Ali Dawah - September 26, 2021


LADIES COMPLAIN ON HUSBAND ANSWERED BY ALLAH


Episode Stats


Length

4 minutes

Words per minute

225.63687

Word count

1,116

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

sentences flagged

Toxicity

4

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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Jummah Kutbahayyat Al-Qurani is a message from the Holy Qur'an that explains the role of men in the household and the role they play in the maintenance and protection of women. As a woman, do you find a man more attractive when he is not toxic masculinity?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 300 families over 1 000 orphans are going to benefit please help me reach my target now
00:00:04.640 yes that's correct not only does it encourage you to read it tells you how many verses you've
00:00:11.700 read how many pages you read how long you've been on it and best of all the hasana counter
00:00:15.660 download the qurani app now and have a ramadan with allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's book like you've
00:00:20.140 never had before as a woman do you find a man more attractive when he's not talking about toxic 0.64
00:00:27.440 masculinity yeah but as a woman do you not find it a bit more attractive or you know that's where 1.00
00:00:33.080 a male's role is uh you know in decision making as well yeah but in my family i actually i'm from
00:00:38.840 wales and i was one of eight so i actually i do everything i decorate i fix the car i do everything
00:00:45.360 and my ex-husband didn't uh he didn't think of me in that sort of in a way of being um somebody who 0.98
00:00:52.180 can do things because he was the clinician the dentist so i was just somebody who was stupid 0.98
00:00:56.960 no i don't think you're stupid because i could do because i can do all those things i can fix 0.97
00:01:01.440 things i was the one that opened up our dental practice i do all the decoration i did all the 0.98
00:01:05.920 equipment um no you look like a very intelligent woman i don't i don't think anyone should call
00:01:09.380 you that i can see it from you that you're very intelligent intelligence rather than yeah you know
00:01:13.340 i i say to people do you think the word doctor comes from indoctrination because they don't
00:01:17.400 actually think they just regurgitate information like a parrot yeah so would you say those things
00:01:22.840 that you were forced to do is it because you chose choose to do yeah i choose i like to help
00:01:26.440 people i want to look after people i'm i'm the forever mom i want to help people that's my but
00:01:31.580 shouldn't your husband be doing some of those things no he didn't do any of them no no but
00:01:34.580 shouldn't he be doing it that's why i said did he ask you to do it no i think because he felt that
00:01:38.280 he was um uh higher than me i was lower than him because of his degree so we believe in the sight
00:01:44.380 of god almighty you are better in degree in your closeness to god so it's not about what degree you
00:01:49.300 have how pretty you are how handsome you are what money you have these mean nothing can i ask you
00:01:54.160 something sister yeah yeah uh sister yola yeah okay open the quran in a random place and choose a verse
00:02:00.500 because this is the whole book is a message from god almighty we have made our heirs to what is left
00:02:06.400 by parents and relatives and to those whom our oaths have bonded give them their share indeed allah
00:02:14.480 is ever is ever over all things a witness and i believe that do you know why let's read that when
00:02:19.600 i was going through bad times in my life yes i started seeing love hearts everywhere wow and i
00:02:25.100 believe that was my mum and dad from heaven sending me their love because i believe their spirit is with
00:02:31.060 god now and he is there looking after them and it's because they were such good people that they
00:02:36.300 actually went to that level if people are bad they have to come back and relive the bad things
00:02:41.300 until they learn that they've got to be good before they can go to the next level as muslims we don't
00:02:46.420 believe in reincarnation but this is a very important verse you open so it says and for all we have made
00:02:50.360 it highest to what is left by parents and relatives and to those whom your oaths have bound to you to
00:02:54.980 give them their share indeed allah has ever all things witnessed men are in charge this is very
00:02:58.840 interesting yeah because we were talking about this this is very interesting yeah yeah because we was talking
00:03:03.620 about you know the patriarchy etc in the household yeah men are in charge of women by the right of 0.91
00:03:08.260 what allah has given one over the other and what they spend of maintenance from their wealth so uh so
00:03:13.040 here it's talking about men should be the maintainers and protectors of women so what that means is for
00:03:18.720 example that we are like full-time bodyguards to our relatives so this can be daughter sister mother but
00:03:25.320 that and this is so profound that we are talking about this and look at the verse you open it's talking
00:03:29.860 directly about that because me for example like i'm giving myself an example not that i'm a good
00:03:34.300 example but i have to provide the rent i have to do the shopping i have to give basic necessities to
00:03:40.040 my wife and uh when i married her she asked for dowry do you know what dowry is yes yes so and she 0.99
00:03:45.260 did give me an installment plan though so basically it was what she asked me she gave me installment plan
00:03:49.920 and she said if i can't pay her she'll forgive me but the point is the following we are the
00:03:53.500 maintainers and protectors of women and that's her right i can't touch that money so i have to provide for 0.99
00:03:57.880 her and and and maintainer so if i'm walking down the road and someone pulls a knife out i can't
00:04:01.840 tell her darling go and protect me i have to do that yeah but today women feel as if no i can go 1.00
00:04:07.600 and and there's nothing wrong with earning by the way you know you're you're a professional you're a
00:04:10.660 nutritionist yeah yeah but my son no i own a dental practice my nutrition i do as a free i give free
00:04:15.240 advice because i have this just i want to help i want to help people yeah i want to make a difference
00:04:19.680 yeah i've got some information why shouldn't i use it yes i don't want to make a living from it i want
00:04:24.240 to help people yeah not exactly you know and here about for example uh it carries on so righteous
00:04:29.480 women are devoutly obedient guarding in their husband's absence what allah would have given them
00:04:33.480 but those why so here it talks about for example also when there's a conflict that's about to happen
00:04:38.260 yeah so for example
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