Ali Dawah


REACTING TO MUSLIMS LIKE US PART 2


Episode Stats

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

44


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the recent comments made by the Prime Minister, Abdulla Haq, about alcohol and women wearing the hijab. We also talk about the Queen Elizabeth and her relationship with the hijab and how she deals with it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Why don't we find out what we love about Britain and how our faith helps us to be the best that we can.
00:00:06.000 But what does that have to do with values?
00:00:08.000 How do we come from the opposite way?
00:00:10.000 Are we defining generally what Muslim values are?
00:00:14.000 Which is not to have boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:00:16.000 He's married.
00:00:17.000 That's always the same word.
00:00:18.000 Which is marriage.
00:00:19.000 Marriage.
00:00:20.000 I don't know.
00:00:21.000 God is clearly forbidden alcohol in the Quran.
00:00:22.000 How many Muslims do you know who don't drink?
00:00:24.000 So how many Muslims do you know who smoke ganja?
00:00:27.000 But it's not Islam, is it?
00:00:28.000 He's right.
00:00:29.000 I have made so many new non-Muslim friends.
00:00:33.000 By just feeding them.
00:00:34.000 Why do social act bring you curry?
00:00:36.000 Or bring you anything for you to think-
00:00:38.000 What's up?
00:00:39.000 It's funny the way he said that.
00:00:41.000 It's a good thing obviously if he-
00:00:42.000 Yeah.
00:00:43.000 The problem is culture.
00:00:44.000 The politicians shut up because he wants to talk about it.
00:00:46.000 Please stop.
00:00:47.000 There's a problem.
00:00:48.000 Okay, that part I think that's ridiculous.
00:00:50.000 What?
00:00:51.000 The fact that they're always trying to stop him.
00:00:53.000 Yeah?
00:00:54.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:00:55.000 It's absolutely ridiculous.
00:00:56.000 You know what?
00:00:57.000 Most of the time, I'm not going to lie to you.
00:00:58.000 Generally, a lot of people might disagree with this.
00:01:00.000 But generally, Abdu'l-Haq is saying what is actually from Islam.
00:01:05.000 On some things it's very extreme.
00:01:07.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:08.000 To be honest.
00:01:09.000 Like about going to Syria, I would go to Syria.
00:01:10.000 Yeah.
00:01:11.000 That's very extreme for him to say.
00:01:12.000 But for-
00:01:13.000 And that's wrong for him to say.
00:01:14.000 But for him to say, um, it's like alcohol is not halal.
00:01:18.000 And they're all like, oh, come on.
00:01:20.000 How many Muslims do you know you drink?
00:01:21.000 And they're stopping.
00:01:22.000 They don't want to hear what Islam actually says.
00:01:24.000 Like be yourself.
00:01:25.000 This is Islam.
00:01:26.000 It's our religion.
00:01:27.000 Free mixing is not permissible.
00:01:29.000 Now I'm not going to go and say, hey, don't go shopping center.
00:01:31.000 Go do that.
00:01:32.000 No.
00:01:33.000 That's going to extremes.
00:01:34.000 There's some things we need to understand.
00:01:35.000 I can't come and say, hey, it has to be like this.
00:01:38.000 If you're practicing like that, mashallah, good on you.
00:01:40.000 We respect that.
00:01:41.000 Yeah.
00:01:42.000 But people have different stages.
00:01:43.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:01:44.000 But if you go and say, oh, free mixing is okay.
00:01:47.000 Uh, alcohol is fine.
00:01:48.000 Yeah.
00:01:49.000 No, sorry mate.
00:01:50.000 Just say, it's not permissible.
00:01:52.000 However, we find a struggle, it's a struggle for us.
00:01:54.000 Yeah.
00:01:55.000 Abdul Haq, of all of them, has come from a place where he's seen all of that.
00:01:59.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:00.000 He's a revert one.
00:02:01.000 Yeah.
00:02:02.000 You know, he was a boxing champion.
00:02:03.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:02:04.000 Have I experienced Islamophobia though?
