5 things you need to know before you turn 30 about women. 1. Women value emotional safety over looks. 2. Women remember how you make them feel, not what you give them. 3. Women communicate directly. 4. Boundaries attract respect. 5. Women have a self-esteem problem.
00:11:49.000Uh talk is better as well, so I feel amazing, man.
00:11:52.000And when I get older, I feel like nowadays especially, less is more.
00:11:57.000You know, like I'm doing certain things I wouldn't do before, for example, being more focused on my health and taking things more seriously.
00:12:03.000And honestly, man, like in my 20 to the 30s, it was kinda like uh early 30s, it's kinda like, this is cool, I'm a joint life, but now I'm more concise on what I want out of life and what I want to get out of it, you know.
00:14:17.000Um, so number one, more than likely you won't get a girlfriend.
00:14:21.000Uh, sorry, when you have a girlfriend, you won't get ahead in life, which means most people are gonna be held back by girlfriends because either it's the uh nagging annoying that happens whenever they come home, either it's because you're aware about what they're gonna say to you, or you're scared of losing them in the first place.
00:14:36.000And there was a video that went viral uh like yesterday about a girl, a girl that had her man in the house, she got upset and went crazy on him.
00:14:45.000And then it made me think all the friends I know that had girlfriends back in the day from school, from work, where are they now?
00:14:52.000And I kid you, out of 10 of them, maybe only one is successful, but all the rest of them are pretty much with kids, not making much money, uh slaves at their jobs, and they have no type of like real uh self self-worth, you get me.
00:15:05.000So, in that sense, it was kind of like seeing my experiences plus what's happening now.
00:15:10.000I don't know how many people that are successfully still dating from 10 years ago, the same girlfriend, till now that's successful.
00:15:17.000And if they were, they broke up and they moved on to somebody different.
00:15:20.000But the point is, in this whole scheme of things, when you have a girlfriend long term like that, if you can't even keep a girlfriend that long, usually it doesn't last.
00:15:28.000And what happens is you become a slave to her because either you don't lose her, or you say, you know what?
00:15:33.000This chick, man, she's the bad ass I can ever get.
00:16:40.000Um, but nonetheless, a girlfriend itself is not terrible.
00:16:43.000But the problem is that when you have a girlfriend, you tend to lean towards making her happy versus yourself, what's important for you and your family.
00:16:51.000And as a result, you may shift schools because your girlfriend, you may even shift shift jobs, you may even say, you know what, forget my dreams, who put your dreams in front, which is a big L bro.
00:17:02.000So, all in all to say, fellas, having a girlfriend could be uh bad for you because that can change your career path and your lifestyle in itself.
00:17:10.000And honestly, fellas, like, what's more important?
00:17:13.000A girl or your well-being and your your your success.
00:17:16.000Because to me, success success was number one.
00:17:19.000I mean, I chances to have girlfriends back in the day, you know, we're kind of chick-filade too, but it wasn't ever gonna be where we want it to be.
00:17:26.000So, all in all, I would just say that the girlfriend angle is cool, but it could hold you back, especially if you're young.
00:17:33.000I remember um dating back then, I was so focused on like being present for the girl, and I almost lost sight of white kids in America, which is to be successful, and that helped me back a lot.
00:17:45.000So I know for most guys it's not gonna be the same, but it could be.
00:17:52.000So, women will always be there growing out.
00:17:55.000So, recently we've been seeing a lot of news about recession.
00:17:58.000Uh, most Americans don't know this, but we're currently in one right now.
00:18:02.000And they did a study to people's pockets for how much they have statement savings.
00:18:06.000And it used to be a thousand dollars they didn't have.
00:18:09.000Now it's less than 400 you have in your account for savings.
00:18:12.000So that tells people, I want obviously people in charge that people don't have money nowadays.
00:18:18.000And it's because we're actually in a recession.
00:18:20.000If you guys realize uh the dollar doesn't worth shit, gold and silver is up, and so it's Bitcoin.
00:18:25.000Obviously speaking, the fiat currency itself is dead, but they're holding up because they're picking more money as we go along.
