5 Ways To Look HOTTER To Attract A Woman WORTH Marrying!
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5 Ways to Look More Attractive To Get A Woman Worth Marrying (and How to Keep Her Attractive) by Abby's Top 5 Tips Today we re going to be talking about 5 ways men can look more attractive to get a woman worth marrying.
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Let's talk about five ways to change the way you look to get a woman worth marrying.
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Hello and welcome to my channel. My name is Abby and I'm so happy you are here today. Today we're
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going to be talking about five ways men can look more attractive to get the woman that they want.
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I've been seeing a lot of reels and YouTube shorts of men going to a barber with like long
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scraggly hair getting a haircut and going from about a three to a ten. Like all of a sudden they
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look incredible and that is the kind of thing that makes such a difference when you are looking for
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a woman to marry. Now women are definitely less visual than men. Women are much more attracted to
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personality and to a lot of different elements about character but it does not hurt to look good
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when you are looking for a spouse and that is true for men and women. When people are dating visual
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attractiveness is absolutely a part of that and I think there are ways to convey not only how
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attractive you are physically but also what that means and how that could impact a life together.
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So I'm really excited to get into today's video. Make sure to subscribe if you haven't already and
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hit that like button and let's get right into it. The first thing you can do to appear more attractive
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is to figure out your facial hair situation. I think that every man benefits from considering
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what facial hair looks best on them. For some men they don't grow facial hair well. That would be
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a guy who would really benefit from not having facial hair. Having patchy facial hair is just not
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going to work for him. There are some men who have less of a strong jawline and so having a really nice
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beard can give the illusion of a stronger jawline. There are some men few and far between but there are
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some men who really look great with a mustache. A la the guy from Top Gun Maverick, right?
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Having a mustache makes a big difference. But figuring out what facial hair looks best on you
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is really going to change the game for how you look. I know there are some men who look absolutely
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incredible with a beard and definitely look a little less attractive without one. And just stick
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with what works for you. You don't have to try something new every few weeks if you know that having
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a beard or having a mustache or being clean shaven or having a five o'clock shadow works best for your
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features. Figure it out, take the time, try different things, try different styles, see how
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people react to it and then stick with it. I will say fluffy scraggly facial hair, a big bushy beard
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that has no shape to it is not attractive on anybody. So taking the time to style it is going to make a big
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difference too. That doesn't mean that having a large beard can't work but it does mean that having
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a large beard needs to take some extra effort so that you can make it look groomed and well put
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together. And every woman has a different preference. I know I like a man with a beard.
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My husband has a beard. I like it. I like it a lot. And I'm not a huge fan of guys who are clean
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shaven. It's just not my type. Some women prefer a man who's clean shaven. It just depends. But just
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take the time to figure out what looks best on you and you'll see that women are going to find you
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more attractive. Number two is take care of yourself physically. That means exercising and eating well.
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I don't think any serious woman is looking for a big bodybuilder in a husband. She's not thinking
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I need the guy who's in the gym three hours a day because what does that actually convey? It conveys
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that he's not going to have a lot of time to spend with you outside of work and his time at the gym.
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But I think women like a guy who looks like he takes care of himself because if he takes care of
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himself and his body that means he's going to be around and healthy longer in your lifetime. It also
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means that if he can take care of himself, he can take care of you. So a guy who eats healthy and
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pays attention to that, who exercises enough, is not only going to reflect that in the way that he
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looks, it also shows a certain level of responsibility that's very attractive to a woman worth
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marrying. And I think it's important to recognize most women are not going to reject a guy if he
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doesn't have six-pack abs or giant biceps. If he looks good enough, you're doing it. You're doing
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the thing. So just take care of your body physically. Pay attention. Try to get, you know,
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some muscle definition because having strong muscles means you can do more around the house.
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You can carry things. You can carry your children. But don't aim to look like some supermodel because
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at the end of the day, a guy who's spending three hours at the gym every day is spending three hours
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away from his spouse. Number three is get a haircut. We talked about getting your facial hair sorted.
