Ali Dawah - March 05, 2017


EMOTIONAL INTERVIEW WITH SISTER IN TWERKING VIDEO...


Episode Stats

Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

200.27586

Word Count

3,630

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

In this episode, we talk about a video that has gone viral where a Muslim sister is caught doing a very inappropriate dance with another Muslim man in public while wearing the hijab. We play the interview with the sister and discuss her reaction to the video.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends welcome to this video this is our second shoot we recorded one yesterday and we're not going to put that out we're going to we decided to put this out we will explain why we'll give you a little preview of that video as you guys know there's a video that's gone viral where there's a sister who's doing a very inappropriate dance with another man in public and this has gone viral so we decided to do a video last night which we did and we was really upset to be honest and I'm sure a lot of you guys are upset as well
00:00:30.000 because it's sad to see that we know it's just that we have that thing for our religion and we understand a lot of us hate seeing certain things done by practicing looking individuals yeah if that makes sense so now the thing is we're going to play the interview because we actually I spoke to the sister her family contacted me and I spoke to her personally you're going to hear the interview but sadly as us Muslims we when we see such videos we
00:01:00.000 take it too far we start insulting the individual swearing insulting calling them all kinds of names and it's taking it out of boundary you know we should hate the sin rather than the sinner yes the action is wrong it's very very wrong it was really bad but it does not give us a right to start naming the individual and believe me behind this I'm sure you need to understand that I said this in the video as well yesterday's video I said I really want to understand the psychology behind why would the sister do that
00:01:30.000 it makes you realize there's a bigger story behind it it doesn't mean it's right what she's done it just shows that different people are suffering from different things and sometimes they do things that they don't want to and believe us like believe me we all go through this different people work in different ways you know when they when people are tested you can you can be tested and you can react in a totally different way to me you know I could just say you know I'm going to go totally silent and move off the scene you can say you know I'm going to go full
00:02:00.000 what was it about like to be honest like how was our attitude yesterday compared to today you know and even though you haven't heard the interview but I have yeah but I've given you a briefing so yeah just to give a briefing like how was you feeling yesterday to now obviously yesterday we were very confused because the video the nature of the video is something that is in its nature very inappropriate and we were very very confused because in the dao scene we've been in it for years now we've never seen anything like this people ask us for advice every single day
00:02:29.100 but we never come across anything of this so to us it was very very hard to comprehend what someone could be going through to be doing something like that while wearing the hijab because like we get messages I'm sure you do as well like about people suicidal cases and whatnot I'm suicidal this that and my boyfriend left me and whatnot and you know even I've been raped what do I do you know a lot of very very tough situations which we actually can understand and like advise about
00:02:58.640 but like with this we were just speechless what can we even say about this so obviously Ali spoke to the sister and it just goes to show you that when someone does something there is always a background story doesn't mean it's justifiable doesn't mean it's fine but there is a background story and a lot of brothers and sisters were actually atting their friends to come watch the video laughing brother like what if that was your own sister one brother you know I heard who runs an instagram page an islamic instagram
00:03:28.620 at ingest friends saying yo this is your girl come get your girl like this is not the way that a muslim should behave this is not the kind of things that muslim should say and in regards to some of these instagram pages we do want you to we're going to come to that we're going to actually name them we're going to put the names out you're going to see it and the police is involved and we ask you to report these pages we're going to come to that later on inshallah but let's just show you guys a little preview of how
00:03:58.620 moussa were and you can see from my face how angry we were let's just quickly watch that wallahi there's one thing i just want to know
00:04:04.740 what psychology what mentality what brain what cells in your brain are you serving to not understand like hold on a second
00:04:15.540 i am wearing a hijab i also have loose clothing doesn't that in that the atom atom atoms weight
00:04:25.300 now doesn't that make you think you know what i'm representing something what might if i had a muswaq in my hand