00:18:31.000The issue though is that like most people nowadays can't survive without credit, which means you have to have a credit card or a loan from the bank to pay your bills nowadays, which is sad because that's a reality that we have nowadays for most people.
00:18:42.000But when it comes to having actual women in your life, I'm telling you, fellas, like if you focus now on getting your shit in order, and we say this all the time on the show because it's it's true because most guys that we know either they party every weekend, they get drunk, they have no type of like plan for the lives, and then they wonder, why don't I have Lambo?
00:19:01.000Why don't I have the girl girl I want?
00:19:02.000Why don't I have the life I want is because you focused on the wrong things.
00:19:05.000And mind you, I have friends from back in school.
00:19:09.000We would party all the time, he would get lit, and it was fun, don't be wrong, it was fun.
00:20:16.000But she was on the show talking about how she left her boyfriend, she's happy as hell, she's happy to be single, and she was married by the way.
00:20:22.000If anyone knows in the chat who she is, she's married, she got bored, left her husband with a kid, by the way, and was living her life in Miami, having fun, whatever, and lo and behold, man, uh this is crazy, bro.
00:20:37.000I go to the strip club with some friends of mine, right?
00:20:41.000Company, event, quink wink, and who do I see at the strip club?
00:23:36.000Tell you, on Sunday night, and I don't know what's gonna be worse.
00:23:41.000The realization that's I'm single now, and again, and I have to go and sit there and obviously pick myself back up over the next couple weeks, months, etc.
00:23:50.000Work on myself, uh, do that whole routine again.
00:23:54.000Or the realization that I gotta try to date again.
00:24:03.000And with today's dating scene and market.
00:24:07.000That just makes you want to sit there and say anyone else?
00:24:17.000Yeah, so this is typical because when is the breakup or you're single, you're like, you know what?
00:25:07.000And let's say you don't find a girlfriend, single having fun, banging around random chicks.
00:25:12.000That's fun too, but what's the actual end result?
00:25:15.000Versus someone that said, you know what?
00:25:17.000I'm gonna wait a little bit, sacrifice this have this discipline in my life.
00:25:20.000I'm gonna focus on being better in the gym, probably, or business, or my career, or my path of success, whatever that may be.
00:25:28.000And then fast forward, I got the baddest chick I ever wanted to have.
00:25:32.000I have cars I want, lifestyle I want, and I have as well money success.
00:25:36.000So I have options to do what I want to do.
00:25:38.000Versus when you're not where you want to be, you gotta sell it for less, which means what's available to you at that time, and that's your best bet.
00:25:45.000But again, this is where I say you can have fun now, but you're gonna pay later on.
00:26:10.000So look at it for standpoint if women is a byproduct of your success, because at this point, putting her first before your success is a bad idea.
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00:28:08.000Now uh I'll say the tell it the title itself is not bad, but the details will be bad, so I'll put it on a rumble.
00:28:16.000But it says basically, guys, every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays, and that goes a long way because being in Miami, made a city, you see it all the time.
00:28:26.000Now, the problem is if you're in a small city, you won't see it because for the most part, it's either on Instagram, dating apps, even sugar sites.
00:28:35.000But what's funny is girls from over in different states will come over here to live that lifestyle.
00:28:41.000Or to differ different state, whatever it may be, it's still happening in your city, whether you're in order or not.
00:28:47.000Now, hopefully, you're not actually wife and when he goes up because if your wife wants to go up, then you're in trouble.
00:28:53.000No, nonetheless, though, uh, this is where I say every girl has a price, whether it's price of admission, which is monetary, or price of security, with the right guy.
00:29:05.000Because if you can pay the bills and be a provider, she might choose him.
00:29:08.000So we'll get into Rumble itself and get more detail because it's kind of you know, not safe for YouTube.
00:29:24.000You can read this chat while I'm going to be able to do that.
00:29:26.000Alright, we'll do this chat real quick.
00:29:27.000Uh, we got Kai the Great says, What's good, FNF?
