Ali Dawah - November 15, 2022


HIJABI BOSS BABE GETS REALITY CHECK - PART 2


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Jummah Kutbahaykah on equal pay for women and men. What does the Quran say about this and what does the Torah say about it? What is the difference between 50/50 and 100/50?

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00:00:15.080 Islam you believe that the woman has or should have equal rights as you 1.00
00:00:18.840 no no no no no no no no no no require equal rights what do you mean
00:00:23.520 what do you think I mean by equal rights?
00:00:24.680 That whatever the man gets, the woman gets the same 1.00
00:00:27.760 There is a hadith that says that
00:00:29.160 What is that?
00:00:30.720 The money of the husband belongs to the woman. 0.97
00:00:34.000 So that's an inequality, because what that means is the following.
00:00:36.200 For example, a man...
00:00:38.380 Okay, check this out.
00:00:39.200 If it was equality, look how Islam owns a woman. 1.00
00:00:42.320 A man has to pay for the rent, the shopping, the gas, the electric, gas...
00:00:46.280 What hadith is that?
00:00:47.960 No, no, that's not hadith.
00:00:48.780 I'm saying a man is a maintainer and protector, so he has to provide a house.
00:00:52.180 He has to do the shopping, cancel tax, all of this kind of stuff.
00:00:55.200 Okay, he has to pay.
00:00:56.500 If it was equality, it has to be 50-50. 0.94
00:00:58.260 We don't believe in 50-50.
00:00:59.280 But you discussed that with this house.
00:01:00.860 No, you're not understanding.
00:01:02.240 If a man comes to you, a Muslim man, and says you have to give 50% of the shopping and rent, 0.56
00:01:07.380 you say to him, bye-bye, you're not a man, you're a boy.
00:01:09.240 Who says that?
00:01:10.520 There's a lot of men who say that.
00:01:12.240 Look, I'm...
00:01:12.420 What's that? We need a change.
00:01:13.560 If a man comes to you, sister, I'm saying you're young, and wants to marry you, 0.98
00:01:17.840 and says you have to pay half the rent and shopping,
00:01:20.660 you say to that man, you know what Hijab says? 0.96
00:01:22.440 You're a boy.
00:01:23.680 You say to him, you're a boy.
00:01:25.300 Yalla, I need a man. 1.00
00:01:26.560 I wouldn't say that.
00:01:27.320 That's from your point of view, but...
00:01:28.260 So you'll go 50-50?
00:01:30.000 I'll go 50-50.
00:01:30.740 No, you're not.
00:01:31.720 Look, look, look.
00:01:32.480 Look, look at this.
00:01:33.320 Check this out.
00:01:35.420 You don't have to.
00:01:38.320 I don't have to.
00:01:39.420 I don't mind it.
00:01:40.180 Okay, good.
00:01:40.780 No, if you want to.
00:01:41.800 Because I have shame.
00:01:43.000 What shame?
00:01:43.860 No, no, one second.
00:01:45.480 I'm not going to let you give 50-50.
00:01:46.040 No, no, no, no.
00:01:47.520 Who said it's shame for you to give, if you don't give 50-50?
00:01:50.060 You don't need to give a penny.
00:01:51.220 Sister, listen to me carefully
00:01:53.020 Sister, we follow Islam
00:01:56.640 Not your subjective morals
00:01:57.980 Well, in Islam does it say
00:01:59.500 The man has to give a lot
00:02:01.280 In Surah Nisa verse 34
00:02:03.200 Allah says
00:02:03.840 The men are the maintainers and protectors
00:02:06.020 What?