00:02:06.000 Not at all.
00:02:07.000 No.
00:02:08.000 That's because your wife are winning.
00:02:09.000 No one.
00:02:10.000 No.
00:02:11.000 No, no, no, no, no.
00:02:12.000 No, honestly.
00:02:13.000 No, no, no, no.
00:02:14.000 It's for many factors.
00:02:15.000 Probably some.
00:02:16.000 Okay, she has an extreme Islamophobia because she don't wear hijab like that outside.
00:02:20.000 No, that's not true.
00:02:21.000 She's not wearing a niqab outside.
00:02:22.000 She don't look like a Muslim.
00:02:23.000 Even if she's got a scarf on, she's an old woman.
00:02:25.000 She looks like, you know, the old women that be walking down the street.
00:02:27.000 They don't know that she's Muslim.
00:02:28.000 But a sister that's wearing niqab or hijab, obviously she's going to experience it more.
00:02:32.000 Because she looks like a Muslim.
00:02:34.000 From the outer appearance, she doesn't look like a Muslim.
00:02:35.000 She doesn't look like a Muslim.
00:02:36.000 Obviously she's a Muslim.
00:02:37.000 She's a Muslim, of course.
00:02:38.000 Of course.
00:02:39.000 Because that outer appearance is not.
00:02:40.000 And she's white as well.
00:02:41.000 Because maybe she looks like an old lady.
00:02:42.000 She looks like.
00:02:43.000 Even though it's Queen Elizabeth.
00:02:44.000 No, I know.
00:02:45.000 Exactly.
00:02:46.000 That's the reason.
00:02:47.000 Maybe she's not the right person to talk about her.
00:02:48.000 Who's going to be Islamophobic to her?
00:02:49.000 They were happy to live in Phil for five, six days.
00:02:51.000 I would tell them, let's clean, let's clean, let's clean.
00:02:53.000 They find out four non-Muslims are becoming.
00:02:55.000 Oh my God.
00:02:56.000 We don't find them to think we're dirty.
00:02:58.000 Let's clean.
00:02:59.000 Let's clean.
00:03:00.000 Oh my God.
00:03:01.000 Okay.
00:03:02.000 Okay.
00:03:03.000 Can you pause it here?
00:03:04.000 Yeah.
00:03:05.000 Now that sort of behavior now.
00:03:06.000 Abdul Haq.
00:03:07.000 Yeah.
00:03:08.000 He was very polite.
00:03:09.000 Yeah.
00:03:10.000 Let's judge it now.
00:03:11.000 He's very polite.
00:03:12.000 Yeah.
00:03:13.000 He's saying, I'm so sorry.
00:03:14.000 You know, I don't shake.
00:03:15.000 And smiling at her.
00:03:16.000 Yeah.
00:03:17.000 She turns around and walks off.
00:03:18.000 People are going to say he's extreme.
00:03:19.000 She's the extremist.
00:03:20.000 Yeah.
00:03:21.000 So the fact that he wants to practice religion and a part of his religion tells him he can't
00:03:23.000 touch another female's hand should be respected.
00:03:24.000 Yeah.
00:03:25.000 Just as the Jewish people were either just there, Stanford Hill, they have their own schools,
00:03:27.000 their everything, their own police, everything.
00:03:28.000 Yeah.
00:03:29.000 You have to respect that.
00:03:30.000 They have solar, their own ambulance service.
00:03:31.000 Everything.
00:03:32.000 Everything.
00:03:33.000 Do you know what I'm trying to say?
00:03:34.000 So when a Muslim does it, why is it abnormal?
00:03:35.000 You know, there was one Jewish guy who was going to Israel, I think, and he wrapped himself
00:03:37.000 in a bag in a plane.
00:03:38.000 Yeah.
00:03:39.000 Yeah.
00:03:40.000 Yeah.
00:03:41.000 Yeah.
00:03:42.000 Yeah.
00:03:43.000 Yeah.
00:03:44.000 Yeah.
00:03:45.000 Yeah.
00:03:46.000 Yeah.
00:03:47.000 Yeah.
