Fresh & Fit - 5 Things You Should Know About Women By 30

00:10:36.000 Alright, and we're alive, fellas.

00:10:38.000 Back to the podcast, and today we're gonna cover five things you need to know before thirty about women.

00:10:43.000 Let's go.

00:11:30.000 We'll see you next time.

00:11:32.000 Pushes in the...

00:11:34.000 Alright, and we're back, man.

00:11:35.000 Welcome fellas to the show. 1.00

00:11:37.000 Uh this is as you know, is a Wednesday.

00:11:39.000 Uh Mario's not here right now, he's gonna be back pretty soon, but until then, we got the show running still.

00:11:44.000 And fellas, man, listen, I'm 33 years old.

00:11:46.000 I feel great.

00:11:47.000 Been in the gym recently as well.

00:11:49.000 Uh talk is better as well, so I feel amazing, man.

00:11:52.000 And when I get older, I feel like nowadays especially, less is more.

00:11:57.000 You know, like I'm doing certain things I wouldn't do before, for example, being more focused on my health and taking things more seriously.

00:12:03.000 And honestly, man, like in my 20 to the 30s, it was kinda like uh early 30s, it's kinda like, this is cool, I'm a joint life, but now I'm more concise on what I want out of life and what I want to get out of it, you know.

00:12:13.000 So I think it's better being older.

00:12:15.000 You kind of realize that things are more important as you go along.

00:12:18.000 What's important to you, and you move smarter.

00:12:20.000 So glad to be 33, still living a good life and uh be here with you guys.

00:12:25.000 What's up, team?

00:12:26.000 Um, so I went on a hunt today looking at points for this topic, right?

00:12:31.000 From my experience from online, and also you know what?

00:12:34.000 Let me do a comparison for today.

00:12:36.000 I'm gonna put chat GPT five points and my five points.

00:12:40.000 And it's funny because Chat GPT is kinda based.

00:12:42.000 Well, kind of.

00:12:43.000 Not fully, but kind of.

00:12:44.000 So let's bring it up on screen feel my bills, these comparisons here between chat GPT and of course my points.

00:12:52.000 Yeah, they can see it.

00:12:53.000 So on the left we have here Chat GPT, on the right my points.

00:12:57.000 Now it's a bit uh wordy for Chat JPT, but I'll put you on what's happening here.

00:13:03.000 So I typed in five key points that you can find uh before 30 about women. 1.00

00:13:07.000 And I made it for um obviously dating purposes.

00:13:10.000 And look at the points, fellas.

00:13:12.000 So we'll go through this real quick.

00:13:14.000 Uh number one is gonna be women value emotional safety over looks our money. 1.00

00:13:18.000 Which fellas, that is some bull crap, but just for the argument's sake, we'll read out here.

00:13:24.000 Number two, traction isn't only physical, it's emotional and mental too.

00:13:28.000 I get what they're trying to say, but you know, that's kind of a nuance.

00:13:31.000 Number three, women communicating directly. 1.00

00:13:36.000 It's pretty on point.

00:13:37.000 Um if you watch none of us, womanese episodes, you can understand what's happening there. 0.59

00:13:40.000 I'm not gonna lie, man, that definitely is a thing.

00:13:44.000 Boundaries attract respect.

00:13:45.000 Yeah, you gotta be able to say no and show you're a man, of course.

00:13:49.000 But number five is the one that got me.

00:13:50.000 Because that's actually actually a really good point, which is one of mine as well.

00:13:53.000 Women remember how you make them feel, not what you give them. 1.00

00:13:56.000 So uh that in itself is a very good point, but all the rest are kind of like boohoo waba. 0.98

00:14:00.000 But the point is that Chat GBC is giving people pretty much information, but it's not always correct.

00:14:06.000 And the main contributors of who use chat GBT is women. 0.99

00:14:10.000 So that goes to tell you to tell you what's happening with that type of information.

00:14:14.000 But nonetheless, that was my comparison for today.

00:14:16.000 But we'll get into it right now.

00:14:17.000 Um, so number one, more than likely you won't get a girlfriend.

00:14:21.000 Uh, sorry, when you have a girlfriend, you won't get ahead in life, which means most people are gonna be held back by girlfriends because either it's the uh nagging annoying that happens whenever they come home, either it's because you're aware about what they're gonna say to you, or you're scared of losing them in the first place.

00:14:36.000 And there was a video that went viral uh like yesterday about a girl, a girl that had her man in the house, she got upset and went crazy on him.

00:14:45.000 And then it made me think all the friends I know that had girlfriends back in the day from school, from work, where are they now?

00:14:52.000 And I kid you, out of 10 of them, maybe only one is successful, but all the rest of them are pretty much with kids, not making much money, uh slaves at their jobs, and they have no type of like real uh self self-worth, you get me.

00:15:05.000 So, in that sense, it was kind of like seeing my experiences plus what's happening now.

00:15:10.000 I don't know how many people that are successfully still dating from 10 years ago, the same girlfriend, till now that's successful.

00:15:17.000 And if they were, they broke up and they moved on to somebody different.

00:15:20.000 But the point is, in this whole scheme of things, when you have a girlfriend long term like that, if you can't even keep a girlfriend that long, usually it doesn't last.

00:15:28.000 And what happens is you become a slave to her because either you don't lose her, or you say, you know what?

00:15:33.000 This chick, man, she's the bad ass I can ever get. 1.00

00:15:36.000 But you're wrong.

00:15:37.000 If you wait a little bit longer, we get older, you're more successful, you're working on yourself, you make more money.

00:15:42.000 There's way more options out there that you can find.

00:15:45.000 And the funny part is most guys don't know this because they're stuck on one girl.

00:15:45.000 Way more options.

00:15:49.000 Which, to be fair with you, I was too at one point.

00:15:51.000 However, I'm telling you, fellas, at the end of the road, it's more options than you can even imagine waiting for you.

00:15:57.000 But we'll play the uh the video if you don't mind, Bills, the one from um from ex.

00:16:02.000 Is it too much for YouTube you think?

00:16:03.000 Yeah, the one from my ex.

00:16:06.000 You think it's too much?

00:16:08.000 It might be a bit crazy, guys, because this one's kind of like aggressive, but uh we'll see what's happening here.

00:16:14.000 Uh yeah, this one here.

00:16:17.000 So usually what happens is you have a girlfriend, things go up and down.

00:16:21.000 I mean, you can have good moments, bad moments, but when it's bad, I think we'll be okay.

00:16:26.000 Okay, we'll play.

00:16:27.000 I think we'll be able to do that.

