Dan Martell - How My Wife and I Communicate To Solve Issues

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00:00:00.000 Anytime I'm about to communicate something

00:00:02.440 that she may have a hard time hearing,

00:00:05.200 not because it's right or wrong,

00:00:06.600 it's just my interpretation.

00:00:08.320 Me saying my hallucination is X, Y, and Z,

00:00:12.140 she can actually receive it

00:00:13.680 because I'm saying, I don't know if this is real.

00:00:16.100 And the truth is, is my reality is not your reality.

00:00:18.580 It still needs to be said

00:00:19.680 because if you're interested in being in relation with me,

00:00:22.500 which we're married, of course we wanna be,

00:00:24.120 this is just the way I see it.

00:00:25.500 And then she goes back, well, that's interesting.

00:00:27.700 Thank you for sharing that.

00:00:28.500 my hallucination is this and I go oh wow tell me more about that why would you think that well

00:00:33.400 this happened and this happened and this is what I my interpretation I'm like I could see that

00:00:37.900 that's like a really mature place especially for teams to get to where they have the ability to

00:00:42.900 see from the other person's perspective and at the end of the day this is what business is about

00:00:46.860 it's about feedback and feeling seen heard and appreciated

Dan Martell - April 19, 2024