Are "Trad Wives" Just E-Girls?
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1 hour and 36 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we cover the Trad Wife Movement and the scandals that have rocked conservative influencer spaces over the past decade, including the scandal surrounding conservative commentator Elijah Schaefer and his affair with conservative commentator Sarah Stock.
Transcript
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hello simone i'm excited to be here with you today today we are going to be going over the
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tire fire that has become the trad wife movement the trad husband movement recently with some big
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big scandals in it that are very entertaining i i went into these scandals and i was like oh
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this is just so juicy you know you see people being bad and then the bad people get their
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comeuppance and everything falls apart for them and they go crazy and you're just loving every step
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of it because they were so inauthentic and terrible to begin with and and then your your friends come
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in the the the other weird random conservatives like milo was inside gossip you know still still
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playing that role and then you get even on the base camp subreddit one of the posts and i'll i'll play
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it is like showing what trad wives are actually like and it's like that that oh thank you brother
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god bless you she's the real deal men of honor deserve women of virtue she's perfect bro
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another easy 600 trad queens gotta eat so pure bro look at her pray hands sending 50 worth it three
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roses she'll notice me for sure heart jake you're such a gentleman y'all are such blessings back to
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the garden now trad wife cosplay every night across living rooms like this young conservative men embark on
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a sacred ritual simping their muse a virtuous bread baking trad angel on live stream oh thank you
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the trad wife influencers are often just really e-thoughts that are dressing up like trad wives
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and manipulating men with fake personas no more than the the you know girl who decides she's gonna dress
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up like a goth and like bounce her ta-ta's around to try to get donations right like that's what's so
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funny is that people seem to think that women who engage in this is this form of very conspicuous
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signaling are are trad wives like if you're a trad wife you're someone who lives in very deep
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alignment with their goals and is probably not very online and someone who invests very heavily in
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signaling is is is very much going against what it means to be a trad wife and we talked about this a
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little bit in the peacocking episode the tldr of it is if someone is signaling or peacocking in a way
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where they're really trying to show like my appearance is expensive and and and like i'm trying
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to catch your attention as a reproductive mate it's typically because they expect to invest
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disproportionately a little in your relationship in your child rearing so you don't want to go after
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someone who's very made up who's peacocking yeah you're not going to be there for you the very
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definition of a trad wife i mean like functionally is that a trad wife is someone who really shows up
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for the marriage they're going to be homeschooling the kid they're going to be cooking all the dinners
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they're going to be doing all the work possibly also while making an income and i do think that
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people like hannah nealman really are bringing everything to the relationship but i don't think
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that she dressed like a trad wife when he met her i don't think that she put on the trad wife persona
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when he met her i think that what i've seen of the women who become good trad wives is that they
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are not trad wives when their husbands start dating them they don't present that way they don't act
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that way it is a persona they pick up later because they want to contribute to the relationship as much
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as they possibly can yeah let's get into the drama okay yes so will setka lived a quiet life rooted in
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face and political activism until allegations against his wife sarah stock pulled him into a viral storm
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as claims of an affair with elijah schaefer spread online many began asking who he is and how he
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became central to this controversy sarah stock and elijah schaefer's affair allegations have rocked not
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only turning points usa fans but also brought her husband will setka into the spotlight in conservative
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influencer spaces image is everything faith marriage modesty and traditional values often form the
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backbone of personal branding that is why the recent controversy surrounding stock now sarah setka
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has drawn such intense online attention allegations of an affair with conservative commentator elijah
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schaefer have not only put her reputation under scrutiny but have also pulled her husband will setka
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into the spotlight he never sought as social media debates hypocrisy morality many are asking the simpler
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question who is will setka the man at the center of the storm created by claims about his wife's past
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actions all right so a whirlwind romance went viral sarah stock and will setka's engagement in august
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2025 was widely shared across social media sarah posted pictures of her ring in fields of flowers while
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speaking about purity waiting for marriage and traditional courtship the wedding in january 2026 gained even more
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attention when the couple shared photographs from the vatican after receiving papal blessing from pope leo
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the 14th there's latin numbers there dressed in bridal attire the images quickly spread online
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and here they have a post from milo where he says let's start with sarah's stock so he's releasing
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private images of messages he had with her wait right after she got married
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and so he says if your husband doesn't know now is the time i understand you won't see it like this for a long
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time but as you can see from above it is better for everyone that things come out in one burst today
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instead of metastasizing over weeks don't let him find out from somebody else so first i like that milo
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has the chill correct take on this yet you you cheated tell your husband now make this a thing
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between you guys and stop this right but no she wanted to keep cheating is basically what we learned
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and if she told him she wouldn't be able to so and also milo was a bro and not releasing all of this
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until after all of this goes viral right like after it's all public he kept her secret for a long time
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so he goes on to say in february 2025 sarah stock and elijah schaefer began sleeping together
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the affair ended on the day she got engaged about six months later in that time they experienced
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multiple pregnancy scares it's alleged by one former acquaintance that sarah got at least one abortion
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oh my god i'm telling you catholic sarah captioned one post saying she highly recommended getting a
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marriage blessed by the pope at the time the images were praised as a symbol of devotion and faith
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in hindsight critics now view the timing of these posts through a very different lens when she's
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still sleeping with other guy okay so elijah schaefer and surestock scandal allegations shocked the
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internet the controversy erupted after claims circulated online that sarah had a month-long
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affair with eliza schaefer her former boss at rift tv the claims are amplified by post for milo yiannopoulos
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and the claims were amplified by posts from milo yiannopoulos who alleged that their relationship
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began in early 2025 and overlapped with her courtship of will he says milo says here i'm in
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touch with elijah i told him to get off the internet for a couple weeks and go to rehab it's better for
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everyone to just rip the band-aid off so i'll share with you over the next few hours the info doing the
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rounds in private at least what i've been able to confirm so i'm getting the full images here so we can
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get the full text here i've seen a dossier someone put together everything is coming out my advice is to
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check yourself into his facility sooner rather than later there may be a life for you after this
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but it's going to depend on being totally honest about all the details and it's going to require
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sympathy as far as i can see drug addiction is the only card you have left to play if i were you i
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would go out of my way to be a generous and decent with the wife and kids this cross filing in other
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states for divorce is insultingly childish and stupid he also by the way crashed out on his wife
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observers will be asking haven't you put the port be through enough the investors don't matter if
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they met you and still wrote a check that's on them i'm sure it'll be a while before you are ready
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to start putting your life back together but when you are i will be there to help you i've been trying
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to signal to you for the past year or so to cut off the bs and talk to me i was hoping everybody could
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avoid this you may wish to be offline for the next week or two and he goes what do you mean
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cease and desisting people right now but i got my car back so that's good he milo then says are you
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stupid and the other guy goes what do you mean wait i'm just seeing the top of this hey man i'm going
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through some tough things can you help me out here what dossier shot you a call your tweets and then
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milo says in response your tweets have been so erratic and insane people are asking if you killed
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your family there is a dossier being circulated that reveals all the details about rift's collapse
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you're drinking slash substance abuse the affair with sarah stock treatment of your wife sexual
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habits and perversions alleged prostitution your wife's filing for divorce and then you're filing
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back in different states so you can make it out that you dumped her it's safe to assume everything in
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your life is about to hit the internet starting in at the beginning of my text now that you know this
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you won't take it but i'm very strong advice is that you get off the internet for two weeks and
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check into rehab and be very effing nice to your wife whether or not you have a professional future
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depends on it nobody believes this horse s you're posting about your car either you got away with being
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manic for a while but the bill is now due you are a very poor liar it is not your forte you should find
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another profession one in which you tell the truth oh my god for one i love milo being so sane i mean it
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is kind of slimy that he put all of this public but also you know this guy is being an a-hole right
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now like i do not feel sympathy for him and you will feel less sympathy if the story goes on sarah stock and
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now we're going to another tweet this is from buckaroo sarah stock called other women whores and
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sluts while she cheated on her fiance multiple times despite a blessing from the pope himself
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and her being a quote-unquote trad catholic and then allegedly had an abortion due to cheating
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and then they have a uh nick fuentes clip of him just being like
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leaked audio clips and social media threads suggest that sarah had confessed to the affair privately while
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publicly maintaining an image of purity and traditional values and this i find the nick
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fuentes thing ironic because the the underground rumors i hear in right-wing circles is he sleeps
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around with women all the time he just pretends to be celibate which uh i think is you know better than
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it being true that he's gay right like especially given his his public image not not that it's worse to
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sleep around than be gay i just think that it would hurt his reputation less if that was true and it
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does sort of explain why he's in no hurry at all to get married because you know as a straight guy
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that's very confusing to you right like if i was a straight guy and i believe the things nick fuentes
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did about stuff like masturbation i would be constantly desperate to get married it makes no
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sense and he has women that are just like i will marry you if you're he has an entire community of
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fangirls right like this is what i'm talking about when i talk about hypocrisy among parts of the circle
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and what i want to end this with is like how do you tell the hypocrites from the non-hypocrites
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and for me i'm gonna be honest i think it's super easy okay so what's your secret
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the hypocrites are the hierarchical deontological types who are really obsessed with proper form
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examples would be steve bannon so i'm not just putting this on the catholic creators who recently
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came out as having been epstein's best bro and after it came out that he's like molesting kids
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is trying to put out this big feature leaf documentary revitalizing his image showing
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he's not that bad a guy recreating his branding like clearly he put a lot of effort into this and
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a lot of money into helping epstein after after the allegations were clear specifically trying to
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make the allegations disappear wow so you know i i think that this sort of type and you see this in the
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conservative circle everybody knows what we're talking about this is what what defined the old
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gop right right if you look at the new right creators is anything scandalous ever going to come
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out about like say asthma gold or leaflet no i i would be astonished like genuinely astonished if
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it turned out that asthma gold was doing something horrible like sleep sleeping around a bunch or something
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like that or treating women really poorly or if it came out that leaflet acted in a horrible way i'd be
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like what are you or kirsha i would be shocked if kirsha she'd never and i think even kirsha's
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catholic right so i'm not even just saying like you know i know she's got that big bostonian accent
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so i i always assume in my head when i hear the the the bostonian irish accent i'm like but yeah
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even even nourish i would be shocked because she comes off as so like just jane but also these people
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i think that the bigger thing for me is how much time do they spend talking about ideas
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or concepts versus talking about themselves their lifestyles and who they are life
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authenticity is about showing not telling i really actions over words so if you talk about well i'm this
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i'm that and you also show i'm like i am i am a trad wife i am a virtuous christian husband and you
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post about it and this guy who is sarah whatever had her affair with would post things very
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conspicuously on x like here i am taking care of the kids while my wife goes to the gym to get back
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to her pre-pregnancy body guys you've got to support your housewife and getting out to the gym
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and like just stupid like very very tell don't show and i think that's more than that this other
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woman when she's calling other women who sleep around a lot like bees and hoes and stuff like
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that right while she's doing it i think that's a really good indicator like can you guys imagine
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simone calling a woman who sleeps around a lot a bee or a hoe like i i think that to our audience
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that would almost be comical i must insult people who do i insult on this podcast who do i insult
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literally the only group we ever insult are catholics and sometimes jews i don't i don't
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insult catholics or jews yeah you don't you don't even do that oh i'm really sorry anyone working
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in a bureaucracy i'm so sorry you don't see them as human anymore no i don't want to shoot nobody
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they're just robots morty it's okay to shoot them they're robots
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they're not robots rick it's a figure of speech morty they're bureaucrats i don't respect them
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just keep shooting no like i do i think that it like it
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and it's not i don't think that the individuals working in bureaucracies are bad people
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or that they are incompetent i believe that they are incentivized to behave in a way
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that is incompetent like why would you ever go above and beyond when you're basically only going
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to be punished for it it best i put this out about other people like consider leaflet as an
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influencer right like are you going to see leaflet going on and talking about how other women are
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bees or hoes or something like that you're just not like no she doesn't and and the key difference
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and i think you really hit it on the head here is these influencers when they go out there they
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tell you how you should live your life you're like you need you need to do x y and z to be a proper
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manly conservative male or something yeah do as i say not as i do it's very much but when we go out
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there or leaflet goes out there or asthma gold goes out there they lead by example was no that's not
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the point i'm making okay when they're investigating a point they're asking but why like why is it useful
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to act in this way i don't say like you should you should treat your you know like the post that he
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did like if i was going to do something similar to that post right i.e be a good dad chip in with
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helping i would be very well consequentialist about it i'd be like look x type of woman isn't going to
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want to marry you if you don't do x y and z and then once you're married you're going to develop
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bad habits that'll lead to you know resentment that'll lead to these sorts of externalities you
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don't even do that no yours is so much better so literally you do post because you add these
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like clips of you like stuff you film when you're around the kids one like not to dunk on you but
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your filming is terrible right so it's like potato quality i don't know what it is like we both have
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pixel phones your pixel phone is newer than mine your video looks like you filmed it on
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on a potato with a battery attached to it and so it's one it's like not all polished you know it's
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not like instagram perfect it's not mormon wife posted instagram and then it's like it's not you
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like standing with like a baby carrier holding another kid like in a beautifully perfect room
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it's like you getting around piles of trash in the like the kid room after a day that they spent with
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you and like the boys are like in a cloud of wrestling on the floor and you like kick them with your
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sock foot that's like your video you know and that like that is that is how you know it's it's
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it's authentic because it's not it's not flattering it's but it shows what it shows is that you actually
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demonstrably spent the day taking care of the kids as you can tell from like the oh i bet he spent days
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taking care of the kids yeah he did but but mornings but it was the way that he told you that
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right it was the way that or she told people that and i think that we need to as a community be much
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more proactive about catching people acting like this because it's it's something that is toxic to
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the community itself before it comes out that they were just faking everything right point out red flag
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behavior even before the affairs come out yeah point out when they are insulting people in this
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sort of like aggressive way when they are trying to create status hierarchies where they're like this
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is the correct way to be this is the incorrect way to be when they don't see other people who live
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lifestyles that they disagree with with empathy and say you know even when they're talking to those
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people this is why that that's how we win at the end of the day when people come over to the
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conservative side and i've made this point before but it's a very important point for conservatives to
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internalize which is the fifth horseman of the apocalypse muslim lady i forget her name who
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deconverted from his arm and was a very well-known oh ian hirsi ali yeah and then she converted to
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christianity and everybody was like why did you when you became theistic why did you convert to
