You either inspire or irritate. If I share that I just finished an Ironman, the people that are training to do something big and meaningful, and then the people are like, oh we always got to talk about Ironman? I don t think that s helping. You should try to strive to become the person you needed most in your darkest times. What did I go through in my life that I'd love to help other people avoid or get through quicker? I think that's a beautiful place to wake up and operate from.