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00:01:13.420 hi my name is danielle everyone calls me d i am from new jersey i have an apartment there and i also

00:01:20.420 have an apartment in new york city i am the ceo of the foot fetish place we have a location in

00:01:28.060 midtown manhattan and we are also locating to our second location in new jersey and i am a journalism

00:01:36.300 major all right welcome hi there i'm desir noel i'm a sex and relationship coach and a self-help author

00:01:45.780 and a single mom of three here in socal born and raised on the streets and educated at uc irvine and

00:01:53.880 california baptist university so i'm ready to go age age you don't ask a woman that i i graduated high

00:02:02.620 school in 2004 i'll say that well i'm about to ask a woman that what's your age you can't do math

00:02:12.780 38 there you go bingo hey that's girl you look good she went quick um hi i'm alex um i'm a multimedia

00:02:23.860 artist and a creative advisor and consultant um as well as i do a few nights at the inn um and i am

00:02:34.100 uh 26. all right welcome hi my name is emily i am 18 years old and i am from a small town called

00:02:43.500 pahrump nevada and i am unemployed but i'm working on becoming a tattoo artist did you say pahrump

00:02:51.200 nevada okay isn't that uh where there's like legal brothels um i don't know i just moved there but

00:02:59.460 it's like yeah it's like right outside of vegas so okay got it are you in college or no okay what

00:03:07.320 about you my name is ashley paola i'm 29 years old i'm from inland empire i am in the sales industry

00:03:15.540 in the medical field i'm also a certified body sculptor and a podcaster

00:03:20.920 hi my name is jessica i'm 25 years old i live in hawthorne i am a full-time student a full-time mom

00:03:32.380 i am also a certified lash tech and i just got certified as a nutrition coach

00:03:38.300 go ahead hello my name is kishwan clark i'm 30 years old and i'm from san diego

00:03:46.780 uh so right now i'm actually a waitress at a high-end resort and i'm also studying to become

00:03:52.000 a personal trainer all right welcome thank you my name is madison i'm 19 years old i'm from san

00:03:57.920 diego california i'm a full-time student at santa barbara city college studying communication

00:04:02.160 and i also work for the whatever podcast all right welcome everybody and then without further ado

00:04:07.860 my caucasian andrew wilson take it away yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm the host of the crucible

00:04:15.540 i'm a political satirist a political analyst and i also enjoy doing some debating from time to time

00:04:21.840 good to have you andrew and thank you for uh bringing that to our attention it's

00:04:26.400 good that we figured that out sooner rather than later so thank you andrew going around the table

00:04:31.940 once more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single relationship married

00:04:40.080 polycule harem sex cult um situationship friends with benefits whatever it may be if you're single

00:04:49.480 how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead i am

00:04:53.680 single ready to mingle my longest relationship has been 13 years from what age to what age from 14

00:05:02.720 to about last year 2022 wait and you said you've been single for how long we broke up

00:05:11.820 he was in jail and then he was like oh go do your own thing but then like he got mad about it and then

00:05:19.620 we got back together when he got out but he was really with his co so there's a little like mix

00:05:25.520 up around there so we were together 10 years then we i found out between the three years so

00:05:30.860 we could say 10 or we could say 13. wait what year did you graduate from high school 12. 12 okay

00:05:37.600 got it okay uh relationship status so i am i guess you would call me single i had about a 10-year

00:05:48.700 relationship a typical marriage you know the whole thing had my kids with that guy we got divorced

00:05:55.360 five years ago so i left him and then i now am all of the above i don't agree to i just go with the

00:06:01.940 flow i i go with the coochie flow you could say whatever i want what does that mean it just means

00:06:09.580 that i basically allow partners or men to prove themselves to me so i don't agree to monogamy i don't

00:06:18.680 agree to any sort of structure of a relationship i just go out and have the connections and things that i

00:06:24.420 desire and then i let men if they would like to try to be a husband or something to me i i basically

00:06:32.500 give them the price of that whether that's with how much time i want of them how much sex i want how

00:06:37.800 much money i want i just put it to each men and i allow them to kind of rise to the top with whatever

00:06:43.160 ones have a more what you would consider a dating relationship with me or a sexual relationship or a

00:06:48.920 friends with benefits i just kind of leverage and get my needs met so when you say leverage what do

00:06:54.540 you mean um basically the same way that you would do business negotiations so a man comes to me and

00:07:01.360 let's say he wants to take me out and i read vibes very well so i know that that means i would like to

00:07:07.140 take you to dinner i would like to give you some drinks i would like to take you back and have sex

00:07:10.900 with you so if i know that that's what he's coming at me with i set the price for judging on his

00:07:17.000 character where he's at in life his vibe the whole thing i say okay if that's what you want from me

00:07:23.580 then it's going to cost you my rent this month let's say he's a very kind of low vibe guy and i

00:07:29.840 read that and it's not somebody i would really want to have a relationship with but i need my rent paid

00:07:34.460 and i got a little bit of time so i give him that price he either agrees to it and i go on the date

00:07:40.380 with him and then i never agree to doing anything sexual with people unless that's what my body wants

00:07:47.040 to do at the real time so i make that clear to the man go to the dinner with him he paid my rent let's

00:07:52.580 say and let's say i'm not feeling it i say thank you very much i had a great time you got your couple

00:07:58.280 hours with me you got to have a nice conversation i probably gave you some great ideas for your business

00:08:03.360 i gave you some great ideas for moving forward and you have a nice day or all the way to i really

00:08:09.520 like the guy good quality man i ask him to take me to ice cream and then i sleep with him whenever i

00:08:15.340 want to sleep with him that type of thing so it just depends on what you're bringing me and so you said

00:08:21.180 that the the price for that is your rent no it just depends on the man socal rent or texas rent

00:08:30.360 it's 2700 socal rent you're okay so for a man to spend a night with you the cost is 2700 it just

00:08:38.660 depends on the man some some men are my friends and i like having sex with them and i feel safe with

00:08:43.760 them and they might bring me a burrito and we fuck if i can say that some men like i said their

00:08:48.760 vibration their energy is very kind of toxic and low vibration and that's my test it's kind of like

00:08:56.340 women test men right so however we do it we all do it we see how much attention he's going to give

00:09:03.400 us we see how available he is or not we see if he lives with his mother we see if he has a d how much

00:09:08.820 does it cost if he lives with his mom does it cost more or less like do you do charity like okay so i'll

00:09:14.880 give you an example i'll give you an example so i have all these guys in their 20s sliding into my dms

00:09:20.000 and they want to go out with me so what i'm doing is i understand this is not a man i'm going to sleep

00:09:26.160 with this is not a man i'm ever going to think of as a husband but you know what i like that he shot

00:09:31.400 his shot and you know what this guy with where he's at in life logically he needs to be going and getting

00:09:38.260 himself like a single mom stripper and so i think logically okay let me help raise this man up and

00:09:46.080 what i say is i just did this 27 year old man i could tell maybe he has an apartment or some

00:09:51.860 roommates maybe he lives with his parents but he's at that phase of life you can't afford a woman like

00:09:56.400 me so i agree to what can he afford he could afford to take me to lunch so i say listen i'll meet you

00:10:03.420 for lunch my son needs new summer clothes like summer shorts how about this i'll meet you for lunch you

00:10:09.740 can have me for like two hours and we can just on amazon right there you can order my son the stuff he

00:10:15.060 wants because you need to practice providing for that child of that single mom that's at your level

00:10:22.940 so let me help you practice and then i'm going to even coach you through how to have eyes for the

00:10:29.060 woman that you're qualified to be with right now and then i tell him she's a stripper she's a stripper

00:10:34.720 at a strip club she's a single mom she probably has one little kid and these are the things that you

00:10:40.440 want to look for of being able to tell the good women versus the toxic just strippers who are just

00:10:46.860 career strippers and they're just working you for their money because there's signs of how to know

00:10:51.360 there's signs of how to tell a good woman even if she's in a non-traditional profession

00:10:56.480 there are signs there so i will coach this young man through that that in and of itself is literally

00:11:03.400 worth thousands of dollars of my consulting time as a therapist as a professional i agreed to do it

00:11:09.260 for a lunch and maybe a hundred bucks of buying my son his summer clothes now if he agrees to it

00:11:16.300 what a brilliant freaking guy word if he doesn't we don't go on the date he loses it so that's how i do

00:11:23.900 it you mentioned low vibration yes what so what is a low vibration okay so a low so we are all

00:11:31.580 actually vibrating energy we are not solid form we are literally atoms we are a cluster of atoms that

00:11:39.460 appears to be solid but there is space in between each atom and it's vibrating right so what we are

00:11:45.520 calling emotion that's an energetic vibrational frequency so shame carries a particular frequency

00:11:52.440 for example and the thing is we have not been taught how to properly process or handle any of these

00:12:00.760 more difficult feeling emotions think when you get embarrassed and your cheeks flush it has a

00:12:07.760 physical effect on our body these different emotions right so we have not been taught that it's okay to

00:12:14.240 feel shame or embarrassment so when it comes it's supposed to just correct us it's supposed to say

00:12:21.980 hey you might want to put a sweatshirt on that you attract your vibration exactly so when i say

00:12:28.380 low by you're attracting these low vibration men because you're low vibration uh no by your logic

00:12:33.660 because i don't believe in that you can't control the energy coming at you what you can control is

00:12:39.320 which energy you allow into your close space so when these low vibration guys come so they're stuck in

00:12:45.600 their childhood issues so they are stuck in shame they are stuck in fear they are stuck in scarcity they

00:12:53.200 stuck in pride ego all of this so it makes a low vibration because these things are literally weighing

00:13:01.840 them down no i get that but if they're in low vibration so that's how i test that's how i test i

00:13:07.440 gave him they can only attract low vibration exactly so if he's coming at me and i'm essentially inviting

00:13:14.160 him to raise his vibration i'm inviting him to trust a healthy woman who knows him can see through him

00:13:23.520 and can raise that logic he would only be able to attract you as if you were a healthy woman

00:13:28.240 he would only be able to attract you if he was healthy but because he's not healthy he's attracting

00:13:32.160 you no no because he's unhealthy he says no to the deal if he was willing to step up and be a little

00:13:40.000 bit healthier he would agree to the deal if you're high vibration why would you agree to that deal

00:13:44.240 if you're not i didn't agree to it i'm not going to lower because i have the wisdom over the years

00:13:48.880 to know how high to set the price so that's how i weed the men out okay okay so this guy for example

00:13:55.200 he was so like low vibration he wasn't even willing to spend 150 bucks to spend an afternoon with a woman

00:14:03.920 like me that's some date right that's some low vibe shit no i was gonna say 150 on a first date

00:14:09.840 it's kind of well when you get to my level first date that's nothing normal first dates for me are

00:14:15.360 thousands of dollars that's that's insane that's not that's not really what's happening usually it's

00:14:19.520 like free to like to go to people's time like yeah yeah yeah like it's a first date you're getting

00:14:25.440 to know the person this isn't like you're my girlfriend i'm gonna spend thousands of dollars on

00:14:29.280 you but here's the thing when you're an expert psychoanalyst you don't need that you know the

00:14:35.200 person instantly so i have that gift i don't need all this time to get to know a man i don't need it

00:14:42.000 i know right away almost like what you would think of as a psychic right into you right away i know

00:14:48.400 exactly what you got going on because i'm such a master at the human psyche i'm very educated again

00:14:53.440 i'm not a typical woman walking around i can coach women through some basic skills you don't have to

00:14:59.680 be my level but it's street smarts you read vibes you don't read what they say you're reading between

00:15:06.800 the lines ladies and that's how you do the choosing these guys are marketing they're using sleazy

00:15:12.880 marketing tactics to sell you some shit don't buy that shit read the vibe excuse me they're buying

00:15:19.280 you what if what if he doesn't have the skills that you have and he then i'm not his girl then

00:15:26.960 you might be his girl or you might be his i'm definitely not his right but you see what i'm

00:15:30.960 saying there's plenty of variety out but why don't you just go for a man that's on your caliber like

00:15:35.920 what's the point of that's how you i know but what's the point of entertaining these guys that you

00:15:39.440 know are it's a business i don't entertain them but you do you allow them to take you out on dates and

00:15:43.760 pay for your son's clothes you know you didn't understand he didn't accept so i didn't go but

00:15:49.600 but if he did accept why entertain that you know that's that's a pitiful man he like he's not even

00:15:54.480 important enough to his fucking basketball shorts i know but that's what a job is for that is my

00:15:59.440 job or you go for a good man that can afford your son and is okay with you having other children he

00:16:03.280 could take care of you i think you're missing the point i'm a consultant and a sex and relationship

00:16:07.600 coach this is my business okay we're talking in dating yeah but we're talking like we're talking

00:16:12.320 and i run my dating life as my business kill two birds so there you go win-win so i make my money

00:16:19.760 dating in a sense i make my money dating and then like right now one of my clients he's the husband

00:16:27.360 with benefits type of guy he pays my bills if i need he takes me on nice trips we talk to each other

00:16:34.160 he helps me with business connections he gets what he wants and i get and you um can you explain for

00:16:42.000 me because i've been listening for a little bit how you would distinguish yourself from a

00:16:46.240 prostitute it's it's honestly not it's the same type of energy exchange we call it whatever you

00:16:51.920 want i have no taboo about it we're all doing that you're going to your job clocking in clocking out

00:16:57.040 doing something that you don't necessarily want to do guess what i get to do i only do things i want

00:17:01.600 to do so that sounds like a sugar relationship then i mean we can call it you can call it whatever you

00:17:08.320 want it doesn't matter it's just an energy exchange and that's how you do it and honestly if you think

00:17:12.240 about it this is how we do everything in life everything's a negotiation here's my energy what

00:17:17.520 are you willing to give me in exchange for for this energy but you say you're like a dating and

00:17:22.080 relationship coach right so how is it that you're going about having shallow interactions like looking

00:17:28.720 at transactions there's nothing shallow about thinking you're there's nothing relationship dating

00:17:33.680 expert because that's not love that's that's a business i'm not operating on love i'm operating

00:17:38.400 on a business and if i fall in love in doing my business like i have friends like i said i have friends

00:17:43.920 with benefits i love them they love me there's no money exchange there's energy there's whatever

00:17:50.240 but when i have strange met strangers that i've never met this is my testing process i'm gonna treat

00:17:56.560 you like this is a job this is my profession if you if you agree and you pass my test and you

00:18:02.880 show me you're a good man then guess what things change i have a question yeah i'm not disagreeing

00:18:09.760 i'm just trying to understand and process everything i think we all are what if he is trying to

00:18:17.120 distinguish you as well i don't play that fucking game i have nothing to prove i have the pussy no

00:18:22.160 no no like he like he no but yeah okay it's true girls it's our commodity like your body is your

00:18:29.760 most priceless commodity why are we your body is the most priceless it is it 100 it creates life

00:18:35.840 a hundred percent of course it creates life without my body this human population wouldn't continue so

00:18:42.400 what's gonna happen when you're 80 and nobody is gonna be in my my pussy or you can't okay medically

00:18:48.000 what if medically you can't because that happens i work with seniors and there's a lot of seniors i

00:18:52.240 i got a hand i got a mouth i have nobody wants to actually die alone i'm not gonna die alone are

00:18:58.640 you kidding me i'm surrounded by people who love you yeah but you're talking about a hand like your

00:19:03.200 own hand is not the same as a man that actually loves you and holding you and being around you

00:19:08.400 i have those guys who love me i know but care of a 99 year old man and he had all the money billionaire

00:19:15.040 yeah no he never got married never had kids so when he died the money went to his fourth cousin

00:19:23.440 that he never met his wraparound terrace penthouse in new york city went to the state and okay it went

00:19:31.920 to the state it didn't go to his family it was gonna go to the state it went to the fourth cousin

00:19:35.280 because they found someone that was they had to find someone but he never met the guy that's pretty

00:19:40.000 sad yeah but that's he assumed that you don't even have any children to bring that money down

00:19:44.160 to they could just take that money and start businesses or so imagine there's a there's a

00:19:49.440 bunch of these guys out here ladies who are just looking for companionship they're honestly just

00:19:54.560 looking for companionship because they thought that life was about money so they spent their whole

00:19:59.520 lives chasing money only to end up realizing i just actually want companionship so when i say

00:20:06.160 pussy what i'm really meaning is feminine energy feminine energy is so valuable and at the end of

00:20:12.880 the day men if you bring them healthy authentic feminine energy which guess what takes their ego

00:20:19.360 down a notch sometimes because it taking a man's ego down is actually helping his soul emerge so he

00:20:26.480 rises up as being a better man if he handles that well if he gets all egotistical about it and doesn't

00:20:32.800 listen alissa wants brian's small donated two hundred dollars hey brian the single mom from last

00:20:40.160 show has been blasting stories and she says she would smash you and your dead bod would you yeah i saw

00:20:46.080 that also would any of you ladies have carnal knowledge of brian uh so uh first off it's not small

00:20:56.560 it's average get it right secondly look she's very nice i always appreciate people who offer pushback

00:21:02.880 makes for an interesting show and i think we would like to get her back on eventually from a dating

00:21:07.680 perspective look she was she's an attractive woman ex-stripper xof girl two kids in the middle

00:21:13.920 of a divorce argumentative kink history i'm not cool with she domed a male uh if it wasn't for all that

00:21:22.080 maybe um jesus christ yeah and i guess they're asking if you guys would

00:21:29.200 date me basically cardinal knowledge date me i'm pretty much the same uh so we'll start over here

00:21:33.600 with you would would you if i would date you yeah if you'd date me you're not my typical type i'd like

00:21:37.680 athletic men if i'm being honest i like well i gotta lose weight she's not she's not wrong i gotta lose a

00:21:45.840 little weight because i work at it all the time and if i have to go to the gym constantly and have my

00:21:49.840 body looking right and tight i expect my man to do the same i got a dumpy though does that change

00:21:53.840 anything if you got a fat ass that's good does that change anything right madison it helps yeah

00:21:58.640 madison sure no i don't know you always bring it up oh but his face is getting red look how red your

00:22:07.280 face is they bring it up they bring it up you guys feminine energy all right what about what about

00:22:14.400 you um same i go to the gym a lot and uh just two guys i gotta lose some weight these girls talking oh

00:22:22.800 dad buds i like dad but it's fake news boys it is i'd say that all the time i don't think so you're

00:22:28.640 not my my usual type yeah you know like white i guess yeah i mean i've dated one white guy well he's

00:22:35.360 really italian but yeah no i don't think so it's hard out here um no

00:22:40.800 not really you know she's gonna test you out you know brian to be honest with you what's so sexy

00:22:50.400 is if a man can handle me going head to head with his ego that's so sexy so actually well no i think

00:22:59.520 i have hope for you because you did come back and apologize i could tell you genuinely tried to do it

00:23:05.360 the best you could i understand you're on a lot of pressure this is probably your livelihood you make

00:23:09.840 money doing this and i understand the dynamics so yes or no yeah i i would say i would give you a

00:23:17.520 chance oh look at that and i would even i would even submit to you if you were willing if you were

00:23:23.200 willing to let me dom that little ego that pops out once in a while i would i would be your baby girl

00:23:28.800 and cover him i'm a baby girl i'm a baby girl but only to a true daddy who always undersells and

00:23:38.320 over delivers is it my turn go yeah go ahead i would oh there you go i just haven't i just don't

00:23:45.440 know you enough i want to go home i have i just need to ask you i just need to ask you are are you

00:23:53.200 under the influence of anything no i'm just excited i've been on the airplane for six hours and you did

00:24:00.800 put her on blast she's nervous poor thing no even before that yeah there's there's like this deadness

00:24:07.520 in the eyes yeah it's just that's associated with people who typically are on no narcotics

00:24:14.960 she offered me the sativa and she didn't take it she didn't take it the drink and i gave her a drink

00:24:21.760 did you drink are you sober i drank as much as you took two sips of her cocktail or whatever

00:24:28.640 okay you should ask him if he's on i've been in a two-hour car ride okay so you're tired you're tired

00:24:33.840 i didn't sleep last i got on a plane when did you wake up five a.m eastern time correct yeah

00:24:39.600 five a.m eastern time so that's like two a.m pacific time okay i packed got on a plane yeah okay

00:24:46.800 all right she's tired she's tired and there's energy she's tired she's not on drugs okay andrew

00:24:52.880 all right this is what we're uh by the way everybody else i i apologize some messages came

00:24:59.600 through but the moderation uh delay was on so i'm going to do them really quick then we're going to

00:25:03.920 get everybody's relationship status we'll come back to a lot of the stuff that you said

00:25:08.960 sorry for the delay doc i apologize

00:25:10.800 rickson she has a speech impediment she means 304 vibration amazing grift to turn sex work into

00:25:19.760 seemingly legal work you receive 1099s or skip the two behold the height of narcissism

00:25:29.280 i think that was directed at you maybe i could be wrong so i guess i'm i guess is the question do i

00:25:36.480 pay taxes i don't know what the question is do you do like 10 do you get 1099s yeah i pay my taxes

00:25:42.000 just like anybody else i have an s corporation so my only fans business obviously gets and i wrote my

00:25:47.200 book so all my book royalties go to my but like you said that the guys who you choose to sleep with

00:25:51.840 they have to pay your rent which is 2700 no no i'm not saying i'm not saying they have to i'm

00:25:56.480 simply saying if it's a man is it like under the table or are you like reporting that on 1099s

00:26:01.440 like are you sending them 1099s like do you get w9s from them and then like send them in 1099 do you

00:26:07.600 do that when your grandma sends you a christmas gift oh but i thought this is your work i thought

00:26:13.280 this is your like work right i mean it's no different than if you um go buy your weed at one

00:26:20.080 of these places where you have to you can only do it by donation and it has to be a gift right it's

00:26:25.280 loophole they still have to report that to the it's loopholes it's loopholes i'm pretty sure they

00:26:29.360 still have to wait if it's a certain amount but to be honest my income is very low you have to send

00:26:33.920 it if it's over 600 you have to send it if i had like a crush on you and i want to say here's the

00:26:41.920 no because here's the thing i get these guys to co-sign for me so for example this guy who might pay

00:26:47.200 my rent he co-signed for it so it's his apartment too technically for a month oh for a month you get

00:26:53.360 someone to do that on the first date i highly doubt that what someone no no this would be guys that i

00:26:58.960 already have like had a pre-establishment anyways we'll get into it in a bit maddie can you read

00:27:02.720 these three chats just while we have them here and then we'll get relationship status does this

00:27:07.360 woman realize she's admitting to the world she's willing to prostitute for a burrito what kind of

00:27:12.160 tests do these men need to do when they're done with this harlot yeah i don't know what the question

00:27:18.880 is like do you make them take like an sat test or like lsat we have conversations just like anybody

00:27:25.360 else i don't know like not okay i don't know uh this one maddie so in other words rather than

00:27:31.920 working on and saving her marriage she decided to go from loyal wife to single 30 foe putting her own

00:27:37.360 needs in front of your own children so sad i feel for the children well guess guess what their dad

00:27:43.680 only made 35 000 a year with a family of five and guess what this guy was so controlling and insecure he

00:27:51.280 wouldn't let me work so you do the math i needed to leave in order to make a better life for my

00:27:56.560 children and i picked doing work that allowed me to be home safely raising my own kids and i'm a sexy

00:28:03.680 soul so i'm very comfortable doing these things and i would have been doing it anyway for free so

00:28:08.160 might as well get my bills paid for free hold on i would be i would be going on dates or having

00:28:13.920 sex with people or having conversations with people while you were married

00:28:19.600 shit well i had my first marriage where we had agreed to monogamy we were christians and we had

00:28:25.360 the whole typical setup so i never would have done that in my marriage you've been married multiple

00:28:28.880 times and then my second time i tried it again and we did a non-traditional thing so i didn't do it

00:28:34.400 legally we were not i never agreed to monogamy we had an open relationship so you got married in a

00:28:39.840 church the first time not in the church but you said you've been you were married a second time so

00:28:45.040 the second time we had our own ceremony and we did it our own way it was non-traditional because

00:28:50.000 i wasn't going to agree to any of that anymore it just didn't fit me and how many kids do you have

00:28:54.960 i have three children i had them with my husband my first husband yeah they all have the same dad you

00:28:59.520 you said he was making 35k 35 000 a year what was he doing for work he was like he's like a grunt

00:29:05.280 at a law firm he's does plumbing legal no he does plumbing he's like their

00:29:10.800 bitch he does electrical he was a plumber at a law firm he's just a jack of all trade that was like

00:29:17.680 like a handyman yeah kind of like a handyman he would do some it stuff for them like you know he's

00:29:22.960 a he's a very smart jack of all trades guy but his level of worthiness was so low that he was never

00:29:29.600 working himself up in life i even went and worked at cal baptist full time even though i didn't want

00:29:35.520 to so that he could go to college for free and he said he wouldn't let you work huh i thought you

00:29:41.600 said he wouldn't let you work he he wouldn't i went and did i disobeyed you could say i disobeyed

00:29:47.520 and got this job because i was like look you can go to college for free i'll be a secretary i i moved

00:29:53.200 my mom out from colorado to watch the kids so i was supporting my own mother because she needed a job

00:29:58.880 anyway and i was trying to provide a way for this man to get a college education so he could provide

00:30:04.240 better for him i literally did everything i could yeah technically it wasn't that controlling if you

00:30:09.360 were able to do that well no he was so mean to me because i got the job i i only lasted three months

00:30:14.880 because the marriage got so difficult because i had disobeyed and he wasn't okay with it so i had to

00:30:20.480 leave the job and then we're back to being broke let's back up a little bit if you don't keep it for a

00:30:25.680 second yeah hide it for a second how how exactly did you disobey when you're flying your mom out and

00:30:30.720 all of this he must have consented to at least some of that he had to have right you can't just

00:30:34.720 i didn't fly with your mom at like one one o'clock my mom was homeless we're gonna sneak you out here

00:30:40.000 into the house without him knowing you didn't do that no my mom was basically homeless so she was just

00:30:45.680 basically couch surfing around in arizona and i didn't fly her out i had her drive out and i asked her

00:30:52.560 can you watch the kids i will get you i will rent you a room in another lady's house and i i set

00:30:59.120 everything up in order it was like me killing two birds with one stone for my family so i saw it as

00:31:06.320 here's an opportunity for me to make sure my mom is safe her job is going to be to watch my children

00:31:11.760 which i felt okay with it's their grandma and i'm gonna go be a secretary at the university where i got

00:31:19.120 my master's degree at in order to bring in some extra money to basically pay for my mom's life

00:31:25.440 and to allow my husband who is obviously stuck in his financial development it will allow him to go

00:31:32.320 to college for free because that was the program you could either go to college for free or your

00:31:37.200 spouse if they hadn't had a degree yet could go for free i already had a master's degree by the

00:31:41.360 and he didn't agree to any of this he okay it's one of those things where you know what wives do we're

00:31:46.640 like come on he went along with it not very happy about it but it made logical sense to it it made

00:31:53.840 logical sense so i don't understand so this is why i don't understand it's like you say he's he was

00:31:59.200 super controlling so controlling wouldn't even let you work and then we find out well it was very

00:32:03.200 covert it was let me finish let me finish hang on i just let you go let me at least ask the question

00:32:09.280 sure but then we find out well wait a second no that's not really what happened what actually

00:32:13.920 happened was your mom who's homeless he moved into his house right no no we didn't move her

00:32:18.480 into the house i i rented her a room with another single lady she didn't live we had a little tiny

00:32:23.600 apartment we had no money we had a two-bedroom apartment with wait wait wait wait you just said

00:32:28.480 that part of the reasons you went to work is so that you could support your mom so i could kill two

00:32:32.960 birds with basically making sure that my mom's needs basic needs were met of having housing being safe

00:32:40.080 and i could have this job that offered me this perk of letting this man get a degree for free at a

00:32:47.920 private university that would have cost us fifty thousand dollars so i was trying to i was trying

00:32:54.000 to create an opportunity that he couldn't say no to is what you could say and at the end of the day

00:32:59.520 he went along with it because it made logical sense but he wasn't okay with it so he made my life kind

00:33:06.080 of hell i don't well i don't understand the the the conflict here so because you don't understand

00:33:12.880 you obviously don't understand the dynamics in these super religious um structures of a relationship

00:33:18.720 so that's why i'm asking the problem is is like as let's try to have this as a conversation so i can

00:33:23.840 ask at least some questions um before you cut in in the mid-sentence otherwise i can't even ask

00:33:29.680 so just kind of backing up what i don't understand here is mom moves in right you get a job mom doesn't

00:33:37.440 move in she she moves in with another lady that i agreed to pay 500 a month for her to live there

00:33:43.680 to rent a room she's not living in our apartment so this wasn't one of those situations where your

00:33:48.640 husband was like well if you're going to do that you need to financially support her i'm sure he probably

00:33:54.480 said something like that yeah i don't remember this does sound logical to me so it sounds a long

00:33:59.760 time to me if i mean we could get him on the phone well look that's your mom and uh if she's homeless

00:34:05.120 maybe she's you know maybe he thinks that she's a screw-up or something like that well to be honest

00:34:10.080 to be honest i sold it to the man more like here's your ticket to get a college degree finally

00:34:16.080 the mom thing was kind of just that's how the kids will get taken care of it was neither here nor

00:34:20.480 there to be honest it was more about i'm creating an opportunity for this man to get educated in

00:34:26.720 order to move our family up the financial ladder even if it took four or five years five seconds

00:34:34.560 finish your point please and then andrew can respond okay so so just real quick um what if he didn't want

00:34:40.320 to what if he didn't want to go to college well obviously at the end of the day wait stop stop stop

00:34:45.120 stop stop stop stop stop stop stop look andrew lets you speak you gotta let him finish his sentence

00:34:51.600 before you respond go ahead andrew yeah yeah just just and the thing is is uh that's the most productive

00:34:57.360 way for us to converse by the way it's i i want to hear what you have to say but i need you to hear

00:35:01.840 what i'm saying as well otherwise otherwise we're just going to come to bad conclusions so uh if if

00:35:07.120 husband says well i don't want to go to college that's not my thing maybe i want to do a blue collar

00:35:11.520 thing or work myself up uh you know from the bottom of a job or something like this um you say well but

00:35:17.840 i want to create this opportunity for you but how are you creating an opportunity for somebody

00:35:21.920 if they don't want to do that thing isn't that actually you who's the one who's being pushy yeah

00:35:27.520 you being the one who's being controlling wouldn't that be the opposite of him being controlling yes you're

00:35:32.640 right and so that is the toxic part of our relationship that i learned i picked the wrong guy and he was not

00:35:41.520 he was not the man that i ultimately wanted to partner with or raise children with because he

00:35:48.960 didn't have that tenacity or that work ethic or that drive and so yes it was very toxic of me and

00:35:55.360 i understand why you know our relationship we stayed together basically because we were christians and

00:36:04.000 we didn't believe in divorce andrew your response and then i gotta move things on yeah yeah no problem

00:36:09.120 uh just last quick last response who wanted the divorce it was me i left yeah okay so you were

00:36:16.240 controlling and it became toxic and then you well he was controlling as well he was we like attracts

00:36:23.600 like so we were two peas in a pod just on the different end of the spectrum i don't believe that

00:36:29.200 like attracts like it does that's literally donated two hundred dollars you say he only made thirty

00:36:37.520 thousand dollars but yet you decided to marry him and have three children with him anyway and you

00:36:42.800 basically just admitted that you put your own needs in front of your family number three of foe 20 second

00:36:48.720 response if you want to yeah i mean yeah okay uh maddie i'm gonna have you read this valdiv good to see

00:36:56.960 in the chat slingshot good to see you back in the chat man thank you appreciate it mads reed

00:37:04.160 does your worth about as much as kiki in the back please shut up no one cares i'd much rather hear from

00:37:09.520 the pouty-faced latinas and the bunny queen does your literally killing society all right valdiv thank

00:37:18.560 you appreciate it and then we have pelagic red's going down okay and then spyro uh i did see oh that's

00:37:28.800 weird it's not letting me pull it up yeah can you try i don't know oh boy

00:37:39.840 oh my god

00:37:44.240 i did apologize to the man oh i think it's back i think it's back

00:37:53.520 what's going on today boys our stream quality is uh i think it's okay nick i think it's okay

00:38:00.400 uh i think we're okay right yeah andrew can you hear us you can hear us okay we had a dip in our uh

00:38:09.280 bitrate uh okay so let me just re-pull those reds going down spyro you'll have to shoot me a dm on

00:38:17.280 instagram if you want to do bitcoin uh if you want uh so thank you man appreciate it and then pelagic

00:38:23.440 thank you for the uh very generous super chat appreciate it buddy okay we gotta get everybody's

00:38:27.440 relationship status so let's get yours all right go ahead all right well i am currently in a committed

00:38:33.760 relationship for almost a year and my longest relationship was five years all right and if it's

00:38:41.280 my understanding is correct you're currently in an age gap relationship yes so you're 26 and he's

00:38:47.680 53. he's 53. wow and you both bonded over uh you you both had uh illnesses is that correct yes we

00:38:57.680 both have um chronic health conditions um and we met because i was walking with a cane in the in the

00:39:05.040 movie theater that we were watching and he just approached me and just asked about it and he has

00:39:10.400 a terminal illness so um is it cancer or um no it's um it's a pancreas thing okay um so he doesn't have

00:39:21.680 too long to live but sorry to hear that very sad but it just brings us closer together on multiple

00:39:28.320 levels and being present in the moment and sorry you said he's 50 health three 53 okay and uh i had

00:39:37.760 another question on that so uh he was was he previously married he was never married no children no children

00:39:45.760 okay and are you guys aren't married no and he pretty much has nobody in his life besides

00:39:51.600 you or well he he has a sister um and then he has um a couple of trustees who will handle everything

00:40:00.560 after he passes are you getting anything in the estate or um i'm not sure but i do know that i am

00:40:06.320 welcome to stay at the place where i made home um with the lovely ladies who who live there with his

00:40:12.400 sister and um and um another woman who is actually was his oldest girlfriend and is his number one

00:40:19.680 all right what about you um i am in a relationship right now and my longest relationship was 10

00:40:28.160 months how long have you been seeing this current um we just started dating like

00:40:34.640 three weeks ago all right three weeks how did you guys meet um we met online

00:40:41.840 tinder like a dating app no like like snapchat he added me snap people meet on snapchat well i'm 18

00:40:49.360 so like that's like a different one yeah you could just randomly add people on snapchat yeah yeah okay

00:40:56.640 um i currently or i recently met someone and we're talking and my longest relationship is four years

00:41:02.560 when you say uh how recent like in the past month so you've been like in the talking stage for a month

00:41:08.080 yes okay and also age gap oh how old is he i'm 29 and he's 43. 29 43 okay um i'm currently in a

00:41:20.240 relationship my longest is three years um i'm not sure if mine qualifies for an age gap it's just five

00:41:27.120 years but i mean it's not yeah that's and uh wait you've been dating this current guy for how long

00:41:33.280 um we've been together for um it's hard to give a time just because it's it's very complicated our

00:41:42.960 our situation how long have you known him three years three years yeah and you said your longest

00:41:50.640 relationship was three years when did that relationship end um that one was my high school

00:41:54.800 sweetheart i see okay this guy we i've known him for three years and we've been together for three years

00:42:02.000 years but and he's i have a child with him oh but right now it's a it's a difficult situation

00:42:09.600 yeah he took some milk whoa what the nick nick nick oh my oh my gosh uh okay so you you have just one

00:42:18.480 child yes okay and you guys have been kind of like off off and on for three years for practically my

00:42:23.920 entire pregnancy into everything yeah okay so he's the i'm assuming he's the father yes of the child okay

00:42:29.520 we got some hot mamas here all right what about you well i'm not a mom but i am single and i'm

00:42:36.880 currently dating um i started dating back in september online dating mainly um and my longest relationship

00:42:43.200 is a year and a half all right and you said you're currently dating uh so are you in like a talking

00:42:49.360 stage or i'm talking to someone right now this one's actually really recent literally a couple days ago

00:42:54.480 have you guys been on a date or no he actually he lives in a different state oh okay how did you

00:43:00.800 guys meet instagram no so my friend satara she actually works she she travels a lot for work so

00:43:08.000 she went to she went to seattle and then she was on uh i think it was bumble and then she was looking

00:43:14.160 for guys on bumble they both matched and then he saw a picture of me and her on her profile so then

00:43:18.720 he asked her oh who's your friend is she single and then so she connected us both so we started

00:43:25.360 talking to instagram and then we just started talking okay and is this the only guy that you're

00:43:30.800 talking to yep the only one you don't have like a roster or anything like that no i'm not like that

00:43:37.200 i'm not like that no okay all right uh but you guys are planning to meet then that's the plan yeah

00:43:44.080 yeah yeah so i'm just laughing like you guys have like anything concrete like you're gonna

00:43:49.360 you're gonna go there he's gonna come here in a month we literally just started talking about that

00:43:52.800 today this is just a random conversation right now because i literally told well i'm gonna be on

00:43:56.480 the podcast you want to watch so yeah i don't know if he's watching right now so this is kind of

00:43:59.920 different oh shit okay yeah all right hi all right cool so we've got everybody's relationship status

00:44:08.720 uh i'm trying to think what else we had to uh hit on nick you could hide that one by the way from

00:44:14.640 him but i think we can get into some of my pre-show notes here initially to oh wait hold on

00:44:21.280 andrew your relationship status

00:44:26.560 uh yeah i'm happily married have been for well over a decade

00:44:30.080 all right rock and roll so i'm gonna get into some pre-show notes here i've got quite a few tonight so

00:44:36.240 we are gonna try to get through them as quickly as possible but i'm gonna start with you so hold

00:44:43.360 on so many i'm scrolling through yeah i wrote a lot no not even you just from everybody uh so wait did i

00:44:53.040 skip past it or how many notes do i have sorry guys give me one moment alex right yes okay so in

00:44:59.600 terms of your relationship history you said that you've been in long-term relationships at one point

00:45:03.520 you were engaged um yes but you never got married no okay who called off the engagement me um i kind of

00:45:13.680 it was um actually um after it was actually to my um ex-best friend who i've been best friends with

00:45:23.680 high school and we also only reconnected after graduating and we've been talking for a few months

00:45:30.480 and then i proposed and then i proposed did you have a ring um he got me a ring and then i got him

00:45:38.480 a ring after that um did you get down on the yeah yeah no um because it was actually over the phone

00:45:46.400 because we were we were kind of um kind of long distance but it was right after i ended well we

00:45:54.000 mutually ended my five-year relationship so i was kind of a little bit vulnerable and just um okay

00:46:00.880 and reconnecting so and then we were planning on getting married um two months in and then i actually

00:46:07.520 kind of figured out i might be a lesbian instead and uh broke everything off wait how long were you

00:46:15.360 dating him um for about um three months but i've known him for about like six years he he was my

00:46:24.080 best friend in high school so what's your orientation are you bisexual um yeah i mean i i go with the flow

00:46:30.560 whoever i meet who i vibe with you date men and women yes okay and you also said you in addition to

00:46:36.080 that you're you've been in polyamorous situations dating six to ten people is ten people the most you've

00:46:44.320 dated at a time or more um at a time yes now just to for better understanding like with polyamory was

00:46:52.560 it like a 10 person couple no or like you were dating 10 individual people i was i was taught i was

00:47:00.640 dating 10 individual people one of them was a couple um and then a couple of them were online and then

00:47:07.840 a few were um just here and there um so okay so real quick i just wanted to know too uh you have kind

00:47:18.000 of a strange way of speaking um where's the accent from um i'm originally from russia okay i thought

00:47:26.240 i thought maybe you were but i wasn't sure nice little little like uh but how how long have you been in the

00:47:33.120 states um let's see since 2009 2009 and uh basically centered around the west coast um i have been

00:47:42.480 kind of all over from cal um in california from like l.a area to bay area and i live like everywhere

00:47:49.440 in between that's like the first time i've heard a russian accent but kind of mixed in with valley

00:47:55.200 girls so i was like what the hell what about i was like what oh that's funny you speak russian

00:48:01.360 i'm assuming uh yes i do of course okay very cool very cool and but so you moved in 2009 so

00:48:08.960 you were what like i was 11 turning 12 and you moved with your family um i moved with my mom and my

00:48:16.240 dad no i'm sorry with my mom and my brother okay um because she fell in love and got married um but

00:48:22.880 then it ended up being an abusive relationship and uh it was a whole bunch of stuff wait so back

00:48:28.800 in russia your parents were never never married or they split up they were married but they did

00:48:33.600 split up um yeah they did get divorced and then your mother met an american and then yes because

00:48:39.520 my aunt lives here so she came to visit her and then she met an american guy an american guy they

00:48:45.200 fell in love they met they got married in vegas um was there a green card um afterwards yes

00:48:52.720 and then she brought us over and then there was a whole lots of stuff all right so dating the uh

00:49:00.160 the six to ten people so like when you say poly polyamory dating six to ten people so like

00:49:06.400 are you like hooking up with all of them kind of at like you know one on monday tuesday wednesday

00:49:12.400 thursday like that kind of thing um kind of it's kind of whenever our schedules combine and kind of

00:49:19.680 our schedules worked on the majority of people i saw maybe once twice a week um and then a couple

00:49:25.040 of them were online relationships so you know it was a little easier did it ever get overwhelming

00:49:30.240 like trying to talk to so many people ten people um at needs and remember a lot of time

00:49:37.280 at that at that time no because i just wanted to experience as much as i have i've just come out of

00:49:44.080 um period of two years celibacy so oh you're celibate for two years i was celibate for two years prior to

00:49:50.160 that why why um multiple reasons but it's really to work on myself and just kind of not be a terrible

00:49:59.520 person to other people and like learn how to be wait i have a question for you so during this celibacy

00:50:06.640 thing like would you say within three months so you were at the tail end of your celibacy uh three

00:50:15.440 months dating for or there was a the three month tail end of your celibacy were there any guys who

00:50:21.760 are romantically and or sexually interested in you um not really because i didn't really talk to many

00:50:27.680 people however i read a lot of spicy books and um that's kind of what got me back into the whole like

00:50:36.320 trying to see if it would even work romance novels with the guy on the horse with the long hair

00:50:44.160 yeah okay i was just curious like if at the tail end of your celibacy you were like no no no

00:50:51.360 i'm celibate and then your celibacy ends and then you're just like dating like six dudes like well

00:50:59.520 it started with one um and then two and then three and then four and then five you know so

00:51:07.680 would you tell the guys that you were seeing other guys yes i was always honest and i was always um

00:51:12.720 asking uh for the std panels prior to every single prior to every single first date even if i wasn't

00:51:20.960 planning on doing anything now a quick uh quick question for you uh were your parents russian orthodox

00:51:27.200 yes however you know it wasn't strictly followed sure yeah yeah sure so were you baptized into the

00:51:38.400 church then i was baptized in the church however starting seven years old when we baptized my brother

00:51:44.720 i started getting terrible headaches whenever i entered into church so i haven't been in ever since

00:51:50.320 maybe the incense most likely but also the pressure you know like being and behaving a certain way so

00:51:59.200 um what are your parents what do your parents think about this about this lifestyle and all of this

00:52:04.720 um well my mom doesn't really know much about my life we're not too close so she knows about the one

00:52:12.480 i'm dating so all the long-term relationships she knows about but you know everything in between is

00:52:19.280 is my own personal stuff well because if they're um the russian orthodox and i take it they would

00:52:26.880 frown on polyamory and on the perhaps same-sex relationship stuff that kind of thing right

00:52:34.640 well i was always different so my mom kind of you know we always were not friendly with each other

00:52:42.240 growing up so it's like she always kind of expected me to do whatever and you know i went to an art

00:52:47.040 school so like i i feel like she would have had possibly some kind of at least the thought that

00:52:55.920 that might be a chance okay so you're not very close with them then with with uh mom or dad so my

00:53:02.000 dad has passed away um but um not too close with my mom she recently moved to arizona and then she's

00:53:10.960 going to be traveling the world with her fiance um so there's not much chance to really chat and then

00:53:20.400 with uh with dad when did he pass he passed um oh my god um i think it was 2017 and i haven't seen him

00:53:31.440 since like about two weeks before i left and i haven't spoken to him or seen him he's never asked about me

00:53:39.200 or you mean when you were seven you haven't spoken to him since you're since you left when you were

00:53:44.080 seven um since i left since i was 10. oh 10 okay yeah sorry gotcha all right yeah i was just curious

00:53:51.120 i just wanted to kind of blush the rest of that out so appreciate you answering my questions and on

00:53:55.760 on that note you uh you said that monogamy you i think you have an issue with monogamy being the

00:54:03.760 standard and you think that monogamy is harmful that's what you said your monogamy is harmful

00:54:09.120 why is that so i don't necessarily think monogamy is harmful it's more it's a harmful as a social norm

00:54:15.280 to begin with like um i don't think that it's right to just like especially in the talking stage or like

00:54:23.120 the beginning dating stage to just focus on one person and expect to be with just one person and on top

00:54:30.560 of that there has to be specific levels of commitment in order to get to that to that monogamous

00:54:39.760 relationship and to create the boundaries and the rules and set what you want so i think monogamy

00:54:46.880 should not be the beginning norm i think it should be what everyone comes to a conclusion long term you

00:54:54.800 do want that or do you want to do you think that like five ten years how old are you i'm 26 i think

00:54:59.840 she just wants to go with the flow if it naturally occurred and it felt right but the thing is when

00:55:04.560 you agree to monogamy it can very easily get toxic exactly and the guys tend to start controlling

00:55:12.320 let's just be honest you choose the wrong man well that could be the case you choose a man that says

00:55:17.120 to you i want to get married i want to have children i want it to be a but they lock it down

00:55:22.080 and then they have no but not all men are like your ex well most of them because i've also dealt

00:55:27.760 with bad men but they're not all like that but so you're open to it though you're open to the to

00:55:31.680 to being committed to one person so i am committed to one person so so so it's literally go with the

00:55:37.360 flow of what i feel like um so it's like at the moment i physically do not want anyone else i have no

00:55:44.240 interest in anyone else so like so we've talked about it you know and we both were like hey we're not

00:55:50.080 really interested in other people um we love each other's company you know if a situation comes up

00:55:56.480 where we meet somebody together so it's kind of just feeling based emotionally exactly so you said

00:56:04.000 that it's like a toxic social structure like to be monogamous but what from the get from the get-go

00:56:10.160 oh yeah so so specifically from the get-go i think monogamy should be established and agreed

00:56:16.240 upon from both parties not just be kind of the norm so the thing is anytime you institutionalize

00:56:22.320 something it very quickly i gotta say real quick i don't mean to cut you guys off but um ready you

00:56:28.320 gotta go get an energy drink you gotta go slam like pound an energy drink seem like you pass it out on

00:56:34.480 that in yeah pound i go yeah pound an energy drink you'll feel a lot better um can i i know i've taken

00:56:43.200 those brutal flights myself out there and uh that always helps me just uh but so i i just want to ask

00:56:50.240 you like okay so i know you said um like even the relationship you're with right now it's you said you

00:56:57.120 guys enjoy your guys's company you guys are committed to each other but you know if you guys want to date

00:57:02.880 someone else or things change so where is the actual real commitment like in your and how do you

00:57:08.960 see that if there's no real commitment well there is commitment because we decide on it and we have

00:57:15.840 decided that if we meet somebody it would be okay that's it would be somebody you know like that we

00:57:21.760 both like and we both oh like to bring into the to bring into the relationship oh not to leave each

00:57:26.960 other for um no but but however if we do meet other people somehow and would want to be with

00:57:33.360 other people like it is what it is what it comes down to is basically it's a different structure where

00:57:39.360 we are ultimately only committed 100 to ourselves and our own personal selfish no it's actually not

00:57:46.720 because that's the only way that you can truly show up and fully full out love somebody with your

00:57:53.040 whole soul and receive their full out unconditional love from their soul when you start adding but it's

00:57:59.280 not unconditional it's conditional it's conditional based on at any point if this relationship no longer

00:58:06.880 serves your personal growth and your highest good or my personal growth and my highest good

00:58:11.840 as consenting adults we will peacefully do what we got to do then why make a commitment in the first place

00:58:17.680 you don't i mean i personally i don't the only commitment i make is to my own personal growth

00:58:23.440 health and development and to being completely honest and transparent so there's no shadiness we

00:58:28.000 talk about everything and transparent either then yeah it's really just and when you reach that level you

00:58:33.600 don't need to have these monogamous things because that's not what it's about it's about connection

00:58:40.080 it's about love it's about you feel that i get what it is that you're saying the whole the whole self

00:58:45.040 love and that you have to show up for yourself a hundred percent i get that but then that also just

00:58:50.880 takes away with people being able to actually out of the relationship faster you don't fight for

00:58:56.320 anything like no that's actually not true because when you actually find those aligned people who are

00:59:01.360 worth fighting for that's how you weed it out i love your fucking soul so much that i'm willing to be

00:59:08.720 curious why did you do that thing i'm just curious and we have no jealousy right because

00:59:14.880 we have no reason to be jealous we are awesome human beings and if this guy wants to go fine

00:59:20.880 another cool awesome person will come in if we want to leave because he's not stepping it up or he's

00:59:26.240 not doing the right thing we're free to go so do you believe but isn't um isn't jealousy actually kind

00:59:32.000 of healthy so doesn't that show that you hang on hang on doesn't that show that you actually value a

00:59:38.640 person um and value them as a human being to the point that you don't want to share them

00:59:44.080 or that uh you know you don't want any other people to intrude you want all to yourself lol paladins

00:59:49.920 donated 200 controlling man noun when a woman wants to have relations with another man and the boyfriend

00:59:58.400 or husband says no number two is the definition of toxic femininity let the rest of the panel speak

01:00:05.280 well they're i mean they're all engaging honestly and i don't i don't see a problem with people

01:00:10.960 engaging but um but to this to my question isn't that part like if you love somebody all right now

01:00:19.200 i know that you can take anything to an extreme you can even take uh how much you love a person to an

01:00:23.680 extreme smother them this type of thing but wouldn't you expect to see something you value for you to be a

01:00:29.360 little bit jealous of if uh if somebody else was kind of moving in or uh you felt they were spending

01:00:35.200 time away from you things like that isn't a bit of jealousy good and for you to say well i just don't

01:00:40.160 have any isn't that really just telling us that you don't value anybody no i would say that the jealousy

01:00:45.360 is a tool it's a tool it's it's just an emotional tool it's a human emotion it's a human emotion but it's

01:00:51.680 nothing to get stuck on it's it's it should be a passion sparker like you know what i'm getting kind of

01:00:58.640 jealous that he's really talking to that girl a lot at work instead of me trumping and getting

01:01:06.320 all dramatic whatever what do i do but step up my fucking game well then i'll dress a little cuter

01:01:12.240 yeah but isn't that that's just shit testing though it's fun it's honestly very fun isn't

01:01:18.320 the old adage of play stupid games when stupid prizes it's not stupid though it's not stupid it's

01:01:24.400 actually that's the way you have a passionate sex life for the whole relationship guys guys one at

01:01:29.200 a time let him finish and then you can go if you're in a position where you value somebody

01:01:34.640 uh of course you're you could easily experiences feelings of jealousy that does not only not make

01:01:40.320 you a bad person but probably a good thing it's probably healthy it shows that you love and adore

01:01:46.400 this person and you value them and this type of thing or it shows that you're not comfortable with

01:01:51.040 yourself just hang on i'm almost done and i'll let you speak i promise isn't it good in many ways

01:01:58.400 that people show that they they have a bit of jealousy because that's the value of they're showing

01:02:03.440 i value this thing and you're like saying i have none of that wouldn't that tell me that you just

01:02:09.680 don't value anybody or anything i would say that the jealousy is actually the root of it is your own

01:02:15.840 insecurity see i don't have jealousy because i know i am a unique one-of-a-kind energy if a man

01:02:24.080 wants to have experience a different flavor that's fine why would i be jealous of that he'll be back

01:02:29.680 when he wants this flavor no different than how it's a tool wait wait andrew andrew letter finish go

01:02:35.120 ahead yeah i i just look at jealousy as a tool now what i prefer more is true admiration and respect when i

01:02:45.200 truly admire a man and respect him i might have that little twinge of what we could call jealousy

01:02:51.920 but what it is is he's holding me accountable to rise up my level for example there's this guy who

01:02:58.480 is my guy we all have the one that got away the childhood love whatever you want to say right he's

01:03:04.320 just my guy we've never actually been together but you know what i love about him is that he had this

01:03:12.160 kinky side i didn't have that coming from the christian world i was like a good girl so because

01:03:18.720 of my love of this man my reverence of him my respect of him i allowed that to rise my game so i went out

01:03:28.000 and learned how to so just how he wanted to sexual yeah but this is um there's a bunch of

01:03:32.720 but no but then it became fun for me and now i have an extra skill to bring other men for a second

01:03:40.000 hang on just let me say what i'm what i need to say here so it seems like there's a bit of pedantry

01:03:44.880 here where you say things like well i'm a unique special energy it's like well okay but everybody's a

01:03:50.480 unique it's true that is true which is why i don't think that stop just stop let me finish holy

01:03:56.160 shit before you cut in um when you say things like that it sounds like a bunch of non-sequiturs

01:04:02.240 like a bunch of meaningless spiritual esoteric tripe that that means nothing see the thing is i don't

01:04:07.680 get jealous because i'm a unique special energy well yeah but that guy over there is a unique special

01:04:12.640 energy and he does get jealous right the thing is is that none of that really actually answers to my

01:04:18.080 question of value so if you value something the whole purpose of valuing that thing is i i i love

01:04:26.080 it or i desire it or i want i have it has value to me that's where jealousy inserts itself can

01:04:32.960 jealousy become uh toxic because people become irate over it sure but does that usually happen i

01:04:39.600 don't think so i think it's pretty common that people become jealous uh even over kind of small

01:04:44.720 things and even laugh it off and even recognize ah you know maybe that's a bad feeling to have uh you

01:04:50.800 know under this circumstance or that circumstance but what you're talking about really doesn't actually

01:04:54.960 answer my question of do you value anybody and if you do how do you demonstrate that without

01:05:01.520 wanting to be a bit possessive or things like this i just don't resonate with the word jealousy

01:05:07.840 or possession or anything along those lines just because it's common and that's what people typically

01:05:14.560 present doesn't mean it's healthy that's not love like i love my children so i want the absolute

01:05:22.400 best for them a lot of times they choose things that is not my favorite or they go spend time

01:05:27.680 with other people when i would prefer to spend time with them but i love them so much i value

01:05:33.680 them as an individual okay if you believe that that's your best life that that's your best choice

01:05:38.560 today that that's your best friend and you hate me today okay i i love you so much i have the space to

01:05:46.320 allow you to be yourself and i bring that same energy into my relationships dynamics i don't it's

01:05:53.360 okay to have jealousy but what i tell men is that's your issue you go process the jealousy just like i do

01:06:00.560 i feel the jealousy sometimes and guess what i do i go no i'm saying everybody has these human emotions

01:06:08.960 it's what you do with it so i might feel a twins of jealousy i go and do my inner work you just got

01:06:15.600 done saying that jealousy does not resonate with your frequency it doesn't resonate with me to carry

01:06:21.360 it into somebody else's presence but i just know how to deal with it it's like but everybody then

01:06:26.320 that's the story of every human being out there almost every human being out there gets jealous

01:06:30.560 and most of them know how to deal with it by the time they're adults because they have to

01:06:34.000 right okay so maybe i don't know what makes you special with this vibration and we can agree on

01:06:38.000 that i was simply saying as the emotions of jealousy or possession kick in i don't bring that into my

01:06:45.360 relationships i go have a night to myself and i ask myself what would make me feel insecure why do i

01:06:52.000 feel insecure in comparison to for example this other woman and then i think to myself well you know what

01:06:58.240 she's in better shape than me that's yeah i really like that and so you know what i do instead of

01:07:02.800 dumping that onto my relationship i go get in better shape hold on right you know so i'm moving

01:07:07.920 so final thing andrew final thing final thing go ahead yeah so you're actually coping with jealousy

01:07:12.960 what you're saying is i have ways in which i hang on i use it as an invitation with jealousy and these

01:07:19.280 are all the ways i cope with jealousy i teach people how to cope it's not a coping it's not a coping it

01:07:25.280 is a you're using jealousy as the tool that is of the invitation it's a tool to look inward and

01:07:32.560 say what is this triggering what is this triggering yeah but you're jealous of the attention that

01:07:37.680 he's showing to her so you're like okay let me look like that's not true yeah let me look like

01:07:41.520 her that's cope it's literally if you looked up coping the definition that

01:07:45.280 all right well we can agree to disagree we can agree to disagree it's just a human

01:07:49.600 thing it's what you do with it is all i'm saying but if anything if you show the jealousy of your

01:07:55.200 relationship it'll it could actually help your relationship i wouldn't say it's controlling it i

01:07:59.120 say you're processing it in a healthy way okay cool so what's the panel's thoughts on the anunnaki

01:08:05.440 does anybody have any idea what that is no what is that i do i don't know what the anunnaki are

01:08:10.640 i don't know what it is i can tell you quickly anunnaki supposedly are a group of alien beings who

01:08:18.080 came down as star seeds and seeded the planet earth for a life uh you utilizing a hybrid technology

01:08:26.880 in order to create uh like a lizard hybrid people in the beginning of our that's what the anunnaki

01:08:32.480 and they have like cool watch looking things yeah we're not going to linger on the anunnaki thing

01:08:37.920 thank you thank you don't worry about it a couple questions for for you here you mentioned low

01:08:43.680 vibrations you mentioned frequencies um you know i don't know if you you're familiar with the the

01:08:49.360 one of the greatest minds uh of our generation of our time uh terence howard are you familiar with

01:08:54.560 them at all no but explain the yes process so so yeah terence howard one of the greatest minds of our

01:09:00.240 time um he asserts that frequencies they have um intrinsic power that resonates throughout history

01:09:07.840 and it influences our emotional physiological and cognitive states do you do you yeah so it would be

01:09:13.440 what the better word would be to use epigenetics so epigenetics is the transfer of vibrational

01:09:18.640 data through the generations now i so that is not what epigenetics means hold on hold on

01:09:25.920 transfer vibrational data hold on hold on actually does i have degrees in this stuff okay you have you

01:09:32.720 have degrees in from you have degrees in epigenetics huh i have a degree in psychology and social

01:09:38.480 behavior and i have a degree in counseling and i also have a life coach certification

01:09:43.920 from an institute that specializes in quantum physics and vibrational resonance okay so in

01:09:50.640 your psychology degree did they explain to you that epigenetics is the study of vibrational frequency

01:09:56.800 passed down through the generator i just want this on record so for example they have studied now in

01:10:02.800 rats right in pregnant rats they do these tests where the pregnant rat they can tell now because they use

01:10:11.200 water and the vibration of water and all this stuff and the mom but vibrational data meaning basically the

01:10:17.520 traumas and the emotional information from the mother gets transferred to that baby that she's pregnant

01:10:24.640 with and that goes back seven generations that is not vibrational data it actually is being transferred

01:10:31.280 uh no in biology epigenetics is study of heritable traits or a stable change of cell function that

01:10:38.640 happened without changes to the dna sequence these are not studies of the vibrational intergenerational

01:10:46.080 frequencies of parents and and sons daughters and heritability of vibrations that's absurd that's

01:10:52.720 esotericism tossed in to epigenetics which is a real legitimate scientific study it's not about

01:10:59.600 esoteric vibrations your school of science and my school of science didn't date apparently so that's

01:11:05.760 fine your school of science studies uh vibrational frequencies passed down her heritable frequencies

01:11:14.560 so my my greatest mentor and who taught me about quantum physics and vibrational information

01:11:20.160 is mary morrissey you can look her up she um she runs the brave thinking institute and she's a master

01:11:27.200 she's a master at creating anything you want it's a science it's called quantum physics okay because

01:11:35.200 we're all vibrational beings and we are passing on vibrational information all right so so i've got a

01:11:41.040 couple like i i want to run some like this is from terence howard i just want to run like this by you and

01:11:46.400 see if you kind of concur so he says with the science that pythagoras was searching for like he's made

01:11:53.440 discoveries in his own personal life with the science that pythagoras was searching for he was

01:11:58.000 able able to open up the flower of life properly and find the real wave conjugations that we've been

01:12:04.320 looking for for 10 000 years why would i continue walking on water for tips when i got an entire okay

01:12:11.520 that's something else hold on let me find the other quote one second here he says that uh one sec i'm

01:12:17.280 getting it he all so he says all the energy in the universe is expressed in motion all motion is

01:12:26.400 expressed in waves all waves are curves so where does the straight lines come from to make the

01:12:31.120 platonic solids there are no straight lines so when i took the flower of life and opened it properly

01:12:36.880 i found all new wave conjugations that expose the in-between spaces it's the thing that holds us all

01:12:41.840 together yep so so straight lines or solid matter is an optical illusion it's not really what's going

01:12:49.520 on scientifically so if you hold it under the right microscope you see there's no straight lines there

01:12:55.280 is vibration it's everything is moving and it's waves it's sound waves it's all of this and that is

01:13:01.280 what our body is actually reading the data coming in now he i would know wait no hold on hold on hold on

01:13:08.560 okay so he also says that he's he's able to prove that gravity is only an effect and not a force

01:13:17.120 do you tend to agree with that or gravity is only an effect and not a force i god that's such a

01:13:23.920 complicated way of saying that i'm trying to translate it into like common speak because that's the problem

01:13:29.840 a lot of stuff gets lost in translation to be honest with you because we all have

01:13:34.240 our own way of understanding things right so that's why i speak street thug i speak scientists

01:13:39.840 i speak life coach you know is by itself i know with no one around is it a force i would say okay okay

01:13:50.160 i will say that if you're with it gravity if there's nothing to drop

01:13:55.040 is useless it's only there to serve the matter that it is vibing with you could say that it's

01:14:07.760 around so i guess that is true it's not a force that's going to be penetrative it's just there if

01:14:13.440 it's necessary it's there to drop something okay but effects effects have causes that's true yeah

01:14:21.920 so what's the cause of the effect that's a good question um can you rephrase that like

01:14:27.760 what's i don't i how i don't i actually i don't even know how i could ask that better

01:14:34.880 okay so so you're saying where does the where does the law of gravity come from the effect where does the

01:14:39.520 law of gravity come from is that what you're i'm saying if it's an effect what is the cause of the

01:14:44.080 effect the cause of the effect is us is everything that would require the gravity to work thankful

01:14:53.840 so it might be a human body it might be an animal it might be a rock getting a human body the human

01:14:59.520 body um well that's the mystery let me ask you a question wait hang on wait that doesn't make any

01:15:04.880 sense gravity as a force okay you're you say it's an effect this is an effect okay but all effects

01:15:13.440 have causes what is the cause of this effect of gravity you say well human beings are the effect

01:15:19.840 of the the cause i would say that honestly even though i don't mean this to be like flippant but i think

01:15:28.080 that that's what we would call god we would call that the mystery there's certain things

01:15:32.720 it's a little above our pay grade of exactly how it came to be and exactly why it mathematically works

01:15:40.400 perfectly and exactly why it's there i mean it's like the mystery so you don't know right you just

01:15:45.280 you don't know what the cause is that's what you're actually saying is that just i'm saying that i can

01:15:49.600 say definitively the cause is what i would call god you can call it whatever you want you can call it

01:15:56.960 so the effects so the so the cause of gravity is or the effect of gravity is god god is causing

01:16:04.400 gravity to happen well i mean i hate to say god because we have like this particular image but

01:16:10.960 that's just the best word that we've kind of come up with you can call it the mystery again now when you

01:16:16.480 get into frequency it's interesting because um now don't take this the wrong way but from my perspective

01:16:23.120 what you're saying is a bunch of pseudoscientific nonsense uh when you're talking about frequency

01:16:28.240 it is true that solid objects do have a frequency for instance if you took a wine glass and you hit

01:16:34.160 the right pitch with your voice you could break the glass the reason that that glass breaks is because

01:16:39.840 it does have a frequency and the frequency of your voice if they intersects they they can dissolve

01:16:45.760 objects there is a precedent for this we've known about this for a long long long time what i don't

01:16:51.520 understand though is this idea that there's no such thing as something solid there's not see you were

01:16:56.640 already mistaken because you were calling the glass solid and you also said that it had a frequency so

01:17:02.560 if it has a frequency by nature it's not solid no it doesn't make any sense because a frequency

01:17:09.280 connotes that something is in movement if it's in movement it's by nature not solid okay i'm moving this

01:17:16.560 song i'm moving this on i'm moving it on final question on this two plus two equals four agree or

01:17:23.360 disagree i mean it depends on what the two is is it a pregnant mom is it two pregnant moms because

01:17:30.320 that's more so it's everything is not as simple i mean like math just like two pencils plus two pencils

01:17:38.800 that we're talking yeah like the number the number two plus the number two i would say for the most

01:17:45.760 part yes what do you mean for the most part like i said there's some there's some variations where

01:17:51.920 but the thing is even that is a flawed concept because it's actually that pencil is billions of

01:17:58.640 atoms that are vibrating so we've learned we've come to call it one pencil but it's actually however many

01:18:05.600 atoms vibrating on the same frequency to make this appearance this optical illusion that this is a

01:18:11.440 pencil and our human mind needs to label things and conceptualize it in solid form so we just call

01:18:18.400 it's not solid how does it break well technically it's not really broken i mean even that's enough

01:18:27.280 well you could say now it appears as two pieces it still was never solid two pieces that's why

01:18:35.600 right well no offense but i think if you're in a kindergarten class and well no offense that's not

01:18:44.320 an answer how is it not saying saying no offense but i don't have an answer to that i gave you the

01:18:49.840 answer and you didn't want to accept it so that's not my fault why does the glass break if it's not

01:18:55.600 solid it only appears to break that's it only just like a heart only appears to break it's still your

01:19:03.440 heart no that's way different when you go through a heartbreak it's honestly not saying it's not that

01:19:10.560 different you guys on a scientific microscopic level it's not that different you can't see the

01:19:15.040 heart broken because it's not really getting broken it's in a it's it's just like the pencil it's just a

01:19:21.360 saying that i broke the pencil it's just it's the same thing okay that's like you saying i'm not

01:19:26.480 really one human body because i'm made up of a million cells and that is true i've described

01:19:30.880 myself as more as a constellation i'm a constellation of atoms and energy and you're one person you're one

01:19:37.760 i mean i don't think of myself as one of anything but you can say that you can say that's your truth

01:19:43.120 but the reality is you are one it's actually no the reality is actually okay so i could just grab a

01:19:47.920 part of you and there's two of you you could grab a piece of my hair but that's your hair coming up

01:19:52.480 that's just a part of all my dna all my dna is in that one piece yeah but that's not that's not

01:19:58.080 that's not your body though that's not explaining exactly and guess what my body is not who i am oh

01:20:03.360 gosh yeah but that's so that's an ontological claim what is you then there isn't i'm not definable

01:20:10.240 i am you're not i thought you were valuable though and you're very unique you don't

01:20:14.880 i am just like god came jesus said i am you just don't i am i am you you both exist and both exist

01:20:23.600 don't exist at the same time we're very complex aren't we all right madison no not really

01:20:32.080 when we're dead aside from death rattled nothing is moving i've only expended maybe 80 years worth of

01:20:37.120 vibration when i was alive how do i pass on vibration when i dead when i did you have 10 seconds

01:20:43.120 to answer that if you want you're essentially when you're when this biological body dies your

01:20:48.000 energetic vibration is still there so we could call that the afterlife whatever you want to say you

01:20:52.800 decompose and your energy recycles back and go ahead madison this chick is confusing science with an

01:20:57.840 achievement you can unlock an assassin's creed unity well i gotta ask this one last question um does two

01:21:04.960 plus two equal four in your brain it definitely does and everyone's brain i'm asking you again

01:21:14.080 if it's two like what are we talking about two number two equal four one atom plus one atom equals

01:21:22.560 two yes okay okay so does two plus two so i just want to yes or no does it or yes or no equal four

01:21:29.760 say it again i just want to yes or no does two plus two equal four if we're talking on the atomic level

01:21:38.640 yes okay what level does it not equal for anything other than the atomic level so anything other than

01:21:47.440 the atomic level meaning i am i am a body made of billions of cells so that feels like my brain

01:21:56.640 say that say that again that felt like my brain it's too heady for this why are we even talking

01:22:06.720 about all this science guys who cares it just feels like nobody else no mine's melting right now

01:22:16.480 this is above most people's pay grade we don't need to talk about two plus two is you are definitely i

01:22:22.560 wrote books that breaks this all down into very basic day-to-day terms you can just read my books

01:22:28.560 go ahead madison you are definitely you'd find yourself as a thing but no no no no no stop stop

01:22:32.480 stop stop i'd usually say please go home and think about your actions but maybe stop thinking so much

01:22:39.680 that is true there's another one coming in go ahead madison this trick is confusing science we

01:22:43.600 already read that with an achievement you can allot in assassins per unit did we read this oh my bad

01:22:46.720 my bad nickelodeon thank you man appreciate it thank you guys appreciate it go ahead andrew with your

01:22:50.880 point i was just going to ask what the resonant frequency of your books are hang on people

01:22:57.120 the resonant sorry yeah wait what am i answering am i answering i'm asking like what frequency are

01:23:03.920 your books that truth the resonant frequency is truth plus love yeah well well what is it's

01:23:09.360 christ consciousness what is the numerical value of the frequency of truth we can look it up there really

01:23:15.040 is you can look up the resonant frequency of truth plus love which is christ consciousness

01:23:19.600 technically it has a nice consciousness it has it has a number you can look it up what's the number

01:23:24.960 i don't know it off the top of my head it's not really important to me what's important

01:23:28.320 where can i look up the christ consciousness number you can easily google it yourself

01:23:35.040 yeah but i'm asking where like where would i look that information up for christ

01:23:38.800 google google what is the vibrational frequency of authenticity that's what it is oh did you show the

01:23:48.400 whole thing or how long was it i don't know

01:23:54.480 all right uh so moving on going over here to emily right okay you just describe yourself as liberal kind of

01:24:03.040 um like i'm just not like um what do you call it the opposite of liberal like the conservative yeah

01:24:13.120 i'm just not conservative so you're moderate um i guess i'm just like because my grandparents i grew

01:24:20.080 up with them for like like five years i was in nebraska for five years before i was here and they're very

01:24:26.000 conservative and i just did not like the way like yeah that's what made me like not like conservative

01:24:32.880 that much and you also describe yourself as a feminist is that correct um i said yes in the chat

01:24:39.520 because i didn't really know i was like yeah but i don't think so but do you believe in the in moving

01:24:46.880 towards egalitarianism and getting rid of assuming assuming it exists a patriarchy

01:24:56.000 no so you're in favor of the patriarchy yeah that you that would mean so then you're not

01:25:02.960 that would mean that you're more conservative yeah you definitely have conservative beliefs then okay

01:25:07.920 all right you also dated i don't know if i want to go with these topics but uh you did have a crazy

01:25:13.840 ex i'm not going to bring the first one up but i don't even know if i want to bring the second one

01:25:18.160 up yeah because they're pretty crazy yeah okay all right well all right uh so not a feminist then

01:25:25.520 no all right so then what do you mean like you're in favor of patriarchy like in what way um

01:25:36.720 i don't know actually i really don't know okay she doesn't know i just don't know are you meaning

01:25:41.040 it like you you appreciate male leadership more from that like you appreciate in some ways yeah

01:25:46.240 in some ways do you think there's anyways okay i'm gonna move it on um just show of hands uh who

01:25:54.800 here considers themselves a feminist show of hands only one okay cool we can get to that a little bit

01:26:02.000 later uh moving on over to ashley here you said you're conservative slash traditional but you were

01:26:08.160 extremely liberal in your past is that correct yeah and so what made you switch up

01:26:12.800 um well yeah when i was going to college i was taking like a bunch of gender classes and it's

01:26:18.320 because i was going for sociology and so i really fell into like the whole feminist you were a sociology

01:26:22.560 major yeah okay yeah and i stepped away from that but what changed it really was just um going out in

01:26:28.880 the real world and just kind of seeing how things really worked and um i also became christian and so

01:26:36.160 i think naturally you just kind of see it's very black and white very different liberal is just very

01:26:44.080 and do you uh and was a man responsible for this uh move to christianity no no so i was born again in 2018

01:26:53.280 um well i was with someone that he introduced me to the bible um but not i guess which which

01:27:00.320 denomination are you um i guess you would say more like charismatic pentecostal wait what's is

01:27:07.280 i'm not familiar with so we believe in like the the holy spirit spiritual gifts um speaking in tongues

01:27:14.080 healing praying uh holy spirit do you speak in tongues or yes all right can we get a demo is that

01:27:21.680 possible or i mean what do you mean don't they do it in front of like televangelists um i would prefer

01:27:28.720 not to because there should be an interpreter yeah that's oh okay interpreter okay um well i mean

01:27:34.800 that that's not part of the pentecost tradition it doesn't have to be an interpreter go go ahead um

01:27:39.280 okay does it just come to you uh it's my prayer language i guess i could technically you're right

01:27:45.360 yeah i could technically you're doing it no no no i'm just answering to andrew like it's true

01:27:49.680 basically because we're not in a church setting i could do it um it's a prayer language so no detective

01:27:56.160 mike hunt donated two hundred dollars red shirt most a.m meetings start at 7 p.m you should

01:28:02.960 probably head to one think i got the time zone math right hashtag kentucky okay we have another one

01:28:09.680 one that's about to come in do you want to respond to mike hunt oh they got me he got me

01:28:17.120 um thank you thank you for your opinion and um

01:28:23.520 i you know

01:28:25.600 whoa whoa whoa whoa donated two hundred dollars

01:28:28.480 to the oscillation which you anthropomorphize the second law of thermo

01:28:33.840 mercifully stop also someone john travolta red shirt with epinephrine andy what is the axe

01:28:41.760 jackson oh man that he's he's referencing the pulp the film pulp fiction john travolta takes a

01:28:49.680 fucking adrenaline that's the way what's it called uh you want to take an axe to me no it's okay i think he

01:28:57.520 had it right i think isn't it isn't it a an epinephrine shot maybe i'm wrong it's the it's an

01:29:02.080 adrenaline shot yeah that restarts your heart because he overdoses on drugs right what's the

01:29:06.320 what's that thing it's an epi pen it's like it's like an epi pen like an adrenaline shot no but what's

01:29:10.560 the name of the needle there's a specific name for the epi pen is it hyper hyperdural or hype no

01:29:15.440 there's no like i don't know what it is like a sedative no no what's the name for the actual

01:29:22.080 tool that's i'm just i'm the syringe syringe yeah he takes a syringe and just pounds it in

01:29:27.840 the chest into uma thurman's chest that's a great movie good well if i could be uma thurman then like

01:29:33.440 get it by all means get it girl kill bill over here okay get it girl all right uh i don't even know

01:29:38.960 where we were oh we were talking okay ashley right so okay uh and curious so you said you were

01:29:44.560 born again do you consider yourself like born again virgin or just yeah i mean so physically

01:29:51.120 yeah no i'm not a virgin um okay but i recommitted to waiting until marriage yes i see i know you

01:29:56.720 love this yeah good for you well i mean but you want you understand why um but it's silly the the kind

01:30:05.040 of um i'm a i'm a born again virgin that there's a certain connotation that specific women like to use

01:30:12.320 in order to essentially use that as a cope right like i mean you really realize that that i'm not

01:30:18.560 saying you are but i'm saying no no no but you said use it as a what cope oh okay no like i don't i

01:30:24.720 don't expect for people to really or men to look at me as like a true version or virgin like that's not

01:30:30.880 reality but spiritually born again yes like i recommitted so yeah i understand yeah i know you

01:30:38.640 understand but yeah and i'm curious i uh do you have uh like a ministry i do okay and oh no yeah

01:30:50.640 i'll andrew i'll let you come in on this in just a moment um and so with your your ministry are you

01:30:57.200 preaching to to both men and women um i mean i'm on youtube so i say i say sis a lot though i think

01:31:05.360 naturally i just geared towards women um but i get the whole women shouldn't be leaders and all that

01:31:12.560 i and and here's the thing naturally i don't when a woman is on stage like as a as a um like a pastor

01:31:19.760 i'm not against it i know there's two different schools of thought when it comes to that biblically

01:31:24.240 like i get that but i i believe that women still have a part in the church sure well andrew um you

01:31:31.440 know i'm not particularly religious but you know doing my my own research even as somebody who's not

01:31:36.800 religious my understanding of christianity is that uh among all denominations even protestant

01:31:44.240 non-denominational that is a heresy uh yes that's correct it's incorrect some some denominations have

01:31:51.520 no i think even protestant it's well but i'm saying like for example the united any church

01:31:57.920 that says united typically they have a more liberal view of things and so they have even saddleback church

01:32:04.560 is technically part of the southern baptist convention and they now have allowed um rick

01:32:09.360 warren stepped down and wait do you have a ministry too

01:32:12.240 don't they all clarify what you mean by that clarify what you mean by that well we were called

01:32:19.920 to be ministers yeah i mean the great commission i guess you could say that yes to heal and to cast

01:32:25.680 out demons and i do so yes i do consider my really curious though what why do you feel so like let

01:32:31.680 down isn't that the great commission we're all disciples right uh no no it's not so only men are

01:32:38.800 disciples no that's not what i said chill out and i'll explain it to you um when you get when you

01:32:44.960 get to the original apostles um who became bishops in christ church were any of them female

01:32:52.240 can i say something because i actually didn't study this i didn't hear you what the original

01:32:57.440 apostles who became bishops were any of them female no why not i'm not sure it's actually not

01:33:04.560 nor am i saying that i need to be a preacher or i need to be a pastor i'm just a witness i am

01:33:13.440 but what did what what did paul say what did paul say about women leading in the church

01:33:19.600 what did paul say he said about us being quiet is that he said no he said specifically

01:33:25.840 in multiple places uh that women were not allowed to have leadership positions in the church now when

01:33:31.920 you're talking about a woman's part in the church i don't disagree i think that women do have a very

01:33:36.080 important role in the church it's just not as clergy and yeah i'm not against that like i'm not here

01:33:41.920 wanting to be a pastor um i i hold bible study that's because there's and it's really it was really

01:33:49.440 supposed to be a prototype measure and i don't create the curriculum i go based off of a pastor's

01:33:55.040 curriculum a church curriculum that's handed and passed down to us and so it's not to me i'm

01:34:02.320 really just holding space with other as a disciple as a witness with other disciples that are looking

01:34:07.200 to get in the word of god to talk about god but i don't need to be on stage calling doing altar calls

01:34:13.760 at a church yeah so a priest is an embodiment of christ on earth and christ embodied as a male

01:34:19.280 you do have a warm sense that's why i mean that's it so so women women cannot be the embodiment

01:34:26.080 of christ that would be men only that is the we are part of that's not actually what the doctrine

