Ali Dawah - December 31, 2022


WE ASK MEN ＂20 BODIES OR VIRGIN GIRL？＂ - SOCIAL EXPERIMENT


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Length

7 minutes

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238.50679

Word count

1,757

Sentence count

208

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Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

17

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In this episode, we talk about the difference between a 'Broke Virgin' and a 'Virgin' and the one who has no intimate partners but relies on you. Which one would you choose? Do you prefer the first option or the second?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 20 bodies, wealthy, every day.
00:00:02.000 The broken version.
00:00:03.000 I'm not, I'm going for the other one.
00:00:04.000 A millionaire.
00:00:05.000 20 bodies is mad.
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00:00:24.000 You have a girl that you're interested in, yeah?
00:00:27.000 She has 20 intimate partners she's been with before, but she's very wealthy.
00:00:31.000 And the second option is she has no intimate partners before, but she has no money.
00:00:36.000 She just relies on you.
00:00:37.000 Which one would you go for?
00:00:38.000 I think the second option.
00:00:39.000 Second option, which is basically the one who has no intimate partners, but relies on you.
00:00:43.000 Okay, why?
00:00:44.000 I mean, like, I'm not comfortable sleeping with another woman that had lots of partners before. 1.00
00:00:49.000 Okay, you have two options, yeah?
00:00:51.000 You have a woman who has no past, but is broke, relies on you. 1.00
00:00:54.000 No one.
00:00:55.000 So basically, she has no past, she's never been intimate with anyone.
00:00:57.000 She's a virgin.
00:00:58.000 Right.
00:00:59.000 And she's broke, she relies on you.
00:01:00.000 Second option, she's got 20 bodies, but she's very wealthy. 1.00
00:01:03.000 Which one would you go for?
00:01:04.000 20 bodies, wealthy, every day.
00:01:06.000 Okay, why, why, why?
00:01:07.000 Firstly, she knows herself.
00:01:09.000 Okay.
00:01:10.000 Secondly, she can pay for the nights out. 0.98
00:01:12.000 So, broken virgin still. 0.97
00:01:13.000 Yeah, I'll go for the broken virgin. 0.99
00:01:15.000 I'm not, I'm going for the other one. 0.83
00:01:16.000 You're going for the other one, yeah?
00:01:17.000 So, you have no problem that the woman of your, your wife has been with 20 mans, but she's rich. 0.53
00:01:22.000 Her past is her past, bro.
00:01:23.000 Millionaire.
00:01:24.000 Millionaire.
00:01:25.000 Okay, she's got 20 intimate partners.
00:01:26.000 20 intimate partners you carry on with?
00:01:28.000 She carries on with? 0.56
00:01:29.000 No, no, no, no, no.
00:01:30.000 They're from her past.
00:01:31.000 For her doesn't matter.
00:01:32.000 So, for you it doesn't matter, yeah?
00:01:33.000 Yeah.
00:01:34.000 Okay, no problem.
00:01:35.000 Thank you, that was it.
00:01:36.000 She is a virgin.
00:01:37.000 She's broke.
00:01:38.000 She relies on you.
00:01:39.000 Yeah.
00:01:40.000 Number two.
00:01:41.000 She's got 20 bodies. 1.00
00:01:42.000 She's been with 20 mans.
00:01:43.000 Your face change, you okay, buddy?
00:01:44.000 You want some deep oxygen, yeah?
00:01:45.000 No, no, no.
00:01:46.000 Should I repeat it?
00:01:47.000 No.
00:01:48.000 Yeah, nah, I can't lie.
00:01:49.000 I'm going with the first girl. 0.99
00:01:50.000 If she's broke and she's a virgin, then that's, that's me. 0.56
00:01:51.000 But if she's got 20 bodies and she's got money, then nah, nah. 1.00
00:01:53.000 Okay.
00:01:54.000 Can't do it.
00:01:55.000 What happened to you, bro?
00:01:56.000 Tell me.
00:01:57.000 I want you to elaborate.
00:01:58.000 20 bodies is mad, nah.
00:01:59.000 Don't love the number 20, but if it was a few less, I would like the fact-
00:02:02.000 Okay, no problem.
00:02:03.000 I enjoy the fact that she's got some experience and she's not coming to me like-
00:02:07.000 Okay, so let me get this right, yeah?
00:02:08.000 You don't mind that some next man- 0.86
00:02:10.000 Why is it next man?
00:02:11.000 Maybe it's great guys, like-
00:02:12.000 Okay, no problem.
00:02:13.000 10 great guys have been with a woman of your-
00:02:15.000 And they have given her that experience.