00:02:06.680 Sister
00:02:07.080 They maintain and protect the women
00:02:10.420 They care for them
00:02:11.300 Maintain means you pay for shopping
00:02:13.220 You pay for rent
00:02:14.900 You don't pay a penny
00:02:15.980 La ilaha illallah
00:02:18.300 We're given the extra rights
00:02:19.620 She's saying I don't want it
00:02:20.520 Islam is saying 0.99
00:02:21.560 My dear sister
00:02:23.300 If you want it, fine
00:02:24.160 That's great for you
00:02:24.880 No
00:02:25.120 Keep in mind that you
00:02:26.180 You have the ability to come to sleep
00:02:27.600 Sister, the Sharia is saying 0.97
00:02:29.280 Look, it's infiltrated your mind so much
00:02:31.880 That you're even foregoing your rights
00:02:34.040 You're saying, look
00:02:34.680 No, no, okay
00:02:35.360 No, you told me
00:02:36.620 If a man comes to me and says
00:02:37.540 Let's do 50-50 0.97
00:02:38.440 I said fine
00:02:39.520 Okay, one second
00:02:40.080 Alright, no problem
00:02:40.980 If a man comes to me and says
00:02:41.980 I'll do 100%
00:02:42.960 Also fine
00:02:43.660 No, no, no
00:02:44.480 He has to
00:02:45.520 Do you understand
00:02:46.540 No, no, want to
00:02:48.380 No, want to
00:02:48.880 I don't
00:02:50.300 It's an obligation for him
00:02:51.620 It's an obligation
00:02:52.420 Yes
00:02:53.260 Good
00:02:53.980 Now, now
00:02:54.940 If he's 50-50 0.62
00:02:55.920 What if you're pregnant and have a child 1.00
00:02:57.380 And you can't work anymore
00:02:58.360 And then he comes and says to you
00:02:59.520 Where's my 50-50?
00:03:01.240 He's not allowed to say that
00:03:02.720 I'm saying this for you
00:03:04.420 These sisters are celebrating
00:03:06.160 In the back I can see
00:03:06.780 They're like
00:03:07.040 Woo
00:03:07.300 You're here forgoing it
00:03:08.860 Sister
00:03:09.420 Forgoing it
00:03:10.520 I'm saying
00:03:11.560 I'm saying that
00:03:12.560 You have the ability
00:03:13.820 To share
00:03:14.860 No, if you want to
00:03:15.680 If you say
00:03:17.320 You know what
00:03:17.740 I have mercy on this man
00:03:18.880 I want to help him out
00:03:20.140 May Allah bless you
00:03:21.220 But you don't have to
00:03:23.060 He has to
00:03:24.020 Make that clear
00:03:25.140 Because I don't want
00:03:25.780 You know
00:03:26.500 Some brother
00:03:26.960 Some brother watching this
00:03:28.020 Is saying
00:03:28.200 I need to marry this sister 0.99
00:03:29.020 Because it's going to go 50-50 0.88
00:03:30.180 I'm trying to protect you here sister
00:03:31.780 Yeah
00:03:32.000 Any of you brothers
00:03:33.120 That are watching here
00:03:33.740 Yeah
00:03:33.940 You have to
00:03:35.380 If you don't
00:03:35.720 You're a boy
00:03:36.460 Okay
00:03:36.860 I'll make it very clear
00:03:37.960 He has to provide for you
00:03:39.780 And protect you
00:03:41.220 No 50-50
00:03:42.240 Not when in a fight
00:03:43.040 Hey listen
00:03:43.600 You get the first guy
00:03:44.280 I'll get the second guy
00:03:44.880 No, no, no
00:03:45.280 He has to go
00:03:46.100 Even if he gets knocked out
00:03:47.520 And if the woman works 1.00
00:03:48.980 How is she going to work
00:03:50.180 If she's pregnant 0.99
00:03:50.600 She's not
00:03:51.780 Remove the pregnancy 1.00
00:03:52.600 It's marriage
00:03:53.780 Sister pregnancies happen 0.74
00:03:54.820 Okay
00:03:55.560 Let's say the woman 0.92
00:03:56.240 Can't get pregnant 1.00
00:03:56.960 Okay
00:03:57.340 That's an exception to the rule
00:03:59.340 Let's talk it generically
00:04:00.260 So all these women 1.00
00:04:01.220 Are going to be 50-50 0.95
00:04:02.060 Ya Allah
00:04:02.460 No way
00:04:02.840 But you're assuming
00:04:04.060 That the woman's not working 1.00
00:04:05.020 In your example
00:04:05.500 No
00:04:05.760 No, no, no
00:04:06.320 She can 0.59
00:04:06.960 Her money is her money 1.00
00:04:07.820 Yeah
00:04:08.160 When she works
00:04:09.820 Part time
00:04:10.560 As long as
00:04:11.460 She's not
00:04:12.220 What is your standard
00:04:13.820 No, no, no
00:04:14.180 Me personally
00:04:14.980 Me personally
00:04:15.640 I told my wife
00:04:16.660 If she wants to work
00:04:17.440 Part time
00:04:18.460 That doesn't go against
00:04:20.220 My rights
00:04:20.820 Meaning
00:04:21.120 If she's working long hours
00:04:22.520 And I come home
00:04:23.180 And I've worked long hours
00:04:24.820 And there's no food on the table
00:04:26.080 Of course I'll be upset
00:04:27.000 Because I've been working
00:04:28.020 I would want food
00:04:29.160 So if she's like
00:04:30.460 I've worked
00:04:30.900 I'll say look
00:04:31.320 Don't work
00:04:31.860 I'll work
00:04:32.280 I just
00:04:32.740 I just want my wife at home 1.00
00:04:34.000 So
00:04:34.420 What happened to help yourself
00:04:35.880 Yes, sorry?