01:34:30.960 was ever even about but just fyi because i studied all of this you did yeah so what was the what was

01:34:37.520 the first sign of the um when they when they discuss this tell me what it's called the whole principle

01:34:43.280 of women not speaking in church had nothing to do with the fact that women didn't embody fully

01:34:48.320 christ or god it was a protective measure because men like you are assholes and it's a protective

01:34:54.960 measure so that men would speak in public i'm just saying i mean you don't have to take it personally

01:34:59.760 yeah it is what it is just avoid ad hominem attacks okay so because we live in a patriarchal society and

01:35:06.320 the bible was written in a patriarchal society to protect women it's a protective measure men don't

01:35:12.880 listen to women it's much better if the woman goes to her own partner her own husband her

01:35:18.160 own brother who's the minister yeah and gives the message to him of what's on her heart and he

01:35:24.880 filters it through his man speak whatever you want to say and he goes and presents it before the men

01:35:30.880 that way he takes the flack on himself for it so she doesn't have to deal with that emotionally it's

01:35:36.800 a protective measure women are very sensitive emotionally we were not made to handle all these

01:35:42.800 criticisms coming at us that was supposed to be the setup it was never supposed to be we're not

01:35:49.360 equal to we're not worthy we don't have important things to say it wasn't supposed to be that way

01:35:54.400 the patriarchy got convoluted so so i'm going to try this again i'll just ask you the same

01:35:59.040 question maybe you can answer it did jesus christ embody as a man or a woman

01:36:02.960 jesus christ yeah he embodied as a man and came to tell us that all of us have the same

01:36:12.880 power as him and i'm embodying christ consciousness now as a woman how come how come he didn't embody

01:36:18.800 as a woman because he just answered that particular call and he happened to have a penis born to him

01:36:25.920 i have a vagina and i have the same call it just happened he just he could have been either he

01:36:31.120 just happened the god just happened i believe because of the nature there was no actual messaging

01:36:36.720 behind that there was very dangerous for women to live back then it was very dangerous for women to

01:36:42.240 live back then okay okay well hang on hang on wait i just want to i just want to make sure that we're

01:36:47.840 clear on this very quickly you think that christ embodied as a man just because it was fun it was

01:36:55.760 funsies for him no because it was the safest way for a guy who got crucified it was the safest way it

01:37:02.240 was because if he was a woman if he was a woman he wouldn't have made it past well answer two plus

01:37:07.360 two please shut the fuck up this is wild i've never heard any i mean this is um you don't even have

01:37:16.320 a grounding epistemology for this so what is your actual epistemology for church doctrine

01:37:21.680 who are you you don't even know what i you don't even know what i just said like i don't even what

01:37:28.400 you don't even know what i just said what is your epistemology do you know what do you know what jesus

01:37:34.480 came to promote okay let's stop i can't wait to hear what he came what i asked no i asked you what

01:37:41.200 do you believe jesus came here to promote to give us a church he said so himself christ said to give us

01:37:47.840 the church the body is the church the body the body i'm sorry what now the body the body what is

01:37:56.640 the church so therefore this is the church you have you're making a word concept fallacy because

01:38:03.680 you don't have any grounding epistemology so you don't really understand what you're talking about

01:38:08.160 you've heard the term uh that we make up the body of let me ask you something marriage a marriage for

01:38:13.920 instance is a representation of christ being the head of that church and uh you being the body of

01:38:20.800 the church that's why the man yes is in the leadership role inside of that union so if that's

01:38:26.720 the case then he must have embodied as a man for a reason so what is your grounding epistemology

01:38:33.760 a better question would you even know what do you even know what epistemology means can you just start

01:38:38.800 with that can you tell me what that means i will answer your questions when you answer this question

01:38:46.400 i'm not answering your question you don't know what it means you don't even know you have no

01:38:50.720 idea what it even i need to understand the frame of mind that you're in so i have to ask you some

01:38:56.720 clarifying questions do you agree yeah do you if you don't know what epistemology means it's not a

01:39:02.400 shot against you i'll tell you what it means you just need to be honest and say andrew i don't know what

01:39:07.040 it means and i'll just you just need to be honest and say i don't want to answer your question desir

01:39:11.360 because it might bring up something that i don't want to deal with sitting here answering them so

01:39:15.920 can i ask you a question yeah do you but first answer do you know what epistemology means no no

01:39:20.880 i'm not answering unless you're answering my question andrew just here ask your question

01:39:26.560 ask your question then andrew gets to ask his he'll answer yours you'll answer his go ahead yeah go

01:39:31.200 ahead okay do you have some sort of problem with seeing yourself as the current embodiment

01:39:41.840 of god yeah okay what's the problem well it depends on how you mean embodiment

01:39:49.440 that's why i'm asking so for example you said you're in a marriage yeah so the example is i would say that

01:39:54.640 a priest would be an embodiment as in so but you told me you said yourself let them finish

01:40:01.360 answer your question so i would see a priest as a representation or an embodiment i think in the

01:40:08.480 context you're using it that's what i would see as an embodied hang on let me finish the answer

01:40:14.960 that's what i would see as an embodiment now i just answered your question specifically

01:40:19.120 can you tell me what epistemology means we'll get right to it figure out your frame of mind

01:40:25.760 andrew so she can figure out how much to charge you in order to answer your

01:40:30.640 totally true totally now i just answered your question can you tell me what epistemology means

01:40:34.640 epistemology is the study of the epistles

01:40:37.040 that's the simplest way to say it i mean you can give me your definition but this guy told me that

01:40:49.520 a husband and wife is supposed to be the representation of god and the church he said

01:40:55.760 he's a husband i asked him if he sees himself as the embodiment of god and he said no that doesn't

01:41:02.160 make any sense wait what is the epistles the epistles are the the apostles are you talking

01:41:07.840 about what what can you i you you use the word epistles what are the epistles he said what is

01:41:13.440 epistemology yeah no what are the epistles you said you use the word epistles right are you talking

01:41:18.240 about the apostles just say it in common language yeah andrew just say you don't know just so you don't

01:41:23.440 know it's just the study of how we know knowledge okay well that's what it means it has nothing to do

01:41:29.520 with epistles what are you talking about when i'm asking for your grounding epistemology i'm asking

01:41:35.120 where do you get your grounding foundation for the knowledge you know that's important when

01:41:39.680 we're talking about theology because hang on it's important when we're talking about

01:41:43.680 our grounding for theology that we would call that grounding epistemology

01:41:49.840 why are we getting into this anyways you had something go ahead go ahead ashley go ahead um

01:41:54.800 what i was going to say is i agree with you andrew like i believe that there are roles that are for

01:42:00.000 in like leadership that are for men but the way i look at my ministry or what i do is like the woman

01:42:07.440 at the well when she met jesus and jesus called her out and basically told her her past and she met she

01:42:14.000 had an encounter with jesus and then it says in the in the bible that she went out and started telling

01:42:19.360 the world like what happened and she started talking about jesus and that's the same framework i'm in

01:42:25.600 and another like let's take away the podcast that i do which is just sitting down talking to people

01:42:30.800 about their testimony with god i have a ministry offline where it's just going to go meet the needs

01:42:37.280 of seniors and then showing them the love of god i mean to me why would that only be yeah i think if

01:42:43.040 you're talking about maybe things like um like i do bible study with uh with other girls or uh you

01:42:50.240 know i do kind of uh outreach or something yeah outreaches and stuff i think that that might be

01:42:54.800 different than having a position of church authority and that's what we're talking about we're talking

01:42:59.600 about women in leadership roles right so and i and when we're talking hang on hang on and when we're

01:43:05.440 talking about ministry i think it depends because i think that if you have a ministry it depends on the

01:43:11.120 context are you in a church leadership role because you've created your own church that's where we

01:43:16.880 start to kind of dive into are you clergy or not right right yeah no so i'm i'm submitted under a

01:43:22.800 church and any of the bible study content that i get is from the church that are from males i do have

01:43:29.040 to move things on uh you also wanted to talk about uh so you're i sex out of marriage so i assume

01:43:36.720 you're waiting until marriage is that correct yes i recommitted to waiting for marriage okay

01:43:42.160 and recommitment with a face base faith-based foundation feminism is a scam uh well i don't

01:43:50.000 know if there's much to go on in terms of the sex out of marriage stuff but it's my understanding that

01:43:56.160 prior to you uh being born again prior to you finding christ uh you were having sex out of marriage

01:44:02.800 is that correct yes okay all right and that's a new commit and the current guy you're dating are

01:44:07.360 you guys aligned on that yeah cool cool you do have a disagreement with the show you said i miss the

01:44:13.040 times where there would be other men on the podcast that would hold higher respectable masculine energy

01:44:20.960 uh do you care to elaborate on that yeah i mean actually andrew's not doing too bad today i actually

01:44:26.800 i feel like he's not having a tone where it's just so degrading and like talking everybody like

01:44:32.480 we're stupid but um like i feel like before you guys would have like michael knowles or just other

01:44:38.480 leaders that would just be able to give their input and it was very valuable and they would teach stuff

01:44:44.080 and it and again andrew you're doing great um nothing against you but i just miss when there was more

01:44:48.240 male figures because i think it adds to the conversation to where we're able to have more

01:44:53.600 perspective from instead of just yeah can i kind of give you my counter here if you don't mind so of course

01:44:58.960 i tend to match energy with people right so if um like you saw the gal over here she called me an

01:45:05.120 asshole right i hadn't said anything to her i didn't call her any names nothing like that we were

01:45:09.920 in the middle of having an exchange and arc we were in the middle of having an argument but the reason

01:45:14.720 she said that is because she didn't like my tone right there's a there's a lot of tone policing that

01:45:20.000 happens with women i don't like how you're saying a thing right upsets me how the thing's being said

01:45:25.120 not necessarily what's being said yeah and so i tend to match energy so when you and i are having

01:45:30.160 the conversation you're honestly we're having an intellectual exchange and we're happy okay hang

01:45:37.280 on a second let this go through no you're good it's under the throne um so so for having that exchange

01:45:43.040 i'm really just kind of interested in the world view and the data right so the way i think of it is

01:45:48.160 you're trying to give me the information you're trying to dump the information you've got x amount of

01:45:52.080 time on this podcast you're trying to get that information out of your mouth as fast as possible

01:45:56.000 and i'm trying to hit you with questions and the reason is is because i want to get more info right

01:46:00.640 as much as i can get so i have a good overview of the things you think before we can start the

01:46:06.640 exchange so sometimes what will happen is i'll cut a person off and say wait wait wait you got to back

01:46:11.760 up because i want to get to this wider idea so i understand your worldview better now people who are

01:46:17.200 experienced in debate and they're experienced in discourse understand that that's necessary or else

01:46:21.920 else we can't really have kind of that overview overarching discourse that you want but what

01:46:27.680 you've seen and even tonight right if if a woman becomes a bitch if she starts acting like a bitch

01:46:34.240 then um then i'll match that energy and treat them exactly how they're treating me back right that's what

01:46:39.680 i'll do so um the thing is though is that as long as you are are not doing that why would i do it

01:46:46.880 why would i do it to you yeah and so i think a lot of times that's what it seems like but but you miss

01:46:52.800 kind of this critical context of the build-up to it yeah well i was gonna say i mean i'm not

01:46:59.600 i'm not gonna get too comfortable i feel like the second half of the show once you get all the

01:47:02.720 information that's when you start coming at us maybe i'm wrong sometimes sometimes but the thing is

01:47:07.520 is um it like again it just misses kind of key context right yeah um i usually only match energy

01:47:14.320 but it's so fun it's so fun to do it that way okay i mean i agree i'm fine with that andrew likes

01:47:21.360 the blood sports debates uh okay so moving on to and remember think of it too like a sign of respect

01:47:27.440 right i don't think of you as less than me which is why i treat you exactly how i would treat a man

01:47:32.960 who was sitting exactly where you were i mean that i couldn't think of a better way to show respect than

01:47:39.360 that andrew does go hard on on the dudes on the dudes and that's the only reason you should have

01:47:47.760 seen what he did to wes watson he no i don't i honestly i have nothing against you i think it's fun

01:47:53.920 i think it's fun andrew it was not a personal thing it's just locker room talk it's like let's

01:47:58.720 just together shoot the shit debate is fun it's fun i don't give a shit i don't have to go home and

01:48:04.720 fuck you stop it get some help uh going to going to you uh and how do you pronounce your name it's

01:48:12.480 kishwan kishwan uh do you have you ever dated the white guy just curious i went on a date with my

01:48:19.200 first white guy like two months ago and is this the guy who you told me about in the pre-show notes the

01:48:25.040 the whole stuff like oh no okay that's somebody else no so there was a guy i dated back in 2020

01:48:32.400 um it was on our first on our first date um he's also into fitness so the first date was to go to

01:48:37.840 the gym so right when we got to the gym the moment we got there i noticed that this girl this girl

01:48:41.760 across the way she's very pretty and then he noticed her and he's like oh you thought you were the only

01:48:45.280 one huh i was like what are you talking about he's like look at her butt and i was like well you're

01:48:49.440 really checking out a girl right and that's not even done yet and then while we were working out i got

01:48:55.200 sweaty so he licked my stomach oh and then he was telling me about his penis size was it sexy like

01:49:01.760 i mean he was attractive so that's why i wasn't like oh my god but it was it was just a bad first

01:49:07.200 date yeah oh my god wait so he just kept his mouth shut yeah right like take a class take a

01:49:15.520 dating 101 and literally after him i didn't date for two years oh god oh my goodness yeah okay because

01:49:21.120 of his licking of your sweat that is so gross and you were also recently talking to a guy and you

01:49:26.240 found out he lives in your building with his oh yeah so there was a guy that i was uh talking to

01:49:32.720 through one of the dating apps and he told me he wanted something serious he wanted monogamy and he

01:49:37.200 didn't have any kids he wanted kids and then we had like a taco thing that happened on our complex

01:49:42.640 by the pool and i saw him in the pool with his kids with his girl right there oh my god that recently

01:49:47.200 happened to me this is why i recommend the way i do things to be honest wait what is what is the way

01:49:53.600 you do things just just how you shoot it straight with guys and you put them through these tests

01:49:59.280 of their character but i'm telling you they're playing harder games on us ladies we that's the

01:50:06.160 only way to be safe in this society to be honest you have to give them a dose of their own medicine

01:50:11.760 honestly i'm not gonna treat them the way you want to be that's why i would love to see it change

01:50:18.240 but until it does

01:50:19.280 come on nick it's okay my kids i have three kids they hate me too so you had uh let's see

01:50:30.320 going back to you maybe i'll wait on the polygamy thing when when she's back you said your best friend

01:50:35.440 is a guy and we've been friends for 16 years and you think that uh oh you disagree that it's not

01:50:42.000 possible to be best friends with a straight guy yeah because me and my friend cory like we've been

01:50:46.240 friends later since we were 14. we've never once kissed we don't even hug each other we think it's

01:50:50.240 i don't want to say the word but we think it's like gross to even hug each other we hug each other

01:50:53.920 one time in our whole friendship and that was when we were on fear factor we moved on to the next

01:50:57.200 round we were excited oh you were on fear factor yeah okay that's cool uh wait and does he does he

01:51:02.640 have a girlfriend no he doesn't okay i don't know if you're i don't know if you're down to try this

01:51:06.800 out would you be willing to text him right now and be like hey listen i've been thinking about you we can

01:51:15.680 we can figure out the precise way to actually that's fine like but i think i've been i've

01:51:20.560 got feelings for you uh do you feel the same way what was the thing what was the way that we figured

01:51:26.880 this what was the best phrasing for this question so complicated we we just told a girl to text him

01:51:32.720 and be like oh like do you want to hang out and snuggle have you ever thought about being more

01:51:39.040 would you be down i see i see him as my brother he's my brother would you be down to text him i can

01:51:43.280 does he know you're on here though he does oh well maybe he's not but he's not watching

01:51:49.440 yeah test it out he might know though yeah if he knows that you're coming on i know it's the it's

01:51:53.840 the i will do it we're gonna do this test the blue iphone with my dog on the screen yep that one this

01:51:58.880 is a great idea but let me ask you so while nick is getting the phone and while we get this text in

01:52:03.760 out here i'll pass this down there uh so so what's the tech before you send it what's precisely the

01:52:12.000 message that we're having her sent out she has to make it sound like her what was it nick uh have

01:52:18.000 you ever thought about being more than just friends that's good i think that's good yeah

01:52:22.400 just keep it have you ever thought about being more than just friends i feel like if you guys

01:52:27.040 want to get a relationship going though or he gets a girlfriend things are going to change the dynamic

01:52:31.760 will change like so right now i may feel like oh it's him like it's possible to be friends but

01:52:36.640 because i had the same situation i had two guys that i grew up with all the way for like 16 years but then

01:52:41.600 now they're both married and it's naturally you just there's that separation there's that respect

01:52:46.640 that happens but up until they were for real dating like yeah we were super close and it was like oh

01:52:51.520 we're gonna be friends forever but that just doesn't really happen in like a marriage i i personally

01:52:56.000 believe yeah it's just been 16 years and you would think within those 16 years something would happen

01:53:00.560 some fondling something but i feel like you guys aren't in a committed relationship we're best

01:53:05.760 friends i talked to oh so yeah but you're not in a marriage or she's are you in a committed you're

01:53:10.000 not in a committed in relationship with anyone no but i've been in two relationships and he was

01:53:15.040 there for me when those didn't work out like it was never anything like that no he's attracted to

01:53:19.840 white girls no he likes white girls and asians i'm neither so hey wait yeah i know this is

01:53:25.760 i'm black i know okay but see i can't i can't get i understand you because i have a best had a best

01:53:33.760 friend who we were really close for eight years he got a girlfriend his girlfriend wasn't as

01:53:37.840 but look i'm not the type of friend who who i'm gonna insert myself in his relationship like i'm

01:53:42.560 the type of friend like i already know like hey if i'm the girlfriend i wouldn't like my boyfriend is

01:53:46.480 hanging out with her so i would never put my friend in that so we actually distance ourselves he

01:53:50.640 knows he can text me for anything but as of now i know that she's his best friend like i would never

01:53:55.280 be like oh well i'm still his best friend because no you know that at the end of the day you're with

01:53:58.720 someone that's your so i got a question though let's say you meet the top g you meet a top g oh jesus

01:54:05.520 a top g andrew yeah sure a a a top g you meet the top g you're like this is the one this is the guy

01:54:14.640 i want to marry i want to have kids i'm dropping everyone are you talking about you you i'm not even

01:54:19.680 talking to you talking to me i'm talking to her so you do have this male best friend you guys have

01:54:24.720 been friends for 16 years if the right man steps to you let's see who's your do you have a celebrity

01:54:32.000 crush michael b jordan no jordan i don't know uh who's like a i used okay i'll just say the rock

01:54:39.520 the rock okay okay the rock steps to you i don't like his mentality but yeah the rock wait you don't

01:54:44.320 like the rocks mentality yeah wait what is that if he gets his mouth what about uh bumsfeld wait

01:54:50.000 what's his name the bodybuilder who's that what's his name bums bumsfeld no bumstead chris bumstead

01:54:59.200 you know them you don't know the bodybuilder okay someone you just really are down for so the rock

01:55:05.360 yeah just because of physically he he looks like that's my type the rock is your have you seen his

01:55:10.560 pictures like back in the day with his turtleneck and his tucked in shirt oh yeah yes oh that's funny

01:55:18.160 that's funny uh wait so okay your your celebrity crush steps to you and you've been dating he just

01:55:26.640 wants you to not be friends with this guy anymore do you do the friend breakup or do you yeah cory's not

01:55:33.520 going anywhere so you're your dream guy you're a dream guy he's perfect in every way except that

01:55:41.520 he doesn't want you to be have a male best friend that wouldn't make any sense because he could talk

01:55:46.640 to him he could facetime him he could be he's gonna be he's gonna know who cory is when i've been in

01:55:51.520 relationships whenever i had arguments with my man cory had nothing to do with that i didn't go

01:55:55.360 bitch to cory about it he didn't come to me and say oh you should break up with him he never he's never

01:55:59.360 interfered in the relationship but that but he's not like in this scenario it's not what it's not

01:56:04.560 what your male friend is doing let's assume your male friend is everything's above board there's

01:56:10.080 absolutely no uh at least on your part there's no concerns there there's he he's not acted in a way

01:56:16.880 that would give uh your potential mate any concern whatsoever but it still is his desire for you to not

01:56:25.520 have this male friend do you pick the male friend like ever in my life like ever again

01:56:32.320 yeah sure including your male friend of 16 years that you do have yeah that's the only one um yeah

01:56:42.640 if i'm being honest i'm not gonna lie i i'm not giving up that friendship

01:56:46.720 because he knows things about me that like he's like we've experienced a lot together nothing sexual

01:56:53.040 we were never close like that we don't sleep in the same bed nothing like that it's never been

01:56:56.720 like that it's literally just been a bro relationship i'm 20 i'm 30. we've been against

01:57:00.880 not together we've been friends since we were 14. i think that's that relationship is worth keeping

01:57:06.320 yeah it's called a ride or die don't ever get rid of a friend like that because he's a really good

01:57:10.400 friend like it could you see him in a different light ew no ew no no and especially because you guys

01:57:17.920 have that what is there to be jealous about no yeah he has a penis no he's not my type i'm not

01:57:23.120 his type it would just never happen i think it would more just naturally fizzle out if you really

01:57:27.920 are all in with your husband yeah he will become your best friend there's only so much time and energy

01:57:33.920 that you have anyways it's like you're gonna have kids you're gonna have a home it's like naturally

01:57:39.120 these are just gonna my attention is gonna go to them not to cory that sounds dumb yeah yeah like if

01:57:43.920 my man had a girl that was a friend to him and they've never done anything sexual i would not

01:57:48.320 care right what if the guy what if the guy that you're interested in your dream guy yeah he does

01:57:54.080 care and he's not listening to your justifications or your rationale or your reason reasoning for him

01:58:00.640 it's just an outright deal breaker your dream guy steps to you everything that you want in looks

01:58:06.560 personality his success his income whatever let's see let's here let's go to the extreme he's a

01:58:12.560 billionaire massive peen oh my god that's a man that's a man yeah fine okay uh bodybuilder whatever

01:58:20.400 i can never believe a rich guy rich people have too many damn problems what if he doesn't have

01:58:24.160 problems he's just what if he's like he's my dream guy he's not gonna tell me you need to drop that

01:58:31.840 friend he's your okay but hold on he's your dream guy in every single way yeah but one yeah then he's

01:58:37.440 not but no but right so for this scenario though just shouldn't if i'm if you do you guys want me

01:58:44.880 to lie and say yeah i drop him i wouldn't right no we're just trying to see that's her i'm trying to

01:58:51.120 think of a scenario and that's the problem of society is thinking that we need to settle for

01:58:55.120 stupid like that instead of stepping it up and say that's just not my guy that's not actually my dream

01:59:00.640 guy like my dream guy will come in and he will be totally fine but if you literally met cory you

01:59:05.920 would and you see our dynamic you would see that it's literally doesn't matter let's face time him

01:59:10.240 let's ask him uh did you want to check to see if he's responded oh you texted him oh yeah she

01:59:15.520 texted him oh he answered what did he say he said god no

01:59:18.960 no fuck off lesbian weird ass why would you even ask i feel like he's watching and he's like let me

01:59:26.160 make sure i don't look like a sim it's no different than if he was your brother biologically what are

01:59:30.880 you just gonna drop your brother it doesn't make any sense maybe he's watching the show i know

01:59:35.280 that's how we talk to each other i call him a bitch all the time you know men don't like being

01:59:38.560 called bitch is he gay maybe they are they are brother and sister by water whatever you want to say

01:59:43.600 i would not accept my mom calls him her white son like it's just not it's a white guy he's not a big

01:59:48.640 buff black dude with dread sexy it's not like that is he cute he's a skinny white boy would that make

01:59:54.320 a difference nick is if the guy was if you didn't feel any competitive like you know you can fuck her

02:00:00.240 better you know you look better you know you make better money you know she likes you better would you

02:00:04.320 still feel that same like hell no you can't hang out with that little twerpy guy that you're not even

02:00:08.960 into doesn't matter if he's you know what if it was but what if they were adopted brother and

02:00:13.280 sister doesn't matter if you okay well how far do we extend this right so okay well my i you should

02:00:19.600 trust your girl that you should let her go to a singles club and all clubs are singles clubs and

02:00:26.080 let her get drunk and let her dance let her you own her parent it happened to me in college

02:00:33.600 if i'm being honest with you i don't go out to clubs anyways like you're gonna get to know the

02:00:37.200 woman that i am i don't go to clubs i'm not talking about i'm speaking in generalities here

02:00:41.280 so and let but how far do you take how far do you take your how far do you take that

02:00:50.480 there's this is i'm a grown-ass woman nobody owns me i don't get permission they either want to be with

02:00:57.360 me and they're down for it or they're not that's not my fucking problem okay so if i'm gonna so hold

02:01:03.040 on just to be clear you're a grown-ass woman yeah and you're in a monogamous relationship

02:01:07.120 and at some point in the relationship you determine hmm i want to go fuck somebody else

02:01:11.680 and your boyfriend says no i'm not letting you do that it wouldn't it wouldn't go that way i would

02:01:18.000 bring it to my partner and i would say this is a desire that i have oh well that's i'm having

02:01:23.280 this i'm having this i'm having this fantasy just like he could come to me and say there's this girl

02:01:29.200 at the gym that's super hot what do you think i think confessing temptation it could be healthy

02:01:34.480 but that's why you have other people to i understand but let me just interject sometimes

02:01:38.640 it's just a matter of needing to have the safety to be honest with the person and say yeah i'm having

02:01:44.720 this desire let's talk it through why am i having this is there a need that's not getting met that's

02:01:50.080 a separate conversation but at the end of the day if i truly wanted to go and sleep with somebody else

02:01:56.000 this or that it's never a permission thing it's okay but what i'm trying to yeah you you have the

02:02:02.240 agency to go out and do whatever you want but hold on let me finish what i'm trying to articulate

02:02:08.240 here is is that the relationship is over okay it's not going to be a controlling thing but i'm letting

02:02:14.960 you know that if you if you're done lol paladin's donated two hundred dollars you need to let her

02:02:23.200 otherwise you're controlling and abusive send these three hundred and fours back to the streets

02:02:29.280 well put lol paladin so look i am going to be up front about my expectations and standards

02:02:36.240 and preferences hold on let me can you stop interrupting stop so if a girl is inclined to

02:02:42.080 for example go out to nightclubs hey if you want to go do that you have the you have the power to go do

02:02:48.960 it our relationship is over if you want to i mean clear obviously i wouldn't even consider like a girl

02:02:55.360 couldn't even step to me and be like yeah i want to see what i want to be with another dude so that's

02:02:59.440 over what you need there is no conversation but what you need to understand you need to learn how

02:03:03.440 to let people finish their sentence i'm sorry fully finish their sentence because it's very complicated

02:03:09.520 when there's multiple people talking only one person can be heard at a time go ahead

02:03:14.720 i was just saying that we like a person like you and i if we have those differences in philosophies

02:03:19.840 or whatever you want to say relationship orientation is what i call it we would never

02:03:23.840 end up in an exclusive relationship with each other we're just not compatible and that's fine

02:03:28.240 i would only be with the compatible men who operate the same way right so in a sense

02:03:35.520 that's it works perfectly because they're the same way we all have the expectation we have the

02:03:41.520 same understanding and that's it if if we hit a road where we're not compatible we just part ways

02:03:48.080 easy peasy now andrew i i've heard you had the interesting conversations that's

02:03:52.800 perhaps somewhat related to the whole friend dynamic here related to submission andrew i'd like

02:03:58.400 to perhaps hear you have a bit of a back and forth with her when it comes are you do you consider

02:04:01.680 yourself submissive like would you yeah would you be submissive to a man 100 i want a man to leave

02:04:06.640 also uh go ahead andrew so let me kind of give you my perspective here and you can tell me what you

02:04:11.840 think but if you're in a uh committed relationship or a woman expects you to be in a committed

02:04:17.280 relationship wouldn't it be a great sign of respect from somebody who claims that they're submissive

02:04:23.280 to remove from the category any male friends that they may have as men often say it's not that i

02:04:31.360 don't trust you i don't trust them the truth is both though right the truth is is that they're

02:04:36.480 looking for respect from their woman and they know that as the old saying goes right shoulder to cry on

02:04:43.760 becomes a you can finish it right a shoulder to cry on becomes a what i don't know but i can imagine

02:04:50.720 i have no idea i've never even that becomes a d to ride on right the shoulder to cry on

02:04:57.280 that's the old adage right is that uh and it's true so if you if you guys will human review for

02:05:03.120 just a second isn't it true that when you're in a vulnerable state all of you probably on this panel

02:05:10.240 have had male friends who have probably tried to exploit that so that they could have sex with

02:05:14.400 you yeah am i wrong no a male friend no yes or a male a male period well a male yeah yeah in general

02:05:22.640 yeah right so i mean so so men uh especially when we're going through high school middle school things

02:05:28.560 like that we see all sorts of pathetic who do this type of right they're kind of they're like ah you know

02:05:34.560 she just broke up with such and such oh that's terrible sweetheart i'm so sorry that that happened

02:05:40.080 to you you know you know exactly what i'm talking about all of you know exactly what i'm talking about

02:05:45.120 so that's kind of my line on this is don't you think that it's really respectful if you want a

02:05:52.400 committed relationship he says look i can i'm the focus then yeah if i'm your man i'm the focus and

02:05:58.320 that's that and he needs to deserve that right hang on hang on let her let her finish you've had a lot

02:06:03.840 of a lot of speaking time and no no disrespect to you but uh let us have this exchange if you don't

02:06:08.400 mind go ahead yeah so i agree with you because i've been in two relationships and in both relationships

02:06:12.960 they were the main focus it wasn't cory every time i want to go out and hang out with people it was

02:06:18.400 literally with my man i was with my man 24 7. and for me personally i'm not sexually attracted to cory

02:06:24.880 he's not sexually attracted to me it has never been like that we've even had this conversation

02:06:28.880 before i said have you ever looked at me like that he's like ew no i was like okay good thank god

02:06:32.960 because that would have been weird for our relationship if he ever told sure sure well

02:06:36.080 i mean we're just going to assume it's all true or we'll assume he's your gay friend or whatever

02:06:40.320 regardless of all of that yeah if your man says to you listen it's a sign of respect to me

02:06:46.320 i want all men cut out of your life okay i want them out of your life and i need to be the focus

02:06:52.240 of your life isn't that true submission no because okay if i'm being honest okay i would just say

02:07:00.480 my mother and my dad they've been together for over 30 years and her best friend is a man and i asked

02:07:06.640 my dad dad you have you ever had a problem with their friendship and my dad told me no he said why

02:07:11.440 would i have a problem with that i like julian like and the thing is is that perhaps inside of that

02:07:17.360 dynamic this was able to work but the truth is is that the the chances of fidelity or infidelity

02:07:25.680 significantly decrease if you don't put yourself in a position to uh to commit infidelity right so

02:07:34.320 in other words if you're a man and you have a job where you're at a strip club or something like

02:07:39.360 this or you're around tons of promiscuous women i would say that your chances of infidelity would

02:07:44.960 increase no matter how high your virtue is because you could just have a moment of weakness

02:07:49.440 right you just up have a have a terrible moment of weakness ruin everything for yourself

02:07:54.800 due to that and so usually what i see people in successful relationships do

02:07:59.280 is move themselves away from anything that could cause any sort of potential problem for them

02:08:05.360 because we're only human right so if a man were to ask you like look i understand that this guy is

02:08:10.800 an old friend of yours i get it right and and i'm not even saying that you would do anything but as

02:08:15.920 a sign of respect to me if you truly are submissive and you want me then it needs to just be me

02:08:22.480 doesn't that seem reasonable can you meet all the woman's needs no it i understand let us let us assume

02:08:31.440 for a moment um that you can't let us assume that you have some failures that you're not perfect because

02:08:37.920 nobody is including you yeah um why is it that it's an unreasonable thing to request that if you

02:08:45.600 want to be with me for the rest of your life i don't ever want to have to worry about you and you

02:08:50.480 know what you know how i can always be assured that i never have to worry about you because i know that

02:08:55.040 i'm the person you're focusing on that's not because you show me this huge respect by focusing on no

02:09:01.040 other men but me so i don't even have sex at all because i don't like being touched unless i'm in

02:09:08.080 a relationship so there would be no worry about me stepping out there's no point in me stepping out

02:09:12.240 for what what's the reason so for him to think or assume i could possibly step out on with cory

02:09:18.160 that's dumb we would have done something within the last 16 years nothing sure sure i i i i'm not

02:09:24.240 even disputing any of this yeah like you know you know you far better than i do no yeah you know you

02:09:30.400 far better than me i'm not even disputing any of that what i'm saying is i i think what you're saying

02:09:34.240 what you're doing is you're internalizing from your perspective what i'm saying externalize instead

02:09:39.120 and look at it from the man's perspective um from his perspective not your perspective you could be

02:09:45.200 correct about all of this in fact he could even be wrong but part of submission is that even if he

02:09:51.600 could be wrong you follow him anyway because the truth is is that when you're submitted he gets

02:09:58.000 almost everything right and if he's wrong about a couple things and that's what it takes for you to

02:10:02.880 be in that kind of relationship isn't that worth it um can i say something hang on let her let her

02:10:08.720 finish hang on we're almost done we're almost done with the exchange i can't end a 16 year friendship

02:10:15.440 with someone that has been in my i just can't do it now if that's the only flaw that you can find in me

02:10:21.600 then i think i'm doing a pretty damn good job of being a good woman that's the only thing

02:10:26.880 and and and listen i'm not again i don't even need to really dispute that so i understand though but

02:10:32.160 yeah think of it from the man's perspective yes what he's saying is that you're picking him

02:10:37.920 over your man that's how he i know i know you don't think so i'm externalized i know i'm telling

02:10:44.160 it from yeah think of it from their perspective he's gonna think that okay he's gonna think she's

02:10:50.560 not willing to give me the respect that i'm asking for in this committed relationship and

02:10:55.840 put me first why would he waste his time he would be put first because he's gonna be the one putting

02:11:00.320 babies in me come on you know i'm gonna explain he's going from the assurance standpoint yeah the

02:11:07.280 way that he knows that the babies are his is that you're not around other men that's that's an

02:11:12.720 that's the old um so think about it this way before we had paternity tests which are new right they're

02:11:18.960 they're new to this century before we had paternity tests the best way to assure that your offspring

02:11:23.920 was yours is that your woman was exclusive to you that's the only way you could know so it's kind of

02:11:29.280 built into men that if if your woman's around a lot of other men they could be unsure and so yeah that

02:11:36.960 of course that would cause an insecurity and that's probably a good insecurity to cause right so me being

02:11:41.920 in the fitness industry and being around a lot of a lot of guys that work out is he are you telling me

02:11:46.080 that he's gonna say nope you can't be you can't go to any fitness events no i don't i don't think so

02:11:50.400 i don't think that if it was in a professional setting that yeah you're working around men or

02:11:54.880 something like this i think that most men are reasonable when it comes to such a setting but i

02:12:00.880 think that if you're out hanging out with other men exclusively doing things with them uh maybe you

02:12:06.720 and your friend like to go to movies or maybe you like to go to his house and hang out or maybe you

02:12:10.560 like to go do a b or c that i think that they it's reasonable for them to see it as a sign of

02:12:16.240 disrespect yeah well i'd have to we'd have to have that conversation because i'd be very open about

02:12:22.240 everything i'm not gonna lie i'm not gonna sugarcoat anything and like i said i don't have sex at all

02:12:26.960 me personally i know there's a lot of other whores out here that will fuck their friends i'm not like

02:12:30.720 that i don't have a roster of guys i'm dating with intent i want to get married and have children

02:12:35.440 and if a guy were to tell me you know i don't think you can be friends with cory anymore then i

02:12:39.360 guess we i guess him and i aren't gonna work because because my dad loves him loves cory and

02:12:43.680 my mom everybody he's what you told me is that your highest value is always going to be cory it's not

02:12:50.400 it's not because if it wasn't you got to think of it externally from you from the man's perspective

02:12:55.840 your highest value is your best friend so he's always going to feel like he's second but great

02:13:01.200 um to your best friend and why wouldn't you think that i can see that but that's

02:13:05.280 that wouldn't be the case i know i know that that may not be the truth of the matter but if it's

02:13:10.400 truly submission if it's truly submission then even when he's wrong right or you think he's wrong

02:13:16.720 that is what submission is even when you think he's wrong you still submit and that's where where i think

02:13:24.160 this disconnect happens constantly between men and women when it comes to submission they don't

02:13:28.080 really know what that means i think the pretext too is maybe like this is an actual leader someone

02:13:32.880 that we can trust someone that is worthy of being submit like submissive to i think if he's not then

02:13:39.360 i mean that's the opposite yeah of worthy no no that's the opposite listen let's let us assume for

02:13:45.200 a moment you chose him because he had all these leadership skills that you just loved right and

02:13:49.840 you married him and you have submitted to him there might be years where he does things you don't like

02:13:55.440 right there might be years where you have a rocky relationship there might be years where you're

02:13:59.920 working through this in marriage right and you disagree with most of his choices but that's what

02:14:05.840 submission is yeah that's what submission in marriage is it's work right it's work and you

02:14:11.520 don't want to abandon that because you think he's making all the wrong decisions because the truth is is

02:14:17.360 that you could be making the wrong decisions right you don't know that's what submission means

02:14:21.360 so uh minus underscore two underscore hundred donated two hundred dollars red one where are you from

02:14:31.360 what is your relationship status what do you think of brian what would you like to share with the

02:14:37.520 audience today she answered if you want to give a quick answer hi guys um my name d my relationship

02:14:45.840 status is single i think brian is um really cool really um to his self i don't really know what's

02:14:54.880 going on in his head but uh i try to figure it out i think and i try not to offend and i try to learn

02:15:03.600 um and what i'd like to put in i'd like to learn and i'd like to um add in whenever i can and it's hard

02:15:13.200 when you have a panel of girls all talking at the same time and that's nobody's fault and i think

02:15:18.480 it's beautiful that we're having even with him here andrew here like i i love the the yeah it's

02:15:27.200 it's a it's a it's a good vibration right it's 46.4 hertz going on right there you go look at the

02:15:35.440 vibrations happening everybody's happy i'm enjoying it and yeah if if you don't mind though um just real

02:15:42.160 quick so we can wrap this up before we move it on madison if you don't mind um did you ever see

02:15:47.440 that movie braveheart did you ever see that movie really you never saw it too young she's too young

02:15:54.560 braveheart came out like 30 years ago yeah so what you she's watching classic movies they still watch

02:16:00.880 great movies even if it's before their time not everybody okay so in this movie essentially a nobleman

02:16:06.720 in one scene he ends up having sex with a man's wife on the night of her of her wedding with him

02:16:14.400 and uh he spends the whole rest of the movie seething about it and uh this was done without

02:16:19.920 consent of course and he spends the rest of the movie seething about it until he gets the opportunity

02:16:25.520 to deal with this nobleman and when he deals with him it's very brutal it's not it's not a good

02:16:31.840 death for the nobleman let's put it that way but if he if you want that kind of relationship where a

02:16:37.120 man would do that on your behalf he's not going to want to worry about cory right he's not going to

02:16:43.440 want to worry about cory he's not going to be want to be thinking about cory he's going to want to be

02:16:49.120 thinking only about you and knowing that you're thinking only about him okay that's that's all i'm saying

02:16:56.400 i get you all right uh where is brian uh oh i was just gonna say that you know how you mentioned

02:17:03.280 like we all like we all have that one that kind of yeah yeah got away or whatever so someone that

02:17:09.440 i was in a relationship with for two years this is when like 2015 14 he was really adamant about me

02:17:17.440 not being friends with someone that i was friends with for so long that was a male and i was so rebellious

02:17:21.360 against it i was literally saying everything that you were saying and you're saying and now i'm like

02:17:25.840 dude like it's just it i it's a sacrifice that we're willing to make that wasn't like the only

02:17:33.200 thing that was like the deal breaker but looking back i'm like man he was such a good man he had

02:17:37.760 great leadership skills he was loving and but i was just looking at it from but i've been with this

02:17:42.880 or i've been i've known this guy for so long like it we like you know x y and z everything you're saying

02:17:48.080 but looking back i'm just like man that that was like such a huge thing that i wish i regret like

02:17:53.120 you know that's one of my regrets in life is just not submitting to that and letting go because

02:17:58.240 that could have been someone that i could have an amazing relationship in marriage with you know and

02:18:01.520 like that was feminism poisoning your mind no 100 like it was like oh i you know it just sounds

02:18:07.680 though that cory is a little bit of a different situation you know he's a brother and he could be

02:18:12.800 amazing brother he could be amazing but this is what my friend was amazing what women do they'll go

02:18:17.120 they'll they'll they'll listen to this and when they see another woman faltering going you know what

02:18:21.920 actually this makes a lot of sense and it could lead to an inroad to happiness they sabotage it it's

02:18:26.160 self-sabotage and they sabotage it as quickly as they possibly can for other women i don't know why

02:18:31.120 they do this but that's the toxic side of that that's the toxic side there's also a healthy side where

02:18:36.880 you do need to evaluate what are my anchor relationships i would call cory an anchor

02:18:43.040 relationship a ride or die he could be a biological brother he's a different category than just

02:18:50.080 somebody i've known for 10 years and he's not adding that much in my life and i'm going to pick

02:18:55.680 this not for you to make the determination in a committed relationship i'm just simply saying it's not

02:19:00.800 a black it's not as black and white of an issue as it's trying i think it is i think

02:19:06.720 that if if on the one hand you say i want to have a man who's worth submitting to i think that that

02:19:13.600 man uh is going to be somebody who you consider high virtue and not only high virtue but is going

02:19:19.680 to take care of all sorts of problems you don't even see you don't even want to worry about it he

02:19:25.120 doesn't want to fucking worry about you either he doesn't want to worry about shit he doesn't want

02:19:29.040 to worry about fucking cory he doesn't want to worry about your relationship with you he doesn't want

02:19:34.000 to worry about shit and you know how you can give him that great peace of mind by not doing it and

02:19:39.360 that's the ultimate sign of respect and you know that type of man who you show that kind of respect

02:19:43.200 to will do anything you know what i think they'll give you the whole they'll give you the whole world

02:19:46.800 on a platter what if he can make her happy by being best friends of course yeah exactly because andrew

02:19:52.320 wouldn't you want to be friends with the guy and feel him out happiness see this is the disconnect it's

02:19:57.120 not about her happiness it's about what is submission and the cardinal and when we're

02:20:03.200 looking at this we're looking at what is the dynamic between men and women which works best

02:20:08.640 what is the dynamic for family that works best here's the dynamic and family that works best

02:20:13.440 proven over and over and over again there so if you think about tradition think of it in these terms

02:20:19.040 experiments which worked that's tradition so here the family unit of a mom and a dad and children

02:20:26.560 works better than anything else but what do you mean by works better in an economic sense how

02:20:31.520 does it work better all outcomes for the man woman and children if they stay together in an intact

02:20:37.840 family are universally universally better than any other single dynamic we've ever seen universally

02:20:45.840 better well just because it's better than the other show doesn't mean it's optimal it still

02:20:51.280 doesn't mean that well well hang on if so unless you can give a counter to any family dynamic that

02:20:58.160 works better than the nuclear cross-generational family then you have no leg to stand on and so

02:21:03.840 here's what i'm going to do tell me a family dynamic which is better than a nuclear or cross-generational

02:21:09.760 family just give me one i think a more tribal society to be honest with you is a better structure

02:21:15.600 because that way if a man dies if he goes through a mental break or something and he's no longer

02:21:21.600 stable that woman has a social structure of brothers uncles aunt whatever best friends who

02:21:28.400 just swoop right in and guess what those those kids have already gotten used to uncle cory and blah blah

02:21:35.280 blah they still already have that social structure with the with the people who matter the most their

02:21:40.480 blood okay they're bloodline but guess what when you have a way more likely to step in and take

02:21:45.200 care of your kids than cory is i have no blood men in my life who are healthy by any means hence why

02:21:52.160 i've had a stream of not the best relationships because my dad was you're proving his point

02:22:00.720 the point the point would be for a woman like me it would be more you're making my point for me you're

02:22:06.800 saying in inside of your own life absent this intact family unit you had worse outcomes that's my no

02:22:13.440 no that's not what i'm saying i had an intact family unit with very abusive people which led to well wait

02:22:21.440 i'm sorry did maybe i'm wrong i'm gonna check my notes here did you say that your parents are still

02:22:26.640 married no they're not still married but i came from i came from a my my biological parents never got

02:22:34.080 married my mother when i was three married my stepdad talking about you're proving his point girl

02:22:40.400 you're proving my point you said that you have had so many broken relationships or men that were

02:22:45.520 unhealthy and it's because your family structure was broken as well your family what i'm saying is

02:22:52.160 i came from as much of a traditional structure as that's not traditional there's a mom and there's a mom

02:22:59.680 there's a mom there's a dad yeah but there's biologically there has to be a mom and dad

02:23:04.960 we're talking about a traditional but unconditional love wouldn't have all these rules of we can't be

02:23:10.400 friends with cory that's not unconditional love i hate to break it to you so we're dealing with the

02:23:15.760 best that you're bringing me to the table hang on i hate to break it to you but the truth is is that

02:23:22.160 you what you've done here is you have demonstrated very well my point which is from broken home in a

02:23:29.040 perfect world in a perfect world if a man met all of my needs and he was the most healthy godly man

02:23:38.400 and he went to god every moment of every day and made sure that he was fact-checking himself and he had

02:23:45.120 pastors or leaders or ministers grandpas who were healthy men and he was every choice he was gonna make

02:23:52.160 he went and hashed it out with god and his elders and then he came and stepped it to me and said

02:23:58.000 you know what i know that cory's your friend but i'm just getting a little vibe there you know can

02:24:05.760 we talk about this and then he brings the wisdom it's not just he's coming to her and saying it's

02:24:12.080 not just he's coming and saying you can't be friends with them yeah okay okay but one point

02:24:16.320 i just made it up hang on hang on before you go on a diatribe just like let's let's do an exchange

02:24:20.880 good faith exchange just kind of one point at a time the point one that you're talking about here

02:24:26.080 again makes my point for me so you say listen me me me me me me me me me me me me me if a if if a man

02:24:36.320 will do x for me if me if me me me if also me and then on top of that a little bit more me with a sprinkle of me

02:24:44.880 with a dash of me with a cherry on top of me then i will submit well at the end of the day i'm all i

02:24:52.800 have hang on let me finish so then what happens is you split off from what you consider traditionalism

02:24:59.360 because that's not traditionalism i'm not traditional submission yeah i know but that's

02:25:03.920 my point again you're not traditional and the experiment of your broken family is exactly why

02:25:09.840 you're in the position you're in now i'm super happy that certain people live in a society and

02:25:14.720 a world and a family system where traditional works perfectly fine and it's beautiful not all of us come

02:25:21.280 from that blessings point and so no but i'm saying i i literally do not live in a safe environment well

02:25:31.280 it's not gonna be safe if the entire environment has to be revolve around me me me me me me me well

02:25:36.320 guess what like i said i'm a mother i can't go down i have had men come in my life and promise me

02:25:44.080 the world they're gonna take care of the kids they're gonna pay the bills they're gonna do this

02:25:47.920 they're gonna do that here's a marriage here's a ring here's a ceremony blah blah blah and then i get

02:25:52.960 into it and i agree to all of that and then yeah it goes really bad but i'm gonna tell you i'm gonna

02:26:01.040 tell you the truth and this is this is not a fun truth but it is the truth stepfather myself okay i

02:26:07.040 have stepchildren myself the truth of the matter is is that unless you as a woman if you have children

02:26:13.520 especially with another man and you're asking a man to share his resources to take care of those

02:26:18.480 children submission becomes 10 times more important because what value are you bringing to the table for

02:26:24.560 them what value do you actually i cook i clean i really well i suck dick really well i get the

02:26:33.040 bills paid and i take care of the kids anybody can do that no that's not true i'm out yeah it's true

02:26:39.600 do you think that women with no children can't do that way better than you probably

02:26:47.040 listen do you think that it's really that difficult to satiate a man's sexual needs

02:26:51.120 but guess what a lot of these women have so many traumas they can't even get there they're scared

02:26:56.800 of dicks i'm talking real talk here i'm out in the field you don't believe you're talking you have

02:27:01.440 trauma i have had to heal through massive amounts of trauma like even right now you said like all i

02:27:07.040 have is myself when he was saying like me me me but hold on hold on but right but that is because

02:27:12.640 you feel like all you have is yourself because you didn't have a mom and you didn't have that structure

02:27:16.880 you didn't have that support but so you can't even you can't even hold on you can't even accept

02:27:21.200 a husband to help you carry the burden however i've had i've had my parents are married 50 years

02:27:27.040 and they're happy they have more sex than anyone i know i love that amen and i feel the same way

02:27:33.840 as me exactly because we live in a particular society some of us just don't fit these cookie

02:27:40.400 cutter molds of how it's supposed to go as long as you two are both happy and you both can make

02:27:46.560 their relationship work the way you want they don't work though so here's the stats on polyamorous

02:27:52.800 relationships 95 of them fail 95 how many monogamous relationships do you think are actually

02:28:02.000 very happy just because people stay together which is only what one and two stay together happiness

02:28:08.640 how many are happy it's not even about happiness it's the sacrifice and the commitment if you

02:28:13.680 especially if you made it under god i've been through hell and at this point i'm just here to

02:28:19.360 have a good time so see but you say that now but when you're 80 and remember i'm not gonna say you but

02:28:24.400 a lot of people that think like you they're gonna be 80 and alone and they're gonna true they're gonna

02:28:29.360 have their kids there they're friends with benefits they might have a spouse they might have two

02:28:35.280 spouses you guys are i know but you're you're saying that because your mind is saying of all

02:28:40.080 this relationships but that's not the reality guys one at a time hang on hang on let let let her

02:28:45.680 give her a point uh to the gal this is one west hang on not you you're not the gal in the center

02:28:52.160 let her let her let her give her point you can respond i promise go ahead no all i'm saying is that

02:28:57.680 you can think of all these realities in your head like oh well that could happen that could happen but

02:29:02.880 that's not reality of what really happens do you know how we were designed let her finish her point

02:29:08.400 hang on go ahead um keep going just okay okay all right so yeah so you're saying all these things

02:29:16.240 but the reality is even like if you look at the statistics feminists i'm that are oh they're alone

02:29:22.800 and they're they they have their own on medications antidepressants like they hate that whole there's so

02:29:28.080 many fucking variables that go into this you can't say it's because i'm not saying it's just go look

02:29:33.760 at other societies that aren't running hold on can i finish my point though what is two plus two

02:29:39.120 yeah let's finish right there because if you don't if we're not at that same

02:29:45.200 answer what is two plus two what oh in math arithmetic but are we talking algebra just like a piece of

02:29:56.480 paper with the number representation of a two okay look at your age earlier one plus one two cups

02:30:04.080 there we go okay cool uh let me we gotta get caught up on a couple chats here okay all right

02:30:12.160 maddie i'm gonna have you read these go ahead

02:30:16.720 the epistles lmao is an underground gen z band who sings in vibes tongues and word salad

02:30:22.560 i like it i like it let's go with that andrew let's go with that we'll go with that all right

02:30:29.760 sounds good i like it thank you various crazy i like you too andrew go ahead i'm a i'm a likable

02:30:36.960 guy i got i was super wet when i went potty stop blondie in the brown shirt needs to shut the f up and

02:30:43.040 stop injecting nonsense into every conversation no one cares oh my god who the hell nick you gotta

02:30:51.440 fix it's behind andrew do you do you see what i'm talking about on center zoom you're the layers are

02:30:59.040 fucked go ahead maddie yeah nick no i'm kidding i love you here you can fix it hold on go to center

02:31:09.680 zoom can you twitch alerts pull it drag it up above discord okay go ahead can you explain what the

02:31:19.200 fabric of american culture is made of in your opinion uh who's this this came in 34 minutes ago so

02:31:28.160 i don't know who it's that's a fantastic question i think um it's based off of i know this is like

02:31:34.080 debatable but christian values it's a christian nation um the declaration of independence this

02:31:39.520 the whole founding fathers although there's darkness to it there's always be darkness we're

02:31:43.120 in in the world um but a lot of it is based off of christian values um but it we've we have removed

02:31:51.120 god so much from this culture that now we're a godless society and people are just running off of no

02:31:56.240 no values it's just their truth whatever feels right whatever is going with the flow whatever is

02:32:01.200 just the vibe right now and there's no real foundation so i feel like that was the american culture

02:32:08.080 and we've moved away from it but i believe there's a revival happening as well that's my opinion okay

02:32:13.360 go ahead madison read this one for andrew just for argument's sake extreme polygamy such as

02:32:20.160 was practiced for the first 500 000 years ago of human prehistory kept us alive during the ice ages

02:32:26.720 no i not only do i not believe it but that is not what the archaeological evidence supports nor the dna

02:32:34.640 evidence that's not what it supports okay thank you law paladins appreciate it moving over to jess here

02:32:42.320 so jess in our hold on my notes just bugged out uh okay but assuming even it did if even if it did

02:32:50.000 let's let us assume that if you really believe in evolution as being a foundation uh towards uh you

02:32:57.600 know thing in society which we're evolving towards the polygamy or polygamy is not the order of the day but

02:33:03.360 monogamy is so we evolved to be monogamous so even if i grant your argument who cares

02:33:11.280 andrew you know what that's a great way to put it and that's what i had discovered

02:33:15.280 this is a great point and it's you have 20 seconds make your point i think monogamy is something to

02:33:20.720 build up to not something that you should start out as that's the only point i was making you should

02:33:26.240 evolve into the place of monogamy that's all you're not going to evolve in 80 years evolution

02:33:32.320 is a small it's a tiny minute process no no i'm simply saying thousands it could take you it could

02:33:38.000 take you a year to evolve into monogamy with somebody that's all i'm saying everybody yeah

02:33:41.840 so until then be promiscuous to destroy your chances of monogamy that seems like it's counterproductive

02:33:47.200 i love sex cool yeah i know but your chances of being in a monogamous relationship greatly

02:33:53.520 decrease the more promiscuous you are at least for somebody who's valuable okay we're going

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02:34:38.320 and uh thank you so much all right so moving on over to jess jess you said you're in a relationship

02:34:43.920 but you wrote in your pre-show notes you're definitely on rocky terms are things rocky in

02:34:49.280 your relationship and this is you have how many kids again just one this is with the father of

02:34:55.040 your kids right ulysses the pagan donated 200 some way to raise your children blonde frequency you twist

02:35:02.320 the adage prepare your child for the road not he rode for the child thomas froze wow that's some

02:35:09.440 shakespeare shit thank you man appreciate it thank you little thank you uh we got 200 bucks

02:35:14.480 i need some cliff notes thank you man appreciate it uh so you're on rocky terms what's going on with

02:35:19.360 your relationship um it's just we started off really quickly um in terms of before i met him i was single

02:35:27.360 for six years i was celibate for three years before i met him and when i met him i told him precisely what

02:35:33.440 it was that i wanted and i felt like i was lied to on his end as to what it was as to what it was that

02:35:41.520 he wanted um i'm more definitely of the traditional type in in a relationship and he's definitely much

02:35:49.760 more liberal and that's something that i guess was kept from me when i was um getting into a relationship

02:35:58.400 with him liberal in what way liberal in a sense uh politically or in terms of his views on

02:36:04.240 relationship dynamics yes yes so you guys 50 50 type thing or what do you yeah um i'm very um i'm

02:36:11.600 i'm moderate i'm conservative in some aspects and then i'm liberal in others um i'm not completely

02:36:16.880 closed-minded i can see another person's perspective um but i was very open with him with what i wanted and

02:36:25.200 i feel like i was when i found out he cheated because he cheated on me when i found out that

02:36:32.080 he cheated on me i completely um left him alone because i was 24 at the time didn't i was like i'm

02:36:38.800 not here for this or whatever but okay then i found out i was pregnant so that kind of tied us down right

02:36:46.080 now okay um so oh natalia thank you for the gifted 20 memberships

02:36:53.040 you're a legend appreciate it thank you thank you you said you disagree with something about the

02:37:00.160 show the degrading can you do you care to elaborate no i guess just in in terms of just how with certain

02:37:07.840 guests um how they um yes yes can you give me an example um calling them calling them

02:37:18.640 bitch or get the fuck out like there's a certain way you could talk to people to get them to

02:37:22.720 understand that what they're saying or doing is wrong that's probably what she meant well i'm

02:37:27.200 asking her not you so the words ought to come out of her mouth go ahead i think in terms of let's say

02:37:33.120 i guess specifically um chase for example i think you know just in terms oh god but um just i guess in

02:37:40.560 terms of how i don't agree with um the whole he's the whole christian man and everything i mean i'm

02:37:45.760 catholic i'm so i just feel like there's a way to get to people you don't have to agree with them but

02:37:53.120 you also just have to do it in a sense of um compassion to get to someone in terms of

02:38:02.720 how do i explain this correct well um compassion takes multiple forms so compassion if some occasionally

02:38:14.400 well not even occasionally depending depending on who you're talking to uh sometimes language

02:38:18.960 is going to seem vulgar it's going to seem brutal uh you are entering into verbal jujitsu when you're

02:38:24.240 trying to change a person's mind but outside of that scope you're trying to change the mind of

02:38:29.040 thousands upon thousands of people who watch as well so chase uniquely has had millions of people

02:38:35.680 see his clips have gone viral all over the internet so he feels like he has a responsibility to explain

02:38:43.040 himself um to you in a way which you are going to maybe it's jarring or maybe it's it sounds brutal

02:38:51.840 but it's a way to not only get his message to you but to millions of other people that seems

02:38:56.800 reasonable to me now uh i can i can understand where it can it can feel like it's degrading

02:39:02.720 but there's some people who it's going to always seem degrading to if they're on the other end of

02:39:07.200 the ire when you're trying to wake them up right yeah i i understand that but i just feel like there's

02:39:12.800 a way to deliver a message to people and other ways but i mean like i said i'm

02:39:20.560 open everyone has different forms of communication and how they say things um i just personally okay well i'd

02:39:26.320 like to get into specifics here because first off uh chase has not been on the show in something like

02:39:34.400 eight or nine months he hasn't been on i'm talking like about like the previous eclipse i i rewatch a

02:39:41.120 bunch of the clips so right well it's hard because one chase isn't here he also hasn't been on the show

02:39:46.880 in my nine months so i can't really if there's something i could try to speak on his behalf if you

02:39:52.240 can point me to something specifically that chase has said that you disagree with

02:40:01.680 okay stop why don't you answer the question go ahead um i can't really pinpoint a certain one i

02:40:07.600 mean i could if you'd like go um what it's just i'm just talking about the deliverance of certain

02:40:15.040 things like okay what specifically has chase delivered that you disagree with not what he

02:40:21.680 says because i agree with with the things that he says what did he say and what did he say and how did

02:40:27.440 he say it i think like i said just the tone of it just just in general just what what was his tone

02:40:34.240 i can't you don't even remember the topic at hand i like i said like condescending or maybe like i said

02:40:45.440 i just i it's just it just depends like like on how you you speak to the person and and in terms of

02:40:52.400 you're um you're a catholic right yes have you ever seen your priest spit on the devil

02:40:58.000 no no you've never seen them do a harsh rebuke no you've never seen your priest do a harsh rebuke

02:41:15.840 ever no you've never seen your priest do a harsh rebuke towards the demonic ever no not once no well

02:41:24.160 what kind of priests don't even rebuke the devil i'm not sure how to like well you as a catholic in

02:41:36.720 your tradition you believe in the demonic you believe in what's called demonic obsession demonic

02:41:42.080 obsession is the first pathway in catholicism towards demonic possession it's the most common

02:41:48.000 obsession priests often in the catholic church will give harsh rebukes towards the demonic

02:41:54.880 especially for those who are suffering from obsession so yes in in my church well um in my catholic church

02:42:03.520 mother my priest he usually always is very um he likes to keep everything light he will always um

02:42:10.800 just make sure that everyone's awake because he has this joke where like everyone falls asleep in church

02:42:15.440 where people go to catholic church and they fall asleep or they're falling so he basically always

02:42:19.680 tries to keep it um yes all right well i'm just gonna but if you're a catholic you have exorcists

02:42:27.120 in your church they exercise demons out of people that's what they do you have a whole branch in

02:42:34.080 catholicism called exorcists do you think that they go and they're just like nice to demonically possess

02:42:39.520 people do you think that when they're rebuking demons they're like now listen sweetie i don't want to

02:42:43.600 hurt your feelings but i really need that demon to come out can we just can we okay now wait fred

02:42:49.920 we don't want to upset her we're just trying to get the demon out we're just gonna sprinkle a little

02:42:53.280 holy water on her head do you think that that's how they do that like i said that's just my perspective

02:42:59.440 on how to say things to people and in terms of me when i'm talking to someone about something and even

02:43:06.640 if i don't um agree with them or i just don't it's just i just look at it differently i'm just saying the

02:43:11.280 tone of it that's it okay i need chase is not here i need a specific example like i said i don't have

02:43:19.840 a specific example how did he say it then you don't even need to use what he said verbatim i guess just

02:43:24.800 how did he say it i guess just when i have a conversation with people i don't raise my voice

02:43:28.880 at anyone i try to always um stay leveled um just just to really um be able to have both of our points

02:43:35.520 uh stemmed across you know like i okay well let me just defend chase chase is actually one of the

02:43:43.200 most respectful guests we've had he typically doesn't raise his voice sometimes he can be

02:43:48.480 uh animated or charismatic but he's uh typically very polite and respectful now it's possible look

02:43:55.520 he's been on multiple episodes these episodes are hours long i haven't committed to memory every single

02:44:01.440 thing that chase has said and i haven't committed to memory the way every single way he's said it or

02:44:07.840 his tone but i mean at least to my recollection generally speaking chase tends to have been

02:44:14.880 always very respectful to the guests yeah i was like that what's her name kiko i would say she

02:44:21.760 she's she's disrespectful i'll say she's raised her voice that is a good point sure i would say that

02:44:26.640 now what what is interesting about oh sorry go ahead do you want to continue i was just gonna say

02:44:30.480 that's something that i also notice a lot with the the liberal side is if you say something that is

02:44:35.840 factually proven they get upset they get angry and then they get violent and i would and i noticed

02:44:41.440 that with her when he would say something she doesn't like she's like man fuck you i can't believe

02:44:45.440 you said no you're an asshole like that's insane like we can have a conversation it's a trigger

02:44:50.080 and true totally true and i've never i've never seen that on a conservative side to be honest and i

02:44:55.760 see that a lot on that side and it's just not i can argue with that actually because i see a lot

02:45:01.680 of that on conservative side a lot of people physically shut down when you bring up specific

02:45:07.360 issues and they keep going around in circles not even answering the question nobody no side is immune

02:45:13.360 into this sort of thing exactly exactly so everybody has exactly like an emotional process

02:45:19.840 yeah it's all i think if we i think if like let me ask you a question who's pushing political

02:45:25.360 correctness more conservatives or liberals liberals no hold on this is a question directed at her go

02:45:32.080 ahead okay so specifically political correctness liberals so i am not 100 liberal i i do want to say that

02:45:40.240 i'm not i do not consider myself liberal i'm more um not quite in between but i understand both sides

02:45:48.480 let me ask you another question when it comes to friendship who do you think is more willing to

02:45:52.960 be friends with somebody who has a different political opinion than them what is a conservative

02:45:57.920 more likely to be willing to be friends with somebody who's liberal or is a liberal more like

02:46:01.920 willing to be friends with somebody who's conservative in my personal experience liberals really in my

02:46:09.040 personal experience here's here's my view of this and i tend to think i'm a bit more moderate

02:46:14.400 when conserve conservatives typically will look at liberals and see it's more so a difference of

02:46:19.360 opinion and worldview liberals will paint conservatives as evil typically and so there's a pretty big

02:46:27.440 difference and they've actually i believe nick and you maybe find there was a study on this i do think

02:46:32.800 that cons they found that conservatives were more willing to be friends with liberals okay than the

02:46:38.640 reverse which which again everyone has their own personal experience i cannot speak for everybody

02:46:44.960 obviously um in my experience i have a lot of conservative friends i have a lot of liberal friends

02:46:51.280 and i've seen them interact with each other i've seen them having friendly discussions and friendly debates

02:46:57.360 where everyone just agrees to disagree but they have things in common and all of the issues between

02:47:03.920 both sides are the same issues they're just handled from different perspectives and different view

02:47:09.760 anyways so well well going back going back to this so when it comes to the uh tone policing stuff

02:47:18.560 something that's interesting is is that if a woman says something disrespectful and it uh perhaps flusters

02:47:28.160 a man and the man responds matt like andrew says matches her energy people will typically disregard

02:47:37.920 the uh precipitating factor in the man's belligerence they'll kind of cast aside when a woman is aggressive

02:47:46.320 and then they'll singularly look at the man's response without any regard to how the woman might

02:47:54.160 have yeah might have uh what's the word uh she might have instigated it or added toxicity to the

02:48:00.400 conversation right and actually i think that's so speaking to to your thing i don't know if you're

02:48:06.640 referencing this clip where i kicked off this only fans girl who had been absolutely obnoxious the entire

02:48:12.320 night she came on to troll and as she was leaving i was kicking her off she said good luck with your

02:48:18.000 dead ass podcast in which i called her a bitch and then i made some you know comments about that's

02:48:24.240 fair though that was a fair exchange i agreed with you

02:48:28.960 like andrew and i i call him an asshole he kind of does this it's okay it's banter it's you're right

02:48:34.960 you're giving me back my own medicine it's fair there's debate and then there's just being straight

02:48:42.160 up rude for no reason but one of the criticisms criticisms i received in that situation where

02:48:48.320 she had been trolling the entire night she'd been disrespectful the entire night the segment got hold

02:48:53.520 on stop the segment got clipped and it shows me you know she says a couple things to me i say some

02:49:00.160 things to her uh she kind of instigated in my view like with what andrew says i'll match people's energy

02:49:06.960 i'll typically try to be look sometimes you get frustrated lose your cool whatever typically though

02:49:13.520 i'm not going to be insulting towards somebody unless they've been insulting towards me first

02:49:18.320 i'm not perfect it doesn't know but most of the time i try to keep a calm head in this case though

02:49:23.680 a lot of people despite the clip including the parts in which she was at fault nobody seems to

02:49:29.200 acknowledge that somebody can kind of ah it's not it's not quite it's almost like there's a

02:49:34.720 prejudice against a masculine presentation of aggression there is like a didn't need to be

02:49:41.920 you didn't need to stay level-headed as long as you were right for example there's many women who are

02:49:49.200 physically abusing their male partners yet they don't or they don't get the same for example i have had

02:49:56.160 domestic issues i'm sorry i'm gonna move it on okay maddie can you read this

02:50:02.880 dna says 17 women reproduced for every one man only 8 000 years ago we're regressing back to that

02:50:09.520 monogamy only existed for a short period of time and it came with religion explain why it's better

02:50:16.480 oh please somebody that's a good one i'm excited for an answer i don't

02:50:20.800 blondie you're a scammer do you ever think about the potential dmg you did to your family when you

02:50:28.480 go to sleep at night i do andrew you have to be super insecure if you need to control your lady

02:50:33.120 submission huh okay should i answer that or respond or it's just a statement lol paladins we'll get back

02:50:39.760 to you in a sec god so yeah i do that's honestly my driving motivation in all of my life is to reflect

02:50:47.280 on mistakes i've made and mistakes that were done to me and i try to go back to the root instead of

02:50:54.480 dealing with all these symptoms i'm i go back and back and back and back and back and figure out where

02:50:59.680 it actually went wrong and then i am trying the best that i can like um you said we're not perfect

02:51:05.280 people i make mistakes but i'm doing the best i can to fix those issues at the root cause and

02:51:12.560 pray do my best to create a different result for my kids if someone conservative can argue

02:51:20.080 their views well they rarely need to become emotional or use ad hominem liberals revert

02:51:25.040 to anger and personal attacks more often that's true cool yeah that's good yeah now going back to

02:51:30.640 what lol paladin says i believe this might have been directed at you it was talking about monogamy

02:51:35.760 polygamy explain why i guess polygamy is better i think that's what he's getting at i thought it was

02:51:40.880 the opposite i thought it was the other way why is the monogamy better yeah he's making the the

02:51:46.960 scientific assertion like monogamy should be the one that should have to prove that it's better

02:51:52.960 not polyamory it's opposite we have the script flipped in a lot of ways you're right you're right

02:51:58.080 so let's see if we can't scientifically prove that it's better can you name a society which does not

02:52:02.960 practice monogamy as a standard that's better than the societies which do many tribal nations don't

02:52:08.720 practice go ahead name the society that is better that does not practice monogamy is a

02:52:15.600 standard than the societies which do um i believe it's switzerland they're not very monogamous over

02:52:22.320 there yes monogamy is the standard is part of the un the un is outlawed polygamy okay just because

02:52:29.680 something is outlawed doesn't mean in practice people aren't living that way and very happy with it

02:52:34.720 very few live that way many many more people but again my personal friend the standard of monogamy the

02:52:42.720 standard this is the nation's standard okay can you name a society where the nation's standard is not

02:52:49.360 monogamy that is doing better than the societies of where the nation's standard is are you familiar

02:52:55.440 with esther pearl esther pearl she's a and you just named the society for me just i would say america

02:53:02.800 is not doing well with monogamy no erroneous what society wait wait wait great this is perfect go ahead

02:53:09.440 what society can you point to that's doing better than the united states where the standard is not

02:53:16.880 monogamy i'd love to know did you know that the united states of america is number 25 in the world as far

02:53:24.480 as far as maternal and infant death this question the short answer is a lot of other countries are

02:53:30.960 doing way better than we are wait hold on hold on hold on that doesn't make any sense listen

02:53:38.240 even if i were to grant that there's more infant mortality in the united states than other developed

02:53:43.920 countries right which are still also practice monogamy as their standard by the way can you name a nation

02:53:51.360 where monogamy is not the standard which it most definitely is in the united states that you can't

02:53:56.240 have a pluralistic marriage in the united states it's quite illegal you go to prison for a long time

02:54:01.360 can you name a nation anywhere on planet earth where the society does better where the standard is not

02:54:08.640 monogamy i would tell you that the standard in the whole world the the law of monogamy is what we

02:54:18.240 yeah let's just start with that but it's not actually what's practiced in the day-to-day lives

02:54:22.960 of the average person in america monogamy okay what do you think it is with all the cheating culture

02:54:29.440 what do you think it is with the the emotional best friend what do you think it is with the dating

02:54:36.160 culture and the okay so let me rephrase specific pluralistic marriage which is not monogamy pluralistic

02:54:44.080 i'm not talking about legal i'm talking about in practice let me ask the question so i can make

02:54:48.880 it hyper specific so you can't evade it again can you name a nation where the standard is not monogamy

02:54:54.720 monogamy being one man one woman married in holy matrimony that's the standard for the nation can you name

02:55:00.880 a pluralistic nation that does better than any of the nations which have a standard for one man one

02:55:06.640 woman in marriage can you what's the better what is the definition of better where all the metrics are

02:55:11.840 are better so we're talking about any of the metrics we're not doing that well i hate to

02:55:16.640 break it to you i'm going to explain what they are i'm going to explain what they are calm down

02:55:20.160 we're going to look at outcomes for human beings we're going to look at how well they're fed we're

02:55:24.320 going to look at what their happiness indexes are we're going to look at basically everything across

02:55:29.440 the board that you can think of housing standards we're going to think about economic prosperity

02:55:33.920 all of those things give me one nation one we are fat we are sick we are on medications we are on

02:55:43.280 a plethora of medications can you answer my question i think there's many many other

02:55:48.000 societies i just told you switzerland is doing a lot better hold on the standard in switzerland

02:55:54.560 is one man one woman for marriage the practice standard in switzerland from my personal friends who live

02:56:01.520 there is not actually because you clearly can't follow the arguments we'll do it this way hold

02:56:07.040 on you steal man my position can what can you just steal man my position that means can you give me my

02:56:12.560 argument back to me so i know you i'm gonna agree with i'll say america's doing great and monogamy

02:56:18.480 it's awesome and we're all so happy let's do you can't give me my argument back can you your argument

02:56:24.160 back i don't have the same view or this i didn't ask you if you had the same view hold on i'm asking you

02:56:30.320 if you can just go ahead and repeat repeat to me the question i'm asking you can you just is there

02:56:37.840 a is there a society in the world who is not primarily marriage is not about happiness but

02:56:47.280 about growth growth is hard you see relationships through the lens of hedonism constantly seeking

02:56:54.720 pleasure like a child will stunt her spiritual growth amen that that is assuming that you are

02:57:02.000 not going into each relationship to grow yourself if every relationship in your life you have the

02:57:08.160 primary purpose of growing as a person you're not seeking pleasure great great before we get to that

02:57:13.760 can you just tell me back to me what my question to you is say it again no my question to you is can you

02:57:21.840 name a society anywhere on planet earth which is pluralistic in their marriage practices which is

02:57:28.720 better than the societies which have monogamy as the standard for marriage in me i'm trying to give

02:57:36.400 you my answer and you're not wanting to accept so you said switzerland correct okay so hold on so let me

02:57:42.800 ask you a question when you answered switzerland you stated i have some friends who live in switzerland

02:57:48.800 and they are in polygamous polyamorous relationships i'm telling you from a social science perspective

02:57:55.280 i have many friends in switzerland i do business with them and they're telling me the culture what it

02:58:01.040 actually is in practice that they're doing that works and it's not are your friends polygamist

02:58:07.600 some of them are and some of them are not so they're just simply reporting on the average

02:58:11.680 so yeah hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on so are you making the argument that more

02:58:20.800 than 51 percent of people in switzerland it's it's a polygamous society is that your position i'm not

02:58:27.680 talking about legal i'm talking about people might be legally married to one person and they have other

02:58:32.800 relationships with other yes some might but i'm asking you if a majority of people in switzerland

02:58:39.440 are moving in that way to not being monogamous yes are you just not listening hello i'm just trying

02:58:48.480 to simply clarify because what is there to clarify you guys just want on paper statistics that do not

02:58:55.520 represent what's actually going on in the actual relationship between look i know i think i think we

02:59:01.520 can make those extrapolations of what's going on based on how many people are in those polygamous

02:59:06.000 relationships versus are not but when we're asking about this so here's what i will tell you in

02:59:10.960 switzerland it's illegal illegal to marry multiple people so back to my question can you name a society

02:59:18.240 which is better that practices as a matter of law of that you can get married to multiple people as

02:59:26.400 opposed to the society where it's a matter of law that you can only get married to one can you name one

02:59:30.880 they're in any of the colonized societies the advanced societies they have all run with this

02:59:38.800 propaganda that monogamy is the way to go and so they've made that the legal standard they've made

02:59:44.240 that the legal standard is that what people practice so the answer is no you can't name one correct

02:59:51.760 if you need to be right sure no no if you need to be right can you name one or not

02:59:57.680 i have tried to communicate with you in the way that resonates with me see men don't like that

03:00:05.200 they don't like combative they don't like all this they don't men don't like this stop doing that

03:00:09.360 just no i'm happy with that i love that i want to know you're right you're right america is doing

03:00:16.080 the best job all right madison read this please hint for blonde no no no no hey andrew what brand

03:00:24.000 do you smoke kiko the finest fork in the cast andrew that's for you uh yeah i smoke marble reds

03:00:34.400 all right i need to move on with my notes here so going to you desiree you stated that you basically

03:00:42.560 solved all of the world all of world problems simply by flipping the script of the patriarchy

03:00:48.320 and going back to a system where women do the choosing you are a savant a social scientist

03:00:53.680 only fans model and a good old american-made single mom of three trying to get your bills paid out here

03:00:59.120 in a man's world okay what do you mean flipping the script of the patriarchy okay so the easiest way

03:01:06.080 to describe it is do you have daughters does anybody have do you have a daughter do you have a daughter

03:01:11.120 and she has a daughter right so when your daughter was born like many daughters okay that's perfect

03:01:16.960 perfect i have two daughters myself when that baby girl is born you would die for her on the spot like

03:01:25.680 that's your baby girl you're gonna protect her you're gonna serve her you're gonna love her you're

03:01:29.200 gonna you want this anything you want can you arrive at the point okay so the point is a woman was designed

03:01:36.240 to be treated that way every second of her life just because she grows up but aren't there hold on

03:01:43.600 they feel the same way with their sons what are you talking about yeah aren't there

03:01:49.440 wait i really don't understand this if you as a father hold your baby son you have the same

03:01:56.000 feeling what the hell are you talking about i understand that but there is there is an understanding

03:02:01.440 that feminine essence beings are very sensitive we need a little bit of extra coddling we need a

03:02:08.320 little extra protection we're physically more weak so what's the exchange for that what's the what

03:02:14.160 what's the exchange if the exchange is that you're a little bit weaker and you need a little bit more

03:02:18.240 coddling and you need a little bit more society to kiss your ass stop stop what's the exchange what's

03:02:24.400 the exchange to men what do we get you get pussy oh i see the only thing that you can offer us is the

03:02:32.000 thing that you that we also can offer back to you right which is dick i guess i have toys i mean you

03:02:38.800 guys aren't doing that so the thing is your whole value structure everything within your values revolves

03:02:45.760 to i deserve to have my ass kissed because i have a vagina i make the babies you don't make the babies

03:02:51.840 how did that how did we get the math wrong we don't need you yes i'm not saying it's personal but we

03:02:57.760 actually don't yes we do well who invented i'm sorry who invented the technology for you to be able

03:03:02.480 to do that i guess what we could have invented the technology we could have but you didn't listen

03:03:09.680 this is not this is not to say that men don't have their role it's simply to say we actually have

03:03:16.960 the bodies that produce the babies then what are you going to do when there's obviously of a higher

03:03:23.600 what do you do when there's artificial wombs what what about artificial wombs we shouldn't

03:03:29.680 have artificial wombs that is usurping the power of a woman and it's making us not as valuable the

03:03:36.400 power of a woman so so then what do men get then from women what did women get then from women if we

03:03:44.000 have artificial wombs and we no longer need your womb you don't want women what you guys would all

03:03:49.840 kill yourselves within three days of not having women here the only reason you are here is to

03:03:55.200 impress us to protect us to fuck us right to get our adoration to have us feel like we're worshiping

03:04:02.080 you and we're sucking your dicks i mean there's an energy exchange here that works super weird there

03:04:06.960 was a great episode that happened i believe it was survivor where men and women were divided up into

03:04:12.880 groups and the men were sent to an island to survive and the women were sent to an island to survive now

