On this episode of the Friendship Podcast, Darius and Chris are joined by special guest Aaron Parks. The guys talk about Aaron's recent trip to Miami and how he's dealing with it, as well as what he's up to now that he's back in the swing of things with his new job. They also talk about how they're doing their best to get back on track with their fitness and nutrition goals and what they're looking forward to for the rest of the year. The guys also discuss some of the craziest things they've been up to in the past week, and how they plan to keep pushing forward with their goals for the future of the podcast. And Darius talks about his new book, "Why It's a Woman's Less Less" which is out now and is a best selling book on the mafia and the hierarchy of the 5 Families of New York. If you're a fan of the mafia, check it out, it's a must-read book. And if you like true crime, check out my new book on Amazon, Why It's A Woman s Less Less Than a Woman: The Five Families of NYC. It's in stores now! I'll be starting a new series on the Five Families Of New York on Tuesday, July 31st. Stay tuned till the end of the week for that! Darius -Darius Chris Aaron D. D.D. - D.E. Daniel Thanks for listening and supporting the show! - Darius . Thank you so much for being a good friend of mine, Darius, I really appreciate you! - Thank you for being here! - Darius, Chris, DMs, Aaron, and Chris, and thanks for supporting me, and I appreciate you, and God bless you, I'm so much more! Love ya! -P.S. - DMs! -D.B. - I'll see you soon! -Chad, Cheers, P.A. - Cheers! -Jonah & Chris! - Jonah - - E. & Chris - P.M. . . - SONGS: CHEERS! - and P. & P. & D.YANGS! -A. P.Y. - CHEER! -JACOB - JACOB - JAMIE - JAY!
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00:03:53.000Girls, send me a DM on Aaron C. Parkson on IG. Make sure if you're flying out to Miami, two months from now, three months from now, I don't know what we're doing.
00:04:18.000In other words, if you're ugly, we will not let you, well, no, bro, we gotta let some, like, maybe one or two ugly girls on the panel at a time.
00:04:25.000He got a bare face check and then he's killing himself.
00:04:52.000Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, and we'll start right here.
00:08:04.000No, because the angle that you come from, which is one-sided.
00:08:08.000So you don't take into account the full picture.
00:08:13.000You're a pretty logical man, so I like to speak to you logically.
00:08:17.000So scientifically, chemistry-wise, if you're going to work a problem, an equation, and you're balancing an equation, you have to work both sides of the problem.
00:08:27.000So whatever you do to one side, you got to do to the other one.
00:08:29.000And so I'm just here to level out the equation.
00:11:43.000So, basically, you know, men these days, men with money or whatever, like, they feel like they're entitled to multiple women.
00:11:50.000Okay, if you have your bag and you're taking care of me and I don't know what's going on on the other side, that's fine, but I'm going to call that an entanglement because I don't have a ring on my finger.
00:12:04.000I don't have any type of, like, Real...
00:12:21.000Technically, he thinks that I'm his girl and I act like it because I don't like to sleep around and I am just with him and I have only been sleeping with him.
00:14:23.000And he does right by me when he's with me.
00:14:27.000And for now, since I've only been talking to him or dating him for a month and a half, I feel like I don't have the place to say anything else or to ask for anything more or to ask him.
00:14:41.000Does he pay for your lifestyle right now?
00:18:15.000If you're actually trying to, like, you know, pick up a stripper, guys, like, spending a dollar on her is actually the worst thing you could do.
00:29:36.000Again, it's their decision, but personally, my mom used to hit me whenever I'd post just a bikini picture, like a normal bikini picture, nothing out.
00:29:48.000Now that you're older now, do you think that was good or bad?
00:29:52.000Do you agree with your mom whooping your ass for that?
00:29:54.000No, because there was genuinely nothing inappropriate.
00:29:57.000Like, if I was just walking on the beach in a bikini, there's nothing different than me posting it on Instagram.
00:30:01.000They weren't inappropriate pictures, and I wish that I would have had the freedom to, like, express myself and post what I wanted without, like, as long as it's not inappropriate, as long as it's appropriate for a child.
00:30:11.000So, I would never tell my kids what they can't do with their bodies as long as they're overage.
00:30:16.000So, would you be okay with your daughter being a hoe?
00:30:27.000I would judge her, but I feel like I would raise her in a way where she respects herself and she has morals and she doesn't choose to be that way.
00:30:34.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that you have to put boundaries for them to actually be able to do that?
00:31:35.000It just hurt my feelings that all my friends could post and their vacations and everything and there was nothing wrong with my pictures and I would get in trouble.
00:31:46.000If I have a private account, it's a PG-13 bikini, nothing is out, I'm just at a hotel, the sun is beautiful, I look great, what is wrong with that?
00:31:55.000Because people are going to objectify you.
00:31:59.000When women objectify themselves and sexualize themselves, whether you might not think so or not, you know, like, society's gonna look at you and be like, oh, look at that.
00:32:46.000See, the thing is, is that when men look at pictures like this, like, like, they're looking at this like, oh, yeah, like, people are pervs, man.
00:32:53.000Like, I don't think women understand that, like, you might think it's cute, but guys look at this and they're like, oh, like, they look at you as an object.
00:34:53.000Well, I'm saying it was, like, hard back then, but I still agreed that she was right, and I apologized, and I, like, took it down at that time.
00:34:59.000Bro, you didn't take accountability until we just called you out.
00:38:14.000Um, it wouldn't really matter to me, because if the girl- Oh, sorry.
00:38:20.000It wouldn't matter to me because, um, it's your choice, whatever sexuality you want, and then if the girl's grown, you only can guide them.
00:38:26.000You can't tell them what to do for real is their life when they're grown.
00:39:20.000If a man decides to make the sacrifice to stop having sex with other women just to make you happy, what sacrifice are you willing to make him happy?
00:39:28.000Do you think your sacrifice is a fair trade?
00:41:18.000Well, I mean, like, if a man isn't gonna have sex with other women, like, the sacrifice that you're making is you're not having sex with other men, right?
00:41:30.000But do you think it's the same, though?
00:41:32.000I mean, a relationship takes two people.
00:46:07.000Well, he pays a little more than me, but on the rent, like, a little bit more, but it's not, like, I don't mind having, I'm not, I don't care about money.
00:47:34.000Because I believe, like, my man should be able to control himself, and I think that, like, when you can't control yourself, I think it makes you vulnerable, like, when you can't control your dick, and I feel like you should feel like bitches shouldn't even deserve your dick.
00:47:46.000Like, I think that's, men has it, like, fucked up in their head.
00:47:48.000Like, a bitch, like, shouldn't even deserve your dick.
00:52:49.000Why are you making an argument for something I don't even want to do?
00:52:52.000It ain't really no word about ism, Myron.
00:52:54.000I don't know how long it was going to take to get to answer your original question, but let me go ahead and then they can answer your question.
00:56:37.000And here's the thing, what you just said is how a lot of girls feel.
00:56:41.000Like, oh, the guy asked me, so I qualify, I meet his requirements, I'm not going to change.
00:56:45.000Which I guess I'm not going to knock you for, because he's basically made it like, okay, you're good enough, and why would you feel the need to change if the guy's asking you out?
00:58:30.000I just want to know because I think that like the way that you think is like what this whole entire podcast is driven by.
00:58:38.000So I feel like not only me and not only all the other women at the table, but I feel like everyone who's watching wants to know what you require in a girlfriend.
00:58:46.000You can guess how many times a girl has asked that same question on the show multiple nights.
01:02:04.000Because the thing is, is that for all of human evolution, we've always been better together than apart.
01:02:10.000The thing is, is that you don't understand, right?
01:02:12.000You're able to say the things that you're saying now because you enjoy the modern conveniences that men have built up where you can be by yourself.
01:03:35.000I'm simply saying, because you're trying to say here, let's go back all the way here, because you're going on a tangent.
01:03:40.000You're saying, oh, you're dependent upon men.
01:03:43.000You need to be able to Be by yourself and, you know, be a queen, blah, blah, blah.
01:03:47.000The thing is, is that that strategy that you're telling women to employ is going to leave them sad, alone, and depressed because women are social creatures.
01:03:57.000They like to be around a family, children, and a man.
01:06:27.000So women not wanting to be with more than one male don't have anything to do with quote-unquote pair bonding?
01:06:35.000Let's get back to the main point here.
