Whatever Podcast - Tradthot E-GIRL 💍 DRAMA？! Do Modern Women Deserve Trad Men？! She IS The Table？! ｜ Dating Talk #255

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00:03:48.180 the whatever channel. Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So,

00:03:52.820 please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from, and education. Go ahead.

00:03:55.940 Hi, I'm Heidi. I am 25. I'm from Pennsylvania. I live in LA now. And I do marketing for TikTok shop.

00:04:06.340 And I also do content creation, fashion and beauty focus. And I have two degrees in college. So, yeah.

00:04:13.860 What degrees do you have? I have a bachelor's of arts in music business and then a bachelor's of

00:04:19.140 science and communications PR and social media. Which university? Same one for both? No. Monmouth

00:04:24.980 University for music business and then Wilmington University for communications PR and social media.

00:04:31.300 All right. Very cool. Welcome. What about you? My name is Pauline. I'm 33. I live in LA and my

00:04:37.220 highest education is just a few years of college. All right. And occupation? Oh, personal assistant.

00:04:44.340 Oh, personal assistant. Okay. And you're from LA? I'm from LA. Born and raised in LA. Okay. Yeah.

00:04:49.540 And you said education was? A few years of college. That's all I could. What were you studying,

00:04:53.380 I mean? I couldn't figure it out. I wasn't a fan of the education. I was thinking veterinary medicine.

00:04:59.940 Then I went, it was just all a mess. I even went into art. Everything was politicized. So,

00:05:04.580 I got out of college. It's a mess. All right. Yeah. You got your associates or? No,

00:05:08.980 no degree. Highest degree would, high school education, otherwise highest. Yeah. All right.

00:05:13.300 What about you? Hi, I'm Elizabeth. I'm 21 years old. I'm from Chicago and I live in LA now. I'm a

00:05:20.820 livestream host for TikTok shop. So, I sell like a product. You know, I work with an agency and I also

00:05:27.700 dance on the side and my highest degree, I didn't finish. I was going to, I guess, high school. I dropped

00:05:37.140 out. Gotcha. And you said you're 23, right? 21. I'm 22. Oh my gosh. I just turned 22.

00:05:45.940 And when you say you're a dancer, you're not a stripper? No, I do a professional.

00:05:49.940 Okay. Actual dance. Ballet or anything like that? I used to do ballet. I'm like mainly jazz,

00:05:55.780 funk, hip hop, contemporary, freestyle. All right. Very cool. How tall are you, by the way?

00:06:02.740 Five nine. All right. Let's get rid of her seat booster. She doesn't need a seat booster. Do I 1.00

00:06:06.900 need a seat booster? That's how I feel. I felt like I was a boosted a little bit. All right. She's

00:06:10.660 like, you're dwarfing the two girls next to you. Yeah. Just take it. So, what am I doing? Oh, just,

00:06:16.740 uh, yeah. Oh, I had, I literally had a booster. That's too funny. Yeah. Scoot into the table. I'm

00:06:22.660 just going to do a couple quick adjustments here. Actually, that feels a lot better. Can I have you just

00:06:25.300 tilt your microphone down for me? Yeah. You, so you notice everything. You really do. And then

00:06:31.220 what I'm also going to do, I should have done this before we went live. I just need to do a couple

00:06:34.500 adjustments here. Can I have you just scoot to your right that way a little bit? Okay. And then move

00:06:39.380 the mic along, along with you a little bit. Uh, scoot it, uh, scoot the mic, scoot the mic.

00:06:46.100 Yeah, that works. That's good for now. Thank you. Appreciate it. All right. What about you?

00:06:50.500 Hi, my name's Mars. I'm 20 years old. I am a digital content creator. I do short form content.

00:06:57.220 I have my own YouTube channel. I have my own podcast. I model, I act, I make music. And aside

00:07:03.300 from that, I am studying business administration and artificial intelligence at the University of

00:07:08.740 Southern California. Fight on. USC. Yes. Okay. That's a private school, right? It is a private

00:07:14.660 school. What's the tuition for it? It's disgusting. It's like a hundred thousand dollars a year, I believe,

00:07:18.740 but I have a full ride. You have a scholarship? I do. I'm a trustee scholar. I have a full merit

00:07:23.540 scholarship to USC. What's that? They pay for all of my tuition and it's because of my merit,

00:07:30.660 which is academics, leadership, service, et cetera. What is the merit though? It's not need-based aid.

00:07:37.700 Like it's not financial aid. It's just, I did really good in high school in terms of GPA, extracurriculars,

00:07:43.300 my essays. That's what merit is. Merit encompasses your leadership, your academic achievements,

00:07:49.140 and your service. Okay. So your GPA was good. What was your GPA? In high school, we only did

00:07:54.500 weighted GPA in my high school. I grew up in DC. I now live in LA. It was a 4.45 GPA. I don't know what

00:08:02.740 my unweighted GPA was though. That was my weighted GPA. Gotcha. And you're studying what again? I'm

00:08:08.900 studying business administration and artificial intelligence applications. Gotcha. And you said

00:08:13.780 you're originally from DC. I am. Gotcha. Grew up there? Yes. Okay. Born and raised. All right. What

00:08:18.260 about you? Hi, my name is Ellie. I'm 18 years old and tomorrow I start my first day of senior year

00:08:24.660 in high school. Good for you. Enjoy it. She's a super senior. Every time. Nice. Super senior. I'm not a super senior.

00:08:31.700 It's a reasonable age, you guys. And, uh, you do, uh, you have a job or anything? No, I'm completely

00:08:39.860 unemployed. Unemployed. Okay. And, um, and you're from where again? San Diego. San Diego. Okay. What

00:08:47.380 about you? Hi, my name is Zena. I am 21 years old and I am a content creator and I currently go to the

00:08:53.780 American Musical and Dramatic Academy, which is a performing arts college. I, my major is musical theater.

00:09:02.100 Okay. Yeah. And are you focusing on anything specific with that? Um, well, that is specific.

00:09:08.340 Like my school only has four majors. So it's only acting, film, acting for camera, musical theater,

00:09:15.140 and dance. But there's like crew. So are you in doing the crew component or you're, you're on stage?

00:09:20.900 No, because so, well, no, because it's musical theater. You learn all of it.

00:09:26.180 Like, like you don't just learn. Well, there's like the lighting people. Well, well, yeah, that's why there's

00:09:30.260 different majors, like acting for camera, acting, musical theater. Like when I choose my major to

00:09:35.780 be musical theater, I don't just learn on the stage. I also learn like background stuff,

00:09:40.260 light, writing my own script, writing my own song, like all of it goes into it.

00:09:45.060 Okay. So you're a theater kid. Sure. Okay. And, uh, you're, are you more of a singer,

00:09:54.180 more of an actor, all of the above? I'm all of them. All of the above? Yes.

00:09:57.380 Are you currently in a, any sort of plays currently or anything? No, not currently.

00:10:00.980 Okay. What's your favorite musical? My favorite musical is called Epic. It's a story based on the

00:10:07.220 Odyssey. If you guys like Greek mythology, it's a really good one. All right. And you're from LA?

00:10:13.700 Yes. I'm from Hollywood. What about you? Uh, hi, my name is Kamiya. I'm 25. I'm currently a PA student,

00:10:21.940 physician assistant student at West Coast University. Um, and I do not work right now.

00:10:26.740 And, uh, where are you from originally? I'm from, uh, Oceanside, but I, uh, now live in Orange County,

00:10:33.060 South Orange County. Got it. Okay. What about you? Hello. Uh, my name's Jamie. Did you just say

00:10:37.860 bet? I did. How old are you? I'm supposed to ask a woman her age. Well, you're about to say it.

00:10:45.060 Okay. Well, yeah, tell us your intro. What's the intro here? Uh, hi, I'm Jamie. I am 36 years young.

00:10:50.900 Um, from Baltimore, Maryland, but I currently reside. I'm sorry. I'm 36. Trust me. It's too old.

00:10:58.500 You're too old to say bet. Yeah. We're the same age. You can't say bet. I have a teenage son.

00:11:03.220 I can say bet. That might make it worse. I don't know. It does. But so, uh, where are you from?

00:11:09.940 Uh, I'm from Baltimore, but I also, I need your stress ball too. Just, um, she has a stress ball here. 0.99

00:11:17.860 I'm very stressed. I'm going to steal your stress ball from the time to time. Uh, so you're from 1.00

00:11:23.620 Baltimore. I'm from Baltimore, Maryland. Isn't it dangerous? It is pretty dangerous. Yeah. Well,

00:11:28.820 it depends on like whether or not you're in the gentrified area or if you're in the un-gentrified

00:11:33.380 area. Is that where the wire was based? Yeah. The wire, you know the show? Yeah. Okay. Of

00:11:38.900 course I know the show. I'm from Baltimore. Yikes. Um, yeah. Um, occupation, uh, I am a substitute

00:11:45.940 Montessori teacher. What's Montessori for the people that don't know? It is, uh, it's a teaching

00:11:52.180 style. You can either go to public education. You can be part of, you know, Waldorf education.

00:11:56.820 You can be part of Montessori, but it basically, it it's, it's a way in which you teach kids from

00:12:02.900 like tiny, tiny all the way up until like graduation age. Yeah. What is the way though?

00:12:08.980 What's the way? Um, so essentially Montessori is based around certain principles like care for the

00:12:14.420 self, care for the environment, um, care for gosh, what's the other one? I'm terrible. I'm only a sub.

00:12:21.060 I'm only there like maybe a couple of days a week. Just care for the self, uh, care for the environment.

00:12:25.540 And yeah, one more. Basically it gets your kids, um, to learn how to be independent starting from

00:12:35.300 like a young age. Like we have kids as young as like maybe 10 weeks in the school. Um, so it places a,

00:12:44.020 uh, a big emphasis on independence and like finding what your jam is and then just like

00:12:51.060 learning everything that you can about it. So. All right, cool. All right. That's, uh, and oh,

00:12:56.740 uh, education. I'm a college dropout. I did go to school for radio, but it was not like a four-year

00:13:03.460 institution. Okay. Got it. All right. Well, welcome everybody. We're going to go around the table once

00:13:08.500 more. What's everybody's relationship status, uh, longest relationship you've been in. And if you're

00:13:14.580 single, how long have you been single? Good. I am single. I've never been in a relationship.

00:13:21.460 Okay. So yeah. You're 25, right? Yes. Okay. Uh, longest period of time you've dated somebody?

00:13:28.340 Like a situationship? Yeah, sure. I would say like two years. That's dating. A little closer to the

00:13:34.260 mic. You said two years? Two years. Yeah. Was it on again, off again? Uh, only went no contact once, but

00:13:43.540 you went no contact. Both of you went no contact or one of you did? Both. Okay. Yeah.

00:13:50.740 Yeah. Why? Temporarily. Yeah. Mutual no contact. And he broke no contact. Okay. Who initiated

00:13:58.340 the break? He did. Well, it was like random. It was like very random. How long did that last?

00:14:05.060 Yes. Like three months, maybe during Mercury retrograde.

00:14:10.260 Word. Came back during Mercury retrograde. How long ago was that? December.

00:14:16.820 It's the last time you saw him was in December. No, I saw him like last week.

00:14:21.540 Oh, the break was in December. Yes. Yes. Okay. So you saw him last week. Yes.

00:14:27.060 And you've known him total for two years. No. I've known him for like seven.

00:14:35.380 Just get married already. 0.76

00:14:38.900 You've known him for seven, but you've only been what for two years?

00:14:42.740 Like talking, a situationship for two years. Did you hook up with him seven years ago?

00:14:48.420 No. Six years ago? No. Five? Two years. Maybe a year. Okay.

00:14:52.900 I hooked up with him a year ago, but we started like flirting two years ago. I was a virgin

00:14:58.580 two years ago. Hmm. So he's the only guy you've been with? Yes.

00:15:05.700 Like once. Wait, what do you mean once? Like he took my V card and that was about it.

00:15:10.260 Hmm. Wait, what? Hold on. The worst. You had sex only one time? Yes. Ever? But yes.

00:15:23.460 You've been in a situationship with him for two years. You had sex with him a year ago. You still 0.54

00:15:30.180 continue to see him. You already lost your virginity to him, but now you don't have sex with him anymore? 0.97

00:15:39.300 No, he has to earn it. Hmm. So like, so like, wait, so what do you guys do? Bro, 0.99

00:15:44.980 you're fucking lying. Your friend's lying. I'm not lying. I'm not lying. She's not lying. 1.00

00:15:49.060 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I've been around it. Yeah. I have a question. So what do you guys do

00:15:54.420 when you hang out? Like, like, like what makes, what makes, what makes it a situation? Like we do

00:16:00.260 other things, but I'm not like having sex with him. Okay. I'm just sorry if that was an intrusive 0.86

00:16:06.420 question. No, it's okay. Okay. But why haven't you made it official? Like that sounds like dating

00:16:11.300 because he's a whore. Oh, okay. Well then I understand. Why are you still talking to this 1.00

00:16:15.620 guy? Cause he's like, it's, it's just like a complicated situation. You know how better

00:16:20.340 dick exists though? Like, well, she's only had one. I mean, okay. All right. So like, 1.00

00:16:27.140 there was like, we were best friends. So it was like a little bit more than besties. Well now,

00:16:33.460 but like before it was like strictly platonic and then we both moved out here and then it like

00:16:38.020 got complicated. Do you think he's watching right now? No. Need splits. Definitely not.

00:16:44.100 I'm frustrated for you. I'm frustrated for you. Well, what, what's, how are you frustrated and why

00:16:50.660 you frustrated? Because like y'all are besties. Why is he such a whore then? Cause he has commitment 0.68

00:16:59.540 issues and, uh, he's also a sex worker. So that's how he makes his money. Huh? So I'm not going to

00:17:08.020 stop him from getting his bag, especially in this economy. Is there anything that he could do other

00:17:13.620 than sex work though? Uh, I mean, yeah, but like, I'm so confused. It goes, it's getting deeper.

00:17:22.180 It's all true though. Is that an actual question? Is there anything else you could do?

00:17:28.340 Like, are you actually, you, you care that much? I don't know. I personally don't care how somebody

00:17:33.060 gets their bag. I wasn't talking to you. Um, what he does only fans then? Yes.

00:17:38.180 How long has he been doing that? Three years, four years.

00:17:44.100 How old is he? 25. Okay. So what does he do on OF? I don't look at it. I'm not a subscriber,

00:17:53.940 so I wouldn't know. I don't ask about it. That's none of my business. Open the doors please. Um,

00:18:05.620 so he's hooking up with other women. Yeah. Not just for work, but also just for fun, like civilians.

00:18:13.780 Uh, yeah, probably. Yeah. Okay. And you're upset that he won't commit to you or what? I'm not upset

00:18:25.060 about it. I just know what the situation is and that's okay. I know he's not looking for commitment

00:18:32.020 right now and that's fine. Okay. What are you looking for? I'm just trying to be successful in

00:18:39.780 L.A. So I'm not really too worried about a relationship status. Like, of course, I want

00:18:44.420 to find a partner, but I'm more worried about like becoming successful, getting money and like

00:18:51.940 living my life, being happy. Like a relationship doesn't contribute to that. Like it can, but like,

00:18:58.420 it's not all I'm focused on. Um, wait. And so why are you with him? I guess I'm just confused.

00:19:08.180 Well, I'm not going to break a friendship over something like that. Like we're still friends

00:19:11.940 at the end of the day. Like if we're a situation ship, like one day and like besties the next day,

00:19:17.860 it's like, we're not always like in that situation ship stage, I guess it's kind of like best friends

00:19:24.820 one day. And then like other times it's like, Oh, we're flirting today. Like the lines are wired.

00:19:30.100 Um, yes, I guess

00:19:33.940 how did the whole like losing your virginity thing was that planned? Was it a spontaneous thing?

00:19:39.780 Uh, it was kind of spontaneous, but like I was sleeping over at his house, like

00:19:44.660 for 10 months before I let him take it. Um,

00:19:48.260 Wait, you were like living with him? No, no, no. I would just go over and sleep over.

00:19:54.660 I see, I see, I see. For 10 months.

00:19:58.900 Real though, very real. Just put your name on the lease.

00:20:03.860 And I guess, was alcohol involved or were you guys both sober?

00:20:07.300 Uh, I don't really drink at all. He drinks, but like alcohol wasn't really a factor.

00:20:15.860 Uh, is there any reason you guys haven't hooked up again?

00:20:19.780 Because I won't let him.

00:20:24.020 Okay.

00:20:24.340 So has he asked?

00:20:26.340 Yeah, of course.

00:20:30.420 Like he'll come sleep over and like, that's that, like, I'm not gonna let him.

00:20:33.940 You guys do other things like?

00:20:35.140 Yeah, but like, I won't let him sleep with me again.

00:20:38.340 So you guys, what, third base?

00:20:40.580 Yeah.

00:20:41.860 Okay, so you're, uh, you S the D.

00:20:47.300 Yes, sure. Yeah.

00:20:49.140 But no P in the D. 0.95

00:20:54.420 Okay, um, what do they call that? There's a term for that.

00:20:58.580 That explains it on plenty. 0.99

00:21:00.580 Uh, I think it's like a, a blowjob Betty or something. 0.99

00:21:06.660 Uh, what? 0.99

00:21:09.860 Like a girl who just, it's just BJ's. 0.99

00:21:12.500 I guess.

00:21:14.580 That's news to me.

00:21:20.100 Okay, um, though, it's just kind of, I mean, it's just a little confusing, I guess.

00:21:28.420 It is confusing and it's not like I'm loyal to him if he's not going to be loyal to me.

00:21:32.420 So it's like, I still keep my options open, but I just don't sleep with people in general.

00:21:38.500 Okay.

00:21:38.980 Was he in sex work when you guys met?

00:21:41.300 Did you, was he always in sex work?

00:21:43.140 No, he was always in social media and got into sex work after, like, I've known him for two years.

00:21:50.900 Gotcha.

00:21:51.860 And yeah, it was like when OnlyFans started becoming bigger and more normalized.

00:21:57.780 Just capitalizing on it.

00:21:59.140 Just capitalizing on it.

00:22:00.100 Cha-ching. 1.00

00:22:00.740 Everyone is.

00:22:01.540 Everybody has a price.

00:22:03.380 No.

00:22:04.100 So I don't know if I missed this, but do you hook up with other people?

00:22:08.340 Uh, I don't have the S word with other people.

00:22:12.980 So, but like a hook up, yeah, but like, not like the S word.

00:22:19.860 It's, it, I don't know, like, I don't know, stuck in the D.

00:22:24.340 So it's foreplay, but no sex? 0.55

00:22:26.340 Yeah. 0.96

00:22:27.060 Too.

00:22:27.860 Because I don't want to add a body.

00:22:29.700 That's, it kind of does add a body.

00:22:31.540 Does it not?

00:22:32.420 I mean, who cares though?

00:22:34.180 You know, it kind of does.

00:22:35.300 I don't think it adds a body.

00:22:36.020 Because if I make out with somebody, it's somewhere in there.

00:22:40.500 You can get mono.

00:22:41.380 It's a separate category.

00:22:42.180 But if I make out with somebody at a party, are you adding them to your body count?

00:22:45.620 No.

00:22:46.020 Okay.

00:22:46.420 I'd be a separate body count if you're like, you're just making out. 0.90

00:22:48.820 But I feel like the minute that genitalia hits like a crossover zone, like even if like,

00:22:55.140 you know, they're just rubbing it on the, you know, um, that would. 0.76

00:23:00.260 You, you add that to your body count.

00:23:02.100 Like if you're like.

00:23:03.060 Absolutely.

00:23:04.180 Yeah.

00:23:04.500 People define sex very differently in this day and age.

00:23:07.140 And I'm, I'm bisexual. 0.99

00:23:09.140 So, you know, I don't have penetrative sex with a penis with a girl, you know, but I still 1.00

00:23:16.020 count my actions with the girl as sex. 1.00

00:23:18.180 So I don't know.

00:23:19.060 I think you can define it in your own ways, but I probably define sex a little bit differently than you do.

00:23:26.020 Yeah, no, definitely.

00:23:27.940 That's, I don't know.

00:23:29.700 If it goes in a hole, I think it's a body.

00:23:31.860 That's what I say.

00:23:32.660 It's pretty simple.

00:23:33.780 Yeah.

00:23:34.100 It's not that complicated.

00:23:34.580 You know, and you got your options.

00:23:35.780 I mean, even, even the LDS folk try and skirt like that by the whole like soaking thing.

00:23:43.060 But it's like, you know, if, if it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck.

00:23:48.740 Thank you, offensive truths for the gifted 50.

00:23:52.180 You said you don't want to add a body, but you already have said body.

00:23:56.100 You already slept with him. 1.00

00:23:57.940 She asked if I wanted, like, if I was hooking up with other people.

00:24:01.140 Oh, with other guys.

00:24:02.180 Yeah.

00:24:02.500 Okay.

00:24:03.220 Which you're not.

00:24:04.420 I'm not having the S word with other people. 0.95

00:24:06.260 No.

00:24:06.580 But you're S-ing the D with other people?

00:24:09.540 Oh, not necessarily.

00:24:10.740 But like, it's not like I'm not seeing other people.

00:24:12.820 Like I, it's not like I won't go on a date with another person or like, I still have my

00:24:17.060 options very open.

00:24:19.140 Like, I'm not just exclusive with him.

00:24:22.580 All right.

00:24:22.900 All right.

00:24:23.460 Interesting situation you've found yourself in.

00:24:26.180 You've been hanging out with him for two years, but it's non-exclusive.

00:24:30.180 You lost your virginity to him, but you only had sex once. 0.80

00:24:34.820 You don't continue to have sex with him. 1.00

00:24:37.620 He's a sex worker and he fucks other women for business and pleasure. 1.00

00:24:43.780 Is that a fair summary of your? 1.00

00:24:45.940 Yeah.

00:24:46.820 Okay.

00:24:47.380 And you date other people too, but you have varying degrees of foreplay with them, but

00:24:54.500 not full blown.

00:24:56.500 You don't even S the D? 1.00

00:24:58.100 You only S the D, the guy who fucks other women. 1.00

00:25:00.340 Do I have that correct? 0.99

00:25:01.700 Kind of.

00:25:02.100 Yeah.

00:25:02.420 Yeah.

00:25:02.900 Pretty much.

00:25:03.540 So you, like a new guy comes into the picture, you, you know, maybe, you know,

00:25:08.100 make out a little bit, dry hump, whatever.

00:25:10.260 A little handy. 1.00

00:25:11.140 But you reserve the S-ing the D for the man who has his penis in other women. 1.00

00:25:18.020 Is that a fair characterization? 1.00

00:25:19.860 Yeah.

00:25:20.260 Okay.

00:25:21.060 What about you?

00:25:21.620 I'm sorry.

00:25:22.260 All right.

00:25:23.220 Tough act to follow.

00:25:24.180 Okay.

00:25:24.580 Yeah.

00:25:25.060 There's a lot going on.

00:25:26.580 My last relationship was seven years ago.

00:25:30.180 It lasted a few years.

00:25:31.780 Are you single?

00:25:32.420 I'm single now.

00:25:33.140 Okay.

00:25:34.020 I'm dating for marriage.

00:25:35.060 You said single for a few years?

00:25:36.580 Seven years.

00:25:37.060 Oh, seven years.

00:25:37.620 Seven years.

00:25:38.180 I was with, yeah.

00:25:39.540 Well, you've been dating people though.

00:25:42.260 No, I haven't.

00:25:43.060 In that seven year period.

00:25:43.140 I'm actually just getting into, I've dated a couple people, but nothing.

00:25:46.820 No relationships.

00:25:47.540 No relationships in seven years.

00:25:48.980 Okay.

00:25:49.060 So you were divorced seven years ago.

00:25:50.260 Not even married.

00:25:51.300 Oh, not even married.

00:25:52.020 I'm dating for marriage now.

00:25:53.780 Dating for marriage now.

00:25:54.740 Yeah.

00:25:55.300 Okay.

00:25:56.260 But you were in your longest relationship seven years ago.

00:25:58.900 Seven years ago.

00:25:59.620 It lasted a few years.

00:26:01.620 Three years, four years?

00:26:02.580 Four, no, a few years.

00:26:04.020 Kids?

00:26:04.580 No kids.

00:26:05.940 Three years?

00:26:07.060 No, it lasted a couple years, that relationship.

00:26:09.620 How many years?

00:26:11.140 I'm sorry, seven years ago?

00:26:12.820 That relationship.

00:26:14.980 How?

00:26:15.380 It lasted a few years.

00:26:16.900 Few years equal what?

00:26:19.220 Two years.

00:26:20.340 Okay.

00:26:20.740 Yeah.

00:26:22.340 Two years.

00:26:22.740 Do you have kids?

00:26:23.460 No kids.

00:26:24.100 No kids.

00:26:24.660 Okay.

00:26:25.780 You've been single for seven years.

00:26:27.220 So.

00:26:27.460 Yeah.

00:26:28.740 It's crazy.

00:26:29.620 You've been single since like 25, 26?

00:26:32.420 Yeah.

00:26:33.060 Because you're 33 now.

00:26:34.100 Yeah.

00:26:35.780 Single for seven years.

00:26:37.220 Yeah.

00:26:37.940 You've been celibate for seven years?

00:26:39.460 Celibate.

00:26:40.180 You've been celibate for seven years?

00:26:41.620 Seven years, yeah.

00:26:42.420 Yeah.

00:26:43.380 Okay.

00:26:43.460 Oh yeah.

00:26:44.580 I have no desire to S the D.

00:26:47.140 Nope.

00:26:48.100 The D.

00:26:49.060 Absolutely.

00:26:49.700 No S-ing the D. 1.00

00:26:50.580 Absolutely not.

00:26:51.460 I don't do degeneracy that way.

00:26:54.020 Absolutely not.

00:26:55.940 Don't do degeneracy that way.

00:26:57.780 No.

00:26:58.020 No gloved handies.

00:26:59.060 Absolutely not.

00:27:01.780 She's classy. 0.88

00:27:02.500 She's very classy. 0.53

00:27:03.220 Okay.

00:27:04.260 You said you have gone on a couple dates.

00:27:06.500 I have.

00:27:08.500 Second dates, third dates, or not really?

00:27:10.340 I've had second and third dates.

00:27:11.780 Here, try to straighten up if you can.

00:27:13.860 I'm sorry.

00:27:13.940 I've had second and third dates, but the value system that we, we didn't share values, fundamental

00:27:19.380 values.

00:27:19.940 Okay.

00:27:20.340 And I can find that out within a couple of dates, you know?

00:27:23.300 So I'm like, is this the guy I want to spend my life with?

00:27:26.020 Sure.

00:27:26.340 And procreate with?

00:27:27.620 No, it's not.

00:27:28.580 What are the fundamental values that you're looking for?

00:27:30.500 Very traditional.

00:27:31.460 Very traditional guy.

00:27:32.500 God-fearing, strong, masculine, courageous.

00:27:35.780 Okay.

00:27:36.260 Courage is very attractive.

00:27:37.460 You're religious? 0.81

00:27:38.340 Courage is attractive.

00:27:39.220 Very attractive.

00:27:40.180 Very attractive.

00:27:40.900 Oh, yeah.

00:27:41.780 When you say courageous, what does that mean?

00:27:43.380 Chivalry.

00:27:44.180 Chivalry.

00:27:44.820 Chivalry is super attractive.

00:27:46.820 It's kind of a dying art form I'm noticing with guys.

00:27:49.940 Chivalry.

00:27:50.660 Okay.

00:27:50.980 It's, you know, romance.

00:27:54.420 I mean, I like romance softness, you know?

00:27:57.380 I'm very good at reciprocating communication, but the dating world is a mess right now.

00:28:03.140 The sexual marketplace is an absolute disaster.

00:28:06.740 But my values are very traditional, I'd say.

00:28:10.740 As traditional as I can make it at this point.

00:28:12.340 Have they always been?

00:28:14.260 Actually, they always have been instinctively.

00:28:16.660 They always have been.

00:28:17.460 I kind of have a moral compass.

00:28:19.300 What's right is right.

00:28:20.020 What's wrong is wrong.

00:28:21.380 Since teenage, I've always wanted marriage, kids.

00:28:24.900 That's my path.

00:28:26.580 That's always been my desire.

00:28:28.980 Yeah.

00:28:29.380 Okay.

00:28:29.940 Gotcha.

00:28:31.780 Let's see.

00:28:34.580 So courage.

00:28:35.300 You're looking for courage.

00:28:36.180 You're looking for chivalry.

00:28:38.020 Traditional.

00:28:38.500 God-fearing.

00:28:39.220 God-fearing.

00:28:39.300 So you're Christian.

00:28:39.860 God-fearing is absolute.

00:28:40.820 I'm Orthodox Christian.

00:28:41.940 I'm actually a catechumen in the Orthodox Church.

00:28:44.420 Oh, okay.

00:28:45.060 So I'm in the process of getting baptized.

00:28:47.860 I see.

00:28:48.420 Yeah.

00:28:48.740 How long have you been an Orthodox Christian?

00:28:50.580 Actually, I've been a few years.

00:28:53.700 I've been going to this particular Orthodox Church.

00:28:55.940 And the good thing about it is it's pre-denominational. 0.79

00:28:58.980 So it's very ancient.

00:29:00.180 It stays true to scripture. 0.97

00:29:01.780 It's not like degenerate women on the podium, gay pride events in church. 0.98

00:29:07.780 None of that. 0.98

00:29:08.660 I'm not.

00:29:09.060 I don't do follow that.

00:29:10.340 Okay.

00:29:10.740 So.

00:29:11.140 Sure.

00:29:11.940 Yeah.

00:29:12.260 All right.

00:29:12.660 I like it.

00:29:13.300 I like a hierarchy that's very traditional.

00:29:15.940 And I know my place in that.

00:29:18.500 Sure.

00:29:18.900 All right.

00:29:19.540 What about you?

00:29:20.980 My last relationship was two years ago.

00:29:23.700 Two or three years ago.

00:29:24.900 Single.

00:29:25.380 Yeah.

00:29:25.620 Somewhere around there.

00:29:27.300 Lasted for like a year.

00:29:28.980 And I'm currently single, but like in a complicated situationship.

00:29:33.780 Okay.

00:29:34.740 What do you mean?

00:29:35.540 What's complicated about it?

00:29:37.940 We were talking for six months, five, six months.

00:29:41.700 And we went into no contact last week.

00:29:44.660 And then he messaged me yesterday.

00:29:48.340 So your boyfriend, girlfriend for five to six months, or was it just casual?

00:29:52.260 Exclusive, but casual.

00:29:53.460 It was exclusive.

00:29:54.580 Like, you know, we were both loyal to each other.

00:29:56.420 I believe that he was loyal to me.

00:29:57.780 I was loyal to him, like, extremely.

00:30:01.300 But I don't think that we were seeing other people.

00:30:03.140 But like, our paths are just very busy.

00:30:07.460 Okay.

00:30:08.020 And why did it go no contact?

00:30:11.940 It was kind of like, I crashed out on him on accident.

00:30:16.980 Just being.

00:30:17.460 You, go ahead.

00:30:18.660 Tell us the story.

00:30:20.020 I crashed out on him just because of like a situation.

00:30:23.940 Like he needed to show up to something and he didn't.

00:30:27.380 And it was just more so like, he's really busy.

00:30:31.300 I'm really busy.

00:30:32.180 So, but we both had like that mutual thing.

00:30:35.940 Like, if that makes sense.

00:30:39.860 So wait, what?

00:30:40.980 He, he like no showed on you.

00:30:42.900 What do you mean?

00:30:43.380 Yeah.

00:30:44.100 Like I had a showcase for dance and he said that like the morning,

00:30:48.340 like we were fine.

00:30:49.620 And then at like the show time at like 1030,

00:30:52.820 it was like, it seemed like he was coming,

00:30:54.980 but like his message was like also like confusing.

00:30:58.100 And so I tried to call him, didn't answer.

00:31:00.820 And then 1145 hit around and I was like, where did you go?

00:31:06.660 And he's like, I'm going home.

00:31:08.180 And so like, we had an argument with him and I hung up on him.

00:31:10.980 And then next day.

00:31:12.980 Wait, he said he's going home.

00:31:14.420 Yeah.

00:31:15.060 So he was there.

00:31:16.100 No, he was, he was in LA.

00:31:18.100 Like he, cause he lives in OC.

00:31:20.100 So he was in LA for work and he just decided not to show up.

00:31:25.460 That's what he said.

00:31:26.740 That's pretty much what happened.

00:31:27.860 Yeah.

00:31:28.340 And it was at 10 AM.

00:31:29.780 10 30 PM.

00:31:31.380 10 30 PM.

00:31:32.340 Yeah.

00:31:33.060 It was a, what's the showcase.

00:31:34.740 Like for dance.

00:31:35.860 You like a performance.

00:31:37.380 Yeah.

00:31:37.620 Yeah.

00:31:40.020 That's probably pretty valid to just not show up to that.

00:31:43.220 Yeah, I guess.

00:31:44.740 Wait, really?

00:31:45.300 I mean, like, I mean, like, I mean, like, I mean,

00:31:49.220 to me,

00:31:49.940 I have two sides to it where it's like,

00:31:52.500 I get it because he's been working since 8 AM and it's in LA.

00:31:57.620 He has to go back to OC.

00:31:59.220 So I understood that.

00:32:00.260 Cause the showcase doesn't end until like 2 AM and,

00:32:03.780 but the thing is, I was also like,

00:32:05.220 I'm there for you for your work stuff, you know?

00:32:08.100 And I think.

00:32:08.900 What does he do for work?

00:32:10.260 I don't want to say.

00:32:11.140 He, he worked, he works with cars.

00:32:12.660 He has, he has stuff with cars.

00:32:14.020 So you go to his car shows?

00:32:18.180 No, he doesn't do anything revolving that.

00:32:20.260 He sells cars, does stuff like revolving the business.

00:32:22.020 Wait, did he text you something along the lines of,

00:32:24.420 Hey, I'm really tired.

00:32:25.300 I'm not going to be able to make it or.

00:32:26.900 At like 10, 11 o'clock.

00:32:30.740 And it was, he didn't say that he,

00:32:32.420 it was like kind of confusing because it was like,

00:32:34.660 he was hinting that he could come.

00:32:36.420 And then it was like, yeah, I have to head back to my car.

00:32:39.220 And then, um, then it was like, all of a sudden never heard anything.

00:32:43.460 And I was just like, okay.

00:32:44.660 Like I was waiting around and hoping that he would still show up.

00:32:47.780 Wait, but did he say something along the lines of.

00:32:51.940 Hey, I'm really tired.

00:32:53.220 I'm not going to make it or.

00:32:54.900 No, it was, it was more so like I was,

00:32:56.580 there was still hope that he would have.

00:32:58.260 Like you didn't say no, that he wasn't coming until like,

00:33:03.300 I, he was like, I probably won't be able to make it all this stuff.

00:33:06.500 And I was like mad because I would have rather have known.

00:33:08.820 Wait, what time did the show start?

00:33:10.100 11 PM, like 11.

00:33:12.020 What time did he text you that he said that?

00:33:15.300 Like 11, uh, 10 30, 10 45.

00:33:18.820 So before the show started, he did tell you.

00:33:22.660 He said that I, he said, I still have to head over to my car.

00:33:25.700 And I was like, okay.

00:33:26.660 When did he, you said that he said,

00:33:28.980 Hey, I'm not coming or something along those lines.

00:33:31.300 He said that after the show, once the show was already starting,

00:33:34.980 like at that time, like within that time period,

00:33:37.300 like that's when he said that.

00:33:38.580 What?

00:33:39.140 Like, so round, he was like, I probably won't be able to make it.

00:33:43.060 And I was giving the hope that he was still probably show up.

00:33:47.860 So he said, I'm probably not going to be able to make it.

00:33:51.540 Yes.

00:33:53.780 I don't see the issue here.

00:33:54.980 The thing is,

00:33:55.540 I actually don't see the issue.

00:33:56.580 But why tell me at the beginning of the show,

00:33:58.900 right when the show is about to start,

00:34:00.420 instead of telling me hours before,

00:34:02.180 because the thing is that he was telling me all these times that he was,

00:34:05.300 yeah, I'm going to come.

00:34:05.940 I'm coming.

00:34:06.340 I'm going to make sure I come all this stuff.

00:34:07.860 Was your performance contingent upon his being there?

00:34:12.660 What do you mean?

00:34:13.780 Like he's not part of the show, right?

00:34:15.380 No, it's just an audience member sitting there for four hours while you do like interpretive

00:34:20.260 dance or whatever.

00:34:21.220 The thing with this, with this showcase, it's like, this is where agencies are.

00:34:24.900 This is where like Janet Jackson started.

00:34:27.700 This is where a lot of people started and get signed and get booked for things.

00:34:31.380 Everyone gets booked at these types of showcases.

00:34:34.500 And so him being there was like, well,

00:34:37.540 him being there would have been like a great part of it.

00:34:39.140 Cause I don't invite anybody to my dance stuff.

00:34:41.380 Like nobody, if I invite you to my dance stuff, like that's like my world, you know?

00:34:45.300 So like when you don't show up for me in that way,

00:34:47.300 it's actually kind of hurtful.

00:34:48.260 Cause that's what I want to do for my career.

00:34:49.940 But I mean, him being there wouldn't have an impact on your career.

00:34:58.740 Like it's more supportive.

00:35:00.420 It's more support.

00:35:01.540 I was looking for more support.

00:35:02.980 And how long you've been with him for five to six months?

00:35:05.060 Yeah.

00:35:06.820 And he was working all day.

00:35:08.260 Yeah.

00:35:09.140 It's a tricky situation.

00:35:10.340 I understand both sides, but I understand his side too.

00:35:12.980 Hold on, hold on.

00:35:13.540 So do I.

00:35:14.420 He probably could have given you more heads up.

00:35:16.180 That's what I was looking for.

00:35:17.060 He texted you.

00:35:17.860 He said, hey, I'm tired.

00:35:19.060 I'm not going to make it.

00:35:19.780 But he was in town.

00:35:20.820 Like it was like, he was in town for work and could have just driven like 10 minutes

00:35:25.380 Like he got out of the meeting.

00:35:26.340 To the showcase.

00:35:27.140 Bro, guy.

00:35:28.020 That's like a 12 hour day.

00:35:29.540 It's a lot.

00:35:29.940 He's straight, right?

00:35:30.980 Yeah.

00:35:31.380 Yeah.

00:35:32.020 Going to a dance recital.

00:35:33.700 I know that's not what it is, but going to a dance recital.

00:35:37.060 It's not number.

00:35:38.180 What day was it?

00:35:38.820 A Friday or Saturday?

00:35:39.620 It was a Thursday.

00:35:40.580 Thursday.

00:35:41.300 And he's a hardworking guy.

00:35:42.580 Yeah.

00:35:42.820 Owns his own business.

00:35:43.860 Pretty much.

00:35:44.340 Yeah.

00:35:44.580 I mean, yeah, it's what guys do.

00:35:45.940 He was working all day.

00:35:47.380 Yeah.

00:35:47.780 Yeah.

00:35:48.100 Every day.

00:35:48.740 He has like 12 hour days.

00:35:50.340 So it's not the number one priority for a straight male to go to his girlfriend's dance recital 0.99

00:35:55.460 for three hours after he just busted his ass all day. 0.99

00:35:58.500 I will tell you though, he could have given you a bit more heads up. 0.98

00:36:01.380 But beyond that, man, this guy's, if he's willing to, the fact he was willing to initially do it,

00:36:08.580 has he done it before?

00:36:09.380 Has he gone to your dance ship before?

00:36:10.500 That was the only, that was the only one, five, because we don't really perform like that.

00:36:15.140 We mainly do like videos.

00:36:16.980 Like it's very rare.

00:36:18.260 And if we do something, it's out of state.

00:36:19.940 And so it's, you said it's three to four hours long.

00:36:22.100 How long?

00:36:22.500 Well, when we go on, we just like end up leaving right after and go do something else

00:36:26.740 or maybe stick around.

00:36:27.780 But like, we went on at like 11 45.

00:36:30.100 Like we were like show there's like, we closed the first act.

00:36:33.540 It was kind of set up for failure.

00:36:35.220 I think that a straight man was even considering going to a dance recital.

00:36:48.020 What does him being straight have to do with the team? 0.74

00:36:49.940 A lot of guys go to this though.

00:36:51.220 Like I was, as somebody who goes to school for it, there's a lot of straight guys there.

00:36:57.700 And I'm just saying, I think, I see where you're coming from because it's not the fact

00:37:06.820 that he couldn't make it.

00:37:07.620 It's the vulnerability of knowing that you don't invite people to it.

00:37:10.980 Yeah.

00:37:11.460 And then as somebody who's in like, who like does dance showcases and stuff,

00:37:14.740 I completely understand that.

00:37:16.020 And I get where you're coming from because of my, I understand that you had a long day,

00:37:19.780 but it's mostly just the fact of like, Hey, give me notice.

00:37:22.180 Like, like, like if I support you and this is my first time inviting you to my show,

00:37:27.620 I feel like if you're 10 minutes away, you can at least like pop in, like sit in your

00:37:32.020 car for a couple of minutes and like decompress.

00:37:34.340 I think, yeah, I feel like if you're pushing through to support him and his things, it's

00:37:39.060 the fact that you want him to support you.

00:37:40.980 And he didn't do that when he was supposed to show up.

00:37:42.660 Yeah.

00:37:42.820 I think you took that personal and you had a few hours of stress because you didn't hear

00:37:47.220 from him.

00:37:47.940 So that those two hours of stress, you took very personal because he could have let you

00:37:51.620 know a few hours in advance, which I agree with.

00:37:53.700 Yeah.

00:37:54.020 But I understand that that's a long day.

00:37:55.620 The whole day was already stressful.

00:37:56.980 Like, again, like this is where you get booked.

00:37:58.900 Like, I'm like, okay, I need to like put my, and I had a spring knee.

00:38:02.020 So this was like my first like time back on stage and like six months, like, you know,

00:38:07.620 so it was more so like, okay, this is super important.

00:38:09.860 You know, I have to deal with tech all day.

00:38:11.220 Like, you know how it is, like tech rehearsals and the run through and then the actual show.

00:38:14.340 And you're sitting there for like six, eight hours just before the show.

00:38:18.180 I get it.

00:38:18.580 A question for you.

00:38:20.260 When did you tell him about the event?

00:38:22.260 Hold on.

00:38:22.740 A month ago.

00:38:23.380 That's what I wanted to know.

00:38:26.100 Just scoot here. 0.99

00:38:26.740 Scoot your mic to the left.

00:38:27.620 Scoot it to the left. 0.80

00:38:29.220 All right.

00:38:29.540 Go ahead and ask your question, please.

00:38:30.980 Um, how, how long in advance do you tell him that you're having your...

00:38:35.140 July 1st.

00:38:35.860 Okay.

00:38:36.580 Yeah.

00:38:36.820 That's so far.

00:38:38.420 That's a lot.

00:38:39.140 Yeah.

00:38:39.380 It's a month in advance.

00:38:40.340 And do you bring a lot of people in your inner world very often?

00:38:43.140 No.

00:38:43.620 So that's what you also took super personal.

00:38:45.940 Cause I don't bring my family, like my family, like I love my mom, but she is always working

00:38:50.980 to not, you know, she doesn't have time.

00:38:52.020 And he was your person to be there.

00:38:53.460 So I get it.

00:38:54.020 Yeah.

00:38:54.100 I totally get that part.

00:38:54.820 Wait, hold on.

00:38:55.380 And you said he lived in a different area?

00:38:57.940 He wasn't OC.

00:38:58.820 Like he...

00:38:59.460 So what's the distance between you two?

00:39:00.820 Um, depends.

00:39:01.940 I mean, like we were going back and forth with each other.

00:39:04.180 So like, it could be like 45 minutes at, like at night or like during the, like, we don't

00:39:08.500 really, I mean, during the day, it could be like an hour and a half, two hours.

00:39:11.060 How often would you guys see each other?

00:39:13.300 Like maybe once to twice a week.

00:39:15.060 We got lucky if we saw each other twice a week.

00:39:17.300 I call that long distance at this point.

00:39:19.060 Yeah.

00:39:19.140 That's a long, which was healthy.

00:39:20.260 It was really healthy.

00:39:21.060 Cause the time that we spent together, like it, it, it was like energetically like crazy,

00:39:26.180 you know, just like, it just feels so much better instead of seeing a person every freaking

00:39:33.540 day.

00:39:34.180 Like I, well, at least you guys kind of have space.

00:39:36.740 It's okay to have some space.

00:39:38.740 I think it's healthy.

00:39:39.460 But I also think she was upset because when he did show up, like when he would see her,

00:39:44.180 it was just like, oh, and you couldn't show up for that.

00:39:46.580 It was kind of just like, as a friend, it was like, bro, like you had one job, like you

00:39:51.060 couldn't just show up for that one thing.

00:39:53.060 But you come like during these times, it was just like, oh.

00:39:57.060 Everything's always kind of a test and sometimes a test.

00:40:00.180 It's going to be kind of destined to fail, you know, I understand where you're coming

00:40:04.260 from, but that's, it was kind of not set up ideally.

00:40:07.700 Yeah.

00:40:08.180 He's working all day.

00:40:09.060 You have a big moment.

00:40:10.420 That's like, I feel like it was like, I feel like it was destined to fail on his part.

00:40:17.220 If you, if you gave him notice and he knows his work schedule better than anybody else.

00:40:22.420 So I feel like even if he did have a hard day, he should know his own capabilities, like,

00:40:27.060 and not dedicate himself to that in the first place.

00:40:28.980 Things come up.

00:40:29.860 Surely he'll make the next one, right?

00:40:32.340 Wait, you, hold on. 1.00

00:40:34.180 Whoa, okay, I gotta call you fuckers out. 0.99

00:40:37.540 Y'all two done dedicated to come on the show at meet at 4 p.m. 0.99

00:40:43.140 You guys were an hour late.

00:40:45.300 You guys were an hour late.

00:40:46.500 So don't tell me about, well, if you dedicate yourselves to something, you should do the,

00:40:49.860 bro, you, you guys were an hour late.

00:40:52.580 I mean, I didn't say that.

00:40:53.540 Fair point, I guess.

00:40:54.580 I didn't say that.

00:40:55.620 If you're going to dedicate yourself to something, well, you better make sure you're always perfectly

00:40:58.980 on time.

00:40:59.540 And anyways.

00:41:00.260 Yeah.

00:41:00.820 So look, ultimately, I think, I don't know.

00:41:07.940 It's not, and it's exclusive.

00:41:09.780 How long has it been exclusive?

00:41:10.980 Well, the five, six months.

00:41:13.700 The entire time.

00:41:14.420 Yeah.

00:41:14.900 Actually, like maybe boyfriend, girlfriend, what's the title?

00:41:17.300 There really was no title.

00:41:18.740 Like we would, he called us a power couple.

00:41:20.340 And I was like, and I was like, Oh, I love you.

00:41:23.140 And no, I do have a type of love for him.

00:41:25.940 I like have a type of love for him. 1.00

00:41:27.940 Shit. 0.99

00:41:28.580 Unless honestly, if your girlfriend, if she's not your girlfriend and she hasn't said, I love 1.00

00:41:32.260 you, it's too soon for the, Hey, spend two hours at the dance.

00:41:36.420 Something super personal to you that you don't even bring your mom to.

00:41:39.460 You know, well, hold on.

00:41:40.340 Or she doesn't show up at least.

00:41:41.380 I get it.

00:41:41.780 She lives in a different state.

00:41:42.660 If it's, look, if the guy is, it's a Pokemon tournament and you want your girlfriend to 1.00

00:41:47.380 come to the Pokemon tournament, that's valid dance though.

00:41:50.180 Sorry.

00:41:50.740 What did you just say?

00:41:51.940 Come on now.

00:41:53.220 No, dance, a guy going to a dance recital.

00:41:56.660 Not, no.

00:41:57.460 But you think Pokemon's important?

00:41:58.260 He loves dancing though.

00:41:59.060 That's the thing.

00:41:59.860 Some people.

00:42:00.820 Pokemon from the guy, very important.

00:42:03.460 No.

00:42:03.860 Or, you know, maybe it's his.

00:42:05.060 Is that not like the same thing though?

00:42:06.420 Yeah.

00:42:06.900 I just feel like.

00:42:09.300 What's something guys are into?

00:42:11.780 Like, uh.

00:42:12.740 Pokemon.

00:42:13.140 Magic the gathering.

00:42:13.860 Yeah.

00:42:14.260 Like, he's into hockey.

00:42:16.180 I would have gone to his hockey studio.

00:42:17.620 Like, I think, look, I think nine months.

00:42:19.860 I mean, they're nerds.

00:42:20.660 You gotta be dating for nine months before you can, like.

00:42:23.300 I think, I think it's just the fact that he said that he was gonna go.

00:42:25.940 I don't know.

00:42:26.580 I think it was just that.

00:42:27.620 Down the road.

00:42:28.900 Sorry.

00:42:29.460 Yeah.

00:42:31.300 A baseball game.

00:42:32.580 You, you got, you have to have said I love you before you can take a girl to a baseball 1.00

00:42:37.060 game. 1.00

00:42:38.260 Because that shit's fucking boring. 1.00

00:42:39.700 It's boring for a dude, but taking a girl to a baseball game, she has to be in love with 1.00

00:42:46.020 you before you can take her to a baseball game. 1.00

00:42:48.260 A guy has to be in love with you before you take him to your dance thing. 0.93

00:42:52.340 Why do I have to wait five, six months before I go to a baseball game?

00:42:55.620 That's so basic.

00:42:56.740 That's fun.

00:42:57.620 It's a good date.

00:42:58.340 Have you been to a baseball game?

00:42:59.460 Oh yeah, it's fun.

00:43:00.100 Really?

00:43:00.420 It's not.

00:43:00.980 Have you watched baseball?

00:43:02.500 I've watched, look, I don't.

00:43:04.340 Have you watched the sport of baseball?

00:43:06.740 I don't watch it like that, like on TV.

00:43:08.500 I'll never watch it on TV.

00:43:09.380 But if I'm there, I'm watching it.

00:43:11.860 I'm getting into it.

00:43:13.220 It's fun.

00:43:14.260 But I get what you're saying.

00:43:16.020 You're aware then.

00:43:16.740 Yeah.

00:43:17.060 Okay.

00:43:17.300 Anyways.

00:43:17.700 I'll watch him with banana balls.

00:43:18.900 Hockey's better.

00:43:19.540 Hockey is so fun.

00:43:21.620 Love a good hockey game.

00:43:23.060 I think it's valid though.

00:43:24.260 I don't know.

00:43:24.660 So, okay.

00:43:25.060 You guys are back together or whatever.

00:43:26.980 No, he messaged me last night and I didn't open it until this morning.

00:43:31.460 Good on you.

00:43:32.420 What did it say?

00:43:33.780 What did it say?

00:43:34.900 Because the thing is, I went complete ghost on social media, like just to get a break from

00:43:39.620 everything.

00:43:40.260 And I think he was wondering where I was physically.

00:43:42.660 So he snapchatted me.

00:43:43.860 Wait, you went on a break because of what happened between you and him?

00:43:47.300 Just more so like I work in social media.

00:43:50.100 So it's like, that's like what I do all the time.

00:43:51.860 I haven't had a break since January and like honestly before then.

00:43:54.740 So I was like, let me just take a break from, you know, scrolling, all that stuff.

00:43:58.100 Because I felt like it was mind rotting.

00:44:00.100 So I think he was wondering what he couldn't have, but like, you know, he probably was wondering

00:44:04.820 where I was at.

00:44:05.700 So he snapchatted me and didn't open it until this morning.

00:44:09.140 And I was just in bed.

00:44:10.260 But what about texting?

00:44:11.220 You guys text each other?

00:44:11.860 Because I think he wanted to see where I was actually physically.

00:44:15.060 Oh.

00:44:15.540 So he snapchatted me.

00:44:16.500 If you could, if you could just text me, like I can be anywhere.

00:44:19.700 What did he say?

00:44:20.820 He said that he scraped his elbow because he was skateboarding.

00:44:23.940 And then I just.

00:44:24.980 You guys haven't talked for a week?

00:44:26.420 We haven't talked for a week.

00:44:27.780 How what?

00:44:28.260 He was just looking for an excuse to talk to you.

00:44:30.020 No, there's a game that's being played here.

00:44:32.100 And it's, it progresses into a deeper game.

00:44:35.140 And was he not wearing elbow pads or anything?

00:44:37.860 No.

00:44:38.660 He's a bear.

00:44:41.220 This is the communication that becomes a problem.

00:44:43.540 So you crashed out on him.

00:44:45.700 Yes.

00:44:46.580 Can you explain the crash out?

00:44:48.020 What did that look like?

00:44:49.300 Um, stress.

00:44:50.740 I was crying before I went on stage.

00:44:53.380 I was literally walking over to the stage about to cry.

00:44:55.860 I was on stage completely blacked out.

00:44:58.820 And then, um, I went straight to my phone and I didn't see any notifications from him.

00:45:04.820 And it made me really upset.

00:45:06.580 And I instantly went outside, called him the first time it declined after the second ring.

00:45:11.860 So I was like, oh, is he with another girl?

00:45:14.180 And so, and then I called him again, I called him again and he answered on like the second or third

00:45:20.420 ring and he was like, hey, how are you?

00:45:23.940 And I go, are you okay?

00:45:25.460 And he's like, yeah, I'm okay.

00:45:26.740 Are you okay?

00:45:27.460 And I said, no.

00:45:28.580 And he said, oh.

00:45:29.700 And I said, why didn't you show up?

00:45:31.860 And he goes, because I worked all day.

00:45:33.620 I'm really busy.

00:45:34.420 And I go, you could have told me that you weren't coming way before instead of the time of the show.

00:45:39.460 And he was just like, yeah.

00:45:42.020 And then I was like in the middle of like about to say more things.

00:45:45.940 I was just like, it doesn't sound like it was a crash out, but the things that I had a very much,

00:45:50.500 like you can tell there's anger in my voice.

00:45:52.020 Like there was other things that were said that I like can't even recall.

00:45:54.500 Cause like my brain was just like throw everything out.

00:45:57.700 And he was, and as I was about to say something else, he was like, well, I have a long drive home.

00:46:01.700 And before he could even hang up on me, I hung up on him.

00:46:04.100 And then, yeah.

00:46:05.140 And that was the first time I've ever crashed out on him.

00:46:09.620 Like anger full on.

00:46:11.060 Like, did he, did he understand how important this was?

00:46:15.300 Yes.

00:46:16.100 He definitely knows.

00:46:17.060 I know him like truly.

00:46:18.660 He knows.

00:46:19.220 Block him, sis. 1.00

00:46:20.020 Block him. 0.97

00:46:20.820 No.

00:46:21.620 Look, you can't, you can't block at every moment of conflict.

00:46:24.740 I don't know.

00:46:25.300 It's not realistic.

00:46:26.260 A little bit.

00:46:26.740 Wait, so, but you guys were on the call.

00:46:29.700 You guys were speaking on the phone.

00:46:30.980 Yeah.

00:46:31.860 How was your tone with him?

00:46:32.900 It was.

00:46:34.100 I can't even like reenact it because like, are you okay?

00:46:40.500 Come on.

00:46:41.140 Let's do it.

00:46:41.620 Let it out.

00:46:42.500 Hey, hey babe.

00:46:43.940 Are you okay?

00:46:44.660 I just wanted to see where you're at.

00:46:45.780 I, I fell off my skateboard and I got a boo boo.

00:46:49.780 That was after.

00:46:50.820 That was, no.

00:46:53.620 It was like, I don't even know how to explain it because like, she's heard me angry.

00:46:57.300 Like it.

00:46:58.020 Did she get fiery?

00:46:59.060 I. 0.63

00:46:59.700 Are you a cusser? 0.70

00:47:00.580 It's okay if you want. 0.90

00:47:01.220 Yes, I very much am.

00:47:02.500 I'm like, I, you're passionate.

00:47:05.700 It really depends.

00:47:06.500 So like, I really was trying not to crash on.

00:47:08.740 I was trying to have like a more like calm state, but I was just like, what the, like,

00:47:12.340 what the F like, you know, even through text message, it was like, I don't swear him like

00:47:16.180 nothing.

00:47:16.580 Like it was like, what the F like all this stuff.

00:47:18.500 And that was when I was just like, why didn't the F did you not show up?

00:47:22.020 You know?

00:47:22.340 What did he say in response?

00:47:23.860 He was like, I'm really tired and I've worked all day.

00:47:27.380 I'm really busy.

00:47:28.100 I'm like, oh, well, you're acting weird.

00:47:29.540 And you've been acting weird for the last couple of days, but we were fine this morning.

00:47:33.460 Like, you know, I don't understand.

00:47:35.380 And he's like, I'm just really busy.

00:47:36.580 And then that's when like, I was about to say more things and literally just everything out.

00:47:40.500 The thing is that there's people around me.

00:47:41.780 So I didn't want to look absolutely crazy, crazy because I, you know, I don't want that.

00:47:46.420 But like, that was when he was like, oh, well, I have a long drive.

00:47:50.260 And so that's when I hung up on him before he could say anything else.

00:47:55.380 Yeah, that's valid.

00:47:56.580 That's very valid.

00:47:57.300 Yeah.

00:47:57.700 Well, at the very least, it's very perturbing.

00:47:59.540 Yeah, I felt so bad.

00:48:00.820 It's not perturbing.

00:48:01.540 I would be perturbing.

00:48:02.660 It's not perturbing.

00:48:03.620 This is a minor slight that was blown out of proportion.

00:48:07.700 I will, I will grant that he should have given you more notes.

00:48:11.700 He made a mistake.

00:48:13.460 I think you blew it out of proportion.

00:48:15.380 Then it escalated into full blown catastrophe.

00:48:18.900 It's kind of weird that you guys haven't had a subsequent follow up conversation.

00:48:22.500 We did.

00:48:22.900 We did.

00:48:23.540 We did Friday.

00:48:25.300 Oh, you said you guys had no contact.

00:48:27.140 No, we, no, we had the call.

00:48:28.260 We had the call.

00:48:29.220 No, no, no.

00:48:29.700 That was yesterday.

00:48:30.820 So this was like last week, last, last Thursday.

00:48:33.780 That was the call the next day.

00:48:36.180 Um, he texted me at like 3 PM and I wasn't really expecting him to call me anyway or text

00:48:44.020 me because I was like, okay, well, we both, you know, need that space anyway.

00:48:47.860 And so, and then he texted me and he goes, yeah, like, I just can't do this.

00:48:52.260 Like, it has nothing to do with you.

00:48:53.620 Like, you know, I just can't put, you know, I just can't put the energy and the time.

00:48:56.740 Like, I feel really bad that I can't make anything like at all.

00:49:00.020 Like you get mad at me and it makes me feel bad.

00:49:02.660 So it's just like, I just need to limit all distractions, which is true.

00:49:06.420 He does work a lot.

00:49:07.380 I know he does because we have the same schedule.

00:49:09.700 So that's why it's really hard for us to see each other.

00:49:11.540 So I was like, okay, you know, and I was like, what made you come to this conclusion

00:49:15.540 of like, just wanting to end things?

00:49:17.620 And you, I was like, was it last night?

00:49:19.620 And he was like, it's a lot of things.

00:49:21.780 And he's just like, I'm just not prioritizing my work.

00:49:24.980 I feel like I'm not making it on time to work and all this stuff.

00:49:28.340 I, you know, he got promoted.

00:49:30.020 So congratulations to him.

00:49:32.260 And he was like, I'm going to be traveling all this stuff.

00:49:34.340 And so it was just a lot of conversation.

00:49:37.220 And so I came back calmly, wrote him a whole thing of everything that I had to say.

00:49:40.740 And, you know, I apologized for being really mean to him that night.

00:49:44.580 And I was like, I should have came to you in a different way.

00:49:46.740 I was like, I had a lot of things going on in the back of my mind and I just wanted you there.

00:49:51.220 And so, um, we ended things on a good note in a way, but yeah, his last message was

00:49:56.260 just like, I'm distancing myself from friends, you, everything I need to focus on my career.

00:50:01.700 And I never responded to it.

00:50:04.980 Yeah.

00:50:05.220 It sounds like a breakup, but, um, had you guys hung out earlier that day?

00:50:10.740 No, we saw each other day of the thing.

00:50:12.820 No, we saw each other two Mondays ago.

00:50:15.780 No, two Saturdays ago, actually.

00:50:17.460 Oh, you guys were seeing each other once a week before that.

00:50:19.860 Yeah.

00:50:20.100 So you guys are slowly distancing yourself.

00:50:22.020 Yeah.

00:50:22.500 And we were like, we were already, you know, it was really hard because like,

00:50:25.540 I was out of town, then he was out of town.

00:50:26.980 Then I had to go do this.

00:50:28.340 He had to go do this.

00:50:28.980 So like, we didn't see each other like three weeks before that.

00:50:31.300 Then we saw each other, I think like one or two times before this happened.

00:50:36.500 Uh, you said this, what occurred was perturbing?

00:50:40.740 If I were in her shoes, I'd be perturbed.

00:50:43.700 How do you define perturbed?

00:50:44.820 What is perturbed?

00:50:45.620 Uh, perturbed being, uh, irritated, annoyed, bothered by the situation.

00:50:50.820 Perturbed.

00:50:51.300 Let me Google this.

00:50:52.100 I feel like you're underselling it.

00:50:54.420 That's right.

00:50:57.700 Come on, Miriam Webster. 0.66

00:50:59.700 Pull through.

00:51:00.260 Perturbed.

00:51:01.540 Okay.

00:51:01.860 Unsettled.

00:51:03.860 I thought there was a bit more gravitas to perturbed.

00:51:07.220 Do you think it was abusive?

00:51:08.980 No.

00:51:09.220 Do you think it was abusive what he did?

00:51:10.340 No.

00:51:11.060 Okay.

00:51:11.380 Just checking. 0.98

00:51:12.020 Just, just a dick move. 1.00

00:51:13.780 Dick move. 1.00

00:51:14.340 Yeah. 0.99

00:51:14.820 I think it's a dick move to invite a guy to a dance recital. 0.58

00:51:17.700 Come on now. 0.97

00:51:18.900 Of course you would.

00:51:19.220 It's really fun though.

00:51:20.420 Like, I've been.

00:51:20.980 It's fun?

00:51:21.460 She doesn't dance. 1.00

00:51:22.340 Yeah, they're so fun.

00:51:22.740 She doesn't dance. 1.00

00:51:23.460 The stories they tell.

00:51:24.340 I've been to stories.

00:51:25.860 It's so good.

00:51:27.060 Have they ever been to one?

00:51:27.940 Guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:51:29.220 One person speaking at a time.

00:51:31.060 Go ahead.

00:51:31.300 It's not like a normal dance recital, like with ballet.

00:51:34.020 Like, it's like more hip hop.

00:51:35.940 It's fun.

00:51:36.500 It's kind of like watching Step Up.

00:51:38.180 Yeah.

00:51:38.340 I get, oh, wow.

00:51:39.380 Like the Step Up.

00:51:40.260 Oh, Step Up?

00:51:40.980 Yeah.

00:51:41.220 It's like the movie Step Up, like that type of dance.

00:51:43.620 It's like fun.

00:51:44.260 Do you think guys like that?

00:51:45.060 Is it like sexual?

00:51:46.020 Straight guys go all the time. 0.99

00:51:47.940 Yes.

00:51:48.500 Like there are so many straight guys there.

00:51:50.260 I mean, they're straight guys.

00:51:52.100 They are.

00:51:52.660 Like there's straight guys on the team.

00:51:54.580 Like this is where like it's professional dance.

00:51:56.980 Like the people that go on tour with artists.

00:51:58.900 If you're not a straight guy and if you're not a dancer.

00:52:02.020 He does like watching dance though.

00:52:03.780 Like I'll be scrolling.

00:52:04.740 He's like, this is really cool.

00:52:06.020 Like he wants to learn.

00:52:07.220 Like he wants to learn.

00:52:08.260 Oh my God.

00:52:08.900 No.

00:52:09.140 No.

00:52:09.780 No.

00:52:10.260 Like breakdance.

00:52:11.620 Guys are generally not interested in this.

00:52:14.020 He is though.

00:52:14.980 He, that's how we bonded too.

00:52:16.580 Has it.

00:52:17.540 Okay.

00:52:18.100 Let me ask a super simple question.

00:52:19.460 Do guys lie?

00:52:20.100 A lot, but not, not like this.

00:52:22.420 And if a guy wants to sleep with a woman, do they often lie to get laid?

00:52:28.900 Like, look, I'll put it super simply.

00:52:31.140 Have you ever liked a guy, but he had a particular interest that, uh, you really liked him, but

00:52:36.900 his interest, you weren't super interested in it, but you feigned a level of like, oh,

00:52:43.300 that's cool.

00:52:43.940 But you're like deep down, you're like, eh, not really that interested, but you're, you're 0.96

00:52:47.300 not going to like be a dick about it. 0.97

00:52:49.380 Nobody. 0.98

00:52:49.780 No, I told him straight up.

00:52:50.900 Okay.

00:52:51.780 Well then fine.

00:52:53.060 All women are perfect. 0.99

00:52:54.180 Men, women never flatter men in any capacity. 0.93

00:52:59.220 Uh, men, absolutely.

00:53:01.460 Like as a guy, you're not gonna, you're not gonna, oh, you're a dancer.

00:53:08.660 Wow.

00:53:09.220 I have zero interest in that as a guy.

00:53:11.380 You're going to be like, oh my God, that's really cool.

00:53:13.140 What kind of dance do you do? 0.93

00:53:14.100 Oh, that's so sick.

00:53:15.140 That's fair. 1.00

00:53:16.020 Guys are not going to be like shit on your hobby or your passion. 0.99

00:53:20.020 Yeah. 0.99

00:53:20.580 Because it's going to tank their chances.

00:53:23.220 Yeah.

00:53:24.580 So truth be told, your boyfriend or guy you're seeing or whatever, or why I guess you guys

00:53:28.740 are broken up now, uh, probably has like next to no interest in dance.

00:53:32.980 He's just like interested in you and he's feigning interest in dance.

00:53:36.820 So when you guys say straight guys have interest in dance, no, it's because you guys like dance

00:53:40.900 and the guys are going to be like, straight guys like dance.

00:53:42.820 No straight, like straight guys are not like, oh, wow.

00:53:49.620 I'm going to go to a dance thing.

00:53:50.900 What?

00:53:51.140 No.

00:53:51.620 They just want to build stuff and geek out over things.

00:53:54.340 And knock it down.

00:53:55.300 Yeah.

00:53:55.700 Yeah.

00:53:56.420 It's normal.

00:53:58.900 Anyways, um, sorry to break the news to you.

00:54:06.980 I think it's on its way.

00:54:08.100 Yeah.

00:54:08.420 Um, anyways, whatever.

00:54:11.860 All right.

00:54:12.340 We got moving on, but thank you for sharing all that.

00:54:14.500 You were very open with all that.

00:54:15.700 I appreciate it.

00:54:16.740 You know what?

00:54:17.300 There's a lot of guys who do dance though.

00:54:18.980 Maybe all dancers hit her up. 1.00

00:54:20.900 Wait, you wouldn't date the dance guy?

00:54:22.180 I won't.

00:54:22.980 Oh, what's wrong with the dance?

00:54:23.860 Absolutely. 0.99

00:54:24.420 They're gay. 0.99

00:54:24.820 No, no, no, no. 0.98

00:54:26.500 It's literally because like you could, they could be dancing with another girl and I don't want

00:54:29.540 that.

00:54:29.700 Like it's like, but you could be dancing with another guy.

00:54:33.620 It's just like, I don't want to feel like I'm competing with my person like at all.

00:54:37.140 No, I don't.

00:54:38.500 Don't you dance with other guys?

00:54:39.460 It's a double standard.

00:54:40.260 That's okay.

00:54:40.660 But then why would, then wouldn't it be the case that a guy could dance and not dance with

00:54:44.660 other women? 1.00

00:54:48.420 I just wouldn't want to date a dancer. 0.81

00:54:50.020 I've tried.

00:54:50.740 It's terrible.

00:54:53.380 Everyone knows each other.

00:54:54.500 Like, it's like, oh, well, I don't want to go to that class.

00:54:56.420 Cause they're going to be there.

00:54:57.220 Like I've been through that.

00:54:58.900 I've never seen a male breakdance or dance with women. 0.99

00:55:01.700 Have you?

00:55:02.820 I've like, that's not the way you're referring.

00:55:05.460 Yeah, I don't think, I don't know.

00:55:07.780 Well, I guess there's different forms of dance.

00:55:09.380 Yeah, there's different forms.

00:55:10.020 I've lost dance classes because of the guys I've been dating.

00:55:12.180 I understand.

00:55:12.900 What's wrong?

00:55:13.620 What's wrong with the guys who do dance?

00:55:15.620 Well, no, sometimes they're, sometimes they're like really weird or like, or like some dancer

00:55:20.500 guys are like one of those guys who dance with every girl and they're like, they're just

00:55:23.940 my friend.

00:55:24.340 They're just my friend.

00:55:25.380 But like, yeah, big ego because they're like, oh, I can dance.

00:55:30.340 I can pop lock.

00:55:31.220 And it's like, okay, like trying to compete with.

00:55:33.460 Yeah.

00:55:34.100 It stops being there.

00:55:35.380 I'd rather not be.

00:55:36.340 And it starts to be a competition.

00:55:38.740 That's tricky.

00:55:39.540 Yeah.

00:55:40.020 Same career as your partner can be tricky.

00:55:42.420 Oh, and he was a car.

00:55:43.380 He's a car.

00:55:43.940 He does cars stuff.

00:55:45.220 He works.

00:55:45.700 He works with a car company.

00:55:47.060 I'm not going to say the name.

00:55:48.020 Yeah, that's fine.

00:55:49.300 But he does a lot of things.

00:55:50.420 He does a lot of things to make money.

00:55:51.940 Like he, wait, is it like car sales, car maintenance, uh, car sales, car sales.

00:55:57.060 Yeah.

00:55:58.020 Like a car guy to go to a dance, a hip hop, jazz dance thing.

00:56:04.580 What were you thinking? 0.99

00:56:05.620 Of course, this was a fucking catastrophe waiting to happen. 1.00

00:56:09.060 Of course. 0.99

00:56:09.620 I just wanted support.

00:56:10.820 This was a, this was a train wreck waiting to happen.

00:56:15.060 Save that, you know, save it like a year down the road.

00:56:18.660 Yeah.

00:56:18.900 You got to wait a little bit.

00:56:19.860 Okay.

00:56:20.260 I think it's too soon to, to get the guy to go the dance thing.

00:56:23.940 Did you expect it to be a train wreck kind of pre expect it?

00:56:28.740 I was mentally prepared for it.

00:56:30.580 So it kind of turned out the way you expect it almost.

00:56:33.140 So it kind of.

00:56:34.180 Yeah.

00:56:34.580 Yeah.

00:56:36.020 Did you go to any of his car things?

00:56:38.020 He doesn't have any.

00:56:38.980 Okay.

00:56:39.380 He's got nothing.

00:56:40.100 Yeah, he just works.

00:56:42.900 No, you go up to the lot where he works.

00:56:44.500 You're like, I'm looking to buy a car and like, listen to a sales pitch.

00:56:49.620 Okay.

00:56:49.780 And then give him some pointers.

00:56:51.700 You probably love that.

00:56:52.500 You're not doing that.

00:56:55.300 No, don't do that.

00:56:56.260 Don't do that.

00:56:58.260 All right.

00:56:58.660 What about you?

00:56:59.460 Relationship status?

00:57:00.660 So I am currently single.

00:57:02.740 I've been single for about six months now.

00:57:06.260 My longest relationship, you know, I too am in Gen Z and have fallen victim to situationships.

00:57:13.620 I had a situationship on and off for about three years.

00:57:16.900 We officially dated for about a year.

00:57:19.780 Um, yeah, that's, that was my longest relationship.

00:57:23.060 Sorry, you said a year?

00:57:25.300 Three years on and off.

00:57:27.460 One year official with the girlfriend title.

00:57:32.260 Okay.

00:57:32.580 Who broke up with who?

00:57:34.900 I broke up with her.

00:57:37.300 Oh, okay.

00:57:38.020 Dun, dun.

00:57:38.580 With?

00:57:38.900 Dun, dun.

00:57:39.540 Woman. 0.99

00:57:40.420 Okay, so you're bisexual. 0.91

00:57:41.140 I am bisexual.

00:57:41.860 Okay, I see.

00:57:42.740 But I will say that I believe it was mutual.

00:57:46.740 Have you ever had a long-term relationship with a guy?

00:57:49.620 Yeah, about a year.

00:57:50.740 Um, but you know, I am young.

00:57:54.100 I'm only 20, so that was back in high school, and how real can that be?

00:57:58.420 You know, it's kind of like puppy love, and I still give it its credit and its flowers.

00:58:03.460 It felt very real, but it's different when, you know, you're an adult and you have a career

00:58:08.020 and job and school and so many other factors to think about.

00:58:11.300 Okay.

00:58:12.020 Do you have a, do you lean more so one way?

00:58:14.900 Or is it like 50-50?

00:58:15.620 So I don't.

00:58:16.180 I get that question super often as a bisexual girl.

00:58:19.380 Um, it honestly changes based on who I'm interested in of the season.

00:58:25.700 If I'm, if I have a crush on a girl, then I obviously feel more gay. 0.84

00:58:29.460 If I crush, if I have a crush on a guy, then I feel straighter.

00:58:32.340 So I would say that I'm pretty 50-50.

00:58:35.140 Um, yeah, it kind of just depends who I'm interested in at that current time of life.

00:58:41.140 Okay, cool.

00:58:42.020 What about you?

00:58:42.500 Um, my relationship status is single.

00:58:45.860 It's very cut and dry.

00:58:46.820 There's never been a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

00:58:50.340 Um, and probably for the foreseeable future as I finished my last year of high school.

00:58:56.020 Keep it that way.

00:58:56.660 Good for you.

00:58:57.300 Priorities.

00:58:57.780 Grind.

00:58:58.180 And nothing.

00:58:59.860 Nothing.

00:59:00.580 There's been nothing.

00:59:01.460 No dates.

00:59:02.340 I've never gone a movie.

00:59:03.220 Never even held a guy's hand?

00:59:04.580 Yes.

00:59:04.820 I brought that up last episode.

00:59:06.260 I never even held a guy's hand.

00:59:07.780 Okay.

00:59:08.260 Never had my first kiss.

00:59:09.780 Good for you.

00:59:10.580 Purity.

00:59:11.060 Aw.

00:59:11.540 There's, there's many firsts to go.

00:59:13.300 Love purity.

00:59:13.540 Are you going to college?

00:59:14.420 All right.

00:59:14.820 It's actually a blessing.

00:59:17.060 Are you going to college?

00:59:19.940 What about you?

00:59:20.900 Um, I am single.

00:59:22.820 Um, my longest relationship was about five years on and off throughout high school.

00:59:29.220 Um, how many times on and off?

00:59:32.260 How many times on and off?

00:59:33.060 Like twice.

00:59:34.260 How long have you been single for?

00:59:35.300 Um, since April.

00:59:37.220 So I've been single for about like a couple months now.

00:59:41.060 Sure.

00:59:42.260 Was that the five year one?

00:59:43.860 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:59:45.620 No, the five year one ended in 2022.

00:59:48.500 2022.

00:59:49.220 Yeah.

00:59:50.580 Oh, in 2022, you were 18 then.

00:59:52.820 Yes, I was.

00:59:53.860 So this was like a junior high, high school.

00:59:56.100 Yes, it was.

00:59:57.380 Okay.

00:59:58.580 Uh, five year.

01:00:00.420 Yes.

01:00:00.660 We were engaged.

01:00:01.460 High school.

01:00:02.180 You were what?

01:00:02.820 We were engaged.

01:00:03.540 Oh, you were engaged.

01:00:04.260 Yeah.

01:00:04.740 Uh, male or female?

01:00:05.700 Uh, male.

01:00:06.980 Okay.

01:00:07.300 Are you bi?

01:00:07.940 Yes, I am.

01:00:08.820 All right.

01:00:09.300 Are you pan or bi?

01:00:10.580 I'm bi.

01:00:11.780 I didn't know you were engaged.

01:00:13.860 I'm sorry to interrupt you, but she's my friend.

01:00:16.260 You're fine.

01:00:16.660 You know, what's funny is that I was wearing the engagement ring the other day.

01:00:19.060 I'm so dead.

01:00:20.180 I wear it all the time.

01:00:21.780 It's the one I always wear on my finger.

01:00:23.060 I'm not wearing it right now because it's getting cleaned.

01:00:26.660 I've told you about that.

01:00:27.940 My bad.

01:00:29.620 He bought an engagement ring?

01:00:31.380 Yeah.

01:00:32.020 You didn't give it back?

01:00:32.740 No.

01:00:33.460 Why would you?

01:00:34.340 I wouldn't give it back either.

01:00:36.180 I mean, technically.

01:00:37.300 I still talk to him.

01:00:38.100 We're still friends.

01:00:38.740 He has a wife now.

01:00:40.740 Well, actually, technically, legally speaking, engagement rings.

01:00:44.660 Are they supposed to be given back?

01:00:45.700 Well, I mean, if they don't press it, like they do have a legal claim to getting it back.

01:00:52.100 Okay.

01:00:52.580 He never asked.

01:00:53.380 But if he, he's like, whatever.

01:00:54.740 Yeah, that's kind of embarrassing.

01:00:56.020 Yeah.

01:00:56.500 He never, well, he never asked for it back.

01:00:58.660 Why would it be embarrassing?

01:00:59.300 If the engagement's off, who cares?

01:01:00.900 Because what are you going to do with the ring?

01:01:02.740 I'm just kidding.

01:01:03.620 What are you going to do with the ring?

01:01:04.580 Like, are you going to give it to another woman? 0.95

01:01:05.860 Return it.

01:01:06.340 If I was another woman and I found out you gave me an engagement or you gave to some other 0.98

01:01:10.340 person, I don't know if we could get married.

01:01:12.020 I'd feel a little like second choice.

01:01:13.540 Chocolate.

01:01:13.940 I agree with them.

01:01:14.580 All right.

01:01:14.900 Yeah.

01:01:15.220 And you said you've been single for three months.

01:01:18.180 So were you, what was the thing three months ago?

01:01:20.340 Just short term or?

01:01:21.300 Um, it was, it, you could call it short term.

01:01:24.660 Um, some stuff happened.

01:01:26.420 Like we got together like a little bit before my birthday, which is in March.

01:01:31.140 And then he got into a motorcycle accident and yeah.

01:01:35.300 I was like, which one is she talking about?

01:01:37.220 Yeah.

01:01:39.300 And he like broke his pelvis, his shoulder and like his legs.

01:01:45.700 And like, I went to visit him in the hospital.

01:01:48.500 We had a couple instances in the hospital where like things got a little heated and we had

01:01:53.620 some miscommunication and then he ended up like getting out the hospital.

01:01:57.700 He was really distant and then he ended up breaking up with me kind of abruptly.

01:02:02.820 It wasn't, I wouldn't call it a like good breakup only because like the, when he broke

01:02:08.580 up with me, he texted me and was like, I can't do this anymore.

01:02:11.620 Wait, how long are you guys together?

01:02:12.980 We were together for like a month, but like I, but like I've known, but like I've known

01:02:17.300 him for like years.

01:02:18.180 Oh.

01:02:18.740 So like, so like I wasn't mad that he broke up with me, nothing like that.

01:02:21.780 Like, I wasn't like mad at that.

01:02:22.980 I was mad that like after he texted me, he was like, I want to call you to like do it

01:02:28.100 officially over the phone.

01:02:29.060 I think you deserve more than that.

01:02:30.660 And I was like, cool.

01:02:31.380 So I call him.

01:02:32.260 He's like, I'm on the phone with my mom.

01:02:33.860 I'll call you back after the like day goes by.

01:02:36.660 I text him like, Hey, when are we going to call?

01:02:38.820 He's like, Oh, I can call you at 9 PM.

01:02:40.660 And at this time it's like a 9 AM.

01:02:42.900 So I'm like, okay, call me at 9 PM.

01:02:45.060 9 PM comes around.

01:02:47.060 Never calls me.

