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00:03:20.000Hey, I told you guys, man, and let the fuckery commence.
00:03:25.000Okay, so without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do is living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:07:12.000Alright, would it be fair to say that you, is most of your time devoted to OnlyFans, is the music video stuff, is the VIP hosting, what is it that you spend most of your time doing?
00:07:19.000So honestly, I mean, the OnlyFans is there every day, because I'm already doing content anyways, but mostly the VIP stuff and mostly the music video stuff.
00:07:26.000Also, I manage artists, so a lot of my time is devoted to a lot of hip-hop artists.
00:08:19.000I do social media, but I'm also obviously Air Force veteran, and then I'm a spokesperson for Veterans Health and Wellness, so I help a lot of people get resources, how to get more money from their disability, things like that, and also a big advocate against domestic violence and addiction.
00:08:37.000I got out of addiction, and it's something that I'm really passionate about, helping people.
00:08:41.000And I do OnlyFans, but I'm transitioning out of it.
00:08:45.000And as you can see by my necklace, which I know y'all are going to talk some shit about, but, you know, I'm in a relationship with the Lord right now.
00:09:20.000If you go back and watch it, you'll see I won every round.
00:09:24.000And then even the judge afterwards, he was drunk at the club and he's like, by the way, we could have never let you win because she just lost the lawsuit against the Kardashians.
00:09:54.000CCAF, which is a community college of the Air Force, so associates, but I'm two classes away from getting into medical school, which I already, when I was in the military, I cleaned teeth for six out of the nine years, so I didn't want to go that route anymore in medical.
00:10:08.000I was kind of like bored of it, and I think my calling is bigger than that to help people in a bigger scope.
00:10:13.000So that's where you want to transition because you want to get out of OF? No, I already did the medical while I was in the military, so I think my goal is to really speak to women and help them out of relationships, addiction, and men, you know, things like that.
00:19:19.000I've flaked on a lot of first dates, but second or third, no.
00:19:23.000If I know I like you, the first one went well, I'm not gonna flake on that.
00:19:27.000But let's be honest, you've probably been on a date with a guy before and he was nice or too nice, and it's like, ah, you're cool, this went well, but you're boring.
00:19:34.000Yeah, but I probably didn't agree to the second date, to be honest.
00:21:24.000It was like right off the bat like oh we're gonna take over the world and I think I could just you know I could see he had a lot of ego issues and I really don't want to be with another guy like because of how I look I attract a lot of guys in high positions or that just want to be like oh here's my arm candy she's my bad bitch and I just don't I'm not about that I'm trying to find the right guy so So then I told him,
00:21:45.000I tested him, and I was like, hey, I need to work on myself.
00:25:45.000Yeah, if I gotta catch a flight somewhere and go somewhere and get money or whatever, like, I just got called Tuesday, like, hey, you're flying to Miami Wednesday for this music video.
00:25:52.000But do you tell the guy, listen, I got work coming up, but we'll reschedule?
00:25:56.000Yeah, I mean, I don't say it like that.
00:25:57.000Like, I'll be like, hey, I gotta go do this.
00:25:59.000And a lot of people will be like, oh, you're gonna go, you're gonna go do this and go do this video with this rapper and this and that and you're mad.
00:29:53.000What about all the people that are married that are opposite signs and there have the happiest like social media not behind closed doors let's keep it 100 communication it's about being vulnerable once you're vulnerable that's when you can have a healthy relationship And the problem is that we make men have these egos,
00:30:13.000and you have to work, yet you can't be emotional.
00:30:15.000You've got to be strong all the time, so they're not vulnerable.
00:30:35.000How many of you in the panel, just to get a litmus test, so most of you are spiritual, most of you believe in signs, most of you believe in manifestation.
00:30:41.000I don't base my whole life on the signs, but if I meet someone, I'm like, oh, you're this?
00:31:24.000If he did want to cry, he could cry on my shoulder, but it's not like all the time he's running around, oh my god, this hurt, but like, yeah, he's gonna come.
00:31:30.000If he has something going on, he should be able to feel like he can open up to the person that he's with.
00:31:34.000The point of vulnerability is you basically accept the vulnerability no matter how it comes, because that's the point of being vulnerable.
00:31:39.000It's not, you know, oh, on this day I'm gonna be strong, another day I'm gonna be vulnerable, another day I'm gonna cry only this much, another day.
00:31:45.000If you want vulnerability, you can't really pick and choose it, it just comes, right?
00:31:49.000I think vulnerability, if you don't deal with being honest, then what are you doing?
