Ali Dawah - MEET MY GIRLFRIEND ｜｜ Ali Dawah

00:00:00.000 hey guys assalamualaikum welcome to this video my girlfriend tag this is your brother

00:00:29.440 alidawa i know this video is going to be a bit controversial and a lot of people are going

00:00:33.680 to judge me for doing this video so obviously because you're not in my shoes and you don't

00:00:38.160 really know what i've been through it's easy for you to say what you want to say

00:00:41.520 but marriage has been something really hard for me i really wanted to get married for a long time

00:00:45.600 but it's not easy but you know i eventually met somebody uh which i'm kind of seeing and yes we

00:00:52.240 are going out but we our intentions are to get married um so please do hold your judgment to

00:00:57.840 yourself and i want to do this video on my girlfriend tag to obviously talk a bit about

00:01:01.600 each other and i do videos about you know her own relationship stuff like that and obviously we're

00:01:05.440 not doing anything around my belief um so i just wanted you guys to meet that meet her and um

00:01:10.960 obviously i didn't want to seem like a hypocrite so i thought you know it's the right thing to just do

00:01:15.440 a girlfriend tag so yeah um i'm going to introduce you guys to her she's behind the camera she's playing 0.99

00:01:19.760 with the buttons yeah yeah yeah yeah sorry this woman when it comes to cameras they're not really 1.00

00:01:25.600 good yeah so she's gonna come join me in a minute okay guys so i don't want to keep it uh any longer

00:01:30.320 i'm gonna call my other half here um don't be shy um and we're gonna go through some um questions

00:01:36.320 that you guys asked us on facebook um so yeah i'm gonna get straight into it okay first question

00:01:42.160 uh are you ready um what do you like the most about me like what's the most thing that you like about

00:01:54.400 me and don't make it a cliche yeah um i like the fact that he's kind and loving okay i like the fact

00:02:02.560 that he does shower one downside is that he never has time for me yeah but come on the weekends i am

00:02:09.440 with you but on sunday doing hyde park all the time uh but i need to go hyde park for the hour

00:02:16.880 so you know you know how women are okay next question guys what things annoy you about each

00:02:22.640 other me is when you eat you just that that just annoys me when i'm eating food and i hear that

00:02:29.040 yeah it just annoys me but what annoys you about me i don't know where to start what things annoy me

00:02:34.560 about you but don't be shy just just say whatever it is it's annoying when you don't listen to me

00:02:39.360 oh and your moustache annoy me wow she's got a problem with my moustache can you believe that 1.00

00:02:47.120 i'm just going to ignore that i'm going to move on to the next question okay how did we meet

00:02:52.000 do you want to answer that or should i answer that

00:02:55.360 what i'll let you answer that um we met in hyde park a few weeks ago while you was giving dower

00:03:00.960 yeah we met in hyde park don't need to go into detail okay okay so the next question how long have

00:03:07.760 you been together three weeks around three weeks yeah roughly around that time yeah four weeks maybe

00:03:18.640 three weeks yeah okay next question okay guys so i'm going to go through a couple of other questions uh

00:03:24.080 these ones are a little bit judgmental and people just asking silly stuff but i don't really care

00:03:28.320 because i don't need to prove myself to anyone um you know allah knows my heart so yeah one of the

00:03:32.880 questions is um uh don't you feel allah uh to be honest i don't know what what's that got to do with

00:03:39.120 anything you know i don't just because i have a girlfriend does it mean i don't feel allah i think

00:03:43.680 it's a ridiculous question to be honest um next question um aren't you misleading people it's people's

00:03:51.840 choice you know if they if they want to see this and do it i don't really care you know because

00:03:54.720 you know as long as i've got my girlfriend though you know you know i don't really care what people

00:03:58.000 think about me um aren't you sitting publicly um is a narration that says the ones that sin publicly

00:04:08.960 the only people oh sorry the only people that will not be forgiven are the ones that sin publicly

00:04:14.000 to be honest i don't really care as you know as long as i've got my girlfriend you know i don't really

00:04:17.520 care you know um next question why aren't you married why do i need to get married when i have 1.00

00:04:25.760 a girlfriend come on guys use your logic sense you know okay uh last question what if she was your

00:04:34.800 sister but she ain't my sister though is she she's my girlfriend you know there's a difference sister

00:04:40.320 girlfriend she's my girlfriend you're only yeah what video are we doing my girlfriend tag

00:04:49.600 oh come on man i thought this is a friend tag yeah well these questions i'll do a best friend tag as

00:04:56.080 well no no no no okay guys since that entertainment's over i think it's time that we get a little bit

00:05:03.840 serious now that we've had a little bit of jockey time and you guys who thought i really have a girlfriend

00:05:09.120 you need to watch my videos once again uh now why did i do this video brothers and sisters what you

00:05:14.320 need to understand is that one thing that really really hits my heart and really blows my brain

00:05:18.560 sometimes is the facts of certain men hypocrite men out there who do certain acts not only that i'm

00:05:26.320 talking about both muslim uh youtubers and both muslim individuals in general this is not just targeted at

00:05:33.760 one specific individual no this is targeted as a whole and i want to reiterate this once again

00:05:39.840 is that we have individuals out there and on a platform and they're on a social platform and they

00:05:47.520 do girlfriend tags or for example they're out there and they have a girlfriend and they walk around or

00:05:51.680 pride and the individuals on a public platform really hurt me more why because at least an individual

00:05:57.200 who has a girlfriend is wrong but he doesn't have that mass influence on a vast amount of people to

00:06:02.640 make it seem like it's okay when it's not what really hurts me is and it's a big type of hypocrisy

00:06:08.160 that you go out there and make a video whatever it may be and be like my girlfriend tag i challenge

00:06:13.680 anyone look i will put my life down you know i would if betting was halal i would put 10 000 pounds down 0.93

00:06:19.840 if that was your sister would you allow your sister to do a video with her boyfriend saying my boyfriend 0.90

00:06:27.040 tag i challenge any man both in the public platform and you brothers that are watching it watching this

00:06:33.680 video for yourself wallahi by allah you guys know never in a million years if anyone uttered your sister's

00:06:40.240 name you will go crazy you will go on a mad one you know this then my brother my dear brother why is it

00:06:46.640 that you go out and i'm talking to individuals muslim youtubers whoever it may be me whoever it is

00:06:54.080 my brother why do you go out there and do a video saying my girlfriend tag you have a following

00:07:00.880 but what are you trying to promote what like what are you exactly trying to do you're saying okay look

00:07:06.160 don't judge me but you need to understand we're human we're not robot how can you say okay don't

00:07:10.240 judge me um i'm not perfect etc by the way guys watch my girlfriend tag how does that both work how do you

00:07:16.640 expect an individual to say you know what let me go do commit zinner show you my girlfriend pictures

00:07:22.640 do a girlfriend tag we're on holiday but guys don't judge me now you need to understand that there must

00:07:28.400 be something going on in your brain that's not making you understand and i don't mean this in a

00:07:32.640 disrespectful way you are sincere maybe i can say you know what i assume the best in my brother and say

00:07:39.360 you are sincere whoever you are you are sincere but the actions that you're doing does it follow the

00:07:44.960 sincerity that you have in your heart because you need to understand two things you might be sincere

00:07:50.480 but are you following the prophet muhammad peace be upon him with your actions it's good for me to go

00:07:55.120 and say you know what fajr is two rakah but i feel extra sincere today i'm gonna pray five you know

00:08:00.880 because i feel sincere you know i want to give that extra to allah i'm gonna go pray five rakah would

00:08:05.840 that be accepted of me did the prophet peace be upon him do that no he didn't so you need to understand

00:08:11.520 you being sincere doesn't mean anything now brothers and sisters we as individuals sin i'm not an angel i

00:08:17.280 sin myself but we are trying our best to avoid sins doing sins a private alone is bad anyways you know

00:08:26.560 because you are making the one who created you witness that but now what you're doing is you are

00:08:33.600 publicizing it forget publicizing now you're glorifying it so there's individuals muslims that may 0.93

00:08:39.760 may not know right from wrong they're gonna watch you and look up to you and be like yeah girlfriend

00:08:43.520 tag so i can have a girlfriend too because it doesn't matter because i'm sincere my heart is clean

00:08:49.680 if your heart is so clean it should reflect upon your actions it's not my heart is clean if your

00:08:54.640 heart is clean it should reflect upon your actions your behavior if it's not then you need to question

00:09:00.000 yourself are you doing this for allah for the people you know why are you trying to please if it's the

00:09:03.760 people you're gonna try your best to make them happy all your life and you know what they're never

00:09:07.440 gonna be happy you're never gonna be happy doing it for the sake of allah is what matters and brother

00:09:12.240 i really want to reiterate this please understand where i'm coming from imagine once again your sister

00:09:19.760 doing a boyfriend tag your sister saying hey i met my boyfriend in the park oh me my boyfriend you know

00:09:27.440 what i like how i like his shoulders oh my boyfriend you know what we had our first kiss there and then

00:09:32.960 how would you feel please for sake of argument you're a man i'm a man we know how we would feel

00:09:39.440 then why promote this hypocrisy why promote it in a way where it's it's like it's something so

00:09:45.280 glorifying and then turn to people and say don't judge me we will judge from what's apparent so guys i

00:09:51.040 just want to say to the brothers fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala when it comes to these matters you

00:09:55.520 wouldn't want that for your sister don't go out and do this to other people's sisters and sisters

00:09:59.520 wallah i just want to reiterate something know your value these videos ignore them wallah you are

00:10:04.960 worth more than being a girlfriend if you are good enough to be a girlfriend but not good enough to be

00:10:09.600 a wife then the individual that you're with is clearly using you and know that if a man is making

00:10:15.920 you his girlfriend not his wife he is not a man at all i don't call such individuals men they're not

00:10:21.920 men if it's if it's a true man he will come so if he's a true man a true man will come and ask for your

00:10:28.160 hand like a man not be like a little boy and say you're my girlfriend and down the line get bored

00:10:33.120 and say you know what i'm going to move on to somebody else and brother says i want to leave you

00:10:36.720 guys with two things number one you have good intentions you are sincere mashallah that's good

00:10:42.000 but if your actions don't follow the prophet muhammad then know that it's not going

00:10:46.320 to be accepted if you want your worship to be accepted be sincere have the correct intentions

00:10:51.600 and follow what the prophet did and try your best not to fit into society wallahi billahi we love islam 0.64

00:10:58.880 we are proud to be muslims may allah keep us on surat al-mustaqim may allah protect us from ever

00:11:04.480 you know doing girlfriend tags or whatever it may be or having girlfriends in without people not even

00:11:10.160 seeing may allah protect us from that and wallahi i'll say once again we are proud to be a muslim we

00:11:15.200 don't need to sugarcoat our religion to anybody or to fit into society my sisters know your value my brothers

00:11:20.720 fear allah may allah grant every single one of you guys jannah share this video assalamualaikum warahmatullahi

Ali Dawah - November 04, 2015

MEET MY GIRLFRIEND ｜｜ Ali Dawah

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