01:02:48.100 I text him nothing the next day.

01:02:50.660 I'm like, Hey, I'm not mad at you that you couldn't call me or anything, but please

01:02:55.140 don't dedicate yourself to something that you're not going to follow through on.

01:02:58.260 Like, I just don't appreciate that.

01:02:59.940 And then he texted me like this whole long thing about how like, he doesn't owe me anything

01:03:05.300 and that he doesn't want to cater to me and that I'm probably cheating on him.

01:03:09.380 It was like this really like big thing for no reason.

01:03:12.820 And then he was like, you made a big mistake.

01:03:14.500 I'm just so confused.

01:03:16.100 Cause wasn't he trying to call you to like talk about your breakup?

01:03:21.940 I don't know.

01:03:22.180 I remember showing you those texts and you were just like, yeah, I don't miss this one.

01:03:26.420 Yeah.

01:03:26.580 We don't miss.

01:03:26.980 Wait.

01:03:27.220 So you guys were together for a month, but you'd known each other for friends or like

01:03:33.940 friends.

01:03:34.340 Yeah.

01:03:35.140 Okay.

01:03:35.460 And he initially texted you the breakup message, but then he wanted to do a phone call.

01:03:41.540 Yeah.

01:03:41.940 When you say you knew each other beforehand though, what was the extent?

01:03:45.220 Um, we met on like a set for one of his like short films that he was doing and we just like

01:03:51.460 connected and like became like really close friends from that.

01:03:54.260 When you say close friends, what does that mean?

01:03:55.780 Like kind of hooking up, but also we're friends like we're hooking up, but like, you know,

01:04:03.220 we're still homies.

01:04:05.700 And then it was official for one month though.

01:04:07.940 Yeah.

01:04:08.340 He like, so from the point of the first time you hooked up to the point of when it became

01:04:13.300 official, how long was that?

01:04:14.580 Like a year.

01:04:16.260 A year?

01:04:16.820 Yeah.

01:04:18.340 So you guys were hooking up for a year.

01:04:20.020 About.

01:04:21.700 But you said you were only with him for a month.

01:04:23.540 Yes, sir.

01:04:24.100 Officially.

01:04:24.820 Officially.

01:04:25.460 I mean, I would count.

01:04:26.260 That's important.

01:04:26.580 I would count that whole year, but.

01:04:30.580 I wouldn't count that whole year.

01:04:32.340 Cause we didn't go on dates that entire year.

01:04:34.260 Like I feel like boyfriend, girlfriend, you're going on dates.

01:04:37.860 Yeah.

01:04:38.180 It was more, I would say it's friends with benefits.

01:04:40.340 Cause it's not like, it's not like we were going on dates and like.

01:04:44.340 What's the incentive?

01:04:46.900 Cause you said, well, you weren't going on dates.

01:04:49.780 If the guy is getting the hookup.

01:04:52.820 Like, like, like.

01:04:53.620 What is the incentive to then transition into taking a girl out on dates after he's like,

01:05:01.620 he's already getting the sex.

01:05:03.860 I just don't understand. 0.87

01:05:04.660 I just don't understand.

01:05:04.740 Like.

01:05:04.980 He just really likes me.

01:05:06.420 I guess.

01:05:07.700 I think some of you guys want a more emotional connection.

01:05:11.300 Yeah. 0.98

01:05:11.780 Some guys just want sex. 0.83

01:05:12.820 Some people want a person though. 0.76

01:05:14.660 Yes.

01:05:14.980 Someone they can't provide.

01:05:15.700 So that gives it.

01:05:16.740 Cause I was about to say you guys were only together for a month.

01:05:21.860 A text is, is what's a vice.

01:05:24.580 What's a vice.

01:05:25.140 I think a text is fine.

01:05:25.940 Yeah. 1.00

01:05:26.340 But you've been fucking. 1.00

01:05:29.860 You've been fucking for a year. 1.00

01:05:31.780 That's probably, uh, like phone call or in person territory. 0.99

01:05:36.820 Although at least maybe the, I want the panel to weigh in on this.

01:05:40.740 I kind of think even if it's been a year or two, just do a text.

01:05:46.900 Yeah.

01:05:47.060 I was personally.

01:05:48.100 What do you guys think?

01:05:48.980 I just a text.

01:05:49.860 I, I think it's circumstantial because we all live very busy lives.

01:05:54.580 Like sometimes I'm not going to be in the same city as my partner.

01:05:57.540 And maybe our time is wrapping up.

01:05:59.540 I would rather not string them along or them not string me along.

01:06:03.140 And it's just, if we're not feeling any type of way, let's just rip the bandaid off.

01:06:07.380 I do see the element of respect in trying to have an in-person conversation, but I also

01:06:12.660 feel like our generation tries to force closure.

01:06:15.860 Like sometimes things are just over and that can just be a text and we can all move on.

01:06:20.340 Yeah.

01:06:21.780 Yes.

01:06:22.180 Yeah.

01:06:22.580 Yeah.

01:06:22.900 And I think that, uh, I mean, me personally, at least from my, if a girl is breaking up with

01:06:30.740 me, I think even if I've been dating her for two years, I'm okay with the text.

01:06:36.100 I'd be okay with the text.

01:06:38.340 Now, if I had other further questions, I would appreciate, but I'd probably just be like,

01:06:43.540 okay with the text message.

01:06:45.140 Be like, all right, whatever.

01:06:46.580 This isn't working out.

01:06:47.780 Sorry.

01:06:48.100 I think in-person is better for me.

01:06:50.420 Why even bite?

01:06:50.900 You know what I mean?

01:06:51.540 Yeah.

01:06:51.700 It's like, if the relationship's coming to an end, why is a conversation even necessary?

01:06:55.220 Especially given the circumstances of like, he just got out the hospital.

01:06:59.540 It's like one of those things of like, okay, that I can definitely understand why you're

01:07:02.900 like, you're still learning to like walk.

01:07:04.740 You're doing PT.

01:07:05.700 You have stuff that you have to do.

01:07:07.540 Yeah, exactly.

01:07:08.420 And it, like for me, I wasn't mad that he sent the text.

01:07:11.060 I was mad that he said he wanted to call and then ghosted me all day and then didn't

01:07:15.540 do the call.

01:07:16.180 Like he said he was going to.

01:07:17.380 I guess the breakup was probably a good thing. 1.00

01:07:19.220 Yeah, it was just like, I was just, I was just mad that he insisted on this stupid call 0.99

01:07:24.340 and then didn't do it. 1.00

01:07:25.300 Shoulder get off the pot, bro.

01:07:26.740 Yeah.

01:07:27.060 Like, like, okay, you already texted me.

01:07:28.660 What do you want to call for?

01:07:30.580 I'm surprised none of you are actually giving me more pushback on my been dating for two

01:07:34.820 years.

01:07:36.100 Because sometimes it's just the text.

01:07:37.220 Text message is okay.

01:07:38.740 I mean, no, I don't think it's okay.

01:07:41.140 Yeah.

01:07:41.620 Is it about this?

01:07:42.500 Yeah.

01:07:43.060 Okay.

01:07:43.700 But like, what if you get the text and they're like, yeah, I just want to be friends.

01:07:48.420 And then they try and like hook up with you.

01:07:50.660 Do you feel you can be friends with your ex?

01:07:52.180 Does it really end?

01:07:53.220 No, it's over.

01:07:54.340 I know.

01:07:54.660 I agree.

01:07:55.060 It's over.

01:07:55.620 Yeah.

01:07:55.860 Cause I, I don't, I don't feel that way either.

01:07:58.020 You know, I understand having this emotional connection to your ex, but I don't know.

01:08:04.500 I've tried to do the whole being friends with your exes thing, but it never works.

01:08:08.740 Someone always like feels more emotionally invested than the other person.

01:08:12.660 And it's just, I don't know, Tara, yummy and Jake Weber.

01:08:15.060 I don't know how you guys do it, but I, I don't think that it's

01:08:18.340 super sustainable, honestly.

01:08:21.380 And that's, that's the thing too, with the whole like text message thing.

01:08:25.140 The reason I'm okay with the text message when we're ending our romantic relationship

01:08:28.740 is because I can look back on our romantic relationship with so much fondness.

01:08:33.300 But when that chapter is over, you know, I'm onto the next book.

01:08:38.420 If, if our story is over, I don't know.

01:08:40.580 I don't, I feel like I'm trying to force it.

01:08:43.060 If I continue to try to be friends with my ex, because you have all that history and

01:08:46.500 those memories, I don't know me personally.

01:08:49.140 I don't think maybe we can be acquaintances.

01:08:52.020 Like if we worked together on like different sets, like that's totally cool.

01:08:55.220 But I don't, I don't think I could truly be good friends with an ex.

01:08:58.980 I mean, I think it should be, things should be amicable.

01:09:01.620 Like it shouldn't be if possible, but I'm not keeping tabs on them.

01:09:06.980 Yeah.

01:09:07.380 We're not hanging out.

01:09:08.340 We're not kicking it as friends.

01:09:10.660 Clean cut.

01:09:11.380 It's over.

01:09:11.940 Totally.

01:09:12.500 But going back really quick to the, the texting as a breakup measure, uh, a little surprised

01:09:18.500 here because I've, I've heard a lot of women say they, they want to have that conversation, 1.00

01:09:23.220 maybe more so if the woman's the one getting dumped than if they're doing the dumping. 1.00

01:09:27.620 Um, I pride myself in, you know, I have many positive traits, characteristics, uh, many,

01:09:34.820 many, uh, one of which I'm very humble, humility, uh, but I did think of a unique trait that I do have.

01:09:44.340 I'm, uh, I'm very easy to break up with.

01:09:49.060 Interesting.

01:09:49.460 Kind of like a, uh, you know, a weird one kind of, I'm very easy to break up with because,

01:09:56.420 uh, you know, whether it's been one, two, three dates or we've been dating one, two, three years,

01:10:01.940 uh, you know, cause look, some women might have like safety concerns with a guy they're seeing. 1.00

01:10:08.100 Oh, what is he? Is he going to kill me or some shit? Uh, you know, what the fuck? Is he going 0.99

01:10:14.420 to be angry? So, you know, sometimes some men can be scary, but look, to be clear, most men,

01:10:21.460 you break up with them, it's going to be fine. But like, maybe you guys have had a situation

01:10:26.180 where even like a guy you've been on one date, two dates, three dates with, they lose their 1.00

01:10:30.500 fucking mind. Absolutely. They lose their mind. And you know, it's weird. I've had this experience 1.00

01:10:34.820 with women where I tell them and I, I try not to ghost. I try not to ghost. Although sometimes I,

01:10:40.580 why are you laughing, Nick? What the fuck? I try, but I, I actually, you know, I've had experiences 1.00

01:10:46.820 where I'm like, ah, I should have ghosted because I try to do the right thing. You try to do the right

01:10:52.580 thing. And you're like, you know what? I'm a, I'm a caller. I'm gonna do it in person or out to send a

01:10:57.300 text. And I'm always very polite. I'm like, you know, Hey, listen, uh, it was really nice meeting you.

01:11:03.060 I just don't think we really connected. I didn't, I don't know if it was the right,

01:11:06.500 right match. I wish you nothing but the best, super polite. And they lose their fucking mind,

01:11:13.220 lose their mind. And they could just be like the previous text they sent me was, 1.00

01:11:17.620 I had such a great time with you. I want to see you again, blah, blah, blah. And then they,

01:11:22.740 then they're like, you're a fucking piece of shit. I didn't even want to be with you anyway. 1.00

01:11:26.580 You're fucking ugly, blah, blah, all this shit, right? I'm like, what the fuck? I was trying to be the 1.00

01:11:30.100 nice guy. Do the, not ghost you. Right. And then I, I do the thing and then they lose their mind and

01:11:37.460 they, they use it and then they'll push. They'll be like, well, why do you want to stop seeing me?

01:11:44.260 No, but I'm like, look, listen, um, I have made my mind up. Right.

01:11:49.460 Uh, I don't really want to like dive into it. Sometimes I'll tell them. Yeah. Sometimes I'll tell

01:11:54.340 them. If it's, but if it's something that's going to hurt their feelings, it's like, you know,

01:12:00.980 like if it's something about the way they look,

01:12:04.100 they're like, that's going to give them like long-term insecurity. I'm not going to say it,

01:12:12.980 but if it's just something like, oh no, uh, you watch the Kardashians or something. I don't know,

01:12:18.820 something stupid like that. You should disclose in the text message. Hey, I could have ghosted you, 1.00

01:12:23.380 but I'm doing a really nice thing. Oh God. That's perfect. That is exactly what I would do.

01:12:30.020 I don't know. I tried to, uh, if they push it, but no good deed goes unpunished.

01:12:35.460 It's true. It's true. But I've had girls lose it. Yeah. They lose it. 1.00

01:12:41.300 And, uh, so sometimes I think I'm kind of like, you know, ghosting is sometimes valid,

01:12:45.860 especially for women. Sometimes y'all have likes this guy could be crazy. Yeah. I can see that.

01:12:51.700 In some situations, I think ghosting is acceptable. I think you can, at the very least,

01:12:57.140 if you send a clear cut breakup text message or you want to end things message, you've been on one,

01:13:02.260 two, three dates with this person, whatever. Oh yeah. You send a polite message and they push it.

01:13:07.300 I think then once you've made a clear bound, you, you, not a boundary, but you've made it pretty clear,

01:13:11.940 like, Hey, this is over. I think you can ghost from there. If they're trying to push for an argument.

01:13:19.220 Um, so also wait, I had something for this. Uh, but yeah, I'm very easy to break up with. The girl can 0.99

01:13:25.460 say, uh, Brian, I, you know, I don't think, you know, it's not, not the fit. I'll just be like,

01:13:32.740 okay. I guess that comes from experience. It's nice meeting you. So, you know, it's like when I

01:13:39.300 was younger, I'd probably just not even respond. That's kind of a dick move, but yeah. Um, you 0.94

01:13:44.260 know what? She's ending things. What? I don't, I don't know her. Uh, yeah, you don't, no, you don't

01:13:47.860 know her or her if she's ending things. Yeah, no, it's fair. Rose garden. Yeah. But if I've been

01:13:52.100 dating her for a while for sending me a text. All right. Sometimes you try to end things and then they

01:13:58.260 show up at your job and then they, you can definitely smell alcohol on their breath because

01:14:03.460 yikes, you know, they didn't even like, you know, lock up their bike properly. And then,

01:14:07.620 you know, you're trying to like, Hey, like you're being a little loud. I mean, you know,

01:14:10.660 you try to call the police and you're like, yoink. And then they break your phone right over their

01:14:15.220 knee. Wow. That happened to me last week, but it can happen. Sometimes it does. Sounds very

01:14:26.020 hyper-specific. I might be a bit bummed out, you know, but yeah. Yeah. I'll just be like,

01:14:32.980 I'm not going to lose it. I'm just going to be like, all right, well, uh, Hey, it was, uh,

01:14:36.580 I understand. It was nice meeting you. Yeah. But it's not going further. You have to detach.

01:14:40.580 I understand that. It's a great quality to have. You're easy to, I look for that in a woman. 0.99

01:14:45.460 Yeah. Cause I want some stock or like I break up with a girl and I feel trapped in the relationship.

01:14:50.260 Cause I'm like, Oh shit. She's going to like, and I kind of wonder if you break up in person, 0.93

01:14:54.660 if it kind of leaves the door open, that's what I was going to say. Because when you're breaking up

01:15:00.100 in person, you're seeing facial cues, all these, like even kind of the hint of maybe it can kind of

01:15:05.460 work out. You just don't know. Hold on. I am. Wait, wait, but I've always broken up with my exes

01:15:10.420 in person. I just find it as a respect factor, especially two years of a relationship. I'm not

01:15:15.380 cold like that. If I, but if I sent a text to a girl who I've been seeing for two years,

01:15:20.820 I think she'd justifiably be upset if there's a text, but I think maybe what I, what everybody

01:15:26.820 could do, if you're okay with the text, like first date, be like, by the way, if this ends up

01:15:33.140 working, I give you permission to just dump me over text message. I don't need to like,

01:15:42.180 I don't want to go meet you at the mall. So you can just, I don't want to drive to the mall to

01:15:46.500 be broken up with. Just text me. Literally don't waste my time. When it comes to breaking up in

01:15:52.580 person, I actually, you know what? The best sex is don't break up with me sex. So I might 0.96

01:16:00.020 have to reconsider mine. It's very earnest. I've done that. I disagree. Gentlemen, if you're

01:16:06.260 considering breaking up with a girl, maybe do it in person because she might be like,

01:16:11.460 you might get a last little something, something. I feel like it could be awkward.

01:16:14.740 The best sex is don't break up with me sex. Oh God. Trust me. That's kind of fun. I mean, 0.99

01:16:19.460 that'll do it. Just start to choke them. Yeah. I'm into that. Sorry. 0.97

01:16:25.460 If you've categorically attracted not so good guys, aggressive alcoholics or something kind of crazy,

01:16:32.180 they might have a crazy streak. I can understand some distance. In my case, I've never attracted

01:16:36.980 bad guys. You know, they were fundamentally good guys, but just not for me at the time.

01:16:41.780 So it's just a respect factor for me. I understand. All right. I'm trying to think if there's anything

01:16:48.020 else on the, uh, ghosting thing and breaking up. No, I think that's pretty much it. Um,

01:16:53.700 relationship status. Uh, I am currently engaged to my fiance of, uh, six years. It'll be six years

01:17:03.540 this week. Um, yeah. You've been together six years total. Yeah. We were, we met, uh, in college.

01:17:10.820 We met on Tinder. Um, what a love story. Yeah. Uh, we did a situationship for about a year and then

01:17:17.620 made it official almost a year to the day. So this is your longest relationship. Yes.

01:17:22.180 Any other relationships besides this one? I had one in high school. I was a junior

01:17:27.300 in high school. We were together for about two years. Um, after I graduated, we decided to end

01:17:32.020 things just because we're going to college and I didn't want to do long distance relationship.

01:17:36.900 All right. What about you? Um, I am married. Um, we've been together nine years

01:17:45.060 and we've been married for eight.

01:17:49.060 We, is this your longest relationship? Yeah. That's my longest relationship. Second longest,

01:17:53.540 I think would be actually with my first son's father. I have two boys. Um,

01:17:59.540 okay. That was a shit show. Wait, so you have two kids? Yes. Two sons, two sons, 1.00

01:18:04.820 one from your, you said first marriage or first relationship? Well, he did propose.

01:18:10.740 That was a shit show. It should have never happened. Honestly. 1.00

01:18:15.300 He played music. We were caught up in the moment, you know, it is what it is, but it didn't,

01:18:19.460 it didn't last long. Wait, so let's do a bit of a timeline here. Uh, how old were you when you started

01:18:24.420 dating the baby daddy? Uh, yeah. 19. 19. How old were you when you got pregnant? Uh, 19.

01:18:33.060 How soon into meeting him did you get pregnant? Oh gosh. I think we were seeing each other for like

01:18:38.180 maybe three, four months. Not my best hour, not my finest. Okay. And then, so you, and then at 20,

01:18:45.220 you gave birth, I guess. Yeah. Yeah. I had Jude, um, at 20 and then when he was, yeah. Like Jude Law?

01:18:52.980 Yeah. Yeah. Like, Hey Jude. Hey Jude. Okay. Yeah. Um, gosh. So how long did you stay with him?

01:19:02.660 Two years max. Okay. Does he pay child support? He's supposed to. Is, what's the custody arrangement?

01:19:09.540 Uh, I believe, uh, the papers say it's supposed to be 50, 50, but, um, so just for background,

01:19:16.580 we met, I, I'm from Maryland. We met in Maryland. The whole thing happened in Maryland. Um, I met my

01:19:23.460 now husband in 2016. Um, we got married in 2017, moved out to Kansas. So now I'm a Midwestern gal. Um,

01:19:34.100 um, and he's never been out, not once to see him from Maryland to Kansas. He insists that we need

01:19:41.780 to go there because it was never his decision for me to move out to Kansas. Pretty sure that's not

01:19:47.220 legal. What do you mean? It's not. If you have a 50, 50 custody arrangement. Yeah. Yeah. That's

01:19:52.740 actually very true. What's not legal? You're not. The fact that her baby daddy will not. Yeah.

01:19:59.540 What's supposed to. Wait, wait, wait. Wouldn't it be not, wouldn't it be not legal if you have a 50,

01:20:04.500 50 custody arrangement for you to move your child to a different state? Hold on. When it comes to the

01:20:12.660 legal culpability here, I actually think she's in the wrong. The legally you would be wrong. Well,

01:20:18.340 if you have a 50, 50, if you have a 50, 50 custody arrangement, one of the parents can't unilaterally

01:20:24.420 move the child to a different state. Now I don't know the specifics, but it, you do have a 50,

01:20:31.940 50 custody arrangement. Yeah. When you were living in his state, was he seeing the child?

01:20:39.620 Sometimes. Okay. But so did, was there a court order granting you permission to move states? Yes.

01:20:47.700 So you did go to the court and asked to move. Absolutely. Yeah. That's all in the board.

01:20:50.980 Yeah. Just to be clear that definitively you did this, you went to the court. Yes.

01:20:57.540 Okay. He didn't dispute this. So he was, he didn't like it, but I mean, also, hold on. Wait,

01:21:05.620 how did you wait if there's the 50, 50 in place? Yeah. 0.88

01:21:10.260 Basically what had happened was they, uh, they altered the agreement to where like, you know,

01:21:15.460 he's supposed to go there for summers and then, you know, Mike's supposed to come out here and,

01:21:20.100 you know, while out here, out to Kansas to see him, but that never really happened. Yeah.

01:21:24.900 So, and also it got to a situation to where it was like, ah, you know, are you, are you good? Like,

01:21:30.020 are you okay? Like, I'm not going to send my, my little kid out there, you know, to be in a

01:21:35.540 potentially, you know, not so great situation. So I earned on the side of conscience of caution.

01:21:41.060 So you breached the custody agreement.

01:21:45.700 So is he.

01:21:48.260 How so?

01:21:49.220 Because he doesn't come out and he doesn't, he doesn't partake in his visitation rights.

01:21:53.140 But I'm a little confused. You were initially in breach because you were alienating.

01:21:57.940 I was not in breach.

01:21:59.860 Well, when you were still living in the state that he was living in, you were preventing him from.

01:22:05.380 No, I wasn't preventing.

01:22:06.260 Didn't you just say that you thought in your determination that things with him were shifty.

01:22:12.980 So you didn't send your kid.

01:22:15.220 No, by the time I got out here.

01:22:18.180 So.

01:22:19.460 Wait. Okay.

01:22:20.340 Oh, the customer, the new custody arrangement is.

01:22:24.420 When you moved here, your, the kid would go to him in the summertime.

01:22:28.900 For example.

01:22:30.580 And then he's also supposed to come out here to visit.

01:22:34.260 Like there are times when he's supposed to come out here to visit, come out to us.

01:22:39.140 And he hasn't.

01:22:40.180 And now, I mean, honestly, there's really not much of a relationship there now.

01:22:43.300 He's, he's usually up to the parents when they want to do the 50, 50.

01:22:46.580 That has to happen.

01:22:47.540 Not necessarily the summer every time.

01:22:49.460 Right.

01:22:49.700 So, yeah.

01:22:50.420 And I don't, I've, it's been years since I've looked at our court papers because now like,

01:22:55.380 you know, he's older, he's almost 16.

01:22:57.540 So, and they don't really have much of a relationship now that way because my son's

01:23:03.620 like, uh, no thanks.

01:23:04.820 How long ago did you move?

01:23:06.420 Oh gosh.

01:23:07.540 Like eight years ago.

01:23:09.300 Okay.

01:23:09.540 So initially though, when you were contemplating this move.

01:23:12.900 I sent him out.

01:23:13.380 Mm-hmm.

01:23:14.180 Huh?

01:23:14.580 I sent him out to visit.

01:23:15.540 Yeah.

01:23:16.180 No, but before you moved, when you were contemplating the move, you said from Maryland to Kansas.

01:23:21.380 He, the father was against the move.

01:23:26.980 Was he fighting the move?

01:23:28.020 He didn't, he didn't like it.

01:23:30.020 No.

01:23:30.420 Because why?

01:23:30.900 He didn't fight it.

01:23:31.860 Why was he, why did he not like it?

01:23:33.780 Uh, well, because we were moving.

01:23:36.900 Which would mean what?

01:23:38.020 Which would mean that he didn't have access.

01:23:40.820 Okay.

01:23:41.140 So, did you take into account what the father wanted?

01:23:47.700 Yes.

01:23:48.020 But you decided to move anyways.

01:23:50.660 Yes.

01:23:52.340 Okay.

01:23:52.660 He's not a safe individual.

01:23:55.300 Uh, okay.

01:23:56.900 Is there like a.

01:23:58.020 There's stuff.

01:23:58.900 Like a.

01:23:59.380 Yeah.

01:23:59.860 Was he, has he been arrested for like DV or something like that or.

01:24:03.300 Yes.

01:24:04.260 Maybe not DV, but definitely violence.

01:24:06.740 Towards you?

01:24:08.420 The cops were called a couple of times.

01:24:10.100 Yeah.

01:24:10.900 Were you violent towards him?

01:24:11.940 No.

01:24:13.620 Okay.

01:24:13.940 So there, wait, hold on.

01:24:15.060 There either was, or there wasn't domestic violence.

01:24:17.620 There, there definitely was.

01:24:19.380 It was a toxic relationship.

01:24:21.940 It was not a great relationship.

01:24:25.540 Okay.

01:24:25.780 Were you guys living together?

01:24:26.740 Mm-hmm.

01:24:27.540 Okay.

01:24:27.780 Was the violence, uh, reciprocal?

01:24:31.380 Not really.

01:24:31.780 No.

01:24:31.940 Okay.

01:24:32.900 So he was arrested a couple of times.

01:24:35.060 He was arrested for assault, but not on me.

01:24:39.860 That's, this was, this was.

01:24:41.540 On the child?

01:24:42.180 To us.

01:24:42.660 No.

01:24:44.260 Hold on.

01:24:45.300 He was arrested.

01:24:46.660 He assaulted a stranger in the street.

01:24:49.220 Who did he assault?

01:24:50.100 It was technically in a mall.

01:24:52.660 Wait, hold on.

01:24:53.460 Let's rewind a bit here.

01:24:55.540 Did he ever put his hands on you?

01:24:57.460 Yes.

01:24:57.780 Yes.

01:24:58.260 Okay.

01:24:58.580 And the cops came?

01:24:59.380 Yes.

01:25:00.260 Yes.

01:25:00.340 Was he arrested for that?

01:25:02.580 No.

01:25:04.820 Okay.

01:25:05.060 It was like right around about then that I was like, this is probably not a great situation.

01:25:08.740 So I called my, my folks and I left.

01:25:12.340 Okay.

01:25:12.740 We lived in the same neighborhood.

01:25:14.420 I mean, at one point he lived right around the corner and still was not very involved.

01:25:19.940 Okay.

01:25:23.220 So you guys were like punching each other or shoving?

01:25:27.140 What was the nature of the physical conflict?

01:25:34.260 It was a long time ago.

01:25:36.020 What I remember is that he choked me and I fell back and hit my head on the floor.

01:25:43.620 Okay.

01:25:45.700 Okay.

01:25:46.020 So you guys were having an argument and you guys were separate, like standing far apart

01:25:52.820 from each other.

01:25:53.380 Yeah.

01:25:53.540 Our apartment was like maybe the size of like a small apartment.

01:25:56.100 Yeah.

01:25:56.340 Okay.

01:25:57.060 So he walked over to you and choked you like this or a little bit more to it.

01:26:01.700 It was like I said, it was a long time ago, so I don't remember all of the details,

01:26:04.340 but basically I think it's surrounded like, you know, like, was it a BJJ rear naked choke?

01:26:11.540 Kind of like a, like a, are you guys a choke slam?

01:26:16.020 Yeah.

01:26:16.580 A choke, but he's a strong guy.

01:26:19.300 Then he chokeslammed you like the undertaker.

01:26:21.860 Yeah.

01:26:22.420 World WWF.

01:26:23.540 But what triggered that?

01:26:24.660 That's what I'm kind of curious about.

01:26:26.020 I don't quite remember.

01:26:27.140 Yeah.

01:26:27.700 I don't quite remember.

01:26:28.660 Like I said, it was a long time ago.

01:26:30.340 It does.

01:26:30.660 I mean, it just had a curiosity.

01:26:32.340 It was a very, very volatile relationship.

01:26:34.900 So like he would get mad, like if other people were looking at me and he would

01:26:41.220 generally like project that on to me.

01:26:45.460 So can I ask, and I don't mean this in any type of way, and I'm, you know, happy and

01:26:50.420 proud of you for getting out of that situation.

01:26:52.020 I'm sorry you lived through that.

01:26:53.620 But when you were in that situation, because I have had friends who have been exposed to

01:26:58.980 DV as well.

01:27:01.220 At that point in time, did you excuse his behavior and like lie to the cops?

01:27:06.660 You know what I mean?

01:27:07.460 Or were you like, okay, I recognize that this is a problem.

01:27:10.740 I need to get out of it.

01:27:11.700 Or were you like, no, no.

01:27:12.980 Like he just gets like this sometimes.

01:27:15.060 Yeah.

01:27:15.460 A little column A, a little column B, you know, um, again, 19 was not my finest hour. 1.00

01:27:21.540 You're young, you know, idiot really. 0.99

01:27:25.140 Um, and at the time it was like, you know, this is, this is my son's father. 1.00

01:27:30.260 I should probably try and make this work kind of deal, you know?

01:27:34.500 And then like, there were substances that happened to find their way into our house.

01:27:41.540 And then, you know, just, it got from bad to worse.

01:27:44.980 Yeah.

01:27:45.700 And it became like a situation to where like, this is not good.

01:27:51.780 This is not normal.

01:27:54.260 I need to go because I have a baby.

01:27:56.980 And if he can put his hands on a female, then he could put his hands on a kid. 0.99

01:28:01.140 Not that he ever would.

01:28:02.100 I'm sure.

01:28:02.740 I'm sure he's got plenty more kids now.

01:28:05.300 Um, but it just, it wasn't, it was not a good situation.

01:28:09.460 And it wasn't, we weren't, we weren't exactly equally yoked either.

01:28:14.180 So, you know, and I know you mentioned you haven't looked at it in a while,

01:28:18.100 but you do technically legally have a 50, 50 custody arrangement.

01:28:22.020 You also mentioned that he's not very present in your son's life at this point.

01:28:26.820 At the, at the very moment.

01:28:28.740 Yes.

01:28:29.940 He is blocked.

01:28:30.980 Okay.

01:28:31.620 Because he started talking about like some flat earth stuff.

01:28:34.980 Oh, okay.

01:28:35.620 Some neo-Nazi stuff.

01:28:36.420 Yeah.

01:28:36.580 He's a little like disconnected from reality at the moment.

01:28:39.300 He is a little disconnected.

01:28:40.500 And, um, I know I have not talked to his mom recently.

01:28:44.580 Okay.

01:28:45.060 But I believe my son has talked to his mom recently.

01:28:47.860 Yes.

01:28:48.180 He is currently, I think in the midst of a divorce.

01:28:52.180 I see.

01:28:52.980 In the midst of like not living.

01:28:54.660 Right.

01:28:55.060 In the home with his, his current wife of two kids.

01:28:58.260 So.

01:28:58.900 Got it.

01:28:59.380 Are you pointing at something?

01:29:01.780 Are you okay?

01:29:02.260 Okay.

01:29:02.660 Yeah.

01:29:02.900 That's, that's super interesting, but he hasn't made it a big deal legally at all.

01:29:07.140 The fact that he's not super close currently with.

01:29:10.420 I don't think that he would know where to start.

01:29:12.420 I see.

01:29:12.900 Any time that there was like a court case.

01:29:14.500 Like I started, I started the custody agreement because I mean, at the time that we broke up,

01:29:22.420 you know, we were both completely and totally entitled to our son.

01:29:26.100 Right.

01:29:26.660 He could have come at any time and been like, hey, I'm just going to take my kid and head

01:29:30.500 for the hills.

01:29:31.300 He didn't, thankfully.

01:29:34.420 But before it got to that point, better safe than sorry, you know?

01:29:38.420 And I mean, I really wasn't trying to take his kid away from it.

01:29:40.820 Yeah.

01:29:40.900 If anything, I was like, hey, like it's your weekend coming up.

01:29:44.500 Right.

01:29:44.820 Oh, I got to work.

01:29:45.940 Right.

01:29:46.420 I'm not available.

01:29:47.700 He went out to visit one of the first summers that we lived in Kansas.

01:29:53.380 And I think, God, he was only like, sure, it was only like maybe seven, eight years old

01:29:58.180 at the time.

01:29:58.740 So he's still kind of a little mini kid.

01:30:00.260 Yeah.

01:30:00.820 Um, he went out to Maryland and from what I understand,

01:30:05.620 he spent more time with his grandparents.

01:30:07.620 Oh, he spent time with his

01:30:10.660 father.

01:30:11.220 I understand.

01:30:11.780 You know, but his father also didn't have a car that was legally his.

01:30:15.220 I see.

01:30:15.700 And sometime in 2014, 2015, I remember he was in a really, really bad accident,

01:30:20.900 like where he flipped the car.

01:30:22.100 And I have my suspicions on what happened.

01:30:23.940 Right.

01:30:24.180 Of course, he's not going to tell me anything, honestly,

01:30:26.900 um, about it.

01:30:28.260 But yeah, no, just not good.

01:30:31.700 That's like the, the, the precautionary tale.

01:30:36.340 Is to like, no, when a guy doesn't show up for you.

01:30:39.060 Yes.

01:30:39.460 No, when a guy is not trying to commit to you, don't have a baby with that person.

01:30:45.300 Don't even like give them the time of day.

01:30:48.660 But yeah, no, it, it was one of those things like where it was, by the time I realized

01:30:52.820 just how booked it was, it was too late.

01:30:55.700 So how did you, how did your son handle this?

01:30:57.780 Because it's got to be really hard on him not to have his biological father.

01:31:01.220 Like, how did he handle it?

01:31:02.180 So I met my now husband when Jude was like six.

01:31:08.580 So, oh, so he's been around as a father.

01:31:11.140 That is dad.

01:31:12.100 Okay.

01:31:12.660 He is dad.

01:31:13.700 I got it.

01:31:15.460 Like, but going into his teenage phase, he's kind of going through that identity.

01:31:20.740 Does he yearn for his biological father or he's completely blocked? 1.00

01:31:24.740 Cause he knows he's kind of full of shit. 1.00

01:31:26.660 Yeah. 1.00

01:31:27.460 And did he, did he ever resent you for whatever choice you made in that situation?

01:31:31.860 No.

01:31:32.580 Okay.

01:31:32.820 Definitely not.

01:31:33.540 Good to know.

01:31:33.860 Can I ask?

01:31:34.660 Cause I know that you mentioned you were basically in charge of arranging the custody

01:31:39.620 agreement.

01:31:40.100 Cause your baby daddy didn't know.

01:31:41.380 In charge is a really weird way to put it.

01:31:42.740 Well, you initiated that process.

01:31:45.380 Cause he was.

01:31:46.340 Yeah.

01:31:46.660 I took lead on it.

01:31:47.700 Mentally elsewhere.

01:31:48.100 For sure.

01:31:48.660 Can I ask why you didn't push to take full custody knowing his violent history?

01:31:54.980 Cause I know you want him to be.

01:31:56.980 There was not enough.

01:31:58.340 Okay.

01:31:58.740 Okay.

01:31:58.820 I think evidence to really like, and I really didn't want that.

01:32:03.860 If anything, like I wanted him and still, I would love for him to step up and be like

01:32:08.820 your son's life.

01:32:10.020 An actual like living, breathing human being.

01:32:12.420 But from what I've seen and I'm not a doctor, but he exhibits a lot of like narc traits.

01:32:17.460 Like it's, it's really more about like, like having access to what he wants. 1.00

01:32:22.580 And if he doesn't have access to what he wants, he loses shit. 0.99

01:32:26.740 I see. 0.99

01:32:27.460 Or like, you know, we'll blame other people, blame any other thing.

01:32:34.500 I see.

01:32:34.900 Does your husband and your baby daddy have a relationship at all? 1.00

01:32:38.500 Fuck no. 1.00

01:32:38.980 Okay. 1.00

01:32:39.300 Sorry.

01:32:39.940 I'm just curious.

01:32:40.500 God, no.

01:32:42.660 Question though.

01:32:43.380 You know, people oftentimes in any sort of dispute or conflict or disagreement, there's

01:32:49.220 a tendency for people to do this thing where they downplay or omit their own culpability

01:32:58.020 in a situation or what they did wrong in a situation.

01:33:02.020 They exaggerate or fabricate the ways they acted rightly.

01:33:08.500 They exaggerate and fabricate the ways the other person on the other side of the conflict

01:33:17.780 acted wrongly and they downplay and omit the ways the person on the other side acted rightly.

01:33:24.660 My question to you is then, what does he say?

01:33:28.180 What is his position if he were to articulate his position on the conflict?

01:33:33.380 Is he just going to say, I 100% agree with everything that she says. 1.00

01:33:39.380 I'm a piece of shit. 1.00

01:33:40.340 What would he say? 1.00

01:33:41.140 Oh, God, no.

01:33:41.700 No, he would say that I am a horrible person for taking his child away.

01:33:49.620 That none of what I'm saying is true.

01:33:55.060 Um, he would probably also say something along the lines of, uh, me being a complete 0.99

01:34:02.740 bitch. 1.00

01:34:04.260 And he would be right about that. 1.00

01:34:05.380 I am a complete bitch. 1.00

01:34:07.860 So real. 1.00

01:34:10.820 Okay.

01:34:11.300 All right.

01:34:11.940 I mean, okay.

01:34:13.060 Uh, well, that's everybody's, uh, relationship status.

01:34:16.180 So, uh, you have two kids, two different fathers.

01:34:19.220 How old's your youngest?

01:34:20.340 Five.

01:34:20.900 Five.

01:34:21.300 And that's from your current, uh, husband.

01:34:23.620 Is that correct?

01:34:24.100 Yes.

01:34:24.420 Yes.

01:34:24.740 Okay.

01:34:25.220 And you're married to him.

01:34:26.020 You've been with him for nine years.

01:34:27.140 Yes.

01:34:27.460 And that relationship is good.

01:34:28.740 Oh, yeah.

01:34:29.460 Okay.

01:34:29.860 That's good.

01:34:30.500 So good.

01:34:31.140 Good to hear.

01:34:32.020 All right.

01:34:33.620 Uh, so, uh, we're going to move on to, we have a react.

01:34:37.460 I want to wait until chair number two is back though, to do that.

01:34:42.260 So let me, uh, do a couple of things here. 0.98

01:34:45.780 By the way, guys, super chats are fucked. 0.92

01:34:49.540 They're FUBAR, uh, but we do have stream labs. 0.97

01:34:54.340 Display is 10.

01:34:55.540 Read is a hundred.

01:34:56.340 TTS 200.

01:34:57.380 Mutamike 500.

01:34:59.780 Pop a ball of champagne, a thousand.

01:35:01.780 For one Ethereum, we'll pop a ball of Cristal, $500 bottle of, uh, champagne there.

01:35:08.260 Although.

01:35:10.100 Has anyone ever done that?

01:35:11.620 Yeah.

01:35:11.940 Yeah.

01:35:12.100 We've had some Ethereum pops.

01:35:14.500 Um, let's see.

01:35:16.020 You can hide that.

01:35:17.700 And I want to thank somebody.

01:35:19.460 Uh, no, actually, no, we're good on that.

01:35:21.620 All right.

01:35:21.940 We're going to get into some of the pre-show notes then.

01:35:24.580 Uh, where was it?

01:35:25.620 What was it that I wanted to get into?

01:35:26.980 One sec guys.

01:35:28.180 We talked about being easy to break up with.

01:35:30.580 Okay.

01:35:33.300 Uh, let's see.

01:35:34.420 For, for those of you who are single though, quite a few of you here are single.

01:35:38.020 Um,

01:35:38.580 Do any of you have a roster?

01:35:44.180 Yes.

01:35:47.140 Yes, ma'am.

01:35:50.420 Yes, ma'am.

01:35:51.140 I'm the roster queen.

01:35:53.140 I would say a free spirit.

01:35:54.900 Yes, ma'am.

01:35:55.140 And I look forward every day to hearing her.

01:35:59.220 I look forward every day to hearing her stories of whoever it may be, because it's always someone

01:36:04.820 new and I'll be honest, it's kind of hard to keep up with, but she keeps my life exciting.

01:36:08.500 Yes.

01:36:09.460 Did you lost a nail by the way?

01:36:11.060 I, hey, you're not supposed to point that out.

01:36:13.380 I did lose a nail.

01:36:14.260 Yikes.

01:36:14.820 Yesterday.

01:36:16.020 Rip.

01:36:16.340 R.I.P.

01:36:17.540 R.I.P. for the nail.

01:36:18.580 We find nails like after the show.

01:36:20.660 Oh, really?

01:36:21.620 It didn't happen here, I promise.

01:36:23.540 It happened yesterday.

01:36:24.980 Kind of.

01:36:25.700 Yeah.

01:36:26.020 So, uh, okay.

01:36:27.140 Now that you're back, we're going to get into our first thing that we're going to react to.

01:36:30.340 So, guys, on Twitter, on X now, I guess, there was a recent major drama, major drama in the

01:36:39.460 right-wing, e-girl, trad thought, conservative community.

01:36:42.580 Oh, I know what it's going to be.

01:36:44.180 Go ahead.

01:36:44.580 I know what it's going to be, too.

01:36:45.460 Ringate.

01:36:46.020 Yes.

01:36:46.500 So, uh, this, uh, conservative influencer girl named Sarah, uh, she was dating a guy,

01:36:52.740 got proposed to, and she posted a photo on X of her ring, which we're going to pull up right now.

01:36:58.420 I know.

01:36:59.860 So, it's going to be the first one.

01:37:02.740 Not the TikTok?

01:37:04.180 No.

01:37:04.420 Oh.

01:37:04.900 All right.

01:37:11.860 All right.

01:37:12.420 So, the first one is from Sarah.

01:37:14.580 So, she says, I won. 0.98

01:37:16.500 That's her in a field of flowers or some shit with, uh, a ring. 1.00

01:37:20.580 Good for her. 0.99

01:37:21.780 Congrats.

01:37:22.420 Congrats, Sarah, even though she, uh, we, I guess, I, there wasn't a beef, but she talked 1.00

01:37:26.820 some shit about me like months ago, whatever. 0.95

01:37:29.060 But I, I want to preface this by saying, I actually mostly pretty much side with her, 0.98

01:37:34.580 even though we have some like beef from whatever.

01:37:36.980 I don't even care months ago. 0.99

01:37:38.580 No, I mean, she talked some shit a couple months ago on fucking X, even though she's 0.99

01:37:43.140 like, she's been on the show. 0.99

01:37:44.180 So not a big thing.

01:37:46.180 But despite that, I just want to say I'm siding with her mostly on this issue.

01:37:50.180 Yeah.

01:37:50.900 She says she's one.

01:37:52.100 I think she's 21, 22, engaged, whatever.

01:37:55.460 Yeah.

01:37:55.940 Pearl.

01:37:56.420 Pearl.

01:37:56.820 I don't know if you guys know Pearl here.

01:37:57.940 Not a fan of Pearl.

01:37:58.500 She's also been on the show.

01:37:59.620 Yeah.

01:38:00.180 Uh, she writes, hottest right-wing e-girl taken off the market.

01:38:05.700 Huh.

01:38:06.500 Parentheses, conservative women will always use their marriage and family to build their 1.00

01:38:11.060 brand.

01:38:12.180 Now, Nick, scroll down for me, if you will.

01:38:15.140 Oh, you're going to make us smaller.

01:38:16.340 Make us smaller, please.

01:38:17.140 Huh. 0.99

01:38:18.180 To which Sarah responds, once you stop getting ran through by black guys, it could happen 1.00

01:38:23.300 to you, too. 0.98

01:38:24.740 So I guess some context here.

01:38:28.180 Pearl, who I think is in her mid to late 20s, uh, she, she likes black men. 1.00

01:38:37.220 She really does.

01:38:37.860 Hey, that's fine.

01:38:38.660 Yeah.

01:38:39.060 She likes black guys.

01:38:40.660 Mm-hmm.

01:38:41.620 But Sarah made it a point to point that out.

01:38:44.020 Now, uh, but it continues.

01:38:46.100 It continues.

01:38:46.740 Pull up, uh, pull it back up.

01:38:49.140 Next thing.

01:38:49.620 Next thing.

01:38:53.060 Uh, and then this is another, we've had, we've had all these girls on the show. 0.70

01:38:56.340 Okay, wait.

01:38:56.900 That was my first day.

01:38:58.500 So Isabella, we've had her show.

01:39:00.580 We've had her on the show two times, two or three times.

01:39:03.780 She says, why is it so small?

01:39:05.060 We're not going to focus in too much on that, but I saw it.

01:39:07.220 So, uh, kind of throwing a little shade there.

01:39:09.540 Next.

01:39:12.180 Uh, okay.

01:39:13.300 Now this is the same line.

01:39:14.900 Somebody responds to what Pearl said, though.

01:39:17.380 Yeah.

01:39:17.700 Somebody respond, not just Sarah responds.

01:39:19.780 Scroll down.

01:39:20.420 Uh, oh, Emily.

01:39:22.900 Okay.

01:39:23.220 This is, uh, she's, she's kind of conservative lady, but, uh, not really kind of whatever. 1.00

01:39:33.700 She's a slut. 1.00

01:39:34.420 She actually talks about it on her page. 1.00

01:39:36.100 We'll get into that.

01:39:36.740 Yeah.

01:39:36.980 But the ring size, uh, I'm dead emoji.

01:39:41.700 So she's, she's like, wow, insulting the ring. 0.99

01:39:44.420 Right.

01:39:45.780 Next one.

01:39:46.580 Next.

01:39:48.180 So Morgan, if you skip to the bottom there, Morgan, who another cons conservative, I guess, uh,

01:39:55.700 influencer, you give it up for free.

01:39:57.780 Ho this is in response to Emily saying the ring is small might want to sit this actually

01:40:03.140 Uh, Ellie, you're going to read the girl from the bottom Morgan's tweet.

01:40:07.380 Okay.

01:40:08.420 You give it up for free, ho might want to sit this one out. 1.00

01:40:13.300 And then, uh, read Emily's Morgan, your baby daddy abandoned you. 0.99

01:40:17.380 You're raising a bastard child, but yet somehow some way you think you're better than me or 0.99

01:40:22.340 anyone on this app. 0.99

01:40:23.620 You gave it up for free, got left in the dust and now post rage bait on X to supplement

01:40:28.100 the inadequacy of your monthly child support payments.

01:40:30.420 What a mess.

01:40:32.740 What a mess.

01:40:34.580 She just got engaged.

01:40:35.700 That's it.

01:40:40.020 Next.

01:40:42.580 Read this one.

01:40:44.100 None of that is true, Emily, but unlike you, I don't lie.

01:40:46.900 So here are some facts.

01:40:48.980 You got fingered in the middle of a hotel lobby at TPUSA event while everybody watched and

01:40:55.940 there were families around. 1.00

01:40:58.660 Damn. 1.00

01:40:59.060 Okay. 1.00

01:40:59.380 Next.

01:41:02.980 To which Pearl Davis responds.

01:41:05.140 Morgan, you are a single mother with a public video admitting you have HPV.

01:41:09.780 You may want to sit this one out too.

01:41:12.980 Read the next one. 1.00

01:41:14.340 You suck black dick and probably have AIDS. 1.00

01:41:17.540 I love the way you're reading it. 1.00

01:41:19.860 I love the way you're reading it.

01:41:20.820 I think there's one more next.

01:41:21.700 Oh, boy.

01:41:22.660 Oh, it gets better.

01:41:23.700 Oh, yeah.

01:41:24.100 She did some video.

01:41:24.980 Can you read?

01:41:25.620 Caption?

01:41:28.500 How do you guys expect that?

01:41:30.260 Just read the whole thing.

01:41:31.060 That's fine.

01:41:31.860 It's going to be hard to be a trad wife when your man can't even afford a ring. 1.00

01:41:35.780 How do you guys expect to have a house, land, multiple kids?

01:41:38.900 BFFR.

01:41:40.020 I hope y'all enjoy working.

01:41:42.020 Sorry, I'm MIA in the Hamptons.

01:41:44.180 You know what?

01:41:44.580 Can you actually do the rest in a valley girl accent?

01:41:47.380 Conservative men need to stop being broke and gaslighting women like we don't deserve

01:41:52.100 diamonds and rings.

01:41:53.620 So you want me to give up my job, my career, my financial independence, push multiple babies 0.99

01:41:59.540 out of my body, cook, clean, be loyal, and a loving feminine wife forever? 1.00

01:42:05.300 And y'all can't even afford a nice ring for us. 1.00

01:42:07.940 Get the fuck out. 1.00

01:42:08.820 Just admit y'all literally don't like women. 1.00

01:42:11.220 All right.

01:42:12.020 I think there's one more.

01:42:13.140 Well done.

01:42:13.540 Well done.

01:42:14.100 Well done, Leonard.

01:42:14.820 I think we've done that.

01:42:16.020 Oh, and then, so she got, oh, read this in the valley.

01:42:20.820 Women just hate other women, and it boils down to jealousy. 1.00

01:42:24.260 That simple.

01:42:26.340 Is there one more?

01:42:27.700 Tab over.

01:42:29.700 Oh, that's it.

01:42:30.340 Okay.

01:42:31.780 What a mess.

01:42:32.500 Yeah, quite a mess.

01:42:33.620 Quite a mess.

01:42:34.500 That last one though, she was like a couple days before being all catty about the ring.

01:42:39.860 She was saying women are just so jealous of each other. 1.00

01:42:42.020 Amazing.

01:42:43.060 So anyways, there's a lot there.

01:42:47.540 Any reactions?

01:42:48.740 And I think maybe I'll start off by saying this, you know, sometimes we get into conversations

01:42:53.140 on the show and women say something along the lines of, you know, if women ruled the world, 1.00

01:42:57.140 there would be no war.

01:42:58.740 Look at that.

01:42:59.460 Yeah, right?

01:43:00.100 I don't know about that.

01:43:01.460 Not possible at all.

01:43:02.660 Honestly, I think we are more emotional than men, even though men can be very emotional.

01:43:07.940 And I don't think that's anti-feminist of me to say that.

01:43:10.660 I think we have different hormones.

01:43:11.700 It's a reality.

01:43:12.740 So.

01:43:13.380 I agree with that.

01:43:14.260 Yeah.

01:43:14.420 100%.

01:43:15.060 100%.

01:43:16.340 So what do you guys think?

01:43:17.220 You think, uh, was the ring too small?

01:43:19.700 It's a ring.

01:43:20.340 I know.

01:43:21.220 It's okay.

01:43:21.780 She's engaged.

01:43:22.420 She's already winning.

01:43:24.180 Pearl's not winning anything. 0.82

01:43:25.620 As someone that just got engaged, I do feel like that's a pretty, pretty shitty thing to say.

01:43:31.540 I think the size of the ring should never be the sticking point.

01:43:37.860 I think it's how much love and effort you put into the relationship.

01:43:42.820 I, my, my fiance and I, we chose our ring together.

01:43:45.540 However, I would have accepted anything because he's my, he's my man.

01:43:48.980 Um, so I don't, I can see why she said it because I think it is kind of, um, what's the word?

01:43:55.380 I think it's the way she staged the picture.

01:43:57.540 Like, it's just like her, like having your hand in a field of flowers.

01:44:00.900 You're not looking at the field of flowers.

01:44:02.740 You're not looking at the ring itself.

01:44:04.180 You're looking at what's behind the ring.

01:44:05.540 Like, if you wanted the focal point to be the ring, I feel like it should have been on a more,

01:44:09.140 like, I think it was pretty much the center of the, yeah.

01:44:12.260 I mean, it's a photo of her engagement, right?

01:44:14.740 Yeah, it's there.

01:44:15.300 You know?

01:44:15.860 If you see a hand in a picture like this, it's, I'm looking for the ring.

01:44:18.660 Right.

01:44:18.900 I feel like it's, I feel like, I feel like styles though, different tastes.

01:44:21.540 Yeah.

01:44:21.940 I just think that's why people were saying it was small.

01:44:24.500 Cause like compared to the field, it was like, it was like, there was too much in the background.

01:44:28.660 It is a smaller carrot ring.

01:44:29.540 That's kind of just an objective truth.

01:44:31.220 That's not an insult.

01:44:32.180 That's just an analysis.

01:44:33.300 You know what I mean?

01:44:34.100 So we don't know what her tastes are.

01:44:35.860 Yeah, exactly that.

01:44:36.900 Maybe that's her perfect dream ring.

01:44:38.340 And that's great for her.

01:44:39.060 Well, she's also, I think pretty young.

01:44:40.900 I think she's early twenties.

01:44:42.740 Yeah, she is.

01:44:43.460 So I assume the boyfriend's probably young.

01:44:46.260 Yeah.

01:44:46.980 Yeah.

01:44:47.460 You got no money.

01:44:48.180 Yeah.

01:44:48.340 I mean, I'm kind of sad with Sarah.

01:44:50.900 Go ahead.

01:44:51.380 Here's my issue with Pearl.

01:44:52.580 I've had an issue with Pearl for a little while.

01:44:54.500 I find her to be highly masculine.

01:44:56.980 She's not feminine a bit. 0.53

01:44:58.980 She walks and talks like a football player, you know, and she kind of goes around and she

01:45:03.060 gets her talking points from Kevin Samuels.

01:45:04.740 And I, I like, I always supported Kevin Samuels and she kind of goes around asking people to

01:45:09.220 rate themselves, but on a scale of one to 10, what would you rate Pearl?

01:45:12.340 And she's kind of the head of the red female talking point of the red pill. 1.00

01:45:16.180 So I don't support her.

01:45:17.220 She kind of doesn't emulate femininity at all. 1.00

01:45:19.780 I mean, I, I, I put her in the same camp as like, um, who are those guys fresh and fit?

01:45:28.020 Like, like there, there's the red pill space.

01:45:30.500 Yeah.

01:45:31.220 And then there's the people that LARP in it.

01:45:33.140 And she's actually like the people that are like living the values, right?

01:45:36.900 You know, absolutely.

01:45:38.020 Also, I think we spend entirely, entirely too much time on the internet and we put

01:45:42.100 entirely too much credence on like what we post on the internet.

01:45:45.060 Like, I guess building a brand, sure.

01:45:47.780 But like, uh, not everybody needs a brand.

01:45:50.260 A marriage should be a brand.

01:45:50.660 Marriage should be a brand.

01:45:51.540 That should be popular.

01:45:52.500 I don't think everybody needs a brand.

01:45:54.020 Yeah.

01:45:54.580 Well, I have a question because I don't know who these people are to be completely honest,

01:45:58.340 but I was very entertained by that little discourse.

01:46:01.620 I'm assuming that she is a content creator.

01:46:04.020 I'm assuming lifestyle, maybe political, because you mentioned

01:46:07.940 she's conservative.

01:46:08.740 She's political, yeah. 1.00

01:46:09.300 Okay.

01:46:09.700 But she posts about her life, right?

01:46:11.380 Like, I don't know if you're getting engaged, obviously you're going to post about it.

01:46:14.500 I don't know if it was valid for that other woman to be like, 1.00

01:46:17.460 oh, you're making your marriage a business.

01:46:19.460 This is for your brand.

01:46:20.420 Like, no, this is just something that happened in her life and she's sharing it, right?

01:46:23.540 Yeah.

01:46:23.780 That's how I see it.

01:46:24.500 Of course.

01:46:25.220 If you're in that space, then, you know.

01:46:27.700 I feel like, I feel like regardless if she was a content creator or not,

01:46:31.380 she still would have posted a picture of the engagement.

01:46:33.220 That's right.

01:46:33.700 Yeah.

01:46:34.020 Just like Facebook or whatever.

01:46:35.140 I think just the backlash she got for it was a little extreme.

01:46:37.620 I agree.

01:46:38.180 Yeah, I think it was like fueled by other things.

01:46:40.660 Oh, yeah.

01:46:41.060 But it kind of goes to show the issue with the conservative movement.

01:46:45.380 The women are highly feminist, but in such a level where they can't, 1.00

01:46:49.380 you can't even say they're conserving anything.

01:46:51.380 There's nothing traditional about conservative, most of them.

01:46:54.100 Oh, I like that.

01:46:55.220 But that's why I left the conservative movement, because I noticed this.

01:46:59.060 You know, they're willing to do degenerate things,

01:47:01.060 promote wear bikini shots, look like OnlyFans models online,

01:47:04.740 but they profess to be against it.

01:47:06.500 They're doing the exact same thing.

01:47:07.940 So I don't support them at all.

01:47:09.060 I don't think I've heard that take before.

01:47:11.860 That's super fair though, because from what I understand of you so far,

01:47:17.140 you just align yourself with traditional values, which is what conservative women preach, 1.00

01:47:22.500 but maybe don't necessarily actually fall into.

01:47:25.220 Consistency is what I appreciate.

01:47:26.580 Totally.

01:47:26.660 And there's a total lack of consistency with their message and how they dress

01:47:30.260 and what they talk about, all that.

01:47:32.980 Yeah.

01:47:34.580 Yep.

01:47:35.780 I mean, ultimately, look, I think she just posted a picture of her hand in a ring.

01:47:40.660 I don't think it's a big deal.

01:47:41.700 No.

01:47:42.180 Probably either ignore it or congratulate her. 0.97

01:47:45.700 Yeah.

01:47:46.020 Just say congratulations to the Bob.

01:47:47.780 I heard some criticisms.

01:47:49.140 They're like, well, why are you like the caption?

01:47:52.500 I won.

01:47:53.540 Why aren't you posting any pictures with the husband?

01:47:57.460 Of the, you know, why aren't you posting a picture together?

01:47:59.540 I don't even think she thought about it.

01:48:00.420 Maybe.

01:48:00.820 I don't know if she's public with the guy though.

01:48:03.060 So like.

01:48:03.700 I've seen a picture of them, but she's kind of private about it.

01:48:06.420 She's maybe private.

01:48:06.980 I think that's a good thing though.

01:48:07.940 It should be that, because she's not in a safe arena politically. 1.00

01:48:11.220 Yeah, she's out there.

01:48:11.940 She's very, her views are very people.

01:48:14.340 It's not a popular view that she carries.

01:48:15.940 So it makes sense for sure.

01:48:18.100 And I mean, but Pearl initially, her initial criticism wasn't the worst.

01:48:25.380 It was, but then when Emily came in with the ring size thing, and then, well, I mean,

01:48:32.900 look, Sarah responded to Pearl, probably not the most, well, I guess that's on brand for 0.99

01:48:43.060 Sarah, like with the second black dick comment, um, probably a little, uh, women will escalate 1.00

01:48:52.820 shit a lot. 1.00

01:48:55.620 Like y'all will go nuclear. 1.00

01:48:57.220 Totally. 0.97

01:48:58.260 Like a person can slightly do something wrong and you're just going to like murder them.

01:49:03.460 Some things can hit a nerve.

01:49:04.980 Amazing how that works.

01:49:05.940 Figuratively.

01:49:06.580 Absolutely.

01:49:07.140 Whereas I feel like men are a bit more proportional in their responses.

01:49:11.300 They're more simple.

01:49:11.860 That's fair.

01:49:12.340 Yeah, exactly.

01:49:12.980 But they're logical.

01:49:13.620 They're logical.

01:49:14.100 Like the guy who, a guy, not to say that guys can't go nuclear, like, for, and when I,

01:49:19.140 when I say go nuclear, this is what I mean. 0.99

01:49:21.220 I mean, if somebody calls me a stupid doo-doo face and then I tell them that their mother 0.99

01:49:29.140 never loved them, that's like an escalation that's a bit, you know, it's a bit, you know, 1.00

01:49:35.700 it's like I would give a proportionate response when you're, you're a butt face. 0.98

01:49:40.100 That's proportion, you know, to, you're a doo-doo face, but you're a butt face. 0.99

01:49:44.580 But like, somebody will just say, oh, you're, you're a doo-doo face. 1.00

01:49:48.980 Well, your mom never left you and I hope you die. 0.99

01:49:51.700 Like, that is, that's the, y'all women sometimes, not all the time, go nuclear, you'll, you'll 1.00

01:49:58.820 escalate that shit like crazy. 1.00

01:50:00.340 We will hit you where it hurts. 1.00

01:50:01.700 Is it bad that it sounded like, to me, that you just won the conversation? 0.96

01:50:06.020 It sounds like you just ended it.

01:50:08.740 Oh, if you just go nuclear?

01:50:09.860 Yeah, I don't know, end it.

01:50:11.300 The fringe meeting is funny, I live for the bit.

01:50:14.820 I do live for the bit too, yeah.

01:50:17.140 We're, we're gonna, was there something else?

01:50:19.780 Oh, there's a, oh, really quick, we'll just do somebody's TikTok, one of you has a TikTok

01:50:23.220 that I saw, make it full screen, no audio reminder on that.

01:50:28.580 I'm out of storage, but tag me and I'll repost it.

01:50:31.940 I have like a fake account on TikTok, I'm like just scrolling.

01:50:34.300 Yeah, it's, yes, ready.

01:50:36.780 Oh gosh, what's this?

01:50:38.660 Oh, are we reacting?

01:50:40.180 You can just, yeah, sure.

01:50:43.060 I mean, you can just play it.

01:50:44.900 My best friend matched with a man on the dating app, and we thought it was a party, but it

01:50:48.740 turns out it's a dating couch to see who, so can you explain that, what happened?

01:50:52.420 Okay, so I actually, I actually misinterpreted the entire situation.

01:50:56.180 Um, he was a dating coach, and I heard couch, so I already posted the video, and I was like,

01:51:02.580 whatever, I was like, I'll just leave it, like, and I guess he saw it, but you can explain

01:51:07.780 the story, because I was just like, not there at all.

01:51:11.540 I just was like, I'll just post something, I misinterpreted on my end.

01:51:15.700 I'm the friend.

01:51:16.500 Wait, so it was a, you matched on a dating app?

01:51:19.460 I did.

01:51:19.780 I wasn't me.

01:51:20.420 Oh, you did.

01:51:21.020 She posted the video, I was the one it was about.

01:51:23.500 Okay, so you matched?

01:51:24.900 With a guy on a dating app.

01:51:25.980 And he invited you to like a film shoot or something?

01:51:28.720 A party.

01:51:28.960 Well, he's, like, I don't meet up with guys solo for the first time, it's like, you need

01:51:34.120 to be in a public space, like, I don't trust you, I don't want to meet up with somebody

01:51:38.040 I don't know for the first time, like, I need it to be very public, or, like, around, like,

01:51:43.280 a double date or something, just in case, like, something were to happen.

01:51:47.360 So, he was like, oh, just come to this party, and I was like, okay, yeah, sure.

01:51:51.960 He was like, you can bring a friend, and so I went, and it was like, I don't know, 15 girls

01:51:57.880 on a couch, and two guys there, and I was like, is this a party?

01:52:03.100 And he was like, yeah, it's a party, and I was like, this doesn't look like a party,

01:52:07.580 and, like, he was like, yeah, we're just going to go around and, like, do icebreakers,

01:52:12.020 get to know everybody, and then he, like, was asking dating questions, and I had, I

01:52:18.200 know, like, I knew a few girls there, and I was like, oh, like, how do you know him?

01:52:22.740 And they were like, oh, dating apps, like, we sleep with him, and I'm like, did you, like,

01:52:28.640 what's the point of this?

01:52:30.100 Like, so I texted him, and I was like, hey, what's going on?

01:52:32.400 Like, why did you invite me here?

01:52:33.840 Like, is this where you just try and find a girl for the night?

01:52:36.840 Like, what's going on?

01:52:38.660 And he basically was like, oh, come down to my bedroom and, like, talk, and I was like,

01:52:44.940 okay.

01:52:46.920 So I, like, confronted him, like, outside of the circle, and I was like, hey, I know this

01:52:50.980 girl.

01:52:51.640 She has beef with this girl. 0.99

01:52:53.260 She did this to my friend.

01:52:54.800 Like, what is going on?

01:52:57.360 And he, like, kind of explained, oh, I'm a dating coach, and I just try and figure out

01:53:03.980 situationships with women and try and coach them on their dating skills. 0.82

01:53:07.700 I try to coach men on their dating skills, and I just, like, I'm trying to find somebody,

01:53:12.720 and he was like, you just intrigued me.

01:53:15.780 And, like, I'm just like, bro, like, I'm not.

01:53:18.820 I'm not the type.

01:53:21.140 What the?

01:53:22.040 Stop the app.

01:53:22.580 So what was the message on the dating app?

01:53:25.800 He was like, like, he tried to get me to hang out multiple times, and I was, like, kept

01:53:30.900 blowing him off.

01:53:32.280 And then he was like, oh, like, I get you're uncomfortable, like, meeting up solo.

01:53:36.120 Like, do you just want to come to this party?

01:53:37.760 I'm having this party at this mansion.

01:53:39.380 And I was like, okay, yeah, fine.

01:53:40.720 And then that was the idea of the party, was to, like, just find a girl for the night.

01:53:47.160 And it was just, like, really weird.

01:53:48.180 For him?

01:53:48.880 Yes.

01:53:49.460 Was it, like, also a con?

01:53:50.480 It was all girls that he slept with previously, and I was, like, the new girl.

01:53:56.820 Was he expecting, like, a sexual experience with all of you guys? 0.92

01:54:01.000 That's crazy. 0.99

01:54:01.880 That's crazy.

01:54:02.580 Was he expecting, like, something more between all of the entire group?

01:54:06.860 No, I think he said they do those parties, like, every week.

01:54:12.340 And he, like, has those girls there every week, and they're just friends now.

01:54:16.800 And it was just very weird, because one of the girls, like, slept with my roommate. 0.99

01:54:21.360 Oh, and my old situation shit. 1.00

01:54:23.460 Also her situation shit. 0.99

01:54:25.160 It was just, like, I don't even want to be here. 0.98

01:54:28.060 And he, like, kept inviting me over afterwards, and I just didn't go.

01:54:32.420 I was just, like, sir, like, take the hint.

01:54:34.740 He still reaches out, but I'm just, like, no.

01:54:37.060 It's giving Colt.

01:54:38.340 No, it was a Colt.

01:54:39.900 Like, I swear it was a Colt.

01:54:41.780 Because we walked in on one of the meetings that they had.

01:54:44.460 It was, like, him doing his coaching thing with all these guys there.

01:54:48.560 It was, like, a hundred guys.

01:54:51.300 Oh.

01:54:52.280 I don't know how I can say that.

01:54:53.800 It's like a P. Diddy party.

01:54:55.040 You don't have to, but.

01:54:56.220 Okay.

01:54:56.920 All right.

01:54:57.280 Well, that's kind of weird, I guess.

01:54:59.500 She's, like, a Diddy party. 0.93

01:55:00.640 It's, like, a Diddy party.

01:55:01.800 Yikes.

01:55:02.200 Oh, my God, yeah.

01:55:03.120 Something's going on there.

01:55:04.280 Is he wealthy?

01:55:04.980 Ellie, can you read this one? 0.95

01:55:06.860 The hag next to Brian says her son doesn't resent her for stealing him from his father. 0.99

01:55:12.200 At 16, I didn't either. 0.98

01:55:13.580 But trust me, once he learns how women behave writ large, he will. 0.90

01:55:19.200 And you will lose him.

01:55:20.940 Do you have a response to Inquisitor Zeal?

01:55:22.620 Thank you, man.

01:55:23.180 Learn how to type, my guy.

01:55:26.400 Yeah.

01:55:27.020 Do you have a response to, like, what he said, though?

01:55:28.980 Or?

01:55:30.260 Let's see.

01:55:32.560 I am raising my son to have a mind of his own.

01:55:35.820 So, I mean, if he wants to, like, later on have, like, this in-depth relationship with him, I'm not stopping him.

01:55:43.000 Okay.

01:55:43.520 At all.

01:55:45.700 Okay.

01:55:46.700 Cool.

01:55:47.020 Good.

01:55:47.160 All right.

01:55:48.620 We're going to go into some of the pre-show notes that you guys had sent in before the show.

01:55:52.940 Starting with, Paulina.

01:55:58.460 Yes, sir.

01:55:59.460 All right.

01:56:00.660 Tell us about, here, why don't we start with the disagreements first?

01:56:03.820 You said you disagree with the red pill movement.

01:56:06.000 Yeah.

01:56:06.600 Encouraging established men to date much younger women in their 20s.

01:56:10.440 Yes.

01:56:11.460 What's the age gap you have an issue with?

01:56:13.600 It's not, it's, well, here's the age gap.

01:56:15.320 They're at totally different stages of their lives.

01:56:17.440 So, you know, men, when they reach an established point of their life, they really worked hard to get there.

01:56:24.220 They really had to build from the ground up.

01:56:26.580 So, if we're talking about dating women, you know, in their 20s who have nothing to lose, they don't even probably know who they are or care about the guy enough to value him or that, she can take him for everything he has.

01:56:43.560 It's actually a liability to his well-being to bring such a young person into his life romantically.

01:56:49.340 And imagine even procreating by that point.

01:56:51.820 She has more of an incentive to take everything from him.

01:56:54.400 So, I think with myself, for example, in my 20s, I didn't really know who I was.

01:57:00.080 That's why my relationships at the time didn't work out, because I was figuring myself out.

01:57:04.620 But I couldn't imagine getting married and bringing kids into the situation.

01:57:10.480 I was a liability at the time.

01:57:12.860 So, although in my 20s I was more, let's just say, because it's true, you're more attractive, more physically fit in your 20s.

01:57:19.460 So, physically I had more of an appeal to a guy, but emotionally I was not able to give him what he wants and to fulfill his needs.

01:57:27.980 In my 30s, I'm not as attractive as I was in my 20s, but my mind's in a different place, completely different place.

01:57:34.280 What needs do men have that you can fulfill in your 30s but not in your 20s?

01:57:37.920 Tradition is a very simple blanket term.

01:57:42.260 So, you were not, I thought you said you were always traditional.

01:57:44.260 I would say, but emotionally speaking, I had issues, you know.

01:57:49.380 So, I wasn't able to fulfill the duties of tradition as opposed to now.

01:57:54.200 I don't have those issues.

01:57:55.520 What issues did you have?

01:57:56.360 I just had like depression.

01:57:57.960 I had identity situation.

01:57:59.480 I didn't know what my purpose was, all these different things.

01:58:01.820 But little did I know my purpose is very simple, you know.

01:58:04.820 In my mind, what my purpose would be and what I want is to be married and have kids because that's my legacy.

01:58:11.000 That's all that matters, you know.

01:58:13.240 So, that's what I look to fulfill and I'm ready to fulfill that and to be an asset, not a liability.

01:58:18.940 Okay, I see.

01:58:20.520 But assuming, like, if it is the case that for some men, they have this preference for dating younger women, I guess what is your objection there?

01:58:30.900 Because you say you disagree with that, I guess?

01:58:32.520 They can, whatever they prefer, they can, they can do, they can fulfill that on their own.

01:58:36.680 It's not necessarily against what's an innate preference, but just something for them to think about.

01:58:43.060 It could be a liability for their well-being.

01:58:45.640 That's what, that's my purpose.

01:58:47.160 That's what I'm saying.

01:58:48.220 But I can't, you can't stop them to do what they want to do.

01:58:50.620 So, you're saying, well, you're saying a young woman can be more of a liability than an older woman?

01:58:58.460 Oh, yeah.

01:58:58.760 Yeah, there's, there's, here's the thing.

01:59:01.300 It's, the mindset makes a difference.

01:59:03.380 My mind in my 20s is nowhere compared to now.

01:59:07.040 Okay.

01:59:07.280 I'm able to, I, I, I understand my place and I want to fulfill that.

01:59:12.680 But in my 20s, I could not actually articulate that.

01:59:16.280 So, at the time I could take somebody for everything they have.

01:59:19.500 I'm not saying I would do that personally, but it's possible, you know.

01:59:22.880 But you could still take somebody for everything they have.

01:59:25.540 It's true.

01:59:26.600 It's true.

01:59:27.560 Right.

01:59:28.080 But I just think, again, it's just more of a sketchy situation with younger women.

01:59:34.160 And also, biologically, our prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until we're like 26, 27.

01:59:39.200 Yeah.

01:59:39.720 That controls your decision-making impulses.

01:59:42.460 So, I see where you're coming from.

01:59:43.280 Oh, yeah.

01:59:43.520 And my issues at the time, you'd never, I would never guess I'd actually get out of it.

01:59:46.700 But I'm so far out of it and I got the light that I'm like, oh, wait, everything's okay.

01:59:51.040 The light matters.

01:59:51.860 The light really matters.

01:59:52.880 It really does.

01:59:53.480 The light?

01:59:53.760 The light matters.

01:59:54.600 What is that?

01:59:55.940 What is the light?

01:59:56.260 Just seeing the light as in the issues that you had in the past.

01:59:59.800 It's like, oh, wait, they're gone.

02:00:00.920 I don't have those issues anymore.

02:00:02.760 I actually overcame them on my own and took accountability.

02:00:06.160 So.

02:00:06.700 What do you think about the notion that women, younger women are more mature than older men?

02:00:12.200 So, like, my partner and I, I'm 25, he's 32.

02:00:14.880 When I met, I was 18, he was 25.

02:00:17.280 I felt like emotionally and maturity-wise, we were at the same, not the same, but like a little bit closer in level than like, you know.

02:00:26.420 You don't have a big age gap.

02:00:28.060 It's not that big.

02:00:28.640 I'm talking like a guy in his 40s, 50s, dating a 20-year-old.

02:00:32.760 That's a really big age gap and really a different life cycle.

02:00:36.380 I agree with you, though.

02:00:37.640 I think that women tend to mature quicker than men, just to generalize.

02:00:41.680 My mom always said that.

02:00:43.020 She always told me to kind of go for older guys because guys take forever to mature, it feels like, you know.

02:00:48.800 So, yeah, I think that obviously, I think that there obviously is a power dynamic when you are dating someone.

02:00:58.640 Who is older than you, especially as a woman. 0.99

02:01:01.260 What, there's a power dynamic?

02:01:02.700 What do you mean?

02:01:03.320 I think that, well, you know, you're an 18-year-old girl compared to a 25-year-old guy.

02:01:08.380 He has, his brain's almost fully developed.

02:01:10.840 You're still figuring life out.

02:01:12.200 He has like seven years of life experience on you.

02:01:14.580 So, I think that there can be a power dynamic.

02:01:17.440 Yeah, but I don't know why we just, but you agree some people mature at different rates.

02:01:22.780 Yeah, I totally do.

02:01:23.780 I'm just saying it's something to acknowledge, not that there's anything inherently wrong with it.

02:01:29.160 I see, okay.

02:01:29.560 Because I do think that, I mean, you guys are engaged.

02:01:32.600 Clearly, it worked out, you know what I mean?

02:01:33.760 And I also, my most recent ex was like five years older than me.

02:01:38.080 I think that there's levels of maturity.

02:01:40.720 And also, I also think like what women want nowadays, like the stability, the financial freedom, is you're going to find that in an older man. 0.82

02:01:48.480 Oh, for sure.

02:01:49.040 We're not dating someone that's the same age as me because we just don't, we're just, it's just financially, there's just no way.

02:01:54.280 Yeah, you're in different stages of life.

02:01:56.000 Yeah.

02:01:56.400 I noticed men after 30, I'm sorry, go ahead.

02:01:58.800 I'm sorry.

02:01:59.500 I noticed men after 30, they really start figuring themselves out and they kind of just age like fine wine after that.

02:02:05.460 That is true.

02:02:06.000 So, it's kind of like, oh, they really, they're more established.

02:02:08.840 It's very attractive when they get to that point.

02:02:10.840 Let's go back to this power dynamic thing, though.

02:02:13.660 What, I don't really get what that means and what the implication is there.

02:02:17.800 Like, are we just supposed to acknowledge that there is a power dynamic, but go ahead and date the person anyway?

02:02:23.280 No, I think it's something to just be mindful of.

02:02:26.060 Yeah, what does that mean, though?

02:02:27.000 Yeah, I think what I mean, let's say I'm an 18-year-old girl and my boyfriend at the time is 25.

02:02:33.400 I think that there may just be a controlling element in dating somebody who is a little bit more established in career in their life.

02:02:42.960 That's something to be mindful of.

02:02:44.620 That's all.

02:02:45.080 Just look for the red flags.

02:02:46.920 Don't wear rose-colored glasses.

02:02:48.440 That's all that I mean.

02:02:49.520 I mean, that's true in any situation.

02:02:51.560 Don't wear rose-colored glasses.

02:02:52.700 Take them right off.

02:02:54.280 But, like, I mean, if you're 18 and you're dating a 25-year-old, it doesn't...

02:02:57.740 Like, you don't think that's inherently a little...

02:03:00.480 No.

02:03:00.640 Like, you really don't...

02:03:01.960 You don't think...

02:03:03.400 Because I don't think it's...

02:03:05.400 I don't think in every situation it's weird that a 25-year-old guy is dating an 18-year-old.

02:03:11.120 I don't.

02:03:11.500 But I think it does raise the question, why aren't they dating someone their own age?

02:03:16.180 I think it simply raises that question.

02:03:18.020 And it's a discussion to be had.

02:03:19.380 There's obviously, like, a connection there.

02:03:21.880 Okay.

02:03:22.360 You know?

02:03:22.760 And I mean, if you're 20...

02:03:23.620 If you're 25 and you're dating someone who is 18...

02:03:26.560 I think it's weird, honestly.

02:03:28.160 Yeah.

02:03:28.440 I think I'm 25.

02:03:29.320 You were very...

02:03:30.020 One at a time.

02:03:31.060 Finish your point that you can go.

02:03:33.840 If you're 25...

02:03:34.500 It's what?

02:03:35.040 It's what?

02:03:35.560 You're 25 dating 18, it's what?

02:03:37.460 It's not weird, for one.

02:03:38.860 If you are a guy and you're 25 and you're further along in your career, you want to date somebody

02:03:44.100 that, you know, you're interested in that's 18, I mean, you could lay the groundwork for

02:03:49.460 you guys building a good life together.

02:03:51.580 It's not grooming, though.

02:03:53.160 No, it's that.

02:03:54.040 I wasn't grooming.

02:03:54.900 No, it's not.

02:03:56.100 She's 18, 25, that's exactly...

02:03:58.580 Wait, hold on.

02:03:59.360 Is teaching your partner your likes and dislikes and vice versa, is that grooming?

02:04:03.920 That's not what she just said.

02:04:05.160 I feel like you just put words in my mouth.

02:04:06.540 What did she just say?

02:04:07.000 She said laying the foundation.

02:04:08.860 Of a life that they could have together.

02:04:11.040 Is grooming?

02:04:12.060 Would that be grooming if it was people of the same age?

02:04:14.560 It would be grooming if he was 25 and she was 16.

02:04:17.100 That's laying the foundation of values.

02:04:18.440 Yeah, but we're talking about adult relations.

02:04:19.660 I think it's just an element to consider.

02:04:21.340 I would like to hear your point, though.

02:04:23.180 As a 25-year-old, I would never even look in the direction of an 18-year-old. 0.90

02:04:27.300 I think that's absolutely disgusting.

02:04:29.220 They are barely legal.

02:04:30.980 Yeah, women's preferences are different, though. 1.00

02:04:32.840 Would you do the 35-year-old?

02:04:34.860 No, I wouldn't.

02:04:36.280 Because I think it's weird.

02:04:37.500 Why are you interested in somebody that young?

02:04:39.580 Can you not find anybody your own age?

02:04:41.640 Is nobody interested in anything?

02:04:42.980 Yeah, because it's like you're at that age.

02:04:43.680 That's an interesting argument you make.

02:04:45.160 So you're saying, oh, well, these older guys who prefer to date younger women, they do that

02:04:49.820 because they can't find women their own age to date.

02:04:52.660 I would argue, though, that a guy who's attractive enough to date a younger woman is going to be deemed attractive by the women in his own age also.

02:05:03.460 Because as a woman or as a guy, in order for you to be attractive to a younger woman, you can't just be the average 30, 35-year-old guy.