00:04:37.000 If you want me to work in the house
00:04:38.540 You just come and hungry in the house
00:04:40.040 Help yourself
00:04:40.820 What do you mean help yourself?
00:04:42.000 Help yourself
00:04:42.480 Make your own food
00:04:43.480 Okay, so let me get this right
00:04:44.820 I'm going to go work long hours
00:04:46.220 And I'm going to come home
00:04:47.380 And cook for myself
00:04:48.020 Come on guys man
00:04:49.240 Come on guys man
00:04:50.120 Let's not live in
00:04:50.920 Let's not live in Disneyland guys
00:04:52.260 It's not chocolate
00:04:52.800 It's not Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
00:04:54.400 My dear sister
00:04:55.780 No, no
00:04:56.260 If
00:04:56.500 Look
00:04:56.980 Look
00:04:57.540 If the situation is where
00:04:58.700 They both have to work
00:04:59.520 I'm saying
00:05:00.380 A traditional man
00:05:01.660 And a traditional woman 0.80
00:05:02.720 She wants to stay at home
00:05:04.160 Yeah
00:05:04.460 And he is working
00:05:06.020 Okay
00:05:06.360 If they're both working
00:05:07.600 If they are both working long hours
00:05:09.660 Well of course
00:05:10.500 There has to be some kind of compromise
00:05:11.700 I'm talking about
00:05:12.580 A traditional man
00:05:13.280 That's providing for the wife 1.00
00:05:14.780 And the wife is at home 1.00
00:05:16.000 I mean the bare thing
00:05:17.200 That minimum you'll accept
00:05:18.360 Is I will appreciate nice food
00:05:20.020 That's it
00:05:20.680 And I think
00:05:21.320 No traditional woman 1.00
00:05:22.080 Has a problem with that
00:05:22.780 What he's talking about
00:05:24.820 Is sadly the society
00:05:25.680 We live in today
00:05:26.220 What about tradition though
00:05:27.300 What about tradition
00:05:28.040 You're using the example of tradition
00:05:30.200 Traditional men want traditional women 1.00
00:05:31.680 Pardon
00:05:33.480 Traditional men want traditional women 1.00
00:05:35.220 But that's your one
00:05:37.120 No no not my one
00:05:38.120 That's what men want 1.00
00:05:38.780 Even non-Muslim men 0.96
00:05:39.540 Non-Muslim men 0.99
00:05:40.440 Generally
00:05:41.020 You've always thought
00:05:42.600 Exceptions don't make the rule
00:05:43.800 I'm telling you generally
00:05:44.680 A man does not like a woman 1.00
00:05:46.340 Who has a past
00:05:47.160 In the context
00:05:47.780 She slept around
00:05:49.200 A traditional man
00:05:50.440 Wouldn't want that
00:05:51.060 A traditional woman 0.99
00:05:51.980 Would want a man 1.00
00:05:52.620 Who can provide
00:05:53.200 Protect
00:05:53.680 And is a leader
00:05:54.820 And makes certain decisions
00:05:56.240 That's what a woman wants 1.00
00:05:57.400 Due to a hypergamous nature
00:05:58.600 So I'm saying
00:05:59.540 That a man
00:06:00.440 Has certain rules
00:06:01.300 A woman expects 1.00
00:06:01.940 And a woman has certain 1.00
00:06:03.400 Criteria a man expects 1.00
00:06:04.640 Simple as that
00:06:05.460 It's not
00:06:06.540 Rocket science
00:06:07.800 But like
00:06:08.460 Okay let's go to the idea
00:06:09.920 Of like making food
00:06:10.780 And cooking
00:06:11.260 Yes
00:06:11.620 Yeah
00:06:12.000 The man expects that
00:06:13.720 But like
00:06:14.040 Does the woman want that 1.00
00:06:14.960 Does the woman want to 1.00
00:06:16.100 Constantly cook
00:06:16.920 And
00:06:17.200 Okay
00:06:18.300 Does the man want to go
00:06:19.180 Work longer hours for her 0.85
00:06:20.160 Probably not
00:06:21.520 So then why is he doing it
00:06:22.520 Talk about it
00:06:23.500 And switch roles then
00:06:24.260 No no no
00:06:24.680 This is the problem
00:06:25.980 Why do I need to switch roles
00:06:27.120 Okay why in Islam 0.98
00:06:28.120 Does it say
00:06:28.800 A woman has to cook and clean 1.00
00:06:30.080 And
00:06:30.380 This is what I'm saying
00:06:32.020 Look look
00:06:32.320 Check this out
00:06:32.780 Let's check this out
00:06:33.660 A man goes and works 1.00
00:06:34.740 No questions asked
00:06:36.120 12 hour shift
00:06:37.460 A man works for his family 1.00
00:06:38.420 Does it so he can support
00:06:39.640 His family and the future
00:06:40.520 No one bats an eye
00:06:42.220 The moment he says
00:06:43.360 I want food
00:06:43.940 Yallah
00:06:44.860 How could you ask for food
00:06:46.640 Oh my gosh
00:06:47.720 Wallahi this is injustice
00:06:49.700 Wallahi this is
00:06:50.840 Can you imagine
00:06:51.680 Okay
00:06:52.060 A woman cleaning 0.99
00:06:52.980 Okay you know what
00:06:53.720 You know what
00:06:54.060 Would you
00:06:55.040 Would you want a man 1.00
00:06:56.140 Who tells you to go work
00:06:57.780 And he cooks
00:06:58.340 No way
00:07:00.680 No way
00:07:01.940 Women are 1.00
00:07:02.380 Women are hypergamous 1.00
00:07:03.360 By their nature
00:07:03.880 And if you was working
00:07:05.020 You know what you do
00:07:05.440 You replace that man like that
00:07:06.480 Because you want a man 0.65
00:07:07.520 Who provides and protects
00:07:08.300 Can you imagine
00:07:08.980 You're going working
00:07:09.760 And then once you have an argument
00:07:11.000 Check this out
00:07:11.680 Check this out
00:07:12.140 Sister I'm telling you
00:07:13.380 How men are
00:07:14.180 Traditional men 0.72
00:07:15.580 Who have traditional values
00:07:16.820 And within our fitrah
00:07:18.080 We want to protect and provide
00:07:19.860 You know why
00:07:20.340 Look
00:07:21.920 Does any of the sisters
00:07:23.220 You have children
00:07:23.880 If anyone has kids
00:07:26.040 No okay
00:07:26.540 A woman 0.57
00:07:27.540 Does she love the fact
00:07:28.500 That she can provide
00:07:29.300 For her baby
00:07:29.820 Is that something maternal
00:07:31.240 Yes she loves it
00:07:32.440 As men
00:07:33.200 We love the fact
00:07:34.200 That we can provide
00:07:34.840 For our wives
00:07:35.360 We love it
00:07:36.360 The moment
00:07:37.300 The moment
00:07:38.160 Sister the moment
00:07:39.160 The moment
00:07:40.060 A woman 0.57
00:07:41.800 Says 0.93
00:07:42.280 No I'll go work
00:07:43.620 Etc
00:07:44.000 Guess what
00:07:45.040 You know when you have an argument
00:07:45.880 And the wife
00:07:46.640 You know our sisters
00:07:47.380 Their tongues are 0.99
00:07:48.220 Like razor 0.92
00:07:48.900 They slice you
00:07:50.060 Imagine she comes and says
00:07:51.360 I provide for this house
00:07:53.040 Wallahi
00:07:54.380 To a man
00:07:54.940 It's as good as 0.99
00:07:55.320 Punching him in the face 1.00
00:07:56.040 Imagine your wife 1.00
00:07:57.300 Coming and saying
00:07:57.780 Who pays the shopping
00:07:58.800 Who pays the rent
00:08:00.060 And he's there like a miskin 1.00
00:08:01.180 Yeah yeah you do
00:08:02.640 Wallahi 1.00
00:08:03.960 I'd rather hang myself 1.00
00:08:05.760 I'd rather hang myself 0.99
00:08:07.120 You know why 0.98
00:08:07.660 Because let me tell you
00:08:08.540 I have this discussion
00:08:10.120 With my wife
00:08:10.520 And my wife says
00:08:11.500 Wallahi
00:08:11.980 I've never seen my wife
00:08:12.840 More happy
00:08:13.380 In the house
00:08:14.320 With the kids
00:08:14.720 Wallahi
00:08:15.200 She loves it
00:08:16.420 Wallahi
00:08:17.120 I sometimes say to her
00:08:19.380 You know what I say to her sometimes
00:08:20.160 I sometimes say to her
00:08:21.400 If you want a part time job
00:08:22.640 Yeah I've got to get a part time job
00:08:23.540 For you
00:08:23.800 Not for me
00:08:24.300 No she's like 1.00
00:08:25.000 I'm happy
00:08:25.360 I'm happy 0.94
00:08:26.220 Feminism has destroyed women 1.00
00:08:28.320 You know why 0.99
00:08:28.900 Boss babe
00:08:30.120 One second
00:08:31.140 Sister
00:08:32.000 Sister
00:08:32.380 Sister
00:08:33.000 My dear sister
00:08:34.920 Do you want to be the leader
00:08:38.680 I don't mind being the leader
00:08:40.420 Wallahi
00:08:41.140 Wallahi
00:08:42.060 Only a man who's a simp 1.00
00:08:44.340 Will say yes to that
00:08:45.080 A man who is a real man
00:08:47.000 Will not come and say
00:08:47.920 I'm going to marry you
00:08:48.500 You're going to be the leader
00:08:49.300 You're going to pay for the rent
00:08:50.780 Wallahi
00:08:51.380 He's a boy
00:08:51.840 What does hijab say
00:08:53.260 Boy
00:08:53.660 You're a boy
00:08:54.380 A man who provides 0.94
00:08:57.540 A woman is hypergamous 1.00
00:08:58.820 By her nature
00:08:59.480 That's why
00:09:00.200 If you look at studies
00:09:01.040 Women date across and up 1.00
00:09:02.760 Meaning
00:09:03.300 A woman's expectation to a man 1.00
00:09:04.880 He has to be some kind of
00:09:06.160 A man that looks like a man 1.00
00:09:07.020 Go and look at studies bro
00:09:08.100 Ask any sister
00:09:08.880 Would you marry a guy
00:09:09.600 Who's this tall
00:09:10.140 Can you walk in next to him
00:09:12.000 Can you imagine
00:09:12.340 Hey
00:09:13.000 It's her nature 0.96
00:09:14.680 We don't blame her
00:09:15.540 She wants a man 1.00
00:09:16.420 Who's taller
00:09:17.060 Studies show
00:09:17.840 You know what was their criteria
00:09:18.720 Six foot four
00:09:19.900 Bro it doesn't even exist
00:09:20.980 Bro it's 0.1%
00:09:23.080 But a woman then 0.99
00:09:24.180 What can I say
00:09:24.820 No
00:09:25.120 Sister
00:09:25.940 That is how women are 1.00
00:09:26.900 We accept them how they are
00:09:27.780 You don't accept us how we are
00:09:28.900 I accept
00:09:29.500 I accept every man
00:09:30.460 Okay
00:09:30.840 Men
00:09:31.440 Men want to be leaders 0.62
00:09:32.880 Men want to be protectors 1.00
00:09:34.580 Men want to be providers 1.00
00:09:35.640 Men want to be 1.00
00:09:36.640 The main source of the house
00:09:38.220 I accept that
00:09:38.780 Fine
00:09:39.160 Sister you're saying
00:09:40.720 I want to be the leader
00:09:41.580 I'm not saying
00:09:43.640 I'll forcefully be the leader
00:09:44.860 Good
00:09:45.100 So I'm saying
00:09:45.800 You must accept
00:09:46.160 That I can also lead myself
00:09:48.160 Sometimes
00:09:48.680 Of course you can lead yourself
00:09:49.260 You said you can't lead yourself
00:09:50.060 No but
00:09:50.800 No no no
00:09:51.880 I know I know
00:09:52.460 But a man
00:09:53.180 In his nature
00:09:53.860 He wants an obedient wife 1.00
00:09:55.100 Now what does obedience mean
00:09:56.180 When I say this
00:09:56.700 Sisters are like 1.00
00:09:57.120 What's this guy talking about now
00:09:58.760 I was agreeing with him up to now
00:10:00.240 You mean subservience
00:10:01.100 Obedience
00:10:02.200 Meaning
