Ali Dawah - Non Hijabis are sl＊ts？!!

00:00:00.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends welcome to this video

00:00:15.240 obviously the title does seem a bit controversial but that was not my intentions and instead my

00:00:21.020 intentions was basically to catch your attention because this is a matter that's a big problem

00:00:24.320 within the ummah and i thought i would discuss this in detail obviously a lot of people suffer

00:00:30.500 from and unfortunately we have a lot of judgmental people both practicing individuals and non-practicing

00:00:35.460 which i'm going to touch up on inshallah but the main reason i did this video was obviously

00:00:39.920 a sister that i knew not personally who got in contact with our team about a year a year half

00:00:44.100 a year a year and a half ago who was basically practicing the deen who wore the niqab who wore 0.97

00:00:49.920 the hijab she was practicing a religion certain things happened in her life major issues which

00:00:55.100 led her to taking off the niqab and the hijab off well obviously um uh we don't want to carry on 1.00

00:01:00.980 any further before we actually listen to the recording so what we're going to do is i'm just

00:01:04.480 going to briefly a two to three minute uh recording i want you guys to listen to where she's coming

00:01:10.120 from and inshallah i'm going to discuss it further

00:01:11.500 assalamualaikum um here's my short experience okay i used to be fully veiled i struggled a lot

00:01:23.300 with it with family acceptance friends society whatnot um i was very into my religion very

00:01:34.260 like intensely into the religion islam and um i remember one night i i was going out the

00:01:44.420 mosque and um i was attacked my two men i was abused that very night from the both of them

00:01:51.940 and they've caused uh awful amount of damage i cannot explain the amount of damage they've caused

00:01:58.420 that i was still suffering um it's affected my way of thinking and affected how i dress

00:02:07.220 it just drove me insane so then slowly well no not slowly actually i remember i made this decision

00:02:18.180 while i was taking a bath actually it just said you know what i want to take it all off now but i know

00:02:24.820 that if i take it all off things will be different however i still want to take it off so as i take

00:02:31.060 the the full veal off um go back to how i used to dress which is just like any westernized girl would 0.97

00:02:38.980 dress um all the sisters that i had close to me many have left me a lot of people online judge me

00:02:48.980 not only me but they judge a lot of people who are not able to wear who are not really covered but um

00:02:54.340 and that affects us a lot because it hurts you don't know the trouble of somebody you don't um

00:03:02.820 i i remember when i was on dean sometimes i was harsh to people in terms of hijab and whatever

00:03:10.580 and now when i see other people do it to others and me especially it hurts it affects me and i think

00:03:15.460 wow was that really how i was so i hope you listen to this with the intention

00:03:21.940 of changing within like listen let my less let my experience be a lesson to you don't let the deen

00:03:30.020 don't let it harden your heart don't let it make you arrogant humble yourself just the way allah could

00:03:36.580 give you hidayah within seconds he can take it away even faster um it's hard out here it's it's very

00:03:43.860 hard i'm struggling a lot especially from muslim people all around the world they're very touch

00:03:50.580 mental they're not very supportive and it hurts because you're meant to be my family do you know

00:03:56.580 what i mean um yeah thank you for listening you've heard it for yourself um and obviously everybody has

00:04:07.140 their own struggles in their different ways but uh what really hit me and really really like got to

00:04:13.300 me with this sister's story is that the fact that she's saying that when she was practicing the religion

00:04:16.980 when she was wearing the niqab and the hijab she had sisters there who said we are gonna through thick 0.97

00:04:21.700 and thin we are together unfortunately these sisters didn't really stick to their word which we do not 0.95

00:04:26.660 know why but it's sad that we have practicing individuals practicing sisters or practicing brothers

00:04:34.580 with this case is practicing sisters that instead of helping the sister out of the issues that she's 0.98

00:04:40.660 gone through that has led her to this she has indirectly and directly received messages basically

00:04:47.220 saying if you don't wear the hijab or you're dressing up these in certain ways you are a 0.86

00:04:51.940 slut this is the word that they're using against her and this really really touched me it really hurt me

00:04:55.940 and that's why i thought you know i need to make this video because this is a growing problem

00:04:58.900 and this happens a lot you know unfortunately there's certain things i've witnessed myself

00:05:02.900 where individuals look down upon me because of the certain way i dress and that's why i thought

00:05:07.300 the best way to go about this is to address this inshallah so this video can really benefit you guys

00:05:11.860 now one of the main causes and reasons behind this is that once an individual starts practicing the

00:05:18.100 religion and starts wearing the niqab or hijab or start starts praying doing the extra plays etc

00:05:24.260 what happens and the main cause of this is that arrogance kicks in what is arrogance arrogance

00:05:29.700 is a trait of shaitan thinking that you are better than another individual which can be a variety of

00:05:35.620 reasons oh for example he's this color or i'm this color or he's from that caste and i'm from this

00:05:40.660 caste he's from this tribe my tribe is higher in the matters of deen individuals do the same thing

00:05:46.980 as the shaitan did so you are actually carrying the sunnah of the shaitan this is what you are doing

00:05:52.020 because you are looking down at an individual why because now that allah has guided you

