Your parents don’t need to change for you to win
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Summary
My mom was an adopted child, grew up in an alcoholic, both parents were physical abuse like she s never read a book on personal development. I had the exact parents I needed. No matter what their demons bring up, they don t affect me anymore because I ve dealt with it.
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For a long time, there was a lot of resentment.
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I had to ask myself, am I going to expect my parents to do the work for me to have a relationship with them?
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Or am I going to have to do the work and get to a place where no matter what their demons bring up,
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they don't affect me anymore because I've dealt with it.
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No matter what my mom, my dad say, do, pure love and grace.
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My mom was an adopted child, grew up in an alcoholic, both parents.
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physical abuse like she's never read a book on personal development if i call my dad victor
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right now i'm struggling with this sales guy i don't know what to do with them he'll sit there
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for 22 minutes straight tell me the same story he's told me 1400 times and i'll sit there and
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i'll smile the whole time because there's going to be a day where he's not going to be there
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and i'll miss it a lot of kids wish their parents were different and i would say if you have the
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insight to be listening to this right now you probably have it in you to do the work and guess