Dan Martell - How did I land @renee

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00:00:00.000 How did I land Renee, my wife?

00:00:01.980 After my engagement fell apart,

00:00:04.320 I went on a journey of getting really clear

00:00:07.060 of who I wanted to be with.

00:00:08.480 And in doing that, it required me to go look in the mirror.

00:00:11.360 People want a 10.

00:00:13.360 You ain't a 10.

00:00:14.580 You're not in shape.

00:00:15.740 You're not resourceful.

00:00:16.960 You're not successful.

00:00:18.140 You're not kind.

00:00:19.300 Like Renee is the nicest person in the world.

00:00:21.980 My wife is a fricking angel.

00:00:23.880 The Dan that I used to be,

00:00:25.320 she wouldn't have put up with that person for half a second.

00:00:27.860 I needed to become the person that could attract a Renee.

00:00:31.000 And it took me three years of real deep work.

00:00:33.840 The Way of the Superior Man and all the best books to just develop your beliefs

00:00:37.860 and how to be in a relationship.

00:00:39.140 How do you be kind?

00:00:40.000 How do you intently love somebody?

00:00:41.620 Well, here's a big idea.

00:00:42.740 You can't love somebody until you love yourself.

00:00:44.620 Are you doing that work?

Dan Martell - July 25, 2023