Ali Dawah - MESSAGE TO MODESTY STREETS DAUGHTER

00:00:00.000 also i had left my mom's house not because of anything other than the fact that it was a toxic

00:00:03.960 environment and it was not good for my mental health brothers and sisters please donate as we

00:00:10.520 have come together one ummah to get the necessary aid needed to palestine and gaza donate now

00:00:15.960 inshallah wherever you can and allow us to reach that aid with one ummah to our brothers and

00:00:20.120 sisters in palestine one day palestine will be free assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:00:24.960 brothers and sisters and dear friends when it comes to issues like this pertaining to individuals

00:00:28.660 their family members etc it's not something that i like to get into it's nothing to do with me

00:00:32.840 it doesn't concern me and i try to stay away from stuff like that but when i see a reoccurring pattern

00:00:37.880 of ungrateful kids ungrateful children especially towards their parents in today's time like the

00:00:42.960 prophet ma'am said a day would come where the woman the mother will be giving birth to her slave master

00:00:49.040 some of the scholars understood this as that she'll be giving birth to a child who'll be telling her

00:00:54.460 what to do you know who'll be bossing her around like a slave so we see this in current times 1.00

00:00:58.200 alhamdulillah the prophet peace be upon him spoke the haq today i'm going to share with you guys

00:01:01.200 inshallah what's going on with our sister modesty street i think that's what she's called uh we're

00:01:05.300 going to be talking about inshallah her daughter who's left the house now why am i talking about

00:01:08.560 this i'm talking about this because i want this to be a lesson for everyone for that matter it's

00:01:12.520 not pertaining to these individuals anytime i speak about a specific individual i'm actually

00:01:15.600 talking to a wider audience i'm talking to thousands if not millions of people who are going

00:01:18.720 to go through this this can be something that affects my house yes this can be something that affects

00:01:21.620 your house this is something that affects our children and you watching this who as a young

00:01:25.360 individual this will affect you and you should watch this very very carefully and listen okay

00:01:29.140 so we're going to get straight into it yeah this came out in public i don't know if the

00:01:32.360 her daughter came out publicly or vice versa my wife saw this yeah i don't know nothing about it

00:01:37.700 my wife saw it and said look did you hear about this etc she was a bit disturbed as well she was

00:01:41.220 like you know it's sad it's sad to see these things happen and for it to go public it's even more

00:01:45.080 sad however i'm going to come and touch on a few stuff and i'm going to get straight into

00:01:48.840 what the cause of the problem i believe is generally not specific to this family

00:01:52.500 and that what are the rights of a mother and father specifically a mother in this incident

00:01:57.260 let's first hear the recording of her daughter yeah i'm going to blur her face the reason i'm 1.00

00:02:01.540 going to blur her face is number one again just her identity number two because she's just got too 0.98

00:02:06.100 much makeup she's 17 years old you're 17 years old and you've got eyelashes you've got so much

00:02:10.260 makeup going on okay okay etc so i i'm just gonna uh blur that inshallah but let's just watch and hear

00:02:15.740 for ourselves i've tried keeping this off of social media for like the past seven months but now it's

00:02:20.420 completely getting out of hand so as you guys may know my mom has publicly addressed me on social

00:02:23.620 media a few times and i just want to start off by saying i don't want to slander my mom in any way

00:02:28.080 matter of fact i don't want any form of scandal because i just hate being problematic and i just

00:02:32.100 wish it never came to this obviously i never wanted to make this video but because so many rumors have

00:02:36.980 surfaced online i just felt as though i needed to say my part online my mom mentioned a sum of

00:02:41.000 £5,940 no i didn't steal it from her i worked to get that money and it was later then taken out of my

00:02:46.320 account by her and her husband over the past couple of weeks i've been attempting to getting

00:02:50.640 contact with her privately um literally just requesting for that doesn't make any sense

00:02:55.340 sorry i'm not i'm not with it right now um i basically contacted her just politely requesting

00:02:59.660 for my money back my mom however responded online for thousands of people to see which i think is

00:03:05.480 completely unnecessary yesterday when i messaged her pretty much asking how my siblings were

00:03:08.760 and whether or not she had even seen my previous messages i was then pretty much sworn out and was told

00:03:13.260 to get lost and that's when i said have a nice life and keep making tawaf for me i think what i

00:03:17.660 said was completely taken out of context and what i meant by that message was me not genuinely

00:03:21.060 understanding how she can go to umrah make tawaf for me but then post it to social media

00:03:25.420 whereas she could have literally just reached out to me to tell me that she made tawaf for me or to

00:03:28.920 like ask me how things are do you know what i mean i didn't in any way mean to come across as

00:03:33.560 though i was disrespecting tawaf i was just shocked because she was mean to me on text but when it came to

00:03:38.540 her going to umrah she posed doing a tawaf with your red love heart do you know what i mean also i had left my

00:03:42.820 mom's house not because of anything other than the fact that it was a toxic environment and it was

00:03:47.100 not good for my health i don't want to get into too much detail but no i didn't leave to be with

00:03:51.460 some guy i left for the sake of my sanity and my well-being anyways guys i'm gonna leave it here i am

00:03:55.860 so tired it's 5 a.m now and obviously wedding season and that if you know you know anyways take care of

00:04:00.740 yourselves guys so now guys i'm gonna get straight into it we were talking about tawaf okay i want to touch

00:04:05.580 up on this okay uh in a way where we really need to understand there is great amounts of disrespect

00:04:09.960 happening towards our parents by immature childish uh entitled spoiled a brat now i'm not referring

00:04:17.500 to her i'm saying in general that's what's happening but talking about tawaf and that your

00:04:22.780 mom did tawaf for you yeah you should thank allah subhanahu wa ta'ala my sister i don't know what your

00:04:26.560 name is that your mother yes your mother has gone to tawaf and doing tawaf for you and it's clearly

00:04:30.780 evidence of the quran and sunnah that you can do this the fact that she's doing that for you number two

00:04:34.300 it reminds me of an instance of abdullah ibn umar he saw once talking about tawaf yeah he saw a man

00:04:39.700 carrying his mother on his shoulders or in his hands he was carrying because she was old and he

00:04:45.340 was doing tawaf and once he finished tawaf he came to abdullah ibn umar and he asked this very simple

00:04:49.740 question did i pay back my mom for what she has done for me do you know what abdullah ibn umar said

00:04:55.200 he said you did not pay her back for the one off she said when she was giving birth to you i'll repeat

00:05:02.060 again you did not pay her back you know that tawaf that you've done seven times carrying her it was

00:05:07.120 really hard yeah you did not pay her back probably for one off she said in pain when she's giving birth

00:05:13.060 to you how could anyone for that matter i'm gonna go with the default position let's suppose your

00:05:17.300 mother is a very very evil person which i doubt she is okay and i just want to make something clear

00:05:21.360 i have no affiliation with the sister i do not know her so i don't want to come across as i'm just

00:05:24.700 defending i'm defending the truth i'm defending whoever it is for that matter for the sake of allah

00:05:28.420 i don't agree with everything the sister does i don't know much about her

00:05:31.320 anyways just cut into the chase you need to understand something my dear sister you're 17

00:05:35.480 years old i have to blur your face because you're caked up you've got eyelashes they are quite big

00:05:39.920 you're saying you're doing this video five in the morning you're doing it five in the morning

00:05:43.620 why have you got so much makeup on five in the morning look at your nails look at your eyelashes

00:05:47.640 now before somebody feminist getting a tantrum and she can do what she likes ripping your hair out 1.00

00:05:51.320 you can rip your hair out go to turkey and get hair transplant okay i do not care about anyone on 1.00

00:05:55.980 their penis okay 17 years old and the way you're dressed etc blah blah blah this is why it's so so 0.99

00:06:00.800 important brothers and sisters very very vital and once again i want to give a disclaimer i'm not 0.97

00:06:04.520 seeing no one our sister didn't do a good parenting etc she's made her own side where she talks about

00:06:09.740 putting boundaries in place and in today's age when there's boundaries in place it's as classed as

00:06:14.680 toxicity yes it's this this toxic energy or whatever you want to call it for that matter today

00:06:19.960 kids label labels are used yeah and the word narcissism i've heard the word narcissism from left right

00:06:25.620 center everyone's a narcissist yeah toxic toxic negative energy or toxic energy etc what's toxic

00:06:31.000 energy these days oh when mom comes and tells you don't do this don't hang around with those

00:06:35.240 people they're not good for you don't hang around with them they're not good for you warning you trying

00:06:39.280 to guide you your mother wants the best for you okay and i'm going to go through a few evidences

