Fresh & Fit - A Fresh Match With Speed Dating!

00:04:27.000 And we are live.

00:04:28.000 It's a fresh match.

00:04:29.000 Let's get into it.

00:04:30.000 Let's go!

00:05:20.000 And we are back.

00:05:22.000 Listen, last show we couldn't do it because of the flooding, but now we're here all together as one.

00:05:27.000 Listen, it was a lot going on behind the scenes, but we're here today, so we made it happen.

00:05:31.000 Mary Kate, what's up with you?

00:05:32.000 Nothing much.

00:05:33.000 Getting married in a week and a half.

00:05:34.000 Woo! 0.99

00:05:35.000 Really?

00:05:36.000 Yeah!

00:05:38.000 Well, I never met your husband Malek.

00:05:40.000 How'd you guys be, actually?

00:05:41.000 Bumble.

00:05:42.000 It still works.

00:05:43.000 There you go.

00:05:43.000 Matchmaker here.

00:05:44.000 So there's an article that came up, actually, about single and dating in Miami.

00:05:48.000 Tell them a little bit about it.

00:05:49.000 It's a little depressing.

00:05:51.000 I don't want to show it to you, but we all have to face the facts.

00:05:53.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:05:54.000 So, here it is, guys.

00:05:56.000 Florida ranked worst state for singles in 2024.

00:06:00.000 Shocker! 0.98

00:06:02.000 Shocking.

00:06:02.000 We're here to change that, right?

00:06:04.000 I know.

00:06:04.000 We're trying to right now.

00:06:05.000 And then his Instagram posts as well on...

00:06:08.000 What site is that?

00:06:09.000 Yeah.

00:06:09.000 There we go.

00:06:10.000 Always in Florida.

00:06:10.000 Yep.

00:06:11.000 Some people commented on this as well, and they were very funny.

00:06:15.000 They said, you can date, but you cannot marry in Florida.

00:06:18.000 For singles, for married, for everyone.

00:06:20.000 What's more comments there, Bills?

00:06:23.000 There we go.

00:06:27.000 Yeah, he says it's the best place for singles.

00:06:30.000 I think so too, by the way.

00:06:31.000 But cool.

00:06:32.000 This is what's happening right now as we speak in 2024.

00:06:35.000 But today we're going to do something a little bit different.

00:06:36.000 We're going to do an intro for the guys at the very beginning.

00:06:39.000 Then the girls can do it after the fact. 1.00

00:06:41.000 So we'll start right here with Rhett.

00:06:43.000 Tell us who you are, what you do for a living.

00:06:45.000 And then, for example, I guess like your fun work life.

00:06:49.000 Sure, yeah.

00:06:50.000 So, how's it going?

00:06:51.000 I'm Rhett.

00:06:52.000 I'm 25 years old.

00:06:54.000 I work at a celebrity marketing agency.

00:06:56.000 I'm the head of PR and branding.

00:06:59.000 So, I run that department and it's a lot of fun.

00:07:03.000 You know, I also have my own boutique agency I do some stuff at.

00:07:06.000 You know, as far as the free time, I spend a lot of time, you know, on the water sailing.

00:07:10.000 I used to be a Teen USA sailor, and, you know, I spend my time, you know, out socializing, you know, being responsible for networking and connections.

00:07:18.000 You know, I'm always out in the town, always, you know, making those connections in the right environments, if you understand what I'm saying.

00:07:24.000 But, yeah, you know, happy to be here.

00:07:26.000 And I was dating for you.

00:07:28.000 I mean, it's good.

00:07:29.000 I like the Miami scene.

00:07:31.000 It's a little fast for some, but I'm a fast guy.

00:07:34.000 I like the way that things move, and I think that the scene is a little bit electric and has something for everybody.

00:07:42.000 Okay, awesome.

00:07:43.000 Alberto?

00:07:45.000 Yeah, my name's Alberto Martinez.

00:07:47.000 I'm a real estate agent here in Miami, and I also am a part-time actor.

00:07:54.000 All right, cool.

00:07:54.000 And how's dating for you?

00:07:56.000 It's been interesting.

00:07:58.000 Miami's an interesting city with interesting people.

00:08:03.000 Well said.

00:08:04.000 It's called interesting.

00:08:05.000 All right.

00:08:05.000 Hudson.

00:08:06.000 How you guys doing?

00:08:06.000 I'm Hudson Chabert, 32 years old, and I'm a pilot.

00:08:11.000 Excellent.

00:08:11.000 What do you like to do on your free time?

00:08:13.000 Well, I love kayaking.

00:08:14.000 That's one of my favorite things to do.

00:08:16.000 I go with my son and we get to enjoy the water and just going out.

00:08:19.000 They got like this private beach in Orlando State Park.

00:08:22.000 I'm always flying in from here in New York.

00:08:25.000 So I'm like not here solid here, but I want to do it.

00:08:28.000 I want to make the move here.

00:08:30.000 But yeah, dating in Miami is kind of rough.

00:08:32.000 Out of the pilot too, that's crazy.

00:08:34.000 All right.

00:08:35.000 Yeah.

00:08:35.000 What about you?

00:08:37.000 What's up, guys?

00:08:37.000 My name is Raj.

00:08:38.000 I'm 28 years young.

00:08:40.000 I'm actually a full-time entrepreneur.

00:08:42.000 I've actually been one of the leaders inside of an organization called Digital Dynasty, where we focus on e-learning, helping people educate them on that.

00:08:50.000 Now, my passion, I would say, is just, I feel like, personally, I don't want to say it like that, but if you die tomorrow, God's not going to thank you for the trillions of dollars you've made.

00:08:58.000 It's about what it is that you did for the world.

00:09:00.000 So for my passion, I feel like it's more so going around the world, helping people, serving others, and impacting lives, I feel like.

00:09:05.000 So that's more my passion on the outside.

00:09:07.000 That's amazing, bro.

00:09:08.000 And how's dating for you?

00:09:10.000 Dating, I feel like for me, I focus on vibrations.

00:09:13.000 I feel like if she's not the right frequency, I'd rather not focus on it, you know?

00:09:17.000 Because at the end of the day, a radio station is only going to play one station at once, not two.

00:09:21.000 So if you focus on what you want, you attract what you want, not what it is that you don't like, right?

00:09:25.000 I like that.

00:09:26.000 And what's one way you measure frequencies and vibrations?

00:09:29.000 I just feel like just energy, just conversations, seeing that if we like the same things on the same level, we see the same vision, we see the same future, 10 years from now, 50 years from now, 100 years from now, even the future generations, do we see it the same way?

00:09:42.000 You know, that's how I see it.

00:09:45.000 Hey, I appreciate y'all.

00:09:48.000 This boy tapped in.

00:09:51.000 But yeah, my name is Gabriel.

00:09:53.000 I'm 23 years old.

00:09:54.000 And, you know, I'm everywhere but nowhere at the same time.

00:09:57.000 Been traveling a lot lately, you know, from Jersey.

00:09:59.000 And right now I'm getting into the event space business.

00:10:02.000 So, you know, it's been an interesting journey so far.

00:10:04.000 But, you know, I ain't got much to say.

00:10:06.000 At 23, bro, how's dating for you?

00:10:09.000 I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

00:10:10.000 I mean, it's pretty good, but, you know, gotta chill down a little bit.

00:10:13.000 Okay.

00:10:13.000 I like that.

00:10:14.000 Alright, and then ladies, tell us about you, what you do for a living, where you from, your name, and age.

00:10:20.000 Thank you.

00:10:21.000 Hi, everyone.

00:10:21.000 I'm Kat.

00:10:22.000 I live here in Miami, originally from PA, and yeah, so I'm in the adult industry, as some of you know, so yeah.

00:10:33.000 And how's dating for you?

00:10:35.000 Dating isn't easy, obviously, in my job.

00:10:38.000 But I mean, it's still fun.

00:10:39.000 I do meet people that are pretty cool with it.

00:10:42.000 And yeah, so it still has its ups and downs.

00:10:45.000 Okay.

00:10:46.000 Yeah.

00:10:46.000 And up next?

00:10:48.000 My name's Rochelle.

00:10:50.000 I'm 41 years old.

00:10:51.000 I have a dance studio for kids.

00:10:53.000 I've been dancing my whole life.

00:10:56.000 It's here in this Brickle area.

00:10:59.000 And the other question was, how dating is for me?

00:11:01.000 Yeah, so far.

00:11:02.000 Well, I was married for 10 years.

00:11:04.000 I don't have kids.

00:11:05.000 And then I just got out of a seven-year relationship.

00:11:07.000 So I'm new to this whole dating scene. 0.99

00:11:10.000 Damn! 0.99

00:11:10.000 Oh, this is exciting! 0.99

00:11:12.000 You should put in that work!

00:11:14.000 She clearly knows what she's doing if she's been in a long-term relationship, so that's a good sign.

00:11:18.000 Yeah, I mean, holy!

00:11:19.000 What about you?

00:11:21.000 So my name is Scarlett, and so I'm from Slovakia, Europe, and I live here.

00:11:28.000 I've been living here for almost a year.

00:11:30.000 And how was dating for me?

00:11:31.000 What do you do for work?

00:11:33.000 What do I do?

00:11:33.000 I'm a dancer.

00:11:34.000 Cool.

00:11:35.000 And then how's dating for you?

00:11:36.000 Dating?

00:11:39.000 It's tough.

00:11:40.000 I've never been in a relationship and...

00:11:44.000 I'm scared to be in a relationship, too.

00:11:46.000 Which girl, how old are you?

00:11:47.000 Did she say that?

00:11:48.000 Oh, I didn't.

00:11:49.000 I'm 19.

00:11:50.000 Oh, wow.

00:11:50.000 Yeah.

00:11:51.000 All right.

00:11:52.000 Yeah.

00:11:53.000 Hey, man, check her ID, bro.

00:11:54.000 Check her ID. Check it out to win! 1.00

00:11:56.000 Okay, thank you.

00:11:57.000 What about you?

00:11:58.000 My name is Coco.

00:11:59.000 I'm 31.

00:12:00.000 I'm an executive assistant.

00:12:03.000 I've been in Miami for about two years now.

00:12:08.000 I'm an influencer.

00:12:11.000 And, yeah.

00:12:12.000 How's dating for you been?

00:12:13.000 Dating for me...

00:12:15.000 Is it harder at 31?

00:12:17.000 I got a roster for the summer. 1.00

00:12:19.000 Oh, shit! 1.00

00:12:20.000 She's gonna have some fun. 1.00

00:12:22.000 Okay.

00:12:23.000 What about you?

00:12:24.000 Hey, everybody.

00:12:25.000 My name's Alyssa.

00:12:26.000 I'm 26 years old.

00:12:28.000 I'm from New Jersey.

00:12:29.000 I've been living here for almost a year now.

00:12:31.000 And I'm a social worker.

00:12:33.000 Okay.

00:12:34.000 That's my career.

00:12:34.000 And how is dating for you, Alyssa?

00:12:37.000 Dating is disappointing.

00:12:39.000 That's the word that I come up with.

00:12:40.000 Dating is pretty disappointing.

00:12:42.000 You remind me.

00:12:44.000 Okay, great.

00:12:45.000 So we did our intros here on the panel.

00:12:47.000 So we're going to try to match some people today and have a good connection, so to speak.

00:12:50.000 So we'll start again with Rhett.

00:12:53.000 Yep, you got it.

00:12:54.000 Cool.

00:12:55.000 So ladies, I want you to raise your hand. 0.98

00:12:58.000 Yes or no for Rhett.

00:12:59.000 Green is yes.

00:13:00.000 Red is obviously no.

00:13:01.000 So if you want to go on a date with Rhett, raise your hand for yes, for green.

00:13:05.000 If not, Red.

00:13:08.000 Alright, you can put it up, ladies. 1.00

00:13:09.000 You can put it up.