03:04:18.400 interestingly enough the men lasted a lot longer than three days without the women in fact they

03:04:24.400 were thriving they were killing everything that hang on stop they were killing everything that they

03:04:29.760 could possibly find they were eating like kings they rediscovered fire with nothing but their own

03:04:34.800 minds while the women were freezing to death they literally gave up within just a couple of days and

03:04:41.520 begged the men to go to their campfire but we wouldn't last three days without women is that right i'm

03:04:47.760 simply saying if you guys literally knew that every woman dropped dead and she was not there you're

03:04:55.360 talking about a simulation where they know at the end of this they're gonna go home to their girlfriend

03:05:00.560 they're gonna go home to their mom their aunt their daughter and the women are still there i'm saying

03:05:05.680 if all the women were just dropped dead yeah what are you guys gonna do that would be the same problem

03:05:12.480 you would have in reverse without the infrastructure but my point is we actually do all you do i listen

03:05:19.920 to everything you say but then when i try to respond you cut right in so just hang tight let me get my

03:05:25.840 point in too what if this situation was reversed if men were gone who would maintain the infrastructure

03:05:32.880 go ahead and lie to me and say women no no don't get me wrong i am not saying that each man is just

03:05:39.840 null and void i'm simply saying that women need to have an extra layer of reverence and protection

03:05:46.960 and respect from erroneous that we don't get erroneous what we don't get in exchange what do men get

03:05:53.840 men get our presence right that's it you have nothing so what you're saying to me here's here's

03:05:58.960 you're saying there's nothing here's what we're doing to go around and around and around you say

03:06:05.200 women deserve these extra privileges from men okay that's fair but when i ask what are women giving

03:06:10.480 and they just me it's like well now you understand why i feel like it's a given that you know what a

03:06:17.200 woman offers i don't know why it's impossible for you to let me finish a sentence but now so what you're

03:06:22.320 saying is is that the only thing you bring to the table is your vagina and so all hang on all a man ever

03:06:29.040 has to do is reject your vagina because it's literally the only thing of value you have no i

03:06:36.160 said it's the most valuable thing we have we have lots of other points of value that's just the most

03:06:43.040 hints why many women choose to be celibate they choose to wait for their husbands because we inherently

03:06:48.000 know this is our most prized possession is our body but i'm just simply saying it's a lot of for a lot

03:06:55.520 of us it's because this is my sacred vessel you're not entering this until we're at a certain point

03:07:01.680 you have proven yourself to me i know you're going to be a good father etc a woman doesn't get to

03:07:06.480 envelop her around my dick until you've done xyz and i'm giving you the gift of allowing you to

03:07:16.480 envelop my penis what what's really amazing here and a good man that is how i feel about him to be

03:07:22.240 honest i love being yeah i love you've actually devastated for that the best way for men to

03:07:28.000 remove your power over them is for them to just not be interested in your vagina yeah and that's

03:07:32.640 fine i that's it obviously that's the only thing what else do you bring to the table besides two

03:07:37.120 hundred dollars artificial wombs are usurping the power of a woman yet she just said she has toys

03:07:43.760 and us men aren't doing so well usurping the power of men in helping you create the child

03:07:49.200 that a double standard totally totally a double thank you killer cereal definitely right and we're

03:07:54.640 all doing the best we can grid one is can i say something one sec i'm just preempting grid one is

03:08:01.040 coming in here with his own tts thank you kill of cereal appreciate it grid one motorsports donated

03:08:07.280 two hundred dollars thank you grid one i am the patriarchy and you know nothing of my work dot

03:08:11.840 feminism has failed you all especially the mouthy wench throw off those chains and return to the

03:08:18.320 patriarchy submit and realize our true potential all right thank you grid one appreciate it oh hold

03:08:25.360 on now we have now we have nickelodeon coming on thank you grid one i appreciate it man very good

03:08:31.760 to see you in the chat i hope you're doing well i hope the flying's been going nickelodeon donated

03:08:36.720 two hundred dollars blonde do you actually feel overpowering love for your daughter or do you see

03:08:43.440 her as a sexual competitor my guess is the fake tits and earth came after she started to get more

03:08:49.760 male attention than you do you want to respond to that i'm trying to clarify what to actually answer

03:08:58.560 i mean okay my daughters are six and nine i don't i'm not sure if that's appropriate

03:09:04.480 yeah uh gary says maddie can you read it brian needs a gavel to slam that or a powered wig

03:09:11.760 order in the courtroom

03:09:17.120 take it back the power back that's exactly why haven't you pulled that out you may be you may be

03:09:23.200 the judge here but but i would like to finish this exchange if we can when you get a chance all

03:09:28.400 right uh i do have the gavel here at the table uh what let me just get one chat in and then

03:09:32.880 maddie read this and then we'll have andrew give his take can't even simply understand that your

03:09:37.840 small social circles situations don't equate to society or a country as a whole is absolutely

03:09:43.680 ignorant obviously there are outliers just as criminals are a small outlier among society

03:09:49.280 thank you for your presence yo john green thank you very much appreciate it by the way just i i've

03:09:53.840 never done this during the show reminder if any girls want to be on the show and be and be uh what

03:09:59.360 what was the term you used degraded if any girls let's say roasted and degraded and judged and

03:10:06.320 shamed it's fun instagram.com whatever we can hook you up okay thank you uh go ahead andrew

03:10:12.320 it's fun yeah so just uh just to kind of tie this exchange off uh which i've enjoyed by the way i don't

03:10:17.760 i don't i never have any ill will uh towards any of the people i have exchanges with i just enjoy the

03:10:22.720 exchange itself um i just i just want to clarify that you think that the only value that women bring

03:10:32.000 to the table is their vagina no again if that hang on hang on let me finish the question if that's not

03:10:38.880 true then what other value are you bringing to the table soul a good cooked meal i mean a clean house

03:10:48.080 raising kids figuring out social issues to try to find solutions to things i mean i'm masterminding

03:10:55.360 with men are better at all those things okay well then those men don't need to come to me because

03:11:01.520 they have it figured out with each other so so for men who can cook their own food which is easy

03:11:08.080 cheerleader somebody to give you a blowjob when you're having a bad day i mean come on it's it's

03:11:13.120 simple women's work is very incredibly valuable and it yeah in what regard other than your vagina

03:11:20.800 what are you bringing to the table i keep on asking you this you're like well cooking and

03:11:24.080 cleaning all things men can do for themselves i'm telling you there's a there's a hang on hang on

03:11:27.840 i'm almost done cooking cleaning all of this these are all things that men can do for themselves

03:11:33.520 i'm almost done i'm almost done if they are things that men can do for themselves well can you name

03:11:39.760 something you're uniquely going to bring to the table a man can't do for themselves other than

03:11:44.320 your vagina i can have a baby for him he can't have a baby for himself i mean i guess he has an

03:11:51.520 artificial womb i guess then if there's an if you want to go that way i just think we have a human

03:11:56.560 design that works a certain way go ahead andrew if there's an artificial womb there's no that there's

03:12:01.920 nothing then you could be his number one fan lift him up when he's down amen sis i mean if you want

03:12:09.760 to go with that that you guys don't need women fine have fun i do have to move things along here i do

03:12:15.120 have to move things along unless you i just think it's incredible that ultimately the only thing you

03:12:19.520 think you bring to the table is a uterus and the thing is so so i think that my position i think that

03:12:26.080 the christian position is actually far better you know it's really funny the christian position

03:12:31.760 of what did god make people hear the answer the thing is i trash feminists more than anybody on

03:12:40.720 planet earth i mean i'm probably one of the best at it but the thing that's interesting is that i

03:12:45.920 believe that women have an actual ontology and in nature and that they have value beyond just that of

03:12:52.880 their vagina and giving you the baby i think that they actually have on hey stop ladies stop just

03:13:00.320 calm down and listen if you listen right then you'll be able to to craft way better responses

03:13:05.760 so the thing is is that there's an ontological nature of men and women there's a nature to them

03:13:12.000 and i think that the nature of women in and of itself is valuable not just because they have a i think

03:13:18.800 women are valuable without a uterus i think women are valuable even if they're not that's exactly

03:13:23.360 what i said i called it even if they're not sleeping can't help yourself you just can't help it even if

03:13:28.480 they're not sleeping with tons of because you're saying the same thing but yet if you say it you're

03:13:32.560 right and if i say it in my way i'm wrong it's the exact same thing they say but you got to stop

03:13:37.520 interrupting you can agree disagree but you got to let him finish he lets you and i promise i'll let you

03:13:42.640 finish i promise i'll let you finish but i'm saying if there's an underlying ontology to both

03:13:46.640 and i think women without a uterus can still be highly valuable to society and i think that women

03:13:51.360 who don't sleep with men can be highly valuable to society i don't see these as the ontology basis

03:13:57.920 for the only reason that women are valuable and yet when i ask you what makes you valuable to a man the

03:14:02.880 only two things that you can give me are those and so absent those things you're saying that other

03:14:07.680 women can't really be that's not what i'm saying i said the feminine essence you whatever however you

03:14:16.320 worded it i'm saying femininity in and of itself which women embody whether we're reproducing

03:14:23.280 reproducing or we're not when i say i'm saying the the the generated energetic state from that

03:14:33.920 part of us the feminine essence our feminine energy i don't think that femininity is tied up with

03:14:41.200 promiscuity i never said that's insanity i never said it was then why are you only referencing your

03:14:47.200 vagina as being feminine i'm simply saying that is the physical embodiment that represents the

03:14:56.080 highest level the highest expression no motherhood of my okay but that's how i became a mother through

03:15:02.160 my vagina and i became impregnated by a penis getting inserted into my vagina and then sperm

03:15:09.120 coming out and then it mixing with my egg okay well then you can be a mother even if you don't bear

03:15:15.040 the child you could still be a mother right you have your feminine essence right you're nurturing

03:15:20.240 you're loving you're caring you still be a mother though yeah well then i'm sorry if i misspoke i'm

03:15:27.360 sorry if i misspoke i was referring to the feminine essence the feminine what is that

03:15:34.320 that is our tendency to nurture our tendency to be able to make sacrifices our tendency to submit to a

03:15:41.360 man when it the things that you won't do yeah i submit when the man i i know you've been saying

03:15:48.720 the opposite the whole time i submit to the men who earn that position in my life oh submission is

03:15:56.720 earned it is no i submit to god first and then as men step up wait wait wait wait stop stop stop stop

03:16:06.000 you submit to god correct correct aren't don't you do porn yeah you have an only fans i do sex

03:16:12.000 education so wait how do you no no no but you have an only fans right where you post you know god created

03:16:16.480 sex right well we're a marriage but it says who god but what's a marriage you're talking about the

03:16:24.160 institution guys guys guys please let me have a fucking back and forth here okay so do you think

03:16:29.440 god wants you to do only fans yeah it's a ministry i'm actually teaching men

03:16:34.480 how to please women i have squirting tutorials i have eating pussy tutorials i have um blowjob

03:16:40.560 tutorials and i'm teaching your daughters doing that honestly yeah i would not i will teach you

03:16:46.160 would not want your daughters to do that i don't expect to find a good man do you know how hard it

03:16:50.720 is to not have proper sex education and then okay but you're gonna try to figure it out that it's okay

03:16:56.880 that's disgusting that is shameful i'm sorry that you have shame attached to your sexuality i men love a

03:17:02.880 woman who squirts they feel baptized by that it's like a life-changing experience i just want to make

03:17:07.840 sure i just want to make sure i got this clear jesus christ came and died for your sins so that you could

03:17:12.320 teach women how to suck dick better that's is that right do you know what sin means can you answer my

03:17:18.160 question jesus christ didn't need to die for my sins i'm not a sinner oh my gosh you oh so so wait a

03:17:26.960 second so um so what did jesus christ die for you need to be healed sin means you turn away from

03:17:33.840 yourself you're turning away from the best thing for you that that's what sin means you missed the

03:17:40.960 mark you well that's fine it is sin is turning away from the things which are the best for you

03:17:47.920 no no sin is turning away from the things that are not your truth would you actually show your parents

03:17:54.320 something like that like my parents know what i do there's no way i'm very public you can go into

03:18:00.000 my instagram i'm very public i wrote books i dedicated my books to my parents so then tell

03:18:06.560 me if you're true my whole life in there i don't have secrets if your truth was to be if your truth

03:18:13.440 was to be a serial killer that was your truth no because if you think about it let me finish the

03:18:18.800 question if that was your truth to be a serial killer your truth why is it that turning away

03:18:26.720 from that nature wouldn't be sinful by that logic can you explain that that's facts you have if you

03:18:32.160 have to go to the most extreme example of society that is literally a trauma response you're not

03:18:37.920 getting what i'm saying all you're all you're all you're doing is obfuscating answer the question

03:18:42.880 say the question again okay yeah so listen to it this time so if it was your truth to be a serial

03:18:48.320 killer you would by your logic turning away from that truth would be sinful do you understand that

03:18:53.520 no i believe the serial killer example if we must go with that that is now hurting other people

03:19:00.480 my truth my sex life is not hurting anybody so now i thought it was about your truth a second

03:19:08.400 ago it's not about your truth yeah i'm getting confused at what i didn't know that this was

03:19:12.560 going to be a religious podcast my sexuality god you said you were submitted to god yeah i am my god

03:19:19.600 is not the god of the bible it's not the god that you serve but you're using biblical terms

03:19:25.200 it doesn't matter what terms i use we can say something else we can call it source energy does that

03:19:30.240 work better for you that it's a word you literally do like mental gymnastics you don't even know what's

03:19:36.080 your reality because you have no foundation you're just picking and choosing things from everywhere

03:19:40.720 and trying to make it i have books you can read my books my foundation no because you're you don't

03:19:46.160 even know you're going to have the choke and that is forever moving there is no solid foundation you

03:19:52.320 stand for nothing because i'm an ever evolving being our dna is a spiral that's evolving we're always

03:19:58.880 gonna be you can grow you can mature but you're going the opposite way i'm not going i was the celibate

03:20:05.360 good christian girl i did all this shit that you're doing now i did that when i was 18 to 33 i

03:20:11.520 spent 15 years doing this whole good girl but you can do things but were you truly born again did you

03:20:18.240 have the holy spirit so fucking devoted and if you would read my book okay let me let me finish if you

03:20:23.920 were truly born again you wouldn't be looking at me with those eyes first of all you would have

03:20:27.920 the holy spirit in you and you i'm a demon i'm a demon exerciser you would be transitioning and and

03:20:35.120 going and moving towards the direction that where it's really that's your perspective

03:20:43.600 romans one therefore god also gave them up to vile impurity in the lusts of their hearts to dishonor

03:20:50.800 their bodies among themselves who exchanged the truth of god for the lie yeah cool literally thank

03:20:57.200 you yo christ is lord thank you okay i'm gonna ask uh i we have so many notes that we have to go

03:21:02.400 through but i'm gonna continue going through your notes there's probably gonna be a lot more back and

03:21:06.000 forth further from that i i did uh you know do a little bit of a dive into your instagram a little bit

03:21:11.920 i didn't catch your stories until yesterday minus underscore two underscore hundred donated two

03:21:17.840 hundred dollars red one you rock chat loves you can you do me a favor and punch that blonde next to

03:21:24.960 you maybe she will sober up is wayne brady gonna have the choker bitch here get it okay oh wow okay

03:21:34.720 oh there we go

03:21:36.800 all right so guys guys let me okay focus

03:22:00.000 order order in the court order in the court i got a gavel i told you i like brian

03:22:05.040 got a gavel boys okay all right uh so i was looking at your instagram i saw stories you post

03:22:11.680 like 30 stories a day i only tuned in yesterday i the the amount of content you push out is

03:22:19.360 a lot um so you said there was uh you went on a two thousand twelve thousand dollar utah trip was

03:22:25.760 that recently it was a thirteen thousand dollar utah trip was that was that yeah it was like in april it

03:22:31.440 was april now you said that you you are you divorced or currently going through a divorce

03:22:39.200 do you want the whole long story like just an answer to the question divorced from the legal

03:22:43.440 marriage the first and then and then i left the non-legal marriage arrangement and so when was this

03:22:49.040 utah trip it was in april and you were there to meet donald trump jr i was there to go to what i

03:22:54.160 thought was a networking event with a lot of the leaders of the country but it was a ludicrous concert

03:22:58.480 instead so i and there's donald trump it's okay we need to get into the details it was a mess but

03:23:02.400 you couldn't go because there was a car accident but how would you know if you couldn't go that it

03:23:06.080 was a ludicrous ludicrous concert okay it was at one of these rich people's houses that's like on

03:23:11.520 this big hill and driving up to the concert i i thought that it was this way your car it was a

03:23:18.640 little car accident okay point being is but you never you didn't even go to the event

03:23:22.800 i i got driven up by the homeowners where the car crashed down here they knew the party and

03:23:29.760 they were like let's get you up to the party okay so you did go to the party but i but i didn't get

03:23:33.360 to stay because the police called me back down because of the car situation okay so then i just

03:23:38.400 heard that it was ludicrous and i saw it on the social media afterwards i didn't even i saw the

03:23:43.360 helicopter come in and fly out i didn't know who it was okay so thirteen thousand dollar utah trip now

03:23:49.520 in the instagram story that i saw uh you spent your husband you used your husband no no no it was

03:23:56.720 my business card he came and beat me because he somehow not even my husband we never were legally

03:24:05.680 married i had left him six months before that it wasn't his money it was not his he was opening up

03:24:11.440 credit cards under my company and racking it up partying is it was it you like it's my escort it

03:24:18.160 wasn't we no it's my escort when i have an escort because we were together i put him on my as the

03:24:26.320 vice president of my escort it's just a technicality because we were together so it was completely my

03:24:34.640 business that we set up that i set up for my books when i wrote my books understood so you mentioned the

03:24:40.480 biggest issue actually well we'll start there you said the biggest issue is that we live in the

03:24:46.080 patriarchy with the toxic masculinity just so i know that we're talking about the same thing

03:24:51.920 could you define for me patriarchy and define for me toxic masculinity i want to make sure we're

03:24:58.160 talking about the same thing go ahead i would say the patriarchy and the toxic part is the valuing

03:25:05.840 just one at a time so patriarchy you use patriarchy alone okay and then use toxic masculinity alone okay i

03:25:11.920 I just want to make sure that we're talking about the same thing.

03:25:13.940 Can you define both?

03:25:14.720 So the patriarchy to me is the valuing of men over women.

03:25:20.800 I have no problem with male leadership.

03:25:23.160 I love it.

03:25:23.960 I totally agree with it.

03:25:24.860 I even agree in the churches it's better, and in general,

03:25:27.820 it's better for the men to be the ones who are out there speaking to men

03:25:31.380 because they just do better.

03:25:32.940 We have different definitions of patriarchy.

03:25:34.540 Okay, well, I'm just saying that's my, you asked what my idea of it was.

03:25:38.820 And then what about toxic masculinity?

03:25:40.100 And then the toxic masculinity are these guys who basically,

03:25:43.860 they market themselves one way, right?

03:25:47.940 They tell you, I'm fine with this traditional stuff.

03:25:50.540 Let's have sex.

03:25:51.920 That was never who he was.

03:25:54.100 That's the toxic part.

03:25:55.560 They're not marketing themselves correctly.

03:25:58.800 So a woman can't even make an informed decision

03:26:01.960 because she's being lied to from the gate on the first date

03:26:05.220 because he's in marketing mode.

03:26:07.200 He's trying to do whatever he's trying to do.

03:26:09.580 I think it's toxic for anybody.

03:26:12.700 When you say marketing, could you give some examples?

03:26:15.080 Yeah, I mean, you're trying to sell yourself to a person.

03:26:17.880 Do you wear makeup?

03:26:19.300 I wear a little makeup, but I often don't.

03:26:21.400 Do you have breast implants?

03:26:23.280 Everybody knows.

03:26:24.220 I have breast implants.

03:26:24.840 Well, okay, you don't need to show us.

03:26:25.980 No, but I'm saying, I'm not saying that you can't put on your best face.

03:26:30.440 But obviously, if I'm...

03:26:31.480 So you're saying men are lying.

03:26:32.380 Is that the complaint?

03:26:33.420 And I'm just saying that's the toxic part.

03:26:35.480 You asked me what was toxic masculinity.

03:26:37.220 Okay.

03:26:37.540 I would say it's toxic femininity too,

03:26:39.460 is us lying and pretending like we're catfishing.

03:26:43.100 You know, catfishing.

03:26:44.800 No, I'm talking about catfishing.

03:26:46.080 The thing mostly women do?

03:26:48.240 What?

03:26:48.800 The filters.

03:26:49.900 And I would even say...

03:26:50.820 Men do it too, but...

03:26:51.640 Right, but I would even say that that's a woman being actually masculine.

03:26:56.400 That's her competitive nature.

03:26:58.640 Femininity is not actually competitive.

03:27:01.840 It's not like that.

03:27:02.740 It's very flowy.

03:27:03.800 It's very like, we're friends.

03:27:05.180 It's the masculinity that women are taking on and then being competitive.

03:27:08.860 You really...

03:27:10.100 So, okay, what you do in dating, you don't think that is toxic?

03:27:12.840 No, because I'm 100% transparent.

03:27:14.960 I'm 100% real.

03:27:16.300 I'm not lying about anything.

03:27:18.140 Now...

03:27:18.580 I might meet them after the gym.

03:27:20.140 I'm wearing no makeup.

03:27:21.140 This is done up because they said get done up.

03:27:23.440 That's just not how I normally am.

03:27:24.840 That's super weird.

03:27:25.360 You know, if you're transparent.

03:27:26.580 And I have a little boob job.

03:27:28.020 Yeah, I breastfed for nine years.

03:27:29.720 I had nothing left.

03:27:30.880 I got a little something done.

03:27:32.700 Like, who cares?

03:27:33.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:27:33.540 I get it.

03:27:34.220 But it's super weird that you say that there's no competitive nature, which you have.

03:27:37.700 Haven't you written books?

03:27:38.860 Don't you compete with other people?

03:27:40.060 No, I'm not...

03:27:40.760 I...

03:27:41.220 Don't you...

03:27:41.760 Hang on.

03:27:42.280 Let me finish, please.

03:27:43.440 Okay.

03:27:44.000 Don't you have businesses?

03:27:45.580 And aren't you competing in business?

03:27:46.680 Aren't you taking on these very masculine roles, which you now are claiming that you...

03:27:50.520 Let me finish.

03:27:51.480 Okay.

03:27:51.880 Just...

03:27:52.520 So that you understand the reason I asked you to let me finish.

03:27:55.320 I don't mind the spirited back and forth exchange.

03:27:58.080 When you're talking in your mic while I'm talking, because of the nature of the call,

03:28:02.920 I can't hear you.

03:28:04.880 That's why I asked you actually to stop, because I can't actually hear what you're saying.

03:28:08.240 So, isn't it so that you're taking on these same masculine roles, which you right now

03:28:14.300 are raging about?

03:28:15.460 Yeah, I really was.

03:28:16.620 And that is something that I only recently discovered was a flaw in myself.

03:28:21.820 And that's why I wasn't really getting anywhere in the business world, because I was running

03:28:27.600 with this masculine energy, this competition, this...

03:28:31.660 The way that men do it.

03:28:33.540 And that is actually...

03:28:34.980 I felt convicted, and that's why I switched back into making my money the way that I do.

03:28:40.760 I am a consultant.

03:28:42.340 As a business?

03:28:43.240 As a...

03:28:43.660 As I...

03:28:44.160 I switched over to a feminine energy model, which is not...

03:28:49.220 Which was what?

03:28:50.240 Okay, so for example...

03:28:50.600 You basically sell your body for money.

03:28:52.480 No, that's not true.

03:28:53.900 For example, let's say I was a life coach.

03:28:56.700 Okay, let's say I was a life coach.

03:28:58.100 Let's say you were a life coach.

03:29:00.040 Typically, in the man's world, in business, there's a set price, right?

03:29:05.060 So, coaching with me used to cost $2,000 for three months.

03:29:09.200 I take you through this thing, and it was just cut and dry.

03:29:12.160 Didn't matter who you were.

03:29:13.540 As long as you were willing to pay the price, you could enter my coaching container, and I would

03:29:19.040 life coach you.

03:29:19.680 What I found is that was not good for me as a woman, because I had all these guys who

03:29:25.900 weren't serious about life coaching and working through issues.

03:29:29.320 They just wanted my energy.

03:29:31.540 They wanted to hop on a Zoom call with me and take my time, as if they were going to be with

03:29:36.700 me.

03:29:37.320 But working in the foot fetish place, I have guys come in all the time, and they want to

03:29:42.900 talk about...

03:29:44.480 They go to therapy with their wife, and they go to therapy alone, but then they have the

03:29:48.140 same therapist to ask their wife, so they sit with me, because I have no skin in the

03:29:53.200 game, and I have nothing to do with their lives.

03:29:56.940 And they sit there, and they talk to me, and they're almost crying, and they're like, I

03:30:00.200 don't know who to talk to.

03:30:01.880 Like, I have all these emotions.

03:30:03.900 And that is actually my ministry, for the most part, in my OnlyFans chat.

03:30:08.540 Stop saying ministry.

03:30:09.460 Well, I'm just saying...

03:30:10.440 Your OnlyFans ministry?

03:30:11.820 No, I'm telling you, men are not as good at accessing their emotions.

03:30:18.280 Men access their emotions and feel safe in a sexual context when you do it right.

03:30:24.520 It wasn't asexual.

03:30:25.740 So let's explore this value.

03:30:27.560 No, no, no, but I'm just saying they feel comfortable with you, because they understand

03:30:29.660 you're not judging them.

03:30:31.260 You're in a taboo space, too, so they open up.

03:30:34.420 Men open up.

03:30:34.820 Men are much larger than women and stronger than women on average.

03:30:40.160 You agree that that's true, right?

03:30:41.400 Yes, true.

03:30:42.060 Just on average.

03:30:43.160 Not every...

03:30:44.160 Obviously, there's outliers of women who are much stronger than men, this type of thing.

03:30:47.840 But on average, they are.

03:30:49.920 So they actually have to control their emotions better.

03:30:53.220 They can't be overly emotional.

03:30:55.560 They have to control their emotions, because if they become...

03:30:58.460 You have to let me finish.

03:31:00.520 Hang on.

03:31:01.380 Because if they succumb to their emotions, they can do a lot of damage, not just to the

03:31:05.380 weaker sex, but to the children they're supposed to protect, and also to other men, right?

03:31:11.160 To other men, they can do a lot of damage.

03:31:13.300 Women don't have this same burden.

03:31:15.520 So when you say they're not as emotional, I think that they're perhaps as emotional,

03:31:19.440 but hang on, I think that they control that emotion far better than women do.

03:31:24.680 Yes.

03:31:24.780 And what I've seen from you, even, is that you seem to have a hard time controlling your

03:31:29.020 emotions.

03:31:30.020 I'm feisty, yes.

03:31:31.220 And to your point...

03:31:32.580 Not feisty.

03:31:33.300 Trouble controlling emotions.

03:31:35.020 I get it.

03:31:35.200 It's not feistiness.

03:31:37.000 I get it.

03:31:37.680 We can call it whatever you want.

03:31:38.720 You can fix her, Andrew.

03:31:39.860 Yeah, you can fix me.

03:31:40.780 But, Andrew, to your point...

03:31:42.160 No, no, I can't fix you.

03:31:43.420 But to your point, Andrew, what a lot of men are accidentally doing is instead of controlling

03:31:51.000 their emotion and then having somebody to talk it through, going to the gym, they're

03:31:54.840 repressing it.

03:31:56.540 So it's like there's...

03:31:56.940 No, that's not repression.

03:31:58.240 So what you're talking about is actually a feminist viewpoint, right?

03:32:02.620 It's not repression for men, nor is it toxic masculinity for men to control emotion.

03:32:08.780 From a woman's standpoint, when they can't control their emotions, everything's going to

03:32:12.480 look like repression.

03:32:14.140 But when you see men explode, that's not a good look for men.

03:32:18.620 When you see men...

03:32:19.660 When women explode, nobody gives a shit.

03:32:21.740 They kind of laugh at them, right?

03:32:22.780 Because they can't do very much damage.

03:32:24.460 We just kind of scoff at them.

03:32:25.520 We're like, what are you going to do about it, right?

03:32:27.500 Men, on the other hand, must control emotion.

03:32:31.160 They must...

03:32:31.340 But men have become scared.

03:32:32.840 Hang on.

03:32:33.260 They must move towards stoicism.

03:32:34.880 And the reason they must move towards some form of stoicism is because they're fucking dangerous.

03:32:40.640 They're dangerous to everyone around them.

03:32:42.240 If they cannot control their emotions, the thing is, is that we've given a pass to women

03:32:46.240 and tried to give this kind of example that women don't have to control their emotions,

03:32:51.020 that it's good to free them, but it's not.

03:32:53.600 Maybe women should also control their fucking emotions a little bit and not make everything

03:32:58.220 about them, everything about me, everything internalized to me, me, me, me, me, me, me,

03:33:03.900 me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, but rather to look at things a little bit

03:33:07.060 more logically.

03:33:08.780 And so as we've gone through even your worldview logically, you realize there's a ton of holes

03:33:13.320 here, right?

03:33:14.240 There's a ton of holes in the logic that you have.

03:33:16.320 You recognize this, right?

03:33:17.380 Well, I think, to be honest with you, if, for example, we got to, for whatever reason,

03:33:24.300 spend a week together.

03:33:25.560 Let's say we got to spend a week together.

03:33:26.640 Let's say that, let's say that, this panel is an exhibition of the absence of real men.

03:33:32.880 If a real man showed up for these women, they would snap out of the delusion and confusion

03:33:37.580 and fall into their feminine.

03:33:39.400 Right.

03:33:39.880 Feminism equals loneliness.

03:33:41.180 Yeah, true.

03:33:41.880 I totally agree.

03:33:43.000 I totally agree.

03:33:44.140 You can't totally agree.

03:33:45.320 Everything you espouse is in opposition to this.

03:33:47.760 It doesn't.

03:33:48.460 What I'm telling you is there are actually so few healthy, mature, good men out there.

03:33:56.800 No, there's not.

03:33:57.500 That's not true.

03:33:57.720 And I'm not blaming anybody.

03:33:59.780 It sucks.

03:34:01.380 You are a good man.

03:34:02.800 I believe you're a good man, and I believe you're a good husband.

03:34:05.420 But you're in a catch-22 logically, because if the thing is, is that you want that type of

03:34:10.420 man, what you would maybe broadly consider a high-value man from your worldview, the only thing

03:34:17.140 that you can produce for him is your pussy, by your own admission.

03:34:21.720 And so if every other woman you're competing with has the same thing to offer him, why the

03:34:28.080 fuck would he choose you?

03:34:30.120 Can you explain that?

03:34:31.400 Because my pussy is a completely different experience.

03:34:35.640 It has my soul attached to it.

03:34:36.940 Oh, it's the best pussy.

03:34:38.500 That's fucking disgusting.

03:34:38.860 Out of all the hundreds of millions and billions of pussies, you're the best.

03:34:42.280 I'm not saying it's the best.

03:34:43.540 I'm simply saying, to particular men, I am their exact taste.

03:34:50.580 She was the mouth that got away.

03:34:53.540 That's crazy.

03:34:55.000 What was that?

03:34:55.680 So I think the whole point is that there's everybody for...

03:35:00.020 There she is.

03:35:00.480 There's somebody for everybody.

03:35:02.220 There's a lid for every pot.

03:35:03.680 There's a speech.

03:35:04.180 There's somebody for everybody with different tastes, different logics, different solutions

03:35:12.280 or problems on how to deal with them, different viewpoints.

03:35:16.200 And it's all about trying to find your match and the person that you're the most compatible

03:35:21.040 with and the person that you actually trust and are willing to work with long term.

03:35:28.400 And that's fine, but by the logic of feminism that you're talking about, it's massive deception.

03:35:38.640 You're saying, feminism is saying that women are so empowered and we've got to get our

03:35:43.860 power back and this and this and that, but...

03:35:46.560 Feminism is just a branch of the patriarchy.

03:35:48.940 It's toxic.

03:35:49.800 It's just toxic masculinity repackaged.

03:35:51.400 That's all it is.

03:35:52.780 Yeah, but all toxic masculinity is to you, apparently, is any man who disagrees with you.

03:35:58.440 Any man who you think packages himself in a way that you don't like, you consider that

03:36:02.680 toxic masculinity by your own admission.

03:36:05.360 And I know for a fact when I was...

03:36:07.400 I'm not necessarily making that judgment.

03:36:07.740 I just know I have my particular taste.

03:36:10.240 Okay, so when I went to college, I literally took a class where I had to sit down and watch

03:36:14.560 documentaries on toxic masculinity.

03:36:18.060 Like, it was actually taught to us.

03:36:20.120 That is the epitome of brainwashing.

03:36:22.480 Because before that, I didn't feel that men were toxic.

03:36:26.120 I didn't feel like I was living in a toxic society.

03:36:28.540 But in reality, that was...

03:36:30.580 Brian, Andrew, I am begging you, with tears in my eyes, please stop the old, irrelevant

03:36:36.800 blonde hag prattle and let the rest of the panel that have dated in this decade speak.

03:36:42.380 Thank you in advance.

03:36:44.820 Well, hang on.

03:36:45.620 But they're engaging very well.

03:36:47.540 All of them are engaging very well.

03:36:49.120 This has been a really respectful panel.

03:36:51.200 And the truth is, Grid1, you would be bitching if it was the other direction and there wasn't

03:36:56.340 these kinds of exchanges.

03:36:57.540 And you know it.

03:36:58.440 You know you're my friend.

03:36:59.620 But everybody's engaging in good faith.

03:37:02.100 So Grid1, while you're right, and the patriarchy prevails, they are engaging in good faith.

03:37:09.760 Did the one from Optimize ATX come through?

03:37:15.380 This one.

03:37:15.900 I'll pull it up.

03:37:17.080 It might have.

03:37:18.440 Did this come through?

03:37:19.180 Optimize ATX donated $200.

03:37:22.100 This panel is an exhibition of the absence of real men.

03:37:25.400 That already came through?

03:37:26.600 Okay, just wanted to double check.

03:37:27.700 I loved that comment, by the way.

03:37:29.360 I do.

03:37:30.040 I'm going to move things a little on, at least in our notes, with you.

03:37:33.260 So you've made a bunch of these Instagram videos.

03:37:37.920 In your story yesterday, you talk of extorting men.

03:37:43.120 Do you care to elaborate on that?

03:37:44.500 Yes, so basically all the tactics that are used in sales and marketing these days, the

03:37:51.880 way that that was even developed is because that was originally the feminine gifting.

03:37:57.480 That was how we were designed to make sure we got our needs met from men.

03:38:01.680 We would do these if we had to.

03:38:04.840 If it came down to survival of us and our children, we learned how to be a little manipulative,

03:38:09.680 how to extort somebody to get a loaf of bread to feed our babies or things like that.

03:38:14.780 That's your sinful nature, being just that, like, we have that.

03:38:18.020 I don't, I would just, I wouldn't call it sinful.

03:38:20.000 I would call it survival.

03:38:22.040 I mean, we are weaker.

03:38:23.520 We're weaker.

03:38:24.260 We have the babies.

03:38:25.280 We get abandoned sometimes or the man dies and we're on our own and we're just left to

03:38:29.960 our own devices.

03:38:30.860 We've had to become, what does the Bible say?

03:38:33.660 It's as shrewd as, what is it?

03:38:36.280 You see how far the termites have spread.

03:38:38.720 I'm basically thinking of the concept of innocent as doves, but shrewd as a fake, but innocent

03:38:44.760 as a dove.

03:38:45.220 Yes.

03:38:45.660 And that's, honestly, I, what I can understand is that not everybody's had my experiences.

03:38:51.440 Aside from the justifications for the extortion, can you tell us precisely how you extort men?

03:38:56.840 That was just one example.

03:38:58.760 Okay.

03:38:59.060 So I had this boyfriend for six months, wealthy business guy.

03:39:04.260 I didn't, I don't do these things where I have guys take me on dates and all this.

03:39:09.280 If it's a man I vibe with and I enjoy his company, we just, I just go to his house or

03:39:13.800 he comes to my house.

03:39:14.580 We eat a burrito.

03:39:15.360 Yeah.

03:39:15.480 That's not what you were saying in the beginning at all.

03:39:17.400 You got your burrito.

03:39:18.320 You guys took some lines I said and you took it way out of context.

03:39:24.740 You said that you consider yourself a prostitute.

03:39:28.000 How could they possibly misconstrue that?

03:39:30.060 I said the energy exchange of tit or tat.

03:39:34.320 Is that of a prostitute?

03:39:36.740 Is that of a prostitute?

03:39:37.280 How could they misconstrue?

03:39:38.240 How did they get that wrong?

03:39:40.400 Oh, man.

03:39:41.540 Because the word prostitute connotes a woman on the corner who is so desperate, she will

03:39:48.800 fuck anybody for money.

03:39:50.300 That's what you are.

03:39:50.620 But you're literally saying.

03:39:51.300 I don't fuck anybody.

03:39:52.820 You said you were.

03:39:53.700 You said you were that thing.

03:39:55.740 That's what you're literally saying.

03:39:56.960 Your exact words were, I am just like a prostitute as far as energy goes.

03:40:02.540 Because I love to bring up these things and help people to understand how constrictive

03:40:07.780 they're being with their particular language.

03:40:09.920 Yeah.

03:40:10.280 If only they could be prostitutes like you describe yourself as.

03:40:13.580 What's the difference?

03:40:13.920 Then their life would get better.

03:40:15.320 Okay.

03:40:15.460 Let me put it to you this way.

03:40:17.120 This wealthy businessman that I extorted.

03:40:19.780 Okay.

03:40:21.260 I could have been requiring him to date me to be taking me to nice dinners, to take

03:40:26.760 me on trips.

03:40:27.480 I could have required that.

03:40:28.620 I could have said, this is the stuff I like to do, blah, blah.

03:40:31.260 I'm not about that.

03:40:32.940 So instead, I would go to his house.

03:40:34.680 You would have done that naturally, to be honest, if you were really feeling with him.

03:40:35.640 Can I finish?

03:40:36.840 I would go to his house.

03:40:38.480 We would have like free dates.

03:40:40.340 He got to sleep with me.

03:40:42.140 He got to enjoy my company for six months.

03:40:44.740 I needed to move out.

03:40:46.560 He co-signed for my apartment.

03:40:48.740 And in so doing was like, I got you.

03:40:50.900 I got you.

03:40:51.480 You need something.

03:40:52.240 It was an exchange for your vagina.

03:40:54.420 You're sleeping with him, right?

03:40:55.520 It was more of a friendship thing because we had-

03:40:59.520 Are you sleeping with him?

03:41:00.920 Not anymore.

03:41:01.900 Well, yeah.

03:41:02.300 But you were?

03:41:04.200 I was up until my life transition.

03:41:07.180 I moved out.

03:41:07.800 He co-signed for me and we split weights.

03:41:09.120 Oh, through your vagina?

03:41:09.420 There was monetary exchange.

03:41:11.020 That's called what?

03:41:12.420 What is that called?

03:41:13.380 I got my own apartment.

03:41:14.600 I did it myself with my own money.

03:41:16.240 He simply co-signed because there's these-

03:41:18.360 You can label it as friendships.

03:41:19.780 Okay.

03:41:20.120 Can I just ask the panel a question?

03:41:21.560 The whole panel.

03:41:22.540 Real quick.

03:41:22.940 Real quick.

03:41:23.300 Hang on.

03:41:24.360 Raise your hand if sleeping with a man so that he pays your bills, you consider that

03:41:29.860 to be prostitution.

03:41:31.120 Please raise your hand.

03:41:32.200 I thought it wasn't, sis.

03:41:33.560 Well, then we're done.

03:41:35.160 That's the end of it.

03:41:36.660 I am simply saying.

03:41:37.400 That's the end of it.

03:41:38.520 That's the end.

03:41:39.160 That's it.

03:41:39.620 I am simply saying, even there's tons of wives out here prostituting themselves out

03:41:48.360 to their husbands who they don't love.

03:41:51.220 That's not how that works.

03:41:51.920 They don't love them.

03:41:53.200 They're not even probably sleeping with them, yet the bills are getting paid and they stay

03:41:57.580 with the man.

03:41:58.360 I have tons of friends doing this.

03:41:59.600 So you're saying, hang on, hang on.

03:42:01.320 Listen to the way you have to qualify this in order to make yourself look better.

03:42:05.180 I'm not trying.

03:42:05.760 I don't give a shit.

03:42:07.180 Yes, I'm at the corner.

03:42:08.660 I have tons of relationships where a woman stays because she has no choice.

03:42:12.940 She's prostituting herself to her husband.

03:42:15.120 Now, let me ask you the counter to this.

03:42:17.180 If a woman is with her man and she loves him and he's taking care of all of her bills

03:42:22.920 and she, in exchange, is staying at home, taking care of his children, and when he gets

03:42:27.160 home, he has a hot meal, kiss on the cheek, and she just adores him.

03:42:30.680 Is she a hooker?

03:42:31.640 No.

03:42:32.100 No, that's a different energy exchange.

03:42:33.780 That's not a tit for tat.

03:42:35.140 That's a love.

03:42:35.660 So then you are a what?

03:42:37.820 I'm a what?

03:42:39.140 You are a what?

03:42:40.240 Right.

03:42:40.640 By that logic.

03:42:41.180 Okay.

03:42:41.560 So I'll explain it this way.

03:42:42.820 Right now in my life, whether we call it I'm in a dating phase, a non-monogamous phase,

03:42:48.880 or a prostitution phase, until I meet the man who there is that love where it's not tit for tat.

03:42:56.380 It's just I meet your needs because I love you and you meet my needs because you love me.

03:43:01.120 That's it.

03:43:01.740 So let me ask you a question.

03:43:03.080 Do you think that a woman who is not a prostitute, who's high virtue, has more of a chance of

03:43:11.160 meeting a man who would fulfill all of those needs that she wanted versus a woman who is

03:43:16.700 a prostitute?

03:43:18.100 Not necessarily.

03:43:19.040 Oh, come on, girl.

03:43:19.620 You know you're lying right now.

03:43:20.920 You're freaking lying.

03:43:21.840 I'm just simply telling you, my definition of prostitute is different than yours.

03:43:26.980 It doesn't matter what your definition is.

03:43:27.700 It's apples and oranges, then.

03:43:29.000 We can't have the conversation.

03:43:30.120 No, this isn't right.

03:43:30.920 Why not?

03:43:31.500 Why can't you have the conversation?

03:43:32.720 It sounds like you're obfuscating and running away from it.

03:43:34.900 Do you think it's more likely or less likely?

03:43:37.360 Y'all have a different definition of prostitution.

03:43:41.140 There can only be one answer to this because of the law of logic and law of excluded.

03:43:46.060 I literally speak to men all day, every day.

03:43:48.620 I know exactly what they want.

03:43:49.300 What I was going to say was they're literally coming from a male's perspective, telling us

03:43:52.920 what men look for, what they like, what they don't like.

03:43:54.920 And then you're saying, well, but I do this and it's fine.

03:43:57.960 If they say they don't like that, you're not going to find a good man.

03:44:00.660 I'm sorry.

03:44:01.140 These are not my type of guys.

03:44:02.860 They're not the only men that think this way.

03:44:04.500 Wait, wait, wait, hang on.

03:44:07.140 Earlier, you said Brian was perhaps the type of guy.

03:44:10.280 I'll put it to you this way.

03:44:11.640 Obviously, we already established.

03:44:12.760 Wait a second.

03:44:13.720 You said that Brian was your type of guy earlier.

03:44:16.440 No, I'm saying.

03:44:17.140 The switch up, I'm telling you.

03:44:18.560 I would enjoy getting to know Brian.

03:44:22.960 We might have some sort of a dynamic going.

03:44:25.220 Obviously, he's not going to pick me for his life.

03:44:27.400 And let me ask you a question.

03:44:28.640 How much would that cost him?

03:44:29.800 That's fucking disgusting.

03:44:30.760 Hang on.

03:44:31.220 How much would it cost him to get to know you?

03:44:33.040 Oh, to be honest, I would hang out with him after because I have appreciated his communication

03:44:39.420 skills, his ability to work through conflict.

03:44:42.560 I have appreciated it.

03:44:43.580 That's an endorsement.

03:44:45.460 I have enjoyed the energy exchange.

03:44:48.020 How much would it cost him to hang out with you?

03:44:50.180 It would be free because we already went through the cost exchange.

03:44:53.060 I'll answer.

03:44:53.660 Would I?

03:44:54.420 Nine, nine, nine, nine, nine, nine, nine, nine.

03:44:57.220 Yeah, Brian, would you?

03:44:58.440 Nine.

03:44:59.020 Would you charge?

03:45:00.040 Of course not.

03:45:00.980 Of course he wouldn't.

03:45:01.640 No, God!

03:45:02.920 Listen, I can even speak for Brian on this.

03:45:04.900 No, God, please, no!

03:45:06.940 No!

03:45:07.520 It's not always a money value.

03:45:09.600 Sometimes it's just the respect.

03:45:10.980 No, no, there's no way.

03:45:11.780 There's not enough gold in the world.

03:45:14.760 There's not enough tea in China.

03:45:16.800 There's not enough countries you could give.

03:45:18.880 There's not enough coconuts on the island.

03:45:22.080 There is no possible way Brian would ever think twice.

03:45:26.280 Just saying.

03:45:27.740 Just saying.

03:45:28.220 Yeah.

03:45:30.800 Well, Brian.

03:45:31.600 Tell me I'm wrong, Brian.

03:45:32.620 Go ahead.

03:45:33.260 That you would have no amount of money would make it to where you'd be open to that.

03:45:37.400 Open to what?

03:45:38.160 Her.

03:45:38.340 Open to what?

03:45:39.500 Her legs.

03:45:41.140 I mean, I want to be polite.

03:45:42.480 Oh, my God.

03:45:43.100 I want to be polite, but, I mean.

03:45:47.700 Be honest.

03:45:50.840 Yeah.

03:45:51.200 I want to go home.

03:45:57.420 Like, so my thing is, is that a lot of guys will make exceptions.

03:46:00.860 They'll be like, well, I wouldn't marry her, but I wouldn't sleep with her.

03:46:04.200 The thing for me, though, is I'm not interested in a one-night stand, so I don't, and I'm not saying this to mean me.

03:46:10.500 I don't know why Andrew's putting me on the spot here.

03:46:11.980 You're putting me on the spot.

03:46:12.700 I wouldn't even want to sleep with you once.

03:46:17.460 I'm not the one-night stand type either.

03:46:19.840 Unless your rent's getting paid.

03:46:21.740 But, yeah, you started this whole conversation saying everything was transactional.

03:46:26.280 It's okay.

03:46:26.680 A lot of girls wouldn't fuck me.

03:46:28.000 But now you don't understand.

03:46:29.960 The only guys who are paying any sort of rent are men who have had whole relationships with me.

03:46:36.320 I know, but the point is that you started off this whole conversation saying that you only give time to men

03:46:41.880 if they're giving you something.

03:46:43.640 Okay, but it's not always money.

03:46:45.240 It's not always money.

03:46:46.400 It could, like, for example.

03:46:47.620 But it's something.

03:46:48.080 It's the reason why, for example, I would go, for example, just to get to know you better

03:46:54.260 because I appreciated your humility and correcting your mistakes and your conversation skills.

03:47:00.580 I'm not saying we'd sleep together.

03:47:01.980 I'm not saying there would be ever any money or I would expect him to pay for my meal.

03:47:07.000 I'm simply saying human to human.

03:47:09.040 He is a person.

03:47:09.920 And I wouldn't mind getting to know a little better.

03:47:12.920 That's all.

03:47:13.100 So would you give up your OnlyFans for a good man?

03:47:15.260 Of course I would.

03:47:16.280 Of course I would.

03:47:17.100 If he really wasn't comfortable doing it.

03:47:19.700 But what's the difference between that and the best friend?

03:47:22.140 What do you mean the best friend?

03:47:22.940 The best friend.

03:47:23.880 Sorry.

03:47:24.120 A victim of course.

03:47:26.080 But, like, so you would say no to your OnlyFans if for your man.

03:47:30.420 Yeah.

03:47:30.700 But then why were you so against the saying no to your best friend?

03:47:34.460 Because we're talking about a job in a way that I make money versus a relationship.

03:47:39.260 Oh, that's different values.

03:47:40.660 Whoa, what the hell is that?

03:47:41.540 It's, you know, it's people versus money.

03:47:44.580 I'm not going to cut off.

03:47:45.180 But you extort people, so you can't say you value people.

03:47:47.880 Everybody extorts people.

03:47:49.520 No, that's not true.

03:47:50.560 It is true.

03:47:51.500 We have some Instagram.

03:47:52.480 It is.

03:47:53.040 I don't know if these are the ones I'm looking.

03:47:55.600 We'll do it later.

03:47:57.260 Well, actually, really quick.

03:47:58.000 Fuck it.

03:47:58.180 Why not?

03:47:58.440 Guys, if you're watching on YouTube, you're watching on Twitch, drop us a follow and a

03:48:02.240 prime sub.

03:48:03.120 Nick, if you can put, we got 1,000 people.

03:48:04.360 Hit the like button.

03:48:05.620 We got almost 9,000 people on YouTube.

03:48:08.120 Hit the like button, please, Nick.

03:48:09.180 Twitch.

03:48:09.820 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:48:11.540 Drop us a follow.

03:48:12.060 Drop us a prime sub.

03:48:12.820 If you have one.

03:48:13.680 We've got almost 2K viewers on Twitch.

03:48:16.300 Guys, if you got a Twitch account, drop us a little follow in the chat.

03:48:18.500 Guys, it's been 10 minutes since we've had a prime sub.

03:48:20.940 It's probably bugged.

03:48:21.840 So maybe one of you guys could just like do a little test and make sure like, you know,

03:48:25.840 the, I think the, the woke overlords over at Twitch, they probably like might've tried

03:48:30.540 to disable the prime.

03:48:31.440 Oh, there it is.

03:48:32.140 Yo, looser.

03:48:32.960 Thank you for the prime.

03:48:33.580 Bleeding honey.

03:48:34.040 Thank you for the prime.

03:48:34.980 Skelete.

03:48:35.400 Thank you for the tier one.

03:48:36.780 Appreciate it guys.

03:48:37.640 Wes, Lance 70.

03:48:40.440 Thank you for the prime, dude.

03:48:41.660 You guys are legends.

03:48:42.500 Thank you for the follow.

03:48:43.240 Thank you for the follow this guys.

03:48:44.620 Appreciate it.

03:48:45.240 And then whoever just came in there, you can hide that, Nick.

03:48:47.520 Okay.

03:48:47.920 You got to send those over.

03:48:48.900 It's almost a combined, almost a combined 15 K.

03:48:53.600 Oh, we would sure appreciate it.

03:48:55.220 Yeah.

03:48:55.920 Yeah.

03:48:56.240 We sure would appreciate it if you would sub over on Twitch, uh, whatever's trying to

03:49:00.400 grow that.

03:49:01.560 Um, so if you guys can get over from the crucible audience, give that sub, give that sub over.

03:49:08.140 It's been a great panel.

03:49:09.600 Uh, it's been very spirited.

03:49:12.140 Uh, I, of course I blame the girl in red.

03:49:14.740 It's all her fault.

03:49:15.960 She started all of this.

03:49:17.800 Hey.

03:49:18.900 He's kidding.

03:49:19.540 He's kidding.

03:49:19.620 Uh, thank you for the 10 gifted Duren.

03:49:21.900 Uh, and then Nick, we're going to pull up some of her Instagram posts.

03:49:25.400 I don't have the specific story.

03:49:27.000 It's, uh, not loading on my end.

03:49:28.800 There are so many Instagram stories, but, uh, we'll react to a couple of your Instagram stories.

03:49:33.400 Just pull up the first one, I guess.

03:49:34.960 So, wait, hold on.

03:49:40.660 Uh, make it one bigger, please, Nick.

03:49:43.240 Okay.

03:49:44.080 Here we go.

03:49:44.560 All right.

03:49:45.360 All right.

03:49:45.440 So, before you play it, can you read the description there?

03:49:51.720 Yeah.

03:49:52.160 So, I said, my favorite thing is to be compensated and taken care of for the value my sexy energy brings a person.

03:49:59.620 That way I can take good care of myself and my kids and still stay a very feminine, authentic woman.

03:50:05.180 I am really learning the art of receiving and going with the flow for the sake of my own good.

03:50:10.860 I've spent years in the feminist trap to, of trying to prove my worthiness beyond my beauty.

03:50:17.200 And, at the end of the day, people keep wanting to pay me for pictures and videos of my sexy ass way more than they want to pay me for any of my graduate level content.

03:50:28.720 And, at, and this year, I am surrendering to that, taking the path of least resistance.

03:50:33.220 That's fine.

03:50:34.100 Well, um.

03:50:35.080 Resting more, turning into myself, healing my nervous system.

03:50:38.280 It's okay.

03:50:38.680 It's okay.

03:50:39.300 And, did you refresh it, Nick, before you?

03:50:42.020 No, I didn't refresh it.

03:50:42.960 Just do a refresh.

03:50:45.000 Uh.

03:50:47.200 Audio.

03:50:48.060 These days, money.

03:50:49.720 Uh.

03:50:50.900 Um.

03:50:51.680 I have a little, uh, cash slot, a little hooker in me.

03:50:55.960 I don't know how you want to say that.

03:50:57.960 But, it's just a primal, obviously, drive to provide for myself and my kids.

03:51:02.980 Um.

03:51:03.360 I just love it when men are generous with me and pay me.

03:51:07.840 Um.

03:51:08.280 And, that doesn't, that doesn't mean that it has to be, like, a man I'm dating is, like, handing me all this money.

03:51:13.260 It could just mean guys compensating me appropriately.

03:51:17.600 Honestly.

03:51:19.720 Uh.

03:51:20.320 So.

03:51:21.420 That's really sad.

03:51:22.340 And, one thing I noticed about that clip, uh.

03:51:26.360 The whole, there's the cash slot thing.

03:51:28.520 You're also wearing a cross.

03:51:31.280 That's crazy.

03:51:32.060 When, when you say that.

03:51:33.760 I just thought that was interesting.

03:51:35.180 Yeah.

03:51:35.340 I do these little things on purpose because I'm trying to blend multiple different concepts.

03:51:40.060 Because, to me, a lot of the problems in society is this really black and white thinking.

03:51:45.840 And, I'm trying to blend.

03:51:47.460 I'm trying to blend the idea that, listen, girls.

03:51:51.420 I'm almost 40.

03:51:53.000 I already got married, had kids, the whole thing.

03:51:55.100 I'm in a different phase of life now.

03:51:57.200 Wait.

03:51:57.460 So, you're trying to blend Christianity and being a cash slut?

03:52:01.200 No.

03:52:01.520 I'm just blending concepts, symbols.

03:52:03.420 No, but I, I asked you about the, the cross that you're wearing.

03:52:05.980 And, in the video, you say, you're, what, what, something about being a cash slut?

03:52:11.720 And, you're, so you're trying to blend.

03:52:13.240 Well, she said she had a, Brian, she did say, and I'm gonna, I'm gonna make sure that this

03:52:17.820 is in context for you.

03:52:19.160 She has, quote, a little bit of hooker in her.

03:52:22.440 Yeah.

03:52:22.660 I do.

03:52:23.700 So, you're trying to blend Christianity with being a little bit of a hooker.

03:52:27.460 No.

03:52:27.480 I'm not blending Christianity.

03:52:29.200 I'm not saying I'm washing the cross.

03:52:30.140 No, no, no.

03:52:30.180 You said the word blending.

03:52:31.460 You said the word blending.

03:52:32.200 Blending concepts.

03:52:33.260 Symbols and concepts.

03:52:33.720 Right.

03:52:34.020 So, you're blending.

03:52:34.720 Yes.

03:52:34.820 So, you're, because you responded to that because I asked you about the cross you're wearing.

03:52:38.380 Which is a Christian symbol.

03:52:39.520 Yeah.

03:52:39.780 So, I, I'm a, I'm a provocateur.

03:52:41.820 I love it.

03:52:42.500 I love people coming up.

03:52:43.300 You mean, uh, blasphemy?

03:52:45.180 I see.

03:52:45.720 Yeah.

03:52:45.800 Well, let me ask you, uh, let me ask you just a very quick question and then, and then

03:52:49.800 if you don't mind, um, the gal in the back in the center, surprisingly for, for some odd

03:52:55.780 reason, even though she's a Pentecostal, she's been kind of based this evening.

03:52:59.340 So, I gotta, I gotta get her response to this too, but I, I have to ask you this question.

03:53:05.320 Are you familiar with the laws of logic?

03:53:08.840 Honest answer.

03:53:09.600 Are you familiar with the laws of logic?

03:53:11.520 Are you asking me or her or both?

03:53:13.600 No, no, no, to the, to the, uh, to the blonde, uh, has a little bit of hooker in her.

03:53:18.600 My name's, my name's Desiree, the hooker cash.

03:53:21.260 I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

03:53:22.460 Look, I'm bad with names.

03:53:24.260 It's actually not an insult towards you.

03:53:25.780 I'm just bad with names.

03:53:26.560 No, it's okay.

03:53:26.940 So, Desiree.

03:53:27.560 Blonde is fine.

03:53:28.480 Are you familiar with the laws of logic?

03:53:32.020 I'm not sure that I would understand the way you do.

03:53:35.060 Fair enough, fair enough.

03:53:36.000 No problem.

03:53:36.380 Um, one law is the law of excluded middle.

03:53:40.540 And so, what this is saying is that a proposition is, uh, essentially either true or it's untrue.

03:53:45.700 It cannot be somewhere in the middle.

03:53:47.420 So, when you say black and white, I, I'm not interested in black and white.

03:53:51.360 From a logician standpoint, they are interested in actually what you would consider black and white,

03:53:56.960 which is either a proposition is true or it's not true.

03:54:00.420 So, I need to ask you specifically, is being a prostitute good or is being a prostitute bad?

03:54:08.880 Not, so the proposition is, is being a prostitute good or is it being bad?

03:54:15.920 And using that second law, the law of excluded middle, where we can't get into the gray area.

03:54:21.800 Okay.

03:54:22.340 Is it good or is it bad?

03:54:24.220 For me personally, every situation I get into, whether it's prostitution, if we want to call it that, or whatever,

03:54:36.100 I only do it because it feels good to me.

03:54:38.640 So, to me, it's good.

03:54:40.680 Now, that doesn't mean that.

03:54:41.860 So, prostitution is good.

03:54:42.680 Only to me and the way that I do it because that feels.

03:54:46.020 But we're only talking about you.

03:54:48.140 Yes, because it's, it's different for everybody.

03:54:50.720 It might not feel good to you.

03:54:52.140 Wait, I'm very sorry.

03:54:53.340 I'm very sorry to interrupt.

03:54:54.800 Did you just say that prostitution feels good to you?

03:54:58.340 In the way that I do it, yes.

03:54:59.720 It does.

03:55:00.060 Otherwise, I wouldn't do it if it didn't feel good to me.

03:55:02.440 What?

03:55:03.620 So, then it's not a little bit of hooker.

03:55:06.800 Prostitution in your worldview, good.

03:55:09.800 I wouldn't say in my worldview as if it's good for everybody.

03:55:14.440 I'm simply saying.

03:55:15.400 But it's good for you.

03:55:16.860 For me, yeah.

03:55:17.780 It works for me.

03:55:18.160 So, then you're not a little bit of hooker.

03:55:20.180 You're a lot of it.

03:55:20.900 I'm a lot of it a hooker.

03:55:21.740 A lot of it a hooker.

03:55:23.320 I guess, yeah.

03:55:23.900 I just wanted to make sure we got some clarification.

03:55:25.580 Yeah.

03:55:25.800 Now, going around the table, I just want to ask the same question.

03:55:31.840 And if you can just raise your hand.

03:55:34.240 Is prostitution good?

03:55:36.260 If it's good, raise your hand.

03:55:37.920 Oh.

03:55:42.380 That's crazy.

03:55:43.880 Sex work.

03:55:44.740 Sex work might be a better way to say it.

03:55:46.180 I just want to ask.

03:55:46.780 Sex work?

03:55:47.300 Sex work?

03:55:48.020 Is that strippers?

03:55:49.580 Hang on.

03:55:50.620 Hang on.

03:55:51.560 Just relax.

03:55:52.740 The people who raise their hands, are you prostitutes?

03:55:56.440 No.

03:55:56.800 If it's a consensual thing between two adults, like in Amsterdam, and you want to do that,

03:56:03.080 and you're not hurting anyone else, you're not doing it with underage children or anything

03:56:07.500 like that, and you guys want to make it, then I think that's perfectly okay.

03:56:12.380 If I totally understand your position.

03:56:13.760 No, that's not what I do.

03:56:15.120 That's not what I think is right, that I should do it.

03:56:18.600 Why'd you raise your hand?

03:56:19.600 And then to the other gal, the other gal who said yes, are you a prostitute?

03:56:25.080 I am not a prostitute, but I...

03:56:27.920 Have you ever done sex work?

03:56:29.980 No, I've not done sex work.

03:56:32.220 Okay.

03:56:32.860 So then let me ask this question.

03:56:35.700 This is my quick, just very quick follow-up.

03:56:38.200 So if prostitution is good, why don't you engage in it?

03:56:42.980 You just do it.

03:56:44.320 So it is good for specific situations.

03:56:48.320 I don't do it because I have chronic health conditions, and because it is not good for me

03:56:55.260 personally to engage with, because I don't need that kind of exchange.

03:57:03.240 It is good in general.

03:57:04.460 You did not have the chronic health conditions, and you knew it would make you a lot of money.

03:57:10.300 Would you do it?

03:57:12.480 I've considered it, just because I do erotic art, and I do a lot of different things.

03:57:21.580 Wait, hang on.

03:57:22.300 Hang on.

03:57:22.820 Back up.

03:57:24.080 What is erotic art?

03:57:25.640 Well, I draw other models, other people, in erotic, but artistic, passionate, and a very...

03:57:37.420 What does erotic mean in this sense?

03:57:39.400 Does that mean they're having sex while you're drawing them?

03:57:42.400 That has happened, yeah.

03:57:44.200 Wow.

03:57:44.820 Oh, okay.

03:57:45.560 So you have considered having sex while a person draws you.

03:57:51.180 I assume you consider that to be...

03:57:53.400 Hang on.

03:57:53.660 I just want to make sure I get this right.

03:57:54.960 I assume you consider that to be prostitution.

03:57:57.900 No, I don't consider that prostitution.

03:58:00.300 I mean, no one's getting paid there.

03:58:02.440 But if they were, would it be prostitution?

03:58:05.500 That would be more like porn.

03:58:07.360 Or sex work.

03:58:08.180 Should we call it sex work?

03:58:08.900 Or sex work?

03:58:09.300 Or sex work?

03:58:09.840 Should we call it sex work as a more broad term?

03:58:11.720 Well, isn't pornography prostitution?

03:58:13.600 Well, that's what I'm saying.

03:58:14.300 Let's call it sex work.

03:58:15.320 Can we just switch the term?

03:58:16.740 Well, no, I don't think so.

03:58:18.140 I don't think I'm going to give a pass or we'll just call it sex work as though that's not prostitution.

03:58:22.660 Okay.

03:58:23.580 Yeah.

03:58:24.440 Go ahead.

03:58:25.180 So just to go off of your own point.

03:58:26.820 You missed, Brian.

03:58:27.080 You missed.

03:58:27.520 You failed.

03:58:28.120 You failed.

03:58:28.740 We tried.

03:58:29.960 So just to go off of your own point, prostitution is one thing.

03:58:37.040 And by law, it is in some places illegal.

03:58:40.480 However, porn, once you bring a camera into the picture, it is perfectly legal to do.

03:58:46.140 So, which is why, like, in general, prostitution, I think, is a good thing because it helps a lot of people psychologically get the release that they cannot get from the majority of people.

03:58:58.560 Have you not seen the porn statistics?

03:58:59.260 Let us assume we're deviating.

03:59:01.140 But we're not talking about porn.

03:59:02.540 We're talking about prostitution.

03:59:03.340 Hang on.

03:59:03.760 Hang on.

03:59:04.080 Hang on.

03:59:04.340 I'm going to give her a chance to respond to all this, by the way.

03:59:06.720 I really am.

03:59:07.700 But I just want to make sure we get this clear.

03:59:09.040 Were it so that you could make a moral distinguishment, so not all laws are moral, right?

03:59:16.920 Can you make a moral delineation between having sex on camera for money versus having sex on the street for money?

03:59:25.160 There's not really a moral delineation there, right?

03:59:27.640 There's not, and I do not think that prostitution should be illegal in any way, just like porn is not illegal.

03:59:37.520 Just because there's not that much distinction, which is why combining it into the entire sex work combination and conversation wouldn't quite fit,

03:59:48.160 because prostitution is different from pornography only because of the law.

03:59:54.000 Yeah, only because of the law, but not morally, right?

03:59:56.540 But I...

03:59:57.040 Yeah, it's the same thing morally, right?

03:59:59.380 Yeah, okay.

04:00:00.800 It's similar morally.

04:00:03.300 What's that?

04:00:04.060 It's similar morally because porn is also acting, and a lot of people on there are doing it for the entertainment of other people who ask for it versus one-on-one situations.

04:00:16.840 It's entertainment for the purpose of the person asking for it.

04:00:20.700 A lot of times, it's for therapeutic...

04:00:22.960 It's for the therapeutic purposes and for the...

04:00:26.460 What do you mean therapeutic?

04:00:27.480 It's because guys want to jerk off to it.

04:00:28.000 Well, because certain people have different kinks, for example.

04:00:30.800 Come on, like, let's be real.

04:00:32.460 Okay.

04:00:32.880 It's not therapy.

04:00:33.960 Go on a walk.

04:00:34.260 It's a bunch of DJs who want to jerk off to it, right?

04:00:36.460 But the thing is that people's sexuality carries so much shame innately that they can't go...

04:00:46.840 A lot of people feel they can't go and access those parts of themselves in any area of society except maybe with a sex worker or a pornography thing.

04:00:58.420 And so what I have loved about just...

04:01:00.900 Let's just call it what it is.

04:01:02.260 I love going to strip clubs because we just all know what we're here for.

04:01:06.500 There's no freaking guys lying to me and saying they want to marry me when they just want to sleep with me.

04:01:11.940 It's just...

04:01:12.580 Let's have a good time.

04:01:14.580 It's just on the table.

04:01:15.960 I think it's more ethical, to be honest.

04:01:18.220 Why is it more ethical?

04:01:19.900 Because it's a clearly expressed, honest, this is what you want.

04:01:27.080 This is what I have to offer.

04:01:28.720 This is how much it costs.

04:01:30.440 Here we go.

04:01:31.440 Versus, again, many women, we've all had these experiences with the lines with guys.

04:01:36.660 They take us on a date.

04:01:37.760 Wait, I don't understand.

04:01:38.940 Wait, hang on.

04:01:39.940 Hang on, hang on.

04:01:40.900 I don't understand why that would be more ethical.

04:01:44.180 Because there's no line.

04:01:45.680 Hang on.

04:01:46.440 If the delineation line is just...

04:01:48.720 Well, he says that he wants to go watch strippers strip and I'm going with him.

04:01:56.620 Why is that somehow more ethical than if he tells you, I don't want to go watch strippers strip with you?

04:02:01.700 I don't get that.

04:02:02.640 I wasn't even saying that context.

04:02:04.060 I was saying as a human being, when I enter a strip club, especially me being a woman, when I enter a strip club, I feel a lot more safe than if I go, for example, to a concert or some other thing surrounded by guys who think that they can come up to me and tell me whatever line to get whatever they want from me.

04:02:24.920 If I go to a strip club, I know what these men are here for and I'm only here because I'm fine with it.

04:02:31.840 It's a safety because of the transparency and the honesty of everything's just out on the table of why we're all here versus all these deceptive little games.

04:02:42.240 That's super weird though.

04:02:43.120 I don't actually understand that.

04:02:44.580 It's just real talk.

04:02:45.140 If you're in a strip club, do you think that women who work in strip clubs are more or less likely to be sexually assaulted than like a secretary?

04:02:53.500 They're actually a lot less likely because they actually have the street smarts.

04:02:57.640 Now, I'm not talking about the women who are just so sheltered.

04:03:00.720 They don't actually ever get into any danger.

04:03:03.360 Of course, they're physically safer.

04:03:05.180 But let's say I'm a social worker.

04:03:07.260 You think that prostitutes are less likely to be sexually assaulted than secretaries?

04:03:10.880 I'm saying it's simply, okay, I'll put it to you this way.

04:03:15.760 If you drop a secretary in the middle of the street in Long Beach because her car broke down, girl's not going to have a good time.

04:03:24.740 You drop a stripper, she's good.

04:03:26.340 She's street smart.

04:03:27.820 It's true.

04:03:28.580 I actually interviewed strippers.

04:03:30.280 That's a lie.

04:03:30.760 So do I.

04:03:31.340 That is a lie.

04:03:31.920 That's my work.

04:03:32.880 I talk to these people all day every day.

04:03:34.600 If a secretary got dropped in Long Beach, statistically, she'd probably be fine.

04:03:39.960 But if a secretary became a stripper, the statistics of her getting S8 dramatically increase.

04:03:47.220 Same thing if she's in any kind of sex work.

04:03:48.520 Okay, but you're looking at the wrong variable.

04:03:51.040 You're blaming the sex work for the danger.

04:03:54.160 It's not that.

04:03:55.420 She's putting herself in a situation where it's literally just men that do not respect them.

04:03:59.500 You know where I got abused the most?

04:04:00.920 I'm trying to say something.

04:04:02.100 In the church.

04:04:02.920 Okay.

04:04:03.180 Oh, for God's sake.

04:04:04.140 That's where I got abused the most.

04:04:05.820 Okay, the church, of course, every sector in life has abusers.

04:04:09.080 Well, it's really funny that you bring that up because in public school, you're far more

04:04:12.580 likely to be S8 than if you're inside of a church.

04:04:15.840 Isn't that interesting?

04:04:16.780 I was very abused in the church in my own home.

04:04:19.980 Everywhere I've gone, I felt the most safe in strip clubs.

04:04:23.260 Maddie, can you read this?

04:04:25.420 Sex work is only good for the strumpets and the devil.

04:04:29.040 Imagine losing your soul, your family, your morals, and your self-worth for someone to pay

04:04:33.760 a stick of pee-pee in you.

04:04:35.540 Or pay to stick a pee-pee in you.

04:04:37.560 It's disgusting.

04:04:38.260 That's fucking disgusting.

04:04:40.980 Oh, can you read this?

04:04:42.080 Holy shit.

04:04:43.120 Some women are worthy of their presence.

04:04:45.580 Among other things, they balance the evolutionary nature of the man.

04:04:49.480 They bring peace.

04:04:50.820 Blondie, that is not you.

04:04:52.380 You are everything but peace.

04:04:54.840 Andrew, there's a little speck on your microphone.

04:04:58.200 I've been noticing it all night.

04:04:59.780 I'm about to have an aneurysm.

04:05:02.900 Don't do...

04:05:03.620 Andrew.

04:05:05.600 You're killing me, bruv.

04:05:06.900 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

04:05:09.600 Okay.

04:05:10.760 Let me pull up these supers we have.

04:05:13.880 Maddie, can you read this?

04:05:14.860 Thank you for the Australian bro.

04:05:15.980 Brian, I know I'm in the same room, but I'm nervous to ask.

04:05:19.300 But let me on the podcast, man.

04:05:21.080 I want to debate as well.

04:05:22.780 Also, stop dirty talking to me behind cameras.

04:05:25.040 It's rude.

04:05:26.500 I'm exposed.

04:05:27.680 I have no idea what these guys are talking about.

04:05:29.180 See, they're kinky too.

04:05:30.020 All right.

04:05:31.820 It's out there.

04:05:33.420 Yes, I...

04:05:36.480 Okay, anyways.

04:05:37.440 All right.

04:05:37.660 Thank you.

04:05:38.380 Ante Kosovic.

04:05:39.600 Thank you, bro.

04:05:40.800 Thank you for the Australian 200.

04:05:42.540 What is that?

04:05:43.000 Like a croissant or some shit?

04:05:45.260 Okay.

04:05:46.840 Take you on a date?

04:05:47.980 See, I've never dated anyone for just sex.

04:05:50.640 As a man, I've only ever approached a woman with the intent to date.

04:05:55.260 Yet afterward, I'm the one who gets left behind because I'm so safe.

04:05:59.680 Your logic is BS, brown shirt.

04:06:02.140 Damn.

04:06:02.980 Thank you, John Green.

04:06:03.760 That's an exception, though.

04:06:04.640 That's an exception to me, too.

04:06:05.140 And I feel for that guy.

04:06:06.840 There's a lot of these nice guys that are like that.

04:06:09.540 I'm not saying there's not.

04:06:10.780 It's just there's a lot that aren't.

04:06:13.120 So it's rough out here trying to sort through.

04:06:15.460 That's all I'm saying.

04:06:16.180 A lot of sort through.

04:06:16.860 A lot of sorting through.

04:06:18.420 You've got to sort.

04:06:19.140 There's sorting.

04:06:19.940 There's a sorting process.

04:06:21.040 There's a testing system.

04:06:22.500 You've got to learn.

04:06:23.100 There's a sorting system.

04:06:24.400 Get a burrito.

04:06:24.880 You've got to sort.

04:06:26.240 Very complicated.

04:06:26.760 Do what you've got to do.

04:06:27.560 Now, oh, we have another video.

04:06:31.660 Let's also, yeah, let's do, go ahead.

04:06:34.020 Play the other video.

04:06:35.340 Can you try the copy and paste?

04:06:36.700 I want to try to see if we can get Andrew on this.

04:06:38.620 This is a really good one.

04:06:40.280 Wait, what?

04:06:42.760 What do you mean press on any of them?

04:06:44.260 And then can you control?

04:06:48.260 Yeah, that's me.

04:06:49.080 So control click on Andrew and then drag him over to the other side.

04:06:55.420 Yeah.

04:06:55.940 But a little up.

04:06:57.280 It should be magnetic.

04:06:59.300 It's going to fit.

04:06:59.660 There you go.

04:07:00.520 Okay.

04:07:01.860 All right.

04:07:02.540 Go ahead.

04:07:02.860 Play it.

04:07:03.260 It's not a real talkie right now, ladies.

04:07:06.620 The reason they slut shame us is because once a woman is fully empowered in her sexuality,

04:07:13.840 no shame is going to touch her.

04:07:15.860 She's fully confident.

04:07:17.220 She's a healthy, grown-ass woman.

04:07:19.400 She's very selective with who she shares her sexual energy with.

04:07:25.080 She knows her body.

04:07:27.320 She knows what she likes.

04:07:28.340 She never disrespects her body.

04:07:31.280 I never disrespect my body.

04:07:33.300 What?

04:07:33.660 I do all of what I do because that's where my pussy wanted to go.

04:07:38.240 We have intentions.

04:07:39.240 You know what I mean?

04:07:39.920 So once you figure out, though, ladies, that you can monetize pussy in whatever way you want,

04:07:47.480 whatever you need.

04:07:49.020 So money, men lose all their power over you.

04:07:52.260 Because they got nothing.

04:07:53.380 Sex will always sell.

04:07:54.760 There's a reason, ladies.

04:07:57.220 Now, we don't have to hold people in a person.

04:08:00.420 What, are you in the wind tunnel?

04:08:01.460 What the fuck?

04:08:01.940 Have dates with guys.

04:08:03.220 What are we going to do?

04:08:04.700 I'm just listening to real.

04:08:06.760 Wait.

04:08:07.320 So you said monetizing the pussy.

04:08:10.680 I just want to make sure I know.

04:08:12.600 How old did you say you were?

04:08:13.620 That doesn't have to be sex.

04:08:14.480 That could be your...

04:08:15.640 Essentially, you're monetizing your feminine essence.

04:08:18.340 But you really believe that's...

04:08:19.660 But hang on.

04:08:20.660 Hang on real quick.

04:08:21.220 I just want to make sure.

04:08:22.340 How old did you say you were?

04:08:24.020 38.

04:08:25.560 38?

04:08:26.660 Mm-hmm.

04:08:28.100 Ooh, you really put...

04:08:29.760 You put on the makeup.

04:08:31.380 Man, that looked like a different person.

04:08:34.180 Literally, that looked like a different human being

04:08:37.000 than the one who's sitting in front of me.

04:08:39.500 I'm not going to lie.

04:08:40.380 It looked like a different person.

04:08:42.840 The lighting was...

04:08:44.160 It was lighting.

04:08:44.760 I was out at the pool with my kids.

04:08:46.600 That was not the lighting.

04:08:47.840 And it was a filter.

04:08:49.200 There was a filter on there.

04:08:50.560 I wasn't wearing makeup.

04:08:51.500 I was just out at the pool and I just quickly made this video.

04:08:54.800 It was windy.

04:08:55.160 It was windy.

04:08:55.320 The sound wasn't great.

04:08:56.800 The point was...

04:08:57.880 The light was not hitting more correctly.

04:08:59.040 When a woman gets to the point where no shame can touch her sexuality, she is free.

04:09:07.620 Ladies, that could just mean that you become a model if you want or whatever.

04:09:12.160 But you're, in a sense, you're owning your body.

04:09:15.400 You're owning your sexiness.

04:09:16.660 And you're okay with monetizing that if you want.

04:09:19.440 You don't have to.

04:09:20.560 I'm not saying that.

04:09:21.600 No, I know.

04:09:21.900 I'm simply saying it's a very empowered place to be, to know.

04:09:27.560 I mean, I got, you know, bikini people send me...

04:09:31.460 Wear these bikinis and we'll send you money and just take the pictures.

04:09:34.840 There's a lot of perks to just being a sexy soul.

04:09:37.920 But you're talking about men specifically.

04:09:39.420 You're talking about men, monetizing off of men specifically.

04:09:41.740 No, she said monetizing...

04:09:42.840 Anybody.

04:09:43.480 I have women.

04:09:44.540 Women actually, you would be surprised.

04:09:46.740 I have a lot of female clientele.

04:09:49.900 I think it's fake freedom, though.

04:09:51.420 Because you're just, you're feeling your desires and it feels good right now.

04:09:56.420 And you, I don't know what happened in your past where it's like you feel like you're not

04:09:59.840 getting your comeback.

04:10:01.120 But it's false.

04:10:02.160 It's not true freedom.

04:10:03.240 You're a slave to sex.

04:10:04.440 You're a slave to having to sell your body to get something in return.

04:10:08.020 Honey, I don't have to sell my body.

04:10:09.580 I sell my body because it's fucking...

04:10:11.520 You're literally your whole motto.

04:10:13.180 I'm simply saying I am liberated to do it.

