KHABY DIVORCES BECOMES HARAM! - HERE IS WHY
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the recent divorce of the multi-millionaire Kofi Annan and his ex-wife, Wendy Thembalile, and how this could impact the future of their children. We also talk about double standards and the role of women in society.
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Now the situation has reversed and KB is entitled to half of Wendy's 10 million dollars.
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Once you're in that grave, there's no I could have, I would have, I should have. Case closed.
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Allah tells us that a man when his soul is taken away, Allah says he's going to say what?
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Send me back to do hajj, umrah, salah, fasting what? No, sadaqah. Brothers and sisters, ayera
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is getting thousands of shahadahs monthly, yearly. Hundreds of thousands of people are coming to
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islam they are printing quran distributing material training duat brothers and sisters
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do you want the part of that sadaqa jaria that goes on forever this is how islam has spread
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around the world problem sisters carry on this legacy of the process sell them inshallah by
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donating whatever amount inshallah and support ira right now inshallah enjoy the video assalamualaikum
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brothers and sisters and dear friends i don't know if you guys know um and with these topics i don't
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cover them like gossip or nothing like that uh any of these topics that i cover guys i look at
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the sharia element into this and an islamic reminder from it um so uh kabi lami i think
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that's what it's called his name is i was married to a woman called was it wendy or something along
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that matter and they got divorced okay that's fine no problem no one's here about their divorce or
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not don't really care it's their personal life is the issue here is obviously we know in today's age
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men are very very careful because uh nobody gets married because what's the point of getting
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married you marry she takes all your half of your wealth or if not all subhanallah because there's
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an embarrassment because it's the the biggest inequality is to treat unequal things equally
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and that's what's happening they're trying to use it with this radical feminism and feminism
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in itself with the sexual liberation liberation and also trying to be both like look double
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standards is very good for both genders because double standards is what keeps women and children
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alive when the titanic was sinking 80 90 19 of men survived 78 of women survived because they
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send the children and the woman first in wars happens weapons women end up going back to the
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the kitchen and the men are sent so double standards exist in two perspectives where it
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doesn't favor both men and women like for example when it comes to a woman sleeping around she gets
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a tarnished name even though um that's it's not right but that's double standards that exist so
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it works in favor for both men and women in different situations sometimes it doesn't so
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now let's watch the video of what's happened and then let's talk about islamically is this haram
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or halal this is actually not permissible if kabi decides to go ahead with taking her wealth this
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is absolutely not permissible. Let's watch it for ourselves. KB Lame's wife, Wendy Thembalile,
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filed for divorce in 2025, citing irreconcilable differences, their marriage lasting only about
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six months. Wendy initially sought half of his $80 million fortune, but things didn't go as
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planned. KB had everything arranged. The court proceedings revealed that KB had no assets. His
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assets, including houses, cars, and major investments, were all registered in his father's
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name. Now, the situation has reversed, and KB is entitled to half of Wendy's $10 million.
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People are joking that KB could easily become a billionaire with this move alone. The private
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lives of this former couple are largely unknown. Unlike KB, Wendy has few followers on social
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media and is very protective of her privacy. KB, on the other hand, has over 160 million followers
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on social media. He also sold his image rights for $975 million in 2024. Many assumed he wouldn't
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make money after selling his image rights. But that's not the case. What he actually sold was
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an AI version of himself. Kaby recently moved to the United States, attended numerous social events
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and plans to release his first film. Okay, good. So that's in a perspective, that's a given thing.
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And Islam protects both men and women, which I'm going to come to in a minute. Muslims should not,
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must not refer to man-made laws. As a Muslim, you know that in the Hajj of Wada'a, in the
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farewell hajj the prophet addressed alayhi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the congregation
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where they were about a hundred thousand give or take and he said that what is this land what is
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this day what is this month and then he said that allah azza wa jal made your wealth your reputation
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and your blood your safety haram prohibited one upon the other as he made it haram on this day
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the day of arafa on this land the land of mecca in this month the sacred month of the hijjah
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So by no means you're entitled to a percentage of his property as he is not by no means entitled to a percentage of your property
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Who gives you the right to claim anything of it?
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Definitely going to such law is totally prohibited
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Yeah, so if you look at it, Islamically when you get married, the woman is the one we believe is the price in the marriage
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She's the one who's given the mahr, etc, etc, etc
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And when that mahr is given to her, you need to understand Islam also protects her
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because in the case of a man who leaves etc she needs security because a woman has more to lose
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when she's pregnant etc all these kind of factors so islam has that nice balance okay but then if
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that woman decides to in about two months time or a week time or three weeks time she wants a divorce
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okay then you need to return partially full or the mahr which keeps the man protected in case
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she's a gold digger there are some of us and or you know the scholars etc even the sahaba have said
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it's better not to take the mile but again if that happens she has to give if the if she demands the
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divorce she has to return because women are the ones with 78 80 percent time do other ones who
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are asking for divorce you know and islam is giving this beautiful balance of gender roles
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in all aspects however if kabilami decides to take the work because it was all under his father's
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name this is what men are doing and you can't really blame them because they are at the end of
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at the end of the day they are in a position where they're losing everything and they can be married
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to this woman all these women are going to do is just you know not really love them for who they
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are sadly and want their money and wealth and etc whatever it is and then decide to just do that and
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many footballers have done this as well and it's it's backfiring on men and women so however if
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Kabi decides to take half of her assets because she was planning you know and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
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planned and this means now that her assets were under her name she's worth 10 million pounds
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if Kabi decides to take half that money that is a major thing that's haram it's not permissible
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because islamically it is haram for a woman to do that which is happening now these days you get
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these sisters who you know memorize the quran she wears a hijab she wears a niqab i've heard of
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madrasa students madrasa teachers but when it comes to divorce etc she goes and tries to take
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half of the wealth you're consuming hellfire by the way hellfire in your stomach it is a major
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sin you are stealing his wealth on your maqiyama and you know these sisters when you tell them
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allah and his messenger they don't give a crap about allah and his messenger when it comes to
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the world these desires when vengeance comes there is no tawak on allah you can forget it
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they think it's haram it's clear now let alone in the aspect where a woman has certain rights
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or a man has to provide you know etc etc for certain things even the divorce process happens
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now a man getting i'm not saying he's going to do or not but if he does he's going against the
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sharia he is not allowed to take her wealth in any way shape or form a man has provided even if a
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divorce happens the suckling period of the baby there's things that he still needs to take she
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needs to live in the house he still needs to provide for until a certain amount of time
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the edda period and you know and it is you know it's recommended for a man if he can you can until
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you know she gets married look whatever however to now take the wealth of the woman it's a it's
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haram so you see with us we're not um strategically consistent like this radical feminist or these
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these red pillars about these radical feminists we're consistent in our approach and the issue
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is that anytime we advise them it's all hell break loose alhamdulillah that's the reason why we're
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currently speaking the haq so here we hope kabil hamid refuses any money from and i'm sure he would
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you know from what we know him he's a half of the quran as well etc we hope he lives by that and
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does not touch a penny of that woman even if she was the one who had ill intentions of being a gold
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it would be a sin i mean i don't know if it's minor major but it would be a sin for him to get
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her wealth in any way shape or form that's why islam has come to have that balance inshallah
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before i bring that to your attention guys inshallah so if there's any man out there
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who's going to his direction of potential wealth and property you can yeah but she has basic rights
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you have to give her islamically however to take her own well uh whatever it is for the matter it
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is not permissible you cannot touch her wealth in marriage let alone outside of marriage until
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next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh