Ali Dawah - WE ASK WOMAN ＂20 BODIES OR VIGRIN MAN？＂

00:00:00.160 tell me which one you prefer same guy first category he's broke he'll always be broke and

00:00:04.800 he's a virgin the second guy he is wealthy decent guy wealthy guy he's been with 20

00:00:10.240 girls intimate partners in his past which one would you pick 0.97

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00:00:35.040 imagine a guy that you visually like he's handsome and everything you're looking for i'm going to put

00:00:38.960 him into two categories tell me which one you prefer same guy first category he's broke he'll

00:00:44.080 always be broke and he's a virgin the second guy he is wealthy decent guy wealthy guy he's been with 20

00:00:50.320 girls intimate partners in his past which one would you pick which one would you go for i would

00:00:54.480 personally go for the one that was broke before because you could start building your future

00:00:57.840 together slowly eventually and personally i think that would be more of a right mindset

00:01:02.560 okay what if he's going to stay broke forever i don't mind okay to be fair i i'll probably get

00:01:07.200 a job i don't know okay so you would be the provider yeah yeah so broke virgin 20 bodies millionaire

00:01:12.160 which one okay that's it that's it we're just trying to understand the psychology between men and

00:01:18.560 women okay that's see that's very interesting the reason i'm doing this experiment is because men and

00:01:34.560 women think differently we judge a girl by her past you guys judge a man by his future so you look at a 0.68

00:01:39.840 man and be like okay where's he gonna be in five ten years as a man obviously exception to the rule we

00:01:44.000 judge a girl by her past do you get what i'm trying to say that's how we're wired so we're just trying

00:01:46.960 to find the so that's what i'm asking men and ask a woman as well he's broke and he's going to stay

00:01:50.960 broke for the rest of his life he's just doomed yeah and he's a virgin and then you've got and you've got

00:01:56.000 next man who's a millionaire but he's got 20 bodies a millionaire 20 bodies okay interesting so it's just

00:02:04.400 the way we perspective okay would you go for the broke virgin wealthy 20 intimate partners the 0.99

00:02:09.200 broke version the wealthy okay interesting why the broken like the person's different yeah by the way

00:02:16.480 he's like he's a bump he's not gonna he's gonna be broke for the rest of his life you're gonna be working

00:02:22.080 yeah change that up to start you go for him like yeah the boy that's broke it's like he doesn't have

00:02:29.840 aspirations because why are you still going to be broke so is it is it true if i say a woman judges 1.00

00:02:35.040 a man by his future yeah and or the second option he's a millionaire but he's got 20 20 bodies

00:02:47.440 okay for a woman for you it doesn't matter but for a man he doesn't if he's a virgin he doesn't know

00:02:51.200 what to do okay so for a man a past we judge a woman by a past and a woman judges a man by his future

00:02:56.560 that's the reason why you picked a man with 20 bodies because you care about his future we care 1.00

00:03:00.480 about a woman's past yeah so basically he's somebody who's just he's broke but he's never

00:03:04.240 had passed and then you have someone who's had 20 intimate partners a man but he's rich i think

00:03:09.840 both options are off-putting but if i had to choose one it would just be the wealthy person because i

00:03:14.880 know that they would provide for me and that is what i want in life just a provider i know that um

00:03:19.680 he's been intimate with other people but that's just not what i want and if i chose a broke guy

00:03:23.360 and he's like a virgin like he's just not going to be rich at all he's not going to strive to be

00:03:27.920 anything because he's going to be broke for the rest of his life if you're providing imagine you

00:03:32.000 come home and he doesn't do nothing and he's just sat on the couch and you're just paying for

00:03:35.280 everything you're basically saying he's he's a cow chopper yeah he's a bum yeah he's a bum okay 0.92

00:03:40.160 if you want to put it like that yeah i thought you meant in the sense of like okay he's broke 0.94

00:03:42.480 but he's trying no no no no no okay okay let's rephrase it let's rephrase it you've got a bum 0.91

00:03:46.240 that's a virgin okay you've got a wealthy guy that's got 20 intimate partners so i i get what

00:03:51.040 you're trying to say now yeah i might honestly consider the wealthy person because if he is

00:03:57.920 going to repent and he you know has looked down on him and said this isn't the life that i want to

00:04:03.440 choose i'll definitely give him a shot if he's okay i don't care about how many people he's separate

00:04:07.920 okay why because it doesn't matter it's past am i correct to say that a woman judges a man by his

00:04:13.280 future and a man judges a woman by her past yeah yeah yeah then they're wealthy yeah okay yeah

00:04:20.080 yeah maybe yeah okay that's it the wealthy man of course the body doesn't matter if it's wait yeah

00:04:26.720 okay no no why does the bodies not matter to you i don't think the bodies matter because people don't

00:04:32.320 really disclose it when you first start dating them and so on so if you knew if you knew you would go for

00:04:36.480 the one that's wealthy yeah i think i think the money matters more because it shows that they're more

00:04:40.720 hard-working so just to clarify i'm not saying that we judge somebody but as men we give importance

00:04:46.640 to that now as girls you don't so what happens is usually you want us to think like you guys and we

00:04:51.200 want you to think like us but that's why the conflict happens when we understand each other's

00:04:54.800 nature then it just helps us to better understand each other and get on with each other the following

00:04:58.720 statement true that a woman judges a man by his future like basically you are more concerned you

00:05:03.840 don't care about what he did in his past you are more concerned about his future so is he someone

00:05:06.960 that's going to be working is he going to be a provider as a woman yes currently as well like

00:05:11.040 present and the future is what is what it's important that's what i care about yeah okay as

00:05:16.240 as a woman um usually we know women are high pilgrims by nature so would you not want somebody who

00:05:20.080 if you are providing for him are you not going to lose interest it depends it depends if i'm not

00:05:24.640 getting treated well to be fair okay if he's treating you well but he's just you're the you're the main

00:05:28.320 breadwinner you're the provider i wouldn't prefer the option two because personally if you've been with

00:05:33.680 multiple girls there's a reason why you probably left them there okay okay okay yeah okay so you 0.97

00:05:38.400 basically you would prefer to go for a broke guy who has no past then somebody with uh past how about

00:05:42.640 yourself uh yeah i think like the brick guy because like he's more pure and it's like i don't know i'd

00:05:48.080 prefer like a great guy a broke guy rather than somebody who's who's wealthier yeah because i can i

00:05:52.080 can provide for them as well as a woman you would want your man to be the provider yeah obviously yeah

00:05:56.000 yeah yeah so so i don't i don't really want to run no no you do you do that so this is sure that for

00:06:00.560 example you usually met women tell me if i'm wrong i'm having a discussion yeah usually women are 1.00

00:06:04.320 hypergamous by nature which means that you look for a leader a provider a protector so this is

00:06:09.840 if you're if you're walking down the road some guy comes trying to attack you and he runs away would

00:06:13.840 you find that attractive no so that's what i'm saying due to your hypergamous nature you want him 0.92

00:06:18.000 to be the protector so when it comes to providing yeah that's what i'm saying so from that perspective

00:06:21.520 but again you guys are saying you prefer the pure guy broke rather than somebody that's rich but

00:06:25.120 got past okay thank you that was it so guys today we came to shepherd's bush and we did a social experiment the

00:06:29.680 purpose of this social experiment was not to demonize one gender or another but to truly

00:06:35.200 understand how a man and a woman thinks and what they prioritize in each other and how we are unique

00:06:40.800 in our own way and we have our own unique things that we look for in the other gender we would have

00:06:45.520 a better future that is the reason why we've done a social experiment this is in no way shape or form

00:06:50.160 to demonize a brother with a past or a sister with a past or a brother with his future or the sister

00:06:54.720 with his future but the aim is that we understand each other and that's the main thing insha'Allah

00:06:59.520 and in islam alhamdulillah those who repent all the sins are forgiven and it's a new beginning but

00:07:04.160 this is to just understand how a man thinks and understand how a woman thinks that was it hope you

00:07:08.640 guys benefited from it it's been cold it's been freezing but i really enjoyed it till next time

00:07:12.400 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh if you would like me to do more social experiments like

00:07:15.760 this different topics comment in the section below

Ali Dawah - December 31, 2022

WE ASK WOMAN ＂20 BODIES OR VIGRIN MAN？＂

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