Dan Martell - NO ONE Needs To Change For You To Win

00:00:00.000 You shouldn't require anybody,

00:00:01.980 your spouse, your partner, your family, your friends

00:00:03.660 to change for you to win.

00:00:05.460 It's not required, it's a cop-out

00:00:07.080 and I think it's actually a limiting belief

00:00:09.280 or a self-sabotage move that gives you a reason to fail

00:00:12.600 by blaming other people

00:00:13.860 when you should just go look at the person

00:00:15.120 you see in the mirror.

00:00:15.880 That's the only person that needs a change for you to win

00:00:17.940 is you.

00:00:18.620 What I've learned is a lot of times

00:00:19.520 the people closest to you are too close to see your greatness

00:00:21.280 and they'll never understand the journey you're going through

00:00:24.000 to improve your situation

00:00:25.180 and for most people, for the other person.

00:00:27.460 The challenge is when you expect that other person to change

00:00:29.980 so that you can be successful.

00:00:31.820 Nobody has to change for me to win.

00:00:33.800 I don't require my wife, my friends, my family.

00:00:36.760 Nobody has to change for me to win.

00:00:38.240 Now, as I elevate my situation, my success,

00:00:41.680 am I then gonna have a different decision

00:00:43.440 about how I allocate my time

00:00:44.940 and who I invest that energy with?

00:00:46.560 Of course.

00:00:47.360 These friends in my life are not supporting my dreams.

00:00:50.360 And if anything, they're making it hard on me.

00:00:52.120 And I just don't like that feeling.

00:00:53.260 So I'm just gonna decide to spend less time with them.

00:00:54.760 That's 100% possible.

Dan Martell - April 17, 2024