00:03:48.000 Yeah.
00:03:49.000 Okay.
00:03:50.000 Yeah.
00:03:51.000 Yeah.
00:03:52.000 Yeah.
00:03:53.000 Yeah.
00:03:54.000 And he wrapped himself in a bag in a plane.
00:03:55.000 Because there was a woman next to him.
00:03:56.000 Yeah.
00:03:57.000 That's his belief.
00:03:58.000 You can't see it.
00:03:59.000 That's what it is.
00:04:00.000 See, when he walked in as well Prince William was here.
00:04:01.000 Ah.
00:04:02.000 Decides to go to war.
00:04:03.000 And it's going through all democracy and whether you like it or not our democracy functions.
00:04:06.000 No it doesn't.
00:04:07.000 Straight up.
00:04:08.000 He's right.
00:04:09.000 He has the point, yeah.
00:04:10.000 No, he's right.
00:04:11.000 War is war.
00:04:12.000 Yeah.
00:04:13.000 If you have a problem with war, war is war.
00:04:14.000 Killing innocent people, that's killing innocent people.
00:04:16.000 killing innocent people there's no hey they can do it we can't do you get it no one should do it
00:04:20.680 killing innocent muslims innocent people no one should do it no you know where he's right as well
00:04:25.720 yeah he's right where you need to understand that if someone's doing it that's wrong it's wrong just
00:04:30.580 because it's going through a democracy don't make it right
00:04:32.440 how about a muslim woman doesn't go out with another man even if it's alcohol or not alcohol
00:04:49.480 you know i'm trying to say she shouldn't come anyway it's it's simple as that there's nothing
00:04:54.580 oh how about you just invite for an orange juice instead no mate sorry
00:04:58.600 you can go to a milkshake bar you can go to i'm going to enjoy that how about he goes and proposes
00:05:06.400 to her uh dad for marriage yeah for marriage it wouldn't be allowed well except islam i have
00:05:14.200 once been to an anders once been to an anders did you say he's been nando's once did you say
00:05:20.260 this guy's been raised on it he's been poached eggs and okay i accept that and thank you but
00:05:26.500 um i do oppose that it offends you as a person it doesn't defend me as a person it's entirely
00:05:31.600 your decision i really reflect on the bill's views on this so with the greatest respect to
00:05:37.880 your father and to yourself i will be coming to stay that's okay a lot of people might watch and
00:05:41.560 say what what extremist so stupid should have went this that you have to understand that if i was
00:05:47.180 put in the opposite way and this guy was asked listen um your dad fought fighting your dad fought
00:05:54.100 fighting the kurds for example but now we want you to come to a kurdish memorial to pay your
00:05:59.200 respects to the kurds yeah it's gonna be like fam they killed my dad where you want me to come
00:06:04.360 so in the same way they like they killed our people you know you want us to come and pay our respects
00:06:09.800 for what do you get me so it's equal respect and they're not saying in a rude way they're just
00:06:15.680 saying we'd rather not so yeah on the other hand you know these people were conscripted i mean
00:06:20.460 that's something we don't do anymore so i guess britain's moved on a little bit in terms of
00:06:24.980 respecting people's rights and no it's moved on in terms of respecting people's rights there's no
00:06:30.080 subscription is what i'm getting at and now they're fighting with their free will yes and that's a
00:06:37.160 good thing it's a better thing so before they were forced to fight now they're fighting because
00:06:46.080 they want to fight yeah in theory that's a democratic decision oh and that makes it right
00:06:51.700 exactly people think democracy makes things right that's what i'm saying it's ridiculous it's a bunch
00:06:56.160 of a bunch of 20 people deciding what to do makes it right and then iraq happened yeah exactly it was
00:07:04.420 exactly iraq one million people killed innocent people i mean my wife's family are religious not
00:07:09.660 cultural so her family has been fantastic wow that's good that's amazing that's sick all she
00:07:15.980 is going to say they have been a nightmare that's really but generally you know a lot of people who
00:07:20.940 know about this you know from my standard or whatnot it just becomes a means to abuse so i've had people
00:07:26.480 messaging me saying that my wife's a nigger lover uh why did one of our sisters marry that my monkey
00:07:32.860 gorilla april i think i think that comes from you have to be totally uneducated you have to be you
