Fresh & Fit - 5 Ways To Stop Her From Flaking On Dates

00:00:00.000 That props woman up, pedestalizes them, and tells them that they deserve the world, no matter how they behave, no matter how they look, no matter what their background is, no matter their skill set, whatever. 1.00

00:00:09.000 Every single girl is pretty much told that they deserve the world.

00:00:12.000 Okay?

00:00:13.000 And then when they don't get the world, they're on fucking TikTok crying in their car, saying, Why can't I find a guy?

00:00:18.000 Because they thought that they deserved their prince charming simply for existing.

00:00:22.000 Now, this feminism and this pernicious fucking lifestyle of women thinking that they're equal to you has bled over into the dating marketplace. 1.00

00:00:33.000 Now, I'm sure many of you guys are here in this chat, right, and found us because of some type of frustration that you had with women.

00:00:40.000 Whether it was you got flaked on dates, you couldn't even secure dates, women don't respond, women don't treat you with respect, you haven't been late in many months or years.

00:00:48.000 We're all here for different reasons.

00:00:50.000 Maybe a bad breakup.

00:00:51.000 So, no one, as Fresh said earlier, is impervious to this.

00:00:54.000 Whether you have millions of dollars or no dollars, everyone has to deal with female hypergamy at their level to some degree, right? 1.00

00:01:00.000 And we all deal with the same problems.

00:01:03.000 So, since women have the ultimate choice and they have a lot of options, what ends up happening is they kind of play the field. 1.00

00:01:10.000 And as they play the field, they're waiting for something better.

00:01:13.000 As they're waiting for something better, a lot of the times that's going to manifest itself by you being flaked on.

00:01:19.000 And this is probably one of the biggest problems in the red pill.

00:01:24.000 I would argue that this is one of the reasons why dating channels in general are a thing for men.

00:01:29.000 I would argue that the flake epidemic has only gotten worse and it's going to continue to get worse as technology improves and as women become more and more equal to men.

00:01:38.000 And at some point, they are going to overtake us and make more than us, guys.

00:01:41.000 Make no mistake about it.

00:01:41.000 They're already starting to make money, more money than men in a lot of cities in America.

00:01:45.000 Still coming over the next 20 years or so.

00:01:47.000 Be prepared to see a large amount of women be breadwinners in relationships and be able to take care of themselves. 0.58

00:01:54.000 And how that's going to manifest itself outwardly is they're not going to want a guy on their level or they're just going to only deal with the top-tier guys, right?

00:02:02.000 So, in other words, the rich will get richer and the poor will get poorer.

00:02:05.000 The top-tier guys are going to have all the women, the lower-level guys, more average guys are going to struggle. 0.86

00:02:09.000 And a lot of you guys have problems with women showing up on dates and flaking.

00:02:14.000 And this is a very serious problem whether you're in the United States.

00:02:16.000 Any Western country where feminism is prominent to a degree, you are going to deal with fucking flakes. 1.00

00:02:23.000 And I would argue that this is the root cause of most guys' problems with women. 0.99

00:02:28.000 Because there are guys out there, no matter how shy they are, whatever, they'll talk to a girl, they'll try to entertain a girl, they'll try to get her out on a date, but she doesn't show up.

00:02:35.000 She doesn't respond to text messages, she doesn't, she's not interested.

00:02:38.000 Low interest, right?

00:02:40.000 Um, and the reason why they have this low interest is because they have so many goddamn options.

00:02:43.000 I don't think you guys understand the amount of options and maneuverability a female has in the dating marketplace compared to you. 0.99

00:02:51.000 A top-tier dude, a celebrity, has less reach than an average woman. 1.00

00:02:57.000 Now, I say this all the time, but I really need you guys to get this into your brains.

00:03:01.000 The girl next door to you that you thought was cute, right?

00:03:05.000 That's 21 years old, 22 years old, whatever the fuck, that has a following of maybe 200 people on Instagram, has more social pull than some of the top YouTubers that are men.

00:03:18.000 Just to give you guys an idea of where you stand in the hierarchy of things, yes?

00:03:22.000 Yeah, special announcement, Marion.

00:03:26.000 Once again, you've been vindicated.

00:03:28.000 Sam, Frank, and Neon have broken up after two years of dating.

00:03:36.000 And they said you're misogynist.

00:03:39.000 So, yeah, definitely it came true to fruition, and they're broken up.

00:03:45.000 Real quick, so you mentioned before internet.

00:03:48.000 And she's an entertainer. 0.88

00:03:49.000 I warned him.

00:03:49.000 I told him, bro.

00:03:50.000 Yeah.

00:03:50.000 Never date a girl that's an entertainer or a streamer, bro.

00:03:53.000 And I guarantee you, since you quit her OnlyFans, what's coming back?

00:03:56.000 Her OnlyFans.

00:03:58.000 Oh, yeah.

00:03:58.000 I guarantee you.

00:03:59.000 So she went from to religion back to OnlyFans.

00:04:04.000 You got to go back.

00:04:06.000 But just out to your point, real quick, about why flaking is a thing now.

00:04:10.000 So five years ago, people laughed at me and said, Fresh, you're crazy, bro.

00:04:14.000 Instagram isn't that serious.

00:04:15.000 It's not a dating app.

00:04:16.000 Relax, bro.

00:04:18.000 Fast forward.

00:04:19.000 Everyone and their mother is using Instagram for dating.

00:04:22.000 My friends, your friends, celebrities.

00:04:25.000 Now, moving into this flaking topic now, bring in DMs.

00:04:29.000 Bro, I can't Tell you how many girls I've met and you've met that say, Hey, yeah, look who's DMing me.

00:04:35.000 Tiger, Usher, da-da-da-da-da.

00:04:37.000 And I'm like, Nigga, you, you are six at best.

00:04:40.000 But guess what?

00:04:41.000 Access is available.

00:04:43.000 So you're competing with celebrities, guys, guys that have money, business guys, guys that were putting the trick every single day.

00:04:49.000 Oh, yeah.

00:04:50.000 So when she flakes on, you say, bro, I thought she liked me.

00:04:53.000 She might have, but her opportunity is so great and so immense that, I mean, quite frankly, bro, you can't keep up.

00:05:00.000 So your only possible solution, just to get this like a preface, is to become the best version of yourself.

00:05:08.000 Whatever that means for you.

00:05:09.000 And even then, you might still get flaked on it.

00:05:11.000 That's another thing.

00:05:11.000 I didn't even, I forgot about that.

00:05:13.000 Like, besides the technology stifling your opportunities, the other thing that's stifling a lot of you guys is rich dudes pay to play.

00:05:21.000 Yeah.

00:05:22.000 Okay, guys?

00:05:22.000 Oh, boy.

00:05:24.000 Rich dudes pay to play. 0.99

00:05:27.000 And there's a multitude of different reasons for this, right?

00:05:29.000 Besides the emergence of the Me Too era, discretion, not dealing with headaches later on.

00:05:36.000 Maybe they're in a relationship and they're married.

00:05:38.000 So all these rich dudes, bro, what?

00:05:42.000 I would say 95% of them pay to play.

00:05:45.000 Yeah.

00:05:46.000 It's funny.

00:05:47.000 I make the joke all the time, like, I'm going to one day do it.

00:05:49.000 I can't do it.

00:05:50.000 But I got friends, as you know, they literally target people's wives, bro.

00:05:56.000 It's scummy.

00:05:57.000 I can't think of anybody here in Miami that we know that doesn't pay to play.

00:06:00.000 Yeah.

00:06:01.000 It's hard to get away.

00:06:01.000 Everybody pays to play here, bro.

00:06:02.000 Yeah.

00:06:02.000 And you know, the scary part?

00:06:04.000 Some of them are married.

00:06:05.000 Oh, yeah.

00:06:06.000 Well, that's why they have to pay to play. 0.99

00:06:08.000 Yeah.

00:06:08.000 It's quite literally why they're.

00:06:09.000 Hush, hush, quiet.

00:06:10.000 Don't talk about nothing.

00:06:11.000 I'll pay you.

00:06:12.000 Boom.

00:06:12.000 Done.

00:06:13.000 And that's what that's what works.

00:06:14.000 So the DNA game is definitely rigged, and competition is fierce.

00:06:17.000 So flaking guys is never going away.

00:06:19.000 Sorry to say.

00:06:20.000 You can minimize it, but it's just part of the game.

00:06:22.000 Yeah, it's going to get worse and worse and worse.

00:06:24.000 You guys got to understand, bro, that like it's just, this is just the beginning.

00:06:28.000 It's only going to get worse from this point forward.

00:06:30.000 As technology gets better, we have more interconnectivity with each other as social media and influencers continue to be the rising, I guess, litmus tests of influence.

00:06:43.000 Like that, this is, it's only going to get worse here.

00:06:46.000 Another thing for you guys, too.

00:06:47.000 These girls are all on social media.

00:06:49.000 That's fact.

00:06:49.000 Keep tripping.

00:06:50.000 Yeah, you're right.

00:06:51.000 We all pay for it, but it's how you do it, bro.

00:06:53.000 There's one thing that's a transaction and one thing we're experiencing with the girl herself as a plus one.

00:06:58.000 Two different things, bro.

00:06:59.000 When we say pay to play, guys, let me be explicit.

00:07:03.000 Yeah, some niggas here clearly don't have critical thinking skills. 1.00

00:07:08.000 And I'm amazed.

00:07:09.000 Well, I guess it's been a while since we've discussed this, so niggas are retarded. 1.00

00:07:12.000 When we say pay to play, guys, when we say pay to play, we're talking about the explicit exchange of currency for sexual activity.

00:07:23.000 I'm going to say that again.

00:07:24.000 When we say pay to play, we are talking about the explicit currency exchange for sexual activity.

00:07:33.000 Okay?

00:07:34.000 Now, I know what you're saying.

00:07:35.000 We all pay to a degree.

00:07:37.000 You are correct.

00:07:38.000 You are absolutely correct.

00:07:40.000 But when we're referring to pay to play, we are talking about the hiring of escorts, prostitutes, whatever it is.

00:07:47.000 What I'm telling you is guys that have money engage in that.

00:07:50.000 Yes.

00:07:50.000 Bitch shows up, smashes them.

00:07:53.000 There's nothing to discuss.

00:07:54.000 She leaves.

00:07:54.000 And he gives her money.

00:07:55.000 Yep.

00:07:56.000 No date, no nothing.

00:07:58.000 She just leaves.

00:07:59.000 So that's what I'm talking about when we say pay to play.

00:08:02.000 Also, going on dates is not paying for box, by the way.

00:08:04.000 Yeah.

00:08:05.000 You idiots.

00:08:06.000 Courting is not paying for box.

00:08:08.000 I don't know if these niggas are retarded, but that is common sense. 1.00

00:08:10.000 Again, paying a transaction fee to Smash, that's paying for box.

00:08:15.000 But going on a date that you want to go on, her to plus one is not paying for box videos. 0.92

00:08:20.000 I mean, is it common sense, bro?

00:08:22.000 Yeah, I mean, yeah.

00:08:23.000 Pay to guys, a shock that we have.

00:08:25.000 Again, it's a refresher, so I can't even be mad at y'all.

00:08:27.000 Yeah, yeah, right.

00:08:28.000 Because some of you guys might be like, well, everybody pays.

00:08:30.000 Yeah, bro.

00:08:30.000 We know that.

00:08:31.000 But we're talking about the explicit exchange of currency for sexual activity.

