Ali Dawah


HIJABI PLAYBOY ADVICE TO SISTER NOOR TAGOURI


Episode Stats

Misogynist Sentences

12

Hate Speech Sentences

31


Summary

In this episode, we cover the controversial topic of Sister Noor's chastity slander of a public figure, and how we should handle it in light of the Quran and the Sunnah. We also cover the reasons behind why we do what we do, and why we should not slander public figures.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:00:28.600 Brothers and sisters and dear friends, welcome to this video
00:00:30.840 Before I start, I want to praise Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:00:32.880 The most merciful, the most gracious, all praises, glory and gratitude belong to him for the works that we do
00:00:36.980 Now guys, as you guys know, there's been a controversial topic, if I can speak English
00:00:41.080 Regarding the matter of the playboy, the sister who was in the playboy magazine
00:00:45.900 So basically guys, one thing that I want to cover before I start is why we do these videos
00:00:52.760 Because a lot of people have a misconception like, brother Ali, why are you always hating, exposing people, etc
00:00:56.060 One thing that I want to highlight is guys, I don't get paid by YouTube
00:00:59.280 I don't make a single penny on YouTube
00:01:01.240 So I'm not doing it for money, that's number one, yeah
00:01:04.000 Number two, fame
00:01:05.760 Now that's something you have to take my word for because I can't prove it any other ways, yeah
00:01:08.480 It's not about fame
00:01:10.040 Now what is it about?
00:01:11.240 Now we care about our brothers and sisters, yeah
00:01:13.200 We do these videos because we care about you guys
00:01:16.240 Now when doing these videos, we have to weigh up things
00:01:18.280 Now personally me, I like to weigh up things
00:01:20.420 The good and the bad, is it needed, is it necessary
00:01:22.280 And I really thought about it, I was supposed to release this video on Monday
00:01:25.120 And I was thinking and thinking and I thought, you know what
00:01:26.860 Let's just do a little general reminder, you know
00:01:28.360 Because I was looking into the magazine, just to get my facts right, etc
00:01:31.200 Now brothers and sisters, what we need to understand is
00:01:33.440 When advising a public figure, we need to acknowledge one thing
00:01:36.940 We don't want to be sending hate towards the individual, right
00:01:41.160 But what we also need to understand, is that we have sincere nasir
00:01:44.980 And inshallah, sister Noor watches this video
00:01:47.500 Because our main objective is to send this video to us so she can watch it inshallah
00:01:50.260 Now, we need to understand that these followers, these public figures
00:01:54.240 Have thousands and maybe millions of followers
00:01:56.460 We need to think a way up, okay
00:01:58.020 We might not advise the person for example
00:02:00.260 But how does their actions affect their following
00:02:03.300 So that's why I thought, you know what, if I do a video
00:02:05.280 And just send it to sister Noor, and inshallah she can benefit from it
00:02:07.880 Now, since we've clarified that
00:02:09.620 And hope you guys believe that I'm doing it for correct reasons
00:02:12.260 Now, I want to address the first point
00:02:14.260 Which was really disturbing for me
00:02:15.700 Is the hate sister Noor has been getting
00:02:17.560 Now, it's really sad that when you read comments in today's society
00:02:21.020 That even there was a rapper who went to Hajj and practiced
00:02:24.220 And I don't need to give his name
00:02:25.100 The hate that he was getting
00:02:26.980 You're a munafig, you're a kafir, you're this
00:02:30.480 You're, and for example, swearing at sister Noor
00:02:33.080 You're a, I'm not even going to mention it
00:02:34.860 You're this, you're that
00:02:36.080 Talking about her chastity
00:02:38.040 Slander
00:02:39.180 What, who gives you a right?
00:02:42.200 Just because you think, okay, for example
00:02:44.080 I disagree what sister Noor did
00:02:45.840 And also, there was other two sister bloggers
00:02:48.740 Who was invited to the Playboy magazine
00:02:51.680 They rejected it, right?