00:07:38.860 know them you have to be no this is islam no this is islam the diversity is not making it look like
00:07:44.400 none of us actually know what islam is you see they're all disagreeing upon what islam is because
00:07:48.360 they most of them 99% of them are forgetting the basis of what is based on islam yeah islam isn't
00:07:55.160 your feeling islam is what's from the quran and the sunnah yeah he's bringing that forward and you're just
00:08:00.100 laughing at him because you think islam is something different which i don't know where
00:08:03.280 you're getting that from yeah the thing is that's their desires yeah their desires and obviously the
00:08:09.680 struggles of living in a western society and we can't conform exactly everything but the thing is
00:08:15.480 they're not even saying conform no that's what they're saying bro that's not islam yeah exactly
00:08:19.500 no that's desires look you can't say you can deny as much as you like islam is islam you know
00:08:24.820 yeah there's you can do whatever you like it's clear now i know like islam you know just like
00:08:30.260 this but i i i thought there was an arrogance in saying can i call you ferdinand well only if we
00:08:36.820 can call you jalaluddin who wanted to call her ferdinand who wanted to call her ferdinand i don't know man
00:08:46.020 but if you if my name is usman and you want to call me aussie then i should be if your name is tom i
00:08:51.060 should be able to call you jalaluddin i don't really believe in heaven and hell like that
00:08:55.540 okay no this is annoying now what did he say no no it's getting annoying what did he say i don't
00:09:00.740 really believe in heaven and hell but he said he doesn't believe in heaven and hell okay listen
00:09:04.980 man the show is called muslim like us if you're a muslim you should have basic fundamental beliefs
00:09:12.340 of muslims it's like saying christian like us and you got a guy that says i don't really believe in
00:09:18.420 jesus you know then you're not a christian mate but in the same way if you don't believe in heaven
00:09:23.300 and hell then what kind of muslim are you i believe in newer light and that's like heaven and dark
00:09:30.340 which is hell you just said you don't believe in heaven and hell i don't know man that's a bit
00:09:38.020 confusing just changed his mind i've never heard so much emphasis on heaven and hell where is the focus
00:09:45.220 of life the life you live the whole point is life is a test the whole point of life is so you can get
00:09:50.100 eternal paradise well it's about obeying the one who created you you know that's that's what it's
00:09:56.420 about i don't understand what she's talking about i don't think you can dominate the conversation
00:10:01.140 who the hell she's got this you know i think that she's been through this problem or she's been
00:10:05.940 yours is cultural she's you know those individuals yes for example they hate their culture so much
00:10:11.940 they started to think it's islam but wait every time you talk about something like she hates islam
00:10:15.780 yeah yeah i feel like she's idl bro yeah i feel like she's a member of idl listen we have got this
00:10:22.340 life and we choose to live it according to islam why because we're muslim no no why does she make it
00:10:26.980 seem like for me to live my life i have to go party drink do all this like why do i have to do that who
00:10:32.820 told you that that's the only definition of life i want to live my life like this submitting my will
00:10:37.940 to god almighty because i believe this is the actual true form of freedom instead of me conforming
00:10:43.140 to society and what they expect of me and living in some shackles that you can't see
00:10:48.260 so the shia believe in a prophet after the prophet muhammad and that negates the funding
00:10:52.820 because of this islam because no they don't um no they don't why did they come down bro he's confusing
00:10:59.060 shares with plazianis but anyway one who says that the prophet after the prophet muhammad
00:11:03.540 piece of the following he said to follow the sloan no one said that no one said that what's he
00:11:06.980 talking about can you appreciate why that might be hurtful for me that someone's saying all these
00:11:10.900 things about people who come from my background if someone says i'm a shia i'm going to
00:11:17.140 outside of what they believe that's that you have to ask yes yes if they curse the harbors
00:11:23.860 if they if they say that if he was saying that's what he said if they no no no no he said i'm going to
