＂YOU ARE FAT!＂ Brian KICKS OUT Ghetto Feral Girl Who ATTACKED Him？! She PUNCHED Him In The D？! E-GIRL Panel! ｜ Dating Talk 292
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Summary
On this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we discuss a new law passed by the Supreme Court that lowers the threshold for when you can get married to 37 years old. We also discuss the growing problem of "large labia" in women, and how to deal with it. Finally, we talk about Bitcoin and other crypto-currencies.
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three thousand three thousand uh followers there give me the seven ten tonight uh brianatlasx on
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instagram x at brianatlas oh what the fuck super chat wait what that's weird normally
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i just saw the super chat thing trigger our our stream labs okay that's weird i gotta fix that
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um well whatever uh follow my cat oh i know why it did it i know why it did that hold on let me
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fix it really quick yeah follow my cat really quick uh guys also like the video please like
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the video hold on i'm just adjusting this how did that happen oh i know i took off moderation
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okay there we go all right should be fine now all right uh follow my cat follow my cat boom
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Also, guys, I'm the founder of the nonprofit movement, Big Labia Matter, or BLM for short.
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All labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter.
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As someone who only dates women, oh, you can leave it.
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As someone who only dates women with large labia, it's obviously a very pressing issue for me.
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Has anybody been shamed about this, having a large labia?
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All right, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, starting with you.
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you go on you only go on dates if your rent's paid what do you mean yeah if they can't pay
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my rent i can't be there well so is the expectation that they pay your rent to go
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on a date with you yeah how much is your rent um it's 1550
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1550 dollars yeah so in order for a guy to go on just a date with you yeah
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a little out of your your budget or no i you would have to pay me to go on a date with you
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let me tell you that much but um okay but i would say this well i want to get everybody's
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intros out of the way uh so you do only fans i don't you're a sugar baby then i can be a sugar
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baby yeah yeah we can label it as that okay do you do any porn do you do porn or anything
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I do offer, like, video call services, but it's more of, like, a therapy session than anything.
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No, no, just fighting the male loneliness epidemic over here.
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I'm also putting out a few different books, and I have an LLC that I'm starting as well.
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It's for, like, waitressing, but it's, like, it's more of, like, a party waitress.
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So, like, lingerie, topless, nude, bikini girls.
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Like, if you're having a bachelor party, or maybe you're just having some drinks and watching football, whatever.
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you know yeah um yeah okay it's funny that you said like llc you have an llc like that is as if
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that is descriptive of like an llc can be a company for literally anything yeah so if like i ask what
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you do i have an llc okay do you have a janitorial llc do you have what like do you make bake cookies
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like no it's an advertising platform so it allows the um instead of going through agents that take
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70% of these girls pay per hour, they would be able to take 100% of each job that they go on to
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and just pay for advertising on my platform instead. Okay. And wait, what is it? It's like
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a modeling thing? Yeah. So it's like an advertising forum, much like Upwork, but instead of for,
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um, you know, um, like construction type services, it would be for entertainment services. So they
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just have a profile to advertise and the clients can contact them directly okay um where are you
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from um long beach yeah education some college i've studied various um topics yeah when's the
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last time when's the last thing when's the last time you did college um three years ago okay do
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you have a degree? I don't. I don't complete them, but I do start a lot of them. All right. Okay.
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What about you? Hi, I'm Christina. I'm 21 years old. I'm from Los Angeles, and I'm still a student.
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I study sociology. All right. You go to a university? Oh, yeah. Online or in person?
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And how long have you been in the United States?
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um actually i studied in san francisco since i was in middle school and then my family just
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do immigration so so you've been living in the u.s since middle school yeah okay all right um
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and you so you moved here do you know what year you moved here
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uh moved to la where the u.s i think is the u.s 2016 16 2016 yeah
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2016 okay and that's when you were in middle school
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okay got it uh what do your parents do um my mom she's a director like in cctv you know that
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like a chinese something and sorry the what cctv what's that it's like um a tv show and
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It's for the Chinese New Year, so my mom is the director for that.
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My dad, he has his own company and do some business, but it's work with government.
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uh well the reason i give you i raise an eyebrow i i noticed on your instagram and i mean look
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people do drink underage but there's some instagram stories of you from like three four
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years ago like drinking wine drinking alcohol at at either bars or clubs or restaurants now
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people get fake ids people drink underage but are you actually 21 yeah i'm 21 do you have an
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id on you oh i can shoot a picture later on my phone okay i was born in 2004 2004 i'm turning
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to 22 but right now it's still 21 okay all right gotcha because i don't know sometimes i'm like
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i saw those like i obviously you can drink when you're younger but
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so you are 21 though yeah okay all right uh what about you um my name is niobe neal and i'm 22
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i'm from portland oregon and i'm do only fans for work all right any school education i went to
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cleveland high school um and i graduated from there but i haven't gotten to college
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at all no college okay all right uh right and you do only fans yes how long you've been doing that
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for probably since I was 18 since you're 18 okay all right uh when did you like a month after you
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turned 18 right when you turned 18 probably like a few days after a few days after yeah so you were
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like 17 planning to start yes okay was it somebody's idea like a boyfriend yeah a boyfriend's
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idea yeah are you still dating him no I don't talk to him anymore and this was like a high school
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boyfriend you had or well I was 18 he was 31 so you kind of can do the math on that wait but I'm
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a bit confused you said you started a few days after 18 yeah so you were dating him when you
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were 17 yes yikes that's a 31 I mean um I mean yeah uh wait how long were you dating him for
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I want to say three years whoa wait hold on bigger yikes when did you start dating 17 oh
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at 17 yes yes sorry guys I mean still still bad but well I know like I still think like
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anyone who's um who's uh an adult like uh yeah dating somebody who's below 18 that's like yikes
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yeah but um I know some states have like different like statute of uh what is it the
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age of consent or whatever yeah so you're in Washington I am yes what's the I don't know
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what is the age of consent in Washington I think it's 16 it's 16 it's still I don't know yeah
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I think it's still weird if you're 31 and you're dating somebody who's 17.
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But, okay, I guess technically not illegal then?
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So when you were a minor, you know what is illegal, though, to do is to produce adult content.
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So it is kind of weird for a, for an adult 31 year old to be suggesting when you're still
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a minor to start producing adult content, like even though technically like, okay, Washington
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age of consent or whatever, um, across all States in the United States, you have to be
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So that's still, that's pretty, that's pretty yikes.
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that's so yikes that's pretty i don't know i didn't have like the best childhood growing up
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and i kind of like didn't have like a financial option when i was 17 so that was kind of my option
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yeah um you're blasian correct yeah uh dad black um i'm adopted so i don't know oh you're adopted
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yeah okay are your parents white yeah both white yeah you're adopted yeah do you so okay uh
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you're japanese yes and black yes was this wait i was about to say like world war ii
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that would make zero fucking sense although there are we still have like what a base in okinawa
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yeah i was born in okinawa you were born in okinawa yeah okay so let me here let me guess
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black soldier yes japanese citizen i'm not sure on the like actual details but i'm pretty sure
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that's what happened damn have you tried to like track down your parents or you don't know who
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they are um i tried to find my mom but she's dead and i don't know where my dad is your mom's dead
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yeah damn what the fuck yeah not like not to like ruin the mood but like sorry okay all right
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um okay uh good times good times okay so you're a fucking boyfriend three-year boyfriend you're
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not you're not dating him anymore no okay he got you into the OF yeah what about you what's up
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it's Steezy Sammy I'm 20 years old and my highest level of education is high school
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my my occupation is um basically looking pretty on social media and getting paid for it
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and i'm from the philippines all right like born in the philippines all right and so you do of
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yeah okay any other sex work like stripping or anything like that no just of okay um all right
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um school high school no college no college no all right what about you hi i'm ashlyn sky i'm 30
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i live in newport beach i do social media and only fans any education just high school just
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high school okay no college not even the semester or anything like that you said you do only fans
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yeah all right okay um what about you um hi i'm chloe yummy um
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um um i'm 19 and um i'm a streamer and like an irl streamer and i do only fans and instagram
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yeah but i actually want to like move to kick right now i'm on twitch but i keep like getting
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like banned on twitch so they they will do that all right what about you hi i'm jez i'm 29 i'm
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from minnesota but i live in indiana um i just work like in retail that's all i've done pretty
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much um and then high school diploma no college or anything okay what next hi uh i'm kiko i'm 34
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i am the co-founder of a tech startup and we are building an evolving map of what the world
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sorry of what the world actually thinks i'm chinese i grew up in new zealand and then i
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came here for college and then i was away for 10 years and just got back in 2025 okay all right
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next. Hi, my name is Zakiya, also known as Locked In with Zaza. I'm 26, originally from Chicago,
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but I now live in Houston, and I'm a stay-at-home wife. All right. Yeah. Hello, I'm Courtney King.
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I'm 25. I live in Florida and Los Angeles. I'm like in between two weeks in each one.
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I dropped out of college last month because I started making more money than their annual
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salary and what what else that's it oh and i'm pregnant happy birthday brian and nobody knows
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yet how far along are you three months or well this is like two months and a half so baby number
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four yeah yeah and wait remind me uh well actually we'll get to that later okay uh did you say
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Looking forward to your cameo in Michael, part two in the Neverland scenes.
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uh thank you man adzils thank you very much appreciate the uh uh the tts thank you adzils
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we also uh have a read that i'm just going to do now what oh shit this is for lexi's garbage
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uh chloe can you read this um lexi what is the definition of cheating and when is the last time
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you cheated maybe you can tell the truth today if you haven't received it yet check your mail
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okay well shit yeah that by the way guys that's that's lexi but she was late so instead of
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turning her away i she's this is indentured servitude she's technically my slave at this
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point um and uh she's gonna be the water girl for the show so if anybody needs a refreshment
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they're gonna you know shake their cup she's gonna get cup i told her she was supposed to dance
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she's supposed to like dance back there do the robot do the do the robot we need gustava back
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so i don't know i'm getting creative here i'm getting creative here with the people running
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late they get they're gonna get punished i guess they get punishments now um so okay
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there's Lexi and then if somebody gets up you know she'll take the seat and she can talk for a little
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bit so uh there's that okay um why don't you guys tell us yeah we need to get those pulled like way
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sooner by the way um all right why don't you guys tell us your relationship uh status starting with
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you uh permanently single permanently single what does that mean um it means it's it's me
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myself and i out here outside of when my rent's getting paid okay so you're permanently single
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yeah so when's the last time you went on a date um i go on dates all the time um i went on one
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maybe like two nights ago okay but what so when you say you're permanently single why
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um i just feel like in today's day and age um i just don't really have time i don't have time
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to traditionally date um everything's so expensive it's it doesn't make sense for me
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to go anywhere unless it's they're helping a girl out so yeah
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right okay um uh when's the last how long are you know what yeah yeah
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It's not for money, but it's for my, I get paid for my time, but I'm down to have a good time.
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I guess as a clarifying question then, when you get paid to go on the dates, you go on the dates and you guys talk and enjoy each other's company and you go to the bowling alley or you do whatever activity is, right?
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And on these dates, sometimes, not always, you do have sex with the men.
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But there has been dates where you've gone on a date with a guy,
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you had sex with him, and then he gave you money afterwards.
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But, okay, so then there have been dates where you go on the date, they give you money, and then you have sex.
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No, we, it's mostly like, most people just want company, so there really is a loneliness epidemic going out here.
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There's also instances where it's, like, high-profile individuals, and they don't feel comfortable, like, going out with people, like, per se, off, like, Tinder, right?
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So for with me, it's like I'm not going to blow up their phone.
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I'm not going to show up at their house uninvited.
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And, you know, some people have had pretty extreme experiences with dating.
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Yeah, politicians, sergeant, doctors, literally anybody and their mom really.
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um it's fun yeah and their mom so okay but i guess that ultimately i understand that
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sometimes these guys just go get dinner with you or whatever the question is though are some of
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these dates you show up they give you money and then you sleep with them you have sex with them
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uh no so i they give me money for showing up the sex part is not a guarantee so i understand that
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yeah yeah but yeah i have i have you have yeah and then sometimes do you you charge them extra
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for more of your time oh yeah if i'm gonna stay longer than um because it's five it's for my time
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so it's by um the hour so if they want me to stay longer than it's per hour yeah okay so let's say
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that it's going good and you know originally it was just for dinner and they were gonna i don't
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know, two hours. And then they're like, Hey, and you want to do this. You want to go back to their
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place. They want you to go back to their place. You agree. And then you say, well, it's going to
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be another 200 bucks or however much it is. Right. If it's past the, um, original time that we had
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set, then it would be, um, I would let them know like, Hey, like if you want me to stay longer,
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it's going to be more. Um, that's, that's kind of how that would go down. Do they pay it again
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up front or then like everything's up front never at the end okay so you're a prostitute
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no yes i'm rent a girlfriend well they even have a website it's called rent a friend
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rent a yeah people are lonely out here and there's a lot of people that have been
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traumatized as well like um you know just like domestic issues going on out here in the community
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um yeah so it's like i provide a safe space for people and it's a safe space for me as well so
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it really helps like both parties i feel like right i mean i'm not even at this point i'm not
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even making i'm not standing on figueroa but okay so at this point i'm not even yet leveling a
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criticism i'm just defining what it is you do which is prostitution uh no prostitution is
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soliciting sex i solicit my time so you okay do you prefer this escort um i mean it's it's not
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it's not as abrasive as like a calling me a prostitute but it's still i mean it's not my
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favorite uh terminology i'm like a i'm like a high-paid therapist with extras available but
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not intended therapist yeah yeah yeah so i mean look we can we can uh sugarcoat and we can use
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Yeah, we can use flowery language to try to paint something in a more good, light way.
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But ultimately, if you break down what you're doing, it is prostitution, in fact.
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I don't know about all that, but I appreciate the input.
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It was probably the worst case scenario for a woman, that relationship was,
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which might be partially in line with why I'm where I am today with everything.
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Yeah, he was seeing everybody and their mom outside of me as well.
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So it was one of those, along with stealing funds and, you know, being handsy.
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People are way more respectful and grateful for my presence.
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Just literally anyone and anything that talked.
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That sounds crazy, but we've actually had women on the show who their boyfriend either tried to get with their mom or didn't, in fact, get with their mom.
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Am I allowed to ask a follow-up question based on what she said, or is that allowed?
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Yeah, so you've mentioned that you are a therapist to solve the male loneliness epidemic.
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So when people reach out to you, how do you decide, like, which patient or which client to treat?
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How do you know he's the loneliest and you will go on a date with him?
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Well, just as a point of clarity, she's not literally a therapist.
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yeah oh how do you decide yeah no it's just as long as I feel safe um and they're kind
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um I'm happy to uh partake in the adventure so is it more about making them feel less lonely
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or is it more about yeah I'm really I have really good sociology um insight um and pattern
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recognition so you know people come to me and they kind of vent and confide in me with the
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things that they're struggling with and there's been a lot of times where the things that i've
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learned in my struggles and sharing it with them um there's such a level of like relief that they
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have after and like i i get to see in real time them making those connections that make all of
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the difference in um their perception of what's going on around them you know all right uh
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relationship status um i think i'm single for now but i have some like casual relationship and
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situations currently uh-huh okay uh have you ever had a relationship yeah before like long time
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one year one more years one year ago one and a half years ago how long um only six months
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And that's the longest relationship you've had?
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So currently you said you're seeing some people.
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So you said there's like seeing some people in situationships.
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so how many total situationships in total do you currently have um so many i think maybe
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more than 10 10 more than 10 okay so of the 10 more than 10 let's just say 10 for now okay what
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what's going on with the cameras um okay so more than 10 of the let's say that's just 10 of the 10
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how many have you seen in the past month all of them no i think only two or three two and three
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what about the past three months have you seen all 10 of them in the past three months
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five five okay and then there's some maybe that live in a different
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city or even a country yeah so you don't see them very regularly um are you an escort
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okay um any sex work no okay um and then you went on two dates this week
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with different men different men okay um and these are brand new men
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like first dates i know i have dated them before actually you've dated them before okay yeah and
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when just get back from the other country why are you looking at me like that what i don't know
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i don't know if you're mad at me like blank stare sorry it wasn't quite a blank stare it was like a
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look of disgust sorry but i don't know i was kind of i'm sorry really mad i don't know if she's it
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she's doesn't like me or she's just here i don't know whatever i'm sorry i'm not upset people look
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at me like that all the time uh okay so uh wow okay so uh what here going back to you how long
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have you been celibate um i'm not celibate i'm down to have a good time well what okay when's
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the last time you hooked up uh yesterday today i think it was like two days ago okay two days
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what about you how long celibate um in the last time sex how do you say sex in chinese anybody
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last time is friday friday friday and was that with one of the guys you went on a date
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question did he give you money no no but he's way older than me he's how old
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37 37 37 37 yeah what about the other guy you went on a date with how old is he
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um i have uh we have sex thursday wait you had sex with a different guy on thursday
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actually it's midnight of wednesday and then morning sex thursday wait okay so
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so morning sex on thursday and then you had a date on friday yeah and you had sex with that guy
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uh-huh the other one um okay excuse me cool i guess uh so all right and then uh
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how do you meet these guys um close door please uh nathan door door door no nathan
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nathan nathan you do door like just because the
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wait you got to close nathan because you know how to close it you get just close the one please
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so it's through instagram like social media yeah
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you can leave one open um all right they dm you on instagram uh-huh okay all right um
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in the past month how many dates have you been on how many days like what kind of date
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no sex sex yeah um five five uh okay and five sex how do you say sex in mandarin
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yeah that how many five times that whatever she said i mean like with five different men yeah
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five different men yeah i don't know if that makes your case better but uh okay cool um all right so
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um are you not looking for anything serious i don't know i'm just trying to figure out
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but you know i don't know why like i always attracted for fuck boys you attract fuck boys yeah
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what's the what's the female what's the female version of a fuck boy uh what is that
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a whore say it louder i said say with your chest a whore okay all right oh boy okay um
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and you don't do escorting you're not an escort
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okay all right nope what about you um i want to say like two months ago oh well uh relationship
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status oh well okay i'm single okay how long you've been single um probably over a year
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uh one year and um was that the breakup from the long-term boyfriend or someone that was kind of
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a while ago it was somebody else yeah how long were you dating him uh the crazy one or the
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recent one recent one i want to say like six months six months and the longest relationship
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three years yeah okay all right uh and you said two months ago is when you
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yeah so you fuck trannies okay what about you um i'm single
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okay how long you've been single for a year and a half now
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all right uh longest relationship a year and a half you're gonna you like to know
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you're asking these questions you notice how i'm asking everybody these questions well yeah but
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what does that pertain to dating what what does your relationship status pertain to dating yeah
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like your current how does that situation what you're asking about past things
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if you're in a history class whoa hold on wait wait let me see if this this analogy is going
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to make sense okay no since you're asking everybody else a question can I ask you a
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question if you're in a history class uh and i'm not uh see that's an explanation from a virgin
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honestly from a what from a virgin what what's your question there i that was just a statement
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you said you wanted to ask me a question though so what is it no fuck the question i just wanted
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to call you a virgin okay yeah why is that can i not say that i mean you've been degrading some
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girls on the podcast why can't we do it back i think it's fair game but what have i said that's
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degrading um i don't know just the way that you were treating miss lady in the front i don't know
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what she's she got going on over there but a nice t-shirt on that's what i know yeah so i think
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upholding the standards of our production uh that wouldn't be degrading um yeah why don't you explain
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to me how it's degrading i mean you're inviting sex workers and profiting off of them while
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bringing them down how am i profiting off of sex workers by using our platforms you don't think so
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how am i using your platform we're bringing the audience to you you're our audience you're
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actually you guys don't bring any audience to us okay so then what are we here for just face or
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what? Faith? Faith. Faith. Can you hear me? Hello? Is this working? I mean, where did you drive from
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again? That's none of your business. Well, I don't really care where you're from. I don't know why
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you're being so belligerent here at the start of the show. Can I go pee? Maybe it's because my
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bladder is full. Okay. The reason I'm asking where you're from is this level of animus seems a bit
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disproportionate so you asked me where i was from in the beginning though but i'm gonna go pee so
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nathan i need you to be very careful like your finger has to be ready to go for like a potential
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thing like that um okay i mean there's probably a kick coming i guess um i'm shocked
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okay do any of the what do you guys think was that a little much from her that was aggressive
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yeah definitely a little aggressive might be like kind of like just trying to say something for cloud
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oh yeah maybe yeah right and it's your birthday brian like she should be nice to you
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I might engage her with her a little bit, but she should have probably waited.
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six years all right uh how long celibate since i broke up with that person so like a year
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you know nothing for nothing uh i've gone out on a date though i recently went on a date this past
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month okay all right um hold on we have a tts one sec the unknown soldier donated two hundred
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dollars wow i can count the collective iq of the guests on my index finger i feel sorry for men
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still dating nothing but bottom feeding future cat ladies left the west has fallen kicks each
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fall now trust me yeah it's probably coming hold on i'll be right back uh courtney ask a question
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or something to them um okay thoughts and opinions on brian everybody you first
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i really love this t-shirt that he pulled out of the back for me
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i think it's cute you look great you look good thank you yeah all right you me yeah about yeah
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what are your thoughts and opinions of brian i don't know i don't really know him right now
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just off the bat like since like what you've seen so far i think he's kind yeah all right
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yeah all right i think that what i've seen brian is a rage baiter a little bit
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i think that sometimes that he will like to push the agenda of an argument um but other than that
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to troll i'm not trolling because i mean it's just kind of like if i'm just gonna kick you off
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at the beginning like you don't get much out of it did i strike a nerve or what happened
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because if it didn't bother you no it didn't really strike a nerve but it's um
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if you're just gonna troll like i don't really it's okay to have a bit of banter but if you're
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just gonna troll it's like there's no point in having you on the show i don't think she's
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trolling i think she might just be a bitch i just think you don't really have too much going up on
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their pregnancy brain what's going on girl no okay let's be nice please okay yeah i'm sorry
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that was really mean no i think that was fair courtney to be honest i don't like you're
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defending him and he literally just made a comment about your baby earlier did you clock that i
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did clock that but i um also was gonna say it okay okay she is in fact pregnant
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yeah this is his show you agreed to be on it yeah um i noticed you you yourself though have
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a scar on your stomach. What's that? It's from an accident.
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I got shot when I was 17. Damn. Yeah. Why did you get shot?
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It was a house party. It was an accident. So it was like an accidental
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Yeah, pretty much. They weren't trying to shoot you? No.
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Huh. Are you like looking for an insult in that?
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No, I'm just curious. Oh, okay. I noticed the scar, so.
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thanks for asking i guess i don't know yeah so uh
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was it well it was a house party yeah yeah was it white people or i mean it was all people
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all people yeah okay relationship status clove um i'm single but um i'm like seeing
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like two guys right now okay longest relationship um like all through high school so three years
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all right what about you um i'm single i've been single almost four years
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okay uh longest relationship over five years all right how long you've been single for you said
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sorry uh june will be four years four years single okay but you were in an on again off
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again relationship situationship right yeah which just ended yeah like i think it was literally like
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last week last week okay so how long celibate uh well he's last person i was with so like the
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beginning of march oh like a week ago we talked like a week ago he um wanted me to come over and
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i i wouldn't so he deleted me off everything okay chloe how long celibate um since coachella
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so like two weeks ago a week ago last week yeah and it was like the best like ever
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it was like insane actually like um i like it was at coachella and um like we snuck into
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like one of the artists like vans and like vip and like it was honestly so fun um tiesto
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Like, when's the last time you hooked up with somebody?
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all right for how long uh i've been together with him since 2015 and we've been married for
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eight years seven years okay so together about nine years or wait hold on 11 11 yeah 11 11 this
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year actually gotcha all right uh i'm assuming that's your longest relationship yes any kids
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no no okay no kids uh planning to have kids thinking about it might might adopt actually
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so i'm curious to learn more of your story so i think maybe adopting first and then having a
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second kid all right uh okay yeah um i've been married going on three years how long together
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total um six years all right longest i'm assuming that's your longest relationship all right what
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about you i have been well i've been with him since 2017 my fiance but um we broke up for like
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a year and a half two years something like that and yeah he's the father of all my kids
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okay uh so together for what six years seven i think like seven yeah seven seven all right
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do you have any kids any kids for you no not yet no kids yet okay all right all right that's uh
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any wait and four kids for you yeah all right four four kids good to know good to know we have
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a tts coming through from paper clip thank you man donated two hundred dollars sammy is a savage
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and the prettiest at the table crying face emoji the old washed bops hating are just mad if i like
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that's crazy okay that's cool um do you want to respond i think that might have been directed at
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you i don't know um yeah sure fuck you bitch not you not you bitch i mean well before but sort of
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not this exact second all right uh okay let's see here we're gonna get into a uh segment i'd like to
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do just because we have some people uh question for you are you planning to get your u.s citizenship
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um i think i can change the uh to the passport next year i have green card right now you have
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a green card yeah but are you trying to become a u.s citizen or of course of course okay uh but
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so you are wanting to go down that path okay i do have a question on this topic so okay you're
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you are uh born in china born in japan but i mean adopted and american uh were you born in
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the philippines okay but you're a u.s citizen yeah okay uh china you were born in china born
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in china but u.s citizen or permanent residence green card when did you move to the united states
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Well, this time around in 2025, but last time was for college and work.
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So, 2009 to end of 2014, I was here, and then I left for 10 years.
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But you first came to the United States in 2009?
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Well, a couple questions for, I guess, one, two, three, three of you.
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uh so in a morally neutral blame-free hypothetical conflict between the united states and china for
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both of you and the united states and the philippines for you say where neither side
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is right or wrong to which country is your allegiance starting with you
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But you're not even a citizen yet of the United States.
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I'm a little surprised by the answer, but okay.
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I moved here when I was four, but I have family over there.
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So you moved to the United States when you were four.
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And you have citizenship, remind me, in the U.S.?
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But if the United States were to go to war with the Philippines, you would side with the Philippines?
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You would just end it, even though you wouldn't be involved in the war?
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so assuming the strength of the respective militaries is in this hypothetical
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remain the same you would just end it yeah why not what why what's your
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i mean yeah that's not an argument why not what what's your justification i don't need to justify
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it yeah well what's the reasoning i don't need to have a reason for it i mean okay yeah fair
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but you would side with the philippines that was your original answer okay but you're a u.s citizen
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yeah what about you um what does allegiance include like fighting on behalf of the country or
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sure it could it could be you wouldn't necessarily have to fight okay but where would your loyalty
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lie so would it would it uh where would your support lie where would your legal allegiance
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lie to the united states or china yeah um i still have a chinese passport right now and
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uh under this current president my allegiance will lie with china um i think in that hypothetical
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it depends on what the political climate is and it depends on how the u.s kind of treats legal
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and illegal immigration um for me to decide so clarification here um you you don't have your
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citizenship yet is that correct correct you have permanent residency yes and that's through your
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husband my husband's american yes your husband's american yeah and are you planning to have kids
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i am and and if i did uh if i do they would be american yes so so in that hypothetical if i have
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kids and you know adopted or by birth if they are american then i'm more likely to to side with
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america to protect my children okay but currently you would side with china your allegiance would
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be to china currently yes okay all right now is it a requirement through green card uh green card
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oath of allegiance maybe not no i think the green card is intent to stay intent to reside
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yeah i don't think you need to take an oath of allegiance not yet for green card or permanent
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resident status what was the thing you were saying though about the the immigration like
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how america handles immigration what was your point there yeah so um i have family in both
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countries right um i think the treatment of my family in one of the countries would impact
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where my allegiance lie so at time of war if you know the my family in one country will be treated
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extremely unfairly or cannot claim asylum to the other side that would impact my decision
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gotcha okay understood understood i have a uh another question not totally related to this but
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uh let's see here uh i i find this question to be interesting um so question for you i half you
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you and you uh have you dated asian guys yeah have you dated asian guys yes yes yes okay um
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are you attracted to asian men uh-huh no no yeah i mean it depends on the guy okay i'm not like
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blanket attracted to all Asian men. Well, you're, you're married, right? Yeah. My husband's not
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Asian. Your husband is? My husband's Caucasian. Your husband's white. Okay. Um, your last
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boyfriend, uh, was it white, black, Asian, Latino? Uh, he was Mexican. Mexican. Yes.
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Asian. Last boyfriend, Asian. Yeah. Okay. So you half didn't like him, I guess. Yeah.
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Cause you said you, you said you're not attracted to Asian men. No. Okay. He was more looking
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white more white than yeah if you get it and then what about you are you uh i mean two guys for this
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week yeah the last two guys yeah okay so one is korean and one's korean yeah one is half asian
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half canada half asian half like he he's canadian but his dad is from hong kong yeah okay all right
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Would you rather date an Indian man or an Asian man?
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Isn't Indian and Asian man the same thing, technically?
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Well, so, yes, sometimes people who are from, like, the Indian subcontinent are, you know, especially in, like, parts of Europe or in the U.K., and technically, I mean, yes, you would consider them Asian, but I think there is a bit of a delineation between, like, Indians as in from India having, like, a separate distinction from, like, Southeast Asians.
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Well, I guess would they still, if you're in India, are you technically Southeast Asian?
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Well, what's the typical term used for like China, Korea, Japan?
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I don't know why I threw the South in there.
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Would you rather date an Arabic man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date a Latino man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date a white man or an Asian man?
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well my husband's white so why there there you have it folks there you have it okay uh well the
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first thing i wanted to talk about is i saw this viral clip and it was a boyfriend going on a trip
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with his girlfriend and he bought first class i don't have the video it doesn't really matter
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though he bought first class ticket for him and bought economy for her what do you guys think he
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paid for it though doesn't matter doesn't matter okay what do you think i would just be thankful
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Like, I wouldn't care if he did buy me first class or didn't, but it would be a good heads up to let me know, like, that was the situation.
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I would just be sad that he wasn't sitting next to me because I have, like, terrible plan anxiety.
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And I probably would, like, say something about it.
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yeah so look guys i don't want to have to like every single time we go around the table starting
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here we go around the table bro this girl's got the craziest stink face every time i talk
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she doesn't even mean it i don't know if she means it but like the stink face is unreal
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so okay please don't make me have to prompt you like your turn we go around the table usually
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like this if the other person if i'm asking a question just go ahead and speak please go ahead
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sorry about that um i kind of agree with what chloe said i would be kind of upset if like i
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wasn't sitting next to my boyfriend because when i fly i do get like kind of nervous
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so i guess yeah okay i feel about it do we have more information did he do it on the spite
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or no no i don't think so uh yeah i just wanted to save money i'm assuming then they should both
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fly business class that will probably cost the same so i don't get it sure um i think it's kind
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of tacky but the bottom line is i feel like if you're not married then he doesn't really have
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a financial obligation so i agree with you chloe but i don't know i would make him come
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into business or whatever whoever said that it's like having a little shack and have me in his
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yard and his big mansion like why what if he has back problems
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okay like and so he's like look go to a chiropractor he's like look i'm i'm i'm paying
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the extra money so that i'm not like in excruciating pain i don't want to spend the extra
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money to have us both in first class because it is it is expensive to fly first class so what about
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in that circumstance is that fine yeah i could rub your back in business yeah same if if she's
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okay with it if they've talked about it before and this is for her for his health and maybe
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but yeah but she needs to be okay with it as well
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it is a tricky situation all the women's that that were reacting to it leaving comments seem
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to have hated it to be honest but not they were not fan uh fans of it all right we're gonna get
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you know what i i kind of want to just jump right into uh some questionnaire stuff uh past should
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not matter alexis to which you agree uh let's see samantha agree let's see if anyone else agrees
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kiko agree wait kiko ah yes okay so passionate matter passionate matter passion matter why is
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that um i feel like every few months i feel like everybody a lot most people change you know so
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i think what you do in the past doesn't necessarily define your future okay all right what about you
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i mean i also agree with what you said um i don't think it matters what you did in the past but i
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do think it's important to clarify the person you were before meeting that person okay i think in
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the questionnaire it was under the context of body count yeah body count okay yeah so in that case
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past doesn't matter but if there's other things that happened in the past there might be a
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threshold like but body count doesn't but body count does not okay body count doesn't matter okay
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uh oh yeah yeah okay i actually have a follow-up question but before i ask that um
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body count what what's mine yeah oh i don't know it's a mystery ballpark
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we're looking at like maybe quadruple digits okay so 100 to 200 maybe more uh maybe probably
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more than that yeah yeah i'm not sure though it's a bit of a mystery it's a it's a number though
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that's for sure sure throw out an estimate you know um it might have three digits it might have
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four it's just somewhere somewhere okay so 300 to do you want to just say like 300 to 400 yeah
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it's definitely more than that but yeah yeah in your own words though sure yeah three 300 to 400
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yeah yeah well don't just say yeah say yeah 300 to 400 yeah it's probably more than that but that's
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okay you're just repeating yourself at this point yeah i like i wanted to be mysterious on this one
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I think, like, when I lost my virginity, I think I was, like, 17.
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I'm not really out here documenting it like that, but...
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A half means like we kissed and we went to the hotel and take off the clothes, but he just had some issues with his.
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So, two in the past week, and these were first dates that you had with these guys?
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When you do hook up with a new guy, is it usually on the first date?
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what about you 14 14 9 9 9 okay i answered the question before and my mom said no like talking
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Come on, Chloe, you've already said it on the show.
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Yeah, it's not even bad, but my mom said that it's not, like, a good question to answer, so.
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No, she supports me with OnlyFans, like, she wants me to get married, but she's, like, happy of how much money I'm making and stuff, and she wants me to start, like, only doing, like, streams.
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like that's what she wants but she also doesn't want me to answer that question
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but i you've already answered it though yeah okay okay i i'm if i recall uh it's 10 all right
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it's not 10 okay it's higher my bad what about you 17 17 okay i think between 20 and 30 20 and
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30 okay two two okay courtney nine but i count eight okay yeah yeah we yeah we we get that
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all right there's the body count um wow good times um multiply it by three and that's the
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real number now to those of you who said past shouldn't matter which was you you you
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uh question for you do you think it's wrong for a guy to say okay well you know you said it's
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quadruple you said i think 14 or something you said 20 to 30 do you think it'd be wrong for a
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guy if you were to tell him your body count and say he didn't want to date you because of it
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and let's say he wasn't a jerk he was just like oh i don't know it could be an issue for me i
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don't feel comfortable do you think it's wrong for him uh but he's not like you fucking whore
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he's not being rude or anything do you think it's wrong for him to not want to date you because of
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that no i don't think it's wrong no um yeah i think anyone who would want to date me would not
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think it matters um but yeah uh no i don't think it's wrong okay so if they didn't want to date
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you though that you'd be fine with it i suppose yeah okay for me then not for you perhaps i can
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elucidate it like this the perhaps the same apprehension that might and it's not like a
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perfect explanation a perfect comparison uh the women at the table who here would feel
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comfortable dating a man who previously had slept with men would that be an issue for any of you
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just you two you okay here i'll get verbals then go ahead not my favorite um not my favorite thing
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but uh i'm not a hater you know as long as everybody's having fun i'm i'm about it yeah
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okay what about you no i can't date a man who like slept with a man who slept with a man what
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about you yeah it's fine i do the same so okay you no issue for you what about you no don't care
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no i don't okay what about you a little louder please i would not be okay with it okay chloe
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i would not be okay with that either i'd rather not are those prescription glasses yes you need
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them yeah okay all right what about you i think theoretically i will be okay with it but it would
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need to happen for me to know like my husband would need to go sleep with a guy and come back
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for me to sure know how i feel okay what about you no no it'd be an issue i love a little gay man
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i think that's so cute so you would date the guy who slept with can you open the door that door
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all the way please so if your fiance slept with a man you'll be like damn in the past awesome
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sure i sleep with men what's wrong with it all right she's fine with it i suppose that's
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interesting um yeah ultimately though i think uh a lot of men typically don't want to date women who
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uh have high body counts i think it's a strong preference that men have
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uh so yeah but pushback no pushback i think it goes the other way too like i wouldn't want to
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be with somebody with like an a thousand body count because that's that means they're going
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to cheat on me probably i don't well i don't have a double standard if a woman doesn't want
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to date a guy who's promiscuous or has been promiscuous who's been with a lot of women i
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think that's that's totally fine i think women can have that preference no issue with it whatsoever
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but i don't think i would want to date a man with like no body he's like that i'm not trying to
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train him that's not my job and i think that's uh common and also fair so that's i think a bit
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of a difference though is that women uh well i i guess my initial point was that it's okay for
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women to have this preference i think women care far less than men do like women uh give men a bit
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more leeway in that sense not to say of course there are women who do care about it but um
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I, I think the big thing is like, if you have an experienced woman, she probably, it depends,
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you know, if she wants to lead in the bedroom, I don't think most women really will. I mean,
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look, some women can be more dumb or whatever, but, uh, if she's not dumb, but she's sexually
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experienced, it's going to be a turnoff for her to have to like teach a guy how to fuck her.
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Like that's a turnoff for women, uh, for not all women, but probably a good amount of women.
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uh so but isn't isn't the parallel of the question you just asked to ask a man um if they would date
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a girl if they've slept with other women because that would be the parallel we're looking for right
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like would you if you're uh it's not quite the same um i i don't think it's quite the same
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I think a lot of men will probably still date a woman if they've slept with other women.
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Yes I would agree that there's a difference there. Women are going to have more of an issue
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with dating a man who has slept or is bisexual or whatever
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who slept with other men versus men are a little more
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experiences with women uh women who have had experiences with women so yeah there is a bit
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of a difference there too do you think it's because they fetishize fetish what is the word
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um yeah that or because they're like gay rights no they're fetishizing yeah okay yeah i don't know
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if it's necessarily fetishizing i just think that uh women who are bisexual can still now you do have
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like butch lesbian or bisexual women who are more masculine however now look i guess technically
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there are like gay guys who are still masculine but like 90 most gay men fall into the category
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of like effeminate most gay men are more feminine they have the gay uh they have the gay tonality
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they have the gay uh speaking pattern just like you just just like me i speak like a homosexual
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just a little bit just a little bit right yeah so do we just do the kick now i guess
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do we just kick her off i was hoping to get into some of her notes but
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wait i have to mean if you hate me so much kick me off at least you don't sound like you're sick
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All right, yeah, she's just going to be obnoxious, I guess.
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Yeah, I don't know why you're doing the stupid fucking dancing, too, like, throwing your ass.
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Yeah, I'm not a virgin, but I don't see how that would be relevant if I was.
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But you're fat as fuck, and you're a DL twink, though.
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okay that's that's definitely a uh a kick so no yeah i need you to uh need you to get up and leave
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can you pop that big ass pimple on your nose before i leave please please i need you to
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i need you to get up and leave so get up bye guys i'm kicked off yep okay love you steezy
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get me out all right ta-ta ta-ta fucking muppet all right see her out quickly please see her out
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quickly no lingering no bathroom see her out can i ask a question she said i'm a fatso okay
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She was going to go kill herself now, like she said before.
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I'm honestly inclined to have Lexi get the fuck out, too,
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uh yeah so that's a that's a new one that was a new one
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is that the record like earliest kick uh no i think we've probably kicked somebody
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sooner but yeah i mean she came on to troll so uh yeah that was so mean
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yeah i didn't even insult her as the is the thing she just got bent out of shape i guess
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uh hmm right what uh you gotta i guess do we do a collective guilt thing i guess
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like guilt by association lexi's been on the show before and she was pretty reasonable
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i don't think i don't think we kick lexi she can't control the other girls she's been so
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respectful and nice that was all right lexi take the seat i need to get
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like standing up i'm like oh shit yeah your friend is a piece of shit though i'll tell you
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that much can you scoot your microphone to the corner of the table please maybe don't be her
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friend anymore um yeah i just met her like quite literally just met her like the same day that i
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posted with and she was late by the way not well lexi was late but her friend was like 30 minutes
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late too uh yeah but i went to church this morning so oh my god you went to church okay
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uh you can argentinian that's like four dollars so just yeah you can take it off um you can show
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them i guess but no i mean we already saw it you can get rid of it um sorry it has to be like if
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you're super chatting and you want it to be above the threshold it has to be like a approximation of
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usd it has to be uh usd so uh yeah all right there it is folks yeah she came on to troll i hope it
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was uh worth it for her to a fucking uh where did she come from san diego do you know where she lives
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um yeah like we're both in san diego okay so she drove three to four hours to call me fat
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and to just like be a fucking obnoxious i've actually we've had like 2 000 guests on and
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No girl has ever done the weird, like, ass, throwing ass thing.
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It's very low-class, like, low-class subhuman behavior, to be honest.
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So I need to get up momentarily, but here's what I want you guys to do.
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who's next who wants to go i'm not but nothing too mean and disrespectful i'm not trying to get
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canceled you don't it's okay you don't have to do you think she got shot by a black person
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oh my god as a black person yeah definitely that is such a creative question okay who's next
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i mean i thought it was entertaining but at the expense of other people but that's kind of what
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happens to the rest of the panel often no yeah he's gonna get some good clips out of that yeah
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for sure yeah honestly i just felt so like uh guilty a little bit honestly i was just like uh
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shaking a little bit in my boots you're so sweet
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ever too like yeah i don't just because you know the girl or like just met i literally just met her
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i was like hey you want to collab we collabed we did like a couple skits and um yeah that was like
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posted it up and i was like hey do you want to come to this podcast what is her of content like
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um she's very um she's very verbal with all her content i feel like she's like uh she just goes
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on there and she just says like whatever crazy things and that's how she gets like her views
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so this is like her brand actually yeah so i was like i don't know like i don't know if like they
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had like um like already talked about like what they were gonna do for the podcast or what because
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i remember my first time i came on here i did like kind of like discuss like a little bit i was
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like i don't know what i'm doing here i'm so um i was like what is it like like more like about
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and he was like it's just like mostly uh like dating relationships stuff like that i was like
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okay cool so i can like just show my personality or whatever yeah oh yeah okay you're so cute um
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yeah i think anybody coming in being disrespectful off the jump like that especially when it's his
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show is like and his birthday yeah and like it's yeah he's gonna be like a little rude
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like it's like his brand yeah like have you not watched this show i know yeah we all signed up to
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be here like have some decorum yeah decorum exactly like be a nice person there's no reason
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to come in being a fucking bitch yeah or like wait or something wasn't even like that long into it
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yeah she could have gotten so many more clips if she just waited a little bit like she's giving me
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anxiety honestly yeah i know that's why i had to get up i was like oh this is not good me too i
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didn't like it yeah i felt a lot of tension who's getting kicked off next not us stop we're like on
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death row that's the first question you asked when you sat down right you were like who's
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gonna reach quit today uh chloe can you read this for us please thank you amanda
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brian um why do you allow some of these girls on here i swear when i'm in on in june i won't be
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ignorant POS series though what is a high number for guys for guys well I'd probably let the women
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answer this question what a high body count is for a man but uh so I guess we have you scheduled
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for June uh cool yeah wait can I answer the question I think it's probably for me personally
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like over 20 for a guy i think that's high oh really quick here's what we're gonna do can you
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pull up twitch guys go to twitch guys i need to see like 10 prime subs for that kick yeah oh you
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know what i should have done fuck you know what i should have done i should have uh been a grifter
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and been like i need to see 20 prime subs and i'm gonna fucking kick her off oh my god i could have
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i could have grifted it i could have been like all right i need to see 10 memberships
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on youtube i need to see 20 prime subs then i'll kick her so i need it after the fact you know i
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already delivered so i'm probably not gonna get as many next time next time i'm gonna grift the
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shit out of a kick but guys drop us a prime sub vlad thank for the prime i need to see prime subs
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for that kick because uh i probably should have done it like right when she was starting to talk
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shit but uh I was like you know what maybe she's just she'll redeem herself or some shit but um
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yeah unfortunately it's unfortunate too because we actually had some I we had some good notes for
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which is I wanted to at least wait I guess a little bit but um I mean if you're just gonna
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keep coming at me you're kind of gonna force my hands I'll like I give a little bit of leeway
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for shit talking but uh if you're just gonna keep fucking coming at me i'm just gonna have to kick
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you uh wait hold on i'm changing the title of the video brian kicks what's are you filipino i'm
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cambodian ah shit i was gonna ask like what's a filipino word for bitch brian kicks off brian
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here chat wait wait chat chat help me uh what's what should i put in the title chat brian kicks off
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you can't put bad words brian kicks off what brian kicks off uh feral girl oh that's too
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many characters shit brian kicks off farrow girl uh okay going around the table what's um
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what's too high of a body count for a man um i think like a high number is just a high number
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i don't think it matters the gender um for me though i don't i personally don't care what
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somebody's done in in the past um numbers don't really matter to me unless it's a paycheck
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I'm just saying that's, I'm not saying, I'm not saying Fresh and Fit's ghetto.
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There are sometimes, not all the women that are on there, they do have ghetto women on there.
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Well, he just opened up a club in Miami, and we all went there.
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You see how she did that with her eyes where it's like, no, but it actually is legit or whatever?
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are you being managed by clav i mean it's it's like not a secret anymore people know
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what he's doing no we're just like streaming together
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yeah okay he doesn't manage only fans okay he doesn't manage but does he have like a
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streamer yeah but he has a team of like he makes money from of girls now um
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hello i can't like disclose information okay so you've signed an nda
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hey whoever's running our kick um can you change the i don't like the police sirens
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cool killer hey cool killer on kick i don't know if you're active as a mod get rid of the
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sirens and you need to put an http so it's actually a clickable link over there on kick
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um if you can do that so go sorry go ahead chloe so you're you have a deal with clav no i don't
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like no i don't um you don't he's just like focused on streaming and his club right now
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you guys should go to his club but i don't i'm not talking about anything else because like i
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really don't know anything about it oh okay wait can i change the fucking thing hold on test
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sorry i'm testing something on kick we're also streaming on kick right now
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i cannot pin messages on kick but my mods can i just tried to pin something
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yeah real cool killer could you replace it uh no hey cool killer i need i need it to be a
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clickable link so it needs to be http colon backslash backslash or whatever it is uh you
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need to make it a click it's not clickable uh you should you should be able to make it a link or
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whatever all right what the fuck who's this i'm not gonna thank you for the simping i guess thank
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you appreciate it appreciate it guys uh okay uh yo noble thank you for the gifted subs over there
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on twitch all right here sorry guys i know the show like kind of got derailed after the kick
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there i'm gonna get it back on point i still haven't posted any of my social stuff so i need
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still get up and do that uh so we will do that um Lexi tell us tell us something bad about your
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friend something bad yeah like spill some of her like degenerate thottery that she does um well I
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quite literally just met her and um I was like trying to keep it professional like I feel like
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um like an issue I have is just like I like blur the lines too quickly like with this OF stuff like
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i need to keep my private life and my business life separate you know like i don't want to like
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surround myself with people that i don't want to become more like if that makes sense like i know
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what i do for a living but like i don't condone it have you done content with her no like skits
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yes but like of content i don't collab with nobody ever okay um yeah you should uh honestly
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from what i've heard she's kind of a dumb bitch
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uh oh my god bro hold on oh my god sorry there's some bullshit going on in the dms okay i gotta
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get up you guys should we talk about the high body count for guys still yeah or talk about
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something that's interesting uh so that the people don't leave the stream be right back okay
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okay i'm just kidding 40 40 40 i i want to i'm sorry brian four
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that's not sorry that's so sweet wait that means he's like an innocent wait i thought that that
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meant he didn't get play but okay no i think he had a whole face he's picked it could mean he's
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self-controlled yeah yeah so what's the line between like a man that's really desirable that
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they have a high body count and a man that's like a a hoe i feel like men are not really even
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considered hoes like they can do whatever they want as long as when they're with you
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they're with you you know what i mean like they can do whatever they want before they met you
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that's who they were before they met you you know it's who they are when they're with you
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but for a woman you don't think it's the same thing no no because um men they they're more
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limited and like actually experiencing like you know dating and women and stuff like that like
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they need to have money and a car and all this like stuff like so like for a girl like you don't
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need to have shit you can live with your mom and you can like do whatever you want so like if a
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girl has a high number it's it's kind of showing that she's like loose or whatever is that um i
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mean or i think like everyone has their own past it just like depends on like where you are in life
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really and like who you connect with and like what they're okay with i think like biologically i heard
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that um men would rather be with someone with a low body count because it's less likely that
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they'll get pregnant with another person's baby what i don't even know it was like some statistic
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like they are less likely to cheat because they have a lower body count and then therefore less
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likely to get impregnated with a different man's child kind of crazy yeah because if you think
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about how paternity works i don't agree with it i just never really know so yeah yeah it would
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make sense for him to want you to have the lower body count because runs less of a risk i know but
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i ask you a question um you said that you're married right yeah um does your husband like
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care about like your past or like like how did that conversation like go um it went fine i mean
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we've been married for a long time you heard i don't even remember what his body count was before
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meeting me um yeah and like i said 20 to 30 because i i don't remember either i i think
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i think if a man cares about your body count then there they shouldn't be the man for you
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like for for anyone like if it's for marriage if it's for marriage if it's for like chlamydia
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if it's for like you know like sexual you know stis yeah maybe it makes sense because you want
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to be careful but like if you're marrying someone you're supposed to be with them for much much
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longer than like your your dating period so why does it matter because you're committing to not
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like a person who slept with lots of people you're committing to a person for like their personality
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how well they can support you how well you can like care for each other how well you can compromise
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that none of that have to do with body count so like why you know why does it matter
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yeah and like i'm saying he shouldn't think it matters if he is committing to you for
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being your partner yeah i understand yeah yeah i agree with that you're also married right
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yeah yeah do that matter to you uh yeah it matters oh really i met my husband he asked
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me my body count i told him one he couldn't believe it do you think he was like more into
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you because it was love he was excited oh interesting so it kind of worked out for me
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what was his body count he told me he didn't know sorry he was ran through
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that's yeah yeah it's like that double standard of like men not being a hoe
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i do notice that like dating in america now is very shitty um i keep hearing it from my my
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female friends that they're like voluntarily celibate because they don't they don't want to
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hang out with men and all that and like but like men also like don't get a chance to hang out with
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women i think a lot of men once they find out nowadays that women are successful will try to
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like incorporate themselves so hard into their life to like do anything to like get some of that
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money from her yeah because they're not yeah they're not gonna go out of their own way to
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make their own money if like your wife is rich like why would you you would just be a sugar baby
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and if your wife's gonna let you do that then whatever but I guess that's okay because women
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have been doing that with men a lot in the past as well literally have done that with one of my
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boyfriend and I had no problem with it yeah I literally fully financially support my my man so
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yeah yeah and I think like some women might have a problem with that but like it's like they can
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just get a different man yeah yeah yeah my husband definitely preference yeah my husband's
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for everything yeah yeah I remember your clip like at first it's okay like I'm not saying like
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okay instantly he meets me has to buy me everything no like I'm I'm like reasonable
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I feel like you meet me we're dating but like once we start getting serious we're compromising
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for each other you know maybe even like we stay together we live together now I want you to like
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you know participate and like actually playing your role and I play my role you know what I mean
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like I will be cooking for you cleaning for you kind of taking care of you but you also have to
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do your job as well that way it's fair and equal i totally agree with that i have like the same
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mindset as that because i think that um it's like really important um for the guy to like
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pay for stuff because in my opinion that like makes him more masculine and stuff and that's
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like what i'm personally into but like i would never judge anyone for doing other things yeah
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and even like men will feel emasculated you pull out your card at a dinner table they're they're
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not gonna like that they're not gonna feel prideful in that like it's it's actually like
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it's gonna hurt their ego a little bit and they're gonna they should want to work harder
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I literally give my husband my card beforehand so that he doesn't have to feel embarrassed because
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I know like socially that's like yeah it is like a social thing yeah yeah for sure I think the line
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gets crossed a little bit when you start dating girls like for me I'm bisexual so like when I
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dated girl it's not really like who's paying for who now it's kind of like we're both spoiling each
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other so I think I've gotten kind of used to paying for somebody that's interesting I feel
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I'm not bisexual but um same thing that goes with like girlfriends I feel like it's like
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if you guys go to like a dinner together sometimes it's like who's like paying for it you know what
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I mean yeah um yeah there I've actually been in like many friendships that I feel like I got
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used a lot like for my money and like buying her stuff because like i i will spoil my girlfriend
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but like fuck the guy but like yeah that's real yeah yeah okay i have a question for chloe yeah
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um so you mentioned that like you you and your mom both want you to get married yeah right um
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which one do you think is more important like doing only fans to get rich or getting married
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um definitely getting married and I would 100% quit um if I found the right guy that would want
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to like marry me um he would have to like be okay with my past but I'm definitely like cutting that
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off um for sure and it's just like I didn't even really like want to do OnlyFans it's just something
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that i fell into like when i was 18 and i'm thankful for it but also it does worry me that
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i'm like limited options to like guys that still like want to marry me yeah take me seriously
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even though i feel like i would be like a great wife but because one in one in ten women do only
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fans in america now right that's the study yeah that's what i read that's what i read
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So, like, if it's 10%, then is there still a stigma?
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Do you feel like it's a stigma when people ask you?
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Or are you like, this is just my job, and I happen to, like, love or hate my job?
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Because, like, people in real life, they love or hate their jobs.
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They don't have to, you know, you don't have to love doing OnlyFans either.
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Yeah, well, I really feel like I mainly do, like, social media.
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That's, like, what I really focus on and stuff.
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and, like, OnlyFans is really just to, like, talk to the people that support me, but honestly,
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with, like, dating guys, it hasn't really been a problem. Like, they kind of thought it was
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attractive, like, usually, but I think from other people's, like, perspectives that we're not even
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dating, but they just, like, think that guys wouldn't like me because of OnlyFans, but, like,
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in reality like when i am like talking to a guy like it really doesn't matter or like they like
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it or think that it's like hot yeah i agree yeah i feel like the guy that i'm talking to right now
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doesn't like it at all and i was really scared to tell him i did all my fans but i my ex
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that's a good man yeah my ex did you get money off of it your ex or just like i paid for everything
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for me yeah oh yeah he did but yeah i want a guy like i feel like i agree with her like i want
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a guy that wants to get married that wants to lock me down like I feel like I'd be way more
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fulfilled being someone's wife and like them taking care of me than doing OnlyFans because
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like I do want to be married and have myself just for my husband and all of that but it was scary
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telling the person I'm talking to now about how did he handle it I was scared I called my mom
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told her what should I say and then I called him and he was like okay with it but he was like if
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we got more serious i don't think i'd want you to do it okay so he's okay with it being there like
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in the past but if you guys get married or something he's like if i got married i would
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totally deactivate my account i feel like if i was married i just want to make my husband happy
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yeah honestly but what if like he doesn't have a job and he needs you to keep doing your only
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fans i'm not dating a guy that doesn't have a job again no girl not again not again no but like i
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think everyone's entitled to their own opinion though like i feel like some people don't like
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some people do but at the end of the day for me it is just a job and like she said that's how i
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talk to people yeah yeah like really support me that like me yeah everyone it's like different
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levels to only fans i feel like yeah yeah it's pretty crazy so like i when i decided to come on
01:46:43.500
my friend like i had someone who dm me and was like good job getting invited for someone who
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a few seats removed from someone that does OnlyFans,
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and, like, girls that do different types of sex work
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Like, my inspiration is sitting across the table.
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Yeah, I think sex work since the beginning of time
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has been one of the oldest and not most critical jobs.
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i mean there's nobody in history who has supported sex work back in the days let alone like why would
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they support it i like hate that word like sex work it's like i don't think in my opinion it
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applies to like social media and only fans but like that's my opinion like i think i'm sorry
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yeah like i think when people use like harsh words like that like prostitution sex work and
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stuff like that like it is in a way like it's good that they're demonizing it and like discouraging
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younger like generations from doing it because like the rate at which like people have been just
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starting to do of like they don't need to yeah a lot of people don't need to do that yeah yeah
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i just want to like get your guys input so it's like say you're going on a date with a guy right
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and so he buys you food you know and then after you go home and you put out right for him is that
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not in some form or fashion technically prostitution you didn't get money but you got food
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so I mean legally they say like any kind of gift any kind of gift or it could be funds or something
01:48:48.840
like material it's technically if you're doing it and then having a sexy time uh that would be
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yeah so I'm just curious because you know the normality right I think for a lot of people is
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like say you meet someone on tinder and then you go have dinner right and then maybe you you have
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a few drinks and you want to put out right but it's like that's kind of what just went down
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if you ask me i think the difference is obligation yeah like if someone it's like if someone expects
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that from you and you feel obligated to provide then that's a transactional service that's a
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transaction right i feel like that's the most mostly it's like the normality of everything i
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feel like at this point today so also i feel like the difference with this one is with prostitution
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it's looked at as a career so if you're looking at you sleeping with this guy after dinner as work
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then yes it is prostitution if you look at it like prostitution it is prostitution all right
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i've returned what what kind of crazy stuff have you guys gone into is there room for you to scoot
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over not really not really so two things i heard while i was back there momentarily that i wanted
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to respond to um so okay you were saying that the term sex work and prostitution is what
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you said something i heard the word discouraging um can you repeat your thought there yeah so like
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i feel like when people like use those kind of words like it shouldn't really be offensive it
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should just really be like discouraging like the younger generations from wanting to do it or i
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guess so to speak like glamorizing it like when some girls go on and talk about of and they're
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like oh i don't have to sell like naked pictures you it's so easy like you just get ready you don't
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have to do any work like it's that's like glamorizing it and really it's like not accurate
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like you get into it and you're trapped like you feel trapped uh ram smur thank you for the gifted
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25 subs on twitch guys that's a big uh big gifted sub thing so thank you man appreciate it uh okay
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So you think that you actually are fine with the categorization of girls who do OnlyFans or whatever as sex workers or even prostitutes.
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Yeah, I think we should not be normalizing it.
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Like, as a society, we should not be normalizing girls doing it.
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But that's not what I want to do for, like, a living.
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So, like, I did get into it, and I feel like even, like, being experienced in, like, how, like, things work or meeting other people that do it.
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Well, the second thing I wanted to address was your point over there.
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You said that it was like, oh, wow, they let a non-sex worker on the show?
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That was what someone told me when I told them I was coming on.
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The unfortunate thing with this is that whatever podcast has this unfair reputation for only bringing on sex workers,
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when and although the percentage is a bit higher for this specific panel you look at our other
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panels and you look in all the shows we've done we're almost at 300 shows now it's like 15 so 15
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percent of all the guests we've had on are sex workers that means the majority of our guests
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are not sex workers they're just normal girls unfortunately this is going to be something that
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I think is going to be, it's just such an easy attack for people to do, to just be like, oh,
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they just bring on dumb sex workers and dunk on them, blah, blah, blah. Even though most of these
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women that we bring on, I'm not saying even necessarily tonight, most of the women are
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more educated than me. They've been to college for longer. They have degrees. So it is somewhat
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frustrating. And you know what I think I need to do to combat it? I'm looking for volunteers to
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help me with something so we i had someone like a year ago do stats on our show um unfortunately
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this person's uh no longer available but uh i had someone like do stats and okay what's the age of
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our guests and they they created actually we can pull it up can you pull up the discord and then
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you're going to go to like it's like whatever stats or something like that um in the discord
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and i can actually show you what they did now the reason i'm asking for volunteers and maybe we can
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like do a group effort to do this. Okay. So it's, where is it? It's research, whatever stats. Do you
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have it? Okay. Pull it up, please. It's the first at the very top. You're going to click on it and
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show it so someone did this for our first like 200 shows all right so they took some stats and
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i'm i'm gonna show this this is in our discord discord.gg slash whatever uh go to the next one
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though all right uh so and this is this is not updated this is back like only our first 200
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episodes. So we need to add 100 to this. Next. Next. Average age. Next. Next. Next.
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This is the sex worker one. So OnlyFans, 17%. Now I've been kind of keeping some track. So
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there it says it's about 20 percent in total if you factor in like sex workers slash only fans
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girls but actually since we've taken this stat we've had a lot less only fans girls come on
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so that's why I say the stat is closer to 15 percent than 20 percent than we show there
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what I'm looking to try to do is I want to take and those stats weren't quite as robust as what
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I'm trying to do now I'm trying to like group bulk group process it and basically if people
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want to volunteer and like, maybe I could have like somebody go through episode one through 10
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and then another person 10 through 20, another person, 100 to 110. Uh, we're going to get like
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much more detailed from all the people. And so we could actually put the stats out there,
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but it's going to be like age. We're going to do their rating. We're going to do their body count.
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So we're going to be able to show you like average looks ratings, like average body counts,
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highest body like all these really interesting stats but i it's like to go through 300 of episodes
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is like way too much work for just one person so i'm basically looking for volunteers who are down
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to just spend like an hour go through you'll be assigned 10 episodes and um we'll try to do it
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like that and there'll be a formatting for how you do it so if uh i'm worried if i tell you guys to
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DM me, I'm going to get like way too many DMs. Um, I think the best way to do it would be if
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you're interested in helping go to the, whatever Instagram that's Instagram.com slash whatever,
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just at whatever. And if you're interested in helping with that, uh, tell me how many episodes
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you're down to do, but the minimum would be 10 and then I'll assign you, I'll assign you like
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10, or if you're willing to do more, we could do more. Uh, I would estimate to do 10. It's about
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an hour's worth of work. And then, you know, you're basically just watching, going through
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the episodes. You can use the timestamp feature. You can even, um, yeah, you, I think if you use
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the, the, the, excuse me, not the timestamp, the transcript feature, use transcript that will help
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speed things up. I think you can get it done within like five minutes to 10 minutes per episode.
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so you know if it's five minutes it's closer to now anyways we'll get back to the show but i did
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want to point that out uh if you're interested in helping us get statistics so i can fight these
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people on like twitter and shit who are like brian you just invite on only fans okay well
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here's our statistics it's like 10 percent 15 have you thought about why they they think that
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like i don't have guesses uh well i think it's it's kind of like it's the climate of people just
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not taking their time to do research. So it's like how people arrive at the idea that
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Trump is a fascist. It's the same way how people arrive that Trump is a Nazi. It's just like,
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or Trump has like done XYZ bad thing. But if you literally take five to 10 minutes to actually
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investigate any of these claims, they're completely bogus. But people see like a headline on some
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dog shit like msnbc or cnn or they see some dumb ass tiktok and they just immediately go with it
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they don't even there's no critical thinking they just see the headline they want to believe it
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it's helpful it's helpful rhetorically for them to espouse it and to believe it so they just run
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with it uh so i think it's uh low iq retardation i would say that you ask me why people do that
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i'd say it's low iq retardation um and uh that yeah go ahead you had a question though kiki uh
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kiko kiko i apologize uh no worries um the reason i asked that is because when i when the clip from
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whatever first got sent to my feed i also felt like some type of way um like i had okay you felt
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some type of way that's not communicating anything what does that mean i felt like the show was
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portraying women in a negative light what does that have to do with sex workers um and some of
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the videos a lot of sex a lot of the videos had like a lot of only fan girls kind of talk about
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their experience that's the clip i got fed so first off first off anybody who follows me on
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any of the platforms that we post clips on actually the sex worker convo pretty occasionally
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we do clip it but most of our clips are not like dunking on the sex worker there are some of those
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but the majority of our clips if you actually watch the clips this is what confuses me well
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i don't watch the show brian i watch the clips and from the clips it's the sex workers it's like
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you know first off in the clips the girls aren't like hi i'm a sex worker so people are just making
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assumptions like literally people there'll be a clip where i'm talking to a girl and it shows no
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other women and that girl is not a sex worker and they'll be like how could he be done all he does
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is dunk on sex workers i'm like that girl's a college student that girl is like works at a
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company she's not she doesn't do only fans they just assume it um but going back to your original
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thing you said that it portrays what were you saying it portrays women in a bad light or in a
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negative light so um a lot of the clips are of women answering or unable to answer like math
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questions geography questions or wanting men to like do everything for them those are the clips
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that go viral i would guess that's how they get onto my feed hold on that so hold on that's two
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separate category of clips i have like a a segment of clips where it's like easy simple question
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fails yeah yeah um i don't know what that necessarily has to do with the well okay you
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moved on to it it portrays women in a bad what was your phrasing it portrays women in a bad light
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in a negative light and i and i what i wanted to say is oh sorry go ahead what i wanted to say is
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i think the clips are not a fair and complete representation of the actual show and i didn't
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realize until i watched like two whole shows um and i wondered if that's like what you intended
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or is that just like people like is it what you intended you you put out clips that gets a lot
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of eyeballs and they happen to make women you know look dumb um or is it that so or is it something
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else i mean i have a couple contentions there with you so first is this idea that the clips
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are not representative of the show so my contention there is it's not how do i frame this
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obviously across any production the clips that are being put out and this isn't just
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my show this is going to be whether it's for a movie like a movie trailer or a tv show you look
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at a trailer and the trailer is going to have typically like the enticing exciting moments
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that did in fact occur during the show so anything that we're clipping did in fact occur during our
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shows and so obviously we're not going to like release a clip where it's just like the introductions
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where people are just like, hi, I'm Becky. I'm 21. I went to school, blah, blah. Like that would
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be boring. We're going to, the clips we're going to put out are going to be the interesting
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conversations, the interesting moments. So that's my first contention. Like this is something not
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unique to the whatever podcast, but any sort of, any live streamers, any content, if they're
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putting out shorts, if they're putting out clips, they're going to be the most like exciting or
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whatever, like the most exciting moments. This is not something that's unique to the whatever
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podcast. Uh, the second thing there, um, I'm trying to recall you, you said that makes them
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look bad. So for example, say yes right now, just say yes. Yes. Okay. Um, have you ever abused
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animals? No. Okay. Making a clip that would to make you look bad is if I had my editor use your
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yes in response to me asking you if you abuse animals. We don't do that. We don't swap in a
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woman saying yes to a question that she did not say yes to. So when you say making them look stupid,
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That would suggest that the whatever podcast is manufacturing something that isn't, doesn't
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So if a woman says some dumb shit, I'm not making her look stupid.
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Now, if we clip it, that's again, not us making them look stupid.
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i okay hold on let's with me a little bit on one point okay what's the point so last time i was on
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the show i had thought for one of the questions that you said three i don't even remember what
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it was but i got the answer wrong because i misheard you and you clipped just the part where
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i got it wrong instead of the part right directly after where i got it right because i heard you
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right i would have to see the clip in question but you did in fact get it wrong initially so
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You said three plus something plus something, not times.
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Yeah, but this wouldn't really counter the primary thing I was saying there.
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The primary thing I said there was we're not like clipping in the answer to like, okay, are you abusing animals?
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And then like we take a yes from a time you said yes somewhere else in the podcast and putting it there to make it seem like you abuse animals.
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when you otherwise said no yeah so there's a difference there's a difference that exists
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there now you might uh in terms of the uh the rapid fire simple questions or whatever you did
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in fact fail uh in answering the question that's secondary though i do need to pass it back to her
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to give her a response who me no her in the corner me yes should we have chloe because chloe has
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something she doesn't have anything trust me go ahead go ahead um so maybe what was your question
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specifically or were you just responding to i was responding to you so usually like
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yeah so um i'm sharing my personal opinion which was when i first saw the clips i think some of
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the clips made me angry um but then like angry towards me angry towards the women i think it
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had to do with like another another popular opinion of the show is that it's a red pill
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podcast um which because i haven't been in the u.s for a very long time i didn't know what that
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meant in the beginning when people said that to me um but it seems like it's about uh men
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kind of making themselves look better and making women look worse it's kind of what it seemed to
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be so i took that perspective and i viewed it with a sliver of anger but then when i was deciding
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whether i would go on the show i actually learned a lot from watching like ayla on the show um i
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think that's her name a e l l a she was the she was the uh she was the sex worker and also data
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scientist data analyst person oh that was a long time yeah it was a long time ago yeah i know what
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you're talking about yeah so i i remember watching that whole thing and i remember that when she was
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disrespected you actually looked visibly uncomfortable and you wanted to stop like
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the the the the spiral that the debate was going towards like that's what i observed so i didn't
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think it was your intention to produce a red pill podcast or to produce a podcast that treated women
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poorly but so so so that's well i think it's fair okay hold on you should add some additional
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context when you said i was looking uncomfortable that girl who's sitting in chair one ayla was
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engaging with andrew wilson via video call in it wasn't me who was saying anything right you're
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saying andrew wilson i think he called her like autistic or something like that he was he was
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being a bit abrasive yeah and i would so yes um i think in that specific instance i did i did think
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i'm trying to remember exactly what andrew said you try to like redirect it i think andrew was
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like said she was spurging out or being autistic or something i don't exactly remember what yeah
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And I do think I yeah, I don't I don't recall exactly. I found it. Look, Andrew's a friend of mine. I have Andrew's a good friend of mine. But look, there are instances and I'm sure there's instances where I've said something stupid and Andrew's like, oh, my God, Brian, you fuck.
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why would you say that um i think in that instance it did seem a bit uh she was being polite and
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i think he he might have been like oh you're spurting out or yeah you're being like your
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autism or something i i think it might have been a little rough to be honest but i mean uh okay
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besides that yeah so so the reason i made that point is because after i watched the show for
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more extended periods of time i realized that there's like a lot of interesting information
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you know i'm like learning stuff um so i'm perceiving that there's this like big gap between
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how the show is perceived and what the show is in reality so that's kind of what i'm calling
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out and i'm wondering like um kind of like do you are you comfortable with that you know should we
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should we address it because like people you know people think the show has a lot of sex worker
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people think the show is red pill but after people have spent time actually watching it they will
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realize it's not that yeah so I mean there's a couple things there again I I guess I don't know
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if I also don't have to stay on this topic by the way this is yes that's fine yeah yeah we won't
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linger long but uh I I guess I did want to clarify I mean I already established my position that and
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I don't know if you have a contention with you said that we make them look dumb and yeah I'm
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saying that was my initial reaction um and then yeah well the reason I bring it up is because we
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frequently uh we we get this criticism we've had like the new york post write a thing uh new
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disturbing trends in podcasting makes women look stupid okay and it's like well no other people
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have levied what i think is a false criticism but this idea that make them look stupid so if i
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present a platform and i it's an open microphone anybody can talk people people can say things
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if like a 39 year old like obese single mom comes on the show and she's like yeah i want to date a
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six foot three guy who makes a million dollars a year am i making her look stupid or is she saying
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some incredibly dumb shit like that's not huh yeah you will be presenting the the the the difference
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between her perception and her reality right like like you're saying there's like unevenness yeah
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So if we clip that and it's like, okay, here's a, here's a woman who's like, definitely has no change.
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I mean, I guess never say never, but like, yeah, four, four year old women who are fucking got, got kids are probably not at the top of the totem pole in terms of like millionaire men and who they want to date.
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So like, yes, we have women who come on and say delusional shit.
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if a woman comes on like we had this one woman who came on who was like uh well she was nothing
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special let's just say and she was like um he needs to make five million dollars a year minimum
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i'm like what that's her making her look stupid i just have the platform that's not me making i'm
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not forcing the women to say uh say these things they just say them and nor are you uh is is it
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correct to understand that you're also not like casting people that are more prone to saying stuff
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like that most of the time we don't even know how they're going to answer these questions
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our initial uh casting thing is like aside from just basic biographical i think we ask
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age location relationship status um uh do you have any dating hot takes any dating topics you
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want to speak on any disagreements so like we actually um we don't even really know ahead of
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time we do have this questionnaire here but you fill this out when you're like already here um so
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that wouldn't have anything to do with like they're already here to be on the show we're not
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yeah we wouldn't be selecting for them it's like oh you filled this out and you didn't uh okay well
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you're not gonna you don't get to be on the show if you don't fill this this questionnaire out
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in a way that we find appropriate. Um, so that's never happened. So, um, no, pretty much if you
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message and you're like, Hey, I want to be on and you're able to make it to the studio.
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That's almost pretty much it. Like there's not sometimes, um, like it's a very high acceptance
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rate. Let's just say that like we have a very high acceptance rate. Um, there are sometimes like if,
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if somebody like for example it's uh do you have any disagreements do you have any dating hot takes
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uh any interesting dating stories and if a woman just writes like nope nope nope to all of those
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i'm like well why do you want to be on the show so i'll turn them away if they're just like i have
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nothing to say well i'm like it's a dating discussion podcast you're so i'll turn them
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away but the acceptance rate is very high and so we're not like exclusively looking for the
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the dumb people or whatever i guess yeah i think you can clip that entire period like entire 10
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minutes and like use that as like justification how of like why that perception is wrong right
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uh perhaps what was the other thing you said though i'm trying to um there's another thing
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you said that i wanted to address okay um well no i was saying okay i'm gonna address the like
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making them look a certain way what was the other thing uh the red pill thing oh the red pill yeah
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what's red pill what does that even mean yeah I don't I didn't know right so I was talking to my
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team about whether I should come on to the show and my team was like um isn't that the red pill
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podcast and then I went and like looked up what it meant and it led me to like Andrew Tate
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men's fear uh and um i saw this one person who came on the show to do a debate i think he he
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has a podcast called women on men and then he was like explicitly saying red pill a lot yeah so i
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guess like i'm actually asking for a definition from you what does red pill represent and why are
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you sure that or not that or why is whatever not you personally like why is whatever red pill or
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not red pill in your definition yeah sure i actually have notes on this so i mean
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what red pill is and also you use the term manosphere and i think it's worth diving into
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that a little bit yeah so the red pill comes from the film the matrix right i don't know if you've
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seen that movie yes so red pill can mean different things to different people now there's like red
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pill dating, which has some categorizations you can go off. I don't consider myself falling
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under the like strict red pill dating framework, but this is not like some, some centralized
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ideology. Like there's not a leader, like there's not really a coherent definition of what red pill
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means necessarily in a dating context. But so when it comes from the film, so it's a metaphor for
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choosing to see the world as it actually is rather than uh as you're told it is so red pill could
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the red pill is the ugly truth the blue pill is a beautiful lie red pill truth red pill reality
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um embracing the truth even if the truth could be uh painful uncomfortable women can take the
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red pill too um so it's like choosing to be honest with yourself and also with reality so
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like honesty maxine pretty much yeah so i mean if you were to ask me like when it comes to that
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by the way people can like be red-pilled on various things like elon musk tweeted about
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being red-pilled you can be red-pilled on immigration you can be red-pilled on the trans
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bullshit you can be red-pilled on uh fuck i mean uh economics you can be red-pilled on all sorts
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of things so it's like okay what do we mean by this what do we mean when we're talking about
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red pill. If I use red pill and if I were to refer to myself as red pill, it wouldn't be from like
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some paradigm of like, okay, you need to be fucking a bunch of different women and you need to be
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promiscuous as a man. And you need to like basically be polyamorous, but all the women
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are loyal to you. And I reject that sense of what the red pill is. But from my perspective,
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If I'm ever using the red pill, it simply means to see the truth of a thing.
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So, but when people use red pill, I don't, they, they tend to want to smuggle in with,
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with it some sort of like, they want to smuggle in misogyny.
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They want to maybe sometimes smuggle in racism.
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They want to smuggle in like anti-female sentiment, which I reject, completely reject all those
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so it's this nebulous term like what does it even really mean especially when it's being used
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as an attack on someone what does that mean the red pill pipeline then they'll then they'll say
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okay you're alt-right alt-right pipeline far-right pipeline what does that mean i don't know what
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that actually means same with the manosphere what does that mean okay you're a manosphere creator
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are you MGTOW are you a PUA are you a Luxmaxer are you incel are you what what are you what does
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that mean? What does it mean to be Manosphere? Are you like giving fitness advice? Are you Andrew
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Tate? Are you pro-sex worker? Are you anti-sex worker? What is, are you like Christian nationalist?
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What is the Manosphere? It's a nebulous term that has a constantly shifting definition that
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ultimately means nothing. It's a labeling tool. It's a labeling tool to sort of, in the same way
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that people like to call people incel uh it's just this immediate labeling tool in an effort to be
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like dismissive of a person that's what i think yeah it is um we we don't have to stay on this
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since it's not about dating and relationships um no i'm fine with it i think it's interesting
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i i don't know much about menospheres just i saw that there's a documentary about it that
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features andrew tate i haven't watched it actually so what did i mean yeah i'm i'm more interested in
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the femisphere to be honest i'm i'm actually surprised that there isn't much scrutiny of
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what i think is actually a much more far-reaching uh much more sexist movement than the supposed
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manosphere um in fact and you have what what you have happening is like uh forces you have
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cancel culture. You have de-platforming happening to certain Manosphere creators, people in the
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space. You know, what happened to Andrew Tate, completely de-platformed some other people
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de-platformed. But then you see what is allowed on TikTok from women. And as a woman, you can
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basically be putting out like the most insane anti-male rhetoric slash propaganda and nothing
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will happen the commenters all the women like i've seen the most man-hating shit on tiktok
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it's like two million likes all the comments are like this is like just fucking terrible
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um women can just outright say i hate men and it's completely there's no issue with it whatsoever
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whereas you take you compare some of the things like drew off follow literally is like a admitted
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self-confessed misandrist like she literally hates men and she's got a blue check mark on
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tiktok she's verified she gets book deals she gets sponsorships and it's like where is the scrutiny
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where is the scrutiny of all the anti-male rhetoric coming from women it's it's tolerated
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it's accepted, and it's rewarded when women hate men. But the moment you get even a little hint,
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and I don't think misogyny is good, you get a little hint of misogyny, instant ban. You're
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banned off the platform instantly. But women can literally make videos with captions that say,
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I hate men, 200,000 likes, 2 million likes. Here's a blue checkmark. Here's sponsorships for you.
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yeah so so why are we scrutinizing the femisphere and i'm actually going to start i'm going fuck
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inside the manosphere i'm going to start a series called inside the femisphere and i'm actually
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going to do live stream deep dives into all these women on fucking tiktok i don't know how tiktok
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allows this shit it's literally rife with anti-male rhetoric and hatred on tiktok it's insane
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These journalists fucking journalists want to come to me and be like, hey, we are doing a hit piece on you.
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Meanwhile, I can sit here and say I don't hate women.
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meanwhile you literally have stated misandrist women who accept the label they they they revel
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in the label of misandrist on tiktok completely unopposed no censorship from the platform it's
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fucking ridiculous anyways i'm kind of we're going into an interesting tangent well it's not
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your podcast so if i want to talk about uh surfing for the next two hours you can you can all fucking
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sit here in silence and nod your head like good little submissive podcast guests while I rant
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about surfing. That's how it's going to be. But yes, I wasn't going to linger on that for much
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longer. Yeah. I read this article called The Lost Generation. I don't know if you've read it.
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It's actually quite long and it talks about how white men are actually being scrutinized over
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and like being mistreated in modern day um and it's really interesting if you guys want to read
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it and it talks about like how everyone still thinks white men are more dominant you know has
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more power has all these like unequal treatment but in reality the last like few decades everyone
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is trying to treat other genders other genders and races properly at the cost of the white men
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like um not being kind of put in like just not put in positions because of like meritocracy like
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um someone who isn't a white man is getting certain jobs someone who isn't a white man is
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uh you know being being praised for something that a white man is doing better and things like that
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so it's a very interesting like trend that i'm like observing yeah well it definitely is very
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interesting and uh oh shoot there's something else i was gonna touch on here as a final little
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end to this fuck what was it uh oh you know what there was an interesting uh there was a study done
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that actually well there's two things there's two two things on this women are becoming more
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rattle excuse me women are becoming more radicalized than men are so there's uh tiffany
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if you can go into the discord there's under the research it's in infographics it's right below the
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whatever stats that i had pulled up oh man how far up is it let me see where it is ah yeah so
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you're gonna go up to um the date on it is january 17th or nathan my bad i didn't see it was you
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uh i think that's it let me know when you have it all right you can pull that up
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all right the gap between young men and women almost doubled in the past 25 years political
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ideology of u.s 18 to 29 so you actually notice since 2000 men have mostly men are the yellow
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there uh men have actually stayed the same so like more conservative on the bottom more liberal on
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the top women have gotten way more liberal whereas men have mostly kind of stayed the same in terms
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of their politics women have gone much more liberal now exile that you're going to scroll
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up to hold on uh there's another one that's interesting it's uh from october 20 2025 so
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it's like i don't know a few up 10 20 2025 it's kind of like bay uh like not white it's beige
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colored this is like the same graph now this isn't just in the u.s uh now south korea is just going
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So men in South Korea have actually gone much more conservative, women much more liberal.
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But in the United States, you see that similar trend.
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The men staying mostly the same, but women much more liberal.
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i think these are all the same oh this one's just like bigger uh yeah it's the same data same data
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so there's that you're going to x out of that then you're going to pull up um you scroll down to 12
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uh december 12 12 2 it's going to be like a graph with two circles actually uh that one's not that
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interesting actually what was the other one oh wait there's one more hold on let me see if i can find
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it. I don't know if I can find it. I didn't post it. That's too bad. But yeah, women are actually
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becoming way more radical. Y'all are radical, yo. And then the other thing is, ah, shit. I posted
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this on X, but I don't know if I posted it on Discord. I'll have to find it. They're finding
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that women, I'm not going to get the exact numbers right, but it goes something like this.
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if you ask men what you think of women, something like 70% of men have positive attitudes towards
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women, right? Now, the 30% of men who have negative attitudes towards women, we can sit
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here and criticize that and maybe have some objections. But if you ask women what their
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attitude of men is, something like 70% of women have negative attitudes towards men.
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so my numbers might be are a little off don't quote me that's not exactly but it's the that is
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the correct essence of what i'm talking about here i don't know any thoughts from anybody on that
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yeah i think that makes sense i mean like just like just going on instagram or like social media
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like it makes complete sense like i literally do see like women like clowning men all the time
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um yeah word for shizzle for shizzle yeah i wish i could find that study um can somebody
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maybe somebody in discord can find it sorry go ahead you're gonna say i think it has something
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to do with um fatherlessness being much more prevalent in society like overall and on top
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of that people getting divorced so it doesn't seem like people really respect men overall and
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a lot of little girls aren't growing up with that example so they end up being bitter women
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word sorry i'm trying to find that article that i was um
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oh yeah okay i think i found it i'm gonna send it to you let me see if i can find the best article
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on this despite sorry one sec here I know I tweeted about it recently actually shit dang
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this could take this might take me too long let me try one more to see if I found it uh there is
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an article okay uh there's a new poll do they have the data though damn uh here pull up the
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soup chats chloe's gonna read them while i'm trying to find it um you take the blue pill the
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story ends you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe you take the red
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pill you stay in wonderland and i show you how deep the rabbit hole goes remember all i'm offering
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is the truth nothing more that's the red pill that's the red pill
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it's kind of interesting though you guys know the director of the film those films
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yeah he had a sex change yeah both the wachowski sisters i guess the brothers
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the wachowski brothers both transitioned um pull up the other one thank you mr northumberland
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appreciate it uh um watching the show made everything click seeing those debates felt
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like escaping the matrix i realized i was sold lies my whole life as a feminist but the red pill
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finally relieved the truth i'd been missing uh thank you laura appreciate it uh okay uh guys
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this would be a good time to remind you a ten dollar display if you want to get a message in
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hundred dollar read two hundred dollar tts uh guys i need to see you know i need a grift a little bit
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here guys you know it took a lot it took a lot in me to kick that strumpet off the show you know
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it took me you know it took a lot it was very much hey she was a whore b she was a whore you
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know it's very sad that she had to leave it was kind of like this great to see you glad you can
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make it it was like that peace out peace out with you too homie so anyways uh yeah we had to kick
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her out you know but guys i need to pull up the twitch go to twitch guys twitch.tv slash whatever
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i need i i need a you know i need i need some some love over there on twitch guys we run
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three minutes of ads over there on twitch for every hour we don't do pre-rolls that means if
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you're watching us on twitch you're not going to get hit with some bullshit pre-roll three minutes
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per hour that's very low we're not trying to be uh we're not trying to abuse over there on twitch
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Half-pint, thank you for the birthday wishes, thank you for the tier one.