00:13:11.000 So green is yes, red is no.

00:13:14.000 So Coco and we have Cat, that would take, okay.

00:13:18.000 So Rhett has Coco and Cat?

00:13:21.000 Yeah.

00:13:22.000 Awesome.

00:13:24.000 Okay, now Alberto.

00:13:26.000 So raise your hand for green, and then raise your hand for no with red.

00:13:31.000 Put it up.

00:13:46.000 What about the pilot, Hudson?

00:13:48.000 Green for yes, red for no.

00:13:53.000 Okay, so we have Alyssa.

00:13:55.000 And we have Kat.

00:13:58.000 Wait, who are the greens?

00:13:59.000 Keep the greens up.

00:13:59.000 Who are the greens?

00:14:00.000 Okay.

00:14:02.000 Thank you.

00:14:03.000 And then for Gabriel.

00:14:05.000 Sorry, red for no.

00:14:06.000 Green for yes.

00:14:07.000 Okay, we got Alyssa and Coco.

00:14:10.000 All right.

00:14:13.000 Okay.

00:14:14.000 All right, and Raj.

00:14:16.000 Last but not least.

00:14:18.000 Up, down.

00:14:19.000 Green for yes.

00:14:21.000 Okay, he has Coco and Kat.

00:14:23.000 All right.

00:14:24.000 Coco and Kat.

00:14:27.000 Awesome.

00:14:28.000 So now, ladies, if you don't mind, get some balloons. 1.00

00:14:30.000 Can you get some balloons, ladies, real quick? 1.00

00:14:32.000 I see.

00:14:33.000 So we're going to do something fun for the guys here.

00:14:34.000 We're going to do actual, like, you get to pick now on the girls' side. 1.00

00:14:37.000 So, who are you going to go on a date with?

00:14:39.000 Just pop their balloon, and that'll be your date for the actual, like, show.

00:14:44.000 Sorry, Alberta, we got you, bro.

00:14:45.000 We got you.

00:14:46.000 No, no, no.

00:14:47.000 We got you, man.

00:14:48.000 Because at the end of the day, you don't know.

00:14:51.000 Like, we've seen couples match that were like, they wouldn't be a fit.

00:14:56.000 And they took a chance and they didn't.

00:14:58.000 It depends, honestly, on the vibe or the vibration.

00:15:02.000 I like it.

00:15:02.000 Yeah, it's the frequency.

00:15:04.000 Whatever he said it was.

00:15:05.000 I believe in it.

00:15:05.000 Yeah.

00:15:06.000 The vibration.

00:15:07.000 So let's start with Rhett.

00:15:08.000 Just choose one that you want to go on a date with and a partner balloon.

00:15:12.000 The best one for you.

00:15:13.000 You gotta get up and like...

00:15:14.000 Let's do cat.

00:15:15.000 Alright.

00:15:18.000 Icy's got you.

00:15:20.000 Alright.

00:15:22.000 Okay.

00:15:23.000 Alright, you guys can walk off.

00:15:25.000 Cool.

00:15:26.000 Alright, we'll do...

00:15:29.000 Alright.

00:15:35.000 Just pop the balloon.

00:15:37.000 Okay, Coco! 1.00

00:15:38.000 Alright, go in the back. 0.68

00:15:39.000 Gabriel.

00:15:42.000 To spot that balloon real quick.

00:15:44.000 Yeah, vibration.

00:15:45.000 Yeah, I know, guys.

00:15:47.000 In the chat.

00:15:48.000 Okay, Alyssa! 0.91

00:15:49.000 Can you play with it?

00:15:50.000 No, no, he's not.

00:15:51.000 Okay.

00:15:52.000 And then Hudson.

00:15:53.000 Hudson, go for it.

00:15:55.000 Pass it to him.

00:15:56.000 Yeah.

00:15:56.000 Grab that.

00:15:57.000 Cool.

00:15:58.000 All right.

00:16:00.000 Let's do it.

00:16:03.000 Oh! 0.60

00:16:04.000 Okay!

00:16:05.000 All right!

00:16:06.000 I don't have a phone.

00:16:07.000 And Alberto...

00:16:09.000 This is the last but not least.

00:16:12.000 Listen, we'll give you a chance to come back to somebody else in a lineup, but for now, Alberto's the guy.

00:16:18.000 Alright, cool.

00:16:20.000 So we'll have you go in the back.

00:16:21.000 So we'll bring in the first two, and that's going to be...

00:16:26.000 Oh, guys, by the way, Yacht Party is going to be in July.

00:16:29.000 We're working on dates right now.

00:16:30.000 But listen, I'm telling you right now, if you want to have fun with us, network, make connections, and have a chance to win a Rolex, type into Yacht Party.

00:16:37.000 Link down below, Castle Club as well.

00:16:39.000 I'll see you guys there, man.

00:16:40.000 But the first couple is going to be, I think we're going to be Raj and Coco.

00:16:43.000 Rod and Coco?

00:16:44.000 Yeah, if you don't mind.

00:16:45.000 But so far, who do you think is going to match so far with these people here?

00:16:48.000 I think the surprising thing, maybe Hudson and Rochelle.

00:16:51.000 We'll see.

00:16:52.000 We'll see.

00:16:53.000 I think Gabriel and Alyssa.

00:16:55.000 It was almost like an instant, like, yeah, I'm feeling this chick.

00:16:58.000 There's a connection.

00:16:59.000 Like, instantly.

00:17:00.000 Without a doubt.

00:17:00.000 Yeah, I'm excited to see them, actually.

00:17:02.000 I will see some sparks flying.

00:17:04.000 So, yeah, let's get them back.

00:17:06.000 Set up on their date.

00:17:07.000 And let's start with, like...

00:17:09.000 One icebreaker, and then the guy can start with telling us his date.

00:17:13.000 There you go.

00:17:13.000 His icebreakers...

00:17:14.000 I think, I think, uh...

00:17:16.000 Honestly, speaking late, right now the setup is good.

00:17:18.000 We got old, young, in the middle, so we'll see what happens.

00:17:21.000 Yeah.

00:17:22.000 And also, like, yeah, we have a couple different people with different walks of life, so we'll see.

00:17:27.000 Like, I'm hoping for some matches.

00:17:30.000 It's gonna be fun.

00:17:30.000 Alright, are we ready?

00:17:32.000 Coming right now.

00:17:33.000 Oh, let's do it.

00:17:34.000 But yeah, without further ado, guys, we're going to start the actual first setup here.

00:17:38.000 We've got Coco and Raj.

00:17:40.000 All right.

00:17:41.000 Right here.

00:17:42.000 Thanks, guys.

00:17:43.000 Come on down. 0.94

00:17:44.000 Welcome back.

00:17:45.000 Welcome back.

00:17:47.000 Alright, so we got a three minute timer here.

00:17:50.000 And keep in mind, if for any reason you get bored on a date, you want to just drop off, hit the red X right there, and you're out of here.

00:17:57.000 No hard feelings, guys.

00:18:00.000 Yeah, so this is Icebreaker, get to know each other a little bit better, and we'll start three minutes on the clock.

00:18:03.000 Awesome.

00:18:05.000 Let me ask you, for both of you, Coco, would you consider yourself more of a saver or a spender?

00:18:12.000 Spender.

00:18:14.000 Elaborate that.

00:18:14.000 What do you usually spend on?

00:18:17.000 Chains, my hair, my nails.

00:18:20.000 I love getting massages.

00:18:21.000 I love self-care.

00:18:22.000 I feel like it's super important.

00:18:24.000 So I really put a lot of money into myself.

00:18:27.000 Okay, okay.

00:18:28.000 And Raj, yeah, how about you?

00:18:29.000 I would say spender and saver at the same time.

00:18:31.000 I think certain things you should be saving and investing.

00:18:34.000 But when it comes to spending, I do like to invest into myself and always, you know, want to make sure my health is to the top best.

00:18:40.000 I do invest into a lot of designer, Jeff, because I like fashion as well.

00:18:43.000 So, you know, it's key.

00:18:44.000 Both sides equally.

00:18:46.000 Personal branding, that's very good.

00:18:47.000 Alright, so we'll start the timer right now, and let's go.

00:18:50.000 Awesome.

00:18:51.000 So, what's up?

00:18:52.000 We finally get to connect, right?

00:18:53.000 I know.

00:18:54.000 We talked a little bit.

00:18:56.000 What got me for you was the vibes, of course.

00:19:00.000 It gets all the girls. 0.99

00:19:01.000 I'm sure you knew that, but for me, it's the vibes.

00:19:04.000 We were vibing beforehand.

00:19:07.000 You're just a vibe.

00:19:08.000 You're just a whole vibe.

00:19:09.000 You got to be on a specific frequency.

00:19:11.000 You got to know what you want at the end of the day, right?

00:19:13.000 Right.

00:19:13.000 You got to be confident with that.

00:19:14.000 And I think a lot of people, they're not confident with what it is that they want and they're unsure.

00:19:18.000 That's why they're struggling maybe when it comes to dating.

00:19:21.000 You know, they're struggling with the right people, the conversations, what to even talk about.

00:19:25.000 I always say just be yourself, enjoy life, and live it to the fullest, you know?

00:19:28.000 But let me ask you, you know, when it comes to just fun in general, you know, let me ask you this question, actually.

00:19:35.000 It's a fun question.

00:19:36.000 Okay.

00:19:36.000 If you had unlimited money in the world, if you had unlimited, what's the first thing you would do?

00:19:41.000 Okay, I mean, naturally the first thing is pay off my debts.

00:19:45.000 But, like, the fun thing, I would get me all my homies and we would all go on an inclusive trip, adult only, and just live it up.

00:19:54.000 Or buy a whole, like, cul-de-sac and, like, put all my friends in a house and we all just own that block.

00:20:02.000 That's sick.

00:20:03.000 That's actually a cool memory that I always had.

00:20:06.000 I know we talked about it a little bit when it came to content and stuff.

00:20:10.000 I used to be in the content space with YouTube and that industry, and I felt like having a content house was something I always dreamed of having.

00:20:16.000 Having the friends that group around, we're shooting content together, we're always just grinding in a grindhouse where we're creating something, always showing something for other people, which is fun.

00:20:26.000 I want to butt in real quick, if you don't mind.

00:20:27.000 You mentioned debt, right?

00:20:29.000 If you don't mind sharing, what's your total debt amount right now?

00:20:32.000 Ooh, I think I am at 10k.

00:20:36.000 10k?

00:20:36.000 Okay.

00:20:36.000 Is it a credit card?

00:20:37.000 Is it like a car?

00:20:38.000 No, yeah, credit cards.

00:20:39.000 It's all credit cards.

00:20:40.000 Yeah, my car's paid off.

00:20:42.000 What'd you buy with the credit cards?

00:20:45.000 A BBL. Which I lost my results to, we won't talk about that.

00:20:50.000 But a BBL. Moving from, I lived in three states in a span of 365 days.

00:20:57.000 From New York to Philly, down here to Florida.

00:21:00.000 So a lot of that money went to moving.

00:21:03.000 And honestly that's what it was, a lot of moving.

00:21:06.000 So then I was just living in Hollywood and I moved to South Beach.

00:21:09.000 So that's where all my debt is.

00:21:12.000 Will that concern you dating her, Raj?

00:21:14.000 Like let's say for example, her spending habits are kind of like a little bit like nonchalant.

00:21:19.000 Would that bother you at all?

00:21:20.000 Oh, not necessarily.

00:21:21.000 I feel like when it comes to it, it's about being smart at the end of the day, right?

00:21:24.000 Having conversations between each other, making sure that, you know, the expense was worth it.

00:21:28.000 You know, there's always things that we want to put money into that's just personal gains as well.

00:21:32.000 And there's nothing wrong with that at the end of the day.

00:21:34.000 I think it's just about being smart about it, right?