04:10:17.000 Can you say that one more time just the way you said it?

04:10:20.600 Okay.

04:10:21.540 I can't even remember.

04:10:22.260 You said you sell your body...

04:10:24.040 Because it's fucking fun.

04:10:26.740 Isn't that prostitution?

04:10:27.700 It's very fucking fun.

04:10:28.480 I told you I'm a prostitute.

04:10:29.740 Oh, no.

04:10:30.520 You were saying you were a prostitute.

04:10:33.740 Because I was trying to help you guys have a more liberated perspective, but it wasn't

04:10:38.660 going anywhere.

04:10:39.480 So, fine.

04:10:40.000 I'm a prostitute.

04:10:41.180 We can call it that.

04:10:42.240 I don't give a shit.

04:10:44.260 Yes.

04:10:44.720 I'm a prostitute.

04:10:46.260 Yes.

04:10:46.560 I stand at the corner.

04:10:48.080 And I suck whatever dick pays the right price.

04:10:51.860 Woo-hoo.

04:10:52.660 You guys found out.

04:10:54.060 I love.

04:10:54.220 Keep going.

04:10:54.940 Tell us more.

04:10:56.160 Stop.

04:10:57.080 Tell us more.

04:10:57.940 So, do you...

04:10:58.680 Oh, okay.

04:10:59.620 No.

04:11:00.160 Do you want to talk about blowjobs first?

04:11:02.000 What do you want to do?

04:11:02.360 Tell us more.

04:11:03.840 I want to hear more of the scope of the prostitution.

04:11:08.300 Okay.

04:11:08.780 Do you want...

04:11:09.140 The prostitution.

04:11:09.760 I got a great idea.

04:11:10.720 I will tell you the one example of when it really was a true prostitution situation.

04:11:16.040 Do you want to hear it?

04:11:16.940 Okay.

04:11:17.720 So, I love this story.

04:11:19.800 Okay.

04:11:19.960 It was so fun.

04:11:20.380 So, I decided I'm just going to try this.

04:11:24.060 What is the big deal with the prostitution?

04:11:26.480 Can I do it?

04:11:27.360 Can I actually go fuck a guy and just get the money right there?

04:11:32.360 Okay.

04:11:32.680 So, I met a man on whatever these sites where you meet the business guys.

04:11:37.600 Whatever it was.

04:11:38.100 Backpage.

04:11:38.600 Seeking arrangements or something like that.

04:11:40.060 Seeking arrangements, I think.

04:11:41.880 And, of course, I vetted him.

04:11:44.100 I made sure, you know, I like the look.

04:11:46.060 I like the vibe.

04:11:47.180 He's respectable.

04:11:48.220 Blah, blah.

04:11:49.300 We arranged it beforehand.

04:11:51.680 We pre-established a price.

04:11:54.400 He's going to take me to this nice dinner.

04:11:56.420 I love steak.

04:11:57.520 Da, da, da, da, da.

04:11:58.060 Very expensive dinner.

04:11:59.760 If things go well, I'm happy to go to his house.

04:12:03.900 If I go to his house, the price is going to be what the price is.

04:12:08.160 I stubbed it to him.

04:12:09.580 Well, how much was the price for the dinner?

04:12:11.940 It was just the dinner.

04:12:12.840 Oh, you just covered the dinner.

04:12:13.280 Yeah, it was just like a normal date.

04:12:14.480 So, how much was the price for the carnal knowledge after the dinner?

04:12:17.780 The carnal knowledge.

04:12:19.700 I mean, a girl's got to have her secrets.

04:12:22.460 No, I'm just curious.

04:12:23.400 There's no secrets here.

04:12:24.400 I'm sorry.

04:12:24.820 You're talking about this work.

04:12:26.320 This is a safe space.

04:12:27.820 You're with the girls.

04:12:29.060 You're with the gals.

04:12:30.040 You're with the gals.

04:12:30.180 All right, girls.

04:12:30.920 So, this is what it was.

04:12:32.360 It was my rent.

04:12:33.360 It was my rent.

04:12:33.980 $2,700.

04:12:34.860 Woo!

04:12:35.400 $2,700.

04:12:36.200 That's expensive.

04:12:36.740 But isn't that desperate?

04:12:37.820 That's a lot of money for some plus.

04:12:38.800 It wasn't desperate because I didn't have to go home with them.

04:12:40.640 I could have just had a nice meal and went my way.

04:12:43.160 But I vibed with the man.

04:12:44.480 Would you think that's empowering?

04:12:45.900 Like, really?

04:12:46.560 And I had never...

04:12:47.760 Let me just real talk to you.

04:12:49.260 My parents are very young.

04:12:51.020 They had me, like, as teenagers.

04:12:52.880 So, my parents are only, like, 57.

04:12:55.620 This man was 56.

04:12:57.540 I kind of had a little kink.

04:12:59.280 I had never been with an older man, like, that close to my dad's age.

04:13:03.180 We vibed.

04:13:03.920 The conversation went well.

04:13:05.140 I felt safe with him.

04:13:06.280 Oh, my God.

04:13:06.540 Who the hell cares?

04:13:07.020 I felt respected.

04:13:07.700 Well, we don't have to tell you the story here.

04:13:11.720 Well, I do just have a very, very quick follow-up.

04:13:15.560 Point being, he put the money in my purse when I went to leave.

04:13:18.920 And I was like, what's this money for?

04:13:20.420 And he was laughing.

04:13:21.680 I forgot that that's what I was even doing because I had had such a good time.

04:13:26.700 That's such a wholesome prostitution.

04:13:28.660 You were Julia Roberts.

04:13:31.360 You were Julia Roberts in pretty much.

04:13:32.920 Yes, I was.

04:13:33.760 It was fun.

04:13:34.880 I was living my best life.

04:13:36.240 It was a bucket list thing.

04:13:37.880 It was a bucket list thing.

04:13:39.660 Yeah, I get it.

04:13:40.240 I get it.

04:13:40.560 What is the main deal?

04:13:40.920 Let me ask you a very quick follow-up.

04:13:42.960 Hang on.

04:13:43.860 So, do you consider yourself to be a truth teller?

04:13:47.540 Yes.

04:13:48.240 Is that, that is a thing which you consider yourself to be?

04:13:51.680 Yes.

04:13:52.040 So, I just have to ask you this.

04:13:56.720 In truth, would you recommend that most women follow your lifestyle?

04:14:02.160 I would not say most.

04:14:03.160 No.

04:14:03.520 What about your daughter?

04:14:04.200 Good to know.

04:14:04.700 My daughter would be fine living my lifestyle because I've trained her from the beginning

04:14:08.340 of how to do it.

04:14:09.620 Holy crap.

04:14:11.220 Why would you know a lot better?

04:14:12.380 Why would you want to teach your daughter to sell her pussy?

04:14:14.220 That's fucking disgusting.

04:14:15.380 I'm not saying she has to sell her pussy.

04:14:17.500 I'm simply saying I am raising my daughters to feel empowered to make their money in

04:14:22.960 whatever way feels good.

04:14:24.000 That's not empowering.

04:14:24.500 That's not degrading at all.

04:14:25.500 That's your opinion.

04:14:26.700 It's not your opinion.

04:14:27.520 It's back.

04:14:28.040 You know what's not empowering at all?

04:14:28.900 Guess what?

04:14:29.540 Guess how bullied my daughters get because they're the it girls.

04:14:32.800 Because your mom, the mom is the prostitute?

04:14:34.540 No.

04:14:35.360 Their kids have no idea what I do.

04:14:37.620 Well, eventually they will, though.

04:14:38.820 But guess what?

04:14:39.780 I have empowered my daughters to come home, and because they are also little bad bitches,

04:14:45.440 they're not holding on to their trauma.

04:14:47.620 They're not getting eating disorders when the girls are talking about their big asses.

04:14:52.080 I was getting eating disorders.

04:14:53.680 I was getting raped.

04:14:54.760 I was getting all these things.

04:14:55.800 Don't say that.

04:14:56.400 Well, okay.

04:14:57.020 Don't say that.

04:14:57.360 I was not being treated well because I was raised by the good mom who we don't do this

04:15:03.600 and we don't do that and that's not.

04:15:04.760 You don't think it's just because you made bad decisions?

04:15:07.240 You did that yourself?

04:15:08.500 No.

04:15:08.620 It's because I was literally, we can't go into it.

04:15:11.000 I'm not talking about that part.

04:15:11.940 You can read my books.

04:15:12.580 I'm not talking about that part.

04:15:13.320 My whole story is in there.

04:15:13.560 I'm talking about, in general, you've made bad decisions, and now you're telling your daughters

04:15:16.800 to continue those bad decisions.

04:15:18.720 No.

04:15:18.980 Keep going.

04:15:19.260 It's wrong with you.

04:15:19.740 No.

04:15:19.960 I'm telling my daughters, you are so fucking valuable.

04:15:24.540 You put it to them.

04:15:26.060 That boy wants to talk to you.

04:15:27.440 Open your legs, daughter.

04:15:27.680 Have him bring you a necklace.

04:15:29.540 Open your legs first.

04:15:31.140 I am not going to teach you that.

04:15:32.600 Their body is a temple.

04:15:34.080 I'm not going to defend myself.

04:15:35.260 Most of them are caught, not taught.

04:15:37.180 They're going to look at you because you're getting triggered because you know it's true.

04:15:41.300 I am raising empowered women to do whatever they want.

04:15:46.120 You're not going to be shamed for doing whatever they want to do.

04:15:49.180 You can't help yourself.

04:15:50.140 You need to calm down for a second.

04:15:51.420 Just let me finish the follow-up.

04:15:53.160 The reason I ask the question.

04:15:54.780 Here's the follow-up.

04:15:56.300 If you could prescribe to most women to be virtuous or for most women to act in a way that you act

04:16:03.400 where everything is transactional, which would you prescribe in truth?

04:16:10.720 That's a complicated question.

04:16:12.640 I would say, to be honest, if I had advice for blanket to everyone.

04:16:18.240 Now, let me give you the question again so that you understand it.

04:16:22.320 If you could prescribe that most women be virtuous or most women follow a lifestyle like you follow.

04:16:29.020 Or.

04:16:29.620 So virtuous or.

04:16:31.080 Let them ask the question.

04:16:32.240 Let them ask the question.

04:16:33.400 Virtuous, meaning follows chastity, temperance, all of the different what you might consider

04:16:40.440 cardinal virtues.

04:16:41.620 We'll just make it easy.

04:16:43.120 Or philosophical virtues.

04:16:46.060 Or they could follow your lifestyle of purely transactional-based interactions with men,

04:16:52.700 which could lead to sex that pay their bills.

04:16:55.340 Which would you recommend for most women?

04:16:59.300 I would recommend my lifestyle for most women.

04:17:02.340 Until we get to a different place in society where it would be safe for women to fall back into the more traditional way of being.

04:17:10.480 They're just going to be dodging STDs for the rest of their life?

04:17:13.220 I mean, this is a very simplistic way.

04:17:14.980 Unplanned pregnancy.

04:17:15.560 They're just going to have abortions every two days.

04:17:17.560 No, they'll never be able to form an actual connection with anyone.

04:17:19.820 Yeah, they're going to be too broken to even form an actual connection with a really good man.

04:17:23.540 You guys, pussy is actually a muscle, so that's actually false.

04:17:33.680 A vagina is a muscle.

04:17:35.060 I hate to break it to you.

04:17:35.960 It needs to have exercise.

04:17:37.600 Or it gets very loose and not very fun.

04:17:40.400 Yeah, I feel like that comment is so real, you're grooming your daughters to be.

04:17:44.480 No, listen, that's not even true of female physiology.

04:17:47.860 That a vagina needs to be worked out by a bunch of penises.

04:17:51.740 That's ridiculous.

04:17:52.260 I fought for this country.

04:17:54.160 This is what I get to see.

04:17:55.820 I'm glad Andrew and Brian tried.

04:17:58.220 But holy hell, our baptism is detailed.

04:18:01.380 You are made over and of standard.

04:18:02.980 Anyway, why do you think that a vagina needs to be worked out with penises?

04:18:09.600 Why do you think that that's part of a female's physiology?

04:18:12.620 That's ridiculous.

04:18:13.280 It doesn't have to be a penis.

04:18:14.840 She can do her Kegel exercises with weight.

04:18:17.440 She can have her own orgasms that she can cause.

04:18:20.620 There's many ways to exercise a vagina.

04:18:22.220 She can work out the entire bottom half of her body without ever doing masturbation or anything.

04:18:28.080 She can, but guess what?

04:18:29.000 Sex is really fun.

04:18:30.380 She can do all of these things.

04:18:32.640 Why do you think it requires any sort of masturbation, penetration?

04:18:37.040 That's completely made up.

04:18:39.040 The vagina is not going to go bad because you're not masturbating.

04:18:42.320 It actually is a muscle.

04:18:43.780 It will atrophy.

04:18:44.740 You're actually wrong.

04:18:45.320 Don't do some squats.

04:18:46.400 No, I'm not atrophy.

04:18:47.460 It's a lot more complicated.

04:18:49.300 That would be that female nuns, their vaginas atrophy.

04:18:53.680 Yeah, their vagina is inside.

04:18:55.000 They get very numb.

04:18:56.180 They get very numb.

04:18:56.920 Andrew, that's going to be our band name.

04:18:59.640 Atrophy Pussy.

04:19:01.320 That's our band name.

04:19:02.140 All I have to say is you guys obviously don't like sex that much.

04:19:05.360 A nun's vagina is going to be numb?

04:19:06.900 Really?

04:19:07.380 Yeah.

04:19:08.260 But there's a lot of nun vaginas.

04:19:10.260 What kind of music are we doing, Andrew?

04:19:11.700 Hard rock?

04:19:12.640 You play guitar.

04:19:14.240 I'll do vocals.

04:19:16.580 I want sources.

04:19:17.560 Oh, you remained a virgin your whole life.

04:19:19.580 Your vagina doesn't work anymore.

04:19:20.900 Kim Anami.

04:19:21.440 It's most insane.

04:19:21.900 Kim Anami is the one to follow.

04:19:22.640 That is the craziest thing I've ever heard in my life.

04:19:26.060 And I've heard a lot of them.

04:19:26.980 It says the man who has a penis instead of a vagina.

04:19:29.940 But he's telling me how to die.

04:19:31.160 Wait, wait, wait.

04:19:32.080 Andrew, confirm or deny, do you have a penis?

04:19:34.480 Andrew, confirm?

04:19:35.720 Do you have a penis?

04:19:36.240 Do you have a vagina too we don't know about?

04:19:38.020 Most doctors, I'm sorry, most doctors who work on women's vaginas are male.

04:19:42.860 And you know that their success rate is much higher than that with females.

04:19:46.620 And they make their money by telling us that we need them to fix something about our vagina

04:19:51.500 because we can't just go figure it out ourselves.

04:19:53.720 They do have to fix things about your vagina.

04:19:56.580 They wouldn't have to if every woman was sexually liberated and understood her own body.

04:20:01.420 She was sexually liberated.

04:20:03.500 Oh, man.

04:20:04.160 Like, don't male doctors who are gynecologists fix your vagina?

04:20:07.980 I'm sorry.

04:20:08.520 I don't go to gynecologists.

04:20:10.900 I don't ascribe to Western medicine.

04:20:12.440 You don't go to gynecologists?

04:20:13.080 I actually delivered my own babies.

04:20:14.860 I learned how to be a midwife.

04:20:16.160 And I actually, my last baby, I delivered her myself in my bathroom alone by myself.

04:20:20.940 And I also did my own prenatal care.

04:20:22.620 So I am not the typical woman.

04:20:24.540 That's why it gets annoying to get judged as if I'm just like a comic.

04:20:29.460 I had a friend who had roast beef.

04:20:30.980 And she got to cut off in surgery.

04:20:34.280 All right.

04:20:34.700 So hold on.

04:20:36.000 So you don't take antibiotics?

04:20:38.080 I did get an infected, I got bit by a black widow three times in the same spot.

04:20:46.300 And my arm was starting to not do well with that.

04:20:48.780 So I did take antibiotics for that.

04:20:50.080 Oh, my God.

04:20:50.340 And I'm very conservative with antibiotics.

04:20:51.740 Well, I care.

04:20:52.020 I care.

04:20:52.420 And the reason I care is because who invented those antibiotics?

04:20:55.140 A man.

04:20:56.760 Do you use an iPhone?

04:20:58.120 Do you drive a car?

04:20:59.320 Do you have a home?

04:21:00.080 What does that have to do with anything?

04:21:01.040 Literally all built by men.

04:21:03.220 I'm not speaking against men.

04:21:05.060 I wasn't saying anything about men.

04:21:07.160 I was talking about vaginas.

04:21:08.020 It's our GPS system.

04:21:09.500 Okay.

04:21:09.880 There you go.

04:21:10.120 I have a question for you.

04:21:12.000 I don't know if you'd be down for this.

04:21:13.660 Do you think we could get your previous, like, your husbands on the show?

04:21:17.180 Do you think they'd be down to come on?

04:21:18.640 Ooh.

04:21:19.000 Interesting.

04:21:19.900 That would be a really cool show.

04:21:20.580 Wait, with you.

04:21:21.700 Like, so you, so they can't, like, so it's a conversation.

04:21:24.600 Okay.

04:21:25.120 Please.

04:21:25.240 So they, the last one that beat me, obviously, that's not a safe situation.

04:21:31.460 Well, we have security.

04:21:33.580 The one before that, he.

04:21:35.880 We can handle shit.

04:21:37.660 I don't, honestly, he's still very, he's still very.

04:21:40.200 If he put a hand on you, we'll fuck him up.

04:21:41.060 Yeah, talk to you through.

04:21:41.700 Would you?

04:21:42.180 Okay, so.

04:21:42.620 Well, no, no, no.

04:21:42.920 I'd like it.

04:21:43.280 I love that.

04:21:44.280 If he were to attack you in the studio.

04:21:46.720 Outside, you on your own.

04:21:47.520 He's such a coward.

04:21:48.160 He would never even, he's not going to come face to face with me until we're in court,

04:21:51.840 I'm sure.

04:21:51.860 Okay, so listen, this is not my request, okay?

04:21:53.540 Yeah.

04:21:53.720 So I don't, I don't care about any of that.

04:21:56.360 The first husband is too conservative.

04:21:58.400 He wouldn't feel comfortable with these types of topics.

04:22:00.520 Oh, he, the conservatives love the whatever party.

04:22:03.060 No, I'm just saying he's not comfortable fully with his own sexuality.

04:22:06.500 So these conversations would make him very uncomfortable and he wouldn't want to really

04:22:10.740 engage.

04:22:11.800 We'll keep it.

04:22:12.260 He's very, like, Christian.

04:22:15.280 We'll keep it clean.

04:22:16.700 We'll keep it clean.

04:22:18.000 If you're watching, let us know.

04:22:20.440 Ian.

04:22:20.460 Hi, Ian.

04:22:21.640 His name's Ann?

04:22:22.920 Ian.

04:22:23.440 I have to say, I do really appreciate my first husband that I had the kids with.

04:22:28.640 But I can understand, and I have told him this many times, it was at least 51% my fault

04:22:34.880 that our relationship didn't work well because I was the educated one.

04:22:38.280 Oh, really?

04:22:38.540 You're kidding.

04:22:39.160 I never would have guessed.

04:22:41.380 Look at, that's growth.

04:22:42.520 That's growth.

04:22:43.440 That's growth.

04:22:44.180 That's growth.

04:22:45.020 I have, you guys, I know I come across as cocky, but that is genuinely because I have

04:22:50.680 evaluated each, each, like, I will apologize to you guys if after, I'm like, I was so rude.

04:22:56.520 I'll apologize.

04:22:57.380 I'd like an apology.

04:22:58.020 Sometimes it takes a minute.

04:22:59.280 I am sorry.

04:23:00.260 I will suck your dick.

04:23:01.900 I'll suck his dick.

04:23:02.320 Wait, but why is it your fault?

04:23:04.480 Why is it your fault?

04:23:05.200 Or why was it your fault in the marriage?

04:23:06.580 Hang on, hang on.

04:23:07.040 I got to.

04:23:07.160 Because I did the thing where, instead of loving him, I don't know.

04:23:10.080 Just a second.

04:23:10.600 Hold on, hold on.

04:23:10.820 One second.

04:23:11.700 Listen, Brian is very partial if you want the best apology to bows.

04:23:17.340 If you could do a bow for Brian, I don't even want to bow.

04:23:21.000 I don't know that you are actually sorry.

04:23:23.480 Oh, Jesus.

04:23:25.200 Whoa.

04:23:25.860 Not that kind of bow.

04:23:26.840 I'm just a pessimist.

04:23:27.220 No, no, no, no, no.

04:23:28.260 That's a different type of bow.

04:23:29.000 I will bow like this.

04:23:30.700 I don't care.

04:23:32.140 But, no, you guys, what was so toxic about that?

04:23:39.100 Oh, do you still want me to talk?

04:23:40.900 Because I had an agenda with the man.

04:23:42.980 I wasn't in love with the man.

04:23:44.100 You still do that to this day, though.

04:23:45.260 You have an agenda with men.

04:23:46.100 I do, but when it comes to the men who I genuinely value and respect as human beings,

04:23:52.360 I have no agenda other than to get to know them.

04:23:54.680 That's all.

04:23:55.600 I didn't have that level of maturity when I was a young, I was in my young 20s.

04:24:02.080 I had to grow into not in a relationship that you're going to call a marriage person.

04:24:10.220 That should never be a transactional thing.

04:24:12.400 So, how many of those men are still in your life that you value?

04:24:16.100 And don't treat.

04:24:17.240 Oh, I have lots of friends and stuff in my life.

04:24:20.580 Men that I love.

04:24:21.680 I'm not talking about friends.

04:24:22.580 I'm talking about, like, romantic relationships.

04:24:25.720 What do you mean?

04:24:26.220 I used to do drugs.

04:24:27.660 I still do, but I used to do.

04:24:29.160 What do you mean?

04:24:29.500 What do I mean?

04:24:30.180 Romantic relationships.

04:24:31.720 Well, I thought you said she didn't really have romantic relationships.

04:24:34.460 Well, I'll tell you this.

04:24:35.660 I'll tell you this.

04:24:36.520 I'll tell you this.

04:24:37.180 My one friend with husband benefits right now, I have one friend who has husband benefits.

04:24:42.480 And he has husband benefits because he's a great man.

04:24:46.620 What's husband benefits?

04:24:47.620 Like, your pussy?

04:24:48.160 What does that mean?

04:24:48.600 So, aren't you with him?

04:24:49.020 Yeah, like, I do.

04:24:49.660 Is that anybody on the meal?

04:24:51.440 No, I actually don't sleep around.

04:24:53.320 It's karma.

04:24:53.540 Contrary to popular belief.

04:24:54.900 So, you're with him?

04:24:55.540 What's your body count?

04:24:56.500 So, you're with the guy?

04:24:57.480 I have no idea.

04:24:58.060 I don't count.

04:24:58.520 Madison's just going for it.

04:24:59.500 I have no idea.

04:25:00.540 I just love drinking.

04:25:01.160 Do you want to do range?

04:25:02.920 Range?

04:25:03.380 I honestly couldn't tell you.

04:25:04.880 It could be.

04:25:05.200 Okay.

04:25:05.480 I could give you a range.

04:25:06.440 Yeah, range is good.

04:25:06.920 It could be anywhere from 50.

04:25:10.220 It could be 100.

04:25:11.720 I'm not really sure.

04:25:12.660 It could be 1,000.

04:25:13.600 No, it wouldn't be 1,000.

04:25:14.840 I just haven't even.

04:25:15.900 You guys, I lived in the whole conservative life until only five years ago.

04:25:19.920 Yeah, but that's not so bad.

04:25:20.960 I know that's a lot of days to be getting dick.

04:25:23.600 For a woman, I could be sleeping.

04:25:25.240 And here's the thing.

04:25:26.060 I'm not going to go fuck anybody I want.

04:25:28.680 You don't think that every time you sleep with someone, you kind of lose a part of your

04:25:33.120 self?

04:25:33.540 No, not at all.

04:25:34.920 That's such a misconception.

04:25:36.280 I gain knowledge of myself.

04:25:38.140 But you're not able to actually, what is it?

04:25:40.000 The, um, like you're not able to actually bond, pair bond, pair bond with someone because

04:25:44.980 you're just, you're numb to it.

04:25:46.860 No, that's not true because I don't sleep with people on that level.

04:25:49.700 What about the guy that you said that is so great?

04:25:55.900 Why aren't you with him?

04:25:56.800 Because you say he's a great guy.

04:25:57.940 You don't have sex.

04:25:58.460 Because he's 54.

04:25:59.540 His kids are grown.

04:26:01.120 My kids are little.

04:26:02.020 Just realistically, there's not a compatibility enough there.

04:26:05.580 He, of course, the man would probably, the man would want to marry me.

04:26:10.360 Men don't have tits.

04:26:11.380 He wants to, he would want me in that way, but I have the wisdom to know you're not going

04:26:16.300 to want to raise little tits again.

04:26:17.960 Right now he's thinking with other parts.

04:26:20.480 I have to be the wisdom to say, we'll have a great time together.

04:26:25.260 Tits.

04:26:25.880 I'll help you.

04:26:26.760 So, essentially, he's very stunted sexually.

04:26:29.260 Okay?

04:26:29.580 He's very stunted sexually because he had a 20-year-old.

04:26:31.460 Yeah, I really cannot keep up.

04:26:33.040 I'm sorry.

04:26:33.680 Okay.

04:26:33.880 So, still don't say to 200.

04:26:34.820 Oh, he's stunted sexually, but he's a great man.

04:26:39.880 Actually very similar.

04:26:41.500 Okay, you don't need that.

04:26:42.320 I think it's true.

04:26:43.360 Oh, that's funny.

04:26:44.440 You know what?

04:26:45.160 I really like it.

04:26:45.940 Hold on.

04:26:46.440 Maddie, read these two chats, then we're going to go to the next topic.

04:26:49.080 Strumpet is wild.

04:26:50.120 After the patriarchy builds their entire fantasy world, they destroy men's lives and

04:26:54.320 say, it was at least 51% my fault.

04:26:57.060 Also, I lost to the matriarchy today.

04:26:59.180 Sorry, bros.

04:27:00.020 GG.

04:27:00.660 Next.

04:27:01.180 Yo, Stacey.

04:27:02.160 Good to see you in the chat.

04:27:02.960 Thank you for the message.

04:27:03.860 We have another one here from US Sapper coming in in just a moment.

04:27:08.380 Thank you.

04:27:09.220 Love your channel.

04:27:09.900 Hope to get out one day.

04:27:11.100 Andrew, keep up the good fight.

04:27:12.480 Brian, as a sapper.

04:27:13.840 I don't know.

04:27:14.300 What does that mean?

04:27:15.340 Essayons?

04:27:16.540 Essayons.

04:27:16.980 Essayons, as a sapper.

04:27:20.100 What is essay?

04:27:21.100 Hold on.

04:27:21.620 Let us try.

04:27:22.600 No, a sapper is a military term for somebody who sabotages walls or defenses.

04:27:29.080 There you go.

04:27:30.300 Essayons.

04:27:30.780 So it's like bring down.

04:27:32.000 The US Army Engineer regimental motto is essayons.

04:27:36.380 It is French for let us try.

04:27:38.560 Let us try.

04:27:39.400 Well put.

04:27:40.640 What's the other thing from World War I in France?

04:27:44.240 It is, ils ne passeront pas.

04:27:46.980 Ils ne passeront pas?

04:27:51.640 Yeah, I don't know.

04:27:52.800 Dude, I don't know about you.

04:27:53.900 I don't know about you.

04:27:55.040 Like, because I was born in France, right?

04:27:57.080 The French national anthem is the most gangster shit.

04:28:01.460 Because in it, it's...

04:28:03.240 What the fuck?

04:28:03.660 That's not...

04:28:04.080 That's definitely not...

04:28:04.660 That is French though.

04:28:06.140 Check this shit out.

04:28:07.260 The French national anthem.

04:28:08.880 It's...

04:28:09.380 The translation, roughly translated in Brian speak.

04:28:12.360 It goes something along the lines of, we will fertilize our soil with the blood of our enemies.

04:28:20.020 Wow.

04:28:20.640 Well, we also...

04:28:21.580 That's some gangster shit.

04:28:23.120 We...

04:28:24.120 We...

04:28:24.740 Catholics say, like, body of Christ.

04:28:29.200 What?

04:28:29.760 Wait, Maddie, could you read this from Stacey?

04:28:33.420 Question for the ladies.

04:28:34.500 Why do you think all major societies have had laws restricting the behavior of women?

04:28:39.740 Islam, likely the most restrictive...

04:28:41.640 Sorry, I didn't see the last part.

04:28:42.960 Feminism, the other extreme.

04:28:45.100 Well...

04:28:45.640 Why do you think all major societies have had laws...

04:28:47.720 So I feel like it's just in our nature to slip.

04:28:50.680 And I don't know.

04:28:51.220 I mean...

04:28:52.560 I don't know.

04:28:54.260 I don't really have an answer for that.

04:28:55.760 Any thoughts on this one, ladies?

04:28:56.320 I think it's a control thing.

04:28:57.800 And the sad thing is...

04:28:59.240 Hold on.

04:28:59.580 Let's hear from some of the other...

04:29:00.720 Emily.

04:29:02.320 Oh.

04:29:03.040 What about you?

04:29:04.580 I think that's not a word.

04:29:05.740 Poor Emily.

04:29:06.980 Poor Emily.

04:29:07.920 And Jess.

04:29:09.200 And Kashawn.

04:29:10.840 Kashawn.

04:29:11.400 Kashawn.

04:29:11.720 Sorry, so sorry.

04:29:12.580 And Alex.

04:29:14.320 And...

04:29:15.040 Dee.

04:29:15.880 Dee.

04:29:16.980 Wait, what?

04:29:17.380 And Madison.

04:29:18.120 No, Dee's...

04:29:18.640 And Andrew.

04:29:19.760 Dee's...

04:29:20.280 And Brian.

04:29:21.460 What was the...

04:29:22.240 What was it again?

04:29:23.020 I'm just like over here.

04:29:24.280 Why do you think there's so many laws in society against women?

04:29:27.560 Like, Islam is one of the most prominent ones.

04:29:29.840 Why do you think all major societies have had laws restricting the behavior of women?

04:29:34.080 Um...

04:29:36.700 I don't know.

04:29:38.040 Maybe because like...

04:29:39.100 All right, Jess, next.

04:29:41.520 Specifically, I think because...

04:29:42.940 Oh, were you going to answer?

04:29:44.080 Yeah, I was going to say something, but it's okay.

04:29:46.540 I'll just like...

04:29:47.680 No, no, no, go for it.

04:29:47.700 No, I was going to say, maybe just because like, um, that's like their religion.

04:29:54.440 I don't know.

04:29:54.960 Maybe that's like, just...

04:29:57.400 Yeah.

04:29:57.800 Jess?

04:29:58.640 I think mainly just because then women will start thinking like that.

04:30:02.440 Like that.

04:30:05.520 Hello?

04:30:06.700 You mean like...

04:30:07.740 Guys are so infatuated with a woman's body that we've taken advantage of what we can

04:30:12.920 do with it, and then they realized it, we realized it.

04:30:18.540 All right.

04:30:18.740 Okay, that's kind of struggling.

04:30:20.180 Wait, wait, wait.

04:30:20.700 Let's just move it on.

04:30:21.440 Let's just move it on.

04:30:22.140 No problem.

04:30:22.520 Well, let me just give the reader's digest the answer here.

04:30:26.980 Society also governs men's behavior for a reason.

04:30:30.300 So they tailor in laws that govern to men's behavior because men have an ontology.

04:30:35.920 We recognize that in law.

04:30:37.520 We recognize that there might be behavior, which is perhaps more violent or more vitriolic

04:30:41.740 or various things like this and temper that in.

04:30:44.560 Why wouldn't you do the same thing for women?

04:30:47.360 That makes...

04:30:47.960 It makes total sense.

04:30:49.380 If you have laws tailored towards men, why wouldn't you have it tailored towards women's

04:30:53.020 nature as well?

04:30:54.020 That's why that exists.

04:30:55.780 Interesting.

04:30:56.760 So are you talking like the ways in which men and women will...

04:31:00.780 The ways in which aggression will manifest differently between men and women?

04:31:05.820 For example, men will be physically violent and women will...

04:31:09.480 They can be violent, but they'll resort to like reputation destruction, for example.

04:31:14.480 Is that kind of what you're talking about?

04:31:16.820 So what happens is because most places, especially those with a religious connotation, don't think

04:31:24.800 that we're blank slates.

04:31:25.800 They don't think that men and women are interchangeable widgets.

04:31:28.760 So they tailor societal laws based on that.

04:31:33.640 That's why.

04:31:34.460 So they go, okay, there's things that we see which are very common with women, things which

04:31:38.860 we see which are very common for men, and we tailor laws between men and women for that

04:31:44.060 reason.

04:31:44.480 That makes total sense, by the way.

04:31:46.720 Why wouldn't that make sense?

04:31:48.100 Well, why don't we see play girl?

04:31:49.580 And why don't we see guys in Speedos and like...

04:31:53.580 What?

04:31:54.080 You do.

04:31:55.140 All like...

04:31:55.700 Well, why aren't they like...

04:31:57.980 Why aren't they what?

04:31:58.820 Putting their bodies out there like women are, and prostituting themselves on the corner

04:32:03.140 where it was like...

04:32:05.860 Why aren't they doing that?

04:32:06.800 Well, so it's a matter of...

04:32:09.100 Yeah, I think I understand what you're saying.

04:32:10.120 Not dressing like sissies.

04:32:11.320 Like dressing like men.

04:32:13.140 Like...

04:32:13.500 Yeah, I think I understand what you're saying.

04:32:15.340 I just...

04:32:17.340 Let me...

04:32:18.200 I guess we made those rules for ourselves.

04:32:19.840 Quick answer if you can, Andrew.

04:32:22.320 Yeah, so I...

04:32:23.020 Well, I just want to make sure I get it right.

04:32:24.980 You're saying why is it that you don't see men acting as though they're women?

04:32:29.560 Like hookers on the street.

04:32:31.260 Not dressed as hookers.

04:32:32.900 Yeah.

04:32:33.400 But...

04:32:33.720 Yeah, well, I mean, it's supply and demand.

04:32:36.460 Yeah.

04:32:36.660 Because we understand a man's nature is different than a woman's nature, it's very easy for

04:32:41.460 women to get sex from basically whoever they want.

04:32:45.100 If you go out with a sign tomorrow and say, come over here and have sex with me, there'll

04:32:48.960 be a never-ending amount of men who will line up.

04:32:52.540 However, if you do the opposite, if a man goes out with a sign, it's not going to be the

04:32:57.000 same thing.

04:32:58.220 So what we're looking at is we're looking at the difference between the nature of the

04:33:02.380 two.

04:33:02.640 Yeah.

04:33:03.940 But then the problem really comes in as who writes these laws and writes all of the

04:33:10.440 things in the first place.

04:33:12.020 Because the majority of times, women aren't really involved in the creation of all of

04:33:17.940 these...

04:33:18.780 I agree.

04:33:20.720 Good.

04:33:21.060 Because women are emotional and they're going to...

04:33:23.140 Oh, damn.

04:33:24.600 Oh, okay.

04:33:25.580 Go ahead.

04:33:26.000 Oh, I was just saying.

04:33:27.120 Yeah, like women are emotional and we don't always think logically.

04:33:31.720 And so when men make the laws, it's just for boundaries.

04:33:34.560 And I look at it even like from a biblical perspective is like God gave us boundaries.

04:33:38.500 It's like going back to the men who are leaders.

04:33:41.360 Why?

04:33:41.640 Because they hopefully are submitted to God.

04:33:44.200 You look pretty skeptical.

04:33:45.460 But let me ask you a question.

04:33:47.140 Like I see the skeptical look on your face.

04:33:50.400 I think that that's fair.

04:33:51.600 Have you ever heard this phrase?

04:33:53.840 Wait till your father gets home.

04:33:56.000 Mm-hmm.

04:33:56.500 Mm-hmm.

04:33:57.620 Have you ever heard that phrase?

04:33:58.920 Yes.

04:33:59.320 Yes.

04:34:00.440 Yes.

04:34:01.140 Except I was more afraid of my mother.

04:34:03.140 Yeah.

04:34:03.660 And she was the one who pushed the punishment.

04:34:05.960 Just stop, just stop, just stop.

04:34:07.500 The common, the common, wait till your father gets home.

04:34:12.160 This implies what?

04:34:13.760 That the father is going to what?

04:34:15.760 Discipline and make the choice.

04:34:17.500 Then I discipline.

04:34:18.440 And that generally they're better at it.

04:34:20.740 You know what you don't hear in society?

04:34:23.680 You know what you never hear?

04:34:24.820 Wait till your mother gets home.

04:34:27.240 Nobody ever, it's so rare.

04:34:29.220 Unless you're in a black culture.

04:34:30.680 Unless you have a weak father figure.

04:34:32.560 The black men are very reverent of the mothers.

04:34:35.020 Hang on, hang on.

04:34:35.360 Listen, there's going to be exceptions to all rules.

04:34:37.820 There could be a household.

04:34:39.580 Hang on.

04:34:39.920 There could be a household somewhere where it's wait till your mom gets home.

04:34:43.920 But for the most part, it's wait till your dad gets home.

04:34:46.720 And the reason is why?

04:34:48.440 Because the father is generally considered the disciplinarian.

04:34:51.720 Why?

04:34:52.060 Because the ontology of men is different than women.

04:34:53.920 And so when you look at it, you look at who's the kid going to be more afraid of?

04:34:58.200 Why are they going to be more afraid of it?

04:34:59.580 What's going to get them more in line?

04:35:01.600 It's not going to be mom.

04:35:02.920 It's going to be dad with the belt, right?

04:35:05.580 Or with his big ass hair.

04:35:06.420 Or the one who controls the dad with a belt.

04:35:08.620 I don't even, but we're not even allowed to spend anymore, are we?

04:35:11.600 You said something about black households?

04:35:14.160 Yeah, what the heck was that about?

04:35:14.980 Yeah, so I just have a lot of experience with black culture.

04:35:21.160 With black culture, and I have noticed that the average black man coming to me is much

04:35:28.040 more respectful of me as like a single mom, especially because the ones that I've been

04:35:32.620 dealing with, at least, they were always single moms.

04:35:35.660 And so maybe the dad would have been the disciplinarian, but in large part, they weren't even around

04:35:40.180 really.

04:35:41.060 Wait, that...

04:35:41.640 Is this racist?

04:35:43.000 Yeah, I'm not saying it has to be racial.

04:35:45.620 I don't think that's a more cultural thing.

04:35:47.640 No, it doesn't.

04:35:48.660 It definitely doesn't.

04:35:49.500 It definitely doesn't.

04:35:50.140 I'm simply talking about what I've experienced.

04:35:53.280 As a white man, I don't feel like I'm...

04:35:55.840 It's, you know, it's not my space to speak on this topic.

04:35:59.700 I'd like to defer to a black woman on this.

04:36:03.440 Oh, that's me.

04:36:04.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:36:05.180 Yeah, no, I was definitely afraid of my dad.

04:36:07.600 Whenever my mom said, I'm going to tell your father, or wait till your father gets home,

04:36:10.960 I was fucking scared.

04:36:12.200 Because I wasn't afraid of my mom with the belt.

04:36:13.660 I would always act like it hurt just so she would stop.

04:36:16.620 But then when I knew that my dad was coming home, I would literally cry in bed to her,

04:36:20.220 please don't tell dad, don't tell dad, because I knew he was about to discipline me.

04:36:23.540 Like, he's scary.

04:36:25.380 And I had both parents in the home.

04:36:26.320 What she's alluding to, so that you understand, what you're appealing to is the normalcy of X thing.

04:36:33.740 So, you could say, let's assume for a second that 9 out of 10 people have a single mom, right?

04:36:39.960 Then, yeah, sure, 9 out of 10 people might appeal to wait till your mom gets home.

04:36:43.880 But in the common denominators where there's both a mother and a father,

04:36:48.460 almost everybody in those dynamics appeals to wait till dad gets home.

04:36:52.580 You see the distinction?

04:36:54.040 But you, I'm also very embarrassed to disappoint my father.

04:36:58.640 Well, okay, I got to move things on.

04:37:00.700 Maddie, can you read this, please?

04:37:01.700 Because you're disappointed.

04:37:02.040 Oh, read this one.

04:37:02.800 I have lots of experience with black culture.

04:37:05.480 Typical white women.

04:37:07.460 Please allow the black woman to smack her upside the head.

04:37:11.500 Only if she would just say something crazy.

04:37:13.880 Well, just to be honest, I'm a street person.

04:37:16.660 So, I know I look white, but I honestly realize...

04:37:19.520 You're a street person, so you're basically insinuating all black people came to me.

04:37:23.220 No, no, no, I'm not.

04:37:23.840 I'm not.

04:37:24.660 I'm not at all.

04:37:25.460 But in this demographic where I happen to live...

04:37:29.780 The mean streets of Palos Verdes?

04:37:31.660 No, I grew up in Yucaipa.

04:37:33.500 I grew up in Yucaipa.

04:37:34.640 It's in the Inland Empire.

04:37:36.140 Which is white, like, it's dominantly white.

04:37:37.780 Right, so I'm just saying, though, I didn't identify with the white culture.

04:37:41.080 I identified with the Hispanic and the black cultures because that was the socioeconomic status that I came from.

04:37:47.500 The mean streets of the Inland Empire.

04:37:49.680 Hold on.

04:37:50.500 I don't know.

04:37:51.000 Maybe there's...

04:37:51.520 I, what's up?

04:37:52.620 Black people are more than just the hood.

04:37:53.840 Yeah, no.

04:37:54.140 Yucaipa, I work on white...

04:37:54.860 No, I know, and I know, and I'm not making a blanket statement.

04:37:57.540 I'm simply saying my experience.

04:38:00.140 My experience and my little...

04:38:01.440 Your truth.

04:38:02.020 My truth.

04:38:02.660 That's just my truth of my experience.

04:38:04.120 Wait, you...

04:38:04.600 My truth.

04:38:05.080 You...

04:38:05.400 What is it?

04:38:07.040 Yucaipa.

04:38:07.480 Not the truth.

04:38:08.120 Why you...

04:38:08.680 Yucaipa.

04:38:09.780 You...

04:38:10.020 C-A-I-P-A.

04:38:10.740 Y-U-C-A-I-P-A.

04:38:11.880 San Bernardino.

04:38:13.220 It's a little nicer now because we had housing developments come in, but it was pretty ghetto,

04:38:18.540 and I lived in the worst ghetto part.

04:38:20.540 I mean, I was almost getting kidnapped instead of going to school.

04:38:22.840 Yeah, Yucaipa wasn't safe, for sure.

04:38:24.440 It was not safe.

04:38:25.800 Uh, okay.

04:38:27.460 What is it?

04:38:27.980 What's the...

04:38:29.140 I don't know.

04:38:30.480 There's not very many...

04:38:31.860 What do you last know?

04:38:32.500 I just know it's not the black community.

04:38:35.300 Yeah, I definitely grew up middle class.

04:38:36.700 I don't know nothing about the hood.

04:38:37.620 I didn't grow up middle class.

04:38:38.780 I grew up...

04:38:39.260 So, wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:38:40.080 Wait, Nick, can you...

04:38:40.940 Can you look up...

04:38:41.420 I got everything I ever wanted from my parents.

04:38:42.760 Nick, just the Yucaipa...

04:38:43.680 Wait, hold on.

04:38:44.180 I'll do it in private chat, just because I feel like this is...

04:38:47.240 You gotta go Yucaipa from the frickin' early 90s.

04:38:49.540 But the fact that you even related the streets with knowing black culture, like, what's that about?

04:38:54.520 Hip-hop.

04:38:55.300 Listen to the hip-hop lyrics, you guys, and that is street culture.

04:38:57.920 I grew up on soul and R&B.

04:38:58.720 I didn't grow up...

04:38:59.280 So, listen to Megan LaSalle and listen to Cardi B, the way that these women are talking.

04:39:04.040 That's ratchet.

04:39:04.900 That's not black people.

04:39:05.960 But I'm saying that is my soul.

04:39:07.720 Scroll down.

04:39:08.260 That's my soul.

04:39:08.960 I'm sorry about that.

04:39:09.980 Okay, wait.

04:39:11.000 Ratchet black people, that's my soul.

04:39:12.700 Here, we're going to 2000.

04:39:13.680 I knew it.

04:39:14.340 79%...

04:39:16.300 Hey!

04:39:17.860 Scroll down there.

04:39:19.060 2000.

04:39:19.760 Scroll down.

04:39:20.760 Scroll down.

04:39:21.540 Scroll down.

04:39:22.700 Crazy.

04:39:23.860 Hold on.

04:39:24.280 You gotta incorporate San Bernardino, because that's where I was rolling.

04:39:27.100 Oh, you said Yucaipa.

04:39:27.820 I know that's where I lived.

04:39:29.660 I was partying in San Bernardino.

04:39:31.560 Zip it.

04:39:31.920 Good.

04:39:32.540 Zip it.

04:39:33.260 Okay.

04:39:33.880 Oh, I like that.

04:39:34.800 The racial makeup was 85% white, 0.9% African American, 1% Native American, 1.2% Asian.

04:39:44.420 I'm saying.

04:39:45.440 It makes no sense.

04:39:46.660 Dude, that's more white than Santa Barbara.

04:39:49.100 Oh, I know.

04:39:49.660 I know.

04:39:49.860 Which is like the whitest city.

04:39:51.060 I know, but what I'm simply saying is I didn't identify with that group.

04:39:54.920 I had to go identify with the other group, like one, two black people that you saw.

04:40:00.740 But I wasn't just hanging out with them.

04:40:03.220 I was going to San Bernardino and going into clubs, and I was getting into clubs, because

04:40:07.300 I have ass.

04:40:07.680 He is like heavy Mexican.

04:40:08.880 I would...

04:40:09.520 Black people love me.

04:40:10.800 Black guys love me.

04:40:12.100 Black people love me.

04:40:12.940 Okay.

04:40:13.640 They do.

04:40:14.200 Well, I mean, I'm saying the men.

04:40:17.000 I'm saying the men.

04:40:17.800 Confirm or deny.

04:40:18.320 I'm saying the men.

04:40:19.260 I'm the black man.

04:40:20.080 Maddie, can you read this?

04:40:20.640 But I can't.

04:40:21.460 This is too much.

04:40:23.640 Before we get into the ratings, I would like to say that the one in the red is a perfect

04:40:28.100 10.

04:40:28.820 I hope she finds love soon and won't have to deal with all the nonsense in the dating

04:40:32.360 scene today.

04:40:33.200 Aw.

04:40:33.860 That's so sweet.

04:40:35.440 How does that be simping as that, dude?

04:40:37.080 That really is.

04:40:38.060 What?

04:40:39.000 I'm sorry.

04:40:39.940 I'm sorry, everyone.

04:40:40.620 We're simping.

04:40:41.520 I'm sorry.

04:40:42.740 I'm sorry.

04:40:43.440 You need to apologize for being a simp.

04:40:45.900 Just kidding.

04:40:46.380 I love you.

04:40:47.080 I love you.

04:40:47.800 I'm kidding.

04:40:48.440 I'm kidding.

04:40:48.880 Maddie, go ahead.

04:40:50.080 How much is one plus one plus one plus one?

04:40:52.400 Would the question be easier to answer if we were counting how many pee-pees you can

04:40:56.480 house in your strumpet case?

04:40:58.740 Your general disposition has been abhorred.

04:41:01.440 You are delulu.

04:41:02.560 Delulu.

04:41:03.960 Uh.

04:41:04.860 Wow.

04:41:05.260 One plus one plus one plus one is.

04:41:07.980 Four.

04:41:08.860 There you go.

04:41:09.720 Doc Venabilly donated $200.

04:41:10.860 Hey, Doc Venabilly.

04:41:11.940 Alert.

04:41:12.540 Blondie has admitted tonight to the following.

04:41:14.640 Dating, prostitution, tax evasion, child abuse, spiritually barren, and now racism.

04:41:21.400 Notified the Demi Monday to CPS, Jesse Jackson.

04:41:25.360 Is a bear market coming?

04:41:27.180 Bear.

04:41:27.620 Do you want us to do bear versus bear man?

04:41:30.720 I don't think so.

04:41:31.780 Okay.

04:41:32.400 Yo, Doc Venabilly.

04:41:33.220 Thank you, man.

04:41:35.020 Yeah, we got more of it.

04:41:35.980 There's so much to get through.

04:41:37.060 Okay, so let's do the rating one to ten thing really quick.

04:41:40.540 So, what do you rate your looks?

04:41:42.720 Unfortunately, Stifler, when we cut the previous stream, we lost him.

04:41:47.560 What do you rate your looks on a scale of one to ten?

04:41:51.380 Me?

04:41:51.820 Yeah, starting with you.

04:41:52.720 Go ahead.

04:41:53.400 And it depends if I'm wearing a wig or not.

04:41:57.180 It depends if I'm wearing a wig or not, but I'm a...

04:41:59.500 A what?

04:42:00.240 A wig or not.

04:42:01.580 This is a wig.

04:42:03.100 So, you're eight without the wig, ten with the wig?

04:42:06.940 No, eight and a half.

04:42:11.980 Either way.

04:42:13.580 Naturally, I think I'm more beautiful.

04:42:16.320 But I'm within the eight line.

04:42:19.680 Of course.

04:42:20.940 Then why did you wear the wig?

04:42:23.560 Because it is very human hair, and if you're a girl, hair that's attached to your head poofs up,

04:42:31.160 and hair that is on a wig and is dead stays...

04:42:34.860 Well, wouldn't you be more naturally beautiful that way?

04:42:37.840 Hold on.

04:42:38.400 Let's just get through the segment.

04:42:39.700 Go ahead.

04:42:40.900 So, we're just talking like...

04:42:42.160 One to ten.

04:42:42.680 We wake up in the morning, and what do we think we are?

04:42:44.800 With nothing?

04:42:46.200 Can't say seven.

04:42:48.520 Eight?

04:42:48.980 I don't know.

04:42:49.620 Okay.

04:42:50.600 Nine.

04:42:52.400 Seven.

04:42:53.320 Eight.

04:42:55.120 Six.

04:42:56.240 Eight.

04:42:56.560 Eight.

04:42:57.100 Eight.

04:42:58.320 Give myself a five.

04:43:00.480 Why?

04:43:01.740 Andrew.

04:43:03.000 What about you, Andrew?

04:43:04.860 Well, I mean, if the comparison here is all these eights, then I'm going to give myself an 11.

04:43:12.940 I like it.

04:43:14.160 I like your stuff.

04:43:15.120 There you go.

04:43:15.880 The most unbelievably delusional shit that I've ever heard.

04:43:19.800 First of all, there's not even a woman here who's an eight.

04:43:22.520 I'm just going to be honest with you.

04:43:23.600 Not even one who's an eight.

04:43:25.420 Oh, sorry, Maddie.

04:43:26.280 Not a one.

04:43:27.140 And the thing is, is a lot of you are likable.

04:43:29.560 Maybe, perhaps, not the blonde.

04:43:30.700 But many of you are very likable people.

04:43:33.500 But how delusional can you be?

04:43:35.580 You're not eights.

04:43:36.600 That's ridiculous.

04:43:37.640 It's ridiculous.

04:43:38.500 I have this conversation.

04:43:40.160 Wait, what?

04:43:40.600 We just saw a video of the chatty Cathy here.

04:43:43.340 I said I was a seven.

04:43:44.540 I never said I was an eight.

04:43:45.560 In that video, she didn't even look nearly like what she looks like in studio right now.

04:43:50.520 I mean, you guys could all see it.

04:43:52.640 In what world do you live in where you think you're eights?

04:43:55.300 Can I say something?

04:43:57.220 I have this conversation with my friends all the time.

04:43:59.720 To some people, I'm an eight.

04:44:01.200 To some people, I'm a three.

04:44:02.540 Like, it is what it is.

04:44:03.720 But personally, I'm going to lean more towards the ten side because I want...

04:44:10.620 No, like, I'm saying eight because if I'm a three, then where's my confidence at?

04:44:15.560 How am I going to walk into a room?

04:44:16.620 How am I going to project my conversations?

04:44:17.780 Let me ask this question a different way.

04:44:18.920 Okay.

04:44:19.300 Let me ask it a different way.

04:44:20.380 So, in my opinion, Scarlett Johansson in her prime is an eight.

04:44:25.880 No, she a ten.

04:44:26.420 If we go around the table again from Scarlett Johansson in her prime as being an eight,

04:44:31.520 do any of your answers change?

04:44:33.220 Yeah, and we all have different scales.

04:44:35.560 I think that's what happens, too.

04:44:36.920 I'm not thinking of Scarlett Johansson.

04:44:38.480 I'm thinking about here.

04:44:39.140 Yeah, so what would you be if Scarlett Johansson in her prime is an eight?

04:44:42.020 What are you?

04:44:43.280 A solid three.

04:44:45.240 A solid three?

04:44:47.040 A solid three.

04:44:47.840 But here in this room, if we're going to do this here, I would say eight.

04:44:53.520 I mean, this is an example of toxic masculinity.

04:44:56.240 Why are we comparing?

04:44:57.520 It doesn't make sense.

04:44:59.000 It's being in touch with reality.

04:45:01.000 I don't understand.

04:45:01.640 In what way?

04:45:03.180 It's just reality.

04:45:04.660 Like, some people...

04:45:05.140 Objective standard for things which are clearly objective and you're competing for.

04:45:09.280 If you weren't competing for it, then why is it that you would answer to the scale in the first place?

04:45:14.540 Well, you just asked us.

04:45:16.080 I think we were just trying to comply.

04:45:17.480 What's your favorite color?

04:45:18.900 Yeah, you were trying to comply with what?

04:45:22.160 What you consider a male standard for beauty.

04:45:24.640 Fair enough.

04:45:25.320 True.

04:45:25.640 I'll even concede that it could be a male standard of beauty.

04:45:27.720 But I think we all answered what we thought of ourselves.

04:45:29.780 So if it's a male standard of beauty and Scarlett Johansson's an eight, can you tell me what that makes you?

04:45:33.620 Well, I'm going best off of what my boyfriend tells me.

04:45:35.680 He'd be gassing me.

04:45:36.160 Not you.

04:45:36.460 So he could be lying.

04:45:37.600 But you know what?

04:45:38.040 I'm going to go based off that.

04:45:38.700 To the blonde.

04:45:39.900 What was your question?

04:45:40.360 If Scarlett Johansson was an eight in her prime, what are you?

04:45:44.340 I'd say I'm an eight, too.

04:45:45.400 So you look like Scarlett Johansson in her prime.

04:45:50.520 I think I'm a very beautiful woman.

04:45:52.420 I think she's a very beautiful woman.

04:45:53.900 I don't see that there's a discrepancy there.

04:45:56.900 We all have our moments of rolling out of bed and we all have a glam up look.

04:46:00.520 So I just want to make sure that if we were to put you and Scarlett Johansson in her prime in front of every man inside of the world that you think that they would consider you and Scarlett Johansson on par with each other.

04:46:15.620 I do because different men have different flavors.

04:46:18.120 So maybe half of them would like her better and half of them would like me better.

04:46:20.640 I don't see that, too, but the reality is if we have two flowers and some of them don't look at my boobs whatsoever and their eyes go straight down to my feet.

04:46:29.600 Okay, that's true.

04:46:30.740 But if we're looking at two flowers and one flower has dents in it, it has leaves removed.

04:46:43.080 It's still beautiful.

04:46:44.080 It's a flower.

04:46:44.720 But if you're looking at a rose that is just like in its prime, we're going to be like, oh, I'm going to choose this one to give to my mom because the reality is.

04:46:51.560 You know what?

04:46:52.060 You're totally right.

04:46:53.740 Me and Hugo Jackson in his prime, we're exactly the same.

04:46:58.640 We look exactly.

04:46:59.700 You know what?

04:47:00.420 If he's a 10 as a man, I'm also a 10 as a man then.

04:47:05.320 I guess we'll just do it that way.

04:47:06.780 I'll be as delusional as you guys are.

04:47:08.800 I don't think I'm delusional in any sense.

04:47:10.740 Love-looking men on planet Earth, I'm on par with him because I really feel like I should be.

04:47:14.820 All right, hold on, hold on.

04:47:15.560 So is your wife, what is your wife on a scale of 1 to 10?

04:47:20.720 What is your husband on a scale of 1 to 10?

04:47:22.580 I don't have a husband.

04:47:24.040 What is your boyfriend?

04:47:25.020 I'm pretty sure you think that your wife is the most beautiful woman in the world.

04:47:27.980 He's a 10.

04:47:28.680 No.

04:47:29.240 He's actually.

04:47:29.780 I still have a, listen.

04:47:31.260 Wait, hold on.

04:47:31.840 You answer me.

04:47:32.660 Hold on.

04:47:33.100 Answer me first.

04:47:34.820 So like, for instance, let us assume for a second that we were to rewind 20 years.

04:47:39.520 And I were to go 20 years ago when my wife was in her 20s instead.

04:47:44.300 And you were to say, can I have the same woman just in the 20-year-old body versus the 40-some-year-old body?

04:47:51.340 I would say, sure.

04:47:52.860 What would actually be problematic with that?

04:47:55.760 No, okay.

04:47:56.200 I'm just glad he said that.

04:47:57.220 Okay, then we can cut that.

04:47:57.860 No, no, no, no, no.

04:47:58.440 Answer my question.

04:47:59.320 No.

04:47:59.660 What would be problematic with that?

04:48:01.400 I would say it's not problematic, but it would probably hurt your wife's feelings, but it's reality.

04:48:08.500 Not only would it not hurt her feelings, but why do you think she keeps her ass in shape?

04:48:11.500 She keeps her ass in shape.

04:48:12.440 Oh, 100%.

04:48:13.000 Because she wants to look the best that she possibly can for her age.

04:48:15.500 Right, but she's going to age regardless, though, because.

04:48:18.280 She wants to maintain her relationship.

04:48:19.460 Because.

04:48:20.520 She wants to.

04:48:20.940 Hold on.

04:48:21.700 I'm sorry.

04:48:22.140 Go ahead.

04:48:22.300 Be a good mom, a good wife, a good partner.

04:48:25.060 Like, that's why she gets.

04:48:26.660 So, but, but, okay, but, so you're saying that age is going to change the number that

04:48:31.260 you give your wife?

04:48:32.480 And that's okay if it does.

04:48:33.620 I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from.

04:48:35.360 Yeah, I mean, well, of course, I think that beauty standards are at least reasonably objective.

04:48:39.980 Yeah, okay, I agree with you.

04:48:41.340 And I think that my wife would be the first one to tell you that she knows that that's

04:48:44.060 true.

04:48:44.980 And so the thing is, is that while it may be true that she thinks I'm better looking than

04:48:49.820 she is, or I think she's better looking than I am, it doesn't mean that I think that

04:48:53.980 she's the same or equal in beauty standards to Scarlett Johansson in her prime.

04:48:58.280 I'm not delusional.

04:48:59.440 Yeah, but if we're doing comparisons, that's a completely different conversation.

04:49:05.200 Wait, hold on one second.

04:49:05.860 Hold on.

04:49:06.220 If we're doing comparisons with other, like, female celebrities, like Angelina Jolie, that's

04:49:11.900 different.

04:49:12.720 I honestly think that I am an eight.

04:49:14.460 I'm not ugly.

04:49:15.400 My body's tight.

04:49:16.360 I work out.

04:49:16.700 Based on what?

04:49:17.900 What do you mean?

04:49:18.820 Based on my body and everything.

04:49:20.560 Like the average woman in America.

04:49:21.980 For like, I think, I think I am an eight.

04:49:25.160 I'm not being delusional.

04:49:26.400 I think you're a 10.

04:49:27.220 I'm not ugly without makeup.

04:49:28.140 I think you're a 10.

04:49:28.540 I think we all understand.

04:49:29.980 I understand the assertion.

04:49:30.560 I don't think I'm hinted.

04:49:31.580 I think there's always room for a moment.

04:49:33.280 What are the things that make you an eight?

04:49:35.660 I think that because I don't have like fake lips, I, well, the only thing that's fake on

04:49:40.560 me is like my nails, but my makeup looks nice.

04:49:42.840 I look nice when I'm natural.

04:49:44.480 Your lashes.

04:49:45.100 My lashes.

04:49:46.020 I work out a lot.

04:49:46.960 So I keep my body nice and fit.

04:49:48.900 Like I'm health conscious.

04:49:50.100 Your hair is beautiful.

04:49:51.220 Your skin is beautiful.

04:49:52.020 That's totally fair.

04:49:52.980 So now let me ask you this, since you're going off of kind of this objective standard, I think

04:49:57.300 that you're trying to move towards something which is objective.

04:49:59.640 Is there any woman in this room who's prettier than you?

04:50:03.400 What, my honest opinion?

04:50:04.880 Yeah.

04:50:06.860 No.

04:50:08.040 No.

04:50:09.280 And now let me ask, let me ask back to the blonde.

04:50:12.300 Is she prettier than you?

04:50:13.720 I do believe she has a, more of an exotic beauty that I think is more attractive.

04:50:17.880 Then why aren't you a nine?

04:50:20.140 Got him.

04:50:20.820 Wait, why am I not a nine?

04:50:22.260 What?

04:50:22.680 She's an eight.

04:50:23.280 Yeah.

04:50:23.300 She's prettier than you.

04:50:24.400 She rated herself an eight.

04:50:25.420 How come you're not a nine?

04:50:26.680 I said, no, I said she's prettier than me.

04:50:29.840 I know.

04:50:30.540 She rated herself an eight.

04:50:31.760 You rated yourself an eight.

04:50:32.820 How come you're not a nine?

04:50:34.200 I went first.

04:50:35.040 Why am I not a nine?

04:50:35.880 Or she's not a nine.

04:50:36.800 How come she's not a nine and you're an eight?

04:50:38.320 But I thought it was just our own personal, how we think of her.

04:50:40.200 Yeah, I saw.

04:50:40.840 That's a little messy.

04:50:41.720 I wasn't comparing.

04:50:42.160 You can't relate.

04:50:43.020 I wasn't comparing.

04:50:43.380 I see what you're doing, but it doesn't really work.

04:50:45.040 If you compare me to Megan Good, obviously Megan Good is better than me.

04:50:47.200 No, no, it does.

04:50:47.660 It does really work.

04:50:48.680 And let me explain it now.

04:50:48.900 No, because she went first.

04:50:50.280 Yeah, I went first.

04:50:51.160 So I go as I'm comparing to her.

04:50:52.420 She thinks she's the prettiest woman in the room.

04:50:54.460 Was it worse?

04:50:54.880 And yet all of you rate yourself the same way that she rates herself.

04:50:57.940 So yeah, she should have gone higher.

04:50:59.160 Aren't all of you essentially saying that you believe that you're on par with her?

04:51:04.360 No.

04:51:04.660 We weren't comparing each other to each other.

04:51:07.800 We were just looking at from, I was looking at it myself compared to the average woman

04:51:12.740 in America.

04:51:13.380 That's honestly what I did.

04:51:14.480 The average woman in America.

04:51:15.160 I think we all had different scales.

04:51:16.440 That's the problem.

04:51:17.240 I was looking at myself compared to myself.

04:51:18.480 Yeah.

04:51:18.760 Okay, sis.

04:51:20.620 Exactly.

04:51:21.600 I was the person I was yesterday.

04:51:22.860 Would I date myself or would I not?

04:51:24.900 I would not date myself because I'm not a lesbian.

04:51:27.700 I don't even care about the average.

04:51:30.660 Okay, so now let's try just a quick social experiment.

04:51:36.080 Hang on.

04:51:36.500 Let's just try a quick social experiment.

04:51:38.640 We know that this gal, I'm sorry, I don't remember your name in the yellow top.

04:51:43.060 Oh, Kishwan.

04:51:44.600 What's that?

04:51:45.380 Kishwan.

04:51:46.600 Okay, so since I'm just going to call you Kay because that's a pretty long name.

04:51:50.480 Okay, so since Kay says she's the prettiest girl in the room, will anybody raise their

04:51:55.940 hand and say they're prettier than Kay?

04:51:59.900 You're prettier than Kay.

04:52:01.620 And you're prettier than Kay.

04:52:02.920 Okay.

04:52:03.660 So is Kay delusional?

04:52:06.020 I feel like I'm equal.

04:52:07.720 Am I equal?

04:52:08.640 Yeah.

04:52:09.160 And can I say that I'm a 10 or 11 or 12 or 100?

04:52:14.260 Yeah, what makes you prettier than Kay?

04:52:16.040 I mean, we should look at all the same.

04:52:19.520 Why are we compared?

04:52:21.120 But the thing is, why are we compared?

04:52:22.860 We can have one man stand in the room and think that she's prettier.

04:52:29.100 But then we have another man can be like, no, I'm prettier.

04:52:33.160 I mean, it's just a matter of taste.

04:52:35.600 It's a matter of taste.

04:52:36.840 Exactly.

04:52:37.800 Hang on.

04:52:38.380 We got it.

04:52:38.780 Let's try this one at a time.

04:52:40.300 So the two gals raise their hand.

04:52:41.620 First in the center, right?

04:52:43.320 The Pentecostal.

04:52:44.040 Pentecostal.

04:52:44.680 What makes you prettier than Kay?

04:52:48.040 I just, I feel like I'm a prettier Latina vibe, but that's just, I don't know.

04:52:52.820 I'm going based off my standard of beauty.

04:52:55.660 Objectively, what are the things that you think make you prettier than Kay?

04:52:59.060 Like, honestly.

04:53:00.400 I don't mind.

04:53:00.800 Okay.

04:53:01.200 I mean, I'm going based off what I like about myself.

04:53:03.720 Okay.

04:53:03.880 I like my hair.

04:53:04.860 My hair.

04:53:05.500 You know, that dude has a more, he maybe has a more muscular body or maybe has better facial

04:53:10.980 features or maybe has this or that.

04:53:12.840 Because I'm not delusional, right?

04:53:14.760 So what are the things, objectively, that make you prettier than Kay?

04:53:18.640 Well, I personally like my hair.

04:53:23.360 My smile.

04:53:24.260 I would say my boobs, but no, that's kind of like superficial.

04:53:31.520 Actually, you have a nice smile too, sis.

04:53:33.400 I don't know.

04:53:33.900 We're both long.

04:53:34.960 I think we're just beautiful.

04:53:37.180 We can't compare.

04:53:37.440 We can't compare.

04:53:38.040 We can't compare.

04:53:39.780 Wait, what?

04:53:40.440 What is there to even be offended about?

04:53:43.060 If you objectively believe that there's a standard that most men, hang on, that most men would

04:53:48.540 adhere to, not every man, just most, then what are those objective things that make you

04:53:52.660 prettier than Kay?

04:53:53.480 You can say whatever.

04:53:54.200 I don't care.

04:53:54.640 No, I know.

04:53:55.080 I think, okay.

04:53:55.780 So if we're talking about like biologically, isn't it like the whole symmetrical thing,

04:53:59.460 like the thing, like with the face?

04:54:00.720 Yeah, I think so.

04:54:01.720 I think that that would be a good objective, like starting point.

04:54:04.320 I mean, she does have it too, though.

04:54:05.820 I feel like we just both got it going on.

04:54:07.300 I don't know.

04:54:08.220 I don't know.

04:54:09.300 You don't know?

04:54:10.580 Yeah.

04:54:10.780 How about you tell us?

04:54:12.140 Since you're the man.

04:54:14.140 Hang on, hang on.

04:54:14.860 You raised your hand.

04:54:15.640 Okay.

04:54:16.220 I told you my hair.

04:54:17.680 I have like the smile Latina vibe.

04:54:20.560 I like my nails.

04:54:24.140 I mean, she is more fit than me, but I don't know.

04:54:28.240 I just think that it's also a part of it that I have to, I naturally want to, I guess,

04:54:35.440 be delusional and tell myself I am prettier and not in like a degrading way, but it's

04:54:39.500 just the way I carry myself.

04:54:40.860 I want to be confident.

04:54:42.400 I am confident.

04:54:43.340 So I just walk in to the room.

04:54:45.820 He seems pretty confident.

04:54:48.060 Yeah.

04:54:48.460 I mean, again, but at the end of the day, we can have.

04:54:51.640 She was so confident.

04:54:52.500 She said she was prettier than all of you.

04:54:55.240 And that's pretty confident.

04:54:57.000 This is like the only thing where I'm like, this is kind of like the only thing where

04:55:00.340 I'm like, there might be like some, my truth, because at the end of the day, there's going

04:55:04.600 to be two men that will think differently.

04:55:07.180 Like there's going to be someone that really thinks she's.

04:55:09.260 No, no, no.

04:55:09.740 But, but remember the heart of this.

04:55:11.380 We're just asking this.

04:55:13.260 If you had most men, I'm not saying that if you didn't have two men, they wouldn't

04:55:16.620 objectively maybe have a different standard.

04:55:18.980 I would agree.

04:55:19.880 Okay.

04:55:20.140 Yeah.

04:55:20.360 I'm asking if you took most men, most.

04:55:23.360 So we're just looking for, you know, let's say we took 51% of all men and we were able

04:55:30.640 to pull them and we put the two of you side by side.

04:55:33.560 Right.

04:55:34.180 And just most of them thought that you were prettier.

04:55:40.160 What would those reasons be?

04:55:42.000 I just told you, like, I guess my, my hair, my smile, I guess my, my eyes.

04:55:49.120 I don't know.

04:55:49.520 I'm just thinking of things that my boyfriend has told me or like compliments me.

04:55:54.040 Thank you.

04:55:54.700 Your overall figure, you know, you're out there.

04:55:56.360 Okay.

04:55:56.560 My overall figure.

04:55:57.480 Yeah.

04:55:57.560 I mean, there's just different.

04:55:58.700 Okay.

04:55:58.780 So then back to Kay.

04:55:59.400 So then hang on back to Kay.

04:56:01.660 What makes you prettier?

04:56:04.840 I'm physically fit.

04:56:05.900 That's literally, oh, and my lips are big, but they're natural.

04:56:08.420 Like I have pretty eyes.

04:56:09.060 See, now that's like, I think that those are some good responses, right?

04:56:12.000 Here are the actual things that I think that make me objectively where most men would look

04:56:16.880 at the two of us and think I'm prettier.

04:56:19.060 That seems reasonable.

04:56:20.320 I'm super fit.

04:56:21.280 I have better lips.

04:56:22.360 I have this.

04:56:23.120 I have, so like, that seems reasonable to me.

04:56:25.380 I think that that's how men would make the judgment across the board.

04:56:28.500 So then back to you.

04:56:29.680 Wait, you're saying that what I said wasn't reasonable?

04:56:31.920 Just, I'm getting it right.

04:56:32.920 Yeah.

04:56:33.240 Because you were saying things like, um, you were kind of adding these other values,

04:56:37.200 like confidence, things like that.

04:56:39.120 No, no.

04:56:39.660 I'm saying that.

04:56:40.460 You're just judging purely on beauty here.

04:56:41.740 I'm not, I didn't, I didn't say that my confidence is what makes me prettier.

04:56:45.580 What I'm saying is I'm naturally thinking I am prettier because it helps with my confidence

04:56:51.080 wherever I go, whatever, whenever.

04:56:52.700 Yeah, I get it.

04:56:53.220 But what would the objective standard for why most of those men would think you were prettier?

04:56:57.200 I told you.

04:56:57.900 My long hair, my smile, my eyes and my nails, my fashion.

04:57:02.880 I don't know.

04:57:03.520 I could go on.

04:57:04.440 But again, I could still look at her and be like, dude, she's just as bomb.

04:57:08.180 But in my head, I got it.

04:57:09.840 Listen, listen, I'm not saying you couldn't look at her and say she's a knockout or whatever.

04:57:13.680 That's not really what the question is implying.

04:57:16.440 So then over to Red, Red, can I ask you, what are these things that if you took the large

04:57:23.420 swath of men and they had you and they had Kay in the same room and they were just asked

04:57:28.200 the question to objectively evaluate the beauty standard of which they prefer, what are the

04:57:33.980 things about you they think they would prefer over Kay?

04:57:37.280 Well, it would depend on their beauty standards, first of all.

04:57:41.240 Yeah, I know.

04:57:41.820 We're just saying that most of them somehow prefer you over Kay.

04:57:45.220 What would those things be?

04:57:46.200 But I think that I look good as a blonde.

04:57:48.580 I look good as a brunette.

04:57:49.900 I can change like an iguana.

04:57:52.100 I'm wearing blue eyes today.

04:57:53.580 I look good in brown eyes.

04:57:54.960 I look good in blue eyes.

04:57:56.180 I can change my clothes and wear a trash bag and I look good in that and I can wear red.

04:58:01.540 Okay, okay.

04:58:01.940 Hang on, hang on.

04:58:02.540 Let me back up.

04:58:03.360 Let me back up.

04:58:03.940 So we have a room with 500 men and 400 of them, hang on, and 400 of those men, when they

04:58:13.140 look at you next to Kay, they go, I prefer her.

04:58:19.140 Not, they don't care about your personality because they don't know anything.

04:58:21.940 They know nothing about you.

04:58:23.440 They're only judging physically.

04:58:25.660 Hang on.

04:58:25.920 What are the things about you physically that they prefer?

04:58:30.340 My breasts are natural, double D's.

04:58:35.200 I have a thin waist, a pretty little belly button ring.

04:58:40.940 I have nice lips and big brown eyes and I'm Sicilian.

04:58:48.600 And I have a little butt that I work hard on at the gym for, but I don't look like her,

04:58:56.440 but I try as hard as I can.

04:58:59.040 I love you.

04:59:00.500 I love her.

04:59:02.420 This is why we consider the question, when most of the people answer it, most of the gals

04:59:06.940 answer it to be cope, right?

04:59:08.580 When they all rate themselves the same.

04:59:10.720 Because when I get to the heart of it, I realize, wait a second, they don't really fucking

04:59:16.280 rate themselves the same.

04:59:17.380 And what happens is they have kind of group thing where you don't want to offend the girl

04:59:21.700 next to you.

04:59:22.560 It is true.

04:59:23.000 But objective, hang on, hang on, hang on, let me finish.

04:59:25.140 But objectively, when I start actually parsing it out and I go, but if men did prefer you,

04:59:30.140 why would it be?

04:59:31.400 Versus why they prefer you and are you the prettiest girl in the room?

04:59:34.540 I hear wildly different answers, which tells me you're not really delusional.

04:59:39.200 You do know what your standard appeal is, but you're fucking lying about it because you

04:59:43.920 don't want to make anybody uncomfortable.

04:59:45.060 Because everybody has a different standard.

04:59:47.960 When one guy can walk in the room and say, I'm hideous.

04:59:53.340 It's like you could love peaches, but there's always going to be one guy that doesn't like

04:59:57.040 peaches.

04:59:57.900 I agree.

04:59:58.780 Yeah.

04:59:59.060 So hang on, I agree.

05:00:00.120 But let's assume for a second that we drug a meth head in who had no teeth, pockmarks all

05:00:05.320 over her face, and a hunchback.

05:00:07.020 Do you think you're prettier than her objectively?

05:00:09.460 I'm 100,000, 10%, but...

05:00:12.220 Yeah, 100,000, 10%.

05:00:13.680 But she doesn't look like that.

05:00:15.540 Hang on.

05:00:15.840 So there has to be some objective standard between meth head, crack head, hump on her

05:00:19.740 back, pockmarks on her face, and you.

05:00:22.200 And what we're looking for is what those things are between you and all the other women comparing

05:00:27.720 herself to no teeth, hunchback, pockmark, fucking crack head, right?

05:00:32.340 That's the point of the question.

05:00:33.340 All these women, you're looking for biological health markers and good genetics.

05:00:37.400 That's what you're looking for.

05:00:38.480 I don't even disagree.

05:00:40.100 You could say biological health markers.

05:00:41.500 So it's symmetry, it's facial symmetry, it's clarity in the eyes, it's clear skin, it's

05:00:45.240 for a woman, it's a particular waist to hip ratio, which is 0.7.

05:00:49.720 And I think there's always...

05:00:50.920 So if you're looking at all those things objectively, then why do you all have similar

05:00:54.960 answers, even though you look nothing the fuck alike?

05:00:57.040 Because there's always room to improve.

05:00:59.640 All right.

05:01:00.720 There's only so many body parts.

05:01:01.680 It just seems delusional to me.

05:01:03.460 Well, you...

05:01:04.520 You didn't ask...

05:01:05.860 Is anyone ever perfect?

05:01:06.860 And I think because we are looking at it from the relational perspective, not like we're

05:01:11.820 walking across the stage and just getting a number rating.

05:01:14.400 We're thinking to ourselves, the men that are in our lives that are coming and speaking

05:01:19.380 to us, for example, I hear all day, every day, you're a 10, you're a 12, how do I get

05:01:24.980 with you, blah, blah, blah.

05:01:25.460 Yeah, they want to sleep with you.

05:01:26.980 Yeah, they want to have sex with you.

05:01:28.620 Exactly.

05:01:28.980 They want to have sex with me.

05:01:29.600 A woman will tell...

05:01:30.300 Or a man will tell Kay, I want to...

05:01:32.300 I think you're the most beautiful woman in the same sentence as saying you are, even

05:01:36.880 if he has an objectively different opinion.

05:01:38.600 This is true.

05:01:38.700 Right, right.

05:01:39.260 Exactly.

05:01:39.900 Exactly.

05:01:40.280 Like, let's not...

05:01:41.220 I mean, she knows, look at her.

05:01:42.640 She's like, yeah.

05:01:43.960 I mean, that's just true, right?

05:01:45.520 It is true.

05:01:46.160 It is true.

05:01:47.040 It is true.

05:01:47.600 And so, that's the thing of why we can't really even go off of that stuff.

05:01:53.400 We just have to go off of...

05:01:54.840 Ah, well, it seems like when I press you guys...

05:01:57.220 What do you think you are?

05:01:58.480 Suddenly, your standards drastically change and you're like, I do objectively have these

05:02:03.120 metrics.

05:02:03.600 I do objectively know what's true.

05:02:05.480 I do objectively think I'm more fit.

05:02:07.660 It's just because there's more to it.

05:02:09.200 There's more to the story.

05:02:10.060 I have bigger brown eyes.

05:02:10.860 I have these other attractive qualities I think men would like.

05:02:13.440 But when asked in a general average, you guys go, well, we're all about the same.

05:02:17.600 When clearly, you all know that you're not.

05:02:20.820 And that's why we think on our end...

05:02:22.840 I just don't think we like to be competitive with each other.

05:02:26.760 Yeah, it's just ugly to be doing that.

05:02:29.280 I'm a four.

