Whatever Podcast - WALK OFF？! Andrew Wilson vs. RAGING Feminist？! BOW Video 2.0？! She TESTED Him？! ｜ Dating Talk #202

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00:03:38.040 your name age location and occupation go ahead hi my name is arlena and i'm 20 i'm from san francisco but

00:03:45.980 now i live in orange county and i do social media and i go to cal state fullerton for business marketing

00:03:51.920 you're doing your uh undergrad all right and your major is business marketing business marketing got

00:03:57.520 it okay all right welcome what about you hi i'm rachel i'm from vancouver i'm 39 years old and i'm a

00:04:05.220 server vancouver vancouver i'm from montreal but i live in vancouver oh like montreal montreal that

00:04:13.100 that's in quebec yeah quebec it's like east so you're like a quebecois i'm a quebecois when you're

00:04:18.780 when you're a girl québécoise but if you're a guy québécois tu parles français oui ah c'est bien ça

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00:04:41.180 hi there i'm bianca i'm 22 i'm from king city and i am a care provider for kids on the spectrum

00:04:49.400 all right uh school are you in school at all or uh not right now not right now and did you say your

00:04:53.980 occupation server server got it okay bartender or used to be no i did kind of everything in the

00:05:00.760 restaurant industry okay but i'm a server all right and then um any schooling college or uh yeah

00:05:07.980 performing arts i'm i make money serving but i'm a actress and musician and singer yeah did you go

00:05:16.180 to school though like university i did performing arts i did nutrition school and i did uh photography

00:05:21.160 school do you have i don't know if it's the equivalent in canada bachelor's they were all sort

00:05:26.200 no they were all like sort of private schools oh beating cheeks donated 200.03 mei yuan i am

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00:05:48.800 gotcha bitch gotcha beating cheeks um 1.00

00:05:51.760 uh you know i i had the images but i actually had to get rid of all of them uh you can hide that 0.99

00:05:58.580 just while he's gone um thank you beating cheeks though for the tts it's been a while man good to

00:06:03.060 see you in the chat thank you so much for your uh tts uh so you get the little uh that's a certain

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00:06:14.740 gifts or whatever but it's just images now um you were saying uh oh yeah schooling so they were

00:06:20.980 they were all sort of like private schools and like one year program where you except the photography

00:06:26.780 school was college so there's a thing in quebec it's kind of different you have like kind of it's

00:06:30.540 kind of a pre-university like years and sometimes you can do something specific or you can do like

00:06:34.960 courses that are pre-university for whatever program you want but the photography school was

00:06:38.960 itself a program okay everything else just like a one year sure intensive what about you

00:06:43.280 so hi everybody and hi life shamers uh my name is lb um i am 22 years old i am currently an optician

00:06:52.360 slash optometrist as my occupation and i go to school at uci for biology

00:06:57.280 wait optometrist yeah optometrist assistant oh assistant yes because isn't an optometrist a medical

00:07:06.500 doctor uh i don't know if they're an md but they're an od correct yeah they are an od so are you an od

00:07:12.060 um i'm trying to get into school for like to become an od but i'm currently just a college

00:07:21.120 undergrad so i'm not an od right now i just work with an optometrist i'm not an optometrist okay i see

00:07:27.180 okay yeah maybe i maybe you had misspoke but you said you were optom optician slash optometrist assistant

00:07:35.020 oh okay did you say the assistant part yes you did yes chat like at the first like you clarified

00:07:43.760 that you were an assistant but initially i don't think you left off the assistant i am an optometrist

00:07:50.200 assistant thank you appreciate the clarification there and you're studying what again in university

00:07:55.540 bio bio got it what about you hi i'm emma i'm 22 years old and i'm currently a student studying

00:08:03.900 communications all right welcome back thank you for being able to kind of fill in here last minute

00:08:09.260 since we had a couple cancellations uh mdog i'm morgan i'm 18 i go to santa barbara city college

00:08:15.860 majoring in political science and she's also a star athlete yes soccer player

00:08:21.840 okay never mind um anisa um i'm anisa i'm 19 i go to ucsb and i'm studying biology

00:08:33.300 and you also

00:08:36.100 are

00:08:45.420 he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer okay sorry that was cringe all right um my name's brian atlas i'm

00:08:54.540 i'm 35 from santa barbara washed up over the hill has been youtuber content creator

00:09:02.080 and uh yeah

00:09:05.660 and stripper male stripper andrew what about you

00:09:09.240 yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm the host of the crucible

00:09:13.200 it's an entertainment channel on youtube i'm a political analyst political satirist

00:09:18.220 and i enjoy doing conversations and debates

00:09:20.520 all right welcome everybody welcome andrew so we're going to go around the table once more

00:09:25.820 what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage

00:09:30.620 situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule

00:09:33.540 sex cult harem whatever it may be 0.92

00:09:36.300 2024 uh if you're single how long have you been single 0.97

00:09:40.000 what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead

00:09:43.260 so i'm single and i've been single for a couple months now and my longest relationship would be four years

00:09:50.240 so like three months you think or you've been single i mean

00:09:54.840 the whole summer

00:09:57.260 so okay let's see and you said longest relationship four years

00:10:01.940 who broke up with who

00:10:03.880 uh it was more like mutual because of long distance

00:10:08.120 was that the one that ended three months ago no that was in high school when i was in san francisco

00:10:13.880 but i moved to orange county the one that ended three months ago how long was that relationship

00:10:19.000 um only six months who broke up with who

00:10:21.800 uh he broke up with me why because i was um he said that i was very like um clingy

00:10:34.760 clingy okay yeah okay are you clingy was he wrong

00:10:40.680 maybe

00:10:46.360 were there specific things that he told you he didn't like

00:10:51.960 um i guess it was more of like

00:10:56.440 um it kind of like ended it really fast i feel like because he didn't take any accountability

00:11:06.840 or anything like that but for what for like his actions and stuff like that what so yeah what did he do

00:11:14.360 um so

00:11:19.720 he would uh he would constantly like get mad at me

00:11:24.680 and yell at yell at me in like public settings and stuff like that and he would blame me for it

00:11:32.440 and with me so what what was an example of a time he blamed you

00:11:36.600 like what was what was he like what was his justification for the public yelling

00:11:41.960 um let's see if i ever can remember

00:11:48.040 um i feel like every little thing i have i do he would just like get really mad because he just

00:11:55.000 had anger issues and um my love language is like quality time so i love like spending quality time

00:12:03.560 with him but he saw that as really annoying so that's why he viewed it as clingy

00:12:09.080 so you felt also you were you were walking on eggshells a bit

00:12:15.640 yeah because he was quick to anger yeah okay uh if there's one thing

00:12:22.680 aside from being clingy is there anything else you did wrong in the relationship that you can point to

00:12:29.160 that was the only thing okay the cleanness all right all right um so he would like

00:12:35.400 like like people around would hear him yelling at you or like how crazy was the yelling um it was

00:12:44.040 pretty bad i would say well in a public setting we were um at disneyland and he would yell at me

00:12:52.360 and other things that i can't say um like i can't i can't say it like hit you yeah in public yeah

00:13:02.520 well i mean even if it was in private that would not be a good thing i'm just

00:13:06.200 clarification there but uh yikes okay um at disneyland did like um did goofy come up and like 0.86

00:13:16.200 fuck him up or some shit or what um no but people were staring and i think they wanted to like help 0.56

00:13:22.440 me but it was like at midnight so everybody was tired and just going home at that point wait so just 0.99

00:13:28.040 to be clear there were it was still disneyland there's still some people around but it was a

00:13:31.480 lot of people a lot of people a lot of people and he was smacking you around and nobody came to help

00:13:37.000 or anything people were looking for sure but no one helped damn okay um 0.82

00:13:49.080 did you smack him back at least no no smack back i don't i don't hit no yeah okay well disavow 0.98

00:13:55.560 disavow disavow that behavior um damn sorry to sorry to hear that that's uh 0.95

00:14:05.240 would he yell at you in english or was it like a different language oh yeah english english was it 0.96

00:14:10.360 like i yeah it's a white guy what's that thing the oxford study what's everybody talking about

00:14:16.600 yeah white guy i'm a victim of oxford study yeah oh boy okay oh yeah wait how do you know about that

00:14:23.480 yeah wait what is that what is that any i don't even know i just see the tiktoks an oxford study is

00:14:28.520 like is it an actual study in like i think it is it's an actual study and they study in oxford university

00:14:35.240 i believe i don't know but it's just about how like asian girls and white dudes tend to date each other 0.97

00:14:43.320 can you ask grok austin can you pull up grok and see just what is the oxford study um okay damn

00:14:53.960 good times by the way i heard before the show you two were talking in a different language was it

00:14:59.000 philip was it tagalog yes okay you guys are filipina half oh half okay all right

00:15:06.600 yeah let's uh let's see what grok has to say here make it a little bigger here what is yeah go

00:15:14.600 ahead let's see what what that is all right what's grok gonna tell us hopefully it doesn't

00:15:20.360 there's there isn't but rather

00:15:27.320 make it bigger in the context of discussions about interracial relationships specifically

00:15:33.880 between asian women and white men users have pointed out that while there might be real

00:15:37.960 research the way it's invoked online okay scroll down wait covet what scroll down

00:15:48.840 well that's not helpful okay all right grok all right um good time so you're single now in any case

00:15:56.840 you've been single for three months uh any rebounds or anything in the three-month period

00:16:01.800 your friend just gave you away by the way

00:16:07.720 um

00:16:13.560 girl what do you know what do you know no it's it's it's her thing like um do i have permission you 1.00

00:16:24.440 have permission i give you permission what are you gonna say no she's got permission i give you permission 1.00

00:16:29.800 um she's just having fun right now that's all i'll say she she's having fun um

00:16:38.040 huh i just have to tell her and what uh what what what kind of fun

00:16:44.760 um so when i mean like fun like she's just talking she's like in talking stages guys

00:16:55.320 but i just have to tell her like hey you gotta be careful right i tell her countless many times

00:17:01.160 because i am that one friend that always tells her to be careful but that's how much i care about her

00:17:07.000 um there are guys i feel um that kind of take advantage over her if she's not really being

00:17:13.320 careful um especially if like they are implying that they want more out of her then um she should be

00:17:21.640 giving they want more out of her than she should be given for clarification when i mean like want more

00:17:28.600 out of her i think they just want head what yeah um like brian i've been told that you um you've been

00:17:39.400 grok blocked what what's that mean well i guess if you don't know what that means then you've been

00:17:46.520 grok blocked i've been grok blocked okay uh grok blocked yeah so

00:17:57.240 wait can you repeat that one more time

00:18:01.960 like let's say we're at a party right and um like situation wise and some guys are chatting her up 0.98

00:18:09.960 and it's pretty obvious that depending on his like like body language and how he's trying to get

00:18:18.040 close to her um asking her like hey like you want to go get raising canes or something after this 0.97

00:18:24.840 um or like let's go out after like what are you what are you planning on doing after this party

00:18:30.120 she'd be like yeah i'm down i'm i'm good i'm down um i i had to tell her like dude do not do not go

00:18:38.120 one-on-one with the dude because there is a high chance of where that's going to lead to right

00:18:45.240 um especially where's that where's that where does that lead to it could be anywhere dude like

00:18:51.000 s-ing the s-ing the d like it's not what you said yeah like getting head or some like like

00:18:58.040 receiving head from her or from like or like doing more than that for instance

00:19:02.600 like like that's like the like that's like and so that's what you're trying to prevent

00:19:10.120 yeah basically you want her to just go full home run like you don't want no i'm just telling her to 1.00

00:19:15.640 be careful like with sometimes like her eyes no like so my eyes or her hair what do you mean

00:19:22.520 no sometimes because of the head no like because that's just hard to like get out you know if it

00:19:28.040 gets in your hair like i'm just saying is that basically if she's one-on-one with the dude 0.99

00:19:37.240 anything could happen and i just have to tell her to be careful or i try to tell her like i don't know

00:19:42.440 if this is a good idea um if you are really moving forward to hang out with this guy like at least have

00:19:48.600 some of her friends around so then that way like he can't like either take advantage of you you

00:19:53.160 barely know this dude right you you've just met him at a party and you're already like full set ready

00:19:59.400 to just hang out with him afterwards just one-on-one so you've been advising her in a friend capacity

00:20:07.800 not to s the d too soon yes is that yes my understanding yes slop the d give head have 0.89

00:20:19.800 sex whatever it is like just be careful that's what i pretty much advise her to do what when is an 1.00

00:20:29.560 appropriate time to to do that like how like not the first night like it should be like maybe the

00:20:38.600 second date or are you are you referring to um like going like second base third base with like 0.99

00:20:47.720 someone like um the the you know the s-ing the d it's like oral sex right like like head um oral 1.00

00:20:59.800 copulation or copulation yeah um i would say fellatio right yeah fellatio um so i think a good time to do 0.99

00:21:12.280 that would probably getting to know the person um even more not even like after the third date i'm i 0.84

00:21:19.480 think i would say i'm a little bit more traditional like i have to um or like this is what i would also

00:21:25.480 like want to help her out on doing because i feel like she tends to rush into things a lot and so i

00:21:30.920 would say like a good time to uh probably do something like second base or third base would be

00:21:38.280 once you like already committed you know um i'm not unless like you want to go for casual like

00:21:44.040 that's like well then like with not within my realm basically like pretty much you do whatever you want

00:21:51.640 but if you are trying to be serious with someone and you are committing to your like committing to them

00:21:57.800 i'd say like sex should be like after commit like committing to a relationship okay all right um

00:22:07.240 so i guess just to move things along kind of go back really quick you've been single for three

00:22:11.400 months are there any guys in the picture

00:22:20.520 yeah yeah currently like you're seeing while hanging out with uh yes one just one just one

00:22:32.760 are there other guys that you're talking to no no oh okay all right when's the last time you saw him

00:22:45.240 a couple days ago okay all right what about you i am single been single for like a year and a few months i

00:22:54.600 think and my longest relationship would be i'm not sure probably like around two years or two years

00:23:03.400 two years yeah something like that ever married no any kids no uh so longest relationship two years

00:23:10.600 uh is that the one that ended a year ago no okay uh who broke up with who in the two-year relationship

00:23:17.320 uh i broke up with them and then the uh relationship a year ago who broke up with who i broke up with them

00:23:25.160 okay all right um why the last one why the last how about the last one and the longest one

00:23:33.320 uh last one i was just um i feel like he was a little uh emotionally unregulated like he would just

00:23:43.880 uh get mad at

00:23:47.000 things like he would just create problems basically out of nothing and i just never knew why and

00:23:52.840 um i mean it was i think it was like insecurity and couldn't trust also because of isx so i i get

00:23:59.480 that but it was just kind of like blowing out in my face a lot and i we're just getting into conflicts a lot

00:24:05.240 for what i

00:24:07.400 felt was no reason and i was just i was just like can't be in conflicts

00:24:12.440 this many times and are like all the time basically and then i was like i can't

00:24:17.560 yeah it's just too intense to all the time okay

00:24:23.320 what about you i'm single all right how long you've been single for uh a long time

00:24:31.960 forever yeah okay never so never had a boyfriend no all right just like silly ones but like 0.88

00:24:40.200 i don't i don't silly ones what do you mean like can you move your mic this way yeah this way right

00:24:45.880 here yeah yeah they weren't like they didn't last that long so i don't what's the longest period

00:24:52.520 anything's lasted like a month or two months two months so two months is the longest you've been

00:25:01.640 talking to a guy yeah the guy okay two months uh never boyfriend girlfriend title no well

00:25:10.520 your online boyfriend doesn't count no no no you met on this um

00:25:16.760 i guess he did ask me out but i didn't like take it seriously like i didn't really like him

00:25:23.720 so i don't know i just felt bad so i kind of just was like we parted ways you know

00:25:31.400 wait so when you say he asked you out he asked you to be his girlfriend yes but i said yes oh you

00:25:37.080 said yes i said yes but you didn't like him like i did but i like i didn't like i did but

00:25:48.600 okay so yeah i felt bad because yeah i don't know i guess he was nice and all but like he had like

00:25:53.960 a micro physically like i didn't like him he was just nice oh yeah he was nice he wasn't mean enough

00:26:00.120 to you like if he was mean to you then you would have dated him like all the other girls here no

00:26:05.480 like sorry did i say that out loud my bad yeah but

00:26:13.800 okay yeah um so but have you had like friends with benefits no i did have like a situationship

00:26:22.840 like two years ago but millionaire bachelor donated two hundred dollars andrew wilson aka third baby

00:26:31.320 daddies are you running from millionaire bachelor who's i am your daddy now hi rachel

00:26:38.920 there's a troll that was me around the internet okay um so no friends with benefits 0.74

00:26:45.560 have you had a hookup um i'm not saying anything well i mean it's a dating podcast i know but i'm good i'm good i'm good i mean so are you a virgin then i'm not saying anything is that a i mean you're on a dating podcast we're talking about dating i'm not saying anything

00:27:09.560 okay okay i mean okay so you're just gonna refuse to answer any questions no i'll answer questions but

00:27:18.920 i'm just not gonna respond to the ones that i don't but without having an understanding of the scope of

00:27:23.240 your relationship history i told you it's difficult for me to i told you i was in a situationship two years

00:27:29.400 ago okay but like did you guys hold hands yes huh yes right but like is that the extent of

00:27:42.680 your relationship experience is hand-holding because i'm gonna tailor questions hold on i'm

00:27:48.840 gonna tailor questions to you based on my sense of your relationship experience

00:27:55.400 so i mean if you're just refusing to answer a fairly basic question uh i mean how do i

00:28:01.880 have a conversation with you

00:28:09.000 like we're all you're 22 right like we're all adults sex is a normal thing people have not a big deal

00:28:16.280 nobody's judging you if you've had sex if you're a virgin nobody's judging you either

00:28:24.440 you know um so given my further explanation do you want to perhaps contribute to the conversation and

00:28:34.280 answer the question no okay what are you willing to answer them uh

00:28:41.560 it seems anything but that

00:29:00.480 yeah

00:29:00.840 I mean

00:29:05.520 am I

00:29:10.060 am I off base here for having the expectation

00:29:12.240 that the panelists engage

00:29:13.400 in good faith conversation

00:29:15.960 and answer the questions that I don't

00:29:18.000 I don't think I'm not asking you for like

00:29:19.800 specific details about specific

00:29:22.120 sexual acts but I mean

00:29:23.360 I don't think we're in the 1800s

00:29:26.080 here disclosing whether you've

00:29:27.620 had sex before or not

00:29:29.520 I don't want to answer that's it 0.57

00:29:31.760 that's pretty much it

00:29:32.880 that's fine you don't have to

00:29:36.060 answer it but I'm just trying to explain to you my

00:29:37.820 kind of

00:29:38.400 all right

00:29:43.460 okay

00:29:45.700 well I'll see how this goes but

00:29:47.660 all right what about you

00:29:49.300 I'm single

00:29:50.940 by the way Chad it means she's not a virgin

00:29:54.400 if she refuses to answer the question

00:29:55.880 all right

00:29:56.300 you're single

00:29:57.060 yeah

00:29:57.980 all right how long you been single for

00:29:59.640 for three months

00:30:01.180 all right three months

00:30:03.080 longest relationship

00:30:05.280 two and a half years

00:30:06.840 okay and the two and a half year relationship

00:30:09.680 is that the one that ended three months ago

00:30:11.680 no

00:30:12.340 okay who broke up with who in the two and a half year relationship

00:30:17.840 um my ex-partner did

00:30:20.940 okay and then the one that ended three months ago who broke up with who

00:30:26.100 um he did

00:30:28.640 and then I was like okay

00:30:31.200 all right

00:30:32.960 uh you're so you've been single for three months any guys in the picture currently

00:30:36.840 any rebounds

00:30:37.800 no

00:30:38.380 no rebounds

00:30:39.060 no

00:30:39.680 rebounds

00:30:40.740 not ready to mingle

00:30:41.900 come on friend

00:30:42.380 throw her 1.00

00:30:42.980 no 0.99

00:30:43.300 throw her under the bus 1.00

00:30:44.580 not ready to mingle

00:30:45.660 and she knows

00:30:47.380 that's true

00:30:48.780 she doesn't like anyone

00:30:49.980 okay

00:30:52.280 all right

00:30:52.900 um

00:30:54.740 all right

00:30:56.960 are you on dating

00:30:58.540 dating apps or

00:30:59.560 no

00:31:00.260 ever been on a dating app

00:31:01.220 i have

00:31:02.820 um

00:31:04.200 i have

00:31:05.140 i had hinge

00:31:06.080 for like

00:31:06.920 two weeks

00:31:08.360 and

00:31:09.520 i hated it

00:31:11.700 all right

00:31:13.740 what about you

00:31:14.340 single

00:31:15.880 i've been single for

00:31:17.160 i believe two years

00:31:18.960 my longest relationship

00:31:20.800 was about two years

00:31:22.220 all right

00:31:23.740 two years

00:31:24.760 okay

00:31:25.360 and uh the two year one who who broke up with who

00:31:27.960 uh technically him

00:31:30.040 got it

00:31:31.040 morgan

00:31:32.600 single

00:31:33.380 all right

00:31:34.760 how long you been single

00:31:35.920 six months

00:31:37.680 longest relationship

00:31:40.000 two and a half years

00:31:41.180 all right

00:31:41.920 anisa

00:31:42.280 i have a boyfriend

00:31:44.220 we've been together for four months

00:31:46.240 and then my longest relationship before that was a year

00:31:49.660 all right

00:31:51.500 cool

00:31:51.940 uh

00:31:52.480 andrew what about you

00:31:53.340 i'm happily married

00:31:56.640 and have been for a long long time

00:31:58.300 well over a decade

00:31:59.100 okay

00:32:00.280 cool

00:32:00.660 all right

00:32:01.880 thank you

00:32:02.440 uh

00:32:02.740 appreciate that

00:32:03.480 so

00:32:04.160 while we do

00:32:05.800 i'm wondering

00:32:06.640 let's save the bow video for a little bit later austin

00:32:09.200 but we have bow version 2.0

00:32:11.540 i'm going to just jump right into the pre-show notes here that we have

00:32:15.520 so let's see

00:32:17.660 we have

00:32:18.660 where do we begin

00:32:21.320 why don't

00:32:22.860 excuse me

00:32:23.860 uh

00:32:24.520 why don't

00:32:27.060 we'll start with

00:32:36.700 irene

00:32:37.440 irene

00:32:39.040 irene

00:32:39.060 right

00:32:39.560 arlena

00:32:40.260 oh no

00:32:40.800 okay hold on

00:32:41.540 she's

00:32:41.820 okay i'm sorry

00:32:42.660 i forgot my notes

00:32:43.460 arlena

00:32:44.300 there's a there's an irene that's

00:32:45.960 supposedly coming

00:32:47.520 uh

00:32:48.360 you said your friends and i have crazy stories

00:32:50.940 uh

00:32:52.280 perhaps i'll give you one and then you can give me another some point later

00:32:55.680 but

00:32:55.920 you said you went on a date with an influencer that was love bombing you

00:32:59.160 and said he wanted your babies and to marry

00:33:03.320 marry you

00:33:05.200 he asked you to be his girlfriend on text

00:33:09.800 can you give us a bit of a kind of uh elaboration a little bit on this story

00:33:14.880 okay so he is more of an actor i would say

00:33:20.540 um i don't know if i can say which netflix series it is

00:33:25.260 i don't know if i can say that

00:33:27.780 yeah i want to know

00:33:28.900 you want to know

00:33:29.760 okay uh it's pretty popular so you can guess

00:33:33.320 squid there's a ton of them

00:33:36.300 not not squid

00:33:37.480 jeffrey dahmer

00:33:38.340 what they all have koreans in there 0.59

00:33:39.820 not not jeffrey dahmer

00:33:40.880 she's from the oxford study

00:33:41.960 oh yeah

00:33:42.740 so think of oxford study netflix series

00:33:45.900 and

00:33:46.660 oh

00:33:47.520 wait

00:33:48.340 castlevania

00:33:49.280 nope

00:33:50.200 hmm

00:33:52.120 hmm

00:33:54.400 i don't know but uh you want to tell us

00:33:57.440 outer banks

00:33:58.680 i have no idea who any actor from that show

00:34:03.260 yeah no clue what netflix series is that for 0.99

00:34:05.240 who the fuck is that guy 0.94

00:34:06.640 um i never watched it before 0.99

00:34:09.720 but he said he was from outer banks 0.98

00:34:12.380 like an extra who got paid like 200 bucks for a day or some shit 0.87

