Ali Dawah - April 09, 2026


KHABY DIVORCES BECOMES HARAM! - HERE IS WHY


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8 minutes

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1,776

Sentence count

27

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Misogyny

18

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17

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00:00:00.000 Now the situation has reversed and KB is entitled to half of Wendy's 10 million dollars.
00:00:08.080 Once you're in that grave, there's no I could have, I would have, I should have. Case closed.
00:00:11.740 Allah tells us that a man when his soul is taken away, Allah says he's going to say what?
00:00:16.040 Send me back to do hajj, umrah, salah, fasting what? No, sadaqah. Brothers and sisters, ayera
00:00:21.280 is getting thousands of shahadahs monthly, yearly. Hundreds of thousands of people are coming to
00:00:27.100 islam they are printing quran distributing material training duat brothers and sisters 1.00
00:00:31.820 do you want the part of that sadaqa jaria that goes on forever this is how islam has spread 0.89
00:00:37.140 around the world problem sisters carry on this legacy of the process sell them inshallah by
00:00:41.380 donating whatever amount inshallah and support ira right now inshallah enjoy the video assalamualaikum
00:00:46.220 brothers and sisters and dear friends i don't know if you guys know um and with these topics i don't
00:00:51.920 cover them like gossip or nothing like that uh any of these topics that i cover guys i look at
00:00:56.180 the sharia element into this and an islamic reminder from it um so uh kabi lami i think
00:01:01.420 that's what it's called his name is i was married to a woman called was it wendy or something along
00:01:06.220 that matter and they got divorced okay that's fine no problem no one's here about their divorce or
00:01:11.300 not don't really care it's their personal life is the issue here is obviously we know in today's age
00:01:16.260 men are very very careful because uh nobody gets married because what's the point of getting
00:01:20.640 married you marry she takes all your half of your wealth or if not all subhanallah because there's
00:01:25.800 an embarrassment because it's the the biggest inequality is to treat unequal things equally 1.00
00:01:29.880 and that's what's happening they're trying to use it with this radical feminism and feminism 0.83
00:01:33.080 in itself with the sexual liberation liberation and also trying to be both like look double 0.91
00:01:39.880 standards is very good for both genders because double standards is what keeps women and children
00:01:44.200 alive when the titanic was sinking 80 90 19 of men survived 78 of women survived because they 0.99
00:01:50.440 send the children and the woman first in wars happens weapons women end up going back to the
00:01:54.840 the kitchen and the men are sent so double standards exist in two perspectives where it 0.87
00:01:58.920 doesn't favor both men and women like for example when it comes to a woman sleeping around she gets
00:02:02.920 a tarnished name even though um that's it's not right but that's double standards that exist so
00:02:08.540 it works in favor for both men and women in different situations sometimes it doesn't so
00:02:11.880 now let's watch the video of what's happened and then let's talk about islamically is this haram 0.92
00:02:16.340 or halal this is actually not permissible if kabi decides to go ahead with taking her wealth this 0.63
00:02:22.820 is absolutely not permissible. Let's watch it for ourselves. KB Lame's wife, Wendy Thembalile, 0.81
00:02:27.900 filed for divorce in 2025, citing irreconcilable differences, their marriage lasting only about
00:02:33.380 six months. Wendy initially sought half of his $80 million fortune, but things didn't go as
00:02:38.280 planned. KB had everything arranged. The court proceedings revealed that KB had no assets. His
00:02:43.220 assets, including houses, cars, and major investments, were all registered in his father's
00:02:48.000 name. Now, the situation has reversed, and KB is entitled to half of Wendy's $10 million.
00:02:53.240 People are joking that KB could easily become a billionaire with this move alone. The private
00:02:57.720 lives of this former couple are largely unknown. Unlike KB, Wendy has few followers on social
00:03:03.040 media and is very protective of her privacy. KB, on the other hand, has over 160 million followers
00:03:09.140 on social media. He also sold his image rights for $975 million in 2024. Many assumed he wouldn't
00:03:16.420 make money after selling his image rights. But that's not the case. What he actually sold was
00:03:21.040 an AI version of himself. Kaby recently moved to the United States, attended numerous social events
00:03:26.520 and plans to release his first film. Okay, good. So that's in a perspective, that's a given thing.
00:03:32.180 And Islam protects both men and women, which I'm going to come to in a minute. Muslims should not, 1.00
00:03:37.200 must not refer to man-made laws. As a Muslim, you know that in the Hajj of Wada'a, in the
00:03:45.360 farewell hajj the prophet addressed alayhi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the congregation
00:03:48.000 where they were about a hundred thousand give or take and he said that what is this land what is
00:03:54.640 this day what is this month and then he said that allah azza wa jal made your wealth your reputation
00:04:00.100 and your blood your safety haram prohibited one upon the other as he made it haram on this day