02:05:13.460 Nobody's saying they're attractive, though.

02:05:15.040 So most of the time when a younger woman dates an older man, it's for money. 0.74

02:05:19.500 No, not necessarily.

02:05:21.260 It can be.

02:05:22.120 A 45-year-old dating a 25-year-old, it's usually going to be for money.

02:05:25.780 We can keep bumping the age gap. 0.82

02:05:27.480 But, like, for example, a 20-year-old with a 30-year-old don't necessarily think it's because of money. 0.87

02:05:32.200 It could just be that guy's really attractive and he wants to date a 20-year-old and she wants to date a really attractive guy who has his shit a bit more together than, like, the other college frat boys that she's dealing with. 0.74

02:05:44.020 I think it's circumstantial. 0.80

02:05:47.140 And to your point, all I'm trying to say that makes me, you know, raise an eyebrow at a 25-year-old dating an 18-year-old girl is you commented on about it yourself, how you feel that you've matured and learned so much now in your 30s versus your 20s.

02:05:59.680 I think that not everybody is at a high level of maturity at 18.

02:06:05.620 And I think that some guys know that and there could be room for exploitation in those.

02:06:12.940 But that's not all the case.

02:06:14.800 I don't know why you're, like, gasping like I'm saying something crazy.

02:06:18.620 I think holding the expectation that there's always a sense of exploitation is a problem because I don't think that's the case.

02:06:24.820 And it's not a big age gap.

02:06:26.080 What would you say about women 25 dating an 18-year-old? 0.74

02:06:29.680 Me.

02:06:30.560 No, is that kind of off, too?

02:06:32.160 It's kind of weird?

02:06:32.980 I think I truly believe every situation is circumstantial.

02:06:37.140 But I think that I've met incredibly immature 18-year-olds and I've met incredibly mature 25-year-olds that I think would not make any sense together.

02:06:45.040 You know what I mean?

02:06:45.640 Yeah, but there's kind of a sense what you're framing it with exploitation.

02:06:49.560 It's going to set it up for failure.

02:06:52.140 It's kind of the lack of trust.

02:06:54.120 You're starting with that.

02:06:55.300 You know what I'm saying?

02:06:55.900 It can cause a problem going forward.

02:06:58.820 And I don't think guys, most of them, have that sort of intention with women.

02:07:04.300 The majority are not really like that.

02:07:06.960 It's just something to think about.

02:07:08.380 I'm not trying to generalize at all.

02:07:10.660 It's just, you know, something I would consider.

02:07:13.120 Yeah, go for it.

02:07:14.000 Yeah.

02:07:14.440 As somebody who was 18 and dated a 25-year-old, I'm just going to input real quick.

02:07:18.760 I completely get what everybody at this table is saying.

02:07:21.800 I get what you're saying.

02:07:22.980 And, like, when I was 18 and I was dating a certain 25-year-old, like, sometimes it would

02:07:29.460 feel more of, like, a mentor-student type thing instead of a relationship.

02:07:36.440 Not because, like, he was trying to purposely put me down or anything, but because he had

02:07:41.500 knowledge that, like, I just hadn't experienced yet.

02:07:44.480 But sometimes when we would talk about, like, my issues or my problems, he would more come

02:07:49.680 to it of a standpoint of, this is what you need to do, and I know better because I'm

02:07:54.880 older.

02:07:55.400 Yeah, you're almost not equals.

02:07:56.400 So I completely, yeah, I completely get what you're saying.

02:07:59.040 Wait, not equals.

02:07:59.800 What do you mean?

02:08:00.400 Well, like she just said.

02:08:01.880 Like, in the sense.

02:08:03.160 He was giving her advice.

02:08:04.340 What's wrong with that?

02:08:05.420 Well, I feel like you're misconstruing what she's saying.

02:08:08.240 I heard everything she just said.

02:08:09.640 Yeah, he has more life experience.

02:08:11.660 That's all.

02:08:12.120 Isn't that a good thing?

02:08:12.800 Just, I was just, I was just saying, I was just saying that sometimes, like, like, when

02:08:18.500 not saying I don't want advice from my partner, but there is a fine line between getting advice

02:08:23.660 and telling me what to do.

02:08:25.300 And she was saying it was a mentor and worship role.

02:08:27.600 Sometimes, sometimes when we would talk about stuff or, like, or, like, he would give me

02:08:31.720 advice on things, it would feel more of a mentor, mentee type thing versus we're in

02:08:39.560 a relationship boyfriend, girlfriend, like, type thing because it didn't feel like he

02:08:44.160 was giving me advice.

02:08:45.260 It felt like he was telling me what to do because he had these life experiences.

02:08:50.420 But he's at 25.

02:08:51.360 Did you have the conversation of, like, hey, when you say it this way, when we have these

02:08:56.120 conversations, this is how it makes me feel?

02:08:57.700 We did, we did have that conversation multiple times and he just, like, wasn't getting it.

02:09:03.520 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, what's the conversation you had?

02:09:06.560 Like, for example, like, a conversation that I had with him was I was preparing a scene

02:09:11.520 for class and there was, like, a trigger warning in it that I wasn't particularly comfortable

02:09:17.100 with and because we were picking the scenes, I, okay, go ahead, go ahead.

02:09:21.380 Well, I'm not going to say what the trigger is.

02:09:23.020 That's, no, no, no, that's fine.

02:09:24.220 Just, yeah, but, um, trigger warnings and, okay.

02:09:27.100 But he, like, but, but, like, I told him, I was, like, I feel like since we haven't turned

02:09:31.420 in the scene yet, I'm going to talk to my partner about switching the scene because

02:09:35.180 I'm extremely uncomfortable with this role and the way that she's portraying it's just

02:09:39.920 making me uncomfortable.

02:09:41.700 And the way we were talking, like, the way he was talking to me, he was, like, he was,

02:09:45.760 like, well, in the industry, you're not going to be able to change your scene.

02:09:49.240 So if you already picked it, you should just do it because in the industry, like, I'm, because

02:09:53.720 in the industry, they're not going to let you change it.

02:09:55.940 And all I was trying to explain to him was, hey, we haven't turned in the scene yet.

02:10:00.660 It's not like it's set in stone that I have to do it.

02:10:03.020 We have three more days to pick a scene.

02:10:05.360 If I can pick a scene before then, I'm going to choose a different scene. 0.97

02:10:08.980 And he was just, like, and he was just, like, I just think it's stupid that you're not

02:10:13.080 listening to me because if you already chose the scene with your partner, I don't think 0.72

02:10:17.960 your partner is going to want to change it.

02:10:19.280 And what are you going to do if your partner doesn't want to change it?

02:10:21.620 You're still going to have to do it.

02:10:22.980 So you should just do it now.

02:10:24.280 And you should just learn how to deal with it because in the real world, you're not going

02:10:26.680 to be able to do that.

02:10:27.900 I don't know if that's an age thing as more as just his personality.

02:10:32.680 Like, but do you see what I mean?

02:10:35.340 And, like, it felt like he was telling me what to do and more of, like, he wasn't giving

02:10:39.960 the advice at that point.

02:10:41.180 Yeah.

02:10:41.480 And I have a question for you just because I also have been, like, in a, like, little

02:10:45.360 age gap relationship.

02:10:46.380 I was 20, partner was 25.

02:10:49.600 I experienced some people who didn't even bat their eyelashes at that, but I also did

02:10:54.720 experience some people who they thought, what?

02:10:58.420 Like, it's a crazy age gap.

02:10:59.660 So I am just asking you, did you experience any of that in your personal life when you

02:11:05.620 got with your partner?

02:11:06.180 Speak straight into the mic.

02:11:07.220 When you got with your partner?

02:11:08.300 Sorry, I'm trying to make eye contact with her.

02:11:09.840 Me too.

02:11:10.080 I understand.

02:11:12.420 I, at first, yeah, especially when I brought him home to my parents, they're like, oh,

02:11:16.940 he's a little older, but I, I think I've, I've kind of set myself up to, like, want an

02:11:23.720 older partner in general.

02:11:25.320 Yes, totally.

02:11:25.740 So I kind of already had the mindset going into that.

02:11:28.640 Like, yeah, like you said, like, it could be a, a, a little bit of a power dynamic just

02:11:33.920 because he's a little older, a little more established, and I'm not, I'm just starting

02:11:36.800 my life.

02:11:37.220 Like, that, I, I, I, I get you on that one.

02:11:39.740 Yeah.

02:11:40.200 Um, that's all I was trying to do.

02:11:41.840 You know, I was thinking about this the other day, this power dynamic thing and how older

02:11:46.660 guys supposedly have more power in a relationship because of, like, material, either material

02:11:55.300 or they're more mature, but I was, I was thinking, like, I think there's this unspoken power dynamic

02:12:04.860 that exists between somebody who does have power and then somebody who doesn't.

02:12:11.660 So, for example, and this would be somebody who has less to lose.

02:12:14.900 So, like, let's say there's somebody really famous dating a nobody.

02:12:19.720 We would say, okay, there's a power dynamic that exists here.

02:12:22.260 This person's really rich, they have status, influence, whatever, and they're dating a

02:12:26.680 nobody.

02:12:27.420 That's a power dynamic.

02:12:29.460 But I was actually thinking the power dynamic exists in the other way because here's this

02:12:34.560 person who has a reputation for themselves.

02:12:37.520 And if this other person comes out and tries to destroy this other person's reputation, well,

02:12:44.780 reputationally, that can't really go both ways.

02:12:48.240 Because you don't have a reputation to ruin.

02:12:52.700 But many women ruin famous men's reputations all the time, sometimes justified, oftentimes 0.98

02:13:00.500 just, he broke up with me, I'm upset, let me just ruin this dude's reputation or put stuff

02:13:07.320 out there, you know, whatever.

02:13:09.220 Um, and it's difficult when you're the person in a relationship who does have something to

02:13:15.760 lose.

02:13:16.540 It's usually never beneficial for you, depends on the, you know, accusation or whatever,

02:13:21.600 almost never beneficial for you to respond to it because you're giving oxygen to it when

02:13:27.680 otherwise if you ignore it, you hope it just doesn't give it any oxygen, you just move on.

02:13:32.040 Uh, but oftentimes, yeah, I think a lot of the times there's a, there's a reversal, a flip,

02:13:40.000 an inverse of the power dynamic where the, the person who has less to lose can go scorched earth 0.93

02:13:47.420 and completely just fuck a person over. 0.91

02:13:51.020 And I, I guess one example I could think of this is like, let's say somebody, somebody has 0.99

02:13:56.580 nothing going for themselves in their life.

02:13:58.880 Like they could just, I don't know, they could cause drama.

02:14:01.820 They could like make things public.

02:14:04.880 And this is assuming like in a relationship dynamic, there wasn't anything, there wasn't

02:14:09.560 abuse or anything like that.

02:14:11.420 Just this person is bent out of shape because this other person wants to end the relationship

02:14:15.740 or whatever.

02:14:16.200 This person can fabricate things, could lie.

02:14:20.560 So I don't know this idea that, I don't know.

02:14:26.080 I hear you on that, but the reputation, I think if that person that has the, not as much

02:14:32.800 reputation as a person that they're trying to attack, I think I would also think of like,

02:14:38.400 um, does that person, how am I trying to say this?

02:14:42.060 Like, would that person, would you give that person the time of day?

02:14:45.820 Like if you're a nobody and you're accusing or you're doing something, I'd be like, all 1.00

02:14:49.400 right, this bitch is just going off. 1.00

02:14:50.920 Right, exactly that. 1.00

02:14:52.060 It's kind of like, I can see where you're going, but I think also the reputation or the

02:14:57.240 power dynamic.

02:14:57.580 It's their credibility, basically.

02:15:00.640 Yeah.

02:15:00.800 You know, like how likely are you to listen to that?

02:15:02.660 And I hear where you're coming from and that does happen sometimes and they do succeed

02:15:06.920 in their prerogative of destroying whoever it may be, whether it's for valid reasons or

02:15:10.900 for not so valid reasons.

02:15:12.300 But I feel that's an anomaly in the typical power structures of the type of relationship

02:15:17.220 you're talking about.

02:15:19.020 You know, like somebody extremely powerful who feels untouchable, like Diddy, to be honest,

02:15:23.760 you know, and like that whole power structure with, you know, Cassandra and everyone else 1.00

02:15:28.360 was involved.

02:15:28.740 We don't have to get too into that, but that's kind of where my mind goes in the most extreme

02:15:32.720 of ways when we're talking about that particular power structure in this industry.

02:15:37.040 Well, there's a lot, I don't know the details of the Diddy case.

02:15:40.640 There is alleged abuse.

02:15:43.020 And in fact, I mean, he was caught on camera, right?

02:15:44.880 Yes. 0.97

02:15:45.000 Beating this woman. 1.00

02:15:45.860 Yes.

02:15:46.140 So it's not just alleged.

02:15:47.180 I believe he did, in fact.

02:15:48.940 Yes.

02:15:49.180 He wasn't on camera.

02:15:50.540 Like, actually on camera.

02:15:51.260 It was on camera.

02:15:51.600 Yeah.

02:15:52.660 Right.

02:15:53.240 So, I mean, there's clear irrefutable evidence, not just like he did this.

02:15:58.160 No, it's on camera.

02:15:59.200 Right.

02:15:59.600 He did that.

02:16:00.300 But I think the principle would still even apply then.

02:16:05.740 You see someone like him, and of course he apparently did do really terrible things,

02:16:12.120 but there's just so much.

02:16:17.900 His empire's done.

02:16:19.460 Like, the dude's done.

02:16:20.700 I don't know.

02:16:21.280 Right for you.

02:16:21.860 Justifiedly.

02:16:22.500 He might get off.

02:16:23.360 Right for you.

02:16:23.940 I heard he had a stab.

02:16:24.980 We don't live in a system of justice, so I don't, I don't, he might get off.

02:16:28.380 I don't know the details about the case, but like, reputationally, the guy's done for.

02:16:33.080 Right.

02:16:33.160 I mean, totally done for, and I don't know if that's a great example, though.

02:16:38.440 I'm not going to come to Diddy's defense.

02:16:40.380 That's good.

02:16:40.660 I'm trying to think if there is like a recent celebrity.

02:16:42.900 Oh, God.

02:16:43.140 I don't know.

02:16:43.860 Aziz Ansari.

02:16:44.780 That just like recovers?

02:16:45.380 Aziz Ansari.

02:16:46.460 I don't know if you know him.

02:16:47.260 I don't know.

02:16:47.540 Comedian.

02:16:48.100 This was at like the height of the Me Too movement.

02:16:50.000 He went on a date with a girl, and she, she Me Too'd him, and the, the, the headline was,

02:17:00.280 it was essentially, it was a bad date.

02:17:02.800 Oh.

02:17:03.300 Like there's, everything was consensual, but she just didn't like the sex, I guess.

02:17:08.860 And she went on, and, but he kind of, it was at the height of the Me Too, he kind of got

02:17:13.060 a little bit canceled, a little bit, but you read the article, she just wasn't really feeling

02:17:19.780 it, you know, but she accused him of rape?

02:17:23.760 No.

02:17:24.500 Oh. 1.00

02:17:24.680 But she had consensual, I think they, they had sex, it was consent, well, yeah, you fucked 1.00

02:17:31.000 Aziz Ansari. 1.00

02:17:31.680 No.

02:17:33.660 That's why I thought she got so excited.

02:17:35.380 No, no, no, no, no.

02:17:36.700 This made me think of something.

02:17:38.380 Has anybody been following on TikTok the, I'm in love with my psychiatrist, Kendra?

02:17:43.940 No.

02:17:44.040 Has anybody been following Kendra?

02:17:45.300 No.

02:17:45.360 There is this girl on TikTok, wait, this relates to what you were saying, but she like has this

02:17:51.020 like almost 30 part series about how her, how she's been in love with her psychiatrist, and

02:17:56.240 like everything that happened, and like as you're watching it, it's literally nothing.

02:18:00.220 She's in Duluth City.

02:18:01.900 Like, like.

02:18:02.320 Oh.

02:18:02.500 She's a psychiatrist, yeah.

02:18:03.820 Yeah, and she, she's saying stuff like, like, like, like there was this one example where,

02:18:08.380 she like, she like was talking about doing in-person visits, because they were meeting

02:18:12.880 on Zoom, and she was like, and she was like, oh, can I like have an in-person visit?

02:18:18.060 And he was like, no, I don't really do in-person visits, I more do Zoom, and like her interpretation

02:18:23.040 of that was, oh, he doesn't want me there, because he knows that if I'm there, there's

02:18:27.260 going to be so much tension in the room that we're just going to like, put each other's

02:18:30.540 clothes on.

02:18:31.080 And it was like, like, she was saying like stuff like that, and then she was like, the

02:18:35.640 entire time he kept up his boundaries, he just couldn't let himself go with me, and

02:18:39.540 like, when you watch, you can tell that like.

02:18:41.280 So none of it existed?

02:18:42.260 I'm, wait, is that what happened?

02:18:43.260 Like, like, like what she's saying, it's just him, it's just him putting up boundaries.

02:18:47.540 Oh, I see.

02:18:48.160 Like, like, he's not reciprocating anything, and she's saying it as she's like explaining,

02:18:52.100 he's like, I love his boundaries, but like, he's in love with me, and he's been stringing

02:18:55.660 me along.

02:18:56.280 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:18:56.700 But nothing she's saying is corroborating that.

02:18:59.100 But that type of behavior, we need to get better at calling out, though, because that's

02:19:01.840 like, that's.

02:19:02.660 Yeah, people were, and then she turned off the comments, but I've been following Kendra.

02:19:06.360 I mean, the whole thing is like, I haven't kept up with whatever, and I just walked into

02:19:10.240 this conversation, but it's her being in love with her psychiatrist, right?

02:19:14.280 Yeah. 0.99

02:19:15.040 So clearly she's mentally ill, that's like an established fact. 0.99

02:19:17.100 Yeah, she has ADHD. 1.00

02:19:18.920 She's infatuated. 0.99

02:19:20.480 Yeah. 1.00

02:19:21.100 Sounds like it's bullshit for clicks. 0.99

02:19:23.200 Yeah. 0.99

02:19:23.700 Yeah.

02:19:24.220 True.

02:19:25.380 Well, it worked.

02:19:26.340 We're talking about it.

02:19:27.420 It came to mind for you, babe.

02:19:28.820 Have you guys seen this girl?

02:19:30.120 She's on TikTok.

02:19:31.080 She's gone.

02:19:31.960 She's like a serial dater, and she goes on dates every couple days.

02:19:37.600 She's not married.

02:19:38.220 It's been a few years she's been going on dates, and people are like, are you really

02:19:40.760 dating, or is this just fake videos? 1.00

02:19:43.120 It's bullshit. 1.00

02:19:43.720 Have you guys seen it? 1.00

02:19:44.640 She's like in New York, and she's dating multiple.

02:19:46.620 She's like, I'm going on this date.

02:19:47.680 I'm going on my fifth date.

02:19:48.960 I would put money that she asked ChildGPT for interesting video calls.

02:19:51.900 It might be something like that.

02:19:53.860 The only person I've seen that's remotely close to that is this dude named Ryan.

02:19:57.960 Have you seen the Hey Girl videos?

02:19:59.900 Yes.

02:20:00.240 No, I haven't heard of them.

02:20:01.480 Hey Girl. 0.98

02:20:02.000 He has insane stories where he throws parties at his house, and he hooks up with all these

02:20:07.360 girls, and he goes on TikTok and tells story times about it.

02:20:11.400 He does that, too.

02:20:13.040 But sometimes I feel like he might be capping.

02:20:15.960 Some of his stories? 0.97

02:20:16.780 The minute we started monetizing bullshit on the internet is the minute that we saw this 0.98

02:20:23.000 steep, steep decline in human points. 0.99

02:20:27.060 Oh, absolutely.

02:20:27.440 I mean, it's insane.

02:20:30.400 I mean, I try to get offline.

02:20:31.960 I don't even watch TV anymore.

02:20:33.500 I'm not public.

02:20:34.780 I'm very private.

02:20:35.900 In our culture, obviously, rage bait thrives on social media.

02:20:40.320 Yeah, but it's for the clicks.

02:20:42.120 Everything's chaotic.

02:20:43.200 People play character, which is very interesting.

02:20:45.920 But it's so hard to...

02:20:47.000 I am a content creator, and I don't know.

02:20:49.260 Social media is just such an oversaturated market.

02:20:51.500 I feel like, how do you stand out without being authentic?

02:20:54.000 I don't know.

02:20:54.700 We're losing our authenticity. 1.00

02:20:56.420 It's bullshit. 1.00

02:20:57.520 I agree. 1.00

02:20:58.180 It's bullshit. 1.00

02:20:58.980 Yeah, I totally agree. 1.00

02:21:00.260 But we're selling our authenticity for clicks and monies.

02:21:06.460 And notoriety and celebrity. 1.00

02:21:08.460 And it's like, you could be living a much better life without all of that shit. 0.99

02:21:14.760 Yeah, I mean, humans weren't created to live this way, but that's our society. 1.00

02:21:19.520 And I am simply a pawn in this game of life.

02:21:22.260 No, you can do what you do because you can be an example to other people.

02:21:28.920 I think.

02:21:30.480 Can you elaborate on that?

02:21:31.720 All right.

02:21:32.160 Anyways, moving on. 0.95

02:21:34.060 I'm just the hag next to Brian. 0.81

02:21:35.660 Quick couple chats here.

02:21:39.900 Huddy, thank you.

02:21:40.720 Looks like you purchased a t-shirt.

02:21:42.680 Thank you so much, man.

02:21:43.360 Appreciate it.

02:21:44.380 Thank you.

02:21:44.720 Thank you.

02:21:45.100 And then we do have Dross coming in here.

02:21:48.360 Ellie, could you read this one for us?

02:21:49.740 38 and dating.

02:21:50.680 Most of the women in my age range are girl bosses, a.k.a. 1.00

02:21:53.360 someone who doesn't need a man. 0.99

02:21:54.640 How likely is someone to walk away when they've spent their life believing men are supplemental?

02:21:59.040 Pretty likely.

02:22:00.720 Yeah.

02:22:01.200 Yeah, just, you know, I think when you want to date a high quality woman who doesn't necessarily need a man, you just need to try to make her life easier in whatever regard that means.

02:22:13.360 What makes her high quality if she doesn't need a man? 1.00

02:22:16.140 Like, what are the characteristics that a high quality woman has who doesn't need a man? 1.00

02:22:21.600 This is me personally, and this is not affiliated with any political stance.

02:22:26.140 This is just my mantra of life.

02:22:28.460 I think that a high quality human being is just someone who tries to be a positive impact on the people around them and who are passionate and driven.

02:22:36.340 And they're working toward their goals, whether they're going to school or they have an established career.

02:22:41.660 They're just driven and motivated and they're respectful.

02:22:45.240 But specifically a woman?

02:22:47.100 Well, I think that applies to all people.

02:22:50.100 I don't have a specific, oh, this is what women have to do to be high quality versus men. 1.00

02:22:55.960 We could have a conversation about gender roles if we want to get into that.

02:22:59.120 But I think I just meant more high quality person.

02:23:01.760 And if this commenter had something more specific in terms of the type of women he's talking about, I think I'm not about feminism at all.

02:23:13.100 I've been anti-feminist since high school because it's really destroyed dating and getting married and having kids. 1.00

02:23:22.780 Why do you think that?

02:23:23.920 Because an unequal society is what I would call a safe society. 0.99

02:23:28.520 What I understand about feminism, it's a civil rights movement in the West. 1.00

02:23:32.480 I mean, it's kind of a global issue.

02:23:35.260 I call it cancer. 0.97

02:23:38.020 Because it creates, it placates off of the natural inclination for women to be corrupt. 1.00

02:23:45.900 It's a very corrupt ideology.

02:23:48.080 Did you read Rachel's book?

02:23:50.000 Which book?

02:23:50.760 No, then.

02:23:51.360 Occult feminism? 0.88

02:23:52.760 Occult feminism.

02:23:53.420 No, I haven't.

02:23:54.440 I'm probably plugging it shamelessly.

02:23:55.680 And the reason why I've been anti-feminist since high school, because again, I'm a product of the- 0.97

02:24:00.580 Hold on, one sec, one sec.

02:24:01.120 Go ahead, go ahead.

02:24:01.760 Hold on.

02:24:25.680 What was I saying? 0.99

02:24:30.540 Women have a particular innate capabilities that can make them very corrupt and manipulative. 1.00

02:24:37.280 And I noticed with feminism, it really magnifies that. 1.00

02:24:39.880 Because it actually calls it a civil rights movement in the West.

02:24:43.400 And it's a fake civil rights movement in the West.

02:24:45.860 But it really just ends up becoming a big government situation, which is what most civil rights movements in the West is all about.

02:24:52.500 It's not really about your civil rights.

02:24:54.440 It doesn't really, it's not an inequality thing.

02:24:56.720 Because we have equal rights.

02:24:58.620 But I'm at the point now where I'm like, less rights for women, the better. 1.00

02:25:02.780 Because it's actually becoming such a cancerous society.

02:25:06.300 It's destroying family and tradition.

02:25:08.320 And I'm very patriarchal.

02:25:10.880 I appreciate the patriarchy.

02:25:11.460 I have this question.

02:25:12.320 Oh, sorry.

02:25:13.360 I want to hear it.

02:25:14.160 Hold on, hold on.

02:25:15.200 Before I let you come in.

02:25:16.280 Yeah.

02:25:16.720 You were making a face when she was talking about not liking feminism or whatever. 1.00

02:25:20.780 Give it to me.

02:25:21.860 A lot of you were actually grimacing.

02:25:23.720 So I'll give you guys all a chance to state your disagreements, I guess.

02:25:29.760 Go ahead.

02:25:30.220 I'm a content creator that focuses on fashion and beauty content.

02:25:33.920 I support women empowerment.

02:25:36.180 All my audience is women. 1.00

02:25:37.780 80% of my audience is women.

02:25:40.620 I'm very much for women empowerment.

02:25:44.160 Making sure women feel like they should be able to be independent.

02:25:49.180 They don't need a man. 1.00

02:25:50.380 They can have a successful job and career without relying on a man. 0.78

02:25:56.080 A man should be able to support you and support your dreams and careers and aspirations without 0.99

02:26:01.220 bringing you down.

02:26:02.600 I don't think anybody technically needs a man to do any of that.

02:26:07.260 I do.

02:26:07.940 We need them.

02:26:09.120 We really do.

02:26:09.980 I think you can want one, but I don't think a woman needs one. 1.00

02:26:13.340 I am financially independent, always have been since I was the age of 15.

02:26:18.080 I've always had a job, always knew how to work, knew how to pay my bills.

02:26:21.900 I never needed any support from anyone, including my family.

02:26:26.780 I didn't need that aspect.

02:26:29.120 So without women's rights, are you saying that women shouldn't be able to be successful?

02:26:35.320 I want to be a successful woman.

02:26:37.020 I want to be a girl boss.

02:26:38.180 I want to live my life the way I want to live it.

02:26:40.880 I don't want it to rely on what a man wants me to do.

02:26:44.440 Do you want kids or marriage or anything like that?

02:26:46.560 I want to be married, but I don't want kids because I'm just not a person that finds a

02:26:53.820 need for, I just don't like children.

02:26:56.640 I worked on Amusement Park for a long time.

02:26:59.500 I worked at a mall for a long time.

02:27:01.240 I just don't like kids.

02:27:02.220 What's the point of getting married if you're not going to have kids?

02:27:03.880 To be happy, I just want, right, that is the purpose of marriage.

02:27:07.840 Literally, the point of marriage is to have kids.

02:27:10.260 To be fair, you can have kids.

02:27:11.260 I thought the point of marriage is to have a life partner.

02:27:13.120 Yeah, it's to have a partner.

02:27:14.040 You can have kids outside of...

02:27:15.100 Some people are infernal.

02:27:16.480 What do you think about that?

02:27:17.260 You can have kids outside of marriage.

02:27:20.220 You can stay with somebody for your whole life without marriage. 0.52

02:27:23.460 But, okay, so you don't want kids, though.

02:27:26.580 Yeah.

02:27:26.820 I just don't see the point, like...

02:27:28.400 I want to be happy with somebody.

02:27:29.820 I want to have, like, a partner that supports me through everything I do.

02:27:33.040 I want to support them through everything that they do.

02:27:35.320 At the end of the day, we build each other up.

02:27:38.000 I personally want to, like, I want to have a wedding.

02:27:40.260 Like, that is a fantasy of mine.

02:27:42.420 Like, I want to get married.

02:27:43.940 I want to have a wedding.

02:27:45.160 See, you want to get...

02:27:46.700 You want to have the wedding.

02:27:48.600 You want to have the marriage.

02:27:50.560 Wait, how's that...

02:27:51.260 It's the show of it.

02:27:52.540 It's the fantasy of it.

02:27:53.720 The wedding.

02:27:54.260 It's not the actual unity or union of it.

02:27:56.720 Right.

02:27:57.260 That's not what she said, though.

02:27:58.260 She doesn't want to be a mother. 1.00

02:27:59.260 Yeah.

02:27:59.860 She wants to be a mother. 1.00

02:28:00.260 That's exactly what she said.

02:28:00.700 I want to be a wife, but I don't want to be a mother.

02:28:03.640 Not all men want kids. 0.95

02:28:04.580 But you said the wedding is a fantasy.

02:28:06.520 What about the marriage specifically, absent your own desires?

02:28:10.680 Like, what is the purpose of the marriage?

02:28:12.960 Like, the supporting one another and having that bond.

02:28:15.940 You can have that absent marriage.

02:28:18.200 But you said you don't need a man.

02:28:19.760 I don't need a man. 0.99

02:28:20.840 I can support myself.

02:28:22.800 You can want something and not need it.

02:28:25.240 Exactly.

02:28:25.900 We want makeup, but we don't need it.

02:28:28.280 I don't need it, to be honest.

02:28:30.660 Sorry.

02:28:31.500 That's the difference.

02:28:32.460 Like, there's a want and then there's a need.

02:28:34.140 I don't need a man to be who I am.

02:28:36.860 I can want a man, and I do want a man, but I don't need one.

02:28:39.820 Okay, who else disagreed with her?

02:28:41.000 Do you disagree?

02:28:41.960 I'm kind of on the same wavelength as her because it's like, I mean, I don't need a man, but I want one.

02:28:48.580 Like, I moved across the country, like, by myself and found a place within the two days.

02:28:54.800 I didn't need a man to do that.

02:28:56.920 Okay.

02:28:57.180 Yeah.

02:28:57.540 Really quick, I just saw your tattoo.

02:28:58.760 Can you, it's a heart and a cue?

02:29:01.720 What is it?

02:29:02.000 It's a queen of hearts. 0.99

02:29:03.260 Oh, I thought it was like QAnon or some shit. 0.98

02:29:04.720 Okay, that's cool. 0.96

02:29:05.640 How does one become a queen? 1.00

02:29:07.980 You already are.

02:29:09.120 I would be surprised.

02:29:09.700 Do you have disagreements with what she said?

02:29:11.660 Yeah, I particularly am, you know, stuck on your claim that you think women should have 1.00

02:29:20.340 less rights.

02:29:21.660 Yes.

02:29:22.040 What does that mean?

02:29:23.860 I don't think they should vote.

02:29:25.860 You don't think women should vote? 1.00

02:29:27.340 Not at all.

02:29:28.780 Women make up a lot. 1.00

02:29:30.680 You also don't think women should vote. 1.00

02:29:31.840 I don't necessarily believe that women should not vote.

02:29:34.860 I'm going to tell you my take on this.

02:29:36.280 It's kind of simple for me. 0.90

02:29:37.860 Because I'm going to sound like a hypocrite, I voted my first, you know, twice. 0.93

02:29:43.060 Okay. 0.95

02:29:43.400 But I started getting into feminism and how it's really corrupted and how women in government 1.00

02:29:50.360 really corrupt it.

02:29:51.980 There's a corruption.

02:29:52.720 Straight, straight, straight.

02:29:53.560 I'm sorry.

02:29:54.660 And in my view with voting, you know, prior to women voting, men, landowners were voting.

02:30:01.180 They had a stake in the game.

02:30:02.360 But as soon as we gave women the right to vote, they have a proclivity to being commies. 1.00

02:30:07.860 Okay.

02:30:08.580 Because it's innate to their nature.

02:30:10.600 I understand, I think, the generalization that is making you make that claim.

02:30:16.700 But I have seen the statistics.

02:30:18.360 And I think perhaps the women that aren't voting in alignment to your values and morals 1.00

02:30:23.460 are uneducated women and uneducated people in general. 1.00

02:30:27.160 I think there should be perhaps a basis level.

02:30:30.880 And I know that education is not accessible for everybody in our country.

02:30:34.120 But for, you know, our government to function in the way that is going to be best for our

02:30:40.820 society, I think that there should be a base level of education.

02:30:43.720 Because recently there's been a lot of uneducated people who have been voting.

02:30:48.040 And those are the people who have been showing up and showing out.

02:30:50.840 And I think that maybe those people don't align with your morals and values.

02:30:57.760 Not all women. 0.96

02:30:59.720 I think that's kind of crazy. 1.00

02:31:01.240 Because there's a lot of dumb men who are voting. 0.99

02:31:04.120 And just to take away educated women's ability to vote, I don't think that's fair. 1.00

02:31:09.780 Well, we're over-educating ourselves in the West.

02:31:11.940 It's actually an over-education.

02:31:13.500 And not as, it's actually more simple.

02:31:17.360 Sorry.

02:31:18.420 Does that not feel like almost regressive, though, that thought process?

02:31:21.420 And I understand it's traditional.

02:31:22.640 No, no, no, no, you're fine.

02:31:24.440 It is regressive in the right ways.

02:31:26.880 I appreciate an imbalanced society where women are not at the helm. 1.00

02:31:31.480 When a society is declining, we're putting women on the helm of that ship. 1.00

02:31:35.920 And men really have to guide it into stability.

02:31:39.160 Now, I'm not a fan of men who are kind of like feminists, too.

02:31:43.240 There's a lot of guys that are feminists, and they're also a liability to what I would 1.00

02:31:46.780 like to see as a traditional, safe, and civil society, you know?

02:31:50.220 So it's not just women. 0.99

02:31:51.240 A lot of guys are actually allowing this to unfold, and it's very problematic.

02:31:55.780 Did you know that guys actually allowed women the right to vote?

02:31:59.960 It's a mess.

02:32:00.620 Aren't they so nice?

02:32:01.840 Absolute mess.

02:32:02.580 Actually, no, most women really weren't, like, for all of that.

02:32:05.580 We're not even designed for it.

02:32:06.860 It's actually a stressful world to get into politics, especially for women. 1.00

02:32:10.720 It causes a lot of stress on women, too. 1.00

02:32:12.480 And it's, like, less stress, the better.

02:32:14.200 I know.

02:32:14.740 I did not vote the first, I think, like, one or two times that I could.

02:32:20.920 But I have.

02:32:22.500 But, like, going back to, like, those years where I could have voted but did not, like,

02:32:27.360 I didn't know what I was voting.

02:32:29.220 That's you, though.

02:32:30.400 I know.

02:32:30.760 That's a lot.

02:32:31.320 A lot of other women. 1.00

02:32:32.660 Majority.

02:32:33.060 Well, okay, sure.

02:32:35.320 But do you not feel the minority of women who are educated and who do enjoy taking part

02:32:42.020 of our democratic process should be able to vote?

02:32:45.040 You don't think they should have that choice?

02:32:46.640 You really don't think so just because they don't agree with you?

02:32:49.120 That comes into question.

02:32:49.700 No, not even that.

02:32:50.380 It comes into question if it's really a democratic process.

02:32:53.320 It's an absolute disaster, the democratic process.

02:32:56.480 It becomes tribalism.

02:32:57.280 But tribalism is normal.

02:32:59.100 It's innate to human nature to kind of become in our own tribe.

02:33:02.820 But, yeah, it's not really a democratic process.

02:33:05.700 It's also why.

02:33:06.360 You had something also you wanted to touch on from a couple minutes ago.

02:33:10.700 Yeah.

02:33:11.400 About what you said.

02:33:12.140 What was I going to say?

02:33:12.720 Oh, yeah.

02:33:13.360 Okay.

02:33:13.820 So I completely get what you're saying in, like, a you need.

02:33:18.260 I guess maybe because I come from a household where, like, my mom and my dad were high school

02:33:22.360 sweethearts.

02:33:23.420 He unfortunately passed when I was younger.

02:33:25.980 So my mom had raised me and my sisters and my brother and stuff.

02:33:30.460 So, like, what makes the question I have for you is do you think that after, like, my dad

02:33:36.280 had died, do you think that my mom should have found another man? 0.99

02:33:40.220 Because, like, in traditional sense, like, that's.

02:33:43.340 No, that's not.

02:33:44.000 No, that was totally out of her control.

02:33:46.040 She didn't walk away from him.

02:33:47.900 So.

02:33:48.340 You know, that was totally out of her control. 0.87

02:33:50.160 So if she would have walked away from him, it wouldn't have been okay for her to be a 0.99

02:33:54.600 single mom.

02:33:55.080 I'm just trying to understand.

02:33:56.420 Well, she made the choice and now she has to suffer as a single mom. 1.00

02:33:59.640 You know, having a two-parent household makes a world of a difference raising children, especially

02:34:03.780 young sons.

02:34:05.060 You know, they need their fathers.

02:34:06.180 But girls need their fathers, too. 0.97

02:34:07.680 I think being married is a huge deal.

02:34:09.280 It makes a huge.

02:34:10.000 It's actually such a blessing to be married.

02:34:12.460 It's dangerous to be in a cohabitation situation.

02:34:16.840 Single mother households can be dangerous, too, because the women are so exhausted raising 1.00

02:34:21.100 kids by themselves.

02:34:21.880 They might even put children in a dangerous situation just for their comfort level, you

02:34:26.860 know?

02:34:27.100 And that kind of thing is a liability to the children.

02:34:30.580 You know, a lot of convicts are actually products of single mothers. 0.98

02:34:33.720 It's a fact.

02:34:35.240 Go for it.

02:34:35.920 An unpleasant fact.

02:34:36.900 For almost 21 years of my life, aside from, you know, my mom.

02:34:41.180 She has another baby.

02:34:43.560 He's seven.

02:34:44.500 I didn't have any really father figure.

02:34:48.680 And she's an amazing real estate agent.

02:34:51.420 Like, she is so successful.

02:34:53.380 So successful.

02:34:55.100 And, I mean, like, she's been in a relationship with my, I guess, my stepfather.

02:34:59.800 I mean, I could consider him my dad.

02:35:01.620 But I didn't need any man in my life to be like, you know, like, do, like, sports and

02:35:07.120 all that.

02:35:07.380 Like, just teach me things.

02:35:08.560 I didn't need that.

02:35:09.300 It's not about sports.

02:35:10.260 I was with my mom every second.

02:35:12.960 And there was all the times I didn't need her.

02:35:14.840 But she was always working.

02:35:15.900 And I was with her everywhere.

02:35:16.840 She didn't leave me alone at home.

02:35:18.040 My dad actually did that.

02:35:20.040 So it can go both ways.

02:35:22.480 But my mom was, you know, to say, like, they turn into felons and all this stuff.

02:35:26.080 My mom was the most successful woman ever. 0.98

02:35:27.980 It's not everybody.

02:35:28.620 And she didn't need, she still doesn't need the man that she's with.

02:35:31.140 But she's with him because she loves him.

02:35:33.440 But they're not married.

02:35:34.360 They've been together for, like, nine years.

02:35:35.740 But, like, you know, I wouldn't say that, oh, they turn into felons or convicts.

02:35:42.260 And that's, you know, a dangerous household.

02:35:43.680 My father was actually more dangerous than anybody.

02:35:45.960 It's just a reality.

02:35:47.000 It's just the statistics.

02:35:47.600 It's also a statistic that people with two parents' household usually have, like, abuse in the home or, like, mommy or daddy issues.

02:35:54.600 No, that's not a high statistic.

02:35:55.900 It can, but it can also be, but just as it's statistically that, like, just as it's statistically that, like, people with, like, single mothers are prone to, like, be felons or convicts.

02:36:06.420 That's the same thing that people that come from a two-parent household.

02:36:09.580 No, of course, it happens.

02:36:10.640 And there's two-parent households that have, you know, Jeffrey Dahmers.

02:36:13.900 It happens.

02:36:14.280 Right.

02:36:14.740 You know, but that's not the high statistic.

02:36:17.140 The high statistic is, you know, people.

02:36:19.660 It actually causes an identity crisis, especially for young men.

02:36:23.520 You know, they need their fathers to know who they are.

02:36:25.920 Women can't really train, teach guys how to be men. 1.00

02:36:29.180 So what about single fathers?

02:36:31.480 It's kind of rare.

02:36:33.440 That's a more rare situation.

02:36:35.080 Because, well, guys are truly, what I understand, is they're less likely to walk away from a relationship.

02:36:41.800 They'll even suffer in the relationship to save it.

02:36:45.100 You think they're more likely than women to do that? 1.00

02:36:47.340 Yes.

02:36:47.980 Are there stats I can look at for that?

02:36:49.920 And also, I just wanted to say your claim as well, how abuse in two-parent households isn't as common.

02:36:57.180 A lot of that is not documented or reported.

02:37:00.220 So I think that's just something to acknowledge.

02:37:01.960 There's documentation of that.

02:37:03.140 Well, wouldn't it also not be documented in one-parent households also?

02:37:07.000 I don't think she was referring to abuse.

02:37:08.560 It was a different statistic, right?

02:37:09.660 No, there's documentation and statistics on that.

02:37:12.520 We could pull it up.

02:37:12.860 In any scenario where you say, well, in this scenario, it's not documented, well, then, by extension, it also would not be documented in the other circumstance also.

02:37:20.480 Abuse is documented.

02:37:21.920 Generally documented.

02:37:22.680 Right, but she's making the argument.

02:37:23.740 Only if it's reported.

02:37:23.960 Well, yeah, but if we're talking about children.

02:37:25.720 She's right in the sense that, yes, some crimes or some abuse is not documented, but that would apply across the board.

02:37:32.540 Yeah, I hear you.

02:37:33.500 I think we were comparing two different statistics, though.

02:37:35.820 It was kids who become felons in single-parent households versus abuse in two-parent households.

02:37:44.100 So I see what you're saying, but it was two different measures that we were comparing.

02:37:47.080 Well, I think the stat is that people who come from one-parent households, what the stats show is that they're more likely to be criminals. 0.96

02:38:00.360 Yeah, yeah.

02:38:01.120 Well, here's the thing.

02:38:01.700 I mean, single parenthood, single motherhood is really put on a pedestal in our society. 0.59

02:38:06.080 It's actually cancerous to society because you procreated with this man, and now he's this evil guy that you have to run away from, but the child is a reflection of this man.

02:38:17.680 You know, you can't run away from that.

02:38:19.720 So obviously what I'm saying is not a sense of every case of single parents, but it's really hard on kids because they kind of end up resenting the single mothers for this behavior because most of the time there's a selfish behavior on the single mother's part to leave.

02:38:39.260 Like, they don't want to sit and actually work something out.

02:38:41.900 Wait, can you just try to be straight?

02:38:42.520 I'm sorry.

02:38:43.080 If you can.

02:38:43.920 Yeah.

02:38:44.220 We're going to let a couple chats come through.

02:38:45.860 We have Ellie here who's going to- 1.00

02:38:47.740 Just so we all know, Chair 5 is the star of the show.

02:38:50.360 Also-

02:38:50.720 Oh, wait.

02:38:51.340 That-

02:38:52.840 Here, read this one.

02:38:53.920 Chair 5, the power of Christ compels you.

02:38:56.820 The power of Christ compels you.

02:38:58.420 She's possessed.

02:38:59.220 She will climb walls soon, and heads will start doing 360. 0.99

02:39:03.600 Who's Chair 5?

02:39:04.960 Is that me?

02:39:05.540 That's her. 0.88

02:39:06.020 That's Ellie.

02:39:06.380 Oh, that's you?

02:39:07.080 Chair 5 is Ellie, yeah.

02:39:08.240 Oh, I think I'm kind of resembling the ring girl right now.

02:39:11.440 A little bit.

02:39:11.860 That's why.

02:39:12.980 Bang's got to be- 0.96

02:39:13.920 Bang.

02:39:14.620 All right.

02:39:15.260 Don't do it.

02:39:16.380 Don't fuck up your flow.

02:39:18.780 All right. 0.91

02:39:19.480 Read this one from Josh.

02:39:20.560 Thank you, Josh.

02:39:22.060 What is everyone's take on trauma dumping or trauma bonding as a main source of connection in a relationship?

02:39:28.020 If the guy reciprocates it, is it healthy?

02:39:30.440 Should you date with unresolved trauma?

02:39:32.660 This guy doesn't know what trauma dumping is.

02:39:35.040 Trauma bonding is-

02:39:36.820 I think trauma dumping and trauma bonding for-

02:39:42.940 Does everybody know what that is?

02:39:44.040 Yeah.

02:39:44.360 This guy doesn't.

02:39:45.180 They're different.

02:39:45.700 Yeah.

02:39:45.940 They're very different.

02:39:46.740 Very, very different.

02:39:47.060 Yeah.

02:39:47.460 Well, no.

02:39:48.340 I mean, like, does, like-

02:39:49.640 Trauma dumping and oversharing.

02:39:50.480 Yeah.

02:39:50.620 Like, I was going to explain it.

02:39:52.620 That's why I was asking everybody.

02:39:53.560 Trauma bonding is-

02:39:53.940 Yeah, I could just skip the explanation.

02:39:57.020 But, like, I think, like, I think, like, trauma dumping can be situational.

02:40:04.500 I think sometimes, like, like, somebody could be, like, in, like, real, like, distress and just, like, really need that.

02:40:10.260 I feel like there's a fine line between that.

02:40:12.940 I think trauma bonding, while it can't be good in a moment, I feel like it's nice to know that there is a shelf life for it.

02:40:20.340 Like, sometimes a trauma bond could be something that you need in that moment to heal.

02:40:24.940 And, like, not saying all trauma bonds are, like, good.

02:40:28.240 I've had toxic trauma bonds just as much as the next person.

02:40:30.800 Trauma bonding is, I think.

02:40:31.660 But I have had a trauma bond where that person kind of, like, we healed each other and then we went our separate ways amicably.

02:40:38.800 So, I feel like there is a possibility to trauma bond with somebody and heal from it.

02:40:42.940 What is your definition of trauma bond?

02:40:45.000 Like, you have a shared experience that was extremely traumatic and because of that you have a newfound friendship and or relationship because of it.

02:40:51.620 That sounds like bonding over trauma.

02:40:54.000 If you trauma bond, you're, like, literally inflicting trauma on this person and then rolling it back so that they're bonded to you.

02:41:03.780 Oh, that's just so.

02:41:06.520 It's actually creating intimacy based on your shared traumas.

02:41:11.260 That's how I took it.

02:41:11.860 Yeah.

02:41:12.420 That's what I might think about.

02:41:13.600 It could be that.

02:41:14.500 No, it could be that.

02:41:15.480 It could be your thing, but it could also just be two people who they're not inflicting it upon each other or one person is not inflicting it on the other.

02:41:24.780 They go through a traumatic experience together.

02:41:29.060 And that would be a trauma bonding experience.

02:41:31.500 I don't think that's right.

02:41:32.160 And I'm going to fact check that for the show.

02:41:34.580 There's, like, a set thing as it relates to this.

02:41:38.960 It could be all of the above.

02:41:40.380 It could be what you said.

02:41:41.400 It could be what I said.

02:41:42.380 It could be somebody said, I don't know if you said something else on that.

02:41:46.880 No, I just said that it's two people that come with their own traumas and they have an intimate relationship that really bonds them based on those traumas.

02:41:54.040 It creates intimacy.

02:41:55.300 I don't want to hear a girl's trauma until she's farting. 1.00

02:41:59.980 If she hasn't farted in front of me, it should be never.

02:42:04.080 I know nothing about that. 0.99

02:42:04.980 It should be fucking never. 0.99

02:42:05.820 A girl should never fart in front of you. 1.00

02:42:06.980 That's disgusting. 0.94

02:42:07.440 Wait, hold on. 0.86

02:42:09.060 Hold on.

02:42:09.860 I just want to sit one sec.

02:42:11.060 We'll get there.

02:42:11.600 Hold on.

02:42:11.940 I want to say this. 1.00

02:42:13.460 If it's too soon for you to fart in front of me, it's too soon for you to be telling me about your bullshit. 1.00

02:42:19.640 I don't want to hear it. 1.00

02:42:21.120 Don't tell me about your fucking trauma. 1.00

02:42:23.000 And definitely never fart in front of me. 1.00

02:42:24.500 So, in other words, don't tell me about your fucking trauma. 0.99

02:42:27.000 What's a fart? 1.00

02:42:29.080 She doesn't know.

02:42:30.040 I have no idea what that is.

02:42:30.700 Chat, what do you guys think?

02:42:31.620 Chat, don't you agree?

02:42:33.120 Like, if she would be uncomfortable farting in front of you, she definitely should not be telling you her trauma.

02:42:39.620 Facts, bro.

02:42:40.220 Wait, so you don't believe that your girl should fart in front of you? 0.95

02:42:46.620 Correct.

02:42:47.360 Ever?

02:42:49.320 Ever.

02:42:49.720 Even after marriage?

02:42:50.900 Look.

02:42:51.560 Whoa.

02:42:51.900 I get it.

02:42:52.600 You know, look.

02:42:53.800 She had some Mexican food, whatever.

02:42:55.740 I get it.

02:42:56.340 Maybe.

02:42:56.980 Maybe.

02:42:57.580 But, like.

02:42:58.040 Holy free holy.

02:42:59.000 Honestly.

02:42:59.880 Honestly. 1.00

02:43:00.640 That shit. 1.00

02:43:01.140 That shit's gonna be. 1.00

02:43:02.460 That's a. 1.00

02:43:02.840 If it's less than a year and she's already farting, it's over.

02:43:07.500 It's like you're dating your bro.

02:43:08.680 She needs to wait at least 12 months. 1.00

02:43:12.340 I'm in shock.

02:43:12.760 And even then.

02:43:13.140 12 years.

02:43:13.880 Like, even then.

02:43:15.480 Like, a year into the relationship, if she starts farting.

02:43:19.800 Are you gonna ghost her? 0.76

02:43:21.040 Oh my god.

02:43:22.260 Break up text.

02:43:22.800 Look, if it was.

02:43:23.560 If it's one time.

02:43:25.420 Give me a couple weeks and I'll get over it.

02:43:27.360 What's the reason?

02:43:28.220 If you give me a couple weeks, I can get over it.

02:43:30.180 What do you mean the reason? 1.00

02:43:31.460 Bro, some of y'all diets are all fucked up and shit. 1.00

02:43:34.060 I don't know. 1.00

02:43:34.760 That. 0.99

02:43:35.740 Women farts are on another level. 1.00

02:43:37.580 She has IBS. 1.00

02:43:38.320 Another fucking level, bro. 1.00

02:43:40.060 I'm telling you that. 0.99

02:43:41.160 But, what I'm saying is, as it relates to this trauma stuff.

02:43:45.680 So, that's a form of.

02:43:47.060 Sorry.

02:43:48.040 If it's too soon to fart in front of your boyfriend, it's too soon to share your traumatic past with him.

02:43:54.580 So, farting in front of your boyfriend is a form of trauma dumping.

02:43:58.220 It is traumatic for the man.

02:43:59.680 Dumping that trauma in your stomach.

02:44:02.840 As a man, it is very traumatic. 0.99

02:44:05.500 So, if your girl farted in front of you, you would not want to have sex after that. 0.96

02:44:11.740 That would turn you off that much. 1.00

02:44:13.080 I would not fuck her for two weeks. 1.00

02:44:15.160 What if she's like the baddest bitch this planet's ever seen? 1.00

02:44:18.340 She's a five now. 1.00

02:44:20.300 If she farts.

02:44:21.240 She's a ten.

02:44:21.840 If she farts in front of you over the one year mark, she's a five. 1.00

02:44:26.080 She's a five in the moment. 0.99

02:44:28.200 No, she's a zero in the moment. 0.98

02:44:30.080 And then, I actually just got a whiff of something.

02:44:33.200 I don't know if somebody was farting here.

02:44:33.920 Oh, God.

02:44:34.680 Someone's tested.

02:44:36.100 She can climb back up to a seven, though.

02:44:39.100 After a couple months.

02:44:40.500 Wow.

02:44:40.960 But she's perma just downgraded. 1.00

02:44:42.500 There's a recovery from that.

02:44:44.060 You have to remember.

02:44:44.660 She's text message broken up with you by then.

02:44:46.620 I think the, what's the other thing, though?

02:44:47.960 It's an unforgivable offense.

02:44:49.720 Well, it's also, if it's a noisy fart, because sometimes it's just silent and deadly.

02:44:54.900 It's silent and deadly, yeah.

02:44:55.940 What if she's sleeping?

02:44:56.800 See, I recently got a cat, and that cat farts.

02:44:59.840 It's a smelly cat.

02:45:00.500 You got a cat?

02:45:01.060 Oh, do you make puppies? 1.00

02:45:02.280 Holy shit. 1.00

02:45:05.040 This cat has been just, Felicity back here gave me some cat food. 0.99

02:45:09.880 I blame Felicity, honestly.

02:45:11.140 What are you feeling?

02:45:12.440 The cat is, farts really, and it's gross.

02:45:16.600 What's the diet?

02:45:17.000 Like, she farts so bad, it clears a room, the cat. 0.81

02:45:20.300 Friskies or something, like, over there.

02:45:22.280 I don't know what it is.

02:45:23.760 Fancy feats. 0.99

02:45:24.060 Felicity got me some cat food, and now her farts are all fucked up. 0.99

02:45:26.760 Oh, man. 0.99

02:45:27.920 Well, I can help you with that.

02:45:29.020 This is my first cat ever, too.

02:45:29.740 I understand why it's.

02:45:30.480 I got a cat, and I'm telling you, I used to look at this cat with admiration, but now

02:45:38.380 I'm just kind of regretting my choice now, because I'm just kidding.

02:45:41.320 Are you trolling right now?

02:45:43.340 About the cat, yes.

02:45:44.620 About women, no. 0.99

02:45:45.440 But if you can't, if you can't fart in front of your man or your woman, how do you expect 0.81

02:45:49.940 to do anything else in the relationship?

02:45:50.620 Women don't fart. 1.00

02:45:51.900 We don't do that in my house.

02:45:53.020 Listen, you guys.

02:45:54.160 Why are you not saying I have farting contests in the morning?

02:45:56.900 Like, that's like, come on, guys.

02:45:58.340 No, no, no.

02:45:58.660 Get a fairy.

02:45:59.220 Here's what women, here's what women should do. 1.00

02:46:01.260 If you, if you gotta fart, and say you're, we're kicking it, you gotta go into another room.

02:46:06.820 You're joking.

02:46:07.420 Maybe outside, even.

02:46:08.780 Go outside.

02:46:09.860 Go outside. 0.99

02:46:10.620 I don't care if it's hailing, it's fucking below freezing. 0.99

02:46:13.900 Go outside. 0.99

02:46:14.620 You gotta, as women, you gotta go outside, fart out there. 1.00

02:46:18.220 What about you? 0.90

02:46:19.120 Fart out.

02:46:19.720 You can do whatever you want.

02:46:20.500 You must have a funny story about this.

02:46:22.240 Oh, within a couple weeks, I'm just farting.

02:46:24.220 You're just a fairy. 1.00

02:46:24.740 I want you to know it.

02:46:26.580 I'm letting them rip.

02:46:26.920 I'm letting them rip in front of a girl with, the first couple dates, no. 1.00

02:46:30.460 But like, after we've, yeah, like, after a couple weeks.

02:46:35.400 You're even self-conscious about it.

02:46:37.660 After a couple weeks, yeah, you just let them rip.

02:46:39.460 Wait, so it's okay for you to do it, but not for her?

02:46:41.440 Yes, I believe in double standards.

02:46:42.740 Do you think that's a little immature?

02:46:44.240 I agree with your double standards. 0.98

02:46:45.400 I'm all about it.

02:46:45.900 A little immature? 0.97

02:46:46.980 I think it's immature for a woman to fart from. 1.00

02:46:48.960 To fart?

02:46:49.260 You don't think it's unrealistic?

02:46:50.100 That's so rude.

02:46:50.700 That's so immature. 0.99

02:46:52.200 It's really immature for a woman to fart. 1.00

02:46:54.040 Maybe it's not classy.

02:46:56.560 I don't know if immature is the right word.

02:46:58.500 No, you can't help it.

02:46:59.080 It's rude and disrespectful and not ladylike.

02:47:01.840 It shows a lack of self-control.

02:47:02.920 It's not ladylike.

02:47:04.540 You're undisciplined.

02:47:05.680 It's not ladylike.

02:47:08.060 But, you know, look, yeah, it's a double standard.

02:47:11.060 Double standard.

02:47:12.040 It is what it is.

02:47:12.820 I'm going to hope that you're trolling on that one.

02:47:14.380 There's just no way.

02:47:15.300 He's not.

02:47:15.780 No, he's not trolling. 0.70

02:47:16.960 This is a great way for you to tell us that you're just dropping massive farts. 0.90

02:47:20.720 I do not care. 0.95

02:47:23.500 So, here, tell us, admit it on the internet, that you just fart all the time in front of 0.87

02:47:28.600 your boyfriend. 0.80

02:47:28.920 I don't care.

02:47:29.860 I do.

02:47:30.600 Do you fart on his, like, you'll go up to him and be like, what were you about to say?

02:47:34.040 Me, does she fart on his wall? 0.64

02:47:35.960 Do you just, like, waft the air towards him?

02:47:38.720 Oh, yeah, she just crawled out.

02:47:39.600 Let me just say it.

02:47:41.020 I will do a little twirl in the air and I will lift my leg up and I don't care.

02:47:46.600 Lift your leg up.

02:47:47.060 Yeah.

02:47:47.560 I can't believe this.

02:47:49.560 Weight clients don't know.

02:47:51.780 No, seriously.

02:47:53.000 I don't know why that's such a big deal.

02:47:55.160 I don't.

02:47:55.480 It's gross.

02:47:55.940 I've never heard of that.

02:47:57.180 It's gross.

02:47:57.760 I've never.

02:47:58.620 And I think maybe because we're so comfortable and also I do work in the medical field, I

02:48:02.120 feel like.

02:48:02.280 Can I ask you a question?

02:48:03.220 Yes.

02:48:03.440 Look, I'll try to.

02:48:04.560 It's not going to be a perfect one-to-one comparison.

02:48:06.840 It's kind of like this.

02:48:07.740 All right.

02:48:11.240 Imagine you were.

02:48:14.420 I'll throw out a couple scenarios and you tell me how it would maybe change the dynamic

02:48:18.560 that you have with your, your boyfriend or you're engaged, right?

02:48:23.480 Your fiance.

02:48:24.240 Yes, ma'am.

02:48:24.820 Yes, ma'am.

02:48:25.940 Yes, ma'am.

02:48:26.020 I love it.

02:48:27.840 No, me too.

02:48:29.360 You are kicking it with your boyfriend slash fiance.

02:48:34.280 Right.

02:48:34.500 And he sees a spider and he lets out a shrill.

02:48:39.180 Oh.

02:48:40.880 Scream. 1.00

02:48:41.680 Oh, well.

02:48:42.280 It's like getting the ick, though.

02:48:44.160 It's not a deal breaker, I don't think.

02:48:45.540 Would you lose a bit of something?

02:48:47.860 Would you be like, what the heck? 0.83

02:48:48.440 She got the ick.

02:48:48.960 No, my boyfriend or my fiance, he's a 6'5", very big dude.

02:48:53.400 Yeah.

02:48:53.700 I'm saying if he, so he is scared of spiders?

02:48:56.900 No.

02:48:57.760 I'm saying if he did do that, though, would you be like, ugh?

02:49:05.000 Maybe in the moment, but like not, like it wouldn't, it wouldn't drop him down from a,

02:49:09.980 it's 5 to a 0, like you were saying, and never laughing.

02:49:12.900 Yeah, that's crazy.

02:49:13.400 10 to 0 is crazy.

02:49:15.340 Also, farts are not something that you can control.

02:49:17.940 Everybody does it.

02:49:19.040 Not everybody is afraid of spiders, but everybody farts.

02:49:20.940 You can sometimes control it.

02:49:21.800 Unless you're sleeping, you can control it.

02:49:23.580 You cannot control it.

02:49:24.060 That's why I insist she sleeps in the other room. 0.97

02:49:26.240 My mom says, gas will kill you. 0.96

02:49:29.540 My mom says all the time, gas will kill you.

02:49:31.400 What if, what if your boyfriend, I don't know if this is realistic, but whatever.

02:49:38.000 Here's the scenario.

02:49:38.700 Just go.

02:49:39.380 Your boyfriend, he started talking like this.

02:49:45.260 Oh my God, that is like so amazing.

02:49:50.860 But that's still. 0.78

02:49:52.420 What, you got horny all of a sudden?

02:49:53.660 No, no, no.

02:49:54.240 Like I actually have like a guy that does do that and I just think it's funny.

02:49:58.540 I'm like, yeah, I think he'll call me queen, he'll call me girly pop.

02:50:01.900 No, but like he just likes, cause that's how I am.

02:50:04.700 And he's like, okay, I'll take a look.

02:50:06.540 Like he just knows that's how I am.

02:50:08.200 And he's like, just thinks it's funny.

02:50:09.800 So I'm like, yeah, like it is funny.

02:50:11.220 Like, so when he does it, I'm just like, oh, like this is so funny.

02:50:14.180 Cause I know who you are.

02:50:15.220 Yeah.

02:50:15.520 I know who you are.

02:50:16.440 It's like, oh, it's not like.

02:50:17.820 It was joking.

02:50:18.520 Like, yeah.

02:50:19.340 I'll talk Sally and it just pisses everyone off.

02:50:22.320 I just think it's a little Sally.

02:50:23.280 Oh, the trauma dumping?

02:50:24.080 Okay.

02:50:24.420 All right.

02:50:24.660 Moving on.

02:50:25.000 Oh my God. 1.00

02:50:25.780 This is like so dumb, you guys. 1.00

02:50:29.020 Totally. 1.00

02:50:29.840 Like.

02:50:30.360 Who knows?

02:50:30.640 All right.

02:50:30.840 We have, uh, hold on.

02:50:32.740 Not this one, Ellie, but I'm going to have you read.

02:50:35.960 Hey.

02:50:36.600 Thanks, Ameth.

02:50:37.340 Shout out to my home sliced donut. 0.95

02:50:39.280 Shout out donut. 0.99

02:50:39.900 That's my home.

02:50:41.620 All right.

02:50:41.960 This one.

02:50:42.260 Oh, love.

02:50:45.280 If men and women don't have unique roles, there is no logical reason for one to find and keep 0.96

02:50:50.940 the other.

02:50:51.840 Lack of purpose is why we're stuck with hookups and divorces. 1.00

02:50:54.920 Also, men need to have a role.

02:50:57.680 Deadass.

02:50:57.920 I believe in gender roles. 0.99

02:50:58.660 Absolutely.

02:50:59.500 Well put, Tross.

02:51:00.520 Well put.

02:51:00.940 Absolutely.

02:51:02.120 So you do believe in gender roles?

02:51:03.300 I do.

02:51:03.620 I do believe in gender roles, but just not to the extremity that you two do.

02:51:07.280 And, you know, I have nothing but respect and hearing your perspective and viewpoint.

02:51:11.040 I'm just not as far in that.

02:51:13.660 I think that in every function, like a family, for example, I think about it almost like a

02:51:21.520 business in the sense that everyone has their role to fill.

02:51:24.420 And I think that as women, we have estrogen, men have testosterone.

02:51:29.620 I think that we are biologically just better for certain tasks.

02:51:32.780 Now, that's not me saying that I think we should eliminate the reality of choice, such

02:51:37.820 as if women want to vote, I believe that they should, even if, you know, biologically, because 0.86

02:51:44.580 of our hormones and estrogen, maybe women are better caretakers than men.

02:51:49.340 I think that is kind of just a biological truth, but that doesn't mean I think all women should 1.00

02:51:54.520 only be caretakers and they only belong in the kitchen and they should have no other aspirations.

02:51:58.700 Yeah.

02:51:59.120 I agree with you.

02:52:00.040 I agree with that too.

02:52:00.600 Well, women do have free will and the right, the right to choose. 1.00

02:52:03.280 That's without question.

02:52:04.600 Yes.

02:52:04.900 Yes.

02:52:05.220 But what's, but what's kind of meaningful is, is the question you have to ask yourself.

02:52:09.360 You know, what, what's meaningful?

02:52:11.400 I'm sorry.

02:52:12.820 What?

02:52:13.560 You missed something?

02:52:14.680 I thought another bird got in.

02:52:16.000 Yeah.

02:52:16.120 I heard a little something going on over there.

02:52:17.620 Another?

02:52:18.640 No, no, no.

02:52:19.480 Another time.

02:52:21.040 Yeah.

02:52:21.720 Yeah.

02:52:22.260 How about, how about you guys?

02:52:23.380 How do you guys feel about gender roles in our society and our world?

02:52:27.100 You know my view.

02:52:27.980 I do.

02:52:28.360 I think somebody else wants to talk.

02:52:30.120 Somebody else.

02:52:30.640 I'm sorry.

02:52:31.480 No, you can go first.

02:52:32.220 I'm actually going to use the facility.

02:52:34.400 Okay.

02:52:35.000 I am going to agree with Mars on this.

02:52:36.900 I think that everybody in the house has their role, whether that, and I literally agree with

02:52:41.780 everything you just said.

02:52:42.500 Um, I personally, I have felt more in my feminine era with my, my, my fiance, because he's allowed

02:52:50.520 me to be like that.

02:52:51.240 Yeah.

02:52:51.380 Exactly.

02:52:51.680 The right partner will bring that out.

02:52:53.360 Yeah.

02:52:53.880 Yeah.

02:52:54.600 But I understand that's not everybody's reality.

02:52:56.960 So, and kind of going back to what we were talking about earlier is feminism. 1.00

02:53:00.660 I think feminism gives you the right to choose which one you want. 1.00

02:53:05.260 If you want one or the other, that's fine.

02:53:06.940 But I don't think it's just up to you.

02:53:10.920 It's really up to you.

02:53:11.700 It's all about choice.

02:53:12.700 Yes.

02:53:13.000 I have a question for you guys, um, about femininity and masculinity.

02:53:16.600 Do you, do you find with women who are taking these masculine roles or do you think they're

02:53:22.100 safe within themselves being in a more masculine role?

02:53:24.700 Well, actually, can you elaborate on that question?

02:53:27.200 What do you mean safe within themselves?

02:53:28.300 Like they know who they are type of thing.

02:53:29.880 Do they feel safety within themselves taking on a masculine role and kind of going into

02:53:33.900 a more male dominated area if it might not be innate to what they would do?

02:53:38.280 I would say as somebody who identifies as gender fluid and sometimes pushes into those

02:53:43.700 masculine roles, specifically when I'm like dating women, I feel like I am very like, I

02:53:50.160 feel like I'm more confident in a way of it's not something that I'm particularly not

02:53:56.740 necessarily used to, but not something that I, that I push into like, like often.

02:54:02.020 So when I do, I feel like a different kind of confidence and not only confidence, but

02:54:07.700 established within myself of like, not only do I know who I am, but I'm so secure in who

02:54:13.620 I am that I can wear whatever I want, do whatever I want, fit whatever roles that I want with

02:54:19.000 no, like anxiety of the judgment that comes around me because I know who I am inside.

02:54:27.720 Like as like, like just to like, like, I feel like that's really like I'm secure.

02:54:35.180 So with femininity, um, did you guys feel like it's easy for you to be feminine?

02:54:40.480 Mm-hmm.

02:54:41.380 It's easy for me to do both.

02:54:42.360 Does it feel with the right partner?

02:54:43.480 With the right, so it's kind of situational.

02:54:45.520 Yeah.

02:54:46.320 So without that, if it's situational, you take more of a masculine role.

02:54:50.720 Yeah.

02:54:51.060 Which is kind of, I would imagine means that you have a lack of safety within yourself.

02:54:56.080 That's what I'm trying to, I'm noticing.

02:54:57.920 Can you define masculine role?

02:54:59.920 So masculinity, you know, um, because women are in, you know, feminism has, uh, created 1.00

02:55:08.020 this masculinity amongst women where they actually have to now go into male spaces and 0.95

02:55:12.980 be in a more masculine environment and taking on a masculine aura.

02:55:17.440 Okay.

02:55:17.860 You know, um, but what I understand with femininity, since it seems to be like a lost art these 1.00

02:55:22.620 days, it's actually to be feminine.

02:55:24.140 There's, there's a sense of safety in being feminine.

02:55:27.000 Yeah.

02:55:27.580 I agree.

02:55:28.040 And to relax and to let go.

02:55:29.580 And not be stressed about doing nine to fives and doing all these things that are meaningless.

02:55:33.740 Turn your brain off.

02:55:34.120 But to be feminine is like, just like you said with your, your fiance, you feel safe.

02:55:37.800 I, yeah.

02:55:38.640 But I also think like me, cause I'm, I feel like I'm a little more masculine.

02:55:43.460 Well, that's why I chose my partner.

02:55:46.000 Cause he's, he's more masculine than I am obviously.

02:55:47.940 So he kind of like helps me bring my femininity out.

02:55:51.080 But I also feel like being masculine, I've had to do that sometimes to kind of be taken seriously.

02:55:57.520 Yes.

02:55:57.880 And I know that's, that might be a little weird, but sometimes I have to bring more of

02:56:02.580 an aura to the table because if you don't, you're going to get eaten alive.

02:56:06.860 You're going to get shut down and you're going to be taken seriously.

02:56:08.640 So especially being a business woman and you know, obviously male dominated fields, you 0.84

02:56:14.120 have to make sure that your voice is being heard.

02:56:16.520 And sometimes the only way you can do that and get the respect that a man will get, not

02:56:21.220 only the, you know, admiration, oh, she's so pretty, whatever, but actually you're hearing

02:56:24.720 what I'm saying and you're recognizing that I'm intelligent.

02:56:27.340 You have to be a little bit more blunt and a little bit more masculine and be a little

02:56:31.860 less tapped into your femininity to get that necessary respect in the world of business. 0.91

02:56:36.760 You know, not just in a societal structure.

02:56:39.620 You're fine.

02:56:40.020 Go ahead.

02:56:40.560 I was going to say, I don't see how you can't do that.

02:56:43.500 It like you're in these male dominated spaces.

02:56:46.300 How are you supposed to compete if you're, if you're not even like in the same. 0.99

02:56:51.360 Yeah.

02:56:51.940 Yeah.

02:56:52.100 Do you think, do you think, do you think when, oh, sorry.

02:56:55.460 You go ahead.

02:56:55.900 Go ahead.

02:56:56.200 Sorry.

02:56:56.500 No, you're fine.

02:56:56.880 No, I was going to say is, do you think that women behaving more masculine, less feminine 0.97

02:57:02.060 because femininity is more safety. 1.00

02:57:04.140 Some people might align more with masculinity, but it's actually more chaotic and less innate

02:57:08.160 to women that are safe within themselves.

02:57:10.480 But do you think that the masculinity response is like a trauma response?

02:57:14.940 I think it's just a learned response in art and from society, from history.

02:57:20.020 Men dominate the government, a lot of businesses, a lot of fields that women have aspirations 1.00

02:57:26.460 of breaking into.

02:57:28.300 So it's, what else can you do except for learn from the past and the past is male centric. 0.64

02:57:36.020 I thought there were more women in government nowadays. 1.00

02:57:38.780 Now there is.

02:57:39.400 Oh, there's a lot of women in government. 1.00

02:57:41.240 Historically now.

02:57:41.940 Unfortunately.

02:57:42.660 Yeah.

02:57:43.100 Historically now.

02:57:43.900 But they also had things that they were doing like within the world of like politicking

02:57:49.300 and all of that behind the scenes.

02:57:52.240 Yes.

02:57:52.260 But that's because they did not have the choice.

02:57:55.080 They had the choice.

02:57:57.180 Look at Susan B. Anthony. 1.00

02:57:59.060 You know, and what does she have to do to get there? 1.00

02:58:01.580 I mean, you know.

02:58:03.060 What does she have to do to get there? 0.99

02:58:04.480 I don't know.

02:58:05.300 What does she have to do? 1.00

02:58:06.140 Yeah.

02:58:06.580 Tell us.

02:58:07.740 What does she do? 1.00

02:58:08.200 For what you were saying too, in terms of femininity, I think that at least for me,

02:58:13.160 and I would love to hear your guys' perspectives too, I heard a lot of situational and circumstantial

02:58:18.400 circumstances when you want to tap into your femininity. 0.89

02:58:21.080 But for me, I think, yes, I acknowledge that I'm young, I'm only 20, but I've gone through

02:58:26.580 a lot of life experience that makes me feel pretty secure in who I am.

02:58:30.200 I feel that I know who I am and I'm sure I will discover who I am as the years go on

02:58:33.920 continuously.

02:58:34.540 Oh, for sure.

02:58:34.640 10 years makes a difference.

02:58:35.620 For sure.

02:58:36.000 And I totally agree with that.

02:58:38.000 But I feel that my security in knowing who I am kind of allows me the comfort and space

02:58:45.220 to fall more into my femininity than maybe I did when I was a angsty, tomboyish middle

02:58:51.460 schooler, you know?

02:58:53.000 But now I feel that I have more.

02:58:55.380 I have myself figured out more.

02:58:57.200 My values figured out more.

02:58:58.500 I believe that I have a sense of masculine energy almost just because, again, the whole

02:59:04.360 businesswoman thing. 0.88

02:59:05.960 But I feel very tapped into my femininity and how I present.

02:59:11.280 You can leave.

02:59:11.600 Ellie, can you read this?

02:59:12.760 Peta?

02:59:13.460 Peta?

02:59:14.060 How did you know about this, Peta?

02:59:16.340 Situationships mean that they do not respect your time or your agency.

02:59:19.660 Stop giving excuses.

02:59:21.000 Dump them.

02:59:21.820 Women should vote. 1.00

02:59:22.560 What the fuck is wrong with you? 1.00

02:59:23.700 The hottest woman at the table is the one with greys. 1.00

02:59:26.640 With greys.

02:59:27.100 That's you.

02:59:28.800 Thank you.

02:59:29.560 They're real.

02:59:30.960 Wait, I'm confused, though, because did they not just say women should vote?

02:59:35.120 Didn't that comment just say it?

02:59:36.220 They said women should vote. 0.98

02:59:36.620 Yeah.

02:59:36.840 That's what it said.

02:59:37.760 Yeah.

02:59:37.960 But, yeah.

02:59:38.540 Okay.

02:59:38.960 Women should vote. 1.00

02:59:40.060 What the fuck is wrong with you? 1.00

02:59:41.920 Women should vote? 1.00

02:59:42.960 I think he called you hot at the same time, so.

02:59:45.180 Well, I think that's, I think what he, I'm not, I thank you.

02:59:49.660 I wanted to go back to this.

02:59:51.760 Yeah.

02:59:52.000 For those of you who are single, you said you had a roster?

02:59:54.880 Yes, sir.

02:59:55.660 Okay.

02:59:55.960 Currently, you have a roster.

02:59:58.340 Yes.

02:59:58.980 Tell us about the roster.

03:00:00.380 It's nice is what it is.

03:00:04.260 No, I do currently have a roster right now.

03:00:06.920 I think I'm, am I allowed to give a number?

03:00:11.080 Please do.

03:00:11.780 Yeah.

03:00:12.080 I have five guys and two girls on the roster right now.

03:00:18.040 Okay.

03:00:20.260 You make time for the things you want.

03:00:22.880 Okay, so you said five guys, two girls.

03:00:27.740 Yes.

03:00:28.220 Okay.

03:00:29.100 And then you're single too, right?

03:00:31.120 I am single.

03:00:31.860 I do not have a roster.

03:00:32.800 No roster?

03:00:33.420 There's no guys in the picture?

03:00:34.480 I mean, there are people who I'm interested in getting to know better, but I'm kind of

03:00:38.360 in a place in my life in my career where I want to focus on my projects and, you know, myself.

03:00:44.820 I'm not necessarily interested in having a long-term committed partner right now.

03:00:48.960 So there's no guy in the picture?

03:00:50.780 No.

03:00:52.080 No guy?

03:00:54.280 No one I would, you know.

03:00:55.700 Everything's just so fresh, you know what I mean?

03:00:59.040 When you say fresh.

03:01:00.340 I mean that I met this guy like three weeks ago and we haven't done anything and maybe

03:01:06.460 I'm interested.

03:01:07.400 He's made it clear he's interested in me.

03:01:09.220 I might be interested in him, but I just, I don't need to rush into anything right now.

03:01:13.460 When's the last time you hooked up with somebody?

03:01:18.420 Probably like three weeks ago.

03:01:21.080 It was when I was in Italy.

03:01:22.720 Italy?

03:01:23.880 Italy.

03:01:24.560 Was it like.

03:01:24.940 Was it with a local?

03:01:26.160 It was just, yes, it was.

03:01:27.500 It was an Italian man.

03:01:29.300 Hot Italian dude.

03:01:30.220 Yes.

03:01:31.340 How long were you in Italy for?

03:01:32.740 I was in Italy for 10 days.

03:01:34.360 I went to Venice, Florence, and Rome.

03:01:36.240 And just Italy, you didn't go to like any other countries?

03:01:38.660 For this recent trip, it was just Italy.

03:01:41.260 I was just in Greece before that, but they were like two separate trips.

03:01:44.760 Gotcha.

03:01:45.580 And did you, were there any other guys in Italy or was it just.

03:01:51.400 Not in Italy.

03:01:53.420 In Greece.

03:01:54.040 Oh, so you went to Greece this trip?

03:01:56.060 No, no.

03:01:56.780 Like a month ago, maybe even two, I was in Greece.

03:01:59.820 And then a few weeks ago, I was in Italy.

03:02:02.060 Two separate trips.

03:02:04.100 You, and so there was a guy in Greece.

03:02:08.240 Yes.

03:02:09.260 Was there more than one guy in Greece?

03:02:10.980 Yeah.

03:02:11.360 Things got greasy.

03:02:12.920 Ha, ha, ha, ha.

03:02:13.600 What happens in Rome, right?

03:02:15.640 What did they say?

03:02:16.420 You just had to.

03:02:17.240 Women in Rome. 0.99

03:02:17.760 Do what the Romans do. 0.99

03:02:19.340 She's got dad jokes out.

03:02:20.660 Women in Rome, do what the Romans do. 1.00

03:02:23.120 Women in Rome, do what the Romans do. 1.00

03:02:23.960 So, and you were only in Greece for that trip?

03:02:26.820 I was, I was in Greece for like two weeks.

03:02:29.740 I was in Santorini, Paros, Mykonos, Athens.

03:02:34.060 How many guys were you hanging out with when you were in Greece?

03:02:37.880 Well, that's an interesting question with certain implications, but I'll just say I had a fun

03:02:42.800 night.

03:02:43.900 With, oh, it was a singular night that you saw all the guys?

03:02:47.080 I had one fun night.

03:02:47.200 I had one fun night and I have nothing more to say.

03:02:50.860 Wait, it was one particular night and there were multiple men in the particular night.

03:02:54.820 I am a bisexual human being who likes being bisexual.

03:02:58.320 Hey, no judgment.

03:02:58.700 That's all that I'll say.

03:02:59.740 No judgment.

03:03:00.260 Very Roman. 0.93

03:03:01.120 Thank you. 0.99

03:03:01.620 So, you had a orgy. 0.99

03:03:03.880 A fun night. 0.99

03:03:05.080 Sure. 0.99

03:03:06.560 Roman orgy. 0.99

03:03:07.880 Don't put that. 0.99

03:03:09.300 No.

03:03:10.400 Digital footprint.

03:03:11.680 Okay.

03:03:12.400 I don't agree with that.

03:03:14.460 It is what it is, but okay.

03:03:15.980 So, you, how many people were in the orgy? 0.94

03:03:20.120 It was a foursome. 0.95

03:03:21.320 I had a foursome.

03:03:22.200 How many, how many guys?

03:03:23.760 Two guys, two girls total, including myself.