00:06:43.140 where the quran and sunnah allah told us in the quran that after you worship him you do not even say

00:06:48.520 off to your mom your parents you don't say off to them yeah let me tell you something my dear sister

00:06:53.240 do not ever ever think that you will ever have prosperity in your life if your mom on your father

00:06:59.520 or your father's displeased with you specifically your mother if they are displeased with you

00:07:02.780 wallahi uksum billah i swear upon the rab of the kaaba that your mom did tawafin wallahi you will 0.52

00:07:09.820 never see any prosperity and i'm telling you from an experience that i know of people whose lives are ruined

00:07:15.720 till this day because they would insult their mother the prophet ma'am said may his face be

00:07:21.380 rubbed in dust may his face be rubbed in dust may his face be rubbed in dust for the parent for a child

00:07:27.540 whose parent reached old age and it doesn't look after them if we cannot today no matter what your

00:07:32.640 mom has done unless she's put put your life in danger or some kind of which i highly doubt okay

00:07:37.360 she is your mother okay no matter what happens for you to leave home for you to leave home look you live

00:07:42.840 in the uk you can do whatever you like but for you to leave home it's a disrespect to your mother

00:07:46.480 and for your mom who from her side of the story again okay for her to say that she's been saving

00:07:51.300 up for you with her money her wealth that she's been doing it for you and your well-being i would 0.95

00:07:55.580 say you're 17 year old you are making the biggest mistake in your life okay you are making the biggest

00:07:59.840 mistake in your life and you will come to that realization and let me tell you my dear young

00:08:02.780 sister your friends around you none of them care about you none of them care about you trust me i know

00:08:08.700 i've been young i've been with friends who i would fight for who have got done all kinds of madness

00:08:13.200 for and when the day came one day i got jumped none of my friends were there your friends will not be

00:08:17.940 there for you the ones who truly love you is your mother your father your siblings okay amongst all

00:08:22.640 of them it's allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and the prophet muhammad peace be upon him

00:08:26.200 put them first i want to recommend the book to you called beauty sick the reason i'm saying this is

00:08:29.580 because the fact that i see your nails i see your eyelashes i see the way your makeup and it's five in the

00:08:33.920 morning it's the sickness of beauty okay my dear sister you're a muslim woman okay i honor you like

00:08:39.320 my younger sister like my daughter okay i'm telling you something listen to your mom return back to your

00:08:44.720 house this is just a request it's not a legal thing no proceedings in place apologize i would say go and

00:08:49.600 kiss your mother's feet wallahi let me tell you something before islam i used to be very harsh to 1.00

00:08:53.940 my mom i used to be very rude to my mom i never listened to my mom wallahi when i came to islam 0.69

00:08:58.240 wallahi when i came to islam and my mother knows wallahi i came to my realization society made me

00:09:03.840 something i wasn't i didn't respect my mom my mom had endless nights worrying where i am am i dead

00:09:08.020 am i alive so much worries wallahi i regret those till this day and i do everything in my power to

00:09:13.400 serve my mother and i'm still not a good son and i'm still not good of a son i'm telling you as a

00:09:18.040 individual maybe could be old enough to be your father yes i think i'm old enough to be your father

00:09:21.640 if i had a kid at 17 yes you should be 17 years old but the point is this go back to your mom

00:09:26.760 and b say i'm sorry ask her forgiveness yes this is my recommendation to you okay but please wallahi

00:09:34.940 i'm telling you allah subhanahu wa ta'ala of not of man one of the tabiin said when his mother died he

00:09:40.180 cried he said my doors to jannah have been closed wallahi you will never ever get a mother nobody will

00:09:46.860 ever replace your mother and wallahi something my mom would say to me she would say to me the day you

00:09:51.860 have kids you will say to me you see my mom will say that i will tell her oh mom you have not loved

00:09:57.340 me enough meaning that your love to your own kids will be so great you will think that you would

00:10:02.040 expect your mom to love you more if that makes sense yeah so the point is what you will never get

00:10:06.580 another mother yes and obey your mom there is many hadith and quran hadith uh ayahs in this like we know

00:10:12.560 the prophet ma'am al-fim in front of the narrator of abu huraira a man came and said who has more right

00:10:16.240 over me he said your mother then who he said your mother then who he said your mother then who he said