00:08:35.000 We are not fans of that.

00:08:37.000 But that is a very popular.

00:08:40.000 And to be honest with you, the route most guys that have money go, which I don't even knock them at this point.

00:08:45.000 Like, what the fuck happened to Shannon Sharp and all these other rich guys, bro?

00:08:48.000 Yeah.

00:08:48.000 Like, bruh, you know, when you pay chicks, like, they're going to be way less inclined to fucking come after you with some bullshit because you'd be like, hey, what, what?

00:08:56.000 I agree with you.

00:08:57.000 What's this cash app?

00:08:58.000 Shut up. 0.95

00:08:58.000 Yeah. 0.95

00:08:59.000 Because that's your clause to say, what'd you say, bitch? 1.00

00:08:59.000 Exactly. 1.00

00:09:02.000 Yeah.

00:09:03.000 Oh, that's right.

00:09:03.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:04.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:04.000 I paid your ass.

00:09:05.000 so, but, but now, and her coming out, isn't it funny that she's going to probably be more ashamed that she got paid on cash app than being a liar?

00:09:13.000 Because that's no more shame anyway.

00:09:13.000 Exactly.

00:09:14.000 Yeah, that does hurt girls. 1.00

00:09:16.000 That's going to fuck them up.

00:09:17.000 That's the one thing a girl would not want to reveal about herself. 0.99

00:09:20.000 She makes it look really bad.

00:09:20.000 Yeah.

00:09:23.000 That just goes to show you the priorities.

00:09:24.000 Like, she would rather, like, she won't come out when you pay her because basically you got receipts that she's basically a prostitute. 1.00

00:09:32.000 But she'll go ahead if you don't pay her and just drag your name through the mud and make herself look like a vindictive chick if you didn't pay her. 1.00

00:09:39.000 I'll do one even better.

00:09:41.000 Even porn stars and prostitutes, you know what they do? 1.00

00:09:43.000 They put an email.

00:09:44.000 They don't say, I get paid for boxes.

00:09:46.000 They just put an email.

00:09:47.000 Book me.

00:09:48.000 They don't say, oh, they don't say pay me here.

00:09:51.000 They just say, book me through this email.

00:09:53.000 Because they don't want to look that obvious.

00:09:55.000 But it's obvious to us because we know the game.

00:09:57.000 But oh, yeah, you want to see me book me here.

00:09:57.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:09:59.000 What does that mean?

00:10:01.000 So, yeah, it is what it is, fellas.

00:10:01.000 Yeah.

00:10:03.000 But a part of the game is flaking.

00:10:04.000 That's just how it is, fellas.

00:10:05.000 Yeah.

00:10:06.000 But it is what it is.

00:10:07.000 It's inherent.

00:10:08.000 It's an inherent part of modern dating, and it's only going to get worse.

00:10:12.000 So that's why we did this episode because we understand a lot of you guys suffer from this bullshit.

00:10:16.000 A lot of you guys are annoyed with it.

00:10:17.000 I know it's frustrating.

00:10:18.000 So we're going to give you guys five ways to mitigate it.

00:10:22.000 Now, as with everything we teach you guys, nothing is foolproof.

00:10:25.000 Okay.

00:10:26.000 Women are women. 1.00

00:10:27.000 Dating is dating.

00:10:27.000 Hypergamy is hypergamy.

00:10:29.000 So nothing we ever tell you guys is going to be 100% foolproof.

00:10:34.000 All we can do is give you guys the best practices so you don't end up like a fool.

00:10:39.000 Yep.

00:10:39.000 And you can mitigate a lot of the problems that inherently come with dealing with women, modern women in the modern dating landscape, where quite frankly, they have all the leverage and you have almost no leverage.

00:10:49.000 Even as a top-tier guy, attractive, tall, money, et cetera.

00:10:53.000 You know what that does?

00:10:54.000 That just makes it where it's somewhat equal.

00:10:57.000 Yeah.

00:10:57.000 That's what it is.

00:10:58.000 Like, and this is why we're so big on self-improvement with you guys.

00:11:02.000 Because we understand that, okay, just to go into this a little bit more.

00:11:06.000 Most of you motherfuckers, let's be honest.

00:11:08.000 Some of you niggas right now watching this show, you guys are maybe with a girl that you got by the skin of your teeth, right? 1.00

00:11:12.000 Or you're talking to a girl right now that doesn't like you.

00:11:14.000 Most of you guys enter relationships like this.

00:11:17.000 You are here.

00:11:18.000 She's here.

00:11:19.000 Okay.

00:11:20.000 She has low interest and you're working your way up to increase interest, right?

00:11:24.000 But most of you guys, when you deal with women, you guys start at a fucking disparity.

00:11:28.000 Now, here's the thing: you can absolutely meet a girl that's low interest, use charisma, charm, game, multiple dates, and bring that interest up, right?

00:11:37.000 And grind. 0.99

00:11:38.000 You can do that.

00:11:40.000 But understand that that's a pain in the ass.

00:11:43.000 And quite frankly, I think it's better for you instead of taking that time to get this low interest girl up. 0.98

00:11:48.000 Why don't you just self-improve so you start at a closer level, right?

00:11:53.000 Because if you start a disparity, you can get her, but it's going to be very frustrating and very fucking annoying.

00:11:59.000 She's going to be miserable. 0.84

00:12:01.000 But if you start at a higher level, you have to, you put it this way.

00:12:05.000 It's either you work hard now so you don't have to work as hard later, or go ahead, be 25 years old, still be a bum, right? 0.97

00:12:16.000 And go get with girls and not have to work now, but you're going to have to work harder up front. 0.82

00:12:22.000 Sorry, you're going to have to work harder on the back end to get to keep her. 1.00

00:12:26.000 I think it's better to just self-improve and hit the dating marketplace assembled versus trying to assemble yourself as you're dating a chick.

00:12:33.000 Yeah.

00:12:34.000 You're going to say something?

00:12:35.000 No, I was going to say, I got a story about that.

00:12:36.000 I'll do it on Zoom call.

00:12:38.000 All right.

00:12:38.000 You ready for the five points?

00:12:39.000 Because, yeah, we got outdoors after this.

00:12:41.000 Yeah.

00:12:41.000 All right, guys.

00:12:41.000 So number one on the list.

00:12:42.000 Well, number five, counting down.

00:12:44.000 Oh, okay.

00:12:44.000 Yeah.

00:12:45.000 Countdown.

00:12:45.000 Yeah.

00:12:46.000 So, guys, it's going to go from order of least important to most important.

00:12:50.000 We're going to count down the top five.

00:12:51.000 So you guys got the monologue.

00:12:53.000 You guys understand how the fuck we got here and the problem.

00:12:57.000 So now we're going to get into number five of how to mitigate the flaking, which is going to be FaceTime calls.

00:13:06.000 So usually speaking, other way.

00:13:11.000 Bruh.

00:13:11.000 Nigga, is he?

00:13:12.000 Nigga, this way. 1.00

00:13:13.000 No, no, no.

00:13:14.000 You're supposed to count down from five to one.

00:13:16.000 Remember?

00:13:16.000 No, but this is last.

00:13:17.000 Because it's the most insignificant.

00:13:18.000 We do it live.

00:13:19.000 We do it live.

00:13:20.000 This one.

00:13:22.000 Double.

00:13:23.000 Remember?

00:13:23.000 No, but you start with that and then work your way up.

00:13:26.000 All right, you start it.

00:13:26.000 You start it.

00:13:27.000 This guy.

00:13:28.000 You started, bro.

00:13:29.000 All right.

00:13:29.000 We'll get into that next one.

00:13:30.000 We got it.

00:13:31.000 But number five, guys, on the list is going to be double booking.

00:13:34.000 Okay?

00:13:34.000 What do we mean by double booking?

00:13:36.000 We mean as in set up a date with multiple girls, okay?

00:13:41.000 With multiple chicks.

00:13:42.000 Maybe it's two, maybe it's three.

00:13:44.000 And there's a bunch of reasons for this.

00:13:45.000 The reason why you're doing that is because, number one, when you have multiple dates set up, you're going to be less thirsty.

00:13:53.000 You're going to naturally have an abundance mindset.

00:13:55.000 Okay?

00:13:55.000 Women naturally have an abundance mindset.

00:13:57.000 Men need to create their abundance mindset. 0.99

00:13:58.000 With men, you need to cultivate that abundance mindset by having options. 0.50

00:14:02.000 Okay?

00:14:02.000 Women naturally have options.

00:14:04.000 Women naturally don't feel thirsty towards men because they can walk outside and get attention anytime. 0.99

00:14:10.000 I need you guys to be able to personify that trait of I am not going to be thirsty with the opposite gender, right? 1.00

00:14:17.000 I'll give you guys an example of what I mean by this, right?

00:14:19.000 Because I know we got a lot of new viewers here.

00:14:21.000 Or a fresher for some of you niggas. 1.00

00:14:24.000 Let's imagine in a dream scenario that you're a guy.

00:14:31.000 You're a guy and you have three girlfriends.

00:14:33.000 Okay?

00:14:34.000 A black chick, a white chick, an Asian chick, right? 0.99

00:14:38.000 And then maybe a Latina, four girlfriends, right?

00:14:40.000 And they all basically have different things that you like, right?

00:14:46.000 You have an assortment.

00:14:47.000 And these girls are always by your side. 0.68

00:14:49.000 One cooks, one cleans, another one fucking, you know, takes care of your shit, whatever, right?

00:14:56.000 These four women basically are your chicks all the time. 1.00

00:14:58.000 Now, I want to ask you guys a question.

00:15:00.000 When you're on Tinder, or when you're on Bumble, or when you're on SA, or when you're on any of these dating apps, right?

00:15:04.000 Or when you're out on a date with a girl, if a woman disrespected you and you had four girls at home that were all bad of different colors and types, would you tolerate bad behavior from women? 0.81

00:15:15.000 Let's see what you guys say in the chat.

00:15:17.000 You go on a date, she flakes, she's rude, she's rambunctious, any of this other stuff. 0.99

00:15:22.000 Would you guys tolerate that from this girl you just met if you have four girls at home?

00:15:26.000 See what the chat says.

00:15:27.000 Yes or no?

00:15:35.000 Look at that, bro.

00:15:37.000 No's awesome.

00:15:46.000 I see a whole bunch of no's. 0.98

00:15:48.000 All right.

00:15:50.000 This, my friends, is the mindset you need to have all the time.

00:15:53.000 And just so you guys know, this is how women feel all the time. 0.99

00:15:56.000 That not give a fuck a dude of you having four girls and some woman treating you poorly and you saying, fuck this bitch, that is precisely how women feel about men. 1.00

00:16:05.000 Now, imagine having that post-nut clarity 24-7.

00:16:09.000 You'd be fucking unstoppable, wouldn't you?

00:16:11.000 Right?

00:16:12.000 Monster.

00:16:12.000 But since men have this insatiable thirst to always smash girls, right?

00:16:18.000 A lot of times guys think with this head instead of this head.

00:16:20.000 And it puts you in very precarious situations.

00:16:23.000 So what I need you guys to do is be in a position where you feel like you got four girlfriends so you don't have to tolerate fuckery from women. 0.97

00:16:32.000 Okay?

00:16:33.000 That abundance mindset.

00:16:34.000 Okay.

00:16:35.000 That's where you guys need to be as much as you can be.

00:16:38.000 Now, that's why it goes to point number five.

00:16:42.000 Double book and have other dates.