01:06:37.000Your strategy that you are saying for women to employ of loving themselves and being by themselves and not worrying about men and pip out the men and they're the hoes and we're the ones that are actually the pimps, all this other stuff, That will leave a lot of women single, depressed, without a man,
01:09:42.000And if me and you are in a partnership, we understand each other, we communicate, we're making money, you know, then we're gonna live our life to the fullest.
01:09:52.000We're gonna travel, we're gonna respect each other.
01:09:56.000Are you aware of the fact that you fucking know the dude is the biggest disrespect to a man?
01:12:55.000So, like, I mean, like, you get what I'm saying here?
01:12:57.000Like, typically, when I look at a girl, the way she talks about her man when he's not in the room tells me volumes about that man's masculinity.
01:15:16.000Only women have the privilege of not knowing what men want and saying the things that you guys say with the ridiculous amount of confidence that you guys have.
01:15:23.000Women, men, don't want their girl fucking other dudes.
01:15:34.000They don't understand that men have boundaries and standards.
01:15:37.000It's just that men can't express that because you can't even shut up and let me finish the sentence right now.
01:15:41.000This is why I'm saying men can't be honest with women because even if I'm expressing it right now, You're not even listening to understand.
01:15:47.000You're listening to say, that's outdated.
01:16:55.000I just called y'all delusional and I just told y'all that y'all believe in a fantasy.
01:17:00.000They disagree but he just called y'all delusional which means y'all is crazy for what y'all asking for that they keep telling you that they ain't gonna give you.
01:17:08.000I said women are delusional because they don't understand what men want.
01:17:15.000Right, because they want y'all to want something that you keep saying that y'all don't want.
01:20:24.000And at some point, you start to figure out what you like and what you don't like.
01:20:27.000And you kind of hang out in certain aisles, right?
01:20:29.000The men, however, are not allowed to go to the candy store until they're 35 years old, go into the gym for five years, and have $100,000 saved up.
01:21:36.000And the guy stops and says, how the fuck are you going to tell me how many pieces of candy I can eat when I have to bust my ass again in this candy store?
01:22:28.000I mean, a man who doesn't do that and is able to go against their biological wiring and only have sex with one person, whether that's however many times a day they need, whatever, I think that that shows much more character in a man than someone who just goes with their impulses all the time.
01:22:47.000I think that that just shows that you're actually with a strong man and that they're not...
01:23:27.000And get a millionaire too if you're bad enough.
01:23:30.000I mean, I'd say that men who value, like, women who actually have opinions and women who aren't just, like, Barbie dolls that they have to show around.
01:23:56.000Because you were also saying, you were agreeing with her that, like, monogamy is the same between the two, and I'm trying to say it's not monogamy.
01:25:36.000If you're like influencing the culture of men right now in 2023 and you're on here saying that it's like a bad mood for men to get married, how do you expect any of us to get married?
01:25:47.000Because all they're going to do is follow you and be your fanboy and be like, No, I don't want to get married.
01:26:17.000Let's say you were a millionaire, you were successful, and you want to get married, right?
01:26:22.000And you're a girl, but you can, you know, let's flip it around, right?
01:26:25.000Let's say you want to get married, but there's a 50% chance that your marriage is going to end, your man is going to initiate divorce, and there's a very high likelihood that you're going to have to pay him alimony and child support.
01:26:37.000Would you still get married knowing these things?
01:26:45.000Knowing these risks and knowing the statistics and the raw hard facts, would you get married knowing that and you're the one that busted your ass to make that money?
01:26:52.000I mean, if I loved them enough, do you think you'll never love a woman enough in order to excuse that?
01:27:41.000You do realize that men typically have to build themselves up to the point where a girl even sees them and wants to be a backbone as you would say?
01:27:46.000I mean, I feel like the culture, like, most times, like, people send, like, their daughters to, like, Harvard and Yale and all these places, like, not because they're actually smart enough to go to this school, but, like, I went to, like, a really good university, too, and, like, I know that most of my friends' moms or,
01:28:03.000like, the girls sent them there to find husbands, like, to sit there and be like, oh, he's in engineering or, oh, he's in bio or whatever, like, to meet them there, grow young, build, whatever, and, like, they end up with that person.