00:04:31.200 and i knew the muslims knew that muswaq is something related to islam wallahi i have to be careful to what i'm doing in public
00:04:37.660 you look like a proper muslim
00:04:39.360 doing that in front of a guy and there's non-muslims muslims watching you
00:04:46.400 what the hell's going through your head
00:04:55.300 okay guys so you saw for yourself like how frustrated me and muswa was like i was i couldn't
00:05:00.460 be i was just banging the table like i was just frustrated because i was like why would somebody do
00:05:03.960 that and it was just it taught me a lesson like in a way where i was like okay i should be angry for
00:05:10.320 the sake of the religion but i should always think okay there must be a reason so i learned a big
00:05:15.780 lesson myself but not to carry on any further let's go and listen to the interview from the sister
00:05:20.820 and hear her side like because i did ask her this i actually interviewed her i said sister
00:05:25.220 why did you do this but let's hear it for ourselves inshallah
00:05:27.740 okay uh firstly i'm just it's recording uh i'm just doing this uh um so we have your permission you
00:05:37.920 are the sister of the younger sister yes yes okay we have your permission just to hear her side
00:05:45.820 for clarification so that people can hear her side and understand that you know we're not perfect
00:05:52.400 every one of us sin we have slip ups yes her slip up was done in public but just so they can hear
00:05:57.640 her side and not judge her and start swearing insulting her etc right do you give me the permission
00:06:03.180 to do that yes her voice will be distorted her identity will not be shown at all yes okay yeah
00:06:11.260 okay okay okay can i speak to her now okay okay like why did you do it the question that mainly
00:06:18.220 people are asking is why why why did you find the need to do that i was with my friends and they
00:06:23.980 wanted to just go to a bit of shopping and then we've seen a group of people and then we just seen
00:06:28.780 there was different different music coming out but there was one time that a girl likes dancing
00:06:33.580 women and then i was meditating because of that problem what kind of i don't think straight what
00:06:40.060 kind of i don't think straight i've felt wrong before i've got myself before i've got a lot of
00:06:45.740 patients for a lot of things yeah there's something in particular but i don't want to mention it yeah
00:06:51.100 don't mention it um what what kind of problems are you suffering from because you said you um
00:06:55.340 like you're getting counseling is it a mental issue like health issue depression i think it was i think it
00:07:02.380 was last year where i was uh going to depression yeah i've been going to depression before 13 though
00:07:09.100 but um it's only got better but what made me do it well i was just there and then okay so basically
00:07:16.700 don't worry sister don't worry don't don't be upset this is well i this is the work of shaitan
00:07:21.500 believe us we the only reason i'm doing this is because unfortunately people are going to watch the video
00:07:26.540 and judge you uh based on that so don't cry well i allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is the most merciful
00:07:31.980 and don't ever and you said you you started to practice so sister well i i make dua for you
00:07:37.420 inshaAllah that you get well don't be upset that it's good that one part the fact that you're crying
00:07:42.940 well like this is a sign of repentance and remorse and it shows that you have iman yeah so don't be
00:07:48.380 upset um i'm just going to carry on so don't worry so you said that you felt a bit of guilt when you
00:07:53.980 saw some brothers giving dawah yeah okay so um okay so at that point obviously you felt guilty you came
00:08:01.420 back to your senses right when i seen i'm giving that books i was like oh thank you because i have
00:08:07.740 i've got so many english written and everything and then a couple of months ago i said to my mom
00:08:27.180 um i wanted to start praying that i wanted to learn and then my mom was like i'll do it with you
00:08:34.620 we both at first at first i had to do that just the one week then first i started using it loud so
00:08:40.860 you could understand what i'm saying okay and then i started singing so you recently started to practice
00:08:47.580 yeah yeah back two months ago now okay sister um okay so so now that we've understood is there any message
00:08:56.140 that you want to give to people who are judging you and making like insulting you and stuff like
00:09:01.180 that is there anything that you would say because there's a lot of that i'm going to say but is there
00:09:04.540 anything that you want to add up or say before we finish this conversation yeah um for all the
00:09:11.740 girls that we have here and uh hijab i'm sorry for disrespecting you and disrespecting for often
00:09:18.940 i've learned from my mistakes i've gone viral and i'm just i just want everybody leave it alone and
00:09:29.020 like keep everything away from someone i just don't want it to be how it was and that i'm never going to
00:09:35.740 do something like that again i'm sorry for disrespecting you and thank you to all of you like that
00:09:40.700 i've said that i made a mistake but if i put a last one i've allowed to judge at the end of the day
00:09:47.580 i'm going to get judged for it not you like okay and you want people to take this video down yes
00:09:54.620 yeah i want okay if please if you do have this video can you delete it or can you take your social
00:10:00.940 media site so help me a lot okay sister first thing may allah bless you uh thanks for clarifying
00:10:08.060 thanks for allowing people to hear your side and inshallah our our aim as my team is to get these
00:10:13.500 videos down uh and inshallah just give a little general advice to the brothers and sisters inshallah
00:10:18.300 thanks for speaking thanks for allowing me to share this with the people inshallah um once again my
00:10:23.340 advice to you is sister don't ever ever doubt the mercy of allah don't ever think to yourself i've done this
00:10:28.940 i'm finished i'm going hell this is from shaytan no matter what sin you commit repent and carry on
00:10:36.060 yeah so don't ever forget that and also i'm going to get you inshallah in contact with some if you want
00:10:42.060 if you want with some good sisters in birmingham who can keep your company uh inshallah because this
00:10:48.060 is the work of the devil and music is one of the tools of shaytan unfortunately so thank you very much
00:10:53.660 sister may allah bless you if there's any way we can help you inshallah your sister's going to message me on
00:10:58.460 instagram let's keep in contact and inshallah um that's about it
00:11:08.380 okay guys so you heard it for yourself and well like i'm being honest it changed my perspective a
00:11:12.700 lot it it made me shape up my thinking a little bit more as well and it upset me i'm being honest
00:11:19.100 like well like when i heard her cry it just like it really made my heart sink because i was just like
00:11:23.500 because she doesn't have a fatherly figure she's lost someone dear yeah in her family she's like
00:11:29.180 suffering from psychological issues since since she was 13 depression self-harming and one thing that i
00:11:35.100 really want you to um and one thing that i want you to elaborate on musa is that the fact that she said
00:11:40.540 that when she was there at the moment when the song came on the shaytan like this is so crucial because we
00:11:46.540 always talk about this music how how elaborate on it because this is like you know because it's
00:11:52.780 something that you've suffered from before i'm trying to say regarding music your weakness you
00:11:55.900 know you know there's certain things yeah there's certain sins that for example you see myself and
00:12:00.540 ali mashallah practicing brothers whatnot you know give advice on youtube and whatnot but um
00:12:07.740 and you wouldn't expect us to fall into certain sins but we do sin because we're human beings yeah so
00:12:14.380 what you have to understand is even yusuf when we he was in a certain situation when a woman was
00:12:20.780 approaching him in a seductive way allah subhanahu wa ta'ala expresses to us in the quran in surah
00:12:26.300 yusuf that had he not seen you know the subhanallah like the miracles of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala the
00:12:33.020 work of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala even him subhanallah it could have affected him yeah and he was a prophet
00:12:39.020 of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that's not to say yusuf was weak but what does this go to show you when we
00:12:44.220 come across certain things and we see certain things and hear certain things they affect our
00:12:48.780 heart and when they affect our heart they can cause us to commit grave sins so for example if i was to
00:12:55.260 see a woman coming at me naked this that what not it can really affect the man in exactly the same way
00:13:01.740 this sister she expresses that i didn't want to do it this that what not but it was a specific song
00:13:07.820 and what not she makes it very clear yeah this is why music is haram this is why music is it's the
00:13:14.220 it's the work of shaitan yeah when you listen to music you think oh that's minor but then the things
00:13:19.740 that it will lead you to are not minor exactly so it's like it's something it is like that i'm telling
00:13:25.420 you music and heart look if you're in let's say in a haram relationship haram relationship and listening
00:13:30.780 to love songs wallahi i'm telling you believe me i come from the society where i'm telling you
00:13:36.380 my family members have committed they've killed theirself and believe me me personally i'm just
00:13:41.820 i'm just telling you so you guys understand and learn in my jahili when i'll be in certain
00:13:45.340 relationships when i would hear these kind of songs relating to love songs whatever it may be
00:13:50.140 it affects your heart wallahi aki that i know brothers and at times you feel suicidal
00:13:56.220 let's say you're going through a breakup in your haram relationship whatever it is yeah in jahili
00:13:59.500 when you hear this your heart wallahi aki i'm telling you by allah when you you know
00:14:03.660 so now you know it's not doing drugs you're just thinking you know what yeah i can't handle this
00:14:07.420 anymore this is the fifth because you know when you see people like nikki minaj whatnot yeah talking
00:14:12.700 about yeah their private parts talking about how they've got bear guys and talking about how they
00:14:19.500 they've done inappropriate dances on stage and whatnot and all of this yeah
00:14:24.380 this is going to affect you this is when you're listening to this this is what's going to influence
00:14:28.380 you yeah and this is what does influence people yeah it just goes to show you music is something
00:14:33.660 that can lead you to that this sister is no different than any other sister out there yeah
00:14:37.900 she and she's only 17 yeah she's only 17 so many 17 year old sisters unfortunately they listen to
00:14:43.180 music yeah and they're probably watching it thinking oh i'd never do that why not yeah i bet you at home
00:14:47.660 you're doing the same thing yeah i bet you at home you're doing the same thing what's the difference
00:14:51.820 same with brothers same with brothers same with guys because they're in that mentality you need to
00:14:55.740 understand bro if i come to you every day and say you're a liar yeah you're a liar you're a liar
00:14:59.260 bruv you're gonna start sacrificing you're a liar yeah these filthy people in these songs they don't
00:15:04.140 care about you and they're causing harm they they talk about women like they're hoes they're calling
00:15:08.700 i can't believe it they're calling women hoes you're this you're that and then we've got the same
00:15:13.980 females in the clubs dancing to it but yeah it's like a guy cussing your mom and you're skanking to it
00:15:18.860 your mom is this and oh yeah yeah yeah it's part of the logic anyways guys listen what we're going
00:15:27.020 to do now is we're going to mention the pages that i've been sharing this video they're not taking it
00:15:30.300 down because to them likes and shares is more important so report these pages and we'll lie how
00:15:34.940 you're going to answer allah on the day of judgment so report these pages we're not going to play the
00:15:38.940 video and you know by looking at some of these pages they put their name there one of these pages
00:15:43.100 put his name in arabic yes and the way he spelled astaghfirullah when he posted this
00:15:47.420 it's very clear to me i i assume that this guy's a muslim yeah and some of these people are muslim
00:15:51.820 these people need to fear allah yeah you're just as bad you you were saying that she is this she is
00:15:56.940 that you are just as bad as someone who does something bad exactly you are just as bad you're
00:16:02.060 sharing it you're probably worse mate because you're sharing it to thousands of people you're worse
00:16:06.460 than her you're worse than her you're promoting it yeah so you need to fear allah because she could change
00:16:11.900 yeah in five years she's changed she's practicing she's wearing naqab she's married she's got
00:16:16.620 children and because of you you evil people yeah because i'm sorry i'm getting passionate now
00:16:22.540 because of you yeah because of you she has to deal with hate she has to deal with pain and suffering
00:16:30.140 because her husband remembers that a hundred thousand people have seen her doing something in front of a
00:16:35.020 guy and that's on your shoulders it's on your shoulders you need to be careful we're mentioning these
00:16:39.340 when you're in your grave no no everyone will die one day yes yes when you die you will be
00:16:43.180 accountable for everything yeah yeah anyone can die at any time and share this video with those pages
00:16:47.420 well like if this doesn't you know this doesn't make you take it down we don't know if you know
00:16:52.700 any admins of these pages yeah send it to them yes and also we want to tell you guys that the reason
00:16:57.340 we're sharing these pages and you're going to end up seeing the video is because we spoke to the
00:17:01.020 family the family said look they're already sharing it yeah so at least mention it because the police is
00:17:04.860 involved uh and inshallah just report the channels report these pages inshallah guys when you go on
00:17:10.620 the page click report page yes harassment bullying yes when you go on the page on instagram yes report
00:17:16.700 the page yes every single one of you if you want to see a change yeah if you actually want to do
00:17:21.020 something instead of talking nonsense in the comments yeah let's all report the page you get
00:17:25.020 these pages deleted and they're not doing that in good man exactly so guys thank you for watching
00:17:29.260 hope you guys have benefited hope you guys have learned if we've done anything forgive us it's our shortfall
00:17:34.060 um like i said before inshallah share this do do something if this was your own sister you will
00:17:39.180 not stand still you will do something so inshallah share this with your friends and family and get
00:17:43.660 those pages reported inshallah and taken uh taken down inshallah that's about it hope you guys have
00:17:48.300 benefited assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh uh do check out our reaction with musa on musa's channel
00:17:54.460 inshallah uh very soon uh very soon good bye
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