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Now it's time to get your hair sorted. Men look so crazy different with a good haircut. I remember
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there was a guy when I was about 19 who I was friends with and he had this bowl cut that was
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so unattractive. I took him to the barber. He got his hairstyle to a more modern look and all of a
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sudden he went from kind of unattractive to very attractive. Having a good haircut makes all the
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difference. And again, all of these attractiveness factors show and convey how much you are willing
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to do to be responsible. A guy with hair that looks like it's never been cut or never been
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washed or just messy and slovenly makes a woman think that he can't take care of himself. A guy
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with a haircut that is clean means that he is responsible enough to go to the barber every six
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weeks. It means that he knows that he needs to put some product in to make it look its best.
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It doesn't mean you need some crazy hairstyle, but it does mean that you need to have something
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that looks clean cut. And by the way, if you have a haircut that is clean and well styled,
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it also looks like you could get a job and hold a job because most men who are in a real workplace
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need to have a clean haircut. So all of that is great. It's attractive from just the fact that it
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looks nice, but it's also attractive because it shows that you have got it together. Number four is
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improve your style. Most men I know do not know how to dress. They look like a mess. They don't know
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how to choose pants. They don't know how to choose shirts. They don't know how to pair things. They don't
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know how to figure out what fits them. Take some time and figure out what looks good on you. Wear
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things that fit you well. Get them tailored. Get nice suits. Don't wear things that are just
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messy looking. And make sure that your clothing really reflects what you want from a spouse.
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If you're wearing clothing that looks like you have got it together, you're going to attract someone
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who has it together. If you're wearing clothing that looks like you can hold down a job, or you're
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wearing clothing that looks like you could go to a nice dinner date, that is going to attract a
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woman worth marrying because she can see that you have your life together and can be a supportive
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husband. It's really encouraging when you see a guy who knows how to dress well because it means that
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he takes seriously what he looks like in the world and how he presents. It's such a nice thing when you
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go to dinner with your husband and he looks handsome and you look beautiful and you know that you guys are
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presenting this really confident, strong couple vibe to whoever you meet. And I think that really
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does attract the right kind of woman. Everything that you wear is a reflection of who you are on
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the inside. And so that also is an element of picking the style that you choose. You want to find
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clothing that represents your personality and also represents your stability and responsibility.
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And that leads me to number five. Aim to dress like a man and not dress like a man child.
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We live in a day and age where men and women wear athleisure all the time or wear pajamas,
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just straight pajamas. I see these high school students constantly literally wearing pajamas
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to school and I'm like, I don't know what's happening. I don't know what world we live in,
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but I don't accept this. I don't think this is a good idea. I don't think this is a good reflection
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on our society. And if you want a woman worth marrying, you need to dress like a man. So don't
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wear clothing that's this newfangled kind of man child look where you look like you're wearing
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sweatpants and joggers and sneakers and t-shirts all the time. There is a time and a place. I would
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say 90% of the time that is the gym. But for the most part, a guy in a pair of jeans and a guy in a
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white button down shirt is going to look a thousand times more attractive than a guy in the outfit I just
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mentioned. The guy who knows how to look like a man is going to attract a worthy woman. Women want
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men. A good woman wants a good man. She wants a man who looks like he has got it all figured out.
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Because if he has it figured out, that means on the days where she doesn't, he can kind of help and
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take the reins. And that's such a comforting feeling as a woman. So you want to dress in a way
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that shows a woman that you are a full-fledged human being. Like you know what you want and you
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are out there to get it. So everything that I'm talking about, all of the outward features I'm
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talking about, really are about what's on the inside and how a woman is going to take all the
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information, all of the markers, the visual markers of what you look like and figure out who you are
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deep down and what that means for a long-term future. So I hope that today's video inspires
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you to look your best and attract the kind of woman that you want. And if you watched all the
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way till the end of today's video, make sure to leave a comment down below. I would love to hear your
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thoughts and I would love to see you drop a clothing emoji. Your favorite type of clothing
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to shop for, whether that be shirts, pants, or shoes, jackets, I don't know. Leave it down below.
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I can't wait to see. And I hope you'll subscribe to my channel for more content just like this.
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Thank you guys so much for watching and I'll see you in my next video. Bye!