Dan Martell - I’m Not Responsible For My Kid’s Mental Health

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00:00:00.000 when your kids are fighting, there's no correction without connection. I'm not allowed to correct my

00:00:04.240 kids until I slow down and I say, how are you feeling? I'm upset. How does that feel? Oh,

00:00:08.360 dude, that sucks. Oh, really? Did he do that? Yeah. Did that make you feel rejected and alone?

00:00:13.320 Yeah. And it made me feel not wanted. I'm like, oh man, that sounds so tough. We actually work

00:00:18.080 with a parent coach and he has this great concept called emotional coaching. He says the parent's

00:00:21.820 job is to be an emotional coach for your kids. One of the frames he teaches is that I am there

00:00:25.920 to help him and coach him, but I'm not responsible for his own mental health.

Dan Martell - August 05, 2023