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Here, tilt your microphone so it's pointing straight towards you.
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Oh, yeah, we need to get you to introduce yourself.
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I was single the last time I came, but things have changed for the better.
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burly thank you for the prime straight i think for the prime draven thank you for the tier one
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southern girl thank you for the tier one appreciate it guys thank you thank you thank you
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thank you guys appreciate the support uh oh boy all right let's see where were we oh uh pull up
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that article really quick oh there's a paywall do you know how to get around the paywall pay
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it's just like you you go to like archive.ph or something it's probably already archived
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um wait fuck can i just send it yeah it's internet archive if you google it
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you can that works too i need to log into my dang it hold on let me see if i can just log
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into the man all right uh maybe it's somewhere man i wish i need a log you know what forget it
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just forget it. But essentially, oh wait. Okay, let's see it. Let's see it. I just need the
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segment. Scroll down. Make it bigger. Can you mouse wheel zoom in? Scroll down. There's like
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just a stats somewhere. Scroll down, scroll down. Yep, don't care, don't care. Scroll down,
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scroll down, scroll down. Holy fuck, how long is this? Scroll down, keep. Holy shit. Where the
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fuck wait what where's the fuck scroll down keep going where's the fucking where's the goddamn
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what okay fuck it whatever i did i send you the wrong article i might be retarded okay i'm actually
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retarded then never mind whatever it basically in essence more women view men unfavorably than
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the reverse so there's there's this big thing in society like oh misogyny is such a problem
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we need to de-platform people we need to cancel people we need to lawfare people
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we need to like the the british we need to do like netflix specials we need to uh do what was
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that uh not inside the manosphere but um boycott no there's like there was this netflix show
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based in the uk it came out like a year ago or something it was like
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boyhood or some shit fuck what was it i forgot the name of it it was like oh the the young boy
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uh killing his his classmates that the one you're talking about yeah what's that adolescent
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Yeah, they're going to produce propaganda like that.
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The UK is going to, like, there's going to be political action done to combat misogyny.
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I found out a lot of people don't know what misogyny is, and they just say the word.
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Well, they might, like, I think they know the essence of it, which is, like, essential.
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Well, it's like hating women, basically, or being anti-woman.
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So, misogyny, we've got to do something about that.
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Where are the documentaries about all the crazy misogyny?
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no women want to weigh on on this okay well you should make it you haven't you've basically made
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it anyway with your show i think i need to do more than just talk about it i need to start
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collecting soldiers oh yeah in santa barbara and when i say soldiers i mean that in in like a sort
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of uh not a literal sense not literal soldiers but i need we we need to collectivize as men
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and like have some sort of coalition some sort of movement some sort of advocacy group
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there's like some but they're very i don't know maybe i'm just gonna start it i don't know we'll
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figure it out you can make a cult i need soldiers i need foot soldiers uh to i'm gonna i maybe they
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gotta come in person everyone everyone needs to come to santa barbara and we're gonna start an
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organization and it's going to be like tp usa but for male advocacy not for conservative republican
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politics we need like that's the level we need the men's men uh like a men's advocacy movement
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needs to be on tp usa level uh that's where it needs to be so i don't know shit everybody in
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the chat i'm fucking recruiting all you guys all right all right we're gonna do it i don't know um
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all right back to dating i guess back to dating let me just make sure i didn't miss any chats or
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anything that came through no i think we're good all right let's blast into dating uh
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hmm does anyone have any uh disagreements with me as it relates to some of my dating takes or
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anything i've talked you've seen me talk about on the show i saw something that was kind of
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crazy that I feel like got a lot of hate. Sure. So I feel like one of the first videos I saw of
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you was having a girlfriend bow to you. I was going to say that. Yes. I feel like you got a
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lot of hate for that. And my personal opinion, I feel like in your own relationship, whatever you
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want to do is what you want to do. I don't think there was anything wrong with it, but I feel like
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you got a lot of hate for that. Oh yeah. And I literally was like, I thought it was kind of
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funny though. Like that you got so much hate for it because it's like people do crazy stuff behind
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doors and you said that openly yeah and just how people got so upset over it yeah it just was wild
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to me true it is wild it is wild so you're in favor of the bow i think you should you're fine
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with it if your girl's fine with it yeah why not yeah she wants to do it yeah i don't think there's
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anything wrong with it yeah you know it's interesting i was thinking about this i well
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i saw this uh there's this twitch streamer named morgue pie and i think i've heard of her before
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uh i but she on stream she does this so i don't know if this is a content angle and i don't even
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think it's the guy she's dating and we're not going to pull up the clip because it's kind of
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no it's kind of like gross a little bit so she has a guy in a gimp suit so it's full black
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leather or latex I think it's latex full black and like the black gimp mask and he's walking
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around like a dog and she's treating him like a dog and like telling him okay go sit in your
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your she has a dog bed for him he doesn't even have a chair and he it's like kind of gross
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and I was like I was like thinking about how how can I get backlash for the bowel thing yeah and
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i'm not like i'm not like having a woman like i'm not parading around my girlfriend on the show
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like having her do bows for me in this sort of like degradation ritual it's like literally
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something private but uh that seemed very objectionable i don't know if anybody in the
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chat knows what i'm talking about but um and we've had a woman on the show before actually
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who said she had this slave basically who i don't know if he wore the outfit or whatever
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but there's this dynamic i mean it's i guess within bdsm or whatever but um
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i don't know how anybody can be like look if you're yeah if you're in a consensual
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relationship and they do it consensually like what's the actual problem uh it's like okay well
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what's i guess to the panel let's show the bow video uh let's show that was kind of cute let's
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show the bow video. So this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend and I show this to future
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girlfriends so they know how to conduct and behave themselves when with me. Now this is after,
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go ahead, play it. Boom, huge bow, deep, respectful bow. Love to see it. And then she's,
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you're gonna see in a moment she has my dinner ready to go uh there it is scurrying scampering
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to the the kitchen cracks open the beer for me stirs my noodles
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yeah so this is the bow video and then we're going to uh play it one more time
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boom huge bow you see the submissive hand posture uh that's the expectation so when i get home from
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a long day of work i want my girlfriend to greet me at the door with a bow what do you think would
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you do it not to me just would you do it for a guy yeah yeah no that looks can i have you scoot
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your mic this way just a teeny bit uh yeah that's good all right what about you no can i have you
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But I know you were asking for yourself, but I'm just...
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okay what about you if it's like 2000 years ago i would because that was like traditionally okay
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in china people in china and she's chinese are still bowing so i mean cambodian people still
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bow even when we see our family member we always bow to each other already but so answer is no no
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okay what about you yeah yep like i said last time no unless you're gonna put a hat on and tip it for
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me because if you're gonna be doing or if i'm gonna be doing weird shit like that then you need
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too. Also love that for you. Yeah. So, okay. Uh, no, no, no, no, no. And then, or wait,
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did you say yes? Yeah. Yeah. You said yes. I said yes. All right. So, um, why?
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I just know why it's just don't want to do that. Don't want to do that. Okay. I just don't think
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I've ever met a man in my life that I've needed to do that for, or has done anything for me to
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do that for him okay what about you why wouldn't you do it i think it's just an odd thing to do
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odd thing to do okay all right what about you why is that um i i guess like now okay um i do need
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you to sit because you're getting in the reflection it's not your fault you didn't know
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you're too tall i keep seeing you bop around yeah it's a good thing i caught that yeah because we
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we bow to teachers we bow to uncles we bow to the elderly but i've never bowed to someone i'm
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dating i guess it it feels unequal i think that's why um if we're unequal yeah if we're like an
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equal partnership unless he also bows to me equal partnership yeah okay if he bows to me and i also
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bow to him no one direction no no i would so are you in an equal partnership with your husband
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I would say we both are supporting each other in different ways.
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I think it's hard to, like, I think equal is hard to evaluate in a relationship.
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I would say we both are happy with what we have provided and how we support each other.
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Okay, so he got, and you were standing there, looking down, gazing.
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He actually proposed to me with a ring box around a dog's collar.
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The dog stood up, I saw the ring box, and then he came over with flowers,
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and then he got down on one knee, and then he cried.
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All right. And then he paid for the ring. Do you know how much it cost?
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Yes. And I've bought him gifts of similar value or higher.
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It was around, I think, two to five, between two to five thousand dollars. It was in China.
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You make more? Okay. And then when it came to the initial courtship, did he approach you?
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we met on tinder met on tinder okay tinder marriage okay yeah it happens okay he uh he
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was he taking the burden of initiative i i think in the in the beginning maybe like in the first
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month who asked who to go out on the date um he asked me and then i moved it up sooner
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because I had a free day, like, earlier than the day he asked me.
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Well, you suggested where to go, but he was like, let's, you what?
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And he actually paid, but I did not ask him to pay.
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I went to the bathroom, and then I came back, and he paid.
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um okay so he paid for the date what about the second date did he pay for it
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i don't remember it was like 11 years ago i know it's a long time ago third date did he pay for it
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well i mean i understand like you might not remember specifics like that but you could like
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for example um i can think back to i couldn't tell you like on the specific date like what
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exactly happened but i could be like oh yeah the first 10 dates i paid for no he did not pay for
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the first 10 days i would say he probably paid for the first few dates uh and then like whenever
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we go travel we share but that was but when you when you use that as a as a as an evidence it
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will be saying that money is the only thing that contributes to value in a relationship if we only
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talk about who paid for what well technically that would have to be your position your position
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would have to be like i see your position your position would be more defensible if you like
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what you just said if there's more you can bring than money well if that was the case then surely
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he would bring other things besides money and you guys should equalize on that front by going 50 50
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on the date if you're an equal partnership right i think if we go back the the entire 10 years or
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11 years of us together sure i would say um the monetary value that we both provided into the
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relationship was maybe I provided more in terms of monetary value.
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But that doesn't mean I don't see it as an unequal partnership because he provided a
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So, I mean, that might be a fair sort of asterisk to put like, okay, well, yes, he paid those
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Of course, you could have decided you weren't into him.
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And then the financial contribution in that circumstance would have just been exclusively
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But, yes, over the course of the 10, 11 years, you guys have, according to you, have both sort of equally contributed financially to the relationship.
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No, we actually both put how much we get paid into, like, a joint account.
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like when i get paid more uh i would contribute more and when he get paid well you guys are
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married now so it's like just going it's all going into one account yeah and it's just yeah
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do you guys maintain like separate accounts or yeah but like like i'll use it to buy makeup
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and stuff like any any well before you were married before the joint account were you guys
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living together we were living together and then we had a fund that we will put money into as well
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a little closer to the mic please uh we were living together and then we uh had a fund that
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we put together on like alipay that would like go towards together spending even before marriage
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though you guys were going basically 50 50 on rent yeah okay all right understood okay so um
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in terms of the financial aside from the beginning of the relationship it sounds like it's been
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pretty equal yeah I actually bought him a really expensive gift recently and then I thought about
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how it would make him feel I was like because I went on a trip for two weeks and I didn't see him
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and I bought him this really expensive watch the caveat is we got robbed someone broke into our
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house a few months earlier so he lost his watch so I bought him this watch and it's very expensive
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and then i wondered if he felt belittled like i wonder if he felt like you know because usually
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usually a man will buy women gifts um right yeah so i i asked him and he felt he was okay with it
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okay um now in terms of initiative burden at the beginning of the relationship i was asking you who
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asked for the dates etc etc uh women typically look for men even if women are like liberal
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And they're okay with 50-50 financial arrangements, which I think it's the minority of women who are okay with that.
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I suspect the initiative burden still fell on him.
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I said at the end of the first date, when are you going to kiss me?
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So I would guess that's me initiating by asking that question.
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Yep, I guess that would be you initiating to a degree.
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yeah I suppose I'm fine with it although I think a lot of
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she'll eventually be frustrated and be like
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like that's crazy uh but i think a lot of women if the guy doesn't make the initiative it's just
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never gonna happen like women aren't gonna uh really go for it um generally speaking uh what
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about sex were you the initiator i don't remember sorry i'm like trying to think yeah i mean usually
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there's steps that lead up to it so like taking clothes off moving forward sexually usually i
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think we like planned we like planned for it uh we're like we're like okay you know like i was
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like i'm like ready to do this so then we like arrange to be at his apartment okay so sure i so
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i would say uh on the initiative front you're perhaps slightly an outlier nothing like too
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crazy in terms of i'm not like jumping i'm not like taking off his clothes in public or anything
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right yeah but um i would say majority of the time across like all these steps of initiative
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it almost always almost always most of the time falls on men and that starts from
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approaching you or sending the first message set asking for your number uh planning the date
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navigating you flaking once twice three times uh rescheduling okay we're on the date picking the
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picking the location paying for the date moving things forward okay do i bring her back to my
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place do i go for the first kiss moving like navigating all that okay moving things forward
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physically, moving things forward sexually. All that burden that women just kind of glance over
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that is almost never 50-50, that almost always falls on men, the initiative burden. And women
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aren't even really aware of this because you're very, a lot of women are very passive when it
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comes to dating. Men take the initiative, generally speaking. And so not all the time,
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of course oh this one time i went for the first kiss okay great um it's not your preference though
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i i think women are kind of giving themselves less options by doing that because like if you
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wait for men to approach you you only get to pick from the men who approach you or you like hint
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real hard and hope they approach you but if you go after what you want then you get to take like
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make more of a choice for yourself, I think. Right. But this idea that then getting back to
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the bow is that you're equal 50-50. It's like, okay, well, what are the ways in which women
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expect men to be traditional and to act like men? Now I can cite to the questionnaire here for all
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of you, starting with chair one, and I'll go one by one through each of you. You agree with the
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following statements all of you men should pay on first dates men should provide protect men
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should be chivalrous husband should be willing to die protecting you take the bullet uh first
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you for christina you agree men should pay on first dates men should provide protect men should
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be chivalrous uh for you niobe wait is that actually your real name yes i'm not gonna like
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if you have like a fake of name or whatever i'm not gonna ask your real name but it's your legit
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Samantha, men should pay, oh wait, fuck her, I guess.
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and if she acts retarded, then I keep the deposit, I guess.
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I should have gone through the questionnaire, then kicked her.
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Well, I have a qualm with that, but we'll get into it maybe later.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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Almost all of you basically circled all of those things, right?
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i feel like women should respect the person they're with they should be loyal i feel like okay
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but hold on men should do the same yeah men should be respect women obviously men should be loyal
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yeah obviously bare minimum yeah these things these things are well yeah but i mean okay for
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some for some men they don't do this okay so um well that would also apply to women like some
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women are not respectful. Some women are not loyal too. So I think that would be bare minimum for
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both men and women. But now we're getting into gender roles. Men should pay on first dates. So
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the implication of men should pay on first dates means the woman does not pay on the date. Men
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should provide protect. Ergo, the woman does not provide and protect. Men should be chivalrous. You
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never hear ever women should be chivalrous what should women uniquely do give birth
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you would agree with me that that's something that happens way down the line and women have
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these expectations on men uh without any intention of like giving birth anytime soon
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like all these women the only people who have kids here and who who any who else has a kid
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these two only no you have a kid right no no it's just one i'm sorry so every woman at this table
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says men should pay on first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous
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she's the only one with kids yeah no other so this idea that well because kids like how many
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first dates have you been on how many first dates have you been on how many kids did you pop out
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zero okay useful how do you know what if i popped one out the first date no what i'm saying is is
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like women will go on first dates with an expectation that like if okay i pay if okay
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i was just here's your argument here's your argument men should do these things because
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women bear children okay so if i go on a date with a woman and i pay for the date and i'm
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chivalrous and i provide and protect blah blah blah and she doesn't provide me children then
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you can't use but women give men children as justification for why men should do these things
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i didn't you asked okay next no i said what should women do oh okay i think women should
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show up equally just not more than um you know i don't think they should show up and like be a man
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in the relationship you know but i think they should show up equally and like in terms of like
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the providing and protecting i think there's a level of that that women can do um you literally
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wait wait hold on you make men pay you to go on dates with you they call me well okay a condition
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of you going on a date with a man is that he has to pay for it yeah well not just that not just pay
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for the date right he also just has to give you money just to go on the date like he's giving you
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cash okay well when toilet paper is free things will be different i don't see how that'd be
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relevant because men also have to buy toilet paper however uh you said women also provide
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how do women provide or how do you provide well just in in terms of like um like providing uh
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like safety and security i think there's a level women don't women don't provide physical are you
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talking physical security like safety like in general like you know say um like hypothetically
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right like say they were in a we're in a social setting right and somebody starts bad mouthing
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about your partner right there's a level in which i think a female should show up just as equally as
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a man to provide that level of protection and safety for their partner i i don't think that it
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would be equivalent um truthfully i don't be on like the like it shouldn't be like masculine you
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know what i mean there's like a you know men are bigger and so they let me ask you this you're out
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on a date with your boyfriend and some drunk guy comes up to you and gropes your butt
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you expect your boyfriend to beat that guy up i'd probably clock him you would clock that's fair
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enough uh and look if you get groped by a guy if i think fair game smack him uh men should not do
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that but i personally if my girlfriend like if that happened to me um that'd be quite a peculiar
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scenario but uh i wouldn't want my girlfriend to start whooping that girl's ass i don't like i'd
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just be like that's completely inappropriate like if it was really bad maybe it's technically
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technically like form of essay like okay do we get the police involved i don't i probably just
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not want to fucking be bothered by it but maybe if it's really bad if she grabbed my dick yeah
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you're we're calling the cops if she spanked me or something i'd be like that's completely
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inappropriate but i don't have that i don't want to waste my time fucking talking to the police or
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whatever i don't think i'd want my uh girlfriend to like go and whoop her ass though anyways
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there's different types of case scenarios it doesn't have to necessarily be like a physical
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one i'm it could also just be like in terms of what i was talking about was like socially
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sure um you know just somebody you know talking talking to your significant other about you and
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kind of putting you down or sharing information without you being present, you know?
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Like, for me, in my opinion, there's only one thing we need to provide for men,
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because I believe that all of the men, they only want sex from women.
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I, so you, you say that men only want sex from women.
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So the only time that I, for me anyways, and I think for a lot of men, the only time that's true, if sex is all you're offering, then sex is all I want.
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You need to offer more to me than just sex.
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If pussy's all you got, pussy's all I want.
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But if you bring more, if you bring more and you offer value in other ways, then men are going to value those other things.
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So I kind of reject this idea that men just want sex.
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Now, men do want sex, but I don't think they just want sex.
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but at least they want sex first right sure maybe they want sex quickly too yeah i mean
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that certainly can be the case but i think a woman can still bring value especially early on
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beyond just sex like what kind of value the bow to begin with she could i mean but this gets into
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something that might be more tenable is she can help you with things she can make herself
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helpful. She can acquiesce to you. She can be submissive. She can, she can make it easy to be
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with her. And when I say easy, I don't mean having like, she's easy to bed. I'm not saying that. I
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mean, make the experience of being with you seamless and simple and easy and not a headache.
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Make it, make, don't make it. And this could be just like your availability, but it could also
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just be your personality are you just a pain in the ass are you argumentative are you combative
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are you masculine are you difficult are you a high friction high uh friction's not well friction is
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the word but i'm looking uh what's high conflict individual don't be high conflict make it make it
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like a peaceful experience to be with you don't get on his case don't give him uh attitude show
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him respect but um shit i lost track where i was going with that um the other things that women can
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give um yeah um i think that like the bowel thing like it's kind of like equivalent to like when a
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guy opens your door like you know we like actually shit on men for that we're like you never open my
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door look at him he's opening that girl's door right now see how easy it is yeah but like it's
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so easy to do a bow too but we're like yeah it's so easy you know it's kind of like it's almost
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like the same like this guy's going outside of the car like he's like in the cold you know you're
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leaving his ass in the cold so he can do that for you but you wouldn't do that inside the warmth of
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your own house like come on it's so easy so yeah i mean ultimately um uh i actually lost track where
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i was going but why why no to the bow or wait was that the question we were at yeah i think so why
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women uh oh what should women do yeah what should women do okay so in this scenario most of the time
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for me when i'm in a relationship and i am talking to a guy i am usually providing financially i'm
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providing home i'm providing cooking i'm cleaning i'm working i'm doing all of that and for me that
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is okay I'm fine with doing that but I feel like as a woman a lot of men especially younger men
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don't learn a lot of life lessons very early on in age and I feel like a lot of that responsibility
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falls on to me to teach said certain man what to do I've met men who don't know how to use a
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dishwasher who don't know how to fold clothes etc but we as women learn that from a very young age
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because we're supposed to be doing that men don't know how to load a dishwasher i actually met a guy
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he loaded it he just didn't know uh soap was supposed to go into it yeah uh soap is supposed
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to go in there but uh is there anything else for you though what should women do besides sex
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question like if a man like they want to find someone who personality good and do the cleaning
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and also cook for them, why just don't pay for a housekeeper?
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I mean, I will not do cleaning and cooking for a man
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because I think he can find a housekeeper or a nanny to do that kind of things.
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I mean, on the long term, I would say that if you're dating a woman,
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And I'm not sure if all men have the necessary income to pay for all those services.
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Also, it's like, well, there's a level, there's different thresholds, right?
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So, like, there's a level where the woman doesn't have to work.
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But if she's not working, so the man's paying everything.
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If she's not working, what is she supposed to do with her time, right?
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So it's like, okay, take care of the household.
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Also, I don't want to necessarily invite, like, it can be a liability to invite total strangers into your house.
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Like, I think she's going to, not always, I was going to say she can clean better, but sometimes the professionals, well, the professionals can either do a better job or they can do a sloppy job, right?
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But it's like, okay, if I'm taking care of all the bills, then, and you're just staying at home, you should cook, you should clean, you should do the laundry, you should do all these things.
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So, if my husband, like, wants me to do all that kind of things, I will not stay with him anymore because I can do my better life when I'm single.
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I don't need someone to pay all of the bills for me.
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Okay, so you're saying that you are successful on your own and you don't have to do those things.
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I mean, look, it is realistic if you date a guy, if you're with a guy who is high income enough, then yeah, he can pay for the maid and the professional private chef and all those things, the laundry service, whatever it is.
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But I guess then it's like, okay, well, I don't know.
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What are you uniquely doing as a woman to provide value outside of sex?
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But, I mean, it seemed like it was your position that from your perspective, and I don't, this isn't my perspective, so you guys are going to have to juggle this idea that she actually has a more misogynistic position than I do.
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i think women can bring value beyond sex it's your position seemingly that the value women bring
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is sex and that's it sex yeah okay so what about the kids though so when you have kids
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uh are you gonna be raising the kids or are you gonna have a nanny i don't want to have kids
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are you like infertile or i mean can you have kids no i don't want because if i'm pregnant
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it's really damage for my body you know wait wait damage for your body yeah so you mean well hold on
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but hold on so the the there's a telos thing here when it comes to purpose this idea that damage like
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women are built to give birth like it is of the nature of women to give birth so when you say
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damages the body okay yes loose skin stretch marks uh perhaps i'm not going to get into detail
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about like potential impacts like vaginally or whatever but so yes that is true but women give
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birth and recover from it but you're saying aesthetically damages the body is that what
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you're saying no it's really hard to recover it well i mean i you know recover what do you mean
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like the coming from after you have a child the body is just different completely different you
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know from inside to outside so that's why you don't want to have children for strictly vanity
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reasons no i don't want to but you don't want to have children because it's going to change
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your body or are there other reasons like change my body that's it yeah not like they're annoying
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or it's a lot of work or they're stressful also also i just don't like the babies you know they're
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really loud and babies well yeah they can be loud but i mean when they grow up they're like
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dope and they're continuing your legacy oh my god i can have a pet like dog or something
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more better okay so what do you want to get married though i don't know okay you're just
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a bachelorette for your whole life okay i mean hey some people want to live like that um okay
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so you don't want to have kids um are you on birth control you're not on birth control yeah
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so what rubbers pull out method i mean plan b plan b no never
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okay so they're just like busting nuts and you're just i think i just um have some issue to
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i'm pregnant i went to the doctor before so okay sure yeah all right um i forgot where we were
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uh what do uh what should or no wait what should women do i think was the question that was uh here
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let's go to you because you're against the bow um like just like housework cooking cleaning laundry
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like cleaning i want to be with a man that can make me feel like i want to be like very feminine
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be a woman like i want to be with a man that will take control if that makes sense okay uh what
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about well i guess we kind of dived into it with you i guess uh yeah yeah do you still want me to
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say something i'm happy yeah i guess what yeah sure yeah i i guess cooking cleaning housework
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i i think we traditionally label them as feminine but they don't have to be they're just like things
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people provide in a relationship like i i cook and my husband cleans and does laundry
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and like he takes care of so many things um and i i think he's really good at those things so
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certain cleaning products, because I didn't know how to do them.
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okay um it's not gender coded okay uh what about in the context where a man is he's the sole
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breadwinner are you fine with a woman doing taking on yes okay yes so they need to both provide value
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in their relationship they need to both provide value uh in that circumstance okay um i'm trying
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to think if there's anything else uh here we'll do wait i have uh oh perfect oh what the heck my
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pen is shitty um i had a follow-up on this um wait shit where was i going uh those of you who
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would not bow would you bow for the perfect man yes he's perfect you would for the perfect man
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yeah perfect for what like okay so when i say perfect here i'll give a descriptor so
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you might say well look the normal not to say that you guys are uh you'll still date guys who
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you obviously like and who are you're attracted to and who you think have positive traits but we
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are maximizing every single trait that you care about. So, and obviously there's trade-offs when
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it comes to dating. Okay, well, he's a supermodel, but he's broke. He's super rich, but he's not
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attractive. He's great in bed, but he has no ambition. Like, and sometimes the guys will have
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multiple of these positive or negative characteristics, right? So when we say perfect, we max out every
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single positive positive trait you care about so not just like okay well he's like um his looks
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his personality his kindness he he's really successful um best in bed at all these things
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that you might care about maximized so this guy i would assume really good looking really rich
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uh treats you amazingly perfectly loyal perfect like all the things you care about
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top tier perfect that's what i'm talking about okay so for the perfect man would you bow no i
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won't change myself a lot for a man you won't change yourself for a man should men change for
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you of course yeah wow that's crazy so men should uh men should change for women
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this isn't uh does anyone agree with her does anyone agree with her it's okay if you do sort of
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well not with both parts is it like can both people like change as a whole during their
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relationship to be better well the idea here would be um doing something that is so minimal
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so benign so effortless she won't even do that for the guy for the man for the perfect man
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which doesn't exist realistically for you uh you're going to jump from to put it bluntly from
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dick to dick to dick this guy's going to cheat on you one guy's going to be abusive one guy's
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going to be violent one guy's going to be boring one guy's going to be broke and it's you're really
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never going to find the perfect man truth be told nobody gets the perfect person even the people we
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marry now we might like virtue signal and be like oh well my husband's the perfect guy well there's
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probably something about him that annoys you there's probably and look i think in relationships
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there's going to be little small things like okay she i don't know she chews with her mouth open or
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something it's like well do i still love her yes uh she fucking slightly snores do i still love her
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yes like there's going to be things about your partner that are going to slightly annoy you
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and we accept them of course there's stupid people who think that okay the moment there's
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like one thing that's just slightly, that's just, and then people, I mean, it's because of social
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media and dating apps. It's like, uh, we've encountered a slight roadblock. I'm out. Some
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people do that. That's stupid. But I think in relationships, there are going to be certain
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things you'll have to like sometimes tolerate or sometimes, uh, you know, accept or that sometimes
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will get under your skin. Now, if it's something super serious, then that's a different conversation,
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but smaller minor things you're going to have to accept certain things when it comes to dating
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so for the perfect man though you don't do just even that takes three seconds to do it okay um
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what about you perfect man yes but he would not have to be perfect he would just have to be good
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enough for my standards fair fair answer uh for the perfect man do you do it no really why okay
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that's interesting i'll engage there uh why not i don't know why he would want me to okay well
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how about this scenario you have uh in front of you a magic lantern a magic and when you rub it
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a genie comes out and the genie says uh you don't get a wish but he's like i will give you
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the perfect man for you and it is the perfect man my condition not the man's condition so it's not
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the man telling you to do it the genie tells you you need to bow in order to get the perfect man
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do you do it then no because i don't want a perfect man why would you not want a perfect man
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because i'm not a perfect woman i don't see how that uh i don't see how that would correspond
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so how what are the ways in which you're not perfect i mean i have a lot of issues i have
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like mental issues i have issues with past relationships um i'm still like healing even
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though i've been single for like almost four years like so well i have a lot of improvement
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hold on you've been in an on again off again situation for three years that just ended a week
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ago yeah right okay so when you say you have mental issues what are those uh i have major
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depressive disorder okay do you have bpd bipolar uh npd you don't have a cluster b cluster b
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So that would be like bipolar, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic?
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No, I haven't been diagnosed with anything like that.
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So how does your mental health, the major depressive disorder, how does it manifest itself?
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i do have a lot of anxiety and then sometimes i do have like um depressive episodes that can last
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for long periods of time um so what does that look like when you have a depressive episode
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like it's hard for me to even just like get out of bed do normal things go to work like i don't
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feel good about myself physically um okay and i just kind of like isolate so you want to also
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date a guy then who has major depression would i want to well you said i'm not perfect therefore
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i don't want the perfect man would i date somebody that has that i mean if i really like them then
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yes i mean it would be hard having you know me having that and then them having that as well
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So on one hand, you acknowledge that it would be suboptimal for your situation to date somebody who has mental health issues.
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So wouldn't the ideal be to date a guy who tolerates?
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Well, and the perfect man wouldn't just tolerate.
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He would be extremely supportive and understanding and patient with you and perhaps even be able to help you with your depression or whatever.
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So I don't understand why you wouldn't date the perfect guy.
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Well, I don't want to have to put them through that, though.
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That's not fair to rely on somebody to help you get through that.
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Also, are you just going to become a nun and never date anybody?
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Because whether you date the perfect guy or whether you date a terrible man, they're going to have to deal with your bullshit regardless.
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so might as well be the perfect guy who uh who knows how to navigate your depression and is
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supportive and like makes it as easy for you uh in the moment when you are going through an episode
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instead of like i'm sure you could you've maybe dated guys who are like wow you're being a fucking
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bitch like you're annoying as fuck because you're depressed like i'm dumping you goodbye you're
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fucking depressed like wouldn't it be optimal for you to date the perfect guy like i don't understand
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uh sorry go ahead okay well when you word it like that like yes it would be nice to be with
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somebody who can help me get through that but like at the same time i would feel bad i guess
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you know what i mean because i have mood swings and you know dealing with my depression like who
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wants to deal with that at the end of the day most people don't are you just going to remain
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celibate for the rest of your life i don't know oh i am so sorry it's all good my bad it's all
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you're fine i'll get a i have a paper towel here but i mean so sorry i don't know whose drink that
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was my bad it's my coconut water it's all right uh so you're going to uh so what you're you're
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obviously going to continue dating so i mean we'll get into your show notes in a bit but i mean from
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my recollection you've not had a great track record with the men you've dated like they've
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not they've not been like upstanding high virtue like healthy relationships yeah i've never been
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in any kind of healthy relationship at all is that because of you um probably because in the
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past i feel like i used to be very very toxic and then i would also uh date people that were also
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toxic so yes okay so what's that the definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing
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over and over again, hoping for a different result. So in this case, I've presented to you
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a hypothetical scenario where you could get the perfect man. The only thing you have to do is
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once per day, three seconds, back up and you won't do it. Interesting. Cause I'll tell you what,
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I don't think men should battle women because that's a gendered, it's a bit of a gendered thing.
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uh more not all relationships are like this but typically men are the leaders in relationships
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men are more dominant in the relationship i'm not even talking about bdsm or anything
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and the woman's more submissive so it'd be a man bowing to a woman would be like sort of
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contradictory to the natural order of the roles between men and women for the perfect woman
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i'm fucking bowing now i'm not going to be submissive i'm not going to be i don't know
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shit i have to think about that because the because i think the perfect woman is so exceedingly rare
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so rare is a diamond actually fuck diamonds is a i don't know what's a fucking more what's what's
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a more sought after fucking precious stone or whatever the fuck they're called i don't know
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a ruby what's more what's better than because diamonds sapphire sapphire i don't know she's a
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fucking jewel she's a jewel a perfect woman would be a jewel and like the reality is in in reality
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people are definitely not perfect uh and then you also have to consider not just that uh
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not just the external people are not perfect but you also have to think who am i and then what can
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i get because i think like there's there's lots of beautiful women and um some of them like
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fantastic personalities and they meet my threshold but then you have to think and this applies not
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just to me but to other men and then to women are you the type of person that they want to be with
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and realistically speaking like shit 36 going on 37 now i'm a little chubby like i'm average
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at best average looking um like i'm not i don't have the leverage like okay if you tell me what
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the perfect woman is okay she well realistic perfect would be like i'm not going to tell
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you what but um i don't know she okay fine it just it just comes across as superficial
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like insanely hot very attractive um in terms of personality wise submissive basically does
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everything I want um slave I guess you could say slave would be good indentured servant uh basically
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I'm kidding I'm kidding there a little bit but like what guy what yes big yes giant labia the
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biggest labia you've ever seen um let's see and I guess technically for her to be perfect she also
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has to be a trillionaire billionaire and then I'd be very happy but um but uh it's like yo I'm not
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I'm 37 I'm not going to be like smashing through I'm not going to be like running through Victoria
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secret models anytime soon like i'm realistic about my standing and like the type of woman i
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can get uh so uh i don't know so to be offered the perfect person it's like the perfect person
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is necessarily going to be out of your league if you can get the person out of your league
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then fuck man shit hit a bow hit a bow no go ahead you can respond do you want me to say yes
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so that make you happy no well i mean i i don't want to just bulldoze over somebody and they just
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say yes just because if i've changed your mind then say yes but if i haven't convinced you then
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no don't lie well okay if they were like 100 perfect then sure why not but again i mean yeah
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yeah but what about like uh how about not perfect but your realistic dream guy so he's not perfect
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but he's like the dream guy like if i was bowing in like kind of a silly way like not like a weird
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way if that makes sense like is that what you mean well to get the dream guy realistic dream
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guy so okay he's not going to be a billionaire but he's going to have a good job and he treats
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you really well and he's loyal and he you know he's he's not like a giga chad supermodel but
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he's like he's good looking you think he's handsome you find him attractive he's got a
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he's he's fun and i mean he's not like some like fucking once in a thousand year charisma level
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thing but you know like he's fun and you enjoy his presence do you bow for him i may consider it i
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guess if i really really like them why is it so bad to bow yeah like why are you so against it
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like even for the perfect guy i don't know maybe just because i feel like it's just like a weird
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thing to do like i don't know why is it weird it like takes like one second to do i don't know
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it's just something about it it's just like so it's culturally weird for a white person like
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it's not it's not something that men yeah ask for even in like asian countries like i assume
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even like korea or japan or china uh vietnam philippine like it they probably wouldn't be
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cool with it even there where it's somewhat more culturally relevant to bow um but it's also
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to chloe's point it is effortless it's completely benign it takes three seconds anyone can do it
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and they still won't even do that for, like, the perfect guy.
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Like, first time going over to his house, would you do his laundry?
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If I really like them and I planned on, like, pursuing them more
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and, like, maybe, like, being with them, then, yeah.
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I think a woman should do – that's my other thing.
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A woman should do laundry first time at the guy's house.
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She should just be like, Brian, where's your laundry room?
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You seem to be grimacing, or maybe that's how your face naturally is.
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for the perfect guy no wait i don't want to say perfect guy let's say marriageable man
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so marriageable man is a guy who meets your standards for like long term like this is the
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person you want to spend your life with right so okay he's not going to be six foot six billionaire
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let's be realistic but he's gonna you're attracted to him you like him he treats you well this is
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going to be your your boyfriend long-term boyfriend husband whatever for marriageable man
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do you delete your instagram uh sure if they had asked me to i only just made it a year ago anyway
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no say yeah verbalize no no why is that i mean why i did my instagram for them
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well i'm gonna come back to that what about you perfect man or not perfect marriageable man yeah
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if you wanted me to yeah yes yes yeah yeah i'd consider it consider it okay yes i like instagram
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that's amazing you like instagram that's like really all i have like i would totally delete
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facebook and like snapchat like tiktok what about i don't even have tiktok okay so you use instagram
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for reels um no i mean yeah i do watch a lot i have a problem i do you post on reels i don't
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post a whole lot but what is your uh attachment to instagram i think reels like watch you watch
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the reels okay what about you kiko um i guess it depends on why he would ask me that my husband
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will never ask me that but if he said he has a valid reason and it's not like insecurities
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then i would do it yeah yep i make most of my money on instagram because i'm a ugc creator so
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like if he's making a good amount of money i'd delete it yes let's say he was sole breadwinner
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and he was oh yeah for sure then but like my husband or my fiance is not so i'm not deleting
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that instagram throwing a little shade at your husband here love you the way you said that had
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like a little resentment in your voice you know it was a little little like step it up what's his
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name jordan yeah it sounded like step it up jordan what the fuck well i'm teaching him how
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to be a UGC creator. So he started making a little money. Okay. Um, so you are addicted
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to reels. Why wouldn't you delete it again? I, I just don't know what's the reason I need
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to delete for them. Why? Uh, he is really traditional and he doesn't want, uh, he doesn't
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want you posting your little thirst trap bikini photos on there. He is so ridiculous.
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He's ridiculous. He's ridiculous for that ask. You know, I was actually thinking about this, and my issue with it is, well, there's two components. There's the posts on it, and then there's the consumption angle.
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so I think social media short form content even though I mean I don't know if this is going to
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get me labeled as a hypocrite obviously we produce short form content here on the whatever
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well I mean we also do the live podcast too the short form content is secondary to a degree but
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I think short form content does have some damages that it does on attention span and then also the
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algorithms can be problematic because it'll start feeding you
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propaganda. It'll feed you like things that'll make you upset. Sometimes it depends. Sometimes
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the feeds like, I don't know if you like, maybe if you're into makeup, it'll just send you makeup
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videos, which, well, that's a separate topic, but like makeup videos are not inherently like they're
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not espousing anything harmful. Well, I could probably come up with an argument, anti makeup
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bargain. But I don't know if you're watching gym videos and you're just getting fit, that's a
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better example. You're just getting fitness content. That's your algorithm. That's pretty
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harmless. In fact, it's probably good. But a lot of these algorithms tend to, it's like a race to
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the bottom because people engage with things that are upsetting to them. People engage with things
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that get them angry, that get them enraged. People engage with those things. It's a race to the
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bottom so then you engage with something oh my god misogyny racism oh my god republicans are so bad
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blah blah conservatives are terrible we should assassinate people like what the fuck so
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assassination is okay he's a fascist it's okay to assassinate people yeah punch a nazi okay so
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anyways so that's the algorithm that's the algorithm slippery slope and i do think um
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honestly long term i don't know if i've revealed this on the show i think if a girl wants to be
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my girlfriend but this is me being a protector this is me being a protector because i think men
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when we talk about protecting it's not just like okay there's a home invasion there's a burglar
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or some, you know, we got to fuck a guy up, we got to shoot a guy. It's not just that.
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I think men have a duty to their family, to their girlfriend, to their children,
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to not just protect them physically, but to protect them of threats of spirit and of heart
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and of mind. And I believe TikTok and Instagram and all these things are threats of mind and of
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spirit it's it's i believe these are damaging thing these are damaging platforms uh it fucks
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your uh attention span it fucks your attention span you get fed propaganda it takes one video
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for a woman to decide that she wants to trans her kids no so i think i think i have a duty
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as a boyfriend to tell my girlfriend you know what look i don't want you on instagram i don't
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want you on tiktok you shouldn't be now it was it would actually like look i don't know if she
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wasn't consuming the reels and she was just like once a fucking month i don't know posting like
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photos of her food or something i don't really care that's fine i guess um i actually think if
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you want a girlfriend max you got to get her off the fucking apps like you got to get her off the
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doom scrolling because i got to protect her mind doom scrolling is bad for your mental health
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she's going to be exposed to propaganda as a man i have a duty to protect my girlfriend
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obviously she has free will she can do what she wants but i hope that my girlfriend
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I don't want you doom-scrolling on fucking TikTok.
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I know I'm taking care of everything, you know.
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You're going to spend three hours cooking per day.
