Based Camp - August 13, 2026


The Girl Gooner Apocalypse (Is A Good Thing？)

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Malcolm Collins Simone Collins
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00:00:00 your face what what so you can see we've reached mainstream no you you you haven't read these
00:00:10 books you don't understand what women are reading about those books in these books would you like
00:00:16 to know more hello simone i'm excited to be here with you today we have touched on the topic of
00:00:21 the rise of the female gooning wave but i wanted to go deeper into both the research around it
00:00:28 and how that wave is changing because it's having a much bigger impact on society than people think
00:00:35 excuse me are people researching female gooners oh yes we have many reasons simone would you say
00:00:42 female gooners as if they're the rare thing the vast no i know look trust me i know yes oh yeah
00:00:50 i know you know because i know what you listen to at night simone stop i'm listening to the
00:00:55 test him oh never mind yeah that's pretty messed up so i actually want to ask it for later which
00:01:01 industry makes more this or male oh no we did this before the the romance novel industry makes
00:01:10 a ton more money are you kidding me well we'll see it's not even funny yeah a third a third of
00:01:18 all fiction books is that people are reading right now are female gooning books no one reads anymore
00:01:23 except for certain reasons this has gone up from 23 percent just a decade ago the romance sales 0.95
00:01:33 industry year over year grew 24 percent this year in the in the first half of the year circa book
00:01:41 scan and 26 percent of survey readers reported buying more than one romance book in the prior
00:01:50 year now for i want to get to this immediately because a lot of people in our channel are going
00:01:56 to jump and be like oh this is terrible oh these women they're partners how terrible is this so
00:02:01 coles and sharp in 1984 did a study and what they found was that readers had sex twice as often per
00:02:10 week as non-readers yeah that makes sense because they're kind of just getting themselves in that
00:02:14 frame of mind women have to be like reminded that they're sexually interested i think more
00:02:20 than men do men it's like it's there for the most part women need to be reminded they can be sexual
00:02:25 i think that's absolutely a good point i want to i want to expand on this point after i go into it
00:02:29 the the um among housewives specifically readers were significantly more sexually satisfied than
00:02:37 non-readers well you know we we when you originally wrote the pragmatist guide to sexuality you looked
00:02:42 at you didn't do romance novel readers you just pulled people about their erotic material
00:02:48 consumption but then you found that people who consumed erotic material who were female like so
00:02:53 women who consumed erotic material it had much more satisfying and active sex lives like if you 0.70
00:02:59 are a boyfriend a husband anyone who has intimate access to a woman and you want her to be a little 1.00
00:03:04 bit more forward in her advances you should get buy buy her the best selling romance novels the 1.00
00:03:14 most perverted stuff so she's got perversions on her mind all the time you need yes she needs to 1.00
00:03:20 have a dirty mind if her mind isn't dirty it's your fault okay this is and women experiment with 1.00
00:03:26 these things with their partners so they the ones who do this do significantly more fantasy play 0.99
00:03:30 but the reason i wanted to put that out there to start with is it's the same as the pornography 0.63
00:03:37 thing right like guys who consume porn have more and better sex than guys who don't consume porn
00:03:43 this has been shown in like multiple studies right you know it's it look people who watch
00:03:48 cooking shows probably have better cooking techniques and cook more than people who don't
00:03:52 watch cooking shows yeah it's and it's not no i i do want to make an aside here before i go further
00:03:58 there is clearly a type of woman and a type of man who cannot engage healthily with this type 0.87
00:04:05 of content yeah no yeah there's also people who can't engage healthily with food or exercise you 0.99
00:04:10 know that gets one shot and goes full goon cave and never leaves her room after that right there 1.00
00:04:16 is a type but did you want her as a girlfriend in the first place right if she's that kind of 1.00
00:04:20 person i well you know she might get obsessed with you if that was her only alternative i don't think 1.00
00:04:26 that's gonna happen though no these types of women are typically in my experience pretty histionic 1.00
00:04:31 and an issue to date an issue to date you don't you don't want a super horny girlfriend or wife 1.00
00:04:39 i i have done that before it is very exhausting because you've got to remember sorry you had a
00:04:44 friend a fred flintstone moment with that didn't you what do you mean banging on your door wilma
00:04:50 yeah oh sorry i always say that with a german accent because i was once locked out of a french
00:04:55 hotel and there was a german outside and he was banging on the door screaming wilma but in a
00:04:59 german accent it's iconic and it was the best moment i ever had in paris german locked out of
00:05:05 a hotel sorry oh my god okay carry on but you had a girl literally trying to bang down your door
00:05:11 to get to that yes yes but guys forget when they're like no it would always be great to 0.99
00:05:16 have like a maximally horny girl it's like sex is majority of the work 99 of the physical effort 0.99
00:05:25 is the male if your partner wants to have sex way more than you want to have sex that's just 0.85
00:05:31 a ton of extra work for you and it gets extremely exhausting when i've been in in relationships like
00:05:38 that you hear them at the door and you're like no no not again i'm trying to do my homework i'm
00:05:47 trying to study oh the spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and bruised i have other things i
00:05:54 want to do right now no but the point here being is the these books do not appear to be making
00:06:02 relationships less strong on average at least right they appear to be making them much stronger
00:06:08 on average and i think simone like i think that they're way more important to a healthy relationship
00:06:14 than me being a fairly pro corn guy when i say it pro corn i mean only of non-humans i think the
00:06:20 corn industry is really bad i think only fans is really bad i think things have used using
00:06:24 living humans but if it's drawn or made with ai whatever right like that's not a real human that's
00:06:29 being drawn into an industry yeah um but even even having that position and you can go see our old
00:06:36 videos on this and how it relates to the bible and everything like that which we talk about a lot
00:06:40 there like just in case people are wondering if the bible didn't want you do you not think that