05:02:30.420 All right.

05:02:30.940 Moving...

05:02:31.480 Objectively, I'm a four.

05:02:32.920 Moving things along.

05:02:34.180 I had a question for you.

05:02:35.560 Are you in therapy?

05:02:37.240 I'm a therapist.

05:02:37.900 That doesn't really answer my question.

05:02:40.640 Are you in therapy?

05:02:41.940 I'm a therapist.

05:02:42.580 I spent years in therapy.

05:02:44.360 I'm not in it anymore.

05:02:45.000 Like currently, though?

05:02:46.340 Have you ever been...

05:02:47.460 She said not...

05:02:47.980 I go with the coaching model.

05:02:50.360 So whenever I run into a bump and I can't...

05:02:52.840 But yes, I currently...

05:02:53.900 I have mentors and coaches.

05:02:55.260 That's more how I do it these days.

05:02:57.500 Yes.

05:02:57.860 I always have a mentor and I always have coaches in my life.

05:03:00.200 Have you been diagnosed with anything?

05:03:01.660 I'm a savant, so I have high-functioning autism.

05:03:06.440 I'm autistic.

05:03:07.320 Oh, sweet.

05:03:07.700 Me too.

05:03:08.420 Yeah, there you go.

05:03:09.920 Hey, welcome to the club.

05:03:10.800 Welcome to the club.

05:03:11.540 Hint, some of my oddness and my outside-of-the-box thinking.

05:03:15.100 Do you take any medications?

05:03:16.640 I don't know why I'm asking.

05:03:17.480 Do you take any medications?

05:03:18.920 I use...

05:03:19.860 I use...

05:03:20.600 Like psychotropics or antidepressants or anything like that?

05:03:22.800 I just use...

05:03:24.260 I do an edible.

05:03:25.660 So a sativa gummy once a day is my typical thing.

05:03:29.100 Sure.

05:03:29.220 Do you consider yourself traditional?

05:03:31.660 In what way?

05:03:34.220 Like in a political way?

05:03:35.760 In a sexual way?

05:03:36.940 In a...

05:03:37.700 What way?

05:03:38.740 In a general sort of...

05:03:40.700 Are you traditional?

05:03:42.700 I mean...

05:03:43.100 Dating?

05:03:43.680 You got to know me.

05:03:44.820 I don't think there's really much traditional about me.

05:03:47.180 Other than human design.

05:03:48.680 I do believe in human design.

05:03:50.160 I love human design.

05:03:51.320 We should talk.

05:03:52.000 That's not really what I had in mind, but...

05:03:54.180 Well, I'm speaking of more how we were created to be.

05:03:58.000 I do reference that.

05:04:00.240 Sure.

05:04:00.380 We do have...

05:04:01.800 Don't play the video yet, Nick, but we do have another video.

05:04:04.240 Read it first.

05:04:05.900 Read it?

05:04:06.580 What do you mean?

05:04:07.080 Oh, okay.

05:04:07.620 So you don't need to pull it up, right?

05:04:09.080 Yeah.

05:04:09.260 Pull it up?

05:04:10.280 We're not going to play it.

05:04:11.420 Can you hide Andrew for a sec?

05:04:13.220 Yeah.

05:04:13.520 So your path...

05:04:16.520 Could you read the top there?

05:04:19.200 Yeah.

05:04:19.680 So your path to heaven involves you letting hell run through your body without resistance while

05:04:25.420 giving that weary body a voice to describe how it feels and what it's upset about.

05:04:30.520 We have been taught to do different things in order to flow with and celebrate the more...

05:04:37.040 I just want to pause here real quick.

05:04:38.060 So you say your path to heaven involves you letting hell run through your body.

05:04:42.920 Meaning your traumatic, your hard emotions and those triggers that are triggering your

05:04:48.540 deepest traumas.

05:04:49.780 Your path to your best life, in my opinion, is through allowing those traumas, the emotional

05:04:57.480 experience of the traumas to go through your body and to exit.

05:05:00.540 Most of us resist because we're so afraid of actually facing the anguish and facing the

05:05:07.440 grief and facing all these things.

05:05:09.240 And so we hold it in our body and it gets stuck there.

05:05:12.680 Okay.

05:05:12.780 But so in terms of actual...

05:05:16.280 Keep it up, Beck, Nick.

05:05:18.240 Your path to heaven involves letting hell run through your body.

05:05:20.900 So, I mean, are you saying like when you say hell, is that like your behaviors?

05:05:26.060 I mean that it is your...

05:05:28.160 It's your pain.

05:05:29.160 Could this be rephrased in this way?

05:05:32.760 Your path to Christ involves letting Satan run through your body.

05:05:37.840 No, I would say your path to your best life, your path to your ability to consciously manifest

05:05:47.360 the life that you would love to live is by allowing all of your traumas and everything

05:05:55.120 to be alchemized in a sense.

05:05:56.860 So you have to face it.

05:05:58.160 Yeah, so in any case, your path to heaven...

05:06:01.260 It's a path to transformation.

05:06:02.260 We're not going to play the video, but I guess you're like twerking in the video.

05:06:05.540 So is that a path to heaven is twerking?

05:06:08.500 So I am showing an example of how you move traumatic energy through your body.

05:06:14.520 Women have a lot of rigidity around here because we have a lot of sexual traumas and we have

05:06:20.400 a lot of shame and everything attached to these parts of our bodies.

05:06:23.560 So like the African cultures and the Hawaiian culture with the belly dancing, those women

05:06:29.380 are much more healthy emotionally, sexually, their pelvic floor is in a lot better shape

05:06:35.100 because they bring these nants, twerk and all of this into their day-to-day life.

05:06:40.960 And it's like their prayer, it's like their meditation, it's their, it's their, it's the

05:06:47.660 way that we let all of the atrocities of life run through us instead of getting all trapped

05:06:53.560 right here and we have a tummy ache and we're...

05:06:55.660 So you think twerking is good for society?

05:06:57.060 Yes, yes, twerking.

05:06:58.540 I would say dancing and moving is generally in your body.

05:07:01.600 Dancing in general, it's very good for you.

05:07:03.660 I think stiff, stiff order, like order is good for society.

05:07:11.460 Just being orderly, just stiff, chest out, heart dick.

05:07:17.060 That causes a lot of pain.

05:07:18.700 But for women, rigidity and...

05:07:20.160 High blood pressure, good for society, okay.

05:07:24.200 High blood pressure, I mean...

05:07:25.200 Is there another Instagram post, Nick?

05:07:27.660 Oh, we can go to mine.

05:07:28.900 I think there's one more.

05:07:29.460 Yeah, why are we only doing mine?

05:07:30.260 Everybody else has an Instagram?

05:07:33.780 These don't look like you.

05:07:35.700 It's just for me.

05:07:36.520 Are you wearing like a filter?

05:07:38.060 This is just like one of those no filter filters, no makeup.

05:07:40.840 Just refresh and just play it.

05:07:41.280 Just woke up in the morning.

05:07:42.420 Oh.

05:07:43.660 And audio.

05:07:46.700 Just so fucking cool.

05:07:48.140 I literally found the way to change the societal structure,

05:07:55.300 bring in traditions and kind of a new rhythm

05:07:59.660 to the way that we do things in the world

05:08:02.840 that is essentially the hack to ascension.

05:08:07.460 So what all the spiritual gurus, the scientists,

05:08:11.080 what everybody's trying to do is reach the top

05:08:13.740 to ascend to the highest possible potential for themselves.

05:08:18.740 They're trying to create that in their industries

05:08:20.720 and things like this.

05:08:21.840 And what I have done is I have been formulating

05:08:27.940 the social structures and the changes that we need to make

05:08:33.440 as a society over the next couple hundred years.

05:08:37.120 Wow.

05:08:37.780 Maybe less, probably less.

05:08:39.620 But I know how to get us all to ascend kind of accidentally.

05:08:45.700 Guys, this is...

05:08:47.320 When did you get into new age?

05:08:48.760 Like, what happened?

05:08:49.100 Was that for Nick?

05:08:49.700 Was that for videos?

05:08:50.480 I'm pretty sure.

05:08:50.960 I'm not sure what you mean by new age.

05:08:52.600 What?

05:08:52.940 There was something else too?

05:08:56.840 Was there another Instagram tab?

05:08:58.860 Oh, this is for you.

05:09:00.060 I had a question.

05:09:00.440 This is actually maybe related to the rating.

05:09:02.540 It's like the bikini photo or whatever.

05:09:04.360 Oh, me?

05:09:05.060 Yeah, for you.

05:09:05.600 Oh, good.

05:09:06.360 D-E-E-A-L-E-S-S-A-N-D-R-A.

05:09:12.920 Thanks, you fuckers.

05:09:14.020 Oh, what the fuck?

05:09:16.260 You got it, Nick?

05:09:17.320 Wait, what did you want?

05:09:19.160 It should be one of the Instagram tabs.

05:09:21.200 Yeah, which one?

05:09:22.340 D-E-E.

05:09:23.080 It's the bikini photo.

05:09:24.800 It's related to the rating stuff.

05:09:26.620 What did you rate yourself again?

05:09:27.780 Eight?

05:09:28.120 8.5 or something?

05:09:30.820 Okay.

05:09:32.820 Do you have plastic surgery?

05:09:35.320 I have my nose down.

05:09:36.960 You have your nose?

05:09:37.680 What about breasts?

05:09:38.700 No.

05:09:40.400 I was a triple D, but I lost 12 pounds, so now I'm a double D.

05:09:45.440 Okay.

05:09:46.600 I am still.

05:09:47.480 If you look at the other photo.

05:09:50.340 Now, did you Photoshop here?

05:09:52.100 No, if you click it, you can see that I'm pushing my ass out.

05:09:55.900 Like, if you click.

05:09:57.540 Well, I.

05:09:58.360 We know how to work it.

05:09:59.080 You can see the back of it.

05:10:00.260 Well, I don't know what's on that next page, so Nick would have to.

05:10:04.820 No, it's just, I'm in my bathing suit.

05:10:06.280 It's in the same.

05:10:06.860 Nick, go ahead.

05:10:08.100 But don't.

05:10:08.800 Here, you look at it first, Nick.

05:10:10.700 It's the same picture.

05:10:10.920 Tell us if it's okay.

05:10:12.220 Yeah, I think it's.

05:10:13.020 I'm just turned around.

05:10:15.340 You see it right here in the phone?

05:10:16.900 That's good.

05:10:18.140 It's just the bathing suit.

05:10:19.560 In the same bikini.

05:10:21.160 No, we don't need to pull it up.

05:10:22.460 But you didn't Photoshop?

05:10:23.840 Like, you didn't suck in the waist?

05:10:25.480 I'm going like this.

05:10:26.540 No, you don't need to.

05:10:27.840 Like this.

05:10:28.680 No, but.

05:10:30.700 Never.

05:10:31.060 Okay.

05:10:31.660 That's Photoshop, though, right?

05:10:32.960 A little bit?

05:10:34.160 Like you sucked in?

05:10:35.860 I mean, I know.

05:10:36.720 I changed the filters of the sun.

05:10:39.560 It made everything bluer and brighter.

05:10:43.340 Looks a little.

05:10:44.200 A little Photoshopped?

05:10:45.180 A little Photoshopped?

05:10:45.200 A little Photoshopped?

05:10:46.500 I'm too cheap for FaceTime, sorry.

05:10:49.140 You're.

05:10:49.720 Okay.

05:10:51.840 Now, wait.

05:10:53.020 I think.

05:10:53.940 I don't know if this was in the.

05:10:55.360 I need to look at other pictures of my body.

05:10:57.740 So you wrote in the dancing one, you said it turns out shaking ass is the final stage of healing.

05:11:02.000 I can testify to that.

05:11:04.040 Yeah.

05:11:05.080 Okay.

05:11:05.720 Yeah.

05:11:05.960 Wait, there was one that had.

05:11:07.320 Also, you wrote.

05:11:08.220 I can't.

05:11:09.740 There's so many posts.

05:11:10.640 There's so much on there to rip apart.

05:11:12.640 You said.

05:11:12.820 Hold on.

05:11:13.100 Just go look on your free time.

05:11:14.380 You said meme drop while I process the rage finally coming out of my body towards the atrocities of white man in the name of God.

05:11:22.360 Oh, no.

05:11:24.240 That's a good one.

05:11:24.920 You want to read that one?

05:11:25.720 Want to read that one?

05:11:26.280 I don't remember which one it was from, but you do.

05:11:28.040 You do.

05:11:28.600 It was a recent one.

05:11:32.000 I'm trying to think what the first picture would have been.

05:11:34.580 Well, I don't care.

05:11:35.300 We don't need to find it, but you did write.

05:11:38.160 While I process the rage finally coming out of my body towards the atrocities of white man in the name of God.

05:11:46.100 So I'm a little confused by the white man component.

05:11:48.640 I'm confused by that.

05:11:49.160 I'm speaking to white supremacy, essentially, and the whole slavery thing and all of that.

05:11:53.900 Well, I'm confused about this.

05:11:56.800 Why is there a photo of you, and forgive me if I'm incorrect, and this is not you, but I think it is, with jizz all over your face, and you say that moment you realize you're not mentally ill, but just in another toxic relationship?

05:12:10.260 I just like to play with things.

05:12:11.480 It was a cum shot to the face.

05:12:12.640 I love facials.

05:12:13.740 It's my jam.

05:12:14.220 Yeah, so you have man's jizz all over your face, and you say that moment you realize you're not mentally ill, but in another toxic relationship.

05:12:26.980 Wouldn't that mean that you were trying to seek toxic relationships?

05:12:31.120 Because you look rather happy and satisfied in this photo, I must admit.

05:12:35.820 Well, the sex was good doesn't mean the relationship was healthy.

05:12:38.860 He was a covert narcissist.

05:12:40.260 So you only realized it after he jizzed all over your face?

05:12:44.460 Yeah, unfortunately, some of these guys are real sneaky.

05:12:47.620 Is the post-not clarity.

05:12:48.800 I mean, should you not do that for your man?

05:12:50.640 For both.

05:12:51.280 Exactly.

05:12:52.020 I didn't know how bad it was going to go, you know, in that stage.

05:12:55.940 Behind closed doors.

05:12:57.100 That man was the best at marketing.

05:13:00.560 He did such a good job.

05:13:03.360 I'll tell you that.

05:13:04.220 He ran every fucking game there was, and I got it.

05:13:07.760 Going for all the, but I thought you were spiritually enlightened.

05:13:10.060 What are you going for?

05:13:10.740 All these toxic men who just isn't all over your face?

05:13:12.740 You only realize after you have cum, they're cum all over your face.

05:13:16.040 That was my husband.

05:13:17.100 That they are toxic.

05:13:17.620 That's so weird.

05:13:18.460 We were married.

05:13:19.760 That was our sex life.

05:13:21.200 He was my guy for OnlyFans.

05:13:23.000 We did it together.

05:13:24.040 I don't know what the, what is the concept?

05:13:26.740 Do you guys think that I'm just sleeping with all these random guys?

05:13:28.920 It was literally my husband.

05:13:30.280 No, I'm not.

05:13:30.940 It was my husband at the time.

05:13:32.580 We did OnlyFans together.

05:13:34.360 That's how I started.

05:13:35.300 It was my husband.

05:13:36.420 That was the one that you weren't actually married to, right?

05:13:37.760 We, I mean, we had a wedding.

05:13:41.120 I had the ring.

05:13:41.880 The whole thing.

05:13:42.480 I even got the tattoo.

05:13:43.660 We had the ceremony.

05:13:44.660 We had the reception.

05:13:45.720 We had the minister.

05:13:46.620 The whole thing.

05:13:47.080 We just didn't sign it legally.

05:13:48.480 Yeah, yeah.

05:13:48.600 So I'll just even assume that that's a, that that's a marriage.

05:13:52.580 But you say, so he was toxic?

05:13:55.420 He ended up being abusive.

05:13:57.600 I think he had a closet drinking problem.

05:13:59.100 When he was jizzing on your face and you were taking pictures, was he toxic?

05:14:04.020 Obviously the man was who he was the whole time, but I wasn't aware.

05:14:08.080 He really ran some good games.

05:14:09.540 Why did you post a picture saying he was toxic if you weren't aware?

05:14:14.860 Okay.

05:14:15.520 We made that content when we were together and I didn't know his true colors yet.

05:14:20.560 We made that content.

05:14:21.640 I already had that content from probably a year before.

05:14:24.760 Then when I left the man, I was trying to work through my process of not sinking into

05:14:31.240 this doom and gloom and that's what I, my artistic process.

05:14:35.060 That's just what I threw up there.

05:14:36.220 What date did you release that photo then?

05:14:38.920 I mean, it says it on there.

05:14:40.000 I don't have it on memory.

05:14:41.680 Look back at the, it would have a date stamp on it.

05:14:44.360 Yeah, I know.

05:14:44.920 So what date did you release it?

05:14:46.500 Was it before or after you found out he was toxic?

05:14:49.240 It was after I left.

05:14:50.340 I was already, I already left him by the time I posted that.

05:14:52.620 You didn't release that photo before then?

05:14:54.180 Like on my, on my OnlyFans, we had stuff like that, but it wouldn't have had that caption.

05:14:58.460 It would, and it actually, that photo was taken after a video that we made together.

05:15:04.520 And then we did a cum shot on the face and we took photos of it.

05:15:08.900 And it was then on your back after you had made your OnlyFans content with this man's sperm

05:15:15.320 all over your face that you realized he's toxic.

05:15:18.880 No, it was when he beat me.

05:15:20.480 Yeah, but then why did you say in the photo that that was the moment you realized he was toxic?

05:15:27.040 It was just a satire.

05:15:29.000 It was an artistic expression.

05:15:30.460 Oh, so you made it the fuck up.

05:15:34.540 That was my way of turning a really difficult situation into some sort of a artistic expression.

05:15:43.600 You made it up, right?

05:15:45.820 Made it up.

05:15:46.340 You made it up because you, you just, you just wanted to put it out there, get some clicks

05:15:49.980 and views, but it was made up, right?

05:15:52.500 That was not actually the moment you realized he was toxic.

05:15:55.380 You just made it the fuck up, right?

05:15:57.020 You should have an app of your own.

05:15:59.100 And when I'm like feeling sad, I could like ask you a question.

05:16:02.880 You could just tell me the bullying and honest truth and I can just laugh.

05:16:07.340 And like, feel better, feel better.

05:16:10.540 Like, cause like you say everything so honestly and so articulately and like, it's so honest

05:16:17.460 and like raw and real, but it's so funny at the same time.

05:16:23.240 I love it.

05:16:23.820 That is true.

05:16:24.560 But you are correct.

05:16:25.560 You are correct.

05:16:26.680 It should be funny.

05:16:27.540 You are correct.

05:16:29.240 That was not the exact moment that I realized how toxic was.

05:16:32.360 That was the exact moment I realized we just made some super awesome content.

05:16:37.360 Wasn't that sexy?

05:16:38.220 I did a whole prostitute scene.

05:16:40.220 I was a prostitute and he was a businessman.

05:16:42.240 That was the moment that I realized I was in a toxic relationship.

05:16:45.360 It was just showing a picture of something that had happened in the past.

05:16:53.860 That was sexy.

05:16:56.140 So I was killing like five birds with one stone.

05:16:59.640 I was making light of a hard situation.

05:17:02.360 I was bringing in a sexy piece of clickbait to make money.

05:17:06.300 I'll pull up the note.

05:17:07.760 Quote.

05:17:08.920 Yes, that was when I realized I was in a toxic relationship.

05:17:12.500 Your exact words.

05:17:15.500 I'm not really sure.

05:17:18.880 You got me.

05:17:19.780 You got me.

05:17:20.820 I did the cum shot and had a fun time.

05:17:22.800 And then it was like a few months later that the guy beat me and I was like, oh shit.

05:17:27.020 Let me move it on.

05:17:27.800 I'm moving it on.

05:17:28.440 I did have you and me before the show, or well not before the show.

05:17:33.840 In the messages, we were exchanging.

05:17:37.520 Not something I've really, well I've maybe encountered somewhat similar to this.

05:17:42.100 But so I had, and you don't mind if we get meta.

05:17:46.260 If we what?

05:17:46.940 Get meta.

05:17:48.260 Like a conversation about the conversation, kind of?

05:17:51.100 Oh, that's fine.

05:17:51.720 Yeah.

05:17:52.180 Okay.

05:17:52.360 So prior to the show, what we do with anybody who requests to be on the show, who sends

05:17:57.400 us a DM, we send them a list of 10 questions.

05:18:01.740 And I sent you a list of 10 questions asking age, location, occupation, relationship status,

05:18:07.500 if you wanted to bring a friend, any dating stories, any dating topics you'd want to speak

05:18:12.560 on, anything you disagree on, if you can make it to Santa Barbara, and your available dates

05:18:17.720 to be on the show.

05:18:19.560 10 questions.

05:18:21.660 Most people answer it without issue.

05:18:24.360 They take about 5, 10 minutes to answer it.

05:18:27.580 Done and done.

05:18:29.240 You did freak out on me a little bit in the DMs.

05:18:33.660 And I just wanted to, I don't know if, so I wanted to pull, I wanted to pull them up

05:18:44.640 and perhaps you can read them just so I can better understand the tone.

05:18:47.420 Cause maybe, maybe I'm being charitable here, but there was a interesting tone to, to it.

05:18:55.600 So maybe in your own words, it might come off differently.

05:18:58.680 Can you, um, like it sounded cocky or?

05:19:01.060 Or what is your, well, we'll just pull it up, Nick, if you can pull it up for us.

05:19:04.880 Delusional.

05:19:05.380 Oh, shoot.

05:19:06.520 Uh, so Nick, why don't you, can you put us in the left corner?

05:19:10.400 Uh, could you, could you read that, read these for us?

05:19:13.400 Yeah.

05:19:13.640 So I'm sorry, I'm very high functioning autistic.

05:19:15.920 So sometimes my brain gets on my tangents and I can't really focus on anything else.

05:19:20.580 Let me see if I can get it done right now while I have a minute.

05:19:24.960 It's weird.

05:19:25.780 You guys are so meticulous about this.

05:19:28.040 Like, why can't you just schedule me to come shoot this shit with you?

05:19:32.880 You obviously know I'm legit and have tons of things to talk about no matter how you want to lead the conversation.

05:19:40.260 I feel like that is why you are not leveling up.

05:19:43.880 You are being too legalistic about things and you need to learn how to read vibration over words and rules of the manifested or visual reality.

05:19:52.200 To be honest with you, okay, I was on a savant mission.

05:19:55.620 Yeah, just keep reading.

05:19:56.540 Go ahead.

05:19:56.940 FYI.

05:19:57.780 Go ahead.

05:19:57.920 To be honest with you, it's annoying to me you would make a woman like me go down a list and answer certain questions.

05:20:03.960 I'm above needing to answer your certain questions.

05:20:06.980 Just book me on your fucking show and let's go.

05:20:09.440 I'm really only looking to work with or give energy to people who are totally in alignment with me.

05:20:15.920 And if that includes you, then you are not going to waste my time making me answer some little stupid baby bitch list of questions that is made for other people who are clueless.

05:20:27.900 You would be able to read my vibration and know that I'm exempt from all this shit.

05:20:34.080 And if you can't do that, then I don't really want on your show.

05:20:37.400 Now do I?

05:20:38.320 Okay, I'm a spiritual person.

05:20:43.360 I have my own spiritual business.

05:20:45.740 And I read energy and all of that.

05:20:49.380 But like, I mean, I'm sorry.

05:20:51.020 That's just a mean message.

05:20:53.840 Oops, I don't know why it came in.

05:20:55.460 Go ahead.

05:20:56.080 That is just, I don't know.

05:20:57.600 That is pretty crazy.

05:20:58.940 Well, I understand.

05:20:59.880 I totally understand.

05:21:00.640 You guys speak into the mic, first of all.

05:21:02.440 I totally understand that it sounded very harsh.

05:21:05.900 But you have to understand how many DMs I get.

05:21:10.420 How much I get approached.

05:21:11.580 Your engagement is not high.

05:21:12.420 But hold on.

05:21:13.040 Your engagement is not high.

05:21:13.580 We did not DM you, you DMed us.

05:21:16.480 I know.

05:21:16.880 Correct.

05:21:17.420 Correct.

05:21:17.760 I think most of you here, every single, well, maybe, I'm not sure.

05:21:22.700 I think most of you reached out to us.

05:21:24.280 You all got the same questionnaire.

05:21:26.140 This is how it went.

05:21:26.760 You all filled it out without any quarrel or issue.

05:21:29.760 It's your show.

05:21:31.040 And it's normal standard.

05:21:32.640 How long did it take you?

05:21:33.540 Five minutes?

05:21:34.200 Not even five.

05:21:35.120 How long did it take you?

05:21:35.680 Five minutes?

05:21:36.300 Two minutes.

05:21:37.200 I think you filled it.

05:21:37.720 It's a quick read.

05:21:38.380 Like one minute.

05:21:39.540 Oh, like three hours.

05:21:41.120 Well, you sent a fuck ton of stuff.

05:21:43.040 She sent a fuck ton of stuff.

05:21:43.680 I would have been like that.

05:21:44.780 I would have been like that.

05:21:46.020 I have a fuck fetish place.

05:21:48.040 That wall of text that you sent me.

05:21:50.380 I just assumed you wouldn't have me on.

05:21:51.800 Well, the wall of text that you sent me, you could have just been a good sport and answered

05:21:56.640 the same time it took you to send that wall of text.

05:22:00.060 I guess because I am not, again, I am not a typically presented woman.

05:22:06.800 And so I try to make it very clear.

05:22:09.100 You're not dealing with a typical person.

05:22:11.440 Are you sure you want to engage with me?

05:22:14.000 Because you think you're better than any of us.

05:22:16.560 No, I think I'm very different and it's not for everybody.

05:22:19.620 So I kind of just come off harsh.

05:22:21.560 And just so you know, I knew nothing about this podcast.

05:22:24.840 Then why are you saying he's not growing?

05:22:26.120 I didn't know who he was.

05:22:28.260 I didn't know anything.

05:22:29.220 How can you say that remark then if you don't even know who he is?

05:22:32.640 I know you don't understand.

05:22:35.440 So whatever podcast is.

05:22:37.440 I made it clear.

05:22:39.080 I was on a savant.

05:22:40.940 4.3 brain doesn't work like yours.

05:22:43.400 Well, hang on, hang on, hang on.

05:22:44.480 Guys, guys, guys, hang on.

05:22:45.860 It doesn't work like yours.

05:22:47.300 We can only do one at a time.

05:22:50.440 I did want to lead in just very quickly.

05:22:53.400 Is it Desiree?

05:22:54.800 Yeah, Desiree.

05:22:55.960 Desiree.

05:22:56.500 Yeah, yeah.

05:22:57.320 Why do you have pictures of...

05:22:59.120 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

05:23:01.060 Andrew, hold on, hold on.

05:23:02.100 Before you say what you're going to say.

05:23:03.680 It's not...

05:23:04.440 I have to cut in on that.

05:23:06.660 I have to.

05:23:07.280 I have to.

05:23:07.720 No, but can you...

05:23:09.600 The leveling up thing.

05:23:10.520 We have to get into that.

05:23:11.160 This is super important because I got to know.

05:23:13.200 It was just on rampant.

05:23:14.500 I was on mentally and my brain gets very annoyed.

05:23:17.840 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

05:23:20.600 Andrew, Andrew, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

05:23:23.000 I got to make sure this is TOS.

05:23:24.720 It's TOS.

05:23:25.840 Why do you have pictures of the kids in the same Instagram that you have come on your face?

05:23:29.660 Wait, say it more tactfully.

05:23:31.200 Say it more tactfully, please.

05:23:32.480 Okay, why do you have pictures of your offspring in the same Instagram that you have these lewd pictures?

05:23:39.440 Because I don't believe that human sexuality is anything to...

05:23:44.240 It's not wrong in my book.

05:23:45.800 There's nothing wrong with it.

05:23:47.120 I celebrate sex and all the different forms and expressions of it, and that's not anything I personally believe is to...

05:23:55.480 Now, it's not like my kids are in the room when I'm getting cum shot on or anything like that.

05:24:02.960 Would you want to see pictures of your kids like that?

05:24:05.320 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

05:24:06.100 It wouldn't bother me.

05:24:06.740 It's human sexuality.

05:24:07.500 We're not going to talk...

05:24:08.180 I don't want to talk about this.

05:24:09.540 This is very...

05:24:10.440 Okay, that's fair.

05:24:11.020 This is on the fucking line here.

05:24:12.640 This is a boring line.

05:24:14.440 Yeah.

05:24:14.940 I'm not sure it is, but it's your show.

05:24:17.080 I'll yield.

05:24:18.020 But listen, lewds in the same...

05:24:21.580 I just don't consider it lewd.

05:24:23.240 In the same Instagram as that, doesn't that seem horrifically off-putting?

05:24:31.120 I don't ascribe to the same moral code that you do.

05:24:35.760 I don't believe that there is anything wrong with however an adult person wants to express themselves sexually.

05:24:45.140 And I would even go as far as to say adult doesn't even mean 18.

05:24:50.500 To me, a person...

05:24:52.140 Okay, don't even start going down that path.

05:24:55.200 All right, fine.

05:24:55.880 I'll let it go there.

05:24:57.020 I'm going to mute the mic.

05:24:58.560 Yeah.

05:24:58.860 But I did want an answer to that.

05:25:01.460 That's crazy.

05:25:03.080 I don't think that there's anything wrong with it.

05:25:06.420 I don't have your same morals.

05:25:07.840 So, kind of...

05:25:10.160 I'm not going to really...

05:25:11.100 I want to go back to the meta-conversation we were having about the messages you sent.

05:25:18.120 I was just a little confused there.

05:25:20.100 I don't know.

05:25:20.440 You mentioned that very early on in the episode, you wanted to bring down the egos of men.

05:25:25.960 I mean, don't you think the message you sent me is a bit egotistical?

05:25:29.500 Mm-hmm.

05:25:29.720 Mm-hmm.

05:25:30.800 Very full of yourself.

05:25:32.000 It was.

05:25:33.140 And I was really...

05:25:34.520 To be honest with you, I am working on some massive humanitarian work right now that,

05:25:40.200 to me, is the most important thing.

05:25:42.320 So, I had a friend...

05:25:43.540 What does that have to do with anything?

05:25:44.600 It's just because of the way that my brain works.

05:25:47.820 When I get on a mission, you could say, that's all I really care about.

05:25:53.840 I thought your mission was to sell your pussy.

05:25:55.500 Okay, hold on.

05:25:56.180 Um, you're, uh, is this, is this called, is this what's called obfuscating?

05:26:00.960 Hold on, let me make sure I'm using the word right.

05:26:02.820 But I want to know why you thought that his podcast...

05:26:05.960 I didn't know who I was sending that to.

05:26:07.840 Then why would you say that?

05:26:08.640 I had no idea.

05:26:09.480 That's, I flow with it.

05:26:10.900 I just spoke my truth.

05:26:12.300 That's how I felt in the moment.

05:26:13.460 It was really annoying.

05:26:15.140 Your humanitarian mission is irrelevant.

05:26:18.380 I just assumed, I just assumed they're not going to call me on the show, to be honest.

05:26:22.020 I just thought, I'm annoyed right now, I'm busy doing this other work, I got a million

05:26:26.780 things going on, why are they having me answer these questions?

05:26:29.880 I'm a sex and relationship coach, it's a dating show, do they want me on or not?

05:26:33.040 Aside from the podcast, do you expect everyone in the world to yield to you for every single

05:26:36.660 problem that you have?

05:26:36.700 No, I'm just simply saying, if I'm not for you, I'm not for you.

05:26:40.840 That's all I'm saying.

05:26:41.720 Go off, queen.

05:26:43.180 Go off, queen.

05:26:44.140 I feel, I feel very tired of being a people pleaser, and I just don't want to do it anymore.

05:26:52.160 I don't need everybody to like me, I don't need everybody to have me on their show.

05:26:55.960 If you want to say it's narcissism, I'm okay with that.

05:26:58.540 Probably.

05:26:59.120 It's mean.

05:26:59.940 It's fine, but I don't mind being mean.

05:27:02.500 I get people mean to me all the time.

05:27:05.480 But it's how you were supposed to do it.

05:27:07.080 It was just like, I've...

05:27:08.520 And out of...

05:27:09.040 And it was not personal.

05:27:10.260 It was not personal.

05:27:11.160 I didn't even know what was going on.

05:27:12.700 I didn't know who I was going to.

05:27:14.800 I was just like, I've maybe encountered, and we've had probably thousands, we've had

05:27:19.340 thousands, we've had over a thousand people on the show, we've had probably multiple thousands

05:27:23.440 of people send us DMs, obviously not everybody ends up scheduling, we don't always opt to

05:27:28.560 schedule somebody, but I think I've had maybe one or two other women be divas over the whole,

05:27:35.940 oh my god, it's ten questions.

05:27:37.880 That's so weird to me.

05:27:38.680 It's just, it was very diva-like.

05:27:40.400 It's just because, again, I was on a mission mentally, and it was like, have me on or don't

05:27:46.300 have me on?

05:27:47.040 I don't want to answer all these questions.

05:27:49.000 But you spend so much energy on that.

05:27:49.860 Wait, you're from Los Angeles, right?

05:27:51.560 But to me, that wasn't a lot of energy because it was my truth.

05:27:54.680 Answer my question.

05:27:55.700 You're from LA, right?

05:27:57.000 No.

05:27:57.180 Los Angeles?

05:27:57.920 No.

05:27:58.080 Well, you said you're from San Bernardino, that's LA County, isn't it?

05:28:00.900 No, it's San Bernardino County.

05:28:02.800 And then Corona is Riverside County.

05:28:04.380 Did you ever have any ambitions to be an actress?

05:28:07.060 I mean, I did drama when I was a kid.

05:28:10.520 Have you ever been to a casting call?

05:28:13.240 Yeah, when I was a kid.

05:28:14.180 Have you ever gone on a job interview?

05:28:16.980 Yes.

05:28:17.900 Did they require a resume?

05:28:21.520 It depends on the job.

05:28:23.000 Have you ever applied for a job that required a cover letter or a resume or a CV?

05:28:28.940 Oh, wait.

05:28:29.840 It's not the same thing as a...

05:28:31.060 Well, okay.

05:28:31.640 Well...

05:28:32.220 Have you ever...

05:28:33.060 Yes, but this was not a job.

05:28:36.320 This was something that...

05:28:36.900 This is a gig.

05:28:38.140 But I didn't see it as a gig until you guys actually scheduled me.

05:28:43.200 That was me showing you my personality.

05:28:45.420 You can take it or leave it.

05:28:46.400 You don't have to schedule me.

05:28:47.780 But you're confused as to why we would ask these questions.

05:28:52.240 So we asked very basic biographical...

05:28:54.200 I wasn't confused.

05:28:55.140 It's not that I was confused.

05:28:56.340 It was...

05:28:57.340 That was me popping off because I felt that answering a cookie cutter list of questions

05:29:05.380 to a person like me who's extremely complex.

05:29:08.820 So no matter how I answer these, that's not the full truth.

05:29:12.700 I guess if you just want me to bullshit for the sake of bullshitting...

05:29:16.180 No, but it was basic bio info, age, location, occupation, relationship status.

05:29:21.980 If you want to bring a friend, dating stories, dating topics, anything you disagree on, if

05:29:26.040 you can make it to Santa Barbara and your available dates, I mean, those last two kind

05:29:30.880 of necessary questions to ask.

05:29:32.620 I said that, but I said...

05:29:33.660 And then as we went down in communication, I gave you my...

05:29:36.280 Obviously, I'm here.

05:29:37.880 Well, yeah.

05:29:38.420 Obviously, it worked out enough.

05:29:39.920 But so you said...

05:29:41.340 You told me I need to learn how to read vibration.

05:29:44.580 I wasn't saying it to you.

05:29:45.320 I didn't even know who I was speaking to.

05:29:46.320 You said you.

05:29:47.260 I was venting to an Instagram DM.

05:29:50.040 I didn't know a face.

05:29:51.260 I've never even seen the podcast.

05:29:53.120 I have no idea.

05:29:54.120 Fine.

05:29:54.640 You have to understand how many dicks I talk to a day.

05:29:58.180 I talk to so many assholes a day.

05:30:00.660 I literally...

05:30:01.420 I have to do business constantly all day.

05:30:03.580 I deal with agencies.

05:30:04.480 I deal with booking this, booking that, flake this, flake that.

05:30:07.560 You just think you're over here and everything else is just...

05:30:09.500 Well, because you guys have no idea what I actually have to deal with.

05:30:13.860 You have no idea what they have to deal with.

05:30:15.800 You don't know what I got to deal with.

05:30:17.040 You should see the DMs, bro.

05:30:17.100 I only reached out because a friend said you should go on this podcast.

05:30:20.280 Okay, so...

05:30:20.660 Again, I've never seen it.

05:30:22.020 I didn't know anything about it.

05:30:23.500 Me either.

05:30:24.000 And so I wasn't really taking it seriously.

05:30:25.080 Once you looked it up, did you realize that he had...

05:30:26.860 Okay.

05:30:27.640 There's a difference between not taking it serious and being disrespectful, though.

05:30:31.320 I didn't give a shit about who I disrespected.

05:30:35.700 Clearly.

05:30:36.000 What do you care if I disrespect you?

05:30:37.280 You don't even know me.

05:30:38.120 You don't even like me.

05:30:38.620 Because he's a human?

05:30:39.920 What about just integrity and morals and just being nice?

05:30:44.700 But I'm not here to handle everybody.

05:30:45.580 Where do you get your moral compass from?

05:30:47.400 I don't go by morals.

05:30:49.060 Just integrity.

05:30:50.500 I don't go by morals.

05:30:51.720 I go by...

05:30:52.500 That was the mood I was in.

05:30:53.960 I gave you my real self.

05:30:55.220 And that's the problem with people that don't have a foundation.

05:30:58.120 Would you rather me pretend like I was a cookie cutter little sweet thing and then get on here and be this?

05:31:03.000 It's just the answer to me.

05:31:03.620 It's just the answer to me real.

05:31:05.220 I told you.

05:31:06.180 You're not understanding.

05:31:07.180 I am a bitch.

05:31:07.920 I'm not going to do that on here.

05:31:09.860 I am a bitch and I'm not for most people.

05:31:12.620 So I wanted to make sure that that was clear.

05:31:14.800 I just have one last question for you on this particular topic.

05:31:19.680 So are you on any sort, and because you believe that truth is a value, can you just answer this truthfully?

05:31:27.440 Sure.

05:31:27.700 Are you on any sort of psychiatric drugs at all?

05:31:31.920 Like a pharmaceutical?

05:31:33.380 I think that was already asked.

05:31:34.900 Yeah, that was already asked.

05:31:35.720 No, I asked her.

05:31:36.840 Oh, you asked me.

05:31:38.020 Yeah.

05:31:38.480 Oh, wait, did I?

05:31:39.420 Yeah, yeah.

05:31:39.940 She said I used that marijuana.

05:31:41.920 I don't think I got an actual answer.

05:31:45.280 Are you on any sort of SSRI?

05:31:47.480 No, I don't know.

05:31:49.620 None?

05:31:50.360 No.

05:31:51.500 Okay.

05:31:52.240 Now, Nick, I don't know if you still have the, is it still like all set up or?

05:31:57.340 Okay.

05:31:58.160 You also said that, to be honest with you, it's annoying to me.

05:32:02.520 You would make a woman like me go down the list and answer certain questions.

05:32:08.140 I'm above needing to answer your certain questions.

05:32:11.840 That's in the fourth message there.

05:32:13.520 Just book me on your fucking show and let's go.

05:32:16.740 So, now, some of the people who, too, didn't lead to this.

05:32:21.000 It's called Locker Room Talk.

05:32:22.000 Well, it's interesting because you very harshly criticized me for.

05:32:27.780 It wasn't you again.

05:32:29.120 It wasn't you.

05:32:29.760 Hold on.

05:32:30.400 Let me finish my point.

05:32:31.480 So, we had to restart the stream.

05:32:35.120 Miss over here, who did a wardrobe change.

05:32:38.100 I'm sorry.

05:32:38.740 It was really, really, really cool.

05:32:40.220 It's fine.

05:32:41.040 So, there was a nip slip.

05:32:42.780 So, we had to cut the stream.

05:32:44.300 We lost all the viewership.

05:32:45.880 We had to restart it.

05:32:46.840 We lost about 10 minutes.

05:32:48.560 I was frustrated.

05:32:49.780 I don't recall precisely what I said to her.

05:32:52.000 I might have said something rude to her out of frustration.

05:32:54.180 You said, shut the fuck up.

05:32:55.780 You did.

05:32:56.460 Okay.

05:32:56.840 Well.

05:32:57.080 It's okay.

05:32:58.020 Sure.

05:32:58.460 I understand.

05:32:59.180 I would have said the same thing.

05:33:00.720 I own it.

05:33:01.340 I would have said the same thing.

05:33:02.000 Now, you got on your high horse and your ivory tower, and you got very, you wanted to virtue

05:33:11.620 signal, and you almost, you threatened to leave.

05:33:14.480 You threatened to, I'm going to, if this is how you're going to talk to women, I'm going

05:33:20.840 to leave, and she should come with me.

05:33:22.800 She included all of us.

05:33:23.920 And you attempted to pretty much get all the women to leave the show.

05:33:27.940 Admittedly, I did say something rude to her, which I apologize to you.

05:33:31.260 I was frustrated.

05:33:32.080 And I liked you because of that.

05:33:33.380 I liked your apology.

05:33:34.380 But it's interesting to me that your conduct between us in the DMs.

05:33:40.540 Okay.

05:33:40.980 I'll explain it.

05:33:41.680 Hold on.

05:33:41.960 No, no, no.

05:33:42.380 Hold on.

05:33:43.240 It's interesting to me that it's okay for you to behave in that way.

05:33:48.880 You said, I mean, you're.

05:33:49.920 Because it was non-personally.

05:33:51.600 It was non-personally.

05:33:52.500 Hold on.

05:33:53.000 The way in which you were speaking to me was, I would argue, about on par in the way I spoke

05:33:58.640 to her.

05:33:59.520 I would say much worse.

05:34:00.660 Yeah, way worse.

05:34:01.700 Her messages?

05:34:02.560 Yeah.

05:34:02.700 I agree.

05:34:03.280 I agree.

05:34:03.840 Yeah, I agree.

05:34:04.380 The only thing I have to say is that, again, I deal with so many fake things coming at

05:34:10.820 me that I didn't know that you were even a human.

05:34:13.900 I don't know who I'm dealing with.

05:34:15.360 Well, you think we have an AI?

05:34:16.660 I have no idea.

05:34:17.480 But it's not, if it was Nick who was messaging you, I would, I would be sitting here and saying

05:34:22.520 the exact same thing.

05:34:23.600 It's not about, if it was Madison, it does not matter.

05:34:26.400 It would have been an agent, a representative of the whatever podcast.

05:34:30.100 I understand.

05:34:30.260 And it is me who handles all the guest booking.

05:34:32.360 I get it.

05:34:32.580 But I don't, it's not me, like, you didn't know who you were messaging it to.

05:34:36.460 It's kind of irrelevant.

05:34:37.800 It doesn't matter if it was me or Maddie or Nick or if we were paying $10.

05:34:41.400 You understand, I deal with people who are not a human representation.

05:34:45.800 Don't care.

05:34:45.900 They're just like a bot, basically.

05:34:47.320 Don't care.

05:34:47.940 But I find it interesting that you were virtue signaling at the beginning of the show.

05:34:51.440 And it's because I could feel her as a human person.

05:34:55.660 She wasn't even that bothered.

05:34:57.400 You can't feel their emotions.

05:34:59.360 It doesn't matter.

05:34:59.900 Yes, because I deal so much in the virtual world and I'm so bullshitted constantly that

05:35:04.840 I'm just very harsh.

05:35:06.420 You have no true empathy for people.

05:35:08.000 No, I actually do.

05:35:09.080 She wasn't even bothered.

05:35:10.280 You turned to her and said, you're being abused.

05:35:13.180 I was just so embarrassed that I ruined his podcast.

05:35:15.320 But I truly appreciate you sticking up for me.

05:35:18.440 But I also truly understand that I just took five minutes out of his podcast.

05:35:23.440 You wanted to make sure that we were clear.

05:35:25.060 I just wanted to make sure that it was clear.

05:35:28.240 Let's not go there.

05:35:30.160 But you went there.

05:35:31.260 Before you even came on the show.

05:35:32.060 But again, again, I had no idea who I was speaking to.

05:35:35.280 It doesn't matter.

05:35:36.380 It doesn't matter.

05:35:37.520 I have the messages.

05:35:39.280 No, I know.

05:35:39.800 I have the messages.

05:35:40.880 I was calculatingly being my most aggressive self because I get taken advantage of a lot.

05:35:47.760 That's not very pathetic.

05:35:48.020 How is it taking advantage of you to ask 10 questions?

05:35:50.920 No, I'm just saying.

05:35:52.040 No, no, no.

05:35:52.400 Answer the question.

05:35:53.120 Answer.

05:35:53.400 How is it taking advantage of you to ask you 10 biographical questions?

05:35:58.260 Maybe me making a lot of questions made up for it.

05:35:59.360 Thank you a lot of questions made up for it.

05:36:01.280 Stop, stop, stop.

05:36:01.880 Let her answer.

05:36:02.400 Go ahead.

05:36:02.560 Because I just didn't feel like me answering those simple little questions were going to

05:36:08.340 paint the accurate picture of who you were having on the show.

05:36:12.040 But do you think there's a reason we ask those questions?

05:36:14.080 I do.

05:36:14.780 But do you understand what I'm saying?

05:36:17.060 I am not for everybody.

05:36:18.600 Do you have a podcast?

05:36:19.420 I think I do understand what you're saying.

05:36:23.600 And let me kind of steel man the position.

05:36:26.480 You felt like by answering those questions, it would have misrepresented what it was that

05:36:31.300 you were trying to get across, right?

05:36:32.780 Correct.

05:36:33.020 Correct.

05:36:33.420 But the thing is, is that could it perhaps be Cope on your behalf?

05:36:37.560 It was not the best way to say it.

05:36:38.700 Hang on.

05:36:39.460 Let me finish the question, please.

05:36:42.080 Could it perhaps be Cope on your behalf that you were terrified of answering those questions

05:36:46.500 because you know to a reasonable standard that a person interpreting them may totally get

05:36:52.960 the wrong idea of you, even though they're basic questions?

05:36:56.260 Well, no, because those were basic questions.

05:36:58.400 And isn't that really Cope on you and not on the podcast?

05:37:00.220 No, because listen, if you go down the list, it's very easy.

05:37:03.060 I'm 38.

05:37:03.920 I live in Corona.

05:37:04.940 I am technically single or divorced.

05:37:06.600 Then why so much Cope?

05:37:08.240 Because again, I wanted to really, and I'm not justifying.

05:37:12.500 I did do it very, I could have done it in a more polite way.

05:37:15.640 You're right.

05:37:15.940 I could have done it in a more, but you guys, every time.

05:37:18.800 You were terrified that the answers would perhaps be too revealing, right?

05:37:20.620 No, I was terrified.

05:37:21.960 I was terrified of this.

05:37:23.420 I was terrified that I would come to a situation where this isn't really my thing.

05:37:30.720 You're completely gaslighting right now.

05:37:32.520 Huh?

05:37:34.120 Well, no, no.

05:37:35.100 Hang on, hang on.

05:37:35.660 Listen, I'm not going to accuse her of gaslighting.

05:37:38.460 I actually do want her answer to the question.

05:37:40.760 From my perspective, what it appears to be, and you can correct me if I'm wrong, but if

05:37:48.000 you're giving basic answers to the question and kind of the Cope, or what I would consider

05:37:53.440 Cope is, you know, I'm afraid that you're going to get the wrong picture of me.

05:37:59.380 Okay, that's fair.

05:38:00.500 Yes.

05:38:00.740 There could be a way in which questions are presented where we could get the wrong interpretation

05:38:06.300 It happens to me a lot.

05:38:07.520 Hang on, hang on, of who you are as a whole.

05:38:10.180 I agree that that's true.

05:38:11.840 But doesn't it kind of ratify Brian's position here that in DMs, you were ultimately very,

05:38:19.400 very, very aggressive.

05:38:20.720 I was.

05:38:21.080 Almost like you were trying to obfuscate from what those questions meant.

05:38:23.740 I was, because I live in a world of sharks, and I just, sometimes I'm in a mood, I'm dealing

05:38:28.980 with freaking law cases and all these things, and judge me however you want to judge me,

05:38:33.900 it's fine.

05:38:34.420 Law cases?

05:38:35.460 With the ex-husband, he beat me.

05:38:37.200 I have to press charges in the whole situation.

05:38:39.000 Yeah, but why would that have anything to do with a podcast?

05:38:40.900 I'm not saying I'm a victim.

05:38:42.440 I'm just saying as a human being, some days I get a little rattled, and I'm going to,

05:38:46.520 like, get away from me.

05:38:47.020 I'm going to extend that same courtesy to me when I was a little sharp with her.

05:38:53.140 Instead, you wanted to put your foot down, be the language police.

05:38:56.700 I honestly, I didn't feel safe.

05:38:59.280 I was about to go over there and just.

05:39:02.160 Is Wayne Brady going to have to choke a bitch?

05:39:04.300 I was going to go over there and just.

05:39:06.440 No, it's emotional safety.

05:39:08.060 I didn't feel emotionally safe.

05:39:10.680 What the fuck does that mean?

05:39:12.180 What does that mean?

05:39:13.800 Emotionally safe?

05:39:14.480 It's all buzzwords just to get out of taking responsibility.

05:39:17.980 It gave her the dick.

05:39:19.260 But, I mean, honestly, I want to know.

05:39:21.420 Yeah, I mean, I guess that's a good way to say it.

05:39:22.980 When you say to Brian, when you say to Brian, answering your question doesn't make me feel

05:39:28.560 emotionally safe.

05:39:30.040 No, no, no.

05:39:30.420 What the hell does that even mean?

05:39:31.500 When he said, fuck, when he had the comment to her, that's when I didn't feel emotionally

05:39:34.980 safe.

05:39:35.320 When he said, fuck, and I engaged.

05:39:37.440 And I, you know, as you described it, I was virtue signaling, you said.

05:39:41.640 And it's because it triggered me to be like, oh, shit, this is what I was afraid of.

05:39:47.480 I'm not safe here.

05:39:49.120 That's why I tried to give them the most bitch, ridiculous part of myself so I didn't even

05:39:54.820 have to go.

05:39:56.120 Hang on.

05:39:56.600 You mean at the beginning of the podcast when I pointed out there could be something which

05:40:00.540 was potentially detrimental to everything that this man has worked for?

05:40:04.400 And so he was frustrated in the moment, and maybe he said something out of turn or untowards.

05:40:12.800 But if I remember correctly, and I was in the back room listening, you know, I do do that.

05:40:18.700 The gal who this was directed to said, no big deal.

05:40:22.800 Who are you to come in and advocate on her behalf and say, wait, she's way in the wrong,

05:40:29.660 right?

05:40:30.020 Or this type of thing.

05:40:31.140 That's not really your concern.

05:40:33.000 Who are you to come in and say and make this arbitrary judgment that a person who says

05:40:38.500 something in frustration in regards to their entirety of their livelihood, which could be

05:40:43.820 at stake, that they're in the wrong when the person they said it to was forgiving instantly.

05:40:48.980 Can you explain that to me?

05:40:50.460 Yeah.

05:40:50.820 I do appreciate her sticking out for me, but I do 100% understand where he was coming from.

05:40:57.440 I think that's totally appropriate.

05:40:59.300 And I did understand.

05:41:01.120 But in the heat of the moment, she said, hang on.

05:41:03.120 She said, no worries.

05:41:04.960 I'm not even concerned about it.

05:41:06.440 You, on the other hand, made a big deal out of it.

05:41:08.280 Because I'm the person that all these women come to for help after they need your help.

05:41:13.060 Who are you to do that?

05:41:14.100 Who are you to do that?

05:41:15.100 I'm sorry.

05:41:15.620 It's just where I'm at in life and the work that I do.

05:41:18.540 And I deal with the traumas.

05:41:19.860 Everybody comes and brings me all of these traumas that they never had restitution for.

05:41:25.520 And it's things like that that she might say is okay.

05:41:27.700 That is not your place.

05:41:28.480 She's going to fawn.

05:41:29.560 She's going to fawn in the moment.

05:41:31.120 She's not weak.

05:41:32.440 She's okay.

05:41:32.720 She's not weak.

05:41:33.500 You're saying she's weak.

05:41:34.380 I'm not saying that.

05:41:35.420 I'm simply saying she's mature and self-aware and just saying, let's move on.

05:41:39.000 It's business.

05:41:39.460 And as you saw, as you saw, we were all able to kind of work through it.

05:41:43.120 You apologized.

05:41:43.860 We took it down a notch.

05:41:45.580 But we took it down a notch.

05:41:47.600 I was friendly with you.

05:41:49.020 I said, I appreciate your...

05:41:50.500 Hang on.

05:41:51.040 You're fibbing.

05:41:52.400 And here, I can prove it.

05:41:54.380 You said behind the scenes that you wanted revenge.

05:41:58.960 That you wanted to get some getsy backsies and that Brian didn't know who he was fucking with.

05:42:03.900 That's what you actually said behind the scenes.

05:42:06.500 Isn't that true?

05:42:07.200 Yes.

05:42:07.820 That is true.

05:42:08.840 Yes.

05:42:09.540 Do you want to hear the recording?

05:42:10.800 Because I recorded it.

05:42:12.320 I mean, you literally stood there and we were back.

05:42:15.220 You were dealing with a triggered woman.

05:42:17.700 Hang on.

05:42:18.140 You said he deserved some revenge, some restitution, and that you were going to get him.

05:42:22.240 I didn't know the guy yet.

05:42:23.080 That's what you actually said.

05:42:24.580 I didn't know the guy yet.

05:42:25.880 It's a woman being triggered.

05:42:27.700 You have to understand, I have been abused a lot.

05:42:30.780 Wait, did I abuse you?

05:42:32.940 No, but I'm just going to...

05:42:34.720 Did I abuse her?

05:42:35.460 She turned to her and was like, this is abuse.

05:42:38.500 Yeah.

05:42:38.680 Well, it was verbal abuse.

05:42:40.360 I mean, that was verbal abuse.

05:42:41.120 Going back to what Andrew said, though, what specifically, if you guys can recall, what did she say?

05:42:45.400 Well, here, let Andrew help, because I'll tell you.

05:42:48.680 Yeah.

05:42:48.920 Because me, being in the background, sometimes I hit record, and I have all of this recorded.

05:42:55.080 We have it, too.

05:42:55.620 Here's what she actually said.

05:42:57.780 She said that you, she ain't going to put up with none of this shit from these motherfuckers.

05:43:02.500 Yeah, she does.

05:43:03.000 And that they better know their fucking place, and that she's going to get revenge if necessary.

05:43:08.840 That's what she actually said.

05:43:10.540 Am I lying?

05:43:11.440 Go ahead, tell me, call me a liar.

05:43:12.620 Well, you put a...

05:43:13.620 Okay, you have to understand from my perspective.

05:43:15.980 Again, I didn't know the man from anything.

05:43:18.600 What does that matter?

05:43:19.400 What does that matter?

05:43:20.320 Because I'm just...

05:43:21.460 I'm going off of my experience in life with men.

05:43:26.040 And why include us?

05:43:26.980 Like, we can just...

05:43:27.920 We can leave right now.

05:43:29.240 Okay, well, I'm sorry.

05:43:29.660 Why are you talking for everybody?

05:43:31.020 I'm sorry.

05:43:31.680 I just consider myself...

05:43:33.180 I'm a mother.

05:43:34.260 I'm a leader.

05:43:35.060 I have daughters.

05:43:35.820 But we're strong as well.

05:43:37.420 You don't...

05:43:37.700 We're not weak.

05:43:38.220 And I didn't...

05:43:38.900 I didn't mean it.

05:43:39.880 I didn't...

05:43:40.560 And I apologize.

05:43:41.500 There's a lot of masculine energy, though, that you're actually talking about not wanting.

05:43:45.600 Hold on.

05:43:45.900 No, I take on daddy energy if I feel like there's some vulnerable group here that isn't...

05:43:51.420 We're not a vulnerable group.

05:43:53.220 Okay, anyone here...

05:43:54.260 We're self-aware that it's a whole podcast, that if that nip flip was there...

05:43:57.820 Well, I apologize.

05:43:58.320 He would...

05:43:58.780 It can get banned for life.

05:43:59.920 I apologize for having empathy towards women and making sure that we all knew...

05:44:04.940 What is this called?

05:44:05.720 What is that called?

05:44:07.340 She's...

05:44:07.860 It's like a...

05:44:09.260 It's not really an apology.

05:44:10.780 I'm sorry.

05:44:11.980 It's a narcissistic apology.

05:44:13.000 So this is a complete and total red herring.

05:44:15.380 Can you just speak to the fact that before you even knew the circumstance of the situation,

05:44:19.860 you actually demanded that the girls get up and leave with you in order to get revenge?

05:44:26.740 That's what you actually requested.

05:44:28.560 Can you just tell Brian that that's what you actually did?

05:44:31.080 Look at them shaking their head, because I'm right.

05:44:33.240 You requested all of them get up and leave that podcast and leave him high and dry to get revenge.

05:44:39.680 So why don't you get up and get the fuck out of this podcast, since you're the one who demanded that this happen to him?

05:44:47.200 Why should we not instead make sure that that happens to you?

05:44:51.580 I mean, you definitely can, and you would be in the right.

05:44:54.300 And I am sorry.

05:44:55.280 I overreacted.

05:44:56.500 I was triggered.

05:44:57.560 Okay?

05:44:57.980 I didn't know you from anybody.

05:44:59.500 I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into, and I just never know how things are going to go.

05:45:06.020 You're a mom dog, even with just random questions.

05:45:08.980 Hold on.

05:45:09.560 I got a couple more questions.

05:45:10.780 She's like, she's the problem.

05:45:11.280 I got some more questions.

05:45:12.020 There's no way.

05:45:12.940 I got more questions.

05:45:14.060 Wait, do you have some more questions?

05:45:15.860 What?

05:45:16.940 I do.

05:45:17.560 I do.

05:45:18.300 I got a couple more questions.

05:45:20.100 Not quite.

05:45:20.600 Not quite yet, Andrew.

05:45:21.620 But I like the, what's it called?

05:45:26.040 You're trying to be Italian.

05:45:27.440 I do like that.

05:45:28.080 He tried.

05:45:28.660 I just want to let you know.

05:45:29.440 I'll tell you this.

05:45:30.340 I do appreciate a man who puts me in my place.

05:45:33.340 She was trying to convince the girls who were there at the table to get up and collectively walk out of the show in order to get revenge against you because you had a fire-at-the-mouth moment very quickly because everything you had ever worked for perhaps could be in jeopardy.

05:45:47.460 Right.

05:45:47.800 And so you had an emotional outburst.

05:45:49.980 How dare you?

05:45:50.640 She actually tried to convince the entire panel to get up and collectively walk out with her.

05:45:55.300 Girls, if I'm lying, tell me I'm lying.

05:45:57.340 No, I mean, I told her right away.

05:45:58.760 I said, don't include me.

05:46:00.780 I was like, I'm not.

05:46:01.240 We all like respectfully like tried to calm her down and be like, okay, let's just stay quiet, figure this shit out.

05:46:07.040 And I did.

05:46:07.840 No, you kept laughing.

05:46:09.640 You literally laughed on bantering.

05:46:12.040 I need a minute.

05:46:13.280 I need a minute.

05:46:14.200 Once I get that shirt, I need a minute to calm down.

05:46:16.640 Look, I said the rude thing or whatever.

05:46:18.800 Then I was like, okay, time for action.

05:46:20.300 Let me end the stream.

05:46:22.080 We got to delete it.

05:46:22.780 We got to get it all going.

05:46:24.300 Everybody's here.

05:46:24.840 And you made me feel safe when you came back.

05:46:26.920 And the way that you apologized, it felt very genuine.

05:46:29.640 And to be honest, it really endeared me to you.

05:46:32.080 It really endeared me to you.

05:46:33.640 But I came in it kind of with this.

05:46:36.140 It ain't happening.

05:46:37.900 It ain't happening.

05:46:39.020 But what about the messages?

05:46:40.120 I just can't get.

05:46:40.660 The messages were very harsh.

05:46:42.260 I can't get over that.

05:46:43.060 Wait, wait, wait.

05:46:45.400 This could be, this could sort of be like a, and I don't know if this is using the Lord's name and thing, but a come to God moment here.

05:46:54.720 So now it's very rare.

05:46:57.340 Like me and Andrew, we constantly get labeled as, as toxic and abrasive.

05:47:02.960 And no, I don't, no, no, no.

05:47:04.500 Let me finish my point.

05:47:06.320 And typically it's very rare.

05:47:09.040 I don't know if it's ever happened like this.

05:47:11.460 Now we've, Andrew took shots at some of the women saying they don't look like Scarlett Johansson.

05:47:17.120 All the, I was gone for a bit of that.

05:47:20.620 Every woman here has turned against you.

05:47:23.660 Yeah.

05:47:24.860 Now I have a question for you.

05:47:26.240 Do you frequently find yourself in conflict with people?

05:47:29.520 No, to be honest, because I try to kind of weed out my relationships and.

05:47:34.320 Stop the cap.

05:47:35.080 You're telling me your life isn't full of constant interpersonal conflict.

05:47:39.560 I mean, I'm out, I'm an entrepreneur.

05:47:41.740 I run into.

05:47:43.120 Not answering my question.

05:47:44.600 But so.

05:47:45.780 No, I think I have a pretty peaceful life, to be honest.

05:47:49.060 So the whole panel has turned against you.

05:47:52.520 And I'm not trying to like.

05:47:54.200 Oh, I feel horrible.

05:47:55.700 No, this could be a self-awareness moment.

05:47:57.360 I, I, you know, you know the whole thing of like.

05:48:00.060 I mean, I'm not trying to be friends with everybody.

05:48:02.300 You know, the whole common denominator thing.

05:48:04.420 Like, if you think everybody else is the asshole, everybody you meet's a jerk or.

05:48:09.080 You have to look at me.

05:48:09.840 Yeah, you gotta look at yourself.

05:48:10.740 It could be.

05:48:12.440 Or it could just be like.

05:48:14.200 You're different.

05:48:15.100 I was trying to be.

05:48:17.200 I was trying to weed myself out of this show.

05:48:20.840 Then why did you reach out to them?

05:48:22.900 Because a friend said you should contact this podcast.

05:48:25.400 And so I just kind of did it as.

05:48:27.060 Okay.

05:48:27.660 A charity work.

05:48:28.460 No, it was just like.

05:48:30.080 You blessed us.

05:48:31.480 This is how I roll.

05:48:32.660 It's like, if things work out, it works out.

05:48:35.200 I don't force it.

05:48:36.260 I speak my truth.

05:48:37.520 I have moods.

05:48:38.560 I'm human.

05:48:39.400 I'm woman.

05:48:40.120 A kid might have been pulling on me.

05:48:42.160 I might have been hangry.

05:48:43.360 I don't know what happened.

05:48:43.760 You're just a big bottle of fucking excuses, man.

05:48:46.080 Like, I can't take this shit no more.

05:48:47.920 I'm like getting a fucking headache, dude.

05:48:49.520 Shut the fuck up.

05:48:49.920 I'm just not here to be politically correct.

05:48:52.500 Shut up.

05:48:52.840 Shut up.

05:48:53.040 Shut the fuck up.

05:48:54.560 I see why men cheat, honestly.

05:48:56.540 With women like that, there's no way.

05:48:58.220 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

05:48:59.100 Not all men, but Jesus.

05:49:00.740 Oh, man.

05:49:01.600 I can't.

05:49:02.700 I think we lost.

05:49:04.220 What are your questions?

05:49:06.040 Hold on, hold on.

05:49:07.760 Wait.

05:49:08.800 The energy got too exciting.

05:49:11.080 There's just so many excuses, man.

05:49:13.300 Oh, I'm sorry.

05:49:13.780 It's okay.

05:49:14.080 Don't worry about it.

05:49:15.940 Am I like the worst person?

05:49:17.980 No, no, you're amazing.

05:49:19.800 You're amazing.

05:49:20.460 We love you.

05:49:20.980 You're good.

05:49:21.620 I ruined this.

05:49:22.400 No, no, no, no.

05:49:23.320 No, no, no.

05:49:24.360 What are you talking about?

05:49:26.340 Everyone's raving about you.

05:49:29.040 They hate me.

05:49:30.160 I take all the hate.

05:49:31.820 I take it all, girls.

05:49:33.560 So you don't have to.

05:49:34.720 You're already deflecting.

05:49:35.920 No.

05:49:36.940 You are the problem.

05:49:38.260 It's not you taking the heat.

05:49:39.640 Like, that's virtuous.

05:49:40.960 No, you are not.

05:49:41.920 We can't.

05:49:42.540 Wait, what happened?

05:49:43.640 They want to save it for the camera.

05:49:44.580 But you have to understand, I'm only the problem in this context.

05:49:47.540 No.

05:49:48.280 You drop me with my people, and I'm not the problem.

05:49:51.640 Okay.

05:49:52.820 She can't be this delusional.

05:49:54.140 You did mention at the beginning that you tend to domineer the conversation.

05:49:58.440 I told that.

05:49:59.420 So maybe you shouldn't do that.

05:50:02.560 And you're right.

05:50:03.260 You can do that every single time.

05:50:04.860 You're right.

05:50:05.320 And it's because I'm just, this isn't my typical vibe, you know?

05:50:13.360 I mean, that's the whole.

05:50:14.120 That's the whole beauty of it, though.

05:50:17.020 I don't think Amy of us, like, agrees with that.

05:50:18.160 It's just always an excuse, though.

05:50:19.240 You can't just say, hey, I was wrong, or hey, yeah, I need to work on that, or hey, yeah,

05:50:23.440 maybe I'm.

05:50:23.900 I was wrong.

05:50:24.420 I did.

05:50:24.920 I said I was wrong.

05:50:25.700 The whole time you made a excuse.

05:50:26.700 But there's always a but.

05:50:27.420 But are you saying but?

05:50:28.220 Yeah, the whole time you made a excuse.

05:50:29.500 I won't give a but.

05:50:30.420 I thought that perhaps it would help him understand it wasn't personal.

05:50:34.300 That's all I was trying to do.

05:50:35.520 Yeah, but it's just this one.

05:50:36.900 You know what I'm saying?

05:50:37.560 There's like, I.

05:50:38.140 It was just that.

05:50:38.880 I wasn't trying to say it was polite.

05:50:40.620 I was simply.

05:50:41.140 Because he was maybe taking it like I've heard somebody.

05:50:43.640 It cheers me out because you really believe everything you're saying.

05:50:47.020 Well, we all do.

05:50:47.840 I think she's trying to convince herself.

05:50:48.900 Everything you said is a bunch of bullshit.

05:50:51.680 Yes, Emily.

05:50:52.840 Yes, Emily.

05:50:53.840 I was there to be like, what the fuck?

05:50:55.960 I'll hear you.

05:50:56.500 I'll hear you.

05:50:58.140 I'll give it to that.

05:50:59.120 I'll give it to that.

05:50:59.600 You're all telling me the same thing.

05:51:01.240 I'll listen.

05:51:02.260 I'll listen.

05:51:02.880 I'm sorry.

05:51:03.640 I came across very rude.

05:51:04.800 It could have gone better.

05:51:05.820 I just think that there's like.

05:51:06.960 It's just like all over the place.

05:51:08.040 Like where like, you're not really letting other people speak.

05:51:12.100 And when they bring up subject, you try to explain them over what they're trying to say.

05:51:17.980 And it's like.

05:51:20.480 It's not.

05:51:22.260 I.

05:51:22.580 It's not nice.

05:51:23.820 You got some serious tech difficulties going on over there, Brian.

05:51:27.360 I want to say.

05:51:28.760 I want to say.

05:51:29.480 I'm sorry.

05:51:30.260 I am sorry.

05:51:30.860 You really don't have to apologize.

05:51:32.500 And I am sorry.

05:51:33.360 No, it's okay.

05:51:34.260 And I am sorry.

05:51:35.640 And I am sorry.

05:51:36.680 And I am sorry.

05:51:37.300 Well, apologies don't really do anything.

05:51:39.700 They're not doing anything.

05:51:41.420 I'm just saying that everything you said.

05:51:44.780 It's just been like.

05:51:46.040 It's just been like.

05:51:46.060 It's just been like.

05:51:46.600 What the fuck.

05:51:47.120 It's just been like.

05:51:48.640 What the fuck.

05:51:49.620 Like.

05:51:49.920 No, but really.

05:51:51.020 Holy shit.

05:51:52.500 I'm sorry, girls.

05:51:54.380 This is not my typical jam.

05:51:56.360 It's not mine either.

05:51:57.560 I don't think there's like.

05:51:58.260 I don't think there's like.

05:51:58.280 Places in your life.

05:51:59.840 Where like.

05:52:00.240 You have to have agency.

05:52:01.960 And like.

05:52:03.100 Be courteous.

05:52:04.400 Of like.

05:52:05.440 Other people around you.

05:52:07.780 And.

05:52:08.000 It felt horrible.

05:52:08.500 How I might have blown.

05:52:10.480 I don't think it would help.

05:52:11.380 It was a bra.

05:52:12.460 But still.

05:52:13.400 Nevertheless.

05:52:14.140 No, you like apologize.

05:52:16.060 We were getting it fixed.

05:52:17.360 It just transpired into a whole.

05:52:19.160 Yeah.

05:52:20.000 I'm not going to lie.

05:52:20.380 My darkness cried.

05:52:22.100 Oh, yeah.

05:52:23.000 Oh, okay.

05:52:24.020 I was waiting for her to come back.

05:52:25.780 No, she had to go.

05:52:26.580 To her baby, I think.

05:52:28.620 And I'm sorry.

05:52:29.640 I shouldn't have gotten all control.

05:52:31.040 Are they still able to hear us?

05:52:33.960 Or did it like.

05:52:35.520 Guys.

05:52:35.940 Oh.

05:52:36.660 They can still hear us.

05:52:37.760 Oh, they can still hear us.

05:52:37.780 Okay.

05:52:38.380 Yeah.

05:52:38.600 Yeah.

05:52:40.480 Yeah.

05:52:40.840 Yeah.

05:52:40.960 Yeah.

05:52:40.980 Yeah.

05:52:41.000 Yeah.

05:52:41.040 Yeah.

05:52:41.100 Yeah.

05:52:41.120 Yeah.

05:52:41.300 Yeah.

05:52:41.380 Yeah.

05:52:41.540 Yeah.

05:52:41.660 Yeah.

05:52:41.720 Yeah.

05:52:44.500 I think we're back.

05:52:46.200 I think we.

05:52:47.180 I think there was some kind of like.

05:52:48.660 YouTube lag of some kind that that happened.

05:52:51.720 A ton of channels just blacked out.

05:52:54.460 Oh, it's not just back.

05:52:56.340 Okay.

05:52:56.820 No, no, no.

05:52:57.460 It happened to me, too.

05:52:58.560 It happened to four other channels.

05:53:00.040 They all DM me at the same time.

05:53:01.940 Okay.

05:53:02.600 We had to switch to.

05:53:04.480 We had.

05:53:04.920 We got a secondary Internet source.

05:53:08.340 So.

05:53:10.100 Chat.

05:53:10.660 Is the stream quality okay?

05:53:12.480 How's it look, chat?

05:53:13.360 One in the chat.

05:53:13.960 If the quality is okay.

05:53:15.260 Two in the chat.

05:53:15.760 If it's different.

05:53:16.380 We're on like a 5G.

05:53:17.680 We, we, we were doing Wi-Fi.

05:53:20.200 So it was a hardwired Ethernet or whatever it's called.

05:53:25.600 And now we're on 5G.

05:53:27.960 What was fun?

05:53:28.760 There was, there was, I think that even if you switched over, it would be fine.

05:53:33.180 There was four other channels, including mine.

05:53:36.500 They all went down at the same time.

05:53:38.460 There's no YouTube strikes, anything like that.

05:53:41.320 Uh, I think it just happened to be YouTube outage.

05:53:44.780 Yeah.

05:53:45.320 Okay.

05:53:45.740 That's frustrating because.

05:53:48.000 She popped off.

05:53:48.940 She was going off, Queen.

05:53:50.920 Uh, so we're very, we're very sorry.

05:53:53.520 Uh, viewers.

05:53:53.940 All we need to hear is I'm sorry.

05:53:55.060 I was wrong.

05:53:56.260 Forgive me.

05:53:57.240 Well.

05:53:57.600 I need to hear the entire diatribe again.

05:54:00.420 No, because they're right.

05:54:01.780 I'm making, um, I'm not intending to make justifications.

05:54:06.460 But that's how it's coming across and all that really matters is how I'm affecting people.

05:54:10.980 And if I'm hurting people, I'm hurting people.

05:54:13.080 That's not okay.

05:54:14.360 So I apologize.

05:54:15.540 And Brian, I really apologize.

05:54:17.280 It was not, I did not know who I was sending those messages to.

05:54:20.600 Well, what I would be curious, if, if you are being genuine, I will be curious to see your social media activity in the coming hours and days after the show.

05:54:32.360 So, because while you're in person here saying this to me now, uh, you might, you know, uh, use.

05:54:41.380 I will give you my word that you are safe.

05:54:43.700 Your reputation is safe with me because I.

05:54:48.840 Situation.

05:54:49.600 Yeah.

05:54:50.080 But after you leave, you might feel like, well, it wasn't very nice how they confronted me.

05:54:55.540 No, because you guys real talk to me and I appreciate that.

05:54:58.180 You put me in my place.

05:54:59.260 It's good.

05:55:00.240 That's a good friend.

05:55:01.220 But I feel like your feelings can change because that happens a lot.

05:55:04.640 Well, because it's all the moment, right?

05:55:07.580 No, but my feelings can change in the sense that we all process things after the fact.

05:55:13.540 Exactly.

05:55:13.900 But I'm not going to get mad at you guys.

05:55:15.680 Those watching us, can you tell Andrew that we'll get it fixed in just a sec?

05:55:18.800 That's how I affected you.

05:55:19.840 I'm not going to go back and be upset with you.

05:55:21.940 That's how it felt.

05:55:23.580 You were dishonest with me.

05:55:24.680 And I appreciate that.

05:55:25.980 Wait, Maddie, can you stay for just a sec?

05:55:27.520 I need to go back there again and figure out the tech stuff.

05:55:30.300 I apologize, guys.

05:55:31.080 We're having a couple of tech issues.

05:55:32.860 This is the restitution.

05:55:33.420 Just talk about it.

05:55:33.500 There's nothing here or not.

05:55:34.740 No, I am.

05:55:35.760 Exactly.

05:55:36.680 Yeah, exactly.

05:55:37.120 But I am pretty confident that, you know, you're going to, you're, I feel like you're going to be a little two-faced with this.

05:55:46.160 You're apologizing to me now, but you're going to go on some witch hunt diatribe on your social media.

05:55:55.020 I'm sorry that I made you feel unsafe that I would do that.

05:55:57.780 Well, let's, let's actually see if you walk the walk.

05:56:02.200 So, I mean, I'd be, yeah, that's the only way.

05:56:06.400 Do you have, I can shake on it and I can give you my word.

05:56:10.740 Shake on, well, we don't need to shake, but shake on what?

05:56:13.300 Shake on the fact that I trust you as a man and I overall have had a good experience and I'm glad that we all talked about everything because there's nothing toxic to leave with.

05:56:27.480 It, I was out of line.

05:56:29.860 You guys put me in my place.

05:56:31.300 I'm sorry.

05:56:32.460 We all have different perspectives.

05:56:34.260 You know who's the most skeptical here?

05:56:36.160 As I'm looking around the panel is Kay.

05:56:38.840 Look at, look at you, Kay.

05:56:39.800 You're totally skeptical.

05:56:41.460 You don't believe a fucking word of it.

05:56:43.080 It's not a motherfucking word.

05:56:44.220 You don't.

05:56:44.660 You don't believe any of it.

05:56:45.620 So, before, before we were, you know what?

05:56:48.120 Because you're a monthly and my dad.

05:56:49.560 I can't.

05:56:50.840 Well, I'll have you come in in just a sec, but I, because me and Andrew have encountered this before where we've had people come on the show and then they proceed to for, for days or even weeks, they will, while we were otherwise fairly, you know, even though we perhaps had arguments with them or we disagreed with them,

05:57:09.040 sometimes even gets, stop, stop, sometimes it even gets heated.

05:57:13.440 They will then go on to basically do what we described as what toxic femininity is, which is reputation destruction.

05:57:20.800 Andrew, I'm sure you know precisely who I'm talking about.

05:57:23.680 Wait, can Andrew hear me?

05:57:26.200 Yeah.

05:57:27.380 So, I'll just be curious to see in the coming days and weeks your conduct on your own social media.

05:57:35.940 Yeah, and you guys have dirt on me.

05:57:36.700 Oh my God, I don't, you know, I'm sorry.

05:57:38.320 Well, I'm just saying you do.

05:57:39.440 Oh my God, I went on the misogynistic podcast and he was about to slap me across the face.

05:57:44.140 I felt I was unsafe.

05:57:45.840 He was going to come over there and punch me.

05:57:47.560 No, no, no, no, no, no.

05:57:48.440 You genuinely handled that situation very well.

05:57:52.480 It wasn't my favorite.

05:57:54.160 The, shut the F up.

05:57:55.780 That wasn't my favorite.

05:57:56.560 And I, I reacted.

05:57:59.280 I tried to convince the entire panel to get up and leave with you, even though they had flown in from all over from different places.

05:58:05.200 Malevolent.

05:58:05.600 And have come in here to get exposure for their various social media.

05:58:08.740 Wanted to engage with multiple people.

05:58:10.660 You tried to lead a coup d'etat in order to be what?

05:58:14.120 What was the game there?

05:58:15.260 Coup d'etat.

05:58:15.540 That's what I want to know.

05:58:16.340 What was the ultimate game?

05:58:18.200 No, I honestly, to be honest with you, I mean, you don't, maybe won't believe me, but I just wanted to feel safe.

05:58:25.240 Feel safe.

05:58:25.800 So you're malicious.

05:58:26.900 Kay, Kay, Kay, how come you don't believe a fucking word of it, Kay?

05:58:29.560 I see you over there.

05:58:31.220 Nobody escapes me over here.

05:58:33.280 What's up?

05:58:33.980 What's going on?

05:58:34.560 Hide StreamYard.

05:58:35.500 Hide Stream, no, no, no, no.