00:34:16.340 i have no idea 0.74

00:34:16.460 okay

00:34:16.720 uh so but you went on and he's an influencer too 0.95

00:34:20.060 so he's not just an actor he's like does youtube or some shit 0.60

00:34:22.860 it's like 0.96

00:34:23.380 tiktok dances

00:34:24.260 like he's like a model as well

00:34:27.200 he's just in that industry i have no idea

00:34:29.580 okay

00:34:30.260 and so

00:34:31.460 he asked you

00:34:34.820 to be his girlfriend 0.64

00:34:35.800 over text

00:34:36.700 yeah

00:34:38.120 but so

00:34:39.320 did you guys go on a date

00:34:40.320 we only went on one date

00:34:42.420 i only saw him

00:34:43.220 once

00:34:44.020 hmm

00:34:45.320 okay

00:34:45.840 and then after the date

00:34:47.280 is this when he started the love bombing

00:34:49.020 and told you he wanted babies

00:34:50.880 and to marry you

00:34:52.120 on the first date

00:34:54.000 he said this

00:34:54.740 he said all of this

00:34:55.860 yeah

00:34:56.120 okay

00:34:56.540 and in your notes you also say

00:34:58.820 you had a gut feeling about something

00:35:00.520 so you went through his following list

00:35:02.580 and you did what

00:35:04.180 um so i

00:35:07.380 went through his following list

00:35:10.100 and i dm'd 0.98

00:35:11.880 20 girls from his following list

00:35:14.380 um to test his loyalty

00:35:17.280 and i came to find out that he failed

00:35:20.800 well hold on now

00:35:22.980 we need to clarify a couple things

00:35:25.580 so

00:35:26.140 you went on just one date with him

00:35:28.520 one date

00:35:29.500 just one

00:35:30.360 and then it was after the date

00:35:31.620 that you did the loyalty test

00:35:32.960 i did the loyalty test

00:35:34.120 because

00:35:34.540 after the date correct

00:35:35.600 after date

00:35:36.100 okay

00:35:36.280 um

00:35:37.320 and how long had you guys been

00:35:38.980 actually talking though

00:35:40.320 like how did you guys meet

00:35:42.380 he dm'd me on instagram

00:35:44.340 because he saw one of my reels

00:35:45.720 he slid into your dms

00:35:46.960 i see

00:35:47.480 okay

00:35:47.780 and so

00:35:48.960 let's see

00:35:50.620 um

00:35:51.660 and then how soon after the first date

00:35:53.820 did you do this loyalty test

00:35:55.640 i believe

00:35:57.580 within two weeks

00:35:59.340 a week and a half

00:36:00.340 okay

00:36:00.820 and so he asked

00:36:02.020 he was love 0.51

00:36:02.580 love bombing you

00:36:03.740 he asked you to be his girlfriend 0.62

00:36:05.080 did you say yes

00:36:06.720 yes i did

00:36:08.960 okay

00:36:10.160 and then

00:36:12.040 what was the nature of this loyalty test

00:36:14.780 i gotta

00:36:15.060 i gotta ask

00:36:16.020 um

00:36:16.560 i just

00:36:17.200 had a gut feeling

00:36:18.600 that he was

00:36:19.860 definitely talking to other girls

00:36:21.200 because during the first date

00:36:22.440 he was

00:36:23.160 on his phone

00:36:24.280 most of the date

00:36:25.700 and i thought it was

00:36:27.040 because of work

00:36:27.760 because he's like

00:36:28.460 actor or model

00:36:29.500 so i thought he was on his phone

00:36:30.720 for work purposes

00:36:31.540 but i was wrong

00:36:32.780 he was texting other girls

00:36:33.980 on the first date

00:36:35.420 while being with me

00:36:37.160 and so

00:36:38.300 you

00:36:39.420 dm'd 20 girls

00:36:41.520 like so

00:36:43.900 were these girls 0.89

00:36:44.540 you knew

00:36:45.020 or that

00:36:45.500 oh no

00:36:45.960 it was his following list

00:36:47.380 his following list

00:36:48.120 so they were

00:36:48.800 following him

00:36:49.680 and then

00:36:50.960 what was the message

00:36:51.620 you met

00:36:52.020 that you dm'd him

00:36:52.820 i was like

00:36:54.400 hey girl 0.99

00:36:55.420 can you please

00:36:56.580 uh

00:36:57.520 test

00:36:58.120 my boyfriend

00:36:58.960 i just have a gut feeling

00:37:00.180 that he's

00:37:00.960 talking to other girls

00:37:02.300 and

00:37:02.980 i would have really

00:37:03.920 appreciated it

00:37:04.760 and they

00:37:05.540 and

00:37:06.460 and some of them

00:37:07.140 actually answered

00:37:07.820 and did the loyalty test

00:37:09.240 and i

00:37:10.540 what was the nature

00:37:11.380 of this test

00:37:12.140 it was

00:37:14.500 if

00:37:15.940 it was like a pass or fail

00:37:18.220 and i knew he was gonna fail

00:37:19.560 so i just needed

00:37:20.400 yeah but what was it though

00:37:21.800 like were they sending him nudes

00:37:23.360 were they telling him

00:37:24.520 like what

00:37:24.900 what were they actually doing

00:37:26.420 tell your mic down a bit please

00:37:27.620 oh

00:37:28.240 uh

00:37:29.000 just

00:37:29.280 tilt

00:37:29.700 tilt

00:37:30.300 sure okay

00:37:32.680 uh

00:37:33.760 so he

00:37:34.620 uh

00:37:35.400 they

00:37:35.720 they were just flirting with him

00:37:36.840 in the dms

00:37:37.540 hmm

00:37:40.300 okay

00:37:41.000 so they didn't

00:37:41.580 they didn't make an arrangement

00:37:42.560 to meet up

00:37:43.280 nothing like that

00:37:44.180 no

00:37:44.800 it was all just flirting

00:37:46.460 all just flirting

00:37:47.660 can you tilt your mic

00:37:49.700 down

00:37:50.580 and we

00:37:51.840 are we talking about flirting

00:37:52.780 like hey i think you're really cute

00:37:54.340 that kind of thing

00:37:55.340 or are we talking

00:37:56.040 like what kind of

00:37:57.860 what kind of flirting

00:37:58.480 are we talking about here

00:37:59.420 hmm

00:38:00.980 like

00:38:01.880 uh

00:38:02.980 i really want to see you

00:38:04.640 and these girls are from 0.99

00:38:05.920 like out of state

00:38:06.740 so

00:38:07.540 he said that he would fly them out

00:38:09.740 to la

00:38:11.060 to see them

00:38:12.820 and meet up with them

00:38:13.880 hmm

00:38:15.380 hmm

00:38:22.520 because if i haven't done this

00:38:24.480 i would have never known

00:38:25.520 and i would still continue being with him

00:38:27.360 hmm

00:38:27.800 so i

00:38:28.880 if i felt like

00:38:29.640 i needed to do that

00:38:30.980 because no

00:38:31.980 and no one was going to tell me

00:38:33.260 so i had to find out myself

00:38:34.440 you said that

00:38:36.540 he called you

00:38:37.940 and you knew

00:38:38.880 that he had dm'd those girls

00:38:40.860 and then he broke up with you

00:38:43.140 because he said

00:38:43.920 after what you

00:38:45.660 what you have done

00:38:47.460 and who you messaged

00:38:48.660 i can't be with you

00:38:49.980 i have health issues

00:38:51.420 and family problems

00:38:52.240 so yeah

00:38:52.620 but i'm talking to someone

00:38:53.740 so i want some space

00:38:54.740 um

00:38:56.200 hmm

00:38:57.340 interesting

00:39:00.660 now i want to go around the panel on this

00:39:03.100 because i've heard about these things

00:39:04.500 these loyalty tests

00:39:05.380 although typically you don't hear them being done

00:39:08.180 within two

00:39:09.060 two weeks

00:39:09.940 of meeting somebody

00:39:11.200 granted

00:39:12.380 he

00:39:13.440 it's complicated

00:39:14.880 because

00:39:15.580 he did ask you

00:39:17.640 to be

00:39:18.400 the girlfriend

00:39:19.700 so i suppose there's some

00:39:22.380 expectation

00:39:23.440 well

00:39:24.060 did he say he was going to be monogamous

00:39:27.960 yes

00:39:29.200 or is it

00:39:29.700 perhaps that's implied

00:39:30.720 i don't know

00:39:31.260 but um

00:39:32.460 i would say that's

00:39:33.380 that that's implied

00:39:34.660 like i don't see who would not

00:39:37.220 understand this as implied

00:39:38.500 it's fair to say

00:39:39.000 otherwise

00:39:39.140 you know

00:39:39.660 why would you ask that

00:39:40.500 even if there wasn't an overt conversation

00:39:42.580 about exclusivity

00:39:43.500 or monogamy

00:39:44.580 if there's a boyfriend

00:39:45.300 girlfriend conversation

00:39:46.180 to clarify though

00:39:47.520 he did in fact say

00:39:48.460 i want you to be my girlfriend 0.73

00:39:49.700 and you said yes

00:39:50.600 yes

00:39:51.280 okay

00:39:51.980 had you guys hooked up

00:39:53.000 no

00:39:54.180 did they hook up

00:39:56.540 no

00:39:57.460 no

00:39:57.860 okay

00:39:58.640 all right

00:39:59.880 so

00:40:00.660 um

00:40:01.680 it is complicated though

00:40:05.280 insofar as

00:40:06.280 you

00:40:06.780 went on one date

00:40:09.640 he moved things along

00:40:10.920 very quickly

00:40:11.780 um

00:40:13.100 but i suppose there was an expectation

00:40:15.340 of loyalty

00:40:15.940 um

00:40:17.420 do you think he was

00:40:19.600 trying to make you

00:40:20.500 his girlfriend

00:40:21.320 in furtherance of

00:40:23.160 trying to sleep with you

00:40:23.960 as fast as possible

00:40:24.960 he said that he wanted

00:40:27.880 a stay-at-home

00:40:29.220 mom

00:40:30.140 that doesn't really answer

00:40:32.540 my question though

00:40:33.300 so

00:40:33.520 do you think he was

00:40:34.820 um

00:40:35.480 trying to move things on

00:40:37.640 really quick

00:40:38.380 hey

00:40:39.060 first date

00:40:39.800 i want you to be my girlfriend 0.73

00:40:40.820 uh

00:40:41.920 so that he could hook up

00:40:43.220 with you quicker

00:40:43.780 no

00:40:45.200 i don't believe so

00:40:46.060 i think

00:40:46.840 he

00:40:47.160 the reason why he did that

00:40:48.300 was because

00:40:49.120 he's

00:40:50.600 like

00:40:51.600 he

00:40:52.040 he just

00:40:52.440 he wants to settle down

00:40:53.760 so he's kind of like

00:40:55.460 moving things kind of quickly

00:40:56.520 okay

00:40:57.940 opening this up to the panel

00:41:00.040 is it acceptable

00:41:01.560 to test

00:41:03.040 your partner

00:41:04.040 well

00:41:05.340 start with you

00:41:06.280 i'm assuming the answer is yes

00:41:08.520 but i'd like to hear some reasoning

00:41:09.800 um

00:41:11.380 i personally did that

00:41:16.000 because

00:41:17.140 i felt like

00:41:19.940 i had no other choice

00:41:21.500 and

00:41:22.300 there was

00:41:23.100 like

00:41:23.580 no other

00:41:24.200 like

00:41:24.880 way

00:41:25.400 for me to find out

00:41:26.620 and i feel like with my

00:41:28.240 like gut feelings

00:41:29.240 i would always like

00:41:30.280 my gut feelings is always right

00:41:31.600 so i just went through with it

00:41:33.380 but i know

00:41:34.820 some people probably think

00:41:35.960 that's wrong

00:41:36.580 have you done a loyalty test before

00:41:39.480 no

00:41:40.160 it was just with him

00:41:41.320 just with him

00:41:42.100 okay

00:41:42.440 what about you

00:41:43.120 your thoughts

00:41:43.760 yeah

00:41:44.120 is testing your partner acceptable

00:41:45.500 no i mean like

00:41:46.700 logically speaking

00:41:47.540 if i want to be with that person

00:41:48.900 it's because i trust that person

00:41:50.220 so if i already have that feeling

00:41:51.640 i

00:41:52.740 i don't see that being coherent

00:41:54.920 you know what i mean

00:41:56.180 wanting to be with some

00:41:56.880 and that whole story

00:41:57.840 it's a little crazy

00:41:59.520 like

00:42:00.080 one day is nothing

00:42:01.580 and then he wants to

00:42:02.540 a stay-at-home

00:42:03.660 mom

00:42:04.860 and it takes you

00:42:05.440 one day

00:42:06.260 online

00:42:06.960 to figure this out

00:42:08.600 i mean

00:42:10.040 this guy doesn't want to settle

00:42:12.080 like

00:42:12.660 i mean

00:42:13.520 let's

00:42:13.880 let's be real

00:42:14.760 this guy doesn't

00:42:15.820 want to settle down

00:42:17.140 in my opinion

00:42:17.680 this guy is just

00:42:18.580 playing

00:42:19.660 sorry

00:42:20.620 that's my

00:42:21.840 maybe i'm wrong

00:42:22.440 maybe i'm wrong

00:42:23.020 you know

00:42:23.700 but that's

00:42:25.100 yeah

00:42:25.360 i don't see

00:42:26.120 but do you think justified

00:42:27.700 to

00:42:28.320 do

00:42:29.400 i don't think it's ever justified

00:42:30.940 no

00:42:32.000 i think it's weird

00:42:33.240 like i would never do that

00:42:35.020 do what

00:42:35.500 the loyalty test

00:42:36.540 like just testing

00:42:37.360 people

00:42:37.960 yeah

00:42:38.900 or testing for

00:42:39.880 like

00:42:40.420 no i don't think

00:42:41.620 there's justification

00:42:42.580 for it

00:42:43.540 kind of ever

00:42:44.820 can i add on to that

00:42:46.220 well let's get

00:42:47.280 all the panel's answers

00:42:48.300 but yeah you can add on

00:42:49.320 i agree with her

00:42:50.440 either like

00:42:50.980 he likes you

00:42:51.840 like you don't have to

00:42:52.740 worry about it

00:42:53.280 or he doesn't

00:42:53.880 like

00:42:54.220 either he does

00:42:55.420 or doesn't

00:42:56.580 like he likes you

00:42:57.580 and like you don't need to

00:42:58.880 like you know

00:42:59.200 he'll show it to you

00:43:00.040 like he likes you

00:43:00.720 and he's interested

00:43:01.440 and i don't think

00:43:02.080 there's a reason

00:43:02.680 for him to like

00:43:04.000 um

00:43:05.180 you know

00:43:05.860 there's no reason

00:43:06.500 for you to be like

00:43:07.420 testing um

00:43:08.580 if he really likes you

00:43:09.620 like his loyalty

00:43:10.300 towards you

00:43:10.880 if that makes sense

00:43:12.940 okay

00:43:13.880 like it's either

00:43:14.220 yes or no

00:43:14.840 like i see the reasoning

00:43:16.200 why you did that

00:43:17.660 because there were signs

00:43:18.880 that were

00:43:19.620 based on your gut

00:43:21.000 um intuition

00:43:22.480 that

00:43:23.560 his mind was

00:43:25.260 elsewhere

00:43:25.740 so i understand

00:43:27.400 why you would do that

00:43:28.420 but at the same time

00:43:30.560 usually when

00:43:31.940 people pull

00:43:33.440 loyalty tests

00:43:34.440 when

00:43:35.000 it's really

00:43:36.220 not necessary

00:43:37.280 um

00:43:38.560 it really shows

00:43:39.700 deep down

00:43:40.120 you did not

00:43:40.660 trust that person

00:43:41.500 and your partner

00:43:42.900 could definitely

00:43:43.620 be offended

00:43:44.680 by that

00:43:45.400 um

00:43:46.400 doing loyalty tests

00:43:48.240 without actual

00:43:49.020 proper communication

00:43:49.920 of like

00:43:50.520 expressing your

00:43:52.340 let's say

00:43:52.740 your um

00:43:53.620 insecurities

00:43:54.340 or anxieties

00:43:55.920 about certain things

00:43:57.680 or not

00:43:58.120 getting clarification

00:43:59.380 on like acts

00:44:00.660 and stuff like that

00:44:01.520 um

00:44:02.620 already leads to

00:44:04.200 like a downhill

00:44:05.100 towards a relationship

00:44:06.160 so um

00:44:07.660 it's not really

00:44:08.440 as justifiable

00:44:09.900 as a lot of people

00:44:10.660 would think to do

00:44:11.860 have you ever done

00:44:12.640 a test like this

00:44:13.500 no

00:44:14.140 have you done a test

00:44:15.480 like this

00:44:16.000 done a test like this

00:44:17.040 test like this

00:44:17.840 test like this

00:44:18.860 test like this

00:44:20.320 um

00:44:21.720 you mentioned

00:44:22.760 that

00:44:24.380 there were signs

00:44:26.000 that led her

00:44:28.640 to believe that

00:44:29.320 he was potentially

00:44:30.640 not serious

00:44:31.540 or whatever

00:44:32.020 and these signs

00:44:33.140 were that he was

00:44:33.620 like on his phone

00:44:34.440 or whatever

00:44:35.100 um

00:44:36.460 you guys are never

00:44:38.260 on your phone

00:44:38.880 at all

00:44:39.880 on a

00:44:40.400 when you're around

00:44:41.700 a guy

00:44:42.280 ever

00:44:43.040 never

00:44:43.920 so your

00:44:44.340 your phone

00:44:45.160 is always

00:44:46.040 you don't check

00:44:46.780 it once

00:44:47.400 when you're with

00:44:47.940 your boyfriend

00:44:48.440 you're never

00:44:49.580 on your phone

00:44:50.160 in front of

00:44:50.620 your boyfriend

00:44:51.480 you've never

00:44:52.580 checked your phone

00:44:53.320 oh definitely

00:44:53.920 yes

00:44:54.700 whoa that's cheating

00:44:55.580 or I have

00:44:56.940 now I have

00:44:57.800 suspicion of

00:44:58.440 you cheating

00:44:59.120 now you've just

00:45:00.200 given me justification

00:45:01.080 because you looked

00:45:01.880 at your phone

00:45:02.380 for five minutes

00:45:03.300 while we were

00:45:03.840 hanging out

00:45:04.960 uh

00:45:05.960 I now have

00:45:06.620 justification

00:45:07.040 to test you

00:45:07.800 is that fair

00:45:08.260 no it really

00:45:09.760 depends on

00:45:10.320 hold on

00:45:11.460 it depends on

00:45:11.980 what

00:45:12.180 depends on

00:45:12.640 the situation

00:45:13.180 so see

00:45:14.320 I wasn't

00:45:14.940 really there

00:45:15.520 so she could

00:45:16.100 fully explain

00:45:16.740 to you like

00:45:17.260 what the interaction

00:45:18.140 probably

00:45:18.420 fully explain

00:45:19.160 to us

00:45:19.620 what he was

00:45:20.940 doing

00:45:21.320 besides just

00:45:22.860 being on

00:45:23.540 his phone

00:45:24.240 so I would

00:45:26.480 ask him

00:45:26.860 questions

00:45:27.380 you know

00:45:27.820 like first date

00:45:28.900 questions

00:45:29.360 like oh

00:45:30.200 like where do

00:45:30.740 you work

00:45:31.140 what do you

00:45:31.440 do what do

00:45:31.740 you like

00:45:31.980 your hobbies

00:45:32.400 and with

00:45:34.460 with me

00:45:35.120 asking him

00:45:35.820 those questions

00:45:36.340 he would just

00:45:36.920 be on his phone

00:45:37.580 he's like

00:45:37.940 wait what

00:45:38.420 can you repeat

00:45:38.920 that again

00:45:39.380 because he's like

00:45:40.040 texting other girls

00:45:41.020 on our first date

00:45:42.400 and I didn't know

00:45:42.940 he was texting

00:45:43.380 other girls 0.95

00:45:43.880 I realized that

00:45:44.820 when I tested him

00:45:46.140 and I did ask him

00:45:47.160 are you like

00:45:48.020 talking to other girls

00:45:48.720 and he said no

00:45:49.340 so he did lie to me

00:45:51.040 were you talking

00:45:52.180 to other guys

00:45:52.840 nope

00:45:53.240 okay

00:45:54.180 interesting

00:45:54.780 I believe

00:45:58.660 I believe you

00:45:59.760 that he was

00:46:00.360 probably

00:46:01.600 texting other

00:46:03.640 girls 0.98

00:46:03.860 he was probably

00:46:04.880 not serious

00:46:05.880 about what he

00:46:06.700 said

00:46:07.040 he was probably

00:46:07.980 playing you

00:46:08.900 whatever

00:46:09.360 but I do

00:46:11.440 wonder

00:46:11.700 because you

00:46:12.020 mentioned the

00:46:12.640 word signs

00:46:13.360 right

00:46:13.760 if there's

00:46:14.780 signs

00:46:15.240 that would

00:46:16.560 be pretext

00:46:17.380 or justification

00:46:18.020 to do

00:46:19.400 a loyalty

00:46:19.940 test

00:46:20.420 or some

00:46:21.440 sort of

00:46:21.760 test

00:46:22.100 I can see

00:46:24.040 why she

00:46:24.660 would do

00:46:25.000 it

00:46:25.180 but I'm

00:46:25.900 not saying

00:46:26.360 it's

00:46:26.560 entirely

00:46:28.360 right

00:46:28.800 to do

00:46:29.140 so

00:46:29.520 we're

00:46:30.420 going to

00:46:30.600 ask

00:46:30.840 Grok

00:46:31.540 not yet

00:46:33.300 but in

00:46:34.020 just a

00:46:34.560 moment

00:46:34.760 what AI

00:46:36.360 thinks

00:46:37.220 about

00:46:37.600 doing

00:46:38.420 like

00:46:39.260 testing

00:46:39.640 your

00:46:40.020 partner

00:46:40.720 but

00:46:41.480 going back

00:46:42.600 to the

00:46:42.880 signs

00:46:43.200 thing

00:46:43.440 really

00:46:43.660 quick

00:46:43.960 if

00:46:45.760 do you

00:46:46.160 think

00:46:46.300 it

00:46:46.400 would

00:46:46.500 be

00:46:46.700 justification

00:46:47.340 for

00:46:47.780 example

00:46:48.100 if

00:46:48.600 you

00:46:49.000 were

00:46:49.140 dating

00:46:49.520 a

00:46:49.720 girl 0.91

00:46:49.920 and

00:46:50.600 she

00:46:50.740 posted

00:46:51.120 a bikini

00:46:51.620 photo

00:46:51.960 that

00:46:52.920 that

00:46:53.280 would

00:46:53.400 be

00:46:53.580 enough

00:46:53.840 justification

00:46:54.320 for

00:46:54.840 you

00:46:55.040 to

00:46:55.240 do

00:46:55.600 a

00:46:56.500 loyalty

00:46:57.900 test

00:46:58.280 on

00:46:58.480 her

00:46:58.760 or

00:47:03.780 if

00:47:03.920 she

00:47:04.040 went

00:47:04.460 out

00:47:04.600 to

00:47:04.760 parties

00:47:05.180 and

00:47:05.420 dressed

00:47:05.600 revealing

00:47:06.060 would

00:47:06.800 that

00:47:06.960 be

00:47:07.260 no

00:47:08.100 that's

00:47:10.580 not

00:47:10.700 enough

00:47:10.880 justification

00:47:11.480 I

00:47:13.160 mean

00:47:13.520 again

00:47:14.420 when it

00:47:15.020 comes to

00:47:15.320 relationships

00:47:15.800 it's

00:47:17.580 really a

00:47:18.260 matter

00:47:18.440 of

00:47:18.620 trust

00:47:19.020 I

00:47:19.620 believe

00:47:19.980 let's

00:47:21.260 say

00:47:21.540 because

00:47:22.740 I do

00:47:25.300 see this

00:47:25.760 from

00:47:25.900 time

00:47:26.100 to

00:47:26.240 time

00:47:26.640 where

00:47:29.340 my

00:47:29.820 friends

00:47:30.040 would

00:47:30.180 tell

00:47:30.340 me

00:47:30.520 like

00:47:30.720 hey

00:47:31.100 I

00:47:32.700 don't

00:47:32.820 know

00:47:32.920 if

00:47:33.020 my

00:47:33.140 man

00:47:33.300 is

00:47:33.420 cheating

00:47:33.580 on 0.78

00:47:33.780 me

00:47:34.040 and

00:47:35.440 I

00:47:36.460 was

00:47:36.560 like

00:47:36.680 okay

00:47:36.880 tell

00:47:37.600 me

00:47:37.860 what

00:47:38.200 is

00:47:38.580 or

00:47:38.800 like

00:47:39.040 it's

00:47:39.340 obvious

00:47:39.600 like

00:47:39.780 he's

00:47:39.980 clearly

00:47:40.220 putting

00:47:40.420 interest

00:47:40.780 in

00:47:41.040 something

00:47:41.360 else

00:47:41.680 which

00:47:41.880 happens

00:47:42.120 to

00:47:42.240 be

00:47:42.320 his

00:47:42.440 phone

00:47:42.760 when

00:47:44.260 you're

00:47:44.380 in

00:47:44.460 a

00:47:44.540 restaurant

00:47:44.760 sitting

00:47:45.040 down

00:47:45.340 right

00:47:45.640 you

00:47:46.040 want

00:47:46.240 to

00:47:46.340 give

00:47:46.500 your

00:47:46.620 full

00:47:46.820 attention

00:47:47.180 to

00:47:47.480 the

00:47:47.680 person

00:47:48.040 you're

00:47:48.420 with

00:47:48.740 you

00:47:48.940 want

00:47:49.120 to

00:47:49.220 be

00:47:49.340 in

00:47:49.440 the

00:47:49.560 moment

00:47:49.880 be

00:47:50.480 with

00:47:50.660 your

00:47:50.780 partner

00:47:51.220 you're

00:47:51.960 looking

00:47:52.220 you know

00:47:53.020 smiling

00:47:53.660 you would

00:47:55.160 be like

00:47:55.460 asking

00:47:55.720 oh like

00:47:56.020 what's

00:47:56.280 up

00:47:56.520 you know

00:47:56.860 like

00:47:57.060 what's

00:47:58.180 got you

00:47:58.700 smiling

00:47:59.100 and if

00:47:59.920 they're

00:48:00.120 not

00:48:00.400 willing

00:48:00.840 to

00:48:01.040 like

00:48:01.300 obviously

00:48:02.300 like

00:48:02.620 either

00:48:03.220 disclose

00:48:03.920 like

00:48:04.100 oh

00:48:04.280 I'm

00:48:04.440 just

00:48:04.560 talking

00:48:04.720 to

00:48:04.800 my

00:48:04.940 friend

00:48:05.180 I'm

00:48:05.540 like

00:48:05.640 okay

00:48:05.900 cool

00:48:06.320 but

00:48:06.920 you're

00:48:07.060 like

00:48:07.180 oh

00:48:07.320 no

00:48:07.480 it's

00:48:07.680 nothing

00:48:07.880 it's

00:48:08.080 nothing

00:48:08.440 then

00:48:09.200 I'm

00:48:09.340 like

00:48:09.540 okay

00:48:09.880 like

00:48:10.460 why

00:48:10.760 is it

00:48:11.500 not

00:48:11.640 something

00:48:11.900 that's

00:48:12.340 like

00:48:12.600 open

00:48:13.620 to

00:48:13.840 share

00:48:14.240 you know

00:48:15.020 it could

00:48:15.540 be like

00:48:15.800 a

00:48:15.900 cafe

00:48:16.200 or

00:48:16.440 anything

00:48:16.680 or

00:48:16.980 it

00:48:17.100 could

00:48:17.180 be

00:48:17.320 something

00:48:17.560 funny

00:48:18.020 but

00:48:19.500 if

00:48:19.600 it's

00:48:19.720 like

00:48:19.840 something

00:48:20.080 like

00:48:20.360 you're

00:48:20.580 like

00:48:20.740 vehemently

00:48:21.360 against

00:48:21.680 of

00:48:21.860 like

00:48:22.080 disclosing

00:48:22.900 then

00:48:23.120 I'm

00:48:23.280 like

00:48:23.520 okay

00:48:25.440 like

00:48:26.080 it

00:48:27.660 has to

00:48:28.180 be

00:48:28.260 more

00:48:28.520 than

00:48:28.660 one

00:48:28.840 instance

00:48:29.320 I

00:48:29.780 believe

00:48:30.160 for

00:48:31.860 sure

00:48:32.120 Andrew

00:48:34.340 any

00:48:34.560 thoughts

00:48:34.840 on

00:48:35.200 these

00:48:36.680 sorts

00:48:36.940 of

00:48:37.120 tests

00:48:37.560 and

00:48:37.820 relationships

00:48:38.200 yeah

00:48:38.400 I

00:48:38.580 wanted

00:48:38.860 I

00:48:39.120 did

00:48:39.280 want

00:48:39.440 to

00:48:39.540 dive

00:48:39.740 into

00:48:40.020 it

00:48:40.140 a

00:48:40.220 little

00:48:40.340 bit

00:48:40.520 with

00:48:40.740 you

00:48:40.980 let

00:48:42.320 us

00:48:42.660 assume

00:48:43.560 for a

00:48:44.340 minute

00:48:44.500 that

00:48:44.940 you

00:48:45.100 had

00:48:45.480 a

00:48:45.740 crystal

00:48:46.060 ball

00:48:46.460 that

00:48:46.640 could

00:48:46.780 tell

00:48:46.920 the

00:48:47.100 future

00:48:47.460 and

00:48:48.780 you

00:48:48.900 knew

00:48:49.060 that

00:48:49.280 if

00:48:49.480 you

00:48:49.640 dm'd

00:48:50.220 all

00:48:50.460 of

00:48:50.600 those

00:48:50.800 women 1.00

00:48:51.160 they

00:48:51.460 would

00:48:51.660 respond

00:48:52.240 and

00:48:52.460 he

00:48:52.660 would

00:48:52.980 then

00:48:53.420 fly

00:48:53.960 them

00:48:54.180 out

00:48:54.380 and

00:48:54.520 do

00:48:54.640 all

00:48:54.820 of

00:48:54.940 this

00:48:55.140 but

00:48:55.360 had

00:48:55.620 you

00:48:55.760 done

00:48:56.000 nothing

00:48:56.440 he

00:48:57.400 would

00:48:57.540 have

00:48:57.640 stayed

00:48:57.880 with

00:48:58.220 you

00:48:58.500 for

00:48:58.700 the

00:48:58.820 rest

00:48:59.060 of

00:48:59.200 your

00:48:59.340 life

00:48:59.700 and

00:49:00.000 never

00:49:00.560 gone

00:49:01.060 with

00:49:01.260 another

00:49:01.520 woman 0.99

00:49:01.840 just

00:49:02.900 knowing

00:49:03.520 that

00:49:04.600 if

00:49:05.260 the

00:49:05.380 opportunity

00:49:10.520 guy

00:49:10.840 is

00:49:17.940 this

00:49:18.180 a

00:49:18.520 question

00:49:18.780 open

00:49:19.060 to

00:49:19.400 everybody

00:49:19.840 on

00:49:20.060 the

00:49:20.180 panel

00:49:20.420 no

00:49:22.200 I'm

00:49:22.380 asking

00:49:22.660 her

00:49:23.100 so

00:49:29.720 with

00:49:30.000 the

00:49:30.180 crystal

00:49:30.500 ball

00:49:31.000 I

00:49:31.480 already

00:49:32.000 knew

00:49:32.460 that

00:49:33.180 he

00:49:33.460 was

00:49:33.660 doing

00:49:33.880 that

00:49:34.220 correct

00:49:35.600 correct

00:49:36.620 so

00:49:36.880 well

00:49:37.120 you

00:49:37.260 knew

00:49:37.400 that

00:49:37.560 if

00:49:37.760 you

00:49:37.860 had

00:49:38.040 dm'd

00:49:38.480 all

00:49:38.620 these

00:49:38.800 women 1.00

00:49:39.140 that

00:49:40.260 he

00:49:40.400 would

00:49:40.540 fly

00:49:40.780 them

00:49:40.980 out

00:49:41.180 and

00:49:41.300 this

00:49:41.440 kind

00:49:41.640 of

00:49:41.740 thing

00:49:41.960 but

00:49:42.880 you

00:49:43.000 also

00:49:43.200 knew

00:49:43.360 that

00:49:43.540 if

00:49:43.720 you

00:49:43.840 never

00:49:44.100 did

00:49:44.440 dm

00:49:44.760 any

00:49:44.920 of

00:49:45.040 those

00:49:45.220 women 1.00

00:49:45.500 that

00:49:46.180 he

00:49:46.500 would

00:49:46.660 be

00:49:46.800 with

00:49:47.020 you

00:49:47.140 for

00:49:47.280 the

00:49:47.380 rest

00:49:47.540 of

00:49:47.620 your

00:49:47.720 life

00:49:48.060 and

00:49:48.340 there

00:49:48.700 would

00:49:48.820 be

00:49:48.920 no

00:49:49.080 problems

00:49:49.560 because

00:49:49.880 those

00:49:50.200 opportunities

00:49:50.720 did

00:49:50.960 not

00:49:51.120 present

00:49:51.400 themselves

00:49:51.900 would

00:49:52.600 you

00:49:52.700 still

00:49:52.920 stay

00:49:53.160 with

00:49:53.340 him

00:49:53.500 and

00:49:53.760 never

00:49:53.980 have

00:49:54.160 dm'd

00:49:54.480 those

00:49:54.660 women 1.00

00:49:55.100 or

00:49:58.980 is

00:49:59.460 it

00:49:59.600 just

00:49:59.820 the

00:50:00.060 knowledge

00:50:00.500 that

00:50:00.760 he

00:50:00.980 would

00:50:01.280 do

00:50:01.560 it

00:50:01.760 enough

00:50:10.260 never

00:50:10.380 trusted

00:50:10.780 him

00:50:11.060 so

00:50:11.360 I

00:50:11.860 still

00:50:13.640 wouldn't

00:50:13.860 be

00:50:14.000 with

00:50:14.180 him

00:50:14.400 regardless

00:50:14.880 because

00:50:15.480 okay

00:50:16.100 yeah

00:50:16.460 I still

00:50:16.880 wouldn't

00:50:17.060 be

00:50:17.180 with

00:50:17.360 him

00:50:17.560 all right

00:50:18.760 thanks

00:50:19.200 appreciate

00:50:19.800 it

00:50:21.040 do you

00:50:21.960 have

00:50:22.280 more

00:50:22.460 Andrew

00:50:22.720 or

00:50:23.020 I mean

00:50:25.020 not

00:50:25.220 really

00:50:25.600 I'm

00:50:26.140 just

00:50:26.320 figure

00:50:26.880 out

00:50:27.220 when

00:50:27.760 we're

00:50:27.880 talking

00:50:28.180 about 1.00

00:50:28.600 shit 0.99

00:50:28.880 testing 0.99

00:50:29.380 like

00:50:30.040 I

00:50:30.140 understand

00:50:30.420 the

00:50:30.620 concept

00:50:31.020 of it

00:50:31.440 you're

00:50:31.580 trying

00:50:31.760 to set

00:50:32.060 the

00:50:32.200 other

00:50:32.340 person

00:50:32.660 up

00:50:32.920 to

00:50:33.080 see

00:50:33.220 what

00:50:33.400 they'll

00:50:33.600 do

00:50:33.920 this

00:50:34.180 type

00:50:34.420 of

00:50:34.520 thing

00:50:34.800 but

00:50:36.480 it

00:50:36.700 also

00:50:37.140 adds

00:50:38.740 opportunities

00:50:39.420 that

00:50:39.700 they

00:50:39.840 would

00:50:39.960 not

00:50:40.160 normally

00:50:40.660 have

00:50:41.180 an

00:50:41.480 interest

00:50:41.820 from

00:50:42.080 women 1.00

00:50:42.340 or

00:50:42.840 other

00:50:43.160 people

00:50:43.440 they

00:50:43.600 would

00:50:43.740 not

00:50:43.940 normally

00:50:44.320 have

00:50:44.800 and

00:50:45.460 so

00:50:45.700 I

00:50:46.200 just

00:50:46.860 kind

00:50:47.060 of

00:50:47.160 wonder

00:50:47.500 is

00:50:48.160 it

00:50:48.320 just

00:50:48.640 the

00:50:48.840 idea

00:50:49.240 that

00:50:49.460 they

00:50:49.580 would

00:50:49.760 do

00:50:49.960 that

00:50:50.340 or

00:50:51.280 if

00:50:51.740 you

00:50:51.820 never 0.99

00:50:52.060 shit 0.99

00:50:52.320 tested 0.99

00:50:52.600 them

00:50:52.840 and

00:50:52.940 they

00:50:53.080 stayed

00:50:53.580 you know

00:50:55.520 and gave

00:50:55.900 even gave

00:50:56.380 you a good

00:50:56.640 life

00:50:56.880 for this

00:50:57.140 type

00:50:57.320 of

00:50:57.400 thing

00:50:57.560 it's

00:50:57.700 just

00:50:57.840 the

00:50:58.040 foreknowledge

00:50:58.620 of knowing

00:50:59.020 that

00:50:59.220 enough

00:50:59.620 it's

00:51:01.340 just

00:51:01.520 knowing

00:51:01.840 that

00:51:02.020 they

00:51:02.180 would

00:51:02.400 have

00:51:02.580 done

00:51:02.780 that

00:51:03.000 enough

00:51:03.420 let's

00:51:05.420 go to

00:51:05.900 Grok

00:51:06.220 really

00:51:06.440 quick

00:51:06.720 let's

00:51:07.020 just

00:51:07.160 see

00:51:07.300 what

00:51:07.480 Grok

00:51:07.720 says

00:51:07.960 and

00:51:08.080 then

00:51:08.200 we'll

00:51:08.340 get

00:51:08.480 the

00:51:09.440 next

00:51:09.660 thing

00:51:09.820 going

00:51:10.080 yep

00:51:11.600 go ahead

00:51:12.060 all right

00:51:13.980 the concept

00:51:14.900 of testing

00:51:15.340 a partner

00:51:15.660 in a

00:51:15.860 relationship

00:51:16.220 can be

00:51:16.680 quite

00:51:16.900 nuanced

00:51:17.240 depending

00:51:17.560 on the

00:51:17.820 methods

00:51:18.080 and

00:51:18.220 intentions

00:51:18.740 behind

00:51:19.360 the

00:51:19.520 test

00:51:19.740 here's

00:51:19.960 a

00:51:20.040 balanced

00:51:20.260 perspective

00:51:20.800 sometimes

00:51:22.760 small

00:51:23.300 ethical

00:51:23.640 tests

00:51:23.940 can

00:51:24.100 reveal

00:51:24.480 how

00:51:24.880 a

00:51:25.120 partner

00:51:25.560 might

00:51:25.840 handle

00:51:26.060 certain

00:51:26.300 situations

00:51:26.800 like

00:51:27.040 honesty

00:51:27.380 or

00:51:27.540 loyalty

00:51:27.780 observing

00:51:31.400 how they

00:51:31.780 react to

00:51:32.160 a situation

00:51:32.580 where they

00:51:32.860 could easily

00:51:33.220 lie or

00:51:33.620 cheat

00:51:33.840 but

00:51:34.040 choosing

00:51:34.300 not

00:51:34.580 to

00:51:34.820 can

00:51:35.360 be

00:51:35.500 telling

00:51:35.720 of

00:51:35.840 their

00:51:35.980 character

00:51:36.360 some

00:51:36.980 tests

00:51:37.240 are

00:51:37.360 more

00:51:37.540 about

00:51:37.860 creating

00:51:38.180 scenarios

00:51:38.680 where

00:51:38.840 communication

00:51:39.320 is

00:51:39.520 encouraged

00:51:40.100 for

00:51:40.840 example

00:51:41.120 discussing

00:51:41.560 hypothetical

00:51:41.960 situations

00:51:42.700 cons

00:51:43.500 of

00:51:43.660 testing

00:51:44.020 let's

00:51:44.240 scroll

00:51:44.360 down

00:51:44.520 a bit

00:51:44.780 regularly

00:51:46.480 testing

00:51:47.020 a partner

00:51:47.380 can erode

00:51:47.800 trust

00:51:48.220 if the

00:51:48.500 partner

00:51:48.700 finds out

00:51:49.140 they're

00:51:49.240 being

00:51:49.420 tested

00:51:49.800 it

00:51:49.980 might

00:51:50.140 lead

00:51:50.360 to

00:51:50.520 feelings

00:51:50.840 of

00:51:51.020 betrayal

00:51:51.420 or

00:51:52.020 manipulation

00:51:52.460 which

00:51:52.920 can

00:51:53.120 damage

00:51:53.480 the

00:51:53.660 relationship's

00:51:54.300 foundation

00:51:54.820 manipulative

00:51:55.900 behavior

00:51:56.460 intentionally

00:51:57.420 setting up

00:51:58.020 scenarios

00:51:58.420 to trick

00:51:58.800 or trap

00:51:59.100 someone

00:51:59.320 can be

00:51:59.680 manipulative

00:52:00.260 healthy

00:52:00.880 relationships

00:52:01.360 are based

00:52:01.800 on trust

00:52:02.380 not on

00:52:03.020 constant

00:52:03.400 vigilance

00:52:03.880 or proving

00:52:04.220 one's worth

00:52:04.700 insecurity

00:52:05.400 frequently

00:52:05.960 frequent

00:52:06.360 testing

00:52:06.720 might

00:52:07.000 reflect

00:52:07.700 one's

00:52:08.120 insecurities

00:52:08.680 rather than

00:52:09.240 any actual

00:52:09.820 problem

00:52:10.260 with the

00:52:10.880 partner's

00:52:11.260 behavior

00:52:11.720 this can

00:52:13.320 lead to

00:52:13.580 a toxic

00:52:13.840 cycle

00:52:14.180 where no

00:52:14.480 amount

00:52:14.640 of testing

00:52:14.980 will ever

00:52:15.360 reassure

00:52:15.940 the

00:52:16.680 tester

00:52:17.400 so

00:52:17.800 I do

00:52:19.340 actually

00:52:19.640 have

00:52:19.980 a couple

00:52:20.920 follow-ups

00:52:21.740 on this

00:52:22.080 here

00:52:22.260 so

00:52:22.520 would you

00:52:24.820 guys

00:52:25.060 be upset

00:52:26.180 or would

00:52:26.620 you be

00:52:26.880 upset

00:52:27.220 since you

00:52:27.940 did the

00:52:28.300 loyalty

00:52:28.660 test

00:52:29.120 if you

00:52:30.280 got loyalty

00:52:30.820 tested

00:52:31.260 and you

00:52:31.700 passed

00:52:32.180 but you

00:52:34.200 found out

00:52:34.720 that you

00:52:35.060 got tested

00:52:35.680 I always

00:52:44.020 advocate

00:52:44.540 for like

00:52:45.480 healthy

00:52:45.940 communication

00:52:46.560 beforehand

00:52:47.140 and with

00:52:48.720 with

00:52:49.620 with him

00:52:50.360 I did

00:52:51.500 ask him

00:52:52.020 like are

00:52:52.320 you talking

00:52:52.720 to any

00:52:53.040 girls 0.98

00:52:53.360 do you

00:52:53.600 like any

00:52:53.920 girls 0.98

00:52:54.120 and he

00:52:54.300 said no

00:52:54.760 but I

00:52:55.720 didn't

00:52:55.900 believe him

00:52:56.400 so for

00:52:57.300 me is

00:52:58.020 if I

00:52:59.580 did

00:53:00.600 if I

00:53:01.140 told him

00:53:01.480 the truth

00:53:02.000 about me

00:53:03.220 not talking

00:53:04.320 to other

00:53:05.220 guys

00:53:05.760 then I

00:53:07.140 guess it

00:53:07.360 really depends

00:53:07.840 if I lied

00:53:08.320 to him

00:53:08.540 or not

00:53:08.920 okay I

00:53:10.440 have

00:53:10.760 well do

00:53:13.500 you what

00:53:13.760 do you

00:53:13.980 I don't

00:53:15.060 know if

00:53:15.360 this maybe

00:53:16.180 Andrew can

00:53:16.660 let me know

00:53:17.020 what he thinks

00:53:17.740 about this

00:53:18.100 argument but

00:53:18.680 would any

00:53:19.480 of you

00:53:19.780 object let's

00:53:20.720 say you

00:53:20.940 were married

00:53:21.460 to a guy

00:53:22.040 and he

00:53:23.720 wanted to

00:53:24.780 you had

00:53:25.520 kids with

00:53:25.940 him and

00:53:26.900 he wanted

00:53:27.400 absolute

00:53:27.840 certainty

00:53:28.420 that the

00:53:28.860 kids were

00:53:29.140 his

00:53:29.380 would you

00:53:31.400 he asked

00:53:32.080 you for

00:53:32.340 a paternity

00:53:32.880 test so

00:53:33.860 this is

00:53:34.120 your husband

00:53:34.720 you guys

00:53:35.560 been dating

00:53:35.940 for years

00:53:36.960 you got

00:53:37.720 kids together

00:53:38.500 maybe even

00:53:39.780 you're married

00:53:40.340 whatever

00:53:40.720 would you

00:53:41.660 be offended

00:53:42.080 if he

00:53:42.380 asked you

00:53:42.700 for a

00:53:43.000 paternity 0.93

00:53:43.400 test

00:53:43.880 I would

00:53:46.860 say yes

00:53:48.060 because it

00:53:49.240 shows that he

00:53:49.860 doesn't trust

00:53:50.680 me because I

00:53:51.700 feel like at

00:53:52.360 that stage

00:53:52.880 in marriage

00:53:53.480 it's like

00:53:54.100 if you

00:53:55.500 don't trust

00:53:55.940 me then you

00:53:56.480 shouldn't be

00:53:56.800 with me

00:53:57.320 yeah yeah

00:53:59.440 I'd be

00:53:59.820 offended and

00:54:01.420 I think it

00:54:01.700 would break

00:54:01.960 something for

00:54:02.460 sure I'm

00:54:03.180 not saying I

00:54:03.520 wouldn't do

00:54:03.900 it but

00:54:04.640 that I

00:54:06.240 think that

00:54:06.500 would mean

00:54:06.720 there's a

00:54:07.060 there are

00:54:08.360 other issues

00:54:08.960 like there

00:54:09.520 is something

00:54:09.840 to talk

00:54:10.200 about but

00:54:10.740 yeah I

00:54:11.260 would refuse

00:54:11.620 the paternity

00:54:12.740 test no I

00:54:13.420 said I

00:54:13.740 I'm not

00:54:14.480 sure I

00:54:14.820 would refuse

00:54:15.380 it you

00:54:16.120 know but I

00:54:16.600 think it

00:54:16.800 would break

00:54:17.060 something because

00:54:17.540 the trust

00:54:18.340 would you

00:54:18.720 refuse it

00:54:19.320 I would do

00:54:20.620 it you

00:54:21.240 would do it

00:54:21.560 but it

00:54:22.240 would destroy

00:54:23.440 your trust

00:54:24.080 right yes

00:54:25.220 okay would

00:54:25.900 you do a

00:54:26.200 paternity test 0.90

00:54:26.940 I would but

00:54:28.540 I would be

00:54:28.960 upset that he

00:54:29.840 doesn't trust

00:54:30.640 me you'd be

00:54:31.140 upset okay what

00:54:31.960 about you

00:54:32.300 yeah I'd do

00:54:33.660 it would you be

00:54:34.620 upset at all

00:54:35.180 honestly think

00:54:36.540 about it not

00:54:37.080 really um just

00:54:39.120 because uh at

00:54:40.280 that stage I

00:54:42.000 know like um

00:54:43.560 if I know my

00:54:44.180 partner well and

00:54:44.780 he's like a little

00:54:45.340 bit anxious as a

00:54:46.560 person I'm just

00:54:47.220 like okay you know

00:54:48.060 what just to

00:54:48.940 give you a

00:54:49.220 peace of

00:54:49.620 mind um here

00:54:51.880 we'll we'll

00:54:52.520 do it and

00:54:53.720 then if you

00:54:55.380 know he gets

00:54:55.900 his answer and

00:54:56.500 he's like oh

00:54:56.920 thank the

00:54:57.400 lord and I'm

00:54:57.880 like okay like

00:54:58.640 you just wasted

00:54:59.840 money and time

00:55:01.360 just to do this

00:55:02.380 test but whatever

00:55:03.900 like move on

00:55:04.940 okay your

00:55:06.180 thoughts I

00:55:08.220 would do it but

00:55:08.940 I do feel if

00:55:09.820 there is no

00:55:10.360 reason to not

00:55:13.600 be trusted I

00:55:14.380 guess if I gave

00:55:14.980 him a reason for

00:55:16.280 him not to

00:55:16.820 trust me then I

00:55:18.140 do feel that's

00:55:18.740 valid but even

00:55:20.020 asking for it I

00:55:21.140 do feel it's

00:55:21.940 gonna ruin a lot

00:55:23.460 for our

00:55:23.760 relationship would

00:55:25.140 it end the

00:55:25.620 relationship if

00:55:26.340 you asked for

00:55:26.800 one

00:55:27.020 emotionally I'm

00:55:32.180 not sure you

00:55:32.760 got you got to

00:55:33.300 speak into the

00:55:33.720 mic I'm not

00:55:34.240 sure about like

00:55:34.840 physically and

00:55:36.100 the relationship

00:55:36.780 but definitely

00:55:37.940 emotionally for

00:55:38.860 me wait it

00:55:40.500 would emotionally

00:55:41.180 and like the

00:55:41.960 connection between

00:55:42.700 it wouldn't

00:55:43.180 physically end

00:55:43.820 the relationship

00:55:44.120 so you guys 1.00

00:55:44.540 would still fuck 1.00

00:55:45.280 but you 1.00

00:55:45.560 wouldn't be in

00:55:45.980 love is that

00:55:46.960 what you're

00:55:47.180 saying I

00:55:48.480 mean if we

00:55:49.400 were having a

00:55:50.140 child together I

00:55:51.040 wouldn't necessarily

00:55:52.020 I would try to

00:55:53.340 find an alternative

00:55:54.200 before I guess

00:55:55.740 getting a divorce

00:55:56.420 but in terms of

00:55:58.720 the emotional

00:55:59.340 connection with my

00:56:00.640 husband it would 0.95

00:56:01.940 break that trust

00:56:02.780 agreement between

00:56:03.620 us what about

00:56:05.240 you I would

00:56:06.980 take it I don't

00:56:07.900 think I would be

00:56:08.400 that offended to be

00:56:09.200 honest I mean I

00:56:10.120 do think like a lot

00:56:11.000 of other people

00:56:11.500 mentioned that it

00:56:12.960 would be kind of a

00:56:14.080 problem that we

00:56:14.940 need to talk about

00:56:15.740 and I would

00:56:16.500 definitely want to

00:56:17.180 know where is

00:56:17.660 this coming from

00:56:18.260 you know because

00:56:18.820 I don't think

00:56:19.340 those things ever

00:56:20.080 come from nothing

00:56:21.000 but I would

00:56:21.760 take it I

00:56:23.520 take it I

00:56:24.080 think it's way

00:56:24.880 bigger than just

00:56:26.000 a relationship

00:56:26.640 you wouldn't be

00:56:29.940 upset or maybe

00:56:31.940 a little bit but

00:56:33.120 I don't think I'd

00:56:33.780 be upset after

00:56:34.900 like a while

00:56:36.140 Anissa I

00:56:37.560 would take it

00:56:38.220 but it would

00:56:38.620 definitely be like

00:56:39.200 hurtful and it

00:56:40.100 also like indicate

00:56:41.000 like you said like

00:56:41.760 a deeper issue

00:56:42.880 Andrew any

00:56:44.960 thoughts on the

00:56:46.240 yeah I'd like to

00:56:47.280 ask a slightly

00:56:48.120 different question

00:56:48.880 what if he went

00:56:50.220 ahead and took a

00:56:50.820 paternity test 0.90

00:56:51.480 without your

00:56:51.940 knowledge and

00:56:53.280 then you found

00:56:53.720 out about it

00:56:54.240 would that upset

00:56:54.740 you yes it's

00:56:57.180 the same I mean

00:56:58.100 it's worse even

00:57:00.040 yeah but if he

00:57:02.560 knew that you

00:57:03.760 may perhaps you

00:57:05.120 had discussions

00:57:05.700 about this or

00:57:06.420 something like

00:57:06.900 this if he knew

00:57:08.340 that you were

00:57:09.500 against this or

00:57:10.340 you thought that

00:57:11.200 somehow this was

00:57:12.960 him bringing your

00:57:13.840 integrity into

00:57:14.640 question and so

00:57:16.160 in order to spare

00:57:17.080 that right this

00:57:18.400 is a perhaps he's

00:57:19.860 anxious on his own

00:57:20.560 part or whatever

00:57:21.200 for whatever reason

00:57:22.120 he decided that he

00:57:24.060 would just go ahead

00:57:24.700 and do this on his

00:57:25.580 own to establish

00:57:26.420 paternity in order 0.98

00:57:28.620 to not upset you

00:57:29.440 isn't he kind of

00:57:30.060 in a catch-22

00:57:30.880 there right isn't

00:57:32.040 he in a catch-22

00:57:32.800 either he tells you

00:57:33.700 about it you get

00:57:34.320 super upset so he

00:57:35.440 has to do that

00:57:36.260 yeah right I

00:57:37.980 mean what's what

00:57:38.820 like what are what

00:57:39.480 his options at

00:57:40.220 that point yeah

00:57:41.100 I mean if he

00:57:41.580 doesn't tell you

00:57:42.340 I mean what

00:57:44.160 doesn't well you

00:57:45.180 don't know doesn't

00:57:45.660 hurt you but

00:57:46.540 right like doing

00:57:50.080 anything behind

00:57:52.300 your you know

00:57:53.060 communication and

00:57:53.980 trust is that

00:57:54.940 because even you

00:57:55.880 said like it's

00:57:56.300 bigger than the

00:57:56.760 relationship I mean

00:57:57.560 trust is the

00:57:58.300 relationship in my

00:57:59.040 opinion if I don't

00:58:00.040 trust someone or

00:58:00.940 my friends what am

00:58:02.600 I having why would

00:58:04.600 I be in the

00:58:05.440 relationship with

00:58:06.180 them so yeah I

00:58:07.580 understand that but

00:58:08.560 I'm just I'm not

00:58:09.540 looking at this from

00:58:10.380 your perspective I'm

00:58:11.320 trying to look at it

00:58:11.880 from the other

00:58:12.420 the other person's

00:58:13.620 perspective so women 0.99

00:58:15.040 are always assured of

00:58:16.300 paternity that's not a 0.99

00:58:18.100 thing that they ever

00:58:18.700 have to worry about

00:58:19.440 right they know it's

00:58:20.740 their baby maybe

00:58:22.000 because it's coming

00:58:22.640 out of them right

00:58:23.700 men are the only ones 1.00

00:58:25.180 who are ever going to

00:58:25.840 have doubts about

00:58:26.900 paternity they're the 0.99

00:58:27.880 only ones since that

00:58:29.740 is the case if they

00:58:31.140 wanted the peace of

00:58:31.960 mind of a paternity

00:58:32.980 test which since

00:58:34.480 almost all forms of

00:58:35.980 family go from

00:58:37.260 father to son including

00:58:38.320 the last name living

00:58:39.300 on I understand why

00:58:40.940 men want a paternity 0.99

00:58:42.420 established especially

00:58:43.260 now that we can do

00:58:44.460 it and for most of

00:58:45.760 human history we

00:58:46.500 couldn't I'm not even

00:58:48.520 sure that well it's

00:58:49.880 not even I'm not even

00:58:50.520 sure I don't think that

00:58:51.460 it even has anything to

00:58:52.380 do with whether or not

00:58:52.960 they trust their

00:58:53.580 partner but rather it's

00:58:55.560 just peace of mind so

00:58:57.060 if you set up the

00:58:57.800 option of if you ask me

00:58:59.960 for a paternity test I

00:59:01.080 would get super

00:59:01.660 offended and I would be

00:59:03.040 upset about it what

00:59:04.280 choice are you giving

00:59:05.020 them except to go

00:59:06.300 ahead and go behind

00:59:07.020 your back

00:59:07.500 well the thing the

00:59:11.920 thing is like I just

00:59:12.700 my expectation is that

00:59:14.820 he trusts me

00:59:16.480 yeah but I mean

00:59:18.580 I'm not sure that it's

00:59:19.920 an indicator he doesn't

00:59:21.640 well you think I you

00:59:24.400 think he would just

00:59:25.040 somebody would just

00:59:25.700 get a paternity test

00:59:26.800 even if he truly

00:59:28.920 trusted you if he

00:59:30.040 like fully trusts you

00:59:30.880 like there that

00:59:31.640 wouldn't make

00:59:32.140 so haven't you ever

00:59:33.380 had intuitive doubts

00:59:34.940 about things which

00:59:35.880 were absurd or didn't

00:59:37.040 make any sense or were 0.89

00:59:39.060 kind of silly like for 0.98

00:59:40.280 instance maybe you had 0.99

00:59:40.980 a dream that your

00:59:42.600 spouse had cheated on

00:59:43.740 you so you wake up and 0.95

00:59:44.860 you start smacking them

00:59:45.960 right and you call

00:59:47.260 names and you're like

00:59:48.300 how and he didn't even

00:59:49.340 do anything right it

00:59:50.460 was just like some 1.00

00:59:51.140 stupid intuition that 1.00

00:59:52.260 you had and then you're 1.00

00:59:54.160 like okay now hug me and

00:59:55.540 tell me everything's okay

00:59:56.440 and he's like I didn't

00:59:57.040 even do anything I was

00:59:58.000 just sleeping right so

01:00:00.280 it's it's you can have

01:00:01.760 I just find it kind of

01:00:03.020 ironic that you can 0.98

01:00:03.940 kind of have these silly 0.97

01:00:05.020 intuitions and you want 0.90

01:00:06.960 those fears to swage but

01:00:08.360 when somebody else might

01:00:09.360 have what you consider to 0.87

01:00:10.340 be silly intuitions and 0.96

01:00:11.480 you can just put their 0.99

01:00:12.060 mind at ease somehow

01:00:13.460 they're the bad guy that's

01:00:14.440 a trust issue why

01:00:15.540 shouldn't the guy look

01:00:16.340 at you if you wake them

01:00:17.840 up for instance and say

01:00:20.320 oh I had a dream that

01:00:21.140 you were cheating now

01:00:21.960 make me feel better why

01:00:22.820 shouldn't he say how

01:00:23.460 could you not trust me

01:00:24.620 oh that's awful you don't

01:00:26.500 trust me now we have a

01:00:27.940 big issue why are you

01:00:29.020 having dreams like that

01:00:30.020 wouldn't that be

01:00:30.500 horrible to say

01:00:31.440 in my opinion I feel

01:00:35.040 that intuition is very

01:00:36.700 different from intrusive

01:00:38.200 thoughts so if there's

01:00:39.780 no I guess inner knowing

01:00:42.120 or maybe even a sense of

01:00:44.840 rationality when it comes

01:00:46.040 to trusting your partner

01:00:47.020 then you are just kind of

01:00:50.800 feeding into your own ego

01:00:52.340 or those intrusive thoughts

01:00:54.200 that they're cheating on

01:00:55.700 you but they have given

01:00:56.500 no reason for you to

01:00:57.980 believe that

01:00:58.560 yeah but an intrusive

01:01:00.240 thought is irrational

01:01:01.220 right it's a it's an

01:01:02.720 irrational fear there's

01:01:04.400 people who have

01:01:04.840 irrational fears of

01:01:05.860 spiders they have a

01:01:06.800 rational fear of all

01:01:07.600 sorts of different

01:01:08.240 things and they're

01:01:09.460 generally not shamed for

01:01:10.680 it right so let me give

01:01:11.820 you a couple of examples

01:01:13.440 an irrational fear of

01:01:14.760 heights very common an

01:01:16.440 irrational fear like

01:01:17.460 raise your hand right

01:01:18.240 now if you're

01:01:18.580 claustrophobic I'm sure

01:01:19.860 at least one of you at

01:01:20.620 the table is yep every

01:01:22.680 single time at least at

01:01:23.680 least one person will be

01:01:24.980 what about fear of

01:01:26.060 heights raise your hand

01:01:26.780 if you have that yep

01:01:29.680 okay so we already have

01:01:31.760 established this right

01:01:32.780 here at the table there's

01:01:33.620 two people who have

01:01:34.320 irrational fears right

01:01:36.160 but the thing is is what

01:01:39.320 what

01:01:39.640 wait tell Andrew I don't

01:01:43.040 think fear of heights is 0.99

01:01:44.340 irrational that shit is 1.00

01:01:46.300 rational say that shit 1.00

01:01:47.400 Brian said that fear of 1.00

01:01:48.860 heights is not an

01:01:49.860 irrational fear yeah what

01:01:51.300 if you're three feet off

01:01:52.080 the ground dude what if

01:01:53.340 you're three feet off the

01:01:54.140 ground then is it

01:01:54.920 irrational what about two

01:01:56.200 feet still what if

01:01:59.180 you're enclosed what if

01:02:00.140 you're enclosed in a room

01:02:01.140 and you just have a

01:02:01.820 window and you look over

01:02:02.980 and it's 50 feet down and

01:02:04.320 you know you start getting

01:02:05.340 queasy these are rational

01:02:06.900 fears and so the thing

01:02:09.220 is is like if that's the

01:02:11.800 case if you have an

01:02:12.820 irrational fear that a

01:02:14.100 partner could easily take

01:02:15.460 care of for you like for

01:02:17.340 instance you have a bad

01:02:18.280 dream a woman has a bad 0.76

01:02:19.360 dream that the guy

01:02:20.780 cheated this is so common

01:02:22.280 in fact there's entire

01:02:23.720 studies on this phenomenon

01:02:25.080 entire studies on women

01:02:26.580 having bad dreams and that

01:02:28.480 they don't mean anything

01:02:29.540 and that it's just a silly

01:02:31.440 intuition but the number

01:02:33.100 one thing that they ask

01:02:34.140 their partner to do when

01:02:35.100 they have that bad dream is

01:02:36.020 to comfort them that's the

01:02:37.220 number one thing they ask

01:02:38.140 is listen I know that this

01:02:40.320 isn't rational but I'd like

01:02:41.860 you to comfort me anyway

01:02:43.080 yeah and so now now can you

01:02:45.020 imagine if he could if you

01:02:46.460 could say okay if we can

01:02:48.260 swab your cheek right now 0.68

01:02:49.860 right these dreams will go

01:02:51.660 away from me forever

01:02:52.640 wouldn't wouldn't you want

01:02:54.860 him to do that

01:02:55.500 yeah I guess I don't know

01:03:01.080 yeah right I mean wouldn't

01:03:02.880 you want him to like if

01:03:03.720 you had dreams recurring

01:03:04.900 dreams which you thought

01:03:06.680 he was cheating there was

01:03:07.360 no evidence of cheating

01:03:08.260 right it's it's all just

01:03:10.240 inside your head it's all

01:03:11.300 just intuition and all he

01:03:12.400 had to do was swab his

01:03:13.480 cheek and he'd never have

01:03:15.080 that dream again wouldn't

01:03:16.880 you want him to I mean I

01:03:18.120 would I would self-regulate

01:03:19.800 you know that's I feel

01:03:21.160 like that's something I

01:03:21.740 would deal with myself if

01:03:24.540 you know if there are no

01:03:25.620 sign that's really just

01:03:26.440 like random and you know

01:03:27.780 and I'm just like oh like

01:03:29.580 and I don't see how that

01:03:30.580 would come up if you don't

01:03:32.520 see signs if again I think

01:03:35.880 it would come from you

01:03:37.100 yeah but you can

01:03:37.900 misinterpret all of the

01:03:39.300 signs and that could lead

01:03:40.860 to the dream right so you

01:03:42.020 can misinterpret everything

01:03:43.240 and have no evidence be

01:03:44.500 totally wrong this happens

01:03:45.700 all the time why is it

01:03:47.320 okay for you to do that

01:03:48.340 just not men I'm not I

01:03:50.100 didn't say that well

01:03:51.520 that's what I mean though

01:03:52.180 it's like yeah men could

01:03:53.520 easily misinterpret all

01:03:54.840 sorts of things or have

01:03:56.180 all sorts of irrational

01:03:57.160 fears yeah and if you can

01:03:58.900 just kind of oh I can

01:04:01.040 just swab my cheek and put

01:04:02.460 all those fears to bed it

01:04:03.740 seems really silly to me

01:04:05.320 that when the shoes on one

01:04:06.860 foot oh this irrational fear

01:04:08.640 is kind of fine but when

01:04:10.200 it's on the other foot it's

01:04:11.460 not even though women don't 1.00

01:04:13.560 ever have to worry about

01:04:14.440 that fear because they're

01:04:15.680 the birthers of the 0.51

01:04:16.480 children they always have

01:04:17.840 paternity established it's 0.97

01:04:19.340 not men well I mean

01:04:21.880 maternity for them and

01:04:23.380 then paternity for men

01:04:24.340 right well some some

01:04:25.240 women sometimes don't know 1.00

01:04:26.440 either well they may not

01:04:29.400 know who the father is but

01:04:30.720 they're going to always

01:04:31.340 know who the mother is

01:04:32.360 oh yeah yeah yeah yeah

01:04:34.400 fathers fathers though

01:04:35.840 they're not they're not

01:04:36.900 they don't have that

01:04:37.580 guarantee women always have 1.00

01:04:38.940 the guarantee that this is

01:04:39.900 my child so you know if

01:04:41.840 you can have those

01:04:42.540 irrational fears and ask

01:04:44.820 that those things be like

01:04:47.060 comforted away because it

01:04:49.400 makes you feel better I

01:04:51.000 don't understand how that's

01:04:51.800 not just the same thing in

01:04:52.900 reverse well I mean it is

01:04:56.060 the same thing but that's

01:04:57.080 in what I said is goes for

01:04:59.980 in reverse as well if a

01:05:01.280 woman has an irrational 1.00

01:05:02.360 fear or something I think

01:05:03.300 she has I deal with my 0.99

01:05:05.760 shit when I know it's kind 0.99

01:05:06.540 of irrational you know I 1.00

01:05:07.460 don't need somebody else to

01:05:09.780 oh come on oh come on so

01:05:10.880 you've never ever ever in

01:05:12.960 your life had an irrational

01:05:15.020 fear like that and ask

01:05:17.100 somebody to comfort that

01:05:18.440 fear away like you've

01:05:19.480 never had that dream and

01:05:21.340 you've never been like

01:05:22.120 okay I had this dream and

01:05:23.620 I'd like to talk to you

01:05:24.480 about it just because it'll

01:05:25.300 make me feel better right

01:05:27.420 never not really no no okay

01:05:30.720 well how many women but I 1.00

01:05:31.720 mean yeah I guess it's

01:05:32.640 something but no I've never

01:05:33.720 how many women here have 1.00

01:05:35.460 had dreams that their

01:05:36.500 significant other might be

01:05:37.620 cheating yeah or maybe

01:05:40.800 seeing other people how

01:05:41.900 many times have you

01:05:42.540 thought perhaps they

01:05:43.620 were even though they

01:05:44.560 weren't right you

01:05:46.000 misread the signs can we

01:05:47.180 get a show of hands on

01:05:48.200 that yeah I mean it

01:05:51.360 happens right and so the

01:05:52.540 thing is is I think that

01:05:54.520 if you were talking to

01:05:55.900 your girlfriends the next

01:05:56.960 day you said listen I

01:05:57.800 had a bad dream that my

01:05:59.780 significant other was

01:06:00.740 cheating on me and when I

01:06:02.380 woke up he said to me you

01:06:04.580 know what I can't believe

01:06:05.880 you don't trust me you're a 1.00

01:06:07.320 rotten you're a rotten 1.00

01:06:08.420 person I can't believe it 1.00

01:06:09.940 that's awful and and then

01:06:11.940 went and slept in another

01:06:12.880 room I think that they

01:06:13.880 would all be like what a 1.00

01:06:14.940 jerk they'd all be like 1.00

01:06:16.360 what a jerk that he did 1.00

01:06:17.800 that to you what what an 1.00

01:06:18.960 absolute all he had to do

01:06:19.840 was give you a hug all he

01:06:21.460 had to do was tell you it

01:06:22.380 would be okay but then

01:06:23.520 somehow though if they ask

01:06:25.500 for like the most important

01:06:26.620 thing on planet earth which

01:06:27.820 is just establishing the

01:06:29.480 eternity of their child

01:06:30.480 that's some kind of big ask

01:06:32.220 and that to me is just

01:06:33.420 absurd well I mean asking 1.00

01:06:35.160 for support it's not like

01:06:36.260 asking for proof it's

01:06:37.920 different yeah it is it is

01:06:40.180 asking for proof you're

01:06:41.120 asking them for the same

01:06:42.040 thing you're asking them

01:06:43.140 to make you feel better

01:06:44.560 about an irrational fear

01:06:46.180 about something which you

01:06:49.020 know they know it's not

01:06:50.680 true right so your partner

01:06:51.880 your husband your boyfriend

01:06:53.340 whatever they know they're

01:06:54.200 not cheating on you yeah so

01:06:56.220 it's accusatory it's

01:06:57.440 accusatory to be like even I

01:06:59.340 even to tell them oh I had

01:07:00.540 a bad dream comfort me that

01:07:03.420 in its own way is

01:07:04.280 accusatory and it's like so

01:07:06.120 but but the expectation is

01:07:07.800 like well they're men you

01:07:09.080 know they they should hug

01:07:10.420 us and make us feel better

01:07:11.600 about this stuff but it's

01:07:12.780 like when it's all the

01:07:13.700 shoes on the other foot it

01:07:14.700 suddenly it's offensive and

01:07:16.300 how dare they and I just

01:07:17.520 don't understand it's

01:07:18.460 offensive in both ways but

01:07:20.000 equivalent would be the guy

01:07:22.120 not asking for a test but

01:07:23.600 asking for comfort that's

01:07:25.000 the equivalent of the

01:07:26.660 situation be like hey are

01:07:27.860 you is this me me

01:07:29.700 converting and saying like

01:07:31.060 yes he's yours it's the

01:07:32.240 same thing as like let's

01:07:33.060 say you said like the dream

01:07:34.140 thing you said oh yeah

01:07:35.020 sure sure but let's say

01:07:36.220 you could give the if the

01:07:37.460 guy if the girl was having

01:07:38.800 recurring dreams you said

01:07:40.620 you you would expect them

01:07:41.720 to swab their cheek right

01:07:43.100 they would get rid of the

01:07:43.900 dreams forever you know

01:07:46.120 hey will you just swab the

01:07:47.420 cheek and then my dreams

01:07:48.260 go away forever all these

01:07:49.340 bad dreams that I have

01:07:50.320 about this irrational fear

01:07:51.360 go away and you're like no 0.88

01:07:53.160 that's not appropriate 0.64

01:07:54.060 that's just silly to me of

01:07:55.460 course every man I could

01:07:56.620 imagine would be like yeah

01:07:57.800 sure I don't care

01:07:58.520 every I don't think I highly

01:08:03.120 doubt it I don't think

01:08:03.600 they would care I think

01:08:04.580 that I know every man I've

01:08:06.040 ever talked to has woken

01:08:07.300 up with a woman next to 0.96

01:08:09.060 him who has said this to

01:08:10.400 him who has said I think

01:08:11.700 you're cheating blah blah

01:08:13.060 blah blah blah blah blah

01:08:13.640 and I know it's not

01:08:15.140 rational it's a bad dream

01:08:16.400 that I had it's not even

01:08:17.660 true but I have the bad

01:08:18.940 dream make me feel better

01:08:20.560 that you don't think they

01:08:21.320 find it annoying

01:08:21.880 you don't think they find

01:08:24.480 that annoying you don't

01:08:25.740 think they feel like I

01:08:26.880 find it annoying but I

01:08:28.020 think that because they you

01:08:30.980 know kind of adore the other

01:08:32.040 person that if she was like

01:08:34.260 oh if you just swab your

01:08:36.020 cheek with this q-tip for 0.91

01:08:37.540 30 seconds I'll never wake

01:08:39.360 you up with this again I

01:08:41.060 think they would do it and

01:08:42.560 they I don't even think

01:08:43.300 they would complain I

01:08:44.520 literally don't even think

01:08:45.540 they would complain I

01:08:46.560 think they'd be like yeah

01:08:47.300 whatever I don't care I

01:08:48.400 think they do it while

01:08:48.980 they're brushing their

01:08:49.600 teeth I don't think they

01:08:50.420 care right can I

01:08:53.660 interject sure honestly I

01:08:56.840 see your point I feel

01:08:58.500 like it doesn't matter if

01:08:59.700 you're a man or woman 0.58

01:09:00.400 um everyone needs

01:09:02.300 reassurance at least if

01:09:03.680 everyone has some sort of

01:09:04.760 like fears or worries or

01:09:06.120 anxieties which is

01:09:07.260 completely fine that's why

01:09:08.320 when um like if the guy

01:09:10.640 needs a swab then to like

01:09:13.360 to ease his mind then I'm

01:09:14.480 like okay sure and but it

01:09:17.300 does really again serves

01:09:18.600 like a means to just talk

01:09:21.860 about like what's really

01:09:22.700 going on because his thing

01:09:24.400 too like I am I'm someone

01:09:25.960 that's like oh like are you

01:09:28.180 like do you love me you

01:09:29.480 know I sometimes I ask

01:09:30.460 like oh do you still love

01:09:31.500 me like of course like why

01:09:32.820 you keep asking um it's

01:09:34.660 just a matter of

01:09:35.220 reassurance but there is a

01:09:36.740 threshold I feel like

01:09:37.780 where um the more you are

01:09:40.700 showing that anxiety the

01:09:42.820 more it indicates your

01:09:43.900 partner that you don't have

01:09:45.360 enough confidence in the

01:09:46.540 relationship and I feel

01:09:47.440 like having confidence

01:09:48.700 having trust again is

01:09:50.060 something that is yeah I'm

01:09:51.780 not sure I'm not sure that

01:09:53.080 I buy any of that that's 0.55

01:09:54.400 like a bizarre psycho

01:09:56.080 analysis so here's the

01:09:57.980 thing people are vastly

01:09:59.440 complex they're individuals

01:10:01.460 especially are vastly

01:10:02.500 complex and their

01:10:03.360 experiences are so different

01:10:05.600 from one another that it's

01:10:08.020 essentially impossible to

01:10:09.520 even determine um you know

01:10:12.720 even the basic things of

01:10:13.840 like what would make one 0.98

01:10:15.020 guy a jerk might make 0.98

01:10:16.080 another guy endearing what 0.99

01:10:17.680 makes one woman you know a 0.98

01:10:19.340 brat might make another 0.54

01:10:20.360 woman you know cute to to 1.00

01:10:22.380 other people there's a

01:10:23.480 everything from presentation

01:10:25.280 to voice structure to

01:10:27.680 every people are just

01:10:28.660 overwhelmingly complex and

01:10:31.480 so a person can be an

01:10:33.580 extraordinarily nice person

01:10:35.220 they can be a great

01:10:36.040 person trust you 100% and

01:10:37.820 still have an irrational

01:10:38.740 fear and it's like to be

01:10:41.100 offended by the fact that

01:10:42.740 you can uh you know take

01:10:45.180 that burden off their mind

01:10:46.440 seems insane because if I

01:10:48.240 give you tons of examples of

01:10:49.760 it happening the opposite way

01:10:50.940 it's just so common we take

01:10:52.560 it for granted at the same

01:10:55.300 time too I feel like again

01:10:58.020 before you get into a

01:10:58.980 relationship you are your

01:11:00.040 own person everyone has at

01:11:02.820 least some sort of line or

01:11:05.180 boundary that they set of

01:11:06.940 course like once or twice

01:11:08.340 it's okay like um like I'll

01:11:11.220 let it slide but then again

01:11:12.460 you gotta work on it again a

01:11:14.700 relationship is something that

01:11:15.860 is between two people and

01:11:17.980 communicating to work on like

01:11:19.900 obstacles such as like

01:11:21.320 anxiety or going through

01:11:22.920 certain like irrational

01:11:24.420 fears um I feel like that's

01:11:26.760 a beautiful thing to to

01:11:28.300 like as a relationship just

01:11:29.920 to work on each other but

01:11:32.200 again if it's not leading to

01:11:34.420 like where it's gonna have

01:11:35.440 any positive progress like

01:11:36.860 that's where the

01:11:37.400 relationship I feel goes

01:11:38.400 downhill um I I feel like

01:11:40.940 um again if we're going

01:11:42.540 back to like the paternity 0.94

01:11:43.640 test thing it's not I don't

01:11:45.240 think it's that deep but I

01:11:47.780 there is some like sort of

01:11:49.400 like um bitter feeling but

01:11:51.900 that again could be

01:11:53.060 definitely worked out a lot

01:11:54.000 of things could definitely

01:11:54.640 be worked out if there's

01:11:55.440 communication but I know

01:11:56.680 not a lot of people here or

01:11:58.460 like a lot of people in

01:11:59.360 general um are like perfect

01:12:02.060 secured relationships um some

01:12:06.400 people deal with like anxiety

01:12:08.060 well they could be though

01:12:09.120 when you could I think you

01:12:10.160 could be in a perfectly secure

01:12:11.520 relationship and one person

01:12:13.460 still has a fear which is just

01:12:14.840 totally irrational for no good

01:12:16.160 reason and if you're with

01:12:17.080 that person for a very long

01:12:18.400 time you know how they are

01:12:19.700 and so and that's what I

01:12:21.260 mean it's like I don't think

01:12:22.520 that I don't think these

01:12:24.040 things are done from a

01:12:25.820 position of I don't trust

01:12:27.500 you right I don't think

01:12:28.820 these things are done from a

01:12:29.900 position of I dislike you or

01:12:31.520 I think that you're a lady 0.99

01:12:32.980 about town or a harlot of 0.80

01:12:34.680 the night I think that

01:12:35.840 they're done because

01:12:37.380 establishing paternity is

01:12:39.280 something that men wish 0.91

01:12:40.340 historically they've always

01:12:41.660 they I mean king kings would

01:12:43.320 have given kingdoms for this

01:12:44.600 technology to be able to

01:12:45.880 establish 100% who their

01:12:48.360 heirs were going to be they

01:12:49.580 would have given kingdoms for

01:12:50.640 it and now it's right there

01:12:52.060 at your fingertip for 1999 in

01:12:54.440 a Walmart and it's like give

01:12:56.500 the guy a peace of mind you

01:12:57.740 know they do it for you all

01:12:59.460 the time for every little

01:13:00.880 crazy thing that pops into a

01:13:02.640 woman's mind right whatever it 1.00

01:13:04.420 may be whatever rational fear

01:13:05.780 is oh I heard a noise go check

01:13:07.300 it out okay I'll go check it

01:13:09.340 even though he knows there's

01:13:10.180 nothing down there or oh you

01:13:12.520 know if the car's making a

01:13:13.600 noise no it's fine honey

01:13:14.820 there's nothing wrong with the

01:13:15.820 car no it's making a noise

01:13:17.240 okay it's fine don't worry

01:13:18.760 about it there's so many times

01:13:21.260 where men are kind of you know

01:13:25.520 operating off of taking care of

01:13:27.500 the fear of and irrational fears

01:13:30.320 of women and yet somehow they're 0.53

01:13:32.900 supposed to kind of women are 1.00

01:13:34.860 supposed to get a pass on when

01:13:36.040 it's their turn to kind of

01:13:37.200 operate the same way towards men

01:13:38.840 and I just I just I've always

01:13:40.140 thought that that was absurd

01:13:41.160 just you know my take on it

01:13:45.200 all right we have two new guests

01:13:51.780 who arrived we'll have them

01:13:52.920 introduce themselves please tell

01:13:54.200 us your name age occupation and

01:13:56.800 location starting with you go

01:13:58.000 ahead hi I'm Irene I'm 22 years

01:14:01.640 old I am currently working as a

01:14:06.680 tarot reader I graduated with a

01:14:10.300 psychology major recently and I'm

01:14:13.260 from Dallas Texas a tarot reader

01:14:16.640 okay all right what about you

01:14:18.940 hello my name is Katarina I am 22

01:14:22.700 years old as well it was just my

01:14:24.580 birthday this week and then I work

01:14:26.960 at a student financial center at San

01:14:28.920 Diego State University I am also

01:14:30.900 studying there majoring in marketing

01:14:32.940 and sales and minoring in social

01:14:34.260 psychology and I'm originally from

01:14:36.140 Europe I moved to California about

01:14:37.980 three years ago all right and so

01:14:42.120 current relationship status longest

01:14:44.920 relationship

01:14:45.780 single and longest relationship a year

01:14:53.220 and a half how long have you been

01:14:55.080 single like around seven months is that

01:15:01.060 the one the 1.5 year relationship who

01:15:05.640 broke up with who in your most recent

01:15:07.080 relationship my partner broke up with

01:15:10.700 me and then 1.5 year relationship who

01:15:12.980 broke up with who my partner okay and

01:15:16.760 then for you relationship status I'm

01:15:20.740 single as well my longest relationship

01:15:22.880 also year and a half I actually broke

01:15:25.240 up a couple of weeks ago really

01:15:26.860 recent three weeks like two weeks ago

01:15:31.840 okay who broke up with who I broke up

01:15:35.540 with him longest relationship who broke

01:15:37.360 up with who that is the longest one

01:15:39.280 that was the longest that was the most

01:15:41.200 recent one I see okay all right and I

01:15:46.640 have some other question here so you

01:15:48.520 now that's what I call okay that's what I

01:16:08.080 call a test you see the omission of even

01:16:12.940 a token apology so why were you guys

01:16:16.660 late we had a situation with a car so we

01:16:19.820 rented the car because she came to visit

01:16:21.640 me from Dallas and we rented it I

01:16:23.980 believe from Tuesday and I live in

01:16:26.820 downtown San Diego and I don't usually

01:16:28.560 have a car and the parking is an issue

01:16:31.520 for anyone who ever been to downtown San

01:16:33.300 Diego they know that and yeah there was

01:16:35.740 a problem with that and yeah we got a

01:16:39.220 ticket and we had to pick it up so

01:16:41.580 there was this whole issue happening the

01:16:46.740 car was rented on Tuesday yes Tuesday

01:16:50.340 night but today's you rented the car in

01:16:55.640 advance yeah well so we wanted to kind of

01:16:59.300 hang out before the podcast and she was

01:17:01.600 going to show me around because she

01:17:02.960 doesn't own a car and so we did rent it

01:17:06.680 for a few days in advance okay I suppose

01:17:14.400 that makes it a little more plausible it's

01:17:17.000 just typically when I'll just take your

01:17:20.840 word for it on that front the car was

01:17:23.020 towed

01:17:23.840 so we wanted to but so you were hold on

01:17:30.420 you rented the car on Tuesday so like

01:17:32.440 five days ago yeah did you park the car

01:17:36.160 last night in the same spot you've been

01:17:39.620 parking it in since Tuesday no it's

01:17:42.100 sitting it's it's street parking so it

01:17:44.360 changes every time we drive it it's

01:17:46.000 street parking in downtown San Diego so

01:17:48.040 we had to find a different parking spot

01:17:49.700 every time and the car was towed for so

01:17:53.720 we got a ticket because I guess you

01:17:56.000 can't have a car parked for more than

01:17:57.960 72 hours and which is incorrect by the

01:18:00.420 way we which yes we'll talk about that

01:18:02.840 later yeah so we for the past couple of

01:18:06.560 days we weren't using our car at all

01:18:08.800 because we were going out and we got

01:18:11.400 several tickets as well as the car towed

01:18:14.160 yeah because of that 72 hour limit

01:18:16.480 but why rent the car if you let it sit

01:18:22.860 there for we weren't planning on not

01:18:25.660 using the car it just happened to be that

01:18:27.460 way okay do you have proof of the the

01:18:32.760 tow we can bring it within the car with

01:18:35.760 us okay all right okay well there you have

01:18:43.680 it folks I'll just take your word for it

01:18:47.280 I guess I got my driver's license pretty

01:18:52.240 recently because when I moved from

01:18:54.080 Europe I didn't get it because they 1.00

01:18:55.380 don't really drive around there until

01:18:57.120 they're 18 so that might have been our

01:18:59.920 bad a little bit not the best Parker but

01:19:01.760 that's kind of the reason for that as

01:19:05.220 well yeah okay I'm gonna go back to the

01:19:08.020 pre-show notes so you said don't worry

01:19:11.520 neither are most American women don't 0.99

01:19:13.440 feel bad it's like it's not unique to

01:19:15.540 European women okay well I'm getting 1.00

01:19:19.480 better all right so you said your

01:19:25.680 friends and I have crazy stories was

01:19:27.780 there another crazy story you wish to 0.71

01:19:29.660 share do you have one mm-hmm a crazy

01:19:39.420 story mm-hmm not really I think I feel

01:19:44.440 like my experiences in dating are kind of I

01:19:47.800 guess common so it's not it's not great

01:19:52.180 dude it's not crazy as yours that's all I

01:19:54.800 want to say is not that crazy but I did

01:19:59.900 had a talking stage for like seven

01:20:02.420 months which is not good and I

01:20:05.000 definitely learned from that experience

01:20:06.300 that was beautiful that was okay all

01:20:11.400 right I'll get into the other notes then

01:20:14.100 so let's see we got Vianca Vianca you

01:20:20.800 said the time I was love-bombed by a

01:20:22.740 narcissist what's the story there oh yeah

01:20:27.240 so I met this guy online right and we we

01:20:37.520 we met up we had a date and whatnot and it

01:20:42.380 went good so we just every weekend he

01:20:48.220 would come over it was like a two-hour

01:20:50.360 drive so he would come over pick me up and

01:20:52.460 like we would go on dates I guess like

01:20:55.300 cute dates or whatnot and yeah I think I

01:21:02.800 was very delusional after the second date

01:21:05.140 and I started to get like really attached

01:21:11.060 by like what he would say and do and so

01:21:14.400 yeah just weeks kept passing by two months

01:21:19.860 and I started to notice like little things

01:21:25.280 that he would do but like I like I said I

01:21:28.120 was like just kind of love bomb and kind of

01:21:31.620 didn't say anything like little red flags

01:21:33.420 that he would do and so

01:21:36.400 it just stayed didn't end up good

01:21:43.580 oh my god that was the vaguest story ever

01:21:47.680 okay I will was he uh was he a diagnosed

01:21:52.120 narcissist or did you diagnose him as a

01:21:54.340 narcissist

01:21:54.680 I guess I did just because like I don't

01:22:00.720 know he would like he would um gaslight

01:22:07.660 you

01:22:07.940 no no no it's already difficult enough

01:22:11.420 getting an answer out of her just don't

01:22:13.240 interrupt let her answer please go ahead

01:22:16.160 yeah um so he would like do um

01:22:20.160 I'm sorry uh okay

01:22:24.640 um yeah so we're just looking for what

01:22:30.920 what is the narcissistic type of behavior

01:22:33.700 that you would see that led you to

01:22:35.180 diagnose him as a narcissist

01:22:36.340 like let's say I was going to the gym

01:22:39.440 and like he would like I would wear

01:22:41.340 something he'd be like oh like that's

01:22:42.760 you know it's like a crop top y'all

01:22:43.960 don't wear that

01:22:44.780 or um like saying like oh post this

01:22:50.380 or else like you don't love me you know

01:22:51.920 like type I don't know yeah he's he he

01:22:56.940 did like verbatim said that like like

01:22:59.180 oh like not love me but like like say

01:23:00.880 like oh like why aren't you like

01:23:02.180 posting this like you know like like I

01:23:04.620 took a picture this is I mean I'd have

01:23:07.160 Andrew I'll let you continue in just a

01:23:08.680 sec here but did everybody at the table

01:23:11.260 and did the chat notice what she just

01:23:12.820 posted so you said he said something

01:23:15.280 yes and then when I pressed you you

01:23:18.080 said he actually didn't say that wait

01:23:20.140 he said something completely different

01:23:21.980 wait you're I'm getting confused you

01:23:23.680 said if you don't post this you don't

01:23:26.100 love me like not love me but like like

01:23:28.020 oh like no affection towards me like

01:23:29.780 like you're not showing any affection

01:23:31.000 like you know in that way but there's a

01:23:32.340 big difference between at least I think

01:23:34.280 between a man saying if you don't do

01:23:37.320 this it's proof that you don't love me

01:23:39.660 and a man saying if you don't do this

01:23:42.160 this is perhaps an example of you not

01:23:44.580 caring I think that's a big difference

01:23:47.300 I probably need to be very precise in

01:23:49.700 our language here because I don't think

01:23:52.160 it's fair to to if you're explaining a

01:23:55.820 situation about how somebody has

01:23:57.600 allegedly wronged you to lie about what

01:24:00.940 they said but go on continue yeah

01:24:11.940 okay so Andrew was asking what he did

01:24:20.340 that was narcissistic

01:24:37.340 I'm sorry I I'm pretty bad at this

01:24:48.340 wait was that I think that's just

01:24:59.980 going to be I mean I don't know why

01:25:01.000 she I think that's a quit that's going 1.00

01:25:03.800 to be a quit I mean she went into the

01:25:05.080 bathroom but that's going to be a quit

01:25:06.500 so um

01:25:08.300 Andrew I know you have strong opinions on

01:25:14.360 the whole narcissism thing

01:25:15.640 yeah well peace out you too homie 0.98

01:25:20.700 it's just been something that I've

01:25:23.320 experienced um quite often that when a

01:25:26.640 woman calls a man a narcissist and I ask 0.99

01:25:28.820 if the man has actually been diagnosed

01:25:31.560 as a narcissist the answer universally is

01:25:34.860 no that they have not which means that

01:25:37.680 there's a lot of women who are either 1.00

01:25:39.880 dating the uh this the same like 12 guys

01:25:44.940 who are narcissists or whatever or uh they

01:25:48.080 really over diagnose how many men are

01:25:50.720 narcissists um and I'm I'm just I've never

01:25:54.320 been able to quite figure out why it is

01:25:56.560 that um that so many women in the first 1.00

01:25:58.660 place think that they could make such a

01:26:00.600 diagnosis to begin with

01:26:01.840 so yeah what what's going on what's going

01:26:06.900 on

01:26:07.900 huh what's going on

01:26:11.760 huh done done so oh okay all right that's

01:26:19.600 that's a okay all right that's fine uh

01:26:22.960 morgan welcome to the panel uh andrew

01:26:26.540 sorry sorry for the interruption we were

01:26:28.080 still figuring out the thing um yeah that

01:26:31.200 that a lot of women seem to diagnose 1.00

01:26:33.520 minute with narcissism even though they're

01:26:35.380 they have zero credentials to do so they

01:26:37.700 have absolutely no real ability to do so

01:26:40.420 they don't have the required uh training

01:26:42.900 to do so and yet they're very quick to do

01:26:45.440 that and it's very damaging to a person's

01:26:47.460 reputation to say that they're narcissistic

01:26:50.160 you're uh you're essentially hitting them

01:26:52.080 with an order which is on par with borderline

01:26:55.020 personality disorder and others like this

01:26:57.600 and I just wonder why women think it's um 1.00

01:27:00.420 like for instance I guess I should ask this

01:27:03.360 first but have it has anybody at the table

01:27:05.240 ever dated a narcissist

01:27:06.300 and now suddenly not right I think I have I

01:27:11.520 think I have you think you have I think I

01:27:14.220 have yeah but like you said like you can

01:27:15.440 never officially tell right and I mean I

01:27:18.780 think women do or people do over 1.00

01:27:21.420 diagnose but also narcissistic people kind

01:27:25.620 of never get really diagnosed because they

01:27:27.080 don't know that they are don't think that

01:27:29.040 they are and they would never go to therapy

01:27:30.680 to be diagnosed so I think those are two

01:27:33.240 kind of reasons but I don't yeah you're

01:27:34.780 right I think you can never be sure you know

01:27:38.380 possibly the big problem that I have

01:27:40.840 though is that many of the traits which

01:27:42.820 are considered narcissistic by women in

01:27:45.100 modernity are often conflated with things

01:27:47.800 which are just confidence assertiveness

01:27:50.580 not putting up with things that they don't

01:27:53.080 like or having standards that they want

01:27:54.920 adhered to those things are also desirable

01:27:58.300 traits and yet oftentimes even though those

01:28:01.840 are the traits which attract women to that

01:28:03.340 man in the first place later after the

01:28:05.900 relationship has been resolved they say

01:28:08.740 that oh I should have known those were

01:28:10.480 narcissistic traits which is that's that's

01:28:12.980 I guess the bizarre part to me it's like

01:28:15.740 the guy you said for instance Rachel you

01:28:18.280 said I dated a narcissist when you think

01:28:20.800 about those narcissistic traits that you now

01:28:23.000 look back on and say these were signs of

01:28:25.080 narcissism weren't those similar traits to

01:28:27.700 what attracted you to the guy in the first

01:28:29.200 place no because he it doesn't show at

01:28:33.760 first it just starts showing up kind of in

01:28:36.320 a sneaky way and then it's like there's

01:28:39.940 more and more gaslighting and there's more

01:28:41.840 and more like criticism and then it just

01:28:43.400 becomes more and more as you go along the

01:28:45.380 relationship and at some point you kind of

01:28:46.740 like you start doubting yourself so much

01:28:49.240 about kind of everything and you erase

01:28:51.240 yourself but at the beginning you don't it's

01:28:54.340 it's it that it doesn't show as confidence

01:28:57.700 or anything like that that's well what

01:29:00.520 does it show at the beginning it doesn't

01:29:03.100 show at all yeah but what did this what

01:29:05.260 what was this guy's narcissistic trait

01:29:07.120 just like constant criticism you feel like

01:29:09.720 you have to walk on eggshells like

01:29:11.320 everything you're going to do is going to

01:29:12.420 be wrong everything you're going to say is

01:29:13.580 going to be wrong he's going to kind of

01:29:14.660 freak out about every little thing that

01:29:15.960 you say those those don't those could

01:29:20.040 apply to a narcissist but they could also

01:29:21.720 well gaslighting controlling like he needs

01:29:24.020 to control the situation needs to be like

01:29:25.960 he wants and like let's say you there's a

01:29:29.280 double standard as well like he makes a

01:29:30.860 joke and if you make that joke then it

01:29:32.940 doesn't you know all of those things which

01:29:36.040 I agree probably aren't desirable

01:29:37.880 characteristics can still be held by

01:29:40.540 people who are not narcissists yeah I

01:29:42.360 agree I agree that's why I said you can

01:29:44.460 never really know well I think you can

01:29:48.020 know I think that you know by having a

01:29:50.160 diagnosis by medical professionals who

01:29:52.160 work with these people for many years

01:29:53.780 before they make such a diagnosis but

01:29:56.040 even then I guess maybe an olive branch

01:29:58.420 here maybe you can't ever know because

01:30:00.920 even diagnoses between psychological

01:30:03.480 professionals tend to differ when it

01:30:05.260 comes to individuals because of how

01:30:06.720 complex it is so one psychologist may

01:30:09.080 say yes that's a narcissist and another

01:30:11.400 one says no it's not a narcissist it's

01:30:13.320 because we're talking about human behavior

01:30:15.580 the scientific method often goes out the

01:30:17.500 window right yeah and narcissism apparently

01:30:20.500 is the hardest thing to diagnose and

01:30:22.340 narcissist people are very very smart and

01:30:24.860 very manipulative so apparently apparently 0.99

01:30:26.980 that's that's they can fuck up with the 0.97

01:30:29.980 actual psychologist or it's like I'm not

01:30:32.220 even sure it exists I'm not convinced that

01:30:35.000 the actual condition of narcissism exists

01:30:38.440 any more than psychopathy exists I mean

01:30:40.820 psychopathy is completely made up it's not in

01:30:43.620 any psychological handbooks not in any of

01:30:46.620 the DSM's it's just never we made it up

01:30:48.620 right we I mean we made the entire can

01:30:50.880 people call each other psychopaths all the

01:30:52.440 time it's not even a diagnosable condition

01:30:54.620 it's like we just made it up I guess it's

01:30:57.620 like how many of you didn't know that how

01:30:59.620 many of you didn't know that we made up

01:31:00.620 psychopathy we made up psychopath that's

01:31:02.620 totally made up diagnosis how many of you

01:31:05.620 knew that I didn't yeah it's totally it's

01:31:10.620 totally it's totally it's completely

01:31:13.620 fabricated and I mean it's it I think it's

01:31:15.620 fun to call people that right I guess oh 0.55

01:31:17.620 that guy's a real psycho but that's not 0.92

01:31:20.620 what they call they call it you know there 0.98

01:31:23.620 it's a personality disorder they they have

01:31:26.620 different names you might refer to that as

01:31:29.620 some form of psychopathy but but there's

01:31:31.620 no actual diagnosis for psychopathy so

01:31:36.620 so yeah it's it's hard for me to believe

01:31:39.620 some of these you know some of these kind

01:31:42.620 of widely used diagnoses like narcissism I'm

01:31:47.620 not even I'm not even sure if they really

01:31:49.620 exist wait so none of y'all have dated a

01:31:52.620 narcissist really none of you come on I

01:31:56.620 just said I think I did I think my dad is

01:31:59.620 one your dad's one I think so okay no

01:32:04.620 not narcissist yes that has narcissistic

01:32:08.620 tendencies yes okay but there's a

01:32:11.620 difference if you have tendencies or

01:32:12.620 you're like you guys said they're

01:32:13.620 actually diagnosed with it yeah yeah I

01:32:18.620 mean and that's the bothersome thing

01:32:20.620 right it's like narcissistic tendencies

01:32:23.620 means what so I do feel I mean I did

01:32:27.620 some research on narcissism there's two

01:32:29.620 types of narcissism there's covert and

01:32:31.620 overt no covert narcissism and there's

01:32:35.620 actually six different kinds but covert

01:32:38.620 narcissism is under the umbrella and it's

01:32:41.620 widely disputed by psychologists if covert

01:32:44.620 narcissism even exists or grandiose or

01:32:47.620 grandiose narcissism if that even exists

01:32:50.620 right so that would these are umbrella

01:32:53.620 terms but again it's very difficult to get

01:32:56.620 specificity when you start to dive into it

01:32:59.620 you start to find out well it's a lot more

01:33:02.620 vague than you think I think it's important

01:33:05.620 to do research on these I guess diagnoses and

01:33:09.620 before you choose to self diagnose or diagnose

01:33:13.620 someone else was without a medical

01:33:15.620 professional but it can help you be aware of

01:33:20.620 what's going on with that person and why

01:33:22.620 they're they have these tendencies like for

01:33:25.620 example like I I feel that narcissists lack

01:33:29.620 empathy so it's the difference between the

01:33:31.620 overt and covert that I was mentioning is

01:33:33.620 overt is the grandiose narcissism it's very

01:33:36.620 outward projection whereas covert is it's

01:33:40.620 harder to really spot because they're not

01:33:43.620 they're not as they don't really need the praise

01:33:46.620 from society it's more I guess sneaky is just

01:33:51.620 like an easier way to put it and I do feel that

01:33:55.620 overt narcissism is like the embodying of

01:33:58.620 grandiose behaviors and thinking that they

01:34:01.620 are better than others because they have that

01:34:04.620 lack of empathy but they also can be very

01:34:06.620 charming because they put on some sort of facade

01:34:10.620 yeah let me let me try to give you like a maybe

01:34:14.620 a different take here well I was in a shop

01:34:19.620 one time and I was I was welding something up

01:34:22.620 and I looked up and a guy had put a drill

01:34:25.620 bit through his hand and he was screaming and

01:34:28.620 it was bleeding everywhere and all of us stop

01:34:30.620 what we were doing and started laughing of

01:34:32.620 course we went over and we were helping him

01:34:34.620 while he was screaming but we were laughing

01:34:36.620 hysterically while while this was happening

01:34:40.620 does that show a distinct lack of empathy

01:34:43.620 right I think it does but I think that

01:34:45.620 masculine when you're talking about

01:34:47.620 masculinity you're talking about how men

01:34:49.620 behave we're not supposed to be overly

01:34:52.620 empathetic we're not supposed to be that

01:34:54.620 way that's not what we're designed to do 1.00

01:34:56.620 we're literally designed to go out and kill

01:34:59.620 large animals right and feel nothing we're

01:35:02.620 not supposed to care about fluffy we're

01:35:04.620 we're not supposed to care how fluffy

01:35:06.620 looks we're supposed to care how fluffy

01:35:07.620 tastes and so what happens I think is

01:35:10.620 this kind of great conflation where

01:35:12.620 because women are very empathetic to each 1.00

01:35:14.620 other they think that men in turn are

01:35:17.620 also supposed to be very empathetic men

01:35:19.620 are not empathetic we're not impasse

01:35:21.620 we're not supposed to be impasse that

01:35:23.620 would be very bad if we were empathetic

01:35:25.620 in fact that would be the opposite of

01:35:26.620 good we wouldn't have been able to hunt

01:35:28.620 very well for instance right I don't

01:35:31.620 believe that narcissism is directly

01:35:33.620 associated with gender or masculinity or

01:35:35.620 femininity um true I don't think that

01:35:40.620 laughing at the matter at hand is it's

01:35:43.620 like the direct example of a lack of

01:35:45.620 empathy as what I was relating to with

01:35:48.620 narcissism it's almost it's it feels

01:35:51.620 very fake when they do the display of

01:35:53.620 empathy because they have that lack of

01:35:55.620 depth when it does come to their empathy

01:35:57.620 and yeah but I mean many men have trouble

01:36:01.620 conveying for instance and women too

01:36:04.620 right so this argument would be used

01:36:06.620 right back against you many people just

01:36:08.620 have trouble conveying empathy it

01:36:10.620 doesn't even mean that they're not

01:36:11.620 empathetic they just have trouble with

01:36:13.620 it or they or they're not particularly

01:36:15.620 wired to be empathetic men especially

01:36:17.620 are not wired to be empathetic we're

01:36:19.620 not supposed to be empathetic we're

01:36:21.620 supposed to have barriers and guards

01:36:22.620 from empathy for a reason men who were

01:36:26.620 designed from the biological perspective

01:36:29.620 to protect the tribe they're going to 0.77

01:36:31.620 have to kill other men right that's 1.00

01:36:33.620 what they're wired to do to kill other 0.99

01:36:35.620 men if they're wired to do that how

01:36:37.620 much empathy should they be bogged down

01:36:39.620 with probably not much right probably

01:36:43.620 not much there's a difference between

01:36:48.620 outwardly showing that you lack empathy

01:36:52.620 and kind of embracing that quality

01:36:53.620 about yourself versus lacking that

01:36:56.620 empathy and making it as if that you

01:37:00.620 have this empathy and that's why I said

01:37:01.620 that narcissists tend to be more

01:37:03.620 charming people because they fake that

01:37:05.620 kind of empathy yeah but think about

01:37:07.620 what you're saying imagine that you're

01:37:09.620 in school you're a young man right and

01:37:12.620 schools are mostly overwhelmingly run

01:37:14.620 by women and most of the policies are 0.95

01:37:16.620 implemented by women that's 10 you tend 0.99

01:37:19.620 to see young women do really well in

01:37:21.620 school young men not do well in school

01:37:23.620 men are penalized for things which which

01:37:26.620 we consider to be just fine for

01:37:28.620 instance if a man gets up in the middle

01:37:30.620 of class and drags another guy outside

01:37:32.620 beats him up we don't really care about

01:37:35.620 that we don't consider that to be a big

01:37:36.620 deal and we never did even in the

01:37:39.620 United States the idea of like you

01:37:42.620 punch somebody in school and you went

01:37:43.620 to jail or you got suspended or expelled

01:37:46.620 that that's a new thing right that's a

01:37:48.620 new thing so when you're talking about

01:37:50.620 like rough and tumble play things like

01:37:52.620 this imagine being in an environment

01:37:54.620 where you're told that you need to be

01:37:56.620 empathetic all the time you're

01:37:57.620 following a different set of rules 0.99

01:37:58.620 which are designed not for your sex

01:38:00.620 or how you're designed it would be

01:38:03.620 very easy for you to fall into the

01:38:05.620 pattern of faking things like empathy

01:38:08.620 in order to keep the people around you

01:38:10.620 happy even though there's absolutely

01:38:12.620 nothing wrong with you having far less

01:38:14.620 of it or not expressing it does that

01:38:18.620 make sense yeah like when you were in

01:38:21.620 school when you're you guys aren't that

01:38:23.620 removed from high school who was more

01:38:25.620 likely to get into fistfights the boys

01:38:27.620 or the girls the boys right and how

01:38:33.620 often were they able to become friends

01:38:35.620 hey we got it after they after they got

01:38:37.620 in the fistfight how often were they

01:38:38.620 able to become friends afterwards guys

01:38:42.620 do make us make out like easier make

01:38:45.620 up easier that is usually when girls 1.00

01:38:48.620 are offended by each other there's

01:38:49.620 usually like a lot of toxic emotional

01:38:52.620 behavior thereafter so I do agree with

01:38:54.620 that yeah so what happens is is that men 0.99

01:38:57.620 kick the shit out of each other all the 0.99

01:38:58.620 time and we just don't see a big deal 0.99

01:39:00.620 with it and we're not very empathetic

01:39:02.620 about it and we usually laugh hysterically

01:39:04.620 at the guy who's on the ground and then 0.99

01:39:05.620 pick his ass up and brush him off like 1.00

01:39:07.620 that's how we do things women they don't 1.00

01:39:10.620 do things that way they're looking for

01:39:11.620 empathy things like this but I don't I

01:39:15.620 don't really see why men need to 1.00

01:39:16.620 necessarily live in a woman's world 1.00

01:39:18.620 where we have to kind of pretend that

01:39:20.620 empathy is this kind of primary edict

01:39:22.620 because for us it's just really not

01:39:25.620 wait Andrews originally do you think

01:39:30.620 that women are more empathetic than men 0.98

01:39:33.620 well I think that they display empathy

01:39:38.620 much more than men I think that the way

01:39:40.620 that this is expressed is far different

01:39:42.620 right I think that men can suppress 1.00

01:39:45.620 their emotions far better than women 1.00

01:39:47.620 can and and they're very good at doing

01:39:50.620 it and they have the chemicals in their

01:39:52.620 body that make them good at doing it and

01:39:54.620 and and women oftentimes even if their 1.00

01:39:58.620 chemical makeup is perfect for controlling

01:39:59.620 emotions one time a month even the

01:40:03.620 chemical differential will kind of kick

01:40:05.620 in and you can see all sorts of

01:40:07.620 hysterical behaviors this type of thing

01:40:09.620 just based on that alone so yeah I do

01:40:13.620 think that men are empathetic but I think

01:40:15.620 that they display it far differently and

01:40:17.620 what I would consider empathy and what a

01:40:19.620 woman would consider empathy are two very 0.99

01:40:21.620 different things well excluding the

01:40:24.620 outward displays of empathy assuming

01:40:26.620 there is no there is no display of

01:40:29.620 empathy either from a man or woman do you

01:40:34.620 think women have a greater capacity to 1.00

01:40:37.620 no I think that it's just not countered

01:40:40.620 it's not countered so I would say that

01:40:42.620 the the the amount of empathy from any

01:40:44.620 normal man or normal woman would be the 0.99

01:40:47.620 same but I would say that the counter

01:40:49.620 that men have when they're applying 0.99

01:40:51.620 things to a different chemicals in their

01:40:53.620 body to it and then stoicism and

01:40:56.620 perhaps reason things like this which

01:40:58.620 they're rewarded for in society and

01:41:00.620 always have been they apply those

01:41:02.620 traits to empathy and I don't think

01:41:05.620 that those types of barriers exist that

01:41:07.620 way for women and instead different 1.00

01:41:09.620 types of barriers for different emotions

01:41:11.620 exist for them so I don't I'm not

01:41:14.620 saying that men and women aren't just

01:41:16.620 as empathetic I'm saying that you're

01:41:19.620 going to think of it like a barrier

01:41:21.620 that you have to walk through one

01:41:22.620 barrier than the next barrier than the

01:41:23.620 next barrier if all a person was ever

01:41:26.620 was empathetic that would be terrible

01:41:28.620 right and so these kind of displays are

01:41:32.620 differentiated by what it is that men

01:41:35.620 value versus women and I think that we

01:41:36.620 value reason and we we are rewarded for

01:41:39.620 reason and we're rewarded for keeping

01:41:41.620 emotions on you know under control and

01:41:43.620 women not so much they don't really see

01:41:45.620 rewards that same way and so I think

01:41:48.620 that there's kind of counters in how

01:41:50.620 empathy is displayed.

01:41:52.620 But don't you think there should be a

01:41:53.620 healthy balance between logic and

01:41:55.620 empathy and emotional reasoning and

01:41:58.620 logical reasoning?

01:41:59.620 What if it's logical for me not to be

01:42:00.620 empathetic which one should win?

01:42:02.620 I mean as someone I am I am not 0.93

01:42:06.620 Yeah but hang on let me ask you the

01:42:08.620 question again.

01:42:09.620 What if it's the most logical thing I

01:42:11.620 can do in a situation is not be

01:42:13.620 empathetic?

01:42:14.620 Then I think.

01:42:15.620 But if I were but if I were empathetic

01:42:16.620 it would make the person feel better.

01:42:18.620 Which thing should I do?

01:42:19.620 I think from my personal perspective

01:42:21.620 logical thing is always better but I

01:42:23.620 know that some people value emotions

01:42:26.620 more but.

01:42:27.620 Yeah I know what you just did was you

01:42:29.620 just gave me a value judgment and your

01:42:31.620 value judgment is we should value logic

01:42:33.620 over empathy.

01:42:35.620 So if that is the case if a man does 0.78

01:42:37.620 exactly that I don't see why he'd be

01:42:39.620 punished for it or how that would be a

01:42:41.620 bad balance because we're valuing that

01:42:44.620 now higher than empathy right?

01:42:46.620 Yes but I feel like the men that you're

01:42:47.620 mentioning a lot of the times are the

01:42:49.620 men who doesn't have any empathy or

01:42:51.620 lack complete like any emotional capacity

01:42:54.620 to understand.

01:42:55.620 Those men people lack completely lack

01:42:59.620 those traits are extraordinarily rare.

01:43:02.620 I mean extraordinarily rare.

01:43:04.620 Yes I'm sure that we've all encountered

01:43:06.620 them.

01:43:07.620 I think most of us who have encountered

01:43:08.620 them probably didn't even know that we

01:43:11.620 encountered them but they're very rare

01:43:13.620 and I think that the reason so many

01:43:15.620 people misdiagnose this who aren't even

01:43:17.620 in the field of psychology is because

01:43:19.620 they see things as being a lack of

01:43:22.620 empathy or see things as being a lack of

01:43:25.620 emotion because they would behave

01:43:27.620 differently or they're used to behave

01:43:28.620 people behaving differently.

01:43:30.620 But that doesn't mean that the person

01:43:32.620 actually lacks empathy right?

01:43:34.620 No of course not.

01:43:35.620 I just think that both genders or 0.97

01:43:38.620 people because it doesn't always apply

01:43:40.620 to gender.

01:43:41.620 I'm more of a logical person whereas my

01:43:42.620 friend sometimes is more empathetic.

01:43:44.620 I think we both need to work on each

01:43:47.620 other and learn from each other how to

01:43:49.620 improve both sides.

01:43:50.620 That's all I'm saying.

01:43:51.620 Yeah but I'm going to kind of reject the

01:43:52.620 balance thing right?

01:43:53.620 I don't think that you need to be

01:43:54.620 balanced.

01:43:55.620 I think that there's kind of a

01:43:56.620 hierarchical order of how things should

01:43:59.620 be done and do I think that you should

01:44:01.620 defer to kind of leap reason and logic

01:44:03.620 before emotion?

01:44:04.620 I do.

01:44:05.620 And I don't think that that needs to be

01:44:07.620 balanced.

01:44:08.620 Why does that need to be balanced

01:44:09.620 exactly? 0.98

01:44:10.620 That to me seems foolish.

01:44:13.620 That doesn't mean like it has to be 50-50% 0.96

01:44:15.620 balanced.

01:44:16.620 That just means try to understand the

01:44:17.620 other person too.

01:44:18.620 Yeah but that's logical right?

01:44:21.620 You're literally asking for logic here.

01:44:24.620 If you say, try to understand the other

01:44:26.620 person's perspective, I mean that's

01:44:29.620 exactly what we're doing the second we're

01:44:31.620 arguing or the second we're crafting

01:44:33.620 arguments or the second we're doing

01:44:35.620 any of that, we're literally trying to

01:44:37.620 understand the other person's perspective.

01:44:39.620 the entire course of discourse is to do

01:44:41.620 this, right?

01:44:50.620 Oh, sorry.

01:44:51.620 Yeah, I mean I do see what you mean.

01:44:54.620 And like I said, I'm someone who values logic

01:44:56.620 more.

01:44:57.620 However, if you're trying to be logical about

01:45:00.620 a situation, sometimes you're becoming too

01:45:02.620 robotic.

01:45:03.620 And I think it's healthy to include emotions

01:45:05.620 in whatever decision you make.

01:45:06.620 Well, who gets to determine these standards?

01:45:08.620 Like, who gets to just determine the

01:45:10.620 standard of what's too robotic and what's

01:45:13.620 empathetic enough other than how I feel?

01:45:16.620 So, I mean, again, you just, it's always

01:45:18.620 just a deference to, but I feel this way.

01:45:20.620 And it's like, well, if the other person

01:45:22.620 doesn't feel that way and they're not doing

01:45:24.620 anything wrong exactly, then we're just

01:45:25.620 really kind of putting it down to preferences,

01:45:26.620 right?

01:45:27.620 Correct, yeah.

01:45:28.620 It varies from a person to person, but I do

01:45:29.620 think that there's some people from both

01:45:30.620 sides who are too close minded to see the

01:45:33.620 other way.

01:45:34.620 That's all I'm saying.

01:45:36.620 Yeah, but I think close mindedness is good, too.

01:45:38.620 Like, for instance, I would be very close

01:45:40.620 minded to an open relationship, right?

01:45:41.620 I would be very close minded to, I mean, just

01:45:45.620 any number of different things, I would be

01:45:46.620 extremely close minded to, and I don't really

01:45:47.620 see a problem with that, right?

01:45:48.620 I would be very close minded to, I mean, just

01:45:51.620 any number of different things I would be

01:45:53.620 extremely close minded to.