00:02:16.000 So you don't mind envisioning in your head that my wife has been with 10 mans, great guys,
00:02:20.000 great guys, yeah?
00:02:21.000 Has teaching her some experience and she comes and does the same thing with you.
00:02:24.000 So you have no problem with that.
00:02:25.000 It's not the same thing.
00:02:26.000 It's different.
00:02:27.000 Every sexual part-
00:02:28.000 I wouldn't know if I'm a virgin.
00:02:29.000 No, no, no.
00:02:30.000 Okay, why does it matter for a man? 0.62
00:02:31.000 You know, as a man, why does it matter about your girl's past?
00:02:34.000 Because it's easier for a girl to do that, but it's harder for a man to do that.
00:02:38.000 And if it's me that's going to be with her, then I need to know that I'm alright and that I'm okay
00:02:42.000 and that she hasn't been through a lot of men and that she's not seen in that way.
00:02:46.000 You know what I mean?
00:02:47.000 Also, I don't want my girl to be easy.
00:02:48.000 I don't like my girl being easy.
00:02:50.000 Virgin broke.
00:02:51.000 Okay, alright.
00:02:52.000 Okay, I appreciate you honestly.
00:02:53.000 Would you rather go for the luxuries knowing that your partner's got 20 men that she's been with?
00:02:57.000 Or would you rather-
00:02:58.000 Personally?
00:02:59.000 Yeah, personally, or would you-
00:03:00.000 Firstly, I'll go for the first one.
00:03:01.000 Which one is that? 0.71
00:03:02.000 Broke but virgin? 0.89
00:03:03.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.88
00:03:04.000 Okay, the first one is a virgin. 1.00
00:03:05.000 Broke. 0.99
00:03:06.000 She relies on you.
00:03:07.000 The second one-
00:03:08.000 Sorry, she rides on me. 1.00
00:03:09.000 She relies on you.
00:03:10.000 Sorry, I didn't hear that.
00:03:11.000 I didn't hear that.
00:03:12.000 I thought I was alright.
00:03:13.000 Virgin.
00:03:14.000 So I repeat again.
00:03:15.000 Virgin broke.
00:03:16.000 Rich.
00:03:17.000 20 months.
00:03:18.000 She's been with 20 men intimately.
00:03:19.000 Virgin broke.
00:03:20.000 Okay.
00:03:21.000 Yeah, virgin broke.
00:03:22.000 Okay, interesting.
00:03:23.000 I don't want to use the word but like-
00:03:24.000 I'm just trying to go for like a fresh ting, you know what I mean?
00:03:26.000 Fresh ting, yeah?
00:03:27.000 You don't want like- 1.00
00:03:28.000 I don't want like a- 1.00
00:03:29.000 You don't want like a- 1.00
00:03:30.000 Many men.
00:03:31.000 For real.
00:03:32.000 Not many men.
00:03:33.000 Do I have to choose one?
00:03:34.000 Yes.
00:03:35.000 Virgin broke.
00:03:36.000 Yeah?
00:03:37.000 Yeah.
00:03:38.000 Let me put it like this.
00:03:39.000 If I said to you, would you rather have 50 grand debt or that the partner that you're with has been with 20 men before?
00:03:43.000 I'd rather have 50 grand debt.
00:03:44.000 Option A, she's been with no one.
00:03:46.000 Option B, same girl, has been with 20 intimate partners.
00:03:49.000 Yeah.
00:03:50.000 Which one would you go for?
00:03:51.000 One with 20.
00:03:52.000 No, you wouldn't bro.
00:03:53.000 I'm so sorry.
00:03:54.000 Girl of your dreams in your mind, yeah?
00:03:55.000 She's peng. 0.99
00:03:56.000 She's a chung ting. 1.00
00:03:57.000 A bum ting. 1.00
00:03:58.000 Whatever you want to call it, yeah?
00:03:59.000 I'm going to put her into two categories.
00:04:00.000 So I repeat again.
00:04:01.000 Virgin broke or she's been with 20 guys, slept with them, but she's a millionaire. 0.92
00:04:04.000 Virgin broke.
00:04:05.000 Virgin.
00:04:06.000 Virgin broke.
00:04:07.000 Virgin broke.
00:04:08.000 I'm the rich one.
00:04:09.000 I'll provide.
00:04:10.000 Okay, good, good, good.
00:04:11.000 So man's watching Andrew Tate still.
00:04:12.000 Okay.
00:04:13.000 Which one matters to you the most?
00:04:14.000 To be fair, if I'm being illogical money that matter, I'm going to go with the Virgin still.
00:04:17.000 Okay.
00:04:18.000 Thank you.
00:04:19.000 If I got a chance, I would choose option A, the Virgin.
00:04:22.000 First one.
00:04:23.000 20 bodies.
00:04:24.000 First one.
00:04:25.000 First one.
00:04:26.000 First one, first one.
00:04:27.000 First one, first one.
00:04:28.000 First one, first one.
00:04:29.000 Okay, so you don't have a problem.
00:04:31.000 Okay, all right.