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you're do you're doom scrolling too much i gotta fill her time with something else right
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any response from the women yes yes yes i agree wholeheartedly
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sorry just wanted to jump in a little do you ever doom scroll um
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do i doom scroll how long do you have to be scrolling to be doom scrolling like more than
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an hour um no 30 minutes like 30 minutes probably and then you like forget your entire life and what
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you're doing because you're like so attached to whatever you're watching the thing is is i'm
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because i'm in the social media space i'm kind of and i'm a social commentator um i like post
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things and commentate on them on my ex and facebook account and sometimes i'm like looking for
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like the trending topic sometimes we react to clips it's within the purview of my business
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but honestly the moment i retire from this shit tick tock off my phone it's all gone it's all
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gone if it wasn't for my job i know but like i'm more so doing it for research it's not like
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entertainment i guess i don't know no i get that because for you do you see you got to scroll
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through like your niche to warm the account up yeah so i mean i suppose i do it but it's for the
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like i'm literally looking for clips or dating topics or trending topics for me to react to
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like i'm on x and i'm seeing all this stuff like caller daddy's been on x for like
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three separate things recently maybe i can bring make them topical for the show um one of the
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things i saw recently on caller daddy was gwyneth paltrow alex what's her fuck i can't believe i
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know her fucking name alex cooper the host of our daddy asked gwyneth paltrow something like
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who was better in bed ben affleck or brad pitt and she actually responds and i was like this is a
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topic we've talked about on the show but like there's a difference between men and women wait
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i don't am i just moving off the hold on i just moved off the topic hold on we'll come to that
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fucking gwyneth oh my what this pen's dog shit did anyone want to weigh in on my tiktok thing
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like my girlfriend should not have tiktok yes i think like seriously like it is really like a
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form of protection and like if like that's like you want a man that's going to protect you lead
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you guide you all these things like i think that's like 100 valid and like that's like that's
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actually like um desirable in a man like you would want your man to do that for you you know you can
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tell that he cares about you like he he tells you like which friends are good friends like oh this
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girl's married she has all these goals in life that's a girl you should be hanging out with like
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you shouldn't be hanging out with these girls that have no goals that want to be a whole well like
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so yeah you shouldn't you probably shouldn't be friends with people like that it's not going to
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bring you anywhere here's here's the interesting thing i think when as i was saying this i think
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some of the women were like brian that's super controlling that's super toxic who are you to
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tell your girlfriend what she should do on her phone right and i i would anticipate women feeling
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that way like whoa that's really controlling like like i wouldn't literally like go up to her phone
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and like i'm fucking deleting this shit no i would want her to voluntarily do it like i'd have a
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conversation with her like hey look i think it's not good for you like i want you like i don't know
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maybe, maybe this sounds crazy. Like, let me add some context here. Like in social media can be,
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there was actually a phenomenon before social media got big where people who watched the news
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constantly there, this is a phenomenon that predates social media. If you were constantly
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watching the news, what would you see? Robberies, murders, killings, because that was the most
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interesting thing for the news that bumped the ratings. And so people started getting like
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stressed out, spikes or cortisol, spikes or cortisol. Uh, they, they'd be watching the
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news cycle and like getting paranoid and thinking, Oh my God, things are more dangerous than they
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actually are because all you're seeing is murder, murder, rape, car theft, carjacking, uh, abduction,
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sex trafficking. That's the news. That's the news that that's what they're reporting on.
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And similarly with social media, certain things get amplified in the algorithm.
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Who here thinks on a balance of things that overall for society, do you think that social media is harmful?
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Like, I think, for example, like, I'm not saying across the board it's just fucking terrible.
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like for example this ability to instantaneously communicate with somebody in a different country
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or different continent keep up with your friends um you know uh entertainment that to a degree the
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entertainment component is cool like oh my god 30 years ago you wanted to well i guess
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fucking phones i guess but like it was more difficult to communicate you know i mean think
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before telephones think before all this shit like letters motherfucker letters you would say even
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even you could live with in the same state as somebody before fucking phones you would hear
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back three weeks later some shit they send a letter fucking then they got to respond to you
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so that's cool that's a benefit of the intranet and technology that we have instantaneous
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is communication right but like social media though i think while it has some positives
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overall i think has been negative even i say this even as somebody who profits off of social media
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right uh so then the my perhaps my framing of if social media is harmful and you guys agree with me
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that my girlfriend should not consume the thing that is harmful
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nope thoughts um nobody are you guys just gonna be quiet i have something actually um in my longest
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relationship in high school um my ex-boyfriend like he would just like literally brain rot all
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day on like tiktok and like just like watch like really stupid videos and like i told i had a
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conversation with him and i was like dude like this is like not helping you like at all like
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you should watch like motivational shit because at the time i was like super into like watching
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gym videos and like motivational stuff and i was like why are you like consuming this shit like for
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hours like i don't understand like why that's like helpful and we like got into this massive
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argument about it and like he's probably still watches brain yeah yeah um i do have some thoughts
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on social media i do think it's um i think it's pretty polarizing it's creating two types of
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content like your your algorithm is feeding you into two directions one is things that you agree
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with it just keeps feeding you things you like and you agree with and then the other one is like
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fear-driven content because both of those things like spend more time allow you to spend more time
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on platform but that's like an incentive problem because like the more time you spend on platform
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the more these creators will get paid and the more the platform gets advertising dollars
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so i i think today's social media is very problematic and everyone has to like go to
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the comment section and scroll down to like see what people was really thinking but i mean i
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pretty much built that's the thesis around my startup it's like what if we can create a more
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honest internet what if we can share what people are really thinking instead of just like the
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performance performative information out there like i i do believe internet can be better and
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we can create better incentive alignment for people to be more honest and like not just so
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performative on the internet and maybe that will change how we think about social media but going
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back to like what you said which is like protecting your girlfriend from certain brain rot you know
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like just watching things repeatedly um i i i think that's valid um i also only just downloaded
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tiktok for like my my my business um and i think the fact that there's like no way to train your
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own algorithm is is kind of problematic because like we are just passively consuming and just
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letting the platforms tell us what to think i think that's problematic i agree with this point
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I do agree that social media is damaging I think that it's fine if your partner wants you to delete
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a certain social media however I do not think that it is okay for your partner to pick and
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choose your friends I think that if you are a grown-up if you're an adult you should be able
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to pick and choose who you know who's good for you and who's not disagree um okay well I think
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that if you're like social mentally stable you should be able to decide if this person is a good
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person like why would I let my boyfriend choose one of my best friends from childhood years just
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because men lead men are leading you you want a man to lead you Lexi Lexi you are so pandering
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right now Lexi you are supposed to tell you what Lexi you are pandering Lexi you're pandering you
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right now huh does your boyfriend lead a man leading you right now yeah I do he does he does
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a great job too shout out to him big shout out to him pandering but uh well okay so what if um
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what if your boyfriend makes a determination that this person is uh not good how about it's
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your husband how about then yes and it depends on the person as well okay i think that if i i would
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hear my husband out absolutely i would hear every side that he has out and i would talk to my friend
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about it and ultimately it's my decision okay I kind of trust myself enough to know who I should
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and shouldn't hang out with I feel like we learned that in elementary school so you wouldn't defer to
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your husband on it no I just said I would no but you said you would like take it into consideration
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let's say here how about this let's say your husband is being unreasonable yes like let's say
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there really isn't a threat or anything from this friendship yeah and he's maybe being irrational
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yeah but it's still really important to him yeah would you yield to him then or would you be like
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no you're wrong like let's say he's genuinely just like he is factually wrong yeah i think
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you get rid of the friend or do you tell your husband to fuck off not like that but no i think
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that it's important that i would stand my ground and i would tell my husband yeah okay so in all
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situations where my girlfriend is being irrational well i would say i would say for the man i should
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stand my ground if she's being irrational well i don't know what if my girlfriend doesn't want
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to kill a spider i think that's irrational to have a a apprehension to killing spiders to not
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kill a spider yeah i love killing spiders okay psycho cool i think there are solutions to every
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problem i think that compromise can be made on any point of time but so what if she's like there's a
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little mouse and she jumps up on the stool in the kitchen yeah tom and jerry um i think that's a
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rational behavior i think for you that might be irrational i think if she has a genuine fear of
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rodents i think getting away from the rodent might be the rational decision well women will like jump
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up on a chair even if the rodent isn't coming for them yeah so like the rodent is like going in the
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opposite direction oh my god and i don't mean to say this in a like general point of view but i've
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genuinely seen some men do that too and sometimes a man might get surprised yeah yeah surprised
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in the context yeah i don't know like look if you walk into a spider web that's going to be
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alarming like oh fuck yeah like you you're gonna fucking flinch if you walk through a spider web
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and your face gets if it's fucking on you or something but um i don't know i think i think
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i don't know where i'm going with my argument on this one i actually you forgot i'm not sure where
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i'm going i mean i was just gonna say even if the the man's desire is irrational actually i don't
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know do i want to defend i don't know if i want to defend like that position uh well it's like okay
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if it's such a big deal to them and it's like it depends how important it is to you yeah i agree
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I'm trying to say the same thing I think so it's like let's say like think maybe maybe this is
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a thing I don't know if this is maps on your husband has a preference for you wearing purple
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socks yep and it makes no sense yeah and you prefer orange socks or something I don't know
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but it's like you want to make him happy and it's like this makes no sense why the fuck would you
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want me to just wear purple socks he's like i don't know i like when you wear purple socks
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it it gives me a boner whatever i don't know and you're like okay well i don't normally want to
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only wear purple socks not really in style yeah yeah and then you fucking wear the purple socks
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though because you want to make your husband happy yeah yeah it's irrational it's completely
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irrational i don't know yeah i need to get up for a moment you guys can i don't know talk about
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something interesting don't make it boring i know it's difficult when the male presence leaves the
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table to wow i am plenty of male presence will you bow when you get up i know it's difficult
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maybe i need to give you guys a prompt so not to bore the audience before i leave here for a few
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minutes um what should you guys what should you i should what should you guys talk about while i'm
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gone um well maybe you seem to disagree with some of the things said um you know what here
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if anybody can recollect one of the like crazy dating stories that you've sent me maybe without
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me prompting it you can just go into that i think you have one maybe you could share like
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one or two of your crazy you punched a dude in a dick in the dick oh i did yeah sorry oh yeah
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so i'm gonna get up uh you can share one of your stories if anybody else has a story you can share
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it uh go ahead tell us more okay so when i was with my ex we were together for over five years
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and kind of towards like the end of our relationship he started smoking meth oh so he
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became pretty like psychotic and like scary yes yeah
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yeah I don't know and so I moved in with my parents to try to kind of slowly break it off
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which is still took a while but at night I would put my phone on do not disturb because there are
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times where he would just blow my phone up like for no reason like always thought I was cheating
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even though I wasn't so he showed up at my house like in the middle of the night and walked into
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my room and my little sister she was five at the time was sleeping in bed with me and he like went
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up to her and like shook her like really hard oh my god and like woke her up and like scared her
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and it woke me up so i just punched him right in the dick i don't know it was just my first
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reaction honestly he deserved it i thought you're a hero so that's crazy why why is it so easy to
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get drugs in america how did he even how did he even start doing this girl i have what can you
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not get in america i don't know why or how he started doing it but yeah like i've had i when
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i went to australia for a year to model i went and so many australians were so fascinated by the
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fact that you can go to walmart and you can buy a gun and a sandwich and milk you can buy a gun
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you can buy a gun at walmart does it work it does indeed it yeah it's crazy america's crazy
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walmart stepping it up okay yeah damn any other crazy dating stories yeah yeah so for me i did a
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really fucking famous guy before really yeah so he's super famous and then he even flew back from
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his trip just to celebrate birthday for me so i feel like i feel in love really you know
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yeah yeah it's crazy and i found out he has more than 20 girls at same time oh my god but did you
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think you guys were monogamous like is that what you what he told you um no no okay then i also
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feel like it's okay yeah same yeah right i don't know it might be hurtful but if you guys weren't
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exclusive then yeah but he said to me um I only have you right now right right now for like 10
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minutes for like the next 10 seconds like right that was kind of honest I feel like I had a similar
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story to you because I also like dated someone that was pretty like famous and um it was like
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my first like relationship when I moved to LA and I literally like fell in love with him so hard and
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I really thought like that like I was his girl like I know that we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend
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but like I thought I was like his only one because that's like what he was saying and like
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how he made me feel and then um I realized like it was so embarrassing like I brought like my
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girl bus friend to like meet him for the first time um and we like pull up to his house and we
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like go into his house and um like I've been to his house like a million times and I opened the
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door to his bedroom and I swear to god there was like 30 girls in his room I'm not kidding and
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there was three girls like sleeping in his bed like asleep and like I just was like what the
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fuck and like to be honest like when I was dating him like everyone was telling me like oh he's like
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such a hoe like he's known in LA for like being a hoe and I always defended him I was like no he's
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not like that like you don't even know him you never met him like you're just seeing shit on
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social media you know what I mean and I was like it was so embarrassing because I was like telling
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that to like my girlfriend because she was like the main person that was saying that but like she
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never met him so I was like and it was the it was the first time that like they met and um I like
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was so upset and i just like ended up leaving like with her like right away it was so awkward but
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it was like halloween so he was trying to make it seem like it was like a halloween party but
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what i don't understand was like why is there three girls asleep in your bed
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how did they all fit 30 girls in your room that's crazy that's wild he has a massive
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i'm impressed like see what he has like a really big house is he white yeah he's white
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so that's he's so well i hope that we weren't dating the same person because
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oh my god because you were like he had 20 girls and it was like
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oh i cannot say name drop him please where in la were you in la a little
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I think he's the first initial of the first name.
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Not that old, but not like 20 years old, but young.
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what's his name start with like what letter oh no no thank god
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that would have been really funny though guys mine was genuinely so much worse like and it was
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a first date and i just got back from the first date he dropped me off outside my house and then
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he turned to me and he said can I just pee on you really quick oh my god and I went what like
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why do they all do that like what why do they all do that like it's so weird like why does that
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always happen to me he's like yeah I don't think there's anybody around and I was like yeah there's
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no one around because it's like 3 a.m like I'm trying to get home and he was like just let me
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give you a little golden shower really where all right I got it what oh never either that's
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happen every time yeah maybe maybe another day guys want to pee on you yeah yeah like eventually
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in a relationship never on like a first date or something that's weird as fuck i like touched
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but like eventually like dead ass no i was just kidding i was just kidding
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yeah what is that like what like men in the pee pee fetish yeah that's a no for me the golden
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shower no and it's not fun it's not fun it's gross because how can you let on no i just said
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yeah maybe another time i was just trying to get away from the situation yeah another time yeah
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do they like pee into your mouth no where do they pee isn't that a thing i wouldn't i i yeah
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yeah some things man he smelled like balls but like i just put that aside because
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i don't know i'm a good person every time i've ever taken a shower with a man he's asked to pee
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with or they just start peeing in the shower which has been every boyfriend and i'm just like well
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now it smells like piss in here and it's warm it's just like what is wrong with you and everything's
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what what is wrong with you wait what camera are we on what is wrong with you there we go i'm glad
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nobody ever suggested that to me yeah what's the weirdest thing anyone has suggested to you
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yeah i mean honestly i can't think of anything my dating life is extremely not even race play
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what i've only dated black people okay that makes sense oh you think i'm with the white man yeah
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okay a lot of people think that what is that race play is like kind of when basically mostly
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happens when a white guy and a black girl are together and the white guy wants her to act as
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a slave during sex or maybe it's the opposite way around maybe he wants to be the slave you know
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wait a slave a slit like you know like historically correct i guess i don't know
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that's insane wait i have like a crazy story like um um so like my my my ex-boyfriend like
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he liked like putting on like masks and stuff like scream masks and like like like doing that
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and he would, like, pretend to, like, kidnap me or, like, scare me.
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I just like being submissive, and I just thought that that was, like, a cute thing that it's
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not cute, but, like, I just thought it was hot.
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and actually like my first picture that ever went viral on instagram it was like a picture of me and
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him and he was like wearing like the screen mask and he was like holding me up and like it it went
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viral and like that's how i started like getting oh my god who the hell
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exhilarating story chloe lexi read this for us
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lexi i'll still smack the fuck out of you just pop that dump truck like your friend earlier
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because i know that's where you like it tell your friend sammy she can get smacked also
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why do asians like cheetah fit because it looked good on our skin tone yellow skin tone look good
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All right, Bass Thor, thank you for the super chat.
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Reminder, if you guys want, $10 to display your message, $100 for a batched read, $200
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uh thank you guys a lot of birthday wishes too appreciate it thank you thank you uh Val thank
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for the thank you appreciate it all right right back to this um I feel like I overheard something
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back there that I wanted to argue about but whatever I lost my thing I I lost it was it
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the peeing I was gonna say that nah I don't really want to talk about that oh my god as soon as I go
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oh well this this does kind of bring me back quickly and we're not going to linger on this
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topic too long because it's not super interesting but the Gwyneth Paltrow thing and uh how she's
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like revealing she's she's not nobody like these are celebrities and celebrities have a greater
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usually a much greater investment to keeping certain intimate details private um I mean
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normal regular people also want to keep things private but usually who they date don't have a
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platform to like widely distribute intimate details about them and i think there's a difference
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between men and women like maybe i don't know if it's a double standard but i don't think i could
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ever imagine brad pitt going on the podcast not that he even goes on podcasts as far as i know
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and like oh yeah you know fucking uh jennifer amiston like her pussy was tight and um yeah
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like fucking gwyneth paltrow like fucking loose pussy like not that to be fair like i'm being a
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bit exaggerated here i don't think when gwyneth paltrow was saying this stuff i don't think it
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was that bad but i still think it was a bit of a a bit of a sharing of a detail that was private
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i don't know so so i don't know what do you guys think what did she say yeah what was the response
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She said something along the lines of how Brad Pitt, I forgot what she said about Brad Pitt, but she said, like, Ben, he was so technically good or some fucking weird shit like that.
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Like, he was technically very skilled in the bed.
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I was like, and look, she didn't reveal anything.
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She wasn't like, OK, well, Ben's dick is this big, you know, et cetera, et cetera.
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But I do think bringing it to a more realistic level, I do think that, and maybe, well, let me ask this question.
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When you're hanging out with your gal pals, when you're talking with your girlfriends, and let's say you get with a new guy or, you know, maybe it's even your boyfriend.
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Do you guys, and be honest, please, do you guys talk about sex?
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But do you talk, do you reveal private details about your sex life?
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But, like, the only thing I would ever say is, like, it was really good.
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But, like, I don't tell them, like, details or, like, anything like that.
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Because I feel like that's between you and the person you're with.
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But I do feel like there's a good amount of women who do get into details.
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Dirty, okay, so what he said to you during sex?
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you send you send your female friends videos of you fucking do the men know that you're
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like recording it what the man knows he knows he's recording too he wants record a sex video first
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okay but you send it to your girl group girlfriend this is a bit unusual like i don't know if
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i know girls talk about sex but like yeah to show them a video of you have you done it
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no i have not like that's different like i that's beyond like a girl showing her
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i would almost expect that more of the man like check check it out i'm fucking some chick like
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like i feel like that might be a bit i still think it's cringe as fuck for men to do that
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but i think it'd be a bit more common but it's fucking cringe it seems almost somewhat
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odder for a woman to do it for some reason i don't know why okay so you'd show
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aren't women like grossed out by no a little bit i don't know maybe not okay personally if
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one of my friends sent them like them getting real to me i'd be like dog
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yeah no it's like weird right like you'd be like i don't want to see your pussy bro
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we share to each other okay oh so she also sends you her sex tape yeah are you guys like together
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together yeah are you guys what we mean together like lesbians no are you sure
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we're great great that's interesting um wow okay well no i kind of don't like that i mean that's
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that's yeah that's something else but just the talking i don't really like that i i don't think
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it i think uh and i think women do you guys think us men do you think we talk about sex in the way
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that you guys talk about sex no no yeah i i do i do i think that you guys do i've seen a male
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group chat before so i know a male group chat yeah like uh yeah dude like a male group chat
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i'm a bit older so okay so like a snap group chat and it's genuinely the worst things that
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they've ever talked about in their lives it's like multiple naked girls multiple dick pics
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probably multiple just whatever you could send in a group chat that's what's in a male snapchat
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group chat and i've seen all of it i'm actually yeah that's that's pretty wild it's really sad
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but yeah i don't know maybe it's younger guys are in toxic group chats or whatever um nathan
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did you just raise your hand are you in a toxic group chat nathan nathan what the fuck nathan
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bro yeah but he's like he's a fucking yeah but that's what i'm talking about that that's literally
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the age i'm talking about i'm only 22 okay fair enough yeah see fair enough however as in i'm not
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saying that men never do this like men definitely fucking do some crazy shit um as a general
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observation between a comparison of men and women i think women more so are sharing uh verbally
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sharing details about you know okay the next day after the first night with a new guy oh my god
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tell us what happened and like i can tell you at least from my perspective i only represent i don't
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know how many men i represent but first off they don't know anything like if i'm hanging out with
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my male friends i could have just fucked the hottest woman ever the night before they're not
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they don't know i might i might not even tell them i'm going out on a date they might so they
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might not even know that but if i did hook up with her it wouldn't the most it would ever be
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hey man how'd it go with becky yesterday oh it's good that's it now if it was bad maybe i might
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like bad in the sense that she i don't know she showed up to the date fucking drunk and like
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uh vomited or something i might be like oh you know she's fucking on drugs fucking
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threw up like i might say share that but like if it goes good like say we have sex hook up whatever
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i am not just good oh it was good that's all he's getting he's not getting details he's not
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getting this whereas y'all women i feel like you're okay dick size you're gonna talk about the
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sex a little bit i don't know wait can i say something about what you were saying about
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showing like videos and stuff like um well it's like not exactly the same but like um it was
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literally like yesterday or like the day before um i was like streaming with um clavicular and um
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his like best friend was like streaming also and like both of their chats were like saying like
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oh like chloe yummy leaks like spamming it and like putting like bro shut the fuck up oh my god
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i know what you're doing come on that's ridiculous what do you mean i'm i'm trying
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bro i know what you're doing that's ridiculous i'm literally not what do you okay finish your
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fucking point then why are you so mad at me bro you're doing this thing like here i'm uh what's
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that fucking girl's name can i like please finish because you don't even know what i'm trying to say
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make sure not to look at the look up the spider costume video i'm not even make sure not to look
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up the the the the spider-man really upsetting and i'm trying to like tell you how i felt and
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like i'm being like vulnerable right now i'm not trying to like no i'm not trying to do that but
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um his like best friend like was like oh like he just kept bringing it up and um i didn't really
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like understand what was going on and he like clicked on the link and um it was like this video
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of me like um when i was like 17 and um what now you're talking about c sam what the fuck dude
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actually fucking retarded and like i don't want to hear your c sam story bro i don't even know
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what i don't want to hear your fucking c sam story i don't know what that is i'm not gonna
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even fucking i don't even want to say the fucking words super super upset and i like ran out and i
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started crying in the bathroom and um like clav's girlfriend came in and she was like hey like are
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you okay like what's going on and um like i showed her like the video or whatever and like we she
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like made me feel better about it like she was like it's not that bad like um and it was just
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like really embarrassing like um and she was like oh like this happened to me before like
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it's okay like um and like holy fucking buzzkill holy fucking buzzkill bro what are you doing
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i'm trying to tell you what what happened to me the other day what the fuck because like actually
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a lot of people know about it and i keep getting like messages about it and it was just reminding
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me because like it was similar like oh great thank you for the buzzkill great love it i don't
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understand what i did wrong like let me just start telling a story that involves underage
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fucking criminal material and let me start crying about how traumatic it is how is that not buzzkill
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okay sorry brian i didn't mean to i was just i didn't know like sorry i'm sorry i didn't mean
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Let me just bring it to shit that's going to make me cry.
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Like that's something that I'm dealing with
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Like what the fuck like it was literally yesterday
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but hold on are you talking vanilla are you talking classic like are you talking back in
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like 2009 or some shit or i don't know when wrath came out or are you talking like 20
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are you talking a few years ago because world first technically like world first technically is
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like the late 2000s or some shit i don't even know all right sorry chloe but i i don't want
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to talk about CSAM and trauma shit sorry I didn't mean I didn't know that you were gonna react that
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way I just thought that it was like and I don't know what CSAM is like what is that bro I don't
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think you can say it on here I don't even want to fucking say it it's like it's just it's bad
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for the platforms i don't want to even like have like surrounding topics about no worries uh
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it's just like such a buzzkill it has like i had no idea like i'm sorry
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all right okay i'll move it on um here let's do this i'll wait until everyone's back or no i'll
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have to get into notes until everyone's back at the table all right uh let's see here we're gonna
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do uh who here is anybody here like more liberal um like more liberal democrat anybody like almost
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nobody everyone you voted for trump uh no i didn't vote i wasn't here would you have voted for trump
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probably not okay well you're can't vote no liberal yes okay kamal did you vote for kamala
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i was in australia so i actually didn't get time to vote okay don't they have like the
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can't you still vote i guess even if you're overseas i guess i don't know uh okay lexi
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what about you i didn't vote liberal liberal i've never voted never voted i can't no
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i don't know okay uh who believes in reparations for black people anybody what does that mean
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why are you just pointing at me dog because you're liberal because you're liberal i was
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no because you're looking at other okay but i thought the question was for everybody but well
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usually only liberal people are in favor of reparations yeah but that was what if i responded
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to yes but i didn't respond though so i'm no i'm asking if you're in favor no what about you
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reparations should we pay reparations to black people i don't i don't know what you mean like
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like because of historical native americans like how they get like designated like certain amounts
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of like land and like free college or whatever it could be but i'm monetary reparations because
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because of the historic injustices perpetrated on uh on black americans uh well back then but uh
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should uh reparations be paid to black americans today um i'm gonna say i'm gonna say yes like if
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there's if there's room if there's room for for it like it it makes sense like the same way they
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do with like the native americans then i would say yes okay so yeah so we do have a half black
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woman and a black woman here i'm going to insist that you get your wallet and empty your cash uh
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she only gets she's blasian so she only gets 50 but you're full black so do you have can you give
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her some cash right now right i'm not the government i'm balling on a budget no but i mean
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so the government would tax people but so i'm asking you to voluntarily pay reparations oh yeah
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yeah no i don't have any cash on me otherwise i'd make it rain in here venmo they they take
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venmo they take cash out oh yeah oh yeah i'm not i feel like the i feel like the government should
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be i don't know if people individually should be like being called out like that but i think there
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should be a budget for it i'm with you sorry guys i tried i tried to get you guys some reparations
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Trying to give you guys a come up a little bit.
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Zaza, you write that you're a former communist, feminist, anti-white, racist.
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So what did you used to believe very quickly, if you want to just lay that out?
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and what do you believe now if you want to just kind of bullet point it yeah um well i used to
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believe i was owed reparations due to slavery i believe that i couldn't be racist towards white
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people because i didn't have systemic power um i believed in black lives matter george floyd all
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that stuff i believed in transgenderism feminism pretty much everything that was black words
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and now say black words yeah that was actually a 40 and slip but yeah backwards and uh now i'm
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pretty much the opposite of everything i'm not for the feminism i'm not for the training stuff
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i'm not for black lives matter or reparations and none of it just yes let it go yes what happened
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that's awesome what happened yeah okay um well i had a situation back in chicago where i moved
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in an apartment and they originally told me i'd be assigned a roommate of the same gender to share
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a bathroom they actually ended up assigning me a transgender as a roommate and i only found out
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it was a transgender because the toilet seat was being left up consistently and when I reached out
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to my black housing manager she told me they weren't allowed to discriminate and I could move
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down the hallway to another room if I had a problem and when she used the word discriminate
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it made me think about politics so I started looking up just what in politics made it legal
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for a man to be in a woman's space and all of a sudden I'm seeing all the evil racist Republican
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white people are the ones with common sense who don't want this weirdness going on so I found
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myself um voting for trump after never ever did you bring a hat i didn't bring you should have
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brought the maga hat and your your husband is he's also red-pilled and based yep we went through the
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whole situation together with the transgender person so okay and we're both black so gotcha
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okay there you go uh rock and roll and uh you became a wife at 23 i did after being a feminist
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your whole life did okay all right cool cool uh let's see here uh we're gonna go around the table
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on some of the questionnaire stuff so uh alexis you agree that with the statement women can't be
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sexist towards men why is that um i don't really know they can't be sexist well i wouldn't want a
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man to be sexist towards me so i think it should go both ways no no it's not that it's um do women
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the the tech industry for example or like the business industry i feel like men get a lot more
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of helping hands and like networking capabilities than women do can i have you tilt your mic up a
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little bit towards you yeah so just yeah uh chloe why do you say that
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scoot your chair in oh my god okay men are more privileged in society than women you agree with
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the statement why is that um sorry can you repeat the question so back to you uh you said uh said
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that in the tech industry that men are um favored by each other so i feel like networking or getting
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any kind of like helping hand or like sense of direction from other people in the industry um i
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feel like it's it's given a lot more easily to a man than a woman it's just something I noticed as
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well trying to get into these new um and is this just a vibes is this like a vibes thing
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yeah it's something I've just I've just noticed um it's they they seem to like you know give
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handouts a little bit easier to men get the handouts yeah yeah yeah uh and are you in the
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tech industry? I had just started getting myself into it a little bit. I was building an AI chat
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bot. I taught myself how to do coding on chat GPT. So I was kind of branching into it. And then I
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realized it's just this really big rat race. And a lot of the men are really just kind of like
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superseding. And it's not really something where they're like, quick to open it up to a female.
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I think it's just jealousy, really, from what I noticed.
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But if it is the case that these men, while being both jealous but also sexist,
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believe that men are better than women wouldn't the jealousy be stronger towards other men
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and then they would thus have a higher incentive to try to block out other men if they view men
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as being superior and being greater competition they're definitely still in competition with one
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another but there's still I feel like there's from what I've seen it seems like they have like
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this more of like a friends kind of like a clicky you know like a football team kind of thing vibe
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you know what i mean like they're still all on the same team even though they're competing with
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each other to be better right the dorky coding nerds are like a football team it's like a rat
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race it's pretty serious these people that i've what i've seen these people are going for it so
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you I'm just confused so chat GPT the thing that's helping you code your AI app is it like not
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allowing you to code it because you're a woman well it got to a point where like I definitely
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needed somebody that had more of like a degree you know um I like I don't know everything I was
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just you know winging it on my own um and so I had reached out to a bunch of like uh different tech
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companies and i had gotten in touch with them but it seemed like that it was more of just like a
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like a man's a man's race you know so i just kind of just put it on the back burner because i
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realized um i'm not about to fight everybody out here to get this rolling what was the evidence
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that it was the man's race it's just like i asked for like assistance with like different things
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and they were just not really they're not they weren't like they weren't down to help me out
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so you said you reached out to companies yeah there was to help you for free no I was looking
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to like work with them so you're just like a random person who doesn't know how to code
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and you're using chat gpt yeah and you're reaching out what are the some of the companies you reach
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what's the biggest company you reached out to um so it was i'm trying to remember what it's called
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i have the app on my phone but um they were kind of doing like a only fans thing but with ai
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is what they were trying to do um and so i was reaching out to them because i was trying to code
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for like a facetime video calling app where it would be like an interface where it's like you're
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facetiming with me but it's an ai version of myself but it was like spicy spicy chatting right
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but it gets to a point with like the um platforms that are currently available where it's like they
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block a lot of like the adult content with like the ai stuff so i was working with like i was
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working to talk with these people to get me on their team to um to continue like working on
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trying to expand on that because it's not currently something that's there what was the benefit they
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would get um well i showed them like all of my work that i had gone done and they were telling
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me that they were like shocked that i was able to get that far and that i was even able to get
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chat gpt to produce the code the coding that it was producing for me so i realized it's sociology
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skills if you don't know how to communicate with a person which most people don't they're not able
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to use these ai interfaces to their fullest potential i mean there's literally uh ai programs
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that will build, like, entire apps and websites for you.
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So, I mean, I could definitely see somebody getting that far with the use of AI,
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You're a smart guy, but not very many people have the level of social skills
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that it takes to really program these things to get the output that you're looking for.
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the tech company that didn't end up working with you told you you had the skills there was a big
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it was a big rat race going on like it was very busy um and so like they had they had like multiple
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different platforms that they were trying to launch out a singular time so i mean i'm not
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surprised i didn't hear back from them like who am i anyway i'm surprised you guys even had me on
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here. Well, yeah, but so usually companies are in the, they have an interest in developing their
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product. And so I was trying to jump on their bandwagon. Yeah. That's not offering value. So
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in order to like, this is the thing with, with business, like people are not typically going to
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uh, just offer their labor and time for free. Like they need to benefit too. So it's, it's always
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interesting sometimes. And I don't know why companies do this, but like a company will be
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like, reach out to me. And they're like, Brian, we want you to promote this thing. And they list
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out all the things they want me to do. And buried at the very bottom is like, here's your, the
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benefit. I think it would be much better serving. And this perhaps is a life lesson for all of you.
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First off, you should lead with how I'm going to benefit them. So the company should like,
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not just what they want, but what they're giving. And these companies that want to sponsor you,
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they're like, how about a hundred dollars? I'm like, yeah, get fucked. So like companies that
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are focused on their mission are not going to like do some charity work for you and like help
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you with your coding project um i don't think that's evidence of sexism that's just like
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business one oh it's just business like i'm not here to help you can we help each other
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is there a value exchange that's happening but i'm not here to just like be your tutor
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you know yeah no I so I don't think that's sexism yeah no it was more of just like the one lady that
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I was speaking to like she kept saying to me like it seemed like their tech team that they had
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working on the stuff that I was trying to get on board with them with and be an asset as well
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um was it was an all men's group and so she was like you know like what the men all you know
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they're busy and you know it's um I don't know it's just kind of the vibe that I got um but I
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totally agree with what you're saying as well. Like, you know, you can't, you have to be an
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asset out here. You can't just, you know, ask for a charity handout for sure.
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Well, yeah. I mean, you said you went to these companies asking for help developing your product.
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What's in it for them. They made a determination that there was no value proposition. I don't
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think it has to do with the fact that you're a woman. There was just no value. Like if a woman
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had some thing that she was developing and the company was like, okay, there's value here.
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then i don't see why they would turn it down simply because she's a woman um but to counter
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your point here i actually think in the tech industry there's massive amounts of affirmative
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action it's like okay this person's actually not qualified or not as qualified as the male
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counterparts but because we're trying to be woke living it most of these tech jobs are in california
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there's like fucking diversity initiatives there's affirmative action there's quotas and actually i
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would argue that there's some push to like put women in these roles who otherwise aren't uh quite
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as skilled perhaps as their male counterparts i mean you see this like i the best example i
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shifting it off of gender i would shift it to race so it's like okay you have harvard which is
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rejecting asian applicants so they they can let in no offense to anybody here but so that they can
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let in african americans who don't have near the level of uh like test scoring or anything else
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for the sake of diversity at harvard and so is that um while it's a benefit to the african
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americans is it a similar discrimination towards the asian american student who arguably worked
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harder yeah okay that didn't make sense to you i guess no no it does make sense to me i just don't
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feel like it's my place to really comment on that comment on what um like what what they're what
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they're doing with like diversity and whatnot i just don't i don't really know if that's my place
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to like make commentary on it because you're white i don't know i just i don't know but um
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i don't know it was just my experience with like your networking in terms of like what
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what i was handed to i actually think truthfully uh on the networking topic but i do want to come
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back to the not your place thing i actually think when it comes to networking um due to i think
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women have to your point have typically stronger social skills that men do women are typically
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more sociable um this is actually really fantastic for networking purposes because that is
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being sociable uh women are more have stronger social attunement than do men especially in the
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tech space uh most tech men in tech are not typically known for their social prowess they're
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typically a bit introverted. They're typically awkward, socially awkward. Um, many of them are
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autistic, not strong. I don't think there's a strong, uh, impression that men in the tech
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industry have like strong social prowess. Um, so I actually think that'd be advantageous,
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excuse me, advantageous as a woman in the tech industry, because women are more socially attuned
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typically generally than men are. Uh, but also I think women are kind of viewed more favorably by
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both men and women. They've done studies where women have a strong in-group bias for other women
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and then men have an out-group bias for women. So, I mean, this idea that there's some sort of
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networking discrimination that's occurring towards women, I just, I don't believe it,
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But why don't you, why can't you comment because you're white on the Harvard thing that I said?
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uh slavery was bad oh 100 the slavery of african americans was bad i'm not black of any people
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is really right i understand that but i don't see why just because you're white that you can't
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comment like make comment on uh things to do with another race no i can't i just i didn't feel like
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it was um i don't know i just didn't feel like but so okay so have you ever had an abortion
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Well, I was going to say, so there are women who, for example, are pro-choice, who have not had abortions.
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I'm trying to keep my head in the game over here.
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I don't know if I'm going to get anywhere with this.
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All right, men are more privileged in society than women.
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i don't have an answer i just think you just think it to be the case okay uh well 18 women
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do not have equal rights in the usa to which you agree to which you agree uh niobe you agree
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let's see if there's anything else nope that's it i think i agree to that one you yeah you agree
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that women do not have equal rights to men oh i did you not mean so you think men and women have
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equal rights yes in america okay so why is that no i don't think so like don't have equal rights
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i mean if you go to to get a job and interview i think more company will they they want to choose
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the men more than the women do you go on job interviews frequently yeah i hear from from my
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friend yeah she went like three four interview before and the company just chose the other men
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thing you think that uh-huh i mean the thing that i would point to on this particular topic
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is that you have diversity initiatives in mass in like small companies medium companies large
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companies massive corporations and then you also have affirmative action so this idea that like
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women can't get job interviews or whatever actually you know what there's a recent study
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they did where man i don't know if we can maybe you can google this nathan and get off your phone
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um but uh so they they had they did a study where they can they put uh a woman's name on the resume
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and a male's name on the resume and women were actually more likely to get like a callback for
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an interview uh when it was a female and the resumes were were controlled so they were the
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same the resumes were exact same qualifications and women if there was a female name on the
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resume she was way more likely to get uh an interview than a man maybe you can find that
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study nathan and i think it's not just for the job so for for the whole world not in the u.s
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it's just unfair between women and men you know like unfair you said yeah if you find like some
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So a societal double standard that exists doesn't necessarily have to do with if women are more likely to be perceived in a negative way when they're promiscuous as compared to men, unfair as this may be, it wouldn't be a reflection of unequal rights.
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I'll talk to you about that, but is there anything on the rights front that?
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Okay, so just Nathan, were you able to find the thing?
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You can find the resume, male name, female name.
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Apparently, historically, they've done studies on this that show the opposite of what I'm saying.
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But I did see a study recently that women, I wish I could find it, that if there was a female name on the resume, they had a higher chance of getting an interview.
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But I can't find it either, Nathan, so no worry there.
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Women don't have equal rights to men in the USA.
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I just think they're, like I said, like I was making a point before.
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I feel like it's been a statistic that's long been talked about.
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I feel like pretty much yearly where people have made commentary on the fact that men make more on average than women do, even when they're in the same job for us.
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Well, that's just one example of like an extension of how we're unfairly treated.
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Well, so I'm happy to engage with you on the wage gap, which has been debunked.
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But that wouldn't even have to do with rights, though.
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So you would agree that legally, from a legal perspective, there's not...
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In fact, it's been legislated against, if you can demonstrate legally, you can bring it to a court of law.
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And if you can show evidence or proof that you're being discriminated against when it comes to pay,
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and you're being paid less than men you can bring a lawsuit against your employer so there's
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protections legally so you do have like legal protections that would be a right but there's
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nothing in when it comes when we're talking about rights we're talking about the government we're
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talking about laws yeah so you can find unequal treatment in society that doesn't mean that women
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don't have equal rights. Okay. Yeah. I didn't know you could, um, you could, the, they could
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go, um, I didn't realize how easy it was to just pick up a lawsuit on an employer when you're
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over the wage gap. So I didn't realize that was such a, um, if you, well, such a no law
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thing lawsuits, no lawsuit is typically easy, but if you can, if you can prove it, then you can bring
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a lawsuit now the thing is though again i'm i'm not asking you about unfair treatment by
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corporations necessarily although it doesn't even exist um i'm asking you equal about rights
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so for example this would be this would be well hold on well no not well
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you could argue if like that the government has some duty to protect workers
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and so if the government was protecting certain worker classes over others this could be something
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somewhat related to do with rights however it's already been legislated so there are laws that
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you cannot pay somebody less because they're black you can't pay somebody less because of
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certain other characteristics you can't pay them less because they're a woman
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anti-discrimination laws right you can't refuse to hire somebody because they're black or a woman
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like you can't that can't be the basis for your refusal to hire them or to pay them a fair wage
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right but i'm looking for rights so for example like men have a right to own firearms and women
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don't that would be unequal rights right so you think women don't have equal rights what are the
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rights that men have that women don't? I think outside of the right to equal pay, I don't have
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an argument for you. Now, when you say right to equal pay, do you mean equal work? It means like
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if you and I, we both have the same level of experience and capabilities and we apply for
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the same job and they give you a higher rate of pay than they would give me specifically because
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you're a man um then then that was that would be that would be not um that would be not equal
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you've missed out a few variables here what if i simply negotiated better than you
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no that's why i say if we have the same capabilities and i know experience yes right
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not even so even if arguably hold on on the same level arguably even if the woman is more skilled
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than me like with her the skill would be i don't know she's a fucking lawyer maybe lawyer is a bad
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example she's a she's an architect but i'm a way better negotiator and she's very very much not
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say she's really say she's way better than me but i negotiated for a better wage that wouldn't be
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sexism. That's, that's fair. That's, it's probable too. You know, you could be a lot
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more savvy with your words and you know, they, they favored you over me for that. You know,
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it's possible a hundred percent. Companies have a company want to like get away with
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paying obvious. Well, uh, I was going to say they want to get away with paying their employees as
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little as possible. That's not always the case. That's a bit, I think it's a bit more nuanced
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than that. But, um, like usually a lot of times companies aren't, aren't like, they're not always
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going to be like, okay, they're going to offer you their maximum level compensation right away.
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They might go like 10, 20% below what their max would actually be. See if you bite. Whereas like
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there could be a scenario where a woman says, Oh my God, yes, I'll take $80,000, but their max was
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$100,000 and the man might be like, I'd like $95,000, that wouldn't be evidence of sexism
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or discrimination. The woman just failed to negotiate. In the same way that the woman could
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negotiate and the male could just be like, oh, $80,000, that sounds great. It wouldn't be sexism,
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it's just failure to negotiate. 100%. I think there's specific situations in which
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it's understandable. But the other variable you forgot there in the wage gap conversation is,
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are we working the same hours? Because men, generally speaking, work more than women.
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Yeah, men work more hours. Men are more likely to work overtime. Men are more likely to work
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graveyard shift, which tends to, comparatively speaking, pay better than like more favorable,
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like better lifestyle hours. That's great. I didn't know that.
