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00:10:00.000But guys, we did a stream earlier regarding Safari, his baby mama.
00:10:04.000The Tate's being locked up, which is crazy, by the way, because, like, they just were free, and now all of a sudden, I guess, video they made or whatever, they locked him up, which is wild, by the way.
00:11:02.000Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, we'll start right here.
00:17:56.000Actually, we just did an article breakdown of a girl who came on the show that was finessing and ended up doing two seats and killed two people in a car accident.
00:29:11.000How I got into sugar daddy scamming, in a way, is because someone tried to pretend to be a sugar daddy, and then they tried scamming money off me, and it didn't work.
00:29:31.000I kind of told her, not fully told her, but I kind of told her, She's an understandable woman, so she will be down to level up on our age to just try to understand.
00:35:55.000What if we told you right now as guys that are actually successful, living a certain lifestyle, you're making a big mistake right now with what you're doing?
00:39:42.000My daughter wouldn't even know about OnlyFans.
00:39:44.000She'd be too occupied with other activities, building her skills up, focusing on her self-care, physical development throughout her early 20s, whatever, because, you know, that's normally when girls start their OnlyFans.
00:39:59.000My children wouldn't even know about certain things because we're going to be living off in a higher society, you know, lavish, secluded type of lifestyle.
00:40:06.000They wouldn't even know about none of that.
00:40:17.000When I become a mother, my children are going to be raised a certain way by me and their father to the point where they're already going to be self-secure, confident, everything.
00:40:27.000They're not going to feel like they need to seek validation from outside people, and the finances are going to be there.
00:41:45.000Really just because I look at it like all just kind of like porn or whatever.
00:41:48.000But I'm like more into like low-key girls that's like, like not low-key where they're hiding it, but like in the house type of vibes that's like getting to somebody.
00:41:58.000Yeah, like not a homegirl, not a lazy bitch, but somebody that's literally like Really into making money, having good credit on something.
00:43:08.000I'm telling you, depending on the status of the person you have, if you're trying to keep that person, then you have to set yourself apart from all the rest of the girls to actually make the person like...
00:45:03.000And I personally, they don't know this, but personally, I'm only going out for my own experience.
00:45:09.000After about six months, I probably won't be going, like, I literally posted on my story, don't invite me to any night events, because, like, that was never my timing.
00:46:08.000So a man, when he was ready to be a husband and get a wife, he's already spent 10, 15, 20 years doing everything to be the best man he could to get a wife.
00:46:15.000He started, had a small job, worked his way up, got the promotion, grinded, bought a car, took a loan, risked it all, grinded nonstop, no mistakes, the best he could for 10, 5, 10, 15, 20 years.
00:46:26.000But you want to be in the club for those 5, 10, 15 years?
00:46:29.000And then when you're done, you say, hey, I did no work to be the wife that you're looking for, but you're the husband I want.
00:46:36.000I never said anything about me clubbing all that time.
00:46:39.000I said that I normally don't club, and that after six months of being here, I probably have made a post, don't invite me to night events.
00:46:47.000I said for me and homegirls to do fun things that are different.
00:46:51.000As a young lady, I know for sure, and I have written down, and both of my parents know, that since I was a little girl, I always wanted to be the mom, play the mom, I've babysitted, I've raised kids.
00:47:02.000I know I'm going to be a great mother, and I know that personally I've been planning and preparing to be a mother in different aspects that I don't have to explain to men.
00:47:11.000A man can work and do all of that, but at the end of the day, women, regardless of whether y'all want to acknowledge it or not, we're physically taking care of ourselves.
00:47:19.000We're mentally and emotionally having to Bypass different traumatic things because you don't want to be a certain type of mother to your kids.
00:47:27.000Certain girls are doing, like, self-healing work.
00:47:29.000Certain girls are prioritizing, you know, just learning different things because they say that, you know, when the baby is on the mom, the baby gets, like, whatever, whatever from the mom.
00:47:45.000I'm very prioritizing physical health care, my youth.
00:47:49.000I'm 25, but most people say I look 19 without makeup, without wigs, without anything.
00:47:54.000I'm taking care of myself, and I know I'm going to be a great mom because of my mindset, because of things I'm choosing to learn, and also because I have my mom and my father.
00:49:01.000The way my mindset is set up, I don't think about life in a sense where one person, like how you just asked the question, the context of the question was, what advice would I give to these ladies to be a wife to a husband?
00:49:15.000In my life, I'm not thinking about what I need to do to be a wife to a husband.
00:49:28.000I'm not thinking about how to be a wife to no husband or anything of that nature.
00:49:33.000I'm thinking about how can I mentally, emotionally, spiritually develop myself to the highest level, to be at the highest frequency, loving myself.
00:49:42.000And they respect their self and they're prioritizing what they need to prioritize to be at the highest frequency in their own life.
00:49:47.000They come together and they come together as a union.
00:49:50.000Marriage on paper is some government bullshit made up.
00:49:52.000But back in the day, people were married spiritually.
00:49:58.000My grandmother's parents were married until they both passed away around 90-something years old.
00:50:03.000And they were married on paper, and he was from Jamaica and Cuba, and she was from South Carolina.
00:50:08.000So I know all about unions and all that, but I'm not thinking about what I need to be for a man.
00:50:13.000If anything, you need to prioritize who you need to be for yourself first, and then you guys come together, and you make a choice to be together.
00:50:20.000No man has to make himself a husband for a wife, and no woman has to make herself a wife for a husband.
00:53:50.000The problem is, I think a lot of men think this dizzy ideology in their head that a woman has to surround her whole life catered to becoming a wife to him or bearing kids for him.
00:54:01.000Your legacy does not live on unless a woman chooses If you're a loser and nobody ever mates with you, your bloodline dies off.
01:03:18.000Only reason they sick, because they, like, the embarrassment, and then shorty, no one's just like, damn, like, why are we getting kicked off the show?
01:05:06.000I don't have time to explain all that to you, but you keep mentioning the club and it's like, nobody's going to be clubbing five years.
01:05:11.000Well, the topic stems from, do you go to the club?
01:05:14.000But to that response, and by the way, I believe that you're a hustler and I believe you're ambitious and you want to get in all that, but statistically, the man is usually the provider.
01:05:22.000Also, statistically, when the woman can provide and is more financially stable than the man, men are intimidated and don't want those women because they can't provide the wifely and motherly characteristics that these men are looking for.
01:05:35.000Can I ask what those characteristics are, though?
01:05:52.000So if a woman puts herself regularly in a position where she goes, I want to know, it's like a peacock, which man here has the best feathers, right?
01:06:41.000I'm from New York, and I've been to plenty of events, parties, day parties, barbecues with family, family throw parties, family throw night parties.
01:06:50.000You ever been to a night party with your family?
01:12:47.000Ladies, if anybody's watching this since you're a female and you ever had sex with a guy and you didn't give him a hit, you are definitely not getting wiped.
01:12:55.000You're definitely not going If a girl get with me and she's like...
01:15:05.000If they hold full head, they don't like you that much.
01:15:08.000So now I see why all the Miami girls is making so much money and taking all these guys from their girls because they come right in the door and they just want to give you head all day.
01:15:32.000Like, there's plenty of bitches that are just giving me head for 45 minutes while I'm playing a game, while I'm doing whatever I'm doing, while I'm doing laundry.
01:17:29.000So like if you're with me for one day, for example, one day, and we do very minimal stuff that day, it would be fair that I don't expect a lot in return.
01:19:17.000So something interesting that I don't think women get enough respect for is women, men do everything in life for women.
01:19:23.000So everything in a man's life is driven somewhere by a woman.
01:19:26.000We want to appease women, we want to attract women, we want to acquire women, we want to be able to provide for women, we want to keep women.
01:21:51.000Okay, Wealo says, shorty next to fresh is yapping.
01:21:54.000Stop disrespecting the hosts of the show, and she's a liar.
01:21:57.000She's on a yacht, shaking her ass, stop the cap.
01:21:59.000Yeah, and I can be, and at 25, I can be on a yacht dancing because I'm not married, I don't have kids, I pay my own bills, I'm in school full-time, I'm very intellectual, I'm classy in real life.
01:22:09.000I can shake my ass on any yacht I want to.
01:22:18.000In real life, You can't step to me, so you could have saved your little five dollars and used it to go get a fucking chopped cheese or some shit.
01:23:23.000But if you find a woman who inspires you, will you change your tone?
01:23:26.000If you find a man that inspires you, will you change your tone?
01:23:29.000The way I'm talking on this live-ass show that's for the public, people who waste their fucking time tipping $20 just to speak to someone, I don't act like this in real life with a man I'm interested in.
01:25:06.000I think the problem is a lot of people are very uncomfortable with seeing a woman be self-assured in herself, self-confident, or whatever you want to call it.
01:25:15.000I don't have to be humble or be whatever you feel like you want me to be.
01:30:56.000But if you're trying to make some side money without, say, minimal effort online, I'd create just a ton of social media accounts with very vague names and get affiliate deals from as many brands and companies as you can.
01:31:08.000And just post any viral content, repost it across all your pages using your affiliate link.
01:31:49.000He needed to save that money for his retirement.
01:31:51.000Let me say this, because I can't stand when men get into girls' business.
01:31:59.000Extensions and makeup and anything that has to do with a woman expressing herself creatively with her physical appearance has nothing to do with a man.
01:32:10.000Growing up, I did my natural hair, my natural nails, all that.
01:32:13.000I didn't even start wearing none of this until my younger years because there's certain things my father told me not to do to my natural hair, which is naturally curly and beautiful.
01:32:22.000So I just started exploring different colors and different looks with extensions.
01:32:27.000Yeah, Waylo, she's trying to look cute for herself.
01:35:36.000It did happen to me one time, only once, and I handled it really poorly, not internally.
01:35:40.000It really hurt me emotionally, made me very sad.
01:35:42.000I still struggle with it a little bit, and there's some things about who I am as a man that I change to try to prevent welcoming, cheating women into my life.
01:35:49.000Can I ask how did you cheat and how did you find out?
01:36:22.000The short version of the story is her friend went to show me something on her phone.
01:36:26.000As she opened her phone, her best friend, who was my girl at the time, sent a text message that said, I don't know the whole context, but said, I don't want Mickey to know that I'm seeing other men and created an OnlyFans.
01:37:33.000She tried to talk for a little bit, and she told me more things, basically.
01:37:37.000It was probably weighing on her, I don't know what.
01:37:39.000And then, at the end of it, I'm sure I only know a fraction of it, but it was enough to know that I wasn't dating the person I always thought I was dating.
01:38:11.000I think when my girl cheated on me, there was something about me that was either lacking or inviting that type of woman into my life and that I couldn't see it.
01:38:19.000For all the years we were together, I did something about myself that stayed blind to the flags or what have you that would point me in the direction that she was a cheater.
01:39:45.000So if she doesn't, she'll never really have a chance of spending more time with me.
01:39:49.000And I think all the women around me know that.
01:39:51.000I think they compete against their friends a lot.
01:39:55.000You know, if they don't have sex, why would I spend time with them instead of their friends?
01:39:58.000So the idea that it's almost crazy is because as a guy, you don't understand, our life is built around pressure of providing, being men, and for girls, like, okay, I can just come here, have a good time, and then dip.
01:40:10.000But for us, it's like, yeah, we put time and energy into making ourselves successful for a reason.
01:40:14.000So when you spend time with us, it's like, yo, like, spend time with us?
01:40:17.000All right, cool, you can enjoy our lifestyle.
01:40:19.000But that means by default, listen, we put time and energy into this, you should as well.
01:41:22.000If he wants to take his time, most likely he's trying to take his time because he has another girl he feels sorry about.
01:41:28.000So let's say if you got a girl and you're like, damn, I kind of want to take my time because I'm trying to see what's going on with this situation and I don't want to really mess things up over here.
01:42:47.000I feel like there's a difference depending on financial status because just how she said, there's like slut-shaming for girls sleeping with a guy on the first day or waiting, but I call it how I see it.
01:42:58.000It don't matter if you sleep with a guy on the first day, second day, after a year.
01:43:04.000Whatever a man's intentions are or his agenda was for you, that's going to be simple.
01:43:11.000That's probably the best thing you said on stream.
01:43:15.000I will digress and say that, like, yes.
01:43:17.000If a guy's gonna smash you for a second or third date, his actual feelings are gonna depend on how you actually act after sex.
01:47:48.000Another thing with girls that I run into, man, like, a lot of y'all, like, y'all don't understand, like, the status well.
01:47:54.000Like, y'all would be, like, you have a guy like us, right?
01:47:58.000But then your friends have all these regular guys that work at, like, Chipotle and Walmart and stuff like that, and then y'all try to look at us like we're them.
01:48:28.000So they would have to learn that and not just learn that from a friend who dates men, but being taught by, you know, probably a woman that's older who had that experience or something.
01:48:37.000Like, how older dudes with status try to date younger women who are, like, between the ages of 18 and 25 who don't know anything about dating a man, you know, that has wealth or has this and that and that they're like, she has to be groomed,
01:51:54.000Ladies, if y'all get nutted in or anything like that, please make sure y'all follow up with, like, you know, getting that shit out of you and stuff like that.
01:52:02.000Because if you got an odor, y'all be wanting to get ate out and shit and having these weird little odors and shit, man.
01:52:41.000Is when they know everybody and everyone knows them and they know all the places and they know the late night spots and they know this and they know that.
01:53:14.000Men's information is the information of what things are that men created with the only purpose to get more pussy.
01:53:20.000So like these after hour spots, these late night clubs, the after party, the this guy, the that plug for this, the promo for this, what's up with Delilah's?
01:57:28.000So that's where Sun was talking as well.
01:57:42.000So he's thinking in a nutshell, like, yes, we do scenes, I record, it gets a little freaky sometimes, but like, I just do with it, I don't get horny.
01:58:14.000I'm thinking that it's more like one of those things that, like, because it'd be fake, and it'd make people like, let me go watch it, and the sun's recording this to get more views and make more money.
01:58:27.000Well, I think the first problem is that she did OnlyFans at all.
01:58:30.000The second problem is she did OnlyFans at that stage in her life when she's supporting those kinds of people, like an old enough son to understand what's happening.
01:58:36.000Then obviously you have a huge problem when you have your child involved.
01:58:40.000If you're learning from your parent, that's your guide or that's your protector, that's to show your way in life.
01:58:44.000And she goes, this is so acceptable in life that you should be involved.
01:58:47.000I mean, it's got to ruin that kid for the rest of his life.
01:58:49.000His perspective of sex and relationships and his family has got to be screwed forever.
01:59:08.000How do you think he'll view them from now on?
01:59:10.000At this point, he's a bit older, it seems like.
01:59:13.000I think for him, it's more like, it's work, so he doesn't see it as that bad, but what happens is, when you engage in these activities for a long period of time, and you're not, like, consciously aware of what's happening in your brain, what happens is, guys, people that, like, have those scenarios kind of, like, end up, like...
01:59:28.000Having a weird relationship with women.
01:59:30.000Meaning that, like, for them it's just maybe, like, just sex or just work, whatever it is.
01:59:36.000But, like, gender connection, it's hard to build out after that type of work.