Dan Martell - The higher you go, the more people stop supporting you

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00:00:00.000 the higher you go,

00:00:00.920 the people that used to be your peers and your mentors

00:00:03.140 end up not being.

00:00:04.200 And it sucks because you're like,

00:00:05.560 you used to be my cheerleader,

00:00:07.180 you used to be the person I called to celebrate.

00:00:09.020 And now all of a sudden I've gone too far.

00:00:11.580 Who are the people that when you think

00:00:13.620 about the interactions with them,

00:00:15.380 it doesn't light you up.

00:00:16.800 It doesn't energize you.

00:00:18.060 You don't feel absolutely celebrated by them

00:00:21.200 and give yourself the gift of creating space.

00:00:24.240 It doesn't have to be a hard like cut off.

00:00:26.020 I would just say when they text you,

00:00:27.720 wait a couple of days.

00:00:28.860 You know, when they invite you to the barbecue

00:00:30.100 on the weekend with no purpose, say you're busy.

00:00:32.200 Maybe they'll adjust, maybe they'll come back,

00:00:34.120 maybe they won't, but at least it creates a space

00:00:35.920 in your calendar to introduce new people to somebody.

00:00:38.660 You're inadvertently saying no to something else.

00:00:41.020 And when you say no to somebody,

00:00:42.400 you're saying yes to your dreams.

Dan Martell - December 27, 2023