00:21:36.000 If it's the right time to do it or if it's not the right time, is it in the future that you can do that?

00:21:40.000 Right?

00:21:41.000 Do you guys talk about your relationship with money in the early stages of dating?

00:21:46.000 Is that normal for you guys?

00:21:47.000 It's like taboo.

00:21:48.000 Honestly, with money, I'm really good.

00:21:51.000 I do spend a lot, but I say I'm broke, but my bills are paid.

00:21:55.000 I have food in my fridge, there's gas in my car, my phone bill works, everything is paid, but I like to buy things.

00:22:05.000 Do you think a man that's smart with money would help you manage it better?

00:22:09.000 Yes.

00:22:11.000 Raj, do you have any debt?

00:22:12.000 Not at the moment.

00:22:13.000 So I'm very grateful.

00:22:14.000 I used to.

00:22:15.000 You know, I had to work my way out of it.

00:22:17.000 So I had to go into debt to go learn, to educate myself, to then eventually get out of the debt.

00:22:21.000 Good for you.

00:22:22.000 Okay.

00:22:22.000 All right.

00:22:23.000 Time is up.

00:22:24.000 Okay.

00:22:24.000 So I guess nobody hit the button, Ra.

00:22:27.000 So you guys are both coming with each other?

00:22:28.000 Yeah.

00:22:29.000 Yeah.

00:22:29.000 We're cool.

00:22:29.000 Perfect.

00:22:30.000 All right.

00:22:30.000 Thank you guys.

00:22:31.000 Appreciate that very much.

00:22:32.000 Thank you.

00:22:33.000 Yeah.

00:22:34.000 Yeah.

00:22:35.000 I think Hudson and Rochelle are coming next.

00:22:36.000 Yeah.

00:22:36.000 What do you think?

00:22:38.000 I loved his energy.

00:22:39.000 I love both their energies.

00:22:40.000 They're bringing it.

00:22:41.000 They were in it.

00:22:42.000 They have this understanding where it's like, they're cool.

00:22:46.000 They're just cool.

00:22:47.000 And even if they end up dating or in friendships, they bring their energy, and I think they have both something to learn from each other.

00:22:52.000 Which at the end of the day, we're all looking for someone like that.

00:22:56.000 Awesome.

00:22:56.000 Welcome back, guys.

00:22:57.000 Mr.

00:22:57.000 Pellett!

00:22:58.000 Yes.

00:22:58.000 What's up, man?

00:22:59.000 All right.

00:22:59.000 Thank you.

00:23:02.000 City to city.

00:23:02.000 Thank you.

00:23:04.000 Here you go.

00:23:05.000 Excellent.

00:23:06.000 Welcome back, guys.

00:23:07.000 All right.

00:23:07.000 Okay, so this is part two.

00:23:09.000 We're going to be doing the actual, like, icebreaker challenge.

00:23:11.000 So tell us about yourself back and forth with them.

00:23:14.000 So just imagine we're not here.

00:23:16.000 Imagine we're just, like, onlooking.

00:23:17.000 You guys are about yourselves.

00:23:18.000 Three minutes on the clock.

00:23:21.000 Let's go.

00:23:21.000 Well, like I was saying before earlier, behind the scenes, I'm from New York, Washington Heights, and just growing up, I was raised by women, so I love to see women in power.

00:23:32.000 My mom is Dominican, and my grandmother, they were born in Dominican Republic, and she came here to Washington Heights, and like, literally, like, she was cleaning the floor, and then ended up owning 10 salons altogether.

00:23:45.000 So, to see women in power, when you said you own your own business, you have a dance studio, I was like, that's pretty fire. 1.00

00:23:52.000 Wow.

00:23:52.000 Awesome.

00:23:53.000 Come out the gates.

00:23:55.000 Ask him any question you like, or we can start with an icebreaker.

00:23:58.000 Or anything, anything.

00:23:59.000 You can't say no Hudson, the pilot.

00:24:00.000 Yeah.

00:24:02.000 What made you want to become a pilot?

00:24:05.000 Honestly, I took a flight to the Dominican Republic one time and I felt like this is where my space is.

00:24:10.000 I'm here, there's nobody else, and it's me and God.

00:24:14.000 And honestly, it was a dream.

00:24:15.000 It's like looking up at a mountain.

00:24:17.000 You know, you look over the mountain, you're like, how the hell am I gonna get up there?

00:24:20.000 And being a pilot is one of those things where it's like, growing up in my neighborhood, it wouldn't happen.

00:24:25.000 Like, I never met anybody else that was Dominican that was a pilot.

00:24:29.000 Rochelle, what's your type?

00:24:31.000 You seem very shy.

00:24:32.000 Well, I'm older than everybody here.

00:24:35.000 Come on, don't say that.

00:24:36.000 Age is just enough. 0.53

00:24:38.000 He don't care.

00:24:39.000 I'm just telling you.

00:24:41.000 I was caught off guard.

00:24:44.000 Really?

00:24:44.000 I understand that.

00:24:45.000 So I was like, oh my gosh.

00:24:47.000 Every show is different.

00:24:48.000 We have age demographics always changing.

00:24:50.000 But yeah, what inspired you to get into the dancing, owning a studio?

00:24:54.000 Well, I've been dancing since I was four years old.

00:24:56.000 I danced my entire life, danced professionally, majored in dance.

00:25:01.000 I went to school in Texas for dance, traveled, doing all that.

00:25:04.000 And then I used to draw my dance studio since I was seven years old.

00:25:08.000 So I always wanted to own a studio.

00:25:10.000 And then I eventually, I've had a studio for 15 years.

00:25:12.000 I want to see some moves.

00:25:13.000 I'm going to be honest with you.

00:25:15.000 I want to see some moves.

00:25:16.000 I don't know if it has to be now.

00:25:17.000 Ballet.

00:25:18.000 Ballet.

00:25:19.000 Okay.

00:25:19.000 Yeah, I do ballet.

00:25:21.000 So, what's the youngest you ever dated?

00:25:25.000 The youngest?

00:25:26.000 Yeah.

00:25:29.000 Probably older than me.

00:25:31.000 Never younger.

00:25:33.000 Are you open to dating someone younger?

00:25:35.000 I don't know.

00:25:37.000 I'm just so new to it.

00:25:38.000 I've been in a relationship for 17 years of my life, so I don't know.

00:25:42.000 You as young as you want to be.

00:25:44.000 And honestly, you look young.

00:25:45.000 Thank you.

00:25:47.000 And no kids.

00:25:49.000 Hudson, you mentioned you have a kid.

00:25:51.000 Yes, I have a 14-year-old.

00:25:52.000 I love him.

00:25:53.000 His name is Ethan.

00:25:54.000 He's...

00:25:55.000 I mean, if I die, that's my copy in this world, so I'm good.

00:25:59.000 You know?

00:25:59.000 I mean, when I die, whatever.

00:26:01.000 I don't know.

00:26:02.000 And, Rochelle, are you open to dating someone's kids?

00:26:04.000 That's, yeah.

00:26:06.000 Yeah.

00:26:06.000 I would think, yeah, that's fine.

00:26:07.000 You still want one.

00:26:08.000 Yeah.

00:26:09.000 Not sure.

00:26:10.000 Maybe.

00:26:11.000 I could have a daughter.

00:26:13.000 Yeah.

00:26:13.000 I wouldn't mind a little daughter, blonde hair, running around the house.

00:26:16.000 It drives me nuts.

00:26:17.000 You have no qualms about dating somebody older, right?

00:26:19.000 No, of course not.

00:26:20.000 I'm about energy.

00:26:21.000 As long as we click in and we match and I have fun with you, I can be myself around you.

00:26:26.000 And obviously, I'm always flying around, so if you're cool with that, sometimes I'm gone a week, a week or two, I come out of nowhere.

00:26:34.000 It's very random, my schedule.

00:26:36.000 So I need to find a woman that's not going to cheat on me when I'm gone. 1.00

00:26:39.000 Can you imagine coming back and there's a whole orgy in the crib? 0.89

00:26:44.000 Why wasn't I invited? 0.76

00:26:48.000 Is that an issue?

00:26:53.000 Being gone for a week?

00:26:55.000 No, I don't think so.

00:26:56.000 I could be your captain?

00:26:59.000 My co-pilot.

00:27:01.000 Question, Rochelle.

00:27:03.000 Are you part of the Mile High Club?

00:27:05.000 No, I'm not.

00:27:06.000 You should be.

00:27:07.000 I have waivers in the back.

00:27:13.000 Well, at least he makes you laugh.

00:27:15.000 Yeah, that's always a good sign.

00:27:16.000 I'm just throwing it out there, you know, if that's an option.

00:27:19.000 Do people actually do that, by the way?

00:27:21.000 Duh! 1.00

00:27:22.000 Why is it so uncomfortable, man?

00:27:24.000 That's like this small.

00:27:26.000 I wonder how people even fit in.

00:27:27.000 It's like I'm back in high school.

00:27:28.000 This is a fun time.

00:27:30.000 You'd be surprised what happens in a close basis.

00:27:32.000 Okay, real quick, Rochelle, last question for you.

00:27:35.000 So, let's say we did a rating scale.

00:27:37.000 I know you're a bit older, though.

00:27:38.000 But, 1 out of 10, what would you rate Hudson the Pilot?

00:27:42.000 Well, he's a 10.

00:27:43.000 Oh, wow.

00:27:46.000 I'm just older, but he's a 10.

00:27:48.000 You know, here's one offer I would give.

00:27:52.000 Men, there's some men who are hung up on age, but most don't.

00:27:54.000 Most aren't hung up on age, but they love a woman who's confident in her age.

00:27:58.000 You know, and so you are gorgeous.

00:28:00.000 And just wear that confidence with your age, and that's what they're going to be attracted to.

00:28:05.000 Definitely.

00:28:06.000 Okay, time is up.

00:28:07.000 I liked it, guys.

00:28:08.000 Alright, so that was good.

00:28:09.000 Second date?

00:28:11.000 Second date?

00:28:12.000 Second date.

00:28:13.000 Yes!

00:28:14.000 Alright, let's do it!

00:28:15.000 Come on, y'all!

00:28:18.000 You sound like being newly single! 0.99

00:28:21.000 You don't got a cup, goddammit! 0.96

00:28:23.000 Where's the cup at? 0.97

00:28:24.000 Somebody bring her a cup! 1.00

00:28:29.000 That's so funny, man.

00:28:30.000 I like this.

00:28:31.000 Okay, come on in, guys.

00:28:32.000 Alright, guys.

00:28:32.000 Thank you.

00:28:33.000 Thank you.

00:28:34.000 Alright.

00:28:34.000 Excellent.

00:28:37.000 Yo, he's just like a ball of energy, man.

00:28:39.000 He's a really cool guy.

00:28:40.000 Good energy, man.

00:28:42.000 He should be an actor.

00:28:43.000 He was running with it.

00:28:44.000 He was running with it.

00:28:44.000 Yeah.

00:28:45.000 And I think everything would have gone even smoother.

00:28:49.000 The age.

00:28:50.000 Yeah.

00:28:50.000 Rochelle stepped into entire age.

00:28:52.000 How old was Rochelle again? 0.92

00:28:53.000 41.

00:28:55.000 Yeah.

00:28:57.000 Okay!

00:28:57.000 I know.

00:28:58.000 She looks amazing.

00:29:00.000 Like, it's like, you know, when a woman, like, owns her age, and I'm like, no, I can't keep up with the little 21-year-olds. 1.00

00:29:06.000 It's like, please, little 21-year-olds run circles around me.

00:29:09.000 Makes sense.

00:29:11.000 Okay.

00:29:11.000 Welcome back, guys.

00:29:12.000 We got Gabriel.

00:29:13.000 We got Alyssa.

00:29:15.000 I'm not gonna lie.

00:29:16.000 I see chemistry already.