00:16:43.000 So number one, you don't come off as thirsty.

00:16:45.000 Number two, if she flakes, you have a contingency.

00:16:49.000 And then number three, it gives you a bit more peace of mind.

00:16:52.000 So that like if a girl does flake, which it will fucking happen, by the way, get ready. 1.00

00:16:57.000 You have a backup or backups.

00:17:00.000 And when you have this abundance mindset and you have backups, that's going to show when you interact with her.

00:17:06.000 You're not going to come off as thirsty.

00:17:08.000 You're not going to come off as desperate.

00:17:09.000 You're not going to come off as outcome dependent.

00:17:11.000 You're going to be outcome independent.

00:17:14.000 Basically, you kind of go and deal with a girl from a position of take it or fucking leave it. 0.51

00:17:19.000 But a lot of you guys are like, no, no, no, please, please.

00:17:22.000 And with women, unfortunately, as much as they try to sit there and say, I want a guy that's going to pursue me and all this, they don't, bro. 0.99

00:17:28.000 They really don't.

00:17:29.000 They want a guy that's indifferent to them, that doesn't think that they're special, doesn't blow smoke up their ass. 0.59

00:17:34.000 Because you got to remember, guys, that for the average girl, ever since she's been hitting puberty, she's got male attention and validation for nothing more than existing.

00:17:43.000 You cannot be like every other guy.

00:17:46.000 So again, you know, Bruce Lee says, be like water, my friend.

00:17:51.000 I'm telling you guys, be like womanizer, my friend. 1.00

00:17:54.000 Have four girls.

00:17:55.000 Pretend you need to envision that you got four bad chicks with you at all times.

00:17:59.000 And then Ask yourself, would you tolerate this behavior from this woman that you're talking to if you had four bad chicks? 0.94

00:18:08.000 The answer most of the time is going to be a profound fucking no.

00:18:11.000 That's where you guys need to be when it comes to mind state and dealing with women. 0.98

00:18:15.000 Posting out clarity 24-7.

00:18:19.000 Well said, I want you to imagine a day where you planned a date.

00:18:25.000 You went from work, home, you made phone calls, reservations.

00:18:29.000 You planned a whole date in 10-20 minutes.

00:18:33.000 And then the girl that you're going on date with an hour early says, hey, I can't make it. 0.96

00:18:37.000 My cat died.

00:18:39.000 You'd be like, what the fuck?

00:18:39.000 How would you feel?

00:18:40.000 Like, I just spent this time planning this date.

00:18:43.000 I'm horny as hell.

00:18:44.000 I can't even get to the date to smash.

00:18:47.000 So obviously, you're going to feel like shit.

00:18:49.000 Now, double booking keeps you safe, secure, and insured.

00:18:53.000 If you felt like you've bought insurance and you didn't get your money's worth, here's your chance.

00:18:58.000 You can book multiple dates.

00:18:59.000 It's not that hard, by the way.

00:19:00.000 All you need is a source to source girls, which is Instagram, as you guys have known in the course, or dating apps, but of course, in-person works as well.

00:19:09.000 That source should give you at least three to five to ten women you can ask on a date. 1.00

00:19:14.000 Out of that 10, three or four may say yes, and out of three or four, two might come through.

00:19:20.000 Either way, you want multiple.

00:19:22.000 Now, once this feeling is in your head and you know what can happen, you have the security and insurance there.

00:19:28.000 And this is why, listen, that first time that I got flaked on, nigga, that shit was terrible. 0.99

00:19:32.000 I'll never forget it.

00:19:33.000 That was that was, you know what?

00:19:35.000 All right, she got me.

00:19:36.000 I'm not mad.

00:19:37.000 She got me.

00:19:37.000 Cool.

00:19:38.000 I understand what's happening here.

00:19:39.000 I wasn't the best option.

00:19:41.000 Happens all every single day.

00:19:41.000 It is what it is.

00:19:44.000 However, after that, I was insured to the max.

00:19:47.000 And with car insurance, bro, you barely use it.

00:19:50.000 But double booking insurance shit comes in handy every fucking week.

00:19:54.000 So as your boy would say, man, don't hate the player, hate the game.

00:19:58.000 And if you got insurance for the game, you're going to win no matter what.

00:20:00.000 So listen, guys, double booking is essential.

00:20:03.000 It is a big part of dating.

00:20:05.000 And if you don't do it, it's your loss.

00:20:07.000 And again, if you want to do a claim on your insurance, well, another girl. 0.98

00:20:12.000 If you don't claim insurance, you're shut out of luck.

00:20:14.000 But double booking, guys, keeps you safe.

00:20:17.000 And at the end of the day, fellas, it is what it is.

00:20:19.000 Most girls have options, and you're just another number to her. 1.00

00:20:23.000 Until she meets you, she sees your swagger.

00:20:25.000 She sees what you got going on, how you are as a person, you know, your game, so to speak, and your frame.

00:20:30.000 Once she sees that, all right, this dude's worth me being around.

00:20:34.000 Got you.

00:20:35.000 But until then, there's another guy she's talking to, and that could lead to flaking.

00:20:39.000 So double book so you don't get messed up and you got insured for your date.

00:20:42.000 That's pretty much it.

00:20:45.000 Yeah, you guys.

00:20:46.000 And again, guys, you got to operate with that mindset when you deal with women, man. 1.00

00:20:49.000 So double booking, you know, it's very simple.

00:20:52.000 Three is two, two is one, one is none.

00:20:55.000 You guys got to have that mindset, man.

00:20:57.000 And the thing is, is that this mindset is, you won't even notice it, but you're going to feel less thirsty.

00:21:02.000 That's just, and women can feel it. 1.00

00:21:04.000 That's the thing, too.

00:21:05.000 Women are extremely receptive to communication. 1.00

00:21:08.000 So if you come off thirsty, even though you might not feel it or you don't think you came off thirsty, she'll be able to detect it for sure.

00:21:14.000 So very important that you guys understand this.

00:21:16.000 Also, don't get mad if she flakes, bro.

00:21:18.000 It's what it is.

00:21:18.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:21:20.000 Bro, yeah.

00:21:20.000 Look, man, I know you guys are tempted to say, you stupid fucking bitch, like, blah, blah, blah.

00:21:25.000 Look, bro, trust me.

00:21:25.000 Yeah.

00:21:26.000 Nigga, I get mad at these girls too, bro. 1.00

00:21:28.000 But like, sending them an angry, rage-filled voice note or text is not worth it, bro.

00:21:32.000 Just like, just fucking block her, delete her number. 0.98

00:21:36.000 I'm glad I didn't go on that date.

00:21:37.000 Yeah, bro.

00:21:38.000 Now I see why I should have went on a date.

00:21:39.000 Yeah.

00:21:39.000 All she got to do is going to just justify all you're doing is like justifying her stupid ass decision.

00:21:44.000 Yep.

00:21:44.000 When you do that, bro.

00:21:45.000 So like there's no point sending an angry message.

00:21:48.000 I know a lot of y'all will anyway, but just understand that like when you do that, she's going to be like, I made the right decision.

00:21:53.000 You know what I mean?

00:21:54.000 Yep.

00:21:55.000 So it is what it is.

00:21:56.000 Number four, plan in detail for success.

00:22:00.000 So usually speaking, let's say you get a girl to go on a date with you.

00:22:03.000 You pretty much just maybe say, hey, you want to get coffee?

00:22:07.000 Hey, you want to do this or that?

00:22:08.000 And that's it.

00:22:09.000 There's no actual A to Z. You're pretty much saying, okay, let's go on a date.

00:22:12.000 I'll figure shit out on a date.

00:22:14.000 However, that's not how life works.

00:22:16.000 You have to plan to succeed and make things happen.

00:22:19.000 Now, obviously speaking, if you know to plan a date, you're in good luck.

00:22:23.000 Most people don't know the plan dates.

00:22:24.000 So let's go through it step by step.

00:22:26.000 Step A, have a plan to either meet her somewhere, her meet you, or translation so you guys can meet at the same place.

00:22:34.000 Whether it's Uber, have your car.

00:22:36.000 That's plan A. Plan B is to have an actual location where you can, so to speak, get to know her a little bit better, whether it's coffee, a slight snack, maybe some drinks at a bar.

00:22:47.000 That's ideal.

00:22:48.000 And then plan C is to have another spot in mind that can either help you close the date faster or at that point move to the next stage, which is to your crib or to a spot to smash.

00:22:59.000 That's how things should work.

00:23:00.000 Now, usually they just do plan A, maybe plan B, and that's it.

00:23:04.000 Now, once you got full planning intact, your confidence is going to go up because now you know, okay, I go maybe to this lounge spot, this bar spot, this is my crib.

00:23:14.000 All right, I got in my head what's going to happen here.

00:23:16.000 Cool.

00:23:17.000 And again, you don't force it, of course, but you're planning the date.

00:23:20.000 You're the one paying, so it's natural.

00:23:22.000 And at this point, you plan in detailed the date and you can move forward with confidence knowing this is what it is.

00:23:26.000 She may say, Oh, I heard about this restaurant called Komodo down the street.

00:23:30.000 Can we go there?

00:23:30.000 Nah, I got you.

00:23:31.000 We're going to go over here, just dress, semi-casual or casual.

00:23:34.000 Don't tell her where you're going.

00:23:35.000 Like, tell her how to dress for it and make it like kind of exciting because girls love shit like that. 1.00

00:23:38.000 Exactly.

00:23:39.000 And she will test you.

00:23:40.000 Just say, oh, you know what?

00:23:42.000 I heard about this spot on Instagram and TikTok.

00:23:44.000 It's fancy.

00:23:44.000 Can we go over here?

00:23:45.000 You're like, oh, yeah, let's go over there, babe.

00:23:47.000 No planning, nothing.

00:23:49.000 It's just following her lead.

00:23:50.000 You're getting lost, nigga. 1.00

00:23:51.000 It's over.

00:23:51.000 You're following her frame.

00:23:52.000 That's a big red flag if she's like trying to get you to go to an expensive restaurant on the first date, bro. 1.00

00:23:56.000 Like, that's like, you know, the way you deal with that is you say, oh, no, don't worry.

00:24:00.000 I got a better plan.

00:24:02.000 Right.

00:24:03.000 And I got something in mind.

00:24:04.000 And then you just like take her somewhere else and don't tell her.

00:24:08.000 Just tell her how to dress, whatever.

00:24:09.000 But like, don't never follow her.

00:24:11.000 If she says, I want to go to Komodo, bro.

00:24:13.000 Hell, I've told you all this before.

00:24:15.000 I don't give a fuck if you wanted to go to Komodo.

00:24:17.000 Now you got to change it.

00:24:19.000 Like if you actually want to go to Komodo, then she suggests it.

00:24:21.000 Bro, it is so important that you have to go somewhere else now.

00:24:24.000 Yeah, I agree.

00:24:25.000 Because you can't even let her think that she's running shit.

00:24:28.000 Now, what you can do is later on when she's cool and she's proved her worth.

00:24:31.000 Yeah.

00:24:32.000 Yeah.

00:24:32.000 You can't take her there.

00:24:33.000 But the first day, no.

00:24:34.000 Yeah.

00:24:34.000 So that's very important.

00:24:36.000 And then another thing, too, I get this question all the time.

00:24:38.000 Myron, should I cover Ubers?

00:24:39.000 So look, guys, right, when it comes to this, because this is like a contested topic.

