Ali Dawah - July 26, 2025


MESSAGE TO DUBAIS LAVISH COUPLE - EVIL EYE & ENVY

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Prophet Muhammad Wallah Abu Umama Wallahi Israf Salah Adam Saul
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14 minutes

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3,148

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347

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Misogyny

18

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3

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Hate speech

22

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In this episode, we discuss the shocking amount of money that a woman charges her husband after giving birth to their daughter. Is it excessive or is there something wrong with the way she is spending her husband's hard earned cash?

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00:00:00.000 $100,000 on eight Dior bags for her collection.
00:00:04.360 I hope and I assume the best that you are not missing your salah, not a single salah.
00:00:08.160 I hope you guys are doing your adhkar because let me tell you something.
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00:00:30.740 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:33.600 Welcome to this reaction video.
00:00:34.640 This is a video that I found actually disturbing.
00:00:37.300 I can't go to elements of it being halal or haram for that matter,
00:00:40.000 but there is, I write Israf.
00:00:42.080 I want to talk about in this video where this sister, I know her husband, 0.90
00:00:45.860 I've kind of known of him a long time ago, alhamdulillah,
00:00:49.680 and briefly spoken to him.
00:00:52.380 You know, there's nothing bad I can say.
00:00:54.040 I don't know the brother likes to say anything bad about him.
00:00:56.940 Alhamdulillah, I know he used to live in London, he moved to Dubai.
00:01:00.620 But I found this video very disturbing in many ways.
00:01:02.800 And I'm going to come to it about Israf, excessive spending, showing off. 0.99
00:01:07.560 And for example, the consequences of that, evil eye, black magic, all this kind of stuff.
00:01:12.720 And I'm going to go down and boil it down to also,
00:01:15.260 why are they really doing it?
00:01:16.280 This is my opinion.
00:01:16.880 Why are they really doing it?
00:01:17.560 And I'm sure himself and his wife are going to be watching this video.
00:01:20.260 Again, with me, I urge everybody,
00:01:21.980 fear Allah from slandering, backbiting, name calling, whatever.
00:01:25.220 This is just my take on it.
00:01:26.380 And not that I'm going to be saying anything.
00:01:27.460 But I just want to assess the video.
00:01:28.580 Let's react to it, inshallah.
00:01:29.540 And I'm going to go on my calculator.
00:01:30.580 I'm going to be adding up the stuff that she is saying,
00:01:34.280 that she's giving birth to a daughter, a baby girl.
00:01:37.120 And this is all the cost that she has charged her husband to pay.
00:01:41.480 Many problems with this part.
00:01:42.500 Let's dissect straight into it.
00:01:44.900 How much did I charge my husband to give him our second baby? 0.99
00:01:48.080 First up, we have a customized pink G-Wagon as my push present for giving him a baby girl.
00:01:53.560 Okay, push present.
00:01:54.480 Okay, interesting.
00:01:55.520 These days, push present.
00:01:57.940 How many times I said, you know, screamed in pain, etc.
00:02:02.080 But anyways, let's go with it.
00:02:02.980 So let's say £250,000 for that car.
00:02:05.420 Let's carry on.
00:02:05.860 And, of course, I need a nice ride when I'm going to be going out with her.
00:02:09.940 $2 million on a new home because our family is obviously getting bigger and we need more space.
00:02:16.340 Fantastic.
00:02:16.960 Let's add that.
00:02:17.580 So that's £2 million.
00:02:20.120 There we go.
00:02:21.100 Fantastic.
00:02:21.800 So far, quarter of...
00:02:25.560 We're nearly on £2.5 million.
00:02:28.240 Yep, let's carry on.
00:02:29.360 $1 million on renovations and interior design to change the lighting, flooring,
00:02:34.060 and also to make a customized pool because I'm not leaving the house to go swimming.
00:02:38.720 Interesting.
00:02:39.440 So we've got nearly half the price of the house on renovation.
00:02:42.680 So that's £1 million.
00:02:44.760 Okay, we're already at £3 million.
00:02:46.280 Let's carry on.
