Fresh & Fit - After Hours featuring Sepy Modern Dating Exposed

00:28:59.000 And we are live, folks.

00:29:00.000 Welcome back to Outdoors Podcast with the lovely Seffi.

00:29:03.000 Hi.

00:29:04.000 And I know who you are.

00:29:05.000 If they don't know who you are, tell them who you are.

00:29:08.000 My name is Seffi. 1.00

00:29:09.000 What's up, bitches? 1.00

00:29:10.000 No, I'm just joking. 1.00

00:29:11.000 What's up, guys?

00:29:13.000 Yeah, what am I supposed to say?

00:29:14.000 I'm Seffi.

00:29:15.000 Okay.

00:29:15.000 Where are you from?

00:29:17.000 I'm from Canada originally, and now I'm here.

00:29:20.000 Okay.

00:29:20.000 And what's your background?

00:29:22.000 Is it like you're going to Canada, you came over here?

00:29:25.000 Like, what's your goal for America?

00:29:27.000 What's your things you do for hobbies, for work?

00:29:31.000 So, I grew up in Canada.

00:29:33.000 I grew up in an ultra Orthodox Jewish community, which is what?

00:29:36.000 Yeah.

00:29:38.000 Are you Jewish? 0.99

00:29:39.000 No.

00:29:39.000 Well, my mom's Russian, but no.

00:29:42.000 Mother Russia. 0.63

00:29:43.000 Yeah.

00:29:43.000 Okay.

00:29:44.000 I'm Persian and Russian.

00:29:46.000 And I moved from Canada to here because I just wanted to be in a warm environment.

00:29:52.000 I wanted to be in a better economy.

00:29:55.000 And overall, the frequency in Canada is not it.

00:29:58.000 I feel like everybody's just like at a standstill.

00:30:00.000 It's weird.

00:30:01.000 Trudeau.

00:30:02.000 Trudeau.

00:30:02.000 There's Brown Town in Toronto as well.

00:30:04.000 Fuck this up. 1.00

00:30:05.000 Can I say that for a second? 1.00

00:30:06.000 Of course, of course. 0.98

00:30:07.000 So I think he fucked this up royally down the drain and I had to leave. 0.98

00:30:12.000 So we've heard from multiple girls on the show and guys that are in Canada that dating sucks because men aren't men over there at all. 0.98

00:30:19.000 Is that true? 0.77

00:30:22.000 In general.

00:30:23.000 I feel like it's better there than it is here.

00:30:25.000 The guys here, yeah. 1.00

00:30:26.000 The guys here are on some feminine shit, gay shit. 1.00

00:30:30.000 I don't know what's going on here. 1.00

00:30:31.000 Wait, more than Canada?

00:30:32.000 Yeah.

00:30:34.000 Really?

00:30:34.000 That's the first.

00:30:35.000 Really?

00:30:35.000 I've heard the opposite.

00:30:36.000 No, I feel like the guys in Canada, at least they have some sort of like backbone.

00:30:41.000 Here, it's kind of like it's very feminized, the guys here. 0.61

00:30:45.000 Like, they're wearing like curly jewelry, go yard.

00:30:50.000 Some of them have nail polish on.

00:30:52.000 Have you seen those guys?

00:30:53.000 Yeah, I know some guys like that. 0.99

00:30:54.000 What the fuck is that? 0.99

00:30:55.000 Okay, guys, newsflash. 1.00

00:30:56.000 If you wear nail polish as a man, that is gay. 1.00

00:30:59.000 Even if it's clear, I was talking, there's like four different people that I've met that wear nail polish, and one of them was like, no, two of them like, girls like it. 0.99

00:31:09.000 Like, what girls like guys with nail polish?

00:31:13.000 I don't understand. 1.00

00:31:14.000 Bisexuals, maybe they want you to be a lesbian. 1.00

00:31:16.000 Like, they want to date a girl. 1.00

00:31:17.000 Okay. 0.99

00:31:18.000 And they're telling you, this guy gay.

00:31:19.000 Tell me, what do you think? 0.76

00:31:21.000 First appearance, first glance.

00:31:23.000 Don't show them yet, but like.

00:31:25.000 Yeah, I think so.

00:31:26.000 You know what's crazy? 0.96

00:31:27.000 Okay, so guys, even if you're not gay and you wear nail polish on your nails, automatically you think that you're gay. 0.99

00:31:36.000 It is what it is. 0.61

00:31:37.000 And just don't do that.

00:31:38.000 It's not masculine, man.

00:31:39.000 It's very feminine.

00:31:40.000 I don't know what girls are telling them that. 0.95

00:31:42.000 I think it's like OnlyFans or something that are telling them that clear nail polish is good. 0.98

00:31:46.000 I like manicure and pedicure, like, you know, clean that shit up. 0.99

00:31:50.000 So, this is my theory, right? 0.99

00:31:50.000 No, no. 0.99

00:31:52.000 My theory is that they want to toughen up the game for themselves, make it harder to get girls, or prove they can get girls with nail polish.

00:31:58.000 That's my theory behind it.

00:32:00.000 Where did you bring that theory from?

00:32:01.000 Because why would you.

00:32:02.000 It's too smart for them, I feel like.

00:32:05.000 I feel like it's too smart.

00:32:06.000 Do you think so?

00:32:07.000 Because Drake doesn't have to do that.

00:32:10.000 So, why would you do that to yourself?

00:32:12.000 To limit your access or like lower your chances, I don't know.

00:32:15.000 That's something I had theories, but like who knows?

00:32:17.000 When you're like very successful and you can get any girl you want, you get bored.

00:32:21.000 Like that, yeah.

00:32:23.000 So then you start to experiment and do different things.

00:32:25.000 So I don't know about Drake.

00:32:26.000 I wouldn't date him because honestly, after I saw the nail polish, I was out.

00:32:30.000 But really?

00:32:31.000 Yeah, I can't date a guy with nail polish.

00:32:33.000 He might buy you a Maybach. 1.00

00:32:34.000 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

00:32:36.000 Okay, you know what? 0.99

00:32:37.000 It's embarrassing.

00:32:37.000 This is perfect.

00:32:38.000 What does Steffi, or you know, put that. 1.00

00:32:42.000 Why is Steffi single right now? 1.00

00:32:43.000 Obviously, you're attractive. 1.00

00:32:44.000 You have a good personality.

00:32:44.000 Thank you.

00:32:45.000 Thank you.

00:32:46.000 And you're a cool person to be around.

00:32:47.000 Thanks.

00:32:48.000 As a friend.

00:32:48.000 Thank you.

00:32:49.000 Of course. 0.90

00:32:49.000 Why do you think you're single? 0.90

00:32:52.000 Or why are you single?

00:32:52.000 I don't want to be.

00:32:53.000 I'm chilling right now.

00:32:54.000 When I've always been in long term relationships and I take relationships very seriously, like for me to get into a relationship, it has to be purposeful.

00:33:03.000 Like there has to be a purpose that we're coming together.

00:33:06.000 It has to be like the same vision, the same goal.

00:33:08.000 And I just don't get into relationships just because, oh, I think I like somebody or oh, I think, you know, like no, I don't want to waste my time.

00:33:16.000 So, and I'm just chilling right now.

00:33:17.000 Like I don't have to be in a relationship, I don't have to be dating.

00:33:20.000 Like, why? 0.58

00:33:20.000 But do you think that a lot of women nowadays are delusional because they feel like they don't nearly need a man? 0.58

00:33:27.000 But I really do.

00:33:28.000 And they'll say, like, you know, I'm independent.

00:33:29.000 I'm a boss babe.

00:33:30.000 No.

00:33:31.000 And I'm just picking to be single now.

00:33:33.000 Just because.

00:33:33.000 Honestly, I think it's a virus, like other things, other agendas and whatever.

00:33:37.000 I think that kind of mentality is a virus. 0.99

00:33:39.000 I'm the type of woman that needs a man. 1.00

00:33:42.000 So the way that I see it, it's just like some propaganda bullshit that's been spread out. 0.99

00:33:48.000 And now, you know, the reverse, the roles are reversed. 0.99

00:33:51.000 Guys are wearing fucking nail polish and girls are being boss babes, you know? 0.99

00:33:56.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:33:57.000 And as somebody, my mom was a businesswoman and.

00:34:00.000 And as somebody who's seen what it's like to be a businesswoman, yes, it is respectable.

00:34:06.000 But when it comes down to it, the truth is if you want to be a businesswoman, you're going to become masculine because the people that you are going against are men.

00:34:14.000 And what do men do?

00:34:16.000 They don't think like women.

00:34:18.000 Men are like, I saw this video.

00:34:21.000 I don't know who it's by.