00:24:43.000 When it comes to planning dates, your job as the man is to remove all fucking obstacles.

00:24:48.000 Women are going to have reservations. 1.00

00:24:48.000 Okay. 1.00

00:24:50.000 They're going to have obstacles.

00:24:51.000 They're going to have concerns, whatever the fuck it may be.

00:24:53.000 Your job as the man is to make everything as smooth as possible.

00:24:57.000 So if that means, like she says, oh, can I get a ride or some shit like that?

00:25:01.000 Just get her the fucking Uber, bro. 1.00

00:25:02.000 Just get it.

00:25:03.000 And honestly, if you can't afford it, I don't know why y'all niggas are dating bitches anyway. 1.00

00:25:06.000 From me all the way a thousand here.

00:25:09.000 Because your job is to mitigate the problems.

00:25:11.000 Remember, guys, we're telling you guys how to get in a situation where you can get this date from the beginning all the way to the end.

00:25:17.000 And if something like a fucking Uber is holding you back, bro, I don't know.

00:25:21.000 I'll go out to bucks to do this.

00:25:23.000 Nigga, you just need to stay home. 1.00

00:25:25.000 But, Myron, you're wrong.

00:25:27.000 No Uber is paying for box, bro.

00:25:29.000 What's wrong with you?

00:25:30.000 How dare you pay for box?

00:25:32.000 Uber?

00:25:32.000 Nah, bro.

00:25:33.000 You're not RPO.

00:25:34.000 Weird.

00:25:35.000 Now, here's my thing when it comes to women, right? 1.00

00:25:38.000 This is my thing when it comes to women, guys. 1.00

00:25:41.000 I tell you guys this all the time.

00:25:44.000 Reciprocation is good.

00:25:46.000 But when you're not getting reciprocation, that's when you run into problems.

00:25:50.000 Okay?

00:25:50.000 So if a girl's going out of her way to come to you, you should have cover the Uber.

00:25:54.000 She's getting dressed for you, all this other shit.

00:25:54.000 She's getting ready.

00:25:56.000 And she's coming to you.

00:25:58.000 Because the other way is this.

00:25:59.000 The other option is you guys go to her.

00:26:01.000 We know what's going to happen if you go there.

00:26:04.000 Oh, it's going to be trouble.

00:26:06.000 And you might end up like trouble.

00:26:08.000 Yeah.

00:26:08.000 Going to her.

00:26:10.000 I would rather cover an Uber, have her come to me where I control everything than go to her where the fuck she's at. 1.00

00:26:17.000 Could be ex-boyfriend.

00:26:19.000 Yeah.

00:26:19.000 Not even that.

00:26:21.000 Because when you go to her place, number one, you're not familiar with the area.

00:26:23.000 You don't have a setup.

00:26:24.000 We tell you guys, half the game when it comes to dealing with females is logistics. 1.00

00:26:28.000 So you're bringing her to you because you already have the plan set up.

00:26:31.000 But if you go over there, you put yourself at a serious fucking disadvantage, especially if you're trying to get a first day late.

00:26:35.000 We talk about this in the first day late blueprint.

00:26:37.000 So, guys, getting Uber for the chick to come so you control all the variables, that's the way to go.

00:26:43.000 And it shows good traits about you as well.

00:26:45.000 So you're a gentleman, shows that you are, you know, you could take dominance.

00:26:52.000 You can be assertive, et cetera.

00:26:53.000 You can lead.

00:26:54.000 These are very small ways.

00:26:55.000 Now, there's a very big difference between asserting dominance and showing That you're a gentleman from being a fucking simp.

00:27:02.000 Remember, she's coming to you, which means since she's coming to you and she's willing to follow you, you reward that positive behavior.

00:27:08.000 Okay?

00:27:10.000 Always remember, guys, that when it comes to dealing with women, right? 1.00

00:27:15.000 I don't want to, whatever.

00:27:16.000 Fuck it.

00:27:17.000 Like, you have to positively reinforce good behavior while negatively reinforcing others.

00:27:23.000 So if she says some bullshit, you check her.

00:27:26.000 But if she does what she's supposed to do, you reward that.

00:27:28.000 Right?

00:27:29.000 So she's taking time out to come to you.

00:27:32.000 Right?

00:27:33.000 Especially if she's from far.

00:27:34.000 Some of these chicks, like, well, like, if you live in a major city, a lot of your six will be like an hour away and shit like that. 1.00

00:27:37.000 Yeah.

00:27:38.000 Like, she's coming to you, bro.

00:27:39.000 Cover the fucking Uber, bro.

00:27:41.000 And for you niggas that sit there and say, oh, bro, oh, I don't got no money, blah, blah, bro. 1.00

00:27:45.000 You need to be focusing on something else instead of girls. 0.98

00:27:47.000 Then facts.

00:27:48.000 You got your priorities all fucked up.

00:27:49.000 You heard about Uber nigga? 1.00

00:27:50.000 You should get a job first.

00:27:50.000 Yeah.

00:27:52.000 That's bad.

00:27:53.000 So I'm a big proponent of removing fucking obstacles.

00:27:57.000 Especially obstacles that are small like that that could derail everything.

00:28:00.000 All right.

00:28:01.000 So that's my take on it.

00:28:03.000 Good point.

00:28:04.000 But again, if she's a chick that don't fuck with you, or she don't like you like that, or she's been a pain in the ass, no, then don't do it, obviously. 1.00

00:28:11.000 You want to do that for girls that are submissive, compliant, don't give you a headache, right? 0.99

00:28:15.000 They're eager to meet up.

00:28:16.000 Cool.

00:28:17.000 You reward that positively.

00:28:18.000 But if you've been talking to a chick, bro, for like three months, nigga, and she don't, you know, she's not, she doesn't show interest. 1.00

00:28:24.000 She's a pain in the ass. 1.00

00:28:25.000 She makes things difficult.

00:28:26.000 Then nah, fuck that.

00:28:27.000 Don't do it.

00:28:29.000 But you don't want to go ahead and negatively reinforce good behavior from a chick that's doing what she's supposed to do and reciprocating.

00:28:35.000 Facts.

00:28:36.000 Also, for the advanced bros that know the game, you can go to Shorty's crib.

00:28:40.000 However, most people should not be doing that.

00:28:42.000 But for advanced bros, they know what's up.

00:28:44.000 Yeah.

00:28:44.000 All right.

00:28:44.000 Number three.

00:28:45.000 Yeah, that's advanced.

00:28:47.000 We keep it nice and simple for you guys.

00:28:49.000 We tell you, I'll always have her come to you because realistically speaking, a lot of you guys are not going to be able to properly navigate if you go to her spot.

00:28:57.000 And then also, there's a whole bunch of other problems that can arise.

00:29:00.000 So, yeah.

00:29:01.000 A little bit dangerous.

00:29:02.000 All right.

00:29:02.000 Number three, control your mental state to have the best mindset moving forward.

00:29:07.000 All it means is, fellas, is like when you get a girl to greet a date, things happen.

00:29:13.000 And no matter who you are, you can't control somebody with their actions.

00:29:17.000 They're going to do what they want to do, regardless of how you feel, how you've acted, what you've done.

00:29:22.000 Now, at the same time, if you understand that, you won't get upset or mad if she flakes.

00:29:28.000 And this is why life is so good.

00:29:30.000 Because if you don't get mad and you're a cool guy, guess what happens?

00:29:34.000 You can either do this in one of two ways.

00:29:37.000 You could flex for the rebound or stay cool and calm and then get her back to the smash later on. 1.00

00:29:44.000 What does this mean?

00:29:45.000 All I'm saying is, you can literally turn this around in your favor and she will come back to you.

00:29:50.000 This happens all the time.

00:29:51.000 A girl will get a better opportunity. 1.00

00:29:52.000 Maybe a yacht party, Chris Bomb party.

00:29:54.000 I don't know.

00:29:55.000 Tiger pulled up.

00:29:56.000 Things happen.

00:29:56.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:29:57.000 Like, it is what it is.

00:29:58.000 You can't control those variables.

00:30:01.000 However, you can control how you react to it and move forward.

00:30:04.000 So this is what I used to do, right?

00:30:06.000 And I kind of do it now, but more or less, this way easier.

00:30:09.000 I would sit there and say, okay, no problem.

00:30:12.000 Cool.

00:30:13.000 I leave it there.

00:30:14.000 But then I will go out with another girl that same night.

00:30:18.000 I post on my Instagram.

00:30:19.000 And she's like, wait a minute.

00:30:20.000 That was like fun.

00:30:21.000 She'll heart it and say, where was this?

00:30:24.000 Ah, I won't respond until the next day, by the way.

00:30:26.000 But I'm with a chick. 1.00

00:30:27.000 I've had a great time.

00:30:28.000 Great old time.

00:30:29.000 I'm still on the date that I want to go on.

00:30:31.000 It's a different chick.

00:30:33.000 I'll spawn the next day and say, oh, yeah, it was this spot.

00:30:35.000 You should have pulled up.

00:30:37.000 And I, bro, this happens all the time.

00:30:39.000 She'd be like, okay, I'm free tonight.

00:30:41.000 Where are you going tonight?

00:30:43.000 So now the ball's in my court.

00:30:45.000 And I control everything from the jump.

00:30:48.000 Of course, you know what happens, bro.

00:30:49.000 We go out, things happen.

00:30:51.000 What do you do when you get that?

00:30:52.000 Like, do you take her somewhere not as good to punish her?

00:30:55.000 Or like, what do you do?

00:30:57.000 Well, the thing with me is that I get free spots to go to.

00:31:01.000 So regardless of the fact, wherever it's free for me, I'm going to go.

00:31:04.000 But at the same, for you guys watching, you want to take care of the spot that, like you said before, not as investment worthy and more of a subtle chill spot.

00:31:12.000 So it won't be like a nice spot.

00:31:14.000 It'll be like a hole in the wall or something that's just chill that you can just talk to or whatever.

00:31:17.000 Because she kind of feels the first test.

00:31:19.000 But if it's a good reason why she didn't come, I get it.

00:31:21.000 But even then, just take it to a chill spot.

00:31:23.000 Yeah.

00:31:24.000 Most of the time, it's bullshit, guys.

00:31:25.000 Nine out of ten times when she flakes, her cat dies.

00:31:28.000 It's some BS.

00:31:28.000 Her mom is.

00:31:29.000 The only time I would say it's legitimate is if like she apologizes and she immediately says, Can you do tomorrow?

00:31:36.000 or can you do this?

00:31:37.000 Or, like, she gives you a day.

00:31:39.000 Yeah, she offers to openly, whether it be reschedule or I'm so sorry, I'll cover dinner or some bullshit like that.

00:31:46.000 Like, if she makes a sincere and earnest move to make it up to you, fine, right?

00:31:53.000 But let's be honest here.

00:31:53.000 Most of these chicks don't.

00:31:55.000 They'll just flake and just like.

00:31:57.000 And the point is, once the ball is in your court, your dick is in her mouth. 1.00

00:32:02.000 Yes, sir.

00:32:02.000 Done.

00:32:03.000 Because now, bro, it's all no, I'm just saying.

00:32:06.000 Because the ball's in your court, the dick is in her mouth. 1.00

00:32:08.000 Because now you got her.

00:32:09.000 Oh, I want to come to this spot.

00:32:11.000 Hey, meet me here.

00:32:19.000 On to the next.

00:32:20.000 And you've missed out on some fun activities and kicking her into the streets.