00:16:28.000 Um let the video play for itself and you guys can uh see from here.

00:16:31.000 But he gives me the one don't rumble.

00:16:36.000 Do it on a rumble.

00:16:37.000 Rumble?

00:16:38.000 Okay, well that one that one rumble.

00:16:40.000 Um, but nonetheless, a girlfriend itself is not terrible.

00:16:43.000 But the problem is that when you have a girlfriend, you tend to lean towards making her happy versus yourself, what's important for you and your family.

00:16:51.000 And as a result, you may shift schools because your girlfriend, you may even shift shift jobs, you may even say, you know what, forget my dreams, who put your dreams in front, which is a big L bro. 0.55

00:17:00.000 That's the red flag.

00:17:02.000 So, all in all to say, fellas, having a girlfriend could be uh bad for you because that can change your career path and your lifestyle in itself.

00:17:10.000 And honestly, fellas, like, what's more important?

00:17:13.000 A girl or your well-being and your your your success.

00:17:16.000 Because to me, success success was number one.

00:17:19.000 I mean, I chances to have girlfriends back in the day, you know, we're kind of chick-filade too, but it wasn't ever gonna be where we want it to be.

00:17:26.000 So, all in all, I would just say that the girlfriend angle is cool, but it could hold you back, especially if you're young.

00:17:32.000 You're trying to make it.

00:17:33.000 I remember um dating back then, I was so focused on like being present for the girl, and I almost lost sight of white kids in America, which is to be successful, and that helped me back a lot. 0.89

00:17:45.000 So I know for most guys it's not gonna be the same, but it could be.

00:17:49.000 Alright, um, let's do number two.

00:17:52.000 So, women will always be there growing out. 1.00

00:17:55.000 So, recently we've been seeing a lot of news about recession.

00:17:58.000 Uh, most Americans don't know this, but we're currently in one right now.

00:18:02.000 And they did a study to people's pockets for how much they have statement savings.

00:18:06.000 And it used to be a thousand dollars they didn't have.

00:18:09.000 Now it's less than 400 you have in your account for savings.

00:18:12.000 So that tells people, I want obviously people in charge that people don't have money nowadays.

00:18:18.000 And it's because we're actually in a recession.

00:18:20.000 If you guys realize uh the dollar doesn't worth shit, gold and silver is up, and so it's Bitcoin.

00:18:25.000 Obviously speaking, the fiat currency itself is dead, but they're holding up because they're picking more money as we go along.

00:18:31.000 The issue though is that like most people nowadays can't survive without credit, which means you have to have a credit card or a loan from the bank to pay your bills nowadays, which is sad because that's a reality that we have nowadays for most people.

00:18:42.000 But when it comes to having actual women in your life, I'm telling you, fellas, like if you focus now on getting your shit in order, and we say this all the time on the show because it's it's true because most guys that we know either they party every weekend, they get drunk, they have no type of like plan for the lives, and then they wonder, why don't I have Lambo?

00:19:01.000 Why don't I have the girl girl I want? 1.00

00:19:02.000 Why don't I have the life I want is because you focused on the wrong things.

00:19:05.000 And mind you, I have friends from back in school.

00:19:09.000 We would party all the time, he would get lit, and it was fun, don't be wrong, it was fun.

00:19:12.000 Boom book!

00:19:13.000 And I left the environment for a couple days.

00:19:16.000 I was like, yo, what am I doing this for?

00:19:18.000 We go party out of fun, we hit girls up, whatever, but what's the end result?

00:19:23.000 Nothing.

00:19:24.000 I mean, we spend money, if anything, uh, we're getting lit, but there's no actual real like benefit to getting better in life.

00:19:32.000 It's kind of like a circle of like jerking because you're having fun jerking off in circle, but there's no real exit to success.

00:19:40.000 So this is why I'm always like, you know what?

00:19:42.000 Parties are cool, having fun is cool, but what's the end result?

00:19:46.000 And you can ask yourself the same question because I guarantee you've been there too as well.

00:19:50.000 But end result is is that putting that aside, looking at what's important to you, your family, success.

00:19:57.000 Because other than that, how you can pay the bills, how you can have success for your friends and family.

00:20:02.000 And women will always be there, bro. 0.99

00:20:04.000 I got you know what?

00:20:05.000 Story time, real quick, story time.

00:20:07.000 I got you.

00:20:08.000 So uh show three years ago that came on.

00:20:13.000 I can say her name, but that's kind of fucked up.

00:20:15.000 I probably won't say her name.

00:20:16.000 But she was on the show talking about how she left her boyfriend, she's happy as hell, she's happy to be single, and she was married by the way. 0.92

00:20:22.000 If anyone knows in the chat who she is, she's married, she got bored, left her husband with a kid, by the way, and was living her life in Miami, having fun, whatever, and lo and behold, man, uh this is crazy, bro.

00:20:37.000 I go to the strip club with some friends of mine, right?

00:20:41.000 Company, event, quink wink, and who do I see at the strip club?

00:20:47.000 It's the same girl from the podcast.

00:20:49.000 What?

00:20:50.000 I was like, wait a minute.

00:20:50.000 Wow.

00:20:53.000 I know you, you look familiar.

00:20:55.000 What?

00:20:55.000 But full circle, husband took care of her, paid all the bills.

00:21:00.000 She was comfortably living at home with the kids, not working, and then all of a sudden she's like, This is boring.

00:21:07.000 I don't want to be here anymore.

00:21:08.000 I want to be free.

00:21:10.000 And then all of a sudden, three years later, fast forward, she's working strip club for some dollars. 1.00

00:21:15.000 Oh god.

00:21:18.000 Yeah, man.

00:21:19.000 So listen, women will always be there, bro.

00:21:21.000 And the funny part is at the very beginning, you may get mad and say, fuck this shit, bro.

00:21:26.000 And I get it.

00:21:26.000 I want it now.

00:21:27.000 Big ass, nice titties, bro.

00:21:30.000 I think I've been indulging too much, maybe.

00:21:30.000 I've been there.

00:21:32.000 But the point is, at some point, you know, you gotta say, fun now or fun later.

00:21:39.000 Because the fun now isn't gonna last, fellas.

00:21:40.000 I tell you this right now, it won't last.

00:21:43.000 You feel me?

00:21:43.000 Listen, I had a ball, niggas.

00:21:45.000 Y'all saw me with Miranda, Lingling, saw me with Jessica Alba.

00:21:50.000 All these shorties, bro, what's with you?

00:21:52.000 I had the album.

00:21:54.000 You watch but stupid.

00:21:57.000 But the point is, I had a blast.