03:03:26.640 Two guys, two girls.

03:03:27.760 And it was each and every way because bisexual. 0.99

03:03:32.460 The guys did not interact with each other.

03:03:34.760 But the girl, okay, I see. 0.93

03:03:36.220 Because that would be gay, right? 1.00

03:03:37.480 That would be gay. 1.00

03:03:38.400 And I'm gay, so. 0.78

03:03:39.840 Okay.

03:03:40.400 So.

03:03:41.340 It all works.

03:03:41.940 But, I mean, there was just one particular night or were you having some fun on other

03:03:45.360 nights, too?

03:03:45.940 That was just, no, because I did a group hostel with a bunch of friends.

03:03:50.840 So, I was mostly in my, you know, just enjoying time with my friends, but, you know.

03:03:57.060 Okay.

03:03:57.520 I'm young and I'm in Greece.

03:03:58.800 But in Italy, your most recent trip to Italy, were there?

03:04:02.180 It was just one guy.

03:04:03.060 Just one guy.

03:04:03.560 At a club.

03:04:04.200 You know how it goes.

03:04:06.580 I don't know about.

03:04:08.160 Okay.

03:04:08.960 You know.

03:04:09.400 Well, not, like, Italian men.

03:04:11.200 You know where it goes.

03:04:13.420 Not with Italian men. 0.99

03:04:14.260 Italian men are great.

03:04:15.000 Or men, period.

03:04:16.180 They're really amazing.

03:04:17.480 But, okay.

03:04:18.460 And then have you traveled elsewhere?

03:04:20.160 Like, have you done other travels, too?

03:04:21.480 I have.

03:04:22.240 I have.

03:04:22.660 I've traveled quite a bit.

03:04:23.280 Yeah, where else have you been?

03:04:23.900 I've been to Tokyo.

03:04:25.000 I did a study abroad there for a little bit.

03:04:26.560 That was a ton of fun.

03:04:27.540 I've been to Spain.

03:04:28.800 I've been to Aruba.

03:04:30.320 I've been to, you know, Mexico, Peru, a few other places.

03:04:34.520 Okay.

03:04:35.140 Yeah, I enjoy traveling.

03:04:37.180 Okay.

03:04:37.840 Any other European countries?

03:04:39.480 Like, Spain?

03:04:40.200 Netherlands?

03:04:41.360 No, definitely so much on the bucket list.

03:04:43.680 I'm going to France soon.

03:04:46.120 I want to go to Switzerland so bad.

03:04:47.560 I want to go to Switzerland.

03:04:48.640 It's on my bucket list.

03:04:50.040 Gotcha.

03:04:50.500 Yeah.

03:04:50.620 Okay, so you were in Japan for a bit?

03:04:51.980 I was.

03:04:52.700 Did you have a Japanese connection?

03:04:55.280 Well, you know, it's a very different culture than in America.

03:04:59.860 So, no, I didn't.

03:05:01.360 Okay.

03:05:01.720 How long were you in Japan for?

03:05:02.720 I was in Japan just for two weeks.

03:05:04.280 It wasn't super long.

03:05:05.920 Did you, while you were in Japan, not with a Japanese guy, but with, like, another tourist?

03:05:11.660 No, I didn't.

03:05:12.640 Again, I did a study abroad with my college, USC, there.

03:05:15.980 So, it was mostly professional.

03:05:18.100 Basically, just all day, we were touring different companies, studying different classes, and then

03:05:22.680 all night, we would go out.

03:05:24.580 But I was with my friends.

03:05:25.920 What about Spain, though?

03:05:26.240 What about Spain?

03:05:27.300 Spain?

03:05:28.020 Yeah, I mean, I hooked up with a French guy when I was in Spain.

03:05:31.200 Okay.

03:05:31.740 All right.

03:05:32.040 I like my Europeans.

03:05:33.320 What can I say?

03:05:34.280 I'm young.

03:05:36.860 I'm young and free.

03:05:37.940 Do you find them online?

03:05:38.700 She's not a player. 1.00

03:05:39.080 She just... 0.98

03:05:39.820 I fucked that up.

03:05:40.900 I said, do you find them online?

03:05:41.900 Where do you find these guys?

03:05:42.900 Do you just, like, out of them?

03:05:44.500 Just outside.

03:05:45.400 Just in the high.

03:05:46.840 She's like, grab them. 0.99

03:05:47.180 So, before we get into that, we're just having fun.

03:05:50.220 Okay.

03:05:50.800 But never had a roster?

03:05:52.100 Have you ever had a roster?

03:05:52.820 Of course I have.

03:05:53.660 You know, like, I think in this generation, it's pretty common to have a roster.

03:05:57.500 Sure.

03:05:57.780 Back in high school, you know, I had my fun.

03:05:59.520 I had my hoe phase, as they say.

03:06:01.840 Okay.

03:06:02.880 Well, I, you know...

03:06:03.820 What was your hoe phase? 0.99

03:06:05.020 You said in high school?

03:06:05.980 Yeah, yeah. 0.94

03:06:07.180 You know, people can have different definitions of what they consider a hoe or slut or whatever. 0.75

03:06:12.460 I don't...

03:06:13.120 I'm not easy.

03:06:14.220 I simply like to have fun, and I think we're all sexual beings, and there's nothing wrong

03:06:19.140 with having sex if you're doing it in a safe way and you're not hurting anyone.

03:06:22.060 That's my two cents, though.

03:06:23.500 You can feel however you feel about it.

03:06:24.960 That has nothing to do with me.

03:06:27.480 And so...

03:06:28.440 Wait, hold on.

03:06:29.480 How big was your roster when you did have a roster?

03:06:33.280 Honestly, I wasn't as methodical about it as, you know,

03:06:36.420 how Xena was or is, for example.

03:06:38.940 It's kind of just, if I meet someone and I connect with them and we both find each other

03:06:43.180 attractive, you know, sometimes things just happen.

03:06:46.620 Probably just a handful of people.

03:06:48.100 It was never like, oh, I'm going to see this person on that day and this person on...

03:06:52.080 Okay.

03:06:52.400 You know what I mean?

03:06:53.020 It was just more natural, I guess.

03:06:55.140 But there were periods where you'd be dating multiple, like, people at the same time.

03:06:58.560 I would be talking with multiple people.

03:07:00.740 And when I say date, I use that term pretty loosely.

03:07:02.920 Totally, totally.

03:07:03.440 Yeah, dating.

03:07:03.760 Yeah, I understand.

03:07:04.940 Multiple boyfriends.

03:07:05.600 Totally, totally.

03:07:06.080 But like...

03:07:06.820 I get it, I get it, I get it.

03:07:07.800 Like, hang out with different people.

03:07:09.380 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:07:09.980 Yeah, there was, you know, there's periods of that for sure.

03:07:12.320 Okay.

03:07:13.620 But right now you don't have a roster.

03:07:15.700 No.

03:07:16.360 Okay, gotcha.

03:07:17.460 What about you?

03:07:18.580 Oh, well, you're fresh out of...

03:07:20.480 Have you had a rebound?

03:07:22.020 No.

03:07:22.940 Good question.

03:07:23.960 No?

03:07:24.280 No.

03:07:24.900 Nothing?

03:07:25.480 No.

03:07:25.680 You know, the dance girls are in high demand. 1.00

03:07:28.420 So, I mean...

03:07:29.420 I mean, not for going to their performances, but for...

03:07:34.660 Terrible.

03:07:37.600 No rebound?

03:07:38.800 No.

03:07:39.120 No guys in the pipeline?

03:07:40.880 No.

03:07:41.220 I've had...

03:07:41.900 I had this one guy that I hooked up with.

03:07:44.860 He messaged me actually last night.

03:07:47.240 I think it was last night or two nights ago.

03:07:49.100 And her and I were literally talking about him.

03:07:50.960 And all of a sudden, he just popped up on my messages.

03:07:53.740 And he wanted to, you know, hook up.

03:07:55.960 And I was just like, no.

03:07:57.360 Like, I kept saying no.

03:07:58.640 He messaged me again.

03:07:59.300 And I was like, I didn't even answer.

03:08:01.140 Because it's like, I'm not really interested in even doing that.

03:08:04.640 But, like, you know, when I was with my ex-boyfriend, like, two, three years ago, like, I had a roster before him.

03:08:09.920 And I was just like, well, I guess, you know, I'll take you.

03:08:12.940 Got it.

03:08:13.360 Have you ever had a roster?

03:08:15.360 Yeah.

03:08:15.900 I mean, I was in college.

03:08:17.800 But, like, I feel like when I do, it's not like, like you said, like, hanging out with them.

03:08:22.740 Like, oh, like, you know, or, you know, doing things with them.

03:08:25.400 It was just more so like, I'm texting you.

03:08:26.780 But, like, am I going to hang out with you?

03:08:27.920 Probably not.

03:08:28.580 Maybe.

03:08:29.080 It really depends.

03:08:31.020 But, like, even before, like, the guy I was talking to, now, like, I was on Hinge.

03:08:38.360 And that's actually how we met.

03:08:39.780 And so, like, obviously, we're both talking to different people.

03:08:42.880 But, you know, just something just clicked, like, you know.

03:08:46.000 So it just depends.

03:08:47.040 When you did have a roster, how big was the roster?

03:08:50.060 I mean, I don't know.

03:08:51.660 Because I didn't really pay attention.

03:08:53.360 Because I just either would ghost them or they ghost me.

03:08:55.740 It just wouldn't really go anywhere.

03:08:56.880 So I can't really give you a number.

03:08:59.180 Because I, yeah, like, no.

03:09:01.740 Okay.

03:09:01.960 So just guys.

03:09:02.560 Yeah.

03:09:02.920 It was just, like, a couple people.

03:09:04.340 And, you know, I would always end up them being, like, loyal to that one person.

03:09:09.080 I'm like, nah, I kind of vibe with you more.

03:09:10.780 And I cut everybody out.

03:09:11.820 Got it.

03:09:12.560 Okay.

03:09:12.800 Ever had a roster?

03:09:14.820 No.

03:09:15.320 Ever had a roster?

03:09:16.280 Yes.

03:09:17.000 How big was the roster?

03:09:18.340 Well, I have, like, I could probably text any guy in my phone that I wanted to hook up.

03:09:24.480 And they would.

03:09:25.540 Okay.

03:09:25.700 Like, I have, like, I have, like, a list of guys that I'm interested in.

03:09:34.920 But am I going to hang out with them?

03:09:36.820 Am I going to give them the time of day?

03:09:38.560 Like, not necessarily.

03:09:40.120 It just depends.

03:09:41.300 Like, I have the one that I like the most.

03:09:44.760 And, like, that's the one I'll, like, gravitate towards.

03:09:47.160 But if he's, like, not available, like, I have people I can easily hit up to hang out at any given moment in time.

03:09:53.300 I have massive DMs of just, like, random guys trying to take me out.

03:09:57.900 Like, I have the Snapchat roster.

03:10:00.860 Like, I mean, I wouldn't say that I'm hooking up with all these people.

03:10:06.500 Because I'm not.

03:10:07.300 Because, yeah, only one body.

03:10:08.680 Well, we know that you don't do that.

03:10:10.100 So, it's just, like, but I have access to a lot of guys that want me.

03:10:16.820 So, how, I mean, if you had to try to ballpark a number, what would you say for the roster?

03:10:21.760 How big is it?

03:10:22.700 I get calls from guys, like, different guys every day about, like, 20 times a day of different men calling me.

03:10:31.900 20 times a day?

03:10:32.980 Yeah.

03:10:33.320 She sees me on the phone.

03:10:34.160 Like, calling you?

03:10:35.100 Yes.

03:10:35.400 And you pick up?

03:10:37.040 Yes.

03:10:38.360 What do you talk about?

03:10:39.400 Like, I have.

03:10:43.720 Like, they're trying to hit.

03:10:45.200 I don't know if they are or not.

03:10:47.140 I mean, usually.

03:10:47.800 You talk to 20 dudes in a day?

03:10:49.680 She sees.

03:10:50.780 No, I don't doubt it.

03:10:52.280 I'm just like, that's a lot.

03:10:53.620 Wait, I have to play a sound for this.

03:10:54.940 Hold on.

03:10:56.140 Get the sound board.

03:10:56.760 Wait, wait, wait. 1.00

03:10:57.300 Fuck, person. 1.00

03:10:58.140 Fuck it. 1.00

03:10:58.660 Pressure's on. 1.00

03:11:02.340 Pressure's on.

03:11:03.120 No, man.

03:11:03.840 That sounds like a lot of work.

03:11:06.180 Yeah.

03:11:06.860 It's a lot of work.

03:11:07.380 There's times where she leaves the room to go on the phone.

03:11:09.980 I have a question for you as a man.

03:11:11.920 Not to cut you off, though.

03:11:12.720 Finish real quick.

03:11:13.260 I usually, like, get these calls and everything, and I usually get yelled at because of how

03:11:18.460 many guys talk to me and how many guys I'm around all the time.

03:11:22.200 Who yells at you?

03:11:22.980 Yeah, what?

03:11:23.540 Like, guys that are interested in me.

03:11:24.960 Like, the situationship especially, we would always get mad being like, oh, you're always

03:11:28.840 hanging out with all these guys.

03:11:30.200 Like, that's not okay.

03:11:32.200 And I'm like, okay, well, you're not my boyfriend, so I'm going to hang out with whoever.

03:11:37.200 Well, question for you, and I know you want to come in, but have you ever tried to maneuver

03:11:43.960 any of these into a committed relationship?

03:11:49.060 I'm sure they would.

03:11:50.380 I'm sure they would want to commit to me, like, in a second.

03:11:53.500 Like, I just don't want them like that.

03:11:56.040 Like, I don't think they're my ideal partner.

03:11:59.200 Like, I don't vibe with them on that.

03:12:00.480 But so why even entertain them?

03:12:01.120 Because they're still my, like, I personally think they're my friends.

03:12:05.180 Like, I have a friendship with them.

03:12:06.700 Like, we hang out all the time.

03:12:08.480 That's my question for you, basically.

03:12:08.980 I don't know if they're trying to sleep with me, but I'm saying if I were to ask them to

03:12:13.000 sleep with me, I don't think they'd say no.

03:12:14.700 I mean, probably.

03:12:16.340 That they're not your friends.

03:12:17.180 Yeah.

03:12:17.540 I'd say there's, like, 95% chance if a guy is straight and trying to talk to you.

03:12:22.720 I mean, I lived with six straight men.

03:12:24.600 They weren't trying to sleep with me, but if I asked them to sleep with me, they probably

03:12:28.060 would.

03:12:28.420 Well, that's kind of, yeah, that's what I was giving you.

03:12:30.060 The invitation.

03:12:30.720 Why would they deny the invitation?

03:12:31.740 Do you think it's possible, you as a man, to have purely platonic friendships with women

03:12:38.420 that are attractive women? 1.00

03:12:40.560 So logically, it's possible.

03:12:42.880 Okay.

03:12:43.060 Like, yes, it's possible.

03:12:44.060 In your experience.

03:12:45.680 But in practice.

03:12:46.180 In your opinion.

03:12:47.000 Yeah.

03:12:47.440 In practice, the lines get blurred quite a bit.

03:12:50.780 Right.

03:12:51.020 I think there's a couple components here.

03:12:52.400 I think that one of the big things is when you enter into a new relationship, some people

03:13:00.120 might be kind of whatever when it comes to you having friends of the opposite sex.

03:13:07.100 But here's the issue.

03:13:09.920 It is realistic to assume that down the road, down the line, that you could get into a relationship

03:13:20.480 with somebody who has a boundary or standard that you don't have friends of the opposite

03:13:25.380 sex.

03:13:26.480 And typically, people are, unless it's a really, really good friend, people are going to prioritize

03:13:30.880 their romantic relationships, oftentimes over their friendships.

03:13:34.600 Depends how long you've been friends.

03:13:36.240 Right.

03:13:36.360 So if at any given moment, this friendship that you've invested in and developed over

03:13:42.340 time can just be instantly nuked because they have a boyfriend or girlfriend who has this

03:13:48.320 boundary of, I don't want you hanging out with people of the opposite sex. 1.00

03:13:52.200 I don't feel like that's a great foundation for a relationship.

03:13:55.160 Not all people have that standard.

03:13:57.000 Like, some people are like, yeah, that's cool.

03:13:58.160 If you want to have a, you know, a guy friend or a girlfriend, some people are fine with it.

03:14:04.200 But I think it makes for really unstable relationships if at, like, the drop of the hat, they get

03:14:09.940 into a new relationship and this person doesn't want them to be hanging out with them.

03:14:13.480 Right.

03:14:13.920 The other component is that more so from the guy's perspective and the girl has female, male friends, excuse me, the girl has male friends. 0.99

03:14:21.900 Women friend zone men. 0.99

03:14:24.820 Totally.

03:14:25.720 Men typically don't do the reverse.

03:14:27.760 Yeah.

03:14:27.860 It can happen, but typically men are not, like, friend zoning a bunch of girls.

03:14:31.640 Right.

03:14:31.920 So, like, if you have a friend group, but initially the guy had a romantic or sexual interest in you, I don't really, like, he's just waiting.

03:14:39.700 He's biding his time. 1.00

03:14:40.560 He wants to fuck you still. 1.00

03:14:41.600 So, again, it's logically possible that the guy could have had an initial romantic interest. 1.00

03:14:47.680 You friend zone him and then it's a genuine friendship. 0.94

03:14:50.160 But even then, I don't want to be dating a girl who's hanging out with a guy who either, well, certainly if he did fuck her or did have a relationship with her, but he wanted her. 0.85

03:15:01.300 I feel like that's not a good dynamic. 0.87

03:15:03.540 Most dudes are waiting in the, they're waiting in the wings, waiting for the girl to get single, waiting for their opportunity.

03:15:10.560 And if given the opportunity, like, all of you could probably pull out your phone right now, text your male friend, and allude to wanting to hook up with him tonight, and he's going to jump at the chance to hook up with you.

03:15:21.160 Is that a friend?

03:15:22.560 I don't know.

03:15:23.220 I don't know.

03:15:23.940 Yeah, I acknowledge that.

03:15:25.180 As a woman, to be honest, and, you know, always stay humble, but I think you're all beautiful women.

03:15:33.220 And, you know, creating authentic, genuine male friendships, it's difficult.

03:15:38.300 And I acknowledge that, you know, I think, honestly, majority of my guy friends did hit on me and probably did want to hook up with me at one point.

03:15:47.400 And I would like to think, you know, we have a genuine, authentic friendship at this point, but there's not really much you can do, honestly, as a woman who values your relationship and friendship with this guy.

03:15:57.940 If they feel that way and you don't, yeah, I think a lot of guys do settle in being friends with women that they can't necessarily have something more with.

03:16:06.280 Would you agree with that?

03:16:08.880 Oh, yeah.

03:16:09.560 Well, the girl friendzones the guy, but, I mean, his romantic or sexual attraction to you hasn't evaporated because now your friends, like, he's probably like, well, if she gets to know me more.

03:16:26.220 Or maybe it's just that one night, that one lucky night.

03:16:28.680 If I hang out, you guys are hanging out, you guys are drinking a little bit.

03:16:31.480 Oh, yeah.

03:16:32.000 Yeah.

03:16:32.180 And then how many stories, yeah, how many stories are like, oh, we started out as friends.

03:16:37.060 Right.

03:16:37.420 And now we're more.

03:16:38.980 Well, doesn't that just have friends with benefits, right?

03:16:41.040 Doesn't it kind of, that's what happens.

03:16:43.100 It's a situationship now.

03:16:44.720 Situationship.

03:16:45.060 Yeah.

03:16:45.460 I don't know.

03:16:46.280 I think there's a difference between friends with benefits and a situationship.

03:16:50.000 Yeah, I agree.

03:16:50.580 I think a situationship is something a little more.

03:16:53.200 Friends with benefits is honestly just friends with a sexual component added into it.

03:16:56.900 Actually, none of it's defined.

03:16:58.680 Well, we are defined.

03:16:59.680 Both of them are not really defined.

03:17:01.100 Well, I think friends with benefits, friends with benefits to me seems that there's a bit more, I guess, definition to what the dynamic is.

03:17:11.420 Like, it's kind of clear that there's not necessarily, like, there's been some defining that this is a casual thing.

03:17:19.620 Yeah, it's not an emotional relationship.

03:17:21.140 It's like, it's like, it's on the tracks, it's on the rails to potentially becoming a relationship, but it's not defined yet as a relationship.

03:17:30.540 I think that is an amazing situation.

03:17:32.880 Thank you.

03:17:33.240 Thank you very much.

03:17:33.940 Appreciate it. 0.99

03:17:34.860 Copyright that shit. 1.00

03:17:35.700 Let's see. 1.00

03:17:38.020 Oh, ever had a roster?

03:17:40.680 No.

03:17:41.840 Roster?

03:17:42.620 Yeah.

03:17:43.280 How big was the roster?

03:17:45.520 Um...

03:17:46.000 She said it was such a soft voice.

03:17:49.760 Three.

03:17:50.380 I think, yeah.

03:17:51.380 Three or four.

03:17:52.320 Okay.

03:17:52.720 All right.

03:17:52.980 That's cool.

03:17:53.780 Let's see if I have any questions related to the roster.

03:17:56.500 Oh, um, who here...

03:17:57.940 Oh, we have one girl at the table. 0.93

03:17:59.420 Uh, anyone here ever had a threesome?

03:18:01.900 Yes.

03:18:02.920 Shove hands.

03:18:03.760 Raise them high.

03:18:04.820 I'm embarrassed.

03:18:06.220 Wait, was that...

03:18:07.320 Are you counting the foursome?

03:18:08.440 No.

03:18:08.500 Are we the only two who are raising our hands?

03:18:10.600 Yes.

03:18:11.200 Separate.

03:18:11.500 Okay.

03:18:12.080 I mean, I believe we're the only bisexual women at this table.

03:18:15.220 I guess so.

03:18:15.840 Would you say?

03:18:16.220 You don't have to be bisexual. 0.56

03:18:17.560 That's true.

03:18:18.460 But I think that we have more incentive, too, because we get different things from...

03:18:22.300 How many threesomes have you had?

03:18:24.160 Um, should I include the foursomes?

03:18:27.240 How many foursomes have you had? 1.00

03:18:28.760 Just one?

03:18:30.080 Two.

03:18:30.700 Two?

03:18:30.980 And then how many threesomes?

03:18:32.200 One.

03:18:32.640 What about you?

03:18:33.220 I've had one.

03:18:33.960 One.

03:18:34.520 Was it together?

03:18:35.700 No.

03:18:36.120 No, no, no, no, no.

03:18:36.780 One.

03:18:39.620 I don't hook up with my friends.

03:18:41.760 No, no.

03:18:42.180 We're homies. 0.98

03:18:43.420 Gay girls do that. 1.00

03:18:44.660 Um, not me, though. 0.94

03:18:45.900 I've done that.

03:18:46.560 Yeah.

03:18:46.820 This is my sis, for real.

03:18:48.800 Yeah, this is my homie.

03:18:50.480 You said you had a ho phase. 0.94

03:18:52.300 Anybody else here had a ho phase? 0.97

03:18:54.440 Wait.

03:18:55.180 Ho phase?

03:18:56.020 Ho phase?

03:18:56.640 Ho phase, ho phase, ho phase.

03:18:56.660 I use that definition, like, so loosely, though, because, like, when I see other girls, I'm 0.98

03:19:01.060 like, god damn! 0.93

03:19:02.200 I'm like, that's a ho phase. 0.99

03:19:03.700 You know what I mean?

03:19:04.240 Like, I don't have a crazy high body count or whatever, but by my definitions and my normal

03:19:08.980 lifestyle, it was, you know, higher than my usual activity when it comes to sex.

03:19:14.280 What is that?

03:19:15.520 So, how did the...

03:19:16.280 What was the ho phase?

03:19:18.180 What did it look like?

03:19:18.980 So, basically, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend back in high school, and after we broke up,

03:19:26.540 I did not have sex until, like, my senior year of high school.

03:19:30.120 But once I hooked up with the first person, again, my senior year of high school, it's

03:19:34.460 kind of like the floodgates were open, and I was like, okay, let me have my fun.

03:19:37.500 I'm about to go to college and never see these people again.

03:19:39.680 Like, you know, I had some fun with some people at that point.

03:19:44.480 And then I went to college, and things settled, which I know is shocking, because I went to

03:19:49.560 USC, and it's, you know, some people call it the University of Sexy Classmates.

03:19:53.400 There are very attractive people who go to USC.

03:19:55.320 I am blessed to go to that school.

03:19:56.820 But, yeah, you know, I was just in a relationship.

03:19:59.180 I broke up, like, we broke up, and I was celibate for a long time.

03:20:05.040 And then, you know, I just became sexually active again at that point.

03:20:08.420 And there was just from nothing to a good amount to, you know, settling, if that makes

03:20:14.040 sense.

03:20:14.600 All right.

03:20:16.620 Curious for, has anybody here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?

03:20:23.480 I mean, I did admit that I had a foursome, so does that count?

03:20:28.440 Yeah, right?

03:20:29.200 It happens in a day.

03:20:29.940 Wait, the threesomes, was it girl, girl?

03:20:31.920 The threesome was a girl and a guy, but the foursome, as I mentioned, two guys and one

03:20:35.920 girl, so.

03:20:36.740 I would say not counting the threesomes.

03:20:39.180 Okay, because it's a separate occasion.

03:20:40.900 Yeah, it'd be, like, one guy, and then, like, later in the night, or the next day, another

03:20:44.560 guy.

03:20:45.120 Have you had that?

03:20:45.720 I don't believe so.

03:20:46.800 I've had that happen to me once.

03:20:48.160 One time?

03:20:49.040 Yeah.

03:20:49.520 So, what was the story?

03:20:50.800 Um, the story was, I had slept with this guy, like, the day before to get back at one

03:20:57.560 of my housemates.

03:20:59.080 I'm dead.

03:20:59.800 Do you remember that?

03:21:00.580 Hmm.

03:21:01.960 Yeah?

03:21:02.880 Yeah, so, and then the next day, the guy that was already on my roster had asked me to hang

03:21:09.100 out, and I couldn't say no, because he already asked me to hang out, so it was just, like.

03:21:14.740 And they were roommates, right?

03:21:16.260 They were housemates, not roommates.

03:21:18.000 They were housemates, and I didn't know they were housemates until after.

03:21:24.760 Did you hook up at the same house, though?

03:21:27.060 She did.

03:21:28.400 Oh.

03:21:29.480 I found out that day, because I walked out of the other guy's room, and then the guy

03:21:34.320 that I slept with the day before was looking dead at me in my eyes.

03:21:38.100 That was a moment.

03:21:39.040 And so, what was the time period?

03:21:40.440 It was, like, just the next day?

03:21:41.780 Yeah, it was the next day.

03:21:43.000 It was, like, the next day.

03:21:44.680 Like, 24 hours.

03:21:45.460 Wait, so, hold on.

03:21:46.300 You spent the night with one guy?

03:21:48.500 I didn't spend the night with him.

03:21:49.680 I just hooked up with him the day before.

03:21:51.760 Okay, and then you went back to the house, and then hooked up with the other guy who lived

03:21:56.200 in the house.

03:21:56.780 Yeah.

03:21:57.500 Okay, got it.

03:21:58.580 Okay.

03:21:58.920 Yeah. 1.00

03:22:00.760 Shit happens. 1.00

03:22:02.380 All right. 1.00

03:22:03.060 There you have it, folks.

03:22:04.080 Cool.

03:22:04.300 Switching gears here, question for the whole panel.

03:22:09.020 Is it a deal-breaker if a guy uses the word retard or retarded?

03:22:13.060 No.

03:22:13.400 No.

03:22:14.580 I encourage political correctness.

03:22:17.380 Wait, yeah, yeah.

03:22:17.960 Give us your response.

03:22:18.900 Oh, did this happen to you? 0.99

03:22:20.380 You dumped a dude because you said the retard or retarded?

03:22:23.180 I think that it is important to be educated on, you know, the history of certain words,

03:22:32.260 including slurs, but I will say that I like South Park, and my humor is a little raunchy,

03:22:39.360 inappropriate.

03:22:40.060 There I say cancel-worthy, but, yeah, I respect everybody.

03:22:44.880 I'm going to pee now.

03:22:45.700 So, not a deal-breaker?

03:22:47.640 Okay.

03:22:48.280 Deal-breaker if the guy drops retard? 0.99

03:22:50.400 Saying a racial slur, that's a deal-breaker.

03:22:52.240 I agree.

03:22:52.560 The N-word, that's a deal-breaker, but, you know.

03:22:54.820 Got that.

03:22:55.120 We're done.

03:22:55.560 Yeah.

03:22:56.440 We're done.

03:22:57.880 Deal-breaker?

03:22:59.280 No.

03:22:59.920 I have a twin brother.

03:23:00.840 I lived with six men.

03:23:01.980 Like, I've heard it all.

03:23:03.340 She's heard it all.

03:23:03.980 What about you?

03:23:04.600 No.

03:23:05.120 What about you?

03:23:06.000 Not a deal-breaker?

03:23:07.520 Not a deal-breaker.

03:23:08.840 No, it's not a deal-breaker.

03:23:09.820 Nope.

03:23:10.380 What about you? 0.97

03:23:10.860 It's only a deal-breaker if he won't say retard. 0.91

03:23:14.280 Oh. 0.94

03:23:16.000 Based. 0.99

03:23:16.500 What if he calls you a retard? 0.98

03:23:18.060 Is that, like, in a joking way? 1.00

03:23:20.200 He's a bigger retard, then. 1.00

03:23:21.700 What's the joke? 0.99

03:23:22.460 That's not a deal-breaker. 0.98

03:23:23.420 Like, I don't know, you, like, spill something, and he's like, good job, retard. 1.00

03:23:28.400 Oh, that's funny. 0.94

03:23:28.860 I love it.

03:23:30.900 He's not, like, actually trying to insult you, you know?

03:23:34.440 Yeah.

03:23:35.060 I'd come back with this.

03:23:35.720 Although some people would be offended by that.

03:23:37.040 I remember, this was early in the woke, the woke days.

03:23:42.500 This was, like, 2012, 2012.

03:23:45.620 So, it caught me off guard. 0.99

03:23:47.140 This is before all the woke shit. 0.99

03:23:49.400 I was on this date with this girl, and we were hanging out. 0.99

03:23:53.180 It was going really well.

03:23:54.080 Really well.

03:23:55.200 Trust me.

03:23:56.020 So well.

03:23:56.920 So well.

03:23:58.680 And it was our first date.

03:24:00.600 We're kicking it.

03:24:02.620 And I think I, I'm trying to remember exactly what happened.

03:24:06.960 I think I either spilled something or, like, I dropped something.

03:24:11.380 Like, I was carrying something.

03:24:12.480 I don't know.

03:24:12.800 I was carrying a water bottle.

03:24:13.780 Accidentally dropped it.

03:24:14.640 Fumbled it. 1.00

03:24:15.580 And I was like, oh, shit. 1.00

03:24:16.600 I'm such a retard. 1.00

03:24:17.480 Like, in passing. 0.98

03:24:18.800 And then she was like, oh, my God.

03:24:23.540 Her hair stood up.

03:24:24.560 Well, I never.

03:24:25.940 That is really offensive.

03:24:27.980 Uh-oh.

03:24:28.920 You.

03:24:29.780 It is really wrong to say.

03:24:31.960 I'm not exaggerating.

03:24:33.680 She literally, she nuked the date. 1.00

03:24:36.820 And so, but this is 2012, right?

03:24:39.420 So I was, actually, I'm not going to say how I doubled down on it.

03:24:42.960 But trust me, I doubled down.

03:24:44.140 Okay.

03:24:44.460 And, but the date was ruined.

03:24:47.000 Of course.

03:24:47.880 Not because of the, she, she was like, it was, she, she was literally shaking.

03:24:53.520 She was literally shaking right now.

03:24:54.900 Literally shaking. 0.96

03:24:56.160 Like, how could this guy say, I didn't call her a retard. 0.99

03:24:59.540 I wasn't saying, like, I hate people who are actually retarded. 1.00

03:25:03.880 I was just saying, I called myself a retard. 0.99

03:25:07.080 I'm retarded. 0.97

03:25:07.980 Yeah. 0.96

03:25:08.260 Because I dropped a water bottle.

03:25:10.560 And she, I'm not exaggerating, this happened.

03:25:13.120 Um, I should see if she'd be down to come on the show.

03:25:16.900 She did you a favor.

03:25:18.140 Yes.

03:25:18.640 Actually, you dodged a bullet.

03:25:20.520 I guess.

03:25:21.460 Yeah.

03:25:21.860 It would have been, I guess.

03:25:24.240 Yeah.

03:25:24.720 She would have nagged you all the time. 0.99

03:25:27.000 It would have been the most retarded relationship ever. 1.00

03:25:29.620 Yeah. 0.89

03:25:30.160 Count your blessings.

03:25:30.660 Anyways, um, so that was one time I had that.

03:25:34.060 Uh, let's see if I, oh, okay.

03:25:35.560 Here we go.

03:25:36.140 The, the, I have somebody special who's asking me to ask a couple of questions.

03:25:40.480 We're going to blast through these really quick.

03:25:42.540 Uh, has anybody here ever gone revenge on the next?

03:25:45.260 Yes.

03:25:45.820 Revenge?

03:25:46.280 No.

03:25:46.700 Show of hands.

03:25:47.400 Yes.

03:25:47.880 You, revenge.

03:25:49.480 Revenge.

03:25:50.100 Like, uh, it could be, uh, putting baloney on the car on your heart day.

03:25:52.980 Oh, like hooking up with his best friend.

03:25:54.720 Yes, exactly.

03:25:55.680 Like something like that.

03:25:56.320 Brother.

03:25:56.820 Do you have a Zin?

03:25:57.700 Is that a Zin?

03:25:58.900 No, you can, it's fine.

03:25:59.740 Okay.

03:25:59.960 Yeah.

03:26:00.100 No, no, it's fine.

03:26:00.520 I do.

03:26:00.820 I'm sorry.

03:26:01.360 I'm addicted to nicotine, everyone.

03:26:02.680 Do you smoke?

03:26:03.460 Cigarettes too?

03:26:04.180 I do.

03:26:04.620 I do.

03:26:05.140 Um, but I actually recently had a surgery, so I can't smoke for like a week.

03:26:09.760 Oh, what's your surgery?

03:26:11.100 So back when I was, no, no.

03:26:12.900 Back when I was 16, um, I was a victim in a car crash and my nose broke and it never healed properly.

03:26:19.600 I just had my third surgery for it.

03:26:21.920 I swear it's not cosmetic.

03:26:23.520 Think what you want, but I just genuinely can't breathe.

03:26:25.920 Right.

03:26:26.260 So my third surgery I had like two days ago.

03:26:29.520 So I'm on the perks right now and I'm zimmed up and I'm feeling great.

03:26:33.760 Nice.

03:26:34.360 Yeah.

03:26:34.880 Congrats.

03:26:35.360 Thank you.

03:26:37.700 Uh, so revenge, tell us the revenge you got on the guy.

03:26:42.900 Okay.

03:26:43.140 So I have two, uh, the first one, this guy was just like being really weird and he wanted

03:26:49.180 commitment and then all of a sudden he didn't want commitment, didn't know what he wanted.

03:26:52.760 So I was like, oh, so you're trying to find somebody better.

03:26:55.120 Like, got it.

03:26:56.380 Like, I'll show you, you fumbled the bag.

03:26:58.720 So I met up with my friend at a party and I was like, Hey, I need you to like do something

03:27:03.820 for me.

03:27:04.380 And he like took a picture with me so I could post it on my close friends, only have that

03:27:08.640 man on there just so he could see it.

03:27:11.720 And then he came crawling back and I just like ghosted him after because I was just

03:27:16.380 like, yeah, you fumbled.

03:27:17.680 Like, goodbye.

03:27:18.880 Wait, what did you post?

03:27:19.740 Sorry, I missed that part.

03:27:20.180 Like a picture of me making out with another guy like two days after he said, oh, we can

03:27:24.320 just be friends.

03:27:25.000 And then he came crawling back being like, oh, I know what I want now.

03:27:27.900 And I was like, yeah, bye.

03:27:29.060 Like, on to the next.

03:27:31.380 And then the other revenge was when I was recently in no contact.

03:27:34.820 Uh, I was talking to his roommate, also his best friend and had his best friend like come

03:27:42.400 over a few times.

03:27:43.780 Um, I won't go into that, but like, yeah, like I feel like that was revenge because that

03:27:51.740 was like a no go for him.

03:27:53.280 Like territory wise, like his friend would not do that to him and his friend did.

03:27:58.780 So it was like, Ooh, yikes.

03:28:00.940 Can I ask what he did?

03:28:03.940 Did I miss that?

03:28:05.380 Uh, like incentivize this revenge.

03:28:09.520 So he was like no contact and I didn't know why he went no contact.

03:28:14.340 So it was more of like, okay, well, if you went no contact, I'm going to hang out with

03:28:20.180 your roommate, even though I know you hate that.

03:28:22.360 I even talked to your roommate and I knew his roommate was interested in me, but it was

03:28:29.040 kind of off, like I was off limits to his roommate on a friend boundary between him and his roommate.

03:28:36.720 Got it.

03:28:37.480 And his roommate was still willing.

03:28:39.360 So it's just, Ooh, revenge from both ends, I guess.

03:28:43.040 Cause his roommate was trying to get revenge on him.

03:28:45.060 All right.

03:28:45.620 Uh, what about you?

03:28:46.420 Your revenge story?

03:28:47.620 Oh, um, I don't know if this is a crime.

03:28:49.820 I hope this isn't a crime.

03:28:50.640 Probably not.

03:28:52.160 Nobody watches this.

03:28:53.300 Don't worry.

03:28:53.840 Yeah.

03:28:54.100 Um, well, this guy had like broken up with me and like went no contact and like, it was

03:29:01.700 like, it like meant weirdly a lot to me and like, I was mentally unstable at the time.

03:29:08.020 So I clearly wasn't thinking clearly, but me and my best friend, shout out to my best

03:29:12.980 friend, actually.

03:29:13.520 She was a G for this, but we decided to, um, put baloney on his car and burn his things

03:29:22.180 in the trash can in front of his door.

03:29:24.040 That was my revenge.

03:29:25.740 Like, like things that like, he like gave me like over time, like clothes, like trinkets,

03:29:30.920 stuff like that.

03:29:31.420 I put it in like a little tiny trash can and burned his gift.

03:29:34.700 Yeah.

03:29:35.240 That's it.

03:29:35.860 Yeah.

03:29:36.440 That's it.

03:29:36.940 What have you done?

03:29:37.600 Yeah, that's all I did.

03:29:38.180 That's not like a crime.

03:29:39.300 I don't know if pulling the, I don't know if putting the baloney on the car was a crime.

03:29:42.240 That's definitely a crime.

03:29:43.380 Yeah.

03:29:43.620 I was like, I don't know if that's a crime.

03:29:44.860 Oh, okay.

03:29:45.460 I was like, is that a crime?

03:29:46.640 I was like, is that a crime?

03:29:47.680 But burning your stuff?

03:29:48.760 It like fucks the paint up or something.

03:29:49.640 Is that like vandalism?

03:29:50.960 Yeah, that's what I guess the baloney.

03:29:54.300 Did he know it was you?

03:29:56.140 Huh?

03:29:56.740 Well, he didn't know, but he like knew.

03:29:59.540 He like, he like, campus security came and asked me and I said, it wasn't me.

03:30:06.220 I'm like, mm-mm.

03:30:07.200 No, they just, well, they just asked me.

03:30:08.840 Well, they just asked me.

03:30:10.040 They said.

03:30:11.240 So how long were you seeing the guy?

03:30:13.020 Like, like on and off for a year.

03:30:19.160 Oh.

03:30:19.640 Wait, is this the guy you were talking about?

03:30:20.720 No, no, no, no, not him.

03:30:22.360 No, not him.

03:30:22.960 Remember roster.

03:30:24.180 Roster.

03:30:26.140 Roster guys to keep up with.

03:30:27.760 I get lost too.

03:30:28.000 This was, this was before that, within that like, that like time when I was single, because

03:30:33.200 I've been single since 2022.

03:30:34.520 I like was on and off with a guy that I was seeing at my school for, for about like a

03:30:41.520 year and he like ended things with me abruptly and like blocked me and stuff.

03:30:46.920 How did he end things with you?

03:30:48.580 He like, he blocked me and like told my roommate, he was like, I can't do it anymore.

03:30:53.840 Well, did he send like a breakup text?

03:30:55.720 Nope.

03:30:55.980 Did he talk to you?

03:30:57.060 Nope.

03:30:57.760 Do you think there's anything that triggered that?

03:30:59.440 I forget if we've talked, we probably have.

03:31:00.680 Yeah, we have.

03:31:01.240 Um, I think what triggered it is like, we had like a conversation about me leaving to

03:31:06.940 go for a semester because I was deciding to move to New York and he just like, wasn't

03:31:12.400 talking to me about it.

03:31:13.340 Like I would ask him and be like, Hey, how do you feel about this?

03:31:15.440 He'd be like, you do what you gotta do.

03:31:17.420 And I was like, okay, but how do you feel?

03:31:20.560 And like, and like we were having another conversation about New York and I was like, I feel like you've

03:31:26.420 just been really mean to me since I decided this.

03:31:28.640 I don't understand and like, and like, I feel like you don't want to be friends with

03:31:33.060 me anymore.

03:31:33.700 And he was like, so you don't want to be friends.

03:31:36.480 And I was like, see, I never even said that, bro.

03:31:38.980 Dude, I hate when, I'm going to say guys, I'm sure women do this too, but I hate when

03:31:42.580 guys do that.

03:31:43.440 It's like, they'll put words in my mouth.

03:31:45.480 It's like, oh, so you never even cared about me.

03:31:48.060 What are you talking about?

03:31:48.640 Like, did I even say that?

03:31:49.480 When did I ever say that?

03:31:51.500 Anyway.

03:31:53.020 I digress.

03:31:53.420 So the cops came to, no, campus security, not the cops.

03:32:01.720 There's a difference.

03:32:03.920 Not the cops.

03:32:04.920 When I get an infraction, when I go to jail.

03:32:08.760 Talk about it.

03:32:09.760 Talk about that. 0.99

03:32:11.160 So, I mean, he blocked you and then you fucked his car up. 0.99

03:32:15.360 It's a salami. 0.99

03:32:17.540 I feel like it's the lack of, I try, okay, okay, okay, okay.

03:32:20.640 It damages the paint.

03:32:21.820 Okay, so, so a little bit more, a little bit more back, a little bit more back story.

03:32:27.540 We tried, I attempted to converse with him before this multiple times.

03:32:34.500 I would knock on his door.

03:32:36.120 So?

03:32:36.640 I like, I texted him. 0.95

03:32:38.420 Hey, she said she was being petty and she was mentally unstable. 1.00

03:32:40.900 Yeah.

03:32:41.120 And I made it clear, we were talking about revenge.

03:32:44.060 Yeah, she did her big one.

03:32:46.040 I was just mad.

03:32:47.340 I haven't done anything like that since.

03:32:49.200 What was years ago, team?

03:32:52.100 Yeah, okay.

03:32:52.720 All right.

03:32:55.320 Do any of the girls, here, show of hands, did she, do you guys think she did something wrong?

03:32:59.600 Just curious.

03:32:59.900 I mean, yeah.

03:33:01.080 Yeah, I'm not saying I didn't do anything wrong.

03:33:02.460 Show of hands, though.

03:33:03.420 If you don't raise your hand, I'm going to assume the opposite.

03:33:05.180 I didn't say I didn't do anything wrong.

03:33:06.580 I never said that.

03:33:07.640 I mean, you're kind of laughing about it.

03:33:09.220 I mean, you can, I think.

03:33:11.120 I think you can laugh about things.

03:33:11.760 I think you can laugh about it.

03:33:13.120 It's been years.

03:33:14.060 What else are you going to do?

03:33:14.960 Sometimes all you can do is laugh.

03:33:16.040 Can you laugh about it?

03:33:17.260 Okay.

03:33:17.860 Oh, what were you going to say, sir?

03:33:20.100 Well, let's play this game.

03:33:21.700 What can we laugh about?

03:33:22.960 Well, okay.

03:33:23.500 I'll share.

03:33:24.100 I like to joke about my trauma, quote unquote.

03:33:26.620 I don't know.

03:33:27.100 I think it's funny.

03:33:27.960 I have crude, dark, twisted humor, perhaps.

03:33:30.420 But I don't know.

03:33:31.780 I would never joke about anyone else's trauma or circumstances.

03:33:35.980 But I don't know.

03:33:37.000 I think you need to find light in darkness sometimes.

03:33:39.420 Sometimes, you know?

03:33:41.060 Mm-hmm.

03:33:42.080 I don't know.

03:33:43.680 I can't really disagree with that.

03:33:45.320 Yeah.

03:33:45.740 Yeah.

03:33:46.400 Sure.

03:33:47.300 Because why would I just wallow about it?

03:33:49.280 You know, sometimes all you can do is laugh.

03:33:51.660 Do you regret it?

03:33:53.120 What?

03:33:53.360 I will say, I regret the extent of which I, like, I didn't need all that.

03:34:02.560 I could have just burned the stuff in the trash can. 1.00

03:34:04.160 I need to fuck this car. 1.00

03:34:06.860 I could have just burned the stuff in the trash can. 1.00

03:34:09.200 I had no business doing shit to his car. 0.99

03:34:11.140 I actually agree with that. 1.00

03:34:11.940 She fucked his car up. 0.99

03:34:12.820 Wait, how does a baloney use a man's car? 1.00

03:34:14.220 If you put baloney on a hot day, it'll, like, stick to it.

03:34:16.300 So when you, like, unstick it.

03:34:17.940 This sounds pretty good.

03:34:18.860 But, like, why going into the logistics of it? 0.99

03:34:20.880 I would like to know if this is actually a felony or if you pull that out of your butt. 0.99

03:34:25.440 Because you said it was a felony, sir. 0.98

03:34:28.440 Well, I mean, so depending on the amount of property damage it does, again, I'm not entirely

03:34:33.560 sure how much the extent of the damage it can do.

03:34:36.160 But, like, having to repaint your entire car can be, like.

03:34:38.880 I think it was just one piece of baloney, right?

03:34:40.520 Not, like, the whole car was covered, was it?

03:34:42.800 No, not his whole car.

03:34:43.460 It wasn't just a baloney sandwich.

03:34:44.760 It was, like, the whole thing.

03:34:46.700 No, no, no, no, no.

03:34:47.680 It wasn't his whole car.

03:34:48.580 First of all, I wasn't doing that. 1.00

03:34:49.260 You don't fuck. 1.00

03:34:50.940 You don't fuck with a man's car. 1.00

03:34:52.140 No, no, no. 1.00

03:34:52.500 I didn't do his whole car.

03:34:53.880 It doesn't matter.

03:34:55.360 I just did his driver's door.

03:34:58.120 All right.

03:34:58.540 We have, Ellie, I'm going to have you read some of these chats.

03:35:00.840 Of course.

03:35:01.560 Hold on.

03:35:02.480 One sec.

03:35:03.860 You know, memento.

03:35:05.120 It's loading.

03:35:05.740 There it is.

03:35:07.780 Yo, Ellie, do you think Netspen is going to take Blade's Throne?

03:35:11.080 Drang gang, shout out Echo.

03:35:12.600 He pulled up in a rover.

03:35:14.820 I do not think Netspen is going to take Blade's Throne.

03:35:18.860 Word.

03:35:20.220 What?

03:35:20.960 Okay.

03:35:21.560 Disregard.

03:35:22.440 Cool.

03:35:22.900 Yeah.

03:35:23.800 No idea what that's about.

03:35:25.220 Let's see here.

03:35:26.200 Oh, okay.

03:35:26.760 This one's, we're just going to blast through these questions super quick.

03:35:31.180 Not related to dating at all, but it's just kind of fun.

03:35:33.680 Uh, for, for me anyways, I guess.

03:35:37.160 Uh, what years were World War I?

03:35:41.820 Oh, God.

03:35:42.980 Oh, no idea.

03:35:45.660 How about the, what decade was you, uh, World War I?

03:35:48.860 Just what decade?

03:35:51.140 1940s, 1950s, 1960s.

03:35:53.220 What, what, what decade?

03:35:55.340 I was going to say the 1800s.

03:35:57.460 1800s?

03:35:57.960 Okay.

03:35:58.220 1900s.

03:35:59.100 No, no, no, no, that's century.

03:36:01.000 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:36:01.840 The year.

03:36:02.100 Yes, let's specify decades.

03:36:03.640 So, 1830s, 40s, 50s?

03:36:06.560 Um, let me do 1820.

03:36:09.720 1820?

03:36:10.320 1920, 1930.

03:36:12.680 1930s for World War I?

03:36:14.060 Okay.

03:36:14.320 What about you?

03:36:15.520 1940s, what do you think?

03:36:17.200 1840s?

03:36:17.600 Yeah, 18.

03:36:18.080 1840s.

03:36:18.920 No, actually, no.

03:36:19.740 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

03:36:20.580 I am trying to remember, if you asked me when I was 16, taking AP World, AP U.S. Go.

03:36:25.100 You would have known.

03:36:25.660 I would have known.

03:36:26.400 But it's like, I don't study this stuff anymore.

03:36:28.240 It's okay, just guess.

03:36:29.020 Bullfork.

03:36:29.300 Bullfork.

03:36:30.660 1920s.

03:36:31.060 Just bullfork it.

03:36:31.620 Oh, no.

03:36:32.480 1920s, okay, what about you?

03:36:33.620 I don't know.

03:36:34.400 1914, 1918.

03:36:36.560 Okay, that's a guess.

03:36:37.620 I'm going to say late 1950s.

03:36:39.700 Late 1950s, what do you think?

03:36:41.820 1912 to 1917.

03:36:43.300 What do you think?

03:36:43.880 I think it's like around 1918.

03:36:45.860 Yeah.

03:36:46.060 I just realized Zara Nicholas was overthrown, so I'm way off.

03:36:49.320 Yeah.

03:36:49.500 Yeah, that's the Bolshevik Revolution.

03:36:51.360 I'm so off.

03:36:52.440 Forgive me.

03:36:53.100 It is, Ellie there is correct.

03:36:56.360 Congratulations.

03:36:57.480 Good job.

03:36:58.320 I don't give you so much credit.

03:36:59.200 I just remembered it from last week.

03:37:01.220 I don't know.

03:37:02.000 She yanked that one. 1.00

03:37:04.400 Yeah, but you don't learn that shit in college. 1.00

03:37:06.400 She is correct. 1.00

03:37:07.400 1914, 1918.

03:37:08.900 Nobody studies that.

03:37:09.680 Current events matters.

03:37:10.780 What years were World War II?

03:37:14.360 Oh, I got this one.

03:37:15.660 1948 to...

03:37:22.680 I don't know.

03:37:25.560 Oh, 1948 to when?

03:37:27.240 When did it end?

03:37:28.020 When does it start?

03:37:28.560 When does it end?

03:37:28.940 1955.

03:37:35.220 Okay, your thoughts?

03:37:36.920 1940s, 1944-ish.

03:37:40.440 No, I might be wrong on that one.

03:37:41.340 Can you just try to stay straight?

03:37:42.400 I'm sorry.

03:37:43.520 1940s, but I can't think of the example.

03:37:44.400 Tilt your mic down a little bit.

03:37:45.240 What about you?

03:37:45.660 Yeah.

03:37:45.860 I was going to say 1940s, 1950s.

03:37:48.320 I don't know.

03:37:48.660 What do you think?

03:37:48.800 I also believe it's the 1940s.

03:37:50.920 To the...

03:37:51.940 We're going to skip Ellie.

03:37:53.800 Yeah.

03:37:54.420 I'm going to say the 1950s.

03:37:57.100 Okay.

03:37:59.400 1940.

03:38:00.340 Tilt your mic down a bit.

03:38:01.400 What about you?

03:38:01.880 I think things kicked off at the end of the 1930s, and then it ended, I want to say, in like

03:38:07.060 47, 48.

03:38:07.740 Okay, Ellie, dates.

03:38:09.420 Guys, drum roll, please.

03:38:12.060 Sorry, don't actually do that.

03:38:13.480 I shouldn't have said that.

03:38:14.140 Yeah, good job.

03:38:14.800 1939 to...

03:38:15.820 1945.

03:38:16.800 There you go.

03:38:17.340 There you go.

03:38:17.860 Well done.

03:38:18.500 She has it.

03:38:19.400 Good job.

03:38:20.020 Okay, here we go.

03:38:21.280 Name three countries.

03:38:23.560 Please, go.

03:38:24.140 Wow.

03:38:24.660 Really?

03:38:25.100 Cuba, Brazil, Belize.

03:38:27.840 China, Russia, America.

03:38:29.160 You can't repeat, by the way.

03:38:30.240 Japan, Italy, and Greece.

03:38:34.280 Peru, Portugal, Australia.

03:38:37.320 Korea, Vietnam, United States.

03:38:40.520 Switzerland, China, and England.

03:38:44.280 Is that a country?

03:38:46.060 Or is that town?

03:38:46.460 We'll accept it.

03:38:47.160 We'll accept it.

03:38:48.020 Yeah, I think that's kind of weird.

03:38:49.900 I'm going to go...

03:38:50.680 Did someone say Canada already?

03:38:52.080 No, I don't believe so.

03:38:52.900 Canada, Mexico, Kenya.

03:38:58.480 Paraguay, Uruguay, and let's see...

03:39:03.000 Czechoslovakia.

03:39:05.280 Beautiful.

03:39:05.920 Well done.

03:39:06.340 Well done, everybody.

03:39:07.740 Because of our stream yards is all scuffed, normally we have a chat that comes through.

03:39:14.000 The question is...

03:39:14.840 No, it's not that.

03:39:15.440 Somebody in the chat, Stifler, I think, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of

03:39:23.120 one to ten.

03:39:23.700 You can't pick seven, starting with you.

03:39:25.960 Looks, scale of one to ten, starting with you.

03:39:28.780 9.5.

03:39:29.940 9.5, okay.

03:39:31.660 It's kind of awkward to give myself a high rating.

03:39:33.960 It's just awkward.

03:39:35.100 Yeah, just whatever the rating is.

03:39:36.020 I'll just say six.

03:39:36.760 I'll just say six.

03:39:37.480 Eight.

03:39:37.580 Be confident, though.

03:39:38.600 I'm confident, but it's just awkward.

03:39:40.460 Eight.

03:39:40.860 What about you?

03:39:43.020 Eight and a half?

03:39:44.520 Okay.

03:39:45.080 Four. 1.00

03:39:46.920 Bitch. 1.00

03:39:48.280 I would say, like, a ten. 1.00

03:39:52.840 Six.

03:39:53.240 Yeah, I'm a solid six on a good day.

03:39:57.540 Four on a bad.

03:39:58.680 Okay, we got...

03:39:59.680 What did you say?

03:40:00.940 I just said six because it's just weird to rate myself.

03:40:03.660 I'm like, let everybody else rate me.

03:40:04.820 Okay, we got 9.5.

03:40:06.000 We got an eight.

03:40:06.660 What did you say?

03:40:07.180 8.5?

03:40:07.640 I said eight and a half.

03:40:08.820 8.5.

03:40:09.880 And then ten.

03:40:11.840 Those are the high ratings.

03:40:13.400 I give myself a five.

03:40:16.720 Okay, wow.

03:40:17.780 Are you going to go through and rate us now?

03:40:19.300 No, I'm not going to.

03:40:20.520 What's going on?

03:40:21.180 I won't give you guys ratings.

03:40:23.340 I will say there were some high rankings here at the table.

03:40:30.060 Just curious, though, since we do have one person who rated themselves the highest.

03:40:35.120 So you gave yourself a ten?

03:40:37.220 Yes.

03:40:38.040 So, but the other women, they ranked themselves all lower than you. 1.00

03:40:42.460 Is it your position?

03:40:43.620 Do you, like, disagree with them?

03:40:45.160 Do you think their ratings were too low?

03:40:46.820 I think their ratings were too low.

03:40:47.980 I personally think we're all tens.

03:40:51.180 That's just my personal thing.

03:40:52.640 Are all men tens?

03:40:53.580 No.

03:40:55.800 So, well, how do you, I guess, reconcile that?

03:40:58.980 No, I didn't.

03:40:59.460 I never said all women are tens. 0.98

03:41:01.520 I said this table were tens.

03:41:02.900 I said people at this table were all tens.

03:41:05.160 All the women at this table are tens. 1.00

03:41:08.060 Yes.

03:41:08.420 Are all the men at this table tens?

03:41:10.240 Yeah.

03:41:10.420 The one man?

03:41:11.200 Yeah, the one man that's here, yeah.

03:41:13.520 He doesn't buy that.

03:41:14.580 He has nice eyes.

03:41:17.120 But I guess I'm confused here.

03:41:19.520 So, like, everybody's just equal at the table?

03:41:22.160 Yeah, everybody's good AF.

03:41:24.640 Because you're bi, right? 0.95

03:41:25.620 Yeah.

03:41:25.720 So you must make some determinations as to, like, oh, this girl's more attractive than this

03:41:29.820 girl.

03:41:30.080 I'm more attracted to her.

03:41:31.760 But all the women here are just across the board. 1.00

03:41:33.640 I believe they're all tens.

03:41:34.600 Yes, I do.

03:41:36.100 All tens?

03:41:36.840 Yes.

03:41:37.160 There's not, like, a nine at the table?

03:41:38.560 No, I believe we're all tens.

03:41:39.760 All tens.

03:41:40.540 Yes.

03:41:40.740 I think we're all very, like, gorgeous women. 0.95

03:41:42.600 Even Ellie there, the self-rated four? 1.00

03:41:44.420 Yes.

03:41:45.020 She's beautiful.

03:41:46.060 Everybody here is very, very beautiful.

03:41:48.760 And I feel like everybody should have given themselves a ten because that's what we all

03:41:52.460 are.

03:41:53.640 Oops.

03:41:54.040 Sorry.

03:41:54.320 I didn't mean to do that.

03:41:56.120 Okay.

03:41:57.660 I can't wait.

03:41:58.460 No, I won't ask.

03:42:00.620 What?

03:42:03.380 You're very angelic.

03:42:04.340 Wait, do that look again, Ellie.

03:42:05.600 Do the look that you did.

03:42:06.640 What look?

03:42:07.720 Oh, okay.

03:42:09.160 That one.

03:42:09.640 The look that you, you, like, looked her up and down?

03:42:13.060 Oh, that was unintentional.

03:42:14.320 My bad.

03:42:14.660 A little sassy. 0.83

03:42:15.420 It was a little, yeah.

03:42:17.640 Does anybody, you know, she, she calls herself a ten.

03:42:21.580 Do any of the women at the table here who didn't rate themselves a ten feel, do you guys

03:42:25.780 think this is an accurate rating?

03:42:27.800 I think that, I don't know if it's an accurate rating.

03:42:31.740 I mean, none of us here are tens.

03:42:33.460 I don't see that at all.

03:42:36.140 But, you know, it is what it is.

03:42:37.660 That's a good one.

03:42:39.640 Can I ask you, because obviously everyone has different types, different metrics of

03:42:44.600 who they consider beautiful, attractive, whatever.

03:42:47.100 What is a ten and a woman to you, since none of us are here, apparently?

03:42:52.200 I don't know.

03:42:53.060 I mean.

03:42:53.660 Yeah, an example of a ten.

03:42:54.900 Like a celebrity or something.

03:42:55.580 An example of a ten, a celebrity example.

03:42:58.320 I don't.

03:42:58.880 Rihanna?

03:42:59.200 Paulina Pereskova and her heyday was gorgeous.

03:43:02.200 A lot of them are good, though.

03:43:02.660 Sydney Sweeney.

03:43:03.960 Oh.

03:43:04.480 Oh, yeah.

03:43:04.960 Sydney Sweeney. 1.00

03:43:05.700 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

03:43:06.900 What the? 1.00

03:43:09.580 She has great genes.

03:43:11.220 That's my example.

03:43:12.160 Sydney Sweeney has great genes.

03:43:13.280 That's my sister. 0.95

03:43:14.760 Are they real, though?

03:43:17.160 Sydney Sweeney.

03:43:17.840 I mean, people will often say, like, Megan Fox when she was younger.

03:43:23.600 I think she's a ten. 0.84

03:43:24.380 Megan Fox is a good. 0.97

03:43:25.940 No?

03:43:26.600 You don't think so?

03:43:26.840 She's hot. 1.00

03:43:27.440 Oh, I totally agree.

03:43:29.000 Yeah.

03:43:29.460 Megan Fox is a good rhyme. 1.00

03:43:30.540 Well, let's do this.

03:43:31.260 Who do you think is a woman who's a ten? 1.00

03:43:34.540 Who do I think is a woman who's a ten? 1.00

03:43:35.940 Yeah, like somebody, like a celebrity.

03:43:37.600 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:43:39.160 Meg Thee Stallion.

03:43:40.420 Megan Thee Stallion, sir.

03:43:41.840 Megan Thee Stallion is a ten. 0.53

03:43:43.980 Yes.

03:43:44.280 I don't even know if I want to look at Megan Thee Stallion right now.

03:43:46.720 She's a stallion. 0.89

03:43:47.800 She's a tall.

03:43:48.680 She's beautiful.

03:43:50.020 She's eating a basketball player right now. 1.00

03:43:52.000 She is pretty.

03:43:52.980 Yeah.

03:43:53.480 Okay.

03:43:53.920 She's pretty teased.

03:43:54.760 Some guys like that.

03:43:55.180 She's an independent artist, and she's this famous.

03:43:59.160 Okay.

03:43:59.720 Who would you rate a ten?

03:44:00.600 Yeah.

03:44:00.900 What celebrity would you rate a ten?

03:44:02.800 Yeah, exactly that.

03:44:03.980 You know, it's hard.

03:44:07.900 I'm trying to think.

03:44:09.660 I think I posted some photos in my Discord.

03:44:12.540 Let me think who I did, though.

03:44:14.040 What's the Discord?

03:44:14.580 Looks?

03:44:16.640 No.

03:44:17.380 I don't think I posted that.

03:44:18.000 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:44:18.160 But without makeup as a ten, because I know you're not really pro-makeup.

03:44:22.920 I give...

03:44:24.440 Who's the...

03:44:25.380 I forgot her name.

03:44:27.400 The girl who was in Smallville that I always cite to that nobody agrees with me is a... 0.78

03:44:31.520 I don't think she's a ten, but she's a solid... 1.00

03:44:33.380 Kristen Kruik.

03:44:34.440 She's like a solid 8.5. 1.00

03:44:37.300 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:44:37.360 I don't know who that is.

03:44:38.040 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:44:38.060 Maybe even a nine.

03:44:38.800 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:44:38.820 Megan Thee Stallion.

03:44:38.840 Can you pull up an image?

03:44:39.800 Is that possible?

03:44:40.140 Megan Thee Stallion woman?

03:44:41.680 Am I young Kristen Kruik, though?

03:44:42.900 Yeah.

03:44:43.040 She's a wajan. 0.94

03:44:44.440 I would like to see it.

03:44:45.080 Oh.

03:44:45.420 Oh, wow.

03:44:45.700 But look.

03:44:46.220 Some pictures are more flattering than others.

03:44:49.140 Hold on.

03:44:49.900 Wait.

03:44:50.280 Nick, don't pull it up, because you're going to...

03:44:51.800 Find a bad photo.

03:44:52.860 Everyone in the chat, if we show her the old photos, let me see what I can find.

03:44:57.140 The Neutrogena one, or was it clean and clear?

03:45:00.440 I'd say young Kristen Kruick.

03:45:03.640 Let's see who this one is.

03:45:05.440 Pretty hot.

03:45:06.900 I'm trying to see if I can find some good photos.

03:45:09.980 Here, Nick, while we do this, just Google Kristen Kruick, and fine.

03:45:15.100 We'll see some of her various photos.

03:45:18.200 Just type in Kristen Kruick.

03:45:19.840 She's 43 now?

03:45:23.180 42.

03:45:25.520 So we are going to see some of young.

03:45:28.020 All right, go ahead.

03:45:28.620 Pull it up.

03:45:29.020 What do you have?

03:45:30.400 Click on that first one, the IMDb one.

03:45:34.000 That she's pretty.

03:45:35.480 Oh, okay. 0.99

03:45:35.960 They're going to give us the fucking mini photo. 0.99

03:45:37.940 Okay. 0.99

03:45:39.480 Scroll down on the side there.

03:45:41.940 Scroll down.

03:45:43.540 So I'm going to see if I'm getting the same photos.

03:45:45.580 She's cute. 0.95

03:45:46.280 She's cute. 0.95

03:45:47.300 Scroll down.

03:45:48.060 Scroll down.

03:45:48.900 I see it.

03:45:49.540 Very pretty girl.

03:45:50.120 Scroll down.

03:45:50.520 Scroll down.

03:45:51.160 Scroll down.

03:45:51.840 Scroll down.

03:45:52.260 Scroll down.

03:45:52.560 Scroll down.

03:45:53.560 Go, go, go.

03:45:54.120 More, more, more, more, more, more.

03:45:55.200 She looks like Evangeline Lilly.

03:45:56.280 Hold on.

03:45:56.640 I love her smile.

03:45:58.260 I'm a big, like, teeth girl.

03:45:59.400 Yeah, the one with the white shirt.

03:46:02.360 What did you say?

03:46:03.020 Just give a nice smile.

03:46:03.660 Oh, thank you.

03:46:04.260 So do you.

03:46:04.700 Just click on that one.

03:46:06.660 Just click it?

03:46:07.520 Or is it?

03:46:07.820 Oh, my God.

03:46:08.200 That's so annoying.

03:46:08.700 Oh, it's because it's zoomed in.

03:46:10.160 Zoom out.

03:46:11.940 Zoom out.

03:46:14.100 Go to, like, 100.

03:46:17.340 Go to 100?

03:46:18.660 Or no.

03:46:19.180 Go 150 was good, I guess.

03:46:22.300 Yeah, she's pretty. 1.00

03:46:23.260 Yeah.

03:46:23.460 She's really pretty.

03:46:23.880 She's, like, 14.

03:46:24.260 Young.

03:46:25.360 She has sensation genes. 0.95

03:46:28.340 He's still looking young and beautiful.

03:46:30.340 Like, young, you know.

03:46:31.820 Mm-hmm.

03:46:32.240 Yeah.

03:46:33.540 I see what you're saying.

03:46:34.260 I see it.

03:46:34.640 I see it.

03:46:34.800 That was, like, my celebrity crush when I was there.

03:46:36.280 Yeah.

03:46:36.400 Yeah.

03:46:36.640 Yeah.

03:46:36.800 Totally.

03:46:38.000 What about?

03:46:38.540 I give her a solid 8.

03:46:41.020 Yeah.

03:46:41.380 Who's your 10, though?

03:46:42.520 We're asking who your 10 is.

03:46:43.660 Slash 9, potentially.

03:46:45.180 Do you have a 10?

03:46:46.420 A type?

03:46:47.260 A 10.

03:46:48.160 A type.

03:46:48.320 Oh, a 10?

03:46:49.020 You know what I mean?

03:46:50.480 Oh, man.

03:46:51.060 That's hard.

03:46:52.100 That's hard, man.

03:46:55.200 Hmm.

03:46:55.560 I'd say Evangeline Lilly.

03:46:56.860 Adriana.

03:46:57.160 Oh, from Lost.

03:46:58.440 Yeah.

03:46:58.560 We do actually have some.

03:47:00.040 You know what?

03:47:01.260 Here, Nick.

03:47:01.920 Pull up the looks tab in the Discord.

03:47:04.980 We have some photos of her already.

03:47:07.580 Hmm.

03:47:10.220 Let me know when you have it.

03:47:12.440 I have it.

03:47:13.700 All right.

03:47:14.180 Just don't show the first picture, okay?

03:47:17.600 Scroll up.

03:47:18.060 Do you have it?

03:47:18.640 It tastes kind of like a man's in two.

03:47:22.560 Hide the latest one.

03:47:23.820 I think you know what I mean.

03:47:25.260 All right.

03:47:25.520 Click on the third one at the top.

03:47:28.700 Oh, from Lost.

03:47:30.220 I like her.

03:47:31.320 I give her a solid 9.

03:47:34.980 She's cute. 0.95

03:47:35.500 I'm pretty good.

03:47:36.100 Who's your 10?

03:47:36.800 I got it.

03:47:37.200 I don't know if 9 exists.

03:47:41.220 You're more simple, girl.

03:47:42.840 You don't think 10s exist? 0.92

03:47:43.580 Simple?

03:47:44.440 Well, she's pretty, but you kind of have more of a soft, simple. 0.69

03:47:47.980 Even the first one, she's more soft, simple.

03:47:49.760 Like girl next door type vibe.

03:47:50.920 Yeah, that's what I'm getting from you.

03:47:52.500 Oh, right.

03:47:53.080 I don't want like the fake titty.

03:47:54.100 I'm not simplifying it, but that's what I mean.

03:47:56.860 Like the model-esque thing.

03:47:58.700 Yeah, because you're so anti-makeup. 0.78

03:48:00.540 Pretty much.

03:48:01.900 I guess.

03:48:04.320 Yeah.

03:48:04.840 Do you have a guy who you think is a 10?

03:48:07.000 Oh, wait.

03:48:08.060 I had a childhood crush of four.

03:48:10.560 Did you say Michael B. Jordan?

03:48:12.240 Yes, I did.

03:48:13.120 Have you seen that man?

03:48:13.920 Did you watch him in Sinners?

03:48:14.940 Yeah.

03:48:15.440 He's very attractive.

03:48:16.400 I think the audience probably knows who that is, Michael B. Jordan.

03:48:20.200 So you're a 10.

03:48:21.020 He's a 10.

03:48:22.260 He's great.

03:48:22.780 Do you think that you could get Michael B. Jordan?

03:48:26.940 No.

03:48:27.600 Why not?

03:48:28.200 Because it's Michael B. Jordan.

03:48:29.800 But you're a 10.

03:48:30.920 But it's Michael B. Jordan.

03:48:32.580 That's different.

03:48:32.760 But he's a 10 and you're a 10.

03:48:34.180 Why can't you get him?

03:48:35.040 That's different.

03:48:35.660 I'd be so nervous.

03:48:36.820 I'd probably fumble.

03:48:37.820 I'd probably trip.

03:48:39.560 Nope.

03:48:40.020 I'd just see it.

03:48:40.340 He'd take care of you, baby girl.

03:48:41.360 He probably would.

03:48:42.740 He probably would.

03:48:43.460 And let me tell you, if he ever said, let's go, I'm going in a heartbeat.

03:48:48.860 But like realistically, it probably wouldn't happen.

03:48:52.140 Who's a 10?

03:48:52.700 Never shall never.

03:48:53.300 Who can I say is a 10?

03:48:54.140 There is one that is younger than me.

03:48:56.920 I mean, you could go to the models like Adriana Lima. 0.95

03:49:00.140 Oh, duh.

03:49:00.760 Gorgeous.

03:49:01.320 What about Aaron Johnson-Taylor?

03:49:03.920 Who's that?

03:49:04.760 Name's so familiar.

03:49:05.340 Is that the football player?

03:49:06.440 No.

03:49:07.020 No.

03:49:07.780 He mixed up the names.

03:49:09.000 Aaron Taylor-Johnson.

03:49:10.180 Oh, is that the guy with the age gap relationship?

03:49:12.720 Yes.

03:49:13.000 The guy who's dating an old lady? 0.99

03:49:14.800 Yeah.

03:49:15.420 Oh, that's a problem.

03:49:17.660 That's another topic.

03:49:18.520 That's another conversation.

03:49:19.460 But he's beautiful.

03:49:19.720 Was he groomed?

03:49:20.780 Totally groomed.

03:49:21.880 Well, they met when he was...

03:49:24.000 Underaged.

03:49:24.840 Was he underaged?

03:49:25.500 He was underaged.

03:49:26.360 All right.

03:49:26.680 So there could be some arguments there that...

03:49:28.600 How awkward.

03:49:29.240 And how awkward for her daughters that are his age.

03:49:31.920 How awkward is that?

03:49:33.120 He could...

03:49:33.680 He's a good looking guy.

03:49:35.400 He could, you know...

03:49:36.320 I know.

03:49:37.060 Do better.

03:49:38.360 Beyond that.

03:49:39.800 I think Austin Butler.

03:49:41.540 Oh, yeah.

03:49:42.240 Austin Butler?

03:49:43.220 Yeah.

03:49:44.280 Who's that?

03:49:45.360 I don't know.

03:49:45.660 He played Elvis. 1.00

03:49:46.360 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

03:49:48.620 You went so loose. 1.00

03:49:49.760 Wait, wait, I know who you're talking about.

03:49:50.960 That one guy that poses all the time.

03:49:52.500 Cots stealing that may be coming out.

03:49:54.580 I know who you're talking about.

03:49:55.700 I know who you're talking about.

03:49:56.680 Did you guys have childhood crushes?

03:49:58.640 Yes.

03:49:59.100 Mine was Cameron Boyce.

03:50:00.780 Rest in peace.

03:50:01.320 Rest in peace.

03:50:02.100 Mine was my childhood...

03:50:02.800 Who was my childhood...

03:50:02.840 I was Aaron Carter.

03:50:03.380 Rest in peace.

03:50:04.300 Oh, Aaron Carter.

03:50:05.420 Yeah.

03:50:06.300 You're a 9.5.

03:50:07.800 Give us a person who...

03:50:09.120 A guy who you think is a 9.5.

03:50:10.820 Like a celebrity crush or like...

03:50:19.780 Like a celebrity.

03:50:21.020 A celebrity.

03:50:21.800 Sure.

03:50:22.160 Somebody we could look up.

03:50:23.900 Okay.

03:50:24.340 Like they could just be...

03:50:25.380 I don't know.

03:50:25.820 Somebody who's public.

03:50:29.640 I think Noah Beck.

03:50:32.220 Who's that?

03:50:33.060 Can we Google Noah Beck?

03:50:33.860 Yeah, a TikToker.

03:50:34.680 That's a good one. 1.00

03:50:35.060 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

03:50:36.560 Who that? 1.00

03:50:37.000 Wait, is that the guy who used to date...

03:50:39.300 Addison Wright?

03:50:39.920 No, right?

03:50:40.600 No.

03:50:41.020 One of the D'Amelio's... 0.97

03:50:42.280 Oh, yeah.

03:50:42.900 Dixie?

03:50:43.600 Yeah.

03:50:44.040 Yeah.

03:50:44.900 Yeah.

03:50:45.060 The...

03:50:45.540 Broccoli hair?

03:50:46.560 Broccoli hair guy.

03:50:47.240 He's like a thicker neck.

03:50:48.880 I feel like there was memes about him.

03:50:50.080 I think I...

03:50:50.300 There was that meme, yeah.

03:50:53.840 Oh, this guy.

03:50:55.000 Okay, this guy.

03:50:56.280 Yeah.

03:50:57.540 Um...

03:51:00.000 Okay.

03:51:01.280 So, do you think you could land him?

03:51:04.440 Yeah, I've talked to him before.

03:51:06.380 Or Vinnie Hacker.

03:51:08.220 Vinnie Hacker's been in my DM. 1.00

03:51:09.920 What the fuck is that guy? 0.99

03:51:11.320 Oh, who's... 1.00

03:51:12.220 Okay, I don't know any of these fucking people. 0.99

03:51:13.140 You gotta search up Vinnie Hacker. 0.99

03:51:14.480 Search Vinnie Hacker.

03:51:15.600 He's a TikTok celebrity.

03:51:18.420 He's so nice.

03:51:18.860 He's also a model, yeah.

03:51:20.160 Yeah.

03:51:20.560 He's in...

03:51:21.080 He's also what?

03:51:21.800 Model.

03:51:22.680 Okay.

03:51:23.260 Yeah.

03:51:23.640 Vinnie Hacker.

03:51:24.380 Vinnie Hacker.

03:51:24.980 Yeah, look it up.

03:51:26.100 Wait, so you said you've met Noah Beck?

03:51:30.460 Yes.

03:51:31.320 But I asked if you could get him.

03:51:33.240 Yeah.

03:51:33.800 Did you get him?

03:51:35.560 I didn't try.

03:51:36.680 Oh, she didn't try. 0.96

03:51:38.900 But if you did, you could have?

03:51:41.700 Yeah.

03:51:42.040 Okay.

03:51:42.600 I believe him.

03:51:43.340 Do we have the photos?

03:51:44.780 Okay.

03:51:45.540 Oh, so fine.

03:51:46.860 So fine. 0.80

03:51:48.340 He looks toxic.

03:51:49.520 Yeah.

03:51:50.160 Yeah.

03:51:50.540 I don't know about...

03:51:51.620 He looks toxic.

03:51:52.340 Excuse me.

03:51:53.240 He was a keeper of my life.

03:51:55.320 Can we pull up the first picture?

03:51:56.660 He's up to Nova.

03:51:57.060 Right?

03:51:57.600 I'm looking at that one, too.

03:51:58.720 Can you click on some of the photos, please?

03:51:59.840 It's a bit small.

03:52:00.500 Okay.

03:52:03.460 No.

03:52:04.600 Just click on some of them.

03:52:05.940 Okay.

03:52:06.640 He's too feminine. 1.00

03:52:07.560 He needs a haircut.

03:52:09.200 Click on the top right one, I guess.

03:52:14.160 Okay.

03:52:15.020 All right.

03:52:16.060 So he's in your DMs?

03:52:17.940 He's been in my DMs, yeah.

03:52:21.340 I see him at parties occasionally.

03:52:23.160 What did he say?

03:52:25.440 It was just casual conversation.

03:52:27.300 He's still into your DMs?

03:52:30.780 Yeah.

03:52:31.580 You didn't slide into his DMs?

03:52:33.240 No.

03:52:33.620 This was 2019, but we still occasionally see each other at parties.

03:52:38.240 He doesn't really do the dating thing, and he's very open that he doesn't do that.

03:52:42.300 What does he do?

03:52:43.000 Just hook up once and never talk to you again?

03:52:45.160 No.

03:52:45.420 He doesn't really get with girls at all.

03:52:47.660 He's very nerdy, very gamer type.

03:52:51.300 He's a streamer, is he?

03:52:52.580 Oh, yeah.

03:52:52.900 Yeah.

03:52:53.340 He recently is voice acting for anime, actually.

03:52:57.180 I've seen it on my For You page.

03:52:59.320 That's cool.

03:52:59.740 I mean, that's what he says, but I don't know.

03:53:02.880 Who knows?

03:53:03.020 He talks about turning down girls all the time that are tens.

03:53:06.880 His friends always are like, I can't believe you turned that girl down.

03:53:10.300 He doesn't really date.

03:53:14.280 But he initially slid into your DMs, and you just weren't feeling it?

03:53:18.620 I didn't live out here at the time.

03:53:22.320 Okay.

03:53:23.040 All right.

03:53:24.160 If you wanted to, do you think you could land him?

03:53:27.160 Yeah.

03:53:29.700 Why don't you want to?

03:53:31.920 Because I don't feel like I'm successful enough to really need to be.

03:53:36.640 Like, I am very passionate about my career and focusing on myself and being the best version

03:53:42.020 of me before trying to commit to somebody that's already at their success level that

03:53:48.020 I want to be at.

03:53:48.940 Success.

03:53:49.720 How do you find success?

03:53:51.180 What's your definition?

03:53:52.300 Reaching my dream career.

03:53:54.420 Which is what?

03:53:55.280 I would say right now, I want to get more into modeling and commercial modeling.

03:54:01.860 Right now, I'm financially stable and in a career that I enjoy.

03:54:05.900 Um, so it's more of just getting into that dream field rather than just a career I enjoy

03:54:13.360 doing.

03:54:16.500 So you're not successful enough to get with him, is what you're saying?

03:54:22.960 No, I didn't say that.

03:54:24.840 I'm just saying I'm not worried about chasing those types of men right now.

03:54:30.040 Like, they're already very well off.

03:54:31.740 I want to be very well off myself before I go after somebody that's already very well

03:54:36.500 off.

03:54:36.860 You could still accomplish being very well off while you're with somebody that is also

03:54:41.620 very well off.

03:54:42.680 And perhaps, like, with greater resources and connections, too.