00:32:24.000 But again, that's an advanced technique, though, using Instagram like that.

00:32:27.000 Yeah, this is where you got to use common sense.

00:32:31.000 Common sense gang.

00:32:32.000 Shut up to all niggas, man. 1.00

00:32:33.000 But no, guys, it's simple.

00:32:35.000 Don't get mad.

00:32:36.000 Control your mental state and use common sense to move forward to get what you want.

00:32:40.000 And trust me, bro.

00:32:41.000 Nigga, we all are annoyed by these bimbos. 1.00

00:32:43.000 Trust me, bro.

00:32:44.000 Like, nigga, there's no one more frustrated with them than us. 1.00

00:32:48.000 We get it.

00:32:49.000 That listen, it's a pain in the ass to deal with them, but.

00:32:52.000 Listen, looking like me, bro, you got to be smart, bro.

00:32:55.000 Listen, listen, I've been through the ringer, bro.

00:32:56.000 Oh, frustrated this and that.

00:32:58.000 Listen, nigga, I know this. 1.00

00:32:59.000 But I used it to my advantage because now I've mastered all the skills.

00:33:02.000 I have the gauntlet of Thanos.

00:33:03.000 I mastered this shit, bro.

00:33:05.000 It's not that hard for me.

00:33:06.000 It's very easy for me right now.

00:33:07.000 But for you guys watching, I got a tips for you, brother.

00:33:10.000 From the very jump, which is zero to 100, real quick.

00:33:10.000 I've been through it.

00:33:14.000 All right.

00:33:15.000 Number two.

00:33:17.000 Oh, no.

00:33:18.000 Three.

00:33:19.000 Chats real quick. 1.00

00:33:19.000 Oh, yeah, we can read chats. 1.00

00:33:20.000 Yeah, chats.

00:33:21.000 Hold on.

00:33:22.000 Because someone donated from the very beginning.

00:33:24.000 I forgot his name.

00:33:25.000 Stormtrooper.

00:33:26.000 Shout out to him.

00:33:26.000 I think it was him.

00:33:28.000 But not, fellas.

00:33:29.000 Zoom call, by the way, after this?

00:33:30.000 Yes.

00:33:30.000 Promo code free.

00:33:31.000 We're going to do a Zoom call after this after these next two things.

00:33:34.000 Guys, by the way, the promo code is for $1.

00:33:36.000 You're going to pay $1 for the first month.

00:33:38.000 Yep.

00:33:39.000 And it's basically free because you're getting the Zoom call, all the access for $1 to the end of the month.

00:33:44.000 Yep.

00:33:45.000 That's a fucking steal.

00:33:46.000 Fucking huge steal.

00:33:47.000 So there you go, fellas.

00:33:48.000 Jump in there while you still can.

00:33:50.000 All right.

00:33:51.000 And then, okay, we got Bets Styth 03 says, I have two side chicks. 1.00

00:33:56.000 They both tell me stories about how guys always try to simp on them by buying them gold bracelets and offering them to pay their bills.

00:34:03.000 Bro, I feel way worse than that.

00:34:05.000 I smashed both on our first meetups, and all I put down was dominoes and I hop and bring asshole vibes, as you should.

00:34:12.000 Y'all definitely taught me that nice guy shit does not work like an F, bro.

00:34:16.000 You can be nice and still be in frame at the same time.

00:34:21.000 But again, being an asshole does work.

00:34:23.000 Yeah, I mean, bro, unfortunately, it's not the 1950s, man.

00:34:27.000 So it's like you get punished for being a nice guy most of the time.

00:34:30.000 Are there some women out there that are going to appreciate it and reciprocate? 1.00

00:34:32.000 Some, yeah.

00:34:32.000 Of course.

00:34:33.000 But unfortunately, it's just not a good modus apprendi for 2025 with the way women are now. 1.00

00:34:40.000 Unfortunately, bro.

00:34:42.000 It's what it is.

00:34:42.000 Yeah, being a gentleman no longer goes, it's no longer appreciated by a majority of women, unfortunately.

00:34:47.000 By the way, this was from White Carrot.

00:34:49.000 Shout out to Adam from White Carrot.

00:34:51.000 This is a crazy pendant.

00:34:52.000 It's a sword fighting all the I don't want to say, but we're fighting a good fight with this sword.

00:34:58.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:35:00.000 All right.

00:35:00.000 Okay, move forward.

00:35:02.000 Raid.

00:35:03.000 If you're not 12 feet with 24 pack and you're not a trillionaire, I want to be a stepdad for five kids.

00:35:08.000 You don't qualify.

00:35:09.000 To her five kids.

00:35:10.000 Yeah.

00:35:11.000 That's the new requirements.

00:35:13.000 L. Benjamin Netten.

00:35:16.000 Benjamin Nanyahu.

00:35:17.000 You're fresh.

00:35:18.000 Where would you take a three out of ten mid-girl that you don't want to get seen in public, but still want to sell her the dream justice mash. 1.00

00:35:25.000 Well, for you, nigga, you got to sell her. 1.00

00:35:27.000 You can't go outside.

00:35:28.000 They want you dead.

00:35:28.000 Until you got an arrest warrant.

00:35:29.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:35:30.000 Bro, nigga, you got the best excuse. 1.00

00:35:32.000 I got you, bro.

00:35:34.000 Yo, yeah, I got you, nigga. 1.00

00:35:36.000 Yo, bills.

00:35:37.000 This is the three out of 10 toothed special.

00:35:40.000 He wants the sauce on this, right?

00:35:42.000 So listen, bro.

00:35:43.000 Bro, just say you wanted by the ICC, man.

00:35:45.000 I've been doing this for you.

00:35:46.000 You can't go outside.

00:35:47.000 Hold on.

00:35:47.000 I've been doing this for years, nigga.

00:35:48.000 When I was broke in the hood, nigga, I was eating threes and fours like it was Skittles. 0.97

00:35:54.000 All right, bro.

00:35:55.000 So this is what you do, right, bro?

00:35:57.000 You got to find your spot hole in the wall.

00:35:59.000 Not a regular one, a hole in the fucking wall where nobody goes.

00:36:02.000 It's a cheap fucking bar, $2 drinks, happy hours, fucking almost a dollar for margaritas.

00:36:08.000 You go to that spot.

00:36:09.000 You tell them, listen, babe, I've been thinking, you know, you're a little bit overweight, but I'll eat the cake.

00:36:16.000 I'm just kidding.

00:36:17.000 But no, all those aside, guys, you got to go to a spot that's really far, hole in the wall.

00:36:22.000 People know you there.

00:36:23.000 Like, you meet a bartender.

00:36:24.000 Listen, Tom, here's 10 bucks, nigga. 1.00

00:36:26.000 We walk in here, serve me quick, so get the fuck out of here. 0.98

00:36:28.000 Give her some drinks, make her happy. 1.00

00:36:30.000 Touch yo, put her hand on her thigh. 1.00

00:36:33.000 God damn, this shit big as fuck.

00:36:34.000 Yo, listen, bitch. 1.00

00:36:35.000 I love you.

00:36:38.000 Anyhow, make her feel good, bro.

00:36:40.000 Get some drinks.

00:36:40.000 Chop it up with her real quick.

00:36:42.000 Get the fuck out of there.

00:36:43.000 Back to the crib.

00:36:43.000 You're good.

00:36:44.000 Hole in the wall close to your crib that you know the bartender by name Tommy.

00:36:49.000 Get the fuck out of here, nigga. 1.00

00:36:51.000 And you go home.

00:36:51.000 Let's smash.

00:36:52.000 Simple.

00:36:53.000 And then back to work, nigga. 1.00

00:36:54.000 But again, threes and fours, bro, it's part of the game.

00:36:57.000 You gotta start somewhere.

00:36:58.000 And again, guys, hole in the fucking wall.

00:37:01.000 That's it.

00:37:02.000 That's it, bro.

00:37:03.000 That's it.

00:37:07.000 There we go.

00:37:09.000 All right.

00:37:11.000 Hands on the thighs real quick, nigga. 1.00

00:37:12.000 That shit big as hell.

00:37:14.000 All right, cool.

00:37:16.000 Mobies.

00:37:17.000 Hi, guys.

00:37:18.000 Thanks for inspiring men worldwide.

00:37:19.000 I'm from Norway.

00:37:20.000 And I've become the best version of myself.

00:37:22.000 Myron, any drinks aren't good for you.

00:37:24.000 Stay safe and happy five years, fresh and fit.

00:37:26.000 Shout out to your brother for supporting the show.

00:37:28.000 Five years running.

00:37:29.000 We're still going, bro.

00:37:30.000 Appreciate you, man.

00:37:34.000 Oh, also, guys, just so you know, we're going to start streaming exclusively on kick and rumble.

00:37:39.000 Yep.

00:37:39.000 Right, guys.

00:37:40.000 So, you know, this week, obviously, we're doing the segue, but get ready, guys, where we're going to start cutting the YouTube stream and going to Kick and Rumble.

00:37:48.000 And the show's going to be better because we'll finally be able to say what the fuck we want to say, bro.

00:37:51.000 And yeah, it just doesn't make sense to stream on YouTube like that anymore, bro.

00:37:56.000 It really doesn't.

00:37:57.000 For two years, man.

00:37:58.000 For free.

00:37:58.000 These niggas been robbing us, bro.

00:38:00.000 So, yeah, we're going to be streaming at least this show for the next couple months.

00:38:06.000 We'll be streaming on.

00:38:08.000 Maybe we'll make a return to YouTube in a few months.

00:38:09.000 Who knows?

00:38:10.000 But for now, you know, we're going to be doing a transition.

00:38:14.000 So y'all are going to start seeing us like, you know, do cut screens and all this other shit on YouTube.

00:38:19.000 We'll stay on so you guys know that we're on, but we'll probably be when you open it up, it'll be a fucking banner. 0.84

00:38:24.000 But you guys will be able to watch on either Rumble or on Kick.

00:38:28.000 And I think between those two platforms, every single one of you guys should be able to watch without problems.

00:38:32.000 Yeah.

00:38:32.000 Because I don't think Kik is banned anywhere, right?

00:38:35.000 No, I know.

00:38:36.000 I know France, Brazil, China, Rumble's banned.

00:38:40.000 I think Brazil overturned it, I think.

00:38:42.000 And Russia.

00:38:43.000 They're probably going to.

00:38:45.000 But it's fine.

00:38:46.000 But the point is, is that y'all will be able to.

00:38:47.000 Will you be on X?

00:38:49.000 Nah.

00:38:51.000 We still will be, but it's going to be mostly on Kick and Rumble.

00:38:55.000 Yeah, X don't do shit, though.

00:38:56.000 No, it doesn't.

00:38:57.000 Well, that's no, but I'm saying they'll be able to see us and know that we're live and they got to come over.

00:39:01.000 It'll be a banner screen.

00:39:02.000 Got you.

00:39:03.000 Gotcha.

00:39:03.000 All right.

00:39:03.000 So what we'll do, guys, is we'll be live 30, 40 minutes on YouTube, whatever the fuck.

00:39:09.000 And then we'll switch banners.

00:39:12.000 And then you guys will see that the stream is only going to be live on.

00:39:15.000 You'll see that we're live, but it'll only be able to be watchable on Kick and Rumble.

00:39:19.000 So that'll be where it's at.

00:39:22.000 There you go.