00:02:53.180 Now, we disagree
00:02:54.040 Just because we disagree doesn't mean we hate sister Noor
00:02:56.440 No, she's our sister in the religion
00:02:57.860 And we care about her
00:02:58.800 However, this does not give you a right
00:03:01.380 To go and slander her
00:03:02.740 Call her names
00:03:03.900 Oh, you're a fake hijabi
00:03:05.520 Take your hijab off
00:03:06.700 You're this, you're that
00:03:07.560 It's absolutely disgusting
00:03:08.980 We have no right to do that
00:03:10.760 You might not like what has happened
00:03:13.020 Or what she's done
00:03:13.680 Okay, neither do I agree with it
00:03:15.480 But no way, in no way, shape or form
00:03:18.020 Does it give me a right
00:03:19.680 To start slandering the sister
00:03:21.100 She's our sister
00:03:22.280 Maybe she made a mistake
00:03:23.680 And I'm being honest
00:03:24.680 I genuinely don't believe
00:03:26.160 Sister Noor went there with corrupt intentions
00:03:28.180 Of thinking, you know what
00:03:29.060 I'm going to go there
00:03:29.740 To just damage the religion
00:03:33.420 I'm just going to make my hijab look bad
00:03:35.440 Etc
00:03:35.960 I believe she may have went there
00:03:37.660 With the right intentions
00:03:38.460 But the Prophet tells us
00:03:39.720 What is, how do we
00:03:40.900 When we do our actions
00:03:41.640 How does it work?
00:03:42.240 The intentions have to be there
00:03:43.600 And he has to be according to the sunnah
00:03:45.960 The Quran and sunnah
00:03:47.060 Those are the two things
00:03:48.020 She had the intentions which I believe
00:03:49.560 Maybe the way she went about it
00:03:51.500 However, it doesn't give you a right to slander her
00:03:53.520 Now that we've covered that
00:03:54.560 Okay
00:03:54.900 Now I just want to send a kind message to Sister Noor
00:03:57.820 If she can watch this
00:03:58.540 I'll be really grateful
00:03:59.540 And inshallah
00:04:00.280 I need your help to share that inshallah
00:04:01.620 Now Sister Noor
00:04:02.600 Like I said before
00:04:03.480 I don't doubt your intentions
00:04:04.540 The fact that you wanted to go there
00:04:06.940 And show them maybe about modesty
00:04:08.740 Etc
00:04:09.500 But one thing we need to understand
00:04:11.020 Sister Noor is the objective of Islam
00:04:13.440 And the objective of Playboy
00:04:14.940 The objective of the hijab
00:04:17.640 And the objective of Playboy models
00:04:20.380 What are their objectives?
00:04:22.180 Playboy makes money by objectifying women
00:04:25.540 Nude pictures
00:04:27.440 Yeah
00:04:27.800 They are objectifying women
00:04:29.380 And this is one of the biggest problems out there
00:04:31.180 The fact that we have men today
00:04:32.880 Looking at women as a piece of meat
00:04:35.760 Now their objective is to objectify women
00:04:38.760 And make money out there
00:04:39.660 And in today's society
00:04:40.840 We can see that
00:04:41.980 How men treat women
00:04:43.500 And even a certain study showed
00:04:45.200 That when they see a naked
00:04:46.840 Like a woman in a bikini
00:04:48.040 The part of the brain which is used for tools
00:04:50.640 You know tools that you use
00:04:51.640 Is lightened up
00:04:52.740 This is the reason of pornography
00:04:55.000 And nude pictures
00:04:55.840 The fact that you're going to this magazine
00:04:57.720 Sister
00:04:58.180 What you need to understand
00:04:59.680 Is that they are known for that
00:05:01.360 Even though people say
00:05:02.520 Okay they've left the Playboy nude thing behind
00:05:04.580 To be honest I did a bit of research
00:05:05.940 Unfortunately
00:05:06.480 And saw things that I have to wash my eyes with
00:05:09.020 You know
00:05:09.320 They are still doing that
00:05:11.200 You know
00:05:11.580 And the fact that
00:05:12.760 You observe the hijab
00:05:15.340 Which is a sign of modesty sister
00:05:16.820 And to go somewhere
00:05:17.900 Which is absolutely the opposite of that
00:05:20.940 Shows a negative image
00:05:22.760 Not only for yourself sister
00:05:24.900 But also the crucial thing here
00:05:26.720 Why I've done this video
00:05:27.580 Is for the thousands of followers of sisters
00:05:29.740 That watch you
00:05:30.340 And may think this is okay
00:05:31.760 And this is normal
00:05:32.500 And it really isn't sister
00:05:34.040 So it's just a sincere advice to you
00:05:37.060 And I'm sure you did not do it intentionally
00:05:39.700 To harm the image of the hijab or Islam
00:05:42.760 But it's just a little nasir for you
00:05:44.140 However one other person
00:05:45.640 That I want to advise or individuals
00:05:47.180 Are those who are supporting
00:05:49.100 And condoning and saying
00:05:50.480 Yeah there's nothing wrong
00:05:51.420 Empowering
00:05:52.360 You did a great job
00:05:53.460 One of those was Shohaib Webb
00:05:55.020 Brother Shohaib Webb
00:05:56.180 Now brother Shohaib Webb
00:05:57.600 Is someone that I totally disagree with
00:05:59.060 In a lot of matters
00:06:00.080 Now he himself said
00:06:01.480 That he had no issue
00:06:02.500 With you doing this
00:06:04.500 And it was some kind of empowerment
00:06:06.120 Etc
00:06:06.640 No disrespect to Brother Shohaib Webb
00:06:08.460 Of what I'm about to say
00:06:09.440 What if somebody came and said
00:06:10.680 Why don't you send your sister
00:06:12.320 Your daughter
00:06:13.400 Or your wife
00:06:14.760 To Playboy
00:06:15.800 And let them
00:06:16.720 If you feel
00:06:17.240 It's a matter
00:06:18.460 Of honouring
00:06:19.640 Then why don't you honour
00:06:20.780 Your sister
00:06:21.480 Your wife
00:06:22.280 Or your daughter
00:06:23.080 By sending them to Playboy magazine
00:06:24.240 And you know very well
00:06:25.340 You wouldn't
00:06:25.820 So why would you
00:06:26.680 Encourage somebody else
00:06:28.560 For I don't know what reason
00:06:29.940 To say
00:06:30.500 Oh it's
00:06:31.240 It's okay
00:06:32.200 And one thing that I forgot to mention
00:06:33.600 As well to Sister Noor
00:06:34.600 Is that
00:06:35.620 The matter of using
00:06:37.480 The word honour
00:06:38.660 Saying that you are honoured
00:06:40.180 To be featured
00:06:41.040 In Playboy magazine
00:06:42.420 Sister the word honour
00:06:43.540 Is a really heavy thing
00:06:44.900 You know
00:06:45.160 You know
00:06:45.600 To use the word
00:06:47.940 Or the phrase
00:06:48.480 Honour
00:06:49.240 Like imagine me going
00:06:50.700 I don't know for example
00:06:51.800 A page that's known for
00:06:53.260 Murder
00:06:54.280 Or killing people
00:06:55.000 I don't know
00:06:55.400 Whatever yeah
00:06:55.840 And I go and say
00:06:56.340 You know
00:06:56.500 I feel honoured
00:06:57.060 I feel honoured
00:06:57.860 That they have invited me
00:06:58.900 So I think
00:06:59.820 We should just be careful a bit
00:07:01.240 For the words that we use
00:07:02.420 And a lot of people say
00:07:03.260 For example
00:07:03.720 Like I said before
00:07:04.320 Playboy has left that lifestyle
00:07:05.760 Behind
00:07:06.600 They've changed it
00:07:07.540 But what are they known for
00:07:08.820 And not only that
00:07:09.600 They haven't changed
00:07:10.260 I've done a bit of research
00:07:11.540 They still have the same content
00:07:13.000 Now
00:07:13.600 I don't even know
00:07:14.180 What they class as nude
00:07:15.160 You know
00:07:15.700 What was it
00:07:16.140 Before topless girls
00:07:16.960 And now they don't wear topless
00:07:18.000 They're not topless
00:07:18.940 But they wear bikinis
00:07:19.900 You don't class that as nude
00:07:21.040 That is still nude
00:07:22.580 And another thing is
00:07:23.600 They say
00:07:24.000 Oh
00:07:24.500 It's empowering women
00:07:25.740 Breaking barriers
00:07:26.920 Now guys
00:07:27.980 Seriously
00:07:28.580 Does this mean
00:07:29.520 I'm going to wear a thaw
00:07:30.960 Or a long beard
00:07:32.040 Or have a maswaag in my hand
00:07:34.280 You know
00:07:34.760 And go into a night club
00:07:36.820 And say
00:07:37.280 I'm empowering Islam
00:07:38.200 We are okay with it
00:07:39.420 It's fine
00:07:40.020 I'm not breaking barriers
00:07:42.040 I'm breaking the commandments
00:07:43.280 Of Allah and His Messenger
00:07:44.260 And there is two extremes
00:07:45.700 We have
00:07:46.120 One certain people
00:07:47.380 Who say
00:07:47.820 They curse
00:07:49.060 Day and night
00:07:50.380 Like everything
00:07:51.320 Like when they see a person
00:07:52.460 Committing a sin
00:07:53.340 Or doing something wrong
00:07:54.220 They start cursing them
00:07:55.540 Etc
00:07:56.080 Then we have the other extreme
00:07:57.840 Which they're like
00:07:58.580 It's okay
00:07:59.080 It's fine
00:07:59.740 Wear hijab
00:08:00.540 Wear bikini
00:08:01.180 No problem
00:08:01.860 This is a contradiction
00:08:03.560 Empowering women
00:08:04.800 Empowering
00:08:05.400 This is empowerment
00:08:05.840 This is not
00:08:07.480 This is not
00:08:07.500 Breaking barriers
00:08:08.520 You know
00:08:09.140 The only thing
00:08:09.740 That we're breaking here
00:08:10.460 Is the commandments
00:08:11.040 Of Allah and His Messenger
00:08:11.900 This is what we're doing
00:08:12.680 You know
00:08:13.200 And this is what
00:08:13.920 We need to understand
00:08:14.700 And we need to
00:08:15.640 Really
00:08:16.280 Why don't we have goals
00:08:17.740 Of trying to fit into
00:08:19.100 Islam
00:08:20.000 Rather than fitting into society
00:08:21.680 Why can't we be proud
00:08:22.960 Of our religion
00:08:23.500 Why can't we go out there
00:08:24.580 And say
00:08:24.720 This hijab
00:08:25.320 And the way I'm dressed
00:08:26.400 In the correct form of hijab
00:08:27.620 Is from my religion
00:08:28.720 And I'm happy
00:08:29.320 I'm proud of it
00:08:30.360 Why are we so afraid
00:08:32.140 What boundaries
00:08:33.180 Are we going to stop at
00:08:34.060 To prove to people
00:08:34.980 That we're fitting into society
00:08:35.860 What are we going to do
00:08:36.520 Are we going to go and say
00:08:37.580 You know what
00:08:37.940 Hey
00:08:38.340 I commit dinner as well
00:08:39.900 Hey
00:08:40.300 I do this as well
00:08:40.980 I drink alcohol
00:08:41.620 But I'm a Muslim
00:08:42.280 Why do we have to fit into society
00:08:44.540 Why can't we say
00:08:45.440 You know what
00:08:45.820 I'm a Muslim
00:08:46.420 And I like having fun
00:08:47.280 Maybe not the same fun
00:08:48.560 As you do on the weekends
00:08:49.360 But maybe I like doing
00:08:50.560 Different things
00:08:51.120 But I go out
00:08:51.900 I have family
00:08:52.520 I like going holidays
00:08:53.600 Why can't it be that
00:08:54.860 Why do we have to go to extremes
00:08:56.080 And showing
00:08:56.620 That we're fitting into society
00:08:57.880 With absolute things
00:08:59.060 That are haram
00:08:59.580 And another thing
00:09:00.720 Like I said before
00:09:01.340 Like non-Muslim
00:09:02.040 Non-Muslims are proud
00:09:03.080 Of what they do
00:09:03.800 You do not ever see
00:09:05.300 Any of them trying to fit in anywhere