00:22:00.000 I had a hit list, feel me?

00:22:01.000 I had a list, allegedly.

00:22:03.000 Everything on the list, everything allegedly, and more.

00:22:06.000 But what was the end result?

00:22:08.000 Okay, and mind you, I had a point where like I could do this shit comfortably and chill.

00:22:12.000 If you're not you're not successful to that point, you're trying to do the shit, it won't work out for you, brother.

00:22:17.000 I'm telling you.

00:22:18.000 So talk to the side, fellas.

00:22:21.000 That led me to down a path to say, you know what?

00:22:24.000 If I can give myself advice from the um future to the past, it'd be to say, you know what?

00:22:29.000 Less time on the hose, bro.

00:22:31.000 Like, like it was it was cool, but what was the end result?

00:22:34.000 Not much.

00:22:35.000 My soul wasn't enriched.

00:22:36.000 My maybe my pockets were kind of like, you know, a bit rich because it was a finesse.

00:22:42.000 But the point is that like I felt like it was fun in the moment, but long term, success-wise, it wasn't.

00:22:48.000 And all my friends are successful, say the same say the same shit.

00:22:52.000 Okay, it was fun, it was cool, whatever.

00:22:54.000 But all in all, was it really worth it?

00:22:57.000 Maybe for fun, but not for real long term, you know, longevity.

00:23:01.000 So we got video to play as well regarding that one.

00:23:03.000 Women will always be there. 1.00

00:23:04.000 Uh is it safe for YouTube?

00:23:07.000 Which one?

00:23:08.000 Well, it's it's uh it depends on your version of site.

00:23:08.000 Safe.

00:23:13.000 Let's do uh one second.

00:23:17.000 Uh yeah.

00:23:18.000 We can do that one.

00:23:19.000 Yeah.

00:23:20.000 Yeah, all right, all right so let's say your girl left you.

00:23:22.000 And I don't know what's gonna be worse.

00:23:25.000 The realization I'm single now, and again I don't even do shit.

00:23:30.000 Is it playing?

00:23:31.000 Alright, let's play the video.

00:23:32.000 Go ahead.

00:23:36.000 Tell you, on Sunday night, and I don't know what's gonna be worse.

00:23:41.000 The realization that's I'm single now, and again, and I have to go and sit there and obviously pick myself back up over the next couple weeks, months, etc.

00:23:50.000 Work on myself, uh, do that whole routine again.

00:23:54.000 Or the realization that I gotta try to date again.

00:24:03.000 And with today's dating scene and market.

00:24:07.000 That just makes you want to sit there and say anyone else?

00:24:17.000 Yeah, so this is typical because when is the breakup or you're single, you're like, you know what?

00:24:23.000 Why even try?

00:24:23.000 Fuck this shit.

00:24:24.000 And to be honest with you, you should probably shouldn't try because you should focus on success and get forward in life.

00:24:29.000 And this is why I say, okay, look, at the very beginning, it's hard because you want to smash everything.

00:24:34.000 You want to go inside, have fun, get lit, smash.

00:24:37.000 But let's look at it from a long-term uh point of view, right?

00:24:40.000 40 years, 30 years, maybe, right?

00:24:43.000 You're 21, you're maybe in school still, or you're working a job, and every here's a routine.

00:24:49.000 You go to work, you go, you go to school, come up, drink a beer, watch TV, tell your friends, party on weekends, right?

00:24:56.000 Typical American uh lifestyle. 0.97

00:24:58.000 And it's fine, by the way, but here's the issue.

00:25:00.000 Fast forward to 10 years down the line.

00:25:03.000 Let's say you find a girlfriend.

00:25:05.000 Are you where you want to be?

00:25:07.000 Probably not.

00:25:07.000 And let's say you don't find a girlfriend, single having fun, banging around random chicks.

00:25:12.000 That's fun too, but what's the actual end result?

00:25:15.000 Versus someone that said, you know what?

00:25:17.000 I'm gonna wait a little bit, sacrifice this have this discipline in my life.

00:25:20.000 I'm gonna focus on being better in the gym, probably, or business, or my career, or my path of success, whatever that may be.

00:25:28.000 And then fast forward, I got the baddest chick I ever wanted to have.

00:25:32.000 I have cars I want, lifestyle I want, and I have as well money success.

00:25:36.000 So I have options to do what I want to do.

00:25:38.000 Versus when you're not where you want to be, you gotta sell it for less, which means what's available to you at that time, and that's your best bet.

00:25:45.000 But again, this is where I say you can have fun now, but you're gonna pay later on.

00:25:50.000 Trust me.

00:25:51.000 I've been there myself, and it's fun, but not worth having because any day, fellas, let's see, listen, like 80 years old.

00:25:58.000 You gotta live long, think about what's happening in real time because right now, fellas, things are really bad in the economy.

00:26:03.000 Really bad.

00:26:04.000 I could tell you, like, firsthand experience, I got friends that are working at pet shop on master's degree.

00:26:09.000 It's just terrible.

00:26:10.000 So look at it for standpoint if women is a byproduct of your success, because at this point, putting her first before your success is a bad idea. 0.56

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00:28:07.000 Alright, guys, number three.

00:28:08.000 Now uh I'll say the tell it the title itself is not bad, but the details will be bad, so I'll put it on a rumble.

00:28:16.000 But it says basically, guys, every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays, and that goes a long way because being in Miami, made a city, you see it all the time. 0.98

00:28:26.000 Now, the problem is if you're in a small city, you won't see it because for the most part, it's either on Instagram, dating apps, even sugar sites.

00:28:34.000 That's where it's happening.

00:28:35.000 But what's funny is girls from over in different states will come over here to live that lifestyle. 1.00

00:28:41.000 Or to differ different state, whatever it may be, it's still happening in your city, whether you're in order or not.

00:28:47.000 Now, hopefully, you're not actually wife and when he goes up because if your wife wants to go up, then you're in trouble. 1.00

00:28:53.000 No, nonetheless, though, uh, this is where I say every girl has a price, whether it's price of admission, which is monetary, or price of security, with the right guy.

00:29:05.000 Because if you can pay the bills and be a provider, she might choose him.

00:29:08.000 So we'll get into Rumble itself and get more detail because it's kind of you know, not safe for YouTube.

00:29:13.000 So guys, come on over to Rumble Man.

00:29:14.000 Uh link should be down in the chat as well.

00:29:17.000 On Rumble, let's go. 0.92

00:29:22.000 I'll give you confirmation.

00:29:23.000 Cool.

00:29:24.000 You can read this chat while I'm going to be able to do that.

