MESSAGE TO DUBAIS LAVISH COUPLE - EVIL EYE & ENVY
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the shocking amount of money that a woman charges her husband after giving birth to their daughter. Is it excessive or is there something wrong with the way she is spending her husband's hard earned cash?
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$100,000 on eight Dior bags for her collection.
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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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This is a video that I found actually disturbing.
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I can't go to elements of it being halal or haram for that matter,
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I want to talk about in this video where this sister, I know her husband,
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I've kind of known of him a long time ago, alhamdulillah,
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I don't know the brother likes to say anything bad about him.
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Alhamdulillah, I know he used to live in London, he moved to Dubai.
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But I found this video very disturbing in many ways.
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And I'm going to come to it about Israf, excessive spending, showing off.
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And for example, the consequences of that, evil eye, black magic, all this kind of stuff.
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And I'm going to go down and boil it down to also,
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And I'm sure himself and his wife are going to be watching this video.
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fear Allah from slandering, backbiting, name calling, whatever.
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I'm going to be adding up the stuff that she is saying,
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that she's giving birth to a daughter, a baby girl.
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And this is all the cost that she has charged her husband to pay.
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How much did I charge my husband to give him our second baby?
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First up, we have a customized pink G-Wagon as my push present for giving him a baby girl.
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How many times I said, you know, screamed in pain, etc.
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And, of course, I need a nice ride when I'm going to be going out with her.
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$2 million on a new home because our family is obviously getting bigger and we need more space.
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$1 million on renovations and interior design to change the lighting, flooring,
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and also to make a customized pool because I'm not leaving the house to go swimming.
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So we've got nearly half the price of the house on renovation.
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$100,000 on eight Dior bags for her collection.
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And before I carry on, inshallah, I ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to protect them,
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We should make dua from sisters, alhamdulillah.
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There is nothing wrong with them earn this income, etc.
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It's just I have other issues, which I'm going to come to, inshallah.
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So may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect them from evil eyes, sihr,
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and protect their marriage, protect their child.
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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make their children righteous children, inshallah.
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That'll be a sadaqah jari for them when they have gone,
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And $80,000 on a new Van Cleve collection for her
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because she's going to be taking this down the generations
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$10,000 on daily postpartum massages for a month for me and baby girl
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So let's say there's 30 days, that's £300,000.
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And a monthly budget of $50,000 for her wardrobe.
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I don't know how long this wardrobe will continue for going for,
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but let's say it goes for half a year for that matter.
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So that's another £300,000, if I'm not mistaken.
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$200,000 on this customised tennis bracelet that I got made for her.
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Until next time, assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
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So, alhamdulillah, you know, there's stuff being bought for the baby.
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And I don't know when the baby can wear this stuff.
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It's like me buying, saying, I'm buying my son a size 10 trainers.
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But it's like, you're buying these necklaces and stuff like that.
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I mean, it's like me buying, like, this is a card I'm going to buy for my child or whatever.
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But anyway, there's £200,000 on that necklace.
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Because honestly, buying gold is an investment.
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Last but not least, $150,000 on a personal driver and a new car for him to drive me around in.
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Now, in order to be spending that kind of amount, you have to be a...
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Now, obviously there's been some things, accusations again in Islamic study.
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I have to be careful about the accusations about him and his finances and etc.
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In the Quran, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in Surah Al-Araf, verse 31.
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We say, so children of Adam, take your adornment at every masjid and eat and drink.
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Indeed, he does not like those who commit extravagance.
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In a hadith, the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
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He emphasized moderation in all things, including eating and ablution, wudu.
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A hadith narrated by Abu Umama states that the worst Muslim are those who are extravagant in their food, clothing, and speech.
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So, important, very important when it comes to extravagance.
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Now, I'm going to go back to Yusuf alayhi wa sallam.
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And his father told him to not even share it with his own siblings.
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So, I hope, this family, I hope, and I assume the best, that you are not missing your salah.
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By looking at the comment section, let me tell you something.
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There are so many people that are going to be envious, jealous, hating.
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They're going to be wishing and waiting for the story of you guys divorced.
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You are not only doing that and causing harm to yourself.
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Because the unseen world is far more dangerous than the seen world.
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So, you are not only causing danger for yourself.
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But the argument I have to ask is, why are you doing it?
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I personally do not believe that you spent four and a half million pounds on the child.
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I think these are things that you guys were already going to do.
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It could be that it's like you were already doing it and you used it for a marketing campaign.
