560 These old hags got to get going. 1.00

05:58:33.480 You said 10.

05:58:34.100 We're not going to go for too much longer.

05:58:35.780 I'm going to go away on my wheelchair right now.

05:58:37.240 Not going to go for too much longer here, guys.

05:58:39.600 Let's just finish the show.

05:58:44.440 I have a question on this.

05:58:46.420 So do you want to have kids?

05:58:49.880 I have one, but yeah, I want to have more.

05:58:51.600 Is your kid a boy or a girl?

05:58:53.840 That's a girl.

05:58:54.380 Now, do you want to have more kids?

05:58:57.500 Yeah.

05:58:57.920 It's possible you'll have one, two.

05:59:00.000 How many more kids do you want? 1.00

05:59:01.100 Like two more.

05:59:01.780 Two more kids.

05:59:02.600 So if they're both sons,

05:59:05.060 you're willing to say that under your roof of raising them,

05:59:10.760 they have an 80% chance of becoming...

05:59:13.020 No.

05:59:13.980 What makes you stand apart from all the other women 1.00

05:59:17.800 who are raising men to become 80% chance of being great-bists? 0.61

05:59:25.040 But you, what percent chance...

05:59:27.220 If you had to put a number to it,

05:59:29.720 what percent chance will your sons be great-bists? 1.00

05:59:33.940 I would raise them with real core values

05:59:38.740 in a Christian household.

05:59:40.220 But I thought it seems like you're making the argument

05:59:43.060 that this is just something that's innate in men.

05:59:46.300 They were inclined to SA women.

05:59:48.760 Yeah.

05:59:48.960 If you had 10 sons,

05:59:50.060 you're saying that 10 of them are going to be great-bists, 0.99

05:59:52.340 by the way.

05:59:53.640 10.

05:59:54.140 Or I'm sorry.

05:59:54.720 If you had 10 sons,

05:59:55.400 you're saying 8 would be great-bists. 0.99

05:59:57.660 If it's 80%, 10.

05:59:59.860 No, I mean 8 out of the 10.

06:00:02.060 I mean, this hypothetical...

06:00:03.300 Hypothetical.

06:00:05.140 Hypothetical.

06:00:05.420 It would be hypothetical.

06:00:06.540 Yeah, this hypothetical.

06:00:07.720 I mean, you're not really giving any, like,

06:00:11.360 anything except the fact that you're spawning us

06:00:13.360 randomly in a forest.

06:00:15.000 Nope.

06:00:15.360 We are giving you something.

06:00:16.400 And it's a random man.

06:00:17.360 Yeah, I would rather pick a bear over...

06:00:18.120 No, that's incorrect.

06:00:19.040 We are giving you something.

06:00:20.260 We asked you,

06:00:21.600 how many men do you think,

06:00:23.540 in that situation,

06:00:25.020 would do this type of thing?

06:00:26.840 You said 80%.

06:00:28.120 But this was after...

06:00:28.680 Based on that,

06:00:29.540 I stated that.

06:00:29.820 Based on that,

06:00:30.240 we can extrapolate.

06:00:31.240 If it's 80%,

06:00:32.340 that would encompass all men.

06:00:34.620 If that is true,

06:00:35.580 that all men,

06:00:36.540 at the level of 80%,

06:00:38.120 would SA a chick in the forest,

06:00:39.940 then that would mean that 8

06:00:41.160 out of the 10

06:00:43.020 of the children

06:00:44.420 you could potentially have

06:00:45.840 would be grapest

06:00:46.940 if they were men.

06:00:51.380 I'm just going based off

06:00:52.940 of the original question,

06:00:54.520 which was a bear or a man,

06:00:56.580 which I,

06:00:57.520 yeah,

06:00:57.760 I would think...

06:00:58.420 But you had reasoning

06:00:59.340 for why you chose a bear.

06:01:01.340 Yeah.

06:01:02.040 I would just feel safer

06:01:03.380 with a bear

06:01:04.160 than its natural habitat.

06:01:05.420 80% of men grap.

06:01:07.080 That was your reasoning.

06:01:08.620 If that is true,

06:01:09.400 then you're admitting

06:01:10.100 that 8 out of 10

06:01:11.080 of the men

06:01:11.700 in your household

06:01:12.620 are grapest.

06:01:14.700 I'm also thinking

06:01:15.680 of secular men

06:01:17.140 because that's kind of

06:01:17.840 the headspace I'm in right now

06:01:19.000 in this podcast area,

06:01:21.760 studio questions.

06:01:23.320 Why?

06:01:23.900 You said 80% of all men.

06:01:26.880 Yeah,

06:01:27.200 and I'm thinking

06:01:27.740 of secular men.

06:01:29.980 What?

06:01:30.520 Okay,

06:01:30.900 so how many Christian men?

06:01:34.780 Probably

06:01:35.260 less than.

06:01:38.140 How much less than?

06:01:39.320 Less than,

06:01:39.800 probably like...

06:01:40.460 50%?

06:01:41.240 Less.

06:01:42.100 40?

06:01:43.160 Like,

06:01:44.240 out of 10,

06:01:45.120 possibly one or two.

06:01:47.000 Possibly.

06:01:47.320 Well,

06:01:47.620 okay,

06:01:48.040 so 20%.

06:01:48.780 I just want to let you know,

06:01:50.780 okay,

06:01:51.240 that the staggering rate

06:01:54.740 that you put

06:01:55.820 at 80%,

06:01:57.400 the deviation

06:01:59.320 between men

06:02:00.760 who self-identify

06:02:01.920 as being Christian

06:02:02.820 who grape

06:02:03.440 and secular

06:02:04.120 is not very wide.

06:02:06.920 It's not very wide.

06:02:08.520 I mean,

06:02:08.920 as to be a statistical anomaly,

06:02:11.920 it's that close.

06:02:15.260 In other words,

06:02:15.700 your chances

06:02:16.180 if you're a Christian

06:02:17.480 going up

06:02:18.440 of you graping

06:02:19.280 versus being secular,

06:02:21.460 it's not very wide.

06:02:22.940 Again,

06:02:28.940 I just,

06:02:30.100 I was going out

06:02:31.800 of the context

06:02:32.320 of me thinking about

06:02:33.720 80% of men

06:02:34.760 that I encounter

06:02:35.360 on a daily basis,

06:02:36.840 which most of them

06:02:37.760 are secular.

06:02:40.200 Do 80,

06:02:40.780 have you been

06:02:41.520 essayed

06:02:42.520 by 80% of the men

06:02:43.740 that you've encountered?

06:02:44.680 I've been verbally,

06:02:45.880 like,

06:02:46.320 sexually harassed,

06:02:47.500 yeah.

06:02:48.040 By 80% of men?

06:02:49.440 If I go outside,

06:02:50.340 yes.

06:02:50.660 That's why I personally

06:02:51.800 didn't want to come here

06:02:52.500 by myself.

06:02:53.200 My boyfriend's outside.

06:02:54.680 I don't like

06:02:55.640 leaving my house alone.

06:02:56.340 Even if I grant,

06:02:57.640 okay,

06:02:57.900 so even if we consider

06:02:59.100 catcalling within this,

06:03:01.600 80% of men

06:03:02.460 catcall you?

06:03:04.820 80%?

06:03:05.400 It's not just catcalling,

06:03:06.620 like,

06:03:07.060 verbally,

06:03:07.680 it's the looks,

06:03:08.560 it's the

06:03:09.640 80%

06:03:10.560 innuendos.

06:03:11.580 So,

06:03:11.860 hold on.

06:03:12.360 Catcalling

06:03:12.920 and then,

06:03:13.440 like,

06:03:13.660 everything worse

06:03:14.320 than catcalling. 0.74

06:03:15.440 80% of men

06:03:16.320 do that.

06:03:16.760 Less now

06:03:21.200 that I only

06:03:21.780 go outside

06:03:22.220 with my boyfriend,

06:03:22.920 yeah.

06:03:23.440 But when I go

06:03:24.160 outside alone,

06:03:25.180 yeah.

06:03:25.780 It's 80% of men.

06:03:27.580 Yeah,

06:03:28.100 when I would,

06:03:28.540 I would go out to LA.

06:03:29.100 So if you go out,

06:03:31.400 so just like

06:03:31.940 going to Trader Joe's,

06:03:33.080 80% of the dudes,

06:03:34.660 yo,

06:03:35.000 what's up?

06:03:35.900 I've literally

06:03:36.580 been in the

06:03:37.140 Starbucks line

06:03:38.000 and gotten

06:03:38.580 catcalled from,

06:03:39.500 like,

06:03:40.180 outside,

06:03:40.680 no,

06:03:40.860 like,

06:03:41.040 in the drive-thru.

06:03:42.160 Was it 80%

06:03:43.080 of the men

06:03:43.580 in the Starbucks?

06:03:44.920 It was in the

06:03:45.700 parking lot.

06:03:46.400 That's like,

06:03:46.800 no,

06:03:46.980 no,

06:03:47.020 no,

06:03:47.320 fine.

06:03:47.760 Yes,

06:03:48.020 it happened.

06:03:48.740 One guy

06:03:49.380 at Starbucks

06:03:50.000 said that.

06:03:50.820 Was it 80%

06:03:51.720 of the men?

06:03:55.300 You need to be

06:03:56.040 consistent here.

06:03:56.940 It's just like

06:03:57.540 the fact that,

06:03:58.180 like,

06:03:58.880 from my view,

06:04:00.260 yes,

06:04:00.380 80% of men

06:04:01.580 are dogs 0.98

06:04:02.440 in the secular world,

06:04:04.180 yes.

06:04:04.960 So,

06:04:05.160 but 80%

06:04:06.180 of the men

06:04:06.620 that you see

06:04:07.100 at Trader Joe's,

06:04:08.180 Starbucks,

06:04:08.960 wherever,

06:04:10.600 they're catcalling

06:04:11.860 you or worse?

06:04:13.680 Yeah,

06:04:14.420 worse,

06:04:14.860 because I feel

06:04:15.660 like looks

06:04:16.360 are the same

06:04:17.360 as catcalling.

06:04:19.120 A guy looking

06:04:20.200 at you

06:04:20.920 is a guy

06:04:22.460 who looks at you.

06:04:23.180 It's not just,

06:04:23.200 looking,

06:04:23.640 it's like the,

06:04:24.440 like,

06:04:24.940 sexual innuendos

06:04:25.800 they're making 0.82

06:04:26.220 while looking at me.

06:04:27.100 Okay,

06:04:27.320 so,

06:04:27.660 okay,

06:04:28.060 okay,

06:04:28.360 hang on,

06:04:28.640 I'm not even

06:04:29.100 willing to entertain this.

06:04:30.500 If a man

06:04:31.720 is looking at you

06:04:32.620 in a way

06:04:32.920 that you consider

06:04:33.580 to be lustful,

06:04:34.860 is that sexual assault?

06:04:38.140 It's sexual harassment.

06:04:40.100 How is that

06:04:40.780 sexual harassment?

06:04:41.420 Because if you're publicly

06:04:42.300 willing to make

06:04:43.300 those type of gestures

06:04:44.500 to a woman

06:04:45.340 in public,

06:04:46.860 what would you do

06:04:47.840 if there weren't

06:04:48.520 people around?

06:04:49.140 He's looking at you.

06:04:50.380 I don't want to make

06:04:51.200 the gestures on camera.

06:04:53.180 Dude,

06:04:53.420 I don't know.

06:04:53.960 That's not my question.

06:04:54.800 My question is,

06:04:55.540 if he looked at you,

06:04:57.880 looked,

06:04:58.860 just looked at you

06:04:59.860 in a way that you

06:05:00.460 thought was lustful,

06:05:01.900 is that sexual assault?

06:05:06.360 It's harassment.

06:05:07.200 Is it assault?

06:05:09.880 Okay,

06:05:10.200 no,

06:05:10.420 it's not physical assault.

06:05:12.300 Okay,

06:05:12.680 so then,

06:05:13.240 when you say SA,

06:05:14.880 when you say,

06:05:15.360 we're talking about

06:05:15.880 sexual assault,

06:05:16.820 you say that

06:05:17.660 you think that

06:05:18.300 80% of secular men 0.96

06:05:19.540 would sexually assault you. 0.95

06:05:21.140 We're not talking 0.88

06:05:21.920 about them

06:05:22.380 looking at you

06:05:23.380 in some whatever

06:05:24.040 bizarre way you think

06:05:25.380 that that means

06:05:26.600 that they want

06:05:27.080 to sleep with you

06:05:27.820 because that could

06:05:28.320 mean anything

06:05:28.840 and women are 1.00

06:05:29.480 often delusional

06:05:30.400 and overestimate

06:05:31.880 how good they look

06:05:33.480 as you can clearly

06:05:34.660 see from this panel.

06:05:35.560 So the thing is,

06:05:36.640 I just wonder,

06:05:38.300 right,

06:05:38.720 from the SA perspective,

06:05:40.580 do you honestly think

06:05:41.680 that 80%,

06:05:42.920 8 out of 10 men,

06:05:44.300 if they were trapped

06:05:44.780 in a forest with you,

06:05:46.160 would SA you?

06:05:48.480 Did we not just

06:05:49.400 get down to 20%?

06:05:51.640 No,

06:05:52.140 we didn't.

06:05:52.900 I said secular men,

06:05:54.680 not Christians. 0.83

06:05:56.080 Yeah,

06:05:56.440 8 out of 10 men,

06:05:57.680 I feel like,

06:05:58.360 would do that

06:05:58.880 and not just to me

06:05:59.760 to like,

06:06:00.560 if it's their

06:06:01.380 type of person,

06:06:02.520 yeah.

06:06:02.720 Do you realize

06:06:05.100 that if you were

06:06:05.780 to even take

06:06:06.500 20% of the men

06:06:07.880 of the United States,

06:06:09.840 I'm not even sure,

06:06:11.420 I'm not even sure

06:06:12.540 what percentage of that

06:06:13.720 would even be capable

06:06:15.040 of sexual activity.

06:06:16.820 You're talking about

06:06:17.600 men who are in their

06:06:18.420 60s,

06:06:19.200 70s,

06:06:20.280 80s,

06:06:20.880 there's only so many

06:06:21.920 men who are even

06:06:22.660 fit to do this.

06:06:24.900 The age bracket

06:06:25.620 that you're talking about

06:06:26.560 probably that you're

06:06:27.360 envisioning somewhere

06:06:28.080 between like 16 and 40.

06:06:30.700 8 out of 10 men

06:06:31.600 doesn't even come close

06:06:32.560 to encompassing this.

06:06:33.960 That's what I'm picturing.

06:06:35.740 How could you even

06:06:36.440 come up with this

06:06:37.640 as a rationale?

06:06:40.580 Because you said

06:06:41.360 random man,

06:06:42.260 so I'm thinking

06:06:43.000 logically like

06:06:44.140 the man I picture,

06:06:45.300 right?

06:06:45.780 The random man I'm picturing.

06:06:47.060 100% of the entire pool

06:06:49.640 which is going to include

06:06:50.540 everybody from

06:06:51.320 every age bracket

06:06:52.400 who's a man,

06:06:53.080 18 plus.

06:06:55.940 80%.

06:06:57.260 You're including

06:06:59.180 100 year olds,

06:07:00.520 90 year olds,

06:07:01.320 80 year olds,

06:07:02.180 70 year olds,

06:07:03.200 60 year olds.

06:07:04.260 I like that

06:07:04.780 you get to put

06:07:06.200 a box around

06:07:08.200 what it is

06:07:09.100 and the amount

06:07:09.780 of men,

06:07:10.760 the ages,

06:07:11.540 and all of these

06:07:12.040 different brackets

06:07:12.660 but when I'm clearly

06:07:13.560 telling you

06:07:14.160 this is what I think,

06:07:15.920 I can't do that.

06:07:17.520 Because I'm saying,

06:07:18.540 yeah, obviously.

06:07:18.960 That doesn't even make sense.

06:07:20.000 Honestly.

06:07:20.460 That doesn't make sense.

06:07:21.300 I'm giving you

06:07:21.860 clear criteria.

06:07:22.800 That's what I'm saying.

06:07:23.520 You get to

06:07:24.140 100% of men

06:07:25.280 are all men,

06:07:26.680 right?

06:07:28.220 Obviously,

06:07:28.740 men who are sexually 0.64

06:07:30.000 capable of doing that.

06:07:32.940 Yeah,

06:07:33.120 there's only going to be

06:07:33.920 X amount of men

06:07:34.720 who are even capable

06:07:35.480 of doing that.

06:07:36.560 Literally,

06:07:37.220 not even 8 out of 10 men

06:07:39.200 could be capable

06:07:40.660 of doing that.

06:07:41.540 I don't even think

06:07:42.300 it's possible

06:07:43.020 for them to even

06:07:44.580 be capable

06:07:45.220 of doing that.

06:07:46.020 Andrew,

06:07:46.340 just grant that

06:07:47.020 they're capable.

06:07:49.560 Yeah,

06:07:52.400 okay,

06:07:53.660 I guess we will

06:07:54.300 for the sake of argument

06:07:55.220 but it's so logical

06:07:58.640 it's hard for me

06:07:59.240 to even grant it.

06:08:00.080 Let's even grant,

06:08:00.960 look,

06:08:01.380 they're 18 to 50 year old

06:08:04.320 able-bodied men.

06:08:05.660 Let's just grant that.

06:08:08.700 What percentage

06:08:09.460 of those men

06:08:10.080 do you think,

06:08:11.340 is it 80% still?

06:08:12.220 specifically me?

06:08:20.620 I don't know,

06:08:21.460 like probably like

06:08:22.500 40.

06:08:26.400 What?

06:08:27.360 You said 80.

06:08:29.380 Yeah,

06:08:29.840 I was going based off

06:08:30.680 like if I'm just being

06:08:31.760 like a woman, 0.94

06:08:33.480 would I rather pick

06:08:34.420 a bear or a man?

06:08:35.600 I think it would be

06:08:36.340 safer for a woman 1.00

06:08:37.000 just to be with

06:08:37.660 a bear than a man.

06:08:38.920 Okay,

06:08:39.200 but so,

06:08:39.840 sure.

06:08:42.220 you said 80%

06:08:43.640 but now you're

06:08:44.620 saying 40%.

06:08:45.660 Because he's making

06:08:46.420 it very specific

06:08:47.260 to like me.

06:08:48.380 I just...

06:08:48.960 To you?

06:08:49.840 Yes.

06:08:50.500 If I were to be

06:08:51.380 spawned in the middle

06:08:52.180 of a forest,

06:08:52.820 I would rather

06:08:53.320 just pick a bear.

06:08:54.860 Okay,

06:08:55.380 but how did you

06:08:56.720 jump from 80%

06:08:57.720 to 40%?

06:09:00.220 Because if he wants

06:09:01.240 to like,

06:09:01.880 he was taking

06:09:02.520 his criteria

06:09:06.480 like out.

06:09:07.740 So it's like,

06:09:08.220 yeah,

06:09:08.480 like you also

06:09:09.380 are trying to

06:09:10.200 like say,

06:09:11.220 oh,

06:09:11.340 well,

06:09:11.540 if these men

06:09:12.380 are like 80,

06:09:13.240 they're not being

06:09:13.680 able to do this

06:09:14.500 and that.

06:09:14.980 And it's like,

06:09:15.560 okay,

06:09:15.840 well,

06:09:16.120 you want to make

06:09:16.760 it so like small

06:09:17.980 of I'm taking

06:09:18.920 out Christian men, 0.99

06:09:19.720 I'm taking out men 0.99

06:09:20.520 that have value,

06:09:21.320 like secular men, 0.97

06:09:22.240 right?

06:09:22.700 Okay,

06:09:23.060 here,

06:09:23.660 the way I framed

06:09:24.620 it was able-bodied

06:09:26.260 men between the

06:09:27.280 ages of 18 to 50.

06:09:29.440 Yeah,

06:09:29.720 so I'm,

06:09:30.380 now I'm adding

06:09:30.980 in.

06:09:31.260 Including,

06:09:31.680 including Christian men.

06:09:32.660 Now I'm adding it

06:09:33.100 in to the Christian

06:09:34.740 men being in this.

06:09:35.960 That's why it goes

06:09:36.580 down.

06:09:36.820 Okay,

06:09:37.020 let's take out 1.00

06:09:37.500 the Christian men 1.00

06:09:38.080 then.

06:09:38.300 Then you have

06:09:42.420 the same answer.

06:09:43.320 Okay,

06:09:43.560 80%.

06:09:44.120 Okay.

06:09:46.340 So then you're

06:09:47.280 willing to-

06:09:47.920 So 80% of atheists 1.00

06:09:49.280 are rapists. 1.00

06:09:51.060 80% of atheists 1.00

06:09:52.680 in your worldview,

06:09:54.040 you honestly believe

06:09:54.920 that 80%

06:09:56.180 of atheists

06:09:57.960 are going to

06:09:59.160 SA

06:09:59.560 a random woman 0.95

06:10:01.520 in the forest

06:10:02.340 if they had

06:10:03.060 the opportunity.

06:10:04.060 I just want to

06:10:04.420 make sure I got

06:10:04.860 this clear.

06:10:05.480 Yes,

06:10:05.700 if the opportunity

06:10:06.400 is there,

06:10:07.660 you don't know

06:10:08.460 what people

06:10:09.020 are capable of.

06:10:11.100 No,

06:10:11.600 I think I do

06:10:12.200 know very well

06:10:13.340 what people

06:10:13.940 are capable of.

06:10:15.240 If everything were-

06:10:16.160 But I also,

06:10:16.480 I also understand

06:10:17.720 what people

06:10:18.100 are capable

06:10:18.600 of logic.

06:10:19.620 That's how I know

06:10:20.440 that I know

06:10:21.080 what people

06:10:21.740 are capable of.

06:10:22.980 How many,

06:10:23.560 can I ask you,

06:10:24.340 how many men

06:10:25.100 do you think

06:10:25.500 would be

06:10:26.840 SA-ing women 1.00

06:10:28.160 if the whole

06:10:30.300 world kind of

06:10:30.860 just shut down

06:10:31.480 and there's no law,

06:10:32.500 there's no nothing,

06:10:33.100 it's just like a,

06:10:33.740 what is it,

06:10:34.500 like a hierarchy?

06:10:35.520 Less than 1%.

06:10:36.600 Far less than 1%.

06:10:38.880 I wouldn't even

06:10:39.780 say a half a percent.

06:10:41.400 And you have to

06:10:41.820 understand the

06:10:42.960 inert safeguards.

06:10:44.100 You have a father,

06:10:44.820 right?

06:10:46.420 He passed.

06:10:47.920 Okay,

06:10:48.300 but you did have him?

06:10:50.580 Somewhat.

06:10:51.680 Do you agree

06:10:52.260 that most fathers

06:10:53.080 don't SA their daughters? 1.00

06:10:56.840 Most fathers

06:10:57.300 don't SA

06:10:58.680 their daughters,

06:10:59.420 right?

06:10:59.800 Yeah,

06:10:59.960 most.

06:11:01.280 Yeah,

06:11:01.620 okay,

06:11:01.920 but they have

06:11:02.460 all the opportunity

06:11:03.340 to do so,

06:11:04.240 but they don't.

06:11:05.600 But when you have

06:11:06.480 a genetic bond

06:11:07.320 to someone,

06:11:08.480 you're less likely

06:11:09.160 to do that.

06:11:09.320 No,

06:11:09.400 even with stepdaughters,

06:11:10.700 they don't.

06:11:12.680 Most do not.

06:11:14.600 The overwhelming,

06:11:15.800 vast majority

06:11:16.440 do not.

06:11:17.980 And they're not

06:11:18.560 genetically related then.

06:11:20.740 But they could,

06:11:21.900 the opportunity

06:11:22.520 is there,

06:11:23.140 but they don't.

06:11:24.100 men are not 0.65

06:11:27.060 so predatory

06:11:27.900 as you're making

06:11:28.480 them out to be,

06:11:29.140 not even close.

06:11:30.560 It's kind of,

06:11:31.200 it's actually absurd

06:11:32.100 that you would

06:11:32.640 even believe that.

06:11:33.880 Why would you believe

06:11:34.760 you have brothers,

06:11:35.880 all sorts of men

06:11:36.840 who have been

06:11:37.240 in and out of your life

06:11:38.160 to think that

06:11:38.920 eight and ten of them

06:11:39.720 would just grape

06:11:40.500 a random woman 0.95

06:11:41.240 if they were

06:11:41.560 in a forest with them?

06:11:42.840 That's,

06:11:43.440 that is,

06:11:44.460 I mean,

06:11:46.220 that's a significant

06:11:46.980 allegation.

06:11:47.680 If men have 0.98

06:11:48.000 the opportunity,

06:11:49.160 they take it.

06:11:51.160 What opportunity?

06:11:52.400 To do what?

06:11:53.540 To essay someone.

06:11:55.660 I've seen it

06:11:56.120 more times than not

06:11:57.780 that when men 0.76

06:11:58.360 have that opportunity,

06:12:00.040 they will take it.

06:12:01.360 So do,

06:12:01.980 let me ask you

06:12:02.540 a question.

06:12:03.540 Do women, 1.00

06:12:04.780 have you ever

06:12:05.200 seen a woman

06:12:05.920 rub a man 1.00

06:12:07.420 or put her hands 0.97

06:12:09.720 on a man

06:12:10.280 even though

06:12:10.900 he hasn't actually

06:12:12.120 given any verbal

06:12:13.300 consent to do that?

06:12:16.640 Yeah.

06:12:17.680 Yeah.

06:12:18.280 Is that essay?

06:12:19.360 No.

06:12:20.340 It's only essay

06:12:21.000 when a man does it,

06:12:21.780 right?

06:12:22.500 I'm talking about

06:12:23.360 like full on essay.

06:12:25.140 Okay.

06:12:25.600 So you're talking

06:12:26.440 about like full 0.97

06:12:27.020 penetrative sex, 0.99

06:12:28.820 right? 0.99

06:12:29.140 Yeah.

06:12:29.520 Against your will.

06:12:30.540 Okay.

06:12:31.020 So if this is the case,

06:12:32.540 then you would have

06:12:33.780 to say that

06:12:34.780 eight and ten

06:12:35.360 of your family members,

06:12:36.500 eight and ten

06:12:36.880 of your,

06:12:37.520 of my male family members,

06:12:38.860 of Brian's male family members,

06:12:40.320 of all the women

06:12:41.620 who are sitting here,

06:12:42.720 eight and ten

06:12:43.260 of their male family members

06:12:44.660 would grape

06:12:46.800 a random woman 0.95

06:12:47.920 in the forest

06:12:48.780 if they could.

06:12:50.740 Does that even sound

06:12:52.280 reasonable to you?

06:12:56.200 Probably not.

06:12:57.640 Yeah,

06:12:57.940 probably not.

06:13:00.140 It's a little out there,

06:13:01.660 right?

06:13:03.360 I actually just want

06:13:04.700 to hear this.

06:13:05.860 so you said

06:13:07.120 80% of men,

06:13:08.160 so this would

06:13:08.700 amount to

06:13:09.940 about a hundred,

06:13:13.740 excuse me,

06:13:14.520 amount to about

06:13:15.640 110 million men

06:13:18.240 are inclined,

06:13:20.560 are essentially

06:13:21.300 grapevests.

06:13:23.200 Is this just like

06:13:23.860 in America?

06:13:26.760 Yes.

06:13:27.600 Yeah,

06:13:28.100 in the U.S.

06:13:28.660 The male population 0.99

06:13:29.860 of the United States,

06:13:31.120 are you,

06:13:31.460 are you confident

06:13:32.440 and prepared to state

06:13:33.400 that 110 million men

06:13:36.500 in the United States

06:13:37.480 are,

06:13:39.440 are inclined

06:13:40.520 to SA women?

06:13:43.960 With the growing

06:13:44.960 climate of society,

06:13:46.380 probably like that

06:13:47.580 in like 10 years,

06:13:49.820 15.

06:13:51.120 Wait,

06:13:51.320 what do you mean?

06:13:52.120 Growing climate

06:13:52.840 of society?

06:13:53.740 Like,

06:13:54.320 just the way

06:13:56.140 I think that

06:13:57.600 kids are going

06:13:58.180 right now,

06:13:58.620 like,

06:13:59.260 it's more,

06:14:00.480 I can see that

06:14:01.160 happening if society

06:14:01.980 stays the way it is.

06:14:03.000 and gets worse.

06:14:07.380 So wait,

06:14:08.020 you think

06:14:08.300 now we're more inclined

06:14:16.440 to violence

06:14:17.540 in schools

06:14:18.420 more than they were

06:14:19.960 when I was like

06:14:21.160 in high school,

06:14:21.740 middle school,

06:14:22.620 and I actually...

06:14:23.860 The violence rates

06:14:24.460 have gone down

06:14:25.100 across the board.

06:14:27.360 The violent,

06:14:27.880 in fact,

06:14:28.380 inside the United States,

06:14:30.060 especially since

06:14:30.680 the 60s and 70s,

06:14:31.900 violent crime

06:14:33.140 has drastically

06:14:34.100 been reduced.

06:14:34.700 Not violent crime,

06:14:35.180 I'm talking about

06:14:35.740 like kids' 0.76

06:14:36.400 violent behaviors

06:14:37.140 in school settings.

06:14:38.280 Okay,

06:14:38.540 here,

06:14:38.780 just...

06:14:38.900 You mean crimes?

06:14:39.920 Those are crimes.

06:14:42.420 And they're

06:14:43.100 recorded crimes,

06:14:44.400 right?

06:14:44.860 In fact,

06:14:45.560 I would say

06:14:46.060 inside of a school

06:14:46.960 that those are

06:14:48.020 the most recorded crimes.

06:14:49.700 If violence happens

06:14:50.480 in a school,

06:14:51.340 it's the most reported

06:14:52.740 type of crime,

06:14:53.640 probably.

06:14:54.380 Well,

06:14:54.560 actually,

06:14:54.860 teachers have less...

06:14:55.860 Okay,

06:14:56.220 no, no, no.

06:14:56.640 I'm sorry.

06:14:57.220 I gotta bring it back.

06:14:58.520 All I simply want

06:14:59.640 is...

06:15:00.420 No.

06:15:02.280 No what?

06:15:03.020 No,

06:15:03.260 to what your question is.

06:15:05.680 Well,

06:15:06.060 I'll ask it again

06:15:06.720 just to be clear.

06:15:07.640 How can you say no?

06:15:08.760 Okay.

06:15:09.700 Because he's asking

06:15:10.300 about 100 million men.

06:15:10.620 Yes,

06:15:10.900 okay,

06:15:11.320 yes.

06:15:12.280 Yes,

06:15:12.740 to whatever your question is.

06:15:13.760 I mean,

06:15:13.980 that's just absurd.

06:15:14.640 Because he's asking

06:15:15.040 about the 100 million

06:15:15.780 men in America.

06:15:16.320 You said 80%.

06:15:17.220 It's pure math.

06:15:18.660 Okay,

06:15:18.900 I just said no.

06:15:19.920 So how can your

06:15:20.720 statement of 80%

06:15:21.720 be correct?

06:15:24.360 So it wasn't...

06:15:26.240 What?

06:15:27.080 It wasn't.

06:15:27.960 I was going based off

06:15:29.040 of like a very quick answer.

06:15:29.640 That's fair.

06:15:30.140 You can revise it.

06:15:31.160 Hang on.

06:15:31.560 You can revise it.

06:15:32.480 That's fair.

06:15:33.420 What would you revise it to?

06:15:34.980 What's the revised percentage?

06:15:36.460 Like...

06:15:37.000 40%?

06:15:37.700 Yeah,

06:15:38.080 sure.

06:15:38.620 Okay,

06:15:38.860 so 40%...

06:15:40.860 40% of say

06:15:42.880 140 million men

06:15:44.480 is...

06:15:46.860 Oh,

06:15:48.920 sorry.

06:15:49.400 Frick.

06:15:52.980 56 million men. 0.97

06:15:54.900 Are you still doing

06:15:55.500 like the age brackets

06:15:56.420 or no?

06:15:57.080 Just all...

06:15:58.160 Just all men. 0.99

06:16:02.920 So 40%

06:16:04.060 of 140 million men

06:16:05.380 is 56 million men.

06:16:08.600 Are you prepared

06:16:09.540 to say

06:16:09.840 that 56 million men

06:16:11.420 who live

06:16:11.980 in the United States

06:16:12.780 are inclined

06:16:13.740 to this level

06:16:14.440 of criminality?

06:16:15.180 Okay.

06:16:15.340 I would like to hope not,

06:16:32.540 but at the same time,

06:16:33.860 like,

06:16:34.400 I feel like it's possible.

06:16:36.900 Can I ask a question?

06:16:39.320 Okay,

06:16:39.800 so like,

06:16:40.420 you know how you said

06:16:40.940 that a guy would like,

06:16:42.040 as say you have given

06:16:43.240 the chance?

06:16:44.180 So let's say

06:16:44.940 you said you did

06:16:45.600 like the stripper thing, 0.88

06:16:46.920 you gave them

06:16:47.640 the chance to,

06:16:48.460 did they?

06:16:49.960 Without your consent?

06:16:51.380 Well,

06:16:51.840 I was,

06:16:52.920 I mean,

06:16:53.340 you're there in a bikini,

06:16:54.400 so they take that

06:16:55.300 as given the chance.

06:16:56.920 That's why,

06:16:57.320 but did they

06:16:57.940 take that chance?

06:16:58.660 I didn't let them,

06:16:59.640 but you know,

06:17:00.540 I got physically pushed

06:17:01.900 into walls

06:17:02.400 because I didn't let them.

06:17:03.560 I got pushed,

06:17:05.620 pulled,

06:17:07.320 like,

06:17:08.720 But would you say

06:17:09.200 you put yourself

06:17:09.940 in that situation?

06:17:11.300 Yeah,

06:17:11.580 I put myself

06:17:12.140 in that situation.

06:17:12.540 Melonova donated $100.

06:17:15.420 Oh my God,

06:17:16.720 this chick is so deluded. 1.00

06:17:18.640 You walk through

06:17:19.320 a grocery store

06:17:20.280 and four out of five men

06:17:21.760 catcall you? 1.00

06:17:23.080 Megan fucking Fox 1.00

06:17:24.200 would get catcalled 1.00

06:17:25.260 by 10% of men. 1.00

06:17:26.680 You just fucking hate men. 1.00

06:17:30.220 Actually, 1.00

06:17:30.920 I'm going to have to agree

06:17:32.240 with Melonova here. 0.98

06:17:33.880 It is impossible.

06:17:35.780 I think that it could

06:17:37.400 never be demonstrated

06:17:38.360 in a million years.

06:17:40.020 I think we could run

06:17:40.740 the experiment

06:17:41.420 80,000 times plus

06:17:43.640 of putting you

06:17:44.520 in a random grocery store

06:17:45.980 and there's no possible way

06:17:47.880 eight out of ten men

06:17:49.260 even acknowledge

06:17:50.680 that you exist.

06:17:52.520 I don't think that

06:17:53.460 two out of ten men

06:17:55.000 would even acknowledge

06:17:56.320 that you exist

06:17:57.180 as you're walking

06:17:57.940 through a grocery store.

06:17:58.820 I don't even think

06:17:59.280 two out of ten would.

06:18:00.240 In fact,

06:18:01.040 I'll do one better.

06:18:02.780 I will literally

06:18:04.280 anywhere in the United States

06:18:06.380 and the Crucible

06:18:06.900 will fund this,

06:18:07.580 take you to any grocery store

06:18:09.140 that you pick

06:18:10.020 and if two out of ten men

06:18:12.360 catcall you,

06:18:13.300 I'll give you $1,000.

06:18:14.980 You want to take that bet?

06:18:16.460 I don't need $1,000 that bad.

06:18:19.640 Actually,

06:18:20.320 $10,000.

06:18:21.100 We'll do $10,000.

06:18:22.960 Do you think

06:18:24.740 two out of ten men

06:18:26.100 in any grocery store

06:18:28.480 that I take you to

06:18:29.560 in the United States

06:18:30.340 are going to catcall you

06:18:31.140 just two out of ten?

06:18:32.540 Not catcall,

06:18:33.820 but look at yes.

06:18:36.460 Okay,

06:18:36.940 you want to take the bet?

06:18:39.500 Sure.

06:18:40.720 Okay,

06:18:41.200 so then

06:18:41.760 if you lose,

06:18:42.740 I get $10,000.

06:18:43.820 Old man marine

06:18:44.920 donated $100.

06:18:46.200 If I essayed you

06:18:48.180 in the forest,

06:18:48.920 I would also

06:18:49.620 have to unalive you, 1.00

06:18:51.120 probably burn your body 1.00

06:18:52.360 and hide the remains. 1.00

06:18:54.080 If I saved you,

06:18:55.280 I would be a hero.

06:18:56.720 This is the logic

06:18:57.580 men would come to

06:18:58.460 in that situation.

06:19:00.960 Well put,

06:19:01.840 old man marine.

06:19:02.440 And I'll add on,

06:19:03.800 so we used to,

06:19:04.980 like on the

06:19:05.440 whatever channel,

06:19:05.960 we used to do

06:19:06.400 these hidden camera videos.

06:19:08.260 We'll film this experiment,

06:19:10.020 hidden camera,

06:19:11.360 and...

06:19:11.420 And I'll put up the,

06:19:12.200 hang on,

06:19:12.520 I'll put up the cash.

06:19:13.940 The Crucible

06:19:14.520 will put up the cash.

06:19:16.200 If you go to

06:19:16.940 any random grocery store

06:19:18.440 right there in Santa Barbara,

06:19:19.840 you can pick.

06:19:21.140 Okay?

06:19:21.740 If two out of ten men

06:19:23.660 in that grocery store

06:19:24.960 cat call you,

06:19:25.960 we'll put up the ten grand.

06:19:27.900 And Brian will have it

06:19:28.660 all on film.

06:19:32.640 Does it have to be

06:19:33.400 in Santa Barbara?

06:19:34.180 I don't want to drive

06:19:34.940 out here again.

06:19:36.600 I mean,

06:19:37.320 even on the street,

06:19:38.800 like...

06:19:42.080 Even if you were

06:19:42.820 on the street,

06:19:43.380 I can't imagine

06:19:43.960 it would be

06:19:44.540 as high as you claim

06:19:45.780 it would be.

06:19:46.200 but...

06:19:48.200 Okay.

06:19:50.620 I just think,

06:19:51.520 honestly,

06:19:51.920 it's just like

06:19:52.380 the amount of bias

06:19:54.440 that people have

06:19:55.460 towards men

06:19:55.900 is kind of crazy. 0.98

06:20:00.460 Do you hate men?

06:20:01.680 No.

06:20:02.940 But you think

06:20:03.680 80% of them

06:20:04.500 are grapists.

06:20:06.200 Do you hate grapists?

06:20:07.940 Oh, yeah.

06:20:09.400 Do you hate people

06:20:10.080 who are inclined

06:20:10.840 to be grapists?

06:20:11.780 grapists?

06:20:13.280 Well,

06:20:13.960 I would...

06:20:16.300 What do you mean?

06:20:17.140 Would you hate a man...

06:20:18.240 Let's say he hasn't

06:20:19.040 committed the crime,

06:20:20.480 but if given the opportunity,

06:20:22.480 he would.

06:20:24.620 And if 80% of those

06:20:26.120 are like...

06:20:26.780 Right?

06:20:27.240 Is the crime

06:20:27.760 only being...

06:20:28.700 Okay.

06:20:28.780 Do you hate grapists?

06:20:30.200 Yeah. 0.92

06:20:30.600 Do you hate men

06:20:31.420 who would be inclined

06:20:32.160 to be grapists?

06:20:33.020 If they haven't

06:20:35.660 committed the crime...

06:20:36.640 They haven't done it,

06:20:37.760 but if given the opportunity,

06:20:39.660 they would.

06:20:42.340 Would you hate them?

06:20:44.220 Or do you hate... 0.67

06:20:44.900 Do you hate men

06:20:45.960 that would be inclined

06:20:46.680 to do it?

06:20:50.900 This is actually

06:20:51.660 a total checkmate.

06:20:53.420 If a man is inclined 0.99

06:20:54.620 to rape a woman 0.99

06:20:55.600 if he had the opportunity... 1.00

06:20:56.800 Great.

06:20:57.620 Oh, sorry.

06:20:58.000 Would you hate that man?

06:21:00.120 Well, yeah.

06:21:01.320 You would hate somebody

06:21:02.620 who's inclined

06:21:03.300 to do such a thing, right?

06:21:04.880 If they wanted to do that,

06:21:06.020 if they had the opportunity...

06:21:06.980 And you think 80% of men

06:21:09.020 are inclined to do that.

06:21:11.140 In that situation...

06:21:11.420 So you hate 80% of men.

06:21:15.120 I don't hate...

06:21:15.840 So you hate men, essentially.

06:21:17.520 I don't hate men.

06:21:18.520 Yeah. 0.97

06:21:18.800 Well, you hate a majority of men.

06:21:20.880 Okay, but we also brought it down

06:21:22.120 to like 40 and not 80.

06:21:24.300 No, but you said overall it's 80.

06:21:26.280 Okay, but we brought it down to 40.

06:21:28.880 But that was like

06:21:30.340 if you only look at

06:21:31.540 what, Christian men you said?

06:21:32.980 No, that was you

06:21:33.920 putting the math of like

06:21:35.320 how many men

06:21:35.900 after you said it was...

06:21:37.820 I don't know.

06:21:38.140 You brought up the math

06:21:38.880 for the 80%

06:21:39.660 and then I dropped it down to 40.

06:21:40.880 I don't know why the number

06:21:42.000 would matter.

06:21:43.260 Because I had to like

06:21:43.900 realistically think of the number.

06:21:45.420 I wasn't thinking of the number

06:21:46.400 when I first gave the answer,

06:21:47.540 obviously.

06:21:48.180 So 56 million,

06:21:50.340 you know, that's reasonable.

06:21:52.560 But 100 and I don't know,

06:21:53.860 10 million, that's just...