00:09:06.480 They are proud of
00:09:07.300 Whatever they do
00:09:07.940 And it's their life
00:09:08.620 We have no issue with that
00:09:09.580 For example
00:09:10.180 That's their life
00:09:10.700 I can't go and enforce
00:09:11.400 My beliefs on them
00:09:12.240 And I have a lot of
00:09:12.920 Non-Muslim friends
00:09:13.500 They are proud
00:09:14.720 In what they're doing
00:09:15.380 They are okay
00:09:16.500 Why can't we be the same
00:09:18.160 Why can't we say
00:09:19.360 You know
00:09:19.540 I'm proud to be a Muslim
00:09:20.260 It's my lifestyle
00:09:20.920 I'm happy with it
00:09:21.600 And another thing is
00:09:22.740 Is that
00:09:23.380 Sisters
00:09:23.820 We need to understand
00:09:24.800 That the hijab
00:09:26.300 Is an important part
00:09:27.720 Of our religion
00:09:28.180 Modesty
00:09:28.980 Not only for females
00:09:30.140 But males as well
00:09:30.920 As a man
00:09:31.660 I have to cover
00:09:32.260 From my navel to my knee
00:09:33.320 That's what my religion
00:09:34.220 Tells me to do
00:09:34.940 I have to be modest
00:09:36.000 I should
00:09:36.620 When I see a sister
00:09:38.080 Or a female walking past
00:09:38.860 I have to lower my gaze
00:09:39.840 This goes for male
00:09:40.780 And females
00:09:41.420 And a evidence to that
00:09:43.200 That we're not biased
00:09:44.080 Because a lot of people say
00:09:44.660 Oh you guys always
00:09:45.500 Attack sisters
00:09:46.260 Me and Musa
00:09:47.040 Did a video called
00:09:47.660 Men's Hijab Tutorial
00:09:48.640 Where we tell men
00:09:49.800 How to dress up
00:09:50.640 And I advise
00:09:51.480 It's always on my Instagram
00:09:52.500 On my Snapchat
00:09:53.000 I'm not biased
00:09:54.400 I advise both
00:09:55.740 But sisters
00:09:56.580 We need to understand
00:09:57.300 Look I'm just going to
00:09:57.780 Finish off with this
00:09:58.400 That Hijab
00:09:59.780 Is not just a scarf
00:10:00.960 Over the head
00:10:01.500 If you come and say to me
00:10:02.780 This is my struggle
00:10:04.260 I'm going through a struggle
00:10:05.080 I know it's not the correct form of Hijab
00:10:06.880 I have so much respect for you
00:10:08.720 And may Allah bless you
00:10:10.020 And make it easy for you
00:10:11.060 To complete your journey
00:10:11.860 But if you go out there
00:10:13.180 And say this is Hijab
00:10:13.900 I wear leggings
00:10:14.640 I wear mini skirts
00:10:15.840 Or I wear skirts
00:10:16.720 And I wear this and that
00:10:17.720 And I just have a scarf
00:10:18.500 But this is Hijab
00:10:19.060 That is misinforming people
00:10:21.000 And you have so many youth out there
00:10:22.220 That's going to think
00:10:22.580 Hey that's okay
00:10:23.180 It's not okay
00:10:24.200 So we don't want to lose
00:10:25.260 The real definition
00:10:26.500 Of what Hijab really is
00:10:28.120 So guys
00:10:28.800 Please send this to Sister Noor
00:10:30.580 Please I urge you
00:10:31.680 Every single one of you
00:10:32.400 If you guys send it to her
00:10:33.160 Inshallah it will reach her
00:10:34.000 And Sister Noor
00:10:34.860 Hope you have benefited
00:10:35.800 And haven't taken my advice
00:10:37.980 As hate
00:10:38.800 It's genuinely because
00:10:39.720 I care about you
00:10:40.600 And like I said before
00:10:42.420 Hope you guys have benefited
00:10:43.580 From this Inshallah
00:10:44.280 Please share it
00:10:45.480 And let's be proud of our religion
00:10:47.000 And our Islam
00:10:47.960 And our Messenger
00:10:48.660 So Inshallah guys
00:10:49.840 Till next time
00:10:50.700 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
00:10:52.380 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh