Dan Martell - April 17, 2024


NO ONE Needs To Change For You To Win

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Dan Martell
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Episode Stats


Length

56 seconds

Words per minute

245.99

Word count

230

Sentence count

15


Summary

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In this episode, I talk about why you shouldn't require your spouse, your partner, your family, or your friends to change for you to win. It's not required, it's a cop-out, and I think it's actually a limiting belief or self-sabotage move that gives you a reason to fail.

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00:00:00.000 You shouldn't require anybody,
00:00:01.980 your spouse, your partner, your family, your friends
00:00:03.660 to change for you to win.
00:00:05.460 It's not required, it's a cop-out
00:00:07.080 and I think it's actually a limiting belief
00:00:09.280 or a self-sabotage move that gives you a reason to fail
00:00:12.600 by blaming other people
00:00:13.860 when you should just go look at the person
00:00:15.120 you see in the mirror.
00:00:15.880 That's the only person that needs a change for you to win
00:00:17.940 is you.
00:00:18.620 What I've learned is a lot of times
00:00:19.520 the people closest to you are too close to see your greatness
00:00:21.280 and they'll never understand the journey you're going through
00:00:24.000 to improve your situation
00:00:25.180 and for most people, for the other person.
00:00:27.460 The challenge is when you expect that other person to change
00:00:29.980 so that you can be successful.
00:00:31.820 Nobody has to change for me to win.
00:00:33.800 I don't require my wife, my friends, my family.
00:00:36.760 Nobody has to change for me to win.
00:00:38.240 Now, as I elevate my situation, my success,
00:00:41.680 am I then gonna have a different decision
00:00:43.440 about how I allocate my time
00:00:44.940 and who I invest that energy with?
00:00:46.560 Of course.
00:00:47.360 These friends in my life are not supporting my dreams.
00:00:50.360 And if anything, they're making it hard on me.
00:00:52.120 And I just don't like that feeling.
00:00:53.260 So I'm just gonna decide to spend less time with them.
00:00:54.760 That's 100% possible.