Ali Dawah - December 31, 2022
WE ASK WOMAN "20 BODIES OR VIGRIN MAN?"
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Summary
In this episode, we explore the psychology between men and women and try to understand the difference between a virgin and a broke guy. We also talk about the benefits of being a virgin vs being a rich guy and the psychological difference between the two.
Transcript
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tell me which one you prefer same guy first category he's broke he'll always be broke and
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he's a virgin the second guy he is wealthy decent guy wealthy guy he's been with 20
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girls intimate partners in his past which one would you pick
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imagine a guy that you visually like he's handsome and everything you're looking for i'm going to put
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him into two categories tell me which one you prefer same guy first category he's broke he'll
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always be broke and he's a virgin the second guy he is wealthy decent guy wealthy guy he's been with 20
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girls intimate partners in his past which one would you pick which one would you go for i would
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personally go for the one that was broke before because you could start building your future
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together slowly eventually and personally i think that would be more of a right mindset
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okay what if he's going to stay broke forever i don't mind okay to be fair i i'll probably get
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a job i don't know okay so you would be the provider yeah yeah so broke virgin 20 bodies millionaire
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which one okay that's it that's it we're just trying to understand the psychology between men and
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women okay that's see that's very interesting the reason i'm doing this experiment is because men and
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women think differently we judge a girl by her past you guys judge a man by his future so you look at a
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man and be like okay where's he gonna be in five ten years as a man obviously exception to the rule we
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judge a girl by her past do you get what i'm trying to say that's how we're wired so we're just trying
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to find the so that's what i'm asking men and ask a woman as well he's broke and he's going to stay
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broke for the rest of his life he's just doomed yeah and he's a virgin and then you've got and you've got
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next man who's a millionaire but he's got 20 bodies a millionaire 20 bodies okay interesting so it's just
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the way we perspective okay would you go for the broke virgin wealthy 20 intimate partners the
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broke version the wealthy okay interesting why the broken like the person's different yeah by the way
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he's like he's a bump he's not gonna he's gonna be broke for the rest of his life you're gonna be working
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yeah change that up to start you go for him like yeah the boy that's broke it's like he doesn't have
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aspirations because why are you still going to be broke so is it is it true if i say a woman judges
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a man by his future yeah and or the second option he's a millionaire but he's got 20 20 bodies
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okay for a woman for you it doesn't matter but for a man he doesn't if he's a virgin he doesn't know
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what to do okay so for a man a past we judge a woman by a past and a woman judges a man by his future
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that's the reason why you picked a man with 20 bodies because you care about his future we care
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about a woman's past yeah so basically he's somebody who's just he's broke but he's never
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had passed and then you have someone who's had 20 intimate partners a man but he's rich i think
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both options are off-putting but if i had to choose one it would just be the wealthy person because i
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know that they would provide for me and that is what i want in life just a provider i know that um
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he's been intimate with other people but that's just not what i want and if i chose a broke guy
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and he's like a virgin like he's just not going to be rich at all he's not going to strive to be
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anything because he's going to be broke for the rest of his life if you're providing imagine you
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come home and he doesn't do nothing and he's just sat on the couch and you're just paying for
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everything you're basically saying he's he's a cow chopper yeah he's a bum yeah he's a bum okay
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if you want to put it like that yeah i thought you meant in the sense of like okay he's broke
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but he's trying no no no no no okay okay let's rephrase it let's rephrase it you've got a bum
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that's a virgin okay you've got a wealthy guy that's got 20 intimate partners so i i get what
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you're trying to say now yeah i might honestly consider the wealthy person because if he is
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going to repent and he you know has looked down on him and said this isn't the life that i want to
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choose i'll definitely give him a shot if he's okay i don't care about how many people he's separate
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okay why because it doesn't matter it's past am i correct to say that a woman judges a man by his
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future and a man judges a woman by her past yeah yeah yeah then they're wealthy yeah okay yeah
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yeah maybe yeah okay that's it the wealthy man of course the body doesn't matter if it's wait yeah
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okay no no why does the bodies not matter to you i don't think the bodies matter because people don't
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really disclose it when you first start dating them and so on so if you knew if you knew you would go for
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the one that's wealthy yeah i think i think the money matters more because it shows that they're more
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hard-working so just to clarify i'm not saying that we judge somebody but as men we give importance
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to that now as girls you don't so what happens is usually you want us to think like you guys and we
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want you to think like us but that's why the conflict happens when we understand each other's
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nature then it just helps us to better understand each other and get on with each other the following
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statement true that a woman judges a man by his future like basically you are more concerned you
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don't care about what he did in his past you are more concerned about his future so is he someone
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that's going to be working is he going to be a provider as a woman yes currently as well like
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present and the future is what is what it's important that's what i care about yeah okay as
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as a woman um usually we know women are high pilgrims by nature so would you not want somebody who
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if you are providing for him are you not going to lose interest it depends it depends if i'm not
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getting treated well to be fair okay if he's treating you well but he's just you're the you're the main
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breadwinner you're the provider i wouldn't prefer the option two because personally if you've been with
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multiple girls there's a reason why you probably left them there okay okay okay yeah okay so you
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basically you would prefer to go for a broke guy who has no past then somebody with uh past how about
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yourself uh yeah i think like the brick guy because like he's more pure and it's like i don't know i'd
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prefer like a great guy a broke guy rather than somebody who's who's wealthier yeah because i can i
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can provide for them as well as a woman you would want your man to be the provider yeah obviously yeah
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yeah yeah so so i don't i don't really want to run no no you do you do that so this is sure that for
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example you usually met women tell me if i'm wrong i'm having a discussion yeah usually women are
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hypergamous by nature which means that you look for a leader a provider a protector so this is
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if you're if you're walking down the road some guy comes trying to attack you and he runs away would
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you find that attractive no so that's what i'm saying due to your hypergamous nature you want him
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to be the protector so when it comes to providing yeah that's what i'm saying so from that perspective
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but again you guys are saying you prefer the pure guy broke rather than somebody that's rich but
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got past okay thank you that was it so guys today we came to shepherd's bush and we did a social experiment the
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purpose of this social experiment was not to demonize one gender or another but to truly
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understand how a man and a woman thinks and what they prioritize in each other and how we are unique
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in our own way and we have our own unique things that we look for in the other gender we would have
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a better future that is the reason why we've done a social experiment this is in no way shape or form
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to demonize a brother with a past or a sister with a past or a brother with his future or the sister
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with his future but the aim is that we understand each other and that's the main thing insha'Allah
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and in islam alhamdulillah those who repent all the sins are forgiven and it's a new beginning but
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this is to just understand how a man thinks and understand how a woman thinks that was it hope you
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guys benefited from it it's been cold it's been freezing but i really enjoyed it till next time
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assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh if you would like me to do more social experiments like
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