01:45:54.620 And I don't really see a problem with that,

01:45:56.620 see a problem with that either i mean i don't see why that's problematic i mean there are specific

01:46:02.620 things that we're all close-minded about but yeah sure but what i mean being being open-minded about

01:46:08.560 that okay this person functions differently this person thinks with their emotions first and then

01:46:13.600 thinks through the actions whereas like me for example yeah i think yeah sure but but here's

01:46:18.580 the difference right here's the difference you and i value that differently and and that's where

01:46:23.860 this kind of empathy thing comes up right is because i don't value everybody else's decisions 0.91

01:46:29.000 equally i think a lot of people make stupid decisions that i don't value i think that they 0.94

01:46:34.120 have bullshit lifestyles that i don't value and so i just say okay this is valueless to me i don't care 0.98

01:46:40.600 about i don't even want to understand it right it's completely valueless and i don't see a problem with 0.95

01:46:45.840 that you see what i'm saying yeah no 100 i mean that's why you wouldn't work with every single

01:46:51.000 person whether that would be as a friend or a relationship it all varies from a person to

01:46:54.960 person and definitely i mean i'm sure we all have opinions about oh yeah this person is doing

01:47:01.220 something weird and i don't want to interact with that but i'm saying if you're already if we're

01:47:05.680 talking about relationships and you're already pursuing this person and if you guys are already

01:47:09.280 close you should make uh you should make like amends to try to work on each other together and

01:47:14.980 understand each other better because i think the healthy relationship it's always should be a balance of

01:47:18.860 emotions and logic yeah i mean maybe but then the thing is is i think that all relationships are

01:47:26.600 going to have dominance involved one person's always going to be dominant over the other person

01:47:30.860 no matter what type of relationship you ever engage in i think any two consciousnesses which come

01:47:35.920 together one is going to dominate the other one no matter what right and so the thing is is like

01:47:41.380 when you say to find this balance right i say that you should find the deference who's going to be

01:47:47.460 deferred to and who's not going to be deferred to when it comes to the larger decisions and that's

01:47:51.840 where the christian ethic comes in of submission from my worldview so i if there's dominance in a

01:47:58.340 connection there must be the opposing quality or energy which is giving that balance in this kind of why

01:48:04.520 must there sorry why must there in order for someone to be more dominant in a connection there must be

01:48:12.320 someone more submissive what's there what must there yeah i don't well i don't understand the the premise

01:48:23.360 here so in order for someone to be more dominant one person has to be more submissive is that what

01:48:28.280 you're saying yes okay gotcha all right go ahead so this kind of reminds me of the golden main this is a

01:48:36.140 philosophical i can't never pronounce that maybe by aristotle but it's all about there can never be

01:48:42.800 too much excess or deficiency so i do believe everything must be balanced in order to work and

01:48:48.560 in this case if we're talking about emotion and logic in order to be an impartial person you do have

01:48:54.680 to understand all sides and not just through logic but with your emotions as well in order to get to a

01:48:59.380 sound decision um well yeah maybe but i still don't really understand what where you're going with

01:49:07.680 it like even if i were to assume that you needed to have emotions and logic i think i would agree with

01:49:11.940 that but i'm not i'm not really sure what the uh what the point here is when we're talking about

01:49:16.740 uh two consciousnesses which would always one would always need to defer to the other like it's

01:49:21.200 that's always going to be the case right

01:49:22.740 it's just i i think that

01:49:31.420 well i'm just i'm just trying to figure out the position that's all i'm not beating you up i just

01:49:40.280 want to figure out the position like what what is it you're actually trying to say here

01:49:43.820 well just because you did mention that you don't find it important to have balance i was just providing

01:49:51.060 an example of why i do believe balance is important in all areas of your life well balance to me would

01:49:57.960 assume like i was trying to balance this pin that it was equal on all sides or otherwise it would fall

01:50:04.640 over but as was just demonstrated by the gal next to you and i'm sorry i didn't catch your name

01:50:10.140 because you came in a little late um but she said well when we're talking about balance what if you had

01:50:15.860 the pin still balanced but it was like this right what if it was over on its side like this it's still

01:50:20.420 balanced right it's just all moving one direction but when you say balance i'm not sure that i'm

01:50:25.980 looking for equality or equality between logic and emotion i we just want balance here right that's

01:50:33.160 what you're saying yes nope yeah so i mean if that's the case then i wouldn't disagree with that

01:50:39.840 i'm just saying that i think that the deference to logic is and reason is usually going to be

01:50:45.040 superior than the deference to emotion

01:50:46.780 and that men are generally speaking more reasonable and more logical and so generally

01:50:56.260 speaking i think that women should probably defer to men that's that's based my basic syllogism

01:51:01.960 i'd say to each their own on that stance um yeah that's all i'm gonna say what does that mean though

01:51:10.000 each their own to each their own if you do feel that way then in your own stance and in your own way

01:51:17.440 of logically thinking then so be it if you're gonna if we're gonna talk about this in the sense of like

01:51:23.660 relationships and stuff like that um someone who probably feels the same way as you is going to

01:51:29.200 compliment to you compliment that in that way will create that ultimate balance in in your way

01:51:34.820 right well i mean there are people that want to be furries and they will find someone who wants to

01:51:44.160 do that with them but do you object to his i think andrew's getting to kind of at least to some degree

01:51:49.940 this concept of women being submissive to men do you object to this in a relationship dynamic

01:51:56.840 context um i would say like it definitely is a trope that is quite common what do you mean a

01:52:06.880 trope like it's a relationship type that men are more dominant than women it's very common i understand

01:52:13.000 that but there's also like uh relationship relationship types that i feel like the woman wears the pants 1.00

01:52:19.420 does this make sense there are some um stay-at-home dads for instance um and the mom would be the

01:52:26.040 provider well we can go ahead and grant that there's all kinds of relationship dynamics there's are there

01:52:32.060 are women who are more dominant there are women who want to date soy boys and peg them um i'm not really

01:52:37.800 interested in that though what i am interested in is kind of more uh painting with a bit more of a broad

01:52:44.680 brush and seeing what works best generally speaking when it comes to relationships what do men generally

01:52:51.960 want what do women generally want because we can make all these carve outs about well i have a friend

01:52:58.420 who knows a brother who knows a guy and she pegs him okay cool um but i think what andrew's talking about

01:53:07.060 is he's taking a position he's not just saying well whatever floats your boat he's saying i think

01:53:14.060 andrew you can correct me the best relationships they work out best if the woman is submissive to the 0.99

01:53:21.940 man is that correct andrew that is correct yes yeah i'm saying that that it would be generally what an

01:53:28.380 what i would consider to be optimal i think that the deference to the man is generally going to make

01:53:34.340 most relationships more optimal yes i mean i agree kind of my yeah sorry go ahead sorry um i agree that

01:53:43.540 it's generally true but like she mentioned there still are exceptions like i would consider myself

01:53:48.100 like i want to be a provider for example stop the cap you want to be a provider i do yeah for a man

01:53:55.560 yes who should um can you provide for dinner for the whatever podcast tonight oh that would be a good

01:54:02.100 way to make up for the tardiness yeah then you can be a provider i mean i want to be provider for my

01:54:08.340 guy oh okay well no well so brian i guess you have to be a provider for all the women tonight

01:54:14.180 yeah we are going to do a pizza intermission but um so you want to be a provider for your guy so like

01:54:21.280 you'll pay on the first date yeah or we can split it but i am i am in college right now so of course

01:54:27.020 i'm still working myself up but i'm saying in the future i want to be a lawyer and you know i want to

01:54:31.340 make a career for myself i don't ever see myself as being like a stay-at-home mom or like a housewife

01:54:36.400 and there's nothing wrong with whoever wants to do that but that's why i'm saying it varies from

01:54:40.280 person to person and so you want uh so in every instance when you've been on a date with a guy

01:54:47.760 perhaps for dinner or some activity you always off because men will have a tendency to go ahead and

01:54:56.800 just pay the whole thing you'll make the offer and insist on going half um i'll make an offer yes

01:55:03.600 i'm not going to insist if they really want to do that i mean like i said it's if they want to do

01:55:10.060 that gesture why would i reject it but i would be willing to do that gesture as well how many first

01:55:14.020 dates have you been on for like i don't know maybe like actual dates um first dates maybe seven eight i

01:55:22.760 don't know did you pay the whole bill on any of them yeah in two of those two of them and then the rest

01:55:29.060 were split that was like i don't i don't know the exact number but i think like majority was split

01:55:34.900 okay

01:55:37.160 all right well you want to be a provider do you want to be a provider um

01:55:44.040 i think um i tend to be someone who pursues the guy oh yeah but i understand that some men really do

01:55:55.200 love the chase and want to have that sort of provider um mindset and so to go back on like

01:56:03.940 andrew's stance if a man being dominant is like the most optimal uh relationship and a woman being a

01:56:11.400 little bit of being submissive i'd say in some ways yes um women like they know deep down that they 1.00

01:56:20.560 could provide they could do all sorts of things they're like a triple decker um give men a chance 0.89

01:56:26.780 you know for them to like open the door for you or pay the bill let them do what makes them feel good

01:56:34.940 wait you said you chase men or what did you say exactly i don't want to pursue yes i do chase you're

01:56:39.740 the pursuer yes i'm the one that usually either initiates but there are have there were men in the

01:56:45.120 past that have um you initiate have initiated uh okay was receptive what about um can you how does

01:56:54.780 that look um let me see here okay so and i definitely i definitely learned from like my past relationships

01:57:02.240 where i'm like okay um maybe this is not the way to go right um man shows interest me thriving in that

01:57:13.080 sort of attention um is trying to pretty much commit or see and feel out how the relationship is going

01:57:21.120 to go if you open all of your gates you know open all of being super open letting the pretty much

01:57:28.060 being the provider um giving the guy everything that he wants um i feel like slowly over time he's

01:57:35.300 going to question like okay what can i even do for you like wait hold on so you said

01:57:41.700 i asked you how you chase and the first words out of your mouth were the guy shows it takes initiative

01:57:49.040 yeah for i would say like for some of the situations i've had but um the one time that i actually did

01:57:55.740 pursue or the several the one time you pursued a couple times a couple times i pursued i was like

01:58:00.840 okay um like i obviously show interest and um it'll take a couple of times for like the guy to like

01:58:09.000 uh pick it up because some men are oblivious um hold on i need details here so you say yes

01:58:16.400 you you show interest but the men are oblivious they're not picking it up um so what are these

01:58:22.880 signs that you're giving i'm obviously chatting them up i'm asking like what are you doing like after

01:58:28.100 this i'm just like obviously like staring at them smiling um just being actively engaged

01:58:34.140 uh making like side flirting comments here and there uh with my ex from like high school like

01:58:42.600 i did chat him up and i was like you know what if i really want to then i could get it so

01:58:50.020 uh we just started talking and i even knew like um that he had feelings so i took the initiative to

01:58:57.860 like ask him out or um like pretty much make it official so that was that was my sense of pursuit

01:59:05.500 wait that was the one time you pursued that was like with my committed and then i tried to like

01:59:11.400 um for this for with this one guy um but he was oblivious to it but then i realized i was like

01:59:17.380 i don't know maybe maybe not not this guy so i stopped pursuing

01:59:23.760 i'm just a bit confused because you say you chase but then i mean maybe these guys are just totally

01:59:35.100 clueless you say you're making multiple moves and they're not getting a hint but it's like

01:59:41.220 i don't know it's like you look at a guy and is that you pursuing him no obviously like you

01:59:49.380 like you want to like get to know the person so you're going to be like talking to them constantly

01:59:53.700 um and trying to get their attention from time to time um so yeah how many first dates would you

02:00:03.440 say you've been on first dates let me see

02:00:06.240 say like seven seven okay and then um in all seven of these cases did you make first contact with the

02:00:19.400 guy um i would say at least like two to three two three of them i have some of the guys are not

02:00:29.740 some of the guys are not as confrontational um to like make the move and so i would make the move

02:00:35.900 and i would pursue it but only for two or three of the guys you made the first step of initiative

02:00:43.520 that's when they become like the committed relationships that i've had in the past

02:00:48.280 except for that one dude that was like okay i'm not feeling it wait so a minority you said you like

02:00:54.100 to chase but a minority of the men you've been on dates with you okay um so you approach them how

02:01:00.200 are you meeting them in person so um the three was in high school so two of them were in high school

02:01:09.040 i would just see them in class every day just like it's next to them chat it up you know um that's

02:01:15.680 how i would pretty much like get a feel and decide whether i want to like you know be with that person

02:01:23.800 have you ever approached a guy a guy yeah like like a situation you've never you they're not in your

02:01:32.140 social uh circle they don't go to school with you or maybe they go to school with you but you don't

02:01:36.780 have a class with him or whatever you saw him in school thought he was good looking did you ever

02:01:40.480 walk up to him and introduce yourself i did yeah but this was like i never met him but like beforehand

02:01:52.540 it was just like during like a college um involvement fair thought the guy was kind of cute

02:01:59.640 um and i wanted him to join my club so we me and my friend like we went up to him but i was like

02:02:06.740 yeah like what's her name and then we just chatted up but like it was very brief because he was busy

02:02:11.560 of all of the seven first dates that you went on how often did you ask for the phone number

02:02:20.540 or the contact info oh that's a good question none of them um no i i would say

02:02:29.400 let me see let me think because it's been a long time like i'm not gonna learn like know this on the

02:02:35.080 top of my head you know it's been a long time since what like asking for numbers for a guy

02:02:42.180 usually because like for me um and i think like this is how i would approach like friendships too

02:02:50.680 is like i don't i don't think about like wanting to like um be with a guy right away you know if he's

02:02:57.860 cute he's cute but i usually want to be friends first with the person and if anything like ever

02:03:04.420 sparks then like of course i would take things a little bit further but here's the thing

02:03:09.780 sorry about that

02:03:13.620 oh i don't know what happened about that okay um okay and then phone number wise um i would say like

02:03:21.820 couple of times uh i can't really give you like a definitive number um just because it's been a

02:03:27.120 while so it's like a passive thing that i don't like actively remember like okay um did you ask

02:03:33.500 did you plan and set up the first dates

02:03:35.700 these can be yes or no answers by the way just letting you know i would say i'm like yeah there

02:03:42.880 were times where i would have to initiate like hey like let's go on a date or something no no no

02:03:46.700 first date first not a guy you've been dating for three months you yeah first date first date yes

02:03:55.260 you planned the first date yes did you pay for the first date in any instance no it was split split okay

02:04:05.900 um you ever go for the first kiss yes

02:04:10.700 okay all right um just girls will say they like to chase but then you question them a little bit

02:04:20.280 and they'll say well i looked at a guy once and i winked at or like i winked at him did you go up to him

02:04:26.880 no it's like okay bro you don't chase um but okay all right um let's see here hey we're gonna go to

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02:05:19.440 destroyer stifler's gone today ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten you can't

02:05:24.920 pick seven starting with you go ahead my looks or everyone you're you're yeah you're just your own

02:05:33.420 looks can you scoot into the table a little bit um i would so not seven probably eight

02:05:41.260 okay yeah i would say eight

02:05:43.580 eight probably like a 6.5

02:05:48.540 eight eight eight six and a half

02:05:53.820 um six okay i give myself a five andrew

02:06:01.020 i'm a 10 for sure all right wait why are you laughing you don't think that that's an objective

02:06:10.240 assessment you don't think i'm a 10 that hurts my feelings no you're a 10 you're a 10

02:06:16.900 because they said i'm a 10 i mean you're laughing like it's not true you're laughing like i'm some 0.99

02:06:24.400 kind of old man who just said some crazy shit 0.98

02:06:26.560 hmm uh follow-up question on this do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years 0.99

02:06:34.240 time better looking in 10 years time i would say yes okay so you're 20 now so better looking at 30

02:06:42.080 uh 20 years time better looking at 40

02:06:44.720 yes better looking in 30 years time at 50 yes

02:06:52.000 uh 40 years time at 60 yes well here let's keep the camera on her please 0.98

02:06:57.920 um 50 years time better looking at 70 yes

02:07:04.080 does it just keep going until you die yes you're just you're literally the hottest

02:07:19.360 the day before you die is what you're saying yes okay all right um

02:07:25.920 okay do you take any forms of psychotic medication anti-psychotic medication by chance

02:07:38.080 me yeah no nothing nothing for depression i don't take any of that no okay when you know 30 40 50 60 70

02:07:49.600 when is when's the peak my peak when's the peak gonna be

02:07:57.200 i feel like there is no peak i feel like it just keeps on getting better

02:08:01.840 interesting before i get into that i'll have everybody else on the panel answer this question

02:08:07.600 you're 39 will you be better looking in 10 years time no no okay and then you're 39 were you better

02:08:14.720 looking 10 years ago at 29 yeah better looking 20 years ago at 19 well

02:08:25.120 i'm not sure to be honest um

02:08:31.600 i mean yes probably from like the yeah from the outside uh attraction yes

02:08:36.320 can we close the door please um okay what about morgan 10 years yeah after that no okay what about

02:08:46.640 you 10 years yeah okay so you're 22 so uh better looking at 32 uh 20 years time better looking at 42

02:08:56.960 i'd say so yeah okay and then better looking at 52 30 years time mm-hmm okay let's go to 40 years better

02:09:07.120 looking at 62 i'd say i'd be okay yeah let me just repeat the question in case there's any confusion

02:09:17.600 the question is not will you still be attractive the question is will you be more attractive

02:09:24.320 in 10 years time or 20 30 40 years time so you just to be clear

02:09:31.360 a 62 year old version of you would out compete yourself for men

02:09:39.120 yeah depends on the situation but i think no then in that case like

02:09:43.040 i wouldn't be i wouldn't be more attractive i mean the way i'm kind of seeing things is like

02:09:50.080 i see how my parents are and they're they're pretty they look pretty good for their age

02:09:56.080 um sure yeah you can still be good looking when you're older

02:10:00.240 and so that's why i'm a 10 let me ask you this if we put you how's your mom she's 60 we put you and 0.92

02:10:11.040 your mom in a room with a hundred single men no let's just do a thousand single men between the 1.00

02:10:17.840 ages of 20 and 60 you think you're gonna have and you can't you don't get to talk to them they just

02:10:29.040 see you both and they have to pick which one they want to date which one they think is more attractive

02:10:36.320 do you win or does your mom win can i see my mom i think my mom um i think like i just erroneous

02:10:49.600 erroneous i would think my mom because she's beautiful um and you're not i think i am too

02:10:58.240 and that's why i feel like when i get to her age i definitely will follow too so okay all right so um

02:11:08.160 but yeah if the question is more attractive when you're 60 rather than 20 i feel like it's 20 that's

02:11:14.560 have you ever heard of a popular it's a very popular thing that the kids are all saying online

02:11:19.200 now it's called cope have you ever heard the word cope yeah you know and what does cope mean

02:11:24.800 to cope is to make do with um like the issues you have issues at hand and you try to either compensate

02:11:40.000 or make do with your unfortunate um i guess like with your like um qualities that like are unfortunate to

02:11:49.840 you and so um in a way to like distract yourself from experiencing the emotions that come with those

02:12:02.800 is it do you think that most people would think like i'm assuming your mom's probably 20 plus years

02:12:09.360 older than you i would guess mom's 60 yeah do you mom's 60 yeah you think you i just want to make sure

02:12:17.440 that we're clear you think that any random guy any i'm not even saying age group just any random guy

02:12:25.520 would rather date your 60 year old mother over you i just want to make sure that we're clear and you're

02:12:31.440 absolutely not coping here right no no so they would yeah i would say yeah and you're not full of 0.99

02:12:40.320 shit no and of course not trolling either right no no okay or am i i don't know are you or yeah or aren't you 0.92

02:12:59.280 but yeah i have to say out there my mom is beautiful so 0.99

02:13:02.800 yeah well i mean she must be because every man on planet earth would much rather have her 1.00

02:13:11.680 at 60 years old than you at uh let's see if i wrote your age down here um i didn't catch it

02:13:18.800 uh is it 22 no yeah that's not right what is your age is it 22 22 yeah so they would rather have 60

02:13:25.040 year old grandma of over 22 year old jack that's that's your actual stance if she could provide and she 0.97

02:13:30.800 got the looks i mean nobody cared men don't give a shit about women who can provide nobody literally 0.99

02:13:36.800 men don't care at all about women being providers they like them because they're hot they don't care 0.98

02:13:42.000 about that's the big attraction that they have to women you know what they don't care about i'm going 0.99

02:13:46.480 to tell you all the things they don't care about you ready they don't care how much money you have 0.99

02:13:49.440 they don't give a shit they don't care if you work at starbucks they don't give a shit they don't 0.99

02:13:52.560 care if you're a manager at a mcdonald's and they're a multi-millionaire they don't give a 0.99

02:13:55.840 shit they don't care that you're great at philosophizing they don't care if you're phenomenal 0.98

02:14:01.120 at logic and they don't care about any of that what they care about more than anything else 0.98

02:14:05.840 is that you're hot that's what they care about that's so here's the hierarchy of needs you ready

02:14:10.640 you're hot and then there you go there's your entire heart there's the hierarchy of needs for men 0.89

02:14:18.560 i just given it to you there right there in a silver platter gave you the secret to life for

02:14:24.000 men right it's simple so i just i just wanted to explain that to you that your six-year-old mother

02:14:30.400 the dating mark is likely not going to outperform you at 22 years old that's pure cope okay

02:14:39.760 i mean if there's an opportunity to tap then any man would take right

02:14:44.560 are you saying if there's an opportunity to smash your mom your mom i mean some guys would

02:14:53.040 i would say i'm not sure yeah yeah we would agree yeah but nobody would ever disagree that some guys 0.68

02:14:58.240 some 79 year old guy is going to tap your mom yeah i'm sure i'm sure he will i'm sure he'll get his 0.91

02:15:03.680 ass out of his bed and he'll go over with his walking cane and he'll really give it to her but the 0.97

02:15:09.200 thing is like what does it have to do with anything though walking cane

02:15:27.760 i give you gold i give you gold and this is what i get you know gold he still has a rotary telephone

02:15:33.680 all right i'm okay uh going to you irene uh better looking in 10 years time yes 20 years time

02:15:48.480 yes 20 years time probably not okay so better looking at 32 year old for the both of you

02:15:55.200 uh emma better looking in 10 not at 20 okay all right okay that was an interesting conversation

02:16:05.920 uh one quick follow-up i suppose so if i had a magic wand that i could wave for you two and you

02:16:15.840 magic wand that could age your outward physical appearance so you would still you know obviously

02:16:22.000 as you get older you get closer to you know mortality whatever it would just age you outwardly

02:16:27.680 so your your health is the exact same you're you'll live just as long as you would otherwise live

02:16:33.360 but we age you to 70 we age you to 70 and you just stay that way for the rest of your life you remain

02:16:43.760 as uh you know looking 70 for the whole your whole life

02:16:48.240 do you take it if we can wave a magic wand right now yeah bet oh my god you guys are

02:16:55.840 slurred okay do you take it 0.89

02:17:00.400 i mean you already dug the hole right i mean you can't i mean you just have to bite the bullet

02:17:06.640 it won't stop my game let's go let's go it won't stop your game no

02:17:11.520 they won't stop your game you know brian for situations like this you need to get one of those

02:17:18.640 aging apps for the computer and then age them forward and show them what they look like you

02:17:23.040 know what that is a good idea can wait i'm gonna have the discord i'm gonna have our discord team do

02:17:29.520 it so guys if you can i want you and you right now look into this i need you hold on hold on scoot into

02:17:36.720 the scoot this way because you're out of frame well scoot the chair lady scoot into the table so 1.00

02:17:42.880 you're in frame okay look into this camera right here okay so guys grab your screenshot look into

02:17:52.960 the camera keep looking look grab your screenshots look into the camera hello okay and now we're gonna

02:17:59.280 have somebody in the discord hopefully they'll do it put it put them through uh aging thing make them

02:18:05.120 50 or 60. hang on that goes for the crucible too and then if you guys get to it first uh toss it in

02:18:09.840 the whatever um toss it in the whatever discord yeah if you can put it in the uh those of you who

02:18:16.240 are in the discord right now leave my research tab open you're gonna post it in the research tab okay

02:18:21.520 uh so you can do that i'm gonna read a chat here uh let's see we have techno trooper panel it seems men

02:18:28.000 are staying single longer and sometimes forever is romance declining in america and why what is the solution

02:18:34.480 to this um is romance declining in america and why what is the solution to this do you guys okay

02:18:41.760 going around the table do you think romance is declining

02:18:52.240 um i would say it really depends on the person like there's a lot of people that are lucky out

02:18:58.160 there to have like healthy and romantic relationships where like others maybe not and a solution to

02:19:05.200 this would be hmm maybe people getting out of their shell and like talking to people and going on dates

02:19:17.520 uh is it the client like romance like being romantic or a couple i'm not sure i is chivalry dead

02:19:23.920 is that what it is okay uh and did women kill it 1.00

02:19:32.400 i mean part of it yes i think so i think guys are kind of scared because women

02:19:36.800 did become kind of rough up in quebec like women are rough men like it's it's almost like inversed

02:19:43.760 the uh the worlds are reversed and like men don't really go towards women because women just kind of

02:19:48.800 like they're off they're off canadian women i'm telling you uh-huh yeah they're tight it's tough 1.00

02:19:57.280 out there the quebecois yeah it's uh with their but uh is it the poutine you think that's what did

02:20:04.880 it to the women i don't think that's the poutine but poutine did some really good things though

02:20:10.640 canadian bacon did some amazing things i think you think it's trudeau like his fault

02:20:15.520 like trudeau is at fault for many but let's not yeah but yeah i don't even talk about this but

02:20:25.200 okay yeah i think so yeah i think part of it is like the yeah is chivalry dead i think

02:20:35.840 i could only like say it from a perspective i i feel like my scope of the dating life is probably

02:20:44.640 pretty pretty i would say small um just because i've been in the same community for years but

02:20:50.560 i'd say it's declining it's still here but there's not a lot of uh men that are doing like typical 0.79

02:20:59.840 chivalry things so yeah it's at a decline the same community like the pokemon like collection

02:21:06.480 like look i'm like i'm from oc so um you mean the place that's right next to la like the biggest

02:21:12.320 metropolitan area in the country yeah yeah it's tough out there in the greater metro la area

02:21:20.560 10 million plus people it's hard it's very secluded basically in the forest out there

02:21:29.200 orange camp don't look at me that way you're in the forest you're in the sticks

02:21:33.360 no oc suburban like it's like i know i'm being sarcastic oh okay yeah you're in the rural

02:21:40.880 the rural parts of orange county yeah are there rural parts of orange counties where we're in the

02:21:48.240 skies orange county is pretty uh isn't it pretty republican so you're a trump supporter right um

02:21:56.400 um no i don't i don't want to disclose that because like again okay you can do it no i i don't

02:22:03.360 i need to like like a bernie bro no because i feel like kanye no okay my bad go ahead no i just feel

02:22:10.880 like i need to do more research on like stances before i even like say anything because yeah who

02:22:16.880 are you voting for not disclosing all right okay all right uh is chivalry dead oh you mean so okay

02:22:24.560 hang on i just want to just want to say you're voting for kamala harris

02:22:30.160 i'm not gonna lie dude i think i might forget the date to vote because i tend to forget certain

02:22:36.080 things awesome that's actually good i'm glad if it but if if you did know the day to vote

02:22:43.920 you'd be voting for kamala right i don't know i really don't know if it happens it happens if it

02:22:51.280 doesn't it doesn't she's gonna write in timothy chalamet for president wait he's british never

02:22:58.400 mind and not 30 he's not he's from new york i thought he was born in england i'm i'm pretty

02:23:03.680 sure he's british timothy chalamet i i don't think so well he's okay i don't whatever um okay uh what about

02:23:12.640 you is chivalry dead well so the question that was asked are we like kind of grouping romance and chivalry

02:23:26.320 like sure i guess i feel that romance is on a decline but with chivalry chivalry as well it is

02:23:34.640 declining but it's almost it has potential to be revived it's still somewhere i think yeah i mean

02:23:45.680 it's somewhere it is it's gone that's where it is that's the somewhere that it is is gone your

02:23:53.200 your thoughts go ahead um yeah it's definitely declining both romance and chivalry um i blame

02:23:59.360 social media for that and hookup culture and people feeling like they always need to put up a

02:24:06.480 front i think there's um not a lot of authenticity left and sure that's a problem emma what about you

02:24:14.000 i think it's very well alive okay all right uh okay i'm gonna get through some of my notes here irene

02:24:21.440 you do the tarot cards thing you describe yourself as the goddess of peace

02:24:25.920 so okay let me explain that so it's not like it's not like i'm being um narcissistic or whatever

02:24:34.720 my i my name irene actually the definition of it is derived from the greek goddess of peace

02:24:41.520 so i use that for my username

02:24:48.160 do you consider yourself a goddess i don't

02:24:50.640 okay um and then on your tiktok you're a sagittarius gemini and a pisces like three

02:25:00.400 or whatever so there's like um there's little symbols a lot of people kind of get confused

02:25:04.880 i guess it's not that noticeable but it's saying i'm sagittarius sun gemini moon and pisces rising

02:25:10.560 that's beautiful thank you i have no idea what that means i can explain that's um

02:25:15.360 uh you were on uh fresh and fit yes we both you you were sitting right next to myron

02:25:27.040 question very important question did you or did you not sniff his chair when he got up

02:25:33.040 um i did not that's a lie just kidding okay um did you guys say anything on that wait wait

02:25:43.360 what what what what what what what yes you did yes you did yes you did don't lie yes you did

02:25:53.840 like after the cameras were off though like you wouldn't dare like let that

02:25:57.440 that should be caught on camera i would never but like you definitely like you it's just between

02:26:02.240 us i'm not gonna get into it

02:26:06.480 did it smell like the justin bieber fragrance or is it more like aqua digio

02:26:10.400 did i say that right that giorgio armani the one it's very popular

02:26:14.880 dolce and gabbana more like okay all right just checking okay well chat's saying you did

02:26:19.920 the chat says you did okay well that's crazy it's you not it's it's unanimous between two chats that

02:26:26.640 you did this uh did you guys get into uh any debates on that show did you guys have any back

02:26:32.720 good back and forth suit you on that one or did you just sit there and like just there was a lot

02:26:37.600 of chaos that kind of prevented us from yeah because a lot of people were getting really emotional and it

02:26:43.440 was just you know hard to state opinions but i actually been on first one for three times three

02:26:48.240 times yeah wow that's patrick okay cool good times good times um but that specific episode no

02:26:55.520 i mean a little bit we got to um talk a lot about like femininity and masculinity and we already know

02:27:04.400 myron's take on that so sure all right yeah okay uh let's see we'll get through the rest of the notes

02:27:11.760 actually you know what before we get into the notes i have to bring it back to uh let's see

02:27:18.800 i did have a question um what should men do when it comes to dating for example you might say men should

02:27:30.400 pay for first dates men should open the car door men should bring you flowers whatever it is maybe you 1.00

02:27:36.960 agree with that maybe you don't but uh what should men do when it comes to dating

02:27:41.600 i would say they would have to plan dates i think that's really important plan dates plan dates um to be

02:27:53.200 a provider um provider okay and also like show like effort effort okay effort and

02:28:11.200 yeah that's pretty much it all right what about you can we open the door uh i don't have any what

02:28:17.360 i don't have any uh shoulds per se like i think every couple creates like their own synergy but i

02:28:26.160 think and not specific to men or you know i just think you need to have good communication you have

02:28:31.520 to be able to i mean minimally manage your emotions and be able to know yourself and i think you should

02:28:38.880 okay i guess that's a should but again for men and women you should find a way to be somewhat fulfilled

02:28:45.280 with your life on an individual level before i'm saying more like gender yeah gender roles like i

02:28:51.360 don't i don't know i don't feel entitled to anything particularly repeal the 19th amendment donated 200

02:28:58.880 ladies you're so boring painfully boring justify your right to vote 1.00

02:29:07.920 uh repeal the 19th uh well thank you for the tts

02:29:11.120 um does anybody want to respond to that the right to vote

02:29:20.640 i mean we're part of society or the accusations of being boring yeah i mean

02:29:25.920 yeah we might be i don't know what do you want to say

02:29:31.040 okay bro just come on like like come on here and then talk i'd love to see you talk

02:29:37.360 if you happen to i mean i'm on here right now if you'd like to have that argument

02:29:43.120 but but just so you know i have been instructed by the powers of be not to have that are so i'm not

02:29:48.240 going to but i just want to let you know in any future date if you would like to have that argument

02:29:52.960 i'm willing to have it all right well i guess back to the whole uh what what should men

02:30:01.200 do when it comes to dating yeah like i said i don't know i have any specific shirts no

02:30:06.400 i think like yeah all right what about you me uh what should men do when it comes to dating i think

02:30:13.760 i kind of agree i agree with you on that in a sense just one point of clarification it's easier if you just

02:30:18.720 just say your own position instead of saying you agree just my position is is um like before you

02:30:28.800 get into relationship i feel like men should pretty much be secure with themselves first

02:30:36.160 for even pursuing yeah but you can say this about women so i'm asking like what should men specifically do

02:30:42.480 what should men be what should they do so be good communicators shouldn't women also be good 0.86

02:30:50.880 good communicators well it seems like a lot of these things even in terms of like planning dates

02:30:57.040 or even uh like giving gestures doing a lot of things could be things that both genders could do 1.00

02:31:06.960 okay

02:31:07.280 but men specifically i think they could be pretty good listeners um even if they're not going to

02:31:19.600 fully understand like how a woman would think would feel just listening in is like pretty good so there's 0.95

02:31:28.320 nothing exclusive in your view nothing exclusive that men should do when it comes to their gender

02:31:35.600 expectations and dating protector provider lead they could protect they can but should they they should

02:31:44.800 okay i mean you're if if i'm i'm your woman then like protect me i'm you're obviously probably going

02:31:50.320 to be um at least at least like slightly bigger right um yeah to the size that you could protect i'm i'm

02:31:58.880 very small petite so you want the guy who's would protect you or capable of protecting you yes okay 0.81

02:32:06.320 and men should do that they should protect their girlfriend do you think men have an equal 0.98

02:32:11.440 expectation on women that the woman should protect them no okay so gendered expectation then what about you

02:32:20.400 i personally appreciate chivalry so like those little things like making sure

02:32:25.200 the woman is on the inside when they're driving by like the cars and opening doors obviously and of 1.00

02:32:32.400 course if the man did ask to ask or plan the date i would appreciate them to pay for the meal or the

02:32:39.680 dates okay you know you said you want something that's you know not doesn't apply for both genders and i

02:32:48.240 i can't think about it right now because i feel like the things that i wanted to mention like

02:32:52.400 consistency and being a great communicator and just being straightforward about what you want i think

02:32:57.680 both people should be able to do that so

02:33:03.520 anything for you emma i think they should wear the pants and lead okay all right um and then

02:33:10.960 let me ask you guys a question really quick here so would you find fault in a woman if a woman said 1.00

02:33:20.400 men should do xyz should do xyz so woman says men should pay for first dates men should open car doors 0.99

02:33:29.680 men should be willing to sacrifice themselves in some sort of self-defense situation they should take

02:33:36.160 the bullet men should take the bullet would you object to if a woman said that would that be wrong 0.96

02:33:41.840 of her to say that that men should pay for first dates is that is that wrong that's not wrong at all

02:33:49.120 no no objections okay pen um men should be paying cooking cleaning taking care of kids 0.65

02:33:56.560 men should 0.90

02:34:00.080 men should 0.93

02:34:03.600 uh yeah i get your little looks to the side oh i just said a little troll

02:34:11.760 congratulate yeah okay

02:34:15.280 you know i don't know brian i don't know if you can let them off the hook 0.98

02:34:18.240 trolling my skin from boredom donated two hundred dollars these girls have the personality of a sex doll 1.00

02:34:32.720 i mean it would be helpful with the flow of the conversation if you simply 0.83

02:34:36.880 answered the question in good faith so i mean is that actually your position or are you just going

02:34:40.720 to cop to the troll i would say um women are allowed to say like all like for men to pay for dates and 0.99

02:34:50.320 stuff like that okay so are you walking back the men should cook and clean and take care of the household 1.00

02:34:58.560 or no i was just kidding i was just kidding okay all right yeah they're allowed to want that anybody's

02:35:06.560 that would love to want whatever they want so no quarrel no quarrel with men should do if that's what 0.79

02:35:12.880 it's if they want that is that if that's the yeah if that's what they want and then they have they

02:35:18.880 create that relationship and they have they offer each other kind of that complementary thing like yeah

02:35:23.600 any issue with a woman saying men should do this men should pay for first dates is that wrong

02:35:28.800 um up to that i would say like if she wants it then she could have it that way but um same goes for men 1.00

02:35:39.840 too they men could be like men women should be submissive or women should be in this sense you could

02:35:46.960 think however you want to think um it's based on like what you want so i'm not really going to like

02:35:53.680 say no you can't have this techno trooper donated two hundred dollars ladies would your parents be 1.00

02:36:02.880 okay with you dating a guy that comes from a broken home i like boring it's peaceful uh techno trooper

02:36:10.560 thank you for the tts um just show of hands would your parents be would your parents be okay with you

02:36:16.240 dating a guy that comes from a broken home show of hands i mean okay all right there you have your

02:36:24.560 answer thank you techno trooper for the tts um any objections to women saying men should do

02:36:30.560 men should pay for first dates i believe it's wrong under the circumstance that the woman who's stating 1.00

02:36:36.800 that is not offering anything to the table either well maybe she is then no i don't believe it's wrong

02:36:43.040 okay yeah if that works for both of them you know if it's communicated and this is their preferences

02:36:48.720 and it works then yeah there's nothing wrong emma what about you uh no objection no okay and then

02:36:54.160 then just my fault my one follow-up to this is is it wrong if a man says women should be submissive

02:37:01.360 women should stay at home and take care of the kids women should cook women should clean is that sexist 1.00

02:37:07.040 honestly i would prefer it that way i'll be able to cook and clean and then do everything i don't

02:37:14.240 think it's wrong but i always wonder what you mean exactly when you say submissive and i think a lot

02:37:18.400 of women have trouble with that word um i don't particularly but i never know what it means exactly 0.94

02:37:23.680 because i think sometimes women hear like you need to shut up and do nothing and have no opinion and 1.00

02:37:29.520 just say yes to everything wait luckily you're asking the exact right well okay go ahead brian so just

02:37:35.760 just i'll i'll let you get to that but i want to just get the panel's answer on that

02:37:39.680 so of the things i listed if a man says you should do all those things sexist um it's just a matter of

02:37:46.800 preference i don't think it's like um innately wrong to have like a preference or to feel and think the

02:37:53.280 way you feel um hopefully that person could find the person that agrees with those um with those thoughts

02:38:01.760 as well you should be a politician what about you no all right um that wouldn't be for me that person

02:38:11.040 but there's nothing wrong with that again it's all about preferences i think it's fair to say okay all

02:38:17.600 right uh andrew do you want to have the exchange about the uh being submissive thing yeah well i just

02:38:22.640 wanted to clarify what it means it just means uh you do what you're told

02:38:25.600 yeah that's what i mean no matter what well no i mean it has to it has to um sync up with reason

02:38:36.000 so you do what you're told within reason but um but the thing is is that you know quantifying reason

02:38:42.800 this is why this why when i talk about kind of whenever you have two two different consciousnesses

02:38:48.960 which come into contact ones basically necessarily always going to dominate the other um in this

02:38:55.760 case i do think that men do tend to dominate relationships and i even think that that's a 0.99

02:39:00.880 good thing i don't i don't not only do i not think that's a bad thing i think that that's how things ought

02:39:05.600 to be but you you don't want like negotiations like you don't think that they're you you don't want

02:39:12.320 do generals do generals want to negotiate with colonels i don't know but does that mean that

02:39:19.120 you want that in your relationship okay i mean the answer is no so like i think i think that if it

02:39:26.480 you can have tons of objections or needs or things that you want from a submissive role uh that you can

02:39:33.120 ask for and uh and get right um between between two different individuals this can be a business

02:39:41.520 relationship this can be anything uh not just a relationship you can have two people who are in

02:39:47.440 these roles and one who's in the submissive role can request things within the confines of reason and

02:39:52.880 usually those things will be granted the the thing that happens though is that inside relationships

02:39:58.000 eventually two people come to an impasse who do we defer to

02:40:04.000 well that's the thing i feel like there is so let's say you have a you have a discussion then

02:40:08.400 it's like for me it's like the best idea should win but who gets to make the determination as to

02:40:14.240 what the best idea is well what happens what happens when you have an impasse and and it's kind of very

02:40:20.640 pretentious in fact when people say oh i want a person who we're never going to have an impasse or

02:40:26.560 we're never going to have a i think this is the way and he thinks this is the way or vice versa

02:40:32.480 that's every relationship that you're ever going to be in there's going to be an impasse which comes up

02:40:36.800 the question is who gets deferred to so you think everything is within the confines of what should

02:40:42.800 be and so does he right who who gets deferred to yeah i think when you say when you say well

02:40:49.760 those with the best idea yeah it's like well who gets to determine that well that's always in the

02:40:54.800 discussion i think like if you have a discussion with someone then you both are like the discussion

02:40:59.040 you think you're right and he thinks he's right yeah well then you yeah you i don't i don't think

02:41:07.120 because you're the man you it yeah no i don't believe that because you're the man you automatically have

02:41:12.000 the best idea or the best well somebody's got to be the tiebreaker especially when there's kids

02:41:16.880 involved right somebody has to be the tiebreaker especially when there's kids involved you can't be

02:41:21.680 at a perpetual impasse when it comes to your children's welfare for instance right somebody has to be

02:41:26.720 deferred to so the the question is who gets deferred to this is the great this is the great question

02:41:33.680 by the way of the 21st century and this is the question feminism cannot answer we must have children 1.00

02:41:40.640 and in order to have children we're going to have to have men and women sleeping together 1.00

02:41:44.480 and in order to have good results with those children usually those couples need to stay together

02:41:49.520 long term right or you're probably going to have bad results with the children every study

02:41:54.240 on planet earth confirms this so what happens when we're inside of these relationships and feminism 1.00

02:41:59.440 has taught you to be a strong empowered awesome epic woman boss babe in tight leather who can take down 1.00

02:42:05.120 300 pound men with machine guns with nothing more than your 120 pound in jitsu and uh you end up in an

02:42:13.920 impasse right you end up in an impasse with your husband now this used to be codified into law

02:42:18.960 and so the codification the law was well there's an impasse you're going to have to defer to the

02:42:23.840 husband and now that's no longer law and so now we end up in these well we can't make the decision

02:42:30.960 because neither party will back down so so how do we solve that is kind of the great question in modernity

02:42:37.280 yeah i mean i i just feel like two grown-ups will naturally figure it out together not just because

02:42:50.160 you choose you know i don't think it goes that way i think naturally like

02:42:54.080 they they're both people you come up when you will come up with like two people can't decide on gun

02:42:59.280 control no but like you can decide on where they want to go eat together they can't decide the whole

02:43:04.160 country's polarized 50 50 on abortion like we can't agree on basic things you think inside of

02:43:09.760 relationships though somehow it's going to just naturally occur like it isn't that kind of pie in

02:43:15.520 the sky uh you know kind of silly thing in a way no i think sometimes like uh because you you trust your

02:43:22.240 partner and you're like you know what okay we're going to try your way and then another impasse is

02:43:26.320 going to be okay it's going to try we're going to try the other way like it's oh wait wait hang on

02:43:31.920 that requires a concession that requires a concession we'll try it yeah but i think the

02:43:35.440 concession is sometimes going to be from the woman sometimes the concession is going to be from the

02:43:38.560 men like you know okay but here's the thing right yeah so it used to be codified into law that when 0.97

02:43:44.720 there was an impasse it deferred to the man it's no longer codified into the law anymore that it's

02:43:50.960 deferred to to the man you would agree with me that's true right yeah yeah and so when we have

02:43:55.920 these great impasses what happens when neither party backs down well i just think at some point

02:44:02.480 one party will back down it just naturally happens no like they don't see nothing but people divorce

02:44:07.680 rates are sky high yeah right out of wet out of wedlock uh relationships are sky high not people don't

02:44:14.800 even want to take the risk because of this idea that one party's not going to back down inside of

02:44:19.360 religious cultures of course there's a deference to the man and you tend to see the more religious a

02:44:25.040 person is the less they get divorced isn't that interesting because there's there's this tiebreaker

02:44:30.560 right there's this when we hit this impasse we now have somebody who's deferred to and both people

02:44:36.640 from the religious perspective agree that that deference is going to go towards the man but where

02:44:42.480 feminism's one of their greatest failures has come in is inside of relationships if we're both equal 1.00

02:44:48.880 who gets to be the decider when we have a situation where we can't decide but i think it

02:44:55.840 changes that's what i mean i think like it's it's if you can't figure it out together and if you don't

02:45:01.520 it it doesn't go one way or the other like sometimes one way sometimes the other way then

02:45:07.280 yeah maybe you're just incompatible and you shouldn't be together yeah i'd see that so so i'm

02:45:11.760 going to reject a couple things here outright you're not incompatible with somebody because you can't agree on

02:45:16.640 an issue and neither one of you will back down that actually does not assume that you're incompatible

02:45:22.080 with each other that could have issues of pride together it could be all sorts of issues um which

02:45:28.800 are inside of that relationship that actually have nothing to do with the fact that one of you is actually

02:45:33.680 right one of you is wrong but if you would agree and maybe you don't but if you did agree that we

02:45:40.720 should defer to kind of reason logic first i would think that most people would agree the sex that

02:45:46.560 has that mostly dominated is men not that there's not irrational men there are or overly emotional

02:45:52.000 men of course there are but generally speaking i would say that they're much more rational logical

02:45:56.640 that women are why shouldn't you defer to men like what what does that cost women exactly in a 0.98

02:46:02.560 relationship to just back down on their pride and defer to the man what does that really cost well i just

02:46:09.680 can't assume that because you're a dude you will have the best idea and the so you know what i mean

02:46:16.400 i just i don't see how you can't assume that because of gender you like yeah so then you you are agreeing

02:46:21.600 that you make bad choices when it comes to picking men everybody makes oh what me personally if i make

02:46:28.000 that well i mean not you personally i'm just saying women then women would have to concede that they're making 0.71

02:46:33.120 bad choices when it comes to picking men oh yeah 100 if if if that is the case that when they pick the

02:46:39.200 man somehow they can't defer to his leadership yeah and they have to defer to their own it seems like

02:46:45.520 they're picking very bad men right yeah and i think the opposite happens too i think some men pick really

02:46:52.480 bad women too but yes well i think that i well i would i would say it's an it's necessarily a trait that if 0.94

02:46:59.360 you have a woman who refuses to submit to your leadership she's a bad woman no matter what i would 1.00

02:47:05.040 say that that's always bad that she's always doing the wrong thing in that case as long as what you're

02:47:10.320 asking her to do comports with reason i i have no idea what the objection would ever be you're making

02:47:16.960 a bit of a face it looks like maybe you disagree with andrew do you in some aspects i do disagree

02:47:23.120 on certain things for instance um let me see here like um i i don't think that just because you're a

02:47:34.800 dude um like we would have like we would have to submit to pretty much your decisions um you have

02:47:43.280 to know no we don't and i know what i know you do so listen i'm gonna i want to explain a concept to

02:47:49.360 you real quick and then you can respond yeah do you know what force what force doctrine is do you

02:47:54.720 understand what that means say one more time force doctrine no well the idea here is essentially that

02:48:03.280 all rights which are granted on planet earth are granted by men and the way that we know that all

02:48:10.400 rights are granted by men is because we can look not only at the historic standard but currently right 0.63

02:48:15.760 now in modern year and we can see that every nation on planet earth if the men decide that

02:48:22.240 women have no rights they don't have any and the men do and so essentially what happens is women are 1.00

02:48:30.880 living based around the benevolence of men who can at any time of their choosing snatch their rights

02:48:38.560 away and there is zero recourse that women have for this and so i wanted to explain this to you

02:48:47.680 as we go through kind of um the what i'm going to consider to be a a preamble for your feminist 1.00

02:48:54.880 monologue about how wait a second we're equal that's an illusion there is no equality and there's

02:49:01.520 never been equality at any time any time and this is the standard globally men can take the rights

02:49:09.920 away from women and women can't do anything about it but the opposite is not true andrew can you do uh

02:49:17.520 can you um specify that you're making a a what is i'm not saying it should be that way he's not

02:49:25.040 trying to understand that i'm not saying we should do that i'm just expressing to you the concept

02:49:31.680 that this is the way things actually are and i can point to you uh dozens upon dozens of nations where

02:49:39.360 that is the case right now not that it should be that way but that it is it is the case that women get 0.90

02:49:47.440 their rights from men otherwise i don't understand where else they would get them from because a right

02:49:53.040 to me is just something which can be enforced right

02:50:02.320 well there was no questions well no i was i was actually um going to let her dive into what

02:50:08.960 she was going to say i just wanted to give her the preamble so that she understood she understood my

02:50:13.520 worldview she understood what i was where i was coming from yeah i do see where you're coming from

02:50:18.480 um and i feel like um or i know like the women's march and just like instances where i feel like

02:50:28.080 women have tried to or like fought for their rights with what foul with what it is a matter of when they 1.00

02:50:38.080 fight with bad language oh please oh we want our rights i mean honestly what do you think women 0.98

02:50:46.080 fought with what do you think they fought with do you think they went and like took their broom handles

02:50:50.160 and went beat the men over the head with them they whined in the streets they didn't fight they

02:50:54.160 didn't there was no fighting they didn't fight for nothing the act i mean that's the truth right

02:51:01.440 the act of the march is to pretty much promote like the rights of women and i feel like in order for

02:51:09.040 that to push forward it was through the recognition of men that also um have supported those rights as

02:51:17.920 well and it was a joint effort it's not just simply oh no i agree with that i agree that's a joint effort

02:51:26.160 that's why that's actually to my point but what happens if men decide it's no longer a joint effort

02:51:32.000 and they decide tomorrow ah men you know what women don't have any rights what happens to women's rights 1.00

02:51:38.320 then i guess we'll like what let's say a million women were marching in the streets for the rights and 1.00

02:51:47.520 men went no you get nothing what would what could women actually do about that 1.00

02:51:58.160 good question that is a good question i feel like um in that sense we'll never truly never

02:52:05.280 know unless it actually happens right oh no no it actually has happened more times than you can count

02:52:10.560 and it's happening right this second in dozens of countries where men say okay all you women your

02:52:17.120 second-class citizens and you can't do and you know what they do nothing they can't do anything 1.00

02:52:21.600 about it it is hard to seek asylum in like different countries um i feel and it takes yeah but what what

02:52:30.640 what if the globe did it what if the what if the men of the globe just went nah women second-class 0.98

02:52:36.080 citizens men decided that women could never make such a decision if women collectively tomorrow said all

02:52:42.160 men are second-class citizens we would laugh they could never enforce it in a million how how would 1.00

02:52:48.160 they ever enforce that they couldn't do it only men can do that right 1.00

02:53:00.400 that is a good food for thought i suppose yeah yeah well so so this is the thing right is um

02:53:06.800 what i say what i'm doing is i'm taking the macro like the the big picture and i'm looking at it

02:53:12.960 through the idea of force and then i put it into the micro too and so i think in the micro men are

02:53:18.640 expected to protect their women to protect their household and lay down their lives before their 0.99

02:53:23.760 women are expected to lay down their lives so on the micro they're expected to grant women's rights 1.00

02:53:28.880 and protect them and on the macro they're expected to do the same but i think that it's always been the

02:53:34.160 expectation that women defer to men because of that sacrifice that's what i think feminism has destroyed 1.00

02:53:41.360 is that idea i see what you mean

02:53:50.480 that's all that's all i'm saying one sec i'm trying to arrange a little a little pizza here

02:53:56.800 getting a little getting a little pizza going uh over over rachel we were we were having a nice

02:54:02.000 little discussion there uh what are your thoughts there yeah i'm forest i know i understand what

02:54:06.960 you mean like i i get it and i also agree what you just said because i mean it's it's not even

02:54:12.880 agree disagree it's it is it's just the case it's just the case i mean unless you think about like

02:54:19.280 a super um sneaky organization of women getting guns and and even then like i wouldn't know because 1.00

02:54:25.680 then the army is full of you know what i mean if i don't know we went there yeah men are always in

02:54:30.080 the key position yeah you know like no matter what let's see how i mean that what kind of organization

02:54:35.920 but um so i get it but still still under no but it's still under relationship level even though i

02:54:46.240 understand the car but i still have an objective but i still know yeah because i still feel like i

02:54:51.200 like okay i i would trust my men so that

02:55:00.640 it's like i wouldn't i wouldn't like um submit to his final decision necessarily because he's just a

02:55:06.400 man but because i trust him and i'd be like okay like you we're not going my way like he's not you

02:55:14.160 know i would probably that yeah i would be like because i trust him and then i would be let's let's do that

02:55:20.000 and then we see that it's not the right thing to do then we i don't know we can have another

02:55:23.360 discussion like like later you know heard this uh many many times i think it's a good it's a good

02:55:28.080 point to say i want to be able to trust the person i'm submitting to of course right yeah but i want

02:55:33.280 you to think about this right the situation basically every man you're ever going to be with pound for

02:55:39.840 pound might as well be a gorilla at any given time if they so chose they could literally rip you to

02:55:47.680 pieces if they wanted to and they don't they don't they could but they don't doesn't why doesn't that

02:55:55.520 ever like kind of make women trust men a little bit more that the fact of the matter is is that

02:56:02.480 they really could do that and they just don't do that but i mean the physical the fact that the man

02:56:08.880 is stronger physically does like doesn't change the fact that if i realize you're very messed up in 1.00

02:56:14.960 your head and you are irrational and stupid and you are like your decision or whatever you want 0.99

02:56:22.320 in the animal kingdom do women get a choice only in this one but yeah because 1.00

02:56:26.960 many different humans are different reason what's that well humans are different than the animal

02:56:32.560 kingdom well we're animals yes but we have we have consciousness and that that changes everything

02:56:38.400 well we just have the ability to use reason right and animals don't have that ability yeah and so

02:56:44.880 through pure reason which is a thing which by the way is pioneered by males exclusively almost

02:56:51.600 right there's almost no great philosophers who are females and it's not because they were barred from 0.89

02:56:56.480 it it's just because they just weren't interested in it a different different interest in what it is

02:57:01.360 that they wanted to do um though there were a few there were a few good philosophers who were women

02:57:06.480 especially there's some saints i could point to who were pretty good at it too um but it's through

02:57:12.880 reason alone that men have pioneered this idea of rights protections for women and things like this

02:57:19.200 but they never actually had to do it right they never donated two hundred dollars i appreciate that

02:57:26.080 these ladies seem to be open-minded about what andrew is saying it's hard to argue with but some do anyway

02:57:33.200 but don't be mistaken ladies men very much appreciate you yeah well i mean that's the thing 0.63

02:57:39.120 right it's um it's not an attack on women to try to get them to to understand um the bigger picture

02:57:45.520 imagine you're inside of a society where everything is essentially built for you everything is built for

02:57:51.200 you everything is built and tailored around the comfort of the people who are in that society all the

02:57:56.480 wires and all the wiring and all the electricity and all the tape everything that you enjoy essentially is

02:58:01.760 built underneath the guise of patriarchy with the illusion a female illusion of equality and that 1.00

02:58:09.520 equality doesn't really exist it's never really existed and uh the thing is is that that's a great

02:58:15.840 gift of benevolence that men give to women and women just kind of sneer at it and it's always been

02:58:22.480 bizarre to me because it's so obvious to any man who looks at it well if they wanted to if we decided

02:58:29.040 tomorrow to be lions right um women are going to do what they and the reason we can demonstrate that 1.00

02:58:36.080 that's true is because we can look at the entire world other than the west and see that that is the

02:58:41.040 case almost everywhere but here mm-hmm i do have an update we we got the old photos um

02:58:50.080 yo craze thanks for the gift for the gifted 20 subs man so we have uh old photos for her we got a lot

02:59:00.080 got a lot it would have been good if we did like a side-by-side i should have specified like do side-by-side

02:59:05.360 comparison like but whatever um let's pull them up let's see what we have here so

02:59:16.640 yeah way yeah way harder

02:59:23.520 you look hella fine can we show andrew here

02:59:26.880 oh wait oh i thought there was did we delete it look better oh maybe it's on the video tab

02:59:36.080 look better okay all right let's just here let's just x out of it um is that that's you

02:59:44.080 so fun that's her all right scroll down i look like i can make good porridge

02:59:51.360 all right that's like you're pretty good hang on hang on hang on hang on pull that last one up brian

02:59:56.160 pull that last one up okay is this um is this rachel it's that's me oh wait i think that's me that

03:00:04.400 look oh but she didn't i know i wasn't part of this yeah she's not god oh my god but she looks

03:00:09.840 better than the other one did at 60. wait wait go back go back let's okay let's just get through

03:00:14.720 quick if we can uh wait oh my god they gave her a mustache what the it looks like they gave her 1.00

03:00:22.800 like a like an old mustache damn wait look at look look into this camera look into this camera 0.97

03:00:35.040 wait go oh the one below is like better looking better looking bro tell us the lie 0.98

03:00:42.320 troll we're not they were not answering the question that was that's an obvious one though

03:00:45.680 you know all right let's keep going yeah there was that oh my gosh oh come on that's good

03:00:54.800 that's a banger that's actually the geriatrics and the walkers you're gonna be able to get enough of 1.00

03:00:59.200 you the 20 year olds be lining up at the door too though right 100 yeah yeah 100 ridiculous 0.97

03:01:06.000 all right let's see uh oh is that that's you 0.95

03:01:13.920 oh my god that was that's good hey put it back it was too good 0.95

03:01:20.080 damn it's a little cute i'd hit i mean i mean you would emma would hit yeah all right next 0.65

03:01:25.040 oh that's funny oh that's funny uh let's see here we got well who got andrew at 60 that we got 0.98

03:01:43.680 andrew at 60. oh oh i like this the the the this is actually really good oh so much better

03:01:51.520 this is so good like well no honestly whoever edit that like that's pretty good i'm very impressed

03:01:58.800 yeah it's uh all right what do we got this is thank you for the before and after by the way damn 0.60

03:02:07.600 why you got a lazy eye all of a sudden though 0.56

03:02:10.000 all of a sudden 60 she got the lazy eye you know she'd be looking in two different directions

03:02:16.160 well things start moving you know yeah you know one

03:02:22.480 um wow okay can we get can we get a show of hands of of those of you who said that you would be hotter

03:02:28.480 as you get older uh would you revise your answer now show of hands if you would revise your answer

03:02:35.600 they're committed i don't know dude um like i could make some really good pho

03:02:43.360 right yes she would make really good i would make really good pho bruh yeah 0.93

03:02:49.600 oh me so horny me love you long time 0.98

03:02:56.080 oh she makes good pho

03:02:58.640 now i just want to make sure that we got this answer though correct uh brian did ask you both

03:03:05.520 if you could be cosmetically altered so that you looked like that right this second but it took no

03:03:12.160 time off your life you both said that you would and you still would commit to that because if that is

03:03:17.040 the case right the crucible will in fact raise the cash to have you surgically altered to look like

03:03:23.920 that i promise we will do that so go ahead i will chip in if you're willing to do that and

03:03:29.440 the whatever podcast is going to chip in if you would be surgically altered to look like your 70

03:03:33.680 year old self go ahead and raise your hand i love this idea andrew i will equally contribute anyone

03:03:40.080 brian will equally contribute we will make sure that you are surgically altered to look like your 70

03:03:45.040 year old self raise your hand if you want us to do that also andrew if i can just i think to

03:03:50.320 sweeten up the deal we're not going to send you to turkey we're going to send you we're going to

03:03:54.880 keep you local we're going to get you the best plastic surgeon that plastic hollywood hollywood

03:04:00.880 plastic surgeon if you prefer south korea they're pretty good we can in fact i have a couple of

03:04:05.360 millionaire chatters who are like consider it done we'll just take care of it right this second

03:04:09.760 you're willing to take the commitment all the way to yes i would be hotter at 70 and it won't shave a

03:04:16.960 day off my life and it won't go ahead and tell us and we'll take care of that raise of hands if

03:04:22.160 you're going to do that see yeah i would i would okay all right are you doing like that's a legally

03:04:29.600 binding contract by the way so we will sue you if you don't do it just saying um draft up uh

03:04:37.520 drafted up boys drafted up such a liar too like why just keep with the cope with the live 0.58

03:04:42.720 right like he got caught you know you're trolling you know you're lying through your teeth you're not 0.98

03:04:48.240 going to do the surgery to look like that lady come on unreal but i'm i'm just saying what's that

03:04:56.080 word cope mean what's that you're just saying what i'll let time do its thing oh okay okay yeah

03:05:02.560 that makes sense yeah i just personally would not wait andrew i have a simpler idea no hold on i think

03:05:08.240 the plastic because the women when it comes to this plastic surgery thing will argue well hold on 1.00

03:05:13.280 when it comes to plastic surgery there's a risk to your health anytime you go under anesthesia

03:05:18.400 hollywood has makeup that without the use of plastic surgery that's very convincing so how about for

03:05:29.920 how do we do this we will fund their makeup expenses and for the the next 10 years we will

03:05:36.000 provide them for makeup provide you for the makeup one year we'll just do it for one year we'll provide

03:05:41.440 the cost every single day the makeup artist will come in and get you all dialed up as your 70 year

03:05:46.240 old self and you can go out to nightclubs and you can you get man you can do it up granny yeah maybe 0.94

03:05:53.600 wait we could get a prosthetic one of those prosthetic faces like the face mask they're very convincing

03:05:58.560 so you don't have to pay a dime not a dime spend it not a dime no surgery no surgery we'll take care of

03:06:07.280 it all right we'll talk after the show yeah we'll get it set up yeah by the way i just want to let you

03:06:13.760 know though the um that there has been a social experiment where this was done and the woman did 0.80

03:06:20.400 sadly uh take her own take her own life after just six months of this experiment another experiment was 1.00

03:06:27.920 done where a woman dressed as a man and sadly that woman also took her life after a very short

03:06:33.200 amount of time uh so i did i did want to let you know about the risk but don't worry it's not going

03:06:37.360 to take a single day off your life and you're going to be way hotter right oh andrew are you talking

03:06:41.440 about nora vincent i think that's yeah yeah well that's the second example the second example yeah yeah

03:06:46.400 yeah i look you guys gotta put your put your money where your mouth is gotta do it you gotta do it

03:06:54.720 you gotta do it you don't do it in fact i feel like the entire internet will help contribute to

03:07:00.880 that just to watch what happens we need after a week when you're on your knees crying and go my god

03:07:06.640 i can't believe how awful this is i think they will we got to do this experiment we got to do it

03:07:12.320 and if these two girls if they back out because they're scared no offense yeah this is open not

03:07:18.320 just to you we'll do it to for somebody else we'll do it we'll do it we'll do it we'll do it

03:07:30.640 by the way uh over to the whatever chat can you put a one in the chat if any of these women looked 1.00

03:07:38.960 better at 60 and a two in the chat if they didn't and then brian if you don't mind bringing up the chat

03:07:45.840 so that these delusional bimbos can see for themselves uh i would appreciate it 1.00

03:07:55.360 that's a lot of twos

03:08:02.320 yeah that's a lot of twos man oh wait also chat i think that's a really good do you guys want to see

03:08:10.240 us do that every show we can do that every single show so those of you in the discord that's going to

03:08:16.640 be our new thing we're going to do it every single show do if you guys do do it though do like the

03:08:21.760 before and after like the pre can you put by the way did any more submissions it was that was the last

03:08:29.120 one okay all right we'll do that i think it's a good segment we'll add to it i do have a going back to

03:08:36.560 the being submissive conversation i want to show bow video version one before i show bow video version

03:08:44.720 two and i want you guys to react to this go ahead if you can pull up version one

03:08:56.240 oh boom yep i kind of missed it was it did it did we miss it no boom huge bow

03:09:05.040 wow huge bow i this is my this is actually my ex-girlfriend we broke up unfortunately she was

03:09:11.840 she wasn't doing enough for me so i had very high standards like so yeah this is my ex-girlfriend 0.85

03:09:17.920 this is at my um my apartment and she's doing good i mean she wasn't perfect but you know she tried her best

03:09:25.520 i like i'm a fan of noodles so could you close the door um so one more time just so the bow really

03:09:36.320 quick the bow just did it boom huge bow okay would you bow for your for your man i would because

03:09:47.280 i feel like in asian culture it's just a respectful thing okay all right would you do it um if that

03:09:53.360 i guess if that was my culture but no all right would you would you do a bow for your boyfriend or 0.87

03:10:01.520 whatever i'm asian and i would not i would not bow for my boyfriend but may i you would not but if it's

03:10:08.960 like yeah like but like again um it's not something that i would have to do in my culture to bow to like

03:10:17.840 my significant other that would be for my elders no but he asked for it you wouldn't do it okay you

03:10:24.480 had something because yeah bowing is up but i love welcoming my boyfriend like because i get excited

03:10:30.400 for him to come home and i would like so bowing just feels weird but i would be like i often like just

03:10:35.280 jump on i don't know just so you would do it him you would do it you'd have the bow i wouldn't do

03:10:41.440 the bow but that would be my bow i would say like because to me that's like the welcoming thing oh he

03:10:47.520 asks you about i don't know that's fucking weird if it's not our culture that's kind of weird i don't 0.99

03:10:52.400 think that i mean i think it would be a joke he's a fucking ginger he's a ginger and he wants you to hit 0.99

03:10:58.960 the bow i mean that's a very early unrealistic um what do you mean because he's a ginger what's wrong 0.99

03:11:06.400 hold on they fucking bow scottish oh i mean i i see this just as a sarcastic thing then like i 0.98

03:11:14.400 probably would do it because i think okay would you mind would you mind if i just gave you briefly 0.98

03:11:17.920 a bit of pushback wait wait really quick before the pushback let me just get the answers from the

03:11:22.640 girls uh would you would you bow for your man no no way really quick why i i feel like it has to be

03:11:31.680 equally yoked in a relationship and the bow i i feel it's almost giving them more respect than

03:11:38.880 they give me in return wait remind me did you say you want a man to pay for the first date 1.00

03:11:46.320 if he does initiate the plans yes do you initiate plans no oh you're not equally yoked then are you but

03:11:52.480 i'm actually more comfortable in my submissive energy i don't initiate plans wait so you're more

03:11:58.160 comfortable in your submissive energy then why wouldn't you bow yeah yeah your dominant boyfriend 0.84

03:12:03.360 says i want you to bow every single time i come through the door so for me submissiveness is very

03:12:09.920 different from what traditional yeah because submissiveness to you means equality right so i feel

03:12:16.880 that everyone contributes different things and for me i would want a more assertive dominant boyfriend

03:12:25.520 um and by that i mean someone who's more decisive who's willing to take the lead when it comes to 0.76

03:12:30.960 logical things yeah let's get to the butt let's get to the butt but no i i just but bowing to your 0.67

03:12:38.960 significant other is not what's culturally acceptable it's not what why do you defer to 0.67

03:12:47.040 think culturally acceptable first of all inside of the united states is culturally acceptable for 0.98

03:12:52.880 a woman to shove a pineapple up her vagina on a screen for money what and you're worried about the 1.00

03:12:59.280 cultural acceptability of a fucking bow can you square that for me real quick i just thought this was 0.99

03:13:06.320 in relation to culture um however i just feel that that's not something that i'm comfortable with 0.98

03:13:12.640 doing because i'm used to greeting my elders with bows but not my significant partner yeah okay so this

03:13:19.280 doesn't really answer to the question that i asked you you said that it's not culturally acceptable but it

03:13:24.800 is culturally acceptable first and foremost is nothing culturally prohibiting anybody from bowing in the united

03:13:30.400 states and uh bows have been something which has been done in deference since early colonial times in

03:13:36.560 fact now uh right now in modernity there's nothing i can think of which isn't culturally acceptable it's

03:13:43.840 culturally acceptable for men to put on strap-ons and walk down the streets during certain parades

03:13:48.880 and yet somehow this the idea that culture somehow is the prohibition that's insane to me what is not

03:13:56.320 permitted here in fact i can't even think of one thing that every perversion i can think of is permitted

03:14:02.960 how could that be a barrier for entry to you bowing so when i said culturally acceptable i did misspeak

03:14:12.800 because i was going to get at the point that as someone who is asian i do it's a part of my culture

03:14:20.080 for us to bow to elders and in relation to that i'm more used to how it's done culturally and

03:14:28.960 i just do not see how it's related to like relationships and i don't think i owe them

03:14:35.440 that bow even if they were to ask that wait may i or sorry go ahead andrew if you want to continue

03:14:40.800 no no you you can jump in oh okay um question do you want to get married one day i do okay um do you

03:14:47.200 have any expectations on you know your boyfriend or whatever at the time you want him to get your

03:14:53.360 ring i'm assuming how much should he spend on the ring it doesn't matter for me you'll you're fine

03:14:59.200 with a cubic zirconia from amazon sure okay um do you want him when he proposes would you have an

03:15:08.880 expectation that he get down on one knee to do it yes because i do like some traditional values uh wait

03:15:15.920 so hold on you want a man by the way i think getting down on one knee is way more of a 0.56

03:15:22.000 bitch move than staying staying standing and just going like this first off if the guy's got bad knees 1.00

03:15:28.640 that's a big fucking ask but you want a guy to kneel for you get down look up at you like a little 1.00

03:15:35.680 bitch here's three thousand dollars here i got a fucking right here um please please will you marry 1.00

03:15:47.120 me fuck that i still think i still think it's way better to just bring up the example that 1.00

03:15:52.640 most women will get on their knees and allow a dude to jizz on their face that was gonna be 1.00

03:15:56.320 that seems wait yes that's way more that's not most wait and do it than a fucking bow i'm just 0.99

03:16:01.680 saying like that's way more degrading than a fucking bow what do you want me to say andrew that i was 0.96

03:16:07.600 i was just getting to that so have you ever given have you ever asked the d 0.97

03:16:16.160 have you ever asked the d don't feel like i want to share those okay she says oh my god heaven forbid a 0.97

03:16:22.320 woman gives a blow job in 2024 oh my god a blow what 1800s oh no okay 1.00

03:16:33.600 fine you don't do it but the same woman the same woman that says i would never bow for a man 1.00

03:16:40.800 will suck a guy's dick within 30 minutes of meeting him that's a fact 1.00

03:16:48.720 i don't know what i'm 1.00

03:16:53.280 that's what i'm talking about that's why he's giving me that's why he's the goat 0.61

03:17:05.440 it's also coming from what is the intention behind him wanting me to bow to greet him every day what 0.81

03:17:11.760 is the intention of him wanting you to insert his phallus into your mouth and then expel some 1.00

03:17:19.760 fucking jizz bro bro it's crazy to me bro these girls will suck a dick they don't want to hit a 1.00

03:17:27.840 bow huh hold on 1.00

03:17:29.280 well i mean you're talking to her she she's not that and you're talking about i don't think it's

03:17:40.880 most women anyways wait she you're you're saying she she hasn't no but like she doesn't necessarily 1.00

03:17:46.800 you said like within half an hour you would just like go with the guy and like as the d but then

03:17:52.560 wouldn't want to bow she did that yeah but i'm saying like some girl you ever had one night stands 1.00

03:17:59.120 i have how many

03:18:01.280 oh my gosh i would say do do do do sorry how many do do do like so how quick like and how quick

03:18:14.160 what do you mean from like meeting them to

03:18:20.160 maybe a couple to several hours

03:18:25.520 so you'll let a man penetrate you

03:18:30.480 i just don't see how those are they correlate to me because sexual the sexualness of everything

03:18:37.200 doesn't correlate to what i find respectful because i don't think that having sexual relationships

03:18:44.240 with someone equates like what your values should be in a relationship i think you're allowed to have

03:18:51.120 those opinions be nuanced

03:18:52.640 i just don't understand like there's so there's this objection to well i would well i get it though

03:19:06.240 brian okay i understand look you're totally right it's perfectly acceptable for you to have nuanced needs

03:19:12.240 inside of a relationship i can totally understand my logical reasonable brain that you could enter into

03:19:19.520 a one-night stand with a guy a little blast a little over your face but not want to bow to the man of

03:19:24.320 your dreams right i mean what man wouldn't want that out of his woman honestly 0.99

03:19:32.400 i mean i don't even know what you're arguing with here brian she's absolutely right

03:19:39.920 i don't i just don't get it i don't get it

03:19:44.320 goat donated two hundred dollars she's gonna swallow but ain't gonna bow how 0.87

03:19:49.200 do you like my new ones thank you goat i a pre goat emojis in the chat for goat thank you man

03:19:57.200 appreciate the tts i look i just don't get it like you'll do all this for a guy and maybe it's quirky