00:02:47.520 It's going to look so good.
00:02:49.260 $100,000 on eight Dior bags for her collection.
00:02:53.400 Okay, interesting.
00:02:54.360 The baby's got a collection of bags.
00:02:57.200 So it's £100,000.
00:02:59.680 And before I carry on, inshallah, I ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to protect them,
00:03:03.660 protect their marriage, protect their income.
00:03:07.720 I wish nothing but the best for them.
00:03:09.340 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala give them more. 0.92
00:03:12.100 I just got some nasir for them, inshallah.
00:03:13.380 So I just want to make that clear, inshallah.
00:03:14.320 We should make dua from sisters, alhamdulillah. 0.97
00:03:17.420 There is nothing wrong with them earn this income, etc.
00:03:20.980 It's just I have other issues, which I'm going to come to, inshallah.
00:03:22.940 So may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect them from evil eyes, sihr, 1.00
00:03:25.500 and protect their marriage, protect their child.
00:03:27.500 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make their children righteous children, inshallah. 0.80
00:03:32.080 That'll be a sadaqah jari for them when they have gone, 1.00
00:03:33.980 which we know is a sadaqah jari, inshallah.
00:03:35.740 Let's carry on.
00:03:36.680 And $80,000 on a new Van Cleve collection for her
00:03:39.820 because she's going to be taking this down the generations 1.00
00:03:42.600 and passing it on because it's so timeless.
00:03:44.880 Okay, so for £80,000.
00:03:48.080 £80,000, great.
00:03:50.100 $10,000 on daily postpartum massages for a month for me and baby girl
00:03:54.540 because I need to recover from giving birth.
00:03:56.920 Okay, £10,000 daily for a month.
00:04:00.420 So let's say there's 30 days, that's £300,000.
00:04:03.840 Fantastic.
00:04:04.320 And a monthly budget of $50,000 for her wardrobe.
00:04:10.400 Fantastic.
00:04:11.100 £50,000 monthly.
00:04:14.360 I don't know how long this wardrobe will continue for going for,
00:04:16.400 but let's say it goes for half a year for that matter.
00:04:18.980 So that's another £300,000, if I'm not mistaken.
00:04:22.760 To spend on designer clothing, of course.
00:04:25.560 How cute are these clothes?
00:04:27.280 Honestly, I was so obsessed.
00:04:29.080 $200,000 on this customised tennis bracelet that I got made for her.
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00:04:51.620 Interesting.
00:04:52.120 So, alhamdulillah, you know, there's stuff being bought for the baby.
00:04:55.520 And I don't know when the baby can wear this stuff.
00:04:57.640 I find it a little bit bizarre.
00:04:58.560 You're buying stuff.
00:04:59.180 It's like me buying, saying, I'm buying my son a size 10 trainers.
00:05:05.920 I'm not trying to be funny.
00:05:08.560 I'm so sorry.
00:05:09.780 Wallah, genuinely, I'm trying not to be funny.
00:05:12.120 But it's like, you're buying these necklaces and stuff like that.
00:05:15.420 I mean, it's like me buying, like, this is a card I'm going to buy for my child or whatever.
00:05:21.400 Like, I don't know.
00:05:22.080 I just find it a little bit weird.
00:05:25.320 But anyway, there's £200,000 on that necklace.
00:05:27.840 $70,000 on purchasing gold jewellery for her.
00:05:31.720 Because honestly, buying gold is an investment.
00:05:34.200 So it doesn't really count as shopping.
00:05:36.100 Fantastic.
00:05:36.700 £70,000 as well.
00:05:38.980 Perfect.
00:05:39.440 Last but not least, $150,000 on a personal driver and a new car for him to drive me around in.
00:05:46.600 Fantastic.
00:05:47.880 £150,000 on a personal car.
00:05:50.220 It all comes to nearly £4.5 million.
00:05:55.600 £4.5 million.
00:05:58.080 Now, in order to be spending that kind of amount, you have to be a...
00:06:02.120 I would say nearing to the billionaire.
00:06:04.880 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:05.240 You have to be a multi-millionaire.
00:06:08.260 Multi-millionaire.
00:06:10.180 Now, obviously there's been some things, accusations again in Islamic study.
00:06:14.680 I have to be careful about the accusations about him and his finances and etc.
00:06:17.800 That he had to go to Dubai.
00:06:19.000 I don't know the ins and outs.
00:06:20.220 I do not care.
00:06:21.160 As far as I know, these are all made-up lies.
00:06:23.980 Forget that.
00:06:25.020 We know very clearly.
