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00:03:58.160 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age occupation

00:04:02.780 and location go ahead hi my name is cindy zhang i am 23 years old i am a only fans model

00:04:11.020 welcome welcome what about you thank you i'm rocky i'm 30 something uh 30 something 30 what i'm 30

00:04:20.380 something i'm between 30 and 40 and i am an adult entertaining entertainment uh administrative

00:04:27.140 assistant um i'm in from la okay i'll just say you're 35 okay hi i'm korea i'm 19 and i worked at

00:04:39.260 the airport but can i have you doing me right now push your mic this way this way yeah that way

00:04:45.200 no no no like scoot it scoot it scoot it yep um your name is korea how do you spell that k-o-r-r-e-h

00:04:54.000 is that a nickname or is that your first my government that's your government government name

00:04:57.460 that's what you gave us the government name that's bold that's my government name okay very

00:05:00.680 cool i'm not supposed to do that no you can you can give your government okay uh what about you

00:05:07.400 hi my name's kenzie um i do social media and only fans age no 19 19 okay uh social media what

00:05:18.800 kind of social media do you do i do instagram um i do a lot on tiktok um snapchat and i'm gonna

00:05:28.140 start streaming soon is there something oh twitter is there anything else you do on social media

00:05:35.640 that's it well you're an adult content creator correct yes okay i said that did you yeah that

00:05:43.480 was like the first thing i said okay i'm brain dead apparently go ahead uh my name is katherine

00:05:48.560 i'm 26 i'm a substitute teacher uh i'm from fontana okay welcome hi my name is asia i am a uh well

00:05:59.800 i go to school um to be a medical assistant and i do social media age i'm 25 25 all right welcome

00:06:07.480 hi i'm anna i'm 19 i'm from lompo california and i am a sophomore in college and i'm a server

00:06:17.620 at a restaurant welcome hi i'm salem i'm an adult content creator and a model

00:06:26.200 age oh i'm 20 all right hi my name is demaya and i'm 25 and i work for the cdc on edwards air force

00:06:37.240 space oh oh nick that audio sounds okay i'll fix i'll get up and fix that um wait so you work

00:06:46.400 are you in the military no i'm a civilian oh okay a civilian contractor or whatever

00:06:51.220 oh we're not even a contractor not even just i don't know is there a term for that

00:06:54.920 um they have contractors they have civilian or in the military guys can you hear her

00:07:00.300 yeah she's really you got to project your voice a little bit they have contractors or you can be

00:07:07.180 in the military or a civilian got it okay what about you hey everyone my name is madison

00:07:13.480 cophorn i am from the great appalachian mountains of north carolina but i now live in florida

00:07:17.920 naples uh i do commercial real estate used to be in politics um but you know i just spend a lot

00:07:23.360 of time out in the water have great friends love shooting guns love my dog you know i have a really

00:07:27.560 fun life so very happy person all right uh age i'm 28 years old 28 years old and you were previously

00:07:34.940 in congress correct i was yep represented the 11th district of north carolina so it's basically

00:07:39.640 everything on the western side basically anything above 1500 feet elevation was mine

00:07:44.100 um but it's great border tennessee so you just got great people on both sides really can't beat it

00:07:49.080 um you know served for two years from 2020 all the way through uh 2022 and it was just wild time to

00:07:55.100 be in congress but it was a very very exciting gotcha are you gonna you think you're gonna run for uh

00:08:00.440 run again you think we'll see i really want to start a family first okay um but then you know it's just

00:08:04.800 that we're our country is just teetering on collapse whether you know no matter regardless of what side

00:08:09.620 of the political spectrum you're on life is just getting worse uh by every metric and so i think it's

00:08:14.820 just it's uh it's a sad day when men in america are you know strong women just people who want to

00:08:22.520 change their country or decide to stay on the sidelines just because they're afraid of some

00:08:26.980 negative articles or anything like that and it's just i think they uh you know we have a massive

00:08:31.520 lack of men who are wanting to stand up and defend what makes our country free and great

00:08:37.660 okay and so recently i think this story broke two days ago you might be more privy to this than i am

00:08:45.320 what is going on in the senate dating podcast but it's sort of related because it's actually kind of

00:08:52.220 related to dating sort of you know so uh date the daily caller a fantastic news organization they broke

00:08:58.020 a story of basically somebody i don't know if he was an adult content creator i don't know anything

00:09:02.380 about the gentleman that was in this video uh i know that he was a staffer for a senator and we have

00:09:07.280 hearing rooms where you have committee hearings um and apparently he went into this area i just saw

00:09:13.080 like you know one screenshot and filmed a um a homosexual erotic video of just full-on sex

00:09:20.580 and in in the u.s senate in a hearing room and so anyways yeah i i had talked about some sexual

00:09:27.380 perversion that was going on in washington dc a long time ago and it just that got really riled up and

00:09:32.220 so now there's you know things trending on twitter about you know just it sounds very serious it was

00:09:37.520 something it was something we're have you ever been in that exact room like did it look familiar

00:09:43.480 to you thank god so i was in the house so i'm on the south side of the capitol that's on the north

00:09:49.400 side of the capitol okay i've not been in that particular hearing room but it was a uh oh it was

00:09:53.660 a senate it was a hearing room okay and so which is even more egregious because you know the senators

00:09:58.360 are the ones who do much more of the governing that you know the house they have an election every

00:10:02.380 two years so they're much more accountable to the will of people but the senate of the people who

00:10:06.080 approve judges approve the people who are appointed to these three-letter agencies that run your life

00:10:10.240 and so to have a senate person who represents an entire state one of his staffers doing this i don't

00:10:16.060 know what side of the aisle he was on but that's just that what are tax dollars being spent on for

00:10:21.100 a guy to film a porno i'll paint a picture for you he's in this congressional hearing room

00:10:28.300 and he's bent over all force all force wow nice taking it up the uh is he getting pegged up the way

00:10:40.580 how does borat up the uh how does what is borat you have to use the borat voice for that what was

00:10:46.720 the how does borat refer to the orax borat you don't know borat no borat you guys don't know

00:10:53.640 what's he how does he refer to it like he's like literally the epitome of like common i don't know

00:11:00.700 in any case no clue i have to i must be living under the rock moral of the story madison for

00:11:05.900 president the anus he's getting it up the anus in the congressional hearing room so i wonder what

00:11:14.220 hearing was most recently held before that sex tape like it was some super serious hearing about

00:11:20.380 eastern european geopolitics it probably triggered something and then he just was like i gotta get

00:11:25.140 the stress out somehow let me just join only fans and film a quick video

00:11:29.540 i gotta boost the audio

00:11:35.820 stapped panel happy to see a politician out of fear armani armor and can't walk off the show

00:11:43.000 also brian here is a slogan for your non-profit boys like barbies men like arby's all labia matter

00:11:50.020 yo thank you man appreciate it the armani armor was a very good very good grid one good to see in

00:11:58.360 the chat man okay so we're gonna go around the table once more so what is your current relationship

00:12:03.860 status are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married

00:12:09.460 polycule sex cult harem if you're single how long have you been single what and what's the

00:12:14.780 longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you going around go ahead so i am currently

00:12:19.360 single my last relationship was in april i haven't really dated long term just been like dating here

00:12:27.540 and there you uh what's the longest year though uh i feel like half a year six months

00:12:37.380 oh amala underscore ek panobi donated two hundred dollars that the get from tpu rated anyone who was

00:12:45.880 engaging in immorality on tuesday especially only fans people he also helped people build

00:12:52.140 multinational real businesses earn your leisure the breakfast club um amala ek panobi okay i know

00:13:01.800 i'm in a wheelchair so i'm really short but that went over my head i really that one hit me uh thank

00:13:06.840 you amala ek panobi appreciate it um okay so you six months so i have like multiple relationships and

00:13:13.820 they like last about like at the same time i know not the same time no like different years like i'm

00:13:19.280 um uh monogamy i like one monogamous death your chair's royal you don't you don't want to share

00:13:27.520 them no i'm loyal gotcha you know what i mean i love only one one one one man wait so you've been

00:13:33.800 single since april so nothing since april like you've been celibate since april i have been celibate

00:13:39.620 since april stop the cap yo chad is it still a little too loud we had to readjust the uh um you've

00:13:46.420 been celibate since april yes i have i don't believe that for a second but okay it's true

00:13:51.700 it's true it's true okay um so your longest relationship was six months you said

00:13:58.060 yeah and but so okay and you're 23 when was that relationship well my last was april but

00:14:07.860 was that the longest one the six month one yeah it lasts like around like half a year and that

00:14:13.260 ended in april yeah okay but i have other relationships when my first relationship was

00:14:19.160 when i was 18 and then okay yeah all right what about you i am polyamorous i do have a partner it's

00:14:27.380 complicated um my longest relationship was four years um that was a while ago stop counting

00:14:33.960 longest relationship four years how long have you been seeing your current partner about a year

00:14:38.380 one year one year okay i'm assuming there is it a unit directional like he's also seeing other

00:14:45.240 people um or it's a she i don't know if it's a she but um okay so he's exclusive to you yes but

00:14:51.640 you're not exclusive to him correct it's complicated it's sounds complicated um and so since you're

00:14:58.140 polyamorous how many people are you currently involved with i guess i'm not so it's it's pretty

00:15:05.520 complicated what do you mean so i'm not involved with anybody else right now like sexually but i'm

00:15:11.440 polyamorous so there's a little so there's periods where you might be yeah the are you saying the

00:15:17.740 options open the options sort of yeah wait so uh when you were polyamorous what's the most amount of

00:15:27.700 people that you've seen at one time at one time oh my god uh i stopped counting that's one of those

00:15:34.060 things i don't i don't really have a tally for that if you estimate i've dated couples i've had

00:15:39.860 orgies we've had no no not your total not your total partners but like like at one time like if

00:15:45.780 you you're seeing like three dudes at a time five rotation probably three to five at one time

00:15:50.660 so what's the highest though is it like the highest okay five like uh the rotation

00:15:56.760 and i'll add that question for everybody here so what's have you ever had a uh roster or rotation

00:16:06.540 a roster like i mean i have hoes you gotta always have hoes around you know where are the hoes at

00:16:14.300 where are the hoes at sexy red in the house you know so uh

00:16:19.120 i'm so weak yeah so uh

00:16:23.700 so yeah you know what i mean you gotta

00:16:27.940 yeah do you currently have hoes i always got hoes you gotta always have different area codes

00:16:35.600 or same how many how many hoes do you currently have i don't really like so we're just like

00:16:43.020 i don't like yeah i just talk to them as like friends like i'm not like entertain like i'm not

00:16:50.040 like i mean sexually active yeah exactly i mean when i think of hoes i think it has a kind of

00:16:55.740 specific definition usually yeah but hose are options so it's like i assume that's a sexual

00:17:01.520 partner if you wanted to have sex with them you could but it's like yeah you not necessarily you're

00:17:05.740 with them but have you there are people who will always have you had sex with any of your hoes

00:17:11.800 there you go uh no not my hoes like people that actually like respect me and treat me like a queen

00:17:19.140 and a princess then like we can go there so what just you have hoes

00:17:24.620 like i have people that are interested in me so they're like in your orbit if i gave them a chance

00:17:30.500 they would take it so basically what it sounds like is like you know this and this is a debate we

00:17:36.280 hear a lot of times with like guys who are basically saying like oh i don't like when my

00:17:39.500 girlfriend has a lot of good guy friends or close guy friends because we all at the table know that

00:17:44.340 if a girl like said you know texted with a guy it's like oh he's like my brother yeah but if you

00:17:49.220 texted it was like hey do you want to sleep with me tonight he'd be like i will be there in 10 minutes

00:17:52.220 and so i'm guessing like they're they're options for you but that you're the you're their main

00:17:57.140 target yeah we're friends we're not like close like right yeah i wouldn't say like they know

00:18:03.220 everything i've never heard guys referred to as hoes but i mean you know what these guys they're

00:18:06.920 they're chasing they're chasing you don't call girls hoes uh i mean yeah i've called girls hoes

00:18:11.860 before i haven't i don't call girls hoes i don't i don't i don't this is like we're talking

00:18:16.720 like teenage years yeah yeah i call them slaves just kidding just kidding um wait so okay

00:18:26.600 i'm not even mad

00:18:27.440 me and rocky have our chastity keys on

00:18:33.600 you're what we have our slaves in a cave i love that one sec one sec donated two hundred dollars

00:18:40.500 she means simps yeah that's yeah i sing the wrong song wait guys guys guys hey guys guys guys do not

00:18:50.720 talk during the tts please okay uh grid one so he said but they got nothing gonna get nothing

00:18:57.740 okay um do you want to address that

00:18:59.800 is that what you mean what i don't use i'm answering

00:19:07.220 um i don't oh okay the effects in here okay so uh no i don't use these guys for money

00:19:18.420 i just think i i'm an independent woman i make my own money

00:19:21.940 oh

00:19:22.760 donated two hundred dollars

00:19:28.680 my sprinkler goes like this

00:19:30.760 you just donated two hundred dollars to say that okay

00:19:37.040 comes back like this

00:19:40.800 thank you

00:19:46.380 that's good thank you man

00:19:47.480 thank you um so basically grid one motorsports who gave a great donation he said would you define

00:19:53.680 these guys as simps yeah i would say they are simps all right i feel like i feel like that settles

00:19:58.060 that this is settled yeah you got those that are simps that's a good translation grid one good

00:20:02.840 translation um wait but so just curious so you said that you've got some hoes but then you also

00:20:07.260 have some guys who you're taking a bit more a maybe a guy who you're taking a bit more seriously

00:20:11.420 if like yeah if a guy that i like i'm sexually attracted to we vibe together yeah if you vibe

00:20:20.160 i can see us dating then yeah i'd be down to get into business you know

00:20:26.720 so you currently have a guy that you're getting down no not right now i told you i'm celibate right

00:20:32.940 now okay i don't chase after men you don't chase after men no why is that

00:20:38.400 because that's not what you want to put out in the universe you're going to attract the wrong type

00:20:44.260 of men that you don't want to like spiritually get connected with you know so so men should chase you

00:20:51.140 um i assume i feel like it should be both parts like if you're interested in god you definitely

00:20:57.780 should show i'm sorry you're reciprocated thing is going to bother me the entire night can you take

00:21:01.880 it off my bracelet yeah it's just banging against the table uh but yeah no like i wouldn't say like

00:21:09.760 like you're like um what do they call it um passenger not passenger passenger princess what is the the

00:21:18.900 one like in your in bed where like the guy does everything yeah like i wouldn't say like a pillow

00:21:24.360 princess where like he needs to do everything but like you definitely need to show like so

00:21:31.780 reciprocated yeah reciprocation because like so i'm from the south right like i'm a prince of the south

00:21:38.460 so basically in the south how it normally goes is most girls like want to be pursued by a guy which i

00:21:44.100 think is the right way things should work out but you know i you know it's been like that for ages

00:21:48.160 though a shrewd girl you know she might like drop her handkerchief so he has an opportunity to pick

00:21:52.300 it up and be like oh hey you drop this ma'am you know so like you you're you're being a shrewd girl

00:21:56.700 shrewd shrewd yeah like um uh so we do you need a definition or should we yeah so like black slot

00:22:03.420 like shrewd's basically meaning like someone who like thinks in like a a tactical way no no like

00:22:08.660 shrewd being like oh i i have a really good plan like if i drop this right in front of him he'll have

00:22:12.680 an opportunity to pick it up then he can talk to me and so then like if a guy's shy you're giving him

00:22:16.920 an opportunity to make the first move yeah and so is that kind of what you're saying like if you

00:22:21.060 would like a guy you're gonna yeah pursue him like that i feel like my riz in person is just

00:22:27.240 like looking at him and then he needs to just like pick that up that like he needs to approach me

00:22:33.400 i wonder why young men are so confused her riz is her riz is looking at the guys read the mind

00:22:41.600 did you say that you are an only fans model i am only fans model this is just one question i've i've

00:22:50.000 kind of a question i've always wanted to ask about this is do you not feel like you because

00:22:55.500 you talked about how like if you chase guys it's going to attract the wrong kind of guys you know

00:22:59.080 betas guys you're not going to like be attracted to spiritually relationally do you not feel like

00:23:04.680 only fans kind of like attracts like just these like weak kind of guys who just want to sit in a

00:23:09.700 corner and i don't know pay a girl to do something instead of earning it

00:23:13.340 so you're talking about how my only fans simps no no he's saying like the fact that you do only

00:23:22.600 fans uh-huh he's saying does that affect the type of guys that come at you like it definitely does

00:23:29.500 it definitely does i i definitely here well i get a lot more like guys approaching me but at the same

00:23:37.440 time i can like pick it off no he's saying like the type of guys that come out like the quality

00:23:43.320 of guys um yeah i think it does affect like the quality of guys we'll dive more into the whole

00:23:50.800 dating thing when it comes to if you're involved in only fans i want to get around the table really

00:23:55.040 quick on everybody's relationship stats before that though i just want a little more clarification

00:23:59.020 on the hose thing what does that mean like what are you saying i don't get it like you've got dudes

00:24:06.380 around you that just do shit for you basically hose like have you ever heard of the song sexy red

00:24:12.780 i'm looking for the hose yeah what do you say your hose are your mail for you if you know you know

00:24:20.480 yeah yeah hold on guys guys please stop we need one person speaking at a time there's way too much

00:24:25.860 crosstalk here one person at a time please go ahead yeah like my hose just it's just like a flirty

00:24:32.380 like it's not it's not that deep it's just so you're currently y'all have hose like are these

00:24:39.860 potential guys you would sleep with potential guys or date could be like if you know sometimes like

00:24:48.720 so you're saying you're getting attention from men that you're not dating really and that you're not

00:24:54.280 sleeping with we're just friends i think i would assume a hoe is a bit different than what a friend

00:25:01.920 is it's just options yeah it is but hold on friends but they're hoes i'm a little confused i'm not even

00:25:09.800 gonna lie i brought it up because of the sexy red song i just said i'm looking at my house i just wanted

00:25:15.440 to say it i don't know who is sexy red i don't know she's she's a pretty famous song you wouldn't

00:25:21.580 you like if they were i don't listen to that garbage music if they were potential hoes or potential

00:25:26.820 people that you wanted to sleep with like looking wouldn't you kind of want them to be like a friend

00:25:31.380 first like wouldn't you want to like that that's never friend the vast majority that's not how the

00:25:36.360 vast majority of relationships start it's not like let's be friends for a year and then no it's

00:25:42.980 like it starts off to some degree within a romantic context either you meet out out somewhere you

00:25:49.520 meet on a dating app i'm not going to be friends with a girl i think for a year

00:25:53.720 that you're sleeping around with and she's saying no but not even oh my god i'm losing brain cells

00:25:59.020 people that you have conversation all right moving on your phone um what what's your relationship

00:26:03.520 status rocky oh wait just kidding situationship okay situationship yeah uh okay

00:26:12.960 so how long how long have you been in the situationship well for like eight months

00:26:21.380 eight months situationship okay is that your longest anything longest relationship

00:26:27.180 well we were dating but we broke up but we're kind of like talking and stuff so it's like

00:26:34.760 wait so it's an eight month on and off again situationship no we were dating for eight months

00:26:39.920 but you're still seeing we broke up like we broke up like two months ago something like that

00:26:46.300 so now it's like when's the last time you saw him yesterday in february wait february it's december

00:26:56.560 you said you broke up two months ago it's a long distance you're in a long distance on and off

00:27:01.340 against situationship yeah um he's from jersey he's from jersey okay everything's legal in jersey

00:27:09.200 true i love jersey wait it's okay you saw him eight months ago i'm okay cost times donated 207

00:27:19.520 dollars brian tried to stay for the pod gonna go in the sauna hey grid one ladies pick your guys

00:27:27.840 carefully if you see red flags move calm them girls yo dude thank you man i'm about i'm gonna trigger

00:27:34.860 your other one that came in before the show um thank you man appreciate it yeah it's uh good to

00:27:40.220 see you in the chat man thank you thank you good to see grid one in the chat also here it's about

00:27:45.240 there it is there we go sorry times donated 207 dollars hey brian panel merry christmas happy new

00:27:53.860 year early one of the best things about having a christmas slash family is watching your kids rip

00:27:59.660 open presents oh okay that's wholesome it's a key to long-term happiness emo okay thank you man that's

00:28:06.180 the merry christmas to you too happy new year merry christmas um thank you man appreciate it uh anybody

00:28:12.300 here have a family like kids just you you got kids anybody else have kids no okay uh all right well

00:28:18.520 we'll get into that in a little bit um so okay you're you're in a situationship but you haven't

00:28:23.900 seen him since february in person yeah have you ever seen him in person or well yeah well actually

00:28:31.920 when i was like 17 um i like snuck out across the country yeah how did you get there my grandparents

00:28:41.340 don't know till this day because i stayed my grandparents okay well how did did you drive

00:28:47.560 you know i airplane i took a plane oh okay because my my aunt was going to vegas to see my cousin so i

00:28:55.420 was like oh i'm gonna just go with her but i didn't go to vegas i went to jersey okay all right

00:29:02.300 uh so question for you you haven't seen this guy since february you guys kind of broke up two months ago

00:29:08.840 but you're working it out it sounds like yeah okay so are you seeing other guys

00:29:16.140 um that's a yes

00:29:19.460 were you seeing other guys during what was it ever exclusive

00:29:27.920 me and him yeah yeah during that i wasn't seeing any guys okay like he was my man oh was he still my

00:29:37.360 man he's still your man yeah even though you guys broke up two months ago and you're in a

00:29:41.420 situationship i have him on a leash you have him on the leash well the the follow-up question i was

00:29:46.820 going to ask you is our run are uh is he dating other women oh no no you say that like he can't

00:29:54.500 get other women like he just doesn't have him on a leash you have him on a leash what does that mean

00:29:58.500 to have him on a leash yeah he's like obsessed with me house how we just like we have like genuine

00:30:06.280 love for each other we're like trying to like is that work on ourselves before we like

00:30:11.360 i don't know take it like to the next level type shit so you said that you guys were on and off again

00:30:18.740 kind of no because you said you broke up right yeah who broke up with who

00:30:23.960 no comment it was just like who broke up with who it was it was just like we just needed okay he

00:30:36.620 dumped you no no it was mutual like yeah okay all right work on ourselves okay it was mutual

00:30:43.560 he mutually dumped you um so well if he dumped me then like so you have to be on like me like

00:30:52.220 every okay how did the breakup go tell pretend i'm your boyfriend that you have on the leash

00:30:56.760 where's the leash okay what's who who started because like it's mutual but somebody has to

00:31:05.960 like right unless there's some big blow-up fight or something well it kind of was like a big blow-up

00:31:11.100 thing we're just like you know what fuck this like we still love each other that's why we're like

00:31:16.640 still talking to each other type shit it's just complicated that's why situation shit goals

00:31:22.840 wait goals they love each other no that does not sound like goals at all that doesn't sound like

00:31:31.240 how about just like being in a being in a functioning yeah that's goals too relation yeah of course go

00:31:39.820 let me ask you do you want a man who's on a leash like let me just give you a scenario

00:31:47.360 bump in the night you guys are both in bed together you've you he's moved across the country for you

00:31:53.080 because he's your man you're like you beckon you snap the finger he came he he you guys are living

00:31:58.180 together he's you're in bed all of a sudden you hear some some goons trying to break in the front door

00:32:03.780 if a guy's on a leash do you feel like you're gonna have to like get him up be like go protect me

00:32:08.540 or like i mean what's it mean to have a guy on a leash like that just feels like he's a he's a

00:32:12.920 he got a whole gun and everything oh okay well see we like that he's good i like that mr jersey

00:32:18.360 you ain't no yankee all right but anyways but like what does it mean to have a leash like a certain

00:32:23.560 degree like i don't want him like interested in like a whole lot of life so do you have a technique

00:32:29.500 for that or do you just straight up like go in like love bombing then like kind of pull the pull

00:32:33.320 the love back a little bit like you know okay well let's just some kind heart of manipulation

00:32:38.980 wait to a certain degree i guess i mean don't okay how just sorry pay attention to the conversation

00:32:48.580 we'll read it later thank you bender the offender we'll get to in a bit um so okay you are uh

00:32:54.240 you are seeing other guys though is that correct no but okay when i asked you were like

00:33:00.900 like there's other guys in the picture right i think she got hoes i have hoes yeah that might be it

00:33:08.080 like if i wanted to go out and like you know is that why you left the airport too many hoes

00:33:13.200 yes oh yeah yeah i had a lot of how does your how does your guy feel about you having

00:33:18.760 guys around you that want to sleep with you all the time

00:33:21.100 he don't care because he know who eats it better oh oh what

00:33:26.560 i'm gonna just be honest wait that's how like that's his claim to fame like i eat her pussy better

00:33:35.920 so i've got her on lock is that it i'm like yeah i so he i'm not actually i'm actually he knows that

00:33:44.220 too i'm not yo todd thank you for the raid man much appreciated thank you dude um that was a

00:33:52.100 world of warcraft sound oh dude i brought some memories back man i was a freaking blood elf

00:33:56.600 paladin oh shit let's go oh and we have flan life with a gifted 10 memberships thank you man

00:34:01.580 you play world of warcraft i mean back in the day yeah did you play classic or was it the

00:34:05.840 that sounds like it was classic yeah it was burning crusade like when i was 14 i was i was heavy

00:34:10.920 okay you said a blood elf what blood elf paladin paladin yeah ret you played ret oh of course

00:34:17.640 retribution yeah grid one hey thank you donated two hundred dollars wheels over there is thinking

00:34:23.500 he has never seen so much copium in one room cope got a man on a leash you ain't got a man you

00:34:30.360 have a sin oh break it off work on yourself and maybe a man will find you oh all right grid one

00:34:37.660 okay grid one shit oh what is copium he's um copium is like so cope copium it's like uh opium

00:34:49.360 like it's a drug and you're you're the cope is so strong that you're like addicted to the cope

00:34:54.900 what is that actually what it means i here i can google it we're talking like cope and see like cope

00:35:01.460 copium it's it's combines cope and opium so okay it's used satirically in this joke term used to

00:35:09.920 describe a fictional drug that one consumes after suffering a loss defeat or disappointment

00:35:14.240 it is used when the facts do not match up with reality so some copium all right well done grid one

00:35:21.780 that's good okay um all right so i'm just uh you said you got hoes but you're dating this guy and

00:35:28.840 there's maybe other guys in the picture no and you have him on a leash how do you have him on a

00:35:33.120 leash that's where that's what i'm confused about it's not so much about like having him on like a

00:35:38.580 leash like he's we're just would he appreciate you saying that by the way like would he agree with

00:35:44.260 you that he's on a leash because that's he would agree with if he was sitting here right now he would

00:35:49.080 say cheeks donated two hundred dollars what kind of diabolical shenanigans am i listening to

00:35:55.600 yo thank you cheeks not men that are with these slopes oh my god be nice be nice cheeks almost as

00:36:01.800 bad as be nice cheeks no real man will ever be with these hearts let's be nice okay we gotta be

00:36:08.000 nice to them you know they've come on the podcast gotta be nice gotta be nice cheeks um how did you

00:36:14.840 meet this did you meet him online this guy yeah how on roblox oh no way to be exact it was roblox

00:36:23.480 i don't want to move could you would you mind grab me a cup of water

00:36:49.520 wait no no just stay there nick nick will okay thank you thank you oh my god um you met him

00:36:57.500 online i didn't want to make this so federal but yeah yeah i met him through roblox but we've known

00:37:06.220 each other for like no one this is we've known each other for like eight years yeah but then we got

00:37:12.720 into like being serious and then i went to go see him and then the rest is history basically

00:37:19.520 but that's the money i feel like he would agree too like yeah he's probably venting you to his guy

00:37:27.020 friends so i've never got me like i've never played roblox that's like uh is that kind of like minecraft or

00:37:33.780 something kind of is that like minecraft yeah but it has like more like mini games like yeah you can

00:37:41.220 like interact with you need to play mini games i need to play i'll find me a girlfriend on roblox

00:37:46.760 i've heard of so many roblox love stories and stuff oh that is like a very intense love story

00:37:56.820 i never knew that so how did what's the name of your character on roblox

00:38:01.740 okay i'll drop my app peanut butter underscore jelly oh nine

00:38:07.560 oh my god okay so okay what was his i don't know if you can share his user i don't know if you're

00:38:15.220 able to like how do you how does he do you know how like what you look like in the game like do

00:38:21.880 you guys share instagrams no because he was just like you're really good at the game like i'm gonna

00:38:26.240 fuck well it was like more of a i was like on this like role-playing game but we were and we

00:38:35.780 weren't role-playing on the game we like moved on to discord like we talked on this

00:38:43.460 so who made the first move you guys were honestly it was so long time ago i can't even remember it was

00:38:58.060 her she made the first wait were you also you're you're her friend right so were you also on the

00:39:02.940 roblox um you know i wasn't there when they met but you know i knew that they met if that makes

00:39:09.460 sense i wasn't there actively during the game but i knew what was going on this doesn't sound like a

00:39:15.720 standard first person shooter i gotta be honest is it like it's i think it's a kids game isn't it

00:39:20.800 it is we were kids yeah we were children yeah

00:39:25.500 okay do you guys have like an age gap at all are y'all same age no he's 22 okay that's is that

00:39:35.880 is that a yikes i don't know if it's a yikes um no uh okay so oh the question i was gonna ask is

00:39:43.380 when it comes to the whole leash thing seriously if he was sitting there right now would he appreciate

00:39:51.880 you saying that you have him on a leash no like would he agree with you that he's on a leash he'd

00:39:58.660 probably be like yeah i got her on a leash too honestly okay um and he does you both have each

00:40:08.780 other on a leash so you're both walking each other in some sort of inception inception leash

00:40:16.780 scenario okay um so okay you met him on a video game he lived in new jersey you lived in california

00:40:24.440 you lived so you've met him in person once no when we started dating like i went back and forth back

00:40:32.280 you would fly without your parents knowing that was the first time you okay because that was before

00:40:40.920 i was 18 17 yeah how old was he okay that's kind of that's a yikes that's a yikes he was 19 he was 18

00:40:50.280 oh i mean um wait what was that how old were you 17 17 yeah that's not bad did i switch it my bad

00:40:56.600 um it's not bad what can you get me some water i'm thirsty yeah we'll get we'll get you some more

00:41:03.000 um uh okay so how many times have you flown to jersey

00:41:09.240 i went like

00:41:16.600 twice a month i want to say for like two weeks

00:41:24.000 wait you went twice a month for two weeks so you twice a month for two weeks so four weeks

00:41:33.240 there's four weeks in a month so you would just does anybody else see that i typically rate women

00:41:40.680 who dress like escorts as a 4.5 by default oh okay i'm gonna knock you filthy beach down to a two

00:41:47.200 whoa whoa you've been jays code red i demand the cdc lady call in an airstrike

00:41:55.600 you gotta call in an airstrike okay here i'll send in i'll send in uh the that thing

00:42:03.040 okay there you go thank you jay butler appreciate it good to see you he's a he's a urologist by the way

00:42:08.480 wait so you've did he ever fly to see you no who would pay for the flight you or him he paid for it

00:42:15.760 every time he'd pay okay i'm just gonna say there's no way a guy who you're flying across

00:42:24.080 the country like twice a week to see and he's paying for your flights every time it's gonna be

00:42:29.360 like yeah say i'm on a leash i just don't he's not he's got a gun he's not coming off that kind of guy

00:42:34.400 like i think we have a different definition of when a guy's on a leash like that sounds like just a well i

00:42:38.880 a beta bitch to me like a certain extent are you saying like his loyalty level to you yeah okay i

00:42:46.880 got you but right now you're not in a relationship it's complicated a situation situation you did

00:42:54.080 define it exclusive but they're not like labeling it but they're like not seeing other people

00:42:58.960 you know let's just call it yoga y'all would do so well in congress like a good omnibus bill you guys

00:43:04.160 don't make it so confusing and how long well they've dined okay um but so you are dating other

00:43:10.560 men that's what it sounded like no or like there's other guys in the picture no you said didn't you

00:43:15.520 say you have hoes she said no but she said there's people that she could hit up yeah like if she wanted

00:43:20.240 to okay all right oh hold on beaten cheeks donated let's be nice cheeks let's be nice these girls are

00:43:28.160 not even fives yet are grabbing these simps like nothing males you better not be subbing to these

00:43:34.880 harlots at all because if jesus can't save these harlots why are you trying std check oh my god

00:43:43.120 thank uh thank you cheeks thank you let's keep it nice you know oh bro uh paper towels paper towels

00:43:49.440 like made it made it man down man down it's not too bad um okay take it i can do it yeah thank

00:43:56.720 you man um your relationship status go ahead i am single uh my longest relationship was eight months

00:44:06.720 and it was in high school so i don't know if that really counts um what what year what grade i guess

00:44:13.520 what grade yeah um it was like senior year maybe it counts no we ended like freshman we ended our

00:44:20.400 relationship at the beginning middle of 2020. what so you were a sophomore sophomore yeah okay well

00:44:30.800 you're you said you're 19 right yes okay and that was eight months but and you've been single for how

00:44:36.080 long um i had another relationship during this year

00:44:43.520 um i'd rather not disclose when but whoa whoa whoa why is that why is that um because it

00:44:51.840 conflicts with another guy that you were dating no no just my what i do what you do i'd rather like

00:44:58.400 the internet not know like my uh relationship status or when or yeah

00:45:05.200 so kind of sounds like

00:45:12.320 maybe you're seeing a couple different guys and you don't want them to know the time no not at all

00:45:16.560 it's strictly because of what i do what what do you do only fans social media oh and wait why can't

00:45:24.960 they know because you do only fans i'm just curious um it conflicts with people because people on

00:45:34.640 um sometimes they get weird when you have like yeah like people don't people are less driven to

00:45:42.960 communicate with you and follow you um on only fans if you are in a relationship and i did make my

00:45:50.880 relationship public at one point and it kind of screwed up business a little bit so i just kind of like to

00:45:56.160 keep that out but i will say it was this year and it lasted about five months okay yeah all right yeah

00:46:04.480 i mean we've definitely heard that that's a pretty common thing that for female content creators female

00:46:09.840 only fans girls etc they typically are going to either not disclose their relationship status or just

00:46:15.040 lie and say they're single because it hurts their bottom line basically right i am single though

00:46:21.040 well if you were in a relationship i don't suspect you would disclose you're in a relationship because

00:46:25.600 of what you just didn't said right but so you i i am saying i am single though like but maybe

00:46:33.040 you're not but you're single but but you might not be because it hurts your bottom line but i am but

00:46:39.360 she is she's actually single but she might not be so okay all right um okay yeah i mean that's pretty

00:46:47.200 common um so basically lying what why am i not disclosing well no but if what do you mean if

00:46:55.280 if if you say that you're single but you actually have a long-term boyfriend are you saying that's

00:46:59.840 not lying no no that i think if i was if i think if i was in a relationship i wouldn't say i am single

00:47:06.720 i think i would just say i don't want to talk about it because i think that is kind of like another

00:47:11.760 level of like disrespect to be like i'm single yeah you know it's one thing to advertise like you're

00:47:16.560 single and it's one thing to just well yeah but if your boyfriend is involved to some degree with

00:47:21.120 your production on only fans he's probably going to even tell you to say that you're single because

00:47:25.200 it's going to hurt your bottom line i'm not going to like i'm not i'm not going to out any of the

00:47:29.840 girls at the table but like just for the viewers watching um a lot of girls especially if they're

00:47:34.400 involved in content creation or only fans um they're if they're in a relationship sometimes they're going

00:47:39.520 to be they'll say they're in a relationship especially if they're doing content with that guy

00:47:43.600 on only fans um but if they're just doing solo content or just gg girl girl content

00:47:48.560 uh they're going to lie and say that they're single because it does hurt their bottom line

00:47:53.440 when it comes to the simps so um what about you um i'm single okay my last relationship was like in

00:48:01.520 december it was with my baby's father my longest relationship is five years but that was back when

00:48:09.840 i was like 21 like it ended when we were when i was 21 okay so you you were another how long of a

00:48:17.840 relationship were you in with the father of your children i was like over a year one year okay

00:48:26.160 so uh and that ended like uh 12 months ago about a year ago um what and you just have one kid right

00:48:34.560 you have a son or daughter a daughter okay why did that end the relationship with your

00:48:40.400 uh is baby daddy the term i don't yeah that's the term it's gotta be a better term than that it ended

00:48:47.600 because there was like trust issues but also we wanted different things but overall just the

00:48:52.880 foundation of our relationship wasn't really good and it ultimately ended us did you mean to have a

00:48:59.520 child with him no it was just by accident but then you chose to keep it yes that's great i mean good

00:49:05.360 that's that's really good how um how is your child she is 20 months but you said you've only been

00:49:13.680 dating you only dated him for when i found out i was pregnant i was nine months so then we tried

00:49:20.640 to stay together okay um you know kind of after that that's when we were kind of like okay because

00:49:27.520 even when i did find out we were pregnant we were kind of like on the rocks so our relationship wasn't

00:49:32.720 really doing too good yeah and then i found out i was pregnant so kind of more for the child we tried to

00:49:39.120 to make it work um but things get really real when you have a baby and i think that

00:49:46.800 if you guys don't value the same things it's not gonna work did he want the kid

00:49:54.080 no like he he's a really good dad and he's involved in her life and everything but originally no like

00:50:01.040 when we were kind of trying to make that decision that was kind of a big thing because he wanted me to

00:50:06.400 go more towards the abortion route and then i didn't well praise god one that you didn't get

00:50:12.400 an abortion that's fantastic support you when you did yeah ultimately but it was kind of like something

00:50:18.160 that i do feel like i had a stand up against and it was something like he easily it could have

00:50:25.120 intimidated me into being like okay i'm gonna do it but ultimately that was a decision i knew i did not

00:50:30.480 want for myself yeah because in california you can have an abortion up to nine months right that's crazy

00:50:34.800 um yeah and i actually did go to like planned parenthood and everything um but it was always

00:50:41.600 one of those things where at first i was kind of like oh i'm uh it's a personal decision for everyone

00:50:49.280 but being there i always told myself if it has a heartbeat i'm not gonna do it like if i know it has

00:50:54.480 a heartbeat i'm not doing it and when i was there i found out it was she was six weeks so that was six

00:51:01.360 weeks and i remember the doctor was like pregnant like nine months pregnant and she was just like

00:51:06.960 okay like it was very quick very rushed and i just kind of felt like it wasn't for me so i was like you

00:51:11.840 know what he's still involved in the picture yes you guys are co-parenting yes what's the custody

00:51:17.120 arrangement we have joint custody joint custody does he pay child support or yes okay so he's like being a

00:51:24.080 dad yeah he's being a dad he's like we're within the week we probably have her split very evenly and

00:51:30.640 so would you say when you talk about trust issues is this like questions of him maybe cheating or is

00:51:35.920 it like financial trust yeah it was it was kind of like situations with that that started the trust

00:51:40.800 issues okay here i'm gonna pull up a chat we're gonna then we'll continue on with the relationship

00:51:45.440 status bender the offender what are the panel's thoughts on making paternity testing mandatory at birth

00:51:51.360 before the birth certificate is signed i figured i'd pull this one up now since it's somewhat topical

00:51:56.160 so going around the table what do you guys think uh do you think we should have make paternity testing

00:52:01.040 mandatory at birth before the birth certificate is signed starting with you cindy then we'll go around

00:52:06.160 the table go ahead so basically like a test to see if they are your baby daddy yeah if the father

00:52:14.800 father that you claim to be is the actual biological father yeah yeah definitely i mean you don't want

00:52:20.960 to have like someone else's kid but that happens hey blue face tweeted saying that based no you're good

00:52:28.400 you're good okay what about you i don't think it should be mandatory because not everybody's in that

00:52:32.240 situation but it should definitely be one of the options that they give you at the beginning when you're

00:52:37.120 getting tested and doing things like that so definitely they should offer that just like they offer

00:52:41.840 plan b and stuff like that just in case definitely i and i assume that this would be so this would be

00:52:47.600 at birth this would be something you're in the hospital they would take they would take a test make

00:52:52.960 sure you know probably get dna from the dad and uh yeah what about you yeah i agree about what but what

00:53:00.400 you said they should offer it like they offer plan b's okay uh i agree with rocky i don't think it

00:53:07.760 needs to be mandatory but i think if you're in a situation where one of the people are questioning

00:53:12.080 then it should be an option well i mean to avoid all doubt i think it well okay go ahead i think that

00:53:18.880 it should be mandatory like it wouldn't be a bad thing if it was mandatory just because it protects the

00:53:23.680 mother and it could protect the father as well and it could also hold both parties responsible and

00:53:30.160 accountable see i was going to agree with her but then she made a valid point oh i'm sorry i was going to

00:53:36.160 agree with her but she made a valid point about it being mandatory so i agree with that um yeah i

00:53:42.160 think it should be mandatory because it's really not going to hurt anyone i think if anything it's

00:53:46.720 just going to help the family in the situation sure yeah i agree i think it should be mandatory as long

00:53:53.040 as it's like free and like covered and like what she said so okay yeah i agree too that it should be

00:54:00.960 mandatory that way that conversation doesn't even have to exist madison what do you think

00:54:06.560 i just think i mean from a top down level i think it's really sad that our culture's at a point

00:54:10.800 where we feel like we need to have this kind of stuff just because i mean especially you know the

00:54:15.120 fact that guys are questioning if their girl has you know been sleeping with other people that's

00:54:20.320 really sad but i think that's where our culture is right now and so i agree with that completely

00:54:24.720 because where i'm coming from a really a relationship community uh communication is number one so all of

00:54:29.840 this kind of conversation and stuff like that we're going to have that way before we're having any

00:54:33.920 accidents or anything like that so that's definitely something that should be discussed

00:54:38.240 beforehand anyways whether you're open or not yeah yeah i'm i'm definitely in favor of it um

00:54:45.200 and i'm actually curious what the chat thinks chat even if it costs you money let's say it cost

00:54:49.840 you 100 bucks chat if it cost you 100 bucks but it like it it would be done that way you'd know

00:54:56.080 do the test would you do it i i mean that seems like a pretty fair trade-off i that's a yes for me

00:55:06.720 would you one in the chat if you you're in favor of mandatory paternity testing two in the chat if

00:55:11.760 you don't care and you trust you you you have trust how many people are on here i think seven

00:55:19.440 thousand six six thousand seven thousand around six thousand i think um thank you chat appreciate

00:55:26.240 it appreciate it so uh apparently though madison what i've heard is and this is the statistic is

00:55:32.320 this is among people who are seeking out paternity testing when they do seek out paternity testing i

00:55:38.320 think it's maybe someone in the chat can you find me the actual number but i think it's

00:55:42.640 like around 30 percent they find that the person who's seeking the paternity testing

00:55:49.680 turns out he's not the father turns out he's not in 30 percent of cases i mean that that's that's

00:55:55.440 disgusting and you this is the one thing where i feel like because most of our government systems

00:56:00.160 and things are so slanted towards giving children to the mothers and if it's a split up parent or

00:56:06.640 something like that but then a lot of times especially if a girl like let's say she just

00:56:11.040 started sleeping with as you as you were saying cindy the one of her hoes you know she's getting

00:56:15.200 she's in a relationship maybe married whatever it is she just is out clubbing with her girls

00:56:20.080 something you know just trashy and then she's like oh you know i was drunk and then i had sex with

00:56:24.720 this guy and she knows this guy's just a piece of shit because he's like trying to be a homewrecker

00:56:28.560 anyways and so she probably would not want it to be a be a paternity test because she's like that

00:56:33.520 guy's not going to take care of my kid and you know i i think that it's a uh it it's it's i i

00:56:39.040 would assume that if we had mandatory paternity testing it would be significantly higher rates

00:56:45.120 than just 13 percent okay all right by the way no name reacts i saw here that you sent a 74 donation

00:56:54.160 via stream labs but it's the trigger to just read is 100 the trigger to um for tts is 200 so

00:57:05.440 i just saw it i want to i don't want you to feel like we're uh skipping over you but um oh i had

00:57:11.120 something related to this but uh do i want to actually we'll continue with the relationship status

00:57:16.640 so i think we let we got to you what about you um i usually keep my personal life private but i am in a

00:57:23.680 relationship um we've been together for a year and some change now all right and is this your

00:57:31.200 longest relationship yes it is okay all right what about you um i am single and my longest relationship

00:57:40.800 was probably like eight months and it ended like over a year ago eight months one year ago okay

00:57:50.560 okay what about you i am single and my last relationship ended

00:58:00.000 this was complicated but it ended like four weeks ago okay how long were you guys dating nine months

00:58:09.920 nine months okay all right what about uh what about you i am single and my longest relationship was three and

00:58:19.520 a half years and my last relationship was like almost three years ago okay

00:58:27.440 madison what about you yeah so i'm single i would say that you know my my definite like i'm hunting a

00:58:31.760 wife right now i really want to get married start a family um and you know i it's just i my last

00:58:36.880 relationship i think we broke up in september of last year um you know every girl that i've ever had

00:58:43.280 as an actual girlfriend i've asked hey will you be my girlfriend you know they're all solid women i don't have a

00:58:47.520 a bad thing to say about a single one of them i think i've had six girlfriends in my life were you

00:58:52.000 married you were married at one point i was married before yeah we were married for a short stint you

00:58:56.160 know i wasn't a perfect husband anybody politics was the main thing i got it the man she got engaged

00:59:00.720 to and the man she married were very different based on you know just about a year and a half of

00:59:05.120 difference in life um but you know wonderful woman don't have a bad thing to say about her

00:59:09.360 um but you know it's just uh i go on a lot of dates but you know i i'm very clear with the girls

00:59:16.480 and hey i'm i'm just looking to see if like i you i want you to be my wife and they're like you know

00:59:20.640 or you like me and so i'm very i'm very clear like hey it's not going to work out it's kind of i'll

00:59:25.360 move on very quickly do you get a lot of girls sliding into your dms man i'm especially when i'm in

00:59:30.800 a relationship i just i cannot look at my dms that is just it no no when you're single though when

00:59:34.640 you're like you're single yeah yeah yeah i mean like i i i would say it's a healthy amount okay

00:59:40.240 healthy amount i mean i slide in too i'm not getting wrong don't get me wrong i i pursue wait

00:59:46.000 is that a wheelchair joke if it's downhill i'm really fast but no the uh but no so in you know

00:59:52.480 in in the bible when it's talking about like you know a man pursuing his wife that the term when it

00:59:56.400 says pursue it is a military term it is like be tactical be aggressive and not aggressive like in a

01:00:03.600 in a bad way but like you know don't hesitate you know think through it figure out how to

01:00:08.400 accomplish your task and then and get get the job done and so it's a uh you know i i think it's it's

01:00:13.600 incumbent upon young men in our country when they find a girl they want to date to pursue them don't

01:00:18.080 be trashy don't try and you know have sex with on the very first date you know treat her like a lady

01:00:22.720 pick her up bring her flowers you know if she if she like lives with the dad ask her dad's permission

01:00:27.280 whatever the situation is but you know it's a um so yeah i i definitely i'll slide into a dm once in a

01:00:32.720 a while okay nice nice nice oh wait going back to you really quick you said you're single right