00:05:58.580 to the right path externally and maybe internally you think you have the right to look down upon

00:06:06.340 another sister or another brother and say you know what look at this person doesn't feel allah

00:06:10.980 dressed up like a slat or look at this brother dressed up like a kuffar this is arrogance this is you 0.99

00:06:16.820 know what this actually means it means that you are thinking you are guaranteed jannah you're going

00:06:21.940 jannah and what you're doing is you're like ah look at these guys man look at them selling out there

00:06:25.940 hereafter or look at them heading to the hellfire we know from a narration of the prophet muhammad

00:06:30.420 peace be upon him where he says an individual will live their life like the people of jannah and there

00:06:35.140 will be a hand span between him and jannah and what is in himself overtakes him and he ends up in the

00:06:42.340 hellfire by acting like the people of the hellfire and the prophet muhammad peace be upon him says a 0.99

00:06:47.620 similar thing where he says there will be certain individuals who live the life of like the people

00:06:52.580 of the hellfire and when there is a hand span between him and the hellfire whilst deep in his

00:06:58.020 heart overtakes him and he starts acting like the people of jannah and he enters jannah now what do we

00:07:03.940 learn from this think about this really carefully this shows us whoever it is we're in the dawah or you're

00:07:10.020 a sheikh or you're a scholar it gives us no right to think hey i'm saved wallahi brothers and sisters 0.58

00:07:17.460 i don't know where i'm going to be tomorrow wallahi i'm telling you straight up i don't know where i'm

00:07:20.260 going to be tomorrow i don't know if i'm going to be a disbeliever i don't know if i'm going to turn

00:07:23.780 against islam and we have many examples i don't need to give names individuals who were on the deen

00:07:28.180 when you look at them like whoa they were strong and today you look at them you're like whoa he's gone

00:07:33.700 off the track this should make us realize hold on a second i'm not guaranteed jannah

00:07:39.540 so who do you think you are and i don't mean this in any disrespectful way my dear sister my

00:07:44.260 dear brother who's practicing the religion may allah bless you guys and make your path easy

00:07:47.940 but who do you think you are to look down at another individual a sister that doesn't wear the hijab

00:07:52.340 or a brother that's struggling in certain ways with clothing or whatever it may be wallahi who do you

00:07:58.180 think you are to look down at that person this is arrogance this is you thinking you're better

00:08:03.140 you're thinking me i got the ticket the jannah allah has given me it because i'm praying my

00:08:06.900 salana how do you know you're not going to stop praying your salah tomorrow so what we learn from

00:08:11.140 this is my brothers and sisters is to be humble always why do we pray every day we pray every

00:08:16.820 day asking allah to what allah keep me on the sarat al-mustaqeem keep me on there you're always

00:08:22.260 asking allah for guidance always for guidance forget you and me who are me and you the prophet

00:08:27.540 said oh the one who tosses and turns the hearts around as you please as you will keep

00:08:33.300 my heart firm on the deen the prophet muhammad is making a dua to allah and saying he's making 0.98

00:08:39.700 a dua to allah to sit stay on the right path and anytime when has ever the prophet muhammad

00:08:45.220 all the narrations that we have from his life when has he ever looked down upon an individual and

00:08:51.780 said oh you're going to hellfire or you're doing this or you're doing that even the man who came and

00:08:55.780 said oh rasulullah make zina permissible for me what did he do hey you you're going to the hellfire get lost 0.75

00:09:01.540 no he said sit down can you imagine if today somebody came and said that to us we would

00:09:06.740 probably try to kill him so that shows that we should learn something about the character of the

00:09:10.980 prophet muhammad peace be upon him never look down on anyone uh prophet ibrahim he's the one who 0.95

00:09:16.500 smashed the idols with his own hands and when he made a dua he said oh allah divert me from ever

00:09:23.140 worshipping other than you so we've got two prophets who are making dua to allah and asking for 0.52

00:09:29.460 guidance and whereas we ourselves what are we doing we practice our religion a little bit think

00:09:34.660 we're a little bit pious and what do we do start spotting people ah look at him look at her hijab

00:09:39.380 well like i've i've had people telling me that another sister in the car don't give me salam

00:09:44.580 or or they know individual sisters who wear the niqab and they've told their friends oh i don't give

00:09:48.580 that sister salam why oh because she wears a niqab like this what seriously or a sister in hijab 1.00

00:09:55.460 mashallah look you're wearing the correct way but how could you walk past another believer and 1.00

00:09:59.620 not give them salam why oh she's wearing trousers or jeans is it wrong of course it's wrong nobody's

00:10:05.140 saying what the way she's dressed is right but it's arrogance on your behalf to not give her

00:10:10.900 salam and drift the moral way just the way this sister was drifted away instead

00:10:15.780 salam alaykum sister that salam that you might say to her maybe she's going through some difficulty at

00:10:20.180 home she would say you know at least a brother or a sister on the deen has acknowledged me and said

00:10:24.820 salam alaykum you don't know how it can touch an individual's heart obviously so we've discussed

00:10:29.460 that practicing individuals are looking down on certain individuals and saying 0.97

00:10:32.740 you know you're a slut for not wearing the hijab etc etc okay but then we have the other extreme 0.94

00:10:37.220 what's the other extreme now we have sisters uh who don't wear the hijab they look at the sisters 0.99

00:10:44.580 that wear the hijab and go oh she's an undercover hoe now this is another extreme now what you need to 1.00

00:10:49.860 understand is sister look if you have your own struggles and you can't wear the hijab may allah

00:10:53.060 bless you may allah give you the courage and the strength to do that just because you're not wearing

00:10:57.460 a hijab it does not give you any right to look down upon them because yes you're right their uniform

00:11:02.660 represents something and they should step up to that standard i have nothing to say to that you are

00:11:06.740 right however you can't look at a hijabi sister or a brother in a phobe and expect perfection yes they 0.89

00:11:13.220 should not see in public i'm 100 with you with that but you can't look at them and say hey look at her

00:11:18.900 she's doing this don't pick on everything because what happens is it means that you have a disease

00:11:22.980 in your heart like ibn tamir said it says some individuals they are like flies they have this

00:11:27.620 disease in their heart where they don't land on good places they look for bad places like wounds you

00:11:32.820 know and they land on there so you need to sometimes see the good in people and say you know what

00:11:37.060 the sister's at least trying to wear the hijab at least she's trying that brother he's trying to lower 0.99

00:11:41.300 his gaze look at the good in people and don't look down on them and say oh she's like that you know what i

00:11:47.220 don't wear the hijab but you know i'm not like her well like this is an excuse within yourself

00:11:51.540 why don't you be the better person why don't you say you know what this sister wears the hijab 1.00

00:11:54.820 she has a boyfriend i'm gonna wear the hijab and not have a boyfriend so coming back to the main point

00:11:59.860 of practicing individuals looking down uh not non-practicing because there's a lot of people

00:12:04.980 that don't wear the hijab or outlook appearance they don't look practicing but they do practice their 0.94

00:12:09.300 religion yeah and obviously they should better their self by wearing the hijab uh lowering the gaze for the

00:12:13.620 brothers uh brothers wearing the correct way of hijab this is very important as well hijab is not just for

00:12:17.540 the sisters so i would appear to say they might not look like oh they're uh they're a muslim but

00:12:23.060 well i'm telling you from my personal experience i have seen sisters who wear correct way of a buyer 0.99

00:12:29.540 correct way of hijab and wallahi the words that they have uttered like they will say certain words

00:12:36.500 wallahi as a man i feel like opening up the earth and going inside for a few days and coming back out

00:12:42.020 later wallahi i'm telling you as a man i feel like you know what i just want to disappear from

00:12:46.340 this planet this existence and i'm thinking how do you see that as a sister who wears a hijab or a buyer 0.97

00:12:52.340 or a aki who has a beard or a foe your outward appearance is important but some individuals they

00:12:57.140 don't have the inner modesty the inner ayah is not there the outer appearance we've got nothing to say

00:13:01.140 whereas we have certain individuals certain sisters they don't cover up they don't wear the hijab 0.86

00:13:06.020 modest dressed and they have a good hamdulillah an amazing uh an amazing way they have an amazing

00:13:13.140 khaya so obviously they can better their self and perfect their self by wearing the hijab and a sister

00:13:18.500 who's wearing the hijab that doesn't have that inner modesty can perfect herself by having that inner 1.00

00:13:23.380 modesty and understanding what khaya is and it's not just an outer appearance and neither does it mean

00:13:27.460 it's just an inner thing they both go together and obviously from this i don't want you guys to think

00:13:32.660 that every single hijab is like this or every single non-hijab is like that nobody's saying that

00:13:37.140 okay guys so i don't want to keep you guys long i want to wrap it up but once again i really want to

00:13:41.060 uh push push this point really uh forward is that look if you see a brother or sister who doesn't look

00:13:47.700 in the out outward appearance as a muslim you have a disease in your heart indeed if you say to them 1.00

00:13:52.580 oh they don't look like a muslim look at this individual look at the way of hijab that means you have 1.00

00:13:57.380 disease in your heart and you're carrying the sunnah of the shaitan because you're being arrogant and 0.79

00:14:00.980 looking down an individual based on what you don't know nothing you don't know the struggle they're

00:14:04.580 going through never forget that at one point you didn't wear the hijab as a brother you didn't use

00:14:09.700 to lower your gaze or pray so who gives you the right to uh to judge anybody and last but not

00:14:14.500 least brothers and sisters the matter of slander don't forget that every time you walk past the

00:14:18.100 sister and say ah she's done this or she's done that or she's look at she doesn't wear the hijab 0.94

00:14:22.500 she's a slut or you're uh you're a non-hijabi and you look at a hijabi sister and go ah look 1.00

00:14:26.500 out she's a undercover hole um undercover hijabi these are all slander these are all slander and 1.00

00:14:31.700 allah sent down revelation when islam happened against aisha radiallahu anhu so you need to

00:14:36.900 understand quran came down quran came down for the matter of slander and 0.91

Ali Dawah - October 23, 2015

Non Hijabis are sl＊ts？!!

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