Classically Abby - How To Look Modest AND Attractive With A BIGGER CHEST!

00:00:00.080 hello classic crew and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about

00:00:03.920 how to be attractive and modest with a bigger chest

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00:00:26.800 make sure to head over to classically abby.substack.com i recently got an email from someone

00:00:32.960 who is a subscriber on my sub stack asking me about how to dress modestly with a bigger bust

00:00:40.160 and kind of discussing how it can be unfair that women with a different body type can wear something

00:00:47.200 that's more clingy more low cut and it would still be within the realm of modest and if you have a

00:00:53.040 bigger chest that's not accessible to you and i totally get it i mean i i live with that problem

00:01:02.480 but i also think that modesty is really important and i embrace modesty and i think it's a really

00:01:07.040 beautiful thing so today i actually want to give some tips on how to dress modestly with a big chest

00:01:14.480 but it will still look attractive and beautiful and not just covering everything up and wearing

00:01:20.160 things that make you look like a tent because that is a real risk let me tell you a real risk

00:01:25.360 with having a big chest is wearing stuff that will make you look heavier than you are because it

00:01:30.320 doesn't taper in and show that you have a smaller waist or a smaller figure so i'm excited to get into

00:01:37.120 today's video and let's let's start chatting about it okay so the first thing that i want to chat about

00:01:42.720 is recognizing that your body can cross over into sexy very easily which is a compliment to your body

00:01:51.440 type i think when a bigger busted woman sees a woman who's a little bit more straight up and 1.00

00:01:56.640 down or has a smaller chest wearing something that we wish we could wear we we get jealous we feel like

00:02:01.600 oh i just want to be able to wear that clothing why is everyone putting on me that i have to wear

00:02:06.880 something different to be modest when she can wear the exact same thing and look and look modest and

00:02:12.720 i can't the truth is is that it should be a compliment to you that your body type is one that can take

00:02:19.120 something that might just look like a shirt on someone else and look very sexy on you you have a

00:02:25.840 very beautiful body and that is why you can't wear certain things that another woman can wear and 1.00

00:02:33.200 just not look as sexy when you have a lot of curves then you do have to be a little bit more judicious

00:02:40.720 about what you wear because when you wear certain things you are going to look very attractive and

00:02:47.760 attracting i am pro looking attractive i think it's nice to to look beautiful but attracting like

00:02:54.800 attracting attention to your figure that is not as conducive to getting what you really want when people

00:03:01.520 are distracted by your figure then maybe they're not really talking to you and they're getting

00:03:06.640 distracted by your body and not getting in touch with you and your personality so even though it's

00:03:14.000 really frustrating that you can't just pick up anything that someone else could wear and put it on

00:03:19.440 because it will be more low cut on you it'll show more cleavage it'll show more curves recognize that 0.98

00:03:26.000 that's because you have a very beautiful body now that's not to say that someone with a smaller

00:03:30.160 chest has an ugly body not at all i think that you can have a beautiful figure across a range and

00:03:37.440 across a spectrum of all different kinds of body types but if you are curvy and you have a bigger

00:03:43.760 chest you will veer into sexy territory more quickly than someone who has a different body type than you 0.89

00:03:50.400 do and with that in mind that leads us to number two which is aim for beautiful over sexy i think it's

00:03:56.720 really easy when you have a body type that does veer into sexy territory to lean into that and to want

00:04:04.960 to look more sexy because it's easy but what is actually better and takes a little bit more skill

00:04:11.760 is dressing in ways that are beautiful dressing in ways that are flattering that accentuate certain

00:04:19.360 beautiful parts of your body but don't make the focus how sexy your body looks so if you can focus on

00:04:28.080 looking really beautiful then you can choose clothing that you love that is attractive but doesn't make

00:04:34.000 the focus these sexy features okay number three is a piece of practical advice and that is wear v-necks with

00:04:43.200 a cami underneath so v-necks are very good if you have a bigger chest because if you wear something 0.99

00:04:48.560 really high necked sometimes that can make your chest look even bigger whereas wearing something v-neck

00:04:54.960 tricks the eye into thinking that your chest actually looks a little bit smaller but instead of just

00:05:00.000 wearing a v-neck and then immediately drawing attention to your cleavage because that's what's going to 1.00

00:05:03.760 happen wear a cami underneath to cover your cleavage so you're getting the visual of a v-neck but you're

00:05:10.960 also staying modest by covering your cleavage i do this all the time i have a ton of of camis that i

00:05:17.920 wear one of them is actually very close to my skin tone so it doesn't detract from the neckline but it

00:05:24.400 does cover up what i would like covered up and that allows you to remain attractive and beautiful but 0.97

00:05:30.960 modest at the same time and you're doing something that actually is very flattering for your bigger bust

00:05:37.440 but doesn't lead people to look right into your cleavage number four is wear dresses that cinch 1.00

00:05:44.080 in at the waist i think that that's a really easy way to show that you have a beautiful figure

00:05:51.760 instead of having that tent effect when you wear something baggy when a lot of the clothes that are

00:05:56.720 available to us now are big sweaters big shirts dresses that have no shape and that really doesn't

00:06:03.280 work great on a figure with a bigger chest because it creates that tent effect where the fabric flows

00:06:08.240 away from the body and it looks like the end point for your whole body is the end point of your chest

00:06:15.440 so instead wear things that center the waist wear belts wear you know things that have a seam at the

00:06:22.640 waist and then flow out so that you're constantly showing that taper effect and it can still flatter your

00:06:29.600 body while not needing to be skin skin tight one of the things i also want to mention is that

00:06:35.600 it can be frustrating that it feels like a lot of fashion today is more geared towards women who

00:06:42.240 have less of a curvy body type and i think it's not just that women who have a less curvy body type 0.99

00:06:48.240 can wear clothes that make you look sexy it's also like vice versa that the women who have less of 1.00

00:06:53.840 a curvy body type can wear baggier things and it will look flattering on them and it will look 1.00

00:06:58.720 flattering on you so that is a frustrating thing so we're we want to walk that fine line of wearing

00:07:05.840 clothing that is fitted but not so fitted that we see every lump and bump and that doesn't necessarily

00:07:13.120 need to show off you know your your your chest i mean you don't want to wear things that show like

00:07:19.440 i had a friend in high school for example who could wear like scoop neck t-shirts and she just didn't 0.96

00:07:24.960 have a very big chest so it really just was kind of just skin up here um and if i wore that same shirt

00:07:30.800 it would be really inappropriate so i didn't wear that shirt and she did and it was annoying and it

00:07:35.200 made sense like you can't argue with reality just because you want to be able to wear certain things

00:07:41.600 that your friend is wearing it doesn't mean that you can't because it's gonna look different on you

00:07:46.480 in the same way that there are some clothes that will be flattering on you that won't be flattering on

00:07:49.760 her so that's a really good thing to remember is that you have to accept that there are things that

00:07:56.400 you just aren't going to wear maybe they are flattering on you but they're too flattering

00:08:02.400 and maybe they're not flattering on you and they won't like they won't look good on you

00:08:07.040 number five is wear fitted tops but not too fitted so i have a lot of tops that i really love because

00:08:15.520 they're like t-shirts but they they do kind of hug my body but the fabric is not that fabric that is

00:08:21.680 like and shows everything it just hugs my curves in a way that's really not totally distracting so if

00:08:30.800 you can find tops that are fitted and that do come in under your bust so that you can show that you have

00:08:39.280 a thinner waist then that's the best option for a more casual shirt number six is wear fitted clothing

00:08:47.760 with an open and open button down over the top this is one of my favorite kind of fashion hacks is i

00:08:54.080 have some dresses that are really fitted that if i just wore without anything over the top it would

00:08:59.280 probably be a little too sexy and so what i choose to wear is a button down over the top or a long cardigan

00:09:09.040 or something like that that kind of creates space between the fitted dress and the cardigan 1.00

00:09:17.520 and then you're not getting just like the full effect of a really tight dress now i think you're 0.71

00:09:24.400 still getting a very flattering appearance because you're seeing that underneath that that blouse or 0.99

00:09:29.760 underneath that cardigan you can see shape but you're not seeing the whole shape and i think that

00:09:35.840 that that's a really easy way to define your figure without drawing attention to your figure

00:09:41.360 last but not least is wear fitted bottoms with blousier tops so i'm not the biggest fan of

00:09:50.400 just wearing big blousy tops because i do think that they are imbalanced with a bigger chest but

00:09:56.640 sometimes that's all that's available like that is the style right now so if you're gonna do that

00:10:03.040 wear a fitted pant wear skinny jeans wear leggings if your top comes all the way down and covers your

00:10:09.920 bottom wear things that are tight on the bottom so you can see that you have a more tapered figure

00:10:17.040 and then a looser top because that's what's available and then at least people can see that you

00:10:21.840 are thinner than what it may appear if you just wore a very long blousy dress i always used to call

00:10:29.680 the graduation gowns that i had to wear growing up uh you know when i graduated from high school and

00:10:34.800 then from college i always called those actual tents because it was just like a sheet and it just hung

00:10:39.600 straight down and it was so unflattering so yeah that is how i think you can dress in a really attractive

00:10:48.320 and modest way even with a bigger bust um these are the tips and tricks that i use all the time

00:10:53.360 and i still feel absolutely beautiful i feel attractive and i always think that you know

00:10:59.440 people get annoyed that they can't just wear whatever they want but if you view choosing

00:11:04.640 clothing and finding clothing as a treasure hunt and as an opportunity to learn what looks good on

00:11:10.400 you and figure out your sense of style instead of i just want to be able to wear whatever i want it's

00:11:14.880 i've honed what looks good on me then it's fun and that's cool like we we tend to be in an era this is

00:11:24.720 a big big philosophical thought but we tend to be in an era of i want to do whatever i want as opposed

00:11:31.280 to i want to get good at honing a craft or i want to get good at learning how to perfect things and

00:11:37.920 instead of saying i want to wear what everyone else is wearing why don't we go into the era of

00:11:42.880 i want to learn how to dress my body and make it look as good as i can so those are my thoughts

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Classically Abby - October 25, 2022

How To Look Modest AND Attractive With A BIGGER CHEST!

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