00:34:22.000 So if I don't know, I'm not taking credit.

00:34:25.000 But the person says men will set up shop and like, Put their name everywhere, but women will like set up shop, keep going, and then bring everyone together, something like that.

00:34:37.000 And I feel like it's not a place, like a workplace is not a place for one.

00:34:42.000 I've dealt with the corporate world, it's just not it. 0.99

00:34:44.000 That's why you should have your woman at home doing her own hobby or business, not a job because you have work husbands, you got like different distractions. 1.00

00:34:53.000 So you're right, you've got men competing with you too. 1.00

00:34:55.000 Like if you're an attractive, intelligent woman, other men are jealous of you, and other men try to use your resources in order to hire you. 0.98

00:35:02.000 100%.

00:35:04.000 In the workplace, I have so many stories.

00:35:07.000 Like, tell us one.

00:35:10.000 Give us one story from your workplace where a guy competed with you because you were good looking.

00:35:15.000 Wait, are you good looking?

00:35:16.000 Am I, guys?

00:35:17.000 I don't know.

00:35:18.000 Comment.

00:35:19.000 I don't know.

00:35:20.000 Or don't, actually.

00:35:21.000 You don't want to take it.

00:35:24.000 You don't want that.

00:35:25.000 Please.

00:35:26.000 Yeah, I'll tell you a story.

00:35:28.000 So, this guy, I was working in a corporate setting and I tried to do the corporate thing to make my parents happy.

00:35:34.000 And He likes me and he kept, like, you know, just he they make your life difficult, you know.

00:35:41.000 Um, and you know, one thing led to another.

00:35:45.000 Uh, he couldn't, you know, rage bait me.

00:35:49.000 This actually has happened multiple times.

00:35:51.000 Most recently, this has happened this year.

00:35:52.000 Let me tell you the most recent thing actually has happened.

00:35:56.000 I'm not gonna say any names, but I was supposed to help with a different show.

00:36:03.000 Is that a streamer?

00:36:05.000 I'm not giving this person clout.

00:36:06.000 I don't want this person to have any clout whatsoever.

00:36:08.000 Do I know them? 0.98

00:36:09.000 No, like somebody who's like, you know, those people who haven't made it and they do like stupid videos and they think, oh my God, everybody knows me now. 0.98

00:36:17.000 Everybody, like, you know, like one of those guys. 0.97

00:36:19.000 They got one viral video, two viral.

00:36:21.000 It's like, okay.

00:36:22.000 Exactly.

00:36:23.000 So he has a huge ego.

00:36:24.000 So this person, I stood up for myself and it was like a group chat of like multiple men that we were working on a project together.

00:36:34.000 And then I knew when this person came back from his work trip that I would be off the show.

00:36:39.000 I already felt it.

00:36:39.000 I already knew his personality.

00:36:41.000 Like, you gotta kiss this person's ass. 1.00

00:36:44.000 I couldn't do my job around him either because when I would talk to him, I would tell him my ideas. 1.00

00:36:49.000 And then, like right in front of me, he would be like, Oh, I don't know.

00:36:52.000 And then re-urgitate my idea back to me in my face.

00:36:56.000 Do you know how difficult it is for somebody to do their job while they're dealing with somebody like that?

00:37:01.000 So he was hitting on you because you were better looking at him?

00:37:05.000 He was hitting on me because he thought that I would steal his limelight.

00:37:08.000 His shine.

00:37:09.000 Right.

00:37:10.000 No, no, sorry.

00:37:10.000 That's not even a story.

00:37:10.000 Wait, this.

00:37:11.000 Let me get to the story.

00:37:12.000 So he comes back.

00:37:13.000 We're in the office.

00:37:15.000 And he's rambling.

00:37:16.000 He does this thing where he's not straightforward and he talks and whatever. 1.00

00:37:19.000 So I let him just, you know, do his fucking shitty thing. 0.99

00:37:22.000 And he thinks he's. 1.00

00:37:24.000 Getting away with it, but he's not.

00:37:26.000 I could see right through this guy.

00:37:27.000 So he's like, okay, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:37:30.000 You're off the show.

00:37:31.000 And I look at him, I'm like, okay, cool.

00:37:34.000 Thank God.

00:37:35.000 So, so, wait, wait.

00:37:37.000 And then, and then he looks at me, he analyzes me to see if I would, if there's any reaction.

00:37:44.000 And he's like, you're not going to cry. 1.00

00:37:46.000 And I was like, this motherfucker. 1.00

00:37:48.000 So he wanted a reaction. 1.00

00:37:49.000 Yeah.

00:37:50.000 Now, now, okay.

00:37:51.000 Just to be real with you, though, like, were you being annoying?

00:37:54.000 Were you like, no.

00:37:55.000 I was not being annoying.

00:37:57.000 The CEO was telling me to do something and asking another person to do it that just came on the show.

00:37:57.000 I was trying to do my job.

00:38:04.000 And they just were making my life difficult.

00:38:08.000 So, you do a bunch of shows, right?

00:38:09.000 But you're very selective about what shows you're going on.

00:38:11.000 You're very picky.

00:38:12.000 Yeah, very picky.

00:38:12.000 How do you pick what shows to go on?

00:38:14.000 How do you pick who to work with?

00:38:15.000 Because, are you like a creator?

00:38:16.000 Are you like in between?

00:38:18.000 I am like in between behind the scenes.

00:38:21.000 I work with a lot of, like, I'm the strategic person.

00:38:25.000 I'm like the brains behind a lot of, like, maybe.

00:38:27.000 Spiral moments, different things that are happening behind the scenes.

00:38:32.000 So, yeah, that's what I do.

00:38:33.000 And then I also help bring people together in partnerships and in media.

00:38:37.000 So, yeah.

00:38:39.000 So, question for you I can guarantee your DMs are crazy.

00:38:39.000 Okay.

00:38:42.000 Yeah.

00:38:43.000 I can guarantee.

00:38:44.000 What's like the most insane approach someone's given to you in DMs?

00:38:48.000 Like, for example, was it like a gift, an emoji?

00:38:52.000 Was it like a request?

00:38:54.000 Gift and emoji.

00:38:55.000 That's not insane.

00:38:56.000 It's kind of boring, to be honest.

00:38:58.000 I don't know.

00:38:59.000 They try to like offer you like money.

00:39:01.000 They try to, they like send you like their cars and their whips.

00:39:05.000 They try to, they send their cars to your DM.

00:39:07.000 Yeah, they're like, oh, look at my car. 0.99

00:39:10.000 Yo, bro, that's an L. That's a huge L. Like, that should be done like in discovery, not, not, not for some girls.

00:39:18.000 Like, the only, whatever, the girls here, it's like, oh my God, he has this car.

00:39:21.000 But it could be a rental though.

00:39:24.000 It could be a rental, exactly.

00:39:25.000 But they don't know.

00:39:26.000 And a lot of girls don't understand, like, When a guy is like showing you his car, even if you go out with a guy and you're like, he has a Lamborghini or anything like that, that has nothing to do with the girl.

00:39:37.000 The man's car or anything literally has nothing to do with the girl.

00:39:41.000 The way the man treats you, that's all, that's what it's about.

00:39:44.000 Yes, there's a lifestyle and you have to be very aware of what kind of lifestyle he's bringing you into because that's what's happening when you date somebody.

00:39:52.000 But his car, that's not yours and has literally nothing to do with it. 1.00

00:39:54.000 And these girls don't get it. 0.98

00:39:56.000 But isn't it funny because even though girls don't get it, they still fall for it? 1.00

00:40:00.000 Because they're young. 1.00

00:40:01.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:40:01.000 So it works.

00:40:03.000 Have a nice car does work.

00:40:03.000 I'll say this, guys.

00:40:05.000 However, it can get you in the door, but to close, you still need to actually have a game because, or some money.

00:40:12.000 You know what?

00:40:13.000 On that note, I've been in Miami for 12 years.

00:40:16.000 I've seen things.

00:40:17.000 12 years.

00:40:18.000 I've seen people come and go, trends up and down.

00:40:21.000 But what's been constant here and in major cities I've been in is the money play.

00:40:25.000 What's the money play?

00:40:26.000 Money play basically, for example, I meet you, well, not you, a different girl, like what AB does. 0.58

00:40:31.000 Hey, I'll pay you a K, 2K.

00:40:33.000 Let's go.

00:40:33.000 And they're going.

00:40:34.000 These are like paid girls. 0.96

00:40:37.000 I understand. 0.87

00:40:38.000 But my thing is, it's growing exponentially.

00:40:41.000 Because think about it a couple years ago, that we looked upon as, yo, you're weird.

00:40:44.000 No, it's normal.