00:10:20.880 then your father then your father yes this doesn't mean we respect our fathers read the book

00:10:26.040 al-adab al-mufraq you might not know basic principles etiquettes how to treat your parents

00:10:30.340 your father your mother wallahi if you want blessings i speak to everyone anybody that wants

00:10:35.680 blessings and prosperity in your life if you disobey your parents if you make your parents upset

00:10:40.760 wallahi i'm telling you your life will be in misery you will not see any barakah in your life 0.87

00:10:47.120 and i'll end on this so much so the prophet peace be upon even said a form of jihad is what's serving

00:10:53.920 your parents there was a man who came to offensive jihad and he said i left my parents weeping to come

00:10:59.620 and join the course he said go back and make them happy and smile just the way you made them cry

00:11:05.560 yes go back and there are many many hadith your mother looked after you yes your mother carried

00:11:12.520 you she had endless sleepless nights to look after you she suckled you yes when you was helpless 0.98

00:11:20.040 she had to change your nappies and you today have grown and all of a sudden miss independent

00:11:26.460 and all of a sudden you might see there's an attack i'm saying this because i care about you my sister

00:11:30.620 i say this because i care about you my sister okay i have no affiliation with your mother i do not know

00:11:35.720 i've i've met her her and her brother once yes other than that wallahi al-adhim allah is my witness

00:11:40.580 i do not expect anything from her nothing i'm not doing this video for nothing but that it hurts me

00:11:46.480 to see this video and my wife showed it wallahi my wife even said to me can you imagine maybe our

00:11:51.400 daughters that grow up one day this might happen to us and wallahi it can that's why allah says he will

00:11:57.240 test us with our children no alayhi salam was tested with his own son yes and guidance is from

00:12:02.300 allah subhanahu wa ta'ala brothers and sisters anytime this order happens in your house look

00:12:07.060 internally what sins are you committing what riba are you involved in what major sins who did you

00:12:12.580 oppress wallahi let me tell you something it is these things that generally is the reason why we see

00:12:17.920 disorder sometimes it's a test sometimes no alayhi salam can we blame no alayhi salam no it was a test

00:12:23.200 so i ask allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to make it easy on the sister with his daughter with her daughter

00:12:28.040 and i ask our young sister who is going through this wallahi do not make this mistake honor your

00:12:33.320 mother and your father both of them yes and the day will come where you will regret what you're doing

00:12:38.580 and i ask you gently and kindly return back to your house apologize to your mother and accept that she

00:12:45.020 has boundaries and there should be boundaries my dear mother's parents who are watching this fix your

00:12:51.420 children at a young age because if you don't and once again disclaimer i'm not accusing anybody of

00:12:56.940 not doing that i'm just saying generally if we do not install the deen and the love of allah subhanahu

00:13:02.960 wa ta'ala and the quran in our children do not be surprised when they grow up they go astray and this

00:13:08.940 can happen to households which already do that i'm saying try your best make dua ask allah when you see

00:13:14.500 things going wrong ask what mistakes have you done that has caused these things to happen in your house

00:13:19.800 okay these things happen and again it can be that a mother or a father who have raised their

00:13:24.440 children upright but they have gone astray like look alayhi salam and his his son many examples in

00:13:29.820 history but generally let's focus on this otherwise we are going to lose our kids to the system and they

00:13:34.860 are going to go and follow this and that and destroy their life wallahi that's all i have to say sorry 0.91

00:13:39.640 for blabbering on but at the end of the day this is something that i really really touch me uh and i really

00:13:45.140 hope that this affair is uh resolved inshallah and may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make it easy on them

00:13:48.580 anything i said wrong is for myself and shaitan anything good from is from allah and its messenger

00:13:52.700 uh to my young sister i am sorry if i come a compassionate i'm not going to go at you

00:13:56.220 but genuinely care about you please please i urge you go and speak to your mom um delete these videos

00:14:02.580 etc and wallahi if that happens and this is just a video of nasir reminder wallahi if needed i would

00:14:07.800 do this video as well but in nutshell i'm doing this because i want the wider audience to understand

00:14:12.740 this and i ask you guys to fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in backbiting and accusing things of she

00:14:17.860 left the house because of uh of a guy etc fear allah this is the honor of another woman this is slander

00:14:23.120 okay so

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Ali Dawah - December 31, 2023

MESSAGE TO MODESTY STREETS DAUGHTER

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