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And if I'm not mistaken, I even got a message from our dear brother's wife pertaining to trading.
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And I think she was randomly messaging people to do trading, etc.
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I think I just said, alaykum as-salam, a question mark.
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So you can see clearly they are, and I don't know where that message is.
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And I think what the wife is doing is she's selling these things on how to trade, etc.
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So I don't think they go out there and say, I'm going to show my kids and just know.
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And we have to show you that because there's so many gullible people out there.
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But I have to be on the safe side and say there are a lot of people out there who sell courses
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and become millionaires because of selling those courses.
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So they're like, oh, you have to become a millionaire.
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No, they actually become a millionaire because of selling courses.
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I don't want to go into, you know, assumptions.
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What I'm saying is, guys, there's so many people out there who, look, and this is why
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But Allah doesn't say what he will increase you in.
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He can increase you in further contentment that you're unhappy with.
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But let me tell you something, brothers and sisters.
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Please, please, do not look at these individuals and start comparing your husband.
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You, my dear sister, are causing a fitna to households.
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Alhamdulillah, may Allah increase you and give you more.
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Why? Because, look, as men, we are visual creatures.
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When a man sees a beautiful woman, his eyes, you cannot help him.
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That's why Allah says, tell them, believe the man to lower his gaze.
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And that's why so many marriages break down because of ungrateful women for that matter.
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I went to the hellfire and I saw the majority of the inhabitants of Saul.
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The husband will do good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good.
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One bath, I've never seen anything good from you.
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Imagine if I was walking around with my bank balance on my forehead.
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Most of the, I'll be honest with you, no one will look at me because my bank balance is not that great at all.
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But I'm saying, imagine I was worth 7.3 million pounds.
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That will cause a fitna for all the other men who are married, yes, who do not have those means.
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They look and go, oh my gosh, she's worth 7.1 million.
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In fact, if I was married to her, my life would have been a bit different.
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And when they're out and they see women who are beautifying themselves excessively.
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And they're thinking, oh my gosh, you know, she has something that my wife doesn't have.
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And you are outrightly, openly doing this because you're trying to make money, whatever's the matter.
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So there's the dangers of sehr that will affect your house.
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Make sure you give in sadaqah 4.5 million pounds.
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And again, I'm not going to come and say you could have given that to charity.
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I'm going to assume that you guys, if you give 4.5 million pounds, I certainly hope.
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I certainly hope you give, if not, maybe 20% or whatever that amount to charity.
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But I'm sure you guys are very charitable and they give more.
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Now, in totality, like you look at the comment section.
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Alhamdulillah, in Islam, it tells a man to take care of his wife.
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While children in Gaza, Yemen, Syria and Sudan, they are starving to death.
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If you can have evidence that they spend 4.5 million and don't give the people charity,
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But I believe they give maybe millions in charity.
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My only question is, why did you feel the need to post this on social media?
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Seriously, what was the point of bringing all this information?
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And you're only making their life more miserable.
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And this is why it's so important to be content.
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So, this is a very uncalculated, what's it called?
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And one thing that I would say to women who are trying to have a lifestyle that they would die to.
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A man like that who earns that kind of income, most certainly he does not have one wife.
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Because if you're a multi-millionaire, you have any woman, let me tell you something.
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The woman who talk about, oh no, you guys will jump and sacrifice your left arm to be married to a man like that.
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Okay, someone of social influence, let alone get so many women who want to marry him, etc.
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If you're a Muslim or, you know, girls who are just throwing their self at him just for one night stands, whatever.
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Do not ever ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that I want this.
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Allah says you might hate something which is good for you and you might love something which is bad for you.
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Always be content with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that has decreed for you.
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So instead of making like we had the whole hasanat situation, subhanahu wa ta'ala, probably they've repented.
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People go, oh Allah, give me a wife, like a husband, like a awudu billah.
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We look at a glimpse of a video that's 30 seconds and we judge it and say I want something like this.
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Yes, a man like that, most certainly he has a couple of wives.
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Spending four and a half million pounds on a baby.
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On this amazing baby, may Allah bless and preserve her.
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So guys, I mean there might be some women that are saying, you know what, if the price is right, you know, we don't mind sharing a husband.
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You know, as long as it's the price is right, you know.
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Women are more polygamous than us, you know, when it comes to the price is right with the right man.
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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect you guys.
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And I ask these brother and sister who are married, please be careful and cautious.
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Because at the end of the day, this can come to bite you at the end.
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.