Dan Martell - Praise in public criticize in private

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00:00:00.000 was watching my son play soccer this weekend and a lot of the people the other parents were screaming

00:00:05.200 at their kid when they weren't doing the right thing kick it up the line why are you throwing

00:00:09.600 it that way and i'm just like okay you go play the game and let me criticize and scream at you

00:00:13.840 from the sideline what i do instead is when i saw my son do something great i would then tell him

00:00:19.520 nice kick way to run up the field why because it's accomplishing the same thing but it's reinforcing

00:00:25.600 the positive behavior. I'm the kind of person that loves feedback. I love people being direct

00:00:30.380 with me. No holds barred. You can't hurt my feelings. Just tell me. The challenge with that

00:00:34.680 is that other people, turns out, they don't like that.

Dan Martell - August 17, 2024