Dan Martell - Stop Asking Your Parents For Advice

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00:00:00.000 If you want a life that's different than your parents have,

00:00:02.700 you're going to have to make a different set of decisions,

00:00:04.840 which means you can't ask them for advice.

00:00:06.880 Because safe is going to university.

00:00:08.680 Safe is listening to what your parents think you should do.

00:00:11.260 Then it's to rewrite the language of what they're saying.

00:00:14.660 Because what they're saying is,

00:00:16.040 I'm scared you're going to hurt yourself.

00:00:18.520 Don't be upset at your parents for not believing in you.

00:00:21.120 Because what they're saying through a different choice of words is,

00:00:24.200 I love you.

00:00:25.000 So you have to be willing to go misunderstood.

Dan Martell - November 23, 2023