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Dan Martell
- December 26, 2016
My 100th Episode
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Length
11 minutes
Words per Minute
190.24222
Word Count
2,194
Sentence Count
146
Misogynist Sentences
1
Hate Speech Sentences
1
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Yeah!
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It's my birthday!
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Hey, okay, just, can we put this to rest?
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This is a real brick wall, alright?
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Done, done.
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This is my birthday, we're gonna have some fun today.
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Hope you're excited, I'm gonna teach you guys
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some things I've learned 100th episode
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plus my birthday in one video.
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How does that happen?
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Alright everybody, are you ready to party?
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Today is not only the 100th episode of this video blog
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thing, channel, whatever you want to call it,
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it is also my 37th birthday.
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Yes, I am 37.
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No, I am not in the studio on today shooting this video.
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If you think that you are crazy, I am with the family.
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But I wanted to pre-shoot this a couple weeks before
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because it is a big milestone.
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I mean, when I started this channel,
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I originally did it for my boys.
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I've got two little boys, Max and Noah.
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They're three and four.
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And it was really my opportunity to answer the question,
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what would I want them to know
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if something should happen to me?
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And I mean, when I heard that question,
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I have a really good friend of mine,
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unfortunately something, you know, he had a medical issue,
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and that was his reality.
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And he has two little girls
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that are almost the exact same age as my boys,
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and it just hit me like a ton of bricks.
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And that was really the motivation for me
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to really pour myself into these videos
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to make sure that I captured some of those beliefs,
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those strategies, those lessons learned.
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the way I look at life.
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And what happened is, quickly as I started
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putting these videos out, I had other entrepreneurs
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and even people that weren't entrepreneurs
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tell me how much the videos motivated them.
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It taught them how to think about their business,
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how they think about life, how to be a better parent.
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I mean, it's been really incredible
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to have you here following along,
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and I'm super honored for all the views
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and the subscribers and the emails that I've gotten.
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So what I want to do in this video
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is really kind of share with you the lessons learned.
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I've had, over almost two years now,
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putting out these videos, a hundred frickin' videos,
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and share that with you guys.
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So number one is emails are where words go to die.
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Here's my problem with emails.
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If you shoot me an email and I answer it,
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it doesn't serve the rest of the world.
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And that was the first thing that I realized with videos
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is I had a lot of entrepreneurs reaching out
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asking me for advice about their business,
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how to scale, how to grow, how to do marketing,
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how to hire teammates, how to raise money,
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all these different questions, and I would answer them
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and then I realized, ah, that should have been out
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to the world.
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So what I would do is I'd start to shoot these videos
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to answer those questions so that my responses were video.
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So way more succinct, way more value packed
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for the entrepreneur.
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So it saved me time, but then I also would tell people
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to leave comments with their questions in the box.
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Most people don't realize this, but I've answered
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every question, every tweet, every Facebook comment,
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everywhere on social media.
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It's me, engaged, because to me, the only reason I do this
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is for my community, for you guys watching this.
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So if you have any questions ever, please, please,
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because I'll tell you anyways, start with the comments
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under the video or on Facebook or on Twitter
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and I will get back to you because to me,
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emails are where words go to die.
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So that's step one, that's why it's so powerful.
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Number two is you don't have to be perfect to start
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but you gotta start to get perfect, okay?
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Zig Ziglar shot this.
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I remember when I started shooting these videos,
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I would literally, Jared, do you remember that?
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Like how many times, I mean, Jared's my videographer.
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holy, it's kind of funny now.
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Thinking back, like I probably, I remember there was,
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there was days when I'd come into the studio
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and nothing would get done.
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We would go to, how many times did we go to Starbucks?
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Like three or four times, so I'd just be like,
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okay, nevermind, let's go get coffee,
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come back, reset, try again.
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And like, nothing would get done,
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nothing would get accomplished, but I was committed.
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I wanted to try to be better.
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I would try different things.
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I mean, another thing that most people don't realize,
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there's no teleprompter.
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When I shoot these videos, it's me with the camera,
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my stories, my thoughts, what I want to share.
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And I remember there was one time, what, a month ago, Jared,
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that we actually tried to use a teleprompter
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and it was a failure.
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There was no way that I was going to do that.
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So to me is you need to start to get perfect,
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but you can't be perfect to start.
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A lot of people are never going to do this.
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It scares the crap out of them.
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Doing a video will scare them more than public speaking.
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I get that, but it is probably the most powerful way
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for you to get your message, your stories,
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and have an impact on your community.
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So I would highly encourage it.
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Number three, okay, this is what I do.
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When I look at the camera, that lens right here, you,
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I'm thinking of one person.
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I, you know, a lot of people get into like,
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I want millions of subscribers.
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I don't give a F, I don't care.
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I care about that one person, that one entrepreneur
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that I might be able to impact or guide
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in the video that I'm sharing.
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If I can accomplish one, I'm good.
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It was worth the time, the energy, the investment
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to make that happen and I think that people try to think big
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and grand and scale and I'm a big fan of all those things
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but if you just bring it down to H to H, human to human
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and think about who's on the other side of that lens,
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where are they at in their life, what are some of the
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challenges they're having right now in their world
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and just how grateful I feel and you could feel
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to be able to serve that person at that point
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where they went online and they searched
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or somebody saw a video and shared it with them
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because they thought it could really support them
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overcoming that challenge, that to me is, it's one.