03:54:46.500 I mean, but then again, I say that, and I mean, I was working at Home Depot when I met

03:54:49.540 my husband.

03:54:49.920 I feel like when you're going after somebody with that status, sometimes it can come off

03:54:54.640 as you're a clout chaser, especially in the social media fields.

03:54:58.920 So it's like.

03:54:59.300 You already have yours.

03:55:00.820 Yeah, but not to that extent.

03:55:03.760 Hmm.

03:55:04.460 Guys don't really care about success like that at all.

03:55:07.160 In social media, they do.

03:55:08.760 It's maybe in social media, but that's not really like.

03:55:11.380 That's the world I'm in.

03:55:12.360 Like a provider kind that you want to go the long run with.

03:55:15.180 The longevity.

03:55:15.860 Yeah.

03:55:16.200 That's just.

03:55:17.100 Yeah.

03:55:17.540 He's not even.

03:55:18.180 Yeah.

03:55:18.720 Not very masculine.

03:55:21.620 Okay.

03:55:23.860 I don't know.

03:55:26.780 Why do women overrate themselves, though? 1.00

03:55:30.520 That's that's what I think it's a confidence thing.

03:55:33.160 Confused about.

03:55:34.860 I don't know.

03:55:35.640 I do think that there can be objective metrics of the analysis of beauty, but there

03:55:42.040 are obviously some people value Eurocentric features.

03:55:46.860 Some people value African features.

03:55:49.400 Like, I don't know.

03:55:50.220 I feel that there's a spectrum to it.

03:55:52.080 And when women rate themselves highly, I believe that's just a reflection of their own personal 0.99

03:55:58.000 confidence and security in themselves.

03:55:59.540 Even if you don't agree with their rating, I don't necessarily see an issue in a woman. 0.99

03:56:03.300 Yeah, but can I just say a woman who's just like, oh, I'm a six and I'm fine with it.

03:56:07.760 Wouldn't that be confidence, too?

03:56:09.620 Yeah.

03:56:10.020 Yeah, for sure.

03:56:10.800 I think, you know, it's different for everybody.

03:56:13.260 I'd rather underrate myself.

03:56:17.380 It's like cooking food.

03:56:18.540 I'd rather under salt than over salt, if that makes any sense.

03:56:21.680 That's it.

03:56:22.360 I just want to put you in my pocket.

03:56:24.440 Sometimes if there's versions of yourself, you can look back on and be like, oh, I was

03:56:29.020 definitely like this number then.

03:56:30.860 And now I'm definitely upgraded now.

03:56:33.260 It's like definitely thought I was an eight, 10 years ago.

03:56:37.420 I was so cute 10 years ago.

03:56:39.240 What happened?

03:56:39.880 You're still cute.

03:56:40.300 You're still cute.

03:56:41.740 Wait, question for you, though.

03:56:44.540 What do you rate me?

03:56:45.400 I'm not going to be offended.

03:56:46.300 You can be honest.

03:56:48.020 Me?

03:56:48.540 No, you.

03:56:49.440 Me?

03:56:50.040 Yeah. 1.00

03:56:50.320 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:56:51.920 I already rated you. 0.99

03:56:53.680 Well, yeah, you gave me a 10, but like, is that your actual, like, that's what you'd rate

03:56:57.740 me?

03:56:59.700 Like, if I...

03:57:00.160 You can be honest.

03:57:00.920 Like, I'm not going to be upset.

03:57:02.380 You can rate me a four.

03:57:03.600 I'm not going to be upset.

03:57:03.900 Like, if I thought about it?

03:57:05.160 At all.

03:57:05.900 Like, if I...

03:57:06.480 It's based on what your type is, you know?

03:57:08.320 My type specifically?

03:57:09.700 Not being objective?

03:57:10.200 He's asking you, right?

03:57:11.580 I mean, how do you want her to analyze this?

03:57:13.260 You can give me both answers.

03:57:14.720 You can say objective, objective perspective.

03:57:17.060 I feel like from an objective standpoint, you would be like, like, not from my personal

03:57:21.980 type.

03:57:22.340 I feel like you'd be a 10 in other women's eyes. 1.00

03:57:25.180 From my eyes, I would say more 5, 5.5, only because you're out of my age range, if that

03:57:32.920 makes sense.

03:57:33.860 And like, I'm a fan of hair.

03:57:36.020 So, I like people who have, like, a lot of hair on their head.

03:57:38.940 He's close.

03:57:39.300 Like, like, more...

03:57:40.540 Well, wait.

03:57:41.280 Let me explain to you.

03:57:42.460 Let me explain to you.

03:57:43.820 Like, let me finish my thought.

03:57:45.640 Full head of hair.

03:57:46.440 You don't need to...

03:57:46.580 Yeah.

03:57:46.980 Like, I like guys with a full head of hair all around.

03:57:51.080 Not like...

03:57:51.760 Just floppy your hair.

03:57:52.180 Like, this...

03:57:52.800 Like, okay.

03:57:53.580 Like, his hair in the back.

03:57:55.100 His hair right there.

03:57:55.960 That's the hair I like.

03:57:57.000 She wants broccoli hair. 1.00

03:57:58.680 Yeah.

03:57:59.400 Oh.

03:57:59.660 Longer.

03:57:59.940 I'm using you as an example, sir.

03:58:02.240 But, like, I like the shaggy, like, type hair.

03:58:07.840 Rock star hair.

03:58:08.940 I like it when my husband grows his hair out.

03:58:11.080 He's always getting haircuts.

03:58:12.500 And it's like...

03:58:12.780 Yeah, I feel like all women want that. 0.76

03:58:13.180 Yeah, I feel like...

03:58:13.840 He's got two braids and he's got goatees.

03:58:17.140 I feel like we all have our things.

03:58:19.140 He's always making appointments to go get his hair cut.

03:58:21.660 Just let your curls go. 1.00

03:58:22.520 Literally.

03:58:23.000 He's got Latino hair.

03:58:24.260 So, but in your perspective, if you and me were dating, and this just looks right,

03:58:28.300 you would be settling me, settling for me.

03:58:33.760 Like, that would be your perspective.

03:58:35.400 If I'm with you, I'm probably not settling.

03:58:38.420 Like, I don't know you personally, so...

03:58:39.640 No, but, I mean, you said that from your perspective...

03:58:42.500 Like, looks-wise, yes.

03:58:43.480 Yeah, you're a five...

03:58:44.900 Or, sorry, you said I'm a 5.5 and you said you're a 10.

03:58:47.660 So, from your perspective, you'd be settling in terms of looks.

03:58:50.780 Yes.

03:58:56.300 Look, I'm not offended.

03:58:57.500 I'm just like...

03:58:58.200 You asked him, just answer me.

03:58:58.860 I don't think your rating of me is off, but I think your rating of yourself is so off

03:59:04.520 to the point where she said, like...

03:59:06.480 I think I have...

03:59:07.180 I think I just have confidence.

03:59:08.840 You've got to rate everybody, Brian.

03:59:10.180 Yeah, I feel like it's time.

03:59:11.920 I'm not going to rate people.

03:59:12.760 No, I actually would love for you.

03:59:13.320 I feel like...

03:59:13.920 Why not?

03:59:13.940 It sounds like you want to.

03:59:16.020 I mean, if...

03:59:17.180 Why not?

03:59:17.700 I'll rate you guys if each of you individually are okay with it.

03:59:21.220 I'm okay with it.

03:59:22.340 But I would like...

03:59:22.960 Yes, yes.

03:59:23.320 Yes.

03:59:23.640 I could say.

03:59:24.140 I would like you to start with her, though, because she just rated you. 1.00

03:59:26.360 Yeah, start with me.

03:59:27.020 Isn't it fair for you to rate her back?

03:59:28.020 I think so.

03:59:28.900 Yeah, okay.

03:59:29.140 I'm just curious.

03:59:29.860 It's sort of a rating so off.

03:59:30.900 I just want to be clear.

03:59:31.880 Like, I'm going...

03:59:33.520 My rating of you is not going to change because you gave me a 5.5.

03:59:37.460 It's going to remain the exact same as, like, I assessed it even before that.

03:59:41.140 I'm not going to, like, do this vindictive thing or whatever.

03:59:44.340 Okay.

03:59:44.560 I mean, it would be kind of nice to go around this way.

03:59:47.820 Yeah, do it.

03:59:48.200 Okay.

03:59:48.360 Are you doing objective or, like, personal type based?

03:59:51.500 Yeah.

03:59:52.100 Because I do objective and personal.

03:59:53.460 It would be a subjective rating.

03:59:55.700 Okay.

03:59:55.980 I'm just asking, clarifying.

03:59:57.280 Because I don't think...

03:59:57.960 Yeah, there's no objective metric.

03:59:59.020 It wouldn't be...

03:59:59.700 You know what I mean?

04:00:00.120 Yeah.

04:00:00.600 It would be subjective because it would be my...

04:00:02.560 It's so universal rating.

04:00:03.320 Like, another guy could give you a different rating.

04:00:06.360 Well, I just wasn't sure if you were doing, like, practical beauty standard or you're just personal

04:00:11.000 type.

04:00:11.460 Like, that's what I meant, like, just to clarify.

04:00:14.160 There's a difference.

04:00:15.100 Yeah, I'd say...

04:00:16.100 I would say there is a bit of a difference.

04:00:19.800 But, yeah, I'll give you my rating.

04:00:21.920 Okay.

04:00:24.800 Let's see.

04:00:27.000 And you guys are wearing makeup, so I'm going to, like, in the brain, remove your makeup

04:00:30.820 in my head.

04:00:31.760 Look up my cellar water and...

04:00:33.940 You're consistent.

04:00:34.840 I can appreciate it.

04:00:36.120 All right.

04:00:37.540 Six, five...

04:00:41.460 Five point five...

04:00:44.580 Six, maybe six point five...

04:00:49.240 Seven point five...

04:00:55.240 Three?

04:00:56.620 Okay.

04:01:02.000 You know what?

04:01:03.200 Hold on.

04:01:05.140 Two point five...

04:01:06.580 Wait.

04:01:10.760 Two point five for both of you.

04:01:13.760 Are you blind?

04:01:14.700 Did that not feel racially motivated?

04:01:16.200 Five...

04:01:16.280 Five...

04:01:16.800 Five point five.

04:01:18.840 Let us know if you agree in the comments.

04:01:21.140 Did that not feel racially motivated?

04:01:24.280 Well, I think he's into Asian girls.

04:01:27.420 I like white women. 1.00

04:01:30.360 Yeah, I mean...

04:01:30.780 Hold on.

04:01:31.220 Okay, okay.

04:01:31.920 I date white women, Latina women, Asian women, occasionally black women, Native Americans.

04:01:39.240 I've dated a Native American.

04:01:41.040 Huh, okay.

04:01:42.140 She was a Cherokee.

04:01:43.680 Was she?

04:01:44.560 Put that in your pipe and smoke it.

04:01:48.100 I don't...

04:01:48.480 I'll date different races.

04:01:50.700 Wait, what's your basis for giving us the rating?

04:01:53.140 Like, what are you looking at?

04:01:54.460 And what are you...

04:01:55.560 Face and body.

04:01:57.520 Yeah.

04:01:58.860 Can I ask you, since you couldn't find a particular person who exemplified this, but describe your

04:02:05.620 10 of a woman.

04:02:06.880 I'm just curious.

04:02:08.380 Oh, young Adriana Lima, I guess.

04:02:11.420 She's pretty good.

04:02:12.020 Yeah, duh.

04:02:13.000 Yeah.

04:02:13.580 Okay.

04:02:13.980 Young Megan Fox.

04:02:15.980 So brunette, but young. 0.58

04:02:18.200 Must be young. 0.86

04:02:21.160 Beauty is it?

04:02:21.940 Two point five.

04:02:22.860 Yeah.

04:02:23.040 So you rate yourself, you rated yourself a six, wasn't it?

04:02:28.040 Five.

04:02:28.200 You rated yourself a five.

04:02:29.160 Five, so that put me pretty average.

04:02:31.280 So you think...

04:02:31.960 In some dimensions, in some dimensions.

04:02:33.740 You believe that you are more attractive than, what, half of the women here?

04:02:39.740 Or I don't remember your exact ratings, but...

04:02:42.280 Um...

04:02:43.280 Just two.

04:02:44.520 Two?

04:02:44.780 And the same level of half.

04:02:46.580 You said, like, the same level as half, because he rated, like, half the girls' fives, five

04:02:53.740 and a half.

04:02:54.400 I don't even remember the ratings I gave, but I think most of the women I rated above a 1.00

04:02:58.680 five.

04:02:58.840 He gave, well, he gave Ellie a...

04:03:00.340 Ellie?

04:03:00.660 Above average.

04:03:01.640 Ellie a seven.

04:03:02.460 Seven.

04:03:03.280 Seven, seven point five.

04:03:04.280 Yeah, you said seven, seven point five.

04:03:04.580 I gave you six, six point five.

04:03:06.240 Yeah.

04:03:07.120 Five point five.

04:03:08.240 Five.

04:03:08.920 Yeah.

04:03:09.460 Six.

04:03:10.120 Six.

04:03:11.740 Two point five.

04:03:12.360 Two point five.

04:03:13.520 Five point five, I think.

04:03:14.900 Yeah.

04:03:15.360 So I rated most of the women, like, on look space is more attractive than me, I guess. 1.00

04:03:21.020 Yeah.

04:03:22.000 Interesting.

04:03:23.560 What's interesting about it?

04:03:25.100 I just...

04:03:25.880 I feel like you're not a black woman. 1.00

04:03:27.880 It's just interesting to hear your ratings. 0.60

04:03:30.020 I'm not a black...

04:03:30.780 No, no. 0.66

04:03:31.400 I said it feels like you're not into black women. 0.65

04:03:34.980 That's okay.

04:03:35.800 I mean...

04:03:35.840 I'm just...

04:03:36.240 I'm...

04:03:36.540 Well, no.

04:03:36.820 I'm just saying...

04:03:37.440 There's beautiful black women, but... 1.00

04:03:39.600 No, I...

04:03:40.400 No, I wasn't trying to assume.

04:03:43.040 I was just saying what it looked like.

04:03:45.420 I'm not assuming, I swear.

04:03:46.700 I have questions that I don't want to sound like a pick me.

04:03:48.500 I'm just curious, like, to understand how your brain works.

04:03:51.420 Yeah.

04:03:51.920 So you rated her the highest.

04:03:54.800 Sure.

04:03:55.340 You know what? 1.00

04:03:55.780 Wait, what the fuck? 1.00

04:03:56.620 Ellie, chill out. 1.00

04:03:57.060 I'm sorry.

04:03:57.920 I'm just putting it on the spot.

04:03:59.100 My bad.

04:03:59.700 Okay.

04:04:00.620 I wouldn't even, like, drag you into this.

04:04:03.100 Actually, I'm gonna.

04:04:04.740 Just a beat.

04:04:05.320 How, you know, without being, whatever, just speak freely.

04:04:10.720 I think we all consent for you.

04:04:11.940 Yeah, what's the question?

04:04:12.660 Go ahead.

04:04:13.840 How can she be a 10 since she's your highest rating?

04:04:17.720 You're 7, 7.5.

04:04:19.260 What would make her go higher in your eyes? 0.90

04:04:21.820 I'm just curious.

04:04:22.460 How can Ellie become, wait. 1.00

04:04:25.480 That would be rated her the highest at this stage.

04:04:27.620 How can she looks max for you? 1.00

04:04:30.780 She got to fix her posture a little bit.

04:04:33.500 Well, I'm like a golem right now. 0.88

04:04:35.320 She's got this, like, 4chan posture going on. 1.00

04:04:38.120 Resting bitch face. 1.00

04:04:39.000 She's got, uh. 1.00

04:04:40.100 No, I mean.

04:04:40.900 He's into that.

04:04:41.500 There's really not a whole bunch that I think people can do to improve.

04:04:49.360 You think, like, you got it or you don't.

04:04:51.220 Like, you're born with it type of thing.

04:04:52.040 Unless you enhance it.

04:04:52.740 Well, I mean.

04:04:54.020 But that's not the point.

04:04:54.640 Well, I feel like he's made it clear he's not into.

04:04:56.380 Exactly.

04:04:57.160 Into that.

04:04:57.520 Into what?

04:04:58.240 Like, enhancements.

04:04:59.060 Enhancements.

04:04:59.600 Oh, no.

04:05:00.280 That would lower the rating.

04:05:00.940 Yeah.

04:05:00.960 Because how could she?

04:05:01.660 She would have to enhance herself a certain way, but you don't like that. 0.98

04:05:03.680 If Ellie had fake boobs, she'd go down in rating. 1.00

04:05:07.480 Right, right, right. 0.99

04:05:08.460 She had some giant fake cans down. 0.99

04:05:12.060 She'd be less attractive. 0.99

04:05:13.360 Can we get, like, a chest plate in here?

04:05:14.500 I feel like that's a good prop.

04:05:16.040 A chest plate?

04:05:17.260 A chest plate?

04:05:18.260 Yeah.

04:05:18.420 What's that?

04:05:18.800 A chest plate. 0.99

04:05:19.580 Like, those, like, huge silicone boobs. 1.00

04:05:21.900 Oh, the, the. 0.99

04:05:23.020 Yeah.

04:05:23.380 I know what you're talking about.

04:05:24.840 I mean, what can somebody do to look better?

04:05:27.260 Everything he thinks will make somebody better.

04:05:29.600 Just on a basic level.

04:05:31.700 Your, you know, workout regimen.

04:05:33.320 You got what you got.

04:05:34.600 Your hair better.

04:05:34.820 It's just another extension of, like, disingenuity.

04:05:37.180 Like, with the makeup thing.

04:05:38.900 And then, like, I don't know, plastic surgery.

04:05:41.040 So, I don't think anybody can really do that.

04:05:42.980 Except for, I guess, if he's really looking inward on somebody, then it can't really change much.

04:05:51.480 Yeah, I think Ellie's kind of, like, her stats are kind of maxed out.

04:05:55.020 Oh.

04:05:56.380 This is the best it'll ever be.

04:05:57.920 Well, I think you're beautiful.

04:05:58.940 She's going to crawl right through this screen. 1.00

04:06:03.660 Stares aimlessly into the camera.

04:06:06.140 She's good.

04:06:07.060 I mean, there's, like, probably, there, there's, in terms of making yourself more attractive beyond just looks, though, yeah, there's things that people can do.

04:06:13.960 Oh, for sure.

04:06:14.980 Like, which I guess gets us into our next topic.

04:06:18.080 You had an issue with bowing.

04:06:21.980 Bowing?

04:06:22.280 Or who was that?

04:06:22.960 Somebody had an issue with the bowing.

04:06:24.260 Who has a bowing?

04:06:24.960 What kind of bowing?

04:06:25.760 Oh, right.

04:06:26.300 So, Nick, can you pull up the bow video?

04:06:28.560 We'll get into that.

04:06:29.580 The Japanese do it. 1.00

04:06:31.880 I like their culture.

04:06:32.760 Hold on for just a moment.

04:06:34.100 Just one sec.

04:06:35.540 It was...

04:06:36.680 I had the issue.

04:06:37.760 I agreed.

04:06:39.340 Oh, maybe it was an agreement.

04:06:40.680 Maybe I meant.

04:06:41.540 You said you wanted to talk about beauty standards, feminism, the bow.

04:06:46.880 Oh, so you're on board with the bow.

04:06:48.420 I am on board with the bow.

04:06:49.060 Oh, okay.

04:06:49.520 I thought you were...

04:06:50.100 Like this?

04:06:50.500 Disagree.

04:06:51.080 That kind of bow.

04:06:51.600 I mean, you know, or even, like, a curtsy or whatever.

04:06:54.560 Oh, a curtsy.

04:06:55.600 You know, it's, yeah.

04:06:57.320 Oh, okay.

04:06:57.720 You said that you're in line with most of what I say. 0.77

04:07:01.340 Only some of my stances are goofy.

04:07:03.300 Mostly, yeah.

04:07:03.720 Which are the goofy stances?

04:07:05.380 Oh, man.

04:07:06.420 Probably, uh...

04:07:08.220 What?

04:07:09.220 Probably your BLM movement here. 0.70

04:07:11.800 Oh, the big labia matter?

04:07:12.920 That one caught me off guard. 0.60

04:07:16.000 If you have big labia and you've ever tried to trim those bad boys or wax them, 0.98

04:07:20.860 I don't think that you'd probably be like, yeah, big labia. 0.99

04:07:26.040 Okay. 0.96

04:07:27.320 So you're saying you're rock?

04:07:30.240 I think it's goofy.

04:07:31.900 Wait, what do you mean?

04:07:32.640 I think that stances goofy. 0.89

04:07:33.900 Yeah, big labia matter. 1.00

04:07:35.240 They do?

04:07:36.360 I mean, yeah.

04:07:37.220 They matter.

04:07:37.800 All labia matter. 0.98

04:07:39.720 But, I mean, if that's your preference, then rock on, man.

04:07:43.300 I mean, I'll date.

04:07:45.080 Like, innies are great, too.

04:07:47.340 But it won't be your first pick.

04:07:49.280 It's like I have a preference for outies. 1.00

04:07:53.100 I love that.

04:07:53.400 But it's not a deal breaker.

04:07:54.540 You love that?

04:07:56.240 I don't know.

04:07:56.800 I feel that men don't typically say such bold things.

04:08:00.540 So I like that you said that.

04:08:01.560 Well, most men will say, like, they either have misconceptions about it. 0.93

04:08:04.520 Like, oh, she's been, like, if a girl has an outie, she's fucked a bunch of dudes. 1.00

04:08:08.500 That's not how anatomy works. 0.94

04:08:10.100 And then, yeah, that's just not how that works.

04:08:12.520 And then, I don't know, me personally.

04:08:17.240 You okay, Felicity?

04:08:18.960 You need some applesauce?

04:08:21.580 Can we get...

04:08:22.140 No, I'm just kidding.

04:08:22.860 I'm giving you a hard time, Felicity.

04:08:27.200 Felicity is a loud breather. 1.00

04:08:29.240 Sometimes I think she's like, fuck this. 1.00

04:08:31.440 I have no idea. 1.00

04:08:34.600 Yeah, I think, yeah, I don't know.

04:08:37.720 Like, women have genitalia preference. 1.00

04:08:40.100 Like, they want a guy with a package. 0.92

04:08:43.920 No, that's not true.

04:08:45.560 Yeah, they have to know how to use it.

04:08:47.140 These are smaller and big.

04:08:49.380 I mean, I guess you have a preference.

04:08:51.140 Then women have a preference against small peens. 1.00

04:08:54.900 You know, some girls are into that. 1.00

04:08:57.740 Small peens?

04:08:58.700 Some, yeah.

04:08:59.760 I definitely have some female friends who, like, dare I say, can't handle. 1.00

04:09:05.620 Oh, sorry.

04:09:07.680 I have female friends who have boyfriends who are below average,

04:09:13.340 and they're perfectly happy because it's about the motion of the ocean

04:09:16.720 in their relationship.

04:09:18.380 I don't relate to that, but to each their own.

04:09:21.800 Different strokes for different folks.

04:09:23.220 Literally.

04:09:23.700 Literally.

04:09:24.500 Hey.

04:09:26.760 Double up.

04:09:27.280 Anyways, I mean, there's not really too much to debate there on the labia thing.

04:09:32.900 But, yeah.

04:09:33.760 No, I mean.

04:09:34.340 I just said I disagree.

04:09:34.960 Are you trying to get a labiaplasty?

04:09:36.480 Is that what?

04:09:37.060 No.

04:09:37.600 No?

04:09:38.100 No?

04:09:38.340 I just thought that it was a goofy view.

04:09:41.080 That's what the question was.

04:09:42.220 I guess what's goofy about that? 0.86

04:09:43.080 Big labia matter, huh? 1.00

04:09:44.100 The preference itself, I think, is goofy. 0.80

04:09:46.500 Why is that goofy?

04:09:47.700 Why is it goofy?

04:09:48.500 Oh, here.

04:09:48.980 Let me get back into the frame of mind that I was when I wrote this.

04:09:56.180 Yeah.

04:09:57.240 I don't think it's going to get there. 0.67

04:09:58.460 I just think it was silly.

04:10:00.340 I think.

04:10:01.140 Oh, okay.

04:10:01.920 I think you did it because BLM also stands for something else.

04:10:07.880 Yeah.

04:10:08.540 And you're trying to capitalize on the moment?

04:10:11.440 I was trying to capitalize on the BLM.

04:10:13.140 Yeah.

04:10:13.360 The Black Lives Matter movement, of course.

04:10:16.680 No, I mean, I wouldn't.

04:10:17.980 It's a play on words a little bit.

04:10:20.880 But I definitely have always been an advocate for women with large labia.

04:10:26.260 Really?

04:10:26.660 And I also have a dating preference, too.

04:10:29.420 Is that, like, in your Tinder bio?

04:10:31.820 For a period of time, I did write on Hinge.

04:10:35.660 I don't know.

04:10:36.300 You know, there's the prompts.

04:10:37.440 It's like, you should definitely message me if. 0.94

04:10:39.880 If you have a big labia. 0.99

04:10:40.840 If you have a giant labia. 0.99

04:10:42.720 That's really funny. 0.96

04:10:43.280 If you have a Guinness World Record. 0.95

04:10:46.220 Record-breaking labia.

04:10:46.940 I've been labia catfished before, though, which is frustrating.

04:10:49.820 That's what?

04:10:50.340 You know, I don't think I've ever heard a sentence like that.

04:10:53.460 No.

04:10:54.280 This is a first for me.

04:10:56.860 Yeah, no.

04:10:57.520 The Ovid?

04:10:57.940 But how about this, girls? 1.00

04:10:59.620 Have you ever had a dude who said he had a big dick, didn't have a big dick? 1.00

04:11:05.500 I'll be honest. 1.00

04:11:06.740 I rarely have the conversation about genitalia prior to the action.

04:11:14.680 And I've been disappointed before.

04:11:16.260 Like, I thought it was going to be bigger.

04:11:17.980 But it's not like, oh, he said it was big and then it wasn't.

04:11:20.820 It was like, oh, I had, I had hopes that it would be bigger and I was disappointed.

04:11:28.280 Did you not talk to him after the disappointment?

04:11:31.180 What am I supposed to say?

04:11:32.420 Because it's like, was it the one-time thing because of the small peepee?

04:11:35.120 I don't know, because that's the thing. 0.98

04:11:36.360 Like, I've definitely, like, been interested in guys before who, you know, I'll be honest, had small penises. 0.96

04:11:44.200 And it's just unfortunate when you, because it's not their fault. 0.98

04:11:49.280 You know, they were born that way.

04:11:50.900 But sex is a big deal to me in a relationship.

04:11:53.420 And, you know, let's say they're not very proficient in other things, such as foreplay.

04:12:00.560 It's like, what are you even meant to do at that point?

04:12:03.000 You teach him. 0.99

04:12:04.700 Why am I your fucking teacher, though? 1.00

04:12:06.440 I mean, why not? 0.99

04:12:08.160 I don't know.

04:12:09.100 I would rather them know what they're doing already, to be honest.

04:12:11.840 It's an honest answer, though.

04:12:13.100 I mean, it's an honest answer.

04:12:14.180 Yeah.

04:12:14.540 I think most women probably feel that way. 0.78

04:12:17.220 But, yeah.

04:12:20.060 How did we get here?

04:12:21.720 How did we get here?

04:12:22.420 Yeah, how did we get here? 0.95

04:12:23.100 Talking about labia. 0.93

04:12:24.200 Something about labia. 0.77

04:12:24.760 References.

04:12:26.120 No comment on the meat curtains.

04:12:28.120 That's it.

04:12:28.640 Not the meat curtains.

04:12:29.080 No comment.

04:12:29.800 No comment.

04:12:30.200 Have you been shamed?

04:12:31.000 Have somebody shamed you before?

04:12:32.280 No.

04:12:32.620 It's just, ugh.

04:12:34.520 It's not proper conversation for me.

04:12:37.500 Oh, but you were saying how you don't, you're not having that conversation often, right?

04:12:42.200 And I think that's true.

04:12:43.480 Probably most guys.

04:12:45.160 But I have heard stories about how some guys will say that they're packing.

04:12:49.420 And the girl's like, no, it wasn't, no, not packing.

04:12:53.760 Some guys are overconfident.

04:12:54.720 Some guys mislead.

04:12:56.660 And I've been catfished.

04:12:58.740 In the labia world.

04:12:59.600 In the labia world.

04:13:00.100 They say they got an outie, not an outie.

04:13:02.420 It was an oversell.

04:13:03.120 Maybe they've been gaslit.

04:13:05.780 Nah, probably not.

04:13:07.160 I don't know.

04:13:08.100 It was an innie.

04:13:08.760 It was an innie.

04:13:09.740 To generalize, I would say that most men prefer innie's. 0.99

04:13:13.540 Would you agree with that?

04:13:14.240 Yeah, I would agree with that.

04:13:15.160 Since, hence your movement.

04:13:16.940 I'm a, I'm.

04:13:17.340 So maybe she didn't even know.

04:13:19.380 I'm a maverick.

04:13:21.320 I'm a maverick.

04:13:23.980 I'm spearheading this movement.

04:13:27.080 It's beautiful.

04:13:28.340 Are you on board?

04:13:29.060 Are you wanting to join the movement?

04:13:30.840 You know, I support your movement.

04:13:32.640 I have, yes, in every regard.

04:13:36.880 I have no comment, but I support you.

04:13:40.540 Thank you.

04:13:40.900 Appreciate it.

04:13:41.300 Yeah.

04:13:41.740 Anyways, moving on from that topic.

04:13:44.320 Where were we?

04:13:44.940 We were going to get into what?

04:13:47.340 Bow.

04:13:47.720 Oh, the bow.

04:13:48.460 Thank you, Nick, for the reminder.

04:13:49.780 The curtsy. 0.77

04:13:50.200 Nick, could you close one of those doors?

04:13:51.660 Let's go ahead, pull up the bow video. 0.75

04:13:54.620 So this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend.

04:13:58.760 And this is, and I show this to my new girls I'm dating.

04:14:01.720 So they know my expectations.

04:14:04.000 It's like a tutorial.

04:14:05.400 I show, you gotta, you gotta kind of, you know, get the girls on the right track.

04:14:11.380 So this is a tutorial video I show them.

04:14:13.780 All right, go ahead.

04:14:17.320 Boom.

04:14:17.960 Bow immediately.

04:14:19.320 Come through the door.

04:14:20.280 Huge bow.

04:14:21.720 Respectful bow.

04:14:22.780 And then, look, this was after a long podcast.

04:14:25.160 I was tired.

04:14:27.020 Get to the laundry.

04:14:28.260 You should get the laundry done.

04:14:30.120 She has my dinner ready.

04:14:32.540 You gotta scamper across the apartment. 0.98

04:14:36.540 Open, cracks open my beer for me.

04:14:38.860 Stirs my noodles.

04:14:41.560 She didn't stir them good enough, so I had to scold her and tell her to do it better. 0.97

04:14:46.000 And then, but I actually.

04:14:48.540 And she asked me to be speaking Japanese the whole time.

04:14:49.760 Is that part of the requirements?

04:14:50.940 She was actually Chinese.

04:14:52.300 Oh, I'm so sorry.

04:14:53.100 Please don't kiss me.

04:14:54.000 Please don't kiss me.

04:14:55.060 I'm so sorry.

04:14:55.660 And play the bow part one more time.

04:14:58.100 The bow is the most important.

04:14:59.100 Forget whatever, the clothes, whatever, dinner, whatever.

04:15:02.560 Boom.

04:15:03.260 Huge bow.

04:15:03.860 You see the depth.

04:15:04.760 You see the hands.

04:15:06.040 The submissive hand posture.

04:15:07.920 That's my expectation in a relationship.

04:15:10.820 Every time I come home, I want to bow.

04:15:14.440 Greet me at the door with a bow.

04:15:16.440 A little respect.

04:15:17.680 A cooked dinner.

04:15:18.360 I'm sorry.

04:15:21.500 I just don't think that video was a prime example.

04:15:24.300 What do you mean?

04:15:25.960 Well, she didn't mama bird your beer and your noodles into your mouth, so I'm thinking she's

04:15:30.800 falling short.

04:15:31.800 Mama bird.

04:15:33.440 So it's in her mouth.

04:15:35.400 And she.

04:15:36.420 Yeah.

04:15:37.260 Have you done that with somebody?

04:15:38.740 No, I just think that's what you should come to expect.

04:15:41.820 I don't know.

04:15:42.140 With the bow.

04:15:42.560 It's kind of gross to be.

04:15:44.560 I mean, after a long day at work, you want to be chewing your food? 0.99

04:15:47.560 That's fucking disgusting. 0.99

04:15:48.000 Really? 1.00

04:15:49.160 That is a, you raise a fair point there, Ellie.

04:15:53.040 It's, that's very considerate, considerate of you.

04:15:56.200 But, you know, I am, I can sufficiently chew my food.

04:16:01.640 You're better than most.

04:16:04.040 Mastication.

04:16:04.400 We can see why, we can see Ellie is a based housewife over here. 1.00

04:16:08.940 Totally.

04:16:09.580 Mama birding food.

04:16:10.500 Do you want a girlfriend or an assistant?

04:16:13.700 What, what do you mean?

04:16:14.940 Because I felt like that video showed her being your assistant, not a girlfriend.

04:16:20.340 Yeah, I'm, I'm happy to engage with that.

04:16:23.200 So.

04:16:23.980 Ex-girlfriend.

04:16:25.200 I dumped her. 0.92

04:16:26.020 Yeah, I dumped her. 0.98

04:16:27.520 Because she wasn't a good enough assistant. 0.99

04:16:29.360 Correct.

04:16:30.180 Gotcha.

04:16:30.720 Do you want a guy to pay for the first date? 1.00

04:16:32.660 When you go on a date?

04:16:34.100 I always offer to pay.

04:16:36.140 But if a guy paid, like, if a guy took you up on that offer, like.

04:16:39.300 I want a man to pay. 1.00

04:16:39.860 Because women, women say, I offer as a token gesture, but don't actually expect or want

04:16:46.900 the guy to pay anyways.

04:16:47.980 And it would be an issue if the guy took you up on your token fake gesture.

04:16:53.140 If they took me up on it, it would just show me more about his perception and his viewpoints.

04:16:59.060 And what's his perception and viewpoint if he takes you up on the words that came out of

04:17:02.420 your mouth?

04:17:03.820 Like, it's like, okay, you don't want to pay for a first date, like.

04:17:08.800 And that says what?

04:17:11.340 It says you're broke.

04:17:14.000 Not, not necessarily, but in other words, you're saying.

04:17:17.380 If you asked me out, why would you not pay?

04:17:20.040 I'm doing you the favor of coming to the dinner.

04:17:24.060 How often, have you ever asked a guy out for a first date?

04:17:26.180 Right.

04:17:28.120 Yeah.

04:17:29.340 Of all the first dates you've been on, how many, like, what's the percentage breakdown?

04:17:35.180 How many, let's start with this.

04:17:36.480 How many first dates have you been on?

04:17:38.160 Maybe like 15.

04:17:40.640 15.

04:17:41.100 Okay.

04:17:41.420 Yeah.

04:17:42.780 How many of those did you, were you the one asking the guy out?

04:17:46.880 Maybe like two.

04:17:49.400 Two.

04:17:49.800 Okay.

04:17:50.000 So whoever asks, so your point about, well, whoever asks should pay, it would make sense

04:17:56.900 if men and women were asking each other out at equivalent rates, but they clearly aren't.

04:18:01.780 Men are overwhelmingly the ones that have to initiate. 0.90

04:18:04.540 Most men, average men are definitely not getting the experience of ever being asked out, period.

04:18:10.620 Maybe like super attractive guys have women in their DMs, so forth. 0.99

04:18:14.200 But I guess, so you do want men to pay for first dates, it sounds like.

04:18:20.540 I think it's a sign of respect.

04:18:23.440 Okay.

04:18:23.980 And it's a sign of respect when a woman bows, cooks me dinner, and takes care of the household 0.62

04:18:31.480 while I'm out working.

04:18:32.540 I think it can also be labeled as an assistant.

04:18:37.180 Okay.

04:18:37.540 Well, so would you, would you also label it as like, I'm looking for a mom?

04:18:43.220 Like if I want a woman to do my laundry, to cook for me, those sorts of things. 1.00

04:18:47.920 Am I, so I've heard some women make a criticism of you're looking for a mom, not a girlfriend, 1.00

04:18:52.980 not a wife. 0.55

04:18:54.700 Yeah.

04:18:55.120 Sometimes that can be true too.

04:18:57.660 Okay.

04:18:58.060 And sometimes a lot of those guys have mommy issues, which is why girls are like, oh, 1.00

04:19:02.880 you're looking for a mom.

04:19:04.380 Perfect question for you.

04:19:05.940 When it comes to what you're looking for in a guy, you said you want a guy to pay for

04:19:09.500 dates.

04:19:10.360 Would you want a guy to be a person?

04:19:11.640 I didn't say I wanted them to pay for dates.

04:19:14.020 The first date, it's a sign of respect, but do I expect them to pay for all the dates we

04:19:18.160 go on?

04:19:18.640 No.

04:19:19.260 Have you ever, the guy who was the S worker, would he pay for the dates?

04:19:24.700 Yeah, but I've also paid.

04:19:25.960 Sometimes, but mostly he paid.

04:19:28.900 Yeah.

04:19:29.640 Okay.

04:19:30.100 So it's still not quite equal.

04:19:33.500 Do you want a guy who's a protector?

04:19:36.140 Yes.

04:19:36.800 Ah, okay.

04:19:37.400 You want a father figure?

04:19:38.860 No.

04:19:38.940 You just want a dad.

04:19:39.840 You want a father?

04:19:41.240 I have a father.

04:19:42.420 I have actually three.

04:19:43.860 Right.

04:19:43.880 But women who say, men who want women to cook, to clean, to do their laundry, take care of 1.00

04:19:50.860 household chores, they're not looking for a wife. 0.99

04:19:53.140 They're not looking for a girlfriend.

04:19:54.060 They're looking for a mom. 1.00

04:19:56.920 Well, then I can just turn this around on women and say, well, as a woman, if you want 0.99

04:20:02.120 a guy to provide and protect, you're just looking for a dad, not a boyfriend, not a husband.

04:20:06.860 So why is it that?

04:20:08.700 Should I feel unsafe in my own home?

04:20:11.280 Should I feel unsafe walking down the street?

04:20:13.660 If I have a guy, shouldn't he not protect me?

04:20:17.360 I don't think that there's anything wrong with wanting those things and wanting a guy who

04:20:22.140 can and will protect you.

04:20:24.240 But what I'm saying is, you guys want men to adhere to our traditional gender roles.

04:20:30.020 Right.

04:20:30.280 But you don't want to adhere to yours.

04:20:32.280 So when it comes to the expectation on men and men's duties in a relationship, it's might

04:20:37.900 as well be the 1950s for men still have to provide, still have to protect.

04:20:42.740 But when it comes to women's roles, it's all negotiable, totally negotiable. 1.00

04:20:46.900 Well, I think a man can cook, a man can clean. 1.00

04:20:51.780 A woman can protect herself. 1.00

04:20:52.760 A woman can own a gun. 1.00

04:20:54.080 Yeah.

04:20:55.580 A woman can make money and provide for herself. 1.00

04:20:58.180 Well, yes, I agree.

04:20:59.120 I can make money.

04:21:00.340 I provide for myself.

04:21:01.560 I do protect myself.

04:21:02.580 So why do you want a provider and a protector if you can do it yourself?

04:21:05.960 I don't think it's more that I want that.

04:21:08.380 I think if I'm going to be in a relationship with somebody, I shouldn't have to go without

04:21:13.900 being protected.

04:21:14.960 Why would my partner not want to protect me?

04:21:17.580 I love it.

04:21:18.160 So when I'm in a relationship, I want a woman who can cook and clean and take care of the 1.00

04:21:22.540 household for me.

04:21:23.460 Why should I not feel nurtured in that way?

04:21:27.120 I think it's more of like, that's all you expect out of it.

04:21:33.140 I expect a lot.

04:21:34.640 Trust me from women.

04:21:36.500 Yeah, I can tell.

04:21:38.420 Wait, so is that a bad thing or a good thing?

04:21:40.460 Explain.

04:21:40.880 Is it bad that I have high expectations or is it?

04:21:44.440 It's not.

04:21:44.780 Am I asking too much?

04:21:45.960 What do you?

04:21:46.360 I don't think you're asking too much, but I think it's just like the type of person.

04:21:51.880 Like I expect more like emotional things out of a relationship, not superficial.

04:21:59.340 It's not about the money.

04:22:00.420 It's not about the protection.

04:22:01.520 It's more about like the connection we have.

04:22:04.360 But you said if the guy doesn't pay for the first date, there won't be a second.

04:22:07.720 Yeah.

04:22:07.880 I never said there wouldn't be a second.

04:22:09.280 I just think it shows a sign of respect.

04:22:12.180 Well, I think wouldn't it also be respectful for the woman to pay for the first date then? 0.99

04:22:16.440 If paying for the first date is just about showing respect, then, well, I guess you would have to make the argument to show mutual respect.

04:22:22.780 Both people just pay for their own food.

04:22:24.940 That's what I usually offer.

04:22:27.420 It's like we can go halfsies if you want. 0.97

04:22:29.060 Hold on, but earlier you said if the guy asks me out, he should pay.

04:22:32.460 And then the offer sounds token to me.

04:22:37.280 I mean, if he's like, yeah, let's go halfsies, I'm like, okay. 1.00

04:22:41.560 And then it's like.

04:22:42.260 Yeah, but is it negative brownie points?

04:22:45.820 Kind of just shows where you're at financially.

04:22:48.180 The answer is yes.

04:22:49.000 I mean, you do, but it is logically possible.

04:22:51.680 Like, it's logically possible a billionaire could go on a date with a broke woman and be like, we're going to split the bill.

04:22:58.120 Like, that's logically possible, right?

04:23:00.100 But then I kind of feel like he's, like, that I'm not worth his time.

04:23:04.560 Like, he's basically telling me, you're not worth my money.

04:23:08.180 Like, you're not worth being spent on.

04:23:11.120 But he's spending his time on you.

04:23:14.340 And he probably spends his time with multiple other women.

04:23:17.120 I mean, that's a huge projection and a huge assumption.

04:23:21.360 I don't know.

04:23:22.560 Finding a quality date, I guess, would be step one in all that.

04:23:26.920 I mean, a first date should be something relatively simple.

04:23:30.520 I think my first date with my now husband was like, hey, come walk my dog with me, you know.

04:23:37.100 And we got to know each other like that.

04:23:39.000 And, I mean, eventually, like, as dates went on, yeah, no, he paid.

04:23:45.240 Mm-hmm.

04:23:45.620 I mean, Brian's totally right.

04:23:48.000 It seems like even feminists put men at the default of being traditional always. 0.98

04:23:53.700 It's always the desire and the want to take those.

04:23:56.540 General rules go both ways.

04:23:57.540 I understand that.

04:23:58.280 Right.

04:23:58.700 But then it doesn't.

04:23:59.940 But then women don't want to take on a traditional role, which is what he wants. 1.00

04:24:03.700 It's pretty traditional.

04:24:05.140 Women kind of tending to the household and catering to their men. 1.00

04:24:08.040 That's what we've always done throughout history.

04:24:09.800 Raising the kids.

04:24:10.260 Raising kids.

04:24:11.000 I have a question for you.

04:24:12.060 So I kind of fall into more traditional mentalities when I date. 0.99

04:24:18.120 I don't believe in that 50-50 shit, to be honest. 0.98

04:24:21.220 I think a man should be a provider and protector. 0.99

04:24:23.340 And I do agree and align with a lot of what you're saying that a woman should provide to 0.99

04:24:28.360 a household.

04:24:28.780 But at the same time, I also consider myself a businesswoman and I'm working so much.

04:24:35.320 I'm a full-time student on top of that.

04:24:37.480 Would you be satisfied if you and your partner were in a situation where you could pay for

04:24:43.460 a chef, you could pay for a driver, you could pay for people who are going to help with

04:24:47.460 those housework tasks so she can focus on her passions and loving you in a different

04:24:53.960 way?

04:24:55.360 Are you okay with that?

04:24:56.260 What's her passion?

04:24:57.340 Well, let's say that she runs her own business. 0.80

04:24:59.920 Let's say she's an actress. 0.93

04:25:01.820 Let's say she does what you do and she has her own brand. 1.00

04:25:05.220 Are you okay with that?

04:25:06.520 Or do you want more support in your partner?

04:25:10.120 Well, I suppose it depends at what stage do you meet them.

04:25:14.680 Once a woman's already deeply involved in something, most men are probably going to have to make 1.00

04:25:24.740 a concession on like, I mean, it varies.

04:25:29.100 But if she's not already in that dimension, then that's not the kind of dynamic I'd want.

04:25:37.500 But you're asking from my own personal perspective.

04:25:40.560 So my own personal perspective, I'm doing fairly well.

04:25:44.180 I could fully cover everything.

04:25:48.120 She doesn't have to work ever.

04:25:49.480 So your question is, pay for like a cook to come in?

04:25:56.440 Yeah.

04:25:56.640 And I didn't even mean it in the sense that like, okay, now that you have people who are 0.86

04:26:00.320 fulfilling these roles, she's just fucking watching Love Island all day and doing nothing. 1.00

04:26:03.860 That's not what I meant. 0.99

04:26:04.640 I meant more.

04:26:05.260 You got to keep her busy.

04:26:06.100 Yeah, I meant that, let's say that she has other things that occupy her time that either

04:26:11.920 fulfill her soul or brings in money or whatever. 0.91

04:26:15.880 Would you be okay if she spent her time doing that rather than cooking or cleaning or things

04:26:22.040 that could be fulfilled?

04:26:23.360 Because at the end of it all, yes, I understand that those things are important to you.

04:26:27.220 But don't you see that anybody can fulfill that?

04:26:29.580 And in your partner, in your wife, you obviously like her for more than just, oh, she's proficient

04:26:34.720 at these tasks.

04:26:35.480 You think she's attractive and you like her personality, ideally.

04:26:39.180 Well, I would say that there does become a point, a level of wealth where offsetting

04:26:47.100 some of these tasks to somebody else, like it would almost be a no-brainer.

04:26:52.700 Right.

04:26:52.900 Like if I was a billionaire, I don't think I would be like, okay, you're going to clean

04:26:56.900 the house.

04:26:57.480 Yeah.

04:26:57.760 Like if I was a billionaire, I'm like, you don't need to clean the house.

04:27:00.220 Although perhaps there's some circumstance where like the cleaner is busy today.

04:27:04.920 And it's like, if there is something that needs to be cleaned and the cleaner, I mean,

04:27:09.080 if you're a billionaire, you probably have like in staff that lives in your house.

04:27:13.520 So it's hard to like put yourself in that paradigm of like that level of wealth.

04:27:18.360 Right.

04:27:18.960 So I think that level of wealth, of course, you're, you're probably looking to your partner

04:27:23.260 not to take on the like mundane house chores, but you are looking, you're still going to

04:27:28.860 look to her to defer to you, to defer to your leadership, to be submissive.

04:27:35.340 But that's probably not going to necessarily entail like, okay, now you're going to like

04:27:42.700 do housework that I can like pawn off to a third party.

04:27:47.240 You can do it for a couple hundred bucks or have like, have staff that just paid salary

04:27:52.240 or something.

04:27:54.340 So, but I don't know, there, there's like, it depends to what degree you have third parties

04:28:01.300 involved in your life.

04:28:02.480 Uh-huh.

04:28:03.620 So I don't know.

04:28:06.300 Uh, I might have her go get me something on the other side of the house or something. 1.00

04:28:13.020 Okay.

04:28:13.660 Yeah.

04:28:14.120 Like, I guess my question is, are you so traditional to the sense that you don't even want your

04:28:19.440 wife to have a job? 1.00

04:28:20.940 You want her full-time job to be taking care of your kids and, you know, making sure the 1.00

04:28:25.440 house is in order.

04:28:25.780 That's a good point.

04:28:26.480 That's, I mean, so when we do have kids though, cause I was thinking more so.

04:28:31.300 Prior to kids, but when we do have kids, uh, we can have assistance, but I want, I don't

04:28:38.300 want to, uh, pawn your kids, pawn the kids off totally to the point where she then pursues 1.00

04:28:44.460 some sort of career.

04:28:46.860 I'd want her being the like full prime. 1.00

04:28:49.560 She can have assistance.

04:28:50.380 Like if she needs somebody there to help out with stuff, but I'd still want her being the

04:28:54.340 primary role when it comes to raising the children.

04:28:57.900 Uh, so in that sense, um, if I was so wealthy to the point, yeah, okay.

04:29:04.580 The, the cleaning, yeah, we can have somebody else take care of that. 0.99

04:29:07.540 But when it comes to the kids, then all of your attention that would perhaps if I earned

04:29:12.320 less would have gone to these more mundane tasks, cleaning, cooking, we can, we can have

04:29:17.760 a chef.

04:29:18.340 I think that we can have a clean, like people clean, come in and clean, but you're going

04:29:22.500 to then dedicate more of your time to the kids.

04:29:24.980 Yeah.

04:29:25.260 I think that's a totally valid claim, honestly.

04:29:28.100 And I would just like to ask.

04:29:30.040 So from what I understand, you would like your wife to be the primary caretaker of your 0.96

04:29:35.080 children.

04:29:35.640 I'm just curious how involved, obviously you would be the breadwinner in this situation

04:29:40.900 that we're talking about right now.

04:29:42.040 How involved would you like to be in raising your kids?

04:29:45.460 I mean, definitely involved, but it, it depends to what degree I'm working or if I'm retired.

04:29:52.940 Right.

04:29:53.580 So, and I mean, I could give you my own personal, you know, stance on my own or my projection

04:30:01.140 of where I think I'll be in a couple of years or what I think like a guy who, it depends

04:30:07.500 again on the level of income and wealth that's going to factor in a lot in terms of your free

04:30:11.780 time.

04:30:12.660 Currently I'm super busy with my work.

04:30:14.560 I would still spend a good amount of time with children, but it would not be anywhere

04:30:18.640 near approaching the amount of time that, uh, my girlfriend or whatever could be taking

04:30:23.900 care of the kids.

04:30:24.880 Right.

04:30:25.840 So, uh, but if I was retired, I'd spend a lot of time with the kids.

04:30:32.000 Yeah.

04:30:32.360 It's a value of yours.

04:30:33.260 Like if I retired early, if I retired at 40 or something, I would also be spending a

04:30:38.520 lot of times with the kids.

04:30:39.700 Cause you know, you got to raise some like little warriors or whatever.

04:30:42.620 Yeah.

04:30:42.840 I want to raise some warriors, warriors, warriors.

04:30:46.700 Yeah.

04:30:47.020 Uh, so I don't know.

04:30:48.220 And they're years that you don't get back to.

04:30:50.180 Yeah.

04:30:50.480 I think it's, I think it's precious.

04:30:52.320 I think family's precious.

04:30:53.360 But there will probably be a period of time.

04:30:56.100 I would say at least when the kids are young, probably like, it's hard to project, you know,

04:31:02.180 how things, anything, you know, who knows what can happen.

04:31:04.740 Business can change, whatever, whatever.

04:31:06.620 But probably the first couple of years, probably not.

04:31:10.240 I mean, she's going to be primarily handling that if I retire early, which I think is kind

04:31:16.820 of what I want to do, but we'll see.

04:31:18.520 Um, then I'll definitely be more involved as they, you know, five, six, seven, eight,

04:31:23.120 so forth.

04:31:23.900 Yeah.

04:31:24.640 Cool.

04:31:25.520 Yeah.

04:31:26.400 What, what about this though?

04:31:27.620 Uh, uh, she, uh, she changes all the diapers. 1.00

04:31:30.980 What do you guys think about that? 1.00

04:31:32.340 That's bullshit. 1.00

04:31:33.300 Why is that bullshit? 1.00

04:31:35.140 Um, so I'm actually expecting. 0.99

04:31:38.820 Congratulations.

04:31:40.580 Oh, okay.

04:31:41.640 Preggers. 1.00

04:31:42.340 Yeah.

04:31:42.700 I'm.

04:31:43.060 How, how, how.

04:31:44.520 Do you know anything?

04:31:45.820 Do you know the gender?

04:31:47.180 I'm six weeks.

04:31:47.980 I'll find out in two weeks.

04:31:49.500 That's so exciting.

04:31:50.180 I wish you so much success.

04:31:52.660 Thank you.

04:31:53.000 I hope it's seamless.

04:31:54.540 Thank you.

04:31:54.880 Yeah.

04:31:55.740 It's actually during PA school, but yeah.

04:31:57.960 Um, so, um, I would expect my partner to do as much as I do.

04:32:05.600 Um, I think especially in the, in the first few months, um, your sleep is very precious

04:32:11.180 to you.

04:32:11.680 So if I'm tired, um, my fiance will take over.

04:32:15.680 If he's tired, I'll take over.

04:32:16.920 I don't think it has anything to do with gender.

04:32:19.600 It's just what needs to be done for the kid.

04:32:21.140 You just need to do it.

04:32:22.200 Yeah.

04:32:22.320 You're a team in that sense.

04:32:24.380 Um, so I don't like, I mean, if, if she's not working and I'm taking care of everything

04:32:29.000 and I have work, I have to go do.

04:32:31.080 That's a different situation though.

04:32:32.660 I think that's totally valid, but let's say they're both working.

04:32:35.380 You know what I mean?

04:32:36.040 They're both like just getting by, then it's like, obviously both members, I would say

04:32:40.760 have to put in a relatively equal support in taking care of your child, you know, because

04:32:46.700 the circumstances are different.

04:32:47.560 Are you going to be working?

04:32:49.160 Uh, so I'm actually graduating at the end of this year.

04:32:51.600 I take my exam in January and then I won't be working for a few months.

04:32:55.240 You're, you're going to be a physician assistant, right?

04:32:57.320 Yes.

04:32:58.160 Wait, you're graduating from PA school or what's that called?

04:33:02.500 PA school.

04:33:02.980 Yep.

04:33:03.680 Okay.

04:33:04.160 I see.

04:33:05.100 Okay.

04:33:05.640 Yeah.

04:33:06.380 So, I mean, you want to be a boss babe basically.

04:33:09.080 Um, yeah, I, I chose PA specifically because I knew I wanted to have more of a work-life balance

04:33:13.840 and that would be better than going to medical school for my situation.

04:33:17.900 So that's kind of, I want, I wanted to have a more of a family unit than me working all

04:33:21.580 the time.

04:33:22.220 And I think PA education or PA, the profession allows you to do that more, but still be in

04:33:28.600 healthcare.

04:33:29.200 Yeah.

04:33:30.080 Good times.

04:33:30.920 Yeah.

04:33:31.660 But I mean, at least the kind of dynamic I'm looking for, it would be, I'm taking care of

04:33:36.700 everything and she doesn't have to work, but the expectation there is she's going to

04:33:41.740 take, be taking on more of the burden when it comes to raising the children.

04:33:45.880 So, and also the household stuff too.

04:33:49.060 But that's the sacrifice of family.

04:33:51.720 Yeah.

04:33:52.240 I mean, we've gone our whole lives being selfish, right?

04:33:54.760 I've spent 33 years of my life focusing on myself, doing my own thing.

04:33:59.000 And then once you kind of fulfill your purpose, which is creating a family and continuing the

04:34:04.200 legacy, it's a sacrifice and it's not going to be fun.

04:34:06.700 It's not going to be easy, but that's the purpose of life.

04:34:08.960 Yeah.

04:34:09.560 That's how I feel right now.

04:34:10.580 It's kind of a weird feeling.

04:34:12.720 Yeah.

04:34:12.980 Because your degree doesn't even matter almost.

04:34:15.560 Yeah.

04:34:15.860 Your child now matters.

04:34:17.080 Yeah.

04:34:17.200 But I want to get back to what our conversation that we were having.

04:34:22.240 I'm coming back for you.

04:34:23.460 So I guess going back to it though, you were saying, well, Brian, when we played the

04:34:28.300 bow video, you're like, you seem to have some objections to that sort of thing.

04:34:32.940 Um, I guess I'm still trying to figure out what, what's, what are the objections?

04:34:39.260 I believe in an equal partnership.

04:34:41.640 I think it's a hundred, a hundred and not 50, 50 equal partnership.

04:34:45.960 Okay.

04:34:46.360 So, um, what I'm providing just as much as the guy, like, I don't expect them to provide

04:34:52.360 more, I work, I don't expect them to financially, I mean, I don't expect them to do everything

04:35:05.820 for me.

04:35:06.500 Like I'm very self-sufficient and independent.

04:35:10.120 Like I don't need that.

04:35:11.520 I don't need to depend on a man for that.

04:35:13.780 If they choose to do that, that's fine, but I'm not depending on them.

04:35:17.880 I still expect to be independent.

04:35:19.920 Have you ever lived with a guy?

04:35:21.720 I've lived with six men at one time.

04:35:24.380 No, I mean like a boyfriend.

04:35:26.240 Have you lived with a guy that you've been seeing?

04:35:28.960 No.

04:35:29.360 I don't mean like you had male roommates.

04:35:30.960 I mean like a guy you were dating, although I guess you've never had a boyfriend.

04:35:35.320 So, um, okay.

04:35:37.300 If you were, if you were in that sort of situation, would you want the guy to take care of the

04:35:43.560 rent or would you go 50, 50 on the rent?

04:35:46.500 Um, it depends on, I'm totally okay doing 50, 50 on rent, but if they want to pay full rent,

04:35:54.180 that's totally up to them and their comfortability and their financial stability.

04:35:59.500 Um, I don't expect it though.

04:36:01.800 You don't expect it?

04:36:02.840 No.

04:36:03.080 But if they wanted to, you wouldn't put up a fight.

04:36:05.920 You wouldn't insist.

04:36:07.580 Wait, you said you believe in equal partnership.

04:36:11.440 Yeah.

04:36:11.680 So why would you not then, even if the guy was open to paying for everything, why would

04:36:18.200 you not then go ahead and insist on paying 50, 50?

04:36:22.340 That doesn't mean I wouldn't pay utilities or other bills that the house needs.

04:36:25.960 No, let's say he was like, I'm paying for everything.

04:36:27.880 Then that just, it's more about how you give and receive love.

04:36:32.220 Like for me personally, I give and receive love through gifts and quality time.

04:36:37.300 Like that is my thing for how I give and receive love.

04:36:41.780 Everybody has different things for that.

04:36:45.180 There's like five different things.

04:36:46.900 But I thought you believe in equal partnership.

04:36:49.180 I do.

04:36:50.120 I give and I receive love the same way.

04:36:54.420 Okay, but...

04:36:55.360 So I can spoil my partner just as well as he can spoil me.

04:36:58.680 And I think that's a form of love.

04:37:00.820 You're going to, how much is rent in LA?

04:37:03.400 Okay, $2,000, $3,000, $4,000.

04:37:06.340 How much do you pay for rent for your place?

04:37:08.880 $1,100.

04:37:10.200 Okay.

04:37:10.660 You pay like, you have a room in the house or how's it work?

04:37:13.440 Yeah.

04:37:14.280 Okay.

04:37:15.500 So if you guys get your own place, it's probably going to be $2,000, $3,000.

04:37:18.660 If you want a nice place, $4,000.

04:37:22.800 You're going to be spending, buying him $4,000 worth of gifts.

04:37:27.220 Like if he's paying all the rent, you're going to spend $4,000 a month on gifts for him?

04:37:31.660 To equalize the equal partnership?

04:37:35.360 I think there's more that you can give to a person than just financial value.

04:37:41.280 Okay, but you're talking about equal partnership.

04:37:43.080 Yeah.

04:37:43.660 Right.

04:37:45.080 So if you're having an equal partnership, shouldn't it be like mostly equal?

04:37:49.980 Yeah, but if they're insisting, why should I have to fight that?

04:37:54.100 Shouldn't you insist that it be equal?

04:37:57.480 It's more like their personal preference.

04:37:59.540 It depends on the partner I'm with.

04:38:02.340 Not every partner is going to want to pay all of rent or can pay all of rent all the time.

04:38:07.980 Like if they lose their job and they're not able to cover rent, I'm willing to step up.

04:38:12.120 It's more about like...

04:38:14.400 But I mean, why hasn't this been the case when you've gone on dates?

04:38:18.680 Like you've said overwhelmingly the men pay for the dates.

04:38:22.200 Because they want to.

04:38:23.500 Right, but if you believe in equal partnership, shouldn't...

04:38:28.440 Like what do you do?

04:38:30.360 Like from a bird's eye view, what do you do to equally contribute to the start of a relationship?

04:38:37.300 It's more the emotional aspect.

04:38:40.520 What do you mean?

04:38:41.760 Like a lot of guys just aren't like there emotionally.

04:38:44.940 So I'm willing to be there for people emotionally.

04:38:48.620 How soon into like immediately?

04:38:51.260 On the first date?

04:38:52.900 I'm very open.

04:38:55.540 You're very open?

04:38:56.800 Open and obviously.

04:38:57.220 So okay, guys, for example, here would be like some of the burdens or some of the things you might not want to frame it as a burden that guys do early on to develop or build or initiate a relationship.

04:39:09.720 They're going to be the ones approaching you.

04:39:12.120 They're going to make the first move.

04:39:13.540 They're going to be the ones taking on the burden of initiative, taking on the burden of rejection or potential rejection.

04:39:20.800 They're going to set up the date.

04:39:22.020 They're going to plan the date.

04:39:23.080 They're going to pay for the date.

04:39:24.220 They're going to move things forward.

04:39:25.560 They're probably going to go for the first kiss.

04:39:26.980 They're going to move things forward physically from there.

04:39:29.340 All of that initiative burden falls on the man.

04:39:33.100 Additionally, there's the financial component that the guy has to pay for dates.

04:39:35.880 so traditionally that's what men do and early on what do women do early on to 1.00

04:39:43.180 when it comes to the development of a budding relationship um

04:39:50.080 i think it's more of just like contributing values contributing values like i'm not gonna

04:39:59.480 go on a date with somebody that i don't share values with i'm not gonna give them the time

04:40:03.400 of day i'm not gonna waste somebody's time i don't just go on dates to for a free dinner like a lot

04:40:10.420 of girls just do that like i'm not that type of person so i think you're asking the wrong person 0.98

04:40:15.340 that question you've never done that no okay um i date with intention

04:40:22.880 oh you date with intention like i don't know you've you've said you have a roster you've not

04:40:30.420 had a boyfriend you like if i'm going on and you're currently i'm not just gonna question

04:40:36.020 question wait wait their time hold on i wouldn't go on the date in the first place you're currently

04:40:41.240 in a complicated situation with a male porn star and you've have you been going on dates during the

04:40:49.380 course of this like complicated relate situationship with the male sex worker occasionally how could you

04:40:58.360 possibly be dating with intention like if i'm going on a date with a girl and she's like got feelings

04:41:05.020 and hangs out with a dude and like oh because when you guys are sexually active together you're not

04:41:13.220 having sex but you're like doing oral sex or whatever how is it dating with intention if i'm going on a 0.98

04:41:18.600 date with a girl and she's she's involved with a guy who took her virginity 0.99

04:41:24.220 and s-ing his d from time to time and he's a sex worker how is that dating with intention you're not properly

04:41:32.540 single but i'm not taken i'm not exclusive there's no loyalty so the dating intention is that i'm not

04:41:42.360 going on a date with somebody i'm not interested in not going on like i'm going on a date to see

04:41:48.480 like is there compatibility there could this be a partner like if they commit like okay i'm gonna be

04:41:55.880 loyal to them how would you feel if you were on a date with a guy who is in the exact same situation

04:42:01.040 as you but with like the person he's seeing as a woman most guys are in our generation yeah is that

04:42:07.520 good or bad i mean it just is what it is i'm used to that but is that good or bad like do you think

04:42:14.660 it's good for example do you think i don't think it's good but i think it's normalized in our

04:42:19.120 generation like everybody in our generation has a roster it doesn't mean it's not everybody but um

04:42:24.760 i mean you you wouldn't have any issue like you would i guess this is why you're just constantly

04:42:33.140 kind of trapped in situationships you're kind of tied down dating this guy who's a sex worker

04:42:40.000 who you give bjs to how frequent once a week or something i don't know you give him bjs from time

04:42:48.720 to time and then like then have you ever done this have you ever gone on a date with a guy the same day

04:42:55.520 you gave him a bj no that sounds like a yes but you don't want to admit to it uh oh man that's 0.98

04:43:03.100 brutal imagine going on a date with a girl she gives you a kiss goodnight but she like sucked a 1.00

04:43:07.880 dude's dick early in the sorry that's a beauty or what if a guy pays for a date have you ever done 1.00

04:43:13.680 this have you ever gone on a date with a dude oh and then he buys your dinner or whatever and then 1.00

04:43:21.000 you go over to male sex worker's house and do what you do with him i've been on a date with a guy

04:43:30.740 and the other guy called me and asked me to come over and i didn't you you give a 24 hour you give

04:43:38.680 a 24 hour grace period no i just didn't go 0.98

04:43:42.580 didn't go the next day it was okay 48 hour grace period i see i don't know man i don't know shit 0.91

04:43:53.420 are you really date you said you were dating intentionally though that's yeah that's a very

04:43:59.760 specific thing like i i think in order to date intentionally you have to be properly single

04:44:04.940 if you have a side piece or whatever some dude you're seeing and

04:44:09.240 you're seeing him and then you're going on dates how is that intentional if i get asked on 15 dates

04:44:18.600 a day and i don't go it's because i'm not interested but if i go on a date i clearly have

04:44:24.500 interest and there's intention behind me going on that date in the first place meeting up with you

04:44:29.400 taking time out of my day to even go on that date do you have feelings for this dude yeah what are 0.89

04:44:36.840 feelings like if he asked me to be his girlfriend i would say yes oh okay wait wait the porn star so

04:44:44.300 are you like holding out that that's the future potential possibility wait a second god i hope not

04:44:49.620 no but like i think like if that was a possibility i would say yes well how about this here's the

04:44:58.220 scenario let's say you're so you're still seeing him currently say you just start like going on a

04:45:03.320 date with this new guy and it's still really early on so there hasn't been a conversation about

04:45:08.680 what's this going to be maybe you've gone on two three dates with a new guy but you're still seeing

04:45:14.620 this guy this guy says the the s worker guy who you took your virginity whatever you've been seeing

04:45:20.760 him for a year he says i want you to be my girlfriend you you stop with the two to three date

04:45:28.460 guy right i'm assuming yeah okay how can you be dating intentionally if a guy's been on two or three

04:45:35.160 dates with you but there's like this dude in the background who you're secretly pining for

04:45:41.440 and nobody said it was a secret well okay it's a it's more about communication if you're communicating

04:45:47.580 that with the person you're you tell so-called dating hold on you you tell the guys you go on first

04:45:52.780 dates with by the way i'm dating intentionally so i just want to let you know i'm currently 0.99

04:45:58.700 providing oral sex to a male sex worker who took my virginity who i'm secretly kind of in love with 0.99

04:46:06.700 but not really well but i would be his girlfriend at any point if he asked me 0.99

04:46:11.640 if you tell that you tell guys that if a guy on a dating app is asking me out and i go on a date with

04:46:18.840 him and he's like hey by the way i'm going out with five other girls like this week it's like okay

04:46:24.740 you're exploring your options i'm exploring mine what's the difference like i'm gonna be open that

04:46:31.100 hey we're not exclusive i don't owe you anything not dating with intention though yeah that's not 0.99

04:46:37.780 really intentional dating i would say so wait the porn star that you said was a whore yeah is this the 0.99

04:46:44.720 one that you would want to be your boyfriend 1.00

04:46:46.900 because you said he was a whore earlier and that was one of your issues with him 0.99

04:46:52.840 yeah because he but you want him to make you would want to be exclusive with him you want to be 0.97

04:46:58.220 uh thank you for that 20 memberships thank you keep sorry go ahead continue you would want to be with 0.99

04:47:03.240 the whore yes i wouldn't want him to be a whore when he's with me but you don't get to complain 1.00

04:47:09.200 about him then but he's already yeah like proven he is a whore like he is a hoe for sure you could be 1.00

04:47:16.300 doing so much better do you do you think that if you got off of social media and found another 0.98

04:47:24.460 form of income that maybe would be providing you the same like you know equivalence to what you're

04:47:30.240 getting now and like removed yourself off of dating apps and social media and all that do you think

04:47:35.120 that one you would be getting as many people interested and two would you maybe be finding like

04:47:43.440 better people possibly perhaps i mean i went to college twice that's not what i asked um i've

04:47:52.840 already experienced that life before social media i've gone on those dates with those normal guys

04:47:58.760 like and it's it still didn't work then why am i gonna like there's more options now yeah but it

04:48:07.080 doesn't seem like they're quality options just to seem like quantity over quality like if you found a

04:48:11.800 guy that is not a sex working whore or a you know a non-committal type or like unemotionally 0.84

04:48:19.840 emotionally unavailable like say you found like your perfect dude 1.00

04:48:23.080 like would you get rid of all this extra shit yeah of course of course if i found somebody that 0.86

04:48:32.820 had like the same values i have and like we had that mutual bond and like we really like liked each 0.99

04:48:38.600 other and he was willing to commit to me yeah i'd be more than willing to drop everything but you've

04:48:43.760 also stayed in that's why i am like still exploring options i'm not just loyal to that guy who is a 0.94

04:48:51.460 whore i seems like you are but i wouldn't be going on dates with guys if i wasn't interested in seeing 1.00

04:48:59.440 other people that's definitely not necessarily true i mean it might not be true for other people but

04:49:06.020 that's my thing i'm not just going out with any guy that asks me out yeah i mean that would probably

04:49:12.680 be crazy and stupid but a lot of people do just for the free dinner yeah okay well that's not right

04:49:18.240 either yeah i don't agree with that i mean yeah if you've already said that you're not interested or 1.00

04:49:28.040 willing to settle down with anyone because you haven't leveled up to the point to where you feel like

04:49:32.600 you need to be in order to do that what if the perfect guy were to come along would you drop that

04:49:37.580 to be with him yeah yeah i think that's true yeah i do think that's true i hope that for you i guess

04:49:45.800 you know i think you could probably find it maybe not in la but i think you probably find it but that

04:49:52.800 would be dating with intention that would be like dating with the intent to be with someone and maybe

04:49:58.660 not wade through a briar patch of man whores and social media guys doesn't seem like you're going 0.99

04:50:04.420 to get what you want by doing the same thing that you're doing now and have been i respect your point 0.57

04:50:13.120 of view i respect that okay well i don't know if i got a definitive answer on this but okay the bow

04:50:21.940 video you're very upset very upset by the bow video uh just bow i guess what what was the

04:50:30.160 objections again for the to the bow i just don't think that's a form of respect from the girl like

04:50:38.940 i mean it's actually quite like i just what if he bows back what if he bows to you i wouldn't like it

04:50:46.720 he wasn't he wouldn't do that so it's just the ick no it's just icky you know i wouldn't do that to

04:50:51.920 my man it's just like but you it's like showing that but you do bow actually in other ways oh well

04:51:00.280 like wait you're what it's essentially she just locked her teeth wait what actually i think the d 0.99

04:51:06.580 bowing but she does it's a it's a form of a bow you get it oh right well this is a point i actually

04:51:15.480 make um because like you know i i get the initial knee-jerk reaction to the bow is like whoa first

04:51:23.000 off it's like people culturally don't really don't do that in the united states yeah so there's that

04:51:28.440 component but it's also just like even if it was like moving i guess removing the like

04:51:34.560 uncommon cultural component of it yeah there's there's another objection to i'm not willing to

04:51:42.880 do this sort of act of subserve like submission to a guy like that's icky to me to like do like it's a 0.98

04:51:51.660 ask from the guy's perspective i'm not going to do that which what he won't hold on that fucking 0.99

04:51:59.080 words out there because you said i'm not going to do that thing that he wants me to do but then i

04:52:03.400 start thinking about it it's um by the way the bow it didn't just coalesce out of the ether people

04:52:09.820 have been even in white cultures have been doing bows although it's like not common anymore um so

04:52:16.560 it's not like i'm culturally appropriating like there's asian cultures or whatever um would you

04:52:21.900 bow for the uh for the perfect man no just curious going around the table who here that's crazy i'll

04:52:28.040 come back to the perfect man thing who here would bow for a guy well you know would you bow for a guy 0.57

04:52:34.540 yeah maybe yes it's kind of it's not even my culture like that yeah but if you're you're married

04:52:40.640 if i'm japanese that's a that's a given no you're white well what are you i'm white are you italian 0.59

04:52:46.240 spaniard okay yeah so definitely not like a bow culture we don't even do that but if your husband

04:52:51.680 watched the whatever podcast and he's like you know that brian guy's onto something you're setting

04:52:56.460 a weird temple he's onto something you know hey look we eat something have you ever but i understand

04:53:03.040 have you had chops have you used chopsticks yeah okay so there you go yeah once in a while i'm not

04:53:08.520 i mean i'm not using it makes sense right they bow in the catholic church uh you know oh yeah we do

04:53:12.960 a little bit do you watch any anime attack on titan or something no i don't get into anime okay

04:53:17.160 whatever i used to draw anime but yes you would bow but okay would you bow i don't know i don't think

04:53:21.920 so don't think so would you would you bow for for a guy i don't think it's part of my culture

04:53:26.720 or lifestyle but if it really was so important to him once about we could have a conversation

04:53:32.500 could have a conversation about it we could have a conversation what's the okay let's uh we're gonna

04:53:36.540 role play like we're dating okay well for you i feel like it almost excuse me miss okay i wish for

04:53:43.780 you to bow let's have the combo i feel like it feels like a power thing for you you've made it clear

04:53:49.560 that you want your woman submissive and it's not a cultural thing if it was cultural i would

04:53:54.160 totally respect it yeah but it's not and for those reasons i probably wouldn't bow to you

04:53:58.540 i see okay i'm gonna bite the bullet and agree that it's it's a hundred percent of power thing

04:54:04.020 what would actually be wrong in engaging with it well i think it's just a matter of preference i

04:54:08.760 don't think there's anything inherently wrong with it it's just not my cup of tea so i won't be drinking

04:54:13.800 it well it was nice knowing you uh goodbye we're over okay uh ellie would you i think you know my

04:54:21.560 answer to this okay she wants to throw it up in your mouth as well i'm okay i've actually reflected

04:54:27.700 on this and i wish i hadn't done the demo bow and the first and the first time i was here

04:54:32.300 retracting i'm retroactively taking back my bow rude because my perfect husband isn't here right now

04:54:38.140 and i would only do it for him you gotta go like this to get back maybe well technically what if

04:54:45.240 your perfect husband is watching the stream and you would be bowing to him well by technicality but

04:54:51.400 he's not here and so he wouldn't know it's directed towards him okay uh but you would bow of course okay

04:54:58.620 would you bow uh for a guy if it was in his culture no yes whitest dude you've ever seen 0.94

04:55:06.040 then no or blackest dude you've ever seen i don't know then no there's not bowing in either of those 0.54

04:55:12.240 no i guess i guess not because i like it's like what mars is saying and like i feel like

04:55:18.580 it just i it's just not my cup of tea like um i'm gonna go with maybe

04:55:26.900 well you're you're your fiancee oh um if you woke up in the morning he was like babe

04:55:35.200 hey i've been i've just watched the whatever podcast i've been thinking i'm carrying his baby

04:55:40.880 baby so i i feel like i'm not gonna just break up with him over that i'd be like yeah like we

04:55:46.800 could talk about it i guess it's kind of weird but then i'd have him do something equally as weird

04:55:51.360 just to even it out for me like what what would be equally as weird uh you have to kiss my feet

04:55:56.000 yeah that's not equally as weird that's way more weird that's that's way worse well it's it's

04:56:04.760 something in return of what i'm giving you because that's a weird request especially out of the blue

04:56:08.980 like that if you started the relationship like that then that's up to you if you want to leave

04:56:13.280 but if it starts like in the middle of it like i don't know what i would do but we're like our

04:56:18.540 grandparents doing that that you know married for decades you know i i'm sure there's ways that

04:56:25.080 they've showed women of the time have showed subordination without bowing like that in the 0.92

04:56:29.300 west i've never seen that yeah it's just in his meals cooking his meals and all sorts of things

04:56:34.440 taking care of other things didn't yeah didn't women in like the 1920s used to have like a martini 1.00

04:56:39.400 ready at home for their husbands maybe that sounds about right that was their tribute to their

04:56:44.020 why is he drinking a martini that is such a feminine drink beer for men only no or like 1.00

04:56:50.680 like two fingers of whiskey neat or whatever like i was gonna be a martini i don't know i don't know

04:56:56.680 i just like like those little glasses a little make me a cosmopolitan cosmopolitan

04:57:02.560 would you bow would you bow yeah sure okay john if you're watching this

04:57:11.420 oh let's she said let's spice things up

04:57:14.380 yeah is it like a dominance thing he made it clear it's a it's not it's not it's not a bdsm

04:57:21.160 yeah i understand that respect it's not like it's a respect thing and i think like okay so it goes

04:57:25.460 back to i remember the third principle care for each other's by the way care for the environment care

04:57:29.260 for the self care for others um even in like montessori principles like we were taught to

04:57:34.700 like you know have like the utmost respect for your environment so like i mean as young as like

04:57:39.400 preschool in like some asian countries and most asian countries they actually have like the kids

04:57:45.100 cleaning the classroom yeah and like taking off their shoes before you come in and like you know

04:57:50.500 preparing snack and sharing it with friends like it is it it's a it's a thing of hospitality of

04:57:58.640 spirituality it is uh a way of showing kind of sort of like this god's love of of some sort you know

04:58:07.040 and especially to your man because i mean like if he's taking care of you if he's protecting you

04:58:11.840 if he's making sure that he's walking on the side of you know the sidewalk with the street you know he's

04:58:17.680 going to be the first one that's going to uh take on a home intruder or like an alligator or whatever

04:58:23.740 like so the least you can do is be i guess submissive to your guy yeah i like that actually 0.99

04:58:29.620 but you're man not just some fucking boy well it's like that that would be the dynamic is she's 0.98

04:58:36.240 submissive it's a temperature check it's something that takes no effort it takes no skill anybody can 0.99

04:58:42.480 do it i suppose you have to be like able-bodied to some degree like if you're really really disabled

04:58:48.200 you can't do it like you have to be a paraplegic quadriplegic actually to not be able to do a

04:58:53.600 well i guess well you could still bow in a wheelchair i guess but if you're quad 1.00

04:58:58.360 it's just you can't do a bow in which case you have way bigger problems than the fucking bow 0.97

04:59:05.120 conversation but uh jenny flexion to show respect i think there's levels to submission though 0.95

04:59:12.800 like that and even in like actual you know cultures that partake in bowing like in japan for example

04:59:18.880 that was something i experienced when i was in tokyo like the further you bow it's like the deeper 0.99

04:59:23.640 respect yeah yes that you give to the person so it's like do you want your bitch on her hands and 1.00

04:59:28.840 knees like you know what i mean like where's your she could be like a i think you know i haven't 1.00

04:59:34.240 actually have i done this i don't know maybe some ex or some who knows she's a table for me and i eat

04:59:39.940 my food off of her oh okay you're into that just kidding that's not regular tables are better women 1.00

04:59:44.960 are not that great of tables okay i don't know my husband would is that is it more sexist is it

04:59:51.920 more sexist to say women don't make good tables they're not sturdy enough i think or is it women 1.00

04:59:57.420 have curves so i think that it makes sense that they wouldn't have the best foundation for a table 0.80

05:00:03.000 we're kind of squishy yeah maybe all late yeah no i don't know anyways uh i guess a couple things on

05:00:10.320 the bow thing it again it's totally effortless it takes no effort it's an easy thing you can do

05:00:17.600 to show that you respect your man you're going to be submissive you might in your head you're like

05:00:24.680 this is not something i normally do but i like this guy so much that i'm going to do this kind of

05:00:29.700 like eccentric kind of goofy thing at least in your perspective initially i'm going to do this

05:00:36.180 because he asked for it and i like him and i want to do things for him and i want to please him

05:00:43.780 that's what it's checking for but i want to kind of do a bit of a reversal here and examine some of