06:21:56.600 No, it couldn't be 110.

06:21:58.320 But 56 million, that's... 0.95

06:21:59.860 Look, just say you hate men.

06:22:06.000 I don't hate men, though.

06:22:08.360 Well, you're kind of

06:22:09.200 walking back your original position.

06:22:11.880 Which is...

06:22:13.320 If I hated 40% of women, 1.00

06:22:15.940 would that mean that I hate women? 1.00

06:22:19.240 You know you hate 40% of women. 1.00

06:22:22.160 Would I not be a woman hater? 1.00

06:22:24.400 No. 0.97

06:22:25.040 You hate 40% of women. 1.00

06:22:26.420 What is the 40% of women you hate? 1.00

06:22:27.440 Okay.

06:22:27.860 What if he hated 99% of women? 0.67

06:22:30.940 Would he hate women then? 0.69

06:22:34.100 I guess.

06:22:37.980 Does the percentage matter?

06:22:39.360 It's like if you hate even 1%, 0.64

06:22:40.700 you hate women. 0.54

06:22:41.780 Yeah. 0.97

06:22:43.060 It's the same thing. 0.81

06:22:44.120 Because I hate specific men

06:22:47.720 does not mean that I hate all men.

06:22:49.540 But if 80% of men

06:22:51.200 fall into the category that you've made,

06:22:53.940 then you...

06:22:55.460 But this is just all hypothetical, right?

06:22:59.100 So hypothetically, sure,

06:23:00.840 you want to get your argument of

06:23:03.260 I hate men, sure. 0.99

06:23:04.100 I hate men. 1.00

06:23:04.660 I hate men so much. 1.00

06:23:06.560 I mean, you can be honest. 0.99

06:23:08.740 I don't.

06:23:10.200 You don't?

06:23:10.800 No, I don't.

06:23:11.980 I mean,

06:23:13.840 wouldn't it be hateful to have this...

06:23:15.320 I don't know.

06:23:15.720 I got to say,

06:23:17.220 like,

06:23:18.040 I'm just going to be real here.

06:23:20.640 From your perspective,

06:23:21.780 you thought 8 out of 10 men

06:23:23.420 would grape you.

06:23:24.620 This was a...

06:23:25.340 Yeah, this was like,

06:23:26.240 obviously I wasn't thinking.

06:23:27.080 Yeah, I know.

06:23:27.760 I know, but hang on.

06:23:28.580 Let me just finish.

06:23:28.800 Because you guys wanted to take it

06:23:29.920 to the logistics here.

06:23:30.600 If I thought that 8 out of 10 women, 1.00

06:23:33.880 right,

06:23:34.980 would rob me.

06:23:36.080 8 out of 10 women

06:23:37.820 would rob me if they could. 0.99

06:23:39.560 I think I would hate all women. 1.00

06:23:50.620 Okay. 0.99

06:23:56.520 I mean,

06:23:57.180 that would be reasonable, right?

06:23:58.720 Okay.

06:24:00.160 Well, I'll move it on from this,

06:24:01.540 but...

06:24:02.540 I do think it is pretty objectionable

06:24:06.300 to think that...

06:24:08.600 I think it would just be more sense 0.99

06:24:10.140 for him to hate women 0.95

06:24:11.220 that would rob him

06:24:11.960 than saying he hates 80,

06:24:13.900 like, all women. 0.57

06:24:15.720 No, I just think it's kind of crazy

06:24:18.260 that you have this pretty wild bias

06:24:21.500 against men.

06:24:22.600 Okay, one day you have sons.

06:24:33.600 Do you think you would be happy

06:24:34.880 for your sons to grow up

06:24:35.800 in a world where...

06:24:37.360 all women think 1.00

06:24:41.640 that there's an 80% chance

06:24:42.980 that your sons S.A. them?

06:24:45.100 Do you think that's a good world

06:24:45.980 for men to live in? 0.94

06:24:46.780 They probably wouldn't be

06:24:49.220 in an area of thinking that

06:24:52.360 or, like, around women

06:24:53.540 that think that.

06:24:55.680 What do you mean?

06:24:58.080 That's...

06:24:58.600 Their own mother does.

06:25:02.120 Not...

06:25:03.040 See, that's what I already said.

06:25:04.860 I brought it back down to...

06:25:06.340 Okay, 40 is still objectionable,

06:25:08.840 but...

06:25:09.600 Okay.

06:25:10.400 And I think you only brought it down

06:25:13.720 because you were receiving

06:25:14.600 so much pushback.

06:25:16.080 It was that I didn't realistically

06:25:17.360 think of, like,

06:25:18.000 the number I was saying.

06:25:19.660 Obviously.

06:25:21.140 Are you sure you're even thinking

06:25:22.600 about the new number

06:25:23.920 that you're thinking about?

06:25:26.000 40%, 56 million?

06:25:28.040 I said originally, like,

06:25:29.520 out of 10 men.

06:25:30.220 Out of 10 random men,

06:25:31.620 yeah, I'm sure that there are

06:25:32.800 probably four random men

06:25:33.940 that would do that.

06:25:36.240 Okay.

06:25:36.940 I mean, the...

06:25:39.120 I just want to let you know

06:25:40.080 that there's an 8 out of 10 chance

06:25:41.520 that your boyfriend

06:25:42.160 is going to be a grapist.

06:25:46.500 Okay, well, I mean,

06:25:47.760 I don't know where else

06:25:48.500 to go with this.

06:25:49.100 With your revised number,

06:25:50.180 that's actually better, though, right?

06:25:51.680 Because then there's only

06:25:52.400 a 4 out of 10 chance.

06:25:54.760 By the way,

06:25:55.580 I just want to let you know,

06:25:57.220 like, I want you to think about this.

06:25:59.780 Let's say I came to you

06:26:01.240 with 10 M&Ms, okay?

06:26:04.140 10 M&Ms,

06:26:05.620 and I'm going to explain to you

06:26:07.120 how many of them are poisonous.

06:26:08.360 If I were to tell you

06:26:10.700 that 4 out of the 10 M&Ms

06:26:13.580 were poisonous,

06:26:15.440 what do you think

06:26:16.120 your chances would be

06:26:17.540 that you picked up

06:26:19.840 one of those M&Ms 0.99

06:26:21.020 and ate it,

06:26:22.200 and you died?

06:26:23.220 It would be pretty terrifying, right?

06:26:26.400 Yeah, I wouldn't touch them.

06:26:28.400 Right, you wouldn't touch them,

06:26:30.000 which is why we don't believe you,

06:26:31.780 because I wouldn't think

06:26:32.840 that you would touch men

06:26:33.960 if you actually thought

06:26:35.660 that 4 in 10 were grapists,

06:26:38.720 let alone 8 in 10.

06:26:43.720 TTS is 69.

06:26:45.060 We're going to wrap up here

06:26:46.160 pretty soon.

06:26:46.900 We're not going to do,

06:26:47.800 like, the lower tier.

06:26:48.860 Like, this is the last TTS drop.

06:26:51.100 $69 a roast session,

06:26:52.560 if you want it.

06:26:53.960 I'm going to adjust

06:26:54.760 a couple things.

06:26:55.260 Going around the table,

06:26:56.000 do you consider yourself

06:26:57.340 a feminist,

06:26:58.200 starting with you,

06:26:58.840 and we'll open it up

06:26:59.460 to the whole panel now.

06:27:00.440 No.

06:27:01.660 No.

06:27:03.600 No.

06:27:04.000 No.

06:27:05.440 No.

06:27:06.520 No.

06:27:07.840 No.

06:27:09.240 No.

06:27:12.160 Andrew,

06:27:13.040 what's your definition

06:27:13.680 of feminism? 0.93

06:27:16.700 My definition would be

06:27:18.880 a rejection of patriarchal systems

06:27:22.460 and a movement towards equality

06:27:24.300 or egalitarianism.

06:27:26.000 Going around the table,

06:27:29.620 do you reject patriarchy?

06:27:35.740 Patriarchy meaning 0.84

06:27:36.660 men are at the head of systems.

06:27:39.780 Oh.

06:27:40.000 It means of the father.

06:27:41.220 Men are at the head of systems. 0.51

06:27:42.540 No, I don't reject that.

06:27:44.320 No.

06:27:45.620 No.

06:27:46.620 No.

06:27:47.600 No.

06:27:49.160 Wait, rejecting it means

06:27:50.820 that I don't think they are?

06:27:52.740 No, you don't like it.

06:27:53.140 No, it means that

06:27:54.380 you don't want them to be.

06:27:56.800 You don't think you're pushing

06:27:57.700 for equality.

06:27:59.460 I don't know.

06:28:00.120 Is there a patriarchy?

06:28:01.120 Why don't we start there?

06:28:01.900 Is there a patriarchy?

06:28:02.860 Well, I think there's a better way

06:28:04.200 to frame this.

06:28:05.080 Let's try it this way.

06:28:07.460 Men are at the head of systems 0.99

06:28:09.560 at the expense of women, 1.00

06:28:11.460 meaning that

06:28:12.300 if all men decide

06:28:14.960 that women are not to be 1.00

06:28:17.060 at the head of any system,

06:28:19.320 then women aren't allowed to be. 1.00

06:28:21.060 that would be patriarchy.

06:28:27.860 Would you be against patriarchy then?

06:28:30.220 Yes, I would be.

06:28:31.780 Yes.

06:28:34.360 I'm not against it.

06:28:38.060 Not against it either.

06:28:41.020 Oh, okay.

06:28:42.040 Well, I'll move on

06:28:43.000 to a different topic then.

06:28:44.500 Let's see.

06:28:48.580 Melo Nova donated $69.

06:28:51.620 $69 TTS, guys.

06:28:53.000 I just have to point out

06:28:54.180 that the chick on the right 0.99

06:28:55.180 said she's volunteered

06:28:56.380 at a church a lot lately,

06:28:57.880 but said earlier

06:28:58.780 that she didn't know

06:28:59.760 the name of it.

06:29:00.480 I said I wasn't going

06:29:01.500 to say the name of it.

06:29:02.540 I know the name of it.

06:29:04.860 Yeah, I did think

06:29:05.740 she knows it.

06:29:06.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:29:07.260 That's true,

06:29:08.160 but to be fair

06:29:11.140 to the chatter,

06:29:12.540 while I think the chatter

06:29:13.560 is slightly confused

06:29:14.540 and I don't think

06:29:15.220 you should say the name

06:29:16.100 because it could dox you,

06:29:17.920 I do think that

06:29:19.280 if you were a part

06:29:20.280 of this church

06:29:20.920 and volunteering at it often,

06:29:22.920 you would know

06:29:23.440 the denomination it was.

06:29:25.780 Are you Calvinist?

06:29:26.780 Are you Baptist?

06:29:28.040 Presbyterian.

06:29:28.400 Are you Four Square?

06:29:29.520 Are you Presbyterian?

06:29:30.820 You know, like,

06:29:31.940 what are you exactly

06:29:33.280 as far as Christianity goes?

06:29:34.080 Baptist.

06:29:35.540 Are you a Catholic?

06:29:37.460 No.

06:29:38.320 I grew up Catholic.

06:29:39.080 I'm not Catholic.

06:29:40.720 Okay.

06:29:41.680 Astrazorian.

06:29:43.180 Is that one?

06:29:45.940 Is that a,

06:29:46.800 is that a...

06:29:48.520 What's the one

06:29:49.700 you said with the P?

06:29:50.440 I've asked before

06:29:51.380 and they said...

06:29:52.240 Presbyterian.

06:29:53.060 I think Presbyterian.

06:29:53.720 Oh, Presbyterian.

06:29:54.520 I've asked before

06:29:55.440 because I wanted to know

06:29:57.020 and they didn't really

06:29:59.020 give me an answer, so...

06:30:00.620 How do they...

06:30:01.360 They just told me

06:30:03.560 that, like,

06:30:03.840 we're just, you know,

06:30:05.040 disciples of Christ.

06:30:06.820 Word?

06:30:08.540 Mormon?

06:30:09.380 Okay, anyways.

06:30:11.940 Who's the primary victim

06:30:12.860 of war, men or women?

06:30:23.740 I don't know.

06:30:26.080 Got to pick one

06:30:26.760 if you have to pick one.

06:30:29.420 Victim of war?

06:30:30.420 Yeah.

06:30:30.740 W-A-R? 1.00

06:30:32.020 Yeah.

06:30:32.640 Who's the primary victim

06:30:33.580 of war, men or women?

06:30:39.720 I guess men 0.64

06:30:40.740 because they go out

06:30:41.560 to war more than us.

06:30:43.080 Men.

06:30:44.140 Men.

06:30:45.180 Men.

06:30:45.920 Men.

06:30:46.540 Men.

06:30:47.360 Actually, women. 1.00

06:30:50.040 Sorry, repeat that?

06:30:51.320 Women. 0.81

06:30:52.560 Oh, okay.

06:30:53.100 If you get deeper to it

06:30:54.560 because, I mean,

06:30:55.060 if a man dies,

06:30:56.020 yeah, he's a victim of war,

06:30:57.180 but then, like,

06:30:57.720 his family suffers afterwards.

06:30:59.340 Which would include men?

06:31:00.680 The children.

06:31:01.540 Yeah.

06:31:02.740 It's kind of like everyone.

06:31:04.820 You can't really pick on that one.

06:31:07.060 What do you mean,

06:31:07.520 pick on that one?

06:31:08.120 You can't, like,

06:31:08.540 pick man or woman

06:31:09.400 because everyone suffers.

06:31:12.040 But...

06:31:12.480 So, asking the primary victim.

06:31:15.520 So, let's assume...

06:31:17.260 I guess then men 0.87

06:31:17.900 because they die.

06:31:18.920 Yeah.