01:28:16.000That doesn't change my argument that marriage is not beneficial to men in any way.
01:28:20.000And it's destructive and can lead to financial ruin.
01:29:04.000Now she's 40 years old and you kick her out and this whole life she's been working for you she's been like cleaning for you and now you like leave her for your new piece of ass so why would women like I still feel like we have risk too yeah like women are taking risks too when it comes to stuff like if you're making me sign a prenup now I have to trust that in the next 20 years you would never leave me and find a new piece of ass and now I would be starting to go bottom this is what I mean when I say like yo Are you aware that women initiate like 80
01:31:57.000If he's pleasing his wife, I think a lot of it happens from an unhappy woman when she's not sexually getting satisfied and she's too scared to communicate that with her husband, which is still wrong.
01:32:06.000Who cares about a woman's sexual satisfaction?
01:33:04.000Women have all these things that men have to do.
01:33:06.000A man's duty, typically, when he deals with a girl, is provide security, provisioning, leadership, guidance, protection, right?
01:33:12.000That's what a man's job is typically to do for the girl.
01:33:15.000The woman's job is sexual satisfaction for her man because that's what men look for mostly.
01:33:20.000That's why men get with girls 99% of the time is for your sexuality.
01:33:23.000There's a reason why every single one of y'all is wearing makeup right now on this panel and is dressed in a certain way to look your best because women understand that their sexuality is their primary agency.
01:34:19.000If you're not having sex with your like 40, 50 year old wife, then why would it matter if she did go sleep with a pool boy if she was horny and you didn't want to have sex with her?
01:35:45.000What I'm saying is that it's elective.
01:35:47.000Just like you choose if you want to work, the guy should choose if he wants you to, if your sexuality matters, your sexual satisfaction matters.
01:35:53.000I don't think it matters that much because men have to bring so much more to the table to get a girl in the first place.
01:35:57.000Y'all should be happy off all the other shit that I've done for you.
01:41:05.000Appreciation and compassion, sacrifice, willingness to die for, and to ensure the survival of.
01:41:11.000In order to seek first understanding, no, seriously, you have to listen to somebody and listen to get their perspective, and you have to appreciate the authentic person.
01:41:20.000They don't appreciate anything authentic about you.
01:41:24.000It's all about how you look and how much you can sex them, and when you ain't doing anything else, they're going to drop you.
01:41:29.000So they ain't listening to you because they don't even care about your son.
01:41:33.000How can you love that what you don't understand?
01:41:35.000Hey, I hear that point, but it ain't gonna matter.
01:41:41.000Because all y'all doing is prove what I say.
01:41:43.000You do realize that a couple of those points that you mentioned were actually exhibited by the men I described in that example with the Dark Knight shooting.
01:42:09.000You're arguing in very bad faith because you literally described definition of love and the example I gave literally described a couple of those things where they were dying to protect Y'all, that's a pussy, though.
01:45:28.000Can you actually describe the behavior?
01:45:30.000Because to say someone's acting like a bitch is very...
01:45:34.000Because you guys like to be masculine and all that and not show your true emotions or what's really on your mind.
01:45:42.000But when I see a dude like spazzing out and telling me what's wrong, like basically how females be doing to y'all, like that just shows that he cares and...
01:46:18.000I'd say emotional in, like, a very masculine way.
01:46:23.000I feel like a lot of girls would see that as, like, oh, like, he's very hot-headed or, like, has a bad temper or is very protective, but I feel like a lot of people could see that as toxic, and it can be toxic, but I feel like,
01:47:12.000Like, if you was talking, and you was, like, explaining yourself, and then, like, I interrupt you for whatever reason, you're like, no, no, no, I'm talking.
01:51:04.000I don't know if this would be considered toxic, but when he's really, really unavailable, not texting me all day, I'm wondering what you're doing.
01:53:00.000No, I don't like anything toxic in a man.
01:53:02.000What I do like is what we would call divine masculinity, a person that has willpower, ambition, direction and has the ability to transmute sexual energy into a higher purpose.
01:53:15.000I don't want to do that his main focus is sex, sex, sex, sex all the time.
01:53:20.000That means he has nothing else going for himself.
01:53:22.000So if he can transmute that energy into a direction, I mean, this isn't Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill, Sex Transmutation, Chapter 11, if y'all want to check it out.
01:53:30.000Take that energy and put it to a divine purpose.
01:53:33.000If he can't do that, I know you don't like anything toxic,
01:58:04.000So if you're doing something that is wrong, is wrong, is dumb, you wouldn't be okay with the closest person to you that knows you the best to tell you, hey, you're better than that.
01:58:18.000I don't think you should be doing that.
01:58:20.000It's up to you whether you want to continue doing what you're doing, but you wouldn't want the closest person to you if it's a woman.
01:58:29.000The reality is that women really don't understand the male struggle and they don't understand the male burner performance and the masculine need to go out there and conquer.
01:58:58.000What I'm saying is that women can say crazy stuff like, yeah, I'm going to go to a swinger party and get fucked by other dudes and my man's just going to accept it.
01:59:05.000And I'm like, actually, no, that's unacceptable for most men.
01:59:38.000Most men don't have the ability to tell their girl no.
01:59:41.000Even if it means them having sex with other dudes.
01:59:43.000Because they don't have the sexual market value and the charisma or the charm or the money or the status, whatever it is, or the game to tell a girl no, that's unacceptable behavior.
01:59:53.000I mean, if my girl even came to me and said, I want to fuck another dude, I would be like, you're single now.
02:03:24.000There are women literally having sex with males who are in marriage and they really do not respect them, but they're there for other reasons.
02:03:31.000Whether it's money, whether it's coercion, they're there not because they actually respect you.
02:03:35.000Otherwise, if that was the case, men wouldn't keep complaining about women not respecting them.
02:03:53.000It's her just running you into the ground.
02:03:54.000I'm talking about a healthy, productive relationship where the man is in a leadership role, whatever it may be, and a woman's actually happy.
02:04:03.000So if he's doing something that earns that admiration, because that's what respect is, admiration.
02:04:09.000So a woman that truly admires you, yeah, if she truly admires you, yeah, she's going to listen to you, but that's not the average relationship.
02:04:17.000So if you're just saying relationships, no, a woman doesn't need to respect a male anymore.
02:05:18.000Women a lot of times because a lot of times women live kind of in a fairy tale and they kind of operate like children and what I mean by children is they don't deal with the consequences of their actions a lot of times.
02:05:35.000Like I said, they want a fairy tale of a relationship, but they can't see the reality of real life because they don't know the nature of men.
02:05:44.000So therefore, they have to be checked.
02:05:46.000Your argument is saying they don't need to be checked.
02:08:20.000But I brought you to the podcast, me and you didn't fuck, right?
02:08:23.000And I have many guys that actually DM me on the podcast and I literally made a post today that average guys do not DM me to come onto the podcast.
02:08:32.000So, once again, it's like we live on two different worlds.
02:17:34.000Because, let me explain, if a man doesn't take accountability, he's a bum, he's a loser, he's fat, and society punishes him for his inadequacies.
02:17:40.000So men have to take accountability by default a lot of the times.
02:18:27.000Because, like, I mean, I don't want to know exactly what to do.
02:18:36.000He can because he can, like, he cannot, like, sit there and leave me in, like, la-la land.
02:18:43.000Like, I don't want you to, like, be like, oh, yeah, you're the only woman I'm seeing and I'm not seeing anyone else.
02:18:48.000Like, I mean, honesty isn't, like, Okay, like, you are telling me that you are seeing other people, like, you're honest about that, but I don't need to know, like, when you're fucking the other girl.
02:19:22.000But if I know that we're secure and you walk out the house, oh, I'm going on a boys night.
02:19:28.000Okay, I'm like, damn, like, he's probably going to go do that.
02:19:30.000But if I'm secure, I know that, like, he's honest with me and that, like, We have our loyalty towards each other, then I'm not going to be like, that's what it would take for me to be a submissive.
02:23:13.000So, like, I picked up the money, like, handed to her because, like, and the strip club is, like, respectful to help girls pick up their own money.
02:23:20.000He slapped my, like, he slapped that shit out of my hand and, like, looked at that dude, like, Because it was disrespectful because he technically threw the money over us.
02:23:27.000You know how men are trying to be flashy?
02:25:43.000She just said that it's very seldom when she feels special, so that means something to her when somebody tells her, you look beautiful today.
