F!GHTING & FREE MIXING IN RAMADAN
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the recent fight between two Muslims in the streets of Toronto, Canada, and our thoughts on the issue of women in public in general. We also talk about some of the worst things we see happening in the name of jummah.
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What type of Muslim are you? Are you like Sunni, Shia?
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If that was my sister and my daughter, my right fist would sue me yours.
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Instead of making it look like it's Quran,
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okay also commonly known as fitna fest but a disclaimer for the audience listen to the entire
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video stick around at the end don't take us out of context we're going to cover all the aspects
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because i know yes there's arguments on it's the most haram thing ever everyone's going to hell
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and then other people are like no haram please so sahur fest yes in america it's this big gathering
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we're from like 2 a.m to 5 a.m all the youth pretty much go and have sahur now the reason why
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people have been not liking it is because there's a lot of free mixing uh maybe people are beautifying
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themselves when they shouldn't maybe men are acting not which is which is which is which is
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oh yeah that's what makes me sick yeah they're not actually emasculated but also for example
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doing harab stuff like going to a woman there's this fitna there but let's watch some videos
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yeah so that can give us a context so let's start off with uh there's a fight we should watch that
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oh there was a fight oh let's start with the fight this is unbelievable in in in ramadan
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yeah subhanallah this this is a hit in the process said you should not ever strike a
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a face strike someone's face well that was not a good start isn't it and someone's put like a
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little nasheed there subhanallah so we don't know what happened etc but irrelevant subhanallah
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if you're going there subhanallah at least make it a place where it's in a battle it gets
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You've got a hijabi, you've got sisters who are there
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He's basically, the person who's put this in Suhur first
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These people in those videos are people of the hellfire
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And in our religion, if you study the book on Tahawee
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If you put everything that happens in Suhurfest together
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Out of context, speaking on behalf of Allah
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You're telling something about Allah that Allah did not say about
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This is worse than anything that could happen in Suhurfest
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So whoever done this thinking you're righteous and pious
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and it's, you know, Sahur, I might end up at a Sahur fest
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So we have to first understand where these people are coming from
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Yes, beautifying yourself and going around talking to non-men,
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Playing music and hanging out and fighting each other,
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Because at the end of the day, we need to bear in mind
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now i'm not coming and saying it's halal yes we know it's it's the the event there's haram stuff
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happening there the free mixing and also like for example this this thing that's just allowed as
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women beautifying themselves this is haram like women will come and say oh he doesn't know his
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gaze okay but that's a matter of you know we can say okay if you observe someone okay we understand
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but you you shouldn't be beautifying yourself let's let's be very transparent very
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figure why is that sisters are getting away thinking that they can beautify
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several work you are actively in sin let's be honest because it's not fair
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when you come and say oh that brother's not okay true but the assistant why is
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no one talking about the fact that you are beautiful like everyone has become
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normalized yeah everywhere your beauty and you're thinking this is absolutely
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normal no it's not you're actively committed it that one guy who's not
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rolling his gaze to one woman yes he should it's his fault he should
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lower his gaze however if you are attracting beauty you're there I'm not
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saying it's your fault i'm saying both parts are plain so he's not rolling his gaze but then you
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are giving him something to look at it's in his face and which means what that you are going to
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create this imagine two and a half thousand men looked at you because you beautified yourself in
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such a way the way he was dressed etc they shouldn't know their gaze but there was a temptation
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for example you're both a sinful that man will get one sin for looking at you you are going to get
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all those men that looked at you you're going to get that's it so that's another issue number one
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Number two, we've got these idiotic men, I call them idiotic
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This is where, subhanAllah, you've got this guy who's going up to people
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Before the clip rolls, to give you some context
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I think another one of the issues with Suhorfest is
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It's what type of people are you attracting there, right?
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You're attracting these men who are too tired for Tarawih prayer
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Let's go to this clip where this guy keeps going to everyone
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bro if you can't bro if i could bro if i saw you yeah coming to my sister or my daughter this
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that bro i think i think that's the justification yeah that fight if that fight because of that
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yeah you get knocked out bro let's watch it look excuse me this is a very random question but are
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you muslim yes what type of muslim are you are you like sunni oh you're sunny yeah well i want
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you to sun be mine i think you're very beautiful respectfully i think you're very beautiful
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you think i can get your father's number you know that's so respectful but i think that's not like
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the father's no my right fist would soon be yours if he was there if that was my sister and my
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daughter well soon to be yours my right fist will be soon to yours like that video would end with
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the phone on the floor that's what would have happened like here you can see we just cut the
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video short let's go for the detail you'll keep and this is saying that you keep going to different
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muslim woman he's not actually interested right you're not interested and you're recording
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yourself and i understand you're like oh ask for the dad's number yeah okay it's it's a correct
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way to go look i'm not saying you can't approach a sister in public i'm not saying that because
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i've done that two times when i was going to get married in a respectful way sorry sister i happen
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to see you i have a liking just want to know that my interest is my interest in you is pertaining to
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marriage i have no in intentions i would like to get to know you better if you're interested can i
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speak to your father to the point to the detail etc yes no maybe so whatever it's for that matter
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and these days we ask if you ask for a number she'll give it if you ask for dad's number she
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sees it as a red flag this is what we're dealing with today so that but what do you make out of
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him just go to sisters like that so i think number one if he genuinely approached his sister because
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he was interested how he approached it is wrong you shouldn't approach a sister in a flirtatious
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manner and with the camera but it's different if he's approaching because he's interested he's
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approaching maybe with the right intentions but doing it wrong but he's doing that strictly for
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the views i saw a video i didn't tell you about this yeah wallahi bro is insane he posted one of
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this reaver who clearly looked like she was a new muslim yeah and she comments on the video online
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saying i did not give you permission to post this this makes me look bad i'm married i don't want
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this on the internet guy doesn't respond okay that's bro that's sick that's that's completely
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wrong that's disgusting bro subhanallah and now we're going to go to this obviously this sister
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who's um and you have some positive stuff as well like the sister who's um uh you know asking uh
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sisters for maher and i found this really problematic as much as the one that dooms
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everyone to hellfire the video that we saw this is of her asking your maher requirements
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what are your meta requirements you can throw in like maybe 50k is fine
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50k is fine worships the grounds we walk on worships the grounds we walk on at this point
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finding a man is just good enough are you for real like finding a good man finding a good man
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a loyal man a loyal man our requirements are both to find a good guy who loves us treats us
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well and who you know like a little bit of this a little bit of that okay okay and what do you
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think as far as the maher goes when you do meet mr right what would be your maher requirement just
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that he's hustling he's hard working he cares he cares but you have to like ask for something
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he cares to like be a provider yeah okay i love that mashallah okay so i don't know what this is
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la la la and things about 50k this guy like seriously i'll be honest with you it's it's
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you're right or you can ask whatever but just become like it's like a trend thing okay this
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is the reason why there's a crisis of people not getting married not only that what she says
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the woman next to her it's it's i don't give that's a joke bro you don't joke about something
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like that bro that's like imagine i come and say the woman i'm gonna marry my wife should worship
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and it's trying to be honest with you if anything if anything the process said and this is a hadith
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yeah for those radical nifakis yeah those radical feminist nifakis i call them nifakis yeah okay
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Okay, there's hijabis, there's niqabis, there's nifakis, I've made it up.