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christianity instead of islam and she's like well the entire time i was out there preaching atheism
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the muslims would always come to me and say that they were going to kill me and grate me but she said
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the christians would often come to me not always but often come to me and say well i'm praying for
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you and i i i hope that one day you know you change your mind on this and that that made it very easy
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for her when she was like well is god real you know it's this and it's not just that more broadly we've
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seen this on the right very generally is people come to the right and they expect everyone to hate
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them and treat them really poorly and by and large what they find is that people don't hate them and
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they don't treat them poorly and they'll say i disagree with you on this or this or this or they
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might tease them on an issue but there isn't the aggression they expect and they'll often realize
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pretty quickly that they get more hate in left-wing spaces than they do in right-wing spaces and this
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is really important so even if you for example disagree with say same-sex relationships if you want
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a person who is same-sex attracted and think same-sex relationship normalization should be a thing
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to eventually change that position the first thing they can't they shouldn't hear when they
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come to the right for the first time and they have all these stereotypes about us and everything like
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that shouldn't be some slur shouldn't be i disagree with your lifestyle shouldn't be you know it should
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be like accepting so that they get a chance to hear ideas and framings because i don't think anyone on
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the right really believes that same-sex attraction isn't real anymore like i don't think that's a
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talking point anyone has anymore about why you may not want to base your life around something like
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this or sleeping around a lot you know i always hate this that so many people in the right do things
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like sort of isolate ayla who i consider a very good friend of ours and a wonderful person and i would
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say that i like with her the only way she ever gets comfortable saying oh my god the urban monoculture
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was wrong oh my god these values are nice is to espouse and explain these values without attacking
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individuals and the problem is is the the people on the right which which does require some level of
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internal policing who do attack these people when they come into our communities are the people who
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so often turn out to be hypocrites and i i i would say i see it fairly rarely if i can't actually think
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of a single example of one of the right-leaning figures who doesn't attack people like this and
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then hasn't has has later come out with some big scandal that just doesn't seem to happen or who just
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is failing to live up to that ideal like they're still perpetually single uncoupled alone not living
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the trad dream well okay here's another example of a right-leaning figure who i think is very
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different from us in many views but i'd be quite shocked to hear some some actually i even think
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he's sort of like the exception that proves a world okay okay he did have a big scandal around him
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which is rubyard of of what evolved his rubyard doesn't dunk on anyone does he no he never dunks
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on anyone is what i mean but he has had a major scandal so the point being is his major scandal
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was about him doing ayahuasca and crashing out about mysticism right like that's not being mean
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to somebody that doesn't show that he has like a a mean heart or is fundamentally a hypocritical person
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him crashing out on ayahuasca is exactly something i would expect rubyard to do he didn't like
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reveal some other side of his personality that was completely antithetical to everything he has
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presented himself as being he just was like yeah i am exactly who i have always told you i am
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but what you don't see from him is some scandal about him you know cheating on a woman or beating
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a woman or something like that right yeah well i think also because this came up with someone who
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listens to the podcast and was talking about i think this this this scandal like brought it up to me
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what scandal this this particular scandal and what about it well they said someone really needs to
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invent a genetic test for hoe behavior if malcolm can do it you guys could become zillionaires and he
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thinks that there's a genetic basis because there are girls who like he he thinks that there are genes
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that correlate with it i i don't really i think there are genes that you do oh yeah i'll keep reading
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here but back when i used to be a hoe because i was a hoe younger as i said i was like a hundred plus
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people i really regret that i ever did that during that time of my life i didn't really have some
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alternate framing of morality than the urban monoculture and and what i got from my parents
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and so i didn't know like i i thought i'm a young man you look at what young men are told online
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and it's you are you are more manly if you sleep around more and this may not be as strong a message
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right now online but keep in mind this was like pre-red pill right like this was the community that
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bore that out this is the community that you know andrew tate came out of and everything like that
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right like uh it was sleep around and that's what you do right and i have noted that that is enough
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people to get sampling data right like to to to get enough data between cultural groups and as people
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know i i almost exclusively dated not because you watch our episodes on like racial attractiveness i
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just for whatever reason except for one black girl exclusively white girls so i was able to compare
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white cultures specifically jewish catholic and protestant culture with a high degree of precision
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yeah because those and do you think there's apologetic score for hoe behavior
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so if you were going to rank women based on how horny they were like constantly like how much they
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wanted to sleep around yeah and i i slept with a lot of other people's girlfriends too mind you so
00:25:40.000
i also know how how likely they were to cheat i would literally put young catholic girls that maybe
00:25:46.160
three x the other two groups they are incredibly horny catholics so not protestants catholics well i think
00:25:56.160
that there's a historic reason for it as well so if you're looking at sort of biology you needed to
00:26:04.640
have a strong desire to want to get with somebody and then after you get with somebody have a lot of
00:26:11.800
kids and catholics historically were known for this
00:26:14.980
they they historically got married younger and had lots of kids so being horny as a catholic especially
00:26:29.540
if you have this deontological framework because what catholicism really is that it's a bunch of rules
00:26:33.940
around like not masturbating not spilling seed not having sex outside of marriage and so you have
00:26:38.880
all of these deontological rules they basically funnel your internal biological drive towards an
00:26:44.840
end state which is having lots of kids right like assuming you cannot fulfill them with other people
00:26:50.860
right now you you you put that in a modern context where a lot of catholics today you know they don't get
00:26:57.100
married until they're 30 they don't get you know even when they're married they're not having sex
00:27:00.940
constantly if they're sort of biologically engineered to just be having sex constantly
00:27:05.160
in their like 20s to to mid 30s and producing lots of kids that's going to lead to a lot of
00:27:11.260
externalities whereas people by the way people are wondering about the other two words you're just
00:27:15.320
arguing there there were more evolutionary pressures among people who were active practicing
00:27:20.180
catholics to have high sex drives like the catholics with high sex drives were the catholics who
00:27:25.500
inherited the future of catholicism for a long yes they they simply had more evolutionary pressures
00:27:30.940
on having lots of having a high sex drive relating to having a lot of surviving children than other
00:27:36.120
metaphysical frameworks for reality um that's that's what deontology does all those these
00:27:42.120
deontological funnels and this is why out of the other two groups the next most horny group was
00:27:47.820
jewesses they were still fairly horny and as to why that that could be the case there's still
00:27:54.120
going to be more biological pressures on a on a like jewish because you have all the jewish rules
00:27:59.580
around like when you can have sex and everything like that it's just that jews don't hold to those
00:28:03.460
rules as rigidly as catholics do but they have most of the same rules that catholics do well there's
00:28:08.500
they're also the rules which are very i guess female sex positive of you need to pleasure your wife
00:28:15.220
and then of the protestants i dated i'd say that like half would would count as what you would
00:28:22.440
today call asexual or completely reactive sexual my wife falls into this category that she does not
00:28:31.240
like just randomly get horny except for like maybe once a year she uh once a year but it really depends
00:28:38.980
heavily on like where i am hormonally it's very weird yeah but but reactive sexuality means that she
00:28:44.760
does feel arousal but like when you are touching her or rubbing against her or you have already engaged
00:28:52.060
her in some form of sexual no it's it's it's something that a lot of men do not understand a
00:28:57.600
lot of women don't understand they think they're asexual it's important to understand that that
00:29:01.000
doesn't mean you're asexual no you have to activate sex mode that is how you do it well and this is
00:29:07.320
because if you're looking at the metaphysical framework that motivated reproduction was in
00:29:12.160
protestant communities if you look at the old framings of this and we've done episodes of like
00:29:15.500
why people used to have kids like you used to have sex yeah protestant did it because it was like
00:29:20.360
their duty to their family it was their duty to their religion you you literally have k names given
00:29:26.320
to young puritan girls thou shalt not blaspheme prudence no no the one that i love was like thou shalt
00:29:32.840
have many children or something like that right like the like literal like just you're gonna do x thing
00:29:38.680
so it's a completely different framework about why you have kids the the protestant women that had
00:29:45.560
the most kids were the ones that felt the least external biological drives and were able to just
00:29:52.020
logic themselves into having more kids i'm just imagining like a modern like pilgrim baby born like
00:29:57.920
10 years ago being named like learn to code yeah whereas the catholics who had the most kids
00:30:05.620
were the ones who followed the deontological rule set that helped funnel their internal desire
00:30:11.640
into children it's a it's a completely different framework and i think it's led to different
00:30:16.560
outcomes oh wow okay okay so it's not apologetic score it's are they consequentialists or deontologists
00:30:24.080
and and if you do that over generations it leads to different outcomes yeah yeah i mean i think also
00:30:31.000
also your general rule of thumb of finding women who did not invent who who were more interested in
00:30:40.280
raw and i'm not saying like i'm not like you would go for crazy women but it was through like
00:30:49.240
machiavellian or like insane ambition rather than social drama
00:30:58.360
so it was they were manic but they weren't borderline personality disorder or they were like
00:31:05.940
highly neurotic or autistic but they weren't like schizo and also you you didn't invest in women who
00:31:13.340
wore a lot of makeup you didn't invest in women who yeah like styled themselves really okay you had a
00:31:20.820
couple you you had at least one girlfriend who was very good at styling herself and had impeccable
00:31:26.180
amazing style but that was just because of her background it wasn't like she did it because it
00:31:29.920
was how she was raised it wasn't like she was trying to like actually this is a a a interesting
00:31:35.100
point but i was just thinking about how different the two groups were right something about half of
00:31:39.360
the protestant women that i i dated and slept with had reactive sexualities or like were basically
00:31:44.720
asexual by societal standards yeah i think about half of the catholic women wanted to have sex at least
00:31:49.440
every day oh do you get your five fruits and veg oh i mean i certainly tried to i would say i probably
00:31:59.080
so the one it wasn't like it wasn't like a small difference it was like an enormous difference one
00:32:08.760
where there's a conflict between like you studying and intimate time that was she a catholic girlfriend
00:32:14.560
i can't remember with her okay that's interesting but i i feel like if if i were to advise our sons
00:32:21.860
i would say don't look at how she styles herself now we can fix that because like your mom fixed a
00:32:28.740
lot of things about me after i was introduced to the family so you can you can fix someone's grooming
00:32:34.400
and styling and appearance immediately as soon as she knew that we were going to engage she she was
00:32:40.060
literally like shipping clothes to my apartment i wonder if i can like dig up some of the pictures
00:32:44.800
she just like suddenly just starts sending me like all all of her old clothes get dressed nice girl
00:32:49.680
yeah she's like ah fix it you would hate your outfit today by the way oh she would but then she'd be so
00:32:55.300
excited about all the epstein drops that she'd like i don't know she it would fall out you know like
00:33:00.020
but anyway look at the girl don't invest in styling you could fix that look at her mother and how her
00:33:07.800
mother has aged i think that's a really important like good rule of thumb well i mean i think i think
00:33:12.040
a good rule is don't date overly horny girls like this is an easy thing right like you you oh yeah
00:33:17.820
i guess yeah if she's really horny she might need to satisfy herself outside your relationship yeah
00:33:23.140
yeah but then what about the guys who are like yeah but i need a girlfriend who constantly wants to
00:33:28.720
pounce on me like i don't know i think it's one of those things be aware that if she constantly
00:33:32.780
wants to pounce on you she's gonna occasionally want to pounce on other things as well
00:33:36.160
like the reason why either you get dead bedrooms or you get an unfaithful wife is this like the is
00:33:41.700
this the choice do you want the red pill or the blue pill what are you gonna choose guys actually
00:33:48.020
weigh in in the comments what would you choose if like i mean i i think you're right though i think
00:33:51.860
it's true i know i think you're right and i i'll point out that your wife's sexuality will go down
00:33:56.640
the longer you're married to each other right like people and i don't think that that's a bad thing
00:34:01.500
right like i get to play with my kids more right like the sex is a waste of time oh god i'm gonna
00:34:07.320
get more emails Simone you need to go pleasure welcome right now and i and i bet you're getting
00:34:14.380
those emails from catholic female fans because of catholic culture i wonder i wonder that it's just
00:34:20.080
right now way more sexual it's important to talk about this before i go further with this piece
00:34:27.100
because i think that there is this perception and it leads to really big problems in society
00:34:32.320
that white people are all the same and white people are not all the same we are biologically
00:34:38.080
and psychologically quite different from each other and if we don't call that out and you try to force
00:34:45.260
yourself to live in the way that another group is designed to live yeah and often right now i i i argue
00:34:52.060
that a lot of people are trying to live like the urban monoculture which borrows the most from jewish
00:34:58.160
culture it's got a bit of catholic culture mixed in it's got a bit of protestant culture mixed in
00:35:01.740
and then they try to apply that to other cultural groups and people are like why why did the jews
00:35:06.180
fertility rates not hit as much as other groups and i'm like well because the jews are still living in
00:35:10.140
jewish culture right but you're trying to live in like friendship is magic nonsense watch our episode
00:35:15.220
on why jews have friends where i point out that a lot of cultural groups just do not have large
00:35:19.960
friend networks historically and if you go out there and you say well i'm only going to be
00:35:24.120
fulfilled if i have a ton of friends and you're not from a culture that's like biologically built
00:35:28.320
to have lots of friends you're going to be effing miserable and you're going to go to parties and
00:35:34.040
you're going to be like why the heck am i at this party this is not fun nothing about this is fun
00:35:38.860
you will go to a nightclub and you will say i do not biologically understand why anyone is here
00:35:45.500
or if you're if you are from a culture that's biologically built for those things and it's
00:35:50.560
okay to be different right like it's not bad to be different but if you're biologically built for
00:35:54.560
those things you go to your other friend's house and they play dnd or whatever and you're like this
00:36:02.400
is the most boring thing i've ever seen in my entire life yeah and they're having a blast appear to be
00:36:07.580
having why is this happening um and it's because we don't allow the answer to be they might be
00:36:14.200
biologically different from you that's a really good point that's a really good point like with
00:36:19.560
dnd i'll point this out what what group do i think is biologically more prone to enjoying dnd
00:36:25.380
the east asian ethnic group the east i don't know i don't see very many like east asians famously
00:36:31.700
into really if you go to like from what i remember like dnd stuff i always remember an unusual amount of
00:36:38.260
east asians like leaflets an example the i i don't know among the white groups because i haven't been
00:36:44.140
in dnd enough to make that distinction among the people i see at dnd groups yeah honestly i'm just
00:36:49.780
i'm thinking of all the all the people who showed up on harm and quest and the people who had and i'd
00:36:56.380
also note here because i want to be clear about this this particular protestant jewish catholic
00:37:01.540
distinction that's sort of like partially biological it is not one where i am strictly saying that like
00:37:07.100
it is worse to marry someone of catholic descent because here i'm pointing out that if you don't want a
00:37:12.280
dead bedroom of that's like your nightmare scenario catholics are going to be the lowest chance of
00:37:17.420
that happening yeah well i think this is a really no it's a really good point though in that a really
00:37:23.600
big element of the like perfect trad family is a chaste wife who was a virgin coming into marriage
00:37:32.580
and and save herself sex her eye never wanders and then but but oh you know god forbid like you would
00:37:42.100
ever have to initiate or that she would ever not be interested no no no no actually i this changed
00:37:48.340
this changed and i think that this is part of the problem with modern trad culture okay is that
00:37:53.380
historically the perfect trad wife was not super horny for her husband sexually reluctant she was
00:38:00.640
sexually repressed in all things she would have sex to have children but she was not like okay so
00:38:08.420
but it was understood that you would be intimate with a dead fish right if you look at well not
00:38:15.400
necessarily a dead fish like she might try to engage but you look at like puritan writings around
00:38:20.300
sexuality and stuff like that you got steamy what are you talking about like no no they talked about
00:38:24.980
sex very graphically and in a steamy way but the reason why they talked about sex graphically in a
00:38:31.380
steamy way is you could tell that sex just was not very tempting to them like they could afford to be
00:38:37.640
so steamy because in the same way that like if you read the pragmatist guide to sexuality we go really
00:38:42.740
deep into really bizarre fetishes but it's because the entire field is just so unalluring to us it's not
00:38:49.080
something that that evokes this reflective like i've got to push this away from me because it's not
00:38:55.280
uh grabbing of us in the same way i think actually for people if like just just just head off everyone
00:39:01.760
is gonna write to me and tell me like okay for me sex is a lot like alcohol we're like i will knock back
00:39:08.260
five ounces of vodka and feel like kind of happy or whatever right and like you know malcolm and just
00:39:14.060
get like really cheerful and loving and it's great and i enjoy it and it's fun and it's the same with
00:39:20.080
sex like i will we'll go for it you know and it's great but like also sometimes we need to work or like
00:39:27.520
we have to choose like i have to choose between like am i going to knock back five ounces of vodka
00:39:31.900
or am i gonna like be more efficient in cleaning up tonight well no i mean this is this is really what
00:39:38.440
it comes down to you're always choosing between things and right now what are we working on we're
00:39:42.260
trying to save society we are trying to save not not just socially not just through pro natalism but
00:39:48.060
also from ai safety related stuff i mean that's the end goal in our fab so every day huge long hours
00:39:53.880
but also be there for our kids yeah and and then we're trying to raise five children right now and
00:39:59.340
more every year and so i need to ask myself if ever i'm like oh i want to have sex i'm like is this
00:40:04.900
it's the pleasure i'm feeling from this literally more important than potentially saving the world
00:40:10.620
right like the fixing this ai issue but actually like actually think about it guys like so so the
00:40:17.240
kids are like asleep or something and then you know malcolm wakes up at 2 a.m if we end up banging
00:40:23.720
you know he's probably gonna sleep in a little bit i've lost like a day of work time because i've
00:40:29.800
exhausted myself during the only time i get alone and then it's like he he uses like we we both just
00:40:35.520
sort of mentally wind down a little bit after the kids are in bed like it's the one time we take to
00:40:39.640
like do stupid stuff like i watch legal i don't believe and you watch whatever anime on crunchy
00:40:46.160
roll well this is why i do not believe that people like ellie isaer yukowski have ever been serious
00:40:51.100
about ai safety and a lot of the ea community if you have time to be polyamorous you you are not
00:40:56.960
actually that concerned or just to like hang out and socialize yeah because i mean you we're like
00:41:01.860
literally choosing between like do i you know go to an essential doctor appointment or do i you know
00:41:10.760
work code right yeah and i want to point out here simone that living this type of like 24 7 grind set
00:41:18.920
is not something that people from some cultural backgrounds are really built to do yeah and one
00:41:24.100
of the the the things i've noted about this if you talk about adapting cultures that you're not
00:41:27.660
biologically adapted to is a really high rate of unaliving of white people who try to adapt jayen
00:41:32.980
culture because jayen has a stoicism combined with a 24 7 grind set instead of a vitalism combined with
00:41:39.920
a 24 7 grind set and that just doesn't mix with most white cultural groups and i think yeah people
00:41:45.620
need to be forgiving yeah when people try to shove themselves into cultures that their biology isn't
00:41:51.840
designed adapted for yeah yeah like we are all about this like thin-lipped american gothic like
00:41:59.080
just the point i was making is that if you look at america traditionally yeah the the perfect trad
00:42:05.220
wife was not constantly horny the thing that broke trad wife ism was the idea of a trad wife who's always
00:42:12.180
going to be horny for her husband oh that is when trad wife met stepford wife and then it was when
00:42:17.500
trad wife needed to become sexy and we have an episode how well we have an episode titled how
00:42:25.480
girl defined ruined an entire generation of women a joke on the house got pilgrim ruined an entire
00:42:30.740
generation of pilgrim women and specifically what i point out in that episode is they started to say
00:42:37.820
things like if you wait till marriage for sex sex is so much better oh yeah yeah they're basically
00:42:43.880
trying to say well we offer everything the progressive debauched culture offers just
00:42:49.720
within the bounds of marriage oh and they were trying to say well we can do it better and yeah
00:42:55.340
they were trying to be like sex is actually the purpose of life sex is actually like sex is actually
00:43:00.640
the best when what they should have been selling and what should have been being sold
00:43:03.680
like get over yourself sex is not that great sex is not the purpose of your life sex does not make
00:43:11.220
you more of a man or a woman if you need to have sex to have kids do it but otherwise it's a
00:43:17.400
recreational pastime no different than any other self-indulgent recreational pastime yeah and you
00:43:24.660
don't need to say it's okay to be like if you don't have sex till marriage it's going to suck in marriage
00:43:30.600
it's it's going to be worse than the person who has learned techniques from a bunch of different
00:43:34.460
people like that's just obviously true right i'm not bad no you're you're fine because i know what
00:43:41.180
i'm doing and i know how to teach you what to do right like but the point being is this myth of you
00:43:48.880
know abstinence making sex with the person you're abstinent for better yeah ends up leading eventually
00:43:55.360
i think for a lot of these women to be like well if if sex was this big magical thing and i was told
00:43:59.860
that sex was going to be the big magical thing and i saved myself for it and i did it in marriage
00:44:03.380
and it still wasn't magical well then maybe i need to try with other people maybe it's just my
00:44:07.620
partner isn't and that's where instead of being like no sex is just like not but keep in mind
00:44:12.800
my strategy here is the protestant strategy historically to say sex is just not that good
00:44:20.300
sex doesn't matter that much do not pedestalize sex and it works with my biology to our catholic
00:44:26.620
viewers this strategy may not work for you right like you may need to come up with a completely
00:44:32.220
different strategy to deal with urges that my wife and i just don't have and it's a whole i mean
00:44:42.300
it was in the current like social order to say that right people are like oh that means your marriage
00:44:46.380
isn't as strong or anything like that i'm gonna get those emails malcolm just you wait my wife has
00:44:51.980
literally never once in our entire relationship turned me down for sex never once because you're hot
00:44:58.560
if i wanted to have sex every day i could i choose not to no i think i have a responsibility
00:45:07.420
towards society towards something greater in the past like you know 20 times i'm pretty sure i've
00:45:14.160
initiated like 19 of them yes actually that is true the past 20 times you have initiated at least 19 of
00:45:20.240
them i am much more disciplined about this but anyway well yeah yeah we haven't even included my
00:45:25.680
botched initiations when wilma begging at your door anyway you got to continue the article and
00:45:32.340
we're never gonna finish this okay okay one user on x said the trad wife image just collapsed in real
00:45:37.920
time another wrote this is peak hypocrisy even if half of it is even if only half of it is true
00:45:42.780
sarah later deactivated her x account as the backlash intensified and then here's a tweet from john root
00:45:49.260
here's another reminder that the vast majority of christian conservative influencers are christian in
00:45:53.280
name only it's a grift to them sarah's stock is just another example they don't care about living
00:45:58.860
for jesus they just want to use his name in vain to build their
00:46:03.600
brand cash their checks and get invites on podcasts and fancy dinners and conferences
00:46:10.840
it's twisted and where are our we're not christians yeah that's why we're not here's another thing i'd note
00:46:16.880
if you're like how do i tell who the real ones are and who the fake ones are another really easy
00:46:21.700
difference is are they following all the rules or do they have a unique theology and metaphysical
00:46:28.300
framework oh that's yeah how nerdy are they yeah if you look at them and every single one of their
00:46:35.760
beliefs looks like the form of vanilla catholicism yeah that's going to be accepted by a conservative
00:46:43.100
audience without anyone being like you're weird here or you're weird here they're like well actually
00:46:49.240
and then then you know they're for real yeah they're probably yeah fake if if if their theology
00:46:56.220
or metaphysical framework or belief subverts normal conservative culture in a number of ways
00:47:02.180
you they are much more likely to be being honest with you and this is something i tell women all the
00:47:08.120
time a woman will say how do i know of a man isn't just pretending that he wants a long-term
00:47:13.240
relationship pretending to parrot my views back to me to sleep with me and i go if he parrots back
00:47:18.820
every view you want to hear and parrots back an ideology that looks exactly like your ideology
00:47:24.960
he's lying to you yeah real ideologies have differences from yours 100 and this is why i know
00:47:32.780
that somebody like rubyard for example is being honest there are all sorts of parts of his ideology
00:47:39.440
that very much differ from the trad conservative ideology that he would be pretending well or
00:47:45.920
honestly from anyone's ideology yeah conspiracy theorist ideology even for mystics ideology yeah
00:47:51.940
it is unique to him and it is therefore this is if you go to sargon of akkad for example kind of
00:47:58.380
akkad is very open about being an atheist right like if he was putting on a fake persona about his
00:48:03.820
beliefs he would just pretend to be a christian yeah it would be way easier yes if you look at
00:48:09.340
our beliefs our weird techno puritan nonsense it'd be way easier not to have that it would be way
00:48:15.800
easier to have those beliefs you're talking about that article mentioned fancy dinners and stuff and
00:48:20.360
i'm like oh the stuff we could have maybe maybe heritage foundation would have given us like
00:48:25.240
fellowships or something that would be nice if you look at a conservative influencer who hasn't had
00:48:29.620
a big crash out yet but to me would come off as very suspicious of likely having a crash out in
00:48:35.020
the future tim pool tim pool is way too down the line conservative for me but he used to be
00:48:41.740
occupy wall street he did it used to be occupy wall street which makes it even weirder that he doesn't
00:48:48.960
seem to disagree with conservatives on any major talking point that is weird that that he he should
00:48:55.440
have things that he is regularly disagreeing on he should have some opinion that regularly splits his
00:49:01.500
audience maybe this is no a product of us not being deep enough in his lore i don't yeah maybe
00:49:06.060
we're not deep enough enough so yeah hopefully we're just missing something yeah but i i will say
00:49:10.460
that i do find it suspicious that i can go an entire stream without hearing a single point that i would
00:49:14.760
say differs from mainstream conservative values yeah red flag i guess you have to people will comment
00:49:19.940
if he has heterodox yeah people will comment and be like oh you're missing this or you're missing
00:49:24.000
this about good because we want that because i want to believe that tim pool is a is bro
00:49:27.740
but to continue here this is from venom meet sarah stock popular right-wing catholic trad influencer
00:49:34.700
february 2025 started sleeping with elijah schaefer she had sex with schaefer the day she met him
00:49:39.920
she slept with him the day before her engagement multiple pregnancy scares did one abortion she got
00:49:45.020
engaged in august 2025 to will secta lied to her husband that she was a virgin and told him to wait
00:49:50.580
until marriage oh wow she's sleeping with another guy she fooled her husband and thousands of her
00:49:56.480
followers why are women like this how can somebody preach traditional values while secretly living
00:50:01.860
the opposite well the answer is is because people like us do preach traditional values the people who
00:50:07.440
are have values that have any element of traditionalism wisdom do not constantly preach
00:50:13.000
them they explain them they explain why living a lifestyle wisdom might be better and why they might
00:50:18.180
have been wrong in their previous values they don't preach them but to continue here secta is described
00:50:22.980
as working in political organizations and grassroots activist circles unlike his wife he kept a very
00:50:28.060
low public profile oh no the honest one keeps the low public profile there were no viral videos no
00:50:33.000
regular commentary no influencer persona his online presence was mostly through sarah's posts especially
00:50:38.980
during their engagement and wedding his surname also became an unexpected talking point some online
00:50:44.520
users pointed out his eastern european roots sparking ironic comments giving sarah's previous
00:50:50.000
arguments about immigration and european identity one user on x said she mocked immigrants while proudly
00:50:56.280
taking a surname with an immigrant history sarah's stock faces massive backlash sarah built her online
00:51:01.760
identity around anti-abortion views modesty and strict christian morality because of this the alleged
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details of her affair claims struck many followers as deeply contradictory reactions online were harsh and
00:51:14.640
emotional some users accused her of misleading her followers others expect sympathy for will setka
00:51:19.860
describing him as an unwitting husband caught in an internet storm here we have a tweet from brian
00:51:24.360
atlas sarah stock claims to be a virgin and waiting for marriage on the whatever podcast body count
00:51:31.260
reveal was she lying the users on x said quote imagine finding out that your marriage is trending for the
00:51:37.720
worst region possible end quote the controversy also reopened debates about authenticity and influencer culture
00:51:42.780
especially in ideological spaces where personal life and public messaging are closely tied together
00:51:47.560
here we see the raw egg nationalist friend of the show been on the show yes one month before he died
00:51:53.060
charlie kirk congratulated sarah stock on her engagement she had been having an affair with her married boss
00:52:00.160
the moment her boyfriend popped the question what a tangled web try to influencers weave and that's her
00:52:06.020
showing her ring in front of a feel and with charlie kirk saying congrats marriage is amazing and marriage is
00:52:12.340
amazing when you have a good partner and i still by the way think charlie kirk's partner is and
00:52:16.060
has been a good partner and i do not like the scandal that people make up about her i think it's
00:52:20.360
deeply disgusting the way that people like nick pointe's talk about her candace owens and a bunch
00:52:25.240
of other and candace owens a lot of candace owens by the way is somebody who i would totally expect to
00:52:29.320
have a crash out i'm sorry she's been crashing out oh never sorry guys i know there's a lot of really
00:52:35.780
big candace owens fans who watch based camp she's fun she's very entertaining but yeah there's
00:52:41.220
i haven't seen her go against her fan base she may be spiky but she doesn't go against her fan base
00:52:48.660
from what i've seen which to me is a sign that she might have a crash out soon i don't know i see her
00:52:53.920
well i mean at least i would be shocked if she wasn't utterly devoted to her family her husband
00:52:59.260
works with her i don't know like i i get the impression that she's very much leaned into them
00:53:04.200
maybe to me she just has a lot of warning signs for sure for sure i mean she's opportune she's
00:53:10.920
she's enterprising she's an enterprising young woman throughout the scandal will setka has made
00:53:15.720
no public statement what a classy guy this guy is he has not appeared in interviews nor responded on
00:53:20.800
social media the silence has only increased public curiosity about her commentary on videos and threads
00:53:25.200
often refer to him as a private man pulled into a public crisis many discussions frame him as less a
00:53:30.680
participant and more as collateral damage in a story dominated by louder personalities
00:53:49.340
we've got to get the full story and finish it another day okay because there's a story about how
00:53:56.620
the other guy who was having the affair crashed out oh yes it was effing hilarious
00:54:01.600
well i'll skip to the good crash out portions from that story and we'll finish that another day and
00:54:08.280
stitch it on here yeah yeah or you can record it over like as an add-on to this as you just no no no
00:54:15.660
no no you have to you have to react this is fun stuff simone i love the gossip i do i would
00:54:22.320
a little bit of gossip on our podcast no i love gossip we don't want to get gossip okay and i love
00:54:27.740
that our our part of the conservative scene has no gossip we we generally like none of the online
00:54:37.400
new right really attacks each other aggressively none of the online new right really seriously right
00:54:43.420
like i have like genuine affection for even the people who i think like strategically are
00:54:50.980
the most like opposed to us like the like i for example i love emma waters i love her so much i love
00:54:59.320
her husband oh yeah she's she recently tweeted something along the lines of like ivf is going to
00:55:04.780
be the new like pro-choice front of the war like we're moving the front lines from abortion to ivf
00:55:15.140
i'm like wow here we go and people are people like us are going to stop fighting for republicans if you
00:55:20.760
get people voting for that i mean it's just it's going to be it's going to be a very interesting
00:55:24.560
debate and and and despite that despite the fact that we're going to be at ideological loggerheads
00:55:29.740
there i i love them i love them if they if their house burned down and they're like we need somewhere
00:55:36.080
to stay i'd be like come here you know like that kind of love and you know how i feel about people
00:55:40.680
i hate people i don't want to be around people but i would open up our house to them so yeah it just
00:55:44.880
that's such a contrast to the rest of this movement which feels so catty it's like fifth grade girls
00:55:49.480
they're so mean they're a completely different thing they're all old school republican like you know
00:55:55.240
turning points usa types right like that community had a lot of of people who just cared about
00:56:01.140
signaling whereas if you look at the online right you know your your your kirscher's your nexonora's
00:56:06.880
your asthma gold's your because fundamentally these are people who care about society and the future of
00:56:12.240
humanity like we may disagree about tactics but we we have very spirited debates about how to do it and
00:56:17.900
we're all like really trying to like work on this project that is humanity like that's what we're
00:56:23.240
autistically all so excited about and we understand that like we're not mad at each other for
00:56:28.880
disagreeing because we're like i respect that you care about this as much as i do let's figure this
00:56:33.360
out together and i love that and like a little rivalry is fun too i mean we can have fun oh gosh
00:56:39.120
okay we have to get the kids i love you love you okay here is the longer juicier article for much of
00:56:44.440
the past decade chauffeur has been a regular presence on the far-right conservative media scene as a
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podcaster commentator and in his latest incarnation as the ceo of the outlet rift tv
00:56:53.940
schaefer and various sidekicks would often discuss trad values of which he married in 2020 and now the
00:57:01.320
father of two young children was not just an outspoken supporter but presumably an exemplar a few
00:57:07.480
months ago chauffeur took a mysterious months-long absence from his live string show on rumble the
00:57:13.080
right-wing video platform when he returned last week on january 26 he looked rough chauffeur admitted
00:57:19.580
his face was unusually red he blamed the lights in the new studio and said he had developed a quote
00:57:25.520
unquote permanent black eye from a crushing mental stress as he put it and that would cause lesser men
00:57:32.820
to unalive chauffeur certainly had plenty to be stressed about fbi director cash patel's girlfriend
00:57:39.320
is suing him for suggesting she's a massad agent yeah he claimed that people were trying to kill him
00:57:45.220
but unbeknownst to his listeners something else was weighing on chauffeur despite being one of the
00:57:50.440
digital rights most vocal boosters of traditional families he had filed for divorce from his wife
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four days earlier ditching his usual material aimed at whipping up hate towards indian immigrants and
00:58:02.400
muslims chauffeur instead used his return show to launch into a baffling rant straight out of
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family court he vowed that he wouldn't give up his son's quote without a few shots fired end quote
00:58:14.960
he told his viewers he wasn't necessarily speaking metaphorically right normally that ends with in
00:58:23.100
minecraft he's like no i'm not i'm not gonna go down without without you know a few shots fired
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chauffeur said figuratively figuratively of course we're saying but physically too if needed
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oh god this is about his wife mind you then chauffeur
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and then chauffeur appeared to address his estranged wife mama bear mama bear f you chauffeur said
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what about dad what about dad don't f with me don't f with my kids don't f with my income
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don't f with my ability to take care of my kids i will f you up the monologue grew stranger
00:59:05.480
chauffeur urged his fans to to learn from him and overcome their addictions their thoughts of
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unaliving their impulse to commit criminal behavior and their sexual proclivities still he couldn't help
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but limit how far his star has fallen i'd really like to regrow i'd like to get back to where i was a
00:59:23.960
couple years ago he said why wouldn't chauffeur was once a rising star on the right not as a commentator
00:59:30.140
on trad issues but as an ad-libbing political loudmouth his coverage of the 2020 riots in the
00:59:34.940
wake of george lloyd's murder propelled him into a job hosting a popular show for mentor glenn beck's
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network blaze chauffeur's boozy racist frat boy persona was a hit and it seemed not even asserting
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that mormons like his boss beck would burn in hell could stop him he literally was in nancy pelosi's
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office on january 26th and saw his statue grew because of it but in 2020 chauffeur was fired from
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blaze after allegedly groping a co-worker oh he also provoked another harassment lawsuit against the
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outlet from his female co-host what sorry i'm clicking on this article about him groping
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he groped akali's breasts without her consent jesus how could how do you not just not grope a co-worker
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yeah if you're gonna if you're gonna grope keep it this is when he took a this is when he took his
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trad turn chauffeur emerged from that initial disgrace by becoming a vocal family man touting
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his wife and children frequently on social media and shaming other influencers who didn't have strong
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marriages and households it worked for a time but it apparently wasn't enough to save off financial
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trouble for the rift tv an online channel chauffeur launched last may the platform had seen his public
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staff list dwindle in the last few months this job has destroyed me and i'm not even very popular
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chauffeur said during a january 28th worst was to come on monday chauffeur posted a bizarre video that
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showed him wandering around an empty hotel conference room as they were flooded with water
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what i clicked through to that and it is exactly as described just him holding the camera and
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yeah flooded hotel it's weird very fever dreamy
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while hallucinating on an unknown substance yeah just click on it you'll see it is exactly as
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described that you don't know how else to put it there's no other way you can put it it's a flooded
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hotel conference area he's in a dark place yeah he's in flooded liminal spaces hallucinating it's not
01:01:56.200
good i also find it a very interesting thing and it shows his psychology that he goes from groping
01:02:01.940
a female co-worker to trying to play up the trad image i am lucky i do not have a problem with
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groping i've never felt tempted to grope a staff member it just seems i i guess is it about power
01:02:16.580
theoretically that like i can do this and i'm gonna get away with it maybe but i think that in the past
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it was more just like the same kind of impulse that maybe grandparents have with grandchildren's
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cheeks you know like oh no groping a breast is not like that it's not oh no i don't know i can't
01:02:40.360
i can't model this even when i was horny all the time as a kid i i would i was better than to grope
01:02:47.320
other like the level of self-control you need to lack to think that that will end up okay but then
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to go from there to the trad influencers chick anyway on tuesday shofer made a strange x post
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about his family being kidnapped and claimed the fbi without to murder him promoting worries on the
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right that he himself had hurt or endangered his own family in a mark of how twisted the far the
01:03:13.540
online right has become far right youtuber jean francis gourmet whose own wife disappeared under
01:03:19.340
mysterious circumstances in 2023 and was never found wondered openly whether shofer was smart
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enough to murder his spouse without being discovered the shade wait no did you fully grok
01:03:35.240
what just happened so this guy whose wife disappeared under mysterious circumstances has never been found
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yeah wondered if this other guy was smart enough to murder his wife without being caught well he knows
01:03:47.580
what it takes so oh my god poor elijah gropey asked does he have the brains to get away with it
01:03:55.340
fortunately he's trying to like grant himself as the new oh my god if if it doesn't fit you have to
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acquit oj simpson oj simpson yeah fortunately shofer's family members appeared to be safe but the scandal
01:04:09.340
engulfing him only grew wider i mean if my wife died i would not be making jokes like that even if it
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was very mysterious or disappeared right like i would be quite distraught given that this only
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happened like a couple years ago for this guy i don't know it didn't take oj a long time and then
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he wrote if i did it but he did do it so that's why the victim's family i think i don't know took
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sued and got the book and then they renamed it i did it i think they just made the if very small
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right wing provocateur milo posted recordings and transcripts on social media on a tuesday chat
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that raised questions about shofar's hypocrisy and mental stability in one recording a man sounds
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very much like shofar supposedly talks about having a drinking problem another purports to feature
01:04:57.000
sarah stock who for the last year has been a political commentator street interviewer debater and
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contributor for rift tv that recording captures part of the conversation between an unnamed man who
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is not yannopoulos and a woman as she described some sort of sexual relationship with shofar
01:05:15.040
that began at the conservative political action conference presumably in 2025 that woman who
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yannopoulos claims is stock said that he had sexual uh encounter with shofar after he offered her
01:05:27.880
benadryl and shots of alcohol prompting her to black out yannopoulos is a notoriously shifty figure
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that said the same audio recordings were also sent to me not from him and while i have not been able
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to authenticate them neither shofar nor stock has directly denied them no it seems obvious it's
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many of the claims about her were false but she also apologized for her actions
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there were mistakes and unwind decisions i have made that i deeply regret stock wrote
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and i apologize to everyone that has been scandalized by this she then deleted her x account
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entirely neither shofar nor stock responded to requests for comments stock had become a right
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wing catholic influencer after converting to the face less than a year ago so she converted into it so
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it doesn't even explain why she's horny all the time that that only makes sense for people
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well maybe she's you know she's a catholic soul gained some prominence online after she delivered
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a racist rant during a youtube debate show featuring liberal commentator sam cedar since then she has
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been a fierce opponent of extra sex denouncing fornication stock is also a familiar figure to false
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flag readers because of the drama that started last year when she posted a picture
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of her engagement ring rival in the diamond far too small setting off a vicious round of female
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mega infighting yeah that was fun the girls were fighting over ring size yeah it was great
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just pearly things i know they did have a small size but like my takeaway was but isn't her husband
01:07:07.620
a conservative like like organizer like he's not going to make a lot of money well yeah i mean but
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the whole point was like yeah some girls were like oh that's embarrassing whereas others were like
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that's your whole like the whole point is the marriage and and modesty and how dare you criticize
01:07:24.980
the size of the ring do i have to say malcolm when you came i loved i loved how i felt with the
01:07:34.880
big engagement ring that you gave me that was your mom's earring because i remember once it got on an
01:07:41.300
elevator and this guy turns to me he's like man your husband loves you
01:07:46.760
wow so i understand why the debate took place because i didn't realize until i received an
01:07:57.820
engagement ring with your mom's rock that was big how much people judge you based on your engagement
01:08:04.600
ring i wish i could still wear it my fingers weren't swollen sausages her fingers are incredibly
01:08:10.960
swollen because of the cold and her anyway yeah so stock's alleged affair with chauffeur ended once
01:08:17.280
she got engaged according to the recording but on the maga right the widely discussed episode has
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dented both her and chauffeur's images as strict moralists in fact the brewing scandal has provoked
01:08:28.820
what can only be described as an outpouring of schadenfreude both for chauffeur and stock have made
01:08:33.480
many enemies on the right in part because of their vigorous moral policing the moral police are always the
01:08:38.540
people who are this is what i was saying and what i really mean when somebody's trying to police the
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morality of other individuals i think it's very likely that they like we engage in team sports a
01:08:49.980
bit or i'll call out people for specific actions i think are hurtful to the right's wider political
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goals we're very open about our own debauchery and flaws i mean i don't think anyone thinks we're
01:08:59.660
trying to hide something we're pretty that debauched well i mean okay by some people's standards like
01:09:07.540
we're very pro-porn we're very like we're very open about like enjoying low culture and anime and
01:09:16.260
anime and anime and video games and anime video games porn coors lights the worst i mean well yeah i mean
01:09:27.380
a lot of my point is yeah well what i wonder too is you know there's that whole dynamic of oh
01:09:35.220
if your partner is suspects that you're cheating they're probably cheating is there is this kind
01:09:40.860
of the same thing where if someone is heavily criticizing i think that's a good way to stop
01:09:46.180
the behavior to make that assumption going forward to be like the only people who do this sort of moral
01:09:50.740
policing or are people who like are closeted moral bankrupt morally bankrupt people yeah i mean i
01:09:59.340
just think that like the only person who really like gets angry about this stuff and and edges on
01:10:04.560
this stuff is people who have done it in the past you know well yeah i i'm trying to think of the
01:10:09.300
the people who freak out about like you using ivf or the people who have had secret abortions right
01:10:14.140
like it's always like whatever you're doing but in some way like twisted but there's different so
01:10:18.460
there there are people who criticize ivf and who we've had fantastic ivf debates about but then
01:10:24.820
we're like like that's sinful like do it but it's sinful and i don't think that they're secretly like
01:10:31.140
they are because they're not about like people who give a lot of what i would say is like etiquette
01:10:38.340
or moral advice and who i genuinely believe stick to it like i'm thinking about the emily post books
01:10:43.760
that i love so much moral advice that is emotionally charged or moral policing that
01:10:49.340
is emotionally charged there's no reason yeah yeah when it's but when it's logically driven i think
01:10:54.900
when people are like hey you know it's it's it's optimal to do this because x reason i think then you
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can kind of trust them whereas if someone's like look at this disgusting cow like there's there's
01:11:08.040
something there yeah maybe yeah oh you know what another example of this that i see a lot
01:11:16.920
is actually with diet shaming the the people that i see online for example who have youtube channels
01:11:23.020
where they do a lot of diet shaming are themselves very clearly disordered in their eating and like not
01:11:29.560
and closeted about it so like they themselves have their own like healthy eating programs and it's very
01:11:34.640
clear that they're like incredibly disordered and they're like they both body dysmorphia and very
01:11:40.800
like poorly handled eating problems and then they like to go on and critique other people's things
01:11:46.160
and there's a whole circle of that so i think that's yeah that's it when it's when it's emotionally
01:11:49.920
charged it's there's a red flag yeah like i'm very open about the fact that i'm a functional anorexic
01:11:55.760
and i have zero qualms about it much of the criticism that has been directed at the pair has centered on
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the fact that stock apparently entered into a sexual relationship with a married man right before
01:12:08.080
she decided to have her own marriage blessed by the pope why would you wouldn't you like can you
01:12:13.360
imagine how miserable you'd be having your marriage blessed by the pope having done all that though
01:12:20.080
or maybe not because you just ask for forgiveness if you don't believe any of it and you can ask for
01:12:24.160
forgiveness it makes for a really good confessional session you know what i mean
01:12:27.760
oh the priest is like i can only imagine some like catholic priests like wow
01:12:34.640
clap clap clap like you are not good at this i don't know i could actually i could model a mindset
01:12:44.800
being catholic this is not understanding catholicism very well maybe not because i
01:12:50.480
i had a college crush on a guy who became a catholic priest and we'd ask him a lot of questions
01:12:55.840
about catholicism as an excuse to talk to him and so maybe i know more about catholicism than i want
01:13:01.760
to admit to myself but i could see a world in which you kind of want something good to bring to
01:13:07.920
confession because otherwise the drama of your life gets very boring and like the whole catholic thing
01:13:14.400
is like the struggle to become pure and good and clean you know like the whole point is climbing up on
01:13:21.680
your husband right before your marriage is blessed well but like where's the narrative in that where's
01:13:26.480
the confession where's the redemption like it's all about the hero's journey but just again and again
01:13:31.600
and again and you're not going to get a hero's journey if you haven't sinned so having a good
01:13:36.800
sin and a good thing to take to confessional and a good redemption arc so like maybe that's what
01:13:43.680
catholics really like stories narrative arcs yeah yeah you need a redemption arc so sinning is okay
01:13:49.440
because you you can't really have a redemption arc without it like where is the suffering where's the
01:13:53.840
toil if you're just born a saint right and then those who are saints who just are amazing go out of
01:13:59.680
their way to become martyrs because how else are they going to go through their suffering of a
01:14:04.480
redemption arc if not like to be martyrs right so maybe that's kind of the thing the thing i point out
01:14:10.320
when people are like oh you criticize people on your show as well no when we criticize people it's over
01:14:14.880
it's over strategy it's over like i think that the way that for example bannon has acted in the
01:14:21.360
past was very deleterious the wider conservative movement or ben shapiro has acted is deleterious to
01:14:27.920
the wider conservative movement in his individual goals that's different from being like i think ben
01:14:34.000
shapiro has a crush on his sister or something right which a lot of people do right you know they'll
01:14:40.240
say something like that which is just like a personal you know attack or i think that you know
01:14:45.680
x person isn't being chased enough right i i don't think so yeah anyway to continue
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the trad stuff is a performative bs it declared a mega influencer emily saves america who had clashed
01:14:57.920
with stock in the diamond size debate sidley watson chauffeur's former blaze co-host who sued the
01:15:03.040
company over his alleged harassment posted a picture of the frog character peeking through the blinds
01:15:10.880
rift tv personalities dropped their affiliations with the site listed on their x accounts
01:15:16.000
even an indian account on x dredged up an old attack chauffeur made on the hindu god vishnu declaring
01:15:22.720
that his current scoundrel vindicated the hindu pantheon what on vishnu again it declared
01:15:30.880
oh my god apparently he's like anti-indian and yet some people were likely
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and this is what i see nobody's really that anti-indian like this the thing is but sorry
01:15:40.960
what i mean to say is people can hate indians taking tech jobs you know what i mean and that
01:15:47.760
they have discriminatory hiring practices against indians and those are real and endemic problems in
01:15:54.720
the tech industry but the problem is is anyone who's been personally affected by those issues also
01:16:00.560
likely has indian friends and it's really hard to like actually hate an ethnicity if you have a
01:16:06.640
number of friends from that ethnicity so i don't know though when we posted our our episode about
01:16:12.640
the the scary demography of india as a country people especially canadians oh
01:16:25.280
well maybe maybe the immigration levels in canada well the immigration levels in canada have gotten
01:16:30.240
to a level where it's not just with indians but but partially with indians it is designed to replace
01:16:35.440
the existing population because they have such low fertility rates and they really need to keep
01:16:40.560
the inflow coming in for for the economic pyramid that is canada to stay afloat well from the perspective
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of the politicians at this point just need to lean more heavily on made i don't know what to say
01:16:50.400
and what they need is for alberta to break off and join the us yeah come over here let's see how
01:16:56.320
canada gets up gets through without its oil we'd love to have you guys the water's fine yeah
01:17:01.840
not even a year ago at a conservative conference he did he did my friend four
01:17:07.520
times in one night unprotected while he was married a walker said at the time
01:17:13.040
oh what okay sorry i missed this part and yet some people likely not terribly surprised that
01:17:18.480
chauffeur was involved in a scandal like this back in 2020 sassy right-wing influencer
01:17:22.560
christopher walker accused chauffeur of cheating on his wife at a republican event
01:17:26.480
not even a year ago at a conservative conference he did my friend four times in one night unprotected
01:17:32.400
while he was married jeez man at a conservative conference four times in one night it no that's just
01:17:41.520
one night that that's too much effort too no but like no i just feel like saying four times it's
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like no you're what are you very enthusiastic about the whole thing chauffeur had also made numerous
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strange thirst trap style photos in recent months in a november instagram post captioned with a message
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about how much he loved his family the photo showed him smoking an old-timey pipe while wearing an
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orthodox christian cross but this was immediately followed by a steamy shirtless selfie that cut
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off right above his groin i'll spare you the actual image what i mean this this to go to a conservative
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conference to have this persona and then she shows that the whole thing is just completely fake for him
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everything i don't know i feel like we're missing out on something with conservative conferences
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because because i also hear about all the like the this spike in gay dating app activity when
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there's a conservative to hook up with other women is that what you're saying that's why i find your
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sister why although it just seems like everyone's like hooking up with other women and men are
01:18:50.160
hooking up with men too it's just like men are just swimming in whatever it is they want to swim in
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it's like okay like let's let's go to the the sex con i mean conservative conference and something's going on i don't know what but like
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i have been to conservative conferences and i have never been like this is a great place to hook up
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i'm always like i gotta network and get on the next big show we really missed i mean i think this is one
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of those things where you have to be connected i mean it's all about the after parties and it's not
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you know well i mean yeah we're that this is the thing our conservative sphere when i go to the conservative
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conferences i'm like who do who do i want to meet up with it's like curtis right like he's always fun
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to chat with at the conferences he's always got some fun thing going on and and and curtis yarvin
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is not exactly the crazy after party i mean i'm sure he gets invited that's what you think we just don't
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want to stay up that late yeah oh yeah if we were invited to a party at like eight you and i would be
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like f that we've seen him at parties at night and then he's just getting warmed up and we're like
01:19:57.760
okay bye goodbye sleep now well i went late the last conservative event into like a club or something
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and that's where i met lord miles lord miles was there was that it the vegas one or the
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uh my this is the london one oh okay god are we gonna go to conservative conferences i forgot that
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damn anyway to continue chauffeur's downfall isn't just a personal shakespearean tragedy
01:20:26.800
a modern adaptation set to the most idiotic corner of the online hype world it adds fodder
01:20:32.080
us to the right's ongoing civil war yannopoulos who plays a sort of mythic trickster role in maga media
01:20:38.240
hates white nationalist podcaster nick fuentes in the hierarchy of the online right chauffeur is
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a restless vassal of the far more successful fuentes meaning yannopoulos can undermine fuentes
01:20:49.600
by going after chauffeur no surprise then that in one of the recordings yannopoulos released there's
01:20:54.960
discussion about how chauffeur quietly talks so much s-a-h-i-t about fuentes out of envy but the
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biggest damage may have been inflicted on the online trad brand as a whole conservative
01:21:07.920
podcaster ali buckley complained that the affair demonstrated that women posing as trad wives
01:21:12.640
had become a fetish for right-wing men far-right commentator virillium who recently cut ties with
01:21:19.120
chauffeur after being exposed himself for making posts years ago about being gay summed it up it's
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allie dang dang but this is the whole fuentes fear it's i mean as i said fuentes this thing is a larp
01:21:37.280
anyway and and like his actual lifestyle i've heard it's pretty debauched like i just love that
01:21:42.720
milo yannopoulos is so back he's just like dishing all this dirt on oh absolutely we gotta we gotta
01:21:48.880
recruit my leg in the team hot fights i we gotta get milo yannopoulos on our side of the conservative
01:21:55.200
movement one of our super fans recently asked me who is my favorite catholic influencer and i had
01:22:00.800
totally blinked on this because i haven't watched this stuff in a while but easily the answer would be
01:22:04.720
my like i was just so sad when i heard that he like wasn't gay anymore because i have this weird
01:22:10.080
bias and i was like well that means he's not going to be fun anymore i like i don't know why i thought
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that it's not like when you choose to not indulge in a certain like element of your sexuality that you
01:22:20.400
just cease to be everything else with your personality but i just thought that and i was just
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i can't express the relief i felt when it turned out that no he's still hilarious catty articulate
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but but he like disappeared from where i was at i used to love his content i was so sad too
01:22:36.800
yeah and no he's just he was he had this is the thing we're recently talking with our super fans
01:22:43.440
about like if we do like meetups about like why fuentes is as popular as he is and one of the things
01:22:48.240
i said is it's one of the big reasons probably just that he seems to be happy when he talks about
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like your friends are fuentes not milo yannopoulos yeah he seems happy too but i was gonna say
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yannopoulos is the only other conservative that seems as happy as fuentes yeah when he's
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in his like controversial and i think he just did the nick fuentes take much better than fuentes ever
01:23:08.960
did he was like smarter and better at debating so i'd love to see him get back into the the game
01:23:14.880
i mean i think especially given that his arc now you know he actually you know went through
01:23:19.040
something and and challenged a mainstream narrative which is like being same-sex attractive
01:23:24.000
that's something you have to make a lifestyle so that'd be fun to see but the broader thing
01:23:29.600
here and i think you see this is in the online civil war i think a lot of people can't see what
01:23:35.920
is very apparent to a lot of the online right is it the other side the moralizing side they're all
01:23:42.800
faking it they're they're generally grifters who are saying what they're saying for the fame
01:23:49.920
like but recently nick fuentes has come out and he's like i love jeffrey epstein right
01:23:54.080
so you gotta understand if you think like oh hitler's good because nick fuentes said hitler
01:23:58.720
is good he liked hitler in the same way he liked jeffrey epstein okay like these are equivalent figures
01:24:04.480
to him right and you gotta realize oh maybe he's just saying whatever he thinks is the most shocking
01:24:10.480
thing he can say is and he doesn't have a coherent larger ideology in the because there's no reason
01:24:16.160
to like to think jeffrey epstein is cool like well where it starts to fall apart is when it's hitler
01:24:22.800
and stalin and jeffrey epstein if you liked it one or multiple of them for their for yeah
01:24:32.880
like the controversial all of them for their merits yeah and then also just not also simultaneously
01:24:40.720
appreciate other people who are more broadly lauded for their merits shows
01:24:48.800
i just wish that the mob was better or could more quickly discern when somebody is fake like this
01:24:55.760
because i think it's often pretty obvious if the guy got fired for groping his co-worker
01:25:01.280
he is not a traditional family man i don't think people care about what's true or fake i think they
01:25:09.520
care about how people make them feel yeah that's true so it doesn't matter this guy managed to make
01:25:17.840
people feel a certain way and i think one of the reasons why a lot of these people cast shade is
01:25:25.120
because other people enjoy seeing that happen milo yiannopoulos cast shade because people enjoy
01:25:32.240
watching him do it and he does it really well so i i it that's not i don't think that's the question
01:25:40.800
i think that the more important question is how can you do this even if you're disingenuous in a way
01:25:49.040
that is sustainable and maybe part of it involves having to occasionally reinvent yourself like milo
01:25:56.960
yiannopoulos did um i think this guy kind of did that when he went from groping employees to
01:26:05.920
touting his trad dad lifestyle and now he's going to go for some new redemption arc of
01:26:13.440
i've recovered from i mean look at how jordan peterson did that oh and i'm recovering from
01:26:19.120
addiction it's just that that these various public figures are able to make these recoveries
01:26:25.040
with varying degrees of success not everyone is able to pull it off so you can be as fake
01:26:32.000
as you want to be it's more a question of how you manage the narrative and how that
01:26:36.000
narrative makes people feel and how entertaining it is for people to watch
01:26:41.520
that makes a lot of sense you can see this with totally non-political figures as well
01:26:47.120
uh who show up in various like you know snark youtube history channels you know like from
01:26:57.360
random youtubers who have weird tragic upbringings as weeb stars to i don't know i just even myself the
01:27:08.880
funny thing about me is is if i made a living moralizing about sexual values and i was at a
01:27:16.720
conservative conference it's not even out of morality i wouldn't sleep with a random woman there i wouldn't
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do it because i'd be too scared about hurting my career like the the level of just um foolishness
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on display here like does he have any self-control i think no part of it's though
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it's like a demon that only exists if you give it power and if you believe in it
01:27:53.120
like if you just stop caring about sex which of course for many easier said than done but like
01:28:02.640
it okay look at very conservative islamic societies right or even historical societies in in in many
01:28:10.640
western countries there's this you know collective belief that oh like if a woman is uncovered i won't
01:28:16.480
be able to control myself like of course i will r-a-p-e her right like how i of it was her
01:28:22.960
fault you know she i saw her and then people do it right like but you can't have that that they they
01:28:31.920
need each other that that that very conservative approach to sexuality and morality is needed like
01:28:40.640
it it can't be justified if you don't also have this uncontrollable urge and i think you can't be
01:28:47.760
this kind of really good point moralizer if you're not also like seeing yourself and genuinely believing
01:28:55.520
that you're constantly tempted because why else would you stand from the high hill of social media
01:29:02.320
and scream out to your followers how important it is to have these values and restrain yourself
01:29:07.280
restrain yourself from what i mean for us it's like well i don't care you know so we don't need
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to talk about it because it's not a struggle you need it to be a struggle so of course they're going
01:29:18.320
to slip because well i mean and also if you're going out there and he is actually following the
01:29:25.360
rules on something like porn right the whole not sleeping with random people is going to be a lot
01:29:30.960
harder thing like another guy might just be like oh i'm gonna go back you know and goon or something
01:29:36.880
like that and he's like oh here's a that's not an option for me so i'm gonna use a real girl as my
01:29:41.840
only hole it's so gross that people live that way like don't involve someone else in your non-procreative
01:29:51.440
sexual activity i'm seeing right now if he if he had anti-porn views because yeah that freaking explains
01:29:58.800
it for me so many people have anti-porn views and i i only respect a very small segment of them
01:30:06.400
that that also believe that non-procreative sex is a sin like i will respect your your anti-porn
01:30:13.040
views if that's what you hold if you are only having unprotected sex with your spouse
01:30:21.520
here when we talk about porn versus anti-porn i'm not talking about porn involving
01:30:24.640
real women i am i am not for that because that has negative externalities for the women involved
01:30:31.120
oh human non-synthetic porn yeah but like ai porn and stuff like that i don't i don't see what the
01:30:37.760
negative so yeah he was anti-porn on multiple instances across social media of course he was
01:30:44.080
of course he was that really feels to me so disingenuous when many people talk about it though
01:30:51.680
because it just seems like one of those things that you say because you know people are gonna be
01:30:57.120
like yeah like it's almost like talking about the weather in certain circles like man it's so cold
01:31:02.800
i just hate the cold then everyone's like yeah i hate the cold this sucks or like oh it's too hot
01:31:07.920
i'm sweating like a what what sweats a lot i was gonna say like a horse do horses sweat
01:31:13.600
you pee like a racehorse you sweat like a pig do you pick sweat though you've never
01:31:27.440
seen a sweaty pig anyway uh i i yeah i just i i actually think that a lot of people haven't put
01:31:36.320
really any thought into it and they may not consume what they consider to be erotic material
01:31:44.160
themselves especially if they're women because they read romance novels and they're like i'm just
01:31:47.920
reading literature it's fine i am an intellectual it's just 50 shades of gray yes
01:31:57.040
men and their degenerate vanilla how dare these men read this i'm gonna read no i love it when women
01:32:05.520
are like i just watch books about monster effing but how dare these men watch porn where women are
01:32:10.640
being degraded no don't you understand malcolm that morning glory milking farm is an anti-capitalist
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scream the great intellectual work of our time god you're amazing thank you very much malcolm
01:32:24.960
you are fantastic i don't know if you saw this morning andy was so sweet when i was kneeling down
01:32:30.640
and i was still feeding text when i was checking on her and then she just wants to stand close to me and
01:32:35.200
hold texas bottle and feed him yeah and help with feeding my turkey she knows what i mean i'll say it
01:32:46.960
later okay i love these noodles i love you i love you wonderful day me too all right so did i i blow your
01:32:59.520
mind with that episode yeah that was jeffrey epstein freaking incredible no one else found that evidence
01:33:07.600
i was like why no one else is pointing at that and they're all pointing at this like obviously
01:33:11.440
like doctored images and stuff i part of me wonders if
01:33:18.960
people involved with the epstein file releases intentionally waited until ai got especially
01:33:24.960
generative ai got further along until releasing more files because at this point people are having
01:33:30.080
such a crisis of reality in terms of what's real and what's not and there are so many ai fakes mixed
01:33:36.480
in with everything that's being released where people are kind of not caring anymore and they're like
01:33:40.880
i don't know it's real anymore so i'm just overloaded and i don't care well i think it does
01:33:45.520
dampen you it's creators like nuts and asthma gold who otherwise you know i respect and i see as goals for like
01:33:51.760
our channel they don't even google before they present something is this a provably doctored image
01:33:57.440
well you know the views they i think they view this more as entertainment value and not as as
01:34:08.080
news reporting and they never pretend to be like i'm going to give you the facts we we try like we what
01:34:15.280
we're doing in our channel is you and i as husband and wife are talking through things that we find
01:34:20.480
interesting and genuinely trying to figure out what we think of reality so we're a little bit more
01:34:24.880
focused on trying to get to at least what we want to conclude as our going reality at for any hypothesis
01:34:32.160
for reality yeah because but asmongold and he's very clear about this is all about the entertainment
01:34:40.640
value and he's talked about this in the context of for example the johnny depp and amber heard trial
01:34:45.760
where he was just like i farmed that for days like it was great it wasn't about truth it wasn't
01:34:50.160
about substance it wasn't about figuring out something about the world it was about watching
01:34:54.320
the dumpster fire burn and you can also see this in his ice coverage i respect that and i don't expect
01:34:59.280
him to give me accurate information i expect him to give me amusing reactions to things and i'm 100
01:35:04.080
here for it i love them all right well we're going to do a little bit of that today watching the world burn
01:35:10.960
good what happens if he sees the dinosaurs here i find all of them will he gobble them up
01:35:24.640
but titan you're a shark princess what if you gobble them up no titan do you eat dinosaurs
01:35:33.440
that makes sense that makes sense and so you've got to build the paddock to protect them from yourself
01:36:15.040
what are the helicopters going to destroy the t-rex