00:39:23.000 Demetrius Rap says, Hi Key, iPhone success picking up girls on the first time we meet because you catch a vibe with them in the car, crack the barrier of feeling each other out for the first time rather than cracking the barrier in a restaurant or whatever the first date is.

00:39:37.000 On top of that, I know Broward Mamami from the back of my hand, so I know where's the red flag when she sends me the location. 0.71

00:39:43.000 There you go.

00:39:44.000 See, you found a method that works for him in the car.

00:39:46.000 Not bad at all.

00:39:48.000 If it works, it works.

00:39:52.000 A DC badass says, Yo, Fresh, I met this chick and she called me a baby because I'm two years younger than her. 0.99

00:39:57.000 She was Stacy Dash, fine, but I got some crutches in my trunk for her next time I see her. 1.00

00:40:02.000 I mean, bro, age is just a number, bro, but at the same time, yeah, if you're younger than her, she might say you're a baby.

00:40:09.000 But that doesn't mean shit, bro.

00:40:10.000 Okay, I'm a baby.

00:40:11.000 But guess what I can do?

00:40:12.000 That's kind of PG.

00:40:17.000 Sorry, kind of R, rate of R. The point is, bro, it doesn't matter what she says, bro.

00:40:21.000 He can still smash.

00:40:21.000 No matter.

00:40:22.000 All right.

00:40:25.000 said added to last okay cool brian smith always remember donof sharp's tears acronym attention time energy time energy attention resources.

00:40:36.000 There you go.

00:40:37.000 Okay.

00:40:39.000 That's the last one.

00:40:41.000 Cool.

00:40:41.000 All right, guys.

00:40:42.000 Last two here on the list before we do the Zoom call.

00:40:45.000 Don't text a call too much because it'll mess up the actual date.

00:40:50.000 So, usually, what happens is, guys, you plan a date a week in advance.

00:40:54.000 You're excited.

00:40:55.000 Oh, yeah.

00:40:56.000 I'm going to leave her early.

00:40:57.000 This is going to be lit.

00:40:58.000 That's the AMS strategy.

00:40:59.000 I'm about to smash.

00:41:00.000 Yeah, wait a week.

00:41:01.000 Oh, man.

00:41:02.000 And then she's the whole time.

00:41:04.000 She's like, okay, this guy seems cool.

00:41:06.000 This seems like a good date.

00:41:07.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:41:08.000 What happens is you get overexcited.

00:41:10.000 You get very happy.

00:41:12.000 And you're texting her like, how's your morning?

00:41:15.000 Good morning, Queen.

00:41:16.000 How's your day?

00:41:17.000 Did you eat today?

00:41:18.000 Oh, send me some money for Uber.

00:41:20.000 Yeah, some of you niggas like to yap too much, bro. 1.00

00:41:22.000 Do it too much.

00:41:22.000 Stupid.

00:41:23.000 You become her pen pal.

00:41:24.000 Now she's looking at you like, nigga, you're a friend.

00:41:26.000 Why would I go on a date with you?

00:41:27.000 So you just turn her off by texting too much, calling too much.

00:41:30.000 The actual point of this is to plan a date with her, FaceTime call, and leave that.

00:41:35.000 I'm too familiar.

00:41:36.000 Exactly.

00:41:37.000 All the in-between.

00:41:38.000 Men love familiarity.

00:41:40.000 Women don't, bro. 1.00

00:41:41.000 You guys got to understand this shit.

00:41:42.000 Mystery is better.

00:41:42.000 Women hate familiarity.

00:41:44.000 We love it.

00:41:44.000 We're mundane.

00:41:45.000 We like to have a routine, do the same shit every day.

00:41:47.000 Men are simple.

00:41:48.000 Women aren't like that. 1.00

00:41:50.000 They like to be spontaneous and adventurous and not have a routine.

00:41:53.000 They don't like familiarity like we do.

00:41:56.000 Also, fellas, here's what you can do to create suspense, keep her engaged, and not talk to her every day.

00:42:04.000 Instagram, my friend.

00:42:05.000 This is a tool you can use for almost any temporary interaction with a girl to show high value and at the same time be discreet and not be as interfaced as you need to be.

00:42:15.000 Now, this is very simple.

00:42:16.000 Just post stories.

00:42:18.000 That's it.

00:42:19.000 Don't text her like, hey, post stories.

00:42:21.000 If she hearts it, that's cool.

00:42:23.000 She responds to it.

00:42:24.000 That's cool.

00:42:25.000 But the point is, fellas, texting her directly before the date, multiple times back and forth, calling her.

00:42:32.000 It's an L. Leave mystery up to what it does. 0.99

00:42:35.000 Plan the date.

00:42:36.000 Make concrete plans.

00:42:38.000 Plan in detail.

00:42:39.000 Hey, I'll pick you up at 8 p.m. on this day.

00:42:42.000 That's it.

00:42:43.000 And keep it brief, short, and to the point.

00:42:45.000 Anything else, fellas?

00:42:47.000 You might fuck it up.

00:42:48.000 Oh, I saw on your page that you like flowers.

00:42:52.000 I'll bring you some.

00:42:55.000 You don't think it's a stop.

00:42:56.000 Bro, the more you talk, the more you fuck yourself up.

00:42:58.000 Yeah.

00:42:58.000 Like, another thing.

00:43:01.000 Again, refresher.

00:43:02.000 You guys got to understand that when women are talking to you, they're looking for something to disqualify you. 0.93

00:43:07.000 Anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of womanese. 1.00

00:43:10.000 Like, they're going to go ahead and look for any little thing to disqualify you guys.

00:43:15.000 Remember, when you got a bunch of applications pending, a bunch of offers, you're going to go with the best one.

00:43:20.000 And if you can disqualify people to kind of rationalize in your head, you made the right decision, they will.

00:43:25.000 So the less you talk, the better.

00:43:27.000 And we're going to talk about how to appropriately do that in the next step.

00:43:30.000 But guys, limit interaction, especially texting.

00:43:33.000 Some of you motherfuckers want to say, good morning, Texas shit. 0.89

00:43:35.000 Bro, don't do that.

00:43:39.000 Another thing, a lot of you guys like to take like the AMS strategy.

00:43:42.000 Wait a week or whatever and contact her.

00:43:43.000 Bro, that shit is not going to work in 2025, bro.

00:43:45.000 Nigga, she gone. 1.00

00:43:45.000 Look, I like AMS. 1.00

00:43:46.000 You guys know, you know, we rock with him.

00:43:49.000 But in modern day society, the way women are now, bro, TikTok brain, bro. 1.00

00:43:54.000 You could barely get these girls' attention for 40 seconds. 1.00

00:43:56.000 Yeah.

00:43:56.000 You think you're about seven days?

00:43:58.000 Nigga, hell no. 1.00

00:44:00.000 Seven days?

00:44:01.000 She'll be like, who's this?

00:44:02.000 Yeah.

00:44:02.000 Who the fuck is this?

00:44:03.000 Especially with the amount of contact that they began on the internet, bro.

00:44:06.000 You got to make shit happen that day within, bro.

00:44:09.000 Honestly, it's like the first 48 hours with solving a murder investigation.

00:44:13.000 If you meet a girl and you don't make something happen within the first 48 hours, the likelihood of you making something happen are slim to none at that point.

00:44:22.000 It's cooked.

00:44:23.000 Nigga, I want it the same day. 1.00

00:44:24.000 I'm hungry.

00:44:25.000 Yeah, bro.

00:44:25.000 Like, you got to make moves right then and there.

00:44:27.000 You got to strike while the iron's out because women have too many goddamn options, bro. 1.00

00:44:30.000 The smartphone, unfortunately for you guys, was the worst invention ever when it came to men and dating in the sexual marketplace.

00:44:37.000 Great for them, terrible for you.

00:44:39.000 Yeah, and absolutely terrible for you.

00:44:41.000 And Instagram.

00:44:42.000 Yeah.

00:44:42.000 But good for us, though.

00:44:44.000 All right.

00:44:44.000 And now, if you know what you're doing, you can set yourself ahead of most guys, but it's still an uphill battle.

00:44:52.000 Also, I still do Instagram reviews if you guys want on my channel or in Zoom calls.

00:44:56.000 If you guys want that, I got you guys.

00:44:58.000 And then number one, FaceTime call.

00:45:01.000 This one here, man, is the triumphant action that will get you what you need and set you up for a good foundation on a date.

00:45:09.000 This right here is the number one thing you can do to secure and minimize flaking.

00:45:15.000 Now, how you do this is important because you can do this a number of ways, but the most simple, concise way is this: you say, listen, hey, I want to talk to you on FaceTime.

00:45:28.000 When are you free?

00:45:29.000 Or you say, hey, are you free for FaceTime?

00:45:31.000 However, you want to word it.

00:45:32.000 Free on FaceTime.

00:45:33.000 It needs to be in there in a concise way.

00:45:36.000 She's going to say, oh, I'm at work right now.

00:45:37.000 I'm free at like 8 p.m.

00:45:39.000 Boom.

00:45:39.000 Call her 8 p.m.

00:45:41.000 You, the call should be no longer than 15 to 20 minutes.

00:45:45.000 Past that, you're having a fucking conversation that's too long, and you're now pen pals or friends. 0.57

00:45:50.000 Going over the limit is just unnecessary and dumb.

00:45:53.000 And that calls predominantly for her to hear your voice, make sure you're not a weirdo, right?

00:45:58.000 And also for her to kind of gain a little bit of safety and trust because that 15 minutes that you talk to her, guys, is the equivalent of like spending hours texting.

00:46:06.000 You basically cut the fucking wait time down and you build a lot more trust much quicker and it's more natural.

00:46:06.000 Yes.

00:46:12.000 So that's why we advocate for FaceTime calls.

00:46:14.000 And also you can kind of see what her buying temperature is at that point.

00:46:17.000 Like, hell, maybe she might not be interesting on the call or maybe she's like low interest. 1.00

00:46:21.000 I tell you guys personally, it's not worth it to go out with low interest girls.

00:46:24.000 Some of you guys still do it.

00:46:25.000 Low interest girls is a pain in the ass. 1.00

00:46:25.000 I don't like it. 1.00

00:46:27.000 It's not worth the work.

00:46:28.000 But for some of you guys, you know, if she has low interest, you might be able to increase it during that call.

00:46:33.000 Now, if you're a pro, you can do it in five minutes, 10 minutes, seven minutes.

00:46:37.000 But if you need longer, that's fine.

00:46:39.000 We get it.

00:46:40.000 Now, precaution here.

00:46:42.000 You should be in a well-lit room, in a fucking dark room, saying, Hey, baby, what you up to?

00:46:47.000 Nigga, what the fuck are you? 1.00

00:46:49.000 You weirdo ass niggas will call her from the darkness of your bed, bro. 1.00

00:46:52.000 Bro, don't do that.

00:46:54.000 What's up, Shorty?

00:46:56.000 She can't even see you.

00:46:56.000 Bruh.

00:46:57.000 Yeah.

00:46:58.000 Anyhow, you guys are kind of weird.

00:47:00.000 But the point is, have a well-lit room.

00:47:02.000 Hopefully, you got a haircut and you're looking shabby.

00:47:05.000 And please, for the love of God, bro, do not call her in the toilet.

00:47:08.000 Bro, I don't know what's wrong, niggas. 1.00

00:47:09.000 Niggas be in toilet late. 1.00

00:47:11.000 What's up?

00:47:13.000 Can you hear me?

00:47:14.000 Nigga, she don't want to see you. 1.00

00:47:16.000 You're in the fucking toilet.