00:06:26.280 In the Quran, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in Surah Al-Araf, verse 31.
00:06:30.540 We say, so children of Adam, take your adornment at every masjid and eat and drink. 1.00
00:06:35.280 But do not go to extravagance.
00:06:36.580 Indeed, he does not like those who commit extravagance.
00:06:39.400 In a hadith, the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
00:06:41.240 He emphasized moderation in all things, including eating and ablution, wudu.
00:06:45.540 A hadith narrated by Abu Umama states that the worst Muslim are those who are extravagant in their food, clothing, and speech.
00:06:52.160 So, important, very important when it comes to extravagance.
00:06:57.060 Now, I'm going to go back to Yusuf alayhi wa sallam.
00:06:59.240 His dream that he had.
00:07:00.240 And his father told him to not even share it with his own siblings.
00:07:05.320 Let alone the dunya.
00:07:06.300 So, I hope, this family, I hope, and I assume the best, that you are not missing your salah. 0.99
00:07:12.540 Not a single salah.
00:07:14.020 I hope you guys are doing your adkar.
00:07:15.540 Because let me tell you something.
00:07:16.960 By looking at the comment section, let me tell you something.
00:07:18.860 There are so many people that are going to be envious, jealous, hating.
00:07:22.880 They're going to look for your downfall.
00:07:23.740 They're going to be wishing and waiting for the story of you guys divorced.
00:07:27.340 You lost everything.
00:07:28.280 Wallah, let me tell you something.
00:07:28.940 This is why it's so dangerous.
00:07:32.120 Because this is what's glamorized.
00:07:33.920 And you are aiding into that problem.
00:07:35.580 You are not only doing that and causing harm to yourself.
00:07:38.860 Because the unseen world is far more dangerous than the seen world.
00:07:42.280 So, you are not only causing danger for yourself.
00:07:44.740 But the argument I have to ask is, why are you doing it?
00:07:46.840 And I believe you guys are traders.
00:07:48.300 You say that you're traders.
00:07:49.140 I don't know the ins and outs, etc.
00:07:50.660 I'm not saying anyone's trader or not trade.
00:07:52.080 I don't know the ins and outs.
00:07:53.320 To me, this is a marketing campaign.
00:07:54.600 This is a full-blown marketing campaign.
00:07:56.120 I personally do not believe that you spent four and a half million pounds on the child.
00:08:01.260 I think these are things that you guys were already going to do.
00:08:03.480 Buy in a house, whatever, etc.
00:08:04.280 And I don't believe you spend those amounts.
00:08:06.280 I do not believe that.
00:08:07.320 It could be that it's like you were already doing it and you used it for a marketing campaign.
00:08:10.840 That's to me.
00:08:11.880 And if I'm not mistaken, I even got a message from our dear brother's wife pertaining to trading.
00:08:16.460 I got a message randomly.
00:08:17.220 I didn't know what it was about.
00:08:18.240 And I think she was randomly messaging people to do trading, etc.
00:08:20.540 I think I just said, alaykum as-salam, a question mark.
00:08:23.400 I didn't understand.
00:08:24.240 So you can see clearly they are, and I don't know where that message is.
00:08:27.380 A long time ago, I have no idea where it is.
00:08:29.040 Yes, but I got the message.
00:08:30.540 Yes.
00:08:31.300 And I think what the wife is doing is she's selling these things on how to trade, etc. 0.95
00:08:35.840 So to me, this is how they make money.
00:08:37.460 So I don't think they go out there and say, I'm going to show my kids and just know.
00:08:40.280 They are saying, this is how we make money.
00:08:42.800 And we have to show you that because there's so many gullible people out there.
00:08:45.700 And I'm not saying their method not works.
00:08:47.780 I don't know.
00:08:48.480 But I have to be on the safe side and say there are a lot of people out there who sell courses
00:08:52.240 and become millionaires because of selling those courses.
00:08:54.060 So they're like, oh, you have to become a millionaire.
00:08:55.280 No, they actually become a millionaire because of selling courses.
00:08:57.560 Again, I don't know the ins and outs.
00:08:58.800 I don't want to go into, you know, assumptions.
00:09:00.980 What I'm saying is, guys, there's so many people out there who, look, and this is why
00:09:04.920 contentment is so key.
00:09:06.520 That's what Allah says in the Quran.