05:00:50.860 the asks that women have of men uh who here wants a guy to open the car door 0.94

05:00:57.220 show of hands show of hands i teach my boys that you want the guy to open the car door should a man

05:01:03.200 open should a man open the car door for a woman yes i believe so should a man open like a door to

05:01:09.800 a restaurant yeah you know open the door whatever for a woman yes should a man observe the sidewalk

05:01:15.280 rule so walking closer to the street in the case of i don't know there's a car blast some water

05:01:21.420 if it's raining or there's there's water in the gutter or even there's an oncoming oncoming danger

05:01:28.060 and he like he's closer to the street so he can protect her from the danger of the streets i agree

05:01:35.020 he's mean streets so hold on um and then of course we've had the conversation a lot of you think men

05:01:39.980 should pay for first dates uh i don't know there's a women put a lot of shoulds on men but when men 1.00

05:01:49.840 start saying women should do x oh y'all get very i think i think my take on it is more cultural

05:01:57.740 like i'm not opposed to the bow as the as as what it is and the respect factor of it but the culture

05:02:03.920 i've never grown up doing that or i've ever done that in my life it's just a cultural thing for sure

05:02:07.960 but i understand the sentiment of it and i hear where you're coming from but i feel i've tried to

05:02:13.300 remain consistent and not have double standards and yeah i have these expectations of men i understand

05:02:19.360 that women also fall into gender roles and i'm not ignoring that i'm not like oh men should do this

05:02:25.140 this and that but i don't have to do anything except for whatever i want as a woman like no i i see where

05:02:28.980 you're coming from i feel like you're generalizing a little bit but that probably is the most popular

05:02:33.920 sentiment of what you know women who you've conversated with well i mean i've conversated

05:02:41.020 with a whole bunch of different women but i uh i guess hmm what what there's so many different 1.00

05:02:49.200 directions i can take this convo here we could go to the perfect well first i i want to say to all of

05:02:55.560 you like all those things the man should open the car door the man should open the door observe the

05:03:01.600 sidewalk rule so you're placing an expectation on a man the level of physical effort it takes to open

05:03:08.400 the car door or open a door is more than a bow yeah there's no effort to a bow i understand that

05:03:13.240 there's no effort to the bow so it's whereas these other tasks like for example if i pull up in my car

05:03:18.280 and i'm picking you up on a date i realize not all women want this or care about this but

05:03:23.920 you want me to get out of my car walk all the way around like women have the physical strength 1.00

05:03:29.980 and capacity yeah to open a car door i don't expect even all the time them opening let's say

05:03:36.700 as someone who does enjoy men who open their car doors i hear where you're coming from that it's

05:03:42.140 tedious but it's really not such a high effort thing at the end of it all to get out of your car and open

05:03:47.540 the door so i agree that it's it is low effort right but it's more what i'm saying is it's more effort

05:03:52.680 than a bow okay so what i'm saying is it's very like super easy for a woman to do this thing but 0.65

05:03:57.720 there's a bunch of whereas you're asking men to do we do something could we use another example

05:04:01.520 except for bowing though because i feel like that's kind of i'm about to ask okay how about

05:04:05.260 this um would you agree that perhaps in a traditional relationship relationship dynamic

05:04:10.960 there'd be an expectation for the woman to do laundry yeah okay cool on the first time the first 1.00

05:04:17.000 time a girl comes to my house uh-huh she can do my laundry the first time first time you don't feel 1.00

05:04:22.720 that's a little it can even be too fast for the laundry i feel like laundry like you know washing

05:04:28.480 your underwear that's kind of wait question have you ever hooked up with somebody on the first date

05:04:31.900 like first time i'm not judging honestly i have not on the first date but i have hooked up italy

05:04:37.480 can i finish i've hooked up wait can i finish i've hooked up with someone at a club before but it was

05:04:42.260 not a date and then i brought them home it was you know we knew the intention the question there is

05:04:48.180 have you ever hooked up with somebody the first time you met them yes i mean you want her to do

05:04:55.380 your laundry though aren't you preoccupied with other things foreplay do you think it's foreplay

05:05:01.820 that's your foreplay oh i get so turned on if she she goes and does my laundry that's okay i am not 0.99

05:05:08.360 opposed to that i think it's a little intimate but the laundry's intimate i but not fucking hey i don't 0.98

05:05:13.640 know that's what's crazy okay this is what's crazy about the no to the bout like women will say 0.92

05:05:17.840 no i don't want to cook for a guy no i'm not going to make a sandwich no i'm not going to do laundry

05:05:22.880 no i'm not going to hit the bow but within hours sometimes minutes not saying you just 1.00

05:05:28.160 some of y'all women will be gobbling a dick within minutes or hours you'll be sucking a dick 1.00

05:05:35.520 s-ing the d you'll be you'll let a guy come inside of you but i'm the bad guy i'm the bad guy for 1.00

05:05:42.880 wanting my laundry done i'm the sexist but you will let a man insert his penis into you dear 1.00

05:05:50.120 madame you will let a man which hey if you want to do with me that's okay but you will allow a man to 1.00

05:05:58.880 blast inside of some girls want to be blasted on their face hold on let me play a noise for that 1.00

05:06:05.160 shit oh you want a guy to blast all over you blast word yeah and i'm the bad guy because i want her 1.00

05:06:18.300 to cook and do a little bow and i wait i would be more i feel like we're losing the plot no this is 1.00

05:06:24.260 the plot the plot is on do you think that opening a car door and a girl doing your laundry is on the

05:06:32.040 same plane do you think that like do you think that's both low maintenance what if it's not

05:06:36.420 underwear what if it's just like well no no i would say it's i feel like it is higher effort than

05:06:42.620 opening a door though yeah i i would say i would say i'm not saying that you don't like i'm just

05:06:47.120 saying that i feel like but it is higher laundry and opening the car door comparing those two things

05:06:53.540 i would say laundry laundry is more is higher maintenance i don't think that compares to

05:06:58.280 opening a door how about this i'll propose a really simple one if women have an expectation 1.00

05:07:02.880 that men pay on first dates you have to actually break down the math so the math would look something

05:07:06.760 like this a lot of you are on the younger side so i don't think it would be unreasonable that

05:07:11.000 some of you younger women you know 22 20 18 21 uh you might go on a date with a guy who maybe makes 0.98

05:07:17.640 20 an hour maybe even less if you want a guy to pay for the first date let's say it's reasonable

05:07:23.540 that on the first date the guy the total check cost is 100 bucks that's not like a super fancy

05:07:30.000 place that's mid-tier place drinks appetizer main main course dessert tip a guy's paying 100 bucks on

05:07:39.840 the first date half of that he's paying for you we're not going to count his half that he's paying

05:07:44.120 for himself if a guy is going to spend 50 for you 100 total but 50 for you and he makes 20 an hour

05:07:51.660 you're asking him to work two and a half hours to take you on the date and let's say he works a

05:07:58.660 physically demanding job let's say he's a laborer let's say he's digging ditches let's say he's lift

05:08:04.440 he's he's moving he's he's a mover and he moves heavy objects whatever it is makes 20 an hour

05:08:13.300 you guys are asking a guy to take you on a date two and a half hours of work so think about that

05:08:20.980 saying that's like a ludicrous claim though or like what do you mean do you think that that's

05:08:25.760 not an equal exchange because if it's if this guy clearly is attracted to you wants to get to know

05:08:31.520 you better you don't think that's a fair trade-off the two and a half hours of labor for the two hours

05:08:36.580 of your time for example that's another power dynamic that happens to exist that benefits women 1.00

05:08:41.360 i typically think when it comes to relationships of any kind whether it's friendships dating or business

05:08:47.400 the person who's doing the reaching out versus the person who's like receiving the offer has way

05:08:54.180 more leverage and they have the power and they can set the terms right so uh but essentially you're

05:09:01.680 you're saying well it's the guy who they're coming to you they're asking you out so there there's like

05:09:07.180 the expectation that he's going to pay or whatever um sorry it's not even that's what i'm saying you're

05:09:13.000 just saying you're making it very clear for us to remember that in this scenario the guy works a

05:09:18.280 grueling job and he's giving up two and a half hours of that grueling job to go on this date but

05:09:24.140 to me if i say yes to a guy going on a date i am obviously physically attracted to him and

05:09:30.900 you know i try to be very present and engaging when i go out with people um i like to get to know them

05:09:37.380 i don't know you know maybe some girls i actually know for a fact yeah some girls do use guys just 1.00

05:09:43.020 to get the free meal or whatever but that's not what i would i guess offer to the date i would have

05:09:49.420 an engaging conversation and you know what i mean it's it's not like he's getting i think it's a worth

05:09:54.280 it trade it's just like my ultimate claim his two and a half hours of labor for that date i feel like

05:10:00.980 that's a fair exchange no but the uh is it a fair exchange

05:10:07.040 both of you are putting in the time whatever amount of time you spend on the date like there

05:10:15.180 on the actual date he also spends said time on the date so then you're getting into a bit of a

05:10:22.940 transactional territory there uh-huh uh what about the time it took to get prepared for the date

05:10:30.440 that's true yeah it takes you two and a half hours to uh yeah some days yes it does well look

05:10:36.580 from my perspective i know some guys are maybe have a different perspective i'm not a big fan of

05:10:41.540 makeup so um it doesn't always have to necessarily be makeup okay fine you gotta shave your legs you're

05:10:48.120 gonna do your hair you're gonna do your hair does that really take two and a half hours sometimes

05:10:53.060 sometimes if i go on the first date with a girl and i give her a no makeup pass i say you don't 0.68

05:10:59.080 have to wear makeup on this date you can do the other shit that you do to get ready is that how 0.89

05:11:04.360 sometimes sometimes finding the outfit doing the hair taking the shower outfit pass too uh wear some 0.95

05:11:11.360 sweatpants and uh a hoodie then where are we going yeah where are we going where do you wear

05:11:20.280 okay so so so to consider like the point of dating like the idea of dating is what you want to have

05:11:31.900 some time to get to know this person why just for the hell of it no i i would assume if you're going

05:11:39.680 out with i don't really like go through my dms and say yes to every guy who asked me on a date it's more

05:11:45.020 we had a physical interaction and i enjoyed our conversation i thought you were cute and i would

05:11:50.320 like to get to know you better maybe we have similar hobbies similar passions but then what

05:11:54.040 what do you mean but say like you have similar hobbies similar passions you guys are like cut

05:11:59.040 out for one another and then what like what happens after that well i also i date i i do date

05:12:04.940 intentionally i i have my fun i've made that clear you know as in italy whatever i have my fun but when i

05:12:09.660 choose to be in a relationship with someone it's because i see a future with them and you know i

05:12:15.280 could see us yeah i'm thinking way down the line but yeah i could maybe see us getting married maybe

05:12:19.860 having kids if you know things keep going according to plan and we continue vibing with each other and

05:12:27.040 we're compatible um so i don't know yeah we would just keep going out i don't have a particular timeline

05:12:32.360 i think that it's different in every relationship that you're in do you think that the guy who really 0.95

05:12:37.880 wants to be with you gives a shit about your outfit or like well i'll be honest like 0.89

05:12:42.900 and you know lots of people have different opinions on this but i'm a very look good feel good do good 0.98

05:12:50.700 type of person so when i'm done up like i'm wearing a cute outfit i have my makeup on i feel good about

05:12:55.880 myself and i feel like it sets me off on the right tone to take on my day so it's not it's honestly not

05:13:02.040 even really about them i do do it for me but at the same time i'm not going to say oh i don't care what

05:13:06.840 they think obviously like i want them to think i look good and whatever but it's it's deeper so

05:13:12.880 just to bring it back to the vow though because that's where this conversation stemmed from

05:13:16.140 is the reason i was bringing up okay men if you want a guy to pay for the first date the entailment

05:13:22.240 of that is he's going to have to work x amount of hours in order to be able to afford the date

05:13:28.440 uh-huh that kind of seems like a bigger well it's it's not that it just seems it is a bigger ask

05:13:36.020 than a woman bowing okay so you guys place this much bigger ask but then you scoff at this idea

05:13:44.340 of doing a completely effort effortless bow like imagine imagine here let me try to do a role reversal

05:13:51.740 here imagine if it was the case and look i realize some people go 50 50 but i think generally speaking

05:13:57.740 uh even women who are like more like she claims to be 50 50 or whatever but like you can still as a 1.00

05:14:04.740 woman go into a date and there will still be guys who will pay for your meal and like even if despite 1.00

05:14:11.420 your own wants of 50 50 i have a question just one sec but i'll get to it uh so my question is

05:14:19.280 if there was a reversal and i as the guy said in order for you to go on a date with me you need to

05:14:27.920 do you need to pay for the date you need to work you know however much time it takes you to earn

05:14:34.800 bless you 50 bucks yeah you need to work that much before you go on a date with me yeah well i think

05:14:41.340 you're kind of just calling attention to the gender roles that this society has kind of enforced our 0.98

05:14:47.000 whole life which is men being the provider and protector so what do men get so that leads to

05:14:52.840 kind of the bigger picture here is they get to go on a date with an attractive girl what do these

05:14:58.480 do women have to men what do men get out of them being traditional like what do we get out of that 0.79

05:15:07.160 well i feel that your question is more focused on long-term relationships because you are focused

05:15:14.480 more on the traditional things such as caretaking and housekeeping that maybe aren't going to happen

05:15:20.560 on your first date unless you invite the girl over to go do your laundry and clean your underwear

05:15:24.280 um or bowing for example i think you're trying to equate these two things that are different because

05:15:34.080 let's say you're you're kind of hyper focusing on how men have to put this monetary and financial

05:15:41.880 value down to go on a date with a woman and all a woman has to do is bow but obviously one of these 1.00

05:15:48.420 things is related to money one of these things is almost related to respect and some sort of power

05:15:55.080 play because i think some women might not want to bow to you because yes again it's just reinforcing 0.99

05:16:01.180 this submissive version of themselves like they're they're being submissive to you when they bow to you

05:16:07.100 and that may not be every woman's cup of tea i don't know i feel like they're not necessarily

05:16:12.580 equal i'm sorry if that wasn't super clear i'm still figuring my own thoughts out not equal like

05:16:18.980 the bow is worse is not worse but it's i feel like you're trying to equate money with the bowing

05:16:28.460 and the bowing i think is more nuanced than something as simple as okay two hours of labor

05:16:37.640 yeah that's i mean i don't think that that's simple necessarily uh-huh what it is i in the grand

05:16:45.140 scheme of things it's simple but it's far less simple than a woman simply doing a bow right 0.99

05:16:51.320 right that that's it's super easy it doesn't cost you anything anybody can do it okay i see where

05:16:57.220 you're coming from i think that in society men paying for dates is more common than women bowing 0.98

05:17:06.580 to yes i i agree so i think for that reason right so i think you're stuck on the cultural

05:17:12.140 i i am i'm trying to wrap my head on this of it yeah if there was some other thing though

05:17:17.200 that is more of a cultural cultural norm right but does manifest itself through female submissiveness 1.00

05:17:23.240 yeah what what would that be i'm trying to think of an example do you ladies have any how about this

05:17:30.840 how about this this may not occur on the first date but making you food maybe yeah so it's maybe

05:17:37.380 the first time she's coming over to the house ever whether that's the second date third date further

05:17:41.600 down whatever it is and i ask her uh-huh well i'd hope she just took it upon herself to do this

05:17:51.160 i mean it could be the laundry women should just walk into the laundry room i'm telling you ladies i 1.00

05:17:57.460 know you're gonna fucking hate this i know the feminist mind virus has plagued you the first time 1.00

05:18:03.880 you go to a dude's house don't rush to his bedroom rush to his laundry room you don't think some men 0.99

05:18:11.560 would find that odd they would find it odd they would find it odd in the sense that they've never

05:18:20.740 had that experience and it would be kind of perhaps could be deemed quirky but how could it i don't

05:18:27.920 think most men are going to view it as a negative if you were like oh hey oh nice place give me the

05:18:33.000 oh uh where's your laundry room do you have any laundry yeah could i do a load for you really quick

05:18:37.080 yeah perfect is that a green instead of taking a load of laundry instead of taking a load do a 0.89

05:18:45.380 load of laundry i think look all a lot of girls are willing to take a load true not as many women 1.00

05:18:52.140 are willing to do a load of laundry actually really quick girl i think look i think uh look

05:19:02.340 you gotta especially if you're dealing with a guy who has a lot of options you gotta set yourself 0.99

05:19:07.800 apart because give pussy a guy who's attractive like that that's not gonna make you stand out 1.00

05:19:15.300 like that you gotta bring more to the table than just sex yeah and so how are you gonna do that 1.00

05:19:20.520 won't do it for you what if she has like the baddest labia you've ever seen but she's not gonna do 1.00

05:19:26.340 your laundry guinness world it has to be guinness world record-breaking like the fucking 0.99

05:19:30.560 dmz won't leave her alone sure okay if she has a guinness world record labia uh the bow won't be 1.00

05:19:37.040 a deal breaker in that circumstance okay anyways back to my point i'm back to my point i think uh

05:19:46.740 if i'm telling you i'm giving you game you don't want to hear it because i'm listening no not you

05:19:54.540 okay you seem the world you seem pretty open-minded i don't know if you're gonna agree at the end of the

05:19:58.880 day and that's fine but uh you've been a good sport with everything but i'm telling you these

05:20:04.420 small little things that take a little effort i know you're gonna feel kind of cringe doing it

05:20:08.520 but it will put it will make the guy like you more and some people are gonna say oh you don't want

05:20:16.220 to be a pick me i'm telling you you do these small little gestures that don't really take much

05:20:20.800 work don't take much effort and it the guy is gonna be like if your goal is to get the if you 0.99

05:20:26.340 just want to fuck the guy then whatever who cares is that what you really want though yes if you want 1.00

05:20:32.040 the guy if you want the guy doing these small little things will set you apart and it's it look 1.00

05:20:39.200 there's certain things i think to myself like for the perfect woman or like a really amazing woman 0.94

05:20:46.080 there are certain things i'm willing to compromise on like what uh shit i mean i'm not gonna go into 0.96

05:20:52.540 that but uh there's certain things anyways uh good talk 0.88

05:20:56.180 so you can't leave us all right

05:21:01.340 i'm not gonna go into it but uh okay well here i'll give the example this is even crazier

05:21:08.420 from the guy's perspective i would for the perfect woman i would do a bow and that's a big l from a

05:21:15.840 dude oh interesting to do a bow to a woman yeah i did not expect but like for the perfect woman 0.97

05:21:21.400 yeah i'll even fuck it why not but in my head i'm like okay the perfect woman is like a trillionaire 1.00

05:21:27.200 and like trillionaire trillionaire like physically everything about her is my type personality 0.99

05:21:34.300 everything about her is my type yeah i'm never gonna ever encounter this in real life yeah so yeah 0.95

05:21:39.800 okay i'll sure i'll do a fucking bow once a day why not what about your future wife 1.00

05:21:45.360 would you want your potential prospect to be looking up your house on zillow before meeting you 0.98

05:21:51.000 wait what yeah like finding the layout of your home so she can get to the laundry room oh right 1.00

05:21:56.960 yeah you mentioned that uh last time uh sure okay yes yeah check yeah write that down you guys

05:22:08.600 yeah right if anyone's plotting uh but you know i think uh here maybe to do the laundry

05:22:15.960 clean cook no you don't like any of this you don't like these ideas i feel like

05:22:24.160 if i'm going on a first date oh i feel like if i'm going on a first date or anything like

05:22:29.700 what is the guy expecting of me after that date because i have a friend that goes on a lot of dates

05:22:36.020 and every time he pays he gets upset if the girl doesn't give out oh well i mean i don't think so i

05:22:42.660 think in our generation a lot of guys only want to go on a date if the girl is going to put out at the

05:22:48.240 end of that date so then there are a lot of girls that won't go on the dates in general because 1.00

05:22:53.080 they don't want to put out yeah i mean i think they just want to get to know with the person

05:22:57.780 yeah i think that's like a shitty dynamic for a guy to be like if i do this then you should

05:23:02.960 like the guy what is i think it's what is your intention going on that date and spending money

05:23:08.900 on that date i just want to clarify one thing on that though i don't think it's like i'm kind of

05:23:15.220 i think it's okay for the man to want to hook up with you but if he expects it

05:23:24.400 because he paid for the date and like that manifests itself in behavior and he's like

05:23:30.860 trying to guilt trip you and like he gets all butthurt that you didn't hook up with him i have

05:23:36.320 a lot of guy friends then that's yeah that's wrong that complain after and they're like i

05:23:40.000 don't think it's wrong for the man to have the desire but if he has the expectation and he gets 0.99

05:23:48.680 bent out of shape if you don't yeah yeah that's goofy shit that's goofy shit that's a boy and it's 0.97

05:23:53.820 gonna it's gonna lose you the girl uh so yeah i don't know don't do that i mean that's the only 0.98

05:24:02.060 thing but how do you know when a guy is going to be that type of guy i suppose you i feel like yeah

05:24:08.040 you gotta find out i mean there's probably some tells some indicators but okay final thing on the

05:24:15.240 then we have to move it on to a new topic will you bow for the perfect guy no no i forgot who said no

05:24:24.280 who said yes i said i'd have a conversation but i'm likely to lean no but you said you want the guy

05:24:29.220 to pay for the first date right i do and what if the guy says listen i'm open to paying for the first

05:24:36.000 date but i want to have a conversation with you about it first how would you feel about that i think

05:24:42.260 it's because paying for the first date as a man is more accepted in the social norm whereas bowing 0.96

05:24:49.040 isn't that's where i'm hesitant to the bowing so i don't i think that's like some bullshit you should 0.72

05:24:54.840 pay for the first date so my my perspective on the bow i i personally think i think it is a sign of 0.66

05:25:01.720 respect but i think it's also kind of a playful thing okay like if she's kind of giggling are you 0.98

05:25:06.240 sure yeah you don't want her to be like locked the hell in and like you know really oh i mean that's

05:25:11.780 good too that's what do you prefer though really think about it really think about it what do you

05:25:15.940 want i want her to do the bow okay if she giggles while she does it i'm not bent out of shape over it 1.00

05:25:22.060 okay uh i didn't know how serious this was because it is a serious no i i don't my approach

05:25:28.540 my approach to it is it could like if she wants to take it seriously uh i don't want her to do it in

05:25:36.040 the mocking way like i'm doing this uh begrudgingly right right right but if she's doing it

05:25:41.060 with it maybe okay she can if she wants to or if she wants to take it more seriously like then

05:25:48.000 that's good too heard um perfect guy would you bow for the perfect guy perfect guy is he exact looks

05:25:57.680 all your looks requirements all your personality requirements loyal will never cheat uh billionaire

05:26:04.800 that's the perfect guy won't bow for the perfect guy it's like if i couldn't have him unless i bowed

05:26:10.780 then okay i'd bow yes that is the you must bow everyone would bow you're lying if you said you

05:26:17.380 wouldn't bow or you hate your life it's one of the two um i would bow would you bow for the 0.88

05:26:22.940 sex worker dude who you're giving no are you saying that's your dream guy 0.91

05:26:27.900 i don't think so i mean um you wouldn't do it wait i have a question for you um

05:26:34.300 if a company you're you do modeling right or you said you do modeling uh for certain brands yeah

05:26:41.240 okay what if a uh i don't know what's a fucking hold on guys i know sorry i'm gonna get to the 0.98

05:26:49.760 ttss in just a sec i see a couple ttss coming through i know you guys are probably waiting for

05:26:54.760 them i apologize for the delay i'm gonna get them in just a sec 0.95

05:26:57.240 i don't know some big modeling company or some maybe fuck it uh walmart goes full retard and they 1.00

05:27:07.680 want to hire you to uh work at walmart nine to five monday through friday but they're going to pay 0.97

05:27:13.940 you 10 million dollars a year to do it all you have to do is uh just do a little bow to all the

05:27:20.260 guests that walk through that's it you greet you're a greeter that gets paid 10 mil a year

05:27:25.020 no offense to you no offense to anybody at this table probably even myself well yeah even myself

05:27:31.340 and i will see probably nobody here is going to make be making 10 million dollars a year

05:27:37.360 no offense anybody probably not going to happen uh i mean some of you might say speak for yourself

05:27:43.640 anyways would you take that job how long am i doing that job for oh i mean it could be as

05:27:54.640 maybe you're like you know what i can live off of 10 mil so i'll do it for a year yeah because it's

05:28:00.960 a greeter it's their way of greeting it's not a form of like submitting to your partner like if you

05:28:07.920 said you're submitting to your employer instead i think that's more of just the way they're asking

05:28:15.280 me to greet their guests and every employer has different ways of greeting guests like i've worked

05:28:20.240 at an amusement park and had a weird ass for me to like greet the guests i've worked at in retail 0.79

05:28:25.560 where a character in like a what were the suits called a mascot suit no i'm not short enough okay 0.86

05:28:31.860 um what kind of jobs have you had like have you ever worked retail have you worked at a restaurant i

05:28:36.820 worked at in retail for the past two years i was a personal stylist i worked at an amusement park in

05:28:43.380 three different jobs what was the amusement park job uh i did ride photo i did front gate photography

05:28:49.920 i did food service food service and then the food service job did that ever involve cleaning 0.96

05:28:56.520 yeah and it did it ever involve like taking uh orders from customers you know like okay what can

05:29:03.800 i get you hey how's your day going yeah can i get you some more water yeah that's not i'm not mocking

05:29:10.040 your voice yeah this is my girl voice no i get it um and then you had a boss who would say show up at

05:29:16.120 this time yeah you had a boss that said go over there do this yeah yeah sometimes were they mean to

05:29:21.560 you have you ever had a bad boss um not mean in that way okay but you've had a boss who gave you

05:29:31.060 direction yeah yeah basically okay how much did you get paid for that job uh at the amusement park

05:29:39.440 five dollars an hour it was in pennsylvania is it hershey park whoa five dollars an hour yes was that

05:29:47.400 like 15 years ago a while ago shit that's still their minimum wage 725 is the minimum wage in 0.92

05:29:53.240 pennsylvania currently because i was under 16 oh so they exploited you but so just back to this 0.92

05:30:01.600 though been there so it's interesting to me though so i i gave you the opportunity to do

05:30:08.440 a bow once a day for your perfect man and this perfect man could be a billionaire to the point

05:30:15.000 where you're set up for life if you're with him and i assume you'd want to stay with him for life

05:30:19.680 because he's the perfect guy right my perfect guy wouldn't make me do that well it's perfect

05:30:25.960 but this right yeah so like perfect but i don't know it could be anything like they're perfect but

05:30:33.720 i prefer brunettes but they have blonde hair like everything else about them is perfect but x thing 1.00

05:30:39.160 so it's interesting to me you'll do like this you'll work the you worked for five dollars an hour

05:30:48.140 yeah and you were submissive to your employer for five dollars an hour but you could be with a guy

05:30:58.040 who asks one thing of you just this one thing that's way easier than all the things you had to

05:31:04.560 do at that job but you won't do it because it's why the meaning behind that one thing it kind of

05:31:12.820 devalues me as a person you think being a wage slave for a giga corporation is not

05:31:19.880 you don't think that that is worse i don't know i mean when i was 15 years old and that's the only

05:31:27.260 place i can get a job because i'm literally 15 years old well yeah why would i not take a job i can

05:31:34.000 have that's not really in dispute here what's in dispute is now you're 25 and i don't do those

05:31:40.440 jobs anymore sure but i'm presenting to you a hypothetical yeah and i i mean i'm not sure

05:31:45.300 even the jobs you currently take there's somebody who's directing you somebody who's telling you to

05:31:51.640 do xyz is that fair in the current job i have no i'm like i work for myself what do you do for work

05:32:00.280 social media content creation and brand marketing yes but i'm telling them what to do

05:32:06.880 okay so you're consulting or whatever yeah okay you have had experience though yes working some

05:32:12.280 shitty job i like i get that you don't do it now you did do those jobs you would in the future do 0.78

05:32:18.100 a job where somebody was giving you orders to do something if it paid like 10 million dollars a year

05:32:23.940 as a crazy example working at walmart literally doing the thing that you won't do for your perfect guy

05:32:31.700 because it's the value is different it like getting paid to do something is different than

05:32:39.720 my partner asking me to submit to him like if he's asking me for a kiss on the cheek every day like

05:32:47.020 greeting him when i when he gets home from work okay that's different than a bow

05:32:51.120 it's just it it's emblematic of the unwillingness for women to do an even harmless benign 1.00

05:33:01.600 ask because of the determination that it's submissive i think it's devaluing me as a human

05:33:09.580 it's like okay usually if like somebody's going to bow to you it's like they're your servant this so

05:33:16.320 this brings us to our next i'm not their servant would you want a guy to be willing you want a guy

05:33:20.520 to protect you right yeah okay so i think it devalues men that women want men to die for them

05:33:27.940 so how does this work out even the sidewalk rule observing the sidewalk rule women want men to 1.00

05:33:34.960 walk closer to the street so the entailment of that is if a car comes like barreling down the road 0.93

05:33:41.960 and i don't know goes whatever they're drunk or fucking tire blows whatever he's more likely to 0.90

05:33:47.340 take the blow from the car and die or be injured than the woman that's kind of where this stems from 0.98

05:33:52.880 that that that's the originate well not totally the origination that goes further back like 1.00

05:33:57.440 streets were dirty so i don't know whatever fucking i think horses and shit um 0.98

05:34:04.300 oh what i was gonna say i think the difference between that and the situation is that men want 0.99

05:34:10.440 to do that i've talked to a lot of men that want to die for their family i love it men want to do

05:34:17.940 want they want to be protectors they want to be do you not feel any instinctual almost desire to

05:34:26.000 protect your woman yeah uh yeah i do absolutely i think that's what you're saying basically but

05:34:31.820 women have an expectation on men that men do fulfill that role and there's i think if the expectation on 0.96

05:34:40.400 men is you have to be willing to die for me you better be willing to fucking bow for me if you have 0.99

05:34:47.340 an expectation that i have to fucking die that's way crazier that's a bigger way bigger ask way 1.00

05:34:54.960 bigger ask but yeah of course i want to protect i'll protect my girl shit i remember a couple years 1.00

05:35:00.500 back i was kicking it with my girl and there was a raccoon and she was scared of the fucking raccoon 1.00

05:35:05.620 and uh and i fucking i'm not going to go into detail but i took care of the raccoon oh shoot you killed 0.99

05:35:14.620 it no i didn't i didn't say i killed it i took care it was off the record i made it an offer it 0.99

05:35:22.800 couldn't refuse the raccoon was being aggressive i didn't want the raccoon to give my fucking 0.99

05:35:28.420 girlfriend rabies yeah probably rabid so raccoon put you in a self-defense situation and i dealt with 0.99

05:35:34.140 good but i put myself at risk okay raccoons have raccoons can fuck somebody up oh they can they're 0.71

05:35:41.940 not playing okay i have a question for you because i think this might clear something yeah let's clear 0.85

05:35:47.420 clear it up okay would you rather would you rather die in in combat or or protecting your family or

05:35:54.560 would you rather die um i don't know i need another scenario die i don't know by falling down the

05:36:02.200 stairs yeah chuckle on a sandwich protecting my family protecting my family based valor yeah 0.96

05:36:09.600 because it's like you yeah you want to die you want that like no but i'd rather die in honor 0.67

05:36:15.040 obviously but if you have the choice and and obviously you would choose combat because you

05:36:23.420 want that right no i wouldn't what no i would not pick combat what you wouldn't want to die out and 0.82

05:36:28.820 like a shootout and like be like yeah i'm a fucking man i protected my family like that's 0.93

05:36:32.380 fucking cool no i thought you would well i thought you put them together stop stop stop hold on the 0.99

05:36:40.020 original comparison was would you rather die protecting your family or die at war no no if 0.99

05:36:46.180 it's between the two i would much rather die protecting my family than in some war no no it was

05:36:52.840 either or and then that situation or would you like rather die falling down the stairs choking

05:36:57.480 on a sandwich or something that was the well i think i don't think you thought that that question

05:37:01.520 i think maybe i didn't i think even those two like there there's a big difference obviously you're

05:37:06.260 dying for honor both of the scenario but you're making a larger closer impact when you're dying for

05:37:10.240 your family versus dying for a country per se and not all our wars are totally justified so

05:37:16.260 you know why look i guess

05:37:19.020 y'all want a protector and the ultimate potential manifestation of a man being a protector is

05:37:27.620 to die protecting you and you can't hit a bow i can't i can't argue that i mean it is an ultimate

05:37:34.640 sacrifice yeah i'm bowing good w's i said that i would so yeah some of the people here said no

05:37:43.360 i still don't get the like the walmart thing though that's my confusion because i'm getting

05:37:48.180 paid you're getting but if you're with but if you're with the billionaire like a somebody who's

05:37:57.380 a billionaire that's a lot more than for them i'm their partner yeah but if you're like if you're

05:38:03.120 that's why i said are you looking for an assistant or a girlfriend are you looking for a boyfriend or

05:38:09.640 a father a bodyguard i'm not oh yeah that's a good one are you looking for a husband a boyfriend

05:38:17.960 or a bodyguard i don't like it's like i just want a partner i want a friendship i want somebody to grow

05:38:27.060 with me are you looking for a boyfriend or an atm machine are you looking for a boyfriend

05:38:33.840 a boyfriend or a pay pig i i don't care about money i support myself you definitely care about

05:38:39.440 money i mean you said you want a guy to pay for first dates and be a provider i'm financially

05:38:44.100 independent okay so you date a guy who makes i want a man i don't need a man there's a difference

05:38:49.080 mcdonald's or doesn't have a job i have you'd be fine with that your preference

05:38:54.640 uh i would like values i want a man that has drive and motivation and like wants a career for himself

05:39:04.340 but i don't expect his career to be like rich i don't need a man to be rich do you want to be the

05:39:12.020 breadwinner no i don't need to be the breadwinner do you i don't know i don't know if you're realizing 0.94

05:39:16.540 how like circular and how like completely fucked your logic is i think you know i think you're i don't 0.99

05:39:22.320 values have not quite fully been defined and i don't really know because the value is based on 0.94

05:39:28.800 the connection i have with that person it's i'm not going after money it's not about that you said 0.97

05:39:33.560 earlier that you could be like three four dates in with a guy and that if mr sex worker whore comes 1.00

05:39:41.560 back and was like i will commit to you you'll be like okay i feel like that proves that she doesn't 0.96

05:39:47.900 based off of monetary value because this is a guy who is a sex worker if he wanted i'm just i'm just

05:39:56.020 saying in the argument that you guys are making right now and saying that she believes in more

05:39:59.100 monetary value i feel like that example does not go with your argument okay um well we have a couple

05:40:05.980 chats we got to get through here we're gonna shift off of this topic uh okay wait did i oh davon

05:40:13.160 i'm sorry bro this i apologize for the delay devon jackson donated 100 did i do this one what do i get 0.97

05:40:20.020 in return your fucking bills paid a man that's willing to die for you a man that wants to make 0.99

05:40:26.500 your life as easy as possible and give you options it takes a half sec to be why fight it 1.00

05:40:32.840 thank you davon what yes what do men get in return what do men get happiness happy you get happiness

05:40:42.220 no it's a lot of stress a lot of stress for the women for the guys or for the guy for the guy 1.00

05:40:47.220 to deal with a woman yeah but women get stressed out too innately but it's all stressful but it's all 0.99

05:40:52.820 supposed to be about love but you get that too yeah so but the there's one direction in which

05:41:01.100 the protecting and the providing goes so what's the one direction that women give to men 1.00

05:41:08.400 not the fucking band giving them children because that's the one thing that men can't do 0.99

05:41:14.660 that that is the answer but she doesn't want to have kids so what is the one thing i don't even like 0.99

05:41:19.720 kids yeah what's the what's the one thing the one direction oh my one direction not the fucking band 0.99

05:41:25.260 the one thing that by the way davon that i'm sorry your tts took so long if you send in a 10 0.92

05:41:34.220 we'll treat it as a a read if you if you want you don't have to but we'll give you a like a sort of

05:41:40.000 freebie kind of if you want to send in uh what do men get one directionally

05:41:45.100 i'm not sure

05:41:49.480 protect me be my security guard be my atm machine provide

05:41:56.920 what do men get what duties do women have to men 1.00

05:42:02.600 to be there for them but that goes the other way yeah it does but a girl doesn't have to do that for 0.98

05:42:11.420 all men like girls choose to do that right but a guy can stay with a girl just because she's prettier

05:42:18.960 just because she's young a lot of guys just pay to be with women that's so i i agree so here's where

05:42:25.160 i i guess i agree men are getting ripped off men are not getting a fair deal so i agree that like a

05:42:32.800 woman so if a woman is doing the respect the loving the caring for that man why is that not a fair

05:42:40.580 trade-off when he could just pay for a girl that doesn't care about him i'm not really following

05:42:46.720 you're asking for an assistant does she actually care you're asking for a security guard in an atm

05:42:51.660 machine i'm not yes you are you want a guy to protect and provide yeah men are really good at

05:42:59.760 admitting how they can sacrifice i noticed they're really good at communicating that but women have such 1.00

05:43:04.620 a hard time discussing what they can sacrifice what do women crazy what do women bring to the table 1.00

05:43:10.180 usually what we're sacrificing is is our i don't know for to some degree like our ability to you

05:43:17.760 know work and make money and all that but like you're also like raising kids you're taking care

05:43:21.860 of your home sacrifice that's a good you know yeah right but it's but it's a but it's a valid one

05:43:26.360 it is absolutely one i would gladly like not work for like a decade if like i got to you know stay

05:43:32.420 home and take care of my home take care of my kids take care of my animals take care of my man

05:43:36.920 take you know but women will submit to their employer but they won't submit to their husbands 1.00

05:43:42.160 that's that's what i'm saying won't keep you warm exactly it means nothing i think that in you know

05:43:47.960 withholding the traditional values of a woman being a caretaker both you know of the house and of the

05:43:54.400 family i think that in a sense she's sacrificing her autonomy in a way that maybe you aren't as a man

05:44:00.880 because she cannot let's say she has a passion she wants to be a musician or whatever she wants

05:44:06.420 to be a doctor she's focused on those household tasks rather than pursuing that i mean you can 1.00

05:44:14.320 treat it as a hobby i mean like you know i enjoy music i enjoy yeah but i'm just saying she wouldn't

05:44:19.060 be able to achieve her career goals if that was her priority you know so i would review that as a

05:44:26.500 privilege though the privilege to not have to work men don't unless there's rare i hear where

05:44:32.620 you're coming from there's really rare situations where some people do love what they do so men have

05:44:38.340 really only two scenarios they can ever fall into they they can get into a 50 50 or they can be the

05:44:44.740 primary breadwinner but it's really rare that a man can ever go into any sort of dating situation

05:44:51.700 with the expectation that the woman is going to take care of everything i realize that it 0.99

05:44:56.240 occasionally happens i think the women financially yeah i think the women are typically really 1.00

05:45:01.240 dissatisfied with that dynamic even boss babes are like the fuck is this scrub yeah definitely but i 0.99

05:45:08.600 kind of think that's a privilege to like if you find a guy who's willing to take care of you 0.99

05:45:13.320 that's a privilege to not have to work working sucks yeah that's a good working sucks i think it's a 0.65

05:45:20.660 difference in values though because i will say that i i myself i don't consider myself money

05:45:26.980 motivated i know plenty of other women who aren't money motivated i i know plenty of struggling artist 1.00

05:45:33.360 friends who would choose that life over maybe a more soft and comfortable life but they're not

05:45:38.540 pursuing their passions right well then then you get into the passion people can have a choice i think

05:45:44.960 people can have choices but i think as a woman if you're going to start holding men to

05:45:50.200 traditional gender expectations traditional gender roles i think look a lot of women can

05:45:56.100 still get it you can be a total degenerate modern woman and still get men who are going to pay for 1.00

05:46:01.560 dates be a protector do all these things i'm just saying from a bird's eye perspective looking down at

05:46:07.060 the chessboard it seems like a pretty raw deal for men women continue to reap the benefits of 1.00

05:46:12.900 traditional behavior and men but they won't be traditional women women have completely uh not 0.99

05:46:19.440 revoked isn't the right word women have forsaken their traditional roles but still demand men adhere 1.00

05:46:26.220 to theirs and i think women can still get it but it's a really raw deal for men i'm gonna let a couple

05:46:32.360 chats come through before i do though i want to try to get the people who haven't been able to say as

05:46:37.100 much to do you want to weigh in on this convo or nothing to add ellie what about you you want to

05:46:41.440 weigh in nothing you want to just keep death staring yes the cameras okay rock and roll we have a chat

05:46:47.240 here davon oh thank you man appreciate it man oops devon jackson donated 100 cheers man thank you

05:46:53.020 i'm more than happy to pay the full amount to make these women think for once in their lives 0.99

05:46:57.720 chair one is awful and chair four talked about paying for chefs and maids men get nothing from women

05:47:04.300 like this who's chair one and chair four uh chair one you're chair four what did i do so i guess

05:47:09.720 here i'll pose the question again i'll pose the question again what women want men to do xyz women 1.00

05:47:17.780 want men to be protectors and providers that's one directional that goes from men to women what 0.58

05:47:23.960 do women do what duties do women have what do women do uniquely to women we raised the kids 0.99

05:47:34.220 we have well to you since it's kind of directed to you could you repeat the question one more time

05:47:39.140 i didn't want to take up more time speaking so what duties do women have either to men or to society 1.00

05:47:45.460 um well in terms of gender roles i feel like i've discussed the duties that women have yeah i said

05:47:52.720 theoretically if me and my partner were in a position where we were financially free and able

05:47:58.580 to get help around the house such as a chef and maid that would be ideal for me just because i have

05:48:03.980 other interests and hobbies but i do think those are things that women traditionally provide so i

05:48:11.500 think that you think but i mean realistically speaking most people are not going to have the

05:48:15.620 level of wealth yeah so i i i think in that scenario then the women can provide that if you adhere to a 1.00

05:48:25.180 traditional relationship which is the topic of this conversation i'm gonna let some more chats come

05:48:30.180 through uh inaccroachable i apologize for the delay on these you sent

05:48:34.800 inaccroachable donated 100 the only reasonable thing to do after a woman does your laundry on the 1.00

05:48:43.400 first day sorry for the delay what's your ring size so he's saying essentially if a woman that's 1.00

05:48:49.700 wifey material yeah you do the laundry i don't know you want to get the guy maybe you know do the 1.00

05:48:57.320 thing i'll add it to the inaccroachable i apologize for the delay for getting that in um if you want

05:49:03.300 to send in a 10 we'll treat it because of the delay i know it doesn't totally make up for the delay of

05:49:09.500 pulling it up you want to send in a 10 we'll treat it as a a read uh tts basically thank you man

05:49:15.520 thank you walmart thank you walmart boss donated two hundred dollars i would bow for the 10 million

05:49:22.180 then head over to mykonos for a vacation easy that's what that's where i get confused is

05:49:28.380 you'll do all these things within the framework of an employer employee dynamic

05:49:35.460 and by the way your employer will fire you when it's just there's no loyalty like employers especially

05:49:44.360 major corporations won't show you any loyalty the moment you become whatever whatever they're

05:49:51.540 they're gone they're gonna fire you you could work for a company for actually you know what i want to

05:49:56.540 tell you guys something uh my dad was working for this company for something like 20 30 years

05:50:03.080 he recently retired and uh i hope he's okay with me i'm not going to share details but um

05:50:09.980 and he was working he could have and he was well paid he was uh i'll leave i don't want to go into

05:50:16.760 details but he could have like jumped ship oftentimes the best way to make more money

05:50:22.740 is not to ask for a raise it's to go to a different company that's the way most people

05:50:27.380 have like big jumps in their salary and their income he stayed with this company for 20 30 years

05:50:33.900 something like that and uh they let him go sorry he was kind of planning on retiring

05:50:41.320 a little bit later down the line soon anyways but they fired him he was with them for 20 30 years

05:50:47.960 no there wasn't any uh i don't know it's like the typical hr

05:50:54.680 he got paid severance but it was very impersonal and he was upset by it because he's like hey i've been

05:51:01.740 working for this company for 20 30 years and not even like a thank you for your if you're gonna

05:51:08.340 fire somebody who's worked for you for 20 30 years yeah you should you know have a little not just like 0.84

05:51:14.540 the hr lady who's been there for six months calls you in who's fucking mid-20s you know is this he's 0.99

05:51:20.180 an you know older guy you you have i don't know maybe the ceo says something whatever so he's a

05:51:25.960 little upset by that that's what's gonna happen though with your corporations you're gonna you're

05:51:30.480 gonna work work work you're gonna labor labor labor and they'll just get rid of you and they're 0.89

05:51:34.660 gonna i'm telling you a corporation the boss whatever kind of work you're gonna do it's gonna

05:51:41.340 ask way more of you than the husband will yeah and it's meaningless work too so that's where i'm

05:51:45.640 confused with this i won't bow for the perfect guy but i will clean tables and clean toilets and

05:51:51.940 clean bathrooms and do all this for a company and make 20 an hour five dollars an hour but you won't 0.99

05:51:59.940 bow for the perfect guy okay just kind of i don't know whatever shit shit okay all right we've got 0.91

05:52:08.900 more chats coming through uh thank you man uh iron man underscore 960 donated 100 i would like to 0.94

05:52:19.260 see all of these women do an experiment they should start a profile as a man and try to get a woman to 1.00

05:52:25.040 date them using mid pick and their income can't be more than the median income why would we do that

05:52:32.240 that wouldn't work sounds like a lot of work yeah i'm already that is that is a good idea do we have

05:52:39.240 uh oh we do have uh age do we have nick do you have those pulled up age and gender swap okay we'll get

05:52:49.040 to that in a bit we're like my brother thank you iron man though thank you that is a good point

05:52:54.520 you know i think the big thing is if you were to put i don't know i think average women don't want 1.00

05:53:00.920 average men that's and if you guys were to hop on a dating app and like gender swap your photos 0.89

05:53:08.260 you'd be like damn she if i was born a man i'd be an incel basically do you think average men want 0.67

05:53:17.460 average women 100 oh yeah absolutely how often do you think mothers before anything is signed and 0.98

05:53:23.380 before being asked to do so volunteer to get dna tests done for their babies that's right i have no

05:53:28.860 idea volunteer zero percent zero zero percent really i yeah maybe there's a couple there's

05:53:35.740 like a couple women who are like the only reason you would volunteer to get a dna test if you're 1.00

05:53:40.060 not sure the yeah open or polyamorous relationship which i feel like if you're volunteering or it could

05:53:48.340 just be like a really based woman you're trying to figure something out who volunteers i guess it

05:53:52.340 should be mandatory oh by the way guys tts is down to a hundred now we've lowered it if you guys want

05:53:57.360 to get the tts in hundred dollar tts christopher donated one hundred dollars if you want the man

05:54:05.360 you could at least provide him the security that the family is actually his and offer to get the dna

05:54:12.260 test done as soon as possible before he even asks i think that's totally valid and i would hope that

05:54:18.240 well in in the sense it wouldn't even need to happen because you're so sure it's yours but

05:54:22.920 it would happen out of the respect and the comfort and knowledge of knowing that's but i feel like i

05:54:30.180 feel like if you have different though that's that's your child i feel like you have to just some men

05:54:34.120 have been tricked you know raising a kid that's not actually there's biologically women have too 1.00

05:54:39.640 because the babies they can get switched at birth oh that's true that's true like way more than you 0.97

05:54:45.520 would think yeah damn boozled uh we have baja here thank you christopher though thank you 0.64

05:54:50.900 donated one hundred dollars after listening to everyone talk ellie is the only single girl that 0.96

05:54:57.260 is a wife ellie barely talked so i think that says a lot about you i finally find a wife material girl 1.00

05:55:03.460 but i am out of her age range oh what does that mean um i'm scared right how old are you

05:55:10.940 baja what would you have like a send in a resume oh baja she hasn't that's not an outright rejection 0.55

05:55:18.800 what details do you want to know about baja baja yeah age would be great ethnicity probably you

05:55:26.160 only did location such a real name good time um i mean that's pretty much it baseline and then

05:55:34.540 everything else more details just age and race that age race i mean he says i'm good wife material

05:55:39.980 i mean i'll take what i can get that sounds like a great deal he wants you to baby bird him

05:55:46.020 of course yes obedience first you want to know his job you want to know anything else job i mean

05:55:54.700 yeah i'd hope that um he's not a sex worker i'd maybe ask for his shots fired test results test results

05:56:02.740 yeah just like you know sexually transmitted diseases how many sexual partners he's had in his 0.94

05:56:08.760 entire life body count yeah how good at math are you yeah exactly here we'll do this baja age

05:56:15.120 race job body count and how many if you have um oh and if you're vaccinated if you have vd

05:56:23.320 that's you want them to be vaxxed or not vaxxed well don't say that because then he's going to say

05:56:28.840 whatever you want yeah i need to tell me if he's vaccinated or not the the fauci ouchie okay all

05:56:35.660 right she needs to know all right we have young serpent young underscore serpent donated one hundred

05:56:44.400 dollars it is depressing to watch the current dating scene feels like a lot women today want an atm

05:56:51.380 bodyguard and model all in one but don't want to be partners what happened to the 80s slash 90s type

05:56:58.900 of love is there anything specific you're asking though what do you want out of the partnership what

05:57:03.500 what does 80s 90s type of love mean what does that mean as a woman i think johnny polygon said it really

05:57:10.700 well the worst thing to happen to your love life was the internet okay yeah so just being present i

05:57:17.500 guess i have a good one on this young serpent she does ask what do you mean by 80s 90s type of love

05:57:24.540 young serpent if you want to send another one in tell us what what that is what is 80s 90s type of love

05:57:30.300 what do you guys think about this

05:57:31.900 who here has a tiktok account who here doom scrolls try not to but all right how about this

05:57:42.120 how about this forget the bow forget the bow your boyfriend in his determination

05:57:47.740 this is a bit redundant has deemed that it's bad for you to be on tiktok doom scrolling and he says

05:57:58.400 i want you to delete tiktok from your phone and instagram reels and snapchat and facebook and 0.96

05:58:08.080 her piece of mind let's just let's just keep it tiktok's the most arse retarded so 1.00

05:58:14.140 we're loud we're we've guys here at the chat we've eased up on some of our uh you know tos language we've 0.99

05:58:24.920 we've eased up on it i guess all these platforms are like more chill with some of the shit anyways 0.99

05:58:30.360 um what was i saying you were saying your boyfriend wants to delete oh yeah tiktok's the most retarded 0.99

05:58:37.180 so he's just like whatever you can have facebook reels whatever but you have to delete tiktok

05:58:44.300 is he asking or telling me he can put parental controls on my phone if that needs to be

05:58:50.340 parental controls i think that's a good argument and what you were talking about how being somebody

05:58:56.020 mentioned it i think it was you about how being online is like the worst thing for your relationship

05:58:59.600 and i think that is what whoever made the comment about wanting the 80s 90s type of love it's yeah i

05:59:06.460 think social media does have a lot of cons to it but i will be honest i am a content creator and i do

05:59:11.920 make money from social media i see a lot of the pros i acknowledge that there are cons to it such as

05:59:17.700 doom scrolling and frying your brain and your dopamine and comparison xyz i wouldn't do it

05:59:23.440 though because i do enjoy the lifestyle that i live because of social media but i think that there

05:59:28.840 is a lot of beauty and humanity to being totally disconnected from social media it's just i'm not

05:59:33.860 in a place where i can do that to be honest so what if it was all just gone tomorrow then i think that

05:59:38.600 would be beautiful but but like that's not a reality well okay so like how would you feel if you

05:59:43.920 didn't eat breakfast this morning i'd i'd probably be okay so there's the hypothetical engagement there

05:59:50.220 like if it was all gone uh-huh no social media no internet uh-huh gone yeah what would you do

05:59:58.940 learn to live without it i feel like that's not what you asked that's like your but that's like

06:00:03.780 your livelihood so i mean obviously i mean it's not my only source of income it is one of my sources

06:00:09.240 of income and i just i enjoy social media i like making a little thirst trap sue me i like being a

06:00:15.400 gen z baby um so yeah i would figure out how to live without it and i'm sure that you know we would

06:00:22.080 all have much more genuine relationships with the people around us if social media doesn't exist but

06:00:26.500 it does exist and it's not going to go anywhere so i welcome a blackout i hope one day it's never

06:00:33.720 gonna happen total black with the way the technology is advancing it's never gonna happen

06:00:37.900 never know uh question for ellie though you know the chat's fucking simping over you but ellie can 0.96

06:00:43.920 you you know what we got to change it change shit up a little bit okay ellie do you want to tell us 0.95

06:00:48.880 tell the chat like what red flags you have red flags of which there are many right gosh that i have 0.86

06:00:56.480 that you have personal red flags about me yeah like okay dispel some of this like caution proceed

06:01:03.440 with caution um red flag i guess i'm really insecure and i think that kind of comes off narcissistic

06:01:14.880 sometimes because i'm so like worried about like my image or whatever and that kind of like i always

06:01:21.040 think about how others are perceiving me so that can get annoying maybe um i use a lot of filler

06:01:26.780 words like almond like i am a zoomer so i'm on my phone all day um i don't really get out much

06:01:33.520 um i don't know what else there's some probing questions that i can go with here

06:01:39.840 any of like something about your background or something that is red flag or what's the craziest

06:01:46.240 thing you've ever done to like a partner or an ex or something i don't have any she hasn't even

06:01:50.460 held hands she's very pure oh yes wait would you hold hands with a girl huh well yes not in a

06:01:55.680 romantic way okay yeah no there's there's no homo relations going on here good for you i haven't 1.00

06:02:04.360 found that out about myself yet job right on nothing wrong with those homo relations by the way 1.00

06:02:09.540 chat you made a good choice what uh awkward what about like like you like you you turn your socks

06:02:18.000 inside out like when you're done like a red a real red flag i feel like that's a beige it's not really

06:02:23.740 that right um do you have any mental illnesses well i did get prescribed zoloft but i never picked up

06:02:32.380 my prescription because um like i don't know ssris are kind of freaky yeah they have that okay oh dude 0.99

06:02:39.740 we got decoy voice in the chat you know what uh hey nick pull up decoy voices instagram wait let me

06:02:45.900 just uh decoy voice i'm gonna get you a girlfriend bro i'm your wing i'm winning the guy who i am no

06:02:52.200 somebody else uh decoy let me check do you have photos on your instagram or is it just like you post

06:02:57.540 uh do you post oh okay oh wait okay decoy bts on instagram all right pull him up uh oh i got you

06:03:08.540 decoy all right he's a youtuber now look 3 000 followers on instagram but let me just you know build 0.98

06:03:16.300 him up a little bit here click on that youtube link from decoy voice click that shit uh wait hold 0.77

06:03:23.860 on check it before just just do a quick check make sure it's like there's nothing 0.96

06:03:27.060 you know he's not posting like weird shit it's fine it's clean okay yeah go ahead we gotta be 0.77

06:03:34.200 careful when we open up links live you know all right pull it up all right oh look at this guy hey 0.99

06:03:40.540 by the way get this fucking guy to a million subscribers what the fuck this guy's been grinding 0.99

06:03:45.840 50 49 000 subscribers away i like his thumb get him get him over the uh get him over the precipice 0.99

06:03:53.800 get him over the edge that sounded weird okay uh scroll down this guy does good views okay he's not

06:04:01.980 nothing uh oh my goodness 500k views five days ago congratulations man so successful guy don't let

06:04:09.440 the 3 000 on instagram whatever and there's more to somebody than their following count okay pull up

06:04:15.280 the instagram again though just want to say he's not a scrub he's no scrub all right okay he's with

06:04:21.200 brett cooper he got her pregnant can you click the brett cooper picture click the click the brett

06:04:27.640 cooper picture the girl good job decoy you know i knew i knew you had it in you he got her pregnant 0.88

06:04:35.080 just kidding that that's a he's never mind exile that scroll down click the tim pool one

06:04:42.420 like the picture of the cat all right he got tim pool pregnant just kidding x out that uh he's

06:04:49.480 playing what is that game you're playing what is the pickleball pickleball he has a cat single

06:04:54.980 pickle look at that he's athletic no he's athletic all right so going around the table that's so real

06:05:01.060 you should ask him play the video the or play the the video where he's walking what's he saying

06:05:05.800 click it he put it on video tab and yes what he's saying all right he didn't know he he's he thought

06:05:13.500 he was just lurking in the chat he didn't play the

06:05:16.140 offices for a little meet i decided to go hang out at the promenade where i used to work it's actually

06:05:22.080 really sad to see how bad this place has gotten because half the stores are not even open anymore

06:05:27.240 and like there's a guy busking behind me and it's like on a night like this at least when i was here

06:05:33.940 they used to make like hundreds of dollars a day and basically he's busking yeah you can just uh

06:05:38.920 it's just sad okay you heard his voice forget about it what's his what is his accent

06:05:44.600 i don't know are you boston yeah something like that i see i hear it he lives in la yeah decoy in

06:05:52.100 the chat is he still he might not even are you watching dude are you in chat is he is he in the

06:05:56.840 chat i haven't seen if he's been typing he probably like is he is he in the chat decoy

06:06:03.940 are you in the chat uh i'll keep an eye on it if you're watching what's your accent dude going

06:06:08.880 around the table would you date decoy did he ask for this no i'm just is this your homeboy he's my 1.00

06:06:15.900 homie okay he's my homie and by the way i just want to say before you make your decision huge penis 0.99

06:06:21.600 giant penis and very charming and rich and he's korean he says he's korean he says all right 0.99

06:06:30.580 he might want the bow he's gonna hate me after most likely uh going around the table would you 1.00

06:06:35.520 go on a date with and by the way some of y'all are in la he's in la you know i can hook it up uh

06:06:42.380 would you date decoy date or go on what's his name what's your name dude here we're gonna call

06:06:47.140 him jack i don't know what's his real i don't know what go on a date or yeah go on a date with

06:06:53.280 him i would give him a chance oh decoy voice there you go uh what about you you're no not not my type

06:07:00.200 okay what about no no you don't like asian guys no i do actually i'm actually really into asian guys

06:07:06.360 he's korean i know um what's the problem i'm very very very into the guy that i'm in that situation

06:07:13.100 with oh like you said you were single though i am single but i'm making i'm gonna fight for this one

06:07:19.060 the guy wait just to be clear the guy who yes very rudely yes i had a huge problem with it if you

06:07:26.440 recall i know didn't show up to your really really important dance recital and then he hasn't talked to

06:07:34.980 for a week well i can't check my phone now but i know he was blowing up my phone before i got in

06:07:39.980 here okay i just haven't been able i'm just saying for decoy i don't know if decoy was is was in the

06:07:46.000 whatever but he would have showed up to that dance thing you know that he would have showed up for

06:07:51.640 sure would you date him i'm a personality girl so i would have to have a conversation with him maybe

06:07:56.800 stalk social media a little bit maybe yeah but how do you make an initial decision have you been on a

06:08:00.780 dating app honestly like no oh okay well i mean like how do you make an initial assessment like

06:08:07.380 oh i'm gonna date a guy well i typically meet them in some sort of social setting and we just have a

06:08:13.380 conversation and we either click or we don't are you sick am i sick i had surgery two days ago oh that's 0.95

06:08:18.840 right it's fucking that's right yeah i sound very nasally and my nose is also very swollen you saw would 0.98

06:08:23.960 you be you would maybe he takes you to uh maybe if he was super funny he's hilarious yeah he has a 1.00

06:08:32.760 huge penis then we could maybe talk is it from what i recall it was an issue the penis thing was an 0.99

06:08:38.860 issue for you the small penis he has a huge one this is good information valuable information giant 1.00

06:08:46.480 okay ali would you date him um yes but i think for like a pretty stupid reason i think he reminds me 0.99

06:08:52.680 of like the really buff dad in the train to busan movie and that just like brings like a connection

06:08:58.880 of courageousness to me so i think that's why i'm saying yes mostly okay what about you would you

06:09:05.100 date him um no not my type what about you if you were well you guys are in maybe you guys don't have

06:09:09.980 to answer i guess because you're i would sure sure obviously in a very different universe

06:09:20.420 all right all right decoy voice there you have it wingman boom easy any people with a check mark

06:09:26.300 in the chat ever want to get wingman i'll do it for you all right so well you know if you're cool um

06:09:33.180 we have more chats coming through baja finally with the details yay oh i'm excited thank you baja

06:09:39.800 baja donated 100 so like i said out of your age range in white five feet 10 inches 175 pounds i live

06:09:53.020 in the midwest born in texas i like to make people laugh i have not been vaxxed strong immune system

06:10:00.400 how do you feel sounds like a really great contender of course obviously not thinking about

06:10:04.560 the age thing but you're you sound like a catch to me what's your cutoff i'm like

06:10:10.100 30 but like 30 is a stretch already yeah thank you baja appreciate it based thor donated 100

06:10:19.380 dollars i legit got here cancer from these 304s question for the panel you're dating a guy you

06:10:27.220 really like him everything is going well you invite him over for dinner what dish are you making to

06:10:33.360 impress him can i ask what 304 is what area code oh okay something like that slow cooked pot roast

06:10:41.920 garlic mashed potatoes around the table pasta pasta lasagna lasagna oh my god well i am peruvian and

06:10:51.580 portuguese and one of my favorite dishes is pollo abraza it's just a rotisserie chicken basically i love

06:10:56.760 it so i'd probably make that sweet ellie so i have like a really strong visceral connection to soup

06:11:02.680 like it's kind of that's another thing maybe a red flag if you don't like soup but stews and soups are

06:11:08.960 like everything to me so i'd probably have to share a little bit of my love for that with them

06:11:14.220 with a i don't know a hearty minestrone or something like that all right that's unique okay what about

06:11:20.940 you um i would either make sancocho or potato balls what about you i would make a seafood dish with

06:11:29.340 a seafood dish uh with um vegetable and a starch like potatoes what about you yeah definitely a

06:11:39.080 steak somewhere up in there potatoes and probably like a salad or like i don't know i'm hungry just

06:11:45.620 thinking about it now i'm literally hungry right now i'm gonna go get food i did rob

06:11:49.780 i would massacre

06:11:51.580 oh yeah he's called serpent donated one hundred dollars with 80s slash 90s type of love i meant

06:11:59.960 genuine connection and not the transactional bs that we see a lot of today chair four summarized

06:12:05.940 it pretty well tbh thanks for engaging y'all peace i fw bryans thank you thank you appreciate it

06:12:14.380 thank you for the clarification there yeah i want that like

06:12:18.300 1800s love um arranged marriage love you know different things are different but

06:12:31.560 just kidding

06:12:32.500 it seems like that's the only tough crowd

06:12:34.260 i just have to think about it that's crazy the outfits are fine just kidding just kidding

06:12:40.660 just kidding is fire uh let's see here we got to do uh going around the table

06:12:46.080 do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time better looking so you're 25 better looking at 35

06:12:53.440 perhaps maybe per chance perhaps perhaps what about it in 20 years at 45

06:13:05.220 i think so i see how my sister looks how old's your sister 50 0.97

06:13:13.140 sister yeah full sister yep my mom had me at 46 0.99

06:13:24.720 damn 0.98

06:13:29.800 so your sister was born at does she have kids no because she could have kids 1.00

06:13:39.020 that are your age yes my brother has kids that are my age how's your brother

06:13:44.680 70 no he's is he younger than your sister yeah he's 44

06:13:51.440 how old are his kids one is 26 now and the other is damn about to be 21 0.88

06:14:01.440 wait hold on 1.00

06:14:04.860 hold on whoa the math is not fucking math wait so you wait wait wait wait i got it i got this shit 1.00

06:14:14.880 hold on let him cook hold on let me fucking cook 1.00

06:14:17.180 your mom had you at 46 at 46 1.00

06:14:25.620 but your sister is 50

06:14:30.440 that doesn't wait her mom would have had her around 16 right 16 17 18 19 0.97

06:14:37.760 wait hold on am i just retarded i think i'm retarded wait 0.87

06:14:41.040 my mom is not 46 now she had me at 46

06:14:44.740 i know i know so she's i think i'm either 70 now

06:14:48.180 like you could sue yourself

06:14:49.600 but i thought i had something

06:14:53.960 because minus the 25

06:14:58.780 my sister's 26 years older than me

06:15:01.660 yeah

06:15:02.380 okay so then

06:15:06.860 21 is when your mom had your sister

06:15:15.700 oh my god

06:15:16.440 she's 19 1.00

06:15:17.100 i'm fucking retarded okay 1.00

06:15:18.680 whatever it happens as the show gets into its later hours 0.99

06:15:22.840 yeah okay so

06:15:24.740 better looking uh better looking in 30 years at 55

06:15:30.140 uh 50 i feel like 10 years in 30 that's a big difference

06:15:34.520 for her though we'll get we'll get to you we'll get to you

06:15:36.660 it i don't necessarily think better looking but i don't think i'm gonna be ugly 0.88

06:15:45.980 like will you be just as attractive then

06:15:49.580 to people my age probably

06:15:52.600 okay uh is there any point where like do you have a peak when do you think you'll peak

06:15:58.640 um i think i would peak

06:16:04.720 probably

06:16:05.820 30 35 is like peak attractiveness

06:16:10.420 okay

06:16:11.420 you're 33 better looking in 10 years time 43

06:16:13.940 no i don't think so

06:16:15.580 okay uh were you better looking at 23 or better looking now

06:16:19.080 better looking at 23

06:16:20.420 okay

06:16:20.900 definitely

06:16:21.560 you're 22 better looking in 10 years time 32

06:16:23.740 if i keep using korean skin care

06:16:26.380 keep using the korean skin care okay 0.54

06:16:28.440 decoy can hook you up with some of that stuff

06:16:30.520 uh 20 years time 42

06:16:33.160 by the way the question is here

06:16:34.960 you can't get plastic surgery

06:16:36.640 like plastic surgery off the table

06:16:38.200 that's what i said korean skin care

06:16:39.520 i still think

06:16:40.040 my mom looks great

06:16:40.580 people look worse with plastic surgery

06:16:42.360 does that include botox

06:16:43.340 lindsey and chris jenner

06:16:44.720 no botox

06:16:46.120 no botox

06:16:47.120 no plastic surgery

06:16:47.960 um

06:16:48.800 better looking 42

06:16:51.880 20 years

06:16:52.600 i mean my mom is like 50

06:16:54.580 something

06:16:55.580 she's a screen skin care

06:16:56.860 yeah isn't your mom like an actress or something 1.00

06:16:58.100 no she's a real estate agent 0.92

06:16:59.160 you will

06:17:00.920 wait

06:17:01.180 no

06:17:02.420 my mom's a real estate agent

06:17:03.960 who am i thinking about

06:17:05.900 who

06:17:07.600 okay whatever it doesn't matter

06:17:10.620 um

06:17:11.240 52 better looking

06:17:13.000 i mean like i if

06:17:14.540 i look like her

06:17:16.060 when she's using all the korean skin care 0.72

06:17:17.800 people think that she's like in her 0.90

06:17:19.220 30s

06:17:20.160 like sometimes people like ask of worst sisters

06:17:21.980 because i look older than

06:17:23.200 22 sometimes

06:17:24.400 to some people

06:17:26.180 what about you

06:17:27.180 you're

06:17:27.500 20

06:17:28.160 20

06:17:28.540 yes

06:17:29.240 better looking in 10 years time at 30

06:17:30.820 i think that

06:17:33.020 for women

06:17:33.800 the beauty standard

06:17:34.680 is placed a lot on youth

06:17:36.740 and i know that some men think women expire

06:17:39.160 especially in this industry

06:17:40.680 so i'm inclined to say

06:17:42.240 i won't be as attractive in 30 years

06:17:44.140 but on that same note

06:17:45.300 like you know

06:17:46.320 i still have hormones

06:17:47.220 i still have acne

06:17:47.940 like

06:17:48.300 i think that

06:17:49.560 i won't hit my prime

06:17:50.980 until like

06:17:51.740 27

06:17:52.420 28

06:17:52.980 so i think i will be more attractive in 10 years

06:17:55.560 because i'm still growing into my features

06:17:57.160 and maturing

06:17:57.840 so

06:17:58.480 yeah

06:17:59.000 that's how i feel

06:18:00.080 what about 20 years at 40

06:18:02.360 better looking

06:18:03.180 i think i will be more attractive

06:18:05.040 at 30 than i am now

06:18:06.700 and i think i will be more attractive at 30 than 40

06:18:09.780 so

06:18:10.360 no

06:18:11.100 ellie 18

06:18:12.060 better looking in 10 years time at 28

06:18:13.740 i think i hit the wall at 25

06:18:16.100 so no

06:18:16.760 okay

06:18:18.320 what about you

06:18:18.900 21

06:18:19.400 better looking in 10 years time

06:18:20.740 31

06:18:21.080 i feel like i'd look more attractive

06:18:23.480 like 31

06:18:24.360 20 years time at 41

06:18:25.760 or like it's not the same

06:18:26.380 i feel like that's when the decline will start

06:18:28.420 okay

06:18:28.780 you're 25

06:18:29.360 better looking in 10 years time 35

06:18:30.800 uh

06:18:31.640 better looking now

06:18:32.400 all right

06:18:33.400 uh 36

06:18:34.080 better looking in 10 years time 46

06:18:35.580 no

06:18:36.060 god no

06:18:36.640 and then were you better looking at 26

06:18:38.140 versus now at 36

06:18:39.400 absolutely

06:18:39.740 better looking now

06:18:40.440 okay

06:18:40.760 we have put all of you through an ai age advancement

06:18:45.940 oh god

06:18:46.820 i was like crazy on the tiktok filter

06:18:48.620 and we are gonna see

06:18:49.640 we're gonna see if you guys are gonna be better looking

06:18:51.700 somebody said just the same

06:18:53.220 still good

06:18:53.700 we're gonna see

06:18:54.700 we're gonna see

06:18:55.840 uh

06:18:57.440 what photos did he use

06:18:59.280 did he like screen clip this or

06:19:01.140 we actually stalked you guys

06:19:03.540 oh

06:19:04.040 and followed you to your house

06:19:07.040 that's what i thought

06:19:08.860 but i didn't want to make an assumption

06:19:10.260 all right

06:19:10.820 uh ready nick

06:19:11.660 all right

06:19:12.660 first one

06:19:13.640 boom

06:19:14.000 oh god

06:19:15.000 whoa

06:19:15.460 your friend loved it

06:19:17.500 oh jeez

06:19:17.920 she's in love 1.00

06:19:18.480 damn 0.99

06:19:19.960 wow 1.00

06:19:20.960 are you gonna let your friend laugh at you like that

06:19:23.100 you look like the

06:19:25.720 the people in the together movie

06:19:27.920 i'm so sorry

06:19:28.660 i'm so sorry 0.96

06:19:30.340 damn bro 0.99

06:19:31.320 that's your girl 1.00

06:19:32.260 you gonna let your girl talk to you 1.00

06:19:33.580 you gonna let your girl 1.00

06:19:34.500 throw you under the bus that way 1.00

06:19:36.100 shit 1.00

06:19:37.000 i'm excited for mine too 0.98

06:19:43.920 what do you think

06:19:44.980 what do you think

06:19:45.800 i mean i don't think it's accurate

06:19:47.940 but like

06:19:48.560 go off

06:19:49.260 like number two

06:19:51.200 make sure you put on sunscreen

06:19:53.600 that doesn't even look like

06:19:54.840 what 30 year olds look like 0.83

06:19:56.440 well

06:19:57.020 no no it's not 30

06:19:58.160 yeah

06:19:58.560 it's uh

06:19:59.340 that's like

06:20:00.040 40

06:20:01.020 40

06:20:01.480 50

06:20:02.040 that's more 70

06:20:03.660 that's very

06:20:04.480 my mom looks like at 70 0.58

06:20:08.220 and like it's not even close to any of those

06:20:10.140 you're skipping 20

06:20:10.940 i mean

06:20:11.400 sounds like a whole lot of cool

06:20:13.780 that's supposed to be

06:20:14.900 that middle photo

06:20:15.780 if you look like that at 70

06:20:18.500 that's that

06:20:19.200 how old is that

06:20:20.120 no that's like

06:20:20.640 50

06:20:21.580 okay

06:20:22.460 mid 50s

06:20:23.400 to see myself when i was 30

06:20:25.400 how do you really feel about these photos

06:20:29.140 i don't think it's accurate

06:20:31.140 i just seriously think she looks like the 0.88

06:20:33.860 are you a bit upset that your bestie your best girlfriend just laughed at how you're gonna look when you're an old grandma

06:20:41.700 you guys should fight

06:20:43.660 that's crazy

06:20:45.500 that's gonna be an awkward uh car ride back

06:20:48.720 because you guys drove together right

06:20:49.820 we're not

06:20:50.360 we're not awkward at all

06:20:51.720 it's gonna be weird

06:20:51.900 that's

06:20:52.620 that's gonna be crazy

06:20:53.300 i think that's a great representation of what she would have looked like if she was in that movie

06:20:57.280 yeah

06:20:57.760 with day franco

06:20:58.620 if i was in the movie yeah

06:20:59.780 love it

06:21:00.100 for sure

06:21:00.340 next

06:21:00.840 uh-oh

06:21:02.920 oh jeez

06:21:05.040 you look so cute

06:21:05.820 look like a little babushka 0.98

06:21:06.660 oh jeez

06:21:08.480 i look like a babushka

06:21:09.480 actually i don't mind that

06:21:10.320 oh my god

06:21:10.680 oh you look cute

06:21:11.820 you look friendly

06:21:12.980 i'm anona

06:21:13.900 actually 0.66

06:21:14.340 you kind of look like the evil woman from rapunzel 0.98

06:21:17.060 that's crazy 0.99

06:21:17.460 oh 0.93

06:21:17.680 you're like you're the baddies 0.95

06:21:19.140 to be honest

06:21:19.640 she was t

06:21:21.000 she was t

06:21:21.740 she was t

06:21:22.860 yeah

06:21:23.300 all right

06:21:24.220 next

06:21:24.920 jesus

06:21:26.240 you look a little evil

06:21:30.540 low-key

06:21:31.380 actually not so bad

06:21:32.620 what's going on with your cheeks

06:21:33.900 no i know

06:21:34.680 they look really chunky

06:21:35.760 got something in there

06:21:36.520 you look like you run

06:21:37.560 like you're the president of an hoa 0.99

06:21:39.780 actually you do

06:21:41.880 and your friend i could see that

06:21:42.880 marjorie taylor green

06:21:43.840 yeah

06:21:44.300 but like

06:21:46.020 paul adem is her best friend

06:21:47.440 an hoa that's kind of 1.00

06:21:51.180 a little

06:21:52.460 controlling

06:21:53.760 oh

06:21:54.520 yeah

06:21:54.920 do you know

06:21:56.180 you know about hoas 0.99

06:21:57.580 homeowners associations

06:21:59.460 i should

06:22:00.860 you're like

06:22:01.400 uh

06:22:01.920 your grass

06:22:03.340 needs to be mud

06:22:04.420 like a quarter inch

06:22:07.140 too long

06:22:07.840 this is not up to the standards 0.99

06:22:09.200 we're gonna find your ass 1.00

06:22:10.440 okay next 0.99

06:22:11.240 wait why do i look insane

06:22:17.260 why do i look crazy i need to see that again

06:22:20.100 oh my god

06:22:20.640 okay

06:22:21.140 okay

06:22:21.520 you became white 0.76

06:22:22.360 i'm not

06:22:22.680 not so bad

06:22:23.280 hey all right

06:22:24.460 if that's what the world wants

06:22:25.980 it's not bad

06:22:26.740 here we'll pull it up again

06:22:28.460 i'll take it

06:22:29.020 hey i'm kind of cute

06:22:30.440 not so bad

06:22:31.060 yeah

06:22:31.520 milf

06:22:32.520 thank you

06:22:33.560 you know what's kind of weird

06:22:34.880 this is gonna sound kind of crazy

06:22:36.540 okay

06:22:37.220 for some reason

06:22:38.880 you're

06:22:40.700 okay i'm just gonna say

06:22:42.780 you're kind of hotter in the second picture

06:22:45.500 well

06:22:46.340 do you see it

06:22:47.100 does anybody see that

06:22:47.880 i see it

06:22:48.420 i think i'm more mature

06:22:49.540 you know

06:22:50.380 um

06:22:51.260 i appreciate that

06:22:52.620 i think

06:22:53.160 you're welcome

06:22:53.900 you're welcome

06:22:54.800 no it's gonna work

06:22:55.500 all right

06:22:56.780 next

06:22:58.220 let me go

06:23:00.080 what

06:23:00.440 aww 0.78

06:23:01.980 you look good

06:23:04.060 what's going on in the third pic though

06:23:07.040 with her eyes

06:23:08.060 looks like

06:23:08.920 whoa

06:23:09.480 she has jaundice

06:23:11.500 she looks like you turned into a caucasian lady 1.00

06:23:15.140 took some milf 0.97

06:23:17.260 milf

06:23:17.860 all right

06:23:18.360 uh let's

06:23:19.420 let's do next

06:23:20.440 horrified

06:23:21.360 i know

06:23:22.660 oh

06:23:23.320 vena you look so sweet

06:23:26.060 oh my god

06:23:27.280 i look like an old lady 0.93

06:23:28.780 i look like

06:23:30.420 do you want some candy baby

06:23:31.660 bless your heart

06:23:35.580 bless your heart

06:23:38.100 you look so friendly

06:23:38.940 you look like you give 0.79

06:23:40.320 like your nephews weed

06:23:41.680 low key

06:23:42.380 all right

06:23:48.740 next

06:23:50.740 oh

06:23:52.140 oh

06:23:52.600 ew

06:23:53.480 what's the last picture

06:23:54.780 lunch lady

06:23:55.700 yeah

06:23:56.240 yeah

06:23:56.480 nice

06:23:58.760 you give nice teacher

06:23:59.880 you look this like

06:24:00.820 look so slightly different from the third picture to the second picture

06:24:03.920 it's also not a good picture of my eyes

06:24:05.420 i'm sprinting

06:24:06.540 roots are totally grown out though

06:24:07.820 yeah

06:24:08.240 they what

06:24:08.880 like the roots are totally grown out

06:24:10.140 they're totally grown out

06:24:10.700 all right

06:24:10.980 next

06:24:11.740 you look cute

06:24:13.280 it keeps replaying it

06:24:21.140 i look like i make some really good cookies

06:24:25.820 there you go

06:24:26.340 totally

06:24:27.020 you do

06:24:27.840 nice

06:24:28.580 oh boy

06:24:29.660 here we go

06:24:30.080 next

06:24:30.560 oh

06:24:31.740 oh

06:24:32.820 you look so good

06:24:34.060 so good

06:24:35.300 it's like fine wine

06:24:37.520 the middle one's pretty good

06:24:38.780 yeah

06:24:39.060 yeah

06:24:39.340 the last one too

06:24:41.820 love it

06:24:42.760 yeah

06:24:43.640 all right

06:24:45.180 next

06:24:46.140 okay

06:24:47.780 you guys used an old photo

06:24:49.860 you look like

06:24:50.640 yeah

06:24:50.760 you didn't send them that

06:24:52.480 you look like

06:24:53.260 that's an old

06:24:53.980 that's a really old photo

06:24:55.240 that's like

06:24:55.740 old

06:24:56.200 you're very handsome in the middle

06:24:57.440 right

06:24:57.780 here though

06:24:58.420 yeah look

06:24:58.980 in the middle

06:24:59.540 yes

06:25:00.000 yeah

06:25:00.380 i'm like 60

06:25:01.860 yeah but it's like guilt

06:25:02.940 it's like

06:25:03.380 yeah

06:25:03.660 it's silver fox

06:25:05.340 you know what's crazy though

06:25:07.120 my

06:25:07.600 my

06:25:08.460 i

06:25:08.880 i become more muscular

06:25:10.680 like the neck muscles

06:25:12.180 look insane

06:25:13.040 yeah

06:25:13.660 more defined

06:25:14.620 you were working on that

06:25:15.920 no

06:25:16.060 because you lose fat

06:25:17.800 when you get older 1.00

06:25:18.560 damn 0.99

06:25:19.460 that's uh 1.00

06:25:20.680 okay wow

06:25:21.600 you look like you stay lifting though

06:25:23.020 yeah

06:25:23.480 is there more

06:25:24.940 did they do another version of me

06:25:27.620 or

06:25:27.920 is that

06:25:28.500 all right

06:25:29.020 the next thing we have

06:25:30.080 we gender swapped all of you 0.99

06:25:31.800 oh lord

06:25:32.440 that's gonna be interesting

06:25:33.040 so we're gonna

06:25:33.860 we changed you

06:25:34.820 to a man

06:25:35.640 i don't have any brothers

06:25:36.500 or anything

06:25:36.960 i love to see what x looks like

06:25:38.260 so what we're gonna do is

06:25:40.720 the question you have to ask yourself is

06:25:42.300 well what i want you to rate

06:25:44.660 i want you to rate the guy

06:25:46.460 is that the question

06:25:47.120 yes

06:25:47.680 i want you to rate the guy

06:25:49.400 and then would you date him

06:25:50.520 would you date the guy

06:25:51.640 all right

06:25:52.140 oh man

06:25:53.100 ready nick

06:25:53.600 yep

06:25:53.940 all right

06:25:54.760 boom

06:25:55.280 honestly it kind of looks like

06:25:58.600 i'd loki date you

06:25:59.460 my brother

06:25:59.980 like i have a twin brother

06:26:01.560 can you make it a bit smaller nick

06:26:02.860 or make the

06:26:03.960 video smaller

06:26:05.140 you need to get rid of that unibrow

06:26:06.520 but aside from that

06:26:07.860 like you're kind of cute

06:26:09.000 that's just shadows

06:26:09.760 yeah

06:26:10.080 like with the beard

06:26:11.000 i don't see a unibrow

06:26:11.580 like it

06:26:12.100 it kind of looks like my twin brother

06:26:13.980 would you date

06:26:14.740 what do you rate this guy

06:26:16.220 on a scale of one to ten

06:26:17.280 there's like a fly

06:26:19.420 um

06:26:20.200 maybe like

06:26:21.460 six

06:26:22.920 seven

06:26:23.560 six or seven

06:26:25.100 yeah

06:26:25.700 nice

06:26:27.160 very nice

06:26:28.400 okay let's see my

06:26:29.380 uh

06:26:30.940 would you date him

06:26:32.140 not my

06:26:35.020 type

06:26:35.960 personally

06:26:36.640 but

06:26:37.340 if they have like

06:26:39.500 a nice personality

06:26:40.260 yeah

06:26:40.680 word

06:26:42.060 okay

06:26:43.340 next

06:26:46.440 yeah

06:26:49.120 actually

06:26:50.300 let's take a look

06:26:51.060 and then time

06:26:51.640 exactly

06:26:52.760 and that's from Mac

06:26:53.760 is he my type

06:26:55.560 no

06:26:55.960 not totally

06:26:56.600 would you rate him

06:26:57.380 on a scale of one to ten

06:26:58.300 i'd give him a good

06:26:59.260 six

06:26:59.900 all right

06:27:00.560 would you date him

06:27:01.180 maybe

06:27:03.420 i don't know

06:27:04.200 would you shop at his bodega

06:27:05.700 at the bar

06:27:06.200 maybe

06:27:06.680 at Michonne

06:27:07.600 all right

06:27:08.020 that's a bad

06:27:08.640 next

06:27:09.380 oh god

06:27:11.040 i look like my cousin

06:27:12.360 oh my god

06:27:13.360 you're kind of cute

06:27:14.740 he's not like that

06:27:15.800 exactly like my cousin

06:27:17.740 yeah

06:27:18.160 you look like a military man

06:27:19.860 yeah

06:27:20.380 you do look like a military

06:27:21.700 yeah

06:27:22.340 in the best way possible

06:27:23.620 you look military

06:27:24.080 so what do you rate him

06:27:25.160 and what do you date him

06:27:26.360 i wouldn't date him

06:27:27.140 because he looks exactly

06:27:28.040 like my cousin

06:27:28.720 um but i give him

06:27:29.940 i give him like

06:27:30.700 a seven

06:27:32.180 okay

06:27:33.960 he looks good with the beard

06:27:35.680 yeah

06:27:36.440 i'm digging the beard

06:27:37.600 yeah

06:27:38.000 there you go

06:27:39.220 all right

06:27:39.800 next

06:27:40.440 okay why did they

06:27:44.140 race swap me 0.99

06:27:45.220 why the fuck 0.99

06:27:47.060 did they race swap me 0.99

06:27:48.360 sorry

06:27:49.000 i would be

06:27:49.520 a handsome

06:27:50.340 latino man 1.00

06:27:51.700 what the fuck 1.00

06:27:52.600 is that 0.99

06:27:53.440 why am i so frail

06:27:56.020 oh my god

06:27:56.820 yeah

06:27:57.500 i look like 1.00

06:27:58.280 i i could beat his ass 0.99

06:27:59.760 right 1.00

06:27:59.940 kick your own ass 1.00

06:28:02.320 right now 1.00

06:28:02.860 i i just might

06:28:04.340 i'm pissed off

06:28:05.660 how dare they 1.00

06:28:06.360 fuck this guy 1.00

06:28:08.420 get him off 1.00

06:28:08.860 zero 1.00

06:28:11.500 oh shit 0.99

06:28:12.680 thank god i don't have a brother 1.00

06:28:14.720 because he would be 1.00

06:28:15.680 fucking cooked 0.99

06:28:16.540 what if he 1.00

06:28:16.960 what if he was a billionaire

06:28:18.800 i don't want that

06:28:21.240 i don't care

06:28:21.980 i'm not money driven

06:28:23.100 i don't need that

06:28:24.220 i don't give a

06:28:25.000 giant

06:28:25.440 face card

06:28:27.160 is honestly more important

06:28:28.600 wow

06:28:29.020 okay

06:28:29.440 all right

06:28:29.860 fair enough

06:28:30.340 what a bag

06:28:30.960 uh next

06:28:31.940 that's crazy

06:28:32.960 i'm

06:28:33.260 oh

06:28:33.660 next

06:28:34.080 see like

06:28:36.320 what is that

06:28:36.680 her eyes aren't even even

06:28:37.920 yeah

06:28:38.360 what's going on

06:28:39.260 they gave me ears

06:28:40.400 that's your dream guy

06:28:41.420 you have huge ears

06:28:44.840 you have kind of like

06:28:46.440 picture this

06:28:47.300 without the deformations

06:28:48.620 i think he's cute

06:28:49.560 i like

06:28:50.260 yeah

06:28:50.620 i see the potential

06:28:51.260 he's got a good eye space

06:28:52.700 you have nice hair for sure

06:28:53.880 yeah

06:28:54.100 he needs to send in his resume

06:28:55.360 good facial harmony

06:28:56.240 i definitely see the potential

06:28:57.600 good facial harmony

06:28:58.700 just fix the eyes a little bit

06:29:00.160 i think

06:29:00.560 i'm so pissed

06:29:01.200 what was wrong with mine

06:29:01.940 disregarding

06:29:02.860 his ears

06:29:04.940 i like

06:29:05.900 maybe like an eight

06:29:06.740 would you date him

06:29:08.220 would you date him

06:29:09.080 yes

06:29:09.420 all right

06:29:10.140 i'm scared to see mine

06:29:11.400 next

06:29:11.840 actually

06:29:13.980 why are we all in the end

06:29:16.080 why am i kind of tea

06:29:17.520 confused

06:29:18.180 they see brown skin

06:29:19.600 and they just make everyone

06:29:20.440 into it

06:29:20.760 yeah

06:29:21.200 like

06:29:22.080 i don't know

06:29:25.380 uh

06:29:26.000 would you rate him

06:29:26.620 um

06:29:27.420 i'd rate him like

06:29:28.640 you're a 10 by the way

06:29:30.080 just from

06:29:30.520 remind

06:29:30.960 i would rate him

06:29:32.740 like a

06:29:33.820 be honest

06:29:36.220 okay

06:29:36.720 well no

06:29:37.200 i'm looking at it

06:29:38.120 from the second photo

06:29:38.780 and the third photo

06:29:39.380 i look 0.98

06:29:39.760 good as fuck 0.98

06:29:41.040 in the third photo 1.00

06:29:41.720 wait he's a six and a two

06:29:42.280 rip 0.82

06:29:42.700 uh okay

06:29:44.620 would you date him

06:29:45.740 would i date him

06:29:47.480 yeah

06:29:47.640 no

06:29:48.400 yeah

06:29:49.920 not hot enough

06:29:51.400 next

06:29:52.400 oh

06:29:54.200 that's horrifying

06:29:55.400 oh my god

06:29:57.800 that's horrifying

06:29:58.960 he looks like a rapper

06:30:01.060 your hairline babe

06:30:02.360 what's going on

06:30:03.480 we need to get you

06:30:04.340 the ksi surgery

06:30:05.360 real quick

06:30:05.920 you look like

06:30:06.560 you're gone off the lean

06:30:07.660 yeah

06:30:08.220 or something

06:30:11.300 or whatever it is

06:30:12.560 the rapper's drink

06:30:13.460 i'm dead

06:30:14.900 that's horrifying

06:30:16.720 all right

06:30:17.220 next

06:30:17.700 oh uh

06:30:18.260 well

06:30:18.420 maybe with a new haircut

06:30:19.840 oh

06:30:20.940 oh my god

06:30:22.180 oh my god

06:30:22.320 would you date him

06:30:23.960 no

06:30:25.680 rate him

06:30:26.680 two

06:30:28.700 would you rate the guy

06:30:30.460 for you

06:30:31.020 one 0.93

06:30:32.260 what the hell is that

06:30:33.640 all right

06:30:34.440 all right

06:30:34.460 next

06:30:35.020 no

06:30:36.000 he was kind of cute

06:30:38.400 it's been worse

06:30:41.000 like this is not that bad

06:30:42.300 he's not so bad

06:30:43.180 he's not so bad

06:30:43.200 but you're right

06:30:44.820 it has been worse

06:30:45.560 he looks like a nice

06:30:46.140 but no

06:30:46.560 what do you rate him felicity

06:30:48.160 that's

06:30:50.600 that's

06:30:51.040 that's you

06:30:51.540 as a dude

06:30:52.100 well i rate myself a six

06:30:54.420 so he's like a five

06:30:55.700 okay

06:30:56.660 all right

06:30:57.140 uh oh next

06:30:58.540 of course

06:31:00.220 you're pretty

06:31:01.900 thank you

06:31:02.740 you look like a psychologist

06:31:04.040 or something

06:31:04.600 yeah

06:31:04.660 what do you know

06:31:05.140 like you definitely wrote a book

06:31:06.580 like

06:31:07.740 i could see that

06:31:08.520 i look like

06:31:09.100 i can see you at a seminar

06:31:10.320 for sure

06:31:11.180 yeah you're definitely like a speaker

06:31:12.520 so i would

06:31:13.540 uh

06:31:14.120 i prefer the

06:31:15.160 the girl on the bottom

06:31:16.380 would you date yourself

06:31:18.160 yeah i would

06:31:19.340 i prefer the girl 0.56

06:31:19.960 i would

06:31:20.300 i would date myself

06:31:21.100 um

06:31:22.260 and uh

06:31:25.300 what do you rate yourself

06:31:26.320 oh

06:31:27.880 uh

06:31:28.760 she's like

06:31:31.580 she

06:31:31.840 the top

06:31:32.520 uh

06:31:32.780 top girl five

06:31:33.960 bottom girl six

06:31:35.120 okay

06:31:35.740 yeah

06:31:36.340 so we're consistent

06:31:37.460 yeah

06:31:38.140 for sure

06:31:38.700 is there any more

06:31:39.760 or is that it

06:31:40.260 rock and roll

06:31:41.640 guys if you want

06:31:42.560 hundred dollars

06:31:43.060 you know what

06:31:43.780 should we

06:31:44.120 maybe we'll do

06:31:44.880 we'll do 69 dollar tts

06:31:46.320 i'm gonna lower the tts

06:31:47.120 really quick

06:31:47.400 uh

06:31:48.400 while i'm doing that

06:31:49.860 it's just gonna take me a minute

06:31:50.900 uh anybody here have any topics

06:31:52.860 they want to talk about

06:31:53.820 if anybody wants to propose

06:31:55.100 like a topic or a thing

06:31:56.220 or something

06:31:56.620 we have what

06:32:00.400 uh we're gonna

06:32:02.040 we're gonna skip that today

06:32:03.080 just

06:32:04.000 yeah

06:32:04.460 none that i can think of

06:32:07.940 right now

06:32:08.220 what you got

06:32:09.440 here let me just pull up

06:32:11.240 something then

06:32:11.840 uh

06:32:12.580 uh

06:32:13.620 women 1.00

06:32:14.840 um

06:32:16.340 hold on

06:32:16.780 here we'll do

06:32:23.500 the

06:32:23.700 no i'll wait for that

06:32:26.240 red flags

06:32:29.680 uh

06:32:31.640 oh

06:32:32.420 here

06:32:32.880 hold on

06:32:33.620 there's a chat

06:32:35.420 from earlier

06:32:36.380 boom

06:32:38.340 easy

06:32:38.960 glock tavius

06:32:40.400 don't give me time

06:32:41.680 to uh

06:32:42.240 set everything up

06:32:43.080 ladies 0.99

06:32:43.360 would you date brian

06:32:44.800 on one hand

06:32:46.080 he is tall

06:32:46.640 six foot one

06:32:47.640 blue eyes

06:32:48.880 rich

06:32:49.600 sometimes funny

06:32:50.880 successful

06:32:51.700 but he has a dead bod 0.99

06:32:52.960 probably autistic 0.99

06:32:54.120 has a weird liking 0.83

06:32:55.340 for big lady

06:32:56.080 rowties

06:32:56.600 and a small pp

06:32:57.960 that is

06:32:58.560 it's average

06:33:01.440 okay relax

06:33:02.080 chill out

06:33:03.280 chill out

06:33:04.060 um

06:33:04.480 all right

06:33:04.820 going around the

06:33:05.440 table

06:33:05.640 i won't be offended

06:33:06.260 won't be offended

06:33:07.580 at all

06:33:07.840 go ahead

06:33:08.240 no

06:33:09.300 okay

06:33:09.900 no

06:33:10.600 no

06:33:11.600 rip 0.99

06:33:12.560 damn 1.00

06:33:13.000 what the fuck 1.00

06:33:13.540 great guy 1.00

06:33:15.220 out of the age range

06:33:16.900 no

06:33:17.260 out of the age range

06:33:18.360 no

06:33:18.880 my maturity level

06:33:20.560 is that of a 25 year old

06:33:22.260 but

06:33:22.400 that's great

06:33:23.020 but i don't want you

06:33:23.780 to be in the grave

06:33:24.740 too early

06:33:25.300 i mean

06:33:25.780 in the grave

06:33:26.440 i'm gonna live

06:33:27.600 have you seen how healthy

06:33:28.820 i am

06:33:29.260 this is the peak male

06:33:30.940 you're probably right

06:33:32.400 you'll outlive me

06:33:32.860 i'm gonna live

06:33:33.460 till a hundred

06:33:34.340 and seven

06:33:35.540 good for you

06:33:37.020 a hundred and seven

06:33:37.620 good talk

06:33:38.220 good talk

06:33:38.840 what

06:33:39.040 oh i said no 1.00

06:33:41.060 damn what the fuck 0.99

06:33:42.800 yeah 1.00

06:33:44.200 oh okay

06:33:45.160 oh there we go

06:33:46.760 no

06:33:48.680 okay

06:33:51.160 hey

06:33:51.440 one for eight

06:33:52.560 or something

06:33:53.160 one for seven

06:33:53.580 w's in the chat

06:33:54.520 it only takes one

06:33:57.180 even if she's engaged

06:33:58.400 and currently pregnant

06:33:59.360 i can still

06:34:00.500 i gotta show

06:34:02.060 i'm just kidding

06:34:02.660 a little bit of a pity

06:34:03.540 i'm kidding

06:34:04.400 oh

06:34:04.700 oh

06:34:06.020 don't get too real

06:34:09.240 i would go on a date

06:34:10.860 with you

06:34:11.260 but i wouldn't date you

06:34:12.540 she would go on a date

06:34:14.420 but she wouldn't date me

06:34:15.840 why is that

06:34:16.360 oh she

06:34:18.880 why is that

06:34:19.720 i'm just curious

06:34:20.120 oh no no

06:34:20.500 i was mocking

06:34:21.580 oh

06:34:23.140 i see

06:34:23.600 i see how it is

06:34:24.320 guys

06:34:25.420 we're lowering the tts

06:34:26.980 to 69 dollars

06:34:28.300 69 dollar tts

06:34:29.400 get them in while you can

06:34:30.280 if you want to get it in

06:34:31.080 i don't know if we're

06:34:31.840 just because we are

06:34:33.040 a little behind guys

06:34:34.160 i don't know if we're

06:34:35.540 gonna have time for the roast

06:34:36.580 so the 69 dollar tts

06:34:38.540 might just have to be

06:34:40.240 the roast

06:34:41.340 are they gonna roast us

06:34:43.140 yeah

06:34:43.800 all right 1.00

06:34:44.880 bitch 1.00

06:34:45.460 bring it on 0.99

06:34:46.220 yeah we can do twitch

06:34:47.060 really quick

06:34:47.500 guys if you want

06:34:48.420 get a

06:34:49.420 uh

06:34:50.360 follow us on twitch

06:34:51.780 drop us a prime sub

06:34:52.960 if you have one

06:34:53.440 it's been

06:34:54.560 29 minutes

06:34:55.720 since we last had the prime sub

06:34:56.960 i'd really appreciate

06:34:57.600 i think the prime subs are bugged

06:34:59.120 if you guys can just

06:35:00.440 do a little twitch prime

06:35:02.340 in the chat

06:35:02.760 to see if uh

06:35:04.000 you can show us

06:35:05.120 a little bit of love

06:35:06.040 in the chat

06:35:06.520 you know just support us

06:35:08.560 support us

06:35:09.300 drop us a follow

06:35:10.180 and uh

06:35:12.020 yeah boys

06:35:12.780 drop us a follow

06:35:14.200 and a prime sub

06:35:15.400 in the chat

06:35:16.620 you won't know how to

06:35:17.740 proceed in life

06:35:19.640 if you don't follow us

06:35:20.780 and check

06:35:21.540 check if you have a prime sub

06:35:22.680 boys

06:35:22.960 if you have amazon prime

06:35:24.300 you can link it to your twitch

06:35:25.260 oh my god

06:35:26.320 the chat is on fire

06:35:27.560 uh

06:35:28.400 yo bear

06:35:28.940 thank for the prime 0.99

06:35:29.740 damn bro 0.99

06:35:32.060 that was like a million 1.00

06:35:32.640 sorries 0.99

06:35:33.040 what the fuck 1.00

06:35:33.500 crog saman 0.99

06:35:34.700 thank for the tier one man

06:35:35.780 appreciate it

06:35:36.360 thank you

06:35:36.680 thank you

06:35:37.080 thank you dude

06:35:38.760 and uh

06:35:39.920 oh we have uh

06:35:42.200 lulu

06:35:42.640 thank you

06:35:44.140 lulu donated

06:35:45.240 six million dollars

06:35:46.760 brown

06:35:47.640 the girl version of you 0.99

06:35:49.180 is hot

06:35:49.780 i would

06:35:50.540 thank you

06:35:53.380 for that

06:35:54.220 i would date the girl version of you 0.95

06:35:56.340 yeah

06:35:56.560 appreciate it

06:35:57.260 i would definitely think about it

06:35:58.520 because

06:35:59.040 you guys are bi right 0.72

06:36:00.820 would y'all date the female version of me

06:36:02.720 honestly you're just

06:36:03.620 even the female version of me

06:36:05.580 she's not my type 1.00

06:36:06.360 what's your type

06:36:07.180 i like the eyes

06:36:07.900 i like a darker skinned woman 1.00

06:36:11.460 and i'm more attracted to

06:36:13.700 to be honest like more masculine presenting woman

06:36:16.140 and i don't mean like girls who look like boys

06:36:17.740 i like pretty girls and boys with clothes basically 0.99

06:36:19.740 damn bro 1.00

06:36:20.560 shit 1.00

06:36:21.460 okay 0.99

06:36:22.960 josh brooks donated

06:36:25.840 sixty nine dollars

06:36:27.320 pick one

06:36:28.380 over six foot

06:36:29.740 best body type

06:36:31.380 favorable income

06:36:32.800 huge pp 0.99

06:36:34.240 treats you like trash 0.99

06:36:35.900 horrible world view 1.00

06:36:37.400 under five and a half feet tall

06:36:39.860 plumpy bod

06:36:40.860 works mcdonald's

06:36:42.360 small pp

06:36:43.800 but treats you perfectly

06:36:45.420 happy

06:36:46.140 i'll be honest

06:36:46.920 it would not be possible

06:36:48.420 for me to be happy

06:36:49.460 in the second scenario

06:36:50.540 even though i understand

06:36:51.820 what you are

06:36:53.080 you know

06:36:53.520 kind of leveraging right now

06:36:56.080 but i i i couldn't

06:36:58.300 i couldn't do it

06:36:59.000 i would have to pick the first one

06:37:00.440 and just have like a side thing

06:37:01.980 and that's just me being honest

06:37:03.220 sure

06:37:03.240 hey the honesty is appreciated

06:37:04.740 uh going around the table

06:37:06.420 uh did you pick guy number one

06:37:08.040 or guy number two

06:37:09.080 guy number one

06:37:10.740 for the same reason she said

06:37:12.720 guy number one

06:37:14.240 i might like his world view

06:37:15.600 we might have to talk

06:37:16.440 but one

06:37:17.460 number one

06:37:19.020 one

06:37:19.760 i couldn't be treated terribly

06:37:22.020 so number two

06:37:24.020 that's why you're the wife over here 1.00

06:37:26.820 number one

06:37:27.440 okay

06:37:27.820 felicity

06:37:28.820 someone

06:37:29.500 you have to pick

06:37:31.580 well the second one is really sure

06:37:34.020 and works at mcdonald's

06:37:36.320 but you have to pick

06:37:37.320 wait the first guy

06:37:39.880 did they say he was rich

06:37:40.960 uh

06:37:41.660 josh brooks

06:37:42.480 well then if he

06:37:43.020 was rich and treating you terribly

06:37:44.340 then that wouldn't even matter

06:37:45.500 he wouldn't be giving you

06:37:46.240 any of his money

06:37:46.900 so you can always

06:37:48.300 disappear

06:37:48.680 it's a tough one

06:37:53.280 pick one felicity

06:37:54.080 felicity

06:37:54.900 just number one

06:37:57.760 and

06:37:58.000 break up with him soon

06:37:59.700 no these are your only choices

06:38:03.220 forever

06:38:04.260 just cheat on him 1.00

06:38:06.700 really

06:38:08.120 yeah

06:38:08.660 i'd rather be single

06:38:10.180 real

06:38:11.480 and talk that

06:38:12.220 okay

06:38:12.720 what about you

06:38:13.740 yeah i don't know man

06:38:15.220 i'm

06:38:15.760 josh brooks is cat an option

06:38:18.180 um

06:38:19.220 go ahead

06:38:19.800 which of the two

06:38:21.080 yeah i don't i don't put up

06:38:22.460 with being treated terribly

06:38:23.840 so probably

06:38:24.720 so guy number two

06:38:25.520 i have a question

06:38:26.920 that's sort of similar to this

06:38:29.180 thank you josh brooks for your

06:38:30.360 question

06:38:30.940 would you rather be

06:38:33.160 the king's mistress

06:38:34.340 or the peasant's wife

06:38:36.440 i don't think i understand

06:38:39.360 the implications of that

06:38:40.560 so the implication would be

06:38:41.860 uh

06:38:43.060 it's sort of

06:38:44.340 similar

06:38:45.300 i guess

06:38:45.940 okay

06:38:46.300 although in this scenario

06:38:47.560 both of them could

06:38:48.500 treat you well

06:38:49.900 okay

06:38:50.300 but

06:38:50.940 you're the mistress 0.99

06:38:52.460 to the king

06:38:53.160 so that means you're

06:38:53.980 side piece

06:38:55.540 right

06:38:55.980 you're not the wife 1.00

06:38:57.160 right

06:38:57.660 you

06:38:58.780 you know

06:38:59.200 whatever

06:38:59.480 whatever that means for you

06:39:00.460 you probably

06:39:03.140 garner some sort of benefits

06:39:05.020 of dealing with the king 1.00

06:39:06.700 he's the fucking king 1.00

06:39:07.840 the peasant 1.00

06:39:08.820 you're with the peasant 0.92

06:39:09.540 okay

06:39:10.480 like you're happy with them

06:39:12.020 presumably

06:39:12.420 well

06:39:13.280 you could be happy

06:39:15.860 as the mistress

06:39:17.020 to the king

06:39:17.600 right

06:39:18.120 there's not necessarily

06:39:19.940 it's not like he's beating you

06:39:21.280 or something

06:39:21.720 right

06:39:21.960 that's not baked into it

06:39:23.140 but you aren't getting

06:39:25.060 perhaps the level of commitment

06:39:26.620 that you might otherwise want

06:39:28.100 okay

06:39:28.560 which would be like

06:39:29.220 he's just seeing you

06:39:31.160 like he's got the queen

06:39:32.140 right

06:39:32.380 right

06:39:32.620 you're the mistress 0.99

06:39:33.440 he's just 0.99

06:39:34.380 kicking it with you 1.00

06:39:35.980 and fucking 1.00

06:39:36.900 right 0.99

06:39:37.480 and you get gifts 1.00

06:39:39.540 and he buys you shit 1.00

06:39:40.480 and you got 1.00

06:39:40.940 maybe you get

06:39:41.920 this question 1.00

06:39:42.460 maybe you have a bastard child 1.00

06:39:43.860 and your bastard child's 1.00

06:39:44.980 a 1.00

06:39:46.100 a

06:39:47.180 prince

06:39:48.620 no it wouldn't be prince

06:39:50.160 it would be like

06:39:50.780 a

06:39:51.220 a

06:39:51.540 a

06:39:53.420 a

06:39:53.980 a

06:39:54.580 a

06:39:55.580 a

06:39:56.580 a

06:39:57.580 a

06:39:57.700 royal clout

06:39:58.420 can you be a duke 1.00

06:39:59.080 if you're a bastard child 1.00

06:40:00.260 you could be 1.00

06:40:00.860 I think so

06:40:01.660 you could be a duke

06:40:02.420 have you ever seen rain

06:40:04.320 I don't know

06:40:05.080 I don't know

06:40:05.620 you watched

06:40:06.620 you watched the

06:40:07.320 the tutors right

06:40:08.080 it's been a while

06:40:08.800 since I've seen the tutors 0.99

06:40:09.640 he had a bastard child 0.98

06:40:11.020 he had several 0.99

06:40:11.840 wait what was his

06:40:12.620 what was it

06:40:13.140 okay

06:40:13.380 king henry's

06:40:16.580 Nick can you wikipedia this 1.00

06:40:19.840 bastard child 0.99

06:40:21.480 henry fitzroy 1.00

06:40:23.520 I swear

06:40:23.980 henry fitzroy

06:40:25.140 duke of richmond 0.91

06:40:26.660 in somerset

06:40:27.620 okay

06:40:28.340 so you could 1.00

06:40:29.180 your bastard child 1.00

06:40:30.160 could become a duke 1.00

06:40:31.220 one day

06:40:31.620 that's pretty cool

06:40:32.320 that's dope

06:40:33.080 yes pull up

06:40:35.040 henry fitzroy

06:40:35.800 please

06:40:36.220 uh

06:40:37.840 was

06:40:38.380 wow what a handsome man

06:40:40.120 elizabeth the only

06:40:41.220 child born out of

06:40:42.140 wedlock whom henry

06:40:43.120 acknowledged scroll down

06:40:44.080 wow look at this 1.00

06:40:45.660 fucking giga chad 1.00

06:40:46.500 look at that 1.00

06:40:47.620 inbreeding 1.00

06:40:48.140 fucking 1.00

06:40:48.580 wait 1.00

06:40:49.240 scroll down

06:40:50.420 just kidding

06:40:51.060 just scroll down

06:40:52.160 scroll down

06:40:52.680 essex

06:40:53.760 wow

06:40:54.360 look at that 1.00

06:40:54.960 you get a fucking 1.00

06:40:55.860 emblem a crest 1.00

06:40:56.860 or whatever the fuck 0.98

06:40:57.520 when he died 1.00

06:40:58.240 anyways whatever

06:40:59.560 i think he died in

06:41:01.000 childhood

06:41:01.360 oh really

06:41:02.060 something like that

06:41:02.880 no he lived

06:41:04.220 it was his other son

06:41:05.660 that died

06:41:06.420 no he

06:41:08.720 edward

06:41:09.040 i think

06:41:09.360 edward died

06:41:09.980 pull it back up

06:41:10.660 as a kid

06:41:11.200 scroll up

06:41:11.700 how long did this guy live

06:41:12.660 like 40 years

06:41:14.300 i thought

06:41:14.600 no he's age 17

06:41:15.540 wow

06:41:15.980 he died pretty young

06:41:16.680 that's pretty unfortunate

06:41:18.060 hey it was the 1500s

06:41:19.620 right i think that was good

06:41:20.640 for his year

06:41:21.940 anyways

06:41:22.260 we can start at the beginning

06:41:26.200 oh okay

06:41:26.720 would you rather be

06:41:28.080 the king's mistress

06:41:29.060 or the peasant's wife

06:41:30.800 peasant's wife 0.91

06:41:32.240 peasant's wife 0.91

06:41:34.280 peasant's wife 0.91

06:41:35.060 king's mistress 0.78

06:41:36.260 i'm not trying to virtue signal

06:41:38.480 when i say peasant's wife

06:41:39.740 but if i was the mistress

06:41:41.060 i'd always like feel a fear 0.79

06:41:42.440 of the queen trying to kill me

06:41:43.800 sometimes

06:41:45.060 she thought that through

06:41:46.080 what about you

06:41:47.500 i'd be the king's mistress 0.92

06:41:48.700 felicity

06:41:49.860 peasant's wife 0.91

06:41:50.860 yeah definitely

06:41:51.860 peasant's wife 0.91

06:41:52.560 i should probably have people

06:41:54.840 just raise their hands

06:41:55.700 all at the same time instead

06:41:56.820 because i feel like

06:41:57.400 if one person

06:41:58.180 this way

06:41:59.280 yeah whatever

06:42:00.400 uh cool

06:42:01.020 let's see what

06:42:02.040 oh let's get into some of the

06:42:03.420 we're gonna blast

06:42:04.380 the depreciation

06:42:04.880 let's blast 0.99

06:42:05.340 blast through the questionnaire

06:42:06.240 what would you want

06:42:08.420 the minimum yearly income

06:42:09.720 to be

06:42:10.180 for your future husband

06:42:11.300 oh

06:42:12.180 i said 400k

06:42:13.700 like right

06:42:14.560 right

06:42:15.080 literally right now

06:42:16.180 at this stage of life

06:42:17.180 or like ideally

06:42:18.080 when we're at our peak

06:42:19.200 i thought

06:42:19.640 didn't you

06:42:20.140 weren't you saying something

06:42:21.100 like you don't care about

06:42:23.080 i know how much i make

06:42:24.720 so you

06:42:26.260 didn't

06:42:27.200 didn't she say

06:42:28.180 that she doesn't care

06:42:29.000 about the money

06:42:29.740 she definitely cares

06:42:31.440 about the money

06:42:32.000 you said you want a guy

06:42:32.960 to make 400k

06:42:34.000 bruv

06:42:34.480 that's like

06:42:35.680 one percenter

06:42:36.840 almost one percenter

06:42:38.480 in la

06:42:39.000 no

06:42:39.840 no well

06:42:41.060 leave la

06:42:41.920 maybe it's a bit

06:42:43.640 different in la

06:42:44.480 it is very different

06:42:45.660 in la

06:42:46.140 okay

06:42:47.380 i don't know the

06:42:48.800 breakdown in la

06:42:49.880 maybe there's a bit

06:42:50.960 higher concentration

06:42:51.920 of high earners

06:42:52.600 in la

06:42:52.980 uh

06:42:54.160 but

06:42:54.520 for the united states

06:42:56.000 so one percent

06:42:56.880 is over five hundred thousand

06:42:58.240 that's the one percent

06:42:59.200 okay

06:43:00.700 so okay fine

06:43:01.800 it's two percent in la

06:43:02.920 that's still

06:43:03.740 that's two percent

06:43:04.540 are you a two percent

06:43:05.940 girl 0.91

06:43:06.280 probably

06:43:08.400 probably

06:43:09.840 yeah

06:43:11.000 what makes you a two percent

06:43:11.940 girl 0.91

06:43:12.220 i make more than

06:43:14.760 the average woman 0.99

06:43:15.680 men don't care about 1.00

06:43:16.480 your money though

06:43:17.040 so what about you

06:43:18.500 makes you a two percent

06:43:19.260 girl 0.91

06:43:19.540 well i'm saying like

06:43:21.240 why would i commit

06:43:22.340 to a man that makes

06:43:23.260 less than me

06:43:24.280 because the economic

06:43:26.060 well if you're saying

06:43:26.980 like i can

06:43:27.660 satisfy myself

06:43:28.880 like i can

06:43:29.860 fulfill my own needs

06:43:31.320 i don't need

06:43:32.700 the money

06:43:33.320 if you don't need

06:43:35.700 the money

06:43:36.300 why do you need

06:43:37.440 a guy who makes

06:43:37.960 four hundred thousand

06:43:38.640 dollars a year

06:43:39.320 because i want someone

06:43:40.680 to make

06:43:41.220 as much or more

06:43:42.440 than me

06:43:43.060 to what end

06:43:44.660 like why

06:43:45.380 you don't want kids

06:43:46.580 so there's not going

06:43:47.460 to be like massive

06:43:48.360 the lifestyle

06:43:49.420 what lifestyle

06:43:50.780 i live a luxury lifestyle

06:43:52.340 you live a luxury lifestyle

06:43:54.180 yes

06:43:54.680 what does that

06:43:55.760 so you want

06:43:56.480 what

06:43:57.360 you already live it though

06:43:59.300 so

06:44:00.220 i want to continue

06:44:01.520 living it

06:44:02.200 okay

06:44:02.760 so money does matter

06:44:05.720 quite substantially

06:44:06.540 to the point that

06:44:07.380 you're going to reject

06:44:08.640 say 98% of men

06:44:11.640 on this basis alone

06:44:13.080 i already do that

06:44:14.260 yeah

06:44:14.560 okay

06:44:16.240 i want a house

06:44:20.820 to have a house

06:44:21.820 in la

06:44:22.200 you need a lot

06:44:23.160 of money

06:44:23.520 you don't need

06:44:23.980 four hundred thousand

06:44:24.820 a year

06:44:25.240 you need a million

06:44:26.100 dollars to buy a condo

06:44:27.080 yeah i know

06:44:27.560 the housing prices

06:44:28.500 are ridiculous 0.62

06:44:29.140 i mean 0.99

06:44:29.880 yes you do need

06:44:30.960 a lot of money

06:44:31.540 in la

06:44:32.120 no but you don't need

06:44:33.020 four hundred thousand

06:44:33.500 i want to live in california

06:44:35.140 la the rest of my life

06:44:37.060 why

06:44:37.560 you don't need

06:44:38.080 four hundred thousand

06:44:38.780 dollars a year

06:44:39.500 because this is my

06:44:40.080 happy place

06:44:41.040 i am happy here

06:44:42.220 it's my happy place

06:44:43.000 you don't think

06:44:43.440 you can be happy

06:44:43.820 what about all the

06:44:44.120 homeless people in la 1.00

06:44:45.100 la is fucking terrible 1.00

06:44:46.580 i lived in jersey 0.99

06:44:47.760 i lived in pennsylvania

06:44:48.860 i lived in new york 0.99

06:44:49.980 those places suck 0.98

06:44:50.940 jersey is literally 0.99

06:44:51.920 the armpit of the u.s 0.98

06:44:53.320 you could

06:44:53.640 they're all full of culture

06:44:54.360 though

06:44:54.760 like la is full of culture

06:44:56.360 yes we have a giant

06:44:57.220 homeless and fentanyl problem

06:44:58.460 but

06:44:58.720 sorry

06:44:59.820 i got too comfortable

06:45:01.000 uh okay

06:45:02.760 you want four hundred

06:45:03.820 thousand dollars a year

06:45:04.840 you want a guy to make

06:45:06.220 four hundred thousand

06:45:06.820 dollars a year

06:45:07.360 uh

06:45:09.060 maybe lower your

06:45:15.900 expectations a little

06:45:16.980 just a teeny bit

06:45:19.380 could you do three hundred

06:45:20.860 thousand

06:45:21.200 just

06:45:22.320 yeah

06:45:23.080 two hundred thousand

06:45:25.280 in this

06:45:27.620 economy

06:45:28.520 no

06:45:28.880 in this economy

06:45:30.300 i can't do the guy

06:45:31.860 who makes two hundred

06:45:32.540 thousand dollars a year

06:45:33.620 like you can't buy a

06:45:34.880 house with that

06:45:35.960 that's the peasant's wife 1.00

06:45:37.180 there

06:45:37.440 aren't you gonna

06:45:38.240 just rent

06:45:38.740 why do i want

06:45:40.480 like i don't want to

06:45:41.820 rent the rest of my

06:45:42.720 life i want to own a

06:45:43.980 house

06:45:44.480 i want to own a place

06:45:46.600 of my own

06:45:47.160 well if you're making

06:45:47.660 four hundred thousand

06:45:48.260 dollars a year

06:45:48.740 are you boss

06:45:49.540 babing it up

06:45:50.240 yes exactly

06:45:51.420 how much do you make

06:45:52.180 currently

06:45:52.460 i don't want to share

06:45:54.500 i make a lot but i

06:45:56.920 don't want to share

06:45:57.620 you make a lot but

06:45:58.680 i do

06:45:59.240 you have housemates

06:46:00.640 i do have housemates

06:46:02.340 you said your rent

06:46:03.900 was eleven hundred

06:46:04.960 exactly

06:46:05.680 but that doesn't mean

06:46:07.220 i don't spend

06:46:08.400 twenty thousand dollars

06:46:09.500 a month

06:46:10.020 is that how much

06:46:11.160 you spend a month

06:46:11.780 sometimes more

06:46:13.120 i have enough

06:46:14.320 to spend how i want it

06:46:15.760 i can swipe my card

06:46:16.920 anywhere i want

06:46:18.100 and get whatever i want

06:46:19.660 at any time

06:46:20.560 and it's not going to

06:46:21.440 decline

06:46:21.940 ariana grande song

06:46:23.920 i want it

06:46:24.760 i want it

06:46:26.320 i got it

06:46:27.080 how's it go

06:46:27.600 i like it

06:46:28.780 i want it

06:46:29.560 i got it

06:46:30.260 oh we got a

06:46:32.920 arianator

06:46:33.580 that was actually

06:46:34.200 pretty good

06:46:34.660 i'm like wait

06:46:35.280 shut your 1.00

06:46:36.600 fucking 1.00

06:46:37.360 i could have 1.00

06:46:41.880 hit you with 1.00

06:46:42.940 the 0.99

06:46:43.200 shut 1.00

06:46:43.640 the fuck 1.00

06:46:44.520 up 0.99

06:46:45.260 just kidding

06:46:45.720 love you mary

06:46:46.300 oh thanks 0.99

06:46:47.800 shit 0.99

06:46:48.300 uh okay 1.00

06:46:49.400 but so

06:46:50.160 what do you

06:46:51.020 just curious

06:46:51.480 what do you spend

06:46:52.120 like twenty

06:46:52.760 twenty thousand dollars

06:46:53.620 a month

06:46:53.860 what are you buying

06:46:54.500 she knows

06:46:55.280 she knows

06:46:55.920 i i spend money

06:46:56.880 like a rapper

06:46:57.460 and i've been told

06:46:58.640 that by multiple

06:46:59.360 people

06:46:59.740 no

06:47:00.100 but i spend money

06:47:01.400 like a rapper

06:47:01.920 does

06:47:02.560 have you ever thought

06:47:04.320 are you investing

06:47:05.220 at all

06:47:05.840 yes

06:47:06.640 get some bitcoin

06:47:07.400 or something

06:47:07.860 i don't know

06:47:08.260 my dad was

06:47:10.900 very into stocks

06:47:12.260 index funds

06:47:14.400 no

06:47:16.760 she was very

06:47:19.640 into stocks

06:47:20.140 but

06:47:20.360 anyways

06:47:21.740 all right

06:47:22.040 i'm not gonna

06:47:22.360 have this 0.99

06:47:22.680 fucking stocks 1.00

06:47:24.120 conversation 0.99

06:47:24.700 all right

06:47:25.720 devon jackson

06:47:27.380 donated

06:47:27.820 69

06:47:28.520 oh boy 1.00

06:47:29.080 oh shit 1.00

06:47:29.700 she wants 1.00

06:47:30.380 400k

06:47:31.280 but doesn't

06:47:31.880 even have

06:47:32.320 the decency

06:47:32.960 to have 1.00

06:47:33.380 bigger tits 1.00

06:47:33.920 or a better 1.00

06:47:34.420 body

06:47:34.860 wow

06:47:35.180 humble yourself

06:47:36.240 lady

06:47:36.740 that was rude

06:47:42.820 that was crazy

06:47:43.860 never said

06:47:49.300 i wouldn't

06:47:49.680 buy bigger 0.99

06:47:50.220 tits 1.00

06:47:50.800 she has

06:47:51.500 talked about

06:47:51.980 oh

06:47:52.420 if you

06:47:52.800 wanted to

06:47:53.240 you would

06:47:53.760 btfo

06:47:55.760 devon

06:47:56.460 that's all

06:47:56.820 we talked

06:47:57.180 about

06:47:57.400 yeah

06:47:57.720 we talked

06:47:58.240 we had

06:47:58.640 this conversation

06:47:59.320 yesterday

06:47:59.800 about getting

06:48:00.480 a boob 0.88

06:48:00.800 job

06:48:01.100 yeah

06:48:01.500 but you're

06:48:01.900 not gonna

06:48:02.180 like

06:48:02.360 i'm not

06:48:02.760 gonna do

06:48:03.100 it

06:48:03.260 actually 0.99

06:48:03.580 no balls 0.98

06:48:04.260 you won't 0.99

06:48:04.680 i probably

06:48:05.280 won't

06:48:05.760 no fake 0.98

06:48:07.640 titties 0.97

06:48:08.040 no fake 0.98

06:48:08.520 titties 0.99

06:48:08.900 because then i 0.98

06:48:09.940 can't lay

06:48:10.200 on my

06:48:10.420 stomach

06:48:10.900 is that a

06:48:12.740 thing

06:48:12.980 it will

06:48:15.160 hurt

06:48:15.400 is it gonna

06:48:15.680 pop

06:48:16.020 i don't

06:48:16.460 i don't

06:48:17.000 know but i

06:48:17.480 also dance 0.71

06:48:17.960 are you a stomach

06:48:18.960 sleeper

06:48:19.540 yeah

06:48:19.780 oh man yeah

06:48:21.140 you can't get 0.99

06:48:21.760 fake titties 0.98

06:48:22.240 now 0.98

06:48:22.620 yeah i know

06:48:23.320 but also like

06:48:24.020 because i dance

06:48:24.500 i don't want

06:48:24.840 that

06:48:25.040 raise a family

06:48:28.740 i don't think

06:48:29.220 this is a place

06:48:29.760 i want to

06:48:30.200 raise kids

06:48:30.520 definitely

06:48:30.840 i want to

06:48:32.120 be out of

06:48:32.640 state but

06:48:33.220 where would

06:48:33.520 i go

06:48:33.880 and then it

06:48:34.280 would be

06:48:34.540 less even

06:48:35.000 out of

06:48:35.280 state to

06:48:35.640 survive

06:48:36.000 and to

06:48:36.280 stretch

06:48:36.520 everything

06:48:36.920 right

06:48:37.260 depends

06:48:38.580 where i'd

06:48:38.860 want to

06:48:39.080 go

06:48:39.160 i don't

06:48:39.320 know

06:48:39.400 where i'd

06:48:39.600 want to

06:48:39.820 go

06:48:39.960 yet

06:48:40.140 because

06:48:40.380 the midwest

06:48:41.580 is nice

06:48:42.060 i'm just

06:48:42.380 saying

06:48:42.640 i'm an

06:48:43.540 east coast

06:48:43.800 girl 0.91

06:48:43.940 i've always

06:48:44.240 lived in

06:48:44.580 la

06:48:44.980 yeah

06:48:45.500 okay

06:48:45.940 there's a big

06:48:47.160 world out

06:48:47.620 there

06:48:47.840 i know

06:48:48.320 each other

06:48:48.900 um okay

06:48:50.080 what about

06:48:50.820 you

06:48:51.000 i don't really

06:48:51.600 have an answer

06:48:52.220 because i don't

06:48:52.720 really care

06:48:53.460 so you'd

06:48:54.560 be okay

06:48:55.000 if a guy

06:48:55.640 made like

06:48:56.460 twenty thousand

06:48:57.000 dollars a

06:48:57.480 year

06:48:57.660 i mean

06:48:59.280 my ex-boyfriend

06:49:00.420 well he's a 1.00

06:49:01.140 piece of shit 1.00

06:49:01.620 now but like 1.00

06:49:02.540 i mean i

06:49:03.000 hey i was

06:49:03.420 with him

06:49:03.660 for a year

06:49:04.200 like and

06:49:05.080 he did

06:49:05.980 not work

06:49:06.420 so i mean

06:49:07.600 it doesn't

06:49:07.980 mean that you

06:49:08.440 have to

06:49:09.320 like

06:49:09.820 i mean like

06:49:10.520 i'm not

06:49:10.900 really thinking

06:49:11.700 honestly

06:49:12.840 about marriage

06:49:15.260 right now

06:49:15.900 because i'm

06:49:16.640 so young

06:49:17.120 i'm just

06:49:17.480 trying to

06:49:17.880 figure myself

06:49:18.640 out

06:49:18.960 i'm not

06:49:19.300 really thinking

06:49:19.740 about that

06:49:20.320 so that's

06:49:21.380 just me

06:49:21.700 personally

06:49:22.220 still keep

06:49:22.880 it in

06:49:23.880 the view

06:49:25.000 because

06:49:25.980 10 years

06:49:27.020 gets behind

06:49:27.600 you really 0.61

06:49:28.300 really freaking

06:49:29.040 fast

06:49:29.580 so i mean

06:49:31.240 like you're

06:49:31.860 you're young

06:49:32.320 now you're

06:49:32.920 what 22

06:49:33.520 you said

06:49:33.880 yeah

06:49:34.260 so i mean

06:49:35.900 in 10 years

06:49:36.640 it's 32

06:49:37.240 like i

06:49:38.900 started a little

06:49:39.500 early having

06:49:40.060 kids but

06:49:40.700 i had my

06:49:42.060 second son

06:49:42.620 when i was

06:49:43.240 30 and

06:49:44.260 i mean like

06:49:45.020 i really wish

06:49:45.700 that i could

06:49:46.740 have more kids

06:49:47.560 it would be

06:49:47.940 nice to have

06:49:48.640 more kids

06:49:49.240 especially like

06:49:50.180 knowing what

06:49:51.560 i know now

06:49:52.320 about like

06:49:52.940 how far

06:49:53.300 we've come

06:49:53.880 i mean like

06:49:54.640 we were

06:49:55.300 we were dirt

06:49:55.880 dirt broke

06:49:56.840 dirt broke

06:49:57.920 you want children 0.91

06:49:59.000 i mean i'm not

06:50:00.860 really thinking

06:50:01.300 about it

06:50:01.580 i have a brother

06:50:02.060 so like i used

06:50:03.400 to watch him

06:50:04.400 i mean i mean

06:50:05.280 i would love

06:50:05.740 to have kids

06:50:06.400 but like

06:50:07.040 again it's not

06:50:08.120 the thing

06:50:08.680 that's on my

06:50:09.140 head

06:50:09.420 so you do

06:50:10.440 want children

06:50:11.060 in the future

06:50:11.740 yeah but

06:50:12.660 i don't even

06:50:13.340 know when

06:50:13.860 if that happens

06:50:14.920 it happens

06:50:15.300 if it doesn't

06:50:15.760 it doesn't

06:50:16.160 but i'm not

06:50:16.640 looking at

06:50:17.280 oh have it

06:50:17.820 in a couple

06:50:18.180 years

06:50:18.660 you want

06:50:19.580 to get

06:50:19.820 married

06:50:20.280 i mean

06:50:22.200 i wouldn't

06:50:22.640 mind getting

06:50:23.040 married

06:50:23.360 but like

06:50:24.560 like i said

06:50:25.220 i'm not

06:50:25.640 looking at

06:50:26.220 that right

06:50:26.580 now

06:50:26.820 like it's

06:50:27.720 not right

06:50:28.120 now

06:50:28.420 but in

06:50:28.800 general

06:50:29.040 i'm not

06:50:29.580 i'm not

06:50:29.960 thinking about

06:50:30.540 it to be

06:50:31.220 honest

06:50:31.560 okay so

06:50:32.940 say you

06:50:33.560 have kids

06:50:34.020 do you want

06:50:34.640 to stay

06:50:35.340 at home

06:50:35.900 and raise

06:50:36.520 them or

06:50:37.300 do you want

06:50:37.900 to split

06:50:38.900 it with your

06:50:39.340 partner and

06:50:39.840 go to work

06:50:40.420 he takes

06:50:41.340 care of

06:50:41.720 some of

06:50:42.020 if we're

06:50:42.360 together

06:50:42.800 like if

06:50:44.500 we're married

06:50:45.260 and we have

06:50:45.600 kids together

06:50:46.240 yeah i think

06:50:47.780 that yeah i

06:50:48.780 think both of

06:50:49.340 us should take

06:50:49.780 care of the

06:50:50.140 kid so you

06:50:51.100 would work as

06:50:51.760 well yeah

06:50:52.340 okay so

06:50:54.280 you don't know

06:50:56.180 how much you

06:50:56.580 don't have to

06:50:57.020 make no i

06:50:57.840 don't really

06:50:58.280 even if you

06:50:59.000 like split it

06:50:59.700 well not right

06:51:00.580 now just like

06:51:01.320 in the future

06:51:01.940 doesn't like

06:51:02.420 not i'm not

06:51:03.100 asking about

06:51:03.660 right now

06:51:04.080 well i don't

06:51:04.820 i don't know

06:51:05.420 like i don't

06:51:06.520 i don't really

06:51:07.400 want to answer

06:51:07.940 it i don't know

06:51:08.860 why that's a

06:51:09.220 problem it's not

06:51:10.620 a problem we're

06:51:11.180 just asking

06:51:11.820 yeah and i'm

06:51:12.460 saying i don't

06:51:12.940 really want to

06:51:13.440 answer it

06:51:14.020 because i don't

06:51:15.200 care anyways

06:51:15.920 so what about

06:51:16.580 you i think

06:51:18.140 i it's ideally

06:51:19.040 right like down

06:51:20.020 the line or

06:51:21.080 yeah i mean just

06:51:22.040 whatever you want

06:51:22.920 your husband to

06:51:23.700 make ideally

06:51:24.460 the minimum

06:51:25.180 honestly ideally

06:51:28.340 i would say

06:51:29.100 probably 200,000

06:51:30.800 because i also i

06:51:32.860 enjoy living the

06:51:34.460 lifestyle that i

06:51:35.120 live i like

06:51:35.740 designer i like

06:51:36.860 going on nice

06:51:37.460 vacations at nice

06:51:38.400 hotels i like

06:51:39.240 driving nice cars

06:51:40.420 um and i do plan

06:51:42.380 on having a family

06:51:43.200 one day and i

06:51:44.080 would love to

06:51:44.620 build generational

06:51:45.340 wealth you know

06:51:46.180 to make sure

06:51:46.600 that my kids

06:51:47.160 are set for

06:51:47.640 life and their

06:51:48.320 kids are set

06:51:49.000 and yeah i

06:51:50.560 think to be

06:51:51.480 honest just

06:51:52.480 with the

06:51:53.300 friends that i

06:51:54.240 have i i

06:51:56.500 think that that

06:51:57.160 is definitely

06:51:57.640 possible and

06:51:58.580 that's like

06:51:59.000 honestly on the

06:51:59.660 lower end of

06:52:00.380 people that i

06:52:01.580 would like to

06:52:02.600 have a romantic

06:52:03.620 relationship with

06:52:04.420 and that doesn't

06:52:04.920 mean you know

06:52:05.520 trying to use

06:52:07.120 them for their

06:52:07.680 money it's just

06:52:08.520 part of my

06:52:09.480 standard of living

06:52:10.180 and lifestyle and

06:52:11.500 i think that

06:52:12.220 there's someone out

06:52:13.000 there who will

06:52:13.660 help me achieve

06:52:14.820 that because you

06:52:16.200 know i make my

06:52:16.860 money too so

06:52:18.080 you live in los

06:52:18.820 angeles right i

06:52:19.540 do yeah i'm

06:52:20.300 currently a student

06:52:20.940 at usc 200

06:52:22.500 000 isn't low

06:52:24.000 but i understand

06:52:25.440 because of your

06:52:26.440 location you want

06:52:27.440 children and such

06:52:28.400 kind of makes

06:52:30.260 sense i mean how

06:52:31.080 many kids do you

06:52:31.580 want i would like

06:52:32.500 three eventually

06:52:33.800 though probably not

06:52:34.860 for at least ideally

06:52:36.420 if everything goes

06:52:37.420 to plan at least

06:52:38.900 like 10 to 12

06:52:40.000 years um like

06:52:41.480 in in my 30s

06:52:42.640 i think that

06:52:43.140 would be great

06:52:43.720 for me because

06:52:44.180 i want to live

06:52:44.660 my life for

06:52:45.320 myself right now

06:52:46.300 and with my

06:52:47.780 partner when i

06:52:48.720 meet them and

06:52:49.460 then i want to

06:52:50.600 hopefully be able

06:52:51.660 to step into the

06:52:52.500 role of more of

06:52:53.280 a full-time

06:52:53.780 caretaker when i

06:52:54.540 do have kids

06:52:55.220 um so you

06:52:56.320 want to like

06:52:56.920 right now

06:52:57.380 you want to

06:52:58.420 kind of take

06:52:59.380 some time away

06:53:00.040 from work and

06:53:00.940 be supported

06:53:01.540 that would be

06:53:01.740 ideal yeah

06:53:02.300 because like

06:53:03.100 you've mentioned

06:53:03.860 before you just

06:53:04.600 you don't get

06:53:05.100 that time back

06:53:06.000 and family is a

06:53:06.840 big value of

06:53:07.640 mine um yeah

06:53:09.300 i would like

06:53:09.740 to do that

06:53:10.200 ideally but

06:53:11.180 it's it's all

06:53:11.960 about you know

06:53:12.740 what your reality

06:53:13.460 is and financials

06:53:14.820 are a huge part

06:53:15.940 of it for sure

06:53:17.020 i mean for what

06:53:17.840 you want you

06:53:18.300 want to live

06:53:18.660 comfortably you

06:53:19.320 want three 0.98

06:53:19.680 children and

06:53:20.340 the location

06:53:20.920 it's not i

06:53:21.980 don't think

06:53:22.340 that's anything

06:53:23.060 crazy i think

06:53:23.960 it's not low

06:53:24.900 at all i think

06:53:26.080 it's pretty high

06:53:26.860 but for what

06:53:28.340 you want yeah

06:53:29.700 what about you

06:53:30.560 ellie um i

06:53:32.640 obviously don't

06:53:33.260 have like too

06:53:33.860 much experience

06:53:34.520 financially so i'm

06:53:36.280 trying to envision

06:53:37.020 myself in the

06:53:37.840 future

06:53:38.220 and like with

06:53:39.580 a partner

06:53:40.020 so in california

06:53:42.480 it's very expensive

06:53:43.340 where i live right

06:53:44.180 now in my city

06:53:44.920 san diego

06:53:45.680 i'm like 80k

06:53:47.380 but that's because

06:53:48.100 like my partner

06:53:49.060 i'm looking for

06:53:50.060 ambition and

06:53:51.960 potential like

06:53:54.020 potential for

06:53:54.620 earning and like

06:53:55.660 um i don't know

06:53:56.920 maybe i could find

06:53:57.780 out i'm infertile

06:53:58.400 and i can't even

06:53:58.840 have kids and it's

06:53:59.720 not on the cards

06:54:00.200 for me so um

06:54:01.520 if i'm really in

06:54:02.900 love like i don't

06:54:03.880 think it really

06:54:04.820 matters too much

06:54:05.420 my income

06:54:06.080 but there's

06:54:07.440 enough to

06:54:07.880 support you

06:54:08.520 yeah how

06:54:09.320 many kids

06:54:09.640 do you want

06:54:10.040 like three

06:54:13.560 minimum

06:54:14.000 really what's

06:54:15.760 your maximum

06:54:16.260 five like not

06:54:17.680 too many

06:54:18.120 okay

06:54:18.620 five

06:54:19.380 they're expensive

06:54:19.860 they're very

06:54:20.660 expensive

06:54:20.960 that's why i like

06:54:21.640 five kids you guys

06:54:22.560 are no that's like

06:54:23.420 that 80k was like

06:54:25.620 if it was me i

06:54:26.980 think having somebody

06:54:28.300 that completely like

06:54:30.040 supports you financially

06:54:31.040 is like rare and

06:54:33.800 not rare but you

06:54:34.540 know very lucky to

06:54:35.580 have so i would be

06:54:36.540 very thankful to

06:54:37.580 have somebody that's

06:54:38.940 willing to share

06:54:39.700 that with me and

06:54:40.960 in southern

06:54:41.380 california yeah

06:54:42.540 yeah i think i think

06:54:44.580 the median for

06:54:45.820 california is

06:54:46.940 somewhere like 40

06:54:47.920 or 60 grand so

06:54:50.140 80 is yeah 80 is

06:54:51.740 fine what about

06:54:53.040 you um i would

06:54:54.280 say like minimum

06:54:55.700 100 000 where do

06:54:58.900 you live um i live

06:54:59.900 in la and i just

06:55:02.200 like i do also see

06:55:03.380 myself here as like

06:55:04.760 a forever place i do

06:55:05.920 want kids i do like

06:55:08.020 i do like i'm a

06:55:09.260 shopping person so i

06:55:10.740 love to shop i love

06:55:11.760 to like go do things

06:55:12.980 and travel yeah

06:55:14.400 yeah how many kids

06:55:15.720 do you want um i

06:55:16.520 want at least two

06:55:17.280 okay and you're

06:55:19.080 gonna stay in la

06:55:19.820 yeah okay i mean i

06:55:22.180 don't really see

06:55:22.840 anything wrong with

06:55:23.600 100 000 for the

06:55:24.640 area yeah what

06:55:25.860 about you uh 100

06:55:27.720 000 as well i think

06:55:29.060 um especially since

06:55:30.180 i'll be making over

06:55:31.280 100 i think it's

06:55:32.280 only fair kind of

06:55:33.320 like what you're

06:55:33.640 saying i want you

06:55:34.340 to match how much

06:55:35.860 i'm making just

06:55:36.460 because i don't know

06:55:37.900 be nice and plus i

06:55:39.080 want to have more

06:55:39.640 than two kids so

06:55:40.600 that's kind of hard

06:55:41.080 to do in orange

06:55:41.800 county um yeah

06:55:43.740 wait how many kids

06:55:45.020 do you want uh i

06:55:46.520 would say minimum

06:55:47.060 two maximum three

06:55:48.260 okay honestly me

06:55:50.080 too yeah yeah

06:55:51.360 yeah i'm an only

06:55:52.460 child and i feel

06:55:53.420 like every only child

06:55:54.460 like would never

06:55:55.220 have an only child

06:55:56.160 right and i

06:55:57.540 wouldn't yeah

06:55:58.080 maybe three for

06:55:59.240 me yeah

06:55:59.880 yeah i think

06:56:01.260 it's fair

06:56:01.580 that is fair

06:56:02.680 what about you

06:56:03.580 um i don't

06:56:04.700 remember what i

06:56:05.640 put on my

06:56:06.240 paper actually

06:56:07.980 just let me pull

06:56:08.600 it up

06:56:08.880 100 000

06:56:12.760 that's not

06:56:14.600 you no

06:56:15.100 that's weird

06:56:16.760 is that you

06:56:17.880 no

06:56:18.140 i was originally

06:56:20.200 sitting over there

06:56:21.020 what chair

06:56:21.780 oh gosh three

06:56:23.380 four four

06:56:24.260 yeah yeah

06:56:24.940 let's see

06:56:25.860 you didn't even

06:56:27.280 answer yeah i did

06:56:28.140 not even answer um

06:56:29.540 i don't know

06:56:31.100 realistically i live

06:56:32.040 in the midwest so

06:56:32.620 it's not like it's

06:56:33.980 a super high cost

06:56:35.040 of living i would

06:56:36.240 say probably like

06:56:37.340 80 90 would be

06:56:40.660 nice you live in

06:56:42.120 kentucky kansas

06:56:43.480 kansas okay

06:56:44.880 yeah okay i mean i

06:56:46.320 i don't know anything

06:56:47.740 about the definitely

06:56:48.400 definitely a lower

06:56:49.880 cost of living um i'm

06:56:51.240 from maryland i think

06:56:54.260 like in order to live

06:56:55.240 comfortably in my

06:56:56.460 hometown i definitely

06:56:59.040 definitely need to be

06:57:00.480 making over 100k

06:57:01.520 especially like if i

06:57:03.420 were to stick in the

06:57:04.680 neighborhood where i

06:57:05.480 was i was born and

06:57:06.820 raised yeah probably

06:57:09.160 like 100 150

06:57:10.080 okay i don't know

06:57:13.800 anything about those

06:57:15.140 locations

06:57:15.760 bigger cities usually

06:57:16.980 bigger cities require

06:57:18.020 like more cost of

06:57:18.920 living expenses and

06:57:20.100 stuff like that whereas

06:57:20.940 like out in like the

06:57:21.740 rural like areas you 0.55

06:57:23.300 can find a decent

06:57:24.540 house like for like

06:57:26.400 300 you know 400

06:57:29.420 even like even like on

06:57:31.160 the upper end of like

06:57:32.460 lawrence you could find

06:57:33.500 a really nice house for

06:57:34.380 like 400 000

06:57:35.120 so where's this again

06:57:37.460 um kansas kansas

06:57:39.700 northeast kansas okay

06:57:41.400 yeah so like not topeka

06:57:43.980 like a little bit further

06:57:46.660 east of topeka so like

06:57:48.940 right outside kansas so

06:57:50.180 kansas city is like there's

06:57:52.340 half in missouri and then

06:57:54.180 half in kansas and that's

06:57:55.900 kind of like the huge city in

06:57:57.680 like in the city you'd

06:57:59.020 probably need more but

06:58:00.180 all right uh besides her was

06:58:05.400 there anybody who desired a

06:58:06.660 pretty high income or not

06:58:07.980 really i i think i was the

06:58:10.380 highest i said 200 i said 100k

06:58:13.320 hundred day i didn't care yeah

06:58:14.980 come on there's some number

06:58:17.520 right well i'm these are out of

06:58:19.260 order who's paul uh paulina it's

06:58:21.620 like it's the same the same

06:58:23.320 thing as long as we can both

06:58:24.400 support ourselves like i mean i

06:58:26.140 don't really see an issue with

06:58:28.280 whatever you make jamie right

06:58:30.460 yes okay and it's like having

06:58:33.060 kids it's like it's not like

06:58:34.620 after like the maybe the first or

06:58:36.020 second one it could be like kind

06:58:38.900 of pricey but i mean like you

06:58:40.580 don't need to buy like new 0.99

06:58:43.520 shit every time you have a 1.00

06:58:44.920 kid you said 100k yeah 200 1.00

06:58:47.060 280 100 100 100 damn y'all 0.98

06:58:52.300 80 90 i think why look i was 0.98

06:58:55.240 comfortable where we're at

06:58:55.980 related to the looks thing

06:58:57.060 related to this conversation

06:58:58.180 right now about income why

06:59:01.800 don't average women want 1.00

06:59:03.140 average men well let me just

06:59:06.460 say that going to the school

06:59:09.040 that i go to the connections

06:59:10.320 that i've had the places i've

06:59:12.480 worked i foresee that i will be

06:59:15.340 making an income close to if not

06:59:19.480 more than what i am looking for in

06:59:21.420 a romantic partner so it's just my

06:59:24.500 standard of living and obviously

06:59:26.180 we'll see what happens but based on

06:59:28.600 the lifestyle that i lead and have

06:59:31.580 lived i just i like buying nice

06:59:34.500 things i like going on nice trips

06:59:36.300 trips and it's just part of my

06:59:38.420 standard of living and the lifestyle

06:59:40.520 that i would like to live

06:59:42.220 is there something wrong with that

06:59:45.960 well the i guess the issue is is

06:59:50.460 what proportion of men meet your

06:59:52.420 criteria so if you're looking at you

06:59:54.900 know 200k whatever percentage is that

06:59:56.940 and then it's like okay do they meet

06:59:59.060 all your other criteria too are they

07:00:01.240 good looking are they xyz their

07:00:02.640 personality is good their height they're

07:00:04.240 single they're loyal all these other

07:00:05.620 things you start boiling down to a

07:00:08.040 really really small percentage of men

07:00:09.780 most women you know even removing 1.00

07:00:12.100 income entirely from the

07:00:13.440 conversation women are incredibly 1.00

07:00:16.040 picky to begin with so it's like you're

07:00:17.900 just adding on another layer of

07:00:20.200 like you're just continuing to chisel down

07:00:26.020 the potential dating pool i'm just

07:00:28.320 saying man

07:00:28.960 a lot of average women 1.00

07:00:31.820 don't want average men and that 1.00

07:00:34.780 includes average income

07:00:36.020 i'm not gonna lie

07:00:38.100 we got a table full of average women 1.00

07:00:42.060 speak for yourself

07:00:44.300 i think i'm an average guy

07:00:46.360 we've got a table full of average women 1.00

07:00:48.860 but your desires are for above average

07:00:52.360 men

07:00:52.620 well that's financially speaking

07:00:55.000 yeah we didn't start i'm thinking

07:00:57.320 more practical with the cost of living

07:00:59.180 in la and raising a family with three

07:01:01.060 kids

07:01:01.300 it's not it's not even um uh i'm

07:01:04.660 undervaluing them in a way or trying to

07:01:06.780 ask for too much i'm tending to kids

07:01:08.700 it's a lot to raise a family in la now

07:01:11.660 if i was in an out of state it would be

07:01:14.260 different because your money goes a lot

07:01:15.640 further out of state

07:01:16.520 so it's more practical with the times

07:01:19.060 that have changed and the cost of living

07:01:20.340 that's changed

07:01:21.020 that's it

07:01:21.960 also i don't think a single one of us

07:01:23.880 here

07:01:24.380 said something that we're not willing to

07:01:27.380 bring to the table either

07:01:28.240 like all of us would be happy to make

07:01:30.780 that much money

07:01:31.620 right but

07:01:32.280 as well

07:01:33.120 men don't really care about the money 1.00

07:01:34.740 that you bring to the table so i

07:01:36.300 i get that you're bringing that thing

07:01:39.120 but it doesn't make you more attractive

07:01:40.780 and oftentimes

07:01:41.480 your career your money your success all

07:01:44.680 this stuff

07:01:45.040 it's usually never a plus for the guy

07:01:47.440 oftentimes being a boss babe comes 0.99

07:01:50.220 with a bunch of fucking issues 1.00

07:01:51.340 it's a pain in the ass to make plans 1.00

07:01:53.160 with you you're constantly busy 1.00

07:01:54.480 you're fucking tired from work you're 0.99

07:01:56.840 stressed out from work you're 1.00

07:01:57.940 masculinized because of your work

07:01:59.620 i disagree with that i think

07:02:02.120 bro nurse your your health care uh

07:02:05.220 you're gonna be a pa yeah 1.00

07:02:06.860 uh nurses like that's within the 1.00

07:02:09.400 health care purview yeah bro nurses

07:02:12.780 because like i don't even don't get 1.00

07:02:15.060 me started with fucking nurses 1.00

07:02:16.040 i'm not a nurse no let's get them 0.99

07:02:17.980 started i know but you're in like

07:02:19.620 you're in health care right i don't

07:02:21.580 know if you're gonna be working

07:02:22.620 emergency medicine

07:02:23.640 yeah yes oh yeah you're gonna be 0.98

07:02:26.220 fucking stressed 0.96

07:02:26.920 emergency emergency medicine is super 0.99

07:02:29.760 crazy i mean it's good

07:02:30.840 it's it's uh we need people to do that

07:02:34.120 kind of work

07:02:34.720 but you're it's stressful work

07:02:36.640 it is you're gonna bring that home

07:02:38.220 to your relationship

07:02:39.200 but that's why men don't want a 1.00

07:02:41.840 boss babe

07:02:42.400 but i'm not i wouldn't class myself

07:02:44.560 classify myself as a boss babe i'm

07:02:46.700 doing this because this is what we

07:02:47.880 need to do to have a comfortable

07:02:49.040 life in california

07:02:50.020 if i could not work i would be

07:02:52.140 completely fine with that but

07:02:53.420 unfortunately like i have these

07:02:56.300 goals and and we want to do

07:02:58.280 certain things so that's kind of

07:02:59.280 what you have to do you know kind of

07:03:00.740 just make the sacrifice

07:03:01.460 no i get that there's an economic and

07:03:03.120 financial reality that especially in a

07:03:04.880 place high cost of living area like

07:03:07.180 california you're probably going to

07:03:08.720 need two incomes

07:03:09.620 i'm just saying that the it is a

07:03:13.380 reality but the manifestation of that

07:03:15.720 reality

07:03:16.240 the reality of the reality does that 0.92

07:03:18.600 even fucking make sense

07:03:19.380 is the real real men don't want like 0.87

07:03:22.920 that's not the ideal for men we don't

07:03:24.780 want no boss babe 0.99

07:03:25.760 we don't want it you wouldn't be okay

07:03:27.780 with like knowing that your woman could

07:03:29.960 be

07:03:30.560 taking off some of the stress for you

07:03:33.280 financially

07:03:33.760 at some point i feel like that a lot

07:03:36.040 of the stress i mean look a lot of

07:03:37.480 the stress on men is to provide 0.99

07:03:39.400 financially and i think yeah if your

07:03:41.040 partner brings 50 50 or some to the

07:03:43.140 table i think that lowers the pressure

07:03:44.680 on them

07:03:45.120 i i agree with you that it can

07:03:48.700 from it depends on what dynamic or

07:03:51.960 perspective we're looking at it from

07:03:53.380 uh in your case you said you're

07:03:55.980 engaged you're going to get married

07:03:57.200 yeah sure you're going to lessen the

07:03:59.520 financial burden

07:04:00.220 on him i mean i can speak from me

07:04:02.920 specifically i know not all men are

07:04:05.560 going to fall into this

07:04:06.680 like the girl that i'm with i'm taking

07:04:09.400 care of everything like she doesn't

07:04:11.120 have to work right i know not all men

07:04:13.600 are going to be able because of the

07:04:15.040 economic reality

07:04:15.960 to do something like that i understand

07:04:18.520 the woman's going to have to work 1.00

07:04:19.880 that's just how it is

07:04:20.800 uh that that's one of the

07:04:22.360 manifestations of feminism but

07:04:23.880 look in terms of it making men more

07:04:28.560 attracted to women i guess i would

07:04:31.380 also say at least very early on in

07:04:33.300 relationships absent marriage absent

07:04:35.860 you guys sharing you know expenses

07:04:38.880 most women don't share their resources 1.00

07:04:41.320 with men in that kind of way 0.92

07:04:42.960 she's a high earner she says she spent 1.00

07:04:47.100 twenty thirty thousand dollars a month

07:04:49.200 despite her being a high earner she

07:04:52.160 doesn't pay for dates she offers she 1.00

07:04:54.920 doesn't want to pay for dates she 1.00

07:04:56.300 wants the guy to pay for dates so it's

07:04:58.580 funny even when women do make money 1.00

07:05:00.220 the reason we don't care about y'all

07:05:01.580 money even if you do make it you

07:05:04.060 don't share your resources with us the

07:05:06.420 same way we share our resources with

07:05:08.240 you i think that's just her situation

07:05:10.600 though it's most women who make money 1.00

07:05:12.840 women i i guess i'll give women credit 0.95

07:05:15.360 to some men are simps out here men are

07:05:17.700 getting finessed and just women are smart 1.00

07:05:22.260 with their money you you will keep your

07:05:25.080 money to yourself and you could be

07:05:28.560 there's there's a famous like or not

07:05:30.700 famous a viral tiktok of this young guy

07:05:33.360 who's dating this girl and he was he was

07:05:35.580 like yeah i pay for everything i pay for

07:05:37.220 dates and um some interviewer asked them

07:05:41.720 how much do you have in your savings

07:05:43.140 account and she was like oh i have

07:05:44.340 seventy thousand dollars in my saving

07:05:45.500 account and he was like i have like 500

07:05:48.100 bucks oh he's still he's still paying

07:05:50.740 for everything so even when y'all have

07:05:52.560 money you don't share your resources with

07:05:55.660 us in that same way and if you do you

07:05:58.760 begrudgingly do it and then you start

07:06:00.800 growing contempt and resentment for the

07:06:03.200 man who you're having to provide

07:06:05.660 resources to so men women move very very 0.94

07:06:08.640 differently i don't know why that is

07:06:11.100 though what what what do you it's not

07:06:13.040 doesn't come natural to y'all you're not

07:06:15.580 built to be providers

07:06:17.100 not built to provide

07:06:20.080 instinctual oh you're turned

07:06:22.080 biological i have to pay for a dude oh 0.88

07:06:24.340 my god 1.00

07:06:24.780 pussy dry you don't think that's societal 1.00

07:06:26.340 though you think that was truly just 0.99

07:06:28.120 innate born in us i feel like that was

07:06:29.660 just what society yeah it's society too

07:06:31.300 okay yeah sure it's society too but i

07:06:33.220 don't think women like it probably goes

07:06:35.360 down to men went out and hunted right

07:06:38.420 we gather the berries and there's some

07:06:42.280 evolutionary psychology component to it

07:06:45.160 totally but i don't know i don't see a

07:06:48.020 all all the bunch of women are making a 1.00

07:06:50.780 bunch of money they're doing good most

07:06:52.340 women in major cities they're earning just 1.00

07:06:54.360 as much as men if not more i don't see

07:06:56.920 these women dying to take out men because 1.00

07:06:59.360 we don't need men we want men i don't 0.99

07:07:02.600 how does that compute with what i just

07:07:05.280 said like there's a difference a guy

07:07:08.660 needs a girl to come home to you to do 1.00

07:07:12.080 his laundry but you don't make it y'all

07:07:14.400 don't y'all don't do it but that's what

07:07:17.020 you want you want that in a woman 1.00

07:07:19.140 i don't need anything from a man i'm

07:07:24.220 self-sufficient on my own i just want a

07:07:26.300 man

07:07:26.740 what what though wait hold on what for

07:07:30.000 how long for like your whole life

07:07:31.340 whatever what did kevin samuels say men

07:07:34.060 built the world around you yeah and

07:07:36.000 there's a lack of appreciation for that

07:07:37.800 if you really put your money where your

07:07:39.240 mouth is just get rid of everything

07:07:40.960 they built your car your home all of

07:07:44.400 your luxuries she when i think to be

07:07:47.080 charitable when she says women don't 1.00

07:07:49.140 need men she's not saying as a

07:07:53.020 collective she's saying

07:07:54.300 individualistically more

07:07:55.640 individualistic but my point still

07:07:57.780 do you definitely need men on a societal 0.99

07:08:01.040 level beyond yeah but women are even 1.00

07:08:04.600 sort of ignorant to that nowadays 0.98

07:08:08.020 because men have made society so 0.98

07:08:10.480 comfortable and so protected they've

07:08:13.640 created the beast well here so to do a

07:08:17.260 very rudimentary explanation of this so

07:08:20.060 like tip let's say you lived in a small

07:08:22.020 tribe and there's the wilderness on the

07:08:24.860 outside and there's animals there's

07:08:26.700 other tribes that's all very in your

07:08:29.320 face

07:08:29.780 and then just like the harsh reality of

07:08:33.540 like where are we gonna get our next

07:08:36.160 water from where we're gonna get our

07:08:37.620 next food from really just like base

07:08:40.600 level survival harsh reality men have

07:08:43.540 created society and created a system that

07:08:46.280 has basically streamlined all of that

07:08:49.300 through industry through civilization

07:08:51.680 building and women are just like move 1.00

07:08:54.680 through society not realizing that

07:08:57.100 society was created and functions due to

07:09:01.120 men's genius ingenuity and continuity of

07:09:06.340 labor so even though we have this existing

07:09:09.660 infrastructure if all men disappear 1.00

07:09:11.960 y'all fucked like within 72 hours 1.00

07:09:17.280 the electrical grid gone internet gone 0.99

07:09:21.800 fires start breaking out 90 percent 90

07:09:25.220 percent or i don't know the exact

07:09:26.520 percentage majority firefighters are men

07:09:29.500 uh the what's the other thing i mean all

07:09:34.260 these critical industries you remove men for 72

07:09:38.180 hours devastating to the system i honestly

07:09:41.000 here's here's my view if all men

07:09:43.240 disappeared and women didn't have time to 1.00

07:09:45.200 like even prep for it even if they prep for

07:09:47.060 it i'm not sure how that would go

07:09:48.180 but if men just disappeared without any

07:09:50.280 pre-planning 50 percent of women would be 1.00

07:09:53.320 dead within two weeks you understand that

07:09:55.380 those systems were set up by men though

07:09:57.220 good that's a good that's a it's a good

07:09:59.060 thing that's what they're capable of if

07:10:00.520 women were running society we would still 1.00

07:10:02.280 be living in grass huts yeah because and

07:10:06.600 you might think that that's crazy thing to

07:10:08.560 say but the the cascading necessity of

07:10:12.860 physical strength to have been able to build

07:10:16.040 certain machinery that now like for example

07:10:18.620 well a woman can handle uh you know this 0.95

07:10:21.440 machine i don't know a bulldozer i i guess

07:10:24.340 but the the industry and what led up to those

07:10:29.280 sorts of things was just brute strength and

07:10:32.460 that this is like really pulled back analysis

07:10:36.580 here but women don't have the same physical 1.00

07:10:41.620 strength as men yeah and they thus they would

07:10:44.020 not have been able to invent certain things or

07:10:49.140 have the requisite strength to have enabled the

07:10:53.580 industrial revolution revolution well i totally

07:10:56.380 agree with where you're coming from from a

07:10:58.780 physical labor standpoint i think that we

07:11:00.740 would not be where we are without men but i

07:11:02.740 think that until very recently women did not

07:11:05.420 have the intellectual opportunities to

07:11:07.660 contribute in ways that maybe they would have

07:11:09.680 been what why are you grimacing at that

07:11:11.740 because it's completely like because that's

07:11:13.780 true because it's false when did when did

07:11:16.360 women scientists join nasa much later than 1.00

07:11:18.840 men you know that's nasa that's that's 0.65

07:11:21.760 even with the whole point of this argument

07:11:25.360 though that's an intellectual asset that

07:11:27.640 women did not have the opportunity to join 0.99

07:11:29.940 they're not contributing and if they get an

07:11:31.800 education they end up on only fans

07:11:33.560 that's such a crazy generalization

07:11:35.760 that's a reality that's that's that's a

07:11:37.920 generalization though no it's a good

07:11:39.480 generalization it's a reality

07:11:41.060 somebody say that it's not a good

07:11:44.160 generalization somebody in the chat said

07:11:46.260 laroy mccoy a good point most industrial

07:11:49.000 innovations are labor multipliers labor that

07:11:53.260 was previously done by men so it's kind of

07:11:55.760 like i know there's it must be a specific

07:11:58.240 term for this i don't know if it's gatekeeping

07:12:00.780 but there's basically like a threshold that

07:12:03.740 needs to be passed before you can reach the

07:12:06.400 next point and if the threshold to get to

07:12:09.360 that next level of civilization is a base

07:12:12.760 level of physical strength women just 1.00

07:12:14.960 wouldn't have had the base level of physical

07:12:17.460 strength to even do it and then you can get

07:12:19.560 into other conversations like um i agree with

07:12:23.260 like that there's well i'm not going to go into

07:12:25.300 the uh greater male variability stuff as it

07:12:28.640 relates to intellect but um yeah that's

07:12:31.360 another i just think once that threshold is

07:12:33.460 met that until very recently in terms of all

07:12:37.120 the history that women could have contributed

07:12:39.060 more to that upper threshold once that base

07:12:41.560 labor was met

07:12:42.600 i suppose but even the jobs today that society

07:12:49.200 relies on i'm talking critical infrastructure

07:12:52.460 jobs these are still predominated almost entirely by men

07:12:55.920 yeah and if men were all of a sudden

07:12:58.340 disappeared you wouldn't be able like women 1.00

07:13:03.460 wouldn't have the knowledge base or even the

07:13:05.740 physical strength yeah to do some of these

07:13:07.760 jobs they haven't given they haven't been given

07:13:09.640 the opportunity yes it's not it's not it's

07:13:13.520 not an opportunity it's that women don't want 1.00

07:13:16.480 to do those jobs not all women but i see what

07:13:19.340 the female brain isn't wired like that the male 1.00

07:13:22.080 brain is so different well i wouldn't even make it

07:13:24.120 about the brain i'll just keep it to physical

07:13:25.640 strength um but here pull up uh nick pull up the

07:13:29.440 discord we'll really quickly uh go into uh men at

07:13:33.740 work and while you're doing that i'm just going to let

07:13:35.940 some of these come through hold on one sec

07:13:39.020 base thor donated 69 69 tts get them in trying to

07:13:45.920 understand women at this point thank you man they put

07:13:48.540 hair on their hair put eyelashes on their eyelashes put 0.92

07:13:51.780 nails on their nails women are so fake these days 1.00

07:13:55.620 brian remove the makeup 304s yo thank you base thor

07:14:01.040 appreciate it man thank you for the message maybe if

07:14:03.160 time permitting we'll do the makeup segment

07:14:06.020 toast donated 69 dollars i don't understand the money

07:14:10.720 requirements i live in midwest i just bought a house

07:14:14.040 five bed two bath i make 45k a year and still have money to

07:14:18.700 save for a family you'll need to make better decisions

07:14:22.400 okay toast how much does your partner make in a year

07:14:28.580 i don't think he might have not had one i don't know

07:14:33.020 you can make 45 000 chau xd donated 69

07:14:37.640 dollars zuma women better pray to the god they don't 1.00

07:14:41.040 even believe in that artificial wombs don't become 0.99

07:14:43.900 oh shit thing i can't see a single reason to be with one i've sent them 0.99

07:14:48.440 being a vessel for reproduction 0.97

07:14:49.880 i don't know if i agree with that but thank you chau for the message

07:14:53.640 appreciate it thank you for the message man

07:14:55.480 uh let's see

07:14:57.260 we got pen maker here coming in thank you man thank you pen maker

07:15:01.660 pen maker donated 69 dollars chair two is based but only in hindsight

07:15:10.920 chair eight's custody story is super sus

07:15:14.080 chair five still has a chance to do it right

07:15:16.960 stay the course the rest of the panel is more cooked than brian's burritos 0.76

07:15:22.140 it's true a burrito sounds uh you can eat a fat burrito

07:15:28.020 anyways we're not gonna linger too long on

07:15:33.060 discord oh the discord yeah okay we'll just

07:15:35.860 do one super quick men at work

07:15:37.840 just windows fine uh just play that first one just mute the audio

07:15:43.560 uh mute yeah just mute the audio yeah

07:15:46.420 uh just full screen with it really quick i ain't doing that

07:15:49.980 no way yeah women ain't doing this start from the beginning again really 1.00

07:15:54.020 quick oh my god that gives you know what

07:15:56.060 there's no way even just watching i agree though i agree that men are

07:16:00.800 better for physical labor excel that i agree

07:16:03.340 right but i feel like people women live in those buildings but they'll never make 1.00

07:16:07.760 them um so let's do click on the manhole worker

07:16:12.920 i i've never seen women do this one what go ahead just play it oh is this the 1.00

07:16:19.460 the welding the underwater welding

07:16:21.280 uh such a dangerous career field wait is it gonna actually show 0.97

07:16:26.540 oh he's going into some fucking gnarly 0.84

07:16:30.660 women ain't doing that x out that it has to be done somebody's gotta do it 1.00

07:16:35.380 x out that uh you know firefighters scroll up scroll up

07:16:38.720 bricklaying talk better scroll up uh here we'll just do these last two 0.98

07:16:43.800 oh the one with the cockroaches oh shit play that one full screen 0.99

07:16:47.020 oh no hell no real what good balance they have yeah i was just thinking that 0.99

07:16:54.820 so the buildings you occupy somebody has to build the buildings

07:17:00.420 yeah all those you know the the air-conditioned office jobs that you guys

07:17:05.000 are working somebody has to build them

07:17:07.120 manual labor it's not women 1.00

07:17:08.380 x outfit

07:17:09.720 all right this is the last one play play the

07:17:13.180 that one full screen it that's a good one

07:17:15.740 would have thought men with testosterone or

07:17:17.340 yeah how about that y'all don't want to do these jobs somebody gotta do them

07:17:21.920 yeah you're you are right yeah i don't need no man 0.98

07:17:25.060 y'all you see a spider 20 feet away you guys lose your minds 100 yes sir

07:17:30.640 i think most of us agree with you i don't know who disagrees

07:17:33.940 we're gonna move on though really quick i'm gonna blast through a couple of these

07:17:37.560 uh how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date

07:17:40.300 starting with you

07:17:40.980 i am 5'2 and i believe i said 5'10

07:17:45.400 yep 5'9 over 6 feet i like

07:17:48.100 5'1 and minimum 5'7 i'm 5'7 5'9

07:17:53.400 okay ellie 5'7 mike mike mike mike mike 5'7 5'5

07:17:57.840 you wrote 4'10

07:17:59.660 well

07:18:00.340 well i was thinking that i was like

07:18:03.880 she wants a dwarf 1.00

07:18:05.260 this is every every scenario you bring up you bring up on those questions i'm thinking

07:18:08.680 they're perfect and then they're also you know two inches tall

07:18:12.540 and then i'm thinking okay well that would make us up for it all

07:18:15.300 all right what about you um i'm five five and i would say

07:18:18.960 five four is like my minimum uh five eight and minimum six foot what about you

07:18:24.340 uh i'm five two and i mean i'm short so but my husband's like six two six one

07:18:31.620 would you rather cross paths with random man or random bear on a hike a bear

07:18:36.500 man a man man man a bear man man yeah uh why do you pick bear why do you pick bear

07:18:44.420 why don't you pick man i know how to escape a bear you yes i went to church camp we learned about how to escape

07:18:53.460 a bear tell us the steps for escaping a bear grizzly bear or what you have to like

07:19:02.500 tell us show us get big and huge yeah show us yeah but you have to act differently for different

07:19:06.500 bears and then you have to for which bear though you're gonna die if you get the wrong

07:19:10.340 bear backwards because they can't see diagonal direction okay so you feel more confident um with the

07:19:16.660 the the the bear basically yeah because you don't know what a man's gonna do a man could kill me i

07:19:23.380 can't just run away from a man okay uh all right and why do you pick bear i just watch a lot of true

07:19:31.060 crime i know a lot of statistics about stuff like that i'm seeing a man in the woods i'm already

07:19:35.940 thinking i'm getting got just automatically most most men don't don't commit this crime that's what

07:19:42.660 most men so you know if you're if you were betting in the woods yeah most if i see a man or bear i i

07:19:52.180 just i would rather see a bear i would rather see a bear personally because if i'm seeing a man out

07:19:56.980 there my first thought is i'm gonna get gut stop the cap i'm not no i'm so serious you know that you 0.98

07:20:01.700 walk by 32 serial killers in your life like that shit's scary if you run into a bear how do you know i 0.98

07:20:08.740 would rather i would if i'm in if we're talking about the scenario in the woods i would rather run 0.99

07:20:15.540 into a bear that's just my reasoning you guys does it come down to this like the man could essay

07:20:22.020 you is that kind of the thing it's just like if i'm in the woods and i see an unknown man like

07:20:27.940 obviously like that that's just weird like for for me i'd be my guard would be up not that it wouldn't

07:20:33.700 be up with a bear but i'm saying there's something i'd rather see i'd rather see a bear how many times

07:20:38.580 have you crossed paths with an unknown male and something happened a lot i'm sure you've gone

07:20:43.060 hiking walking and you've crossed paths many times have you been raped or what none of your business

07:20:50.180 well there's a reason why you're avoiding them well i don't think that's avoiding them i feel like

07:20:55.540 there's nothing wrong with wanting to not run into a man in the woods but if you can't avoid the bear

07:21:02.100 but i feel i feel like i feel like there's nothing wrong with me like i'm not judging your fact that

07:21:07.860 you chose a man just saying like i chose the bear because i don't i would rather run into a bear than

07:21:13.700 see a strange man in the woods imo okay um just a couple things on this so i my analysis is i think

07:21:21.460 women greatly underestimate the risk profile of an encounter with a random bear and greatly overestimate 0.94

07:21:27.540 the risk profile of an encounter with a random man uh if you guys had to say though like

07:21:34.660 what percentage of men do you think would be inclined to either harm you or say you it's

07:21:40.340 probably a low percentage statistically but we obviously are products of our own environment

07:21:44.980 and experiences and maybe the women who shared that they would rather run into a bear have had

07:21:49.540 bad experiences with men in the past that make them inclined to have that answer sure i want to just

07:21:55.060 we're not going to linger too long on the bear thing but i do want to propose the following so

07:22:01.460 from your perspective do you think it's okay for women to have i guess this view or hesitancy

07:22:09.860 towards men because of either statistics that might be out there whether true or false

07:22:16.100 or their own experiences with men of course i think it's a protective measure right i i don't

07:22:21.860 think there's anything wrong with it i think in an ideal world that wouldn't exist but that's just

07:22:27.140 a reality okay and do you think that the the average bear is more or less or the same i guess

07:22:34.500 more or less dangerous than the average man i would probably say more dangerous men more dangerous or

07:22:39.380 the bear i was i was i would rather see a man on a hike i see so here's i guess my issue with it is

07:22:46.020 the rhetoric surrounding the whole picking the bear thing uh-huh it does seem a little

07:22:51.540 bigoted a little sexist okay and here's why if we were to change the hypothetical and we were to

07:22:59.220 change it too would you rather come across a black person or a bear okay i think it would be racist 0.84

07:23:08.500 to not to to pick the bear over a black person so then i think it would logically follow that it 0.98

07:23:14.180 must be sexist to pick bear over man why would you think that it's racist to pick a bear over a

07:23:21.460 black person why would i think it's racist yeah why would you think that's racist unless your reason 0.93

07:23:26.660 is race why would that be racist like like that's like my thought process you don't think it would be

07:23:30.900 racist like a white person's like i want to i would definitely pick a bear not initially not

07:23:35.540 initially unless they said their reason was race like that wouldn't be my initial thought you're

07:23:39.620 saying like the reason might be gender as opposed yeah the re the reason might just might just be i

07:23:44.740 don't want to run into a random person like like you specifying they're black might not necessarily

07:23:50.260 mean that they don't want to run into them like i don't think unless they say oh i'm i don't i want 0.85

07:23:55.860 to run into a bear because i don't want to run into a black person because i don't like black people 1.00

07:24:00.020 that's completely different than like then like i'd rather run into a bear than a black i'll use 1.00

07:24:05.300 the same standard that you use the standard would be because of negative experiences that i've had

07:24:12.020 or because of statistics that are either true or false that's the reason for the pick that's the

07:24:18.420 same standard that's the same standard that you use for men yes i would use statistics i never said

07:24:24.740 because of my own experiences sure you do realize other racial groups could point to certain

07:24:30.980 statistics and say there's a discrepancy in criminality between the races yes and honestly

07:24:36.500 for me i feel like that's your prerogative because it's a hypothetical question and if that's your

07:24:42.260 answer then that's your answer i can't really change it well well i'm not i'm not saying it's

07:24:47.220 specifically your answer but i'm saying that like for me it's like that's your prerogative i may not agree

07:24:51.940 with it or i may not like it but there's really nothing i can do about it because it's your

07:24:55.140 opinion okay and the least i can do is respect it well sure i guess you can accept that it's my opinion

07:25:00.420 but would you make a determination that my opinion happens to be racist

07:25:06.500 not not unless you gave me other reasons to think that you're racist

07:25:11.540 well if it's the case that in let's say not necessarily me but a person in the scenario

07:25:16.340 uh they're white and they specifically don't choose the black person they choose the bear

07:25:24.340 because they say that well i've had one two or three negative experiences with a black person 0.96

07:25:30.340 because of that or you know they cite crime statistics i don't want to encounter a black 1.00

07:25:35.780 person because of that i would say that that's racist you really agree with i i i think it's racist

07:25:41.060 i don't think i mean that is kind of the definition of racism is judging an individual or a group of

07:25:47.540 individual on the entire or the actions of like a percentage oftentimes a small percentage of said

07:25:54.660 group yeah so for example the majority of black people are not criminals right there happens to be 0.85

07:26:00.180 some statistics that indicate that when it comes to uh racial crime statistics right that black people

07:26:06.100 are overrepresented as it relates to certain crimes yeah i wouldn't then say all black people are

07:26:12.820 criminals or i'm scared of black people because of x yeah i think that would be racist yeah that makes

07:26:17.540 sense i understand that i think you have something on this yeah so i think i've run into bear on

07:26:23.780 multiple occasions i grew up in pennsylvania in the woods like we had bear all the time we had bears at

07:26:29.060 my house we had bears at camp like i'm not scared of a bear there are tons of different people

07:26:35.860 a bear is just a bear it's an animal like it will attack you if you threaten it yeah um but a

07:26:42.820 person you don't know if they have a weapon on them you don't know what type of person they are you

07:26:47.060 don't know if they're a crackhead in the woods you don't you don't know who they are or what type of

07:26:52.580 person they are they could be very unwell they could be a criminal they could be a serial killer

07:26:57.300 you don't know what you're encountering in that situation but with a bear you know what you're

07:27:04.260 encountering you're in the woods you're in wildlife it's more normal to encounter a bear you would

07:27:11.700 expect a bear you would expect deer you would expect rabbits you would expect fox a wolf you're

07:27:16.500 on a hike the question is you're on a hike men and women go on hikes all the time so it's not weird

07:27:23.140 to run into a man when you're on a hike it said in the woods no would you rather cross paths with a

07:27:28.580 random man or random bear on a hike okay what you said was woods though that's what you've been

07:27:33.220 saying that's what we've been well the from the questionnaire what's written on the questionnaire

07:27:37.540 is doesn't say woods it could be in the woods on a hike i still think a bear but are you is this in

07:27:45.860 response to the introducing the racial component to the conversation yeah because you don't know who

07:27:51.700 that person is would you rather encounter a bear or a black person a bear in general it doesn't matter 0.99

07:27:59.380 who the person is i mean i think that's kind of a racist position to hold but i would way rather

07:28:04.100 run into whether it's a man whether it's a woman a black person than the bear is that what you just

07:28:09.300 said you rather oh you'd rather no no she picks the bear even if it's just black person even if it could 0.99

07:28:14.660 be a black it might be a black woman too yeah she still picks the bear yeah i expect a bear in the 1.00

07:28:19.540 woods i'd that's and i've encountered baron never had an issue encountering a bear and how many bears 0.98

07:28:25.300 have you encountered i've encountered five in one day okay you walk past hundreds of men in a day

07:28:32.420 and nothing happens that is not true

07:28:37.700 in our area we have so many things happen with men every day in my neighborhood like it's not safe

07:28:45.060 wait you spend twenty thousand dollars a year but you live in a dangerous neighborhood la is dangerous

07:28:49.940 there's parts of la which are relatively safe i worked at century city mall and somebody killed

07:28:56.500 themselves like it's not safe hold on suicide is that's what's safe for them

07:29:03.300 didn't impose harm on somebody else i just don't know why if you're making like you say you want a

07:29:07.380 guy who makes four hundred thousand dollars a year why would you like slum it when you're making that

07:29:11.940 much money like why would you live you say you live a luxury lifestyle why are you living in

07:29:15.940 you said you live in a dangerous part of l.a i guess is all of l.a dangerous all of l.a is dangerous

07:29:22.420 really like alisades is dangerous yeah yeah by the way i don't know l.a neighborhoods what we're

07:29:30.260 talking like actual downtown l.a like i live in a luxury apartment it's about three thousand dollars a

07:29:35.540 month but just being in the heart of l.a there's like fentanyl homeless people like two blocks down

07:29:41.780 that's kind of just the reality of that city okay but if you're walking down i get that i will not

07:29:47.380 walk down the street i will not even cross the street in my neighborhood because it's so dangerous

07:29:55.140 are you comfortable sharing where you what neighborhood you're in you don't have to

07:29:57.860 we're in mid-city on the border of culvert it's supposed to be a very nice area is it i don't know

07:30:02.980 it's better than downtown it's better than obviously not that nice of an area but that's how it is in l.a

07:30:09.940 like there's shootings all the time like if you are on the citizen app you don't know where these

07:30:15.940 things are happening unless you shootings like i don't know yes like a blonde doesn't seem like 1.00

07:30:21.540 fbi in front of our place the swat team yeah i don't think you're a high priority target for a

07:30:27.860 shoot i mean it could happen but i don't know if you're like high priority there's a lot of gang crime

07:30:32.180 in l.a like there's a lot of are you in a gang is that what it is there's a lot of drive-by shootings

07:30:36.580 in our area like wait what's the typical like what do they say like where are you from is that what

07:30:42.420 they say is that where are you from not where are you from where are you from i don't know whatever

07:30:49.060 who you roll with g okay white boy don't hurt him don't hurt him white chocolate 0.95

07:30:57.060 gangster okay all right i don't know um i'm just saying i don't know how about this um would you 0.70

07:31:06.820 rather leave your baby with a woman or a bear that's such a yeah yeah this is a tough one i'm

07:31:15.700 gonna need to take a few yeah a woman well because there there are statistics that show that women are 1.00

07:31:25.220 way more likely to commit infanticide so killing of a infant than a bear than a man that's your own

07:31:33.780 actually but the the the statistics show that women are overrepresented in this crime of infanticide

07:31:41.860 should we leave our babies with oh so you're saying women kill more of their own children than men 1.00

07:31:48.020 is that the statistic okay they're more likely to kill their infants intentionally or unintentionally

07:31:54.340 intentionally there's a lot that goes into that are women yeah i would well yeah postpartum 1.00

07:32:00.660 depression yeah wait hold on are we are we about to like no are we about to hand wave away oh no

07:32:05.620 absolutely not you guys trying to justify bro there's psychological explanations for people's

07:32:11.780 behavior that doesn't mean it's a justification and what they did was right there's just always an

07:32:16.260 explanation you're also saying a random woman or or the mother of that i feel like realistically

07:32:23.460 i know random one like i wouldn't you guys were hand waving away

07:32:28.820 in fantasy that's not what was happening

07:32:30.580 what was the reason for it from a psychological perspective hold on but if like a guy wait wait

07:32:37.380 so i wouldn't do this i wouldn't do this thing where like if a guy essayed a woman but he had mental 1.00

07:32:42.020 health issues i wouldn't just be like well he no i'd be like yeah he's a piece of i don't

07:32:46.260 care what mental health issues yeah that's not what we were trying to do obviously i completely

07:32:54.260 agree with you it's there's just an explanation not an excuse there's just explanations for things

07:32:59.140 for sure for sure for sure love it moving on uh let's see anybody any disagreements nope nope nope nope

07:33:06.740 okay we're gonna blast through some of the questions on the questionnaire oh nick thank you for the

07:33:11.700 reminder just came to mind nick def uh okay hold on i'll come back to it uh okay let's see

07:33:21.140 does anybody uh oh you're what are your pronouns she they she anybody else a they

07:33:29.780 a zur any zers at the table i had a teacher who was a zur 0.99

07:33:33.700 what the fuck are you doing to your ears ellie calm down oh okay she was taught she's been 1.00

07:33:39.700 talking way too much tonight uh 1.00

07:33:45.380 oh uh just you have the pronouns so are you are you like non-binary i'm gender fluid you're gender

07:33:51.940 fluid yes so some days you're a he or just they um some uh only like my really really close friends

07:34:02.980 do like he and stuff they but like um outside of that mostly she they sometimes you're he yeah only

07:34:11.460 with like really close people what what pronouns do you use for her i have just only used she her and

07:34:19.620 i think if it was a big enough deal you would have told me to call you by other pronouns i've only called

07:34:25.300 her she her though cool so some days you're a man and some days you're a woman and some days you're

07:34:38.100 non-binary and you're a they ellie how do you feel about this i feel about the pronouns what are your

07:34:45.700 thoughts they in specific yes how do you feel about they they you seem like a pretty cool they um i don't

07:34:54.900 know too sorry i think them how do you feel about them um i mean it doesn't obstruct anything in my

07:35:05.460 daily life so i don't really care that much how do you really feel about it because ellie's not 0.99

07:35:12.900 she's a 4chan um frequenter and she has some very spicy takes on this and i feel like she's not 0.98

07:35:21.380 fully what's spicy takes you seem like you know more than i do are you are you are you homophobic 0.95

07:35:30.020 are you homophobic no are you homophobic no you keep saying she has hot takes i'm like what is she 0.96

07:35:35.540 about to drop no she's like everything is lukewarm here uh so you guys uh didn't have a chance to 0.98

07:35:42.660 answer the questionnaire so but i'll direct uh do you think a man dating a transgender woman is straight

07:35:51.780 i think if they the the woman the trans woman went through gender reassignment surgery um and has

07:36:00.100 fully transitioned in terms that they're fully on estrogen and hormones because honestly you you

07:36:05.940 cannot tell for a good handful of trans women then i would say yes i can i can tell sure okay um

07:36:13.940 i'm trying are you wait you are no you're pregnant exactly like you're pregnant how the 0.99

07:36:21.140 fuck he's so quickly believed it 0.99

07:36:26.580 go ahead go ahead that's just my i believe that if the woman fully transitioned um then they're 0.99

07:36:32.180 straight but i don't know i again i am very open-minded when it comes to sexuality gender life in general um

07:36:38.420 so i don't know i i it does nobody's hurting me i respect everybody so what if they haven't had the

07:36:44.820 gender reassignment search so just the bottom surgery are they would that be straight if they 0.99

07:36:49.620 have had bottom they have not have not well they're a woman right i think that gender and sex are two 0.92

07:36:57.220 different things i think sex is related to your genitalia and your hormones such as estrogen or

07:37:02.580 testosterone but gender can be more of a fluid spectrum obviously people feel different ways

07:37:07.620 about that but that's my opinion in my social analysis of it your sex no sex you have xx chromosomes

07:37:13.700 or you have xy chromosomes you can be a biological male or you can be a biological female and i think

07:37:20.020 there's a third there's like you intersex yeah yeah i mean it's super rare and most transgender people 0.99

07:37:27.140 are not interested yeah yeah so i think if gender reassignment surgery hasn't gone through 0.53

07:37:33.540 personally i think that if you as a man are attracted to somebody who has the same genitalia as you

07:37:40.820 that is just not what the definition of being straight is you know i think that you have to

07:37:45.060 have a sexual attraction to you know female genitalia but that's just me and again i don't know i'm 0.89

07:37:52.340 always open to any perspective when it comes to that that's just how i feel right now well so so straight

07:37:58.820 is short form slang for heterosexual right and so sexuality relates to your attraction to someone's

07:38:07.220 sex exactly uh even granting the differences in gender identity so somebody's a male but that gender

07:38:14.740 identity is that of a woman right uh it's baked into the term itself heterosexuality so heterosexuality

07:38:23.700 two males even regardless of the gender identity so if one of them if two males one of them is

07:38:29.220 cis i kind of annoying term but uh and the other is a transgender woman that is that can never be 1.00

07:38:37.540 if two males are having sex it can never be straight even if um they've gone through gender reassignment 0.88

07:38:45.620 surgery they have they had a sex reassignment surgery that's not well i wouldn't grant that you can change

07:38:52.100 your sex okay well i i think honestly i'm not the most educated on it okay so it's impossible even when

07:39:00.580 you fully transition like if i had surgery and went through testosterone and stuff it's not possible

07:39:08.260 because people do change their sex on their government ids what do you think about that because

07:39:13.060 you're saying it's just a gender reassignment surgery is that not technically well if i was

07:39:16.820 somehow managed to like convince the government that i was 10 years younger than i actually am

07:39:23.700 and they were like okay well like i bamboozled them and then they put it on my id that i was actually 25

07:39:31.460 instead of 35 or whatever uh-huh would my age actually be 25 or would it be 35 yeah but that's not

07:39:37.380 real what is real is the fact that you can change your sex on your id not the fact that right but

07:39:43.940 just because something is reflected on a laminated government issued card doesn't mean it's true

07:39:50.980 so even if you had like the surgery the tea the like estrogen everything you changed everything

07:39:59.220 you changed the sex for you would be like if a male still male 0.97

07:40:04.580 it wouldn't be it wouldn't be straight yeah it wouldn't be straight to you no it wouldn't okay

07:40:10.580 i guess i can kind of see where i can see it from yeah can you no i can see it wouldn't be straight 0.84

07:40:17.220 i understand where you're even even if she's got perfect fake titties and she kind of looks like 1.00

07:40:24.580 a woman even though i have some disputes over this whatever i don't know there's some women in thailand 0.99

07:40:28.900 who i guess do a pretty good job whatever uh and the they got the the vagina right it's not that's 1.00

07:40:35.140 not pussy it's not it ain't pussy it's a gaping hole it's a they incise a hole into you and invert 1.00

07:40:42.100 the penis in right the the penis tissue is in that's not pussy i just ate i understand what you're saying 1.00

07:40:50.340 it ain't pussy uh you know as somebody who's familiar with uh labias not a pussy not labia 1.00

07:40:57.620 not labia not pussy it's inverted penis it's interesting they have the the actual procedure 0.99

07:41:04.100 they do it like there's a video for it there's several at this point but like they do it with 0.99

07:41:08.180 play-doh and they show you how it's done i'm seeing it it's crazy it's wild yeah it's crazy i hear where

07:41:14.980 you're coming from can i ask you just you know if you're comfortable talking about it which i assume you

07:41:19.220 are just what your opinion on transgender and lgbt people are well the lgbt and transgender is different

07:41:28.100 lgbt well what do you think the t stands for right there's lesbian there's gay there's bisexual that's

07:41:35.220 kind of really different so you have different opinions on sexuality versus gender gender identity

07:41:42.740 uh so okay i'll i mean i guess i'll say this so trans people exist it's a phenomenon i'm not denying

07:41:49.140 it uh gay people bisexual people exist this is obviously something uh speaking specifically on

07:41:55.300 the trans thing though uh what's my general thought on it is that i guess like do you respect trans

07:42:02.340 people is my baseline question or do you think it's just an abomination an abomination that's an

07:42:08.900 interesting word uh do i yes i i would say i respect trans people i would say that

07:42:16.340 these people i i don't think that they should receive because they're trans i don't think they 1.00

07:42:23.860 should be hurt in any sort of way i don't think they should be bullied i don't think that they

07:42:28.740 should i i wish for them to have happy lives i have no ill will or hatred in my heart for people who

07:42:34.820 who are trans however i don't subscribe to this idea well a couple different ideas uh i don't

07:42:45.220 believe that you should give children puberty blockers i don't think trans women should be 1.00

07:42:50.100 competing i agree with both of those in women's sports uh there is i don't really have uh what's the term

07:43:01.380 i don't have a dog in the fight really but probably shouldn't go into women's bathrooms 1.00

07:43:09.860 okay yeah um i see where you're coming or women's changing rooms and if you're like 0.88

07:43:18.020 i'll use their new name like if there used to be bob and now they're jessica i'll use jessica i won't use

07:43:25.780 the pronouns but i will use their new name okay and uh but besides that i think that

07:43:38.660 i don't i don't buy into it yeah i don't buy into it i wish them well i i don't have any hatred for

07:43:44.100 them uh i think that there's like certain at least with like children stay away from the kids like they

07:43:53.620 can if look if you want to transition when you're 18 people you can't be stopped whatever uh although

07:43:59.940 i may probably have some opinions on that like is it like you're going to be a physician assistant 0.99

07:44:06.580 like is this in contravention of like do no harm like chopping off men's penises like mutilating 0.96

07:44:14.580 people under the guise of health care but like what if they have a mental illness i've definitely seen 0.96

07:44:20.020 it firsthand and i've definitely come across it so i mean ultimately like my perspective is i think

07:44:25.540 there's a mental illness component to this like in the same way that we wouldn't like affirm somebody 0.84

07:44:30.900 who's schizophrenic right like whatever their delusions are i do think that uh there's a mental

07:44:38.260 illness component to this okay can i add something yeah sure um i think for me it's hard to understand

07:44:45.780 why it wouldn't be considered a mental illness one because if you do consider it you get covered by

07:44:50.260 insurance a lot of the times and the procedures get covered um and this is like purely insurance

07:44:56.420 purposes like if you use gender dysphoria or whatever you can get certain things covered in

07:45:01.300 certain like benefits from that but to me like it doesn't it doesn't make sense to me why it wouldn't

07:45:09.780 be and i don't think that's a bad thing though like i don't think that's i feel like you guys have

07:45:15.060 opposite arguments i said i feel like you guys have opposite arguments in the sense that you're saying

07:45:20.340 you feel it should be classified as a mental illness so insurance can comfort the transition 1.00

07:45:25.540 right am i getting that right yeah i feel he doesn't think yeah think well you don't buy into it right

07:45:35.460 so you probably don't think that people should be transitioning in the first place that doesn't 0.99

07:45:38.740 mean you wish them any ill will or whatever i acknowledge that they have the choice to do it

07:45:44.660 and america grants us certain freedoms to do things that i might not necessarily agree with but uh

07:45:52.740 like i mean should the government be like paying for it or there's there is like a consideration when

07:45:59.620 it comes to the healthcare field like is there a component of it's making them a lot of money yes and

07:46:06.420 you become a lifetime like patient patient too right so there was a there's a debate true there's a

07:46:14.260 debate on um modern debate the modern debate channel um i want to say it was like maybe two months ago

07:46:21.060 um and there was something that was brought up about like how it can be identified in early childhood as

07:46:28.020 late in homosexuality um but something about the way in which it is handled like if there are some

07:46:37.140 i wish i could remember totally recommend going back and listening to this though um but he was

07:46:43.460 basically saying that if it's identified in early childhood typically with boys it shows up as just

07:46:49.860 homosexuality and once you know for a period of time that they come off of the puberty blockers things kind 0.85

07:46:55.860 of sort of like end up you know running their natural course and they they are just simply gay 0.97

07:47:01.860 men and they don't want to become women but there was also a um a conditioning point too and i

07:47:11.940 i'm forgetting what what he said but can i ask you a question though let's you want kids one day i do

07:47:16.420 okay let's say your 10 year old son comes to you says hey mom i think i'm a girl

07:47:22.340 how do you proceed i think that um i'd probably go to therapy not on some conversion but just to

07:47:31.940 educate myself on what exactly that means for me as a parent i probably would be respectful in the

07:47:38.660 sense that i would support my child in let's say my son wanted to become a girl um and become my

07:47:45.060 daughter i would call her by she her whatever name she wanted to go by maybe i would immediately

07:47:50.740 um obviously i'm i'm you're used to calling your son by he him calling your son by the boy name so

07:47:57.380 there would be a period of transition but i would try to remain respectful like right away i understand

07:48:01.380 yes yes i would i would you might make mistakes i would need to have a conversation with my partner

07:48:05.780 but eliminating my partner and their opinion and their thoughts and everything and this is let's assume

07:48:09.620 your partner completely agrees with is going to completely agree with you on everything

07:48:13.380 and i realize that yes there would be some mistakes that occur because you're making whatever you

07:48:18.180 accidentally misgender them a couple times right but would you immediately just start they they

07:48:23.460 come to you and say i think i'm a girl i want you to start using my new name and my pronouns she

07:48:28.820 her to be honest i think i would need to talk to a life coach and a psychologist a children's

07:48:33.460 psychologist before telling you for sure that i would do that just to make sure that there's not

07:48:37.380 going to be any long-term ramifications in case that they do go back on their gender and they

07:48:42.500 you know what i mean de-transition but i would try to be supportive in the best way that i can by

07:48:47.380 calling them by their new pronouns new name allowing them to express themselves in fashion and makeup and

07:48:52.340 whatever it may be but i would like immediately though i i i'm gonna say yes but i would if this

07:48:58.580 was a real scenario i would educate myself um but i would not allow my child to do any gender reassignment 0.99

07:49:06.660 or any hormonal things before 18 and honestly i pose the question too if that should even happen

07:49:12.420 before the age of 25 just because your brain is not fully developed well hold on but what if the

07:49:17.700 the medical community said actually this gender affirming care is what is medically indicated and

07:49:26.980 they say that well if you want your trans transgender child to have the best transition possible you

07:49:36.260 should transition them and put them on puberty blockers to stop male puberty so that they can 1.00

07:49:42.100 you know their voice doesn't get deeper certain you know body hair they don't go through male puberty 0.67

07:49:47.620 that that is the they're saying this that that is the best case thing and that's what the medical

07:49:55.540 yeah i mean if you're telling me that medical professionals are recommending that then yes of

07:50:00.820 course i i would do that i have no problem with it socially so if that is the best thing to

07:50:06.100 do medically to make my child happy and healthy then of course i would do now do you believe that

07:50:11.140 certain doctors can be a lot ideologically captured you do you mean biased or what do you mean by that

07:50:18.980 like they're ideal ideologically captured so repeating the word doesn't help me understand

07:50:23.220 it any better okay uh you realize that for example uh you said you'd go to a therapist

07:50:28.820 yes therapists are overwhelmingly left-leaning uh-huh so they're typically going to have like ideology that is

07:50:35.700 uh in line with like mainstream leftist or left-leaning propaganda which would relate to lgbtq stuff

07:50:44.420 specifically transgender stuff and the transgen the the official position of the transgender community

07:50:51.140 is that it's absolutely acceptable and fine and encouraged uh-huh to medically transition children 0.95

07:51:00.420 and to give them puberty blockers can i i think that um i'll just finish let's get the answer and then

07:51:07.060 you can do it um i did mention that i would also go to a psychologist and a life coach which aren't

07:51:12.500 necessarily left-leaning you think all life coaches are left-leaning i don't know why you'd go life to

07:51:17.140 coach but like a psychologist or psychiatrist they're all of them are a lot of them are women 0.76

07:51:23.060 and a lot of them tend to lean left okay um i would try my very best to get a um diverse sample

07:51:32.020 of opinions okay what exactly was your question well you wanted to come in on this six i had no

07:51:39.140 clue it was going to go on this long okay i'm sorry but i had a blast uh let me just before you

07:51:44.100 leave let me see if you have any notes here we need to get to go for it real quick uh sorry uh it's

07:51:52.660 paulina right yes uh really quick there's only one note here for you you said your ex-boyfriend took

07:51:58.580 you to a bar on a first date you don't drink um oh my experience okay yeah oh he waited outside

07:52:07.060 your house till seven okay i don't know if there's anything there not really anything there he just

07:52:10.980 he had a skewed you'll take her seat yeah by the way guys for the rest of the panel we're going to get

07:52:15.140 this wrapped up here pretty soon okay thank you i appreciate it too because i'm my guys nice meeting

07:52:20.180 you all right uh oh why is oh audio audio unmute the audio please props to ozark and crew i'll

07:52:28.420 priest if needed when let me know all right thank you oh this driftwood appreciate we have some chats

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07:52:41.940 the show w felicity joining the panel pen maker donated 69 dollars their minds are so open that

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07:52:57.620 we have christopher coming in here in just a moment guys if you want uh get a we're not doing a roast so

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07:53:08.100 slash whatever it's about to come in here in just a sec sorry guys there's christopher donated 70 0.79

07:53:18.500 should trans women be counted in abortion statistics should trans men have to register for the selective 0.96

07:53:24.900 service um my question is why would trans women be counted in abortion yeah how they don't have a 1.00

07:53:31.380 biologically that's not even possible yeah um or maybe or maybe that's your point or maybe that's

07:53:37.860 your point maybe that's your point for the latter part of that question i guess in terms of getting

07:53:42.820 drafted yeah if you want to be a trans man i do believe you should have to get drafted if there's a 0.99

07:53:48.660 mr should i that what you wanted thank you for coming in today why are you gay you are gay you are a 0.99

07:53:56.500 transgender and a gay rights activist you're la gay i love how transgender is like a slur like you 0.99

07:54:04.260 are all right all right uh we can't linger too long on the on that topic though um a couple more things 0.97

07:54:11.380 here and we'll hope we'll get this wrapped up as soon as possible um wait this okay for you um

07:54:21.140 um did you say that you make like the people who you're interested in like long-term potential

07:54:27.620 boyfriends you make them wait before hooking up i did not say that okay never mind then i don't know

07:54:34.740 somebody said hey brian you should ask her about this because it's interesting i mean i you know i

07:54:39.540 hooked up with a random person in italy and greece and yeah no i don't feel that way yeah i mean the

07:54:44.580 reason it comes up is like sometimes there's a frustration when it comes to like women will have

07:54:49.220 two different standards like on one hand they'll hook up with certain guys really quickly oftentimes

07:54:54.420 if they're traveling they'll just have fun and then they come back home and they're uh oh i'm gonna wait

07:55:01.060 well i want to wait three months to have sex because i'm that kind of girl but really they're not

07:55:05.540 i will just say that i know in having guy friends that guys tend to look at women differently after they

07:55:12.740 put out and do you do you disagree with that i think some guys can yeah yeah personally i don't

07:55:19.780 really have any qualms about i don't feel like i need to wait yeah exactly that and i feel like my

07:55:24.980 ideal partner wouldn't feel any type of way about it either which is why i don't but i i know that

07:55:30.180 some men think oh women should be pure and divine and no bodies and i take their cherry and blah blah 1.00

07:55:36.100 blah like this purity thing and i understand that there could be religious components to that and i you

07:55:40.420 know i validate and i respect everybody but that's just not how i live my life okay

07:55:47.140 oh he's back they're waiting for you girl hey ellie sorry to bother you once more but good luck in your

07:55:57.140 last year of school i know you will do great if by the end of school you haven't found somebody

07:56:04.580 find me on the socials and wait for you that is so kind and thank you for the for the prosperous

07:56:12.420 wishes on my last year of school nice have you thought about college at all thank you i appreciate

07:56:17.220 it you know where you want to go i'm gonna apply to all the ucs okay you know you you give me city

07:56:24.020 college you think yeah well i mean i like that's fired anyways whatever yeah whatever whatever oh

07:56:32.740 my god who the hell all right 15 uh women do not have equal rights to men in the usa jamie 0.94

07:56:40.900 you agree heidi you agree you think women do not have equal rights to men the usa

07:56:46.260 uh why is that and then do you two agree with that i don't think women have equal opportunity i don't 0.97

07:56:52.660 know about equal rights so don't have equal opportunity but okay you agree with it i agree 1.00

07:56:57.540 okay uh why do you agree with that because of the job market a lot of places hire men over women 1.00

07:57:07.780 okay it could be like a job that a woman is more qualified for but they're still gonna 1.00

07:57:12.740 have the job to a man how majority of companies now will place your resume through ai scanners and ai 0.99

07:57:20.660 scanners are biased toward white men ai is fucked okay well why do you think they ask your gender 0.98

07:57:28.260 on your application because they base it on the history of all their employees so this is 0.99

07:57:33.860 i don't want to speak to something i don't know about so this ai thing you've presented to me

07:57:38.340 haven't heard of it okay don't really know what i do know is that there's massive amounts of

07:57:43.860 affirmative action that has a preference towards hiring women and then like you're in the you're in the 0.80

07:57:48.900 entertainment industry right and it's run by men hold on in hollywood there's literally i i forgot if

07:57:55.460 it was the grammy or not i'm sorry the grammys is music the oscars said your productions in order to

07:58:02.580 qualify for certain awards uh i don't know if academy academy awards is that the tv wait academy

07:58:09.780 awards and oscars are the same right i don't know wait what's the one for tv there's tv and then there's

07:58:17.060 film the oscars are the emmys okay so i'm pretty sure it's across the board between both film and

07:58:24.980 television they say you need to have this men much diversity and you need to hire this many women and

07:58:31.060 these sorts of worlds and you need to have uh this many and they just got rid of that racial groups 1.00

07:58:36.740 i don't know did they yeah those are companies okay but there's absolutely been like massive hiring

07:58:43.380 freezes for white men but they just got rid of the diversity act uh the diversity act yes some some

07:58:52.580 companies are rolling back their diversity initiatives but trust me hollywood is still cooked 0.78

07:58:58.500 hollywood is still cooked there's a massive hiring preference towards women and minorities 1.00

07:59:03.380 because men run the industry they already are all in the industry there are barely any women at these 0.99

07:59:11.220 companies i've worked at them which companies i've worked at warner like warner music group like

07:59:18.500 i've applied for the music industry yeah in the music industry it is mainly run by men

07:59:24.340 it's mainly run by men they're not doing a good who's the most like famous uh isn't the most like

07:59:29.220 well-paid and like taylor swift she's the highest paid musical you're really taking the one

07:59:34.580 extremity and anomaly i mean this idea this idea that like women are held down in the entertainment 1.00

07:59:40.340 industry no i'm talking the highest paid music is a woman all right but i feel like taylor swift is

07:59:46.820 a good example as to a woman who hasn't been treated the greatest because con because kanye came up to

07:59:53.780 her while she was getting her award and she is no way no way no way no way and that was unprovoked

08:00:00.340 unneeded and for what and for i feel like that's a good example for a strong black woman for at at

08:00:07.380 an award ceremony where they had the best video of all time yeah exactly but that's what i mean

08:00:12.900 that's a good example but i bet you if that was a man up there he wouldn't have done that i bet you

08:00:17.300 i could have still done that but he didn't he did that to a woman he had the best video of all time

08:00:22.340 though okay but that is incredibly rude he had the best video of all time but i feel like that's

08:00:26.420 incredibly rude to go up there and i don't say had the best video of all time but beyonce had the

08:00:31.780 best video of all time but i feel like i deserve that to be honest i'm not talking about becoming a

08:00:41.620 singer i'm not talking about becoming an actor and actress it's in the corporate industry of the

08:00:46.740 entertainment business it is run by men all of the executives are men all of like the highest paid

08:00:53.380 people at these companies are men okay now you're looking at the apex though like there's been massive

08:00:59.300 hiring freezes when it comes to men when it comes to white people especially white men massive

08:01:04.100 hiring because they're all in there that's all they have in those buildings but there's affirmative 0.99

08:01:09.540 action for women so yeah for a reason uh but okay besides the hiring stuff is there anything

08:01:14.740 else when it comes to women do not have equal rights to men in the usa besides men can't kill 1.00

08:01:19.860 their kids any oh we're talking about abortion now i see well she brought it there huh um that was my

08:01:28.420 main point with the equal rights thing it was mainly about jobs jobs okay uh what's for you what women

08:01:35.220 don't have equal rights why is that uh for me i feel like i feel like that's actually a really good

08:01:42.100 example is like the abortion i was when i was thinking of equal rights i was also thinking about

08:01:47.620 like the job scene but um like with everything that's going on right now and talking about taking

08:01:54.420 away the abortion laws to allow us to have abortions i feel like that's a prime example of how women are 1.00

08:02:01.620 not having the right to choose okay so i i understand that abortion is mostly something that impacts women 0.98

08:02:10.100 but i don't think it's evidence of an inequality that exists but i feel like between men and women

08:02:15.540 if you if you want but i feel like it's but i feel like it's an inequality because if men are being

08:02:20.740 forced if it's an issue that only concerns women to be honest women go through pregnancy but i feel like

08:02:26.580 it is an inequality yeah i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like

08:02:32.260 i feel like it is an inequality well so if i'm sorry if men had to carry babies if men have the

08:02:38.180 if men have the laws would not be getting revoked that they would not be being forced to give child 0.72

08:02:44.260 birth when it guarantees their death like i feel like but but men aren't being forced to stay it's

08:02:49.300 not like they're being forced to help raise the kid they're forced to i would like to hear your

08:02:52.180 opinion not all the time strongly about this not all the time they don't always pay child support i mean

08:02:57.060 they don't they don't yeah well so yeah sometimes you just pick wrong you know well so i mean i feel

08:03:03.300 like i personally feel like it's an inequality if the guy is totally broke then yeah you can't get

08:03:08.900 blood from a stone but if the guy does have some resources he does he is making money yes the court

08:03:15.780 the courts are very effective at collecting child support so so yes women can through the court

08:03:22.340 through the state force men to pay child support but as it relates to the abortion issue i understand

08:03:31.620 that it is an issue that women deal with but it wouldn't be an example of not having equal rights 1.00

08:03:39.860 to men i feel like do you feel just theoretically that if men were the ones who carried and went through

08:03:47.540 pregnancy and you know there were situations where men would die if they went through childbirth or

08:03:53.940 maybe they got raped and you know they have to carry exactly do you think that maybe the laws would

08:03:59.300 be different when it came to abortion you really don't think so you really don't no no i don't think

08:04:03.860 so that's very interesting i mean it's it's a here's the thing it's a uh super crazy hypothetical that

08:04:11.220 we obviously would not be able to know i don't think the laws would necessarily be different all

08:04:17.300 right i think i mean whatever i guess you make the argument for why the laws would be different then

08:04:22.260 well because most people who are in positions of power in this country are men and you don't think that

08:04:30.500 they would favor toward men you don't think that not really no because the law is kind of sort of about

08:04:37.620 what's fair and equal what's fair and equal about a woman having to give childbirth and dying on the 1.00

08:04:43.380 table because so in this scenario the women they don't give extrapolation birth that's not an 1.00

08:04:47.940 extrapolation that's a real thing that happens i understand that's a real thing that happens but

08:04:52.740 like it also like doesn't happen as well but it does happen that's so like i don't understand your

08:04:59.780 logic at all regardless of your opinion on abortion yeah i said what i said yep men don't have

08:05:07.380 the right to kill their kids and in certain states women can do that well can i ask you do you think 0.99

08:05:13.780 that there's a certain term date where you see it as women viewing their kids or you think it

08:05:20.660 starts at conception conception okay because it's i mean it's scientifically like what it is are you

08:05:25.060 religious well even there's like a secular argument so are you religious though well of course i am

08:05:31.300 that's just a question but you know you can't unring that bell even even secularists believe that

08:05:38.420 yeah yeah you could be an atheist and be pro-life yeah no i was just asking her if she was i wanted

08:05:43.940 to get full context yes we can't really linger too long on the abortion convo but i again i understand

08:05:50.340 that abortion is an issue that women care deeply about whether on one side or the other but i don't think

08:05:56.260 it would be evidence of a uh women not having you don't think like a right that a man has you don't 1.00

08:06:02.980 think women being taken away their right to choose is an inequality between women and men

08:06:10.100 well there's no court so if it was the case that men also could get pregnant just as women could get

08:06:16.020 pregnant okay but where's the accountability abortions and women couldn't this would be evidence of an 1.00

08:06:20.740 inequality but because abortion is something that uniquely just very simple very keep things simple

08:06:30.580 uniquely impacts women but what i said was so you don't think that women having their right to choose 0.77

08:06:38.260 taken away is an inequality between men and women right so when we're talking about equal rights we're

08:06:45.460 doing a comparison between the rights that men have and the rights that women have in this case 0.54

08:06:51.220 this is something unique to women so men don't have either a right to abortion or no right to 0.96

08:06:58.180 abortion okay but they have the right to impregnant a woman but men also have something that's what i 0.75

08:07:03.940 mean hold on men don't have a right to get pregnant men have men don't but like but like but like

08:07:10.660 if men can get women pregnant but women don't have the choice to keep that's what i mean they have the 0.76

08:07:14.900 choice that doesn't really logically follow men have the right to vote on that though so do women

08:07:21.300 but so then why should men be able to vote women that's still any who's bothering the kids 1.00

08:07:27.700 that's getting aborted and even still that's not what i said in some states women perfectly 1.00

08:07:33.860 well have the right to choose whether or not but men are able to hold on if i can finish please

08:07:38.740 women do have the right in certain states to have an abortion what men do not have the right to do 1.00

08:07:47.380 in all states is to kill their child that's what i said that's the point that i was making that's the

08:07:53.940 inequality women do have the right to choose just not in certain states do you think that if so if a 1.00

08:08:01.780 woman gets pregnant and she wants to choose to have an abortion but the husband or man doesn't 0.98

08:08:07.300 want to have have her have the abortion what do you think should happen then then she should not have 1.00

08:08:11.940 the abortion so first why does she want to have the abortion and second why does he not want to

08:08:19.620 have an abortion are they buried were they trying is there something wrong with this child realistically

08:08:24.820 i'm just thinking like one night's in you're not you're in college you just don't want to have a

08:08:28.660 advocate i mean i think irresponsible like yeah but you know i think i think we can all agree that

08:08:36.660 there's oh mr meow donated 69 american women are the most protected class in the world right there 1.00

08:08:50.980 this kind of leads into our next thing here again though i'll just say uh again abortion whether

08:08:56.260 whichever side of the aisle you fall on this is something that uniquely

08:09:03.460 impacts women well okay i'll just leave it uniquely impacts women but it has it doesn't pertain to

08:09:10.180 an inequality of rights between or comparison between men and women like the the true equality

08:09:16.500 on this issue would be given the status that men have zero say 1.00

08:09:23.300 women should like what would be equality between men and women i know you won't like this would be 0.99

08:09:29.700 to have absolutely zero abortion rights that would create equality between men and women no it wouldn't 0.90

08:09:35.860 this is why feminism is not feminism is not an equality movement it's a uh it's a woman's advocacy movement 0.98

08:09:45.300 because where feminists won't fight for equality if women won't stand to benefit in some way 1.00

08:09:54.500 wrap that around your how does taking okay so just to make it just to make sure i understand you're saying that

08:10:01.060 that just taking it away in general and having like like no abortion allowed for both men and women

08:10:08.500 yeah that's equal to that's equal to you why that would be because that would but you just said you

08:10:15.700 just said that men can't have abortions that's correct because they can't get pregnant but but so 1.00

08:10:21.380 how is that being equal but wouldn't you agree that that is equal you might not like it but it would be

08:10:27.220 equal how is that being equal to take away a woman's choice that's what i mean is that you're

08:10:31.460 taking away her choice yeah i'll make it super simple like they have the choice to impregnate 0.67

08:10:35.860 her she should have the choice women can't have abortions that meets the definition of 1.00

08:10:42.260 if a man chooses to get a woman pregnant she should be able to have the choice if she doesn't 0.99

08:10:48.260 i'm i'm actually not it's not equitable yes it's all but it's not yeah but we're talking about

08:10:52.020 equal so i'm not making well by definition you're correct hold on i'm not making a uh a dis uh i'm

08:11:00.980 not making a prescriptive claim i'm not making a uh i'm speaking about what is i'm not saying i'm not

08:11:09.300 taking a position right now on the right topic of abortion but i am speaking descriptively as it relates to

08:11:16.260 rights and equal rights it would be the case that there would be an equality an equality that is

08:11:23.780 created if both you know women could get abortions that would match up with the current status for men

08:11:32.260 descriptively that's true okay but i feel like you could also switch that and if men have a choice

08:11:39.140 to impregnate a woman then i feel like a woman should have a choice to not want to be pregnant 1.00

08:11:44.500 yeah because you know well that is well no no no no no no no no i feel like i feel like you do

08:11:50.820 like like men do have a choice to impregnate a woman that is a choice there's kind of ignoring rape

08:11:56.820 right now that obviously happens yes okay yeah but that is a real but that's a real thing do you not

08:12:04.660 feel you know like with excess or rape that we're getting off under any circumstances abortion the

08:12:11.620 abortion convo is kind of dull to me okay it's hard it's new it's very nuanced yeah but i'm speaking 0.96

08:12:20.180 i'm keeping it to the equal rights component of the conversation i think your argument's dumb so i'm 0.96

08:12:24.580 gonna pee the argument is well what's dumb about it well it's just men can't get pregnant therefore 0.97

08:12:30.660 they can't have abortions so yes men not having abortions and women not having abortions yes that is 0.94

08:12:35.780 an equal thing but like it's not equitable yes it's equal but it's just who cares that he wants 0.98

08:12:40.900 the kid i feel like that's not what he's that sucks arguing that does suck well i mean that's a huge 0.75

08:12:46.660 part that i think it's a component and it i believe everything should be a discussion but i think a 0.96

08:12:51.620 woman should still have everything should be a discussion but the woman should have the final 1.00

08:12:54.820 like what's the point it's a discussion to get his input i don't know because you're you're going

08:13:01.620 you're going you're the one carrying this child for nine months you could die going through child

08:13:05.700 birth i just think that it's a higher risk that the woman's taking it right but especially here in 1.00

08:13:11.540 the western what does it have to equal rights okay it's men can vote women you're just like

08:13:16.900 shoving it off hold on you guys want to keep diverting to the abortion argument okay what is your

08:13:22.820 what's your argument it pretend i'm not trying to have like a back and forth pro-life pro-choice

08:13:27.540 i'm speaking strictly about the differential and rights between men and women in this case

08:13:34.180 there is not a differential like men don't have a right that women don't yes yes i agree with this 0.92

08:13:41.220 as it relates to this yes men have zero reproductive rights men have no reproductive rights 0.70

08:13:47.620 quit so the you would either have to give men reproductive rights right and then that could 1.00

08:13:56.980 it wouldn't i guess that'd be equity right because men can't have abortions but they could have like 1.00

08:14:02.500 they could say oh i got you pregnant but i don't want to be a father so i don't have any uh i don't

08:14:09.620 have to pay you child support even if you want to keep the kid i don't have to be in the kid's life

08:14:13.860 even if you want to i i relinquish all my paternal responsibility okay and this is called sometimes

08:14:20.980 they call it a paper abortion they call it legal paternal surrender okay but it's not a thing oh

08:14:25.940 there's no state where a guy can say do a paper abortion where he says you know i'm not financially

08:14:32.980 ready i'm young i don't want no it's not a thing men the woman could what and there's some crazy 1.00

08:14:39.700 scenarios i know you brought up the essay thing the condom she could do that a woman could essay 1.00

08:14:45.380 an underage boy get pregnant and then force him to the victim to pay child support like that will 0.99

08:14:54.340 hold up in court though really absolutely so a woman could essay uh an underage boy up in court yes

08:15:00.900 yes yes she could be charged i mean she could be charged with a some sort of alternate crime right

08:15:07.460 but as it relates to the child support component he's now financially responsible for that child

08:15:12.020 he would have to pay child support i see to his uh perpetrator okay yes would be yeah well yeah i

08:15:19.460 think i think it's so i mean look that's obviously like really rare scenario but generally speaking

08:15:24.740 there's plenty of men out there who you know they they've got a girlfriend or they have a one-night stand 0.98

08:15:29.380 to get the girl pregnant she keeps the kid he's on the hook for 18 20 21 plus years right and on the 0.79

08:15:35.460 18th birthday so we could start making arguments well it wouldn't be totally equal but the equitable

08:15:41.540 thing would be okay in states where women have abortion rights let's give men a right to escape 1.00

08:15:47.140 that's fantastic i i vote for you okay but it's i i'm not sure if that will ever happen there's massive

08:15:54.340 systems and infrastructure lawyers court systems uh the the government bodies the like cps or whatever

08:16:03.140 child support whatever there's massive infrastructure that wants to keep this the status quo and aren't

08:16:09.220 going to give men an equitable uh exit from an unwanted or unplanned pregnancy right and you think those 0.70

08:16:17.220 reasons are for profit uh yeah there's like i think there's typically uh i don't know if it's like

08:16:26.340 lawyers organizations that uh want to keep it this way because lawyers make a ton of money right

08:16:32.980 fighting over child support and yeah and courts enjoy it because it's a it's a revenue stream for them

08:16:38.980 uh so yeah i think that'd be i mean my perspective is in states where abortion is legal men should have

08:16:49.460 a corresponding right to say well i'm not financially ready for they don't even need a reason in the same

08:16:55.140 whatever the circumstances a woman can get an abortion a man should be able to say 0.95

08:16:59.940 i don't want to pay child support i don't want to have any responsibility i think i think that's fair

08:17:05.540 there's obviously nuance if women can murder their unborn children men should at least be able to 1.00

08:17:11.460 abandon them okay that's a very extreme claim with harsh wording but i think i see where you're

08:17:17.220 coming from i feel like men will still abandon them even if they can't legally do it oh well they should 0.52

08:17:24.100 be a little bit more intentional about who they be fucking we have some chats coming through everyone 0.92

08:17:29.140 wrap it up wrap up your willy devon jackson yeah thank you oh really man this panel is 0.99

08:17:35.700 fucking ass load men have no right to choose he can't force her to have the abortion hey come for him 1.00

08:17:41.620 not for us it's 100 her decision that is not an example of an inequality that favors men 1.00

08:17:48.900 he's right he's right

08:17:53.460 the man the man can't force her to have the abortion or not have the abortion anyways well legally

08:17:59.140 not legally legally so seven around this core wizard donated 69 dollars 95.9 percent of abortions

08:18:07.860 all states do not allow abortion in the case of danger to the mother's life that's not a thing in

08:18:14.340 texas to the mother's life and on the vote seach one you are not drafted but vote on war what was that

08:18:22.100 last comment about chair one you're not drafted but vote on war oh because you said uh men get to

08:18:28.660 vote vote on abortion but men can vote on women's rights just like women can vote on a bunch of 0.52

08:18:38.420 stuff that but like strictly impacts men if you're talking about the government officials that get the

08:18:43.540 right to take away women's rights there's more men in those chairs well i mean the why should they 0.98

08:18:49.860 actually there's more women there's there's a larger electorate body that is comprised of women there's 1.00

08:18:55.940 more women voters than there are men voters it's not about the voters it's about the people that are

08:19:00.500 in the supreme court deciding who well now you're shifting the goalposts to the supreme court because

08:19:05.860 those are the ones who are able to take away the rights they kicked it back to the states the states

08:19:10.980 then vote on their own state supreme court has an outlawed abortion states make the determination yeah but

08:19:21.540 they're the ones that reversed roe versus wade yeah which pushed it back to the states

08:19:26.580 yeah but what i'm saying there's more men in those chairs making those decisions than women so it's not

08:19:32.420 equal are there yes there's seven judges it's not uh there's not judges okay so it's odd it's still an odd

08:19:42.900 number and most of them are men all they all they did was hand the matter over to each of the 50 states

08:19:50.420 to vote on it we gotta move off of abortion though um desert jorge donated 69 dollars keep your 1.00

08:19:57.540 fucking legs closed you strumpets loads damn what the fuck they're coming here at the end 69 tts 1.00

08:20:05.220 streamlabs.com thank you for your money uh men are more privileged in society than women heidi you agree 1.00

08:20:11.220 with this does anybody else agree with this men are more privileged in society um i think you know

08:20:16.900 there's different qualifications for what that even means like pretty privilege for example like

08:20:22.900 girls going out to a bar not having to buy for a table or wait in a line or buy drinks like okay 1.00

08:20:27.860 maybe women's lives are more privileged in that regard but i think to generalize i would agree with

08:20:32.100 that claim i have to go to the bathroom sounds good okay heidi you circle this uh men are more

08:20:38.980 privileged in society than women how so jobs just jurbs just the jobs um how i how so i guess in what

08:20:50.740 way it's the odds of getting the same job as a man it's the same with race same with race yeah a white 0.65

08:20:59.460 man is more likely to get the job a qualified black woman would apply for well i don't know the statistics 0.99

08:21:07.300 on that but at least as it relates to gender the same qualifications and they're still going to

08:21:11.700 choose so look there's massive there's massive amounts of uh hiring priority in massive in all

08:21:20.260 from massive corporations all the way down there's tons of affirmative action that places a priority in

08:21:27.220 hiring women if you look in urban areas you look in cities uh single childless women under the age of 30

08:21:34.260 they out earn their male counterparts women are out earning men especially in 2025 you look at major

08:21:41.060 cities women are frequently frequently out earning men there's plenty of job opportunities for women 1.00

08:21:48.260 this idea and then further if we're looking at differentials or gaps you know you'd like to say

08:21:53.700 okay well women don't get these really glamorous jobs women don't make as much money even if i go 1.00

08:22:00.100 ahead and grant that this is true and i have some disputes as to this

08:22:07.540 men occupy the absolute worst positions there are we watched some videos earlier

08:22:13.140 so men are way more likely to die on the job they're more likely to be crushed on the job

08:22:17.460 they're more likely to have arms and legs and fingers severed on the job they're more likely to

08:22:22.980 freeze to death on the job they're more likely to burn to death on the job more likely to be crushed

08:22:27.620 to death on the job there's all kinds of gaps that exist why is it that we only focused on the

08:22:32.900 amount of money that's made as it relates to gaps the wage gap but we don't look at the

08:22:38.180 you know i think honestly the bigger gender grievance which is that men are way more over

08:22:43.380 represented in workplace fatalities and workplace injuries why don't we ever examine those gaps

08:22:48.820 well because it's not the same job you're not doing the same job if i'm working

08:22:57.380 i don't know i'm a donald's i'm gonna expect to get the same as my male counterpart but they do though

08:23:02.580 women do get paid in fact oftentimes they've done audits of these companies they didn't audit of or 1.00

08:23:08.260 google did a self-audit and they're like oh we're a feminist and we want to make sure that the women are 0.99

08:23:13.140 paid the same they actually found out that they were paying women more than the men how do you

08:23:18.260 explain that are the women negotiating and the men aren't well if it was the reverse you would 0.81

08:23:23.380 just say that that's sexism no so if the men were just well that's actually one of the components for

08:23:29.300 why men uh there's an earnings gap men are more likely to negotiate when women are more likely to

08:23:37.620 take the first offer or take a lesser offer because men are usually offered the job over a woman

08:23:47.300 like i said if the qualifications are the same on paper are they yes like uh-huh theoretically if you

08:23:56.980 and a woman apply for the same exact job qualifications are the same and i'm not talking

08:24:03.540 like physical labor jobs i'm talking like corporate jobs like what about uh you think i'm more likely to

08:24:09.780 be hired as a uh like a teacher yeah children there's lots of male teachers um are there more

08:24:17.540 female teachers or male teachers like in the elementary school level i think there's more female but it's also 1.00

08:24:24.900 choice of what career you want to go in i agree there's a lot there's choices men make certain choices some

08:24:30.740 of those choices happen to pay men more women make a lot of choices a lot of those choices happen to 1.00

08:24:35.300 pay women less because of choice not because of sexism but hr is the one that is hiring which is 1.00

08:24:41.780 predominantly made up of feminist left-leaning women why don't feminist left-leaning women who run the hr 1.00

08:24:48.980 departments why aren't they hiring women because it goes through ai goes through ai there's an answer 0.93

08:24:55.540 but hold on but ai is like within the past two three years women were running hr departments for 1.00

08:25:02.340 decades so what's going on there i mean i am 25 ai has been around since i've been applying for jobs

08:25:12.820 they teach us how to make resumes for the ai scanners like it's been like what three years

08:25:19.300 i didn't say i'm talking ai in general like the ats scanners are the ones that are going through the

08:25:25.700 resumes and deciding which resumes get pulled for the jobs and you're saying that there's evidence that

08:25:32.340 they're just disqualifying all women why do you think they choose to put on the application gender 1.00

08:25:40.260 ethnicity there is no reason why a job needs to know that when you're applying for a job you can decline to

08:25:45.780 answer and i forget sometimes i do and i get more interviews when i decline to answer um but there

08:25:51.620 there was a study that came out that released that an ati company ats um for a major company was biased

08:26:00.100 toward white men i'm not saying that's every company but i'd have to see the study i haven't seen it

08:26:05.860 yeah no it does exist though uh but again i i guess my question to you is why why is it that we only

08:26:15.620 hyper focus in on the money component and not all the other things i'm not focusing on the money

08:26:22.500 component i'm talking about the opportunity to have a job why is it that 94 of workplace fatalities

08:26:28.340 happen to men like i think dying is kind of a bigger deal because some women make a few dollars labor 1.00

08:26:35.060 right wasn't that what we talked about that for a while right but why isn't there a fight for like

08:26:40.100 equality and feminism like let's get more female bricklayers what's going on there 1.00

08:26:45.460 why can't like we're not biologically as well adapted as you guys are to so fulfill those jobs

08:26:52.580 proficiently question for you yes if you knew that there was a risk for a job that you could die

08:26:58.900 or be maimed would you probably want to be compensated for that of course okay do you think

08:27:05.700 jobs where there's a risk of injury or death people are probably less likely to do that job

08:27:11.540 i yeah i would i would say for the most and there's a greater demand for that job

08:27:17.380 um it depends sorry when i say i guess there's a demand from the

08:27:24.660 not not from the employee side but from the employer side

08:27:28.820 yeah could you give me because there's less people willing to do the job

08:27:33.220 yeah okay and are men more likely to work dangerous and dirty jobs yes okay so if it

08:27:41.940 even from your perspective it would you would have to be paid more to do that job

08:27:47.940 whereas most people would be fine in an air condition like you don't need to be oh man you

08:27:53.380 don't need to be paid more to work an air-conditioned office job like no you don't have to be convinced to

08:27:59.300 do that yeah i'm confused what's like the question well i'm saying that one of the components and by

08:28:04.100 the way the wage gap there's like multi it's multi-varied multiple reasons for why this earnings gap

08:28:10.100 exists first off the wage gap is oftentimes the number that's quoted it's just comparing all the

08:28:16.260 money that men make to all the women that money make it's not factoring in hours worked type of job 1.00

08:28:21.780 uh location yeah uh field of work all these other factors over time etc etc etc so one of them is

08:28:33.060 though men are more willing to work these like dangerous right undesirable jobs and undesirable

08:28:40.020 jobs because they're undesirable oftentimes tend to be rewarded uh-huh uh more because of their

08:28:47.700 undesirable nature like if you're working a job where it's like you're an underwater welder and delta

08:28:54.340 p there's a chance you get sucked into a tube and like instantly vaporized you should probably be

08:29:00.260 compensated well for taking on the risk of doing underwater welding for sure i agree with that hazard

08:29:07.780 pay right yeah right men are much more likely to engage in hazard pay that's only one of the many

08:29:12.420 metrics by which this earnings gap manifests itself but when you start accounting for uh all these

08:29:18.900 different variables and you compare like for like it shrinks to just one cent men earn one cent more

08:29:24.820 than women but i think it's more of the problem in companies where they are paying a man more than they 0.99

08:29:32.260 are paying a woman for the same exact job if she can prove it she can follow a lawsuit well that's why they 1.00

08:29:38.020 tell you not to discuss your financials with co-workers they tell you not to tell your co-workers

08:29:43.140 how much you're getting paid because most of the time it's unequal well i mean i'll i'll propose this

08:29:48.580 that was my wage gap really quick show of hands who here wants a guy to pay for first dates just show 1.00

08:29:53.380 of hands super quick okay so i think ignoring even all the things i listed the fact that men work more

08:30:01.060 they work more hours they work more overtime they're more likely to relocate they're more likely to do

08:30:05.780 xyz different thing that happens to be correlated to higher pay i argue that it's actually women cause 1.00

08:30:14.820 the wage gap women through your own sexist expect gendered expectations you want men to pay for first 0.94

08:30:23.380 dates you want men to be providers this creates a mating pressure that exists only on men it doesn't exist 0.98

08:30:30.580 in the reverse it doesn't exist back you create you want men to pay for first dates to be providers

08:30:37.460 they're going to be more motivated to make money they're going to be more motivated to work harder

08:30:42.020 i think issues like the wage gap are nuanced but i agree with you that women do contribute to part of

08:30:47.460 the problem well if the standard is as a woman i want a man to pay for dates i want to be a provider 0.99

08:30:53.380 yeah that would create a social pressure a mating pressure that exists one direction but doesn't 1.00

08:30:59.460 exist the other direction right like as women you want money like for yourself yeah but it's never 1.00

08:31:06.500 part of the calculus yeah that men are not looking for women of like i'm making a bunch of money so uh 1.00

08:31:14.100 women want to fuck me right or sorry men want to fuck me well i guess you're bisexual so maybe it works 0.99

08:31:19.780 out if you're bi i don't know but yeah it's not like women can absolutely be super motivated obviously 1.00

08:31:27.220 wanting to take care of yourself being financially secure that is very motivating but you don't have

08:31:32.740 this added level of pressure or motivation on the basis of uh finding a boyfriend yes like you can be

08:31:42.980 broke yes and guys are still going to want to deal with you but if you're a broke guy that does have an

08:31:48.820 impact on your dating process i totally agree with that some women deal with broke dudes but it does 0.81

08:31:54.260 have an impact in the very simply you all want a guy to pay for a first date yeah if a guy can't afford

08:31:59.940 to pay for a first date i hear that i i agree that it's harder to date as a poor man an attractive man

08:32:08.740 than a poor unattractive woman it's tough out there it's all right one more thing from the questionnaire 1.00

08:32:14.580 we're going to let some chats come through and then we're going to get this wrapped uh two chats 0.99

08:32:18.740 coming in desert judge donated 69 dollars take some fucking accountability with regards to who you 0.99

08:32:28.180 let fuck you raw and inseminate you i mean yeah take some accountability yeah yeah all right oh uh we're 0.99

08:32:38.500 gonna do uh the makeup removal actually wait i'll wait for that temporarily uh final thing from the 1.00

08:32:43.780 questionnaire sorry two more things from the questionnaire my bad a woman's passion not matter 0.92

08:32:50.100 talking about body count you agree uh elizabeth you agree ellie didn't even circle anything okay 0.98

08:32:59.700 um she just agrees she disagrees on everything um okay who here thinks a woman's passion not matter

08:33:06.660 body count i think everything's nuanced it's nuanced okay i know you hate me no it's okay no no you

08:33:14.980 you've been super respectful no absolutely no hate thank you um why are we judging men for their body

08:33:24.340 counts you can if you want to nothing stops women from judging men for it i don't think a body count

08:33:31.540 should determine your value to another person it doesn't determine the value but it makes me

08:33:38.340 worry about your your choices and your judgment sometimes like if a guy if he slept with over 200

08:33:44.260 women i'd be like hmm it's a little like what's going on what's going on there you know i'm like

08:33:48.580 is everything okay mentally like i think in our generation it's a little different just because

08:33:54.020 the body count number for like the average person is gone up for our generation specifically

08:33:59.140 because of the sleeping around culture um has it i don't know it definitely i think it's gone down

08:34:05.860 actually two ways i think down it might have gone down i see that gen z is having less sex because 1.00

08:34:12.740 nobody wants to talk to anybody in person but then i also hear specifically i think the extremes are so

08:34:19.620 much higher probably yeah and i think that also like there's been a pull away from like

08:34:24.740 typical values i think too in a very very big way um and i mean like even going so far back like i'm

08:34:34.740 like i said i'm 36 my parents right like my parents had their values but they didn't always like push

08:34:43.060 their values on to us i have four siblings um so i mean you know we kind of called it like we see it

08:34:51.060 you know and if we didn't see it then we made it up so okay well uh i guess uh so who here thinks

08:34:59.700 just show of hands uh body count doesn't matter shouldn't matter passion not matter you said shouldn't

08:35:07.140 matter it doesn't matter it matters i don't i couldn't i couldn't 100 agree with that claim so i

08:35:13.220 can't raise my hand that body count does not matter at all under yeah i don't think it matters i

08:35:18.340 couldn't i couldn't agree with that sure uh well here i'll ask this uh if body count

08:35:25.060 shouldn't matter it doesn't matter what's your body count one

08:35:30.740 felicity two five into the mic five five i'm not sharing this do you want to do range ballpark um

08:35:38.500 um under 25. did you lose track no it's just that's nobody's business but mine okay so you do

08:35:47.140 know the number i do know it's track but yeah did you stop counting um i you know it's not like every

08:35:53.140 time i had sex i went and wrote it in my notebook but you know i i have a an idea i could recall all the

08:36:00.420 times if i wanted to ellie zero um i don't know off the top of my head ballpark range uh more than 10.

08:36:09.220 so could be a thousand well no no more than 10 less than 25. okay did you lose track uh

08:36:19.540 no i'm just not really a counter okay stopped counting i guess what about you

08:36:24.980 eight okay i'm married and i'm not giving that information me just okay out of respect for my

08:36:31.940 husband dad definitely not you don't want to do a little ballpark or i mean it's less than eight

08:36:37.540 for sure do you guys want to give your like girl count like how many girls you would you like that

08:36:46.020 i don't know just that maybe you're more comfortable being like i done 0.99

08:36:48.740 fuck kissed a couple chicks yeah um i would well for me it's just the the area i grew up in there 0.97

08:36:54.980 wasn't a lot of gay girls so i would say coming to you know la that has changed probably like 1.00

08:37:03.300 i would say a fourth of my sexual experiences have been with women maybe maybe even a third 0.97

08:37:11.060 i would say half my sexual experiences have been with women okay uh two questions on this uh 0.59

08:37:17.940 would you date a guy who previously had sex with men 0.83

08:37:23.380 yes no no if he was the top okay that's real interesting what if he was the bottom no 0.87

08:37:32.500 no i like a masculine man yeah i would um i don't know would you date a guy who previously had sex with 0.99

08:37:42.340 prostitutes like he he's clean he paid that's clean but or like he just happened to date a 0.99

08:37:48.500 prostitute or like he purchased he purchased her services i see no no no no no no no no no 1.00

08:37:57.940 what what if it's just one time i don't care no one time why are you that down bad like go on tinder 0.94

08:38:03.140 bro we have dating apps it's 2025 literally it's not rough i'm not in favor of men seeking out

08:38:10.820 prostitutes but i'm thinking necessary like maybe you just wanted you know whatever i think it's kind 0.99

08:38:16.180 of lame i guess but whatever all right uh oh um can women so this is this would apply just to youtube 1.00

08:38:26.420 because nobody else indicated uh here on this uh can women be sexist towards men yeah yeah everyone

08:38:35.140 can be sexist everyone can be racist everyone can be yeah we're human wait can can anybody be can you

08:38:41.380 be racist towards white people of course yes i don't know i believe that i i believe that i could

08:38:48.180 as i'm latina i can be racist toward any other race or black people be racist towards white people

08:38:55.060 um i don't maybe stereotypical is a better i don't know if racist is the right word would you what do

08:39:00.100 you think i think it's the right word but what do you i just don't know okay what do you think

08:39:03.460 i stop no no i'm not thinking i don't i'm trying to think of like what to say i don't think you can

08:39:13.780 be racist i'm just that are you black yes i'm puerto rican and black okay but so as somebody who's

08:39:21.700 i guess half black then like is it what is it called afro latina is that the term i don't know 0.90

08:39:27.860 is it i don't know is that offensive i don't know um as somebody who's black can you be racist

08:39:35.140 towards a white person i don't think personally i can like like okay okay wait okay let me let me

08:39:42.420 actually wait let me explain this me and my me and my other black friends have talked about this before

08:39:48.820 we think that because systematically like when it comes to black people and white people because white

08:39:54.900 people have kept us down for so long and we're finally in this sense of like empowerment we don't

08:40:00.260 think you can be racist towards a white person because that's just reparations can you give me

08:40:04.900 an example yeah racist toward a white person yeah give me an example and i'll tell you whether or

08:40:09.380 not like oh crackers can you do that that's not the same gravity as that no it is not

08:40:15.540 don't say the n-word if you oh yeah i'm not going to just because we're on stream 0.50

08:40:18.820 yeah i would say for example if a black person assaulted a white person because they're white

08:40:36.100 i would okay yeah that's oh well yeah that's a that's a crime that's all yes that's a hate crime 0.96

08:40:41.940 so therefore it is racist right oh i feel like that's just assault wait wait because they're white 0.96

08:40:46.980 because they're white oh yeah that's racist then yeah totally so black people can be racist towards 0.94

08:40:52.820 white people yep you heard it here first is it do you think it's racist though i think that's 0.97

08:40:57.940 high key hot take i think that's reparations but that's my personal thing

08:41:03.220 that's a personal thing but but but genuinely but genuinely i do think that like like don't be 0.95

08:41:10.260 don't be somebody's ass don't do that don't i wow i don't think that's okay no no no i'm not 0.94

08:41:15.940 saying violence is okay i'm not saying violence is okay i don't promote the violence okay all right 0.99

08:41:22.340 well um i do think that uh anybody can be racist towards anybody it's just

08:41:28.260 race-based bigotry hatred it's longer than i i'm getting beautiful we're getting tired okay good talk

08:41:37.700 well i mean that's it for the questions pretty much um we're gonna let some chats come through

08:41:42.500 before we do we do a segment so uh do it quick if you want to get this wrapped up uh people take off

08:41:49.060 their makeup on stream so you guys i'm only wearing so as you know i just had surgery i have stitches

08:41:55.700 right here okay i need like hydrogen peroxide you know what i have like a whole thing when it comes

08:42:00.740 to i don't the other i mean you know i can it's just uh all right ellie's probably not a good idea

08:42:08.020 i know hey have me on next time so your your makeup is just like perma on no i when i get back to our

08:42:15.780 hotel i have to there's just a lot of steps to it right now because i need to make sure it's sanitized

08:42:21.060 and i don't know what all right we got some troopers here everybody else is doing it that's fine she's

08:42:24.820 she's recovering from a from a surgery so i'm only wearing her too guys just letting you know when

08:42:30.260 you're done when you guys are done hold it up for the camera i'm gonna let some chats come through

08:42:35.460 here we go here's mine we're out of here within like five minutes

08:42:38.660 this is true this is true um

08:42:57.780 if it was the case that you could get away with paying women less corporations could just take 0.99

08:43:01.940 advantage of this and just hire only women and save like 20 30 on payroll well put wizard thank 0.74

08:43:08.740 you i have another one from mozart's bugatti good name donated 69 dollars women mad at men women mad 0.83

08:43:16.500 at being women asexual i'm far from there are only two sexes on earth and you're at war socially with 0.95

08:43:22.980 each other get a life because you're cooked you're an asexual npc wow who's that for i'm not sure 0.91

08:43:31.940 thank you mozart's bugatti good name uh who if you're done hold it up let's see the damage okay 0.98

08:43:38.100 there it is we got the damage over here hold it up hold it up mine's looks so like i only use

08:43:46.100 hold it up micellar water good times oh i love micellar water yeah yeah if you guys need to use two

08:43:53.620 feel free we're very generous here at the whatever podcast you know if you need to we're not going to

08:43:58.820 be stingy with the makeup lights guys final call if you want to get a uh tts in i'll give you we're

08:44:04.580 wrapping within five so you have a bit of time to get a tts in get it in boys 69 tts final if you want

08:44:12.340 the final word okay i know you're not a big piece if you want a final word here on the show final call

08:44:18.740 tts get them in boys oh it was a good panel you guys were good uh i thoroughly enjoyed this

08:44:25.300 conversation i enjoyed it it was fun and i appreciate you obviously we disagreed on some

08:44:29.300 things but you were very respectful and you had like an open mind to the conversation yeah totally

08:44:33.220 i think that's i appreciate that super important i feel that not enough people try to look um at

08:44:38.420 multiple perspectives nowadays when it comes to nuanced issues and that's something that i believe

08:44:42.100 in so i appreciate that no it's a sign of intelligence to being like hearing a position that

08:44:48.340 you perhaps don't agree with or you know whatever so you're very fair you're very reasonable you were

08:44:53.460 very good faith so thank you i appreciate and everybody else was for the most part except for

08:44:58.820 felicity she talked too much tonight rude uh so i'll start the uh and mary remember to do the little 0.82

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08:46:03.220 on of girls but like no i'm getting my degree babe i got into some crazy yeah majority of our guests 0.99

08:46:11.220 don't do of but it's like this perpetual thing that annoys me you just bring on prostitutes i'm like no

08:46:18.180 most of the girls are normal most of the women are normal girls who come on the show so not one single

08:46:25.940 of girl on this panel not one not her not felicity not anybody okay so anyways moving on uh gg i want

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Whatever Podcast - August 19, 2025

Tradthot E-GIRL 💍 DRAMA？! Do Modern Women Deserve Trad Men？! She IS The Table？! ｜ Dating Talk #255

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