06:31:19.360 So, I mean,

06:31:19.800 the scenario I was about to give

06:31:20.900 was just,

06:31:22.100 let's assume the man

06:31:23.340 doesn't die instantly

06:31:24.400 and instead,

06:31:26.360 he's in the no man's land

06:31:28.080 and he gets a bullet 0.99

06:31:29.800 to the gut, 0.92

06:31:30.760 but the enemy

06:31:31.860 can't finish him off,

06:31:33.220 but his fellow soldiers

06:31:36.500 can't come and rescue him

06:31:37.900 and he's in the no man's land

06:31:39.340 and he just kind of sits there

06:31:41.220 while there's bullets

06:31:42.400 whizzing by

06:31:43.120 in the mud,

06:31:44.740 in the damp mud,

06:31:46.800 bleeding out

06:31:48.060 and he's survived,

06:31:49.360 but he survives

06:31:50.080 for about 10 hours

06:31:51.460 and he's just,

06:31:53.560 you know...

06:31:54.120 Men.

06:31:55.820 Okay, that makes it easy.

06:31:57.920 All right.

06:32:00.320 Even if women get essayed 1.00

06:32:02.020 during war,

06:32:02.880 still men?

06:32:06.820 Yeah.

06:32:07.260 Or does that change?

06:32:09.080 Still men,

06:32:09.520 the victims?

06:32:10.400 Primary victims?

06:32:12.300 Yeah.

06:32:12.960 Okay.

06:32:13.600 Here's one.

06:32:14.680 My chat's killing me.

06:32:16.340 Mello Nova donated $69.

06:32:18.840 Okay.

06:32:19.440 All right.

06:32:20.360 One more.

06:32:21.020 Yo, thank you, Mello.

06:32:22.060 Appreciate it.

06:32:22.440 W Andrew.

06:32:23.380 Thank you, brother.

06:32:23.820 W whatever.

06:32:25.000 W Maddie.

06:32:26.540 Love you guys.

06:32:27.800 L Maddie.

06:32:28.000 I love the idea

06:32:29.100 of volunteering at a church

06:32:30.460 that you don't know

06:32:31.320 what they believe

06:32:32.040 or who they are.

06:32:33.360 Lul.

06:32:35.900 Okay.

06:32:36.380 I think if we just

06:32:38.020 don't really pick

06:32:38.980 a denomination

06:32:39.760 is the thing.

06:32:40.840 Okay.

06:32:41.420 All right.

06:32:41.800 That's fine.

06:32:42.440 It could be non-denominational.

06:32:44.020 Thank you, Mello Nova.

06:32:44.820 Appreciate it, man.

06:32:46.220 Are men or women 0.88

06:32:46.980 physically stronger?

06:32:48.860 Men.

06:32:49.560 Men.

06:32:50.200 Men.

06:32:50.880 Men.

06:32:51.600 Men.

06:32:52.200 Could be both.

06:32:53.460 Well, hold on.

06:32:55.160 Generally speaking.

06:32:56.660 Have you not seen

06:32:57.140 those girls? 1.00

06:32:58.560 Yes, there are some women 1.00

06:32:59.820 who are going to be stronger

06:33:00.640 than some men.

06:33:01.220 Biologically?

06:33:02.280 Yeah.

06:33:03.080 What does that mean?

06:33:04.440 Biologically?

06:33:04.840 How people are more.

06:33:06.200 Are most women 0.99

06:33:06.940 stronger than most men?

06:33:08.140 No.

06:33:08.980 Wait, hold on, hold on.

06:33:10.380 Hold on.

06:33:10.860 Are most women 0.99

06:33:11.840 stronger than most men?

06:33:13.100 No.

06:33:14.640 Okay, let's dive

06:33:15.600 into this then.

06:33:17.760 Let me have the girls 1.00

06:33:18.780 here answer first.

06:33:21.240 Yeah, men

06:33:22.040 are physically stronger.

06:33:23.540 Men.

06:33:24.680 I don't understand.

06:33:26.280 I think, Brian,

06:33:27.420 maybe you misheard her.

06:33:28.520 Yeah, I was going to say.

06:33:29.180 But you asked her,

06:33:30.980 do you think that

06:33:32.060 most women are stronger 1.00

06:33:33.360 than most men?

06:33:34.200 And she said no.

06:33:36.080 No, I thought I said

06:33:36.820 are most men stronger

06:33:37.900 than me?

06:33:38.460 No, it was the other

06:33:39.360 way around.

06:33:39.900 Sorry, guys.

06:33:40.500 Brain.

06:33:41.500 I was like, wait.

06:33:42.960 Don't attack me.

06:33:44.280 You're all good.

06:33:45.120 You just misspoke.

06:33:45.960 No biggie.

06:33:46.300 Okay.

06:33:47.320 But so.

06:33:49.080 Like, biologically,

06:33:50.180 when they're born,

06:33:51.140 yes, guys are stronger.

06:33:53.840 But some are super scrawny.

06:33:54.500 How about in adulthood?

06:33:55.900 Adulthood?

06:33:56.680 It depends.

06:33:58.120 Like, some guys,

06:33:58.680 like, my.

06:33:59.300 Generally speaking,

06:34:00.320 are adult men

06:34:01.380 stronger than adult women? 0.98

06:34:04.160 Yeah.

06:34:06.500 Oh, okay.

06:34:07.200 All right.

06:34:07.740 I don't know.

06:34:08.360 So where'd the original.

06:34:09.940 Well, because some girls 1.00

06:34:10.900 are Bill, you know?

06:34:11.960 Sure, yeah.

06:34:12.440 There's definitely

06:34:13.080 some women that are 1.00

06:34:13.980 stronger than.

06:34:14.560 In adulthood.

06:34:15.060 But even if, like,

06:34:15.820 a man and a woman

06:34:16.640 were to work out the same,

06:34:18.140 who do you think

06:34:18.540 would be stronger?

06:34:19.360 Let's do this.

06:34:21.140 Okay.

06:34:21.880 Yeah.

06:34:22.320 Can you be sexist

06:34:23.680 towards men?

06:34:27.120 Starting with you.

06:34:28.680 What do you mean?

06:34:32.380 Actually, let me start

06:34:33.140 with a different one.

06:34:33.740 Can you be racist

06:34:34.320 towards white people? 0.75

06:34:40.160 Oh, saved by the DTS.

06:34:42.140 Donated $69.

06:34:44.280 As a black man

06:34:45.440 in the Midwest,

06:34:46.200 according to scary movies,

06:34:47.680 we're the most in danger

06:34:48.940 in the forest.

06:34:50.480 I'm still alive, though.

06:34:52.220 Bears are delicious.

06:34:53.280 Cook thoroughly

06:34:53.800 or you'll get worms.

06:34:55.780 God bless.

06:34:56.580 Yeah, that is really weird

06:35:00.860 to the credit

06:35:02.460 of this super chatter.

06:35:03.900 When you watch

06:35:04.460 horror movies

06:35:05.140 for some reason

06:35:06.000 when it comes

06:35:06.540 to the American black male, 1.00

06:35:08.560 they tend to die 0.89

06:35:09.400 the most in the forest

06:35:10.440 for reasons

06:35:11.100 I don't actually understand.

06:35:13.480 It's super weird.

06:35:16.120 I think all these 1.00

06:35:16.560 black people die first. 1.00

06:35:18.000 Oh, can you be racist 1.00

06:35:19.120 towards white people? 0.97

06:35:22.540 Rip. 0.95

06:35:22.980 G.M.D. Jim donated $69.

06:35:26.840 If 80% of the patriarchy 0.94

06:35:28.680 are rapists, 0.97

06:35:29.980 how could you not

06:35:30.800 reject IT?

06:35:32.280 Brixen,

06:35:33.000 she is a top tier 0.93

06:35:33.900 disingenuous, 0.98

06:35:35.280 bad faith, 0.51

06:35:36.180 man-hating, 1.00

06:35:37.200 tartan thief. 1.00

06:35:38.560 Whatever never ceases 0.70

06:35:39.560 to amaze.

06:35:41.580 You want to respond

06:35:42.160 to Jim?

06:35:46.400 That's crazy.

06:35:47.500 That's crazy.

06:35:48.200 All right.

06:35:48.480 Thank you, Jim.

06:35:49.140 No response.

06:35:50.280 Can you be racist

06:35:51.360 towards white people?

06:35:52.980 Giovanni J.D.

06:36:03.840 donated $69.

06:36:06.240 Chat is simping

06:36:07.240 for the chick

06:36:07.780 next to Brian, 1.00

06:36:09.060 fucking desperate, 1.00

06:36:10.000 inexperienced cucks. 1.00

06:36:12.020 The Legion of Middle 0.98

06:36:12.900 Chick Authority

06:36:13.660 stands strong

06:36:14.820 against the Kuma Hordes.

06:36:16.900 Cope hardy

06:36:17.660 chatting deems.

06:36:18.440 Middle Chick Authority? 1.00

06:36:20.220 Huh?

06:36:20.900 I'm talking about you.

06:36:21.700 Middle Chick Authority? 1.00

06:36:22.680 What the fuck? 1.00

06:36:23.560 What do you mean? 1.00

06:36:24.580 Stand strong

06:36:25.260 against the Kuma Hordes.

06:36:26.320 Cope hard.

06:36:26.820 Okay, all right.

06:36:27.560 I don't know.

06:36:27.980 There's simping.

06:36:28.580 I don't think you can be

06:36:29.380 racist to white people.

06:36:31.780 Okay. 0.83

06:36:33.420 Yes.

06:36:34.680 No.

06:36:36.380 Well, race...

06:36:37.720 White is not a race.

06:36:40.380 So...

06:36:40.940 Sorry.

06:36:43.780 There's reverse discrimination.

06:36:45.080 Are there... 0.89

06:36:45.640 Is black... 0.93

06:36:46.400 Hillary Epstein donated $69.

06:36:50.660 Hold on.

06:36:51.460 ALR for real last one

06:36:52.900 and I got to go to bed.

06:36:54.100 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

06:36:54.460 Appreciate all of you

06:36:55.480 doing the show.

06:36:56.420 W all of you.

06:36:57.800 W.

06:36:58.160 Hope you all find

06:36:59.220 a nice husband.

06:37:00.240 Thank you, Hillary.

06:37:00.940 Appreciate it.

06:37:01.620 Hillary Epstein.

06:37:03.420 Appreciate that name now.

06:37:05.300 I know.

06:37:06.900 You said...

06:37:07.640 Wait, you said white people

06:37:08.400 are not a race.

06:37:09.600 Well, white.

06:37:10.940 The technical term

06:37:11.980 that you're using

06:37:12.660 is white.

06:37:13.560 So Caucasians. 0.95

06:37:15.300 Wait.

06:37:16.000 So there's Irish, English... 0.56

06:37:19.020 Well, those are ethnicities.

06:37:20.660 Oh, my God.

06:37:22.120 So...

06:37:22.600 I mean, American

06:37:23.800 is an ethnicity.

06:37:27.080 Okay.

06:37:27.740 So if you're...

06:37:29.200 Into the mic.

06:37:31.080 You can scoot...

06:37:31.880 I'm going to say yes,

06:37:32.960 then.

06:37:33.300 There is...

06:37:34.960 Okay.

06:37:36.680 Hold on.

06:37:37.800 So white is not a race. 0.87

06:37:40.520 Is black a race? 0.84

06:37:42.660 African-American.

06:37:46.080 Well, what about black people 1.00

06:37:47.400 that aren't African-American?

06:37:49.500 Jamaicans.

06:37:50.660 Yeah, there's all different

06:37:51.840 forms of nationalities.

06:37:54.460 So...

06:37:54.780 Hold on.

06:37:55.540 Let me ask you a question.

06:37:56.700 Yeah.

06:37:57.260 So if...

06:37:58.400 If somebody were to say,

06:38:01.160 I don't like...

06:38:04.120 I got to be careful

06:38:05.040 because otherwise

06:38:05.600 it's going to get clipped. 0.98

06:38:07.160 How do I fucking frame this 0.98

06:38:08.620 without getting clipped? 0.99

06:38:09.940 If someone were to say,

06:38:12.620 I don't like...

06:38:14.820 This person based

06:38:15.780 on their skin color.

06:38:17.480 This person based

06:38:18.900 on their skin color

06:38:19.740 and this person 0.82

06:38:20.400 happens to be black. 0.94

06:38:22.600 Would that not be racist? 0.98

06:38:24.140 That is racist. 0.99

06:38:25.420 So replace black 1.00

06:38:26.520 with white. 0.96

06:38:27.100 Would that be racist?

06:38:28.680 Well, yes, then.

06:38:31.600 Okay.

06:38:31.900 I'm confused

06:38:32.860 about the whole white,

06:38:33.860 not...

06:38:34.580 White, black, 0.51

06:38:35.240 not being racist.

06:38:35.780 Because from their

06:38:37.320 progressive mindset,

06:38:39.220 race doesn't exist. 0.99

06:38:40.300 It's a social construction,

06:38:42.060 Brian.

06:38:42.420 That's why.

06:38:44.100 Can you be racist

06:38:44.940 towards white people?

06:38:45.760 No.

06:38:47.320 Can you be racist

06:38:48.120 towards black people? 0.92

06:38:49.460 Well, yeah, 0.87

06:38:50.520 I think so.

06:38:51.860 Okay.

06:38:52.100 Okay.

06:38:52.300 White people like... 0.99

06:38:53.180 Okay, this is going to 0.76

06:38:53.800 sound weird,

06:38:54.320 but I'm like saying it

06:38:55.160 from like the perspective

06:38:56.460 of a white person.

06:38:57.560 like every single

06:39:01.780 white person I know,

06:39:03.340 including like myself,

06:39:04.500 my family,

06:39:05.080 like everybody I know

06:39:06.540 has not experienced racism.

06:39:09.020 Like nobody's going

06:39:10.760 and being like,

06:39:11.400 oh, like stereotyping

06:39:14.080 white people racially,

06:39:15.700 if that makes sense.

06:39:16.420 Does that make sense? 0.70

06:39:16.940 So let's say a black person

06:39:18.500 never experienced racism.

06:39:19.940 Would that mean

06:39:20.360 that you can't be racist

06:39:22.580 towards black people 0.98

06:39:23.460 if an individual black person

06:39:25.580 did not experience racism?

06:39:27.100 That's fair.

06:39:27.940 Okay.

06:39:28.480 I just think it's like,

06:39:30.500 it's a lot less common

06:39:32.760 and I feel like it's like

06:39:34.600 white people.

06:39:37.000 Oh, wait. 0.95

06:39:37.600 Sure.

06:39:38.180 Look.

