On this episode of Only Fanatics, we have a special guest on the show, my ex's ex. We talk about cheating, college life, and much more. Also, I call my ex and ask her why she cheated on me.
00:03:56.580Yeah, he grew up during that war. And his older brother stacked up enough money and sent him to school in Nigeria. And then after that, they, he saved up money being a like a TSA type guard in Nigeria. And he came to the States and my uncle, my uncle Maximus paid for his or his father paid for his college. He was able to go through school at Howard. And yeah, he got his degree in pharmacy.
00:04:29.580That's a really, really cool story. So, so, um, wow, you made it all the way. Now you made it to college, bro. And you're actually, I'm pretty sure everyone's proud as fuck with you right now.
00:04:37.580Hey, uh, you know, I was just talking to my mom the other day. I mean, I, I mean, I'm, everyone says business made it easy, bro. But like, dude, I'm taking it.
00:04:46.580Is that, is that what, is that what you really want to do with your life? Is that what you want to do? You want to, you want to, you want to actually major in that? You want to do like, you want to have a, uh,
00:04:53.580like, uh, an occupation in that field? Yeah, I feel like I can, I can find, I can find a business that needs marketing and I'm really good at that.
00:05:01.580I can, I think I can, I can be able to do that. Good, good, good, good, good, good. And how old are you?
00:05:05.580I'm 21. I just turned 21, but what is in the seventh? Is it the seventh? Yeah. Yeah. I turned 21 six days ago.
00:05:11.580Oh, wow. November 1st. Huh? Yeah. I just got back from the bar. I'm not going to cap.
00:05:15.580You're on one right now. I mean, I'm four drinks in bro. What, what, what, what, what you drink?
00:05:22.580Ah, I'm a vodka. I'm a vodka whiskey guy, bro. Dude, ew.
00:05:27.580Ew. Bro, I can't drink, I can't drink no seltzers, none of that. I hate beer. You don't like, you don't like, you don't like, you don't like Caso, you don't like, uh, Hennessy?
00:05:36.580Caso Migos? Bro, my ex loved that shit, bro. I'm sorry. I didn't even make you think of her, bro.
00:05:42.580Nah, you chilling, bro. It's just some dumb shit, bro. I have a question. Do you ever, do you ever wonder, like, if you're ever going to find the one?
00:05:50.580Because I, it makes me think sometimes, like, there's so many girls in this world, yes. But, like, where, because I don't go outside, like, like, where do you think, like, where am I going to find a girl?
00:05:59.580And you don't want me to grow at a party, you know what I mean? Like, so where do you, what do you envision, bro? Like, do you ever see yourself settling down, like?
00:06:06.580If you want me to be honest, um, I mean, I always, like, grew up, like, y'all, I've only had, I've only had, I've had four girlfriends, but, like, a serious one, I've only had one.
00:06:16.580If you want me to be honest, bro, like, dude, just keep doing you, bro. Like, just getting, getting your money, doing the streams.
00:06:22.580Bro, you don't need these girls on some real shit. If you, like, you're going to find love in a place you least expect it, if you want me to be real.
00:06:29.580You're going to find that shit, you're going to find, you're going to find her when you really are not looking for her. You know what I mean?
00:06:35.580Yeah, so, like, you're just saying, don't even search, don't even try, don't even look.
00:06:38.580Don't search, don't, don't, like, oh, do dates, oh, I mean, you can, no, do the dates, because that content good as fuck, oh god.
00:06:44.580But you know what, you know what, you know what I don't understand? People are so deep in, they really think I'm, like, dating these girls, it's hilarious.
00:06:48.580Bro, they're the weirdest, bro, don't even hear them, bro, they're the weirdest shit.
00:06:51.580No, bro, like, like, bro, like, if you look, like, bro, like, like, sometimes, like, these, these fucking, these dumb fucks, they're like, these motherfuckers really, like, dating these, like, these fucking OF, like, come on, bro.
00:07:01.580Bro, I know, bro, I know what you be on, bro, you ain't got to tell me, bro.
00:07:05.580You're good, bro, just keep doing you, bro, you're doing good right now, honestly, shit, you was doing way better than me, I'm gonna be real, when Shorty left me, you were doing way better than me, oh god.
00:07:14.580I think, I think why it's really hard, too, bro, like, you know, I think being cheated on is probably one of the worst things.
00:07:19.580I've, I've been cheating on high school, and I was heartbroken, and I, and I almost, honestly, I almost, I almost fucking killed myself, you know?
00:07:25.580I mean, you, it gets like that, bro, I mean, chat, I mean, and you know, like, when, when you, when, you know, when, when cheating is cheating, and when that shit happens, bro, you don't know what the fuck to do, like, you're like, damn, why did you cheat?
00:07:36.580Why did you just go out and do that to me? You got what I'm saying?
00:07:42.580I was talking to my brother, bro, because my brother, like, he's never had a girlfriend, but, like, he's been heartbroken before, and so what he, the best advice he gave me was find something you love and just keep doing it.
00:07:54.580Don't, don't listen to nobody. You know what I'm saying? Just don't listen to nobody. Just keep doing what you're doing, keep doing what you love, and it'll all play out in the end.
00:08:03.580How, how long you been fuck with me for?
00:08:05.580The first stream? Shit, honestly, bro, I actually started fucking with you right around when she left my ass, bro, which was like, I want to say, I don't want to say 2019, I want to say 2020, no, 2021 February.
00:08:23.580Wait, you've been broken up for a year?
00:08:28.580I mean, I'm, I'm, I'm doing all right, man. You know what I'm saying? I'm not, I don't think about her every day, but there's definitely days, you know what I'm saying? You was talking about how, like, when you lie in the bed, you're blown and shit.
00:08:37.580Like, there's definitely days where I'm lying down in bed, I'm just like, damn, you know, but don't, but no, don't cry over it, don't do none of that. I haven't cried over her probably for, yeah, about a year, probably February, literally, when I start watching you, bro. Just, just, dude, let me just focus on doing your shit, bro. Like, I really don't know what else to say. Like, you, you're doing good right now. You're doing way better than I was, bro. Like, for sure, for sure.
00:09:00.480Like, I really don't know what to tell you, bro, but if you should be telling me what to do, real shit.
00:09:04.740For sure, for sure. Nah, right. I actually started in the gym, real shit. I think I, you look, you look really big, like, in shape.
00:09:12.000Thank you. I mean, I, I go to the gym here and there, you know, I play some intramural sports in my school. I used to play football in Northern Michigan.
00:09:19.380I played freshman, yeah, I played freshman year. I got a scholarship out of high school and then I dropped that on my, after my freshman year, um, cause I, I started, um,
00:09:30.480started, uh, it was the whole situation with the girl. She, um, I, well, she didn't do anything. It was all what I did to myself, you know?
00:09:37.960I was, um, abusing alcohol. I went on a, I had a 30-day bender and, um, my kidneys started failing. So I had to, I had to stop.
00:09:48.160No, I'm, no, I'm fine now. It's not even, like, I was in the hospital for three nights and then it was like, all right.
00:09:53.600They really, like, think, they think I was good. They just told me, you know, just lay off the liquor. I mean, I woke you happy.
00:09:57.540And I, that, that, when I, when that happened, I was actually, honestly, wake up call. I didn't drink probably for, I want to say, like, three months.
00:11:01.800Yeah, just your streams have brought me out of depression, dude. Every night I wait for you to hop on, bro. And from the time you start, I'm in there before you start. And I'm there until you end, bro.
00:11:13.880And I can't thank you enough for all you do, bro. You mean the world to me. And fuck what everybody else is saying about you. You are the goat of everything, bro.
00:11:22.580What does everyone say about me? They don't like me?
00:11:24.980Uh, no. Just people. I'm tired of seeing people try to bring you down, bro. When, at the end of the day, you're here for us, bro. You don't have to do this. You don't have to take time out of your day to stream for us.
00:12:55.000Anyways, though. Anyways, though. But, yeah. We talked for about a year or so as friends. And then I started catching feelings for her. And I started, like, I told her one day. And she was like, you know what? I feel the same.
00:13:11.220And then just what happened really was the distance. We couldn't do it through distance, whatever. But I kind of – last time you were going to do this, I was going to call the same ex.
00:13:22.860And I had the plan to try to get back with her and see what happened. And if that – is that cool if I do that?
00:13:29.340Well, let me ask you a question. Why did y'all break up exactly? Like, what's the – why did you break up?
00:13:32.620All right. So, me and her, like, were together. And me and her just started, like – like, my love language is physical touch and so is hers.
00:13:40.480So, we, like, we just broke up because it was just making us sad that we couldn't be there for each other. And, like, you know what I'm saying?
00:14:44.140Hey. So, I know it's been a long time since we talked and all. But, I – listen, my plan was to call you and, you know, talk to you and try to get back with you.
00:14:56.360But, this – I don't know if you know who Aiden Ross is. I don't know if you're in the streaming world.
00:15:02.260But, he – I'm in a Discord call with him right now. And he wants you to join. He's saying he wants to change my life.
00:15:57.940I mean, anyways, I was – you know, I thought – I thought you would remember me. But, it's – I mean, it's straight, though. Life goes on.
00:16:22.120I was – I was – I was gonna – I was gonna – I was gonna – you know.
00:16:26.380I – like, I don't – I don't know. I kind of missed, like, the thought of you. I started thinking about you the other day, and I started missing you and stuff like that.
00:16:32.400And it's just, like – it's crazy. When I call you, you pick up – you don't even know who I am, so.