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Yeah. So the wage gap you're referring to, it's basically comparing all, like the simple wage
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gap which you hear like 73 cents to the dollar that's not like a woman in the same geographical
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location working the same hours at the same company doing the exact same job having the
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same education level with the same like tenure the same experience level it's comparing all the
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earnings it's two pools all the money that men make all the money that women make so this factors
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in like part women work part-time more frequently than men do i believe um it's it's factoring in
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the, the, the husband who works a full-time job and the mom who doesn't work at all. It's factoring
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in all that. So when you start controlling for all these variables, time worked, location,
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geography, overtime, hazard pay, uh, the types of fields, like men tend to go, are you, I don't know
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if she's shaking her head, like she disagrees. I don't know. You start factoring in for all the
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variables that, that men are more likely to go into certain fields. Like women are more likely
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to be, uh, either like going into, I don't know, nursing or being a secretary or being a teacher,
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uh, more of the helping professions, which sometimes can be well-paid, but oftentimes
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not typically, um, maybe moving like medicine, nursing aside. Um, whereas men tend to go more
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so into the higher paid professions engineering women typically don't want to be engineers
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yeah i i don't really know i don't know about that but it's definitely a spectrum and you know
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and i think what did you study what did you study in college um i studied for a bachelor business
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and sociology i studied um a professional tennis instructor i also did a personal trainer course
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And then I was also doing nursing in Australia prior to returning to America.
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So ultimately, though, the wage gap largely comes down to a couple factors.
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Well, I mean, there's a lot of variables, but there's a couple things here.
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So women take time off work to have children.
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So, yeah, I think in some places they are giving men time off now, too, when their partner's pregnant, which I think is great.
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Sure. But usually not as much time as women are. And women will it's not just maternity leave.
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Women are taking months, years off of work so that they can have children and like at least be there during those earlier years when it's kind of the most important.
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and there's not like, you know, those first five years or whatever, you can't just ship them off
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to school typically. So there's that. But I mean, the other argument I like to make from a dating
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perspective is putting aside the fact that men work more dangerous jobs, men work the less
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desirable jobs, men work more overtime, men work more hours, men are more likely to be willing to
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relocate to undesirable geographical regions. Men are more likely to do all sorts of things.
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There's more workplace deaths, more workplace injuries. All these things start to stack up
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as to why men make more money. One of the big things that doesn't get factored in
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is as follows. Almost every single one of you said men should pay on first aids.
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Men should provide and protect doesn't really matter to this. Men should provide.
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So I would argue that one of the reasons the wage gap exists that often gets overlooked in the discourse about wage gap is a sociological one, is a mating one, is a dating one.
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If there's a burden that exists on men to show up financially in some capacity that women are completely alleviated from, pay for the first date, provide,
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there's no pressure on women to pay for first dates maybe the most you might encounter is 50 50
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uh but even then there's it's very rare for ever a man to ever have the expectation
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that the woman's going to pick up the entire bill the same way men pick up
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the entire bill when it comes to providing you can be broke as a woman it's not going to stop
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you from getting dick now look broke men still get pussy sometimes they lie about their job
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sometimes they're just good looking or bringing something else to the table
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it's way harder if you're a broke man to date
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as compared to a broke woman like you can be broke as a woman
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next like no we don't think that way so arguably the reason the wage gap exists is because of women
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the wage gap exists because of women's sexist gender role expectations of men men should pay
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on first dates there won't be a second date if he doesn't pay for the date pressure if that places
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is a pressure on men, men are more motivated then. If the pathway to me getting pussy
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or to getting love or to getting a girlfriend or to marrying a woman
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is my financial ability or stability, there's a pressure on me that exists to
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make money to get that job now look women have a pressure everybody has a pressure to survive
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you need to take care of your you need to take care of your housing food so that pressure exists
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on women as it does men but there's an additional pressure that exists on men that's massive
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and that's the pressure to perform the pressure to get a woman
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one of the ways you can make yourself more appealing to women is to be economically
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attractive i'm not saying that's all women just to be clear women care about more than just men's
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money i'm not going to say women are gold diggers i'm not saying that but uh you can't pay for the
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date you've got a beater car you don't have a car you're living at your parents house
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all of a sudden it's a less appealing man to a woman i mean it's possible someone in that
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position could be down on their luck, right? But I think for more, you know, nine times out of 10,
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they're probably just, it looks more as though they're not putting in as much effort into their
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way of life and for a better way of living. And I think that's what it comes down to and why it's
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maybe more difficult for them. Well, I'm not really interested in the difficulty with which
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people navigate their life. But what I am talking here about is the existence of the wage gap.
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And I think a big, like I said, overlooked component is that women, women use a man's
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financial, uh, standing as a metric of judgment and men almost never like now there's like
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bum dudes who use women, but in terms of a man's attraction to a woman, like it's never
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a factor really like there's guys who will date a woman out of necessity.
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because they're bums and they'll date her because she's got money and that would benefit his life
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circumstance but it's not a necessary requirement for attraction but for some women it and even you
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know it's interesting uh if a woman makes a lot of money the guy also has to make good money
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typically like she doesn't now they're obviously there's outliers and sugar mamas and all this
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shit most women who have like a good career they're not really ready to hold down like some
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fucking guy who works at the who's a barista but i'll tell you what a man who's a lawyer
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who's a doctor he sees a beautiful barista he doesn't care about her money he'll date her
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he doesn't care now i'm not look sometimes women do that too but i think the for the wage gap here
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i guess trying to finally arrive at the point i do see the uh indy i'm gonna i'm gonna pull it up
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in just a moment i just wanted to follow uh finish my point and then thor i see your tts too i'm
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gonna pull them up in just a moment men if you guys make money we don't derive any benefit
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like women really aren't out here simping to that degree sometimes okay great we've been dating for
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a year you're gonna get me a birthday present great thank you uh y'all will have men literally
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spending hundreds, if not thousands of dollars on you and they just met you. And you're not even
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giving some of these dudes pussy. Wait, wait, let me just finish my thought. And so it's like,
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okay, great. The woman makes money. Well, even if I was inclined to care about a woman, a woman's
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money, you guys don't share your resources with us in the same way. So great. You make $300,000 a
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year. I ain't going to see any of that, but you women date a guy who makes $300,000 a year. Hey,
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look, there's some stingy dudes. He's going to buy you. There's stingy dudes, but like there's a
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comparatively speaking, a guy who makes a mill versus a woman who makes a mill, that man's going
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to give that woman more of that than the woman is going to give some man that money. So I don't even
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receive a benefit from dating y'all. But final thing on the wage gap, it's women. Because of
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your standard for men i would argue that we are more motivated because men are highly highly
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motivated romantically and sexually that's why men pay for porn that's why men pay for prostitutes
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do women pay for prostitutes like like very rarely like it's it does happen but it's super rare
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that like can any of you ever see yourself spending money for dick i just know you don't
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well you don't have to but you would never do it you would never do it men are more sexually
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motivated so just to get sex we have to be generally speaking we got to be offering something
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financially i'm again not saying that's all that women care about and especially like if you're a
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younger woman i think younger women care less because you're in college all the guys your age
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unless you're dating older men not but then again younger women especially if you're in Miami or
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some shit yeah man they're a lot of these girls are dating like slightly older guys like mid-20s
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late their late 20s uh even into their 30s um you're 21 you're dating a 37 year old or some
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shit like I'm assuming he's not broke right he's not broke you got expensive taste um so it's like
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shit i lost my train of thought um it's like fuck what was i saying can i just can i say real quick
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wait wait before i lose it hold on okay i got this it's coming back it's coming back to me
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it's like we're more yeah we're more motivated like if it if for me to get a girlfriend to get
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laid to and that that person's i want a family okay i want to have kids i have to be there
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financially in a way women don't, then arguably as men are very, men are very motivated, trust me
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to get sex. Maybe you guys know this. I don't know if you know this men really want to get sex.
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And we, if, if it means putting our best foot forward and being attractive in all the ways
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that we can be attractive and it's not just money, but it could be our status. It could be
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like it's status too. So it's like, okay, he's a doctor. That's, that's attractive to a woman
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And it's attractive, not just because of the money that he makes, but also the status that comes with it.
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It's like there's a prestige to being a doctor, that sort of thing.
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And then the status, like if a guy reaches a higher level, like men have a greater drive to rise in the hierarchy.
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but it it's not a motivate getting sex from men getting relationships from men it's not a money
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motivation like you getting more money i think women know this doesn't like that's not going to
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help you get a better guy there's there's a spectrum of men out here for sure like i was
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i was trying to tell you like my my first boyfriend like i like i paid for basically
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everything like I booked him a flight and a whole trip for his 18th birthday to Miami
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you know gifts dinners you know little little things and it's like he was still stealing my
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money under under the table as well at the same time you know but it's like he would also steal
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from his job and it's like he didn't really have a good job and he spent most of his time sitting
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online trying to hit up other females to cheat on me and looking at yeezy you know or mercedes cars
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he couldn't afford to buy you know yes there's a spectrum of men just as there's a spectrum of
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women out here and i think it really comes down at the end of the day that we really all just do
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our due diligence to do right by each other okay so i i'm not going to dispute that there are i mean
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you were dating a scumbag but that yes there are men who will like latch on to a female and
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maybe she's doing better than him he maybe might use her for money i'm not saying that this doesn't
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happen however what i'm talking like let's say like it's not going to make you more attractive
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to him your money like you you're not more attractive to him uh and this phenomenon that
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you're describing i would argue goes more so one way and just because that does happen
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it doesn't disprove the general rule here that uh yes like most men are not looking at a woman
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and like oh if she doesn't pay for the first date then there's not going to be a second date like
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men aren't gonna think that way yeah you know what um she uh she's like fucking beautiful and
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like she you know she she's got a good personality but you know she's kind of she's a barista and
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she's a fast food worker like men don't care about that it's like is she pleasant do I like
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her is she good looking like that's it money is so is like not even a consideration for us
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so this it remember this stems to the wage gap why is it that men make more money well
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women place a massive mating pressure on men like for example would you agree that men really value
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perhaps above a lot appearance now i look also i think men care about personality too
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like men don't want to date like a bitch right you know they want to date a pleasant girl
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but would you say like one of the big things that men exalt that men care about is a woman's
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appearance yes would you agree that this creates a pressure for example to women to wear makeup
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yes to get plastic surgery yes to alter their bodies yes botox lip filler certain clothing
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push-up bras fucking the butt pads or whatever the fuck liposuction bbls all this shit some
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Now some of that shit's for the female gaze, I guess.
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And so in that same way, men put a, now women, some of the, the beauty industry stuff, I
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think that's, that's almost women doing it to other women to a degree, but obviously
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we know women are motivated, also motivated to find a life partner, get into a relationship,
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Truthfully, one of like the best things you can do, be more physically attractive.
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and like be nice and don't be a bitch but uh so okay so that's i mean the cosmetic industry
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is a multi trillion billion dollar industry men don't put on makeup usually and so
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there's a pressure a mating pressure on women because y'all are competing it life is a
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competition right you're competing how can i how can i be more attractive how can i look better
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so there's a pressure placed on women to look a certain way you know whatever it is right
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and there's criticisms of that i think there's criticisms but then this mating pressure
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makes you behave a certain way and if it is the case that a man being insanely wealthy
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gives him better options when it comes to dating which again it's not the only thing women care
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about but i think a rich man generally fares a little better than a broke man when it comes to
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dating men will do the thing men will be competitive like women are more in tune with
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putting on makeup to make themselves like women place more emphasis on beauty and on looks than
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men do so there's a mating pressure that exists for women to look beautiful and there's a mating
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pressure on men to make money to to have status to be successful anyways i'm kind of fucking
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rambling i feel like i should wrap up um i'll just support your argument here for a second
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i actually feel like uh the social pressure on men like what's interesting is like the gender
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the the wage gap is closing in but women still expect the traditional gender role like uh like
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service from men um so like in china for example a man is you know expected to like put a down
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payment on for the house uh buy a car right provide in all of these ways but with the gender
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gap with the wage gap closing in men no longer have like privilege to earn more and i think
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that's only going to get worse because like the danger the dangerous jobs that you're talking
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about the night shifts a lot of them will be replaced by ai or like different kind of robotics
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machinery and i think very soon they will no longer be something that gives men a wage advantage
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either so i actually feel like men are kind of in like a pickle yeah so that's that's my well also
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the big thing i mean there's like so many so much nuance to the wage gap conversation um i mean the
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big thing is also you actually compare single men to single women it's actually pretty much equal
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Asian women actually out earn Asian or Asian women, I think. Asian women out earn white men.
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So they're like, if you start looking like race comparisons or whatever, that's another component.
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The big thing that they noticed was married men just out earn everybody. Married men out earn
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everybody. But yeah, there is that mating pressure. And essentially men are very motivated and men
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are going to be more motivated like for example if you want to be if you want to do x and you're
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more motivated to do x like there's a good chance you're going to just be better at x thing you know
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so anyways i'm going to move it off that topic though uh nothing else for women do not have
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equal rights i guess okay uh here let's do this what's the or somebody she's in the bathroom
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oh is she okay i'm gonna wait until she's back uh to get into this can i scoot in just like a tiny
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bit yeah uh okay sorry for the i'm so sorry indy my bad i fucked up
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sorry sorry for the delay timby underscore indy donated one thousand dollars
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happy birthday brian thank you man ladies stop hurrying no appreciate it bro yo indy i'm sorry
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alcoholic? We've talked about this. Remember I stabbed
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myself you have to remember i've had like 3 000 women on the show i don't remember anything that
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y'all mine was a crazy story though i'm like half paying attention also during the show
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that's why you forget everything pretty much um all right thank you uh base thor appreciate the
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tts sorry for the delay on that to both of you uh oh katagen i recognize that name thank you for
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the membership in thank you bro appreciate it uh who wants champagne no champagne shower
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definitely not uh yes yes wait hold on how old are you me too 22 come on now i know i like say 20
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i don't drink oh okay so no i'll have a little bit no for chloe yes what about you in the corner
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We have chlorine, lantern, we want the gifted subs.
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Here, while I'm doing that, let me pull this up.
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Chair one, what happens when you press F12 when you have your web browser open and visible on screen?
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she i'm like i can't um when i'm on to it i'm on to it and then i put it aside i forget things but
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i'm very quick at picking it back up again so i don't know don't come at me
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i'm excited though i'm happy for you make money money make money
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the only time i drink alcohol is for champagne pops i do not why the fuck are you talking back
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there lexi get fucked i'm sorry at full volume by the way grabbing at full volume jeez
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sorry okay all right um where were we i forgot uh what is the minimum yearly income to be your
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future husband starting with you um i'm pretty open i just want somebody that's nice okay
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you charge men for dates but you charge you charge thousands of green lantern thank you
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you charge thousands of dollars for men to go on dates with you but it doesn't matter you'll just
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they're really nice they're nicer all right that's fine okay so zero dollars minimum
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um no whatever okay i'm saying at least 15 million to 20 million 50 hold on usd yes usd
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a year a year okay hold on let me 15 say it again 15 million to 20 million a year
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i'm gonna be honest there's a lot of hot chinese women i mean i just need to be
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similar or like more than my dad because my dad is fucking rich
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okay girl uh how much does your dad make a year i think something around um nine million
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Okay, if he lives in the top of Beverly Hills, yeah, for sure.
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Okay, but it's not exactly like a million dudes.
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But how many men in the world make, the world, by the way, I'm not even saying the USA, 15 to 20 million USD per year?
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Why would people in the other parts of the world make USD?
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Okay. Top 0.01% of earners worldwide. 0.01%. Are you a 0.01% woman?
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She's getting a little bit of help from a scalpel
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But, I mean, I don't know what's underneath, but getting a lot of, getting a little assistance from Miss Dr. Nip Tuck.
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But, okay, I'm sorry, but like 15 to 20 mil a year?
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15 to 20, okay, like, do you have plastic surgery?
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Man, I put like 100,000 on it, like, dead ass.
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Wait, wait, wait, but, okay, wait, hold on, let me, let me, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, guys, guys, so I asked this question on the questionnaire, but oftentimes I'm not looking at it, and I just let them fucking answer, hold on, this is what she put on the questionnaire, she downgraded it, what did you write on the questionnaire?
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bro this is guys this is what if you make 15 no sorry 20 million to 100 million dollars
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this is this is your options um you get a uh plastic chinese barbie doll
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who who fucked two men last week oh my god and recorded um what else why are you so mean to me
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and she's lying about her age too that's what you get you get you that's what you get that's what
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you get shit man i'm not lying about my age i think if if you make if you make 15 to 20 million
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a year you get you should get a virgin who's like a nine out of ten at least i think that's a fair
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trade-off i don't know shit all right well all right she doesn't want kids though so okay now
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this super wealthy guy super wealthy guy so okay it's like does he oh boy all right i'm coming back
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to you. All right. Minimum yearly income. What did, tell me what you wrote on the paper. I put
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a hundred thousand. Okay. All right. What about you? Me? Yeah. Into the mic. What I would want
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my man to make. Um, I would want him to make, um, I really don't have like a preference. Can you
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take your mic down? Yeah. Good. Good. Um, I don't really have, what did you write? Just tell me.
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Oh, I didn't write anything. I didn't have a paper. Oh yeah. Yeah. Okay. What, yeah. What is it then?
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So, I don't really have, like, a preference of, like, what he would really make.
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So, like, I think, like, honestly, like, financial, like, um.
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Like, when they have, like, a financial drive is more important than, like, actually having money.
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He's super ambitious, but he works at McDonald's.
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Nope, that's not what you put on the questionnaire.
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My husband or my boyfriend got mad last time when I put 60K because she didn't make 60K.
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yes okay okay so my reasoning for that my past relationship I paid for everything he didn't pay
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for anything every trip every everything sure so I've told myself since that relationship
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I need to be with somebody who can provide if not the same amount as me or at least give
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same effort but I think 300,000 is a lot because I was with somebody that made like nothing and I
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supported him but i want somebody who has like drive and if something were to happen to me they
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could take care of me and vice versa okay uh well you did write 300,000 on the thing now you're
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reducing it to 200,000 it's still high it's not insanely high like chloe over here or like you
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which is i'm sorry that i mean look i can bicker a little bit over 200,000 but 20 million to 100
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million that's ridiculous that's completely ridiculous it's like how that's that's like
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such a small portion of men like how many like plastic barbie chinese dolls are there there's
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like a fuck ton right like i i mean what are you gonna do do you have photos like before all the
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surgery like what do you look like here i got some can i give you makeup so surgy huh you think
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i'm over like i do a lot of surgery well i don't know how much surgery but like here watch and i'm
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just looking at you from the front you've had a nose job right oh my god chin chin nose no
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well the under eye might just be makeup makeup makeup it's just makeup i mean i don't know if
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she has the eyelid surgery that um often like koreans or many asian people get but um i don't
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Anything, like, for the hips or, you know, lipo, anything like that?
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If you move and they look, bounce, they're real.
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Let's just put it on the big screen for us all to see.
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you haven't had like the the what's it called the hip dip plastic surgery or whatever i'm not
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that kind of crazy okay it's like sculpture i don't think it's a surgery they just put something
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in and like fill it with a filler your hip dips yeah they're very pretty or your butt
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thank you he's being so mean to me he's just he's jealous wait a second
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that one picture looked a little but it could be i mean i don't know if it's like
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photoshopping but like that doesn't look fake asians asians always photoshop their pictures
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i'm telling you that right now every single picture you've seen of an asian person on
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instagram is photoshopped like that doesn't that looks fake bro that specifically doesn't
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like east asia yeah like definitely later i'm sorry they're white watching that's like for real
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like like they don't not like their face so so you you only filter not the skin tone like i fuck
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with my skin tone i'm not gonna lie thanks for that contribution um so you like only 50 percent
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filter your shit because you're 50 no i don't i probably should i would if i knew how bro i don't
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no okay i mean all right take it as if they're real take it as a compliment i guess but um
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i'm telling you i know wait wait wait wait hold on side oh no look at the side
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does that not look does that not look fake which picture where
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They look faker online than they do in person.
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Sorry to comment on your boobs a million times, but.
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Anyways, regardless of the fakeness or realness of your tits,
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$20 million to $100 million a year is insane.
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Your minimum on there of your range is half the money that your 57-year-old dad makes.
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I was going to see if you wanted to give me some money
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yeah you know i'm starving artist uh it's hard out here for the whatever podcast so hard uh okay
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well twenty thousand dollars i love that for her no for real no wonder if i had a daughter and i
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was that rich i'm sorry i'm not giving her twenty thousand dollars a month that's crazy i ain't paying
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She can, like, I would, if I was that wealthy, I'd, like, help her with rent and maybe give some allowance.
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You can support your kids, but it's, like, $20,000 a month?
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15 to 20 okay yeah well does he pay for other he pays for other things too right it's like the rent
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is contained you should give me some of that money though her rent money yeah wait how much is your
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rent um it's almost like um 3 800 yeah okay that's it that's all you spend on rent yeah you get you
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make you get 20k allowance and i use it for other like travel or something and makeup things and
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clothes when did what age did you get the fake titties huh what what uh chloe what age did you
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get the fake titties let's get into the table um oh i gotta yeah eat the thing um i was 18
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cool thank you for sharing uh $20,000 a month damn yeah huh okay I forgot where I was gonna
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go with that I don't even know what's you know what okay here really quick and then I gotta
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step away for a few minutes as representative of the male delegation I'm going to extend to you
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in uh in china yes he's not chinese right he is chinese taibo oh my god i hate fucking chinese
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oh my god what you're chinese how could you hate chinese chinese man i mean i hate fucking
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you know to be fair i've been a little sharp with her she's a good sport but uh you don't
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like chinese no why is that they're like personality not good and they're oh wait okay
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I think people can have genitalia preferences
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I personally only date women with a large labia
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I like how everybody at the table is just like kind of
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no damn okay so here's the male male delegation offer his name is uh i don't know any chinese
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names so we're just gonna call him jackie that's his jackie that's his american name jack jackie
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jackie no fuck that we're gonna name him what's like a common like you know when the chinese
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people that come here they take like an english or american name kevin yeah that's like vietnamese
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though yeah all the vietnamese are kevin yeah uh okay so uh fucking kevin uh i don't know kevin
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i'm trying to think of my knowledge of chinese geography i actually know
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a couple different fucking cities in china but it's actually i'm fucking
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tired and it's evading me no no i wasn't going to name one of the major cities
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wait fuck uh zang fuck i don't know whatever he lives in china right he lives in fucking china
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and uh he owns a successful printing company they print signs for like neon signs and it
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does pretty well like he makes a million dollars a year a million dollar a million one million
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This offer, by the way, expires when you turn 30.
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Ashlyn, you want a guy who makes $200,000 a year, $300,000 a year.
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We're prepared to offer you a guy named Rupert.
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and he he didn't go to college but he did go to trade school um he's thinking of transitioning not
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well not in that way he's he's going to start uh he wants to go and uh get he wants to be an
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electrician so he's going to become an electrician out there in boise idaho he owns a house he owns
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a truck he owns three chickens one goat and he makes
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eighty thousand dollars a year and he's five eleven
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and he has a he has some tattoos well i know i'm just i'm not saying these are negative things i'm
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just saying what his traits are okay uh and he does drink he's not an alcoholic
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but he does like to every day from work he does like to kick back with a six pack of
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that's like that's an alcoholic six no that's not like every day he's like 230 relax so anyways
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do you accept this offer that the male delegation that's our maximum offer that's like a rough
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offer that's a that's the maximum offer and his name is rupert well he goes by he goes by
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rj because he's rupert jr so he goes by rj is he willing to relocate or i gotta live in boise
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idaho he's willing to relocate that's our final offer as representative you didn't tell me the
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size you told her oh I didn't know you oh damn I mean you said he has thick arms and big hands
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yeah um the girth is there but the length is average that's totally fine okay um of course
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tell tell like when does this offer well you're 30 right yeah like a day it expires in 14 days
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you have 14 days um I would probably say no only because there's like certain things that are like
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a no for me it's not the money it's not the relocating okay just all things are no so you
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reject the offer yeah all right well we wish you good luck but thank you i think you might be tough
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now chloe the offer for you chowington is as follows we are going to set you up with a looks
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maxer but it's not clav it's not that other dude you fucked or made out with or whatever
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i didn't bug him he kissed me non-consensual no
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it's not clav it's not that guy we are offering up androgenic
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the guy with the wig who's that i i honestly like the offer expires at 25
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um i think that he's like hot but it's just like the wig is throwing me off dang do you accept the
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offer yeah okay deal done all right i need to step away for five minutes you guys can i don't know
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talk about something interesting maybe i feel like i got gypped with my offer could have been a little
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more a little more fair offer i think yeah she also had like the lowest amount you know
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like financially it's okay true like i mean you know what we could maybe bump his income like
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like you are stacked so i feel like that's a value did you say i'm stacked stacked yes
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personality also oh well i mean and i'm pleasant to be around are you i'm very you gotta quit the
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only fans if no i agree if i'm gonna have a real real serious relationship i would quit all right
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guys talk about something interesting while i'm gone if it's not interesting i'm let's all talk
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about i'm gonna pull out i'm gonna pull out a squirt gun and oh gosh squirt it all over us
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i'm kidding there is no squirt gun in the studio oh my god i can't go ahead
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something interesting i know it's hard i know you know you women are not very talkative you
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guys don't talk much and who you know it's hard to get a woman to talk you know it's really
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it's a it's a tough task but yeah i know it's difficult um us men we're just yappers you know
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so what can i say all right well good luck um what made you guys
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yeah what made you guys all decide to like come on huh what made you guys decide to join the
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podcast um i think i had heard about it one of my friends went on a long time ago you probably
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have seen her delilah she got like kicked out for like oh my god being on her tamagotchi yeah
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yeah and so like i think after that and just like watching her blow up from that and then
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all of that stuff kind of made me want to come on here and also like just hearing all of the
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different girls opinions was really nice yes yeah i agree that's like a really good like outlook
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yeah yeah i i mean how about everyone else um i saw the application on backstage.com the first time
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and then i applied and then now they just asked me to come back so i was like yeah fuck it whatever
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I like it here yeah the first time I came on someone got kicked off really yeah it was like
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this random girl I didn't know her I just came on the show and you know it's kind of like how
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I just came over here like it was just like a whole panel of like random people so she got
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kicked off the second time I come over here I'm I well the first time I also did bring a friend
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with me but everything was chill this time I've like you know kind of extended a branch to this
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girl like that I didn't really know and it kind of like backfired so I'm just like I don't know
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you can't control that yeah i feel like actually like coming on to the podcast i feel like it's
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it has like benefits for just like um you know like exposure you can talk to other people and
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it's just like i just overall i like the podcast in general i feel like brian is a really good
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host also so i really like i feel grateful to him for even like you know letting us come on here
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and having us i love to annoy brian it's like so funny i'm scared to do that i'm really don't
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he's funny so he'll get it unless you're mean interesting to be a part of like because i feel
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like i'm like just a really basic girl that lives in indiana so i was like oh so i messaged brian
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and i didn't expect him to like reply and then i was like oh okay yeah why why we're here the
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podcast oh my god you have some base political takes what um is that why you came on to talk
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about your base political takes okay um well one of my base political takes is that i believe
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women shouldn't vote women should not as a woman i believe that and i stand on that i would if i
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what about immigration what do you think about immigration i don't want the borders to be open
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And people who are not supposed to be here need to leave.
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Well, if you vote with the same thing what your husband does, then do you consider that as women voting?
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I think it's redundant for me to vote if we align.
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Because then you get double the votes in the household.
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So for the time being, because voting is still kind of a thing for women, I mean, I'll vote with my husband.
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i agree with that yeah i think that like women should follow their man you know i feel like
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that's like a big part of like today's dating society is like we're having problems because
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women don't want to submit to men we want to be all girl boss oh i'm independent all this stuff
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and then you're we're ending up single i agree that's something i'm working on yeah i think we
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want a man to do all these things we also have to allow it yeah i think that women shouldn't be not
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allowed to vote i think everyone should maybe have like an intelligence test or something of
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that sort and should be like more knowledgeable about politics and like the current stuff that's
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why i don't vote because i don't really watch any of that yeah i mean like if you don't if you can't
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name three countries like off the top of your head don't vote i can't believe people can't name
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three countries don't vote and i've seen so many i'm like so all of the countries in the world and
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you just can't do that or no okay yeah i don't think you should vote if you genuinely don't
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know basic math if you don't know history genuine usa history like the reason i said this initially
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was because i i discovered that i was told to be a real feminist you have to kind of co-sign the
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ideology of transgenderism oh my gosh my mind there are a lot of women out here who are willing
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to vote to eclipse their own rights right that makes the whole thing i agree 100 with that i
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think that there shouldn't be trans people in sports or bathrooms or genuinely in public spaces
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I think that it should be I don't know should not exist honestly I think that because it does
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exist there has to be like somewhere for them to go I don't think like a guy with a penis should
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be going into a woman's restroom that's fucking weird yeah but I mean what if they have the
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surgery they're presenting like a woman then it's like do you want to send them into the male one
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They should have, like, maybe a separate bathroom.
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Well, honestly, I think, like, with a, like, bathroom problem, like, such an easy solution
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would be, like, if every restroom was just, like, unisex, I'd add a lock.
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Or, like, if everywhere you go, it's, like, women, men, and a family restroom, like, that
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So, you can have, like, your own privacy, you know, like, two stalls, two locks, whoever
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goes in there just first come first serve you know how do you guys feel about like the unisex
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bathrooms like if we just got rid of the whole issue all together and we all just go in the same
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one I don't want to see ding dong slang and also like children still have to use a restroom
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so because I've been to like clubs that like um I only went to like a few clubs but this one club
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that i went to in new york there was like men and women in the same like um restroom and like it was
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mad weird like guys were like trying to hit on me in the bathroom i felt like super vulnerable and
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like not safe at all like yeah i think it's weird how air one has that where it's like conjoined
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where you wash your hands and it's like bathroom bathroom i think the lock thing like solves that
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like if it were just separate bathrooms with a lock on it that's smart i agree yeah or if every
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place had a family restroom like that would be so convenient even for like families or moms you know
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like you can go change your child wherever you want to like yeah it doesn't have to be a whole
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thing where you have to like take them through public and they're like seeing these things that
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you don't want to expose your child to like yeah i don't know i agree also separate but almost the
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same urinals are weird why are y'all pissing in a line with your things hanging out by each other
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that is so gay yeah you guys just like stare at them and like compete for who finishes faster
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like what's going on do you guys look there's a few men in this room please answer yeah
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this guy told me um the guy that um like i was talking to at coachella he said that he went to
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the bathroom and justin bieber was like peeing right next to him oh my god i would have looked
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that's okay no justin bieber literally like looks at him like he said that he stared like right at
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his dick and he was like damn you're tall as fuck like and then he just started getting lit as fuck
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and like his friends like justin's friends came in the bathroom and they were like let's fucking go
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hayley you need to get up control on that girl what the fuck i thought that was so funny like
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I was a guy I'd love that I tell everybody yeah that's crazy right that is like a big flex
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okay what else um I don't know if this would be inappropriate but how do you guys feel about the
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n-word do you guys think that only black people can say it I don't even think they should say
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because it was like used to be like disrespectful you know so it's like for me I feel like I feel
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like it's just horrible I hate I hate that it's a thing you know what I mean like I'm not in any
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place to tell anybody like what they can like whatever it makes you happy as long as you're
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not hurting anybody right but it's like for me it's just I feel like we could we're we should
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be at a place where we move with more respect for ourselves you know just being above them yeah
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are you offended if a non-black person says not at all okay i'm actually offended if they choose
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not to say it because i'm around really around yeah like you're censoring yourself for what
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reason so far in our car blasting taya and he says you don't need permission for me i don't want to
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say no i just like honestly i just don't think it looks right like if i said it right now it just
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doesn't look right like it physically it's like it's like if you see a child saying a bad word
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like cursing like it just doesn't look right you know it doesn't look right when black people say
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it like either way i just like i just don't think it's just like it's just like it's not very
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feminine like for me to say it like like i just like don't think it brings out it doesn't bring
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out my best characteristics like it just doesn't feel right could you explain how you feel about
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it because maybe that would be good for us to know so like i like i said earlier i used to be
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like a real like democrat liberal type so i would clock anybody who said it that wasn't black but
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now i don't care i realized that just having that that pressure to feel like you got to tell
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somebody what they can and can't say even if you really don't care on the inside it's just it's a
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game it's performative and i feel like a lot of black people really don't care that much they
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pretend to do it because it's like their role yeah so i like the whole whole thing like i
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completely agree with you i think that if anything you not saying the n-word because i'm around is
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kind of racist because like yo like now you're not like now you're choosing not to say because
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of me like that's still discrimination bro i'm still getting discriminated against
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bro yeah it's just getting too confusing so at this point i feel like just say it yeah
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you're an adult i think every slur is inherently bad but i think also like if one is okay then all
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of them have to be okay you know yeah if you're saying like retard and other things that i
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probably can't say on here just rip it bro just rip it um say stuff like that so sorry but if you
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can say those things and people normalize all that then like whatever or it's not okay at all
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and none of them are okay yeah like just any type of slur for a group yeah because black people from
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what i understand a lot of black people aren't even on the same page when it comes to who's
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allowed to say it there are some black people who would say she can't say it because she's mixed
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so yeah it's a mess it's not together and people are taking it seriously and it's like going in
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legislation and everything is stupid yeah and there are black people who say slurs all the
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time that don't apply to them and they think that they can do it because they're black yeah
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or like i've seen people do this all the time like literally growing up i've seen people do
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that all the time or say chink or it's like say like all these different things but like
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so i'm sorry i don't know i'm so sorry but like people say or make asian jokes but like they don't
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see it like like i don't know it's not like racist you want to just drop the hard r while
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you're at it i will i'm so sorry she said i will that's crazy oh man okay i anyways moving it on
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uh okay uh what how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date
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i'm five two i don't like my men under six foot
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okay so six foot maximum or sorry minimum my yeah my mistake okay what about you um i'm 165
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centimeters i think if a man like he's under 180 then he's not a man oh um she said 165 not 180
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okay i mean i would agree i would argue that i don't think your requirement of the man needs to
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be five for five foot nine or taller i don't think that that's uh like the average male height is
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five foot nine but your point about a man's not a man if he's shorter than five nine that's
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fucking ridiculous like obviously there are great men who are shorter than five foot nine
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you might not find them attractive or whatever but you're still a man
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you can be more of a you can be five foot five and be more of a man than the guy who's six foot
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three okay true you might look if you're not attracted to shorter men it is what it is women
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are attracted to tall men but it's like that's crazy like he's not a man because i don't like
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short men okay well you're are you less of a woman because you have lip filler
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oh my god oh my god i'm asking are you less of a woman because you have lip filler
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no okay well so but do you think men are less of men so like a do you think a gay man who's
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Six foot three is more of a man than, I don't know, like some hardworking, good-spirited, good-hearted man who's five foot five?
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I just need to find someone who is more than 180 centimeters.
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Guys, okay, so this is what you need to make $20 million to $100 million a year.
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And in exchange, you get a woman who doesn't want to have kids who might be barren.
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She was alluding to the fact that she might not even be able to actually even have children, even if she wanted.
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In fact, it's not even that if the guy's not tall enough, I don't think a 5'9 minimum is that crazy for a woman, given that that's like the average male height.
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but her her view of short men is you're not even a man you're not even a man you are subhuman
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if you're below five foot nine that is i find to be a bit objectionable
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i think 180 is 5 11 but not not that it makes any really oh really i literally googled 180
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centimeters to foot five foot nine or oh wait oh my god it's five point nine feet it's 5 11
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i am wrong actually okay hold on i i saw 5.9 and like retard brain was like five foot nine
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so yes it's 5.9 which would mean uh yes that is closer than i suppose to a five foot 11 so it is
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above the male uh okay so her view then just becomes more objectionable with this this
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correction i was almost being charitable there um good catch there i am actually retarded
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okay um that's a crazy take okay what about you i'm five five and i put five eight
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lexi um i'm four eleven and i would want my guy to be like five seven or taller
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I'm 5'8 I'd want the guy to be at least my height they're taller you said you don't care
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but that would be like my preference but I don't truly care okay what about you Chloe um I'm 5'7
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and just like 5'7 or taller next I'm 5'4 and a half I just put 5'7 next I'm 5'10 uh I think my
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lowest is five I have dated someone who's 5'8 but he kind of disappeared behind me in a mirror one
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time and that felt a little bit odd but i did date him i'm five one um i never had a height
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preference okay i'm five foot eight i like short little guys how old tells your husband five foot
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six boyfriend so you do you dominate him in the bedroom oh we'll define that
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i don't know do you boss him around do you tie him up do you no not tie him up okay but are you
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like dominant in the bedroom like on top like tell that wouldn't be just a girl being on top
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isn't necessarily like controlling like a like the man no i don't know whatever it depends on the day
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uh here we're gonna do this we have a uh okay sometimes she likes to do it oh wait really
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i need to see 10 follows i need to see three prime subs boys i'm holding the shit hostage
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wait what was the fucking accent I was going to do
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Nah, there was a new accent I wanted to do.
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Um, what's it called when you're playing a game and you intentionally fail?
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On a scale of zero to ten, rate your own looks.
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So, for example, I'll rate myself first so you know how the formatting should be.
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here's how i would like you to respond with your own rating uh face 4.5 body 4.5 total 4.5
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obviously they can be different i'm just went across the board uh so starting with you looks
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rating uh i probably say it says i can't pick seven that's what i wrote on my paper
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okay um i feel like i have a nice body too but you got me covered up in this t-shirt i guess
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that's okay they're not big enough that's okay maybe next time no it's because they were like
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two out was the thing so who is this hillary epstein gifted 10 i don't know if that's how
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10 subs over there on twitch okay um all right so oh wait hold on wait here read this
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oh what the heck uh alexis read this for me what the heck okay go ahead
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oh i already answered this oh you did i already pulled it okay i'm
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missed missed it then what happens did you answer it no i'm glad you missed it because i know you're
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gonna jump on there and flame me too did we actually pull this up yeah you did and she said
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i don't remember why do i not remember that you don't know what happens when you i can't i can't
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remember i don't know i don't know anything my brain's like empty right now i'm just i'm doing
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my best for my composure inspect element okay all right i just work here so okay looks ready
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looks no i said seven that's why i wrote on my paper face body total i'm just seven seven
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seven seven all right but be like face seven body seven total seven but you can't say seven
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so six or eight um i think i could get away with eight we could do it i could pass it you think
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yeah you can pick eight okay but i would appreciate if you said face eight body eight
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total eight face eight body eight personality 10
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personality 10 yeah all right what about you okay so face nine um body 9.5 because my boob is real
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Total, it means only the face and body together?
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So I would say face eight, body eight, personality eight, total eight.
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face six body six total six face i can't say 6.5 now no face six body six total six
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all right oh shit i should have written all those down um
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or okay well i guess i could use your answers on the questionnaire all right i'll give you
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guys my rating so okay you give yourself a uh seven we probably split here probably be good
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i'd give you five you give yourself a nine you're wearing a lot of makeup you're i don't know what
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that style is but it uh it's quite substantial it's hard for me to give you a rating without
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seeing your bare face um to be charitable though i'll you gave yourself a nine nine
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you you do have some procedures though so it's nine no ten i don't think it's just a nose job
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but um it's just the nose and eye oh you did do the eyelid surgery so just two the eyelid surgery
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is pretty minor but um i don't know i'm gonna have to are you down to take your makeup off
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later oh okay okay i can shoot a picture with all the makeup what about before the plastic surgery
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okay go get your phone uh what's her phone and then uh maybe bring hand it to her and then
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can you send the photos to the whatever instagram is it that one what yeah it's that one okay
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uh all right you gave yourself a 6.5 i think it was like a 7 yeah or a 7 uh let's see you're
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wearing fake contacts i don't know if you like the freckles are fake or tattooed makeup or tattoo
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I feel like I should give, like, one positive, one negative.
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Or I just get through the fucking ratings to go quicker.
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One positive, strong, like, very strong, above average lip aesthetics.
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I don't know if the lip status on Japanese, but okay, whatever.
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You got the fake, all the makeup and everything.
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i'm not gonna do body uh you gave yourself six in the face i don't even remember five overall i
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don't know what i gave you last time i don't even know i'd give you five to 5.5 you gave yourself
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uh 7.5 to eight or what did you say no i wanted to say 7.5 you said eight right but i said eight
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because you can't say 7.5 all right you said eight face i'd give you this is rough
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you have some like positives but some negatives too so i think you should add the body because
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the boobs make it higher i'm just doing facial aesthetics okay also i don't know if you'd want
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me to i'm not a boob guy i'm a labia guy so i understand you'd have to whip it out
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to get the body ready but i mean even just boob butt i'm a butt guy and oh okay i'm sorry
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sorry uh okay you gave yourself an eight i think i'd give you uh i'd give you five
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chloe you gave yourself a six well my face is a five oh face five i'd give you 5.5 face
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uh j dog jm you gave yourself you gave yourself a five can you take your glasses off momentarily
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Look at all that effort she did on her eye makeup
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And she's wearing glasses that fucking cover it
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Get a head ape for the sake of the podcast
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Like if you just tell her to take her glasses off
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spot on i give you five uh you gave yourself a six in the corner uh i would give you
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a four to a 4.5 uh zakiya you give your sorry i'm the terrible person okay uh you gave yourself a
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Most people are average looking, so yeah, it's a pretty
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facially facially my face is natural and like yeah okay doesn't that like
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i think but so okay five isn't ugly like five is average i feel like five is like yeah but
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you rated all of no no it's not like a school thing where like an f is like technically 50
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or whatever like c minus to 70 like if c is average we all look like very different
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The rating scale is different, but five is average.
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So if you're five, it doesn't mean you're not ugly.
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But he does sign girls to his OF management thing or whatever.
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Like, isn't this just out in the open that this is what he's doing?
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like didn't he i don't know if he admitted to it but isn't it out there i don't okay
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he's also going to become the leader of iran what well what's weird is in like i noticed in
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his earlier clips he would like kind of hate on only fans girls like he'd be like you do of
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l i mean it's just kind of somewhat surprising that now he's like literally
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i don't even know if is he i don't know the actual maybe people are making shit up there's
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a lot of like misinformation disinformation surrounding him but uh yeah i don't know
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anyways whatever uh you did you send the photos i'm sending right now so you send the photos
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we'll take it back without makeup okay and the last one you didn't send them i didn't oh wait
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don't don't change the angle leave it here
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fucking photo of a passport picture um permanent resident wait you have permanent resident status
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in the usa who's your dad whoa who's your dad what the fuck
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that was aggressive who's your daddy who's your daddy who's my daddy
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okay i'm gonna do i don't know if this is gonna load in the private chat i don't know if you i
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hope what the frig hold on all right we're gonna this photo is blurry and cropped uh
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i don't know if this is gonna work but see if you can pull that up private chat
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uh see if you can pull that up and then this is like yeah but i mean that's pretty heavy
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makeup too here you have it oh bro uh do you have it yeah okay go ahead show it
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all right so this is you we don't make up you're still wearing a little makeup it's like super
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blurry and there's a filter no it's i'm at the dream okay without makeup i swear is this before
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or after nose job after but your nose looked fine why did you get a nose job your nose was fine
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that's after the nose job and the last picture is before but still all right here you can also
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you can also i'm gonna send this in private chat too but i mean this is also heavily made up so
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uh scoot into the table a little bit scoot in all right let's see let's see what we're working
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you you're this is like professional photo shoot level fake contact lenses but yeah your nose is
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fine here why did you get a nose job now you just look i just want to get a nose job you're fine
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without the nose job your nose is fine what's wrong with your nose i want smaller nose like
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your nose is yo ladies doesn't did her nose look fine yeah it looks small what's wrong with her
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nose it looks fine but honestly she can get whatever she wants i like her nose now better
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though she can't get whatever she wants she needs to live in a patriarchy where men say
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where men say plastic surgery is bullshit do not buy into the mind virus of vanity
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and superficiality do not cut into your body do not uh go under anesthesia for the pure pursuit
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of vain beauty you are beautiful as you are i think she looks beautiful though huh i think
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she looks beautiful like yeah same yeah but you she you would also say she looks beautiful if
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she didn't have the nose job you can use the same explanation for circumcisions it's technically
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wait hold on but yeah there should wait hold on are you you think i'm like pro circumcision
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what no fuck circumcision there shouldn't be circumcision what oh yeah you thought i was
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going to be like oh yes we should circumcise my bad didn't nice try you thought you had something
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i did no fuck that we need to outlaw circumcision we need to make that shit illegal we need to make
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that shit illegal maybe there's sometimes medical reasons for it like there are you know if the guy
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I can't, I don't know, sometimes it's not retracting or some bullshit.
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If you're going to ask if I have, hold on, if you're going to ask about the skin around
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my dick, I think it's fair for me to ask if you have an innie or outie.
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uh i i am circumcised yes yeah yeah but what i don't know why that was it unconsensual
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well i mean can children like consent to getting vaccines like not really
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usually like you're well your parents make medical decisions for you when you're
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an infant like can i consent to getting my umbilical cord like i know i want to keep
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my umbilical cord fuck you doctor come out i come out the fucking moon looking like a this is
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actually how i i came out goddamn motherfucker i came out looking like this that's actually
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not this you guys kind of look related to be honest oh my god bro that's it for you but no
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it's like imagine i came out the womb and like i got this fucking umbilical cord like
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fucking here right is that a dick what the fuck guys i don't think brian lights me and i'm like
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And I come out, and I'm like, listen up, doctor.
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I don't want to toss it, so we're going to pass it down this way.
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That's like literally what your kid's going to look like.
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I'm not going to do it with the black child.
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oh what he couldn't do it yeah baby he has to do it to the white baby that's not equal
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what's happening all right back to the show she's chilling back to the show where were we
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talking about the looks ratings or whatever how are you enjoying the baby just thinking about it
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i want to sew sew her here dump it behind you like i did not too hard just behind you but not
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Can one of you, Tiffany, get it and then nurture it back to good home?
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Is this what you looked like when you were a child, Tiffany?
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just stupid prop on the show I've got all kinds of props
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Honestly, bump up the rating backwards hat on her.
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All right, let's blast through the rest of the questionnaire here.
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does anyone have any disagreements with me on any anything else i don't know i do what so last time
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i was on the episode you said that you don't like any rap music and i think that some rap music is
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good that's your do you want to talk about rap music well i just you said anything to disagree
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no hold on i don't think i said that because there is some rap music that i that i think is good
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could you like kanye west huh can you name some like songs you like i mean it it's mostly like
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uh more so 90s maybe some 2000s stuff i do not like modern rap uh fuck i mean there's like this
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is going to sound hilarious is it like a white guy who listens to pearl jam but um like shook ones
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by is that mob deep oh my god who is that wait wait is it mob deep or maybe it's someone wait
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mob deep shook ones is that it's mob deep mob shook ones part two should i should i wrap it
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let me see the lyrics oh my god please it's your birthday uh shook ones part two word up son word
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yeah yeah fuck it i'm doing it yeah well this is more so not wrapped the beginning the intro
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yeah to all the killers in the hundred dollar billas yeah i'm gonna intentionally do it as
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wide as possible for real whoa i can't say that word wait so i'll say
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oh my gosh for real nigga who ain't got no feelings wait
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the way she just says it so seriously and like monotone i got you stuck off the realness
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we be the infamous you heard us official queen's bridge murderers the mob comes equipped for
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in your face, stab your brain with your nose bone.
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There you go. Yeah, it's good. But, like, look,
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my life now sounds like oh my god i can't even understand what they're saying like rap was
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poetry rap had a poetic component to it now yeah there was like bitches and hoes and gang banging
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and drug dealing but even then like the 90s gang banging bitches stuff like it was still to a
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degree like you look at some jay-z stuff even when he was talking about pimping like it was at least
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it was still like lyrically gifted and now it's i don't know anyways whatever never mind i'm not
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gonna have a conversation about rap music we just did for 30 minutes all right thank you for wasting
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time then i'm sorry i was just mad because kanye west we got to hear you sing uh any disagreements
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from anybody else on any topics no no okay well uh we're gonna finish up the questionnaire we're
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gonna get some pre-show notes and then uh yeah so uh where do we begin let me see here hold on
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A woman should not be rejected because of her weight.
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The thing is it doesn't matter about the weight.
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Well, like let's say, so I guess the suggestion here, the idea here is like if a woman is fat, she should not be rejected because of her weight.
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And so do you think it's wrong for a man to reject a woman because she's fat?
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What about if this could even go the other way?
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What if she's, like, too skinny, like she's anorexic or something?
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Can't just reject women because of the face or the weight.
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So let me just remind you a few of your positions.
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You don't even seemingly want to date Asian men.
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you don't like men with small penises okay okay just not chinese men yeah uh you don't want to
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date men with small penises you will only date men in fact it's not just that you think men who
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are below uh 5 foot 11 180 centimeters are not real men so you're so that's a that's a physical
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thing that's a and men can't control their height women can control their weight so why is it
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why is it wrong to if you can reject a guy because of his height why can't a man reject a woman
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because of her weight i think it's different why is it different i would argue that it's
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more unjust or unfair to reject a guy because of his height because he can't control it at all
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than it would be to reject a woman because of her weight which is something that she has control over
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Now, to be clear, I think it's okay for women to have height preferences.
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I don't think it's wrong for a woman to, you know, have that preference.
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But it's also not wrong for men to have a weight preference.
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And also, not wrong for women to have a weight preference.
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No, I think if a man judge women, like, from the weight, it's just disrespectful.
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Don't you think it's disrespectful to judge a man based on his penis size?
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none of the women agree with you how does that make you feel are you maybe you're wrong on this
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i don't think so i just yeah okay so all right well do any other women think that it's wrong
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for a guy to reject a uh perhaps you might disagree with her double standard but do you
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think it's wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight anybody i think that if
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you tell the woman it's because of her weight that's messed up if you're like not you're you're
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fat. Sorry. Yeah. I don't think usually when you're rejecting some, by the way, rejection can
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occur. Like you haven't even talked to the person. It's like you're walking by somebody in the street
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maybe. And it's like you, Oh, I wouldn't date her. You're at a bar. You're at a party.
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You're on a dating app. Swipe, swipe. Yes. Swipe. No. Uh, that's where rejection can happen.
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I do agree with you that generally speaking, if you are letting somebody down,
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well i mean like the weight is immediate yeah unless she's like hiding it somehow sometimes
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women do that but you could probably i think it i think usually you can just reject somebody
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in a way that doesn't fully disclose the reason for rejection but if she asks
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like if she's like please be honest with me she'll probably get pissed off though i think
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you should probably lie she asked yeah you should lie i think you should probably lie
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Because then sometimes women are like, well, tell me, I'm not going to get mad, but like, tell me why you don't want to date me.
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I've had a situation like that where like, this girl, I had to let this girl down.
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She's like, oh, can you, you know, can you give me feedback?
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i was just like hey look um look i don't feel the need to uh really elucidate it further i just
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didn't feel like there was a connection and she lost her fucking mind yeah she she got bent on
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the shit she and she actually harassed me for a period of time after that like yeah so uh
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yeah i don't know where i'm going with that but um women want what we can't have like a girl has
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straight hair we want curly hair you know or like we see a girl in a happy relationship we're like
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oh i wish my man was a little more like that you know yeah but okay why so um men can't have any
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standards no girl damn i think is she a troll chad i think she's i don't think she is i just
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genuinely think her english is like not that good and she's responding with what she can that's so
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racist i don't think i think she just doesn't i understand she told me that it's okay my answer
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is no it's okay yeah i think she's like she fully understands i think she just uh doesn't want to
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settle for something that she doesn't want in life she wants to be where her life wants to go
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well i mean she has her absurd delusional standards but i think when it's like to the
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point where i have these crazy standards and even if we were to i wouldn't even think a man
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caring about i think that's a normal standard for a man to um to have to care about weight like
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it's actually very simple to be attractive to a man
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just don't be fat like honestly like don't be fat that's literally for 90 honestly for
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90 percent of men that's it really that's it that's all it takes to be attractive to a guy
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just don't be fat yep true true story that's crazy it's in a book somewhere oh uh it might
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even be in the quran oh wait i should not go there never just kidding just a joke whole audience gone
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just a fucking joke please don't fucking kill me um all right so anyways yeah there's probably like
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a hadith like thou shall not well that would be the bible right thou shall not thou shall not date
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fat bitches no that's in the i'm pretty sure that's in there i call that atlas atlas 3 312
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thou shalt not date fat bitches also like if you care about your partner look i'm fat it's like
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you know how like black people can say the n-word i'm fat so i can i get a pass to like why don't
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you say the n-word huh why don't you say the n-word oh that's a bad idea why because not
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are asian people white no yeah yes like the color what like the skin color yes
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all right chloe read this please more like yellow
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but he was being mean to me so i don't really want to read it i already read it and i don't
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really understand what you're oh my god we gotta read the super chat please okay um so i'm going
06:35:49.180
to waste some money here and hope it helps someone you don't need to be all these stereotypes
06:35:55.280
these girls can't even afford first of all like what are you even trying to say make the best of
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yourself that's better and more attractive than just trying to fit some mold don't be a chloe
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and live lost yeah they're so mean to you what the heck you didn't even say okay uh well rubbing
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is racing merci beaucoup for the canadian hundred i think i can buy a burrito with that um
06:36:24.200
uh kiko you agree with the following statement wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend
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if she regularly turns him down for sex why is that um i think there's probably other path they
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can explore um maybe they can have like an open arrangement maybe like this is under a condition
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like if they have like a really great like emotionally fulfilling life and they're both
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willing to maybe like open up and like maybe she's okay for him to like pay for escort just to like
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satisfy something like i think if everything else is great and it's just sex there's probably a way
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to work around it yeah but i mean like realistically i don't think even women who are
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contributing or the sole reason for a dead bedroom in a relationship i don't think the solution is
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you can fuck other women like most women are monogamous they want their boyfriend or husband
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to be monogamous i it might be an option in some instances but i think like go fuck other people
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is not most girlfriends are probably not gonna be on board with that even if the sex is irregular
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here's a situation i heard from a friend of mine just recently um so she was with this guy for
06:37:44.320
like over a year they're living together and uh he's korean so like she took him to korea to like
06:37:50.640
he took her he took her to korea to like meet his parents and i was ready to propose
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and then right before that she realized that he's been sleeping with other people
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like she like found out um there's multiple phones and she confronted him and then he said
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well we weren't having sex so i'm gonna go get it elsewhere but they never had a conversation
06:38:11.920
about it and like she had you know some condition that made her like not able to have sex for like
06:38:17.040
half of their relationship but like everything else is going fine and if only he had spoken to
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her about it there could have been maybe like a different solution instead of like him cheating
06:38:27.820
okay but i can come up with like a bunch of hypothetical situations i think in the hypothetical
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to cohere for the sake of simplicity there isn't a health problem there isn't i mean even
06:38:38.560
we could even say that yeah there is a health problem right um the man is not being sexually
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satisfied in the relationship she's regularly rejecting and turning him down for sex uh
06:38:51.860
you think it'd be wrong for him to dump her i think they should at least have a conversation
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about it let's assume there's been a conversation had um then yeah it will be okay for him to
06:39:05.020
to break up with her oh okay so but i isn't the conversation like the guy tries to have sex
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and the girl's like i'm i'm i'm not in the mood i have a headache like that's a conversation
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isn't it why is there so it depends on if the conversation is honest or not so like if she's
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like avoiding it she's like i'm just not feeling it but maybe there's a different reason if they
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had an honest and open conversation about it there could have been you know maybe he will be like
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and then i want to go pay for sex are you okay with that and she could be like oh you know i
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don't love it but maybe pay for wait pay for sex or i don't know right like yeah prostitute i think
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i think the the the context should be they've had a conversation and they're not avoiding it
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It's not, like, pretending everything is okay or, like, pretending she's not feeling well every time he initiates.
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I think my whole point is just, like, honesty maxing.
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Like, everyone should be, like, honest in a relationship.
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Yeah, but so, like, let's say there's a conversation and the girl's just like, no, nothing's really wrong.
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I just have, like, low libido, low sex drive.
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And the guy wants to fuck every single day.
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And the guy's like, well, about three, four times a week.
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every other day well she's like nope once a week maybe like is that a dump is that a fair dump
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maybe she can do like hand stuff i don't know oh my god hand stuff honestly let me tell you this
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much uh and i chat tell me if you agree if a girl i don't care i don't know what her skill level is
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but if a girl was like look i don't want to fuck but i'll give you a hand job i'd be like
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nah i'm good nah like i'd rather just not you agree i totally agree yeah well is it because
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you don't want to give a hand job or is it just you know it's not pleasurable i mean i love giving
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i'm gonna do whatever my man wants i love giving head i love having sex so like i wouldn't be
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turning him down at all what if it's like hurting you like physically causing it ain't gonna hurt
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me is this a common thing like just vagina pain i mean yeah yeah it's like super rough crazy sex
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yeah it's a more common thing than i don't know i don't think girls might realize
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okay well in any case um now we're getting into these scenarios where there's like justified
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reason for it i'm more i think this is coming more so from the angle where there aren't like
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any hurdles or obstacles really when it comes to the sex it's just her drive it's it's her drive
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okay then that's okay lost interest or whatever but like the hand job thing oh my god again i
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would rather just no don't even give no wait because if it's a hand job can men not do it
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themselves also aren't they like the experts at it because they do it's not even that it's just
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like a hand job is just like it's sober minimum i feel i don't i could be so horny and if a girl's
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like i'll give you a hand job i'd be like put your hands back in your pants i don't get your
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hand away from me i don't want to i'd rather not have the hand job well here here's a here this
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one might be more crazy okay this you guys i don't know if this is too much uh if i'm exposing too
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much but fuck it whatever i'm an honest guy if okay fuck whatever um condoms
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i'd honestly if if i have to use a condom i'd rather just not have sex bro i actually just
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had this talk with somebody now so so i will actually like the girls like wants to use it
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like i'll actually pass up on sex if she's like only condom i'm like do you guys both just get
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tested and then do it yeah sure you can get tested or you're just like free for all raw like we're
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going for it. No, ideally, like, this is not just like, first off, I don't go to bars, clubs.
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I'm not drinking. Like, so it's not like a drunken hookup. This would be something,
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somebody who I've talked to for a while. And, um, there's been some vetting we've talked about. Okay.
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Have you been tested? Um, when's the last time you were sexually active? Are you sexually active
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with anybody else? No. Okay, cool. Uh, so testing can definitely be a component of that, but
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truthfully i don't know once you've had okay once you've had a girlfriend you've been dating for
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like three years and she's on birth control or whatever she has an iud whatever it is
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how do you go back to conda it's just like i don't know maybe that makes me a terrible guy
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i'd rather just not have sex to be honest though so if she's the perfect woman if she's the perfect
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woman and the only condition for you to be with her is you can't go bareback
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well what do you mean i want to get her pregnant oh you want to oh you want to she's the perfect
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woman yeah true yeah she's getting we're having 10 children we're only fucking raw what she's
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perfect okay if she's perfect she's never gonna leave me if she's perfect um so yeah she's she's
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pumping out 10 kids no immediately i mean right isn't that the okay this is the perfect woman
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no woman could be better right might as well just knock her up right away i mean why wait
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might as well what if she's not a perfect woman oh then we're gonna wait a year or two a year or
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two a year or two not that long a year or two well you know who knows i need to start pumping i had
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my my eggs are drying up here so i gotta start pumping eggs oh my god yeah yeah old man brian
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i gotta start pumping i can't be 40 and like fucking first kid at 40 i need to pump out a
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kid within a year or two what do you even have a girlfriend right now do i i don't reveal my
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relationship status on the podcast uh i have had i mean i did i have had girlfriends throughout my
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life i will say oh my god no way i will say that much but yeah i need to i need to get on it to be
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honest i i don't want to be like fucking i don't want to be like 70 and like dropping my kid off
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at fucking elementary school that shit's retarded i seriously gotta get on that shit uh okay so
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anyways it's it's it's in it's in the works all right so where was i i don't know you're talking
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about hand jobs no condoms clavicular and chloe know about that i'm just kidding i don't think
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they i don't know have you guys encountered that like i don't know do you guys prefer having sex
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with condom be honest can i actually ask a question about that sure so like now that i'm
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trying to get back into the dating world i started talking to this guy and he was saying like he
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doesn't want to use a condom and for me i've only done that with one person and i was with them for
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a very very very very long time so it seems very intimate to me and that's like my issue with it
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to not use a condom what was the thing you said there it just feels really intimate like i've
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only done that with one person okay so like for me he doesn't want to but i'm like if we're going
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to i feel like we have to because i don't want to get pregnant i'm not like if i was going to
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sleep with somebody else i would want them to use a condom well okay hold on just to be clear
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that's a perfectly acceptable standard for men and women to have yeah like if you're a man and
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you want to use a rubber you're a woman you want to use a rubber that's totally i'm not like
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anti other people i'm just saying from like it honestly this i'm gonna be honest like yeah
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there's different there's like the thin condoms or whatever i just don't i'd honestly rather like
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okay let's just i guess not have sex and she can give me head or something just to be blunt uh
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until she's ready for that if she wants to wait what's the reasoning can you explain honestly i
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just don't find it pleasurable really it's like really like that big of a difference
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for guy for me condom versus no condom it's such a huge difference i'd rather not even have sex
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that's really interesting there's a difference for women too you don't think
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well i think i don't really i think it's a bit different for women i think you can maybe like
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feel the difference but i think psychologically it's more stimulating for both men and women
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no yeah i agree yeah it's like okay it's more intimate more connection yeah like literally
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physically more i don't know maybe the chat's like what the fuck yeah like you feel more connected
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now look you can't be doing you can't be moving like that and like fucking four girls a week five
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girls a week or as a woman you can't be fucking a lot of people like you have to be dating
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intentionally i have no interest in a one-night stand i have no interest in like girl girl like
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monday wednesday friday no like i'm much more intentional with how i date if i sleep with a
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girl, that's basically going to be my girlfriend. Like that's my, that's my view. I'm not interested
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in sport fucking. I'm not interested in fucking a girl once or two or three times. Now look,
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sometimes you fuck a chick and she held back on how crazy she fucking is. And unfortunately,
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no, just like, she's not a good fit. And, but you had the intentions going in, like,
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I'm looking for a girlfriend. I'm looking for the, like, that's literally my approach.
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if i'm sleeping with you like i have you're potentially the one like that's i'm not interested
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in just running through chicks that's useless to me it's interesting to me that guys like can
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think like that because i well i mean a lot of guys just want to fuck right yeah no i mean to
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me it's just i've i've really never been interested in just like having a one-night stand or just
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sleeping with a girl once i find it kind of pointless i've always preferred like continuity
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and longer term dating also even if you were sex motivated i don't know if you guys disagree with
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me maybe the chat disagrees with me i believe even if sex is your only motivation i think sex is
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better with the girl you love and i think sex is better there's a couple angles here one you've
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you've had sex 10 20 30 times you become comfortable you're comfortable with each other
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not just in in the bedroom but like just hanging out you you build a comfort and a level of
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connection and rapport with each other. And that translates to sex. That's like, you're comfortable
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with each other. Um, and then just from a technical perspective, if you've had sex with
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somebody, 10, 20, 34, et cetera, many times, you know what she likes, you know, what gets her going.
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She knows what you like. You guys have like communicated to each other your, your wants and,
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you know, things you want to try or, you know, whatever it is. And so the sex is better.
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yeah no totally and then also like i mean look some guys are gonna are playing russian roulette
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with their dick and they're fucking one night stands raw um but yeah obviously if you're like
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more intentional with your dating then it's like okay it's a bit safer to have unprotected sex um
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you know and so it's more pleasurable in that way too but uh it's it's also just
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uh i don't know it's it's more um it's your preference yeah the sex i guess what i was
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trying to say is the sex is better with a girl that you uh have a relationship with
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and who you know or at least plan to have a relationship with so
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i don't know if that makes sense but no it totally makes sense i agree with that
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i don't know these guys that just want to fuck a girl once that's always been weird to me okay like
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the sex isn't even gonna be i mean look yeah okay fine the first time you fuck can be good
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but i don't know if it's always going to be the best like is the first time you fuck is it the
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best no sometimes usually i mean maybe it can be like if you're both just really on point but
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uh i don't know i don't know uh but it seems like a waste of time because um
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like maybe if it's just like the the time investment to get laid uh it's just a waste of
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time like i'm not saying you're like doing a fucking circus act to get some pussy but
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it's like i'm gonna do all that just for 30 minutes yeah of pleasure like i'm gonna spend
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hours investing to this girl and telling her about my fake job to get some pussy i'm kidding i i
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don't lie about my job but some men be fucking they be lying they be oh my god i'm uh you're
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just intentional i'm an influencer what did what do they say they they rent like a ferrari or some
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bullshit 30 minutes 30 minutes is too short a long time is that too short people in the chat
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is a long time people 30 minutes is a lot of time yeah that's a good that's a long time that's a
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decent amount more than above maybe they're thinking like i'm factoring in i feel like 10
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minutes is like that's desirable because yeah like you don't need to go out long yeah i mean
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i think anywhere i mean obviously can sometimes be shorter more than i feel like more than 30
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minutes like of actual intercourse is ridiculous it's like how many fucking positions
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every time multiple times a day nah but i don't know uh i don't know what was i saying
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where was i going with that fucking the girl wants useless what's the point oh compromising
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oh no what am i gonna i'm gonna listen to this girl on a date like oh that's so interesting
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i'm just gonna fuck her once if i'm gonna listen to a girl tell me about some shit
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i'm gonna fuck her as many times as possible this sounds so bad oh my god i don't know i'm
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just saying like fuck what if it took like less time from a man like what if it's like really
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simple you just like match someone and then just i mean i'm i'm at it yeah yeah that's fair i'm
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adding another layer to like why it's hard like stupid to just fuck a girl once but like obviously
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there's more reasons but beyond just the time investment because yeah there's definitely
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situations where you can just like i mean if it can happen quick sometimes maybe you meet at a
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bar club whatever and i don't go to these places but maybe on a dating app okay come over let's
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fuck uh but then you're on the dating app and you gotta you're gonna have to be messaging like
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a hundred chicks before you find one who's like dtf like that so do you have groupies
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does anyone like reach out to you and just want to be with you um women usually aren't i mean
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knowing my position on this topic women usually aren't just like hey brian i just want to come
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fuck and never talk to you again but yeah i mean i've had like i don't know since i started this
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podcast hundreds of women dm me on instagram and some of whom i've met but i have a vetting process
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only hundreds i feel like uh well you have to understand i mean you have to understand like
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the male experience is different also like i'm uh i'm like yes asshole yeah and i have some
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hot spicy takes so okay the girl has to be probably conservative to like fuck with me not
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literally but um the girl probably has to be conservative like liberal chicks want nothing
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to do with me good but uh she and then like i'm chubby right now so like that hurts my prospects
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and i'm like average looking dude i'm nothing special um do they have to bow as like a test
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it's like a screening process they sent you a video i have had women send me bowel videos
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like some of them i don't even ask for it they'll just send it unprompted
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bro but i mean i have a girlfriend application there's a hundred questions on it what no way
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yeah what the fuck yep that sounds like autism that's serious it is autistic what branch what
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branch yeah of autism is it the retarded i don't know it's just no it's definitely i've literally
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had women be like oh my god brian can i meet you and i'm like yeah here here's the girlfriend
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application and then they're like ah never mind is it bad uh i mean it's very like direct you
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should tell us it's not just like what's your favorite color it's like what are your mental
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illnesses do you take medication like it's literally autistic as fuck it's so autistic
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but it's like if they're coming to me uh it's like get with the program yeah if you're coming
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to me i'm gonna call the shots yeah like why you can be you you gotta be on my page so um i feel
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like now by the way like that i let like the girls would have to like sign an nda or something
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to like yeah they do really do yeah well the thing is is because of like here's the thing
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is, um, because of the nature of my job. Uh, yeah, you, I don't need some, first off, I don't
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date. Typically I don't date content creators. I don't, um, I'm trying to think if I, like,
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I usually date just like normal chicks. I don't date OF girls. That's hard. No, uh, I don't date
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content creators so like that helps protect and insulate me a little bit because a woman who
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like i could see a woman trying to date me and like either the using the breakup for like content
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or something like that um so there's that but yes absolutely if a woman wants to date me she has to
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sign an nda uh but i mean you see this with content creators insofar as um the reality is
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i have opposition out there i have ops and and like i just have to have peace of mind when it
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comes to private communications with somebody i'm going to date or be intimate with and in it's
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unfortunate i wish i didn't have to have ndas but in the current social climate uh you have people
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wanting to leak private communications private dms and in my position like i i don't want that
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out there i've actually i don't think i've ever revealed this on the show um but uh it's mostly
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for my peace of mind also there's definitely like situations where i think um i don't know
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some fucking journalist is trying to find an ex-girlfriend has there been like girls that
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like you were in like a situation ship with and then they try to like ruin your reputation
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or like it hasn't happened yet um i think i had like
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uh i think there's like maybe one or two but one of the girls i wasn't even dating like it was just
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uh one girl this is like 2023 uh she came on the show and she was actually flirting with me
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and then um luckily like well okay so i i asked her to dinner i was like hey let's grab some food
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and uh that was it we didn't we didn't go for the dinner like there wasn't there was no like uh
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lewd conversation no sexting anything like that it was just like hey let's grab dinner sometime
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and i just got busy and then like i started detecting that she's fucking insane she's crazy
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like actually crazy um and then uh and by the way and then like she got on my case she was like oh
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why are you ghosting me she got all bent out of shape and i wasn't like being i wasn't rude to
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her but i was just like oh she's like way too pushy and like she was getting aggressive when i
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wasn't i was like hey i'm busy i don't know i you know whatever she's getting like i'm sure maybe
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you guys have dealt with a guy who like gets aggressive when maybe you were interested but
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he gets too pushy and he was like what the fuck you didn't respond to me in five minutes
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that's like kind of scary well i'm sure it's scary for the women for sure but she was being
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too pushy with it and then like i kind of just i didn't reject her i just kind of like
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i don't know if i want to grab dinner i don't remember what i said and then she goes on
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fucking twitter she goes on twitter and mind you we didn't we never met up for the date never like
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so basically nothing and then she played it out like i was all up on her and i have all the i've
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got the the text messages she she literally was like hey come come to my i'm getting an airbnb
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in mexico come with me so she was all up on me and i was kind of like nah and then she's she like
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leaks like dms oh my god he asked me for dinner oh my god he's such a creeper bitch you were asking
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she was asking me she was trying to get me oh come come to come to fucking uh where was she
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she was like in LA oh come to LA come to LA come to Texas uh come to Mexico she was in Mexico come
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at my Airbnb and she leaked uh like exchanges right and so um so yeah I mean I've so to answer
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your question yes i've had women who like i've tried to like uh shoot my shot or whatever and
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they've none of the girls i've like really i've dated long term have ever you know even ones i
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don't have ndas with have ever like oh my god brian so terrible blah no none of them have but
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yeah i need to i need to have an nda now to protect myself because uh i don't know some
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some bullshit could happen so yeah you know the girl also i mean i i'm also very respectful of
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whoever i'm with like if i'm dating somebody um i'm not gonna i'm not sharing anything on the
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podcast so and i would never like leak messages or dms or anything like that yeah go ahead you
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know the the your ex-girlfriend in the bowing video does she give you her consent for showing
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the video she well i mean she obviously because i filmed it but i don't know if you
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it's not actually my girlfriend oh i didn't know that it's just a fucking video i found on the
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internet oh no way i thought it's actually she believed you guys girlfriend for real yeah i did
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i mean i could probably like i could probably pull but no i mean no that was obviously not
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my girlfriend oh no it's obviously a joke i mean i do want a girl to bow and do all that shit but
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no it wasn't my girlfriend yeah you didn't yeah i put a chinese subtitle too at the end too yeah
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i just thought it's because she's chinese i'm fluent i'm fluent in mandarin are you actually
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no no but i'm obviously being sarcastic yeah has your girlfriend's like done similar stuff
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as that video like bowed for you giving you like cooked for you done your laundry like
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absolutely yeah yeah but like the bowing specifically yep if you've had all that
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why did it not work out uh why did uh why did it not work out um i don't know relationships
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end nothing like toxic or bad or anything um yeah yeah but i mean i mean i don't understand
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like how okay how many how much how often do you date the guy who meets like xyz and it doesn't
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work out i mean it happens all the time um whenever like my relationship ends i try to
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figure out like what the reason is like why it didn't work out am i the problem or is he the
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problem you know yeah yeah honestly i think well for one of the longer ones i had uh i would say
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that it was jealousy on her part because obviously it can be difficult for a woman to like see me
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with like surrounded by girls even though i don't really make it a habit to like fuck the women
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yeah but you come on the show just like attention right yeah i feel like so for her she had like
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some jealousy stuff and that caused kind of a blowout in this one situation and i did some like
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stream with some girl and she it was a girl who had a boyfriend by the way like there was nothing
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there's nothing going on there but she got kind of jealous and yeah so that was that kind of created
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some conflict but uh yeah and i mean i wouldn't say she had like everything too so perhaps there
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was like some fence sitting on my end but uh yeah but no yes bow cook clean first time they'll do it
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they'll do it i have a question but keep it i want to make something clear i'm in a unique situation
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because of my presence on social media and I'm not saying I'm anything special like there's guys
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who have more clout or even less clout but maybe they're younger it's also hard because I'm I'm a
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bit on the older side but if I was like if I was 22 23 in my position and as thin as I was when I
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was 22 or 23 oh boy oh boy it'd be a different story but I guess what I'm trying to say is
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what I'm saying here with the bow with the cooking and the cleaning and all this shit
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it's different when the girl's coming to you yeah like i don't if i meet a girl on a dating app i
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don't have that leverage i you can try but it's i mean if she maybe she's already inclined to do
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that but if you meet some chick on a dating app or like you you approach her she's got all the
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power the girl has all the leverage if you're the pursuer but a girl comes to me hey brian i think
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you're attractive let me slide into your dms okay sign this in nda okay uh tell me every answer any
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single question i want okay here's 100 question girlfriend application if they if they want if
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they want to be with me they're going to do it yes i agree they're going to do it don't settle
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but you keep talking about dating apps like are you on dating apps no i'm not i haven't been on
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dating apps since like 2023 but um yeah like i don't know when it was 20 yeah mid 2023 i've been
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off of all dating apps but uh oh shit what was i gonna say uh something about the girlfriend
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application oh the other thing is like a lot of these girls don't live near me oh so then there's
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this other component it's just not the autistic girlfriend application the other component is
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if you're going to travel, if you're going to fly five hours, if you're going to fly from Europe
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to come and see me, some of them are spending their money, own money to come and see me.
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Then let's make sure that we're a match before you come. Like, oh, so you might say, okay,
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it's really autistic to have this hundred point girlfriend application. Like if, if a girl lived
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here in Santa Barbara okay let's meet for let's grab uh let's grab food I'll ask you a few things
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but it's much more like let's do a vibe check let's meet for 10 minutes versus oh you're gonna
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fucking fly across the country to come see me before you do that and maybe we're gonna spend
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multiple days together let's make sure that it's a good fit first that's a different it's a different
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like it's not the typical dating dynamic I think so that's part of the reason why if a girl yeah
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like it just for for my sake so I'm not wasting my time but also I mean if she's not the right fit
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or if I'm not even the right fit for her then it's like we probably shouldn't even waste our time
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so the vetting thing isn't just purely autism it's just like being considerate of both our time
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so we're not wasting each other's time and I think you can even do that in more like okay you live in
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the same city hey let's hop on a call for 10 minutes let's let's because why go on a one hour
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dinner date you can hop on a phone call for 10 15 minutes get to know each other oh i don't i don't
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know if this is because sometimes over text message i don't know if you guys can agree
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you can't always get a good feel for for a person just from texting like i think you always have to
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have that phone call with a person and i think that also just builds comfort too because it's
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like it can be if you've had that phone call and you guys are vibing on the phone like then the
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date is easy but like if you haven't talked verbally you've just been texting and then you
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meet I think that puts more pressure on the date because you're going in blind and also it's a
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safety thing too you should definitely talk to somebody on the phone so yeah and just like make
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sure they're actually a person like all this AI stuff like come on well yeah that too a lot of
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things are so fake nowadays it's just it's nice to have some authenticity true true okay anyways
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enough about me i feel like thanks for sharing so much yeah i don't know if i've shared happy
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birthday so honest wow he gets his own therapy session does that answer your question chloe
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thanks but yes the women like the women cook the women clean the women and and bow most
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important you know the thing with the bow is like if if i get the impression that she's like a hundred
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percent down to do it i don't even need her to do it if that makes sense like i don't i don't even
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need it but if she if she's down to do it she's like submissive to a degree yeah pretty much i
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mean it's better if she does bow because i think it's cute and it's like okay you're doing the
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thing i appreciate that but like okay she doesn't bow i'm not gonna be like what the fuck bitch
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i'm not gonna be like yeah backhander like how dare you yeah like if you can't change the girl
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then change the girl like some 1950s shit i'm not gonna like fucking smack a girl oh my
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papa no fuck that i'm not gonna scold her yeah i think masculine i'll playfully tease her like
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Anyways, here, let me move on to the, I think, actually, are we done with the questionnaire?
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I think we're almost, hold on, let me see if there's anything else in the questionnaire.
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Husbands should be willing to die protecting you.
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you're going to keep your last name when you get married?
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And then your last name and a cockroach was your last name.
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she doesn't even marry that's just her last name so elect well okay what if it's like a normal
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last name do you take it yeah whatever but you said you want to keep your last name or hyphenate
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i'm just picky like it just depends on what what it is i don't want it to like ruin my
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i have a weird also kiko you're gonna keep your last or well you are married i am married and i
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kept my last name so there's like remember how you talked about a study of um how a man and a
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resume on that study there was another study i saw on linkedin that's like an asian name versus
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like a generic american name and the asian name will get called back less so like i thought about
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changing my last name to get more job opportunities but then i didn't because my first name is also
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very asian uh and are you planning on having kids yes can you open the door all the way yes uh
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how many kids um one adopted maybe two one to two by birth what will what will the last name
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be for the kids um i think hyphenate hyphenate yeah
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l hyphens would it be your last name or no it will like which one comes first or no will it
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well it's definitely going to be hyphenated um i mean they're going to be wasion right so
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i want their name to embrace both parts of their identity for the last name i don't get the
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hyphenation thing because think about it this way right let's say everyone hyphenated their last
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names how many generations can that realistically go because okay a hyphenated person and hyphenated
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person get married that's four last names yeah their kids have four last names if you keep all
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the hyphenations and then a kid with four last names and marries a kid with four last names
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that's eight last names that's like smith bogota uh i can't even think at this time but
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we haven't talked about it so that's but but i that's why i feel like hyphenation
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is not would not be practical on a large scale because eventually you'd have people with like
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300 million last names if everybody and then it's like okay well oh well what if we merge the
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hyphenated so okay it's one of the hyphenated last names with like the the you you flip a coin
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but then that defeats the purpose of the hyphenate originate hyphenation yeah my whole point is i
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just want the name to be some has some asian influence like because if we took my husband's
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last name they would just sound white okay uh i don't know um okay but you're gonna keep your
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last name and depending kiko you wrote though that uh you want men should provide protect
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to be chivalrous although I mean you give some leeway on the protecting you uh men you don't
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really care about men paying on the first date I guess uh yeah I don't know but it's like okay
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why should men be traditional if women don't even want to be traditional like I mean he did propose
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to you he bought a ring he got down on one knee the traditional thing in marriage is the the wife
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takes the husband's or the the woman takes the man's last name the kids take the man's last name
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that's the traditional thing that's how it should be
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you want me to respond to that if you want to yeah i think every family makes his own ritual
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uh okay cool yeah and and like i'm i'm in an untraditional marriage right obviously like i
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take different roles for my husband from a traditional marriage i suppose yeah people
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can negotiate all kinds of uh arrangements like if he came to me and he's like i really need our
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kiss to take my last name yeah i am i will be fine with it but he hasn't brought it up well he
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should do it if you're not if you're i don't think he's watching he's on the east coast if you're
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that malleable he should just take he should take the w on that then uh but okay i don't know it
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seems like it's not a dub it's only a w for people who care right if he cares yeah sure so your
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husband should be willing to die protecting you i would hope so but you won't take his last name
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only if it's like something weird yeah but what if it's weird but he's willing to die protecting
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you well that's great but i'm just gonna of course you know okay we make it work we make it work
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is there like something that you can do to like
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like unstiffen somebody's face i know it's about me bro like i don't know if it's botox that will
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just relax your face no that would make it worse but would it i feel like it would just like
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freeze your face that's pretty hot um but but no i feel i don't know it's just sometimes i don't
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if it's intentional i'm just listening i'm like damn she hates me intently because like
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your your face gets like all twisted up i know like it gets all like did she smell is something
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smells bad like she's just thinking about like did lexi fart like what is it yeah sometimes i do
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look and i'm like do i stink i'm just kidding okay so that's it with the questionnaire i'm pretty
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sure uh we're gonna blast through the notes for all of you guys so okay we have got christina
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go answer speak speak what speak it speak wait don't no no no don't go that way don't go that
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way just close the door wait was this my topic it was in the notes that you sent
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oh really i don't remember it did your did your pimp fill this out for you
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oh no i mean you wrote in your notes to us i think sometimes conversation around dating
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becomes too transactional and that's it well that's one of the things you wrote
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i think i wrote a lot no i know you wrote more than that but that's the first thing i'm getting
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to um so okay do you think regardless of whether you recall writing that or not
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do you think that the con well sometimes the conversation so i think you're referring to
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the show around dating becomes too transactional do you think dating is too transactional
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mind you you want to a guy who makes 20 million to 100 million dollars a year
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there's a bug up there i know i see the bug um okay all right um you dated someone who is very
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famous uh-huh who can you say i can't say what can you say i did three i did three before three
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famous people uh-huh uh can you say what they did like uh actor musician athlete um actor singer
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I don't think that would be enough to figure it out.
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I'll come back to you sue storm who the fuck is that sue storm who's sue wait wasn't it the girl
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who left yeah sammy didn't she announce her name is something different huh no it wasn't her
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who the fuck is this like a superhero or where is Mary I don't know uh Leilani you said you're
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permanently single yeah um I think we already went into that though you didn't really give me
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a great answer but um permanently single okay well whatever uh Suki that's me I thought your
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name was nairobi only fans okay uh you said men and women are equal in relationships we just have
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different purposes what do you mean by that i think exactly what i said i think we have different
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roles i think that we're both equal i think we should be treated equally but i think we have
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like was i supposed to are men and women equal in relationships uh well i guess that depends on
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your relationship but so when you when you're asking for when you say different purposes
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like so what is the male purpose that also depends on your relationship it depends on
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what you want your man to do okay so then what do you mean by equal i mean if you are treated
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the same as you are treating your partner okay so if i pay for dates should the woman pay for dates
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or because only one person i mean so this doesn't mean like equally transactionally only it also
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means like in value if you are doing something for somebody and you see that they are doing the
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same thing for you equal in value then that's the same thing i mean i want a girl to clean my house
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i don't want to clean the house yeah and if you go to work you don't have to clean the house
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that's my job okay uh ashlyn you said you've always dated men who take advantage of you
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you have a big heart oh i forgot about that yeah uh now you're learning to date the right way
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you're just single focusing on you and your puppy yeah uh so you only date men who take
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advantage of you that's not i feel like are you toxic in a relationship no i think i just had
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low standards i guess and i so they're bums or what they just mooch off you to be fair when i
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was younger I didn't have high standards and then I met somebody I was with them for a very long time
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and it was like that kind of situation where I paid for everything but I really loved them and
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I thought like we're gonna get married and I didn't mind it and then they just dipped so now
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I'm trying to realize like time doesn't mean they're gonna stay with you and like you should
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find somebody who's gonna put in the same effort as you rather than just completely supporting
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somebody okay so is this like financially taking advantage of or um i mean they were like talking
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to other girls behind my back and like financially i was paying for everything like all our trips
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like helping him with his bills stuff like w man good for him i mean i really loved him i don't
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regret it but i definitely won't do that again i think it's better it's a better dynamic if the
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woman is a simp to be honest i mean the woman just has to be a massive simp now look i in my
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relationship i'll take care of everything but i guess it depends hold on well it's like it's
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like i just but it's like i think here's so i understand that traditionally like men pay and
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men provide but i think my angle here for like the woman simping is if she's willing to go so
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far against traditional gender roles um it's our fault well it's like as long as she doesn't use
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that as pretext to be masculine and she can still remain feminine because women can still simp
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and still be feminine yeah but it's like like i'd much rather i know this might sound crazy
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how do i how do i frame this i'd much rather the woman spend a fuck ton of money but be like
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really really into me and usually like a woman who's willing to spend money on a dude yeah like
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she has to be really fucking into him to like spend money on the guy well let me just finish
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my thought okay um versus like the male the male traditional role as pursuer you'll be you'll find
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yourself in instances where you're like you're you're pursuing you're courting a woman and she's
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a fence sitter and here you are like spending all this money and like yeah that's traditional gender
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role but i'd much rather like if i had to pick between two options me pursuing and part of that
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would like encompass like paying for dates blah blah blah like spending money but she's on the
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fence about me versus the girl's like no brian i'm paying the bill no actually wait not like that
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no no that was too too aggressive the girl's like buying me shit and spending money no brian you
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don't have to pay for anything let me pay for it but she's like like obsessed with me i take that
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trade any single fucking day so for i'll take that trade any day that's how it was for us and
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like let me ask let me ask the chat chat okay do you take that trade so the trade is okay you can
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be a traditional male and be a provider and paying for dates and shit but she's like on the fence
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you guys have all been there right you take a girl out on a date she's not really feeling yet
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whatever and you know or the girl's paying for shit and she's fucking obsessed with you
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and simping over you and i don't know chat what do you pick what do you pick i take the trade
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i think i take the fucking trade even if i'm like not in my provider role like as long as she can't
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be masculine of course no like she has to still be feminine and have that softness to her but okay
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Go ahead. So what I was going to say is, for example, like my ex, I, we'd always go to Hawaii
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all the time and I'd pay for it. And W good job. But for example, his dream, his absolute dream
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in life was to go to Japan and see Mount Fuji. Personally, I don't think I could do a flight that
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long. So that wasn't a dream of mine. And so I saved up a bunch of money and book that for him
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for our anniversary so that he could go with his best friend. And I know that he would never have
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the opportunity to make the money that i do so i wanted to like make his dream come true even
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though i couldn't be like a part of it and then he cheated on me and left damn yeah you got played
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i don't think i got played i just think i mean kind of well i mean i don't think i got played
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it was just like we were together for so long do you think he smashed some japanese no he was just
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talking to girls online behind my back so it wasn't like it was like emotionally shit but
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still like i don't regret any of it because like at the end of the day i think it's all about like
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how you treat somebody you can't control they treat you back and i was all in it shit that's
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like reversal but it's okay like that's like the story of dudes who'd be spending money on a chick
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doing all this extra shit and she's not really feeling you and then and but that happened to you
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like that i mean but that's the position i honestly that's the position to be in
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it's okay i learned from it and now i want to do you want to send me to japan i'm not you know what
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it is a long flight i got back problems i'll accept hawaii i'm a nice guy first class though
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hawaiian airlines book it thank you i'll go solo and i'll send you a postcard uh but okay yeah i
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mean i think it's i mean that's fucked up obviously men should it is what it is sounds like
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welcome to being a dude i don't like i don't know um okay this is actually i feel like i'm
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kind of stingy not gonna lie um i feel like i really have not uh i don't know i think once i
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have a kid with a girl then she can get some benefits that's fair like we could be fucking
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for two years and i'm like what about married i don't want to get i'm not gonna marry no marriage
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for me i'll stay with a girl forever monogamous forever kids all that but marriage nope unless
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she's rich she has more money than me then we can get married if she doesn't have more money than me
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we can be together not marriage though not marriage but uh yeah i don't know what was i
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going with that hawaii something about hawaii yeah shit damn where was i going with that
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yeah i don't know uh aurora oh wait oh is that that's my yeah that's my instagram name
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that's just what i wrote down um so you're married but you uh you had an open marriage
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at one point yes uh okay so polyamory now open for both of you yeah that's a little different
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careful Chloe you almost fell out the window with your
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chloe jeez what is she doing this chloe girl are you is this your second or third bbl chloe
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girl i'm sorry girl please girl please um okay so open marriage chloe has a great body though
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you have a great body she has a she's an amazing body i'm back sorry is she in the bathroom no
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she's right there oh shit i was about to talk to you about chloe just kidding i love chloe
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No, like the centaurs are half human, half horse.
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And like the girls with the BBL and the hip thing.
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She's like, here, Google, find the Wikipedia page for centaur.
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the longest it was open for about eight months oh so it was open multiple times so you would
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open close open close open close snip snap snip snap yes how many okay how many times
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like like three times three times yeah okay so longest was eight months and how soon into the
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marriage did it open up uh so that that's the longest time and it's like long long by far the
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longest by far no but how um it was about one year in two years in no it was um four five years
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into the marriage four years i think yeah uh okay and has it was it ever open before the marriage
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yes but we actually didn't do anything just like there wasn't like someone that either of us really
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liked when we opened it up before as far as you know uh no like if he did he would tell me okay
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like uh during this period when it was open he he told he told me about his encounter okay i see
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so three separate times it was open um how many i mean there's three let's just assume it's just
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like an open one big open thing okay how many other men were you with um all together i think
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four and how many women was he with i think one to two that's oh it stinks that stings you can't
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the woman can't fuck more you know you know what i mean like if you're gonna have an open marriage
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who wait oh good question whose idea was it to open the marriage uh it was mine all three times
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yes and then what about prior to the marriage you said it was open then yeah it was i've i've had a
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polyamorous encounter before with other people oh you've been poly in like other before you met
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your husband yeah yeah yeah oh okay but when um when i say before the marriage like you guys were
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dating obviously for a period of time before you got married and it was open relationship correct
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Well, it usually happens when we're apart, like physically apart.
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But it was also open before the marriage for a period of time.
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When you say apart, are you talking distance, long distance?
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And it's always been your idea to have an open marriage.
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Now, the first time you ever brought it up, I suppose this is even before you got married,
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He was not opposed, but he's never done it before.
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the person that you had this extra relationship affair with,
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of the relationship no of any of the men during the open period none did you know them prior to
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the opening no how did you meet them uh same way i meet my husband i met my husband tinder apps or
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uh like irl like in person and your husband's only been with you said one one i think one to
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two yeah what do you mean one to two i thought you guys he told me about he told me about one
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and then one was like a shitty blowjob yeah i he didn't really go into other like so he didn't
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fuck details yeah he didn't fuck but he got like a shitty band job i i don't know i don't want to
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speak for him that's like a quarter of a body a handjob is like a quarter of a body i feel like
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i gotta start asking the girls what's your blowjob count or something what that's just
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i don't know way higher you forgot bro yeah 200 what really i don't know blowjobs count
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When I say blowjob count, I don't mean like you sucked one dude's dick 200 times.
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No, I'm saying like so the blowjob count would be like you sucked the dick of 20 guys.
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what are you insinuating on me that you must have a big mouth all that space what the fuck
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three at the same time yeah who's fitting that no it's one after never mind that's not at the
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same time yeah that's just in the same session i don't know um okay open marriage back to the
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open marriage so i can i can share the context sure okay um i had been we had been living in
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shanghai for seven years before that i didn't speak very good chinese and then i finally learned
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and i wanted to date in chinese i had never done it before um so then we uh and then covet happened
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and then we were separated for about three months during that time i started i told him i was like
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i'm curious about dating a chinese guy are you open to it he's like okay then i'm gonna start
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dating in the u.s i was like all right um so then i did um and what i learned from that which i
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didn't realize before was that the third person or whoever the extra person is um it's really
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painful for them which i didn't realize wait it's painful yeah it's like tough for them to for your
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husband uh for my husband and also it was a little uncomfortable for my husband but also
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it was tough for the third person that the person i was dating yeah because they want to be with you
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yeah and and i think that realization was like i didn't i didn't think of that and you also said
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that and i'm going to come back to some of the open marriage stuff yeah uh when it was open it
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was the first time you dated within your race during the open marriage yeah so you're like
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you're 36 or 34 so wait you're 34 i'm 34 and so this so like the first time you ever dated like
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an asian guy or i guess a chinese guy yeah you were early 30s damn yeah because i grew up in
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That'd be like me saying, the first time I fucked a white woman, I was 30 years old.
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I grew up in Timaru, two hours out of Christchurch.
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I can find you some Asians in New Zealand.
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Oh, I mean, you weren't there when I was going through this, right?
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put me anywhere i will find you an asian i will find you an asian yeah i mean i think i wanted to
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i wanted to experiment there's a will there's a way
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uh okay so open marriage it was your idea every single time
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but if it's the guys it's okay well so i'm not really
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why is it look i think traditional dynamics one man one woman ideal i don't think it's typically
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good for on the sort of individual level societal level for there to be polyamory polygamy etc
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but yes it is different it is different and it is a terrible double standard
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terrible double standard but it's a valid one so if the woman here's the here's the difference and
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A man, like, okay, just to be clear, I'm cool with monogamy.
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I'm not trying to, but I'm going to be honest with you.
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I could fuck another woman and still love my girl.
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A girl cannot, if a girl is fucking another man, she cannot love you.
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I don't care what you, you might be like, I still love my husband.
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I don't care if I could fuck, and I can be loyal, but I'm just saying, I could fuck another woman and still be fucking head over heels in love with my girlfriend.
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Because you're not emotional like women, right?
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However, if a girl is fucking around on her boyfriend, she don't love him.
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That is your opinion, and that is untrue in my lived experience.
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Well, okay, so I understand that there are outliers, and sometimes women cheat, and they fucked up.
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However, however, I do think there's a component where, look, hey, I don't know.
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but um yeah you could i think it's different and also it's kind of just more gross when women do
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that what why i'll explain it i'll explain it so again and by the way cheating is bad nobody cheat
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don't cheat don't cheat on your husband don't cheat on your wife don't cheat on your girlfriend
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don't cheat on your boyfriend but i'm just saying a guy could fuck another woman and still love his
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girl so okay but why why is it gross why is it gross you might ask well i'll tell you this much
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so if i have 10 women one two three four five six seven there's 10 of you there are your math is
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terrible wait yeah yeah there's four here if i had 10 well tiffany's here too if i had 11
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wives, 11 concubines, and they're all loyal to me. And I'm the, I mean, they're loyal. So I'm the
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only one who's having sex with them. In each instance, we know who the father is and we know
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who the mother is. If you're a woman and you have 11 husbands and they're all loyal to you
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and you're fucking all of them at the same time, who the fuck is the father? Who's the father
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of the kid and they're all blasting around the same time whatever who's the dad we don't fucking
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know that's why that's why it's more acceptable because if you get pregnant you know you're the
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mom if i knock up one of you unless i have you on 24 hour surveillance and even then you women are
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sneaky fucks when you're gonna cheat true there's no way for us guys to really know
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As far as I know I haven't been cheated on
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let's go back when uh evolutionary psychology let's go back uh men are more invested in women's
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purity men are more invested in lack of promiscuity in women because if i'm going to be investing my
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resources and taking care of you and protecting you and providing for you and the kid's not mine
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like women never have to worry women can never worry about this this is a fear women can never
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have the kid's not yours you know if you pump a kid out of you that's your kid like that's you
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whereas like men it's a massive l for us to be tricked to be duped to be lied to it's your kid
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but it's not your kid how you're going to invest all that time and resource and love
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that's like a double triple quadruple fuckery now you're now you're loving you you got love for a
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kid that's not your blood fuck them no offense to the kid no fuck the kid like i mean it's not
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the kid's fault but like well not like that i what the fuck not like yeah what the fuck we're
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not like not like but like honestly look this is gonna sound fucking terrible but i'm gonna just
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tell you point blank if i'm with a girl and she gets pregnant and i think it's my kid and she
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tells me it's my kid and then two years later three years later four years later i find out
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that's not my kid that's not my fucking kid yeah it's over the relationship's over be i'm i can't
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you know what there's some shit i can't say on stream i'm gonna be honest if a woman played me
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that bad you are not i'm not gonna say i'm not gonna say anything on stream but if i got played
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that fucking bad by a chick that's insane if i got you can't even think about it so
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so hold on wait really quick really quick so where was i going oh yeah i'm just honestly like
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i think i have to abandon the child yeah i would too i think i have to abandon the child like
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honestly it's not my fucking blood like i got duped fuck her it's over you're done like i'm
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actually crushed though actually crushed that would be so crushing but yeah the right chat i
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don't know maybe that makes me a dick but uh i get it i'm sorry it's not my blood i got duped
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i'm a sucker um so in that condition i might do prison time though i'm not gonna fucking lie
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to be honest i might do fucking prison time if i if that happens to me but anyways in that
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condition i'm not a violent person this person cheated so didn't tell you and then lied to you
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right she didn't like she didn't tell you honest like information two times in a row
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i think that's a video game yeah i think that's a different situation we did talk about a lot of
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these things like uh the open period did allow us to have a lot of these honest conversations and
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uh which is why actually after that last time we decided to close it and we're not going to open
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in the foreseeable future because of some of the problems and like some of the potential
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questions that is brought up i just here's my thinking right if my girl so okay put all the
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my girl comes to me and she's like hey brian i want to fuck other men which is what an open
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relationship is i'm like excuse me bitch and i don't call women bitch by the way like if i'm
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dating a girl i'd never call her a bitch okay in that moment i'd call her bitch excuse me bitch
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excuse me and i'd be black for 10 seconds what do you say to me sorry okay start sorry i'm being
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the relationship's immediately over if a girl ever came to me and was like i want an open
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relationship she might if she comes to me and she's like brian listen i know we already fuck
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once a day but i see your sexual prowess and i wish for you to have sex with other women
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i'll remain loyal to you brian and you can fuck other women i might be willing to hear her out
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because i'm a nice i'm a nice guy i'm a nice guy hey i'm generous i'm like if my girlfriend comes
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to me and is like look i will always be loyal to you brian i only want you i only want you
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romantically sexually other i don't know what other ways okay you can fuck other women i'll
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accept it that's okay you want to have that open fine if you insist i guess i guess i can go fuck
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other women if you insist but a girl comes to me and she says she wants to fuck other men
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i'm i don't even think i'm gonna ask her a question i'm just gonna be like oh you want
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an open relationship that's an open door right there get the fuck out out you fucking go oh no
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i didn't mean it i'm sorry i take it back i don't want to open i don't give a fuck
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out you go out the fucking door out you we have a dog together it's my dog now
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we have a house together well the fucking breaking the lease then motherfucker i'm just saying
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no i condone that look i'm just saying a girl comes to me and wants to fuck another man oh my
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god yeah oh ew disgusting i don't know i don't like sharing my husband i wouldn't want to share
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my man if my man said oh you're not doing enough for me i need more sex i'm doing it i'll give you
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more head i'll practice like i don't want you fucking another girl i'm not i'm not saying i
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i'm gonna go for the open relationship but it's like a girl comes to me and wants to have another
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man are you fucking out of your mind that's nasty if this was the 1950s i'm just kidding
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what if you're not doing it enough though like what if she wants it like 12 times a day and
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you're only getting like three four oh she's got the higher sex yeah then she's gotta hey she's
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gotta suffer a little bit she's gotta suffer for the relationship and you too hey man look men have
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men have a refract men have a men go to work men have a refractory period us men we can't be
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we can't be look some men can do it some men are studs maybe i'm over here look i'm honestly happy
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once twice a day like i don't even need it once i could go every other day like i don't need sex
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all that much so yeah there are some women that just need the constant dick it's constant i've
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had women try it like brian i need some dick i'm like i'm tired i've told the girl i have a headache
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i've told i've told i've been the one like nah relax wait patience relax lady
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blue ball yourself tomorrow wait and if she breaks up with you over it
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because that was the part of the intake form i see
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oh my god never yeah i feel like women are like able to be celibate more than men are like men
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are like oh well i just needed sex like i don't want to be in a relationship no i mean look if i
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wasn't fucking her for three months maybe that's fair but um no but i don't think that's the issue
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i think it's not that the woman needs more frequent dick she wants different dick that's
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not why open i don't really think that's why people have open marriage you're married just
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and usually men have the higher sex drive generally speaking i mean was that the reason
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for you the your husband didn't want to fuck you how i just stabbed myself yeah i'm good
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uh the uh usually the it's not the sometimes the woman wants to fuck too much but then you
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gotta tell her to calm down go watch oprah or some shit and then it's good then she's good yeah
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like but um no so for you when you open the marriage it's like it's like i'm in a new place
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or like but it's because you want you wanted novelty novelty it wasn't because you weren't
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getting enough dick it's because you wanted new dick you wanted novelty dick you wanted some
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chinese dick you wanted some barracuda dick you wanted some gorilla dick i don't know what wait
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okay whoa that's crazy never mind you you were not fucking animals to be clear yeah
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she wanted to try something new yeah okay and to be fair it's not for everyone and i i do think
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there are times where a woman can separate sex and feelings and you know maybe not as well as
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men can i don't really know but i don't think ever in that period i lost sight of the fact that i
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love my husband and like when i saw some of the like the complications it was causing we end up
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closing it but you opened it on four separate occasions four separate occasions and it's like
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man this gotta be brutal like oh shit we closed it wait who was trying to close it was it him
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no it's just like it's just like when we uh when we stop being physically just like when we go back
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to the same place usually i don't know i just think it's an l as the guy if your woman wants
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hey if your woman wants to new dick stop oh she belongs to the streets back to the streets
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be single no just be look be single you want dick like i think men should be look if you're
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in a relationship with a chick and you need some new pussy you gotta break up with your girl
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just be single you know she's got an innie you want a girl with an outie you got a dumper
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okay good talk um i'm just kidding you know the thing is if if a girl has an innie i'll still
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date her what does that mean resentfully i'll be resentful like i'll be resentful in the
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relationship but well i'm kidding but she has to make up for it you know how like short guys have
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to make up for it yeah like that's to compensate more a woman who has an innie has to make up for
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it are you serious i'm dead serious why because she doesn't have an audi why is that important
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why is the audi important yes versus an innie are you feeling a little self-conscious no a little
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okay you see i'm covering my stomach why does she have to make up for it yeah uh i mean you
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You know, because she doesn't have a characteristic that I want.
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She's got to make that steak extra better.
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but yeah uh my advice to men no offense to your husband
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if your girlfriend or wife wants to open the relationship bro you're not don't even
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you're not gonna convince her that you're not gonna there's no conversation it's over
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your girl even think bro you need to be on some minority report shit precognition like if you
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even she's thinking about that shit it's over you guys i feel like the minority report is like
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aging me what is that it is it's like a movie from the early 2000s with tom cruise where
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there are these weird fucking things in like pools or something these like alien human things
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that could like tell when somebody was going to commit a crime before they commit a crime
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So you gotta be on some minority pre-crime
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If this woman's even thinking about other dick
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How many more are you going to watch this?
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Well, I don't know if there's – we're going to skip that.
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You think the show tends to bring on women who are less representative of general women's intellect and very much –
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Now that I've watched the whole streams, I no longer think that.
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You said it carries the conversation under the male gaze.
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Well, case in point, you just used your perspective to tell your audience what to do.
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What I'm saying here is not just the male opinion.
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If your woman wants other dick, I'll break it down as simple as possible.
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Your girl wants other dick, no longer does she get your dick.
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with who oh i don't know um but you think that's the male the male gaze is like hold on can't wait
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wait couldn't it doesn't even seem like it's gendered if you're in a relationship
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i think it's okay for women it's certainly okay just as valid for women to be like
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the boyfriend goes to her hey i want to fuck other women and the woman it's totally like the
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okay for the woman to be like um no it's over yeah this is not a male thing if fine i'll make
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it gender neutral if your boyfriend or girlfriend your wife or husband wants to fuck other people
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it's over but it's more gross if it's the woman who wants to fuck other men
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so that particular statement right okay so maybe i'll turn to the panel do you guys feel like
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the podcast is often spoken under the male gaze or no or you think it's quite fair i think it's
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quite fair i think it's quite fair yeah because oh yeah i think women want to be led by a man
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like realistically like we don't really want to think about like our future think about like
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things like that like we want to trust our husband and that's like really like why traditional values
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should kind of follow into today's modern dating w i also agree with brian when he's saying that
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it's more gross for a girl to cheat um than a guy because like a guy can like have sex with a girl
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and then like take a shower and like it's gone yes chloe like you're learning yes like a guy
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like comes in you or just like even fucks you like that's like inside of you like you're not
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you can't really do anything about that wow oh my god she's so fucking right it
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actually she's true she's true uh i didn't actually let led on to that one of the big things
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well i mean she already pretty much perfectly stated it if i fuck a girl and i take a shower
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after i'm i'm like a let's remove stds from both scenarios std's gone i could fuck a girl
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waiting period even some some like he doesn't even come like you're still like stretched out
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or like well i don't know like dick in you like a guy is like the same you know what i mean like
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you're not like girls can be like sore after or like it's just like completely different i think
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personally well yeah but the primary thing here is okay as a guy if i come inside a girl if i
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come inside a girl and then i shower after i don't care if she's got the fuck niac her pussy's
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like niagara falls i don't care how wet the pussy is i don't care if she's a she's a squirter
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i don't care if she's like grueling is that the fucking word gruel she's literally like
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she's she ejaculates so much but i'm just saying i'm just saying i take a shower i'm good if you're
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if you're getting blasted inside by a semen demon and the guy's got like multiple strings of cum
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just it's like insane it's like boom boom boom boom boom boom boom boom boom and it's like you're
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literally leaking with his fucking cum that shit's in there for three days so you're leaking out
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you're leaking out another man's cum because women you're not supposed to clean in that like
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you're not supposed to douche you're not supposed to douche like the vagina is self-cleaning so
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you're not supposed to put put soap in there you can't put soap in the vagina you're gonna throw
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your shit off so that's why it's worse if a woman cheats because there's it if i fuck okay if i
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fuck a girl and i shower right after i'm good as new so that particular example aside that's a big
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example it is one big example but there's also other examples of where i think for you the the
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purpose of like the point you're trying to get across is that there are there are many cases
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where returning to traditional values is better for modern dating is that fair to say yes okay
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sorry it's the champagne in a traditional in a traditional gender role environment yes male is
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more dominant yes and therefore things are spoken through the male gaze because the male is more
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dominant and therefore control the perspective patriarchy that is my statement that is the that
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is the purpose of my statement yes but women should should acquiesce to the male order of
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things whether a woman would is different from whether a woman should you're saying they should
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but that doesn't mean they would would could all of the above green eggs and ham i do declare sam
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i am yeah if men are in charge society functions back to patriarchy back to male order fuck the
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Go stand in the corner and think about what you've done.
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Go into the corner. Think about what you've done.
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look out the window actually there's so there's actually you can see your eyes right wait can you
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see your eyes can you see the your reflection in the window i can't i want you to look deep
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in your own eyes and just look deep into your soul real black and think about
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think about what you've done can you see me huh no i can't see you okay think about what you've
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No, you have to stay there for two minutes and think about it.
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Yes, I think the male order, the male order of things.
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everything's so soft you know China's doing
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There's so much construction here in Santa Barbara
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What the fuck, that computer came out of nowhere
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There's two, and look, men are fucking up too, man
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and you're doing that get fucked you just did it i'm demonstrating it like bro we need we need
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strong men i'm not saying i'm perfect but we need a return to strength we need a return to virtue
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we need a return to decency not this fucking only fans fucking beer drinking much actually
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beer is okay maybe a little beer not too much beer no weed get rid of the weed get rid of the
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drugs okay i don't know what the fuck let me get back to the let me finish the show uh do you want
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to respond to that sorry i was monologuing i mean you just proved my point about this being under
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the male gaze so i don't have more things to say but it's not the male gaze to be like yo uh open
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relationships suck yeah that wasn't the that wasn't the only thing right you just went on like
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a five-minute rant about traditional values
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I think we can move on from that particular point.
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No we're not going to let fucking people trans our kids
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Trans women don't get to play in men's sports
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Trans women don't get to play in women's sports
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No we need to literally fucking deport them all
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legal immigration needs to be paused what else do we need to do why do you think legal why do
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you think legal immigration needs to be paused uh well right now we have a massive illegal
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immigration issue and obviously legal immigration is something different but we need to like before
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we can put resources into that uh yeah we i'm not saying like completely get rid of it but there
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needs to be a halting on that there's way too many fucking people in the united states we need
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to deport about 10 20 30 million people and rent is bullshit cost of living is bullshit i understand
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that this is these are nuanced economic issues that extend beyond just the fact that we have
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20 30 million people taking up the housing stock in this country there's other things there's
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inflation there's other components to it however uh until we can get our prices in place where
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american citizens can afford to buy a house and have a family and raise kids and they don't feel
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this economic pressure to not have kids because they they just can't uh yeah no more immigrants
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even if they're legal come into the country taking our housing stock we need to drive the housing
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prices down we need to drive rent down so that people are in so people can be feel like they're
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in a place financially where they can have a family where they can have a house and the american dream
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is is pretty much gone how many people you get most of you are in your 20s you think you're
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gonna buy a house get fucked and i don't mean that in a bad way you're not gonna be able to
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buy a fucking house and do you think the only way to do that is to halt legal immigration we can we
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can build more supply however i can't think of a more immediate solution than deporting the people
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like subprime loans but it had like hold on what so that was contributing to the housing bubble
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last time around right because of the subprime subprime mortgages and also because people were
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able to give out loans of with very little proof points so this is just based on a movie by the
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way i didn't read a book but in the movie there was a lot of like 2008 2007 yeah yeah yeah but
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okay that's not an issue at the moment so what do you think is causing the housing issue right now
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well okay it's it's very complicated it's very complicated the cost of living is not just tied
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to illegal immigration but one of the ways we could perhaps alleviate uh 10 20 30 percent
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is i do think if you open up 10 20 uh million housing stock uh excuse me i'm not wording that
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right if you open up like 10 to 20 million uh housing and rental opportunities for american
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citizens you're going to see rent prices down you're going to see uh house prices down we also
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need to get rid of these foreign investors this is uh that are just buying up that are just buying
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up property in the united states i mean that's a small percentage of it but they're in uh canada
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these these foreign investors who just buy houses in canada it's fucking terrible the housing
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prices in canada are terrible we need an outright ban on it here you shouldn't if you live in
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fucking no offense uh if you're a citizen in china hey you can rent in the united states if
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you're visiting you should not be able to own a fucking house in the united states if you're not
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an american citizen if you're an american citizen you can own a house until then get fucked i think
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there are different ways to channel foreign investment into boosting the economy of certain
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certain parts of the country like i'm saying it's a very nuanced and complicated uh situation it is
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and uh halting legal immigration which is already very challenging for a lot of people
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to obtain may not be the first solution or the or the solution one of the many so one of the
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first solutions to go for okay i think america has a lot of systemic issues education is one of
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biggest one like educators get paid so little and therefore you don't get the right quality of
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teachers and therefore kids and kids are not going up with the right qualifications going for jobs
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and they're not taught to go look for different types of jobs and provide a prosperous future for
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themselves and as a result they can't afford housing like there's so many problems why is
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illegal immigration the first thing we go for well first off immigration so first off if the illegal
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immigrants who are occupying housing stock and you can deport them within uh what takes longer
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to deport one illegal immigrant or to build one house what takes longer
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building house yeah i think it really depends it really depends you think how long does it
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typically take to build one house is it the illegal immigrants that's like causing the
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housing crisis though i said it's a nuanced thing and there's other factors however yes it's very
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It's really not that complicated to comprehend what I'm saying.
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Say that there's 20 to 30 million illegal immigrants in the United States.
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If you deport them, that opens up housing for citizens.
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So they paid money for those houses, and now their houses are claimed by the government?
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When you say it opens up housing for citizens, are you saying that illegal immigrants rent?
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It's probably 90, it's on the low end, 90% of illegal immigrants are renting.
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So you can at least open it up to American citizen renters.
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ultimately though one of the big reasons people aren't getting married and having kids
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the big marriage to the side the reason people aren't having kids what look again this is also
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nuanced it's not just economics but that's a economics is a massive part if people don't
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feel economically comfortable they are hesitating and delaying having children
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people should be able to live a house like have a house and have a space and not be throwing away
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such massive chunks of their income just to rent like just to the rent just to the housing prices
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yeah i think that's valid are you familiar with are you familiar with how singapore does the
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housing program i don't know i'm not familiar with singapore's housing program so so what they
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do is um a couple needs to be engaged to marry to be in line for a subsidized housing program
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so it's like a way to like get people to like get married and have kids but and and be able
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to have affordable affordable housing as a result does singapore have massive illegal immigration
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issues uh singapore has a very robust legal immigration program but they're in different
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tiers so there are certain individuals that immigrate to singapore that work in singapore
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that their visa cannot allow them to obtain like full immigration or residency so it depends on
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the work that they do okay look there's all kinds of solutions that we can employ i i mean your
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proposition that uh you know people who get married they get some sort of housing subsidy
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that's an interesting thought perhaps it might be effective ultimately though uh it's it's uh
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cheaper and quicker to deport someone than to build more housing stock now should we build
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more housing stock yes we should we need more supply however yeah we need to uh just deport
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it got really quiet at the table that's crazy that that i think we're all just pretty
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like tired or maybe drained a little i'm exhausted yeah and there's no sugar in our body
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there's snacks back there but i'm we're gonna wrap up pretty soon i just need to do the
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rapid fire questions um thank you well okay so are are you against the deportations
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oh no i was more i was more for like uh having a better program for legal immigration i was more
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for having a better program for legal but are you against deportations um i'm not familiar enough
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with illegal immigration for to be honest like so deportations like if they overstay
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right well if they're caught and they overstay well there's people who come here like for travel
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or for they have visas and yes they do overstay but the majority of illegal immigrants cross the
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border illegally i think if they came here illegally then um there should be like unless
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it's asylum are we are we are we also mexico is a safe country there that's bullshit that you need
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to come to the united states for asylum yeah so mexico i'm sorry mexico well hold on mexico has
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issues but this idea that if you're like fleeing from venezuela that there aren't countries between
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venezuela and the united states that would that would grant you asylum if it's genuine asylum
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but that's bullshit the reality is most illegal immigrants are economic migrants it's not oh my
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god the government's prosecuting me no they just want to bet they want better economic prospects
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yeah i don't have a strong enough opinion on illegal immigration to be honest okay
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i guess i it's too nuanced for me to have an opinion what's the there's literally no nuance
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they're here illegally we have laws it's against the law we have laws we should enforce our laws
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this is why you're talking about the male gaze this is why we need like you women no offense
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you women with your empathy i'm the empathetic one you women want to do the short-term nice thing
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which is all this poor illegal immigrant wants a better life you know what i want a better life
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for the citizenry of this country why i want a better life for my fellow citizens
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and i'm protecting my fellow citizens and you just don't understand that it's actually us men
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us who actually want to deport the people we have the true empathy we are the true empathetic ones
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because we empathize with our citizens like what the fuck are the laws not being enforced because
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of female empathy it's literally because i i don't know enough about the situation if only men voted
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there would never be a democrat there would never be a democrat ever in power it's women who are
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like open the borders trans the kids it's women overwhelmingly who do that now to be clear
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there are conservative women there are republican women there are women who are
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on board with what we're trying to do however it is predominantly women who are in favor
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of these self-destructive political uh political uh policy that is destructive to nations and
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destructive to people because of your so-called empathy yeah yeah look i love zakiya i'm pretty
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sure she's the one that already said all these things that you're already saying yeah literally
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i'm like wow she already said that she clocked it look it's like yeah you want look these people
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come here for a better life if i was a if i lived in a different country and it was fucking shit
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i'd probably want to come here too america's fucking dope and look i love mexicans i love
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mexicans i love peruvians i love i love colombians i love them all they're all great people they're
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all good people i'm sure most 99 of them that come here are good people however we have laws
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we have laws and and it's you you can't just import 100 million 200 million 300 million people
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uh into the country it would not be good there's 100 there's 1.4 billion people in india
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we have three we have like what 350 to 400 million people in the united states i think you ask most
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people who live in india hey do you want american come come to america be an american citizen we
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don't have the infrastructure to support half of india coming to live here in addition to that
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if half of india moved here we'd stop looking like american we'd start looking like india
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and uh look ultimately um like it would the the america would no longer resemble
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america like that's why you can't just have completely like you need to have controls on
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immigration okay any response no i agree and also are you upset other places your feelings
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No, I mean, my feelings are not wrapped up in this because I'm not an illegal immigrant.
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Well, I know, but you could be an American citizen and be pro, you could be fine with illegal immigration.
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Yeah, I think I don't have enough information to make a judgment about for or against this particular situation, this particular topic.
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Single immigration is a net negative for the United States.
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It's a net negative for almost any country.
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So I understand the perspective of a country prioritizing its citizens, of course.
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Well, I mean, I don't commit to memory the exact population of various countries.
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Should the Japanese, like if, let's say, 200 million people from India moved to Japan, is it still Japan?
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i wouldn't know it depends on what makes japan japan
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right like if it's geographical it will still be japan if the culture gets um contaminated in
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some way or gets diluted in some way culturally it could change yeah well okay so is japan an
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ethnostate i'm not sure i would need a definition okay so if somebody tells you they're japanese
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are they black usually like is their skin color black what the fuck okay bad example
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bad example bad example if somebody tells you they're if somebody tells you they're japanese
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are they white i think that's a very different point from the one maybe i i believe you're trying
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to make because in america there's people with all kinds of skin colors and they're still all
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american no i know so there's a difference obviously in the united states uh a little bit
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here just because we do have some multiculturalism that certain other countries do not but it still
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sort of gets to the idea here which is if you just completely import an entire different culture
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and the numbers from that culture either over time or quickly or through second and third
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generations uh start changing you know changing how things look in your country uh do you lose
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your country i i think some people might say you do um i think america is a country like you said
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there's an american dream american dream implies people have um pursuit of happiness freedom etc
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a lot of people come for that i think america has created a great ideology for people to want to come
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and one of the consequences that people will come whatever it takes so that's the shadow side of
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having this amazing you know ideology and attracting people yeah there are certain
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measures that you have to take in order for to protect its citizens and to retain its culture
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i think america right now is kind of losing its own identity in a little bit which is why i think
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for this podcast a lot of people are trying to regain that identity in some way but that doesn't
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mean deporting everyone or you know having a very strong hand a firm hand on legal immigration
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is the solution there can be better you know like education of culture you know trying to bring
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people together around uh some kind of like shared identity shared reality there's lots of other ways
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well yeah okay final thing i'm just gonna move it on for the sake of time um so um
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even if america has a past of being quite welcoming oftentimes to legal immigrants
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nothing prevents a citizenry from determining that perhaps how things were or how things are
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are no longer beneficial to the well-being of a nation and a citizenry so even if it is the
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case that yes america was very much welcoming open arms blah blah blah uh nothing there's
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nothing there and especially constitutionally there's no constitutional guarantee that we
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ought to like just allow for rampant illegal immigration um i'm sorry thank you for interrupting
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me while i was trying to finish up my fucking point i'm sorry so we can change our view on
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the immigration question and so ultimately if we've come to a determination that immigration
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is no longer to america's benefit then i think it compels us to change it yeah i i think i can
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agree with that yes okay uh here let me finish up the the notes here from everybody uh j dog
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uh you said mind-blowing stories about some of your exes i know i stepped away when you talked
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about some of them uh i'm just gonna read it and you tell me if there's anything you want to add
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you dated this guy for five plus years you took his virginity and by the time you had broke up
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he had slept with around seven or eight other girls that you know of that's correct besides
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you then he started doing meth yes and then he became scary he was physically abusive he pulled
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a gun on you yes uh he tried to grab you by the hair and then he grabbed your ear and pulled so
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hard he ripped two of your earrings out yes and drew blood he broke up and then stalked you
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and showed up at your work and took a picture of your car
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five years, the time you found out he cheated on you.
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That was the very first time I found out that he cheated on me.
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did you tell the punching him in the dick story yeah yeah i did all right uh you said let's see
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uh you'd like to discuss how the dating pool is now compared
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to just a few years ago years ago how high expectations of both men and women
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uh yeah high high expectations how so um well i feel like social media has a lot to do with it
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like people go online and they like see other people having certain things or being treated
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a certain way in relationships and they're like expecting that or like I don't know I feel like
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a lot of guys expect women to be like a 10 out of 10 and they're like they're not or they don't
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really bring like a lot to the table or or they're with somebody and they kind of expect them to be
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a certain way because they see other women on social media like looking a certain way if that
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makes sense and then also like women being influenced to get like a lot of like plastic
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surgery or getting work done yeah against that um you said that you feel like some men have become
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princesses sometimes yeah some men are okay and you said you were we talked about this you were
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in a situationship on and off for about three and a half years did you say i love you to him
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uh like during sex i don't think that counts though you lied you lied about being in love
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did he you okay that's interesting um were you not boyfriend girlfriend though situationship
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three and a half years that's long yeah we were never like boyfriend girlfriend
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shit and how old are you you're 20 i'm almost 30 i'm 29 shit he took some good years man three and
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a half years situation shit that's fucked kind of my fault though because when you come back i would
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you participated yep so uh okay lexi your hot take is not all left mode models are automatically
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hoes yeah because i don't consider myself a hoe i don't leave the house i don't sleep with men
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so i don't consider myself a hoe i know what i send pictures but like a lot of regular women
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also send pictures as well so as far as that goes like i just don't consider myself like a hoe
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okay got it uh we're gonna do a little pick me up segment here really quick then we have some
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rapid fire questions then we're gonna wrap the show uh let's do the ai segment super quick
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uh pull up pull up the super chat really quick first let's just do the super chat chloe can you
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read this um happy birthday brian this has been a good panel nothing crazy but saw it all around
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well there was a kick at the beginning for putting chloe on blast you're more humble than you seem
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rest of the panel has also been equally positive compared to like crash out kylie still missed
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but Canadian or whatever. Thank you man, appreciate it
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Thank you man, appreciate it. Thank you for the soup chat
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uh what the fuck play please oh my god stream labs please fucking work holy shit lexi has
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experienced duping people and seeing multiple men at the same time pandering is one way to put it
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i've never cheated on anyone what did you do lexi what did i do tell us quickly what you did what
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did you do okay i'm gonna give you the quick rundown and i'm gonna be so fucking real right
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now like honestly it's like quite embarrassing but I was on telegram and I had an opportunity
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where this guy reached out to me and this is quite typical in what I do for a line of work
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he's reaching out to me he says hey something along the lines of I can send you 15,000 every
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week if you're like willing to talk to me chat with me and he eventually wanted to meet up we
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didn't end up meeting up but I was talking to him and he was sending me like some gifts and whatnot
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But then after, we never met up, and it would turn from, like, okay, I'm going to see you in one week to, okay, I'm going to see you, like, in three months.
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And it just, like, turned into this whole thing where I felt like I was, like, talking to him a lot online.
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And it kind of, like, what I do for a living, it's, like, it kind of does affect my mindset on that.
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Like, you're using my services, you know, for free.
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So, yeah, I was just, like, okay, I called it off.
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and then now he's saying like okay that I was participating in a romance scam and that I was
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just using him for his money and stuff like that but I already told him did you did you romance
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scam him no oh okay um but you how much money did he send you in total well it's like if we're
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talking about monetary value like I also provided calling and la da da da that I do for a living
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so okay you yes you provided the girlfriend experience how much money did he send you
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he didn't send me like much money he sent me 250 250 dollars is the exact amount of money
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he said 15 000 didn't you say no but he he initially said that but he only sent me 250
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but that was the initial agreement and that never even happened so that's why i was talking to this
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guy that's why um how long were you talking to him not long a couple weeks a couple months a
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couple weeks and he offered to pay you 15 000 a week yes and then it never even happened yeah
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not not 1500 15 000 15 000 a week if he saw me but we never met oh but you never met well
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okay yeah so then that's why he said a romance scam so he only paid you 250 yeah 250 bucks what
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am i gonna do with that i felt very used i was about to say 15 000 that's like i'm sorry but
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this is my my life yeah i was gonna say you're a terrible negotiator if you offered 15 000 and
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you only ended up with 250 yeah well i did get my nails paid for so it was nice you know that's it
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though that's it quite literally that's all my hands and toes such a romance scammer you fucking
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romance scammed i know i'm horrible terrible is that the guy yeah i'm assuming he was like
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literally harassing me sending me emails every day calling me non-stop using different numbers
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like did you fuck him no i never met him never seen him face to face never smelled his air
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all right well i mean interesting i feel like just i don't know how do you look i'm i'm not
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into the whole the OF girlfriend experience romance scam bullshit but like to go from 15,000
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down to 250 like yeah that's if he was able to provide 15 if he was able to provide 15,000
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a week I feel like 250 is not like a huge loss you know right but
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yeah and the fact that he was saying that i was doing a romance scam but he said to me that he's
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done this with multiple women like he sent them actually a lot of money and he never said that
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they did a romance scam on him or whatever i don't yeah i don't know i don't know all the details but
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i think more so he just wanted to get money out of me like uh scare me into thinking that there
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was like a lawsuit or some type of basis oh he was gonna romance scam you right exactly like he
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wanted my OF money boy get out of here this is why honestly look I I know you're pandering on the show
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or whatever but like you can get in I feel like this these situations are just bad man like it's
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just you're he's I don't know it's a bad situation the guys start wanting more and then yeah and then
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the guys feel scammed and then you're dealing with pushy man I don't know man I feel like as
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the OF girl you have to like want to not do it like if you tell a man this is what I do for a
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living right now but I don't want to do this for the rest of my life now you guys can come up with
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a plan that you guys are actually going to do something of action to where you can get to where
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you want to be yeah you got to cut that shit out yo you got to cut that shit you got to get rid of
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that uh okay let me make sure I think I pretty much hit all the notes I wanted to all right
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rapid fire question here, rapid fire. Oh, wait,
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no, no, no, the AI. Okay, let's blast through it.
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out of you. You guys would be a power couple.
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out of you he's sexy the middle the middle one oh my god no the last one the last one
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is definitely sexier than the middle the middle one mogs harder to be honest no the last one with
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black hair yeah boom all right so would you date him yes or no no i don't know what that was that
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was crazy okay next oh shit oh yeah you know what why are they so sexy like
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okay would you date him what no wait can you zoom in on these a bit because they're kind of like
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uh yeah you're gonna have to like yeah that's kind of how i'd like it can you scroll down a bit
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would you date him do you need to fix the other ones or
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uh okay while they're doing that let me just do some quick shout outs here
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we have uh let's see did somebody no we're good there let me see if there's anything else uh guys
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go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow in the prime sub all right do you have them fixed
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okay let's pull them up uh next oh man oh man don't show it again oh man what's bad he's
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That's not actually, that's like you, but AI.
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He's light-skinned? You don't like light-skinned?
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I would date the fuck out of him. He's sexy.
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you look no the middle one looks gay you look no not the not the way actually the beard i think
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the beard is good yeah he looks like an alien he's got lip filler in the middle why is he gay
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in the middle yeah he looks like an alien in the middle no no but the beard one that's actually
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pretty he mogs no no absolutely you only date black guys no into the mic but okay
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Sorry you only date black guys I should go back to the last time
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Your baby daddy are you married or I'm confused
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Bro, they gave her lip filler, and, like, she looks plastic-surgeried.
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honestly dog i gotta pass on both bro like usually they do even yours is so hot but today i know
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they they screwed me over today yeah looks looks very plastic like that's no that's just looks
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tired i look tired to begin with but um and then did they do like the looks one too no there's no
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looks batch do you know what i'm talking about yeah oh okay that's fine all right rapid fire
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questions and then we're gonna wrap okay gotta go through this quick gotta go quick quick all gas
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no brakes yes please yeah well four hour drive here yes sir hey whoa don't give me flack you
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were fucking no we're in it to win it though you were 40 you were 40 minutes late you were 40 minutes
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late i'm so sorry no i was only like 20 minutes late you guys took a while to open the door you
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were not 20 minutes late you were not yeah i got here at like 4 26 bullshit you were 30 minutes
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late at minimum 26 minutes late whatever uh okay so take my master debating class
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hold on i'm trying to find uh does anyone here think i'm a misogynist no show of hands
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raise your hand no to the no this is a no no raise your hand if you think i'm a misogynist
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nobody really come on i won't be mean no okay well it seems like you love women you support
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women you want a woman i love women but i also believe in the patriarchy but there is no
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patriarchy but also we should have a patriarchy but there is no patriarchy but anyways um is
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anybody here a feminist show of hands what the who raised their hand right there tiffany put your
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put your hand down she's a Kanye fan that's different uh okay all right uh
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yeah don't worry about it uh just just ignore uh okay so uh let's see here oh um
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who's in a relationship Lexi and then you and then you're married right okay don't worry about
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uh so anyways you you are um you're married do you have a hall pass from your husband like you
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have a celebrity crush that you'd give you a pass for since you're in you've been in an open
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relationship we've never talked about it uh do you have a celebrity crush no sorry like i don't know
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brad pitt wants to fuck like you're gonna go for it or like young brad pitt if he wants to fuck i
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will first need to talk to my husband about whether it's okay and then yeah we have a
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conversation hey is it okay if i touch on brad pitt over here really quick is that okay is it
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okay if i touch selena gomez real quick like her she's like what about like uh titanic leo
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like do i want to do that probably but i will still need to talk to him no i know but like
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let's say titanic leo approached you and he was like look i know you're in a marriage you need to
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go ask your husband for permission yeah if he gives you permission i'm down do you approach
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your husband and ask him titanic leo wants to fuck on a boat yeah so so between that and brad
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pitt fight club i would choose brad pitt fight club and yeah i'll ask i'll ask him okay and your
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husband says yes do you do it i'll do it oh my god huge l huge l divorce okay anyways um let's see
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here uh where are we are those the rapid fire questions yeah can i answer that one i don't
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think so can i just say like hell no like that's very disrespectful to my man i would never do that
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like i would literally say that to the other rapid fire questions rapid fire questions what
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Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?
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All right, name three countries besides the USA you cannot repeat.
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If my husband gets to fuck Anne Hathaway or whatever, 100% go for it.
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That's my, like, you know, that would be my favorite.
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I'm just saying, like, if he gets that opportunity, I will also give him that.
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I gave you Titanic Leo and Fight Club Brad Pitt.
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You don't think Anne Hathaway from Love and Other Drugs is hot?
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sorry i'm so tired switzerland norway um france germany and russia
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don't wait for me to prompt you just africa next next next next next
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i can't even think of a third one that hasn't already been said
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spain columbia cambodia egypt wait africa what the what are you asia why those are continents
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girl probably yeah africa so can you repeat the two that you said africa and asia okay got it
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Lexi um wait what three countries um ukraine cambodia colombia egypt thailand ethiopia
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india india okay yeah you three countries okay um new zealand australia finland
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seven eight yeah seven seven you sure how many continents six six
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Well, how about this? Let me help. I'll give a hint.
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I feel like we're running out of continents at this point.
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I'm going to just use the bathroom super quick.
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Literally anything else y'all got to know, because I got a lot of answers.
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so i can't think of anything right now this is so late i would ask you i just don't want to take
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away from the questions itself oh you're smart like that yeah very i've never seen i'm japanese
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i think there's like five right there's like saturn jupiter yeah there's iranus oh there's
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eight okay guys there's like people outside like screaming and honking like guys how many letters
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is that inside yeah it's been here though it's been harmless it's like not touching it was on
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that wall and then it came over here okay yeah somebody killed that thing yeah okay i agree so
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he said to talk about boobs who wants to go first i love my boobs i don't have any titties you do
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have very nice boobs thank you I love them um I want to say that I can like easily lie about
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not having a boob job because my boobs are super soft and like I usually wear a push-up bra too
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to like make them look bigger and like to be honest like I lie a lot that they're real and
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like girls are like oh my god like let me like feel them and then they like literally believe
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me that really they're real like the other day one girl was like you're lying like let me shine
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a flashlight like to your titty and like i let her do it and like you can't even like it looks
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like just a regular broom so i think my surgeon is just like fire thank you yeah do you think
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sydney sweeney's boobs are real or fake they're real no they're real yeah they're real she's my
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do you guys think sydney sweeney is pretty because i heard the on here last time that a lot of people
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don't think that i think she's really i think she's average a lot i think she's okay i think
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her boobs are amazing but i think her face is average i think she's like not model pretty but
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she's really attractive all right i'm gonna get through this as quick as possible just really
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curious um does france mean anything to you yes how so i i like are you just um are are you like
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heading you're from washington yes you're like heading back to washington after this yes i'm
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driving oh you're driving back yep yep yep see see always confirm uh okay so we're gonna blast
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through the rest of these questions i'm hoping it takes maybe 20 minutes okay so uh what planet
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do we live on earth earth earth earth earth man you guys are very smart tonight good for you
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um uh the government building the pentagon is what shape
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wait what the you know the pentagon what shape it's in the shape of the pentagon what shape is
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it a pentagon what shape is it the pentagon what shape pentagon what shape is it a pentagon
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congratulations you guys got it correct no yeah first time okay uh what country what
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north of north is up or down wait okay so america usa
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i just was i'm confused with the north south well on the map if you're looking at a map
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with your finger is north what direction is north and what direction is south
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um on the map i don't know why that's always been so confusing to me like i'm sorry
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i'm that stupid no just quick just point in the direction north south okay perfect uh what
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country is wait hold on i'm skipping a bunch of these
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how many sides does a triangle have three what country gifted the statue of liberty to the
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united states oh shit um the statue of liberty yeah you know in new york like the was it was
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it england no was it france okay anybody have a different answer i thought france uh wow
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uh is that right i'm skipping like most of these just for time uh what continent is brazilian
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just guess guess a country or wait did i say continent sorry my bad didn't mean to confuse
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you guess a continent north america north america sure south america maybe
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america south america chloe i got flamed for this question last time i literally don't know
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don't know south america okay we'll stop there uh on that question anyways what continent is
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egypt in starting with you um uh south south america south america yeah
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we throw a country just guess the country guess the country i'm tired continent it's okay
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continent oh my god i'm sorry i'm sorry well flint Asia okay Africa Africa North Africa
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North Africa not a continent but I remember last time I said the Middle East oh my god not again
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Chloe Chloe not the Middle East not again okay uh what continent what continent is Japan
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in? Asia? Asia. Asia. Chloe? It's me, Brian. Oh, my God. Chloe. I think that's the clip
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myself how many um how many dimes make a dollar um 10 12 10 12 10 10 okay uh what is the capital
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of france um wow i love this i don't know that one i love that this is around too have you been
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to france i haven't been to france wait haven't no i've been to dubai but i haven't done europe
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you've been to dubai huh yeah yeah did you pay for the flight no i didn't
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she's been to dubai and she didn't pay for the flight
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yikes was it a was it a prince is it not a flex what it was not not a not a flex
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on a map is north this way or this way why do what i know about a map is south this way or this way
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i believe south is down because i'm from the south and i think that that's okay uh all right
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what is if today is monday what day is it in three days wednesday yep thursday thursday thursday
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okay you guys are so smart if who painted the mona lisa
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i'm thinking sorry i'm trying to think oh you're just like we're looking off into it yeah i know
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i was thinking i'm i i'm like i remember like visually no i i don't know i can't think of it
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Okay, what is the name of the famous car company founded by Henry Ford?
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If it takes three minutes to boil one egg, how many minutes does it take to boil three eggs?
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how many how many nickels make a dollar 20 okay what is five times five uh 25
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should i just ask the asian girl all the math questions uh kiko 12 divide by three four
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100 divide by four uh 25 15 plus 35 50 90 minus 45 45 you see how it works chloe i'm just gonna
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terrible you see how that works you see i i gotta i gotta get literally just asked all the agents
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that wasn't fair how many how many branches of the u.s government starting with you three
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name one branch of the u.s government executive
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what century are we in 21st are you sure yes what do you think um 21st i'm gonna go 21st
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18th century 17th century all right what galaxy do we live in
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andromeda galaxy maybe milky way milky way maybe milky milky way
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how many months in a decade whoa that's a lot of math for right now can i pass
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china you sure yeah china yeah what country is wuhan in
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uh what is wuhan wuhan oh yeah sorry did i not pronounce it
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How many days of the week end with the letter Y?
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26 26 26 i don't know okay uh is it 26 what is the closest star to earth
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i don't know that well you know how there's stars in the sky which one is the closest what's the
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name of it is it the north star i feel like that's a north star okay that's a good guess
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answer. Sun? I don't know. Maybe. What do you think? Sun. Maybe the sun? Sun. The moon?
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The moon. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. It's close. We should have done this first. I know. The
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moon? Okay. Where are we? What year did the War of 1812 start? What year did the War
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of 1812 start yeah 1812 final answer question final answer yeah you are correct congratulations
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what weighs more a pound of feathers or a pound of bricks a pound uh maybe wait there are they both
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there's a pound of feathers and a pound of bricks which one of them weighs more though
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because think about bricks right they're like dance bro yeah but there aren't they both a pound
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I feel like you're trying to trick question it, but I think that's right.
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What country is the Penn Muck now in Clowington?
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uh what do you think ashlyn panama panama i'm i missed it sorry yeah what disregard what they
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were saying they were wrong what country is the uh panama canal in uh i'm gonna say panama
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final answer that's all i got you got it right congratulations thank you uh what language do
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people in mexico speak spanish spanish spanish you sure maybe cantonese mandarin because my mom's
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boyfriend is spanish i love those chinese speaking mexicans those are my favorite
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okay good all right if you gotta wait for the crickets if you pass the person in second place
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If you pass a person in second, you're in first place.
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Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
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I want to say Boston or New York, but I don't know, honestly.
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boston is where pearl harbor like the boston tea party that's in hawaii boston tea party that was
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pearl was pearl harbor and it was boston i don't know i all i know is that pearl harbor got bombed
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Eiffel Tower, that's in New York, United States, America, France, Paris, France, France, France, France, France, France, France, France, France.
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yes uh adolf hitler ruled which country germany germington germany germania was it
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yeah germania you're saying before mount everest was discovered what was the tallest mountain in
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the world um mount wait what'd you say mount everest what was the tallest mountain in the world
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i don't know that one okay i don't know i know it i just can't pronounce it
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uh spell it i don't know how to spell it if i can't pronounce it i definitely don't know
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how to spell it down make noises or something okay i don't know okay yep love that mountain
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my favorite one to hike um mount caucasus caucasar or something like that caucas mountains
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mount everest okay chloe i have no idea mount everest kilimanjaro mount everest mount everest
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it is mount everest because it was still it was still there before it was discovered
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what what country did the vietnam war happen in vietnam final answer i'm just yeah yeah you're
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just confused yes girl yeah my head okay how much how much is a quarter of an hour a quarter of an
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hour um 15 minutes any disagreement from anybody what is 34 plus 66 100 what is 100 minus 66 34.
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Okay, who's the leader of China, I should say then?
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if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today so if you're born 10 years ago how old
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would you be today 10 10 22 22 okay 26 26 what about you you said 10 years ago yeah how old
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would you be today how old would you be today because how old are you currently i'm 27 what
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year were you born? 99. Okay, so like just doing the math. So, okay, if you were born
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10 years ago, how old would you be today? 17. 17. Chloe, what about you? 10 years old.
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What about you? 10. Congratulations. You guys are all geniuses. How many world wars
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were there? Two. You were about to say three, though. Well, we're there yet. How many world
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wars two two two two yep you guys can also if you want but i've just been hearing silence so okay
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uh what decade what decade was world war one so uh 1820s 1950s what's the decade
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uh i'm gonna pass on this i don't guess throw out a guess wild guess um
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i'm gonna say i'm gonna say the 20s that's what you just said the 1820s yeah we'll just roll with
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it 1820s yeah you said you said it okay no yeah we'll just say 1820 1820 okay i don't know just
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throw a wild guess 1700s 1600s well that century give me a decade oh man like 1600 60 wait 1640
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uh what about uh decade i think it was 1920 or 1918 i think well 1910s uh okay primary was
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because the following war world war ii took place in two separate decades
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but what was the primary decade it was in world war ii
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i'm like i'm like i'm forgetting um my history knowledge well when did you say world war one
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you said world war one was 1820 yeah but i don't think that's actually right but you do know
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if world war one was 1820 world war ii was definitely after 1820 after world war one so
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Okay, just throw one out so I can get to the...
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Multiple choice question, and this isn't approximate, but which is closer?
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Of the people that died, the soldiers that died in World War II, what number is the closest?
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um i'm gonna say 10 000 10 000 okay 10 million 10 million one 10 000 10 000 10 million 10 million
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10 000 10 million a million a million you said world war ii yeah 10 million i mean you we could
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even swap it out for world war one too i think both were upwards of 20 to 50 million yeah we got
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a real chat gpt over here we're gonna call it chat gp lex never mind if i fail a test you gotta
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study again name who here is into k-pop anybody a k-pop stan nobody nobody nobody nobody can
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anybody can anybody name three k-pop artists nobody okay i can okay let's hear it black pink
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Or are familiar with the Jenners and the Kardashians
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Who here thinks they could name three Kardashians
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Okay, Kylie Jenner, Kendall Jenner, Kourtney Kardashian, Kim Kardashian, what is the mom's name?
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Let's see, do you guys think it's fatphobic or wrong to reject a woman because of her weight?
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uh okay no no virgins all right never mind that question doesn't apply almost here at the tail
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end um let's see here do you guys think it's sexist for men to have the expectation
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that women cook clean do laundry be submissive do you think it's sexist anybody anybody going
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once twice three times sexist but it's nothing wrong with that nothing wrong it is it is sexist
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but nothing wrong with it is what you're saying okay valid valid uh let's see here what percentage
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of men do you think and try to spit out an answer just super quick and on to the next
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what percent of men do you think are over six feet tall
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i don't know maybe like 30 percent 30 percent uh 20 yeah like 20 i'm sorry i wasn't paying
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attention uh percent of men do you think are over six feet um 10 15 25 uh 15 maybe 10 probably less
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than 10 i think it's less than one percent really what i might be so wrong nope uh okay
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Okay, what percentage of men make at least $1 million a year?
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what did you answer yeah i said one one percent maybe like five five percent chloe unfortunately
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i think it's one percent okay unfortunately uh three one a little less than one percent that
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was the thing i got confused with before okay what percent of men do you find attractive
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like in your acceptable age range like okay yeah you go to the grocery store you see a grandpa
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obviously you don't want to fuck unless he's rich and you're her but uh so when you just like the
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the age group of men that you're into what percentage of them do you find attractive
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probably like one percent i'm not i'm not really one percent maybe yeah i'm very picky it's over
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boys you're picky you yeah oh boy i'm down to have a good time though if they pay you for
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it uh yeah 0.1 percent 0.0 wait 0.1 or 0.01 percent 0.01 remember the thing that you got
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earlier the what was it the how many percentage of men make 20 million dollars a year or whatever
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what percentage of men do you find attractive uh for my age range i would say like 25 i'll say
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five percent say like 35 percent like 20 percent uh like 50
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like like 20 to 30 percent all right uh what percent of men have yachts
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i'm gonna say i'm gonna say maybe like 20 20 okay 100 what 100 100 i thought you
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did math and shit the fuck god damn bro 20 per 100 of men have yachts i'll show you i don't even
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got a yacht we're fucked i'm the i'm the one man in the world who doesn't have a yacht i'm fucked
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man of course that's why i don't get pussy all these other men have yachts but i'm up
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okay uh can i get a can uh somebody snag me a ball of water please like 0.01 percent
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0.01 percent less than one percent one okay no idea maybe like two percent two percent
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i was just on a yacht yesterday it was fun with your pimp no
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hey relax tiffany tiffany's enjoying it a bit too much tiffany's enjoying it a bit too much
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um uh who here has a roster currently of dudes be honest why are you pointing at me i just get
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vibes i get vibes why because i'm flasian because i'm like don't make it racist and if you were
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wondering it wouldn't because of the black side yeah it'd be because of the asian side yeah because
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i know how lexi moves i know no i'm just kidding how i move i had the lowest body count last time
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bullshit okay anyways uh no but it's not because you're black okay no it's because you have a
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septum piercing okay that's why okay okay roster who has a roster i don't know what that means uh
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dating multiple men uh chloe a list of men chloe's got young gravy she's got clav she's got another
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looks max her she fucked androgynyk she is that even she fucked androgynyk she fucked clav she
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fucked fresh from the fresh pot just kidding wait question big mo big mo myron or fresh dude i
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genuinely don't know any of those guys you don't even know what they look like the lovable chubby
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guy he's the lovable he's the the the big happy personality big mo man i'm telling you what i
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ain't gay but if i was gay and i had to pick a choice between the fresh and fit is that the guy
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big mo can get it dog big mo nobody knows who i'm talking about big mo if i had to pick one of the
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fresh and fit crew big mo why do you have to pick one man he's got more he's cuddly bro okay this
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is don't please don't clip it in don't send it don't send it to them it's a joke it's a joke i
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hope they're not offended by that i think it's funny i'm just messing it's just a joke there
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i have no beef i don't got beef i'm just saying big mo he seems like a
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i'm gonna edit that in a crazy way and post it great thank you chloe appreciate it uh okay uh
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no roster has anyone here had the threesome show of hands threesome threesome threesome
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more than the threesome foursome going once foursome foursome can i get the foursome foursome
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foursome anybody foursome foursome foursome foursome five some five some more than orgy
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gangbang what what the fuck that had to do that was not that was not racially motivated oh yeah
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i said emotionally renovated but you get what i mean uh let's see has anyone here slept with
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i'll answer it first slept with someone the same day you met them i have i've done it i've done it
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Wait, the same day you meet them or like the same day you went on a date with them?
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Like the first day I've done it on the first date, but now I've met them.
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Well, it could either be you meet them on the dating app, then you fuck.
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Oh, I thought you were asking me how I do like the auctioneer.
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No, I'm just a little offended when people say that.
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Just because I'm a little brown doesn't make me Filipino, okay?
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in general no are men trash in general yes yes yeah would you prefer to live in the world without
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men and say like you could reproduce either asexually so you lay an egg like a literal
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like you have to be a chicken like you're a chicken as women you pop out a little egg and
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it like pops out easily it's not like some crazy birth shit you just pop out a little egg pop it
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out like it's an egg it's the size of a chicken egg and you have to sit on it for three months
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and then you have more women and sometimes you eat them too who's gonna build the cannibalism
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that is a good point you guys are definitely fucked when it comes to the roads but
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would you prefer to live in the world without men who's gonna program the ai i i need have sex
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so i need men okay how about women they are trash what about sex robots oh no no it's different
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she needs cum she needs to come you heard it here first uh do you hate men yes what the fuck
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how do you say that why why do you hate men they are all cheaters all cheaters yeah you
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fucked two guys last week oh cheaters have you ever cheated yes of course
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what bro so when i have a feeling my man will cheat on me i will oh it's the guy i will cheat
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on him first oh my god so it's the guy's fault yes oh man that's so toxic wait you cheated first
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You thought I was talking about belly buttons?
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You asked me innie or outie. I was like yo I got an innie.
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no any is no it's labia well my bad dog labia labia when somebody says audi or any pussy lips
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pussy lips and then you asked me if i was insecure about my belly button i said no that's a crazy way
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to come back pussy lips pussy lips pussy lips bro she's thinking why the fuck why the fuck would
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I don't remember the context of the fucking conference.
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but I don't remember what the context of the conference was.
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Yeah, and then you made me stand in a corner.
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I made you stand in the corner because of the OnlyFans
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Wait, how am I racist against white people?
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Why the fuck would I be into belly buttons
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I thought we all knew we were talking about
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Because Matt Rife talks shit about women with Audis.
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See, the thing with me is like I've been labia fished.
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Like women will tell me they have an Audis.
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Has a guy ever said his dick was big and then it wasn't?
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uh has it has that happened to you maybe like i'm not saying it had to be small but it wasn't big
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you know what i mean what if you like i got a big dick what if you like felt i got a big dick
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and then it was like it's not big dick and he's like the same size with the lipstick you know
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the mix lipstick lipstick yeah lipstick size of dick uh-huh rice grain what what this is crazy
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never mind jasmine or what's the other kind of rice wait jasmine rice and then there's
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i'm on that basmati dick what the fuck well that sounded good yeah i did wait where were we talking
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about indies or outies look i'm just saying i've been labia fished i've been labia fished girls be
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fucking lying trying to oh i got an outie and then i'm like and then i'd see it i'm like they
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probably thought you're talking about belly button yeah bro no i'm clear i make it clear
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how do y'all think it's about belly button because i've never heard a guy talk about this
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ever big labia matter how's that blm big labia matter i've never been asked about my labia size
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I've never even heard anyone say penis size.
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You know how, I don't know if this is fucked up, but you know how a lot of men are insecure about their penis size, right?
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I think we need to reverse this shit because y'all women with the innies and the men shame women with the outies, too.
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We got to have any women starting to second guess their shit, yo.
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We need to have them, any women, like, second guessing.
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Oh, my God, what if he's one of those guys who likes Audis?
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We need to get these women on the back foot.
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Because the same way men are insecure about their dick
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We need women to start being a little insecure
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And we need, you know how big dick men got confidence
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You see how she's shaking her head like that?
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If you could, big labia girl, if you could snap your finger and all men disappeared, would you do it?
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I mean, what if they got the surgery, though?
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Yeah, there's a really famous media personality that's trans.
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No, but like, is it as acceptable as it is in the United States?
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Like some dude, some Chinese dude walking around with some fake titties.
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would you question would you guys find it insulting if a guy asked if you were not like
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to insult you he was genuinely like yo are you trans would that be insulting i would literally
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just take my pants off like you'd be i'd be like no are you trans show them everything okay i mean
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if you want it's a good way to prove it real quick that's intense okay if a guy asked me that
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i would just be like why what made you think that yeah i don't know i don't think i would be mad
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sometimes i look at you i would be a little offended because i would be like what like
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drew you to that conclusion like what led you there the bulge in your pants oh my god yeah
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but what if it's sometimes look because i i date women with large labia and sometimes it creates
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a bulge right like sometimes it's just fat i'm so what are we even talking about oh no i'm so
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confused right now like the lips the pussy lips like that come out yeah oh my god yeah you're
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gonna make someone else oh my god talking about uh but is it gay to date a trans woman okay yes
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is it gay i'm not sure okay how about this a trans woman you would agree that some trans women
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are pre-op and post-op yeah okay so they got a date they have a dick is that gay then i would
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say that but they're a woman but they have a dick a woman with a dick do they also have vagina
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or no no it's no it's a dude wearing a wig then i would but it's a woman then i would say he's
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You know what I don't want to make it about Joshua
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definitely not straight it's not straight it's gay it's gay it's gay i mean i don't know about
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you guys but i don't think queer what do you think court what was the question i asked you
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last time and you were like genuinely stumped and then i was too because i didn't even know i
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asked i don't know you'll have to it was like it would it be gay for you to be with a trans man
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with i wasn't stumped wait what yeah you were like logically like i don't know like yeah i
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I have to question, technically it would still remain if that is a biological woman and she's had her pussy rearranged into some malformed dick.
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You know what I looked up to after that episode?
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And a lot of times they do get ball surgery too
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that is penis material penis material it's penile material shit if i put if i put instead of putting
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the the penis material there if i put the penis material on the hand like on my hand and it's
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just a penis material and i make my hand into a fist are you fucking the vagina i don't know okay
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a trans woman a trans woman right okay so they have a dick yeah but then they remove the dick
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and put the dick skin on a hand you you know what a hand job is and they're they're going like that
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are you fucking a pussy i don't know this is real this is deep shit bro i love this
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philosophical philosophical deep level motherfucking important discussions we're having
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here at uh sorry i'll let you finish it's very important what do you mean have you have you
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fucked a uh dude are you into trans people it's okay if you are look it's okay i think this is
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literally wild what you're saying what do you mean like i just think the dick the hand dick
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wait the hand all of it pussy the hand dick pussy is a bit too much for you yeah all of this you do
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only fans girl what's up dude i'm a good girl i'm a good girl with the only fans i'm a good girl
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she's giving the answer that we want to hear
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born with a vagina what's a what's a woman what is a woman kiko
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mike mike mike mike mike mike mike mike mike someone who uh has a vagina and identifies as
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a woman so trans women are not women if they are pulse op and they inverted their penis into a
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vagina that's not pussy that's okay i have a i have a similar but different question if someone
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was burned if they're a burn victim and someone took like skin from their butt and their thigh
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and put it on their face are you touching their face or their butt or their leg
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yeah what are you touching when you touch your face because the skin came from somewhere else
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or from her foot i think i think this is a bit of a difference so the tissue that is on their face
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uh, originated from their butt, but I don't think this, this is a bit of a false equivalence here.
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Yeah. So for example, um, the tissue like genital tissue is very different than like just regular
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skin. Also, this is like more of a, when we're talking about a plastic surgery, this isn't
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changing the nature of the person. It's not changing the nature of the skin. So yes, people
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get skin grafts to correct like burns and this sort of thing, but it's typically like skin from
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one part of the body to cover skin from another part of the body like for example you wouldn't
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say that um i'm trying to think of a good example here you wouldn't say that like skin grafted from
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the arm and put onto the leg um like that is still anatomically you still have you still have
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your skeletal um there's still other material in that region that is of the leg so i mean
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you would not then call the entirety of that region like your arm because you're just using
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the skin of the arm but when it comes to genitalia we're referring to something very specific here
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that just by virtue of uh if someone has no eyebrows and they transplant their pubes onto
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their eyebrow is that their eyebrow their pubes on their face it's not it's not a one it doesn't
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map on as a comparison. Um, but, uh, so yes, like you can get hair transplants or whatever. And,
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um, yeah, I mean, like the, the penis is a organ. I mean, how do I explain this? I don't even know
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how to explain this. Like the, the penis is an organ. It's a, it's genitalia. So, uh, cutting it,
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creating a hole inside of you i mean this is what they do these this is just so insane
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this is what the trans people do and then they inverting the gen the penis skin into a like a
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wound that's a wound with penis penile material and it's self-inflicted like for example if i
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that's the craziest thing ever can i ask you a question you know the gooch area
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you know where the gooch is so let's say i didn't invert the penile material but you just incised a
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hole where the gooch was so it's not the anus but it's not there's no penile material really i guess
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there's some scrotal material and but but you you put a hole in the body is that a vagina because
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it's a hole i think if like it serves it's meant to serve a similar purpose right no well one
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uh neo vagina trans pussy so they're they're that's not one they can't get pregnant right so
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i think that's the biggest difference like that makes them not a natural born woman woman because
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they cannot get pregnant right but but so you said that it it serves the purpose like a vagina's
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purpose is not just a hole for ejaculation is a fleshlight like is a is a masturbatory tool
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a vagina no but it serves the part it's a whole it's a yeah it's a pocket vagina they would call
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it well yeah but that's that's used more just it doesn't it's not referring to like it's an
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anatomical actual like it's it's not an actual flesh and blood vagina it's different that's for
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sure like for example you would agree with me like a dildo can be shaped like a penis but it's not a
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penis right right it's like a separate artificial invention yes right so a pocket pussy
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a masturbatory vagina or whatever that's not like actual biological vagina so but your question is
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is a trans woman a biological woman right they're not a biological woman they're a trans woman
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no well i don't know if that was the question but the question was just simply um that's not
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vagina it's not a vagina oh my god you say it so much what wait what you i've heard vagina 30
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times in the last 10 seconds is there i mean it's literally not like an imitation is an imitation
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vagina all right as much as imitation crab is crab like isn't it some fish or some shit
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but yeah no um it's not pussy it's not vagina nope okay we agree to disagree yeah no there's
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no agree to disagree it's just truth it's just like whatever works why is this uncomfortable
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for you guys like we need to combat this shit we've been talking about it for like 10 minutes
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all right uh let's see if there's anything else i think we're pretty much done with all the
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questions why is everyone saying uh oh uh do you think trump is a fascist no trump is trump a
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fascist uh i'm not really political okay that's fine uh i think we're i think we're done with all
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the questions uh here take off everyone take off their makeup and then holy shite i'm so excited
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take the makeup off yeah okay guys we're gonna i'll take off our makeup and we're gonna go to
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bed right now ladies who's so excited i have a i have somewhere i have to go honestly we're
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ending the show here in five minutes. Everything is closed. Here, be quiet while I let some of
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these chats come through. Chloe, can you read these? Yeah. Everything is closed. There was
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no girlfriend experience when you tell someone you love them repeatedly and removed your birth
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control to get pregnant. Stop lying. I have all the receipts. It was $7,000. Oh, are you lying,
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lexi are you fucking lying he said he spent seven thousand six hundred you said it was 250 yeah
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because i can show you my bank account i have 250 it's still sitting there i didn't even cash it out
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yet so he's lying you're saying he's lying yeah because he just wants to make it seem like like
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he gave all this money to me and like i'm scamming him so that he can get money from me but there's
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really just no basis for a case i'm sorry that's all he was contacting me for is just to say that
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he's starting a case against me like boy i never even met you never even seen your face so you
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didn't you didn't have sex with him no i never even met him how could i have sex with him i never
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met him uh read this one chloe happy birthday big dog hope your day was exceptional i wish you and
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these wonderful ladies the ability to better yourselves perpetually perpetually no bottle
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popping tonight we did hey black marker wait he sent that in oh damn these came in like an hour
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ago they are they are reads though so we batch them at convenient breaks but uh larping lexi
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thank you black market i don't know if you're still watching zyra thank you very much for the
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birthday wishes uh crash out brian yep crashing out crashing out here uh zyra it's not too late
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pop a ball of champagne we got like three minutes here oh do we make it to the 10 hour mark or do
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i it's like five minutes away from 10 hours i don't know uh those of you makeup makeup you
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want to take it off makeup makeup makeup i use like cleansing here uh here's what we're gonna
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do save the wives show us the damage hold it up do you want to take your makeup off i have somewhere
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You going to a party? Look, this is an L. It's literally
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Over here, Courtney. Where did homegirl go?
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Any final thoughts from anybody before I wrap the show?
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Thank you so much for letting me take off my makeup.
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Yeah, that honestly felt so refreshing, you know?
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Maybe we should have you back, and you can wear the wig and the...
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You can't take the fake titties out, though.
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So you're going to give everybody a compliment?
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Yeah, I don't think that was a compliment, bro.
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I was a little rough on her, but she was a good sport.
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and then the freaking girl I had to kick off
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i mean the thing is is i i know i'm i'm chubby so it's like no i call myself fat fat so is not
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creative though you got to come in with like a jiggly belly or something but uh yeah no she
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was late i don't even think she apologized um she was twerked and left yep twice but uh
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yeah i don't even get it it's like she could have gotten way more out of it
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like even if you're gonna troll i feel like you can get way more out of it just by like i don't
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know save it till the end or something that way you can actually get content like she could get
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content for herself or whatever like be on the show but instead just you're gonna just get kicked
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like you just drove did she take an uber wait i would wait wait wait or was that you who took
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the uber no i didn't oh wait wait let me look i think it was her she ubered here she ubered
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wait where does she live in san diego yeah she told me she's from san diego so she uh hold on
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let me see ha she ubered no way she took an uber from san diego that's probably like 300 400 bucks
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one way bro an uber back no i thought like from la and uber is like 200 i think do you think it's
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She's still waiting outside? Like downstairs? Do you think she's out there or no?
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I just need to do the makeup thing and we can wrap it up.
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Yeah, she said she wanted to do it in the mirror.
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uh no yeah she took a fucking uber so it's like you you you spent 400 bucks to get kicked off
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how quick was the kick like one hour in not even an hour like yeah it's like 35 minutes yeah we
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just started no i think no yeah i was only standing for like 20 30 minutes it had been like 35 minutes
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yeah that's why i was very surprised because i was like one hour no i don't know i felt very
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surprised wait how much is an uber from san diego to santo not only did she pay here she
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well back back back okay so it says it says so it's yeah all right um it says hello are you okay
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cool uh a journey of 230 miles typically costs between 300 and 450 for a standard uber x
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that's a w for me bro she traveled all that way for you wow yeah i've like last time a girl flew
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in and then she got kicked off too so i'm like is this something the first time i came but really
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i i don't want to kick people off who did i kick off um i was just wondering like if this is like
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something that you always have to do like you always like kicking girls off oh no it's actually
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rare yeah i'm like maybe that's like a part of it i really try not to um but like i don't know
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yeah she forced my hand like i get that like there's an extent bro it's like okay you can
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you can tease me a little bit you can rib me i do it too so like i'm not gonna be yeah like
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in good nature well i'm not gonna be like yeah sometimes i i'm a dick sometimes i'm kind of like
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roasting or teasing or whatever i'd do it like i'm not i'm not saying i'm perfect but i think
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there's a like there's a degree to it yeah and it's like there's a degree and what i think she
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got pressed because you were on her ass in the first because she mentioned like when you like
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started talking to her she was like why are you like like why are you like arguing with her so
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much blah blah blah and then she started going off and shaking ass wait why am i yeah remind me
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what was the thing i don't know bro you were just like talking to her and i think you were
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arguing a little bit bantering and then oh no oh she got upset with you got mad that you said it
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to her yeah well she's it was something like why are you asking about the past relationships i'm
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like it's a fucking it's a podcast yeah you've never been on a podcast what is the past what
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does her past have to do with the date it's like erroneous oh whoops i didn't mean i did not mean
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can you just step up really can you step back up and then wait i'll tell you when to come back
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hold on yeah no step up step up yeah and then like yep and but okay and then like step over
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there and then like come back okay go ahead take your seat i'm sorry i'm sorry oh my god bro
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i'm sorry i had a new thing on my thing i had to play you are so pretty thank you
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look in the you still got the fake contacts in the dog where are we supposed to put there's
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still a bit of makeup there's still a little bit of eyeliner still on there no i used to
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it's hard to get off did you did you save it it's in there she put it inside yeah because
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there's no more in here oh it's empty yeah i did it too i did oh okay all right forget it
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sorry uh any final thoughts from anybody before i wrap up speak now forever hold your peace
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holding it thank you so much for what you do on this show oh thank you yeah definitely yeah
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um helped me stop being a feminist personally so let's go i admire what you do here yeah w
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a what's your um your instagram name is kind of funny at locked in with zaza no it's maybe not
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the instagram name but it's the the you have like another name you use oh my favorite cook
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Well, I'm trying to see if just double checking, making sure there's like nothing left I might
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um you're my favorite gold digger who's ever come on the show uh so there you go you're my
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favorite gold digger uh you have a good attitude you're you have uh you're a good sport so props
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you're the my favorite blasian to ever come on the show you're i think the only maybe the only
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maybe we've had one or two so i mean there you go you got you do have to lose the septum piercing
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though um yeah do you have any tattoos no okay uh you're my favorite adopted blasian
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put it on your resume my white parents yep yeah do you have a brother named like tucker or
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something yeah dog oh my god his name is jason oh almost got it lexi your friend's bitch oh
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so you know how to pick them not a compliment but that's all right can i spill some lore my bad
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how about about your friend not really uh compliment though okay lexi i should i should
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try to make these genuine compliments yeah uh lexi some people dislike your laugh but i actually like
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your laugh wait that still sounds so bad yeah that sounds so mean oh my god i'm so autistic
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i'm sorry i like her laugh though no i like her i like her laugh maybe yeah a lot of people don't
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like my laugh and they think i'm faking it or i like i'm obnoxious do you fake orgasms also
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no i laugh really loud but that's just like i'm naturally a loud person this girl this only fan
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girl is clutching her pearls oh my god she's clutching her pro oh my god he's talking about
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faking orgasms oh my god well because like even when i like do like my own like content i don't
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really make you do like dick ratings on your instagram or your only fans uh do you offer
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her dick ratings i've done them like a couple times but she she does dick ratings and she's
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clutching pearls about how is that faking an orgasm you're what you were talking about faking
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an orgasm she fakes her lap uh okay ashlyn you've got you're really smart um yeah i'm sorry i'm such
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a dick chloe really smart stop you have more to say about me okay i'll tell you this okay i'll
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tell you this some people think you're faking your voice some people dislike your voice i actually
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like your voice i like your voice that's like equivalent of the one that you gave me
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she's so backhanded you know he literally said i like your voice i like i don't know why people
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are harsh i don't know why well chloe's like a you're very uh there's a lot of polarity with
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you because like some people love you they're like more chloe we love chloe and then other
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people are like oh my god her voice some people really don't like me and some people really love
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me there it is there it is polarity uh good thing yeah you honestly i gotta be honest you talked way
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too much tonight so fuck you you were way too talkative you wasted a bunch of time uh please
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like learn to shut your yap sometimes okay her like you talked way too much it was fucked up
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did i really are you being sarcastic no you were way too talkative i wish you gave like i wish you
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gave um like her more time to talk i wish you gave kiko more time to talk like okay now i know
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you're really fucking honestly really rude and um fuck you just didn't i tell you happy birthday
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as soon as i like walked in here did you yes i said happy birthday didn't bring me a gift though
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but at least i told you happy birthday no girls gave me a gift you know i let you tell people i
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was pregnant okay that is true she did give me all right kiko oh boy oh uh kiko you were you were
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a good sport you uh we disagreed on a couple different topics uh but you kept your composure
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and you were a good uh interlocutor am i saying that right i mean it's like a a debate opponent
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Wait, really? What did I give you? I thought I gave you
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Courtney, you said you're three months pregnant, but you only look two months pregnant.
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I actually said I was only two months, but almost like three.
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No, but truthfully for all of you, you guys were wonderful.
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I know the show went late, so thank you for guys' patience here.
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Thank you for being here with me on my birthday stream.
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Wait, guys, are we all going out with Brian for his birthday?
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Yeah, by the time we get home, it's going to be 8 a.m.
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here final call pull up twitch really quick guys if you enjoyed the stream like the video if you
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enjoyed the stream like the video guys let me see one twitch prime one twitch prime drop us a follow
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we still got 1200 over there on twitch check if you have a prime sub available give me a little
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birthday a birthday prime on the way out i need a birthday prime show some love show a brother some
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Thank you for the prime. Off sauce. Thank you for the prime.
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for a minute? I'm, like, wrapping the show right now.
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It's okay. Do you want the water bottle? You can
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you know what would be funny I'm gonna actually install
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Can you clip the part about me being insecure about my
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I genuinely was covering my stomach for like two minutes
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Alright guys like the video if you enjoyed the stream
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Also please leave a nice comment once the live ends
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It takes about 20 to 30 seconds after the stream ends
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and then you're able to like refresh and leave a comment leave a comment guys give me a little
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happy birthday in the comments on youtube i read them positivity is nice helps the algorithm
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thank you for i feel like i'm forgetting something but whatever i thank you for tuning in tonight you
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could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate on your birthday on my
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birthday thank you thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show
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we will be live again sunday at 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show you can dm
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at whatever on instagram if you can make it to san barber i promise double pinky swear double dog
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double dare uh i will not be if you schedule yourself to be on the show i won't be as toxic
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as i was tonight i'll be very i'll be the perfect gentleman he's lying like shit right now i'll be
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the perfect gentleman for whichever episode you guys are on so uh oh seven's in the chat oh seven's
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check this. 07's in the chat. Good night, guys.
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Alright, really quick before everybody gets up,
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we are wrapped. Just curious, did anybody lie about
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And then she left, so we did, but you weren't sitting at the table.
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I guess that ultimately worked out for you, Lexi.
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You weren't even doing any dancing, by the way.
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I told you to do the robot dance, and you didn't do it.
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Imagine someone did lie about their body count.