06:39:38.380 I don't want to get clipped either.

06:39:39.820 No.

06:39:40.480 I actually don't think

06:39:41.640 there's anything wrong

06:39:42.700 with the statement

06:39:43.360 you're about to make

06:39:44.220 that perhaps it's the case

06:39:45.700 that certainly some races

06:39:47.780 may experience racism

06:39:50.300 to a higher degree

06:39:51.120 than other races.

06:39:52.040 I don't think there's anything wrong

06:39:53.380 with the statement

06:39:53.860 you're about to make.

06:39:57.100 I don't know.

06:40:00.560 It's just like,

06:40:02.040 I'm just going to say

06:40:04.100 like I think it's less likely

06:40:06.040 and it's like,

06:40:07.820 okay,

06:40:08.440 what are you going to say?

06:40:09.860 What you said is,

06:40:10.800 but okay,

06:40:11.140 the question is,

06:40:12.020 can you be racist

06:40:13.460 towards white people?

06:40:14.740 Not you specifically.

06:40:15.500 Yeah, I guess.

06:40:16.120 When I say you,

06:40:17.020 I mean people.

06:40:18.040 Sure.

06:40:18.440 Can people be racist

06:40:19.160 towards white people?

06:40:19.620 Sure. 0.80

06:40:20.480 You're walking back

06:40:21.280 your position,

06:40:22.260 but okay.

06:40:23.000 I think yeah,

06:40:23.620 because you could be like, 1.00

06:40:24.280 oh, that's white trash 1.00

06:40:25.100 or you could be like, 1.00

06:40:25.600 oh, you're white 0.99

06:40:26.060 so you're rich.

06:40:27.040 So it's like,

06:40:27.640 you could be racist

06:40:28.660 in that way.

06:40:29.060 Sure.

06:40:30.680 Okay.

06:40:31.220 I'll skip you guys

06:40:32.040 because you guys

06:40:32.540 are just the help

06:40:33.240 or whatever.

06:40:35.060 Wait,

06:40:35.420 so I think you said

06:40:36.800 no,

06:40:38.020 you can't.

06:40:39.100 Yes,

06:40:39.740 no,

06:40:41.000 no,

06:40:41.500 but switched?

06:40:43.340 No,

06:40:43.920 but switched.

06:40:44.940 No,

06:40:45.480 I said yes.

06:40:46.600 Yes,

06:40:46.880 you can be.

06:40:47.840 Okay.

06:40:51.440 So can't be racist

06:40:52.520 towards white people.

06:40:53.920 Can't be racist

06:40:54.520 towards white people.

06:40:55.340 I feel like white people 0.76

06:40:56.280 don't take it as offensive.

06:40:57.940 They take it as a joke

06:40:58.780 or like a compliment.

06:40:59.920 What I was trying

06:41:00.820 to get at more,

06:41:01.760 not necessarily

06:41:02.560 as like a compliment,

06:41:03.640 but like sometimes

06:41:04.320 I'll hang out

06:41:04.740 with my friends

06:41:05.260 and like they'll pay

06:41:05.900 for me and they'll

06:41:06.580 like one of them

06:41:07.700 will be like,

06:41:08.100 wait,

06:41:08.180 you should be paying 0.96

06:41:08.720 a white girl.

06:41:09.240 I'm like,

06:41:09.460 okay.

06:41:10.640 Like,

06:41:12.020 I don't know.

06:41:13.000 So you have

06:41:13.840 racist friends?

06:41:15.480 Do I have racist friends?

06:41:17.220 Yeah,

06:41:17.540 I mean,

06:41:17.800 that's literally

06:41:18.840 an overt act of racism

06:41:20.180 towards you

06:41:21.320 because you're white.

06:41:22.140 I don't consider it racist.

06:41:23.440 Wait,

06:41:23.640 what happened?

06:41:24.480 Well,

06:41:24.860 what else could it be?

06:41:25.940 I'm sorry,

06:41:26.500 can you repeat

06:41:26.940 what happened?

06:41:27.460 I was just saying

06:41:28.100 that like sometimes

06:41:29.000 I go out with my friends

06:41:30.060 and like one of them

06:41:30.840 will pay for me

06:41:31.400 and they're like Latina,

06:41:32.260 right?

06:41:33.020 And like another one

06:41:34.240 will be like,

06:41:34.560 well,

06:41:34.700 you should be paying 0.95

06:41:35.220 a white girl.

06:41:35.700 I'm like,

06:41:35.920 yeah,

06:41:36.060 okay.

06:41:36.500 Yeah,

06:41:36.880 that's racist.

06:41:37.260 So that would be racist.

06:41:38.280 I don't,

06:41:39.000 you know,

06:41:39.240 I guess it's like

06:41:39.940 how you take it.

06:41:40.700 You know,

06:41:41.020 I don't take it as racist.

06:41:42.120 I think it's more funny

06:41:43.040 and I think that's

06:41:43.620 Do you think that racism

06:41:44.620 is dependent upon

06:41:45.640 how a person

06:41:46.360 perceives the thing?

06:41:49.680 Guys,

06:41:50.080 I'm too young.

06:41:50.520 Would you take it as racist?

06:41:51.540 It's like,

06:41:51.880 let's say,

06:41:52.220 let's say like

06:41:52.680 didn't see you as like,

06:41:53.560 oh,

06:41:53.700 rich white girl. 1.00

06:41:54.220 Let's say they saw you 1.00

06:41:54.820 as trash white girl. 1.00

06:41:56.260 Oh, 1.00

06:41:56.520 like,

06:41:56.680 of course I'm paying for you 1.00

06:41:57.580 because you're a trash white girl. 1.00

06:41:58.500 You can't afford it. 1.00

06:41:59.520 Then would you consider

06:42:00.300 that racist?

06:42:01.460 No,

06:42:01.980 I would just.

06:42:05.800 It's really,

06:42:06.400 it's really interesting.

06:42:07.300 I'm sorry that you've been

06:42:08.100 victimized by racism

06:42:09.220 like that 0.79

06:42:09.800 because you're white. 0.99

06:42:10.500 I don't care. 0.99

06:42:11.380 It's pretty awful.

06:42:12.980 It's pretty awful

06:42:13.660 that you have friends

06:42:14.420 who say that you should pay

06:42:15.440 just because you're white. 0.61

06:42:16.400 That's pretty racist. 0.96

06:42:17.540 I must admit.

06:42:18.720 Would you be offended

06:42:19.520 if that happened to you?

06:42:21.120 Yeah,

06:42:21.420 well,

06:42:22.020 but what I would look over

06:42:23.100 at him and say,

06:42:23.620 why?

06:42:24.420 Why would that mean

06:42:25.040 that I need to pay for you?

06:42:26.980 And then I'd probably 1.00

06:42:27.600 call him a dumb fuck 1.00

06:42:28.580 and talk a bunch of shit to him 1.00

06:42:30.000 and then tell him 1.00

06:42:30.540 they were retarded 1.00

06:42:31.180 on their way out the door. 0.93

06:42:32.540 But the thing is,

06:42:33.580 is why,

06:42:35.740 why would the,

06:42:37.080 why would it necessitate

06:42:37.980 because I'm white

06:42:38.700 that I would need to pay

06:42:39.500 for somebody who wasn't white?

06:42:41.420 How would that be

06:42:42.140 anything other than racist

06:42:43.380 for somebody

06:42:43.940 to even assume I should?

06:42:48.160 I don't know.

06:42:50.460 I just like,

06:42:52.180 I,

06:42:52.560 I,

06:42:52.900 practicing gentleman

06:42:55.720 donated $69.

06:42:57.840 The only way

06:42:58.820 her math checks out

06:43:00.160 is if she is 0.95

06:43:01.200 in a sex cult.

06:43:02.680 Hey lady, 1.00

06:43:03.620 if no one has told you, 0.99

06:43:05.440 you are in a sex cult. 0.98

06:43:07.400 I'm definitely 0.98

06:43:08.300 not in a sex cult.

06:43:09.460 I think that was towards me.

06:43:10.280 I don't think

06:43:10.700 that's towards you.

06:43:12.160 Oh, oh.

06:43:12.720 Well,

06:43:13.380 is there,

06:43:15.240 I think we asked the question

06:43:16.160 about the white privilege.

06:43:17.340 I think.

06:43:17.820 Yeah,

06:43:18.000 I was going to bring that up.

06:43:19.620 Okay.

06:43:20.220 Yeah,

06:43:20.540 because like.

06:43:20.860 I think everybody said yes.

06:43:22.300 White privilege 0.52

06:43:22.800 definitely exists. 1.00

06:43:24.580 You could be ugly and white 1.00

06:43:25.660 and not have any privilege. 1.00

06:43:26.880 What's that? 1.00

06:43:27.340 You could be ugly and white 1.00

06:43:28.280 and not have any privilege 1.00

06:43:29.140 but black and beautiful

06:43:30.200 and have privilege.

06:43:32.080 White privilege does matter. 0.91

06:43:34.300 Okay.

06:43:34.800 Even being Latina, 0.98

06:43:35.560 you know that like

06:43:36.280 lighter skin Latinas

06:43:37.440 get more privileges

06:43:38.540 than the darker ones.

06:43:41.300 Okay.

06:43:42.100 I don't know.

06:43:43.480 I don't know.

06:43:43.940 So,

06:43:46.260 can you be sexist

06:43:48.460 towards men?

06:43:53.480 Oh.

06:43:54.500 Um.

06:43:58.060 Yeah,

06:43:58.760 I guess.

06:44:00.900 Yes.

06:44:02.000 A hundred percent.

06:44:03.580 Lost half the panel here.

06:44:04.960 Lol Paladin's donated

06:44:06.200 sixty-nine dollars.

06:44:08.200 Her friends have money

06:44:09.380 and she doesn't have money 1.00

06:44:10.840 and money is power

06:44:12.180 so prejudice plus power

06:44:13.880 is equal to what?

06:44:15.360 All you middle girl simps 1.00

06:44:16.680 need to pay attention

06:44:17.820 to her lack of logic.

06:44:19.720 Curves for the W.

06:44:25.260 Y'all law paladins.

06:44:26.660 Thank you, man.

06:44:27.000 Appreciate it, bro.

06:44:28.180 Appreciate it, dude.

06:44:29.840 Uh.

06:44:31.240 Okay.

06:44:32.320 Um.

06:44:35.040 Word?

06:44:37.200 Oh,

06:44:37.720 do you think white people

06:44:38.460 have culture?

06:44:44.280 No.

06:44:49.040 No.

06:44:50.780 I would say

06:44:51.560 there's different ethnicities

06:44:52.660 within the, like,

06:44:53.620 race, white,

06:44:54.520 that do have different cultures.

06:44:55.740 Like how she was saying,

06:44:56.460 like, Scottish people,

06:44:57.360 Irish people,

06:44:57.940 I think there's, like,

06:44:58.740 different aspects.

06:44:59.200 Do black people have culture? 1.00

06:45:00.920 Yes.

06:45:01.380 Do white people have culture?

06:45:03.640 In short terms, yes.

06:45:04.660 I would say yes.

06:45:05.440 In short terms?

06:45:06.320 Like, instead of me

06:45:07.400 going on to, like,

06:45:08.260 the different branches

06:45:09.100 of, like,

06:45:10.340 Caucasian being white, 0.98

06:45:11.460 I would say that

06:45:12.160 there is culture

06:45:12.820 in every single race.

06:45:15.520 Okay.

06:45:16.880 Yeah.

06:45:18.820 Yes.

06:45:19.460 You guys can pass on this.

06:45:20.880 Um.

06:45:21.680 Wait, no and no.

06:45:23.060 So white people 0.85

06:45:23.620 don't have culture?

06:45:24.360 Well, I was,

06:45:25.740 now that I'm thinking

06:45:27.140 about it because

06:45:27.780 my ex lived in Arkansas

06:45:29.780 and he was white,

06:45:30.820 on white,

06:45:31.280 even though he was

06:45:32.120 English, Irish,

06:45:33.260 whatever,

06:45:33.820 all that,

06:45:34.920 but, yes,

06:45:36.000 there's certain.

06:45:36.440 The Steachrome

06:45:36.460 donated $69.

06:45:38.740 Brian,

06:45:39.280 you pronounced Celtics,

06:45:40.880 Celtics,

06:45:41.700 correctly.

06:45:42.720 Right.

06:45:42.940 It is just in America 0.69

06:45:43.900 for some reason

06:45:44.720 they pronounce Celtics

06:45:46.080 with ands.

06:45:46.940 Well, Celtics is in America,

06:45:48.600 so,

06:45:49.480 period.

06:45:51.240 I got it right.

06:45:53.220 Wait, oh, Nick,

06:45:53.880 can you pull up that meme

06:45:54.620 where it's like one person

06:45:56.060 and then the crowd of people

06:45:57.360 and it's like,

06:45:58.360 yes, you're all wrong?

06:46:00.100 Do you know

06:46:00.380 what I'm talking about?

06:46:02.720 This is,

06:46:05.060 wait,

06:46:05.840 there's another one too?

06:46:07.000 Yes, you're all wrong?

06:46:07.900 I don't look like you,

06:46:08.100 but blonde. 0.98

06:46:08.840 True.

06:46:09.440 Wait,

06:46:10.200 what's the other one?

06:46:11.240 Yes, you,

06:46:11.760 this is me.

06:46:13.560 This is me with the Celtics.

06:46:15.580 Okay, all right.

06:46:17.060 Um,

06:46:17.600 so wait,

06:46:18.060 white people know culture

06:46:19.140 or what's that?

06:46:19.960 Yeah, they have culture.

06:46:21.160 Oh, but you just said they,

06:46:22.320 you just said that they don't.

06:46:24.440 Yeah,

06:46:24.740 I changed my mind

06:46:25.380 because I have to go.

06:46:26.100 Bye.

06:46:27.160 I'm out of here.

06:46:27.840 That's a rage,

06:46:28.680 rage quit?

06:46:30.660 Yeah,

06:46:31.500 no,

06:46:32.060 I got to go.

06:46:33.020 That's a rage quit.

06:46:35.560 Bye.

06:46:37.960 Okay.

06:46:39.580 Um,

06:46:40.580 well,

06:46:41.820 I'm,

06:46:42.340 this is,

06:46:42.880 I got to go. 0.96

06:46:43.420 This is ridiculous. 0.80

06:46:46.060 Okay. 0.92

06:46:46.700 Uh,

06:46:47.100 can we have whoever's left?

06:46:49.180 Uh,

06:46:50.120 let's just have her come back to the table. 1.00

06:46:51.580 We're going to wrap the show up.

06:46:52.880 Guys,

06:46:53.300 if you want,

06:46:53.660 get the last minute,

06:46:55.220 uh,

06:46:55.440 they can't make it to the end.

06:46:56.160 They can't make it to the end.

06:46:57.120 They can't make it to the end,

06:46:57.420 but okay.

06:46:59.460 Sure, 0.98

06:46:59.920 you can be racist to white folks. 0.87

06:47:02.300 If they're cool, 0.98

06:47:03.160 they're racist right back.

06:47:05.040 How I found most of my drinking buddies

06:47:07.260 and my wife.

06:47:08.680 Every porch monkey gets a skinwalker 1.00

06:47:11.000 and we all laugh.

06:47:13.540 Wait,

06:47:13.820 what?

06:47:15.380 No,

06:47:15.860 I get that.

06:47:16.760 Wait,

06:47:17.120 what?

06:47:17.480 Wait,

06:47:17.840 what?

06:47:19.040 I don't even know.

06:47:20.900 That might've been a little 0.98

06:47:21.620 fucking crazy. 0.99

06:47:22.880 Okay. 1.00

06:47:23.220 Brian,

06:47:23.600 Brian,

06:47:23.960 was that an age quit?

06:47:26.120 Age quit?

06:47:27.160 Yeah,

06:47:27.320 it was an age quit.

06:47:28.500 I think they got mad

06:47:29.200 because we said it was past their bedtime.

06:47:31.040 Oh,

06:47:31.580 I don't know.

06:47:32.320 Yeah,

06:47:32.500 they dipped.

06:47:33.300 She had to go get her insure,

06:47:35.000 bro.

06:47:35.180 I was about to wrap anyways.

06:47:37.280 I don't know.

06:47:38.140 Guys,

06:47:38.620 so if you want,

06:47:39.220 get your last minute messages in right now

06:47:42.880 and I'm trying to think.

06:47:46.500 What else?

06:47:47.440 It was a rage.

06:47:48.240 I think age quit,

06:47:49.120 rage quit.

06:47:49.760 Get them in,

06:47:50.200 boys.

06:47:50.520 Roth Thunder score PSA donated $69.

06:47:53.540 Last call,

06:47:54.180 boys.

06:47:54.340 For the Lules,

06:47:55.320 all tens on the eyebrow game.

06:47:57.640 Really?

06:47:58.420 I think you are DeLulu Brian.

06:48:00.620 Claudia is also on point.

06:48:02.480 Last call.

06:48:02.840 You did not rate Andrew.

06:48:04.940 Hashtag eyebrows matter. 0.71

06:48:06.940 07.

06:48:07.380 Yeah,

06:48:07.560 I'll rate Andrew really quick.

06:48:08.920 So like current Andrew,

06:48:10.320 like his eyebrows,

06:48:11.300 I give him like a solid like 8.2,

06:48:14.140 8.33 repeating,

06:48:15.620 but like pull up his young photo.

06:48:19.800 10,

06:48:20.280 10,

06:48:20.660 10 giga Chad,

06:48:22.260 10,

06:48:22.840 10 giga Chad.

06:48:25.180 Eyebrows.

06:48:25.700 Young Andrew.

06:48:26.300 Sorry,

06:48:26.560 Andrew.

06:48:26.920 Look,

06:48:27.080 it's just aging,

06:48:27.960 you know,

06:48:28.320 aging.

06:48:28.980 You lose a little bit,

06:48:30.420 a little gray,

06:48:31.060 gray in the eyebrows.

06:48:32.120 You're a little gray in the eyebrows.

06:48:33.440 What can you do?

06:48:33.920 What can you do?

06:48:34.640 You're a little gray in the eyebrows.

06:48:36.000 It's all good though.

06:48:38.560 But solid,

06:48:39.460 like 10,

06:48:39.920 10 giga Chad when young,

06:48:41.100 8.33 repeating,

06:48:42.360 of course,

06:48:44.300 at,

06:48:44.600 in his current final form.

06:48:46.280 last call,

06:48:51.020 get the TTS in.

06:48:53.340 What else?

06:48:55.340 I think,

06:48:55.860 oh,

06:48:56.020 there's a bunch.

06:48:56.640 Okay,

06:48:56.840 hold on guys.

06:48:58.980 Any final thoughts before we wrap the show?

06:49:01.240 Oh,

06:49:01.400 do you,

06:49:01.720 anybody here think that me and Andrew are misogynists?

06:49:03.900 Why don't we end with that?

06:49:06.760 Where's misogynist?

06:49:07.740 Misogynist?

06:49:08.260 It's like,

06:49:09.460 oh wait,

06:49:10.080 actually you probably,

06:49:10.900 no,

06:49:11.120 you can define it.

06:49:11.880 I was going to say demeaning to a woman, 1.00

06:49:14.000 and like,

06:49:14.960 oh boy,

06:49:15.580 you know,

06:49:16.200 is that the wrong definition?

06:49:17.820 Demeaning to women?

06:49:20.240 What's your definition of misogyny?

06:49:22.220 Okay donated $69.

06:49:24.740 30% of LA women are scrippers. 1.00

06:49:27.700 80% of men are grapists. 0.99

06:49:30.040 I'm glad her soul is saved because her brain is unsalvageable. 0.98

06:49:35.040 So, 0.99

06:49:35.840 just classic misogyny would be men believing they're superior to women.

06:49:43.140 Okay,

06:49:43.760 yeah,

06:49:43.980 that's better.

06:49:46.940 So,

06:49:47.500 would you consider myself or Brian to be misogynist,

06:49:50.680 believe that we are superior to women?

06:50:02.280 Nick,

06:50:02.760 before you leave,

06:50:03.340 could you just show them how to pull up Twitch really quick?

06:50:05.940 Hey guys,

06:50:06.540 go to twitch.tv

06:50:08.600 slash whatever,

06:50:10.080 drop us a follow and a prime sub.

06:50:12.060 Last call on the Twitch.

06:50:13.360 Guys,

06:50:13.720 twitch.tv

06:50:14.540 slash whatever,

06:50:16.140 drop us a follow

06:50:17.480 and a prime sub.

06:50:19.200 If you have one,

06:50:20.220 yo guys,

06:50:20.740 thank you for the primes.

06:50:21.340 Guys,

06:50:21.780 it's been, 1.00

06:50:22.660 damn bro, 0.98

06:50:23.560 these guys are really quick with clearing out the bugs. 1.00

06:50:26.300 Ninja bear,

06:50:27.340 thank,

06:50:27.700 oh my god,

06:50:28.600 the follows are on fire.

06:50:30.420 Yo,

06:50:30.720 guys,

06:50:31.000 thank you for all the follows over there on Twitch.

06:50:32.900 And also,

06:50:33.940 if you're watching on YouTube,

06:50:35.140 open up another tab,

06:50:35.960 go to twitch.tv

06:50:36.620 slash whatever,

06:50:37.620 drop us a follow,

06:50:38.060 drop us a prime sub.

06:50:38.920 If you have one,

06:50:39.680 thank you guys,

06:50:40.140 appreciate it.

06:50:41.160 Okay,

06:50:41.360 like the video boys,

06:50:42.580 like the video.

06:50:43.240 W to the Asian girl. 0.99

06:50:44.340 It's $69.

06:50:46.180 W to the Asian girl who works for you. 1.00

06:50:49.240 She's awesome. 0.83

06:50:50.120 W Maddie.

06:50:50.920 Thanks,

06:50:51.040 Hilary Epstein.

06:50:52.060 Waddie.

06:50:52.500 Let's see Waddie in the chat.

06:50:54.000 I want to see Waddie.

06:50:55.560 Waddie in the chat.

06:50:56.380 Waddie's actually black,

06:50:58.900 believe it or not.

06:50:59.540 She's not Asian. 1.00

06:51:04.040 I don't know,

06:51:04.780 so I'm being cringe.

06:51:06.840 All right.

06:51:07.540 Yeah.

06:51:10.520 Where were we?

06:51:12.420 I was wrapping the show.

06:51:13.420 What were we talking about?

06:51:14.300 You were misogynist.

06:51:16.080 Oh,

06:51:16.280 are we misogynist?

06:51:17.220 All right.

06:51:18.740 Am I misogynist?

06:51:22.540 I don't know you,

06:51:23.880 so I can't really answer.

06:51:24.980 What about the intro?

06:51:25.540 True.

06:51:26.100 What about that guy over there?

06:51:27.360 Um,

06:51:27.840 I mean.

06:51:28.240 This guy right here.

06:51:29.520 Boom,

06:51:29.820 that guy.

06:51:32.680 Is he a misogynist?

06:51:34.540 Again,

06:51:35.020 I don't know you guys personally,

06:51:36.240 so I don't know.

06:51:36.660 Big lady about her. 0.84

06:51:38.980 Okay.

06:51:40.420 All right.

06:51:42.360 Final thoughts from anybody

06:51:43.460 before we wrap the show?

06:51:45.020 You want to tell us about

06:51:45.900 your embarrassing date story

06:51:47.720 that you forgot about?

06:51:48.940 I did actually say it earlier.

06:51:49.600 Oh,

06:51:49.680 you did?

06:51:50.100 I forgot then. 0.99

06:51:50.960 I fucking forgot. 0.99

06:51:52.760 Okay. 0.97

06:51:52.960 Hilary Epstein donated $69.

06:51:56.140 Oh,

06:51:56.440 the drama.

06:51:56.860 Oops,

06:51:56.940 I'm racist.

06:51:57.760 My bad,

06:51:58.220 I thought Asian.

06:51:59.680 You shouldn't just assume.

06:52:02.140 Yeah,

06:52:02.420 please don't assume her race.

06:52:04.780 You racist?

06:52:06.320 Hilary Epstein? 0.83

06:52:07.640 Epstein?

06:52:08.940 I don't know.

06:52:10.220 All right.

06:52:10.520 It was nice meeting

06:52:10.940 all of you tonight.

06:52:12.280 I really appreciate you guys

06:52:13.400 coming on the panel.

06:52:14.700 I know it can be a little bit long,

06:52:16.060 but it was a lot of fun.

06:52:18.180 Old man Marine donated $69.

06:52:21.580 Roth PSA is my brother

06:52:23.600 from another mother.

06:52:24.940 I won't date a woman 1.00

06:52:25.980 with bad or weak eyebrows.

06:52:28.300 Hashtag eyebrows matter. 0.71

06:52:31.280 They do.

06:52:32.480 Word.

06:52:34.040 Word.

06:52:36.580 Before we wrap,

06:52:38.040 can we convince you

06:52:38.800 to make restitution to the guy?

06:52:41.640 Huh?

06:52:42.300 Sorry.

06:52:42.780 What did you say?

06:52:43.780 Can we get you on a payment plan

06:52:45.320 to pay this guy back

06:52:46.400 the $250,000

06:52:47.560 that he's going to use?

06:52:49.420 If he wanted it,

06:52:52.220 sure,

06:52:53.140 but he doesn't want it.

06:52:53.980 Like I said,

06:52:54.660 he's still trying to give me money.

06:52:55.760 Jon Snow,

06:52:56.480 he doesn't.

06:52:56.940 I don't want it.

06:53:01.240 Get my throne's reference.

06:53:02.840 Okay.

06:53:04.780 No?

06:53:05.460 No?

06:53:06.320 Okay.

06:53:07.360 All right.

06:53:07.800 Well,

06:53:08.160 we're going to do a Twitch raid.

06:53:10.560 Let me get that sorted

06:53:11.560 while this comes through.

06:53:12.300 Nathaniel Cook donated $69.

06:53:14.120 Thank you, brother.

06:53:14.820 I appreciate it.

06:53:15.380 Can Maddie sit in the chair 0.94

06:53:16.540 the old Asian lady was sitting in? 1.00

06:53:18.920 I just want to confirm

06:53:20.260 if the camera was making her look chubby. 0.63

06:53:24.240 Do you want to go sit over there, Maddie?

06:53:26.820 Guys,

06:53:27.240 she was not chubby.

06:53:28.640 She was actually very petite.

06:53:30.180 She was not.

06:53:32.100 Okay.

06:53:33.420 All right.

06:53:34.020 Let me see really quick.

06:53:35.160 I'm going to do a Twitch raid for somebody.

06:53:36.680 We're going to do a Twitch raid.

06:53:38.680 Who am I going to raid?

06:53:39.700 That's not,

06:53:40.080 we're not going to pull it up on screen,

06:53:41.340 but I just want to get it prepped.

06:53:42.460 Definitely a different size.

06:53:43.600 All right.

06:53:49.240 I'm not even sure

06:53:50.680 if I'm going to raid anybody.

06:53:51.520 I'll just raid that guy in a bit.

06:53:53.320 Okay.

06:53:55.620 So,

06:53:56.660 one sec, guys.

06:53:58.860 Are we good?

06:53:59.680 Okay.

06:53:59.940 Yeah, we're good.

06:54:00.880 Okay, guys.

06:54:01.580 So,

06:54:03.480 oh,

06:54:03.740 I need to,

06:54:04.320 hold on, guys.

06:54:04.880 Sorry.

06:54:05.040 I'm going to set up a raid for Andrew.

06:54:06.400 I'm going to do a quick raid for Andrew.

06:54:07.520 Well, paladins donated $69.

06:54:10.680 Make sure you put your race in your Twitter bio 0.52

06:54:13.160 and email signatures

06:54:14.600 so that people don't accidentally call you the wrong race.

06:54:18.280 It belongs right after the preferred pronouns.

06:54:24.040 Oh, is there such thing as male privilege?

06:54:26.000 Is that a thing?

06:54:29.820 I think so.

06:54:30.860 Okay,

06:54:31.100 the reason I think this is because of,

06:54:32.980 and this is all I'm going to say on it,

06:54:33.980 is like the wage or gender wages.

