In this episode I talk about how to speak to the father of a young girl who wants to get married and what to say and do to make sure she gets what she wants. I also talk about the rights of women in Islam.
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00:00:47.820Muslim in Islam, woman's rights. Yeah? Your girlfriend, yeah?
00:00:52.980Yeah, yeah. Okay. Islam, you know what Islam says? Can she drive?
00:00:56.580Of course she can drive. Prophet's wife have camel. You know camel? Yeah, yeah.
00:01:01.360Because no cars back then. Yeah. It's fine. Saudi Arabia have opinion. We don't, this is not from Islam.
00:01:06.560Ah. She can drive. No problem. Yeah? But you should drive her. Yeah? Okay.
00:01:10.920In Islam, in Islam, when you want to marry her, no girlfriend, boyfriend. Haram. No.
00:01:17.620Haram. You, you speak to her dad. Hello? What's your dad's name, sister?
00:01:21.600Mateo. Mateo. Mateo. Hello? Mateo. I love your daughter. I want to marry, please.
00:01:27.780And she, say, okay. What's your name, sister?
00:01:30.820Famitta. Famitta. Say, okay. Father, speak to her. Famitta.
00:01:34.600This man want to marry you. You like him? Yes, father. Good man. Handsome man.
00:01:38.780One day you become a Muslim, you know. And you say, I want 10,000 pound.
00:01:43.820She say, I want 10,000 pound. I do have to pay. Yes. This is meleman, brother. What do you think this is?
00:01:49.240Yes. My wife, she give me installment plan. I pay every month. She's very good, yes.
00:01:56.900She's worth every penny. Okay. If she's watching this, yes. Anyways. Very nice food. Cakes. Anything. Anyway.
00:02:03.400Now, number one, you speak to the dad. Number two, she asks for gold, watch, car. What's she want? Up to you. Up to her. What's she want?
00:02:14.500Number two, you have to do wedding. Wedding.
00:02:18.080Walima. Wedding. You tell everybody, this is my wife. Everybody know. You happy, man. She happy, yeah?
00:02:23.620Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, you have to do wedding. When you marry, you pay for the rent. You know rent?
00:02:29.500Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, now you're scared. I can see you. You're very scared. Yes. You pay for the rent. You pay for the shopping.
00:02:35.420You pay for electric, gas, bill. Now, Russia problem. Electric prices, gas. We finished. Yes? Yes?
00:02:41.840So, she needs some kind of money for shopping. Whatever you can give. 100 pounds a month, 200 pounds a month. This is her right. This is all on your shoulder.
00:02:53.460The rights of women, this is one thing. So, this is your rights, her rights on you. So, you have to speak to the dad.
00:03:00.840Wedding. Pay, pay, pay, pay. Finish, we're finished. Yes, sadly. But this is a right. Why?
00:03:07.040And also, if you walking down the road, somebody come knife. Yeah, yeah.
00:03:13.640She fight or you fight? I fight. Ah, good. You finish now, Janada. Yeah?
00:03:18.420So, now you are maintainer and protector. You're like bodyguard, full-time bodyguard.
00:03:22.700Yeah. But also, she, you are the head of the house. In Christianity, it says, Christ is the head of the church and you are the head of something like this.
00:03:33.240Even in the Bible, she has to listen to you. But, not you don't become bad. Good. You say, for example, you know, there's one leader in the house. Not two.
00:03:43.340Women, they like a leader. Somebody stronger. Yeah? So, you are the leader of the house. So, you make final decisions. Yeah?
00:03:50.180If you tell her, you know, I don't want you to have bad friends, she has to listen to you. Yeah?
00:03:54.940Absolutely. So, these things. Woman's rights, for example, she doesn't have to take your surname. What's your surname?
00:04:01.820Novello. Novello. I love Italian. Very. Novello. Ciao, Bella. Yes.
00:04:07.260She, your surname, she doesn't have to take. Usually, she has to take your surname. Yes? Islam, no. She doesn't take your surname.
00:04:15.720One moment. Yes. This thing in Islam, so, is it still working, you know? Yes. Because, you know, now the world is changing, the role of the woman is changing.
00:04:24.960Yes, yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Sorry. No, what? Sorry, sorry. I don't think Arabic. Once again. Yeah. Yeah. So, is it working?
00:04:33.940Look, let me tell you why it would work. In today's time, the roles of genders have been, you know, mixed. Yeah, mixed.
00:04:41.280Why? Because now, feminism come. Feminism come and say to the woman, yeah, you go work. I know, we have to smash feminism. Me, I smash feminism every day.
00:04:48.820Yeah. So, how the Muslims cope with feminism? We smash. Intellectually. Now. Why? Because feminism, say to a woman, you are just like a man. No.
00:05:01.280She is different. Psychologically, mentally, physically, emotionally. Yeah. She is different. She needs protecting. She needs loving. Yes?
00:05:08.700So, feminism say, no. You go work till you're 30, 30 years old. Woman, less likely to conceive, have a baby, become hard.
00:05:17.880So, Islam says, no. Woman have a role. Man have a role. They are not the same. They are different.
00:05:24.960There's something she needs. You have to give something you need. So, Islam deals with reality.
00:05:30.600Feminism is a dream. You know a dream? You sleep, you wake up. Oh. Feminism is a dream.
00:05:35.140So, Islam gives a solution to whole mankind. Number one, with God. Relationship with God to relationship with us, relationship with your wife and your society.
00:05:46.000Islam wants this because women have certain rights. But today's society, they make a woman, they think the sexual liberation, they think this gives rights to women.
00:05:57.840No. Because men are happy. Now, they have what they want. No marriage. Have sex, have this, have that. And no marriage.
00:06:05.280This is not good for a woman. For a woman, it is better that she has certain things. You like me? You want to marry me? Okay.
00:06:13.160Speak to my dad. Maher, wedding. A man, he run away. He say, no, I don't want this.
00:06:17.100Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's why Islam has these things to protect women. Otherwise, now men are lucky. Go, sleep around. They don't want it.
00:06:25.400You know men don't get married anymore. Why you get married? You get everything you get in a marriage. Why would I pay £10,000? Do a wedding.
00:06:32.860I get what... Yeah, I understand. I understand. Do you understand?