00:31:55.000If you're hiding your feelings, you can come at somebody in the wrong way because you're not being honest with them about what's really going on inside.
00:33:14.000Yeah, because I wasn't healed, so I didn't really know what I wanted, but now that I've studied and I know what's healthy and what's not, like, yes, I know what I want now.
00:34:04.000Yeah, but now I'm on a different journey, so...
00:34:07.000Could you imagine going to school, working your ass off, being successful, sacrificing your whole 20s to then meet a girl that was having fun with bad dudes and then say, oh, I'm going to wait and wife you too.
00:38:23.000No, because I did some things, but then I was engaged for five years, and I got out of relationships, and I went crazy again, so I guess there's levels to it.
00:38:40.000I kind of think that, I mean, I would say like 20, but honestly, like, just like in the Bible, some of the best people that were used were some of the worst sinners and had the most love for God and turned their lives over.
00:38:54.000So I don't think that everything is some calculated, like everything calculation, time, all this thing we put on women's age, that's all of the devil.
00:39:31.000Yeah, but you never, I mean, you're never going to fully like, but hopefully you get to know that person that you do know that they, they've healed from that and they don't do that anymore.
00:39:53.000I was fearful of whatever, not being alone.
00:39:57.000There's all different types of things that go into that.
00:39:59.000And now that I'm in this life journey where I am, healing is a process that happens all the time.
00:40:04.000It's not like you're just healed one day.
00:40:05.000But if you're aware and you're like, for instance, being sober and being on the right path and you know what you want and you're following what God wants for your life, then you will be able to tell.
00:40:15.000If he's out on, okay, if he's on Pornhub every night, guess what?
00:41:54.00035 is a high-risk pregnancy at that point, but that does not exclude the fact that by the time you're 33, most of your eggs are absolutely gone.
00:43:09.000And freezing your eggs, yeah, that's maybe one way to go about it, but it doesn't change if, like, you can freeze your eggs all you want, but if the incubator's fucked up, the incubator's fucked up.
00:43:27.000Um, well, I've talked about this on a different podcast and everyone went berserk, but it's about the ratio.
00:43:33.000So, like, 20 could mean something different for everyone in this room.
00:43:38.000So, it's really about the opportunities you took.
00:43:41.000So, if, like, you only had, like, say someone, say two people have five and one person only had five opportunities to have sex and they took all five and one person had 20 opportunities and only took five opportunities.
00:43:54.000The person that took all five is a slut.
00:44:15.000You're saying it depends on opportunities.
00:44:17.000I mean, by that logic, girls with Instagram, dating apps, the internet in general, have a bunch of opportunities.
00:44:24.000So wouldn't that be kind of null and void to say opportunities given to you?
00:44:27.000Because even average women have thousands of opportunities.
00:44:30.000Yeah, so if they say five, that's not like that big of a number compared to someone that isn't on dating apps and doesn't do social media and took five out of five.
00:44:39.000But what I'm arguing is that any girl has access to social media and can get access to top-tier guys and a lot of opportunities.
00:44:45.000And so can guys, but I think it's about the opportunities.
00:44:48.000Men don't have nearly as many opportunities as women.
00:47:21.000So what I'm saying is that because their argument is like, oh, it's about the opportunities that you have versus, you know, sleeping with those things.
00:47:26.000Opportunities you take versus what you have.
00:47:29.000I'm arguing it doesn't matter because you have a million opportunities as a female.
00:47:32.000Yeah, so what the thing is, if we both say 10, our 10 is going to be a lot different because I had a lot of opportunities and only took 10 and you didn't have that many and you took 10.
00:47:41.000So if you actually do the math, you're sluttier than me.
00:52:29.000It depends on if you're male or female, where you grew up, where you live, if you go out, if you don't live, if you live in a rural area, if you live in the city, how old you are, etc.
00:52:42.000I just got to get to the bottom line here.
00:52:45.000Are you saying that a man that has a 50 body count is the same as a woman that has a 50 body count?
00:52:49.000No, I'm saying it's different, because a man might have only had 75 opportunities and took 50, and a girl might have had a thousand and took 50, and that's a big, big difference, so the man is a lot sluttier.
00:52:59.000She's saying the conversion of the doctor.
00:53:53.000Oh, I was saying that I agree with her because I'm not from here and back in Tampa if someone told me their body count was 30 or 40 or whatever I'd be like oh my god like that's so much but here as a guy or a girl both both yeah and then here it's like yeah here it's like 3,000 and I'm like okay well So now 30 and 40,
00:54:16.000that doesn't seem like a lot to me because I'm here in Miami now, living here, and everyone has a higher body count.
00:54:23.000So it does vary where you live, who you are, where you are.
00:54:30.000We're just saying, relationship-wise, it matters because the guy's gonna be like, damn, if I find out your body count, it'll determine if I take you serious or not.
00:54:37.000Versus you, if you find out a guy's body count, you may be like, you know what?
00:54:40.000He's cool, I like his vibe, I don't really care about his body count.
00:54:43.000But guy, it'll definitely bother him at some point.
00:56:57.000It makes her look like she only cares about money and status because if you're going after every guy and they just happen to be like Leonardo DiCaprio and then every guy she's with is a high roller.
00:57:06.000The foundation was that she might have slept with those guys.
00:59:03.000Can I please finish my thought before you guys interrupt?
00:59:05.000What I said was, in a lot of instances, the man is not allowed to see his children and the woman weaponizes the children against him and also uses the family courts to her advantage to go ahead and get the money through child support because she knows if it's shared custody, she doesn't get as much money.
00:59:19.000Okay, I will say that the guy got five other baby mamas and he's running around.
00:59:27.000Okay, as someone who studied childhood development though, mothers have the maternal figure and that's why mothers get most kids in court situations and stuff because men don't biologically Biologically?
01:00:01.000That when you compare single mothers to single fathers, the kids that come from single father households absolutely are less degenerative, not alcoholics, not drug abusers, less likely to go to prison because fathers typically tend to be disciplinarians.
01:00:19.000Are you just saying, specifically speaking, for men who are raised by men?
01:00:24.000The children that come from single-father households versus the children that come from single-mother households, the children that come from the single-father household are less likely to be degenerates and fuck-ups in society.
01:00:32.000I'd love to see your information on that.
01:01:13.000But if you have the specific, like, created in you when a woman, oh, sorry, When a woman, like, she refers to the child to their certain hormones and things that are made in her body to make her more close to the child and make them develop better.
01:01:26.000And so that's why a court sticks with the mother.
01:01:28.000They specifically have certain things.
01:01:30.000Individuals, a bad person, doesn't matter if it's maternal, if it's biological.
01:01:32.000No, if you're a bad person, that's not what we're talking about.
01:01:34.000I'm talking about a regular-ass mom who's trying her best for a kid and a dad.
01:01:46.000The burner proof to get a child away from the mother is much higher than it would be the burner proof required to get the child away from the father.
01:01:53.000So in other words, the woman has to be a huge degenerative fuck up to get the kids taken away from her versus the father doesn't have to rise to even half of that and he gets the kids taken away from him.
01:02:40.000No, because if you're going to be someone at 15, whatever, 16, 17, I'm not judging you.
01:02:44.000What you do in your past, when you get to that age, if you've changed, you've developed, you've grown, you've gone, I don't know what you've done in your life.
01:02:52.000But when you change and get to that age and you feel like you're ready and you're ready to settle down with my son, if that's the thing, I'm not judging you for what you did in your past.
01:03:20.000So if something happened to you when you were younger and you felt like you needed a wild out for that, You need to wild out because of that and stuff.
01:03:26.000Everyone deals with it in their own way.
01:03:27.000I don't think it's fair to judge you when you're 20, 20.
01:03:31.000I don't know how old you are getting married.
01:03:38.000But you're making a situation out of someone who could have maybe passed in her life, slept around and stuff like that.
01:03:44.000You don't know who she is when she's getting married.
01:03:46.000So you're saying she's sleeping around like when she's marrying my son like it like she's engaged to my son and she's sleeping around the town the prior of her past experiences like how prior have created trauma yeah so everyone has trauma every girl at this table's got trauma Having a higher count,
01:04:13.000Because, like, if my daughter meets a guy, and this guy only had sex only with five women, don't you think that that guy would need to try more?
01:05:10.000I thought you were asking my number but for my son or daughter I said there wasn't and then you guys asked and then I was like I guess like under like a hundred Okay, so now it's under 100.
01:05:22.000No, yeah, because I was answering my body count and then you said that wasn't the question.
01:05:55.000And as for my son, if I have a son, if his wife basically isn't having him, you know, wrapped around his fingers, her fingers, If he's not wrapped around her fingers, you know.
01:09:28.000Like, if I'm dating someone, I want them to be circumcised, but I heard about all this crazy stuff about how dangerous it is to circumcise your baby, so after I heard about that, I probably wouldn't do it to my son because it's very risky.
01:09:41.000My sister actually delivers babies, and they legit, if they mess it up, they have to make you a female.
01:10:04.000For the ladies that are single and want a good traditional man, in other words, your dream man, the man you've prayed for, serious question, how bad do you really want it?
01:10:16.000Are you willing to go through obstacles to get it?
01:10:53.000Well, yeah, I mean, wouldn't it be fair to say that if a guy's very attractive and women want him, that he's gonna probably have some standards and boundaries?
01:11:41.000I mean, I'm willing to go through obstacles, but I'm not willing to be treated like shit or get cheated on and put up with stuff like that.
01:12:34.000No, I get that, but if the next guy comes in, he's probably gonna, and he's, you know, an attractive guy and has all these things in line, don't you think that would be a problem?
01:12:43.000I actually thought it was gonna interfere with my dating life, but honestly, it hasn't.
01:12:48.000Um, a lot of people that I meet now, they either have friends that have OnlyFans agencies, or they have agencies, or they're in sort of, like, crypto or some sort of entrepreneurship, and, like, they kind of just, like, understand it, and, um,
01:13:03.000It's becoming more normalized, but ultimately, I would say the guy's always going to have it in the back of his head.
01:13:09.000Well, he's going to be on my OnlyFans with me.
01:14:03.000I just intuitively knew like he wasn't like my person.
01:14:07.000So he put his job at risk to lose it and then lose you.
01:14:12.000I was his biggest fantasy but there was just so many things that I just felt like we were on different wavelengths when we talked and Yeah, I just knew he wasn't.
01:14:24.000My intuition told me this was not my person.
01:14:27.000I did think he was like my husband at one point.
01:16:32.000At one point I thought he was like my dream man, and then the closer we got, the more we lived together, the more our lives meshed together, the more I was just like, this is it.
01:16:45.000Did you have better options waiting for you?
01:19:42.000I'm where I want to be and where I should be.
01:19:44.000But I do believe that if I'm with him, I definitely want to already be off OnlyFans.
01:19:48.000Because if a guy wants me when I'm on OnlyFans, I'm going to think, okay, he likes that because that's his fetish.
01:19:53.000And I don't want a guy to just want me for sex.
01:19:56.000But don't you think guys might disqualify you from being on OnlyFans?
01:20:01.000Yeah, but don't you think you just being on OnlyFans in general and having a big social media presence might disqualify you from a God-fearing religious guy?
01:20:09.000No, because I can help a lot of people as well with my social media.
01:25:56.000As someone that believes in the faith, if you put yourself a certain way, they're going to assume, oh, she's contradicting herself and she's fake.
01:27:32.000What I see here is a woman that says she's going to transition, but there's way too much money, there's way too much financial incentive for you to continue to do what you're doing.
01:38:45.000She's not delusional like some of you ladies on the panel all right because the reality is guys like me real that yes, she is She's hotter than you too for sure The thing is this, men like me have fucking standards.
01:38:59.000The problem is that you ladies think, I'm gonna act how I want, and some guy's gonna come in and rescue me.
01:44:48.000It's that the reason why you're religious now and you're being sobriety and all this other stuff is because you realize, like, damn, I'm older now.
01:44:54.000I don't have the same ability to get the same attractive men that I did 10 years prior.
01:44:58.000Let me fix myself up and do something.
01:46:13.000You can do what you want to do, but you gotta understand that there's consequences to what you do.
01:46:19.000If you sexualize yourself, a majority of men are not going to take you seriously, they're not going to respect you, and they're not going to want to commit to you.
01:48:40.000They just can't openly say it because we get the dumb backlash that we're getting right now.
01:48:44.000Like, if y'all told me, women like tall guys in general that have their stuff in order financially and will be able to be a protector and a provider.
01:53:53.000Okay, Anonymous says, why do women think that they deserve or can pull men who are levels above them financially or socially when they do OnlyFans?
01:55:34.000But if they want to dress a little bit more exposed, whether that be a crop top, like maybe showing off their titties if they got them, bitty titty committee.
01:55:42.000But like that, you can't believe in God or you can't like post.
01:59:31.000Because, you know, deep down being a whore is going to fuck up your bottom line with finding a man.
01:59:35.000But you're sitting here enabling those whores to be whores.
01:59:38.000Okay, but back to what I was saying, like, remember how I said, remember how I said I don't talk to any guys, and you're like, who do you talk to?
01:59:43.000Like, I talk to my friends, I talk to family, whatever.
01:59:46.000I was, like, girls have each other's backs.
01:59:48.000Like, I had their backs, I hope they have my backs.
01:59:50.000But are you really having their backs if you're telling them to engage in behavior that's destructive, that's gonna fuck them up long term?