06:54:36.520 Oh, boy.

06:54:37.740 That's what I'll leave it at.

06:54:38.760 The wage gap?

06:54:39.640 Male privilege?

06:54:40.260 Male privilege?

06:54:40.860 Yeah,

06:54:41.340 if they're cute.

06:54:42.740 Okay.

06:54:44.260 Male privilege?

06:54:45.720 Yeah.

06:54:46.280 Is there a male privilege?

06:54:48.040 I'm trying to think of like a situation.

06:54:49.960 I don't think so.

06:54:50.980 Oh, okay.

06:54:52.160 Okay.

06:54:52.480 I think they're just...

06:54:53.720 I think there's female privilege. 1.00

06:54:55.220 I think there is,

06:54:55.580 but I also think there's female privilege. 1.00

06:54:57.080 I think there's like a lot of privilege.

06:54:58.000 And I think female privilege 0.63

06:54:59.300 is way more powerful than male privilege.

06:55:02.660 Yeah.

06:55:03.220 Agreed.

06:55:04.060 In my mind,

06:55:05.060 I don't think so.

06:55:06.100 You don't think so?

06:55:07.240 Maddie disagrees?

06:55:08.340 Well,

06:55:08.760 let me introduce you to Andrew Wilson,

06:55:10.960 who's going to debate you on this for two minutes.

06:55:12.900 No,

06:55:13.100 like not even that,

06:55:14.400 but I just see male privilege as more powerful.

06:55:18.820 More powerful?

06:55:19.580 Because I see males more often in like authority,

06:55:26.740 and I don't hate that.

06:55:29.120 Like I support it.

06:55:31.840 You know what I mean?

06:55:32.980 I don't know if that makes sense.

06:55:33.880 I feel like this is an L, 0.94

06:55:35.080 rare Maddie L.

06:55:37.080 You know what I mean?

06:55:38.100 No.

06:55:41.220 No.

06:55:44.940 Okay.

06:55:45.460 Yeah.

06:55:45.860 I mean,

06:55:46.160 I don't know what the L is either.

06:55:48.320 She says men are more often in positions of authority,

06:55:51.640 and she supports that.

06:55:53.620 I mean,

06:55:53.800 that's like the opposite of an L,

06:55:55.840 right? 0.97

06:55:56.780 Isn't that fucking awesome? 0.98

06:55:57.740 That's why I think male privilege is more powerful. 0.98

06:55:59.460 No,

06:55:59.620 but she's saying about this within the context of male privilege.

06:56:02.660 That's why I think male privilege is more powerful than female privilege. 0.97

06:56:07.560 That's what I was saying.

06:56:08.740 But so you're saying,

06:56:09.480 but like the privileges that women have, 1.00

06:56:12.580 are they earned privileges?

06:56:14.900 No,

06:56:15.460 I think they're just given.

06:56:17.420 Whereas when men are in positions of power,

06:56:20.040 is that given to them or is it earned?

06:56:21.820 Earned.

06:56:22.600 Okay.

06:56:23.720 So the privilege.

06:56:24.840 But when they do earn it,

06:56:26.800 it's,

06:56:27.820 they have a lot more power.

06:56:29.560 It's a lot more powerful than women being given.

06:56:32.080 Oh,

06:56:32.240 right.

06:56:32.560 Well,

06:56:32.880 okay.

06:56:33.640 It's more admired.

06:56:34.660 I hate that I have to come to the defense of any of you,

06:56:39.380 but I think that Maddie just worded this wrong.

06:56:43.420 Yeah.

06:56:43.760 Honestly,

06:56:44.120 I think that she just worded it wrong.

06:56:46.440 Right.

06:56:47.100 So when you tell you,

06:56:47.820 when you're thinking about privilege,

06:56:49.640 right?

06:56:52.740 Cause I've heard you say this before.

06:56:54.160 You think that men and women just have privilege in a different way.

06:56:56.760 Right.

06:56:58.700 Is that,

06:56:59.260 is that correct,

06:56:59.860 Maddie?

06:57:00.200 Yes.

06:57:01.220 Yeah.

06:57:01.680 So if they,

06:57:02.160 I mean,

06:57:02.360 if they do,

06:57:02.920 you can't say that a man who's in a position of authority has any more

06:57:06.280 privilege than a woman who it's not in a position of authority, 1.00

06:57:09.420 but society kind of kisses her ass. 1.00

06:57:11.160 Right. 1.00

06:57:11.700 Yeah.

06:57:12.920 Yeah.

06:57:14.060 So I,

06:57:14.460 I just think it was bad wording.

06:57:16.120 Yeah.

06:57:16.900 My verbiage is not on point.

06:57:18.460 By the way,

06:57:18.860 Andrew,

06:57:19.220 I saw Maddie's my misogynist. 0.93

06:57:21.320 She is my misogynist. 0.99

06:57:22.600 I mean,

06:57:22.900 you're a Caucasian, 0.96

06:57:23.700 Brian. 0.98

06:57:23.880 She's my misogynist. 1.00

06:57:25.220 Oh, 0.72

06:57:25.440 there you go.

06:57:26.500 I don't know if I will.

06:57:28.040 Maddie, 0.92

06:57:28.460 the misogynist. 0.71

06:57:29.440 We're going to get you there,

06:57:30.480 Maddie.

06:57:30.800 I need to get some.

06:57:31.900 Maddie, 0.97

06:57:32.340 the misogynist.

06:57:32.960 Debate university courses before I claim misogynist.

06:57:36.440 You know where to take them from.

06:57:37.680 There you go.

06:57:40.340 By the way,

06:57:41.020 guys,

06:57:41.320 do you like Maddie on the,

06:57:42.720 on this side?

06:57:43.280 She's normally like on this side,

06:57:44.520 but like,

06:57:44.920 do you think,

06:57:45.240 is this her angle?

06:57:47.440 Like,

06:57:47.620 is this a better,

06:57:48.460 is this your better?

06:57:49.620 This is your bad side.

06:57:50.740 I don't know.

06:57:51.200 I don't know.

06:57:51.660 I don't know.

06:57:52.040 Whatever.

06:57:52.560 I don't know.

06:57:53.340 All right,

06:57:53.720 guys,

06:57:54.620 GG,

06:57:55.060 well played to the panel.

06:57:56.240 Last call,

06:57:56.780 hit the like button,

06:57:57.420 please,

06:57:57.640 on your way out.

06:57:58.240 thank you all for tuning in tonight.

06:58:00.020 You could have been anywhere in the world,

06:58:01.680 but you're here with me.

06:58:02.460 I appreciate that.

06:58:03.120 Thank you to everyone who super chats,

06:58:04.500 donates,

06:58:04.960 and supports the show,

06:58:07.500 just like Low Paladins.

06:58:07.960 She notices men in position of power

06:58:09.900 because men who don't have power 0.84

06:58:11.480 are completely invisible to women.

06:58:14.020 Hashtag ho underscore math,

06:58:15.580 the rate Madison L.

06:58:17.720 W.

06:58:18.020 Ho math in the chat.

06:58:19.980 I know.

06:58:20.460 That's a good YouTube channel.

06:58:21.720 We've had him on the show.

06:58:22.640 We'll have him back on again.

06:58:26.140 But like,

06:58:26.780 most men don't have any power. 0.80

06:58:29.740 That doesn't mean I don't acknowledge them.

06:58:34.760 Yeah,

06:58:35.260 and I was just pointing out most men.

06:58:36.540 No,

06:58:36.780 I agree.

06:58:37.260 Like,

06:58:38.120 they have no power.

06:58:39.000 I agree.

06:58:39.300 I very much agree.

06:58:40.060 Like,

06:58:41.060 most men don't,

06:58:42.880 like,

06:58:43.200 have any,

06:58:44.160 don't tend to benefit from the,

06:58:48.060 quote unquote,

06:58:48.780 system

06:58:49.200 by virtue of them being men.

06:58:52.580 Yeah.

06:58:56.040 Like,

06:58:56.540 for example,

06:58:57.000 okay,

06:58:57.180 last thing.

06:58:57.940 If I grant,

06:58:58.920 if I grant that

06:59:00.460 the top percentage of men

06:59:04.240 occupy these best positions,

06:59:07.220 you know,

06:59:07.420 the CEOs,

06:59:08.460 they have,

06:59:09.100 they're politicians,

06:59:09.980 they have the power,

06:59:10.700 whatever,

06:59:11.540 there's a far larger subset of men

06:59:14.000 that occupy the absolute worst positions in society.

06:59:18.640 This is why you see,

06:59:19.440 for example,

06:59:20.380 what's the gender distribution,

06:59:22.580 what's the gender distribution

06:59:24.700 when it comes to homelessness?

06:59:26.180 What's the gender distribution

06:59:27.480 when it comes to people

06:59:28.940 who take their own lives?

06:59:30.500 It's overwhelmingly men 0.98

06:59:31.720 in all these,

06:59:33.600 all these statistics,

06:59:36.000 represent,

06:59:36.380 overrepresented in self-deletion,

06:59:39.180 prison,

06:59:40.940 and homelessness.

06:59:41.780 So,

06:59:43.200 yeah,

06:59:44.060 a couple men have it really good, 0.97

06:59:46.080 but like a fuck ton of men 0.67

06:59:47.300 have it really, 0.99

06:59:48.420 really bad.

06:59:49.260 Whereas I'd say on average,

06:59:50.660 women tend to enjoy, 1.00

06:59:52.220 they don't have those fancy executive positions, 0.52

06:59:55.620 although that's changing.

06:59:56.780 They're not having these positions of power,

06:59:59.320 but they do tend to generally enjoy

07:00:01.520 a higher generalized,

07:00:03.780 what's the term?

07:00:10.800 Quality of life.

07:00:11.840 Mm-hmm.

07:00:13.480 Yeah.

07:00:14.040 I think that is kind of why I also said that

07:00:17.400 when they are privileged,

07:00:19.600 it's a lot more powerful

07:00:21.060 because it's harder earned and...

07:00:25.840 Word?

07:00:26.800 Yeah.

07:00:27.700 W, Maddie, I guess?

07:00:29.580 Mm-hmm.

07:00:30.880 Okay.

07:00:31.840 We,

07:00:32.520 let's see.

07:00:33.200 Thank you again to everybody

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07:00:40.980 We will be live again Tuesday

07:00:42.820 at 5 p.m. Pacific.

07:00:44.540 Got a...

07:00:44.940 Oh, yeah.

07:00:45.980 Got a really big guest

07:00:47.100 coming on Tuesday.

07:00:49.340 Daily Wire guest.

07:00:51.500 That's going to be a good show.

07:00:53.360 Andrew will be joining us

07:00:54.740 later on in that one.

07:00:56.980 And,

07:00:57.100 but so...

07:00:58.420 I actually have a,

07:00:59.340 well,

07:01:01.520 you know what?

07:01:01.980 I won't say anything.

07:01:03.020 Come to whatever

07:01:03.780 and watch that show.

07:01:05.260 It's going to be a good one.

07:01:06.380 Yeah, yeah.

07:01:06.920 Let's not disclose,

07:01:08.120 but so be sure to tune in

07:01:10.360 for that show on Tuesday,

07:01:11.700 Daily Wire guest.

07:01:12.620 Any girls who want to be on the show,

07:01:13.780 DM out whatever on Instagram,

07:01:14.800 if you can make it to Santa Barbara.

07:01:16.520 07's in the chat.

07:01:17.880 Let me just make sure

07:01:18.740 everything here is all set up.

07:01:21.300 Drop us...

07:01:21.820 Yeah, thank you, Keegan,

07:01:22.740 for that last minute.

07:01:24.340 Oh, yeah.

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07:01:40.780 I think he's going to have

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07:02:04.780 Okay.

07:02:05.660 Like the video, guys.

07:02:06.740 On your way out.

07:02:07.640 07's in the chat.

07:02:08.680 I hope you guys have

07:02:09.440 a very good night.

07:02:10.460 Let me do the raid

07:02:11.160 really quick to Dude.

07:02:13.100 I'm going to raid Summit 1G.

07:02:15.600 Summit.

07:02:16.680 That's going to go off

07:02:17.500 in 10 seconds,

07:02:18.120 then we're going to wrap up here.

07:02:19.020 Good show, guys.

07:02:21.220 Good show.

07:02:23.000 Did we forget anything, M-Dawg? 1.00

07:02:25.840 Drama.

07:02:26.420 I don't think so.

07:02:27.080 Oh, the drama? 1.00

07:02:28.120 Shit. 1.00

07:02:28.600 Might have to wait 1.00

07:02:29.220 until Tuesday.

07:02:29.840 Sorry, boys.

07:02:30.880 Address the drama.

07:02:31.920 I've already kept

07:02:33.560 these people here too long.

07:02:34.980 I'll have to do it

07:02:35.980 on Tuesday.

07:02:37.380 Hopefully Tuesday's show,

07:02:38.420 but time permitting.

07:02:40.200 Okay.

07:02:42.500 Anything, Maddie?

07:02:44.180 Oh, I got to send the raid.

07:02:45.320 Okay.

07:02:45.780 Thank you guys

07:02:46.220 for watching on Twitch.

07:02:46.860 Sending the raid now.

07:02:47.820 Sending you to Summit 1G.

07:02:48.800 Thank you guys

07:02:49.220 for watching on Twitch.

07:02:50.200 Guys, on YouTube,

07:02:51.300 like the video on your way out.

07:02:52.240 I'm sending you to Andrew

07:02:53.140 right now.

07:02:55.200 So, sorry, guys.

07:02:58.820 Nick left,

07:02:59.380 so I'm kind of like

07:02:59.920 multitasking here.

07:03:01.720 07's in the chat, guys.

07:03:02.640 I hope you guys have a good night,

07:03:03.500 and we'll see you on Tuesday.

07:03:04.500 Good night, guys.

07:03:18.940 Thanks for having to go, LA.

07:03:19.220 Bye.

07:03:19.700 Bye.

07:03:20.460 Bye.

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Whatever Podcast - August 19, 2024

She SCAMS Men ($250,000)？! 52 Year Old Single Mom WILL NOT SETTLE (Wants Man Who Makes $500,000 Per Year)？! ｜ Dating Talk #188

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