05:58:36.420 Nick, hide StreamYard.

05:58:38.240 Go ahead.

05:58:39.320 So before we had some internet connection, you're go off queen.

05:58:43.120 Just channel that same energy.

05:58:45.500 Yo, I did it again.

05:58:46.680 Just, okay, go ahead.

05:58:48.860 Okay, so I just think that she's just a big ball of fucking excuses.

05:58:52.420 I'm so, I'm not sorry.

05:58:53.820 You're just a bunch of just excuses.

05:58:55.620 You don't take accountability for anything.

05:58:57.600 If anyone calls you out on anything, you try to act like, oh, I'm so sorry.

05:59:01.680 I didn't mean to.

05:59:02.420 You did.

05:59:03.140 This is just you, and then this is what you put out into your relationships, I'm sure.

05:59:06.900 Because I know it wasn't just the guy's fault, 100%.

05:59:09.220 Obviously, the one that, you know, that's bad.

05:59:12.100 But I think that you must have done something that led up to that even happening.

05:59:15.260 Just the way that I'm watching and listening to everything that you're saying and how you react to other people, how you message people you don't know, I think you're the problem 100%.

05:59:22.620 And I think you really do need to go to therapy, not you just being a therapist and helping other people.

05:59:27.460 I think you need to help yourself before you even think to help others, to be quite honest with you.

05:59:31.860 Every therapist should have a therapist.

05:59:33.520 Now you see that vibrational frequency, which intertwined with your vibrational frequency, destroyed it.

05:59:40.660 You see how that works?

05:59:41.660 When those two vibrational frequencies get together, you have the base frequency.

05:59:45.840 The other based frequency hits that base frequency, and it just destroys it.

05:59:51.980 That's how the vibration actually works, just so you know.

05:59:55.880 That's why that wide glass splits, just to tie it all together, right?

06:00:00.900 But, I mean, Kay is right.

06:00:02.180 I guess we won't belabor the point forever, but I do think it did deserve a little bit of belaboring because it was frustrating to kind of hear that there was an attempted coup d'etat on the background, and then you just kind of pretended that, eh, we'll just move past it.

06:00:19.580 But I think the other girls, not so stupid, kind of picked up on it a bit.

06:00:24.040 That's all I'm saying.

06:00:24.780 I mean, we immediately, we're like, okay, so she's a troll.

06:00:27.760 Like, we're like, we really thought you were a troll.

06:00:29.840 We thought, like, you were being that, like, you were doing that on purpose.

06:00:33.440 I genuinely, it was a particular.

06:00:34.640 But then it comes to find out that's just who you are.

06:00:36.120 It was a particular trigger for me that was a rough one, and I overreacted, and I'm sorry.

06:00:42.040 But asking basic questions was a trigger, too, so just everything's a trigger.

06:00:45.640 Good point.

06:00:46.480 And, yeah, to be honest, which is why I was, again, overly aggressive in my communication because I just assumed I wouldn't even get, okay.

06:00:59.140 No, no, she's broken.

06:01:00.480 We're all broken in one way.

06:01:02.260 I know, but hers is, come on, hers is on a different level.

06:01:04.840 We're able to have a conversation and not act like this.

06:01:07.940 Like, girl to girl, like, looking at the whole messages, it doesn't make you feel like, dang, like, take a step back.

06:01:14.360 Like, maybe I need to, like, reevaluate, like, how I perceive myself and opportunities and really realize, like, you're not where you think you are.

06:01:26.020 Well, here's the thing.

06:01:26.700 Here's the thing.

06:01:27.160 If I would have come to this show and thought this is about coming together and loving each other and just seeing through differences, I would have carried a different vibe.

06:01:38.620 I was just under the impression.

06:01:39.800 I was under the impression we were just here to bring up taboo topics and just be entertaining.

06:01:48.160 I thought it was just about, I didn't know that it was about us bonding and, like, loving each other.

06:01:52.260 So you're conditional on how you treat people depending if it's going to, it's going to do something for you.

06:01:58.000 Well, that was very well established in the beginning.

06:02:00.360 I wasn't, honestly, I came into this.

06:02:02.720 I maybe should have researched it more what I was even getting into.

06:02:05.460 Yeah, you should have.

06:02:05.880 I had no idea.

06:02:07.160 I literally thought it would just be me.

06:02:08.880 Minus underscore six underscore nine donated $69.

06:02:13.400 Can we please have this thing for us?

06:02:16.000 I think that would be a good conclusion for this stream.

06:02:19.180 Aw.

06:02:20.420 Happy birthday to me.

06:02:23.740 Is it your birthday birthday?

06:02:25.280 It's on July time.

06:02:25.620 Wait, can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table, please?

06:02:28.100 Scoot your mic this way.

06:02:29.480 Gotta go in the mic, gotta go in the mic.

06:02:31.280 Give it your all.

06:02:32.440 Let us hear the best of you.

06:02:34.180 TTS is $69.

06:02:35.800 Happy birthday to D.

06:02:38.400 Happy birthday to D.

06:02:41.820 Happy birthday to D-E-E-A-L-E-S-S-A-N-D-R-A.

06:02:48.940 That's the most energy to have on Instagram.

06:02:52.340 My birthday's on July 20th.

06:02:55.340 Happy birthday to me.

06:02:57.040 For the love of all that is good,

06:02:59.040 can somebody send Brian in a champagne pop to get him through the rest of his feet?

06:03:05.180 Insufferable.

06:03:05.660 This was a tough one.

06:03:06.980 I'm so, I'm a bit frustrated, kind of differently here.

06:03:11.740 Kay, is it cool if I call you Kay?

06:03:13.280 No, yeah, yeah.

06:03:13.800 A lot of people do.

06:03:15.240 She was, oh my, guys, this was like, I don't even know,

06:03:19.540 this was like your magnum opus of just owning,

06:03:23.300 and the internet cut off right when you just started.

06:03:25.980 Oh, you had fire in your eyes.

06:03:28.540 It was a moment.

06:03:30.620 I swear this was like, the camera cuts out.

06:03:34.220 That was crazy.

06:03:35.180 And can we channel it?

06:03:37.040 What were you trying to say?

06:03:38.740 I basically said, this is why a lot of men cheat is because of shit like this.

06:03:43.040 For God's sake, imagine coming home to this every fucking day.

06:03:46.500 Like, I could understand, no, I'm not going to say that,

06:03:49.800 but you cannot act like this.

06:03:51.400 No, I was just kidding.

06:03:53.100 Real Trump donated $69.

06:03:56.220 I wish this 38-year-old cackling hen was divorced from O.J. Simpson.

06:04:01.500 Every time I hear her speak, all I hear is blah, blah, blah.

06:04:05.420 I'm a dirty skank.

06:04:06.980 She better invest in Petco.

06:04:08.880 She's going to die with cats.

06:04:10.780 Wow.

06:04:11.280 Oh my God.

06:04:11.780 That's harsh.

06:04:12.680 Just cats, though.

06:04:13.740 That was insane.

06:04:14.860 Anyways, I don't want to dogpile.

06:04:16.760 Well, this one's for you, Kay.

06:04:19.560 Oh wait, he's going to take a shot.

06:04:21.620 I'm going to take one.

06:04:23.120 He's taking one for Kay?

06:04:24.320 I thought you had some pretty good takes this panel, I must admit.

06:04:27.720 Thank you.

06:04:28.200 Let's see it.

06:04:28.940 Let's see it.

06:04:29.420 Here's to you.

06:04:30.480 Here we go.

06:04:30.920 Appreciate you.

06:04:31.800 That's like a triple shot.

06:04:33.300 Oh my gosh.

06:04:35.140 Dang.

06:04:35.560 Is that vodka?

06:04:36.660 Mine's just water.

06:04:37.860 Oh man, that went down real hard.

06:04:39.760 You have to understand that this is what we like to call the Irish crutch.

06:04:47.640 Go ahead.

06:04:48.020 No, it's, go ahead, Andrew.

06:04:50.140 No, it's what we like to call the Irish crutch.

06:04:52.940 Whereas other people's IQs go down when they drink, the Irishman's IQ goes up.

06:04:58.360 Those are the rules.

06:04:59.520 I like it.

06:05:00.160 I like that logic.

06:05:00.860 So really, I'm on what's called an Irish performance enhancing drug.

06:05:06.740 There you go.

06:05:07.640 That's a good one.

06:05:08.400 Vibrating, I'll get to that in just a sec.

06:05:11.200 Wait, like, like.

06:05:12.440 Okay.

06:05:14.760 I'm just simply saying my energy just needs to match the energy of the other person so

06:05:19.140 that our vibrations vibrate together so that my feminine essence resonates enough.

06:05:23.800 Then I will give you my...

06:05:25.080 That sounds very lesbian.

06:05:26.460 Posse.

06:05:28.220 Posse.

06:05:29.120 Lesbian.

06:05:29.620 All right.

06:05:30.100 So TTS's 69 guys will let it...

06:05:34.420 I don't know if we're going to do a roast section.

06:05:35.940 The show's gone late.

06:05:37.180 We've had internet issues.

06:05:38.180 We started late, so.

06:05:39.660 All old 69, you were donated $69.

06:05:43.160 You want a roast section?

06:05:44.040 Maddie, I got a mission for you.

06:05:46.380 Rescue our man Gus.

06:05:48.240 Brian, is it a sign?

06:05:50.140 Andrew, great to see you again.

06:05:52.740 Blondie, I hope you can take a joke better than those two blondes that walked into a bar.

06:05:57.440 Yeah, I think she's going to be all right.

06:06:00.540 I don't think it's going to be one of those things.

06:06:02.020 Wait, Maddie, you'll have to come back and say that.

06:06:04.420 We got it all out in the open.

06:06:05.820 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $69.

06:06:08.060 This might be the roast section guys at 69.

06:06:10.340 I don't know if we have that.

06:06:10.820 The second blondin is fucking insane.

06:06:13.500 I lost IQ points from the first 10 minutes and not sure I can continue through this entire podcast.

06:06:20.140 Does it get better?

06:06:21.300 Whoa, dude, I haven't seen you in a while, I think.

06:06:23.560 It's been...

06:06:23.900 Dude, I'm so glad I'm not dating.

06:06:25.300 Really good to see you back, man.

06:06:26.320 Thank you for...

06:06:26.760 Hold on, I've got to play this for you.

06:06:27.780 He's a brave and a decent man.

06:06:29.380 He's a pioneer.

06:06:30.200 You're a pioneer, dude.

06:06:31.300 You're a fucking...

06:06:31.600 And also, yes, it does get better.

06:06:34.720 Yeah.

06:06:35.280 This was a banger of a podcast.

06:06:37.920 I appreciate everybody coming out for it.

06:06:40.460 I mean, look, we've had a little bit of arguments, but I think it was an entertaining show.

06:06:48.820 Would you agree, Andrew?

06:06:51.560 Yeah.

06:06:51.920 It was good.

06:06:53.040 It was still good.

06:06:54.100 You know, maybe we'll do a little light question, a little light question here.

06:07:00.160 So what do you guys think about the Israel-Palestine conflict?

06:07:03.560 No, no, no.

06:07:04.520 We're not getting into that.

06:07:05.340 But hey, boys, make sure you throw in those roasts.

06:07:09.100 It is the roast section.

06:07:11.380 We're not going to get into the Israel-Palestine.

06:07:13.180 No, I'm kidding.

06:07:13.940 I'm kidding.

06:07:14.180 It was a joke.

06:07:15.140 Oh, okay.

06:07:15.740 It was a joke.

06:07:16.120 I was joking.

06:07:17.100 I was obviously joking.

06:07:18.160 We already have enough memes of you out there with the walkie-talkie.

06:07:21.360 Yep, yep, yep, yeah.

06:07:24.020 So wait, hold on.

06:07:25.520 Okay, we did that.

06:07:26.700 We did that.

06:07:27.960 I'm trying to think here.

06:07:31.040 We have a lot.

06:07:32.300 There's actually still a lot of notes for the both of you, and there's some notes for you, Alex.

06:07:39.180 D, right?

06:07:40.140 Yeah, she's funny.

06:07:41.000 Here's the issue is we are running out of time a little bit.

06:07:45.160 You sent us a lot of notes.

06:07:46.400 Because if you're down to come back on another time, we could hit –

06:07:51.040 Can you tell me when?

06:07:53.260 It's a date.

06:07:54.060 It's a date, D.

06:07:54.980 They like me singing.

06:07:56.580 It's a date, D.

06:07:57.240 We're homies now.

06:07:58.080 Okay.

06:07:58.580 We got to have K back.

06:07:59.660 K was based, right?

06:08:01.320 Wait, what's that?

06:08:02.480 K.

06:08:02.880 K was based.

06:08:04.340 Got to have K back.

06:08:05.240 No, y'all –

06:08:05.700 Yeah, K, we got to get K back.

06:08:08.580 I would actually be down if you're down.

06:08:11.800 I would love to.

06:08:12.380 I'd be down to have you back.

06:08:13.300 I would love to.

06:08:13.920 I'd be down to have you back.

06:08:14.900 You could put me in my place.

06:08:16.540 Yeah, you were good for the show, but goddamn, you got some stuff to work on.

06:08:18.100 We should do, like, the same exact panel.

06:08:20.260 We could have a double team.

06:08:21.380 The same panel.

06:08:21.980 The same exact panel, but in, like, a couple months.

06:08:25.200 A reunion.

06:08:25.700 A reunion.

06:08:26.820 A reunion.

06:08:27.520 A reunion.

06:08:27.940 A reunion.

06:08:28.040 In a year.

06:08:28.520 I'll get my shit together.

06:08:29.920 Yes.

06:08:30.280 I'll get my shit together.

06:08:32.380 Yes.

06:08:32.980 I know it takes it.

06:08:34.320 In July.

06:08:35.600 Oh, my birthday.

06:08:36.260 We'll have a reunion into old age.

06:08:38.360 We'll all be in our 60s, and we'll be like, remember that time.

06:08:42.120 Remember the show.

06:08:43.140 You can pull up some of those.

06:08:43.920 Oh, wait.

06:08:44.500 Let me read this one from, hold on.

06:08:45.900 I got you back.

06:08:46.480 Maddie, could you read this?

06:08:47.640 OMG, I'll marry Kay.

06:08:49.060 For real, for real.

06:08:49.880 Oh, you're on.

06:08:50.320 Yay.

06:08:53.800 Did you like it that you should have put it in?

06:08:55.560 Her Instagram is in the description if you guys want to slide in the DMs.

06:09:00.500 I'll slide in the DMs.

06:09:01.560 But she's talking to somebody.

06:09:02.580 Oh, right.

06:09:03.040 That's true.

06:09:03.760 Sorry.

06:09:03.940 I'm not trying to step on any toes there.

06:09:06.280 Yeah, Kay was dope.

06:09:07.300 I think it was a really good panel.

06:09:09.040 Really good panel.

06:09:09.580 I do want to actually get back to dating here.

06:09:13.420 So, let me see.

06:09:14.280 I can maybe touch on a few of my notes here.

06:09:16.380 FJB.

06:09:16.940 Love that.

06:09:17.660 What's FJB?

06:09:20.100 Oh, yeah.

06:09:22.600 It's the Trump thing, right?

06:09:25.180 Trump, Joe Biden.

06:09:27.180 It means F Joe Biden.

06:09:29.140 We have a Let's Go Brandon.

06:09:35.740 It's cleaner.

06:09:38.260 Nickelodeon donated $69.

06:09:40.960 Blonde.

06:09:42.080 Apparently, I was wrong.

06:09:44.120 Gee, that was hard to admit.

06:09:46.360 But when you were pretending to study therapy on Wiki, did you come across the phrase generational

06:09:51.540 trauma?

06:09:52.720 God have mercy on our kids' souls.

06:09:55.100 For real.

06:09:55.600 I'd think about that.

06:09:57.760 Good times.

06:09:59.080 Good times.

06:10:02.080 It's unfortunate.

06:10:03.040 Yeah, our Twitch stream.

06:10:04.480 We lost our Twitch stream.

06:10:05.800 Well, the Twitch stream is back, but it just started a totally separate new stream.

06:10:09.620 So, we're 20 minutes into our Twitch stream.

06:10:11.720 Not sure what happened there.

06:10:13.260 Speaking of which, though, Nick, if you could pull it up.

06:10:15.660 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:10:18.220 Drop us a follow and a prime sub.

06:10:21.100 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

06:10:23.660 Drop us a follow and a prime sub.

06:10:25.660 If you have one.

06:10:26.920 It's been nine minutes, guys, since a prime.

06:10:29.500 If you guys could drop us a little prime.

06:10:32.260 I think it's bugged, boys.

06:10:33.960 I think our Twitch might be bugged.

06:10:35.660 I don't know.

06:10:36.080 There's something.

06:10:36.680 It's like something's weird.

06:10:37.760 Something's kind of like weird with it.

06:10:41.140 I don't know.

06:10:41.880 I'm kind of like from Canada, you know.

06:10:44.460 Yeah.

06:10:45.180 Could you read this, Maddie?

06:10:46.600 Brian's dumpy.

06:10:47.220 The blonde dumbass is the type of therapist that can make a sane person go insane.

06:10:52.940 All I'm feeling from her is bad vibrations and having photos of your kids and blank on your face is vile.

06:10:58.080 CPS.

06:10:58.660 Where are you at?

06:11:00.320 Yeah.

06:11:01.020 That's pretty heartbreaking.

06:11:03.600 I can tell you.

06:11:04.520 I can tell you.

06:11:06.400 Sorry, I did not mean to press any of those buttons.

06:11:08.540 Why do you scream like that?

06:11:09.660 What?

06:11:19.500 Wait, what?

06:11:20.180 Oh, the sidebar?

06:11:21.060 Oh, okay.

06:11:21.960 So.

06:11:23.060 Good talk.

06:11:23.880 What was the...

06:11:25.380 I was trying to think of the light dating question.

06:11:32.060 A light dating question.

06:11:35.480 Various crazy people donated $69.

06:11:38.820 Okay, we'll do that.

06:11:39.660 Kay, you're a good one.

06:11:41.480 You will get a man one day and have many children.

06:11:44.480 God bless.

06:11:45.300 Can we get a double pass out?

06:11:46.520 Desire, you're loud.

06:11:47.460 Never shut up.

06:11:48.560 Disgusting example of a human being and insufferable.

06:11:51.960 I bet even your cat sleeps.

06:11:53.600 Try?

06:11:54.080 A little try?

06:11:54.980 Oh, my triceps are sexy.

06:11:56.160 Hold on.

06:11:56.620 Oh, shit.

06:11:58.020 Oh, shit.

06:11:59.880 Oh, shit.

06:12:00.880 Oh, shit.

06:12:01.360 I don't fuck around anymore.

06:12:04.360 I demanded short of the Omnivans ministry moment.

06:12:08.340 This in the works.

06:12:09.660 It's in the works.

06:12:10.400 Oh, man.

06:12:10.700 My team's already on it.

06:12:11.980 Come this shit up.

06:12:13.220 Okay.

06:12:14.400 All right.

06:12:15.000 Thank you, Optimize ATX.

06:12:16.800 Appreciate it.

06:12:17.880 Wait.

06:12:18.140 Hold on.

06:12:18.500 Oh, we have a dating app review that we're doing for Kay over here.

06:12:22.120 Yeah.

06:12:22.480 Tell me if mine's good.

06:12:23.540 You could be Dee's trainer.

06:12:26.340 Oh, yeah?

06:12:27.480 Yes.

06:12:27.760 I could train you.

06:12:28.880 I love her.

06:12:29.160 All right.

06:12:29.320 This is her hinge.

06:12:30.100 I love her.

06:12:30.600 Kay's hinge.

06:12:31.480 Okay.

06:12:31.760 Let's make sure we're on the same page about our views.

06:12:34.600 Okay.

06:12:34.820 Cool.

06:12:35.020 Next.

06:12:35.160 So, this is, she's Christian.

06:12:37.720 She's conservative.

06:12:38.520 Life partner.

06:12:39.920 Looking for a life partner.

06:12:41.380 Mm-hmm.

06:12:41.580 5'3".

06:12:42.280 You're 5'3"?

06:12:43.080 Okay.

06:12:43.360 Yeah.

06:12:44.100 Wants children.

06:12:45.060 30.

06:12:46.440 Okay.

06:12:46.860 Next.

06:12:47.260 I can't believe you're 30.

06:12:48.780 Okay.

06:12:49.400 Next.

06:12:50.160 Oh, wait.

06:12:50.500 If you're obsessed with the gym as much as me.

06:12:52.840 Damn.

06:12:53.100 Okay.

06:12:53.380 Nice.

06:12:53.680 Nice.

06:12:53.740 Is to start a family with a man who wants to lead it.

06:12:58.920 Yes.

06:12:59.620 Is there another one or is that?

06:13:01.020 There's one more.

06:13:01.680 One more.

06:13:03.440 It's me and my sister.

06:13:04.840 Oh.

06:13:05.380 Oh.

06:13:05.760 Okay.

06:13:06.220 All right.

06:13:06.720 She's gorgeous.

06:13:07.300 Is she younger or older?

06:13:08.500 She's younger.

06:13:09.240 Okay.

06:13:10.120 She's 23.

06:13:11.280 Good times.

06:13:12.000 Mm-hmm.

06:13:12.580 All right.

06:13:12.920 Cool.

06:13:13.380 So, that's for the chat.

06:13:14.840 Chat, do you swipe yes or no?

06:13:17.040 Nick, can you show us the chat?

06:13:17.900 We're all going to see it.

06:13:18.820 I hope so.

06:13:19.500 Is that a yes for Kay or no for Kay?

06:13:21.480 She's pretty based.

06:13:22.520 She's super based.

06:13:23.440 I mean, considering a lot of the shit that we've seen on this show, that really isn't

06:13:29.060 that bad.

06:13:30.340 To be honest, it's not that bad.

06:13:32.700 Pretty reasonable.

06:13:32.900 Now, maybe the standard of it's not that bad, probably, maybe that's a bad standard, but

06:13:37.400 it's just not that bad.

06:13:39.200 What's not that bad?

06:13:39.960 Sorry, I missed.

06:13:40.440 Oh, it's fine.

06:13:42.400 Burger Gryard donated $69.

06:13:45.780 Whatever podcast becomes an intervention.

06:13:48.460 A lot of yeses.

06:13:49.600 A huge W, super based.

06:13:51.420 Blonde, learn about accountability and that there are consequences for your actions and

06:13:56.540 for what you say.

06:13:58.140 Burger out.

06:13:58.800 This could either be a growing experience or she just digs her heels in and is like,

06:14:07.420 fuck that whatever podcast.

06:14:09.100 Yeah.

06:14:09.680 Fuck them.

06:14:10.580 No, no, no.

06:14:11.700 I understand now what the podcast is.

06:14:14.500 So I understand how to.

06:14:16.080 Yeah.

06:14:16.280 She understands that it's a misogynistic incel pod.

06:14:20.060 No, I just understand that it's a group collaborative conversation.

06:14:24.000 I honestly thought I was just coming by myself.

06:14:26.000 Oh, man, Marine donated $69.

06:14:29.500 I have a question for the blonde.

06:14:31.620 Oh, wait.

06:14:32.340 You probably don't have time for that.

06:14:34.940 K, you're based and hot AF.

06:14:37.060 Swipe yes all day.

06:14:38.740 Thank you.

06:14:39.180 Everybody must, K.

06:14:40.320 By the way, I feel like the roast section can also be like a, if you want to leave a nice

06:14:45.380 message too.

06:14:46.280 You guys can always leave, you know, nice.

06:14:48.300 If you enjoy the panelist or.

06:14:50.100 We're like roast us and everyone's like, I love you guys.

06:14:52.100 You can say nice stuff too, you know.

06:14:55.600 Nesta Telgada donated $69.

06:14:58.380 Thank you for the first time.

06:14:59.280 Hi, Brian.

06:14:59.980 First time Donna.

06:15:01.240 Thank you, man.

06:15:01.660 Appreciate it.

06:15:01.860 Blonde lady, no worries.

06:15:03.760 I know you're high energy and things only make sense a certain way, but seems you absorb

06:15:08.960 your surroundings pretty good.

06:15:11.260 Keep that train of thought.

06:15:14.980 Yeah, you're open-minded.

06:15:16.860 Open-minded.

06:15:17.820 I try.

06:15:18.420 I'm sorry.

06:15:18.960 I was so triggered.

06:15:19.640 Just make sure that you're not so open-minded that your brain falls out of your head.

06:15:24.460 Amen.

06:15:25.580 That's funny.

06:15:26.340 I don't want to feel this one fall out of my mouth.

06:15:29.580 Nice.

06:15:30.940 Nice.

06:15:31.380 It's Nestor Delgado.

06:15:33.180 I appreciate it.

06:15:35.280 Uh-oh.

06:15:37.540 Can you read this, Maddie?

06:15:38.920 Desiree, you literally hurt my brain tonight with your filthy strumpet bleep.

06:15:43.500 Ryan, please do not invite her back to this great podcast.

06:15:46.120 This is one of the worst strumpets I've ever seen.

06:15:47.980 I'm down to have, like, I bring people back who I disagree with, so if you want, we can

06:15:52.820 have you back.

06:15:54.580 I'll watch it.

06:15:55.160 Bring me back with that Kiko chip.

06:15:56.420 You want to come back?

06:15:59.480 Child Protective Services.

06:16:00.780 Child Protective Services donated $69.

06:16:03.300 We have received multiple reports about Blondie and have tracked her location.

06:16:08.260 Agents will be deployed to her home to save her children from degeneracy and corrupt upbringing.

06:16:14.020 Don't do that.

06:16:15.160 I get this from the IRS.

06:16:16.240 Do not, do not, under any circumstances do that, and here's why.

06:16:20.760 Yeah, don't do that.

06:16:21.200 Throughout future conversations, we can possibly bring her around to our way of thinking.

06:16:26.640 If her children were taken into foster care, things like that, something insane like that,

06:16:32.300 understand the amount of abuse that they would potentially face is 10 times higher than if

06:16:39.140 they were left with their mother.

06:16:40.140 Never do that.

06:16:41.380 Yeah.

06:16:42.360 Never, ever do that, and that is not what this show is about.

06:16:46.400 This show is about the free exchange of ideas when it comes to dating, when it comes to relationships.

06:16:52.120 I don't want to hear fucking nothing about that.

06:16:55.080 It's bullshit.

06:16:55.940 Brian doesn't endorse it.

06:16:57.420 Enough of that.

06:16:57.800 Proudly unvaxxed, donated $69.

06:17:01.160 Blonde false preacher dot, you genuinely disgust me.

06:17:04.720 I truly hope CPS is called because you are admitting to essentially G-rooming her kids,

06:17:09.780 and it made me physically ill to hear that.

06:17:12.220 I pray they are saved.

06:17:14.440 Disavow, and also just want to make it clear, that previous message, that's not actually CPS.

06:17:19.960 People will pretend they'll type...

06:17:22.100 Of course they're joking.

06:17:22.960 Yeah, they're joking.

06:17:24.280 They'll pretend to be IRS.

06:17:25.840 Bob Saget, donated $69.

06:17:27.520 They're not going to do that.

06:17:28.920 I found out last week my wife is cheating on me and looking at an expensive divorce.

06:17:34.180 Wish me luck.

06:17:35.500 She won't get this $69 at least.

06:17:38.800 Kay, what do you bench?

06:17:40.280 What do you bench, Kay?

06:17:42.000 $155.

06:17:42.580 Hey, nice.

06:17:43.340 There you go.

06:17:44.100 There you go.

06:17:45.040 Blondie, you don't need to.

06:17:47.120 You don't need to cry.

06:17:48.500 I can see you.

06:17:49.400 I can see you on the verge, right?

06:17:51.560 You don't have to.

06:17:52.760 The truth is that most of this is fucking nonsense,

06:17:56.380 and they're joking around.

06:17:58.780 Let it go.

06:17:59.540 Let it go.

06:18:00.140 Let it go.

06:18:01.440 It's nonsense.

06:18:02.980 Let it go.

06:18:04.240 They send in messages.

06:18:05.760 Nobody's going to do it.

06:18:07.140 Nobody's going to do it.

06:18:08.240 You'll be fine.

06:18:08.780 You'll be fine.

06:18:09.260 I'm not worried about that.

06:18:09.900 Trust me.

06:18:10.020 You'll be fine.

06:18:10.820 I promise.

06:18:11.500 I get it a lot.

06:18:12.380 Hang on.

06:18:12.880 Look at me.

06:18:13.380 Look at me.

06:18:14.360 You'll be fine.

06:18:15.300 I promise.

06:18:16.320 It's nonsense.

06:18:17.200 They're just having a go.

06:18:19.200 Yeah.

06:18:20.540 They're just having a go.

06:18:22.060 Like, for example, for example, wait, just hold on.

06:18:25.020 For example, people will send in a message pretending to be the internal revenue service,

06:18:29.880 and they'll joke and say, oh, Brian, or if there's an OF girl, they'll say, oh, you know,

06:18:37.120 that, you know, whatever.

06:18:38.480 They'll make some joke that they're, I can't.

06:18:41.260 It was recent that somebody sent in an IRS one, right, Nick?

06:18:44.400 Do you remember what it was about?

06:18:45.440 It was funny.

06:18:47.160 They're joking.

06:18:48.400 I wouldn't take it.

06:18:49.420 Danielle Dilval donated $69.

06:18:52.860 Blonde, your kids might not make it to high school B.C. of your shitty decisions.

06:18:57.840 When the funeral comes up, remember this podcast.

06:19:01.940 It will be all your fault, and maybe you'll post a pic with Nut after.

06:19:07.140 Hey, let it go.

06:19:10.280 Half of it is fun.

06:19:12.340 Half of it is joking.

06:19:13.780 They're not going to do it.

06:19:15.900 The whole point of it, the whole point of it is to try to jar you out of where it is

06:19:22.580 that you mentally are at.

06:19:26.000 I'm not trying to make excuses.

06:19:28.560 It really isn't what you think it is.

06:19:31.000 Just chill out.

06:19:32.160 You're good.

06:19:33.040 I promise.

06:19:33.820 Look at me.

06:19:35.000 I'm not going to fucking feed you bullshit.

06:19:37.220 If I thought that you were the fucking scumbag of the universe, I would tell you, and I

06:19:40.820 do think you're kind of a scumbag, but that aside, nobody's going to do this to you.

06:19:47.500 They're joking.

06:19:47.960 They're joking.

06:19:48.680 They're joking.

06:19:49.360 I understand.

06:19:49.780 I'm not emotional about thinking that that's going to happen.

06:19:54.220 Of course.

06:19:54.980 I get emotional because it's very easy for people to pick out certain elements of a

06:20:02.960 personality out of context and then judge a person based on that.

06:20:08.920 Of course.

06:20:09.340 And I can take it all day long with the, I'm a slut and I'm useless, but when it comes

06:20:16.120 to the kids, because I'm not saying I'm a perfect mother, but I do a pretty damn good

06:20:23.160 job with my kids considering the cards that were dealt, you could say.

06:20:28.040 Listen.

06:20:28.840 And I'm always trying to improve.

06:20:30.520 Listen.

06:20:30.940 I'm not even pushing that way.

06:20:33.120 I'm just saying that I'm a father myself.

06:20:36.060 I understand where it is your angst is coming from.

06:20:40.280 I do.

06:20:41.340 There's nothing I love more in this world than my own children, but just try to understand

06:20:46.160 this is part of a rose section.

06:20:48.640 There's nothing that's going to come of it.

06:20:51.160 We don't need the tears because they're totally unwarranted.

06:20:55.760 Just trust me.

06:20:57.040 I wasn't trying to cry.

06:20:59.040 Trust me.

06:20:59.460 I was trying to not cry.

06:21:00.720 If it were anything to the contrary, I would just tell you.

06:21:03.120 The TTS is temporarily paused.

06:21:06.460 Just to lighten the mood, this is something we haven't done in a very long time.

06:21:10.080 This is dating related.

06:21:12.520 I want to play the Patrice O'Neill clip.

06:21:14.400 I don't think we've, it's been maybe a year since we've played the Patrice O'Neill clip.

06:21:19.440 It's a classic.

06:21:20.560 We'll lighten the mood a bit.

06:21:21.500 The TTS is temporarily paused.

06:21:23.500 I see a few of you have sent one in.

06:21:25.000 Don't worry.

06:21:25.680 We will get those.

06:21:26.600 We're just going to pause them for a few minutes.

06:21:29.000 Nick, do you know the Patrice clip?

06:21:30.560 No, it's going to probably be in the Dropbox folder.

06:21:35.240 So those of you sending TTS in, it's temporarily paused, just letting you guys know.

06:21:39.640 We will get to them.

06:21:41.220 So there's a few in the queue.

06:21:43.020 While he pulls the clip up, do you understand that there's a distinction between we're playing around,

06:21:51.360 we're messing around, we're kidding around, and what may manifest itself in reality?

06:21:57.620 These people are not actually going to do any of this.

06:22:01.840 It's a joke.

06:22:02.960 They're kidding.

06:22:05.260 Do you understand?

06:22:07.740 I understand.

06:22:08.260 It's just it hits the deepest fears in me of not doing my best for my kids.

06:22:15.500 Do you realize that a public persona like myself gets hit with this nonstop every single day?

06:22:26.440 So that's why I'm using it as a growth opportunity to expand my capacity to be able to take criticisms.

06:22:33.180 And at the end of the day, I do sleep okay at night because I know I am personally doing the best I can.

06:22:39.160 Then stop crying.

06:22:40.200 Man the fuck up.

06:22:41.240 Hey, you know what?

06:22:42.100 Man the fuck up.

06:22:44.180 Get that masculine energy up.

06:22:45.380 I'm good.

06:22:46.140 I'm good.

06:22:46.620 She's good.

06:22:47.300 Yeah, you're good.

06:22:48.320 Let's see the good.

06:22:49.540 There we go.

06:22:50.680 Manning the fuck up, right?

06:22:52.480 We're not going to cry.

06:22:53.780 We're not going to whine.

06:22:55.280 We're going to man the fuck up, right?

06:22:57.200 Good job, Nick.

06:22:58.280 Good job.

06:22:59.300 Music helps.

06:23:00.280 Oh.

06:23:00.920 There we go.

06:23:01.480 There we go.

06:23:03.000 I can't flash a nip because for God's sakes, you'll lose your life apparently.

06:23:09.660 And God, Brian, you're my butt.

06:23:11.700 Nick, Nick, the showrunner.

06:23:14.100 Remember we had a nip slip and we almost.

06:23:16.140 Hang on, hang on.

06:23:17.120 He's one of the nicest men I've ever come across in my life.

06:23:20.460 You are really a good man.

06:23:21.900 I can tell.

06:23:22.080 He is one of the kindest men I've ever met.

06:23:24.740 He does everything he can possibly do to take care of the people who are around him.

06:23:29.440 And this is Nick.

06:23:30.600 Why are you beating up on Nick?

06:23:32.720 No, I said a nip slip.

06:23:34.820 Nip.

06:23:35.460 N-I-P.

06:23:36.800 Remember we had the whole tragedy in the beginning?

06:23:39.680 I was trying to lighten the mood and I was making a joke saying I would flash everybody

06:23:45.560 to lighten the mood, but we can't do that because it'll ruin the world.

06:23:50.300 Now you see why they're all wanting to call CPS.

06:23:52.240 What the hell?

06:23:53.160 Stop trying to flash people all the time.

06:23:55.500 No, I'm kidding.

06:23:56.180 I'm joking.

06:23:56.840 It's a joke.

06:23:58.000 But I'm just saying, Brian has some of the best showrunners who are out there.

06:24:03.940 And then on top of that, don't take it so seriously.

06:24:07.260 Don't have the tears in the eyes.

06:24:09.160 Just enjoy yourself.

06:24:10.660 Enjoy yourself.

06:24:12.520 Enjoy yourself.

06:24:13.800 I'm going to wait to play the clip until she's back.

06:24:16.160 It's unfortunate that she got up.

06:24:18.360 While we do that, though, I will allow a couple of these chats to come in.

06:24:21.660 Then we'll play the clip.

06:24:23.240 I'll allow the kind of more tame ones.

06:24:25.020 The other ones will come through, but I'm just going to do a little bit of moderation

06:24:28.220 on the TTS here for just a moment.

06:24:30.760 Let me see if I can.

06:24:32.720 Wait, Frick.

06:24:33.460 She admitted it, donated 69.

06:24:35.200 Hold on.

06:24:37.380 Hold on, boys.

06:24:38.900 Let me see how I'm going to do this here.

06:24:42.180 Okay.

06:24:42.680 She's back.

06:24:43.540 We're going to just play the clip.

06:24:45.840 As soon as she comes back to the table, we're going to play the – there she is.

06:24:48.880 She's hustling.

06:24:49.760 She's grinding.

06:24:50.660 She's running.

06:24:51.280 She gets the aggro crack, boys.

06:24:55.060 The radical rock.

06:24:56.540 Okay.

06:24:56.920 Go ahead and play the Patrice clip, Nick.

06:24:59.460 Video tab.

06:25:01.640 Wait.

06:25:02.060 Hold on.

06:25:04.480 Yeah.

06:25:05.600 Let's just show this really quick, and then we're going to hide it.

06:25:08.280 God damn, bro.

06:25:09.500 Y'all got to chill out in the chat.

06:25:11.920 All right.

06:25:15.140 Do we hide, Andrew?

06:25:19.100 We'll keep him.

06:25:20.080 We'll keep him.

06:25:22.540 Let me ask you a question.

06:25:23.460 Here's a question.

06:25:24.100 Here's a serious question.

06:25:25.060 Okay, ladies, if you didn't have a vagina – like, say it was a terrible train accident, right,

06:25:33.500 and the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away, or you're going to die.

06:25:42.100 How would you keep your man past – you get a two-month guilty, I can't leave the bitch

06:25:49.080 right away because she just lost the pussy in a train accident.

06:25:50.760 Can't just walk right out on him.

06:26:00.840 How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina?

06:26:07.420 We have other holes.

06:26:09.000 Yeah, we got other holes.

06:26:10.440 We can cook.

06:26:11.260 We can clean.

06:26:12.440 No, no, no, no, no.

06:26:13.640 Hang on.

06:26:14.060 To the spirit of the actual question.

06:26:16.560 Let us start with Blondie.

06:26:18.680 Hang on.

06:26:19.100 Let us start with Blondie.

06:26:20.020 D.

06:26:20.920 Because Blondie's position was the ultimate strength of women, including her, was that

06:26:28.160 she had the V that the men wanted because of the P, right?

06:26:34.960 So his question kind of alludes to my own, which is what value do you bring to the table

06:26:43.200 other than that?

06:26:45.180 Pleasure.

06:26:45.320 So now you have the golden opportunity to tell us.

06:26:48.440 I can still give him pleasure.

06:26:51.220 I mean, I guess if I didn't have that hole, then it is what it is.

06:26:55.980 But I believe I would still maintain the same, my same commitment to him to bring him the

06:27:02.200 pleasure however I could.

06:27:03.880 And for us to bond and be close and for me to be his confidant, for me to be his whatever

06:27:10.160 he needs me to be and for me to receive his penetration in whatever way we could work out as a couple.

06:27:17.620 Well, it seems as though you're still saying that the ultimate value that you bring to the

06:27:22.580 table is that he can have sex with you.

06:27:25.340 Well, let's get the whole, all the girls to answer this question.

06:27:28.820 Go ahead.

06:27:29.800 What is the actual question?

06:27:31.720 Did you not just watch the clip?

06:27:33.900 What would you sexually make him happy?

06:27:34.800 Did you watch the clip that we just, into the mic?

06:27:37.900 We're referring sexually.

06:27:38.800 Scoot the mic to the edge.

06:27:39.720 If you have no vagina into it.

06:27:41.720 We're referring sexually to what we would do.

06:27:45.940 What would you, no, no.

06:27:46.780 Well, let them interpret it however they want to interpret it.

06:27:49.900 So, what would you do?

06:27:52.160 Okay, look, hold on, hold on.

06:27:54.320 Terrible train accident.

06:27:55.260 Lost your pussy.

06:27:55.960 Pussy gone, train accident.

06:27:57.200 The pussy's gone.

06:27:58.800 Terrible train accident.

06:28:00.460 What do you do?

06:28:01.820 You get a three month, can't leave the bitch, just lost pussy in a train accident.

06:28:06.800 What do you do to keep your men?

06:28:09.440 I get a cleaning lady, so she's cleaning that house.

06:28:13.720 I get a chef, so she's making dinner, because I can't get up, because I don't got no pussy.

06:28:19.120 And then, I am wearing lingerie, even though I still got no pussy.

06:28:25.380 And I'm going to just lay in that bed, and I can't open my legs, so I can't really do that.

06:28:31.320 I have a mouth, that works.

06:28:34.380 We eat dinner together, we'll watch shows together.

06:28:37.520 There you go.

06:28:38.300 I will wear my butt plug for you during the day, and then, if it's been a really long

06:28:46.420 day, you get to, you get to the back door.

06:28:49.840 What about you?

06:28:50.240 Well, I don't really rely on sex that much, so I would just kind of do the same thing

06:29:00.400 I normally do, and that, just spend time, and have engaging conversations, and watch

06:29:07.520 movies, paint, interact, grow businesses, talk about the future, and just keep doing what

06:29:14.500 we've been doing, just without the sex.

06:29:16.780 The sex is never, or specifically the pussy, is never the issue here.

06:29:21.660 What about you?

06:29:22.180 Similar to what she said, I feel like if he loves you enough, he would still stay with

06:29:28.500 you, even after you don't have a vagina.

06:29:30.860 But what would you, so the question is, what would you do to keep your man?

06:29:33.920 I said the similar thing as her, like, basically the same thing, so just spend quality time.

06:29:40.600 You just caught me choking on camera.

06:29:44.420 I love to say, I know the Heimlich.

06:29:47.760 You okay?

06:29:48.960 Yeah, popcorn just like...

06:29:50.500 Yeah, popcorn's always the culprit.

06:29:52.580 It's like that, she's like Bevo.

06:29:54.700 He does like the fucking...

06:29:56.580 Wait, now you're choking on water, Madison.

06:29:59.020 What's going on?

06:30:00.300 I've been seeing him all over my TikTok, and I send it to Nick every time.

06:30:04.860 He like...

06:30:05.500 Wait, it does that?

06:30:06.480 It's actually kind of funny.

06:30:08.100 He'll like...

06:30:08.380 It's so funny.

06:30:09.360 He tries to swallow food whole, and he'll like...

06:30:12.540 It looks like he's about to die.

06:30:16.060 Yo, shout out to Bevo, bro.

06:30:17.720 Wait, wait, wait, wait, Brian.

06:30:19.040 You're not talking about Cuck Bevo.

06:30:20.760 We're talking about Cuck Bevo.

06:30:23.040 Oh, okay.

06:30:23.760 He's...

06:30:24.120 It's funny.

06:30:25.020 He's not funny, but it's more like we're laughing at him.

06:30:27.640 But not with him sort of thing.

06:30:31.280 There's like compilations on TikTok, and it's like, all the times we've almost lost Bevo.

06:30:37.080 And it's just kind of like...

06:30:38.440 It's kind of funny.

06:30:39.240 Like swallowing food whole.

06:30:40.860 Did Bevo ever apologize for his malicious and salacious lies against the whatever podcast?

06:30:46.900 He did not.

06:30:47.460 In fact, after I confronted him about it, he blocked me on TikTok.

06:30:54.120 And...

06:30:54.600 Oh, here's actually the crazy thing, Andrew.

06:30:56.840 Update on that.

06:30:57.640 So he blocked me on Instagram.

06:30:59.260 He blocked me on TikTok.

06:31:00.680 The reason he blocked me on TikTok is from my whatever account.

06:31:03.320 I looked at one of his videos, and people were commenting, saying something along the lines of...

06:31:08.920 You're a lying sack of dog shit?

06:31:10.700 Yeah, but...

06:31:11.400 So there were people leaving comments saying, well, hold on.

06:31:14.220 Your girlfriend in a live, like a week before she showed up on the show, on a live stream,

06:31:20.280 said on her own live stream that they were in an open relationship.

06:31:25.080 So what's the truth?

06:31:26.540 In a live stream, before she even came on, was talking about how she was in an open relationship.

06:31:32.180 Here's another fact.

06:31:33.460 If you go to her Instagram, I didn't...

06:31:38.020 You know, it's like three bucks or some shit.

06:31:39.300 I'm not going to pay that, but whatever.

06:31:42.320 She says she does BBG, BBB...

06:31:46.460 I'm pretty sure...

06:31:47.020 Three B's, I'm pretty sure.

06:31:48.200 BBBJ.

06:31:49.300 BBBG content.

06:31:50.180 So that means that she's doing content with multiple men, which would...

06:31:55.880 I think that necessarily means that she's in an open relationship and other men...

06:32:02.020 Uh-oh.

06:32:02.740 We just lost Andrew.

06:32:04.020 Fuck.

06:32:05.320 God damn it.

06:32:06.580 It's...

06:32:07.080 Wait.

06:32:07.720 Just leave it.

06:32:09.200 I'm curious to know if...

06:32:10.860 Can you guys still hear me?

06:32:12.380 We can hear you.

06:32:13.360 Hey, Andrew.

06:32:14.580 The Wizard of Oz.

06:32:15.620 The voice is there.

06:32:16.160 You're just frozen on screen, but we can hear you.

06:32:18.340 Our...

06:32:18.820 Sorry, man.

06:32:19.620 Our internet is fucking crapping now.

06:32:21.060 We can react to a video of Bebo with your face.

06:32:22.880 Oops.

06:32:24.880 God damn it.

06:32:28.160 Okay.

06:32:28.620 Are we back?

06:32:29.260 I'm sorry, guys.

06:32:30.220 I don't know what the...

06:32:31.020 There he goes.

06:32:31.500 He's moving.

06:32:32.160 Okay.

06:32:32.800 Yeah, yeah.

06:32:33.260 Okay.

06:32:33.680 So here's where we stop, Brian.

06:32:35.940 Yeah, shit.

06:32:36.540 Sorry, guys.

06:32:36.920 You were talking about Bebo's ex.

06:32:38.720 Are we back?

06:32:39.180 I'm sorry.

06:32:39.700 Twitch, are we back?

06:32:41.140 Yeah, yeah.

06:32:41.880 We're back.

06:32:42.360 In fact, his future ex was explaining that they are in an actual open relationship and

06:32:49.900 go on from there.

06:32:51.200 Yeah.

06:32:51.660 So she did a live before she came on the show saying that she, at least that's what the

06:32:56.720 comments on TikTok, that's what made him block me because I was trying to get some details.

06:33:00.760 She said that they were in an open relationship in a live stream.

06:33:03.260 And then if you go to her OnlyFans, it says she does BBG, BBBG content, if I recall correctly,

06:33:11.760 the numbers of the Bs, which means that she's sleeping with other men for scenes on her OnlyFans.

06:33:18.700 Why are you waving your head?

06:33:20.780 BB, boy, boy, girl, boy, boy, boy, girl.

06:33:24.080 I thought it was bareback.

06:33:25.940 No, BBG.

06:33:26.820 So can I get from the panel, if your significant other, the person who you claimed you cared

06:33:36.760 about the most in the world, in this case, you're a male and this was a female, and you

06:33:43.240 allowed other men to have sex with this female who you claimed you valued more than anything

06:33:51.380 else, would that man be a cuck?

06:33:53.800 Can I get a raise of hands for who would consider him a cuck?

06:34:00.360 Basically everybody, except, of course, the contrarian on the panel.

06:34:04.180 But essentially, everybody would consider him a cuck.

06:34:09.220 So I just want to get clarification on that.

06:34:12.920 Yeah.

06:34:13.960 Did we go around on the Patrice?

06:34:16.240 What do you do to keep your man?

06:34:17.340 Oh, I would support him in his business and what he's doing.

06:34:25.260 I'd be loving.

06:34:26.060 I would cook him.

06:34:26.940 I'd cook for him, spend time with him.

06:34:28.740 And I would still find ways to sexually pleasure him.

06:34:30.680 How are you walking around?

06:34:32.340 What the heck?

06:34:33.180 I still have legs.

06:34:34.160 I just don't have a vagina.

06:34:35.240 It would heal eventually, right?

06:34:36.520 The wound would heal.

06:34:37.380 It's a terrible train accident.

06:34:42.680 The pussy's gone.

06:34:43.220 It's just like so together.

06:34:43.760 But I still have my legs.

06:34:45.480 Wait, what?

06:34:46.300 I still have my legs, right?

06:34:47.200 I can still walk around.

06:34:47.880 We didn't get our body chopped off.

06:34:48.720 Yeah.

06:34:49.280 The pussy is gone.

06:34:50.720 Well, wait, can you just wait until we...

06:34:52.780 I was just assuming it was just that part, honestly.

06:34:55.300 What about you?

06:34:56.100 Your answer?

06:34:56.760 So it's basically just what we can still offer.

06:34:59.280 I would just say...

06:34:59.840 No, no, no.

06:35:00.060 The question is, what do you do to keep your man?

06:35:03.360 What do you do to keep your man?

06:35:04.340 No, yeah.

06:35:04.780 If we don't have that, what do we offer?

06:35:06.060 Yeah, it's just basically...

06:35:07.700 I was just going to say that if...

06:35:10.060 Like, when he comes home from a long day of work,

06:35:11.960 you can still give him a massage,

06:35:13.120 make him still feel good,

06:35:14.340 even though you can't make him feel good in other ways.

06:35:16.240 You can still do that.

06:35:17.780 You can still help him out with whatever his business is.

06:35:20.260 You want a man that's emotionally intelligent.

06:35:21.820 You have to be able to deal with a man that's like that.

06:35:24.100 So you want to be able to still be there for him in that way.

06:35:26.800 You still want to be able to do your motherly duties,

06:35:28.620 your wifely duties, of course.

06:35:30.880 Madison.

06:35:32.240 Yeah, what she said.

06:35:34.000 Yeah, no, I can't...

06:35:36.060 Let this slide.

06:35:37.700 Wait, but hold on.

06:35:38.120 I'm sorry, Kate.

06:35:38.780 Hang on, Kate.

06:35:39.480 You were so bass a second ago.

06:35:41.460 Wait, wait, wait.

06:35:41.960 But, Andrew, we got to play the clip.

06:35:43.740 We got to play the...

06:35:44.600 There's a follow-up.

06:35:47.320 Nick, play the rest of the clip.

06:35:48.240 Nick?

06:35:48.320 Nick?

06:35:48.400 Nick?

06:35:48.440 Nick?

06:35:48.840 Nick?

06:35:48.900 Nick?

06:35:49.400 Nick?

06:35:49.840 Nick?

06:35:50.340 Nick?

06:35:50.840 Nick?

06:35:51.840 Nick?

06:35:52.840 Nick?

06:35:53.840 Nick?

06:35:54.840 Nick?

06:35:55.840 Nick?

06:35:56.840 Nick?

06:35:57.840 Nick?

06:35:58.840 Nick?

06:35:59.840 Nick?

06:36:00.840 Nick?

06:36:01.840 Nick?

06:36:02.840 Nick?

06:36:03.840 Nick?

06:36:04.840 Nick?

06:36:05.840 Nick?

06:36:06.560 Nick?

06:36:08.680 Nick?

06:36:09.160 Nick?

06:36:10.480 Asshole.

06:36:11.040 Okay, great.

06:36:12.740 Do you see what I'm saying?

06:36:14.240 Now, I've been getting pussy-bean the whole show, right?

06:36:16.980 But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more...

06:36:20.780 But, you just classify yourself as a series of hoes, but...

06:36:25.740 You know, I'm...

06:36:27.820 I'm supposed to treat you special, but you're just a bunch of hoes for yourself.

06:36:35.360 No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories,

06:36:40.760 get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in.

06:36:43.000 Oh, I like that.

06:36:46.080 Well, look, whatever.

06:36:50.520 Andrew, do you have a quick thing on this, and then I need to let the TTS come through.

06:36:53.360 So, Kay, I do have to pick on you and the Pentecostal for a second.

06:37:00.880 I need to hear from you, Kay.

06:37:02.900 You were so based five seconds ago as you were destroying the evil in the room,

06:37:09.020 but what are you bringing to the table other than sex?

06:37:13.200 What?

06:37:14.520 Oh, I said it already.

06:37:16.420 What? What is it?

06:37:17.480 Oh, I was just going to say, like, you want to give your man peace.

06:37:20.100 Like, when he comes home, you don't want to, he doesn't want to come home to a dragon.

06:37:24.100 You want to come home to a nice woman that's going to, like, give you massages if you had a stressful day.

06:37:29.440 You won't get on his nerves.

06:37:32.060 You'll cook for him, obviously.

06:37:33.500 You'll go to the gym with him, make his protein shake.

06:37:36.800 I'm just thinking, like, a gym perspective.

06:37:38.940 Why are you doing all that?

06:37:40.600 Because you love him.

06:37:41.520 I love him.

06:37:42.900 Is it because you love him?

06:37:45.780 What, how do you show respect, though?

06:37:48.920 How do you show respect?

06:37:50.580 Yeah.

06:37:51.360 I mean, I guess in multitudes of ways.

06:37:53.420 I mean, if he says, hey, I don't want you to wear that, and this is the reason why, or even if he doesn't give a reason, you just got to trust him.

06:38:01.080 What if he says, I don't want you to hang out with your best friend, Kay?

06:38:03.740 Oh, God, I'm missing him.

06:38:05.100 What if he says, I don't want you to hang out with your best friend, Kay?

06:38:08.260 He's going to love Corey.

06:38:09.080 What if he says that, Kay?

06:38:09.960 I got to know.

06:38:11.260 He's going to love Corey.

06:38:12.240 You're going to show it in a multitude of ways.

06:38:14.040 You're going to rub his back.

06:38:15.820 You're going to suck, S the D.

06:38:17.360 You're going to do all this.

06:38:18.660 What if he says, I don't want you to hang out with the best friend?

06:38:22.220 How are we going to show the respect?

06:38:23.900 How?

06:38:24.640 Well, I'm going to be living with him anyways.

06:38:27.080 I wouldn't be hanging out with Corey at all.

06:38:29.880 So Corey doesn't exist if your man says Corey doesn't exist, right?

06:38:35.240 When I'm living with him, yes.

06:38:38.060 All right.

06:38:39.740 I feel like we're getting somewhere.

06:38:41.880 I feel like we're getting somewhere.

06:38:43.180 All right.

06:38:43.540 Did you, was there someone else that you had a question for?

06:38:48.540 Yeah, yeah.

06:38:48.880 So for the Pentecostal on the panel.

06:38:52.220 Oh, sorry.

06:38:52.840 My bad, my bad, my bad.

06:38:53.320 What are you bringing more than speaking in tongues to him while he's asleep?

06:38:58.420 I'll pray over him in tongues.

06:38:59.520 That's a joke.

06:39:00.120 It's a joke.

06:39:01.400 Don't beat me up about it.

06:39:02.640 I'm kidding.

06:39:03.440 No, no.

06:39:04.340 We're of two different face, but you've been pretty based on the whole panel too.

06:39:08.960 What are you bringing to the table?

06:39:10.280 What are you bringing for the man?

06:39:11.760 For sure, honor, respect, support.

06:39:16.080 My boyfriend is a big business owner, so a lot of stress.

06:39:19.620 So I make sure that I'm there for him, spend quality time with him, be submissive.

06:39:27.180 And I still would find, as a wife, I would still find ways to please him.

06:39:32.640 I think that is part of a biblical wife as well.

06:39:35.380 What does submission mean to you?

06:39:37.560 Trusting him and just like, if he tells me to go left, I go left.

06:39:41.060 What if you think you should go right?

06:39:44.460 So here's the thing.

06:39:46.040 So you and I can agree on one underlying point.

06:39:50.000 If your man wants you to become a Satanist, obviously you're going to say no because you're

06:39:54.720 going to defer to your faith because that is within reason.

06:40:00.360 However, you can have tons of disagreements within reason and you can have a deferring

06:40:06.840 opinion to his.

06:40:09.300 Do you defer to him?

06:40:11.320 Yeah.

06:40:11.460 I think the foundation is that he has to be submitted to God.

06:40:14.640 Then I can be submitted to him.

06:40:16.260 And then everything else besides that, like if I don't agree with him 100%, I still have

06:40:21.340 to trust him.

06:40:22.460 What if he's spending all that money, the ways that you hate, and he's raising those

06:40:27.040 kids, all the ways that you hate, you just, you're so angry about it.

06:40:32.740 Do you submit?

06:40:34.380 Yeah.

06:40:34.780 I will.

06:40:35.420 I would talk to him about it.

06:40:37.480 I think that it would still.

06:40:39.220 But he dismisses it.

06:40:40.060 He says, no, then I mean, I'm in charge of this family and I'm correct.

06:40:45.520 And that's that.

06:40:47.080 If he's you defer, the only way I would defer if he's abusing or cheating, like abusing

06:40:54.200 my kids or abusing me or.

06:40:56.260 Yeah.

06:40:56.380 He's not abusing them.

06:40:57.560 He just has a different worldview for where he wants.

06:41:00.740 No, I would.

06:41:01.500 I would submit.

06:41:02.960 You would submit.

06:41:03.800 Yeah.

06:41:04.060 Okay.

06:41:04.300 Even though my, so even in, even in cases of faith, as long as he's not leading you

06:41:09.420 towards the devil.

06:41:10.500 Right.

06:41:11.080 Right.

06:41:11.360 It has to be within the confines of reason.

06:41:13.820 If he's truly submitted to God.

06:41:16.000 Hang on.

06:41:16.420 Most arguments happen within the confines of reason.

06:41:19.520 He may have reasons you don't like, but that doesn't make him unreasonable.

06:41:24.160 Right.

06:41:24.360 You still submit.

06:41:25.520 Right.

06:41:26.620 Yes.

06:41:27.360 If.

06:41:27.880 Yes.

06:41:28.400 He is submitted to God, then I will submit to him.

06:41:31.360 So.

06:41:32.020 Even if I don't understand why he's telling me to do something.

06:41:34.700 So how is that not fake freedom that you mentioned earlier?

06:41:38.900 Because then I don't, it's not fake freedom because I don't have to worry about a lot of

06:41:43.460 things that he's carrying that.

06:41:45.240 Have you ever heard like, or you probably haven't.

06:41:46.860 That's insane.

06:41:47.660 Wait, wait, wait.

06:41:48.520 Are you saying that your future children aren't going to be free?

06:41:53.560 What?

06:41:53.920 My children?

06:41:54.620 Yeah.

06:41:54.940 To the, to the Russian gal.

06:41:56.560 Me?

06:41:57.100 I'm not.

06:41:57.780 Your children.

06:41:58.640 Your children.

06:41:59.080 I'm never going to have kids.

06:42:01.340 So it doesn't matter.

06:42:02.280 If you did, if you did, we're going to assume for a second that you had a child.

06:42:06.240 Okay.

06:42:06.500 Are you going to protect the, the, um, the plugs?

06:42:10.640 They don't stick their finger in it?

06:42:12.880 Um, probably not because.

06:42:15.360 No?

06:42:16.280 Not the plugs.

06:42:17.200 Kill them.

06:42:17.580 Not the plugs because I've put my fingers on the plugs when I was a kid.

06:42:21.100 I'm fine.

06:42:21.500 What if they suck their finger and then they did it?

06:42:23.680 Oh yeah, then they do that.

06:42:24.560 I would teach my kids better than that because I was taught better than that.

06:42:28.720 My son did that with an extension cord and zapped them and he never did it again.

06:42:32.040 Not to stick their finger in a light socket?

06:42:34.380 Really?

06:42:34.960 Okay.

06:42:35.480 All I'm saying is that, um, I mean, it's very different, but also I'm not understanding

06:42:40.620 the point of your question.

06:42:42.380 So, so, so, so, can I consider it to the freedom?

06:42:45.620 Would you let your two-year-old put their hand in a fire?

06:42:48.960 Um, yes, I would because that would teach them a lesson because that's what was done to me.

06:42:53.180 Okay, so I'm going to answer your question though.

06:42:54.680 You say, is that fake freedom?

06:42:55.980 No, no, it's because you mentioned fake freedom.

06:42:58.280 No, no, no, I know what, would you let your kid, hang on, would you let your kid take

06:43:01.920 a knife, hang on, hang on, would you let your kid take a knife and start stabbing themselves

06:43:06.100 in the chest because that would teach them a lesson?

06:43:09.660 No, I would grab the knife and then I would grab a pillow and then I would stab the pillow

06:43:14.820 to show what happens when you actually stab.

06:43:18.240 But that, but that kid doesn't sound free.

06:43:20.880 That doesn't sound free.

06:43:22.120 Yeah, yeah.

06:43:22.680 That sounds like, hang on, that sounds like you're dominating them and not letting them

06:43:26.820 do what they want.

06:43:27.840 But how is, okay, I'm sorry, how is that different from, okay, not understanding exactly the point

06:43:36.280 between a grown woman submitting fully.

06:43:40.460 The point is, who's in charge, you or the kid?

06:43:42.680 Okay, I'm not understanding the point and the difference between a grown woman who already

06:43:49.720 has gone through life and already has been taught all these lessons, submitting fully to

06:43:57.700 a man, even with, against her own body.

06:44:00.380 How is that not a fake freedom?

06:44:02.580 Because you yourself said that I, can I answer?

06:44:05.720 Hang on, I'll answer, I'll answer the question.

06:44:09.500 Let us assume for a moment that you're 20 years old when you have your first child.

06:44:15.120 You would, you would agree that your experience is far surpassing that of the child, correct?

06:44:21.080 Mm-hmm.

06:44:21.800 And so it was a duty for you to guide the child, right?

06:44:28.020 Yeah.

06:44:28.620 Yeah.

06:44:28.860 Okay, great.

06:44:29.560 So let us assume for a second you're 40 and marry a 20-year-old.

06:44:35.200 Does the same duty exist?

06:44:38.040 No, it does not.

06:44:39.740 And it should not.

06:44:40.600 Why not?

06:44:41.740 Because at that point, it's a grown person.

06:44:46.460 Oh, I see.

06:44:47.780 So the lack of experience or the lack of emotional maturity or the lack of anything that one partner

06:44:53.780 may lack, you have no obligation to follow the other one for guidance.

06:44:59.560 What?

06:45:01.260 If you are correcting a child, it's because you think that the child is out of bounds, right?

06:45:06.480 No, it's because the child doesn't know any better just yet and they're still learning

06:45:11.520 about the world.

06:45:12.140 Yes, but adults can also be in the same situation where they don't know any better, right?

06:45:16.480 Okay, except the specific situation I'm asking about is the one that you brought up, where

06:45:21.780 she is shaking with anger and doesn't necessarily want to do it, but there are only specific

06:45:28.200 situations that will push her over the edge.

06:45:34.600 What are those situations?

06:45:35.820 Which were the cheating and abuse.

06:45:38.560 And those are biblical.

06:45:39.960 Yeah, so abuse or infidelity.

06:45:42.940 Yeah.

06:45:43.180 So what's wrong with it?

06:45:44.500 So what's wrong with that?

06:45:45.400 Let's assume for a second.

06:45:46.460 I'm not saying anything's wrong with that.

06:45:48.200 That she married somebody either equal in age to her or 20 years older.

06:45:52.760 Yeah.

06:45:53.120 And it doesn't matter.

06:45:54.100 She makes the agreement that he says, listen, I want a submissive wife and she submits.

06:46:00.960 Yeah.

06:46:01.160 What is actually the problem with him saying, good, then we're going to do things my way.

06:46:07.080 There is no problem as long as everyone's consenting, which is why I asked her a question.

06:46:11.580 And there's a second part to the equation.

06:46:13.060 You guys have like one or two minutes because the TTSs have been viewing up.

06:46:17.180 There's a second part to the equation, which is what I was asking for all of them with clarification.

06:46:21.480 You guys can each make your final arguments on this, please.

06:46:24.240 Go ahead.

06:46:24.860 Okay.

06:46:25.380 So the second part of the equation is that he, I'm not just submitting to him, but he's also laying his life down for me.

06:46:32.520 So he's protecting me.

06:46:33.620 He's loving me.

06:46:34.240 He's looking out for me.

06:46:35.340 Okay.

06:46:35.480 So if I really believe that he is submissive to God and I trust him, then I can be, it's not, it is freedom because I don't have to worry about all these things that I don't want to worry about as a, as a woman.

06:46:47.000 I don't want, I don't think.

06:46:48.320 So she's talking about, she's talking about that pesky epistemology.

06:46:52.600 So from, from her purview, she submits to God.

06:46:57.080 And so she thinks that her partner, in this case, a man who submits to God is in the image of Christ.

06:47:04.260 So she's going to submit to the partner and she's going to submit to God, but she's also going to say, look, my partner is an image bearer, direct image bearer of the relationship between the head of the church and the body of the church.

06:47:19.620 And so she's going to submit.

06:47:21.520 And which is perfectly fine.

06:47:24.060 All I was, all I wanted was clarification.

06:47:26.440 Here's the interesting thing about what she's saying though.

06:47:28.180 She's telling you that this is the case, right?

06:47:32.160 That this is a truth claim.

06:47:33.500 What's interesting about the truth claim is that the women and men who engage in this tend to have the best outcomes.

06:47:41.660 How do you explain that?

06:47:43.600 Okay.

06:47:44.200 Well, actually we haven't had the chance to talk about my relationship.

06:47:47.780 So you don't know anything about me.

06:47:50.280 Don't need to.

06:47:51.180 And well, but that's the thing.

06:47:53.420 It would answer a lot.

06:47:55.360 And I agree with a lot of what you're saying.

06:47:57.520 Oh, it would answer a lot.

06:47:58.880 You said that you met with a disabled man while you were disabled and got really close to him over the disability, but have open relationships.

06:48:08.640 Is that correct?

06:48:09.700 We do not have open relationships.

06:48:12.060 We are, we are monogamous.

06:48:14.560 However, if we meet somebody, it would be a conversation.

06:48:19.600 It would not be immediately cheating.

06:48:21.920 Do you think that inside of a Christian marriage, there would be any such conversation?

06:48:26.400 Well, I'm not, I'm not Christian.

06:48:28.620 So, which is why I'm asking for her opinion.

06:48:30.000 Yeah, so then I don't actually need to understand your epistemology to explain my own.

06:48:35.220 So if you're epistemology.

06:48:35.720 And I wasn't asking for yours.

06:48:37.300 I was asking for hers.

06:48:38.880 Hang on.

06:48:39.360 Your grounding foundation of knowledge is do as thou wilt, which is what it is.

06:48:44.160 Then I can give you the epistemology of the Pentecostal here who is telling you that is not my grounding knowledge.

06:48:52.220 My knowledge comes from God and the submission to God and therefore the submission of my husband.

06:48:57.660 So if we're talking about these two worldview paradigms, she has the superior one because she's saying that she will submit understanding there's a higher authority, which is her husband.

06:49:08.840 And the husband's higher authority, which is God.

06:49:11.220 You're saying you will not submit.

06:49:13.760 I never said that.

06:49:14.920 A conversation can occur.

06:49:16.800 Final.

06:49:17.120 If a conversation can even occur, how could you be submitted?

06:49:21.680 Again, you don't know my relationship.

06:49:23.620 And if we had more time, I would love to go into it.

06:49:26.980 How could you be submitted if you could go to your husband and say you want to fuck another dude?

06:49:32.060 How could you really be submitted?

06:49:33.700 Because I don't.

06:49:35.100 That's the thing.

06:49:35.880 I have not wanted because we are all free people.

06:49:41.460 And if we see somebody that we like, it's all about what we do with your pleasure.

06:49:47.900 Do as I will.

06:49:48.880 Do as do as thou wilt.

06:49:51.100 Yeah, I think everyone should do whatever they want.

06:49:54.100 Did you know that's a Satanist church's like affirmation?

06:49:57.060 I used to be a Satanist.

06:49:58.320 You do whatever you want.

06:49:59.440 I mean, I'm just saying that's fine.

06:50:00.300 I'm not judging you.

06:50:01.140 I'm not judging anybody.

06:50:02.580 I want to understand your perspective, which is why I asked.

06:50:06.040 And I was not asking for your perspective on her perspective.

06:50:09.440 I was asking her directly.

06:50:10.800 Yeah, but listen.

06:50:11.520 That's not the LeVean Satanist affirmation of do as thou wilt.

06:50:17.000 That's an Alistair Crowley affirmation.

06:50:19.900 The Satanic church comes from LeVe.

06:50:23.100 That's a whole different.

06:50:24.420 He's more of a Nietzschean.

06:50:26.120 But that aside, it doesn't matter.

06:50:27.820 It doesn't.

06:50:28.320 What does matter is how could you, here's my question, how could you truly be submitted

06:50:33.220 like she's willing to be to your husband if you're willing to go to your husband and

06:50:37.940 ask if you can sleep with another man?

06:50:40.400 How's that actual submission?

06:50:42.020 Well, that's the thing.

06:50:43.100 I'm not married.

06:50:44.280 I'm never planning on being married.

06:50:46.480 That doesn't answer to the question.

06:50:48.720 No, and that's the thing.

06:50:49.680 If I were to be married and we chose to be completely monogamous for the rest of our

06:50:54.780 lives and that was both of our choices, that's what I would go with because that's what we

06:51:00.460 have decided on.

06:51:01.380 However, in this particular relationship, that was not our decision.

06:51:05.000 Please answer to the question.

06:51:05.580 To the question.

06:51:06.540 To the question.

06:51:07.140 Which is what?

06:51:07.780 I don't have a husband.

06:51:09.220 Hang on.

06:51:09.800 The question itself.

06:51:10.780 If submission means I'm giving myself over to you for all choice, then how could you

06:51:17.700 truly be submitted to a man who you would then be willing to go to and ask that you

06:51:24.100 be shared?

06:51:25.260 How?

06:51:26.240 So you get a response.

06:51:28.620 You make one response.

06:51:30.440 Andrew, you give a response and then I have to move it on.

06:51:33.180 Yeah, yeah.

06:51:33.580 Fair enough.

06:51:34.580 Okay.

06:51:35.100 So I never asked to be shared and it is not about submission.

06:51:42.580 I can submit if it is the right situation.

06:51:48.080 And once again, your question is not even applicable.

06:51:53.080 I'm sorry.

06:51:55.340 Because I'm not planning on 100% submitting.

06:51:59.020 Right?

06:51:59.500 I'm not submitting 100%.

06:52:01.620 Okay.

06:52:01.640 So let me just ask this last question.

06:52:04.360 Okay?

06:52:05.100 How would you feel if you didn't eat breakfast this morning?

06:52:09.100 I didn't eat breakfast this morning.

06:52:11.660 Okay.

06:52:12.060 That's what I thought.

06:52:13.060 All right.

06:52:13.480 We can move on from there.

06:52:14.900 If you guys want, once we get through the TTSs, we can come back to it.

06:52:18.620 I just, they're going to fall off.

06:52:19.940 So I just want to be considerate of them.

06:52:21.720 All right.

06:52:23.660 Real Trump donated $69.

06:52:26.880 Kay, you're a black conservative woman.

06:52:29.900 Are you related to Candace Owens or Jesse Lee Peterson?

06:52:32.920 Would love to make out with you at a Trump rally.

06:52:35.780 Oh my gosh.

06:52:36.260 So hot if you were carrying a Glock right now.

06:52:39.180 Oh my God.

06:52:40.340 I love Candace.

06:52:41.300 She's my favorite.

06:52:42.060 Same.

06:52:42.480 Trump 2024.

06:52:43.640 We're going to have Candace back on the show.

06:52:45.960 Oh my God.

06:52:46.820 I would love to meet her.

06:52:47.760 I'd freaking die.

06:52:48.260 We've, we've, we've had her on the show.

06:52:49.900 I would die.

06:52:51.000 And yeah, we're, we're going to have her back on.

06:52:53.020 She dropped a new, new podcast.

06:52:56.260 Burger graveyard donated $69.

06:52:58.940 Just came for the burger?

06:52:59.600 I just came for the burger.

06:53:01.800 Where's the burger?

06:53:02.700 I know I'm hungry.

06:53:03.720 I know it sounds good.

06:53:05.240 What time is it?

06:53:05.980 Are you bringing us in and out?

06:53:08.300 I haven't slept or eaten anything last week.

06:53:10.540 Oh my.

06:53:12.620 I got to get some airplane food in like four hours.

06:53:14.320 I have protein bars.

06:53:15.760 You want protein bars?

06:53:16.960 No, I got, I got some snacks.

06:53:18.800 Are you sure you're not on anything?

06:53:21.480 She admitted it donated $69.

06:53:24.580 Ah, did we not all hear her say she'll teach her kids how to do acts and encourage them to

06:53:29.900 sell themselves?

06:53:31.400 CPS jokes aside, that is vile.

06:53:34.180 Repent.

06:53:35.320 Repent.

06:53:35.840 All right.

06:53:38.160 Thank you to you, I guess.

06:53:41.140 Thank you.

06:53:42.000 We have another one coming in.

06:53:43.820 There's a little extra delay here, but.

06:53:46.540 Beaten Cheeks donated $69.

06:53:49.760 Brian, explain to Andrew about my soft guy era.

06:53:54.040 Anyways, blonde sugar daddy hunting.

06:53:56.100 If you make seven figures a year, Venmo me $1,000 to my account.

06:54:01.300 I'll talk to you.

06:54:02.460 Pay my bills and I'm yours.

06:54:04.980 Drizzle drizz.

06:54:06.860 Drizzle drizz.

06:54:08.400 I do like the drizzle drizz.

06:54:09.500 Andrew, Beaten Cheeks is in his soft guy era.

06:54:12.400 I'm just letting you know.

06:54:13.040 Mr. Bulle donated $69.

06:54:15.980 Orders from the Grand Inquisitor.

06:54:18.380 Brian, the root cause of your huge weight gain is eating too much popcorn during the podcast.

06:54:24.560 Get to the gym already and ship that sleeve of blue white cups now.

06:54:29.640 Two cups.

06:54:31.120 Wait, what?

06:54:32.740 Two Wilsons.

06:54:33.920 One cup.

06:54:34.300 No sleep.

06:54:37.980 Estos surfer donated $69.

06:54:40.940 Hello, Desiree.

06:54:42.380 I know you had a tough time and feel hurt.

06:54:45.200 Regardless of your personality and difficult interpersonal communication style, you do not need to be personally attacked.

06:54:52.260 If anybody can name a personal attack, I'd like to hear it.

06:55:02.940 Danielle Dilval donated $69.

06:55:06.200 You do a good job to take pee-pee from the highest bidder.

06:55:10.040 Thank God my wife is a blessing, and I don't need to worry about my daughter jumping over a strumpet, Mom.

06:55:16.920 And no, Andrew, I'm not kidding.

06:55:18.900 Lol.

06:55:19.840 Lol.

06:55:20.140 Lol.

06:55:20.340 All right, Daniel Dilval donated $69.

06:55:30.940 Wait.

06:55:31.120 When your daughter is on the corner selling cooter because of you, remember it's all your fault.

06:55:36.120 Oh, no, it's a different one.

06:55:36.740 When she comes up missing because of that kind of work, remember it's you.

06:55:41.220 That's if she doesn't jump before.

06:55:43.640 Oh my God.

06:55:44.800 In a video game.

06:55:48.860 In a video game.

06:55:50.420 Sorry.

06:55:52.860 Don't mod this donated $69.

06:55:56.020 Brian, don't you dare.

06:55:58.140 Can we please not ignore that Blonde said she would teach her offspring to be good at acts?

06:56:03.220 Support them selling themselves how she does.

06:56:06.280 It's textbook grooming.

06:56:08.180 Rebuke.

06:56:09.780 Rebuke?

06:56:10.700 Rebuke her as well.

06:56:11.800 Okay, that came through.

06:56:13.480 We have another one.

06:56:15.960 There's a bunch coming.

06:56:16.700 We've got about seven in the queue.

06:56:18.280 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $69.

06:56:21.840 I'll ask my usual.

06:56:23.940 He's perfect.

06:56:25.360 Strong.

06:56:26.360 Handsome.

06:56:27.280 Rich.

06:56:27.880 Takes you back to his place.

06:56:30.200 Next to his bed.

06:56:31.800 A fully loaded AR-15 rifle.

06:56:34.420 You also discover a safe full of guns.

06:56:37.440 Scary ones.

06:56:39.000 Your reaction.

06:56:39.400 Your reaction.

06:56:41.840 Wait.

06:56:42.440 I'm so glad I'm not dating donated $69.

06:56:46.840 My TTS please.

06:56:49.120 Getting to it right now.

06:56:51.000 We'll answer that.

06:56:52.240 There's a few more that need to come through.

06:56:54.580 So, perfect guy.

06:56:56.820 Strong.

06:56:57.180 Handsome.

06:56:57.500 Rich.

06:56:57.760 Takes you back to his place.

06:56:58.760 Next to his bed.

06:56:59.320 A fully loaded AR-15.

06:57:01.160 You also discover a safe full of guns.

06:57:03.120 Scary ones.

06:57:05.120 What would be a scary gun?

06:57:06.520 I don't get it, but maybe just disregard the scary gun because I don't know.

06:57:15.320 I feel like that kind of poisons the well a little bit.

06:57:17.980 So, your reaction.

06:57:20.060 I'd take it.

06:57:21.300 You got to speak into the mic, please.

06:57:22.600 I would take the gun and I would just disarm it and take.

06:57:27.760 Do you know how to disarm an AR-15?

06:57:31.240 That's the big one?

06:57:33.080 Yeah.

06:57:33.740 Yeah.

06:57:34.300 Yeah.

06:57:34.760 The big one.

06:57:35.560 I go to Guns for Hire.

06:57:38.180 Yeah.

06:57:38.620 And I go to the shooting range.

06:57:40.300 Oh, nice.

06:57:40.640 With my brother.

06:57:41.320 He's a Marine, so.

06:57:42.400 Nice.

06:57:43.300 I don't know the names of the guns, but I know how to take the magazine out.

06:57:47.740 And after you stole his rifle, you would get it disarmed.

06:57:51.520 No.

06:57:52.000 If he was not being intimidating with it, is he intimidating me with it?

06:57:56.560 No.

06:57:56.900 He's not intimidating with it.

06:57:58.160 Yeah.

06:57:58.500 I'd ask him, why do you have that?

06:58:00.160 And can you put the safety on and put it in the safe?

06:58:02.960 And if he said no, I would take it.

06:58:05.480 How would you know if he put the safety on?

06:58:08.100 No.

06:58:08.380 I would ask him to do it.

06:58:09.360 If he was like, no, I didn't put the safety on.

06:58:11.120 Yeah, but what does the safety on mean in context of an AR-15?

06:58:15.600 How would you know if the safety was on?

06:58:17.720 I guess I wouldn't.

06:58:18.680 What does that look like?

06:58:18.700 I guess I wouldn't.