01:00:38.240 both actually all three of you here on this corner said you're single um and you i didn't

01:00:43.760 really dig too much into your situation too there's no guys in the picture there's come on

01:00:48.400 there's some guy in the picture right right now nothing like i was i've dated i i was going on dates

01:00:53.840 and doing all that but now i'm really not okay because no no guy in the picture or do you have

01:00:59.920 hoes well like what do you mean by that like do you have a friends with benefits you have a

01:01:04.080 situationship um yeah we can say that are you on your phone no what okay i i think we should yield

01:01:12.960 to the substitute teacher she could probably spot that the best she on her phone

01:01:17.280 i don't snitch just guys don't please don't be on your phone during the show okay go ahead

01:01:27.120 um yeah i guess what's up nick oh okay i guess you could say she i don't think she can hear you

01:01:34.160 okay oh um i guess you could say i have a friends with benefits i guess okay so you're not single

01:01:40.160 yeah i am when's the last time you saw your friends with benefits yesterday um maybe like 48

01:01:49.920 hours ago okay how long have you been seeing your friends with benefits oh she has multiple

01:01:58.960 i know yeah there's not just it depends which one are you asking about well yeah let's go into that so

01:02:04.080 um how many guys are you currently seeing um let me uh between three and five three to five yeah three

01:02:15.440 to five well how about how often do you cycle through the roster in a week um you know i probably visit

01:02:22.640 one on monday go see another on wednesday give myself a little break and see another on saturday

01:02:29.280 and you know that's all wrong yeah so let me get the rocks yeah get the rocks get the rocks

01:02:40.160 i love andrew take i love andrew take too specifically tristan he's the best i have a

01:02:44.560 question but so question on friends with benefits are all of these guys are friends with benefits are

01:02:50.400 they basically you've made the judgment in your mind that none of them are eligible to move on past

01:02:55.600 that you're just oh yeah feeling a need oh yeah yeah yeah wait so you're do you have a follow-up on

01:03:01.520 that okay yeah yeah um so none of of the three to five can you give us a concrete number is it it's

01:03:11.200 five yeah let's say five okay we're gonna say it's five you're currently friends with benefits

01:03:15.600 five different guys so none of the five guys are you think are worthy of a relationship

01:03:20.960 actually maybe one absolutely not well maybe one just one but the other four they could kick rocks

01:03:29.680 if they really had to but one of them is probably my favorite like i'll see him twice a week rather

01:03:35.840 than like once i have a favorite and you know cindy if you can um so okay um and how long have you been

01:03:48.480 seeing each of these guys a couple months each you'd said yeah and therefore you're how and i don't

01:03:55.760 know if you're being facetious earlier but like how frequently are you seeing them like it sounded

01:03:59.440 like one per day per week kind of oh i want to say that i would say like three a week three a week

01:04:09.120 three a week but it's rotating yeah it's rotating like monday wednesday saturday you know maybe tuesday

01:04:15.200 thursday okay and you know i have i have work i have do they know she's a busy girl oh yeah they

01:04:21.040 know they know maybe they know they know that and when you say friends with benefits we're talking

01:04:26.960 you're having sex with them some of them not all of them well what else is with friends

01:04:31.680 with well some of them they just like smoke me out and we'll go get some like in and out burger or

01:04:36.560 whatever like they get a yeah basically wait so they they pay for your weed yeah like come pick me

01:04:44.960 up they'll buy me weed buy me some food you pick them up or they pick you up they pick me up yeah i'm

01:04:50.480 gonna need a dip for this conversation um i mean maybe i'll pick them up if if you know i don't know

01:04:58.720 wait so hold on okay so they also buy you food yeah i love in and out burger oh i don't always

01:05:07.040 fuck see that's what i'm saying some like i would say probably three of them i'm fucking two of them

01:05:12.080 i'm not fucking they just buy me shit and smoke me out and genuinely sometimes that's all a girl needs

01:05:19.760 that's all a girl needs so let me ask you a quick question let me ask you christian you're 19 right

01:05:24.400 yes i i know on the west coast girls get married a lot later than on the east coast or you're in

01:05:28.800 the south so let's imagine that you know you're fast forward to like you're like okay now i kind of

01:05:35.200 want to i want to save a relationship with man and we'll get married what happens when he googles

01:05:39.680 you and pulls up this video and he's like man michael is just going through like five guys every

01:05:44.240 ten days well i would tell him that i would tell him straight up and you would want a guy who'd be

01:05:48.400 like yeah that's cool well i mean you know people change yeah people change you know i've known a lot

01:05:53.040 of girls there's no putting that back in the i know a lot of girls who've been sluts you know

01:05:58.640 they've been sluts and now they wait why did you

01:06:06.160 wait why did you gesture over at your friend because you know before she was in her relationship

01:06:10.560 you know she had her little like you know her little ho vibe you mean during her relationship

01:06:16.000 too right no not during her i can i can promise you korea was oh sorry during your situationship

01:06:21.120 but when she was really with him she loved her man like all about her man but before that before

01:06:27.040 that she was popping pussy too sometimes like the fuck is going on in lompoc what the fuck um you

01:06:34.160 know and then you know lompoc i don't know if you guys have ever been to isla vista but there's

01:06:40.240 it's everywhere baby it's you know it's quick man off the street wait i've got a question so you're

01:06:48.240 you're 19 right yeah when like in your you've probably did you go to lompoc high

01:06:54.800 lompoc high school yeah so uh were the chicks at lompoc high like is it pretty they they be

01:07:03.120 fucking how early like how early are because because i'm like on some boomer shit i'm i'm in

01:07:09.360 my early 30s i've met bitches in middle school who were saying oh yeah i lost my virginity there was

01:07:14.480 this who got fingered it was a whole thing in middle school everyone would call her with the

01:07:17.920 flat iron yeah she's shoving flat irons in their pussy like middle school what you know

01:07:24.320 the 805 is a crazy place to be okay and that's this flat iron a flat iron in her coochie like when we

01:07:32.080 say a flat iron no it wasn't so in in the south we call these fatherless activities i mean like oh

01:07:41.920 yeah it's just this is just most of these girls are fatherless this is long poop well this isn't

01:07:48.000 long poop and that kind of gets back to the whole thing about when we were talking about having kids

01:07:51.920 and paternity tests and all this stuff man it is so important guys if you are sleeping with a woman

01:07:56.320 and there's a high opportunity you're going to get that girl pregnant especially if you're young

01:08:01.680 all this stuff your potency is so high yeah and then if you get that girl pregnant and then you're

01:08:05.840 like oh i don't want to do this you move on look like you are raising a culture of people who are

01:08:10.480 just yeah shoving flat irons inside themselves and it's a funny joke that we're talking about and i

01:08:15.920 just like it's sad it's so serious i really think it's sad but she had stable that's why i stick to

01:08:21.920 yeah well i don't have a stable daddy my daddy a crackhead but my mom i love my mama my mama

01:08:28.000 loved me too you know she she's been there since day one so i don't think your mom spanked you enough

01:08:33.200 growing up oh she did she did you got the belt hell yeah i have a black mom she spanked me to this day

01:08:40.400 to this day she's probably gonna spank me for black moms and southern moms i i hear that they spank they

01:08:45.760 spanked the heart what do you know i've sat through asians yeah i have my parents are arab

01:08:51.440 i'm sure asian people get whooped did you get you got do you have a tiger was it tiger mom is that

01:08:57.360 the term the tiger mom i have no idea what that is you've never heard of you speak tiger mom yeah

01:09:04.560 no i don't know it's like tiger mom tiger mom tiger mom it's like typically like asian moms they they

01:09:12.560 can be very they're racist like they want their child to like overachieve yeah like it's like

01:09:18.240 helicopter you guys haven't this is a term it's a term oh yeah tiger moms okay all right um okay so

01:09:26.800 hold on five friends with benefits yeah let's say that only one with potential to upgrade only one with

01:09:33.440 potential wow i don't even know what to say um how many friends with benefits do you have

01:09:41.120 good question i'm a one girl kind of guy how many girls okay period i'm a one girl kind of guy

01:09:47.040 do you have one though that's what i'm asking i'm a one girl kind of guy oh so you can't answer the

01:09:50.800 question either well i have to uh i i don't uh reveal details about my own person oh okay

01:09:58.640 hey i got i got trained i got some weirdos out there you know so i got to keep things uh

01:10:03.200 under wraps oh you have other no no he has he has weirdos out there yeah yeah he does yeah no there's

01:10:08.480 some weirdos out there i'll tell you that much i got find her and like probably literally like all

01:10:14.160 girls are princesses thank you wait what they are what does that yeah until a guy do them 30. that's

01:10:22.880 when they the 30 30. does them dirty okay so you're saying like every girl is basically like a good

01:10:29.040 cinderella girl like but then somebody screwed over they just haven't opened their heart because

01:10:35.360 one guy did them wrong erroneous

01:10:39.360 it's true like something she got hurt by someone along her way where she's not opening her yeah okay

01:10:46.480 wait so going back into this so you've got five friends with benefits um like yeah

01:10:52.640 okay uh oh you're 19 yeah okay i'm only gonna be this young and hot forever

01:11:02.240 one day i'm gonna be old so wait so just so let me translate that so what you're saying is

01:11:08.000 because you're young one day you're gonna be old and you'll be less attractive you want to get

01:11:12.080 well it's like one day i'm gonna like i'm in college like i'm i'm planning to settle down like

01:11:16.960 have a career like i'm only gonna be 19 like going to sb on the weekend partying for so long like

01:11:23.760 eventually i'm gonna get the promiscuity in now yeah cut that shit out soon

01:11:29.840 okay yeah um she has goals i got goals

01:11:33.840 brian was born in his early 30s oh dick goals too

01:11:38.160 she's well-rounded well-rounded that's a good word standing on that's correct

01:11:42.240 yes but here yo like here's the thing like i don't know guys what i want to ask the chat nick

01:11:47.600 if you can show the chat like the first impression that you kind of give off like i mean before you

01:11:52.720 kind of went into the friends with benefits thing like you strike me as perhaps a bit more on the

01:11:57.120 reserve side at least initially you've got braces you got glasses like i think that's what the boys

01:12:03.920 like about me though because i like look like innocent you get straight a's that's great i do but it's

01:12:10.080 like so like the first impression is like i would not assume that you are

01:12:15.200 fucking three to five dudes at the moment like i wouldn't assume that you have all these friends

01:12:20.560 with benefits well that's the girls that you don't that's the point no that's the crazy thing is like

01:12:25.280 a lot of like you sometimes you think you can spot the promiscuous girl but like it's actually like

01:12:31.200 sometimes i think of them don't do anything okay yeah that you know sometimes it's like the shy yeah

01:12:38.080 they're not dressed really provocatively can be the shy chance very shy in high school

01:12:42.800 yeah so you're now i'm doing only fans no one you know right now are you yeah you're saying you also

01:12:48.640 had three to five like friends with benefits like you had a hoe phase no she's saying did you have

01:12:55.120 no i'm saying like i was a shy girl and not cool like people wouldn't expect me to be doing this

01:13:02.160 kind of cool story thank you appreciate it grid one motorsports oh my god wheels you are gonna need

01:13:12.080 more than a dip in might need to go full southern baptist personally i fail to see what these girls

01:13:18.560 are for any man beyond three usable holes and an attitude christ wow oh my god jesus grid one he's going

01:13:26.640 in okay um he loves us right oh man um okay so but so you said that you're like you're sleeping with

01:13:35.040 these guys but you don't see anything in them like for it to be a long-term relationship do they want

01:13:42.720 more with you and you're kind of like pumping the brakes yeah some of them they do and it's just like

01:13:47.600 you're pumping the brakes on them yeah can i let me interject a question if you don't mind this is

01:13:53.200 kind of panel wide do you guys not think that there is some amount of value that you have when

01:14:00.320 you actually have sex with somebody yeah and that every time you give it away you're kind of diluting

01:14:04.960 like not not your overall worth in the eyes of god whatever i'm not talking about that i'm talking

01:14:09.200 about like your your value value your value on the sexual marketplace for guys who are looking for

01:14:14.160 like a wife yeah and i feel like i feel like the society like sex has been so normalized that like

01:14:19.840 a lot of people have lost the like you know like i feel like a long time ago sex was like

01:14:24.800 oh like the first time i have sex i wanted to be like yeah you know this fantasy and like

01:14:29.680 da da da but i feel like now it's so normalized that people have lost the

01:14:33.760 you know like intimate connection like in the special part of sex i just want to know if that

01:14:37.760 that question applies to all genders yeah yeah absolutely yeah so when a guy goes out to parties

01:14:43.360 in college and stuff like that that's another thing i i i i completely agree i i think that

01:14:48.800 like so it goes both ways like we were talking earlier i freaking love andrew tape i love everything

01:14:52.880 he says i love 90 i love 95 of the stuff the guy says but there's like this five percent that basically

01:14:58.000 like encourages just getting as many women as possible and i love the fact like it it's awesome

01:15:04.000 if you're a guy and you know like any girl you see basically 99 of them you could pull them if you

01:15:09.120 wanted to or like and you have that opportunity that's the thing that like you know guys will

01:15:13.760 talk about it's like a bragging rights all this stuff but guys and girls you lose something valuable

01:15:18.960 within yourself when you give a part of your body weight like in the bible i don't know if you guys

01:15:22.400 are all christians but i think that it's got pretty eternal kind of value in the words that it says

01:15:27.520 but you know it talks about like sexual immorality going that far with somebody it's not

01:15:33.200 necessarily a sin against god like it's a sin against yourself yeah and so i mean if you got

01:15:38.320 and you're you seem like you're agreeing to this if that's the case why why are you just being like

01:15:42.400 i'm gonna throw it to all these guys even though they're not i value guys like these guys that i'm

01:15:47.920 talking about are like men that like i know personally like they know me i know them like

01:15:53.920 we were friends before we ever started like doing anything like together you know so it's like

01:16:00.640 and you know i mean the the timeline wasn't completely accurate not monday wednesday saturday you

01:16:05.360 know what i mean like it wasn't don't walk it back no i'm not walking it back i'm just saying

01:16:10.240 like it was a little bit dramatized but like you know what i mean like i feel you on like you

01:16:15.520 give a part of your let me ask you a question in the past month how many men different men

01:16:21.280 like of your friends with benefits have you linked up with probably like three three okay in the past

01:16:27.680 month okay last month yeah okay that's a lie nick oh wait sorry say that again say that again hold

01:16:37.600 on no no no no say that again i would say like four so well like four damn these girls just exposing each

01:16:45.360 other they're like girlfriends but they're i'm like yeah i mean i guess maybe four but i could is it more

01:16:51.440 that is it more than four who i've had here just blink twice if it's more than four wow and you don't think

01:16:56.480 that you're you're giving something valuable yourself to these guys even though they're not

01:16:59.920 like killers wait what like they're not like like just elite humans like you just you're willing to

01:17:07.120 give that value not many okay well i feel like like how she said like it's become normalized like

01:17:15.840 people have only fans like people everybody drown other creators like but it's normal but also the only

01:17:22.080 fans doesn't necessarily mean that you're sleeping with people like for me i don't sleep with

01:17:27.680 anyway yeah like nick nick would you mind moving this stop the cap okay wait what's up i gotta i gotta

01:17:34.640 handle a little wheelchair thing i'll be right back guys i apologize yeah of course do what you gotta do

01:17:40.400 do what you gotta do all right when i get back we're throwing down some like serious questions yeah okay

01:17:46.240 i also think it was really refreshing to hear madison say that because a lot of guys will talk

01:17:54.880 about like he said like i'll have to read actually i'll just keep it now i'll read whatever but a lot

01:18:01.760 of guys like to say it's only that way for girls and it's not the same for men like i don't hear that a

01:18:06.320 lot ever yeah i never hear like anybody saying oh like a man is giving up a part of himself it's always a

01:18:13.760 lady giving up a part of herself but there's always these dudes who go out and have sex with like

01:18:19.120 it's a bunch of girls like you know i have to disagree i feel like you're we are um made of

01:18:25.920 energy and i think that like when you exchange at like energy like that it definitely affects your

01:18:33.040 body you know what i mean we're both genders for both genders yeah agreed word wait okay so

01:18:39.520 i'll touch on that in a bit so you've got no guys in the picture come on no aren't you going

01:18:45.200 back to you're going to dubai for six months is that right what is that to see your family or yeah

01:18:50.720 i grew up there oh well that's right you grew up in dubai okay gotcha are you gonna be because you

01:18:55.600 do only fans right are you allowed to to do only fans you know in dubai there's a lot of only fan

01:19:01.600 creators there's there's a lot in dubai half of dubai clubs are all prostitutes all of them all of

01:19:08.720 them are prostitutes all of them are escorts wait where the girls that you meet there and they're

01:19:13.200 pretty girls like you wouldn't sometimes i'll be in the club there and i'll be like drinking with

01:19:18.480 this one girl and i'm like oh and then my friend comes up to me he's like that's a prostitute and i'm

01:19:22.800 like oh like good times could have never thought but half of them are there yeah and in dubai like

01:19:28.560 i i live in marina and in marina like a lot of the like roads like there's like just prostitutes

01:19:35.360 like just standing on like the streets it's very common is your um your dad he lives in he lives

01:19:42.560 there no he lives here my mom lives there oh okay so you're gonna go visit with your mom yeah okay got

01:19:48.160 it um so you're single what's uh your situation you got any guys in the picture i do not i actually

01:19:54.480 just have guy friends that i talk to from time to time but nobody i talk to okay got it i'm gonna

01:20:01.920 read a couple of chats here um so flack i'm gonna get your other one too panel's opinion what percentage

01:20:07.120 of men today lack the knowledge and selflessness give their women multiple o's like cheerios

01:20:11.440 masculinity equals satisfying your significant other my opinion uh okay what percentage of men

01:20:17.360 today lack the knowledge and selflessness give their women here i'm gonna pull up your other one

01:20:20.880 so flat so flow aka 954 how many of the females on the panel find that men in general lack knowledge

01:20:28.000 and experience with clit stimulation masculinity equals giving the big o multiple times yeah i literally

01:20:35.280 didn't orgasm until this year cool me too oh men just don't know how to like do it they always focus

01:20:42.160 on them orgasming i wouldn't say it correlates with masculinity um i think if you have sex with a

01:20:50.240 one person uh consistently i think it's easier for you to like yeah know each other's body and

01:20:56.560 that's how you achieve but i feel like a lot of men don't wait for the girl to like finish let's do

01:21:01.920 this we're gonna go around the table we'll start with you do you want to answer we'll go around go

01:21:05.200 ahead yeah i agree i think that like i'm not even gonna lie i don't think i have really

01:21:10.160 orgasm i'm not even like i'm thinking what the fuck yeah never wait question are you saying are you

01:21:17.840 saying with a partner or like with a partner you've never come with what about by yourself

01:21:24.560 by myself um like i play around but not to the point where i'm like so you've never came

01:21:31.680 at all no i have but oh like that's that's that's what i was like that like because you said you've

01:21:38.080 never organized yeah like it's like it's not like i don't know do that again what what was that it's

01:21:47.040 the uh it's exclusive show it into this camera go ahead okay what's it called a he go a hey go one

01:21:57.040 more time into this camera just kidding okay is that what it looks like it's on my twitter so you

01:22:03.040 can just okay um wait so you're saying yeah i honestly i feel like you're calling i i feel like

01:22:10.960 you're pandering i don't know if that's true what's that mean i i'm just basically making a statement

01:22:17.120 that like it's it's very rare to find like a guy that actually wants to no but you just the words

01:22:23.280 you just said was you've never came with a guy like i've came but i'm not like an orgasm like

01:22:30.240 it's the same thing it's the same thing yeah okay if you call me orgasm yeah like i'm picturing

01:22:36.640 something that's like no it's never i feel like it's not always like oh like you know like it's

01:22:41.520 just okay okay then like i've experienced it never mind i thought like i'm missing out on something

01:22:46.080 you know so a guy has made you yeah yeah it has okay words mean something by the way like

01:22:56.720 it's not that hard to be precise in your statements um your thoughts do men boys lack the ability skill

01:23:04.800 ability um they need to be trained they need to be taught um nobody knows how to suck a dick right

01:23:10.960 until somebody shows you right and you're not gonna know how to suck a clit right without

01:23:16.000 someone showing you i didn't know how to do it without someone showing me okay right everybody's

01:23:20.320 different every girl is different every guy is different everybody likes a different touch and so

01:23:24.560 everybody should be comfortable with their selves and with their partner to say hey not that way this

01:23:29.360 way sure and i'll change the question up so he was asking what percentage of men today lack the

01:23:35.200 knowledge so like what percentage of the guys that you've hooked up with have been able to make you

01:23:39.840 climax actually here wait hold on let's start with the question what percentage of the men that

01:23:46.960 you've been with hooked up with have been able to make you climax go ahead uh like i don't know like

01:23:53.520 one percent so you've been that would mean one person out of a hundred you've been with a hundred guys

01:24:00.080 like okay i don't know is that like if one percent of the men you've been with yeah i think that

01:24:07.760 means a hundred my first relationship or more i can wait it would just mean that's not how math

01:24:13.040 works no it's just like one percent of however many you've been yeah so that's like so we would

01:24:19.200 if you've been with ten one and that means like no wait hold on i think my mat wait pull up the chat

01:24:24.320 i think my math is actually right here if only one percent of the men she's been with that would

01:24:29.840 mean she's been with a hundred men am i right i'm pretty sure my math is actually right here but i

01:24:35.920 think she's thinking of it as how many she's been with and she's using that percentage yeah but okay

01:24:40.880 if she's been with ten hold on no no my math is right because if she's been with ten men and only

01:24:45.280 one of them made her come that would be ten percent okay i don't think the question was about math though

01:24:50.400 i'm not saying a small amount a small amount like only like like one yeah but that's what i'm asking

01:24:56.880 one to five percent let's just do that very small amount yeah okay so if it's one but no no pull up

01:25:02.880 the chat because i'm pretty sure my math here is right it's girl math yeah i don't i don't agree

01:25:10.880 with stan it's very small it's girl math so wait uh so okay one percent what about you probably fifty

01:25:21.520 percent half okay what about you hold on yeah put it put it center bro wait put it okay just one

01:25:34.160 one one guy of well but i'm asking like what percentage of the men um well i'm going off my

01:25:41.840 body count is there any space out of like 23 or wait no that's wrong body count 17. wait there's

01:25:53.440 different body counts out of 17. one out of 17. wait so what's that as a percentage what's 23 is that

01:26:01.760 including girls that's another person's body count whose body count is that is that yours oh no

01:26:08.800 who's 20 okay so wait so okay so what's one wait so you're saying of so you said okay so you've been

01:26:19.440 with how many did you say 17 guys okay only one guy's been able to make you come is that what you

01:26:25.760 said okay one so that's like that's is that what's like five is that five percent i think that's five

01:26:35.200 ish percent yeah four five however it's a little it's a it's about five percent okay okay all right

01:26:44.800 okay one dude out of 17 i don't even get like but that's one of the like what's the point if you're

01:26:50.800 not even gonna come what's the point of like fucking all these i don't know a lot of these

01:26:55.680 chicks a lot of these chicks like are don't get me wrong i'm not saying like this that sex can't be

01:27:00.880 enjoyable if you don't climax but if you're not know if they're premature when you get into it

01:27:05.200 true they're and then they that's it then they're done that's i don't think premature ejaculation is

01:27:09.600 the primary culprit you gotta start with female ejaculation first and then they come yeah because

01:27:15.120 guys come too fast and they're guys come guys do come we take longer most guys aren't making you

01:27:20.320 come with their dicks to begin with though they're okay they're gonna give you head or they're gonna

01:27:24.080 use their hands are they and most of them don't i don't do head but i use okay answer there's your

01:27:29.360 answer i still hey but i i like to make my girl come first like if if i'm dating her that's what

01:27:35.600 she's got to come first preferably multiple times that's the goal and then then the guy can

01:27:39.680 come afterwards we need mormon like so let's let's have a master course and let's let's uh

01:27:44.880 elaborate on that okay um here so what about you um it's hard to put like a percentage on it but i'd

01:27:54.720 do you want should we just almost get in we could just get into body count and you can say yeah

01:27:58.960 just say body count let's do body count and then how many of those guys were able to make you come

01:28:03.440 let's do that here we'll go we'll start we'll come back cindy starting with you

01:28:06.640 uh i don't want to talk about it okay how about the range how does that sound

01:28:17.120 i don't want to talk about it yeah i won't either i'd rather give you like yeah i'm not

01:28:23.200 gonna say okay all right okay i would say maybe around 20 to 30 percent okay of the guys have been

01:28:30.080 able to make you um i think like if you want to make it i don't know i think

01:28:35.120 i've never came from like having sex with someone for the first time so i think it's important that

01:28:41.280 like you pick like a specific person and okay wouldn't it be wide if you just like pick you know

01:28:47.040 one yeah and then just like stuck with them forever well it's like only fans there's like one guy yeah

01:28:53.200 okay that's what everybody wants what about you go ahead i would say like 30 percent 30 okay what about

01:29:00.800 you um i've only been with two people and only one of them so 50 okay yes um i guess like

01:29:10.960 15 15 15 do you want to share body count no your friend did no that's fine

01:29:18.480 that's someone else's who's the someone cost times donated 207 dollars hey thank you man done with

01:29:26.400 the sauna good night panel also congressman you seem like an excellent guy go back in and fight

01:29:34.400 we need folks like you in representation have a great night everyone yo thank you man really

01:29:40.080 appreciate your patronage tonight thank you have a good night i appreciate it means a lot man

01:29:43.920 hope i get to meet you sometime uh i can't yo chat do i look out of focus one in the chat if i'm out

01:29:49.440 of focus two in the chat if i'm if i'm okay what's that no all right one in the chat if i'm a little

01:29:54.080 out of focus guys two in the chat i might need to adjust some of them this is snoop dog definitely

01:29:58.240 had cindy oh yeah did you fuck snoop dog because i saw there's a funny nick it's so funny like

01:30:05.440 once i met snoop dog hello everybody in the comments think like we did things together

01:30:11.360 how'd you meet snoop dog yeah from front what the oh that's not fair wait oh i'm dude dylan i'm

01:30:22.640 sorry i don't know why it didn't trigger um oh it's kid pro you you added penis to it oh did he

01:30:30.640 yeah hold on let me see i'm gonna try to do you a solid here and see if i can re-trigger it without

01:30:35.360 give me a sec man i'll i'll try to re-trigger it um let's continue on can you guys go around the

01:30:40.560 table without me having to prompt it's only one i've only had one person like make me come so

01:30:47.120 stop the cap oh wait you you've only dated one guy no i've only had one person only one dude

01:30:52.960 okay rest in peace your sex life okay only two guys made me come wait percent give us percentage

01:31:01.440 though out of four do you want to give us a percentage of two out of four for you yeah what's

01:31:05.440 your percentage

01:31:10.960 she's trying to do the math

01:31:12.000 she's trying to do the math hold on give us

01:31:14.000 i'm just saying it's one percent four percent four percent wait so one guy

01:31:22.800 wait four percent

01:31:25.760 so if one guy oh wait no wait so the higher it is the lower your body count wait what no no just like

01:31:32.720 yes so so for the percentage of guys who've been able to make you climax so for example if you've

01:31:37.680 slept with 10 guys and only one guy was able to make you climax that'd be 10 okay okay okay so what's

01:31:44.480 15 yo chat i don't know if you guys know what i've just fucking discovered this is some epiphany

01:31:52.080 shit i have just realized how to how to get the fucking body count you ask the percentage because

01:32:00.960 if they give you the percentage you can calculate what the body count is no this is some evil genius

01:32:06.960 shit if you can calculate what percentage of men have you have been able to make you climax you can

01:32:12.400 calculate the fucking body count that's how that's how that should work you can calculate

01:32:18.000 you can kind of you can kind of figure you know kind of that's not true okay okay okay for

01:32:25.600 example for example if it's ten percent for example if ten percent of the guys you've been with have

01:32:30.480 been able to make you come i'm pretty sure you've at least slept with ten guys for that to be

01:32:35.040 possible am i right right no you're not no i'm pretty sure i'm pretty sure my

01:32:38.880 no no pull up the chat they have to give you two variables but i hate math i'm pretty sure if

01:32:43.920 if only ten percent of the men no you that she's been with that's what the chat is saying if ten

01:32:48.800 percent of the men that she's been with it means your minimum you can detect the minimum if you say

01:32:52.880 ten percent then that would mean that you've been with at least ten guys so is this is this boy they

01:32:57.520 said you can bear what's happening they said no am i right i think i'm right yeah correct if you've

01:33:02.800 been said you can verify a minimum so like yes it would be you can't tell the exact number but i'm

01:33:08.400 sure no but you can tell the minimum so for example yeah if it's ten percent the minimum yeah is

01:33:13.440 ten of course if it's a hundred then ten then only ten of the guys that you've slept with

01:33:18.240 have been able so it's that's a good one okay i'm gonna have to start using that okay cindy what

01:33:25.360 percentage has been able to make you uh i have experience do you like okay do men like girls

01:33:32.560 with experience or do you like wait let's let's who don't like experience i i don't care i frankly the

01:33:40.800 the most optimum ideal would be a girl who's a virgin or low body count okay why is that yeah

01:33:47.760 uh less likelihood of what's your body count less likelihood of having an std

01:33:54.480 that's a that's pretty big one how many girls what's your body count yeah i don't disclose that

01:33:58.080 you don't disclose that i don't disclose that you got a bunch of teenagers you're asking so what you

01:34:02.160 can't well no no what are you trying to say by teenagers you have some this is how women like to

01:34:07.360 use like pathologizing language i'm just i'm just you have a 23 year old a 35 year old 19 19 26 25 19

01:34:16.640 you're yeah they're all the math on their percentage and stuff so i'm just asking you

01:34:19.920 the same question yeah but why did you specifically use the term teenagers because these are the girls

01:34:24.400 see that's a very loaded no no no see i know what you're doing you're trying to be kind of shifty

01:34:29.040 about it but that's a very loaded way to ask that question let me no no you're trying to you're

01:34:34.160 trying no i don't like what you're doing because you're trying to frame it in like a very weird

01:34:38.720 fucking way no i don't think what are you what are you implying by that i'm implying that you're

01:34:43.200 asking a bunch of young girls the same question there's women in their mid-twenties here at the

01:34:46.960 table too actually i think the average age here is like mid-twenties that's young women that's what i'm

01:34:52.640 referring to so do you object what what's your point i was asking you the same question that's all

01:34:57.840 i was asking you yeah but why did you specifically use the word teenager when we have a 25 a 23 a 35

01:35:05.760 a 26 a 25 um i didn't get your age 25 madison you're 28 correct i mean that's pretty disingenuous

01:35:14.720 to use this term teenager when the average age here is and also teenager that that can be anywhere from

01:35:21.920 13 we have 19 year old women here technically yes they're teenagers yeah it's a rather disingenuous

01:35:30.160 thing to do okay i was asking you this is exactly how women will try to to give the spin and like

01:35:37.200 frame it in the most bad faith like bad light way possible okay but you can answer the question answer

01:35:43.440 what question i've already told you i don't reveal my body count right right that was the question that was

01:35:48.080 the question yeah okay but you're doing all this math that's all i'm saying it's funny to me it's

01:35:52.480 okay cool cool okay you do realize though that's incredibly like disingenuous to frame it in that way okay

01:36:04.240 but what what were you trying to achieve by framing it in that way what was your intention i would

01:36:09.040 i know she wants to basically make the like basically she's saying that what i'm saying is because

01:36:14.000 there's really young girls younger girls younger women no we have young adult women here we don't

01:36:18.720 have any girls here we have adult women and i'm just saying that you won't reveal the same information

01:36:23.200 that you've been i don't see i don't see how that's the practical matter here is one i think you treat

01:36:28.320 it basically like in politics like a rope you're not going to sit there and ask a reporter personal

01:36:32.400 questions about their life because his job is just to extract information for the enjoyment of the

01:36:36.080 audience and the illumination for the things but i i agree with what he's saying i'm sure you can you seem like

01:36:40.480 you're pretty intelligent you can see how when you frame it like teenager it seems like you're

01:36:45.360 trying to imply like there's some form of like a freaking person that should be shot i apologize for

01:36:50.880 that yeah so anyways thank you for the apology i think it clears up like let's just move i'm gonna

01:36:55.360 try to re-trigger that uh that chat here so i don't know if it's gonna trigger dillard roland donated

01:37:01.840 dollars

01:37:15.040 they uh sorry the the because you included the pain it wasn't going to trigger instantly so i'd adjust

01:37:20.720 some settings we have no name here what would they do if they arrived home and caught their

01:37:25.360 boyfriends fapping to their of pages um we'll go around the table really quick those of you who have

01:37:31.200 of of if you want to answer go ahead are you asking if i had a boyfriend and he's fapping to

01:37:38.320 your content i think i wouldn't care it's just okay yeah just you know you have of you have of

01:37:44.080 i you do too go ahead go ahead go ahead go ahead um i think like if they were like actually like

01:37:52.960 on like the site i think it's a little different i think if it's content that you sent them like

01:37:57.760 personally i feel like that's less weird but if you're like on my site you know i don't know it's

01:38:03.600 a little feels a little weird so you know i i see a reel that goes around very often on uh and it's

01:38:11.120 like basically it'll be like an only fans girl who's like you know it'll be like the freeze frame kind of

01:38:17.360 trend going on it's like when someone sees you and says oh i've seen your videos and they act like

01:38:21.680 they're super shocked and embarrassed and sad about it this is just a question i because i've never

01:38:26.880 really talked to girls with only fans what is do you not think that that is going to you know a

01:38:32.960 guy that you would be interested in marrying one day or like pursuing a real relationship with

01:38:37.520 if you're embarrassed for a guy just to come up to you and be like oh hey i've seen your only fans

01:38:41.280 like i love this video the most like blah blah do you not think that's gonna just kind of push away

01:38:45.520 guys that you know you think would be a solid partner for life and for raising a family it's gonna

01:38:50.000 push away partners but at the end of the day i don't want to be with anyone that's gonna judge that

01:38:53.600 like i would want to be with someone that nick you know like what at the end of the day doesn't

01:38:59.040 mind what i do we've moved on i'm not gonna you know only fans is only a smart small part of my life

01:39:05.280 and by the time i'm gonna get married it's gonna be way in the past so it's like if you're if that's

01:39:10.720 a problem for you i don't want to be with you anyway so um i'm kind of with her also me personally

01:39:16.480 if someone came up to me and was like oh i've seen your videos i know that's the reality of what i do

01:39:20.720 and i've accepted that and i don't feel embarrassed by it yeah um it's like why put your videos out

01:39:26.880 there you know what was the question i'm sorry basically asking do you feel like if guys have

01:39:31.920 seen your only fans things is it is it gonna push away like guys you might be interested in

01:39:36.880 probably yeah i think they will look at you differently i think they have only fans no oh okay

01:39:43.120 oh no no my apologies oh i'm so sorry can i ask the question because i do only yeah no absolutely

01:39:48.720 please i think that um it doesn't necessarily have to i feel like there's like um there's still

01:39:58.640 like some we're label on only fans like you can like talk to someone have regular chats talk about

01:40:04.560 relatable things and a lot of people have like a gym like yeah you can have like your own show on

01:40:13.200 only fans tv they do that um they're doing dating shows i was casted to be maybe next season so um

01:40:21.760 i'm just saying it there's just like a lot of like um stigma like bad stigma behind only fans really is not

01:40:28.080 that bad um depending what niche of content you're making and if you do make those content you put out

01:40:36.480 there and get sleek it gets leaked it's what's gonna happen like it's normal um i think even like no matter

01:40:45.680 what niche you're in um like she said i think there's a lot of stigmatism and like you are not just like

01:40:54.960 an only fans page like you're still a person with desires outside of that and values and so

01:41:04.320 if it's gonna put a stigma i'm sorry did you have any okay so if it's gonna put a stigma on you and

01:41:10.480 there's a chance that it might push away a partner that you could potentially be interested in and i

01:41:14.080 know that you're saying you wouldn't be interested in right that was like that is there not what is

01:41:18.800 in your mind the value that you need to get out of only fans to make it worth it

01:41:24.640 pushing away potential life partners that you know could be the most fulfilling part of your life

01:41:28.880 like is there a monetary amount well for me i'm the only reason i do it is to kind of fund what i

01:41:35.680 really want to do which is like go into like fashion and you know have my own business and invest in

01:41:41.440 like property and real estate and it's a great call by the way yeah and i've already invested and

01:41:46.880 that's kind of why i'm leaving to buy and it's helped me a lot and it doesn't mean that's who i am

01:41:52.240 as a person that doesn't mean that's what i want to end up doing but it it's something that helps me

01:41:58.960 reach my goals and as a person who doesn't go to college it's something that i feel like

01:42:06.480 gets me there easy like gets me there faster and gets me to where i want to be and if i can do it

01:42:11.600 why the fuck not like but so it's like the monetary amount so let's say you're investing in properties

01:42:16.240 is like what amount do you want to make a year in passive income that makes it worth pushing away

01:42:21.760 potential life partners probably like not under like 600k wow i i i'm not aware of how much people

01:42:30.240 make on only fans i've seen well everyone's different but we'll start on that side you're

01:42:34.000 going to do it grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars of is a no-fly zone the only

01:42:42.080 winning of marriage is the divorce lawyers there is no man that respects himself as a man that will

01:42:47.760 take in a girl seriously in a relationship stop hit get some help well grid one thank you for that's

01:42:54.160 just you grid one thank you for throwing that uh two hundred dollar donation i know that helps this

01:42:58.400 this thing's a lot where we get to kind of confront culture um ma'am do you have is there like a

01:43:03.760 monetary amount you want to make out of that that is worth the potential of losing like your life

01:43:08.960 partner but what do you mean by losing your life well i mean so like you can still find a life oh

01:43:14.960 no i totally agree i have no doubt that you have a plethora of men who are still married

01:43:22.400 ladies with of how do you feel if you're found out your father or a friend's father was spanking

01:43:28.240 the insolent child to your vids sorry for the nasty question but i want to bring out the morality of

01:43:34.160 that's weird guys i just want to go ahead i i don't know this person but i'm guessing that when

01:43:39.040 he's saying that he might be talking about beating yeah uh i think that's really weird and i don't

01:43:44.320 think that has anything to do with us us it has something to do with whoever's doing it because

01:43:49.360 that's weird and it's their choice to do with us yeah whether or not they want to do that and then

01:43:54.320 also what she said um i heavily felt that i view it not as like my future and my life i view it as a

01:44:01.280 stepping stone for bigger things that i want to do and that is funding that and then to answer

01:44:05.680 the other question for me there's no specific monetary number but as long as i'm happy with

01:44:11.440 it and as long as it's going good then i will continue to do that and i think i will know

01:44:16.480 intuitively whenever i want to be done with it but for you it's like a minimum like you want to be

01:44:21.760 set for life making like a 600k and i'm i'm right i know you know i have enough money to do what i

01:44:26.880 want to do then yeah 600k you're living a hell of a life but if i'm not making any money then

01:44:30.800 obviously i'm not going to continue to do it or like if i'm not making enough money to like

01:44:34.560 do what i want to do the whole reason that i'm doing it then you know there's i'm not going to

01:44:38.880 continue so i think we can all at the table agree that only fans cost you something in in in in in

01:44:44.400 the world but i'm not right i'm not i'm not saying it's everything but what is the monetary

01:44:49.280 amount you want to make out of it that makes it worth it there's no like there's no like monetary

01:44:54.880 amount i think i just genuinely like doing what i do i like talking to people i like making

01:44:59.680 relatable content only fans is another social media platform if you want that page to do well

01:45:05.040 you have to be very consistent and produce content like any of your other social media pages right so

01:45:12.480 it's a it's it's there's nothing bad doing it you i could do this for the rest of my life

01:45:17.920 if if i look like this at the age of 90 i'll do it wait wait wait wait if you look like you do at age

01:45:26.960 90 yeah if i look at yeah if i look do you think if she could do that but do you hold on do you think

01:45:34.000 you'll look like you do now at the age of 90 i will look really young like for a very long time at 90

01:45:40.960 i'm just saying like hey i don't know if at 90 i'm just saying i'm just saying that if she could do

01:45:51.360 it you know like no no no no but no no no we can actually i hold on that is what she's saying though

01:45:58.160 she is saying when she's 90 she's still gonna be if she could if what if she like still could do it

01:46:05.920 and she wants to do it oh yeah i'm not saying that you can still do of when you're 90 that's not

01:46:11.440 what you're saying that you will be still physically attractive to the same degree now as when you're

01:46:20.480 90 is that you can take what you can take that as whatever you want it depends on what you're into

01:46:26.880 i mean yeah that's not the question though do you do you think you'll be as physically attractive

01:46:32.720 i can't believe i'm asking this at 90 than you are now maybe i don't know like i can't

01:46:42.240 i know i'm gonna be like you're very youthful like you know what i mean you're gonna be youthful at 90

01:46:49.040 yeah like at 90 i'm still popping that pussy you know i think menopause in the chat

01:46:55.840 um so like so in in my mind in my mind like and this is to me there's it's an objective reality

01:47:04.960 like i think guys hit their physical primes like of their their highest levels of strength they're

01:47:10.160 what i think they probably when they were kind of the most attractive physically not saying anything

01:47:14.480 else um probably around like 28 to like 31 that's kind of their prime range i feel like women it's

01:47:19.680 probably like you know 25 to 29 that's kind of their prime range so if that is the case then you

01:47:26.720 know do you in if you're in your prime and again i know that that's a controversial topic but if you're

01:47:34.400 in what you consider like you're and i'm just not talking about your value as a person about your

01:47:38.080 physical attractiveness do you feel like doing only fans and this question not only only fans girls do

01:47:43.760 you feel like doing only fans is a valuable use of your time while you're at this premiere stage

01:47:49.440 you describe value yeah no and again and again that's that that's why i tried to like what is

01:47:53.840 valuable i'm talking about physical attractiveness only fans and you're still making the same amount

01:47:58.160 of money what is the difference can i also say something you know there's like several other

01:48:03.120 websites that makes exclusive content right well like um i can name like fanfics playboy there's

01:48:10.320 like a lot of like yeah i know but i don't think he's fixating i don't think he's yeah i'm using only

01:48:16.080 fans as kind of just an all-cover topic okay i just wanted so like what what was your

01:48:23.760 yeah yeah i got it um and i had a couple questions by the way pico steins i wanted to follow up on your

01:48:28.400 chat um because i did have a question related to that but really quick so okay you do you think

01:48:34.560 you'll be as attractive at 90 as you are now nope i mean i'm not gonna look like this as attractive

01:48:42.240 just a little bit older she'll she'll be as attractive just a little bit older

01:48:49.280 well is that your answer yeah who knows maybe she will you know like what how can we tell like

01:48:55.920 attractive okay what about you will you be as attractive at 90 as you are now so the euphemism

01:49:04.160 was if she said if i was then i was using it as an expression i'm gonna age i'm definitely gonna

01:49:11.120 age and if someone likes me at that age then yeah i'll be attractive to them sure what about you

01:49:17.760 if i make it to 90.

01:49:21.040 thank you man for the ladies on omnivans the problem you face is that when you want

01:49:29.840 to leave that industry you come to find out that you have trapped yourself because of the amount

01:49:34.640 money being made what i mean there's definitely like uh i think it's called lifestyle creep when

01:49:41.760 you start making a lot of money your lifestyle uh tends to change you start spending a lot of money

01:49:47.520 you're you're gonna not not always but if you use that money and you've invested it and you're you

01:49:52.560 know now you're making passive sure yeah if you leave only fans you're gonna continue yes that's

01:49:56.880 true but but there's definitely like typically women and men who make fast money a lot of people and

01:50:03.440 this is in all industries if you're a professional athlete if you're a musician these guys they come

01:50:07.920 into quick quick money and they fucking blow through it that's why there's actually i think in the nfl

01:50:12.640 there's like financial advisors that are provided by the league to like protect the athletes from

01:50:18.800 absolutely squandering the their finances that they can make but you hear stories of like musicians

01:50:24.080 they make it especially one hit wonders these guys blow through their money so it's not just only fans

01:50:28.560 but um thank you bend your defender that was a good point um so can i comment on that really quick go

01:50:34.000 ahead um i totally agree like it's easy to like blow through it and like not manage your money but i also

01:50:39.840 hate how people generalize that with like only fans girls and think like we're not capable of like

01:50:43.760 doing smart things with our money uh first off and second um i can't remember so come back to well

01:50:52.400 sure but i mean like typically like if you look at some of these more uh sex work oriented professions

01:50:58.640 like typically like a lot of these women are like if you look at the porn industry for example strippers

01:51:04.960 like a lot of them are drug addicts spend a lot of my i'm not saying all of you guys all of you guys

01:51:10.560 but like becoming more of a topic of conversation and i also think that's why these conversations are

01:51:14.640 important to educate ourselves sure okay will you be more attractive now or when you're 90 i can't

01:51:21.680 believe this is okay go ahead or or do you think you'll be more attractive now or at 90.

01:51:27.840 i feel like we need to show our hands yo ab check thank you for the gift of 20 memberships please go

01:51:33.440 ahead and answer the question now oh that's that's the answer okay what about you no brainer no right

01:51:40.560 now now no no no no here let me ask a more realistic question are you more physically attractive are you

01:51:47.920 going to be more physically attractive now at whatever age you are or in 10 years

01:51:51.280 i will still be attractive no matter that's not the question that's not the question are you

01:51:59.840 are you more physically attractive now than you will be in 10 years but how can we know that yes

01:52:04.640 physically attractive how can we know i'm gonna have to stick with my answer so you're 23 are you

01:52:11.680 more attractive now at 23 than you will be at 33. bro jennifer lopez is like still very hot

01:52:18.640 she's not as hot as she was probably 20 years ago it's objective everybody has their own like

01:52:27.840 i'm not saying you can't there's of course there's attractive women in their 30s and 40s

01:52:32.720 that's not what i'm saying i'm saying right now are you i would argue like for example most women who

01:52:39.040 are 40 they were probably more physically attractive at 30 and they are some of them got work done and

01:52:43.840 they yeah i think that and they look amazing well speaking of plastic surgery i think that actually

01:52:48.720 makes women less physically attractive that's that's your opinion i don't think that's i think

01:52:52.880 that's the case but especially when they're doing like a ton of filler on the face that kind of that

01:52:58.640 someone could think they're more attractive when they're 40 than they were whatever it's just an

01:53:02.720 opinion and it's not an opinion it's just it's a biological fact it's a biological fact if we're

01:53:09.200 attractive now or in 10 years but attractive to see she could think she's pretty and someone

01:53:14.080 could think she's ugly do you okay let me ask you some here fine let's let's talk about objective

01:53:18.880 things do does your skin change over time do you start to get wrinkles over time yeah yes yes does

01:53:27.360 do you tend to tip do people do people typically tend to gain weight over time or lose weight over the

01:53:32.880 time yes it depends but generally speaking because what if i'm skinny and then i gain weight how

01:53:39.040 does that make me less attractive well if you get obese are you saying yes okay yes sorry sorry

01:53:45.920 if this is triggering yes obese people are less i think obesity makes rather to most people so

01:53:53.600 i just want to jump in right quick this is actually so especially a lot of guys and i know i'm not

01:53:58.560 from the west coast so it might be different here but where i'm from a lot of guys always talk

01:54:02.240 about how girls like eastern europe and especially in parts of europe are like significantly more

01:54:06.240 attractive than girls in america and i i think you know not to get political on this it's one we have

01:54:10.960 three food ingredients that are now all of our foods that like i mean you can eat i'm i'm sure

01:54:16.480 especially if you spend a lot of time in dubai you can eat freaking hummus and pita all day long

01:54:21.760 even mcdonald's yeah or you can go to freaking like italy and eat your pizza every day and you don't

01:54:26.800 feel like you have a hangover the next day but anyways i i think the biggest difference is that the

01:54:31.840 women in like eastern europe or other parts of the countries are not just genetically more attractive

01:54:36.240 i genuinely think it's just a lot of us are like 50 i even myself 15 to 20 pounds overweight i think

01:54:41.920 we need to hold on just a sec i think at 90 they'll be more attractive because at this point gene

01:54:47.440 therapies will revolution plastic surgery and fix the car wreck these herpes infested

01:54:52.320 wars i feel sorry for brian it's all good oh wow that's crazy so moving kind of off of the only

01:55:03.840 fans thing and that just and i think we've lost objective truth in our culture and so this is one

01:55:08.800 thing that i'm just kind of curious about and we'll go to some of the girls who haven't talked as much

01:55:13.440 today what do you think that what are you like looking for in a guy or what do you think is missing

01:55:20.000 the most in guy culture let's i do need to get a couple things i do that's a really good question

01:55:24.960 so if you can uh just remember yeah we'll come back to that in just a sec but i do want to definitely

01:55:30.000 come back to that um so i want to just i need to have a couple things i need to touch on before we

01:55:35.120 move on so okay we were talking about will you be more okay we're talking about obesity you objected to

01:55:44.960 me saying that if a woman like if somebody gains weight this goes for both genders if you're obese

01:55:51.360 i think most people are not attracted to people who are obese hot take maybe agree there's not like

01:55:58.800 a percentage speaking to the mic there's not like a percentage it's not like what do you know who's

01:56:04.000 going to be attracted to who you know what i mean because some people are attracted to older women

01:56:09.120 some people are attracted to yeah but we're i'm talking in generalities okay but you you don't

01:56:14.800 you're always trying to argue the exception you are because you're saying well there are some men

01:56:19.760 there's some men that are attracted to morbidly obese women of sure but most if you ask most men

01:56:26.000 they're not attracted to morbidly obese women and i would argue most women are not attracted to

01:56:31.280 morbidly obese men either i agree but i'm answering i'm literally arguing the point that you asked do you

01:56:37.920 think you will be more attractive in 10 years okay so we'll go back to that you can do we go around

01:56:42.880 the table are you will you be more attractive in 10 years i forgot where we left off are you more

01:56:48.000 attractive now or are you will you be more attractive in 10 years i think we were on the table no we did

01:56:53.680 the 90. i think we stopped it like her so i think i'll be more attractive in 10 years just to like

01:56:59.360 upgrade myself yeah because i want to get like more stuff done to myself what do you mean more stuff done

01:57:05.680 what do you mean just like more tattoos and stuff you think that'll make you more attractive to

01:57:10.000 herself to myself yes that's not do you guys not understand the no that was the question that was

01:57:15.680 the question do you think more attractive you're are you guys really that hello what like are you just

01:57:24.720 going to be attractive like the way you're more attractive to yourself that's we're on a dating

01:57:29.200 podcast so i would hope that you guys can assume the context of that question is to the world yeah

01:57:35.600 but even the world might find her more attractive with more tattoos do you love tattoos some some i would

01:57:42.880 argue a lot of people i would argue for men like a tattoo a heavily tattooed woman for most men that's

01:57:52.320 not like it doesn't make a girl more attractive 200 the level of narcissistic delusion in these

01:57:58.640 women tonight is off the charts i am reminded of the women v men's strength discussion perhaps tonight

01:58:05.440 oh we should ask yeah about the calculator yes we're gonna ask oh my god this oh this sucks

01:58:11.840 um here thank you man um oh yeah it's pretty delusional um so okay on the tattoo thing really quick

01:58:21.360 i would argue there's some men who i guess have a tattoo fetish or a kink or whatever i would argue

01:58:25.600 though most men your tattoos no offense to you are going to either be neutral or it's going to be a

01:58:31.920 negative like no guys like i really wish my girlfriend had more tattoos guys that's a no guys

01:58:39.360 most see you you guys okay guys you don't need to argue the exception all the time like bro i okay for

01:58:48.240 example it's not wrong for me to say humans are born with 10 fingers that's not wrong for me to say

01:58:54.880 are some people born with 11 fingers who have genetic anomalies yes it's not erroneous for me to say that

01:59:01.040 humans are born with 10 fingers as a general principle so yes if you'd prefer the vast majority

01:59:09.680 of men are going to view tattoos as either like a negative or neutral at best no guys like whoa she's

01:59:17.840 so heavily tatted i'm really i'm more into her than i would have otherwise been hot no no no no

01:59:24.400 this is how see here's the thing women often project what they're attracted to in men and think

01:59:29.840 that men are attracted to that same trait that's not the in women at all no but women are women find

01:59:36.240 tattoos on guys attractive the reverse opinions though so we're gonna give women's opinions right

01:59:40.400 but it's the same thing with like when y'all make a lot of money you think oh guys are going to be

01:59:44.640 more into me because i'm a boss babe and i make money no you guys are projecting you guys are

01:59:49.760 projecting what you're attracted to in men but the reality is there's not symmetry in what we're

01:59:54.480 attracted to you're picking at a generalization so nobody's arguing anything really she thinks

01:59:58.560 tattoos are sexy and i agree yeah that's cool but i was i asked if you're going to be more attractive

02:00:03.600 in 10 years and you said you'll be more attractive in 10 years because you'll get you'll have more

02:00:07.680 tattoos she said that was one point that's not but from a got from most guys eyes like do you think

02:00:14.640 you're gonna like let me ask you a question let me ask you a question when it comes to getting laid

02:00:19.600 do you think that if you got more tattoos that's gonna help you get dick or get a boyfriend do you

02:00:27.680 genuinely think that that would help i'll i'll hop it on i feel like it's i feel like it's personal

02:00:32.720 preference yeah so i'll hop in on exactly what he just said when you're saying if if you think it'll

02:00:39.280 help you get laid i do think that if you were covered in tattoos it would help you have sex every

02:00:43.520 single night way faster i think it would detract significantly because in my opinion women decide

02:00:48.640 who they have sex with men decided to marry exactly i genuinely believe that if you're covered in tattoos

02:00:52.880 and it's a woman chooses and again i just want to make one one general point because i i do this for

02:00:56.800 a living so if we want to have a lincoln douglas debate and start ripping each other apart on

02:01:00.720 precision in your language i will have so much fun this is what i do so i eat it up but let's so let's

02:01:05.920 just let's just not be intellectually dishonest let's be let's assume that the other person will fill in

02:01:10.880 gaps um like if someone's drunk texting you like they spell tonight with like an r somewhere and i'd be

02:01:15.920 like okay well that's fine i know what you're saying um but anyways i i think that if you're covered in

02:01:20.800 tattoos and i don't think you're covered i mean like i think if you were like covered a lot more

02:01:25.920 tattoos because i think dainty tattoos on women can be cute but like when girl has not like their

02:01:30.240 entire hip done i'm like oh not for me and i think that's the majority guys but again like i said i

02:01:34.720 think if you're covered in tattoos it would help you get laid every night by just low quality men and

02:01:39.360 just kind of guys who are betas but if you're looking for a husband i think the guys that you would

02:01:43.440 be attracted to i think it's going to make it significantly more difficult for you but can we go back to the

02:01:48.560 main question though yeah it's like is she gonna be less attracted i think she will be i i genuinely

02:01:54.480 believe that like yes so for specifically for this young lady i think she'll be more attractive in

02:01:58.880 10 years just like i said that's kind of you'll be in your prime at 29 yeah that's what i'm saying

02:02:03.280 like she's 19 i disagree with you respectfully okay but you disagree it's an opinion he agrees that's

02:02:09.280 fine that's his opinion that's sure that's what i was like but but one more thing if you're

02:02:13.440 covered in tattoos and you've had sex with like 50 guys i'm significantly less attractive if you

02:02:18.560 didn't know her and you just saw her like you didn't even talk to her and she's covered in

02:02:23.440 tattoos no not covered okay here let's move on go ahead oh hang on i'll do it i think i will be very

02:02:31.040 attractive more attractive i'm not sure probably i'm okay the question is i'm not saying like in 10 years

02:02:37.920 they're not going to be attractive that's not the question are you more attractive now than you will

02:02:43.200 be in 10 years probably not okay okay i'm gonna say yes um in 10 years but i would also say like

02:02:57.360 let's say someone told me i can give you a pill and then you can look how you look right now so i'm 26

02:03:03.120 in 10 years i'll be 36. i would say yes i would rather look 26. so i think where i am right now

02:03:10.080 yes i'm the most attractive in 10 years i'm not going to be as wait i'm so confused because you

02:03:15.840 said in 10 years you you will be more attractive no sorry sorry i meant like like i'm more attractive

02:03:21.520 now than i will okay sure what about you yeah i agree i would i'm more attractive now than probably in

02:03:27.280 10 years um i'm gonna say i'm gonna be more attractive in 10 years but that's only because

02:03:33.120 i have braces on my teeth and shit like that so i feel like okay how about this let's say you take

02:03:39.280 your braces off today you today without braces versus you in 10 years without braces well then

02:03:46.640 me in 10 years because i would get braces and i would fix my teeth no but i feel like people like

02:03:51.360 braces though i think what she was saying if she took them off right now the braces wouldn't have done

02:03:55.600 their work yeah that's not a bad thing so i think yeah they're not a bad thing but i feel like you

02:04:00.800 know i want straight teeth you know that's why i have okay you know that's gonna make today with

02:04:04.960 straight teeth versus you in 10 years then me today with straight teeth yes okay i think me today

02:04:13.600 me today okay i'm gonna tell you if you look at the thumbnail that we're gonna have up with this

02:04:18.480 one it's my picture when i was 24 years old just got elected to congress i look hot as

02:04:22.560 shit and i've gained like you look better now i've gained like i've gained like 15 pounds since then

02:04:28.480 and i'm significantly less attractive now and i'm telling you like i think that it's an objective

02:04:33.600 truth and again this is something that i want to hit on later in the conversation we get these questions

02:04:38.240 we've lost objective truths in the world and i think that for the majority and i'm not talking about

02:04:42.640 any like kind of the p word or anything weird like young young people i think the younger you are

02:04:47.920 are generally you are significantly more attractive when you're young than when you're old preach

02:04:54.000 especially for women yeah a lot of men age really like well yeah because i mean like you can be a

02:05:00.960 silver fox and like a freaking like because remember like i i dated a girl who made an income that was

02:05:07.680 insane her yearly salary wasn't changed she's a killer she's amazing and she but and she was like very

02:05:13.840 married to her job and she's a wonderful woman but like it i don't care i don't i do not give a

02:05:19.200 shit whereas for like guys a lot of women give so much more credence like they want you to become

02:05:24.640 like a successful amazing man that's why guys are more attractive generally when they get older

02:05:28.880 whereas girls are more attractive in their young 20s that's my opinion because they like i feel like

02:05:32.800 they built their life yeah it depends because when i was like 20 21 i don't think i i looked as good

02:05:39.440 i don't know okay um by the way ab check thing for the gifted memberships um yeah i think i mean i

02:05:45.120 would just say those of you who said you're going to be more physically attractive at 90 you're

02:05:48.240 delusional and even those of you who said you're going to be more physically attractive in 10 years

02:05:52.240 no offense you're also delusional like it's just the it's you guys are trying to say it's subjective

02:05:56.320 like it's just like is it is it ostensibly possible like if you guys want to make some like

02:06:01.760 argument to like an exceptional sort of argument where like well what about an 18 year old girl who was

02:06:06.720 obese and she had acne and and blah blah blah blah and then like she lost all the weight and she got

02:06:11.760 accutane and yeah maybe she's going to be more health by itself age age is not yeah like aging is

02:06:17.760 not ugly it doesn't it's well there's a fantastic country song by a fantastic american philosopher

02:06:25.200 that says every man just wants younger women and faster horses and it's just

02:06:30.560 yeah and i don't think anyone saying aging is ugly but i do think that um there's a lot to say that when

02:06:36.080 people are in their prime yeah they're gonna be more significantly more attractive than they're

02:06:40.960 40 and that's just a fact and there's such a great quality of like women who are like aging with grace

02:06:45.840 and everything especially when you marry them when they're young and everything and you've grown with

02:06:49.760 them and i think that's that's that's a beautiful thing you're can you scoot your mic it's true like

02:06:53.920 we are all human it's natural to age it's natural for skin to sag holy

02:06:59.200 fuck never mind this way i don't care whatever be blocked i don't care um

02:07:06.240 uh okay um hold on i need to cover a whole bunch of things here let me try to get through them

02:07:12.000 um we have uh this was from pico steins so he says and this will touch on the

02:07:19.120 of the of stuff so pico steins thank you man for kind of making me remember this would you guys

02:07:28.240 have an issue if your father was watching your only fans content

02:07:36.000 uh obviously like depending on like what content

02:07:43.040 your pornographic let's assume and if you want to go lincoln douglas i will go full-on

02:07:47.920 black slot dictionary on you for the terms of the rest of this conversation when we talk about

02:07:52.080 only fans we're talking about porn star activities didn't we already talk about this i thought we

02:07:56.960 already answered this question he was away i wanted yeah yeah okay but then like there's something wrong

02:08:01.920 with your relationship with your like why would he like be interested in that you know that's weird

02:08:08.000 yeah it's like but it's so but so you guys acknowledge that you are selling a product that you would not

02:08:15.440 be proud for your no but that family to purchase why would your dad purchase something that wow

02:08:23.440 here you totally scooted it the wrong way i meant to scoot it that was okay that's fine that's a dad

02:08:29.280 problem and not an yeah that's not us right in my opinion yeah like you're the one buying the content

02:08:35.440 like yeah okay if you had a daughter pornographic content for hypothetically would you be purchasing her

02:08:41.680 content that's that's what exactly right i would not want her to be well hold on i wouldn't want

02:08:47.840 her to be even doing that just based on the original question yeah but that's it's a it's a father

02:08:52.320 problem not a porn porn yeah because there's always going to be porn yeah always exactly and someone's

02:08:57.280 always going to be making porn and someone's always going to be watching exactly so if the father

02:09:01.600 if someone who has a daughter wants to purchase his daughter's porn and that's his weird kink that oh yes i'm

02:09:08.960 not in favor of fathers or brothers purchasing their their daughters or their siblings uh content but

02:09:16.800 i it does sort of call into question if if you would feel ashamed of to some degree you must be ashamed

02:09:25.360 of what you're doing if you would be ashamed to have your parents purchase it i don't think it's a factor

02:09:32.240 of shame yeah it's just like i wouldn't want my parents watching that for because clear reasons

02:09:38.480 of that's freaking weird and like if like you're i mean my parents like know what i do but that doesn't

02:09:44.560 mean it you want can i ask you a question what was that conversation like how do they feel about that

02:09:50.960 um so my mom has been supportive since the beginning uh my dad was a little opposed by the idea

02:10:00.240 what's that but he saw how i handled everything and he sees that i'm doing well for myself and

02:10:07.120 that's cool go ahead thank you and my parents are really proud of me

02:10:16.000 okay uh we have no name reacts what if you come back home oh my god what if you come back home to

02:10:21.600 your boyfriend fap to your of content how would you feel oh we asked that already did i already i did

02:10:28.240 did i do that one yeah oh shit my bad okay we have fally then fally's gonna actually twitch yo

02:10:33.600 guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub uh thank you guys

02:10:38.240 really appreciate all the primes twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow drops a prime sub okay

02:10:42.560 thank you one motorsports donated two hundred dollars how would you feel if your dad got laughed at in

02:10:48.960 his job because of your content how about your future children being bullied at school over his

02:10:54.640 mom the sex stroker truth matters be better

02:11:01.360 is that ethical go ahead cindy if you want to respond to this so

02:11:06.000 i'm just thinking like why would his co-workers like yeah it's just a little it's like not

02:11:18.400 professional number one number two it's like yeah like if he has a good relationship with

02:11:25.200 his co-workers he wouldn't violate him like that do you want to have kids i do want to have kids do you

02:11:31.040 want to have kids she's gone um would you do you have any concerns about your future kids

02:11:39.360 being bullied about when it comes to your only fans content so i think that it's like

02:11:50.160 i feel like it's not going to affect them but at the same time what if i choose to not have kids

02:11:56.320 what if i adopt kids well like or homeschool kids or sure take them to like a private school and like

02:12:04.800 just okay depending on what i want to do with my life something to think about though what about you

02:12:10.720 i have a few thoughts on it um one i have to think about the timeline when i have children by the time i

02:12:17.200 have children how like how much bigger is the internet going to be and like will i even be relevant

02:12:24.160 anymore will any of the girls that are relevant now going to be relevant anymore or is someone

02:12:28.080 going to take their place and then by that time you know i'm going to look different um some people

02:12:32.560 even like change their name so like that's a factor as well and but i do think regardless of whether

02:12:38.400 their peers know about it or not i think it is important to have that conversation with your

02:12:42.560 children sure just to make them aware okay i mean in your in response to that i would say that the

02:12:48.640 internet is forever um my question you mentioned like changing your name if let's say you

02:12:54.000 stop doing only fans right you need to get that no only hopping on that i have yeah yeah um so

02:13:02.000 would you guys let's say you guys stop doing only fans or maybe you don't but let's say you do

02:13:07.440 um are you if you're going to start dating a guy would you be open and forthcoming about the fact

02:13:12.240 that you're engaged in sex work with a guy that i'm marrying no wait what wait so wait can you

02:13:19.440 like let's say let's say you start dating a guy would you would you disclose to him that you do

02:13:25.600 only fans of course like currently yeah you have to what about if you choose to stop doing only fans

02:13:31.200 would you disclose to them like hey just letting you know like i used to do this it's part yeah yeah

02:13:35.440 absolutely part of your life mm-hmm you had something yeah i do so this is a dating story i met a young

02:13:42.640 lady i was visiting a city and met her by chance fantastic girl like she was everything was very

02:13:49.280 kind about her that looked like a modest young lady everything was great um she had a tattoo

02:13:54.720 um and i'll tell you the end of the story at this point i was like man this girl is actually great i

02:14:00.240 i could potentially date this young lady like she's so far she's checking the boxes again it's very early

02:14:05.760 stages but i didn't know much about her so i sent you know a picture of her to my team i was like hey can

02:14:10.400 we just see what we know about this girl just make sure she's not a terrorist russian spy whatever

02:14:14.240 trying to get american secrets who knows anyways while in that thing it was it's incredibly simple

02:14:21.520 i mean like it's hard to change the the even if you get a significant amount of surgery it's hard

02:14:25.840 to change the biometrics of your body and we have a lot of programs we just used the tattoo she had not

02:14:32.720 been doing only fans for a very long time like she started when it was very like right at the very

02:14:37.680 beginning right back up and it instantly popped up her pictures like because you can go back in

02:14:42.720 time on the web and then so like instantly popped up her pictures and i was like listen like i understand

02:14:48.320 that you stop i understand that you you've you know you're redeemed in the lord all these great

02:14:52.000 things i personally cannot be with you because i'm an example to young men i'm an example to you

02:14:56.560 know young women i don't want young women to think like oh hey i can do this and it has no cost

02:15:00.640 because if i stop then i can get a guy like madison not saying i'm a high level guy but i'm just saying

02:15:05.680 it there's a huge cost to it no matter what it will be i i will confine your content for the rest of

02:15:11.600 time that's just no true unless it goes back to the conversation of like how only fans or sex work

02:15:17.120 gets in the way of building certain types of relationships and certain certain people that

02:15:20.320 you want to be in a relationship with yes you have to find a certain quality of a person who will

02:15:24.480 accept you for that and it doesn't bother them in any any way particular career wise or otherwise you

02:15:28.960 know they're gonna have to accept that and be open with that or at least accept that you did it in the

02:15:32.880 past or something like that so um though that would be something that you know limited your

02:15:37.920 you know your availability for partnership with somebody um but if you're you know that's why we

02:15:42.480 disclose it at the very beginning like oh we work in sex work or adult work or whatever you disclose

02:15:46.080 at the beginning not you know nip it at the butt so that person could uh differentiate at the very

02:15:51.280 beginning whether or not they want to continue that way you don't like build feelings both people

02:15:55.280 build feelings within like three or four months you start to really like the person and start to really

02:15:59.600 like spend a lot of time with that person and you get that out of the way get out of the way

02:16:03.600 because that's this is how we make our living all right we got a chat here from phallie thank you

02:16:08.480 man appreciate it mr congressman forgot your name or didn't hear it my apologies this is uh madison

02:16:13.520 cawthorne i'm impressed at your level of debate manners i hope you set the standard going forward i

02:16:17.760 salute you everyone else enjoy your night hey thank you phallie appreciate it means a lot brother thank

02:16:22.400 you phallie appreciate it um i wanted to touch on we were talking a little bit earlier on uh you

02:16:30.240 had mentioned cindy something about experience um related to i guess it was body count or you asked us

02:16:37.280 do guys uh prefer experience in a woman yeah yeah actually wait hold on i need to address your thing

02:16:45.840 first here um so i'll know about you madison i'll know about you but if i'm meeting a girl

02:16:54.720 and i'm interested in her and she reveals to me by the way your competition is i'm currently in a

02:17:01.840 friends with benefits i'm fucking three to five other dudes that's not a girl i'm pursuing like

02:17:09.120 live your life but goodbye i'm not interested in that so i'll know how you feel about that but like

02:17:14.400 and for me the thresholds like to me that's way beyond the threshold of what i would accept

02:17:19.600 so i want a girl who's properly single when i meet her like if you're even sleeping with one dude it's

02:17:25.920 a wrap sorry were you was that like a disagree no no that was just like excuse me okay just like

02:17:32.560 breathing okay if a girl's sleeping with one guy that's automatic disqualification if i meet you and

02:17:41.200 there's another guy in the picture that you're fucking automatic disqualification uh that's not

02:17:45.520 even my threshold though my threshold is are you like if you're if you're dating multiple men even

02:17:52.160 if you're not sleeping with them i'm not even interested yeah it for for me if you're dating

02:17:56.800 multiple men that's that that's like i'm like you know and unless it's like oh i went on a date with

02:18:01.680 this guy because i'm trying to find a husband you know it was all this stuff but if you're sleeping with

02:18:04.880 like a guy every other night three or every other week i'm just like you're just not the girl for me

02:18:10.720 i mean now if a girl when we talked about this one point i want to make one caveat and this is the

02:18:15.040 exception of the rule but if i meet a phenomenal girl and she has a boyfriend i do not give a

02:18:20.000 shit he is not my friend i will take i don't know about that i don't know about that i'm just i'm just

02:18:24.800 saying sure if i'm if she's not married and i'm like and she's like i'm like that's a great girl i would

02:18:30.480 be interested but i don't know for the majority of the time if a girl is sleeping with another guy

02:18:34.800 or especially if she is sleeping with lots of guys that's an instant no for me there's a lot of fish

02:18:38.960 in the sea like i i get it but there's a lot of fish in the sea i don't like to step on toes and

02:18:43.760 there's the whole thing step on toes because there's some crazy motherfuckers out there there are and that

02:18:48.000 this is one other thing is i mean this is like a biblical principle it is like if a man is scorned in

02:18:54.240 this way like there's nothing that can hold back his rage and like let's say that right yeah you know let's

02:18:59.920 say that if i was dating a girl and she got like super drunk or whatever is that out for whatever

02:19:05.040 no no girl i date like goes out and gets super drunk but let's say it was an exception to a rule

02:19:10.640 whatever like it was she's out for her friend's like bridal shower and any some guy walked up to

02:19:16.080 her and kissed her i and she's like oh my gosh get away from me i'm going to jail because like i would

02:19:21.920 forgive her i'd be like okay that's okay but that guy's brakes are all of a sudden going to go out

02:19:25.200 in his car and he's gonna die like it's just like it's just i i i'm i'm not i'm not interested

02:19:33.520 like if a guy touches my girl it's just it's over oh okay oh protector because i was gonna say i was

02:19:39.200 gonna say like for me like i i know you said if the girl's like super amazing but she's got a

02:19:44.400 boyfriend it sounds like you would still try to pursue her uh for me it's my friends because

02:19:50.480 my friends all have great girlfriends i'll never for me like there's some crazy dudes out there if

02:19:56.480 if you try to infiltrate like try to bro you can get clipped like i'm not trying to get clipped for

02:20:03.040 pussy you know like i it's not even my wife i'm not like if but oh she could be my future there's

02:20:08.160 plenty of fish in the sea she's got a boyfriend i'm not gonna step on any toes because there's a lot

02:20:12.880 of unhinged people out there and you don't know and man i i i i i do respect that and i don't want

02:20:18.560 to see you get clipped i don't want to die we need we need you back in congress we can't you

02:20:24.960 have you getting clipped because you this is a really nice girl you like well chat how do we feel

02:20:30.080 about that if you meet the like the girl of the dream she meets all your metrics

02:20:34.400 but she has a boyfriend would you pursue you're gonna try to you're gonna sniper or what's it called

02:20:39.680 you're gonna try this what's it called i have a question you're gonna are you gonna swoop

02:20:44.080 swoop i don't think you swoop i don't i think if she's got a boyfriend you don't swoop i don't

02:20:50.400 think you swoop no no no i am in the minority i'm gonna have to really have some self i'm gonna

02:20:57.760 have to think about this she leaves you for another guy yeah the way she left her boyfriend that's that's

02:21:02.080 a fair point he'll do what you do what is it how you meet them is how they leave or how you get them

02:21:07.200 as hell that's yes okay did you say if she has a boyfriend you will pursue her but if she's sleeping

02:21:14.720 with somebody you will not pursue her oh is that what you said i i was saying like in a very rare

02:21:20.560 case if a girl has a boyfriend and she's great i i would i would i would i would consider pursuing

02:21:27.040 her but you would assume but if a girl is just like sleeping around with like a different guy like

02:21:32.240 on monday wednesday or every other week or whatever with one guy but they're not officially

02:21:37.520 for me even if it's one guy it's deal breaker goodbye i i don't i don't i i don't want to grow

02:21:43.760 with a lot of experience i really don't i'm like i understand i'm probably it's hard to find a virgin

02:21:47.760 in these kind of these kind of days but like i don't want to grow with like a 10 count 10 body count

02:21:51.760 she has a boyfriend i have a question because you guys both said that you guys wouldn't even consider

02:21:57.200 dating a girl if she was even sleeping with like more than one guy or seeing another guy

02:22:03.120 would you guys hold the same standards like for yourselves yes okay then i think that's fair i think

02:22:09.840 if well the equivalent would be do i think it's fair for a woman to not want to date a guy who's

02:22:16.240 sleeping with another woman yes absolutely that's totally reasonable i don't have a double standard

02:22:21.760 on this but my my view is i want a woman's undivided romantic and sexual attention

02:22:28.160 from the if i go on the first date like our first time meeting and there's other dudes in the picture

02:22:33.440 you got other dates planned down the pipeline you're sleeping with another dude

02:22:39.280 i'm not the guy for you so i want your immediate she met you in that case what's that waiting what

02:22:43.840 was she doing before you met you in that case it's really not that hard to be properly single

02:22:47.840 like you don't gotta be if you're a dude my question is why aren't you trying to get

02:22:52.560 wifed up by the dude why aren't you trying to be in a why are you three four five dudes it only takes

02:22:57.680 one okay not too much i hate you too much i'm not talking about fucking because you said if she's

02:23:03.680 got like dates lined up and stuff like that um but if she's dating she went on a date with you

02:23:07.760 why wouldn't she consider other yeah other people like dinner sure i can get that like if she had the

02:23:13.200 already pre i preferably she's properly single but i can see in some scenario probably most

02:23:18.720 scenarios especially if you meet on dating apps for example where i meet her she's probably has

02:23:24.080 a lot of even average women can have like a date every single every single night of the week if

02:23:29.040 they're so inclined my thing is if i go on the first date with you if you want a second date the

02:23:34.720 other dudes have to be a wrap it has to be let me just finish let me just finish like if i go on

02:23:40.800 a first date with you and you like me and you want to go on a second date the other dudes have

02:23:45.280 to be a wrap you can't be fucking enough i well look if you've if you fucked a guy that the day

02:23:51.520 before we went on a date i'm probably not that interested in you whether a girl reveals that or

02:23:55.600 not that's another question i hope she does and i hope that's not the type of girl i end up on a date

02:23:59.840 on but if i go on the first date and there you want a second date with me it has all the other dudes

02:24:05.760 has to be a wrap otherwise i'm not interested wait quick question go ahead would you tell her

02:24:09.920 that you would like when you go on the date with her would you say hey on the second date like or

02:24:15.680 if we decide that we want to see each other again do you communicate to her that or do you just expect

02:24:21.840 so when i used to i used to be on dating apps yes um however my new standard now um is

02:24:31.920 because you know i'm in the content creation game you know somebody's you know dm whatever

02:24:39.120 um i'm gonna ask up front are you properly single are you seeing another guy are you dating another

02:24:45.840 guy are you sleeping with another guy if you and tell me because cool we're not we're not right for

02:24:52.080 each other but i'd rather know up front i'm not because like i'm i'm very uh i'm not like interested in

02:24:59.760 like okay let's do a six month situationship and no like i want your undivided romantic sexual

02:25:05.600 attention so i'm going to be like kind of focused in on the girl so and i i'm pretty just to answer

02:25:11.600 your question as well i i'm pretty like forward with like my expectations like hey this is kind

02:25:16.640 of what i'm what i'm doing what i'm looking for but i i don't even think i'd bring that up because i

02:25:20.800 don't there's really not a girl that i'd be interested in marrying right that like if like we went on our

02:25:26.160 first date like our first interaction and then she's like well i'm still just gonna go try see

02:25:30.000 how these other guys are because i feel like everyone has their standards and that's okay

02:25:37.920 not everyone is going to meet your expectations as long as you communicate it and don't put any

02:25:44.080 kind of expectations or have someone you know read your mind or you know don't ever like be like

02:25:50.240 don't ever bash on someone because they don't have they didn't meet your expectations if you didn't

02:25:55.120 communicate them so i respect oh i get it you're very i'm not i'm not gonna like exactly try to

02:25:59.760 change a chick if she's fucking with other dudes people for you and there's people for her girl if

02:26:04.240 you guys are not meant for each other that's cool yeah but i'll ask up front i'll be like if you know

02:26:09.840 i'll hop on the phone call if she said you know if someone said i'm talking to a girl and she's like

02:26:14.640 i'm talking to a girl and she's like i want to date you and see if if you know i'm not dating other

02:26:17.920 people i don't i used to deal with like low interest medium interest women not anymore i only deal with

02:26:23.280 high interest women it's not worth my time so if you got multiple dudes and you're kind of on the

02:26:27.920 i don't want a girl who's a fence sitter i want a girl who's like i really like you brian

02:26:32.000 fuck the other dude how does she know that on the first date right no it's even before the first date

02:26:37.840 before the first date they're sliding into the dms like they're interested how are you gonna know you're

02:26:42.880 gonna want to get married like how are you gonna know that you're gonna want to see this person

02:26:47.280 exclusively only on the first date that's why divorce rate anybody can look you guys look i get

02:26:54.960 you guys might think that this is like kind of crazy but how many people out here are complaining

02:26:59.360 about men don't want men don't want to commit i'm in a six month situation ship he's fucking other

02:27:05.040 chicks like you might think that this is like a really crazy way to approach this but i actually think

02:27:09.920 it's incredibly effective because i'm like yo i don't want you seeing other dudes i'm not gonna like

02:27:15.200 play this game where i'm cool with you fucking other i don't want because i know exactly what i

02:27:19.600 want i don't want a girl who's fucking other guys i'm not going to be cool with that i know that i'm

02:27:24.160 going to tell you that up front i want you properly single and i want you only seeing me that's it

02:27:29.360 is she properly single if she was on a dating app whenever y'all met preferably i don't want to even

02:27:34.560 date a girl who's on dating apps to be honest i was just wondering because you mentioned no most girls

02:27:38.400 on dating apps have like they're exploring their options they're going on like which i mean multiple

02:27:43.440 dates a week so that's not really i used to be on dating apps and it was brutal how does she find

02:27:48.400 you yeah no somebody that she wants to slide into the dms i know but how is she gonna find you if

02:27:54.480 she's not open to dating in the first place that was because if she's properly single and you don't

02:28:00.720 want her to be dating around that means y'all would have never met and y'all would have never been on a

02:28:04.560 date well i mean you don't want i realize that this is so i realize that i'm in this kind of unique

02:28:10.320 position that probably doesn't apply to a lot of like the average guy because i i'm out there in

02:28:14.640 the ether when it comes to content creation so um like i do have like there's women who will slide

02:28:22.480 into the dms because i'm out i've been doing content creation for 10 plus years like so i do have that

02:28:28.000 sort of privilege i guess when it comes to sourcing women who like are already are interested in me just

02:28:34.560 because of my public presence when you go on a first date how many first dates you have lined up

02:28:38.880 huh when you go on a first date and you're interested in someone oh i'm pretty selective

02:28:42.320 so i'm not like trying to go on like i like when i was like if i'm single like maybe it depends

02:28:49.360 really i mean if you like them i don't i don't like going on a lot of first dates so maybe like

02:28:54.960 one or two a month maybe what do you like about someone before you meet them

02:28:58.400 right their looks i mean i always i always would do a phone call with somebody first

02:29:03.440 but like when i was on dating apps you really gotta facetime these days because with face

02:29:06.960 too i can get fucked up i've seen that happen to a lot of guys but i mean how much do you learn about

02:29:12.640 them in one or two calls or whatever uh i think you can you can get a pretty good sense of somebody

02:29:18.720 but i mean it's not perfect yeah but as long as you get the vibe i mean that makes sense yeah i mean so

02:29:24.800 um do you feel like look are you a looks or personality kind of guy what do you mean when

02:29:31.440 it comes to i mean both are super important girl that's like super hot but a bitch is literally

02:29:38.880 matches you perfectly like this girl is amazing she's kind caring she has all the

02:29:44.800 attributes she bows can you get the bowing video but she's not attractive she's not like

02:29:49.840 physical she's all right but she's not like like she's like less than average

02:29:55.440 attractive what do you like amazing personality like a 10 like she's a six so attractive attractiveness

02:30:01.520 has to come first because i'm not going to be interested in getting to know you

02:30:04.560 in like a romantic way if i'm not attracted so you guys agree that looks are important of course look

02:30:10.800 of course looks are important but but i would say i would probably actually prefer the girl who like

02:30:16.000 is really cool or whatever over dealing like a girl who's a 10 but she's like

02:30:21.440 makes my life she's a headache she's got bpd she's got mental health issues she's a

02:30:26.480 fucking bitch like she's bpd you got bpd yeah i'm not not an island day i'm not about bpd chicks

02:30:34.720 i did it once i'm not doing it again what do you have like a category you have bpd why are we in a box

02:30:41.200 not all bpd well my i mean yo public service announcement to all the men watching do not date

02:30:46.720 women with cluster b personality disorders but it's not like gentlemen like i'm not bipolar it's

02:30:52.400 bipolar disorder bpd can be worse to be honest it's not bipolar it's very actually very different

02:30:59.040 gentlemen like if a woman has any cluster b personality disorders my strong recommendation

02:31:05.520 for you as somebody who dated a woman with bpd never again never again gentlemen your peace is

02:31:13.680 very important peace is one of the i think peace is one of the most it is important things a girl

02:31:18.960 can bring you and if your girl is quarrelsome what's that proverbs 21 19 it's better to live

02:31:24.880 on the corner of an attic than a luxurious home i've heard a quarrelsome woman i've also heard it's

02:31:29.680 better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife so peace is one of the

02:31:34.320 most important things i think a woman can bring a man and so if hold on though but yeah he comes

02:31:40.320 every every bpd it ain't worth it bro okay it ain't worth it mental health is a totally different topic

02:31:48.160 like for me i'm not crazy at all she's not crazy at all did you hear that guys hold on one second

02:31:55.680 hey b get the first girl on your left in gold to give a comment she seems like she has something

02:32:02.000 intelligent she has been quiet which means she has something smart in her head nice okay

02:32:09.360 anything i mean into the mic into the mic i mean i really don't have too much to comment on with

02:32:16.880 those types of subjects because i don't i don't know nothing about it what kind of guy are you looking

02:32:22.080 for i'm actually looking for whatever god gives me so okay there you have it

02:32:30.240 all right i love that um wait so what about bpd you have bpd have you ever slashed tires no you only

02:32:38.080 bankrupt men oh no oh can we can we actually talk about the painting thing because we'll get to the

02:32:43.440 people from your podcast dm me saying thank you so much for allowing me to realize what i want to

02:32:52.080 do with my life and that like i made them realize that they that's what they want to do

02:33:00.960 who's the fucking simp who sent that shit hit me up then after your podcast oh

02:33:06.480 fuck what the fuck yo what the fuck chat and also like that's literally their purpose so like

02:33:13.200 l chat l chat w chat wait wait go go deeper into that what did you mean that's literally their purpose

02:33:20.240 their purpose they they get off on being bankrupt their purpose in life is to serve her and her pockets

02:33:27.360 yeah and it looks like financial domination unethical man i'm telling you if we would just kill all of

02:33:32.400 those guys we love that we love that you guys hold on we love that you guys have been able to

02:33:40.000 express yourself we've been listening and respecting your opinions and all that stuff we all have

02:33:44.400 different opinions and there is men or simps or pay pigs or whatever for each one of us there's

02:33:50.800 different there's different uh there's different flavors for each person okay not everybody's gonna

02:33:55.680 have the same opinion and we respect your opinion you can have your pure virgin young woman wife or

02:34:01.200 whatever you want and you can have low body count i'm fine with a low you can have you can have

02:34:05.680 that that's a beautiful thing for you whatever it's also like that's and i think that's the best

02:34:10.640 i think it's also the best of society yeah for it's for you no it's also the best no well men will

02:34:16.160 date necessitously so out of necessity they will accept a promiscuous woman or a high body count

02:34:21.840 woman because they can't get better because they can't get better like why can't we have opinions

02:34:26.160 you guys well i totally think you can have an opinion yeah yes in my opinion my opinion it's

02:34:32.080 unethical to bankrupt men if they if they like it yeah if they like yeah that's mental illness

02:34:38.560 that's unethical no it's a mental illness is unethical it's yes if a guy is willing if a guy is

02:34:45.280 willing to as some sort of sexual hold on stop stop yeah okay oh my god bro let me fucking finish a

02:34:53.120 point please if a guy has a sexual fetish or a kink that is going to like manifestly make his life

02:35:02.480 worse through bankruptcy i think that that's mental illness and i think that's you taking advantage

02:35:08.960 of somebody and it's clearly unethical and it's clearly immoral if if hold on so if somebody who is

02:35:16.560 mentally unhealthy asks you to delete them huh why is that my how would i know but but just

02:35:22.080 because somebody asks you to do something doesn't mean that it's right a lot of times in that fetish

02:35:27.680 they say they're bankrupt and they're not yeah no exactly there's a lot of safe sane there's a lot

02:35:33.120 of safe saying oh my oh my god what are you fucking doing make a fucking uh you're it's okay she made a

02:35:39.600 mistake would you say that about all kinks well i think that sometimes mental sorry guys i think

02:35:46.640 sometimes i'm tilted i lost it and oh people doing of they lack accountability with their part that

02:35:53.760 they do kind of contribute something to society and i think that it's easy for you guys to be like

02:35:59.200 well it's not my problem but it's that's problematic because how whether you want to admit it or not

02:36:06.640 you are contributing something to society but okay let's say someone has a kink of being like tied up

02:36:12.320 right and i tie them up and someone say or getting whipped right and they start bleeding right right

02:36:19.920 how is that my problem if they like it and they like you know to get whipped or whatever but i'm

02:36:25.200 hitting them like because you're exploiting their mental health how is that mental illness it's a

02:36:30.080 kinks are not mental because it's not normal kinks and fetishes are normal hey are you on your cell

02:36:35.920 phone no oh okay it looked like you were texting maybe you guys don't know but there's a huge world

02:36:43.280 of like bdsm yeah whatever it's like you might not know it but they're it's very very big i think it can

02:36:50.480 be separated i think yes in situations i think it can go one to another but i think people with specific

02:36:58.160 kinks lead normal lives with healthy minds i think that it's a trauma response to what they

02:37:08.480 used a lot of people have needed use kinks and fetishes as a form of therapy so i i think that

02:37:15.120 sometimes if you take things to an extreme it can illuminate if it's moral or if it's not i think so

02:37:20.640 so back in the day back in the day people believed in the divine right of conquest and so they said it is

02:37:26.960 right for us to be able to do anything because god has willed it if we are capable of beating you

02:37:31.600 and so because of that you had entire cultures destroyed ripped apart and crushed and now like

02:37:37.120 sometimes it was beneficial for size sometimes it just destroyed a lot of lives and i mean so that's

02:37:42.240 it that's exactly what you saw in the 1940s when people were trying to take over the world and say

02:37:46.480 that oh there's only one race that is made in the image of god and so therefore they had they

02:37:50.880 believe they had the divine right of conquest and so they wanted and so that they were saying the exact

02:37:54.880 same thing why is it my problem if you can't beat me in battle and so i think we have we have a do

02:38:00.720 one second we have a duty as humans to try and you know i i say as children of god to try and make the

02:38:08.160 world we can't help the world that we were born into but we can help the world that we leave behind

02:38:12.960 and so i think that if you are in engaging in an activity that is abusing people bankrupting people

02:38:20.000 making our society the west our and i'm using the word liberal small l not big l uh our liberal ideals

02:38:27.040 that every single person has rights every single person has meaning and every single person has a

02:38:31.280 purpose if you are trying to destroy our ability to have that great culture by bankrupting people

02:38:37.600 and by destroying them and by distracting them i think you are detracting from society you said

02:38:41.440 something very important you said abuse so abuse is never okay yeah um in bdsm it's in power

02:38:47.280 exchange and domination and submission you have to uh negotiate all of the limitations

02:38:53.760 anything that's number one side of a limitation is um abuse and so that's very very huge conversation

02:39:00.320 in the bdsm community so nobody ever goes over that point over that limit um and if you do it

02:39:06.560 it is mental manipulation and then it gets to a point where it is dangerous and there is an entire

02:39:11.280 sub-community for for support in that way then you get into dv and all that other stuff there is

02:39:16.640 connections all over the place bdsm is not not exempt from that but it does not encompass that either

02:39:21.600 yeah exactly and i wanted to say something you've brought up how some people use like kinks as a

02:39:27.040 form of therapy right i i just see it as like why not just go to an actual therapist um some people do

02:39:34.560 i've heard stories people have done therapy for 20 years and they found a dominatrix and it saved

02:39:39.760 them yeah it saved their life they were they came back from the lich so i've heard stories like that

02:39:44.160 that's a guy who wants to fuck you that's a guy who wants to sleep no they don't they don't

02:39:47.840 they don't that's not what it is that's not what it is at all yeah you guys just i don't think you

02:39:53.360 guys know enough about i i definitely do not know much about that and it's not like that at all

02:39:58.320 bdsm is not always yeah no no no there's a uh japanese like body art call

02:40:05.760 one person speaking at a time please thank you go ahead i was gonna say that i wanted to like

02:40:12.160 get tied up it's called like shibaru it's like a job shibari it's a japanese cost times donated 207

02:40:21.120 hey b and panel have a great night bedtime for the old man of the audience ladies stop the of now if you

02:40:29.440 can you will be better in the long run develop skills now trust me dad yo dude thank you man

02:40:37.040 appreciate it i don't think that inhibits on you gaining any skills throughout your life but i

02:40:41.680 appreciate it here let me i'm gonna read a couple chats then we're gonna get into some

02:40:45.440 actual proper topics thank you man appreciate it we have infinite singularity relational merit

02:40:49.760 wanes under the duress of discord irrespective of aesthetic allure an individual of high aesthetic

02:40:55.600 appeal yet harboring a vexing demeanor this is some fucking shakespeare shit right induces such

02:41:02.320 duress ergo can congeniality trumps physical allure in appraising relational worth wow that was

02:41:11.440 that was like have you seen the the matrix with the architect this is like how you're talking like

02:41:18.320 infinite singularity i need you to send in another chat and you need to use

02:41:22.320 ergo vis-a-vis and apropos okay you have to in in your chat you have to use those three

02:41:29.360 ergo vis-a-vis and apropos i love it thank you appreciate it and we have infinite singularity

02:41:34.400 respecting diverse opinions means accepting very varying viewpoints respecting all opinions even

02:41:39.040 those against diversity diversity nullifies diversity's value thus universally respecting opinions

02:41:45.840 contradicts the essence of valuing diversity we have infinite singularity there dropping

02:41:52.240 some bombs hey thank you appreciate it thank you thank you very much appreciate it and then we

02:41:56.960 have just being honest madison with all due respect a man that doesn't respect another man's

02:42:02.560 relationship one is a selfish child that wants other men's toys and two should end up in a wheel oh

02:42:08.720 okay that's a bit yikes wow yikes let's move on i got some nice for you buddy you know we'll just let

02:42:18.960 that go okay all right uh we got grid one grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars hearing

02:42:26.000 this justification of being supremely horrible humans is sad normally i use the phrase soul

02:42:32.160 sucking horse joking well but in this panel's god damn bro holy shit you are the problem in society

02:42:37.840 damn fucking we gotta let's be nice we gotta be polite okay and then um thank you grid one though

02:42:45.520 appreciate it good to see you in the chat we have uh so flow ak he says would the panel date someone

02:42:52.880 out of their ordinary type all the chica mamas down here in miami always say they aren't interested in

02:42:59.280 white guys rednecks but they always end up in spicy ridiculous love i can see that that's like super

02:43:05.600 miami well you're from my are you no i'm not from okay but like do you live do you live in florida i live

02:43:10.080 in orlando oh okay okay yeah um so going around the table would you uh date someone out of your

02:43:15.840 ordinary type yes definitely no oh yeah we should get into types we should also ask everybody what

02:43:23.760 their types are we can do that really quick uh yes yes yes yes yes yes um oh yeah we didn't do the

02:43:37.840 bowing video and we'll do it later maybe um yeah i would i did i've got even if she wasn't with that

02:43:46.080 like we all have non-negotiables and if a woman meets your non-negotiables like the there are things

02:43:51.440 like oh i maybe i prefer this eye color but it's like but she's fantastic in every other way it's

02:43:56.640 like okay well if she's got a hundred body count i don't care yeah exactly that's a non-negotiable

02:44:01.360 breaker i don't care how fantastic you are how hot you are um it doesn't work yeah so um thank

02:44:08.240 you man appreciate it oh so what's everybody's type we'll go around the table on this maybe you

02:44:12.160 don't have a type but i don't really have a type but i have phases what's your current phase

02:44:18.000 uh right now um i guess asian guys do you like asian guys i like all different types of guys okay so

02:44:32.560 i can't really like choose a race what do you tell us like have you had any three phases do i have what

02:44:40.000 like what what were your three like if you had to you had multiple phases right what are three of the

02:44:44.640 phases you've had when it comes to type um like

02:44:58.080 i guess like white okay okay white hispanic hispanic black you know like everything so you

02:45:07.360 had you had so are you saying you had a phase where like okay you only dated white guys then you only

02:45:12.000 dated latino guys and then you only dated black guys is that what you're saying yeah i guess you

02:45:17.040 can put it like that but i'm attracted to anybody like like there's no what about asian guys i like

02:45:23.680 asian guys okay what's your type sims goons and sugar daddies yeah sorry what's that say that again

02:45:29.440 sims goons and sugar daddies what is a goon oh is that like a guy that watches porn oh is that what a

02:45:36.080 goon is i didn't know that's yeah okay so sims goons that's like a whole nother category that's a

02:45:42.080 whole nother category i love them too next oh i don't really have a type but you don't have a type

02:45:51.600 it's just like if we click yeah but when he asked if you would date someone outside of your type you

02:45:57.600 said no what i mean like if we have like two different personality personalities then i'm not

02:46:06.240 gonna like i'm gonna fuck on you but if we click then yeah yeah i got something for you madison

02:46:15.040 actually hold on let me just derail the conversation madison what was your favorite raid in uh

02:46:19.120 uh in uh burning crusade oh gosh are you a raider did you raid i pvp i'm a pvp guy like like if you

02:46:27.360 go take stormfront or stormwind and you'd kill the king that was that was a very happy day okay

02:46:39.040 okay um i do not have a physical type my preferences are internal internal yeah

02:46:48.320 like non-physical like they don't they have two kidneys yeah i'm out that's a good one two

02:46:54.320 kidneys i need you non-physical two test two testicles preferably those aren't those are kind

02:47:02.320 of external sort of yeah okay anyone okay anyways i don't know what i was going for there okay what about

02:47:10.320 you um i wouldn't say i have a type but i guess a preference but i've dated a lot of like all the races

02:47:17.680 so that's why i say i really do go for anything but my preferences would be like mexican or black

02:47:23.600 what about you don't have any like white guys do you like white guys you prefer black guys

02:47:28.400 okay i prefer a little bit of spice but sorry madison we're out we're out we're out of the running

02:47:37.760 um okay but i mean i like i don't you know i like white guys too like i i really don't have a

02:47:45.040 uh specific

02:47:50.720 so okay um i think you're really cute

02:47:54.560 oh wait

02:47:58.480 oh that riz with riz

02:48:02.720 um wait so but when you said when you said that your type is like more internal are you talking like

02:48:08.320 you you'd like bad boys is that kind of like it's more their attitude um like you like that's what i

02:48:14.960 mean but i know i don't like criminals

02:48:20.160 i don't like criminals no that's good but you know i like i i like things that are not physical

02:48:28.800 like that's more important to me such as um their money i like money but um their heart yes

02:48:40.640 i like something what about their collection i like someone that is gentleman like i like somebody

02:48:48.720 that respects me i like somebody that values my opinions and values me okay um i like somebody that

02:48:57.360 i can relate to yep stuff like that that's beautiful it's beautiful thank you um sorry i don't really

02:49:07.760 have a type it's just about the personality and like if he checks those good qualities in like a

02:49:13.920 men i mean in a man where like you know his head is on straight that that's all i care about you know

02:49:20.480 um i would say i don't really have a type either it's more of like how you are as a person like if

02:49:29.840 you're a good human being and you have goals and like aspirations like kind of like i do then i like

02:49:37.280 you of the three to five friends with benefits that you currently have god are they what are they

02:49:47.440 white are they white what's what's the are they white guys uh they tall i mean they all buy you

02:49:54.560 weed i guess yeah they're all tall they all smoke there's probably like a white guy a mexican in there

02:50:00.960 you know i don't discriminate so i mean okay so okay i don't care about race is the white guy the

02:50:07.440 one that buys you food and weed no okay no oh he's the one that just hits it in but doesn't buy you

02:50:13.600 anything yeah good for him doesn't have to okay all right jesus christ um okay uh what about you um

02:50:22.480 i like someone ambitious someone so you can bankrupt them no i just oh okay my bad not about money it's

02:50:29.280 just about someone that has goals someone that is down to earth someone that is compassionate

02:50:36.160 loving and just usually dark skinned but oh sorry madison sorry madison i'm sorry but yeah

02:50:46.960 um i don't discriminate i actually just want somebody that values themselves as well as me and

02:50:53.360 just doesn't act crazy crazy okay um madison what about you what's your type yeah no i definitely

02:51:02.560 have a type so she's got to be a christian first and foremost that's gotta it's a uh a non-negotiable

02:51:08.400 i don't believe in being unequally yoked um past that she's gotta i i you know i don't mind if

02:51:15.120 if for some reason she didn't have a family or something that's one thing but you know i i really value

02:51:19.680 the way that she treats her father you know if she treats her father with respect and dignity

02:51:23.120 then i know she's probably gonna treat me with respect and dignity specifically father yeah i

02:51:28.880 mean like i think for if you're going for a guy you should probably look how he treats his mom because

02:51:32.720 it's most similar to you um uh you know i wanted to be overtly kind overtly feminine uh you know and

02:51:40.800 like and i i like when my my you know is modest most of the time but i don't mind if my my

02:51:45.440 my girlfriend or wife wants to show off every once in a while especially if we're together like

02:51:49.120 i i don't date ugly women and so i mean i if they want to dress attractively but especially

02:51:54.000 if i'm with them that's that you know i'm not going to discriminate against that i don't like if

02:51:57.440 they just like leave nothing to the imagination there's got to be something that's just like

02:52:00.720 privately just you know hours that we share between the two of us um i like if you know she

02:52:06.480 is comfortable around guns you know we have the same political ideology uh like what's your type

02:52:11.600 though what i'm breaking it down it's not what he's oh i thought we were talking about physical

02:52:16.240 type like physical type black women i mean if we want to get if we want to go down i mean

02:52:21.840 gosh i it it is a it is a high tie with the second place um high time yeah so it's going to be

02:52:29.520 basically it's going to be tied between you know you like your your nordic sweden slavic countries and

02:52:36.080 then also then that's that's tied in with with their tie that's tied with colombians you prefer

02:52:40.960 blonde oh okay yeah no i mean it's a wide swath it's that that you know nordic you know blue

02:52:46.960 eyes blonde hair white girls no but that's that's tied with colombian girls i mean you know i i love

02:52:53.440 that but then second place is going to be probably like persian women if if we're talking about like

02:52:58.160 what i prefer the most but again what i'm looking for like it physically is not a non-negotiable for me

02:53:05.200 like i obviously have to be attracted to them but the non-negotiables are like are you a christian

02:53:10.880 are you going to like be like a wife who submits and i we can break that down like what what submitting

02:53:15.680 looks like and like do you honor like your father and mother that kind of stuff those these are the

02:53:20.480 non-negotiables do you want children do you want to homeschool your children how do you feel about

02:53:24.560 you know a lot of the medical stuff that you know this force on babies like right when they're born

02:53:29.360 um you know how do you feel about you know if there's going to be a a a dangerous situation do you

02:53:35.920 panic and shut down are you going to be able to handle it how are you and just this is a specific

02:53:40.480 one for me ultra specific but how are you going to be able to handle a lot of public scrutiny

02:53:44.560 like you know if you're just out with your friends at like getting pizza and there's some funny song

02:53:49.360 and you get on top of a table it's probably going to end up on the front page of politico are you

02:53:52.720 going to be able to handle that or is that going to shatter you you know that kind of thing or if

02:53:55.760 you get ambushed by tmz can you answer the questions random question um would you ask someone on a

02:54:01.520 first date exactly that to get to know if you're going to have a second date all yeah the non-negotiables

02:54:08.720 i will ask on the first date no matter what i'll know those before the first date i don't think

02:54:12.160 i've ever gone on a date with a non-christian good shit i guess i'll say my type um uh oh by the way

02:54:18.560 i got sorry to the chat and to the panel i got tilted i got tilted earlier uh it's been an interesting

02:54:24.960 pre-show and showed so far so um my type uh any race is fine any race is fine i'd say i have a

02:54:31.920 slight preference slight preference towards asian women and white women hmm that's right that's right

02:54:40.160 um slight preference for short women the shorter the better she can legally be a dwarf i guess midget

02:54:47.440 i guess this is um honestly like i like telling five two women they're too tall for me that's always

02:54:55.600 fun um what yeah you know i'm five two too tall sorry you're amazon wait five two is considered

02:55:02.720 too tall that's i'm sorry you're just amazon that's you're way no five two no five two you're just way

02:55:07.600 too tall i'm sorry you're too tall you're too tall so you know that's a kink as well by the way

02:55:12.640 wait what yeah really really short like dwarf size that's not a kink how's that a kink

02:55:20.800 you're welcome you're welcome this education hour wait what liking like really short ones

02:55:26.480 that's not a kink that's it for women who like tall men that's a kink or is that just like

02:55:32.080 normal on the height i mean there's really tall guys like love like six like six six guys or like

02:55:38.800 you need like a tall guy that's like a fetish yeah okay cool i think it's we live in such an

02:55:45.760 overly diet fetishes don't have to be oh i like getting so this is one thing that i get really

02:55:50.400 frustrated with our with our world we get we live in such an overly diagnosed

02:55:55.920 society where it's like oh well you like that that actually means that you have this technical

02:56:00.000 name that i came up with in an ivory tower point that's what we were talking about before on safety

02:56:04.560 dsm it's just that's cool okay cool if you want to label it as a kink i i sure okay oh i've got a

02:56:11.360 lot i've got a list here i've written it down i'm a natural body supremacist so um you know obviously i

02:56:18.160 care about like hygiene and grooming and shit but like yeah very strong preference for no plastic surgery

02:56:24.480 no fake tits no fake lips no bbl no lipos no labiaplasty that's actually you know what does

02:56:31.600 that mean oh so women okay so like women have some women have audis do you know an audi are you

02:56:37.360 you know moving on i don't want to know i gotta run for how would you know whether or not they had

02:56:42.720 a labiaplasty or not wait what's that can you tell like if someone has to ask on a first date

02:56:47.200 but i i only date women with audis what what i only date with i i will only i will only date

02:57:02.320 no no no no i just prefer i'm just i mean i'm being i'm sort of being i'm exaggerating i'll i don't

02:57:08.880 really it's not a i prefer yeah indies and audis they're both great do i have a slight preference

02:57:15.600 for audis yes i do it's not a deal lips that grip hello what lips that grip she's so disturbing wait

02:57:26.640 everybody else has their preferences and like their values and respect and it's like you're

02:57:30.160 focusing on like labia i just how's that disturbing are you asking that on the first date do you have

02:57:34.960 do you have labioplasty like any or an audi what color i mean sometimes it comes up you might as

02:57:40.160 well be on only fans with everybody else wait what the fuck yeah you're asking about leaving

02:57:44.960 why is that so you object to me having that preference no that's a person but you said it's

02:57:49.840 disturbing you said it's disturbing that's like on the top of your list that like said something you

02:57:54.560 would ask on a first date oh my god this girl takes everything like so seriously i mean everybody

02:57:59.200 else so i'm just no that's curious i'm genuinely curious what what is so what's your question oh i

02:58:04.640 asked was that something you ask on a first date they have a labioplasty i don't know i don't ask

02:58:08.960 if they have a labioplasty but it's there's some realm where it could come up if she's gotten out

02:58:19.440 or i don't always ask but i'll when we hook up i'll know then how will you know well how long what

02:58:26.560 do you mean how do you how do you know if a guy has a six inch dick versus a 12 inch dick uh it's right

02:58:32.320 fucking there the surgery though like no no no no no no oh my god oh my god no hold on what

02:58:41.840 you're saying how would i know if she's had a labia yes if she doesn't tell me i suppose i

02:58:46.160 wouldn't know but how do i know if a girl has an audi verse in any yeah i didn't know you're saying

02:58:51.440 that i thought you said i would know if she's had labioplasty oh well i'm against labioplasty but

02:58:56.160 do i have a preference for women with audis never heard that audio would you would you object if

02:59:02.640 like a woman had a preference of a guy's like penis size almost all women have preferences for that

02:59:09.760 yeah most women if presented with a micro penis in fact i think we have a girl here who wrote this

02:59:15.440 would not want to date a guy with like you guys have gen like a lot of women are like what what's up with

02:59:21.520 the audi thing like y'all have preferences for dick size and whatever the fuck like it's cool

02:59:26.880 sacrifice that for personality though a lot of women have a lot of women yes same here everyone

02:59:30.880 at this table said that they would go against their type again i think we're talking about

02:59:33.920 non-negotiables it's not a deal but like i if a woman has an innie innies are great too i'm just

02:59:40.000 saying yeah do i do i have a prep do i have a slight preference towards audis yes i do okay yeah got it

02:59:46.800 okay what should we do an audi check do you guys want to raise your hands and see who here's got

02:59:51.920 an audi let's do it raise your hands if you have an audi anybody here i have an audi anybody

02:59:59.280 wait what's that 14.99 that's your only

03:00:04.320 subscribe okay um jesus christ um but yeah no fake tits no fake lips no bbl no lipo i'm

03:00:13.280 don't like that um prefer prefer minimal or no makeup no sense perfumes deodorant's fine i guess

03:00:20.560 but i don't like perfume no scent perfume i don't like i don't like perfume so someone's gonna put

03:00:25.120 perfume on when i think it's nice if my girlfriend's coming over to my house yes i would prefer her and

03:00:31.680 not crop dust herself in perfume i don't like the smell it gives me allergies to be honest

03:00:38.880 even like one little like i i don't like the smell it fucking lingers half the time it doesn't

03:00:44.880 even smell that good it's like overpowering no i don't like perfume i don't know i just don't like

03:00:50.320 perfume i don't like missing out babe no i'm not missing unless you actually have like a very like

03:00:57.120 allergic so it does kind of give me allergies like i get a little sniffly if she's wearing

03:01:02.080 fucking perfume allergies that's go ahead with your list that was allergies though what do you

03:01:07.920 that's my no but he also that's my type i don't like i don't like women that crop dust and i'll

03:01:12.240 tell a girl like i don't like any perfume okay i don't like any perfume smell like roses let's hear

03:01:18.720 the rest of the list yeah or you could just wear some like mild deodorant like most deodorant is not

03:01:24.480 overpowering yeah uh okay well i guess well first off i think i mean you're most asian people don't

03:01:33.760 have body odor yeah is that true that's not racist it's you did you say that's racist you keep bringing

03:01:43.440 up like asian culture and asian things how's that right asian girls no but like asian girls she

03:01:49.920 mentioned most this is not like the deodorant smells bad no last long what most most asian

03:01:56.480 people don't have body odor okay or it's like very it's not as pronounced why though i didn't know that

03:02:01.200 it's a gene like there's a there's a different uh so most jengis khan good to know okay um let's see

03:02:11.040 yeah look when it comes to the plastic surgery thing give me an a cup over some big giant fake

03:02:15.440 titties give me a little belly fat over lipo give me a small ass over bbl give me a small upper lip

03:02:21.440 over lip fillers i'm with you um i'm a natural body supremacist i don't like i don't like all that fake

03:02:26.400 shit um and it's just like proxy for uh it's proxy for excessive vanity and i don't i don't find that

03:02:34.880 attractive so um yeah good times uh what else um oh personality okay let's do the bowing video let's see

03:02:44.880 the bowing video i like okay this is what i want in personality wise

03:02:53.280 boom okay yep did you see the bow the bow was dope obviously this is exaggerated a little bit but

03:02:59.600 all right boom okay boom attentive gotta love it what is she doing oh running yep look at this she's

03:03:07.360 serving her man this is this is like look at that attentive she opens the drink for him look she's

03:03:13.760 stirring his noodles to run around look at that look how attentive she is that's on a leash yeah

03:03:20.720 yeah literally watch this guys watch this watch this watch this wait play it again nick play it

03:03:25.040 again watch just the first part go ahead yeah like that's oh my the bow boom huge yes i want i want

03:03:34.320 as soon as i walk in the house i want to bow about that would you guys be down to bow no you wouldn't

03:03:40.320 bow i wouldn't know men bow to men bow to us maybe i'll cook them dinner and be like none of you would

03:03:47.040 bow you wouldn't bow men bow to us if my husband was out working he was a provider he was the leader in

03:03:58.320 our household i would for sure bow if he wanted me to bow yes i want you to bow and he was like you

03:04:05.280 know as much as and he was like the provider you know and he's a good husband then if he wanted me

03:04:09.920 to i would that's the least it's just like would you bow cindy would you do a bow

03:04:16.160 i'll bow for daddy what the what the fuck okay what would you i think the answer is no for you

03:04:24.240 right would you bow oh you didn't hear me earlier you heard me earlier you said men should bow to

03:04:29.040 women so okay what about you would you bow would you do about for for your guy for your boyfriend

03:04:33.840 yeah based um i'm with it you said yes what about you would you do about i mean what's wrong with a

03:04:44.240 like nice greeting home like like you know what if he wants about he's like i want the bow i need the

03:04:51.280 the bow i need the bow i would do it yeah okay what about what about i'm cool you're not gonna

03:04:57.920 bow i'll give you a hug a hug no no no no no okay what about would you do the bow you do the

03:05:04.320 bow can we see a bow how about you show us your bow do you want to show us your bow you want to

03:05:08.160 stand up and show us show us your bow girl yeah we need a bow a little curtsy but curtsy

03:05:15.600 uh let's see um i i definitely would say um i have a question for you all right what would you

03:05:29.280 do that deserves a bow yeah what would i do that deserves a bow yes what would i do bring to the

03:05:35.920 table i am the table uh let's see well i'm fucking dope bro um i mean i'm gonna take care of it i

03:05:45.680 take care of take care of everything yeah take care of everything you know what is taking care of

03:05:51.200 everything take care of everything oh god i'm taking care of everything that's a man taking care of

03:05:55.120 everything okay like what kind of a man should a woman submit to boom can i take that one good

03:06:03.600 question let me just i want to finish i gotta finish my list let me finish my list at least

03:06:07.520 i gotta finish my list um moderate preference for introverted women quiet calm soft-spoken

03:06:14.880 slightly endearingly awkward a little bit shy a little bit nerdy modesty is huge i don't like

03:06:21.120 women with big egos who are super vain diva chicks don't like it bring me peace doesn't quarrel

03:06:26.320 doesn't party doesn't drink doesn't do drugs doesn't go to bars or clubs low body count no current

03:06:30.880 or past promiscuity i need her undivided romantic and sexual attention the earlier the better

03:06:37.040 has a praise kink a girl who helps me in my mission a girl who's attentive a girl who scratches my back

03:06:44.320 and massages my soldiers that's about it not i'm not asking much not asking all that much because they

03:06:51.040 all swipe left on him you guys what so what are you doing like in in opposition to that that what what

03:06:58.880 do you mean like the question that i asked you like what are you doing to deserve a bow and that

03:07:03.840 long list of things all that okay so there's reciprocity for example yeah i don't party i don't

03:07:08.800 drink okay i don't do drugs i don't go to bars and clubs i'm not doing any of that shit so there's

03:07:13.600 reciprocity there i'd like to think for the most part i have my head on fairly straight i uh fairly

03:07:20.080 successful i'd say and uh yeah but like during the like let's say you come home one day like

03:07:28.000 what i take the lead i take the lead i'm gonna be taking i'm gonna be taking care of things when it

03:07:33.280 comes to you know financially so okay i don't think i would bow right you know it's fucking crazy though

03:07:42.560 she's got she's got three three to five friends with benefits we got girls here at this table that

03:07:47.520 will not bow to a guy they won't do a bow but yo stop stop let me finish you got girls here at

03:07:54.880 this table for example her who's dating three to five guys they won't bow to a dude but they'll let

03:08:00.480 a guy come on their face okay who said that no no there's a lot of girls here at this table who will

03:08:06.720 let a dude come on your face but you won't bow for him huh when was that part of the conversation

03:08:13.440 i'm just making some assumptions here that up oh okay i'm making some assumptions about though

03:08:17.760 well what is what is the what do you mean what about that that sounds like a kink to me it's

03:08:21.120 respect but i like the interesting it's not a kink i just want the respect everything i want

03:08:26.080 to respect financially you're paying for everything so you need to have a bow like how do you change

03:08:31.280 how do you make her feel submit to you how do you make her feel i mean she can bow before i even

03:08:36.320 i'm paying for shit but yeah okay like you get pleasure from a woman submit i'm fine with 50 50

03:08:43.680 too you get like pleasure from feeling like you're more dominant it's respect it's respect

03:08:50.880 these girls get so triggered over the outfit they get so triggered

03:08:59.040 i'd prefer a bow i need the bow over i have to have the bow i'm sorry you're not going to convince

03:09:03.920 me you're not going to convince me you're the one over here offering curtsies and shit i just give

03:09:08.320 me a bow i don't need some like pull up your skirt curtsy shit give me the bow okay there should be

03:09:14.400 like a like a a reason though y'all y'all girls will have laundry lists of things you need and

03:09:20.000 well you have to treat her like a princess and a queen and then that's when she will bow you know

03:09:25.120 she'll do anything for you if she loves you but it's i'm just saying you have to treat her like

03:09:28.880 a princess like a queen i was gonna say how are you yeah how are you treating her because i think

03:09:32.400 we're kind of neglecting the like how does the girl feel emotionally like i feel like a girl treat

03:09:37.680 her great okay that's why you're amazing i let i let her i let her make food for me let her yeah i

03:09:44.960 let her scratch my back i let her massage my shoulders i'm a nice generous guy i i gift her

03:09:53.440 i'm gifting why do you not think you're part of the bdsm community that's what i'm trying to figure out

03:09:58.480 like what is happening right now so you oh did i say i'm not you are did i say i'm not you were

03:10:03.600 trying to you were did i say i'm not are you with everybody else but you said they're mentally you

03:10:07.520 were saying they're mentally ill no no well hold on there's a difference between like being slightly

03:10:12.080 dominant in a relationship slightly though that's like you literally want the like okay from here on

03:10:20.960 about to bow literally about literally about when you come home and run around and scramble your

03:10:25.920 noodles that's mild yeah this chick over here is talking about shibari okay that's some dumb

03:10:31.920 shibari over here and that's and that's an art form it's an art form that's rope play that's an

03:10:37.360 art she's a rope bunny no it's an art form she's literally just literally bdsm test.org she's a rope

03:10:44.000 bunny she wants shibari yeah that's great she wants to be tied up yes she's a rope bunny okay and what's the

03:10:50.080 point so do you mind we all we all agreed about here so she has a really great question about

03:10:55.760 like sorry the secret what makes a girl like got some cash what makes a guy worth submitting to

03:11:01.040 yeah that kind of thing thank you so anyway so in in the bible obviously it talks about like

03:11:05.120 submitting to somebody that kind of thing a lot of feminists get really hung up on that like oh

03:11:09.280 i'm not going to be a slave i'm not under you blah blah so one when it's talking about like i'm

03:11:13.920 going to be the head of the family if like you're you're a man people are like oh well you just want

03:11:18.080 to be in command you just want people to you know be your slave also being the head of the

03:11:22.160 family is not necessarily like a like a fun privilege because every single thing falls on

03:11:27.280 you like it whether it comes to providing for your family whether it comes to like

03:11:32.240 if your children are doing poorly in school if your children are getting into drugs if your

03:11:35.760 daughters are getting into like sex with like a bunch of random dudes or all this stuff that all

03:11:40.800 falls on you that is not under your like wife's role as a mom to do her role as a mom to do is to

03:11:46.400 create like a loving and nurturing environment and a home of peace that you want to come home to

03:11:50.560 when it comes to like bowing and everything like my one of my favorite things this has to do with a

03:11:53.920 mom instead of a thing but so solomon one of my favorite guys in the bible he's awesome he he

03:11:58.880 he so david with beth sheba the girl that was undressing on the roof that he had a she they

03:12:03.760 had a kid it was solomon anyways when he was king when his mom like entered the room

03:12:08.560 he literally like got up out of his okay but for his mom walked i know but this is it's very very

03:12:13.760 similar the way you treat your mom and the way you treat your your your wife are very similar

03:12:18.240 things in my opinion obviously without like the sexual preference like that yeah but then anyways

03:12:23.200 like you like he like walked up to her like like like inclined his head to her and said bring out

03:12:29.280 a throne like equal to mine so that she may sit by my side and then she said i was right right right

03:12:33.600 of his hand i i think that that's like a beautiful picture of like how a relationship should be like

03:12:38.400 your wife is like your equal like when me and my wife walk into a room that's like obviously this

03:12:43.440 i don't i don't i don't want to be a tyrant i don't want to be any of these things but like

03:12:47.520 if we live one second if we lived in like olden times like when me and my wife walked into the room

03:12:52.960 that's when everybody would bow like my wife's not sitting there bowing to me in front of a bunch of

03:12:56.720 people um but i think the thing that makes a guy like worth submitting to is like one he's a godly

03:13:02.320 leader of your home two he is like he will literally lay his life down but preferably he wouldn't

03:13:07.040 lay his life down he'll make the other guy lay his life down also the stories you're telling the

03:13:10.160 stories you're telling a sign of respect in those times we're washing someone's feet the head of the

03:13:13.840 household the wife the woman the children would wash the head of the household's feet so all of

03:13:19.760 those things are par and parcel for that time period it's not the time period we live in right now

03:13:25.440 although if you were having a power dynamic and you said i want you to have a foot bath ready when i

03:13:30.080 get home she's gonna have that she's gonna be on her hands and he's ready and and willing exactly

03:13:34.320 yeah that's that's a power dynamic and that's absolutely okay so like my i i i i'm not i don't

03:13:39.760 need my wife to wash my feet that's not like the thing i need but like i my wife would i guarantee you

03:13:44.320 would be willing to do it because she's like this guy like exactly such a kind and loving man to my

03:13:48.800 entire entire family so i think a guy that's worth submitting to is a guy that submits first to god

03:13:53.360 a guy who is willing to be like i i will like because when it says love your wife as you christ

03:13:58.480 love the church when christ when christ did for the church is he took all of their sin upon himself

03:14:03.680 like when eve ate the apple god didn't come down and get mad at eve he got mad at the man

03:14:08.800 and even though he he wasn't a part of it he was it was it was all her thing and so being the head of

03:14:14.560 the household submitting to a a man is not like oh you're my slave it's like hey thank you for like

03:14:20.240 taking all the freaking arrows from my family so that i can live in light and comfort and provide

03:14:24.800 this amazing home for my family and everything and like if my wife's like a lawyer or like any of

03:14:29.040 these things if she like wants to do something on the side that's fine but like my wife will be a

03:14:32.560 stay-at-home mom like she'll she'll want to like raise my kids and we'll like take over the the

03:14:37.120 world together like that's like yeah i take over the country you're just describing oh that can go

03:14:43.200 both ways definitely so yeah you were describing roles of a household which which every household

03:14:47.840 has roles like that and it can go both ways definitely i disagree i think i think men were

03:14:52.800 specifically is anybody down to show me about like do you want to you want to do a bow really quick

03:14:57.280 should we do a bow check oh girl i think that's a custom

03:15:03.680 oh what five ninety nine right for thirty ninety nine i will give you a bow so let me ask you this

03:15:10.880 i'm gonna pass specifically for you what is a man that you're looking for like some some qualities

03:15:15.840 like let's we'll cap it at like 90 seconds okay yeah like 90 seconds like what is a man you'd be

03:15:20.880 willing to submit to um emotionally stable loyal honest um mentally strong uh physically also like

03:15:33.440 takes care of his physical um problem solver planner those are big ones for me uh i also think nowadays

03:15:45.600 a lot of guys um are kind of scared to like put like their foot down and like be masculine yeah

03:15:55.120 um i feel like we've lost that and i think in my opinion me personally like a true perfect like power

03:16:02.720 dynamic would be like the man being like dominant and the leader and the woman following um and then i

03:16:09.200 think a lot of guys want to say like oh women aren't submissive enough like this on the third but they're not

03:16:14.640 leading with that role that's a good point that's a good point i think both men and women are

03:16:21.120 definitely lacking there's a lot of women who don't want to be followers let's say because in order for

03:16:28.160 you to want a follower or excuse me sorry excuse me in order for you to want the guy to lead you need

03:16:35.600 to be a follower so there's a lot of women who like desperately want like a assertive maybe even

03:16:41.680 dominant leader leader qualities masculine guy but they've been fed this from feminism essentially

03:16:48.400 that says be a boss babe like all this shit don't submit to a man whatever which is the least

03:16:53.920 attractive thing in the world so but it's like funny because like women so desperately want not

03:16:59.440 all women of course but women want men to be leaders but like you need to be a follower if you

03:17:04.400 want a guy to lead because there's that's the dynamic yeah i think deep down that's but then

03:17:09.600 our society would label that as like like a gold not like a gold digger but like they would label

03:17:18.160 that as like oh um like you know what i mean they would label the woman in like a sure not so but

03:17:25.920 you're you're right that's uh of course society's gonna attack you like you should be honored to be

03:17:30.240 attacked by society society sucks like with people like i was like people like i want to homeschool my

03:17:35.600 kids like oh well they won't fit into society and i'm like exactly i don't want my kids to fit in

03:17:39.520 society your society is weak your society is ill you guys are all so pathetic like my children will

03:17:45.760 run yours over like a train oh oh my god okay um but that's a very good point i definitely think

03:17:52.320 there's a lot of men that are slacking when it comes to that too so it's not just i think it's both

03:17:57.120 men and women that aren't really holding up um let me get a couple chats in here we have

03:18:01.360 one sec guys here we're going to do infinite singularity perhaps my previous comment was a tad

03:18:08.400 intricate ergo a bit of a stretch for easy digest digestion wouldn't want to strain anyone's mind

03:18:14.960 analyzing it vis-a-vis simplicity i'll ensure my future remarks are more apropos well done well done

03:18:23.280 way to go singularity well done singularity thank you we have okay we have mike

03:18:31.360 it's all good michael mckesson hey thank you man uh dude big 200 thank you dude northern wisconsin

03:18:37.360 here i need to find a woman who likes oh shit yo ab check thank you for the gift of 20 memberships

03:18:43.440 man you're a fucking legend you can northern wisconsin here i need to find a woman who likes hunting deer

03:18:49.200 in 40 below zero weather where's that woman at let me do you a solid here uh double m would any girl

03:18:55.840 like to uh date a man who wants to hunt in 40 below okay all right you guys all in favor of

03:19:13.680 he's gonna dm you guys the dms are in the descriptions though i'll pass you'll you'll pass

03:19:18.160 i'll take anything you're not willing to add to the three to five friends with benefits not if he's

03:19:22.320 gonna be hunting in 40 below i'm sorry michael you can have somebody in the tree stand are you you're

03:19:28.880 against hunting or whatever is that not that i'm against hunting i just don't want to hunt out in

03:19:34.000 the cold oh i see i see okay yeah like that just does not sound okay all right cool cool cool thank you

03:19:40.480 guys um let's see we have a village senator don't do others what you wouldn't want done to you if your

03:19:46.560 girlfriend left you for another man it wouldn't feel too good that woman is also a red flag she

03:19:51.360 can do the same to you in a relationship do you want to respond to he's not a senator no everyone

03:19:56.640 i'm not old enough he's a congressman i'm not old enough to be a senator yet it's annoying um

03:20:01.200 also stands so hard it's uh wow um but no that's a really good point that's something you have to be

03:20:06.240 really really careful of like i said that there was an extreme scenario i i that is not the rule

03:20:12.000 that would be the exception to it we have just being honest madison i do apologize i

03:20:16.160 respect your opinion admire your ability to express them i've had several friends leave

03:20:20.880 this earth because of an outside force as adults we should show self-control

03:20:26.240 totally agree man that makes a lot of sense it's uh you know it's like i respect people to make their

03:20:30.320 own decisions but you know it's it's just life's hard man like as the great canis owen said you know

03:20:35.040 life's hard get a helmet the people like that and like if you're struggling anybody let's listen

03:20:39.920 to this stream who's struggling with mental health or you're considering you're just opting the easy way

03:20:43.840 out sometimes you just have to sit down make a a t-graph of pros and cons of living and then make

03:20:49.440 a decision if you decide to continue living like hey man i'm going to leave whatever is behind me

03:20:54.400 and i'm going to live in spite of my weaknesses and my downfalls i mean that's something i had to do

03:20:58.720 like i struggle with that a lot but also don't be afraid like masculinity is not being in all alone

03:21:04.000 like you have to have your brothers around your fraternity is important you're not not going to be a

03:21:08.160 man because you're going through or struggling or you you know like every man and i feel like it

03:21:14.000 makes you more manly if you if you're able to express that yeah like i i don't trust people who

03:21:20.480 haven't been through a hard thing because like boiling water like it'll turn an egg hard it'll

03:21:23.840 turn a potato soft and like no no i don't trust you soft or not a man all right yeah so uh we have a

03:21:31.760 couple quite a few i need to still get through all my notes from all you guys we've got quite a bit to go

03:21:35.760 um we have some tiktok videos from you that we yeah from you um if i could have you scoot into the

03:21:45.120 table a little bit nick if you can and i want to pass please wait so this is nick make sure the audio

03:21:53.280 is on you look really cute so we're gonna play this it's totally unrelated to dating oh my gosh that

03:22:00.000 was like my most liked i think go ahead i love it next one next one now you've done this you've done

03:22:17.680 this for four at least four nick next one we got the next one oh no no the next one

03:22:27.040 next one next one

03:22:36.400 just blast it blast it blast it

03:22:37.760 am i nervous oh uh nick

03:22:39.200 he kept wanting more so i was giving them more

03:22:44.560 so i don't what is this what is this is this tiktok yes i don't know why but for some reason next one

03:22:53.280 or if you have to oh my gosh if you have to fix it wait can uh oh okay last one last one sorry

03:23:01.760 i'm sorry chad i'm sorry i'm sorry sorry go ahead go ahead oh louder i guess

03:23:12.880 max the audio again max the um so actually nick can you so here's what we're gonna do we're gonna

03:23:20.800 have you do it we're gonna play the audio we need you to do it right here in front of all of us

03:23:25.360 because i feel like i don't even remember how to like do it properly it was like two years ago

03:23:31.600 i can't i feel like it's got to be super embarrassing to do that in front of people

03:23:36.640 it is like that's the only that's the type of you have to do in your room alone exactly

03:23:40.960 there's nobody there's no one even in the house you can't even have people in the house

03:23:44.320 wait are you down to do it no i cannot come on i cannot i can't i'm sorry i don't even think i can

03:23:51.040 does any girl here want to try does anybody she has to teach us i think she would do it the best

03:23:55.360 though who yeah i think you would do it the best yeah wait dude the what oh wait what's the other one

03:24:03.680 wait the what what it's again oh cool i guess okay that was adorable yes

03:24:22.800 wait is the audio nick all the way oh no it's good um okay good times uh let me see okay we're all

03:24:30.880 caught up on chat so oh we have stifler here ask everyone to rate their looks looks on a scale of

03:24:38.560 one to ten we'll go around the table starting with cindy me i'm a ten okay do we start by ten let's just

03:24:49.680 say ten i'd give myself uh i'd give myself a good nine nine okay honest just looks just looks

03:25:00.880 eight eight eight okay i'm gonna say eight

03:25:08.400 a seven okay all right um i'm gonna go with eight okay i'm gonna go with eight too i'm gonna say ten

03:25:18.560 per period

03:25:20.000 okay uh madison what about you gosh you know what that the thumbnail you're using back there nick i

03:25:31.040 like that thumbnail you're using back there i'd say i was like a nine and a half like right now i'd say

03:25:35.200 i'm about an eight okay so you know we got some work to do but that's what makes life so fun you're

03:25:40.640 beautiful thank you i really appreciate that i think everybody's a ten right thank you

03:25:47.120 i get myself uh i used to say six but i'm a five because i've gained some weight i've got a

03:25:52.080 fucking dad bod right now i need to lose it i've gotten chubby so i'm a five the great part the great

03:25:58.480 part about being a guy is that you need to lose weight or anything you can just ask your friends

03:26:02.640 like text me once in a while and just say hey you're fat and you'll be like oh but you can't do it

03:26:06.720 it doesn't work for women but like for guys to brother to brother it's like it'll be like yeah

03:26:10.560 i am i gotta go with so 10 10 9 8 7 8 8 10 what wait so 10 10 9 8 7 no i said seven eight did i

03:26:25.680 said i said eight she said eight she said seven yeah nine eight wait hold on hey did i skip somebody

03:26:33.040 nine nine eight eight oh okay seven eight eight ten and you said everybody should be a 10

03:26:42.080 everybody should be a 10 everyone should everyone is a 10 everyone is full of beautiful women at this

03:26:48.720 table is a 10 you think you're not confident in yourself that's you but i feel like everybody's a

03:26:53.520 10 are so should all women view themselves as tens yes should should all are wait hold on are all women

03:27:00.320 tens yes i think so i think my personality is a 10 but well looks we're talking about so are are all

03:27:06.400 women tens no i think if a woman views like let's say a woman has really low self-esteem and she views

03:27:13.840 herself as a five i don't think that woman's a 10. wait i'm a little confused by that but okay

03:27:21.360 wait so but do you guys think that all women are tens all men are tens too well that's what i was gonna ask

03:27:27.840 are all are all men tens yeah it's just it's all mentality really like the bottom of this is that

03:27:34.640 no one is ugly and it's all mentality but i agree it's all mentality but i don't agree that we're

03:27:39.760 rating our looks we're not reading about how we feel so i agree and that's not rating your confidence

03:27:46.960 it's about like y'all are tens and delusion i can tell you that you guys have significantly overrated at

03:27:54.000 least almost every every person here almost every person here has overrated

03:27:59.040 all these girls can you rate us i actually i think what did you say you're seven i think that's

03:28:05.520 actually fair rating the rest of you however are delusional i think we spotted you off the street

03:28:15.680 girl and complimenting you up and down okay yeah i'm not i'm not i'm not regular that's all based on

03:28:25.280 it's subjective at the end of the day no it's not subjective there's an objective that's your

03:28:30.400 no i agree that it's not my opinion it's not my opinion no i know i can view you guys are tens and

03:28:36.800 delusion it's not my opinion it is delusional how am i but i've i've you are i've rated myself

03:28:45.680 average in my physical appearance but nobody's calling you delusional nobody's nobody's taking

03:28:50.800 any of your opinion and calling you delusional but but because we agree we might view you as a three

03:28:55.360 or two right that's our opinion is that your opinion yes please go ahead man okay she thinks

03:29:01.600 i'm not like that you're but my opinion is different than wait so just the just for the

03:29:06.880 chat so she thinks i'm a three and she thinks she's an eight that's literally what you just said

03:29:15.840 you could view you okay yes but that means that that's our opinion fine and if you want yeah fine

03:29:21.280 if you think but there's a little difference first off there's a difference of like thinking you're a

03:29:26.880 five and you're actually a three versus like being a seven or a six and thinking you're a ten

03:29:32.800 everyone's eyes like i view her as a ten right you view her you said you would agree with the seven

03:29:38.640 right yeah someone else could view her as a seven but someone else could view her as an eight so also

03:29:44.720 that rating is yeah like she's a ten like there's more there's more there's more your perception of

03:29:50.560 yourself does not determine how other people see you in the world i think it exactly just that's

03:29:56.480 why it's an opinion what right no but it's literally it is quite literally delusional like

03:30:07.520 keep saying okay but you think you think you're a ten yeah i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna rate you

03:30:13.200 but you're not a ten it doesn't matter that's your doesn't matter i didn't ask you it's not it's like

03:30:17.440 it's i didn't ask i view her it's objectively true you're not a ten i'm not delusional no you're

03:30:23.120 delusional delusional how am i delusional how am i delusional you think you're on par with the

03:30:27.760 most beautiful women in the world and you think your own i i think i'm an average looking guy you

03:30:32.400 think your own opinion about me i think that's a fairly accurate self-assessment i wasn't calling

03:30:36.320 you delusional either i'm feeding you back your own medicine because that's why that you're calling

03:30:40.640 these girls delusional i'm not even taking offense to it i'm just it's they're not they're not

03:30:44.640 delusional for their own opinion i took offense that's all i'm saying you took you took offense

03:30:48.560 well not no no shading but it's just like i've had i've had a guy tell me i'm a 10 and i've had

03:30:55.200 a guy tell me i'm a five oh here you can't really did the guy who called you at 10 did he want to

03:31:00.960 sleep with you no that was my boyfriend of like multiple months and we didn't of course your boyfriend

03:31:08.800 is gonna like so many guys of course your boyfriend is gonna yeah five or ten or seven

03:31:15.360 but i just feel like you're speaking for every yeah you can't speak for the whole male population

03:31:20.400 i can speak for most men i'll tell in my opinion in my opinion i think i think there are some things

03:31:26.160 like if you look at the oh like let's say 80 percent of guys that they will find you know generally

03:31:31.600 attractive in people it's like okay if you're like body fat percentage is like under eight like you're

03:31:36.560 probably pretty daggling attractive if you're like height is around this you know some things

03:31:40.320 that general generalities but like you know exactly i think that like it's hard to do an

03:31:47.920 objective like rating because it comes down to like it's it's more like art it's like i just feel

03:31:52.080 like you shouldn't say anyone's delusional and rating themselves yeah no but it is delusional

03:31:57.120 it is delusional delusion is the solulu yeah i i i think that it is important to be let me define

03:32:04.240 delusional so delusional characterized by or holding false beliefs or judgments about external reality

03:32:11.360 that are held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary typically as a symptom of a mental

03:32:17.040 condition so that's one having having false or unrealistic beliefs or opinions based on or having

03:32:23.200 faulty judgment mistaken so you don't dictate when it when it comes to the picture next to that

03:32:28.160 definition yeah but how can you say you're delusional for thinking you're beautiful so if

03:32:32.720 i think i'm pretty i'm delusional i have a mental issue no okay let me ask you guys a question let me

03:32:38.000 ask you guys yes if you're if you're like objectively unattractive or ugly i'm not saying that anyone here

03:32:45.280 at the table is but let's say you're objectively like have you ever seen an ugly person no have any be

03:32:51.120 honest have you guys ever seen an ugly person yes okay no and if that person said i am a 10 out of 10

03:32:57.600 in physical appearance and that's that increases their rating automatically automatically increases

03:33:02.800 the rate congrats cool you're attracted to people who are delusional i agree with that but okay we're

03:33:07.920 all pretty girls like you you can't like okay when there's like you're attract you guys are attractive

03:33:15.040 but like i think you guys are mostly average looking like okay i think that girls when they

03:33:33.040 do rate themselves too i think it's easier for them to just accept themselves as being tense because

03:33:37.600 it's like oh that's self-love instead of just being real with yourself and being like hey i can accept

03:33:42.480 that there's probably better looking women than me and that's that's the confidence that would be

03:33:46.800 the confident thing and i feel that then you can kind of date within what is kind of more for you

03:33:53.520 but saying you're a 10 doesn't mean you're saying you're more beautiful than every like there's no

03:34:00.800 hold on when you say you're a 10 you're just saying you're as beautiful as the most beautiful women

03:34:05.920 in the world and i go back to my same point it's about 10 out of 10 means you are there's nobody

03:34:14.000 more beautiful than you that's not true do you know what 10 out of 10 means because it's a rating

03:34:21.040 10 is the best there's not it's not a bullshit scale it's not a bullshit we all we're talking about

03:34:26.640 our everyone's different here and nobody not very many people brought up even looks at all so

03:34:31.760 that's not i mean you can cap about not caring about looks but you don't it wasn't top of the

03:34:36.320 list it was but but fine that's fine maybe you guys don't care about men's physical attractiveness

03:34:42.000 which i think is fucking cap and bullshit but you you don't get to dictate your your standing in the

03:34:48.960 dating marketplace men dictate yeah we're just telling you our opinion we're the as the men who are going

03:34:56.000 who date you the men get to dictate the men get to dictate for our opinion yo stop stop you don't

03:35:04.800 need to be fucking doing some bullshit fucking song and dance when i'm talking we express we explicitly

03:35:10.880 gave you instructions before the show to not be talking when somebody else is talking okay so please

03:35:17.520 yield to me if i'm talking don't interrupt let me finish no no see you don't need to laugh when i

03:35:25.120 tell you that you need to be like oops my bad sorry oh it's funny i'm laughing what's it's funny

03:35:30.160 stop talking what's funny yeah what's funny your argument against delusion it's funny to me no no

03:35:36.800 no but now i'm asking you to not be interrupting and talking while other people are talking that's

03:35:41.440 not funny let's just go ahead and yeah like why do you finish like for finish up i don't think most

03:35:48.800 i'm not saying y'all are like tens out of tens but no one here's like yeah i'm not saying

03:35:52.320 just you all you all are attractive women that's not what i'm saying but

03:35:58.640 you're not tens okay we're telling you our opinion though like why do you have to like

03:36:03.040 always i'll tell you i'll tell you why it's important i'll tell you why it's important because

03:36:07.600 all of you are stuck most of you are stuck in situationships you're getting strung along by chad

03:36:13.840 who's never going to give you commitment he's just going to fuck you and then you're

03:36:17.920 fucking curving guys who are actually on your level you're curving the dudes who are on your

03:36:23.600 level but you think you're above them because you're delusional and you think you're more

03:36:27.440 attractive than you actually are this is the biggest hold on this is the biggest problem in

03:36:32.240 the dating marketplace is women are so gassed up five hours huh no how do you know what's up

03:36:38.240 you can leave get out just leave get out calm if i'm in no no if i'm in the middle of talking i

03:36:44.000 don't need your everyone was just interrupting you though huh everyone was just interrupting you

03:36:48.720 like a second ago what's your point like why are you targeting her because she's complaining oh we've

03:36:54.000 been here for five hours blah blah blah blah what no she's saying we've been here for a long time

03:36:59.840 are you i'll let it i'm gonna let it slide but donated 200 stop fucking interrupting i am sorry but none of

03:37:05.600 you will be on the cover of victoria's secret spring collection anytime soon or ever you are not tens

03:37:12.320 life is very hard when you cannot be honest with yourself frank castle he's not wrong he's not wrong

03:37:18.560 about being honest with yourself the point i was trying to make before you so rudely interrupted and

03:37:24.160 we're talking why are you yeah huh moving on i need some more yo you what you have is and this is

03:37:33.200 evidenced by what's going on on dating apps is women are say are like swiping on only like the top

03:37:38.400 10 percent of dudes and these women are why are what's up with all the fuck boys and why don't why

03:37:43.520 can't i get commitment because you're curving the dudes who are actually on your level because you

03:37:48.720 think you're up here when you're not if you think you're hot shit but you're not you're going to be

03:37:53.120 chasing after these really attractive dudes who will never give you commitment they'll keep you around

03:37:57.760 for easy sex and you're curving the dudes you're friend zoning the dudes who actually would be good

03:38:02.400 boyfriends who are on your level who are as attractive as you are that's what's happening in

03:38:06.560 the dating marketplace can i can actually get what you're saying but how do you know that that's

03:38:13.760 here's the thing let me ask you guys a question do you guys want an average guy

03:38:17.760 here's the issue right average women don't want average guys because they think that they're not

03:38:24.240 average they think that they're above average but what how's the so what's how's that going to

03:38:29.200 translate in the dating marketplace you have average women that are going to be chasing after

03:38:33.600 either exceptional or above average men they're going to curve men who are average who are actually

03:38:38.960 on their level that's why you get caught up with fuck boys and in situationships and a guy never

03:38:46.000 committing to you or a guy who's cheating on you because you're shooting out of your league

03:38:49.600 and so if you think you're a 10 surely you must deserve a 10 you're going to chase after chad and

03:38:54.880 you're never going to give the you're going to spend your 20s fucking a bunch of dudes you're

03:38:58.560 never going to like actually get into a proper monogamous relationship you'd rather have the

03:39:03.440 divided attention of a hyper attractive guy than actually have commitment from like an average dude

03:39:08.880 because you think you're above average that's the problem in the dating marketplace and that's why

03:39:12.960 this is a humble check go ahead i think that also the reason why girls have this um like

03:39:19.040 perception that they're more attractive than they actually are is because guys even the

03:39:23.840 most attractive guys will give attention to average women and then i think girls start thinking oh

03:39:31.200 maybe i am actually hotter but it's true when they say they're not going to commit to you though

03:39:35.840 guys are just just want that and if they're going to get it from a girl that's going to give it to

03:39:40.240 them well then sure they're going to take it i think a lot of women nowadays uh confuse sex with like

03:39:47.600 true commitment yeah especially with like social media now i think it's a lot different

03:39:54.880 i agree with that word well that's the thing is like for okay here's the difference right

03:40:01.120 this is where women will get into trouble so a guy can be for a guy to sleep with a girl

03:40:07.360 he'll sleep with a girl that he would never be in a relationship with just based purely on her looks

03:40:12.160 but he'll sleep with her he might keep her around friends with benefits etc she'll never get

03:40:17.040 commitment just based purely on her physical attractiveness typically i would say for most

03:40:22.320 women in order for most women to sleep with a guy be it casually well for casual sex he needs to be at

03:40:30.320 least physically attractive enough to be in a relationship with

03:40:34.320 yeah there's a really cool it's like i was just just trying to think of it i couldn't

03:40:39.520 bring it to the top of my head jordan peters talks about it a lot we're like basically men will date

03:40:44.000 even and down whereas women will date even and up it's just like it's it's been that way for a very

03:40:48.960 long time but it's gotten such to an extreme point because this there's this massive movement for self

03:40:55.040 love body positivity all these things where girls think that sometimes that they're significantly more

03:41:00.000 attractive than they are but you know a lot of it comes down to i think it's really easy to find a

03:41:07.440 pretty girl it's really easy to find a smart girl it's really easy to find a girl that brings you

03:41:11.440 peace and it's fun to be around super difficult to find one that combines all three of those things

03:41:16.400 and so you know if there is a guy who is looking for a you know someone who hits like nine and ten and

03:41:22.720 ten on those three categories he's going to be a pretty freaking studly dude if he thinks he's going

03:41:27.600 to be able to acquire that whereas girls i think sometimes when they're like they're starting to

03:41:32.080 get into like their later years like why have i not been able to marry a guy and it's like oh because

03:41:36.240 this guy didn't view me as like an option for him and so i think that's kind of what uh he's trying to

03:41:40.320 get at um but you know it's just feminism has the third wave feminism fourth wave feminism are

03:41:47.360 destroying our entire culture it is empowering women to a point where they think that they shouldn't have

03:41:54.080 that they are the exact same as men and that they should they don't want to be equal to men they

03:41:59.200 want to be overpowered to men they want men to be subservient to them and that's just not how

03:42:04.240 culture is built and and again i think all of you guys not in the very beginning we were talking about

03:42:08.880 how on every single metric life is getting worse no matter if you're you know far left far right

03:42:14.400 life in the west is getting worse it's getting more dangerous is getting harder to live it's getting

03:42:19.200 harder to make a living it's getting significantly harder for people our age to be able to buy a house to

03:42:23.840 start a family to do all these things and i think the root cause of that one we can go into the root

03:42:29.680 cause of why this happened which is the fall of ussr and then those guys taking over our higher

03:42:34.320 higher education institutions but what their main attack vector was is by creating this feminist

03:42:41.920 ideology that women should be overpowered to men and that they are equal to men and that just leaves

03:42:47.920 us vain broken and empty households and very very sad in the long run and that's why we were having the

03:42:53.440 fewest amount of people our in our age group which i think we're all pretty much in the same generation

03:42:58.080 in our age group getting married and having children and if our birth rate does not continue to it does

03:43:02.880 not abruptly start rising the west is going to fall we're going to fall to the far east it's just it's

03:43:07.840 not even a question agreed i agree too i think that i i get where you guys are coming at like

03:43:16.080 my last relationship i didn't date like a chat i didn't date someone who was like just you know

03:43:23.280 straight off the bat like this guy is very attractive he definitely also has a lot of other girls that are

03:43:30.320 on his roster trying to date him and stuff and so i went to that route where i got to know him he took me

03:43:37.040 on like on dates we vibes like we had a lot of things in common and so that's kind of what i'm

03:43:45.200 looking for and a guy that i'm going to marry half my kids with yeah so i'm not looking for someone that's

03:43:51.120 like a like a player you know and that's just not that's not the guy that i want to marry i think what

03:44:00.560 you said about um like us like you know like birth rates are going down um and where like our society

03:44:07.920 is headed i think a big part of like that that root is family and love and creating those ideals

03:44:15.840 within your family to promote like a stronger um society and we are losing that absolutely because

03:44:22.960 like our federal government is completely out of control that if you pick any three letters in the

03:44:27.440 alphabet and put them together it's the acronym for some massive organization that has way too much

03:44:31.840 power over your life it's absurd it's the reason why you're getting a lot of like you a very harmful

03:44:36.880 birth control pills pushed on young girls like oh you have acne well here take this hormone affecting

03:44:41.840 thing that's going to like destroy your body and make you attracted to someone that you're not you're

03:44:45.520 genetically not naturally attracted to um and the main reason i apologize um so anyways our federal

03:44:53.200 government is going significantly too powerful um on on that point uh who here is on birth control

03:44:59.520 i'm just curious anybody on birth control show just show of hands anybody buehler about to get on it

03:45:05.200 iud i'm about to get off because i have the iud but okay all right yeah i mean just really quick on

03:45:12.160 this is the 10 thing and then we're going to move on i would argue when it comes to looks right

03:45:15.680 your league looks wise is the men who will marry you and commit to you long term our league is the

03:45:23.840 women that we can sleep with i think men women are very different because men will sleep with an ugly

03:45:29.920 girl just for pussy if a girl's just going out and wants dick she's going to like find the hottest

03:45:36.800 possible guy that she can for that so it's totally different like guys if we just want some pussy

03:45:42.640 we're gonna be like okay care like a little bit less about looks whereas for a chick like if you

03:45:51.200 just want some dick you want the hottest dude possible but i feel like when i have sex with a guy

03:45:58.480 like i can't help but care like we as women are more emotional sure right so i can't help but care so

03:46:08.640 like i'm just not that type of woman but oh i'm just saying that i'm not saying all like some women

03:46:15.200 don't like casual sex but if you do search out casual sex you're probably gonna be like i want

03:46:20.880 the hottest guy pot like if it's a one-night stand i want to get with the hottest guy possible

03:46:25.200 for a one-night stand you're not gonna be like i want a funny guy no you want the funny guy for like

03:46:30.160 a relationship whatever but like for a one-night stand you're gonna go fuck the funny guy no you're

03:46:36.320 probably gonna like prefer the like most physically attractive dude sure i mean if he can get you

03:46:42.960 going i guess but it's pretty different so it's pretty different so um here i'm gonna get finally

03:46:50.400 get into my what's up i said bobby lee i did like multiple videos with bobby lee bobby lee did you

03:46:57.920 fuck him love bobby who's oh wait bobby lee who the one that the one that has the podcast so i know

03:47:07.760 the girl you're talking about but i also she actually did a video with bobby the other the asian comedian

03:47:17.440 wait why did you bring up bobby lee yeah did you date him or something no no he's just a comedian i made a

03:47:22.480 lot of like tiktok and instagram videos that went viral with me oh cool yeah bobby lee is great that's

03:47:29.440 cool okay i thought you're trying to make the point that you like funny guys so you hooked up with bobby

03:47:34.880 lee is that no i'm not saying i'm just saying exactly she didn't hook up with you didn't hook up with him

03:47:41.200 despite him being exceptionally funny so obviously physical attractive is important and i actually

03:47:46.480 argue women care far more about looks than men do i argue against well for example here's my stand

03:47:53.280 perspective i agree with you even well here's here's my example like here's my argument for this so

03:47:59.680 of the things that are in women's control and in men's or excuse me that are out of women's control and

03:48:04.640 out of men's control when it comes to physical appearance women care about far more metrics that

03:48:08.640 are totally out of men's control like they have no control over it for example height men can't control

03:48:13.920 their height a lot of women care about height if the guy's balding a lot of women would prefer to

03:48:20.320 date a guy with a full head of hair especially certainly if they're younger but some guys start

03:48:24.400 balding in their early 20s even in their teens um penis size out of a man's control a lot of women care

03:48:32.800 about that so i mean there's a lot of things that women care about when it comes to looks that are totally

03:48:40.000 out of dude's control whereas for men you could actually get surgery now though to increase your

03:48:44.560 height i don't count like people be getting surgery to increase their height i don't think men should

03:48:49.760 be doing that that regardless though i still think men care more about appearance yeah yeah like you're

03:48:56.880 right like no you can't control your height if you're balding your body like you can't do anything

03:49:00.720 about it but i would say women care more about things that aren't physical

03:49:05.440 how tall are you guys do i'm five foot do you have a bare minimum height no you'll date a guy

03:49:12.080 who's five one my last boyfriend was i think like on the shorter side me too i didn't care and that's

03:49:19.360 fine that's fine but i would argue most women prefer a guy who's like i don't really care my only

03:49:25.840 preference is that he was taught he's taller than me but that's not really hard for me because i'm short

03:49:30.320 sure but you wouldn't date a guy who's shorter than you it sounds like granted most men are probably

03:49:35.520 most men are probably taller than you so but i don't have a set height okay i would argue though

03:49:43.520 most women like prefer taller guys in fact they they very much typically like i think guys are shorter

03:49:49.760 girls i don't think the thing the difference is though between men and women is height typically is

03:49:55.840 never going to be a deal breaker for a guy i think like they might have a preference they might have

03:50:02.000 a preference a lot of guys have that preference and i think a lot of guys like hate that idea that

03:50:06.560 of a woman being taller than them yeah no i i disagree i've also seen a lot on social media

03:50:11.840 like tall girls coming out talking about that and it's i mean i would argue that men not wanting to

03:50:18.480 date a taller woman that's probably more so because they know that taller women don't want to date shorter

03:50:24.560 guys well i guess you could say it goes so they've had experiences i think i've had experiences

03:50:30.320 where i've like for some magical reason if the girl like i'm six foot one mind you so like i'll

03:50:35.680 encounter a girl who's six two six three should even a girl who's six feet she's like brian i'd rather

03:50:41.840 a guy who's six three six four six five like so i think it granted i i there are probably guys out

03:50:49.120 there that are probably insecure about their height and that can manifest manifest itself negatively in a

03:50:54.320 relationship but i would argue typically that's going to fall on the woman the woman's going to

03:50:58.560 have an issue with it therefore it's going to be uh it's just going to be a problem on her end

03:51:04.240 so okay yeah the hardest part for me if i'm dating a girl over six foot because i used to be six three

03:51:08.640 love to swing dance still enjoy swing dancing in a wheelchair but if i go for a dip and she's like

03:51:12.720 over six it's really hard for me to get my hand all the way on her head so that's that's my biggest issue

03:51:17.600 there but yeah i i think that one thing like we're when we're talking about if girls like guys

03:51:22.320 based on their looks or not i think that like in the sexual marketplace i'm talking when i say that

03:51:27.040 i'm talking about the dating marketplace and everything i think that it really comes down

03:51:30.480 to a lot of women are judged by basically like how far they fall off the top of the mountain

03:51:35.200 which basically is saying that like you know and this kind of we were talking about like guys prefer

03:51:40.080 girls that are like you know younger and have been with like less guys for whatever reason i think

03:51:44.080 it's just kind of genetically designed to us like we can rip on why that is but you know i think there's

03:51:48.240 some valid reasons for it and this is why girls who are like normally like you know in their young

03:51:53.200 20s or mid-20s are way more attractive than women who are like in their 40s whereas guys women will date

03:51:58.880 older guys all the time i mean it happens all the time guys are judged by how much they climb the

03:52:04.320 mountain like when a guy is 19 years old he is the least attractive to the majority of women but if a guy

03:52:09.600 is like at 33 years old he has built like a business empire he is like solidly built physically he is

03:52:15.680 like a got a solid head on his shoulders he had to build those things whereas a woman's normally

03:52:20.400 born with the attributes that make her the greatest aside from personality it has to be developed and

03:52:24.160 all those things and so i i yeah i think guys are judged and in how when girls are like thinking about

03:52:29.680 who they want to marry by how far they climb up that mountain and they get so caught up when they're in

03:52:34.960 their young 20s and they're getting gassed up by everybody just being chasing after like i want the hottest

03:52:38.960 guy in the entire world but then when it comes time to get married they're like yeah that guy was like a jock

03:52:43.520 in high school or they played college football but now you know he's just you know does like a

03:52:48.640 something like you know not not a he hasn't built himself now he's got like a drug addiction and a

03:52:54.080 porn addiction those aren't the people you want to marry you want the guy who has a solid faith built

03:52:58.400 and wants to create a family and provide and protect them that's and so yeah i those are hard to find

03:53:04.160 though it is i think girls are really interested in those kind of qualities more so than what they're

03:53:08.880 they're physically attracted to and that's where they get so fucked up when they're super young

03:53:13.440 they are just chasing like the hottest guy they can find for clout or for whatever because they

03:53:17.520 want to look good on an instagram picture but it's just not going to pay off in the long run yeah i mean

03:53:21.440 i think a lot of girls that are seeking long-term long-term commitment um aren't also aren't just

03:53:27.840 chasing after looks yeah you know i think there's bigger things and i think people are aware of that

03:53:33.200 sorry sorry sorry no go ahead i also feel like guys that are typically physically more attractive

03:53:41.680 like like um when you look at their instagram you're like yeah this guy's they're they can also be

03:53:47.920 low-key gay at the same time like they can't be as much about like you know what i mean like

03:53:57.440 yeah like low-key a little too obsessed with themselves and then you find out that like perfect

03:54:02.720 loafers like i honestly prefer a guy that like isn't i don't know why i kind of like a guy who's

03:54:09.680 like a little bit ugly yeah low-key just a little bit warm a little bit yeah and i was at a restaurant

03:54:18.640 the other day and i thought the server was like really hot and he was gay so oh rip guys in the chat

03:54:26.080 for uh for her okay it's the water man they're turning the frogs maybe having their eyebrows

03:54:31.200 it's now starting to make the humans gay it's ridiculous the water is turning the frogs gay

03:54:35.840 and now it's turning us gay oh shit it's okay there you have it here i want this is so unrelated but

03:54:41.920 it's came up in a previous uh podcast so i want to touch on it going around the table starting with

03:54:47.360 cindy generally speaking are men stronger than women physically i hate this question men are

03:54:54.320 stronger physically no opinion but wait hold on yeah including the fifth on that one you don't

03:55:01.840 have wait can i hold on you don't have an opinion on that no what do you mean i don't have an opinion

03:55:07.600 how do you you don't have an opinion what do you what do you think i don't have an opinion you don't

03:55:13.200 want to answer the question i don't have an opinion is that okay what do you mean you i

03:55:18.160 well is it is it is it that you don't want to share your opinion oh no that's not what it is

03:55:26.560 what do you mean the statistics like generally speaking are men physically stronger than women

03:55:32.880 no opinion you don't have an opinion no so you let me ask you a question then do you think men and

03:55:38.800 women are of equal strength generally speaking no opinion are you just being bad faith intentionally

03:55:46.080 no you don't like my answer that's all would i it's well you you haven't given me you haven't

03:55:53.600 given me an answer so there's not really room for me to like or dislike your answer is the is the

03:55:59.520 is the reason you're wanting to plead the fifth because you're afraid of kind of the cultural backlash

03:56:03.600 of like oh well people think that everybody can be just as strong as everybody it's not true

03:56:07.040 i was just curious no okay what's your reason what's your reason for pleading the fifth no

03:56:13.600 is are you just going to answer that to every question no i don't have an opinion on this topic

03:56:17.920 thank you next what yeah it's just this topic she just doesn't really have an opinion on this topic

03:56:24.000 i think you do have an opinion you just don't want to share it that there's a difference not

03:56:28.640 everything is that deep though i don't think you know why are you how about you let her speak for

03:56:32.960 herself oh i was gonna say no opinion thank you i don't have an opinion on the topic i mean

03:56:42.400 i don't think that's a good faith answer though i think you do have an opinion you just don't want

03:56:47.200 to share it okay my opinion is debatable and it depends and that's my only opinion

03:56:53.760 no but it we're removing it depends from the conversation because the question is generally

03:56:59.520 speaking are men physically stronger than women i have no opinion on that thank you but you just

03:57:05.120 said it depends yeah on what on everybody else's opinion so it depends on everybody else's opinion

03:57:15.280 i mean you're just kind of being bad faith here so i feel like if i ask you other questions you're

03:57:19.680 just gonna here okay i'll ask i'll ask i will come back to the strength thing though um do you

03:57:26.720 think and i'll start with you why not do you think that you can be sexist against men oh yeah

03:57:32.400 okay do you think you can be racist against white people absolutely okay all right i'm surprised

03:57:38.480 that you i'm a little surprised that you engaged on that but not the strength conversation anybody can

03:57:45.840 be racist at any time so that's again it's it's more uh it's there's no black and white there yeah

03:57:53.760 yeah you had a visceral reaction i'm surprised that the strength one was the i'm just okay we'll

03:57:59.680 come back to the strength one really quick that would be a question on a dating podcast yeah

03:58:05.200 well because i'll tell you why i'll tell you why i mean i can tell you why because for example with

03:58:10.320 the sexist thing uh your views on men can certainly influence how you perceive men how you engage with

03:58:17.680 men in romantic relationships so for example if you hold certain positions when it comes to that

03:58:22.720 question that might certainly dictate how you treat men how you view men and that's incredibly important

03:58:28.240 and obviously like uh your shared values that sort of thing so we can go around the table on that

03:58:35.440 though um well first let's do the strength one do you think generally speaking are men stronger than women

03:58:39.600 yeah yes yes yes yes yes yes yes madison do you want a million percent okay not even close

03:58:52.480 um fuck going around the table on can you be sexist towards men yes she said yes

03:58:59.120 um yeah yeah yes yes yes yes yes absolutely yeah absolutely can you be racist against white people yes

03:59:16.400 yeah um no comment so but my my whole thing on these is i think anytime there's an ist or an ism

03:59:25.760 attached to anything it just means that you are treating a certain person based on your previous

03:59:32.240 engagements with people that match that category so if you're like oh let's say that you're abused by

03:59:37.200 almost like 80 of the men that you've been around your entire life and then like you you're going to

03:59:42.800 have a pattern recognition where you're like wait a minute i feel in danger because a man just walked

03:59:47.120 in the room and 80 of the time i see a man he's gonna hit me and so then that would be that would

03:59:52.080 then make you like it and it's not saying that it's wrong i'm not saying that that that using

03:59:56.160 statistics is wrong but it would then make you like oh if i any man i see i'm going to judge based on

04:00:01.200 other men and so sorry no please go but can i give an example i'd love examples let's say like a white

04:00:07.200 person goes to like the middle east or china right and it's like a whole like a race the main race would

04:00:16.400 be if you go to china chinese people correct and a white person goes there and the chinese people look

04:00:21.040 at the white person they're like oh like you know those people are racially profiling that white

04:00:28.800 person that's not of their race wouldn't that be being racist i feel like we should go around the

04:00:46.560 table and get everybody's answer on this before we go into this so well you i just said no no comment

04:00:52.960 i think that's a no you i'm assuming that's a yeah that's why we're that's a no it's a no comment

04:00:58.000 because i think that's a no you don't want to what get into it yeah i don't really you don't want the

04:01:03.120 black square people to come after you no i'm just i'm like i i love everybody i i don't really trip

04:01:08.480 about that because you treat everyone based on the content of their character versus others yeah so okay

04:01:13.040 okay what about you yes uh yes you can what he just said i agree so wait yes you can be racist

04:01:24.000 against white people it's it depends like oh like i don't really know how to like say it it's just um

04:01:34.320 um why does it have to just be white people why oh yeah no no no substitute can you be racist

04:01:43.440 no you can be you can be racist against any race oh yeah well yeah can you be racist against white

04:01:48.560 people the question is because a lot of our intellectuals in the country yeah they're trying

04:01:55.040 to trick us right a lot of tricks there's no trick it ain't a trick we black we can't we can't

04:02:00.880 offer something now i wouldn't like i know how to answer it for you go ahead so i know she doesn't

04:02:09.040 she's not a racist okay so stop the cat just kidding just kidding it just depends on the person so it's not

04:02:16.160 just like oh i'm just racist towards white people it's the person so if you act like you know

04:02:23.120 i'm something yes there's racists out there sure i'm saying but okay let me ask you a question can

04:02:27.360 you be racist against black people like can anybody be racist against black people yes okay so can you

04:02:33.920 be racist against white people i don't know no comment again being racist being any ism anything

04:02:43.920 anything about that is whenever you're treating someone not based on the content of their personal

04:02:48.480 character but rather a generalization of that community yeah i wouldn't do that right you wouldn't

04:02:54.160 do that but it's just like is it possible like approach me on some racist like stuff which is one

04:03:00.480 of the reasons i fucking love this country i'm i'm tears give me give me like give me like two seconds

04:03:06.160 because like what you're talking about like when you go to like the uae or when you go to china or any

04:03:09.600 of these places you can go there and if you're like a high net worth person or whatever you can

04:03:14.080 move there they will accept you as a citizen any of these things but if you're in china and you don't

04:03:19.440 have a lineage of like nine generations of being in china and speak fluent mandarin you will never be

04:03:24.800 chinese in their eyes whereas if you come to my country and you say the pledge of allegiance that

04:03:29.440 you stand under our flag that you will fight for our country and that you believe in our people above

04:03:33.200 all else aside from god then you're an american that's why i love this country so much it's just like

04:03:38.160 like i will accept freaking everybody if they love my country and they and they love our western

04:03:45.120 values that is just what i love about it it's amazing like my one our greatest freaking congressman

04:03:50.880 in the united states congress right now is named byron donalds he's a black guy he is freaking amazing

04:03:56.080 he is going to be president of the united states he's a hardcore conservative he is just a freaking badass

04:04:02.240 and the reason that he's a badass is because he doesn't define things by race he doesn't cut things

04:04:07.280 and all these things where it it's a trap that the elites in this country have tried to do because

04:04:12.720 people are so much easier to control when they're fighting against each other not unified as a

04:04:17.120 people if we all just came together and said you know what i'm going to judge you based on what i

04:04:21.120 know about you not on the fact that you're asian i know a lot of people have tattoos on their chest

04:04:25.280 i'm not going to judge you based on people that have tattoos on their chest i'm going to judge

04:04:28.320 you based on the content of your character that's not saying that you can't use statistics to your

04:04:31.360 advantage if you're in a dangerous situation or anything like that that's just saying that in this country

04:04:36.240 if you love this country you take the pledge of allegiance to my country and you are a citizen

04:04:40.320 i will defend you with my last breath regardless of who you are what you worship or anything i will

04:04:45.760 die for you because you're an american but i don't think every american is that way though no that's

04:04:50.640 the problem but then that was beautiful what i was going to say is i feel like a lot of places

04:04:57.760 outside of america have a very different view because i feel like america is a predominantly white

04:05:03.920 you know word 37 i'm not gonna lie well i wouldn't let any other country boom girl

04:05:12.880 air five oh there we go the reach was good on that okay so let me finally get into some of my

04:05:18.400 pre-show notes here cindy actually do we have two tweets from cindy let's do cindy's two tweets here

04:05:23.680 she's got two tweets cindy i was so much i hope this isn't gonna just destroy rip

04:05:29.280 i was wondering oh bigger bigger bigger bigger bigger bigger bigger is that what she says in

04:05:35.600 the tweets cindy my guilty my guilty pleasure is watching men do stuff for me yes period what does

04:05:44.240 that what does it mean to for men to do things for you uh talking about the hose no i'm not talking

04:05:51.200 like the hose don't do things for you they my friends my met my guy friends over here so what

04:05:57.600 what does that mean what does that look like i'm just appreciating like men in general like that

04:06:05.600 you know like my security guard he helps me all the time your security guard yeah my security guard

04:06:11.520 that do you pay him um he he gets paid by the hour oh i thought you about to say with like

04:06:17.360 pussy or something you get you pay him a pussy oh no no no just a little out there i'm just that's

04:06:24.080 yeah i love men but what's so cool about that oh go ahead move it what but the tweet said you like

04:06:31.680 watching men do things for you so i assume they're like doing things for free like they're like

04:06:36.240 taking you on trips they're getting you gifts they're acts of service type of yeah i would love

04:06:43.040 that i would love that too you know if you want to like send me stuff

04:06:50.800 no so anyways i'm gonna make i'm gonna make your tweets so i'm gonna make your tweet so much better

04:06:55.840 all right um you put pull back opposite direction there we go um so anyways like in my household

04:07:05.440 there were extraordinarily defined gender roles in my household like my brother my dad and i i we have

04:07:12.880 a four-person family like my mom did like all of like you know the the stuff that you would normally

04:07:17.760 attribute to like what women did like the 1950s like my mom is like the definition of a meninist

04:07:22.800 she's awesome but like my mom freaking loves sitting there and being like like i provide for my the men in

04:07:28.960 my household and yeah they mow my grass they will plant any tree i want if i want a couch picked up and

04:07:33.840 set on top of its side my sons will do that because i raised freaking warriors and so anyways that tweet

04:07:38.880 could be really cool if it's just that you like watching men do stuff for you because they're simps

04:07:42.640 and they're just like betas that's probably not as as wholesome but anyways we're just going to read

04:07:47.760 it in the best i think it's coming from the same place though i know it's definitely coming from the

04:07:51.040 same place yeah it's the um like intention behind it i think i don't think i mean it's not my tweet but

04:07:58.480 maybe if she's your girlfriend but if she ain't your girl you shouldn't be doing that

04:08:03.040 shit for a chick so and it sounds like and it sounds like you like men that do things for you

04:08:09.440 that you're not dating is kind of what i'm pulling from that tweet so simps basically so my public

04:08:16.800 service announcement is don't be a simp don't be doing shit for girls you're not dating hello and

04:08:23.280 remember you're always it's always good to be kind it's always good to just you know do things because

04:08:29.840 you want to do it with no don't be guys don't be simping for these chicks like we had a chick a

04:08:36.320 previous show who said oh i was at chipotle and the guy behind me paid for my chipotle

04:08:42.160 and that was it bro that's some simp don't be doing weird

04:08:47.600 that's tricking dude he's a trick he's like tricking on these girls hell no

04:08:51.920 y'all don't though y'all don't be oh look at that guy let me just go pay for his chipotle women don't

04:08:57.760 like we do i mean i will say like if i saw like and if i saw a girl that matched kind of what i

04:09:05.200 said that i i like don't do it and she was ahead of you don't do it matt okay all right i'm not

04:09:12.400 but if i saw a girl ahead of me in chipotle and i want an opportunity to talk to her and like i mean

04:09:16.320 it's the same thing she would do at a bar like oh that girl's drinks on me and then like you have

04:09:20.160 an opportunity to talk to her but like you know obviously if you're if you're just being manipulated

04:09:24.560 and dominated by a girl to just your reputation is currency and these women that you think that

04:09:29.280 most of us think are destroying the west and destroying our culture are only having influence

04:09:34.000 because we give it to them i think it's an i think you should be i think you should be nice to your

04:09:39.200 girl you should do nice things for your girl until she's your girl if she's not your girl and

04:09:45.680 until she's your girl you don't get that kind of nice treatment i agree like you don't get no you

04:09:52.480 you don't buy some random chick shit i also feel like um for me like men do lose a little bit of

04:09:58.000 their value when they act like that because then it just makes me think like how many other girls do

04:10:02.000 you act like this for he's a simp he's a trick he's a sucker i don't know one of my favorite one of my

04:10:08.320 favorite girlfriends of all time i was trying to get her to date me and like you know we were like we

04:10:12.800 had been on like two or three dates and she just kept talking about this freaking chicken coop she

04:10:16.080 wanted to build and so i just chicken coop yeah so i just like i popped by and built a freaking

04:10:20.160 chicken coop next thing i know she's my girlfriend the next day it was great you're a good that was

04:10:23.680 the that was like the the tipping point right she wasn't sure about you and then you built her a

04:10:29.200 chicken coop and then she was like i guess i'll date that's that act of service it's a love language

04:10:34.880 you're a real man okay okay but not to each their own to each their own medicine but i not just do it

04:10:42.400 for girls who are just keeping you in the friend zone i personally would not build a chicken coop for a

04:10:47.680 woman on a third date to each their own if you want as a guy if you want to do that if you

04:10:54.480 go for it i think it's maybe a little ill-advised if it's a girl that like you're trying to date and

04:10:59.840 you're trying to make like your wife i think you would do acts of service for her not that me

04:11:06.080 personally not that early on okay maybe three years in well when do you want me to bow to you

04:11:12.720 what date is that oh immediately she's got a bow immediately of course i got you yeah the bow has

04:11:18.640 to be boom but the paper chipotle gotta wait out yeah the 20 bowl yeah chipotle's absurdly expensive

04:11:30.080 too like i mean it is but that's like three meals and like one thing but if you get that um just the

04:11:36.000 the app you can get the discount and stuff or just take the doordash take the doordash off the shelf

04:11:43.840 yeah like like 12 chipotle chipotle cindy hold on can you pull the mic closer to you please

04:11:53.520 yep cool uh what do you what kind of content do you make on of is it solo boy girl girl girl content

04:12:00.480 i make solo and you don't do boy girl girl girl i said more solo and more boy girl boy girl i have

04:12:12.000 done boy girl before on your only fans girl girl i've done i've done girl girl content i'm open to

04:12:18.320 everything nick can you pull up her and cindy's instagram please um so i'm i'm noticing you you're

04:12:27.760 wearing a cross oh not too much i'm noticing i'm wearing a cross you're wearing a cross yes are you

04:12:38.000 do you consider yourself a christian i believe in god i believe in jesus i mean the cross is a

04:12:44.400 christian symbol yeah i don't go to like i don't go to like church every sunday but i pray almost sure

04:12:52.240 like nick do you have it so this is your instagram yeah haram um so you have so in addition to you

04:13:00.240 wearing the cross you have god first and then right below god first you we're not going to click on that

04:13:06.960 link you have your website which links to your only fans where you do pornographic where you do pornographic

04:13:16.480 yes but it also links to that's your link tree or whatever where it links to your only fans where

04:13:22.240 you do solo nude content boy girl content girl girl content yeah you're wearing a cross um make that

04:13:30.000 make sense for me so i am very grateful and blessed that god gave me the the position to do what i do

04:13:39.600 right now and that is where i'm gonna leave it wait just a clarifying question god put you can you

04:13:48.640 repeat that for me one more time yeah i said i'm very blessed that god gave me this position god what

04:13:56.240 position is that to everything that like to do porn um i don't do like i don't do that on my olah you

04:14:04.080 said you do solo boy girl girl girl content okay but you have to find out to see what kind of content

04:14:11.120 that is with a girl and a guy so are you you have to subscribe and talk to me and get to know me you

04:14:22.880 mean talk to your typer but um no it's like one-on-one chats i actually talk to you personally i'm sure um so

04:14:34.080 so you do i mean do you do do adult content with you do do nude content that's what it sounds like

04:14:43.840 correct yes okay so you're saying that god put you in the position to do nude content solo with other

04:14:55.520 women and with other men is that correct no god can be like okay straight into the mic so

04:15:01.920 yes like i don't know how to like i'm just grateful that i'm able to do it's more than that

04:15:10.000 to her yeah it can be more than just a video or just a picture it's like you know financially

04:15:17.920 or what something that she likes to do okay but so

04:15:23.840 you're wearing a cross do you let me ask you a question um do you wear your cross

04:15:28.720 yes while you're engaging in producing porn or only fans content have you i always wear my cross

04:15:35.840 you always wear your cross okay so get off so you wear yes you wear it while you're engaging in porn and

04:15:42.480 only fans content yes when i make my content i am wearing my cross sure and so do you think it sounds

04:15:50.240 like do you think that god approves of you doing porn basically yeah it's not hurting anybody i do it very safely

04:15:59.120 do you do you think god wants wants you making porn god said that he loves everyone

04:16:06.480 okay and what they do so okay i have a question if god wants you to be a porn star

04:16:16.080 or do only fans or make nude content what do you think satan wants

04:16:24.080 i don't like talking about that that person you don't like talking about satan

04:16:30.000 what but okay what if if you're saying that god has put you in this position to do only fans to do porn

04:16:37.360 if he wants you to be doing that what do you think satan wants

04:16:45.680 he wants me to stop doing what i do i guess

04:16:52.560 satan wants you to not do porn and god wants you to do porn if i have do i have that right yeah

04:16:58.960 all right so go on go ahead i i i i'm gonna i'm gonna bring up a few things so one i'm going to

04:17:08.000 go ahead and clarify some things because i'm sure we're going to get a few things but instead you're

04:17:10.960 going to bring it well god says do not judge the full verses do not judge lest ye be judged and so

04:17:17.520 that's saying like you know just if you're judging someone you're also inviting that onto yourself

04:17:22.800 one if you're afraid to talk about satan i question if you're actually a christian because we are

04:17:27.920 sealed and no i know i i've heard that before like it's not bad to talk about them but i also

04:17:32.800 just don't like to to talk no i mean there there there is a point there there is a verse to focus

04:17:39.440 on what is good and pure and right but there's also a verse of where we can go and do combat with evil

04:17:44.880 forces and it's by the word of our testimony by the faith that we show in god and just the ability

04:17:50.960 that we are are sealed entities and we can experience spiritual oppression but we can never experience

04:17:56.320 spiritual possession like when i walk into a place where they say it's haunted i'm like i am a son of

04:18:01.440 god you will flee from me but the biggest thing that i have an issue with is when you're saying

04:18:08.080 you're a christian there's a verse where it says do not take the lord's name in vain a lot of people

04:18:12.240 that's why people say oh like those like a bunch of christian girls will type in oh and gosh and

04:18:16.560 because they don't want to be considered they're saying omg it's not necessarily saying don't say oh my god

04:18:21.840 it's saying do not take your like when you say that you're a christian do not take that in vain

04:18:26.800 because that has a lot of weight because you're a representation of of that you're not supposed to

04:18:31.440 lead people down into a path of temptation and i am not saying i'm a perfect christian like i am

04:18:36.560 chief among sinners but there is a very big difference of like oh i fail and mess up every

04:18:41.520 once in a while like if i grabbed a cigarette and smoked it right now i smoked a cigarette i'm not

04:18:45.680 a smoker if i had bought a carton of cigarettes and intended to smoke them for weeks then i'm a smoker

04:18:50.960 if you are let's say that you're in and again like i have a lot of really great gay friends i

04:18:56.400 think there's there's some great people like if you are marrying a guy and you're a guy you're living

04:19:01.840 in a and you're living in open defiance to god and you're choosing to do that for an extended period

04:19:07.600 of time that is a mortal sin if you are choosing to live in promiscuity which is a sin and like

04:19:14.480 you're literally have a account on only fans and you have a link to it you're telling people to go to

04:19:20.080 it intending to post more stuff you are then continuing to live in sin and it is just it's a

04:19:26.000 mockery to god it's taking his name in vain to wear his cross while you're committing these acts of

04:19:30.960 sin and again i i know that i am a sinner like like just like paul says i'm chief among sinners i mess

04:19:37.040 up all the time but when i mess up i literally try and go and fix that and turn away from that when

04:19:41.120 you repent from sin repent the definition of the word is turning and going the opposite direction

04:19:46.080 and so i just question how you can be a christian and produce that kind of content that destroys

04:19:51.440 but you don't know what kind of content unless you subscribe right but they're saying she's using

04:19:56.960 this as a sales pitch to like but like go fucking sub you could tell us you could just be straightforward

04:20:03.360 and just be like yeah i do nude content you know they're probably playing yahtzee on there they're

04:20:08.000 probably but you don't even have to go to your only fans you could just look at your instagram why

04:20:14.000 don't you tell us what kind of content you make on of sure i said solo and just lingerie sexy

04:20:20.720 like all the behind the scenes content from all the photo shoots that i've done

04:20:24.720 and much have you had sex with a man on camera no i actually have not but you said you do boy

04:20:29.680 girl content that's exactly where i'm right what i said like you have to what about like well why don't

04:20:34.880 you just be precise in what you're telling us i'm not going to go sub to your only fans then like

04:20:39.360 all the people that subscribe to my page would they still get to see the content you're not like

04:20:44.720 by saying by the way guys this is what's on my page i know i make what i make boy girl content so

04:20:51.040 they would have to subscribe to see like the yeah but you just you telling us what that is

04:20:57.760 you're not like releasing the photos and videos um we are dressed very sexy

04:21:04.240 and even that and i know that like we take it to the extremes of this stuff and guys i want you

04:21:10.560 all to know i know i'm speaking pretty passionately about this i love all of you guys like i want you

04:21:14.720 to know as a christian i love all you guys but i detest sin i'm i'm not called people are like oh

04:21:19.600 you're not supposed to judge you're supposed to be quiet and everything that that is not the case as

04:21:24.480 a christian you are supposed to detest idolatry you're supposed to detest the things that are

04:21:29.760 go against god because it's destroying the world there are clear ones that would just like it'll

04:21:34.240 take two seconds there are clear studies where it shows the damage that whether it's porn or whether

04:21:39.920 it's just looking at lots of sexy pictures all kinds of stuff the way it warps and damage the minds of

04:21:44.960 young okay but i want to say that my content isn't porn though it's just content of me people are just

04:21:51.040 obsessed with me can you can you just so they want to see more content what kind of content you do

04:21:56.240 are you nude in any of your content i am nude in some part in some content are the guys ever

04:22:02.000 nude in any of the content uh i don't sell those content but i used to i mean if you did it in a

04:22:09.920 serious okay right now but he's saying basically even if there was one or two pictures of you nude like

04:22:16.640 that or even just sexy pictures like of you and lingerie that's what they're kind of like

04:22:21.680 saying is what they're saying is you know like going against and again i'm not trying to be

04:22:28.080 mean so i care about your soul laundry is very sinful if it's not with your husband yeah

04:22:35.760 but and i know it's the culture i have to disagree i still think that god will still love you and oh i

04:22:40.400 guarantee god loves you but he wants your soul and he will fight for it and even if he like my i was so

04:22:45.840 arrogant i was literally like a demigod i was six foot three incredibly strong i had a brain like you

04:22:51.040 couldn't imagine and god literally allowed my back to be broken and it has humbled me more than

04:22:56.800 anything and i would love if you would just repent and be obedient to god rather than him having to

04:23:02.720 bring some kind of pain into your life that draws you closer to him because it's not fun

04:23:07.840 me and and i'm gonna go to church follow by god though yeah okay and it's not just only

04:23:12.880 fans i do i can't reason with you i understand a lot of others and i want you to know i love you and i

04:23:16.960 want you to be in the great relationship with god because even though he says that he loves

04:23:21.120 everyone understand that like when it says the fear of god is the beginning of wisdom

04:23:26.480 imagine if someone did something terrible to us like murdered my friend here if someone murdered him

04:23:30.960 i would i'm not no no no that's right watch out if anybody murders me madison i'm not meeting up with

04:23:38.560 anybody i know i'm not give me just two seconds give me two seconds yeah i would like make that person

04:23:44.240 suffer rather than just giving him an instant death i really would because that like that but

04:23:49.760 like think of how how how aggressive god is he will put you in hell for eternity i might hurt the guy

04:23:57.200 for like 20 minutes he will put you in hell well i don't know that well okay well okay i have no

04:24:03.040 control of what the person that's buying my content going to do you're putting out that i want your soul

04:24:09.200 to be in heaven with me and we get to live forever in new bodies and have new jobs every

04:24:14.240 single day and the only way you're going to do that is if you repent and kneel to god because

04:24:18.560 doing only fans content i promise is a sin and i and i'm not saying it's not redeemable i'm not

04:24:24.160 saying you're not going to heaven i'm just saying it is god detests it anyways that's all i'm going to

04:24:29.760 say i can't i know i realize if you were like if you were an atheist i think we probably wouldn't

04:24:34.400 i wouldn't i mean yeah but like it's i think where we're approaching this from is like it's

04:24:38.880 kind of contradictory to be like okay like i'm gonna wear a cross and then i'm in your bio

04:24:46.560 it's almost like blaspheming to the point of like if you're wearing the cross in your pornographic

04:24:52.480 content and in your instagram bio you say god first and then there's a link directly below it linking to

04:25:00.560 your link tree or whatever that links to your only fans that's like kind of super contradictory

04:25:09.120 so that's the angle where we're approaching that as if you're an atheist and you're like yeah i do

04:25:12.960 porn it's like okay we get it but it's like it's so contradictory and i almost wonder if it's a shtick

04:25:18.480 to get like be controversial and get attention but but like can you pull up the instagram once more like

04:25:25.520 it's literally we're not exaggerating it's literally god first and then cindy zang.com like

04:25:32.400 her fucking links to her only fans scroll down a little bit scroll down on her profile scroll down

04:25:37.280 on her profile i also have like you got the cross the cross there there's you and snoop there's snoop

04:25:43.040 dog jesus this is fucking haram and how many how many followers do you have total yeah uh 500 that's

04:25:53.680 incredible do you i under i know how hard that is to build you have so much influence and you could

04:25:58.800 be there could be young girls who look up to you specifically maybe they come from an atheist

04:26:02.960 household and they're just trying to figure out god and like oh wait a minute this girl is a

04:26:06.720 christian i look up for her she's really pretty i want to look like her when i get older i want to

04:26:10.560 be like her oh but she can be a christian and do this boom i found my path and i just that that's

04:26:15.200 that's the reason i'm being so aggressive on it that's the only reason and because i care about

04:26:19.920 your soul and that with that i'm done and you're great super beautiful we all love you and god

04:26:24.160 loves you and he wants you to spend eternity with him take the red pill um i do want to ask you again

04:26:30.560 so if god wants you to be a porn star to do porn to do only fans what do you think satan wants

04:26:41.440 i have no comment over that okay that's a checkmate okay that's that's a really

04:26:46.400 really hermeneutical difficult one i still think that i'm like you're do you think you're a godly

04:26:51.600 woman yes even when you're doing pornographic with this this has such serious heaviness weight

04:27:00.320 let's not let's not let's not let's not be crying let's move on we want to come to christ yeah not just

04:27:06.480 feel like we i'll just finish on this okay there's so go and sin no more and also jesus says if you love

04:27:14.400 me keep my commandments so it's just very contradictory

04:27:23.440 like pornography creates lust lust is one of the seven deadly sins

04:27:28.960 seventh commandment you shall not commit adultery lusting is equivalent to adultery

04:27:33.360 and we actually have like real conversation you talk who to the people that i subscribe to my only

04:27:38.960 fans you mean your typer does no i actually do on my own that's cap okay no it doesn't matter though

04:27:46.240 but that's not even what you're saying well i mean don't you don't want to get me started on the

04:27:49.920 type of shit don't get me started literally type of shit love you guys no you're great we're good

04:27:54.880 we're done wait you're done we're done we're done attacking you you're you're saying that you have

04:27:59.840 religious conversations about jesus with your in your only fan subscribers i never okay if we want to talk

04:28:07.600 about god we can talk about god but i i i i'm just asking let's let's let's let's move on

04:28:16.640 yeah yeah this isn't about so reverting cindy

04:28:25.520 i think do you want me to bow down for you yes i will save you cindy i will fix you no you will not

04:28:32.080 you you are going to abandon your degenerate hedonistic life in los angeles you're going to

04:28:37.920 delete your only fans you're going to get yourself set up on a farmstead here in santa barbara and yes

04:28:43.760 you will bow for me okay and you're going to delete your instagram tiktok only fans etc oh okay so then

04:28:49.520 i'll be homeless no all the money okay all the money you've accrued all the well you just have to bow

04:28:55.120 out all the money you've accrued you will direct into my would you take care of her but i feel like

04:28:59.360 i do want to have my own thing you know like i want to like have i want to be able to have my own

04:29:07.680 business i want to have like things that i'm ambitious about and not rely on a man to like fully like

04:29:15.680 always take care of me okay cool you can pay for the first date i guess okay and i'm not saying like

04:29:20.560 you should pay for the first date oh you should oh as a man that's taking on a girl on a date first

04:29:26.880 date yes you guys i'm just saying question for the panel on that do you think as a man a man should

04:29:31.600 pay for the first date yes yes going around the table yes into the mic please yes yeah yes

04:29:42.960 i think it depends who initiated the date first have you ever asked a guy out um no i wasn't dating

04:29:50.480 exactly but i wasn't dating like throughout my high school years depends on who asks but i never

04:29:55.920 ask but even even when they did ask me on a date i would always say i will go half with you that's

04:30:01.600 fair um yes okay i always go yes the guy should pay definitely so those are just so those of you who

04:30:09.440 have only fans if your position is yes the guy should pay for a first date because that's traditional

04:30:15.520 so too then should it be the case that a woman should not be doing porn and have only fans

04:30:22.640 if we're talking about should if but you have a very traditional view of men's gender roles

04:30:30.080 know that before they go on a date with me so if they choose to go on that date with right

04:30:34.160 but y'all are saying men should adhere to this traditional gender role of being chivalrous and

04:30:39.600 being gentlemen it's not traditional to be fucking popping your pussy and doing all this extra

04:30:44.560 shit and having only fans and doing porn don't go on a date with a girl that pops her pussy if you

04:30:49.600 don't right but you're it's it's a contradict you know what i mean like obviously yes i agree if

04:30:55.360 as a guy you i agree with you as a guy if you don't want to date an only fans girl don't date an

04:31:00.000 only fans girl but the contradiction introduces itself because if you as an only fans girl wants a

04:31:06.320 guy to be traditional and adhere to his traditional gender roles the reality is you're not a traditional

04:31:12.640 woman sorry there's gonna be guys that yeah they're still gonna they're they're gonna do that

04:31:17.760 and that's fine if they want to do that they're gonna do that and if they don't want to do that

04:31:20.480 that's cool don't do that that's totally cool like it's not that that's that's totally cool but

04:31:24.960 it's just a contradiction like you guys want traditional treatment but you don't want to be

04:31:28.720 traditional women i don't know it is tradition yes this is if if your expectation is the guy should

04:31:35.920 pay for the first date that's a man being a provider that's him being in his traditional gender role

04:31:40.400 one instance yeah sure i know it's not it's not like i don't think it correlates because

04:31:45.280 paying on a first date is one thing that's like a small thing with a set intention behind it okay

04:31:50.000 being on only fans is like that's not traditional i know but it's a bigger part of your life so it's

04:31:55.280 it's kind of incomparable in my opinion it is a very big part of your life you're right right yeah okay

04:32:00.720 it's not like just like one instance one instance would be a guy paying right but you guys i don't know

04:32:05.600 i don't think you guys should you guys should actually be in line with your more progressive

04:32:09.120 values if you think it's like fine to do only fans and do porn then you should be more open to

04:32:15.680 dating a progressive dude that wants to go 50 50 but nah you want that traditional and i agree with

04:32:21.120 you and i'm i agree you're not attracted to that though you're not attracted to that first date

04:32:27.200 first date i think after the first date it's different but i think first date you should not

04:32:31.280 first date nah i'm just saying if the guy like unless there's like a time restraint and you can't

04:32:36.480 but if the guy's not picking you up and he's not buying your dinner every single time

04:32:40.400 fuck that guy exactly that's all i'm saying but but also but the only way that you're going to get a

04:32:45.840 guy like that like a good southern man is i i really i just i i've got a lot of real like my friend

04:32:52.800 group is stacked like all my boys are awesome they're freaking jack they're about their business they

04:32:58.960 believe in god they're all southern like we all hate the government it's amazing but like none of

04:33:04.960 us not a single one of us and i'm not again i i as christian love all you guys not a single one of

04:33:10.720 us would date an only fans girl we wouldn't even consider it that's fine i still think there's guys

04:33:14.640 with those values a traditional guy maybe i'm not from the west coast i don't know what it's like

04:33:20.160 over here so you're maybe you're right i mean i'm not either i'm from the east doing porn is one of the

04:33:24.720 least traditional things that you can do as a woman so you should be x there should be extra room

04:33:31.360 for you dealing with like soy boy progressive types y'all should be dating like soy boy progressive

04:33:38.480 lefty dudes that want to go 50 50 and want to get pegged you want us to be on that but the truth is

04:33:46.400 there are men out there that are traditional that's right because full and really good guys who

04:33:52.880 who who have a lot going for them and are maybe religious that still would date a girl who does

04:34:00.080 you're right you're right so maybe it's a lot of a lot of men want it a certain way but truth is it's

04:34:08.560 not always yeah because because paying for the first date is the most optimum min max thing you can do

04:34:14.640 to is it though is like i don't think yes because like maximum no no no you're misunderstanding what

04:34:20.960 i'm saying if okay i think paying for the first date is in terms of like the option within that

04:34:28.000 specific scenario like paying for the first date for a girl will never it's never going to hurt your

04:34:34.160 chances with a girl but not paying for it might hurt your chances so it's the most optimum move that

04:34:40.080 you can make if you're if we're looking at this like a chess game it's the most optimum move when

04:34:45.280 it comes to if you want if your goal is to get the girl

04:34:50.800 they want you going on a date with you knowing that you have an only fans

04:34:58.560 okay and that's really great of you guys that's so upfront like i think you all said that you'd be

04:35:02.560 super upfront about that and that's really i have found in my experience that girls will hide that

04:35:07.680 from me like in two seconds and and that's cool your special case i think that's definitely okay

04:35:14.000 very specifically i think some girls might i don't i don't think that's right but i think they would

04:35:19.840 so so that's cool and like i get it there's guys that are going to accept that you do only fans

04:35:25.040 my issue where i'm coming at it more from is you as a non-traditional woman are expecting

04:35:32.720 traditional treatment from men that's where it is it's i agree with you yeah yeah there's going

04:35:38.320 to be guys out there that despite despite how non-traditional you are whether in behavior whether

04:35:45.040 in i mean i would argue doing porn is extremely non-traditional yeah there's still guys that are

04:35:50.800 going to give you traditional treatment because that's what works best when it comes to getting

04:35:54.800 women so of course they're going to do it because despite your progressive nature they're still

04:36:00.880 going to be like paying for dinner is not always just traditional anymore yeah it's it is a

04:36:06.000 traditional it is i feel like it's also not what we expect it's also it is what you expect it is

04:36:11.280 something that i you're used to it ergo you expect it was in the middle of the sentence though go

04:36:15.680 ahead yeah no yes well hold on i'm the host i know i'm the host so yes i will interrupt whenever

04:36:22.960 i want okay because i have much more discretion when it comes to this conversation go ahead with your

04:36:28.800 point it's okay go ahead i have to finish my point go ahead okay well i was just saying that

04:36:34.240 it's not even something that i ever said i need a man to do it's something i've always gotten and

04:36:42.160 something that a man has always done for me so that's just something i will not settle less for

04:36:48.720 because that's so it's an entitlement no no no hold on so so are you less likely to go on a second

04:36:53.680 date if the guy wants to split the bill no it depends on him and the person but also it's just

04:37:00.000 like now you said you just said you would not settle for less ergo you feel i won't because

04:37:06.160 ergo it's an expectation that the guy pay for the first date you if you won't settle for less that

04:37:10.400 means there's not going to be a second date okay i get where you're coming from okay okay i'm so it's

04:37:15.520 amazing that i have to walk you've made your checkmate in my crazy but i probably got like

04:37:21.200 probably uh 15 minutes left so i have one big question i just want to like pose out and this is

04:37:28.080 and we can go around the table whatever you want to do but just if you have a comment on it

04:37:32.240 do you not want a guy who is so freaking in love with you that like if another man like is like

04:37:38.320 lusting after you like i i all my girlfriends have been really beautiful girls all my dates are like

04:37:43.600 pretty girls i'm not gonna get super butt hurt or mad if like a guy it's like i'm getting a drink

04:37:49.200 at a bar talking to somebody else and a guy i see a guy hitting on her like i understand she's pretty

04:37:53.600 like i would hit on her too i he couldn't have known but like do you not want a guy who's going

04:37:59.280 to be furious if another dude is just sitting there like touching himself watching you naked like

04:38:04.800 i mean i i would lose my mind though for us it's not like we're into that or like we it's not someone

04:38:12.320 we're actually like have a connection with or that we're like privately texting or it's actually

04:38:18.000 privately sending like our stuff to it's it's literally i think you work i see where you're

04:38:24.240 i see what you're saying um i think the man would have to be able to separate the two like in my eyes

04:38:31.200 because i'm on the other end of it it is separate for me it's separate from my personal life and some

04:38:36.400 guys can't separate that which okay that's fine and i get that but you know and that's why i'm

04:38:42.960 seeking for a confident yeah man in my life yeah but i think sometimes um they you like to call it

04:38:50.480 insecure but it's more sacred and a woman's body especially it being her partner that's sacred to her

04:38:57.600 partner you're a freaking gangster by the way you have every answer has been just twist the hips and

04:39:03.200 get out of the park that's been sick um all right did you have more or you want oh i got all kinds

04:39:10.160 of questions this is this is so fun okay well do you have you said you have a hard stop here pretty

04:39:14.720 soon or yeah i think like like 29 okay all right okay yeah yeah cool um i'm trying to think if there's

04:39:21.600 any uh other things i had yeah i need some mcdonald's the second twitter she has a cindy has a second

04:39:28.160 twitter post okay let's pull it up let's see what it says cindy i'm gonna tag you first tonight

04:39:33.840 why can't boys act like men don't scroll down picture why can't boys act like men why can't

04:39:41.440 women not have only fans because they need money again but this goes back to the whole like non-traditional

04:39:50.080 women want traditional men like you gotta get off your eye more more to that point cindy what what

04:39:57.440 can you define for me like what you're talking about when you say why can't boys be men like what do you

04:40:02.480 mean sorry i think it was just the caption just like you guys did your research oh my gosh

04:40:11.040 i'm honored i didn't do any i didn't know any of your names i had no opposition go ahead cindy i'm

04:40:16.880 honored uh so i think that there was time where i was only attracting just boys like it was just

04:40:26.880 um i do that every time me kind of like

04:40:33.360 not looking for like an actual man i was looking for like boys like boys that don't want to

04:40:38.800 uh act like a man confident pays for the first date just all the qualities that i seek for

04:40:50.720 and a guy that i want to marry else besides that stuff like pays for first dates anything else

04:40:56.160 like what do you want your home what do you want your home life to be like like you're married

04:41:00.400 like are you still doing only fans at this point like you're like you know yeah you've got kids on

04:41:04.960 the way you guys have your new house everything's great you know white picket fences you know the

04:41:10.240 whole american dream like what do you want your man to be like do you want to be doing only fans at

04:41:14.880 that point i would do it if he's okay with it yeah but if you met like a badass dude like a freaking

04:41:21.360 killer and again just youtube when i say killer i mean like a guy who like kills his goals like

04:41:25.840 goes after mark you meet like a killer like and he was like hey i want you would you stop only

04:41:31.760 fans for me would you would you do it i don't think okay i wouldn't do it if i'm losing all my

04:41:38.320 money right but at what point will you say yes if he's like providing though yeah like like he says

04:41:44.480 marry me with i mean at what point if he's providing yes but again going back to what i was talking about

04:41:49.600 like i want to do my own thing like things that i like you're non-traditional woman why should a guy

04:41:55.360 pay for you on the first date feminism has struck again and i'm not just ridiculous i'm not even

04:42:00.320 talking for me but here's the crazy time i get married i said wait wait let me hold on let me

04:42:04.080 just say this i say it's ridiculous to the point where it doesn't even involve only fans just

04:42:09.200 different things that i want to do like maybe it's acting maybe it's singing

04:42:15.440 what's up okay um so i say it's ridiculous but the reality is is that there's a large it's like this

04:42:25.760 whole idea of like oh these only fans girls they're never granted i do think it's true like

04:42:30.160 they're gonna close their doors to a lot of dudes but the reality is reality is like women's sexual

04:42:35.840 optionality is so fucking insane that whether they do only fans whether they don't do only fans

04:42:43.680 oh women's sexual optionality like an average girl has the equivalent sexual optionality of like

04:42:49.360 an a-list celebrity professional athlete musician uh actor whatever so even though i say it's ridiculous

04:42:55.840 that they have these expectations the reality is even though they are like engaged in these non-traditional

04:43:01.840 behaviors and they're super progressive and liberal and feminist they can absolutely find dudes who will

04:43:07.040 still do all this traditional shit just because that's the dating marketplace so it's ridiculous but like

04:43:13.280 this is the way they get treated so they can get it but um frankly i don't think it's the correct order

04:43:19.360 of things but perhaps i'm i'm an idealist in that way but it is what it is um so yeah well before we

04:43:28.400 move on to your next question could we flip the script right here does anybody so like you know we're

04:43:32.320 both we consider ourselves like traditional guys do you guys have any questions like towards our our end of

04:43:37.280 the spectrum we'll do a good five count i mean why is it like so important to you about like

04:43:47.920 your values well i understand more you because like you're christian you know i don't know if you're

04:43:52.240 christian but like why is it like so which which value specifically well like that a girl is like

04:43:58.000 not a hoe well not necessarily not a hoe but like you said she would she had to be short she needed an

04:44:04.000 audi veg like you know like i'm being like i'm being humorous on that so okay fine i'll actually

04:44:10.960 address those point by point um i'll date a girl who's six five i'll date a girl who's four seven

04:44:16.880 height is not a deal breaker for me i have a slight preference for women who are shorter

04:44:20.960 but it's like again i'll date a girl who's taller than me i'll date a girl who's super short i don't

04:44:26.080 give i really don't care about height i say that i say that somewhat jokingly like oh if she's five

04:44:30.880 two that's too tall that's me joking when it comes to the again same and i already said this

04:44:36.160 i prefer women with audis is it a deal breaker if she has an any absolutely not and these are

04:44:40.800 fucking dope too sign me up any i'm down for nanny i'm down for an audi whatever i have a question

04:44:47.440 do you guys have like a sex rule you know some people are like oh wait three months until

04:44:52.400 you sleep with him i i will not have sex with a girl if i'm not in love with her and i will only fall

04:44:56.640 in love with a girl if i'm if she is i think she would be a perfect like a good mom because that's

04:45:01.440 always a thing i should be and again this is what i was saying like i'm chief among sinners i i

04:45:06.320 really try to abstain from that i want to be like married all these things but you know like life

04:45:11.200 is the way it is i i do try my best um if you but i would say oh sorry go ahead no you're okay

04:45:17.680 um like let's say before you like fall in love with her and you guys take that next step

04:45:22.240 um if she's like trying to like pursue sex with you how does that does that like make you view her

04:45:29.040 differently no no no because that just probably means she's already in love with me but i mean like

04:45:34.800 it's i'm sure it's happened it's happened both ways in my life like maybe i was pursuing it she

04:45:39.920 wasn't ready yet or the other way around you know but um yeah no there's there's no like debt

04:45:45.600 date line on that and for me it's just like i am not going to have the potential to have a child with

04:45:50.880 somebody and then bring like part of my bloodline into existence where the mom's going to be a

04:45:56.160 train wreck because like i think it is so crucial i think number one is most crucial for there to be a

04:46:02.000 father in the household but i think number like the best option in the entire world is to have a good

04:46:08.320 mother and a good father in the house that is the number one way to keep kids off drugs is the number

04:46:12.960 one to keep kids out of jail is the number one way to create high value of high impact people and this

04:46:18.320 is one other thing that i want to hit on especially like in red pill media people talk about oh well

04:46:22.720 you've got to be high value you don't be working on nine to five you're doing all these things

04:46:27.040 can we bring some honor and respect back to just like tradesmen like good men who are putting the

04:46:32.160 work in every single day in and out to make our actual world run like and like i tell people all the

04:46:37.680 time like oh do you want to be a millionaire before all your friends cool do not go to college go to

04:46:41.680 trade school and become a lineman like if you're if you're a plumber in cape coral where i live right now

04:46:46.960 you can become a millionaire by the time you're 35 easy whereas like if you go to college you're

04:46:52.160 just going to be in debt and like you might be breaking even at that point and so again when i

04:46:56.560 say like if you want like a high value guy i'm not talking about income i'm just saying like

04:47:00.960 a guy who's with it on like all bars but anyways um and i would also like to hear brian's answer

04:47:07.280 so the question was uh how long to wait for sex basically yeah like do you have like a rule with that

04:47:12.720 or like what's your opinion sure so i mean my personal view on this is i actually i don't

04:47:19.760 think there's any need to wait okay truth be told i think it can be an indicator of potential

04:47:25.760 promiscuity some guys will be like well if she sleeps with you too soon that means that she's a

04:47:30.480 three of four they donated 101 congressman and chase would make an amazing tag team on this panel

04:47:38.400 their intense christianity their in my opinion more respectable values of love did we just become

04:47:45.440 best friends so i'm putting that meme up that's great it'd be a bromance there hey dude fally thank

04:47:50.320 you man by the way i lowered so the read threshold i need to change this on some of the other indicators

04:47:55.680 the the read threshold is 50 and then the tts threshold is now 100. um i'm gonna change up

04:48:01.440 some of those things real quick but um thank you to answer your question so yeah i mean um me personally

04:48:07.440 i i'm not a big into here let's wait months or i don't believe in waiting until marriage

04:48:14.080 um i think it's fine to sleep with someone relatively quickly would you initiate sex on the first date

04:48:20.800 uh sure yeah why not and if she did it you wouldn't be like oh i think there's far you know

04:48:29.760 there's far better indicators of is this person like promiscuous or then the rapidity with which

04:48:36.880 she sleeps with you okay they're like her body counts probably that's a better indicator her other

04:48:41.600 sorts of behaviors are much better indicator of her character than how quickly because she could just be

04:48:46.080 like really into you yeah like a girl who's for example a girl who's a virgin could might want to

04:48:52.560 sleep with you after a couple days like one one of the best sets of parents i literally know in the

04:48:58.640 entire world and they have like incredible children they're awesome they got married in nine weeks they

04:49:04.400 met each other got married in nine weeks and so like and then i know some people like dated for

04:49:07.920 like you know they did a courtship they dated for like three years they did like all the spiritual

04:49:12.160 counseling all this stuff and they had like a train wreck of a marriage um before you move on to

04:49:16.720 your next point can i do one more or oh i was going to stick on that for a little bit oh get it well

04:49:21.920 i was just going to say like most of my long-term relationships i've had a two year uh i've had a

04:49:28.080 two year or one year in a five-year relationship in all these instances i think we had sex within

04:49:33.680 either the first or second date and then i've had like catastrophic not catastrophic but i've had

04:49:41.440 slashing tires bad relationships with women who are like i want to wait a month and it's like i don't

04:49:47.280 think the like and i know couples for example they slept together on the first date and they

04:49:51.280 are happily married they've been together for i i one of my very close male friends he hooked up with

04:49:57.680 his now wife and they have kids uh on the first date um so i don't think it it's now if she's doing

04:50:04.880 that with like tons of guys that's where it could be a problem but if she's selective with the men that

04:50:09.840 she sleeps with um now it could be a negative indicator but i don't think it's like one hundred

04:50:17.200 percent determining factor so for me like if a girl sleeps with me on the first date i'm not i

04:50:22.560 wouldn't judge her for that sometimes but if the vibes you know maybe you want to wait till the

04:50:28.000 second or third date like maybe it's maybe she wants to wait that's cool i'm not a big fan of

04:50:32.880 waiting too long though because it depends like if that's been her standard for all her previous

04:50:38.240 sexual relationships then cool but you've slept with 10 20 dudes and you slept with all of them

04:50:42.720 on the first date and now i now you want to wait until marriage that's your prerogative i'm just not

04:50:47.840 the guy for you go find a guy who's down to wait for marriage i don't want to wait for marriage so

04:50:51.760 yeah what's up isn't it more lady like if like y'all waited not necessarily yeah especially

04:50:59.760 especially if her standard for all the previous like it's it's i get that it's a tough position

04:51:04.640 for women like so for example let's say you used to be promiscuous and you used to sleep with guys

04:51:08.560 really quick and you slept with a bunch of dudes like i don't want to sit here and be like well you're

04:51:13.280 you now have to be stuck into just sleeping with dudes super quick if you don't want like that's

04:51:18.160 not what i'm saying but i think it's as a guy we're gonna look at a girl like okay you're past

04:51:24.800 20 previous sexual partners you slept with them right away and now you want to make me wait i'm

04:51:29.280 gonna start thinking okay she just sees me as a sucker she's not sexually attracted to me she's

04:51:34.720 not physically attracted to me she doesn't have that same burning desire that she has for those other

04:51:39.520 guys so i'm gonna feel a certain type of way about it and that look again you want to wait that's

04:51:45.120 totally cool but if there's a miss there's a misalignment if you want to wait i don't want to

04:51:50.080 wait till marriage for example maybe some of you guys here you don't want to wait till marriage to

04:51:53.200 have sex also i think it's perfectly reasonable like if you don't want to whether you're a man or

04:51:59.120 a woman you don't want to wait there's a misalignment there you find somebody else to date it's very

04:52:03.040 simple so i i'm gonna go in probably about like five minutes i got one question i really wanted

04:52:07.840 to ask before so i feel like you and i are probably the most at odds on our like personal beliefs i

04:52:13.360 know you don't know me super well but do you think that there's like any belief that i share or i have

04:52:18.000 that you're like that's dumb and like let's talk about i think you got your head on straight i i've

04:52:21.920 really enjoyed a lot of stuff that you said and i've enjoyed your style of debate uh very much i've i've

04:52:27.120 i've really appreciated some certain times where you cut in um i do disagree on a few things grid

04:52:34.080 one motorsports donated 100 dollars fucking win wheels you should come back for the panel would you

04:52:41.840 date a man who carries his legally owned firearm as part of his daily routine would you be willing to

04:52:48.000 train in its use okay would you date a guy who legally owns a firearm yes yes yes yes yes

04:52:55.520 currently currently currently in this situation yes yes yes and remember concealed carry is legal in

04:53:05.440 all 50 states if you're not a bitch so wait i'm just kidding that is not legal advice i was like hold

04:53:12.560 on it's a joke it's a joke it's a joke yeah okay i was like you might you might catch somebody a felony

04:53:19.200 with that one um because yeah it's like uh it's super hard in like a lot of counties in california to get

04:53:25.120 the ccw because uh there it's uh we don't let's not get into it okay um you were saying something

04:53:32.000 about you disagreeing and disagreeing and stuff like that i don't i don't share religious beliefs

04:53:36.640 sorry i said uh yeah no i've enjoyed your conversation i don't i don't agree with your

04:53:41.280 religious beliefs and i also believe that my dating values this is a dating podcast is greatly different

04:53:48.400 um than you guys specifically is why we've been butting heads and stuff like that so

04:53:52.080 um i don't you butt heads with anybody here i don't know that um i would be able to really share

04:54:01.360 my exact values and things like that since um it's been very very dominantly

04:54:07.360 you know the monogamous christian beliefs been kind of pushed out very heavily so i do disagree on

04:54:14.480 some of those points i really do agree very much on uh with only fans obviously adult work and things like

04:54:20.400 that so there's there is a few points that you know i got one question i want to just pair it with

04:54:25.680 you so we disagree on religious beliefs what would you define like do you believe like in a higher

04:54:30.480 power do you believe in spirituality okay so this is a thing that i think gets misquoted a lot it's like

04:54:37.200 the separation of church and state which is not any of our founding documents one of our founding fathers

04:54:41.760 put that in a letter and sent it out and again church and state did not mean christian church it just

04:54:47.680 mean like this institution of religion so i like to read things through the lens of original intent

04:54:53.680 you can read it through like if it's a living document whatever i like to look at it through

04:54:56.880 original intent in my opinion i think that that means that they want to keep the government out of

04:55:03.360 churches and religion not religion out of the government so like you're kind of like a spiritual

04:55:08.560 based person like maybe you don't you don't believe in like you know uh uh the the type of

04:55:13.600 ruled the higher power i believe in which is jesus christ and god and the trinity so okay but

04:55:18.960 anyways but like would you get mad if i go on to the house floor and i'm giving a speech about why

04:55:25.600 i believe in a certain such certain thing and then i quoted or like referenced a bible story would you be

04:55:31.920 like oh no you're not supposed to bring that into the well i mean i think that's a little different

04:55:36.000 than dating i think that when you're dating someone and you're having a dynamic or you're uh you know

04:55:41.440 getting involved with someone and i mean obviously you're gonna have a few dates whatever really your

04:55:45.680 spirituality religion your politics are going to come up your values where you see things and stuff

04:55:49.920 like that um that's not politics that's going to be discussing your compatibility really in dating

04:55:56.080 so when you're talking about being on the political floor that's a totally separate issue all

04:56:00.720 right but that's just something because like you i don't experience many people like you on the east

04:56:05.440 coast like you just look like you like you look like what i consider la to look like you know so

04:56:10.960 like what do would you be upset like i wouldn't be upset if someone came up and quoted the quran

04:56:16.880 because i'm like that is influencing their beliefs their respect multiple religions right yeah of

04:56:21.680 course okay so like you're like i respect religion you don't mind if someone's like oh hey i'm voting

04:56:26.400 this way because my religion tells me to okay that's a really interesting i'm really glad to hear that i

04:56:31.920 don't i don't uh discriminate anyone for anything okay yeah cool anybody else have any amazing points

04:56:39.920 or anything you want to be also i just want to thank i know this is not my podcast but everyone that's

04:56:43.920 been like donating all kinds of stuff for all of us being here we really appreciate it you know this is

04:56:47.840 like a fun forum that we can do all kinds of stuff on to the new subscribers new followers that's

04:56:52.320 really sick you guys rock we're probably going to do like another three minutes just closing remarks

04:56:56.240 if anybody has any statements anybody got anything like rocky like she's i don't know about like but

04:57:03.600 like bdsm and like all that and like i don't know i thought we could get into that because i feel like

04:57:08.960 i'm going to tell you this is going to come back to haunt me it's so hard it's making madison catherine

04:57:14.720 you were on a thing but you were disagreeing oh no no no no there's a company called media matters

04:57:20.240 they will edit this and make it look like we'll be like we'll get you on a leash madison

04:57:26.480 on the leash you're not working at the airport anymore seriously all right i don't know what

04:57:35.920 you're talking about but like for example like her chastity keys are like just like what is chastity

04:57:40.800 keys because you don't seem like you guys are like chastity chastity keys mean like for a chastity

04:57:46.800 bill right no chastity keys are like for a chastity cage what the wait what yeah so you

04:57:53.360 you have your keys meaning you're slow you're freed or you have a slave like a slave our slave is in

04:57:59.040 a cage he's in a he's in the trunk right now yeah wait actually wait i'm confused okay okay that was

04:58:05.760 a joke yeah no no but do you actually have a dude yeah i've had whoa no no no no no no no stop stop

04:58:13.040 stop hold up don't get mad hold up this is an exciting conversation

04:58:19.920 please i'm gonna stay a little longer for this did you hear this did you guys hear this in the chat

04:58:24.400 that my you guys and i'm not judging you i just want a genuine answer you guys actually have a guy

04:58:33.040 butler donated 100 all right congressman thank you thank you jay butler

04:58:37.760 authority to terminate anyone infected with genital herpes the girl in green to your left is a plague

04:58:43.600 rat and her sickness could destroy the human race enter so anyways jay butler i i just want to say on

04:58:50.960 behalf of my friend here thank you for the uh the donation but no i don't think the federal government

04:58:56.000 should have any form of that the problem with the federal government is they have monopoly on currency

04:59:00.800 and violence i would like the monopoly on violence to be with the people so i don't think i should be

04:59:04.960 allowed to terminate her and also i don't think that you're like a plague right now right here

04:59:11.520 and this girl i think are going to become christians like hardcore christians like within the next like

04:59:15.760 six months so let's be praying for we were talking about going to church actually there we go there we

04:59:20.320 go if you guys don't play with it all right um do you guys actually have someone in a physical cage

04:59:27.200 no in the trunk i think you guys have that the trunk right now or often no i think they actually

04:59:32.240 have a dude in their trunk isn't it just their penis in the cage that's the chastity's for you

04:59:37.200 yeah so their penis is yeah yeah it's like no literally you should show him you should show

04:59:42.640 him show him yeah you want to see it we have it i don't i don't know if he's ready for that

04:59:47.760 wait are you ready to see that i don't know i don't want to see it i don't want to see it

04:59:53.200 i don't want to see it do you know how often like in those last like 40 minutes i've had to just look

04:59:57.200 out that window while you guys are just putting like on this screen do not show me what that thing

05:00:01.920 is oh wait you have you have a penis cage in there i have a penis in here i don't want to

05:00:09.920 anyways moving on wait no no no it's not a guy in an actual in an actual cage no but you have a guy in

05:00:17.920 your trunk no that was that was a joke she's not it was a joke i mean it's possible you guys do

05:00:25.680 shit it's possible it is because remember she does believe she's you know men could be okay

05:00:32.160 um we had a chat that came in earlier i forgot oh wait these all came in hold on okay um oh i need

05:00:40.160 to change the things um madison i know you said you had to leave here pretty soon oh you're good did

05:00:45.280 you have any other question any questions well i need to change a couple things here if you want

05:00:48.480 to just ask a question or something or actually wait hold on is there anything questions no no no no

05:00:55.280 um oh here's one for mckenzie mckenzie on your various social media profiles you have described

05:00:59.760 yourself as a a baddie your favorite big booty angel baby a bad bitch as a very white dude can you explain

05:01:12.240 what a baddie is and what i get the i think the big booty thing is i get the big booty thing but

05:01:18.560 what's a bad bitch and what's a baddie

05:01:24.400 she's like me because i'm confused um what's me um a baddie i think a baddie is a woman who is

05:01:36.080 confident in herself and believes in herself and

05:01:45.600 and she's just a bad

05:01:48.880 and she can do anything that she puts her mind to period

05:01:54.800 all right y'all let's go for um five more minutes we'll end at 10 30 is that good with you well if

05:01:58.720 um i have definitely some more questions but if you need to i know you said yeah go for it does anyone

05:02:04.320 have like a contrarian take like something that'd be like oh that's going to be an interesting

05:02:07.760 discussion oh what about what about this going around the table do you consider yourself a

05:02:12.880 feminist starting with you cindy go ahead no

05:02:15.840 that's deep um into the mic

05:02:19.760 i i kind of go both ways

05:02:22.800 so like there are points of feminism like you know that i i i think women should be treated like

05:02:27.920 human beings yes right like if a woman is doing equal work she should get equal pay right that's

05:02:33.840 not the part of feminism well yeah like we can all agree with that women i don't think they should

05:02:38.560 be doing the same jobs as men but like if they're doing the same jobs they should get equal pay we can

05:02:42.800 agree with that right of course okay so what what parts of feminism are you like that's the part of

05:02:49.120 feminism that i uh do agree with is the fact that women should be treated like humans not as animals

05:02:54.880 right so before there was feminism women were not treated as equal human beings right

05:03:00.240 um and back in the day you could get so many horses for a pretty daughter i'm just kidding

05:03:06.400 it's a joke and um they get the they have the right to choose whether or not they work so we

05:03:12.320 have the right as a human we have human rights so humans should have human rights everyone should be

05:03:17.280 treated equal everyone should be treated equally when you get to the hyper super crazy feminism and

05:03:21.200 they're screeching in the streets and stuff like that i kind of draw the line like the pink hats

05:03:24.400 that's crazy i actually joined uh there was a march in um do you know uh amber rose what was

05:03:30.000 the slut walk so there she has a slut walk and there was a bunch of feminists like did you say a

05:03:35.040 slut walk a slut walk it's yeah i know it's a whole thing so anyways there was like feminists on the on

05:03:39.520 the like picketing like and i just oh okay i don't know it was weird like i draw the line like there's

05:03:45.440 like there's crazy feminists yeah okay i gotcha i gotcha anybody else like consider themselves a feminist

05:03:51.840 oh yeah going around the table are you a feminist no no no no i'm not no no i'm the same as rocky like

05:04:02.400 no i'm not a feminist but no absolutely not i am definitely not a feminist there's a lot of

05:04:11.440 you guys consider yourselves misogynistic what uh so okay so this is interesting we need so oh here

05:04:17.920 all right so first we need to define terms can you give me a definition for misogynist okay

05:04:25.520 a misogynist would be some a man who basically looks as men as better than or more than women

05:04:35.200 absolutely not so i think that men are specifically skilled for certain things i think that this

05:04:41.920 this feminist moved and you know it was done so we could have a lot of factory workers and it's the

05:04:46.480 reason that we were able to win world war ii because we had such amazing manufacturing power

05:04:50.000 which we need to bring back home um but the thing that i think is the worst for is treating boys and

05:04:56.800 girls to the exact same putting a young boy inside of a classroom for eight hours a day being taught

05:05:03.600 by females the entire time where he has these rigid little structures where he has to be like he has to

05:05:08.080 raise his hand to speak if he sees something he doesn't really like he can't confront it if he gets

05:05:12.240 in like a little wrestling match with one of his friends in playground he's going to go to detention

05:05:17.200 where he's just going to get absolutely regular school not yet no that that's just that's just

05:05:21.680 right that's just regular school and so this is the reason why i want to homeschool my kids like i

05:05:25.680 think that women and boys need to be treated like girls and boys like little kids need to be treated

05:05:31.280 very very differently because you're going to have these little boys who are in there and they're going

05:05:34.640 to be like oh he has a really hard time focusing and then they're going to go and they're going to be like oh my

05:05:38.640 gosh he has adhd let's put all these medications like don't and i'm stealing this quote from the

05:05:43.760 percy jackson series but like those are your freaking battlefield senses that god gave you to be able to

05:05:48.480 defend what is good right and just in the world i feel like it's also like like viruses and like

05:05:53.680 vaccines like your body is supposed to fight off nope i'm not going to talk about that no we're not

05:05:59.280 talking nope nope stop nope nope nope nope we got we got okay no okay chill chill i said okay but anyway

05:06:07.040 nah you didn't just say okay you can oh no let me see let me get my point in about the

05:06:10.560 okay you're so mean no i know i gotta i gotta be careful but so youtube serious about that oh they

05:06:16.640 are very serious yeah so we're not gonna say that word yeah okay here let me uh here let me move

05:06:22.240 things along do you have any takes any closing arguments for relief um i have like a closing comment

05:06:27.840 like i really appreciate this podcast because of the platform that it gives to have these types of

05:06:33.440 discussions and conversations and i think it's really helpful for society for other people to

05:06:38.560 kind of hear those opinions that they're kind of unpopular in a way but maybe more people feel that

05:06:47.120 way they're just kind of scared to speak up and i do think that a lot of the things in our society are

05:06:51.840 it's detrimental to our society so i'm gonna do a closing statement here just like then we'll let him

05:06:57.040 knock everything out or do you want i i got some more i got a ton more let me say like one more thing

05:07:03.920 so i think the biggest way that we can save our country and make because like we said every metric

05:07:09.760 things are getting worse for everybody like if any of us wanted to go buy a house right now it'd be

05:07:14.960 pretty damn hard i think the way that we fix that is we start saying what we say in private

05:07:21.520 in public and yes you get attacked for it you get hammered for it but if you start like these

05:07:26.160 conversations then you are a badass for hosting this kind of podcast thank you because i mean you

05:07:30.880 you enable people to have a real conversation where people are saying in public what we all kind of

05:07:36.240 think in private and that's why it's so cool that it's long form because people kind of get comfortable

05:07:40.000 do this stuff also to the chat if you're going to dm these girls or anything remember that i am an

05:07:44.400 incredibly trained debater since i was like 11 years old so if they're like oh well you didn't you used a

05:07:50.000 straw man argument here and blah blah i most of these people here are just normal human beings

05:07:54.320 and so like let's not hold them to the highest standard of debate in the world because in my

05:07:58.800 that's fair yeah that's fair yeah yeah but anyways you're up man uh yeah no i appreciate that comment

05:08:05.760 madison um so we're wait i'm trying to think if there was something in any case oh i forgot oh okay

05:08:13.680 hold on grid one sports donated yeah thank you good one appreciate it the politician is right about

05:08:19.040 how boys are treated poorly and how women are encouraged to be sluts that's one way to put it

05:08:26.080 ladies feminism has failed you how can the patriarchy help you today okay wait did we go around oh we

05:08:33.120 did go around on that yo grid one thank you man appreciate it hey man you've been you've been donating

05:08:37.040 all night we thank you brother you've got some fun comments your patronage some of your comments

05:08:40.320 how can the patriarchy i'll ask them i'll ask them about the patriarchy in a sec we have a

05:08:45.120 modest comma coming in at the end of the show dude thank you man appreciate it good to see you

05:08:49.440 in the chat uh oh by the way guys just reminder i have lowered the read and tts triggers here at the

05:08:56.400 towards the end or end portion of the show our read answer 50 and up tts 100 and up thank you guys

05:09:02.480 appreciate it we have modest comma brian 07 congressman 07 cdc girl 07 panel what is

05:09:09.680 is a woman starting with cindy go ahead we'll go around a woman is someone who um speaks her mind

05:09:17.440 who is confident who has her freedom of speech which is basically speaking her mind uh

05:09:26.160 couldn't you say all those same things about men though yeah same thing like he's asking for the

05:09:31.520 definition of like what what's how do you define a woman what is a woman well she gives birth she's

05:09:36.880 like okay we're here thank you go ahead

05:09:44.400 yeah that's a that's a complex question because it is non-binary at this point yeah i'm not gonna

05:09:51.120 really get into all of that what is you can you can if you want powerful i'm okay powerful i'll say

05:09:57.520 powerful yeah i don't feel like there's any wrong right you could say so much about women so this is

05:10:05.520 my wait wait let's just let the girls let's just have all the girls answer go ahead someone with the

05:10:10.960 vagina okay that's fair um someone with a vagina i think a woman who carries herself well um brings

05:10:21.680 feminine energy so just basically like the opposite of masculine like masculinity um i think someone

05:10:31.760 who is confident and someone who has her own values and okay yeah what about you i think a woman is

05:10:41.280 uh someone that was biologically born a woman with xx chromosomes and that's pretty much it

05:10:48.960 i agree an adult female okay yeah the same thing a girl with a vagina i don't know a woman

05:10:59.120 born with a female born with a vagina yeah like that's a woman to me well let me ask you a question

05:11:06.320 so if a guy if a guy has a surgery that gives him a vagina actually is that a woman well if they identify

05:11:16.480 as a woman i'm not going to disrespect them and call them a man just because they were but is it

05:11:20.800 is that a is that a woman well if they identify as a woman yes i'm going to call them a woman well i

05:11:26.240 want to go back i don't know if you're too because i think both of you said a woman is somebody who has

05:11:31.200 a vagina do you mean someone who is born with the vagina someone is that what you mean a pussy

05:11:38.640 you got a vagina wait i have a question for you on that if you what if you're what if you identify

05:11:44.960 as a woman but you have a penis are you a woman well yeah because they're identifying as a woman

05:11:53.680 but you said they have to have a vagina well if you're transgender then that's like another thing

05:11:58.880 you know well that's kind of okay here jay butler the woman with the chest tattoo looks like the wicked

05:12:03.440 witch of the west brian she'll put a gypsy curse on you and you'll be breaking out in gentle warts

05:12:08.320 for days defend yourself from this evil blank oh yeah okay she's definitely like some sort of

05:12:14.400 witchcraft or something going on i guess thank you jay butler yeah appreciate it brother jay butler okay

05:12:21.520 okay what about you on the question okay cool so a woman is anything will has body parts that a

05:12:29.840 woman would have and handles her business even when she doesn't want to and there's so much more but

05:12:36.560 okay yeah so i think it's anybody who's born with excess chromosomes no tally whacker um and specifically

05:12:44.560 and this is the number one giveaway if someone's a woman or not if they can handle like the everyday

05:12:49.280 cold really well you know that's a check because i don't know why but like i'll take a gunshot wound all

05:12:56.080 day like my family needs someone to take a bullet i'll do it but you give me like a little like sore

05:13:00.880 throat i just want to just like chocolate chocolate um yeah but yeah that's interesting

05:13:13.200 that's cute adult human female comes to mind but thank you monster com appreciate it um

05:13:19.440 we went around the table on feminism oh mckenzie you i think okay you already described

05:13:23.840 favorite big booty angel baby okay do you have a bbl or is it not natty okay you live in miami right

05:13:32.960 no i live in orlando but i'm from north carolina shout out what i'm from north carolina middle of

05:13:39.040 nowhere southern pines yeah yeah southern pines not the middle of nowhere you got some of the best

05:13:43.680 deer in the world but i was raised the best what some of the best deer to kill in the world how lots of

05:13:48.560 deer so you live in orlando how many professional athletes have you dated zero

05:13:59.840 zero really really okay all right if you say so uh let's see you said your ex didn't want you to be

05:14:08.560 on the podcast so here you are here i am here i am uh which ex because you said you've been single

05:14:15.520 the most recent one or sorry not april you've been single for eight months or sorry no you've

05:14:21.200 been single for five months my longest relationship was eight months i did not disclose when my last

05:14:25.280 relationship oh right ended but it was within this year and it was the most recent okay he didn't want

05:14:30.160 you to be on a podcast yes why is that because you would do what or say what i don't know i don't

05:14:38.640 know if it was anything specific that i would have said um i don't i just don't think he like trusted

05:14:44.960 me to answer questions and not look like you did bad i think so too um but i i think that's what like

05:14:55.200 he feared and he would always fear like i don't know i just i just don't think he was like the most

05:15:00.320 in favor of like what i did especially when it came to like comments because honestly like hate comments

05:15:05.600 don't bother me at all but he would see hate comments on me and he would get like really upset

05:15:11.280 even though it's me but yeah i think he just men are protectors they don't want very true like i like

05:15:17.040 which i understood um but i know if i was dating him i wouldn't feel comfortable coming on a podcast

05:15:22.240 just because of like how he would feel but um now i feel like i have okay i feel free to do that

05:15:29.200 you said that how the standards for men are skewed by the media and totally unrealistic what do you mean

05:15:34.160 by that um i think kind of what we talked about earlier that women are like gassed up which i do

05:15:39.920 think women should be like confident in their own and you know um but i think media has brainwashed us

05:15:49.200 to think that like oh you get this you deserve better you get this you deserve better like tall

05:15:56.080 like makes like a lot of money especially like the money thing like i don't think people realize like

05:16:00.800 how top percentile you have to be in your career to make what these women expect from a man like a base

05:16:09.520 salary from a man um and i i think we should be looking for more than just that okay and like you

05:16:20.080 said i think somebody who like matches you sure you said social media may be the downfall of many

05:16:27.200 relationships lastly not dating related but where the okay that one's not we don't have to talk about

05:16:32.880 that one but you said how social media may be the downfall of many relationships yes would you delete

05:16:39.680 your instagram for your boyfriend maybe private or some shit i don't know i think when i reach that

05:16:47.600 phase of my life i think i will and i think i would regardless if my partner wanted me to or not i just see

05:16:55.200 myself and if in like the future having my personal life fully private sure um yeah okay so yes but you

05:17:03.360 said i mean you seem to acknowledge that social media may be the downfall of many relationships right

05:17:08.960 you should be the change that you see in the world you know what

05:17:13.760 of the girls here who do only fans can i convince you tonight to stop doing only fans any of you

05:17:19.920 you can try can i convince this just convinced me to do it i want you to tell you what if any of

05:17:26.880 the girls here agree to stop doom only fans i will invite you back on the podcast three more times

05:17:34.800 you can start streaming world of warcraft you're not going to probably make as much money but that

05:17:40.880 would be more i think that would be you know might be more respect respectable than doing of so i will

05:17:49.920 support you in your independence in your world of warcraft but what if if we don't are we still

05:17:58.400 invited back on but if you play we don't like if you play druid it's a no-go like i i won't support

05:18:03.760 like i don't date women who play druids but like if you play like priest i'm down because that's like

05:18:08.960 support class like you're a healer priest if you play paladin cool i don't really like shamans like

05:18:14.720 their totems are kind of like whack and like bro paladins are way better than shot i mean

05:18:20.000 wind fury is cool for like melee if you're a warrior or rogue or whatever wind fury is dope but like

05:18:25.280 paladins for pv what i think way better obviously pvp you want to go horde and but i like so

05:18:32.960 i prefer like if you play dps i'd prefer you to be a caster though like i don't want you playing melee so

05:18:37.520 like and no hunter so no hunter no rogue no warrior like i'm not down for that so just saying

05:18:42.800 so like mage warlock and then shadow priest is okay but their dps is kind of trash and they have

05:18:47.600 they have a lot of mana issues like they can go oom out of mana like super easy so i'll support you

05:18:53.680 though like if you guys want to start becoming like play video games on twitch and shit i'm down

05:18:58.400 let's play fortnight i don't know i don't really let's play fortnight

05:19:01.440 so you're saying you will stop will you stop your only fans if i yeah if we got like

05:19:10.800 uh what what if we got what if i like got really popular on stream on twitch yeah okay you guys just

05:19:17.440 keep coming back we'll promote your video game streams would have to like have to have like 26

05:19:22.720 000 people or more people watching us 26 to 300 000 people watching the stream 300 000 yeah you

05:19:29.520 realize that's the top that's the highest nikki minaj just went on kai's stream yeah and they got

05:19:34.640 hit 300 000 yeah but that's like they're like he's different if you want to do this let's do this

05:19:42.720 girl okay what's that for madison is that okay yeah and you can totally like not answer this if this is

05:19:50.080 like you know like crossing anybody go ahead go ahead do you feel like in your experiences with

05:19:57.520 dating i don't know if you've been in you know your situation for how long or if it's something that

05:20:02.400 you you know but do you feel like you you have like do you feel like girls like will pull away or

05:20:11.520 something because of your situation like do you feel like you have that like sort of thing where like

05:20:16.080 what situation like in a wheelchair yeah yeah um so it's actually no no it's actually completely

05:20:23.520 regionally based um in america i have never noticed that in the world and actually in all actuality i

05:20:29.040 think it i have i i one i kind of became a more cool person but also like i i fully believe that

05:20:37.120 like it's it's a very disarming thing because like you know i'm sure it's it's just disarming whereas

05:20:44.320 and i i i have like increased my ability to like date women yeah since i've been in a wheelchair

05:20:50.800 in america but in foreign countries and not in the americas where like you know they don't have the

05:20:56.560 america's disability act and like because you got to think like especially when i was running through

05:21:00.960 my very first election i they ran this attack out of me of they were like oh he's just a playboy

05:21:07.040 who like hangs out on beaches all the time and blah blah and they just like sent this they sent to like

05:21:12.240 three hundred thousand houses this mailer and like the whole front page of it was just a picture

05:21:17.680 of me like drinking out of pineapple shirtless and i was in the best shape of my life of all time and

05:21:22.960 i was like thank you so much because like because like especially a lot of the older crowd i was at

05:21:27.520 a very older district you know like they grew up with people in wheelchairs not being able to do

05:21:31.360 anything yeah and so then when like i've got all these old guys being like that dude's jack oh he's

05:21:35.840 good and so but when i go overseas i've noticed that it's a significant disadvantage yeah yeah but

05:21:41.760 aside from that especially when girls because like i really i really i like i i like buying girls really

05:21:46.000 nice shoes and so but not really nice shoes always hurt their feet apparently and so it's great because

05:21:52.160 then they can sit in my lap and then they get like if they're like they get tired they can sit in my

05:21:55.760 lap and no one's like oh get a room they're all like high five you're the man dude it's great

05:22:00.400 i'm dead that's really would you date a guy in a wheelchair yeah okay for sure madison okay

05:22:14.240 okay um going back to you do you prefer kinsey or mckenzie i prefer kinsey kinsey okay

05:22:20.880 okay you say that you think society is losing traditional values of a relationship and is

05:22:28.080 detrimental to the future of society and ourselves we are separating as men and women more and more i

05:22:32.640 think the single life is glamorized and we are refusing to acknowledge how essential these long-term

05:22:37.760 relationships are for ourselves and future so you said society is losing traditional values

05:22:44.000 yes don't you think you're contributing to that by doing of yes

05:22:53.600 okay i mean yeah there's there's no doubt about that okay um but do you do you consider yourself

05:23:01.280 traditional i don't i don't label myself no okay so what you're saying is um what you're saying is

05:23:10.000 is that you're gonna delete your only fans and become a world of warcraft streamer is what you're

05:23:18.960 saying i'll help you kinsey i will help me i will help you consider it i will bro i used to be a

05:23:26.240 fucking gamer like degenerate i don't i haven't played video games in since 2020 i used to be

05:23:34.720 fucking addicted literally addicted to world of warcraft i will bro i i still know this

05:23:39.680 shit it's in my head son it's in my head bro i'll tell you the best like the okay if you're

05:23:45.040 going to play warrior and rogue right on alliance you're going to want to be human because human

05:23:49.680 they have sword and mace spec right the the racial abilities right you're going to get plus five weapon

05:23:55.280 skill to sword and mace that's fucking huge like glancing blows and raids and

05:23:59.680 shit huge right right kinsey very big very important so big so yeah and then like if you're

05:24:05.920 priest for example and i think you're you might want to play priest so you can be a support healer

05:24:10.400 class you're going to want to play um dwarf is it dwarf yeah it's dwarf because of fear ward

05:24:18.560 fear ward only dwarf priests get fear ward very important boom boom boom now if you're going to play

05:24:24.240 mage or warlock i would recommend humans decent but i'd recommend like gnome because gnome has

05:24:29.520 that like was it plus five plus ten to intellect so it's very important but like definitely if

05:24:34.000 you're going to be playing alliance you want that for sure you got to get the weapon skill because

05:24:39.520 for sure best in thought weapons or swords do you play video games no girl i have no idea i've got a

05:24:46.320 i've got a just this is a dating centric thing i know my my questions and comments have not been

05:24:50.560 very dating centric i apologize all right you're all good so i have a very close group of friends like

05:24:56.160 we all call each other brothers like we're all absurdly close so we have a bet that like once

05:25:01.280 all of us have like a girl that we want to spend like a long time with like like marriage quality

05:25:06.080 um we're going to pick a game and then we have one week to go so we're gonna separately like on a date

05:25:12.400 be like hey plan the greatest trip of your life like if you could go anywhere what would you want to

05:25:17.440 do and just have her like dream it make the greatest like i want to go to switzerland i want to jump off

05:25:22.160 of swiss alps i want to like then go to dubai we make them play all four of them plan like a unique

05:25:27.680 trip but then we tell them all right so all four of us like all eight of us are going on one of your

05:25:33.680 trips but whoever gets to go it's the winner of a video game and then we all have a week to train

05:25:39.600 them to see how good they could really get and that's just something i'm very excited for

05:25:43.360 it's beautiful it's beautiful okay i feel like that would would you guys be down to do a hot tub

05:25:48.720 stream no let's do it i'm down on your only fans nope no here oh actually i did actually i did

05:25:58.160 think about doing like a dating talk episode like do it like a hot tub episode but um that'd be

05:26:05.040 awesome i got a dad bought right now so i gotta like get my six-pack back before i even fucking

05:26:09.760 think about taking the shirt off i got a fucking dad bob or i gotta lose weight so what's wrong

05:26:14.160 with it i used to have a six-pack and now it's gone we're body positive yeah what's wrong with

05:26:18.320 that we are not body positive i gotta be i am not i if my friends are getting fat i will be like you

05:26:24.160 are fat i'm not we're so what about the adam sandler but we could do like for guys so kenzie i

05:26:29.360 i'm going i was going to save cindy but i i don't know if i can i'm going to save you kenzie we're

05:26:34.240 going to fix you you're going to abandon your degenerate hedonistic life in orlando you're

05:26:39.600 going to delete your only fans you're going to start playing world of warcraft we're going to

05:26:43.600 set you up on a farmstead here in santa barbara just like you just love uh and all that you delete

05:26:48.560 your instagram tick tock only fans yeah you'll yeah good times with it no more as well get like

05:26:55.920 baptized on your twitter and instagram and also i know he's saying he'll help you guys train this is

05:27:00.960 something this is the last thing i'll say if any of you want to like pursue a relationship

05:27:06.000 with christ like seriously i won't like personally help you one-on-one because that'll get like really

05:27:10.560 emotional and that's just not right but i like especially for like i have like two or three

05:27:16.320 phenomenal books for girls that are just so easy to read and just lays it out so beautifully like

05:27:22.080 doesn't speak to me at all it's very feminine but i have heard from like lots of women i respect

05:27:26.640 like this is the book to give to a girl and so anyways if just send me a message what's the title

05:27:32.560 i don't know all the titles off the top of my head but yeah i don't i don't normally

05:27:36.640 like give spiritual counsel to women but well looks like i'll be safe i love that you're spiritual

05:27:42.880 real soon thank you good times um so let's see we have notes here we did cindy we did mckenzie

05:27:53.040 catherine 20 uh okay uh you're a single mom good times um how you said you wanted to talk about

05:28:02.560 uh dating as a single parent so uh how have you found that to be good bad neutral bad very bad

05:28:11.680 no not that bad it's it's like um it's just like normal dating but it's a little bit different because

05:28:18.880 i mean i could treat it how not as serious but what i want for my life and my future and my child

05:28:29.040 i feel like i have to be very rigid with my standards um and that could be kind of disappointing

05:28:34.960 sometimes because people are very disingenuous uh but i feel like everyone experiences that whether

05:28:41.840 they have a child or not oh that reminds okay um would you object to a guy not wanting to date you

05:28:50.960 because you have a kid yes for me that's like a deal breaker well of course it's a deal breaker

05:28:57.360 because he wouldn't want to date you but do you think it's wrong for a guy to not want to date you

05:29:02.560 just because you have a kid no i think that's that's fine okay going around the table on that

05:29:06.640 do you guys think that's a valid preference for a guy to not want to date a single mother

05:29:12.400 those of you i know it's very tight can some of you try to scoot into the table a little bit

05:29:17.600 um well not not you but because then you're just pushing us this way but

05:29:22.640 no you're good madison i just meant most of these girls but i'm on wheels man i can get there quick

05:29:26.880 so one of my friends he has a kid so his preference might be dating a woman that has

05:29:32.800 a kid as well so i've actually they have something in common i've actually heard from a lot of women

05:29:37.840 who have kids that they would prefer to date a guy who doesn't have kids i've heard that limits the

05:29:44.960 variables yeah because i can think of a few reasons but um okay um totally going somewhat off topic

05:29:55.440 related to i removed the chat modesta commas chat about what is a woman would you object to a guy

05:30:03.760 and this is where it's dating related would you object to a guy not wanting to date somebody

05:30:08.640 who is transgender starting with you cindy go ahead uh personally no i wouldn't date anybody that's

05:30:17.280 trans no but you would you object to a man who wouldn't want to date a transgender woman would

05:30:23.280 you object to that whatever he likes everybody okay sure different tastes preference

05:30:28.800 yeah into the mic oh yeah i just said it's preference yeah yeah i don't really care

05:30:38.000 like would you think it's discrimination or anything same

05:30:40.720 no i would actually prefer it if he like wasn't attracted to transgender people like just

05:30:47.840 okay heterosexual yeah i agree um no i don't object

05:30:52.560 yeah i think it's preference i agree with what she said we all agree it's okay cool cool so

05:31:01.840 for my thing i i what people again especially if i'm like talk what oh god

05:31:07.680 i thought you grabbed the wrong cup

05:31:12.640 oh my gosh oh

05:31:13.760 yeah i was like oh we're never talking again um

05:31:19.680 the uh actually you know it's funny trans people you know it's funny deborah on that episode with

05:31:26.880 chase yeah spit in his cup and he drank it oh i think granted she wasn't actually that what's it

05:31:33.040 called the true the zen okay she didn't have it's like snooze actually wait no i think i have it

05:31:38.480 reversed chase i for she might have drank his i don't remember anyways anyways whatever bad yeah

05:31:46.160 so like my whole thing on it is like i think that from from a government perspective i don't think

05:31:52.000 the government should get involved um from like a personal perspective i like you know bullying is

05:31:57.840 not good like especially like drive people to want to kill themselves all this stuff but like

05:32:01.120 there needs to be some amount of shame that's added on to when people are just like destroying the

05:32:06.160 norms of culture because like you look at the fall of like the four greatest civilizations all

05:32:10.640 of history whether it's the byzantines which were technically romans or was it whether it was the

05:32:14.880 romans whether it was like certain dynasties in china whether it was the the ottoman empire

05:32:20.000 at the end of those like the last 100 years you saw the cultural norms just are being eroded on

05:32:26.000 every level whether it was gender whether it was government buildings whether it was like how you

05:32:30.480 carried yourself whether it was how you ate whether it was how you dressed people trying to destroy

05:32:34.880 all those cultural norms where you don't even know what truth means anymore and it's just terrible

05:32:39.760 um and so i think that we should be like no dude being trans is really weird that's like a mental

05:32:44.000 thing and it's like it's it's gender dysphoria and you know we used to treat that as like something we

05:32:49.280 wanted to cure now what i have a really big problem with in our society is we are pushing like a point

05:32:57.840 five percent even if it's i don't even know if it's that point five percent of our population is if they

05:33:02.720 are the most important most dominant thing in the world and when you're trying to shove stuff down

05:33:07.280 my throat i don't like it like if i'm not going to go sit outside like a mosque and sit there and

05:33:12.720 like go inside and hold up no no no okay we got mike right here with the canadian 70 madison do you

05:33:17.600 believe in freedom of religion for satan worshipers how about freemasons you seem like quite a tolerant

05:33:23.440 fellow do you believe tolerance to be a christian virtue um sorry guys either we're getting into tls territory

05:33:29.840 so i just had to copy that so i do not believe that um are we i serve a tolerant god in the slightest

05:33:36.480 i think he is a just god i think that he offers forgiveness to everybody um because of christ that

05:33:41.920 didn't used to be the situation that's why we're so thankful for him that's why we give like that's

05:33:45.600 why we honor jesus christ and because he's is god um i do not believe in freedom of religion for

05:33:51.680 satan worshipers i think satan is the epitome of evil he's here to lead us into the darkness and

05:33:56.080 destroy us but i do believe in the freedom of religion for just about everybody else reason

05:34:00.400 being is because i believe in a fair and open contest the truth will win out every single time

05:34:05.760 and like you know i i think that i i believe in the spiritual realm more than i believe in the

05:34:09.760 physical realm and so you know like i think that there are good forces and evil forces out there like

05:34:14.240 i think you need to be on guard for that kind of stuff like when people are like oh i had a dream and

05:34:18.000 like someone was talking to me about saying oh just give us your soul and you'll be good to go i'm like no

05:34:22.080 you like literally had an encounter with a demon like you need to be prepared for that um and you

05:34:27.120 know the bible taught it instructs us on how to like fight in a spiritual warfare but you know so

05:34:31.520 i believe in freedom of religion for everyone aside from satan worshipers they are worshiping my enemy

05:34:35.360 and i will fight them on everything and also shout out to the guy who decapitated the state satanic

05:34:40.480 um statue inside i think the iowa state capitol oh nice okay um going back to you katherine you said

05:34:50.320 that you've broken into oh you're good don't even don't worry uh you've tell us that story the broken

05:34:57.840 into what yeah so i feel like i already knew coming onto this like panel i wanted to be like very honest

05:35:04.560 and stuff and i feel like i've learned a lot especially becoming a single mom and i feel like

05:35:08.960 i can look back at my behavior and be like i was unhinged like there was issues so i've had like two

05:35:15.840 situations where i've broken into my boyfriend's houses before and i thought it was normal like i

05:35:23.520 thought like i wasn't it wasn't odd but i'm literally breaking and entering like that's why did you do

05:35:29.760 that a little light-hearted b and e well one of them um he wasn't replying to me

05:35:36.400 are you able to scoot into the table a little but so hold on so one of the guys you broke into

05:35:46.560 his house because he wasn't replying to you and i i felt silly because once i like opened the window

05:35:52.320 is that a felony by the way and crawled in he was playing video games oh that's how you did it

05:35:59.520 it's a yikes um can i can i add a comment on that yeah that's a really quick one yeah yeah

05:36:09.200 they're like i think if your girl's not a little bit crazy a little bit crazy i don't think she

05:36:15.280 really loves you now breaking and entering is way too crazy but like you know like your girl should

05:36:21.520 want you so bad that like she's like like but like you know she should trust you and honor you and be

05:36:26.240 respectful to you and submit to you but like you know i don't like crazy i like calm mellow yeah and

05:36:33.280 i agree and i feel like it says a lot about the woman acting like that it says a lot about her

05:36:39.280 what was the second uh the second breaking well that was actually the second felony that was the

05:36:44.880 second break in the first break excuse me um it was another like another boyfriend and with him he

05:36:52.240 was still living with his parents so i hopped the fence to get to the house and then i had to

05:36:58.000 break into the doggy door oh my god oh my god you crawled and then i broke it you crawled in yeah like

05:37:05.120 i put my hand inside and i unlocked the door yo you crazy you are crazy that's not what i mean

05:37:12.480 we're gonna say like a little did you think he was like cheating on you is that no no i needed help

05:37:16.480 like oh my god finding my phone or something so okay my phone it was lost so red that's a deal

05:37:25.360 breaker for me if my girl comes by my spot like uninvited breaking in to the so i was like freaking

05:37:31.680 out because my phone was like gone right so i was trying to look for my phone are you the type of

05:37:37.040 chick that's like if the dude doesn't respond to you within like 30 minutes you're like she broke in

05:37:42.640 because the guy was playing video games yes clearly so clearly why aren't you responding to me

05:37:48.560 yeah okay wait can i ask one question qualifying question it seems like you were

05:37:55.840 unrealistically concerned about your phone being missing why were you concerned about its contents

05:38:01.840 and that he might have them in his home no it was because i was no i was out with my friends and

05:38:08.160 keep in mind like i was driving with them so then it was like in her car but i thought i had lost it

05:38:16.960 gotcha so i i was just scared like oh where's my phone so then i went to his house because i just like

05:38:22.800 i needed a help you know i was just trying to get help and he didn't really react any switch

05:38:26.800 way he was just like were they cool with you breaking in no i mean they didn't find out oh they didn't know

05:38:33.600 no because i broke in and i just like went into his room oh so it's still there so you basically

05:38:39.600 like had access to the home you just the door's locked yeah that's kind of different that's like

05:38:46.080 she just didn't have a key and like found it's still it's still a little bit i mean still a little

05:38:50.000 crazy but like it's breaking and entering yes i have to own that um would you do that now no i would

05:38:59.600 never do that you okay so then you have you done any other crazy shit like slash tires no i've never

05:39:06.000 slashed ever gotten revenge on the boyfriend no going around the table for all the girls here

05:39:10.560 have any of you slashed a dude's tires going around no anybody show of hands maybe a show of hands

05:39:15.760 any tire slashers have any of you gotten revenge oh you did no but it's happened to me oh it happened

05:39:21.680 to you okay oh yeah have any of you have any of you gotten revenge on the boyfriend in some sort of

05:39:30.640 way no by leveling up you did yeah how did you get revenge um into the mic i wouldn't say into the mic

05:39:41.360 into the mic i wouldn't say um revenge i guess i don't know i just i got better without him so what did

05:39:49.200 you do um i got a new job bought a new car oh i mean that's basic stuff yeah that's not really okay

05:39:57.440 you let's see you also said modern dating has become very warped with modern society most people

05:40:02.000 are very stuck in their ego and it gets in the way of true connection yeah oh because and me saying

05:40:08.800 that you were saying this one point about yourself how you want a girl to kind of be all about you

05:40:13.120 right yeah i kind of feel like from what i've kind of experienced with going on dates and stuff

05:40:19.600 i do get that um energy kind of from guys like they want me to really show them i'm really about

05:40:25.680 them but it's a little bit like contradictory to me because i want them to pursue me and then i feel like

05:40:34.800 once i see their effort in pursuing me i can reciprocate that um affection that they're looking for

05:40:41.200 but i feel like straight off the bat the guys are kind of like okay show me how much you like me

05:40:46.080 and i i just don't like doing that because i just feel a man should pursue yes so do i but i think it's

05:40:54.320 a man's ego because everyone's out here thinking oh we deserve the best you're number one love yourself

05:41:00.000 you're awesome and guys are having that too which is great but it's almost like a an ego thing because

05:41:07.760 they don't want to get hurt so then they can't really be like vulnerable and show that side to

05:41:12.160 the woman and actually pursue but that that kind of whole thing you're talking about where guys are

05:41:16.640 getting that too it's a feminine trait like this whole like self-belief thing is a feminine trait like

05:41:23.040 guys we should be brutal with ourselves like the way you hear me talk like when you i i speak out loud

05:41:28.400 i'm like oh i'm great i'm good at this like all affirmations but in my head i am like so critical of

05:41:34.080 the littlest things like oh i stuttered on the word butt 16 sentences ago like in a three-hour

05:41:39.120 speech and i'm like well that means i just got to go do like 700 push-ups and just torture myself dude

05:41:43.840 and i honestly feel like it's not to be like anti-feminist or whatever no be anti-feminist

05:41:50.400 but i low-key feel like feminism has been pushed so freaking much that it's caused like a lack of

05:41:58.560 masculinity in men like it's like okay like there was a point where okay women weren't getting equal

05:42:05.120 jobs or equal pay but now it's like okay they're getting equal jobs and equal pay but now it's like

05:42:08.640 they feel like they need to take over and like not enough men are getting jobs now or not enough

05:42:14.480 men are you know so it like contradicts the fact where it's like women want the men to be

05:42:20.080 the the women want the men to pay and stuff but it's like also like if you are the type of

05:42:24.720 girl to be like oh feminism and like and then want that when you're like want his job or want

05:42:32.560 you know what i mean like not that you shouldn't but like it's like now it's caused a lack of like

05:42:38.960 now men feel more feminine and they're put in places where they're there's so much feminine energy

05:42:46.160 where it's like they forget that all the traditional and like whatever how it was so i feel like it's

05:42:53.680 honestly because of the movement that you're right you're 100 right feminism is to blame for all the

05:42:59.840 ills that are facing society i 100 agree with you you're super based feminism is toxic

05:43:06.480 feminism is toxic for men and women it's uh it's absolutely disastrous to society and to men and

05:43:12.080 to relationships and to kids and to boys and i i 100 co-sign i 100 co-sign moving on with katherine

05:43:19.280 here you said one time you were making out with a guy and i saw a micro peen and the guy acted like

05:43:23.680 it was big after that i had to go and that's when i that's when i like discovered that i would not be

05:43:30.800 able to do like a small penis question though if you said he acted like it was big yes if he didn't

05:43:39.120 act like it was big would you still have been cool with it i think if he would have presented himself

05:43:43.520 in like a more modest way it wouldn't have been like right as big of a turnoff and i feel like i

05:43:49.040 could have been able to you know level with him as a human right because i'm not perfect nobody here

05:43:54.800 is perfect yeah but i think it was more just oh the way it was presented to me that i was just like

05:44:03.040 you're not gonna make me stupid was he was he erect yeah i was like or is it because some guys are

05:44:08.480 are what's it called the grow they're they're growers not showers it was it was so sometimes

05:44:14.960 flaccid can be not that big i mean it's it's the smallest one i've ever seen um i don't know if

05:44:22.320 here show us with your finger no no no show us like this how big it was probably a little bit bigger

05:44:28.000 than no should you show so i know what you're talking about like maybe like this wait show it to

05:44:33.200 the camera that's small to you that's like five i've seen one like that's like average

05:44:40.640 no that was that was like hard though wait can you show no that's not no no no should do to the

05:44:46.480 camera again dude no no hold it up hold it up high high high there you go not even the two fingers

05:44:52.000 that's really this is a ruler but that's like four or five inches yeah that's not that's not a micro

05:45:00.240 penis a micro not my girl but it's on the smaller side it's it's slight that looks like slightly

05:45:05.920 below average yeah this girl's just been fucking dudes with giant dicks i guess and all the other

05:45:11.120 dicks afterwards this is why you don't want like to i mean this is why body count is this is why body

05:45:16.320 count matters because like you you you land on a dude like who's super fucking no well there's a lot

05:45:23.600 of reasons but keep in mind there's a lot of reasons why all we were doing was making out

05:45:27.840 he's how did you see it initiated he just took off his pants and the reason why i said like he was

05:45:34.000 proud of it because he he like whipped it out he said he said touch it oh wait that's not that

05:45:40.480 hold on but i was like what were you guys starting to get into a state of undress no we were just like

05:45:48.880 making out like heavy making what okay question like try to be totally unbiased here were you up

05:45:56.800 until the micro penis which it's not even the micro penis were you like dtf be honest were you down to

05:46:05.920 fuck yeah so it's i don't think it's out of the like if you were dtf you were down it was heading in

05:46:13.600 that direction he's maybe a little cocky with it but i feel like maybe it wasn't the most

05:46:20.160 don't you want don't you want a guy to be confident though you don't want it you don't want the guy to

05:46:24.240 be like oh my god i'm so insecure about my dick blah blah blah like don't you want like i mean

05:46:29.280 number one it was disrespectful for you to just whip out your penis and say touch it that's so

05:46:35.840 weird yes girls will say that shit girls will say oh that's so disrespectful and want a guy to

05:46:40.800 fucking drag you by your hair slam you up against the fucking wall kiss you deeply and passionately

05:46:47.040 talk all kinds of dirty shit into your ear fucking bend you up like come on bro you look

05:46:52.320 most girls like come on bro it's disrespectful really it is you were down to fuck so i like come on

05:46:59.840 yeah i don't need to i don't need to interrupt can i get some water yeah okay cindy

05:47:05.280 there's lauren i'm feeling thirsty can you get her some water um yeah like i said i think it was

05:47:12.880 more just the way it was presented and i think it just kills the whole vibe from it so maybe as

05:47:17.280 before okay so you wanted to okay i i get that but you wanted it to be more of like a more gradual

05:47:23.520 slow build-up you felt it was too like like if you pulled yeah and then it was almost more cringy

05:47:29.280 because i actually you know what i want to walk back my statement i see what i want to walk it back

05:47:33.840 a little bit i actually if if it's like just way too like if there wasn't this sort of gradual build-up

05:47:40.720 i can get especially if it's your first time yeah i can get i get that i get that yeah if he just was

05:47:46.000 like you're just making out your clothes are still on and he's just like exactly i get it okay i get it

05:47:51.120 i get it i just felt very awkward because i think as a man you you you want to make them feel like

05:47:58.080 you know you like their penis they are going to feel good about that when you make them feel that

05:48:02.320 way and i can't just fake it and be like oh wow what's so sure i i mean every girl i sleep with

05:48:10.960 has the best pussy ever that's i want to know what you said when he did that though like did you just

05:48:16.480 like awkwardly be like i think my face probably like did he put it back like wait if he had i

05:48:22.640 didn't touch it question question if he had had a giant schlong would the move have gone over better

05:48:29.680 you think that's right it was just like anaconda like just a fucking maybe okay all right maybe

05:48:40.160 sorry madison but only because at that same thing though like pulled it out well that's what i'm

05:48:44.960 talking about i'm like don't pull it out like you're so proud and it's like like maybe don't

05:48:49.520 lead with that yeah we weren't there so i don't know like how cocky he was being but i can definitely

05:48:54.480 see if he was being like kind of a little too cocky about it yeah it's like i don't know how to act

05:48:59.760 because do you want me to keep hyping you up like oh yeah like i'm not gonna do that especially when

05:49:04.880 you didn't initiate for him to take it out you know what i mean like he just pulled it out actually

05:49:09.760 no tact wait do i want to reveal this i don't know tell us yeah you do

05:49:16.800 look i think i'm really modest in that department like i i would

05:49:20.160 fuck it bro i don't give a fuck i feel like i've got an average penis right and like i actually like

05:49:25.680 if if i'm with a girl yeah this shit's kind of funny if i'm with a girl and she's like it's so big

05:49:32.400 i'm like bitch shut the fuck up no it's not i'm like bro it's average i don't want you to tell me

05:49:38.320 it's big bro just say it's average dude i know it's fucking average girl to be like oh yeah no

05:49:43.680 no i don't want some girls i don't want her to say anything about my penis size like what do you

05:49:48.640 want her but it's like oh you're so average no i don't want her to say it's an average penis it's

05:49:54.880 just like don't i don't have a big dick don't tell me i have a big dick it's it's

05:49:58.880 fucking i've got an average i've got an average penis it's like like a guy telling a girl oh my

05:50:04.320 gosh your boobs are just so huge and it's like they're not yeah i hate that i mean the she might

05:50:11.280 have small boobs they might be nice boobs like i like small boobs small boobs are cool big big boobs

05:50:16.640 are cool too but like yeah if i'm in bed with a girl and she's like oh my god it's so big i'm like

05:50:22.320 shut the fuck up you liar it's big for her you know because some average sometimes they're tight

05:50:29.920 sometimes they're look they're tight whatever they're yeah and it's big to them it's the motion

05:50:34.720 of the ocean also i will say also i will say like here's the crazy thing and we were kind of talking

05:50:41.360 about like like how a lot of the girls here haven't come with most of the guys they've been with

05:50:46.720 um i will say that i think that the women's orgasm response is much more varied than men's

05:50:54.720 orgasm response and like i think like granted some men can be very different but for example

05:51:02.160 i think the spectrum of like for example i've been with a girl who can come within five seconds and

05:51:07.600 she can have multiples and she can squirt and it's like i barely have to do anything and then i'm

05:51:12.560 spoiled right and it's literally i'm not even exaggerating literally like i enter her and she's

05:51:18.240 coming wow sorry madison um or like literally three strokes boom she's already came and then

05:51:24.560 she keeps fucking it's insane and then you'll have other girls who you'll do the most for she can't

05:51:30.000 even come from like vagina like uh penetrative sex you got to get toys involved you got to

05:51:34.320 fucking get like uh carpal tunnel syndrome on your hand and shit like bro it's hard dude i'd be trying

05:51:40.320 to make some of these chicks come i'm like bug my hand hurts hello it's because i feel like with

05:51:44.160 men it's more just about sensation but with women it's like sensation and mental it's more that's

05:51:49.760 right that's why you gotta like pull her fucking hair and be in her ear and just talking all kinds

05:51:54.160 of fucking filth okay never mind oh my god good girl what very freaky huh very freaky we know what

05:52:02.640 brian no this is this is like vanilla this is pretty vanilla shit but um what was i saying um uh

05:52:11.360 what was uh something about peanut i don't know you said that orgasm's very oh yeah like um i mean

05:52:21.920 my goal with sex at least for me my goal with sex like i want to make my girl come before me and if

05:52:27.680 she can multiple times before me can you tell everyone to be that way well like my view is is

05:52:33.920 like like i i don't get these guys that don't because okay obviously one you want to please

05:52:41.440 your partner you want to make sure that your partner is satisfied and then even if i let's say

05:52:46.000 i approach it from a really selfish point of view if i make my girl come before me like not not all

05:52:52.640 girls are gonna be like this but she's gonna be like ravenous afterwards like if she's come

05:52:57.040 if she ravenous it's gonna be ravenous and also like from a purely selfish perspective let's say

05:53:03.920 i'm having sex with her and she's coming while i'm inside of her that feels really good sorry

05:53:09.920 madison wait what no um that feels good and she's gonna get super fucking wet so if i want to be totally

05:53:17.920 selfish for my own pleasure you should want your girl to come either before you her or during that's my

05:53:26.160 view even does it give you pleasure when she comes it turns me on okay yeah it turns me on and i i want

05:53:32.720 i want her to but it's not it's not there is a selfish component of like it feels better for me

05:53:39.280 but it's but i do i do want to please my girl like i want her to get off again before me so

05:53:46.160 you can do that with hands you can do that with toys penis if you can sometimes it's hard though

05:53:50.720 sometimes the penis doesn't do it and you know most girls don't actually know that they're orgasming

05:53:57.200 so some girls can't come or it's really hard most girls can't like especially from like just purely

05:54:04.000 sexual intercourse yeah it's so it's so normal so yeah for a long time i was like why is this not

05:54:10.160 happening to me like some girls can't even come with toys if she can't come with toys you're not

05:54:14.240 yeah good good luck and it's just it's a normal thing i feel like no one should feel like

05:54:19.600 no i agree though i think like there's definitely dudes that i mean if you're engaging in casual sex

05:54:23.600 though a lot of these guys probably aren't they're more focused crazy even if i was like having a one

05:54:28.320 not that i like one night stands because if i have sex with a girl i want there to be continuity like

05:54:32.480 any girl that i want to have sex with i want to continue seeing her i don't know if that makes me

05:54:36.240 like an outlier like most dudes are trying to hit and quit it i think that's a waste of time

05:54:41.040 but like i would want i would still even in the one night stand situation which i don't like i would

05:54:46.240 still want to make the girl come so um so anyways good times good times very good time good good

05:54:55.920 chat okay all right uh so but it was a micropenis huh i think it was guys the size matter wait yes

05:55:06.880 yes wait going around the table does size matter yes yes no no hard yes uh size queens over here

05:55:19.440 go ahead it's okay you need a nine inch or we get it no oh okay all right yes for me as long as

05:55:28.880 it's not a micropenis and you know how to use it then size doesn't matter i go with what she just said

05:55:36.560 and y'all were shaming y'all got penis preferences i have labia preferences for micropenis is a

05:55:42.160 is still considered a dick so um what right no you're so quick yeah it's a you know it's a skill

05:55:52.720 um i will say actually to wait question for you so did you like did you walk out in that moment

05:55:59.360 no like i waited like a little bit after like wait did you guys fuck no oh okay no no after that it

05:56:05.440 killed the vibe oh it killed the vibe so we kind of stopped making out for a little bit and then i was

05:56:10.320 just like i think i'm gonna go home you guys probably thought about that every day i never

05:56:14.720 saw him after that yeah i thought about that for a long time rip and and that's the thing again i'm

05:56:20.400 not trying to like shame him to be like oh but it's it's the way it was presented to me more than

05:56:25.680 anything i mean the more the more once you really explained it it sounded pretty not tactful yeah good

05:56:31.360 shit good shit okay we have salem here she wants to talk more about her pay pigs one million total

05:56:37.440 bankrupted the guy oh no okay not gonna talk about that one um oh your only fan says that

05:56:41.920 you're a goofy switch who also likes to experiment with kinks yes i am a switch you see also in your

05:56:49.440 only fans it says you do threesomes girl girl boy girl solo content toy play cream pies facials bdsm

05:56:54.960 content actually i haven't done that yet but which one cream pies facials it literally it says i know

05:57:00.880 i know bro that's not meaning to do that holy shit i haven't posted the ftc

05:57:04.800 fucking get her for false advertising hello bro these girls oh yeah i do cream pie

05:57:10.960 can i ask a random question like whenever she wants to i don't like talking about my sex life

05:57:16.000 like in public public forum that's fine that's fine i'm from the south okay good christian

05:57:22.240 boy but what is like the recruitment process for like guys for like oh do you just like walk around

05:57:29.760 like dude you congratulations no no no ever since i started it i was in a relationship and i've only

05:57:35.920 been with one guy or filmed with one guy i would never film with other other guys sorry my bad but

05:57:43.600 wait so on your of though you have done threesomes uh with girls oh with girl yeah like three so three

05:57:49.760 girls total uh yeah you've done girl girl content yes well duh brian okay boy girl content yes okay

05:57:57.920 but not the cream pies and facials even though it's listed i just have not yet posted them because

05:58:03.600 i'm still like okay false advertising okay good times um you do custom videos picks sexting sessions

05:58:10.080 dick rates you rate dicks your dick rater okay is it on a one to ten scale i thought all dicks are tens

05:58:17.920 or wait what are all dicks tens no no i thought okay um you said tips get priority messages you're

05:58:26.720 oh you're going to dubai for six months we talked about that oh hey go uh go to charnel chic it's

05:58:31.840 just it's like they have a free flight over in egypt it's phenomenal uh you've you have you

05:58:37.200 bankrupted any guys since your last appearance no no okay did you say bankrupt a million what who said

05:58:45.120 that oh so she's been she was previously on the show and she has like pay pigs that pay her or

05:58:50.400 whatever and i think the the um the total amount that she's made allegedly all from from her pay

05:58:58.160 pigs and sugar daddy and sugar daddy's is over a million dollars and you're 19 right 20 oh so would

05:59:04.560 you just consider that like off of only fans or would you like how do you differentiate if it's between

05:59:11.120 like pay pigs i think it doesn't even when they asked me that question i it was like sugar daddy's

05:59:17.120 pay pigs so everything yeah only fans included yeah oh okay literally okay it's like a dude who

05:59:22.960 just a pay pig is a dude who just like sends girls money for pretty much nothing yeah and they get

05:59:28.960 the pleasure out of it in such a wild world life life on easy mode i have just never that's wild yeah

05:59:35.600 actually let's go around the table on this so um um just since people who are watching now might not

05:59:43.840 be familiar with everything you said salem um you've in total you've made a million from like simps and

05:59:49.360 uh pay pigs and sugar daddies just sending you money correct what what was the highest amount

05:59:58.160 that you've ever been paid in one transaction i wouldn't really like to talk about like payments

06:00:02.720 and like amounts well i think you did before yeah i know but yeah but it was like a total like yeah

06:00:08.080 i just don't really like want to like but okay has one guy there's been multiple guys who have sent

06:00:12.960 you over six figures total correct no not one guy but i've made six figures off like

06:00:17.680 people like collectively well no you've made seven figures collectively one million dollars

06:00:23.360 well yeah like but there's one there's it sounded to me i could if i'm recalling this incorrectly

06:00:29.520 well again well maybe i there's there's been some guys there's some guys who've sent you over a

06:00:34.160 hundred thousand dollars total no well no thirty thousand oh okay yeah cool going around the table

06:00:41.280 do you have any pay pigs or sugar daddies currently or no i just do only fans

06:00:45.840 and playboy actually too i do playboy playboy centerfold yeah i'm proud of you cindy yeah

06:00:53.440 congrats thank you you're a legend can't anybody just create one of those play playboy centerfold

06:01:00.000 pages no you need an invite playboy asked me but oh they have to invite you so you just email them

06:01:04.880 like can i get a playboy centerfolder they dm me you can apply yeah you can apply

06:01:10.720 okay uh going on the table sugar daddies no sugar daddies right now pay pigs though you got pay pigs

06:01:17.840 tell us a bit about that tell you what about it um well like what's the degree to which they're

06:01:24.160 being pay pigs how much are they like what's the what's the most you ever ever got in one transaction

06:01:30.320 i'm also not going to discuss that either so but they pay small amounts over a period of time

06:01:35.360 and whenever i ask how about can you provide like total you've made i'd rather not seven seven

06:01:41.760 figures more i'd rather not yeah okay all right rights what about you any sugar daddies or pay pigs

06:01:50.480 or any like dude sending you 500 bucks for feet pics that kind of weird shit no offense dudes but that

06:01:55.520 shit's kind of weird um any sugar daddies pay pigs here and there but um have you ever sent feet

06:02:02.240 pics of course have you ever sent feet pics hell no i mean i do only Cindy you've sent feet pics yeah

06:02:12.400 send the asteroid boys send the asteroid

06:02:15.360 i'm sending oh shit boom madison almost saved us there um feed pics you send feed pics yes

06:02:26.800 haram okay um hurrah

06:02:30.320 hot um um no any pay pigs or sugar daddies what about you

06:02:36.560 before yeah before yeah before yeah but okay so okay okay okay i've had during that like

06:02:50.080 how does it go it was actually can you do it can you do it no i cannot i i'm above that now it was

06:02:55.760 that period it's cute i think it's so cute are you kidding i started doing that when bella porch

06:03:01.680 is that yeah like that she made it like a trend she made it like like and then i did it and for

06:03:07.040 some reason people were like oh yeah bill porch 2.0 so you had the sugar daddy yeah you had a couple

06:03:13.440 sugar daddies i've okay i've had two at the same time okay but um nothing like really major like they

06:03:22.880 would but i had plenty of people would like asking for a few pics someone would ask for like

06:03:30.320 would you send them no you know okay you have yeah yeah i have for how much what's the cost

06:03:38.960 feed pics um well it's it's kind of strange somebody wanted a feed picture for 500 and i was like

06:03:49.200 it's 500 for 500 yeah hey yo madison how much for you to sell feed pics i just you wouldn't do it

06:03:57.840 i just wouldn't do it someone said 30 000 you would not do it what what what salem over here

06:04:04.240 wants to pay you 30 000 for your feet for feed pics picture of my foot yep yeah man no i just

06:04:09.920 you wouldn't do it i can't get on board you wouldn't do it no it's just like your dick

06:04:14.480 no no i completely understand that it's just like you have to like i have to imagine like what's

06:04:19.760 going to be the downside like it's gonna be a political article madison contact

06:04:22.960 what are you saying madison are you saying there's no number that could buy you oh absolutely

06:04:29.760 there's a number okay so like million dollars yeah million dollars absolutely okay also i want

06:04:35.840 to make something clear when i had the two sugar guys i wasn't like doing anything like yeah for

06:04:40.240 like yeah you're just extracting money from them yeah same no actually no no no that's what a sugar

06:04:46.320 daddy is i mean they would only want to have a conversation with me a lot of no but just like for

06:04:50.960 money right yeah but what was the cost it was cheap i was i was not that i was like 50 bucks for 20

06:04:58.560 minutes no usually it's not like a set yeah like it's not like a set number if they would say something

06:05:07.600 like an extra like a lot amount of money i'd like no like you don't need to do that like i would do

06:05:12.640 20 just for a phone conversation you know okay so wait 200 20 20. oh 20 yeah i wasn't i wasn't

06:05:19.760 them prices i wasn't no i wasn't trying to i wasn't trying to like just i'm not a ticker you know yeah

06:05:31.120 sweet what about you any sugar daddies pay pigs none well you're currently dating dudes who just like

06:05:37.040 get you food get you smoke you out yeah so they're kind of i don't think that counts as like a sugar

06:05:43.840 daddy that's a boss like like smoking i don't know where'd you go cheesecake factory red lobster where

06:05:49.440 you going where's your going yeah weed's expensive at the dispensary they tax there's really high taxes

06:05:56.800 so let's just get it from the locals no i go to the dispo no salem salem what's oh i think we

06:06:04.960 already went over salem's stuff um what about you any pay pigs sugar daddies okay no have you ever

06:06:12.480 had a sugar mama madison no are you down are you down for like a sugar mama it depends like what it

06:06:18.720 means what if she just like got you a bunch of zen what if she's like yo i'll find you

06:06:22.640 oh dude you know freeze in for life talk to her about christ or whatever

06:06:29.280 yo all those fucking sugar mamas in the chat you got a fucking dm madison right now

06:06:34.720 and he's gonna talk to you about jesus religion i'm sure you've gotten like a dm or something oh

06:06:40.800 yeah of someone being like soliciting uh no i you know what i actually i have not had

06:06:48.000 a like a proper sugar mama offer what about a guy i mean i've had girls i've had girls offered like

06:06:54.880 take me on dates and or like girls who are like down to fly out to come and see me but i've never

06:07:00.160 had a girl who's like let me financially support what about that because i'm sure really i haven't

06:07:05.280 had a no i feel like i'm maybe one dude like i've maybe had one dude man i get or to financially

06:07:12.480 support i guess it's like my name oh shit you get a lot of like gay dudes just i mean and there's

06:07:17.760 also like like like log cabin republicans which is like a big thing what's that it's just like

06:07:22.640 would you say your name is like a is a unisex oh no i've got a girl's okay so my dad had a boy

06:07:28.160 named suit philosophy yeah it's great i love my name i would not give up my name for anything like

06:07:34.000 i'm waiting for the sugar mamas where are the fucking sugar mamas but would you actually accept

06:07:38.800 money from them why do you why not this is this is like equality yeah i'm super down to do a role

06:07:47.280 reversal on this you want as a chick you want to send me free money but what would you do in return

06:07:53.760 all the all the shit that women don't do for the sugar daddies that they have what do you mean what

06:08:00.320 would i do i would everything yeah huh no no no what i'm saying is like a lot of y'all do nothing

06:08:06.240 and get all this money i would equally do nothing and yes but what you can send me money if you want

06:08:13.600 because we don't do nothing no yeah you talk to them or whatever like blah blah blah but it's

06:08:17.440 not nothing all the time i'll say isn't that doesn't like go against your traditional

06:08:20.880 fee picks is like 7k if you want my fee picks that's 7k you can't make 7k yeah i'm a i'm i'm

06:08:26.320 inexpensive i'm expensive so wow sorry ladies yeah i know my word i know my word i actually think

06:08:33.360 salem over here like kind of you need like for uh for i don't know if the right what the right word

06:08:39.760 is retribution salem you have to be like this is the circle of this the simp circle of life salem you

06:08:47.520 have to be my sugar mama to make up for all the like pay pigs that you have are you down

06:08:53.360 actually you know it's crazy like in japan i don't know if you guys know with uh japan how

06:08:56.960 there's these uh like a lot of women who are prostitutes they in turn maybe it's from the

06:09:03.920 trauma or whatever they will go to these host clubs where they pay men to sort of be their boyfriends

06:09:11.360 oh yeah you can rent like a girlfriend a boyfriend isn't that like an escort uh well

06:09:17.280 no the hosts don't even really sleep with them they just like give them attention literally just

06:09:22.160 be sure to take out on a date but what i'm saying is ladies all of you girls who do only

06:09:26.960 fans here like i'm here to be your emotional support just pay me a ton of money so if i be your

06:09:32.800 sugar mama you'll be my emotional support how much you pay me would you get him a vest like

06:09:37.840 do not depends on how good your your session oh i'm your therapy sessions are and oh i'm great

06:09:42.800 i'm super good i'm super good but i'm expensive i'm expensive salem but this is the simp circle of

06:09:49.600 life so we'll see i don't like crying can i ask one big question girls who are like having only fans

06:09:58.640 did you guys have any kind of super traumatic thing that happened i don't want to know what it is

06:10:03.360 uh but like have you had like a like a big traumatic incident in your life it hasn't everybody

06:10:10.320 no well or like i don't know but let's

06:10:17.360 but but salem since we've been talking for you a little bit salem i will save you i will fix you

06:10:22.080 you're gonna abandon your degenerate hedonistic life in los angeles are you in la where do you live

06:10:28.320 uh orange county you're gonna abandon your degenerate hedonistic life in orange county

06:10:35.120 you're not going to go to dubai you're going to delete your only fans well you i will be your

06:10:39.040 sugar sugar you're gonna be my sugar mama i'll be your sugar baby we're gonna give you money if

06:10:43.920 we can't do only fans that's true okay continue your okay as long as all of us as long as i'm your

06:10:49.840 sugar yes all of you who do only fans except for you cindy i will be your sugar baby i'll be your

06:10:54.880 sugar baby i'll be your sugar baby matt no but the thing is when i go to the middle east i

06:11:00.080 completely stop my only fans exactly but i'll be here for you i'll be here for you i'll hold it down

06:11:05.440 i'm gonna hold it down salem i'm gonna hold it down yeah interesting i can't do it over there my

06:11:10.880 allowance like you literally can't first of all i literally can't second of all i don't want to do

06:11:15.840 it while i'm over there it's just can you afford my allowance my i have a 69 000 a month allowance is

06:11:22.560 that too much that's light um that's light that's light can you afford it i just said that's light

06:11:28.800 that means yeah so it's a lot of it's a lot of money tell you what salem i'll give you the homie

06:11:35.520 discount uh we'll do 50k okay i'm a nice guy i'm a nice guy that's way better um okay cindy what about

06:11:42.000 you can you afford me can you afford my allowance no yeah i'm trying to do the simp circle of life

06:11:50.240 you guys got to give back you got have you got to talk about the philanthropy where's the

06:11:56.160 philanthropy in you guys come on you got to give back okay it's the circle of life all right we've

06:12:01.120 gone okay we did oh salem tell us about the bankrupting stuff tell us about that what do

06:12:06.960 you think i've only bankrupted one person have you bankrupted any guys no i have not i thought you do

06:12:13.280 find them but not everyone gets bankrupted okay have you made a guy take out a second mortgage on

06:12:20.080 this house no salem any second mortgages on the house too okay cap all right we have got a blast here

06:12:29.120 uh you wanted to talk about what wait what was that i'm just being cute oh okay cool yeah i i wasn't sure

06:12:37.040 um red flags and guys and girls who's more complicated in a relationship guys or girls

06:12:42.480 um yeah it really depends girls could be but a guy could be like yeah this is for you though got a

06:12:49.040 blast oh where what you said you want to talk about the jimmy new drum yeah yeah such a good show

06:12:58.000 yeah it is okay did you want to talk about that oh i'm sorry um i just wanted to know what the

06:13:10.000 girls think because majority of the time i would hear girls saying like oh nothing nothing that

06:13:15.920 they're doing is like making the relationship complicated and they're always like quick to

06:13:20.400 blame the guy for the complications so i just wanted to like see like what

06:13:27.280 everyone like thought about that because although it can go both ways do you feel like

06:13:33.200 guys are more complicated in the relationship or do you feel like you can be more complicated in

06:13:37.440 the relationship it really depends that's a good question relationship on what the dynamic is and

06:13:43.200 what's going on and you know like if one person's a cheater or if one person's a gaslighter

06:13:47.920 or a manipulator like you know what i mean it really can go both ways but a lot of relationships

06:13:54.000 tend to have a lot of gaslighting and i feel like that's a big issue because if one person

06:13:58.560 in the relationship doesn't really know how to recognize gaslighting they could be easily

06:14:04.160 manipulated and like if there's a problem let's say we're dating and i did something but then i'll

06:14:10.720 quickly spin it on you and then you'll believe that and feel like you did the wrong when in reality you

06:14:16.800 did nothing yeah i feel like that happens a lot in relationships i'm not gonna lie girls do that

06:14:21.680 a lot because they're good at that's what i'm saying that's what i'm saying that's what i'm saying

06:14:24.640 because girls are so quick to like they're really good at gaslighting not even like own up to their

06:14:29.360 wrongs but men do that too but men do that too yeah i agree with you guys women do everything wrong

06:14:33.600 you're totally right everything wrong whenever like there's a relationship ending it's always the

06:14:38.720 woman okay i'm kidding i'm kidding uh i mean i think dudes can definitely be like sassy and

06:14:43.360 shit yeah like sometimes i'm like yeah i'm kind of being sassy like what the fuck i mean a lot of

06:14:49.760 guys don't yeah bro sometimes i'm in a mood bro i think i might i don't know you know i think that

06:14:56.400 women i get moody i'm a moody fuck sometimes um i'm pretty level-headed though i'm pretty level-headed

06:15:04.400 i think that sometimes women can also be kind of manipulative with their emotions and they like

06:15:09.120 like like play into that a lot and i think guys their natural response well some of them will kind

06:15:15.920 of be like oh like they want to cater to them and try to fix the problem and i think that sometimes

06:15:22.960 girls kind of stay in that victim mode a lot and that's also very damaging to a relationship

06:15:29.520 okay um let's see we have uh okay i just have notes on for two more of you guys we have and lease

06:15:37.360 um one time my ninth grade ex carved my initials in his why don't you tell the story

06:15:44.560 okay go ahead and elise am i saying your name right yeah and elise um oh thank you um one time

06:15:51.920 just like i was in ninth grade like i was 14 i was in my first relationship or whatever like it wasn't

06:15:57.920 even an actual relationship but this dude was just really mentally ill like he has so many issues like

06:16:05.440 like he broke into a house like was stealing cars like he had serious problems and i told him you

06:16:13.360 know since you're doing all that i i gotta go and he decides to carve my initials a t into his chest

06:16:21.920 and then snap me a pic of it and you know 14 year old me was like oh sorry i did not mean to press that

06:16:28.720 one next commitment what i was just scared so i like told my mom

06:16:39.520 i've done that before and he got like sent away is he i've done that before you carved initials wait

06:16:45.600 you did that yeah i used to be oh girl wait say it into the mic no yeah i've done that before like

06:16:51.840 when i was like 14 i was in like a relationship with a guy way older than me and uh i had never

