Dan Martell - Be okay being disliked

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00:00:00.000 If you want to be successful in life,

00:00:02.100 you have to develop the skill of being disliked.

00:00:04.800 You need to understand that other people

00:00:06.440 have a completely different reality of the world you live in

00:00:08.920 and you can't control that.

00:00:10.240 There's a difference between a good man and a nice man.

00:00:13.540 A good man is not always a nice man

00:00:15.080 because sometimes the situation calls for him to step up

00:00:17.900 and that requires you to build the muscle of being disliked.

00:00:21.880 If your shit goes sideways,

00:00:23.300 the people that you care about their opinion,

00:00:24.880 are they going to step in and pay the bills?

00:00:26.420 Are they going to step in and get you a new job?

00:00:27.980 No.

00:00:28.180 Why would you live your life for their opinion when they're not going to show up when you need them most?

00:00:32.680 You have to build the muscle of being okay, being a muscle.

Dan Martell - June 15, 2025