In this episode, we discuss the 3 things that turn men off and how to deal with them. 1. Being a hoe 2. Sex work 3. Chasing after them What do you think of these 3 things?
00:15:00.000What's the weird part is that I just knew deep down that if I was ever to be that simp type of guy, a wife her up, they got to commit suicide.
00:15:46.000But what's the instant turnoff for me?
00:15:48.000I would say, like, any girl that wants me to chase after them, like, if they don't got no realization, I'm the one that's already throwing off the agar in the situation.
00:15:58.000Even if we fuck around a little bit and she kind of cool, but if she really making me like run after her and like seeing about her board that she's hearing about me, it's over with.
00:16:44.000So they could like get real emotional.
00:16:46.000Let's say like you really fuck them really good.
00:16:49.000And just two days after that, they trying to see exactly where you at, who you with, you know, actually giving a fuck about your story, checking the page of the other person that was on the story.
00:17:00.000So opposed to thinking like, I don't like the chasing thing too, because it's like, bruh, if you're basic as fuck, it's like you gotta be honored.
00:17:09.000Like at the end of the day, I don't mind if a woman is like all that because she ain't gonna move in with me, but she like own me like that.
00:17:14.000That means like, yeah, she understands what's going on.
00:17:16.000That's why you tap them pockets, baby.
00:19:15.000So, my ex-boyfriend, he was famous in my country, Tanzania, East Africa.
00:19:21.000And anything that trends on social media, he will say something.
00:19:25.000No matter what it's about him, it's not about him.
00:19:28.000So, to me, that used to turn me off so bad.
00:19:30.000Like, sometimes I can feel so shy, even if when I'm with my friends and we are on Instagram, and boom, a clip of him talking something that it doesn't even include him.
00:19:39.000So, everywhere, he can even go live and talk about it online.
00:20:48.000Like, if it's about musicians, if it are people who even like you don't even know, if it's about even nonsense things that, you know, sometimes nowadays, things, there's some things trending that it doesn't even really make sense.
00:21:02.000But if we just trend it, we just go viral.
00:21:04.000So for him, as long as it's more than 10 people posted, he will say something.
00:27:46.000I mean, I know some guys they don't like women to talk when they're having sex.
00:27:52.000But I can say 80% of guys, I don't know about you guys, but I know I know, but 80% of guys, they like a woman who feel it and say it when you're talking about it.
00:28:03.000We have a conversation to that moment.
00:33:21.000I don't know how to say this, but once you start to see your period as a woman, especially my traditional, they take you somewhere for like two weeks.
00:33:29.000Maybe when you are like maybe 12 years old, 12 or 13, they take you somewhere.
00:33:36.000Old women from your culture, they take you somewhere for two weeks.
00:33:39.000They're going to teach you how to treat a man, and they're going to tell you like you already grow up, so you should be like this, like the other.
00:33:44.000So, for me, if I'm dating somebody, that person is going to have extra treatment from a woman.
00:33:52.000Like, I'm going to be giving him more than what he needs, and he doesn't have to look outside for anybody else.
00:34:13.000I mean, first of all, when I say the 10K, that is like to a man who is doing a normal lifestyle, maybe he's having a normal job.
00:34:22.000But when you come to me and you are leash as fuck, billionaire, millionaire, obviously, you should give me like even 100,000 a month, 100,000 a month.
00:36:24.000And he's doing that to support me Because He loves you He loves He still want me But you don't want him I cannot say I don't want him But at the moment At the moment I feel like I have too much for him And he needs me so much right now So that's when you leave him And we're not even in the same country Wow Yes So So So you're gonna Stay here Or you're gonna go back You don't You don't want to stay here With the rich niggas I mean I'm
00:36:53.000still here Of course I'm still here Because I have so much to do here Yeah So let me get it straight He's still paying bills He loves you still And wants you to come back to him But you're like Alright nigga I'm tired of this shit I've Pretty much Top of the castle I want to move on Do something new Is that what No no no no I would say because What he's doing Is not based in America In
00:37:17.000USA So for him Because his business It had to move here And for me Because of my career It's hard to move where he is So we don't meet In between It is a match Because Yeah Because we are having Two different Careers Lifestyle And everything So let's say It did match And it was in the same city Would you still be with him?
00:37:37.000Um Yes That was too long Nah Because I was thinking about him That's why
00:37:45.000capturing him in my head that's what you think about if i say no the damn money gonna go yes you're a bad person so so i i could only imagine because obviously speaking in the u.s maybe me better some i guess for your career better but uh if he was gonna be with you he'll pay for everything right take care of everything you'd be taking i feel like if we was being together right now it would have been even more way better it would have made my care my career and
00:38:15.000my my my look my person i mean my um damn english like your uh your appearance yes he would have is it cool or would he would would make it better yeah he would have make it more way better and be to make me like being that you got them you know i am a camera on this mother exactly yeah even more grace jones i would say because
00:38:43.000right now it's not like he's doing because he's still supporting me to my career and he always promised that i would be there no matter what so that's why he's not stopping paying anything about what i need but i cannot be like oh i need this today i need that tomorrow because we are not really being together we don't do anything giving that pussy so you can't get too much now yeah you ain't let them get that load off i can't get everything baby one question so when this guy that you're dating you guys are talking we are not dating i
00:39:12.000cannot say we are dating right now because it's been more than a year we haven't seen each other over here yeah fresh face bro so eclectic that man please so eclectic that bro no it's just a good shot bro that nigga's pain he's still over here he's a good guy guys they's a good guy yes bro yes and you know how old he is i feel like he's 33 or
00:39:40.00034 he's from a very very i thought you were gonna say like 80 years old family how old you what he's giving I'm 26 this nigga ain't no nope bro I promise you that bro hold
00:39:54.000on that's crazy what bill do you pay for after a year that you don't use anymore please tell me other than property taxes what do you pay like bro what I'm telling you even me sometimes I'm thinking about I'm like okay but I'm not gonna say anything yeah he was oh shit she ain't gonna say anything because let me tell you something even me myself who I'm getting that that transfer every month.
00:40:19.000and he already sent save set settings to his account like every month it's coming automatically to my account yes so i don't have to ask him because he's already like wow yes and he never sends less.
00:40:33.000Damn, even maybe sometimes if I want something really important and it's out of my budget on what he's sending, I'll be like, listen, I really need this right now.
00:40:41.000Please, on the money that you're going to send me, can you add this?
00:41:56.000So if he says, like, I need you to come back and be with me right now, or I'm cutting that money off, what would you do?
00:42:03.000I would say, okay, I mean, I mean, listen.
00:42:05.000No, I would not say because he's been there for me so much.
00:42:08.000I will not go because I have my career I'm working on right now.
00:42:12.000And it's very important more than what I'm getting from him because my career can give me even more weight better if I keep focusing on my career.
00:45:14.000That don't make sense to me when a woman says that.
00:45:16.000If you already buy yourself single and you're having all these things living your life, what do I have to add to that that you already don't got?
00:46:40.000Like, if you are a man and you want to date me, like, if you're not adding any value to my life, if I can afford my lifestyle, why am I dating you?
00:46:49.000Because you like me, you love me, you want to be around me, enjoy my.
00:49:29.000I was going to say, like, hell, in Dubai, first of all, Arab people, correct me if I'm wrong, guys, but Arab people is they believe a woman should not even walk.
00:49:40.000It's just Being cute for the husband and taking care of what is supposed to be taking care in the house.
00:49:48.000A man is the one who should work to provide to provide what is needed in the house and to the family.
00:49:55.000So, us, especially where I come from, we colonized by Alex too.
00:50:01.000So, there's a way that it's not even about what do we colonize, it's about where a woman should receive something from a man.
00:51:00.000When you bring out the Arabs, even you, you poor Arabs.
00:51:02.000Poor Arabs, most of the Arabs in most of the Middle Eastern nations, they're extremely poor, and their wives still serve them as if they're kings.
00:56:23.000That's why we have different vision or different mentality because you already put that in your mind and there's no way I can confuse you because we are not dating.
00:56:31.000But if I was your girlfriend, if I was your wife, I would have changed your mind.
00:57:41.000Within that six months, you be already know my lifestyle, know your lifestyle, know what I'm missing, what I need either in my career, either in my financial, either with my problems.
00:57:50.000Like you, as a man, you love me and you don't want to lose me.
00:57:53.000Of course, if you have that, you're going to be taking care of me.
00:57:56.000Okay, but if you're dealing with a guy, right?
00:57:58.000If you're dealing with a high-level guy that's worth millions of dollars, how me pouring into your career is better than you pouring into mine.
00:58:04.000If I've already been successful in these different areas and businesses and making all this money, why aren't you contributing to me to be the bigger and better person?
00:58:10.000We're going on trying to help careers and all that.
00:59:09.000You can still throw on some clothes on Good Cologne, get to talk together, get your money right, hit that gym, you good because you're not going to fall for this, man.
01:05:11.000The question he asked me, he said, if I'm here in America and I meet a guy, how much he should invest in me.
