Dan Martell - How to do resentment inoculators

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00:00:00.000 those people in the meetings that just keep chirping it's this other thing they don't want

00:00:03.000 to bring that up so they're going to chirp about this in my book i talk about resentment inoculators

00:00:07.140 the way it works is you go to them and you say hey i want to be the best leader for you only way

00:00:11.780 i'm going to be able to do that is that if i get honest feedback on how i've been showing up for

00:00:15.360 you so chris can you think about something that's happened in the last six months that

00:00:18.740 you were concerned about questioned didn't understand that might have caused you some

00:00:22.720 feelings around it and they go yeah would you do me the honor of sharing it with me and i sit back

00:00:26.720 and i listen now the key is most people don't want to do that because they're like well i know what

00:00:30.240 he's gonna say and i don't agree with them that's not the point the whole point is literally taking

00:00:34.600 the venom out 90 of the value is them saying it heard seen and appreciated

Dan Martell - September 20, 2024