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One person, every video, anytime I get on stage,
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I give a talk, that's the way I look at it.
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I'm not trying to move the world,
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I'm trying to move one person's world.
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And you know, I've been blessed to get emails
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from a lot of viewers over the last few years
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just sharing their stories with me.
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I mean, everything from entrepreneurs being inspired
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to buy out their boss, buy the business,
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to growing their business by 10x in the last two years,
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just following the different strategies I've shared.
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To me, that's everything.
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And I actually share it with my team,
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because I have a team, like Jared, like Stephanie,
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like Roddy, like Greg, and Rich,
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and everybody that joins me on my weekly team meetings.
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If you want to thank me, you really should thank all of them,
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because this is a team effort to make all this come together.
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So that's number three.
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Number four is permission to fail.
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I remember, Jared, we were shooting that video
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on the Authority Engine and I was like going and talking
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and then I messed up and then I was like,
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you know what, screw it, I'm gonna keep going
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because how can I talk about video
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and not show you guys how I've messed up?
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I mean, we even started adding bloopers
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at the beginning of the video so that in some ways
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it would humanize what you're watching
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because I am a normal person.
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I make mistakes.
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I do have retakes.
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Like I mentioned earlier, there's days
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where I've come in here and nothing's happened.
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You need to give yourself permission
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to not be perfect, to fail.
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That permission is huge.
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I think, you know, here's the deal.
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I think many of us talk to ourselves in a way
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that if a person talked to us that way,
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we'd punch them right in the face.
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Want that to land.
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People speak to themselves in their head.
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You talk to yourself in a way
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that if somebody ever said that out loud to you,
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you would physically attack them.
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Because you don't give yourself permission to fail.
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You don't give yourself, you're hard on yourself.
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And to me, that was the biggest lesson is
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in doing these videos is just taking a step back
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and breathing and saying, you know what?
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It's one person I wanna impact.
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It's my kids that I wanna share this story for.
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It's the people in my community that I get to be able to touch
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without having to invest time and be away from my family.
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That is the power of what we're doing.
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But it always is gonna start in the beginning
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with permission to fail.
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And here's a tip, alright, here's a tip.
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You wanna know how to do great video?
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It's really that simple.
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And I'm not even saying I'm great,
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but I'm just saying you wanna know how to do a video,
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how you wanna give a talk, how to share a message?
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Just know how to start and how to finish.
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Like it really is that simple.
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How is the first three minutes of a talk
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or video gonna start, right?
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What's your beginning, what's your intro?
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And then what's your outro?
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How are you gonna finish the video?
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If you can figure out those two things,
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trust me, the middle's gonna fill in.
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The story's gonna take care of itself.
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You're human, you've talked to your friends.
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Hopefully, you have friends and you talk to them
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and that's what's gonna come across.
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So with that, I'm gonna show you how to finish right now.
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I wanna challenge you to live a bigger life
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and a bigger business.
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This is Dan Martell, 37 years of age today.
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Blessed, excited, humbled to show up even bigger
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for you guys, to share even deeper
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and to really add a lot of value to your life.
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I'll see you next Monday.
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If you like this video, be sure to subscribe to my channel.
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I'd also encourage you to join my newsletter
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where I share exclusive invites to events
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and other free training videos.
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And if you want more content,
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I've got a couple videos queued up and ready to go.
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I'll see you next week.
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Yes, it's on.
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It's on.
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We're good.
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Hey everybody, Dan Martell.
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How do they do?
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Just to give you kind of a high level,
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I don't even know where I'm going with the video,
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that's the problem.
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Let's button up and redo this.
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I'm kidding, let's just stop it and start it again.
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Okay.
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Yeah, next time, right, wear a little undershirt.
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I don't have an undershirt.
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You don't have cola.
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Why do I need one?
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You know, I've been building technology companies now for five years, and, and, er, five years.
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Fuck.
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Dan, hey.
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Help people take things to the level.
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Oh, sorry, man.
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I thought you were.
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When you moved your hand, I thought you were telling me something was off.
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No, no, sorry.
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No worries.
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Hey, everybody.
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Dan Martell here, creator.
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Oh, wait.
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And Y Combinator is arguably, I don't know if I should have said that.
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So can I just button or do you need to come in here?
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Your brother is different or, you know like, I just think in life, blah blah blah.
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Keep it simple.
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Ah, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck.
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The Mexican Baja 1000, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck man, I'm just, I'm just like,
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When you do that, it's kind of ruffling a little bit now, so...
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It doesn't rub, it's just when you get really excited.
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You need me to shave me, I'll do it.
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Anything.
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Anything?
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Anything.
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Well, it's good to know, because we might need you to...
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They need to kind of play ping pong with the idea to make sure...
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with the idea to make sure...
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Do I go now?
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You can go whenever you want.
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Anytime. It's all up to you, buddy.
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Scare yourself.
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Enjoy the ride, right?
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No, I'm going to do Scare Yourself.
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I think that's more...
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Enjoy the journey is good, but what you really learn is
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push yourself.
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Trust in the machinery.
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Trust in your team. You can do more than you think you can.
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and when it bites it's not that bad let me just
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