00:29:29.000I'm 22, you're barber out in Canada, working every day to build, coming from homelessness to room meeting in an apartment, no car.
00:29:36.000What do you guys recommend me to do next?
00:29:38.000So you were uh 22, you're a barber, you're homeless to a room with an apartment, no car.
00:29:47.000So if you're a barber, right bro, uh, your time is money.
00:29:50.000Because each person you cut is gonna add to your wealth, um, one by one.
00:29:54.000But you want to maximize that as much as possible.
00:29:56.000So, what you could do is on your weekdays, whenever you work your actual barbershop job, if you do work in a barbershop, you're gonna have to go ahead and obviously plug that out.
00:30:04.000But you need to mark yourself online as well.
00:30:06.000So my barber way does this he'll cut people's hair, and then if they have a good job about it, they'll say, you know what?
00:30:10.000Uh you might me tag you in a post on Instagram.
00:30:13.000He'll do that constantly each and every single time.
00:30:15.000Now, mind you, other than that, he does house calls.
00:30:18.000So his current job, he's locked in his company with the barbicting, but on the side, he does house calls.
00:30:24.000So let's say for example, someone's busy can't come into the shop today.
00:30:27.000I'm I'll cut you out after work at like 7 p.m.
00:30:29.000So from eight to like I think five you works his regular job at the barbershop, and then from there from like seven to like maybe like 10 p.m.
00:30:37.000He's on house calls, which means he's working his job at one point, and then as well, side gigs after work, plus promoting it on social media, Instagram, TikTok, and all the like because he's getting more traffic that way as well.
00:30:51.000And again, you can give celebrities free cuts.
00:30:54.000However, however, this can be tricky because I got friends that did this in the past and they got shafted.
00:31:01.000So you need to be promised a post and either a video to say, hey, haircut by so and so, because if you do it for free and they just walk off, you're you're cooked, bro.
00:33:08.000And usually these fights happen because of money.
00:33:11.000Whether it's you can't pay for something that she wants or maybe a trip she wants to go on and you can't go on, or because you're at work and you're busy.
00:33:19.000And the funny part is that like, let's say you do take time for her and you give her what she wants.
00:33:24.000Eventually, if that's always the case, she'll probably leave as well and get bored.
00:33:28.000So this is where I say, like, man, like honestly, fellas, like, this behavior is terrible.
00:33:34.000I mean, the full video is fucking disgusting.
00:33:36.000But this is where you gotta say, listen, girlfriend like this could hold me back.
00:33:40.000And the funny part is it may start off good.
00:36:48.000Because Kakucci, nice titties, who knows.
00:36:51.000But I guarantee you, if he left her, or never had her at the very beginning, anyway, he bet he better he'd be better on life because at least he'd be free to focus on what's important to him and have more flexibility to do what he wants.
00:37:02.000But this, your whole support's helpable.
00:37:28.000Basically, it's uh every woman is transactional pretty much nowadays.
00:37:33.000So uh we spoke about different states, different different cities, of course, how people uh can move back and forth, so no one's really safe.
00:38:37.000Which is over by then, but at that point, it's it's it's fine.
00:38:41.000She goes to Miami with her friends, she pulls up to this guy's penthouse, they get some drinks, they go for dinner, they go to club, and before you know it, she meets one of his friends, and it's over.
00:38:55.000And people say, Oh, but fresh, bro, this is what happened to me in my state.
00:38:59.000Well, how dare you too far off because bro, at this point, you never know how things happen.
00:42:42.000And guarantee you is if it's just like you, it's maybe four of the other guys doing the same thing.
00:42:47.000So the point is that like giving a woman up front something for you know tr transactional love, does a benefit in the long run because that just means you're just another number to her, and any guy can do the same thing.
00:42:58.000Which is why you gotta say you gotta have some game because without gain, fellas, even with money, you're still stuck because you're still another number.
00:43:15.000If you stop whatever reason, she's gone.
00:43:17.000So to me, it's not worth it because at that point, what's the point of even doing it?
00:43:21.000Because she didn't leave it at some point anyway.
