00:01:50.900Before we ever drew our first breath, countless people had already lived, struggled, worked, loved, buried their dead, worshipped their gods, celebrated victories, and handed something forward to the next generation.
00:02:07.720That continued generation after generation until eventually life reached us.
00:02:12.720we've received more than life itself though we received language and stories
00:02:19.260knowledge and customs tools and technology we inherited communities that other people built
00:02:27.180and knowledge that other people discovered we traveled roads that we did not build
00:02:32.320we benefit from work we didn't perform and we possess knowledge accumulated through thousands
00:02:38.100of years of human experience. The same thing happens on the smaller scale of the family.
00:02:44.800We carry things that came to us through parents and grandparents, often without realizing how far
00:02:49.880those things have traveled. Maybe a grandfather taught a father how to work with his hands,
00:02:55.160and that father eventually taught his children. Maybe a grandmother taught her children how to
00:03:00.340hold a family together during difficult times, and that lesson survived yet another generation.
00:03:05.360maybe what reached us was simply an example of courage endurance loyalty or just keeping one's
00:03:13.400word those things travel through families and they travel for generations when we understand
00:03:20.020how much we have already received gratitude should follow naturally that gratitude lies
00:03:25.980at the heart of the gift cycle we receive and because we have received we give and through
00:03:32.880For giving, relationships are maintained and strengthened.
00:03:37.760We understand this readily in our relationships with our Iser.
00:03:41.240We approach them with gifts, prayers, praise, and gratitude.
00:03:45.360We recognize the blessings that flow through our lives and respond through our own acts of giving.
00:03:51.660The same principle can help us understand our relationship with our ancestors.
00:03:55.920We honor them through the rites we perform.
00:03:58.000We speak their names, preserve their stories, keep their photographs, light candles and incense, and place gifts upon our altars.
00:04:06.300These are meaningful acts because remembrance itself maintains that connection.
00:04:11.260Yet the relationship follows us when we walk away from the altar and return to our ordinary lives.
00:04:17.240Every day gives us opportunities to honor those who have come before us through the lives we choose to live.
00:04:22.540When we cultivate courage and discipline or provide for our families, pursue wisdom, practice hospitality, and become people upon whom others can depend, we are doing something worthy with the life that was handed to us.
00:04:36.380Virtue becomes a part of the gift that we return.
00:04:40.300This is why our conduct matters so much.
00:04:43.200We live among people who are connected to us.
00:04:45.160Our spouses, children, grandchildren, friends, neighbors, and communities all experience the consequences of the people we chose to become.
00:04:55.080Courage spreads itself outward, as does generosity, discipline, loyalty, hospitality, wisdom.
00:05:03.380These strengthen the relationships around us.
00:05:05.920Through those relationships, our actions can reach considerably farther than we may ever see.
00:05:11.160The same responsibility extends to the world around us.
00:05:15.160We live upon land that existed long before us and will remain long after we are gone.
00:05:20.280We share that world with the land they do and countless living things.
00:05:24.220Our homes, communities, the woods and fields around us.
00:05:28.340The places where we gather become part of the inheritance temporarily placed in our care.
00:05:33.860Caring for these places is another way of acknowledging this connection.
00:05:37.920This leads naturally to the question of improvement.
00:05:40.360every inheritance eventually reaches a living set of hands and right now those hands are ours
00:05:48.440we have the opportunity to preserve what is worthy repair what has been damaged
00:05:53.040and strengthen what has grown weak we should add something of our own before passing it onward
00:05:59.820there's a very old and very human idea contained in planting a tree whose shade we may never enjoy
00:06:07.500Someone puts that tree into the ground, knowing that years may pass before it becomes large enough to shelter anyone.
00:06:14.420The person who planted it may never see it fully grown.
00:09:39.780Our grandchildren will themselves become grandparent.
00:09:42.960The things that we spend our lives building will pass into their hands, just as the work of previous generations eventually passed into ours.
00:09:51.320Perhaps someone will place your photograph upon the altar.
00:09:56.100Perhaps a descendant will tell a story about us around the family table.
00:10:00.380Perhaps someone will one day own one of our tools and remember who first used it.
00:10:06.000Maybe our names survive for several generations, or perhaps eventually they will fade, as nearly all names do.
00:10:12.960what can continue much further is the effect we had on the people who followed us
00:10:17.280and that brings us back to connections we're connected to the icr through worship
00:10:23.120gifting gratitude and relationship we're connected to the ancestors through blood blood memory
00:10:29.280inheritance and veneration we're connected to the living through family friendship community
00:10:35.360responsibility and shared experience we are connected to the land and the beings around us
00:10:40.720because this world is that which sustains our lives we are connected to the generations yet
00:10:46.080unborn because they will someday inherit whatever we leave behind all those connections meet here
00:10:53.200and the lives we are living at this very moment behind us stand countless generations whose lives
00:10:58.400eventually made ours possible around us are the people with whom we share this short span of time
00:11:05.120Ahead of us are generations we will never meet, waiting unknowingly to receive what we place into their hands.
00:11:12.120And for a little while, we are caretakers of that inheritance.
00:11:16.120So let us receive it with gratitude and honor through the quality of our own lives.
00:11:22.120Let us strengthen what has been entrusted to us and add something worthy of being remembered.
00:11:28.120Let us care for our families, communities, our traditions, and the world around us
00:11:33.120us with an awareness that our actions travel further than our own lifetimes.
00:11:38.740Then, when our time has come, we take our own place among the ancestors.
00:11:43.580May those who follow us be able to look upon what we left behind and know that we carried