Ali Dawah - December 24, 2021
FEMALE REPORTER DIDN'T EXPECT THIS
Episode Stats
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206.58682
Summary
In this video, we see a young woman being approached by a man in a cafe. He does not look at her in the eye when he is talking to her. He only looks at her when she is not talking to someone else. How beautiful is this?
Transcript
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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So, as you guys can see, we're in a cafe shop. Why are we in a cafe shop?
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Because for the past week, me, the cameraman, and a little bit of Zeeshan,
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he's been away from home, too busy editing, up and down the country, alhamdulillah.
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But this video is not about that. At this day and age, brothers and sisters, subhanAllah, if you think about it,
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Mawin Ali, the video I'm about to show you, how he treated that woman, to me, was like, wow.
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Like, a bit shocking as well. A lot of people watching this will be like,
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at this day and age, why would a man behave like this towards a woman? Why?
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You know, a lot of things can become normalized.
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And this very thing that he does is something that you would rarely see any men in this day and age do.
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He did not look at her, from what I know, once.
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She's there, he's talking to her, he's conversing with her, but he is focusing here.
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Every single one of us, men, we suffer from the issue of not lowering our gaze.
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I'm a man, I can be very, very honest about that.
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This doesn't mean we go and look, but we have our moments where it's hard,
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you can't even look left or right when you're driving, or even on your phone.
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But I admire, I genuinely admire young men who lower their gaze.
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Wallahi, I'll be honest with you, I feel like kissing these people's head.
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You know, it's not that she's dressed up inappropriate or whatever it may be.
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The issue of lowering the gaze doesn't matter how she's dressed.
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And I found it so beautiful that he's there listening and talking to her,
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And in this day and age, brothers and sisters, a lot of men would be doing what?
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Looking at her, smiling at her, flirting with her, looking her up and down,
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And when we look at this, brothers and sisters, how Islam has honored women.
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And they dare to come and tell us that Islam is oppressive, you know, it sexualizes women, etc.
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How many men in this day and age are told, men or people educating their children, young men,
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Do not look at women in that way or that way or in a certain way.
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No, they are sexualized and objectified continuously.
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So I just wanted to bring this to your attention.
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Because Allah says in the Quran, tell the believing men to lower your gaze.
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And subhanAllah, he is actually implementing that.
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This is what Islam is teaching every man, every man from a young age,
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They have more to damn offer than their body parts.
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And sadly, the issue just doesn't stop that with men.
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Women have sadly dropped to a certain level where they think the only thing that they have to offer is their body parts.
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They have forgotten about more things in motherhood.
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There's so much other things that they can offer community.
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And they have dropped it all the way down to a makeup, to a Botox treatment,
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to getting your hips down, to getting your breasts down, to getting your lips down.
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Even if you have certain hijabi YouTubers, yeah, getting their lips down, big lips, like a balloon.
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And you're making women feel more ugly and ugly.
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My dear sisters, you guys have more to offer than your looks.
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I'm just saying, wallahi, you guys are honorable women.
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All of you guys, Muslim women or non-Muslim women, yeah?
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.