Dan Martell - January 12, 2024


Treat your marriage like a business


Episode Stats


Length

48 seconds

Words per minute

251.95554

Word count

204

Sentence count

8

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

1

sentences flagged


Summary

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Have a weekly meeting with your wife and ask her how she feels about your performance as a husband? Do you feel heard, seen and appreciated by her? Do you give her the feedback she needs to make sure she feels heard and appreciated?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 have a weekly meeting with my wife the question to my wife is how have i showed up for you as a
00:00:03.840 husband and i shut up and she can say whatever she wants and the only answer i'm allowed to say 1.00
00:00:09.520 is thank you oh that's good get the feedback repeat it back to the person so if you said to
00:00:14.720 me hey dan you know we were scheduling this blah blah i said so pace what i'm hearing you say is
00:00:18.960 i repeat it back you feel heard seen and appreciated and then i go did i get that right
00:00:23.760 and they go yeah then you get to make a commitment you can either decide to change
00:00:28.000 going forward or say, I appreciate that feedback. I just want to give you some context on why that
00:00:32.300 happened. Not that it makes it right. When I say that to my wife, I will never leave my cup next
00:00:37.000 to my bed ever again. Okay. That's an example, but what's something that she actually would say
00:00:41.080 about you? Oh, she's done everything. Dude, when you do this every week, trust me, I've worked
00:00:44.260 through a lot of stuff. Come on, all of it.