00:10:02.560 It doesn't mean
00:10:03.240 I'll come and get a stick 0.99
00:10:04.200 And slap a head 0.99
00:10:04.680 Bang 0.98
00:10:04.980 And make me lasagna
00:10:06.060 You know
00:10:06.540 Bang 0.60
00:10:06.900 This was too salty
00:10:07.620 I'm not talking about that
00:10:08.400 Yeah
00:10:08.700 Is that
00:10:09.420 Some sort of obedience
00:10:10.420 Is that for example
00:10:11.000 Obviously loyalty
00:10:11.720 Etc
00:10:12.400 The man is the leader
00:10:14.420 He makes decisions
00:10:15.640 Like for example
00:10:16.480 In my household
00:10:18.100 Sometimes I'll plan the day
00:10:19.060 We're going to do
00:10:19.540 Bang bang
00:10:19.840 My wife will come and say
00:10:21.180 You know what
00:10:21.460 Instead of going there
00:10:22.000 Let's go here
00:10:22.380 That's a banging idea 0.83
00:10:23.180 I've never even thought of that
00:10:23.900 Let's go
00:10:24.640 Let's do it
00:10:25.100 It's not like
00:10:25.680 No I'm the man bro
00:10:26.400 How dare you come and tell me
00:10:27.780 Where to go
00:10:28.260 Come on bro
00:10:29.140 I'm not talking about that
00:10:30.200 I'm talking
00:10:30.840 I feel like the man in the house
00:10:32.840 Yeah
00:10:33.340 And that's why men 0.96
00:10:34.500 Most of the times
00:10:35.140 When they're married to women 1.00
00:10:36.060 Are hot headed
00:10:36.720 Bro I'm a man
00:10:37.820 And I see masculine traits in her
00:10:38.900 You're putting me off
00:10:39.600 I want feminine 0.93
00:10:40.860 Your femininity
00:10:42.000 Wallahi
00:10:42.720 Should I tell you something
00:10:43.300 If a woman 0.96
00:10:44.220 Explored her femininity
00:10:45.520 Wallahi
00:10:46.320 A man
00:10:46.800 You can do anything with a man
00:10:47.720 You're not like a puppet
00:10:48.460 Yeah
00:10:49.080 Because your femininity 0.94
00:10:50.020 Is your most strongest thing
00:10:51.180 And guess what
00:10:51.880 The man's biggest desire
00:10:53.600 Is what
00:10:53.840 Our sexual urges
00:10:54.600 Which we're talking about
00:10:55.100 Sexual studies
00:10:55.680 A man's sexual urges 0.95
00:10:57.540 Is not compared to a woman 1.00
00:10:58.300 So meaning
00:10:59.240 Sisters
00:10:59.800 If you
00:11:00.420 Capitalise on your femininity 0.97
00:11:02.060 Wallahi 0.65
00:11:02.600 You got a man on your finger
00:11:03.560 You got him around your finger
00:11:05.100 But sisters thing 1.00
00:11:06.460 The more manly I become
00:11:07.620 And boss babe
00:11:08.280 And this stuff
00:11:08.820 Wallahi
00:11:09.020 You're putting me off
00:11:09.560 You're moving like a man 0.99
00:11:10.740 How they marry a man 0.71
00:11:11.400 Sometimes men use
00:11:12.620 Use their leadership
00:11:13.980 And their masculinity 0.99
00:11:15.000 To an advantage
00:11:16.460 To control women 1.00
00:11:17.700 Okay
00:11:17.980 That's the main problem
00:11:18.880 Okay good point
00:11:19.500 Good point
00:11:19.920 And then
00:11:20.360 They say
00:11:21.000 In the name of Islam 0.99
00:11:22.040 This is what Allah wants me to do
00:11:23.440 And that is the biggest
00:11:24.340 Give me an example
00:11:24.880 Let's be more specific
00:11:25.600 Because that can be
00:11:26.520 Give me a specific example
00:11:28.020 Like what is it that they do
00:11:29.280 They oppress
00:11:30.360 Think of something
00:11:33.480 So like my dad for example
00:11:35.160 Okay let's not go personal
00:11:36.420 Because there's cameras
00:11:37.000 Let's not go personal
00:11:37.740 Okay this
00:11:38.740 Okay this is very interesting
00:11:39.720 Because these things
00:11:40.980 Might stem from there
00:11:41.840 Yeah
00:11:42.500 So
00:11:43.200 Anyone that's recording this
00:11:45.420 Blur the sister's face 0.99
00:11:46.260 Yeah
00:11:46.960 Okay
00:11:47.460 Blur her face 0.98
00:11:48.340 Okay
00:11:48.700 Anyone that doesn't blur her face 0.73
00:11:50.460 I'm going to send a strap
00:11:51.080 To their channel
00:11:51.500 Yeah
00:11:51.680 Okay no no no
00:11:52.880 But it's very important
00:11:53.660 Because you know
00:11:54.180 Sometimes we talk to people
00:11:55.120 And we use logical arguments
00:11:56.360 It's actually something
00:11:57.660 Pertaining to something
00:11:58.620 That's happening
00:11:59.200 Be their husband
00:12:00.060 Brother or father
00:12:00.900 Yeah
00:12:01.260 Okay
00:12:01.720 So sometimes what happens
00:12:03.140 With our sisters
00:12:03.680 Is when we say
00:12:04.600 I want a woman that's obedient 1.00
00:12:06.060 They think
00:12:06.400 Oh my dad
00:12:07.020 Who used to abuse my mum 1.00
00:12:08.120 And beat her up
00:12:08.980 Black and blue 0.96
00:12:09.600 We're not talking about that man
00:12:10.980 We are not talking about that man
00:12:12.680 Sister
00:12:14.040 Sister
00:12:14.480 Issues with men in Islam
00:12:16.200 No sister
00:12:16.760 That's generalising
00:12:17.660 Sister
00:12:17.960 You're putting all of us
00:12:19.080 In that same category
00:12:19.660 Why is it that when I generalise
00:12:21.260 It's a problem
00:12:21.620 But when you generalise
00:12:22.540 When did I generalise
00:12:23.460 When I said about men
00:12:24.980 No no but that's facts
00:12:26.140 I'm talking about men 0.51
00:12:27.300 Okay
00:12:27.560 Yes but it's a fact
00:12:29.640 Generalisation
00:12:30.020 I'm giving facts
00:12:30.620 Generalisation
00:12:31.480 That men
00:12:32.180 Factual generalisation
00:12:32.700 Yes yes yes
00:12:33.460 The thing is factual generalisation
00:12:34.640 Sister
00:12:35.020 Sister
00:12:35.380 For example
00:12:36.380 I'll give you another generalisation
00:12:38.320 Yeah
00:12:38.500 I don't want to give something
00:12:42.820 Okay
00:12:44.700 Most women are shorter than men 1.00
00:12:46.420 It's a fact
00:12:47.840 I generalise
00:12:48.640 It's a fact
00:12:48.980 Most men
00:12:50.260 Are stronger than women 1.00
00:12:51.240 That's a fact
00:12:51.820 It's a fact
00:12:52.940 Over generalisation
00:12:54.820 But you're seeing most
00:12:56.400 No
00:12:56.880 But there's exceptions to the rule
00:13:00.120 There are women 0.98
00:13:00.700 That can knock out a man 1.00
00:13:01.520 That's an exception to the rule
00:13:03.500 But exceptions don't make the rule
00:13:04.620 Yeah
00:13:05.200 So what I'm saying is
00:13:06.320 Men
00:13:06.920 No man 0.97
00:13:09.020 No man 0.97
00:13:09.740 Would ever say
00:13:10.280 I want my wife to lead
00:13:11.620 I want my wife to be boss babe 1.00
00:13:13.540 Sorry
00:13:15.100 Then you need to find yourself
00:13:16.840 Another woman 1.00
00:13:17.280 But that's what you want in a woman 1.00
00:13:18.960 No no no
00:13:19.620 That's not what I want in a woman 1.00
00:13:20.620 That's what men want 1.00
00:13:21.440 That's what
00:13:23.440 That's what
00:13:24.860 Men want in a woman 1.00
00:13:25.480 So most men
00:13:27.180 Don't want a boss
00:13:28.120 No
00:13:28.660 They don't want a boss girl 1.00
00:13:29.880 They don't want a boss girl 1.00
00:13:30.640 They're like no
00:13:31.020 No men 1.00