03:20:05.440 maybe it's unorthodox maybe it's a little out there but if you like this guy and he's got this

03:20:12.080 like quirk or whatever and he's like hey i want i want to see you hit the i want to see you hit the bow

03:20:16.640 when when you greet me you don't even have to do that in public because that'd be

03:20:20.720 that might be a bit embarrassing you should still do it but whatever and he's like yo i just i i want

03:20:26.560 the bow you're not going to do that for your man would you bow for your you're not gonna do that for

03:20:31.360 your man no the love of your life he's perfect you're gonna bow you're gonna bow for no woman 1.00

03:20:37.760 what are you talking about why why would any guy ever bow for a woman wait wait question he's 0.99

03:20:43.040 fucking perfect he's your perfect guy but he's got this one in your view red flag but he's perfect 0.96

03:20:50.160 and he'll never cheat on you and he's awesome in all the ways you'd like man to be awesome 0.99

03:20:55.920 but he wants you to bow do you pass him up i do that is the most r slurred 0.97

03:21:02.400 shit i have ever fucking hurt i'm you perfect but he wants you to bow and you're submissive 1.00

03:21:12.560 what else are you not going to do for him then i don't see how that makes me r-word because i have 0.99

03:21:18.560 certain expectations when it comes to relationships and there are certain things that i won't compromise

03:21:24.400 on such as being submissive i don't think that you making someone bow and them disagreeing with

03:21:31.120 it makes you not submissive submissive just because you're submissive does not mean that you lack respect

03:21:36.320 for yourself wait so you would you would bow to other people though yes it's my question you you want

03:21:45.840 to you want to work a job right you want to like have a job a career well maybe not a traditional job

03:21:55.120 i do want to become like an entrepreneur and so if you could have a job and it paid a hundred thousand

03:22:04.320 dollars a year and the only thing you had to do is you were a greeter at a store and the requirement

03:22:13.840 was you had to bow to each guest who entered the store and just greet them oh hello welcome

03:22:21.600 would you take that job

03:22:24.960 so yes because of the money well i don't think so really because if you think about it there are

03:22:31.280 certain things that men will never compromise on because it will go against their pride

03:22:38.000 so just because a woman's perfect does not mean that he would always wait so let's say okay let's say a

03:22:43.280 woman i'm trying to think what a sort of such a benign request from a woman would be of a man but he

03:22:50.880 gets his perfect woman who will be loyal to him for the rest give him children but she has one benign 1.00

03:22:59.360 request that's just kind of a little oh that's a little i'm trying to think what it is i can think of

03:23:03.760 one what is it maybe like if she requests him to always get his jacket off and you know lay it

03:23:10.720 out front all the time for her and for her to sit down like a lot of men would disagree with that

03:23:16.240 in return he gets his perfect woman but i i feel that a lot and that's the that's the mountain the hill they

03:23:24.880 die on right but a lot of men aren't willing to do something that makes them seem vulnerable and

03:23:30.480 especially in front of other people in my opinion

03:23:37.040 i guess my question would be for you you got your perfect woman right 0.99

03:23:41.600 would you let it would you let her hold it like a hose when you pee 0.54

03:23:48.880 every time every time you pee would you let her hold it like a hose she's like i don't think that's 1.00

03:23:54.160 that maps on one to one to the bow but uh so i have to go and get her every if i'm at 1.00

03:24:00.880 fucking work babe come to fucking work so you can hold my dick while i pee no like like you could 1.00

03:24:05.920 just do it like once a day you can do it at home you know like you don't see anyone it doesn't 1.00

03:24:10.640 she's the perfect woman she's yeah i'll make the concession it's a little strange but fuck it yeah 0.99

03:24:16.080 for the perfect woman yeah you can hold my dick once or twice i invite welcome yeah yeah why not 1.00

03:24:25.440 it's weird it's i don't i think that's a bigger ask than the bow but sure 0.99

03:24:31.440 yeah i think it depends on the intention bro i don't know if you guys know the definition

03:24:35.520 actually i would like to get into the intention what do you mean the intention what is the intent

03:24:40.640 yeah yeah no if it's like the intention is degrading no no no well that's what i mean if

03:24:46.560 like if if it's i don't know it can be a little fetish i guess or it can be like this is in his

03:24:52.320 culture like a welcoming thing that that's different if it's like i'm the king and you are

03:24:58.640 my slave beneath me type of feeling no i'm not slave i don't get why does it always have to be

03:25:05.360 such an no but i'm just saying if but that's what i mean i mean if that's the intention of like

03:25:09.520 what if he just says i'm the king and you're not the king you don't want the bow because that's how

03:25:15.600 you show me respect when you come in my door for me personally i like the bow you hit the door

03:25:22.960 i like the bow now i'm going to give you the western equivalence of this yeah you may think

03:25:27.280 this is silly but you know what i really like my wife to do every once in a while right i've never told 0.92

03:25:32.720 her this but i still like it anyway a good a nice curtsy you know a nice what isn't that isn't 1.00

03:25:38.880 a curtsy what's a hurtsy a curtsy a curtsy a curtsy oh you don't know what a curtsy is like a

03:25:45.760 oh yeah yeah yeah if it's your thing that's fine what's wrong with a curtsy

03:25:53.120 hey man if it's your thing and if that's you're you're both like comfortable with that like i have

03:25:57.360 no problem with that you've never curtsy i don't i mean probably sarcastically or like i've i mean not

03:26:04.800 in a like serious uh i owe you like respect type of way is that what i wouldn't know when when i

03:26:11.600 would do yeah i think i mean i think it's respectful yeah i think i've never done that for 15 hours a

03:26:17.120 day and he's in like the most god-awful conditions possible to bring home the bacon i don't see what's

03:26:22.320 wrong with the curtsy i do i would do it differently like if i yeah if my boyfriend has been working all

03:26:26.800 day like i'm gonna i i love welcoming my boyfriend so i would come to the door and hug him or i would

03:26:32.880 i'd like to have like you know something cooked for him curtsy i mean honestly yeah maybe i'm just

03:26:39.120 thinking like it depends okay well i mean that's just the bow it's just about maybe the bow too maybe

03:26:44.480 i said the bow fills me with the drive to go out and fight the world to provide you a home and food to

03:26:50.240 prepare us just makes me 102 percent instead of 100 you still wouldn't then yes yo we got we got a

03:27:00.960 piece of party coming boys um we'll we'll do the roast session too while while everybody gets a little

03:27:09.600 little breather room to uh eat really quick around the table though to finish this off would you bow for

03:27:13.760 your man no bow for your man if it's conan o'brien yes conan that's right conan over anisa

03:27:21.040 yeah oh there we go i think you used to say no right oh she's oh okay all right yo dave on jackson

03:27:28.240 by the way thank you very much man appreciate it oh you had something wait you got something no what

03:27:34.480 you got guys we're gonna lower the tts here to 20 we're gonna do a roast session give me a second

03:27:41.440 boys to get that going uh austin are you able to get the messages typed out or do you want me to do it

03:27:46.800 which message i'll do it i got it it's all good save that i'll read that one later i'll get them

03:27:53.040 pulled up later guys so roast session while everybody eats their pizza before that though

03:27:57.120 can we play that bow video 2.0 yes bow video 2.0 we'll continue the conversation though on the being

03:28:03.200 submissive about blah blah blah but about video 2.0 uh it's just really quick just play it i guess

03:28:14.880 yeah sure but we might have to mute it or is it music yeah okay no no no yeah okay this is

03:28:23.360 okay what do you guys ladies this is a little but there's a twist

03:28:26.640 would you do this for your man hold yep hold on oh no what oh no oh no what the 1.00

03:28:42.560 fuck dude oh wait there's no we didn't okay we did we didn't have didn't expect that somehow the 1.00

03:28:48.080 there was no thing showing on the video whatever like our reaction do you know what i'm talking about 0.99

03:28:54.160 austin yeah okay it's fine um does anybody want some oh yeah does somebody not want pizza it's

03:29:01.120 pepperoni no i don't want you don't okay that's fine that's the most disgusting thing i've ever 0.89

03:29:08.080 seen on whatever dude why would you ever play that the beginning's good though right andrew the

03:29:13.600 beginning's good no no the twist ruined the entire movie for me bro but what if the guy loves

03:29:19.040 washing dishes what if it makes him feel strong and powerful and that's how 0.99

03:29:28.480 yeah well i mean we have a word for those men we call them bitches 1.00

03:29:34.160 yeah columbia chills i think we're good uh yeah she does emma doesn't want one i mean i've met i've 0.98

03:29:41.280 met a couple of men who tell me that they adore housework but they're always liberal progressive

03:29:45.920 scumbags every single time so guys tts is 20 we're gonna do a little roast session session we're

03:29:54.400 gonna do a little roast session so tts now set to 20 for uh oh did not mean that uh yeah tts set to 0.82

03:30:02.960 20 for i don't know 10 minutes while we you know take a little breather andrew's gonna keep us

03:30:07.920 entertained he's gonna tell us um he's gonna he's gonna he's gonna tell us about his

03:30:19.760 tell us a story from the the d gen days the d gen days andrew d gen days tts i never i've always been

03:30:28.080 nothing but a perfect stoic gentleman a philosophizer since i was a young man i've always

03:30:35.680 gone the straight and narrow brian how dare you make such insinuations as to say anything to the

03:30:42.560 contrary of that i'm sorry on uh yeah on unbelievable i would like to actually get into this though with

03:30:51.760 uh with rachel but you do look like you you can eat your pizza instead if you want this is the roast

03:30:57.760 section so everybody's about to get i'm not hungry i'm good all right yeah you're not you know my

03:31:03.680 tops for donated twenty dollars the male equivalent of a bow is opening the car door for your woman no 0.93

03:31:10.080 man is going to give up a perfect woman if she asks that any time she gets in the car you open the 0.98

03:31:15.280 door for her delulu women yeah blowing loads donated twenty dollars you can't bow but you'll bang a 1.00

03:31:23.040 stranger and let him choke you and blow a load on your faces you'll need jesus and some clam cream 0.94

03:31:32.080 the one before actually that was a great point the first super chat the first super super chat is is 0.68

03:31:38.960 stating if you were a great woman a man would be happy to go and open your door for you

03:31:45.360 it's like and and that's true they would they would go open your door every single time you got in the

03:31:53.440 car they'd open your door when you went into a building they would do all of that stuff but you

03:31:59.040 can't even get a bow like you can't get a bow but i mean who decided that that's the equivalent maybe

03:32:07.120 it's something else maybe it's like i said like what i like to do is like welcoming my boyfriend doesn't

03:32:11.360 mean that i want to bow what who said who wrote what do you welcome him with i i usually jump in

03:32:18.800 his arm and hug him and just get excited but i just i just yeah i'm just excited when my boyfriend

03:32:24.880 gets home usually when i have a boyfriend brian this daddy donated twenty dollars brian you are the

03:32:31.040 last one on the panel that needs pizza you won't lose your dumpy that way tubby tubby tubby tubby

03:32:37.600 it's true ma'am it's true but you know look i gotta i i got it chris tabernak donated twenty dollars

03:32:48.640 do you want the real accent with that or

03:32:56.560 you need you need the consonants and you need some emotion in it so yeah that face andrew

03:33:07.600 okay yeah i don't um yeah that that just sounded evil it sounded like yeah it sounded like an

03:33:15.120 exorcism needed to happen donated twenty dollars look boys brian's out here cheating on his burritos

03:33:22.560 with a greasy pizza what a degen no surprise he got his plate first gulp gulp straight to the dumpy

03:33:30.800 he he did get his plate first i'm not he he did and there was there was a lot of pizza on the plate

03:33:36.880 brian and it's all gone now i'm hungry bro i'm hungry that's fair gotta eat it's a long podcast a long 0.51

03:33:48.160 podcast man it's uh mentally it's it's uh you know it's the legendary trash panda donated 20

03:33:55.200 andrew i'm getting another one i'm getting another one share one i had a problem processing yours

03:34:02.560 the program automatically set the slider to 50 because you already look old af oh no

03:34:10.880 twenty dollars and twenty four cents first time donation keep up the good work brian and andrew

03:34:17.840 yeah we'll do grand meow will do so um chris donated twenty dollars so i see android 17 and vegeta up on

03:34:29.760 the shelf over there where did android 18 go isn't she up there too

03:34:37.760 what what what can it what kind of shitty dbz references 20 the part of the show where i can 0.92

03:34:43.840 afford to voice my aussie dollar opinions w-based chat ladies feminism has made you less feminine 1.00

03:34:51.680 drop your ego buying isn't worse than taking it up the ass prehistoric queef donated twenty dollars 0.99

03:35:00.000 would you date a guy that farts a lot but is an absolute 8.5 overall 0.99

03:35:04.640 i can answer this i would because brian sagging tits donated twenty dollars too slow please for the 1.00

03:35:16.880 love of god we can't handle any more garbage but ma'am i i need my i need my energy bro brian did you 0.98

03:35:25.040 tell him that dean agreed dean agreed live on the crucible to come on and do a dating talk panel he

03:35:32.000 agreed live right here to come on and do it and then do a debate afterwards did you tell him that

03:35:38.240 let's see if they stick if he sticks to it you know well i have them live on video you saw the video

03:35:43.200 right we'll see terminal underscore last donated twenty dollars three asians walk onto a podcast the host

03:35:52.880 says i've seen this one before all these donations and brian gets little caesars it's not

03:35:59.120 lololololololololololololololololololololololoolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloololoisteswarhiololooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolooloolo

03:36:29.120 Not a feminist in sight. 1.00

03:36:32.120 Yeah, I noticed that there wasn't very many feminists recently 1.00

03:36:34.660 pulling people out of the floodwaters either.

03:36:37.880 Just wanted to point that out.

03:36:39.320 I did see a whole lot of people getting pulled out of floodwaters.

03:36:42.960 Not a feminist in sight. 1.00

03:36:45.540 Can you pull the video? 1.00

03:36:47.080 Saving the dogs or some shit? 0.99

03:36:50.960 By the way, I was prepared this time. 1.00

03:36:56.780 Oh, look at that.

03:36:58.120 A little microwave pizza. 1.00

03:37:00.220 You got shit? 1.00

03:37:00.760 Yeah. 1.00

03:37:01.840 All right, let's play it.

03:37:02.720 No way.

03:37:03.820 Oven.

03:37:05.200 Wife would never give me microwave pizza. 1.00

03:37:07.840 Make it bigger, please. 1.00

03:37:11.760 Damn. 1.00

03:37:14.380 These piece of shit men. 1.00

03:37:18.120 How could the... 1.00

03:37:19.660 Man.

03:37:22.140 No empathy.

03:37:23.380 They don't have any empathy, Brian.

03:37:24.720 Man, these toxic masculinity right here. 0.97

03:37:33.380 The problem is that they're not saving the kittens either.

03:37:36.660 Just the dogs.

03:37:37.840 Hopefully.

03:37:38.140 I mean, you can't really blame them for that.

03:37:47.660 Ultimately, the cats, they're a little bit smarter.

03:37:50.460 They go to high ground. 1.00

03:37:51.720 It's the dumbass dogs that are left behind. 1.00

03:37:53.800 Like, what do you want them to do? 1.00

03:37:55.120 The dumbass dogs. 1.00

03:37:57.860 Damn, look at that. 1.00

03:37:58.640 They're on the roofs, though. 0.99

03:38:00.120 What the... 1.00

03:38:00.620 Damn. 1.00

03:38:01.640 Shit, that's great. 1.00

03:38:06.220 Damn, that's a cute dog. 1.00

03:38:07.560 Adopt that. 1.00

03:38:08.220 Adopt that dog.

03:38:10.440 Oh, man.

03:38:11.920 Yeah, this toxic masculinity.

03:38:14.280 We need to put a stop to this.

03:38:15.960 I mean, it's just...

03:38:16.860 How dare these men...

03:38:18.580 Okay.

03:38:19.000 All right.

03:38:20.540 No.

03:38:22.120 All right.

03:38:22.980 All right.

03:38:23.620 There you go.

03:38:24.360 Yeah, you know.

03:38:25.100 All right.

03:38:27.180 So...

03:38:27.540 That's it for the roast, boys?

03:38:28.520 Come on.

03:38:28.640 Oh, I paused it temporarily.

03:38:30.420 We got some coming in.

03:38:32.400 The legendary Trash Panda donated $20.

03:38:36.120 Chair 5, I also had a problem processing yours.

03:38:40.160 It kept giving you a mustache, so I took a closer look.

03:38:44.020 You tucking your sack back, bruv.

03:38:46.380 Them boys must be taped and packed tight, son.

03:38:49.260 Talking about you.

03:38:50.180 Whoa.

03:38:51.720 What?

03:38:52.220 You got a response?

03:38:53.380 You want to scoot into the table, so you...

03:38:54.920 What did they say?

03:38:55.860 On the back?

03:38:57.060 Just scoot your chair into the table a little bit, so you can...

03:39:00.040 You know.

03:39:00.620 Wait, what am I responding to?

03:39:07.720 Hey, yeah, yeah.

03:39:08.600 All right.

03:39:11.460 Dylan Joe donated $21.

03:39:14.480 Dating should be like baseball.

03:39:16.500 If you get a home run in the first few dates, go steady.

03:39:19.620 Ever since cell phones were given to our generation, it added a whole texting face to dating BS.

03:39:26.220 Peace chill with the fat jokes.

03:39:28.720 Hmm.

03:39:29.560 What?

03:39:29.860 North Alberta kid donated $20.81.

03:39:33.220 Oh, well.

03:39:34.220 Canadian.

03:39:43.740 Canadian.

03:39:44.000 The incels are so annoyed right now.

03:39:47.180 Fart box donated $20. 0.97

03:39:49.440 I would suck a fart out that doesn't hold it like a bong hit Morgan. 1.00

03:39:53.200 Morgan. 0.99

03:39:54.540 What?

03:39:55.700 What?

03:39:57.180 You want to respond to that, Morgan?

03:39:59.580 I'd not like to respond.

03:40:01.600 Okay.

03:40:02.180 Ryan Calloway donated $25. 1.00

03:40:05.320 Please add Trump saying shut up, silly woman, to the soundboard. 0.99

03:40:09.880 From the snake poem he reads at his rallies, so many places to use it. 0.99

03:40:14.640 By the way, this pizza roast session was a great idea.

03:40:18.960 Thank you, man.

03:40:19.720 Don Becker donated $20.

03:40:21.920 Andrew, I broke down to a femme today why women didn't have bank accounts so they couldn't occur that back then, 1.00

03:40:27.920 and she just froze and said sounds like no freedom.

03:40:33.440 Hmm.

03:40:34.060 Yeah, that's no freedom.

03:40:35.300 Brian's failing intestinal donated $20.

03:40:38.200 We can't hold out much longer.

03:40:40.680 Brian, please.

03:40:42.520 That's true, man.

03:40:43.180 If they could talk, man.

03:40:46.500 They could talk. 0.61

03:40:47.600 If you could be a fly in my intestinal.

03:40:49.800 Grid 2 Go-Kart Sports donated $20.

03:40:52.900 Do any ladies on the panel have armpit hair to show off? 1.00

03:40:56.560 A little garnish makes pizza delicious.

03:40:59.520 It's a shame Brian was too cheap to spring for real pizza with pineapple.

03:41:04.780 Any armpit hair check?

03:41:07.300 Anybody?

03:41:08.500 Armpit hair?

03:41:09.780 Armpit hair check?

03:41:10.740 Okay, just check.

03:41:11.460 All right.

03:41:12.040 We got more coming.

03:41:13.840 Daryl underscore Frank Castle 512 donated $20.

03:41:18.700 If it were Springfield, Ohio, the Haitians would have saved the cats too. 0.97

03:41:23.700 They got to secure their next meals lmao.

03:41:29.000 Burrito essay donated $20.

03:41:31.600 Uh-oh.

03:41:31.820 A couple of eights on this panel are eights in a different sense, as in Brian would vomit

03:41:36.940 his burrito after looking at their faces for eight milliseconds.

03:41:40.760 What? 1.00

03:41:41.540 The fuck? 1.00

03:41:43.220 Okay. 1.00

03:41:43.880 The Rosetta Stone donated $20.

03:41:46.280 Thank you, Rosetta.

03:41:46.820 Love the way words anymore are being appropriated and used without even understanding the standard

03:41:52.220 definition.

03:41:52.820 They just assign random definitions based on what they feel the word should mean.

03:41:58.080 I want to be ninja donated $20.

03:42:02.460 Hum, you know what?

03:42:04.260 Ma, maybe I too could be ninja.

03:42:06.640 I want to be ninja.

03:42:07.620 I want to be ninja.

03:42:08.760 I want to chop, chop, chop.

03:42:10.800 Chow down.

03:42:11.300 Take chow down to Chinatown. 1.00

03:42:13.040 I want to be ninja.

03:42:15.520 War.

03:42:15.940 Snapmore donated $20.

03:42:17.800 Thank you, Snapmore.

03:42:18.420 Brickson, I'm sorry, but you aged 10 years in one year.

03:42:22.440 Stressful job.

03:42:22.800 We love you and we care.

03:42:24.600 Please hit the gym.

03:42:25.740 Hi, Morgay.

03:42:27.440 Morgay?

03:42:27.980 Morgay. 1.00

03:42:29.080 Shit. 1.00

03:42:29.940 Shit. 1.00

03:42:30.440 You want to tell us something, Morgan? 1.00

03:42:32.380 Dylan Joe, there once was a man from Peru who fell asleep in his canoe. 0.99

03:42:36.380 While dreaming of Venus, he played with his penis and woke up covered in goo. 0.99

03:42:41.880 All right, Dylan Joe. 1.00

03:42:43.000 Thank you.

03:42:43.360 Sorry that the filter got it.

03:42:45.920 A sheep donated $20.

03:42:47.640 I work full time and take care of the babies.

03:42:51.360 Should I still be submissive?

03:42:53.400 We make more than enough to live off one income, but he can't do his hobbies otherwise.

03:42:57.480 We're switching.

03:42:58.300 I just want to be a star.

03:43:00.960 Thoughts?

03:43:02.000 Yes, you should.

03:43:03.300 Techno Trooper donated $20.

03:43:05.940 Ladies, give us your best hawk tune if bowing is too much. 1.00

03:43:09.920 Anybody want to...

03:43:11.100 Let's hear the hawk tune.

03:43:12.680 What's that?

03:43:13.920 What's that? 1.00

03:43:17.640 Damn, bro. 1.00

03:43:19.680 Okay. 1.00

03:43:20.120 All right.

03:43:20.580 You don't have to.

03:43:21.560 You don't either.

03:43:22.280 Well, we don't know what it is.

03:43:23.140 Hawk Tua! 0.96

03:43:24.240 There you go.

03:43:24.740 Okay, there you go.

03:43:25.320 Good job.

03:43:27.300 I'll let...

03:43:28.060 We are going back up to...

03:43:29.480 We're going to do the TTS at 100 now for the rest of the show.

03:43:32.140 So down from 200.

03:43:34.020 I know there's some that are still coming through, so I'll give you guys a grace period.

03:43:37.780 But if you guys...

03:43:38.820 If you're watching now, you're watching live, I guess here's the cutoff.

03:43:42.700 I'll do the grace period.

03:43:43.820 I'll let them come through.

03:43:44.680 But we're going to do 100 and up now for TTS.

03:43:48.340 No filter donated $20. 0.99

03:43:50.280 Yo, that's bullshit, bro. 1.00

03:43:50.960 Big labias don't matter. 1.00

03:43:52.600 You can challenge.

03:43:52.980 Big outer lips and small inner lips FTW.

03:43:55.860 Big outer.

03:43:56.260 I like my coochies to look like moose knuckles.

03:43:58.940 I mean, that's good, too.

03:43:59.900 Big outer is good, too.

03:44:01.620 But, like, it's better if it's both.

03:44:03.660 Chat donated $20.

03:44:05.300 This panel has the energy of a dying horse. 1.00

03:44:08.760 Come on, bitches. 1.00

03:44:10.120 Wake up. 1.00

03:44:11.220 None of you are pretty enough to lack a personality.

03:44:15.140 Omae wa mo shindeiru.

03:44:17.560 Nani? 0.90

03:44:18.000 Dylan Joe donated $21.

03:44:19.660 What about Rachel being going back and forth? 0.84

03:44:21.040 Brian may be big now, but I can sense a comeback. 0.79

03:44:24.440 Him and Andrew are going to get shredded and come for you neckbeards. 0.84

03:44:28.440 Just watch. 0.98

03:44:29.380 Oh, yeah.

03:44:31.440 2026 is my year.

03:44:33.500 Prehistoric queef donated $20. 0.89

03:44:36.180 Would you be with a stud dude that farts a lot? 0.72

03:44:38.380 Show of hands, ladies. 0.89

03:44:39.340 Would you be with a stud, but he farts a lot? 0.83

03:44:42.120 Yeah.

03:44:43.080 Because he can work on it. 0.97

03:44:44.740 So ridiculous. 0.96

03:44:45.620 He can work on his nutrition. 0.93

03:44:48.600 Rachel Wilson donated $20.

03:44:50.420 Please ask the ladies if they would still want equal rights if they had to draw straws 1.00

03:44:55.880 with men senior year of high school to randomly assign difficult, dangerous, and dirty jobs.

03:45:03.580 Terminal underscore Anst donated $20.

03:45:06.800 Good call putting Morgan on this panel.

03:45:09.720 Without her, the next hottest one is Andrew's beard.

03:45:12.740 It is nice.

03:45:17.120 Which is, by the way, by the way, better than price.

03:45:19.260 $20.

03:45:20.400 If I should still be submissive, Andrew, should I get some extra help from the husband?

03:45:25.740 It's a lot to take care of the house fully and children and work full time.

03:45:30.240 All right, guys.

03:45:30.800 We're going to do...

03:45:31.840 First of all, well, I just want to point something out very quickly to you, Ashy. 1.00

03:45:35.920 I think you're full of shit. 1.00

03:45:37.480 And I don't think that you work full time so your husband can do his hobbies. 1.00

03:45:40.580 Just shut up. 1.00

03:45:41.200 Just shut up and stop coping and fucking lying to me. 1.00

03:45:43.800 Just stop. 1.00

03:45:44.880 You're full of shit. 1.00

03:45:46.340 Nobody believes you that you're so altruistic you wanted to work full time and take care 1.00

03:45:50.940 of your children so your husband could pursue, what, golfing? 1.00

03:45:54.160 Just get the fuck out of here with your bullshit. 1.00

03:45:56.320 Bullshit. 1.00

03:45:57.040 Nobody believes you. 1.00

03:45:57.980 That is...

03:45:59.960 So I'm going to change the threshold.

03:46:03.560 There might be some stragglers, but we do have to bring it back up.

03:46:06.780 So it has just been changed.

03:46:10.820 TTS is 100.

03:46:12.180 I'll read the super chats.

03:46:13.500 There was another one that came through.

03:46:15.640 I'll read this really quick.

03:46:16.600 Brian, do you garnish those pizzas with cheese from under?

03:46:21.740 Bring back AVA. 0.99

03:46:23.300 Yeah, sure.

03:46:24.000 Yeah.

03:46:24.360 Thank you.

03:46:24.840 Thank you, man.

03:46:25.740 Let's see here what we have.

03:46:27.180 Let me refresh this.

03:46:28.680 There was a TTS that came in before this at 100.

03:46:31.260 Let me play that.

03:46:32.180 We'll do the supers.

03:46:33.300 I'll get those pulled up here in just a sec.

03:46:35.420 But guys, TTS is now 100.

03:46:37.180 Thank you guys who participated in the pizza session and the roast session.

03:46:41.120 Let me...

03:46:41.920 Uh-oh.

03:46:43.720 It's not showing.

03:46:45.540 Let me see what's going on here.

03:46:49.540 Okay.

03:46:49.900 Okay.

03:46:50.020 To the person who sent in 100 before we did that, it's not going to let me pull it up,

03:46:56.240 but I'm going to go through the history and I'm going to read it.

03:46:58.360 I apologize that we can't pull it up.

03:47:00.420 But you did send in.

03:47:02.000 Let me see.

03:47:03.360 This was from Techno Trooper.

03:47:05.160 Techno, sorry.

03:47:05.720 But it was, ladies, holidays coming up.

03:47:11.580 How much should your partner spend for your Christmas gifts?

03:47:15.640 Oh, hashtag recession money.

03:47:17.280 I would say $1,000.

03:47:22.500 For the Christmas gifts?

03:47:24.080 Okay.

03:47:25.120 I don't...

03:47:26.200 I don't care about gifts, money.

03:47:29.420 I wouldn't want to spend time with him, but I don't...

03:47:32.080 Yeah, I don't care about material.

03:47:33.580 Okay, so zero.

03:47:34.560 No, there's no amount of money?

03:47:35.780 No.

03:47:36.520 Okay.

03:47:37.960 10, just kidding.

03:47:39.040 I don't know.

03:47:39.760 I don't care.

03:47:40.360 $100.

03:47:41.920 I'd say, like, depending on what he's comfortable spending, but $20 is, like,

03:47:47.060 I guess reasonable.

03:47:49.040 Around $50, but I also like things that are, like, handmade.

03:47:53.500 Handmade?

03:47:53.980 Okay.

03:47:54.820 I don't think there should be a monetary value necessarily.

03:47:58.100 I mean, I'm a big gift giver, but no monetary value.

03:48:04.460 Doesn't matter.

03:48:06.840 And Anissa, the only woman here who actually has a boyfriend, no offense to the rest of you,

03:48:12.680 how much do you expect your boyfriend for the little holidays, you know?

03:48:17.340 I don't really have a number.

03:48:19.820 Okay.

03:48:20.400 I'll read this.

03:48:21.060 Daniel Nasiri, Brian, next time they refute the traditionally...

03:48:24.480 Or wait, let me read...

03:48:25.140 Hold on.

03:48:25.500 Hide that.

03:48:26.520 Sons of Liberty, my house in Florida was submerged by over four feet of ocean water.

03:48:30.280 Sorry, man.

03:48:31.920 Came in after that.

03:48:32.740 I tried.

03:48:34.080 We cut it off.

03:48:36.620 Forward bow challenge them with the hypocrisy of providing the reverse bow with the hair-pulling,

03:48:41.220 bareback, doggy style.

03:48:42.600 So, basically, you'll arch your back in a different way for a man, but you won't do 0.98

03:48:54.980 a little benign, innocent...

03:48:57.320 But that's an assumption.

03:48:58.060 ...wholesome bow. 0.72

03:48:59.880 You think...

03:49:00.320 Is it...

03:49:00.780 Hold on.

03:49:01.400 That's an assumption.

03:49:02.240 It's like, oh...

03:49:02.640 Do we have any virgins? 1.00

03:49:03.500 Do we have any virgins here at the table? 1.00

03:49:05.740 Pulled the hair back, doggy style?

03:49:07.080 You know what?

03:49:07.560 I think that that's fair.

03:49:09.320 I think that she makes a fair point.

03:49:10.380 It is fair.

03:49:11.000 That is an assumption.

03:49:12.000 I just want to make sure, then, right, that this will be a prying question.

03:49:16.280 You don't have to answer it, of course, but I assume that you've just never had sex 0.91

03:49:19.760 doggy style, then? 0.56

03:49:22.040 No, there's a difference between, like, pulled hair back and, like, being super whatever...

03:49:27.400 No, no.

03:49:27.420 That's not what he said.

03:49:28.340 He didn't say pulled hair back.

03:49:29.460 He said the back.

03:49:30.560 The neck up in the arch.

03:49:31.800 It seems like she'd be a wholesome partner, plus is a bit of a smoke show. 1.00

03:49:35.780 Grats to whoever nabs her. 1.00

03:49:39.440 All right.

03:49:40.280 But he's saying that that is a submissive position to be put in.

03:49:44.900 If you're in that submissive position, your head is thrown back, and your back is arced.

03:49:49.320 Yeah.

03:49:49.540 It's essentially the same exact position, right?

03:49:52.520 And, of course, I'm not trying to pry.

03:49:54.800 I'm just pointing this out.

03:49:55.880 Yeah.

03:49:56.460 Yeah.

03:49:57.180 Okay.

03:49:57.840 Yeah.

03:50:00.100 Yeah, I guess that's fair, though.

03:50:02.780 It just sounded more aggressive, like you would let someone do that.

03:50:09.840 Let me think.

03:50:11.740 I mean, that is assuming that everyone here would let a man do that, and you don't want 1.00

03:50:15.920 to help.

03:50:16.200 I assume that women who have had sex multiple times with multiple partners have likely had

03:50:23.360 sex in that position.

03:50:24.980 Yeah.

03:50:25.340 I'm sure that there's some who are just, like, straight missionary.

03:50:28.780 I'm sure that they exist.

03:50:30.280 I just have a feeling it isn't going to be most of the women on this panel.

03:50:36.440 Just saying.

03:50:37.200 Yeah.

03:50:37.640 You know what?

03:50:38.440 That's fair when you think about it. 0.99

03:50:41.740 Raise your hand if you've never had doggy-style sex. 0.99

03:50:44.980 All right. 0.99

03:50:51.140 Okay.

03:50:52.300 That's.

03:50:54.980 Okay.

03:50:56.960 Good talk, I guess.

03:50:58.680 Good talk, guys.

03:50:59.480 That was great.

03:50:59.960 Wait, we were going around the table on.

03:51:05.420 Wait, what was the techno troopers question?

03:51:11.740 Oh, no, sorry.

03:51:12.780 We did it.

03:51:13.160 We did it.

03:51:13.520 My bad.

03:51:13.840 My bad.

03:51:14.140 We already did it.

03:51:14.660 We have a message here from Alvin Sam.

03:51:16.460 What's more submissive, a woman who bows or a man who pulls the chair out or holds the door open? 0.93

03:51:26.020 Girl in the middle, think about what you said. 0.98

03:51:29.400 So what's more, I guess this is a question to you.

03:51:31.300 What's more submissive?

03:51:32.120 Well, I feel that it's more submissive of a woman who bows just because pulling the chair out is ingrained within, like, chivalry, and it just doesn't seem as submissive as that.

03:51:48.400 But, you know, that's just my opinion on that.

03:51:50.320 Which one takes more actual physical effort?

03:51:54.280 The second one.

03:51:55.560 Pulling the chair out.

03:51:56.500 Mm-hmm.

03:51:56.760 It takes more time.

03:51:58.080 It takes more effort.

03:52:00.920 But y'all can't.

03:52:02.120 It'll bow.

03:52:05.600 So I asked before.

03:52:07.080 You didn't really answer.

03:52:08.000 Would you bow to a woman if she was the perfect woman for you? 0.99

03:52:11.560 Hmm.

03:52:12.140 If she wanted that?

03:52:13.300 It's an interesting question.

03:52:14.660 No.

03:52:16.480 It didn't.

03:52:17.160 No, it isn't.

03:52:17.480 And here, I'll give you my justification for it.

03:52:19.640 Mm-hmm.

03:52:20.340 I don't think that men are supposed to submit to women. 0.95

03:52:23.760 And it's an act of submission.

03:52:26.060 But not only is it an act of submission, it's a sign of respect.

03:52:29.320 I don't think that men should be bowing to women, ever. 1.00

03:52:35.100 Ever.

03:52:35.960 But it's also a submission to, like this guy said, to pull the chair out and hold the door open.

03:52:41.840 I don't think that that's submissive.

03:52:43.520 I think that that's a sign of respect, absent submission.

03:52:46.500 You wouldn't consider those things a submission?

03:52:50.140 No.

03:52:50.680 To make this question fair, I would like you to ask me, because putting, to Andrew's point, that is it more submissive.

03:53:01.200 So you'll have to ask me a question that would be more gender-appropriate.

03:53:06.260 And I'll happily give you a yes or no.

03:53:08.940 But you can't just reverse uno the question.

03:53:14.300 So give me an ask from a woman for the perfect woman that would be gender-appropriate for me to do. 1.00

03:53:22.380 But why does it have to be gender-appropriate?

03:53:24.080 People are different.

03:53:25.020 People have different ways of showing love and affection and respect.

03:53:28.540 Well, because even within the worldview of there being 10,000 genders, Brian most assuredly takes the gender of the traditional he-him, right, under this paradigm. 0.99

03:53:42.820 And so even under the paradigm of those who believe that there's 1,000 genders, they would have to show respect to the particular gender which the person is allocating to themselves, right?

03:53:53.220 I wasn't speaking about that there's 10,000 genders. 0.82

03:53:55.980 Yeah, but I'm not saying you were.

03:53:57.620 I'm just saying even assuming there were inside of that worldview, you would still be assigning the respect portion of it to the gender the person assigned themselves, right?

03:54:09.780 That's why.

03:54:10.760 So either way, it's like a double-edged sword.

03:54:15.200 So either he's the traditional masculine or assigns the traditional masculine, and not traditional in the sense of I go for tradition, but traditional masculinity.

03:54:27.360 If that is the case, he assigns that to himself, whichever way, inside the other worldview or his worldview, you would still be showing respect through that, right?

03:54:39.380 Okay, so you're just speaking from a traditional masculinity standpoint?

03:54:44.120 Yes.

03:54:44.380 Just from that?

03:54:45.040 Okay, I understand that then.

03:54:48.420 Well, because I think, so to your question, I think like if she was going to ask you something that's like gender equivalent for you, I think it would be something emotional.

03:54:55.620 So something as to, so the bow would be a respect.

03:54:58.120 Scoot the mic to the edge of the table, please.

03:55:00.480 Okay.

03:55:00.860 So the bow is like a respectful thing for you.

03:55:03.460 And for, I guess for you to the woman would be something like you have to listen to her, talk about her day.

03:55:09.960 And, for 10 seconds?

03:55:14.900 Yeah, for 10 seconds.

03:55:16.140 Which is about three, four, five times as long as it takes her breath.

03:55:19.320 I'm just saying like, yeah, that's the equivalent, right?

03:55:21.460 Something emotional.

03:55:22.500 Once a day, once a day, I will listen to her for 10 seconds.

03:55:25.740 So there you go.

03:55:26.760 I just feel that would be sort of the.

03:55:28.140 Not a problem.

03:55:28.880 For the perfect woman. 0.92

03:55:30.000 You know what, Andrew, perhaps I'm going to get flack for this.

03:55:34.380 Dating is difficult.

03:55:35.500 Dating is complicated.

03:55:36.300 There's a lot of, I mean, I think people don't underestimate what perfection is.

03:55:43.980 For the perfect woman, you ask if I would bow.

03:55:46.820 And I was a bit hesitant.

03:55:48.580 I wouldn't bow for a woman. 1.00

03:55:50.280 But for the perfect woman, I'm going to get flack. 1.00

03:55:56.700 There's not a lot of perfect women out there. 1.00

03:56:01.220 In fact, I don't know if there's any.

03:56:03.840 I will take the concession.

03:56:05.220 I'll hit the bow for the perfect woman. 1.00

03:56:09.500 Okay.

03:56:11.200 Happy to hear.

03:56:13.040 What?

03:56:13.940 Yes, Andrew.

03:56:14.980 What?

03:56:15.560 Yes, dude.

03:56:16.680 I subscribe to your channel.

03:56:18.260 I don't want to work full time.

03:56:20.200 I rather raise the children.

03:56:22.240 His hobby is a band and spends roughly 1K a month on it.

03:56:25.620 So I need to work.

03:56:26.860 So we make the bills.

03:56:28.300 I love her show.

03:56:29.900 Yeah, that sounds like an investment.

03:56:32.020 So that's a whole different thing.

03:56:33.780 Nope, you should still submit to an investment.

03:56:36.100 You're hoping that his band makes it big so you never have to work again.

03:56:39.100 Stop the cope, Ashley.

03:56:41.240 But Brian, I've got to add back to this.

03:56:43.960 Yeah, no.

03:56:44.440 Let's get into it, Andrew.

03:56:45.740 What?

03:56:45.940 Guys, I actually see, in order to secure her, I get the perfect woman handed to me on a silver platter, and all I have to do is bow, do one bow.

03:56:57.500 But otherwise, hold on, Andrew.

03:56:59.760 Here's the entailment.

03:57:01.200 The entirety of the rest of the relationship, she's perfectly submissive.

03:57:05.860 She doesn't quarrel.

03:57:07.000 She's beautiful, feminine, all the traits that I want. 0.99

03:57:10.020 Giant fucking giant Guinness World Record book labia. 1.00

03:57:15.940 Yes, Andrew, I will take the concession. 1.00

03:57:21.300 This woman does not exist, Andrew.

03:57:24.000 You can't bow, bro.

03:57:26.060 Okay, but she literally lets me rest my feet on her back while I watch TV.

03:57:31.940 Yeah, you can't.

03:57:32.600 You can't bow.

03:57:32.680 But the one.

03:57:33.680 Hold on.

03:57:34.320 You can't bow.

03:57:35.000 I'm sorry.

03:57:35.380 I'm being extreme here, but I'll do it.

03:57:37.500 You can't bow.

03:57:38.180 Andrew, no, no, no, no.

03:57:39.680 But, Andrew, you're going to have to take the L on this.

03:57:43.140 Let me give you my rebuttal.

03:57:43.440 Andrew, you've got to take the L. I'm sorry, but okay.

03:57:45.120 I don't care if you show up every single night to the best food you've ever had, 0.55

03:57:50.540 to the best sex you've ever had, to the most submissive woman who's ever existed, 0.96

03:57:53.740 and she loves. 0.96

03:57:54.760 She loves you to death. 1.00

03:57:56.420 She will die, take every bullet for you. 1.00

03:57:58.700 She will lie to the FBI on your behalf. 1.00

03:58:01.160 She will help you bury the dead body in the backyard. 1.00

03:58:04.540 You don't fucking bow. 0.99

03:58:07.680 No, Andrew, I'm sorry, but I'm sorry, Andrew. 0.98

03:58:11.160 But, okay, here's the trade-off.

03:58:14.020 So, I don't say I don't accept the perfect woman.

03:58:17.480 Then I must accept a flawed woman, correct? 1.00

03:58:20.280 And in some way, she's going to challenge her.

03:58:22.960 It's already a flawed woman if you're bowing to her. 1.00

03:58:25.180 There you go.

03:58:25.800 That's the entailment.

03:58:26.740 That's the logical entailment.

03:58:28.460 It has to be already imperfect.

03:58:32.260 An imperfect woman, if you have to bow, that is the logical syllogism. 1.00

03:58:36.920 So, if you're a perfect woman, hang on, she's perfect in every conceivable way except you have to bow. 1.00

03:58:43.060 Therefore, she can't be perfect.

03:58:44.940 Therefore, you can never bow to a woman, Brian. 0.90

03:58:47.340 Done.

03:58:48.180 Done, bro.

03:58:50.020 Perfect, but I have to bow.

03:58:54.380 That's it. 0.99

03:58:54.940 I got to do a little fucking bow. 1.00

03:58:55.800 Wait, wait, wait. 0.99

03:58:56.280 Then she's not perfect.

03:58:57.740 That's the entailment of the position, that she's not perfect.

03:58:59.620 No, but, okay, Andrew.

03:59:01.200 Okay, hang on, hang on, hang on.

03:59:02.260 I can prove this.

03:59:02.860 I can prove this.

03:59:03.420 I can prove this logically to you.

03:59:04.900 No, you can't, but go ahead.

03:59:06.380 If that perfect woman was perfect in every way and you did not have to bow, would you prefer that woman over a woman who was perfect in every way but you did have to bow?

03:59:18.740 Well, yes, sure.

03:59:20.160 Well, then we have discovered there's an imperfection and, therefore, the perfect woman cannot ever exist if you must bow. 1.00

03:59:28.420 Therefore, Andrew was right and you just took the fattest dell of your career. 0.74

03:59:32.060 No, but hold on, let me, let me just fucking rip out my chapter three from debateuniversity.com. 0.99

03:59:40.240 You son of a gun, here I got you, Andrew, because the perfect woman, but, that's it. 1.00

03:59:49.120 But you have to do this, which in the hypothetical presented would suggest that she is perfect, but this one thing.

04:00:03.480 So then you're not, so, okay, but this doesn't make any sense because you're already making the claim she's not perfect.

04:00:10.640 So why would you bow for the woman?

04:00:12.020 You're overthinking it, Andrew.

04:00:13.340 You're overthinking it.

04:00:14.420 Hang on, the initial premise was that, hold on, hold on, hold on.

04:00:18.460 Is the investment more important, though?

04:00:21.120 My kids are one and two and we have a third on the way.

04:00:23.900 I just want to give them the time they need so they grow up well.

04:00:27.960 Thank you for your criticism.

04:00:29.940 Thank you, Ashley.

04:00:30.480 No, I'm not trying to criticize you.

04:00:32.340 I'm just trying to point out that, yeah, that's an investment.

04:00:37.300 And, yes, you should submit either way.

04:00:39.660 Even if you're the primary breadwinner, you should still submit because that's still an investment.

04:00:44.640 It's still an investment.

04:00:45.920 Andrew, can I ask you a question?

04:00:47.440 Andrew, let me ask you a question.

04:00:48.520 Thank you, Ashley.

04:00:49.100 I appreciate it.

04:00:49.800 Thank you.

04:00:51.420 Andrew, you're a proponent of marriage, Christian men, Orthodox Christian.

04:00:58.180 Yes, I am a proponent of marriage.

04:00:59.980 Now, would you have any quarrel with a man kneeling to propose to his girlfriend?

04:01:13.540 Yeah, I don't think you should kneel to propose.

04:01:16.840 But men do.

04:01:19.140 Yeah, I think they probably shouldn't.

04:01:21.520 Well, I agree with you there.

04:01:24.340 Well, I don't know what's the quarrel.

04:01:26.440 Well, okay, then I was hoping you'd say, eh, you know.

04:01:30.720 You are, but I would take the alternative position.

04:01:33.240 I know you knew.

04:01:34.120 But look, I'm just saying, look, okay, you're trying to get me on a technicality, bro.

04:01:39.620 I'm going to grant it.

04:01:40.300 I'm going to grant it.

04:01:40.900 I'm going to grant it and say, Andrew Wilson thinks you should.

04:01:43.820 That's not an act of submission.

04:01:45.360 Okay.

04:01:45.620 It's not an act of submission to kneel to ask for the marriage because what you're actually doing, right, is you're saying, listen, this is the one time in my life that I'm going to show you some vulnerability as I ask you for this great leap from you.

04:02:01.420 The one time ever. 0.99

04:02:02.780 Now, if this motherfucker got on his knees every other day to propose, you would agree that there's a problem there, right? 0.99

04:02:07.920 But, like, one time, one time. 0.99

04:02:10.780 Like, if you said to me, Andrew, I bowed once to the perfect woman, that's different.

04:02:14.340 But you said you would bow.

04:02:16.180 You would bow to the perfect woman. 1.00

04:02:18.800 What?

04:02:19.060 Like, she's going to hit the door and Brian's going to bow?

04:02:21.860 Bro, you're going to bow?

04:02:22.380 I'm not going to allow you to gish gallop, Andrew. 1.00

04:02:25.120 You gish galloper. 1.00

04:02:26.480 You're going to – hold on. 0.73

04:02:27.600 You want me to answer the question?

04:02:28.640 I'm going to answer the question.

04:02:29.420 I'm going to answer the question.

04:02:30.700 Now, back to this.

04:02:31.660 Back to this.

04:02:32.320 Okay, so back to this.

04:02:33.560 So, Andrew, here's the thing, right?

04:02:35.240 I would rather live – die on my feet than live on my knees.

04:02:42.380 And you're in favor of kneeling one time.

04:02:44.780 I would rather die on my feet.

04:02:47.880 And if you bow, you're still on your feet. 0.63

04:02:50.220 Boom.

04:02:50.720 Roasted. 0.53

04:02:51.160 Lawyered.

04:02:54.240 Boom.

04:02:54.880 Okay.

04:02:55.520 Okay, so hang on.

04:02:56.540 Hang on.

04:02:58.300 If you propose with a bow.

04:03:00.880 Just Gerald donated $100.

04:03:05.900 Would you recommend that, then, that men propose with a bow, Brian?

04:03:08.640 Ashley, if you stopped paying to send in TTS messages, you'd probably have to work less. 0.85

04:03:13.380 Well, we appreciate Ashley.

04:03:14.760 What if a man proposed with a bow?

04:03:17.320 Is that okay, then?

04:03:18.240 Because he's still on his feet, Brian.

04:03:21.060 If he proposed with a bow?

04:03:22.820 Yeah.

04:03:23.320 So, he – instead of getting on one knee, he bowed his entire body over and held the ring up like so.

04:03:29.720 Would that be – would that be okay?

04:03:33.100 And then he held the ring – hang on.

04:03:34.520 Hold the ring straight up above your head and then bow your whole body over.

04:03:38.580 And you tell – is that –

04:03:39.540 You're shifting the goalposts.

04:03:40.800 Shifting the goalposts.

04:03:41.420 Yeah, can you do that?

04:03:42.140 Can you do that, Brian?

04:03:43.000 Is that okay?

04:03:43.800 You shifted the goalposts.

04:03:45.120 Oh, no, bro.

04:03:46.100 I think I'm in the goalposts.

04:03:47.460 Logical fallacy.

04:03:48.820 You need verbal combat, honestly, Andrew.

04:03:51.160 You should take your own course, bro.

04:03:53.340 I did debate myself recently in law, by the way.

04:03:57.300 Should we do it again?

04:03:58.060 Wait.

04:03:58.200 Can we do it?

04:03:58.860 Oh, Austin?

04:04:00.320 Yes.

04:04:00.620 Can we have Andrew – debate Andrew really quick?

04:04:02.540 Just super quick.

04:04:03.200 Let's have – maybe we have – we should probably have Andrew or Austin do this.

04:04:06.560 Okay, hang on, hang on.

04:04:07.740 Save it towards the end.

04:04:08.620 Save it towards the end.

04:04:09.400 We'll do it towards the end.

04:04:12.540 Because I have a topic I want to debate.

04:04:16.920 He's got to reverse it.

04:04:18.180 Transform.

04:04:19.500 Transform.

04:04:21.180 Flip horizontal.

04:04:23.680 All right.

04:04:24.100 And then I think hide one.

04:04:25.400 No, no.

04:04:25.740 We have to save it for the end, Brian.

04:04:27.140 We have to save it for – I have a topic on this.

04:04:28.900 Oh, okay.

04:04:29.420 All right.

04:04:29.800 All right.

04:04:30.100 Never mind.

04:04:30.460 You can – well, hide – go back to the split.

04:04:32.680 Just hide them.

04:04:35.000 Okay.

04:04:35.320 Well, look.

04:04:36.220 Okay.

04:04:36.460 So, Andrew, you're trying to tackle me here.

04:04:40.160 You're trying to tackle me on the word perfect.

04:04:44.120 You know what?

04:04:44.920 I'll just go ahead.

04:04:46.240 Okay.

04:04:46.800 Well, I'll give you –

04:04:47.000 So, no.

04:04:47.380 I'll grant you.

04:04:48.080 I will grant you.

04:04:49.340 Perfect means without flaw.

04:04:50.940 Okay.

04:04:52.040 So – but here's the thing.

04:04:55.180 In this scenario – I think here's the difference.

04:04:58.300 The woman isn't asking me to bow.

04:05:00.120 So, the scenario is I'm making a deal with –

04:05:05.120 Wait.

04:05:05.680 You're making a deal.

04:05:06.740 Okay.

04:05:07.340 I'm not making a deal with the woman. 0.95

04:05:09.680 I'm making the deal with the genie.

04:05:11.600 And there's a genie in a bottle.

04:05:13.320 And the genie says – the genie says, Brian, I will give you the perfect woman. 0.96

04:05:20.160 She does not request this of you, but you must do it.

04:05:23.340 You will have to bow to – 0.96

04:05:24.360 Well, then –

04:05:24.520 Hold on.

04:05:24.900 No, no, no.

04:05:25.420 You got to – Andrew, I'm not going to allow you to – I'm not going to – hold on.

04:05:27.840 You got to let me finish here.

04:05:28.700 All right.

04:05:28.960 All right.

04:05:29.060 You got to let me finish my point.

04:05:31.000 I'm sorry, bro.

04:05:31.880 Go ahead.

04:05:34.040 Okay.

04:05:34.360 So, Andrew, the genie is the sort of arbiter, the executioner of this tragic, tragic burden on me to bow to this woman. 0.67

04:05:48.940 But it's not the woman who is requesting me to do this.

04:05:53.440 The genie has created the scenario, in order for me to get this perfect woman, I must do this. 0.54

04:06:00.620 How can, in this scenario, the woman not be perfect? 0.95

04:06:05.340 Well, this is actually a great question.

04:06:07.400 I'm going to answer it for you.

04:06:08.680 Your premise is flawed.

04:06:10.420 So, the genie could not actually grant the wish.

04:06:14.040 This is illogical.

04:06:15.260 The wish is for the perfect woman. 1.00

04:06:16.940 If the genie says, great, I'll give you the perfect woman, but you have to bow to her, then the genie could not give you that woman because she would not be perfect. 0.99

04:06:29.160 You know, I – that doesn't make any sense.

04:06:31.880 I'm sorry.

04:06:34.300 Okay, bro.

04:06:35.340 It doesn't make – I'm sorry.

04:06:37.700 But so what – okay, let me ask you a question.

04:06:40.020 If you were talking to the genie, what about her would not be perfect?

04:06:46.980 Okay.

04:06:47.560 Well, I'll answer your question.

04:06:49.580 From your purview of what you consider the perfect woman, if you had all of those qualities, plus you didn't have to bow, but you also had all those qualities, but you did, which of those women would you take?

04:07:01.800 I would prefer to not have to bow.

04:07:04.940 Well, then we already know your criteria for the perfect woman. 1.00

04:07:07.520 But that has nothing to do –

04:07:08.800 Hang on.

04:07:09.180 So, if you ask the genie for the perfect woman, if you ask the genie for the perfect woman and the genie says, I'll give you the perfect woman, but you have to bow, he's not giving you the perfect woman.

04:07:18.620 Therefore, the premise is flawed.

04:07:20.540 Well, hold on.

04:07:22.200 He is giving me the perfect woman. 0.96

04:07:23.700 He's giving me an imperfect life scenario.

04:07:30.300 There's nothing wrong –

04:07:31.740 With the imperfect woman. 1.00

04:07:32.520 With the imperfect woman. 1.00

04:07:34.260 What's that?

04:07:35.380 Hold on, Andrew.

04:07:35.920 And it's an imperfect woman. 1.00

04:07:36.280 Wait, wait, wait.

04:07:36.780 Okay, let me ask you a question.

04:07:38.200 So, if a genie says, I'll give you a million dollars per day, but you have to do a bow, or the genie says, I'll give you a million dollars per day, and you don't have to do the bow.

04:07:53.780 Do you not get the million dollars per day if you take the bow?

04:07:58.180 You still get the same thing.

04:08:02.140 Well, wait a second.

04:08:03.180 No, you don't.

04:08:03.780 Because if you say, no, I won't take the bow, you don't get the million dollars.

04:08:09.440 Is that correct?

04:08:10.640 That would be correct, yes.

04:08:12.440 Yeah, well, then, yeah, it wouldn't be the same thing.

04:08:15.040 So, you're getting two different criteria here.

04:08:17.620 The first one, you bow, you get the million.

04:08:19.520 The second one, you don't bow, you don't get the million.

04:08:21.440 Well, hold on, Andrew.

04:08:23.420 Let me ask you a question.

04:08:24.620 What if a, hmm, I don't know if this is compelling, but a perfect woman, her standard for dating a man is that he needs to earn a million dollars a year. 0.92

04:08:37.080 I have not thought this one through.

04:08:43.080 Hold on, let me think.

04:08:46.080 Those analogies on the flyer.

04:08:47.800 She's a perfect, she is the perfect woman, but the man does not earn a million dollars a year.

04:08:58.720 Is she no longer the perfect woman despite his own inadequacy?

04:09:05.140 No.

04:09:06.840 Wait, she is or she's not?

04:09:08.640 She's not.

04:09:09.200 She's not the perfect woman. 0.99

04:09:09.920 She would still be, she would still be the perfect woman despite this inadequacy because entailed in the premise is she's the perfect woman. 0.68

04:09:18.200 She wants the perfect man, but the perfect man must make a million dollars.

04:09:23.620 Right?

04:09:24.360 Mm-hmm.

04:09:25.500 Yeah, so, yeah.

04:09:29.300 Andrew, listen.

04:09:30.180 Listen, bro, we're getting caught up on the word perfect here.

04:09:36.560 Let's get back to the, let's get back to the.

04:09:38.600 Perfect goes without flaw, right?

04:09:40.360 You agree?

04:09:41.080 Let's get back to the spirit of the conversation, right?

04:09:46.260 Now, you've managed to derail the conversation with this hyper focus on the word perfect.

04:09:52.240 I get it.

04:09:52.820 I get it, Andrew.

04:09:53.900 Listen, you're a master debater.

04:09:55.540 I get it.

04:09:56.000 But, let's get back to the, the, the, the spirit of the question, which was.

04:10:02.420 Okay.

04:10:03.740 Would I bow?

04:10:06.120 Submit.

04:10:07.860 Andrew.

04:10:09.500 Andrew.

04:10:11.640 Would I, the perfect woman, I just have to bow and I get the perfect woman? 0.96

04:10:16.740 Yeah, I'll do it.

04:10:18.620 That's it.

04:10:20.280 Okay, but in the entailment there is that you think the perfect woman wouldn't make you bow.

04:10:25.400 And so, therefore, if you think the perfect woman wouldn't make you bow, it can't be the perfect woman, Brian.

04:10:30.020 Just, just for, just for simplicity, simplicity's sake, I will go ahead and grant you that she is imperfect now.

04:10:37.120 Okay.

04:10:39.200 But, she's.

04:10:41.040 So, you will bow to the imperfect woman, Brian? 0.99

04:10:43.860 Oh, Andrew, you, you trickster you. 0.96

04:10:46.900 Andrew, you little trickster. 0.81

04:10:48.580 You're, you're, you know, you're, you're a little trickster, Andrew. 0.73

04:10:51.060 Andrew, she's, she, wait, Andrew, what about this? 0.93

04:10:56.400 She's the imperfect woman. 1.00

04:10:57.780 She's perfect in every way, except this one.

04:11:02.120 Will you grant that?

04:11:04.380 Yeah.

04:11:04.720 So, if, so, if you're saying that in every other way than the way that she makes you submit every single day to her, she's perfect.

04:11:12.760 I can grant that, yeah.

04:11:13.680 No.

04:11:15.240 Okay.

04:11:16.380 Yeah, so I, I would, yeah, I would hit the bow.

04:11:18.060 So then, so what you're saying is that you will submit to the woman who you think is perfect, even though the imperfection of her making you submit makes her imperfect, you would still submit if she had all the other criteria other than that, right?

04:11:34.720 Look, man, I know you're doing your Tai Chi, Judo, or whatever.

04:11:38.760 You're, you're overthinking this, Andrew.

04:11:40.260 You're overthinking this.

04:11:41.280 You're trying to get me to be like, just to, to basically admit that I'm a soy boy.

04:11:46.420 Okay?

04:11:46.720 I know what you're doing.

04:11:47.580 I know what you're trying to do.

04:11:48.580 You're trying to clip.

04:11:49.480 You're trying to get a little clip.

04:11:51.040 Here's the thing, Andrew.

04:11:52.240 Listen.

04:11:53.480 Well, let me ask you a question real quick.

04:11:55.420 Is bowing submission?

04:11:59.040 I would, look, do you, uh, you bow to a king?

04:12:02.500 Sure.

04:12:03.220 That's amazing.

04:12:03.540 You would be submissive?

04:12:05.040 Yeah.

04:12:05.600 Yeah, I would bow, I would bow in deference to men who were above my station if I was in

04:12:09.880 funeral.

04:12:10.020 I'll even, you know what?

04:12:11.000 I will grant it, Andrew.

04:12:12.120 I will grant that bowing is submissive.

04:12:14.820 Go ahead.

04:12:15.860 Okay.

04:12:16.140 I'll grant it.

04:12:16.640 So I just want, I just want to make sure we got this on record, that there are cases

04:12:20.220 where you are going to submit to women.

04:12:23.360 Ah, no, no, no, no, no.

04:12:24.400 Hold on, Andrew.

04:12:25.220 Be precise in your language.

04:12:26.920 I will submit to the, the penultimate perfect woman. 1.00

04:12:32.000 You will submit to the imperfect woman. 1.00

04:12:34.340 No, no, no.

04:12:35.160 Hold on.

04:12:36.040 You got to use my language here.

04:12:37.440 She's the penultimate perfect woman. 1.00

04:12:40.540 You know what penultimate is?

04:12:41.880 I know it's a big word.

04:12:42.660 No.

04:12:43.080 Big word, Andrew.

04:12:44.360 Penultimate.

04:12:45.320 Secondary ultimate.

04:12:46.920 I think I, hold on, let me Google that.

04:12:48.560 You would, okay, got it.

04:12:49.960 So you would submit to a less than perfect woman. 0.99

04:12:52.520 Next to last. 1.00

04:12:54.040 Wait, fuck. 1.00

04:12:55.020 Last one. 1.00

04:12:56.680 Last, but one in a series of seconds.

04:12:58.680 Last.

04:12:59.080 Wait, hold on.

04:13:00.140 Second to last.

04:13:00.920 Yeah.

04:13:01.720 So, okay.

04:13:02.340 So let's use the word.

04:13:03.540 So let's use the word in reverse.

04:13:05.160 Supercede.

04:13:06.000 So supersede.

04:13:07.380 You would agree.

04:13:08.360 Supercede.

04:13:08.780 I know it's a big word, Brian, but you would agree that the word supersede means to come

04:13:13.220 before.

04:13:14.220 And so if we're talking about perfect and we have perfect and then second perfect is

04:13:18.180 less than perfect.

04:13:19.500 And you would admit that perfect supersedes less than perfect.

04:13:23.420 You would bow to less than perfect.

04:13:25.160 That is correct, Andrew.

04:13:26.900 That, that is correct.

04:13:28.720 But let Andrew, let's say I don't accept this scenario.

04:13:32.760 I don't accept.

04:13:34.320 I refuse to do the bow.

04:13:36.380 And in so doing, in so doing, in reality, I end up with a woman who,

04:13:43.640 is orders of magnitude worse than this supposed, just slightly less than imperfect woman. 0.91

04:13:55.520 Is it worth? 0.99

04:13:56.240 I'm not fucking bowing to a woman, bro. 1.00

04:13:59.380 Andrew? 0.99

04:13:59.980 Like, regardless of the circumstances, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not going to bow my head

04:14:03.860 to a woman.

04:14:04.360 I'm not ever going to do it.

04:14:06.360 And even if that meant that I was in a worse situation than I was before that, I'm not bowing

04:14:12.720 my head to a woman.

04:14:13.160 Okay, let me give you, I'm going to ask you a question, Andrew.

04:14:15.200 I'm going to ask you a comparison.

04:14:17.320 So, woman. 1.00

04:14:19.000 If it's under threat of, if it's under threat of coercion, if that's what your hypothetical

04:14:23.420 is, then yes.

04:14:24.880 No.

04:14:25.020 If it's under threat of coercion, then sure.

04:14:26.960 Let me ask you a question, Andrew.

04:14:28.240 So, you have two women.

04:14:29.480 Two women.

04:14:30.460 One of the women, and you, you have to pick one. 1.00

04:14:32.980 One of the women is an atheist, liberal, feminist, obese, BPD, bipolar, depressed, on a slew 1.00

04:14:49.600 of anti-psychotic, anti-anxiety, anti-depression drugs. 0.99

04:14:55.940 She is infertile. 0.99

04:14:58.800 She's a biatch. 1.00

04:15:00.160 She, her name is Andrina. 0.92

04:15:07.840 Destiny.

04:15:08.580 Sure.

04:15:09.760 She has pink hair.

04:15:11.220 She has pink hair.

04:15:12.380 Yeah.

04:15:12.620 The physiogamy is.

04:15:15.620 She's heinous.

04:15:16.600 It's bad.

04:15:17.740 Yeah.

04:15:17.980 Um, she, again, atheist woman. 0.96

04:15:20.620 She'll never convert to orthodox Christianity. 0.93

04:15:24.620 Yep.

04:15:24.940 She's, did I say infertile? 0.99

04:15:27.040 Yeah.

04:15:27.320 Or, but you never have to bow to this woman.

04:15:30.120 Never.

04:15:32.000 Never.

04:15:33.200 And all things else are equal, right?

04:15:34.380 And she smells.

04:15:35.220 And she smells.

04:15:35.880 Hold on.

04:15:36.160 Hang on.

04:15:36.500 Hold on.

04:15:37.120 Hold on.

04:15:37.140 Hold on.

04:15:37.700 Hold on.

04:15:38.000 Hold on.

04:15:38.980 Okay.

04:15:39.340 Go ahead.

04:15:41.080 So, but all other things are equal.

04:15:43.840 All other.

04:15:44.280 And my choice is between that or the perfect woman, except she's not perfect because I have 0.99

04:15:47.880 to bow to her, right?

04:15:48.620 Well, hold on.

04:15:49.040 Let me paint the picture for the other woman. 1.00

04:15:50.800 Okay.

04:15:51.260 The other woman, beautiful, fertile, orthodox Christian, virgin, will give you seven sons. 0.99

04:15:59.920 That Bible verse, I don't know the exact, I don't recall it.

04:16:03.740 Children in a man's youth are like arrows in the hand of a warrior.

04:16:08.340 Okay.

04:16:08.580 She'll give you seven sons, Andrew.

04:16:12.860 She's a babe. 1.00

04:16:13.960 She's hot. 1.00

04:16:15.380 Submissive.

04:16:16.280 Submissive, Andrew.

04:16:17.460 Feminine.

04:16:18.340 Beautiful.

04:16:19.520 But I have to bow to her.

04:16:21.080 But once a day, you got it.

04:16:23.320 Three seconds, you got to hit the bow.

04:16:24.940 Which woman do you pick? 1.00

04:16:26.680 And I just want to make sure all other things are equal.

04:16:30.960 What do you mean?

04:16:32.020 All other things are equal.

04:16:32.840 So everything else remains the same except these two conditions.

04:16:37.720 The two conditions.

04:16:38.620 There's a lot of conditions, Andrew.

04:16:39.960 Yeah, I know.

04:16:40.440 Except, well, except the differences between woman A and woman B, everything else stays the same.

04:16:45.520 Can you give me an example of what would not be? 0.97

04:16:50.260 Yeah, so woman A, the heinous woman, I can pick between her, I can pick between this golden goddess who's fucking fantastic, except I have to bow to her. 1.00

04:16:58.420 But everything else stays the same. 0.91

04:17:02.180 What would everything else?

04:17:04.660 Well, there's no condition.

04:17:05.720 Like, the world isn't flat in this scenario.

04:17:08.560 There's still an outer space.

04:17:10.300 There's still stars in the sky.

04:17:11.500 There's nothing.

04:17:11.920 Everything else external to this stays the same.

04:17:18.680 I know you're trying to get, I know you're trying to do something, Andrew, but sure.

04:17:22.640 Okay, well then great. 1.00

04:17:23.740 Then I'll take the heinous bitch and divorce her. 1.00

04:17:26.380 Andrew, you trickster you. 1.00

04:17:28.780 First off.

04:17:29.780 I asked, bro.

04:17:31.060 I asked.

04:17:33.060 You, okay, let me, okay, hold on, Andrew.

04:17:35.880 I asked, bro, I did.

04:17:42.200 Now, this is a perfect example of your bamboozling trickery here, Andrew.

04:17:50.520 Let me, let me, oh my goodness.

04:17:54.100 You must, you can't, there's no divorce.

04:17:59.080 Oh, okay.

04:17:59.780 Now there's, okay, so then all things aren't equal.

04:18:02.380 Okay.

04:18:02.740 Okay, so, okay.

04:18:04.160 Hold on, Andrew.

04:18:05.040 It's implied.

04:18:05.920 It is implied.

04:18:06.840 It's not implied.

04:18:07.660 That's implied.

04:18:08.520 You little, oh, let me do a loophole. 1.00

04:18:10.680 Can I divorce her? 0.72

04:18:11.760 No, you gotta pick one, dude.

04:18:13.860 You gotta pick one.

04:18:14.820 I just, I told you who I would pick, and I told you why I would pick her.

04:18:18.760 Because you could divorce her?

04:18:20.200 Yeah, exactly.

04:18:21.220 Okay, wait, hold on.

04:18:22.060 Let me, okay, just curious.

04:18:22.980 I'll engage with that a little bit, but I'm not gonna let you get away from this, Andrew.

04:18:26.980 So, okay.

04:18:27.920 Andrew.

04:18:29.820 Sorry, ladies. 1.00

04:18:30.460 Um, so, but you have to consummate the marriage.

04:18:38.760 Yeah, then I consummate the marriage, and then divorce her. 1.00

04:18:40.780 That's this, Andrew, I can't, but you would, you would have carnal knowledge of an obese, 0.99

04:18:47.420 feminist. 0.99

04:18:48.800 Yeah, that's insane. 0.96

04:18:49.520 The cruisable, the cruisable.

04:18:50.660 Clip that, clip it and chip it. 0.99

04:18:52.280 Andrew will have carnal knowledge of an obese, pink-haired feminist who smells. 1.00

04:18:57.980 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, wait a second. 0.98

04:18:59.600 That's not what you said.

04:19:01.260 You said consummate.

04:19:03.320 Isn't, consummate, isn't that, you know what I mean?

04:19:06.520 Well, no, sir.

04:19:07.900 In the night of your wedding, if you can't get it up, you are still consummating that marriage.

04:19:14.940 Okay, you know what?

04:19:17.200 You have to.

04:19:17.700 I tried to give you all these conditionals that you could have changed, you know?

04:19:21.640 You're being a little, you're being a little trickster. 0.99

04:19:23.620 You said consummate, Brian, not have to have sex with. 0.99

04:19:28.700 Let me just Google consummate. 1.00

04:19:30.240 Hold on, you, you trickster.

04:19:31.640 Google consummate.

04:19:32.200 Let me just make sure, consummate.

04:19:34.460 Make, Andrew, you little trickster.

04:19:36.700 Okay, I Googled this. 1.00

04:19:37.540 Make a marriage or relationship complete by having sexual intercourse. 0.92

04:19:42.900 And then go to, go to definition, definition two. 0.95

04:19:46.400 You know what?

04:19:47.040 Go to definition two.

04:19:47.920 No, no, because I'm happy with definition one.

04:19:50.820 And I'm.

04:19:51.100 Yeah, no, go to definition two.

04:19:53.020 No, no, Andrew.

04:19:56.320 No, this is, this is the agreed upon definition of this word.