00:29:26.000 Alright, we'll do this chat real quick.

00:29:27.000 Uh, we got Kai the Great says, What's good, FNF?

00:29:29.000 I'm 22, you're barber out in Canada, working every day to build, coming from homelessness to room meeting in an apartment, no car.

00:29:36.000 What do you guys recommend me to do next?

00:29:38.000 So you were uh 22, you're a barber, you're homeless to a room with an apartment, no car.

00:29:47.000 So if you're a barber, right bro, uh, your time is money.

00:29:50.000 Because each person you cut is gonna add to your wealth, um, one by one.

00:29:54.000 But you want to maximize that as much as possible.

00:29:56.000 So, what you could do is on your weekdays, whenever you work your actual barbershop job, if you do work in a barbershop, you're gonna have to go ahead and obviously plug that out.

00:30:04.000 But you need to mark yourself online as well.

00:30:06.000 So my barber way does this he'll cut people's hair, and then if they have a good job about it, they'll say, you know what?

00:30:10.000 Uh you might me tag you in a post on Instagram.

00:30:13.000 He'll do that constantly each and every single time.

00:30:15.000 Now, mind you, other than that, he does house calls.

00:30:18.000 So his current job, he's locked in his company with the barbicting, but on the side, he does house calls. 0.98

00:30:24.000 So let's say for example, someone's busy can't come into the shop today.

00:30:27.000 I'm I'll cut you out after work at like 7 p.m.

00:30:29.000 So from eight to like I think five you works his regular job at the barbershop, and then from there from like seven to like maybe like 10 p.m.

00:30:37.000 He's on house calls, which means he's working his job at one point, and then as well, side gigs after work, plus promoting it on social media, Instagram, TikTok, and all the like because he's getting more traffic that way as well.

00:30:50.000 So you can do that as well, bro.

00:30:51.000 And again, you can give celebrities free cuts.

00:30:54.000 However, however, this can be tricky because I got friends that did this in the past and they got shafted.

00:31:01.000 So you need to be promised a post and either a video to say, hey, haircut by so and so, because if you do it for free and they just walk off, you're you're cooked, bro.

00:31:10.000 So keep that in mind.

00:31:11.000 Alright.

00:31:12.000 Um, any more?

00:31:17.000 Let's watch it number one where I mentioned before um a girlfriend may hold you back. 0.83

00:31:17.000 Cool. 0.83

00:31:22.000 Let's play the video from uh X because this is very important.

00:31:24.000 Video from X. Yeah.

00:31:26.000 The first one that was kind of knocked tip for YouTube.

00:31:28.000 We're good, right?

00:31:32.000 Alright, let's play it.

00:31:34.000 It's right.

00:31:38.000 There we go.

00:31:39.000 Come on, stop look at her, bro.

00:31:41.000 Get her. 0.58

00:31:44.000 Look at hey, See?

00:31:45.000 See?

00:31:48.000 See?

00:31:49.000 Stop.

00:31:50.000 Stop.

00:31:52.000 Nigga, everybody in here. 0.99

00:31:54.000 You're the problem, bro.

00:31:57.000 Grab her, Naya. 1.00

00:31:58.000 Grab her now. 0.99

00:32:01.000 Yes, go in the room. 0.65

00:32:06.000 Go in the living room, bro.

00:32:07.000 I gave you 350.

00:32:08.000 Get your fight.

00:32:09.000 Go home.

00:32:10.000 This is wild, bro.

00:32:12.000 This is bad.

00:32:15.000 Bro.

00:32:16.000 You did you hit me.

00:32:18.000 See?

00:32:20.000 Sorry, bitch. 1.00

00:32:22.000 I promise you, right, bro.

00:32:23.000 If this is ever you in the scenario, fellas, get up and leave.

00:32:27.000 Don't just sit there and look, listen, obviously record, of course, with your safety, but like, get up and walk away, bro.

00:32:31.000 Run out of the house, leave because this.

00:32:34.000 Bro, this is like you wanting to happen.

00:32:36.000 You know what she's gonna hit you continually.

00:32:38.000 Just leave, bro.

00:32:39.000 But let's continue, man.

00:32:40.000 Cause this is kind of what happens when you stay around to figure out find out what happens in real time.

00:32:45.000 That fucking drug bitch. 1.00

00:32:46.000 See, look at it.

00:32:46.000 Dirty bitch.

00:32:47.000 Look at her.

00:32:48.000 Dirty bitch. 1.00

00:32:49.000 You're a dirty bitch. 1.00

00:32:50.000 You're a dirty me. 1.00

00:32:50.000 There you go. 1.00

00:32:51.000 Yeah, there I go.

00:32:55.000 I had pressed charges.

00:32:57.000 She's over another person. 0.99

00:32:58.000 That's not her. 0.97

00:32:59.000 I got her.

00:33:06.000 It's fucking bitch. 1.00

00:33:08.000 And usually these fights happen because of money.

00:33:11.000 Whether it's you can't pay for something that she wants or maybe a trip she wants to go on and you can't go on, or because you're at work and you're busy.

00:33:19.000 And the funny part is that like, let's say you do take time for her and you give her what she wants.

00:33:24.000 Eventually, if that's always the case, she'll probably leave as well and get bored. 0.89

00:33:28.000 So this is where I say, like, man, like honestly, fellas, like, this behavior is terrible.

00:33:34.000 I mean, the full video is fucking disgusting.

00:33:36.000 But this is where you gotta say, listen, girlfriend like this could hold me back.

00:33:40.000 And the funny part is it may start off good.

00:33:42.000 Happy, rosy, everything's perfect.

00:33:45.000 But usually like around like the sixth month or after the year, things get started get like a little bit dry.

00:33:52.000 And after that, if it's our very genuine, you know, people's true colors start start start to come out.

00:33:58.000 Which means in real time, you become a subject of her actual hate and animosity.

00:34:04.000 And of course, if you have if you're broke as well, then add it to that, she's in charge.

00:34:09.000 You're definitely cooked.

00:34:10.000 So I mean we can finish it off real quick and then we'll move on.

00:34:13.000 That's fine.

00:34:15.000 But I don't like though, fellas.

00:34:16.000 She got some bad nice ass tips, bro. 1.00

00:34:18.000 Come on, bro.

00:34:19.000 No, nigga's fire. 1.00

00:34:22.000 Bro, you see the tits, nigga? 1.00

00:34:23.000 She's fire, bro.

00:34:24.000 I ain't gonna lie, I don't I don't I don't blink.

00:34:24.000 What you mean?

00:34:27.000 That's just fire, bro.

00:34:28.000 She looks like it.

00:34:28.000 Look at that shit, nigga.

00:34:30.000 You want smash?

00:34:31.000 I wouldn't smash?

00:34:34.000 I ain't gonna lie, hell yeah.

00:34:34.000 Hell yeah.

00:34:35.000 Nigga, I'm in this.

00:34:36.000 Jacob, you won't smash Jacobs and that's fucked up. 0.96

00:34:38.000 That's my type of hair too, bro.

00:34:40.000 Nigga, she drop kicking me, bro. 1.00

00:34:41.000 That was smash, bro.

00:34:42.000 She can she can sharuk in me, nigga. 1.00

00:34:43.000 I'll destroy it.

00:34:44.000 Oh yeah, Jake, Jacob, Jacob, he heacob, he a slime ball, bro.

00:34:48.000 He'll have a slime ball is crazy.

00:34:50.000 Alright, let's play it.

00:34:51.000 Jacob, do some things.

00:34:53.000 Girl.

00:34:54.000 we're taking that home We gotta leave that bitch. 1.00

00:35:04.000 Man, this nigga got money too. 1.00

00:35:06.000 You can tell about it.

00:35:07.000 Look at the crib, bro.

00:35:08.000 Yo, hold on, look at the screen, bro.

00:35:10.000 Look at the crib. 0.75

00:35:10.000 Bro, look at the crib. 0.75

00:35:12.000 Sky's gonna sky on the screen.

00:35:13.000 This guy in the sky.

00:35:14.000 RK games.

00:35:15.000 Big ass kitchen. 0.99

00:35:16.000 What's going on here, bro?

00:35:17.000 And you got a disastrous bitch. 1.00

00:35:19.000 Why is she fighting him on me? 1.00

00:35:19.000 Bro, what? 1.00

00:35:22.000 Yeah, man, it's Halloween.

00:35:24.000 And it's Halloween, bro.

00:35:26.000 Mind you, that's a bottle of alcohol.

00:35:28.000 She poured out the alcohol.

00:35:29.000 Put a bottle on him.

00:35:30.000 That is diabolical.

00:35:31.000 That's insane, bro.

00:35:32.000 She wasted the alcohol, bro.

00:35:34.000 Throw it alcohol. 0.98

00:35:34.000 Let's all bottle at him directly. 0.98

00:35:37.000 That's where Chris will draw the line at that.

00:35:39.000 Chris will break up, right?

00:35:40.000 He's out.

00:35:41.000 W Chris, by the way.

00:35:41.000 He's on.

00:35:42.000 Yeah.

00:35:43.000 Uh let's play some more.

00:35:48.000 What are you doing, bro?

00:35:49.000 What do you think I'm doing?

00:35:50.000 Like, stop.

00:35:52.000 Stop.

00:35:53.000 Look at that, bro.

00:35:55.000 Stop.

00:35:57.000 Stop.

00:35:58.000 What do you think I'm doing?

00:35:59.000 Stop the helly, bro.

00:36:00.000 What do you think I'm doing?

00:36:02.000 Stop.

00:36:03.000 What do you think?

00:36:04.000 Stop.

00:36:04.000 What do you think?

00:36:05.000 It's not right, right?

00:36:07.000 October 14th.

00:36:09.000 Oh, bro, get out of it.

00:36:11.000 October 14th.

00:36:12.000 Nigga, that was yesterday. 1.00

00:36:14.000 Yeah, yesterday, bro.

00:36:16.000 Oh, your birthday, bro.

00:36:21.000 Bump on the back of my head.

00:36:27.000 But this is why I say, bro, like, okay.

00:36:29.000 God, she's a baddie in your in your eyes. 1.00

00:36:32.000 She's probably the best best you ever had ever had in your life.

00:36:36.000 But is that worth having a baddie?

00:36:38.000 I don't think so, bro.

00:36:39.000 Like at that point, it's cooked.

00:36:41.000 But mind you, there were signs at the very beginning.

00:36:44.000 There were signs there.

00:36:45.000 It's pretty evident of what's happening there.

00:36:47.000 And you stayed.

00:36:48.000 Because Kakucci, nice titties, who knows. 1.00

00:36:51.000 But I guarantee you, if he left her, or never had her at the very beginning, anyway, he bet he better he'd be better on life because at least he'd be free to focus on what's important to him and have more flexibility to do what he wants.

00:37:02.000 But this, your whole support's helpable.

00:37:04.000 How do you how do you focus?

00:37:05.000 How do you concentrate?

00:37:06.000 You can't.

00:37:08.000 That's what I'm saying, bro.

00:37:09.000 Like, it's bad.

00:37:10.000 Um, but you know, guys watching, man.

00:37:12.000 That's every you, bro.

00:37:13.000 Leave, bro.

00:37:14.000 Leave A side because staying there won't help at all.

00:37:16.000 And honestly, bro, she's crazy.

00:37:18.000 Fucking crazy, bro.

00:37:19.000 So, yeah, fellas.

00:37:20.000 Girlfriends can hold you back for sure. 1.00

00:37:21.000 And this one for sure will hurt you and all you back.

00:37:24.000 So there you go.

00:37:24.000 All right, uh, number three.

00:37:27.000 Uh, we mentioned this before.

00:37:28.000 Basically, it's uh every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays. 1.00

00:37:33.000 So uh we spoke about different states, different different cities, of course, how people uh can move back and forth, so no one's really safe.

00:37:40.000 But here's the bad part, right?

00:37:41.000 Is that let's say uh you are in I don't know.

00:37:47.000 Let's say you're in like Ohio, right?

00:37:51.000 And then let's say you're let's say I'm in Miami.

00:37:56.000 You're your girl's in Ohio, you guys are dating whatever.

00:38:00.000 Her friend says to her, hey, I'm on this website where this guy's paying me like 10k a month.

00:38:04.000 She's like, what?

00:38:05.000 How's he paying 10k a month?

00:38:07.000 It's because um, you know, it's a sugar cycle, like I don't give any sugar.

00:38:12.000 Funny.

00:38:13.000 True story, by the way.

00:38:14.000 So what happens is she's a boyfriend in Ohio that she's with.

00:38:18.000 Her girl's like, yo, let's go to Miami for a girl's trip. 0.63

00:38:21.000 Um, he's paid for everything.

00:38:23.000 She's also a boyfriend.

00:38:24.000 Listen, uh, I don't I want to go on a girl's trip to Miami. 1.00

00:38:28.000 Do you mind if I go?

00:38:29.000 It's me, Sally, and May.

00:38:32.000 And uh, he's like, sure, babe.