00:43:23.000So transactional women, fellas, nowadays are red flag because that right there is a is an L because no matter what you do, you start paying her, you don't know what she wants, she goes somewhere else in a heartbeat.
00:43:32.000And that just means you're another number to her at that point.
00:43:34.000So nonetheless, fellas, that's the L in itself, and that's the number four as well.
00:43:39.000Uh number four is gonna be, let's see here.
00:44:11.000Let her go because she wants to go s to somebody else at that point.
00:44:14.000Because mentally for a woman, if she breaks up with you before uh you're ready, it means because she found somebody else for the most part.
00:44:27.000I'm gonna give up on life and just do what I do what I gotta do, which means commit suicide.
00:44:32.000Which is terrible by the way, but that's an L because that means that she won.
00:44:36.000You know what's the best thing to do, fellas, if you get broken a win to actually beat her in this this same game, get success.
00:44:42.000That's gonna make her feel like shit, because when you win in life, fellas, they want to win too with you as well.
00:44:47.000Now, mind you, once she leaves you, she's on to somebody else, which is fine, but focus on yourself, hit the gym, make some money, become better, and watch as time passes, how you become more confident in yourself, become more sure of yourself.
00:45:02.000And I it's funny, but nowadays it's social media.
00:45:05.000It's Instagram, TikTok, it's also um as well, um, Snapchat.
00:45:09.000Miami means that that that she can see you in real life after the facts.
00:45:13.000And I know people here in Miami especially that were down and out at the very beginning.
00:45:17.000They worked on themselves, got into business, did pretty well.
00:45:20.000And I know the girlfriends from the past.
00:45:22.000They were out on the boat with them all the time, they broke up, now they're onto somebody else.
00:46:35.000Yeah, so uh that that's a funny funny uh video with obviously Aiden Ross, but the fact is, fellas, once she leaves you, fellas, it's on to somebody else.
00:46:43.000Either it's a friend, close to her or friend, um, a guy in her DMs, or just guy she knows from maybe the gym, maybe from work, you don't know who it is.
00:46:51.000But the point is, your success is gonna make them feel like shit.
00:48:11.000So all I have was how I made them feel with going out, having a good time, you know, the vibe, so to speak.
00:48:17.000And that was basically me, just me, me being being myself, funny, whatever, a little bit goofy, but having for him to say, you know what, I'm gonna plan a date.
00:48:25.000I'm gonna set it up where like I know what's fun for me, I know what I like, she's a plus one.
00:48:58.000You might have got her a gift, but like she was with somebody else.
00:49:01.000Versus experiences they don't forget, which is why a guy that has like a girlfriend where he left her, he can go back anytime.
00:49:08.000Because the experience that she left the guy with was good because she didn't end it, he ended it on his terms, which means she did she was happy or satisfied to leave at that point, so it's still his frame for that interaction.
00:49:19.000So she might find a boyfriend, husband, but if he texts and says, hey, pull up on me or where you at, she might actually go because that experience you have with the guy is one of our best experiences possible.
00:49:29.000That's what they say, also like Alpha Widow because is because the Alpha is still there, even though she's not there as well.
00:49:35.000So in essence, fellas, um, what I'm saying here is that women remember what you how to meet in the field versus what you give them.
00:49:40.000Um should be another video there as well.
00:52:09.000I'll go with her because it's my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to make I need to make her happy.
00:52:14.000That'll make her happy for the moment, but long term, let's say you need to get a raise for your job or upgrade, you put her first in that scenario.
00:52:25.000You didn't get your extra like credits, whatever.
00:52:27.000And now you're stuck there at that point at a level of um, you know, your job.
00:52:31.000Which means you can't plateau because you didn't do what you have to do at the very beginning to get to get to where you want to go.
00:52:36.000And she's gonna be like, Yeah, like I want to go travel, I want to do things certain things because you know, why not?
00:52:40.000But because your job, you're limited to what you can do.
00:52:42.000So, in essence, you put yourself first.
00:52:44.000You worked on your certs, you upgraded your lifestyle, for example, for from your job um point of view, you and you and then you did better.