MEET MY GIRLFRIEND || Ali Dawah
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Summary
In this episode of My Girlfriend Tag, my brother Alidawa talks about his relationship with his girlfriend and answers some of the questions that you guys sent in regarding their relationship. Please hold your judgement to yourself and don t judge me for doing this video
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hey guys assalamualaikum welcome to this video my girlfriend tag this is your brother
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alidawa i know this video is going to be a bit controversial and a lot of people are going
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to judge me for doing this video so obviously because you're not in my shoes and you don't
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really know what i've been through it's easy for you to say what you want to say
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but marriage has been something really hard for me i really wanted to get married for a long time
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but it's not easy but you know i eventually met somebody uh which i'm kind of seeing and yes we
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are going out but we our intentions are to get married um so please do hold your judgment to
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yourself and i want to do this video on my girlfriend tag to obviously talk a bit about
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each other and i do videos about you know her own relationship stuff like that and obviously we're
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not doing anything around my belief um so i just wanted you guys to meet that meet her and um
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obviously i didn't want to seem like a hypocrite so i thought you know it's the right thing to just do
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a girlfriend tag so yeah um i'm going to introduce you guys to her she's behind the camera she's playing
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with the buttons yeah yeah yeah yeah sorry this woman when it comes to cameras they're not really
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good yeah so she's gonna come join me in a minute okay guys so i don't want to keep it uh any longer
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i'm gonna call my other half here um don't be shy um and we're gonna go through some um questions
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that you guys asked us on facebook um so yeah i'm gonna get straight into it okay first question
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uh are you ready um what do you like the most about me like what's the most thing that you like about
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me and don't make it a cliche yeah um i like the fact that he's kind and loving okay i like the fact
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that he does shower one downside is that he never has time for me yeah but come on the weekends i am
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with you but on sunday doing hyde park all the time uh but i need to go hyde park for the hour
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so you know you know how women are okay next question guys what things annoy you about each
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other me is when you eat you just that that just annoys me when i'm eating food and i hear that
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yeah it just annoys me but what annoys you about me i don't know where to start what things annoy me
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about you but don't be shy just just say whatever it is it's annoying when you don't listen to me
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oh and your moustache annoy me wow she's got a problem with my moustache can you believe that
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i'm just going to ignore that i'm going to move on to the next question okay how did we meet
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do you want to answer that or should i answer that
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what i'll let you answer that um we met in hyde park a few weeks ago while you was giving dower
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yeah we met in hyde park don't need to go into detail okay okay so the next question how long have
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you been together three weeks around three weeks yeah roughly around that time yeah four weeks maybe
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three weeks yeah okay next question okay guys so i'm going to go through a couple of other questions uh
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these ones are a little bit judgmental and people just asking silly stuff but i don't really care
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because i don't need to prove myself to anyone um you know allah knows my heart so yeah one of the
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questions is um uh don't you feel allah uh to be honest i don't know what what's that got to do with
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anything you know i don't just because i have a girlfriend does it mean i don't feel allah i think
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it's a ridiculous question to be honest um next question um aren't you misleading people it's people's
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choice you know if they if they want to see this and do it i don't really care you know because
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you know as long as i've got my girlfriend though you know you know i don't really care what people
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think about me um aren't you sitting publicly um is a narration that says the ones that sin publicly
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the only people oh sorry the only people that will not be forgiven are the ones that sin publicly
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to be honest i don't really care as you know as long as i've got my girlfriend you know i don't really
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care you know um next question why aren't you married why do i need to get married when i have
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a girlfriend come on guys use your logic sense you know okay uh last question what if she was your
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sister but she ain't my sister though is she she's my girlfriend you know there's a difference sister
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girlfriend she's my girlfriend you're only yeah what video are we doing my girlfriend tag
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oh come on man i thought this is a friend tag yeah well these questions i'll do a best friend tag as
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well no no no no okay guys since that entertainment's over i think it's time that we get a little bit
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serious now that we've had a little bit of jockey time and you guys who thought i really have a girlfriend
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you need to watch my videos once again uh now why did i do this video brothers and sisters what you
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need to understand is that one thing that really really hits my heart and really blows my brain
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sometimes is the facts of certain men hypocrite men out there who do certain acts not only that i'm
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talking about both muslim uh youtubers and both muslim individuals in general this is not just targeted at
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one specific individual no this is targeted as a whole and i want to reiterate this once again
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is that we have individuals out there and on a platform and they're on a social platform and they
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do girlfriend tags or for example they're out there and they have a girlfriend and they walk around or
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pride and the individuals on a public platform really hurt me more why because at least an individual
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who has a girlfriend is wrong but he doesn't have that mass influence on a vast amount of people to
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make it seem like it's okay when it's not what really hurts me is and it's a big type of hypocrisy
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that you go out there and make a video whatever it may be and be like my girlfriend tag i challenge
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anyone look i will put my life down you know i would if betting was halal i would put 10 000 pounds down
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if that was your sister would you allow your sister to do a video with her boyfriend saying my boyfriend
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tag i challenge any man both in the public platform and you brothers that are watching it watching this
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video for yourself wallahi by allah you guys know never in a million years if anyone uttered your sister's
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name you will go crazy you will go on a mad one you know this then my brother my dear brother why is it
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that you go out and i'm talking to individuals muslim youtubers whoever it may be me whoever it is
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my brother why do you go out there and do a video saying my girlfriend tag you have a following
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but what are you trying to promote what like what are you exactly trying to do you're saying okay look
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don't judge me but you need to understand we're human we're not robot how can you say okay don't
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judge me um i'm not perfect etc by the way guys watch my girlfriend tag how does that both work how do you
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expect an individual to say you know what let me go do commit zinner show you my girlfriend pictures
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do a girlfriend tag we're on holiday but guys don't judge me now you need to understand that there must
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be something going on in your brain that's not making you understand and i don't mean this in a
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disrespectful way you are sincere maybe i can say you know what i assume the best in my brother and say
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you are sincere whoever you are you are sincere but the actions that you're doing does it follow the
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sincerity that you have in your heart because you need to understand two things you might be sincere
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but are you following the prophet muhammad peace be upon him with your actions it's good for me to go
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and say you know what fajr is two rakah but i feel extra sincere today i'm gonna pray five you know
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because i feel sincere you know i want to give that extra to allah i'm gonna go pray five rakah would
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that be accepted of me did the prophet peace be upon him do that no he didn't so you need to understand
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you being sincere doesn't mean anything now brothers and sisters we as individuals sin i'm not an angel i
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sin myself but we are trying our best to avoid sins doing sins a private alone is bad anyways you know
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because you are making the one who created you witness that but now what you're doing is you are
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publicizing it forget publicizing now you're glorifying it so there's individuals muslims that may
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may not know right from wrong they're gonna watch you and look up to you and be like yeah girlfriend
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tag so i can have a girlfriend too because it doesn't matter because i'm sincere my heart is clean
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if your heart is so clean it should reflect upon your actions it's not my heart is clean if your
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heart is clean it should reflect upon your actions your behavior if it's not then you need to question
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yourself are you doing this for allah for the people you know why are you trying to please if it's the
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people you're gonna try your best to make them happy all your life and you know what they're never
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gonna be happy you're never gonna be happy doing it for the sake of allah is what matters and brother
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i really want to reiterate this please understand where i'm coming from imagine once again your sister
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doing a boyfriend tag your sister saying hey i met my boyfriend in the park oh me my boyfriend you know
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what i like how i like his shoulders oh my boyfriend you know what we had our first kiss there and then
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how would you feel please for sake of argument you're a man i'm a man we know how we would feel
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then why promote this hypocrisy why promote it in a way where it's it's like it's something so
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glorifying and then turn to people and say don't judge me we will judge from what's apparent so guys i
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just want to say to the brothers fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala when it comes to these matters you
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wouldn't want that for your sister don't go out and do this to other people's sisters and sisters
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wallah i just want to reiterate something know your value these videos ignore them wallah you are
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worth more than being a girlfriend if you are good enough to be a girlfriend but not good enough to be
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a wife then the individual that you're with is clearly using you and know that if a man is making
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you his girlfriend not his wife he is not a man at all i don't call such individuals men they're not
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men if it's if it's a true man he will come so if he's a true man a true man will come and ask for your
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hand like a man not be like a little boy and say you're my girlfriend and down the line get bored
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and say you know what i'm going to move on to somebody else and brother says i want to leave you
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guys with two things number one you have good intentions you are sincere mashallah that's good
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but if your actions don't follow the prophet muhammad then know that it's not going
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to be accepted if you want your worship to be accepted be sincere have the correct intentions
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and follow what the prophet did and try your best not to fit into society wallahi billahi we love islam
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we are proud to be muslims may allah keep us on surat al-mustaqim may allah protect us from ever
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you know doing girlfriend tags or whatever it may be or having girlfriends in without people not even
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seeing may allah protect us from that and wallahi i'll say once again we are proud to be a muslim we
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don't need to sugarcoat our religion to anybody or to fit into society my sisters know your value my brothers
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fear allah may allah grant every single one of you guys jannah share this video assalamualaikum warahmatullahi