06:58:19.480 I would have to ask him to take the magazine out.

06:58:22.760 So you would just have to trust him?

06:58:24.540 No.

06:58:24.880 I would have to ask him to take the magazine out.

06:58:26.800 I would have to tell him.

06:58:27.480 No, he took the magazine out.

06:58:28.760 There's still one in the chamber.

06:58:29.920 There's still one in there.

06:58:32.500 If there was one in the chamber, anything, I'm not comfortable.

06:58:35.820 Yeah.

06:58:36.020 How would you know if there was one in the chamber?

06:58:37.540 Can you please put it away?

06:58:38.980 And if you don't put it away, I'll disarm it.

06:58:41.760 If not, then can we please go in the other room?

06:58:44.900 An AR-15, what does that stand for, AR?

06:58:48.220 I literally told you that I don't know the names of the guns.

06:58:51.340 Assault rifle?

06:58:52.560 Automatic rifle.

06:58:53.120 No, it doesn't stand for assault rifle or automatic rifle.

06:58:56.480 It doesn't stand for either of those.

06:58:57.520 And I held the magazine instead of holding the actual thing that you're supposed to hold.

06:59:02.860 Yeah, it's embarrassing.

06:59:04.880 Okay.

06:59:05.180 Your answer.

06:59:09.180 Oh, I'm answering?

06:59:10.660 Yeah, we're going around the table.

06:59:11.920 Oh, I mean, I would have vetted the man by the time I ever got to his house.

06:59:16.740 So if he had the guns there, I knew what type of guy he was and I was happy he had him there.

06:59:20.880 Obviously, we needed him.

06:59:22.100 Kind of the same answer just because I have been in that situation and I knew who the person was and why he had them.

06:59:31.660 So it was perfectly chill.

06:59:33.960 And he taught me how to shoot him.

06:59:36.520 I'd be chill with his as like, you know, she was saying as long as he's not like intimidating with it.

06:59:41.920 Okay, okay.

06:59:42.560 Hang on.

06:59:42.940 I got to cut in briefly just to the Russian gal.

06:59:46.140 Can you say in Soviet Russia, you shoot gun?

06:59:49.620 Can you just say that?

06:59:53.460 Why would I do that for you?

06:59:55.800 To be a submissive?

06:59:56.660 Because I asked super nicely.

06:59:59.300 You weren't really nice to me and I don't really feel like to submit.

07:00:03.080 Hang on, hang on.

07:00:03.100 Would you please say that?

07:00:04.280 Because it's a great reference.

07:00:05.640 What was I supposed to say again?

07:00:10.620 She's going to do it, boy.

07:00:11.740 Yeah, Soviet Russia, right?

07:00:16.360 Gun shoots you.

07:00:18.400 Okay.

07:00:18.880 See, you actually said it the other way.

07:00:22.100 But okay.

07:00:22.800 In Soviet Russia, a gun shoots you.

07:00:25.660 Okay.

07:00:26.300 Thank you.

07:00:27.000 I appreciate it.

07:00:27.560 He's so happy.

07:00:28.140 Um, I agree.

07:00:30.960 Like, I would want my husband to know how to use guns.

07:00:33.960 So, by that time, I would have known him and what he's about.

07:00:38.120 I honestly wouldn't mind it because my dad has guns already.

07:00:40.880 Just because, also because of the line of work he was in.

07:00:42.560 I grew up around it, so.

07:00:44.640 I wouldn't mind it either.

07:00:46.560 All right.

07:00:47.360 Not really.

07:00:51.760 He's donated $69.

07:00:54.140 Yes, I sent that as joke, but also to stress a critical point.

07:00:59.060 As a parent myself, I am genuinely concerned about how you are raising your children when

07:01:04.580 you admit no morals and only selfish values.

07:01:09.300 Hmm.

07:01:11.740 You want?

07:01:12.560 Am I supposed to say something?

07:01:13.480 If you want, you don't have to.

07:01:14.880 First of all, let me just...

07:01:16.340 Jeffery Jennings donated $69.

07:01:18.320 Sorry, I got cut off.

07:01:19.460 Andrew, remember the dirt bike you bought me for Christmas?

07:01:23.420 Unfortunately, I never saw that bike, because I went in the hell, as God decided to punish

07:01:28.840 my parents for being bullies and judging people.

07:01:33.600 What?

07:01:34.940 Okay.

07:01:35.460 Is that a thing?

07:01:35.780 Jeffery Jennings?

07:01:37.080 Uh-oh.

07:01:37.960 Oh, I thought we froze there for a second.

07:01:40.940 Not a communist donated $69.

07:01:43.460 Blonde is 100,000 and 10% a clergy member at St. Baptist Church and specializes in epistemology

07:01:51.700 of the epistles.

07:01:53.240 Iguana girl should be in one of those videos they show to kids on why drugs are bad.

07:01:58.520 Who's the iguana girl?

07:01:59.620 Who's the iguana girl?

07:02:01.440 Who's the iguana girl?

07:02:02.680 I have no idea.

07:02:04.640 Not a communist, thank you.

07:02:06.000 Someone donated $69.

07:02:08.900 Thank you, Brian and Andrew.

07:02:12.040 Aw.

07:02:12.900 You're welcome.

07:02:18.420 Uh, someone, hey, uh, thank you, man.

07:02:20.460 Thank you for the, uh, TTS.

07:02:22.400 Appreciate it.

07:02:23.800 And then we have another one coming in.

07:02:27.100 Stochastic Decay about to come in.

07:02:28.600 Dude, thank you, man.

07:02:29.860 Appreciate it, bro.

07:02:30.900 Good to see you in the chat.

07:02:31.640 Stochastic Decay donated $69.

07:02:34.680 First thought when I saw Red, what a dummy.

07:02:37.900 Why did she take so many Xanax?

07:02:40.720 Little did I know, I'm the dummy for being on zero Xanax and listening to this blonde talk.

07:02:46.620 W Red.

07:02:47.880 L everyone watching.

07:02:50.640 L everyone watching.

07:02:52.240 What does L mean?

07:02:53.500 Like, taking a loss.

07:02:54.820 Take a loss, yeah.

07:02:56.080 For underscore the underscore patriarchy donated $69.

07:02:59.720 Take it easy on the hook.

07:03:02.480 She grew up attending St. Baptist Church II.

07:03:06.620 Hmm.

07:03:07.480 Yeah, that's the same church Cindy goes to.

07:03:11.680 Yeah.

07:03:12.760 Um, to respond to Stochastic Decay, look, uh,

07:03:18.020 I want to give you the benefit of the doubt that you're just tired from your airplane ride.

07:03:27.100 What are you talking about, man?

07:03:28.160 Yeah.

07:03:28.640 Oh, yeah.

07:03:29.360 I'm talking to you.

07:03:30.760 Uh, wow, the split is absolutely scuffed.

07:03:35.420 I have absolutely no reason to lie to you.

07:03:39.620 Well, hold on.

07:03:40.380 People have plenty of reasons to lie, and if they were to lie, do you think they would be honest about lying?

07:03:45.300 No, but why would I come on a show and fly all the way here just to be on drugs that makes no sense at all?

07:03:55.060 You're not, can you speak into the mic, please?

07:03:58.200 Oh, I didn't know we were doing this live.

07:04:00.680 I thought, what do you mean?

07:04:02.580 Yeah.

07:04:03.420 If I'm talking to the person, you can go fuck yourself because you don't know me at all, and you have no idea how my day went, what last night was like, what today was like.

07:04:12.520 What was last night like?

07:04:15.440 Then I took an airplane here that was six hours.

07:04:19.000 Well, that was this morning.

07:04:20.020 Packed my bag.

07:04:20.560 That was yesterday morning.

07:04:21.760 I haven't slept since then.

07:04:23.720 I didn't go to bed.

07:04:24.780 I packed, then I got on a plane at 5 a.m., then I got the plane boarded at 5, then I got on the plane at 8.30, then I've been on a plane, then I got a rental car, then I drove the rental car two and a half hours here, then I got here, got ready in a car, and I haven't eaten anything since, and then I got here, and I had some alcohol that I got poured, and I am extremely tired.

07:04:53.920 Hold on, just to be clear, just to be clear, I want to make something clear, the blonde next to you brought the alcohol, the alcohol was not provided by us, I want to make that very clear to any viewers watching, we make it a rule, actually, that we don't provide any alcohol, but sometimes things, but we don't provide alcohol for us, because we don't want people, oh, they got us drunk, and I said all this stuff, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

07:05:20.240 And I might have made a wrong call by saying yes, because I had nothing in my stomach, and I'm retired, but I don't understand why.

07:05:30.380 But you were a little bit off, even before you had a sip of that alcohol.

07:05:37.040 Yeah, and you only had a sip, though.

07:05:38.760 You had a couple sips.

07:05:40.060 Yeah.

07:05:40.420 I don't know how strong.

07:05:41.580 I mean, I'm at a point of drinking water.

07:05:44.020 I'm really tired.

07:05:44.900 I mean, a point of drinking water.

07:05:46.020 It affects your body.

07:05:47.220 If I told you that I had multiple people message me, actually concerned over you, like, for example, somebody who's an EMT contacted me in the Instagram DMs, and said something along the lines of, do you have any Narcan in the studio?

07:06:02.360 We are concerned that she might OD.

07:06:05.440 She just needs to sleep.

07:06:07.140 I just really need it.

07:06:08.440 Look, I want, again, I want to give you the.

07:06:10.620 No, I completely understand.

07:06:11.920 I want to give you the benefit of the doubt.

07:06:13.380 I appreciate that.

07:06:14.500 I really, really do.

07:06:16.440 I really do.

07:06:17.900 Have you made appearances on any other podcast or anything like that?

07:06:21.560 No.

07:06:22.740 Okay.

07:06:23.360 Because, I mean, some people can have more laid-back personalities, I suppose you could say.

07:06:32.980 For the first time meeting someone, it's weird to say that you're acting, like, different.

07:06:36.960 Like, if we were, like, friends, and then, like, I acted different.

07:06:40.360 Well, for example, let me ask you a question.

07:06:41.520 If you've never met somebody, but they seem like they're acting drunk, do you think that, like, even though you don't know the person, you can still make a determination?

07:06:51.000 Yeah, but if I knew the circumstances around, like.

07:06:54.620 But what, you would agree with me, right, that if you never met the person at all.

07:06:58.220 No, I completely.

07:06:58.680 But you witnessed their behavior, you could maybe make some assumptions over their.

07:07:03.520 And then if I asked them.

07:07:04.360 If they're drunk, for example.

07:07:05.760 I asked them, and then they gave me an explanation, and then they have been fine ever since.

07:07:15.360 Do you, may, I'm not trying to say this to be.

07:07:17.140 We've been here for six hours.

07:07:18.900 Well, yeah, but your conduct, I know it's late, I know you're tired, I know you're hungry.

07:07:24.480 But you're.

07:07:25.540 Drink that.

07:07:26.080 Oh, okay, yeah.

07:07:27.340 It's a trick.

07:07:28.000 It's a trick.

07:07:28.800 Drink that.

07:07:29.220 It's a trick.

07:07:30.240 I'm a mom.

07:07:31.200 It's a trick.

07:07:32.320 She's fine, but okay.

07:07:34.760 I might have totally been interrupted now, I forgot.

07:07:37.040 Can somebody remind me what my last few words were?

07:07:39.260 Her conduct has been the same.

07:07:42.400 She's so bad.

07:07:42.960 Your conduct has.

07:07:44.180 You've been here for six hours, you've been hungry.

07:07:46.200 I know you're hungry, but she was like, it's a lot.

07:07:48.400 Oh, right, I know, no, no, no.

07:07:49.420 Okay, so I'm not saying this to be insulting.

07:07:51.180 Have you, have you been deprived of water and food?

07:07:53.420 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

07:07:56.740 Okay, so, fuck, I just lost my train of thought again.

07:08:02.700 She's tired, she doesn't eat.

07:08:03.980 Okay, I'm not saying this to be insulting.

07:08:05.440 Do you have a speech impediment?

07:08:07.580 I do have, I can't breathe out of my nose.

07:08:10.600 I can breathe out of one nostril, so I can't smell.

07:08:13.780 If you farted right now, I'd have no idea.

07:08:16.120 I'm not asking about your breathing, I'm asking if you have a.

07:08:19.320 No, no, that makes it, that makes me nasally, so I can't normally, how normal people can breathe.

07:08:24.960 Mm-hmm.

07:08:25.840 Like how you can breathe out of your nose and your mouth.

07:08:28.440 I can hear the noise.

07:08:28.900 I can only breathe out of my mouth, so I'm a mouth breather.

07:08:31.960 You can see my gums aren't inflamed, I have doctor's notes if you need them.

07:08:35.860 I don't, I don't need doctor's notes.

07:08:36.960 I'm like, I, that's, that's how I speak.

07:08:40.420 But there were, there was, look, I wasn't paying, like, hyper-focused attention to you during the show.

07:08:45.300 There were a few points where I saw your eyes were.

07:08:48.020 Yeah, I'm, I'm, yeah.

07:08:49.560 No, but at the beginning of the show, at the beginning of the show, you were, like, dozing off and.

07:08:54.400 Yeah, yeah.

07:08:54.880 I, I.

07:08:55.600 You're what?

07:08:55.980 I didn't sleep in six hours, and then I drove two and a half hours here.

07:09:00.460 Did you sleep at all on the plane?

07:09:02.060 No.

07:09:03.880 And I worked the night before.

07:09:06.580 What?

07:09:07.020 And then I packed, and then I came here.

07:09:10.900 Okay, all right.

07:09:12.100 Like, I don't know what.

07:09:14.500 I won't belabor it, but.

07:09:15.640 I booked the flight, it's like, I paid for it, and I paid for a rental car.

07:09:20.480 I was like, I'm not going to not go.

07:09:23.400 And if, and I'm a responsible adult, I'm a CEO, I have my own company, I wouldn't risk doing that and ruining my reputation.

07:09:33.680 Sure.

07:09:34.340 And talking about it on here, I feel like it's very uncomfortable, it's very inappropriate, and it's very sad.

07:09:41.680 What's sad or inappropriate?

07:09:43.680 That, I was enjoying myself and having fun, and we already spoke about it, and I appreciated that you cared about it.

07:09:50.540 And then, to bring it up on the podcast instead of privately.

07:09:56.720 Well, I mean, there's not really room for me to, like.

07:09:59.220 No, like, afterwards.

07:10:01.380 Well, I don't, frankly, afterwards, I don't know.

07:10:03.800 I mean, like, as soon as you showed off the camera.

07:10:09.160 They're literally, I had, like, a couple, like, I had a nurse, I had an EMT private message me on Instagram saying,

07:10:15.000 I'm concerned for her.

07:10:17.600 She looks like she's, something's going on.

07:10:20.300 So, I don't know.

07:10:22.620 Maybe you're just tired.

07:10:23.220 I mean, everybody thinks that I'm abusing my children, so it, the parents are something.

07:10:28.360 I mean, it's just.

07:10:28.780 It's a little different.

07:10:29.640 Well, it is what it is.

07:10:31.180 Okay.

07:10:32.740 All right.

07:10:34.100 We have another chat.

07:10:35.200 I'm sorry that I cut you off there, Andrew.

07:10:38.300 Do you want to go ahead with your point?

07:10:39.760 Yeah, I was just saying, how can you get mad kind of out of both sides of the mouth?

07:10:50.480 The one says, we are too overly concerned, and the other one says, you're not concerned enough.

07:10:56.060 So, the thing is, is, remember earlier in the podcast, I was like, grab an energy drink, you'll feel better.

07:11:01.780 Or, it's not a, it's not a beat up on you, it's just that I've flown out from, you know, the other side of the country to be in person on that podcast,

07:11:12.100 and I know what jet lag will do, and kind of the, the sleepless night, and that kind of thing.

07:11:17.680 Wait, let him talk, let him talk.

07:11:18.040 So, hang on.

07:11:18.900 It's just, it's just, from his perspective, it's just concerning.

07:11:22.300 That's all.

07:11:22.560 No, and I appreciate it.

07:11:23.700 I said thank you.

07:11:25.360 I said thank you to you, and to him, and to anyone who wants to DM me.

07:11:29.280 You could DM me on my actual Instagram as well.

07:11:32.600 If you wanted to contact me directly, that would probably be more sufficient than contacting someone that I just met today.

07:11:41.600 But, as I said, I'm a smart, intelligent girl, and coming here and spending money to come here and doing that would just be silly, dumb, and frankly, just stupid.

07:11:54.780 But, I appreciate all of you guys caring, and it's just uncomfortable, and frankly.

07:12:06.460 I have one last.

07:12:08.880 Ben George donated $100.

07:12:12.040 A loaded AR-15 can't shoot you any more than Brian can kiss anyone on his panel.

07:12:18.120 That's fair enough.

07:12:18.700 I just had a quick question for you.

07:12:21.800 Well put, Ben George, you're right.

07:12:23.000 Can you say, all right, all right, all right?

07:12:26.400 All right, all right, all right.

07:12:28.520 Like Matthew McConaughey?

07:12:30.520 All right, all right, all right.

07:12:32.480 All right, all right, all right.

07:12:34.680 All right, thank you.

07:12:37.280 Can you say...

07:12:37.980 The underscore Grinch donated $69.

07:12:41.220 Thank you, the Grinch.

07:12:42.460 Appreciate it.

07:12:44.280 What's the question?

07:12:46.980 Can I say what now?

07:12:48.140 Toy Boat, five times fast.

07:12:51.260 Toy Boat?

07:12:52.400 Toy Boat.

07:12:53.600 Yeah, Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat.

07:12:58.740 No way.

07:12:59.900 Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat.

07:13:02.380 You can't do it?

07:13:03.140 Mr. Bulletin, it's $69.

07:13:04.740 Anybody else try it?

07:13:06.080 Orders from the Grand Inquisitor.

07:13:08.440 Miss Kay, you are based and super fit.

07:13:10.820 The Inquisition Patriarchy requests your services to get Fat Body Brian into shape and get him

07:13:16.920 to mail the blue-white cups.

07:13:19.160 I can help you out.

07:13:19.940 Let me know what you need.

07:13:21.400 I got to lose weight.

07:13:22.640 I can give you full weight.

07:13:23.380 I kind of want to hear the Toy Boat thing.

07:13:25.920 Can you do it?

07:13:26.680 Can you do it five times fast?

07:13:27.840 Toy Boat, Toy Boat.

07:13:29.580 No, I can't.

07:13:30.440 Toy Boat, Toy Boat.

07:13:31.780 No, I can't.

07:13:32.680 Toy Boat, Toy Boat, Toy Boat.

07:13:35.100 Is there a lie?

07:13:37.240 Andrew, you won.

07:13:38.600 I've never seen anybody do it that well.

07:13:40.380 Do you practice that?

07:13:41.440 Like, what are you doing?

07:13:42.680 What's your magic?

07:13:43.260 I go to the mirror every morning and I say, Toy Boat, over and over and over again, just

07:13:48.780 in case it ever comes up on a random podcast.

07:13:51.840 That way, I can own the opposition.

07:13:53.860 Can I just give you a comment?

07:13:55.120 That's what I do.

07:13:56.280 Can I roast you really quick?

07:13:57.900 Can I roast you, Andrew?

07:14:00.340 Yeah, but only if I get to roast you bad.

07:14:02.060 Yeah, you can.

07:14:03.160 Fair, fair.

07:14:03.720 I gotta tell you, like, I don't often meet another human who has as wide of a base of

07:14:13.840 knowledge as you to actually be fact-checking me.

07:14:17.220 And I gotta tell you, it's super awesome that you are that learned of things and you obviously

07:14:24.820 have still more of the biblical and religious worldview, which is okay, because I have an

07:14:30.660 understanding of that.

07:14:31.440 But all I'm saying is, I can so much more easily bullshit the average person because

07:14:38.120 they don't have a wide enough span of knowledge about anything in life to actually engage me

07:14:44.740 properly.

07:14:45.900 And you know, I'm-

07:14:46.780 Like when they say epistemology means the study of the epistles?

07:14:49.900 Right, but you gotta figure, the average person is so dumb, that would fly.

07:14:54.520 Right?

07:14:54.760 Yeah.

07:14:55.080 I'm just real talking to you.

07:14:56.180 I mean, I don't-

07:14:56.680 No, I totally agree with you.

07:14:58.480 You know what I mean?

07:14:59.000 Like, so you have to understand, that was part of my aggression was like, oh shit.

07:15:05.680 But usually I can just flow with it and I know enough of the basic information of what

07:15:11.000 I'm saying and I can deliver it in a way that sounds intelligent enough that people just

07:15:15.360 buy it.

07:15:16.500 And you know what?

07:15:17.360 Do you see right here-

07:15:17.580 That was my ego.

07:15:18.560 That was my ego raising up.

07:15:20.000 Hang on, hang on.

07:15:20.100 Right here.

07:15:20.500 I'm sorry.

07:15:20.980 This guy knows his shit.

07:15:22.260 I have to switch hands.

07:15:23.280 You see this big pimple that's right here on this enormous forehead?

07:15:26.800 Let's stick with the roasting instead of the, um, lazing.

07:15:31.680 I like to surprise.

07:15:32.760 I like to surprise.

07:15:33.260 Hit me with the massive pimple on the head.

07:15:36.280 I didn't see it.

07:15:37.280 I don't see it because you know what?

07:15:39.020 I don't see skin color in religion.

07:15:41.860 We all do.

07:15:43.280 No, I'm saying I see it in the sense that we all have to, we come up with these labels

07:15:48.720 and these stereotypes just based on, we're trying to make some sense of everything.

07:15:52.980 That's all.

07:15:53.900 But I connect soul to soul.

07:15:56.380 Heart to heart.

07:15:57.100 So you don't see pimples at all?

07:15:58.760 I mean, if it's a, I had one right here.

07:16:00.940 I popped it on the way here because I was like, oh my God, it's getting white.

07:16:03.780 That's fucking disgusting.

07:16:05.580 It's here.

07:16:06.600 I have one too.

07:16:07.900 I'm not perfect.

07:16:08.660 And you told me I'm only a four or whatever I am.

07:16:12.040 A two.

07:16:12.620 I'm not even an eight.

07:16:13.880 You're still a Russian girl.

07:16:14.560 You are alone in the woods.

07:16:15.900 Would you rather be with a random man, random bear, or Putin riding a bear?

07:16:21.620 Oh my gosh.

07:16:23.340 Wait, what?

07:16:26.360 Putin riding a bear?

07:16:28.600 I would prefer just the random bear because I like to cuddle with bears.

07:16:33.620 What?

07:16:34.200 What the hell?

07:16:35.480 We had a lot of, no, we had a lot of bears in Russia.

07:16:38.440 Someone just got killed not too long ago with a bear.

07:16:40.160 Okay, in California, once in a while that happens.

07:16:43.000 In my village in Russia, we saw bears passing by all the time.

07:16:46.720 I cuddled with them.

07:16:48.380 Literally cuddled with them while I saw a drunk man pass out on the street.

07:16:52.360 The underscore Grinch donated $69.

07:16:55.740 Max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, max, get back here.

07:17:06.020 Wow.

07:17:06.500 What is that?

07:17:07.060 What was that about?

07:17:07.620 I don't understand.

07:17:09.100 What is that?

07:17:09.600 Can we get a sprinkler?

07:17:12.500 Can we get a sprinkler, please?

07:17:13.660 And Madison needs at least one rose.

07:17:15.040 She's getting a big deal.

07:17:16.520 She's getting a big deal.

07:17:17.340 A non-donated $69.

07:17:20.100 Shout out to Andrew.

07:17:21.860 Even when he disagreed with what someone said,

07:17:24.540 he spoke up for the mouth when he felt a line was being crossed.

07:17:28.220 That is what a real man does.

07:17:30.480 That was classy as fuck.

07:17:32.180 Mad respect.

07:17:33.600 For real.

07:17:34.100 Respect.

07:17:34.840 Yeah.

07:17:35.340 Mad respect.

07:17:37.220 Shout out to Andrew.

07:17:37.940 That was the whole thing.

07:17:39.600 Can you roast the fucking pimple?

07:17:41.200 Can you do the pimple?

07:17:42.060 I mean, it's the first time.

07:17:43.240 How old are you?

07:17:43.860 How old are you?

07:17:44.340 With this giant enormous forehead.

07:17:45.040 How old are you?

07:17:45.800 With this huge brain.

07:17:47.100 How old are you?

07:17:48.260 You see what I'm saying about the big brain, though?

07:17:51.140 It's a fucking curse, you guys.

07:17:53.120 We know too fucking much.

07:17:55.420 It's rough when you start to know a certain amount of knowledge.

07:17:58.760 Right, Andrew?

07:17:59.600 You start to get a little weird.

07:18:01.520 Well, I mean, it's rough for me.

07:18:02.720 I'm not convinced that you know a certain amount of it.

07:18:04.960 But I am convinced that I do.

07:18:06.440 But, okay.

07:18:07.100 Right, and I'm convinced that you know your shit super well.

07:18:12.680 All I'm asking is the grace to maybe open a corner of your mind to the fact that I understand a different realm of the world.

07:18:20.520 And that realm of the world, I know my shit.

07:18:24.520 So I'm very confident about that.

07:18:27.220 To quote a great atheist debater, apparently a great atheist debater, I remain unconvinced.

07:18:38.380 Christopher Hitchens?

07:18:39.600 Okay, I'm still roasting you.

07:18:40.860 Matt Dillahunty.

07:18:41.980 The roast was?

07:18:43.220 You're still roasting me.

07:18:44.120 Hit me.

07:18:44.560 Give me.

07:18:45.180 The roast was?

07:18:46.520 We're not so different.

07:18:47.760 We're not so different.

07:18:48.860 And judging by what everybody said to me today, I mean, that's a roast.

07:18:52.560 They already said it to me, I don't need to dump the trauma back onto you.

07:18:56.280 You can just read the list of everything that was said to me.

07:18:59.020 And all I'm saying is, sir, we're not that much different.

07:19:03.620 Different vernacular, different color, sex, whatever you want to say, different stories, but not that different.

07:19:12.040 I remain unconvinced.

07:19:14.840 I agree with her, though.

07:19:17.100 I just gave you all the trauma that I had to hear from everybody.

07:19:20.840 I put it back on you.

07:19:22.120 You're a terrible parent abusing your children with your spankings and your purity culture.

07:19:29.960 Purity culture, by the way, they're starting to do the studies now, girls.

07:19:33.880 I was in the hardcore purity culture where my whole body was just thin.

07:19:38.300 It's causing way much more harm being a slut than being a slut.

07:19:42.120 No, trust me, girl.

07:19:43.420 Trust me, girl.

07:19:44.800 I went the opposite.

07:19:46.180 Andrew, why cigarettes?

07:19:47.160 I started out, I didn't even date in college.

07:19:51.980 This is how I ended up with an idiot first husband.

07:19:54.480 I didn't even date.

07:19:55.180 Yeah, but I need you to understand that I'm not a Puritan.

07:19:58.340 No, I know.

07:19:59.340 I don't know where you ever got that idea.

07:20:00.700 I'm simply trying to give people perspective of so much of our worldview and our beliefs

07:20:06.980 are developed from the experiences we have, which are very different.

07:20:10.880 I'm a Puritan with I just sleep with whoever I want to sleep with because I think it's fun.

07:20:15.640 Don't you think that maybe there's a balancing act there?

07:20:18.040 But here's the thing.

07:20:19.100 It's just like a kid when they're little and we take them trick-or-treating and they have

07:20:22.980 the whole bag of Halloween candy.

07:20:24.360 Wait, we got to let them go through those few years where they make themselves fucking sick.

07:20:30.900 Not really.

07:20:31.780 But I'm telling you, I'm telling you.

07:20:33.260 Or you could teach them and set back home.

07:20:36.020 You do.

07:20:36.360 You guide them.

07:20:37.240 You guide them.

07:20:37.920 But they still sneak it.

07:20:39.280 You're a parent.

07:20:40.060 You know how it goes.

07:20:41.260 No matter what, somebody's throwing up until they're like nine at least.

07:20:45.720 Okay?

07:20:46.060 And then they start to understand.

07:20:48.340 You know what?

07:20:48.520 I didn't throw up.

07:20:49.340 I'm just going to eat my favorite pieces.

07:20:52.920 So let's compromise.

07:20:53.900 So hang on.

07:20:54.280 Let's compromise here.

07:20:55.760 Can we compromise between it's possible that my kids sneak candy on Halloween without me

07:21:02.100 knowing that they do it with my mom has jizz on her face on her Instagram where I exist.

07:21:07.460 Can we compromise between the two of those things?

07:21:09.660 Here's the connection.

07:21:10.440 Here's the connection.

07:21:11.520 I will make the connection.

07:21:13.040 My kids are going to public elementary school with these current agendas and they're having

07:21:18.760 to hear all of these weird messages about body parts and this and that.

07:21:23.320 Also, the sexual harassment and the molestation stuff starts very young.

07:21:28.140 Yo, shut the fuck up.

07:21:29.580 I'm just saying.

07:21:30.520 Shut up.

07:21:31.000 Stop.

07:21:31.660 Stop.

07:21:32.480 Hold on.

07:21:32.900 Uh, what are we even talking about?

07:21:37.560 You, first off, you got a second wind.

07:21:39.320 If you do not teach a child real shit these days, somebody else is going to teach it to

07:21:44.880 them one way or the other and they're not going to know what is going on.

07:21:48.500 But you're teaching them something that's based off feelings and just pleasure.

07:21:51.360 No, I'm not.

07:21:52.120 I'm teaching my kids about body autonomy, about not attaching shame to their genitals,

07:21:58.640 not being afraid to be a woman.

07:22:00.000 And it being okay to have jizz all over your face with, oh my God.

07:22:02.260 My kids don't see my Instagram.

07:22:04.300 They don't have phones.

07:22:05.520 That is for an adult contact thing.

07:22:07.040 Not yet.

07:22:07.960 Not yet.

07:22:08.540 Okay, but even when they do, I can explain.

07:22:11.400 They know my weird sense of humor.

07:22:13.300 They know my weird sense of humor.

07:22:14.900 The one thing you never want to have to see your kids is I can explain.

07:22:16.780 My kids know I'm weird.

07:22:18.440 Hey, Borgie, most people probably don't buy it.

07:22:21.480 They're just being nice because you're crazy or they just want to bang.

07:22:27.200 Uh, there's four more coming through right now.

07:22:30.860 Hold on, boys.

07:22:32.020 Hold on.

07:22:34.740 They need to.

07:22:36.740 Thank you, old man.

07:22:37.680 Thank you.

07:22:38.720 There's such a delay.

07:22:39.320 For underscore the underscore patriarchy donated $69.

07:22:44.060 Kay's eye rolls when her BS detector is going off his base.

07:22:48.260 But I could still never date her until she cut off Corey.

07:22:51.400 To the hooker, another facial will remove that pimple.

07:22:56.600 It's probably true.

07:22:57.580 It's actually true.

07:22:58.320 It's really healthy for you.

07:22:59.360 A lot of protein.

07:23:01.420 Your wife has juice, too.

07:23:03.420 It's magical.

07:23:03.940 Just get regular facial wipes.

07:23:05.660 Four donated $69.

07:23:07.740 Kay, we are so sad we missed your takedown.

07:23:10.400 Brian, drop down and give me 30 sit-ups right now.

07:23:13.720 Let's go.

07:23:14.780 Let me see that belly roll.

07:23:16.500 One tubby tubby.

07:23:17.460 Come on, pork chop.

07:23:18.580 Two tubby tubby.

07:23:19.760 Major pain.

07:23:20.580 You remember that movie?

07:23:23.020 I don't remember what it was where they were like, he flips the check a coin.

07:23:26.440 He goes, have a rat knot that thing off your face.

07:23:29.420 Ripped, rich, and rare donated $69.

07:23:32.800 Fat boy Burger King eating Andrew has more problems than a pimple.

07:23:37.100 Fat boy has crossed over gender barriers by growing bigger tits than all the girls on the panel.

07:23:42.940 Big old tits.

07:23:44.140 Titties.

07:23:44.820 Tits.

07:23:45.560 Titties.

07:23:45.960 Let's go running.

07:23:48.740 Yo, Daniel, I see your TTS come in, man.

07:23:51.480 It's like I said, we do.

07:23:53.960 I try not to.

07:23:56.160 It's a little too much, man.

07:23:59.640 I'm not leading to one.

07:24:00.660 It's a little too much.

07:24:01.280 I hear it.

07:24:02.020 How are you going to do that to us?

07:24:03.540 Are you sure you want to hear it?

07:24:04.680 Can we generalize it so it's not like personally attacking somebody?

07:24:07.980 It is targeted towards you.

07:24:09.220 Well, go ahead, then bring it.

07:24:10.760 No, no, don't play it.

07:24:11.520 I already cried.

07:24:11.620 Just don't.

07:24:12.160 If you have a question, just don't.

07:24:13.360 Just freaking bring it.

07:24:14.500 Go ahead.

07:24:15.140 Go ahead.

07:24:15.440 I'm sorry, Daniel, but we do reserve the right to not show it.

07:24:17.940 And I mean, this is probably a little TOS, so I'm sorry, Daniel.

07:24:23.580 I can't play it.

07:24:24.980 If you DM me something a little more polite to my Instagram directly within the next few minutes,

07:24:32.720 I'll just read something else.

07:24:34.840 You'll have to send me a DM message.

07:24:36.260 Tone it down a notch.

07:24:37.540 He's saying tone it down a fucking notch, sir.

07:24:38.440 You can send something else, but I can't read it.

07:24:40.740 I apologize, Daniel.

07:24:41.760 I appreciate your TTS, though, or your message anyways.

07:24:46.120 Oh, Maddie, you got something?

07:24:47.740 You got a question?

07:24:48.420 And then we're going to wrap up, guys.

07:24:49.560 It's super late.

07:24:50.940 Going around the table, do you think that body count matters?

07:24:55.740 Starting with you?

07:24:58.980 No.

07:25:03.420 You're joking.

07:25:06.260 I don't think body count matters, but I think soul count matters.

07:25:14.120 Can you explain that a little bit?

07:25:16.440 Yes.

07:25:16.740 You see, a lot of people are engaging in the act of sex because there's another person there.

07:25:22.300 But essentially, it's a self-centered, just kind of mutual master-based situation where basically I could use a man like a dildo, like a casual thing.

07:25:32.780 I don't have a connection with you.

07:25:34.820 You know, it could be like that.

07:25:36.600 And in that sense, who cares?

07:25:39.600 Like, humans are humans.

07:25:40.920 We do weird things.

07:25:41.800 We go through adolescence.

07:25:42.940 There's experimentation, whatever.

07:25:44.140 But I believe that it's a very serious matter when you create a soul connection with somebody and then engage in the sexual relationship.

07:25:53.420 That's a different matter.

07:25:54.580 Yeah, you really can.

07:25:55.680 Trust me, girl.

07:25:56.460 You can really separate it.

07:25:57.880 And I, that is, that is the thing, is I no longer have those masturbation type of situations.

07:26:05.800 It has to be a soul connection.

07:26:07.780 In a sense, I'm taking responsibility for whatever comes up for them in that very vulnerable situation.

07:26:13.840 And I take that very seriously.

07:26:14.920 Unless they are willing to pay your rent, is that correct?

07:26:16.980 But I would only get to ever that level of ever being sexual with a man.

07:26:22.200 In a sense, I'm saying, let me know more of you.

07:26:26.040 And I'm, in a sense, deciding when I am agreeing to sleep with a man.

07:26:30.900 If Nick back there offered you $10,000 to fuck tonight.

07:26:34.340 No, no.

07:26:35.240 I mean, but I will tell you this.

07:26:37.280 Sorry, Nick.

07:26:37.600 I will tell you this.

07:26:38.340 I will tell you this.

07:26:39.100 I will tell you this.

07:26:39.880 I would tell you this.

07:26:41.200 I got a good sense about him as a person.

07:26:44.960 He was very respectful to me.

07:26:46.260 He's attractive.

07:26:46.980 Oh, he can hit for free.

07:26:47.860 He's tall.

07:26:48.240 All of these things.

07:26:49.240 So what I would do is say, let's get to know each other a little bit better.

07:26:53.260 I'm not saying, yes, I'm not saying no.

07:26:55.640 I'm saying I need to know you a little bit better.

07:26:58.040 Well, can I ask you your honest take on something?

07:26:59.980 Yeah.

07:27:00.300 Let us assume for a second that there was a man who was interested in two women.

07:27:04.640 And both of them had had sex with 50 men.

07:27:07.980 The first one goes to him and says, look, I had sex with 50 men and it meant nothing.

07:27:13.400 And the second one goes to him and said, look, I had sex with 50 men.

07:27:16.760 And I only had a soul bond with 25 of them.

07:27:19.760 Do you think that he would perceive it any differently between the two?

07:27:23.360 I have no idea his worldview or spiritual beliefs about things.

07:27:27.060 So I can't answer that because everybody honestly looks at these things differently.

07:27:31.560 From what I know out here, the average man, honestly, you guys, do you want the real answer?

07:27:36.420 Do you want to argue with me?

07:27:37.260 Yeah, I want the real answer.

07:27:38.420 The real answer is a man will say he wants this virginal, innocent thing, but then he gets with her and she doesn't know what she's doing.

07:27:50.540 She's not comfortable with her body.

07:27:52.680 She doesn't really.

07:27:54.300 She just hasn't put the time in.

07:27:56.500 She hasn't put the work in.

07:27:58.240 You guys, good sex is a craft.

07:28:02.460 You develop it over time.

07:28:04.280 It's not just this, my wedding night, you guys, I cried.

07:28:09.660 It was painful.

07:28:10.900 I didn't know what the fuck I was doing.

07:28:12.820 He didn't know what the fuck he was doing.

07:28:14.440 But this is real talk.

07:28:15.680 I was in the churches getting the phone calls from the girls on their wedding night who were sold this bill of goods crying.

07:28:23.520 Why did they lie to us?

07:28:25.880 Why did they lie to us?

07:28:27.320 That's not everybody.

07:28:28.300 That's a lot of girls.

07:28:30.480 I know a lot of Christian women that are happy.

07:28:33.480 It was a lot of girls, guys.

07:28:35.000 It's not everybody.

07:28:35.420 You know, there's other women.

07:28:36.080 I get it, but that's a lot of people.

07:28:37.560 So let's just say a man took advantage of a woman.

07:28:40.860 Can you say that that woman can just like.

07:28:43.380 I'll tell you this.

07:28:44.260 I've never had an issue getting into a relationship because of how many people I've slept with.

07:28:49.400 I don't even know.

07:28:50.720 So it never even comes up.

07:28:53.000 Am I going to ask the man how many have you slept with?

07:28:56.160 I don't give a shit.

07:28:58.100 I care about who they are here and now.

07:29:00.520 The past doesn't even exist anymore.

07:29:02.420 It literally doesn't exist.

07:29:04.080 All that exists is right now.

07:29:05.660 But if you believe everything is so vibrational, don't you think that when you're having sex, the vibrations are like.

07:29:11.080 Yes, and that's why I'm extremely cautious with who I would ever have sex with.

07:29:15.720 I think you're having this idea that I'm just going out fucking whoever.

07:29:19.900 I don't.

07:29:20.260 That's what you made it so much.

07:29:21.340 I can't.

07:29:21.900 I'm sorry that I come across aggressive.

07:29:24.840 No, not aggressive.

07:29:26.620 You called yourself a prostitute a million times.

07:29:28.080 We've got to move it on.

07:29:30.000 Hang on.

07:29:30.560 I just want to ask this one last question.

07:29:32.100 Honestly, as truth is your highest value, which I do respect at least that, right?

07:29:38.260 Truth is your highest value.

07:29:40.060 Did a single woman of the church actually call you and say she was having trouble because she was a virgin on a wedding night?

07:29:47.960 Yes, yes.

07:29:48.240 These were my friends.

07:29:49.400 Yes, they were crying.

07:29:50.640 They were bruised.

07:29:51.220 Can you provide a single shred of it?

07:29:51.880 Hang on.

07:29:51.900 Her name is Ash Garcia.

07:29:53.340 She's a public figure.

07:29:54.580 You can contact her.

07:29:55.200 She's in New York.

07:29:56.320 I don't know if she would feel comfortable with me sharing this, but that's one off the top.

07:30:02.680 Yeah.

07:30:03.440 I gave you her maiden name.

07:30:05.140 She has a different last name now so it could cover the idea.

07:30:07.780 Can you lower the volume a little bit?

07:30:08.780 Can you provide a single shred of evidence, a single woman who was a virgin on a wedding night in a church, called you and cried to you because she was upset she was a virgin on a wedding night?

07:30:21.000 A single shred.

07:30:22.180 I just told you.

07:30:22.820 Have you ever been a woman and had sex the first time?

07:30:25.620 Do you know what it feels like?

07:30:28.080 Do you know what it feels like to have a vagina and have for the first time in your life because you were told that tampon I didn't hurt that much.

07:30:35.580 Can you stop yelling?

07:30:36.240 Because I get upset because of the ignorance.

07:30:38.000 Can you get triggered?

07:30:39.100 I get upset because of the ignorance.

07:30:40.960 Quiet coyotes.

07:30:41.460 Quiet coyotes.

07:30:42.760 We have families out here.

07:30:45.280 I understand that there's intelligent ways to take the purity culture and all that, but a lot of families are running with this in the wrong direction.

07:30:53.780 And we have girls out here who've never even inserted a tampon.

07:30:57.980 And now it's their wedding night.

07:31:00.020 And it is not a woman.

07:31:02.100 I'm experiencing it like a rape.

07:31:04.340 But that's, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

07:31:06.560 But hold on.

07:31:07.400 That is equivalent to anybody losing their virginity, not just on their marriage night.

07:31:12.360 You don't know any women who got married who never went to the tampon.

07:31:14.300 I just gave you a name.

07:31:15.580 You never go to the tampon.

07:31:16.240 I just gave you a name.

07:31:17.500 That's bullshit.

07:31:18.340 Bullshit.

07:31:18.580 I just gave you a name, not to mention myself, not to mention all of the hundreds of women

07:31:23.380 who came through my counseling.

07:31:24.380 What is the difference between that and the night you lose your virginity outside of marriage?

07:31:28.920 It's the same.

07:31:29.740 When I lost my virginity, it was very painful.

07:31:31.420 What are we talking about here?

07:31:32.380 I was, I, I was very happy.

07:31:35.420 I was very happy.

07:31:36.480 Body count.

07:31:37.240 What does virginity matter?

07:31:37.780 Okay, soul count matters.

07:31:39.240 Next person.

07:31:39.840 Yeah, cool.

07:31:40.340 We got to move it on.

07:31:41.300 Go ahead.

07:31:41.500 Okay.

07:31:41.720 I'll get the TTS in just a sec, guys.

07:31:43.740 Okay.

07:31:43.880 Okay.

07:31:44.180 I do think that the body count matters, but only to kind of see where the other person's

07:31:50.940 experiences are at and what to expect from them.

07:31:55.100 Okay.

07:31:56.180 Yes.

07:31:56.860 Thank you.

07:31:57.120 I'm not, I'm just, I'm, okay, go ahead.

07:32:00.280 Yes.

07:32:02.220 I used to, like, it used to matter to me.

07:32:05.060 It doesn't anymore.

07:32:05.900 Well, okay.

07:32:07.540 I guess that's fine.

07:32:08.840 100% it matters.

07:32:10.440 Okay.

07:32:11.040 Okay.

07:32:11.300 It definitely matters.

07:32:13.240 Word.

07:32:14.520 Maddie.

07:32:15.760 Yeah.

07:32:16.380 Your follow-up question, Maddie.

07:32:17.660 Go ahead.

07:32:18.780 Should we wait till she gets back?

07:32:19.840 Oh, shit.

07:32:20.980 Oh, she's coming back.

07:32:21.820 Hey.

07:32:22.600 She's coming back?

07:32:23.600 Hey.

07:32:24.340 Quick.

07:32:24.480 Waiting for you.

07:32:25.200 Get over here.

07:32:25.740 Quick.

07:32:25.860 Come on.

07:32:26.220 Come on, D.

07:32:26.960 Hustle.

07:32:27.640 Quick, quick.

07:32:28.280 You're good.

07:32:28.800 You got it.

07:32:29.320 Okay.

07:32:29.680 That's a cute outfit.

07:32:30.980 I like the shirt.

07:32:32.220 It's from Zara, huh?

07:32:32.600 Wait, did you change again?

07:32:33.940 No.

07:32:34.340 Oh, that's, okay.

07:32:35.900 So, go ahead, Maddie.

07:32:37.000 What's everybody's body count?

07:32:39.900 Starting with you.

07:32:40.520 A real one or a fake one?

07:32:44.840 The real one.

07:32:46.360 I'm totally cooing.

07:32:47.860 Seven.

07:32:49.120 It's the fake one, of course.

07:32:50.460 No, seven.

07:32:51.200 I would like to get married with all of my ten fingers.

07:32:54.840 I would like to be able to count everyone.

07:32:57.120 I had sex with all my fingers.

07:32:58.480 That's good.

07:32:58.860 And I was in a relationship for 13 years, so.

07:33:02.240 Okay.

07:33:02.900 What about you?

07:33:04.140 Well, my dad pushed me out of the door at 13 and told me, he essentially gave me the talk

07:33:11.620 and told me that's what I was here for.

07:33:12.580 Just tell me what the body count is.

07:33:14.300 Can you just answer the question?

07:33:15.100 Well, I lost my virginity when I was 13.

07:33:17.680 I'm now 38.

07:33:19.320 I'm just simply trying to do the math.

07:33:21.660 I'm trying to.

07:33:22.140 You already said 50 to 100.

07:33:24.220 Yeah.

07:33:24.920 And I have no idea.

07:33:26.400 Oh, my freaking God.

07:33:27.860 I lost my virginity at 13.

07:33:29.480 That's 30 people.

07:33:30.380 I lost my virginity at 13.

07:33:33.640 I had sex with a few guys when I was a teenager.

07:33:35.860 I got married at.

07:33:36.940 I went celibate.

07:33:38.260 I got married at 25 to 33.

07:33:41.060 Just a number.

07:33:42.080 One guy.

07:33:42.860 Hey.

07:33:43.860 What was the range?

07:33:44.720 Give us the range.

07:33:45.580 I said possibly 50 to 100.

07:33:47.680 Okay.

07:33:48.100 What about you?

07:33:48.820 No.

07:33:49.560 That's it.

07:33:50.380 You can.

07:33:51.180 There's a period.

07:33:52.000 There's something called a period.

07:33:53.560 Period.

07:33:54.280 Okay.

07:33:56.500 Somewhere between 8 and 10.

07:34:00.380 Okay.

07:34:01.360 I'd rather not say.

07:34:02.780 Wait.

07:34:03.260 Hold on.

07:34:03.780 I thought you said body count doesn't matter.

07:34:05.960 It doesn't, but I don't know why everyone has to know my body count.

07:34:08.800 How about this?

07:34:09.240 Do you want to give a range?

07:34:10.640 Well, it's at least one because I've had a boyfriend.

07:34:13.740 But I mean, do you want to give an actual range?

07:34:15.620 It's like.

07:34:16.620 5 to 10.

07:34:17.900 Yeah.

07:34:18.240 It's around 5 to 10.

07:34:19.200 10 to 12.

07:34:19.820 20.

07:34:20.080 5 to 10.

07:34:20.760 Okay.

07:34:21.240 All right.

07:34:21.580 That's fair.

07:34:22.760 Unfortunately, I've been sexually or sexual with about 10 to 12 people.

07:34:27.280 Oh.

07:34:27.660 Okay.

07:34:28.520 I don't know.

07:34:29.240 Okay.

07:34:29.500 Now, hang on.

07:34:31.380 Hang on.

07:34:31.640 You strike me as the type of person.

07:34:34.200 Just saying.

07:34:35.640 You strike me as the type of person who knows exactly how many.

07:34:39.900 How many?

07:34:40.540 Well, 10 like actual, the whole intercourse, but then like two where we just.

07:34:45.940 She's counting blowjays.

07:34:47.840 Oh, okay.

07:34:48.560 Fair enough.

07:34:49.480 Blowjays.

07:34:50.780 I count them.

07:34:51.560 Well, yeah.

07:34:52.260 I guess.

07:34:53.640 Four.

07:34:54.060 I've been in two relationships.

07:34:57.000 I had one situationship for like eight years.

07:34:59.780 That's a long time.

07:35:03.520 It's under 10.

07:35:04.780 Oh, yeah.

07:35:05.160 I was going to say, I think I saw the one with your dad.

07:35:07.580 Okay.

07:35:07.980 Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay.

07:35:10.360 Oh.

07:35:10.880 Okay.

07:35:13.340 All right.

07:35:15.000 Wait.

07:35:16.100 So.

07:35:18.760 Was there a back and forth here?

07:35:20.200 I forgot.

07:35:20.980 What?

07:35:22.120 No.

07:35:22.480 Oh, right.

07:35:25.060 Yeah.

07:35:25.420 Okay.

07:35:25.820 All right.

07:35:26.080 We'll do the last few TTS.

07:35:27.480 Guys, if you want to get a last minute TTS in, we're going to wrap up here soon.

07:35:30.660 Then we're going to do a raid to Andrew.

07:35:32.680 All right.

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07:36:00.780 Sure.

07:36:01.020 Blondie underscore donated $69.

07:36:04.740 No, trust me, girl.

07:36:07.320 Crazy how Blondie is asking you to trust her after she just admitted to being a manipulative

07:36:12.340 bimbo.

07:36:13.420 Every time she opens her mouth, BS spews out.

07:36:17.040 Over seven hours of this suffering.

07:36:18.780 What was that in, like, the struggle sessions?

07:36:25.960 Cajun Ninja donated $69.

07:36:29.000 That must be a 100,000 subscriber pimple.

07:36:32.900 Congrats on finally breaking out.

07:36:34.980 Oh, did Andrew?

07:36:35.540 Andrew.

07:36:36.500 Did you hit?

07:36:37.600 Andrew, did you hit?

07:36:40.180 Congratulations.

07:36:41.500 Let me look.

07:36:41.840 Did you really?

07:36:42.280 Not quite.

07:36:42.700 Not quite.

07:36:43.320 I'm 5,000 subs away.

07:36:44.600 Oh, okay.

07:36:45.040 All right.

07:36:45.880 It's close.

07:36:46.600 Maybe we can, I don't know if it'll happen tonight.

07:36:50.820 Nesta 718 donated $69.

07:36:54.860 To the panel, can you mention three countries of the world?

07:37:00.820 Name three countries, go.

07:37:02.200 North America.

07:37:04.620 Yeah.

07:37:05.280 South America.

07:37:06.000 Yeah.

07:37:06.280 Africa.

07:37:08.160 Those are continents.

07:37:09.240 Those are continents.

07:37:11.980 Nigeria.

07:37:12.380 I'm going to give you a mulligan.

07:37:14.260 Go ahead.

07:37:14.560 Nigeria, Egypt, and North America.

07:37:21.300 Speaking to the mic.

07:37:21.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:37:22.520 When I do that.

07:37:23.160 North America, Nigeria, and India.

07:37:27.780 Good job.

07:37:29.200 Three countries.

07:37:30.540 Poland, Germany, Switzerland.

07:37:33.480 Russia, Ukraine, and Japan.

07:37:36.740 Mexico, Spain, and Australia.

07:37:40.160 Brazil, China, United States.

07:37:43.920 Nepal, Romania, Brazil.

07:37:47.480 Thailand, Laos, Portugal.

07:37:50.360 One small correction.

07:37:52.500 Australia is not real.

07:37:53.820 Oh, that was me.

07:37:54.940 What?

07:37:55.880 Okay.

07:37:56.900 True, true.

07:37:57.400 I like your science.

07:37:59.700 6,969 blah, blah, blah.

07:38:02.920 I don't know if it's going to come through proper.

07:38:04.500 I don't know if it's going to come through proper.

07:38:06.120 You can have it.

07:38:06.600 Sprinklers be liked.

07:38:08.600 Oh.

07:38:10.060 Oh.

07:38:10.920 This is new.

07:38:12.060 Oh, that sounds like.

07:38:14.160 To motorboating case teeters be like.

07:38:16.840 Like spraying some people.

07:38:20.580 Why?

07:38:21.260 Somebody wants to motorboater.

07:38:22.460 You motorboated son of a bitch, you.

07:38:24.500 You two towels.

07:38:26.600 What's that thing from Wedding Crashers?

07:38:28.440 Good movie.

07:38:29.060 Vince Vaughn.

07:38:29.520 Oh, that's a good movie.

07:38:30.360 Good movie.

07:38:30.980 It's a good movie.

07:38:31.620 Good movie.

07:38:32.140 He's a brave and a decent man.

07:38:34.000 He's a pioneer.

07:38:35.600 Boom.

07:38:36.280 Okay.

07:38:37.540 Wait, hold on.

07:38:38.960 Okay.

07:38:39.520 All right.

07:38:40.560 Let's see.

07:38:41.160 Where were we?

07:38:41.700 I forgot where we were.

07:38:45.240 Are we rating homeboy?

07:38:47.220 No, no.

07:38:48.040 I'm just.

07:38:48.720 There was one last note I wanted to.

07:38:50.800 Any final thoughts from anybody before we wrap this show up?

07:38:54.500 Yeah, I got some.

07:38:55.160 I'm just kidding.

07:38:56.260 Thank you.

07:38:56.820 Yeah, I got it.

07:38:57.400 Well, I would like to extend my thanks to the entire panel,

07:39:01.360 including whatever for having The Crucible on and hosting us again.

07:39:05.340 Very kind to you.

07:39:06.700 Highly recommend The Crucible to throw in the last minute chats towards Brian for the roast section

07:39:11.160 and also to the entire panel.

07:39:13.580 Thank you guys for coming out.

07:39:14.860 I know that these debates can be very contentious.

07:39:17.060 I hold no ill will whatsoever.

07:39:20.700 Same.

07:39:21.440 Bye, Dr. Tina.

07:39:23.020 That was a pleasure.

07:39:24.060 I had a great time.

07:39:25.340 Thank you to everyone here.

07:39:26.560 I love you as much as I love myself.

07:39:28.780 Married 32 years, donated $69.

07:39:31.340 Bring yourself in all the time.

07:39:32.660 Another relationship coach who doesn't know crap about how to maintain a long-term relationship

07:39:37.780 or that men don't marry sluts.

07:39:40.080 I am my wife's third body.

07:39:42.780 How many failed relationships have you had?

07:39:48.380 Yeah, I think that's to you.

07:39:50.100 Well, I've really, to be honest with you, I've never been one to have boyfriends.

07:39:53.800 Crippling depression donated $69.

07:39:57.180 Blondie seems to be the type of person who will be left to rot in a nursing home,

07:40:01.660 wondering why her kids hate her after they abandon her for grooming

07:40:05.080 and causing them a life of depression and misery.

07:40:07.620 I can't read that one, okay.

07:40:09.500 Anyways, I didn't think about the bears and the bears.

07:40:14.520 Hold on.

07:40:14.800 I learned the rules of this game.

07:40:16.500 I got it.

07:40:17.140 Okay, so I got the message via Instagram for the guy who I wouldn't share the TDS for.

07:40:21.720 I think this is him.

07:40:23.080 Maybe it could be an imposer.

07:40:30.620 Wait.

07:40:32.600 Was somebody going to carpool with you?

07:40:34.220 I'm a little confused.

07:40:35.080 Carpool?

07:40:35.560 I don't know.

07:40:36.040 Somebody sent me a message.

07:40:37.100 I don't know.

07:40:39.080 I drove myself.

07:40:39.700 Anyways, he says, can you ask Blondie why she is so cool with, oh my God, hold on.

07:40:44.240 Let me make sure I read this first.

07:40:45.960 I like that I'm Blondie, though.

07:40:48.880 At least we know.

07:40:49.700 I mean, because I was always wondering, is it you?

07:40:51.300 Is it me?

07:40:51.660 You're red, I think.

07:40:52.640 You're red.

07:40:53.060 I'm Blondie.

07:40:53.720 I don't have a name.

07:40:54.280 I was red, but.

07:40:55.300 Or D.

07:40:55.820 Some people knew your name.

07:40:56.860 Look, Daniel just.

07:40:58.320 Uh, he, okay.

07:41:04.320 Why are you so cool with embarrassing your children in the future?

07:41:13.700 My kids are actually not embarrassed by it because we have a very sex positive household.

07:41:17.800 Do you worry about the OnlyFans embarrassing your children in the future?

07:41:21.600 No, because they, in a sense, at their age category, they know, in a sense, what I do in an age-appropriate way.

07:41:27.680 So, for example, my son's 11, and he understands I'm a model, and it's sexy stuff that would not be appropriate for him to see or be in the house.

07:41:35.820 You know, he gets it.

07:41:36.740 He's, he's out there.

07:41:38.120 These kids are seeing stuff.

07:41:39.980 Whatever.

07:41:40.380 What about when he's, uh, when he, what about when he's 17?

07:41:43.400 That's fine, because I can be able to have, I don't have this taboo with the sex, you guys.

07:41:49.360 It's just part of life in our household.

07:41:50.880 You don't think that they'll be ashamed?

07:41:52.480 No, they don't have shame attached to their sexuality.

07:41:55.140 I haven't raised them that way, you guys.

07:41:56.720 They haven't been raised.

07:41:57.880 You haven't seen the other moms of them.

07:41:59.580 What if, hang on, what if you're, what if your son is 17 comes to you?

07:42:03.860 I don't raise my kids to live by the social norms of other people.

07:42:06.580 We have our own group.

07:42:07.320 We have our own group.

07:42:08.040 We have our own culture.

07:42:09.480 It's a different culture.

07:42:10.600 Stuff all over your face.

07:42:11.040 What would you say then?

07:42:12.540 And in our family, we have a different culture that works for us.

07:42:15.580 Well, it works for us.

07:42:16.880 But then, it works for you.

07:42:18.320 But here, let me, let me repeat the question.

07:42:20.480 Hang on.

07:42:20.760 It doesn't work for them.

07:42:21.080 No, my kids are the smartest fucking kids you will ever meet in your life.

07:42:25.800 I'll tell you that because I've never bullshitted them.

07:42:27.980 Oh, I'm done.

07:42:28.440 Just because you tell your kids something doesn't mean they're going to listen.

07:42:31.320 I can't.

07:42:31.620 So, little Johnny, he's 17 years old.

07:42:33.120 He comes to you and he's like, Mom, look at this picture of you with, you know, mogert

07:42:36.740 all over your face.

07:42:36.840 That's fine.

07:42:36.960 He knew already what I was doing.

07:42:38.640 Hang on.

07:42:38.660 Let me finish.

07:42:38.960 Let me finish.

07:42:39.580 Let me finish.

07:42:40.600 He says, look at this picture of you with mogert all over your face.

07:42:44.620 What the fuck?

07:42:45.380 Kids are bullying me.

07:42:46.640 Mom, you have a picture of mogert all over your face.

07:42:49.140 You should not be getting bullied by the fucking kids at school, okay?

07:42:52.780 You gotta meet the kid and you'll understand.

07:42:54.800 I mean, a kid already is not alive because of that.

07:42:58.240 You guys, you're thinking that my kids are typical kids.

07:43:01.560 I raise them.

07:43:02.780 These are fucking savages.

07:43:05.180 No, that's scary.

07:43:06.320 They cuss.

07:43:06.700 They put people in their place.

07:43:08.340 They cuss?

07:43:08.700 Yes.

07:43:09.100 They will come home and say, guess what that fucking bitch did, Mom?

07:43:16.400 And you know what?

07:43:17.480 I'm like, that was a fucking bitch move.

07:43:21.000 I'm going to pray for your kids because that is really sad.

07:43:24.300 Pray for them because they are empowered.

07:43:26.320 They have a voice.

07:43:27.000 Even I didn't talk in front of my parents.

07:43:28.180 Every time somebody has been inappropriate with them, they either put them in their place

07:43:31.080 themselves, they tell them, they tell me, and we handle shit.

07:43:34.040 You don't think that that's how they're going to start talking to everybody they come

07:43:37.120 across?

07:43:37.520 I have guided them and taught them how to appropriate.

07:43:41.100 Well, the way you talk to Brian is how your kids are going to talk to people, too.

07:43:44.860 The way that you talk to them is the way that they're going to talk to other people.

07:43:47.540 We met that in a bad, just no different than Brian, popped off for a second and said

07:43:52.660 something inappropriate.

07:43:53.060 But they're 11 years old.

07:43:55.540 And guess what?

07:43:56.540 They need to learn how to manage their language.

07:44:00.840 Well, how are they going to do that?

07:44:01.860 But you're not even managing your language.

07:44:04.840 I'm shepherding them.

07:44:04.880 I'm shepherding them.

07:44:05.580 I'm shepherding them.

07:44:05.960 We are not allowed to disrespect people, but we are allowed-

07:44:08.860 A fucking bitch is not disrespecting you.

07:44:10.540 No, but she's not saying it to the person's face.

07:44:12.660 She's coming home and venting.

07:44:13.600 Oh, she's being fake.

07:44:14.360 How do you know that, though?

07:44:16.260 You don't know that.

07:44:17.220 Trust me, you don't know.

07:44:18.080 How do I not know?

07:44:19.180 Do you think if my daughter wants to call her-

07:44:20.660 I said, how do you know that?

07:44:21.680 Because I'm not getting called by the school.

07:44:24.240 I would be getting called by the school.

07:44:25.600 Just because you don't get called by the school doesn't mean something happens in private.

07:44:29.040 So if my daughter says a cuss word to somebody in private, that's something I need to worry

07:44:33.840 about?

07:44:33.860 Yes, I would say I cussed my whole life in private, and I'm fine.

07:44:37.740 If your daughter, if your daughter at 18 years, no, 16 years old is starting to post stuff

07:44:42.600 on Instagram-

07:44:43.460 We're literally in 2024.

07:44:45.160 It makes it okay?

07:44:45.860 Are we going over cussing?

07:44:46.720 It's okay for your child to be a boss cussing?

07:44:49.340 I'm a child abuser because I let my kids cuss?

07:44:51.800 Yes.

07:44:52.860 Uh-huh.

07:44:53.400 Well, no.

07:44:53.700 Like, do you hear this?

07:44:54.760 You're not a child abuser for that.

07:44:55.540 You're a child abuser for other things.

07:44:56.400 It's the weirdest shit to me.

07:44:57.980 Do you understand that language is different across culture?

07:45:00.240 Okay, maybe not the language, but what about everything else?

07:45:02.200 Can you-

07:45:02.440 I don't live in your culture.

07:45:04.660 I don't live in your world.

07:45:06.140 It's not culture.

07:45:06.460 It is culture.

07:45:07.560 Can I do lower the volume, please?

07:45:09.320 When you lower the volume, my ears are about to explode.

07:45:11.800 You're ignorant to think that it's okay for your children to be masturbating, to be doing

07:45:16.900 this and this and that.

07:45:18.140 Do you know in Germany, there's a full nude.

07:45:20.800 A woman, a woman, a woman, a woman, a woman, a woman.

07:45:22.800 I don't feel bad for those comics because I want you to open up your mind to what you're

07:45:27.320 doing to your kids.

07:45:28.100 The Christian Homes, get the newspaper with a nude model on the front page.

07:45:32.700 The kids don't give a shit.

07:45:34.920 The nude model cares.

07:45:36.540 Okay, I really, if the United States is too big for you-

07:45:39.720 It's a beautiful woman.

07:45:41.220 She's naked.

07:45:42.200 Whoop-dee-doo.

07:45:43.100 Let's go take a shit.

07:45:44.320 Nobody cares.

07:45:45.520 Y'all be trying.

07:45:47.720 What is that?

07:45:49.200 Why yell when you can just have a civil discussion?

07:45:52.380 Do you know the way?

07:45:54.420 These when the chats, I don't feel bad for them anymore because you need to realize what's

07:45:59.400 going on.

07:46:00.160 This is not okay for your children.

07:46:02.180 If there's no children involved, all right, do what you gotta do.

07:46:04.400 We're all broken in different ways.

07:46:06.260 You guys are asking like-

07:46:06.920 But children are involved.

07:46:08.240 That is disgusting.

07:46:09.480 You're just as bad as the kids or the adults that are chopping off the genitalia of these

07:46:15.440 kids.

07:46:15.780 It's just my passion.

07:46:16.520 It's my passion about the subject.

07:46:16.980 You're grooming them to be sexual.

07:46:19.040 Wait, okay, hold on.

07:46:19.860 They're gonna be-

07:46:20.720 God groomed them to be sexual and you made them sexual beings.

07:46:24.380 At what point would it be appropriate for a person who was sexual?

07:46:29.220 At the time, please say no for apology.

07:46:32.740 When you apologize for yelling, shut the fuck up to the nip slip girl.

07:46:37.400 Andrew-

07:46:37.720 I did apologize to her.

07:46:38.920 I think it wasn't recorded.

07:46:40.580 No apologies and continue B304.

07:46:43.360 I gave-

07:46:43.780 I apologized.

07:46:44.600 It wasn't on camera.

07:46:45.760 I apologized before we went live again after we had to restart the stream.

07:46:48.820 He did, he did.

07:46:51.420 Pancakes donated $69.

07:46:54.400 Sending this as a support comment to Brian and Andrew.

07:46:57.920 Also, those poor children-

07:46:59.660 For real, dude.

07:47:00.820 That's really what gets me worked up.

07:47:02.340 It's just-

07:47:02.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:47:03.080 They're innocent children that are being-

07:47:05.460 Guys, let's not-

07:47:06.260 Let's not-

07:47:06.720 I'm sorry.

07:47:07.340 We should not bring-

07:47:08.260 We should not bring children into the dating podcast.

07:47:11.540 Isn't that what it's about?

07:47:12.720 It was on her Instagram.

07:47:13.340 I don't think we're gonna change her mind.

07:47:15.480 Yeah, so-

07:47:16.300 You guys have never seen my Instagram.

07:47:18.360 You're going off of what they're saying.

07:47:20.300 It's pretty bad.

07:47:20.900 It's still the truth.

07:47:22.120 Yeah, it's out there.

07:47:25.020 Oh, yeah.

07:47:26.300 She's gonna bring a dildo to the damn classroom.

07:47:27.700 What does it say?

07:47:28.380 What does the hooker-

07:47:29.500 What do you tell the class when it's career day at school?

07:47:31.900 You're bringing a laptop and a dildo?

07:47:33.060 It sucks.

07:47:33.640 It's okay.

07:47:34.720 We're all gonna have to-

07:47:35.760 I can already see you.

07:47:36.700 That's what you're gonna do.

07:47:37.400 Off the rails.

07:47:38.120 I am too.

07:47:38.780 I'm a self-help author.

07:47:41.500 I just tell them I'm an author.

07:47:43.180 I go with that.

07:47:43.560 It's $69.

07:47:44.540 I'm taking back my retraction about the joke.

07:47:48.900 CPS is on its way, Blondie.

07:47:50.920 Any home we place your children in will be better than the home you are raising them in.

07:47:55.720 Well, good luck with your little snowflakes living out here in the real fucking world, guys.

07:48:00.320 Hate to break it to you.

07:48:01.980 It's a cold world out there.

07:48:04.160 Cold world.

07:48:04.800 You're creating a bunch of children who don't tell you what's really going on in their lives.

07:48:09.540 That's what you're doing.

07:48:10.720 What does the future say?

07:48:11.800 It's a cold world out there.

07:48:12.280 If your kids spoke up like that to people I know, they'd get a bat to the back of the head.

07:48:17.480 You're teaching them to be shitty people.

07:48:20.160 Abdul, get the rocks.

07:48:20.800 And you're teaching them that it's okay to get beat.

07:48:23.020 Abdul, get the rocks.

07:48:24.400 Get the rocks.

07:48:25.060 What?

07:48:26.180 Okay to get beat?

07:48:27.280 Why would-

07:48:27.860 Who said that?

07:48:28.200 He just- I have heard people talk about belt beating a child, smacking them on the back

07:48:33.340 of the head, and all these sort of physical things.

07:48:36.740 And you're calling it discipline and blah, blah, blah.

07:48:39.260 Off the rails.

07:48:39.960 It's physical abuse.

07:48:41.280 Call it whatever the fuck you want.

07:48:42.720 Yeah, cool.

07:48:43.580 Depends on where you live.

07:48:45.040 Wait, what's wrong with taking a belt to a kid?

07:48:47.220 Whoa, Andrew, hold on.

07:48:48.180 What's wrong with letting a kid talk?

07:48:50.200 This is what happens when you belt a kid, by the way.

07:48:55.640 So if you want to belt a kid, they're showing them to me.

07:48:59.000 Wait, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

07:49:00.060 Guys, you guys are way too loud.

07:49:01.360 Stop.

07:49:01.840 Lower the volume.

07:49:02.600 Guys, hold on.

07:49:03.800 Shut up, guys.

07:49:04.660 Shut up.

07:49:05.300 That's to all of you, not directed in any direction, so that mitigates the shut up.

07:49:09.920 If it's a general shut up, it's mitigates to the whole panel.

07:49:13.580 Okay, we've got to lower the volume if we are going to talk a little bit here.

07:49:16.420 Andrew was saying in a video game.

07:49:18.460 It's okay to do that in a video.

07:49:19.920 Oh.

07:49:20.640 Wait, he likes to play.

07:49:21.620 Oh, in a video game.

07:49:22.180 But only if you have one of those-

07:49:25.040 Disavow, by the way.

07:49:26.100 I disavow.

07:49:26.880 I disavow.

07:49:27.140 You know one of those really thick dad leather belts?

07:49:29.640 That's the only appropriate belt.

07:49:32.100 Stop utilizing your video game.

07:49:33.620 There needs to be boundaries and discipline.

07:49:34.940 Andrew, I'm trying to cover for you here.

07:49:37.060 Okay, and this is what-

07:49:37.820 Consequences.

07:49:38.140 Well, Andrew, it was a delightful meme.

07:49:41.180 It was a delightful meme.

07:49:42.220 I really like you.

07:49:43.260 I like what you have to say.

07:49:44.560 Okay, stop.

07:49:46.000 Off the rails.

07:49:46.940 And I like the tempo.

07:49:47.720 I've been bitten.

07:49:49.340 I've been belting.

07:49:49.980 I was abused.

07:49:51.600 There is discipline.

07:49:52.900 And then there's abuse.

07:49:54.460 I said it earlier.

07:49:55.380 If my husband was abusing my children.

07:49:57.020 It's order.

07:49:57.620 It's order.

07:49:58.440 Look at this shit.

07:49:59.400 Discipline abuse is way different.

07:50:00.920 Hide that shit, Nick.

07:50:01.960 Hide that shit.

07:50:03.100 Oh, he has the gavel.

07:50:04.060 It was in the name of discipline.

07:50:05.300 I got the fucking gavel.

07:50:05.820 Shut the fuck up.

07:50:06.540 No.

07:50:06.900 Shut the fuck up.

07:50:07.320 No.

07:50:07.680 There's no difference.

07:50:08.300 Shut the fuck up.

07:50:08.880 God damn it.

07:50:09.460 Shut the fuck up.

07:50:09.580 Not everybody knows this.

07:50:10.700 Okay, guys.

07:50:11.560 Actually, just listen.

07:50:13.000 Listen up, bros.

07:50:14.140 God damn.

07:50:16.100 Y'all are feral.

07:50:17.080 It's late.

07:50:17.920 We out here.

07:50:18.680 We live now.

07:50:19.080 We are hungry.

07:50:20.000 You did it.

07:50:20.580 Bring us food.

07:50:22.000 Zip it.

07:50:22.820 Zip it good.

07:50:23.800 Okay.

07:50:24.200 Y'all feral as fuck.

07:50:26.000 This is the most fucking feral pod.

07:50:28.060 This is one of the most feral podcasts I've had, bro.

07:50:30.900 We got this.

07:50:31.540 This is the fucking.

07:50:32.560 I'm going to call this the rabies episode.

07:50:35.480 Zombie apocalypse.

07:50:36.580 Zombie apocalypse.

07:50:37.600 Y'all foaming at the fucking mouth.

07:50:39.020 28 days.

07:50:39.620 Foaming at the fucking mouth.

07:50:41.060 Some feral.

07:50:41.500 Ground zero.

07:50:42.280 Ground zero.

07:50:42.960 Shit.

07:50:43.380 Ground zero.

07:50:44.400 We're taking down the patriarchy, bitches.

07:50:49.000 I'm just kidding.

07:50:49.820 I got to play into it.

07:50:50.760 You guys, I'm the villain now.

07:50:51.860 I just got to play the role.

07:50:52.840 You don't have to play the villain.

07:50:53.860 You are the villain.

07:50:54.740 Exactly.

07:50:55.100 I'm the villain.

07:50:56.640 I'm going to re-up.

07:50:58.420 I'm going to.

07:50:59.600 Wait, stop.

07:51:00.360 Stop.

07:51:00.540 Stop.

07:51:00.700 I'm going to re-up.

07:51:02.580 I'm going to re-up this.

07:51:04.240 So, are you coming back on the show?

07:51:08.620 With you?

07:51:09.360 To speak to you?

07:51:10.600 Sure.

07:51:12.400 What's the structure going to be?

07:51:13.740 The same shit.

07:51:14.760 We just talk about whatever.

07:51:15.600 Hopefully not as toxic, though.

07:51:16.840 Is Andrew going to be here?

07:51:18.680 Maybe.

07:51:19.260 Probably.

07:51:19.600 Only if Andrew's here.

07:51:20.420 Okay, deal.

07:51:20.920 Fine.

07:51:21.160 There's just not that many people who can fucking fact-check me, and I need that shit.

07:51:25.160 I really do, you guys.

07:51:26.180 I do.

07:51:26.780 Everybody was fact-checking you the whole time.

07:51:27.420 I need the facts here.

07:51:28.280 No, I'm just not accepting it.

07:51:28.880 But you have to understand.

07:51:30.660 Andrew, you know I'm trying to be respectful.

07:51:32.620 Hold on.

07:51:33.480 Hold on.

07:51:34.440 They are ignorant of a lot of things.

07:51:36.140 In culture, whatever.

07:51:37.140 You are.

07:51:37.940 Oh.

07:51:38.120 I'm talking about cross-culturally.

07:51:39.800 Cross-culturally and all that.

07:51:42.200 But I believe you at least have an awareness of other cultures.

07:51:47.340 Real shit.

07:51:48.460 There's something special.

07:51:49.240 And you'll probably go to bed at night and rethink over a couple fucking things I said.

07:51:54.600 Ay, ay, ay.

07:51:55.800 As long as Brian will have me back.

07:51:58.540 I can already tell that I don't like you.

07:52:02.380 I'll lose at that.

07:52:03.520 Oh, boy.

07:52:04.220 All right.

07:52:04.560 I like Brian.

07:52:05.500 He sets the boundaries.

07:52:06.540 I like Andrew.

07:52:07.520 He calls people out on their shit.

07:52:09.260 It's good.

07:52:10.700 A non-donated $69.

07:52:13.140 Okay, we got it.

07:52:13.540 This isn't a parent taking a back to a kid you abysmal tout.

07:52:16.960 But your kids will grow up to speak to people who don't have to take their hook-a-mouth shit.

07:52:22.440 Plenty of people don't tolerate that shit.

07:52:25.300 Grow up.

07:52:26.120 On the body count thing, Anon, thank you for the message.

07:52:28.960 Someone said, like, well, you know, these women, they're going to disappoint their man if they don't have experience.

07:52:35.980 So there's a couple components here.

07:52:37.300 First off, if you're a guy and you have more sexual experience than the woman, women tend to look towards men to lead them in various ways.

07:52:46.840 In the relationship, in the bedroom, whatever it is.

07:52:49.260 So as a guy, you can take a woman who has little or even no sexual experience, and you can have fantastic sex with her.

07:52:59.020 As long as she's comfortable with her body and all that, though.

07:53:01.040 The other way around.

07:53:02.020 Right?

07:53:02.220 Okay, but the point I'm trying to make is I don't think we should be – because I've had women who've come on the show, and they were perhaps a little naive.

07:53:11.140 And they said, well, don't – and this is, like, I think something women will tell other women in an effort to also get their friends and peers to make the same mistakes they did by being promiscuous.

07:53:24.080 But we – I've had girls come on the show and say, you know, not, like, coping because they have a high body count, but, like, they're more on the naive end of it.

07:53:33.200 Where they're, like – but I thought, wait, don't guys prefer, like, girls who are, like, really sexually experienced and can rock their world and are really good in bed?

07:53:41.140 And I just want to do, like, a call to – stop.

07:53:43.320 I want to do just a call to action if there are any women who are feeling pressured by other women or other men to be promiscuous or to have casual sex so that in this warped worldview so that you can become better in bed because they're telling you that that's what guys want.

07:54:02.840 I can guarantee you that the guy that actually likes you, he's going to absolutely disregard your lack of experience in the bedroom.

07:54:12.360 If he really cares about you, he's going to be – he's going to take his time.

07:54:15.980 He's going to be gentle.

07:54:16.780 He's going to be patient.

07:54:18.000 And don't, like, if you're getting pressured to just, like, sleep around so you can get experience, don't guys like that.

07:54:26.380 Don't guys like – no.

07:54:27.840 If a guy really likes you, if you don't give the best blow job, if you need him to show you how to, you know, do a certain position, like – why are you fucking laughing at me?

07:54:42.620 What the fuck?

07:54:42.980 Because you're going, like, so hard into detail about this.

07:54:46.180 No, I'm just –

07:54:46.780 He needs to put you on the side and lift up your leg.

07:54:50.400 Like, dang.

07:54:50.980 Look, first off, I think a lot of guys –

07:54:55.740 Arrive at the point.

07:54:56.460 A lot of guys will actually perhaps enjoy that component, like, perhaps if you're less experienced.

07:55:03.780 And then a guy who's actually worth his salt, who's going to be a good partner to you, who's going to – this is going to sound fucking corny – who's going to cherish you, who's going to love you, whatever.

07:55:12.620 It's not going to fucking matter.

07:55:15.140 So don't get pressured into fucking being a fucking strumpet for this fucking fake news shit.

07:55:22.620 Oh, you got to be sexually experienced.

07:55:25.380 Nah, man.

07:55:26.460 You know, like – oh.

07:55:28.320 Anyways, what?

07:55:29.000 No, no, go off.

07:55:29.620 Land the plane.

07:55:30.240 Land the fucking plane.

07:55:31.260 Okay, that's it.

07:55:32.080 They're sexually experienced and they're not.

07:55:34.280 What?

07:55:35.280 Does it gross you out knowing that someone has a high body count and it makes you not want to touch them?

07:55:40.620 There's a lot of guys that don't know what they're doing at all.

07:55:42.920 Yeah, I don't like a high body count.

07:55:43.480 They've had sex with tons of people and apparently –

07:55:44.960 I feel like low-value men don't care if they're high-value men.

07:55:47.900 Nobody's correct.

07:55:48.620 Do you guys know what an A-spot is?

07:55:49.800 Actually, I think it's the opposite from my experience.

07:55:51.380 Any guy know what an A-spot is?

07:55:53.060 I mean, look.

07:55:53.480 Kind of important.

07:55:54.360 I don't know.

07:55:54.640 For me, at least for me, I mean, someone who's had sex – I've had sex.

07:56:01.920 I've had sex one time.

07:56:05.360 Like, I know what I'm doing in the bedroom.

07:56:07.460 Like, I can take a girl who's never had sex –

07:56:09.340 Can I have one of her numbers and ask her if you really knew what you were doing or was she faking?

07:56:14.580 Guys would be surprised how many times you have sex.

07:56:16.340 I'm not going to put your fucking crazy ass in contact with a fucking ex of mine.

07:56:21.060 That's ridiculous.

07:56:21.820 That's probably smart.

07:56:22.300 Yeah, that's pretty smart.

07:56:23.220 Ain't no fucking way you're talking to any fucking girl.

07:56:25.140 It was just a rhetorical question.

07:56:26.660 I was just making a –

07:56:28.520 What I was trying to say before you interrupted me was is that if you're a guy, you have any degree of sexual experience.

07:56:35.300 If you know what you're doing, you know how to lead, you can, like, teach a girl.

07:56:39.660 And it's not going to be a turnoff or anything.

07:56:41.920 You can show her what you like.

07:56:43.740 You can have good sex with a girl who's never had sex, ever.

07:56:46.920 But who were the girls that you practiced on?

07:56:49.280 What's the matter?

07:56:49.880 I mean, somebody has to be the girls you practice on.

07:56:54.580 What's your point?

07:56:55.540 My point is maybe a girl like me is the girl you practice on and you feel safe with.

07:57:00.580 Fuck no.

07:57:01.240 So we need people like you.

07:57:02.620 Maybe that is the ministry.

07:57:04.320 Yeah.

07:57:04.740 Maybe that is a ministry.

07:57:06.300 I'm not calling it a ministry.

07:57:07.980 I'm taking one for the team in a lot of fucking ways.

07:57:11.180 I take pride in –

07:57:13.300 Look, there's been a couple questionables here and there, but I take pride in not sticking my dick in crazy.

07:57:18.780 And you, madame, are fucking crazy.

07:57:21.960 And I ain't ever fucked a girl like you.

07:57:25.120 Mic drop.

07:57:25.780 You can take that to the bank.

07:57:27.140 I believe it.

07:57:27.900 I believe it.

07:57:28.560 I would not.

07:57:28.880 There you go.

07:57:29.860 No, that was good.

07:57:30.600 That was good.

07:57:32.900 It's late.

07:57:33.660 No offense or anything.

07:57:34.600 We're all like –

07:57:34.980 No, I wouldn't fuck you either.

07:57:36.880 Well, earlier you did.

07:57:38.420 Well, now hang on a second.

07:57:39.920 I said, well, here you go.

07:57:41.320 Earlier in the podcast.

07:57:42.080 That's different.

07:57:42.680 I'm in control.

07:57:44.300 Oh, lordy, lordy.

07:57:46.000 I would still like to suck Brian's dick.

07:57:49.100 Can I say that?

07:57:50.740 He's not –

07:57:51.400 I'm telling you, I know.

07:57:52.340 He's not going to let us.

07:57:53.580 He moves a lot of things over, you know?

07:57:55.340 He's not going to let you.

07:57:56.360 It's no different than when the guys get in a fight.

07:57:59.140 You know, they just go beat the shit out of each other and then it's done.

07:58:01.800 It's done.

07:58:02.560 That's what, to me –

07:58:03.500 He doesn't like you.

07:58:05.080 Well, I understand, but I'm just saying if he found a room in his heart to be like,

07:58:08.760 well, maybe we can be friends.

07:58:09.780 We can be friends.

07:58:10.640 Is it a challenge?

07:58:11.580 How about go get coffee?

07:58:12.920 Like, just have a conversation.

07:58:14.160 And if she's offering, I mean –

07:58:16.480 Holy fuck.

07:58:16.500 Your voice is like nails on a fucking chalkboard.

07:58:20.680 Lighter drop.

07:58:21.280 That was a comma.

07:58:22.620 It just makes the blowjob better.

07:58:24.120 It's a tackle.

07:58:24.360 I'm going to pretend like you need to just make my dick go soft.

07:58:26.620 Oh, my god.

07:58:27.560 Now, like, here's the thing.

07:58:28.920 Like, a lot of people think that guys, like, they'll hit it once.

07:58:32.900 But, like, for me, I never want to sleep with a girl once.

07:58:37.360 So, like, if I sleep with a girl, I've already made the decision that I want there to be continuity.

07:58:41.560 I want to continue seeing her.

07:58:43.440 Shut the fuck up.

07:58:44.920 God damn.

07:58:46.600 Throw this – chill out.

07:58:48.080 Just put it –

07:58:48.800 Okay.

07:58:49.820 I don't want to hear that.

07:58:51.100 Just throw it after her.

07:58:52.360 You're just disruptive as fuck.

07:58:55.380 What?

07:58:55.980 Why is she standing there?

07:58:57.440 I don't want to hear that.

07:58:58.740 All right.

07:58:59.760 Thank you for having me.

07:59:00.480 It was a good talk.

07:59:01.900 Oh, you're leaving.

07:59:02.760 Yeah, she's –

07:59:04.280 I did –

07:59:04.760 Well, can you at least say goodbye?

07:59:06.760 To me, we – I felt like – I felt like we had this connection.

07:59:11.460 Can we at least – can you – yeah, there we go.

07:59:13.780 I said thank you.

07:59:14.080 I said that you were a great guy.

07:59:15.940 Hang on.

07:59:16.240 You got to talk to the mic or I can't hear her in my earpiece.

07:59:18.600 I enjoyed talking to you.

07:59:20.540 I thought you were a great guy.

07:59:21.640 You had a great personality.

07:59:23.000 He's getting really annoyed that I'm talking to you.

07:59:25.280 Yeah, you interrupted me.

07:59:26.280 I was in the middle of talking.

07:59:27.380 You're like, can you toss this?

07:59:28.200 You already told me to shut up.

07:59:29.840 You already told me to stop.

07:59:33.020 Okay.

07:59:33.300 Well, you're here.

07:59:33.940 You might as well just stay for the rest of the show.

07:59:35.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

07:59:36.140 Look, hang on, hang on.

07:59:37.560 Hang on, hang on.

07:59:38.180 Just hear me out.

07:59:38.900 Hear me out.

07:59:39.680 I thought that you had an interesting personality as well.

07:59:43.300 Part of the show – hang on.

07:59:44.980 Part of the show is the combative – hang on, hang on.

07:59:47.260 Part of the show is the combative nature.

07:59:50.200 I'm not upset with you in honesty and neither is Brian.

07:59:53.660 We're just joshing.

07:59:54.880 Yeah, we're just joshing.

07:59:55.880 It was like a friendly shut the fuck up.

07:59:57.020 But when you already apologized for saying like –

08:00:00.300 Yeah, it was a friendly shut the fuck up.

08:00:01.340 Shut the fuck up.

08:00:02.260 Shut the fuck up.

08:00:02.900 And then you say –

08:00:03.560 But he did.

08:00:04.100 But he did apologize.

08:00:06.260 Like –

08:00:06.860 You know, it's kind of when you call – never mind.

08:00:10.500 I think she's feeling like the saris are empty like what I did.

08:00:13.920 And I'm tired.

08:00:14.940 Wait, the what?

08:00:16.220 I think she's feeling like the saris are empty like everybody was feeling like my saris were empty.

08:00:22.220 Oh, okay.

08:00:22.620 That's fair.

08:00:23.020 All right.

08:00:23.300 It feels like that.

08:00:24.040 Wait, I did get a message.

08:00:25.820 Blonde said she lost her virginity at 13.

08:00:28.240 So why did she say she bled and was unprepared on her wedding day?

08:00:32.580 Oh, I was thinking that too.

08:00:34.340 Because – so I did not have good first sexual experiences.

08:00:38.560 And so then I went celibate for years and years and years before I actually got married.

08:00:42.880 So I was very nervous about sex.

08:00:45.260 I had a lot of shame, a lot of trauma.

08:00:47.220 I didn't know what I was doing.

08:00:48.400 We had never had sex before.

08:00:49.700 It was the typical whole Christian situation.

08:00:51.420 It's not the typical Christian situation.

08:00:53.220 What?

08:00:53.640 I had a five-some –

08:00:54.620 Hang on.

08:00:55.000 You still weren't a virgin though.

08:00:56.220 Why did you bleed?

08:00:57.120 I don't – that's the question.

08:00:58.140 I don't know.

08:00:58.420 Maybe the dude had a giant –

08:01:00.020 I had a five-some in college with a girl who had a boyfriend.

08:01:02.820 You're like, what?

08:01:03.320 I didn't know what I was doing.

08:01:05.280 I didn't know what I was doing.

08:01:07.780 Huge.

08:01:08.360 How does that lead to bloodshed?

08:01:09.760 It's going to be fantastic.

08:01:11.320 I mean, do you want me to make you a video and send it to you?

08:01:14.220 I mean, there's –

08:01:15.120 Maybe it's just really dry.

08:01:16.360 It's sensitive stuff going on.

08:01:18.340 It's going to be –

08:01:18.700 There's just – whatever.

08:01:20.060 I don't know.

08:01:20.360 It's going to be –

08:01:21.360 I had a five-some in college with a girl who had a boyfriend for three years in high school.

08:01:27.120 It's going to be big.

08:01:27.740 It's going to be big.

08:01:28.020 And then when she did it and the five-some, it was like a murder scene.

08:01:33.800 I don't know what – okay, off the rails.

08:01:35.480 Hold on.

08:01:36.000 Wait, but just – okay, question.

08:01:39.100 You don't – what was your body count at before you got married?

08:01:43.620 10, 20, 30?

08:01:44.840 No.

08:01:45.540 I – maybe five?

08:01:46.840 Wait, just stay there, Walma.

08:01:47.800 I don't know.

08:01:48.320 Five maybe?

08:01:49.100 Leave it on the table.

08:01:50.380 Just relax.

08:01:50.780 I really didn't – I wasn't sexually experienced at all by the time I got married.

08:01:54.260 But when we were talking about the body counts, you started off by saying, well, my dad kicked

08:01:57.700 me out at 13.

08:01:58.640 So, I lost my opinion at 13.

08:02:00.500 I was trying to calculate about how many as a teenager.

08:02:03.340 You have a nice watch, by the way.

08:02:03.360 You have a nice watch.

08:02:04.160 It's fake, apparently.

08:02:05.540 Is it fake?

08:02:06.920 Somebody also messaged me saying that you have a fake Rolex.

08:02:10.220 I could be wrong.

08:02:10.800 Is it fake?

08:02:12.280 Is it a knockoff?

08:02:13.540 No.

08:02:14.100 This is literally –

08:02:15.120 Can you talk into the mic?

08:02:16.720 The things that you would come onto a podcast that is this big, you wouldn't wear a fake

08:02:21.760 Rolex.

08:02:23.280 That doesn't even –

08:02:23.780 It's a real Rolex?

08:02:25.080 It's a real Rolex.

08:02:26.240 Is it a real Christian Dior sweatpants?

08:02:29.120 She's a CEO.

08:02:30.360 It's called a boss bitch.

08:02:31.720 She's the CEO of FootFetish.

08:02:33.520 I'm going to be totally honest with you.

08:02:34.040 Well, people are really in the box with me.

08:02:37.060 You guys would know.

08:02:38.520 You would touch my toes.

08:02:40.340 Damn, bro.

08:02:41.100 You're –

08:02:41.700 Did you read anything I sent you?

08:02:43.480 I could never know what a Rolex looked like.

08:02:45.040 I have no idea.

08:02:45.680 Huh?

08:02:46.140 Did you read anything I sent you?

08:02:48.980 You would know the number of celebrities that come in, the number of NDAs that I've signed,

08:02:53.500 like rappers, singers, directors, producers.

08:02:56.520 Is there any you didn't sign an NDA for of the guys?

08:02:59.120 Quentin Tarantino, and what's his name?

08:03:03.140 What?

08:03:03.740 What?

08:03:04.060 You didn't sign Quentin Tarantino.

08:03:05.940 When did Quentin Tarantino slide into the DMs?

08:03:09.440 Or was this in person?

08:03:10.380 He doesn't slide into the DMs.

08:03:12.300 Oh, wait.

08:03:13.060 No, Quentin does have a foot.

08:03:14.420 He has a big foot fetish.

08:03:16.140 That's why he didn't have it.

08:03:17.600 Howard Stern didn't make us do it either.

08:03:20.180 He was going to move to Nutland, New Jersey.

08:03:22.740 That's where my parents are from.

08:03:23.240 Wait, so of the guys who you didn't sign an NDA for, who are the ones who you –

08:03:27.800 are you saying you were – you, like, hooked up with them, or –

08:03:31.740 No.

08:03:32.820 You hung out with them?

08:03:33.960 I'm just confused.

08:03:34.420 Wait, Quentin Tarantino is a customer of your foot fetish business?

08:03:38.400 Not my foot fetish business.

08:03:39.840 I worked for the foot pad that was owned by Jason.

08:03:42.760 Then I worked for the foot spot, and then I just opened up my own.

08:03:46.080 And I signed multiple NDAs of clients and things like that.

08:03:51.320 So I'm telling you that I've met multiple celebrities that have sucked my toes and things like that.

08:03:56.900 Wow.

08:03:57.180 Has Quentin Tarantino sucked your toes?

08:03:59.260 Oh, my.

08:04:00.340 What is –

08:04:00.720 Can I see your toes?

08:04:01.360 Oh, wait, wait.

08:04:02.800 Hang on.

08:04:03.240 Has he sucked your toes?

08:04:04.480 I wouldn't have brought it up if he didn't.

08:04:06.720 Howard Stern is one of them, too.

08:04:09.140 Include.

08:04:09.560 Howard Stern has sucked your toes?

08:04:11.980 Ain't no way.

08:04:12.600 Wait, I mean, honestly, I just want to be – I just want to know.

08:04:18.500 Has Quentin Tarantino taken your foot and put it in his mouth?

08:04:25.440 Y-E-S-C –

08:04:29.960 Oh.

08:04:30.820 I don't –

08:04:31.700 What other languages do I need to say in this?

08:04:35.180 S-E-E.

08:04:35.760 C?

08:04:36.460 Like in Spanish?

08:04:37.320 No, like C.

08:04:37.780 S-E-E.

08:04:38.420 Banish.

08:04:39.260 Y-E-S.

08:04:40.740 These are her customers who have not signed an NDA, so she can say it without getting

08:04:46.420 in trouble.

08:04:47.260 That's what that means.

08:04:48.460 And all those other people she mentioned, she just can't confirm nor deny.

08:04:54.120 Well, did Quentin Tarantino wash his feet first?

08:04:58.100 I don't suck his toes.

08:04:59.380 No, yeah.

08:05:00.480 Did you wash your feet?

08:05:01.740 What?

08:05:02.640 Yes.

08:05:03.280 Or some guys' requests.

08:05:05.140 It depends what they request.

08:05:06.360 Wow.

08:05:06.760 Wait, wait, wait.

08:05:07.300 If they request stinky, smelly, dirty, dirty, it's like they want you to walk around the

08:05:13.780 sides of the room and they want you to have like spiderwebs or whatever like is on the

08:05:18.040 ground.

08:05:18.280 It's called fetishes.

08:05:19.420 That's fucking disgusting.

08:05:20.980 It's called people –

08:05:21.840 If you ask me anything about the fetish world, you would know.

08:05:24.540 She got web spiderwebs.

08:05:25.540 How about it?

08:05:26.120 Why?

08:05:26.800 I can't.

08:05:27.760 Well, people have things that they just have to deal with and get it out with and that's

08:05:32.460 why sex work should totally be legal.

08:05:34.920 What do you do for a career?

08:05:36.660 What are the crazy stories that you have?

08:05:38.020 But with that logic, we can't talk about it.

08:05:40.260 But then, you know.

08:05:41.480 Crazy stories.

08:05:41.940 I just want to say that I go to the movie theater and I'm like, oh my God, there's

08:05:45.480 some weirdos.

08:05:45.500 The people over 18, that is actually a thing.

08:05:47.700 Nick is a virgin and this is very disturbing for him to listen to.

08:05:50.580 There's a whole wild world out here, Nikki.

08:05:52.620 I would be happy, too.

08:05:56.460 Oh, jeez.

08:05:57.100 Okay.

08:05:57.520 Be polite.

08:05:58.160 Guys, if you want to get your last minute TTSs in, sorry guys, I'll trigger the ones

08:06:01.780 that we –

08:06:02.840 Danielle Valdenated $69.

08:06:07.660 If the blonde had a belt in her life, maybe she wouldn't be such a shitty parent.

08:06:12.120 Dot, you aren't a villain.

08:06:13.400 You're an awful person and everyone there is clowning you right now.

08:06:17.800 You shouldn't come back.

08:06:19.500 No, we'll have her back.

08:06:20.520 I don't think she's –

08:06:21.920 Are you ready to be put through the crucible?

08:06:24.200 They probably won't have me back, but they'll definitely have her back.

08:06:26.380 Into the mic.

08:06:27.780 Why wouldn't we have you back?

08:06:29.360 Todd donated $69.

08:06:32.300 Blondie is seriously re-re.

08:06:34.500 By the way, Brian, I am 24, a virgin, submissive, give amazing massages.

08:06:40.460 But I am unfortunately blonde, five feet, seven inches, and I live in Florida, lol.

08:06:47.040 Long distance, though?

08:06:49.960 I mean, what's the – is it like in any reality?

08:06:53.620 That's what I'd want to know.

08:06:54.620 I guess you could –

08:06:54.860 The paladins donated $69.

08:06:57.640 Five minutes before the podcast ends and we just now find out Cutie sucked her toes.

08:07:03.460 What the –

08:07:03.740 That this would have been a really interesting panel if you simps wouldn't have been all over Blondie all night.

08:07:09.260 Exactly.

08:07:09.860 Jesus.

08:07:10.400 That's why I wrote paragraphs and paragraphs.

08:07:13.140 I know it was a bit rough tonight.

08:07:15.660 And energy.

08:07:17.020 Look, here's the thing.

08:07:17.640 With your notes or whatever, there's a lot of notes.

08:07:19.520 I know you got a lot of notes.

08:07:20.280 Stop.

08:07:21.040 Hey, guys.

08:07:22.200 Stop.

08:07:22.680 Stop.

08:07:22.940 One at a time.

08:07:24.140 Okay.

08:07:24.440 So you – we have to wrap up the show here soon.

08:07:28.420 We had a lot of notes for you.

08:07:29.940 We weren't able to really get through much.

08:07:31.580 If you're down to come back, we'd be happy to get you on and actually get through the pre-show notes that you provided.

08:07:37.000 I know you had more too, Desiree.

08:07:38.620 I will give you formal pre-show notes next time.

08:07:41.460 No, I mean, you already – you gave some.

08:07:43.500 I mean – but hang on.

08:07:45.760 You got to promise next time you come back, you can't be a grime of worm tongue.

08:07:48.880 Okay.

08:07:48.980 So you can't be whispering to the chick next to you and be like –

08:07:51.200 I promise.

08:07:51.760 Whispering, hey, don't do this.

08:07:53.280 Don't do that.

08:07:53.660 You can't be the grime of worm tongue.

08:07:55.580 I promise.

08:07:56.040 I promise.

08:07:56.920 Now, here's the –

08:07:57.820 I wasn't prepared for the group activity.

08:07:59.400 This is going to be the true test, though.

08:08:01.640 The true test is going to be –

08:08:03.360 if you're just going to be talking shit on social media for the next fucking three weeks.

08:08:08.460 No, I know – and I know that you have trauma around that, but I can assure you –

08:08:12.620 I don't have trauma.

08:08:12.660 Did someone really, like, do that to you?

08:08:14.980 He shared.

08:08:16.100 It did.

08:08:16.640 And that's –

08:08:17.100 You can talk shit this way on social media.

08:08:19.260 I have no trauma.

08:08:20.000 I am the type that will talk shit to your face.

08:08:22.560 I think it's funny.

08:08:23.140 I will talk shit to your face.

08:08:24.500 But you've posted –

08:08:25.620 That is only because I talk shit –

08:08:27.260 You post 30 stories a day.

08:08:29.500 You post 30 stories a day.

08:08:30.920 It's only because I can't do lives because I got banned.

08:08:33.420 I will be –

08:08:35.820 You will have my reverence and respect if you actually go on and start praising me on your Instagram.

08:08:45.480 Oh, that's easy.

08:08:46.200 If you praise me in the coming days and weeks instead of just talking massive shit.

08:08:52.020 Of course I'll praise you to –

08:08:53.440 Fuck that misogynistic podcast.

08:08:54.480 But I don't think that of you.

08:08:56.120 I don't think that.

08:08:57.160 Maybe a little inexperienced in life, but that's not your fault.

08:09:00.340 Brian with his –

08:09:01.440 What?

08:09:02.480 She said you're inexperienced in life, but that's not your fault.

08:09:05.980 I mean, you haven't become friends with me.

08:09:08.420 I'll tell you about the dark side.

08:09:09.540 All right, right.

08:09:10.060 So I want to try this thing where I go through, just real quick before we wrap it up,

08:09:15.520 based or not based from Andrew's notes.

08:09:18.100 So K, based.

08:09:20.260 Right?

08:09:20.600 We got K.

08:09:21.320 That's the poll.

08:09:22.740 It says K is based.

08:09:24.420 And then moving over, we have a gal in the center, kind of based.

08:09:29.340 Kind of based.

08:09:30.420 Then to the 18-year-old, nobody's sure because we didn't get to hear enough.

08:09:35.360 And then next to you, not based.

08:09:37.620 Next to you, not based.

08:09:39.440 Next to you, I'm sorry to say this, but not based.

08:09:44.660 So that's what we've got so far.

08:09:47.040 I have no idea what that means.

08:09:48.880 What is based?

08:09:49.620 Oh, like, awesome, epic.

08:09:52.200 Understands the world is cool.

08:09:53.860 Something like that.

08:09:54.680 Is that the kid's lingo?

08:09:55.800 No.

08:09:56.740 I'm going to do rapid fire.

08:09:58.680 Okay, if you guys want, get your last minute TTSs in.

08:10:01.240 I'm going to do rapid fire, three questions.

08:10:03.060 Then we're going to wrap the show.

08:10:04.420 We'll do a Twitch raid.

08:10:05.600 We will do a raid to Andrew on YouTube.

08:10:08.420 Nick, really quick, pull up Twitch.

08:10:09.940 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

08:10:12.420 Drops a follow.

08:10:12.960 Drops a Prime sub.

08:10:13.680 So, guys, it's been 27 minutes since a Prime came in.

08:10:18.080 North Korean, God, dropped a Prime 27 minutes ago.

08:10:21.820 I think it's bugged, boys.

08:10:23.420 I think something's wrong with our Twitch.

08:10:25.180 You know, the stream cut out.

08:10:27.240 We had internet issues.

08:10:28.680 We had to restart the stream.

08:10:29.680 That was my fault.

08:10:30.980 Don't worry about it.

08:10:31.920 You're fine.

08:10:32.340 I think that our Primes are broken.

08:10:37.500 So, if somebody can do a little, you know, do a little test on the Primes.

08:10:40.720 The Viking Jedi, thank for the Prime.

08:10:42.180 Ska, thank for the Prime.

08:10:43.360 Marco, thank for the Prime.

08:10:44.340 Wolf, Jakey, 96, thank for the Prime.

08:10:46.700 Drop a follow, though.

08:10:47.680 Drop a follow, guys.

08:10:48.440 Appreciate it.

08:10:48.740 If you're watching on YouTube, by the way, Madison's going to start streaming.

08:10:51.760 Madison will be starting a stream on there.

08:10:53.720 We're going to be doing IRL streams.

08:10:55.520 These are going to be Twitch exclusive.

08:10:58.000 We're building up an audience on Twitch.

08:10:59.720 Twitch, and, yeah, guys, and there's no ads on Twitch, at least for the month of June.

08:11:05.280 Okay, cool.

08:11:06.320 Thank you, guys.

08:11:07.020 Thank you.

08:11:07.480 Thank you.

08:11:07.820 Okay, real quick questions.

08:11:09.740 So, we're not going to debate it.

08:11:12.860 I just, I'm doing stats on this.

08:11:19.380 Would you rather, okay, would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods?

08:11:23.440 We're not going to debate it.

08:11:24.340 I just want your answers.

08:11:25.660 Say the answer.

08:11:26.380 Would you rather come across a random man or a random bear in the woods?

08:11:30.140 Random man.

08:11:31.820 Random bear.

08:11:33.280 Bear.

08:11:34.380 Bear.

08:11:35.260 Into the mic, please.

08:11:36.540 Man.

08:11:37.120 Bear.

08:11:37.560 Oh.

08:11:37.940 Man.

08:11:38.720 Man.

08:11:39.500 Man.

08:11:40.120 Okay, you three said?

08:11:42.940 Bear.

08:11:43.360 Bear, bear, bear.

08:11:44.340 Yeah.

08:11:44.460 Okay.

08:11:45.920 Really quick, just short.

08:11:47.740 I won't debate it, just why?

08:11:50.380 Because animals don't lie, and men do.

08:11:53.280 But they kill you.

08:11:54.880 Okay, what about you?

08:11:55.900 I really, really love bears, and I don't really like man.

08:11:59.720 But you're with, never mind.

08:12:01.060 Okay.

08:12:01.740 Yeah.

08:12:02.420 What about you?

08:12:03.460 I mean, yeah, the bear could kill me, but also the man.

08:12:07.540 So like, but the man can, yeah, I just.

08:12:11.980 Right.

08:12:12.360 Yeah.

08:12:12.540 They could, they could say, they could murder you, they could torture, whatever.

08:12:16.440 Okay.

08:12:16.960 So I do want to ask on that.

08:12:19.640 By the way, the base side of the table said man.

08:12:21.960 I just want to point that out.

08:12:23.020 Sure.

08:12:23.120 So the question here is, so given this sort of fear that you guys have of men, to the

08:12:29.240 point that you'd rather be in a forest, come across a random bear in the woods, what percentage

08:12:34.880 of men do you think would opt to victimize you in this situation?

08:12:40.060 So if we're plucking random men out of the population, what, what percentage?

08:12:44.740 Starting with you.

08:12:46.040 Well, he's in the woods, so that's not very random.

08:12:48.220 Okay.

08:12:48.620 Hold on.

08:12:49.340 So here's the scenario.

08:12:50.880 It's randomly plucking you.

08:12:52.860 So it's not like, why is he in the woods?

08:12:55.120 It doesn't matter.

08:12:55.700 The hypothetical, it's a random man.

08:12:57.360 You both get plucked, dropped in the woods.

08:12:59.580 I'm going to go with 75% chance it's not going to go well for me.

08:13:03.220 Judging by the sexual assault statistics for women.

08:13:07.160 75% of us, by the time we get to college, have been assaulted.

08:13:11.240 Okay.

08:13:12.060 Hold on.

08:13:13.260 I'll repeat the question just one more time.

08:13:14.920 So what percentage of men do you think in the circumstances would choose to victimize you?

08:13:19.680 75%.

08:13:20.160 Okay.

08:13:21.680 I would say 50%.

08:13:23.080 Yeah, I was going to say 50% as well.

08:13:25.460 Okay.

08:13:25.820 So the population of men in the United States, I believe, is 160 million.

08:13:30.720 50% of that is 80 million.

08:13:33.420 You'd think that 80 million men in the United States would murder you or essay you?

08:13:39.500 Oh, yeah.

08:13:39.880 Come on.

08:13:41.080 I only think one in the woods, one-on-one.

08:13:44.680 I'm not talking about all of them together.

08:13:46.840 It's just a 50-50% chance.

08:13:48.940 Oh, yeah, that's still a big number.

08:13:50.160 That's a lot.

08:13:50.720 It's a 50-50 chance.

08:13:52.480 Just like what...

08:13:53.140 It is true.

08:13:53.780 Yeah, and with a bear...

08:13:54.780 He's either going to do something or he's not.

08:13:56.620 Yeah, it's literally it.

08:13:58.540 He's either going to do it or he's not.

08:14:00.320 With the bear, it's about the same, but I would rather get mauled by a bear at this point.

08:14:03.120 I'm over it with the men.

08:14:03.200 So that means that one of these two is going to kill one of you right now.

08:14:05.760 That's literally what you're saying.

08:14:06.940 That's literally what you're saying.

08:14:08.020 Again, we are talking about the situation where two people are randomly in the woods.

08:14:15.700 Just two random people who don't know each other.

08:14:17.860 We're talking about a population of men, and you're saying exactly half of them will kill you.

08:14:22.760 Well, listen to the logic.

08:14:24.540 He's either going to attack or he's not.

08:14:26.660 There's no logic.

08:14:28.320 At all.

08:14:30.000 Guys, we have to move it on.

08:14:32.020 It's like it's five in the morning over here.

08:14:33.640 That was my point.

08:14:35.160 Yeah, damn near.

08:14:35.720 I would say less than 10%.

08:14:37.900 I just, the numbers I think are astounding.

08:14:43.220 I think it's absolutely astounding the numbers we get, but I so want to argue it now.

08:14:55.780 Just go for based women.

08:14:57.260 I so want to argue it.

08:14:57.780 That's my advice.

08:15:00.600 Okay.

08:15:00.820 I think perhaps I misunderstood the question.

08:15:03.060 Are you specifically saying how many men overall, I think, have the potential to do that?

08:15:11.460 What's the percentage?

08:15:12.220 You're literally saying half would do that to you?

08:15:14.160 No, specifically in that situation, there's a 50-50 chance.

08:15:17.140 In that situation, yes.

08:15:18.540 Specifically, but that was exactly the question.

08:15:22.140 Yeah, that's what she said, 50%.

08:15:23.480 Yeah, but that is specifically in that exact situation.

08:15:27.820 One on one.

08:15:29.500 Yeah, it either goes left or right.

08:15:31.060 Yeah, exactly.

08:15:32.040 But that person is coming from a pool of men.

08:15:34.180 Yeah, but I don't know what pool.

08:15:36.280 What's the possibility of that man doing that?

08:15:38.240 I would say out of the pool of men that this particular person would be the person to do something bad.

08:15:47.520 I would say about 30%.

08:15:48.780 That's crazy.

08:15:50.060 That's a lot of people.

08:15:51.560 Yeah, I have.

08:15:53.140 Because I have gone through a lot of stuff.

08:15:55.000 I have too.

08:15:55.900 Yeah.

08:15:56.220 We can't say that.

08:15:57.840 I personally can't say it.

08:15:58.780 I would say less than 10%, and that's more on the 5% side.

08:16:02.620 At least I'm not saying 50% anymore.

08:16:04.540 It's not even going to be 5%.

08:16:06.220 No, it is just not.

08:16:08.460 If you guys think about what it is scalably, do you understand what it would look like if there was $100 million and $1 bills on that table, what that would look like?

08:16:20.560 You can't actually envision it because it's so much.

08:16:23.980 You can't really envision it.

08:16:25.160 You're saying that out of 150 million men that you think that 30% of them would do something bad to you if they happened to be in a forest with you alone.

08:16:38.600 Yes.

08:16:38.940 Why?

08:16:39.300 Because that's at least how many men are lying to us on dates and saying that they want to get married and have kids and they don't or whatever.

08:16:47.420 Because liars are liars.

08:16:48.980 You can't trust them.

08:16:49.500 But you also lie.

08:16:50.720 So in that same logic, you can also are going to be that person that will take advantage.

08:16:54.540 Whatever, if you want to say that.

08:16:55.220 But I'm saying that men maliciously lie in order to get a certain agenda done with a woman.

08:17:00.020 You got fake titties, bro.

08:17:00.760 You maliciously lie to you.

08:17:02.000 I understand that.

08:17:02.760 You're lying about your titties.

08:17:03.720 But for the most part, men are coming from me and taking my sexual energy.

08:17:08.380 You can say whatever you want.

08:17:09.500 Maybe I mis-marketed and they thought I was this virgin.

08:17:11.800 I thought this wasn't going to be a debate.

08:17:13.400 And then they've come to find out I'm not.

08:17:15.280 I'll move it on.

08:17:16.160 I'll move it on.

08:17:16.980 But just know that me and Andrew would absolutely smoke you guys on this if we had the time.

08:17:23.420 Okay.

08:17:23.700 Just no offense.

08:17:24.440 But we would rebuke and rebut.

08:17:28.120 And we would own you with facts and logic.

08:17:31.600 And we could give you personality.

08:17:33.640 We could give you personal experience.

08:17:34.980 And all the women who don't speak up about the stuff that happens.

08:17:37.840 Personal experience.

08:17:38.840 It always trumps.

08:17:40.140 Facts, logic, and reason.

08:17:41.500 Well, that's stupid.

08:17:42.320 Your personal experience.

08:17:43.160 It's not stupid.

08:17:43.660 It's realistic.

08:17:44.880 It's science.

08:17:44.900 Well, when your daughters get abused because you guys were fucking ignorant.

08:17:48.460 I mean.

08:17:48.620 Okay.

08:17:49.220 You're the one showing them sexual things.

08:17:52.600 Like, it's no real life.

08:17:53.620 So, they're prepared for it.

08:17:54.280 I have no real life because I'm living it right now.

08:17:56.360 This is real.

08:17:57.140 Silence in the courtroom.

08:17:58.620 Okay.

08:17:59.080 Gee.

08:17:59.860 Did you have an English accent?

08:18:01.780 Yes.

08:18:02.720 I did.

08:18:03.640 Hit the gavel.

08:18:04.660 Just do it.

08:18:05.220 Just do it.

08:18:05.640 Oh, I did.

08:18:05.860 For the fun of me.

08:18:07.020 What's the answer?

08:18:07.700 Okay.

08:18:08.020 Hold on.

08:18:09.040 Two more.

08:18:09.840 Two, three more questions.

08:18:10.760 Okay.

08:18:11.360 Who's physically stronger?

08:18:12.460 Men or women?

08:18:13.300 Men.

08:18:14.160 Men.

08:18:14.780 Men.

08:18:15.240 Into the mics, guys.

08:18:16.240 Men.

08:18:16.920 Men.

08:18:17.140 Okay.

08:18:17.180 Just had to check.

08:18:17.820 I had to double check.

08:18:18.740 Okay.

08:18:19.160 Who's the primary victim of war?

08:18:20.720 Men or women?

08:18:22.780 Primary victim of war?

08:18:24.000 Yes.

08:18:24.200 Who's the primary victim of war?

08:18:25.600 Men.

08:18:26.860 Everybody.

08:18:28.540 I'm in.

08:18:28.980 Straighten your mic, please.

08:18:30.100 Men.

08:18:30.360 Men.

08:18:31.860 Men.

08:18:32.540 Women.

08:18:33.380 Men.

08:18:34.140 Wait.

08:18:34.700 Women, you don't know everybody?

08:18:37.100 I said men.

08:18:38.820 Oh, you said men.

08:18:39.600 So women, everybody.

08:18:41.300 Yeah.

08:18:42.720 Men.

08:18:42.940 Just curious.

08:18:43.720 Why women?

08:18:44.380 Because men are the ones that, so if men are going to war and then the women are back

08:18:50.880 home by themselves, they're going to be more vulnerable without a male figure.

08:18:54.060 I believe so.

08:18:56.100 And let's just say in a world where most men got annihilated from war in a different country

08:19:02.420 and now this country is just majority women, we are going to be more vulnerable naturally.

08:19:06.820 But wouldn't, okay, let me ask you a question.

08:19:11.300 Certainly, perhaps it would be catastrophic to that country if all the men were wiped out.

08:19:15.420 The women would be more vulnerable.

08:19:17.540 But wouldn't some of the women thrive?

08:19:20.920 I'm sure.

08:19:21.480 Yeah, of course.

08:19:22.080 There's going to be some.

08:19:23.100 So if some women are thriving, some women have it average, and then some women are suffering,

08:19:29.800 but all the men are dead?

08:19:31.540 Well, I could say the same thing.

08:19:32.820 I could say the same thing.

08:19:33.860 It's like, well, some men are going to die, but what if.

08:19:35.960 Well, you just, the example you gave is all the men died.

08:19:39.480 Okay.

08:19:40.100 So they'd be.

08:19:40.640 That's true.

08:19:41.280 Hang on.

08:19:41.720 You're right.

08:19:42.180 That's true.

08:19:42.740 You could give the counter example the same exact way, but that would still make Brian's

08:19:46.140 point.

08:19:47.860 Wait.

08:19:48.260 And it depends on if you think that death is the worst case scenario.

08:19:51.080 I think just being alive and suffering could be worse.

08:19:54.020 Okay.

08:19:54.280 Well, I do have to ask this question then.

08:19:56.160 It is a bit heavy, but so would you, and I'll open it to the whole panel, starting with you.

08:20:00.700 Would you rather be essayed once or killed?

08:20:05.960 Well, I'm already there.

08:20:07.380 Yeah.

08:20:07.880 I already did.

08:20:08.440 That's already happened to me.

08:20:09.440 Been there.

08:20:10.560 I, at this point.

08:20:11.600 We don't need personal anecdotes.

08:20:13.240 Just answer the question.

08:20:14.020 At this point, just kill me now.

08:20:15.520 If it happens again, I'm done.

08:20:16.760 Okay.

08:20:17.080 But I thought you could have no emotional connection with them.

08:20:19.400 No, no, no, no, no, no.

08:20:19.560 I'm just done with getting abused, to be honest.

08:20:21.300 Go ahead.

08:20:22.200 Essay.

08:20:23.300 Essay.

08:20:23.980 Essay.

08:20:24.820 Essay.

08:20:25.500 Essay.

08:20:26.340 I'd rather.

08:20:27.500 Andrew, would you rather?

08:20:29.380 I'd rather be essayed.

08:20:30.440 If it was by a man, then I would choose death.

08:20:35.360 Don't, Andrew.

08:20:36.180 Don't do that.

08:20:36.940 Okay.

08:20:39.600 There you go.

08:20:40.380 Same.

08:20:40.760 I concur.

08:20:41.500 I concur.

08:20:42.000 I'll, I'll, I'll, I'll.

08:20:42.880 I'm going to take that.

08:20:44.140 Andrew's thing I need you.

08:20:45.160 Submissive, Andrew.

08:20:46.080 Why does it affect you so much if sex isn't really like that?

08:20:50.260 It's just sex.

08:20:51.120 Like, I'm curious.

08:20:51.940 No, that's an assault against my soul.

08:20:53.440 That was just a better idea.

08:20:54.540 And I'm over it.

08:20:54.960 At this point, I would like to die and leave my legacy that I've written books.

08:20:58.820 And sometimes you got to die to get a point across.

08:21:02.180 That doesn't even make any sense.

08:21:03.780 But anyways, just for the sake of moving things on.

08:21:06.160 Okay.

08:21:06.360 So, uh, war, everybody into the mic, please.

08:21:10.680 Yeah.

08:21:11.100 War is horrible on the whole society.

08:21:13.200 So everyone.

08:21:14.020 So, okay.

08:21:14.360 But the question is, I should have just kind of pushed on this initially when I asked the

08:21:19.800 question, the question is who is the primary victim of war men or women?

08:21:23.760 And it does, the question does not give you an option of saying everyone.

08:21:26.980 So if you had to choose one, which do you choose?

08:21:29.680 You know what?

08:21:29.900 It's the men because of the traumas that they are stuck with after all that, even if they

08:21:34.220 live.

08:21:34.720 Wait.

08:21:34.900 So going to you, world war one, who's the primary victim of world war one for you?

08:21:40.840 Um, that works.

08:21:42.460 I guess I would say.

08:21:46.740 You said, I don't know.

08:21:48.060 I guess.

08:21:48.720 I guess.

08:21:49.220 Yeah.

08:21:49.360 I would still say to women.

08:21:50.960 Okay.

08:21:51.240 What about world war two?

08:21:52.420 Women.

08:21:54.640 Vietnam.

08:21:55.720 I would just say women all around.

08:21:57.160 The Ukraine war?

08:21:58.680 Yeah.

08:22:00.300 Interesting.

08:22:00.660 Well, Ukraine was very modern and I have some information on, on, uh, the Ukraine war.

08:22:06.260 Okay.

08:22:06.560 But before you say that, can, can, can you say women?

08:22:10.200 Women?

08:22:11.360 Women.

08:22:12.020 Women.

08:22:13.080 Women.

08:22:13.480 Instead of woman.

08:22:14.460 Women.

08:22:15.020 You keep on saying woman is plural.

08:22:16.980 Like women.

08:22:17.540 Women.

08:22:18.420 Yeah.

08:22:18.820 Women.

08:22:19.420 Women.

08:22:20.200 Women.

08:22:20.540 All right.

08:22:21.020 It's my Spanish.

08:22:22.040 So let me ask you just one more time.

08:22:24.320 So in the Ukraine.

08:22:24.740 Oh, no, no, no, no.

08:22:25.660 It's not your Spanish.

08:22:26.580 Hang on.

08:22:27.060 We have plural in Spanish too for mohair, right?

08:22:29.700 We, we know what Spanish, we know what plural is in Spanish too, right?

08:22:34.360 Yes, Andrew.

08:22:35.100 You're right.

08:22:36.000 All right.

08:22:36.460 Okay.

08:22:39.580 So I'm trying to wrap this up here.

08:22:41.580 So cigarettes.

08:22:42.460 I got, I got to ask.

08:22:43.460 Hold on.

08:22:43.940 No, no, no, no.

08:22:44.380 Hold on.

08:22:44.940 Okay.

08:22:45.220 So.

08:22:45.620 What's wrong with cigarettes?

08:22:46.440 What?

08:22:46.780 You know.

08:22:48.200 Helps with the brain.

08:22:49.300 No, it doesn't.

08:22:50.280 Actually.

08:22:50.920 Uh, I, I saw this video.

08:22:52.240 Actually, people who smoke cigarettes, it actually does.

08:22:54.620 Stop it.

08:22:55.260 Don't even.

08:22:56.100 It's true.

08:22:56.900 Just.

08:22:57.180 Maybe nicotine.

08:22:58.100 If anything.

08:22:58.700 The nicotine.

08:22:58.800 Well, yeah.

08:22:59.140 The nicotine.

08:22:59.840 That's.

08:22:59.960 But, but just like, not the tobacco.

08:23:02.440 So, uh, Ukraine war.

08:23:04.560 Who's the primary victim of the Ukraine war?

08:23:07.000 Men or women?

08:23:07.960 I still believe women.

08:23:09.340 Okay.

08:23:09.620 So Nick, could you pull up that, that photo?

08:23:12.100 Do you know which one?

08:23:12.600 Make sure it's the blurred ones.

08:23:13.500 You know what I'm talking about, Nick?

08:23:14.500 Okay.

08:23:14.940 So, uh, and there's also news articles.

08:23:17.220 You can fact check me on this, but so when the Ukraine war broke out, all the men had to

08:23:23.480 stay in the country.

08:23:24.000 Like they could not leave.

08:23:25.400 So from the age of 18 to, it was either 60, 65, they had to remain in the country.

08:23:31.280 All the women of any age could flee the country.

08:23:34.600 Oh wait, hold on, Nick.

08:23:35.980 All the women could flee the country.

08:23:37.920 Okay.

08:23:38.600 So evade the war.

08:23:40.940 They couldn't be drafted into the war.

08:23:42.920 They could leave.

08:23:43.580 So all the men could stay.

08:23:45.640 Maybe some of, not all the men had to get involved in the war effort, but a lot did.

08:23:51.200 A lot got drafted.

08:23:52.220 The women could go to, they could go off to Romania.

08:23:54.860 They could go off to London.

08:23:57.180 They could go to Stockholm.

08:23:58.340 They could be up in the club doing all this shit.

08:24:00.880 Uh, pull up the photo, Nick.

08:24:06.040 So on the left, you have Ukrainian women who were screenshotted on, uh, I believe it's

08:24:13.700 primarily Tinder, a dating app trying to get dick in various countries that they fled to.

08:24:22.500 On the right, you have, well, I can't really, I don't want to say it, but you have, uh, the

08:24:29.660 casualties of war, uh, seeing this photo, women clubbing, partying, trying to get dick down

08:24:39.900 by, by dudes in Stockholm.

08:24:42.220 What did you want her to do?

08:24:43.300 Desperation.

08:24:44.140 Hold on.

08:24:45.320 Loneliness and desperation.

08:24:46.600 Okay.

08:24:46.880 I didn't say loneliness.

08:24:48.280 Well, I, okay, whatever.

08:24:49.740 So knowing that there are thousands or hundreds of thousands, maybe millions of Ukrainian women

08:24:55.880 who went to Stockholm and went to go fuck hot Swedish dudes and they're on Tinder and then

08:25:03.300 comparing it to the other photo, does that change your view at all on this?

08:25:09.340 No, because although that they are victims to death, like obviously that's horrible.

08:25:16.060 And I do believe that men still have the responsibility of protecting and, but, but this

08:25:22.560 is going back to not to bring back to you, but it's like those women are now without a male

08:25:28.540 figure.

08:25:29.080 Now they're up there.

08:25:30.160 They probably have kids.

08:25:31.260 They're desperate.

08:25:31.840 They're desperate.

08:25:32.580 They're trying to do their, they go into sex work or they're looking to, to survive.

08:25:36.880 And now not only are they victims, but now the children are victims to, to just more

08:25:41.840 brokenness and all this debauchery.

08:25:45.160 Are you sure you're not a feminist?

08:25:47.300 Ew, no.

08:25:48.740 Well, that's a very, that's a very, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

08:25:52.760 No, I don't, I feel, stop, stop, stop, stop.

08:25:56.100 Your view is a very gynocentric one.

08:25:58.540 It's very woman centered, woman focused.

08:26:02.880 How could it not be the case when I use the term, the word primary, which has a meaning?

08:26:07.940 How can it not be the case?

08:26:10.060 Now, if I grant you that it would be absolutely devastating to, for example, a wife of a soldier

08:26:16.520 and that soldier died in war.

08:26:17.860 If I grant you that it would be devastating to her and she would be hurt and, and distraught.

08:26:23.420 Now, couldn't you at least be grant to me that dying is worse than being distraught and coping

08:26:34.980 with the death of a loved one?

08:26:36.380 Yes.

08:26:36.620 But I'm also not just looking at that.

08:26:38.080 Look at the Palestine and Israel on both ends.

08:26:40.180 All the kids and the, the mothers.

08:26:41.800 Okay, but let's keep it.

08:26:44.120 Okay.

08:26:44.800 But that's still valid, right?

08:26:46.360 That, that is still, they're still being victims to war.

08:26:49.080 Okay, fine.

08:26:49.580 I'll even argue this point.

08:26:50.800 Even in the Israel-Palestine conflict, the men are still the primary victims of war, even

08:26:56.020 in this conflict.

08:26:57.040 Well, I mean, if I could just.

08:26:58.100 The men are the primary victims of war in every single conflict.

08:27:01.400 But hold on, but the men are the ones who started.

08:27:03.920 Women aren't out here declaring war on each other.

08:27:05.860 Hold on, hold on.

08:27:06.400 But you, people that, that are like you, they like to argue that, oh, feminists are victims

08:27:12.760 and la, la, la, like that victim mentality, right?

08:27:14.860 So why can't you use that same logic with men?

08:27:17.960 Like, isn't that your guys' duty to protect us women?

08:27:21.080 Is it, is it, is it wrong to say that somebody dying, they're, they're not a victim?

08:27:27.260 They are a victim, but also, what about the kids and the children that are also, hold

08:27:31.420 on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, let me address, hold on, no, hold on, see,

08:27:35.240 when, hold on, stop, stop, stop, stop.

08:27:36.820 So when feminists make, stop, stop, stop, everybody stop, goddamn, stop, stop, holy fuck, Jesus

08:27:45.040 Christ, you guys are, stop, holy fuck, let me talk.

08:27:51.440 Look, the reason feminists are criticized when it comes to their victimhood mindset, their

08:27:59.360 victim mindset is because they'll complain about things like manspreading and mansplaining

08:28:04.920 and these sorts of benign and arbitrary things.

08:28:07.980 Because the, the grievances, and granted, I, I do think there are actually legitimate grievance,

08:28:14.440 grievances that women face.

08:28:16.300 However, feminists will often make, they will either exaggerate or there will be a hyperbole.

08:28:22.540 They'll present false information when it comes to their supposed victimhood status.

08:28:27.320 And then they'll also just complain about just the most benign, ridiculous shit, like

08:28:32.400 the wage gap, mansplaining, manspreading.

08:28:35.300 Okay, so that, that's where the criticisms come for.

08:28:38.220 So you can't then use that as justification to be like, well, you're, why are you calling

08:28:43.860 yourself, why are you calling men victims when they fucking die in war?

08:28:49.060 I apologize if I come off as a snowflake for holding the position that men dying in war makes

08:28:54.520 them victims.

08:28:55.420 They are victims, but also like looking at it from like a dark perspective, like, okay,

08:29:00.340 they, they die and then it ends there.

08:29:02.600 And now let's just, hold on, wait.

08:29:05.120 So with my church, there's a ministry where we go to Africa.

08:29:08.620 Hold on real quick.

08:29:10.180 You're trying to leave?

08:29:11.040 Just say your point.

08:29:12.260 Okay.

08:29:12.500 So there's a ministry at church where we go, well, I don't, but my church goes out to Africa

08:29:16.420 and looks over the, the widows and the children that are left alone because the men have to

08:29:21.960 go to war and they're just left in villages and they're left without food.

08:29:25.040 They're left without everything.

08:29:26.020 So if we're going to be approaching this from a traditional standpoint that men are, that's

08:29:31.800 the responsibility.

08:29:32.580 I'm not saying it's, they're not victims, but they are, they are going to war to protect

08:29:36.980 their, their women and children.

08:29:38.400 And then, okay, they die.

08:29:40.620 They die.

08:29:41.080 It's horrible.

08:29:41.620 I'm not saying that's right.

08:29:42.360 But now the victims that are still living are the women and children that are having

08:29:46.160 to, I don't agree with what these Ukrainian women are doing, but if anything, it just shows

08:29:51.460 how much more broken they get without the male leader in the frame, you don't have to agree

08:29:58.580 though.

08:29:59.760 I see what you're saying.

08:30:00.960 They're, they're victims.

08:30:01.760 They're dying.

08:30:02.320 That sucks.

08:30:03.800 But, but the children and the rubble, the children and the woman in the rubble right now, as we

08:30:09.880 speak, those are victims that are still alive and breathing because of war.

08:30:13.620 Yes.

08:30:14.040 Okay.

08:30:14.240 So if I can acknowledge that it's absolutely, war is absolutely has a negative impact on

08:30:20.220 children and women.

08:30:22.560 I can acknowledge that.

08:30:24.460 However, the men who are dying are the primary victims of war.

08:30:31.300 Yeah.

08:30:31.680 But I don't, I think you're not, you're thinking I'm not coming from a feminist point, but I'm

08:30:35.440 actually making a point that men are much more, I can almost say more important than

08:30:39.700 women that they hold such a valuable, like value in the whole family unit that when they

08:30:45.000 die, it impacts the family immensely.

08:30:47.340 Well, if they're more important than women, wouldn't their death be more important than

08:30:55.980 the suffering of?

08:30:57.040 No, it makes, it makes much more of a, of a suffering.

08:30:59.220 It's more treasured.

08:30:59.880 Yeah.

08:31:00.580 Because more people are being affected without their leadership and without their protection

08:31:04.940 even more.

08:31:06.840 I don't know.

08:31:07.260 The wife has to carry the kids out.

08:31:08.840 Okay.

08:31:09.120 So hold on.

08:31:09.900 Let me ask you a question.

08:31:10.660 Let's assume that, uh, I don't know what the death toll is in the Ukraine conflict, but

08:31:15.700 let's assume in, uh, World War II that 5 million of the men that died in World War II were single.

08:31:26.400 They did not have a spouse.

08:31:27.760 They did not have a wife.

08:31:28.960 They did not have any children.

08:31:31.620 They had, maybe they had a father, mother, brother, sisters.

08:31:34.480 I'll grant that, uh, knowing this, those 5 million men that didn't have a spouse, didn't

08:31:41.940 have kids, are those men then the primary victim of war?

08:31:48.260 I guess in that situation, no.

08:31:51.120 Wait, even in that situation, still no?

08:31:53.660 No, I'm saying no, like no on my, on my argument.

08:31:57.560 Like no, it, wait, hold on.

08:31:58.980 So if that, for the situation you just gave me, no, then if there's no woman or children

08:32:03.640 involved, then yeah, I guess the men are more victim in that situation.

08:32:07.300 Well, what about the father and the mother and brothers and sisters?

08:32:12.340 Aren't they going to suffer too?

08:32:15.160 I mean, just everybody freaking suffered.

08:32:16.600 I don't know.

08:32:16.900 This is like a hard question, but the thing is, so you think that, so you guys just think

08:32:21.420 straight out, it's the men are more victims than that.

08:32:24.980 Yes, every military conflict, every military conflict.

08:32:28.180 Yeah, but there, there is all, there are also women that are in war.

08:32:31.740 They know there's a chance that they'll never come back to their families, so yeah.

08:32:34.400 Yeah, and there's a domino effect, but there's a domino effect from that.

08:32:37.880 I'll make a, I'll make a deal with you.

08:32:39.680 How about women go and fight all the wars and men stay at home, and then we can say that

08:32:43.800 we're equally victims to you.

08:32:44.280 No, I'm not for that.

08:32:45.320 I'm not for that.

08:32:46.260 I, I believe that men should be out fighting the war, and it's unfortunate that they are the

08:32:51.840 ones that are being victims to us.

08:32:53.560 Yeah, I know, but let's assume for, hang on, let us assume for a second women were, hang on,

08:32:57.600 but let us assume for a second women were the ones out fighting the wars while men stayed

08:33:01.560 at home.

08:33:02.020 We'd be so messed up.

08:33:02.940 Would you, yeah, would you, would you say though that women or men then would be the

08:33:07.260 primary victim of war?

08:33:10.360 This is crazy.

08:33:12.480 Okay, wait, so if all women were out in war, would we be the victims?

08:33:16.980 If the women fought the wars instead of the men and the men stayed home, would you say that?

08:33:20.940 No, no, I think the women now would be, the women would be the victim, because the men

08:33:25.540 can figure it out.

08:33:26.460 They are leaders.

08:33:27.160 They'll be back home figuring things out.

08:33:28.840 Yeah, but they're in the leadership role if they're not fighting.

08:33:32.000 Hold on.

08:33:32.340 Well, I know, I don't agree with that, but we're just giving the circumstance if we were

08:33:35.400 to switch it for whatever reason, then yeah, no.

08:33:38.320 Wait, so.

08:33:38.680 Would the women then be the primary victims of war?

08:33:41.460 Still.

08:33:43.440 If they were out, yes, yes, because I believe that men could be at home figuring it out.

08:33:47.160 I don't believe they should be staying at home.

08:33:48.900 So then if women were the primary victims of war in that scenario, then if you reversed

08:33:52.960 it to men, then men should be the primary victims of war.

08:33:54.140 Yeah, because we'd be so messed up, women would be so weak.

08:33:56.300 You see how that works?

08:33:57.180 No, no, no, because if we were, it'd be a lose-lose situation that way, because if all

08:34:01.960 women were to go to war, we'd be messed up, and if the men would just have to stay back

08:34:05.180 home, no, like I don't believe that that would work.

08:34:08.800 I don't know if this is making sense logically to me, but.

08:34:12.860 Maybe it's just like.

08:34:13.620 Okay, so here, let me make it make sense.

08:34:15.640 Because if, by your answer, you say if women went to war instead of men, they'd be the

08:34:22.280 primary victims of war, but you say when men go to war instead of women, they're not

08:34:26.920 the primary victims of war.

08:34:28.300 That makes no fucking sense to me at all.

08:34:30.700 Well, I can't, that logic doesn't stand because I'm thinking that men should be going out to

08:34:35.700 war because they are supposed to be protecting us and stuff like that, and if we were to switch

08:34:40.580 it, I still, in my head, I'm like, well, men are, they will figure out their leaders

08:34:44.860 and stuff, so, but if they're back at home and their wife is dead, but the logic doesn't

08:34:49.840 work because real leaders wouldn't be in that position anyways.

08:34:52.760 They'd be out in war.

08:34:54.320 I actually have, I think I have a, something here, Andrew, unless you want to have a bit

08:35:00.340 more.

08:35:02.080 Well, I mean, I'll just, I'll just finish it with this.

08:35:04.100 So, the insertion of the hypothetical is to test the logic, right?

08:35:08.520 So, if you're asking who's the primary victim of war, if we just reversed it and said, well,

08:35:12.860 women go to war instead of men, and you say that women then would be the primary victims

08:35:17.760 of war, then it should stand to logic that if you reversed it so men went, that men would

08:35:22.780 be the primary victims of war.

08:35:24.240 No.

08:35:24.360 You understand that, right?

08:35:25.120 No.

08:35:25.360 I understand what you're saying, but no, because my argument is that because, go ahead, Ryan.

08:35:30.500 I think I have a smoking gun here.

08:35:32.360 All right, go ahead.

08:35:32.860 Fire it out.

08:35:33.000 And, Andrew, I want you to let me know if you think this is a little smoking gun.

08:35:37.860 I asked you a question earlier, and I think I asked, would you rather be essayed or killed,

08:35:43.920 correct?

08:35:44.180 Uh-huh.

08:35:44.920 Okay.

08:35:46.300 So, oh, boy, okay.

08:35:49.860 I think I know where you're going with this, but.

08:35:51.360 So, if you were to be essayed, are you the primary victim, or is your husband the primary

08:35:57.520 victim?

08:36:01.740 Because he has to deal with you dealing with that trauma.

08:36:05.980 I mean, but that's not the same thing.

08:36:07.480 Those are two different scenarios because both people are still alive.

08:36:09.740 Yeah, we agreed.

08:36:10.940 They're two different scenarios, but in good faith, are you the primary victim or is he?

08:36:16.520 I think I would be the primary victim.

08:36:22.380 Right, you'd be the primary victim.

08:36:23.740 Now, but here's the thing.

08:36:25.180 When I asked you the question, my understanding is you categorized this, death is worse than

08:36:30.720 essay.

08:36:32.580 Death is worse than essay.

08:36:33.640 You said you would rather.

08:36:34.900 I just don't want to die.

08:36:35.600 I've been sexually assaulted, so I'm okay with that.

08:36:38.000 But, so, you said that death is worse than essay.

08:36:42.120 No, I'm not saying that.

08:36:43.520 I'm just choosing that we've already been.

08:36:46.180 No, I did not say that.

08:36:47.220 I did not say that.

08:36:48.400 But we had to choose.

08:36:49.360 But you had to choose.

08:36:50.260 But it's not because I think it's better.

08:36:51.540 It's just, I already done it, so I'm alive right now.

08:36:53.260 Why would I want to die?

08:36:54.300 That's what I'm saying, because you wouldn't want to.

08:36:55.920 But if, hold on.

08:36:57.360 I'm a little confused here.

08:36:58.180 Okay, so if presented with the choice between essay or death, if you had never been essayed,

08:37:04.380 which would you choose?

08:37:05.760 Well, it's hard, because I'm biased.

08:37:07.000 I'm essay.

08:37:10.500 Yeah, but assuming that you weren't.

08:37:12.980 Okay, essay.

08:37:14.220 Well, you already answered that.

08:37:15.340 Okay, essay.

08:37:15.960 So then, if that's the case, under those conditionals, then you're saying that death is worse, and

08:37:21.640 if women are the primary victims of war, based around the fact that they could potentially

08:37:25.640 be essayed, and death is worse, and more men die than women, then it would stand to reason,

08:37:31.180 then, that men were the primary victims of war.

08:37:33.580 Is that not the argument, Brian?

08:37:34.760 No, because I'm still standing on that.

08:37:36.980 The fact that the men are dying is affecting and having a domino effect on the women and the

08:37:41.820 children left behind.

08:37:42.940 So the people that are dying aren't victims?

08:37:45.940 They are victims, but I don't believe that the primary, because they're dead, and it

08:37:50.760 sucks, but now the people that are living with the consequences are the women and the

08:37:55.200 children.

08:37:56.020 Got it.

08:37:56.720 Okay.

08:37:56.960 So just real quick, we'll test that too.

08:38:00.040 Think about all the single moms with children.

08:38:02.080 Hang on, hang on, hang on.

08:38:02.420 Abandon, would you choose abandonment or choose death?

08:38:07.960 Abandonment.

08:38:08.400 Okay.

08:38:09.560 Would you choose poor economic conditions, or would you choose death?

08:38:13.660 Poor economic conditions.

08:38:15.260 Okay.

08:38:15.680 Well, then, under all circumstances which you have stated, that the domino effect would

08:38:19.940 fall on the women and children, then this means that men who die in war still have it

08:38:24.260 worse than women.

08:38:25.600 Therefore, we can conclude that men have it worse than women when it comes to war, correct?

08:38:31.620 I guess.

08:38:32.560 Yes.

08:38:33.500 Okay.

08:38:33.840 Okay, final question, but she's gone.

08:38:38.600 Let me do the chats.

08:38:39.680 I promise we're wrapping up now, guys.

08:38:43.780 Ryan Calloway donated $69.

08:38:47.280 Brian, I felt bad for you Sunday as you were clearly tired as hell glad you're in better

08:38:52.000 shape tonight.

08:38:53.360 Also, I want to see foot fetish lady back when she has more sleep.

08:38:57.840 She's interesting.

08:38:59.020 Yeah, we should have her back.

08:39:00.340 I mean, if she's down.

08:39:02.500 If she's down.

08:39:03.900 This TARDIS, big TARD.

08:39:05.920 Okay.

08:39:08.860 Up here, Aquatic donated $69.

08:39:12.480 Is it sexist for men to be scared of women to be seen women can falsely accuse men of

08:39:17.420 rape?

08:39:18.260 Simple yes or no?

08:39:20.480 No.

08:39:21.580 What?

08:39:22.460 Is it sexist for men to be scared of women because women can fall?

08:39:24.960 Okay.

08:39:25.840 Is it sexist?

08:39:26.780 Well, the better framing on that one is, so.

08:39:33.740 Wes Watson donated $69.

08:39:37.080 Brian, how do you have the nerve to humiliate Noel with Andrew for nine facking hours and

08:39:42.120 then expecting her not talking shit about you and even praising you?

08:39:45.660 You and Andrew talk shit about Bevo and Wes still.

08:39:49.320 I don't talk shit about Wes.

08:39:51.560 I do talk shit about Bevo.

08:39:52.620 No, whoa, wait.

08:39:53.700 That is true.

08:39:54.580 That's fair.

08:39:55.160 I do talk shit about both Bevo and Wes.

08:39:58.600 I'm not going to lie.

08:39:59.200 Pull those up, Nick.

08:40:00.380 All right.

08:40:01.420 Oh, wait.

08:40:04.320 Lol Paladins donated $69.

08:40:07.720 Props to everyone on this panel other than Brian.

08:40:10.620 Most TikTok brain 304s give up after six hours.

08:40:14.840 Brian seems intent on torturing the viewers as long as possible.

08:40:18.720 Nice social experiment.

08:40:20.460 You're kinky.

08:40:20.940 You're kinky, Brian.

08:40:21.580 This is a struggle session.

08:40:23.000 He's a sadist.

08:40:23.700 That's what that's called, guys.

08:40:25.060 Major sadist, yeah.

08:40:26.360 Oh, we have one more.

08:40:28.420 Thank you, Lol Paladins.

08:40:29.980 Appreciate it, bro.

08:40:30.500 Can I get one last sprinkler?

08:40:33.360 I'll do the dance.

08:40:33.960 I'll do the dance.

08:40:34.660 But did you hear about the new bill going through the house to replace the wartime draft with

08:40:39.420 the automatic wartime draft?

08:40:41.820 I did.

08:40:42.700 I did see that they're trying to do...

08:40:45.200 Oh, basically just meant get automatically...

08:40:47.840 Instead of having to register for the Selective Service, they're just automatically in the

08:40:51.780 Selective Service system.

08:40:52.780 They don't have to do registration.

08:40:54.420 I did hear about that.

08:40:55.740 Anyways, so, okay.

08:40:57.420 Final question.

08:40:58.380 Can you be sexist towards men?

08:41:00.580 Yeah.

08:41:01.940 No.

08:41:03.380 Wait, wait.

08:41:05.280 Sorry.

08:41:06.900 How about you just answer the question?

08:41:08.520 Can I be sexist towards men?

08:41:09.600 Not you.

08:41:10.580 Can women be sexist towards men?

08:41:15.200 I believe the men are the victims in culture.

08:41:18.520 Huh?

08:41:19.380 Primarily.

08:41:19.880 Okay, so, is that a yes?

08:41:22.380 Yeah.

08:41:22.780 Okay.

08:41:22.960 Yes.

08:41:24.840 Yeah.

08:41:25.960 Yes.

08:41:26.780 Yes.

08:41:27.900 All right, cool.

08:41:28.920 All right, guys.

08:41:29.420 We are going to wrap up the show.

08:41:31.340 My goodness.

08:41:32.880 What a doozy of an episode.

08:41:34.700 What a doozy.

08:41:35.620 We're going to do a raid to Nick.

08:41:38.020 Is he still playing?

08:41:39.900 Hold on.

08:41:40.620 Let me look.

08:41:41.800 We're going to raid.

08:41:43.640 In-N-Out's definitely closed now.

08:41:46.360 Damn, Aladar stopped raiding.

08:41:48.060 Okay, we're going to raid.

08:41:49.580 We're going to do the little goblin Joker D.

08:41:52.040 Oh, but he's just started his stream.

08:41:55.740 We'll raid Joker D.

08:41:56.920 Guys, pull up Twitch really quick, Nick.

08:41:58.740 Oh, he's not even, he's not even there to receive it.

08:42:04.280 Okay, we'll do, is Woe Grandma still doing her shit?

08:42:06.540 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops to follow, drops to Prime sub.

08:42:10.220 Almost three.

08:42:12.060 Ooh.

08:42:12.800 It's what?

08:42:13.800 Almost three.

08:42:14.880 Three?

08:42:15.380 You can, you can come back.

08:42:16.480 You can come back.

08:42:17.380 I have a, I have a flight.

08:42:20.320 I have to catch.

08:42:21.780 Yeah, we're wrapping.

08:42:22.400 She really needs to know.

08:42:23.320 Yeah, we're wrapping.

08:42:25.040 Let's see.

08:42:25.620 Here, hold on, guys.

08:42:27.120 Who do I need to raid?

08:42:29.180 No, it's two.

08:42:29.780 It's two.

08:42:29.940 It's two.

08:42:31.320 Jesus, I'm old.

08:42:32.780 No wonder I went crazy, you guys.

08:42:34.260 I go to bed at like eight.

08:42:35.340 You were crazy at the beginning.

08:42:37.040 Well, true, but I was triggered.

08:42:39.360 I would have calmed down.

08:42:41.460 That was five hours ago.

08:42:43.620 Well, I got adrenaline rushed, I guess.

08:42:47.000 2.24.

08:42:48.120 I can't do that.

08:42:48.900 I'm sleeping at Brian's house, just saying.

08:42:51.480 I called it.

08:42:52.100 I'll sleep on the couch.

08:42:53.120 No way.

08:42:53.500 I'll sleep on the couch.

08:42:54.180 Does that happen?

08:42:55.120 No way.

08:42:55.480 Okay, so, let me, oh, hold on.

08:42:57.780 This, and then I'm going to do my shout-outs, and then we're going to.

08:43:00.320 Kael and Jari donated $69.

08:43:03.480 While I don't agree with her base statement, I agree men would be less negatively impacted

08:43:08.560 if they lost a wife in war than a woman who lost her husband.

08:43:12.340 Men would be hurt, but still safe and stable.

08:43:14.700 Thank you.

08:43:15.860 That's what I'm trying to say.

08:43:18.180 Yeah, but that doesn't actually logically follow.

08:43:20.620 Yes, it does.

08:43:21.300 Yes, it does.

08:43:21.900 No, it doesn't because I asked about the conditional.

08:43:24.580 It's a very feminist opinion, by the way.

08:43:26.540 It's because I asked the conditionals of the domino effect, and if the conditionals of the domino effect are the same,

08:43:32.540 then it can't be true.

08:43:33.440 Okay.

08:43:36.040 Okay.

08:43:37.720 Yes, sir.

08:43:38.420 Okay.

08:43:39.140 All right.

08:43:39.760 Feminist.

08:43:40.640 I'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity to give you both a call to action.

08:43:49.120 Would you consider stopping sex work entirely?

08:43:52.600 Absolutely not.

08:43:53.980 Hmm.

08:43:56.240 Absolutely, I would.

08:43:57.080 Yeah, I know.

08:43:59.420 Would you make a commitment tonight?

08:44:00.900 This is a call to action for tonight to do it.

08:44:04.580 Oh, well, I have to wait until I have a husband, and I have all my needs met.

08:44:08.300 Okay, that's a no.

08:44:09.140 All right.

08:44:09.820 I tried, boys.

08:44:10.740 I tried.

08:44:11.500 Okay, GG.

08:44:12.440 Well played to the panel.

08:44:13.320 I think this is one of our longest streams ever, so you should feel a sense of pride to have been part of the longest whatever stream ever.

08:44:22.320 We did have internet issues.

08:44:24.280 This is all Kay's fault.

08:44:26.380 Yeah.

08:44:26.500 So, I want to thank you.

08:44:30.040 Oh, double buys.

08:44:32.160 Huge.

08:44:33.200 Massive.

08:44:34.200 Myron.

08:44:34.840 Myron Gaines.

08:44:36.340 Oh, Myron.

08:44:37.720 No, I mean, it's, that was before, never mind.

08:44:42.780 It's like a bodybuilding thing.

08:44:44.240 Okay.

08:44:45.420 So, GG.

08:44:48.440 GG, well played to the panel.

08:44:51.760 Oh, my God.

08:44:52.740 Last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out if you're watching on YouTube.

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08:45:04.840 Your patronage is very much appreciated.

08:45:06.660 You guys are super generous, and, you know, we're like, the vast majority of our streams get the yellow YouTube demonetization icon.

08:45:15.020 Our stream's, you know, demonetized.

08:45:19.220 You know, we're talking about some crazy shit on here.

08:45:24.240 Madison's just dropping the R-bomb, like, all the time, you know, so, yeah.

08:45:29.580 So, we will be live again Sunday, 5 p.m. Pacific.

08:45:34.960 We got some good guests coming.

08:45:36.380 We got Natalie Winters.

08:45:37.420 You guys are fan of her.

08:45:39.760 She's super based.

08:45:41.240 She'll be on, I think, doubling up Sunday, Tuesday.

08:45:43.740 Got some excellent panels coming up.

08:45:45.260 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out, whatever.

08:45:47.100 On Instagram, if you can make it to Santa Barbara, I'm going to do a quick Twitch raid.

08:45:50.640 Is he not back yet?

08:45:52.580 This fucking goblin?

08:45:54.100 Yeah, he's just fucking being a fucking goblin.

08:45:57.180 I want to raid somebody else then.

08:45:58.380 Hold on.

08:45:58.720 So, let me just, if you want, get a last-minute TTS in.

08:46:03.760 Oh, I got, did this, did this come through?

08:46:07.360 I never even saw that.

08:46:08.240 Oh, weird.

08:46:09.100 If you want, okay.

08:46:10.720 Sorry, guys.

08:46:11.920 Joker D is being a little goblin, so I'm not sure what's going on there.

08:46:15.160 We got, who do we, who do we raid, man?

08:46:18.360 I don't know.

08:46:18.820 Maybe we do S-Fond.

08:46:19.860 He's already been streaming for 12 hours.

08:46:22.680 S-Fand.

08:46:23.860 S-Fand.

08:46:27.140 Let me check one thing.

08:46:28.260 Hold on.

08:46:30.680 What is going on with Joker?

08:46:32.960 Joker D.

08:46:33.940 Okay.

08:46:34.900 We're going to raid S-Fand then.

08:46:36.400 What did you say?

08:46:38.300 What?

08:46:39.860 Sounded like you said something weird.

08:46:41.860 Joker D?

08:46:42.980 Yeah.

08:46:43.260 Did you think I said that?

08:46:44.380 Joker D.

08:46:45.600 No, Joker D.

08:46:46.760 Joker D.

08:46:47.900 Hold on, guys.

08:46:48.860 Sorry.

08:46:49.240 Getting this raid going.

08:46:51.580 Oh, man.

08:46:52.400 Okay.

08:46:55.780 Yeah, one sec.

08:46:56.620 I think I'm getting it for you here in just a sec, man.

08:46:59.660 Oh, Joker D went offline.

08:47:01.000 That's weird.

08:47:01.580 Okay.

08:47:02.640 S-Fand.

08:47:03.340 It's S-Fand TV.

08:47:04.660 E-S-F-A-N-D TV.

08:47:07.620 We're going to raid him?

08:47:10.720 Yo, guys.

08:47:11.280 I want to get S-Fand on the channel.

08:47:13.380 I'd love to get him on the podcast.

08:47:14.940 He would be super dope.

08:47:15.860 He'd be a great guest.

08:47:16.980 So, if you can go over there, just tell him, like, yo, hop on the whatever podcast.

08:47:22.420 Let me know when you have it, Nick.

08:47:24.220 Thank you guys for tuning in on Twitch.

08:47:26.060 I know it was a bumpy stream.

08:47:28.740 Could you just hide Andrew for just a sec?

08:47:30.760 Yeah.

08:47:33.040 Does he know we're watching him?

08:47:37.280 Yeah, leave it there, Nick.

08:47:38.780 So, tell him that he needs to come on the whatever podcast.

08:47:41.440 I'm going to raid in 10 seconds.

08:47:43.440 Thank you, guys, for watching on Twitch.

08:47:44.480 I'm going to take a gamble here.

08:47:47.640 I have no idea what game he's playing.

08:47:49.960 Oh, huge.

08:47:51.700 Big gamble.

08:47:52.640 Two level three of these guys.

08:47:53.840 We're going to send the raid now.

08:47:54.580 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

08:47:55.920 07's in the chat.

08:47:56.680 Have a good night, guys, on Twitch.

08:48:01.340 All right.

08:48:01.740 We just sent the raid.

08:48:02.820 What game is this?

08:48:04.020 I would play that.

08:48:05.460 Guys, we're going to do have Madison start a Twitch stream.

08:48:08.640 You're only important.

08:48:09.760 No.

08:48:12.640 Yo, whatever.

08:48:14.480 Thank you for the raid.

08:48:15.440 What's up, man?

08:48:17.440 Okay, huge.

08:48:19.540 This is our game, Claws and Chaos.

08:48:21.180 It's not out yet.

08:48:25.540 But it's the...

08:48:26.440 Oh.

08:48:27.560 What game is this?

08:48:29.840 I don't know.

08:48:33.920 Is this Dota Auto Chit?

08:48:35.020 It's an auto-battler.

08:48:36.060 Think of it more like...

08:48:36.740 It's like...

08:48:37.480 Dota Auto Chit?

08:48:39.700 It's a good example.

08:48:43.420 Like, it's like Super Auto Pets, kind of, but...

08:48:47.260 Okay.

08:48:48.620 Super Auto Pets, that's TFT.

08:48:50.760 Anyways.

08:48:51.700 All right, guys.

08:48:52.560 We got to wrap the show.

08:48:54.240 I'm going to send...

08:48:55.240 Those of you on YouTube, I'm going to send you guys to Andrew.

08:48:59.140 All right, guys.

08:48:59.840 So, 07's in the chat.

08:49:02.640 Longest stream ever.

08:49:03.580 It was a total train wreck of a stream.

08:49:06.280 Off the rails.

08:49:07.380 But it was a good show, nevertheless.

08:49:08.840 Very entertaining.

08:49:10.080 I want to give a big thank you to Andrew.

08:49:11.540 We're sending you guys over to him.

08:49:13.080 Guys, get this guy to 100K.

08:49:15.140 He's the most...

08:49:15.980 Get Andrew to 100K.

08:49:17.860 Awesome.

08:49:18.180 Get Andrew to 100K.

08:49:19.200 I'll subscribe to you, Andrew.

08:49:20.680 You intellectual.

08:49:21.720 He is one of the...

08:49:23.460 He is a gentleman and a scholar.

08:49:26.140 An all-around great guy.

08:49:27.960 And an a-hole.

08:49:28.520 He deserves 100K more than any other YouTuber I can think of.

08:49:34.400 One mil.

08:49:35.040 So, drop him a sub, guys, when you go over.

08:49:37.660 Drop him some love when we do the raid.

08:49:40.260 And tell him to shave his arms.

08:49:42.820 With that said, I hope you guys have a very good night.

08:49:45.160 And pop that zit with your Jesus.

08:49:47.120 How old are you?

08:49:48.160 Pop it.

08:49:48.580 Put a little alcohol in that.

08:49:50.140 Dry that shit up.

08:49:50.780 Tell him to shave his arm and show us his dummy.

08:49:53.120 You were a 10, but you got that zit.

08:49:55.260 Now you're a freaking zero.

08:49:57.080 07's in the chat.

08:49:58.000 Zit's bigger than his dick.

08:49:58.940 I hope you guys have a good night.

08:50:00.740 Good night, guys.

08:50:01.440 You're a really bad night.

08:50:02.980 Thanks, guys.

08:50:03.480 You're a really poor boy.

08:50:04.580 Thank you.

08:50:05.540 And listen to those words.

08:50:06.080 I'm Miranda.

08:50:06.860 I'm gonna go see you in the chat house.

08:50:07.560 I'm gonna go see you in the chat house.

08:50:08.640 We're me.

08:50:09.640 But come on the way out.

08:50:09.880 Thanks, man.

08:50:10.700 I'll be right there.

08:50:11.240 I'm going to thank you, guys.

08:50:11.840 And this is good advice.

08:50:16.640 roll me.

08:50:17.600 I'm gonna get you back here.

08:50:18.260 And, you know, and I see you.

08:50:20.220 And I think he Educated in the Institute of Island.

08:50:22.940 And I'll see you.

08:50:23.600 Have a nice time to go see you guys.

08:50:24.620 And I see you guys.

08:50:25.000 minion you out.

08:50:25.580 I mean, my name's looking.

08:50:26.120 Let's not need you.

08:50:27.160 I'm gonna get you guys.

Whatever Podcast - June 12, 2024

The Most INSANE Show Ever？! FERAL CHAOS PANEL？! 2+2≠4？! She EXTORTS Men？! N SLIP？｜ Dating Talk #169

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