00:38:35.000 You go to Miami, have a have a blast.

00:38:37.000 Which is over by then, but at that point, it's it's it's fine.

00:38:41.000 She goes to Miami with her friends, she pulls up to this guy's penthouse, they get some drinks, they go for dinner, they go to club, and before you know it, she meets one of his friends, and it's over.

00:38:55.000 And people say, Oh, but fresh, bro, this is what happened to me in my state.

00:38:59.000 Well, how dare you too far off because bro, at this point, you never know how things happen.

00:39:05.000 That's just one example.

00:39:06.000 But the point is, women nowadays are moving off of transactions. 1.00

00:39:10.000 If you don't believe me, watch this video here coming up.

00:39:13.000 It should be a woman with Nick Cannon, and that lady. 1.00

00:39:17.000 Uh Nick Cannon.

00:39:19.000 Yeah.

00:39:20.000 Not that one.

00:39:20.000 Here we go.

00:39:24.000 Should be a TikTok video.

00:39:25.000 Thank you.

00:39:32.000 Not that one.

00:39:34.000 I don't think nothing would have it's in the chat, Bills.

00:39:39.000 Sure.

00:39:40.000 Yeah.

00:39:51.000 You don't see it?

00:39:52.000 No.

00:39:53.000 Isn't it takeover or uh should be the third TikTok link there in take over?

00:39:58.000 It's there, bro.

00:39:59.000 That's it.

00:40:00.000 Third TikTok.

00:40:02.000 There we go.

00:40:03.000 All right, finally found it, Bills.

00:40:07.000 All right, let's people don't want love.

00:40:07.000 Took a little bit, bro.

00:40:10.000 I think the reason why people don't want love is because most women want their bills paid. 1.00

00:40:15.000 They don't want love.

00:40:16.000 Oh they got four or five people.

00:40:18.000 They got four or five.

00:40:21.000 It's kinda it's kinda high.

00:40:22.000 Where's the cannon fresh?

00:40:23.000 Where's Nick Cannon?

00:40:24.000 He's coming very soon.

00:40:29.000 More than four or five bills.

00:40:30.000 And I think as long as we're in this transactional era of time, it's never gonna be able to get back to love.

00:40:37.000 We gotta focus on the core value of what actually matters inside of a relationship.

00:40:42.000 And we've strayed too far.

00:40:43.000 Honestly, don't get mad at me.

00:40:44.000 I know there's a lot of ladies in here. 1.00

00:40:47.000 It's the truth, you know.

00:40:48.000 Honestly, we live in a prostitution era. 0.78

00:40:50.000 Wow.

00:40:51.000 She can't tell you for real.

00:40:56.000 So she came on Nick Anna's show and told people the truth.

00:40:59.000 Obviously, we've been saying this for years, but obviously she's a woman saying, so it's it's amazing because she's a woman saying it.

00:41:03.000 Wow.

00:41:04.000 But here's the actual redlining here.

00:41:07.000 Because any day, we've been in Miami for how long?

00:41:10.000 Five years plus doing doing the show.

00:41:12.000 And they say all the time, oh bro, you're Miami Jade because you're in Miami.

00:41:16.000 But we've been to New York, been to Vegas, California, um, Washington, DC.

00:41:22.000 We've been everywhere.

00:41:23.000 And the same thing still stands.

00:41:24.000 Even in Columbia.

00:41:25.000 We were there uh a couple years ago with uh Casey, and the women there are even more Americanized than even before. 1.00

00:41:33.000 So here's the issue, right?

00:41:35.000 Um pills need to be paid.

00:41:38.000 Economy's really bad, fellas.

00:41:39.000 Like really bad.

00:41:41.000 We're actually in a current session right now.

00:41:43.000 People don't want to say because it's bad to say this, but like it's true. 0.99

00:41:46.000 And what's happening is women have got to pay to pay their bills, whether it's by you know, conventional means or unconventional means. 1.00

00:41:53.000 And more than often than not, if they've been offered money by guys, why wouldn't they take it?

00:41:59.000 So let's say you're offered ten times 10k.

00:42:03.000 How does 10 times you won't say it once?

00:42:05.000 So say yes one time.

00:42:06.000 And because again, this is where you have to put morals, people's wants in check.

00:42:11.000 Because a woman that needs things done, she'll take it because again, why not? 1.00

00:42:16.000 If I'm hot, attractive, and I look good, I'll not take it.

00:42:19.000 Like it could either be a rich boyfriend, of course, or a resent, but either way it doesn't matter.

00:42:23.000 They're getting offers every single day.

00:42:25.000 Whether it's Instagram DMs in person, doesn't matter how hard they get in these offers to get in the offers.

00:42:30.000 So in essence, when you women are transactional, whatever you give to them in that moment, is gone because that's their whole paradigm. 1.00

00:42:39.000 It's transactional.

00:42:40.000 You're just another another number.

00:42:42.000 And guarantee you is if it's just like you, it's maybe four of the other guys doing the same thing.

00:42:47.000 So the point is that like giving a woman up front something for you know tr transactional love, does a benefit in the long run because that just means you're just another number to her, and any guy can do the same thing.

00:42:58.000 Which is why you gotta say you gotta have some game because without gain, fellas, even with money, you're still stuck because you're still another number.

00:43:04.000 You're not important.

00:43:04.000 And then let's say for example, you're digging a chick uh seriously, right?

00:43:09.000 You're dating a girl for a long period of time, and she's like, you know what?

00:43:12.000 I'll be with you, blah blah blah.

00:43:13.000 And it's transactional.

00:43:15.000 If you stop whatever reason, she's gone.

00:43:17.000 So to me, it's not worth it because at that point, what's the point of even doing it?

00:43:21.000 Because she didn't leave it at some point anyway.

00:43:23.000 So transactional women, fellas, nowadays are red flag because that right there is a is an L because no matter what you do, you start paying her, you don't know what she wants, she goes somewhere else in a heartbeat. 1.00

00:43:32.000 And that just means you're another number to her at that point.

00:43:34.000 So nonetheless, fellas, that's the L in itself, and that's the number four as well.

00:43:39.000 Uh number four is gonna be, let's see here.

00:43:42.000 One sec.

00:43:45.000 Uh so if your girl breaks up with you, success is is your best revenge.

00:43:49.000 So your girl breaking up with you is not world, fellas, right?

00:43:52.000 It just means that right now, what you're going through means she's actually saying, okay, you're not worth my time anymore.

00:43:58.000 I'm gone.

00:43:58.000 Could either be you're out of shape, not enough money, or maybe you just lost your frame.

00:44:04.000 And that happens all the time, fellas.

00:44:05.000 You might get comfortable, be with a chick and you lost your frame.

00:44:08.000 However, it's not over.

00:44:11.000 Let her go because she wants to go s to somebody else at that point. 0.98

00:44:14.000 Because mentally for a woman, if she breaks up with you before uh you're ready, it means because she found somebody else for the most part. 0.97

00:44:20.000 So let her leave. 0.99

00:44:21.000 And I guarantee, fellas, there's been fellas that peop people I know in real life that they said, you know what?

00:44:26.000 She broke up with me.

00:44:27.000 I'm gonna give up on life and just do what I do what I gotta do, which means commit suicide.

00:44:32.000 Which is terrible by the way, but that's an L because that means that she won.

00:44:36.000 You know what's the best thing to do, fellas, if you get broken a win to actually beat her in this this same game, get success.

00:44:42.000 That's gonna make her feel like shit, because when you win in life, fellas, they want to win too with you as well.

00:44:47.000 Now, mind you, once she leaves you, she's on to somebody else, which is fine, but focus on yourself, hit the gym, make some money, become better, and watch as time passes, how you become more confident in yourself, become more sure of yourself.

00:45:02.000 And I it's funny, but nowadays it's social media.

00:45:05.000 It's Instagram, TikTok, it's also um as well, um, Snapchat.

00:45:09.000 Miami means that that that she can see you in real life after the facts.

00:45:13.000 And I know people here in Miami especially that were down and out at the very beginning.

00:45:17.000 They worked on themselves, got into business, did pretty well.

00:45:20.000 And I know the girlfriends from the past.

00:45:22.000 They were out on the boat with them all the time, they broke up, now they're onto somebody else.

00:45:27.000 But they turned up.

00:45:29.000 They got lit again, started making money, and we're out together, you know, as boys just having fun.

00:45:34.000 LC their girlfriends staring them up down in the corner like, damn, I messed up. 1.00

00:45:39.000 We're laughing like, yeah, she fucked up because she's with a bum versus with a winner now. 0.98

00:45:43.000 So all in all, fellas, revenge is easy for success is your best option.

00:45:48.000 And uh this video we can play too as well with Andrew Tate coming up.

00:45:51.000 This one right here, that's two.

00:45:52.000 Hurrah!

00:45:53.000 This one here.

00:45:57.000 Here we go.

00:46:01.000 No, it was a mutual Why do you think she left you?

00:46:05.000 It was people outgrow each other, bro.

00:46:07.000 That's what girls say when they're fucking someone else. 1.00

00:46:09.000 People outgrow each other.

00:46:10.000 It's not you, it's me.

00:46:12.000 Who does she fuck? 1.00

00:46:13.000 No yet?

00:46:13.000 Did you even find out?

00:46:15.000 No, I don't think she is fucking here. 0.99

00:46:17.000 Oh, yeah, she left you to be by herself.

00:46:19.000 She left you to sit at home alone and watch TV.

00:46:23.000 100% that's why she left you, G. You just really wanted to sit at home by herself, not to run around with some other dude. 1.00

00:46:29.000 You're totally right.

00:46:30.000 She's a good person, she's different than all the rest.

00:46:33.000 Completely agree.

00:46:35.000 Yeah, so uh that that's a funny funny uh video with obviously Aiden Ross, but the fact is, fellas, once she leaves you, fellas, it's on to somebody else.

00:46:43.000 Either it's a friend, close to her or friend, um, a guy in her DMs, or just guy she knows from maybe the gym, maybe from work, you don't know who it is.

00:46:51.000 But the point is, your success is gonna make them feel like shit.

00:46:54.000 I guarantee you.

00:46:54.000 Whether it's this here or not, doesn't matter.

00:46:56.000 You're still running in life, and end of the day, it's your success.

00:47:00.000 But if you try to text her back, like, hey, let's chill, we need to talk.

00:47:04.000 You're losing because now it's in her frame.

00:47:06.000 The moment you cowers with her demands of her um approval, she's gonna win.

00:47:12.000 So if you want to win in life, man, move forward, forget about her for a little bit.

00:47:16.000 Obviously, use that anger, use that actual momentum to yourself to become better.

00:47:21.000 But going back to her, it's gonna be L, so just leave it alone. 0.98

00:47:24.000 Alright.

00:47:25.000 And last but not least, number five.

00:47:26.000 So this is the one that um ChatGPT got right as well.

00:47:30.000 Which I'm not gonna lie, man.

00:47:31.000 Chat GBT is a finesse, bro.

00:47:33.000 You're doing content online, you go to Chat GPT, type in what you want to say, and then it brings it up for you.

00:47:33.000 Imagine, right?

00:47:40.000 That's crazy, bro.

00:47:41.000 It's it's the cheat code for content, by the way.

00:47:43.000 Alright, number five.

00:47:45.000 So uh women remember how you make them feel, not what you give them. 1.00

00:47:50.000 So for the most part, I've been dating for what?

00:47:56.000 Shit.

00:47:57.000 In America, like 10 years now.

00:48:00.000 And out of all girls that I've been dating, um, what they mainly say is I feel good around you, right?

00:48:08.000 Um broke, I didn't have shit.

00:48:11.000 So all I have was how I made them feel with going out, having a good time, you know, the vibe, so to speak.

00:48:17.000 And that was basically me, just me, me being being myself, funny, whatever, a little bit goofy, but having for him to say, you know what, I'm gonna plan a date.

00:48:25.000 I'm gonna set it up where like I know what's fun for me, I know what I like, she's a plus one.

00:48:30.000 So I'm in the frame now of control.

00:48:32.000 Where before it was kind of like, oh, I don't know where I want to go, what should I eat?

00:48:36.000 That right there shows uh non-leadership skills, and of course, no real frame.

00:48:42.000 However, uh there are guys I know that pay pretty much every single time.

00:48:46.000 And they have think of a girl's like bracelets, of course, um, chains, cars, watch everything.

00:48:53.000 And what happens is they break up.

00:48:55.000 Where does she go?

00:48:56.000 Somebody else.

00:48:58.000 You might have got her a gift, but like she was with somebody else.

00:49:01.000 Versus experiences they don't forget, which is why a guy that has like a girlfriend where he left her, he can go back anytime.

00:49:08.000 Because the experience that she left the guy with was good because she didn't end it, he ended it on his terms, which means she did she was happy or satisfied to leave at that point, so it's still his frame for that interaction.

00:49:19.000 So she might find a boyfriend, husband, but if he texts and says, hey, pull up on me or where you at, she might actually go because that experience you have with the guy is one of our best experiences possible.