00:11:37.380 ask a shia what they say if a shia says i believe in cursing the sahaba yeah then he's saying then
00:11:43.540 you're a five-star grade equal far which is true if you curse the sahaba if let's not don't misconstruy
00:11:50.340 our words or his words if you curse the sahaba if you're a shia like this idea for example you
00:11:54.740 have some zaydis in sana in yemen yeah who are very close to this one now but they have some sort
00:11:59.460 of deviations yeah yeah then you can't call them go far you understand because they don't curse the
00:12:06.020 it's not black and white like a shia is a kafir it's not like that i was praying with his son
00:12:10.900 bunch of people come in shoot up the entire mosque all of the men die including the boys because
00:12:17.620 somebody believed that they're outside of the fold of islam and therefore they should die
00:12:22.500 that's wrong i also believe this is propaganda on the dbc's part against sunni islam yeah why are
00:12:28.180 they not saying that about shia islam about how he was sitting there and they sniper two people killing
00:12:32.900 children women who are pregnant shias in damage yeah so you need to understand that there's also
00:12:38.980 atrocities committed by shias why are they not highlighting that i feel like they have a malicious intent
00:12:43.860 against sunni islam because whenever nabil says something to do with sunni islam abdullak whoever
00:12:48.740 it is yeah they don't want to know but when they go party in karaoke yeah it's not funny innocent people
00:12:53.460 it's telling innocent people to sunni share whether it is so the fact that there's a shia is not fair
00:12:57.380 so the ideology to me is scary who told you that the person with why your your father's friend was killed
00:13:03.540 do you think that's wrong no actually no actually do you think it's wrong from my point of view i haven't
00:13:07.700 got any evidence for to say it wrong or right that you don't have the divine text evidence to say that
00:13:13.060 that is wrong no we don't need divine revelation to say that's wrong yeah i actually agree that it is
00:13:18.260 right and there is divine revelation if you kill any solaceous if you kill any innocent yeah yeah
00:13:28.420 see there you go see there you go come on this is this is this is this is it's an extreme look yeah
00:13:34.580 look we have to see that we are calling extreme sometimes you need to see that bro see that's
00:13:39.300 what i'm saying black and white how the hell is it like hey left to follow this context in
00:13:43.940 everything oh there's a context man there's a context there's there's a reason why it's in
00:13:48.740 place there's a non-muslim woman saying in front of you the shia girl saying in front of you yeah
00:13:52.500 you're saying the prophet said kill him it's not like that bro that's ridiculous it's too much man
00:13:58.340 you shouldn't do that man come on man that's frustrating look she's crying he's crying
00:14:08.420 it's very beautiful but i'm a london girl so the last thing i say to be british is greenery and
00:14:14.900 nature we have different views of what british is yours is a very more urban mine is a bit more
00:14:21.300 more what provincial a bit more sort of i don't know mine's city noise and you know kfc rappers on
00:14:30.260 the floor and things like what what he's just kidding okay okay okay
00:14:51.300 does that make a noise when i got back from my run this morning abdul unplugged his microphone and
00:14:58.900 asked if i had a microphone on and um said i just want you to know that you're the most
00:15:06.020 sincere person in this house and i don't think you should die and i said thanks for saying that
00:15:14.420 and then he left i love how um you know when he realized he's done a mistake yeah he'll be like
00:15:23.300 oh but i agree with nabeel you know i don't want people to say oh he's saying he loves him and oh
00:15:28.020 he loves everything he says no no it's not like that but i love like the way his character is you
00:15:31.700 know as a person um but i genuinely believe you know what nabeel was saying about him yeah sometimes
00:15:36.740 he says things but i don't think he knows what he's saying you know i think it's just like
00:15:40.020 memorise for that so much just to say it like it's just i think he's had a few brothers around him
00:15:43.780 that are a bit too excited yeah and oh it's about to go down brothers i love saga chicken oh can you
