Dan Martell - I live life by design not default.

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00:00:00.000 I just think most people live life by default

00:00:02.060 and I choose to live life by design.

00:00:03.800 My kids pay attention.

00:00:05.180 They don't walk through life ignorant.

00:00:07.400 Why?

00:00:07.700 Because these are skills

00:00:08.440 that I intentionally wrote down to teach them.

00:00:11.200 When they were four,

00:00:12.640 we'd go out into the woods

00:00:13.620 and I'd walk deep.

00:00:15.260 And I say, all right, boys, figure it out.

00:00:16.920 How do we get home?

00:00:17.660 And if it took us an hour and a half to walk home,

00:00:20.040 I refuse to show them the path home.

00:00:22.780 Some people would be like,

00:00:23.480 that's sad, Dan.

00:00:24.360 Why would you do that?

00:00:25.340 I don't care.

00:00:26.280 I never left them.

00:00:27.600 They felt safe,

00:00:28.720 but they also paid attention next time.

Dan Martell - December 17, 2023