00:29:17.000 About three minutes on the clock, and we're gonna say this real quick.

00:29:20.000 Imagine we're not here.

00:29:21.000 This is you guys talking.

00:29:23.000 Continue trying to do better.

00:29:24.000 Let's run it.

00:29:27.000 So, Miss New Brunswick, what's up?

00:29:28.000 What's up, Gabriel?

00:29:29.000 When you going back to Jersey?

00:29:31.000 When are we going back to Jersey?

00:29:32.000 Oh! 0.60

00:29:33.000 Applying pressure.

00:29:34.000 Water film, boys.

00:29:35.000 I just want to say real quick, I've never worn headphones before with curly hair.

00:29:40.000 So, I don't know how we're walking right now, but...

00:29:42.000 You like how my voice sounds?

00:29:43.000 It's okay.

00:29:44.000 No worries.

00:29:44.000 You trying to play hard?

00:29:46.000 I mean, I've heard better.

00:29:47.000 Oh, spicy.

00:29:49.000 I like that, though.

00:29:50.000 I like that.

00:29:50.000 You like Dominican?

00:29:51.000 Of course.

00:29:52.000 All right, so we could talk more.

00:29:54.000 But I'm not gonna lie. 0.91

00:29:55.000 I've heard from a couple people that Dominicans can be a little toxic.

00:29:58.000 Sorry, but we're good and best, though.

00:30:02.000 Listen, Gabriel, I'm at the point of my life, I'm not looking for toxic.

00:30:05.000 Hey, listen, listen.

00:30:06.000 Who said I was toxic, though?

00:30:08.000 Are you telling me you're not?

00:30:10.000 Listen, I'm gonna leave that unanswered, alright?

00:30:12.000 Yep! 0.80

00:30:13.000 That's toxic.

00:30:14.000 I have a question.

00:30:15.000 First date, Gabriel.

00:30:16.000 What are you taking, Miss Alyssa, over here?

00:30:18.000 Listen, you active, right?

00:30:19.000 Mm-hmm.

00:30:20.000 Alright, you like competition?

00:30:21.000 Friendly competition?

00:30:22.000 Not friendly, I like competition.

00:30:24.000 Oh, alright, perfect.

00:30:25.000 So you like go-karts?

00:30:26.000 I like go-karts.

00:30:27.000 Alright, so, supercharged it is.

00:30:29.000 I like to be a passenger princess, though.

00:30:31.000 Well, for that one, you definitely gotta compete against me.

00:30:34.000 You gotta know who the better one is, alright?

00:30:35.000 I'm gonna tell you right now, you're definitely the better driver.

00:30:38.000 Oh, you're so perfect.

00:30:39.000 Perfect.

00:30:40.000 Well, that is true.

00:30:41.000 Stats-wise, men are better drivers.

00:30:43.000 You know?

00:30:44.000 Women can't drive. 1.00

00:30:46.000 She's smart, bro!

00:30:47.000 Alyssa's smart! 0.91

00:30:48.000 She's getting points already.

00:30:49.000 That's what's up.

00:30:50.000 How dare you! 0.99

00:30:51.000 Okay.

00:30:52.000 Question for you.

00:30:54.000 How important is it to, like, I want to say, have the gem in your life, Alyssa, for your man?

00:31:00.000 Very important.

00:31:01.000 You don't have to go like seven days a week, but I'm active.

00:31:05.000 I like to be in the gym.

00:31:06.000 So I would personally love my partner to be in the gym too.

00:31:09.000 100%.

00:31:09.000 Well, I'm the type to just wake up and start doing jumping jacks.

00:31:12.000 So if you fuck with that, then that's cool. 1.00

00:31:14.000 Jumping jacks is crazy. 1.00

00:31:15.000 Hey, listen, I'm active.

00:31:16.000 I got high energy.

00:31:17.000 Okay.

00:31:18.000 And Alyssa, what do you think of his first date idea?

00:31:21.000 I like it.

00:31:21.000 I like this.

00:31:22.000 That's different.

00:31:23.000 Different?

00:31:23.000 Yeah, that's different.

00:31:24.000 You know we do that on this side.

00:31:25.000 Okay, yeah, I don't think a guy has ever taken me go-karting before.

00:31:28.000 Oh, perfect.

00:31:29.000 I like how that sounds.

00:31:30.000 You'll be my first.

00:31:31.000 Of course.

00:31:32.000 Of course.

00:31:33.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:31:35.000 Okay, I gotta ask this question.

00:31:37.000 Why did your last relationship end?

00:31:39.000 Ooh, let's go.

00:31:40.000 You first.

00:31:41.000 Oof, of course.

00:31:42.000 Nah, ladies first, ladies first. 1.00

00:31:43.000 No, no, no, I insist.

00:31:45.000 I insist.

00:31:45.000 You go first.

00:31:46.000 You go first.

00:31:47.000 Go first.

00:31:49.000 Okay, so I've been single for a minute.

00:31:53.000 Like five years I've been single, but I've been in like different like situationships and things like that.

00:31:58.000 Really?

00:31:59.000 Yes.

00:31:59.000 How come?

00:32:02.000 I feel like more the guy over me.

00:32:04.000 Like in the past I'm like, you know, I want to be like the cool girl, the chill girl.

00:32:09.000 I don't want to, you know, put a label on anything.

00:32:10.000 I want to, you know, be cool with everything.

00:32:12.000 But I was just wasting my time basically, you know, for sure.

00:32:16.000 So you think you'd be wasting your time with me?

00:32:19.000 I hope not.

00:32:20.000 But I'm at the point in my life now where I can, you know, if I sense toxic, if I sense that we're on different pages, I won't waste my time.

00:32:26.000 Well, listen, you know, on this side, I'm always be honest and I'm always be transparent, so...

00:32:30.000 So be honest and be transparent.

00:32:31.000 What are you looking for?

00:32:32.000 Listen, you know my time.

00:32:34.000 You know what type of time I'm on.

00:32:35.000 What type of time are you on?

00:32:37.000 We can do that for after, you know, after the pod.

00:32:39.000 Ooh! 0.96

00:32:40.000 What?

00:32:41.000 No, no, no, wait.

00:32:41.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:32:42.000 Real quick.

00:32:43.000 Gabriel, are you sensing that you're on the same page as Alyssa right now?

00:32:46.000 No, I think so.

00:32:47.000 100%.

00:32:47.000 Okay.

00:32:48.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:32:48.000 I don't want to assume, though.

00:32:49.000 Tell me.

00:32:51.000 What time of time are you on?

00:32:53.000 Listen, we're here in Miami right now.

00:32:55.000 We're having a good time.

00:32:56.000 The chemistry's already there.

00:32:58.000 I don't gotta say no more.

00:32:58.000 I gotta know why you're single, bro.

00:33:01.000 You got some reason on you, bro.

00:33:02.000 What's going on here?

00:33:03.000 That's a good question.

00:33:04.000 Nah, I mean, to be honest, I'm single because, you know, I'm still young.

00:33:07.000 I'm still trying to live, traveling a lot.

00:33:08.000 You know, I don't want to commit to anything.

00:33:10.000 I want to make sure that I'm established as a man before, before I decide to take anything serious because, you know, I'm the type of guy that if I'm gonna have you as my girl, you know, I want to take care of you full and full and through, you know?

00:33:19.000 So, you know, I don't want to do you a disjustice by taking you on and then, you know, I'm going to be struggling and shit.

00:33:24.000 I'd rather just have you chilling at home and taking care of the household, 10 kids, you know?

00:33:29.000 Alyssa, if your man is on the way up, has ambition, is going somewhere, would you wait for him to get his money up?

00:33:37.000 100%.

00:33:37.000 And I'm not just saying that just to say that.

00:33:39.000 Like, the last guy that I talked to, like, situationship, he didn't have a car, he didn't have his career, he had nothing.

00:33:45.000 And I'm strictly off of vibes. 0.95

00:33:48.000 Because, like, I don't know, I feel like people have money, and one day they lose all of those things, and you realize they're a loser. 0.90

00:33:54.000 They're boring.

00:33:55.000 So to me, personality, vibe, connection is everything to me, and I'm not just saying that.

00:33:59.000 And I think it's true like Miami gets this like rep that like all the women's like how dare you you know not have make 100k or 7k or you know it's like I mean seven figures like no like it's that's that's like your time are like one percent of the women who like probably spend 20k on themselves in a month you know because they got sugar dyes they got this and that but that's like so few so try not to label all women because here we have a woman right now is like no you're hard-working that's all that matters and I've got good spirit then yeah that's right Alright,

00:34:28.000 time is up.

00:34:29.000 Thank you, folks.

00:34:30.000 I think this is a good setup.

00:34:31.000 Thank you.

00:34:32.000 And also, real quick, so Alyssa, would you go on our first date with Gabriel?

00:34:37.000 Yeah, for sure.

00:34:39.000 Alright, there you have it.

00:34:40.000 Let's do it.

00:34:41.000 Awesome.

00:34:42.000 Thank you, folks.

00:34:42.000 So, Gabriel was a smooth talker.

00:34:44.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:45.000 Very smooth talker. 0.94

00:34:45.000 He got some game to him, but I already know what type of time this nigga are, man. 0.94

00:34:50.000 But I really do think, though, that they're on different pages.

00:34:54.000 Like, what she was putting down is like, I'm ready.

00:34:57.000 I'm not ready for games.

00:34:58.000 Like, you know, I'm ready for the real deal.

00:34:59.000 And he's like, I'm still traveling.

00:35:00.000 How old is she again?

00:35:01.000 26.

00:35:02.000 She's older.

00:35:03.000 Yeah.

00:35:03.000 Well, I will say this, though.

00:35:05.000 It could start off hot and heavy, maybe, and, you know, in her favor.

00:35:09.000 But again, where he's at, you never know.

00:35:11.000 Yeah.

00:35:12.000 You never know.

00:35:13.000 No, no.

00:35:13.000 It seems like, I think they're going to get a drink after this.

00:35:16.000 All right.

00:35:17.000 Welcome back, guys.

00:35:18.000 We got Kat and Rhett.

00:35:19.000 All right.

00:35:19.000 Here we go.

00:35:20.000 Let's do it.

00:35:22.000 Put your headphones on.

00:35:23.000 Thank you.

00:35:25.000 It's funny, though, because, well, I'll see it later.

00:35:28.000 All right.

00:35:29.000 All right, guys.

00:35:30.000 Welcome back, guys.

00:35:31.000 Oh, wow.

00:35:34.000 So it's time to get to know each other on a deeper level.

00:35:39.000 I'm ready.

00:35:39.000 You know, we can start you guys off with some icebreakers if you want.

00:35:42.000 You can just act as if you're on a date right now getting to know each other.

00:35:45.000 Yeah.

00:35:46.000 This is your three minutes of fame.

00:35:47.000 Let's do it.

00:35:48.000 Ready when you are.

00:35:48.000 Let's go.

00:35:50.000 All right, sounds good.

00:35:51.000 How's it going?

00:35:52.000 It's going great.

00:35:53.000 This is fun.

00:35:54.000 I love watching everyone go on these dates.

00:35:55.000 It's kind of sexy.

00:35:56.000 Yeah, me too.

00:35:57.000 I think it's a lot of fun, you know, watching, you know, everybody interact, you know, the magic fly, right?

00:36:02.000 Yeah, so tell me about you.

00:36:03.000 What's your favorite position?

00:36:06.000 Wait, is that how you start on first dates?

00:36:09.000 Yeah, I need to know.

00:36:11.000 I'm a vanilla guy.

00:36:12.000 I personally like missionary.

00:36:13.000 You know, sometimes, you know, you know what works best.

00:36:16.000 I mean, you know...

00:36:17.000 Simple works, you know?

00:36:19.000 I mean, I don't...

00:36:21.000 Simple.

00:36:22.000 No, that's cool.