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Nifakis are these feminists, hadith rejected, hijab rejected, those kind of words.
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if I was to ask anyone to prostrate to anybody, it would be the wife to the husband.
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The amanah that amanah has and the responsibility he has on his shoulders
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for his woman folk, sister, mother, daughter, his wife,
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If he was to ask anyone to push it to anyone, it would have been vice versa.
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Even if a man said, I want this woman to worship the ground of work, it's kufar.
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I understand it might be a joke, but we need to be careful with these statements.
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However, coming to the system of the Bahar requirement, etc.
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Again, this is what happens when people live in La La Land and have unrealistic expectations.
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You're putting the benchmark so high that men are like, you know what?
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if this improved it's a good concept if it can be improved and said you know what we're going to
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have segregation in the sense we're to the best of the markets we can't control the markets okay
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however the brothers are going to be in one hole we're going to play tarawih light upon light
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fine example i'll give you a fine example light upon light are doing a fantastic job brilliant
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job i don't know if you've been to one i was one with you bro oh my brother forget bro i'm the guy
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who told the story to a brother i go bro this happened he's like bro i was there with you
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i said oh sorry so light upon light yes he was with us he's been uh canning me allah bless him
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pro project really really appreciate me it's been there from the get-go throughout
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the whole journey may Allah bless him and accept it as I ask Allah but he
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makes it for you bro I ask that whatever support is giving us with
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those mats and there's instructors that you get the reward inshallah because I
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really appreciate and value you a lot can you may Allah bless and preserve you
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and guide your family to Islam because my dad's not Muslim as well so I hear
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that from that as well so what I'm saying is this light upon light is
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fantastic segregated scissors in the back the sunnah way so this is in the back
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the brothers in the front when you go to the markets the markets can't control
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right Ramadan it's about Ibadah it's about doing things for the sake of Allah we should be doing
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things as an act of worship right and sahur that's part of it you should be having this meal right to
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prepare for your fast right we're fasting for the sake of Allah so make sure you're going for the
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right intention like if you were going to go go with your guy friends you know and you you got
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your food and you talk about the right things you don't go intermixing you don't go chatting with
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girls you have the right intention now for the people who are just like overly hating on sahur
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fest you need to give advice with wisdom right if you sit up on your high totem pole haram haram
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haram do you think they're ever going to change you got to tell them yeah i love that you guys
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are trying to take that step to build this community and get there perfect now like imagine
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we get things segregated we get rid of the music exactly amazing we're getting so much closer right
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and then think about how much good that will actually have because right now everyone who's
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hating on it all you're doing is causing division yeah and then everyone's who's getting mad at them
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like it's just back and forth there's no yeah there's no common ground i think i think yes
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i think the muslims have a right to be outraged however the way look guys because you're upset
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about something you should ask them this before i put my hand up i got outraged about a specific
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woman calling for divorce and then i went and spoke about her eyelashes wrong i was angry
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and i came and said i was wrong my delivery was wrong i admit it brother i'm a human being i'm
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not i don't have an ego like i know i'm ali needs tower yes that's me yes but what i'm saying is
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fall into things where your nasiyah becomes
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with them, they would have run away from you. So it's very
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and I need to bear in mind as well, for some people
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will have an issue with it. You can come and say
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is enjoying good enough for being evil bro. We don't follow
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this nonsense of it doesn't befit me or this that I don't advise sisters without due respect yes
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I'll be very clear okay and I've said this what I'm saying and the person who I'm talking about
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that oh I'm a brother I only advise brothers no this deal has come to tell you Allah says
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let there rise a group of you he didn't say a group of men that advise men and a group of women
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that advise men but no let there rise amongst you a group of people who are enjoying good and
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forbid evil and the Prophet said if you do not enjoy good and forbid evil wallahi even if you
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prostrate Allah will send a calamity to you and it will look it will not be accepted it's severe
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so we need to do this what there has to be wisdom who gives you a right to doom people to hellfire
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who gives you a right to say this woman is this or that I want to be who the hell are you you can
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come and say this is wrong we should go about the right way good nasiyah not bad nasiyah so I would
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end on that note inshallah I think that's perfect canon always a pleasure the man with a plan let's
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