Dan Martell - Your parents don’t need to change for you to win

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54 seconds

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253.05

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228

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Summary

My mom was an adopted child, grew up in an alcoholic, both parents were physical abuse like she s never read a book on personal development. I had the exact parents I needed. No matter what their demons bring up, they don t affect me anymore because I ve dealt with it.

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00:00:00.000 I had the exact parents I needed.

00:00:02.740 For a long time, there was a lot of resentment.

00:00:04.780 I had to ask myself, am I going to expect my parents to do the work for me to have a relationship with them?

00:00:11.300 Or am I going to have to do the work and get to a place where no matter what their demons bring up,

00:00:16.320 they don't affect me anymore because I've dealt with it.

00:00:18.800 No matter what my mom, my dad say, do, pure love and grace.

00:00:23.120 I understand where it came from.

00:00:24.220 My mom was an adopted child, grew up in an alcoholic, both parents. 0.99

00:00:27.660 physical abuse like she's never read a book on personal development if i call my dad victor

00:00:31.500 right now i'm struggling with this sales guy i don't know what to do with them he'll sit there

00:00:35.260 for 22 minutes straight tell me the same story he's told me 1400 times and i'll sit there and

00:00:39.260 i'll smile the whole time because there's going to be a day where he's not going to be there

00:00:43.100 and i'll miss it a lot of kids wish their parents were different and i would say if you have the

00:00:48.300 insight to be listening to this right now you probably have it in you to do the work and guess

00:00:52.060 Guess what? It's in your control.

Dan Martell - December 19, 2023

Your parents don’t need to change for you to win

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