00:06:46 no jew had figured out drawing a naked woman on a sheet of paper yet do you think some of the early
00:06:54 graffiti that you can see around the world yeah do you think that they were just unaware of this
00:07:00 as a concept because it doesn't ban it anywhere and it talks about emissions in explicit detail
00:07:07 in the old testament it doesn't ban it anywhere right like if it if it if it wanted to ban it it
00:07:14 has a lot of words to do that right now you could say well don't look at other people's wives with
00:07:19 with lust right or don't covet what other people have which i would agree with 100 but the majority 0.66
00:07:26 of at the time of the bible would not be of other people's wives it was not people masturbating
00:07:31 looking at other human women it would have been pretty primitive drawing yeah or figurines or
00:07:36 stuff like that so that's what they would have banned they would have known the difference 0.97
00:07:39 between the two things which is why all of the prohibitions are against other human beings
00:07:44 which make a lot of sense and actually when simone was rereading the old testament and you reread
00:07:49 that line you were like this applies so much more to instagram and facebook than it does corn it
00:07:56 expands to a bunch of other things too you shall not covet your neighbor's house you shall not
00:07:59 covet your neighbor's wife or his manservant or his maidservant or his ox or his donkey yeah so
00:08:05 like get off instagram belongs to your neighbor don't watch mtv's cribs okay so you hear that
00:08:10 and you can be like this is a very strict prohibition on instagram and it's a very
00:08:15 strict prohibition on facebook being used in a specific way it's a strict prohibition on certain
00:08:19 types of youtube content architectural way way way more yeah than corn or erotic literature
00:08:26 yeah and note here the bible also doesn't ban erotic literature the bible contains erotic
00:08:33 literature yeah right like there are there are a number of sections in the bible that can best
00:08:38 be described as i actually think literally the most erotic literature ever written up to that
00:08:44 point in human history that's what really shocked me the first time i read it i was like is this
00:08:48 appropriate for high school the bible was a pioneer in erotic literature really was look
00:08:55 there's a reason it caught on centuries ahead of time yeah i take the anti-corn biblical arguments
00:09:01 in the same sort of category as the people who are like the bible is against drinking don't you
00:09:08 know alcohol is so sinful and i'm like well i mean i'm pretty sure jesus turned water into wine like
00:09:17 that's like a big he didn't have he didn't have he's like water bro i got something strictly
00:09:24 better than water for all y'all it's one of those strictly anti-biblical arguments where somebody
00:09:33 clearly is just not interested in what the bible says or is about and is interested in imposing
00:09:40 their own morality on you separate which to me is like a really big sign that this is a person who
00:09:48 has no interest in what's true like we get a lot of people who will comment in our videos being like
00:09:53 well christians believe x and i'm like well x isn't in the bible so what are you saying like
00:10:01 we released the video recently and people are like well christians believe every life has value
00:10:06 and i'm like well that's not what's in the bible okay so you're just defining whatever you believe
00:10:15 is what christians believe and then saying that we're not that without referencing anything a
00:10:22 note here if you want to go new testament people are like what about the line where jesus says
00:10:26 don't look at women with lust it's like but one he doesn't actually say that it's desire it's the
00:10:31 same word that jesus looks at like the passover sacrament was in different parts of the the text
00:10:38 so yeah that's that's not what that says and it falls to the same thing we've been talking about
00:10:44 here more broadly i get really disgusted because the people who push this stuff the hardest are
00:10:50 generally the ones who like live bad lives if i'm going to be honest they're like malcolm you
00:10:56 need to live this way because this is the way society can be good and i'm like how many kids
00:11:01 do you have do you have a satisfying relationship look i'm here with five going on six kids
00:11:07 in a satisfied long-term marriage and i'm saying this stuff works and the people who say it doesn't
00:11:14 work typically they don't have that and i think that that's something that you should take into
00:11:18 account when you say is it okay if your wife reads the horny books but there's also a practical
00:11:26 reason i take this stance if you're new to knowing that i have this stance is because i think
00:11:29 when you prohibit stuff like this you make it way easier for your kids to get peeled out of
00:11:33 your religion because it's the easiest way for an outsider to be like oh look you have all these
00:11:37 desires you have all these why don't you come to us you must be a deviant like us but even as much
00:11:42 as i'm pro male erotic material when it doesn't use humans or erotic literature or whatever i
00:11:48 am way more pro female like the female gunner boom is a really good gunner boom because as 0.99
00:11:55 simone said there's something called reactive sexuality all right and most females are reactively 0.72
00:12:02 sexual that is their type of sexuality that they experience now a male doesn't generally doesn't
00:12:08 understand reactive sexuality because males on average don't experience reactive sexuality
00:12:12 when a male, you know, see someone who he thinks is hot, right. Or sees something that he thinks
00:12:19 is hot, or even is just sitting there thinking, he's like, you know what? I want to look at
00:12:24 something hot right now. I'm going to go look at that. Right. Women, a lot of women, this just
00:12:28 doesn't happen to them. Instead they become aroused when they are put in an actively arousing 1.00
00:12:35 situation right so if i was to you know corner and kiss my wife and push her up against the wall 1.00
00:12:43 that would cause the arousal cycle in her to start but she wouldn't feel that she wanted that
00:12:49 without being slowly primed into it physically and psychologically and a lot of guys are unaware
00:12:56 of this and i think this is how a lot of dead bedrooms end up happening function is that a guy
00:13:01 forgets that he's supposed to be proactive or norms in the relationship are established where
00:13:08 the guy isn't proactive and the female has a reactive sexuality that said you can trick this
00:13:14 system yeah if you have a partner with a reactive sexuality who will never make the first move give 1.00
00:13:19 her a bunch of romance novels and that might change right because then she's sitting around
00:13:24 thinking about this sexy vampire boy it's exogenous priming you don't have to do it yourself
00:13:30 you know the other thing that's fairly good about this content is that women who read it
00:13:37 read it very frequently and you might be like wait why is that a good thing well what it means
00:13:43 is if they're reading it frequently there are not as much so just to go over the statistics here
00:13:49 10 of women read it daily but 25 read it several times a week 8 read it once of a week 18 two to
00:13:57 three times a month 17 once a month and 23 less than once a month so it's only under a quarter of
00:14:04 women are who who read this stuff and a lot of women read this stuff are reading it less than
00:14:09 once a month that's kind of insane but what that means you read listen to more than one a month
00:14:15 no no no i'm i'm surprised by just how many do though because i also thought no one read
00:14:20 well you would count as reading you listen to them no i know no but but what i'm saying is it's
00:14:26 in a world where basically no one reads books the fact that this many women are reading romance
00:14:32 novels is humbling and in a study that got lay did in 2026 85 got laid it's just no it's the 0.90
00:14:43 name except somebody got a light day or something it's some spanish okay all right never mind okay
00:14:48 85 percent read smut regularly 31 percent spend over 10 hours per week reading explicit romance
00:14:55 31 of women spending over 10 hours a week 36 have been reading explicit romance for over a decade
00:15:02 and 99 had read smut at least once 99 of women this is one of those things like when they did
00:15:09 the survey on men where they were trying to find out how men who had never consumed porn performed
00:15:14 on a particular task and they ended up having to abandon the survey because they couldn't find
00:15:19 any men who fell into that category or enough men who fell into that category to do the study
00:15:23 with women it's the same it's 99 guys 99 also women if you're into this get on rfab we have
00:15:30 some really good engines for this stuff don't just have it be the boys over there okay rfab.ai
00:15:36 the best gooning engine on the internet but i want to i want to go into this a bit more and
00:15:41 talk about how it could change society and how it's becoming more popular right now you have 51
00:15:47 million romance books are sold in the united states every year oxham storm which we'll get
00:15:52 to because i also want to go over the plots of the the big ones right now they sold well over
00:15:56 half a million in its opening week in 2025 the zodiac academy sold 2.8 million copies um and
00:16:04 50 shades of gray sold gross the the film trilogy grossed 1.7 trillion oh sorry billion at the box 0.99
00:16:11 office oh like a lifetime ago i don't know yeah but zodiac academy oh my god women are super into
00:16:17 zodiac stuff so that's smart that's smart okay yeah so do you want to go over some of the plots 1.00
00:16:24 to this or talk more yes obviously what is zodiac are people oh my god are they put into like houses
00:16:30 of associated with their their their zodiac sign wait no it's like hunger games and they have to
00:16:38 fight each other but it's sexy it's no just tell me just tell me well we'll get to that one next
00:16:44 it wasn't in my initial i did the top five this year okay apparently that didn't make it into the
00:16:49 top five this year somehow all right one the empyrean series okay this is like fourth wing
00:16:57 iron flame and onyx storm that we were talking about earlier in terms of like the broad plot of
00:17:03 it a fragile young woman is forced into a brutal dungeon rider war college deadly training political
00:17:11 betrayal war against dark magic users intensely bonded romance with a powerful secretive morally
00:17:18 gray writer so let's talk about the the themes in this book the hero zayden zayden is his actual
00:17:26 name spelled with an x god no no no sorry the reason i was going to say it's good that women
00:17:32 consume a lot of these is when women consume a lot the biggest risk from these is that they begin
00:17:37 to form a romantic or emotional attachment to one of the male leads to the opposition of your
00:17:43 relationship if they are going through them so quickly that they can't form a romantic attachment
00:17:49 to one of the leads or they have sort of a diluted attachment to so many leads that then you don't
00:17:56 have as much of a problem with that well the way it is in some series they'll like switch the main
00:18:00 love interest from one book to the next oh you were talking about that yeah one thing else was
00:18:06 found when i was looking at book reviews of these for a different episode we did i can't remember 0.89
00:18:10 which is that when we wrote book reviews they would just literally put in basically the female
00:18:15 fetishes that were associated with the book like age gap lovers enemies to lovers etc like that
00:18:25 all the dynamics there were specific turn-ons which is notable i mean there's no lying i think
00:18:33 in the community about what this is that we all know what this is about no one's being like i'm
00:18:39 reading literature they are very open about it which is great yeah also i should note if it
00:18:46 wasn't clear i still think engaging with this material is sinful i just don't think it's
00:18:50 particularly more sinful than any other form of entertainment you can engage as it's that's purely
00:18:55 like we're saying if you want to waste your time with non-procreative sex which we also say 1.00
00:19:02 is sinful having your girlfriend or wife consume this is not a bad thing based on your stupid 1.00
00:19:08 hedonic interests yeah it's not it's not particularly worse than watching a football 0.99
00:19:13 game right like which is incredibly selfish and bad and can lead to betting behavior and has all
00:19:18 sorts of like like football is probably worse because you have to do it at specific times
00:19:22 and it has the risk of getting you addicted to gambling but anyway and gambling is i think one
00:19:29 of the most sinful things you can do simply because of how much it can destroy your life
00:19:35 how quickly it can destroy your life like drugs take weeks to destroy your life we talked about
00:19:41 this in another one like even if you take heroin you still have a you know maybe whatever but with
00:19:47 gambling you can like leverage everything you might ever own and everything that any one of
00:19:52 your family members will ever own in one minute you you can put yourself in generational debt
00:20:01 in a minute don't do it no and historically and maybe in the future that means selling off your
00:20:07 kids and stuff like that you know be based on this you're making it even worse but okay yeah
00:20:12 or yourself you know a lot of people ended up in slavery from that in like rome and stuff oh yeah
00:20:16 so the the male hero zayden is significantly older and more powerful and physically dominant
00:20:22 the heroine starts is physically weaker and lower status smex is frequent graphic and often rough
00:20:30 scenes regularly feature him pinning her holding her down controlling the pace and using explicit
00:20:38 language about owning her body now note here i i want to be this is what women get really excited
00:20:44 about yeah totally be aware of this right like in the right context now note here other yeah the
00:20:52 right context you're hot and rich and powerful the right context you want a woman in your life
00:20:59 and i've said this before and i'm gonna say it again luring a woman into your life as a long-term 0.98
00:21:05 partner by being maximally sexy is a very bad idea the reason why it's a bad idea is the type
00:21:13 of woman who married someone because she found them sexy is typically not who you want to be
00:21:18 marrying the woman who goes home was the guy from a bar because she found him sexy above all the
00:21:23 other reasons she might be interested or want from her life typically not the the bait you want
00:21:28 yeah is this the kind of diligence you want when you you want your female partner to like 1.00
00:21:32 do other things help you with other things is about getting good at being sexy and sexual
00:21:38 knowledge and stuff like that is important for pleasing a partner that you have secured
00:21:43 through other means, right? That is where the pleasing the partner part comes in. It's securing
00:21:50 the partner through getting them interested in spending a lifetime with you and not having sex
00:21:55 with you. And note here, when I talk about spending a lifetime with you, this is really
00:22:01 critically important. I've mentioned this before, I'll mention it again. Women primarily, what they
00:22:07 look for in a long-term partner is like a journey that they can join or a struggle that they can
00:22:13 join they want to join the hero's party and what i want to be clear here because i think a lot of
00:22:19 people hear this and they're like yeah but how do i be the hero in this world that we live in without
00:22:25 wars or battles or quests or adventures or anything like that you know not everyone can go out and do
00:22:29 what you're doing malcolm or whatever right it might be clear to somebody how i serve that
00:22:34 function for girls i think a very good anime for understanding this because i was reflecting on it
00:22:38 yeah recently is spice and wolf you you remember spice and wolf right yeah where the male protagonist
00:22:45 is a merchant a town-to-town merchant and the female protagonist and it's a romance to the side
00:22:53 is a a god a literal god and yet at no point in watching spice and wolf are you at all confused
00:23:02 why these two would be in a relationship with each other or why the literal god
00:23:06 falls in love with and wants to spend her life with the male merchant and it's because he's not
00:23:12 just a merchant as like a day job or something like that he he makes it his quest yeah this is
00:23:21 an anime about economics yeah the anime is predominantly about economics it's an anime
00:23:26 that i can universally recommend it does have nudity scenes in it i guess so it might be a
00:23:32 problem for some people's kids nudity of a furry because the female is a a fox deity or no a wolf
00:23:38 deity nudity of a furry but who cares about that anymore right you know kids don't seem to care a
00:23:48 lot about nudity but it's it's it's it's about economic sort of like mysteries and challenges
00:23:54 and battles is sort of the thesis of it yeah and watch the first one not the remake i didn't know
00:24:00 there was a remake i still haven't seen the remake so i don't know if it's good or not but i know the
00:24:04 first one is spectacular so yeah yeah the reason i i use this as an avatar for this is being a guy
00:24:10 and having an adventure that a woman wants to join does not mean that the adventure has to be
00:24:15 the grandest thing in the world you can make anything the grandest of adventures in regards
00:24:21 to how you relate to it right and this anime shows that very very well yeah to the extent where i
00:24:28 think even me just me talking about it people have watched it they're like oh yeah i did never
00:24:31 question why a literal god wanted to date and spend her life with a he's not depicted as a
00:24:39 particularly rich merchant he's not depicted as a particularly powerful merchant if anything
00:24:44 sort of the opposite but you never question it you're like oh yeah of course that would be really
00:24:48 sexy okay next one here but but you want to maximally please the owning the person's body
00:24:54 that's good pillow talk okay now you want to talk this through with your partner and stuff like that
00:24:59 as well but you know knowing knowing their stuff and being able to be like hey is this sort of
00:25:03 stuff your stuff is this sort of stuff your stuff or even just looking at what they're reading right 0.90
00:25:07 yeah we're having to look i think women love talking about them and you can kind of they will
00:25:14 tell you what they're into in the commentary or editorializing they do on the book they're
00:25:23 reading just ask yes about the book you don't have to ask them what they're into just be like
00:25:27 oh what are you reading tell me about it i i heard it was a good book and then they'll go off
00:25:32 yeah this is like and guys it is like we this is like a blessing that's given to guys that they
00:25:39 do not exploit for real guys don't walk around carrying their you know turn-ons in a little
00:25:46 package under their their their hands and also i'll note here if you because there's been a big
00:25:52 change in the way these books are marketed a lot of guys might be like but my wife doesn't read
00:25:57 stuff like that you know she just likes fantasy books my mother in christ fantasy books yes
00:26:03 she just likes romance so what's important to note is the fabio buff guy on the cover
00:26:11 books of our childhoods that sort of are the cartoon version in our heads of what romance
00:26:18 books look like is not what any of these bestsellers look like they're typically like
00:26:23 abstract sort of like yeah high like maybe a skull or like it was like a rose growing in it
00:26:32 or Simone's favorite that she walked by was just a money clip that was perfect that that is the
00:26:38 best book I've ever seen yeah or like you know geometric shapes and sort of an artistic pattern
00:26:44 that looks sort of the money clip is the same it's that it's the that anime face that is the
00:26:49 money clip but for a woman it's the it's the army face or whatever yeah yeah gotta gotta put one
00:26:56 here for reference of a puritan woman doing it i love that i do that with the show at the anime
00:27:02 you are whatever what are we going to do with you
00:27:06 so many scenes happen when they are injured exhausted or in high danger situations
00:27:14 so the arousal is mixed with adrenaline and emotional intensity that sounds you know like
00:27:19 probably not the best use of your time in those sorts of situations yeah if you're trying to
00:27:23 survive also like women aren't so turned on when they're tired i can say that much the relationship
00:27:30 has a clear dominant submissive sexual texture even when the characters are emotionally equal
00:27:34 partners he leads she yields and enjoys yielding we talked a bit about this one a court of thorns
00:27:42 and roses yeah we talked about that already yeah yeah but just to go over what happens in it well
00:27:47 not a lot of sex i can tell you that much multiple powerful fey males are physically
00:27:54 and magically far stronger than the heroine smex scenes are long detailed and often aggressive
00:28:00 my memory okay aggressive no it's just unless i'm misremembering the book series it's just
00:28:08 dudes going down on her which is super not my thing common elements the males losing control
00:28:16 pitting the female against the walls or surfaces hair pulling biting and very explicit depictions
00:28:22 of organs oh yeah this was different yeah right this was the other one sorry i'm thinking of a 0.54
00:28:29 different they're all like the titles are all the freaking same you get very annoyed with organ
00:28:34 descriptions i well especially if it's female body parts that's not my that's not my game like
00:28:41 ladies stop we're not i think a lot of women feel this way we were talking on the leaflet stream and 1.00
00:28:48 she says she's the exact same way like she like the female body shape she's like yeah fine it 1.00
00:28:52 looks good yeah no the shape is great leave the look we don't need alien style slime slime puppets
00:29:01 okay we don't it's not not my thing anyway moving on strong mate faded ownership theme
00:29:10 Saban snaps the smex becomes even more possessive and frequent the male often talks about needing
00:29:17 to be inside of her claiming her and filling her now this is important to note because if you're
00:29:22 a guy and you're thinking you're in a marriage you're like what what do women like knowing that
00:29:27 this stuff because a lot of people in our wider community they get what's the word I'm looking 1.00
00:29:32 for here pilled by what's her name we've talked with her a few times the British lady 0.96
00:29:40 and doesn't like sex but like all of the british doesn't like porn it doesn't like 1.00
00:29:44 porn no no no no she she thinks that like the only reason why like slapping and choking or
00:29:50 whatever are like in the in the public or because of men okay well maybe she hasn't explored her
00:29:55 sexuality or maybe she's one of the very few women out there who isn't primarily oriented 0.99
00:30:00 around power dynamics but uh i had her name in my head first louise perry there we go louise perry 1.00
00:30:07 yes it came in it came in all right and then there's the other one who's the other one who 1.00
00:30:11 who's often complaining about this stuff it's like every female white female from the uk is 0.99
00:30:15 convinced that women are not into this stuff look a little bit about repressed sexuality 1.00
00:30:22 but the problem is is that repressed sexuality leads to either wives who are dissatisfied
00:30:30 yeah or husbands who are dissatisfied and end up strapping boobs to themselves and getting caught 0.75
00:30:35 ordering that was america that was america okay yeah but it was clearly a couple that was unable 0.97
00:30:42 to talk about their sexual patterns because the wife thought he was gay yeah don't don't repress
00:30:47 your yeah because then it can also lead to yeah lead to acting out you don't want that no one 1.00
00:30:50 wants that you know how i knew that the female gunner movement has reached the strat the stratosphere
00:30:57 how the movie wicker we we've gone from very very popular books to now mainstream big movies with
00:31:07 like lead like famous leading actors so wicker the preview for this movie just came out stars
00:31:14 alexander skarsgard peter dinklage and olivia coleman i love olivia coleman i mean everyone
00:31:21 knows peter dinklage from elf from game of thrones for like everything he's in and women
00:31:27 really like alexander scars guard at least and here you have it okay good watch it
00:31:36 oh love seems more burden than a prize
00:31:44 i am here to marry you i heard that he's strong as a tree and just as hard
00:31:54 he's wicker 0.78
00:31:57 straighten me right out you are the reason i live and breathe it's not natural men are not 1.00
00:32:05 like that fuck off fuck off yeah fuck off we'll be fixing the bed this afternoon 1.00
00:32:11 it broke again your face what what so you can see we've reached mainstream 1.00
00:32:26 no you you haven't read these books you don't understand what women are reading about those
00:32:32 books in these books i don't know if this was a book but let me read you some of the top comments
00:32:38 we've got so it's erotic scarecrow story and someone else said my monster romance lover heart
00:32:45 is screaming with joy right now someone else said can someone make an alexander scars guard for me
00:32:51 someone says this looks so weird i'm so excited someone else said the fan fiction is about to be
00:32:57 lit someone else commented so many jealousy guys in here lmao and this is probably referring to
00:33:03 dudes comments like how down bad you gotta be to want to get cracked a literally talking basket i
00:33:10 think he meant to say cracked by someone said 50 shades of hay which good this will hold me over
00:33:17 until Bridgerton comes back that's a big Netflix thing that we all love if we're ladies but I also
00:33:23 think from this what's important to note is when I'm talking about these different books and these
00:33:28 different profiles I'm merely talking about one of the dominant profiles you can tell that with
00:33:34 this woman right what she was clearly into or like the arousal profile is not domination in this one
00:33:41 and this one it's being really obsessed with your partner and deeply wanting to please your 0.87
00:33:47 partner that is the arousal profile being checked here look with men and with women and this is kind
00:33:53 of like this sad boring thing about sex because i wish it were more interesting than this but when
00:33:57 you look at most erotic material online i'm not saying the niche stuff because that's more
00:34:03 interesting to look at see it might get a little bit more attention but when you look at and aila's
00:34:07 research backs this up completely what people love is a partner male or female who just needs you so
00:34:16 bad and like has
00:34:19 to have you. I also want to point out that
00:34:20 this guy is a slave. 0.99
00:34:22 Look. Okay. 0.99
00:34:25 You know. 1.00
00:34:26 The woman went and bought 1.00
00:34:29 a 1.00
00:34:30 sentient hominid to 1.00
00:34:32 be her smech slave. 1.00
00:34:35 He's a wicker. He's a 1.00
00:34:36 sentient basket. Okay. Also
00:34:38 Alexander Skarsgård.
00:34:40 That was all practical effects. He wore
00:34:43 a wicker costume for the
00:34:44 movie.
00:34:45 it looks really good man no it's really well done i'm so glad to see more practical effects coming
00:34:50 back like don't bring back the slimy puppets i'm so done with the 80s but i'm ready for like
00:34:55 slimy puppets in the 80s someone found out they can put slime on a puppet and they were like and
00:35:00 the film industry afterwards was just like we got it for the next decade and a half for sure like
00:35:07 you can see someone with their their power shoulders in the 80s boardroom being like two
00:35:11 words gentlemen slimy puppets that was it that was it next one here the hunting of Adeline
00:35:18 the core dynamic and extreme stalker obsession plus non-consensual to consensual progression
00:35:25 dark power exchange the hero is violent obsessive stalker who watches the heroine
00:35:31 breaks into her home and initiates well essay basically without clear consent
00:35:37 surprise unfun early scenes contain explicit non-consent forced elements she is restrained
00:35:44 overpowered and taken while protesting these scenes are written as highly arousing for the
00:35:50 hero and eventually for the heroine as well and obviously the reader because it's a bestseller
00:35:54 wow the dynamic shifts to an intense consensual rough stuff restraint degradation and possessiveness
00:36:03 remains extreme i don't like the messages this sends it's like look just stalk her surprise
00:36:10 sexer against her consent and then like she'll realize just how amazing you are heavy focus on
00:36:16 the psychological intensity of being hunted and claimed which a lot of women are into that
00:36:21 the dark mafia no mafia is big in all this stuff you can also see like mafia tropes show up a lot
00:36:29 in the female more female centric ai chat platforms too yeah you tried that was your
00:36:34 first not safe for work ai look i've done so i have done so many nsfw ai ai scenarios and
00:36:44 i think it goes to show how like both autistic and or asexual i am because i've never encountered
00:36:50 a sexual scenario once in any of these and i'm going straight to the nsfw ones and i keep going
00:36:55 like when's the sex gonna happen like i don't know man it doesn't happen i don't know what am
00:37:03 i doing wrong a lot of ownership like your mind that that sort of stuff yeah the heroin is forced
00:37:12 into marriage you know it again coercion with eventually becoming addictive of course right
00:37:20 arranged marriages typically last long you know yeah think the the what guys fundamentally miss
00:37:28 the biggest thing that guys miss a few things one is is getting sucked in by this louise perry 1.00
00:37:32 nonsense okay like learn what your woman is actually into oh yeah that porn is damaging 0.96
00:37:37 it's very annoying well or especially that like female gunner stuff is like why all of these 0.98
00:37:42 kinks exist when we see them all the way back to the 1800s yeah like like bdsm is literally 0.99
00:37:47 traditionally called the english vice also like men per my understanding just aren't that
00:37:54 most men are not that into it when when you again when you look at the most popular erotic content
00:37:59 that men have and also now i you know god and we might just do a whole episode on this because
00:38:04 it's been really interesting so for the last few weeks simone has been designing and running at
00:38:09 scale erotic ads for our website yeah and it's so disappointing which ads perform best and it's
00:38:15 doing that men being approached by very comfortable and very enthusiastic basically close friends
00:38:21 men don't want to like hunt someone that's work they don't want to like learn knots i don't want
00:38:28 to buy rope what are you talking about who's time for that they want to sit literally right now our
00:38:33 most popular ad by like millions it is insane how well this this and it's two versions of the same
00:38:39 ad i'm so disappointed is the horny roommate you know you're you're the dude sitting on the couch
00:38:44 watching a soccer game horny roommate comes in it's like roomie i'm horny she's wearing she's 0.94
00:38:49 not wearing lingerie of course she's not wearing that's for women women wear lingerie for themselves 1.00
00:38:53 no she's wearing a sweatshirt and panties and then she sits on your lap and she's like oh and 0.99
00:38:58 she takes off her shirt and of course she is i like it that you know the male mind a sweatshirt
00:39:02 panties being so much better than lingerie in the mail just want women comfortable they just want
00:39:07 women comfortable they just want women into them and comfortable i'm more turned on by women in 0.97
00:39:12 pajamas than lingerie i just want to know they feel comfortable and meanwhile women want a basket
00:39:19 yep but the thing is is sorry in a relationship what are the other reasons i'm pro a lot of this
00:39:32 content is is i think it's an enormous waste of time if you focus on both the male and the female
00:39:38 making sure they're filling all of their partner's needs within these categories but i think just
00:39:44 because you're not filling all of your partner's needs in these categories doesn't mean that they
00:39:48 should be going to something outside the relationship for them like that's that's what
00:39:51 a lot of other views like oh then you should go outside the relationship or your partner should
00:39:54 literally be your fleshlight like that's like the two options right and it's like how about neither
00:39:59 yeah for real like do you really need this
00:40:03 and a fun thing here is if you take our interpretation of the adam and eve story
00:40:13 where we point out that it is not a sin to be nude in front of your wife in the outdoors where only
00:40:20 god can see you like nowhere is that a sin anywhere is that a sin and and that you know
00:40:25 adam clothes himself because he thinks it's like oh you know that shows that like knowledge of good
00:40:30 and evil means knowledge of good and evil and opposition to god like him deciding eating the
00:40:34 apple was good even though god told him it wasn't good um his reaction to that is the second sin
00:40:40 so or not the second sin but but really tied to original sin so to make up sexual prohibitions
00:40:49 that have nothing no correlate in the bible and are strictly deleterious to people's lives
00:40:54 to do that is literally like to participate in original sin to participate in that thing that
00:41:00 adam did the moment sorry wait to wear clothes around your wife no the the the first thing that
00:41:11 adam did that sort of compounded the original sin was to attempt to close himself even though he was
00:41:16 only naked in front of his wife and god right yeah and so that's inventing a sexual prohibition
00:41:22 just because you personally feel uncomfortable about something oh that's sinful okay okay
00:41:27 thanks sorry which is interesting to me that these sorts of prohibitions are so tied up in
00:41:32 original sin inventing oh i love that oh man we need to we need to pull that on these people more
00:41:38 sorry i'm gonna have to file that away in my terrible memory obviously we invent prohibitions
00:41:43 where it ends up helping people but in this sort of a category you know most men are never going
00:41:48 to be billionaires so how is your wife going to get off to the billionaire most men are never going 0.98
00:41:52 be werewolves either or vampires damn damn oh no look though you can go a lot of dentists like 0.99
00:42:00 actual cosmetic dentists will put on vampire canines they're really nice it would be you know 0.99
00:42:06 what like when our whole family gets older and if we have a lot of money someday i just want all of
00:42:10 us to suddenly like all of us the kids you know like the teens of course with consent but like
00:42:15 in us too to all have vampire teeth do vampire teeth i'd be totally for that family what a great
00:42:21 look that would be vampire teeth are hot i can say vampires no i think no i think vampire teeth
00:42:25 always look good regardless of if you're into vampires or not i think they just give you kind
00:42:30 of an extra edge i think they make a smile look really good i know that they annoy you don't make
00:42:34 them comically big you just do no no no they're subtle trust me they're subtle i think was it a
00:42:38 strange aeons who got them or something i definitely saw someone get them and they looked
00:42:42 really good and i was like oh my god like i need to find a dentist around here to do this for me
00:42:47 but malcolm please let this be push present for kid number whatever okay we all get vampire teeth
00:42:56 obviously with our kids consent you know that no one has to do it if they don't want to but
00:42:59 what kid is not going to want permanent vampire teeth they clean up with the women i'll tell you 0.76
00:43:05 right like oh my god i'm so excited for this please tell me we're gonna do this
00:43:11 oh the vampire family that'd be such a thing it'd be like uh i do that'd be one of the first things
00:43:19 i genetically engineer once we can genetically engineer collins is you wouldn't need to because
00:43:23 i had incredibly sharp canines they just shaved them down without my consent by the way god
00:43:29 it's one of those traumatic events of my childhood well so that's the joke about us joe rogan says
00:43:36 i'm secretly a vampire on the show they had to crash out about that you it's not about that's
00:43:41 like deep collins for why leaflet always makes us vampires in her videos no you gotta malcolm
00:43:47 please we're just doing this never mind i i we're i'm gonna i'll just book us one day with with the
00:43:53 kids consent obviously not your consent you don't you don't get to you're just gonna do this i don't
00:43:59 care if you i don't care if you care because you'll look really good welcome oh the the the
00:44:06 one that we were talking about zodiac academy extreme bully romance enemies to lovers very
00:44:11 prolonged the early books feature heavy bullying public humiliation physical violence magical
00:44:16 attacks stripping hair cutting forced exposure of fears and sexual harassment i feel like i might
00:44:23 have read this one actually oh god i'm sorry the same man who degraded and controlled the heroines
00:44:29 eventually become the ones they have intense blank whiz oh heroines okay then i haven't read
00:44:34 that one there's only one never mind i'm not gonna and they have a reverse here both of the
00:44:39 twins end up with multiple high status male characters rather than always gemini oh they're
00:44:45 gemini how cute do they end up with other gemini boys that'd be so cute oh my god strong power
00:44:50 imbalance the males when you talked about one you were reading recently that was horny that was or
00:44:56 maybe i watched somebody else that was about the lost boys no i haven't heard about this like a
00:45:02 peter pan fan i was telling you about peter pan the other day but it wasn't a horny but apparently
00:45:08 she like got passed around among the lost boys
00:45:11 what no ew no look they're all aged up in this one was very chaste it's tinkerbell who's the 0.99
00:45:20 obvious slut like she literally tinkerbell wanted to kill and almost effectively killed 1.00
00:45:27 wendy by getting the lost birth the lost boys to shoot her with an arrow when she came in to 1.00
00:45:34 never never land because she needed peter's giant you know what and she was thirsty as hell yes she
00:45:41 was murderously thirsty they used to teach us important lessons guys yeah yeah which is small
00:45:52 i don't think disney i don't know if disney included that part in the movie but jay and
00:45:58 barry definitely did she was like it's the wendy bird shoot the wendy bird they all shot the wendy
00:46:03 bird they were so excited oh my god or maybe it was just toodles who shot her anyway let's wrap
00:46:09 it up that's what she said you're such a boy
00:46:14 we actually i've talked to some members of the community whose parents tried this like
00:46:23 extremely like vampire teeth no no piv sex until marriage but like corn is totally okay
00:46:30 and because i wanted to see like what happened in the in the religious families that was this angle
00:46:34 and like all of them are married and have kids no i i think that that's the way to go i think
00:46:38 i i am surprisingly to i guess my past i guess i never
00:46:43 sex before sex outside of marriage does not make sense it just it has hurt dating markets it doesn't
00:46:51 help people it's not super fun i'm not super anti it now and that's a good thing for me this year
00:46:57 like there's just nothing really good that comes from it and the and the collateral damage it
00:47:02 causes is profoundly horrible it's it doesn't even really help the men who can access it in
00:47:07 the first place because they end up sort of like never committing and never ending up with that
00:47:13 happy satisfying life that ultimately it was the worst type of masturbation because you you think 0.92
00:47:17 you're actually doing something when you're doing nothing more than masturbating with another person 0.99
00:47:21 yeah yeah it's it's horrible it's it's really horrible i i'm super super against it which is 0.98
00:47:27 i mean we really were way more liberal about sex early on yeah like two years ago yeah a year ago
00:47:33 probably there's a new another movie that came out or i think it's yeah i think it came out i
00:47:40 tried to watch it streaming it's not even streaming yet i think it's only in theaters i think it's
00:47:44 called one night only and it's about a world in which you're not allowed to have premarital sex
00:47:49 and it's it's like a rom-com it's it's according to reports fine cute not the offensive thing that
00:47:56 many online commentators are saying it is because they're like oh this is the world we're going to
00:48:01 and everything but like why are all these women defending like their right to be mistreated by men
00:48:09 basically to like be used and dumped by men who never planned on committing to them anyway to be 0.99
00:48:15 lied to by men who imply that they yeah they're like what a terrible world that would be where 0.51
00:48:20 you can't have time wait women should want that world that world is yeah that is that is you 0.68
00:48:25 should be fighting for this like this should be the female thing like not and yet they're acting 0.55
00:48:30 like oh men are men are not for no men are not forcing men are very happy to keep things the
00:48:36 way they are to their detriment so anyway yeah there's you know between one night only and wicker
00:48:42 got some interesting um interesting stuff out there in terms of the state of affairs
00:48:48 all right simone love you love you too i am working on another one right now simone that
00:48:55 i'm so excited about and the data for it can you hear me yes is really fascinating and the question
00:49:03 is how come almost every single time in human history somebody has written out a unique
00:49:13 eschatology and worldview a successful religion is born from it which goes against a lot of
00:49:20 intuitions that people would have obviously there's exceptions if it's obviously just
00:49:25 schizophrenic ramblings it doesn't work but other than that almost every single time somebody has
00:49:32 sat down and
00:49:42 written down a world perspective it has
00:49:46 even when the founders have explicitly said don't make a church around this
00:49:50 don't make a religion around this people have gone on and made a religion
00:49:53 about it we have to do a whole thing on this 1.00
00:49:55 even when it's patently stupid um like the white guy who created the 1.00
00:50:01 black supremacist cult by stealing from another thing that he went to right oh church of islam 1.00
00:50:07 yeah the church of yeah the church of it's called the church of i'm sorry yeah it's like jewish 0.91
00:50:13 religion i'm just gonna say yakub religion yeah the the what is the yakub religion
00:50:21 nation of islam the nation of islam and this is often very surprising to people because like an
00:50:32 ai like i was talking with an ai about it and the ai was like well you know religions rarely work
00:50:37 out and i go can you name one can you name one where somebody actually wrote down not a deviant
00:50:46 sect not a cult of personality but an actual fully written religion by the way do you know
00:50:51 that our writings the techno puritan writings are already 40 larger than the core mormon corpus
00:50:58 really whoa yeah the book of mormon really well the book of mormon and the pearl of great price
00:51:05 well they had to write that by hand all of them so yeah yeah and they were also translating from
00:51:11 the golden plates so we had to have somebody else write for him really was he looking in a bag he
00:51:17 was looking in a bag right a hat a hat i'm sorry i'm sorry a hat hat he's looking in a hat well
00:51:22 look so that's a lot harder to write then but the question is is why does it why is the starting of
00:51:31 a religious or philosophical movement the writing it down the authorship and not
00:51:38 you know it existing like a startup or something like that or virtually every other movement in
00:51:43 every other period in human history and the answer is just like really fascinating to dig into but
00:51:49 you have to sort of dig through them all the core reason is there's just not the the core motivation
00:51:55 to do it is to exploit people like the the core reason you would do it is because you want to
00:52:00 exploit other people out of money and stuff like that and so most of the people who do it are con
00:52:06 artists whereas people who are looking for like a better future there's been a few of them that
00:52:11 have been like oh religion is clearly good yeah but then they attempt to build something that's
00:52:17 like overly human focused and anyway it's very very fun we'll do like a anthropology of it but
00:52:24 i'm having a lot of fun looking at that oh i'm super excited for that we're going hard on religion
00:52:30 lately but i'm i'm here for it and i'm super yeah our fans seem to be having fun that that last 0.94
00:52:35 episode we did was definitely one of my favorites it was probably my favorite well come on what
00:52:39 episode has had a companion web page yeah graphs and pictures that are original yeah that's that
00:52:46 was pretty good somebody on the discord was like malcolm's going you know full ai hallucination
00:52:51 mode or whatever and and and had three down votes it's the first time i didn't even know you could
00:52:55 make down votes on the discord but like people are like no this is this is awesome like let's
00:53:00 let's do more of this stuff oh yeah someone's gotta be mad sorry i i was also talking with
00:53:07 an ai about like what's the core trick that malcolm uses to keep making the the things work
00:53:15 like he'll say oh you know monist materialist framing and then he'll go to the books and he
00:53:22 will quote them extensively you know not picking specific passages but literally every time
00:53:27 something is mentioned in one of the books and i would i wanted to see if fable could get like
00:53:32 what's the core trick that i use and fable immediately got it it was like well it's because
00:53:36 the books are monist and materialist in their framing all of the non-monist materialist framings
00:53:42 came hundreds of years after the new testament and but because people grow up and not knowing that
00:53:49 what they don't realize is that you can actually have maximum strengths to your engagement by
00:53:56 saying oh yeah just go read the text go read the and then what the ai did is actually multiple
00:54:00 christian groups throughout history have realized this and then immediately put some sort of cap
00:54:06 on this framing because they were afraid of the consequences to their community if it became
00:54:12 more widespread like the chrysotonians or something which is a large movement that's
00:54:18 very focused but it's like yeah techno puritanism has always been the end state of protestantism
00:54:23 and puritanism because it's what anybody comes to if they actually read the text in their origin
00:54:28 with their original historic context which i thought was fine i like that you know yeah i do
00:54:33 like that i like that too because it is true i mean that's that's fundamentally the trick i'm
00:54:38 using is it's what you have been told is a lie about what the books argue and it's what pretty
00:54:44 much all academics agree even religious academics are just like our understanding has evolved since
00:54:49 it in the same way that you would think that you know more about religion than abraham
00:54:53 but you would still consider abraham a jew even though he didn't even have the laws of moses yet
00:54:57 right you know so that's that's the way that the modern educated religious academics think about
00:55:02 this stuff no one has had the balls to just be like nope the bible is actually correct and true
00:55:08 i'm sorry guys well without bending our actual understanding of historical geology and evolution
00:55:16 et cetera so yeah well no no they've they've just been unwilling to say it because what the bible
00:55:23 argues for is a monist materialist framework because that's what jews of that period believed
00:55:28 in of the period of around when jesus was alive it's just that the understanding evolved significantly
00:55:35 in the 300 years after his death which is where you get the people being like well you don't
00:55:39 believe the nicene creed so you're not really a christian and it's like well that had literally
00:55:43 nothing to do with jesus right like yeah anyway i'll get started here
00:55:52 hello titan i'll hold the gummies for you thank you
00:55:58 gummies hi professor hi helicopter oh helicopter's gonna follow you all right let's go
00:56:13 The professor in helicopter. Fast friends.