04:20:01.840 Well, there's multiple agreed upon definitions of the word, which is why there's multiple definitions, Brian.

04:20:07.040 This is, this is the accepted definition by the broader public.

04:20:13.240 It's one definition, yes.

04:20:14.660 Yes, and this was the definition I was using.

04:20:17.020 Are you saying that you can never get married to a woman if you can't get it up? 0.99

04:20:20.860 Andrew, I used the word consummate.

04:20:22.460 How do you consummate such a marriage if you can't get it up? 0.99

04:20:25.540 No, but make complete by having sexual intercourse. 0.57

04:20:31.360 Sure, but how, but wait a second, so you're saying that any marriage, any marriage where the guy can't get it up, it's not consummated?

04:20:39.940 According to definition one, technically, if you can, if you don't have sexual intercourse, technically, according to this definition, that is correct.

04:20:49.000 It would not be consummated.

04:20:50.100 If you have a different definition, that's fine.

04:20:52.420 But I'm using definition one.

04:20:54.840 Well, and I'm going to go with definition one.

04:20:56.940 I'm going to grant definition one in its entirety.

04:20:59.900 Grant it.

04:21:00.280 What is sexual intercourse? 0.99

04:21:02.040 Does that mean vaginal penetration? 0.98

04:21:06.300 Andrew, do I need to bring you back to health class here? 0.97

04:21:08.400 Yes. 0.99

04:21:09.040 Well, it means vaginal penetration. 0.98

04:21:11.620 For the purposes of the, Andrew, you're being, you're being a little shifty. 0.97

04:21:16.140 I want to make sure, is it, if it's vaginal penetration, I'll just grant it, Brian. 0.99

04:21:21.340 Can we stop with the pedantry here? 0.95

04:21:23.460 Okay, okay, you know what?

04:21:24.180 You're being pedantic. 0.99

04:21:24.780 I'm just going to say, I'm just going to say it's vaginal penetration. 0.99

04:21:27.160 Well, then, entailed in your scenario, this woman, we would never be able to consummate 1.00

04:21:32.920 our marriage because I would never be able to get it up.

04:21:35.860 Therefore, we could never get married.

04:21:37.560 I'm trying to give you all the bones in the world here, Brian.

04:21:40.820 Oh, but hold on.

04:21:43.000 Viagra?

04:21:44.460 Sildanafil? 0.70

04:21:45.260 Hmm?

04:21:45.680 Mm-hmm.

04:21:46.000 Yeah, we're going to, we're forced.

04:21:49.160 You get forced, Viagra, Andrew.

04:21:52.120 Yeah, but do you, so this is why it's very important that we get into the details. 0.78

04:21:56.120 Does the man have to ejaculate for it to be consummated? 0.56

04:21:59.860 No, he doesn't. 0.98

04:22:01.760 He doesn't have to ejaculate? 0.83

04:22:04.360 According to the definition.

04:22:05.440 So basically, I just have to sit there while this beach whale rides me, and then I never 1.00

04:22:09.180 have to bow to a bitch the rest of my life? 1.00

04:22:10.800 Yeah, I'm fucking taking that deal and divorcing that chick the next day. 1.00

04:22:13.280 But you don't get another woman. 1.00

04:22:14.240 You don't get another woman. 0.99

04:22:16.480 I'm still divorcing that chick the next day, and I'm going to become a monk.

04:22:20.440 How about you can't divorce her, and you got to smash once a week? 1.00

04:22:26.040 Wait, so I have to, I have to have sex with this chick once a week? 1.00

04:22:29.700 Yeah. 0.99

04:22:30.900 Like, wait, so under the, so under the hypothetical, right, under the, I just want to make sure

04:22:39.480 I get this right.

04:22:39.900 Either I bow to a woman, or I have to be with the most heinous whale person who's ever existed, 1.00

04:22:45.720 and be put on Viagra and have sex with her once a week. 1.00

04:22:50.800 Now, hang on. 1.00

04:22:52.140 I just want to make sure.

04:22:53.360 Remember I told you earlier, we were talking.

04:22:55.320 I said, does any of this have to do with coercion?

04:22:58.820 And if there's coercion, I'll always say yes. 0.98

04:23:01.640 Brian, how the fuck is this not coercion, sir? 0.98

04:23:06.500 You might have got me there, but. 0.99

04:23:08.260 Yeah, that's coercion.

04:23:09.740 So, yes, under coercion, under absolute coercion, yes.

04:23:14.420 Tell you what, Andrew.

04:23:14.660 But that's total coercion.

04:23:16.540 Let's change it.

04:23:17.200 Let's change it a little bit.

04:23:18.380 Okay, Andrew.

04:23:19.040 So, you don't have to have sex with her, but that's your wife, and you can't divorce her, 1.00

04:23:25.060 and you have to stay with her.

04:23:26.400 But, okay, got it, and all, hang on, and all conditions stay the same.

04:23:33.280 Andrew, just, oh my, Andrew.

04:23:35.440 I just want to make sure.

04:23:36.500 All conditionals stay the same.

04:23:38.680 All external conditionals stay the same.

04:23:40.960 Look, I get it. 0.99

04:23:41.780 You want a fat feminist. 1.00

04:23:45.180 I get it, dude. 1.00

04:23:45.940 I fucking get it, dude. 0.98

04:23:47.360 But go ahead. 0.99

04:23:47.740 Hang on.

04:23:48.060 If all conditionals stay the same, then I would still take her,

04:23:50.820 and then I would go to a different country,

04:23:52.740 and then I would come back without her.

04:23:56.400 Different country.

04:23:58.620 Mm-hmm.

04:23:59.700 I mean.

04:24:00.380 She would get lost in the jungle, you know. 1.00

04:24:04.900 You'd murder her. 0.98

04:24:06.340 No, I didn't say that. 0.99

04:24:07.640 Oh.

04:24:08.900 I mean, what?

04:24:10.180 I'm sorry, Brian. 1.00

04:24:11.780 Am I willing to do something bad when I'm forced by a genie to marry a fat, heinous feminist 1.00

04:24:17.080 who I have to be forced to have sex with every week? 1.00

04:24:21.280 Oh, Andrew, you would do something about that? 1.00

04:24:23.360 Oh, what a terrible guy.

04:24:24.680 First off, to be fair, to be charitable, you wouldn't have to go to another country.

04:24:33.180 You could just go for a walk in the woods in Michigan.

04:24:36.240 Okay.

04:24:36.660 It's not bad.

04:24:36.980 I didn't say, well, okay, the reason I would go to another country is because I renounced

04:24:41.860 my U.S. citizenship and then divorce her in that country. 1.00

04:24:45.740 That's why I asked if all things would be equal, Brian.

04:24:47.900 Andrew, this is so bad faith.

04:24:50.580 It's so bad faith.

04:24:51.520 It's so bad faith.

04:24:52.540 It's so bad faith.

04:24:54.180 Okay.

04:24:55.060 So, last question.

04:24:57.160 And I, the girls are, I got to get the girls back.

04:24:59.880 Okay.

04:25:00.800 Well, we gave them a nice break anyway.

04:25:02.580 Yeah.

04:25:02.980 You know, they've had a chance to recharge here.

04:25:06.400 Okay.

04:25:06.720 Final question.

04:25:07.380 So, the choices between these two women, you can't go, you can't bring the woman into 1.00

04:25:13.540 the jungle or the swamp or whatever.

04:25:15.240 I don't know.

04:25:16.640 You got to stay with them.

04:25:20.420 Yeah, you can, yeah, you got to stay with them.

04:25:23.800 You can never find another woman, even if you, I give you the grant, the whole divorce 1.00

04:25:27.880 thing, whatever.

04:25:28.520 You can't get another woman. 1.00

04:25:29.400 And, and this is assuming you don't have kids, per, uh, almost perfect.

04:25:40.860 The woman I described previously or the woman.

04:25:46.740 Yeah.

04:25:47.200 I'm taking the woman and that I can get the divorce from. 1.00

04:25:51.360 I'm not bowing my head to a woman. 0.99

04:25:52.820 And then that's the end of your bloodline.

04:25:54.740 Yeah.

04:25:55.140 Even if, even if, even if it meant for all future men that they could always take a look 1.00

04:26:01.540 at this one stupid asshole from Michigan who took the worst deal possible and made sure 1.00

04:26:08.120 he would not fall on his own sword so that he would not have to bow to a woman and all 1.00

04:26:13.860 men took their lead from that forevermore.

04:26:16.100 I would take that deal.

04:26:17.060 Yes.

04:26:18.380 You know, Andrew, do you remember earlier on in the conversation when the women over here

04:26:21.980 were saying, I'm going to be better looking when I'm 70.

04:26:25.420 Andrew, that's you that you, I'm going to be better looking when I'm 70.

04:26:30.880 No, that the level of deluge.

04:26:34.640 I'm sorry. 0.98

04:26:35.440 You don't, you sound, that's ridiculous. 0.97

04:26:38.380 Andrew. 0.99

04:26:38.840 Just jail.

04:26:39.620 I think it's $100.

04:26:41.680 All right.

04:26:42.060 This intermission was brought to you by debate university.

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04:26:47.240 Yeah.

04:26:47.360 Let's pull it up.

04:26:48.060 Let's pull it up.

04:26:48.660 All right.

04:26:48.940 Guys.

04:26:49.420 Brian, Brian, I'm Brian.

04:26:51.020 I'm dying a hero.

04:26:51.940 Brian, I'm dying a hero. 1.00

04:26:53.620 I'm not bowing the head to no fucking, I'm not doing it. 1.00

04:26:57.300 I'm not ever going to bow my head to a woman. 1.00

04:26:58.920 You know what? 1.00

04:26:59.440 I've gone 40 years without bowing my fucking head to a woman. 1.00

04:27:03.520 And no matter how many genie bottles you come up with, I'm going to find the flaw in that 1.00

04:27:08.120 contract. 0.99

04:27:09.020 I ain't bowing my fucking head to one now. 1.00

04:27:10.840 All right. 0.99

04:27:12.500 Hey, you know, look, it is what it is.

04:27:16.800 If you guys want to learn how to become a master debater, you guys have to go to debateuniversity.com.

04:27:23.060 It's a course by Andrew Wilson.

04:27:24.300 Verbal combat.

04:27:25.060 You know, look, I know that, you know, it's, it's a good course.

04:27:31.640 It's a good course, 80 plus videos, six plus hours of content.

04:27:35.400 If you want to learn how to become a master debater like Andrew, how you just saw him master

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04:27:45.700 You got to get the course.

04:27:46.920 It's at debateuniversity.com.

04:27:49.100 Now, hang on.

04:27:50.960 You can tell that Brian has also taken a course in master debating as he has been master debating

04:27:57.040 better than I've ever seen him master debate this fine evening on whatever.

04:28:01.520 So I must admit you have really improved in your master debating skills, sir.

04:28:07.760 Thank you.

04:28:08.500 I'm a, I'm a journeyman master debater, but I'm hoping to one day get to like, you know,

04:28:13.560 like artisan level master debating.

04:28:15.960 So thank you, Andrew.

04:28:17.040 It's all, and a lot of, all, you know, a lot of, a lot of credit to you, you know, cause

04:28:21.020 you know, all right, let's, let's get back.

04:28:25.540 I guess we got, I got to get back to the show.

04:28:27.780 Yeah.

04:28:28.700 Um, can we open the door a little bit?

04:28:33.280 I'm getting a little, a little sweaty here, you know, it's, it ain't easy going up against

04:28:39.080 the King.

04:28:39.640 You know, if you're going to, you're going to, what's that saying?

04:28:41.760 Like if you're going to step to the, step to the King, you got to have your, have your,

04:28:52.700 what's that?

04:28:53.500 Come on.

04:28:53.840 Somebody, we don't know.

04:28:55.540 Any, the thing about, if you're going to, if you're going to scuffed, just hide it in,

04:29:05.680 hide it in OBS, hide it in OBS.

04:29:07.120 StreamYard, no, sources, sources, sources, scroll up, scroll up, scroll, okay.

04:29:14.580 You can fix it now.

04:29:16.820 Um, okay.

04:29:21.960 Sorry guys, we had a little technical glitch there.

04:29:25.140 Okay.

04:29:25.860 Um, would you bow to a man?

04:29:30.840 Me?

04:29:31.400 Yeah.

04:29:31.980 No.

04:29:32.780 Bruh.

04:29:33.380 It's crazy, dude.

04:29:35.320 It's crazy.

04:29:35.920 You know what's crazy?

04:29:36.420 Um, wait, I have a question for you.

04:29:38.140 Um, you, you will work a job, right?

04:29:41.020 Yes.

04:29:43.340 So, uh, if your boss tells you five times a week, I want you to commute 30 hours in a car

04:29:51.500 and then come to work and show up at 8 a.m., will you do it?

04:29:55.900 So for me personally, I want to be an entrepreneur so that wouldn't really work with me.

04:30:01.020 You don't have a job right now?

04:30:02.740 No.

04:30:03.040 Um, is it, can you envision yourself in some scenario where you would end up having a traditional

04:30:10.400 job?

04:30:10.960 I can envision it.

04:30:12.900 Okay.

04:30:13.480 Do you realize most people will have a job where they have a boss?

04:30:17.960 Yes.

04:30:18.680 Okay.

04:30:19.820 All right.

04:30:20.300 So, here, maybe I should ask somebody else.

04:30:25.900 Does anybody here have a job?

04:30:27.760 You got a job?

04:30:28.960 Yeah.

04:30:29.580 What's your job?

04:30:31.820 Optometrist assistant.

04:30:33.460 Okay.

04:30:34.140 You got a job?

04:30:35.840 Yes, I do.

04:30:36.720 You got, you're a server, right?

04:30:37.920 Yes, I'm a server.

04:30:38.840 Ah, okay.

04:30:39.660 And you work full time?

04:30:42.100 Uh, yeah, um, yeah.

04:30:43.440 For restaurants, yes.

04:30:44.480 And then your boss says, show up at this time, doesn't he?

04:30:49.460 Yeah.

04:30:50.340 He says, show up at times that maybe you don't prefer, right?

04:30:54.300 Early in the morning?

04:30:55.240 Well, ah, you're a server.

04:30:55.920 No, I'm a server.

04:30:56.760 I'm doing evenings.

04:30:57.800 But I know what you mean.

04:30:58.880 Can I ask the panel a question?

04:30:59.920 What's the earliest a boss has ever told you, I need you here at this time?

04:31:05.980 What's the earliest ever?

04:31:07.680 Six o'clock in the morning.

04:31:08.840 Six a.m.?

04:31:09.480 Five thirty.

04:31:10.820 Five thirty a.m.?

04:31:11.480 Five thirty a.m.?

04:31:12.480 Five thirty a.m.

04:31:14.600 Three a.m., okay.

04:31:16.280 And if your boss says, hey, move that over there, has, has a boss done that to you before?

04:31:24.060 Hey, I need to move that.

04:31:25.740 Put it over there.

04:31:27.820 Can you move that?

04:31:29.800 How's that?

04:31:31.420 Like if, yeah, if she requests me to do something.

04:31:33.960 Hey, can you move this over here?

04:31:35.080 Maybe they'd say it more politely, but they ask you to do it, right?

04:31:38.460 Do you do it?

04:31:39.480 Yes.

04:31:39.800 And you, uh, any other undesirable tasks that the boss has asked you to do?

04:31:51.240 Hmm.

04:31:53.400 Is this to me?

04:31:54.840 Or to anyone?

04:31:55.660 I thought.

04:31:55.980 How about everything that you do for work is something you otherwise wouldn't do, but

04:32:02.580 you're being given money to do it, pretty much, right?

04:32:09.260 Yeah.

04:32:11.840 That's why we work.

04:32:12.880 Unless you have a job that you love.

04:32:14.040 So, I guess to wrap up the submissive conversation, I know we've lingered on it for a while, but

04:32:20.120 so women were submissive to their husbands, but you've now traded this to be submissive

04:32:25.360 to an employer.

04:32:26.680 And I would argue that employer is going to ask much more of you than your husband ever

04:32:33.620 will.

04:32:40.480 Thoughts?

04:32:40.960 I think, well, I mean, the big difference is like the relationship or relationships in

04:32:45.980 general are personal and the job for me is not personal.

04:32:49.060 You know what I mean?

04:32:50.100 If, like, my boss asks me something, I, I don't know, even if my boss yells at me, I

04:32:54.280 don't, I don't, like, you know what I mean?

04:32:57.300 It's a different, like, a relationship is different.

04:33:00.440 The intimacy is different.

04:33:01.820 You know what I mean?

04:33:02.420 So, like, the, the implication is different.

04:33:04.340 The, like, what my boyfriend's going to tell me is going to affect me way more than what

04:33:08.820 my boss tells me.

04:33:10.600 Can I ask you a question?

04:33:11.800 So, you said you would not bow for your perfect man, correct?

04:33:15.440 Mm-hmm.

04:33:15.960 And your perfect man, would he be a billionaire?

04:33:19.740 No.

04:33:21.040 Oh, trillionaire.

04:33:22.180 I'm sorry.

04:33:23.280 So, my, are you asking for my ideal perfect man?

04:33:26.220 No.

04:33:26.680 Yeah, your perfect man.

04:33:27.740 Would he be a trillionaire?

04:33:28.680 No.

04:33:30.040 Why not?

04:33:30.720 My definition of perfect isn't about what's on the outside.

04:33:34.740 It's not surface level.

04:33:35.500 So, just to be clear, you would not desire to date a trillionaire?

04:33:42.360 I just, so what are you, I feel that everyone's definition of perfect is very different.

04:33:47.800 I mean, if I could ask for everything, sure, I would enjoy for him to have some money, but

04:33:54.840 it wouldn't be, like, I don't need that much.

04:33:57.040 It's not perfect to me.

04:33:58.080 I would do a lot more than bow to marry a trillionaire, but, um, okay.

04:34:04.980 Do you realize the amount, like...

04:34:07.320 Wait, what else would you do?

04:34:08.520 Oh, Andrew, let's not start.

04:34:10.820 Wait, what else would you do to marry a trillionaire besides just bow, Brian?

04:34:14.420 Andrew, I will...

04:34:18.420 Do you realize that's, like, a thousand-year dynasty?

04:34:23.400 That kind of generational wealth?

04:34:27.240 That, that it... 1.00

04:34:28.880 Give me the fucking apron, bro. 1.00

04:34:30.700 You want me to cook? 1.00

04:34:31.500 I'm fucking cooking. 0.99

04:34:32.760 Andrew, wait, we talked about this. 0.99

04:34:34.640 Remember, like, a couple weeks ago?

04:34:37.220 I think, didn't we say...

04:34:38.340 I don't know if we were such conversations.

04:34:40.140 No, we, no, I think you even said,

04:34:41.900 oh, yeah, if I could marry a woman who's a billionaire, I would... 0.96

04:34:44.780 It's gaslighting.

04:34:45.820 No, you said it, you said it.

04:34:47.800 Gaslighting.

04:34:48.260 You said, dude, I...

04:34:49.300 Oh, gaslighting, very feminine, Brian, 1.00

04:34:51.040 trying to gaslight me into previous conversations.

04:34:53.360 Supposedly happened weeks ago.

04:34:54.940 They have zero evidence of, but okay, Brian, that's fine.

04:34:58.240 That's not a woman thing that's... 1.00

04:34:59.680 Men do that a lot, gaslighting.

04:35:01.940 Everybody does it.

04:35:02.400 Men don't gaslight, come on. 0.91

04:35:04.140 I didn't say that.

04:35:04.800 I said everybody does it.

04:35:05.820 Men do it, too.

04:35:06.620 I'm getting off topic here, but, um...

04:35:10.620 Okay, so...

04:35:13.500 Trillionaire?

04:35:15.700 Not perfect?

04:35:17.720 He could...

04:35:18.260 He would have all the other traits that would make him perfect, right?

04:35:22.020 Okay.

04:35:22.900 Okay.

04:35:23.700 So, he says,

04:35:25.600 hey, I'm a trillionaire. 1.00

04:35:27.560 You don't need to do this tarot card reading bullshit. 0.99

04:35:30.280 I want you to stay at home, and you don't have to worry about anything. 0.99

04:35:37.340 I'll pay for everything.

04:35:39.180 Everything will be taken care of.

04:35:41.660 So, my perfect man would respect that I have a passion or a hobby

04:35:47.060 and would actually want to support me on creating a business for myself.

04:35:51.340 He has...

04:35:52.220 What's the purpose of a business?

04:35:54.860 Some people enjoy...

04:35:55.920 Hold on, no, no, no.

04:35:56.500 Hold on.

04:35:56.800 What's the purpose of a business?

04:35:57.900 For making money?

04:36:00.020 To make money, right?

04:36:01.960 Okay.

04:36:03.740 He has a trillion dollars.

04:36:05.680 Right.

04:36:06.140 You don't need to make money.

04:36:07.780 My objective is not to make money if I'm passionate about something.

04:36:12.540 You're passionate about tarot card reading?

04:36:16.060 And selling it.

04:36:18.240 Can't you do tarot card...

04:36:20.840 So, but here's the trade-off.

04:36:22.380 You don't get to do your tarot card thing, and you get to marry a billionaire who's perfect.

04:36:28.400 That's kind of like almost sacrificing my own wants and needs just for a perfect relationship,

04:36:34.780 which we clearly differ from what we want.

04:36:37.020 Wait, can I ask you a question?

04:36:38.180 If I paid you a million dollars right now to shave your head, would you do it?

04:36:41.660 No.

04:36:42.640 Oh, my God.

04:36:44.040 What?

04:36:45.140 A billion dollars.

04:36:46.260 Would you do it?

04:36:47.460 Sure, yes.

04:36:48.120 But not for a million.

04:36:51.040 Okay, I actually reacted a little bit, so yes, I would do it for a million dollars.

04:36:56.220 For $1,000,000?

04:36:58.640 $1,000, I would not.

04:37:00.700 No, no, no, $1,000,000.

04:37:03.740 A million?

04:37:05.360 Yeah.

04:37:06.580 I mean, I said I accidentally, you know, reacted too quick, so I would.

04:37:11.040 Okay, she'll do it for a million. 1.00

04:37:12.700 Okay, I don't know.

04:37:13.480 I was just curious.

04:37:14.160 I've always been curious about that.

04:37:15.540 Any girl who would not shave their head for a million dollars? 1.00

04:37:23.360 What?

04:37:26.040 I mean, it'll grow back within a few years, and you can get a wig.

04:37:29.080 You can get a really nice wig.

04:37:32.140 I mean, I can't imagine, like, anyone who's intelligent, assuming, like, look, if you were a billionaire,

04:37:40.280 maybe I could see, like, eh, I'm not going to take the million.

04:37:44.240 Or you have, I don't know, $10,000, $20,000, $30,000,000.

04:37:48.900 Why would you not take the million?

04:37:50.780 I'd take it.

04:37:51.940 I'd take it.

04:37:52.240 You wouldn't, and then Emma wouldn't. 0.63

04:37:53.680 I'd shave my head.

04:37:54.920 I mean, it'll hair. 0.64

04:37:55.440 All right, get the razor. 1.00

04:37:56.040 She's like shit. 1.00

04:37:56.820 She's like shit, Brian. 1.00

04:37:58.420 I'm a troll, but I'm a smart troll. 1.00

04:38:00.460 Go get the razor blade. 0.99

04:38:01.980 Get the razor.

04:38:02.640 Okay, so you wouldn't give up the tarot card thing for a trillionaire who's perfect?

04:38:13.860 But how would that be perfect to me if that's not the ideal kind of life that I want?

04:38:18.660 It's like a hypothetical.

04:38:19.880 So it's like, would you, they're the best person, but there's this one downside.

04:38:27.960 It's not just like a little downside for me because it's something that consists of my entire life almost.

04:38:33.260 It's my passion.

04:38:34.280 It's part of my spirituality.

04:38:36.120 It's something that I want to constantly learn more about.

04:38:39.100 So for me to just give that up because someone wants me to is a big sacrifice.

04:38:44.300 I thought you were, are you religious at all?

04:38:46.720 Yes, I am religious.

04:38:47.860 Which religion?

04:38:48.600 Christian.

04:38:49.720 Oh, Andrew's going to love this.

04:38:51.220 One sec, Andrew.

04:38:52.120 Okay, so we can really get into this, but.

04:38:54.380 But so, hold on.

04:38:55.540 So you're a Christian, what denomination?

04:38:58.280 Well, I'm still kind of figuring that out for myself because I have went through some

04:39:03.100 sort of religious trauma and I've developed a more closer connection.

04:39:06.320 Religious trauma. 0.76

04:39:07.140 Well, last, I'll let Andrew jump in here in just a sec.

04:39:09.780 But so you're a Christian. 0.61

04:39:12.080 You claim to be a submissive woman. 0.99

04:39:14.200 Wouldn't the submissive thing be if your ultra wealthy husband said, I don't want you.

04:39:19.560 And he's Christian.

04:39:20.380 And he's like, well, I believe you practicing tarot cards is, I don't know the specific word.

04:39:27.520 It's a, is it a blasphemy or is it like a, what is it, Andrew?

04:39:33.780 It's not like coach or not.

04:39:35.700 It's a, it's a heresy.

04:39:38.180 Heresy.

04:39:38.820 Thank you.

04:39:39.640 He's like, that's heretical.

04:39:41.700 You're a Christian.

04:39:42.600 I'm a Christian.

04:39:44.160 I'm also a trillionaire.

04:39:46.400 I don't want you practicing tarot cards anymore.

04:39:48.500 Do you do it?

04:39:49.000 For me, I, okay, so my relationship with God is much more important than my relationship

04:40:00.320 with my husband, who's a trillionaire.

04:40:02.840 So for him to, I guess, make that or try to put that belief onto me is.

04:40:12.180 Tarot cards.

04:40:13.480 The hill you die on is tarot cards.

04:40:16.200 It's not even about just the tarot cards.

04:40:18.580 I also have a sense of my own pride.

04:40:21.340 Wait, sorry, sorry. 0.99

04:40:23.000 Andrew, before I have you, I know you want, wait, what the fuck? 0.98

04:40:25.600 What happened here? 0.99

04:40:26.660 What the, okay, that's fine.

04:40:30.400 I have a question for you. 0.85

04:40:33.000 Would you want your boyfriend or husband to take a bullet for you? 0.99

04:40:39.040 Look at that. 0.97

04:40:41.340 Just hide it.

04:40:42.100 I mean, I would do it for him, so maybe yes.

04:40:50.460 Like, my husband, yes.

04:40:51.560 Can you close the door? 0.98

04:40:53.040 You'd want him to take a bullet for you? 0.99

04:40:55.960 Yes. 0.99

04:40:56.360 Bro, these girls literally want you to die and provide for them, but they won't bow. 1.00

04:41:04.540 They won't give up some heresy.

04:41:07.700 They won't give up tarot cards.

04:41:10.080 She wants her husband to take a bullet for her, but she won't give up her tarot cards. 0.99

04:41:14.780 Make it make sense.

04:41:16.260 I got to take a smoke break.

04:41:17.840 Go ahead, Andrew.

04:41:21.460 Yeah, can, I just wonder if you can help me out with a couple of things.

04:41:27.520 So I'm not going to beat you up.

04:41:29.320 I understand.

04:41:34.580 Yeah, I was just going to ask you a couple of quick questions.

04:41:38.740 I understand that you could be quite new to your faith.

04:41:41.660 Is that what's going on?

04:41:43.680 Sorry, what did you say?

04:41:44.600 Are you new to your faith?

04:41:48.660 I wouldn't say that.

04:41:49.440 It's Emma.

04:41:50.080 It's Emma, right?

04:41:51.940 Irene.

04:41:52.460 Is that your name?

04:41:53.380 What's that?

04:41:53.920 Irene.

04:41:55.540 Irene.

04:41:56.080 Okay, sorry.

04:41:57.420 You're new to your faith, Irene?

04:41:59.440 I'm rediscovering it.

04:42:02.040 Okay, gotcha.

04:42:04.600 Just so you know, in tarot, I just want to ask you just a quick question.

04:42:09.660 Do you use tarot to figure out kind of future events or current events?

04:42:16.240 No, I do not.

04:42:16.660 Or current events, in a sense, yes, but I never use it to predict the future.

04:42:23.920 I don't do any predictive readings.

04:42:25.760 It's much more of a tool to kind of get the general idea of what's going on.

04:42:29.760 And do you have a spirit guide?

04:42:35.380 Well, I wouldn't say a specific spirit guide.

04:42:38.500 I do pray to God before I start my tarot readings.

04:42:43.120 Yeah, and when you're looking at tarot cards for current events, do the tarot cards ever

04:42:50.640 lead you in such a way where you know what current events are or give you some type of

04:42:55.640 insight into them?

04:42:59.280 Yes.

04:43:00.720 Okay.

04:43:01.620 Leviticus 19.26, do not practice divination or seek omens?

04:43:06.700 That's, you're doing both, hang on, you're doing both things.

04:43:09.060 You're seeking omens and practicing divination.

04:43:11.380 Divination would just be trying to figure out currently what is going on through some

04:43:16.020 type of externality, which is other than God.

04:43:20.300 That would be divination.

04:43:21.740 And then omens would be the exact same thing, right?

04:43:24.360 You're looking at the cards for omens of what will happen or has happened or has happened.

04:43:29.980 So I have done a lot of research on this because of a lot of people who have a lot of controversial

04:43:35.960 opinions when it comes to tarot.

04:43:38.620 And my argument is that when people have, maybe I wouldn't, maybe like Christian people 1.00

04:43:45.840 wouldn't call it mediumship abilities, but gift from God and ability to see more than,

04:43:52.460 I guess, like other people who may not be considered, I wouldn't say like I'm chosen or anything,

04:43:57.860 but there are those kinds of people within the Bible.

04:44:01.000 So would that be considered the same thing or not?

04:44:05.020 Like to be able to use your gift that was given to my God?

04:44:07.600 There's a distinct difference between revelation and utilizing tarot cards, which would be external

04:44:14.420 to God's revelation, right?

04:44:17.960 Because it's a tool?

04:44:20.600 Yeah.

04:44:20.880 Well, what, what tools are, let me ask you something.

04:44:25.800 Where do you get the idea for what divine authority is?

04:44:30.140 What is that to you?

04:44:31.260 Is that just God?

04:44:33.880 To me, divine authority is belief in a higher power and having faith in a higher source.

04:44:41.520 Okay.

04:44:41.900 For you, is that Jesus Christ?

04:44:43.700 Yes.

04:44:45.100 Okay.

04:44:45.740 And so, and so you are beholden to Christ's word and you believe that Christ is God, right?

04:44:51.260 Mm-hmm.

04:44:52.560 So if Christ is God, you have to admit that this is the God of the Old Testament as well

04:44:57.500 as the New Testament, correct?

04:44:58.900 Mm-hmm.

04:45:00.280 Yeah.

04:45:00.580 So if that is the case, Leviticus 20, 27, a man or a woman who is a medium or a necromancer 0.95

04:45:06.600 shall surely be put to death. 0.95

04:45:08.200 They shall be stoned with stones. 1.00

04:45:10.000 Their blood shall be upon them. 0.97

04:45:11.140 Does it sound like they want to see any divination, witchcraft, anything like that?

04:45:18.100 Okay.

04:45:18.660 So I have read that verse many times and it's just a bit hypocritical and ironic when a lot

04:45:26.140 of people are able to just pick and choose which verses that they want to use to be able

04:45:29.980 to judge other people.

04:45:30.880 But there are many Bible verses that mention how no one should be able to judge anyone

04:45:35.320 but God.

04:45:36.620 So I just feel it's a little bit.

04:45:37.900 Which ones?

04:45:38.220 Well, I can't.

04:45:40.500 Honestly, I don't have it at the top of my head.

04:45:43.000 Yeah.

04:45:43.340 Do you know what?

04:45:44.140 The Bible actually instructs you the opposite way, that you're supposed to use righteous

04:45:47.300 judgment, especially as a Christian, so that you can judge the fruits of what is a thing,

04:45:51.080 right?

04:45:51.480 Mm-hmm.

04:45:51.640 How else would you know what is evil if you couldn't use judgment?

04:45:54.260 How could you even know?

04:45:59.180 Like, how would you know what to stay away from and what was evil, what was bad if you couldn't

04:46:03.200 use judgment?

04:46:03.720 Okay, that's a good point, but I also don't think it's up to people to decide what is righteous.

04:46:11.100 It's almost like having that belief.

04:46:12.640 Now, then who is it up to?

04:46:14.320 God.

04:46:15.300 And then what did God instruct you not to do?

04:46:17.240 I don't really want to argue about this, because this is something that I'm still rediscovering

04:46:27.640 within myself, and of course I knew that there were going to be many people who pulled Bible 1.00

04:46:31.440 verses to come against me and my practice, but I mean, that is what I believe, and I don't

04:46:38.700 think there's much up for argument there.

04:46:41.400 So, even if you were wrong, do you believe it anyway?

04:46:52.620 I can't say that I'm wrong, though.

04:46:55.740 Okay, well, how do you know you're right?

04:46:58.200 I'm not saying I'm right either, and that's why I'm telling you that I'm rediscovering this

04:47:01.860 part of me with my, like, connection.

04:47:04.680 Well, who would you go to to determine if you were wrong or right when it came to spiritual

04:47:09.100 matters?

04:47:09.520 God.

04:47:12.140 You're going to go to God, and does God talk to you?

04:47:15.120 I just pray to God I'm able to get more clarification that way, and if I do seek a mentor, then I

04:47:21.720 will, a trusted mentor that I truly believe they have a really good connection to God as

04:47:26.420 well, but I don't...

04:47:27.680 How do you know that you don't suffer from affirmation bias, where even though all tons

04:47:31.640 of people have told you that this is not Christianity, that you just choose not to believe them because

04:47:36.560 you don't want to believe them?

04:47:38.180 How do you know that that's not the case?

04:47:40.380 I've gone through a lot of spiritual warfare, debating between if this is right or wrong.

04:47:45.620 I've prayed many times about it.

04:47:46.980 I truly believe that God does give gifts to people.

04:47:51.620 I'm not saying, like, oh, wow, I have, like, the ultimate gift here, but there are many

04:47:55.840 people who have gifts from God, and it's...

04:47:59.500 My question is, what would make it wrong for them to use that gift?

04:48:04.180 Nothing.

04:48:10.160 Yeah, nothing would make it wrong for them to use a gift from God.

04:48:13.660 But we are specifically instructed as what is and is not gifts from God.

04:48:17.660 Tarot cards are not gifts from God, right?

04:48:20.340 We are instructed in this in Leviticus, but also even in the New Testament, we're instructed

04:48:25.260 in this multiple times by Christ's apostles, so I'm not saying there's anything wrong with

04:48:30.720 any gifts from God.

04:48:31.960 Why would I ever say that?

04:48:34.140 I'm just telling you that we have 2,000 years of Christian history of every single saint who

04:48:43.140 exists explaining that this is not the thing that you should ever gravitate towards, and

04:48:48.140 even Protestants know that this is so.

04:48:50.220 And why is it that you have decided you figured it out, and all of them were wrong?

04:48:56.660 I've been constantly telling you that I am still rediscovering this, and so I don't...

04:49:02.380 What does that mean, though, rediscovering it?

04:49:04.260 When somebody corrects you, you don't take correction, or...

04:49:07.980 How do you rediscover a thing if people who do the thing tell you this is the wrong thing,

04:49:12.700 and you go, well, okay, but let me rediscover it.

04:49:16.920 Like, what does that mean, rediscovery?

04:49:18.840 What does that even mean?

04:49:20.220 Just like you mentioned about, like, having the righteous judgment, everyone should have

04:49:25.600 their own free thought, so I'm not going to just allow for people to correct me and just

04:49:30.300 go based on that.

04:49:31.780 Well, then who's allowed to correct you?

04:49:33.740 Whoever you think is correcting you based on your affirmation bias or confirmation bias?

04:49:39.540 Who's allowed to correct you?

04:49:41.260 Like, who's the person who's allowed to tell you, okay, what you're doing here is wrong,

04:49:46.860 and here's all the proof?

04:49:47.960 Who's the person who's allowed to do that?

04:49:49.260 Just you?

04:49:49.720 Are you the ultimate arbiter of what is Christian and what it's not?

04:49:53.360 Like, who is?

04:49:55.240 I think the whole journey of spirituality and finding your religion...

04:49:58.680 Journey.

04:49:59.340 That's a journey. 1.00

04:50:00.280 Everything's a fucking journey with me. 0.98

04:50:01.860 It's about you finding the impartial, like, opinion yourself. 0.98

04:50:05.020 Finding these things and allowing yourself to almost formulate your own free thought in

04:50:10.820 relation to your connection to God.

04:50:12.300 How do you know it's not a demon?

04:50:16.960 How do you know that?

04:50:18.960 How do you know you're not talking to a demon?

04:50:20.800 How do you know it's not a demon who's chatting with you?

04:50:23.520 I don't think a demon would be the one who leads me back to my faith in Christianity.

04:50:29.680 Really?

04:50:30.040 Why not?

04:50:32.900 Especially if you're...

04:50:33.820 Let's assume for a second that you were utilizing such a bastardized form of Christianity 1.00

04:50:37.780 that you could not separate it from modern Satanism, and you just called it Christianity.

04:50:43.980 Wouldn't a great deceiver convince you that a thing which was not Christianity was Christianity? 0.92

04:50:53.940 So how do you know that it's not a deceiver?

04:50:59.400 I'm still figuring that out right now.

04:51:01.620 Oh, okay.

04:51:02.900 All right.

04:51:03.400 Well, I'll turn it over to Brian.

04:51:06.100 All right.

04:51:07.120 Oh, you know, two last things on the whole submissive conversation.

04:51:11.380 We have a video to react to, but before we do that, I guess the point I was trying to

04:51:16.420 make by asking you guys about, you know, what would you do for an employer?

04:51:19.540 It's like the same girl who will work a brutal fast food job dealing with a boss, excuse me, 1.00

04:51:27.960 barking orders, cleaning dirty dishes, the bathroom, shitty customers for like $15 an hour.

04:51:34.200 But like, say a good guy comes into the picture who has the money to support her family and make sure she never has to work a day in her life again.

04:51:48.040 She doesn't want to bow.

04:51:49.160 She doesn't want to cook. 1.00

04:51:50.600 She doesn't want to clean, whatever it is.

04:51:52.160 It's just confusing to me because it's like your husband's going to ask way less of you than your employer.

04:52:01.140 You'll do all the, like the cleaning, the cooking.

04:52:05.580 An employer will ask you to do that if you're in like food service or something.

04:52:09.080 A lot of women have experienced, you know, in food, waitressing or whatever it is. 1.00

04:52:13.820 You'll do it for an employer, but you won't do it for your husband.

04:52:20.240 And that's very confusing to me.

04:52:24.540 Or take it further in other, if it's, you know, if we're not talking about like a job that's a bit more physical,

04:52:30.100 you'll be submissive to your employer.

04:52:31.660 That's a cold corporation, your boss, but you won't be submissive to a man who loves you and who you love back.

04:52:39.920 I don't know.

04:52:42.700 It's confusing to me.

04:52:43.820 And the silence would indicate to me that I don't know if you guys agree.

04:52:50.580 Like you've come to this realization that you've all submitted to your, to the faceless corporation.

04:52:56.520 You go work for Facebook or Google or whatever.

04:52:59.800 They compensate you well.

04:53:01.500 But at the end of the day, they tell you, be here at this time.

04:53:05.680 Do this, do that, sit in a chair, be good and obedient.

04:53:10.260 If you don't, you lose the job.

04:53:12.920 You get fired.

04:53:13.600 You've traded your submission to men for the cold, heartless corporation.

04:53:21.040 It's an interesting trade.

04:53:23.920 Yeah.

04:53:24.360 But the comparison is like, your comparison is like, if you were the men, well, that is your comparison or you're with a man that makes you not have to work.

04:53:33.240 That wasn't initially what you said.

04:53:35.060 You just said, the question was just, would you bow to your men?

04:53:38.620 Sure.

04:53:39.820 Well, I added some extra details here.

04:53:42.320 Yeah.

04:53:42.520 Yeah.

04:53:42.640 But that's what I mean.

04:53:43.200 Now it's changed.

04:53:44.060 Now you're like, if you don't have to.

04:53:46.140 And by the way, by this, through this conversation, I'm like, I don't think I, I don't know.

04:53:52.420 I kind of changed my mind about the bow.

04:53:53.740 I think.

04:53:54.620 Oh, you're against the bow now.

04:53:55.840 No, no, no, no.

04:53:56.540 I was against it.

04:53:57.500 And now I'm like, maybe it's not like, maybe as a signer, like, maybe it's not as, but as I thought it was initially.

04:54:03.820 Cause I'm just, I always just think from my perspective, right.

04:54:08.280 It's like, so, okay.

04:54:09.640 Let's say there's a guy or I mean, I'll even like my own perspective.

04:54:13.560 Like if, if I'm making 2 million, $3 million a year and I want to date a submissive girl and you could be my life partner and I'll take care of everything. 1.00

04:54:26.540 You never have to work a day in your life.

04:54:28.780 You just got to take care of me.

04:54:30.480 And in fact, by helping me, you'll help me earn more money by taking some of the pressure off my life.

04:54:36.740 So by freeing up time for me, I'm going to go out there and earn just because of you, because you're in my life.

04:54:42.960 I'll go earn an extra half a mil a year because you're making my life easier.

04:54:47.380 And that enables me to work more and earn more.

04:54:51.060 Yeah.

04:54:51.640 But you can do that as a woman and I could come in your life and totally change it. 1.00

04:54:57.040 Or you can work for 70K a year, nine to five, be here at this time, wake up at this time.

04:55:05.300 But I mean, if the, if that means if like the money, whatever, first of all, like personally, my value is not necessarily a super, super rich guy, but yeah, I would be happy to have. 0.93

04:55:13.520 But like my criteria is like, if the guy's a dick and then he makes a lot of money and I wouldn't want to submit. 0.55

04:55:19.020 But if like, you know, what I need is a connection and what I need is like, I also need respect. 0.97

04:55:24.080 But I also need to be able to be myself, to be authentic and to do things that I love.

04:55:27.980 If I'm not able to do the things that I love, like play music or the things that I love really that fills my soul, then what, what's the point of me being in a relationship?

04:55:37.380 If I can be myself and do things that I love and vice versa, I think, and I think you don't, you shouldn't have to choose that.

04:55:46.080 That's what I mean.

04:55:46.600 No, because you said, you said, give up tarot, whatever.

04:55:49.500 Well, she does it for a profession to make money. 1.00

04:55:53.740 So she loves doing it.

04:55:55.360 So for example, she could have a full, she could have a day.

04:55:58.740 She could work a full work week where she's got 10 new clients a day and she's doing a tarot reading for 10, 20 people a day. 0.98

04:56:06.380 And she's, that's a full-time job. 0.99

04:56:08.240 I didn't understand it as a job.

04:56:09.700 I understood it as just a hobby.

04:56:12.640 Yeah.

04:56:13.260 Like she has to not do things that she loves.

04:56:15.200 That's, that's the only way I understood it.

04:56:16.900 I'm just thinking like if, if you could be involved with a guy that he makes a million dollars a year and you can be with him or you can make a hundred thousand dollars a year.

04:56:27.560 And be on your own.

04:56:29.840 I like, I don't know.

04:56:31.640 Well, there's just so many more elements.

04:56:35.000 It's, it's, you know, that's, that's why it's like, you just tell me like a guy that's super rich and I don't have to.

04:56:40.180 Sure.

04:56:40.500 I would, I mean, yeah, I would love that.

04:56:42.900 I think who wouldn't want to not have to work.

04:56:45.720 I would actually always want to work.

04:56:47.720 Really?

04:56:48.280 Life without work.

04:56:49.160 There's no challenge.

04:56:50.040 It's boring.

04:56:50.780 I personally think.

04:56:51.780 Oh yeah.

04:56:52.420 Who are like stay at home.

04:56:53.500 Well, we'll give you 10 years in the work.

04:56:55.380 They're really strong.

04:56:56.180 I could not do that.

04:56:57.520 Wait, you go ahead.

04:56:59.780 Finish your point.

04:57:00.560 Go ahead.

04:57:01.180 I was saying that I would always want to work because I feel like I would just feel empty that I'm not pursuing something that I love.

04:57:07.780 Do you want kids?

04:57:09.200 I am still kind of debating on that.

04:57:12.100 Well, let's leave that for a second.

04:57:13.820 How old did you say you were?

04:57:15.500 22.

04:57:16.620 Just give it a decade.

04:57:17.800 And then we'll see if you want to work or not.

04:57:20.240 Give it a decade.

04:57:21.300 Some people enjoy working.

04:57:22.160 Give it a decade when you're working and you're grinding for 10 hours plus a day at your job.

04:57:28.620 And then we'll see if you want to keep working.

04:57:29.820 Do you think there's guys who genuinely enjoy working?

04:57:32.580 Like men?

04:57:33.100 Yes.

04:57:33.200 Do you think men genuinely?

04:57:33.980 I think that most men are hardwired for it.

04:57:37.400 And they absolutely enjoy it.

04:57:40.180 But they don't have to go into the conflict that women do, the biological conflict of wanting to have a family and childbearing and nesting. 1.00

04:57:48.700 Men don't have this same conflict.

04:57:51.060 Women do. 1.00

04:57:51.620 And the other thing is that even though I know men absolutely love to work, right, I think they absolutely would love to work on their passion projects even more than working at a job for a boss.

04:58:01.880 So if you were to say, okay, man, you're liberated with $5 million to pursue X, I think that they would choose that very quickly.

04:58:12.140 Okay, but personally, I think, like, even if I would want to have a child, you can childbear and then you go back to work if you really truly enjoy it.

04:58:19.340 Some women, you think there's not a single woman in this world who really doesn't enjoy working? 1.00

04:58:25.260 No, I would never say that there's not a single.

04:58:27.660 I would never group anything in a monolith.

04:58:30.260 I would say that most women, the majority, the vast, vast majority of women have given the choice not to work or to work would choose not to work.

04:58:41.660 Perhaps the majority.

04:58:42.360 And I don't think that that's true of men.

04:58:44.800 I think that men would still choose to work, maybe not jobby jobs, but they would still choose to work.

04:58:51.960 But, no, I don't think most women would choose to work. 1.00

04:58:54.580 And this bears out when you ask them if they would prefer to work or not work if they did not have to.

04:59:00.720 Most of them say that they would prefer not to.

04:59:02.360 So do you think, because I always struggle to understand that, because for me, I am, like you say, men are hardwired to want to work.

04:59:12.080 I think that is true for a majority.

04:59:13.660 But for me, as someone who I could not see myself just not doing anything, I constantly have to be on the go and call them.

04:59:19.220 Well, I think we're speaking past each other, so maybe we can clarify some things.

04:59:24.160 It wouldn't be that you aren't doing anything.

04:59:27.900 But let me ask you a question.

04:59:30.200 Let's take a girl who works at Subway, and she says, I want to work, right? 0.94

04:59:34.560 Okay.

04:59:35.080 What the hell is the difference between her making a Subway sandwich for a customer and making a sandwich for her husband? 0.98

04:59:41.580 I have never really understood that, you know what I mean?

04:59:44.800 They're both work.

04:59:46.820 It's just like, why do you want to go work for strangers instead of working for your family?

04:59:50.720 I've never really understood that.

04:59:51.940 It just seems illogical and nonsensical to me.

04:59:55.280 I do understand that example.

04:59:56.700 I think it just depends on occupation.

04:59:58.340 Like for me, as someone who I want to be a lawyer, that's completely different.

05:00:01.840 You know what I mean?

05:00:03.520 If I were to be a submissive woman, my lawyer skills or my debating skills or problem solving would not be helpful at all if I'm trying to be a submissive woman. 0.62

05:00:17.280 Yeah, they would be extremely helpful.

05:00:18.980 So, you know why we need really smart women raising children? 1.00

05:00:23.700 It's because I don't want really dumb women raising children. 1.00

05:00:26.440 So, all those women who have the capacity to be really, really good lawyers and doctors and things like this who have those really high IQs, I'd rather see them at home teaching their children. 1.00

05:00:37.980 That's where I'd rather see them for the next generation to turn out all of those great high IQs. 1.00

05:00:43.720 I want those women having babies, and I want them nurturing those babies and making the next high IQ generation, right? 1.00

05:00:50.000 I don't want them wasted away in a cubicle.

05:00:52.600 That seems silly to me.

05:00:54.300 But that's not wasting away in their cubicle for them if that's what they truly love to do.

05:00:59.720 I do understand.

05:01:00.520 I mean, if you're someone who wants to have kids, if you're a woman who wants to work a high occupation job and have kids, then for sure you've got to make some sacrifices at some point of the child's life when you're working that position. 0.74

05:01:12.520 But, again, it is possible, and I don't think you should put away your passion to raise a kid because that would...

05:01:20.520 If you want to work, if that's what you feel like you're compelled to do and you don't actually want to do anything but that, fine.

05:01:28.080 Nobody's saying that you can't do that, right?

05:01:30.400 You can, and you have every right to.

05:01:32.780 But for the vast, vast majority of women, the conflict does not come between I want to work or do not want to work.

05:01:39.660 It comes between I have to work, but I'd rather have a family.

05:01:44.660 That's the real conflict which comes up because we value education over family.

05:01:51.360 That's what we do.

05:01:51.920 That's why women get married in their 30s now because they want to have this social safety net, right? 1.00

05:01:56.560 The safety net of something to fall back on.

05:01:59.980 So the big conflict really doesn't come into play between women who just demand to be at work because they want to be there all day, 1.00

05:02:07.200 but rather that they have to work because people have to work in modernity in order to make ends meet, right?

05:02:14.000 But let me ask you this, now that I've kind of given you my view on this.

05:02:19.120 Do you think that if you went down the street and asked women, would you prefer to spend the rest of your life working 0.96

05:02:25.580 or would you prefer early on to be able to settle down with a man who could provide for you that you loved?

05:02:31.200 Which answer do you think they'd give?

05:02:33.320 I mean, most likely they would want to have a family and settle down.

05:02:36.780 Right.

05:02:37.280 But all I'm saying is that...

05:02:38.380 That's my whole point, right?

05:02:39.940 I would prefer a society where you made that easier for them to do that rather than a society which valued sending our best and brightest women 1.00

05:02:48.700 not to carry the future generation of children, which only they could do, but rather to slave the workforce underneath a boss. 0.96

05:02:56.680 That just seems insane to me.

05:02:58.300 Right.

05:02:58.540 So everything is about the choice.

05:02:59.900 I just think that there shouldn't be that much societal pressure to have kids if you don't want to.

05:03:04.980 You know what I mean?

05:03:05.860 Why?

05:03:06.360 Why shouldn't there be so much societal pressure instead to value going to college, for instance,

05:03:13.380 where useless degrees are handed out like they're candy?

05:03:18.060 In fact, it's so bad, the standards have gotten so low that anybody can do it.

05:03:23.140 College can't be about rewarding the best and the brightest or everybody couldn't get through college.

05:03:28.020 But they can.

05:03:30.000 And so the standards have necessarily lowered in order to appeal to the lowest common denominator.

05:03:35.760 A high school diploma is the equivalency of a high school education just 70 years ago.

05:03:41.060 So it's like, why shouldn't there be a national propaganda around a nuclear family and having children

05:03:47.260 instead of national propaganda and wasting your youth and your childbearing years going and getting a worthless degree

05:03:53.840 that almost nobody ever uses?

05:03:55.740 I'd like to know the answer to that question.

05:03:58.020 Because if you know that your true passion is being in this whatever occupation job that is,

05:04:04.700 and then you have a society pressuring you to have a kid, and you feel like, oh, I have to do this, I have to sacrifice this,

05:04:11.160 you're always going to regret not pursuing what you want to do, and that kid is going to know.

05:04:15.800 That kid is going to know that you didn't do what you wanted to do.

05:04:18.400 So what?

05:04:20.260 So what?

05:04:21.060 I mean, what do you think sacrifice is about, patriotism?

05:04:23.720 Do you think that many get drafted and have to go to war, right?

05:04:27.140 That they don't look back and go, oh, I could have done X and I could have done Y and I could have done Z?

05:04:31.760 There isn't such a thing as patriotism.

05:04:33.920 There isn't such a thing in a nation as sacrifice for the nation.

05:04:37.560 Why is this idea that everybody must endlessly pursue endless hedonism the best way instead of people pursuing what the greater good for the actual nation is?

05:04:48.000 That seems way wiser to me if you're going to propagandize an entire country.

05:04:53.620 Why not propagandize them towards procreation and having nuclear families and things which are really good for the health of the nation?

05:05:01.100 Why not do that?

05:05:03.120 So you, okay, so you're being that as a grand scheme of things instead of in a particular family.

05:05:08.300 Because sometimes there are women and men who have kids and don't pursue something they wanted to do and that affects the family and that causes a generational trauma.

05:05:19.160 Because every human being on planet Earth has some pursuance that they weren't able to do.

05:05:23.840 The whole world is filled with failed rock stars and failed artists and failed, you know, professionals of all kinds who chased a dream that they were not able to achieve.

05:05:35.300 I mean, that's most people have some regret of something they weren't able to do.

05:05:39.660 And this kind of idea of that because people have kind of unachievable goals that we shouldn't kind of move society towards these achievable things, which most people can do, which have proven time and time again to increase the happiness levels of almost everybody around.

05:05:56.480 That still seems way better to me.

05:05:58.820 Okay, so you think for the greater good, it is important to pursue something that you don't want, even if that's going to make you and your family miserable, possibly.

05:06:09.780 Well, so this is loaded.

05:06:13.240 Recognize how you said this, right?

05:06:15.740 If it necessarily was going to make people's families miserable, how could it be for the greater good?

05:06:22.000 That makes no sense.

05:06:23.000 Yes, so if it was for the greater good, the most amount of people would find it useful and the most amount of people would find this to be something which they would want to pursue.

05:06:32.400 Or it couldn't be for the greater good, right?

05:06:35.340 It couldn't be.

05:06:36.460 I'm speaking of...

05:06:37.120 Like, how could it?

05:06:39.300 You know what I mean?

05:06:39.880 I mean, you were speaking about greater good and the way I understood you were speaking about the nation and perhaps even the world, how it would work better in the world.

05:06:47.100 But then there are going to be those really unhappy families who just did this because that was the societal pressure.

05:06:52.900 I mean, that's always going to be the case.

05:06:54.560 That's what I'm saying.

05:06:55.080 Yeah, but we're not going to...

05:06:56.560 You would never in a million years, for instance, you would never say that there are going to be some people on planet Earth who perform better when they're doing drugs.

05:07:06.880 There are.

05:07:07.600 There's going to be some people who do.

05:07:09.200 You would never say everybody should be able to do drugs because some people who do drugs perform better than others and have regrets they never did drugs.

05:07:18.700 Does that even make sense?

05:07:20.380 Would you ever say that in a million years?

05:07:22.300 Of course not.

05:07:23.040 I don't think...

05:07:23.560 Of course not.

05:07:24.700 But I don't think drugs would affect anyone positively, to be honest with you.

05:07:29.560 No?

05:07:30.320 No, wait a second.

05:07:31.180 Caffeine doesn't affect people...

05:07:31.640 Well, unless you're talking about...

05:07:32.540 Hang on.

05:07:32.940 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

05:07:34.440 Hang on.

05:07:35.280 Caffeine and sugar doesn't affect people positively?

05:07:37.980 Oh, that's what I was about to say, unless you're talking about those things and, like...

05:07:42.880 You mean drugs?

05:07:44.340 Like, do you mean something that was prescriptive or just you're going to go...

05:07:48.060 Even prescriptive as well.

05:07:49.560 There's all sorts of, like, for instance, you think narcotics, like painkillers, which are highly addictive, aren't highly useful to society?

05:07:58.240 Of course they are.

05:07:58.920 And so, like, this idea that, oh, wait a second, because some people would have preferred to have been on those drugs that we can't regulate or propagandize against them, that's insanity.

05:08:11.440 It's the same thing at the national level.

05:08:13.140 This idea of endless hedonism and individualism with absolutely no thought to the greater society at whole is pure female solipsism. 1.00

05:08:25.100 Men seem to understand this very well, and the men I talk to go, yeah, that makes a lot of sense.

05:08:30.140 We probably should move towards those things.

05:08:31.760 But when you look at voting patterns, that's what those things move to.

05:08:35.180 Patriotism, nuclear family, anti-degeneracy, that's what men vote for. 0.99

05:08:39.600 Women vote purely around solipsism and let me do what I want, which is just crazy to me. 1.00

05:08:46.000 If everyone understands that this is the optimal option, why do you think, especially in this day and age, there's so many people who disagree with that?

05:08:54.580 Okay, I'm going to give you the answer, and you're not going to like it.

05:08:56.940 For one reason, one reason only, because of women's suffrage. 1.00

05:09:00.540 Women's suffrage absolutely destroyed the United States of America, and women's voting patterns prove it. 1.00

05:09:05.800 And the truth of the matter is that women vote mostly against risk-taking, and because they vote mostly against risk-taking, they impede on people's freedoms. 0.98

05:09:18.040 And so individual people, men especially, who had the opportunity to vote out illegal immigration, keep the country exactly how they wanted it to be, that was all completely destroyed by female suffrage. 0.74

05:09:31.620 Men, if only men had been able to vote in the United States of America, right now, the United States of America would be beyond the glorious, shining example on the hill. 0.56

05:09:45.100 It would be beyond that.

05:09:46.800 And the voting patterns prove it.

05:09:48.440 Every single time it's a vote for security over the freedom to actually pursue these higher values, women vote against it almost every single time. 1.00

05:10:00.440 Okay.

05:10:01.000 And that's what I think.

05:10:02.280 I think that that's the primary problem.

05:10:04.360 The primary problem is that the two sexes do not see eye to eye on what is valuable. 0.99

05:10:12.380 And this is why I think that one's going to have to inevitably choose, and it'll always move back that way.

05:10:17.620 All of this, what you see before you right now with egalitarianism, this will all reset eventually.

05:10:23.100 And it'll just go back to primitivism.

05:10:25.640 Men will be in charge anyway. 1.00

05:10:27.780 Andrew, you're going to get canceled if you're talking like that, Andrew.

05:10:30.620 You know, you've got to be careful.

05:10:32.680 You're going to get canceled, my friend.

05:10:35.480 I don't think so.

05:10:37.040 I think I don't – I've never – actually, you know who knows this better than anybody?

05:10:41.780 Feminist theorists know this better than anybody else. 1.00

05:10:45.120 Feminists are the ones who came up with force doctrine. 1.00

05:10:48.040 I just borrowed it from them.

05:10:49.620 They were the ones who understood that men at any time collectively could take charge, and there was very little women could do.

05:10:56.160 Feminists theorists theorized all of this. 1.00

05:10:58.780 They knew all of this years and years before I was ever born, hundreds of years before I was born, in fact.

05:11:05.920 Almost 200 years before, in fact.

05:11:08.960 It's their own writings that I go off of.

05:11:11.340 They insisted – the feminists insisted that women had the right to vote, but when it came to women voting for the right to vote, they wouldn't let them do it because every time women had the opportunity to vote on their own voting rights, they voted against it every single time. 0.99

05:11:30.060 I do have to move things on.

05:11:31.900 We've been on this for a bit, but we do have one – the video and then a couple reactions.

05:11:37.600 Austin?

05:11:38.620 We'll do the video first.

05:11:41.340 The video I sent you, private chat.

05:11:50.380 It's just the one we reacted to, I think, last week.

05:11:54.280 Wait, what?

05:11:54.660 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

05:11:56.720 Can you show us, please?

05:11:58.120 Yeah.

05:12:04.420 Okay.

05:12:06.640 All right.

05:12:08.360 Yeah.

05:12:08.960 I went away with everything under the last boss, and it wasn't good for me at all, so I want guidance.

05:12:16.260 I want leadership.

05:12:18.260 But don't just, like, boss me around, you know?

05:12:21.440 Like, lead me.

05:12:22.900 Lead me when I'm in the mood to be led.

05:12:27.800 Does that resonate with any of you?

05:12:35.700 So, you want – I mean, he's talking in the workplace, but, like, this is what I see when women say they want a masculine man, dominant man, a man who's a leader, who has leadership characteristics, who takes initiative.

05:12:50.600 You want all these traits, but you want to pick and choose. 1.00

05:12:56.840 You want the man to be able to turn that shit on with a light switch. 0.99

05:12:59.580 You only want him to be a leader in some contexts. 1.00

05:13:03.740 In other contexts, you want him to be a good, submissive boy, pat him on the head.

05:13:09.580 Good boy.

05:13:12.180 It's just interesting.

05:13:14.060 Yeah.

05:13:14.520 I mean, I don't think anything is black or white, generally.

05:13:18.780 You know, I think it's very nuanced.

05:13:20.040 Well, it's true.

05:13:20.820 Like, you – I mean, if you want to talk about things like that, relationships, like, it just isn't.

05:13:25.740 It isn't.

05:13:26.340 It's like –

05:13:26.760 No, but it's not black or –

05:13:28.500 It's two humans.

05:13:28.560 They're very complex.

05:13:29.920 No, it doesn't have to be just one way or just the other way.

05:13:32.020 Like, you have two people.

05:13:33.320 It's very complex.

05:13:34.100 And, first of all, I think that, like, you have masculinity and, like, femininity, let's say.

05:13:39.540 And everyone's kind of, like, there on the spectrum, kind of, right?

05:13:42.020 So, everyone's going to find someone that's, like, complementary to them.

05:13:45.400 No, but, like, if you ask most women, like, they want a guy to take the lead, to take charge. 1.00

05:13:51.300 Yeah.

05:13:52.040 In the dating context, you want the guy to make pretty much all the moves.

05:13:58.320 Like, I do agree that women are contradictory. 1.00

05:14:00.360 I agree with that.

05:14:01.140 I know what you mean.

05:14:02.000 And you want a man – oh, like, you see these memes.

05:14:05.180 Like, I want a guy who's going to say, be ready at 7 p.m.

05:14:09.220 I'm going to pick you up.

05:14:10.200 We're going here.

05:14:11.260 Y'all want that.

05:14:12.320 But then you also kind of don't want – like, it's – they're totally mixed signals.

05:14:17.240 And then, also, you say you want a leader, but, like, you don't want to follow is the big thing.

05:14:23.780 In order for somebody to be able to lead, if you want a man who's a leader, you got to be a follower.

05:14:31.020 There is no – we can't both be the leader.

05:14:33.620 You don't think you can sometimes be, sometimes not be?

05:14:36.240 You don't think you can kind of, like, move around?

05:14:38.480 You can, you can, but if you want the man to be a leader, I don't really think you can.

05:14:44.280 If that's what you want and – yeah.

05:14:45.480 If that's what you – like, yeah, there can be some dynamics like that.

05:14:49.180 Yeah.

05:14:49.560 But if you want, broadly speaking, and I think women, broadly speaking, want men to be leaders.

05:14:54.780 Yeah.

05:14:55.040 What you're saying is, like, they're contradictory with themselves.

05:14:57.820 Yeah, it's like – and I get it, yeah.

05:15:00.400 On a sort of biological evolutionary level, you're attracted to men who are leaders, who are confident, who take initiative, who are masculine, who are dominant, who have those leadership traits.

05:15:12.040 But feminism has put it into your mind not to be a follower.

05:15:18.120 So you won't be submissive.

05:15:19.580 You won't follow his lead.

05:15:20.940 But you want him to be a leader.

05:15:22.660 You want him to take the initiative.

05:15:24.580 You want him to lead, but you won't follow.

05:15:26.780 Be the leader, but I won't follow you.

05:15:30.540 It doesn't make sense.

05:15:31.340 That doesn't work.

05:15:32.320 If you want a leader, somebody's got to be the follower.

05:15:36.480 And I can't lead with somebody who won't follow.

05:15:39.660 Yeah.

05:15:40.220 But it doesn't mean that you must not have an opinion.

05:15:45.540 What's that?

05:15:46.180 It doesn't mean that you must not have an opinion.

05:15:48.940 Like, you're still in a relationship, right?

05:15:50.580 Like, I understand your synergy of, like, followers and a leader.

05:15:54.080 But in any leader, follower, you still have, you're still going to have discussions.

05:15:59.520 You're still going to, just earlier you said, well, that's just weird.

05:16:02.560 That's just not being humans.

05:16:03.880 If I, if I'm, hold on, if I'm the CEO, if I'm the, if I'm the CEO of a corporation.

05:16:09.640 Yeah.

05:16:09.940 And I give a task to an employee.

05:16:12.760 Yeah.

05:16:13.520 It's not the, the, the employee should not be like.

05:16:17.140 So that's how you want your woman to be. 0.97

05:16:19.260 You're a CEO and you just.

05:16:21.200 No, I'm, I'm using, I'm using an analogy to better articulate a point.

05:16:25.020 Yeah.

05:16:25.060 Um, so my, no, not a, not an employee, but, uh, yeah.

05:16:33.580 Yeah.

05:16:33.980 You're using an analogy because that's the. 0.98

05:16:36.040 If she wants me to pay for the first date and do all this shit and be a leader and she 0.98

05:16:39.420 never approaches guys. 0.99

05:16:40.860 She wants, she wants to be approached.

05:16:43.120 She wants me to take the lead in every realm.

05:16:46.600 She wants me to plan dates, everything.

05:16:49.960 Then yeah.

05:16:51.080 Then yeah, she must not have an opinion.

05:16:52.400 Then you should probably listen to what I say.

05:16:55.060 But if you want to listen, ladies, if you want to start sliding into my DMS and hitting 1.00

05:17:00.040 me up and paying for first dates and doing all this shit and moving things forward physically 0.96

05:17:05.580 and sexually, then we can have a conversation about who should listen and who should be a 0.99

05:17:10.080 follower, who should be a leader.

05:17:12.380 I don't, I don't see how that equates to, to like not having an opinion, not, not like

05:17:20.160 you can have an opinion.

05:17:21.640 Yeah.

05:17:21.720 That's what I mean.

05:17:22.180 Like even earlier you said like someone that doesn't quarrel.

05:17:25.040 It's like, that's not a relationship.

05:17:26.940 You're going to have quarrels.

05:17:28.360 I'm not saying you always, there's always going to be discussions.

05:17:31.900 You're always going to have like two humans.

05:17:34.200 Yeah.

05:17:34.500 No, there should be no quarreling.

05:17:36.460 Well, whatever you want to call it, but like, you're never going to.

05:17:39.240 Like, to want someone who's always going to agree with you.

05:17:44.440 First of all, I would want to be challenged personally.

05:17:46.700 I would want my ideas to be challenged.

05:17:48.640 I would want my boyfriend to want to be challenged so that we can like find, because for me, okay.

05:17:54.100 What, what I know is like.

05:17:55.240 We're different though.

05:17:56.580 Men and women are different.

05:17:58.000 They are.

05:17:58.680 They are.

05:17:59.100 Yeah.

05:17:59.260 So, but you guys, no, but you are, but I mean, if you talk about men, let's say like you're talking.

05:18:05.960 Wait, wait, wait.

05:18:06.260 I got to respond to the, you want to be challenged in a relationship.

05:18:10.080 I don't, most men, we contend with the world in our lives, right?

05:18:16.960 The home has to be our peace, right?

05:18:20.060 But if the home is not our recluse, if the home is not our peace and you're quarreling

05:18:27.560 and nagging and just constant, constant conflict because you're challenging us, that's not a

05:18:36.660 good girlfriend.

05:18:37.280 That's not a good wife. 1.00

05:18:37.980 No, I under, well, that's the thing.

05:18:39.240 That's not a good boyfriend either.

05:18:40.520 And I get that because my ex was kind of like that, but I'm saying like you're going to bump

05:18:47.440 heads, heads, sometimes you're not going to always, you know, like I'm just saying it's

05:18:51.360 going to happen, but there's a difference between that and like, yeah, always like creating

05:18:55.700 problems, always creating conflicts.

05:18:57.380 I get that, but that's for everybody.

05:18:59.500 Nobody wants to be in a relationship.

05:19:00.860 Like, you know, you don't want a guy like that.

05:19:02.600 You don't want a girl like that either. 1.00

05:19:04.960 Okay.

05:19:05.400 That's just a given.

05:19:06.660 But you like to just want to someone to constantly agree with you.

05:19:11.540 It's like when you want, you don't want to, you don't want to know if you're wrong about

05:19:17.980 something or maybe you have to think something through a bit like further or like maybe there

05:19:22.360 are other options or maybe.

05:19:24.260 I will listen.

05:19:25.460 Perhaps, perhaps if you don't mind, I would, I would like to just ask you two, two very simple

05:19:31.340 questions.

05:19:32.780 The first is you yourself personally.

05:19:35.920 Would you prefer to have a man who treated you more like an equal or who treated you

05:19:42.980 more like he was in the dominant role and you were to be a submissive follower, which

05:19:48.120 would you personally prefer?

05:19:50.000 There's no wrong answer.

05:19:51.100 Yeah.

05:19:51.420 I'm not even a hundred percent sure because I haven't had a lot of relationships and I've

05:19:55.220 had bad ones.

05:19:56.040 So I, and I'm being honest, it's not that I don't want to answer.

05:20:00.160 I'm just not sure what the synergy I would want to be in.

05:20:04.380 Okay.

05:20:04.660 Well, let me ask you the second, let me ask you the second question, as I understand your

05:20:09.120 answer to the first, that you're not sure.

05:20:11.000 Do you think that most men would prefer their women to be in a submissive position or a dominant

05:20:16.340 one?

05:20:17.340 No, submissive.

05:20:18.380 But again, I think what I'm arguing.

05:20:19.840 Yeah, right.

05:20:20.020 Hang on, hang on.

05:20:20.640 Yeah.

05:20:20.840 Hang on.

05:20:21.560 I agree.

05:20:22.620 I agree that I think most men would prefer their women in a submissive role. 1.00

05:20:26.500 And you agree with me that most men would prefer their woman in a submissive role. 0.98

05:20:30.740 I think so, yeah.

05:20:31.300 If that is true, then if you look for an equal role where you say, okay, wait a second, we're

05:20:38.100 equals.

05:20:38.720 It's not submission.

05:20:40.400 Don't you necessarily narrow the field of men for yourself, like by an incredible amount,

05:20:47.940 right?

05:20:48.140 Yeah, possibly, yeah.

05:20:51.500 Yeah.

05:20:51.860 Yeah.

05:20:52.360 Yeah.

05:20:52.680 Yeah.

05:20:53.040 So when Brian says, it always sounds bad rolling off the top because we're so indoctrinated

05:21:01.740 into egalitarianism, we're all interchangeable widgets and everybody's equal to everybody

05:21:05.940 else.