00:47:17.000 Please, stop that shit.

00:47:19.000 I've heard stories, brother, by the way.

00:47:19.000 All right.

00:47:20.000 I've heard stories.

00:47:22.000 So listen, fellas, this is very important.

00:47:24.000 FaceTime call.

00:47:26.000 If you're a normie doing this and you have no experience, it could be 10 minutes to 15 minutes plus.

00:47:32.000 Now, on the call, it's very simple.

00:47:34.000 You're not going to over ask, over-deliver.

00:47:37.000 You're feeling the vibe out.

00:47:39.000 Get it, the vibe, but answer questions.

00:47:41.000 And you're in control here.

00:47:43.000 So, what do you like to do for fun?

00:47:45.000 I'm just curious.

00:47:46.000 She's going to say, hey, I like to go maybe to, I don't know, go dance with my friends.

00:47:51.000 I like to go to the market.

00:47:53.000 Whatever it is, whatever the bullshit is, right?

00:47:55.000 And then from her answer, you're going to plan a date that's going to be fun, filled for yourself first, but for her second.

00:48:01.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:48:02.000 So you can kind of pick up what she likes to do from questions.

00:48:04.000 But the main thing is, guys, you're free screening her to see if she's cool, if you like her as well.

00:48:08.000 And then for the date.

00:48:10.000 Now, the closing is going to be basically, listen, you seem pretty cool.

00:48:13.000 I like your vibe.

00:48:14.000 I'm going to take you out.

00:48:15.000 When next are you free?

00:48:16.000 Friday, Saturday, Sunday, when are you free?

00:48:18.000 So you're going to say, oh, well, I'm free on Saturday after work at 9 p.m.

00:48:23.000 I'll pick you up at 9:30.

00:48:23.000 Cool.

00:48:26.000 Send me your address later on.

00:48:27.000 I got you.

00:48:28.000 And then close it there.

00:48:30.000 So you just plan the date.

00:48:32.000 You felt the vibe.

00:48:33.000 You screened her out.

00:48:34.000 So now she's cool.

00:48:36.000 You can take on her date.

00:48:37.000 It's planned.

00:48:38.000 Remember, fellas, this is only to plan the date, not to talk to her about her family, her life story.

00:48:44.000 That you can do maybe if you want to on the date.

00:48:46.000 But on the phone, bro, is the first encounter, FaceTime call, short, concise, and to the point.

00:48:50.000 Your goal is to plan logistics, show you're not a weirdo, show that you have good tonality.

00:48:54.000 You can command a presence when you speak and convey confidence.

00:48:58.000 That's what the purpose of this.

00:49:00.000 You're basically showing that you're not a fucking idiot and that you can go ahead and be somewhat competent when you speak and setting up logistics.

00:49:07.000 Now, for my niggas that flight chicks out, listen, bro, this is very important.

00:49:11.000 You need to do this FaceTime call because y'all niggas do flank chicks out. 1.00

00:49:14.000 He talked to the bitch one time in person. 1.00

00:49:16.000 You don't know how she is. 0.89

00:49:17.000 You're so fat.

00:49:18.000 She's on camera, nigga. 1.00

00:49:19.000 None of that shit.

00:49:20.000 She comes in, catfish. 0.99

00:49:21.000 Oh, you spent money for a catfish, my nigga. 1.00

00:49:25.000 She's a fucking weirdo. 1.00

00:49:26.000 So calls are important for every traction after because even if flank chicks out, bro, you never know.

00:49:33.000 And I recommend you find her out, nigga, get a full, hey, let me see what you're wearing real quick. 1.00

00:49:38.000 Let me see your outfit.

00:49:39.000 Oh, this looks nice.

00:49:40.000 Because, nigga, you need to need to know the web, the whiff, the length, everything, nigga. 1.00

00:49:44.000 Because that shit could be a catfish.

00:49:46.000 But yeah, that's basically it for FaceTime calls, man.

00:49:48.000 Be careful, fellas.

00:49:49.000 It's out there, man.

00:49:49.000 I've seen it myself.

00:49:50.000 I'm sure you have to.

00:49:52.000 Catfish are real.

00:49:54.000 Yeah.

00:49:54.000 Yeah, that's another thing with the FaceTime call, also, is it kind of puts her on the spot too, which is good.

00:50:00.000 You want to put her on the spot, bro.

00:50:00.000 Yeah.

00:50:01.000 Because the thing is, is that with women, bro, they think that they look like their picture sometimes.

00:50:07.000 So when you kind of like say, hey, let's FaceTime call, you bring that bitch back to reality, bro. 1.00

00:50:10.000 They're going to say, oh, I didn't do my makeup yet.

00:50:13.000 I don't care.

00:50:13.000 I'm going to see what anyway.

00:50:15.000 Guys, she's going to have a lot of rebuttals. 0.99

00:50:17.000 She might stop doing it. 0.98

00:50:18.000 Just be funny with it and witty with it.

00:50:20.000 Oh, I'm not dressed yet.

00:50:22.000 Yeah, what do you got to hide?

00:50:23.000 Are you a murderer?

00:50:24.000 Like all the objections.

00:50:25.000 What I like to do is I like to flip it on them.

00:50:27.000 Like all the objections that women have on men about, are you a creep, blah, blah, blah.

00:50:31.000 You just reverse it on them.

00:50:34.000 You basically talk, you basically use the same exact objections they bring up.

00:50:37.000 And then they're going to be like, oh, shit.

00:50:39.000 And you know the funny part?

00:50:40.000 She's going to laugh and say, oh, you're right.

00:50:42.000 And then once she concedes to your rebuttals, you got her.

00:50:46.000 Got you, bitch. 1.00

00:50:47.000 But yeah, that's it, fellas.

00:50:48.000 Listen, it seems difficult, but it's simple.

00:50:51.000 These five things will reduce flaking.

00:50:53.000 So let's recap them.

00:50:54.000 There you go.

00:50:55.000 So coming down for number five.

00:50:57.000 Hey, guys, you got there while he's recapping.

00:50:59.000 Smash the fucking like button. 0.93

00:51:00.000 Zoom call after this.

00:51:01.000 Code is free.

00:51:02.000 We're going to answer your guys' dating questions.

00:51:04.000 It's been a minute since we've done a Zoom call.

00:51:05.000 Fresh has been gone for a few weeks, but we're going to start getting back on it the rest of this month.

00:51:09.000 And we're really going to start going hard.

00:51:11.000 We're going to bring back someathons this month and shit like that.

00:51:13.000 We're going to go do Timpool on Saturday.

00:51:15.000 Then it's fucking balls to wall with Fresh of Fitness.

00:51:17.000 We need a sub counter as well on the screen for Rumble for sure because that needs to go up. 0.76

00:51:22.000 About to go crazy.

00:51:23.000 All right.

00:51:26.000 Five to one.

00:51:26.000 List, right?

00:51:28.000 Here we go.

00:51:29.000 So guys, number five, double booking.

00:51:29.000 Yeah.

00:51:32.000 This right here is essential.

00:51:34.000 This is insurance for your date so you don't waste time and get irate.

00:51:39.000 And it keeps you from being thirsty.

00:51:41.000 Yes.

00:51:41.000 You want to be thirsty, fellas, because that's the worst that you can do to a girl.

00:51:45.000 He'll turn her off.

00:51:46.000 Yep.

00:51:46.000 Number four, plan in detail.

00:51:48.000 Guys, this is pretty simple.

00:51:49.000 You're the man you need to lead.

00:51:50.000 Set the frame.

00:51:51.000 Send the Ubers if you need to.

00:51:51.000 If you don't plan.

00:51:53.000 Had the date planned.

00:51:54.000 Control as many variables as you can so you don't end up with SOL.

00:51:58.000 If you don't plan to succeed, you plan to fail.

00:52:00.000 Number three, control mental state.

00:52:03.000 Fellas, you're the king of the castle. 0.98

00:52:05.000 If you're not in a good mental state, everything crumbles.

00:52:08.000 Now, for yourself.

00:52:09.000 She's just a woman, guys. 1.00

00:52:10.000 For you, from your point of view, remember, you're pink. 0.55

00:52:13.000 So if you don't control this date, bro, and your mental state, you lose everything.

00:52:17.000 Don't be nervous.

00:52:18.000 She's just a female. 1.00

00:52:19.000 Her shit stinks like yours. 1.00

00:52:20.000 Her breast stinks in the morning, too.

00:52:22.000 She's not special.

00:52:23.000 And quite frankly, she's probably dumber than you too.

00:52:25.000 So, guys, don't go in there thinking like, oh, my God, I got it.

00:52:29.000 Oh, I'm so nervous.

00:52:30.000 Bro, she ain't special, bro.

00:52:32.000 Knock her off the pedestal now. 1.00

00:52:33.000 Yep.

00:52:34.000 Number two, don't test and call too much because if you do that, you might turn her off.

00:52:39.000 A lot of you guys, fucking idiots. 0.95

00:52:40.000 You think it's beyond here, simping and shit, talking to her on the phone and going back and forth forever?

00:52:46.000 Bro, don't do that shit, man.

00:52:47.000 No FaceTime call.

00:52:49.000 There is a time and place for certain things to happen, but this is advanced only.

00:52:55.000 If you're talking to her and you guys have something going on, that's fine.

00:52:57.000 But we're talking about on the first encounter.

00:52:57.000 That's different.

00:52:59.000 Yes.

00:53:00.000 First encounter, you don't want to be too crazy.

00:53:02.000 Once you start developing race or whatever, and you guys communicate more, that's different.

00:53:05.000 But we're talking about upfront, guys.

00:53:08.000 Maintenance in a relationship is way different than attracting to attain the relationship.

00:53:13.000 Way different.

00:53:13.000 Yeah.

00:53:14.000 Completely different strategies.

00:53:16.000 Right?

00:53:16.000 Because if you're dealing with a girl and you're maintaining her, right, and you're with her, she's obviously done things to get in a position to get there in the first place.

00:53:23.000 So you're not going to treat her like a new girl.

00:53:25.000 She's going to get certain benefits for assuming you're not an idiot and you're not a simp. 1.00

00:53:30.000 She's passed compliance tests.

00:53:32.000 She's been submissive.

00:53:33.000 She's been behaving, doing what she needs to do.

00:53:35.000 Yeah, reward that well.

00:53:37.000 Because now you guys have something going on.

00:53:38.000 But up front, guys, no.

00:53:40.000 You got to be careful.

00:53:42.000 Yeah, indifference is your best friend.

00:53:44.000 If you're indifferent, you can win the game for sure.

00:53:46.000 And last one, FaceTime call.

00:53:48.000 So guys, this is where you meet the metal.

00:53:51.000 And this is where you get to set the phone.

00:53:52.000 This is where you kind of like put in action the date.

00:53:57.000 If this does not go through properly, you fucked it up. 0.96

00:54:00.000 Because if this is weird or you're not like on point, she's going to be like, oh, these guys are fucking weirdo.

00:54:04.000 And if you can't do FaceTime, at least do a phone call.

00:54:06.000 If you can't do FaceTime.

00:54:07.000 At least.

00:54:08.000 And another reason, too, guys, is because if she won't jump on the phone, she definitely ain't going to show up to meet you.

00:54:14.000 Yeah, bro.

00:54:16.000 So she's like, oh, she's coming.

00:54:18.000 We're just coming.

00:54:18.000 She's coming.

00:54:18.000 The best that can happen is she shows up.