00:09:08.080 If you are grateful, Allah will increase you.
00:09:10.100 But Allah doesn't say what he will increase you in.
00:09:12.040 He can increase you in further contentment that you're unhappy with.
00:09:15.200 But let me tell you something, brothers and sisters.
00:09:17.240 Please, please, do not look at these individuals and start comparing your husband.
00:09:23.520 Now, this is a fitna for the woman. 1.00
00:09:25.600 You, my dear sister, are causing a fitna to households. 0.99
00:09:29.640 You know why?
00:09:30.060 Why? Because women like adornment. 1.00
00:09:31.740 They love everything that you have there.
00:09:32.940 Alhamdulillah, may Allah increase you and give you more.
00:09:35.040 You are causing fitna.
00:09:37.160 Why? Because, look, as men, we are visual creatures.
00:09:40.240 Yes?
00:09:40.800 When a man sees a beautiful woman, his eyes, you cannot help him.
00:09:43.920 This is the weakness of a man.
00:09:45.360 That's why Allah says, tell them, believe the man to lower his gaze. 0.99
00:09:47.380 And with a woman, what is it? 1.00
00:09:49.040 It is adornment of the dunya.
00:09:50.760 I want this and that, etc.
00:09:51.940 And that's why so many marriages break down because of ungrateful women for that matter. 1.00
00:09:55.920 Sadly, which is what?
00:09:57.200 They, like the Prophet ï·º said,
00:09:58.340 I went to the hellfire and I saw the majority of the inhabitants of Saul. 0.99
00:10:00.900 Who?
00:10:01.320 Woman.
00:10:01.740 Why?
00:10:02.080 Because of the ingratitude to the husband. 0.98
00:10:03.760 The husband will do good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good.
00:10:07.200 One bath, I've never seen anything good from you.
00:10:09.520 This is adeem.
00:10:10.940 And what do you do?
00:10:11.920 It's like, imagine.
00:10:13.640 This is a fitna for the woman. 1.00
00:10:14.680 Imagine if I was walking around with my bank balance on my forehead.
00:10:17.580 Most of the, I'll be honest with you, no one will look at me because my bank balance is not that great at all.
00:10:21.820 But I'm saying, imagine I was worth 7.3 million pounds.
00:10:25.100 That will cause a fitna for all the other men who are married, yes, who do not have those means.
00:10:31.140 And their wives happen to come and see.
00:10:32.960 They're not lowering the gaze.
00:10:33.540 They look and go, oh my gosh, she's worth 7.1 million. 0.99
00:10:35.420 In fact, if I was married to her, my life would have been a bit different.
00:10:38.700 This is what happens with men.
00:10:39.780 And when they're out and they see women who are beautifying themselves excessively. 0.96
00:10:45.340 And they're thinking, oh my gosh, you know, she has something that my wife doesn't have.
00:10:48.900 It causes fitna.
00:10:50.660 And you are outrightly, openly doing this because you're trying to make money, whatever's the matter.
00:10:54.200 You're causing fitna.
00:10:55.280 So there's the dangers of sehr that will affect your house.
00:10:57.740 And I ask Allah to protect you.
00:10:58.860 Do you adhkar?
00:10:59.600 Do you not miss your salah, guys?
00:11:00.880 Make sure you give in sadaqah 4.5 million pounds.
00:11:04.920 And again, I'm not going to come and say you could have given that to charity.
00:11:06.880 Of course you could have.
00:11:07.380 I'm going to assume that you guys, if you give 4.5 million pounds, I certainly hope.
00:11:11.160 And you guys know best yourself very well.
00:11:13.920 I certainly hope you give, if not, maybe 20% or whatever that amount to charity.
00:11:19.500 I genuinely assume the best in you guys.
00:11:21.460 But I'm sure you guys are very charitable and they give more.
00:11:23.800 That's another thing.
00:11:24.920 Now, in totality, like you look at the comment section.
00:11:28.420 Wallahi, let me be honest with you.
00:11:29.460 People are hating on you guys.
00:11:31.880 Look, let me tell you something.
00:11:32.800 Look, I'm going to show you guys.
00:11:35.360 Let's read some comments. 0.83
00:11:37.380 This is beyond disgusting.
00:11:40.320 So, motherhood has a price tag. 0.75
00:11:42.300 Now, great.
00:11:43.120 Alhamdulillah, in Islam, it tells a man to take care of his wife.
00:11:45.820 Money can't buy class.
00:11:47.760 While children in Gaza, Yemen, Syria and Sudan, they are starving to death.
00:11:50.800 Again, I don't deem this to be valid.
00:11:53.260 If you can have evidence that they spend 4.5 million and don't give the people charity,