01:05:23.000And before I said, as long as it's more than what I have, because you might be rich tomorrow and you can get problems and be poor tomorrow.
01:05:35.000But as long as I love you and you showed me that you were there for me, you'll be there for me.
01:05:39.000Even if you have zero dollars, as long as I can take care of myself, I will still love you.
01:07:11.000I'm not rushing to a man could be kind of worried to say that you're 26 and your main source of income was the last dude.
01:07:17.000So I would think, like, why would I be able to, why would I put myself in a situation to replace what he's doing if he hasn't invested in a product that's succeeding?
01:07:46.000He's saying, if I'm a new guy watching this, why am I going to invest my money into you when you're a field person that doesn't know how to manage your money to make more?
01:13:34.000But if I'm going to bring somebody to my life who I love and I care most, obviously there's no way I can be talking to my ex and I'm sitting with my boyfriend or my husband.
01:16:48.000So my thing is like for dating guys, especially, you should understand what men really want and what they don't like.
01:16:53.000And that's going to be the best option for you to move forward.
01:16:56.000And these are good conversations to have because most of the time, how she's talking, she's talking to her girlfriends and they all vouching.
01:17:04.000And so you're not getting a real conversation coming back to you.
01:17:06.000Or you're dealing with simp guy, like, yeah, I deal with who's lying, or they're just some gamed up guys.
01:17:11.000Oh, yeah, if I mess with any woman, I pay for everything, run that game on you.
01:17:14.000Do that for a few months and get rid of you, throw you out there to the garbage.
01:17:17.000So you're dealing with real guys, giving you a real perspective how real men move.
01:17:22.000Not the guys who are simping, not the guys who run the game on you, and not your friends that are pandering to how you want to live and how they're dreaming they're going to live.
01:17:29.000Because it's not going to add up for them most of the time.
01:17:31.000That percentage of a woman really getting that type of guy that they like, that they're attracted to, that's going to take care of their bills and they don't have to worry about nothing is so slim to none.
01:17:40.000You can even count it on the damn calculator.
01:18:32.000In America, especially America, if a man is over 30 years old, successful with money and status, a girlfriend or wife could be seen as a detriment to his success.
01:19:46.000I'm saying, thank God I'm from Tanzania, East Africa, because back there, if a man do what you're saying, like you just fuck bitches, you just looks like women out there talking about their life calling men niggas and all that.
01:21:44.000But being single and having a woman of my choice when I want to, and having discernment of women I want is way better than I'm married and I'm miserable.
01:27:13.000Uh, I actually can relate to the first one, man.
01:27:15.000I was talking to a girl for like three weeks, and then she was like, you know, I thought we were just pretty much just gonna fuck, and then it wasn't gonna be no more than that.
01:27:22.000So, I didn't want you to know that I had a kid, which, of course, there was no need for that to come up.
01:27:26.000But she just thought there was possibly the chance to be more than what it was.
01:27:29.000Yeah, she just had it wrong, but that made it 10 times worse when I found out.
01:28:00.000Um, because I was laughing, I was laughing all the different scenarios.
01:28:08.000Yes, but like the one that um the baby mama thing, like you go to your girlfriend house, and they're like, because you asked me which one is kind of, I don't really like, I don't like it, right?
01:28:23.000The one that you, you, the man that went to a woman's house and the kids crying and stuff.
01:28:29.000It's like, I don't, I don't really, like, for example, to see a woman have a young baby like that and lunch to another relationship, like ready to bring a man at home even you have a baby.
01:29:16.000But man, majority of those are red flags.
01:29:18.000And you guys should look at that and move accordingly early and don't fall forward until it's too late because it can be detrimental to your life for sure.
01:29:25.000If you start liking a woman with those situations and trying to, you know what I'm saying, accept it, it'll turn out bad in the long run anyway.
01:34:23.000But where I come from, we don't do that.
01:34:24.000That's why when you are talking about a relationship, we are talking two different things because you have your own experience.
01:34:29.000I have my own experience, and what you're saying, for example, from the creep that we just watched, like some women they go there and be like, they do what they do, and then later they'll be like, oh, I'm gonna, I'm gonna sue him so that I can get money after him.
01:34:43.000Like, this is so, I feel like America is somehow full of scummy and come to the end of the day.
01:34:49.000So, that's why you were saying earlier about the money stuff because you're going from a traditional place where you're in a genuine love and you care for him and care for you, making sure you're good.
01:34:59.00099% of the time, these women are trying to take from you, take from wherever guy they can, and just get the money and make you look goofy and stupid.
01:35:06.000So, that's why we don't understand what you're saying because we ain't no simps.
01:35:44.000I would never date a man that's stumped ever, which I know sounds like super hypocritical because it is, but I wouldn't want a man that's in the mix like that.
01:35:53.000You broke up because I gave up my career for him.
01:35:57.000I don't work with any, like, I don't gave it up totally.
01:36:00.000I've been retired now for a year and a half, and he flirts with girls in videos and has girls in all his videos.
01:36:18.000And I respect what she actually just said because I was kind of talking to a girl and she told me she's like, hey, I'm watching the OnlyFans.
01:36:24.000And for me, it's like, well, if I want to post you or have you a part of my stuff, it becomes a business situation when you have more money coming in all of a sudden.
01:36:33.000You're not going to look at me the same way.
01:36:34.000And the reason why I think you guys are getting back together.
01:36:37.000It sounds like he's probably doing well now, but he's like, let's get better.
01:37:34.000You know, I don't also, I don't really, I don't want to judge, but I don't also get the thing that when girls, and I feel like in Miami, it looks like it's very normal.
01:37:44.000Like girls, when they do, what is this?
01:38:23.000I feel like this country has a lot to offer to the fact that women, they should really have a pride on themselves and not doing that type of thing.
01:38:31.000It's not only in America that women do, but it's like opportunity.
01:43:34.000Like, most of the men's now, no matter you can do it fixing your body, look, you look like an angel, but as long as you're dumb, I feel like most women, I have to dumb it down by like shit, 80%.
01:43:47.000So, if I could find a woman that I can like actually be myself with and like go into detail, go through like these multi-dimensional conversations, that shit could really keep me.
01:45:56.000Our chat, the Whole Facts chat, is unbeatable because we have caught these four agents coming to America time and time again trying to finesse.
01:47:05.000Yes, yes, I know, but I will never, I didn't, I never really feel interested that I wanted them to look because I believe like everybody have a background, you know, and I believe like nobody is perfect.
01:47:20.000So I feel like if we are dating today, I may be, I may that, I mean, I may, I may have done something crazy more that you have done, or you might have done something crazy more from the past.
01:47:35.000So as long as we love each other, we can start from here.
01:47:39.000And I feel like the background or what you have done and this and that is just too much into the relationship.
01:47:45.000I feel like for me, I don't really support the app because it just so in your case, as a woman, I understand because a man's past isn't that crazy where it matters for your future.
01:47:58.000Over your past as a woman does matter.
01:48:00.000Because if you're you've been in the streets, you've been stripper, all these things, then for us, we need to know because you're going to be a mother of her kids right but i believe like if we're in a relationship and we love each other i should be honest with you and tell you how that you should be honest but not everyone's honest yeah yeah so that's why i cannot really say much about it because maybe i'm different on that guys by the way if we're if you're if you're enjoying the show like the video we're gonna cut here and go to rumble full time so guys on youtube x we're gonna cut on those platforms to go to rumble
01:48:30.000only uh so if you guys don't mind put the link in the chat and we'll head over there to rumble only but before we do so let's say your man was on that app the t app what
01:48:41.000would you do let's say let's say the guy was like uh dating multiple girls you found him on the app i like your boyfriend at the time what would you do for example you my boyfriend and i find i heard that oh i saw that you're on this app yes you're dating so many women before oh why you're with me yes before no before no with you oh you are together and you've been so i'm being you right now and i'm on the app and this girl said oh i love him or i love him multiple girls i mean
01:49:11.000what would you do i will i'll be paying them bills now it's not about bills yo what are you saying that is about love now so i will i will see if i can manage you to to change you and make you a better man i'll be there because some men's they do things that without even as i say men's are like kids men's can cheat men's can cheat because maybe of the boobs men's can cheat can
01:49:41.000cheat because maybe because of the ass so if i look at you and i love you i'll be like babe listen you can be a better man this is not a way okay look i'll be honest with you right i'm autistic i see the ass i need to get it yeah so it's not only me it's just my autism i'm a talent yeah that's why help me jesus and not leave me i'm happy i'm not gonna be understanding every fucking day no hell no you're gonna
01:50:09.000take advantage no now you're trying to take advantage of your phone help me no you're supposed to help me baby it's not like i'm supporting i'm not it's not like i'm supporting you to go going around with other big bitches no it's just like i will look at the situation and see if i can change if i can make you a better man yeah but if no i said like you know what baby i'm sorry but no don't do that to me don't don't leave me out there like that you gotta help me then if
01:50:38.000you want me better change what are you looking for the man yeah why are you looking to a man yeah okay i'm looking to a man who is intelligent has a pride on himself who is very smart like those are the very very thing that i'm looking a man who is happy can can can can make i can look at him and be like damn i'm blessed to have this type of man yeah yeah that's what i'm looking and
01:51:07.000i'm looking for the man to respect me respect you respect okay understand me i got to understand you yeah i do i respect i understand you already yeah no no i don't understand me um um i don't i don't know okay can i tell you something i will try to speak it yes um thank you thank you candace i mean you say you are looking for
01:51:37.000men who will respect you and the men who who what understand you but let me tell you something relationship this is what i'm thinking you guys will tell me everybody's different yeah relationship is about me and you yeah it's not about you so if a man is intelligent enough and loves you or always obvious he will respect you yes so maybe if you're looking for not a man who is intelligent and smart enough to know that i have a woman back home then
01:52:07.000he can he can disrespect you in front of people but if a man that is just understand that i have a woman i respect i mean i have a woman and i'm intelligent enough to know what i'm doing is not good he cannot disrespect you in front of anybody i mean i don't know i don't know explain in english but i mean it's okay i mean intelligent for for something different so the smart person yeah you want you want to
01:55:27.000I feel like these are the people they are making fashion looks like is not a nice thing to do because you as a man, why are you wearing a short skirt like that?
01:55:38.000Well, men have been broken down to get to that point, though.
01:55:41.000Like, do they, what are they doing for reaving, anyways?
01:56:20.000Colorado officials sent out a warning to do not touch to the residents that the rabbits were spotted in baiting parts of the U.S. with weird tentacles sprouting from their head due to the virus.
01:57:50.000Breaking, the Minnesota Vikings have created a lot of backlash surrounding their team after hiring a male as their lead cheerleader for this football season.
01:58:44.000And more than anything, definitely a lot of self-reflection, a lot of understanding of not only putting myself in a compromised situation with somebody that I have a deep care and appreciation for as well is something that holding myself accountable.
01:59:12.000It's going to reflect who I truly am in my heart and my spirit.
01:59:16.000And not allowing this moment, but accepting this moment to be more.
01:59:21.000And so my only thing is, I want to be more not just for myself, but for my family, for my fans, and overly appreciate y'all supporting me and showing.
02:00:48.000These Walmart employees uploaded this footage showing how their EBT system briefly went down and almost all the shoppers left their carts over them with groceries in the store due to their stamps not working.
02:00:57.000Jiggers up on you, goddamn freeloading black son bitches.
02:01:54.000Breaking news: humans now have 116 days until this alien comet that Harvard scientists believe could be an alien ship arrives to the earth, which could hold a threat for every human, according to Professor A. Bro.
02:02:05.000The alleged late alien ship will arrive before December the 5th, 2025, according to the professor.
02:02:11.000The professor Loyb said it could come to save or destroy us all.
02:02:14.000There's a man, I'm ready for this shit to anyway.
02:03:16.000You also got Anna Paulina, the one that's working on getting Tori Lane's free, was the lead UAP and UFO researcher.
02:03:22.000And she's been saying over the like last two years since she took office that we were going to start seeing more signs in the skies and things like that.
02:03:29.000So I think they are somewhat preparing people for a different type of contact.
02:04:24.000And you can't fight it with hands and flesh and blood.
02:04:26.000But as soon as Temple Mount falls in the third Temple of Solomon is built, the Bible says that the Antichrist, who is their Messiah, will come sit.
02:04:33.000But I have a feeling it's going to be like an alien in colour.
02:05:41.000Developing Hollywood actress Holly Baby Holly Berry ex-husband David Justice revealed that he left her because he couldn't see her as a mother of his kids.
02:09:45.000Did you know most of the black people that did, quote unquote, was killed by the CIA where it comes from Bob Marley, Martin Luther King, all these people?
02:09:51.000There was a rumor of why they were actually killing them in the CIA because they said they were trying to prevent the quote-unquote black Messiah from the earth.
02:09:58.000Those people that were killed, they were actually in CIA documentation being referenced as a black Messiah that they were trying to do that.
02:11:06.000And it's worse when you consider the fact that when we were doing it right, they actually dropped bombs on us, which is the only time that the United States dropped bombs on the own land.
02:12:00.000Like, life is not as simple as I understand what you guys are saying because the way the taxes stuff, the tax things, how it goes here is kind of like totally different.
02:12:12.000So at the end of the day, you have to look into why this benefits you.
02:13:11.000Oh, like the fact that I don't really understand English very well, but I still get to love with you guys and understand what you guys saying.
02:16:10.000I want to get my point off, you get yours off, and we go from there and let the people, you know, choose what they like and what they want to do.