00:40:45.000 Yeah, and obviously, this is the oldest profession actually in history.

00:40:50.000 But, like, in my instance, it's kind of like I'm staying with regular girls, college girls, it's like bad.

00:40:55.000 What do you think about that?

00:40:56.000 No, I think you're right, you're absolutely right for like staying here, like seeing how it is in Miami.

00:41:02.000 That's it's normalized, but if you go somewhere like Canada, it's still not like normalized.

00:41:07.000 But here a lot, and Los Angeles, I think.

00:41:09.000 So, how do you stay out of that light?

00:41:11.000 Because, obviously, speaking, I know people might try to put you in that category just because you're around certain people, but you're obviously not, yeah.

00:41:17.000 But, like, how do you stay out of that, like, crowd or that, like, environment?

00:41:21.000 Um, I'm in it, but I'm not in it.

00:41:24.000 Like, I'm like an observer, like a cat, basically.

00:41:28.000 And I think, or rat, or rat, or rat.

00:41:31.000 And I, I think what's helped me is I have strong morals, a strong moral compass.

00:41:38.000 And that's, that's it.

00:41:40.000 You just have to have a good foundation and just hold to it.

00:41:45.000 And, like, when people meet me, like, what you said, they know that energy.

00:41:48.000 Like, they know I'm not like that.

00:41:49.000 They actually think, Like, I'm a woman, I'm classy, whatever, and they don't categorize me.

00:41:53.000 Guys, not to toot her horn, but I've seen her on a lot of big streamers, creators, players.

00:41:58.000 She's turned them down. 0.96

00:42:00.000 And I'm like, damn, like, she's a little bit different. 0.98

00:42:03.000 A little bit different, not fully, but a little bit different. 0.97

00:42:05.000 Now, I guess this is more of a direct question here.

00:42:11.000 How would you know if the guy's for you?

00:42:15.000 For example, they could sell you a dream, they could love bomb you.

00:42:19.000 How do you know if a guy's really for you?

00:42:21.000 Because obviously you get pushed all the time, you got a lot of guys hitting you up.

00:42:24.000 How do you know if they're for you or not?

00:42:26.000 If they're just trying to help me out and make my life easier and they're consistent, I feel like a lot of guys try and then they're like, oh, she's not down.

00:42:35.000 Okay, next.

00:42:36.000 But if they're consistent and they want to be in my life and they stay like attached and there's no sexual in it, what is it called?

00:42:44.000 Innuendos.

00:42:50.000 But for me, I'm going to be really honest with you.

00:42:52.000 It's very difficult for guys to stay in my life and not look at me.

00:42:57.000 In a certain way.

00:42:58.000 It doesn't even matter if I wear a garbage bag or whatever.

00:43:00.000 Like, I don't believe in girls and guys can be friends. 0.99

00:43:05.000 So, Sephi, cut the crap here. 0.99

00:43:08.000 How long do I gotta wait? 0.99

00:43:09.000 I don't know till I actually know that they're serious.

00:43:13.000 But that could take a month.

00:43:16.000 A month?

00:43:17.000 It's a little bit early.

00:43:17.000 Okay, how long?

00:43:19.000 Early?

00:43:20.000 Yeah.

00:43:21.000 I get to know a person in a month.

00:43:21.000 How long does it take?

00:43:23.000 People here are so fake.

00:43:24.000 People in general, that's true. 0.96

00:43:26.000 People in my mirror are very fake.

00:43:27.000 Yeah.

00:43:28.000 We gotta wait.

00:43:29.000 I'm not gonna tell you a timeline.

00:43:31.000 We'll just have to wait and see, okay?

00:43:33.000 But I feel like consistency and just like actions really do matter. 0.99

00:43:40.000 But for me, it's difficult because everybody wants to fuck me, okay? 0.99

00:43:44.000 It's difficult. 1.00

00:43:45.000 It really is.

00:43:46.000 I'm not gonna lie, chat.

00:43:48.000 Because I know her personally, it's true.

00:43:50.000 I don't want to.

00:43:52.000 Not because she's bad, but because, you know what I'm saying?

00:43:55.000 I respect what she got going on.

00:43:57.000 But here's my issue, though.

00:43:59.000 Everyone doesn't want to smash you.

00:44:00.000 Yeah.

00:44:01.000 And how do you even girls, too, though?

00:44:03.000 My no, I'm not even joking with you.

00:44:06.000 It's girls and guys.

00:44:07.000 Do you know how mentally strong I have to be not to cuss people out?

00:44:12.000 So, like, so, like, so, like, are you bi?

00:44:14.000 No, just strictly, yeah.

00:44:18.000 But they got to wait until you're ready.

00:44:21.000 Now, can a guy fast track that?

00:44:23.000 Like, can a guy bypass that wait period if he's like a certain guy?

00:44:28.000 What do you mean if it's a certain guy?

00:44:29.000 He's like, like, what if his.

00:44:31.000 His title or something?

00:44:32.000 What if he's just like that guy for you?

00:44:35.000 What's your type?

00:44:36.000 How long do you think your friend waited?

00:44:39.000 See, I don't bring it up.

00:44:39.000 Oh my God.

00:44:42.000 I don't bring it up.

00:44:42.000 Don't bring the name because I don't want to.

00:44:44.000 So, this is like bro code.

00:44:46.000 This is bro code, which is why I would never, but I respect what she did and how it was done.

00:44:46.000 This is bro code, right?

00:44:52.000 Because honestly, guys, in Miami, finding a girl like her, I would say in that, I want to say, mindset and frame of reference, is hard to find.

00:45:01.000 Now, I don't know how long you waited, but like.

00:45:04.000 He waited a while.

00:45:05.000 We were friends first.

00:45:06.000 He waited a while.

00:45:08.000 But either way, how would a guy know he's not wasting his time?

00:45:12.000 Because, for example, I know what to look for, but in your words for making guys wait, how would they know it's worth it?

00:45:19.000 To wait for you, you know, are you worth it?

00:45:23.000 Why would they be pursuing me if I wasn't worth it?

00:45:25.000 Clearly, I wasn't worth it.

00:45:27.000 But hold on, I could play a game too.

00:45:28.000 I could say, you know what?

00:45:29.000 I'll wait, I'll be with different girls, but that's usually the case.

00:45:32.000 In the meantime, isn't it a numbers game with you guys?

00:45:35.000 Yeah, exactly. 0.96

00:45:36.000 But I could wait, yeah, but I'm still doing my shit, and then finally I do it. 0.99

00:45:41.000 I'm still doing my shit. 0.98

00:45:41.000 So, what's the difference? 0.98

00:45:43.000 Nah, but see, that now we're playing games.

00:45:45.000 See, this is a battle between it's not games, it's like it's giving that person respect.

00:45:50.000 I feel like, okay, you live your life.

00:45:53.000 And I'll live my life and then let's see how or if we can come together.

00:45:56.000 I'm not gonna stop you.

00:45:58.000 True.

00:45:59.000 But if attraction is like mutual, yeah, and it's the energy is basically there, the vibe is there, yeah.

00:46:05.000 Why hold it back?

00:46:07.000 Because, for example, would you go to buy a car without touch driving the car?

00:46:10.000 I feel like you love this metaphor.

00:46:12.000 It just makes sense.

00:46:13.000 I love cars.

00:46:14.000 I'm just giving it real with you.

00:46:16.000 But would you buy a car without driving it or knowing how it drives?

00:46:16.000 No, I get it.

00:46:19.000 So you're talking about sex right now.

00:46:21.000 No, I'm talking about everything.

00:46:22.000 Specifically, not what you're talking about.

00:46:24.000 What do you have to test drive with you? 0.99

00:46:24.000 Sex. 0.99

00:46:27.000 If it's not sex, what is it then? 0.73

00:46:29.000 Because you need the full package.

00:46:31.000 Imagine buying a car with limited futures when you're paying for the full package.

00:46:37.000 We may need to know who's paying for me.

00:46:42.000 Okay, obviously.

00:46:43.000 Second of all, I am the package. 1.00

00:46:45.000 If you just want to see what sex is like with me, I am the table, motherfucker. 1.00

00:46:49.000 But if you just want to see what sex is like with me, then you just want sex from me. 1.00

00:46:54.000 Like, what about everything else? 0.98

00:46:56.000 Like, what about my character?

00:46:57.000 What about different situations where you're in?

00:47:00.000 Don't you want to, like, Observe me, see what's going on.

00:47:02.000 Here's the problem, right?

00:47:04.000 I'm sure you're worth the wait for some people.

00:47:07.000 The point is, though, is like if I'm gonna wait, yeah, Brad and Tyrone didn't wait, Jamal didn't wait back in the day because it's obvious.

00:47:16.000 Because as a guy, we know how things operate.

00:47:18.000 Well, some of us know how it operates.

00:47:19.000 Okay, you've met people before, yes, where it's like, okay, why do I have to wait now?

00:47:25.000 Where if I'm that guy, like, okay, though, how long?

00:47:29.000 How do you know?

00:47:30.000 We just know we've been in the game for a long time.

00:47:33.000 I've never had a one night stand.

00:47:34.000 I've never had like sex. 0.68

00:47:35.000 That's cap. 0.66

00:47:36.000 I haven't.

00:47:38.000 I haven't.

00:47:38.000 Okay.

00:47:39.000 Are you kidding me?

00:47:41.000 So, so, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:47:43.000 My point is someone got it faster than somebody else.

00:47:47.000 What was the factor that made him get it faster than somebody else?

00:47:50.000 Was it because he's taller, successful, good personality?

00:47:54.000 Was it because he's like charming?

00:47:56.000 If somebody gets it faster, then I feel like it's not serious.

00:48:00.000 I don't know.

00:48:02.000 It's just not worth it. 0.99

00:48:03.000 If I Feel like somebody's pushing sex onto me, then I'll just get weirded out or I'll just be like, Oh, he's like a community dildo. 0.99

00:48:11.000 Okay, like it turns me off. 0.98

00:48:13.000 Give me one thing from your past love life that you've learned now that you won't repeat.

00:48:19.000 Oh my god, so many things.

00:48:20.000 I'll give me two.

00:48:21.000 Okay, uh, can you go first?

00:48:23.000 What the? 1.00

00:48:24.000 I'm asking you, I need to think ladies first, but I need to think. 1.00

00:48:29.000 Okay, okay, go back in time where you were. 0.98

00:48:35.000 With somebody, and this experience told you never again.

00:48:40.000 Whether it's what you did, what he did, I'll tell you when I did.

00:48:44.000 Right, just for the audience as well.

00:48:45.000 You guys know what it is. 0.98

00:48:47.000 I dated a single mother. 1.00

00:48:49.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:48:49.000 When I didn't know any better. 1.00

00:48:50.000 Why?

00:48:51.000 I was brand new to America and I married her, actually.

00:48:54.000 For.

00:48:54.000 I'm sorry.

00:48:55.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:48:55.000 Wait, what?

00:48:57.000 I came to America.

00:48:59.000 That's why you came to America from Barbados?

00:49:01.000 No, no, no, no. 0.88

00:49:02.000 This is after the fact.

00:49:03.000 Oh, okay.

00:49:04.000 I had two jobs Chick fil A, ATT.

00:49:05.000 I was doing pretty well.

00:49:06.000 Got my own apartment.

00:49:07.000 Why are you still having it? 1.00

00:49:08.000 Screw you, Bill. 0.99

00:49:09.000 You know? 0.99

00:49:09.000 He did a sound bite. 0.99

00:49:11.000 And, you know, but that experience taught me a lot, which is why I know, so guys, don't date single moms because that's.

00:49:18.000 Basically, you against two people, and you're trapped in a box of like never ending authority loss or loss. 0.57

00:49:25.000 Because, think about it if it's not your kid, yeah, at any point they can say, You're not my dad, right?

00:49:30.000 I don't give a what you have to say.

00:49:31.000 And then, added to that, what if you guys break up now?

00:49:33.000 You lose a child and a mom, it's very heartbreaking.

00:49:36.000 So, I think for most guys, even if you're single, especially with no kids, move on, find somebody that's single as well.

00:49:42.000 Now, in your case, um, I think for women, what have you seen where your past love life it was a no out the gate?

00:49:52.000 I think the kids thing is a really good one. 0.90

00:49:54.000 I would say that one and maybe.

00:49:56.000 You can't call me mine.

00:49:57.000 You need an original idea, Miles.

00:49:59.000 Yo, I gave you a full lengthy answer here.

00:50:03.000 I need a full answer, man.

00:50:04.000 My love life.

00:50:04.000 Come on.

00:50:06.000 I've had good relationships.

00:50:09.000 What did they end then?

00:50:11.000 They just weren't like I didn't want to marry them.

00:50:13.000 I just didn't think they were a partner for marriage.

00:50:16.000 And I think I was too young.

00:50:18.000 I feel like when you're young, you have different.

00:50:21.000 Sorry, let me just answer your question.

00:50:23.000 10 hours later.

00:50:25.000 Hold on.

00:50:26.000 I just don't know.

00:50:27.000 Give me one thing from your past.

00:50:29.000 I wouldn't date an artist.

00:50:30.000 I dated an artist.

00:50:31.000 Oh, a rapper?

00:50:33.000 It was a musician.

00:50:33.000 Yeah.

00:50:34.000 But it was a musician.

00:50:35.000 A singer?

00:50:36.000 Doesn't matter.

00:50:37.000 Justin Bieber? 1.00

00:50:38.000 That nigga was a rapper, bro. 1.00

00:50:38.000 No. 1.00

00:50:41.000 But I don't want to categorize people because everyone's different.

00:50:44.000 But I don't know if I.

00:50:46.000 I don't drink.

00:50:47.000 You know this.

00:50:48.000 I've never gotten drunk before.

00:50:50.000 I have a very.

00:50:52.000 I'm just like normal.

00:50:52.000 I don't know.

00:50:54.000 I don't know even how to say it.

00:50:55.000 But so it's difficult for me to get with these types of people, especially in the industry that I'm in. 0.99

00:51:00.000 Because everybody's on some bullshit. 0.98

00:51:03.000 So, yeah, I don't know. 1.00

00:51:05.000 Maybe the artist thing.

00:51:06.000 Because I feel like they're all like, I don't know.

00:51:08.000 They perform at night.

00:51:09.000 I don't think they're all the same.

00:51:11.000 That's why I don't want to care.

00:51:11.000 What about an athlete?

00:51:13.000 Would Steffi be the athlete? 0.99

00:51:14.000 No.

00:51:15.000 Why not?

00:51:15.000 Maybe if he was godly and he had his thing together.

00:51:19.000 But honestly, the majority of them aren't, they ain't shit. 1.00

00:51:23.000 They don't got brains. 1.00

00:51:24.000 I don't know. 0.99

00:51:25.000 Somebody like Russell, who's dating Sierra.

00:51:28.000 That guy's cool.

00:51:28.000 You know him?

00:51:29.000 The one dating Sierra with all the kids?

00:51:32.000 Sierra only has one kid from Future.

00:51:34.000 Future, yeah.

00:51:35.000 That's the left.

00:51:36.000 Is that bad?

00:51:36.000 What?

00:51:37.000 That's an L, yeah.

00:51:38.000 Why?

00:51:38.000 It is?

00:51:39.000 You're taking care of another man's kid. 0.94

00:51:40.000 Future.

00:51:41.000 And this future of all people.

00:51:43.000 Like, that's like a. 0.99

00:51:44.000 I'm pretty sure Future fucked off anyway, so it's like his kid. 0.99

00:51:46.000 That's the point. 0.99

00:51:48.000 Well, I mean, it's Sierra.

00:51:51.000 Come on.

00:51:51.000 So?

00:51:52.000 So?

00:51:53.000 There are. 0.93

00:51:54.000 Somebody violated her already, gave her a kid, and then just dipped out.

00:51:59.000 Well, I got to do Mr. Cleanup. 0.50

00:52:00.000 So what?

00:52:01.000 It's not Mr. Cleanup.

00:52:02.000 It is.

00:52:02.000 She's still the full package.

00:52:03.000 She made a mistake.

00:52:05.000 It's not like you're dating like some Miami girl.

00:52:08.000 You're dating Sierra.

00:52:10.000 Okay, what does dating Sierra do for me?

00:52:12.000 Everything.

00:52:14.000 See, nothing.

00:52:14.000 What is everything?

00:52:16.000 My point is, even in that relationship, I guarantee you, he goes by himself in the car or whatever and says, fuck. 0.98

00:52:23.000 Can I show you a video, please, of him just describing her and how they met? 0.98

00:52:27.000 Or no, can I not?

00:52:29.000 It's so sweet the way he talks about her.

00:52:31.000 Yeah, but that's okay.

00:52:32.000 Let's say that example does work in some instances.

00:52:34.000 It's not an actual good occurrence because that's not every.

00:52:38.000 Yeah, but that's nothing.

00:52:38.000 Yeah.

00:52:39.000 Okay, for them.

00:52:40.000 That is like an anomaly.

00:52:42.000 That's not a normal thing.

00:52:43.000 So, just tell everybody, yeah, go do that.

00:52:43.000 Yeah.

00:52:45.000 I'm not telling anybody to do that.

00:52:45.000 Come on.

00:52:46.000 I'm just saying.

00:52:47.000 That's a good example?

00:52:48.000 There's not exceptions.

00:52:48.000 No.

00:52:50.000 But either way, my point is dating single mothers, if you're not wiping them up, is one thing. 1.00

00:52:56.000 But wiping them up, taking them seriously, I mean, look, props to all niggas that do it. 1.00

00:53:00.000 Just kidding. 1.00

00:53:00.000 No props to you. 1.00

00:53:01.000 But it's a bad look.

00:53:03.000 So, I guess for me, it's kind of like, where do you see yourself in five years?

00:53:08.000 Because obviously speaking, you're working on yourself, doing your business, you're single by choice.

00:53:14.000 What's the goal for you now?

00:53:17.000 You want to get married?

00:53:17.000 You want kids?

00:53:18.000 Do you want to have a future business?

00:53:19.000 I do want to get married.

00:53:21.000 I don't like the term settling because I just don't want to settle with somebody.

00:53:24.000 I want to evolve with somebody.

00:53:27.000 So, you want to build a man on the way up?

00:53:30.000 I don't want to build a man on the way up.

00:53:32.000 I feel like if he's built, great.

00:53:33.000 He has a great foundation.

00:53:34.000 And then I come in and then we can start building together.

00:53:37.000 Okay.

00:53:37.000 See, that's honestly.

00:53:39.000 I'm built.

00:53:39.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:53:40.000 He's built.

00:53:41.000 I'm not looking for my other half.

00:53:43.000 I just want two holes coming together.

00:53:46.000 And then we grow from there.

00:53:48.000 Okay, but you want my man better than you though, like my man better, yeah, that's fair.

00:53:51.000 I wouldn't respect him, okay, okay.

00:53:53.000 And then, and then you want marriage and kids, you said, by what age?

00:53:58.000 That's difficult.

00:54:00.000 I don't care, you don't care, no.

00:54:03.000 So, what he's watching right now, the guy is watching right now, says, You know what?

00:54:06.000 She seems pretty cool, I like your vibe.

00:54:09.000 What did it take to get Steffi as a girlfriend? 1.00

00:54:11.000 I don't want to give people the cheat code. 1.00

00:54:13.000 Oh, come on, I don't want to because then they're gonna be.

00:54:16.000 I already have people being fake and doing all this just to get with me.

00:54:20.000 Imagine if I just tell.

00:54:22.000 The world, what I'm looking for.

00:54:24.000 Wow, fair.

00:54:25.000 I mean, okay, for okay, I'll tell you a couple things a godly man, 100%.

00:54:29.000 I don't even have friends, like, I know a lot of people, but I'm not friends with people unless they have some sort of faith or something they believe in.

00:54:36.000 Because if they don't, then they just don't have morals and values.

00:54:40.000 I find like, I haven't pretend to be a godly man.

00:54:43.000 Sorry, go ahead. 0.99

00:54:44.000 See, no, no, like, some sort of faith, Christianity preferred, but some sort of faith, Islam, no. 0.59

00:54:53.000 Thank you. 0.92

00:54:54.000 Wow.

00:54:54.000 Okay, that's messed up.

00:54:55.000 No, thank you.

00:54:56.000 You guys have already invaded my country, so I'm good. 0.78

00:54:59.000 Brown Town. 0.97

00:55:00.000 I'm really good. 0.99

00:55:01.000 No, Iran, too. 0.81

00:55:01.000 Okay, okay. 0.81

00:55:03.000 Oh, yeah, you're right.

00:55:04.000 Okay, so on.

00:55:05.000 So, like, okay.

00:55:06.000 Faith Base Hotel.

00:55:09.000 I'm 5'2, so come on.

00:55:10.000 You're 5'2?

00:55:11.000 Yeah.

00:55:12.000 You got to be at least 6'4.

00:55:13.000 I thought you were 4'10. 1.00

00:55:15.000 No, that was the other girl. 1.00

00:55:17.000 That was the.

00:55:18.000 Yeah, you're funny.

00:55:19.000 Okay, okay.

00:55:21.000 That was a podcast.

00:55:21.000 So, okay.

00:55:22.000 The other girl was 4'11. 0.91

00:55:24.000 Next to me, is that what you're talking about?

00:55:26.000 No, that's not somebody else. 0.99

00:55:27.000 Yeah, so, um, dick. 0.99

00:55:31.000 I'm just saying, okay, so, uh, godly man, taller than 5'2. 0.99

00:55:36.000 How much a year?

00:55:38.000 Here we go.

00:55:40.000 Um, like, see, this is funny because, like, putting it on camp, putting it in person in real time is difficult, huh?

00:55:53.000 Uh, you know, more than a million would be nice.

00:55:56.000 Okay, more than a million.

00:55:57.000 Yeah, so so what is he getting for all this?

00:56:02.000 Is he getting a wife, a girlfriend, a cleaner?

00:56:06.000 Right, what's he getting from Steffi?

00:56:08.000 A wife, the way I go into a relationship is I like to take care of my man, like whatever needs to be done, like what Myron said on this show.

00:56:19.000 Um, you have to be an asset, like you have to go in there, see what he's missing, you have to make his life better in order for him to provide more. 0.94

00:56:27.000 So, I don't believe in just like sitting on my ass, like if something needs to be done, if there's like Dirt on the ground, I'll clean it up. 0.70

00:56:34.000 If he needs somebody to watch out for him, I'll be the one that watches out for him. 0.98

00:56:38.000 Typically, even in my business with my clients, that's what I do.

00:56:41.000 I go in there and I see what's missing and I watch out for them with like even my friend that I was telling you about.

00:56:47.000 So, question there's a carpet here in the studio, right?

00:56:50.000 And it's full of dog hair.

00:56:52.000 You didn't come in and vacuum it.

00:56:52.000 No, I didn't.

00:56:53.000 Like, like, like, like, you should count it, man.

00:56:55.000 You're not my man, though.

00:56:56.000 You're not my man.

00:56:57.000 Business associate.

00:56:58.000 No, you're not my man.

00:56:59.000 Business associate.

00:57:01.000 It should fall through in all categories.

00:57:03.000 When we start to become more.

00:57:05.000 Listen, listen.

00:57:06.000 You know, then I'll do it.

00:57:07.000 So, it's funny because you're 5'2, and if the guy's taller than you, right?

00:57:12.000 Right.

00:57:12.000 This is just some real talk here.

00:57:13.000 Okay.

00:57:14.000 It's a man to woman conversation. 0.97

00:57:15.000 Meow. 0.99

00:57:16.000 If I'm taller than you, you said meow.

00:57:19.000 Getting ready, getting ready to meow.

00:57:21.000 If the man is taller than you, right?

00:57:23.000 Yes, and he has the genetic seed to proceed and move forward for growth, okay.

00:57:30.000 And you're shorter than him, yeah.

00:57:31.000 If he obviously has kids with you, right, he loses because he's having a smaller, medium.

00:57:38.000 How do you know that? 0.95

00:57:39.000 Usually, if the woman's shorter, it's we said usually. 1.00

00:57:42.000 Come on, where your genetics are predicated basically on height and time of obviously conception. 0.93

00:57:50.000 Each person's like height, weight.

00:57:52.000 So that's a fact online.

00:57:53.000 It says, if you date a girl or marry a girl and have a child, the odds are not in your favor.

00:57:58.000 The odds are not in your favor.

00:57:58.000 I could say the same thing though.

00:58:01.000 But I can have a higher likelihood if she's taller or tall as me, it'll be either equivalent or a little bit taller than us both.

00:58:08.000 What is the question?

00:58:09.000 So the question is if he may lose genetically from dealing with you, should he do less?

00:58:16.000 Because I think he should do way less.

00:58:18.000 I'm just saying, I'm keeping it real with you.

00:58:20.000 Yes!

00:58:20.000 Oh my god, that's great!

00:58:22.000 Like, short girls need to learn that men are taking an L dating you. 1.00

00:58:27.000 Tell them, sister. 1.00

00:58:28.000 Yes.

00:58:29.000 Nah, no sister.

00:58:30.000 No sister. 0.93

00:58:31.000 Hell no.

00:58:33.000 I've never heard of that.

00:58:34.000 I know.

00:58:34.000 I've never heard a man take my height.

00:58:35.000 It makes me feel like a negative.

00:58:36.000 Think about this.

00:58:38.000 What is it called?

00:58:38.000 A negative.

00:58:40.000 Yeah.

00:58:40.000 So you're saying the man should do less because I'm short?

00:58:43.000 Yeah, because now you're tinting my jeans.

00:58:46.000 Do you like dudes?

00:58:48.000 See, here we go.

00:58:48.000 Wow.

00:58:50.000 Here we go.

00:58:52.000 Obviously, you know I don't. 0.91

00:58:54.000 Mess with dudes. 1.00

00:58:56.000 I have girls.

00:58:58.000 The point is, I like that's the truth.

00:58:59.000 Really, I like girls my height or really, your height or taller?

00:59:05.000 Yeah, you like a picture of the last girl just so I can see. 0.94

00:59:12.000 Listen, I like tall European, no, tall European blonde girls, like tall European blonde girls. 1.00

00:59:20.000 You like blonde girls. 0.97

00:59:21.000 Why am I not surprised? 1.00

00:59:23.000 Of course, no, that makes sense.

00:59:26.000 That makes sense. 1.00

00:59:26.000 She's pretty tall. 1.00

00:59:28.000 But my point, yeah, my point. 0.99

00:59:31.000 No, I thought it was that really tall gym girl. 1.00

00:59:33.000 No, she's tall. 0.99

00:59:34.000 She's tall. 0.97

00:59:36.000 I don't know how Fresh does it either.

00:59:37.000 But, but you know what it is?

00:59:39.000 I know why he does it.

00:59:39.000 Like, guys, I'm a monkey.

00:59:41.000 I like climbing trees, honestly. 0.99

00:59:43.000 And honestly, man, like when I pull up, it's like, damn, he pulled that. 0.86

00:59:46.000 Anyhow, my point is men see it, well, some men can see it as a deterrent because you're shorter. 0.90

00:59:51.000 Now, in my idea of dating now, it's more a pay to play.

00:59:57.000 Because, for example, Let's say, right, the economy is bad. 1.00

01:00:00.000 Obviously, it's in shit. 0.99

01:00:01.000 It's not where it should be right now. 1.00

01:00:04.000 Survival is very important for women. 1.00

01:00:06.000 So, if looks was a thing, cool. 1.00

01:00:10.000 Perfect economy, looks matter more.

01:00:12.000 But when it's a downturn of the economy, when it's bad, what matters most?

01:00:15.000 Money.

01:00:17.000 So, in my opinion, I think money is very important for dating now, especially nowadays.

01:00:20.000 But what do you think? 0.75

01:00:22.000 But for a woman? 0.99

01:00:23.000 Yeah, 100%. 1.00

01:00:24.000 So, why do women pretend and say, like, it's about ambition? 1.00

01:00:27.000 It's not really about the money. 1.00

01:00:29.000 Or they'd be like, oh, I don't care about the money.

01:00:31.000 But they really do. 1.00

01:00:31.000 Why do women libel that? 1.00

01:00:33.000 I don't know the context of what those women are saying, but it feels like they're saying that because if at least he has the ambition and he's not lazy, the money will come eventually.

01:00:43.000 But if you're dating like a bum, then it's like it's never going to come. 0.95

01:00:48.000 He's going to be a bum. 1.00

01:00:49.000 Thank you.

01:00:50.000 And do you like dating older men or younger men?

01:00:52.000 Older, eight to 10 years.

01:00:53.000 Okay.

01:00:54.000 But I did, honestly, I did date a person who was younger than me and he treated me so well.

01:01:00.000 So I can't, I don't know.

01:01:02.000 It's just a mindset thing.

01:01:04.000 He treated me very well.

01:01:06.000 Wait, where is he now?

01:01:08.000 Where is he now?

01:01:09.000 Where's he now?

01:01:10.000 This was when I was very young.

01:01:10.000 I think he's in Miami.

01:01:12.000 We were family friends and I really didn't want to date him.

01:01:15.000 And he's like, because he was younger, and he's like, no, let's date.

01:01:17.000 Let's see what happens.

01:01:19.000 And he was a great guy.

01:01:21.000 But we broke up because I was doing drop shipping.

01:01:27.000 And I was explaining to him, I was selling fidget spinners.

01:01:29.000 I was explaining to him what drop shipping was.

01:01:31.000 Fidget spinners?

01:01:31.000 Fidget spinners back in the day.

01:01:33.000 Yeah.

01:01:34.000 And I was explaining to him what it was.

01:01:35.000 And I'm like a very teamworky person.

01:01:37.000 So I brought him into the business.

01:01:40.000 And then we broke up because, just relationship and business wise, we just didn't see like I die.

01:01:46.000 He was like, No, I was like, Let's reinvest back into the business. 0.87

01:01:50.000 He wanted to get like gold fucking sunglasses or whatever, which he did eventually, but not with our money. 0.89

01:01:55.000 So it just unfortunately didn't work. 0.94

01:01:58.000 Yeah.

01:01:59.000 Well, in my opinion, women want to date older because they're more mature, so to speak, and they're more sound in their judgment. 0.52

01:02:07.000 So we've got a video here to play as well that I found very funny.

01:02:11.000 That came up today.

01:02:12.000 My friend, Desirable Truth, does interviews in Miami all the time on the street.

01:02:15.000 Okay. 0.98

01:02:16.000 This girl was on the show as well. 0.57

01:02:17.000 Her name is Bella.

01:02:18.000 And her dude is older.

01:02:21.000 And you will not believe her age.

01:02:24.000 Play the clip.

01:02:28.000 And give me your honest opinion about this after.

01:02:30.000 Honest opinion.

01:02:32.000 And you?

01:02:32.000 I'm 41.

01:02:33.000 Don't worry about it.

01:02:34.000 She's 21.

01:02:35.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:02:36.000 That's an age gap here. 0.50

01:02:38.000 Chat.

01:02:39.000 Do you remember that girl?

01:02:41.000 The blonde girl?

01:02:42.000 If you do, put her age in the chat. 1.00

01:02:45.000 Tell me her age because I know her age.

01:02:47.000 You may not know her age.

01:02:48.000 She just said 21.

01:02:49.000 No, he said 21.

01:02:51.000 But what's her actual age? 1.00

01:02:53.000 Shut up. 1.00

01:02:54.000 She's not 21. 1.00

01:02:55.000 Tap in, brother.

01:02:56.000 Tap in.

01:02:57.000 What's her actual age?

01:02:59.000 Chat, does anyone know from the show?

01:03:01.000 If you know from the show, man, let me know what's up.

01:03:04.000 Let's see.

01:03:05.000 Oh my God.

01:03:05.000 Does anyone know?

01:03:06.000 How old is she? 1.00

01:03:10.000 Let's see. 0.68

01:03:12.000 Did anyone?

01:03:12.000 Yep.

01:03:13.000 PJ's called it. 1.00

01:03:14.000 She's 19 years old.

01:03:16.000 And he's 41.

01:03:17.000 Holy smokes.

01:03:21.000 So 41, right?

01:03:23.000 41.

01:03:24.000 Double her age.

01:03:25.000 41 and she's 19, right?

01:03:27.000 So that's 22 years.

01:03:30.000 Now, it gets worse.

01:03:32.000 It gets worse?

01:03:32.000 Play the clip.

01:03:35.000 What makes you go for a man who's 20 years older than you?

01:03:38.000 Because I have daddy issues.

01:03:40.000 Oh, at least she admits it.

01:03:41.000 Younger men just don't know how to do it.

01:03:45.000 Like, first of all, they're not experienced. 0.87

01:03:47.000 And second of all, there's like a lot of younger guys who are going to have like a lot of money, but they won't spend it and they don't know how to take care of a woman. 0.99

01:03:54.000 And they're too much of a fuckboy. 0.99

01:03:56.000 I'm less of a. 1.00

01:03:57.000 Oh my God.

01:03:58.000 Do you think that's true?

01:03:59.000 I feel like people always like categorize things based on their experience.

01:04:03.000 I feel like she's talking out of her experience.

01:04:05.000 I feel like there's a whole pot of men and you can't just be like, oh, like younger guys.

01:04:12.000 You can't be specific because everyone's different.

01:04:14.000 Like, you could meet.

01:04:14.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:04:15.000 A younger guy, and he's a provider.

01:04:17.000 There's so many providers out here, and he spends money because that's what they like to do, anyways. 0.98

01:04:20.000 But generally, it's fucking fly. 0.91

01:04:23.000 I know it's bothering you, huh? 0.99

01:04:25.000 Because you're annoying.

01:04:27.000 Generally, generally, um, is she telling the truth, though?

01:04:32.000 Most guys that are younger don't even know how to be, you would say.

01:04:35.000 The guys I've been around.

01:04:36.000 Okay.

01:04:37.000 Even like my brother's friends, like the way that we are is like you have, you know, girls around you pay for it. 0.51

01:04:44.000 You have girls around you open the door.

01:04:46.000 I don't know what kind of people, again, she's being around.

01:04:48.000 I don't think she should specifically say younger guys.

01:04:50.000 It's not true.

01:04:51.000 What about guys in college?

01:04:52.000 Oh my God.

01:04:54.000 See?

01:04:55.000 Would that be more accurate?

01:04:57.000 What kind of like the frat colleges and stuff?

01:04:59.000 Yeah, not very mature, not very like. 1.00

01:05:00.000 Those guys are retarded. 1.00

01:05:02.000 Maybe there's like, I don't know, 5% of them that are. 1.00

01:05:05.000 Not or 10%, but but they're enjoying school.

01:05:08.000 All right, let's continue though. 1.00

01:05:10.000 Yeah, well, fuck boy. 0.99

01:05:12.000 Now that I'm mature, in my older age, women that are in their early 20s they go for older men, but a lot of yeah, I like how he's like, it's my time to shine. 0.99

01:05:22.000 So he's 41, right?

01:05:24.000 Yeah, she says in a nutshell, just like guys are younger because they are not mature, they don't want to spend money correctly.

01:05:30.000 I watch his response to that after this.

01:05:32.000 Here we go.

01:05:33.000 I'm 41, and you don't worry about it.

01:05:36.000 20, she's 21.

01:05:37.000 Yeah, that's an age gap.

01:05:38.000 Here, what makes you go for a man who's 20 years older than you because I have daddy issues?

01:05:44.000 Oh, at least she admits it.

01:05:45.000 I like older men because I feel like younger men just don't know how to do it. 0.85

01:05:49.000 Like, first of all, they're not experienced, and second of all, there's like a lot of younger guys who are gonna have like a lot of money, but they won't spend it and they don't know how to take care of a woman.

01:05:58.000 They're too much of a boy.

01:06:00.000 I'm less of a boy now that I'm matured in my older age. 1.00

01:06:03.000 Women that are in their early 20s, bro, this thing is less such a virtuous, singling, bro. 0.98

01:06:12.000 Who says that? 1.00

01:06:13.000 Like, you don't gotta say that shit, nigga. 1.00

01:06:14.000 Like, bro. 1.00

01:06:15.000 Bro. 1.00

01:06:15.000 You're still a fuck boy. 1.00

01:06:17.000 You know what's funny? 1.00

01:06:18.000 He's dating that girl.

01:06:19.000 You know what's funny?

01:06:20.000 Chat, you don't know, right? 0.95

01:06:22.000 She was partying in a club with us the other night.

01:06:25.000 And they were younger than him by far.

01:06:27.000 And she, bro, I was gonna tell you.

01:06:29.000 Wait, are they boyfriend and girlfriend?

01:06:31.000 I think they're dating, right?

01:06:32.000 They're dating. 0.97

01:06:33.000 By the way, he's saying this, but he don't know shit about her. 0.99

01:06:37.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:06:37.000 He don't know shit about. 0.99

01:06:38.000 Bro. 0.98

01:06:38.000 He's just doing it for the camera. 0.98

01:06:40.000 It's his time to shine.

01:06:41.000 True.

01:06:42.000 But he looks. 1.00

01:06:43.000 Like a pussy doing this. 1.00

01:06:44.000 Because look, bro, we all know, bro, you look, I'm all for guys dating younger girls for sure. 1.00

01:06:50.000 Have a blast.

01:06:51.000 But in this scenario here, you're trying to be like this Captain Savoho.

01:06:55.000 But just relax, bro.

01:06:56.000 Like, they're all going.

01:06:57.000 Let's play. 0.99

01:07:01.000 They go for older men, but a lot of these older men are ugly. 0.99

01:07:04.000 You'll have guys that are taller, have bigger penises, that are maybe make more, but I think I have the whole package. 0.99

01:07:09.000 And I think that's what women look for the whole package. 0.98

01:07:13.000 She hit the lottery with me getting a guy that's in his early 40s that looks like it is in his mid 30s. 0.85

01:07:18.000 So, do you consider this a situation ship or a sugar daddy, sugar baby thing?

01:07:23.000 No, he hasn't even given me any money.

01:07:24.000 I haven't given her any money, yeah.

01:07:26.000 I just take her out and stuff, but.

01:07:27.000 No, he's a really funny guy.

01:07:29.000 I'm funny.

01:07:29.000 But have y'all already done the deed?

01:07:31.000 Don't ask me that question.

01:07:33.000 Yeah, we may.

01:07:35.000 Do you believe that he didn't give her any money?

01:07:38.000 One.

01:07:38.000 And then, two, that they're just.

01:07:40.000 No.

01:07:41.000 No, completely not.

01:07:42.000 No.

01:07:43.000 I'm telling you, yeah.

01:07:44.000 Lying.

01:07:45.000 Yeah, for sure. 1.00

01:07:46.000 And he asked them to get sex. 0.99

01:07:49.000 Let's play it real quick. 0.98

01:07:52.000 No, we did not.

01:07:53.000 Oh, yeah.

01:07:53.000 Well, yeah, whatever.

01:07:55.000 We're adults here, but.

01:07:57.000 No, we did not.

01:07:58.000 I'm not putting my sex life on social media.

01:08:00.000 Yeah, we'll just say that the viewers could assume if we did or not.

01:08:06.000 But wait, if we did do it, was it okay?

01:08:08.000 Was it okay for you, Bella?

01:08:09.000 Was it like above average at least?

01:08:11.000 Oh, it's a piece of work.

01:08:13.000 It's such a piece of work.

01:08:14.000 Bill, the bell, the bell, the bell.

01:08:16.000 Yo, I.

01:08:16.000 I promise you guys, I promise you guys, that was so lame.

01:08:22.000 I just cringe in my soul.

01:08:24.000 That made my soul cringe.

01:08:25.000 Like, bro, who does that?

01:08:27.000 Like, was it good?

01:08:27.000 Was it above average?

01:08:29.000 Like, okay.

01:08:30.000 If your man did that to you, would you be like, yo, you're just.

01:08:31.000 That's not her man.

01:08:32.000 No, he's just using her and she's using him. 0.99

01:08:34.000 So that's why he's fucking doing that. 1.00

01:08:36.000 No, I just slapped the shit out of him. 1.00

01:08:37.000 Thank you. 0.99

01:08:38.000 See, she gets it.

01:08:39.000 Chat, she gets it. 1.00

01:08:40.000 I'm telling y'all, this nigga is a puss. 1.00

01:08:43.000 Bro, ain't no real guy that has actual game, that has actual aura doing this, bro. 1.00

01:08:49.000 Look, we all can see where this is, but obviously he's in delusion land.

01:08:53.000 And again, we all the time, women are delusional.

01:08:56.000 So are some men. 0.71

01:08:57.000 But this is just diabolical, bro.

01:08:59.000 By all means.

01:09:00.000 All right, let's continue.

01:09:01.000 I wonder if he saw that and he shared it to his friends too.

01:09:05.000 Like, hey guys, in the group chat.

01:09:07.000 Look at me, bro.

01:09:07.000 Look at what I did.

01:09:09.000 You ever see yourself being serious with him?

01:09:12.000 Yeah.

01:09:13.000 But he plays too much.

01:09:14.000 So that's why we're in a situation, Chip.

01:09:16.000 Yeah, but if I could be 100% monogamous and you would be in a relationship with me.

01:09:20.000 Yes.

01:09:21.000 Could you ever see that happening?

01:09:23.000 Yeah, I like Bella.

01:09:23.000 I think she's really cool.

01:09:25.000 Look at her. 0.96

01:09:25.000 She's naturally beautiful. 0.96

01:09:26.000 These are real, by the way.

01:09:27.000 Yeah, they're real. 1.00

01:09:28.000 Most women have to pay a lot of money for boobs like that. 0.99

01:09:31.000 So, yeah, I can see myself in a relationship. 0.98

01:09:34.000 How old are you?

01:09:35.000 I'm 41.

01:09:35.000 And you?

01:09:37.000 Also, why is he like standing in front of her?

01:09:39.000 Like, dude, that's my life a little bit.

01:09:40.000 You can't make this stuff up.

01:09:42.000 Because honestly speaking, like on the show, you know, you see, we do the show every week, right?

01:09:46.000 They'll say, oh, I don't party.

01:09:48.000 I'm single.

01:09:49.000 I don't go out.

01:09:50.000 Or is that, they lie?

01:09:51.000 Of course.

01:09:52.000 The cameras are on.

01:09:53.000 Everyone wants to lie, right? 1.00

01:09:54.000 But look at her here.

01:09:56.000 We're the older guy.

01:09:58.000 And we're not dumb.

01:09:59.000 He doesn't give me any money.

01:10:01.000 Sweetheart.

01:10:02.000 Obviously, he does. 0.91

01:10:03.000 If that's true, then I'm white.

01:10:05.000 Honestly, honestly. 0.68

01:10:06.000 So here we go.

01:10:07.000 Accident, if they come off the ghetto. 1.00

01:10:09.000 Okay. 0.92

01:10:10.000 Come on a little bit more.

01:10:12.000 The reasons they're fine, they're adults, and nobody cares.

01:10:15.000 But it was funny he tried to brag about sex life, and she stopped saying she will not talk in public about that.

01:10:21.000 Like, I really wanted to do it.

01:10:22.000 Yo, who's more mature?

01:10:24.000 Her or him? 0.91

01:10:25.000 Her.

01:10:25.000 I feel like this guy just got like a monster or something.

01:10:28.000 I'm telling you, legit, this is bad.

01:10:32.000 All right. 0.99

01:10:33.000 So fucking cringe. 0.99

01:10:35.000 But overall, She is basically playing him. 0.99

01:10:39.000 Wait, so she was at the club with you?

01:10:40.000 Yes.

01:10:41.000 Yes.

01:10:42.000 Really?

01:10:43.000 That's what I'm telling you.

01:10:47.000 Look, she's not. 0.93

01:10:49.000 Like, a Vendome?

01:10:51.000 No, I don't see where, but.

01:10:54.000 We can't give locations.

01:10:55.000 Yeah.

01:10:57.000 That's funny.

01:10:59.000 But, nah, either way, man, it's an L.

01:11:02.000 And obviously speaking, in this scenario, we know what's happening. 0.99

01:11:04.000 Their energy is off, too.

01:11:06.000 Very off.

01:11:06.000 You can tell, right?

01:11:07.000 Like, she didn't want to talk, sis says, or anything.

01:11:09.000 He's like, I'll tell the whole world.

01:11:11.000 It's like I feel like they just know each other for like two weeks or something.

01:11:13.000 You should have asked them how long they knew each other for, hmm, because that was awkward as she probably tried to walk away and he was like, No, let's do the interview.

01:11:22.000 Come, yeah, let me show everyone who I'm dating or or whatever the facts.

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01:13:07.000 So, Dina AB. 0.70

01:13:08.000 Huh?

01:13:09.000 What?

01:13:10.000 Real quick.

01:13:11.000 Dina AB, right?

01:13:12.000 You were on them for some streams.

01:13:15.000 Yes.

01:13:15.000 Tell me your actual truth about Dina AB.

01:13:18.000 Dina's a great guy.

01:13:19.000 He's wonderful.

01:13:21.000 I think he's a genius.

01:13:22.000 He's very smart and talented.

01:13:25.000 Is that it?

01:13:26.000 What about Amy? 0.57

01:13:27.000 What about Amy?

01:13:29.000 Honestly, I don't know Amy that well, so I can't say too much.

01:13:36.000 I think, you know, he likes to hit on women, and his style is a bit different than other people.

01:13:46.000 Yeah, I mean, they stream every day, so you guys can check them out and see what they're about.

01:13:54.000 She's totally out right now.

01:13:55.000 Anyhow, play the video.

01:13:56.000 This is Dean.

01:13:58.000 Sorry, this is AB getting rejected by Amber Rose.

01:14:02.000 His reaction shout out to Amber Rose, she's gorgeous. 0.96

01:14:05.000 Apparently, not you want to ride in here?

01:14:12.000 Apparently, not like you gotta take an L when it's an L, bro.

01:14:17.000 No, I don't take L's, and I don't take elbows.

01:14:20.000 Now, I can, yeah, chill, bro.

01:14:31.000 Please, man, everything's going great.

01:14:34.000 Everything's going great.

01:14:36.000 Calm down.

01:14:39.000 Now, this more video is worse stuff, yeah, yeah, but I want to.

01:14:43.000 How are you doing?

01:14:43.000 Wait, so what happened in this video?

01:14:45.000 Sorry, so basically, the entire time he's touching Amber, like he was like dancing on her and stuff, like touching her arm, touching her leg, right?

01:14:53.000 The entire time.

01:14:54.000 Now, mind you, um, it's a stream, you know, she knows what she's coming into, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:14:59.000 The problem was when AB drinks, yeah, it's like you can't stop him, yeah, so.

01:15:04.000 You were there.

01:15:05.000 Yeah.

01:15:05.000 Is this real or is it scripted?

01:15:07.000 Because I'm trying to figure out is it real or not?

01:15:09.000 So it is a stream.

01:15:10.000 So there are things that might be exaggerated just for the stream.

01:15:14.000 In this particular instance, I wasn't there.

01:15:16.000 So I have no idea what happened here, what was going on.

01:15:21.000 But yeah, when you're in a content house or you're around people who are content makers, streamers, whatever, there are things in play that you should be aware of before you go into that environment.

01:15:30.000 And when you drink, like for somebody like AB or anybody else, you know, some things might come out a little bit.

01:15:37.000 A little bit more than usual.

01:15:43.000 So, in my opinion, I think they're a great duo.

01:15:46.000 Just the problem here is that, like, with all these clips going out, for example, this one here as well that Bill's about to pull up, it's kind of like you're building up a case of SA or worse, like, or actually, that's bad too, but lawsuits.

01:16:00.000 And I'm just like, I hope that they win, but this looks kind of bad.

01:16:03.000 Look, this is a bad example. 0.89

01:16:05.000 Look what Amy's doing.

01:16:06.000 And Admiral is like an icon in certain people's eyes.

01:16:09.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.97

01:16:09.000 You know her, so you know her personality, right? 0.97

01:16:11.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:16:12.000 I've met people before as well, but here we go.

01:16:16.000 What I miss?

01:16:17.000 I just like Android.

01:16:21.000 Like, what I miss, gang?

01:16:25.000 You good?

01:16:27.000 Chill.

01:16:27.000 I clean Danish with these flowers.

01:16:30.000 Chill.

01:16:33.000 Everywhere.

01:16:33.000 No, no, no.

01:16:36.000 Honestly.

01:16:36.000 I'm not the way this is.

01:16:39.000 We can talk about it.

01:16:40.000 And if this was their house, Rich, they are going to treat it the same way as whether they're.

01:16:51.000 Lease it or own it, it doesn't matter. 1.00

01:16:54.000 These niggas is having a good time. 1.00

01:16:55.000 Don't be mad at me.

01:16:59.000 So he stopped.

01:17:01.000 So I realized the pattern here.

01:17:02.000 Yeah.

01:17:02.000 And to be fair, I get it.

01:17:03.000 I get what's happening.

01:17:05.000 If the girls are not down to smash or play ball, they're gone. 0.74

01:17:09.000 And to be fair, no one wants to waste time as a guy.

01:17:11.000 100%.

01:17:12.000 Yeah.

01:17:12.000 But this part here on camera is a bad look.

01:17:16.000 Yeah.

01:17:16.000 What do you think?

01:17:16.000 No, I agree.

01:17:17.000 I agree.

01:17:17.000 It's not a good look.

01:17:18.000 You know, they're working.

01:17:19.000 This is all work.

01:17:20.000 Even though you guys see that.

01:17:22.000 It's a stream.

01:17:23.000 This actually takes a lot of work.

01:17:24.000 Dean's worked his ass off to get to this point.

01:17:26.000 Yeah.

01:17:28.000 So I don't know.

01:17:29.000 AB doing that, that's his own personality.

01:17:31.000 That's his own, you know, the way he does things and he has a team there.

01:17:36.000 So I would hope that, you know, wherever this is going, the team and, you know, everyone on the team corrects their behavior and moves forward in order for them to be successful and for Dean to also continue and live.

01:17:51.000 So I mean, I don't like the way he's doing that at all.

01:17:55.000 At all.

01:17:56.000 I feel like somebody should step in and be like, hey, okay, she said no once, no means no.

01:18:01.000 I can tell Dean doesn't like it, but he can't really do much because, like, AB's drunk.

01:18:06.000 Right.

01:18:06.000 Anyhow, I wish him the best, but this is a bad look regardless.

01:18:09.000 All right, man, guys, we got outdoors.

01:18:10.000 We actually got some girls, Women on Propaganda, Mike Small Jr. from Kick, and as well, Rico from The Dating Show.

01:18:19.000 So we'll see you guys with some girls over there, man.

01:18:21.000 Pressure and Fit Podcast, tap in.

01:18:23.000 And where can I find you, Zephy?

01:18:24.000 You can find me on Instagram, S E P Y P. That's all. 0.93

01:18:28.000 And guys, again, download Rumble Wallet.

01:18:30.000 We're giving away crypto coins as we speak every week.

01:18:34.000 Tune into that.

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Fresh & Fit - June 17, 2026

After Hours featuring Sepy Modern Dating Exposed

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