00:54:21.000 The worst that can happen, you identify that she's low-interest and not even into you, and you don't waste your time.

00:54:25.000 Yeah.

00:54:26.000 That's true.

00:54:27.000 So that's the top five things you can do to reduce flaking.

00:54:29.000 Guys, we all go through it, bro.

00:54:31.000 Nobody's safe.

00:54:32.000 No one is safe, dude.

00:54:32.000 But double booking keeps you insured.

00:54:35.000 You guys think money and clout is going to help?

00:54:36.000 Bro, no.

00:54:38.000 It literally.

00:54:39.000 I'll give you an example.

00:54:40.000 We were doing the same bullshit.

00:54:41.000 We were at Now Beach Club in Marbella.

00:54:44.000 Tigers pulling up, right?

00:54:46.000 There's some girls at our table that came that came to chill with us, right?

00:54:49.000 Bro, you know what's funny about those girls? 1.00

00:54:51.000 They waited the entire time.

00:54:52.000 Tiger missed his first flight.

00:54:54.000 So he showed up late.

00:54:55.000 They waited there for Tiger to show up to go to his table.

00:54:59.000 Luckily, we had girls with us already, but like, imagine we were backing on those girls to chill with us after. 1.00

00:55:04.000 No, they're for Tyga.

00:55:06.000 So, fellas, you may be cool.

00:55:07.000 He may be a top dog in your community, but bigger talk dog pulls up.

00:55:12.000 You never know.

00:55:12.000 He might go away.

00:55:13.000 So, again, flaking guys is just part of the game, fellas.

00:55:16.000 It is.

00:55:16.000 Yeah.

00:55:17.000 It is a part of the game.

00:55:18.000 And the reason why we gave you guys all these steps is so that you guys don't sit there.

00:55:21.000 Because the worst scenario is you're sitting at the fucking bar waiting for her.

00:55:24.000 Yeah.

00:55:25.000 Bro, we've all been there.

00:55:27.000 I don't want another man to be in a situation like that where they show up to the fucking location.

00:55:31.000 They drove an hour to get there.

00:55:33.000 They got dressed.

00:55:34.000 They're sitting there with their fucking Vodaka soda.

00:55:36.000 Where is she?

00:55:36.000 She doesn't show up.

00:55:37.000 Bro, if you guys listen to what we're saying, number one, you ain't going to drive nowhere for an hour.

00:55:41.000 Number two, you're going to be in a position where you're not far from your house.

00:55:45.000 And then number three, you're not even going to show up or be at that venue because you did the work ahead of time.

00:55:50.000 But I can't tell you how many of you guys, because we've all been there, you show up thinking everything is good and she flakes.

00:55:56.000 And she texts you while you're there.

00:55:57.000 Oh, sorry, I won't make it.

00:55:58.000 Yeah.

00:55:58.000 We're trying to mitigate that so you never have to fucking experience that, guys.

00:56:01.000 Every guy here has felt it before.

00:56:02.000 And it's a fucking pit in your gun.

00:56:05.000 It sucks.

00:56:06.000 And I don't want none y'all to ever go through that.

00:56:07.000 So we give you guys these five steps so you never ever have to experience that again.

00:56:11.000 Because if you follow what we just said, guys, y'all are never going to be in that position.

00:56:14.000 100%.

00:56:15.000 Anyway, guys, we're going to move on over to Castle Club.

00:56:18.000 A lot of you guys want coaching.

00:56:20.000 Guys, just so you guys know, on OSS and then CS, Common Sense Gang, right?

00:56:27.000 There's no Zoom calls.

00:56:28.000 There's no Zoom calls on there.

00:56:29.000 There's no coaching on there.

00:56:30.000 That is strictly for Fresh and Fit Castle Club.

00:56:32.000 OSS is to combat the massage.

00:56:32.000 Content.

00:56:36.000 And then, you know, Common Sense Gang.

00:56:39.000 It's to navigate the world to Common Sense.

00:56:41.000 There you go.

00:56:42.000 So if you guys want the actual coaching, that is only on Castle Club, guys.

00:56:46.000 All right.

00:56:47.000 We don't do Zoom calls on those other services.

00:56:50.000 That's only for Castle Club.

00:56:51.000 Fresh and Fit.

00:56:52.000 Fresh of Fit is a self-improvement banner.

00:56:54.000 That is the underlying thing, right?

00:56:56.000 OSS is more politics and controversial shit like that.

00:57:01.000 And then obviously custom gang.

00:57:05.000 Finance, common sense, and moving as a group.

00:57:08.000 Not being stupid.

00:57:09.000 Exactly.

00:57:10.000 We got the quote as well in the last chat here.

00:57:13.000 The code is free, guys.

00:57:15.000 F-R-E-E, capital letters.

00:57:17.000 The next code is a dollar.

00:57:18.000 You have to jump into this thing.

00:57:21.000 Yeah, normally $35 a month.

00:57:21.000 First month.

00:57:22.000 So you get it for free the first month.

00:57:24.000 And from there, and we're going to be doing more Zoom calls this month.

00:57:26.000 So we're going to be doing, because like I said, we've been gone for a bit because Fresh is out of the country.

00:57:30.000 But now that Fresh is back, you guys are going to get a lot more of these Zoom calls.

00:57:33.000 Yep.

00:57:34.000 All right.

00:57:34.000 You guys ready?

00:57:35.000 This month.

00:57:36.000 And after hours as well.

00:57:37.000 Yeah, once you get back from DC, guys, this weekend, we're cooking all next week and the week after that.

00:57:42.000 So that's why we're telling you guys, yo, get ready.

00:57:44.000 We're going to be on Rumble and Kick.

00:57:47.000 You know, we're going to move the YouTube viewership over there because honestly, YouTube don't pay us.

00:57:50.000 Fuck YouTube.

00:57:51.000 So, yeah.

00:57:52.000 Big Mo's dates on God.

00:57:55.000 What the hell?

00:57:56.000 I can see that happening.

00:57:57.000 Bro.

00:57:58.000 How'd y'all digging?

00:57:58.000 What the fuck?

00:58:00.000 What the fuck, nigga? 1.00

00:58:00.000 Kane Newell. 1.00

00:58:01.000 Step your game up, gentlemen.

00:58:02.000 It's one chest.

00:58:03.000 Let me fresh is lapping y'all with three or four.

00:58:05.000 Nigga, I'm unbeatable, bro.

00:58:07.000 Bro, listen, fellas.

00:58:09.000 I can say one thing about myself, bro.

00:58:11.000 Nobody I know has had more experience with girls than myself.

00:58:15.000 Other than Andrew Tate, probably.

00:58:17.000 Deadass, bro.

00:58:18.000 Dead ass.

00:58:19.000 What?

00:58:21.000 Yeah.

00:58:22.000 That's pretty much it.

00:58:23.000 Craig Kal says, what about flying girls out?

00:58:23.000 All right.

00:58:26.000 Again, that's a whole other episode.

00:58:26.000 Yeah, bro.

00:58:27.000 FaceTime call is important.

00:58:29.000 Honestly, I don't even want to put that on YouTube.

00:58:31.000 No, that, dude.

00:58:32.000 If I'm honest with y'all, that's behind the paywall.

00:58:34.000 That's a whole other fucking game.

00:58:35.000 Because That could fuck you up heavily, bro.

00:58:38.000 Especially now with Diddy nigga. 0.95

00:58:39.000 If you're not careful, bro, that could fuck you up heavily.

00:58:41.000 Especially with Diddy, though.

00:58:42.000 Yeah, man.

00:58:43.000 That's because some of y'all niggas be paying for box and flying them out. 1.00

00:58:46.000 You niggas are. 1.00

00:58:47.000 You guys are prostitutes. 0.99

00:58:47.000 That is. 0.99

00:58:49.000 Yeah.

00:58:50.000 That's prostitution. 1.00

00:58:51.000 Next thing you know, you niggas. 1.00

00:58:53.000 Holy FBI, open up.

00:58:53.000 Yeah, bro.

00:58:55.000 You thought you were going to bring somebody over.

00:58:58.000 Next thing you know, fucking Tom from the FBI shows at your door.

00:59:02.000 Interstate lines, buddy.

00:59:02.000 Yo.

00:59:04.000 Interstate lines.

00:59:04.000 Yeah, buddy.

00:59:06.000 You niggas gonna end up like the diddler. 1.00

00:59:08.000 What the fuck, man?

00:59:09.000 That's why we tell y'all, bro.

00:59:10.000 Don't pay for box, man.

00:59:12.000 I know a lot of y'all are gonna do it anyway.

00:59:13.000 But if you fly in a check out hell, though.

00:59:15.000 Now you really gonna open up.

00:59:19.000 That's what we're getting, guys.

00:59:20.000 Demetrius says, top five places you do not pick a girl up from in South Florida. 0.78

00:59:25.000 Mo, Bill's Byron and Fresh.

00:59:26.000 Verify my list.

00:59:27.000 One, Lauderhill.

00:59:29.000 What the fuck?

00:59:30.000 Like, who fucking goes there?

00:59:32.000 Two, Lauderhill Lakes.

00:59:33.000 Bro, come on, man.

00:59:34.000 Florida City.

00:59:35.000 Three.

00:59:36.000 Oh, my.

00:59:36.000 Oh, Mo, Billy.

00:59:38.000 Four.

00:59:39.000 Some parts of Pompano.

00:59:40.000 Yeah, for sure, bro.

00:59:41.000 A lot of fucking Pompano.

00:59:42.000 Five, NM.

00:59:43.000 North Miami.

00:59:44.000 Yeah, send the Uber.

00:59:45.000 She lives in any one of these cities.

00:59:48.000 Bro, that is a good list.

00:59:50.000 As a door, $4,020.

00:59:50.000 I am not offended.

00:59:53.000 He said something crazy.

00:59:54.000 Stormtrooper K981 says, Sorry for asking you to repeat yourself, Myron.

00:59:58.000 Are you going to meet up at weekend this weekend in DC?

01:00:02.000 How do we know where to meet up OSS WFNF?

01:00:04.000 Thank you all.

01:00:05.000 I'm going to be there at the venue.

01:00:07.000 Doors open at 2.

01:00:09.000 I'll be there 3.

01:00:11.000 So well, I'll be there around 2 when the doors open.

01:00:13.000 But yeah, I'm going to be there and I'll probably link up with you niggas after. 1.00

01:00:18.000 I'm going to stay.

01:00:18.000 I always stay back and take pictures and all that other shit.

01:00:20.000 So don't worry.

01:00:21.000 There you go.

01:00:22.000 All right, guys.

01:00:23.000 Zoom call, guys.

01:00:23.000 Zoom call right now.

01:00:24.000 Get in there.

01:00:25.000 Discount code is free.

01:00:26.000 F-R-E-Capital, all capital.

01:00:28.000 It's a dollar for the first month.

01:00:30.000 Hop in there.

01:00:31.000 Hop on a Zoom call.

01:00:32.000 Yeah, this month we're going to be lots of Zoom calls this month coming up, guys.

01:00:34.000 So come on over.

01:00:35.000 All right.

01:00:36.000 Come on over, Ninjas. 0.80

01:00:37.000 Castle Club time.

01:00:38.000 Zoom call.

01:00:39.000 Answer some questions.

01:00:40.000 Get some coaching.

01:00:41.000 Girls, finances.

Fresh & Fit - August 06, 2025

5 Ways To Stop Her From Flaking On Dates

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