00:36:23.000 How about you?

00:36:23.000 What's your answer?

00:36:26.000 Um...

00:36:26.000 I like...

00:36:27.000 Gonna be some shit I've never heard of, of course. 1.00

00:36:30.000 File driver. 1.00

00:36:32.000 What?

00:36:34.000 Do you know what that is?

00:36:37.000 We need a demonstration.

00:36:39.000 We need a demonstration.

00:36:39.000 Can we demonstrate real quick?

00:36:43.000 We need it, bro. 0.87

00:36:45.000 This is like sex ed, bro. 0.97

00:36:46.000 We need it. 0.65

00:36:52.000 We'll do it after the show.

00:37:02.000 What's your second best?

00:37:04.000 What does it feel like for a woman to be super confident in her sexuality? 0.93

00:37:12.000 Oh, I love it.

00:37:13.000 You know, that's my, you know, whole thing.

00:37:15.000 Anyone who's, you know, assertive, confident, you know, that, you know, I lean into that, you know.

00:37:20.000 I think if you went to, like, my old Bumble bio and it asked, like, what are you looking for?

00:37:25.000 Like, what turns you on?

00:37:27.000 It's like, you know, confidence and a smile.

00:37:29.000 You know, that's, you know, I lean into it.

00:37:32.000 I gotta know, what is your type, Rhett?

00:37:34.000 What's your type of girl that you go for naturally? 1.00

00:37:37.000 Oh, I love tall blondes. 1.00

00:37:39.000 Tall blonde. 0.76

00:37:39.000 There you go. 0.76

00:37:41.000 Okay.

00:37:41.000 Am I considered tall?

00:37:42.000 Maybe.

00:37:43.000 What's your like, I guess, tall figure?

00:37:46.000 Is that like six feet?

00:37:47.000 I don't do math.

00:37:48.000 I don't know.

00:37:49.000 I'm worried.

00:37:50.000 It's more about the ratios.

00:37:52.000 I love math, so that would sound perfect.

00:37:54.000 What's all you?

00:37:56.000 I'm 5'10".

00:37:57.000 So what is shorting you?

00:37:58.000 Is that bad?

00:37:59.000 I prefer that.

00:38:00.000 When I say that, I'm more mean.

00:38:04.000 It's a descriptor.

00:38:05.000 It's more like, okay, the silhouette of, okay, slim, aspirational.

00:38:11.000 With my background, I'm referring to a trophy wife. 1.00

00:38:16.000 Gotcha.

00:38:17.000 What's your type?

00:38:19.000 You know, this is so hard because I'm really eclectic.

00:38:22.000 I mean, that's the truth.

00:38:23.000 So I can go from...

00:38:25.000 It just depends on the mood I got.

00:38:27.000 I'm not going to lie.

00:38:29.000 Sometimes I'm really nerdy because I love those deep conversations.

00:38:32.000 Sometimes I just want to wild out.

00:38:34.000 So yeah, it's hard.

00:38:36.000 If you had to choose, BBC or WBC? What are you going to choose?

00:38:42.000 Oh my gosh, don't do this to me lately.

00:38:44.000 I'm not going to talk about this.

00:38:46.000 What?

00:38:48.000 Just, you can see what I've been doing lately.

00:38:50.000 Oh wow, okay.

00:38:51.000 That'll be after.

00:38:52.000 Okay, Rhett, where's the first date you're taking, Kat?

00:38:56.000 I'm a big cocktail bar guy.

00:38:59.000 I really like high-end rooftops.

00:39:01.000 I like views of the ocean.

00:39:02.000 That's my whole thing.

00:39:04.000 I haven't actually known a lot of guys who own high-end venues, so I'd probably go to one of my buddy's places as a slight flex.

00:39:11.000 I'd probably go outside of Brickell knowing that he lives in Brickell.

00:39:14.000 I'd be like, okay, bet.

00:39:15.000 Let me take you to my territory.

00:39:17.000 Let me get the home field advantage here.

00:39:20.000 I'd probably go out to the other side of town, maybe go North Beach.

00:39:25.000 Change of scenery, you know, vacation.

00:39:27.000 You mentioned her favorite, cocktail.

00:39:28.000 No pun intended.

00:39:32.000 I'm just saying, bro!

00:39:34.000 He knows me already.

00:39:35.000 This is great.

00:39:42.000 Are there any red flags?

00:39:45.000 If a guy does something on a first date, what would be a major red flag for you?

00:39:50.000 Just being really rude.

00:39:51.000 No manners.

00:39:53.000 Manners are big for me.

00:39:55.000 Definitely.

00:39:57.000 People are like, darling, don't worry.

00:40:01.000 What's the worst date you've ever had?

00:40:05.000 Ooh, that's a tough one.

00:40:07.000 Let me just say, never take a girl to a Chinese restaurant. 1.00

00:40:12.000 That's not the move.

00:40:14.000 We're not allowed.

00:40:15.000 You got to tell us, bro.

00:40:16.000 You got to tell us, bro.

00:40:17.000 What?

00:40:18.000 So, you know, it's just the whole vibe.

00:40:20.000 So you think like, all right, sushi is always the move, right?

00:40:23.000 We know that, right?

00:40:24.000 Because it's light, easy, you know, high-end, upscale.

00:40:26.000 They always love a picture.

00:40:27.000 A girl's always like, oh, let me go out the sushi. 1.00

00:40:30.000 But like, you know, Chinese, it's like some weird spicy shit. 1.00

00:40:33.000 You know, half that shit's runny. 1.00

00:40:35.000 It's like puts you on a full stomach. 1.00

00:40:37.000 So, you know, I mean, after hours, you know, immediately shut down.

00:40:41.000 It's just not the vibe.

00:40:43.000 Maybe that's why they pick it.

00:40:45.000 Not to be disrespectful, but the staff, they just tend not to set the vibe of a date.

00:40:53.000 Sometimes you just want a little service.

00:40:56.000 You want her to be fine-dined.

00:41:00.000 Understandable.

00:41:00.000 No Chinese restaurants.

00:41:02.000 Your worst date.

00:41:03.000 My worst date?

00:41:05.000 Um, I don't know.

00:41:07.000 I always have really good dates, but one time I hung out with a guy, it was, like, kind of later. 0.98

00:41:12.000 And so we were like, fine, we'll just stay in and, like, you know, have some, like, white claws and, like, lame shit. 0.99

00:41:17.000 And, um, he was so annoying that, like, I pity-fucked him just to get him to fucking leave. 1.00

00:41:24.000 Yikes. 0.99

00:41:24.000 That was the worst. 0.99

00:41:26.000 That's rough.

00:41:28.000 Okay, that was different.

00:41:29.000 I mean, it was super hot.

00:41:30.000 He was like, you know, he was like put together, but so, I mean, just boring.

00:41:35.000 I mean, I don't know.

00:41:37.000 It was funny, though.

00:41:39.000 I've had a worse date, but no.

00:41:41.000 It was really bad.

00:41:43.000 Rhett, question for you. 0.99

00:41:45.000 Does her being a porn star bother you? 0.89

00:41:47.000 I mean, it's, you know, an interesting choice of career, but, you know, I mean, I've seen worse, you know, and I've seen like...

00:41:54.000 I've seen worse?

00:41:55.000 No, I mean, it's...

00:41:57.000 No, I mean, I'm not gonna be disrespectful.

00:42:00.000 Do I think that it probably has, you know, some damage to status?

00:42:04.000 Yeah, potentially.

00:42:05.000 I mean, For context, I'm from Greenwich.

00:42:09.000 It's one of the top five wealthiest towns in America. 0.80

00:42:12.000 You don't really have a whole lot of porn stars in Greenwich, Connecticut.

00:42:18.000 But at the same time, I grew up in an industry that's like the entertainment world.

00:42:24.000 People do all kinds of things.

00:42:25.000 I've done business with Playboy models before. 0.93

00:42:29.000 We work on the metaverse for one of the biggest porn companies in the world.

00:42:34.000 You know, when I think about it, I'm like, alright, you know, I mean, there are worse things, you know, so it's like, you know.

00:42:39.000 Do I consider it something that I, like, advocate for?

00:42:47.000 No.

00:42:48.000 I mean, is it like, you know, it's not a deal breaker, you know.

00:42:51.000 He's open-minded.

00:42:52.000 He's open-minded.

00:42:55.000 Okay, last question for you, Kat.

00:42:57.000 So, yes or no?

00:43:00.000 Second date.

00:43:02.000 Can you smash?

00:43:04.000 Wait, those are two different questions.

00:43:07.000 This isn't like that terrible date I told you about.

00:43:10.000 I know, I know.

00:43:11.000 But you're absolutely lighting me up here.

00:43:14.000 Jeez.

00:43:15.000 Okay, try to answer a question.

00:43:17.000 Second date, yes.

00:43:18.000 I'm keeping a second date.

00:43:20.000 Okay, there you go.

00:43:21.000 I'm not that easy.

00:43:24.000 As you say.

00:43:25.000 Alright, cool.

00:43:25.000 Awesome.

00:43:26.000 Thank you.

00:43:26.000 That was great.

00:43:30.000 That was great.

00:43:31.000 That was awesome.

00:43:33.000 Thank you.

00:43:34.000 I know, bro.

00:43:36.000 I know.

00:43:37.000 It's bad.

00:43:38.000 Alright, guys.

00:43:39.000 Thank you so much.

00:43:40.000 Good job.

00:43:41.000 That was pretty funny.

00:43:43.000 I mean, at least she's not a nurse. 0.98

00:43:45.000 Yeah.

00:43:46.000 Oh, yeah.

00:43:46.000 Yeah.

00:43:47.000 I tend to think that nurses are worse than porn stars. 1.00

00:43:50.000 I don't know why, but they're undercover with it. 0.97

00:43:53.000 You feel me?

00:43:54.000 I'm telling you, Mary Kay, you don't know. 0.91

00:43:56.000 You've seen too many porns with nurses. 1.00

00:43:57.000 That's the thing. 0.95

00:43:58.000 No.

00:43:58.000 I'm telling you.

00:43:59.000 Look, I said, guys, we go to a club, we go out.

00:44:01.000 The nurse is always the one DTF. And it's so random because she's like, oh, I'm stressed from work.

00:44:06.000 That's when I have some fun.

00:44:06.000 And before you know it, I pass her off.

00:44:08.000 And I'm like, damn, that was easy. 0.92

00:44:10.000 But, uh, So, you know what? 0.97

00:44:12.000 Going back to Karen Red, at least she's putting everything out there.

00:44:16.000 She's honest.

00:44:17.000 Yeah.

00:44:18.000 And there's something to say about that in Miami and dating.

00:44:21.000 The honesty is very ironic for the situation.

00:44:24.000 Wait, let's say real quick.

00:44:26.000 Guys say they don't want to hear the honesty.

00:44:28.000 Do they?

00:44:29.000 Yes or no?

00:44:30.000 To be honest with you, they do want to hear it, but to put you in a box right away.

00:44:37.000 Yeah.

00:44:38.000 So if you're smart, you keep that from the guy.

00:44:40.000 And this is me being adversarial because I'm telling girls what to do to get the guy. 1.00

00:44:44.000 But for a guy, he shouldn't know because he can say yes or no to her in real time.

00:44:49.000 That's true, though.

00:44:49.000 Who's so smashed, though?

00:44:50.000 But what do you wait for?

00:44:51.000 Probably not.

00:44:52.000 No.

00:44:52.000 Probably not.

00:44:55.000 We got Scarlett and Alberto.

00:44:58.000 So we'll do three minutes on the clock.

00:45:00.000 Icebreaker challenge.

00:45:01.000 You guys get to know each other a little bit better.

00:45:03.000 And let's start.

00:45:06.000 Alberto was going to X. No!

00:45:07.000 What?

00:45:08.000 What's that? 0.99

00:45:09.000 Damn! 0.99

00:45:09.000 She said no! 0.99

00:45:11.000 Oh, that's no!

00:45:11.000 I didn't know.

00:45:12.000 My bad, my bad.

00:45:14.000 Wait, wait.

00:45:14.000 Is that for sure?

00:45:15.000 No, he did it too.

00:45:17.000 So the X means that he has to go right now.

00:45:19.000 Oh no, we can talk.

00:45:21.000 Let's talk for a little bit.

00:45:24.000 At any point in time, if you want to get him out here, just hit the button.

00:45:27.000 And then what?

00:45:28.000 What happens when I press it?

00:45:30.000 Someone else comes.

00:45:31.000 A different guy.

00:45:34.000 How old are you?

00:45:35.000 Different girl too?

00:45:40.000 Scarlet's a very nice girl.

00:45:42.000 She's very beautiful.

00:45:44.000 She's just very young for me.

00:45:46.000 I get that.

00:45:47.000 What's your usual type of age?

00:45:50.000 In her 30s.

00:45:51.000 I'm 36, so you know, maybe 28.

00:45:55.000 And then how's dating been for you?

00:45:56.000 For example, I guess older has been better, but like you ever try younger?

00:46:01.000 I have, but the thing about younger girls is they're just looking for money. 1.00

00:46:05.000 You know, they're looking for a guy.

00:46:06.000 Have you ever had a girl ask money from you on the first date?

00:46:10.000 Yeah.

00:46:11.000 Really?

00:46:12.000 Yeah.

00:46:12.000 Wait, how did that go down?

00:46:13.000 I had one girl ask me to pay her rent. 1.00

00:46:15.000 On the first date?

00:46:16.000 No way!

00:46:19.000 That's mommy. 1.00

00:46:21.000 On the first date?

00:46:22.000 Nah, it was on the first date.

00:46:24.000 It was later on.

00:46:26.000 Can I just ask you, what was the leading up to that?

00:46:29.000 It's like, oh man, life is so hard. 0.99

00:46:31.000 Yeah, she was playing like, oh my god, this sucks.

00:46:34.000 I can't pay my rent. 0.78

00:46:37.000 Scarlett, you wouldn't do that, right?

00:46:39.000 You would never do that, right?

00:46:41.000 Not on the first date.

00:46:43.000 When?

00:46:44.000 When?

00:46:45.000 Second date?

00:46:46.000 Not even, maybe second yet because I don't care about what I text the people that I don't know.

00:46:51.000 I text anything.

00:46:52.000 But if I know you, I'm not just gonna text you anything.

00:46:54.000 Like if you're my long-term friend, like I know you for 10 years, I'm not gonna ask you for money.

00:46:57.000 But if I know you for two days, I'ma ask.

00:46:59.000 I don't care.

00:47:00.000 Okay, because they might say yes.

00:47:01.000 No, because they might, because I don't care if it's yes or no.

00:47:05.000 I don't care.

00:47:05.000 But is that like a tendency for you?

00:47:07.000 Do you usually ask guys for money?

00:47:08.000 Yes.

00:47:10.000 I always ask.

00:47:14.000 Everyone.

00:47:15.000 But what do you mean?

00:47:16.000 Everyone your age asks.

00:47:18.000 Yes.

00:47:18.000 For anything.

00:47:19.000 Not at my age, but like age like him.

00:47:23.000 Maybe.

00:47:24.000 She sees me as a sugar daddy.

00:47:27.000 That was before though.

00:47:31.000 Okay.

00:47:32.000 And have you gotten money?

00:47:34.000 Yeah.

00:47:35.000 Absolutely.

00:47:36.000 So there's a culture in Miami where girls are in a league of their own because they can have multiple guys and just ask them, hey, I need 200 bucks. 1.00

00:47:44.000 I need to pay rent.

00:47:44.000 And you'd be surprised when you guys actually pay.

00:47:47.000 What do you think is the difference between the men who pay and the men who don't pay?

00:47:52.000 Well, for one, there's classes to, like, how men run game, and some guys have unlimited money, where it's like, they don't care, so here's 200 bucks, here's your right money, I don't care.

00:48:01.000 There's a guy that's like, you know what?

00:48:02.000 I work hard for my money, I'm gonna give it to you because I don't know you that well.

00:48:05.000 But once they get to know the girl better, then they may do it in the future, but, like, at the very beginning, it's kind of like, alright, I just met you, why are you asking for money?

00:48:11.000 It's weird.

00:48:12.000 Yeah.

00:48:13.000 So, in his response, I mean, to be fair, if I just met you, I'm gonna pay your rent!

00:48:18.000 That's crazy!

00:48:19.000 No, 100%.

00:48:21.000 Okay, so real quick.

00:48:24.000 Scarlett, do you foresee yourself dating somebody older or younger?

00:48:29.000 Younger, not at all.

00:48:30.000 And because the girls are more mature, right? 0.94

00:48:32.000 And I like from 23 to 33.

00:48:38.000 Okay.

00:48:38.000 And a question for you then.

00:48:42.000 Dating now in Miami, do you feel like an older guy can satisfy you fully?

00:48:47.000 In what way?

00:48:48.000 Financially, yes.

00:48:49.000 But not sexually, right?

00:48:51.000 No.

00:48:52.000 How many guys would you need to satisfy you? 0.97

00:48:55.000 Like, for everything?

00:48:56.000 Financially.

00:48:57.000 And sexually.

00:48:58.000 And emotionally.

00:49:00.000 Yeah.

00:49:00.000 I just want one.

00:49:02.000 You just want financial?

00:49:03.000 Yes.

00:49:03.000 But with everything.

00:49:04.000 Yeah, financially.

00:49:05.000 She doesn't care about love. 0.99

00:49:07.000 Do you?

00:49:08.000 I have feelings for someone.

00:49:11.000 Right now?

00:49:11.000 Yes.

00:49:12.000 Question.

00:49:13.000 How much does he have to make a year for you?

00:49:16.000 A year?

00:49:17.000 I don't do a year.

00:49:18.000 I'm from Europe, so I do a month.

00:49:19.000 A month.

00:49:20.000 How much a month you gotta make for your lifestyle?

00:49:25.000 I don't know, maybe 20-30k.

00:49:29.000 Okay.

00:49:30.000 A month?

00:49:31.000 A month.

00:49:32.000 A month.

00:49:33.000 Scarlett, how much do you make a month?

00:49:36.000 Me, I get the money from my boyfriend.

00:49:42.000 So that's why he has to make it.

00:49:44.000 Is it a sugar daddy?

00:49:45.000 No.

00:49:46.000 It's mine.

00:49:47.000 Yeah.

00:49:48.000 No.

00:49:49.000 So, let's keep it real here.

00:49:51.000 This is getting kind of tough.

00:49:54.000 Yes or no to Alberto?

00:49:55.000 No, no.

00:49:56.000 And yes or no to her?

00:49:57.000 No, thank you.

00:49:58.000 Okay, we're going to do a switch here real quick.

00:49:59.000 So just sit right there, brother.

00:50:01.000 And then we're going to have Hudson.

00:50:03.000 Come over here, bro.

00:50:04.000 We're back in the game.

00:50:05.000 Who wants to take a flight with me?

00:50:07.000 Okay, we have Captain Hudson over here.

00:50:10.000 Let's take a public flight.

00:50:11.000 Come on, baby. 0.97

00:50:13.000 Okay, okay, Hudson.

00:50:15.000 She is 19 years old, aspiring to be a trigger baby.

00:50:20.000 Just kidding.

00:50:20.000 What kind of?

00:50:21.000 And she's single.

00:50:23.000 She's single.

00:50:24.000 What say you?

00:50:25.000 Honestly, you know, I could do like maybe a week with her.

00:50:30.000 I'm going to be real, you know, because she's 19, you know, like, let's have some fun, boom, in and out, I'm good, you can live your life.

00:50:36.000 Is that a bad thing, Scarlett?

00:50:39.000 What?

00:50:39.000 Exactly.

00:50:40.000 Weekly.

00:50:40.000 Yeah, weekly.

00:50:42.000 Weekly.

00:50:43.000 In and out, he's like, here today, going tomorrow.

00:50:47.000 What do you want?

00:50:48.000 Yeah, what are you looking for?

00:50:49.000 Because I can see you like once a month.

00:50:51.000 Right now, for nothing.

00:50:53.000 But are you okay giving money to a woman? 0.99

00:50:56.000 You know, just when you see her.

00:50:57.000 You just met her.

00:50:58.000 I mean, you a pilot.

00:51:00.000 You know, because I'm in it now.

00:51:02.000 I don't know when I'm going to see you again.

00:51:05.000 Maybe, yes, when I come through and you're here and you provide that girlfriend experience, I don't mind paying.

00:51:13.000 Let's do it.

00:51:13.000 Are you serious?

00:51:14.000 Hell yeah! 1.00

00:51:15.000 Give me the whole girlfriend package, argue with me, curse me out, break up with me, let's get back together, and then let's go have makeup sex. 1.00

00:51:23.000 And then I'll just pay you at the end of the night, I'm with that. 0.98

00:51:25.000 But it seems like you're okay with love being transactional.

00:51:30.000 Right now, in the stage of my life, yes.

00:51:33.000 And you're okay with love being transactional?

00:51:34.000 I'm an astronaut, I'm always in the sky, I need to just come visit.

00:51:37.000 That's the whole love if it's transactional.

00:51:39.000 But that's what you want.

00:51:40.000 That's what you just said.

00:51:42.000 I don't want that.

00:51:43.000 I don't want nothing right now.

00:51:45.000 I don't want nothing right now, but it's not love if it's transactional.

00:51:51.000 It can never be.

00:51:53.000 So you understand that a guy who gives you money, it's just like transactional, not love.

00:51:59.000 Yes, no love.

00:52:00.000 There can't be no love.

00:52:02.000 So your actual boyfriend, would he have to give you money?

00:52:06.000 I would never ask for it.

00:52:09.000 Guys, guys.

00:52:09.000 Because I love him.

00:52:10.000 That's important.

00:52:11.000 Because you love him.

00:52:12.000 Of course.

00:52:12.000 That's important.

00:52:13.000 If I don't like you, I ask for money, for sure.

00:52:16.000 Guys, there you have it.

00:52:17.000 Check.

00:52:18.000 Alright.

00:52:19.000 That's true.

00:52:20.000 Yeah, 100%.

00:52:21.000 Okay, so yes or no to Hudson?

00:52:23.000 Nope.

00:52:24.000 No?

00:52:25.000 That was a fast no. 1.00

00:52:26.000 Goddamn. 0.99

00:52:27.000 I'm sorry, baby. 0.99

00:52:29.000 I'll do a yes.

00:52:30.000 Okay.

00:52:31.000 There you go.

00:52:32.000 Thank you, brother.

00:52:33.000 And then, Rick.

00:52:36.000 Yep.

00:52:37.000 Come over here, brother.

00:52:39.000 Okay, uh, Scarlett.

00:52:42.000 Yes.

00:52:42.000 My boy is over here.

00:52:44.000 Sorry, Rhett's over here.

00:52:45.000 And he is actually the guy of the hour.

00:52:49.000 He's popping.

00:52:50.000 He got the chains on.

00:52:51.000 Yes.

00:52:52.000 He's that guy.

00:52:54.000 How we doing?

00:52:56.000 So, uh, would you call on a date with Rhett?

00:52:59.000 Rhett.

00:53:02.000 No, he's not my type.

00:53:05.000 What's your type?

00:53:06.000 My type is Nigerian, Jamaicans, Afro-Americans.

00:53:12.000 Wait, how'd you call that?

00:53:13.000 You called that.

00:53:14.000 Because she's 19 and she's a stripper. 1.00

00:53:22.000 I was like in a fourth grade in a primary school so like what is the elementary and I like the guy he was from Portugal and I liked him already and I was a little girl I was like nine Portugal and Uganda aren't the same place honey He probably came over from Africa.

00:53:40.000 He was my classmate! 0.98

00:53:44.000 Aren't you fucking Eastern European? 1.00

00:53:46.000 What the hell is this? 1.00

00:53:47.000 Miss me with that bullshit, you know? 1.00

00:53:55.000 The Fabio look doesn't work for her. 1.00

00:53:58.000 Maybe the roommate look doesn't work for me.

00:54:01.000 She was saying that if she meets a guy and the guy isn't really, I guess, her type per se, she doesn't like the guy, she wants for money up front.

00:54:09.000 What do you think about that?

00:54:10.000 I think that, one, you should always be asking for money up front.

00:54:14.000 You know, it's a man's job to provide. 0.97

00:54:15.000 But then, two, if you don't like the guy, you shouldn't even be bothering to engage.

00:54:18.000 It's just a waste of time for everybody, you know?

00:54:20.000 At the end of the day, you're just gonna end up with a waste, you know, people are gonna be pissed, you know, you're gonna end up with bad vibes, and then you're gonna end up, you know, what, hopping to the next person?

00:54:27.000 I mean, then you're just on, like, some, you know, bad, like, parasite vibes.

00:54:30.000 But it's like, you know, if it is something where, you know, there is a romantic connection, Then of course, you know, I mean, there is a very clear dynamic in the relationship and, you know, it's a man's job to provide.

00:54:39.000 You know, ideally not in a directly monetary way, like, you know, more gifts, like, you know, diamonds look better than dollar bills.

00:54:47.000 But, you know, I do think that it is a man's job to provide.

00:54:52.000 And, you know, I mean, if you want to show, you know, kind of who you are, that's also one of the ways of, you know, quietly demonstrating status, you know?

00:55:00.000 Question for you, though, Rhett.

00:55:01.000 Let's say you met her for the first time.

00:55:03.000 She asked you to pay her rent.

00:55:05.000 What say you?

00:55:06.000 I mean, I obviously wouldn't do that, but, you know, it's like, okay...

00:55:09.000 There's a difference between providing and providing for the right person, right?

00:55:15.000 So I'd say that you met them for the first time and they're asking for you to pay the rent.

00:55:19.000 I think that seems like a gold digger.

00:55:21.000 I think that if you are dating and all of a sudden you guys have been seeing each other for, you know, one to three months, you know, and all of a sudden she's like, you know, and she's got a...

00:55:30.000 Context, right?

00:55:31.000 Context is the key to everything.

00:55:33.000 So it's like, okay, if she all of a sudden is like, hey, can I move in with you?

00:55:35.000 Can you cover my bills?

00:55:37.000 You know, I think things like that all of a sudden are very different.

00:55:40.000 You need to be a provider in that sense, but you need to demonstrate first that you are able to be a provider by doing things like, you know, offering gifts on the first date and, you know, paying for, you know, high-end restaurants and things like that.

00:55:52.000 So that's how you demonstrate that you can be a provider.

00:55:54.000 But then, of course, you are still vetting them as a partner.

00:55:58.000 So they still need to, you know, show that they are, you know, partner worthy because you're not going to provide for somebody who isn't worth being your partner.

00:56:04.000 So in that response, like, you know, basically if she's worth being your partner, then yeah, probably down the line you will end up paying her rent.

00:56:12.000 She probably will also end up eventually living with you. 1.00

00:56:14.000 You also pay your own rent.

00:56:15.000 So it's actually not that big of a deal.

00:56:17.000 There might be a short window where you are covering her bills in the interim. 0.57

00:56:20.000 It's really, you know, a no brainer.

00:56:22.000 So the provider.

00:56:23.000 Man is the provider.

00:56:24.000 Okay.

00:56:25.000 Now, as far as like the first date, if they don't give you like a gift, is that not a good sign?

00:56:32.000 I never got a gift on a first date.

00:56:34.000 Okay.

00:56:35.000 That's a bad sign.

00:56:37.000 I've never heard of gifts on a first date.

00:56:38.000 But what type of gift?

00:56:39.000 I've never heard of not giving a gift on the first date.

00:56:41.000 I mean, I've given $400 bracelets to girls I haven't even lost out yet.

00:56:46.000 Ladies, are you hearing this?

00:56:47.000 You understand?

00:56:48.000 Like, this is just such a red flag.

00:56:51.000 It's like, you know, I mean, I get that, you know.

00:56:54.000 But what y'all doing on a first date?

00:56:56.000 Maybe it speaks to your career.

00:56:57.000 You know, I'm not trying to be disrespectful.

00:56:59.000 But, you know, it is one of those things where you should be receiving gifts on the first date.

00:57:04.000 You know, because a man who can provide value...

00:57:06.000 For talking?

00:57:07.000 No, because it's not about the woman at that point at all.

00:57:11.000 It has nothing to do with the woman.

00:57:12.000 It is about the man signaling his ability to provide.

00:57:16.000 And it is about a man's status. 1.00

00:57:17.000 You are showing, hey, I'm a fucking baller. 1.00

00:57:20.000 A $500 fucking bracelet is nothing to me. 1.00

00:57:22.000 Fuck you! 1.00

00:57:23.000 Here's my fucking diamond tennis bracelet. 1.00

00:57:25.000 Here's the fucking $500 bill to swan down in the design district. 1.00

00:57:32.000 Tell her, bro. 1.00

00:57:32.000 It's nothing. 1.00

00:57:33.000 It's showing that you're that guy.

00:57:36.000 You want to be that guy.

00:57:38.000 You want to buy a ticket to the Ritz, a diamond bracelet.

00:57:42.000 You want to do whatever it is.

00:57:44.000 It needs to be no skin off your back.

00:57:46.000 So you do that.

00:57:48.000 Yes, I do.

00:57:50.000 I absolutely do.

00:57:51.000 Would you go on a date with him now?

00:57:53.000 No.

00:57:54.000 Oh, okay.

00:57:55.000 No.

00:57:56.000 Well, I mean, after what I've learned, I mean, you know, offer rescinded.

00:58:01.000 Okay, okay.

00:58:03.000 Thank you, Rhett.

00:58:09.000 That was amazing.

00:58:09.000 I did say I didn't want to be disrespectful.

00:58:11.000 No, no, no.

00:58:12.000 I did.

00:58:12.000 Okay, Chino.

00:58:13.000 We'll have you go, bro.

00:58:14.000 Thank you, bro.

00:58:15.000 I think what he was saying has its merit.

00:58:17.000 And in Miami, that's the thing.

00:58:18.000 That's the thing in Miami.

00:58:19.000 However, I think you should do fake bracelets.

00:58:24.000 What? 1.00

00:58:25.000 I'm talking shit. 1.00

00:58:27.000 Why are you not kidding? 1.00

00:58:31.000 Why are you saying you're kidding?

00:58:34.000 Okay, Gabriel.

00:58:35.000 Welcome back, brother.

00:58:38.000 Scarlet, he's not BBC gang, but he's close to it.

00:58:41.000 He's like Dominican. 1.00

00:58:43.000 Wow.

00:58:43.000 It's black enough.

00:58:44.000 I like Dominicans. 0.86

00:58:45.000 Black enough.

00:58:45.000 Okay.

00:58:46.000 So, would you begin commence?

00:58:51.000 She's 19 single, looking for a guy that's gonna love her.

00:58:55.000 If you don't like you, she's gonna love her.

00:58:56.000 I ain't gonna love you.

00:58:57.000 I'm telling you right now, I'm not gonna love you.

00:59:00.000 That last guy, that last guy for me, he probably got you a little wet, right?

00:59:04.000 He got you a little wet? 0.99

00:59:05.000 Talking about the money and shit? 1.00

00:59:07.000 No. 1.00

00:59:07.000 Nah? 1.00

00:59:08.000 Nah, I forget.

00:59:09.000 But listen, I'll be honest.

00:59:12.000 You from 2019?

00:59:13.000 You was born and raised in Miami?

00:59:14.000 No.

00:59:15.000 Where were you from?

00:59:16.000 Slovakia.

00:59:17.000 Slovakia? 0.82

00:59:17.000 When did you come to Miami? 0.82

00:59:19.000 Last year.

00:59:20.000 Last year?

00:59:21.000 June.

00:59:22.000 Oh, so you two went to the Miami scene then, right?

00:59:24.000 Mm-hmm.

00:59:25.000 You two went to the Miami scene?

00:59:27.000 I'm what?

00:59:27.000 New?

00:59:28.000 Too into?

00:59:29.000 You too into the Miami scene?

00:59:31.000 What does that mean?

00:59:32.000 You lost cause.

00:59:33.000 That's what I'm trying to say.

00:59:34.000 You're really into the Miami scene.

00:59:36.000 It's typical for girls to ask men for money. 1.00

00:59:38.000 You're already doing it after a year.

00:59:40.000 Did you do that in Slovakia before?

00:59:44.000 I mean, my dad always gave me everything, so I'm already used to it.

00:59:48.000 There's no chance I would date a broke guy.

00:59:50.000 Okay.

00:59:51.000 She's honest about it, though.

00:59:53.000 I'll give her that.

00:59:55.000 But Gabriel has to know.

00:59:57.000 Okay, there you go.

01:00:03.000 No, no.

01:00:04.000 Where's Alberto?

01:00:05.000 Alberto?

01:00:05.000 Yeah.

01:00:06.000 We need to give him a chance real quick.

01:00:08.000 Yeah.

01:00:08.000 Because Alberto was going through the heat today.

01:00:10.000 God damn. 0.99

01:00:11.000 I want to see Alberto with Rochelle. 0.99

01:00:13.000 Me too.

01:00:14.000 And I want to see Alberto.

01:00:16.000 Okay.

01:00:17.000 I see.

01:00:17.000 Bring Alberto and Rochelle.

01:00:19.000 But hold on.

01:00:20.000 Hold on.

01:00:21.000 I actually don't advise men to give gifts on the first day.

01:00:25.000 No, no, no.

01:00:26.000 I'm serious.

01:00:27.000 Okay.

01:00:27.000 Let's talk about this real quick.

01:00:28.000 Yeah.

01:00:28.000 So in the event, Rochelle and then Alberto.

01:00:31.000 Oh, okay.

01:00:32.000 In the event you meet a girl in Miami, typically what happens is, well not typically, what happens is sometimes they'll see you as a mark or they'll see you as somebody that they can hustle basically and they'll ask for it and if you're like wooed by her looks, you're like okay I'll give it to you and that could be where she gets what she wants without doing anything.

01:00:50.000 And it's based off superficial from the get-go, not feelings, not love, not any potential.

01:00:55.000 Now, an older guy talking to a younger girl is kind of like, okay, that's a given because that's the dynamic.

01:00:59.000 However, you gotta say, no, that's not what I do.

01:01:02.000 Here's how I move.

01:01:03.000 If you're cool with that, then let's operate.

01:01:05.000 It's a wrap.

01:01:06.000 So that's the kind of premise there.

01:01:07.000 But for most people that live in this culture here in Miami, that's normal.

01:01:12.000 They ask for money up front.

01:01:13.000 Like for example, you meet a girl, have a good time, you might smash. 0.98

01:01:16.000 And she'd be like in the morning, hey baby, my tire pops. 0.98

01:01:20.000 Can you get me a tire?

01:01:21.000 I happened to one of the contestants.

01:01:23.000 They had a great date.

01:01:24.000 Amazing.

01:01:24.000 They didn't have sex.

01:01:25.000 And the elevator going down.

01:01:27.000 So my rent is due at the end of the month.

01:01:29.000 That is typical.

01:01:29.000 What?

01:01:30.000 And you'd be surprised, guys will say no, but some will say yes.

01:01:34.000 Welcome back, guys.

01:01:35.000 Alberto!

01:01:36.000 Welcome back.

01:01:36.000 I'm back.

01:01:37.000 Rochelle.

01:01:38.000 Alright.

01:01:38.000 This is a new match here.

01:01:39.000 I think you guys are both a little bit older.

01:01:42.000 Three minutes on the clock.

01:01:44.000 Let's see what you got.

01:01:46.000 Icebreakers.

01:01:47.000 We know each other.

01:01:48.000 Wait, really?

01:01:49.000 Yeah, funny story.

01:01:51.000 We actually have met before.

01:01:52.000 Many times.

01:01:53.000 Wait, so...

01:01:54.000 Whoa, stop the show real quick.

01:01:57.000 It's a small world.

01:01:58.000 No date nothing?

01:01:59.000 No.

01:02:01.000 Okay.

01:02:01.000 So, she was dating my friend, and I went out with her friend.

01:02:07.000 Oh.

01:02:09.000 Wow, you guys.

01:02:10.000 Okay.

01:02:11.000 Interesting.

01:02:12.000 Wait, wait, hold on.

01:02:13.000 Sorry, go ahead.

01:02:14.000 I know, I'm curious, like, are there any attributes, and again, we're not going to try to force you guys or anything, but are there any attributes about the other person that you do like and you would want in a future partner?

01:02:24.000 We're just friends.

01:02:29.000 Rochelle owns a condo in Brickell and I like that aspect of her.

01:02:33.000 She's a homeowner. 1.00

01:02:36.000 She's got her own stuff going.

01:02:38.000 Is that important in a future partner?

01:02:41.000 Yeah, of course.

01:02:41.000 They're independent, they already have their own thing going on.

01:02:45.000 So you wouldn't want to date someone remotely like Scarlett who is just like... 0.99

01:02:50.000 Absolutely not.

01:02:52.000 I mean, I know you do very well for yourself, but even if you had the multi-multi-millions to give away...

01:02:57.000 I feel like somebody has got to bring something to the table.

01:03:01.000 Alberto, how do you source girls for yourself now? 0.56

01:03:04.000 How do you find girls now?

01:03:05.000 Dating apps or in person?

01:03:06.000 Just through friends, networking, work, and just traveling and doing whatever I do.

01:03:13.000 Do you want a wife now in your life? 0.62

01:03:15.000 Maybe at this point in my life, yeah.

01:03:18.000 And question for you.

01:03:19.000 Would you consider going outside the US? Like to Colombia, Venezuela, somewhere else?

01:03:23.000 No, I'm not a passport.

01:03:25.000 No?

01:03:26.000 Here, American soil only?

01:03:27.000 Yeah, USA. Why not?

01:03:29.000 Oh, yes.

01:03:30.000 Why not?

01:03:31.000 Well, it's back to like, you know, they want citizenship.

01:03:35.000 Okay.

01:03:35.000 You never know.

01:03:36.000 He knows what he's talking about.

01:03:37.000 Hey man, he's on game, bro.

01:03:39.000 I'm from Miami.

01:03:40.000 I'm from Miami.

01:03:41.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:03:42.000 So we'll play Alberta, because you seem very wise as well.

01:03:46.000 Tell the guys here watching, one thing to look out for with women that may be trying to scheme on you. 0.97

01:03:51.000 Yeah, what's the one you look out for?

01:03:52.000 One red flag.

01:03:53.000 One or two.

01:03:54.000 Red flag?

01:03:54.000 Yeah.

01:03:55.000 With women that you've seen.

01:03:58.000 Well, you can kind of just tell by the way they dress sometimes, you know.

01:04:02.000 That is actually what I want to touch on real quick.

01:04:04.000 They're gorgeous.

01:04:06.000 I mean, like, there's no lacking of gorgeous women in this city.

01:04:09.000 But I think, yeah, when a woman tells you that she spends, like, over $10,000 on just self-care, like, and just nails and things like that, like, they're going to expect someone to pay for that. 0.93

01:04:19.000 And so if you're signing up for that, then so be it.

01:04:21.000 Just know that you're signing up for that.

01:04:22.000 I know girls that get BBLs, and they want credit. 1.00

01:04:26.000 Then they have a boyfriend and like, babe, I have some debt and you paid off.

01:04:29.000 Can you help me pay out debt?

01:04:30.000 And that's from the BBL. That's what happens, man.

01:04:32.000 Okay, Rochelle, you've been very quiet, but tell us your dream man.

01:04:37.000 Yeah.

01:04:39.000 Well, not what I had before, but...

01:04:42.000 Was that your friend?

01:04:44.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:04:44.000 Oh, damn. 1.00

01:04:46.000 Shout out to German. 1.00

01:04:47.000 Oh, damn. 1.00

01:04:49.000 Don't even go there. 1.00

01:04:51.000 In the past, in the past. 1.00

01:04:53.000 Damn. 1.00

01:04:54.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:04:54.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:04:55.000 I'm figuring that out right now.

01:04:59.000 What's one or two qualities that you know you cannot?

01:05:02.000 A good, nice person who's respectful and has their life together.

01:05:09.000 Fun, outgoing, likes to do things, but just a good person.

01:05:15.000 You're really fun and outgoing.

01:05:16.000 I see you all the time in a different place on Instagram.

01:05:18.000 Yeah, I love going out.

01:05:19.000 You're very shy on the show, though.

01:05:20.000 Yeah.

01:05:21.000 They caught me totally off guard.

01:05:23.000 I got you.

01:05:24.000 All right, so we're going to close this up here real quick, guys.

01:05:27.000 You got any chats, Moe and Bills?

01:05:28.000 Yeah.

01:05:29.000 But they just are coming in now.

01:05:31.000 Cool.

01:05:31.000 All right.

01:05:32.000 Aisy, could you bring all the girls in the back and all the guys, too, as well, over here?

01:05:35.000 All the girls.

01:05:37.000 And all the guys.

01:05:37.000 Everybody together.

01:05:38.000 Everybody.

01:05:39.000 So...

01:05:39.000 From behind the curtain, all the way from the spin wheel, and behind the front.

01:05:44.000 Welcome back.

01:05:47.000 Okay, cool.

01:05:48.000 Cool, cool, cool.

01:05:50.000 So, I want to ask all the people here so far, if you're going to go on a second date with somebody here, stand next to them and make some space.

01:05:58.000 Yep.

01:05:58.000 So, if you're going on a second date with somebody.

01:06:00.000 So, let's say the first date was well and you want to go on a second date, let me know.

01:06:03.000 Perfect.

01:06:04.000 So, we got Hudson next to Rochelle.

01:06:06.000 We got Gabriel and Alyssa.

01:06:08.000 Right on.

01:06:08.000 We got Raj and Coco.

01:06:11.000 We got Kat and Rhett.

01:06:14.000 And Scarlett is saying no to everybody.

01:06:17.000 Okay.

01:06:18.000 Lovely.

01:06:20.000 She won our BBC gang.

01:06:21.000 Okay, cool.

01:06:23.000 Alright, this was a great show.

01:06:24.000 I think we did some good work here.

01:06:26.000 Yeah, you guys brought really good energy.

01:06:29.000 Hudson was amazing, by the way.

01:06:30.000 Thank you, man.

01:06:30.000 Anybody want to take a private flight?

01:06:32.000 I got you, no problem.

01:06:35.000 There we go, there we go.

01:06:37.000 Okay.

01:06:37.000 I got you, I'm going to hook you up.

01:06:39.000 Alright, anyone tonight going out for a drink after this?

01:06:42.000 I'm going all right.

01:06:44.000 Gabriel and Alyssa?

01:06:46.000 Anybody else?

01:06:47.000 Any past contestants?

01:06:48.000 Yes, so I did follow up with one couple weeks ago and they went on three dates and right now, yes, and right now she just moved home. 1.00

01:06:58.000 Oh, and he helped her move.

01:07:00.000 That was really sweet.

01:07:01.000 But she's in the midst of actually finding new work and she's like, I know I just got to channel my energy and she goes, I understand it's all about timing, but for now we're going to be good friends until I get my feet on the ground career and stuff.

01:07:13.000 Did he smash?

01:07:17.000 Okay, it's fine, it's fine, it's fine.

01:07:20.000 Alright guys, thank you for watching, man.

01:07:21.000 We're going to do a Zoom call on Locals right after this.

01:07:24.000 And Yacht Party's going to be in July.

01:07:26.000 We're going to push it back for you guys as well.

01:07:28.000 We're going to be in Vegas for 28th of Power Slap. 0.98

01:07:30.000 So we'll do it in July and I'll see you guys there.

01:07:32.000 But real quick, some chats before we head out here.

01:07:36.000 All right.

01:07:37.000 Thank you, everyone.

01:07:37.000 Thank you, guys.

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01:07:46.000 Oh, self promo.

01:07:47.000 All right.

01:07:47.000 No problem.

01:07:49.000 My biggest problem dating is that girls finish too quick and tweet for a fourth round. 1.00

01:07:54.000 Any advice?

01:07:55.000 Yeah, what the heck, bro?

01:07:57.000 How much juice do you got?

01:07:58.000 Probably a lot.

01:08:00.000 Short King 13.

01:08:01.000 That is hippo and some hand signs.

01:08:03.000 Shout out to you, bro.

01:08:04.000 Cool.

01:08:05.000 We got Matt Lez says, WStream.

01:08:08.000 Firewood, shout out to you, bro.

01:08:10.000 RoughRider7 says, WFNF, WMK, WStream.

01:08:13.000 So much to debunk this is crazy. 0.73

01:08:16.000 Imagine the porn star saying she's not that easy. 0.99

01:08:18.000 The European chick is so delulu. 1.00

01:08:19.000 Don't need to bring her in outdoors to save her.

01:08:21.000 Gold digger at plain sight.

01:08:23.000 This is hilarious.

01:08:24.000 Yes, it was a lot of RP truce there you should have seen coming up.

01:08:27.000 That's interesting.

01:08:29.000 Yeah, this is a more relaxed show, guys.

01:08:31.000 It's not as serious and as robust, but I will say that you can learn a lot from watching your show, even if you don't think so, just by listening to what they're seeing and their actions as well.

01:08:39.000 Most definitely.

01:08:40.000 Yes, a lot.

01:08:42.000 Is that it?

01:08:44.000 Oh, we can't show it on YouTube?

01:08:46.000 Yeah, this one I don't want to show on YouTube.

01:08:47.000 Okay, we won't show this one on YouTube.

01:08:48.000 Well, if you want to read it, you can read it.

01:08:50.000 We'll read it on Castle Club later on.

01:08:52.000 Alright, guys.

01:08:53.000 MK, where can they find you?

01:08:55.000 MKMatchmaking.com, MKMatchmaking on Instagram, MKMatchmaking TikTok, and MKMatchmaking YouTube.

01:09:01.000 So go ahead and follow guys.

01:09:02.000 And yeah, I'd be happy to give you advice for men and women.

01:09:06.000 But more particularly men who have been following me.

01:09:09.000 And if you're a Miami guy, she does these matchmaking events in person.

01:09:12.000 So if you're single, you want to meet people here in Florida and Miami, hit her up and you can do that as well.

01:09:17.000 Yeah, actually, real quick, July 11th, we're doing our first virtual one.

01:09:20.000 I partnered with a big marketing agency here, and they're like, we've got the platform, bring the people.

01:09:25.000 So, guys, even if you're not in Miami, come to the virtual event, because you are going to be matched with amazing people, quality singles.

01:09:31.000 Okay, awesome.

01:09:32.000 Alright, guys, this was the show here.

01:09:33.000 Thank you for watching, and I'll see you guys on Castle Club right now with a Zoom call, and then another stream.

01:09:41.000 Cool.

01:09:41.000 Alright, guys, peace.

01:09:49.000 I just run, I run for night and day

Fresh & Fit - June 19, 2024

A Fresh Match With Speed Dating!

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