00:04:08.540 the day of arafa on this land the land of mecca in this month the sacred month of the hijjah
00:04:13.020 So by no means you're entitled to a percentage of his property as he is not by no means entitled to a percentage of your property
00:04:19.700 This is his earned money
00:04:21.680 Who gives you the right to claim anything of it?
00:04:25.420 Definitely going to such law is totally prohibited 0.99
00:04:28.240 Yeah, so if you look at it, Islamically when you get married, the woman is the one we believe is the price in the marriage
00:04:33.840 She's the one who's given the mahr, etc, etc, etc 0.63
00:04:35.920 And Islam is there to protect her
00:04:37.440 And when that mahr is given to her, you need to understand Islam also protects her
00:04:42.380 because in the case of a man who leaves etc she needs security because a woman has more to lose
00:04:46.700 when she's pregnant etc all these kind of factors so islam has that nice balance okay but then if
00:04:52.060 that woman decides to in about two months time or a week time or three weeks time she wants a divorce 0.82
00:04:57.420 okay then you need to return partially full or the mahr which keeps the man protected in case
00:05:04.060 she's a gold digger there are some of us and or you know the scholars etc even the sahaba have said
00:05:08.620 it's better not to take the mile but again if that happens she has to give if the if she demands the 1.00
00:05:14.060 divorce she has to return because women are the ones with 78 80 percent time do other ones who 1.00
00:05:20.060 are asking for divorce you know and islam is giving this beautiful balance of gender roles 0.83
00:05:24.780 in all aspects however if kabilami decides to take the work because it was all under his father's
00:05:31.180 name this is what men are doing and you can't really blame them because they are at the end of
00:05:34.940 at the end of the day they are in a position where they're losing everything and they can be married
00:05:39.100 to this woman all these women are going to do is just you know not really love them for who they 0.71
00:05:42.460 are sadly and want their money and wealth and etc whatever it is and then decide to just do that and 0.95
00:05:46.780 many footballers have done this as well and it's it's backfiring on men and women so however if
00:05:52.060 Kabi decides to take half of her assets because she was planning you know and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:05:57.260 planned and this means now that her assets were under her name she's worth 10 million pounds
00:06:02.540 if Kabi decides to take half that money that is a major thing that's haram it's not permissible 1.00
00:06:07.260 because islamically it is haram for a woman to do that which is happening now these days you get 0.99
00:06:11.900 these sisters who you know memorize the quran she wears a hijab she wears a niqab i've heard of 1.00
00:06:16.140 madrasa students madrasa teachers but when it comes to divorce etc she goes and tries to take 0.99
00:06:21.020 half of the wealth you're consuming hellfire by the way hellfire in your stomach it is a major 0.72
00:06:25.260 sin you are stealing his wealth on your maqiyama and you know these sisters when you tell them
00:06:29.820 allah and his messenger they don't give a crap about allah and his messenger when it comes to
00:06:35.340 the world these desires when vengeance comes there is no tawak on allah you can forget it 0.56
00:06:41.340 they think it's haram it's clear now let alone in the aspect where a woman has certain rights
00:06:47.580 or a man has to provide you know etc etc for certain things even the divorce process happens
00:06:52.620 now a man getting i'm not saying he's going to do or not but if he does he's going against the
00:06:58.060 sharia he is not allowed to take her wealth in any way shape or form a man has provided even if a
00:07:04.700 divorce happens the suckling period of the baby there's things that he still needs to take she
00:07:08.620 needs to live in the house he still needs to provide for until a certain amount of time
00:07:12.460 the edda period and you know and it is you know it's recommended for a man if he can you can until
00:07:17.020 you know she gets married look whatever however to now take the wealth of the woman it's a it's
00:07:21.980 haram so you see with us we're not um strategically consistent like this radical feminist or these
00:07:27.100 these red pillars about these radical feminists we're consistent in our approach and the issue
00:07:30.840 is that anytime we advise them it's all hell break loose alhamdulillah that's the reason why we're 0.77
00:07:35.280 currently speaking the haq so here we hope kabil hamid refuses any money from and i'm sure he would
00:07:39.700 you know from what we know him he's a half of the quran as well etc we hope he lives by that and
00:07:43.880 does not touch a penny of that woman even if she was the one who had ill intentions of being a gold
00:07:47.420 it would be a sin i mean i don't know if it's minor major but it would be a sin for him to get
00:07:54.500 her wealth in any way shape or form that's why islam has come to have that balance inshallah
00:07:58.740 before i bring that to your attention guys inshallah so if there's any man out there 1.00
00:08:01.460 who's going to his direction of potential wealth and property you can yeah but she has basic rights 1.00
00:08:06.300 you have to give her islamically however to take her own well uh whatever it is for the matter it 0.99
00:08:10.680 is not permissible you cannot touch her wealth in marriage let alone outside of marriage until 0.80
00:08:14.940 next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh