Dan Martell - December 27, 2023


The higher you go, the more people stop supporting you


Episode Stats


Length

43 seconds

Words per minute

240.98586

Word count

176

Sentence count

12

Harmful content

Toxicity

2

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Summary

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The higher you go, the harder it is to connect with new people and mentors. The more you grow up, the more likely it is that the people that used to be your peers and mentors end up not being. And it sucks because you're like, "You used to BE the person I called to celebrate, and now all of a sudden I've gone too far?"

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 the higher you go,
00:00:00.920 the people that used to be your peers and your mentors
00:00:03.140 end up not being. 0.57
00:00:04.200 And it sucks because you're like,
00:00:05.560 you used to be my cheerleader, 0.97
00:00:07.180 you used to be the person I called to celebrate.
00:00:09.020 And now all of a sudden I've gone too far.
00:00:11.580 Who are the people that when you think
00:00:13.620 about the interactions with them,
00:00:15.380 it doesn't light you up.
00:00:16.800 It doesn't energize you.
00:00:18.060 You don't feel absolutely celebrated by them
00:00:21.200 and give yourself the gift of creating space.
00:00:24.240 It doesn't have to be a hard like cut off.
00:00:26.020 I would just say when they text you,
00:00:27.720 wait a couple of days.
00:00:28.860 You know, when they invite you to the barbecue
00:00:30.100 on the weekend with no purpose, say you're busy.
00:00:32.200 Maybe they'll adjust, maybe they'll come back,
00:00:34.120 maybe they won't, but at least it creates a space
00:00:35.920 in your calendar to introduce new people to somebody.
00:00:38.660 You're inadvertently saying no to something else.
00:00:41.020 And when you say no to somebody,
00:00:42.400 you're saying yes to your dreams.