00:49:29.000 That's what they say, also like Alpha Widow because is because the Alpha is still there, even though she's not there as well. 0.97

00:49:35.000 So in essence, fellas, um, what I'm saying here is that women remember what you how to meet in the field versus what you give them.

00:49:40.000 Um should be another video there as well.

00:49:42.000 Can I showcase this as well?

00:49:43.000 Last one.

00:49:44.000 Huh?

00:49:47.000 Should be.

00:49:48.000 Um you tell me you get me another one.

00:49:53.000 Yeah.

00:49:55.000 Yeah, cool.

00:49:56.000 Here we go.

00:49:58.000 Revenge on you.

00:50:00.000 You is instant.

00:50:01.000 Her revenge on you is going out to party and you're sitting at home alone.

00:50:04.000 Her revenge is instant.

00:50:05.000 Your revenge takes a little bit longer.

00:50:07.000 But it is a better revenge overall.

00:50:08.000 Like all good things in life, good things come to those who wait.

00:50:11.000 Good things don't come instantly.

00:50:12.000 Your revenge is gonna be using that sadness, using that sorrow to become such an amazing man that she realizes she fed up.

00:50:18.000 And so if you get to take that sadness and sorrow and truly become the man that you know you can become, your victory comes.

00:50:23.000 It's maybe a little bit delayed, but it's certainly not least coming, and you should be excited by that.

00:50:26.000 There'll be a day where she regrets the decision she made.

00:50:29.000 There'll be a day where she understands that she fed up and her life would be better if she kept me. 0.95

00:50:32.000 And I'm gonna prove it to her.

00:50:33.000 That's what you have to do.

00:50:34.000 You have to go do it.

00:50:35.000 You have to go and force her to feel regret by the magnitude of your actions.

00:50:39.000 If you sit around your ass being mopey, she ain't gonna feel regret. 1.00

00:50:42.000 If you text her, you're gonna regret losing me, she ain't gonna feel regret.

00:50:45.000 You have to get up and attack the universe through the force of your monumental achievements.

00:50:49.000 The universe is gonna create a massive sadness ball.

00:50:53.000 A nice big ball of regret and dump it on her fing head.

00:50:55.000 You can do that.

00:50:56.000 Her revenge on you is instant.

00:50:57.000 Yeah, so her revenge on you is going out to power and sit at home alone. 1.00

00:51:01.000 Her you can stop, yeah. 1.00

00:51:02.000 So you broke it down basically in a says where for example, let's say you have a girlfriend, right?

00:51:06.000 And she does like uh really bad things to you, she may break it with you, whatever. 1.00

00:51:11.000 She's saying to you, just doesn't like no respect. 1.00

00:51:13.000 Versus when you actually say, you know what, I'm gonna focus on myself, become better, and she can feel it.

00:51:18.000 You know what?

00:51:18.000 He's being a man that he needs to be.

00:51:20.000 Which way I say all the time, how they feel is important because that's all that matters.

00:51:24.000 You could do her give her the moon and the sun all day every single day, but it's what she feels.

00:51:30.000 Now, in essence, that means that every day could be a different feeling.

00:51:33.000 So she might get a period, she might say, you know what, today I feel like cranky.

00:51:36.000 Ooh, but of course, more love that.

00:51:39.000 But um, this is why you say, fellas.

00:51:42.000 You have to be first.

00:51:44.000 Put yourself first, be successful, and then by the byproduct, whatever you do as a secondary action, should involve her.

00:51:51.000 What I mean by that.

00:51:52.000 I mean, let's say you're uh working on becoming an electrician, right?

00:51:56.000 You're going to school, getting your actual um certs.

00:52:00.000 You get that, right?

00:52:01.000 But to level up, you need to do extra classes.

00:52:03.000 She says to you, oh, let's stay home and watch a movie.

00:52:06.000 Let's go get ice cream.

00:52:07.000 You're like, you know what?

00:52:08.000 Fuck it.

00:52:09.000 I'll go with her because it's my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to make I need to make her happy.

00:52:14.000 That'll make her happy for the moment, but long term, let's say you need to get a raise for your job or upgrade, you put her first in that scenario. 0.77

00:52:21.000 So now you didn't go to classes.

00:52:25.000 You didn't get your extra like credits, whatever.

00:52:27.000 And now you're stuck there at that point at a level of um, you know, your job.

00:52:31.000 Which means you can't plateau because you didn't do what you have to do at the very beginning to get to get to where you want to go.

00:52:36.000 And she's gonna be like, Yeah, like I want to go travel, I want to do things certain things because you know, why not?

00:52:40.000 But because your job, you're limited to what you can do.

00:52:42.000 So, in essence, you put yourself first.

00:52:44.000 You worked on your certs, you upgraded your lifestyle, for example, for from your job um point of view, you and you and then you did better.

00:52:51.000 She's like, you know what?

00:52:52.000 Damn, he's working on himself as a man, gotta respect that.

00:52:56.000 And once you're making money, you can take her out and travel, whatever.

00:52:58.000 The point is that like once you work once you work on yourself, you become better.

00:53:02.000 So, in essence, fellas, if you want to focus on her first, she's it's kind of like you're gonna put her first, but she'll put you last.

00:53:09.000 That's the end of it, pretty much, because that just means that she's first and you're last.

00:53:13.000 So there you go.

00:53:15.000 Alright, what's the um is that is that next one or that's good.

00:53:18.000 That's good, right?

00:53:21.000 And then the chats?

00:53:21.000 Cool.

00:53:22.000 No, we don't have one.

00:53:24.000 All right, we got DC Balasser says if she's willing to ruin your house, they'll put your dick in her mouth. 1.00

00:53:31.000 Hey, that's kind of bars, though.

00:53:32.000 That's bird dashly.

00:53:34.000 Good shit, bro.

00:53:35.000 That's funny as hell, bro.

00:53:36.000 Holy shit.

00:53:37.000 Okay.

00:53:39.000 Good to go.

00:53:40.000 Alright, we're gonna do a stream, fellas, with uh PJ tonight for after hours. 0.97

00:53:44.000 Um like 10 or so.

00:53:47.000 If he's back, we'll do it with him as well.

00:53:48.000 But if not, we'll do PJ with some girls coming up so you guys at like 10:30, 11. 0.95

00:53:53.000 Um, so you guys then, peace.

00:53:55.000 I ran.

00:53:56.000 I ran so far away.

00:54:00.000 I just done.

Fresh & Fit - October 15, 2025

5 Things You Should Know About Women By 30

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