00:11:57.520 this is valid.
00:11:58.040 But I believe they give maybe millions in charity.
00:12:00.820 I assume the best in them.
00:12:02.060 Okay.
00:12:02.680 My only question is, why did you feel the need to post this on social media?
00:12:05.760 Seriously, what was the point of bringing all this information?
00:12:08.020 Do you see people are struggling?
00:12:10.120 And you're only making their life more miserable.
00:12:12.540 And this is why it's so important to be content.
00:12:14.520 Don't look at social media information.
00:12:15.820 Destroy your marriages.
00:12:17.400 Especially sisters. 0.98
00:12:18.260 So, this is a very uncalculated, what's it called?
00:12:24.840 Irresponsible behavior from you, my sister.
00:12:26.320 With all your respect.
00:12:27.140 Okay.
00:12:27.740 And one thing that I would say to women who are trying to have a lifestyle that they would die to. 1.00
00:12:33.300 Let me be honest with you.
00:12:34.280 And I'm just giving this, I'll be very clear.
00:12:36.680 A man like that who earns that kind of income, most certainly he does not have one wife.
00:12:42.140 Most certainly, he does not have one wife.
00:12:45.100 Let me be honest with you guys.
00:12:45.840 Because if you're a multi-millionaire, you have any woman, let me tell you something. 0.78
00:12:50.720 The woman who talk about, oh no, you guys will jump and sacrifice your left arm to be married to a man like that. 1.00
00:12:56.580 Yes?
00:12:57.040 Okay, someone of social influence, let alone get so many women who want to marry him, etc.
00:13:01.180 If you're a Muslim or, you know, girls who are just throwing their self at him just for one night stands, whatever. 0.93
00:13:05.260 Believe me, sisters, you do not.
00:13:06.960 That's why it's so important.
00:13:08.740 Do not ever ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that I want this. 0.99
00:13:11.760 You do not know.
00:13:12.540 Allah says you might hate something which is good for you and you might love something which is bad for you.
00:13:16.540 Always be content with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that has decreed for you. 0.94
00:13:19.340 You know why?
00:13:19.860 It's so important.
00:13:20.840 Because you know why?
00:13:21.600 Because you don't know.
00:13:22.440 You know nothing about their marriage.
00:13:24.800 You don't know the ups and downs.
00:13:26.320 You know nothing.
00:13:27.980 So instead of making like we had the whole hasanat situation, subhanahu wa ta'ala, probably they've repented.
00:13:31.280 You know, and his wife.
00:13:32.480 People go, oh Allah, give me a wife, like a husband, like a awudu billah.
00:13:36.080 If you imagine the well got answered.
00:13:37.380 This is the issue.
00:13:38.960 We look at a glimpse of a video that's 30 seconds and we judge it and say I want something like this.
00:13:44.140 Let me tell you something.
00:13:45.040 Yes, a man like that, most certainly he has a couple of wives.
00:13:48.720 Most, let me tell you something.
00:13:49.800 Spending four and a half million pounds on a baby.
00:13:53.280 On this amazing baby, may Allah bless and preserve her.
00:13:56.100 Oh my gosh, let me tell you something.
00:13:58.000 Best believe that man has multiple wives. 0.99
00:14:00.280 Best believe.
00:14:01.660 And it's alhamdulillah hala.
00:14:03.520 Alhamdulillah hala.
00:14:04.100 So guys, I mean there might be some women that are saying, you know what, if the price is right, you know, we don't mind sharing a husband. 0.98
00:14:08.960 You know, as long as it's the price is right, you know.
00:14:10.820 Women are more polygamous than us, you know, when it comes to the price is right with the right man. 1.00
00:14:13.960 That's all I have to say inshallah.
00:14:14.860 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect you guys.
00:14:16.620 And I ask these brother and sister who are married, please be careful and cautious.
00:14:23.700 Because at the end of the day, this can come to bite you at the end.
00:14:27.700 May Allah protect you guys.
00:14:28.760 This was going to say from myself to you guys.
00:14:30.380 Till next time.
00:14:31.020 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
00:14:32.700 Do not forget to download the Salah Pro app.
00:14:34.380 It's absolutely free.
00:14:35.040 We're a charity.
00:14:36.500 And may Allah bless and preserve you guys.
00:14:38.060 Goodbye.