00:13:31.580 Real men
00:13:32.440 Real men
00:13:33.000 Want a boss babe 1.00
00:13:33.840 You know why
00:13:34.840 Let me tell you something
00:13:35.280 Let me tell you something
00:13:37.320 Let me tell you something
00:13:37.640 Sisters
00:13:37.880 If my wife 0.97
00:13:39.380 Was a dustbin collector
00:13:41.000 She was on the road
00:13:41.760 It doesn't mean nothing to me
00:13:44.300 A man judges a woman 1.00
00:13:46.440 By her past
00:13:47.160 And a woman judges a man 0.97
00:13:48.380 By his future
00:13:48.980 So he looks at a man
00:13:50.380 And he's like
00:13:50.600 Okay
00:13:50.880 What's he doing for himself
00:13:52.340 Is it not around
00:13:53.180 Or is it not around
00:13:54.320 To constantly bring up
00:13:55.240 Someone's sinful past
00:13:57.180 But this is where I'm saying
00:13:58.460 You need to understand
00:13:59.340 A man's psychology 0.99
00:14:00.260 For a man
00:14:01.560 A woman's past 0.95
00:14:03.060 Look
00:14:03.440 This is done by non-Muslim 1.00
00:14:04.400 Forget Muslim men 1.00
00:14:05.140 Yeah 0.99
00:14:05.500 Muslim men
00:14:07.120 Men
00:14:07.380 There was a question
00:14:08.620 I saw a YouTube video
00:14:09.560 Yeah
00:14:09.760 They say
00:14:10.420 You know what they say to the man
00:14:11.260 Would you rather have
00:14:12.640 £50,000 in debt
00:14:14.520 Or that your girlfriend
00:14:16.740 Has got 50 bodies
00:14:17.880 You say £50,000 in debt
00:14:19.560 I'm sorry
00:14:21.180 But the man needs to work on his
00:14:22.800 The man needs to work on
00:14:24.340 This is how a man is created
00:14:25.860 No
00:14:26.120 Shall I tell you
00:14:26.900 You have the ability
00:14:28.120 Okay you know what
00:14:28.720 You know what
00:14:29.140 There's a reason why
00:14:29.840 People convert to Islam
00:14:31.020 That's fine
00:14:31.520 Look at Andrew Tate
00:14:32.560 You don't bring up his sins
00:14:34.800 You're missing a point
00:14:35.240 Let me make something clear
00:14:36.160 I'm not saying
00:14:37.520 A sister
00:14:38.520 With a past
00:14:39.800 Who's repented
00:14:40.900 Cannot ask for a man 1.00
00:14:42.200 Who
00:14:42.360 I'm not saying that
00:14:43.320 Let's make that clear
00:14:44.260 Aki 0.90
00:14:44.640 Ignore him
00:14:45.260 Aki please 0.52
00:14:45.740 Aki 0.90
00:14:46.380 Ignore him
00:14:47.400 Go speak to a tree
00:14:48.060 It's better
00:14:48.400 A tree has more benefit
00:14:49.120 To the ummah
00:14:49.600 Yeah
00:14:50.020 Yeah
00:14:50.900 Yeah
00:14:51.020 Yeah
00:14:51.080 Okay please
00:14:51.500 I beg you
00:14:51.900 Ignore him
00:14:52.200 He gets excited
00:14:53.180 Yeah
00:14:53.380 What I'm saying is
00:14:54.980 If a woman has repented
00:14:56.560 That's fine
00:14:57.540 I'm not saying her past
00:14:58.620 I'm not saying you judge her
00:14:59.780 By her past
00:15:00.220 You get it
00:15:00.580 A woman who's repented
00:15:01.960 Has a right to ask for a virgin guy 1.00
00:15:03.580 But what I'm saying is
00:15:04.800 In a man's psychology 0.99
00:15:05.820 Yes
00:15:06.540 He does not want a woman 1.00
00:15:08.020 Who's being around
00:15:08.920 No no no we don't
00:15:13.280 All we tell is the woman 1.00
00:15:14.060 Do not mention your past
00:15:15.100 You might be lying
00:15:17.940 But the thing is
00:15:18.560 That's what we say
00:15:19.160 This is the man's psychology system 0.98
00:15:21.200 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
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