Ali Dawah - April 16, 2024


HIS GIRLFRIEND FALLS IN LOVE WITH ISLAMIC MARRIAGE - FUNNY ENDING


Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

175.52466

Word count

1,157

Sentence count

225

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode I talk about how to speak to the father of a young girl who wants to get married and what to say and do to make sure she gets what she wants. I also talk about the rights of women in Islam.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 No girlfriend, boyfriend. Haram. No. You, you speak to her dad. Hello, Mateo. I love your daughter. I want to marry, please.
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00:00:47.820 Muslim in Islam, woman's rights. Yeah? Your girlfriend, yeah? 1.00
00:00:52.980 Yeah, yeah. Okay. Islam, you know what Islam says? Can she drive? 0.96
00:00:56.580 Of course she can drive. Prophet's wife have camel. You know camel? Yeah, yeah. 1.00
00:01:01.360 Because no cars back then. Yeah. It's fine. Saudi Arabia have opinion. We don't, this is not from Islam. 0.97
00:01:06.560 Ah. She can drive. No problem. Yeah? But you should drive her. Yeah? Okay.
00:01:10.920 In Islam, in Islam, when you want to marry her, no girlfriend, boyfriend. Haram. No. 0.63
00:01:17.620 Haram. You, you speak to her dad. Hello? What's your dad's name, sister?
00:01:21.600 Mateo. Mateo. Mateo. Hello? Mateo. I love your daughter. I want to marry, please.
00:01:27.780 And she, say, okay. What's your name, sister?
00:01:30.820 Famitta. Famitta. Say, okay. Father, speak to her. Famitta.
00:01:34.600 This man want to marry you. You like him? Yes, father. Good man. Handsome man.
00:01:38.780 One day you become a Muslim, you know. And you say, I want 10,000 pound. 1.00
00:01:43.820 She say, I want 10,000 pound. I do have to pay. Yes. This is meleman, brother. What do you think this is?
00:01:49.240 Yes. My wife, she give me installment plan. I pay every month. She's very good, yes.
00:01:54.700 No riba. Very expensive.
00:01:56.900 She's worth every penny. Okay. If she's watching this, yes. Anyways. Very nice food. Cakes. Anything. Anyway.
00:02:03.400 Now, number one, you speak to the dad. Number two, she asks for gold, watch, car. What's she want? Up to you. Up to her. What's she want? 0.56
00:02:14.500 Number two, you have to do wedding. Wedding. 1.00
00:02:18.080 Walima. Wedding. You tell everybody, this is my wife. Everybody know. You happy, man. She happy, yeah?
00:02:23.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, you have to do wedding. When you marry, you pay for the rent. You know rent? 0.96
00:02:29.500 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, now you're scared. I can see you. You're very scared. Yes. You pay for the rent. You pay for the shopping.
00:02:35.420 You pay for electric, gas, bill. Now, Russia problem. Electric prices, gas. We finished. Yes? Yes?
00:02:41.840 So, she needs some kind of money for shopping. Whatever you can give. 100 pounds a month, 200 pounds a month. This is her right. This is all on your shoulder.
00:02:53.460 The rights of women, this is one thing. So, this is your rights, her rights on you. So, you have to speak to the dad. 0.99
00:03:00.840 Wedding. Pay, pay, pay, pay. Finish, we're finished. Yes, sadly. But this is a right. Why?
00:03:07.040 And also, if you walking down the road, somebody come knife. Yeah, yeah.
00:03:13.640 She fight or you fight? I fight. Ah, good. You finish now, Janada. Yeah? 0.99
00:03:18.420 So, now you are maintainer and protector. You're like bodyguard, full-time bodyguard.
00:03:22.700 Yeah. But also, she, you are the head of the house. In Christianity, it says, Christ is the head of the church and you are the head of something like this.
00:03:33.240 Even in the Bible, she has to listen to you. But, not you don't become bad. Good. You say, for example, you know, there's one leader in the house. Not two.
00:03:43.340 Women, they like a leader. Somebody stronger. Yeah? So, you are the leader of the house. So, you make final decisions. Yeah? 1.00
00:03:50.180 If you tell her, you know, I don't want you to have bad friends, she has to listen to you. Yeah?
00:03:54.940 Absolutely. So, these things. Woman's rights, for example, she doesn't have to take your surname. What's your surname? 1.00
00:04:01.820 Novello. Novello. I love Italian. Very. Novello. Ciao, Bella. Yes.
00:04:07.260 She, your surname, she doesn't have to take. Usually, she has to take your surname. Yes? Islam, no. She doesn't take your surname. 0.94
00:04:15.720 One moment. Yes. This thing in Islam, so, is it still working, you know? Yes. Because, you know, now the world is changing, the role of the woman is changing. 0.95
00:04:24.960 Yes, yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Sorry. No, what? Sorry, sorry. I don't think Arabic. Once again. Yeah. Yeah. So, is it working?
00:04:33.940 Look, let me tell you why it would work. In today's time, the roles of genders have been, you know, mixed. Yeah, mixed. 1.00
00:04:41.280 Why? Because now, feminism come. Feminism come and say to the woman, yeah, you go work. I know, we have to smash feminism. Me, I smash feminism every day. 1.00
00:04:48.820 Yeah. So, how the Muslims cope with feminism? We smash. Intellectually. Now. Why? Because feminism, say to a woman, you are just like a man. No. 1.00
00:05:01.280 She is different. Psychologically, mentally, physically, emotionally. Yeah. She is different. She needs protecting. She needs loving. Yes?
00:05:08.700 So, feminism say, no. You go work till you're 30, 30 years old. Woman, less likely to conceive, have a baby, become hard. 1.00
00:05:17.880 So, Islam says, no. Woman have a role. Man have a role. They are not the same. They are different. 0.99
00:05:24.960 There's something she needs. You have to give something you need. So, Islam deals with reality. 0.77
00:05:30.600 Feminism is a dream. You know a dream? You sleep, you wake up. Oh. Feminism is a dream. 1.00
00:05:35.140 So, Islam gives a solution to whole mankind. Number one, with God. Relationship with God to relationship with us, relationship with your wife and your society. 0.89
00:05:46.000 Islam wants this because women have certain rights. But today's society, they make a woman, they think the sexual liberation, they think this gives rights to women. 0.88
00:05:57.840 No. Because men are happy. Now, they have what they want. No marriage. Have sex, have this, have that. And no marriage.
00:06:05.280 This is not good for a woman. For a woman, it is better that she has certain things. You like me? You want to marry me? Okay. 1.00
00:06:13.160 Speak to my dad. Maher, wedding. A man, he run away. He say, no, I don't want this.
00:06:17.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's why Islam has these things to protect women. Otherwise, now men are lucky. Go, sleep around. They don't want it. 1.00
00:06:25.400 You know men don't get married anymore. Why you get married? You get everything you get in a marriage. Why would I pay £10,000? Do a wedding.
00:06:32.860 I get what... Yeah, I understand. I understand. Do you understand?