05:21:06.740 Clearly, though, you have a bit of life experience.

05:21:08.880 You know that that's not true.

05:21:10.000 Um, so, so the question then becomes, can't you value a person's opinion, but at the same

05:21:16.880 time dismiss it?

05:21:18.180 Can't you say, I value what you're saying, but you're wrong and I'm going to do this

05:21:22.100 anyway, because that's what's for the greater good of our family.

05:21:25.300 Can't you value an opinion and dismiss an opinion?

05:21:28.940 If, if like a message comes in, there was something covering them up, you can go to the

05:21:33.040 split.

05:21:33.460 No, you're good.

05:21:34.220 You're good.

05:21:34.620 Go ahead, Andrew.

05:21:35.200 Go ahead.

05:21:37.620 Wait, what?

05:21:38.260 Did something?

05:21:41.840 No, he, he, he, uh, I did a doubt.

05:21:44.560 Oh.

05:21:45.940 I don't know why he's there.

05:21:47.700 Oops.

05:21:50.720 Can you guys hear me?

05:21:52.140 Yeah.

05:21:52.800 We can't see you.

05:21:53.680 Okay.

05:21:54.340 Something happened.

05:21:54.940 Sorry, I was.

05:21:56.880 Something happened?

05:21:57.660 Yeah.

05:21:58.500 Yeah, I don't know.

05:21:59.200 I just lost all audio.

05:22:00.580 Oh, weird.

05:22:00.860 Uh, so I was just, I, my, the end of my question is, can't you, at the same time you value

05:22:04.900 opinion, you value an opinion, dismiss it?

05:22:08.440 Yeah.

05:22:08.780 I, I don't see the logic in dismissing an opinion that I value.

05:22:12.800 If I value your opinion, I'm going to think about it.

05:22:14.980 I'm going to.

05:22:15.160 I don't understand.

05:22:15.520 I value the opinion of my children.

05:22:17.600 Mm-hmm.

05:22:18.160 But I dismiss the opinions of them all the time, right?

05:22:20.880 Yeah.

05:22:21.700 Yeah.

05:22:22.660 So I don't understand.

05:22:23.340 But as grown-ups, as two grown-ups.

05:22:25.040 How is that, how is that illogical?

05:22:27.540 Well, that's, that's a completely different scenario.

05:22:30.460 You're talking about kids.

05:22:31.660 Because kids are kids.

05:22:32.660 And because adults are adults.

05:22:34.320 Wait, wait, wait.

05:22:35.100 Hang on.

05:22:35.420 My question to you was, can you value an opinion?

05:22:38.340 Oh, okay.

05:22:39.440 And dismiss the opinion that you value.

05:22:41.980 You said, no, that's illogical.

05:22:43.320 But I just showed you how that's not illogical.

05:22:45.380 Okay.

05:22:45.740 Yeah.

05:22:46.540 But how do you, the way you value your kid's opinion is like, you know, that kids are,

05:22:52.160 you know, kids.

05:22:53.760 And the, it's different than the valuing of like your, your wife's opinion, right?

05:22:58.940 We can agree with that.

05:23:00.100 But hang, hang on, hang on.

05:23:01.180 Let's back up.

05:23:02.280 But your concept, yes.

05:23:05.100 I'm not saying that a woman is a kid.

05:23:08.060 I was just giving you a comparison, a very quick comparison to show you how you could value

05:23:13.040 an opinion while at the same time dismissing it.

05:23:16.120 Yes.

05:23:16.520 You say, okay, this is valuable, but I outright dismiss it.

05:23:20.220 Even though I care about your opinion, it doesn't mean your opinion is going to be correct,

05:23:23.640 right?

05:23:24.240 I don't see why that couldn't be applied in intersexual dynamics between men and women.

05:23:29.460 Of course it can be.

05:23:30.920 I guess, yeah.

05:23:32.640 Yes.

05:23:33.260 So that's, I mean, that's what I'm saying is, yeah.

05:23:36.720 So if we're, if we're looking at this objectively, when Brian says to you, well, wait, I want a woman 1.00

05:23:41.740 who's submissive.

05:23:42.500 You say most men want a woman who's submissive.

05:23:45.060 You say, but I want an opinion.

05:23:47.160 Brian says, well, you should have an opinion, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to

05:23:51.060 dismiss it.

05:23:51.900 I don't see what you're actually disagreeing with.

05:23:56.000 But I mean, I think it's the definition of value too, like in the sense of like when I

05:24:02.820 talk about the valuing the opinion of like grown up adults, it's like, it's, it's, you

05:24:13.080 value it because it's something that you can't actually like think about.

05:24:17.120 And like, and again, it depends on situations, but like kids generally, like young kids, it's

05:24:22.900 like they're, you don't value it in something that can be, well, sometimes, yeah, it could

05:24:28.160 be tangible, but anyways, yes, your concept, I get your concept and yes, you can dismiss.

05:24:33.780 Yeah.

05:24:34.420 Yeah.

05:24:34.740 So you can value an opinion.

05:24:36.260 I get your logic.

05:24:37.540 You can really value an opinion and dismiss the opinion at the same time that you value

05:24:42.060 it.

05:24:42.400 And so the, what I, what I think happens, and this is just my opinion, but I think we have

05:24:47.480 a lot of sloganeering where, especially under egalitarianism, we think a lot about the

05:24:53.500 slogans of like, but my opinion matters.

05:24:56.060 It's like, yeah, I think your opinion does matter, but that doesn't mean that it's going

05:25:00.420 to matter in every situation or that it shouldn't be dismissed and dismissed often because here's

05:25:06.020 the thing you and I both know you you're, you're 39, you're not particularly young, right? 1.00

05:25:11.880 A lot of people have a lot of opinions that are fucking stupid, right? 1.00

05:25:15.560 Like, isn't that true? 1.00

05:25:16.600 They just have a lot of really dumb opinions. 1.00

05:25:18.880 Yeah, of course. 1.00

05:25:20.240 Yeah.

05:25:20.560 So, I mean, and, and don't you dismiss those opinions all the time? 1.00

05:25:23.860 It's just being stupid. 0.98

05:25:24.780 Yeah, but I think we, like, this conversation goes back to our earlier conversation was like, 0.99

05:25:30.340 but then we assume that like, because you're a man, then it's better.

05:25:34.900 I think that's where.

05:25:36.740 Well, then I'm going to ask you a couple other questions just to kind of figure this out,

05:25:41.080 right?

05:25:41.360 And see where this leads.

05:25:42.860 Would you say if you had to make the comparison, if you were on the spot, right? 1.00

05:25:47.620 Gun to your head. 0.99

05:25:48.360 Which sex do you think is more logical and reasonable, men or women? 1.00

05:25:54.420 Yeah, probably men. 0.51

05:25:56.240 Okay.

05:25:56.760 Well, then by this.

05:25:58.540 So, I mean.

05:25:59.700 So, then an entailment.

05:26:00.480 Hang on.

05:26:01.020 So, then an entailment there.

05:26:02.360 If you think that men are more logical and reasonable, and you think that that is so,

05:26:07.280 then why would my position of you should probably follow the logic and the reason be in any

05:26:15.160 way disputed?

05:26:16.120 It seems totally rational to me, right?

05:26:18.380 Well, first of all, I just don't think all men are logical and. . . 0.97

05:26:22.000 I'm not saying all.

05:26:23.040 No, I know you're not.

05:26:24.300 I know you're not.

05:26:24.880 Yeah, more am I saying that all women are not logical and rational. 1.00

05:26:28.440 Yeah, men generally are more logical than women, but I, and also, I don't think. . .

05:26:33.260 Would you rather have a leader who is more logical and rational or more emotional?

05:26:36.960 Yeah, of course, logical and rational.

05:26:38.680 Yeah, logical and rational.

05:26:39.840 So, men are more logical and rational.

05:26:41.920 But you need both.

05:26:42.260 And you'd rather have a leader who is more logical and rational, and you think that men would

05:26:46.140 prefer a submissive wife and you would prefer a leader, then it stands to reason to me

05:26:50.360 that you would want the man to lead, right?

05:26:52.000 Sure.

05:26:55.400 I just . . .

05:26:56.600 My point is just . . . the way sometimes you talk about . . . or men talk about it, it's

05:27:00.780 as if . . . or like . . . yeah, it's as if like . . . we shouldn't say anything.

05:27:06.900 Like, it's just . . . it's improbable to just be with another human and just expect them to

05:27:12.240 just never say anything, never get into conflict, never, like . . because that . .

05:27:16.820 I think that that . . . I understand what you're saying.

05:27:18.980 And to steal man it, and you can correct me if I'm wrong, what you're saying is, you hear

05:27:23.160 a lot of rhetoric from different places which say, okay, we're going to just utilize women 1.00

05:27:29.260 as objects, or opinions don't matter, and they need to just do what the fuck they're 0.99

05:27:32.620 told at all times, day and night, right? 0.91

05:27:35.020 Something akin to that?

05:27:36.000 Yeah, if you go to the extreme, basically, of like, what we . . . or what women hear, I

05:27:41.600 think.

05:27:42.000 And I think that's the big pushback, generally.

05:27:44.000 Yeah, but you know who they hear that from?

05:27:45.600 They hear that from women. 1.00

05:27:47.560 They hear that from feminist . . . 1.00

05:27:48.380 Yeah, maybe.

05:27:49.440 They hear it from feminist propagandists. 1.00

05:27:52.220 Men don't say that. 0.89

05:27:53.140 They don't say, we hate women's opinion, and we hate women, and we want them to all be 0.99

05:27:57.280 an abuser. 0.96

05:27:58.600 They don't say that.

05:27:59.420 What they say instead is, this is the role that I want, the role that I want for you.

05:28:03.240 I don't really hear women, or men, ever producing the rhetoric that women's opinions don't matter.

05:28:09.260 Rather, I hear feminist women claim that that's what men say. 1.00

05:28:13.680 But I don't really hear men saying it.

05:28:15.760 Warlord 69, you woo donated $99.

05:28:19.560 Ryan 07, Andrew, God bless you, thank you for shining the light on everything that I used

05:28:25.300 to be blind on.

05:28:26.840 Question for the panel, what is the first thing you look for when visiting a new hotel?

05:28:33.240 What? 1.00

05:28:33.940 What the fuck? 1.00

05:28:34.960 What? 1.00

05:28:36.040 Bed bugs?

05:28:37.640 Can we agree?

05:28:38.300 Bed bugs?

05:28:38.760 I mean, bed bugs.

05:28:39.100 Hang on, hang on.

05:28:39.880 Brian, wait, wait, wait.

05:28:41.300 Okay, hang on.

05:28:42.260 I've got to turn this into something now.

05:28:44.140 Okay.

05:28:44.980 Brian, you have OCD, right?

05:28:48.460 Yeah.

05:28:49.500 Do you take a blacklight with you to hotels, Brian?

05:28:54.120 No.

05:28:54.980 No, but I bring my own pillow.

05:28:59.360 No.

05:28:59.740 Oh, no.

05:29:00.460 I travel with my own pillow. 0.99

05:29:01.840 You know, maybe you got me thinking, maybe I've got to bring my own sheets and shit, 0.96

05:29:06.680 but that's a lot. 0.98

05:29:08.420 And I will flip the mattress just to check for bed bugs, you know?

05:29:12.340 That's smart, though.

05:29:13.620 200 IQ.

05:29:15.340 Yeah, that's smart.

05:29:16.140 That's smart.

05:29:17.860 Risk mitigation.

05:29:20.740 Mitigating the risk. 0.98

05:29:22.520 What, are you doing fucking gang signs over there? 1.00

05:29:24.200 What the fuck are you doing? 1.00

05:29:25.200 Yeah. 1.00

05:29:25.380 All right.

05:29:28.140 Throwing up something.

05:29:29.220 I don't know.

05:29:29.440 Well, yeah.

05:29:29.920 In any case, I appreciated the convo.

05:29:31.980 I thought it was a good back and forth.

05:29:34.580 Yeah, thanks.

05:29:35.640 Quick follow-up on this.

05:29:37.800 If you had to pick one, chivalry or equality?

05:29:40.500 Chivalry?

05:29:45.680 Chivalry?

05:29:47.000 Well, you have to pick one.

05:29:48.240 Yeah.

05:29:48.520 I think it's more nuanced than that.

05:29:51.900 Alex.

05:29:52.220 But you have to. 0.99

05:29:53.460 Listen, if I have to pick the, like, huge lesbian pink hair lunatic in my genie wish, 1.00

05:29:59.820 you've got to pick one of these, okay? 0.97

05:30:02.060 Because equality doesn't work either.

05:30:04.740 I think both are.

05:30:05.820 I would say.

05:30:09.540 I think I would say chivalry.

05:30:12.440 I think I would say chivalry.

05:30:15.300 Me?

05:30:16.520 All right.

05:30:18.840 Go ahead.

05:30:19.520 Go ahead.

05:30:19.820 Just go ahead.

05:30:20.240 Oh.

05:30:23.980 Wait, that's a good question.

05:30:26.920 I see the benefits of both.

05:30:29.040 White, deep down, I think chivalry.

05:30:32.900 Mm-hmm.

05:30:37.160 Equality.

05:30:39.160 Equality.

05:30:41.320 Equality.

05:30:46.080 Now, to the women who said that you would prefer equality, 0.99

05:30:50.360 I just wanted to kind of throw out what that would actually mean.

05:30:55.560 All female privilege is gone. 0.88

05:30:57.600 Men are no longer approaching you for dates.

05:31:01.160 Men no longer slide into the DMs. 0.61

05:31:03.880 Men are no longer paying for the dates.

05:31:06.360 Men are no longer paying for anything. 0.94

05:31:08.920 Men expect to be treated the exact same way that they treat women. 0.96

05:31:13.560 They expect to be approached.

05:31:15.000 They expect all of this.

05:31:17.560 Would that change your value assessment at all?

05:31:19.920 Not for me.

05:31:23.240 No.

05:31:26.200 Didn't earlier you said you want chivalry?

05:31:29.580 But this is a question of this or that.

05:31:31.840 Sure.

05:31:31.940 So you want chivalry, but not at the expense of equality.

05:31:35.660 Yes, I said I appreciate it.

05:31:37.340 Okay.

05:31:38.700 Interesting.

05:31:39.640 Interesting.

05:31:39.980 So you guys would be in favor of, for example, women being drafted in the military?

05:31:46.540 If it comes down to it, I mean...

05:31:48.560 Yeah.

05:31:49.340 Mm-hmm.

05:31:50.040 Would you guys...

05:31:50.760 But...

05:31:51.260 So for me, I personally do believe that men are physically stronger than women.

05:31:57.040 I'm able to acknowledge these differences between genders.

05:32:00.380 However, the question at hand was if I prefer this or that.

05:32:03.340 Mm-hmm.

05:32:03.860 So I chose equality.

05:32:06.280 Yeah.

05:32:07.360 I do think that physical standpoint is something different.

05:32:10.000 Yeah, but hang on.

05:32:11.240 But hang on.

05:32:11.880 No, no, no.

05:32:12.420 You can't kind of slide out there.

05:32:15.680 Because you're giving us a value judgment, you're saying between these two things, chivalry,

05:32:21.580 meaning that men are giving you all of the privileges that women get in society that men generally 0.68

05:32:26.560 give you, versus equality, meaning all those privileges are gone, but you can basically

05:32:31.020 vote.

05:32:31.500 That's about all you get, really.

05:32:32.880 You can just vote.

05:32:34.160 That's really all it is, right?

05:32:35.600 There's really nothing else.

05:32:37.160 I don't really know what else there would be, except you can just basically vote.

05:32:41.640 So you get that, but everything else is basically equalized, including the draft.

05:32:49.140 Including the draft.

05:32:50.100 Like, you would have to get drafted at the same rates as men, fight in the front lines

05:32:53.460 the same way as men.

05:32:54.500 If such a war came to pass, World War III, and you were drafted, would you go?

05:33:00.400 If that's my duty, yeah.

05:33:02.540 Yeah?

05:33:03.080 Would you let them strap you up with armor and send you to the front line?

05:33:06.960 I mean, yeah.

05:33:07.780 If I have to do something like that, I'll do it.

05:33:10.600 You know?

05:33:10.960 And how do you think you would perform versus men?

05:33:13.140 I mean, like I said, I think there's a different physical capabilities for women and men. 0.99

05:33:22.040 I do still, like she said, acknowledge biology, and I understand that most women are- 1.00

05:33:27.140 So you would do worse.

05:33:28.460 Huh?

05:33:29.540 So you would do worse than the men.

05:33:31.540 Most likely, if I'm not trained enough.

05:33:33.740 Yeah, most likely you would do worse than the men.

05:33:35.300 And so doesn't it make more sense, then, if men are supposed to be the fighting force

05:33:42.340 and men are supposed to be people in those positions, that you don't have to be in those

05:33:46.520 positions, that they get additional privileges, not you?

05:33:51.000 Okay, but you're only bringing an example of, like, war situation, wars on situations.

05:33:55.440 And I understand that men would-

05:33:56.820 The most important situation.

05:33:59.580 The military situation.

05:34:00.720 Possibly more important than defending your nation against other nations.

05:34:03.560 I couldn't even think of-

05:34:04.840 If I was on the hierarchy of scale of what a government is supposed to do, the top priority

05:34:10.600 is going to be the protection of its citizens, right?

05:34:12.700 Right, of course.

05:34:13.760 Yeah, that's going to be warfare, soldiers, force.

05:34:19.620 Right.

05:34:20.480 But do you-

05:34:21.320 But what I'm speaking about is that, don't you think that, for example, like there's two

05:34:26.220 different things.

05:34:26.920 There's an emotional and just your intelligence and what you're able to do in a workforce

05:34:32.020 versus physical capabilities.

05:34:36.060 So perhaps men are more optimal to fight and protect the country, but there are other things

05:34:41.300 that women would be just as, if not more optimal to do in a normal workforce. 1.00

05:34:47.140 Yeah, what?

05:34:48.540 I mean, women are really intellectual- 1.00

05:34:51.000 Hang on, hang on.

05:34:51.820 Let me caveat this.

05:34:52.680 Other than reproduction, what is a woman going to ever be better at in any of these markets 1.00

05:35:01.540 than a man?

05:35:02.400 What?

05:35:03.300 If you're speaking on generalities, I had that exact same question impression, but I'm

05:35:07.400 pretty sure.

05:35:08.500 I mean, I can't name you one, but I think that you-

05:35:11.940 No, but-

05:35:13.200 So there's not a single thing that women are going to supersede men in, but men are 1.00

05:35:17.960 going to supersede women when it comes to force, but you deserve the privilege and not 1.00

05:35:21.940 the men.

05:35:22.640 Yeah, that makes sense.

05:35:23.160 What I'm saying is that women who do prefer equality, there's a reason why they prefer 0.96

05:35:26.440 that, because they understand that their value is in different areas of life other than

05:35:31.200 reproductive situations.

05:35:33.200 You know what I mean?

05:35:34.620 So-

05:35:34.920 Yeah, but you're not really answering to the question.

05:35:37.480 So you-

05:35:38.500 So I asked you this question.

05:35:40.800 If men are the ones who are tasked to defend the nation, and they're the ones who are going

05:35:45.020 to be tasked to do the force jobs, which they're tasked to do, why is it they don't

05:35:51.920 deserve additional privilege?

05:35:53.140 Your response to this was to say, well, that may be so, that men are equipped to do those

05:35:58.340 force jobs, but this does not mean that women could not excel in other jobs that men can't. 0.91

05:36:03.200 Because my ask of you was, well, what?

05:36:07.180 Your answer is, there aren't any.

05:36:10.540 There, I don't know, like I don't have statistics of which gender does better which type of a 1.00

05:36:16.440 job.

05:36:17.100 Well, I can tell you which ones there's more women in than men, and which ones there's 1.00

05:36:21.920 more men in than women, but even that wouldn't answer the question of which jobs women specifically 1.00

05:36:28.720 are going to do better than men.

05:36:30.480 Well, actually, well, that's just an example about one of the societies, but in Malaysia,

05:36:36.340 there's actually a lot more women in computer science fields because they value their intellect, 1.00

05:36:41.520 and that's considered more feminine. 0.99

05:36:43.360 It doesn't mean that they're better at it.

05:36:45.500 We're going to, so without equivocation, men are better soldiers than women, yes?

05:36:51.760 Yes, majority yes.

05:36:53.020 What job are women better at than men? 1.00

05:37:01.180 I would say like a lot of social work, perhaps.

05:37:05.160 They're not, which social work are they better at?

05:37:08.960 Not that there's more of them, but they're better at it.

05:37:12.880 Like psychiatrists, everything that involves a lot of mental health.

05:37:16.540 How are women, and what makes women better at being psychiatrists than men?

05:37:22.620 Well, because they're more, I feel like if you're entering such a field, you have to

05:37:25.940 be able to be more empathetic, and we all agree that women are more empathetic. 0.66

05:37:30.860 And you also need to be very logical, and we agree that men are more logical.

05:37:35.400 Yes, but if you're...

05:37:36.700 I don't see how a man would not be just as good as a woman inside of the field of psychology

05:37:44.020 nor psychiatry.

05:37:45.500 In fact, I think psychiatry-wise, there's actually more men in that field.

05:37:49.980 I think there's more women in the field of psychology. 1.00

05:37:53.300 Like I said, I don't have the exact statistics, and I'm not saying women would necessarily be

05:37:58.700 better, but from a physical standpoint, the only thing is that I know for a fact that men 0.56

05:38:04.200 fight better.

05:38:04.960 I mean, we all know that, right?

05:38:06.120 But I don't think that you can pinpoint some other specific jobs and say one is better

05:38:10.820 than the other.

05:38:11.900 I agree.

05:38:12.820 I agree.

05:38:13.120 So if that is the case, I would just agree with you, right?

05:38:16.480 I would just say you're right.

05:38:17.880 I don't think in many of the...

05:38:19.460 Well, I think that there's some jobs we could say men are going to be better at it, right? 1.00

05:38:23.300 So for instance, I think men in general are going to be better at underwater welding.

05:38:27.660 I think they're going to be better at construction, at concrete laying.

05:38:30.720 I think they're going to be better at roofing.

05:38:32.220 I think that they're going to be better at an innumerable amount of jobs which require

05:38:37.740 physical strength.

05:38:39.480 However, I can't think of a single job which requires less physical strength that men are

05:38:45.840 going to be worse at than women. 1.00

05:38:47.780 I can't think of one. 0.92

05:38:49.000 Can you?

05:38:49.300 I wouldn't say that these jobs women are better than men at, but some examples could

05:38:59.400 be things like fashion design or art or... 0.88

05:39:03.160 You mean, hang on, you mean the job that gay men have? 0.77

05:39:07.040 I was about to say.

05:39:07.500 And that's how you get all of the fashion of the world is invented by men for women, 0.98

05:39:15.220 specifically gay men. 1.00

05:39:16.720 Gay men are killing it. 1.00

05:39:17.760 Okay, so another example that I thought of is you don't have to agree with this. 1.00

05:39:22.700 By the way, this is the case with makeup.

05:39:24.700 This is the case with fashion.

05:39:26.160 This is the case with including lifestyle, all of that.

05:39:31.080 That's all invented by men. 1.00

05:39:32.440 That's all done by men. 1.00

05:39:33.620 The gays are doing a great job.

05:39:35.540 So some jobs that I thought of are caretaking, nursing.

05:39:39.980 You don't have to agree with me.

05:39:41.020 No, I'm not laughing at you.

05:39:42.000 Hang on.

05:39:42.460 Hang on.

05:39:43.100 Hang on.

05:39:43.400 Let me go through them one at a time.

05:39:45.400 Okay, let's take nursing. 0.99

05:39:46.640 Nurses right now are on the... 0.93

05:39:49.520 This is globally, not just here.

05:39:52.740 Hospitals are desperate to have male nurses because women do not have the physical strength 1.00

05:39:57.540 to move patients.

05:39:58.940 They're desperate to get more male nurses. 1.00

05:40:01.580 In the United States, there has been many, many such programs to de-stigmatize the gender

05:40:09.280 distinction in nursing so that men don't feel like they have to feel bad by going into

05:40:14.800 nursing because that's how desperate nursing stations are to have men. 1.00

05:40:20.540 Nobody would ever make the claim that female nurses are better than male nurses, only that 0.93

05:40:26.100 there's more female nurses than male nurses. 1.00

05:40:28.220 So how about patients who are dealing with dementia and Alzheimer's and things of that

05:40:33.780 nature?

05:40:34.680 Can you tell me what women are uniquely equipped to deal with when it comes to that that men 1.00

05:40:39.200 are not?

05:40:40.480 In my opinion, yes.

05:40:41.560 If we're going by the traditional roles that women and men represent, I do feel that women

05:40:45.400 are more empathetic and more nurturing and receptive.

05:40:48.160 Yeah, but a dementia patient's going to forget all about that, right?

05:40:52.220 Well, that's not really the case.

05:40:54.120 It's a joke.

05:40:54.940 It's a joke.

05:40:55.480 But even if that's the case, that women are more empathetic than men, in all of those situations,

05:41:02.600 you would still need logic, reason, all of those other things, which you think that

05:41:06.060 men have the kind of, well, not the monopoly, but they're better at.

05:41:10.380 There's no way, you could never give me a trait set of why women would be better at taking 0.81

05:41:16.320 care of dementia patients than men without me being able to give you a trait set back

05:41:21.040 to say, okay, but this is why men would be better at it than women.

05:41:24.620 There are many jobs that need effectiveness and, you know, logic and reasoning, but there

05:41:30.240 are also jobs that exist that need that more patient and understanding kind of quality.

05:41:35.200 Which ones?

05:41:35.540 Well, that women teaching, nursing, teaching, teaching doesn't require logic and reason. 1.00

05:41:43.360 I would say teaching out of all the jobs you could think of requires logic and reason above

05:41:49.860 everything else.

05:41:51.700 Otherwise, how do you teach them anything?

05:41:54.420 In my personal experience, maybe from kindergarten to, I guess, like middle school, it was mainly

05:42:01.580 more female teachers or at least like male teachers that embody that feminine energy. 1.00

05:42:07.020 Yes, I agree that there's more female teachers, but I don't understand the trait of empathy 1.00

05:42:11.160 for teaching, why that's more valuable than logic and reason.

05:42:15.580 Can you explain that to me?

05:42:17.420 I think that empathy go hand in hand with passion and with logic and reasoning.

05:42:22.080 You don't really need passion for whatever you're doing.

05:42:24.620 And if you don't have passion for your job, that can also be, I guess, transferred onto

05:42:30.580 the students that you're teaching and there's no effectiveness in teaching them either.

05:42:33.900 It's going to be passionate and very logical and reasonable.

05:42:37.300 This has nothing to do with empathy.

05:42:39.080 You can be very passionate without having empathy for other people.

05:42:42.120 You can be like a passionate serial killer, passionate about what you're doing, but that doesn't

05:42:46.960 mean you have any empathy.

05:42:47.860 I don't understand, though, if you're going to teach people how to do X thing, isn't logic

05:42:53.980 and reason the thing you want above all other things?

05:42:58.840 I can't think of a more important trait.

05:43:01.980 I'm not saying you don't need empathy.

05:43:04.100 I'm not saying you don't need to have these other things.

05:43:06.280 I'm just saying, wouldn't we value the logic and reason portion of teaching above everything

05:43:11.980 when it came to teaching?

05:43:13.000 Well, I feel that I learned best, this is me personally, when a teacher was more passionate

05:43:19.080 about their job and they're not telling us to open our books to like page 91 logic.

05:43:23.440 Like, it has to be a mixture of both, but that is just my opinion.

05:43:27.720 I do feel that...

05:43:28.360 How did a teacher teach you without logic?

05:43:31.000 I'm not saying they didn't use logic, but I'm saying that...

05:43:33.600 How does somebody like empathetically teach you math?

05:43:36.400 Like, I'm trying to think about it, right?

05:43:38.120 How would one go about empathetically figuring out how to teach a person mathematics?

05:43:44.900 You're trying to think, like, how I can make you feel the math?

05:43:48.780 How can I make you feel the math?

05:43:51.800 Empathy is about being able to place yourself in other people's shoes.

05:43:55.080 So if there's students struggling with learning something, you would at least be able to...

05:43:59.320 You would at least need the empathy to at least be patient with them and to understand

05:44:03.600 the progress that they're making.

05:44:04.800 Yeah, but how would you make them feel the math?

05:44:09.140 I never said that they were making...

05:44:10.740 Yeah, so how would you go about teaching...

05:44:12.960 So you tell me, real quick.

05:44:15.340 Let's pretend for a second that I'm, oh, I don't know, first grader,

05:44:20.140 and you're trying to teach me one plus one.

05:44:23.020 What would be your first step to teaching me one plus one?

05:44:28.320 So for me, is it just one student that I'm teaching or is it a whole class?

05:44:31.760 Yeah, just one student, yeah.

05:44:33.460 And what is their, I guess, like, capacity of...

05:44:37.220 They have a normal capacity of a first grader, whatever that is.

05:44:40.120 Okay.

05:44:42.400 Big Sass Energy donated $99.

05:44:45.760 Blows my mind that people think empathy is an overwhelming need in taking care of people

05:44:50.540 that are out of their mind.

05:44:52.600 Affirming mental illness is not care. 0.70

05:44:54.860 It's the opposite.

05:44:56.400 Yeah, I tend to agree with that, but I'm going to leave that aside for right now, Big Sass. 1.00

05:44:59.800 I think that that's a good point, though.

05:45:01.560 But if you're teaching a student one plus one, what do you think step one would be?

05:45:06.300 And that's why I did mention more other careers outside of math.

05:45:09.900 Like, I feel like you're using math because there's a lot of logic involved.

05:45:11.420 Yeah, I know, but let's start with that.

05:45:13.260 Let's start with it because you mentioned teaching.

05:45:15.060 That isn't really validating what I'm saying.

05:45:16.580 Okay, fine. History.

05:45:17.360 You're trying to teach me the battle of the bulge.

05:45:20.200 What's step one?

05:45:21.700 So, for me, I'm talking about careers or teaching when it involves, like, arts, fine arts.

05:45:28.100 I feel like when you use science or history or things that have answers to it.

05:45:31.140 Okay, okay. Sex education. 0.77

05:45:32.340 What would be step one for sex education? 1.00

05:45:34.440 What would you say for that?

05:45:35.400 How about physical education?

05:45:41.980 Like, I can't actually think of anything in regards to teaching where you wouldn't value reason and logic above everything else.

05:45:53.240 Like, I really can't.

05:45:54.320 And I'm willing to give you the floor to demonstrate to me that I'm incorrect by just telling me any, pick any teaching subject you can possibly think of and tell me what step one to it would be.

05:46:09.080 Well, English and step one would be, for example, like, there are different English classes.

05:46:17.160 I just recently took literary device or, like, poetry, and you would need to feel that and be passionate about what and be able to understand.

05:46:24.320 Okay, so poetry.

05:46:25.520 You're passionate about poetry.

05:46:27.180 What's step one to teaching me poetry?

05:46:29.040 What would be the first thing you would do?

05:46:31.220 I would first preface by saying that there's no wrong answers in poetry.

05:46:35.340 Okay, there's no wrong answers in poetry.

05:46:37.480 What next?

05:46:38.900 I would allow my students to kind of first, like, read through a poem and be able to, like, freely think and express what they truly feel from the poem.

05:46:51.460 And then based off that, we would have a discussion.

05:46:53.600 I don't understand, teacher, Edgar Allan Poe's poem here.

05:46:58.220 What does the beating heart represent?

05:47:04.680 What do you think it represents?

05:47:07.360 Now we're in logic and reason. 0.99

05:47:09.180 You can definitely fuck up a haiku. 0.99

05:47:13.280 I'm just saying. 0.99

05:47:15.940 Like, you can definitely fuck up a haiku. 0.99

05:47:20.780 You can even fuck up a soliloquy. 0.97

05:47:22.900 Like, that's really easy. 0.96

05:47:24.920 You ever fucked up a soliloquy? 0.97

05:47:26.520 That... 0.98

05:47:27.020 Pantamic.

05:47:31.080 What's that one?

05:47:31.740 The Pantamic...

05:47:32.520 Tamanimer?

05:47:36.920 Wait, what is it?

05:47:38.680 Anissa, what is it?

05:47:41.700 Pantamic?

05:47:42.540 Pantamic?

05:47:44.420 Denaminer?

05:47:45.160 Yeah.

05:47:45.460 Ryan, my audio's a bit scuffed.

05:47:46.920 I'm going to jump and come right back in.

05:47:48.340 Yeah, no worries.

05:47:49.080 No worries.

05:47:49.640 Well, while he does that...

05:47:51.360 Guys, TTS is $69.

05:47:54.160 If you guys want to get it in, you can go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:47:57.340 Drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.

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05:48:01.880 Drop us a follow.

05:48:02.340 We have to do a couple reacts, too.

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05:48:06.580 Guys, like the video.

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05:48:09.800 There we go.

05:48:10.600 That's better.

05:48:11.180 We got Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:48:18.780 There it is.

05:48:19.760 There it is, guys.

05:48:21.860 Guys, it's been a minute since we last saw the Prime.

05:48:25.340 I think it's probably bugged.

05:48:27.340 If somebody can...

05:48:29.180 Probably bugged.

05:48:30.080 Help.

05:48:30.500 Help, I guess.

05:48:32.560 All right.

05:48:33.480 And then...

05:48:35.180 Yeah, that's pretty much it.

05:48:35.940 All right.

05:48:36.220 Like the video.

05:48:37.440 Cool.

05:48:39.080 Yo, Brian, thank you for the membership.

05:48:40.340 Appreciate it, bro.

05:48:40.840 So $69 TTS.

05:48:42.860 Got a couple things we need to get through.

05:48:44.240 So here, let me get through...

05:48:46.400 Try to get through a bunch of this as quick as possible.

05:48:48.480 Let's do the dating app.

05:48:50.180 Or actually, it's just photos, right?

05:48:52.460 Yeah, it's just photos.

05:48:53.580 Let's just save time.

05:48:56.760 Do we save time and just skip it?

05:48:58.580 We can just skip it.

05:49:00.140 Sorry.

05:49:01.400 They can...

05:49:01.960 I mean, we saw like old you and young you, so it's pretty much the same.

05:49:07.040 Okay.

05:49:07.400 And then we need to do...

05:49:10.780 I'm just going to save...

05:49:13.360 What are the...

05:49:13.880 Can you tell me what the reacts are, Austin?

05:49:15.500 Yeah, I can use that.

05:49:17.360 It's just like the inside edition thing, and then there's...

05:49:20.240 It's the catcalling one, and then there's...

05:49:23.920 There's a...

05:49:26.120 TikTok?

05:49:26.960 TikTok or a...

05:49:28.400 We don't need the TikTok.

05:49:30.720 And what's the other one?

05:49:31.940 Sorry, guys.

05:49:32.860 One moment.

05:49:33.300 We have the publish list, and then the catcalling's turned, and then we have TikTok, and that's it.

05:49:41.140 Okay.

05:49:41.540 Yeah, we'll save those for another day just because we're limited on time.

05:49:44.880 Here are a couple of rapid-fire questions going around the table.

05:49:48.040 Do you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

05:49:50.760 No.

05:49:51.780 No.

05:49:52.440 No.

05:49:53.400 Nay.

05:49:56.520 I was actually just...

05:49:57.640 Can I just ask you a quick question?

05:49:59.400 What do you define as feminism? 1.00

05:50:00.680 Can you guys hide that while...

05:50:04.240 Yeah.

05:50:05.100 Until you get it fixed?

05:50:09.880 It's a good question.

05:50:10.900 I mean, there's a couple different definitions.

05:50:12.700 So there's my charitable definition.

05:50:14.940 Well, hang on.

05:50:15.960 We would ask you first, what would you define as a feminist? 1.00

05:50:20.240 Well, feminism is about wanting equal rights between men and women, right? 1.00

05:50:25.460 Okay.

05:50:27.120 So, yes.

05:50:27.740 Is that how you would define it?

05:50:29.400 Yes.

05:50:29.600 Equal. 0.80

05:50:30.680 Equality between men and women.

05:50:34.160 So, I suppose I'll give you...

05:50:37.100 Here, Austin, can you just take over?

05:50:39.140 I'm just...

05:50:40.840 So, okay.

05:50:44.860 Charitable definition.

05:50:46.960 Feminism is woman's advocacy. 1.00

05:50:49.040 That's the most charitable definition I would ever give it.

05:50:52.400 It's never been about equality.

05:50:54.380 This is just factually true.

05:50:56.400 Feminists don't care about equality. 1.00

05:50:58.280 There's nothing wrong with women's advocacy, but to parade feminism as an equality movement is laughable. 0.99

05:51:06.220 Nothing wrong with women's advocacy, but let's not pretend like feminists really give a fuck about equality. 1.00

05:51:14.500 The actual definition of it is, I think it's woman's advocacy plus a man-hating ideology. 0.94

05:51:26.540 That's my, that's my, that's what I think it is.

05:51:29.640 I see.

05:51:30.200 Okay.

05:51:30.720 So, what do you mean by charitable definition?

05:51:34.340 So, charitable would be the, the, the, the nicest.

05:51:40.620 I see.

05:51:41.060 Okay.

05:51:41.220 But wouldn't you say that that's a definition when it comes to radical feminists instead of like genuine feminism? 1.00

05:51:48.580 Well, I can ask you a couple of questions to clarify this.

05:51:51.700 Do they, uh, is patriarchy theory a core tenant of feminism, even normal mainstream feminism? 1.00

05:51:59.520 Can you ask one more time?

05:52:01.720 Is patriarchy a core tenant of mainstream feminism? 1.00

05:52:05.660 Core tenant?

05:52:08.300 No.

05:52:10.000 That there is a patriarchy?

05:52:11.660 Yes.

05:52:14.720 I think what, I think you need to explain what it's the, what's the core, core ten or whatever you said.

05:52:19.540 A core ten?

05:52:20.200 Like core tenant.

05:52:21.700 Like, it's a core belief of the ideology.

05:52:26.160 Okay, that's what, I don't think she understood that.

05:52:27.740 Thank you.

05:52:28.580 Um, yes.

05:52:30.860 Okay.

05:52:31.440 And this ideology, ideology teaches primarily women what? 1.00

05:52:37.700 That misogyny is ingrained within society.

05:52:41.660 I guess.

05:52:42.460 Mm-hmm.

05:52:42.980 Okay.

05:52:43.460 Now let me ask you a couple questions.

05:52:45.420 Do you think that the patriarchy has to do with an oppressor, oppressed narrative?

05:52:51.320 So women are oppressed, correct? 1.00

05:52:56.420 I don't agree with that, though.

05:52:58.100 It's just...

05:52:58.480 You don't think...

05:52:59.180 Okay, do you think women were oppressed historically then?

05:53:01.320 Yes.

05:53:02.020 Mm-hmm.

05:53:02.380 But they're no longer oppressed in any capacity to this day?

05:53:05.140 In my opinion, no, not in this country.

05:53:08.060 Mm-hmm.

05:53:09.020 Okay.

05:53:09.460 That's fair.

05:53:10.040 Uh, but you do think they were oppressed historically?

05:53:13.060 Yes.

05:53:13.640 Okay.

05:53:14.500 And so, but you're, but you believe there's a patriarchy.

05:53:19.940 Is this, does this patriarchy have a tendency to oppress women? 0.85

05:53:23.520 So for me, I just, I, I personally believe in, according to like the definition of feminism, 0.74

05:53:30.200 that it's just about advocating for women's rights when there is some sort of inequality. 0.99

05:53:36.840 And so I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

05:53:39.120 But I do feel like you're almost...

05:53:40.120 But it's not an equality movement.

05:53:42.080 You said it's advocating for women's rights.

05:53:44.420 Mm-hmm.

05:53:44.740 But I just feel like what you're defining is only going after, I guess, the, like, stereotypical feminist who's very radical in their beliefs.

05:53:54.760 Well, is the stereotype wrong?

05:53:58.300 If, let me ask you a question.

05:54:00.020 So every single university in this country, college, whatever, every single one has a feminist study, gender study, women's studies program, right? 0.67

05:54:09.840 If you take Feminism 101, or whatever, the introduction to feminism, the lecture, whatever it is, do they teach you about patriarchy and female oppression?

05:54:25.180 I'm sure they do.

05:54:26.680 Yeah.

05:54:27.200 And so it sets up an oppressor, oppressed narrative.

05:54:31.260 And it pits the sexes against each other. 1.00

05:54:33.980 If you teach swaths of young women that men are to blame for everything, it's men who are the oppressors, and women are the oppressed, and women collectively are oppressed, and men collectively are the oppressors, are women supposed to feel positive or think positive things towards the oppressor class?

05:54:57.800 No.

05:54:58.480 I don't think that's the objective, though, with true feminism. 0.99

05:55:01.320 If you take any feminism class, the words patriarchy, oppression, oppressed, oppressor, are going to come up. 1.00

05:55:11.080 Under feminism, who is the oppressor? 1.00

05:55:14.400 Men?

05:55:15.760 Who's the oppressor?

05:55:16.940 Is it men?

05:55:18.320 Well, according to them, I guess.

05:55:19.740 According to feminist theory, men are the oppressors, right? 1.00

05:55:22.980 And who are the oppressed?

05:55:24.720 Women. 0.81

05:55:25.680 Ah.

05:55:26.400 Do the oppressed get to have contempt for the oppressor?

05:55:31.320 Yes.

05:55:33.700 Do the oppressed have to overcome the oppressor?

05:55:38.380 Do the oppressed have to defeat or, in some way, uh...

05:55:46.280 I think defeat's fine.

05:55:48.060 Defeat or tear down the oppressor?

05:55:50.080 So this is a narrative that is taught to vast swaths of women, and it teaches women to hate men, and have contempt for men, and view men as having historically put on some sort of injury onto women.

05:56:09.320 Women have a historical and even current day grievance, a significant grievance, women as a group, towards men as a group.

05:56:20.160 So, I think that this would teach women to either have bias, on the low end, bias or bigotry against men, or on perhaps the more extreme end, have contempt or hatred towards men. 0.78

05:56:36.300 So that's why that's my sense of what feminism is. 1.00

05:56:39.660 Okay, I didn't know what we were agreeing to was your definition of feminism, rather than... 1.00

05:56:44.160 But I just walked you through it, and you agreed with me on all these things when it comes to the oppressor-oppressed dynamic.

05:56:50.000 Mm-hmm.

05:56:50.800 Right.

05:56:51.760 So...

05:56:53.620 Well, and I think it's fine to say, like, if you have a different definition or what you think feminism is, as opposed to what Brian just said, I think it's fine for you to tell us what that is.

05:57:05.720 I mean, for me, I do believe feminism is about advocating, like you mentioned, more for any, like, inequalities or even, like, advocating for women because of just almost, like, lifting up the women empowerment movement, in a sense.

05:57:29.420 And that doesn't have to come at the demise of men, but that is only when it happens in a more radical, I guess, violent way that maybe stereotypical feminists do. 1.00

05:57:47.280 It literally sounded to me like you just kind of agreed with Brian's definition of feminism, to be honest with you.

05:57:55.020 The only, like, kind of caveat that you threw in there was they don't have to be violent to overthrow the oppressor, but Brian never included that in his definition.

05:58:04.520 He just said, if there's an oppressed group, it is the oppressed group's duty to throw off the oppressor.

05:58:10.960 It sounds like you kind of agree with that, right?

05:58:13.660 I just don't think there's anything wrong with...

05:58:17.020 I guess, like, I almost feel like the feminism is when you acknowledge your role as a woman, a female within society, and being able to uplift other women in that manner, and I guess, like, advocating for any inequalities if they find some.

05:58:39.280 But I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

05:58:41.820 Well, hold on.

05:58:42.440 Okay.

05:58:43.000 Well, I think that's fair, too.

05:58:44.740 I just asked this one question.

05:58:47.300 You think that female advocacy is perfectly acceptable, right? 1.00

05:58:50.400 Mm-hmm.

05:58:51.520 Okay, so when men advocate for men, is that also perfectly acceptable? 0.90

05:58:56.280 I believe that's very...

05:58:57.740 Warlord 69, you donated $69.

05:59:01.540 Feminism, I follow other women because they give me power. 1.00

05:59:05.160 Power from the oppression that doesn't exist, but because the media keeps telling me that it does exist, I'm gonna keep yelling about it.

05:59:12.040 Warlord, thank you very much, man.

05:59:15.400 I appreciate it.

05:59:16.220 Yeah, it's very kind of you to send in the dollars there.

05:59:20.180 Yeah, so just kind of quickly back to this.

05:59:23.340 You think it's okay for men to advocate for men, too, right?

05:59:26.540 A thousand percent.

05:59:27.100 So what happens when women advocate for women and men advocate for men, and we come to different conclusions as to how each should be treated?

05:59:36.140 So I'm almost thinking of the example of when men are able to recognize that society makes it so that they're supposed to repress their emotions, and that's why there's such a high unalive rate with men.

05:59:51.340 And when men choose to speak out about that...

05:59:54.140 Well, hang on, I want to correct something very quickly.

05:59:58.560 Actually, men and women try and attempt to unalive themselves at about the same rate.

06:00:04.540 It's just that men are way better at it. 0.98

06:00:07.720 So they take the final solution, they grab the pistol, and women take pills and shit like that. 1.00

06:00:14.180 But men just happen to be far better at doing it. 0.97

06:00:17.100 So if a woman says, I want to be unalive today, and a man says, I want to be unalive today, they do try to off themselves at the same rates, roughly the same.

06:00:26.160 I mean, it's very close.

06:00:28.380 It's just that men get the job done.

06:00:31.160 Right, but that doesn't really have anything to do with what I was going to say.

06:00:34.820 It's that when men are able to recognize the, I guess, the reality of between man to man, what they go through in their day-to-day life because of them being a man, I don't think there's anything wrong with advocating for one another. 1.00

06:00:49.260 Yeah, sure, but what if they say, okay, well, the reason we're going through all this is because those women fucking suck. 1.00

06:00:54.260 But that's why I also said that I don't believe that it's all people who are that radical when it comes to feminism, and I wouldn't agree with that. 0.99

06:01:01.900 But it's mainstream feminism. 1.00

06:01:04.820 It's mainstream feminism. 1.00

06:01:06.680 You go to any university, you take an intro to feminism class, they're going to teach you patriarchy theory. 1.00

06:01:11.620 They're going to teach you the oppressor-oppressed dynamic between men and women, and they're going to say men are the oppressors and women are the oppressed.

06:01:20.760 There are still feminists who are actually, you know, like, thinking how she defined it. 1.00

06:01:26.440 I understand that.

06:01:27.180 Which is what?

06:01:28.140 That, you know, just advocating for women's rights. 1.00

06:01:30.360 In the same way, men should probably do that too.

06:01:33.600 Advocate for women's rights? 0.99

06:01:35.080 For men's rights.

06:01:35.920 Oh, okay, sure.

06:01:36.900 But the thing is that I think we both agree that there's fundamental issues in the mainstream feminism, like you mentioned, and there are some things that need to be changed.

06:01:46.880 Because the matter of fact is, right now, it's not a patriarchy anymore.

06:01:50.540 So there is some things that need to be changed.

06:01:52.520 I almost think that feminists need to heal from the fact that we got out of this hole, you know, now it's more equal. 1.00

06:01:59.720 It's the most equal it's ever been.

06:02:02.740 Exactly.

06:02:03.220 So there are some issues.

06:02:04.120 But as an idea of equality, that's what you meant.

06:02:09.720 Like, that's why support.

06:02:10.820 Well, I mean, my pushback there, just one little nitpick, is when feminists say feminism's about equality, and I say the most charitable definition is it's a woman's advocacy movement. 0.99

06:02:21.440 If there's a form of equality where women don't stand to benefit or it comes to women's detriment, but it's equality, feminists won't fight for it. 1.00

06:02:33.540 Women won't fight for it. 1.00

06:02:36.940 So you're not, feminism's not an equality movement. 1.00

06:02:40.520 And this is just, I mean, the perfect example is just forced military conscription.

06:02:45.180 We've had over 100 years of women being able to vote. 1.00

06:02:48.600 For men to be able to vote, we have to be subject to forced military conscription.

06:02:52.740 We've got to register with the Selective Service.

06:02:55.780 100 years, women are not, feminists are not saying, equalize forced military conscription. 1.00

06:03:01.940 And in that time period, we've had numerous, World War II, Korean War, Vietnam War, men were drafted in these wars.

06:03:11.840 Men would still be alive had they not been drafted.

06:03:14.960 There are men who are still alive who were drafted, who have terrible injuries.

06:03:20.180 I'm talking specifically about Vietnam, who are still alive, who've got PTSD, all this kind of stuff.

06:03:27.040 And so I don't really think feminists are, like, striving for equality. 1.00

06:03:33.720 You're striving to secure female benefits. 1.00

06:03:37.200 And if that means fighting for equality and that gets women benefits, they'll do it. 1.00

06:03:42.100 But you'll never fight for equality if it could conceivably come to the detriment of women.

06:03:49.760 And I don't think you can actually make an argument against that because the glaring example is forced military conscription.

06:03:57.980 I think it would, being drafted for anybody is a detriment to one's life if you're drafted into the military.

06:04:05.780 I think it's hard to argue that it's not a detriment.

06:04:10.280 It would be a detriment to women if they were subject to military conscription and all the negative ramifications that come with either being drafted 1.00

06:04:18.960 or if you don't register for the Selective Service, there's various issues that can arise there.

06:04:29.840 But where are the feminists in the streets, like, oh, I want to be drafted? 1.00

06:04:35.000 They ain't fine for it.

06:04:37.920 It's not an equality movement.

06:04:40.280 Okay, so then when you said the charitable definition was women's advocacy, then putting that aside, like, the equality or fighting for equality,

06:04:53.140 wouldn't that just be, like, more of a movement to empower other women? 1.00

06:04:57.520 So I don't...

06:04:58.120 Sure.

06:04:58.700 So maybe then...

06:04:59.940 Sure, but you can't parade it around as an equality movement when it's not.

06:05:04.500 Okay, then I mean, I can agree with that.

06:05:06.980 Okay, sure.

06:05:07.480 So...

06:05:08.480 Well, I have a very quick question I'd like to ask everybody on the panel.

06:05:12.960 Get everybody to participate while we're on the topic of feminism. 1.00

06:05:18.340 Wait, Andrew, I apologize.

06:05:20.240 Yeah.

06:05:21.560 She was in the middle of something.

06:05:23.120 I do just want to give her an opportunity.

06:05:24.560 Oh, yeah, yeah.

06:05:24.960 Just to finish it.

06:05:26.180 But then we'll ask her question.

06:05:28.320 Go ahead.

06:05:28.580 If you forgot.

06:05:31.680 You were in the middle of something.

06:05:34.900 If you forgot, it's...

06:05:35.880 I kind of just forgot.

06:05:36.880 It's okay.

06:05:37.920 All right, go ahead, Andrew.

06:05:39.440 Yeah, I'm sorry.

06:05:40.620 I didn't mean to jump in there.

06:05:42.880 I thought the exchange was done.

06:05:44.500 So, just very briefly, I would like to kind of tell you guys a few things.

06:05:51.820 You are aware that women couldn't have credit cards until very recently, and they couldn't 1.00

06:05:58.480 have bank accounts, right?

06:06:00.800 This is fairly recent.

06:06:02.480 Did you guys know that?

06:06:06.200 Women couldn't have those things. 1.00

06:06:08.080 Do you mind telling me how recent?

06:06:10.560 Yeah.

06:06:11.120 Well, actually, I'm going to pull up the exact date, just so you have it.

06:06:21.340 So, I think that this was, let's see, yeah, 1974, looks like.

06:06:26.720 So, 1974, before they could have credit cards, right?

06:06:34.360 That seems pretty unfair, right?

06:06:38.680 They couldn't even have them, right?

06:06:40.260 Or bank accounts, things like that.

06:06:42.040 That seems pretty...

06:06:43.200 Do you guys agree that that's fundamentally unfair?

06:06:46.160 Yeah.

06:06:47.580 Yeah.

06:06:48.460 Okay.

06:06:49.200 I would like to ask you this question, though.

06:06:52.700 In the 1950s, when women couldn't have these things, 0.95

06:06:56.720 can I get a show of hands of the women here who think that relationships right now in 1.00

06:07:01.080 the year 2024 are more stable and better than they were in the 1950s, just by a show

06:07:05.740 of hands?

06:07:10.640 Can I get a show of hands of the women who think that the relationships in the year 2024 0.98

06:07:15.500 are more unstable than they were in the 1950s?

06:07:19.200 Unstable?

06:07:21.060 Unstable.

06:07:21.620 Yeah.

06:07:22.500 I'm pretty sure they are.

06:07:24.700 So, just nobody else has an opinion?

06:07:27.720 Do you think that the relationships in the year 1950 were more or less stable than they

06:07:33.680 are now?

06:07:34.980 By a show of hands?

06:07:37.200 Well, he said more stable.

06:07:39.000 Yeah.

06:07:39.440 Do you think that they were more stable in the 1950s?

06:07:42.200 Yes.

06:07:43.440 Yes.

06:07:44.280 Than they are right now?

06:07:45.800 And do you think in the year 2024 that relationships are less stable than they were in the 1950s?

06:07:50.880 Yes.

06:07:52.360 So, can you explain, can any of you explain to me why it would be in a million years that

06:07:59.340 even though women were suffering under this type of horrific oppression, that relationships 0.99

06:08:05.220 were better under that oppression than they are right now when women are the most liberated 0.82

06:08:09.900 they've ever been?

06:08:10.600 Well, stability can mean a lot of things.

06:08:14.000 It can be stably bad.

06:08:16.240 You can, because they didn't...

06:08:17.260 Do you think that they were stably bad or do you think that the relationships were better?

06:08:20.720 When you talk to your grandparents, do they tell you how horrible things were or do they

06:08:24.020 tell you things were better?

06:08:25.180 You tell me.

06:08:27.980 Honestly, like I had a lot of mixed opinions on that.

06:08:30.960 Yeah.

06:08:31.880 They mostly say it was better, right?

06:08:33.980 They mostly say it was better.

06:08:35.600 Most of the time you talk to people who are older than you, especially significantly older

06:08:40.140 than you.

06:08:40.460 I can tell you right now, the 90s were better.

06:08:42.800 The 90s were better than the year 2024.

06:08:45.520 I promise you they were better.

06:08:47.140 In every conceivable way I can think of, it's not nostalgia, they were better.

06:08:51.280 But I think that has to do something with, also like I mentioned before, with social media

06:08:54.940 and people feeling like they have to put up a face and all that stuff.

06:08:59.460 That's my opinion on it.

06:09:00.600 Yeah, it's not just one thing.

06:09:01.620 Wait, wait, wait a second.

06:09:03.940 That's really weird because the internet is a recent invention.

06:09:10.460 This is not an old invention.

06:09:13.500 People, don't you think people in the 90s, so let me ask you this.

06:09:16.840 19, the year is 1980.

06:09:19.440 There is no internet.

06:09:21.360 There's no internet in the year 1980.

06:09:23.660 Do you think relationships were better or worse?

06:09:26.560 Better.

06:09:27.900 Better.

06:09:30.440 They're better, right?

06:09:32.540 Well, they were more...

06:09:33.140 So now, yeah.

06:09:34.280 So now, moving forward, right, you hit the internet age.

06:09:39.340 You think that the internet age is what destroyed everything?

06:09:43.060 I think so.

06:09:43.940 Well, I don't think it's the only reason, but there's a big influence in that 100%.

06:09:49.680 Yeah.

06:09:50.520 What is it?

06:09:51.800 Like I said...

06:09:52.500 What is the thing about social media that destroyed everything between men and women?

06:09:55.860 Because people, like, it's...

06:09:58.340 E-Boys probably did it. 1.00

06:10:01.220 People try to portray themselves as someone they're not in social media.

06:10:05.560 Everyone's are constantly trying to one-up each other.

06:10:08.280 There's no authentic connections anymore.

06:10:10.400 Definitely twerking.

06:10:11.080 Dating apps are way more superficially based.

06:10:15.260 There's a lot of reasons.

06:10:17.360 Yeah.

06:10:17.860 Yeah.

06:10:18.440 Yeah.

06:10:18.760 So what's the number one reason that you think things were better back then?

06:10:24.640 I also...

06:10:25.480 And by the way, the reason I brought this example up is because in the year 1980, women had those 1.00

06:10:31.560 equalities, right?

06:10:34.120 They had those equalities, and yet you still say that the relationships were better, even

06:10:39.220 then.

06:10:40.000 So are we pinpointing this on the internet?

06:10:41.920 And what is the thing about the internet that has messed relationships up?

06:10:45.660 There's more easy access to more people because of the internet.

06:10:49.480 So therefore, you're looking at more people than they did back then, where back then they

06:10:54.160 actually believed in true love, I guess.

06:10:56.200 And now it's kind of way more accessible.

06:10:59.740 And so therefore, that traditional marriage or traditional kind of love is dying out.

06:11:05.980 Yeah.

06:11:06.100 People see that they have more options now, even if that's not the case.

06:11:10.000 They're like, oh, there's this guy or this girl, and there's this...

06:11:13.200 Yeah.

06:11:13.460 Mm-hmm.

06:11:14.460 Okay, so you think that the entirety of relationship dynamics have been destroyed, not because of

06:11:23.800 the feminist move for women to become empowered snobs, but rather because women have more choices 1.00

06:11:33.300 in men, and so what?

06:11:36.360 They're going for a select group of men, maybe?

06:11:38.920 I think men also have those choices as well, and maybe I can consider...

06:11:42.500 No, men don't have those choices. 0.89

06:11:44.480 It's still more easily accessible for men with the internet.

06:11:48.120 No, it's not more easily accessible for men.

06:11:49.740 It was way more easy...

06:11:50.900 So here, I can demonstrate this for you.

06:11:52.940 If you were localized and there was only 50 women who were in your community versus 50 men,

06:11:59.700 right, wouldn't the women be far more accessible to the men and the women to the men? 0.98

06:12:06.040 Because these are your only choices, right?

06:12:08.700 Mm-hmm.

06:12:10.900 Right?

06:12:11.420 Well, now it's a buffet, but let me ask you a question.

06:12:15.580 Do you think on a dating app that a guy who's as attractive as you are just for a male as

06:12:22.040 opposed to a female, do you think that you get more people DMing you or he gets more people 1.00

06:12:26.400 DMing him?

06:12:28.300 Most likely me.

06:12:30.400 Most likely you.

06:12:31.560 Wait, do you have a brother?

06:12:32.020 So that means that from the sexual selection perspective, you have way more options than

06:12:37.980 he does, right?

06:12:39.640 Wait, really quick.

06:12:40.240 Do you have a brother?

06:12:40.980 I do.

06:12:41.520 How old is he?

06:12:42.760 He is 18.

06:12:46.040 18.

06:12:46.840 Okay.

06:12:47.120 Actually, I'm sorry.

06:12:47.940 Oh, 19.

06:12:48.920 And you're 22, right?

06:12:51.880 Who's crushing?

06:12:52.840 Like, who could crush it more?

06:12:54.460 You know?

06:12:54.940 Crush it? 0.76

06:12:55.640 Who could crush it more? 1.00

06:12:57.240 Like, if you guys had to do, like, a competition, like, just to fuck it or whatever, like, who 1.00

06:13:02.020 could just crush it? 0.99

06:13:04.040 I don't like those two words in the same sentence.

06:13:05.840 But, um, I'm, I would say, I guess, I guess me.

06:13:11.400 Yeah?

06:13:13.580 Like, you would, but, but it wouldn't, it's not even a competition, right? 0.99

06:13:17.420 Like, you would just fuck them up. 0.89

06:13:21.540 Yeah, and I can't not acknowledge the fact that, like, it's true that when you see, like, 0.99

06:13:26.280 a woman's, like, dating profile versus a man's, and they could be equally attractive, it's

06:13:31.080 always the women that get more matches, and I'm not going to deny that, but I do feel

06:13:34.260 that because of the internet, it does still make it easily, more easily accessible to

06:13:39.680 both men and women.

06:13:42.820 There's a lot of men who prefer to not commit to a lot of women anymore.

06:13:47.800 Like, that's pretty common in this day and age.

06:13:50.400 Maybe the top tier guys, maybe.

06:13:52.860 I, I would say most.

06:13:55.080 At least our age.

06:13:57.040 Yeah.

06:13:57.340 Yeah, but those men, I mean, most, wait, most men aren't willing to commit to a woman?

06:14:02.720 I feel like a lot nowadays more.

06:14:04.440 What percentage of men are you attracted to?

06:14:07.320 I don't have a percentage.

06:14:08.740 I think my, like, type is weird, but, yeah.

06:14:13.920 I don't know.

06:14:15.840 Okay.

06:14:17.380 But, but also, like, because I feel like, like, most men are invisible to y'all.

06:14:21.520 Like, most, you, most men, you wouldn't even consider, whereas, like, most men, most men

06:14:28.980 find most women attractive.

06:14:31.380 Most women definitely do not find most men attractive. 0.99

06:14:36.780 Yeah.

06:14:37.540 Huge differential.

06:14:38.880 Tom underscore stone donated $100.

06:14:41.160 Thank you, Tom.

06:14:41.760 Appreciate it, man.

06:14:42.420 Marine Corvette here.

06:14:43.980 Name one right you don't have that men do at this point in time.

06:14:48.340 Name one.

06:14:48.920 Anybody on this?

06:14:50.220 Thank you, Tom.

06:14:50.740 Appreciate it, man.

06:14:51.220 Anybody?

06:14:53.600 Going once, going twice?

06:14:57.100 Yeah, well, what we were, um, what I was getting at, we were, we were, like, we were right there,

06:15:03.440 is the idea that if the internet has messed things up and sexual selection for women is very high,

06:15:10.060 then how come men are having such a hard time finding women?

06:15:19.440 I feel like nowadays...

06:15:20.800 I feel like nowadays women are, I can't deny the fact that women now have this mindset, like, as a collective, um, I'm not saying I relate to it, but it is the truth where women are, like, oh, independent and, like, I don't need a man kind of energy.

06:15:36.320 So, therefore, men also have, like, proven, or not proven, but it's, it's, like, I guess, in a study where men have said that they're more intimidated by women nowadays because of the rejection that they'll face or this, um, fear of being seen as, like, a creep or something.

06:15:52.700 Yeah, you have 100 DMs for every one DM a man might get, possibly 1,000, possibly 500, right?

06:16:01.940 But it's going to be significantly more, right?

06:16:05.400 Men are going to DM you significantly more than you DM them, right? 1.00

06:16:09.520 Mm-hmm.

06:16:09.880 Do you think that it's possible that most of the women are responding to the same type of man?

06:16:21.680 Same type of man?

06:16:23.460 Well, everyone, well...

06:16:24.880 So, if you have a, this giant pool of men to select from now that you didn't have before, and now you can select for the, the top tier ones that you want, they're over six foot two, perhaps, they make a lot of money, they're very good looking, do you think that women would compete over those men? 0.50

06:16:44.240 Yes.

06:16:44.680 Yeah, I think so, too.

06:16:47.160 And do you think if they were localized, uh, and they, they only knew about the men in their local area, pre-internet, they wouldn't have to compete, right?

06:16:59.240 Andrew, wouldn't there still be competition?

06:17:02.040 Yeah, but it would be localized competition.

06:17:03.840 Right, yeah, yeah.

06:17:06.160 Localized competition, meaning it's not a buffet, right?

06:17:09.480 Right now you have a buffet.

06:17:10.700 If you get a hundred DMs, you can go through one hundred guys and pick and choose, right?

06:17:16.700 Men can't do that, correct?

06:17:19.300 Correct.

06:17:20.340 So, doesn't it stand to reason that if men are having trouble finding women, that women are going for this kind of top tier of men?

06:17:27.340 They're all going for kind of those same guys.

06:17:29.460 I still will stand by, like, the fact that I do believe both men, men and women have more access to dating and having more of a variety when it comes to dating due to the internet.

06:17:44.440 And I'm not saying one is, like, getting it more...

06:17:47.420 No, they don't have the same access.

06:17:49.480 I'm not saying they have the same access.

06:17:51.560 But I'm saying we both have grown with variety due to the internet at different scales.

06:17:59.100 Okay, but again, I'm going to ask you this again.

06:18:02.720 If men get no DMs from women and you get 500 DMs from men, who has the selection buffet, men or women? 0.84

06:18:13.440 Women. 0.81

06:18:14.780 Women. 0.81

06:18:15.820 And does it stand to reason that they would go for the best looking and the ones who were the best looking and made the most amount of money?

06:18:25.380 Sure.

06:18:26.560 Yeah, and it would stand to reason that men would go for, like, the hottest women, right?

06:18:30.960 Right.

06:18:31.980 Okay, so then if that is the case, couldn't it be possible that women are just really all competing over a small select group of men?

06:18:42.240 Sure, yes.

06:18:43.100 Yeah, so this is called hypergamy. 0.82

06:18:46.900 And the idea here is that I agree with you that the internet is what destroyed dating.

06:18:51.640 I just wanted to kind of walk you through how it did.

06:18:55.140 Absent localization, right, meaning we live in a farm town in the 1950s, there's only 30 women to choose from, right? 1.00

06:19:04.860 I'm going to pick one of those women. 1.00

06:19:06.500 And those women don't have access to men external, those same men in the farm town, 0.96

06:19:10.680 so they're going to only have X amount to pick from.

06:19:13.100 But what happens when we open up that global market?

06:19:16.440 Well, now all women can compete for 10%, 5% of men, right? 0.98

06:19:22.780 Which, that was my argument.

06:19:24.060 And that's exactly what's happening.

06:19:26.040 Yes.

06:19:26.280 How many DMs do you respond to?

06:19:29.300 Huh?

06:19:29.580 How many DMs do you respond to?

06:19:32.380 I don't check my DMs.

06:19:33.760 I don't respond to DMs.

06:19:35.320 Wait, these girls got to answer the question, too. 0.96

06:19:37.200 How many?

06:19:37.720 Because they're making faces.

06:19:39.940 You go first.

06:19:41.100 To me?

06:19:41.740 Yeah.

06:19:42.080 Oh, I expose myself.

06:19:46.100 Wait.

06:19:47.140 Whatever.

06:19:47.780 So, okay.

06:19:48.440 How many DMs have you gotten in your whole life?

06:19:51.660 More than 100.

06:19:53.240 Thousands, maybe?

06:19:54.080 Thousands, yeah.

06:19:55.080 Wait, into the mic.

06:19:55.800 You're way too far.

06:19:56.500 Oh.

06:19:57.440 Yeah, more than thousands.

06:19:58.560 How many DMs have you sent out?

06:20:03.460 Less than five.

06:20:04.600 Okay.

06:20:05.220 How many DMs have you received?

06:20:06.220 Not that many.

06:20:08.240 Also, I'm from, you know, I'm older, so, like, in the days, it was very different, but, yeah.

06:20:13.280 And now that I'm older, then it's not the same thing.

06:20:16.360 It's not the same thing.

06:20:17.100 All right.

06:20:18.000 Okay.

06:20:18.540 Well, we'll get back to that.

06:20:20.220 We're going to get back to that, though.

06:20:24.000 What?

06:20:24.780 How many?

06:20:25.100 Oh, how many DMs have you gotten, Morgan?

06:20:26.960 I don't know.

06:20:27.640 Hundreds?

06:20:27.840 I don't count.

06:20:28.360 Yeah, sure.

06:20:29.400 How many DMs have you sent?

06:20:31.160 Zero.

06:20:31.840 Zero.

06:20:32.200 Zero.

06:20:32.460 Okay.

06:20:32.960 How many DMs have you received?

06:20:34.320 Um, dude, I don't even count, because, like, I don't really care about it too much.

06:20:39.400 Well, I mean, you don't need to give me a precise number, but over a thousand?

06:20:42.760 Probably, like, ten thousand?

06:20:44.080 Ten thousand?

06:20:45.240 Hundreds?

06:20:45.680 How many DMs have you sent out?

06:20:47.620 Good question.

06:20:48.780 Probably, like, around the tens.

06:20:51.980 Okay.

06:20:53.140 And, wait, was it, like, nobody dudes, or was it clouded, like, famous dudes?

06:21:01.580 Hmm.

06:21:02.180 Oh, your friend just gave you away.

06:21:03.400 Okay.

06:21:03.760 So, like, musicians, right?

06:21:05.380 Wait, what?

06:21:05.940 Athletes?

06:21:07.140 Um, no, wait.

06:21:08.780 She didn't give me away, because she doesn't even know who I, like, DM.

06:21:12.760 Okay.

06:21:13.380 But it's...

06:21:14.000 Who are you DMing, though?

06:21:15.640 Um, probably, like...

06:21:18.080 Well, actually, no, people that I would probably slide in DMs for would be, like, either, like,

06:21:23.500 I'm interested in them, so people in school, that I think are, like, kind of cute.

06:21:27.540 Sure.

06:21:27.640 But have you ever slid into, like, a famous guy's DMs?

06:21:30.060 Yeah.

06:21:33.240 Like, once.

06:21:34.360 Did he respond?

06:21:35.780 Hell not.

06:21:36.380 No, actually, technically, I wasn't trying to slide.

06:21:38.780 Like, he was trying to ask for, like, um, like, ideas for his, like, video, and I was

06:21:44.040 like, oh, you should, like, react to this.

06:21:46.280 And that's it.

06:21:47.420 How many followers does he have?

06:21:49.120 Dude, I lost...

06:21:49.920 I don't know.

06:21:50.720 Like, if I...

06:21:51.880 I don't know my followers.

06:21:52.120 What is he, a musician?

06:21:53.280 Yeah, he's a musician.

06:21:54.980 Rapper?

06:21:55.800 No.

06:21:59.740 Okay.

06:22:00.360 All right.

06:22:00.800 He's probably, he's probably, like, like, 150K.

06:22:04.800 Oh, okay.

06:22:05.640 All right.

06:22:06.200 What about you?

06:22:06.680 How many DMs have you received?

06:22:09.040 Hundreds?

06:22:09.320 A lot.

06:22:10.000 Thousands?

06:22:11.900 Sure.

06:22:12.400 I mean, I wouldn't say thousands, because...

06:22:14.360 But hundreds?

06:22:15.160 Sure.

06:22:15.800 How many DMs have you sent?

06:22:18.100 Maybe, like, 20.

06:22:21.660 Famous guys?

06:22:24.500 Um, maybe, like, one.

06:22:26.320 One famous guy?

06:22:27.140 Okay.

06:22:27.560 What about you?

06:22:28.080 I don't really use social media that much, but, I mean, the answer is still the same.

06:22:31.720 I'm sure I received more DMs than I sent.

06:22:34.100 Emma, what about you?

06:22:35.720 I don't receive very many, and I never send any.

06:22:39.020 Okay.

06:22:39.180 Okay.

06:22:40.120 All right.

06:22:40.620 Anissa, what about you?

06:22:42.480 Wait, wait, wait.

06:22:43.440 Hang on.

06:22:43.920 Hang on.

06:22:44.160 Back up.

06:22:45.080 You were on the...

06:22:45.940 You've been on this show before.

06:22:48.340 Hold on.

06:22:48.780 Just for the sake of time.

06:22:49.820 There's no way that you walked off...

06:22:50.700 There's no way you walked off...

06:22:51.640 There's no way you walked off this show and did not receive DMs.

06:22:54.560 Andrew, I don't even...

06:22:56.460 I don't think her Instagram was even in the thing.

06:23:00.200 So, I know you're...

06:23:01.680 I know this audience.

06:23:02.760 They're going to ruthlessly hunt down.

06:23:04.720 If they're interested, they're going to ruthlessly hunt them down and send them a DM.

06:23:08.660 Not a one.

06:23:09.600 You didn't get a one DM?

06:23:11.260 No.

06:23:11.500 Yeah, come on. 0.77

06:23:12.980 All right.

06:23:13.600 She seems honest.

06:23:14.760 Go ahead, Anissa.

06:23:15.340 Not that many, because I don't have my DMs on.

06:23:19.160 Like, not...

06:23:19.800 Like, I can't get requests.

06:23:22.940 Okay.

06:23:23.420 All right.

06:23:28.900 Back to you, Andrew.

06:23:29.680 You have...

06:23:32.040 Yeah.

06:23:32.340 Well, I was just saying, if you're looking...

06:23:34.500 If you're looking at that, if you understand that women are receiving, you know, thousands

06:23:41.580 or hundreds more DMs than men are, then this necessarily would show that you have a much

06:23:50.980 wider kind of array of men to choose from than, you know, men have women, right?

06:23:58.560 But there's a 99% of DMs just to hook up.

06:24:02.180 So, like, yeah, we might have...

06:24:03.280 Sure.

06:24:03.600 We might have a bigger amount to choose from.

06:24:04.660 Yeah, I would think so.

06:24:05.460 I think most...

06:24:06.080 I think 99.9% of them could be for hooking up.

06:24:10.300 Yeah.

06:24:10.400 But it gives you still this huge option men don't have, right?

06:24:15.460 Right.

06:24:15.940 But so, yeah, women have more options to, you know, perhaps hook up, but not necessarily 1.00

06:24:20.720 to be in a committed relationship.

06:24:24.020 Well, okay, but let's back up.

06:24:27.540 And let's see if this actually passes the test.

06:24:30.340 So, do you think that a man who wants to hook up with you is more likely to be interested

06:24:36.060 in a relationship with you than a man who didn't want to hook up with you? 0.75

06:24:39.480 Like a man who's not sexually attracted to you?

06:24:42.040 No, I mean, both of them, of course, would want to hook up regardless of that.

06:24:44.940 No, well, hang on, hang on.

06:24:46.340 But a man who's sexually attracted to you is going to be more likely to be interested in

06:24:50.620 you, right?

06:24:51.560 I don't think anyone who...

06:24:52.820 I'm sure most of DMs we get are like really, you know, we were so hot or something like

06:24:58.120 that.

06:24:58.500 I think people...

06:24:59.020 Yeah, they're sexually attracted to you.

06:25:00.760 So, those men would be more likely to be interested in you for dating as well, right?

06:25:06.040 I don't think so because I feel like if you start a conversation like this, you're kind

06:25:09.280 of already setting your intentions clear.

06:25:13.420 What?

06:25:13.880 Like what?

06:25:14.580 What are they sending you?

06:25:15.640 Like, hello, beautiful? 0.93

06:25:17.160 Oh, man, that really sounds like that guy just really hates your guts.

06:25:21.220 Like, what do you mean? 0.98

06:25:22.460 Not hates your guts.

06:25:23.840 But in this day and age, most of the guys who DM, they don't want to pursue anything.

06:25:29.940 They want to hook up.

06:25:31.240 Yeah, maybe you'll change their mind.

06:25:32.860 Maybe they end up liking your personality, but that's not their...

06:25:34.940 Yeah, right.

06:25:35.300 But you have that option is the point.

06:25:38.200 Men don't have that option. 1.00

06:25:40.360 And so, if women are all getting the same DMs from the same guys, let's say, why wouldn't 0.64

06:25:46.540 they gravitate towards the best looking and the tallest and the most handsomest and all

06:25:50.980 of that, why wouldn't they gravitate towards those same men?

06:25:54.440 Yeah, I'm sure they do.

06:25:56.900 Yeah, so now you've run into the problem of hypergamy.

06:26:01.060 And hypergamy is showing, okay, now the marketplace is completely open, but now those top tier men,

06:26:09.060 all the women are pursuing them, and all of the other men, they're not getting pursued.

06:26:15.160 And they're not pursuing because they can't compete with that higher echelon of men.

06:26:19.560 Yeah, I feel that's a phenomenon.

06:26:21.100 That's why the entirety, the reason the entirety of the dating market is screwed is because

06:26:24.860 of this one principle of localization versus globalization when it comes to dating.

06:26:29.500 Anyway, go ahead.

06:26:31.000 I just think that's a phenomenon that existed before two.

06:26:34.000 It's just exponential now.

06:26:34.880 Show me.

06:26:36.060 Where did it exist?

06:26:37.700 Where did this phenomenon exist before the internet?

06:26:39.560 In the cities.

06:26:40.460 Like, you know, like that the hottest men are...

06:26:42.680 How could it have existed in the cities?

06:26:44.420 No, I mean, like, that's not just an internet thing that, like, women are the gatekeepers 1.00

06:26:52.020 and they're going to receive, they're going to be hit on more than, like, men are going

06:26:55.620 to be hit on.

06:26:56.400 And, like, that's, I'm just saying...

06:26:57.960 Yeah, sure.

06:26:58.300 I agree with you.

06:26:59.460 The idea here is not that women are going to get hit on more than men.

06:27:03.520 The idea here is that if you only have a localized pool of men to choose from, you're going to

06:27:09.900 pick one of that localized pool.

06:27:12.680 What if...

06:27:13.180 So, like, let me give you an example, Rachel.

06:27:15.620 So, let's say there's 100 men that you can choose from.

06:27:19.900 Would you rather have that or 20 million?

06:27:24.640 Yeah, no, I know what you mean.

06:27:27.200 But ultimately...

06:27:28.200 That's the point, right?

06:27:28.980 Yeah.

06:27:29.220 Once you have access to 20 million, right, who's going to say I'd only rather have 100

06:27:34.460 rather than 20 million?

06:27:36.320 No, I get you.

06:27:37.040 But ultimately, like you said, the hottest men or whatever are going to have their first

06:27:41.540 pick too, right?

06:27:42.480 So, they're going to pick the hottest women or, like, whatever, right?

06:27:46.340 So, then women will have to go to the rest of the pool anyways at some point, right? 1.00

06:27:52.640 Because you're not going to get... 0.87

06:27:53.220 After they've had sex with that higher tier man. 0.67

06:27:56.560 Yeah, I guess, I guess. 0.91

06:27:57.480 And all of these different women have had sex with that higher tier man.

06:28:01.420 If that's right.

06:28:01.700 That's why men have body counts. 0.99

06:28:03.840 Some men have body counts into the several hundreds to thousands, right?

06:28:09.660 It's because many women are gravitating towards that same select group of men. 0.91

06:28:15.400 So, it's like, okay, that's great.

06:28:17.500 But if you're holding out for that man, what happens to you?

06:28:20.920 You're wasting years, right?

06:28:22.200 And so, that's why women get married later in life. 1.00

06:28:24.640 I agree with you.

06:28:25.440 They're settling for that next tier of man. 0.76

06:28:28.140 But they were gravitating towards that higher tier, right?

06:28:32.280 Yeah.

06:28:32.900 But, yeah.

06:28:33.780 And I think the problem is, like, you...

06:28:36.000 That's how women nowadays kind of value themselves. 1.00

06:28:39.960 Agreed.

06:28:40.420 You know?

06:28:40.820 And I think that's, like, the deeper root problem. 1.00

06:28:44.900 Where, like, you think if you have sex with this dude that doesn't really give a fuck 0.99

06:28:48.580 about you and it's not going to give you something stable, long-term, whatever. 0.99

06:28:52.200 But then you had sex with the hot guy. 0.96

06:28:54.860 But then, like, okay. 0.99

06:28:57.020 And then you got the attention.

06:28:59.360 You got...

06:29:00.480 Anyways, my point is, like, the values, the core values are not at the right place.

06:29:05.720 Yeah, no.

06:29:06.340 I agree with that.

06:29:07.040 The core values may not be there.

06:29:08.820 All right?

06:29:09.980 Prescriptively, that's true.

06:29:11.400 But descriptively, I'm just talking about what is happening.

06:29:14.060 Yeah.

06:29:14.240 What is happening is that we've opened up the marketplace for dating.

06:29:17.840 And you can date a guy right now in Ohio, right?

06:29:21.560 Yeah.

06:29:22.240 Through online.

06:29:22.700 And in the 1950s, how would you have communicated with a guy from Ohio?

06:29:26.720 How would you have even met him or known how he existed?

06:29:29.900 Yeah.

06:29:30.200 And also...

06:29:30.900 How would that have even been done?

06:29:32.740 Would you have just done, like, long-distance letter writing to each other after you happened

06:29:37.360 to stumble into him in your local community, right?

06:29:40.800 Yeah.

06:29:41.200 It would not have been very easy.

06:29:42.740 But right this second, if a guy from Ohio DMs you who's 6'2 and six figures, boy, it's

06:29:48.620 really easy to communicate with him, isn't it?

06:29:50.640 That's the thing.

06:29:51.200 And before internet, like, people had to actually, like...

06:29:54.700 You know...

06:29:55.320 Like, it takes way more guts to go to a person in person than to DM a little message online.

06:30:02.800 Oh, yeah.

06:30:03.220 It makes it non-interpersonal.

06:30:05.460 Yeah, I agree.

06:30:05.920 So, the commitment's already way more when you're, like, okay, you know, it's either

06:30:10.300 you meet the person in a bar or, like, I mean, whatever, right?

06:30:12.620 But in physical form, then you have, like, you know, you gotta get, like, either the

06:30:17.780 girl or the guy.

06:30:18.940 So, that already creates, like, someone that value you is way more than just DMing you

06:30:25.440 because it's so easy.

06:30:27.440 Well, as somebody points out, they say, what about pen pals?

06:30:30.960 Well, I think that pen pals existed, sure, but you had to meet them.

06:30:34.440 Like, you had to still meet them locally somewhere.

06:30:38.820 But it's...

06:30:39.100 You don't have to meet people locally anymore.

06:30:41.700 Yeah.

06:30:41.920 You can go on a dating profile and you can post you.

06:30:44.580 You can be like, here's my face and here's my body and I like hiking and walks on the 0.98

06:30:48.960 beach and all that bullshit, right? 0.96

06:30:50.420 Like, that's all you gotta do. 0.99

06:30:52.760 Yeah.

06:30:53.240 And then the guy from Ohio finds you, right?

06:30:56.000 Yeah.

06:30:57.060 Yeah.

06:30:57.620 Yeah.

06:30:57.840 And so, this is the, if you want to know what destroyed all of dating, it's not really

06:31:04.180 more complex than that.

06:31:05.380 I think that women's liberation and all of this type of thing leads to the idea of basically 0.84

06:31:14.500 reducing the moral grounding to the point where women will engage in hypergamy. 1.00

06:31:19.440 But I think the internet's what destroyed dating.

06:31:24.360 Yeah.

06:31:24.800 I'm gonna...

06:31:25.900 Yeah, that's what we said, though.

06:31:26.860 Yeah.

06:31:27.380 Yeah.

06:31:27.680 I'm just to hopefully get through as much as we can here.

06:31:31.020 I gotta move on.

06:31:31.840 You did.

06:31:33.160 And I'm agreeing with you.

06:31:34.900 But I'm showing you a bigger problem, which is hypergamy. 0.97

06:31:38.620 And that's what you weren't alluding to, right?

06:31:41.760 So.

06:31:43.960 Okay.

06:31:45.640 Let me just get through the couple things that we need to get through.

06:31:48.380 I gotta get through the notes.

06:31:49.700 So, let's see.

06:31:51.840 Do you guys think men are insecure if they care about body count?

06:31:57.680 I would say yes.

06:32:06.260 Okay.

06:32:07.500 No, I don't think it's insecurity.

06:32:13.220 Like them being insecure about like our body count.

06:32:16.360 Do you think men are insecure if they care about body count?

06:32:23.060 No.

06:32:24.760 No.

06:32:26.000 No.

06:32:26.400 No.

06:32:27.420 No.

06:32:28.200 Okay.

06:32:29.740 Who said...

06:32:30.860 I think you said yes?

06:32:33.420 Was it just you who said yes?

06:32:35.260 Mm-hmm.

06:32:35.940 Okay.

06:32:37.240 All right.

06:32:39.120 So, do you think body count, like, doesn't matter or shouldn't matter?

06:32:43.260 I feel like...

06:32:44.840 I feel like it shouldn't matter.

06:32:48.500 Okay.

06:32:49.900 So, a question for the panel.

06:32:51.380 What's your body count starting with Anissa?

06:32:53.880 Anissa?

06:32:56.000 Two.

06:32:57.040 And then going to you?

06:32:59.460 Two.

06:32:59.820 Two.

06:33:07.040 Me?

06:33:08.480 No, I was just more like looking at you and seeing your reaction to your friend who you

06:33:12.980 know very well.

06:33:13.860 Oh, dude.

06:33:14.700 I only known her for like three weeks.

06:33:16.760 Oh, okay.

06:33:17.240 All right.

06:33:17.520 Well, body count?

06:33:20.180 Yeah.

06:33:21.100 High.

06:33:22.140 High.

06:33:22.740 Yeah?

06:33:23.620 Yeah.

06:33:24.180 Because I was a drinker.

06:33:28.320 Very...

06:33:28.880 That's what I said back in the days.

06:33:31.180 I'm going to get to your notes.

06:33:31.960 But, yeah, I actually made a list because of this show.

06:33:34.980 Oh. 0.99

06:33:35.860 Well, because I was like, I was like, yeah, I was like, I was like, oh, holy shit. 0.99

06:33:39.780 You got the list? 0.98

06:33:42.220 Of names?

06:33:42.780 I don't...

06:33:43.300 Yeah.

06:33:43.680 Can you read the list?

06:33:44.620 I don't want to read the list.

06:33:45.640 If we give you...

06:33:46.260 No, no.

06:33:46.780 You don't have to read the list.

06:33:47.960 No, no, no.

06:33:48.860 But I have the list and it's like, honestly, it's like over.

06:33:51.420 And I was like, holy...

06:33:52.480 Like, it's...

06:33:54.120 Yeah, it's the old me.

06:33:55.260 So, I don't know.

06:33:56.020 That's what it is.

06:33:56.740 But honestly, I think...

06:33:57.760 What's the number?

06:33:58.320 I think it was like, oh, at least 50.

06:34:00.780 I think it was 100.

06:34:02.400 100?

06:34:03.560 I feel like at that point, like, if you're making a list, like, you're probably, like,

06:34:06.980 forgetting a couple, you know?

06:34:08.100 Tom underscore Stone donated $75.

06:34:10.680 Thank you, Tom.

06:34:10.900 Appreciate that.

06:34:12.020 Selective deviances are par for the course.

06:34:14.800 No one answered the question.

06:34:16.900 Andrew is a boss. 1.00

06:34:18.480 Brian is a killer, too. 0.99

06:34:20.240 The 1% will always prevail. 1.00

06:34:22.800 Body count matters, lol.

06:34:24.700 Yo, Tom Stone.

06:34:25.440 Thank you very much for the TTS man.

06:34:27.100 Really appreciate it.

06:34:27.760 Thank you, thank you.

06:34:28.980 Thank you.

06:34:30.780 Yeah, you were saying, like, you think about some, and you kind of do, and the things,

06:34:33.960 like, as I started doing it, like, two days, like, you know, like, your brain keeps working 0.99

06:34:39.040 when you're not, like, thinking about it, and I was like, oh, fuck, yeah. 0.99

06:34:41.400 Oh, yeah. 0.98

06:34:41.720 And some guys, I didn't remember names, and some guys...

06:34:44.200 It's hard.

06:34:44.680 I'm going to be honest with this, because it's not cool, but, you know, I was a problematic...

06:34:49.120 I was an alcoholic, right?

06:34:50.460 Like, some guys, I was like, did I, or did I not?

06:34:54.660 And I was like, oof.

06:34:55.960 You don't remember?

06:34:56.520 And I don't think, yeah, and, like, I don't think I could have talked about it now, like,

06:35:00.860 yeah, you know, after one year of sobriety, I don't think I would have been ready, but 0.66

06:35:04.020 now it's like, fuck, it's such, like, so long ago, but, yeah, it's not, I'm not proud 0.96

06:35:07.480 of it, but it's, it's real, it's... 0.94

06:35:10.120 Did you go, did you do chronologically for the list?

06:35:13.080 I try, you kind of do, because, you know, you need to do the list, yeah.

06:35:17.040 That's the only way you can do the list.

06:35:17.800 Yeah, but then, then it comes back, and then also some, come, some guys I had to write,

06:35:22.240 like, like, coffee, you know what I mean?

06:35:24.640 Like, oh, you don't remember the name.

06:35:26.200 No, but then it would come back later, and I was like, oh, but, um...

06:35:29.880 Okay.

06:35:30.200 Yeah.

06:35:30.400 So, over a hundred.

06:35:32.240 I think it was around a hundred, yeah.

06:35:34.220 Okay.

06:35:35.260 One.

06:35:36.380 So, wait, really, two?

06:35:38.240 Three.

06:35:41.540 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

06:35:43.320 Oh, Andrew Schroeder.

06:35:46.100 Three.

06:35:53.360 Okay.

06:35:54.980 I do not want to share.

06:35:57.460 Oh.

06:35:58.560 How about the range?

06:35:59.480 You want to give us a range?

06:36:00.800 No, thank you.

06:36:01.160 Like, ten to twenty?

06:36:02.240 I just feel like it doesn't have anything to do with the conversation, because I agree

06:36:05.560 that body count matters.

06:36:07.220 Well, I mean, that's fair, but it does kind of have to do with the conversation, but if

06:36:12.420 you don't want to answer, hey, that's fine.

06:36:15.980 Over ten?

06:36:17.960 Okay, all right, all right, okay.

06:36:20.520 Three.

06:36:21.020 Oh, my God.

06:36:22.000 I have to answer the question.

06:36:23.440 Okay, three?

06:36:24.420 Bro, there's too many girls. 1.00

06:36:25.460 Sorry, bro, you, no way.

06:36:27.220 I don't believe, okay, so this is all right.

06:36:28.460 Go ahead, Emma.

06:36:29.480 Under ten.

06:36:30.400 Under ten?

06:36:31.040 Okay.

06:36:37.660 Bro, I can tell you're lying, dude.

06:36:39.580 She's lying.

06:36:44.020 I don't know. 1.00

06:36:44.580 You're telling stories about S-ing the D and shit? 0.99

06:36:46.840 Like, come on, bro. 0.99

06:36:47.360 I feel like three that, come on.

06:36:49.200 Wait.

06:36:49.600 No, I don't do that.

06:36:50.900 You said, man, my friend, I gotta tell her, like, she can't be S-ing the D too soon. 1.00

06:36:58.520 Like, I'm looking out for my girlfriend. 1.00

06:37:00.600 She can't be sucking all that dick so quickly. 1.00

06:37:04.780 That's what you were saying. 1.00

06:37:06.000 Yeah, real shit. 1.00

06:37:06.880 Yeah, real shit. 1.00

06:37:07.160 Real shit. 1.00

06:37:08.160 Yes. 1.00

06:37:10.180 What's the S-ing the D count, then? 0.97

06:37:13.380 Hundreds.

06:37:15.740 Dude, I don't even know that.

06:37:17.120 Again, I don't know.

06:37:18.000 I don't know.

06:37:18.100 It's three weeks, bro.

06:37:19.700 All right.

06:37:20.540 Okay.

06:37:21.140 All right.

06:37:22.280 Oh, here's a question.

06:37:23.800 Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a random man or a random bear?

06:37:26.880 A bear.

06:37:28.900 A bear.

06:37:31.940 Oh, it depends.

06:37:33.000 Is it a room or are we talking about the woods?

06:37:35.360 So, here's the scenario.

06:37:36.660 You get spawned into the woods and then there's a button, two buttons, and you can press one

06:37:42.160 button, a random man spawns or a random bear spawns.

06:37:48.440 Hmm.

06:37:50.320 I mean, a bear is in its element when it's in the woods.

06:37:54.720 Right.

06:37:55.120 But because it's the random spawn, why is the man in the forest? 0.99

06:38:00.320 He just randomly gets, he was in his office in fucking Chicago. 0.99

06:38:05.920 Boom. 0.99

06:38:06.360 You hit the button. 1.00

06:38:07.060 Oh, shit. 0.99

06:38:09.220 I'm now in the woods. 1.00

06:38:12.560 Okay.

06:38:12.740 And so, that's the condition?

06:38:14.100 The condition is?

06:38:14.740 It's a random man.

06:38:16.020 A random man. 1.00

06:38:16.300 So, you can't be like, why is this motherfucker in the woods? 1.00

06:38:18.660 No. 1.00

06:38:18.960 You just press the button and that's why he's in the woods.

06:38:21.820 No, no, no.

06:38:22.340 Like, the condition is, he's like, in Chicago. 0.98

06:38:25.920 It's a random ass corporate. 0.92

06:38:26.780 It doesn't have to be Chicago. 0.98

06:38:28.100 I love Chicago.

06:38:28.940 He could also be in Utah.

06:38:30.420 Okay.

06:38:30.800 Or Idaho.

06:38:31.880 But he.

06:38:32.940 Tell you what.

06:38:34.160 I'll exclude Alaska and Hawaii because it's not contiguous.

06:38:37.100 Contiguous?

06:38:37.900 Andrew, help.

06:38:38.800 Andrew's just having trouble.

06:38:39.840 Oh, is it contiguous?

06:38:41.480 Contiguous?

06:38:42.560 Contiguous?

06:38:43.880 So, we'll exclude Alaska and Hawaii.

06:38:45.840 Okay.

06:38:46.300 So, 48, the 48 states, bottom states.

06:38:49.040 Okay.

06:38:50.360 A random man from those states spawns.

06:38:55.900 We can also exclude Puerto Rico.

06:38:57.580 Go ahead.

06:38:58.180 Okay.

06:39:00.260 And Guam.

06:39:01.820 I'd say, I'd say a man.

06:39:03.040 And other U.S. territories.

06:39:05.540 Go ahead.

06:39:06.100 I'd say a man.

06:39:10.040 Okay.

06:39:11.780 A man.

06:39:13.540 Same here.

06:39:14.700 Man?

06:39:15.200 Mm-hmm.

06:39:16.580 Man.

06:39:17.500 Wait, so who said, did somebody say bear?

06:39:19.940 You're the only bear?

06:39:20.880 Why do you pick bear?

06:39:22.080 Because I think bears are cute and cuddly. 1.00

06:39:23.900 What the fuck? 1.00

06:39:26.080 I don't mind. 1.00

06:39:29.460 Oh, boy.

06:39:30.480 They're not.

06:39:33.100 Girl, what?

06:39:35.140 I'm just going to go in there and tell them what happened.

06:39:38.540 Yeah.

06:39:39.720 Why would this have happened, bro?

06:39:41.900 This remote appearance? 1.00

06:39:46.480 What the fuck? 1.00

06:39:47.980 Wait, can you mute it, Austin? 1.00

06:39:50.320 Here, just mute the...

06:39:50.900 I think they're just trying to figure out the Discord.

06:39:56.700 So, okay, you pick bear because they're cute and cuddly.

06:40:00.820 Okay, that's a good answer.

06:40:02.320 That's wonderful.

06:40:03.120 Okay, I'll just rapid-fire the rest.

06:40:05.920 Who's the primary victim of war, men or women?

06:40:11.460 The reason for war? 0.73

06:40:13.080 Men.

06:40:13.460 No, no.

06:40:14.060 Primary victim.

06:40:15.860 Who's the primary victim of war, men or women?

06:40:18.820 So, you know, if you get shot and you die, you're like a victim, kind of?

06:40:23.280 That whole thing?

06:40:24.120 Women. 0.98

06:40:24.600 Wait, I kind of fucked that up. 0.98

06:40:25.940 But, okay, oh, women, primary victim of war? 0.96

06:40:28.180 Mm-hmm.

06:40:29.000 Okay.

06:40:29.920 No, men.

06:40:31.100 Men? Okay. 0.97

06:40:32.560 Men.

06:40:37.400 Yeah, men.

06:40:38.720 Yes.

06:40:39.500 Oops.

06:40:41.420 Men.

06:40:42.700 Of course, men.

06:40:44.360 Men.

06:40:44.680 All right.

06:40:45.840 Is it wrong for a man to not want to date?

06:40:48.900 This is definitely a dating question.

06:40:50.940 Wrong for a man to not want to date a trans woman?

06:40:57.280 People have different preferences, so...

06:40:58.940 That's valid.

06:41:00.160 Okay.

06:41:01.240 No, I don't think it's wrong.

06:41:02.480 Okay.

06:41:03.360 No, I don't think it's wrong.

06:41:04.680 No.

06:41:05.540 No.

06:41:06.540 All right.

06:41:08.380 Are men or women physically stronger?

06:41:10.480 That's woman. 1.00

06:41:17.180 Oh, men.

06:41:18.320 Men.

06:41:19.600 Well, men.

06:41:20.700 What?

06:41:21.700 Men.

06:41:22.560 Oh, I'm sorry.

06:41:23.100 I thought you said women.

06:41:24.420 Did anybody else hear women? 1.00

06:41:25.760 Yeah.

06:41:26.160 Men.

06:41:26.820 I heard men.

06:41:27.940 I heard men.

06:41:28.880 Okay.

06:41:29.960 Men.

06:41:31.260 Men.

06:41:32.260 Men.

06:41:35.000 Women. 1.00

06:41:36.720 Actually, ridiculous. 0.99

06:41:38.500 I think Andrew's texting me. 0.87

06:41:39.520 Hold on.

06:41:41.440 Um...

06:41:41.920 You think women are physically stronger. 1.00

06:41:47.320 Why is that?

06:41:51.980 I just feel like we can be.

06:41:55.260 But that's not the question.

06:41:56.340 Sure.

06:41:56.880 Yeah, there are some women that are stronger than some men. 1.00

06:42:01.220 Sure.

06:42:02.960 But I'm asking in general.

06:42:05.960 Like, are women... 1.00

06:42:06.660 Okay, let me ask you a question.

06:42:07.420 Are women shorter than men? 1.00

06:42:09.220 Yes.

06:42:11.500 Are men taller than women? 0.96

06:42:13.920 Yes.

06:42:14.700 Are there some women that are taller than men? 1.00

06:42:16.940 Yes.

06:42:17.480 Yeah, but generally speaking, men are taller, right?

06:42:20.440 Mm-hmm.

06:42:21.060 But do you...

06:42:21.780 Will this also apply to...

06:42:23.140 Are men or women physically stronger?

06:42:28.240 Men are stronger.

06:42:29.060 Oh, my God.

06:42:33.020 Okay.

06:42:35.620 Well done.

06:42:36.580 We fixed you.

06:42:38.520 Can you be sexist towards men?

06:42:44.240 Yes.

06:42:45.340 Yeah.

06:42:46.380 Of course.

06:42:47.620 Yes.

06:42:48.460 I think so.

06:42:49.700 Yeah.

06:42:49.980 Can you be racist towards white people?

06:42:55.780 It's not dating.

06:42:56.860 It's not a dating question.

06:42:58.200 It's kind of dating.

06:42:59.160 No.

06:42:59.720 Not at all.

06:43:00.400 You want it there, but it's not dating.

06:43:01.840 Be real.

06:43:02.360 I'll get it there.

06:43:02.680 I'll get it there.

06:43:03.180 Just own it.

06:43:03.620 Just wait.

06:43:03.940 Just wait.

06:43:04.720 I'll get it there.

06:43:05.340 Trust me.

06:43:09.260 Yes.

06:43:10.560 Yeah.

06:43:10.840 Yeah.

06:43:10.900 She wants to say no.

06:43:18.900 Yeah.

06:43:20.640 Yes.

06:43:21.220 You want to say no.

06:43:22.700 Just say what you...

06:43:23.180 You want to say no.

06:43:23.760 What you mean.

06:43:24.760 No, I think...

06:43:25.940 Just say what you mean.

06:43:26.840 What you think.

06:43:27.520 I think as of lately, yeah, based on just like passing conversations, hearing other people

06:43:38.240 talk, and I'm like, ooh, okay, I mean, yeah, that's a little extreme, but...

06:43:46.340 Hmm.

06:43:46.880 Okay.

06:43:48.380 Yes.

06:43:49.360 You can be racist to anyone or anything.

06:43:51.620 All right.

06:43:52.100 There you have it.

06:43:52.860 Let's see.

06:43:53.780 Oh, the feminist one. 1.00

06:43:55.840 Oh, do you think you're oppressed?

06:43:59.540 Yes.

06:43:59.940 Oh, my God.

06:44:00.760 No.

06:44:02.160 Nope.

06:44:03.080 No.

06:44:04.000 No.

06:44:04.920 No.

06:44:06.080 Why are you oppressed?

06:44:06.920 She wants a bit of attention, eh? 0.92

06:44:08.920 We'll give you a bit of attention.

06:44:10.280 Here you go.

06:44:10.900 All right.

06:44:11.400 Go ahead.

06:44:13.420 You're oppressed.

06:44:14.160 Go ahead.

06:44:15.740 Andrew's bugged, boys, by the way.

06:44:17.120 Andrew's bugged.

06:44:17.640 Yeah.

06:44:18.200 Andrew's bugged.

06:44:18.800 He will be back.

06:44:19.420 He will be back.

06:44:20.180 Patience.

06:44:20.580 Patience, young Jedis. 1.00

06:44:22.240 What the...

06:44:22.700 Did I just...

06:44:23.240 Oh, my God.

06:44:24.160 Please smack me and then say...

06:44:26.180 Don't smack me. 0.75

06:44:26.980 You've got a strong...

06:44:28.140 It's the geek inside of you.

06:44:30.340 Strong.

06:44:31.060 Since women are stronger, though. 1.00

06:44:32.480 It's true.

06:44:32.820 Yeah, it's true.

06:44:33.740 It's true.

06:44:35.380 Let's see.

06:44:36.920 Do you beat up your boyfriend, Anissa? 0.99

06:44:38.620 Have you ever fucked him up? 1.00

06:44:40.880 Like, you wouldn't do close fists, but you'd smack him, right? 1.00

06:44:43.960 Into you, into them like that.

06:44:47.600 Yeah, I could definitely beat him in a fight, because women are stronger than men. 1.00

06:44:51.320 You gotta hit that sign button.

06:45:02.280 Just letting you know, if it's misdemeanor battery, the statute, even misdemeanor battery,

06:45:07.220 the statute of limitations hasn't...

06:45:09.420 You've only been dating the guy for four months.

06:45:11.100 Just wait six more months so you can admit to being a man-beater, okay?

06:45:17.020 All right.

06:45:18.400 Let's see.

06:45:19.680 Do we need men? 0.81

06:45:23.020 Yes.

06:45:24.080 Yeah.

06:45:24.740 Yeah.

06:45:25.420 Yes.

06:45:27.100 What years were World War I and World War II?

06:45:30.220 What years were World War I and World War II?

06:45:33.840 I have no idea.

06:45:39.400 World War I, I'm not sure.

06:45:40.820 World War II is around the 1942?

06:45:44.540 Wait, you have to guess.

06:45:45.500 Just take a guess.

06:45:46.220 World War I, take a guess.

06:45:49.880 Just give me a decade.

06:45:51.480 You don't gotta give me date range, start, end.

06:45:54.420 Give me a decade.

06:45:58.820 Nineteen-something?

06:46:01.800 You wanna finish the last two digits?

06:46:04.020 That's not a decade, that's a...

06:46:05.320 That's a century.

06:46:06.560 That's a century.

06:46:07.400 That's a century.

06:46:08.840 You got the right century. 1.00

06:46:11.100 I shouldn't have told you that, fuck. 1.00

06:46:12.720 Go ahead, take a guess. 1.00

06:46:15.500 Before Christ or, like, B.C. or A.C.?

06:46:19.720 What?

06:46:22.220 Or is it A.D.?

06:46:23.380 I don't know.

06:46:25.460 1920?

06:46:28.020 Okay.

06:46:29.720 World War I, World War II?

06:46:31.640 Date?

06:46:32.260 Or a decade, my bad.

06:46:33.960 I think, was it World War II being 1940, 1950, and then World War I was, like, 1930, 1990, yeah.

06:46:47.140 Mm-hmm.

06:46:47.500 What about you?

06:46:48.380 Okay, these are just guesses, like...

06:46:50.360 Yeah.

06:46:50.560 Um, maybe 1922 for World War I, and for World War II, 1954.

06:47:01.660 They're guesses.

06:47:04.620 Go ahead.

06:47:08.780 World War I, I would say around 1940.

06:47:11.500 Actually, no.

06:47:14.720 No, no, no.

06:47:15.180 Um, go ahead.

06:47:16.700 And then World War II?

06:47:18.760 No, because I'm thinking about when my grandma was deported.

06:47:22.080 Deported?

06:47:22.800 Well, I'm from Europe.

06:47:24.380 Which...

06:47:24.880 Well, my grandma, she was deported from Estonia to Russia, and that was during the 1940s.

06:47:31.040 So, I'm just going to say World War II was 1940s.

06:47:37.260 Okay.

06:47:38.420 Emma?

06:47:40.900 1337-ish.

06:47:43.200 Okay, that's...

06:47:44.840 Ish.

06:47:47.900 Okay, World War II?

06:47:50.740 37-ish.

06:47:54.140 Before Christ?

06:47:55.580 Like, B.C.?

06:47:57.620 No.

06:47:58.100 Or A.D.?

06:47:58.620 1937.

06:48:01.160 Oh, you were saying 30-sat 30s.

06:48:04.060 No, no, no.

06:48:05.020 19...

06:48:05.620 No, wait.

06:48:07.760 Like, 1913.

06:48:08.860 1913 and 1937-ish.

06:48:13.840 Not bad.

06:48:15.000 Not bad.

06:48:15.660 All right, good job.

06:48:16.680 That was good.

06:48:17.160 What is the answer?

06:48:18.140 What are the answers?

06:48:19.040 World War I, 1914, 1918.

06:48:21.760 World War II, 1939, 1945.

06:48:24.420 So, some people were kind of...

06:48:27.000 kind of close.

06:48:29.280 Kind of...

06:48:29.560 Is Andrew doing a little better?

06:48:30.740 He's still...

06:48:31.580 He's bugged, boys.

06:48:32.540 He's bugged, boys.

06:48:35.100 Let's see here.

06:48:36.340 And then...

06:48:37.320 I'm going to get through the notes really quick.

06:48:39.400 We're going to do a roast session, then we're going to wrap the show.

06:48:41.240 So, do we have a Raquel?

06:48:42.480 We do have a Raquel.

06:48:44.160 Raquel?

06:48:44.560 Raquel?

06:48:45.140 Rachel, yeah.

06:48:45.760 Raquel.

06:48:46.360 Raquel's the...

06:48:47.500 It's a Facebook thing.

06:48:50.040 Eh bien, donc, qu'est-ce que tu penses?

06:48:51.780 Oui, mon chéri.

06:48:53.520 Eh bien, je dois dire...

06:48:56.360 Do you guys want to share the conversation you guys are...

06:49:00.420 Oh, sorry, we're just...

06:49:01.560 We're talking about, like, history.

06:49:03.500 Remembering the date for...

06:49:04.920 Yeah.

06:49:05.280 Oh, yeah, of course.

06:49:06.100 Yeah.

06:49:06.740 I get it.

06:49:07.480 Yeah.

06:49:07.960 I do that all the time.

06:49:09.500 I mean, it is...

06:49:11.060 You're all...

06:49:11.460 Wow, you're so far from the mic.

06:49:12.840 That's wonderful.

06:49:14.600 Sorry, I'm being a little sassy.

06:49:17.100 Getting tired.

06:49:19.140 Okay.

06:49:20.340 Eh bien, donc...

06:49:21.520 Oui.

06:49:22.140 On parle en français un peu.

06:49:23.640 Okay.

06:49:24.620 Eh bien, je pense que la...

06:49:26.840 Comment tu dis Canada?

06:49:29.000 Le Canada. 0.85

06:49:30.060 La?

06:49:30.900 Non, le. 0.82

06:49:31.680 Le Canada. 0.85

06:49:33.380 Je pense que le Canada est perdu.

06:49:36.600 Oui.

06:49:37.380 Perdu, vraiment.

06:49:38.300 Oui, moi aussi.

06:49:38.820 Eh bien, donc...

06:49:40.820 Je pense que les...

06:49:43.460 Comment tu dis?

06:49:44.480 Canadiens?

06:49:45.680 Canadiens, oui.

06:49:47.460 Ils doivent... 1.00

06:49:48.820 Ils doivent... 1.00

06:49:48.920 Ils doivent... 1.00

06:49:49.540 Patriots?

06:49:50.000 Ils doivent... 1.00

06:49:50.660 Comment tu dis patriots?

06:49:53.140 Ils doivent être patriotiques.

06:49:56.400 Tu dis ça?

06:49:57.100 Patriot?

06:49:57.700 Patriot.

06:49:58.480 Patriotique?

06:49:59.620 Like, they must be patriotic.

06:50:00.880 Non, mais comment tu...

06:50:02.040 How do you say it in French?

06:50:04.420 Patriot.

06:50:05.120 Patriote.

06:50:06.120 Patriote.

06:50:06.720 Oui.

06:50:07.020 Patriote.

06:50:07.640 Oui, un patriote.

06:50:08.880 Your R's are really good.

06:50:10.080 Merci beaucoup.

06:50:10.700 C'est bien.

06:50:11.320 Et bien, donc...

06:50:13.440 Les...

06:50:14.220 Les...

06:50:14.880 Oui, mais...

06:50:16.220 Je suis français.

06:50:19.060 Pas canadien.

06:50:23.080 I do.

06:50:23.920 J'aime les canadiens plus que les français, c'est sûr.

06:50:28.300 Canadiens.

06:50:28.760 Les français, c'est...

06:50:29.800 Je pense, parce que les Canadiens sont...

06:50:37.440 I'm sure people love it.

06:50:38.520 Comment tu dis neighbor? 0.64

06:50:41.100 Les voisins, nos voisins.

06:50:43.180 Les voisins.

06:50:43.820 Nous sommes voisins.

06:50:44.740 De les Etats-Unis.

06:50:46.160 Oui.

06:50:47.260 C'est important que la Canadienne...

06:50:51.260 Les...

06:50:52.460 Comment tu dis?

06:50:53.800 Man.

06:50:54.780 Les hommes.

06:50:55.340 Les hommes.

06:50:55.840 Merci beaucoup.

06:50:57.380 Il doit retourner, Canada...

06:50:59.460 La...

06:50:59.900 La propère...

06:51:04.780 Proper.

06:51:05.260 La propre.

06:51:06.020 Propre.

06:51:06.560 Merci. 1.00

06:51:06.800 Fuck, my French isn't... 1.00

06:51:12.560 I'm trying to say some... 1.00

06:51:13.940 I'm trying to say some deep shit. 0.99

06:51:15.340 How about this? 0.99

06:51:15.860 Je dois un jour retourner à France parce que la France est aussi perdue.

06:51:26.560 Oui, bien, beaucoup de pays sont perdus.

06:51:29.320 C'est vrai.

06:51:30.440 Eh bien, donc, j'ai besoin, j'ai besoin de retourner à France parce que je devais, devais,

06:51:44.200 je devais changer le destin, changer l'avenir.

06:51:50.760 Tu vas changer le destin?

06:51:52.120 De mon peuple.

06:51:54.800 Tu comprends?

06:51:55.740 De ton pape?

06:51:56.340 Tu comprends?

06:51:57.420 Je ne suis pas sûre.

06:51:58.640 Tu ne comprends pas?

06:51:59.060 Bien, tu veux changer le destin de ton...

06:52:01.500 Oh, peuple! 0.99

06:52:02.080 Peuple! 1.00

06:52:03.120 Peuple! 1.00

06:52:04.060 Oui, tu ne parles pas français?

06:52:05.960 Tu ne parles pas français?

06:52:06.940 C'est toi qui parles comme la merde.

06:52:08.960 Québécois!

06:52:10.120 Oh, parce que tu penses que tu es...

06:52:11.640 Oh, ma France est très bien!

06:52:13.480 Tu penses...

06:52:14.040 La France est très bien!

06:52:15.140 Mais, vraiment...

06:52:16.940 It's good confidence.

06:52:18.340 La France est perdue et je vais faire tout mon possible pour changer le destin, l'avenir

06:52:27.620 de mon peuple.

06:52:29.060 OK.

06:52:30.660 Et j'ai besoin de ton aide.

06:52:34.280 Merci beaucoup.

06:52:35.080 OK.

06:52:35.520 Merci.

06:52:36.060 Bravo.

06:52:36.620 C'est tout ça?

06:52:37.460 Bravo.

06:52:37.940 C'était fantastique.

06:52:38.760 C'est très bien ça?

06:52:39.640 Oui.

06:52:42.320 C'était très... 1.00

06:52:43.500 You guys like that shit? 1.00

06:52:45.100 Très inspirant. 1.00

06:52:46.740 All right.

06:52:47.900 Wipe yourselves, ladies. 1.00

06:52:49.020 Not you guys.

06:52:49.820 Not you guys at the table, the viewers.

06:52:51.820 OK.

06:52:52.560 Chill out, ladies. 1.00

06:52:53.380 Chill out.

06:52:54.160 Put it...

06:52:54.600 Keep your pants on.

06:52:56.040 Just kidding.

06:52:56.640 Yeah, because you... 1.00

06:52:57.920 What the fuck? 1.00

06:52:59.340 All right, bro. 1.00

06:53:01.260 All right.

06:53:02.460 OK.

06:53:04.200 Raquel.

06:53:05.220 Yes. 1.00

06:53:05.540 You said you come from a culture of bars and restaurants, so getting fucked and fucking 0.99

06:53:09.000 and kissing anybody, everybody, each other and thinking that this is just the norm, trying 0.98

06:53:14.100 to find love in the worst places, people, because the concept of love that you have is

06:53:18.520 messed up.

06:53:19.200 But there's the recovery, growth, and wisdom that come from a past.

06:53:22.360 And I feel that's a very important part of dating that is rarely touched on, the fact

06:53:27.280 that humans question themselves, hopefully lull, and become better and wiser even than

06:53:31.640 someone who doesn't do the wild thing.

06:53:34.380 Yeah.

06:53:35.100 So you had a...

06:53:36.020 I mean, we talked about the body count.

06:53:38.000 Yeah.

06:53:38.300 You were working in bars and restaurants and clubs, getting...

06:53:42.560 Yeah. 0.99

06:53:43.200 Just fucking... 1.00

06:53:43.860 It's the norm, you know, like everybody... 1.00

06:53:45.780 Behind the bar? 0.99

06:53:46.420 Have you ever fucked on the bar? 0.99

06:53:47.060 No, not... 0.98

06:53:47.720 I mean, sometimes, like, yeah.

06:53:48.980 I mean, everything happens. 0.99

06:53:49.920 Like, no, in the bathroom or whatever, but it's like, everybody gets so shit-faced. 0.98

06:53:54.040 Nobody, you know, everybody just... 0.99

06:53:56.040 It just doesn't matter.

06:53:57.180 Like, there's no kind of importance in it, you know?

06:54:01.620 Like, being with someone, there's an intimacy, there's something special about it.

06:54:05.220 But that's just gone when everybody's drunk.

06:54:08.180 Hmm.

06:54:09.160 Okay.

06:54:10.400 And then you also said, I have an ex-narcissist, oh, boyfriend who destroyed my self-esteem.

06:54:15.380 Yeah, the guy.

06:54:15.780 On a positive note, forced me to rebuild myself and take my take of reality and regain confidence

06:54:21.480 in myself.

06:54:22.060 I didn't remember where I was saying that.

06:54:22.600 Could also be interesting to talk about the man I fell in love with when I was 25, but

06:54:26.140 I was getting fucked up on booze and cheated on him and broke up with him, even if I loved

06:54:30.100 him very, very incredibly much. 0.99

06:54:32.540 Mm-hmm.

06:54:33.760 So, again, like, that culture of, like, the drinking and, like, going out and kissing anybody,

06:54:41.160 whatever, it's like, I had a really good guy that I really loved and he really loved me,

06:54:45.340 but I was just so caught up in, you know, but just, like, a shitty self-esteem and, like, 0.97

06:54:51.140 that's why, like, it comes going, like, drinking and kissing and fucking, it's like, you, it's 0.98

06:54:58.120 like, you think you gain value from that. 0.99

06:55:00.320 You think you, like, you need love so much.

06:55:03.840 And you think that the only way to get love, or you think that love means that you have 0.51

06:55:09.680 to give sex. 0.94

06:55:11.140 Like, when you give sex, this is when you have value. 0.99

06:55:14.100 This is how you think of things.

06:55:17.480 And when you have that very messed up concept, then you, you mess, you could mess up really,

06:55:23.040 like, great relationship.

06:55:25.640 Hmm.

06:55:26.840 Fair.

06:55:27.120 And I think it, because, like, with that comes, like, this idea of, like, the emancipation,

06:55:33.240 you know, woman, like, it's like you're liberating, liberating to, to have sex and just be, like, 0.53

06:55:40.320 casual or whatever.

06:55:41.200 Well, I.

06:55:41.760 Is this a Bob Marley song?

06:55:43.720 Uh.

06:55:44.460 What's that song?

06:55:45.100 What?

06:55:45.560 Wait.

06:55:46.640 Anybody know?

06:55:47.400 Emancipation.

06:55:47.640 Do you know what I'm talking about, Austin?

06:55:48.900 You're, you're a music guy.

06:55:50.640 I don't know the name of the song.

06:55:51.840 Emancipation song?

06:55:52.480 No.

06:55:53.220 Yeah, I think you're talking about a redemption song.

06:55:55.920 Oh, redemption song.

06:55:57.120 I don't know.

06:55:57.620 Is that what we're talking about?

06:55:58.800 I thought it was an emancipation song.

06:55:59.480 Maybe there's another one.

06:56:02.060 Emancipation song.

06:56:03.400 But, like, you know, this, yeah, I just think this idea that, like, you're just, you love

06:56:07.660 casual, you don't need anything, you don't want anything from men, I just think it's

06:56:11.840 a lie.

06:56:12.360 I don't think it's true.

06:56:13.260 And I think alcohol really messes up with that whole thing, because when you drink, you

06:56:18.380 know, you just don't care anymore.

06:56:20.140 In your notes, you did also say that, uh, why I wasn't ready to accept a good man like

06:56:26.500 this, and how the, the guy you cheated on, uh, that you loved, uh, and how I messed everything

06:56:32.180 up because I was partying and lost and just unable to communicate, didn't understand myself,

06:56:36.600 didn't know how to care for someone or how to let someone care for me.

06:56:39.840 As long as you don't love yourself properly, you can't be in a relationship.

06:56:43.240 Yeah.

06:56:43.840 There's all this backstory to why you choose every single person you date, what are you

06:56:47.420 getting from them according to the concept of love you have and what you learned from

06:56:50.880 it or should learn from it.

06:56:52.240 You said, I'd love to talk about honesty towards oneself.

06:56:57.680 Um, you said modern dating, I'm going to skip that one, but you said, uh, modern dating is

06:57:03.080 like McDonald's. 0.99

06:57:03.940 It's just junk. 0.94

06:57:04.840 It's quick. 1.00

06:57:05.400 It's fake.

06:57:05.880 It demands the least amount of effort and it doesn't focus on what you really need. 0.99

06:57:11.160 Online dating is fucking weird. 0.97

06:57:12.900 Although I'm not against it. 0.99

06:57:14.820 I don't know.

06:57:15.400 Like sometimes you can like cop a In-N-Out burger, you know?

06:57:18.940 Yeah.

06:57:19.800 I just think it depends what you're looking for, right?

06:57:22.200 Like it's still fast food, but like it's at least a, like, it's like good ingredients,

06:57:25.960 but like.

06:57:26.500 But is it really fulfilling?

06:57:28.820 I don't know.

06:57:29.180 I eat it.

06:57:30.280 Yeah.

06:57:30.660 Yeah.

06:57:30.860 But you're asking the wrong person, bro.

06:57:32.960 But that's what I mean.

06:57:33.480 Like you're going to eat it.

06:57:34.540 Yeah.

06:57:34.560 I've eaten too much In-N-Out.

06:57:35.440 But how, how really is going to like, you should choose things in life that really

06:57:39.000 fulfill you.

06:57:39.560 That really makes you feel peaceful.

06:57:41.000 That makes you feel, you know, that, that makes you grow.

06:57:45.020 That makes you a better person.

06:57:46.880 Does the, whatever burger makes you that?

06:57:49.600 I don't think so.

06:57:50.820 Maybe I'm wrong.

06:57:51.740 Maybe.

06:57:52.340 Uh, Katerina.

06:57:54.040 Wait, wait, Katerina.

06:57:56.520 Hold on.

06:57:59.360 Katerina?

06:58:00.980 Katerina, yes.

06:58:02.380 Where are you from, by the way?

06:58:03.300 Like, uh.

06:58:04.300 Estonia.

06:58:04.700 Yeah.

06:58:05.020 Estonia.

06:58:05.560 Okay.

06:58:05.860 You speak Estonian?

06:58:07.260 Mm-hmm.

06:58:07.580 Russian too.

06:58:08.260 Mm-hmm.

06:58:09.060 That's cool.

06:58:10.060 You said you're, in your pre-show notes, it said you were in a relationship.

06:58:13.680 Yeah.

06:58:14.100 I was, um, I was just confused kind of how to answer that question because it was in

06:58:19.820 the middle of everything, you know, and I didn't want to just say something until it

06:58:24.260 was finalized.

06:58:26.320 But yeah.

06:58:27.060 Mm-hmm.

06:58:27.200 But so you're single, correct?

06:58:28.200 I am single now.

06:58:28.980 Uh, you think you have a lot of different crazy situations happen in your dating life.

06:58:33.660 Uh, but I want to emphasize the difference I encountered from dating in Europe compared

06:58:37.840 to dating in the U.S.

06:58:39.080 Mm-hmm.

06:58:40.000 And you moved from Europe three years ago.

06:58:41.460 So you prefer the U.S. guys or European?

06:58:44.100 Um, I, I do think that in Europe they have more of a, like, people commit, commit to serious

06:58:51.900 relationships, especially at my age, more often than here.

06:58:55.520 Uh, at least where I'm from, from Eastern Europe.

06:58:58.600 And I think a part of it has to do with, like, um, Western media less affecting, Eastern

06:59:03.580 Europe less.

06:59:04.580 Like, your, your, uh, West Europe and Eastern Europe are completely different.

06:59:08.820 Mm-hmm.

06:59:09.240 Completely different.

06:59:10.140 Yeah.

06:59:10.640 And me, and because of the media is affecting way less countries like Estonia, Finland,

06:59:15.840 you know, even Russia, Belarus.

06:59:17.800 Um, I think the dating is more healthy over there.

06:59:20.520 Mm-hmm.

06:59:20.700 I noticed that in America, like I mentioned with the social media and everything, it's just,

06:59:24.380 it's way harder to, to find someone who, I guess, really is trying to work problems out.

06:59:33.280 I think people back out on the first try they can get, as soon as things get a little

06:59:37.840 bit hard, they just back out here.

06:59:39.520 That's what I noticed.

06:59:40.420 One of the main things.

06:59:42.640 Mm-hmm.

06:59:42.700 Hmm.

06:59:44.600 Has anybody here ever had a threesome?

06:59:49.700 Not me.

06:59:51.220 Shove hands.

06:59:54.380 Anybody?

06:59:56.660 Going once?

06:59:58.060 Never?

06:59:59.480 No threesome?

07:00:01.500 Why don't you believe me?

07:00:06.200 Something you want to tell us?

07:00:07.760 Okay.

07:00:08.280 Just, yeah.

07:00:09.720 Going to you, actually, on your notes.

07:00:11.480 You said your talking stage lasted for seven months.

07:00:14.500 I learned a lot from that experience, and I will never allow myself to extend the talking

07:00:18.460 stage to that length ever again.

07:00:20.820 I think this sort of situation is actually quite common rather than unique, but its nature 0.60

07:00:26.140 is a bit ridiculous. 0.78

07:00:27.180 Yes. 0.99

07:00:29.180 Yes.

07:00:29.860 So, usually, I think, in general, the talking stage for, like, between, like, people in a

07:00:41.640 relationship or trying to pursue a relationship is usually three months.

07:00:44.760 I think that's usually the average time of, like, when a guy decides, like, okay, I want

07:00:54.180 to commit, but we, it's pretty, like, I think it was more of a transitionary phase.

07:01:01.240 Like, this person was about to graduate and move back to their hometown, so didn't want

07:01:07.940 to admit it that it was a transitionary phase, but I, like, already accepted that it was,

07:01:11.560 I was part of that point in their life that I was pretty much the transition, and so it

07:01:18.380 extended for a bit too long, because I was just waiting, like, okay, like, are you going

07:01:25.680 to ask me out, or are you not going to ask me out?

07:01:28.580 Well, and we definitely did the thing that should be technically done after being asked

07:01:38.000 out, but, or, like, after establishing, like, exclusivity, but we didn't, so, and I think.

07:01:44.820 Matching tattoos?

07:01:46.800 No.

07:01:47.400 Oh.

07:01:47.880 Um, but I definitely did extend it because.

07:01:50.840 I don't know, what are you talking about?

07:01:53.000 Like, like, things, you know?

07:01:56.900 Things?

07:01:57.180 Um, yeah, like, third base.

07:02:00.120 Third base.

07:02:00.920 So.

07:02:01.360 Third base.

07:02:02.280 So, like. 1.00

07:02:03.520 Damn. 0.99

07:02:03.900 Watch out. 1.00

07:02:04.940 I feel like I didn't, you know, I was kind of holding onto it a little bit.

07:02:10.040 Third base?

07:02:12.080 Wait, you were holding onto third?

07:02:13.420 Wait, I'm sorry.

07:02:17.180 I mean, yeah, it was great.

07:02:18.800 Wait, what were you, wait, holding onto what?

07:02:21.180 Sorry.

07:02:22.040 Like, holding onto the fact that, like, oh, like, we could possibly be something because I've

07:02:26.240 already gave a lot to you.

07:02:27.440 Oh, that kind of holding on, my bad.

07:02:30.220 I thought you were, okay, sorry.

07:02:33.120 No, bro, I'm not holding onto, like, I dig, like, a hose while they're peeing.

07:02:37.240 Yeah, that, that's what I was asking, because you were like, Brian would, I don't know, okay.

07:02:41.240 All right.

07:02:41.540 Is that, like, what you're into, or, I don't know?

07:02:43.160 No.

07:02:45.040 No.

07:02:47.160 Actually.

07:02:47.580 Ah, you just revealed a lot of information there, bro. 0.98

07:02:50.780 I don't know, look, hey, some girls like to be peed on. 1.00

07:02:53.860 Good for you. 0.98

07:02:54.900 Oh.

07:02:55.240 Not my thing, personally.

07:02:57.020 I don't think it's a lot of people's things, but hey.

07:02:58.860 I don't like to get peed on.

07:02:59.280 We're not gonna, we're not gonna yuck your yum. 1.00

07:03:02.340 It's fucking weird. 0.98

07:03:03.340 Bro, that's not my thing. 0.98

07:03:04.380 Because this is an inclusive space.

07:03:06.000 This is a safe space.

07:03:07.300 If you like to, golden, golden showers, your friend seems to know something, your friend

07:03:14.820 here.

07:03:15.520 Yeah, because you're, like, literally telling the person, the person, I mean. 0.68

07:03:20.180 Who likes to be peed on? 0.70

07:03:21.320 No, I don't like to be peed on. 0.79

07:03:22.640 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

07:03:23.560 You don't? 1.00

07:03:24.460 Oh, shit, son. 1.00

07:03:26.820 Girl, she's trolling. 1.00

07:03:29.440 But is she?

07:03:30.960 No, I don't like to get peed on. 0.67

07:03:33.180 I don't.

07:03:34.060 I was joking about that.

07:03:36.340 But.

07:03:36.700 She knows the story.

07:03:38.320 Yeah, she knows the story.

07:03:40.620 What's the story?

07:03:41.540 Tell him.

07:03:42.460 Tell him.

07:03:43.560 What story do I have that you know?

07:03:48.560 Water sip.

07:03:52.100 With your situationship? 0.97

07:03:56.200 Do I like to get peed on or not? 0.98

07:03:58.940 Oh, oh, oh, no, no, no, no. 0.92

07:04:01.040 Wrong person, wrong person.

07:04:02.040 Wrong person, yeah.

07:04:02.920 Wrong person, my bad.

07:04:03.860 Oh, yeah, no, no, no.

07:04:05.080 Of course, of course, of course.

07:04:09.460 So, wait, go ahead.

07:04:12.020 Sorry.

07:04:16.540 Sorry, I like lost track of like.

07:04:18.500 Yeah, so you're talking about your seven-month talking stage.

07:04:22.640 I think you were mentioning something about, like, he wanted to date you, but then when you revealed to him that you have this pee fetish, he kind of like, whoa, whoa, whoa.

07:04:35.020 Oh, that's funny. 0.88

07:04:35.540 He was like, hold up, dog.

07:04:37.700 He was like, ah, man, I liked you, but now that you told me that this is weird.

07:04:42.560 Like, he wasn't accepting.

07:04:44.500 Nah, dude, I never got peed on.

07:04:46.680 Like. 0.74

07:04:46.980 Bro, just look, it's okay if you got peed on. 0.68

07:04:49.380 Never did? 0.94

07:04:49.780 No, girl. 0.96

07:04:50.760 Girl.

07:04:52.340 I think you're asking the question to the wrong girl.

07:04:56.980 Oh, she. 0.99

07:04:57.780 Wait. 0.71

07:04:58.920 She got peed on.

07:05:01.360 Wait, for real? 0.66

07:05:02.540 No, no, no, no.

07:05:04.240 She likes it.

07:05:05.000 How did we start talking about peeing, man? 0.99

07:05:10.300 Y'all crazy. 0.98

07:05:12.540 I'm just trying to have, like, a wholesome dating podcast, and y'all start talking about, like, piss play. 0.98

07:05:17.160 That was crazy.

07:05:17.860 That was you, actually.

07:05:19.300 It wasn't me.

07:05:19.860 That was her.

07:05:20.380 No, you said golden shower.

07:05:21.540 That was you who brought it up first.

07:05:23.500 I'm going to gaslight this whole thing. 1.00

07:05:24.520 She brought that shit up. 1.00

07:05:25.340 Yeah, you guys letting. 1.00

07:05:26.540 I'm gaslighting this shit right now. 0.99

07:05:29.620 Look, it's okay. 1.00

07:05:30.960 Look, I'm not into that, but that's cool for you, dog.

07:05:34.700 Look, bro.

07:05:35.380 I'm not into that, but that's cool for you, bro.

07:05:37.280 I don't even.

07:05:37.940 No, I don't like that, dude.

07:05:39.580 Like.

07:05:40.040 Look, it's okay.

07:05:40.900 I know it's, like, there's a.

07:05:41.920 It's okay.

07:05:42.060 It's definitely okay.

07:05:42.460 It's okay if you're into it, though.

07:05:43.960 It's okay if people like that.

07:05:44.880 No, it's okay.

07:05:45.580 Like, look, I get it.

07:05:46.460 It's okay.

07:05:46.980 It's fine.

07:05:47.180 Yeah.

07:05:47.680 Like, it's fine.

07:05:48.720 Like, if people like the fetish, but I don't like that.

07:05:52.500 No, but, like, be your true, genuine self.

07:05:54.880 Like, why you got to front?

07:05:56.920 My true, genuine self.

07:05:58.160 Why are you fronting?

07:05:59.640 Bro, I don't. 0.99

07:06:00.760 Dude, I don't like getting peed on, but I definitely like getting, like, tied up and shit. 0.99

07:06:04.860 Look, it's open. 0.99

07:06:05.720 Oh.

07:06:05.960 Wait.

07:06:09.340 Huh?

07:06:11.440 Word?

07:06:12.600 Word.

07:06:13.720 Yeah, word.

07:06:14.560 By the way, Andrew's coming back.

07:06:16.100 Andrew's coming back.

07:06:16.820 That's crazy.

07:06:17.300 We're trying to get Andrew back, by the way, chat.

07:06:19.100 We're trying to get him back.

07:06:20.180 Dude, our personalities literally flip, bro.

07:06:22.180 I wasn't supposed to be.

07:06:22.960 What's it called?

07:06:24.160 Sorry, sorry.

07:06:24.820 I didn't mean it.

07:06:25.620 The tying up, it's like shibar. 0.99

07:06:27.980 Bondage.

07:06:28.760 No, but there's a shib. 0.99

07:06:30.380 Oh, wait.

07:06:31.100 Oh. 1.00

07:06:31.560 Shit. 1.00

07:06:33.080 BDSM. 1.00

07:06:33.800 Oh.

07:06:34.640 Shibar?

07:06:36.040 Shibari? 0.96

07:06:37.240 What?

07:06:38.140 Shibari.

07:06:39.600 Japanese bondage. 0.58

07:06:40.560 Shibari.

07:06:41.180 Oh, shibari. 1.00

07:06:41.680 Like, that kind of shit? 1.00

07:06:43.020 That is kind of, like, I think it's aesthetic. 1.00

07:06:46.940 Aesthetic?

07:06:47.680 Girl, it is.

07:06:48.420 What?

07:06:48.700 Yeah.

07:06:49.400 Record next time.

07:06:50.680 No, hell no.

07:06:51.360 I'm not doing that.

07:06:52.060 It's for behind the doors.

07:06:54.520 Oh.

07:06:55.740 All right.

07:06:56.400 Good talk.

07:06:57.080 Okay, more getting through your notes here.

07:06:59.200 Oh, yes.

07:07:00.080 Dating topics of interest.

07:07:01.380 What are each other's red flags?

07:07:02.740 What is considered a red flag from the other speakers?

07:07:05.680 How to know when to leave a relationship?

07:07:07.360 That's a fun little topic that we can do pretty quickly.

07:07:11.660 Red flag?

07:07:13.560 Like, myself or guys?

07:07:15.400 In guys.

07:07:16.100 In guys.

07:07:16.320 You're the entire red flag, girl. 1.00

07:07:17.740 I'm not a red flag.

07:07:18.740 Yeah, girl. 0.99

07:07:19.340 I'm a green flag.

07:07:19.580 You're the entire red flag. 0.74

07:07:21.260 I promise I'm a green flag.

07:07:22.300 Girl, where's the green?

07:07:23.480 It ain't even blinking.

07:07:24.320 Girl, I was going to wear green today.

07:07:25.900 Girl, wait. 0.95

07:07:26.500 You shouldn't match with me.

07:07:27.400 I know.

07:07:27.980 For real.

07:07:28.820 Look.

07:07:30.580 I would say...

07:07:32.840 See?

07:07:36.040 A guy that doesn't know how to communicate, that gives no effort, and gaslighter, manipulator... 1.00

07:07:48.320 Your situation's shit. 1.00

07:07:54.700 Can we open the doors? 1.00

07:07:56.580 Your crushes. 1.00

07:08:00.220 All your fucking relationships. 1.00

07:08:01.880 Not quite. 1.00

07:08:02.580 Yeah. 1.00

07:08:03.500 You dead ass. 1.00

07:08:04.540 No, literally. 1.00

07:08:05.620 Girl, dude, the fact that we, like, entered this whole podcast with your situation is crazy,

07:08:12.340 girl.

07:08:12.840 I don't know, girl.

07:08:14.120 See?

07:08:14.560 No, that's the pinnacle of red flag, girl.

07:08:16.880 No, I'm going through it right now, too.

07:08:18.300 You guys from Compton or Orange County?

07:08:20.140 Yeah, we're from Orange County.

07:08:23.940 I'm from Anaheim. 0.91

07:08:25.020 If there was a black person in here, they'd be a fan.

07:08:26.960 I'm from Anacrime, y'all. 0.95

07:08:27.360 I'm from the Bay.

07:08:28.340 They'd be a fan.

07:08:29.360 Hey, will you catch me at Seaside Bakery?

07:08:31.200 Yeah, it's the Bay.

07:08:32.720 All right.

07:08:33.220 If you're NorCal, I guess you get the pass, right?

07:08:37.820 Yeah, I get a pass.

07:08:39.760 How about you?

07:08:41.020 Girl, I don't even want to say stuff like that, though.

07:08:43.900 Oh, okay.

07:08:45.140 Why do you want to say stuff like that? 1.00

07:08:46.440 Okay, what the fuck? 1.00

07:08:50.600 Gotta have some brinettes. 1.00

07:08:51.860 Wait, what's the difference between NorCal and SoCal Asians?

07:08:57.420 Oh! 1.00

07:08:57.860 Oh, Aaron, this is our shit right here. 1.00

07:09:01.800 Okay. 1.00

07:09:02.280 No, no, no, no, no.

07:09:03.280 You go for it.

07:09:04.260 It's my concert right here.

07:09:04.740 So, we're Seaside Bakery TikTokers. 0.73

07:09:07.640 We Seaside Bakery.

07:09:09.480 No, no, no, no.

07:09:10.140 You have to go first, girl. 1.00

07:09:11.400 You have to go first.

07:09:12.560 Yeah.

07:09:13.400 Let's see.

07:09:13.820 I would say with NorCal, I feel like our fashion is completely different.

07:09:19.600 Go closer to the mic.

07:09:21.380 Bro, she thought I was doing this.

07:09:22.800 I thought you were doing this.

07:09:23.880 I was like, oh.

07:09:24.500 No, I used to have mic.

07:09:25.080 I feel like our styles are very different.

07:09:28.860 I feel like with NorCal, hoodie sweatpants.

07:09:32.620 Everyone's wearing hoodie sweatpants. 0.70

07:09:34.680 But in SoCal, like, we got the Stussy. 0.93

07:09:37.760 We got the Essentials.

07:09:39.080 Carhartts.

07:09:40.640 Chrome hearts, right?

07:09:41.680 Car hearts.

07:09:42.440 Car hearts?

07:09:43.080 Yeah, car heart.

07:09:43.940 Isn't it chrome hearts?

07:09:45.200 That too, I guess.

07:09:46.480 Opium.

07:09:47.240 Opium.

07:09:47.820 What the?

07:09:48.420 We got the opium fits.

07:09:49.620 Yum.

07:09:49.980 And what else?

07:09:52.920 Who's nicer, you think?

07:09:54.820 Because I feel like NorCal are more chill and more, like.

07:09:58.100 Bro, I think, like, NorCal is, like, NorCal guys are a bit more stoic.

07:10:04.300 And they are a bit tougher than SoCal guys.

07:10:07.860 Yeah, we're, like, much tougher.

07:10:09.180 Like, get into fights, crimes, and stuff.

07:10:11.780 In SoCal, there's nothing like that.

07:10:12.800 SoCal guys are, like.

07:10:14.260 Soft.

07:10:14.780 Soft boy.

07:10:16.120 What about, like, Texas Asians?

07:10:17.760 Like, you're from Texas, right?

07:10:18.720 Oh, Kessie.

07:10:20.060 Kessie's a Texan.

07:10:23.160 Oh, my gosh, bro.

07:10:25.380 I mean, we.

07:10:27.500 Honestly, I only know, like, two Texans.

07:10:30.200 One being Kessie, and then, like.

07:10:31.480 Momo.

07:10:32.000 Momo.

07:10:32.580 We have a friend named Matt.

07:10:33.920 He's from Texas.

07:10:34.740 Shout out, Matt.

07:10:35.740 He's a musician.

07:10:36.180 Yeah, he's a musician. 1.00

07:10:37.480 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

07:10:39.620 Yeah, dude, you don't. 1.00

07:10:40.500 He's chill.

07:10:40.640 I mean, he's chill.

07:10:41.260 Nah, man, that man's chill.

07:10:42.220 Yo, boys, TTS is 20.

07:10:44.160 TTS is 20, just like, you know.

07:10:45.840 Like, white wash station. 0.90

07:10:47.260 Roast session, roast session.

07:10:49.380 What is it?

07:10:50.260 I think, like, they're chill.

07:10:52.300 I don't know too much about Texans besides guns.

07:10:57.580 Wait, I do need advice, though.

07:10:59.420 On what?

07:11:00.300 What happened if you like a guy, and he says that he doesn't want a relationship, but he

07:11:06.220 but he found out you were with his friend last night, and he confronted you about that?

07:11:14.960 What?

07:11:16.060 Yeah.

07:11:17.380 So you're talking to a dude.

07:11:18.820 Mm-hmm.

07:11:19.600 He doesn't want a relationship with you?

07:11:21.200 Doesn't want a relationship with me? 1.00

07:11:22.380 You fucked his boy. 1.00

07:11:23.520 I did not. 1.00

07:11:24.360 I went to Seaside to create content with him. 1.00

07:11:26.680 And then fucked him? 1.00

07:11:27.560 No, I did not. 1.00

07:11:28.500 He's a TikTok.

07:11:29.060 Blowy? 0.99

07:11:29.800 Huh?

07:11:30.320 Blowy? 0.99

07:11:30.960 No, she didn't do shit, bruh. 1.00

07:11:32.040 No, I didn't. 1.00

07:11:32.520 You keep, oh, you're the one telling her to chill out on all the blowjobs. 0.99

07:11:35.940 No, no, I swear to God. 0.99

07:11:36.500 You said chill out on the blowjobs. 0.99

07:11:38.260 I swear to God. 0.98

07:11:38.740 She's probably watching this right now, but I swear to God, no.

07:11:41.800 What's, okay.

07:11:43.580 We didn't do anything.

07:11:44.420 We were, I was like.

07:11:44.920 And he's mad at you?

07:11:46.380 He's mad at me.

07:11:47.260 That you kicked it with his boy?

07:11:48.360 That I was hanging out with his friend at, like, 2 a.m., 4 a.m.

07:11:52.180 The Lulu.

07:11:53.060 At Seaside.

07:11:54.460 But we're not exclusive.

07:11:55.720 We're not talking.

07:11:56.600 It's just, like, he just.

07:11:58.140 You guys smash?

07:11:59.240 No.

07:11:59.500 He's upset?

07:12:02.520 He's upset, yeah.

07:12:05.400 That's probably, that's probably a wrap it up.

07:12:09.000 Like, not condom use.

07:12:11.080 I mean, like.

07:12:11.720 Just wrap up that.

07:12:12.840 We need that.

07:12:13.940 Well, for him.

07:12:14.780 And when I hear stories like that, I'm just, I'm just like, why, though?

07:12:18.420 Hmm?

07:12:19.240 I'm just wondering why.

07:12:20.720 Like, what is it that you're, what is it that you're doing?

07:12:23.540 What is it that you want?

07:12:24.840 What I want?

07:12:25.800 Like, he doesn't want a relationship with you, okay?

07:12:27.660 Then you went to, to, not, whatever.

07:12:30.040 Like, did you do it out of spite or, like, you want, like, for attention so that the guy

07:12:34.580 that you actually, like, did you, was there, like, a subtext of?

07:12:38.000 No, we were just friends.

07:12:39.480 Me and the guy that created content at Seaside.

07:12:41.340 Yeah.

07:12:41.880 Yeah, we were just friends.

07:12:43.280 And we just wanted to create content together.

07:12:45.400 Okay.

07:12:45.700 At 2 a.m.

07:12:47.020 Okay.

07:12:47.480 And I did pick him up at his house.

07:12:49.780 But I mean, you, okay.

07:12:50.720 But do you want to, you want to be in a relationship?

07:12:53.620 With him?

07:12:54.940 Just in general.

07:12:56.020 Do you want, do you want a committed relationship?

07:12:58.500 I would say, like, if I find the right person, yes.

07:13:03.740 Yes.

07:13:04.160 Okay.

07:13:04.760 Word.

07:13:05.860 I mean, I'm just saying, like, so that guy that's mad at you, you're not going to have

07:13:10.120 a relationship with him anyways.

07:13:11.600 Why?

07:13:11.940 Like, does it matter then if he's mad?

07:13:14.040 That's beautiful.

07:13:14.680 That's what I told him.

07:13:15.140 That's so true.

07:13:15.980 You know what I mean?

07:13:16.720 Like, what is it that you're, like, what is that you're actually getting?

07:13:19.800 In the most logical way of thinking, girl.

07:13:20.200 Like, he has no, he has no reason, like, to get mad.

07:13:24.160 Exactly.

07:13:24.720 And that's why you should think of it as, it's not that deep.

07:13:28.260 And honestly, check yourself.

07:13:30.540 That's what you can tell him.

07:13:31.220 I need to check myself.

07:13:31.880 No, no, not you.

07:13:32.560 Check him. 1.00

07:13:33.240 You need to check yourself before you wreck yourself, fool. 1.00

07:13:37.140 It's crazy because you might know him. 1.00

07:13:38.680 You might.

07:13:39.380 Maybe.

07:13:41.020 White guy? 0.84

07:13:44.320 I might know him.

07:13:45.840 You might know him.

07:13:47.580 Huh?

07:13:48.480 He's a, I know, like, I know him?

07:13:50.720 Probably.

07:13:51.680 Logan?

07:13:52.820 Logan?

07:13:53.440 Is it Logan?

07:13:54.140 Paul?

07:13:54.820 Logan?

07:13:56.740 Edward?

07:13:57.600 Is it Edward?

07:13:58.760 Colon?

07:13:59.620 What?

07:14:02.440 That was a good one.

07:14:04.920 I'm team Jacob, though.

07:14:06.320 Oh, wait.

07:14:06.660 Okay.

07:14:07.260 Let's see here.

07:14:08.060 You said, how I view relationships and love.

07:14:11.700 Colon?

07:14:12.860 Transactional?

07:14:14.320 What is it?

07:14:14.960 Yes.

07:14:15.440 I'd like to talk about this.

07:14:16.500 So, no, no.

07:14:17.940 So, how I see the way, like, relationships are, kind of, in terms of, like, self-fulfillment

07:14:26.240 or, like, fulfillment through, like, another partner is transactional.

07:14:32.120 So, like, when you're in a relationship with someone, right, you like that person, you do

07:14:36.780 things for them, in a way, you're kind of expecting something back in return, right?

07:14:41.780 You love the person enough, but, like, to be realistic, there's always going to be some

07:14:45.920 sort of limitation to how much you're going to give.

07:14:47.760 So, let's say love, right?

07:14:51.460 But let's turn it into a form of money.

07:14:53.080 You're a cashier.

07:14:54.280 Your partner is a customer that goes to your, like, store every day.

07:14:59.000 Let's say you gave them more charge of money, like, in return than they should get, right?

07:15:05.400 So, like, this guy needs 50 cents, but you gave him a dollar.

07:15:08.560 Is the guy going to complain about the dollar?

07:15:11.420 No, he's not going to complain about the dollar.

07:15:14.200 The more you keep making that sort of investment that, like, hey, like, I'll just keep giving

07:15:18.680 him a dollar, and, like, hopefully, like, you know, things are okay, bro's going to keep

07:15:27.600 taking it and taking it.

07:15:29.660 Sometimes, in certain situations, maybe the guy's like, oh, you probably overcharged me,

07:15:34.120 and then you're like, oh, okay, but it's fine.

07:15:37.000 Like, it's just a couple of cents or whatever.

07:15:39.260 The more they don't complain, right, the more you're going to lose business because

07:15:44.960 you're not keeping the exact amount of change you needed in exchange, right? 1.00

07:15:50.240 So, then you're going to be like, oh, shit. 1.00

07:15:53.660 Shit, I need to run my business. 1.00

07:15:55.200 I need some money. 1.00

07:15:57.440 Like, I'm not getting anything in return.

07:16:01.020 And so, like, a matter of communication-wise is obviously, like, hey, checking in.

07:16:06.300 Like, you're giving me a bit too much, or you're giving me under.

07:16:09.900 You're undercharging me.

07:16:11.580 So, that's why, like, you could use money as an analogy to pretty much explain, like,

07:16:17.660 fulfillment in relationships in terms of love.

07:16:19.840 How much love you give.

07:16:21.180 How much love you're lacking of.

07:16:23.560 And ways to really, like, go about it is just a matter of communication.

07:16:27.280 But some people are not really as good as communicating sort of needs or wants.

07:16:34.520 So, yeah.

07:16:35.660 What?

07:16:36.820 Can anybody translate what she just...

07:16:41.460 I'm sorry.

07:16:43.140 That was just, like...

07:16:45.780 I don't know, man.

07:16:50.540 I'm yappy.

07:16:51.380 I...

07:16:52.220 Did anybody follow what she was saying?

07:16:54.460 Yeah, so, like, if you get into a relationship where, like, you give, you give, you give,

07:16:58.020 and then you can create a synergy where the other person is just going to take and take

07:17:01.200 and take and take if you don't have, like, good boundaries.

07:17:03.740 And you have to figure out...

07:17:04.340 I love those relationships.

07:17:05.780 Well, that's...

07:17:06.940 Those are...

07:17:07.460 Get into financial dominatrix, then.

07:17:09.460 Get into Findom.

07:17:10.540 If you've got the money and you want to spend it all the way, bro, there's girls out there 1.00

07:17:14.540 who are, like...

07:17:14.980 No, he wants to the other one.

07:17:15.740 No.

07:17:16.860 What?

07:17:17.420 No, but she was doing an analogy. 1.00

07:17:18.700 She has to do all this shit for me. 1.00

07:17:22.000 Yeah, maybe you want that. 0.99

07:17:22.800 If you've got the money, like, and you're like, I want to spend it all on you, like,

07:17:27.040 take my money, take my...

07:17:28.060 Get into financial dominatrix.

07:17:30.660 I'll take you, though.

07:17:32.680 I'll get you.

07:17:33.020 But you were making an analogy.

07:17:34.820 Yes.

07:17:35.360 I was just messing around with him, but yeah.

07:17:37.120 Okay.

07:17:39.060 So, wait.

07:17:40.020 So, just...

07:17:41.740 Do you view relationships as transactional or not?

07:17:45.240 The matter of self-fulfillment or, like, fulfillment in a relationship in terms of needs and wants

07:17:52.320 can be, like, compared to, I guess, money.

07:17:58.800 Because money has value, right?

07:18:00.620 Oh, boy.

07:18:01.940 And love is a value.

07:18:03.540 Here we go again.

07:18:04.560 Sorry, go ahead.

07:18:05.040 Go ahead.

07:18:05.400 You're good.

07:18:06.060 You're good.

07:18:06.860 It's like a currency.

07:18:08.260 Money's a currency?

07:18:09.600 It is a currency.

07:18:10.680 But love, love, but love.

07:18:12.680 We should put that...

07:18:14.440 That is, like, profound.

07:18:15.380 He's making an analogy.

07:18:16.880 I'm making an analogy, but...

07:18:18.660 Money...

07:18:19.220 Money is money.

07:18:21.080 And money is currency.

07:18:24.980 But, yeah.

07:18:26.220 Good talk.

07:18:27.380 Yeah.

07:18:27.740 Love...

07:18:28.380 Love can be compared to currency.

07:18:32.580 Not saying that you have to quantize the amount of love.

07:18:35.500 No, I get it.

07:18:36.500 I get it.

07:18:36.960 But, I mean, it's just, like, okay, like, uh...

07:18:39.960 Like, am I...

07:18:41.840 Like, am I...

07:18:43.120 Do you...

07:18:43.380 I want you to give me, like, 50-50 or 60-40, whatever.

07:18:49.600 I'm more of, like, a 99-1 type of guy.

07:18:52.500 Bro, you should be the one that's, like, raining money on the women. 1.00

07:18:55.420 No, no.

07:18:55.700 Financial dominatrix. 0.97

07:18:56.920 You know what I'm saying?

07:18:57.720 Like... 0.96

07:18:58.100 No, we've been talking about the pay pigs. 0.80

07:19:00.720 Yeah. 0.92

07:19:01.920 No. 0.99

07:19:02.920 Pay pigs, bro. 0.98

07:19:04.800 Bro, I want to see some sock. 0.99

07:19:07.520 I want to see a little bit of dog.

07:19:09.300 I'll... 1.00

07:19:09.700 I'll spend money on that shit. 1.00

07:19:12.100 Like, you could be that person and save a girl. 1.00

07:19:15.400 I can see that.

07:19:16.440 From...

07:19:16.740 From poverty.

07:19:17.860 Yes.

07:19:18.460 Oxford study.

07:19:20.140 Oxford study.

07:19:20.500 Yeah, it's Oxford study.

07:19:21.360 Wait, no, but it only applies to, like, Asian women and men.

07:19:25.380 Yeah.

07:19:25.580 White men. 0.62

07:19:26.560 Yeah, Asian women. 1.00

07:19:26.720 I'm just saying in general.

07:19:28.060 Wait, you don't know his type.

07:19:29.540 Does he like Asian women?

07:19:30.600 Wait, he said that...

07:19:31.200 His ex-girlfriend was... 0.96

07:19:32.200 Dude, that was a fake TikTok.

07:19:33.960 He's just saying that for the...

07:19:35.380 No, that was actually my...

07:19:36.580 That was your actual girlfriend. 0.95

07:19:37.320 That was my ex-girlfriend. 1.00

07:19:37.720 There you go.

07:19:38.320 He likes Asian.

07:19:39.060 Oh, no, that's for Asian women. 1.00

07:19:40.040 He likes Asian girls.

07:19:41.280 I like white girls, too. 1.00

07:19:43.460 You do that for any kind of girl.

07:19:45.560 It's, like...

07:19:46.520 You got the memes.

07:19:46.940 White, Asian, pretty, pretty equal. 0.87

07:19:49.720 And then you have, like, Latinas.

07:19:51.780 And then...

07:19:54.100 I love Latinas.

07:19:56.560 That's crazy.

07:19:58.000 Odetari loves Latinas.

07:19:59.760 What?

07:20:00.940 What's crazy?

07:20:01.640 Wait, what's your type?

07:20:04.000 Nerds. 0.62

07:20:05.180 I like nerds.

07:20:07.040 The type of nerds that I like...

07:20:09.540 They gotta be at least...

07:20:11.620 I mean, I guess attractive.

07:20:13.140 And attraction is subjective, but...

07:20:15.760 I like the nerds that definitely have, like, a...

07:20:19.760 Like a niche interest.

07:20:23.300 Like, it could be...

07:20:24.440 It could be, like, math, or...

07:20:26.940 It could be, like, comics, or...

07:20:29.620 It could be, like...

07:20:31.480 Star Wars, Legos, Rubik's Cube.

07:20:35.520 Bro, if a man could do Rubik's Cube within, like...

07:20:39.160 One in three minutes? 1.00

07:20:40.240 God damn. 1.00

07:20:41.520 Oh, my... 1.00

07:20:42.520 How about ethnicity-wise?

07:20:45.460 Asian.

07:20:46.280 Asian?

07:20:46.940 Mmm.

07:20:47.900 Yeah.

07:20:48.340 That's why we're different.

07:20:50.200 Yeah.

07:20:50.760 That's why we're different. 0.87

07:20:51.700 You whitewashed as hell, girl. 1.00

07:20:53.260 No, I... 0.83

07:20:53.800 I took...

07:20:54.400 You just...

07:20:55.040 You just said...

07:20:55.760 You made an Instagram reel saying,

07:20:58.040 Who's the whitewashed Asian? 1.00

07:20:59.440 And who's the...

07:21:00.440 Oh, yeah, that's true. 1.00

07:21:01.300 Whatever that shit is, bro. 0.99

07:21:02.060 It's not my content. 1.00

07:21:03.200 I swear to God, when she makes reels sometimes, I just...

07:21:05.760 I let her do whatever the caption is, bro.

07:21:08.060 I'm just an actor.

07:21:08.840 ABG.

07:21:09.900 ABG?

07:21:10.500 Asian baby girl, what's up?

07:21:11.960 That's you.

07:21:12.880 That's not...

07:21:13.520 Are you an ABG?

07:21:14.380 I am not an ABG.

07:21:15.600 We're seaside ABGs from Seaside.

07:21:18.260 That is our, like...

07:21:19.700 Like, acting role.

07:21:21.200 That's our title.

07:21:22.380 Yeah, we just pretend to be ABGs for videos.

07:21:24.180 Are you an ABG?

07:21:26.820 I don't think so.

07:21:28.620 Anissa, are you an ABG?

07:21:31.800 Oh, okay.

07:21:33.340 That's cool.

07:21:34.980 Yeah.

07:21:35.300 Yeah.

07:21:35.740 Yeah.

07:21:37.060 Hmm.

07:21:37.460 What do you think ABGs are?

07:21:39.340 I want to hear your opinion.

07:21:41.180 What do I...

07:21:41.620 I don't know what...

07:21:42.520 It stands for what?

07:21:43.960 Asian baby girl? 0.91

07:21:45.000 Is that what you said?

07:21:45.580 Yeah, Asian baby girl. 0.63

07:21:46.780 Hmm.

07:21:47.360 I don't think I've...

07:21:49.040 Wait, that's not true.

07:21:50.360 I have...

07:21:51.080 I think I have dated one.

07:21:53.080 Dude!

07:21:54.220 Okay, okay, like, like, tell us.

07:21:56.000 Like, what's...

07:21:56.540 What's the story?

07:21:57.440 Like, what was your interaction?

07:21:59.460 Yeah, like, what was your interaction with that?

07:22:01.900 What was the interaction?

07:22:02.900 Yeah, like, how does she look? 0.63

07:22:03.980 I want to know.

07:22:05.400 Dude, was she bad? 0.98

07:22:06.700 Balayage.

07:22:07.140 Of course.

07:22:08.000 Okay, okay.

07:22:08.440 Of course, of course.

07:22:09.260 Balayage.

07:22:10.780 Boba.

07:22:11.680 Boba.

07:22:11.920 Okay, okay.

07:22:13.160 Vietnamese.

07:22:14.320 Oh, I love it.

07:22:15.540 I love it.

07:22:17.160 Toxic. 0.95

07:22:18.020 Oh, that's you. 1.00

07:22:20.060 Bitch, that's you. 1.00

07:22:21.860 No? 1.00

07:22:22.480 Wait, actually, no.

07:22:23.440 No, I'm not toxic. 0.98

07:22:23.840 Did I say what comes around is the Vietnamese-Filipino combination is hella toxic. 1.00

07:22:29.180 That's you, bruh. 0.91

07:22:30.100 Bro, but, like, negative multiplied with negative makes positive.

07:22:33.660 So, I'm positive, girl.

07:22:35.420 Bruh.

07:22:36.480 I'm hella positive.

07:22:37.340 I think Chinese are green flags, right? 1.00

07:22:40.340 I'm a green flag.

07:22:42.080 I guess so.

07:22:42.660 They're more family-oriented.

07:22:43.520 Yeah, see?

07:22:44.160 I'm a green flag.

07:22:45.860 Okay, but, like, okay, let's say you were to date an Asian guy.

07:22:48.700 And this goes for any of you guys.

07:22:49.900 I can't.

07:22:50.440 Oh, go ahead.

07:22:50.920 Like, if you were dating.

07:22:51.800 Like, I dated an Asian guy?

07:22:52.620 If you were to date an Asian guy, which particular ethnicity of an Asian dude and why?

07:22:59.200 You go first.

07:23:00.220 Asian guys don't like me. 0.95

07:23:01.420 I know. 1.00

07:23:02.760 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

07:23:03.940 We just not cover the fact that, like, we get more DMs than guys do, so. 1.00

07:23:09.440 Probably, like, Thai guy for me.

07:23:11.440 Want a Thai guy? 0.95

07:23:12.240 Yeah, like, I'd go Thai.

07:23:14.480 Oh, so you could do Muay Thai with him?

07:23:17.320 Ooh, I'm big.

07:23:18.460 Ooh.

07:23:19.520 Jeez.

07:23:19.920 Jeez.

07:23:22.620 Oh, and then, honestly, you could go for a ladyboy. 1.00

07:23:27.580 Why did you say it like that?

07:23:28.740 Ladyboy?

07:23:29.780 Ladyboy.

07:23:30.460 Ladyboy?

07:23:31.580 That's crazy.

07:23:33.320 Okay, you next.

07:23:34.040 That's crazy.

07:23:34.840 I said Koreans.

07:23:37.200 And you know who. 0.81

07:23:39.200 Wait, are you saying which is the most toxic?

07:23:41.300 No, we just say, like, no, which one would you date?

07:23:43.680 I say Korean.

07:23:44.180 And this is why.

07:23:44.760 You say Korean.

07:23:46.220 How about you, Rachel?

07:23:47.700 What?

07:23:49.380 Asian.

07:23:49.700 What?

07:23:50.180 I.

07:23:50.520 Okay, I'm not really attracted to Asian people. 0.99

07:23:52.900 That's fine.

07:23:53.280 Are you part Asian?

07:23:54.520 I.

07:23:55.200 People think that, but no, I'm Italian.

07:23:56.900 Oh.

07:23:57.840 You could.

07:23:58.260 And part native.

07:23:59.660 Oh.

07:24:00.160 Potentially.

07:24:00.760 I don't know.

07:24:01.300 Yeah.

07:24:01.760 You could get benefits.

07:24:02.800 But, yeah, I don't, like.

07:24:04.340 Nothing against Asian, but not physically attracted to. 1.00

07:24:07.300 I like white boys. 0.75

07:24:08.640 Oh.

07:24:08.920 Generally.

07:24:09.320 Where was this energy from y'all all night?

07:24:12.180 Oh, we were sleeping.

07:24:12.880 We were sleeping low key.

07:24:15.720 We were recharging.

07:24:16.680 My back was hurting the entire night, bro.

07:24:17.960 I got scoliosis.

07:24:18.900 For real, me too, bruh.

07:24:19.680 You didn't even finish your pizza.

07:24:21.100 You didn't finish your pizza.

07:24:21.780 I was going to eat it. 1.00

07:24:22.920 Have that shit. 1.00

07:24:23.560 For real? 1.00

07:24:24.140 Have it, dude.

07:24:25.440 I'm feeding the child.

07:24:27.500 Come on. 1.00

07:24:27.700 You saved this shit for the last five minutes of the show? 1.00

07:24:30.120 No, just extend it. 1.00

07:24:31.380 Extend this shit. 1.00

07:24:32.540 Let's get it. 0.99

07:24:33.420 By the way, guys, I paused the TTS temper.

07:24:35.420 We'll let the roast session come in in just a moment.

07:24:37.700 We're trying to get Andrew back, guys.

07:24:39.140 We're trying to get Andrew back.

07:24:40.300 Andrew, please come back.

07:24:41.080 Let me just double check.

07:24:41.960 I'm pretty sure we finished up all the pre-show notes.

07:24:43.760 We'll do a roast session, then we'll wrap up.

07:24:46.560 Let's see here.

07:24:47.680 Wait, so are you trying to get a pay pig? 0.80

07:24:51.380 Or you have had a pay pig? 0.94

07:24:54.540 No.

07:24:55.420 I was just saying that.

07:24:56.240 Sugar Daddy?

07:24:57.900 No.

07:24:58.480 Oh.

07:24:59.580 Girl, I think you would. 0.81

07:25:01.360 What's a pay pig?

07:25:01.960 Wait, wait. 0.99

07:25:02.720 A pay pig is. 0.97

07:25:04.020 Into the mic. 0.95

07:25:05.120 Oh, yes.

07:25:05.620 So my understanding of a pay pig is that there's these men who have a lot of money, right?

07:25:13.400 Have a lot of money. 0.93

07:25:14.120 But their kink is to spend on women that would dominate them. 1.00

07:25:19.400 Like be bullied by them.

07:25:21.400 Degrade.

07:25:22.160 Degrade.

07:25:22.560 Degrade.

07:25:23.300 Degrade.

07:25:23.680 That is the key word here.

07:25:25.100 Because it was kind of like dominatrix.

07:25:26.940 Dominatrix, but like financial wise.

07:25:29.060 Like take all my money.

07:25:29.960 Bro, if I were to like hypothetically say, like speak, like hypothetically say that I

07:25:35.660 do have a pay pig, bro, I'm going to go to Gentle Monster right away.

07:25:39.720 Gentle Monster.

07:25:40.660 Bro, I swear to God, dude, I'll get the metal frames.

07:25:43.700 This is my optometrist assistant speaking out right now.

07:25:48.180 The frames are amazing, bro.

07:25:50.700 We love it, but I can't have it in the.

07:25:53.500 Wait, so you're saying it would turn you on to Findamma, dude?

07:25:59.120 Is that what you were saying?

07:26:00.240 No, yeah, yeah.

07:26:00.800 It's.

07:26:01.500 No, I'm just kidding.

07:26:02.640 Is that what she just said?

07:26:03.940 What she's like?

07:26:04.660 No, no, no.

07:26:05.360 I just had.

07:26:06.060 No. 0.99

07:26:06.500 A pay pig is someone who has a lot of money that wants to be dominated by a woman. 1.00

07:26:12.800 Which is what you want to do. 0.90

07:26:15.040 It's just a matter of means that hypothetically seems like, like, why not?

07:26:20.980 You know?

07:26:21.280 There's no sexual.

07:26:22.320 No sexual at all.

07:26:23.300 You don't show anything.

07:26:24.600 That's really rare.

07:26:25.600 You know, I hear a lot of women that are like, oh, like he's just giving my money. 1.00

07:26:28.780 I don't have to do anything.

07:26:29.640 I'm like, I don't.

07:26:30.860 At most, like 99% it's not.

07:26:33.760 I don't believe it.

07:26:34.900 What?

07:26:35.420 Really?

07:26:35.820 No.

07:26:36.060 People send me money.

07:26:38.240 Just like that.

07:26:39.020 And I don't do anything or send anything.

07:26:41.600 They send you money.

07:26:42.460 People send you money.

07:26:43.640 No.

07:26:43.920 Wait, wait.

07:26:44.500 Girl, what happened?

07:26:45.600 Jet?

07:26:46.220 Jet?

07:26:47.140 Internet era.

07:26:47.860 Jet once. 1.00

07:26:49.060 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

07:26:50.740 Jet once. 1.00

07:26:51.440 You don't have to do anything.

07:26:52.360 You don't send photos. 0.78

07:26:54.120 What the hell are you talking about? 0.85

07:26:56.100 No, no, no. 0.70

07:26:56.640 You don't do any photos when you have a pay pay.

07:26:58.720 No, no, no.

07:26:59.200 You don't have to show any, like.

07:27:00.860 No, but she's like, I just receive money with no, like, you don't have to do anything.

07:27:03.840 You don't talk with them.

07:27:04.520 You don't.

07:27:05.020 You don't.

07:27:05.740 You don't.

07:27:06.320 There's no sex texting.

07:27:07.600 There's no photos.

07:27:08.440 There's no.

07:27:08.700 They're just like, hey, I want to just give you money.

07:27:11.640 Yeah.

07:27:13.940 I just don't see.

07:27:15.820 You don't believe that?

07:27:17.060 I don't know.

07:27:17.700 I don't see why.

07:27:18.720 What do you get?

07:27:20.300 I feel like you wouldn't want to get something.

07:27:21.580 Max Fives donated $20.

07:27:22.740 Guys, roast session.

07:27:23.900 $20 TTS.

07:27:24.980 $20 TTS.

07:27:25.740 But spending 40 plus slash WK together will do that.

07:27:29.500 Add alcohol, kaboom.

07:27:31.060 But serving this table would be an example P-F-Y we drink as well. 0.96

07:27:35.780 I hate her.

07:27:36.860 Serving this table. 0.96

07:27:37.700 Snap more donated $20.

07:27:40.860 Wok Tua, please stop. 1.00

07:27:42.920 You're out cringing, Brixen. 0.69

07:27:44.920 Morgie, check DMs. 0.84

07:27:47.040 Oh.

07:27:47.500 She doesn't get DMs.

07:27:48.560 All right.

07:27:49.500 Boom.

07:27:51.020 Wok Tua?

07:27:52.260 What is this?

07:27:52.640 That's me, bro.

07:27:53.580 I'm pretty sure that's Wok Tua. 0.99

07:27:54.380 GMD Jim donated $20.

07:27:56.520 Blowing the high IQ Asian myth completely out of the water. 0.97

07:28:00.620 You go girls.

07:28:01.900 You put them in the hood and they will become hood in just one generation. 0.89

07:28:05.600 Is that OC the hood?

07:28:08.420 Donated, donated, donated $20.

07:28:11.180 Ladies, chivalry is disappearing because real women do not exist anymore. 1.00

07:28:16.760 Chivalry goes hand in hand with real femininity. 0.99

07:28:20.160 Women used to be the prize. 1.00

07:28:22.120 Why be chivalrous anymore?

07:28:23.360 I think it's a vicious cycle.

07:28:27.320 What happened to the...

07:28:29.180 Austin, that might have got moved.

07:28:33.080 Yeah.

07:28:33.560 I need a...

07:28:34.640 Can you remind me after we wrap to fix that?

07:28:37.400 I think it just got moved in OBS.

07:28:39.020 Dragon Salon, is it any wonder why these three foes are single?

07:28:43.460 Yo, chat, by the way, should episode 304 be the last episode of the whatever podcast?

07:28:48.000 I think that might, honestly.

07:28:51.980 That could be in the cards.

07:28:53.220 I don't know.

07:28:53.660 We'll see.

07:28:54.120 Okay.

07:28:54.360 Like the video, guys.

07:28:56.060 We'll do a very short roast session.

07:28:58.040 $20 TTS if you want to get the final roast in.

07:29:00.400 You need to roast Anissa. 0.97

07:29:02.540 You need to roast her because she's from Estonia. 1.00

07:29:05.660 And we love Estonians. 0.99

07:29:07.400 You need to roast that lady. 1.00

07:29:10.780 You need to roast her over there who's got a Fyndom thing. 1.00

07:29:13.460 Well, no, but it's just funny to entertain.

07:29:19.960 Honestly, whatever.

07:29:21.760 Wait, can you demonstrate, pretend Anissa here is a dude?

07:29:26.300 Like a hot dude?

07:29:27.460 Like a hot Asian dude or whatever? 0.93

07:29:28.980 Oh, okay.

07:29:29.900 That's your type?

07:29:30.440 Can you rizz up?

07:29:32.720 I'm nervous already.

07:29:34.100 Oh, my gosh.

07:29:35.560 What would your guy name be?

07:29:37.660 Just say...

07:29:38.320 Arnold?

07:29:39.420 That's not Asian, bro. 1.00

07:29:40.820 I'm just kidding.

07:29:41.320 Arnold.

07:29:41.680 Well, Anissa, Arnold, it's the closest I could think of.

07:29:44.940 Okay.

07:29:45.740 Let's see the rizz.

07:29:46.460 Go ahead.

07:29:48.560 That's the thing.

07:29:49.520 I wouldn't approach first.

07:29:51.380 Like if you want...

07:29:51.800 Oh, my...

07:29:52.180 You said literally that you would chase.

07:29:54.540 Wait, wait, wait.

07:29:55.320 Are we talking about like financial dominatrix?

07:29:57.420 What the f...

07:29:58.000 No, no.

07:29:58.320 At the beginning of the podcast.

07:29:59.660 What?

07:29:59.840 You're like, I'm a chaser.

07:30:01.060 Oh, me?

07:30:02.200 Yeah.

07:30:02.820 Like, okay, okay. 1.00

07:30:04.860 Shit. 0.99

07:30:05.260 No, I'm like so lost because I was like, wait, are we talking about how I would approach a 0.99

07:30:08.680 dude if I was in a Fyndom like situation or if I...

07:30:11.680 No.

07:30:12.140 No, in general.

07:30:12.920 In general.

07:30:12.940 Oh, in general?

07:30:13.600 Okay, okay.

07:30:13.960 Oh, boy.

07:30:14.520 Sorry, sorry.

07:30:14.880 Okay.

07:30:15.560 I'm like scatterbrained, but anyway.

07:30:18.000 So.

07:30:19.340 Rizz her up. 1.00

07:30:20.200 Or, uh, rizz him up.

07:30:21.020 Yeah, rizz him up.

07:30:21.740 Rizz him up.

07:30:21.900 Rizz him up.

07:30:21.920 Rizz up, Arnold.

07:30:22.800 Oh, too late.

07:30:23.380 Andrew's master batter fan donated $50.

07:30:26.800 Long time listener, first time donator.

07:30:29.380 Yeah, thank you, man.

07:30:29.880 Keep up the good work, Brian and Andrew.

07:30:32.100 Not one step back, boys.

07:30:33.900 Yo, thank you so much for the first time donation.

07:30:36.960 Really appreciate it, man.

07:30:37.620 Thank you.

07:30:37.880 Thank you.

07:30:38.700 Big 50.

07:30:39.340 Thank you, man.

07:30:39.880 Thank you so much.

07:30:40.800 Okay, Rizz, go.

07:30:42.200 Hi, how are you doing?

07:30:45.080 What's up?

07:30:46.480 Yeah, so, um, like, I haven't seen you around in our club.

07:30:50.520 Like, have you...

07:30:51.580 Oh, my God.

07:30:52.500 Yeah.

07:30:53.380 Have you, um, are you a transfer?

07:30:57.520 Yeah, actually.

07:30:58.780 Oh, my gosh.

07:30:59.540 Nice.

07:31:00.340 Um, what year are you?

07:31:02.160 I'm a second year.

07:31:03.620 Oh, sweet, sweet.

07:31:04.960 I'm, I'm a fifth year.

07:31:07.200 So, um, just wondering, like, uh, like, what do you like to do?

07:31:15.500 Um, I like to solve Rubik's cubes. 0.99

07:31:19.520 Damn, me too. 0.98

07:31:20.760 I really like solving Rubik's cubes. 0.99

07:31:22.060 Like, um, like, what's your time?

07:31:25.580 Um, 20 seconds.

07:31:28.180 That's crazy.

07:31:29.200 I can't even do it, like, within one minute.

07:31:31.220 Wait, do you like, do you like keyboards?

07:31:34.220 Yeah.

07:31:35.540 Bro, what's your words per minute?

07:31:38.620 70. 1.00

07:31:39.340 Damn, you're really good with your hands. 0.99

07:31:42.520 Bro, I'm like, but honestly, my words per minute is, like, 128. 0.99

07:31:45.420 What, was it a, was it a W?

07:31:50.280 Um, yeah.

07:31:51.820 Oh.

07:31:53.060 Did she get the digits?

07:31:55.040 Yeah, since you're pretty good with your hands, I was wondering if you could, like, text your phone number online.

07:31:59.760 Yeah.

07:32:04.000 Chat, we got it.

07:32:05.640 Chat, we're in.

07:32:07.040 We're in.

07:32:09.300 Chat.

07:32:12.660 Thank you, Lord, Jesus Christ.

07:32:15.040 For giving me this opportunity to talk. 0.70

07:32:17.560 Really hot Asian nerd.

07:32:18.960 Oh, wait, what?

07:32:19.620 Why are you stopping me?

07:32:21.180 I was in my moment.

07:32:22.360 Oh, yeah, keep going.

07:32:23.120 Go ahead.

07:32:23.540 You're doing good.

07:32:24.040 Continue, continue.

07:32:24.840 Yes, yes.

07:32:25.020 Go ahead.

07:32:25.460 You got it.

07:32:26.260 You got this.

07:32:27.340 What, what the, what the sound?

07:32:29.760 You want, I can't play it again.

07:32:31.440 Here, I can do this.

07:32:31.880 Oh, it's tough, not.

07:32:32.380 Here, let me, I got, no, no, no, I got you.

07:32:34.060 Are you ready?

07:32:34.720 Yeah, I'm ready.

07:32:35.060 But if I do it, if I play the sound, you gotta, what were you saying? 1.00

07:32:38.300 You're on your shit? 1.00

07:32:39.140 Continue, continue. 1.00

07:32:39.580 Okay, you ready?

07:32:40.200 But you're gonna talk while this is playing.

07:32:42.140 Ready?

07:32:43.760 See, I don't know how to feel about this situation.

07:32:47.060 I think it happened too fast. 0.59

07:32:48.440 It's like, maybe I'm just a clown, you know what I'm saying?

07:32:51.320 So, you know what? 0.51

07:32:53.780 I'm gonna give it a shot, but I know I'm like, I need to do it for this.

07:33:02.000 Good talk.

07:33:02.780 Okay, let me let the rest of the roast come through. 0.93

07:33:04.260 So, guys, last call on the TTS.

07:33:07.900 Last call on the TTS.

07:33:09.060 I agree.

07:33:09.660 Don't ever.

07:33:10.160 I'll get it.

07:33:10.460 My car's small donated $19.99.

07:33:13.960 Can you guys smile really big for the cameras?

07:33:16.560 I'd love to see who has the nicest teeth and who needs their tooth fixed.

07:33:22.060 Men, stay away from bad teeth. 0.74

07:33:24.920 All right, let's smile, everybody.

07:33:27.080 The camera? 0.95

07:33:28.300 That's so fucking weird. 0.97

07:33:31.680 I got tooth jumps. 0.98

07:33:33.340 That might be some guy's red flag.

07:33:35.720 Oh.

07:33:37.760 Tooth jumps.

07:33:39.280 All right.

07:33:40.320 Let's see here if we have.

07:33:41.880 No, I think that's it.

07:33:42.800 Okay.

07:33:43.040 Any final thoughts from any of the panelists before we wrap things up?

07:33:46.560 My back is hurting, but I'm not big-backed because, obviously, I didn't finish my pizza.

07:33:53.580 What's big-back mean?

07:33:54.840 Is it, like, you're fat? 0.76

07:33:56.200 Yeah. 0.94

07:33:56.800 Oh, okay.

07:33:58.080 Oh, is that what it really means? 1.00

07:33:59.340 Fat-ass. 1.00

07:33:59.880 Oh, fuck, man. 1.00

07:34:01.160 Oh. 1.00

07:34:01.660 Or, like, big-back means, like.

07:34:03.260 Into the mic.

07:34:04.140 Into the mic.

07:34:04.900 Into the mic.

07:34:05.380 A big-back means, like, big stomach and your back be hurting.

07:34:08.560 You know, like. 1.00

07:34:08.920 Shit. 1.00

07:34:09.180 Oh, my back always hurting, bro. 1.00

07:34:10.760 Yeah. 0.99

07:34:12.400 Ain't that some shit. 0.99

07:34:13.380 Okay, guys. 0.98

07:34:14.900 We're going to wrap up the show if you want.

07:34:16.460 You can still get your last-minute roast in, last-minute $20 TTS.

07:34:20.720 Guys, final thing.

07:34:21.880 If you can go to twitch.tv slash whatever, drop us a follow and a Prime sub if you have one.

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07:34:42.080 And it's been 40 minutes.

07:34:44.160 Okay, sorry, sorry.

07:34:45.000 40 minutes since we last had a Prime sub.

07:34:47.360 If you guys can drop us a Prime.

07:34:49.540 We have a Discord.

07:34:50.140 Discord.gg slash whatever.

07:34:51.500 We post the BTS.

07:34:52.800 Maybe we'll post the BTS of that girl who walked off.

07:34:55.760 Guys, Discord.gg slash whatever.

07:34:57.620 We'll see.

07:34:58.580 We'll see if we can post the BTS.

07:35:01.840 I don't think there was much.

07:35:03.440 But maybe.

07:35:04.000 If we pull up the Discord, I can show you.

07:35:05.740 Derek Pinkney donated $20.

07:35:07.680 The Asian woman in the white blouse is by far the most attractive, but it's mostly because 1.00

07:35:13.340 she's quiet and seems intelligent.

07:35:16.000 Brains over beauty. 1.00

07:35:17.640 First time donator.

07:35:20.360 Brian Atlas donated $19.99.

07:35:24.560 My dumpy goes like this.

07:35:26.460 Burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito,

07:35:31.860 burrito, and comes back like this.

07:35:34.540 Burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito, burrito.

07:35:38.980 Dabamonian donated $20.

07:35:40.260 That's crazy.

07:35:41.320 I think it's reasonable to say that males increase in value with age and females become

07:35:46.720 devalued.

07:35:48.020 At what age will it no longer be viable?

07:35:50.980 I don't know.

07:35:51.600 Like, is it though?

07:35:52.940 Because, Austin, can we just pull up like Young Brian photos?

07:35:56.380 Cause I feel like

07:35:57.600 I peaked a while ago

07:36:01.360 You know

07:36:01.700 Just oh my Instagram

07:36:03.840 Just pull it up

07:36:04.640 Yeah go

07:36:06.960 Start at the bottom

07:36:08.580 Made our way to the top

07:36:11.360 And then

07:36:13.220 Is there

07:36:14.820 Is that you

07:36:16.700 Yeah that's like

07:36:18.120 That's me

07:36:19.200 Rip 0.82

07:36:22.880 Donated donated donated

07:36:24.540 Twenty dollars

07:36:25.540 Anissa

07:36:26.420 For the love of God 0.99

07:36:27.600 Please shut up 0.98

07:36:28.600 Hey 1.00

07:36:28.900 Let the other girls 1.00

07:36:30.100 Speak

07:36:30.500 Hey

07:36:30.820 You are a lot more intelligent

07:36:32.780 When your lips are sealed

07:36:34.240 You talk

07:36:36.360 Way too much

07:36:37.680 Okay

07:36:38.100 I'm sick and tired

07:36:39.720 Of you just

07:36:41.140 Yapping

07:36:42.160 All night

07:36:44.380 Just yap yap yap

07:36:46.100 Anissa

07:36:46.440 It's unacceptable

07:36:48.660 I'm a yapper

07:36:51.840 I kind of feel though

07:36:55.540 For like

07:36:56.440 If we do a segment

07:36:57.400 Where

07:36:58.300 A girl has to 1.00

07:37:01.240 Like pretend to be a guy

07:37:02.860 I mean we

07:37:04.020 Framed it differently

07:37:04.880 Like you're the dude

07:37:05.580 But you're actually

07:37:06.920 The perfect girl

07:37:08.100 To like

07:37:09.180 Be a girl

07:37:11.740 And then have a girl 0.95

07:37:13.620 Try to hit on you

07:37:14.440 As a dude

07:37:15.100 That's kind of

07:37:18.180 Is that a compliment

07:37:19.200 I think

07:37:20.100 You know

07:37:21.260 Thank you

07:37:23.140 I think it's a compliment

07:37:25.420 Okay anyways

07:37:26.300 Cause you do a good job

07:37:28.040 Yeah I'm very in touch

07:37:29.380 With my masculinity

07:37:30.360 No no no

07:37:31.180 That's not

07:37:31.540 I didn't mean

07:37:31.980 No you're

07:37:32.480 Nevermind

07:37:33.200 That's not what I meant

07:37:33.920 But yeah

07:37:35.320 You're just good

07:37:36.340 At like

07:37:37.480 Whatever it was

07:37:39.800 You did

07:37:41.200 Okay

07:37:41.460 Good talk

07:37:42.000 Good talk

07:37:43.580 Wait what we're doing

07:37:44.780 Oh the discord

07:37:45.360 Before it came in

07:37:46.160 Guys discord.gg

07:37:47.020 Slash whatever

07:37:47.580 We're gonna post

07:37:48.080 We post behind the scenes

07:37:49.980 We post the hate mail

07:37:51.240 We're gonna

07:37:52.380 We're gonna post

07:37:55.020 What are we gonna post

07:37:55.960 Oh wait

07:37:56.640 Get out

07:37:57.120 Wait

07:37:57.400 Yeah don't

07:37:58.020 Let's skip over

07:37:59.040 The hate mail one

07:38:00.300 Wall of haters

07:38:01.100 You can show

07:38:01.780 Let's do wall of whatever

07:38:02.880 What's on the wall of whatever

07:38:04.000 What's over there

07:38:04.740 Oh scroll up

07:38:06.240 Scroll up

07:38:07.300 Scroll up

07:38:10.020 What do we got

07:38:10.560 Oh that's just like

07:38:12.180 Okay

07:38:12.760 And whatever

07:38:14.100 Okay

07:38:14.400 Discord.gg

07:38:15.300 Slash whatever guys

07:38:16.180 Be sure to join

07:38:16.860 We post our full stream schedule

07:38:18.840 We post the BTS

07:38:19.680 Hate mail

07:38:20.300 All that good stuff

07:38:21.080 If you want

07:38:21.820 You can get your last minute TTS in

07:38:23.440 We are gonna wrap up the show here

07:38:25.760 Final thoughts from anybody

07:38:27.700 Thank you for having us

07:38:30.580 Thank you for coming

07:38:31.200 What you got

07:38:32.460 You got something right

07:38:33.420 You got something

07:38:34.280 Emma you got something

07:38:35.300 No

07:38:36.420 Oh okay

07:38:37.480 I do

07:38:38.580 What's up

07:38:39.460 Dabamonian donated $20

07:38:45.220 What is the best pick up line

07:38:47.780 You've ever heard

07:38:48.740 Brian

07:38:49.560 You should role play

07:38:50.860 Like you made your panelist XD

07:38:52.880 Maybe

07:38:56.200 Best pick up line ever

07:38:59.800 Go ahead

07:39:00.200 What you got for us

07:39:02.500 Oh 0.99

07:39:04.460 The legendary trash panda 0.98

07:39:06.140 Donated $20 0.98

07:39:07.280 Brixen

07:39:08.600 WTF 0.93

07:39:09.760 Dem DMD's be slackin' yo 0.99

07:39:11.820 But dem mommy milkers 1.00

07:39:13.560 And the ghost

07:39:14.020 Quish

07:39:14.340 Quish

07:39:14.600 Quish

07:39:15.280 Quish

07:39:16.280 Quish

07:39:17.280 In my furry hands

07:39:19.020 Chewan

07:39:20.160 Stay old

07:39:21.280 Queen

07:39:21.840 Wait can we pull up

07:39:23.560 The old photos

07:39:24.320 Really quick

07:39:24.900 Just for the outro

07:39:26.080 Oh

07:39:26.520 No of

07:39:28.780 The two girls

07:39:30.580 Like the old

07:39:31.220 Transformation

07:39:32.300 I was gonna say

07:39:32.800 My last word was

07:39:33.600 All hail

07:39:34.940 Chewan

07:39:36.260 That's your best pick up

07:39:38.600 And honey

07:39:39.560 No

07:39:39.900 That was my last

07:39:41.040 My last word

07:39:42.280 For everyone

07:39:43.600 But the pick up line

07:39:45.800 You have to start first 1.00

07:39:47.060 Oh we do

07:39:50.020 Yeah let's take

07:39:50.900 They're safe right

07:39:51.940 Oh let's take a look

07:39:54.720 We got

07:39:55.040 We'll wrap the show on that

07:39:56.380 Let's do it

07:39:58.280 Oh

07:39:59.900 Oh

07:40:00.580 But that's pretty good

07:40:02.040 I like that

07:40:03.080 AI is amazing

07:40:04.100 Fine

07:40:04.780 10 out of 10

07:40:05.720 Oh wait I look so cute

07:40:08.320 That's honestly so good

07:40:09.260 Wait I look so cute

07:40:10.180 I like that one

07:40:11.260 Who did these

07:40:12.140 The good

07:40:12.600 Whoever did this

07:40:13.580 Good job in the discord

07:40:14.520 Are these it

07:40:15.180 Just those two

07:40:15.980 Whoever made these

07:40:17.560 Edit y'all should be paid

07:40:18.720 Like these guys should be paid 0.99

07:40:19.980 God damn bro 1.00

07:40:20.660 God damn 1.00

07:40:22.440 That's brutal 1.00

07:40:23.080 This is the killer

07:40:23.500 They added like glasses

07:40:25.080 Wait what

07:40:25.780 I'm not

07:40:26.180 Yeah you got hyperopia 1.00

07:40:27.540 Oh fuck 1.00

07:40:30.100 That's crazy bro 1.00

07:40:31.540 That's cute

07:40:32.340 We gotta do this every show

07:40:33.820 This is hilarious

07:40:34.820 Wait the 1.00

07:40:36.240 Oh shit 1.00

07:40:37.060 I can't look at my grandma 1.00

07:40:38.080 It just looks so real

07:40:39.420 Like grandma's like

07:40:40.440 Hella happy

07:40:40.740 Oh wait we did

07:40:41.320 I think we did that one

07:40:42.380 That one's crazy

07:40:44.280 Wait

07:40:45.240 Okay

07:40:45.540 Why is it just us two

07:40:46.700 Bro did you not

07:40:48.200 Oh you right

07:40:49.260 Because you were saying

07:40:50.100 That you were gonna get

07:40:51.020 Better looking

07:40:52.300 When you were gonna be older

07:40:53.340 And that's why they did

07:40:54.140 That just you

07:40:54.540 And that's true

07:40:55.080 It's true

07:40:55.800 Well

07:40:56.220 Best pick up line

07:40:58.020 Go ahead

07:40:58.500 And then we'll wrap on that

07:40:59.620 I don't have a best pick up line

07:41:04.140 Just go straight to it

07:41:06.300 To flowies

07:41:07.840 No like be direct

07:41:10.660 Direct

07:41:11.240 Be direct

07:41:12.160 Yeah

07:41:12.740 Be like I like you

07:41:14.160 You like me

07:41:15.060 Let's come together baby

07:41:16.500 Yeah

07:41:17.140 Like right like that

07:41:17.720 Make a baby

07:41:18.020 Yeah

07:41:18.680 I want babies with you 0.99

07:41:19.920 What the heck 0.99

07:41:20.400 For me

07:41:21.160 Nothing specific

07:41:22.240 But just a good sarcastic

07:41:24.240 Thing

07:41:25.780 A good sass 1.00

07:41:27.300 Absurd humor

07:41:28.800 I'll be

07:41:29.520 I'll be

07:41:29.840 Yeah

07:41:30.140 How about you Morgan

07:41:31.240 I literally have no idea

07:41:34.360 Alright I got two

07:41:35.480 In my arsenal

07:41:36.280 What you got

07:41:36.840 Go ahead

07:41:37.240 One says

07:41:37.660 Are you copper and tellurium

07:41:39.280 Because you're cute

07:41:40.720 And then

07:41:41.240 The other one is 0.94

07:41:42.520 Are you a fart 1.00

07:41:43.820 Because damn 1.00

07:41:45.860 You blew me away 1.00

07:41:46.800 Pretty good

07:41:49.000 Yeah

07:41:49.900 I have nothing

07:41:51.400 I don't like pick up lines

07:41:53.280 I have nothing

07:41:55.580 Anissa

07:41:56.640 I have one

07:41:59.100 It's a bit vulgar

07:42:01.360 So earmuffs

07:42:02.180 For the

07:42:02.720 Okay

07:42:05.040 Sensitive

07:42:05.820 This

07:42:07.440 This is just

07:42:08.360 I think

07:42:08.760 One of the best one

07:42:09.720 It goes

07:42:10.120 I'm reading it here

07:42:11.620 I would bury 1.00

07:42:12.620 My dick 1.00

07:42:14.360 So far inside your ass 1.00

07:42:15.960 Whoever could pull it 1.00

07:42:17.260 Whoever could pull it out

07:42:20.240 Would be crowned

07:42:20.980 King Arthur

07:42:21.580 Does it work?

07:42:26.180 Sorry

07:42:26.460 It's

07:42:26.800 The girls don't appreciate it 1.00

07:42:28.360 I got another one

07:42:30.260 For you

07:42:30.360 It's in the cranium

07:42:31.220 It's in the cranium

07:42:31.840 So

07:42:33.040 Can I be a Rubik's Cube

07:42:34.180 Because I bet you can unravel me

07:42:35.640 Within one minute

07:42:36.560 Yeah that was good 1.00

07:42:40.520 Compared to your Arthur shit 0.99

07:42:42.840 The King Arthur one 1.00

07:42:43.480 Wasn't

07:42:43.760 You didn't like the King Arthur one

07:42:45.320 It's not

07:42:48.880 It's not really meant to be a joke

07:42:50.120 It's just

07:42:50.620 What?

07:42:51.960 This one

07:42:52.640 My one

07:42:53.200 The King Arthur one

07:42:54.080 I think it is the best

07:42:55.520 Pick up line though

07:42:56.240 Ever

07:42:56.520 Invented

07:42:57.680 The worst

07:42:58.560 Maybe the worst 1.00

07:42:59.400 I wanna fuck you 1.00

07:43:01.420 At that point 1.00

07:43:02.900 Is that an Akon song?

07:43:03.740 Yeah

07:43:04.080 Was this like 2005 or something?

07:43:09.180 You already know

07:43:10.440 Yeah

07:43:11.520 It was the best of times

07:43:14.500 We have karaoke on this podcast

07:43:16.060 We'll have you back

07:43:18.540 We'll get the karaoke next time

07:43:20.180 Dude you better have like the mic

07:43:21.860 The speaker ready

07:43:22.820 GMD Jim donated $20

07:43:24.820 Brixen 1.00

07:43:26.160 I hope these two are killing your Asian fetish 1.00

07:43:29.100 They are not sending their best 1.00

07:43:30.820 You have an Asian fetish? 1.00

07:43:31.800 We fucking knew it dude 1.00

07:43:33.320 I knew it 0.99

07:43:33.580 That one chick 1.00

07:43:34.780 I can sense it

07:43:35.040 I can sense it

07:43:35.840 Yeah

07:43:36.140 Asian fetish 0.75

07:43:37.240 I don't have an Asian fetish 0.98

07:43:38.320 Can we see her try Riz her 1.00

07:43:41.360 If she was a pay pig dude 1.00

07:43:43.140 I'm not the pay pig 0.98

07:43:44.240 I'm not the one

07:43:45.100 Like

07:43:45.700 Spending the monies

07:43:47.240 Bro

07:43:47.540 I'm trying to get the monies 0.64

07:43:48.720 Hypothetically speaking

07:43:49.700 If I were to even do

07:43:51.080 Such sort of transactions

07:43:52.360 Daniel Steyn donated $50

07:43:54.680 Yo thank you Daniel

07:43:55.720 What is the end goal

07:43:56.720 Of the feminists

07:43:57.560 Distrioing something

07:43:58.720 That is so natural

07:43:59.800 Eventually

07:44:00.300 Men are just gonna say 0.98

07:44:01.900 F it and F you survive 1.00

07:44:03.360 On your own 1.00

07:44:04.120 I guess stupid feminists 1.00

07:44:05.880 Wait Daniel Stein 1.00

07:44:07.200 Are you from South Africa?

07:44:09.000 Because I feel like Stein

07:44:11.220 The way that's spelled

07:44:12.800 Is like a South African 1.00

07:44:13.920 Wait

07:44:14.520 Or a Dutch 1.00

07:44:15.280 It's either Dutch 1.00

07:44:17.120 Or South

07:44:17.740 I don't know

07:44:18.140 What's that

07:44:19.300 Oh final thing

07:44:21.640 Is anybody here down

07:44:22.480 To hit a bow

07:44:23.220 Before we wrap the show?

07:44:25.140 Yeah I bet

07:44:25.760 You'll do it?

07:44:27.480 Let's do it

07:44:28.080 No you gotta like

07:44:28.640 Stand up and do the bow

07:44:29.500 Oh stand up?

07:44:30.560 Yeah

07:44:30.740 Oh wait

07:44:31.700 Are we

07:44:32.040 Is this like a potential

07:44:33.060 Slip?

07:44:34.920 Can you just like maybe

07:44:35.620 No

07:44:36.460 W

07:44:41.420 She's seething over there 1.00

07:44:43.900 By the way

07:44:44.220 She is furious

07:44:45.420 I see her fuming 1.00

07:44:48.000 Seething

07:44:48.900 Would you do it?

07:44:49.920 Yeah to everybody

07:44:50.660 Like

07:44:51.060 To everybody

07:44:53.000 To the podcast

07:44:54.260 Yes

07:44:54.580 To the podcast

07:44:55.320 To the podcast

07:44:55.940 Wait wait

07:44:56.520 Are we all doing

07:44:57.160 Wait no

07:44:57.520 No one at a time

07:44:58.460 One at a time

07:44:58.920 That was pretty good

07:44:59.900 I prefer the more

07:45:01.160 You don't want

07:45:01.700 I don't like this

07:45:02.400 I prefer the more

07:45:03.460 Like timid

07:45:04.200 Timid

07:45:05.180 Yes good

07:45:06.740 Good

07:45:07.240 I mean it looks like 0.99

07:45:08.080 You're covering your crotch 0.98

07:45:08.940 But it was 0.99

07:45:09.300 Well yeah

07:45:10.080 I'm trying to

07:45:10.700 Follow your instructions

07:45:11.660 Huh

07:45:12.220 Are we gonna see a bow?

07:45:13.820 Let's see

07:45:14.160 You gotta stand up

07:45:15.400 You gotta stand up 0.99

07:45:16.120 God damn bro 1.00

07:45:16.900 Shit 1.00

07:45:17.380 Yo 1.00

07:45:17.800 Shit 1.00

07:45:19.200 Let's go 1.00

07:45:21.120 What

07:45:21.640 There's a lot of

07:45:23.140 Style in there

07:45:25.020 I know

07:45:25.540 I got style

07:45:26.280 Hey

07:45:26.520 This is your

07:45:27.560 Redemption

07:45:28.980 You gonna hit a bow?

07:45:31.100 No thank you

07:45:31.780 Rip 0.82

07:45:32.040 Estonia

07:45:33.380 No

07:45:33.980 Emma

07:45:35.880 Okay

07:45:39.940 That's okay

07:45:40.840 It is what it is

07:45:42.320 Okay guys

07:45:43.080 I promise

07:45:43.440 Let's see here

07:45:44.600 We're gonna wrap the show

07:45:46.080 So

07:45:46.620 Oh wait

07:45:47.220 No

07:45:47.480 Nobody here has OnlyFans

07:45:49.100 Right?

07:45:49.720 No

07:45:50.140 Another W 0.76

07:45:51.180 For the whatever podcast

07:45:52.420 No

07:45:52.960 No OnlyFans girls 0.99

07:45:54.100 In order to

07:45:54.840 No girl 1.00

07:45:55.920 In order

07:45:56.340 Donated

07:45:57.020 Wait really

07:45:58.140 I think it's not even

07:45:59.700 King Arthur

07:46:00.480 Could pull me out of that

07:46:01.860 Oh

07:46:03.300 Haha

07:46:03.980 That's

07:46:04.780 That's a good one too

07:46:05.880 Oh

07:46:06.540 Thank you AJ

07:46:06.960 Okay I see the reference now

07:46:08.740 But

07:46:09.400 Going back to the

07:46:10.600 Pay pig 0.75

07:46:11.000 Excalibur 0.83

07:46:11.880 Is it

07:46:12.300 Wait

07:46:12.860 Is it Excalibur

07:46:13.980 Austin?

07:46:14.400 Yeah Excalibur

07:46:14.880 But

07:46:15.300 In order for you to like 0.97

07:46:17.840 For like the pay pig 0.94

07:46:18.980 To know that you are of age 0.76

07:46:20.820 You need like

07:46:21.340 Davimonion donated $20

07:46:23.080 Seat 2 is actually respectable

07:46:25.720 But like you don't have to post any

07:46:26.720 Hopefully osmosis didn't change that

07:46:28.760 What's that?

07:46:29.680 Oh sorry

07:46:30.080 Yeah you don't

07:46:30.780 You don't need to

07:46:31.640 Like post anything on your OnlyFans

07:46:33.520 You just have to verify that you're age 18 0.92

07:46:35.540 For like the pay pig 0.71

07:46:36.920 To like trust that you're like

07:46:38.300 What are you talking about lady? 0.99

07:46:40.520 She knows the method

07:46:41.080 That's

07:46:41.720 That's how they do it

07:46:43.500 But I don't have an OnlyFans

07:46:44.560 So that just proves to show that 1.00

07:46:46.280 I'm not into this pay pig shit 0.99

07:46:48.080 I have exclusive content 0.99

07:46:50.320 But it's not OF

07:46:51.140 What exclusive content girl? 0.96

07:46:53.700 Oh

07:46:53.960 You don't know?

07:46:55.280 Girl 0.91

07:46:55.500 Do I have to pay money for that? 1.00

07:46:57.260 Do I have to pay money for that shit? 1.00

07:46:58.500 Because I don't want to 1.00

07:46:59.560 I'd rather put money onto my Amazon account

07:47:01.920 Okay well

07:47:02.960 GG

07:47:03.960 Well played

07:47:05.000 To the panel

07:47:05.760 It was a good stream guys

07:47:08.620 Appreciate you guys

07:47:09.680 Appreciate you guys

07:47:11.100 Coming out

07:47:11.680 Thank you guys

07:47:12.300 Sorry guys

07:47:13.740 Let me just make sure I got everything

07:47:15.280 I think we're good

07:47:16.520 So GG

07:47:16.940 Well played to the panel

07:47:17.840 Last call guys

07:47:19.200 Hit the like button

07:47:19.900 Please

07:47:20.520 On your way out

07:47:21.320 Thank you for tuning in tonight

07:47:22.260 You could have been anywhere in the world

07:47:24.260 But you're here with me

07:47:25.180 I appreciate that

07:47:26.580 Thank you to everyone who

07:47:27.820 Superchats

07:47:28.500 Donates

07:47:28.920 And supports the show

07:47:30.040 Your patronage is greatly appreciated

07:47:32.260 We could not do the show

07:47:33.360 Without you guys

07:47:34.420 You know

07:47:35.100 We don't get sponsors

07:47:35.940 We're talking about

07:47:37.020 Kind of

07:47:37.440 Sometimes controversial topics

07:47:39.660 Or it's a bit vulgar

07:47:41.140 We're talking about

07:47:41.880 Like sex related stuff

07:47:42.880 So 0.99

07:47:43.140 Fucking Sprite 0.99

07:47:45.560 Ain't coming through 1.00

07:47:46.420 With the hook up

07:47:47.140 So

07:47:47.920 Or what

07:47:48.880 Hold on 1.00

07:47:49.320 Oh I haven't played this shit 1.00

07:47:50.500 Hold on 0.99

07:47:51.020 I'm sorry

07:47:51.320 I'm sorry

07:47:51.580 Now who's going to be the Medici family

07:47:54.980 And stand up

07:47:56.140 And let me create more

07:47:57.640 Or do you want to

07:47:58.800 Marginalize me

07:47:59.920 Till I'm out of my moment

07:48:01.300 Support the whatever podcast

07:48:03.020 If you can

07:48:03.640 We will be live again

07:48:05.560 Tuesday

07:48:06.020 5pm Pacific

07:48:07.100 Any girls who want to be on the show 1.00

07:48:08.220 DM out whatever

07:48:08.760 On Instagram

07:48:09.280 If you can make it

07:48:10.700 To Santa Barbara

07:48:11.880 We're going to do

07:48:12.780 A Twitch raid

07:48:13.860 Really quick

07:48:14.620 Who are we going to raid

07:48:15.700 Let me just do a quick refresh

07:48:17.260 On this

07:48:17.900 We are going to raid

07:48:20.520 A Twitch streamer

07:48:22.420 By the name

07:48:23.260 Of

07:48:24.220 Do we do Ampy

07:48:27.120 How about our friend

07:48:30.500 How about our friend

07:48:31.220 No we can't say his name

07:48:33.600 We can't say his name

07:48:34.300 I'm going to

07:48:34.940 We're going to do Ampy 0.75

07:48:35.800 It should be in the

07:48:37.320 The following thing

07:48:39.440 On the side

07:48:40.020 That might be

07:48:40.820 Make it easier

07:48:41.400 For you to grab it

07:48:42.660 Yeah he's

07:48:43.840 Leveling

07:48:45.020 Can you put the

07:48:46.300 Yeah so guys

07:48:48.360 Who watched

07:48:48.740 On Twitch

07:48:49.400 Thank you guys so much

07:48:50.120 Before you leave

07:48:51.020 Before we do the raid

07:48:52.020 On Twitch

07:48:52.360 Just check if you can

07:48:53.460 Drop a follow

07:48:54.040 And then

07:48:54.460 Check if you have

07:48:56.500 A prime sub available

07:48:57.320 So we're going to

07:48:57.820 Raid Ampy

07:48:58.340 Mute the audio

07:49:00.540 Really quick

07:49:01.200 Guys

07:49:02.300 Ampy 0.83

07:49:02.820 He is

07:49:03.780 One of the best

07:49:04.800 Raid leaders

07:49:05.620 One of the best

07:49:06.380 Classic players

07:49:08.280 In the game

07:49:08.880 Right now he's leveling

07:49:09.640 A mage

07:49:11.080 In hardcore

07:49:12.020 SSF

07:49:13.040 World of Warcraft

07:49:14.140 So be sure

07:49:16.260 To

07:49:17.540 Tell him what's up

07:49:21.680 Tell him

07:49:23.020 Ask him

07:49:23.880 If he will carry

07:49:25.480 Like maybe carry me

07:49:26.800 If I come back

07:49:27.800 To World of Warcraft

07:49:28.680 See maybe

07:49:30.360 Maybe in the chat

07:49:31.180 Be like yo

07:49:31.780 Are you down to carry

07:49:32.600 The whatever podcast

07:49:33.380 Like to

07:49:33.960 Like a

07:49:35.260 A rag kill 1.00

07:49:37.000 On a fresh server

07:49:37.940 Or like

07:49:38.640 Sorry sorry

07:49:39.220 Like nax

07:49:40.100 Like full clear nax

07:49:41.120 On a fresh server

07:49:42.320 Yo dab

07:49:43.380 Thank you for the

07:49:43.760 Gifted 10 subs

07:49:44.400 To KT

07:49:47.280 Like a full clear

07:49:48.160 To KT

07:49:48.580 Anyways okay

07:49:49.320 Thank you guys

07:49:49.880 For watching on Twitch

07:49:50.500 I'm going to send

07:49:51.520 The raid now

07:49:52.220 Sending the raid now

07:49:53.780 And you can

07:49:54.260 Put the audio back on

07:49:55.880 Oh sorry

07:49:57.500 10 seconds guys

07:49:58.700 Donated

07:50:00.320 Donated

07:50:00.920 Donated

07:50:01.500 $20

07:50:01.940 Brian

07:50:03.240 Do you have an update

07:50:04.660 On Mason

07:50:05.240 I'll adjust that

07:50:06.540 After the raid

07:50:07.080 Thank you though

07:50:07.560 Thank you donated

07:50:08.220 Really appreciate it

07:50:09.080 For like streamers

07:50:10.460 Thank you guys

07:50:10.740 For all trying

07:50:11.060 On Twitch

07:50:11.400 Sending

07:50:12.040 The raid

07:50:13.220 Now

07:50:13.740 There's going to be

07:50:14.900 Like a

07:50:15.600 Fangsley

07:50:17.380 They had a

07:50:18.540 They had a helper

07:50:18.980 Go last time

07:50:19.680 Fangsley

07:50:20.060 With all the like

07:50:20.620 Viewers

07:50:21.140 And it is open

07:50:22.620 But it's only on

07:50:23.540 US servers

07:50:24.200 There's no EU

07:50:25.300 EU server

07:50:28.560 I don't know if he has

07:50:29.120 Notifications on

07:50:30.120 Let's see

07:50:30.480 Giant grizzled bear

07:50:31.500 It's the

07:50:32.540 There it is

07:50:33.800 Whatever

07:50:34.300 Well well well

07:50:35.620 Look who it is

07:50:36.700 Whatever with the

07:50:39.380 777 lucky raid

07:50:41.060 Thank you bro

07:50:41.680 Was it 777

07:50:42.620 Or 7

07:50:43.780 I hope you had a good

07:50:44.700 Podcast

07:50:45.120 So

07:50:52.120 Look at that bear

07:50:52.820 Yeah

07:50:53.620 The irony

07:50:54.760 What

07:50:55.280 Dude look at 0.99

07:50:57.260 He's fucking this bear up 0.99

07:50:58.920 Said I paid for the raid 0.99

07:51:00.140 No

07:51:00.800 He didn't pay for the raid

07:51:01.760 Fake news

07:51:02.940 I wish bro

07:51:03.580 Fake news

07:51:04.740 Anyways

07:51:06.700 Okay

07:51:07.380 Let's

07:51:09.380 I think that's it

07:51:10.460 Yeah

07:51:12.220 We're all good

07:51:12.860 Oh

07:51:13.500 The quick

07:51:13.920 The quick update

07:51:14.680 My understanding

07:51:16.560 I haven't checked

07:51:17.340 The update

07:51:18.080 On his

07:51:18.680 The little page

07:51:20.200 Or whatever

07:51:20.540 In a

07:51:21.800 A couple days

07:51:22.600 But last I checked

07:51:23.600 He's

07:51:24.060 I think he's doing

07:51:25.360 He's still in the hospital

07:51:26.240 But I think he's doing

07:51:28.760 I checked like

07:51:30.500 Two or three days ago

07:51:31.240 So I don't know

07:51:31.680 That like

07:51:32.000 They are updating it

07:51:33.360 Every single day

07:51:34.040 He's still in the hospital

07:51:35.200 I'm pretty sure

07:51:36.380 But I think he's doing

07:51:38.140 A bit better

07:51:39.000 I think things are looking

07:51:40.440 On

07:51:40.760 On the upside

07:51:41.860 So

07:51:42.540 For those of you

07:51:44.140 Don't know

07:51:44.580 We've

07:51:45.040 We did a fundraiser

07:51:47.320 The update

07:51:50.560 Oh okay

07:51:54.160 Yeah we can pull that up

07:51:56.160 Really quick

07:51:56.480 If you guys want to

07:51:57.060 Support Mason

07:51:57.680 You can do it

07:52:00.120 Oh look at that

07:52:00.980 There was a recent

07:52:01.700 Pretty big donation there

07:52:02.840 We were able to raise

07:52:05.220 34

07:52:07.880 I rounded up

07:52:09.520 But we

07:52:10.100 Got

07:52:10.760 $3,400

07:52:11.720 Raised it for Mason here

07:52:13.760 And then just

07:52:15.360 On my own

07:52:15.900 I just did a

07:52:16.720 $1,500 donation

07:52:18.180 So if you guys

07:52:18.820 He's got a lot

07:52:20.560 Of medical expenses

07:52:21.460 If you guys can

07:52:23.320 We have the link

07:52:24.300 And everything posted

07:52:25.160 In the discord

07:52:25.820 He's been on the show

07:52:27.500 Like 10 times

07:52:28.360 Wonderful dude

07:52:30.000 One of the nicest guys

07:52:31.660 I've met

07:52:32.200 All around great guy

07:52:34.500 If you guys can

07:52:36.240 You can go here

07:52:38.400 To his thing

07:52:39.160 If you want to

07:52:40.280 Send him

07:52:41.140 A prayer

07:52:42.180 Or

07:52:43.120 Contribute to his

07:52:44.680 It's called

07:52:45.200 Give Send Go

07:52:46.080 He's still in the hospital

07:52:47.620 Is my understanding

07:52:48.420 He was in a

07:52:50.480 Severe

07:52:51.300 Motorcycle accident

07:52:53.180 For those of you

07:52:53.860 Who don't know

07:52:54.680 Pretty catastrophic

07:52:57.000 Motorcycle accident

07:52:58.240 With

07:53:00.400 Anybody else

07:53:01.740 With the injuries

07:53:02.400 Like

07:53:02.880 I think they

07:53:04.200 Said

07:53:04.820 Like

07:53:05.620 It was a 10%

07:53:06.460 Chance of survival

07:53:07.380 He did it

07:53:08.440 So

07:53:09.800 He's

07:53:11.080 He's definitely improved

07:53:11.920 But he's still in the hospital

07:53:12.760 He still needs your support

07:53:13.820 So

07:53:15.060 If you want

07:53:15.960 You can check it out there

07:53:16.900 At the Give Send Go

07:53:17.840 Thank you

07:53:18.220 Thank you for the reminder

07:53:19.040 For reminding me

07:53:20.900 But thank you man

07:53:21.540 Okay guys

07:53:22.620 Long stream

07:53:24.220 Appreciate y'all

07:53:24.900 We're gonna wrap there

07:53:26.880 07's

07:53:27.820 In the chat 0.99

07:53:28.680 What the fuck 0.99

07:53:29.440 Happened to my hair 0.99

07:53:30.100 07's in the chat

07:53:31.480 I hope

07:53:32.520 Wait

07:53:33.160 What are we forgetting

07:53:33.820 Nothing

07:53:35.840 I think we did

07:53:37.040 Yeah I think that's it

07:53:39.480 Okay 07's in the chat

07:53:40.700 Goodnight guys

07:53:42.080 And

07:53:42.720 We'll see you on Tuesday

07:53:43.880 Goodnight guys

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