00:04:32.000 No problem.
00:04:33.000 Millionaire with 20 bodies, yeah?
00:04:34.000 Let's take the money out of the picture. 0.89
00:04:35.000 Same girl.
00:04:36.000 One is a Virgin.
00:04:37.000 One's got 20 bodies.
00:04:38.000 Virgin, of course.
00:04:39.000 So when we take the money factor out, you would prefer her to be a Virgin? 0.99
00:04:42.000 Yeah.
00:04:43.000 So the money is the one that's...
00:04:45.000 It's a goldie guy. 0.96
00:04:47.000 Sugar mummy. 0.94
00:04:48.000 That's fine, that's fine.
00:04:49.000 That's it, guys.
00:04:50.000 Okay.
00:04:51.000 I would say that, in all honesty, I would select the one with zero sexual partners in the past.
00:04:55.000 Yeah.
00:04:56.000 And I can't tell you exactly why, but I know that some of my upbringing and some of the
00:05:00.000 other social factors that are at play have affected that.
00:05:02.000 And then there's also an element of my innate propensities.
00:05:06.000 She's a Virgin, broke, or she's a millionaire, but she's got 20... 1.00
00:05:10.000 What?
00:05:11.000 She had 20... 1.00
00:05:12.000 Massive.
00:05:13.000 Is that no long ting?
00:05:15.000 I said she's got 20.
00:05:16.000 I want them to be mine, innit?
00:05:18.000 I don't want them to be dating 20 men.
00:05:19.000 Okay, okay.
00:05:20.000 You just feel like they're not yours.
00:05:21.000 You just feel like there's some next girl you're dating.
00:05:23.000 Virgin, 100%.
00:05:26.000 Why are you shaking her head?
00:05:27.000 Same as him, same as him.
00:05:29.000 Yeah, because you need to understand, a woman is different. 1.00
00:05:31.000 This is very interesting, because a woman is wired differently. 1.00
00:05:33.000 We're not the same.
00:05:34.000 You know what I'm trying to say?
00:05:35.000 So that's why they...
00:05:36.000 If I said to them, this guy that you're going to be with, yeah, in the future is going to
00:05:38.000 be broke, most girls are going to be like, mm-mm. 1.00
00:05:40.000 Just the way we judge them by their past, they judge us by our future.
00:05:43.000 And it's just, it's not our fault.
00:05:44.000 It's not our fault.
00:05:45.000 It's not our fault.
00:05:46.000 It's just wild like that.
00:05:47.000 It's wild like that.
00:05:48.000 Okay.
00:05:49.000 She should have just said me.
00:05:50.000 I don't want any of them.
00:05:51.000 No, no, no, no.
00:05:52.000 It's just a hypothetical situation.
00:05:53.000 You broke?
00:05:54.000 Well, the second option, she's a millionaire, but she's been with 20 mans. 0.99
00:05:56.000 She's got 20 bodies. 1.00
00:05:57.000 No, no.
00:05:58.000 Virgin, bro.
00:05:59.000 I don't want no.
00:06:00.000 Yeah?
00:06:01.000 Nah, I don't want no.
00:06:02.000 That's crazy, man.
00:06:03.000 I don't want no one that's been touched, man.
00:06:04.000 That's my wife. 1.00
00:06:05.000 Okay.
00:06:06.000 That's it.
00:06:07.000 That's it.
00:06:08.000 That's it.
00:06:09.000 So guys, today we came to Shepherd's Bush and we did a social experiment.
00:06:11.000 The purpose of this social experiment was not to demonize one gender or another, but
00:06:16.000 to truly understand how a man and a woman thinks and what they prioritize in each other.
00:06:21.000 And that is what is really important because the more we understand each other and how we
00:06:26.000 are unique in our own way and we have our own unique things that we look for in the other
00:06:30.000 gender, we would have a better future. 0.99
00:06:32.000 That is the reason why we've done a social experiment.
00:06:34.000 This is in no way, shape or form to demonize a brother with a past or a sister with a past
00:06:38.000 or a brother with his future or a sister with his future.
00:06:41.000 But the aim is that we understand each other and that's the main thing inshaAllah.
00:06:45.000 And in Islam, alhamdulillah, those who repent, all their sins are forgiven and it's a new beginning.
00:06:49.000 But this is to just understand how a man thinks and understand how a woman thinks. 0.79
00:06:53.000 That was it.
00:06:54.000 Hope you guys benefited from it.
00:06:55.000 It's been cold, it's been freezing, but I really enjoyed it.
00:06:57.000 Till next time.
00:06:58.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
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