Ali Dawah - December 31, 2022WE ASK MEN ＂20 BODIES OR VIRGIN GIRL？＂ - SOCIAL EXPERIMENT
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In this episode, we talk about the difference between a 'Broke Virgin' and a 'Virgin' and the one who has no intimate partners but relies on you. Which one would you choose? Do you prefer the first option or the second?
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You have a girl that you're interested in, yeah?
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She has 20 intimate partners she's been with before, but she's very wealthy.
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And the second option is she has no intimate partners before, but she has no money.
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Second option, which is basically the one who has no intimate partners, but relies on you.
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I mean, like, I'm not comfortable sleeping with another woman that had lots of partners before.
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You have a woman who has no past, but is broke, relies on you.
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So basically, she has no past, she's never been intimate with anyone.
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Second option, she's got 20 bodies, but she's very wealthy.
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So, you have no problem that the woman of your, your wife has been with 20 mans, but she's rich.
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If she's broke and she's a virgin, then that's, that's me.
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But if she's got 20 bodies and she's got money, then nah, nah.
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Don't love the number 20, but if it was a few less, I would like the fact-
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I enjoy the fact that she's got some experience and she's not coming to me like-
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So you don't mind envisioning in your head that my wife has been with 10 mans, great guys,
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Has teaching her some experience and she comes and does the same thing with you.
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You know, as a man, why does it matter about your girl's past?
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Because it's easier for a girl to do that, but it's harder for a man to do that.
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And if it's me that's going to be with her, then I need to know that I'm alright and that I'm okay
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and that she hasn't been through a lot of men and that she's not seen in that way.
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Would you rather go for the luxuries knowing that your partner's got 20 men that she's been with?
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I'm just trying to go for like a fresh ting, you know what I mean?
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If I said to you, would you rather have 50 grand debt or that the partner that you're with has been with 20 men before?
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Option B, same girl, has been with 20 intimate partners.
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Virgin broke or she's been with 20 guys, slept with them, but she's a millionaire.
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To be fair, if I'm being illogical money that matter, I'm going to go with the Virgin still.
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If I got a chance, I would choose option A, the Virgin.
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So when we take the money factor out, you would prefer her to be a Virgin?
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I would say that, in all honesty, I would select the one with zero sexual partners in the past.
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And I can't tell you exactly why, but I know that some of my upbringing and some of the
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other social factors that are at play have affected that.
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And then there's also an element of my innate propensities.
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She's a Virgin, broke, or she's a millionaire, but she's got 20...
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You just feel like there's some next girl you're dating.
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Yeah, because you need to understand, a woman is different.
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This is very interesting, because a woman is wired differently.
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If I said to them, this guy that you're going to be with, yeah, in the future is going to
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be broke, most girls are going to be like, mm-mm.
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Just the way we judge them by their past, they judge us by our future.
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Well, the second option, she's a millionaire, but she's been with 20 mans.
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So guys, today we came to Shepherd's Bush and we did a social experiment.
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The purpose of this social experiment was not to demonize one gender or another, but
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to truly understand how a man and a woman thinks and what they prioritize in each other.
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And that is what is really important because the more we understand each other and how we
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are unique in our own way and we have our own unique things that we look for in the other
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That is the reason why we've done a social experiment.
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This is in no way, shape or form to demonize a brother with a past or a sister with a past
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or a brother with his future or a sister with his future.
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But the aim is that we understand each other and that's the main thing inshaAllah.
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And in Islam, alhamdulillah, those who repent, all their sins are forgiven and it's a new beginning.
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But this is to just understand how a man thinks and understand how a woman thinks.
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It's been cold, it's been freezing, but I really enjoyed it.
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