02:27:11.000What does it take for you to be submissive?
02:27:13.000I mean, I'd say, like, I'm a pretty exquisite person in general.
02:27:19.000But, I mean, just, like, a confident guy.
02:27:21.000I mean, if you're a guy and you're really confident and you're, like, you're true to yourself and you, like, you don't, your beliefs don't waver.
02:32:27.000Like your friends represent you or like the people that you know and I feel like networking is always super important so if I feel like there's someone that I might not like want to be with but like he has like he might become a high value man I will still like stay in contact with him.
02:33:16.000I don't know how that means that you're from New York, but okay.
02:33:18.000Because they have a lot of people that they're associated with that are like real low class, but then they end up getting bigger because they keep them there.
02:33:24.000Then over time, it's like, oh shit, you was there and now you're here.
02:33:26.000Like, nah, I'm gonna fuck with you now.
02:34:10.000Tyler Farrell, had one of my shorties come over with FNF plan after beginning to Red Pillars, she could only stand 15 minutes of it before she put on Netflix.
02:34:19.000All these girls need to hit me up if they come to CT so I can repair their Miami minds.
02:36:09.000He's saying for you, he's saying Basically, if you're saying other women shouldn't deserve your dick, he's saying, well, you shouldn't have sexy pictures on Instagram.
02:36:55.000Because men and women are not the same, so you have to give something that's the female side.
02:36:58.000So what he's saying is that you're saying, because your argument was other women shouldn't deserve your dick, well then other guys shouldn't deserve your pictures on the internet.
02:41:00.000Ultimately, I think the main argument here is that your advice is destructive to most women because most women want a relationship with a man.
02:41:08.000No, it's destructive to males if women knew that they were the prize.
02:41:12.000But they give their value up so easy that y'all run through them and then they're sitting up here crying because y'all keep telling them when it came.
02:44:15.000It's the fact that y'all driven by sex.
02:44:17.000Again, coming back to the argument because you have a fantastic ability to go on wild tangents that have nothing to do with the original argument.
02:49:27.000So, basically, you're not trying to say, be single.
02:49:29.000Be your own boss, bitch, this and that.
02:49:31.000Like, you're saying, yes, it's okay to be in a marriage relationship.
02:49:34.000You just gotta know how the real world works.
02:49:36.000If they knew who men were biologically, if they knew the makeup of a male, a lot of them would realize that the things that they want from men are irrational.
02:49:48.000Now, when I say it, because the angle I'm coming from, nobody wants to agree with, but this is literally what red pill is built off of.
02:49:56.000Y'all want stuff that men ain't capable of doing.
02:49:58.000They already tell you they gotta spend so much energy just getting they self right.
02:50:02.000Now you want them to give you love, you want them to give you monogamy, something that ain't even natural, right?
02:50:15.000So then you get in relationships, you get drained and get upset and get hurt, and then you give all this stuff wanting irrational things back.
02:50:54.000Also, that means there's no happy marriages on earth, which is not true as well.
02:51:01.000Well, because what'll happen is, is once they come down to reality and they realize they got to compromise so much, they're going to be unhappy.
02:51:08.000And that's the reason why the divorce rates are so high anyway.
02:51:11.000So marriage don't work for y'all or y'all.
02:52:47.000It's hard for him to have any respect for any woman having an opinion towards him because he's already had it set in his mind that he does not agree with anything you have to say.
02:52:55.000Whether it's right or wrong is neither here nor there.
02:52:58.000What have I said that's wrong that you disagree with?
02:53:00.000There's actually a lot of things that you've said that I've agreed with, but there's certain things that I feel like...
02:53:06.000For example, you two actually agree on a lot of things, but her angle is not...
02:53:14.000You don't agree with the fact that she feels like you just got to understand a man.
02:53:17.000Do you agree that a woman needs to understand a man?
02:54:23.000Why the fuck is a woman going to go there and go ahead and go through the trouble of understanding men when by the time she's 18, people are sending her cash apps, people are flying around, she's getting invited to parties.
02:57:23.000We can't even have a basic conversation making sense because you can't even argue on things that are indisputable fact that women are more educated than ever before.
02:57:46.000Women are graduating college more than men.
02:57:49.000I didn't say that they weren't, but that's still true.
02:57:51.000Women are more educated now than ever before.
02:57:53.000If we can't even argue, come to an agreement on a simple fact like that, we can't even have a discussion because we can't even build upon little things like that.
03:00:18.000If a woman isn't predatory in some sense where she needs a man to have more resources than her, why do they still want more money from the guy?
03:01:25.000Generally speaking, the world does not revolve around you.
03:01:30.000The world operates in a certain way and what I'm saying is that in general women want men to make more money than them regardless of how educated they are, how much money they make, etc.
03:01:36.000Just because you're willing to change on that doesn't mean other girls aren't.
03:05:11.000So, the conclusions I make, which you might not agree with, about how men should deal with women and be attractive to women, you might not like it, you might not agree with it, but it works.
03:06:11.000Number one, it arouses them, like you and a bunch of other girls here on the panel that said I like to be checked by my guy.
03:06:16.000And then number two, it asserts dominance.
03:06:18.000And it keeps the relationship healthy because it lets clearly distinguish the boundaries and roles in the relationship where the man is a leader and the woman is a follower.
03:06:26.000Now you argue, oh, a woman should be able to check her man.
03:06:29.000And the reason why is because when a woman checks her man, right, she's going to lose respect for that man because she was able to check him in the first place.
03:07:46.000Again, you can, like I said before, airing your grievances is one thing, but men need to be checked by other men that understand a masculine bird of performance.
03:07:53.000And like I said before, reality checks men.
03:07:56.000If I'm a loser as a man, reality checks me for that.
03:07:58.000If you're a loser as a chick, reality isn't going to check you on that a lot of times.
03:10:17.000I mean, like, ex-boyfriends, random people, like, on the side of the street, people in their cars when you're walking on the side of the street and they're driving past you, like, a lot of people.
03:10:28.000Why does it matter what she was wearing?
03:10:31.000Well, first off, if you're wearing the uniform, People are going to follow suit.
03:10:35.000I've been on the street wearing my school uniform and people will honk at you.
03:10:42.000Look, I see what you're saying, that women have suffered too, blah, blah, blah, but the reality is, right, women live way easier lives, especially in 2023, than men do.
03:10:50.000An average woman lives a way easier life than an average man.
03:14:03.000And, like, I feel like then, like, sometimes maybe when I do...
03:14:06.000No, I mean, I'm not talking about generally.
03:14:08.000I mean, in my own personal experience, which you wouldn't know.
03:14:11.000I'm not going to, like, air out all my tea.
03:14:13.000But, like, at the end of the day, like, I feel like I've been in situations where men have been too honest.
03:14:17.000And then, like, I guess maybe other women who I... I get what you guys are saying, but if she doesn't understand, then maybe it's because maybe she's speaking from a place of trauma.
03:14:29.000You just never know what happens to cause women to feel the way that they do.
03:14:34.000Yeah, but trauma is never an excuse to be ignorant.
03:15:02.000I'm speaking for the people who don't.
03:15:04.000If they don't, maybe they're speaking from a place of trauma.
03:15:07.000Because the thing is that, see, the whole checking women thing, I'm able to articulate my points why men need to check women and it doesn't work the other way around.
03:15:13.000It's about to maintain attraction and maintain leverage.
03:15:15.000The man must maintain leverage in a relationship for it to work, period.
03:15:18.000If the woman has leverage, it's a matter of time until the relationship ends.
03:16:13.000When I convey my things in a very logically sound sense, and people over-talk or interrupt, etc., or make stupid, nonsensical arguments...
03:16:22.000Then, yeah, of course you're gonna get frustrated and be like, this is, what the fuck, like, are you dumb?
03:16:26.000But, well, just to add to this point as well, he's very passionate about men becoming better and also a woman understanding, hey, this is men's frustration.
03:16:56.000You must have heard a dream and fuck her and then whatever is what it is.
03:17:00.000All I'm saying is my thing is if I'm arguing my points, but none of y'all have been able to really, like, prove me wrong about, like, what I'm saying as far as, like, male and female dynamics, etc.
03:18:39.000Like, we want the same things in relationships.
03:18:41.000We're not as special as you think we are.
03:18:43.000So my thing is I look at the world objectively, this is what it is, and I'm giving you the male perspective, but I still don't get how that makes me close-minded from looking at things from a more objective standpoint.
03:18:53.000No, I just think that, like, you take other people's perspectives as, like, going against your opinion.
03:19:00.000Because your experience don't got nothing to do with anybody else's experience.
03:19:03.000Right, but we, like, I feel like when...
03:19:06.000Like, we hear you, but we're trying to generalize.
03:19:08.000Like, it's nothing about your experience.
03:19:32.000I think it's just that, like he said, society, like, cuddles women or whatever and makes us feel like, oh, we're so special and we have everything to bring to the table.
03:20:15.000I feel like now everyone's like hopping on that wave.
03:20:18.000When I asked you to explain, you said, oh, because you don't understand that people want different things out of relationships and things are different, blah, blah, blah.
03:20:24.000And what I'm saying is that, eh, not really.
03:22:06.000I accept female nature for what it is.
03:22:08.000I just point out the unflattering parts about female nature.
03:22:11.000For example, I was saying because she was trying to say that men are more predatory.
03:22:15.000I would argue women are more predatory when it comes to the mating process because when a woman meets a man she's like, because here's the thing.
03:22:21.000When a man makes money, right, he says, damn, I can have a family be dependent upon me.
03:22:45.000No, again, men pursue women, yes, but when women date and deal with men in general, they have a more predatory mindset about what can I get from this man, and women are naturally like that.
03:22:54.000It's about extracting resources from a man.
03:22:57.000That's why no matter how much money the woman makes, she ain't gonna take the guy on if he makes less than her.
03:23:02.000Okay, well, can I have your book for free, Dan?
03:23:06.000If I approach you because I want your book, are you going to set the price and tell me that I have to pay for it or am I going to get it for free?
03:23:41.000Okay, so if you're saying that's not what women already do, why is it going viral right now that men ask women, what do you bring to the table, but not the other way around?
03:24:06.000A woman that's 18 years old with no value, built up nothing, can get invited on a yacht with multi-billionaires.
03:24:13.000And I'm not disagreeing with what you're saying.
03:24:16.000I'm also saying that there's a lot of lying ass dudes in this world that will tell you, they will give you the world, they have this, this and that.
03:25:14.000But as women, if you're really dating to be in a relationship, then you gotta know, okay, other than money, what else does he bring to the table?
03:25:24.000Other than money, other than him, you know, providing, what else?
03:30:29.000This is exactly why men, like you said, tend to go for younger women, because you guys are gullible and naive, and they can manipulate and move you into what they've heard.
03:30:43.000Look, look, masculine women like you guys, right?
03:30:45.000You guys are fairly masculine women that are non-agreeable, assertive, dominant, blah, blah, blah.
03:30:52.000You guys act like dudes and we don't want to date dudes, bro.
03:36:27.000The point is that the overwhelming majority of inventors and creators and people that have created the first world that you now love and enjoy that you say you don't need men in, I've never said I don't need men.
03:38:16.000Yeah, but not the civilization okay, but it's not because you guys are smarter It's not because you guys are more capable there's women that are more that are completely capable of When it comes to building men actually are more capable I'm saying okay.
03:38:29.000I mean Well, if it's not then okay women have more rights now privilege that before why aren't women in construction or any type of infrastructure jobs?
03:38:38.000Nobody ever said that we didn't need slaves for this artificial system.
03:38:42.000Nobody ever said that because it's the 1% that have enslaved people.
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03:44:49.000And, you know, luckily, I would raise my kids to be understanding of people's lives and perspectives and where they come from and how, you know, your life circumstances can lead you to certain places.
03:45:01.000And, you know, you can't be ashamed of the decisions you make.
03:48:41.000I would hope that my son or daughter would realize that there's a person behind that screen, the same on Instagram, that is not that person that they perceive as.
03:52:19.000No, but I think that like, also I think that there's, everybody actually agrees on things and it's more on a level that like, then y'all really realize y'all sometimes we're arguing at the same point, like half the show, so.
03:52:48.000As I already speak, when I speak, it's a lot of energy.
03:52:51.000So being that I could be very welcoming to everybody, being that I'm from different places, different ethnicities, it makes me feel very welcome that I could be open about the show without being targeted.