00:15:56.020 take what's saga chicken you know the green stuff with like saga aloo you know the green stuff like the
00:16:02.820 cv clubs can we do half and half because we made a girl bought a greenish my chicken oh right yeah
00:16:07.780 is that all right yeah so yeah those are my eyes are chopping up um just using any old thing
00:16:16.900 excuse me excuse me with my own pocket no nabeel don't get my face don't touch my stuff go away go away
00:16:23.460 maybe your mother didn't teach you not to touch other people's things
00:16:25.620 let's talk about my mother maybe you want to talk about my mother okay keep shouting no you
00:16:31.700 didn't talk about my mother yeah only you've got manners eh oh for god's sake she she's not always me
00:16:38.900 now what i don't like yeah okay what he said yeah she's got issues you know her she just it's like
00:16:43.780 she i'm telling you i think she's worse than edo i think she's well she kk
00:16:47.620 have i taken anyone to listen no this is not manners no we just don't touch my stuff man you're
00:16:53.620 taking my stuff you talk loud and you're abusive he was wrong like for a long time i was wrong yeah
00:16:59.220 he's wrong what the hell i can touch the guy's onions but it's my onions you get me you but he was
00:17:04.180 also wrong to cuss his mom he didn't cuss his mom yeah you know everyone's saying that he cussed his
00:17:10.180 mom he didn't because he said he's saying it like you know like if i talk like didn't your mom teach
00:17:13.780 you some manners no they weren't you taught manners yeah do you get me it's just
00:17:16.580 if it was gold as if he's gonna die with it what was he telling you it's idiots but why does it
00:17:22.660 matter they took his stuff he got upset about it now you're telling him to pee off stop because he
00:17:27.540 paid for it you're a that's right that's right oh wow yeah the doctor knows now i'll be a big man now
00:17:34.180 yeah yeah it's okay please oh my god oh my god i'm just gonna assume that the onions made
00:17:46.420 him cry that's all i'm just gonna see right you can't cry over onions oh you're gonna cry over
00:17:49.540 that you can't cry over onions but onions can make you cry i'm not trying to read
00:17:55.380 why would you cry over onions why would you cry over onions that's one job done
00:18:06.340 bro they just want palm onions
00:18:08.340 from the heart it was so painful for you to hear that yeah painful for you to hear that
00:18:12.900 painful for you to hear that
00:18:14.740 imagine someone swore at him bro in the kitchen what's this marine is getting her own halal makeover
00:18:21.300 what do you think that will have much better marshall much better obviously you didn't hear from
00:18:26.020 his other point of view from your point of view oh no i have no better
00:18:31.300 he's in there it's like he's getting married to her yeah but why did she do that it was okay
00:18:37.940 vinegar why did he put it no but it's an improvement in it i don't know no no why did they do that
00:18:41.620 like if she like to say something what you're wearing now is a lot more better than what was
00:18:45.860 wearing yesterday wear the hijab on your tongue oh that's a deep one wear the hijab on your tongue
00:18:52.740 that's that's it see that's why all people they got some hikmah that's true though man wear the
00:18:57.460 hijab on your tongue that's so true bro that's so true forget about that see that's the thing at
00:19:02.500 least it's a progress in it like her wearing hijab you know because one of the things there's a lot of
00:19:07.540 things you can learn from system you know there's a lot bro because you know and it's marine marine
00:19:13.780 whatever it's called yeah yeah no it's good because at least you having that step you get it then you
00:19:18.740 have people saying oh yeah you're going to dress up like that you might as well take it off but there's
00:19:22.660 everyone has their stage steps it's better than what you were in yesterday yeah exactly bro so if you
00:19:27.940 see someone wearing a turban hijab okay i i bet how many of you watch that and i bet the slums that they were
00:19:33.140 saying about her she's probably oh she's probably this a bit many people saying that please can i
00:19:37.460 thank you all for actually and this has been a wonderful integration in many ways so thank you
00:19:45.060 for allowing me we thank you too my mom my nana and my sister got together and sort them out i got
00:19:53.460 phone call and you're getting married by the way okay really thank you uh boy or a girl