06:16:58.560 even met him he was like some really some artist i don't know if you guys saw this i don't know if

06:17:05.760 you guys saw this video this video recently kind of went yeah i think this video recently went viral

06:17:11.760 where there was a dude who was like it was like the almost like fuck what's the word for it he was in

06:17:20.080 his car and he drove his car into a shopping mall because his girlfriend broke up with him and like

06:17:26.400 the noises he were making were so like animalistic it was like scary i'm like bro it's scary how much

06:17:34.240 that happens or like a lot of guys do like do things and then blame it because oh because she broke up

06:17:40.560 with me or because and then they'll do really violent acts and then blame it on my ex got my initial

06:17:47.520 tatted on him oh would you would you guys ever get would you guys ever get your significant other

06:17:53.440 tatted on he was my husband yeah husband yeah yeah oh in general in general like let's say you've

06:18:00.080 been together for like eight months you're dating no no eight months or like a year okay a year

06:18:06.960 no not even no no i'm doing it good we know okay brian i had like a question for her but i don't

06:18:17.360 know if i could like ask her right now what me well no for you because you had said that after

06:18:22.800 this um he was saying oh i hope that like i could change any of your minds and you were like oh this

06:18:28.000 actually made me want to become like what makes me want to do only fans like why would you say that

06:18:34.960 like after this conversation you want to do only fans i think it was a joke yeah yeah it was somewhat a

06:18:40.320 joke but it's like she's she was really good i know these girls are confident they got money

06:18:46.080 do your thing how could don't let anyone stop i could work a nine-to-five and have a career and have

06:18:51.520 of if i wasn't with the person i think it gets tricky whenever you try to mix like certain careers with

06:18:57.600 only fans i think it's glamorized a lot as well i don't think it's for everybody

06:19:04.320 no everyone you you have to weigh the the trade-offs if look i i understand the appeal

06:19:14.560 she can work a nine-to-five right she can make that money save up maybe use that money to buy

06:19:21.760 a new apartment have a nicer like well yeah but a lot of girls think they can join

06:19:26.640 only fans go ahead continue cindy go ahead she can have like she can buy her own like new apartment

06:19:31.520 new studio where she can make those only fans content more and um everything is about consistency

06:19:40.000 everything is about putting your heart and soul into something and that's what's going to come out

06:19:45.280 yeah that's good so if you're if you want to do a business you got to put your heart and soul

06:19:51.040 you got to invest in yourself so if you're not doing that then it's not going to work in your favor

06:19:57.520 i'm not trying to say that like people that are right now in their house not where they are like

06:20:04.720 they may not be even in the nicest apartment does not mean that you cannot make it i was making i was

06:20:11.280 making content on an iphone i was i did not have money i was grinding on tick tock for so long

06:20:17.840 build my fan base and that's how i got to have this privilege to do what i do now

06:20:24.160 because i manifested this lifestyle and it's beautiful yeah but i also think a lot of girls

06:20:32.640 and god too oh let me just do only fans like i'll make a bunch of money and like it's so easy but

06:20:36.880 then uh then i've seen a lot of girls starting only fans be consistent and do everything that everyone

06:20:43.040 else is doing and fail and not make money yeah i think the social media behind it is like a big part

06:20:49.840 yeah it could take you years to make even as much as you're making on a regular nine-to-five

06:20:54.880 yeah it's not i think a lot of people think you like make the account and you're like exactly you

06:20:58.960 post like one thing and doom like well yeah that's the other thing like that's not it the upside is you

06:21:03.360 can make a fuck ton of money but there's a chance that you don't succeed and you make an average

06:21:10.160 amount of money or even like very little so you have that on your name and then that's out there

06:21:14.800 forever but uh i mean i understand the appeal because like hmm can i do this kind of degenerate

06:21:23.200 thing for a couple years and make a fuck ton of money and then i can retire early and not because i

06:21:29.120 fucking get it like slaving away at some fucking corporate office job sucks the soul out of you like

06:21:34.960 it's most people are not going to be the reality is when it comes to the what you do for work you're

06:21:40.480 probably you're not going to have a career you're going to have a job it's going to be like not

06:21:45.680 something that's particularly fulfilling you're going to be making a ton of money probably for

06:21:49.920 somebody else or not even you're going to be doing some like kind of lame job and um you're just going

06:21:57.520 to be a wage slave and just being a corporate drone and okay i'm going to work until i'm 65 and i'm

06:22:04.880 nine to five for all i get it i fucking get it but what you do also have to ask yourself what is the

06:22:11.360 trade-off so that's why i started doing youtube fuck that shit i ain't doing no fucking corporate

06:22:19.600 do you think you experience trouble in relationships with what you do uh i mean i've said it before on

06:22:24.480 the podcast there's certainly women that wouldn't want to date me because of what i do i think one of

06:22:29.200 the differences though is like and i don't know if we really got into this but like there's

06:22:34.720 definitely girls who do of and it's like no it's not going to hurt my chances at all well okay it's

06:22:39.520 definitely going to close the door to some guys and i view like me doing this having one just even if

06:22:45.760 my shit was totally tame and this is a controversial show even if i was totally tame like family friendly

06:22:50.800 content there's definitely girls out there that would not want to be involved with that sort of public

06:22:55.840 social media content life they might be more private they don't want that level of attention

06:23:00.160 on them like even like family friendly people got stalkers and like all kinds of weird shit going on

06:23:05.600 so um but add on top of that the fact that this is a controversial show we talk about culture war

06:23:12.640 stuff we talk about politics i have like semi-toxic i'm semi-toxic or whatever so i don't think i'm that

06:23:19.200 bad but um uh yeah like there's definitely girls that would not want to date me so but i'm not like

06:23:26.000 i accept that it is what it is um yeah i guess we could say the same thing then yeah the difference

06:23:34.320 it's a little different yeah it's a little different because

06:23:39.040 like i'm not saying what i'm doing is like i'm perfectly insulated from like any bullshittery

06:23:44.000 or criticism or like you know me being out there in the public sphere can then have you know various

06:23:51.360 i mean there's a lot of pros to what i do but there's definitely cons also so um but that if

06:23:57.920 a girl doesn't want to date me because i'm out there in the public ether that's no problem whatsoever

06:24:02.720 that's totally fine absolutely yeah so but it's probably also opened up doors too so i suppose you

06:24:10.000 might be even be able to say that about you doing only fans like maybe i really i personally i think

06:24:17.440 it has just because open doors dating wise though like i mean i know you're out there so like dudes

06:24:23.600 are like sliding into potentially yeah more so um more so in i mean what i would seek in a guy

06:24:32.240 guys who are in a high position and like um like connected to social media not doing only fans but

06:24:39.840 like only fans management related or like agency related you know i think one they're accepting of

06:24:46.160 that and two like of course they want to pimp you out of course people in that and people with

06:24:53.360 you're saying only fans managers who have who stand to profit would like date you of course they would

06:24:58.880 date you because they want to pimp you out no yeah i mean i mean have you dated the guy have you dated

06:25:07.120 a guy who did of management no i have yeah i was just i was just saying like i feel like that would

06:25:11.520 like i almost feel not specifically but like anybody like in social media like well sure sure

06:25:17.280 sure but i feel like you gotta be as a girl you'd have to be cautious of a guy who's 100 who like if

06:25:22.960 you started dating him and he's like let me manage you like are him are his intentions yeah that's not

06:25:28.880 his intentions like he genuinely likes you and maybe like or does he want is he wants that money

06:25:36.160 yeah no 100 there's a lot of like i didn't i wasn't like saying but yeah that is something to

06:25:41.680 be careful of um okay so the the carving thing that shit's fucking crazy don't don't do that guys

06:25:48.880 if if your girl doesn't isn't about it move on and find another girl okay hook up cool you said hook

06:25:55.520 up culture theories on dating opinions on dating app orange peel theory have you done that to a dude

06:26:01.440 can you explain what the orange peel theory is i'm i feel like i'm not gonna be good at explaining it

06:26:06.640 because i feel like i haven't even done it myself but i've just like seen like videos okay fine i'll

06:26:11.120 just explain it okay so the and actually i haven't heard i didn't hear about it until i heard it from

06:26:16.000 you so i looked it up so basically the orange peel theory is i guess this is advice for girls if you

06:26:22.000 have an orange you just like bring it to your boyfriend or guy you're dating and ask him to peel it

06:26:28.000 and like the way he responds to that could be an indicator like does he just be like oh okay yeah

06:26:33.760 another problem babe or if he's like nah you can do that what are you talking about like do that

06:26:37.360 shit on your own so it's like a test almost yeah to see like is this guy gonna like help me with

06:26:42.480 like a simple task does he care about me i think it's important to pay attention to those things you

06:26:47.920 know just small things like like um like as simple as like opening like a water bottle for you

06:26:54.960 that's why that's why on the first date i make my girl fold my laundry i invite her over i've got

06:27:00.720 the house cleaning day i have the laundry going i'm like yo come help me with the laundry really

06:27:05.600 quick see all that let's bring it in we gotta fold it oh you fold you you're good at folding cool

06:27:10.880 cool cool okay yeah i would do that would you guys on the first date would you fold laundry yeah i'll

06:27:16.560 help like i'll help i mean it would be dope if she was just like if she was just like i got this

06:27:23.200 that'd be dope but i'll like that's not the act though like are you gonna cover dinner i've done

06:27:28.320 it before yeah i i yeah if i'm hanging out with a girl yeah let me i thought you said that i'll get

06:27:34.240 you a burrito but you like you don't like to do do what i thought you said you didn't like to pay for

06:27:39.120 first dates yeah i don't okay so my position on this has slightly shifted so the the most optimum thing

06:27:50.400 that you can do when it comes to dating if you want success is to just fucking pay for the first

06:27:54.640 date but you could also just go do something free you could also do something that's affordable if

06:27:59.120 you want but uh if but i tend to only date women that are like really into me so like if i'm dating

06:28:08.800 a girl and like if i met her on a dating app for example and i deleted dating apps a while ago i don't

06:28:13.360 do dating apps like i haven't done dating apps in a very long time uh if i meet her on a dating app

06:28:19.280 and like i can tell like the interest is like medium or whatever and there's a chance that she's um

06:28:26.400 cucumber oh oh yeah yeah i'll talk about the cucumber i got that um if uh what was i saying

06:28:34.000 oh like if i know she's probably like dating other dudes like not if you're

06:28:37.840 if you're talking to other dudes like i'm not gonna pay for you but if but if you're properly

06:28:43.200 single yeah i got it i'll pay for everything but if like no if you're talking to other dudes like

06:28:49.600 we'll go we can go when i will be a provider and pay when you are committed to me if you're committed

06:28:56.800 to me i'm taking care of everything but until that point we're going 50 50. we might not even get to the

06:29:02.640 point we want my that was before now i don't even entertain girls that are like entertaining other

06:29:10.560 dudes like be fully for me and i'll be fully for you quick so yeah i know it's crazy right yeah yeah

06:29:20.400 you can't tell by just one date though what do you mean to like fully for you yeah like maybe you

06:29:28.080 one day i i mean maybe the dudes you're dating you aren't like this is the guy but that's what i

06:29:34.240 want you're saying the first day you go on yes i want the girl on the first date if she wants a

06:29:42.080 second date i want her to be like i don't want to fence sit her if you didn't if you didn't like me

06:29:48.960 move on because i only like dealing with women that like have a really high level of interest i've

06:29:54.160 dealt i've done the let me let me like chase a girl blah blah no i don't do that i'm very i feel

06:29:59.440 like i'm very direct i like you you like me let's be together very simple we don't have to do this

06:30:04.720 oh let's go let's be in the situation ship for three months and be other people at the same time

06:30:08.640 but no no no no but i feel before i make a girl my girlfriend i'll take her on like probably two or

06:30:16.640 three dates oh i'm not saying you got to be like boyfriend girlfriend but like let's give this an

06:30:21.680 opportunity yes like hey let's give it like a real shot let's give it an opportunity to flourish

06:30:26.880 because at least for me if i know that you're like again like if you're another dude and trying

06:30:33.360 to date me like i know it's a wrap it's done could you imagine let her be exclusive for you on the first

06:30:38.480 date though right if she wants a second date if she's so first off if she if she's gone on if she's

06:30:45.200 gone on a first date with me and she's another dude i don't want her if she's dating other guys like

06:30:51.440 but she hasn't slept with them they have to be gone by the time goodbye i'm i like no i like

06:30:58.560 brian huh how do you know she's not lying like that's a terrible i mean if you if you're if you're

06:31:04.560 interested as a girl and you want a long-term relationship with me starting it off on a lie

06:31:10.640 is a terrible fucking thing to do yeah they do that though well i think but why like if you

06:31:16.160 to light regardless but i'm super up i'm super up front with this one with girls yeah i'm super

06:31:21.920 up front about it if you're not on that speed you kind of want to date around that's totally cool i'm

06:31:26.160 not the guy for you go date around but they play those games though so how would you but if you but

06:31:31.200 here's the thing i feel like if a girl really fucks with me and really likes me she's gonna like

06:31:38.320 she she has to get on my program there is no it's not a negotiation yeah and again if if a girl

06:31:44.960 doesn't want to get on my program that's totally cool but it's my way or the highway the other dudes

06:31:49.840 have to be a rap and some girls they're not really feeling me like that and that's totally cool

06:31:54.400 i get back to the streets you go i get that yeah and also i will rescue you from i feel like there's

06:32:00.960 a lot i i know i what i put out like whether it's on my social media because like obviously first

06:32:06.480 impressions are very rarely first impressions anymore like you can know a lot about somebody

06:32:11.200 before you want to date with them and i'm i i feel like i put out a lot of

06:32:18.080 energy and just presence that like you know it i don't i don't think i would ever attract a girl

06:32:23.920 that was like wants to play games would like want to go on a date with me it's just like

06:32:28.640 yeah like like some girls who were in like with very toxic relationships whatever kind of it it is

06:32:34.560 like there are just some girls who get in those relationships all the time and other girls who

06:32:38.480 like i've never really been in one because like they just put out some like energy where it's like

06:32:42.240 oh you know that girl's probably gonna put her foot down if i'm starting to like get real

06:32:46.640 like messed up and so yeah i i i don't think a girl that was gonna lie and play games is even

06:32:53.280 gonna want to go on a date with me i agree with you madison i think it's energy and it's also

06:32:58.000 communication of what you want and match each other's right uh brian i feel like usually like

06:33:06.880 girls try to play it cool though when they're dating because they don't want to be like the

06:33:10.800 psycho girl that's all like obsessed over the guy right so they try to like play it cool yeah

06:33:15.120 but what would you like recommend for the ladies um if they are actually interested in a guy how

06:33:21.200 to kind of like show that to the guy without being so forward and then kind of like being

06:33:26.080 the pursuer kind of being like hey i want to take you seriously yeah i mean i so if i don't like i don't

06:33:33.040 like women to be like in a sort of like super like i don't want a girl to be like let's fuck like

06:33:43.520 i want a girl but i don't object to like a girl taking initiative because you can do so in a feminine way

06:33:49.680 way that's not like you can even approach a guy in like a kind of feminine way like i don't like

06:33:56.720 if your word approach guy out you see a guy you like out in public most women don't do this granted

06:34:01.600 but like you can do it in like a feminine way um so i don't think most i think most men don't have

06:34:09.760 necessarily an issue with women initiating or approaching so long as you do it in a way that's

06:34:15.760 still feminine well i'm not so much talking about initiating it's more once you're already on the

06:34:20.880 date to kind of like communicate it to the guy like hey i want to be oh i'm taking the lead she

06:34:25.680 doesn't need to do anything yeah like she doesn't like she can turn her brain off on a date with me

06:34:29.840 like like she just wants one or just enjoy it and all this stuff but then also when i the way i

06:34:35.200 think a girl really shows that she like enjoyed a date or like wants to pursue something you know

06:34:40.000 is the way she's gonna text you afterwards talk to you afterwards you know whatever

06:34:43.680 um but then also just kind of like showing some intentionality like let's say i mentioned like

06:34:47.680 oh yeah gosh i had like i had a hydrangea die at my house and like i just mentioned something off

06:34:54.560 hand they remember and then all of a sudden like she just a small detail like maybe she just like

06:34:58.160 popped by and you just like notice on your front doorstep there's like a hydrangea i don't even know

06:35:02.320 what a hydrangea is i just picked it randomly but just some like little thing where it's like oh like

06:35:07.200 i literally drove all the way to your house that drops it off not even knowing knowing i wouldn't even see

06:35:10.960 you because i know you're at work and then like i left just so you know i was thinking about you

06:35:15.440 i think people nowadays um men and women uh they'll go to other people like does he like me

06:35:23.120 does he like me like he did this like what does this mean she did this what does this mean they try

06:35:27.120 to like dissect it i think if you can't tell if somebody likes you like that's your answer yeah i

06:35:34.640 think if somebody likes you and wants to be with you you will know and i think if you don't know and

06:35:39.520 they're like oh but like he slept with me but like he's acting like this like i you know i don't

06:35:45.120 and also like i i don't know how like centrally your guys dating is like mine mine can be spread

06:35:50.240 out sometimes but like you know i live where i live and you know like i i don't i have very few girls

06:35:55.520 who like i tell them like i'm not interested or something or like you know we just don't go on a

06:35:59.520 second date or something like you know the word kind of gets around like oh he's like he's not like

06:36:04.240 here just like try and sleep with you like he wants to like be with you all stuff and then

06:36:08.000 i think it just they'll be real freaking clear on what the objective is madison do you use dating

06:36:15.280 apps no based instagram is a great dating app though it is based um let me see a couple more

06:36:23.040 things here we have uh okay there's the orange peel i have the cucumber slicing theory i don't know

06:36:29.280 if i should mention that uh i have a pickle i don't know what that is about the penny theory

06:36:34.480 word actually yeah um for anelise you said i would say one of my biggest hot takes is that it's very

06:36:40.880 hard to find people who want genuine relationships in college yeah but do you want a genuine relationship

06:36:47.200 i mean not necessarily but i mean i've i've had friends and stuff who want genuine relationships

06:36:52.560 with guys and like they just can't get it like they'll go up to a guy they think they're cute or

06:36:57.520 a guy will come up to them but just like i feel like college boys are just they're not they're not

06:37:03.680 worried about having genuine relationships they're just worried about something else i don't think

06:37:09.040 that's true i think that's like what you're putting your mindset if you want to date someone there's

06:37:13.680 always going to be someone that's like willing to want to date you there's guys that like just coming

06:37:19.280 out of high school um still a virgin trying to find a girlfriend in college finding someone

06:37:25.680 that respects him and she respects maybe that's that's what i was about to say it could be the

06:37:32.080 guys that she's chasing after that are like the boys of course the boys are not going to commit to you

06:37:39.120 i get it you want the like super hot attractive dude who's got riz blah blah blah whatever but like

06:37:44.720 if a guy has like an insane amount of sexual optionality he's like especially if he's young

06:37:50.960 he's probably going to play the field so like yeah i mean there's definitely like really attractive

06:37:56.720 dudes that want relationships most of those dudes are in relationships so the like the pool of

06:38:03.040 attractive men that you get left with are pretty much fuck boys and like so i get it it's definitely

06:38:08.000 tough for women to uh to find that but what i this does kind of tie back into like the whole

06:38:13.360 rating yourself on the one to ten thing that's you know maybe you're shooting out of your league

06:38:19.280 a little bit too that could be not you not you specifically but that's why i think it's important

06:38:25.520 to have a reasonable self-assessment of your own physical attractiveness that way you can like

06:38:29.120 assess okay like is this a guy that i can get commitment from am i like shooting out of my league

06:38:35.360 like is this guy just going to string me along because he doesn't view me as relationship potential

06:38:39.360 either because of my looks or just maybe i'm not bringing something from a personality perspective

06:38:44.320 too so um but i agree i mean certainly in college especially do you guys like party here in isla

06:38:50.400 vista and shit yeah yeah i mean ucsb number one party school in the us very hard for a lot of people

06:38:56.560 here to find relationships um you said something about mike shurm shurm you want to talk about mike

06:39:01.360 shurm did i say something about yeah you said you want to talk about mike shurm oh no no this is a

06:39:05.600 there's a tick tock of you and you're like all these boys in high school curved me but mike shurm

06:39:10.560 looked at me oh my god i know exactly what you're talking about did you hook up with no i did not

06:39:16.960 hook up with mike i don't even know truthfully no who the fuck is that guy i don't know who the

06:39:22.000 fuck mike shurm is is he a rapper or some shit yeah he's a rapper it's just that he's an asshole you

06:39:27.680 know i just like it was like a tick tock trend at the time sorry my term oh the boys at school never

06:39:32.960 looked at me but like at the time i had gone to see mike shurm and he like gave me the mic and was

06:39:38.240 staring at me the whole time so it was just like kind of like a cute little tick tock vibe nothing

06:39:43.920 serious all right uh we have let's see last notes here we have uh nicole but your name is sorry is

06:39:52.960 korea yes did i say that right yeah nicole is my middle oh that's your middle name okay yeah i wrote

06:39:58.400 down nicole you're in a situation ship you said you wanted to spill some real tea about why don't

06:40:06.720 you tell us i don't want to get like beat up by christian rock so i just don't want to say you

06:40:15.920 said you have hold on no no no you said you want some real tea you said you had photo and video proof

06:40:21.440 yeah i do can you send it can you send it to the whatever instagram just send it wait but

06:40:27.520 well are you okay with us showing it first off what is it yeah yeah what is that we just we were at this

06:40:35.440 bnb and it just like got really crazy with just some rappers and they were like a little a little

06:40:44.240 well the rapper wasn't weird it was more the people that was with him that were more like yeah like his

06:40:49.440 producer oh hey the rappers are always weird no no no i have a lot of rappers in my dms as well

06:40:58.000 not worth it i want to know like what wait actually yes i'm curious about that and then

06:41:04.160 we'll get into the tea you said you had a lot of rappers in your dms yeah i have rappers in my dms

06:41:08.880 drake not yet not yet would you smash drake uh girl yes

06:41:21.600 this is not going to give you advice but like a girl who's like living your life why would you not

06:41:25.360 do like drake be for real why would you not well i've never met him like i i know him

06:41:31.680 from kiki rappers are easy music and stuff rappers are easy yeah and they're usually weird i read you

06:41:40.160 wrong it wasn't the professional athletes is was it the rappers the performers i've never

06:41:46.960 been with a rapper but i have met them and i have communicate with that communicated with them

06:41:53.920 via iphone and they're usually just like on my phone smoke signals what's the other yeah how else

06:42:02.080 are you communicating with them email and shit you send them letters hello no but like they're just

06:42:07.280 weird they're so weird how are they how they're weird dude i've had like a really bad experience

06:42:12.800 with one of like they like okay i'm gonna i'm gonna give i'm gonna give a story is it okay

06:42:18.080 so name are you gonna tell the name or no name drop them girl i don't know if i should you probably

06:42:25.440 should for context i should you probably should i feel like okay let me tell the story first okay so

06:42:33.200 this rapper dms me and i he flies me out right um i'm at the air i'm like nervous and like i was

06:42:40.800 like feeling like impulsive this week like i don't know um he flew you out he flew me out you guys

06:42:48.000 smashed right no we did not well i'm gonna this is this okay so i'm at the airport and i'm on the

06:42:54.800 phone with my friend and he's like he has a girlfriend he has a girlfriend i'm like huh

06:42:59.600 and like i don't really like i don't know that much about him but like he's just telling me that

06:43:03.760 like he has a girlfriend i'm like okay that's super weird so i meet him he's like the vibes are like

06:43:11.520 okay it's whatever obviously he wants to have sex i know going there that i am not going to have sex

06:43:19.200 with him wait you knew i knew i was not going to have sex with him and then while i was there

06:43:24.400 like before he flew you out yes i mean but don't be naive like he flew you out and i that's i was like

06:43:31.280 okay i just want to like i just want to like meet him and like just see i was like okay like you never

06:43:34.880 know and like i said i was feeling impulsive i was like whatever okay so i get there and i quickly

06:43:41.840 learned that like it's not the vibes and um so he's obviously trying to like do things with me

06:43:48.640 we're in his house i take a shower the fire alarm goes off he's like we can't sleep here it's gonna

06:43:52.720 go off all night let's go to a hotel i was like okay whatever so i fly in at night too so it's like

06:43:59.920 late and i'm tired so we lay down and he's like trying to do shit with me and i'm like not having

06:44:05.760 it so i like fall asleep and he's like are you awake and i don't answer and he leaves the hotel

06:44:13.280 room like immediately who is this guy i wake up in the middle of the night and he's not there which like

06:44:18.560 i don't really care at this point because like i wasn't feeling him anyways and i wake up in the

06:44:22.320 morning and he's not there and he was like oh i went to the studio i'm like okay so i don't really

06:44:29.120 hear from him to be okay so just like let me recap did you sign it you weren't hold on let me just

06:44:34.800 so okay you weren't really feeling it you weren't down right like he he made a move but you're like

06:44:41.840 no yes and then he left yeah that sounds totally valid i mean yeah but i'm just saying like this is

06:44:49.840 just my is that i was just giving you my experience oh okay dude i don't think i don't think that's

06:44:54.400 like you weren't he flew you out you weren't ttf he's like i don't think even either

06:44:58.400 she's not ttf like yeah i don't think so either so i mean i i just think it's kind of like a funny

06:45:03.920 story okay and i do look back and i'm like i don't know why was it tupac no i wish he's still alive

06:45:10.960 r.i.p r.i.p in the r.i.p can i get a r.i.p in the chat r.i.p in the chat for tupac do you want to uh

06:45:19.440 yeah okay so name drop oh so basically he's like not telling me because so he texts me like

06:45:28.480 the next morning he's like oh what do you want to go do and i answer him and he's he's just like

06:45:32.800 being like really on and off so by 12 i was like okay i'm just gonna go home i don't say anything i

06:45:37.040 just check out of the hotel get a flight back home and i just was it chingy huh chingy what's chingy

06:45:43.280 he's a rapper from like the early 2000s chingy atlanta chameleonair huh jermaine dupree

06:45:54.080 was it jermaine dupree i don't know who that is oh this is how i'm like a boomer with this

06:45:58.800 shit uh was it was it um jay kwan who tipsy you don't know that's on tipsy say yes if someone

06:46:07.920 guesses i'll answer but like i am not i just don't want to get like in trouble for saying

06:46:13.040 anything is it like a list or like b list does he have a sound cloud okay okay i'll give you his

06:46:18.080 face tattoos face tattoos no no no just give us his back give us okay playboy playboy cardi vibe oh my

06:46:24.480 so like underground oh my god i would know this i would know this hold on okay um average height

06:46:33.600 maybe okay no i think he was still okay purr i don't really remember good talk i have some

06:46:40.320 who you got cindy cindy cindy cindy and i've met lil pump he was weird too oh my god was he on lean

06:46:48.400 i think so yeah yeah it was weird dude i have such a weird because he was ken carson too

06:46:56.320 i'm just gonna defend lil pump right quick he's a great guy stand up love him no so i was like

06:47:00.800 with one of them in opium but i'm not gonna name him because it's really awkward so he flew me out

06:47:06.160 and then i went to his airbnb we were cool it was actually like we vibed really like we were vibing

06:47:12.160 whatever it was cool and i slept over and then i woke up with a kidney infection like because i have

06:47:17.120 like really bad kidney problems so i woke up with a kidney infection which happens to me so i woke up

06:47:22.160 and i was like i had such a bad fever like and he was like are you okay like you have such a bad fever

06:47:27.440 and i was like no it's fine like don't worry about it so the day goes on and i get like

06:47:32.560 significantly worse like i'm like throwing up like going in the bathroom like throwing up and i'm

06:47:37.280 like oh my god like this can't be happening to me right now so then he's like i want to go shopping

06:47:42.160 and then go to the studio so i was like oh fuck okay so like he orders an uber and we got in the uber

06:47:47.280 and the uber i'm like literally passed out like i'm like i don't think i can do this so i'm like just

06:47:52.480 thug it out so i'm like all right whatever we go we go to the shop and he has like one of his

06:47:56.800 friends with him like one of his rapper friends so we go in the store and they're like shopping and

06:48:01.200 stuff i literally like sneak out to the front like literally fall on the ground and throw up everywhere

06:48:08.080 on mel rote like it was so bad and everyone's like looking at me so then yes and then so

06:48:31.680 okay sorry sorry i didn't mean to press that my bad so

06:48:34.080 where was i now you were throwing up oh yeah yeah okay so then we go to the studio right and

06:48:40.480 that's when like ken and like lonely and everyone show up and the moment they all show up i pass the

06:48:48.640 fuck out on the couch and i kid you not the guy that i was like there with takes a picture of me on

06:48:56.080 the couch passed out with my mouth wide open in front of all of them and i was just dead asleep the

06:49:03.040 whole entire studio session with all of them there and it was so embarrassing i never wanted

06:49:09.920 to see him again but did they know like what was going on with you no so he knew he knew and he was

06:49:15.440 being really nice about it honestly like he was being like super supportive like whenever we went

06:49:18.960 back to the crib he was like let me get you some food like you know like you have to eat but like

06:49:23.280 the rest of them like it was so bad cindy cindy you said you had like i love lonely so when like

06:49:29.840 lonely showed up i was like like there's no way like it was that's iconic uh cindy you said you had

06:49:37.360 some info or whatever well the most the most iconic is snoop dogg but i have like uh well i've been in

06:49:44.720 a music video before with a rapper hold on a bunch of other rappers yeah can you pull it to the edge

06:49:50.960 of the table what's what's the microphone yeah that way okay can you hear me

06:49:59.200 uh so you're good you're good but you said you just snoop dog that was just like a business thing

06:50:07.920 right that wasn't you didn't date no i didn't date i never did any of like the rappers but they've

06:50:13.120 all like they've they've all what dm'd me or snoop dm'd you he he i met him through a mutual friend

06:50:21.680 so it was a friend that's friends with him okay and so yeah no it was i'm very grateful of meeting

06:50:29.360 him he's a great guy it's truly an honor honestly meeting yeah you met him in like a professional

06:50:34.400 context i'm assuming is there something is there something you want to tell us we live in such

06:50:44.000 different worlds it's just been a blast meeting him so that's all you said there's some other rappers

06:50:52.080 yeah uh are you saying that you you snooped his dog

06:51:02.320 all right i don't know what i'm doing there that was good thank you thank you kinsey thank you

06:51:06.960 kinsey but who else trippy red answer my dm answered your dms

06:51:12.640 did you ever used to go to his crib and like all those parties that you used to have i feel like

06:51:18.720 everyone's been to like at least one of trippy red's parties he had like so many underage girls

06:51:23.600 every girl ever i feel like in la or anywhere like has been to like his crib wait who trippy red

06:51:38.880 oh yeah okay because we went to case walls bnb oh my god i actually sent the video but wait do you

06:51:46.560 want to actually i don't know if i no i'm not gonna i'm not gonna whatever there's some tea i don't want

06:51:52.480 to like i'm more into like nobody's though that's like i love you i don't want to be like a gossip

06:52:00.160 fucking channel so okay um let's see the last thing is um you said you hate this generation's

06:52:06.960 ideas of commitment and loyalty you yeah you said that yeah that's just it basically okay cool

06:52:18.560 you also said you want to speak about about how toxic men can be to women who root for them what does

06:52:22.320 that mean honestly i wanted i wanted to like be federal but i don't want to be too federal so

06:52:37.600 that's just what it is yeah i'm not sure what that means but okay what what can you define federal for

06:52:43.840 really quick like like just exposing yourself too personal like i don't want to get too personal

06:52:49.520 i gotcha i was just saying like good times good times okay let me do some chats then we're going to

06:52:55.680 wrap up the show we have modest a comma would you uh quick answers would you enter a state capitol

06:53:00.560 building and destroy a piece of art that was on display no one by one go this is what is this

06:53:07.200 question no it's about the satanic yeah no oh okay no no no why would i do that no why would you

06:53:15.440 do that oh okay good times all right thank you modest a comma um is it it's about the heading of

06:53:20.800 the satan you didn't describe like what kind of art yeah okay we have modest a comma here of panel

06:53:26.720 why do you hide your content behind dms are you worried you aren't enough why do you think you

06:53:30.400 aren't enough if your answer is money how much is enough common question to men so

06:53:34.480 why do you hide your content behind dms like he's saying why is it your content on the wall

06:53:41.360 my content is on the wall could you pay for that what i mean it's either like a subscription i mean

06:53:47.360 that's kind of like the whole point yeah that's kind of the whole point okay and i i think people

06:53:52.800 would argue are you worried you aren't enough i would argue that people would say like oh you only

06:53:57.680 have to pay this much to see this so i think that's kind of contradictory a little bit okay we have

06:54:03.840 modest a comma once again i'm interested in hearing from madison why he thinks american males fleeing to

06:54:09.360 islam why he thinks american males are fleeing to islam and the middle east um one i think that they

06:54:17.600 the middle the middle east um has a really good sense of and when we talk about the middle east like

06:54:24.480 what i think what they're with what he's talking about is probably a place like uae saudi arabia that

06:54:28.880 kind of place um like very established places that are decently western like the most of the

06:54:34.560 most of their leaders are princes like the prince of dubai was raised in america like it's getting

06:54:39.280 western the big main reason is it's just i think because guys just think that people in the american

06:54:45.520 christian church have confused meekness for weakness and so they're like oh i'm just gonna turn the other

06:54:49.840 cheek and a guy i really like is like oh yeah like if you like disrespect jesus christ to my face like i'll

06:54:54.800 turn the other cheek and then i'll slip and jab um it's just like it it is humiliating to be a man

06:55:02.560 and be in a religion where people can desecrate your god and make fun of him all the time and

06:55:07.520 there's no payback for it whereas in islam if people like attack you know muhammad they'll blow

06:55:13.200 up a freaking office building i do not condone blowing up an office building which is terrible but

06:55:17.760 like i think that's the reason why you see a lot of western men being like oh i want to be

06:55:22.560 are you referring as isis as like that's not islam no not isis i'm not talking about isis i'm

06:55:28.080 talking like this this is a pretty common talking point on like arabs don't just blow up anything

06:55:33.440 well i'm not sure if that was what madison was saying but i think he's saying that like basically

06:55:39.040 correct me if i'm wrong are you saying that like it's like it's totally cool like people will get

06:55:44.400 away with disrespecting like uh jesus christ but like if you were to attack the prophet muhammad that would

06:55:51.600 be like they would cancel you they would like they would that that has like so many different vectors

06:55:56.960 like that they are defensive of their faith

06:56:02.320 okay thank you hakama for that totally dating related question appreciate it brother

06:56:06.960 um okay so uh final thing we have two more tweets i think we have two tweets from

06:56:11.360 uh rocks rocky or rocks rocky go ahead pull them up and then we're gonna wrap why do sugar daddies think

06:56:19.360 hawk girls are single they are so shocked when there's more than one man paying for her literally

06:56:25.120 which is exactly why you shouldn't pay be a sim but yeah why yeah i mean i agree with you like

06:56:32.880 how are you gonna like engage with a girl who like does that and not expect that she's like doing

06:56:39.120 that with a bunch of other dudes like hello um next one

06:56:42.240 one cis men who really believe women have been submissive for centuries are complete clowns

06:56:48.560 men made statues of goddesses before society became corrupt so you're basically saying like that men uh

06:56:54.240 were uh that that men were like bowing down to women basically yeah women women controlled uh

06:57:03.680 spirituality religion and societies for a long time absolutely it wasn't always patriarchy

06:57:10.880 i would agree with you in that women have had a lot of influence over their husbands and there's

06:57:16.400 a lot of whipped uh dudes out there that yeah definitely like

06:57:25.040 you know you're talking about like when this like when the spartans would like yield to the oracle

06:57:28.880 of delphi if they're going to go to war and then like ancient yeah yeah i'm not talking about

06:57:32.560 uh okay okay cool um good times did you want to expand on that tweet at all or on ancient civilization

06:57:44.960 i guess it's pretty like not really you've got like what do you think about the roman empire

06:57:51.920 they wouldn't go they wouldn't go to war unless like the oracle delphi which is like

06:57:55.200 completely controlled leaders women were teachers and make matriarch was uh and still is in some

06:58:00.240 countries a big part of certain societies and things like that and i think this society um people are

06:58:05.840 very wrapped up in patriarchy and how um you know men are leaders and back to like the femininity and

06:58:12.240 feminism and things like that how that's the only way basically that's an old that's an old tweet

06:58:17.840 but people think that's the only way yeah i agree okay all right uh let me see here any

06:58:25.360 what are the final things we got to do before we wrap uh any final thoughts from anybody before we wrap

06:58:31.200 up i think you all were lovely thank you even me thank you even you okay all right we love you you

06:58:39.920 did not disappoint brian yeah all right thank you that aggressive so oh okay all right okay all right

06:58:49.920 any other fight anything from anybody else do girls ever talk about your temper sometimes i was just

06:58:55.920 curious do i have a temper yes yes do you have a temper off i've noticed no and on this yeah

06:59:03.680 like off podcast like off podcast you like snappy but i feel like you like demand respect like just

06:59:11.680 like the way you are it's it's very like masculine and stuff well it's like is it i don't know i think

06:59:16.960 she accidentally walked by like something oh yeah i got tilted that i got tilted

06:59:21.920 something like that i think you're a little demanding that's like you're you got a little

06:59:26.880 like temper but other things where it's like okay don't cut me off i could get i could understand

06:59:31.520 that you know what i mean but other things like when you got in the trunk like i i feel like i have

06:59:37.840 like a oh my god how do i explain this free the guy in the trunk um we're gonna go get him right

06:59:46.880 now yeah no don't worry he's still down there he likes it well here's what's like in my private

06:59:52.800 life i'm i'm like like for example i'm dating a girl i'm pretty fucking mellow like i don't like to

06:59:59.280 argue like these kinds of conversations these this is the last kind of conversation i want to have like

07:00:04.480 i ain't arguing with my girlfriend like this is draining like yeah uh but obviously we're here we're

07:00:10.720 like this is my this is like my job to debate as far as like behind the scenes like the reality is

07:00:16.800 like there's a there's a time and a place for like let's and have fun but like somebody has to be there

07:00:23.280 like yo we're making this happen like we want to get the show started on time i'm trying to move things

07:00:28.320 along um so i'm like i get that i'm very like there's like a limit there's a limit no because

07:00:36.320 i honestly i get where and i no look sometimes sometimes i can be like okay i i acknowledge it

07:00:42.160 oh i acknowledge it definitely sometimes i'm like sometimes i'm a dickhead to nick i i i'll apologize

07:00:47.840 to him sometimes i can be like way too stern yeah oh justice for nick justice for nick um free nick

07:00:58.160 but like like i don't know about you guys but like and maybe this is like because i used to be a

07:01:03.520 gamer like i used to play well i get that hold on let me fucking get it so i used to be this is okay

07:01:09.680 let me gamers are very quick can you lower the volume a little bit on this so i used to be like a

07:01:15.760 hardcore literally addicted to like video games so like this was my life so i would play world of

07:01:22.480 warcraft classic right and i was in a hardcore raiding guild so like what does that look like

07:01:27.360 you're going to be playing eight hours a day with a bunch of people in your ear and like

07:01:34.720 my the compared to my guild leader this is so ridiculous he like that dude was intense like if

07:01:43.680 you fucked up he was on you and like just having played video games coming from a gamer community

07:01:49.600 like you just like kind of have this abrasiveness and maybe that's i shouldn't use that as like an

07:01:56.400 excuse but like that's just like how i know but like that's my experience also like i've been another

07:02:02.800 like i've been in other jobs where like i was an employee and like it was like a really like the boss

07:02:08.560 was like super on top of you and some people think that that's not like the best

07:02:14.320 there's definitely like better leadership styles but i feel like somebody has to be there and be

07:02:18.880 like yo we're getting done like here's how it is like especially um i was never in the military but

07:02:24.960 like i like if you're in the military like bro they're like no but i definitely see the gamer

07:02:31.280 like i definitely see the gamer like when you stop because i feel like i had a gamer boyfriend

07:02:36.240 he'd be on the game and he'd like literally like go from zero to 100 real quick if he like lost he's

07:02:41.120 like oh well i'm not like so i'm never going to be the guy who's like can you please do this i'm

07:02:46.320 going to be like do this do this do this like here's what we need and like we're trying to get the show

07:02:50.960 started um sometimes people are running late and uh so when people are running late like i'm more chill

07:02:59.040 if like but we were we were like started late we were behind so okay i can stop that shit um we

07:03:04.960 were here hell earlier it makes sense no but like i'm trying to like okay we got to get we got to get

07:03:11.440 the show going on time i hate starting it late so but definitely like sometimes i like granted like

07:03:17.280 these are can be uh aggravating frustrating conversations to have so admittedly yeah i get

07:03:25.360 tilted for sure um but like despite i actually like i'm not trying to like reframe it or whatever

07:03:32.320 i'm actually like spurt nick after the shows am i super fucking mellow

07:03:40.880 like i'm if i like dating a girl like i hate i don't like to argue like super fucking mellow um

07:03:48.160 i feel like and i was like i don't like i'm not gonna raise my i think you're right about like

07:03:53.200 the gamer yeah my man is the same way and he plays world yeah

07:04:01.840 who's your favorite gamer that you watch right now oh gamer that i want i don't really like

07:04:05.920 occasionally i'll watch twitch but um who do you watch on twitch i mean about to be me right yes about

07:04:12.400 to be you we'll set that up yeah um i mean like i'll occasionally i watch a bit of world of war

07:04:18.400 crap you really want to know the answer to this question i mean yeah i watch okay sure i'll give

07:04:22.160 like three so i like payo i like um she means like people right yeah payo stay safe and ampi

07:04:31.440 those are the guys i watch on twitch but i'll like like i'll tune in for like 10 minutes

07:04:35.520 and then that's it i'm not like watching their one that just switched there's a guy there's a

07:04:39.600 streamer station the who was that guy no there's a streamer called bc cutie from um

07:04:45.760 who plays age of empires four and it's fantastic he's his his build guides are phenomenal good

07:04:52.720 shit yes do you ever watch like eat eights no no when i'm on twitch it's like okay like i'll take a

07:05:00.480 break from work i'll eat some food and i'm like okay i'll watch a twitch stream for like 10 minutes

07:05:04.400 i'm not gonna like watch like a fucking i'll tune in for 10 minutes to somebody yeah i don't yeah

07:05:10.640 exactly no like i don't have time i don't have time but i mean there's definitely periods like

07:05:16.320 where i would maybe tune into some gamer streams for longer periods but um wait so how did that come

07:05:22.000 up yeah she asked oh like me i was asking oh yeah about my temper yeah yeah i just noticed a little

07:05:29.360 bit a little bit a little bit just a little bit i mean just a little bit but i also i didn't want

07:05:34.560 to thank you but i think i would say though if i i feel like there's definitely people it's weird

07:05:40.960 because half the people who watch my stream they're like this guy's a saint like his patience is insane

07:05:47.040 but then there's other people who like yeah he gets too emotional and like sometimes he is gets angry

07:05:51.680 and has a temper i feel like there's kind of truth to both in so far as like if you were sitting where

07:05:57.680 i was sitting and having the converse like week in week out and like deep no offense like sometimes

07:06:02.880 dealing with like you guys were pretty cool um dealing with like obnoxious people and like

07:06:09.600 dealing with these personalities like i get that honestly some of you do deal with like you're in the

07:06:14.880 you're in the content creator space like you gotta think he's gonna have a bunch of people come on

07:06:18.080 his show who are just like they've planned something yeah they got to be like oh i'm gonna get a bunch

07:06:22.000 of clicks because i'm gonna like lose my mind about something yeah he's gotta keep that tamp down

07:06:26.320 and the fact that you do this like twice a week crazy i would lose like it's been seven hours and

07:06:30.560 i'm like yeah i do yeah i do this twice a week every single week so i your last episode you had adam 22

07:06:38.720 yeah that wasn't the last one i would say like it's weird as far as my temper though like

07:06:44.880 just to address that um i think a lot of times i can be very patient but like sometimes yes i like

07:06:51.680 lose also like i lose my cool over like i get tilted over like small shit it's so weird is that

07:06:57.360 a west coast thing tilted oh tilted tilted is a gamer term oh i was like i've never heard oh so

07:07:03.840 tilted that that means you get like super super frustrated i think it actually originates tilted

07:07:08.960 originates from uh like pinball machines where like if you got like you'd fucking like tilt the

07:07:14.560 pinball machine if you're like getting frustrated but like tilted in the video in a video game like

07:07:20.080 like like if you keep like hearthstone i don't know if any of you guys play hearthstone holy

07:07:24.880 shit that game would get me so fucking tilted i used to play wait nick pull the shit up i used

07:07:30.480 actually never mind i i got i got legendary in hearthstone which is like the nerdiest fucking game

07:07:37.040 in the world and it's like a card card game and it's like very analytical but it's like a game where

07:07:41.840 you can get so fucking frustrated because if you like you're on a losing streak holy

07:07:47.520 fuck i would get so fucking tilted playing hearthstone and i hit legend what's up

07:07:53.360 tilted okay okay this is like super off topic but how do you two get girls what like how do you

07:08:01.520 guys approach women where do you find women you guys both don't have dating apps right well i mean

07:08:06.480 i can so i mean like instagram so is it just instagram or like meeting friends friends church church i go to

07:08:16.000 church i go out a lot i speak at a lot of events like i go to like probably three events a week

07:08:22.080 oh yeah congress what do you like to do madison um i shoot guns a lot um we um we've got like 1100 acres

07:08:30.400 out in the middle of the woods so you'll find someone at uh we kill hogs

07:08:35.120 maybe you'll find your future wife just like in the woods the gun range no that's not that's not

07:08:40.800 in the middle of the woods not at all like yeah i like french tips like like cute pink

07:08:46.880 like nice makeup like hair done like i want to wear cute shoes you don't want a little hunting

07:08:52.400 girlfriend i mean like i want her to know how to shoot if she needs to like defend herself but no

07:08:56.160 i don't know okay let me come home because they're crazy you're a good man good shit good

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07:10:32.640 lined up very solid panel guys assuming no flakes i mean we got actually today was crazy like today we

07:10:38.400 had like so many flakes i mean yeah yeah like in the past 48 hours 24 hours really like i think

07:10:46.960 eight girls flaked there's a full panel yeah no there's so many girls i had to fill i can't imagine

07:10:52.320 if the other girls came oh that's also why i get tilted is like to me being a person of your word

07:10:59.760 yeah and like being reliable is like it's super important to me like for me personally if i say i'm

07:11:05.360 going to be somewhere i'm going to be there i don't care oh something better came up if i gave

07:11:10.080 you my word to a commitment i will be there okay so um granted some people have like emergencies i get

07:11:17.600 that but a lot of people just flake and it's just whatever so um oh i'm gonna raid nick can you actually

07:11:23.040 pull actually no it's fine i'm gonna raid stay safe tv he's playing world of warcraft those of you on

07:11:27.760 twitch i'm going to send you over to stay safe tv i'm going to start that raid in just a couple seconds

07:11:33.440 here um and uh so those of you on twitch thank you for tuning in on twitch i'm raiding stay safe

07:11:40.960 now thank you guys over on twitch and then okay rated and then let me just get this um yeah so

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